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She will be forever 5. This is the way I picture her, not 101/2 that she would have been if she had lived. I cannot walk into Target without remembering her when I see those cute little clothes she liked. Thinking of you today. Sweet memories always.
Audrey Huber
Wichita, Kansas United States - Wednesday, November 21, 2012 9:42 AM CST
Thinking of precious Anna on the anniversary of her birth. My prayers continue to cover all of you each day.
Angel Hugs,
Polly ^jj^

Ms. Polly @ Angel Wings Prayer Warriors
USA - Tuesday, May 29, 2012 11:07 AM CDT
This blessed me!
Elaine <joynmyhrt@aol.com>
Bedford, TX - Thursday, January 26, 2012 8:48 PM CST
Hi
My name is Jenna and I came across your site. Angel Anna Jane is a beautiful angel, a hero forever, and her smile is shinning down on all who loves her, knows her and has been touched by her story. I love it when people sign my guestbook. http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/champ291

Jenna <fighterchamp9@aol.com>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Wednesday, December 28, 2011 5:17 PM CST
This poem touched my heart as I hope it will yours. Please know that I am thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer always.
MJ/marijeighn2010@gmail.com
A letter from Heaven

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.

I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.

That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

"It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on.

I need you here so badly, you are part of my plan.
There is so much that we can do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.

And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you.... in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years.
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.

But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.

But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.

It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who is in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night...."My day was not in vain.

And now I am contented... that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile."

So if you meet somebody who is sad and low;
Just lend a hand to pick them up, as on your way you go.

When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free.
Remember you're not going.... you're coming here with me.

Author Unknown

MJ <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Thursday, December 15, 2011 2:00 PM CST
I'll never forget the impact you and your family had in my life. You Were and still a blessing to me.
Nan Pearl <timandnan@hotmail.com>
Cochranville, pa usa - Monday, November 28, 2011 6:03 AM CST
Loving you and remembering your precious girl!
Shonda
- Saturday, November 26, 2011 11:13 AM CST
A Thanksgiving Poem

Dear Father who art in Heaven...
Please join our family on this Thanksgiving day
And bless each one as we sit down to pray
As we remember those who have joined You above
So dearly missed and deeply loved.

Please provide us strength on this Thanksgiving day
Bless us with memories of those faraway...
Please grant patience to family and friends as we grieve
And help us reach out to others who are bereaved.

We give thanks to You on this Thanksgiving day....
For Your presence in our lives each and everyday.
For Your comfort, guidance, and never ending love...
And for taking care of our loved ones...in Heaven above.

As we light this candle on this Thanksgiving day...
And it glows in memory of those in Heaven today....
May their lights always shine down on us and give us light...
And may we feel their presence along with Yours tonight.

May the peace and tranquility of this Thanksgiving day
Be an everlasting light within each of us along the way...
Lets bow our heads and give our Thanks to God above..
For our blessings, whether on earth or in Heaven above...
Amen

Poem graciously submitted by The Jason Program

MJ

marijeighn2010@gmail.com

MJ <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Monday, November 21, 2011 3:04 PM CST
An Invitation To All Prayer Warriors

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings will be

holding a Prayer Vigil on Monday September 19th

between 8-9 pm EDST for all the families on our

Angel_Wings Prayer Lists and our Angel families of

children, teens and adults who gained their wings.

We Are Fighting For Our Children One Prayer At A Time

If you have a specific prayer request or you would like to

learn more about our Angel Wings Groups, please feel

free to email us at either of the addresses below.

Sincerely,

MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers

mspolly@ymail.com

marijeighn2010@gmail.com

Angel Wings Prayer Warriors
Angel Wings Remembers Prayer Warriors

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Saturday, September 17, 2011 10:12 AM CDT
A little late - but I am remembering Anna and her family on her birthday! Prayers and B+.

Kathleen

Kathleen K <saphirekay@ail.com>
Newark, DE - Tuesday, May 31, 2011 8:11 PM CDT
Happy Birthday sweet sweet Anna Jane. Your Uncle Marc and I love you forever and ever. You touched us and made us better people. You will NEVER be forgotten.
Aunt Shonda
- Sunday, May 29, 2011 6:51 PM CDT
Sweeet Anna Jane,

Today is the anniversary of your birth date and I had to stop by to let you know I'm thinking about you and praying for your family today. A Pink Panther Party sounds like a great way to bring everybody together today. Pink Panther movies are a big hit at our house anytime. ;o)

Angel Hugs and Loves....Ms. Polly
Angel Wings Prayer Warriors
Angel Wings Remembers

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/angel_wings
Heart of North America, USA - Sunday, May 29, 2011 1:17 PM CDT
Good Morning I know how difficult Mother's Day can be when you have a child in Heaven. This poem was shared with me this morning, I hope it comforts you as it did for me. Hugs and Blessings

MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers

Dear Mr. Hallmark, Sir

I am writing to you from heaven,
And though it must appear
A rather strange idea,
I see everything from here.

I just popped in to visit
Your store to find a card -
A card of love for my mom,
As this day for her is hard.

There must be some mistake, I thought,
Every card so filled with worth,
Except I could not find one card
From a child whose not on earth.

She is still my mother, too,
No matter where I reside.
I had to leave, she understands,
But, oh, the tears she's cried.

I thought that as I wrote you,
You would come to know
That though I am no longer there,
I still love my mother so.

I visit with her in her dreams,
And she talks with me all the time,
She wonders if that's really me,
Would you let her know I'm fine?

She's planted many flowers,
Where my living memory grows,
She carries me with her everywhere,
No matter where she goes.

She does so many loving things,
So none will ever forget,
That I once lived and loved on earth,
Now my love she needs to get.

Oh, Mr. Hallmark, sir,
Though I no longer live on earth,
I must find a way to remind her
Of her loving, wondrous worth.

She needs to somehow receive,
My message loud and clear,
The same as other mothers will,
From children who are still there.

Thank you, Mr. Hallmark, sir,
I know you'll do your best.
For you are the one I count upon,
So to you I'll leave the rest.

Please find that way to let her know
No space or time or sea,
Will ever change the loving truth,
That my Mom she'll always be.

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
Lawrence, MA United States - Saturday, May 7, 2011 9:38 AM CDT
Good Morning I was sent this poem as a remembrance for my Angel Michael. I thought it was very fitting as Easter approaches. Please know that I am thinking about all of you and keeping you close in prayer always. Hugs and Blessings
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers

AND GOD SAID

I said, "God, I hurt."
And God said, "I know."
I said, "God, I cry a lot."
And God said, "That is why I gave you tears."
I said "God, I am so depressed."
And God said, "That is why I gave you Sunshine."
I said, "God, life is so hard."
And God said, "That is why I gave you loved ones."
I said, "God, my loved one died."
And God said, "So did mine."
I said, "God, it is such a loss."
And God said, "I saw mine nailed to a cross."
I said, "God, but your loved one lives."
And God said, "So does yours."
I said, "God, where are they now?"
And God said, "Mine is on My right and yours will be in the Light."
I said, "God, it hurts."
And God said, "I know."

marijeighn2010@gmail.com

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
Lawrence, MA USA - Saturday, April 23, 2011 7:50 AM CDT
Love what you posted. Going to send to a friend whose daughter when home to the Lord in Sept.
Elaine <joynmyhrt@aol.com>
- Saturday, March 12, 2011 8:52 PM CST
Thinking of you and remembering Anna always. The lightswitch cover with her butterfly painting on it is at the tope of my stairs...I look at it everyday, a few times a day, and think of Anna always.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, March 8, 2011 11:46 AM CST
An Invitation To All Prayer Warriors

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings will be
holding a Prayer Vigil on Saturday, February 19th.
between 8-9 pm EST for all the families on our
Angel_Wings Prayer Lists and our Angel families of
children,teens and adults who have gained their wings.
We Are Fighting For Our Children One Prayer
At A Time..

If You Have A Specific Prayer Request Or Someone Who Is In Need Of
Prayer Please Feel Free To Email Us At The Email Address Below.

Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn2010@gmail.com>
- Thursday, February 17, 2011 9:03 AM CST
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Sunday,
September 19th between 8-9 pm Eastern Time
for Anna Jane, all the children, teens and adults
on our prayer lists and our wonderful
AngelWingsRemembers families.

Thank you for joining us.

Ms. Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
- Wednesday, September 15, 2010 5:52 PM CDT
Our Flag
Author Unknown

I love to see the starry flag
That floats above my head.
I love to see its waving folds
With stripes of white and red.
“Be brave,” say the red stripes.
“Be pure,” say the white.
“Be true,” say the bright stars.
“And stand for the right.”

God Bless America!

Angel Hugs and Blessings,
Ms. Polly @ Angel_WIngs Prayer Warriors

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/angel_wings
- Saturday, July 3, 2010 10:24 PM CDT
Anna you gave us all so much joy,so much love and you taught us to "Live" life to the fullest.I miss you little one and you will forever have a very special place in my heart.
Trish/Angel_Wings/AngelWingsRemembers <byangeltrish@aol.com>
Pall Mall, TN USA - Saturday, June 19, 2010 4:07 PM CDT
Sweet Anna,

I am holding you and your family close in my heart and prayers tonight. Your legacy lives forever in my heart and I thank God for you.

Angel Hugs,
Ms. Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/angel_wings
Heart of North America, ND USA - Sunday, May 30, 2010 9:10 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Princess Anna!
Nan Pearl <timandnan@htomail.com>
cochranville, ]a u.s.a - Sunday, May 30, 2010 4:46 AM CDT
What a testimony your story is! Happy birthday Anna! I pray that God showers your family with His grace today.
Heidi
Wichita, - Saturday, May 29, 2010 9:43 PM CDT
Remembering Angel Anna and her family today on her birthday.

Prayers.

Kathleen K <saphirekay@aol.com>
newark, de - Saturday, May 29, 2010 11:13 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Beautiful Angel! I can only imagine how glorious the birthdays are in heaven! Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless

Debbie/Angel_Wings
- Saturday, May 29, 2010 8:28 AM CDT
I know how difficult Mother's day is for those whose child is now in Heaven. This poem has been a comfort to me as I pray it will be for you.


You can shed tears that she is gone,
Or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes & pray that she'll come back,
Or you can open your eyes & see all that she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
Or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow & live yesterday,
O​r you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
Y​ou can remember her only that she is gone,
Or you can cherish her memory & let it live on.
You can cry & close your mind, be empty & turn your back,
Or you can do what she'd want:
Smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
‘Author unknown’

Hug​s and Blessings
MJ/Angel_Wi​ngs and AngelWingsR​emembers

MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
- Thursday, May 6, 2010 12:21 AM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Monday,
April 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings
Prayer Lists and our Angel families
of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.
Thank you for joining us!

Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers

Ms. Polly @ http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Angel_Wings
Heart of North America, ND USA - Saturday, April 17, 2010 9:08 PM CDT
Hello Marlo
I know your sister Shonda - you've probably heard that Shonda was helping Rick and Konnie Wheeler through the loss of their daughter Regan. I am Konnie's sister so spent alot of time with Shonda at the hosp and at the house during those first days. Shonda spoke much about Anna and what she learned through the entire process. Talked of you. And you shared suggestions for the celebration. We did have candy and balloons decorating the sign in area.
I read some of your journal and am so sorry for the hurt. What a long ordeal for your family. That girl liked her food didn't she - even if she didn't actually eat much of it. I understand you are going to be working officially with grieving parents. Nice to meet you through Caring Bridge and your blogs and God bless you and your family.

Krista Jackson <rjackson106@cox.net>
Wichita, KS United States - Saturday, April 17, 2010 9:42 AM CDT
John 11:25-26
Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die"

Good Morning and Happy Easter I have always found this poem to be a comfort for me. I pray it will be a blessing for you also. Please know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and Blessings

MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWings Remembers
God's Lent Child
I'll lend you for a little while a child of mine, God said,
For you to love her while she lives, and mourn for when she's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or forty-two or three;
But will you, till I call her back, take good care of her for me?
She'll bring her charms to gladden you, and should her stay be brief,
You'll have the lovely memories as a solace for your grief.
I cannot promise she will stay, since all from earth return;
But there are lessons taught below I want this child to learn.
I've searched the whole world over, for teachers kind and true;
And from the throngs that crowd life's lane I have chosen you...
Now will you give her all your love? Nor think the labor pain?
Nor hate me should the angels call, to take this child back again?
To which the parents did reply...
Dear Lord, Thy will be done.
For all the joys thy child will bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter her with tenderness,
We'll love her while we may...
for all the love this child will bring,
forever grateful we will stay.
But should the Angels call for her,
much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes,
and try to understand.

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
- Sunday, April 4, 2010 9:10 AM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Friday,
March 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings
Prayer Lists and our Angel families
of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.

Thank you for joining us!
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers

MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 17, 2010 8:37 AM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Friday,
February 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings
Prayer Lists and our Angel families
of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.

Thank you for joining us!
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers
MJ/Angel Wings and AngelWingsRemembers

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Lawrence, Ma - Monday, February 15, 2010 12:42 AM CST
Precious Anna i know you are having a wonderful time
in Heaven sweet girl but ou ar missed so very much here on earth..Sending you butterfly kisses and rainbow dreams all wrapped up in love.

Trish/Angel_Wings/AngelWingsRemembers <byangeltrish@aol.com>
Pall Mal, TN USA - Friday, January 22, 2010 8:41 AM CST
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings​
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Tuesday,
January 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings​
Prayer Lists and our Angel families
of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.

Thank you for joining us!





Angel_Win​gs Prayer Warriors






An​gelWingsRem​embers

MJ/An​gel_Wings and AngelWingsR​emembers

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Lawrence, Ma - Saturday, January 16, 2010 5:18 PM CST
I am thinking of your precious Anna today. I thank God for Anna and her beautiful legacy of love we hold forever in our hearts.

Sincerely,
Ms. Polly @ Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors


Ms. Polly @ Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
USA - Wednesday, November 25, 2009 11:25 AM CST
Good Morning I am thinking about you today and praying for strength, comfort and peace. I found this poem and would like to share it with you.

The sky is filled with Angels
With puffy lacy wings
The remnants of God's beauty
With treasures they now bring

Each one of them a Guardian
That travels in the sky
To watch throughout eternity
Their parents from on high

Smiles that come from Angels
They fall like crystal rain
Eases earthly burdens
Lifting all life's pain

Halos so astounding
That glitter gold each day
Following their loved ones
In such a perfect way

Wings in gentle breezes
That fall from up above
Kissing every parent
With everlasting love

Angels soar through heaven
With everlasting light
Looking down from heaven
Saying their "goodnights"

Kissing all who loved them
So gently on the face
This life's tender mercy
Each parent can embrace

Wings and shiny halos
Travel from on high
Surrounding all their loved ones
They never say good-bye.

~ Francine Pucillo ~

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner , Ma - Wednesday, November 25, 2009 5:02 AM CST
What a beautiful little girl. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Paulette Laxson <paulette_laxson@hotmail.com>
Spearman, Tx United States - Friday, November 13, 2009 8:28 PM CST
Can you repost your new blog spot,I can't seem to find it, enjoy reading your post.
Thank you

Kelly
Fl - Tuesday, October 20, 2009 12:32 AM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Monday,
October 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the families on our Angel_Wings
Prayer Lists and our Angel families
of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.



Thank you for joining us!

MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers

MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Thursday, October 15, 2009 8:08 AM CDT
Grew up in Texas; served 1980-84 in Moore, OK before moving overseas; sung the lead "Curly" in high school production of "Oklahoma!"; nevertheless, still have a hard time singing "Boomer Sooner!" Praying for you during time of transition.
Ed Cox
Richmond, VA USA - Wednesday, September 30, 2009 2:59 PM CDT
Awesome post Marlo! I love the verse you have chosen to cling to... I know exactly how it feels to move to a new place and not have a home. We lived in temporary housing for two months when the Air Force sent us to CA. I will pray specifically for your family because I remember those days all too well. You have a much better attitude than I had! Keep praising Him!
Blessings,

Rosemary Boswell <rosemaryboswell@cox.net>
Gilbert, AZ - Thursday, September 3, 2009 6:38 PM CDT
Marlo,
I'm so glad Audra and Will's classes are next door to each other. That will make them feel so much better about being in a new school. Send me your e-mail address when you can. I tried the old one and it wouldn't send.

Juanette <cjmcc@swbell.net>
Oklahoma City, OK - Tuesday, September 1, 2009 1:22 PM CDT
I've never signed the guestbook before, though I've followed your family's journey for quite some time now. I feel compelled to write because, from the sound of it, you are now living exactly where I grew up in Richmond! In fact, I am in town visiting my parents this weekend and I am sitting in their house (my childhood home) not a mile from Deep Run Park. It's such a small world sometimes! I hope that you all settle in quickly and that your kids adjust to their new schools easily!
Kelly
Christiansburg, VA - Saturday, August 29, 2009 9:53 PM CDT
LOVE it, Marlo!!!
I hope you are getting settled, praying for you all.

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 29, 2009 9:12 AM CDT
Thanks for the update... Your lesson's learned on the road trip was very funny!!! Plus that is so cool about "Oklahoma" being played in the park!!! You are right!! Thank you Lord!!! God loves details!!!
shelley <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, August 28, 2009 10:39 AM CDT
That is so cool. I was getting worried about you...about to hunt for you on Facebook. Hope things are going well in your new spot.
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Thursday, August 27, 2009 9:15 PM CDT
Dear Salamys,

We are praying for you. May God keep you safe and bless your journey.

The Hettlage Family

Donna Hettlage <ccrunner33us@yahoo.com>
Bettendorf, IA - Thursday, August 27, 2009 3:38 PM CDT
I keep watching to see if you have updated. So happy to see that you made the long road trip to Virginia with only minor mishaps. You all remain in our thoughts. Keeping posting. Blessings, Lissa
Lissa Wright <bwright20002@cox.net>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Thursday, August 27, 2009 1:34 PM CDT
LOL- Thanks for the visual and taking time to update. Hilarious!! I was so glad to hear that you have all arrived safely. ;)
Shelley's Aunt Mona <ronni.brown@tpgcom.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Wednesday, August 26, 2009 6:45 PM CDT
Praying for you this morning!!! You are probably unpacking boxes... wishing your internet service was hooked up...and enjoying the beauty around you!!!

Yesterday I read in Prov. 25:25 "Like cold water to a weary soul is good news from a distant land." I thought of you and how a few years ago I read that verse the same day while I was in Honduras and you were in Delaware and Richard was giving his liver to Anna... We received good news that day from a distant land that Anna and Richard were doing great! (plus we knew the value of good clean water to our weary souls in Honduras... ) God's timing is perfect and I still get chills to remember the joy that verse and the news from Delaware brought me that day!!

So today I send you Good News from a distant land called Oklahoma... Christ Jesus Lives and He is CRAZY about you!!!

We miss ya'll!!! Do they say ya'll in Virginia??

Shelley Urton <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, August 26, 2009 9:05 AM CDT
Marlo, Blake was bummed that he didn't get to say goodbye to Jacob in person! I can't belive that you are now across the country! We will miss your family! Susan
Susan Cohlmia <mscohmia@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, August 21, 2009 2:33 PM CDT
I hope that you are all coping well with the move. Welcome to the east coast!
nan Pearl <timandnan@hotmail.com>
cochranville, pa - Thursday, August 20, 2009 7:40 AM CDT
Okay, Will is so smart it's freaky. Hope you guys have made it to VA by now and enjoying yourselves while entering an unknown adventure
Lydia Leslie <tleslie19@cox.net>
OKC, OK - Wednesday, August 19, 2009 6:50 PM CDT
Enjoyed the Will story, funny! I hope you all have a safe trip to VA. What part of VA?
Denise <denise309@cox.net>
Van Buren, AR USA - Monday, August 17, 2009 9:29 AM CDT

Dear Marlo,
What a delight you are and have been--and I know you will continue to be--just from farther away. Your family feels like a part of my family. I am so guilty of reading your journal often and not commenting. :( ! Many times I start an entry to you and am at a total loss for words, knowing that I am "not-capable" of expressing my greatfulness and thoughts to you. Your words bring more comfort than you will EVER know---as well as tears, pain, laughter, knots in my stomach, smiles, sadness, giggles, encouragement! And then there is my guilt..for taking my life and God's many many blessings for granted! Your journaling brings me to my knees and is a constant reminder that each moment with my family is a gift that I so take for granted. Thank you so much for sharing your journey and your faith in God! Eventhough I met you only once I feel I have known you forever. I am excited for you and your family as you go on this new adventure--not allowing any fear you might have had to stop you. Twenty years ago, as I was loading up my 14 and 11 year old, newly divorced and relocating to California, a very wise dear friend of mine (obviously sensing my fear) hugged my and said, "Dear One, It is only sad for the friends left on the shore waving goodbye---for you and your family are leaving on an exciting new adventure!" So here we are all waving to you and yours! Happy adventure. Hugs, Ronni Brown, aka Shelley's Aunt Mona!!

Ronni Brown <ronni.brown@tpgcom.com>
Dallas, TX USE - Sunday, August 16, 2009 11:34 PM CDT
loved the Will story!!!! too funny!!!
I know you will get settled again.. sometimes it seems like forever.
love ya,
L

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, August 16, 2009 5:07 PM CDT
Dear Salamy Family,

Continuing to pray for you. I pray that the unpacking goes smoothly and that you feel settled soon.


Donna Hettlage <ccrunner33us@yahoo.com>
Bettendorf, IA - Sunday, August 16, 2009 9:43 AM CDT
My prayers will follow you to the east!
Pam Barrow
Bassett, NE usa - Friday, August 14, 2009 12:13 AM CDT
love you, Marlo, and will be praying for His grace and peace to wash over your whole family during this big change.
I love how He provided someone like that to give you their home for a few days... awesome.
hugs from Texas,

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 13, 2009 9:24 PM CDT
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karen ulickey <AZALIA31@YAHOO.COM>
plainfield, il USA - Thursday, August 13, 2009 7:43 PM CDT
We moved cross (*from* VA to KS, lol, your move in reverse)DH's co gave us what we thought would be enough to cover moving and it came nowhere near close. It is amazing how expensive it is, and we did not use movers, we used PODS and packed and loaded everything ourselves.

We kept one laptop out and didn't schedule the cable for disconnect till the day we left. We could also watch movies on lap top. We ate in resteraunts every night that last week, once everything was on the POD. Since it is a rare treat, the kids loved that. We played games, UNO, cards, etc. We griped at each other (sadly, I think I was the crankiest). We had family sleepovers with everyone sleeping on the floor. We rejoiced once it was all over, lol.

Good luck to you!

Rita
- Wednesday, August 12, 2009 11:56 AM CDT
I loved eating Siti's Lebanese food. Always had to clean my plate...twice. That was over 20 yrs ago.
Will Barnett <WillEBgood@yahoo.com>
Suwanee, GA USA - Tuesday, August 11, 2009 9:44 PM CDT
Hi, Marlo. We just got back from a long vacation to the beach in south Texas. I couldn't wait to read up on how you are doing. Our suitcases aren't even unpacked yet, but I wanted to see how your family was doing. We didn't make your goodbye party. Glad you made it to camp and back. Have a great week.
Susan Reynolds <r-s-reynolds@att.net>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Sunday, August 9, 2009 11:12 PM CDT
Oh, Marlo, I sit here crying as I often do when I read your entries (sometimes from laughter, other times by a touched heart). Praying for you today.
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Sunday, August 9, 2009 2:49 PM CDT
Marlo, you expressed so much emotion in so few words. Beautifully said! There w-i-l-l be happier days! I am sure God has a beautiful home and many wonderful experiences waiting for you and your family in Virginia. My prayers go with you.
Love,
Betty Jean

Betty Jean Ingram <bjingramtx@sbcglobal.net>
San Antonio, TX USA - Saturday, August 8, 2009 8:29 PM CDT
Marlo,

As an Air Force family, we have a few moves under our belt. Someone long ago, gave me the best advice: make every move a big adventure. I have always done this and it has really helped my kids. This year we did not move, but changed schools. All summer I have been talking up the big adventure of our new school. So here's to your new big adventure!
(AND I know from experience it's always harder being the one left behind than the one leaving, so give our friend Shelley extra hugs. I chatted on the phone with her the other day and she is going to miss you so much!)

Rosemary Boswell <rosemaryboswell@cox.net>
Gilbert, AZ - Thursday, August 6, 2009 8:11 PM CDT
Marlo,
Let's see that new 'do! (as if you have time to post new photos). We are praying for your peace of mind and strength as you trust God, who is the Master of the details, to put all the pieces of this puzzle together. Moving is so hard anyway, and even more so when you have the added burden of going through Anna's things, etc. May He meet the special needs of each family member and make your path straight. I love the picture of Anna and Goofy. Seeing his giant hands holding her so close, I couldn't help but think of how much more comforting it must be for her to be in the arms of Jesus. We love you lots!

Pamela, Andy and Lily Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Thursday, August 6, 2009 9:08 AM CDT
I wanna see a pic of the haircut too. When I read your words, "Freakin' hot", all I could think of was how I felt at the Tulsa zoo today...oh my word. I love what you said about your move...you have such a way with words. I am excited for you but sad for you. I know the moving/packing has to difficult. Sending prayers your way!
Reba Cloud <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Wednesday, August 5, 2009 9:47 PM CDT
post pictures of the new you, please!
you are so lucky you don't have to color your beautiful hair!
love and prayers

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
Hurst, - Tuesday, August 4, 2009 3:45 PM CDT
Your family has not been alone thru all of this. Praying for Rich's dad too.
Will Barnett <WillEBgood@yahoo.com>
Suwanee, GA USA - Wednesday, July 29, 2009 7:48 PM CDT
Hope camp is fun. You know I love camp! Oh, by the way I heard that the family dog may be a strep carrier, I'm not sure if that's true. Thinking of all of you.
Nan Pearl <timandnan@hotmail.com>
cochranvill, pa - Tuesday, July 28, 2009 5:56 AM CDT
Dear Salamy Family,

Praying for you today. May God give you strength to get through this uncertain time. May He give you wisdom when looking for a home. May He put wonderful people in your lives to help you adjust in your new home. Remember that this is just another adventure!


Donna Hettlage <ccrunner33us@yahoo.com>
Bettendorf, IA - Thursday, July 23, 2009 11:14 AM CDT
Marlo -

Praying for you each day. That God gives you the strength and the wisdom you need as you start this new chapter in your life!!
Love,
Jennifer

Jennifer Jackson Linck <txgrluvsou@yahoo.com>
Moore, OK - Thursday, July 23, 2009 10:57 AM CDT
Strength will rise as we wait upon the Lord...
Denise <denise309@cox.net>
Van Buren, AR 72956 - Thursday, July 23, 2009 10:34 AM CDT
praying for your house to sell! I am sure it is beautiful!
grace to you through all of this...
love,
Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 15, 2009 9:23 AM CDT
I will be praying that your home sells quickly. Trust God. He is in control of all things.
Donna Hettlage <ccrunner33us@yahoo.com>
Bettendorf, IA - Wednesday, July 15, 2009 7:02 AM CDT
Good luck on your move. It's always a big job and I'm sure because of the circumstances it will be very difficult. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario canada - Tuesday, July 14, 2009 2:27 PM CDT
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MJ/Angel_Wings and Angel Wings Remembers <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Tuesday, July 14, 2009 9:49 AM CDT
Hi I wish I had been so organized the last time I moved !! I pray all goes well and that the move is a smooth one for all of you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
MJ/Angel_Wings and Angel Wings Remembers <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Tuesday, July 14, 2009 9:47 AM CDT
I know you have moved more than I have (to Cyprus and back!) but I still have a tip. Pack the garage and shed first (or at least early) because they have the most awkward things. It's so easy to throw rectangular books into a nice rectangular box. Who has the energy to figure out the garden tools when you've already done the easy stuff. Tell us more about your move - what city, what kind of job change for Richard?
Kelly Soter-Gunn
Ft. Worth, TX - Monday, July 13, 2009 3:17 PM CDT
More for your list:

(Family): Eat everything outside so that the kitchen floor stays clean.

(Mom): Finish the ice-cream and frozen cookie dough inside while everyone else is outside!! This is your reward for eating the cereal that no one else likes......

Shonda
- Monday, July 13, 2009 11:01 AM CDT
WOW! Your Friday afternoon post is awesome! Thanks for sharing!
Shelley <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
Oklahoma City, Ok - Friday, July 10, 2009 4:00 PM CDT
Marlo,
We are terribly sad over the move but are excited over this upcoming adventure for your family. I let Josiah read the top part of your post and he had a pretty difficult time with the news. He will really miss Will. Our family is praying for your family's transition. We love you. Thank you for blessing our lives!

Michelle Murphy
Yukon, OK - Friday, July 10, 2009 1:08 PM CDT
Thanks for the update... I've been reading about your garage sale for too long! He He Ha Ha!!

Will told me last night at VBS when I said, "I can't believe you are moving! Are you excited? He said, "I'm excited and I'm sad!" All I could say was... Me Too!!!


Shelley <Urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
Oklahoma City, - Friday, July 10, 2009 11:43 AM CDT
Marlo,
We will be praying for you as you begin this new chapter in your lives. What an exciting new adventure! Praying God's peace for you!

Susan Swank <swankclan@yahoo.com>
Flower Mound, TX - Friday, July 10, 2009 11:27 AM CDT
Marlo,
Love the sea turtle line! LOL.
I am praying for you guys. Moving is such a huge task, anyway. I love the way you have explained to your children where Anna truly is. I imagine it is still hard to leave a place you have lived for 10 years or more.
I know God is with you every step of the way, and I am praying for you guys as you enter this next step.
Love, Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
Hurst, - Friday, July 10, 2009 8:54 AM CDT
You're moving to Virginia! How exciting! At least, I hope it is exciting for you! I always faced moves with mixed feelings, but excitement was dominant! Cole and Elizabeth always felt sad about leaving friends, but I would remind them that they were sad about leaving their friends at the last place, and they would not have met all these wonderful friends if they had not moved. It seemed to help. (We averaged moving every 2 years.) Virginia is a beautiful state! Where will you be? My brother lives in Williamsburg. I've been checking for your postings, and thought you must be on a nice, long vacation! I will pray that the move goes smoothly and that the adjustment is easy for all of you.
Betty Jean Ingram <bjingramtx@sbcglobal.net>
San Antonio, TX USA - Thursday, July 9, 2009 8:51 PM CDT
I love what Audra said! I laughed out loud when I read that, and the girls looked at me like I was crazy. Try not to choke any sea turtles! :)

Love,

Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Thursday, July 9, 2009 6:08 PM CDT
What part of Va are you moving to, I grew up in Va and now live in Md. Hope the move goes smooth, you will be in our prayers
Janet Ford <janet_ford@verizon.net>
Crisfield, md usa - Thursday, July 9, 2009 4:28 PM CDT
You have been busy. I was getting worried about you. Wow! I had no idea about a move. That is a change! What do the kids think about it? (other than the "leaving Anna" fears) When are you moving? I will be praying for smooth transitions!
Reba Cloud <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Thursday, July 9, 2009 2:39 PM CDT
Hey, I'm finally brave enough to watch the Ally's house video from your link. Very good. Touching, encouraging, sobering. Good things are happening among the tragedies.
Susan R. <r-s-reynolds@att.net>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Tuesday, July 7, 2009 11:02 PM CDT
Anxious for another update. Hope VBS is going well this week and look forward to hearing from you soon.
Shonda
- Tuesday, July 7, 2009 8:22 AM CDT
Margo i would love to visit your garage sale if i lived closer..It's VERY hot here in Tennessee today and i wouldn't
mind at all being under the sprinklers..Sending up special
prayers for your family..

Trish/Angel_Wings/AngelWingsRemembers <byangeltrish@aol.com>
Pall Malll, TN USA - Thursday, June 25, 2009 10:55 AM CDT
I would come to the sale if I lived a bit closer. Of course I am trying to clear out a few things myself...
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Thursday, June 25, 2009 1:46 AM CDT
Marlo -- thanks for the comic relief, although I'm sorry it's at your family's expense. Something tells me you probably don't have the dog's health records (I can hardly keep up with health records for the humans in our family), so I'm hoping they are coming home soon! Maybe the dog is so small he has to get his male ego boost out of "marking" his territory on defenseless stuffed animals. Will Audra let you put the stuffed animals in the garage sale? Good excuse to "let go" of a few more things! Maybe no one will notice the smell . . . By the way, I well remember the camel derby story -- I laughed about it again when Andy and I went on a 2 1/2 hour camel ride in Jordan. (How was the view from the backside of that camel, anyway??? Does it make you "saddle sore" just thinking about it?) I think you should post a few photos of that memorable experience.
Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Wednesday, June 24, 2009 11:24 PM CDT
Your dog story is better than a sitcom!
Kelly Soter-Gunn
- Wednesday, June 24, 2009 8:46 AM CDT
If it becomes unbearable check out LUCKY DOG LODGE. It is a great facility, nice people, and reasonably priced. Did your friend leave the dog's health records? You would need them....
PK <pkinser54@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, June 23, 2009 10:54 AM CDT
Marlo, Glad I'm not the only one. Stuff tends to clutter my house and mind and gradually consume my life. I just got through going through my parent's house and I realized that the things that mean the most over time are not the things anyone bought at a store. So I want to spend more time telling stories, listening to stories, recording memories, writing letters, and memorizing Scripture and a lot less time at Walmart, Marshall's, Target, etc. Even children remind us of that -- time spent with them just listening to them, playing make-believe or just being there means so much more than one more Barbie or My Little Pony to trip over and pick up off the floor a thousand times. Thanks for reminding me.
Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Thursday, June 18, 2009 4:55 PM CDT
Thanks I needed that... Ok Ok I'll take the box I "rescued/saved" from the garage sale stuff and take it back outside to sell instead of hanging on to it!!!
shelley <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, June 16, 2009 6:16 PM CDT
Marlo, I have been thinking alot about all of this as we prepare for our own garage sale. I look at stuff that once meant so much to me and now I am putting a sticker on it to get rid of it. I look at all of those VHS tapes that I am slowly replacing with DVDs and remember when VHS was the "thing" to have. And I look at my piles of pictures that mean the world to me and know that someday they will get tossed. And all of those memories I have stored in my head, that I hold dear to my heart...they will pass away to with me some day. I am so thankful for a God that gave His son so we, our spirits, do not have to pass away but live eternally.
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Tuesday, June 16, 2009 2:13 PM CDT
What a great post Marlo! I am working on getting stuff ready for a Garage Sale too and I am trying hard to not hang on to "things" that I don't need. I was reading the Bible yesterday and I came across this verse in 1st Timothy 6:6-10
"But Godliness with contentment is great gain...But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that...."

I can get so frustrated with myself when I get in the mood of wanting "things" This verse was a great reminder for me and so was your post that "things" don't have eternal value.

Hope you are enjoying your summer!!
Jennifer

Jennifer Linck <txgrluvsou@yahoo.com>
Moore, OK - Tuesday, June 16, 2009 11:00 AM CDT
Been thinking of your family these past weeks. My son's (7th) birthday is June 4 so I always remember Anna that week, too! I have her beautiful butterfly mouse pad at my computer so I pray for you guys every time I look at it! Thanks for continuing to post- love to see what your sweet family is up to!
Melanie Ridgway <mridgway@hotmail.com>
Norman, OK USA - Tuesday, June 16, 2009 0:21 AM CDT
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Gardner, Ma - Friday, June 12, 2009 6:54 PM CDT
Beautiful post today.
Karen ( Doug's Mom) <tasha_35@hotmail.com>
PA - Friday, June 12, 2009 12:48 AM CDT
Beautiful entry and congratulations to Jacob on running his first 1/2 that's terrific.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, June 11, 2009 8:15 AM CDT
What a vivid us of words to describe "finishing the race" in life. I am also exciting to see her cheer everyone on!
Marilyn Reaves <clayreaves@cox.net>
Bethany, Ok us - Wednesday, June 10, 2009 9:01 AM CDT
What an original and beautiful analogy in today's entry! Thanks for continuing to share!
Betty Jean Ingram <bjingramtx@sbcglobal.net>
San Antonio, TX United States - Tuesday, June 9, 2009 10:33 PM CDT
Happy Birthday to Audra and Jacob!!
Have a fun day !!!!! What movie will you see? We want to see "Up" soon.
Love,

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, June 4, 2009 1:42 PM CDT
Marlo,

I saw your entry about Audra & Will needing their tonsils out. My two children (ages 10 & 11) had them out on the same day this past February. The nursing staff thought we were crazy to request them both to be done at the same time, but I was so glad we had them done together.

FYI~ The reason for my post is that everyone says ice cream, ice cream, ice cream!! My kids didn't really want it because it "thickened" them up (sorry I don't know how else to explain it). They lived on scrambled eggs at least twice a day, sometimes three times!! I thought it was so funny, but it didn't hurt their throat, it was easy to make, to eat and the protein filled them up too (sometimes we added cheese or made an omlette).

Okay, so I'm sure their cholesterol wasn't good for a month or so afterwards, but it was definitely worth it.

Hopefully this helps!

Julie Flores <JFlores@Courier.com>
Dracut, MA - Thursday, June 4, 2009 8:13 AM CDT
I love that picture, Anna, with all of her childhood innocence and beauty, her eyes closed as she blows out her candles.

The most poignant part of the picture for me are the hands of the unseen person, supporting Anna. They look like strong hands, ready to protect the little girl with a second's notice, yet they are are ever so gently placed on sweet Anna, like she would barely feel them, but knows they are there. Such unspoken love captured in a picture.

It made me wonder if that is how God holds us.

RitaB <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, May 30, 2009 10:39 AM CDT
Thinking of you today as you remember Anna's birthday.
Julie Alexander <the5alexanders@sbcglobal.net>
Arlington, tx - Friday, May 29, 2009 11:46 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Anna Jane! You are dearly missed and oh so very loved!!!
David, Michelle, Josiah, Katey, & Nathanael
Yukon, OK USA - Friday, May 29, 2009 4:04 PM CDT
Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers - Happy Birthday Anna!

B+

Kathleen K

Kathleen K <saphirekay@aol.com>
Newark, DE - Friday, May 29, 2009 1:08 PM CDT
We're thanking the Lord for Anna's life today, and the special impact she has made in ours. We hope your day is filled with many wonderful memories. We're having dum-dums in her honor today!
Nicolee McCowen <nicoleemccowen@cox.net>
Yukon, OK USA - Friday, May 29, 2009 12:17 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Angel Anna. You are always close in thought
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Friday, May 29, 2009 10:25 AM CDT
Marlo,

I know it's been awhile but I saw on Facebook about Anna's birthday and wanted to comment here also. I hope that you are doing well today and that your day is filled with all the good memories and the positives that came out of your little girl's life. She showed all of us so much strength and joy. Anna's memories will forever be with us and a great deal of that belongs to you and Richard for sharing her story with a hurting world. You allowed us to hurt and praise with you guys and also support you. I wish personally that we still had those days of talking face to face, I miss your great personality and love that you had for our family. May you rest in God's peace and love today knowing that you served through this trial as a light to us all! Love you!

Julianne <jassad@carolina.rr.com>
Shelby, NC - Friday, May 29, 2009 10:18 AM CDT
Marlo,
Thinking and praying for all of you today, Anna's birthday. Thank you for sharing the journey with all of us. Love,

Carol Slover
Coppell, - Friday, May 29, 2009 10:10 AM CDT
Thnking of you and your family today. HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANNA!!!!
Janet Ford <janet_ford@verizon.net>
Crisfield, md usa - Friday, May 29, 2009 9:39 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Angel Anna - thinking of you all on this special day!
Eunice Johnson <e.johnson@shaw.ca>
Victoria, BC Canada - Friday, May 29, 2009 9:37 AM CDT
Celebrate your girl!
Kelly Soter-Gunn
- Friday, May 29, 2009 8:28 AM CDT
Thinking of you, not just today on Anna's birthday, but everyday! Love, Matty's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/matty

Sandra Dubuc <Sandra_Dubuc@uml.edu>
Hudson, NH - Friday, May 29, 2009 7:53 AM CDT
Hope you all have a wonderful day celebrating Anna! Happy Birthday, sweet girl.

Praying,

Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Friday, May 29, 2009 7:49 AM CDT
Hapy Birthday Anna!
Lydia Leslie <tleslie19@cox.net>
- Friday, May 29, 2009 7:00 AM CDT
Thank you so much for sharing that wonderful poem with us. ^Anna Jane^ I wish you a very happy birthday, I am sure that your day will be very special in your Heavenly home. Please know that I am keeping all of you in prayer today.
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, Ma - Friday, May 29, 2009 5:39 AM CDT
It's not quite the 29th in California, but it is where you live. Dropping by on this very special day to let you know that Anna is very much remembered and adored and her wonderful family is in my prayers. Happy Birthday Anna Jane!
Lisa <cojlisa16@aol.com>
Apple Valley, CA USA - Friday, May 29, 2009 0:19 AM CDT
praying for you. Sweet pictures.
We did the whole tonsillectomy thing a few years ago. Cameron only got sick once in a year after that. Feel free to call me if you have questions.
Take care, praying for you.

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 28, 2009 9:28 AM CDT
Thinking of all of you as Anna's birthday approaches. Praying for God's peace~

www.caringbridge.org/oh/lukeervin

Ivy Ervin...Forever Luke's Mommy <ervin6@embarqmail.com>
Mansfield, OH - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 7:54 PM CDT
I get the impression that life is NEVER BORING as long as Will is around. :)
Michelle Murphy
Yukon, OK USA - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 12:49 AM CDT
Praying.
murton
- Wednesday, May 27, 2009 7:25 AM CDT
Marlo-
Clayton and I had our tonsils out at the same time, and it was nice to have a hospital buddy! I remember everyone telling me, "You'll be able to have all the ice cream you can eat!" Funny thing was...I never wanted any. :)

Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Tuesday, May 26, 2009 3:20 PM CDT
I am remembering your Anna too. Today and everyday.

You are such a good mother. I am often inspired by your excellent idea and try to use them with my own kids. For instance, a totally gross birthday cake for my boy turning 8. Or having my kids make wish lists for the summer. Or playing 2 (or 4) square with my kids and letting them have a no bath night. Thanks for sharing the great ideas!

RitaB <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 25, 2009 4:24 PM CDT
Would Rasberry Skittles work?
Will Barnett <WillEBgood@yahoo.com>
Suwanee, GA USA - Sunday, May 24, 2009 7:21 PM CDT
Hey Marlo and family
I have not been to the site in a while. School is out and I am catching up on my families. I have added one to my list today. Grant is a second grader at CHA. They are doing lots of tests right now and just don't know what is wrong. In the past month his fever has spiked to 106 several times. Last week they were not sure that he would make it - he is rebounding and at Children's now. He is finally out of ICU. Please add Grant and his mom Keri to your prayer list.

Marlo I love Anna's room. It is awesome. Please let me know if you need more books. I would love to add to the collection. I know books will wear out and disappear, so please keep me posted.

I too remember Anna when I hear the song you mentioned. God is still with you. I have not forgotten little Miss Anna and her smiling face. I thought of her the other day when passing out dum dum suckers.
Thank you for continuing to share. Susan

susan fowler <fotocropr@cox.net>
OKC, OK United States - Saturday, May 23, 2009 8:03 PM CDT
I love the list! Ahhh, to be 9 again! I have a feeling that she would have a blast wtih my almost 8 y.o. daughter who is big into Webkinz...
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Thursday, May 21, 2009 9:02 PM CDT
I love the list...we could take care of #16, as well as #20-24 if you all came up to visit! Oh to have 'summer vacation' to look forward to!
Heidi McClure
Longview, WA - Wednesday, May 20, 2009 5:52 PM CDT
So many times have I cried and said "I'm sorry" to Conor, sorry for so many things. Thanks for sharing your moment - yes they are normal for grieving Mum's but yes they really hurt.
Sally (Mum to gorgous Conor whom I miss and to whom I am sorry you had to do all those things when you just wanted to be a kid)

Sally McAuliffe <sallymick@hotmail.com>
QLD Australia - Tuesday, May 19, 2009 8:59 PM CDT
So glad you and Richard got some time away. I am sure that is rare. And first gear... that sounds great! So glad you had such a refreshing time!
Love, Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
Hurst, TX usa - Monday, May 18, 2009 3:46 PM CDT
Marlo-
I thought of Anna yesterday. My youngest, Grace, had her preschool graduation, and, as I was dropping her off in the morning, she informed me that she was not wearing any underwear! Of course she was wearing a dress, too! I just told her to make sure she kept her dress covering her bottom at all times. When I asked her why she didn't tell me before we left the house, she said, "I didn't want to wear any panties." Luckily, we didn't have any crazy mishaps of flashing, but I was pretty worried! :)

Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Saturday, May 16, 2009 7:44 AM CDT
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of children, teens and adults who
have gained their angel wings.

Thank you for joining us!!


MJ/Angel_Wings and AngelWingsRemembers <marijeighn1@gmail.com>
Gardner, MA - Friday, May 15, 2009 1:32 PM CDT
We lost our nephew to neuroblastoma in 1985. He had just turned 5 the Monday before he died that Friday. I will always remember him as that little brown eyed boy who called a cheese burger a "burger cheese." I can't imagine how he would look today at 29.
Sammie <SammieC64@aol.com>
Tupelo, MS - Thursday, May 14, 2009 3:20 PM CDT
Marlo-
My dad worries. :) He was the uncle who called, right? I agree, I think Mexican stack sounds great, and who could turn down an ice cream party? I knew Anna's birthday was coming up, and I've been thinking about you, too. I'll be praying...

Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Thursday, May 14, 2009 10:25 AM CDT
I personally think a Mexican stack is the way to go. Since you posted the recipe, what, about a year and a half ago, it has been a weekly request at my house. Every time I make it for my 11 yr old girl, I think of you and Anna and it makes me stop and appreciate what I often forget I have.
www.pollyspath.blogspot.com
- Thursday, May 14, 2009 7:43 AM CDT
Thought about you so much yesterday. I hope you had a fun mother's day. I know you missed your sweet Anna. Hope the other 3 gave you lots of hugs and laughter.
Lydia Leslie <tleslie19@cox.net>
- Monday, May 11, 2009 12:49 AM CDT
Marlo,
Your faith and honesty are a beautiful testimony to Christ's power!

Carol Slover
Coppell, tx - Monday, May 11, 2009 10:47 AM CDT
Marlo,
Praying for you today. Hope you are encouraged in all you do. Have a wonderful Mother's Day.
love, Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 10, 2009 9:19 AM CDT
Thanks for the scripture and your thoughts... I'm going to "chew" on them a few days... or as we've learned in One-on-One-With God I'm going to Picture, Ponder, and Pray that verse...

Praying for you this Mother's Day! Have a GREAT day!! I hope Audra will put down her book for a little while and give you hugs... Maybe Will can impress you with more thought provoking conversations... and Jacob... Maybe he'll text you a Happy Mother's Day wish!

shelley <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, May 9, 2009 9:56 PM CDT
"Conversation with Will" Awesome!!!
shelley <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, May 6, 2009 3:20 PM CDT
Marlo,
In no way did you sound prideful! Your entry was so encouraging.. just to see how God placed you in their paths and how you were all blessed.
Keep posting...hugs..

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 3, 2009 10:23 PM CDT
I have been checking in daily but haven't done a good job signing in. First, happy belated birthday. I loved reading about your birthday weekend. And I did not at all think you were showing off or boasting in yesterday's post. I loved seeing how God used you, and even more, how you let Him use you. I need that reminder that those opportunities are there...will I take them?
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Sunday, May 3, 2009 9:24 PM CDT
Marlo,
the strength I see in your eyes, the faith, the kindness and the grace, are among the strongest testimonials I have witnessed. You are a true reflection of love. I hope you add to "the grateful list" how proud you are of yourself. I am certainly blessed to experience your energy.

kathy swenson <kathrynswenson@sbcglobal.net>
stillwater, ok - Sunday, May 3, 2009 11:58 AM CDT
Thanks for sharing your great day of helping others! It thrilled me to sense your joy as I read your words.
Betty Jean Ingram <bjingramtx@sbcglobal.net>
San Antonio, TX United States - Saturday, May 2, 2009 3:02 PM CDT
Marlo,
I remember this email vividly, as I spent over a month digging into those verses that you sent. What an encouragement and source of hope they were for me! Thanks for bringing me back to them again.
Carry on, sweet friend!

Leigh <leighsaxon@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 1, 2009 7:46 PM CDT
I remember the word Xanadu but did not see the movie and cannot recall the song at all. I think it was on during today's aerobics class - probably very different from the original - and it was unrecognizable. But I had a laugh as I heard the word Xanadu. I always enjoy your blog.
Kelly Soter-Gunn
- Friday, May 1, 2009 4:27 PM CDT
Wow! I get it .... I just don't always do it. Thanks for sharing your heart and reminding me.
m.urton
- Thursday, April 30, 2009 4:28 PM CDT
Happy Belated Birthday Marlo! WOW! I thought I had busy days/weekends! You certainly were busy! I am glad that you had a nice day!

Love
Kristina, Mary's mom
www.carepages.com/carepages/eisnor

Kristina Eisnor <kristinaeisnor@gmail.com>
Berkley, MA - Wednesday, April 29, 2009 8:29 AM CDT
Hey Marlo..
Just catching up on your posts... love them. I am glad your birthday went well, and for the ways God has spoken to you words of comfort and encouragement. I cannot imagine the rollercoaster of emotions you must experience at times..
Xanadu! You are too much!
Love you and so glad you continue to write here.

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 28, 2009 10:26 PM CDT
Olivia who???
Shelley <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
OKC, - Tuesday, April 28, 2009 9:36 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Marlo! My husband and I really enjoyed your butterfly cookie story. We have laughed over it several times as it sounds like something I would say to him. It's been a fun joke between us the last several days - especially with Mother's Day coming up. I'm so glad you got your cookies - even if you had to pick them up yourself (ha!)
Blessings to you on many more wonderful birthdays!
Rosemary

Rosemary Boswell
Gilbert, AZ - Monday, April 27, 2009 10:08 PM CDT
Happy Belated BIRTHDAY! May this year bring you only the best. My bday was 3 weeks ago, and I spent it at the baseball field watching my joey play.
But I wore my tiara..lol

Amy Reitano <amyreitano@comcast.net>
- Monday, April 27, 2009 8:02 PM CDT
Hey Marlo, I forgot to tell you. We had our Relay for Life for the American Cancer Society here in Woodville this past weekend and I did a luminaria in memory of Anna, with a butterfly on it. I also did one for my dad, and Mom walked the Survivors' Lap around the track. The "Survivor's Speech" was given by a sixth grader who is now cancer-free. After she spoke, her dad told about a really tense session with the doctors and nurses when she was sitting on the exam table and they were discussing how concerned they were about her. She interrupted and announced, "I don't know what you all are so worried about. God is going to take care of me." I thought you would get a kick out of that. I'm glad that even though God did not choose to heal Anna's body here on earth, He is taking care of her in Heaven. It sounds like you had a nice birthday. Especially the birthday drink. Wish I could see you rocking out to Olivia Newton-John. Does she top Barbra? It's a close race.
Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Monday, April 27, 2009 10:17 AM CDT
Happy birthday Marlo!! I'm sorry Anna isn't there to celebrate it with you.
Love,

Carol Slover
Coppell, - Sunday, April 26, 2009 4:31 PM CDT
Happy Birthday! Sorry it's bittersweet and tinged with that "missing" feeling. May it be more sweet than bitter.
Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Sunday, April 26, 2009 3:34 PM CDT
Happy Birthday, Marlo.
m.urton
- Sunday, April 26, 2009 8:21 AM CDT
Marlo, after reading your post on not taking things for granted...it made me think of how i was feeling the other day. I don't know if you know or not, but the town we moved to, Mena Arkansas was hit by an EF3 tornado April 9th. It took it's path right over my house and my in-laws home where we were all at. God protected us and blessed us and it is very hard to understand why. The homes behind mine are either rubble or being considered a total loss, yet my house has one broken window and the homes on top of the hill from Billy's mom and dad's home are leveled and are all pretty much a total loss, yet their home is beat up but standing and easy to fix. Why did God choose to protect our homes? It takes me back to a promise he gave me when I was praying about moving to Mena...I prayed specifically about this home before ever seeing it and he told me "this is where the house of the Lord is to be" and during spring break 3 of our youth girls accepted him as Lord and Savior over their lives in this home. Why did God choose the Isrealites to be His choosen people, why did God save Noah and his family...there are a lot of why's I have been asking these last 2 weeks. I have told so many people over the last 2 weeks that with God's hand he brings destruction which is very painful to see and experience but he also brings many blessings. There are many people who have been hurting for work that will have a job for a very long time with clean up and roofing and other jobs. We were out of electricity for 6 days and I had to do cooking and cleaning pioneer style. The first day I had electricity I vacuumed and was actually complaining about how much of a mess the floor was and how big the house was that I was vacuuming and then thought...i bet there are lots of people in Mena that would love to have a floor to be vacuuming right now. I told a lady the other day who was almost complaining about having to go pack up all of her China because her home may not be structurally sound that I bet there are a lot of people who would love to pack up their beloved dishes or have the things back that they once cherished. I understand how easily we take things for granted...you are such a testimony to me every day...i have missed reading your posts over the last 2 weeks but am happy i still have a computer and the internet to receive the blessing you always seem to send my way...and you didn't even know you were doing it!! Miss and Love You, Dawn
Dawn Lea <dawndlea@gmail.com>
Mena, AR USA - Friday, April 24, 2009 2:05 PM CDT
Marlo, Thanks for the thought on the "messy house", I will definitely revel in my two teenage boys "daily destruction" of our home, and feel blessed. Your words always inspire.
LFuller <simple@grm.net>
- Thursday, April 23, 2009 12:54 AM CDT
Marlo and Richard, I just wanted to share with you that last year my husband and I felt blessed to be able to make a very small contribution to Anna's room at OU in honor of each of our children and grandchildren. Our family did not know this. Last week my daughter-in-laws best friend had her 4 year old daughter diagnosed with a brain tumor and they have been at OU since then. My daughter-in-law was sharing with me how there were rooms they could use to rest without having to leave the hospital. She was talking about how nice the rooms are - she was talking about Anna's room. From the bottom of my heart - thank you for working so hard to raise the money to be a blessing to other families. I am continually amazed at how God works. Thank you for stepping outside your comfort zone to make this room possible! You continue to be a blessing to people!
Robin Vorel <robin.vorel@gmail.com>
Luther, OK - Wednesday, April 22, 2009 8:58 PM CDT
I love that picture of Anna with the red wig. I don't remember ever seeing it before. Yes, when it comes to birthdays, you've always been fairly high maintenance. But in a good way . . .I am laughing at my mental picture of this exchange between you and Rich. Love you, friend.
Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Wednesday, April 22, 2009 2:39 PM CDT
Marlo,
Thank you for sharing your prayer walk with us. I am one who gets very stressed and anxious over a continually messy house. I never looked at it from the perspective of the loneliness others may be experiencing in their pristine homes. I will now take more time to thank God for the family I have who makes that mess rather than being frustrated with it. I love you and thank God for you.

Michelle Murphy
Yukon, OK - Wednesday, April 22, 2009 9:24 AM CDT
Marlo, I read your post today and I was so touched. I'm glad Anna's nurse found the Lord but I am sad you lost Anna. I'm the Linda that you mentioned in you Mar 13th post on the winner of the " Today I get to" contest. I want you to know I got my 2nd opinion that day. She took some biopsies, scheduled me for an MRI to make sure the cancer had not spread to the backbone or lymph nodes. She also took my case before a tumor board. The biopsy came back severe dysplasia and the MRI showed digenerative disk disease. She got my radiology records and records from my 1st gyn oncologist. She asked me if she could do another biopsy under anethesia because she said cancer tends to hide in hard to reach places. I got a call Mon and it was invasive squamous cell. From my radiology reports she noticed I had not had radiation in the place where the original grape size tumor was. So Wed I had a radiation needle transplant on a tumor that was the size of a med baking potato. I had to lay flat on my back for 54 hours while the radiation did it's thing. I was released yesterday and now it's wait & see if it worked w/o complications (50% chance). Only other option was a toltal pelvic exoneration. While I laid there I had a lot of time to think & I missed not getting to check on my caring bridge family. Thinking and reading about children like Anna, Jake, Mary, Hunter, etc. they have given me so much hope and faith. I thank God I went for the 2nd opinion. I thank God for Mothers & Fathers like you that post the journal entries that we get to read and learn from them that no matter how hard your situation is, there are others that have it a lot worse. You are such an inspiration, thank you for continuing to journal. You don't know how many days you have given me the strength and hope to keep fighting. Your family is constantly in my prayers. Let's keep on going on. God Bless you. Linda
Linda Corn <sweetcorn1@msn.com>
Brownsville, KY - Sunday, April 19, 2009 6:23 PM CDT
What fun it was to see you today!!! Thanks so much for coming!!! I just got caught up from the last few weeks of your entries. Saw the pictures of Anna's room from the dedication. Beautiful!! Loved our afternoon!!!
Debra <therountrees@verizon.net>
- Friday, April 17, 2009 11:27 PM CDT
ah. A very good email exchange . Helps make sense of "being an inspiration"
when it seems it is all about the suffering.


onegirlfriday.blogspot.com

Anne
ca - Friday, April 17, 2009 9:19 PM CDT
Marlo,
Praise God for your friend in Delaware. If I remember correctly, she was the one who kept those of us who read your posts regularly laughing about life on the farm -- what the ducks were up to, etc.-- reminding us of God's wonderful creation and how He loves us even in the deepest, darkest trials of life. I'm so glad He used your family's story to draw her closer to Him. You're so right when you say she shouldn't feel guilty, but loved. He seeks out his own in so many different ways. I hope it helps some to have people who have been blessed by Anna's story tell you about it. I, too, have been blessed by the insights God has given you about your struggles, because they apply to my struggles, too. Thank you, friend.

Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Thursday, April 16, 2009 2:50 PM CDT
AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Sunday,
April 19th, between 8-9 pm Eastern Time
for all the children, teens and adults
on our prayer lists and our wonderful
AngelWingsRemembers families.

Thank you for joining us.

Sincerely,
Polly
Co-owner
Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers

Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
- Thursday, April 16, 2009 12:09 AM CDT
Praying.
m.urton
- Thursday, April 16, 2009 6:23 AM CDT
Hey girly! I love going on your site. I live in California and found this site through a friend of mine.

Lots of love!

Molly Hudson
Orange County, CA United States - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 6:52 PM CDT
Just read the journal entries from the past week. Thank you for continuing to share your thoughts and struggles. Praise God Jesus rose again, so one day we will be ressurected and meet Him (and Anna) in heaven.
Lynda Thackerson
Edmond, OK - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 4:11 PM CDT
Marlo - I wish the scab wasn't able to be peeled off. I wish the rawness would just go away. I wish it all would go away for you. UGH! Grief is so real and so tangible but you are doing the best that you can in dealing with it! I am proud of you!

Love
Kristina, Mary's mom
www.carepages.com/carepages/eisnor

Kristina Eisnor <kristinaeisnor@gmail.com>
Berkley, MA - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 8:39 AM CDT
That is why you will forever be in my prayers each day.
Marilyn Reaves <clayreaves@cox.net>
Bethany, Ok us - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 6:17 PM CDT
Me too!!!
Cindy Morris <13blessings@sbcglobal.net>
Coyle, OK - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 8:22 AM CDT
Marlo, I'm sorry you were hurting today. I'm keeping you and Richard in my prayers.
Julie Alexander <the5alexanders@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, April 13, 2009 10:46 PM CDT
Oh, Marlo, I don't even know you (beyond the blog) but I just want to give you a hug. My heart hurts when your heart hurts. Praying you will feel His arms...
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Monday, April 13, 2009 9:59 PM CDT
Marlo --

What an amazingly powerful journal entry. I so enjoy your writing, even when it brings me to tears. Thank you for sharing.


Denise Lindner
Orlando, FL - Monday, April 13, 2009 9:22 PM CDT
Thinking of you! I hope you all had a great Easter!

Love
Kristina, Mary's mom
www.carepages.com/carepages/eisnor

Kristina Eisnor <kristinaeisnor@gmail.com>
Berkley, MA - Monday, April 13, 2009 11:28 AM CDT
Anna is such a beautiful girl!
She will always be in my heart.
God is taking good care of her right now.
Much Love and Happy Easter!!

Molly Hudson
Orange County, ca United States - Sunday, April 12, 2009 7:00 PM CDT
Marlo,
I just love the way you write!
I pray your Easter is filled with hope and joy that comes from His LIFE!
Love the perspective you gave us tonight,
hugs,

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 11, 2009 10:35 PM CDT
Thinking of you all and remembering Anna
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Friday, April 10, 2009 10:49 AM CDT
Thanks for sharing the "missing feeling" story and the tooth fairy story... You should get tips from T. Hubbard about the tooth fairy because one of her kids thought she "was" the tooth fairy for everyone! (Oklahoma? the World? I can't remember...)
Shelley <Urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, April 8, 2009 10:20 PM CDT
"Anna's" room is beautiful. It looks so peaceful and homey and I know those who use it will feel the Lord's presence.
It's been some time since I have taken the time to read your journal. Thank you for continuing to share your journey and the things the Lord is showing you and teaching you. As I read I am challenged but also encouraged that no matter what the Lord allows to come into our lives He is always with us and gives us what we need to face each trial and challenge in our lives. May the God of peace and comfort continue to wrap you in His loving arms and fill you with the joy of His salvation.

Joyce <andjoy@rememberus.net>
Branson, MO - Wednesday, April 8, 2009 0:49 AM CDT
Marlo - the room is beautiful! What a tribute to Anna!

Love
Kristina, Mary's mom
www.carepages.com/carepages/eisnor

Kristina Eisnor <kristinaeisnor@gmail.com>
Berkley, MA - Monday, April 6, 2009 12:50 AM CDT
Anna's Room is beautiful!!! I know families will be blessed and refreshed in Anna's room!!!
Shelley Urton <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, April 4, 2009 6:59 PM CDT
AWESOME!!! And neat timing, right before Easter. I do pray that many are blessed, knowing and sensing God's love for them as they stay there.
Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 4, 2009 2:58 PM CDT
Anna's Room looks beautiful!

I love it!

Molly Hudson
Orange County, CA United States - Saturday, April 4, 2009 10:37 AM CDT
Marlo - Laney and I barely missed you at Anna's room yesterday afternoon when we stopped by. Sittie showed us around and it is beautiful. It was smaller than I imagined; however, God spoke to my spirit and said, "Smaller to bring more peace, comfort, and to feel safe/secure." Loved the painting on the wall and the "fence." Truly peaceful and serene. Reminded me so much of Anna's birthday party in the garden. As always, thanks for sharing.
Lynda Thackerson <blthack@airosurf.cm>
Edmond, Ok - Friday, April 3, 2009 3:14 PM CDT
Marlo,
The room is beautiful! We know this was a special day for all of you and what a precious way to honor and remember Anna. We hope completing this room brings you peace and joy.
Love,

Carol Slover
Coppell, TX - Friday, April 3, 2009 10:52 AM CDT
Congrats on the opening of Anna's room, how wonderful. You are all in my thoughts.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Friday, April 3, 2009 7:54 AM CDT
so happy about Anna's room! What a blessing! So glad they approved the verse. May many come to see that God is so faithful and true.
Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 2, 2009 11:07 PM CDT
hi
Laurie <laurie.smith@bannerhealth.com>
mesa, az usa - Wednesday, April 1, 2009 1:46 PM CDT
Oh, just one more thought, If your like me, you have many sites that you read about little ones and have they have gone to the "real world, on to be with Jesus." So many of the ones I read, (what their mommy's write) about and their grieving journey have many profound "thoughts and feelings" and they might lift my heart but it is so fleeting. One thing I really appreciate about your grieving journey is you always have scripture to back up to your hurting heart and I have found that's my only consolation. The Lord has been so real as I seek to read and "look" and search for Him in this process. So thank you for the truths that have leaped out to you, what a blessing that we both can know we have a Rock and he is not going to sink!!
Cindy (Joel's mommy)

Cindy Morris <13blessings@sbcglobal.net>
Coyle, OK - Tuesday, March 31, 2009 8:39 PM CDT
LOL, ah married couple swap spit together, whats a little tartar and plaque between true lovers?
Rita <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 31, 2009 4:52 PM CDT
LOL!!! I needed that, although I'm sure you did not. Ewww....
Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Tuesday, March 31, 2009 12:51 AM CDT
Thanks for sharing your "It's not fair" story. The scripture that you shared about following Jesus and not being concerned about what the "world" is doing was GREAT!
Shelley Urton <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
Oklahoma City, - Monday, March 30, 2009 10:19 PM CDT
Hi Marlo,
I know what you mean....I do not necessarily want to have these thoughts, they just come. Sometimes, many times I have thought the same thing, why do I have to go through this and others do not. I do not even know anyone personally except others like you I have met via stories of their children that have lost a child and it not like I want them to but that old fleshly, sin nature sure rises up. Thank you that you wrote this because only us mommys that have been there know these thoughts and feelings. If I share feelings like this with friends that have NOT had a child die, they just can not comprehend these thoughts. Maybe someday we can visit as we live N. of OKC. We passed our two year mark in Jan. it is still very hard. I am a friend of Audra Lehew and have visited with her via phone as we first began our journey as I met her at the clinic with her daughter. Thank you for sharing your strong and weak days.
Cindy
www.weloveyoujoel.blogspot.com

Cindy Morris <13blessings@sbcglobal.net>
Coyle, OK - Sunday, March 29, 2009 10:11 PM CDT
Marlo,
The depth of the spiritual truths God has taught you through this experience continues to inspire me. Thank you for allowing God to speak to me through your painful experience. I am praying that God will continue to draw you to Himself when you cry out to Him and that you will continue to turn to His Word. Love you,

Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Sunday, March 29, 2009 10:17 AM CDT
Peace, I pray you feel His peace.
Will Barnett <WillEBgood@yahoo.com>
Suwanee, GA USA - Saturday, March 28, 2009 10:16 PM CDT
My friend Lisa, painted the door on Anna' room today. She told how she painted butterflies and caterpillars, and a little Robin to honor her late sister Robin.
beth
- Wednesday, March 25, 2009 9:09 PM CDT
Hi Marlo.
I just wanted to tell you how much I appreciate you. Benjamin had so much fun at Champs Camp. It was a blessing for him to be a part of it. I LOVE your friend's idea of changing her attitude from "have to's TO get to's" it is inspiring to me. Thanks for sharing...
Much love,
Stacey Brim

stacey brim <cbrim@cox.net>
okc, ok us - Monday, March 23, 2009 11:22 AM CDT
Good Morning Marlo,
I received the wonderful package in the mail on Saturday...
I LOVE all the things that you chose. I can't wait to really get into the book... and I love the Choxie the butterfly coin is in my purse :)
I am so very glad that I won :)
To pay it forward I am doing something for the youth pastor and his family: I have already taken them a meal and I will be giving them a book "We were expecting a baby but got an angel insted" along with a baby angel sleeping on it's wings. I am also looking into the book you suggested. They are such a wonderful couple and are taking it one day a time with the help of God to get them through all of this.
Thank Audra again for drawing my name. I hope you have a blessed and happy week. Thank you for the inspiration that you give here on your blog.

Angie H.
Soso, MS USA - Monday, March 23, 2009 9:38 AM CDT
Thinking about all of you. I got the invite to the St. Jude celebration, but since I'm in Calif, I can only be there in spirit. Also, this morning, as I opened my brown sugar (to put on my corned beef in the crock), I saw the little brown sugar softner I bought from your kids a couple of years ago from their online school fundraiser. It is in the shape of a heart, which I thought was just perfect considering it is a reminder of Anna. Have a blessed day and be assured that Anna is still thought of regularly, even by people who were not so blessed to meet her.

Lisa <cojlisa16@aol.com>
Apple Valley, CA - Saturday, March 21, 2009 11:47 AM CDT
How cool that you are a volunteer there. What a blessing to those families. :)

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 20, 2009 8:42 PM CDT
Thank you for posting this...I struggle alot with this. I haven't dealt with a serious loss (beyond grandparents) and our major struggles thus far were with our adoptions. Yet, I do ache with my friends, like Abby or my friend, a young mother who is now widowed. My heart hurts. Yet this life still goes on. I always worry when I play around on Facebook and post something so very trivial (like that my two year old son's tantrums are giving me a headache or that we had a fun family day hanging out in pj's)that I am offending my hurting friends. But the truth is, I feel both. My heart physically aches at times for them, but there are also a lot of joys. (There is also that fear or worry that any of us, me included, are just a step away from that same pain...) Anyway, I ramble on occasion. Just wanted to let you know I appreciated your post.
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Tuesday, March 17, 2009 5:37 PM CDT
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. I pray for you and their family. I tried to send you an email but I'm not sure if it worked. I wanted to thank you for thinking of me and my Dr's appointment on Friday. God Bless You!
Linda Corn <sweetcorn1@msn.com>
Brownsville, KY - Sunday, March 15, 2009 4:51 PM CDT
so sorry to hear about your friend. Will certainly pray for his family.
love, Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 15, 2009 12:44 AM CDT
Marlo, it warmed my heart to read how the winner of your contest is going to "pay it forward." The way you have turned your grief over Anna into help and hope for so many is a powerful testimony to God's greatness and goodness.
Betty Jean Ingram <bjingramtx@sbcglobal.net>
San Antonio, TX USA - Friday, March 13, 2009 4:28 PM CDT
Ok, so I know I am late but.....
I get to run around town like a crazy woman picking up all necessary items for tomorrow's Prom Dress sale. I get to work with amazing women to create a mock-botique for girls in our community who are in need of inexpensive dresses for prom. The best part is I get to give Gena all of the proceeds for the Lane Monday Foundation!
~Thanks for your updates. They help me to see that God is good in the midst of everything!

Amanda Davis <dadavis81205@cableone.net>
Altus, Ok - Friday, March 13, 2009 4:07 PM CDT
I didn't win, but you inspired me to do my own "Pay it forward" drawing. Come over to my blog to read about it-you are mentioned- and sign up!! You might be lucky twice!
polly at www.pollyspath.blogspot.com
- Friday, March 13, 2009 9:42 AM CDT
Congratulations, Angie H! Thank you, Marlo, for putting this little "contest" on and being such a good example and reminder of a "get to" attitude. Hope Will and Audra get to feeling better very soon!
Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Friday, March 13, 2009 8:00 AM CDT
Let God use your kids to minister to you like Jacob did.
Will Barnett <WillEBgood@yahoo.com>
Suwanee, GA USA - Thursday, March 12, 2009 9:31 PM CDT
I get to go to the grocery store and stock up for Spring Break. I get to drive the carpool. I get to change a poopy diaper. I get to try to persuade HJoy to use her Elmo potty stool. I get to read and watch Bob and Larry. I get to help with homework. I get to encourage piano practice. I get to talk about how great all Nate's inventions are. I get to referee basketball on my driveway. I get to put Anna's cute clothes away until HJoy can wear a 4T. I get to not get mad and cheerfully advise a clean up in my bathroom. (The floor is covered with bubbles from a fun bath.) I get to loan out my husband to help friends move. I get to pray for Val, Kris and Major who spent the day at Children's hospital. I get to be excited that Kathy is expecting twins (she'll have 5 under 5!) I get to have good conversation with my parents who are almost 80. I get to clean the house for family coming into town. I get to hear MK talk about how she wished Champs Camp started today, for the last 5 days. ...
Shawna Nuthman <shawna.nuthman@cox.net>
- Thursday, March 12, 2009 7:37 PM CDT
Marlo, I am glad Jacob is so sweet, too! I think even the big boys pick up on it when mom is down. They can be so caring, at times.
Praise God he (Jacob) knows the truth so well. I pray that you would be comforted more today.
I think your contest is great, makes us thankful for what we do have. But I am not going to enter it!
love ya

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 12, 2009 1:41 PM CDT
Marlo, here is one of my get to's but please do not sign me up in the drawing. I would rather someone else receive that blessing, but I wanted to share an awesome "get to". I get to "voluntarily" tutor a 7th grader in math. She is the daughter of our old pastor at the church we are members of here in Arkansas and her parents are going through a horrible divorce. I am her youth leader and spend a lot of time mentoring her in Christ. After the mess with her parents started her grades dropped drastically, but she has recently received her grade report and has brought her math grade from a 61 to a 75!! Horray for her! If you have time for one more prayer, please be in prayer for Kelli and her family. Also, way to go Jacob! It is awesome how our kids really do show us that we are making a "Godly" difference in thier lives. I know I often wonder if Moriah is learning who God is and is she learning to love him and trust him and then she says things like I Love You Jesus and it makes me know that we are making a "Godly" difference in her life and will continue to do that every day.
Dawn Lea <dawndlea@gmail.com>
Mena, AR USA - Thursday, March 12, 2009 12:06 AM CDT
Today I get to:
wake up at home, not in the hospital.
I get to go check on Dustin, son home after a couple weeks in ICU
I get to greet his home health nurse
I get to speak to my mom, my daughters, my granddaughters,
all who care so deeply
I get to go wake up my dear husband, my dear partner and we get to start another day , a day that the Lord has made
and we get to rejoice in it.
Anne onegirlfriday.blogspot.com

Anne
ca - Thursday, March 12, 2009 9:54 AM CDT
today i get to:
freely worship the Lord!
whisper some 'sweet nothings' to my sweet husband, Steve.
move back into our freshly painted master bedroom, yeah!
drive the senior adult choir 'glory gang' to a nursing home and lunch.
check on my people, she's 79-losing her memory, he's 89-in congestive heart failure.
arrange oxygen for his next trip.
clean house, clean house, clean house!
make lunch for my brother's family, 8 kids, they're taking in the omniplex tomorrow.
share craft time with girl friends.
bake peanut butter cookies for my brother, Karl [there was an ultimatum].
paint a wall hanging for hope pregnancy center's baby boutique.
make chocolate marshmallow eggs.
print and address baby shower invitations.
knit a scarf for Susie.
breath a sigh of relief...God gave me another wonderful day!

susi pettijohn <honeybearhouse@sbcglobal.net>
oklahoma city, ok - Thursday, March 12, 2009 7:15 AM CDT
...crying with you after reading this entry. What a wonderful, sweet son. How blessed you are to have this little guy to help you though the hard times. Praying for you ...
Kim Waggoner <W8k@aol.com>
Kingston, TN - Thursday, March 12, 2009 0:43 AM CDT
Today I get to:
-remember my sweet Anna who I met at Ronald McD house
-go to work in the morning and bless TEENAGERS in school
-unload the dishwasher, my 2nd least fave chore, but I GET TO unload it and not wash the dishes instead
-hug my 5 yr old and snuggle up in bed with her
-go to sleep in a warm bed in a warm house when homelessness is at an all time high
-look into the most beautiful blues eyes i have ever seen (my princesses)
-look on the mantle and see two beautiful little PREVIOUS chemo angels pictures who are now CANCER FREE
-get up at 5:15 in the morning
-help someone feel better by just sending them SNAIL mail
-sit in a room for 5 hours administering a state regulated test to TEENagers.
-work with special education students 5 out of 7 days a week
-hug someone, anyone.
-thank Marlo and fam for the amazing testimony they are

Carrie Horton <hortonfam@verizon.net>
Richmond, va usa - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 5:24 PM CDT
Today I get to:
- work with two wonderful chaplains at the hospital where I work as a secretary.
- spend time with my husband and son.
- check on my horse that is expecting a colt very soon.
- take care of my 13 year old Dalmatian, Sam, who is feeling his age.
- talk to my Mom and see how she and Dad are doing.
- pray for a young co-worker that is battling cancer.
- count all my blessings.

Sammie <SammieC64@aol.com>
Tupelo, MS - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 2:59 PM CDT
Today I get to:
--wake up early so my 5-year-old bundle of energy can watch the elephants raise the center pole on the "Big Top" for the circus that has come to our small town;
--delight in watching her run like a deer, hop like a bunny and never get tired of playing chase and be thankful that she is healthy and happy, praising God for our "miracle baby" the doctors thought would never be born;
--run around town paying bills and taking care of my 77-year-old mother's business matters, thanking God that I have her close by, that I don't have to fight city traffic and that she has money that my dad diligently saved to help pay those bills (even after losing a lot of it in the big economic mess)!
--clean my house
--maybe even find a moment or two to cuddle up with a book while the much-needed rain falls gently outside before taking my aforementioned bundle of energy to see her first circus!
--pray for my husband as he flies college basketball teams back and forth to the tournament in OKC and
--be grateful that I can pray and study my Bible in a peaceful nation that still preserves my freedom to do so without fear of reprisal.

Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 2:01 PM CDT
I get to appreciate my wonderful family.
nancy battershell <nctb_dale@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 11, 2009 1:58 PM CDT
Today I get to:

.....have parent/teacher conferences and tell moms and dads something great about their child so that they can go home proud!
.....pick up a prescription and be able to pay for it.
.....look in my fridge and make something for dinner.
.....hold my husbands hand.
.....make my bed.
.....fill up my car with gas and not worry about paying the bill at the end of the month.
.....go to my job and not worrying about losing it. (Teachers have job security)
.....freely read my bible and sing praise songs.
.....call my mom (my job share partner can't because she has passed.)
.....be thankful that there are so many things that I get to do!!

Shonda
- Wednesday, March 11, 2009 1:44 PM CDT
Today I get to:
Comfort my son who is dealing with the loss of one of his classmates. He collapsed last wednesday and passed yesterday.
I also get to tell him about the selfless act of organ donation that his parents provided in order to enable others to go on living.
I get to hug my son and tell him that there are no guarantees in life and that he should live life like Anna did.
And.....I get to continue to be inspired by your faith, and love of your family. I pray that all children of the world can feel the love of a parent and know they are a gift from God.
Thanks for sharing......you inspire me:) Dena

Dena Olsen <olsen7945@wi.rr.com>
Oak Creek, WI United States - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 9:15 AM CDT
You don't know me, but you are an inspiration to me....
Today:
I get to get my kids up for school, and get kisses from them before I leave.
I get to go to work and Thank God I have a job.
I get to go to Physical Therapy and Thank God again my ankle is almost healed.
I get to coach/watch my youngest daughter (6 y/o) play soccer, and Thank God she is healthy enough to play.
I get to pick up my oldest daughter (12 y/o) from soccer, and Thank God she is healthy enough to do that.
I get to Thank God for the blessings in my life, and that I am lucky enough to live in a country where I am free to do that!

Stacie Hanes <wannabike@cox.net>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 8:51 AM CDT
I get to - Love my God
I get to - Love my wife
I get to - pray for others
I get to - see God in everything I do

John Dries <johnandsandydries@sbcglobal.net>
OKC, OK USA - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 7:34 AM CDT
AWWW I am in tears right now.. because of Anna Jane and you...

I get to.. find a baby gate to keep my pups from eating up my house.
I get to.. buy Joey a new backpack b/c the pups ate his yesterday.
I get to.. go volunteer at the kids school with an art project.
I get to..take my 3 plus 3 more kids to swim team practice.
I get to.. take my 3 +2 sweet boys home, feed them, repack swim team, and pack up for a tball game all by 6pm.

BUT you know WHAT... I GET TO. I would not change my crazy day for the world! Thanks so much for reminding me of that!

Love Amy Reitano

Amy Reitano <amyreitano@comcast.net>
Boynton Beach, Fl USA - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 7:14 AM CDT
Today I get to:
Thank God for another day
Thank God I was cancer free for 31 years
Hope that I can beat the cancer once again that was diagnosed on 6/15/07
Hope that the 2nd opinion that I will get on 3/13/09 will be able to find a way to stop the tumor from growing
Hope I don't have to have a Pelvic Exoneration
Thank God for the blessings I have had no matter what

I have followed Anna Jane, Jake and Mo for a long time. When I felt down or sorry for myself all I had to do was read their journals and blogs and realize the courage of these young children who should never have had to go through the suffering and pain. They should be here to say "Today I get to say I'm cancer free" Instead I want them to know:
TODAY I GET TO TELL THEM THEY GET ME THROUGH TODAY
(BY THE WAY IS IT AN OMEN I WILL GET MY 2ND OPINION ON FRIDAY MARCH 13TH?)

Linda Corn <sweetcorn1@msn.com>
Brownsville, KY - Tuesday, March 10, 2009 10:19 PM CDT
Today I get to:
teach children how to write a story
ride in a car while my 15 year old drives
cheer my 12 year old on at a basketball game
fall into my husband's arms at the end of the day
go to my Heavenly Father in prayer

Rosemary Boswell <rosemaryboswell@cox.net>
Gilbert, AZ - Tuesday, March 10, 2009 8:23 PM CDT
Today I get(got) to:
pay my bills. Glad I have the money to do that.
calculate and pay my federal income tax. Glad I have the money to do that.
figure out how to file my state income tax on line. Glad I don't work there any more.
go to my grandsons' school and pick up cookies for their fundraiser. Glad I could help out a good school and the boys are learning every day.


Dee Nelson <titanfan217@comcast.net>
Springfield, IL - Tuesday, March 10, 2009 5:14 PM CDT
I get to take my son to the pediatrician in the morning to see if his arm is broken (I'm hoping it's not!).

I get to enjoy a playdate at the park (if the aforementioned arm is not broken).

I get to spend the day with my kids. :)

Liz Reeves <Lizreeves2@aol.com>
Whitehouse, TX USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 11:31 PM CDT
I get to go outside and call to the geese "Snack Time!" and not really care that my neighbors probably think I am weird. I get to have my hubbie's undivided attention for a while as I try to convince him the geese will come flying from across the lake when they hear my voice. They really do - just not today.

I get to text my kids. I don' like texting but I like to bug them and they kindly allow that. I get to enjoy the excitement in LuLu's voice as she tells me about the club she is joining. I get to feel peace knowing she is happy at college now that she transferred.

I get to take my dog to work! I get to go to work and pay bills and be glad there are bills to pay because that means there was work to be done.

I get to tell you all that have Facebook that you should go look at the pics from Aubrey Delafield's surprise birthday party. That 7' Boa (snake, not feathers) wrapped around her neck looks great with her red hair.

I get to give thanks for my 9th year of good cts.



Pam Kinser <pkinser54@gmail.com>
- Monday, March 9, 2009 10:23 PM CDT
What a wonderful idea

Because of reading about Anna Jane, I get to

Cherish my children even more, even through the harder times

I get to realize that what I consider hard times is generally me drama queening and isn't so hard after all

I get to learn more about Anna Jane and all the contributions she made during her 5 years on this Earth

I got to learn what real bravery is

Learn what true Chrisianity and acceptance of God and His will is, through the words of her mother

I get to see the most adorable pictures of a sweet angel. The one of Anna washing her babies in the sink is still my favorite.


Thank you for sharing your Anna Jane with me. Her story and her sweet life touched my heart.

Rita B <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
KS - Monday, March 9, 2009 9:51 PM CDT
what a good idea...I am always in when there is a chance to win!
Today I get to enjoy the snow fall...and sunshine (funny day)
I get to spend the afternoon with my husband.
I get to make one of my favorite meals for dinner.(taco soup..yummmmo)
I get to enjoy my nice clean house
...I really could do this all day long!

Heidi McClure <dhmcclure18@gmail.com>
- Monday, March 9, 2009 5:00 PM CDT
Hi Marlo -
Congrats on being the winner! That's so fun!
Today I "get to" spend time with God!
Today I "get to" go to work - I am thankful to have a job!
Today I "get to" go on a walk with my husband after he gets home from work.
Today I "get to" pray instead of be anxious about things that are out of my control!!

Hope you are having a great day and are enjoying this beautiful weather!
Love,
Jennifer

Jennifer Linck <txgrluvsou@yahoo.com>
Moore, OK - Monday, March 9, 2009 2:58 PM CDT
Been following your blog for quite sometime now. Your faith has made me stronger. I'm a social worker in a hospital so today I "get to" meet with a family to discuss hospice care, reach out to a teenager who has chosen drugs to make things "better" and find resources for an elderly woman to be able to remain in her home. When I get home I get to take care of my mother who's recovering from a car accident. We're feeling really blessed that she wasn't hurt worse because we just lost our Dad six months ago. I'm BLESSED beyond measure and I'll definitely "pay it forward."
Gina Justice <ginaj1450@hotmail.com>
South Williamson, KY USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 2:35 PM CDT
I have been reading your blog for about 3 years. It has given me inspiration and really made me evaluate my own life...what is "really" important. Your faith is something I still continue to sit in awe of.
What do I "get to" do today?? Finish my job...leaving early to take my son, Noah (who is 4 1/2), to his first t-ball practice. That, to me, is something "I cannot wait to do" today. Of course, I will "Pay If Forward."
Blessings....

Christy Whitmire <cwhitmire@vcokc.com>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 2:13 PM CDT
Today I get to spend time with my 3 wonderful kids when I get off work...
Today I get to read the blogs of some of the most strong and inspiring women
that I have ever heard of.


Angie H
Soso, MS USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 1:57 PM CDT
Today I get to:
- change the sheets (I always cry) because Erica, our daughter, came home from college this past weekend.
- pray for our son who's a bit lonely in law school.
- be silly with my husband.
- go to a job that I love.
- think about what I "get to" do!

Karen Stenstrom <ks96@evansville.edu>
Evansville, IN - Monday, March 9, 2009 1:55 PM CDT
Today I get to :
Shop for my 2 granddaughters birthday gifts.
Help my Dad find information on a Hoverround chair for my brother.
Wash several loads of laundry.
:)

Kim Waggoner <W8k@aol.com>
Kingston, TN - Monday, March 9, 2009 1:28 PM CDT
What a great idea!

I get to wake up next to my wonderful husband every AM.
I get to work from home and be here with my toddler.
I get to potty train my toddler.
I get to attend my husband's team's soccer game.
I get to grocery shop for my family.
I get to wrap presents for two upcoming birthdays.

Katy Smith
Cameron, TX USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 1:09 PM CDT
I love this idea!
I "get to":
- stay at home with my kids
- load the dishwasher (thankful I don't have to do the dishes by hand!)
- do laundry (also thankful I don't have to drag all my laundry somewhere)
- pay bills (glad I have money to do that!)

Becca Haas <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Monday, March 9, 2009 1:01 PM CDT
What a great idea!!

I "get to":
-stay home and recover from a stomach bug because my work allows me to have paid sick days
-talk to my mom who makes me feel better when I'm sick, even though I'm a grown adult!

and unfortunately that's all I can think about because I "get to" only have a stomach bug and nothing more serious. Thank You God!

God Bless your family!

Michele Pituch <map1102@msn.com>
Boston, MA - Monday, March 9, 2009 12:49 AM CDT
and yet another reminder to switch from a "have to" to a "get to" attitude
-I get to have a great job
-Great husband and daughter
-great school for my girl
-health
-a comfortable life and home
-precious friends
-church and sunday school and the freedom to attend them

www.pollyspath.blogspot.com
- Monday, March 9, 2009 12:30 AM CDT
I "get to" work on my book. You are inspiring me!
Darla Baerg <baerg1999@aol.com>
Houston , TX USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 12:26 AM CDT
good Morning Marlo~
I get to enter your contest this morning..
I get to do laundry in my pajamas. (thank god for a laundry room and not have to go out to the laundry)
I get to go to the bank to switch money from savings to checking. Thank God for having savings.
I get to cook for my sweet husband.
I get to clean my home.
I get to sit down and read a book.
I get to call my mom every day.
I get to pray and listen to worship music.
Jodi

Jodi Harrison <jodiann@myself.com>
Naples, Fl USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 11:43 AM CDT
good morning, and congratulatins.
I love this idea, it's so simple and can bring easy joy into out lives. thank you.
Here is a list of the things that I "Get to " do JUST TODAY!:
1. Wake up this morning and take a breath
2. drive myself to get a new drivers license
3. make breakfast for 7 beautiful babies
4. break up little quarrels
5. clean MY own house
6. cook a healthy dinner for my family
7. take my children to school
8. be home when my children come home from shcool.
9. worship my Lord, anytime, anywhere
10.hold my babies everyday (all of them, mine or not)
11. to have trials in my life, because My God loves that much
12. put warm socks and slippers on
13. have the money to put gas in my car
14. stay home and provide for my family
15. to LIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
16. have the ability to use my arm and legs in order to exercise and obtain a healthy life.
17. change at least 30 diapers, and not all are wet :)
18. be a friend to someone who is hurting so much.
19. do homework with my children
20. I get to sleep in my own cozy, warm bed tonight.

Tasha Jackson <godsgirlsx3@sbcglobal.net>
Oklahoma city, Ok USA - Monday, March 9, 2009 11:03 AM CDT
Hi Marlo,
I guess I "get to" be in the same "club" with you....the Grief One! I "get to" think about all the joys of having Joel for 3 years before the sorrow! I "get to" reap the benefits from Joel's life from the tears we have sown!! I "get to" be a contestant in your contest!!! How fun!!
www.weloveyoujoel.blogspot.com

Cindy Morris <13blessings@sbcglobal.net>
Coyle, OK - Monday, March 9, 2009 10:35 AM CDT
Hi Marlo,
Just read your latest post. I wanted to add my own "get to." I'm so glad I "get to" read your blog and become acquainted with you. I'm also glad I "get to" learn more and more about your precious Anna.

Have your received your gift from me, yet? If not, you should receive it in the next day or two. Please let me know, okay?

Praying for you and your family.

Blessings...
Beth E.
at Outnumbered, Three-to-One

Beth <endeanmom1@gmail.com>
- Monday, March 9, 2009 7:49 AM CDT
Thanks for sharing the "get to" lists... I find myself focusing on the "don't get to" or "I have to" list... Once again you've caused me to think about my thoughts...

Phil 2:5 says, You should think in the same way that Christ Jesus does...

Thanks for thinking like Christ!!! and encouraging each of us who read your website!

shelley <urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, March 7, 2009 9:30 PM CST
praying
m.urton
- Saturday, March 7, 2009 8:41 AM CST
I'll have to add it to your chapter. :)
Darla Baerg <baerg1999@aol.com>
Houston, TX USA - Friday, March 6, 2009 11:20 PM CST
Your get-to's are a great reminder. Thanks

Susan <r-s-reynolds@att.net>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Friday, March 6, 2009 10:07 PM CST
Marlo, how exciting about the playground equipment. I think of Anna and your family often. I'm praying for yall.
Hugs,

Ann Watts <BubbasOldLady@aol.com>
Jacksonville, AR USA - Wednesday, March 4, 2009 9:44 AM CST
Oh Marlo! How exciting!
Love,
Rosemary

Rosemary Boswell <rosemaryboswell@cox.net>
Gilbert, AZ - Monday, March 2, 2009 10:44 PM CST
That happened to me a about a year ago when I went to the soft opening (friends and family night) for a local Italian restaurant in our neck of the woods. I walked out of the ladies room and walked straight into the men's room and almost bumped face first into a gentleman who was using one of the urinals, right there at the entrance. I profusely apologized and walked out with a purple face. It turns out the guy was sitting next to us at the bar. He shook hands with my husband and exchanged names, and then said to him, "I have already met your wife". Shame, shame.
www.pollyspath.blogspot.com
- Monday, March 2, 2009 2:47 PM CST
Marlo, can you please tell me what the needs are for Anna's Room and how we can participate in helping?
Mary Yarber
Oklahoma City, ok USA - Monday, March 2, 2009 11:30 AM CST
Marlo, again I got a laugh from your site. As I have said before, never know if I will be laughing or crying.
Nancy Williams <nancy0614@sbcglobal.net>
Nacogdoches, Tx United States - Sunday, March 1, 2009 7:20 PM CST
I have done that...oooh the humiliation! :)
kim <W8k@aol.com>
kingston , tn - Sunday, March 1, 2009 4:11 AM CST
That really made me think. Thank you for sharing ALL of your feelings always! We need to get some things to you that you listed the room/families need. You know how I procrastinate. Take care and know that you and your family are often remembered in prayer. I can't imagine having to pick one picture of Anna, and still that does not really capture your precious little girl. Lissa
Lissa Wright <bwright20002@cox.net>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Friday, February 27, 2009 11:36 AM CST
Wow!! Thanks for sharing the "outside the lines" story... I was ready to write a letter to the "traffic police" at the hospital... good thing I kept reading!
p.s. Thanks for bringing extra food last Sunday!

shelley <Urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, February 27, 2009 9:46 AM CST
MArlo - Thanks for slapping me awake!
Joh Dries <johnandsandydries@sbcglobal.net>
OKC, OK - Friday, February 27, 2009 7:48 AM CST
Oh, Marlo... I LOVE this story... for the shear humanity of it. Isn't it amazing how God uses the most everyday things to teach us the most extraordinary lessons? Your continual transparency is convicting and encouraging.
Jeana Conn <rayandjacksmom@yahoo.com>
Idabel, OK United States - Thursday, February 26, 2009 10:58 PM CST
Loved your example! Oh, God is so good to us, giving us so much grace! I saw some of that same kind of pride in me recently, too, and so want to be more full of grace~~
love, Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 26, 2009 3:49 PM CST
I am so blessed by your honesty and willingness to share all of you - the good days, the not so good days and even the times when you don't really like yourself. Your words are powerful and I am always encouraged by them.
Love,
Jennifer

Jennifer Linck <txgrluvsou@yahoo.com>
Moore, OK - Thursday, February 26, 2009 3:10 PM CST
Thinking of you.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, February 26, 2009 12:15 AM CST
Marlo,

Thinking of you on this day. Praying for you.

Blessings,
Rosemary

Rosemary Boswell <rosemaryboswell@cox.net>
Gilbert, AZ - Wednesday, February 25, 2009 7:35 PM CST
Thinking and praying for you today....I can see how choosing the perfect photo would be difficult but God will show you the way....He cares about what photo goes on Anna's grave. In my Bible Study today it focused on how God cares about all the details of our lives. I am sure the picture you choose will be perfect.
Love,
Jennifer

Jennifer Linck <txgrluvsou@yahoo.com>
Moore, OK - Wednesday, February 25, 2009 10:33 AM CST
Praying for you today on a painful anniversary.
Love,

Carol Slover
Coppell, - Wednesday, February 25, 2009 9:30 AM CST
Praying.
m.urton
- Wednesday, February 25, 2009 7:16 AM CST
LOL!
DAWG! So, I hope you weren't like Simon. ! That could get ugly!
Be sure to post us the picture you choose.
Goodness! That would be tough to decide.
love, Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 24, 2009 9:03 PM CST
I will pray for you as you make your picture decision. God cares about that stuff!!
Pam Barrow
Bassett, NE USA - Tuesday, February 24, 2009 9:38 AM CST
Marlo - caught you on facebook, but I wanted to post this on Anna's website. Last week, I was missing Anna. I didn't know why I was, but I just kept thinking of her. Then I got a call from my very sweet friend Friday morning who told me that her great niece Jasmine had died the night before. Jasmine was 7 years old. I then knew why God was bringing Anna to my heart and mind. It was in preparation to minister to my friend and her family. I just wanted you to know that God still uses Anna's life and death in miraculous ways to reach out to those who are hurting. Jasmine's funeral is today. Please be in prayer for her mother Alisha, who is not a Christian. I remember in your postings how you were so thankful you had God to get you through and you had a gaurantee that you will one day see Anna again and be with her eternally in heaven. Alisha doesn't have this hope, this assurance right now. Please pray for her - I know that if anyone knows how to intercede for this mom, you do know what and how to pray. But please pray that ultimately her tragedy would end in God's glory and she would come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ as her personal Lord and Savior. Thank you.
Lynda Thackerson
Edmond, OK - Monday, February 23, 2009 2:18 PM CST
Hi Marlo
How are you doing? I am home recuperating from a little oupatient surgery, so I am catching up on Anna's site. I know how my skin graft is feeling today and my heart goes to thoughts of Anna, Nick and the others we have watched through their battles. I am glad that you are still writing on Anna's site. It is so encouraging to hear what God continues to do in and through your family. I am continuing to pray! May God be your strength! Susan

susan fowler <fotocropr@cox.net>
OKC, OK United States - Saturday, February 21, 2009 3:56 PM CST
Thanks Lydia and Marlo for passing that on! How precious for all of us who are missing love ones and have those moments that catch us off guard. What an uplifting message.
Pam <pkinser54@gmail.com>
- Friday, February 20, 2009 9:54 PM CST
Loved the poem ! You help me so much , My Mom died in January . I hope she is holding sweet Anna ! My Mom loved her own granddaughter so much so I bet she is playing games with your baby girl ! Thanks for th posts & making smile !!
Susan <suzw68@yahoo.com>
Morrison, Il - Friday, February 20, 2009 7:46 PM CST
Marlo, I thought what you wrote is so True. My Grandson Tanner Gilbert has shown me the important things in life. He has had Neuroblastoma and AML and is doing fine. GOD is working his miracles in him to show all of us the important things in life. I was one of the people you talk about getting upset over mundane things that in the big picture means squat. The important things are when a little guy calls you up and says listen Grandpa and he sings the ABC song and then counts to 10 and then calls the next day and counts to twenty. GOD shows us all the important things but sometimes we don't see it and we need a wake up call to understand what GOD is showing us. Thanks again for the message . May GOD bless you and your family. Bye
George P.Forkel <gforkel@nycap.rr.com>
Albany, NY USA - Thursday, February 19, 2009 8:27 PM CST
I want to remember the lessons I learned from Anna (and her wonderful family) too. Thank you for the important reminder.
Lisa <cojlisa16@aol.com>
- Thursday, February 19, 2009 3:07 PM CST
Thank you for that reminder, Marlo. Still reading and praying for all of you!
Julie Alexander <the5alexanders@sbcglobal.net>
Arlington, Tx - Thursday, February 19, 2009 9:33 AM CST
WOW ! Thanks! I needed that!!
shelley <Urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, February 19, 2009 3:26 AM CST
Marlo,
Loved your post today. I'm doing the same Esther study! Just yesterday I was talking to my group about the difference between annoyances and agony - I love the way Beth Moore talked about that. I loved that comparison on keeping things in perspective. You've known agony, I'm thankful that today the worst thing you're experiencing is annoyances! Love,

Carol Slover
- Wednesday, February 18, 2009 2:41 PM CST
Amen.
murton
- Wednesday, February 18, 2009 12:22 AM CST
Amen and thank you - that message should be broadcast, printed and shouted throughout this world. I have followed Anna for a long time - I have only stopped to write a few times, I am ashamed and sorry. Your messages and those that Anna made known through her honesty and sweetness and valient fight, are wonderful and heartfelt and necessary and right on point. So, I am going to make a point to say "hello" more often - just so you know I'm still out here appreciating Anna Jane and you.
Mary H <mch@herzogcrebs.com>
St. Louis, MO - Wednesday, February 18, 2009 12:22 AM CST
Marlo-
This was such a good reminder, and, I have to confess, brought tears to my eyes. So many times, I have been guilty of making the littlest inconveniences into huge trials and tribulations. Thank you for this entry! Broken bowls and lost socks are NOT the biggest issues in this life we will face, and we would do well to remember that. This was the best devotion I've read in a while! :)

Love,

Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Wednesday, February 18, 2009 10:31 AM CST
Rich (Richard as he is known as a grown up) was a heavy breather in college too...law school made him sleepy
Will Barnett <WillEBgood@yahoo.com>
Suwanee, GA USA - Tuesday, February 17, 2009 11:45 PM CST
*AN INVITATION TO ALL PRAYER WARRIORS*

The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Thursday,
February 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
all the children, teens and adults on our
prayer lists and our AngelWingsRemembers
families.

Thank you for joining us.

Sincerely. . . .Polly

Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers

Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
- Tuesday, February 17, 2009 5:13 PM CST
I did enjoy the movie, but I definitely liked the book better. Did you ever read The Wedding? (the follow up) You are right though...it is the true love that has someone who stays with you through throwing up kids, dusty shelves, and many empty tanks of gas...that is the true love that lasts.
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Monday, February 16, 2009 9:46 PM CST
What an incredible fundraiser! I kept going back and reading the numbers over and over to make sure I was reading them right. Praise God!
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Sunday, February 15, 2009 10:53 PM CST
Marlo,
You seriously need to write a book. I love this entry!
So inspiring and thought provoking, as usual~!
love, Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 11, 2009 8:08 AM CST
I hope the tornadoes we heard about on the news this morning did not harm you.
So funny that you posted on "get to". I had a "get to" moment on Monday morning when I was dreading getting ready for work, getting breakfast made, clothes ready for school, etc. Something I heard in the background, on the news, made me stop in my tracks and say "No, I GET TO get ready for work and do everything else I was just dreading". Thanks for the post, it reaffirmed how I've felt since Monday.

www.pollyspath.blogspot.com
GA - Wednesday, February 11, 2009 7:29 AM CST
Oh how I needed to hear that today!! Thank you for opening my heart to a new way to feel about taking care of my family.
Jennifer <jennimail3@juno.com>
- Tuesday, February 10, 2009 9:10 PM CST
Thank you, Marlo, for the "get to" story. I really needed that today!
Beverly Williams <bghw-osu@cox.net>
OKC, OK - Tuesday, February 10, 2009 11:58 AM CST
Hey Marlo - haven't signed in for a while, but wanted you to know that I do think of all of you often and send up a quick prayer when you all cross my mind. As you know, the baby camel has taken up quite a bit of our time. Squirt is still alive and "quackin'", but we have a new addition to our household that keeps her on her feet - Poppy. Our Poppy is a jack russell who looks like Wishbone and acts like a "jack russell terrorist!" To quote a favorite movie of mine, "She's cute, but she's a pill!" (Tom Hanks, You've Got Mail). I will be checking the website to find out when the big reveal day of Anna's room happens. Looks great! When life isn't happening "more abundantly", come out and visit Squirt and see Steeler (the baby camel).
Lynda Thackerson
Edmond, OK - Tuesday, February 10, 2009 9:45 AM CST
Praying for Abby and family tonight (and the Salamy family, too).
Love,
Pamela

Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Sunday, February 8, 2009 9:57 PM CST
Marlo,
I'm glad you posted the wish list -- it's nice to still have opportunities to help and to honor Anna in that way. I loved your last post -- I'm always passing your quotes along to someone.
Pamela

Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Thursday, February 5, 2009 9:13 AM CST
Marlo, thank you for sharing that quote today. It moved me to tears. I will definitely be writing it down in my journal. Thank you also for the Scripture. It encouraged me to strive harder in my quest for holiness. Love you!
Michelle Murphy
Yukon, OK - Tuesday, February 3, 2009 10:07 AM CST
This post blessed me. My prayer is as you said...May the nights of your (my) life lead to new life with Christ.
Thanks for continuing to post!!!

Elaine <joynmyhrt@aol.com>
Bedford, TX 76021 - Monday, February 2, 2009 2:54 PM CST
I love your latest post. So cute! Most men don't like "deep conversations," either, Will! :)
Becca <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, February 1, 2009 1:40 PM CST
Girl, I am gonna look for you on Facebook! I have really been moved as you write, but I think Facebook would be a good thing too, to transition. I still pray for you!
Marianne Pitchford <candmpitchford@hotmail.com>
Texarkana, AR USA - Friday, January 30, 2009 6:06 PM CST
Thank you for this post. I so relate. Even though my daughter went home to the Lord in '98 I still have those special things hidden away... memories that I still cherish, may bring a tear to my eye, or a smile to my heart! Your posts speak to my heart! I pray God's blessings on you.
Elaine <joynmyhrt@aol.com>
Bedford, TX USA - Friday, January 30, 2009 0:10 AM CST
I was going to be smart and say I have an easy recipe for bread, it's called Rhodes frozen rolls and cinnamon rolls but then when I Googled to be sure I had the spelling right I found out they have a huge list of bread recipes too. Go to www.rhodesbread.com. And please don't stop journaling here because you are such an inspiration and encouragement to so many.
Tricia Francen <t_francen@yahoo.com>
Mustang, OK - Thursday, January 29, 2009 12:35 AM CST
Marlo~
Please don't stop this. Not all of us have face book. and I check on your family several times a week... My husband and I pray for ya'll frequently. and we enjoy the updates.
Jodi

jodi
Naples, FL - Thursday, January 29, 2009 9:38 AM CST
Marlo, I have lots of bread recipe's and will send them to you. I love baking and the smell of fresh bread.
Nancy Williams <nancy0614@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, January 29, 2009 8:32 AM CST
Let me warn you...facebook is so addictive! But, it is lots of fun!
Denise <denise309@cox.net>
VAN BUREN, AR - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 11:33 AM CST
Don't leave us! I have not gotten into the Facebook thing. Maybe I should give it a try (not). Try to stay warm! Living in deep East Texas we don't get to enjoy the "real" winters and I miss it.
Nancy Williams <nancy0614@sbcglobal.net>
Nacogdoches, Tx. - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 8:37 AM CST
Facebook is SO much fun! I will look you up & send you a friend request. Have fun with it, but careful...it's addictive! :)
Liz Reeves <Lizreeves2@aol.com>
Whitehouse, TX USA - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 10:13 PM CST
Marlo-
Yay! I'll look for you on Facebook. And, yes, it IS addictive! :)

Becca Haas <beccajoanhaas@hotmail.com>
Gardner, KS - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 7:22 PM CST
I am coming to find you on facebook!! Get ready, it is addictive! :)
Jeana Conn <rayandjacksmom@yahoo.com>
Idabel, OK United States - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 7:08 PM CST
The throw-up bowl story is priceless. Reminds me of the time our daughter came to our bed in the night to tell us she was sick. She got sick and filled my husband's shoes with throw-up (they were on the floor near the bed.) I like the bowl idea better! Thanks so much for your congrats note on our blog. We're pretty smitten with these little ones. Blessings to you today!
Nikki
Carnegie, OK USA - Monday, January 26, 2009 6:38 PM CST
You have trained him so well in the throw up department. I have yet to teach one of mine that. Why do they always insist in the middle of the night in their beds? Anyway, I hope he feels better soon. And way to go for John...it was his lucky night! Oh, our Razorbacks had a terrible game yesterday too...
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR United States - Sunday, January 25, 2009 4:30 PM CST
I agree Marlo I don't like the ending to your story or mine for that matter, however I guess the story has not ended yet. Sadly for those reading it when the happy ending finally comes you will not be able to write it as you wont be on this earth anymore. Thats how I would like to see it anyway.
Love Sally (Mum to angel Conor)

Sally McAuliffe <sallymick@hotmail.com>
Brisbane, Australia - Thursday, January 22, 2009 2:52 PM CST
I love the analogy about God's character. I will admit, at times when things are rough, I find myself wondering why God is being mean to me. I know better, but it is my first impulse. But He is always God, whether times are good or not.

Are you going to publish your entries?

I don't like the ending either. I always delighted in reading about Anna's antics and her spirit. I know there is more beyond the story...when you are reunited in heaven. But for the here and now, I wish we could have chosen the ending (like those choose an ending books I used to read)...
Reba

Rebecca Janel Cloud <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR - Wednesday, January 21, 2009 10:43 PM CST
Marlo,
It was good to see you at the clinic along with Gail (Fletcher's mom) and Mitchell's mom. I felt so horrible after what I said when introducing her to Cody's girl friend I wanted to crawl in a hole. I know it must of been hard coming to the clinic and seeing so many families.
Everytime I see butter flies I think of Anna and I met another family whose child has the cancer Anna had.
Give hugs to all.
love,
Elena Briscoe

Elena Briscoe
Altus, OK - Wednesday, January 21, 2009 6:36 PM CST
Aw, but the ending has been written and it is a happy one. We're just a bit shy on the details right now. In the meantime, I am sorry for your pain as you miss your little butterfly. Praying for you every day.
Lisa <cojlisa16@aol.com>
Apple Valley, CA USA - Wednesday, January 21, 2009 5:42 PM CST
Marlo
It has been a while since I left you a note, but I want you to know you are still in my prayers. I do hope you are putting your journal entries together for a book of some kind. I just finished reading a book about another young person who went to heaven too soon. He was a bit older, 15 years of age. He had already served in other countries as a member of AweStar mission teams. I know Anna never physically visited other countries, but she touched lives all around the world. I am still praying for healing and new direction on your journey.
Susan

susan <fotocropr@cox.net>
- Wednesday, January 21, 2009 5:18 PM CST
Sounds like a good peaceful way to celebrate MLK day. Our students were off, but I had meetings all day so my kids had to celebrate with my mom instead. I remember losing a hamster a time or two...
Reba
www.thecloudchronicles.blogspot.com

Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR - Monday, January 19, 2009 10:04 PM CST
Just been catching up with you from your entries since the New Year. I about busted a gut laughing about the "provacative photography in a remote outdoor location!" Sounds like something you'd really be into!

Steven just got braces and is also embarassed by his mother....guess it's a 7th grade boy thing! Love you!

Debra <therountrees@verizon.net>
Coppell, TX - Sunday, January 18, 2009 9:48 PM CST
Apparently this phenomenon of know-it-all preteens and teens being embarrassed by their parents has been going on for some time now: "When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years." - Mark Twain
Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Saturday, January 17, 2009 10:18 AM CST
I LOVE all the kid stories. When Kyle was in middle school he had an upcoming school dance. I decided to practice my cool "moves" in the living room one day. He asked me what I was doing, and I just explained that I wanted to be sure to have all the new dance moves down before I helped at his dance.....(he didn't find this funny at all!)


**I stayed where I was assigned and spoke only to the adults close to me in a soft voice. (There were some moms walking around the kids as they danced taking pictures and trying to be everyones friend...........not me!)

He told me on the way home from the dance that he had a good time and I had done a good job.

Middle school is when the parents know less than the kids do. Our mother thought that I didn't look good in bright purple eye shadow in junior high, and I knew that I did! She also thought that I should wear more than my one favorite pink smock that I made at 4H club to school. (She was right about both things...........)

Shonda
- Friday, January 16, 2009 7:55 AM CST
I'm so glad to hear that you've gotten involved in GriefShare. We have the program at our church & it is such a major ministry to people who are in the midst of a horrible time in their lives. Awesome program!!
Liz <Lizreeves2@aol.com>
Whitehouse, TX USA - Thursday, January 15, 2009 11:00 PM CST
Ha Ha Ha, my oldest three are 11, 13, 15 and if only they knew how many times they embarrass me!! :) Oh, the pain of the preteen/teen years.
I posted a link to Abby's website on my blog - it would be interesting to know how many are praying for them!

Pam Barrow
Bassett, NE USA - Thursday, January 15, 2009 2:51 PM CST
I have been reading about Abby too. We adopted from Guatemala and I read several adoption boards and so many have mentioned Abby as a prayer request. You can also get updates on her via Facebook. I will be praying!
Reba <RRinks@aol.com>
Springdale, AR - Wednesday, January 14, 2009 8:54 PM CST
Funny!! It's always amazing how little things like sunglasses over glasses can totally embarrass our kids... Now passionate and seductive photos laying around the house for all to see.... ???? Yikes... I'm not going there!!!


shelley <Urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, January 13, 2009 11:52 AM CST
Ha! I've done the two pair of glasses routine before myself -- I am laughing so hard at how we are now old enough to be embarassing our kids. What goes around comes around. Love,
Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Tuesday, January 13, 2009 9:23 AM CST
FAVORITE picture of Anna Jane (besides one of the first you posted where she was sitting on the kitchen counter)! Love what you had to say in this post!
Stacy Christopher <mshchristopher@charter.net>
Fort Worth, TX - Monday, January 12, 2009 10:13 PM CST
I absolutely love the picture on the home page!
Nancy Williams <nancy0614@sbcglobal.net>
Nacogdoches, TX - Monday, January 12, 2009 3:21 PM CST
I just have to say - that picture of Anna is FANTASTIC!
Lyndsay http://findingjoyinthelittlethings.blogspot.com/
- Monday, January 12, 2009 2:24 PM CST
Marlo, I love that story, too. Knowing He is there even in the fiery furnace is what gets us through. It made me think of this verse, too - "But now, this is what the LORD says-- he who created you, O Jacob, he who formed you, O Israel: "Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the LORD, your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior." Isaiah 43:1-3
Pamela Niemann <ice4@sbcglobal.net>
Woodville, TX - Monday, January 12, 2009 11:45 AM CST
"waiting for you to get home", sounds like something our Father might say don't you think. I certainly don't smell any smoke when it comes to the Salamys, just the sweet savor of walking with Jesus.
Tricia Francen
Mustang, OK - Monday, January 12, 2009 11:34 AM CST
I LOVE that picture of Anna.

It is so easy to tell not only how much you love Anna, but how proud you are of your sweet child. Just as you are proud of her, God must be so very proud of you, for the wonderful mother you are, for the good person you are and for the graceful way you have handled the worst challenges a person can have to deal with in this life.

You are a good person Marlo.

RB <thegr8bolli@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, January 11, 2009 9:56 PM CST
Amen!!!! Thank you!!

Cindy (Joel's mommy,in heaven 1/23/07)
www.weloveyoujoel.blogspot.com

Cindy Morris <13blessings@sbcglobal.net>
Coyle, OK - Sunday, January 11, 2009 8:34 PM CST
A beautiful and poignant entry. Thank you so much for posting it to share with all of us.

**An Invitation To All Prayer Warriors**
The Prayer Warriors at Angel_Wings
are holding a Prayer Vigil on Monday,
January 19th, between 8-9 pm EST for
Anna. all the children, teens and adults
on our prayer lists and our
AngelWingsRemembers families.

Thank you for joining us.

Angel_Wings Prayer Warriors
AngelWingsRemembers


Polly @ AngelWingsRemembers
- Sunday, January 11, 2009 11:23 AM CST
Your entry about what you do all day was Great!!! "Wait for you to get home!" Music to Will's ears!!!

Your entry today about not smelling like smoke even though you feel the fire... AWESOME!!

Thanks for sharing!

shelley <Urtoncm@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, January 9, 2009 4:12 PM CST
Thank you so much for that story. Even though it is a familiar one to me, I love the points you made, ...I will go back and read this one again..and again.

Kim Waggoner <W8k@aol.com>
Kingston, TN - Friday, January 9, 2009 2:12 PM CST
Great entry Marlo, and I LOVE this picture of Anna. It is one of my favorites from your family pics. Precious!!
Much love,

Nicolle
OKC, OK - Friday, January 9, 2009 1:46 PM CST
Wow!
murton
- Friday, January 9, 2009 11:48 AM CST
I like your anwser to his question. My kids ask me sometimes what I do while they are in school. Sometimes it's not alot and sometimes it is. I love what I do and Gods plan for me. Thank you so much for sharing. I feel inspired and not so alone on my journey as a stay at home mom.
Michelle Beckham <m.r.beckham@cox.net>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Thursday, January 8, 2009 1:53 PM CST
Although you may not realize it, while Will is at school you also inspire and strengthen others. I've shared with your mother-in-law on numerous occasions how accompanying you on your journey has better prepared me to partner with my wife through diagnosis, surgery and chemotherapy.
John Dries <johnandsandydries@sbcglobal.net>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Thursday, January 8, 2009 7:44 AM CST
Awe, sweet entry!
Denise <denise309@cox.net>
VAN BUREN, AR 72956 - Wednesday, January 7, 2009 8:41 PM CST
I loved playing the high/low game the few times I had dinner with you all :)

Jennifer Linck <txgrluvsou@yahoo.com>
Moore, - Monday, January 5, 2009 5:59 PM CST
Praise God that while carrying us through the lows He so often lifts us to new and unforgetable heights. Praying that 2009 will bring the Salamys many new highs! In His unfailing love,
Tricia Francen <t_francen@yahoo.com>
Mustang, OK - Monday, January 5, 2009 9:12 AM CST
Do Wii Boxing. Work out some stress and work up a sweat. I just wish I could beat my 9yr old.
Will Barnett <WillEBgood@yahoo.com>
Suwanee, Ga USA - Thursday, January 1, 2009 9:16 PM CST
Hey Yoga Master,
Don't be too hard on yourself. I, for one, am blessed at how He has carried you through the past year. You have given Him glory and helped others along the way.
love you,
Lauren

Lauren Calabrese <laurencalabrese@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, January 1, 2009 3:03 PM CST
I don't consider you whining at all....I consider you surviving...just as you said. I wish for you and your family a bearable 2009!! Love, Matty's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/matty

Sandra Dubuc <Sandra_Dubuc@uml.edu>
Hudson, NH - Thursday, January 1, 2009 3:02 PM CST
Praying.
m.urton
- Thursday, January 1, 2009 1:56 PM CST

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