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Hello Wanda! Clair called me about you granddaughter. I need you and her mother to put this in Gods Hands totally.Same as we did with Kyler Blackmon and he is a miracle. I know you can agree with me on this.Wanda galactic is Gr. galakikos,milky
Desere Watford <rangermann86@yahoo.com>
mobile, AL US - Thursday, March 26, 2009 10:35 PM CDT

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Amber,

Thank You so much for thinking of my Joshua Today. Valentine's Day will never be the same to me again. I think it is the hardest day, because I picture watching the hearse drive slowly away from our long drive way with our baby. It has been four years today, and it seems like forever since I have held him.He comes to me sometimes in my dreams and I look so forward to them and don't want them to end.I know you understand, I think about your sweet Haley, so beautiful. Thank you again Amber for remembering, it means a lot. Please stay in touch. Love, Christine
Christine Young <travjosh@yahoo.com>
Troy, S.C. USA - Saturday, February 14, 2009 7:39 PM CST

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Thanks for sharing all of those raw emotions you went through..that is not something you normally share..all I can say is a big AMEN to you for yelling at those nurses...there is something that comes out in you as a mother..we really are like Mama Bears protecting their Cubs. I just had a co-worker ask me this week about you, how you were doing, etc...it kind of surprised me-it just goes to show how many people Haley touched that you don't even know. As I was reading this update all I could think about when you were talking about being home & being normal, is the month before we lost our precious angel, when Taylor & I came to visit & Taylor & Haley running back & forth 200 times & laughing & having a ball....poor little Haley probably didn't even have the strength but somehow she mustered it up to keep up w/ Tay. It justs showed what a little fighter she was. I treasure that day more than you know. That was a good day. I love you guys & miss you!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Saturday, February 14, 2009 7:56 AM CST

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Amber, Thank you for this update. You know how the saying goes, "You don't understand before you've been there"? You have given us a gift of being able to step into this emotion and situation, as if we were there. Reading what you are going through, and went through back then, has transformed me into a deeper, much broader person. I am sure I am not only speaking for myself, when I say, I thank God for you, as you (and Haley) have made huge impacts on many people's lives.
You may think you were being mean when you asked for your daughter to be able to eat at the Nurses Station, but I am utterly convinced that one of those Nurses, (if not all) still remember you vividly, and think of that moment.
Seeing a child fight Cancer, is something I will never understand. I can try to make it Godly to justify it more, but it still doesn't make sense.
I loved the videos of her, and I feel honored I got to see them. Those are precious memories!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
Holland, OH USA - Saturday, February 14, 2009 6:26 AM CST

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Hey Amber and Patrick,

This is Chris Coleman! The reason I'm posting today is because I need your help and prayers. We need the prayers of everyone who signs on to your caringbridge site. I have two former Bowsher students, Katie and Scott, who are married and just had a bouncing baby boy - Bryson.
Last week, Bryson wasn't doing well and went to the pediatrician...who felt something hard in his abdomen. Unfortunately, they have found a large tumor, which stems across the abdomen and is attached to his stomach, liver and kidney. Stage III Neuroblastoma
I'm sure this makes your heart break....as it does mine. These kids....only about 25 yrs old, are in such a state of shock....
Scott works for the railroad and was just hospitalized three weeks ago for Kidney Stones. Katie, a pediatric nurse at Toledo Hospital...definitely knows the situation...and is obviously not working at this time.
Bryson is on the HEM/OC wing at Toledo Hospital and getting ready to begin his chemo regimen. Please keep this lil man in your prayers. Maybe if you have information that could help Scott and Katie...maybe you could share it with them.
I'm sure you can relate to exactly what they are feeling right now.


Chris Coleman <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Wednesday, February 4, 2009 10:25 AM CST

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I don't look on this sort of thing.It has been just over one year since my daughter died of adrenal tumour.I gave birth,she did not last 24 hours.I just need to tell you.1.what a cutie.The balls to do this.I just wanted to make contact because I never have.3 I apologise if I have naffed you offf in any way.Think your daughter is the most cutest thing.L x
Loz
London, u.k. - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 7:12 PM CST

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Amber, your girls are beautiful! My heart aches so bad for you. You are such a wonderful person and I miss you so much! I think of you daily. Love you, Angie
Angie Brown <angela_brown@apria.com>
White Pigeon, mi usa - Thursday, January 22, 2009 11:58 AM CST

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Dearest Amber,
Your words are profound,your hurt is tremendous and your memories will live on forever.Please pray for Autumn Serenity Broderick 17 months old and recently diagnosed with stage 4 ( she is also on caring bridge)
regina
regina jenkins <reginaj@centurytel.net>
ofallon, mo usa - Wednesday, January 21, 2009 12:43 AM CST

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I can't imagine all that you've been through. It looks like you've were blessed then and a couple times since.
Kim Musolff (Regan) <zakandkim@yahoo.com>
Constantine, MI USA - Sunday, January 11, 2009 8:15 PM CST

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I am so glad to get this update. I have looked and looked for you on myspace & facebook but can't find it. Will you please give us your site??
Please keep in touch!
Danielle Spino <Yeller123@bex.net>
Syvania, OH USA - Sunday, January 11, 2009 6:42 PM CST

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Well said Amber...I was just thinking some of the same things. Shelli brought back copies of the videos that Barb made of past Christmases and it was so fun watching and remembering times when life didn't seem so complicated and everyone was together and happy. I miss you and I hope that your family had a very happy holiday season!
Jami Rowe <jami.rowe@hotmail.com>
Spokane, WA USA - Sunday, January 11, 2009 2:38 PM CST

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The girls are so big and beautiful. Sammy looks just like a miniture Haley. I am so glad you gave us an update. Keep in touch.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Friday, January 9, 2009 8:01 AM CST

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It is so good to see you write an update! You are always so sincere and hit home on the subjects you write about. I am glad to hear things are well. Those beautiful girls are growing so fast. I continue thinking of you often and praying for you at those times! Hope your new year is full of blessings as you SO deserve them!
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Friday, January 9, 2009 7:17 AM CST

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Hey Amber! It was so nice running into you at Olga's over the holiday season! Let's not let so much time go by without catching up and checking in!
Chris Coleman <chris.coleman@tps.org>
Toledo, OH USA - Friday, January 9, 2009 7:17 AM CST

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Amber-you are so right-THIS is the place for you...THIS is about you & Haley & your walk thru life...not a time for networking, finding out what classmates have been up to, etc....this is your home....I have to thank you immensely for this update, it was, as usual, what I needed to hear. I've been beating myself up for awhile now for not having some big, important career, for not going to college for that, etc...I guess it's the economy, I don't know-of course our materialistic side comes out & I can't help but think if I did have some high paying job, we'd be able to build our home instead of waiting, we could drive brand new vehicles, blah blah blah....it's horrible that society makes us think this way when ALL our children need is love & happiness, & those precious memories we are creating for a lifetime- not all the toys & gadgets and everything else out there. Thank you so much for putting it back into perspective WHY I stay home with my kids. Of course not everyone is able to do this...so once again I needed something to slap me in the face to realize how very lucky I am...I have never missed a darn thing w/ my kids since the day they were born. THAT is an accomplishment. My gosh you just hit it right on the head once again. I KNOW God uses you to speak to all of us out here in Haleyland. Thank you so much for your wise words once again, I really needed to hear them. Love you & Miss you bunches...I think we need to plan a trip to Kalahari soon.........we will be running out of time before you know it =(
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Friday, January 9, 2009 6:16 AM CST

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So glad to hear from you again!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 9, 2009 5:11 AM CST

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Hey Amber and family! I just wanted to check in and let you know you are in my thoughts. Hope you and the family are doing well.
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, mi usa - Tuesday, November 18, 2008 8:54 PM CST

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Amber - I thought you would love to hear this. My neighbor and is wife moved in just a few weeks ago. She just delivered a beautiful baby girl named Haley Rose!!. I told her about Haley and showed her the web page. She asked me to tell you that Haley is a beautiful child and she is proud to have named her baby Haley. She says she feels safer knowing that a beautiful angel named Haley Rose is watching over her Haley Rose. I made me cry, and am crying as I write this to you. Hope all is well with you guys. Please, please give an update, and update the pictures too! You are still in my thoughts and prayers constantly.

Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Friday, October 31, 2008 8:27 AM CDT

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We need another update soon please. Hope all is well with you guys
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, September 28, 2008 8:54 PM CDT

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http://www.myspace.com/amberniclole - it works
It took me awhile to find it too:-)
- Saturday, August 23, 2008 8:07 PM CDT

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Audrey,
I tried that as well, but no founds were made for that spelling either. I have also searched for her through her e-mail address as well, but nothing.
I don't know what else to do...
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Friday, August 22, 2008 5:29 PM CDT

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Merete,
Amber inadvertently (or maybe on purpose??) spelled her name amber niclole

Try that. :)
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, August 20, 2008 11:10 AM CDT

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Amber,
I can't find you on myspace, and when I search for your name, you do not show up. Do you have a different username?
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Tuesday, August 19, 2008 7:18 PM CDT

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Your family is in our prayers always. You and Haley have touched me in an amazing way. Thank you for reminding me to live fully.
Jenn Geiger <j2geiger@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 19, 2008 10:33 AM CDT

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Still praying for you! Hope your weekend was peaceful.
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Monday, August 18, 2008 9:54 PM CDT

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Sending love & hugs your way. You're in our thoughts.
Love, Chris & Sally & the kids, Gary, Nancy & Ryan

Sally Schlabach <supedupsal@charter.net>
Sturgis, MI USA - Sunday, August 17, 2008 11:10 PM CDT

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Amber,
Thinking and praying for you on the next few days, as you are faced with many memories of what was 4 years ago.
I just lost a very loved person in my life to death, and I feel empty and at a loss for words right now. Just know that I am here for you anytime you need me... I cannot even begin to describe the incredible strength and courage you have, and how amazing you are.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, August 17, 2008 9:23 AM CDT

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Hey sweetheart. What a wonderful update of remembering your angel Haley. My heart goes out to you and your family. I love and miss you. I think of you often and whisper a prayer for you. Stay strong, you have two more beautiful angels to share your love with. You give me such strength reading your journals, I love to feel the depth of feelings that you express. It teaches me to look past the everyday nonsense and pay attention to what really matters. Wish we didn't live so far apart. I send hugs and kisses. Take Care Love Ya April
April Geigley <aprilgeigley@yahoo.com>
Sturgis, Mi - Friday, August 15, 2008 8:55 AM CDT

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Hey Minchellas,
Thanks for the incredible update. Please know that I think of you often. I remember the day we came to your house..with Tootsie Rolls pops, a barbie doll and a fleece blanket. Kennedy and Haley had so much fun...and we'd hoped for more little impromptu playdates....but our time with Haley was cut short.
Kennedy and I speak of Haley often...
Thank you for sharing your daughter with us.
Christine Coleman <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Friday, August 15, 2008 8:01 AM CDT

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Wow....what a beautiful letter Amber....Haley was so lucky to have you as a mommy. My heart aches as much today as it did 4 years ago.....(how has it been 4 years?)I am thinking of you today & praying for you. You are such an amazing family, I am so blessed that God put you back into my life. It wouldn't be the same if I had not had the pleasure of knowing Haley Rose. You already know she changed my life forever. She did more in her 2 little years of life than most do in a lifetime. I am so happy that God has go on to truly bless your lives with 2 more beautiful, amazing girls. Give them big hugs & kisses today.....Love you guys!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Friday, August 15, 2008 6:47 AM CDT

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Speechless...that's how you always leave me! Of course tears are present with the speechlessness. My prayers are with you even more so over these next few days. The pain doesn't go away, we learn to endure and find peace and strength in Christ each new waking day! May you have that peace Amber! God Bless!
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Thursday, August 14, 2008 11:05 PM CDT

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Hi Haley.

You've been in Heaven about twice as long as you were on Earth, the way we figure time. To you, the last four years have been like the blink of an eye, because you understand eternity now. But you have been able to experience more wonderful things in those four years than we could imagine if we traveled this world for a hundred years.

We look forward to joining you and Mamie when our work here is finished. Then we will never have to say goodbye again.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Thursday, August 14, 2008 11:02 PM CDT

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Amber, Patrick, and Kids-Sending you my love and prayers as you go through this difficult time of year. I went to Disneyland last week and as soon as I saw Pooh Bear, I remembered how much Haley loved him. I always think of your sweet little angel when I see Pooh. Love Ya!
Jennifer Kincaid
Houston, TX - Thursday, August 14, 2008 11:00 PM CDT

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Again, you have brought me to tears with your inspiring words. I pray for you guys every day, and Haley too. She is still watching over you. You guys will especially be in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow. Take care.

Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, August 14, 2008 11:00 PM CDT

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**tears** Amber, my heart aches for you the same way it did this time four years ago, three years, two, one... The pain of what you endured never escapes my memory. I hope it helps to know that we still visit, wonder how you are, think of your angel girl and pray. So many of us promised we would never forget and we haven't.
God bless you, your entire family and most especially, Haley Rose.
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, August 14, 2008 10:20 PM CDT

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www.myspace.com/audfox

See you there.... :)


Audrey Fox <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, August 13, 2008 9:00 PM CDT

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Hi Amber,
So glad to see you in the book again.
Do I need to have a myspace account to view you, and / or add you?
Will be thinking of you this Friday......
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Wednesday, August 13, 2008 7:17 PM CDT

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I agree with the other comments & check this daily! Miss you!
Erica Early <Early.Erica@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 12, 2008 8:04 PM CDT

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Total agreement...we miss you Amber.
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, August 11, 2008 3:03 PM CDT

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More updates please, we need to see new pictures of Hannah and Samantha. Hope all is well - please give us a new update. We all still really care about you and your family and you are continuously in our prayers.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, August 9, 2008 11:34 PM CDT

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I am sad to see that this home-page has a huge decrease in activity.... Not many updates. and the guest book is getting less and less activity.
Lets not lose touch with each other..... I believe we all came together for a reason, and we should always remember our little girl in Heaven.
Have a continued nice summer. My daughter and I just returned home from Norway, and had a great time. Hope you all had a great summer as well!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Tuesday, August 5, 2008 9:46 AM CDT

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Hi Amber and family, Just wanted to let to know that I was thinking of you today since it would have been Haley's 6th birthday. Our family still keeps you, and so many others, in our prayers. Lord's blessings to you always. Love in Christ, Liz Schmidt
Liz Schmidt <lizs88@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, June 28, 2008 2:51 PM CDT

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Happy Birthday Sweet Angel.
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Saturday, June 28, 2008 12:01 AM CDT

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I check constantly for new updates. Keep them coming. Hannah and Samantha are so beautiful - we need to see new pictures also. Take care.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, June 17, 2008 6:34 PM CDT

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Lets all pray for Marissa Monroe, as she lost her battle with Neuroblastoma yesterday morning. As we all have learned from Amber, Marissa's family needs all the prayers we can muster during this difficult time. Marissa's link to caringbridge can be found on Haley's homepage.
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, June 14, 2008 5:46 PM CDT

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Thanks for the update Amber!
That Hannah sure sounds like quite the character!
I know your enjoying your time at home.
Take care!
Kim Wilhelm
Elkhart, IN - Monday, June 9, 2008 6:41 AM CDT

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Another update!!! Great. Love reading about Hannah-land. I bet it feels great to be able to fully enjoy the wonders of being a full-time Mom again?
Lets all pray for Marissa and her family tonight, as they are faced with the same storms the Minchella's went through not too long ago. My heart goes out to you all. Here I am worried about my daughter "HAIR", while there are parents out there losing their children to cancer!!! Shame on me!
Amber, you have taught me so much about what is important in life!!
Forever thankful to you, my friend.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, June 7, 2008 8:01 PM CDT

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So stinkin impressed with the gap or lack there of between updates!! Hannah sounds like a sweet, sassy pistol...my favorite kind of kid!!
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, June 4, 2008 7:05 AM CDT

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Dearest Amber: Jodie just sent me your link to caringbridge.org. I just read your "update". I really wish EVERYONE would read it. Life is just so short. We need to love one another and not take each other for granted. Thank you for your beautiful words. Sincerely....
Lynda
Temperance, MI USA - Thursday, May 29, 2008 11:59 AM CDT

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Hi Amber!!! Great to read an update. Can't wait for the more regular updates you promised. Hint Hint. :):)
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, May 26, 2008 4:59 PM CDT

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I think it is individual, how one deals with pain and losses. I am happy for you, Richard, that you were able to use time to heal pain. I really am. However, I only spoke from my own experience (although I have not lost a child to death) whereas I lost my two boys in an ugly custody battle. As time went by, I thought I would heal, in fact, I was convinced because everyone kept telling me this.
Instead, like I said in my note below, as each year passed by, I became even more aware of each moment, milestone, and events I was losing. I became aware of the closeness in heart that was fading away, right before my eyes, and I felt so helpless watching this take place, knowing I could not change it.
I would honestly have to say, I felt stronger at the onset of this change in my life, as I was convinced I would be ok. Back then, I took a deep breath, and instead of burying myself in grief, I looked at the positive side of things and kept pushing forward.
I just felt that I had to explain myself, as I don't want to offend anyone with my opinion.
We all deal with grief differently, and each situation is also different.
I have deep respect for everyone out there dealing with pains and losses, no matter how they choose to deal with it.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, May 24, 2008 6:54 AM CDT

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Hi Amber, Thanks for such a beautiful letter. Although I have lost some very close friends and realatives, I have not lost a child and therefore could never profess to understand how difficult that must be. From the beginning of this journey I've felt your pain from afar. We too listened to George Michael singing that beautiful song that Carrie Underwood sang at the CMA awards. ( Her version was even better) So moving and so true. One thing you mentioned in your update that I think I would dissagree with is that time does not heal. Time has healed the pain of my losses. And I pray it does for you two as well. I know it never goes away completly but I believe that over time "life" dulls the sharpness of that pain. I think that the greater the pain, the longer it takes. So it will take longer to heal, or at least dull a pain of the magnatude of losing one as sweet, innocent and beautiful as Haley was and will always be. Maybe it is different with the loss of a child but I pray it will get easier for you and Patrick. I only say this to offer hope. I'm sure you know that there are hundreds, if not thousands, that send you our love and prayers. Stay strong and try not to lose sight of just how short and precious life is here on earth. We're only here for such a short time. As I'm sure you already know, you must push back the pain everytime it comes into your heart and focus on the joy of what you do have as well as the appreciation of what you once had. For you are right, some times we just can't fix things and although we may not understand it now, we're all just part of a much bigger picture. Life isn't "fair" but it can be wonderful when we learn to appreciate it and all the little things that "life" does offer us to appreciate. Of course, I'm sure you already do as evident by your updates. So many times I've not written for fear of saying the wrong thing. I hope I did not offend you in any way, just trying in my insigificant way, to help and let you know, there's lot's of love and prayers out here, and all beaming your way. Your strength has been amazing and is motivational for the rest of us. Thank you!
Richard Scheufler <rs4812@att.com>
Lakeville, mi usa - Thursday, May 22, 2008 10:39 AM CDT

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You did it again, my friend....spoke the words we all need to hear, & be reminded of. Just this AM I was on the phone & Taylor told me I needed to spend some time with her & Macy.....out of the mouths of babes....even though I've always been fortunate enough to be home w/ my babies, I still feel like I don't spend enough quality time with them......just playing, being silly, etc etc...I always seem to be focused on what needs to be cleaned, what's for dinner, what time we have to be here, there & everywhere, I feel like I don't take enough time to just ENJOY my children....so thanks for the wake up call once again!!
I am reading what you wrote about Haley with a heavy heart......just yesterday I was thinking about my trip to come see you, & I just had this heavy pain in my chest thinking about how much fun Taylor & Haley would have on that trip, they would have so much in common by now, so much to talk about, so much to play & just have a ball together like they always did. It absolutely broke my heart, you are so right, we get wrapped up in life, & then you think about something like that & it hits you all over again like a ton of bricks. It will always be on our minds, since they are only 2 weeks apart. And for me the guilt is still there & I think always will be.....that mine is here & yours is in Heaven. I love ya lots & miss you........the prayers haven't stopped for you.....I can't wait to see you in just a few short weeks!!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Thursday, May 22, 2008 10:12 AM CDT

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Amber, you are so painfully right in so many of your words. We do not understand how it feels to lose a child before we have been in that state of mind, and loss of heart. It is hard for us to find the right words when we encounter a person whom lost their child. Sometimes, the best thing we can say or do, is "I am here for you, through silence and tears." Sometimes, the best thing to do, is just to listen.
Family members of my terminally ill patients sometimes want to talk about it, other times, just cry on my shoulder.
I have always felt that it is their earned right to chose how I should handle it. I feel honored that one wants to share this intense personal feeling with me, and it is not up to me how their grief should be displayed.
Who came up with the "myth" that "time-heals?" You are so right, Amber. It does not. If anything, as time goes by you become even more painfully aware of a gap getting wider, instead of closing.
All I can say to you, is: Amber, my dear friend, we are here for you whenever you need us, in any way that you choose.
We love you, and we hold you dear in so many ways. You have taught me so much, and for that I will always be grateful.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
Holland, OH USA - Thursday, May 22, 2008 9:22 AM CDT

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You are so right. I am home right now with Abby and I am more woried about the house work and getting read for camping than being with her. School starts for her in Sept. and then I won't have this time with her any more. Thank you for taking the time to open our eyes to what we neglect or don't want to see. You are a wondefull person and I am blessed to know you.
Lynde Bushre <lbushre@yahoo.com>
Saranac, MI - Thursday, May 22, 2008 9:06 AM CDT

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Miss you! How are those beautiful babies of yours?
Wanting a update please <Please@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 18, 2008 7:52 AM CDT

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Wow. I did not know you and your family went through losing a child to neuroblastoma. I'm so sorry. I now work at The Children's Medical Center of Dayton and see stories like yours all of the time. It breaks my heart, but it's neat to see how you have moved on and now have two beautiful daughters. Be strong. You are not alone. I enjoyed reading your story. God bless.
Betsy (Nottoli) Woods <bnottoli@hotmail.com>
Fairborn, OH - Tuesday, April 15, 2008 7:56 AM CDT

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It was great to see you, even if we didn't get to chat!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Monday, April 14, 2008 7:08 PM CDT

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Great to see you at the auction!!!! You look so great. If I looked that hot after 3 kids, I'd consider myself a walking miracle....
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Monday, April 14, 2008 1:32 PM CDT

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WOW!!! Those girls are beyond words, precious!!! You must be the proudest Mom!!?? Thanks for sharing!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, April 12, 2008 1:47 PM CDT

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Call me crazy...but that little Samantha looks like her eldest sister Haley!! Am I totally off?? I see it...

Amber, can you e-mail me your #...forget where you live! :)
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, April 8, 2008 8:33 PM CDT

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I LOVE THE PICS!! I am so proud of you and the family!
Danielle <Yeller123@bex.net>
Sylvania, OH USA - Tuesday, April 8, 2008 12:35 AM CDT

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Thinking about you guys today! Hope you are doing well! :)
Erica Early <Early.Erica@gmail.com>
Toledo, OH - Sunday, April 6, 2008 1:46 PM CDT

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PRECIOUS!!!
Tracey Korish <ttaaki6@verizon.net>
Portage, WI - Tuesday, March 11, 2008 11:19 AM CDT

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Hi
Went to the Great Wolf Lodge last weekend, and somehow I felt Haley presence there the whole time. I just kept thinking about how she was there having fun so close to the end, and I told Lexie all about this beautiful angel in heaven. It was so cute, because she asked if she could "pretend" Haley was there with her playing in the water.... I thought that was "ok", and I hope you don't mind, Amber?
Hope all is well in the Minchella household, and hope to hear from you soon!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Thursday, February 28, 2008 6:47 PM CST

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I am SOO glad to see an update and know you are all well. I am also glad that I am not the only one with a child in my bed!!! My philosophy is that one day they will be "too cool" for that and when they are 18 I will miss/wish I could cuddle and sleep with them still as they journey on in life! The pics are precious and they are both so cute. Have loads of fun with those girls...they grow up so fast.
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Sunday, February 17, 2008 8:54 PM CST

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Yes, an update!!! I LOVE the pictures of the girls and those eyes are all too familiar, beautiful!!! They are so cute truly precious! We miss you guys. When you are tired of the cold, come down and visit us!!
Love
Chris Champion <chrischampion2006@yahoo.com>
Trintiy, FL USA - Friday, February 15, 2008 11:25 AM CST

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YES!! An update!!! Love those!! Thanks a million, so much better then all those forwards that can sometimes be very lonesome and impersonal.
I can totally relate to Hannah sleeping in you guys bed still. I am ten times worse, as I not only only sleep away from my snoring husband, but I have Lexie with me in my bed. SHE IS 5 1/2, and truly should be sleeping in her own bed.
But then I figure.... she is my only child here with me, and my last child I will have. It is like I want to milk this cuddle stage out to the fullest.... and I am having hard time letting go of each stage. I know what I should do, but it is so difficult.
This month has been filled with open houses for Kindergarten, and I just cannot believe that next year she will be gone all day 5 days a week!!
We have so much fun together, and I love every second I spend with her.
She will do good though, and I am excited for her, I really am.
Your pictures are the cutest yet!!! Oh my Gosh!!! What little cutiest pies!!!!


Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Wednesday, February 13, 2008 2:29 PM CST

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You can't help but fall in love with the both of them! The pics are GREAT! I am so happy that life is moving forward on your end. Just becuase time passes does not mean you don' love her any less, she would be happy that you are happy. The love for Haley will live within you forever.
Love to all,
Danielle Spino <Yeller123@bex.net>
Sylvania, OH USA - Wednesday, February 13, 2008 2:25 PM CST

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Yea!!!! An update! So good to hear from you and read all the wonderful things going on in Amberland!!! You and all of your girls..I for one, can't imagine it. LOL I am assuming I saw this update before the new pics posted?? I'' be back to check them out. Take care and update frequently...even if it's just a paragraph...we want to hear from you!
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, February 12, 2008 8:45 PM CST

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Miss youuuuuu! :(
Erica Early <Early.Erica@gmail.com>
- Saturday, February 9, 2008 8:17 AM CST

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Sydney Lynn Welch, the baby girl whose CaringBridge page led many of us to Haley, earned her angel wings relatively close to the time Haley did. Her family updates very rarely and we like to give them a hard time about it :). Amber and Kelly, Sydney's mom, bonded throughout their unimaginable losses and there is a connection between the two families. Those of us that know the Welch's have referred to them on this site. Sorry for any of you who wonder what the heck we are talking about. :):)
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, February 3, 2008 10:30 PM CST

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Ok you guys..... what is the Welch Syndrome?
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, February 2, 2008 2:58 PM CST

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I agree Merete..missing the Minchellas. Amber, I do believe that you declared you do not have the Welch Syndrome...hmmnn..although a weak update...they did update last week. LOL Miss hearing from you!!




Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, January 30, 2008 12:19 AM CST

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Alright, are you guys still out there, or did we have a "wipe out?"
I am the last one that wrote on Amber's birthday, and I miss hearing from all of you, especially the stars of the show, Amber and family.
Jump back in, ya hear me!!!!

Are you all enjoying the bitter cold? It must be so hard to take Sammy out
every morning to the sitter in cold weather like this?
I only work twice a week, and I shiver under my blankets on those mornings.... Brrr

Well, hope to hear from someone..... I know we did not have a nuclear blast, so some of you must still be around?
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Friday, January 25, 2008 7:26 AM CST

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Hi all,
Happy Birthday to Amber today. I don't know how "young" she is today, but it is her B-Day, and here we go
HAPPY HAPPY!! You little Christmas Baby!!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, December 23, 2007 6:37 PM CST

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so you are back to work now? If so, hope you are settling in OK. I was curious to know if you know anything about a cookie/fundraiser for children with neuroblastoma. I saw it on TV one day and they gave a website if you wanted to purchase them or donate, but I lost the darn thing. You wouldn't happen to know or have heard about it?
Kiss those beautiful angels! They grow too fast.
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Thursday, December 13, 2007 8:50 PM CST

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Congrats and WOW, Thanksgiving at your house! You are brave! The girls are BEAUTIFUL, I guess they weren't going to let their big Sis out shine them. I am so thankful that Lisa R introduced me to you, we only met once but you and your family have had an impact on me. I find strength in you, so thank you. Happy Holidays-
P.S.
Please tell Lisa R to email me, I miss her!
Jenn Geiger <j2geiger@hotmail.com>
painesville, Oh - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:49 AM CST

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I'm so glad you don't have the Wlech Syndrome!! I miss your updates and how true it is the chaos of multiple kids. And at the same time, the joy that chaos does bring. Good luck on Monday. I hated going back to work. I was meant to be a stay at home mom, like I think you were. Sammy is such a doll and Hannah is looking so much like a little girl!!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Saturday, December 1, 2007 7:36 AM CST

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Sammi is absolutely beautiful. Hannah, as always is adorable. You have 3 of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen. Don't go as long between updates, we need to see pictures of the ever changing Sammy.

Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Friday, November 30, 2007 6:38 PM CST

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Well said, as usual!!! You have me cracking up! Thanks for starting my day with a laugh....I needed it.....hey we could've talked, I was up with a sick little Macy about the time you were writing this.....ahhhh Motherhood!!!! Miss you girl, glad to see the update. Good luck on Monday! I'm sure it will be hard but it will also be nice to establish a routine. Love ya!!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Friday, November 30, 2007 7:36 AM CST

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So glad to see an update, as I have been checking almost everyday!!
Beautiful words, beautiful pictures, beautiful family!
Good Luck back to work, and please keep us posted!
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Friday, November 30, 2007 3:12 AM CST

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Oh no, I think you go the Welch Syndrome! You have forgotten about us and haven't been updating. We miss you!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Thursday, November 29, 2007 9:10 PM CST

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Updates please
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, November 24, 2007 10:42 AM CST

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Happy Thanksgiving Minchella Family!! I hope you have a blessed 1st T-day with Samantha. Hannah, I'm sure, will be running all around the house. Just know that Haley will be and often does run around my mind and heart. I won't ever forget. :)

Love,
Audrey


Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, November 22, 2007 6:56 AM CST

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Hope all is well since there hasn't been an update in awhile. I am sure life is just busy. I can totally relate to that! Wanted you to know you are in my prayers and I hope you all are adjusting well. It can be very difficult adding a new little one into our lives. And of course our "society" makes it look so easy, so of course guilt sets in if we seem a bit insane! Hope big sister is adapting to the baby. When you are doing things with the baby such as feeding etc. try reading to big sissy this helped my kids b/c they felt like they were getting attention too!
Take Care and update when you're able!
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 8:18 PM CST

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Updates? Please?
Erica Early :) <Early.Erica@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, November 20, 2007 8:35 AM CST

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No update in ages... Gorsh... you'd think she had a new baby at home or something! ;)
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 11, 2007 7:56 PM CST

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ok, I hope everything is ok. It been over a month and no update...try to update soon, we miss you.
Danielle Spino <Yeller123@bex.net>
Sylvania, OH - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 6:42 PM CST

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Pictures, please!!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Friday, October 5, 2007 5:38 AM CDT

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Awwwww, she is beautiful!!!! She will fit right in with the rest of her gorgeous family!! Can't wait to see her in church. I will look for her in the Nursery.
Enjoy this precious time, as you deserve every second of it!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, September 29, 2007 8:48 AM CDT

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Don't worry, it does get easier. Hannah is still so young, but she will figure out that sissy is actually a good thing =) It took Taylor awhile, but she got it!! I remember how HUGE Taylor seemed to me after Macy was born, wow!! What an adjustment!! Well I just can't wait to see her in a couple of days. We are excited! It definately is harder having 2, this time you can't sleep when the baby sleeps because you have another little one running around- I think I've finally gotten used to the whole "no sleep" thing!! You sound like you are doing amazingly well, I'm so glad!! Well have a safe trip, and can't wait to see you Friday!! MUAH=)
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Tuesday, September 25, 2007 10:05 AM CDT

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...and the taunting continues. :)
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, September 24, 2007 5:39 PM CDT

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Wow! She is such a doll. It's really tough to get that first baby picture to look like your beautiful new baby really does and if that holds true for Sam, you are in trouble! She must be even more beautiful in person (but I'm not sure that could be possible!) She is beautiful!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Sunday, September 23, 2007 9:09 PM CDT

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She is so adorable. Congrats. I pray all is going well for the new family!
Sarah Barker <mabarker3boys@yahoo.com>
Buchanan, MI USA - Sunday, September 23, 2007 8:02 PM CDT

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No fair! Kristy is taunting! ;)
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Sunday, September 23, 2007 6:58 PM CDT

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We want pics too! :) I haven't been this eager to see a baby since Suri Cruise. LOL

Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, September 22, 2007 10:37 PM CDT

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Ok so I just went & looked at the pics of her....she is sooo beautiful! What a little peanut! You are right, she looks just like Daddy. This one is going to have her own look, I can already tell. Definately an Italian baby. Congrats, she is so precious & perfect!! I can't wait to see her in person!! Miss you! Get any rest you can.....
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Saturday, September 22, 2007 2:12 PM CDT

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WOOT! WOOT! If your post-pregnancy is anything like mine was, today you should be curled up on the couch crying your eyes out for no reason at all.

It goes away. :)

CONGRATS!!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, September 22, 2007 11:17 AM CDT

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Congratulations Amber & Patrick, If only you could have held out one more day, she would have been born on my birthday. That's ok, she's still a Virgo and we are wonderful people. I'm just happy that you and Sam(antha) are healthy. I've given her a nickname already. Can't wait to see pictures of your new bundle of joy and to hear how much Hannah loves her baby sis. Another job well done Haley.
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, September 19, 2007 9:35 AM CDT

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Yay!! Congratulations! I'm so excited to see pictures. I can't wait for the next update!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 10:26 PM CDT

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I KNEW IT!!! Just when my computer decides to "take a break", BIG news happens!! I am so happy to hear that we have a healthy baby girl!! Can't wait to see pics!! I bet she looks just as beautiful as her two little sisters!!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Tuesday, September 18, 2007 6:47 PM CDT

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Congratulations on your new angel! I pray you will make a quick recovery and be blessed by your new little addition!

Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 7:44 AM CDT

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Congratulations!

Haley must be pretty excited telling all the angels about her two sisters.

www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams
Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil>
Huntsville, AL USA - Monday, September 17, 2007 10:10 PM CDT

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Happy Birthday Samantha. Congrats Amber, Patrick, and Miss Hannah. Can't wait to see pictures of the little peanut. Take care and write soon
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Monday, September 17, 2007 9:38 PM CDT

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Happy Birthday, little Miss Samantha! We're so happy for you, and so excited to see pics of your new little sweetie!! What did Hannah think of baby sis? Congrats, and get some rest ;) Love, Curt, Michelle and kiddos
Michelle Barnhart <shelbarnhart@netzero.com>
Centreville, MI USA - Monday, September 17, 2007 8:11 PM CDT

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Happy Birthday to Miss Samantha!! :) Can't wait to see pictures! Congrats!!!
Erica Early <Early.erica@gmail.com>
- Monday, September 17, 2007 7:34 PM CDT

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Welcome baby Samantha!! Congratulations Amber and Patrick. So happy to hear everything is O.K. Thanks for the news Kristy!!


Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, September 17, 2007 7:22 PM CDT

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Congrats!!!!! How God has truley blessed your family. May he continue to do so now and forever!!!
Lynde Bushre <triplets@netpenny.net>
Saranac, MI - Monday, September 17, 2007 6:59 PM CDT

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Congrats! Welcome to the world Miss Samantha =)
Julie Burkey <julburkey@yahoo.com>
Sturgis, MI USA - Monday, September 17, 2007 5:16 PM CDT

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CONGRATS!! AS ALWAYS, IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS

Danielle Spino <Yeller123@bex.net>
Sylvania, OH USA - Monday, September 17, 2007 1:44 PM CDT

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Patrick & Amber-
What pleasant news! I hope you're all doing well. Nice to hear your family is growing. Take Care.
Rebecca Drewniak <becs.drew@yahoo.com>
Farmington, MI usa - Monday, September 17, 2007 1:39 PM CDT

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Congrats on the new addition to a Beautiful family.
Dawn Price
Toledo, Oh - Monday, September 17, 2007 11:02 AM CDT

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Have we... a baby?

:) If not, hang in there! She's coming!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Saturday, September 15, 2007 7:14 AM CDT

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Can't wait to hear your great news. Good Luck. :)

Audrey
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, September 9, 2007 4:31 PM CDT

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How Exciting!!!!!! Good Luck and God's blessings! Love Ya
April Geigley <aprilgeigley@yahoo.com>
Sturgis, Mi - Sunday, September 9, 2007 7:15 AM CDT

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Good Luck! I hope it all goes textbook!!!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Saturday, September 8, 2007 9:19 PM CDT

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Let us know as soon as you have that baby in your arms!!
Names? Weight? How the labor went, etc, etc. I love baby delivery stories!!
Where (what hospital) did you decide to have the baby?
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, September 8, 2007 2:42 PM CDT

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Yeaaa! :) Praying for you!!!
Erica Early <Early.erica@gmail.com>
- Saturday, September 8, 2007 1:34 PM CDT

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Good luck with the delivery, and I'll be thinking of you and your family.
I bet your little Hannah is delighted!!! Haley is sending her "drizzle" kisses from heaven today, for love and good luck.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, September 8, 2007 8:57 AM CDT

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GOOD LUCK SWEETIE, AS ALWAYS YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. I MAY NOT LEAVE COMMENTS OFTEN BUT I PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY EVERY DAY! EVERYTHING WILL BE JUST FINE, LEAVE IT IN THE HANDS OF OUR LORD AND ENJOY THIS TIME IN YOUR LIFE!

LOVE ALWAYS
Danielle Spino <Yeller123@bex.net>
Sylvania, OH USA - Friday, September 7, 2007 9:58 PM CDT

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You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you have an easy labor and delivery - and hopefully Patrick will be there. Take care and just rest.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Friday, September 7, 2007 9:35 PM CDT

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WOOOOO! HOOOO!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Friday, September 7, 2007 6:46 PM CDT

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Hi Amber :)
I will be thinking and praying for you and your family. Cant wait to see the new addition! Take care of yourself!
Kim Wilhelm
Elkhart, IN - Friday, September 7, 2007 5:32 PM CDT

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Hey Amber! We've been praying for you & the baby, & Patrick too of course. I'm sure everything will be fine......if Hannie was fine, this one will be too....ok I'm tired of calling him/her "this one"....any names?? Like I told you, if you need ANYTHING sweetie you know I will come in heartbeat if there is anything I can do. I'm NOT that far...keep us posted, we love you & miss you lots & lots!!! Can't wait to meet the newest Minchella!!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Friday, September 7, 2007 5:10 PM CDT

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Hi Amber - Hope all is well. Let us know when the new little Angel makes her appearance. Please let us know that you are ok - I keep checking almost daily for an update. Take care. Kim
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Friday, September 7, 2007 9:21 AM CDT

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Amber,
First of all, I wanted to let you know that you and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that all goes well as the time for your delivery gets closer.

I just wanted to let you know about a new on line group that I am starting. If you would be interested in possibly joining us (even after the baby is born), please email me for more information. If anyone who reads this guestbook entry would be interested in joining us, please feel free to email me for more information also. Here is a description of the group:
"In honor of the precious ones that are so bravely battling cancer or other serious childhood diseases and in loving memory of the precious ones who who have bravely earned their angel wings........
This is a group where parents, other family members and friends can come together and just be friends and share whatever they want to. This is a way to stay in touch with each other and also meet new friends. Here you can feel free to talk about the precious ones battling cancer, the precious ones who have earned their angel wings, other children in your family or ANYTHING else you want to talk about, just so it is family oriented".

Take care. May God bless you and keep you in His care.


Patricia <pbrown3978@hotmail.com>
Columbia, SC - Friday, August 31, 2007 6:10 PM CDT

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Angel Haley's family........
I have just met Angel Haley through an entry at Lillie Boyte's Caring Bridge site. I will be coming back here to Angel Haley's site to read more soon. For now I wanted to you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know from personal losses myself that there are times (even years later) when it still gets almost unbearable.

Patricia
Patricia Brown <pbrown3978@hotmail.com>
Columbia, SC 29223 - Sunday, August 26, 2007 7:07 AM CDT

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I saw your post on Lillie's website. www.caringbridge.org/visit/lillieboyte
It is amazing how much you and my sister, Michelle have in common. Her oldest daughter is named Hannah Grace. 2 weeks after Lillie was diagnosed with "the beast" my sister found out she was expecting. This has been truly a miracle in itself since she had never been able to conceive without months of fertility treatment. We all went back and forth on God's reason for this baby at this time. Was she going to be a match for Lillie, or was she simply to help heal a mother and daddy from the loss of a child. Eva Hope was born the end of June, only a week or so before Lillie had a tumor in her brain that ruptured and bled. We have since found out that Eva is a match for Lillie, but Lillie's cancer has advanced rapidly. My sister and her husband prayed fervently for the last 2 weeks for God to show them a CLEAR answer of whether they should try high dose chemo. After having to insist on a CT scan of her chest and abdomen, they got their answer. Lillie's cancer was now in her liver and both lungs. They will return home this week (a request that Lillie has been wanting for some time).
There will be NO MORE POISON FOR LILLIE. She will simply be home. Happy and loved on.
I pray for you a healthy baby and that you will be happy many more times than sad. I hope your Hannah Grace realizes what a blessing she is and the new baby will know also.
Many blessings to you and your family.
Lillie's Aunt Tammy
Tammy Smith <bordeauxsmith@yahoo.com>
Rougemont, NC USA - Sunday, August 19, 2007 8:00 PM CDT

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Hi Amber - I was away until today, but you and your family were in my thoughts and prayers on the 15th. Hannah is adorable. Can't wait to see pictures of the new little one!
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Friday, August 17, 2007 1:29 PM CDT

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Thinking of you today.
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 8:30 PM CDT

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Hi Amber,
I can't imagine what you're feeling and it's such a gloomy day. :( Like many others I am praying and thinking of you guys. Take this day to grieve however you need to.




Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, August 15, 2007 1:29 PM CDT

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Praying for you guys
Erica Early <Early.erica@gmail.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 9:20 AM CDT

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Thinking.. praying... feeling....
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 8:04 AM CDT

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Dear Amber and family,
I was just thinking about you the other day and the upcoming anniversary of Haley's death. A sad day for all of us, but I am ever so glad that I got to meet her. We will be in Toledo Saturday afternoon and may call and try to meet with you. Love, Aunt Cherryl
Cherryl Shull <cherryl220@yahoo.com>
Syracuse, IN 46567 - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 2:17 PM CDT

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Dear Amber,

We're thinking of you. Even though it's been 3 years, it doesn't feel that way in our hearts. Our biggest prayers and hugs to you and your family, and to Aunt Deb. Love Ya!
Sally and Family; Gary, Nancy & Ryan <JumpingMouse@netpenny.net>
Sturgis, MI 49091 - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 10:28 AM CDT

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Special prayers will go up to Heaven today for your whole family.
tracey korish
- Tuesday, August 14, 2007 7:46 AM CDT

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In my thoughts and prayers, as always.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Tuesday, August 14, 2007 4:08 AM CDT

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Hi Amber,
Our thoughts and prayers are will you all especially this week thinking of Haley, such a cutie pie!!
Hannah is really growing up, you two look so cute together! We can't wait to see the baby! We miss you guys and hope things are going well. Take care of that beautiful family! Love, Chris
Chris Champion <chrischampion2006@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 13, 2007 10:00 PM CDT

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Well, I just can't wait to see you in a few weeks & give ya a great big hug! You will be in our thoughts & prayers on Wednesday. I love ya girl! Keep your chin up. We are with you in spirit. So is Haley Rose.
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Monday, August 13, 2007 9:40 PM CDT

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Amber, you and your family are always in my prayers, especially this week and the month of August. Hannah looks so big. She's changed so much from when I saw her in July! You're looking beautiful as always! I'll e-mail you the pics that I took when I stayed at your house. I can never thank you enought : ) Miss ya!
Love, Jenny
Jenny Kincaid
Houston, TX - Monday, August 13, 2007 8:14 PM CDT

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Are things ok with the Minchellas?
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, August 12, 2007 4:46 PM CDT

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Hi Amber - Hope all is well. We need name updates!!!! Take care.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, August 8, 2007 10:30 AM CDT

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Miss you! :(
Erica Early <Early.Erica@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 7, 2007 9:00 PM CDT

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Hi Amber - Hope all is well. Checking daily for an update.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, July 24, 2007 7:03 PM CDT

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That's a deal, Merete. :)

Amber- what's new with you??? How are you feeling?? Baby names??


KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, - Saturday, July 21, 2007 11:41 AM CDT

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I feel so foolish, as I am the one who requested this photo sharing, so we could get to know each other better. My "mac" computer would not even do "tinypics". I kept giving me a file error. Maybe we can all meet sometime instead, and celebrate the friendship we all have with "our" Amber.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Friday, July 20, 2007 7:47 PM CDT

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Merete-

www.tinypic.com

:)

KP
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, Oh - Sunday, July 15, 2007 8:01 PM CDT

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This does not work for me. How did you do this, KP?
I have a "mac" and maybe I just cannot do this with a "mac?"
Lesson, please? (smile)
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
Holland, OH USA - Saturday, July 14, 2007 2:58 PM CDT

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Apparently, we can! :) Your turn!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Friday, July 13, 2007 8:24 AM CDT

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Hey you all,

Is there any way we can post pictures of us in this guestbook? I feel like I know you all, but I have no idea what you all look like..... Or maybe we could just all meet with Amber sometime? Maybe this Fall, as I think that would cheer up Amber a little on the three year anniversary coming up.
I would love to meet you all, and I can't be the only one thinking this???

Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Thursday, July 12, 2007 8:24 PM CDT

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Hi Amber,

I seem to remember you saying that you almost named Haley "Lexi". Why don't name her "Lexi?" That sounds good with Minchella. Alexa, Alexia, Alexis ( whichever version you choose) all sound with Minchella.
My little girl is "Alexa", as I think this is a strong and feminine name.

Merete <meretes@mac.com>
Holland, - Thursday, July 12, 2007 8:20 PM CDT

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Hi Amber - Hope all is well. Let us know about the name search so we can continue to help!
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Monday, July 9, 2007 10:17 PM CDT

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Thinking of you guys today & hope you are doing well! :)
Erica Early <Early.Erica@gmail.com>
- Monday, July 9, 2007 9:29 AM CDT

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I saw this poem and thought of you.......

Someone Who Will Watch Over Me by Carolyn Bryan

I remember how I used to watch over you,
Tried to teach you the things you should do.
I can remember the things I would say
As I tried to guide you along the way.

But since you've gone, and our lives have changed,
It seems the roles have been rearranged.
Sometimes it feels like it use to be,
Only you're the one watching over me.

I know in my mind that you're not here;
Yet there are times when you feel so near.
I've learned if I let the love flow through,
I'll get to keep a part of you.

For though death comes--the love never goes away.
Your presence is with me every day.
For my guardian angel you now will be,
And you're Someone Who'll Watch Over Me.


Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, June 30, 2007 5:12 AM CDT

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Hmm, lets see. If you want to keep the "H's" going.
There is "Hope", "Holly", "Heidi". I personally (in your case) like the name, "Hope" Hope Minchellla.....
If no "H's", I like Kylie, Kaila, Brianna (shortened "Bri") Ella, and of course Merete.... he he.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Friday, June 29, 2007 6:35 AM CDT

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We're all thinking of you and Haley today. Love you!
Sally & Chris
Nancy & Gary & Ryan
Sally (Morris) Schlabach <JumpingMouse@netpenny.net>
Sturgis, MI 49091 - Thursday, June 28, 2007 10:52 PM CDT

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Remembering Haley today and praying for you. Happy Birthday sweet girl.


Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, June 28, 2007 7:52 PM CDT

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Thinking of you... praying...
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, - Thursday, June 28, 2007 2:03 PM CDT

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Hello sweet Amber, and Happy Birthday Haley-Angel! What a party they are having in heaven today, I'm sure. Cheesey Pringles for everyone =) Although most of us cannot fathom the pain you continue to feel, please know that we will always be here for you to lean on, to vent to, etc. I believe your angel was put here on earth to make us all stop and realize just how precious and fragile life is...I know she's made me a better parent. We'll be sure to send a little prayer up towards her today to wish her a happy 5th. We love you!
Michelle Barnhart <shelbarnhart@peoplepc.com>
Centreville, MI USA - Thursday, June 28, 2007 11:51 AM CDT

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Amber,
Thinking of your little angel today, and your family.Happy Birthday Haley!
Christine Young <travjosh@yahoo.com>
Troy, S.C. USA - Thursday, June 28, 2007 10:18 AM CDT

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We are all praying for your family today. It goes without saying that if you need anything just call. We will be there!
Charles Welch <charliemack1073@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, June 28, 2007 9:16 AM CDT

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I agree, you have an exceptional way with words, I can't stop crying. Know that you, Patrick, and Hannah are in my thoughts and prayers today as you celebrate your little angel's 5th birthday. God bless.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, June 28, 2007 9:05 AM CDT

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Merete put it perfectly-you have a way with your words that makes us all feel your pain....although we can never truly understand it, we do feel like we are right there with you. Just know we are thinking of you & praying for you today. And we will celebrate Miss Haley Rose's very special 5th birthday. We miss you sweet angel.........
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Thursday, June 28, 2007 7:38 AM CDT

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Dearest Amber, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY HALEY!!
I am still crying, as I JUST could not imagine what you are describing. You are such a wonderful writer at expressing your pain, almost too good. I feel like I am there, going through it. My little baby will be 5 this August, and we have this wonderful Mother - Daughter bond, I would not be able to exist without her. Knowing you, and listening to your grief and pain has helped me be a better Mother, and I take absolutely nothing for granted anymore. I think I speak for many of us when I say that.....?
So as you celebrate Haley Rose today, know that we are all there with you in your thoughts and prayers. We love you, and little your little angel in Heaven.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Thursday, June 28, 2007 5:11 AM CDT

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Washington, Washington USA - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 12:57 AM CDT

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I, for one, think that Audrey needs her Emma. The odds of KP getting preggers anytime soon are about as good as TPS handing us all raises for no reason.

But she was right on one thing--- we need to know your choices!!!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Monday, June 25, 2007 6:23 PM CDT

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O.K., that's TWO for Emma! I'm still holding out hope that KP will bite the bullet, have another one, and use the name Brynn. Emma Minchella has a nice ring to it.
Now Amber, in order for this 'help with the name thing' to be effective, we need feedback from you. The number one method of feedback on a website is...an update. So, your June 24th post (today) should let us know if the names are yea or nay so we can get on with more. :):):)
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, June 25, 2007 5:44 AM CDT

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Hi Amber - Hannah is sooooo adorable. I agree with someone else, I love the name Emma - in fact I wanted to use Emma Shay. Keep us updated with the name quest and how everyone is doing.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, June 23, 2007 12:23 AM CDT

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Boston, Boston USA - Thursday, June 21, 2007 6:32 PM CDT

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I l-o-v-e the name Brynn!!!!!
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, June 18, 2007 9:59 AM CDT

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What about Hubert? Hortense? Hedeltha? Hibiscus?

BWAHAHAHAAAAHHH......

What is wrong with me? :) My baby girl (who incidentally also turned out to be a BOY) was going to be Brynn Rose. I have also always loved Claire and Gracie.

Just in case you were curious, the #1 name in the USA last year for girls was Belle. (Annabelle and Isabella, included) When I was growing up, we had 6 Jennifers in our class... I have a feeling that there will be MORE Belles.

It appears that many moms name their baby girls after Disney movies, actually. (Belle- Beauty and the Beast, Ariel - Little Mermaid, Jasmine - Aladdin)

Please dont name her Lightning McQueen.
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Monday, June 18, 2007 8:29 AM CDT

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What about Hubert? Hortense? Hedeltha? Hibiscus?

BWAHAHAHAAAAHHH......

What is wrong with me? :) My baby girl (who incidentally also turned out to be a BOY) was going to be Brynn Rose. I have also always loved Claire and Gracie.

Just in case you were curious, the #1 name in the USA last year for girls was Belle. (Annabelle and Isabella, included) When I was growing up, we had 6 Jennifers in our class... I have a feeling that there will be MORE Belles.

It appears that many moms name their baby girls after Disney movies, actually. (Belle- Beauty and the Beast, Ariel - Little Mermaid, Jasmine - Aladdin)

Please dont name her Lightning McQueen.
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Monday, June 18, 2007 8:29 AM CDT

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Don't worry, you will have another beautiful little princess that can wear Haley's clothes, even after Hannah grows out of them.
Good to see another update, have missed your wonderful words of wisdom. You have a gorgeous (growing) family.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Friday, June 15, 2007 9:07 PM CDT

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Hi Amber,
It was so nice to sign on today and see June 14th instead of April 1st!!! Good job. :):) Congratulations on your baby girl. Names...hmmnn..if you want to keep the 'H' thing going, there's Heather, Hope, etc. I personally would like someone to take the name Emma since my Emma is an Eric. LOL
Hannah will mature so much when the baby comes and you'll get to see her in a whole new light! DOn't worry...all three of my children have managed to maintain their 'center of the universe' title...it's amazing!!

I'm so happy that you've promised to update more frequently...gotta be honest with you though...I don't yet believe you!!!! JUST KIDDING (kinda).

Looking forward to hearing from you again soon. Take care and enjoy that last pregnancy.

Audrey


Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, June 14, 2007 10:45 PM CDT

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Amber

Thank you so much for talking with me today. I couldn't wait to call my husband to tell him. It's been 21 years since Ryan died and we have never met another parent who lost a child from neuroblastoma. After all these years.... Even though it brings emotions to the surface I'm so glad we talked and shared our joys and pain. I guess one keeps thinking, praying that medicine would find a cure for this terrible, silent cancer. Your strength is remarkable.

What a beautiful little angel you have. Although I have only seen a few pictures of Hannah, she looks alot like her sister! I'm sure she will love being the "big sis". She is just adorable!

May God continue to guide you and your family as he has guided our family thru the years. We continue to count our blessings each day and give thanks for the many, many blessings the Lord has given us. We look at our children and are so proud of who they have become and the choices they have made in their lives.

Take care and see you soon!




Janice Fitzenreiter <jfitzenreiter@gmail.com>
Napoleon, OH United States - Thursday, June 14, 2007 7:40 PM CDT

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Can we get a little update? I check everyday and even hit refresh every time, just in case. Would love to know how things are going!!!!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 10:11 PM CDT

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I talked to your mom again after work on Monday and asked about the sex of the new baby...congratulations. I think we all miss your posts. Your mom said she had forgotten to tell you that I just recently got married. Miss you guys.

Cherryl (Hayes) Shull <cherryl220@yahoo.com>
Syracuse, IN USA - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 7:24 AM CDT

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Hello? Hello?

*taps microphone*

Is this thing on??
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 6:31 PM CDT

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Amber, I still check you site everyday and miss all your wonderful stories. I hope everything is ok with you, Patrick, the kids, and the baby on the way. Please try to give us an update when you can. Always in my prayers!
Danielle Spino <Yeller123@bex.net>
Sylvania, OH USA - Friday, June 1, 2007 7:42 AM CDT

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Twins, or no twins? Haven't heard from anyone in Amberland in a long, long time. Missing your words and whispering prayers for your family! Let us hear from you when you can.
Stephanie
Colleyville, TX - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 2:37 PM CDT

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It has almost been two months since your updated laste time. Hope everything is ok?
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, May 20, 2007 7:09 PM CDT

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Happy Mother's Day Amber!! Haley sent sunshine for your day. Hope you had a good one!!
WHERE ARE YOU?? Miss you.....
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, May 13, 2007 6:05 PM CDT

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Happy Mother's Day!!


Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, May 13, 2007 6:29 AM CDT

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I agree with Merete! We miss you!! :(
Erica Early <Early.Erica@gmail.com>
- Monday, May 7, 2007 2:45 PM CDT

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Time for another update!!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, May 6, 2007 6:51 AM CDT

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Amber and family,
Back from our visit in Norway, I was really hoping to see you in church Saturday. Wanted to see that growing belly on your beautiful little self. I bet you look gorgeous as always. I had all kinds of trouble in Immigration this time, poor Lexie had to be hauled away with me, like we were some kind of terrorists or something. My Green Card somehow had been reported stolen, so they had to finger print me and interview me, to see if I was the correct person. It worries me that somebody had tampered with my records without my knowledge, as this is how the "incorrect people" get access into this country. I was sweating bullets, and Lexie almost fell asleep as the time difference had us at 0400 am in the morning at Detroit Airport.
Anyway, was hoping to see some new pictures of sweet little Hannah, and some of Haley wearing the same outfits as her little Sister. Love those!!!!
My favorite one of Haley, is the one on her swing where she fell asleep......
It was probably taken this time of the year....?

Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, April 29, 2007 7:18 AM CDT

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Well Happy Birthday 2 days late Miss Hannah!!! Hope you had a nice birthday, I'm sure you got spoiled rotten! You go girl! Amber, please give her a hug & kiss from us. Sorry I'm late, but we thought about her on her 2nd birthday!!! WOW, where did those 2 years go??? Hope you are feeling ok. When do we get to find out what this little one is?? Miss you lots!!!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 9:30 AM CDT

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Congratulations on the new addition!! We are so happy for all of you!!!I think some day you might grow right out of your house!!lol Sorry we didn't get to see you on vacation, maybe next time. Give Hannah a Happy Birthday hug from us! She looks so much like Haley with those big beautiful eyes...what a doll!!
We miss you guys. Hope to see you soon. Love to all, Chris
Chris <chrischampion2006@yahoo.com>
Trinity, FL USA - Monday, April 23, 2007 9:20 PM CDT

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So nice to see you last night.
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Sunday, April 22, 2007 12:06 AM CDT

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God said, “I know you’re hurting
And filled with grief and strife
The loss of such a loved one
Cuts deep, just like a knife.”

I said, “It’s unrelenting
The sadness and the woe
This pain so cruel and ruthless
How could you ever know?”

God said, “I’m full of mercy
My arms are open wide
Come here to me for comfort
Get rid of earthly pride.”

I said, “I cannot do that
You took my child away
My world once bright and cheerful
Has turned to skies of gray.”

God said, “I really love you
Your loss, I truly share
I’m here to eas yourburden
This weight, I’m going to bear.”

I said, “Dear Lord have mercy
On ended knee, I pray
I cannot stand this torture
I fall apart each day.”

God said, “You’ll find the answers
You mustn’t be so weak
The truth is found in scripture
It’s there that you must seek.”

I said, “How could you know, God?
Your heart is made of steel
You’ll never really understand
The heartache that I feel.”

God said, “I know you’re hurting
I see you’ve suffered loss
You lost your child to cancer
Mine died upon the cross.”

By Marilyn Ferguson, 2006

KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:39 PM CDT

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She is too darn cute and you're officially making all of us blessed with only boys jealous.... RIGHT AUDREY???
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, Oh - Saturday, April 7, 2007 10:36 AM CDT

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Wishing you a Blessed & Happy Easter!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, April 7, 2007 0:37 AM CDT

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Love the pics!!! Keep'em coming!!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Monday, April 2, 2007 6:55 AM CDT

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Congrats on your news! The new pics are adorable. She sure has some bright and stunning eyes like her sister!
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Sunday, April 1, 2007 9:41 PM CDT

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WOW...Hannah has Haley's exact eyes...it is amazing! She is so beautiful!! And SO big!! How is she gonna be 2 already? I love the booger story, I immediately thought of Haley when I got to the "Ewww Gross" part...I can still hear Haley saying "Sick...Gross...." =) It was great to hear from ya, keep writing & bring on the pics...we love 'em!!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 8:04 PM CDT

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APRIL FOOL'S!!!!

If I was pregnant again there would be trouble in the Fox Den. LOL

Thought I'd get your attention though...now how about an update to answer the other questions. :):):)
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 9:29 AM CDT

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How are you feeling? Is it going to be an October baby?? I am pregnant too!!!!
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 9:28 AM CDT

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I agree with KP! Checking daily for an update!!! :)
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Saturday, March 31, 2007 8:40 PM CDT

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It's been too long! I'm still waiting for pics of Haley in that blue snowsuit, as promised! :) And now it is 60 degrees out! LOL.

Seriously, I hope we get to see you at the Blue Skies and Butterlfies auction this year on April 21!!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Friday, March 30, 2007 5:08 AM CDT

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Congratulations! No words can express how happy I am that you and the Welch's keep receiving continuous blessings. God is so GOOD! What a wonderful Blessing Haley sent you. She had her sissy tell you! Hannah is so cute. She looks like a little doll. I can't wait to see more pics of her.

Congratulations Again!!
Love ya, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, March 6, 2007 10:24 PM CST

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Moscow, Moscow Iran - Friday, March 2, 2007 3:50 PM CST

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Congratulations Amber and family! Very exciting news! We will be praying and thinking of you! Hannah is getting so big! You have a beautiful family!
Kim Wilhelm
Elkhart, IN USA - Friday, March 2, 2007 8:45 AM CST

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Congratulations Amber!! How exciting! I am so happy for you, Patrick, Hannah and sissy Haley...who I'm sure is feeling like such a big sister. :):)

Take care-

Update more often!!! :):)

Audrey
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, February 28, 2007 6:36 PM CST

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CONGRATULATIONS!!!! My jaw about hit the floor when I read that. I for one didn't expect an update and sure as heck didn't expect to read that!!! How absolutely awesome!

Love the new pictures too!!!
Monica S <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Monday, February 26, 2007 10:03 PM CST

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Congrats! I am so excited for you and your "growing" family. Glad you had a good trip to Florida too. Can't wait to hear more about this journey.
Stephanie - Mom From Colleyville, TX
- Friday, February 23, 2007 4:48 PM CST

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Congrats! How exciting! The kids have all grown so much and Patrick is as handsome as ever. I think he'll be a great looking old man someday, but not for a long time. I hope we can get together and talk sometime soon.
Love ya'll,
Gail
Gail Kidwell <gailkidwell@yahoo.com>
Holland, Oh US - Friday, February 23, 2007 6:28 AM CST

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Congrats! How exciting! The kids have all grown so much and Patrick is as handsome as ever. I think he'll be a great looking old man someday, but not for a long time. I hope we can get together and talk sometime soon.
Love ya'll,
Gail
Gail Kidwell <gailkidwell@yahoo.com>
Holland, Oh US - Friday, February 23, 2007 6:27 AM CST

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COngratulations Minchella Gang! What an absolute blessing!
chris.coleman <chris.coleman@tps.org>
toledo, Oh USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 2:15 PM CST

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Congrats on your news!! How exciting!
Julie Burkey <julburkey@yahoo.com>
Sturgis, MI - Thursday, February 22, 2007 10:58 AM CST

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What a blessing!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, February 22, 2007 7:56 AM CST

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Congrats!!!! This totally made my morning! :) The pictures are cute, as always! Praying for a healthy baby!!
Erica Early :) <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Thursday, February 22, 2007 7:50 AM CST

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CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am dying here...did your home phone # change? I called all the numbers I have for you & got somebody different each time....we need to talk girl! Wish I could give ya a hug right now....Congrats again & take care of your cute little self....love the new pics too, Hannah is getting cuter by the day! Love ya!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 3:49 PM CST

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CONGRATS!!!!
I must have a sixth sense, as I could tell you were glowing last time I saw you!! You looked so happy and beautiful, just like a pregnant woman should!! You just had that glow!!
I am so happy for you two!! Hoping for a boy this time??
Any estimated due dates yet? Hmm, we all know what an awesome month December is, but it sounds like it will be more like October or November?
Halloween baby!!??
Thanks for the update!! Can't wait to see the growing baby-belly!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 3:14 PM CST

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Hey Minchellas!! Where are you??? Your fans are patiently waiting for an update & pics. I hope you had a wonderful vacation, you certainly deserved it. I just wanted to say "Hi" & "I miss you!!"...talk soon......
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Tuesday, February 20, 2007 6:09 PM CST

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HAPPY VALENTINE'S SNOW DAY!!!! It's been a month, time for an update.
Leonya
- Wednesday, February 14, 2007 6:51 AM CST

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Hello Minchellas, You should be unpacked from all of your sun and fun...

Where are those pictures??? Hoping to hear from you soon and see some pictures of Haley & Hannah.
Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, February 12, 2007 6:13 PM CST

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Just reminding you that your fans would LOVE to see those promised pictures! ;) Hope you vacation was (or will be?) wonderful! Praying for you guys!!
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
Anderson, IN - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 7:22 PM CST

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Sydney Dungan is www.sydneydungan.com :)
:)
- Wednesday, January 24, 2007 8:27 AM CST

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Hi Amber,
You don't know me but you have been in my prayers as I have followed your Caring Bridge site. I have also been following and praying for Sydney Dugan and Lucas. Do you know how they are doing? I never wrote down their Caring Bridge site because I would just press the link from your site. I would greatly appreaciate finding out what their sites are and how they are doing. May God richly bless you and your family and thank you in advance.
With prayers,
Kathy Fuhrman
Kathy Fuhrman
Shelby Twp., MI United States - Sunday, January 21, 2007 8:41 PM CST

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I'm An Angel Now

One night I cried to Jesus
As I sat beneath the tree;
I looked into the open sky
And hoped He'd answer me.
"I'm lost dear Lord ...
I've traveled far but still I seem to roam;
Please light the way and lead me, Lord,
I need to get back home."
I told him of my burdens
And of the sadness in my heart;
That from His gracious love
I'd never felt so far apart.
"Why did you take my child, Lord?
I cannot understand!
No longer can I touch her face
Or hold her tiny hand."
"I'm angry, Lord ... I'm missing her,
I'm drowning in my sorrow;
Please help to heal my yesterday
And face each new tomorrow."
It was then I heard her gentle voice
And felt her presence near;
How I wanted so to hold her
As I cried another tear.
She said "Mommy, I'm an angel now,
My spirit will be free;
I'm an angel now in heaven,
So please don't cry for me."
"I was chosen by our Lord above
And now I'm in His care;
Whenever you need me,
Just look inside your heart; I promise I'll there."
"No one can ever take away
Our bond with one another;
For I'll always be your precious child,
As you will always be my mother."
"So if you cannot find your way
Or the road to home seems far;
Just look up to the Heavens
And I'll be your guiding star."
She said, "Mommy, I'm an angel now,
My spirit will be free;
I'm an angel now in Heaven ...
There's no need to cry for me."
~ Author Unknown ~
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Tuesday, January 16, 2007 7:50 PM CST

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Oh Amber...Penelope breaks my heart! I don't know how you stay so strong and support families through something you still struggle with. You are an amazing person. I will pray for her and Marissa as you requested and I'll do it in honor of Haley and Sydney who taught me SO much!!

God Bless-

Audrey

Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, January 15, 2007 6:45 PM CST

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Hi Amber,
Was thinking about going to church today instead of tomorrow, and I was just thinking about you and if you and your beautiful family would be there..... Logged onto your website, and there it was, another update!! Love those!!
Sounds like a trip down south could not have come at a better time, as we are preparing for our winter-storm coming up this weekend. Yuck!
We have been spoiled so far this winter, but I knew it would catch up with us sooner or later. Glad to hear everyone is doing great, and I can't wait for the pictures!!!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, January 13, 2007 12:34 AM CST

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Hey girly, you have been on my mind lately so it was good to check my email this AM & see you had an update. I am so glad you are taking a vacation, you deserve it. It has been a long time since you & Patrick have gotten away. It will certainly be interesting flying with 4 kids...my prayers are with you! HA HA!! Hey, when are you gonna take a vacation to Sturgis & see me? You think Florida sounds better than that?? Come on....ha ha. Anyways I got kinda sad the other day thinking about how we haven't chatted on the phone in a long time, and how I used to be able to pick a day & come see ya when you weren't working...can't you quit your job just for me?? Am I sounding selfish in this entry?? hee hee anyways I would go back to work too if I could...just can't leave Macy yet. We are soooo wanting to build our house, we picked out the plans for sure so we are excited. Jason says there is no way we can go through another Christmas in this house, I'm sure you can imagine the girlies both got spoiled. I hope to see you soon, maybe Jason & I will just have to come over for the day on a Saturday or something & spend some time with you guys. Miss you lots & love you more!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
Sturgis, - Saturday, January 13, 2007 10:42 AM CST

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Any more pictures? Love looking at those beautiful little girls...
Have been struggling with the flu since Christmas, and now I am just 10 stomach flu's away from my goal weight..... he he.
Anyway, just checking in. Hope all is well?!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:51 AM CST

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Happy New Year to the Minchella's.
Hope it brings many great memories for the year and the future.
Merete Francis <Meretes@mac.com>
Holland, - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 4:48 AM CST

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Amber, I just wanted to let you know it was good seeing you at the school and talking. I hope you had a good christmas and birthday. I love the picture of Hannah she is a huge bundle of love. I guess i can also now say Happy New Year! I take a huge test for school Thursday then after that i should have some time to talk, if you get time give me a call.
Kelly Shafer <kelsahfrwp@yahoo.com>
White Pigeon, mi usa - Monday, January 1, 2007 3:44 PM CST

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Sand Fleas
written by Susan Larson

“The death of a child takes you places you’ve never been before, not only in terms of emotions, but in terms of awareness of all that is. I liken the experience to playing on the shore with your friends and complaining about an occasional bite from a sand flea. It’s painful and annoying, but at least everyone else understands how you feel when you’re bitten.

Then one day, a wave grabs you and pulls you out into the ocean where you are bitten by a shark. You feel pain you never imagined could exist. And you’re alone in unfamiliar territory. When you get back to shore, you try to explain your pain to your friends, but the worst pain they can imagine is being bitten by 1,000 sand fleas. That’s all they know. There is no way to explain it to them.

But it’s not just the pain you can’t explain. While struggling under the water you’re suddenly aware that there is infinitely more to life than what we see on the shore. You see the ocean floor with coral reefs and rock formations, things you had never before imagined. You have tapped into the vastness of creation to a higher degree.

And again, there is no way to adequately describe this vastness you see and feel. You have nothing to compare it to.

You have a true sense of a greater dimension, and you know that the loved one you miss is out there. You also know your loved one is not lost, but has only gone before you to a place more beautiful and vast than those on the shore could ever imagine. Yes, you still get annoyed with the sand fleas, but you now realize how trivial they are. And even if your friends don’t understand you, you know there is Someone greater out there who does.”


KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 1:11 PM CST

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Hey sweet girl! Sorry i didn't get a chance to get on here & wish you a Happy Birthday. Sometimes I'm amazed I even remember to take a shower...ha! I hope you & your beautful family had a wonderful Holiday Season. I got your card on Saturday, and it almost brought tears to my eyes-Hannah is so breathtakingly beautiful-she honestly looks like a little dolly, she's so perfect!! I can't wait to see her, or YOU again. It is long overdue!! And you need to meet Miss Macy. Hopefully we can plan something soon cuz I miss ya girl! Take care & give sweet Hannah a kiss from us, and we will blow Angel Haley a kiss up to Heaven!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Tuesday, December 26, 2006 12:08 AM CST

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Merry! Merry! Hope your day was awesome and today is not too awful, trying to recover from the mess of it all. LOL.

Thinking of you always!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:02 AM CST

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Merry Christmas Amber. I hope Hannah brings all the joy into your home for her and her sissy.

Love,
Audrey


Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, December 25, 2006 7:26 PM CST

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I knew your birthday was coming up, but i couldn't remember the exact day. Happy Happy Birthday!!!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, December 24, 2006 0:04 AM CST

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Sending many Birthday and Christmas hugs to you and your family.
Sarah Barker <mabarker3boys@yahoo.com>
Buchanan, MI USA - Saturday, December 23, 2006 3:10 PM CST

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, AMBER!!!!!
Make it a great one!!!!
Have a very Merry Christmas as well!!!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, December 23, 2006 10:54 AM CST

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I didn't get a chance to send out cards, so I just wanted to wish your family a Blessed & Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, December 21, 2006 9:32 PM CST

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Most of us faithfully remember and capture our children's "first." In Karen Kingsbury's "Let me hold you longer", readers get encouraged to recognize and savor the often fleeting "lasts" - these milestones often go unrecognized.
I have two teenage boys, which one is almost 18, and if I could go back in time, I would love to hold on to them a little bit longer.....
I know this is long, but trust me, it is truly worthwhile.

LET ME HOLD YOU LONGER - BY Karen Kingsbury

Long ago you came to me,
a miracle of firsts:
First smiles and teeth, and baby steps,
a sunbeam on the burst.
But one day you will move away
and leave to me your past,
And I will be left thinking of
a lifetime of your lasts....

The last time that I held a bottle
to your baby lips,
The last time that I lifted you
and held you on my hips.

The last night when you woke up crying,
needed to be walked,
When last you crawled up with your blanket,
wanted to be rocked.

The last time when you ran to me,
still small enough to hold.
The last time that you said you'd marry
me when you grew old.
Precious simple moments and
bright flashes from your past -
Would I have held on longer if
I'd known they were your last?

Our last adventure to the park,
your final midday nap.
The last time when your wore your favorite
faded baseball cap.

Your last few hours of kindergarten,
those last days of first grade.
Your last bat at LIttle League,
last colored picture made.....

I never said goodbye to it all,
your yesterdays long passed.
So what about tomorrow -
will I recognize your lasts?

The last time that you catch a frog
in that old backyard pond.
The last time that you run barefoot
across our fresh cut lawn.
Silly scattered images
will represent your past,
I keep on taking pictures,
never quite sure of your lasts....

The last time that I comb your hair,
or stop a pillow fight.
The last time that I pray with you
and tuck you in at night.
The last time that we cuddle
with a book, just me and you.
The last time that you jump in our bed
and sleep between us two.

The last piano lesson
last vacation to the lake.
Your last few weeks of middle school,
last soccer goal you make.

I look ahead and dream of days
that I haven't come to pass.
But as I do, I sometimes miss
today's sweet precious lasts...

The last time that I help you with
a math or a speeling test.
The last that I shouted yes
your room is still a mess.
The last time that you needed me for
a ride from here to there.
The last time that you spend the night
with your old tattered bear.

My life keeps moving faster,
stealing precious days that pass.
I want to hold on longer -
want to recognize your lasts.....

The last time that you needed my help
with details of a dance.
The last time that you asked me for
advice about romance.

The last time that you talked to me
about your hopes and dreams.
The last time that you wear a jersey
for your high school team.

I've watched you grow and barely noticed
seasons as they pass.
If I could freeze the hands of time,
I'd hold on to your lasts.

For come some bright fall morning
you'll be going far away.
College life will beckon
in a brilliant sort of way.
One last hug, one last good-bye,
and quick and hurried kiss.

.....One last time to understand
just how much you will be missed...

.....I'll watch you leave and think how fast
our time together past.
.....Let me hold on longer,God,
to every precious last.






Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, December 16, 2006 8:55 PM CST

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I nevr know what to write that can compare to the impact that you create with your words. I just want to thank you again for always reminding me to LIVE. The last quote I read in the journals really hit home. Being vulnerable is scary but better than being alone inside because you don't want to feel the pain or hurt that life may hand you. In doing so you also don't really feel the joy and love that surrounds you. You are stil one of the most amazing women I know. So thank you for touching our lies with raw emotion and giving us strenght to LIVE.
Jenn Geiger <j2geiger@hotmail.com>
Painesville Twp, Oh - Monday, December 4, 2006 9:07 AM CST

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Ok, I know I have written in things on this website that has caused me to get in trouble at work, but reading the last couple of entries in this guestbook, I just have to write my humble work experiences in, as I feel they might be helpful.
Through my work, I have experienced and seen children die, and children are not supposed to die, especially before their parents do. This alone , makes the experience for the parents (even us therapists) more tragic and traumatic than the death of an older person. The death of a child represents in a symbolic way the death of "the self" for the parents. I have seen this very painful emotion one too many times. Symbolically, the parent will die along with the child, only to survive in a damaged state with little or no desire to live today, or plan for tomorrow. Amber, you are amazing. Do you even realize how much strength God has given you to be able to plug away, and be the Mom, the wife, sister, friend that you are?
Unfortunaltely, we often take our kids for granted. Although one can "imagine" the loss of a child, how often do we have to have such thoughts? Even so, such thoughts bear little resemblance to reality. I see parents whom have lost a child through death, the reality lingers forever. The stark reality hits them each morning when they wake up and realize that this was not a horrible dream - their child was "really" dead. This is a common emotion I hear from many previous children's parents, if I see them again somewhere. I shed a tear everytime I hear this. I know I cannot fix their pain, but I think that sometimes we can offer our support in other ways, such as "hearing and trying to feel" their pain and loss.
Be available to listen, and do not feel weird about saying that you are sorry for their loss. Allow these parents to express grief without holding back. Listen, if they want to talk about their child, as much as often as they want to.
Encourage them to patient with themselves, not to expect too much of themselves, and not to impose any "shoulds" upon themselves.
Talk to them about the special endearing qualities of the child that has died.
And we as the medical staff are always reassuring of the care their child is receiving, but very careful not to say anything that is obvioulsy not true and proven.

"Only people who avoid love, can avoid grief. The point is to learn from it and remain vulnerable to love"
- John Bratner.
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, December 3, 2006 5:22 PM CST

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I think I'm in complete shock from the the Welchs updating and then I see that you did too! :) I always look forward to your updates and love love love the pictures!! You guys are so amazing and I'm so grateful for you! :)
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Thursday, November 30, 2006 7:07 PM CST

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Oh my gosh, can Hannah get ANY cuter? She just looks like a little dolly in her Christmas dress. She is so beautiful. I am so thankful that you have her.

Sweetie, I have been worried about you not grieving ever since you lost Haley. Don't worry about everyone else around you, YOU as a mother feel a pain that no one else can. I am sure you even grieve differently than Patrick, the kids, the grandparents, etc. I think mothers just grieve differently. You have to get angry sometimes, you have to just let yourself cry hysterically because if you don't get it out, it's not healthy for you. Of course you will never be over it, it will haunt you til the day you die. But what you have done with your grief is amazing. Most people would shut off from the world & you just keep truckin' on....I, like so many other people admire you so much for the way you have handled everything, and for your strength & perserverence. I've said it a million times, I don't know how you feel, I can not sympathize, and I hope I never have to- all I can do is keep reassuring you that I love you & I am here for you. I will never go away, and we will never "pretend" that it never happened. We have to keep Haley alive however we can. It's the only way anyone can heal. Well sorry if my thoughts are jumbled, I think post pardom does that to you!! I am saying a prayer for you just like I do every day, for God to keep giving you the strength you have so bravely shown. I really hope to see you soon...I think we both need a hug! Love you girl!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Thursday, November 30, 2006 9:22 AM CST

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I loved loved LOVED how you said "losing a child is like loving a child." SO TRUE.

I am always thinking of you and your baby girl. I'd give anything for you (or Kelly) to have NEVER had to walk this journey... but at the same time, I am SO THANKFUL for the lessons I've learned from you.

Never does a day go by where I do not savor the moments I have been given and ask God to help you do the same.
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, November 30, 2006 7:44 AM CST

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Hi Amber,
Loved entering your life once more. Its been a long time. Hannah is darling. She truly is a gift from God. I think of you often. All who see the painting of Haley in my portfolio comment on how she looks like an angel. Certainly her little life counted for something very good in this ole world.
With Love,
Sherry
Sherry Nuijten <sher1042@aol.com>
Leesburg, Fla USA - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 7:33 AM CST

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Happy Thanksgiving, from our home to yours!!

Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Thursday, November 23, 2006 9:50 AM CST

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Happy Thanksgiving Minchellas.
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, November 23, 2006 7:53 AM CST

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Hello Minchella's! I am very happy to hear that Hannah's platelet count has risen. Amber, The Halloween pictures of you and Hannah are so cute. The picture of you walking behind Hannah is so touching. I know that Haley was walking with both of you. I hope you have a HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, November 20, 2006 8:41 PM CST

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THANKSGIVING THOUGHTS



Thanksgiving Day is a day for giving thanks over and over: to repeat our thanks for the life our loved ones lived on earth; to recapitulate our thanks for all the good of all the years we lived with them and now live without them. Thanksgiving is a holiday, by definition a happy day. It is a family-and-friend holiday. If it’s our first Thanksgiving, or our second or third, with “one too few” we may resent the whole idea of being thankful. However, most of us are more than willing to talk about the ones we have lost, and if that’s all we can manage, that’s all we should try to manage. How we grievers long on the special days to have our loved ones acknowledged. Their absence. Their presence. To have others listen as we share our memories of them. To listen as others share their memories. Well, that sad-glad sharing, too is thanksgiving.

From “Making it Through the Toughest Days of Grief” by Meg Woodson


KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Sunday, November 12, 2006 8:56 PM CST

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Amber- thanks for the update. The pictures are incredible...and very moving.

Kennedy and I were just speaking of Haley and Sydney this morning. Kennedy saw the beautiful pink sky and sunrise- and said "Look mommy - Haley and Sydney sent that beautiful sky!" Kennedy speaks of Haley and Sydney all of the time.
Hannah sure is cute.

Chris <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Monday, November 6, 2006 7:51 AM CST

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Whoo-hoo! Adorable pictures AND a update!! As always you made my day, I am so blessed to get to read your story. Hannah is such a cutiepie!!! Have a great week! Praying, :)
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
Anderson, IN - Monday, November 6, 2006 7:00 AM CST

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Amber,
I want to see these pictures so bad!!! And I cant get them!!! Can you send then to my regular mail, please? meretes@mac.com. Glad to hear from you again!!
Love you!
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
Holland, - Monday, November 6, 2006 4:59 AM CST

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Glad to hear that Hannah's PLT count has gone up. The pics are adorable too. That last one really got me... I automatically reflected on how God follows us in our shadows in every step and place we go. And amazingly He does this everywhere and with everybody!
God Bless!
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg , MI USA - Saturday, November 4, 2006 10:17 PM CST

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Hi Amber: Hannah is just tooooooooooo cute. Sorry I haven't had a lot of time to write. We have been having some difficulties here with my son. I am sooooo glad Hannah is doing much better. What better angel to watch over her than Haley. I will try to write soon. Love Kim
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, November 4, 2006 5:17 PM CST

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How adorable! I knew before looking at the pics when you said you painted her nose, I knew exactly what she was......how neat that she got to trick or treat for sissy since she never got to that fateful night. You look adorable too, are you sure that outfit is appropriate?? Hee hee just kiddin'....you really are an angel! I miss ya & love you lots! Hope it works out to see you soon!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Saturday, November 4, 2006 12:24 AM CST

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More pictures please!!!
(smile)
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Friday, November 3, 2006 7:06 PM CST

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*not so patiently* waiting for new pictures. :)
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, November 2, 2006 1:40 PM CST

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*patiently* waiting for new pictures! :D
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 6:57 AM CST

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Thinking of you. Although I can't relate to your situation completely, I can relate to the blood being drawn in a child and that is NOT a fun experience. There is just no reasoning with a small child.
I look forward to seeing the new pictures!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Friday, October 27, 2006 8:22 PM CDT

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Just from this website alone, it is evident that you have been that kind of friend Kristy. :)

Amber- I think of you so much more than my entries(or lack thereof) reflect. Life can get so (too) busy and time slips away so fast. It's hard to find time for God, family, friends, work... Please know though that as I struggle with more tasks/less time...Haley is a constant reminder to enjoy life no matter what!!! Your website has been a source of perspective and I hope you feel my prayers on the many days you don't read my words. Tell Hannah her fan club says hello!!!

Love
Audrey
Note the e-mail change :):)
Audrey <thefoxden5@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, October 21, 2006 9:51 AM CDT

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Whoa....that entry that Katie posted is SO powerful, & SO how I've always felt....I feel so guilty for having a healthy child, one that I know reminds you of Haley....I'm almost scared sometimes that it's too painful for you to see her or hear about her, because I know it makes you think of Haley & what she would be doing. But at the same time I know it helps you to heal a little bit....I can never even pretend to imagine an inkling of what you have gone through, I have just done my best to be there for you guys, pray for you, and grieve with you. I hope I've accomplished whatever it is that you have needed me for. Because I will ALWAYS be here, you really do find out who your true friends are when you have a tragedy...the real ones stay, no matter how difficult it gets. I hope I've been that friend for you. Miss you & Love you lots!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Friday, October 20, 2006 4:42 PM CDT

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Hi Amber,
Just read your latest entry and wanted to let you know that Julian, my 8 year old had ITP at age 2 1/2. She had bruising all over her, even petichia bruises in her mouth. We took her in and they found out she had ITP. She went through blood draws for months and was also in the Oncology wing at Toledo Hospital twice for overnight visits to get IV medicine to boost her platelets. Just wanted to let you know that she is fine today and has never had a relapse since then. The doctor told us that children as young as her and Hannah most likely will only get it once. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers, what a scare for the two of you. Take care and I hope all goes well from here.
Love,
Lee Ann
Lee Ann Denker <leedenker@aol.com>
Monclova, OH USA - Friday, October 20, 2006 8:14 AM CDT

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Hi there,
Good to hear from you again, Amber, but sorry to hear about your big scare!! I can imagine that must have shook you up pretty good. I have not lost a child to cancer, but just working in the field, I get scared with "any" little sign or symptom of something I treat others for. "I have to quit reading the history in the charts!!" It is just too sad.
Glad to hear that the diagnosis is treatable and curable in any case scenerio!!
Still praying for you!!
Can you note my e-mail address change, please, so I will get notice of the updates? I don't want to miss out...... (smile)

Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Wednesday, October 18, 2006 5:29 PM CDT

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OKAY, THIS WAS WAY TOO GOOD NOT TO SHARE WITH YOU. :) I READ IT ON A WEBSITE AND THOUGHT YOU SHOULD TOO.

"The gap between those who have lost children & those who have not is profoundly difficult to bridge. No one, whose children are well and intact can be expected to understand what parents who have lost children have absorbed & what they bear. Our children come to us through every blade of grass, every crack in the sidewalk, every bowl of breakfast cereal. We seek contact with their atoms, their hairbrush, their toothbrush, their clothing.

Our friends will change through this. There is no avoiding it. We grieve for our children, in part, through talking about them & our feelings for having lost them. Some will go there with us.

Others cannot.

The excruciating & isolating reality that bereaved parents feel is sealed from the nature of any other human experience. It is a trap - those whose compassion & insight we most need are those for whom we would never wish these feelings.

And yet, somehow there are those, each in their own fashion, who have found a way to reach us & stay.

Those who add to our comfort.

They have understood, again each in their own way, that our children remain our children through our memory of them. Their memory is sustained through speaking about them & our feelings about their death. Deny this & you deny their life. Deny their life & you no longer have a place in ours.

We recognize that we have moved to an emotional place where it is often very difficult to reach us. It is sometimes moment to moment. We remain "strong" for a host of reasons even as the strength saps our energy & drains our will. We resent having to act normal, yet we dare not do otherwise.

People who understand this dynamic are our gold standard. Working our way through this over the years will change us. Extreme experience changes one extremely.

We know we will have made progress when it is no longer so painful to be normal. We do not know who we will be at that point or who will still be with us.

We have read that the gap is so difficult that, often, bereaved parents must attempt to reach out to friends & relatives or risk losing them. This is our attempt. For those untarnished by such events, who wish to know in some way what they, thankfully, do not know, read this. It may provide a window that is helpful for both sides of the gap."

I GOT GODBUMPS AS I WAS READING IT!
KP
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
toledo, oh - Wednesday, October 18, 2006 3:39 PM CDT

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Praying for you...
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, October 18, 2006 8:47 AM CDT

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It was great to hear from you, I am so sorry you've had a scare with Hannah......how difficult that must've been! We will be praying, I'm sure everything will be fine but I can just imagine how out of your mind with worry you were....Anywho, loved the Hannahland stories, what a hoot! I can't believe how much she has already changed since I saw you guys last. Call me soon- before ya know it the baby will be here!! Yikes! Miss you guys, it was great to hear from you!!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Monday, October 16, 2006 3:23 PM CDT

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Miss you!!
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Sunday, October 15, 2006 3:46 PM CDT

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Amber,
Can you send updates to my new and ONLY e-mail address
meretes@mac.com

I can go into Haley's website still, but I do not get the notification of updates,
and I don't get the new pictures.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Saturday, September 23, 2006 7:21 AM CDT

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Amber,
I did visit the Thomas Family website, and I couldn't even get through their heartwrenching story at work without crying my heart out. I heard a song on the radio the other day by Casting Crows "I will praise you in this storm".
.....every tear I cry, you hold in your hand...... and once again, I say "Amen", ..... and it is still raining.....? This song really says it all! Listen to it, if you get a chance.

My heart gets so torn especially when I hear yours and Christi's story, and the other night I was reading the Bible to Lexi, and there was Jesus making a girl that had died, rise from the dead!! Why not Haley and Christi? I get so mad at Him sometimes, but I still praise Him cuz only "He" knows our purpose, and we are not in control, although we would like to be.
In my prayers I asked Him to please help me understand why taking these beautiful girls was necessary, was the pain inflicted upon them and their families really truly necessary?
I don't think I ever will make sense of it all...... and my heart once again goes out to you, the Thomas family, and everyone else out there whom is battling this beast. One day, we will win!
I encourage everybody to donate to research, to find a permanent cure for this monster whom attacks little innocent children on a daily basis.
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Thursday, September 21, 2006 6:20 PM CDT

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Today was the first day I got to wear my scrubs with Haley's picture on them and everybody kept commenting on how gorgeous she was!!! :) There is no doubt in my mind that Haley's story will give strength to many many people for years to come!!! Thank you for allowing me to display her sweet picture! Praying for you always!
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
Anderson, IN - Thursday, September 21, 2006 7:45 AM CDT

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Just a reminder that I am praying for you and also the Thomas family you had mentioned. One day He will wipe away our tears!
Trena Horn <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg , mi usa - Wednesday, September 20, 2006 8:06 AM CDT

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Heart wrenching. :( I did visit the site and pray for Christi and her parents. Amber, the nausea I now feel can't hold a candle to what that site must do to you.

All I can say is I am truly sorry that you can and do relate to the horror of neuroblastoma.

No other words come to me...
Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Monday, September 18, 2006 6:04 PM CDT

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My apologies, my niece was diagnosed in July 2003. My bad.
Melissa <mahasselbach@yahoo.com>
Vale, OR USA - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 2:43 PM CDT

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My apologies. My niece was diagnosed in July 2003. My bad.
Melissa <mahasselbach@yahoo.com>
Vale, OR USA - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 2:42 PM CDT

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Amber,
I follow your story and long for your updates. My niece was diagnosed in July 2002 at the age of 2 1/2. You can visit her site at www.caringbridge.org/mi/gabriella. She just started kindergarten last week. I am asking that you and all who check this site to pray for a little gal named Christi Thomas. You can visit her site at www.christithomas.com. Your little Hannah is so very precious and does look just like her sissy. Thank you for being "you". Your a very special person. She is very lucky to have you:):):)
Melissa <mahasselbach@yahoo.com>
Vale, OR USA - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 2:39 PM CDT

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Amber - Hannah is sooooooooooo cute. The pictures are so adorable. I found a bunch of pictures in a drawer that I don't remember seeing (of course I did see them before). Karly was about 18 months and Jonathan was 3. They were so cute. Now they are 17 and 14 1/2. Enjoy your time with Hannah, and Haley - it goes by too quickly. Take care, and as always you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, September 13, 2006 0:05 AM CDT

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AMber- thanks for the photos!

I always remember Haley's big blue eyes...they were like deep blue seas. And Hannah is adorable! I'm sure you've enjoyed your summer with her! She is too cute! Hope all is well with the Minchella's
chris <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Monday, September 11, 2006 8:28 AM CDT

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Amber,
Hannah is darling! I thank God for blessing you with a beautiful little girl to love and care for. I miss you and hope to talk with you soon.
Gail
Gail Kidwell <gailkidwell@yahoo.com>
Holland, OH - Monday, September 11, 2006 7:56 AM CDT

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Your updates always make my heart happy! :) And I adore the pictures!! Praying for you guys always!!!
Erica Early <emearly@anderson.edu>
Anderson, IN - Sunday, September 10, 2006 1:47 PM CDT

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WOW!! Those eyes!!! Beautiful does not even describe it good enough. What a gorgeous family.
Thanks for the pictures, always love them!!
Merete <meretes@mac.com>
- Thursday, September 7, 2006 10:15 AM CDT

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Love the new pics.......how BEAUTIFUL are your girls?!?! What little cutie pies....how did Hannah change so much over the summer? She is so beautiful....just like sissy. Those eyes.......piercing......... watch out world!
Hope you are having a good Holiday weekend & enjoying some family time...we think of you often...Take care!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Monday, September 4, 2006 12:45 AM CDT

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I hope you were able to see the beautiful rainbows that Haley and Sydney sent to us on Thursday! They brought tears to my eyes. Hope to hear from you soon!
Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, September 2, 2006 12:51 AM CDT

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Hannah sure is a blessing from God isn't she? I am glad to hear He gave her the character/personality for that difficult day! I know each anniversary has/will be very hard. I will continue to pray He blesses you day to day!

Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Friday, August 25, 2006 1:10 PM CDT

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Hey there...sorry it's been so long, but I did want to share with you that Lexi, Jack and I shared some cheesy pringles last week, and once again, your angel came to my mind =) So everytime we indulge in some of those yummy chips, we think of Haley and smile! As always, you are in our thoughts and prayers!!
Michelle Barnhart <shelbarnhart@peoplepc.com>
Centreville, MI USA - Monday, August 21, 2006 1:44 PM CDT

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Thank GOD and Haley for Hannah!
Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, August 17, 2006 9:49 PM CDT

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Amber-

Thank you for sharing your day with us. Kennedy and I stopped by to see Haley yesterday- lots of beauty out there. We were on our way home from the dentist...saw the balloons from the street....so we had to stop.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, your pain....your daughter!

You are so strong.

You're in our thoughts and prayers...
chris <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Thursday, August 17, 2006 8:49 AM CDT

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Bless Hannah's little heart! You give her a big huge hug from us & tell her Thank you for helping Mommy & Daddy make it through the day. It sounds like you had such a special day, just you with your family, & I think that is how it should be. I'm glad you have all those videos to watch of Haley, I often wonder if I don't have enough videotape of Taylor "just in case" something ever happened...(Trust me everybody, Amber has TONS of videos, I've seen alot of them & are they ever precious!!!) Of course, it's never "enough" videotape, but aren't you so glad you captured all those special moments & you can watch them whenever you want? The one that comes to my mind is Haley & I believe, was it a Cicada?? And she kept saying "Sick"....too cute! She was truly a girly girl. Bless her little heart in heaven.
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Wednesday, August 16, 2006 4:07 PM CDT

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Amber~
I am so glad that Hannah helped you make it through the rough day! She is so beautiful and I love your stories. It is so great that you felt Haley's presense yesterday, I know she was having her little tea-party in heaven with her cheesy pringles and all of her loved ones smiling down at you. I hope today is a better day. I am thinking of you and praying for lighter days for you and Patrick. I am so glad that you have all of the movies to watch over and over again, that must be healing in some way also!
Love you!
Alicia Robinson <aliciarobinson2004@yahoo.com>
Adrian, MI - Wednesday, August 16, 2006 11:51 AM CDT

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Haley,
I remember the day the Nurses came to me and said there would a little girl coming in the next week for simulation, and that she would be treated on my machine. My daughter was the same age, and I felt so sad. I wasn't sure if I could do it. I know cancer is an awful thing, but it is just different when it is a little child. So unfair and terribly saddening.
Then I saw you, and your family. So beautiful, and with a litte tiny voice. My heart belonged to you from that very moment, as I fell hard for you. I wanted to "rescue" you away from a cancer department, as you surely didn't belong there. You were still in diapers, had a babyface still. You should have been waking up birds and flowers, silly morning games, laughter and morning prayers..... but instead, you were in a cancer center, and I wanted so badly to take that scene away. Then I saw the team from anestesia that had arrived to put you to sleep for the mapping of the area to be treated...... and I could still hear your voice. My gut felt sick, and I wanted to cry. I actually had to go away and recollect myself before I could enter the room and treat my next patient. All of a sudden my job did not make any sense to me, and I felt angry at it all.
That was May of 2004, my first meeting with you. I will never forget you, and you are always going to be a big part of my heart.
You fought your illness so bravely with those big eyes and beautiful smile..... You were only 22 months old, yet you taught me more than most people in my life ever could.
Dance in heaven, be happy, until you once again are united with your loving family.
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Wednesday, August 16, 2006 9:22 AM CDT

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I remember 2 years and about a month ago when I first saw your website, first 'met' you. Haley IS sooo adorable and I was thinking 'there is NO way this beautiful baby girl will die', that you were wrong regarding how sick she was. Then you went on vacation, and I saw all those adorable pictures, she didn't look sick to me in those pictures! Every day I logged on to see how you were doing.

Then the day you updated that she had passed away. It was complete shock. And I don't know you, had never met Haley. My body was numb, I couldn't believe it!!! I was so very sad for you.

It's been 2 years and I am still drawn back to Haley's beautiful smile, and Haley's beautiful family. I am in awe of your Faith, your courage, your determination. You are God's hands at work MOST DEFINATELY!

Thank you so very much for continuing to update and journal! There are so many people like myself who do not know you yet are drawn to your site.

May God Bless you and hold your family oooooooh so tightly!!!

Through Haley and In Christ,
Janis Goehner <Janis Goehner@Hotmail.com>
Lakeville, MN USA - Wednesday, August 16, 2006 8:15 AM CDT

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Amber, I can't stop thinking about your precious Haley. I went to talk to her and shared my M & M's and Pepsi. Her resting place is so beautiful, just as Sydney's, I could spot it from the street. I know that Haley is so proud of the mom and person you are, I am proud to say that I know you and your daughter. It is because of Haley Rose, Sydney, The Michella's and the Welch's that I appreciate life and family so much more! We will always be here for you!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, August 15, 2006 10:53 PM CDT

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Amber, Patrick and Hannah-

As you reflect on this day, together as a family, feel Haley's presence. She loves you so much and is so proud of you.

Lean on that and lean on Him.

In Christ,
Audrey


Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, August 15, 2006 4:48 PM CDT

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Amber,
I am thinking and praying hard for you and Patrick today as always. Anniversaries are especially hard for me also. Please know that I am here for you.
Love,
Alicia Robinson <aliciarobinson2004@yahoo.com>
Adrian, MI - Tuesday, August 15, 2006 1:53 PM CDT

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Hey Amber.
I have tried calling few times today, call me if you can. I am here and I love you! Lisa
Lisa
Perrysburg, Oh - Tuesday, August 15, 2006 12:31 AM CDT

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Haley Rose got a beautiful day today! Can you ask for anything more beautiful! Look at it...the sun is shining...blue skies....a light breeze!

This day reflects Haley's bright personality.

I know that today will be a long and emotional day. I know that at some point you will wonder if this day will ever end. But know that today is a celebration of Haley's life and her purpose. As sad as her passing is, know that many people are "better" for knowing her.

Between Haley and Sydney, I have become a better person and a better and more patient mother. SO, know that many people have benefitted from Haley's short, but profound life.

You are in my thoughts and prayers...ALWAYS!
Stay strong!
Smooch hannah....I'll smooch Kennedy.
chris <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Tuesday, August 15, 2006 10:24 AM CDT

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Hello Amber & Patrick, I just want you to know that I will never forget you or your precious Angel. I am praying that the Lord helps you today as he has everyday. I thought of your daughter last night as the sun set and the sky was a beautiful red color; I believe that was just the beginning of her party! God Bless You!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, August 15, 2006 9:56 AM CDT

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Patrick and Amber,

There is no normal way to get through this process. We all handle it the best way we know how. Just remember, it is a process. It will have more ups and downs for the rest of our lives but, with HIM, we will survive. I am blessed to kow your family and even more blessed to have been in Haley's presence.

P.S. The sun sure is BRIGHT today!!
Charles Welch <charliemack1073@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, August 15, 2006 7:36 AM CDT

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As I go to work today to treat my cancer patients, I will think about you and little Haley. I re-read your entry from last year, how you described the last few hours with her, and I cried whole-heartedly. My heart goes out to you and your family on this day and always.
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Tuesday, August 15, 2006 6:01 AM CDT

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Wanted to remind you that there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. There always seems to be something in my day that reminds me of you. Especially when my kids are driving me insane and I think how you would do anything to have an "insane moment" with your angel. Although your kids are too adorable to have those moments, right? Anyway, I wanted to tell you that you're in my prayers always...and now even more so! May He bless you today, tomorrow, and days to come!
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg , MI USA - Monday, August 14, 2006 9:44 PM CDT

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Oh Amber........

You have more purpose than I think you know. My mind cannot fathom how it can possibly be 2 years since this Earth lost an angel. We will certainly be thinking & praying tomorrow.....we might just have to go get some Cheezy Pringles & some pop & have a "In honor of Haley Rose junk food day"....sounds good to me! Please feel my squeezes & hugs from afar....wish I could hop in my vehicle & come running like I did last year...you know I would if you needed me to! Just know we are ALL here for ya, we aren't going anywhere. Give Hannah a kiss from us & love her up tomorrow, mommy needs her more than she knows!
Love you & Miss you lots!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Monday, August 14, 2006 9:34 PM CDT

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Thinking and praying...
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Monday, August 14, 2006 8:54 PM CDT

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We will pray for all of you and hope Haley sends down some hugs to get you through this time. I still love to see the picture of her on the front page of her site, she is so amazingly beautiful. We will be thinking of all of you on Tuesday and paying honor to such a special angel.
Jenn Geiger <j2geiger@hotmail.com>
Painesville Twp, Oh - Monday, August 14, 2006 5:53 PM CDT

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Thinking about you and praying for you a lot this week. There is no normal grief - so whatever works for you and gives you comfort is your normal!!

God Bless You!
Tracey Korish <korish@merr.com>
Portage, WI - Monday, August 14, 2006 2:56 PM CDT

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Amber,

I cannot believe it's been two years....I remember that day as if it was yesterday. Moreso, I remember the day that Kennedy and I came to visit with Ms. Haley. She had on her bandana and a little runny nose....she and Kennedy became friens in an instant. Childhood is such an innocent and accepting time. They didn't know each other at all and were fast friends....

I remember hugging Haley so tight on our way out the door. I would have hugged even tighter if I would've known it would be the last time.

Please know that you and Patrick are in our thoughts and prayers. Another angel anniversary.

Hannah is adorable.


Chris <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Monday, August 14, 2006 11:34 AM CDT

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Gathering the pop and M&M's to pay tribute to one of the strongest little girls my life has ever been touched by. The tribute will be complete if I see two butterflies playing together.

Praying for you and remembering Haley Rose and all she taught.

:)


Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, August 13, 2006 2:35 PM CDT

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Amber - I will be praying for you on the 15th especially. I will burn a candle in Haley's memory on that day. I still do this for my Dad and stepfather on the day they died, I have burned so many candles this year!!! Hannah is sooo cute. You will have to post more pics soon. Take care and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Friday, August 11, 2006 11:43 PM CDT

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Dear aunt amber uncle patrick and family,i hope u all are doing good i will pray for the upcoming sad event!hope you are all having a nice HOT summer! I love u all so very much!!!!
lots of love xoxoxxoxoxox Angelica
Angelica
white pigeon, MI USA - Wednesday, August 9, 2006 11:28 PM CDT

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Dear Amber,

Haley & Uncle Gordie are on the bulletin board beside my bed, and I think of them all the time, and think of you; another person who loves you and sends you more hugs and prayers. The next few weeks are a bummer for us, and I can't even fathom how much more so for you. Dad's birthday is somehow wedged in-between everything, which is another reminder of the "hills & valleys", like you wrote in your journal. If you're stuck in a valley right now, just don't forget to look up, even if you can't get out. We love you.
Sally Morris <JumpingMouse@netpenny.net>
Sturgis, MI - Wednesday, August 9, 2006 10:37 AM CDT

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Amber,

I'm glad you can finally see what we have all seen....your amazing strength & courage.....I can not believe it has been 2 years...You & Patrick & your family have definately been in our prayers lately. You are never NOT in them...please remember that. We have all strayed from our spiritual strength, and as my family starts to grow in our own spiritual life, I look back & wonder how in the world we made it in life without Him in it. You definately would not be where you are today without leaning on Him. I hope that you can do that at this tough time. I know it's hard to look back at her last few weeks, but you really need to do that..I hope you can remember it like it was yesterday so you never forget those very special moments like her tea party & your trip, etc. Haley was a shining light to all of us. We are all here for you, you know you can call me anytime & I will cry with you & I would be there in a heartbeat if you need me. I love ya girl & miss you tons. Give that gorgeous Hannah a squeeze from us. I will talk to you soon!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Wednesday, August 9, 2006 9:21 AM CDT

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Amber~
I have been thinking so much about you and your family! I miss you all so much! Thank you for the update and the CUTE pictures! Hannah is a doll just like her sissy!
Please note my email address change.
Keep in touch, I love to hear from you!
Love, Alicia
Alicia Robinson <aliciarobinson2004@yahoo.com>
Adrian, MI USA - Monday, August 7, 2006 1:55 PM CDT

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YEAH! Update!!!!

I can SO relate to the whole manipulate act. My daughter pulls it off really well. When she gets in trouble and it's time to go into the bad girl chair, she says 'Mommy hold you minute'.......and oh how I want to scoop her up, but I resist for a couple minutes and then scoop her up. Funny how they know how to do that!

Oops, son just woke up.....

Glad you're doing OK!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Wednesday, August 2, 2006 10:24 PM CDT

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Hello Amber, It is so good to hear from you and that everything is ok. Thank you for the pictures. Hannah looks so much like Haley when she is sleeping. She is so darn cute!! She looks so "grown up" in the Nintendo picture. I'm glad that she has been keep you busy and that you have been enjoying your summer!

I will be praying for you, as I always do, extra hard these next few weeks. It is so heart wrenching for me because while you are dreading that week, I am celebrating because my youngest daughters birthday is on Aug 16. Please know that your family is always on my heart! I feel the same way as Audrey, you're stuck with me. Take care!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, August 2, 2006 10:14 PM CDT

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Dearest Amber,
THANK YOU SO MUCH for those beautiful pictures!! How sweet of you!!
Hannah is just gorgeous!!! And she looks just like her Sissy!!
Merete Francis <Meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, July 30, 2006 8:25 PM CDT

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Amber- I thought of you in church today. If you went this weekend and saw the skit, you'll know why. If you didn't, just know that you, Patrick and Haley were prayed for.
Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, July 30, 2006 11:43 AM CDT

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Amber,
Until you send the updates, to my new e-mail address, I am unable to see the new pictures you post. So PLEASE>>>>>>> I want to see the pics so bad.....my new address is meretes@mac.com
I can read the updates by entering your website, but the pictures will not change...
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Sunday, July 30, 2006 11:43 AM CDT

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Amber - she is an absolute doll. She is really becoming her own little person. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, even more so now. I am going of vacation from 7-30 until 8-9, but I will be praying for you. Talk to you when I get back
Kim Neumar <kneumar@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, July 29, 2006 11:22 AM CDT

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P.S.....Congratulations Kristy!!!!! Did I miss the news that you were pregnant? Or is Amber 24 weeks behind in 'catching us up'?
Boy? Girl? Due date?

:):)
Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, July 29, 2006 9:39 AM CDT

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Whew! You're O.K.!! Understandably busy with 'the Hannah'. She is absolutely adorable and her little face just screams spunk.

We will certainly still be supporting and praying for you. Next month and every month. You and Kelly pretty much will NEVER get rid of us. We'll be sending you e-mails in your retirement homes needing updates about your grandbabies. LOL

Take care of yourself and try to update before Christmas. Hee Hee

Audrey


Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, July 29, 2006 9:37 AM CDT

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I can NOT believe how big Hannah has gotten! And beautiful...........it's no wonder Mommy gives in....we all would, looking at the cutie pie face!! We are so glad to hear from you, it's been too long missie! Glad to hear everything is ok & sounds like you are having a great summer. We are plugging away as usual.....I'm already 24 weeks...can you believe it? We will talk soon...I promise I'll call one of these weekends....Miss ya & love ya bunches!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Saturday, July 29, 2006 9:07 AM CDT

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Yeaaa an update AND adorable pictures!!! I've missed you and Hannah is getting so big! Of course she's gorgeous!!! :) Hope to hear more from you soon!
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Saturday, July 29, 2006 9:00 AM CDT

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Over a month? Yikers. We're all still praying for you and loving you from afar. Support unending...
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, July 27, 2006 8:15 AM CDT

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Hello!?! What's been going on!? Hoping all is well and you're just enjoying summertime.....check in with us, even if it's just a 'hey, we're ok'......yes, I'm a mom....do I sound like one?!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Wednesday, July 19, 2006 10:04 PM CDT

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Worried.
all who check your site and me Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, July 19, 2006 1:00 PM CDT

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Praying for you...
Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, July 18, 2006 6:15 PM CDT

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Hello there??!! How are you? Keep looking for you and your family in church, but no signs..... are you ok?
Miss you.
Please note. My e-mail address has changed. It is now, see below.
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Tuesday, July 18, 2006 8:33 AM CDT

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Whats been up??
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Sunday, July 16, 2006 8:23 AM CDT

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Miss you!!!
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Thursday, July 13, 2006 2:59 PM CDT

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I hope all is well in the Minchella household. I know it has been a tough few weeks for you. Hope to hear from you soon.
Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, July 8, 2006 10:47 PM CDT

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Prayed my booty off for you all yesterday. Hope it was peaceful and celebratory.
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, June 29, 2006 9:52 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday Sweet Haley Rose!! I know you are celebrating in heaven, dancing around, & maybe eating Cheesy Pringles & drinking pop?!?!?!
Amber, I am so happy that you can look into Hannah's eyes & see your sweet angel. That is not a coincidence. God brought you Hannah so that you may have some healing in your heart. The similarities are not a coincidence either. Your girls have both been angels on earth. And what lucky angels they are to have parents like you!
Hope to see ya soon!
Love,
Kristy
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Wednesday, June 28, 2006 9:29 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday Haley!!

Thinking of your family on today, more than usual. Unforunately, I took a different job within the company and am no longer working in Perrysburg, so I am unable to visit your angel at lunch time. But it doesn't mean I won't be thinking of her or you.

{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 6:13 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday sweet girl. Amber you are in my thoughts today as you celebrate this day in such a different way than you wish. You are a wonderful mother and Haley still feels all the love of a lifetime you squeezed into her two years with you here. (she's still with you even in her Heavenly home)

Love-

Audrey


Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, June 28, 2006 5:44 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Haley!! May God bring you everything you wish for on your special day!! Amber, do you have any pictures from Haley's last birthday?
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
Holland, OH USA - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 5:29 AM CDT

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It sure was great to read your entries. You are always in my thoughts and prayers and it has been a while since I've had time away from the hectic days to write to remind you of that. It is so amazing that Hannah is one already. Time does fly. My oldest turned eight May 22nd. It seems like yesterday when she was screaming 24/7 for 8months of her first life. No joke here! Anyway, hope you are enjoying time with your precious family. Remember keep God first in all you do because He will always be there for you!

Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Thursday, June 22, 2006 9:31 PM CDT

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Found this on another site and loved it...

A child that loses a parent is an orphan,
A man who loses his wife is a widower,
A women who loses her husband is a widow,
There is no name for a parent that loses a child,
For there is no word to describe the pain.
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, June 22, 2006 11:37 AM CDT

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Wow. you did it again. I think it is absolutely impossible for me to read your entries with dry eyes.

I cannot believe that another year has passed. I think of Haley so often and I too can picture her and Sydney playing together.

And I totally agree that my purpose in life is to be my kids' mom. To anyone that isn't a mom, you can't explain the love that you feel for your kids. My meaning of love, of happiness, of joy, of sadness, of heartache, of worry changed once I was a mom. I love being a mom.

Hang in there......you'll see Hannah soon!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 7:48 PM CDT

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Thinking of you... 14 days... a mere blink of an eye... just hang in there...
KPeters (KP) <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 12:12 AM CDT

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Hi Amber,
I know it has been a while, but I have been without a computer for a while. I also have a new e-mail address (please note below).
I absolutely cannot imagine how it would be to have your daughter's birthday approaching, but no birthday girl present for gifts, cake and ice cream. Unimaginable..... My heart goes out to you, as always.
Have a nice trip to St. Lois, and looking forward to more updates and pictures.
Merete Francis <meretes@mac.com>
- Tuesday, June 13, 2006 4:46 AM CDT

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Hey Amber, thinking of you today & saying prayers for you & your family......I'm sure it will be a tough 2 weeks but hopefully you can try & look at it as a "vacation"...just think of how sweet your Homecoming will be & that will get you through. Remember we are all here for ya, so keep us posted. Miss you & Love you!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Monday, June 12, 2006 9:11 AM CDT

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Thinking of you as tomorrow approaches.

:)


Audrey
Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, June 11, 2006 7:58 AM CDT

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Hi Amber,

My heart aches so much for you and Kelly. I know that it is an everyday battle to stay sane, missing your little girl. You are not selfish you are one of the most selfless woman I know. You gave us a piece of your life that you did not have to share. I am so honored to have known Ms. Haley Rose. It is your GOD given right to want Haley back on this earth so that you can love her. It is your GOD given right to wish that both of your girls were together. It is your GOD given right to break down when you can't keep the facade up that everything is ok, becuase it's not and it never will be until you are reunited with your precious daughter. I pray for you & the Welch's daily, as well as numerous other families that I've met on this journey. I admire all of you so much and when I "grow up" I want to have the same faith, selflessness, & strength as you. I'm not quite there yet, but thanks to you, the Welch's and your daughters; I am well on my way.

My prayers will be with you while you are in St. Louis. I know that it will be hard being away from Patrick and Hannah for that long, but I know you can handle it. Take Care! God Bless!

P.S. Can we get new pics of your babies before you go? Now I think that I'm being a little selfish.:0)
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@aol.com>
- Saturday, June 10, 2006 11:57 AM CDT

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On my knees today for you and your aching heart....
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Friday, June 2, 2006 11:41 AM CDT

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Hi Amber-

It was nice to read an update! Hannah sounds like she's really getting to that fun stage. I absolutely LOVE when they begin to walk.

Take care and don't apologize for your feelings. There isn't a mother out there that wouldn't feel the same way!

:)

Audrey


Audrey Fox <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Friday, June 2, 2006 7:50 AM CDT

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Amber, First, it was great to hear from you, we've missed you!! Everyone out here in Haleyland is so honored that you choose us to "vent" too....we are so gracious that you have this site to journal your thoughts.
Second, you are in no way selfish, you are one of the most selfless people I've ever known. You have every right to want your baby here, that doesn't make you selfish, it makes you a parent. We would all much rather have Haley here than to have the knowledge that she & you have given us. Third, we will definately be praying for you as you go to St. Louis.....that will be a tough 2 weeks I'm sure. We will all be here for ya...so let's all make sure we leave messages to keep you company & to keep your chin up.....I know I will. I miss ya, I was just thinking yesterday that we never get to talk anymore...Taylor asked this AM when we are going to the zoo & it made me think, all that time you got to stay home & we didn't take advantage of it often enough....but isn't that the way it always goes??? Anyway, I miss ya, love ya, and you guys are always in our thoughts & prayers...give Hannah a big fat kiss from us, it doesn't surprise me one bit that your dad fell right in love with her, I know I did the second you brought her out from her nap at her party!! She is such a dolly!! Take care.
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Thursday, June 1, 2006 9:09 AM CDT

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Glad your dad came to visit, I miss him lots....Please pray for this little girl, she is fighting the same disease as Haley. Her is her website. http://www.kraleighgrace.com/update.htm
Hannah is beautiful and I pray for your whole family regularly.
Sarah <mabarker3boys@yahoo.com>
Buchanan, MI U.S.A - Thursday, June 1, 2006 6:47 AM CDT

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Thinking about you guys... as always! : )
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Tuesday, May 23, 2006 8:08 AM CDT

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Haley's time here was much to short but was filled with amazing love from the people she adored the most. Never question that. Without ever meeting her, and only seeing her pictures, you can tell she was enveloped in love through her smile and her eyes. I realize she had many hard days but honestly, I think she lived a life most of us search for all our lives in her 2 short years, one competely filled with love. Happy Mother's Day to one of the most amazing women out there! Your love for your angel is still inspiring us everyday! Thank you!
Jenn Geiger <j2geiger@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 16, 2006 7:29 AM CDT

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I totally agree with KT. Actions speak louder than words. She knew....and the stories you tell about Hannah....how you'll come running back to her if she cries, I imagine you were the same way with Haley and that is love. You drop what you're doing for your kids. Every kiss, every hug, every smile, every time you sat when she'd say 'sit mommmy'....that's showing love. She totally knew. I feel guilt for not always dropping everything for those precious words, but we all know it's not possible to always cave. Haley knew. Haley loved you too. And you knew that from her hugs, and kisses, and smile, and twinkle in her eye. Do NOT ever think that you didn't tell her enough because you didn't have to.
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, , oh - Monday, May 15, 2006 12:02 AM CDT

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Don't ever waste a second worrying that Haley didn't hear you say you love her... she didn't have to; she felt it.

She felt it when she was alive and playful. She felt it when you yelled at her for her own safety. She felt it every single time you swooped in to kiss her, squeezed her in a big hug or played the 'stinky toe police.'

Feelings are stronger than words can convey anyway... and she felt it. I have NO doubt.
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Tledo, OH - Monday, May 15, 2006 8:13 AM CDT

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Happy Mother's Day!!!!!!
Audrey Fox <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 14, 2006 11:31 AM CDT

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Happy Mother's Day Amber!

Your kids are so lucky to have you as a mom.

Enjoy your day!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Sunday, May 14, 2006 11:24 AM CDT

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You guys still out there???

Just checkin'

Thinkin' about ya & Missin' ya as always!

Take Care!!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Saturday, May 13, 2006 9:24 PM CDT

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We stop by your website almost every day to see if you have posted!!! We would LOVE to see more pictures of Haley too!!! Both of your daughters are soooo beautiful!!

God Bless and hope you get to be home with Hannah like you did Haley!


Janis Goehner <Janis Goehner@Hotmail.com>
Lakeville, mn USA - Saturday, May 13, 2006 12:12 AM CDT

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Wanted: Update! We need to hear about a certain someone's 1st birthday party!!!!!
Hope you're doing well. We need some Amberland. For some of us, you're a regular dose of sanity in an insane world! (no pressure though) LOL
Audrey Fox <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Friday, May 5, 2006 12:37 AM CDT

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Just wanted to send a little note your way to say that your baby girl Haley still enters my mind on a daily basis and has not been (and never will be) forgotten.

I pray Hannah is doing well and her sister ispaying her some visits for some lovin.
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 11:49 AM CDT

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I hope Hannah had a great party. I had considered asking you for directions, but turns out, I wouldn't have made it anyway. Haley was greeted by another angel that day, my grandma. I had asked my grandma a few days prior to say hello to some people for me....my other grandma, my grandpa, Haley and Sydney. No doubt that she's found them. No doubt she's letting them play in her makeup and high heels like she used to let me do.

I'd love to get together some time on a play date!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Monday, May 1, 2006 2:13 PM CDT

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Well it was so good to see you all Saturday. I'm so glad I got to come & help celebrate. Hannah is such a DOLL!! You guys sure produce some darn cute kids! hee hee. And what a sweetie she is, I just wanna eat her up! Thanks for including me. Hope Hannah had a wonderful day yesterday, hopefully she was rested up after all those people loving on her Saturday! Taylor tells everyone we talk to that she went to Amber's & jumped on the trampoline. We have to do it more often! Love ya & miss ya already!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
- Monday, April 24, 2006 3:07 PM CDT

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY HANNAH! I HOPE HALEY SENT YOU SWEET BIRTHDAY KISSES!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, April 23, 2006 9:28 PM CDT

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Have a great birthday party Hannah!!!!!!!! Eat cake, get messy, open presents and feel loved!!!!!

Have fun today Amber and Patrick.
Audrey Fox <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, April 22, 2006 8:07 AM CDT

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Wow...time sure flies! I wish I would have read your latest entry sooner!! I would have LOVED to tag along with Kristy tomorrow!! Give the beautiful birthday girl a kiss and hug from us, and I think I'll go get a Pooh balloon tomorrow afternoon and send it Haley's way! Eat some cake for me too!! Love to all!!
Michelle <shelbarnhart@peoplepc.com>
Centreville, MI USA - Friday, April 21, 2006 9:06 PM CDT

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Hi Amber! My daughter unexpectedly sent a kite to Haley on Monday. I think Haley might have grabbed it. My oldest daughter was flying her POOH kite on Monday after we came from the zoo. She thought that she would be smart and tie her kite to a stick so that she could fix her hair (what can I say, she's a teenager). I was sitting on the back porch reading a book, then all of a sudden I hear her yelling and I look up and she's running across the field behind our house chasing her kite yelling "NO NO NO!". Now normally kites just fall to the ground when they lose air but nooooo not this POOH kite. It flew a ways down and then got caught on a tree. You could see it from our backyard just a blowing in the wind. Now my other 2 children didn't have any problems flying their Dora & Spiderman kites, so I know that Haley had her hands on this kite. My daughter and her dad walked over to the tree where the kite was and they almost had it but lost it and it went higher into the tree. I watched it for awhile after that just a blowing in the wind, as if someone was pulling it. I'm sure that she finally got it because I went in for a little bit and came back out and it was gone. I just thought that I would share that with you. Your little girl is everywhere. I don't know if I'll be able to make it to the party, I'll email you if I can make it. If not, I'll be sure to send Haley a balloon, but I'm sure she's enjoying that kite!
Love Ya, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, April 21, 2006 3:27 PM CDT

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Think of your family often and still reminded by your amazing strenght and lessons in your stories to enjoy my babies and the life god has blessed me with-

Thank you!
Jenn Geiger <j2geiger@hotmail.com>
painesville twp, oh - Friday, April 21, 2006 8:59 AM CDT

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It has been so long since I last wrote. I am glad to hear that things are going better for you and your family. Things here have been as busy as ever.

I wanted to let you know that I already have plans for Saturday, but I will be thinking of you all and will still send up Pooh to Haley.

I think of you often and pray for you always!!!

Lynde Bushre <triplets@netpenny.net>
Saranac, MI - Thursday, April 20, 2006 7:16 PM CDT

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So, this morning, I panicked. I, nor KT, could access this site and I SO got worried that I wouldn't ever read your entries again and post words to you.....but alas, you're back and I'm glad!

Pictures are just precious! Worrying about Hannah health is normal and OK. It's natural for a mom to want their child to live a long and heathly life. My grandma right now is not doing so well. And as sad as I am, I know and understand that her almost 89 years here were good ones and I can only hope that my kids and I can live as long as she does. So, you're a normal mom, just don't let the worry shadow the fun!

I remember one of your posts a long time ago about how Hannah cries when you leave the room and then stops when you come running back.....well, my son has figured that out! Shame on me for trying to do anything more than love on my kids, right!?
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Thursday, April 20, 2006 12:18 AM CDT

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Your words struck a chord wioth me today, mor than ever. Especially the part where you discussed only being "guaranteed this moment."

Wow. Isnt that right?

We have no way of knowing (nor would we want to) what happens next. We only can make THIS moment the best.

Thinking of you this weekend and all the others! :)
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, April 20, 2006 9:31 AM CDT

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Amber,
Love the photos. The one picture of the profile, I wasn't sure which of the "H's" it was, Haley or Hannah? They look so much alike, so beautiful, just like their Mommy.
I will be there Saturday. Do you still live in Maumee, down the street from St. Lukes?
Merete <meretes@bex.net>
- Wednesday, April 19, 2006 10:10 PM CDT

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Hi Amber,
I am back from Norway and I could use a little cheering up from you, now that I miss my family so much. Lets make a date and get together sometime....?
Miss your entries...
Merete <meretes@bex.net>
- Wednesday, April 19, 2006 6:31 PM CDT

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I'm a day late, but Happy Easter!!!
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Monday, April 17, 2006 7:08 AM CDT

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I HOPE YOU HAVE A BLESSED 1ST EASTER WITH YOUR BABY GIRL! HAPPY EASTER!
Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, April 15, 2006 5:16 PM CDT

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Hoppy Easter Miss Hannah!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, April 13, 2006 11:46 AM CDT

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Thinking of you and your family this Easter. I hope this Blessed holiday brings some peace into your heart, knowing that one day, we will all be together again!

Janis Goehner <JanisGoehner@Hotmail.com>
Lakeville, MN USA - Thursday, April 13, 2006 7:44 AM CDT

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Amber,

It was so good seeing you Friday night! These little reunions are few and far between....we all need to get together and just hang out or something.

Thank you for supporting this event! It means so much to have Kelly and Charles support system present at these fundraisers!

I know you all share a special bond that the rest of us will never understand. I am so grateful that you guys can walk this journey hand in hand!

Again, don't be a stranger!

See you....soon?
chris <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Tuesday, April 11, 2006 8:19 AM CDT

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Good Morning, It was so good to see you again Amber, too bad Patrick couldn't make it. A great time was had by all.

You and Kelly share a FRIENDSHIP that we will never be able to understand. I watched you two as you were getting ready to leave and the love that emanated was unspeakable! Your girls are a blessing to so many on this earth and they have blessed you two with each other. Stay blessed!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, April 10, 2006 9:57 AM CDT

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I second what Audrey said! It was nice to see you again.
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Sunday, April 9, 2006 8:31 PM CDT

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It was great to see you Friday night!! I hope that Hannah appreciated all the goodies you brought home for her. She has a generous Mommy!! :):)

You're a wonderful person Amber. Hope to see you again soon.

Love-
Audrey
Audrey Fox <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, April 9, 2006 7:52 PM CDT

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Yahoo for getting to hear from you last night as we were organizing!

There is no doubt that you and Kelly share a bond no one else could understand. Her face just lights up talking to you. As her friend, I am so happy she has you (or you have each other!) for what we cannot possibly know.

You are both angels!
KP <kmlindberg@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Thursday, March 30, 2006 6:36 AM CST

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Your little Hannah is getting so big and she is adorable for sure. The pics are great! I am sure she is becoming a handful as they often do when they start nearing a year old and they become so full of new ideas!
Trena <chucktrena@msn.com>
Edwardsburg, MI USA - Monday, March 20, 2006 6:18 PM CST

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Hannah is cute, cute, cute. I cannot believe that it'll be a year already. Time flies.

If you're a crazy mom, then so am I. I give in to my kids screams to play instead of doing other things I need to do. I love spending time with them and I have to admit, the other night, I was preoccupied with something and did not give my kids the attention they needed or I needed to give them. I felt SO guilty. I thought of Haley and Sydney and I wanted to wake up my kids and just hug and kiss them. Both kids slept terrbile that night and I ended up taking off the following day, so it all worked out.....I got to spend the ENTIRE day with them.
Monica <msteele314@yahoo.com>
Rossford, OH - Monday, March 20, 2006 7:50 AM CST

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Hannah is so adorable. She really looks like Haley in the church picture. It is hard to believe that it has been 2 yrs for the Welches and nearly 2 yrs that we loss Haley. It is just as hard to believe that it has been nearly a year that you were Blessed with Hannah Grace(April 23?). You both have been truly blessed because of your Guardian Angels! I'm glad to be a "part of your circle". Stay Blessed!

P.S. I always enjoy reading your entries. I agree that Merete's idea for Hannah's party is an excellent one! Let's see if we can keep this record up...you and Kelly updated on the same day!
Love Ya, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, March 18, 2006 1:25 PM CST

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Thinking of you guys! The new pictures are adorable and it's always great to read what's going on in your lives. What a cutie pie Hannah is!!
Erica Early <Emearly@anderson.edu>
- Friday, March 17, 2006 10:28 AM CST

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She is so beautiful! I am so sorry this happened to her and you. It breaks my heart!
Debbie Baker <debbaker@bex.net>
Toledo, OH US - Thursday, March 16, 2006 1:44 PM CST

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Hey there!!! The new pics rock, and I just love Hannah's rocker chic 'do! She looks like a real ham!! I LOVE Merete's idea for Hannah's birthday party. What a special nod to her big sis up there in heaven!! Give her a big squeeze for us and tell her to keep on rockin'! Love-Michelle
Michelle <shelbarnhart@peoplepc.com>
Centreville, MI USA - Thursday, March 16, 2006 12:59 AM CST

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Hey Minchellas...

Thanks for the update and adorable photos!

Yes, Kelly and Charles will definitely have a rough couple of days approaching. I cannot believe Sydney has been gone for two years....seems like just yesterday Charles called me and said "it's a girl! she's beautiful" Never in my wildest dreams could I have imagined that Sydney would have been here so briefly. And then to meet such awesome people like you guys through her website....and to meet Haley...and watch Haley and Kennedy play together...and then to lose Haley. It's been a whirlwind. But, at least we all know that we have some beautiful little girls watching over us...being our guardian angels!

Hopefully we'll see you at Blue Skies and Butterflies! I'm sure it will be an incredible event!

Hannah keeps getting cuter and cuter!
chris <chris.coleman@tps.org>
- Thursday, March 16, 2006 7:55 AM CST

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Amber, it is so touching to read about the love you have for Hannah, she is so lucky to have a momma that feels the way you do about her. And daddy too, I'm sure. The new pics are the best, I love her rocker hair!! I got a good laugh at that one, but I got a little teary eyed on the next one.........you know who she reminds me of in that swing. I remember some pics of when you would bundle up Miss Haley Rose & take her out to swing....and the time we came to visit & all 4 of us were playing on the swingset. I still thank God for that precious day & all the memories you & I will always have of that day. Thank goodness for all the pics we got! I have to tell you, I can not believe how much Hannah changes with each new pic you post. The last time I saw her she was just a little tiny peanut! She is SO beautiful, I can't stress that enough....she really does resemble Haley but she definately has a beauty all her own! Well take care missie, I love you & miss you lots.....I will be callin' ya soon!
Kristy <jkthopkins@charter.net>
Sturgis, - Thursday, March 16, 2006 7:52 AM CST

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Hello from Norway,

I am so FAR away...any yet your writing and pictures are so sweet, I can't help but smile through my tears. You two produce some beautiful children!! They are so gorgeous, both Hannah and Haley.
For Hannah birthday, you could have a Pooh theme, and have everyone bring a pooh balloon, then at end of the party, you could all let the baloons fly up to Heaven for little Haley..... I think she would like that.... (smile)
Merete <meretes@bex.net>
Tromsų, Norway - Thursday, March 16, 2006 2:04 AM CST

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Wow! 'Hannah Banana' looks sooo much like Haley (I think) in the picture with Patrick...beautiful!

Nice to read an update. Hannah sounds so funny and that's what you need, some comic relief in this crazy world.

You take care and write again soon.

Love,
Audrey
Audrey <nojoicfox@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 15, 2006 9:00 PM CST

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Hello Minchella's,

I thought I would be the first to "christen" the pages. I hope all is well. I know that I don't right often, but I am still here and think of your family and Haley on a daily basis. Maybe I'll get to see you in a few weeks. I think it is time for some Hannahland updates. May God continue to be a constant light in your life!
Sincerely, Leonya <crumbz33@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, March 14, 2006 10:21 PM CST

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