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Peggy galen <Peggygalen@aol.com>
Sun city, Az Maricopa - Monday, November 4, 2013 11:57 AM CST
Hi I know it has been hard for everyone with my mom's loss, so I have made my own caringbridge. you can go to www.caringbridge.org/visit/haleymckinney to see my site. Thank you and try to have hope... things will be better.
Haley McKinney <HaleyM@carolina.rr.com>
- Sunday, January 13, 2008 8:49 AM CST
Debbie, tomorrow is my mom's birthday, and I'm thinking about both of you all the time. I wonder if y'all have met. I keep thinking about the night we were initiated into Zeta. We were in your room, you and Kris and I. I miss those times, and your laugh and your smile.
Betsy Camp <ecamp@utmb.edu>
Dickinson, TX - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 10:27 PM CDT
Hello to the people that still go on here...,
This is Haley and on the main page, it just had my dad's e-mail. But I have my own. If you would like to reach me, go to... HaleyM@carolina.rr.com
Haley McKinney
Matthews, NC USA - Sunday, May 20, 2007 6:19 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Debbie! I will be thinking about you today....I miss you girl.
Becky Bohannon <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, April 26, 2007 6:56 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Debbie...I will be thinking about you today. I miss you very much.
Becky Bohannon <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, April 26, 2007 6:54 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Debbie...I will be thinking about you today. I miss you very much.
Becky Bohannon <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, April 26, 2007 6:53 AM CDT
Deb,
Happy 42nd Birthday. Sorry you are not here to celebrate. Damn you made us proud...a good and strong fighter. Dad and I will never forget all you went through for 7-1/2 years. Honey, we miss you so much...our hearts are still broken but will mend some day. You are in a better place than we all are. Remember, you promised to meet me when its my turn.
We love & miss you,
Mom & Dad
Barbara & Ed Bohannon <bbohannon@grandecom.net>
Round Rock, TX USA - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 11:52 PM CDT
Brant and family:
As we make plans to attend the National Breast Cancer Coalition Advocacy Training Conference, later this month, we feel Deb's absence even more keenly. She loved that meeting with all the opportunities to educate, network and 'storm the hill'! I know she looked forward to it each spring and we have wonderful pictures of her enjoying the meeting. Her smile and shining spirit will continue to be missed but carried with us as we attend. You and your family remain in our thoughts and prayers. May you find strength to meet each new day. Blessings, Ginny Mason and the IBC Research Foundation
Ginny Mason <ginny@ibcresearch.org>
Goshen, IN USA - Monday, April 2, 2007 12:06 AM CDT
I dreamed of Debbie last night, and she looked like she did prior to being diagnosed. I know she is at peace, and I'm praying for you Brant, and Haley and Christopher. My thoughts are with you right now... Love, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, March 15, 2007 8:53 AM CDT
Tonight the "Bunko Babes" are getting together, and we are starting a new tradition in Debbie's honor. Each time that we gather, there will be a pink candle lit in Debbie's memory. We sure do miss her, but this candle will serve as a reminder to all of us how she managed to brighten our lives and how her light still shines on in all of us.
Betsy Martorelli <bcmartorelli@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Friday, March 9, 2007 4:44 PM CST
Deb,
I miss you so much. Here it is just ONE day shy of your death and I still don't believe it. There are so many times I need to call you to ask questions and pick your brain. Ohhh, how it hurts. I promise to do what I told you numerous times. I will watch over Haley & Christopher and remain buddies with Brant. I have an IBC question right now that Jane need's an answer for, only you're not here to help guide her in the right direction. I pray that your new life is much better. I pray you learned the lessons you were suppose to learn while here before being called back at an early age. I love you my daughter and I will miss you till we meet again.
Love forever,
Mom <bbohannon@grandecom.net>
Round Rock, TX USA - Monday, March 5, 2007 3:35 PM CST
I miss Debbie sooooo much. She was full of wisdom. I miss her navigation that took us where we wanted to go. I think of
her every day and miss conversations with her.
Becky (sister n law) <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, March 3, 2007 9:33 PM CST
Hey Brant, Haley and Christopher......Just wanted to tell you ..you are not forgotten. Sometimes that happens "after the flowers are gone"....but, not with Debbie's Bosom Buddies. It has been an honor and a privilege for all of us, who knew and loved her, to have been a part of her life. Many of us attended the memorial service. And, if we did not know Deb before, we certainly knew her after the three very special men in her life, paid tribute to her. What a legacy she has left for her Bosom Buddies. She not only taught us how to live, but, more importantly, she taught us how to die......with dignity and faith and grace. We talk about y'all often....and you will remain in our prayers in the days ahead. Blessings.....Carole Parkinson, B.B.
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255 @aol..com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:33 AM CST
Brant, Haley, & Christopher, anything you need, please call. I am praying for you and your family, and will keep in touch. When things start to settle, you will still have the Zeta's mingling about to help. We loved Debbie fiercely, and love being the universal language, it does translate to love for you all! I hope that you continue to have peace in your hearts to override the pain of missing her, because you are right - this is what she would want...
Barbara, Ed, Chip, & families - we hope and pray that your hearts all heal quickly as well... As Debbie moves into this next part of her life with total Peace, I pray that you all feel that in the here and now. Zeta Love, Amanda Warfield & Family
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, February 19, 2007 9:25 AM CST
Your family will be in my prayers. I met Debbie at a conference in Washington DC and I remember her energy and her wonderful smile.
God Bless You!!!
Barbara Brilley <Bbrilley@illinoiswings.com>
Springfield, IL. USA - Sunday, February 18, 2007 5:20 PM CST
TO ALL WHO KNEW OUR DEBBIE OR WHO READ AND LEARNED FROM HER JOURNAL…
As Deb’s parents, it has been a long and frightening 7+ years since we learned of her IBC Breast Cancer. The thought of putting poison into her body was frightening. There have been ups and downs. Deb never wanted to stop fighting; however, her last chemo was not helpful from the first injection. But in true Deb spirit, she tried a second injection. The battle to live so she could see her two beautiful children grow up into adults and marry had reached the end.
She did not let Inflammatory Breast Cancer stop her for fighting for others. She lobbied Congress, attended numerous meetings and became a board member of the IBC Research Foundation. She felt strongly about this after talking and meeting its founder, Owen Johnson.
Deb was a very religious person and believed that if this was God’s will, she was ready.
All the time she fought, her ZTA sisters where there for her. She had friends going back to her childhood who kept in touch. Her college roommate, good friend and ZTA sister, Debbie Chandler, was with Deb until the end. Her journey produced friends she adored up until she lost the fight. She became friends with one of these cancer victims’s daughter. Ursula Rhyne was with Deb and Debbie Chandler, along with Brant until the very end. Then as females would do, they decided to make Deb “presentable” by combing her hair, putting on lipstick, etc. When I learned of this, I finally felt at peace knowing they took care of Deb to the end. You see, Ed and I had guilt about leaving to take care of Haley & Christopher, but we knew her heart was beating strong and felt we would see her again. We had said our good byes many, many times.
We cannot say enough or thank the “special” friends at Matthews United Methodist Church. Pastor Ken was constantly there with Deb and her family throughout the last few weeks of her life. Pastor Dawn was very important to the family, but more so for Haley and Christopher. Thanks to Beth, Joyce, Jennifer and their families who were neighbors and some fellow church members. The McKinney family was always taken care of from meals, to watching the children, to prayers, etc. There were people at church who did not know Deb personally, but most heard of her story and offered their prayers and help.
Deb would not have learned to fight so hard without the emotional support she received from everyone at Buddy Kemp Caring Center, whom she turned to after surgery. When she lost her hair, we went to Buddy Kemp to borrow a wig, etc. I know in our hearts she could not have been so strong without Brenda Ricketts’ counseling. To the end, Brenda counseled the family in their home, if necessary.
Deb’s soul went to Heaven on February 6, 2007, but not without the wonderful help from the nurses, social workers and chaplains at Presbyterian Hospital's Hospice.
Ed and I are forever thankful to all of these wonderful people. The support shown to we, as her parents, were phenomenal. We also thank our family for being our support and rock throughout. Without them, it would have been harder for us these past 7+ years.
Deb would have been happy and surprised to see family, friends, sisters fill up the large Matthews United Methodist Church. She always had a smile and never complained about the pain and suffering she went through. Ed and I are so proud of our beautiful daughter and her courageous, long battle with IBC. You have taken a part of our hearts with you sweetheart. It will take a long, long time for us to mend. Wo, wo, wo, wajie, wajie ware!
Love and miss you terribly,
Mom & Dad
Mom and Dad <bbohannon@grandecom.net>
Round Rock, TX - Thursday, February 15, 2007 8:14 PM CST
All right!!!! Sounds like a perfect goodbye to a great person. Thanks for being a great husband to a wonderful woman, Brant. (((hug))) I've started a Caringbridge site on my journey with my mom to help me out during these last few weeks. It's under my name, Betsy Camp.
Betsy Camp-Hoffman <ecamp5@houston.rr.com>
Dickinson, TX - Thursday, February 15, 2007 9:43 AM CST
Dear McKinney Family,
As I told Haley on Saturday, I will walk in The Race for the Cure in honor of Debbie yearly, and would love for Haley to join me. In Debbie's spirit, I will walk with a smile on my face and joy in my heart. My family continues to pray for blessings to shower you all.
Fondly,
Amanda Stroupe <amoore10@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC - Sunday, February 11, 2007 8:07 PM CST
To Debbie's Family & Friends - I am truly sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. I just lost my mom to IBC 3 weeks ago and know that no words I can say will help to ease your pain & loss, but please know that you all are in my thoughts.
Terri B
Austin, TX USA - Sunday, February 11, 2007 3:22 PM CST
Dear family and friends of Debbie:
It is very seldom that we see positive things when death occurs, especially yesterday when Debbie's body was laid to rest. But every day I look at this website I see how great of an impact Debbie had on seemingly hundreds, if not thousands, of lives and it brings great joy to me to read each and every entry. Debbie's family probably doesn't yet realize the full impact Debbie had on so many lives. There seems to be entries from every corner of the United States and Canada. There have been entries from the Director of IBC Research, from persons affected by cancer, and from family members of those affected by cancer. Hopefully, one day, Debbie's family will look to this website the way I have and see what an inspiration Debbie has been to so many. I said in an earlier entry that Debbie has been a hero to the cause. She is certainly a hero to me. Thank you all for relaying your stories of how Debbie affected your life. I hope her family finds the same comfort in your words that I have.
(her second cousin)
George Guthrie <Georgegut3@Verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Sunday, February 11, 2007 12:34 AM CST
Dear Haley and Christopher-
We are so saddened to hear about your mom. She fought a brave fight. We hope she has found peace at long last. Our thoughts are with you both..
Kendall and Riley Bond and family <Cbonds@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, nc usa - Saturday, February 10, 2007 2:01 PM CST
Brant, Haley & Christopher, Barbara & Ed, Chip & Becky, Lauren & Tommy, my heart aches for your loss, I am so sorry. I hope that you all will be consoled by Debbie's incredible strength through the last 7+ years and that now she is at peace. The scene that I have chosen to remember Debbie with is of our Thanksgiving in Grayton Beach, where we all second lined through the Red Roof bar with Debbie leading the pack with her infectious giggle. Ruby sends her love & condolences, too.
Aunt Eileen
- Saturday, February 10, 2007 7:05 AM CST
i don't think we will ever really know how many lives were touched by her! RIP...i hope we continue to make you proud!
unnamed
- Friday, February 9, 2007 9:14 PM CST
I heard of Debbie's illness through Michelle and was very upset to hear she was ill. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Sue Long <gity_up@bellsouth.net>
Jefferson, La. USA - Friday, February 9, 2007 2:41 PM CST
Brant,I feel so to lucky to have been able to have Debbie as a friend.She was my oldest friend and even when we had not spoke for a while when we did it was like we were never apart.I am sorry I will not be able to make it on Sat. but she will be in my heart forever.Love,Suzy
Suzette Couvillion <suzycouv@aol.com>
Madisonville, LA US - Friday, February 9, 2007 10:42 AM CST
Brant, Haley and Christopher,
I can't tell you how much it hurts to realize Debbie is no longer here. We were at UNCC together and she's always seemed to be larger than life. You always saw great joy and sparkle in her smile, and her gift of friendship and Zeta Love is something I'll always treasure. Her inner strength and determination during this entire ordeal has been exceptional and exhibit qualities we should aspire to everyday. There is a bright new star in the sky now and a new Angel singing in Heaven. All of you have my prayers and thoughts of comfort in these coming days.
Love,
Miriam (Pigg) Caraway
Miriam Caraway <mirmie89@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, February 9, 2007 9:58 AM CST
To Debbie's family, I am truly sorry for your loss. Debbie was my age and it looks like her children are about the same age as mine. I will try to continue where she left off and continue to fight this disease.
Julie MacDonald <julie.macdonald@nbed.nb.ca>
Jemseg, NB Canada - Thursday, February 8, 2007 8:45 PM CST
To Debbie's family and friends - I am so sorry about your loss - I met Debbie when she came to Raleigh with Phyllis last May - she was so uplifting, even though she could not speak very loud. Her smile was so sweet and I will cherish the picture we took - I was so glad she remembered to bring her camera. I am so glad that I was able to meet her and I know why she is loved and will be missed by so many people. Please accept my sympathy.
Charlotte Bryant, IBC patient <earthangel7@suddenlink.net>
Greenville, NC USA - Thursday, February 8, 2007 6:55 PM CST
Barbara, Ed, Brant, Haley, and Christopher - My heart goes out to each of you. Over the 20 years I have known Debbie, her IBC journey during the past 7 years has been amazing to everyone who has known her. Her determination to fight this disease for herself and others has been incredible and her spunk throughout the battle has been eye-opening for those of us on the side lines. She has definitely made me realize that we do not know what life has in store for us, so we need to live every day with God to the fullest. May all of you be in God's care with his newest angel to look after you.
Jane Butler <jbutler@kennedycovington.com>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, February 8, 2007 1:28 PM CST
To all of Debbie's family my prayers are with you. Debbie touched many lives and hearts. God has taken her on a new journey upon a new path. Debbie will be embracing this journey from above with great joy, just know that an angel is watching over you and the children.
Cindy Burger (IBC patient 2/3/2006) <cindyburger@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, February 8, 2007 1:24 PM CST
To Debbie's dear family,
I've just today read Debbie's journal history. You are blessed to have had such a beautiful woman in your life. Cherish her always. May God be with you and give you His strength and peace.
Linda McCarthy <kenlin2@cox.net>
Broken Arrow, OK USA - Thursday, February 8, 2007 1:20 PM CST
TO ALL OF DEBBIE'S FAMILY: It was a hard and very long road but Debbie is now at peace. May God bless each one of you and bring all the good memories to mind when you think of her. She was a very special person and is now at rest.
Delree Kneeskern <dgkneeskern@aol.com>
Belmont, NC 28012 - Thursday, February 8, 2007 12:54 AM CST
Brant, my prayer for you and your children and Debbie's parents is that God will give you comfort and peace as you learn to live your life without this wonderful, vibrant and spunky young woman. It sounds like God has certainly granted you the peace that surpasses understanding as you come to grips with this terrible tragedy. May he continue to do so as you all do the hard work of learning to live your lives without her. Many prayers, Gayla Little (ibcRF friend)
Gayla Little <gayla42@aol.com>
Fair Oaks, IN - Thursday, February 8, 2007 10:42 AM CST
Dear Brant, Haley, Christopher, Barbara, Ed, Chip and families:
Nancy and I just want to let you know that you and your families are in our prayers. I haven't seen Debbie in quite a few years, but I have had the pleasure of looking through old pictures of her and your family and also looking at the pictures Debbie sent just last year of her trip with her kids to Louisiana. She, and you, were very blessed to have each other. Debbie and I exchanged thoughts not too long ago about fundraising ideas to benefit her efforts in promoting the IBC cause. It was an honor for me to assist and an even greater honor for me to have those few precious moments to share and be a part of her life. Debbie's eforts will never be forgotten and her strength and determination will be a model for many to follow as the fight to destroy breast cancer continues. She was a true hero to the cause. We promise to keep Debbie and her extended families in our prayers and, even though we will not be able to join you at her services, we will be there in spirit praying with you. God bless you all.
George & Nancy Guthrie <Georgegut3@Verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Thursday, February 8, 2007 8:09 AM CST
Brant, Haley and Christopher,
My prayers, thoughts and love are with you, Barb, Ed and Chip. Knowing that Deb is no longer in pain having fought a courageous battle for years, is a relief to all. She is truly in a better place now. The Guthries will be there with you on Saturday!
Love,
Uncle Mike
Mike Guthrie <mgut16@aol.com>
Pass Christian, Ms USA - Thursday, February 8, 2007 7:17 AM CST
Brant, my mom will be joining Debbie before too long. She sees her oncologist today to discuss hospice. Somehow, I knew Debbie was in Heaven, and I talked to her yesterday, asking her to take care of Mama when she gets there. God bless you and the boys. Debbie's not in pain or suffering anymore. It's the one's who are left with their grief who need our prayers. I'm sending mine for you and the family.
Betsy Camp-Hoffman <ecamp5@houston.rr.com>
Dickinson, TX - Thursday, February 8, 2007 5:17 AM CST
Brant,
While I did not know Debbie well, I feel like she was a dear friend. When I was diagnosed in July 2003, she was one of the first people to contact me - She gave me one of her lovely pink ornaments. I will never forget her kind and encouraging words and deed. I think I hugged her once in church after that, but she will always be with me because of that. Thank you for sharing your journey with us. Bless you and your family.
Carol Jackson <cjackson1330@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, February 8, 2007 5:11 AM CST
Please accept my sincerest sympathy. I have admired the strength, courage and wisdom Debbie used to not only fight her own cancer, but to reach out to others. She was committed to finding ways to heal those already struggling with ibc and to do the research to stop ibc. I've known her mainly through the IBC Research mailing list, but I cherish the day we spent together when we went to Raleigh to meet with other ibc'ers.
I will keep your entire family in my prayers as you mourn.
Phyllis Johnson <phyllishj@gmail.com>
Concord, NC - Thursday, February 8, 2007 5:03 AM CST
We have lost another IBC Sister to this beast. Debbie was always there for all of us. Now she is at peace with God and with all the Pathfinders that have gone before her.
I sincerely offer my condolences to Brant, the children and the rest of Debbie's family. You have lost a wonderful, special woman. But you now have a very special Angel looking out for you. The wonderful, warm memmories of Debbie will live in your hearts forever. The grief you feel from losing Debbie will ease over time. I will keep your family in my prayers. Goodbye dear Debbie, dear IBC Sister.
Jan Zurfluh
Sandy, OR USA - Thursday, February 8, 2007 1:43 AM CST
To Debbie's loved ones,
I knew Debbie through IBC Research and the National Breast Cancer Coalition. When I think of Debbie, it is her joy, energy, and determination that I remember. She blessed us all by welcoming us and sharing her journey. My thoughts and prayers are with you,
Pat
Patty Haugen <haugenp1@sio.midco.net>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, February 8, 2007 0:06 AM CST
BRANT, HAYLEY AND CHRISTOPHER.......EVEN THOUGH DEBBIE'S BOSOM BUDDIES KNEW THIS DAY WAS COMING...IT IS STILL A SHOCK AND VERY, VERY PAINFUL FOR ALL OF US. I HAVE SENT MAIL TO ALL OF HER "SISTERS IN RECOVERY"...AND MANY OF US WILL BE ATTENDING ON SATURDAY. YOUR RECENT CARINGBRIDGE UPDATES HAVE BEEN MUCH APPRECIATED. AND, WE THANK YOU FOR BEING SUCH A LOVING, CARING, DEVOTED AND SUPPORTIVE HUSBAND AND FAMILY. WE KNOW THIS HAS BEEN A DEVASTATING TIME FOR ALL OF YOU. BUT, WE ALSO KNOW THAT DEBBIE'S LEGACY, IN THE WORLD OF BREAST CANCER, AND SPECIFICALLY, IBC.....WILL LIVE FOREVER....JUST AS SHE WILL LIVE ON IN ALL OF OUR HEARTS. BLESSINGS....CAROLE PARKINSON, BOSOM BUDDIES
CAROLE PARKINSON <CDPARKI9255@AOL.COM>
CHARLOTTE, NC USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 11:39 PM CST
Dear Brant, Haley and Christopher,
I've dreaded the day I would have to write this message because it would mean that my dear friend was no longer with us. No doubt you will hear over and over in the coming days and weeks, what an inspiration Debbie was to many, many people.
Her winning smile, caring manner and determination made her an amazing advocate. She was tireless in her efforts to educate folks about inflammatory breast cancer (IBC) and lobby for more funds for breast cancer research. Her voice will be missed in that arena.
I've lost a dear friend, the IBC Research Foundation has lost an amazing advocate, Vice President and Board Member, and you have lost the hub of your family. As we all work through our own pain, we rejoice that Debbie is now pain-free and at peace.
Please know that my heart is with you during this difficult time. While I can't be at the service due to a breast cancer research meeting, I'll be there in spirit.
May you feel the love being sent your way and may God give you peace and strength to carry you through the days ahead.
Fondly,
Ginny Mason
Executive Director
IBC Research Foundation
Ginny Mason <ginny@ibcresearch.org>
Goshen, IN USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 10:12 PM CST
I knew Debbie only through her messages to the Inflammatory Breast Cancer message boards and e-mails, and through her interviews for the IBC Research Foundation. She made us all feel as if we were her friends, and she was an inspiration and guiding beacon to us all. We will miss her.
Pam Haschke
Chicago, IL USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 9:46 PM CST
I am glad you are at peace now Debbie. Candles and music sound like a nice background for crossing over. Rest! My prayers are with your family.
Indiana Sherry <shshesting@kconline.com>
Columbia City, IN US - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 8:42 PM CST
Debbie was an inspiration to me from the time I was diagnosed with IBC three years ago. She was very brave and courageous. I will pray for Debbie's family and friends that they may find comfort in knowing that she is with God.
Felice <fmegb@stjoelive.com>
- Wednesday, February 7, 2007 8:25 PM CST
Sending you many prayers - I will continue to lift you up in prayer in the coming weeks and months, as I know you will go through many different emotions. I will never forget Debbie and her spunk, even when she was not feeling well. Much love,
Mandy
Tucker, GA USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 8:22 PM CST
I have read Debbies journal and it so touched my heart. My very best wishes to her family and friends. I hope her children find comfort with the love that she has woven around them.
sharron rosenberg <sharronrosenberg@comcast.net>
lecanto, fl usa - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 6:52 PM CST
God Bless you and your family. As a LLLeader, we have heard wonderful things about her, and I send good thoughts and peace and hugs from Vermont to you and the family.
Kathleen Bruce, LLL Leader, Vermont <kbruce@together.net>
Williston, VT USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 5:43 PM CST
What grace you have shown us! With heartfelt love and admiration to Debbie and her family,
Lisa Eller <lse27520@bellsouth.net>
Greensboro, NC USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 5:38 PM CST
Your family has been and continues to be in my thoughts and prayers daily.
LLLove, Kellam Gaddy
Kellam Gaddy <kgaddy@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 4:48 PM CST
Rest in Peace. I have been and will continue praying for you and your family .
Uncle Bob(by)& Susan <bobguthrie@newton-associates.com>
Start , La Richland - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 4:34 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids. We are happy that Debbie is without pain now and ready to lead her family through the times ahead.
Much love,
Chris, Suzi, Connor and Ella Flynn
Suzi Flynn <chrissuzi@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, nc USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 4:22 PM CST
With love and wonderful memories to all of you. From another LLL friend of Debbie's.
Pam Freedman
Chapel Hill, NC - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 4:19 PM CST
Debbie was a wonderful person and left such a postive mark on this world. There are only great things to be said. I wish the family peace and comfort and will continue to keep them in my prayers.
Dana Thomas Hutchinson <DanaH@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 3:05 PM CST
It is hard to believe that I first met Debbie almost 30 years ago! I am so fortunate to have been able to call her a friend. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.
Laura Fancher Johnson <bentnail4@clearwire.net>
Holliday, TX USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 1:35 PM CST
Debbie's work here is done, and now she can rest. We will all miss her greatly, but our lives are all richer for having known Debbie. She has been an inspiration of faith and love to all of us. Brant, Hailey and Christopher, our hearts and prayers go out to you.
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 1:02 PM CST
Dear Brant, Haley and Christopher, I just wanted you to know how deeply sorry we are. For eight years, we have lifted Debbie up in prayer. My Sunday School class has never removed Debbie from our Prayer Requests list. They have been and continue to be faithful prayer warriors. We would ask the Lord to heal her, comfort her and give her courage and strength. Our Lord did not fail, because He can not fail. He answered our prayers. Today Debbie is in the arms of our Savior and is fully healed. She is no longer in pain.. no longer suffering and yes she is being comforted by the Great Comforter. So God did answer our prayers... He always does. Please know we will not stop praying for you. And like Debbie said, "it won't be but a wink of an eye" and we will all be together. We love you.
Flea and Vicki
Marion, NC USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 12:11 AM CST
The power of prayer extinguishes the strength of fire, restrains the raging of lions, settles wars and fights, endures storms, escapes devils, opens the doors of heaven, breaks the bonds of death, casts out diseases, repels injuries, and strengthens shattered cities."
- Saint John Chrysostom
Your life has been a true inspiration to me! I have been praying for you for a long time. As you rest now, in Jesus' arms, your pain is gone and you can be your family's guide.
Carmel
Fort Mill, SC - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 11:07 AM CST
You all have been in my prayers every day. I know this has been a difficult journey for you all. Please know that Debbie is now your very special angel who is no longer in pain. Although I did not know her very well, I spent two years with her ZTA group and was able to see what an incredile person she was. You would never know that she was as sick as she was. She had such an upbeat and caring personality. She truly was brave in the way she faced her illness. You all will continue to be in my prayers as you face this new chapter in your life.
Sarah Gray <scgray@nationalgypsum.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 9:44 AM CST
Dear Debbie, I'm praying that you are finally in peace... I have prayed that the end would cause you no pain... and I've been told that you were quite peaceful. I'm sure that heaven has a special place for you. In my opinion, you were brave even in the end. Your silly jokes put me at ease... and even more, made me admire you even more. As I've told you many, many times before, you are the BRAVEST woman I've ever known. And that is so very true, even today. And I must tell you, your family is so very brave too.... so much love for you ... so much tenderness, that what I saw left me with tears. I will continue to pray for you and everyone in your family. I'm not very good with words, so I struggle with what is in my heart. But now you know, without me uttering a word. Dave and I are here for your family and I hope they know that. What ever we can do ...(they know that!). You're already missed! Love and prayers, Jennifer and David Hood (and the boys)
Jennifer
Matthews, NC 28105 - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 10:48 PM CST
Debbie,
Although we only met once at a Zeta meeting a couple months ago, I think you're an amazing woman. You're strong, caring, and courageous. You're truly an inspiration. May the Lord bless you and everyone around you. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Rest in HIM...
Zeta love,
Sherry McNitt-McCoy <sammy274782@yahoo.com>
Monroe, NC USA - Saturday, February 3, 2007 10:57 AM CST
Dearest Debbie,
You are truly an inspiration who will never be forgotten. I'll always remember sharing a hotel room with you in DC for the breast cancer conference. Your enthusiasm was contagious. You and your loving family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Anne Preston
USA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 8:00 AM CST
DEBBIE, BRANT, HAYLEY AND CHRISTOPHER......DID NOT REALIZE I COULD STILL SIGN GUEST BOOK. I'VE SENT MAIL TO ALL YOUR "BUDDIES" AND TO MYRA. JUST WANT YOU KNOW THAT I AM SHOOTING LITTLE ARROW PRAYERS UP TO HEAVEN...ALL DAY LONG....I WANT YOU TO KNOW, DEB, THAT YOU ARE STILL MY MENTOR, MY EDUCATOR, MY ANGEL OF MERCY....AND MY GUIDING LIGHT. EVEN THOUGH YOUR FUTURE IS UNCERTAIN RIGHT NOW ...WE DEFINITELY KNOW WHO HOLDS YOUR FUTURE. WHAT A BLESSING TO KNOW THAT JESUS IS WAITING FOR ALL OF US, WITH OPEN ARMS......CONSIDER YOURSELF HUGGED, WITH THE BIGGEST BEAR HUG.....A BEAR COLLECTOR COULD OFFER......I LOVE YOU, AND RESPECT YOU, AND ADMIRE YOUR STRENGTH....AND I MISS YOU, SO MUCH......BLESSINGS.....CAROLE PARKINSON
CAROLE PARKINSON <CDPARKI9255@AOL.COM>
CHARLOTTE, NC USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 2:36 PM CST
Debbie,
I will be thinking of you and praying for you. You are always in my thoughts even though it's been a while since I last saw you. Your strength will be missed along with your smile and laugh. Because of your time and efforts you have helped many women to know about breast cancer. I know your decision has been a tough one for you and your famiily. I will be praying for you and your family.
Scarlett Overbay-inman <scarlettcrops@yahoo.com>
Mooresville, NC USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 12:26 AM CST
All are strength is with you at this time. God Bless you. Dick and Pam
Dick and Pam Nelson <nelsonrp@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 4:03 PM CST
Debbie- The last 5 years of knowing you have been a blessing. You have been a great teacher on how to live your life and how to be a great mother. You have changed me and I will always be grateful to have been your friend. I wish that there was more time to learn great life lessons from you. Please know that I think of you daily and will do anything for you and your family. I remember your entry 2 years ago on st patricks day where you talked about 4 leaf clovers. Everytime I see a patch of clovers I think of you. I actually found one on Sat. and picked it for you.
Cherise Gilbert <cgilbert@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, January 29, 2007 11:32 AM CST
Debbie, I think about you constantly. I wonder what your boys will be like when they grow up, and I pray they are as full of joy and embrace life to the fullest just as you do. You are all in my prayers.
Betsy Camp-Hoffman <ecamp5@houston.rr.com>
Dickinson, TX 77539 - Monday, January 29, 2007 10:20 AM CST
Dear Debbie,
I am praying for you without ceasing. You are such a strong woman and a beautiful person. Thanks for the inspiration you are in my life.
Anything you , Brant or the kids need...just ask!
Love,
Brenda
Brenda <brenda_maloney@alltel.net>
- Monday, January 29, 2007 5:51 AM CST
Debbie and Family,
My family to yours only wish you peace and love. We will all miss you dearly.
Suzi Flynn <chrissuzi@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, January 28, 2007 8:36 PM CST
Dearest Debbie: Robyn has been keeping me up to date. My thoughts and prayers have been with you. Friends are eternal, and though it may have been many years since I've seen you in person, you are always in my heart. Much grace and love to you and your family.
Cheryl Albrecht <cherylalbrecht@gmail.com>
Portland, OR United States - Sunday, January 28, 2007 6:13 PM CST
Debbie, my friend, my neighbor, my inspiration. You have played such a huge part in touching so many lives. I have only known you for such a short time in comparion to others, but boy what a lesson you have taught. "Live your life to the fullest, don't let the little stuff get you, because there very well maybe something bigger around the next corner". Not only have you taught us how to live, but you are now teaching us how to die. With dignity and grace from beginning to end. Goodbyes are never easy, but my friend you are moving on to your well deserved reward.
Brant know that eventhough we will never understand the journey that you have been on, do know that we will continue to be here to support you and the kids.
The Martorelli's <bcmartorelli@carolina.rr.com>
- Sunday, January 28, 2007 2:27 PM CST
Just thinking of the whole family, and want to send my love. Debbie, you truly have run an Amazing Race. We pray for you and your family as a family everyday. You deserve to be able to rest from your fight, and you deserve peace. He will be there to greet you and tell you "Well done, my faithful servant." ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, January 28, 2007 10:00 AM CST
To Deb and family:
What a blessing it has been to have you as a special friend, Deb. We've always agreed that while we wouldn't have volunteered to have IBC, there have been some good things that have come from it. Our friendship is one of those "good things". We probably would never have met otherwise.
Your beautiful spirit, determination and dedication are a powerful witness to all. You've done an amazing job of being a wife, mother, friend and educator, telling others about IBC. Your presence will be missed "on the hill" each spring; your determined whisper will be missed during Board meetings; but your spirit will continue to guide our work. It breaks my heart that I can't do anything to "fix" this and change the outcome. You know the feeling as we've watched others walk the road you are on and were powerless to intervene.
Know that you have made an incredible difference in the lives of many people. Your legacy lives on in your beautiful children and the lives you have touched along the way. Through your church, community work and your inflammatory breast cancer advocacy your sweet spirit has always shown.
May you feel surrounded by the love being sent your way as you savor this time with your family. Thanks for your friendship and for sharing yourself with so many.
God's peace to you,
Ginny
Ginny Mason <ginny@ibcresearch.org>
Goshen, IN USA - Saturday, January 27, 2007 9:25 PM CST
Love and prayers coming for your family -- Debbie, Brant, Haley, Christopher, Debbie's parents, other loved ones. May God grant you peace and wrap His comforting arms around you all.
LLLove,
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR - Saturday, January 27, 2007 1:37 AM CST
Debbie, thank you for the inspiration you are to my family, and especially to Beth. You have taught us how to live with passion and purpose, and that in God, through faith in Jesus Christ, we need not fear death. The gifts you’ve given your children, through your incredible spirit and courageous fight, will carry them through their lives. As Haley and Chris grow and mature, they will cherish the sacrifices and the pain you endured to spend every possible moment with them. And, we will be forever honored to share your legacy with them.
Brant, you are Debbie’s equal in inspiration. In the madness and sadness of this long battle, you’ve redefined “positive outlook” for me and really put life’s daily struggles in perspective. Although our friendship is just beginning, know that we are here in whatever capacity you need. Never be afraid to ask for anything, as I know you will always remain first in line when others need help.
When it is finally time for you to leave us, Debbie, go in the knowledge that you have run with perseverance the race set before you. What I wouldn’t give to see the open arms and beaming smile of Jesus as He welcomes you home with a resounding, “Well done, my precious child!” We will rejoice in the fact that you will be dancing through eternity in your perfect, heavenly body and residing in the very special place that Jesus, himself, has been preparing for you since before you were born.
God has great things in store for the McKinney family; of this I have no doubt. He sent Jesus not only for our salvation, but also that we might have life more abundantly (John 10:10).
Dan Meyer
Matthews, NC - Friday, January 26, 2007 11:44 AM CST
Continuing to pray for you and your family, Debbie. We honor you for all you've been through and the way you have handled everything that has come your way.
Ellen Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC - Friday, January 26, 2007 8:44 AM CST
Dear Debbie,
You have fought long and hard and been an inspiration to many women. You and your family continue in my prayers. I know that the Lord has been with you through everything and will continue to be with you and your loved ones. Never forget all the help and love you gave to mothers and babies during your time as a LLL Leader and as CLA of NC. I have been blessed to know you.
Love to you all
Charlene
Charlene Jenkins <cjenkins13@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 12:27 AM CST
Debbie, Brant, Haley, & Christopher,
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Keep faith in Him.
LLLove & Peace, Sandra
Sandra Christensen <LLLSandraLou2@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 4:27 AM CST
Prayers to you and the whole family, from our little family in Atlanta, Georgia. I'll never forget, Debbie, how much you inspired me to "keep on trying" with nursing, from the beginning when it was so hard. I contined for around 9 months. You are an inspiration to many, and hold so many memories with so many. Peace to the entire McKinney family,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@comcast.net>
Atlanta, GA USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 9:08 PM CST
Debbie -
I want you to know that you and Brant are such an inspiration to the rest of us. Your positive attitude and Brant's never-ending support are amazing! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish you well on this part of your journey and know that you are very much loved and appreciated. Brant - you are a saint and I am praying that God watches over you, Haley and Christopher and He helps to ease your pain as well as watching over Debbie.
God bless you and I wish you peace and love. ZLAM
Beatrice Hartmann Runyan <uncczta@gmail.com>
Chapel Hill, NC USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 5:09 AM CST
Debbie,
Although I have never met you physically, I want you to know how much I admire you and your family. You are my IBC Sister. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless and keep you in his care. Love & Prayers,
Patty Swecker
Patty Swecker <wandps@meer.net>
Dailey, WV USA - Sunday, January 21, 2007 12:16 AM CST
Debbie, From all of the women who became La Leche League Leaders with support, encouragement and love from you as their mentor, I offer heartfelt appreciation and LLLove. Your spirit motivates many others and as we have learned in La Leche League, when you touch one life who touches another, it goes on forever. Peace to you. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with so many mothers and babies.
Lisa Malmberg, LLL of NC <lmalmberg@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Sunday, January 21, 2007 10:55 AM CST
Debbie:
I love you, and you will always be alive, vibrant, joyous and an inspiration in my memory and the memories of many. I hate this disease. I'm doing a photo shoot for a book next week, "The Faces of Breast Cancer," and both you and my mom will be foremost in my mind. I'll always remember the smiling college girl (what a smile!!!), and the woman you became. Vaya con Dios, my friend. Take your rest. It is well earned. Zeta love forever.
Betsy Camp <ecamp5@houston.rr.com>
Dickinson, TX - Saturday, January 20, 2007 10:32 AM CST
Debbie,
Look at your legacy and the many people you have met throughout your journey! You have been a blessing and an inspiration to so many. You may never know the many ways you have touched the people who know you. I know that my life is richer because of you.
Now it is time for you to take care of yourself and your family. Know that you remain in the thoughts and prayers in my home always. Your stength has been motivation and your courage has inspired determination.
Haley and Christopher will know always how hard you have battled to be there for them. What a wonderful mother you are!!
God Bless!
Michelle
Michelle Plaisance <mplaisance@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 10:04 PM CST
Debbie, Brant, Haley and Christopher, Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers in the days and weeks to come. There are so many who care for you all and I hope you can feel their love and draw strength from it. Peace to you all.
Margo MacIntyre <margalo900@bellsouth.net>
Chapel Hill, NC USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 3:01 PM CST
I just got off the phone with Suzi (Freeman) Flynn, and she doesn't have internet access right now, so I am posting for her now:
Debbie, Brant, Haley, and Christopher, the Flynn's are thinking of you, praying for you, and want you to know that you are in their hearts right now. Brant, Suzi echo's my offer to do absolutely anything to help you all through this journey. Love, Suzi (and Flynn family)
Debbie, this is from my (Amanda's) heart... I am hurting because you will leave us, but I'm hopeful and take comfort in knowing that your journey is not ending - it is just beginning. You will be with God now, and that is where we all aspire to be. Please save a place for us, just as we are saving a spot for you in our hearts that will never leave. Love, Amanda
Amanda Warfield (& Suzi Flynn) <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC 28211 - Friday, January 19, 2007 12:17 AM CST
Debbie,
You are a truly amazing person whose determination and uplifting spirit is and will continue to be an inspiration to me and others. I know that you will be in a better place and waiting to see us all again sometime soon.
Thank you for all the ways you have touched my life and my heart; so many ways that you are completely unaware of.
With lots of love and prayers-
Kelly Brun
Kelly Brun
Matthews, nc - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:45 AM CST
Sweet Debbie...Your smile, your presence, your demeanor, your spirit...all are so filled with the Spirit of God. It is so very evident in your walk that He is your ever present guide and friend.
What a legacy you have created during the journey you have
been on...to see your strength...your determination...your example for the children...your fight for others...
Thank you for being the blessing that you are.
To you and your family....I will hold you close in my prayers and my heart.
And, especially to Miss Haley...Know that God is with you, that He loves you, and that He will always hold you and make you strong throughout your life.
With much love,
Madeline Kamp
Madeline Kamp <madeline@matthewsumc.org>
matthews, nc usa - Friday, January 19, 2007 10:19 AM CST
Debbie,
I will always consider you to be my IBC mentor and will graciously carry the STOP IBC Torch in your honor.
Peace to you sweetie.
Alexis
Your IBC Sister in Charlotte
Alexis Frisinger <ajfrisinger@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:28 PM CST
Debbie -
We first met in person as we shared a room in Washington, DC at the NBCC conference in 1999. I have admired your advocacy for IBC and all of our sisters. You have definitely made a difference.
To share the quote that describes your efforts in the IBC fight - "do all you can with what you have in the time that you have." And you have.
With prayers for your comfort and peace,
and support for your family -
Doris N.Moore
Elmer, NJ USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:58 PM CST
Hi, Debbie - it was such an inspiration to meet you last May at the first NC IBC get-together. So sorry you are not feeling good right now...please know that you and your family are in my prayers. Charlotte in Greenville, NC
Charlotte Bryant <earthangel7@suddenlink.net>
Greenville, NC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:09 PM CST
You are all so strong. Debbie, I am so very VERY proud of you and how you have handled your walk with this disease. I love you so much, dear sister. I want to be there for you, but I know that being there in prayer and spirit is just as strong. God has a special place for the likes of you - that is what my mother would say... I feel blessed to have been your sister and to call you friend and I know that this time, this very precious time, will be cherished by your family and it will be this very special time that will allow you to take these final steps in peace, dignity, and love. We all love you. And God definitely has blessed you. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 7:23 PM CST
Brant, Debbie and family,
You remain in our thoughts and prayers as you journey through the coming days. Peace be with you.
Cindy LaPoint <clapoint@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, January 18, 2007 7:16 PM CST
Brant & Debbie,
You guys have put up a great fight and I've been keeping up with you although I haven't talked to you in awhile. Thanks for continually updating your journal to let us know what is going on. Debbie, my cuz, you are amazing and must have gotten some of that "spunk" from Grandmom. You refused to give up and now I know you are tired and ready to go to see what God has in store for you. I will remember you as being so bright and talented. I'll remember your beautiful voice and trying to teach me to sing. Know that I love you and am very proud of you. Brant, you are a saint. What a wonderful husband & father you are to be there for Debbie when she needed you most. I hope that your hearts are filled with love, joy and understanding as you go through the coming days. I have never forgotten either of you and just wanted to remember Debbie as being healthy. Love from your cousin, Debbie
Debra Sharpe <dsharpe@kwcharlotte.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 3:28 PM CST
Brant, you are all in my prayers and thoughts. Please give Debbie my love.
Carroll Beckham <cbeckham@nc.rr.com>
Fayetteville, NC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 2:03 PM CST
I know what a difficult decision this has been for both of you. I pray for peace for you. The two of you are such an inspiration to so many people. I hope you know that and realize just how much you are loved. I am so very proud of both of you. Jim sends his love.
ZLAM
Nancy H. Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, January 18, 2007 11:15 AM CST
Hi Debbie,
God bless you and your family.
ZLAM, kjo
Kristin O'Carroll <kristin.ocarroll@wachovia.com>
Denver, NC - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:03 AM CST
prayers of love and comfort being sent your way
Stacey
waxhaw, nc - Thursday, January 18, 2007 9:08 AM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Vicki and Brianna Chaifetz <vchaifetz@jacarolinas.org>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:52 AM CST
All our thoughts and prayers are with you Brant. Please let me know if there is anything we can do.
Debbie: WE LOVE YOU!
Darlene ZTA <djoswalt66@yahoo.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:45 AM CST
Brant- you all remain in my thougths and prayers and I am willing to help you out in anyway I can- just ask. May God give you the strength you need at this time.
Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, January 18, 2007 7:31 AM CST
Brant, please give Debbie a hug from me, and know that I send much love to you, Debbie and the children. Debbie and I share friends through LLL, and I've followed her amazing progress against IBC and remembered her in my prayers for years. Debbie is being added again to the prayers at Quapaw Quarter UMC in Little Rock.
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR - Thursday, January 18, 2007 0:49 AM CST
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Elissa
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 0:44 AM CST
Brant, you and your family are in our prayers tonight. May you all find comfort and strength in the many, many prayers going up from those who love your family so much. In Christ's love, Sherry & family
Sherry
formerly of Matthews - now Chicago, IL - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 7:59 PM CST
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.
Laura Fancher Johnson <bentnail4@clearwire.net>
Holliday, TX USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 6:02 PM CST
Brant, you and the kids are in my prayers with all of my heart tonight. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but please just know that I'm praying, and hard. Sending much love,
Mandy
Atlanta, GA USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 5:47 PM CST
Hey Debbie! You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Ann
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 12:57 AM CST
I too am thinking and praying for all of you.
ZL- connie
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, January 14, 2007 9:13 PM CST
Always thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. We are here with you, I hope you feel the stength.
Love to you and your family.
Michelle Plaisance <mplaisance@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 6:21 PM CST
Just thinking of you and praying for you. :)
Leilani <leilani311@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC USA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 3:53 PM CST
Debbie and Brant - hoping and praying for good results from this treatment - the *best* results - also hoping you'll find time to update the page soon. LLLove to you all -
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 0:14 AM CST
Debbie, We continue to check on you and pray for you and your family. You have been an inspiration and blessing to many. In His love,
Sherry
Was Matthews - Now Chicago, IL USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 8:51 PM CST
Praying very hard for you, Deb. Thinking of you tonight and I hope that you are getting some much-needed rest and *healing*. Love, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 8:39 PM CST
I heard from Connie that your mom is here for a while. I know that makes everything easier for you and I'm glad. I also heard that you had been to Starbucks - nothing like a jolt of caffeine!! Thinking about all of you and, of course, praying. Love you all.
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, January 4, 2007 1:16 PM CST
Debbie and Brant,
Just want to add my name to the long list of people wishing you both prayers and support. You are truely an inspiration to us all.
Jackie Richmond <jackierich1@aol.com>
Denver, NC - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 8:44 AM CST
Hey Minnie Mouse! It was great hearing your voice yesterday! Thanks for the call! Here's to a wonderful, happy, healthy and joyful new year for you, Brant and your family.
Love,
Robyn
Robyn W. Blackwell <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 4:58 PM CST
Happy New Year! Debbie, as always you are in my thoughts and prayers. Good to see Kris here, too, wishing you ghe best. Zeta Love,
Betsy
Betsy Camp <ecamp5@houston.rr.com>
Dickinson, tx us - Monday, January 1, 2007 11:33 AM CST
Love and prayers for Debbie and family as the 2007 begins. Debbie, you've been a role-model in strength, persistance, and determination. Thanks for letting us share in the journey and offer prayers of support. I hope 2007 is good to you all. LLLove,
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR - Monday, January 1, 2007 9:15 AM CST
Hello to all - wanting to wish you a new year of *healing* for this New Year's Eve. Physical *and* emotional. Love to all of you. Debbie, keep fighting! We are with you in prayer. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, December 31, 2006 7:01 PM CST
Hi Debbie,
I have been thinking about you and your family this holiday season. We have been out looking at the lights too and it makes me think of you every time. Your house looks festive and peaceful from the outside, I hope you are all that way inside as well.
Happy New Year girlfriend! You are really on my mind and in my prayers right now.
Love, Michelle
Michelle Plaisance <mplaisance@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Sunday, December 31, 2006 3:46 PM CST
Hey Debbie! Just stopping by to send my love to you and your family. You're an amazing girl and have given this cancer a courageous fight .. just keep on fighting baby. Our prayers as always are continuous. Much Love, Mare
Mare
Des Plaines, IL - Sunday, December 31, 2006 2:20 PM CST
Debbie, Brant and family,
I am sorry to hear about Debbie having to endure more chemo and I pray that she will recover. You are all in my prayers and in my mom's Sunday School's as well. We love you and look forward to hearing that you enjoyed your holidays!
Love,
Kristin Brannon Ayala
Kristin <kayala@cherrycreekschools.org>
Aurora, CO - Saturday, December 30, 2006 7:46 PM CST
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Brant & Debbie, thanks for the phone call Christmas morning. I hope the rest of your day was calm & restful. We love you both - the kids too.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 27, 2006 8:28 AM CST
Just sending love and best wishes to you all. I hope the doctors can find a way to beat back the monster. I'm praying hard for you Debbie... keep fighting sis! Love and prayers, Laney xx
Laney Cummings <laney@aboutibc.co.uk>
Durham, England, UK - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 7:57 PM CST
Okay Deb -- sing along.
We wish you a Merry Christmas.
We wish you a Merry Christmas.
We wish you a Merry Christmas ...
and a Happy New Year.
Love,
Becky
Beck Rosen <rrosen6@tampabay.rr.com>
- Monday, December 25, 2006 5:53 PM CST
Just thinking of all of you. I pray for you all to have continued strength and courage. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 5:18 AM CST
Debbie,
You and your amazing family are in my prayers. I think of you and Haley often, and I am here for both of you. May you have a beautiful Christmas.
Amanda Stroupe <amoore10@carolina.rr.com>
- Thursday, December 21, 2006 8:03 PM CST
Thank you, Brant, for taking the time to update everyone. You are the perfect husband for Debbie and I admire you just as much as I do her. I know it is so hard for you to watch Debbie suffer - just as it is for all of us who love her.
Debbie, Jim and I are praying as hard as we know how. We pray that you will enjoy a peaceful Christmas with your family and we pray for a Christmas miracle for you. We love you all.
Brant, we will be in town over the holidays and are only a phone call away. If there is ANYTHING (and I do mean anything!), we can do to help, please do not hesitate to call.
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, December 21, 2006 9:00 AM CST
Debbie and Brant:
Your family is continually in our prayers.
A supplier of Frank's was able to get a case of Boost. We tried to drop if off last night but no one was home. I will try again today and if no one is there, I will leave it on your doorstep as we are going to Chicago today.
We hope you get out of the hospital soon and can celebrate Christmas at home with your family.
All our love and prayers,
Darlene Oswalt <djoswalt66@yahoo.com>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, December 21, 2006 5:55 AM CST
Thank you for the update Brant - not an easy thing to do at the moment, but it is very appreciated. I am continuing to pray hard for some reprieve for you Debbie - let's hope this latest treatment helps a lot. May you and all your family enjoy a happy Christmas and New Year. Love and prayers, Laney in the UK.
Laney Cummings <laney@aboutibc.co.uk>
Durham, . UK - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 5:22 PM CST
Brant- thanks for the update- always wanting to know how things are going. You are such a wonderful husband for Debbie and a super dad too. Let me know how I can help.
Debbie - you and your family remain in my prayers- God Bless you, I hope you feel like coming home soon and are able to enjoy Christmas with your family.
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 20, 2006 9:49 AM CST
Debbie and Brant - your inner-strength, dedication and devotion to your family during this horrible ordeal continues to inspire me. I keep you in my prayers always and hope you realize how much you mean to so many people. You are deeply loved!!
ZLAM,
Miriam
Miriam Caraway <mirmie89@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 9:42 AM CST
Hi Debbie!
Been thinking about you and saying lots of prayers. How about your anniversary of 7 years??? That is so awesome! You truly are an inspiration to us all. Love and miss you bunches!!!
Merry Christmas to all!
Kristin O'Carroll <kjo127@charter.net>
Denver, NC - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 9:38 AM CST
I had just told my hubby today that I had a feeling that something was brewing with Debbie. Just a gut feel, and now I know my gut was accurate. I am praying so very hard for all of you, and I wish that I could just make it all go away. I pray that God shows His mercy and allows you all some bright spots this Christmas. Even bright moments are better than no moments at all, and I pray for you to have them, day by day.Love, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 0:54 AM CST
Hi Debbie and Brant, Thank you so much for the update. You are both in my prayers.
Gayla Little <gayla42@aol.com>
Fair Oaks, IN USA - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 8:48 PM CST
Hi,
You guys are always in our prayers......let us know if we can help you in any way........
Tracy and Dave Wilson <Tracy.Wilson@tvratings.com>
Charlotte, nc - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 8:28 PM CST
Brant, Please let me know if I can help...I have enjoyed spending time with Debbie at Chemo and are here for you and the kids.
Aunt Becky <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 8:06 PM CST
Hi Debbie and Brant! You're in my thoughts and prayers. My mom is hanging in there, too. Her weight is down too low, and she's weak, but in good spirits. What will be will be. Shalom.
Betsy <ecamp@utmb.edu>
Dickinson, TX - Saturday, December 16, 2006 8:57 AM CST
Hi Debbie and Brant:
Just read the recent post. Sorry I didn't read it sooner. I am praying for you both. Please let me know whenever and however I can help. I am just around the corner.
All my love
Darlene,ZTA <djoswalt66@yahoo.com>
Matthews, NC - Friday, December 15, 2006 1:12 PM CST
Debbie--I love you and pray for you constantly. Thanks Brant for the updates:)
Allison Courtenay <allikc@sbcglobal.net>
Frisco, TX - Thursday, December 14, 2006 6:12 PM CST
Praying soooooo hard for you. Keep fighting, Debbie. We love you... Amanda
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 12:02 AM CST
Brant- thanks for the update. All of you remain in my daily thoughts and prayers. May God continue to give you strength throughout your journey.
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 11, 2006 9:31 AM CST
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!
Eric Johnson & Amy Wright
Charlotte, NC United States - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:14 AM CST
Debbie, our thoughts and prayers are always with you. Brant, thank you for continuing Debbie's journal. Your faith & strength are remarkable. May God's grace shine on your family through the lights of the Christmas season. Haley is certainly shining in dance. ~*Karen & Monica*~
Karen Washington
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 8:43 PM CST
Debbie, You and your family remain in our thoughts and prayers. I saw Haley at dance on Saturday and she said you were going to a holiday movie with her. She is certainly becoming a beautiful young lady: a reflection of the wonderful family she is part of. I hope that you continue to enjoy all the holiday lights and music throughout the Christmas season. God Bless you Debbie.
Cindy LaPoint <clapoint@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 8:18 PM CST
Debbie - we love you! You are such a brave, strong person! We pray for you everyday!
Ann and Allison Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 6:59 PM CST
Ok, Debbie, sounds like you need a night out! We are sending a car for you at 7 p.m. on Tuesday, no excuses! We have a standing date and this is no time for a change in schedule. We love you and it won't be the same without you there. FIVE vegetarian items (not to mention the chocolate) on this month's menu, come hungry!!
In my prayers as always with love,
Michelle Plaisance <mplaisance@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC US - Sunday, December 10, 2006 6:55 PM CST
I have been thinking of you and your family and saying my prayers. I came across your website a while ago and have been following your journey. you are an amazing woman. Hope you will be feeling better soon. Love Kathy from new jersey
Kathy <eboljonis@aol.com>
middltown, nj - Sunday, December 10, 2006 5:40 PM CST
Brant, thank you so much for the update. You and Debbie and your family are in my thoughts and prayers daily. My God be with all of you. Zeta love to Debbie!
Another Beta Iota Zeta (and a 5-year BC survivor)
Betsy Camp <ecamp@utmb.edu>
Dickinson, TX - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:29 AM CST
Debbie, Your faith and strength are inspiring. Please know that my family will continue to keep you lifted up to Him in our thoughts and prayers.
Brant, Thanks for the update today! We live in Chicago now but I just asked Jeannie for an update on Debbie today. God is very good!! Your family is always in our thoughts and prayers.
In His love, Sherry
Sherry
- Saturday, December 9, 2006 9:37 PM CST
Debbie--What a trooper you are. God is using you in such a mighty way. You and your family are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you're alright since it has been a while since you posted. I love you:)
Allison Courtenay (ZTA sister from Centenary) <acourtenay@yahoo.com>
Frisco, TX - Saturday, December 9, 2006 1:21 AM CST
Debbie, being here 7 years, you are not just beating odds. You are SMASHING them to bits and pieces. Keep fighting. I pray that God keeps giving you divine strength and courage. Love, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 6:56 PM CST
Congrats on seven years of beating IBC. Here's to another 70! Hang in there kiddo...
Love you big sister!!!
Chip <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 7:38 PM CST
Hi Aunt Debbie!
I love you soooooooooooooooooooooo much!!! Congrats on surviving cancer for 7 years! That is a wonderful accomplishment. Just to let you know, in language arts, we had to write an essay on a hero of ours. I chose to write about you and how strong you are. You will always be my hero. Again, I love you! See you soon!
Love,
Lauren
Lauren <beachbumlmb94@aim.com>
charlotte, nc united states - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 6:01 PM CST
Dear Aunt Debbie,
You are very brave and I love you very much!
Tommy Bohannon <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 5:46 PM CST
Congratulations Debbie on your anniversary of 7 years of surviving IBC. You are the strongest person I know. I love you sis!
Becky Bohannon <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 5:31 PM CST
Just sending a big hug your way!! Love you.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 11:32 AM CST
I am praying that you are ok... Debbie, you are so special. I pray you have strength and that God gives you what you need to move forward. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, December 4, 2006 8:19 PM CST
Hi McKinney Family! This is Lynn Keith at Providence Spring. Just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you. We miss Haley and Christopher!
Lynn Keith
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, December 4, 2006 2:47 PM CST
Dear, Dear, Debbie! You are in our prayers and thoughts all the time. Hope the Gemzar is doing what it's supposed to do to get our favorite person back on track! Love you kiddo .......Mare
Mare
Des Plaines, IL USA - Monday, December 4, 2006 12:52 AM CST
Debbie:
I think about you all the time. I think about your smile, and your laugh. And what a good Mom you must be!
All my love,
Betsy
Betsy Camp <ecamp@houston.rr.com>
Dickinson, TX USA - Friday, December 1, 2006 9:43 PM CST
Debbie, this is Corinne Erikson, your friend Debbie's Mother-in-law. I just wanted to let you know that you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. It was so good to see you at Becca's birthday party...nobody was safe from those water balloons! May God grant you the strength you need for each day-one day at a time. Love, Corinne
Corinne Erikson <cerikson@carolina.rr.com>
- Friday, December 1, 2006 9:19 AM CST
Thinking about you, Debbie, and hoping you are feeling better!!
Love,
Ellen Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC - Friday, December 1, 2006 9:10 AM CST
Hey! Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you and sending lots of prayers and good thoughts your way.
Love ya!
Robyn
Robyn <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA 70508 - Thursday, November 30, 2006 9:30 PM CST
HI Debbie,
I'm a busom buddy, though I haven't been to group in two years, but still once a buddy always a buddy. I lift you up in prayer today and ask that God give you a wonderful carefree day with your wonderful family. You are an inspiration. Blessings,
Brenda
Brenda Mottern <brenmott@adelphia.net>
Mooresville, nc - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 6:12 AM CST
Just thinking of you... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, November 28, 2006 4:59 PM CST
Hey Debbie......Just catching up with Brant's last entry in your journal. RE: the walker and getting up and down the stairs. Allow me to share with you, how we were shown to teach a patient how to transverse the stairs....when I was orienting at the Physical Rehab Center in Pittsburgh. DO IT ON YOUR REAR!!!!!ONE STEP AT A TIME, STOP WHEN YOU GET POOPED. BEFORE STARTING HAVE BRANT OR THE CHILDREN CARRY YOUR WALKER TO THE TOP OF THE STAIRS..& SET IT BACK A WAYS. ONCE YOU GET TO THE TOP...SCOOT BACK FAR ENOUGH TO NOT LOSE YOUR BALANCE, AS YOU ARE GETTING BACK UP ON THE WALKER AGAIN. YOU SURE DON'T WANT TO FALL DOWN THE STEPS. YOU CAN COME DOWN THE SAME WAY, ONE STEP AT A TIME, WITH THE WALKER WAITING FOR YOU, AT THE BOTTOM OF THE STEPS. I'VE HAVE BEEN ABLE TO USE THESE REHAB EXPERIENCES, WITH MANY OF THE CA PT'S, I HAVE BEEN MENTORING. HOPE THIS WORKS FOR YOU. PLEASE TELL BRANT THAT "I'M HERE FOR HIM"..TO HELP WITH ANY OTHER REHAB ASSIST, FOR THINGS YOU CANNOT DO FOR YOURSELF. I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU....AND I AM BLESSED THAT YOU ARE THE GAL WHO HELPED ME BE WHO I AM TODAY.....MY MENTOR, MY ANGEL OF MERCY....MY EDUCATOR....AND MOST OF ALL.... MY FRIEND ...BLESSINGS.....CAROLE PARKINSON
CAROLE PARKINSON <cdparki9255@aol.com>
CHARLOTTE, NC USA - Friday, November 24, 2006 3:07 PM CST
Debbie, it has been a while since I have posted but you know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry I missed you at the meeting last week. Maybe I will see you at the next event. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving - we all have so much to be thankful for. I am particularly thankful that you are my sister, friend and Zeta Daughter. Who would have thought all those years ago when we were assigned to each other that we would still be so close. I love you.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 22, 2006 10:16 AM CST
Thinking of all of you tonight. As we get ready for Thanksgiving, I feel like I need to let you know that I'm thankful that Debbie is my friend, I'm thankful she has her wonderful family to surround her, and I'm thankful she has her rock of a husband by her side. I wish you happiness and peace throughout this Thanksgiving, the coming holidays, and beyond. All of you more than deserve it... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, November 20, 2006 7:33 PM CST
I'm so glad to see your posting, dear Debbie! Thanks, Debbie's mom for typing. You are in my thoughts and prayers constantly. My mother is about to start on her last chemo available, too. I managed to get good news and my colon biopsies were clear (whew!). This journey of life is so full of joy and sorrow and little victories and challenges ... All we can do is is live it the best we can, and do what we can to make others' journeys a little better. Thank you for sharing your joys with us, Debbie. It's good to remember that a beautiful day and getting some nutrition down are worth celebrating. Can you feel the love and hugs I'm sending? Shalom!
Betsy Camp-Hoffman <ecamp@utmb.edu>
Dickinson, TX - Saturday, November 18, 2006 10:54 AM CST
You have no idea how happy I was to get an email from you! That means you are up and functioning again, so I'm going to celebrate it!!! I have been praying so hard for you, and for healing. And I pray that this new chemo treatment kicks some Cancer A$$. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, November 16, 2006 3:02 PM CST
Having you come to Bunco was awesome! I'm glad you got out of the house for something "non-medical"!!! :-)
I've been getting daily (most days) updates from your Mom... she is a wonderful woman! Mom's are great aren't they!?!!!! They're always there when you need Mommy! There's nothing like a Mom's love to make things better! I'll miss her when she leaves (as I'm sure you will most of all!), but please know that I'm here and I'll be more than happy to type updates for you ... not to mention any thing else you might need and I can do. You and your family are in our continuous prayers!
Jennifer Hood
Matthews, NC 28105 - Wednesday, November 15, 2006 11:00 PM CST
I'm so glad to hear that you are feeling better. I was so glad to see you last night. Let me know if there is anything that I can do to help. The ladies at my church are knitting a prayer shawl for you. They asked me what color. Of course I said pink! Your in my thoughts everyday.
cherise <cgilbert@carolina.rr.com>
matthews, nc usa - Wednesday, November 15, 2006 11:27 AM CST
Thanks so much for the update Debbie! I have been checking daily, hoping for some good news. Knowing that things are looking up, that your mom is there to help out, and that your wonderful husband continues to be so supportive, lets me know that you're in great hands. God is smiling down on you and you lovely family! You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers ...
Elissa <momkatto3@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, November 15, 2006 0:32 AM CST
Debbie, Debbie, Debbie - you can't imagine what a joy it is to see your update and to know you're getting stronger and will be starting a new chemo tomorrow. Of course you're in my prayers, and will stay there, as will Brant and the children, and your mom and dad. Thanks to your mom for typing the update for you! LLLove to all -
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock , AR - Tuesday, November 14, 2006 9:17 PM CST
Hello Debbie and Brant,
I've been keeping up with your journal entries. I was sorry to hear about your recent experience at Disney World. I keep your family in my prayers and wish you all well.
Mimi Stansill <robandmimi@triad.rr.com>
SUMMERFIELD, NC USA - Tuesday, November 14, 2006 11:50 AM CST
Debbie - Connie let us know she was able to speak with you, and I am soooo thankful for that, and to hear that your voice sounded a little stronger. Praying for you constantly. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, November 13, 2006 4:42 PM CST
Brant & Debbie- you continue to have my prayers and support- let me know how I can help you out- errands, driving the kids etc.
Hope you are doing better, check your site several times a day hoping to se how you are doing.
ZL- Connie
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 10, 2006 7:24 AM CST
Prayers continue. Hoping for an update, and hoping Debbie is comfortable and will feel up to posting.
Love to all your family -
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock , AR - Thursday, November 9, 2006 8:02 PM CST
I am praying for all of you, and I can only imagine what is running through your heads. No matter what, God has you all in the palm of His hand. And you all are in our hearts and minds, and we will continue to pray. Love, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, November 8, 2006 12:17 AM CST
You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts frequently. PLEASE let me know if there is ever anything I can do. I don't cook so well (just ask my husband!), but I CAN clean and babysit!!!! I love ya!!!
ZL,
Leilani
Leilani Rabourn <leilani311@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC USA - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 11:28 AM CST
Just thinking of you all this morning. Love and prayers your way... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, November 5, 2006 9:56 AM CST
Deb,
You continue to amaze me and others with your strength, determination and faith. We've watched you scale each obstacle that gets in your way, with a smile on your face! What a special person and friend you are. Prayers continue for you and your family as you continue to face the giant.
Gentle hugs,
Ginny
Ginny Mason <ginny@ibcresearch.org>
Goshen, IN USA - Saturday, November 4, 2006 12:05 AM CST
Debbie and Brant,
I am thinking of you and sending lots of love and saying lots of prayers. I have been reading your updates for a while after I happened upon your site.
Kathy <eboljonis@aol.com>
Middletown, nj - Thursday, November 2, 2006 8:21 PM CST
This is Betsy, one of Debbie's Zeta sisters from Centenary. I'm praying for all of you.
Betsy Camp <ecamp@utmb.edu>
Dickinson, TX US - Thursday, November 2, 2006 6:52 PM CST
Dear Debbie, Brant and kids, Thinking of you all over the pond... and praying hard for you. Debbie your strength has amazed me... let it keep on doing so. Laney xxx
Laney Cummings <laney@aboutibc.co.uk>
Durham, United Kingdom - Thursday, November 2, 2006 11:20 AM CST
Debbie and Brant,
We are all right here if you need us and thinking about you all the time. Please call me if there is even one little thing you think of that will make life easier right now.
Praying for you all!
Michelle Plaisance <mplaisance@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, November 2, 2006 6:07 AM CST
Debbie, your upbeat attitude and amazing strength are an inspiration. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. My prayers are with you and your wonderful family.
Sandy C. <Sandy_m_c@msn.com>
Sherman Oaks, CA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 9:43 PM CST
Brant, praying SO hard for you and the kids and Debbie too. Send her my love, and let her know we are praying oh-so-hard for you. You are a rock for her; stay healthy and get rest and fluids yourself. Sending lots and lots of prayers,
Mandy
Tucker, GA USA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 6:55 PM CST
Prayers coming, Brant. I'll put Debbie (and family) on the prayer list at our Disciple 2 class at church tonight - leaving in a few minutes and will continually pray for Debbie's comfort and peace for you all. May God be with you.
Barbara Mullins <arkytype@swbell.net>
North Little Rock, AR - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 6:05 PM CST
Dear Brant-If ever there was a blue ribbon caregiver, it would be you. I do give thanks always for awesome husbands like you (and Hank)who make this cancer journey easier and bearable. You just keep giving Debbie and Haley and Christopher more awesome memories! Love you all! Sara
Sara Williams <shank1094@triad.rr.com>
Mebane, NC - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 12:57 AM CST
Brant, I am sooo thankful that Debbie has you. And I am so very thankful that you are both back home. I am praying for your whole family. Much love, Amanda
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 11:17 AM CST
Debbie & Brandt- I continue to pray for the Lord to give you both strength and support through this journey. Let me know how else I can help you.
I hope you were able to enjoy your trip to FL @ least a little.
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 1, 2006 9:35 AM CST
Debbie - prayers like you have never been able to comprehend are coming your way... I hate that you were in the hospital for 4 days of your vacation. I pray that you got *some* time that was enjoyable out of your trip. Andy, Meghan, Patrick, and I add you into our prayers everyday. Much love, Amanda
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, October 30, 2006 11:34 AM CST
Oh Debbie I'd hoped you could join me at Bossom Buddies sometime soon. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for your family.
Alexis Frisinger~IBC Charlotte Buddy <ajfrisinger@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, October 30, 2006 10:56 AM CST
Oh Debbie I'd hoped you could join me at Bossom Buddies sometime soon. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for your family.
Alexis Frisinger~IBC Charlotte Buddy <ajfrisinger@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, October 30, 2006 10:55 AM CST
I know it's been a while since Debbie's written. She went with Brant and the kids to Disney last week and returned Friday afternoon. Unfortunately, she ended up spending four of those days in the hospital. I'm sure she'll have more to say in her next update. She's feeling a bit worse for the wear these days and could really use your prayers and good thoughts.
Chip <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
charlotte, nc - Sunday, October 29, 2006 0:14 AM CDT
Ditto to Mandy's post! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, October 27, 2006 6:55 PM CDT
Said a prayer for you today. Hoping He gives you strength and courage and a happy day. Much love,
Mandy
Tucker, GA USA - Friday, October 27, 2006 6:26 PM CDT
Praying you are ok - hadn't seen a new post and I'm thinking of you today... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, October 24, 2006 7:25 AM CDT
Thinking of you, and hope you are doing ok. I pray for you everyday... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 8:24 AM CDT
Hi Deb!
I thought I would drop a line to tell you again how much you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Every day during our minute of silence after the bell, I say a prayer that begins with you and your health, peace, and persevearance. I am truly blessed to call you my friend and sister.
ZLAM, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@windstream.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Monday, October 16, 2006 9:09 PM CDT
Just thinking of you... Hope you are doing ok today and that you have a wonderful (and restful!) weekend. And I hope that hematoma is going *down*... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, October 13, 2006 12:05 AM CDT
Debbie, I am so sorry about your fall! I am praying that hematoma goes *down* so you are able to enjoy your next trip. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, October 10, 2006 7:20 AM CDT
Hey Debbie, I just wanted you to know that we are lifting you in prayer every day. For years, my Sunday School class has prayed fervently and faithfully for you. Not a Sunday goes by, that someone does not mention your name and ask for an update. We will not stop. We will press on. We love you. Tell Brant and the kids howdy from Marion. In Christ,
Vicki Blake <vicki.blake@mcdowell.k12.nc.us>
Marion, NC - Monday, October 9, 2006 12:11 AM CDT
Hey Deb,
I'm driving for coffee or whatever else you might feel up to. Pick a day. Love ya, Nancy
Nancy D <nancyandguy@att.net>
Weddington, NC USA - Sunday, October 8, 2006 9:43 PM CDT
Dear Debbie,
My prayers are with you.
Linda Parry
Linda Parry <LPARRYLLL@aol.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Saturday, October 7, 2006 11:03 PM CDT
Several people asked about you at the La Leche League Area Conference last weekend, Debbie. You helped so many women over the years become Leaders. Thank you. Hugs and prayers,
Carroll in Fayetteville
Carroll Beckham <cbeckham@nc.rr.com>
Fayetteville, NC USA - Saturday, October 7, 2006 4:11 PM CDT
Betsy - I'm smiling as I read your post. :) ZLAM is Zeta Love and Mine. :)
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, October 6, 2006 9:25 PM CDT
Debbie, I'm reading and praying. You're always in my thoughts. Zeta Love!
(What the heck is ZLAM?)
Betsy <ecamp5@utmb.edu>
Dickinson, tx usa - Friday, October 6, 2006 8:43 PM CDT
Debbie - what are they giving you for seizures? Is it Dilantin? I am continuously praying and thinking of you... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 6:33 PM CDT
Sweet, sweet Debbie! You continuously amaze us all with your unbelievable attitude and energy! You are always in our thoughts and prayers and love you and your family dearly. Love, Mare
Mare
Des Plaines, IL USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 5:43 PM CDT
Debbie, Just letting you know I'm still praying hard for you. Good luck with your chemo tomorrow - hoping for good news soon. Love and stuff from your IBC sister, Laney in UK xxx
Laney Cummings <laney@aboutibc.co.uk>
Durham, - England - Thursday, October 5, 2006 5:03 PM CDT
Hi, Debbie - you're in my prayers, and I hope tomorrow's chemo isn't too rough and does its job effectively. Geez, if you were given a choice between TIAs and seizures, surely would have been nice to have a "none of the above" option! Wishing for the seizure meds to work so you'll be able to drive again in the not-too-distant future; and thanking God for your friends and neighbors who are helping out.
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 9:25 PM CDT
Debbie, this is the first day we have read your journal.
God bless you. We love you with all our hearts.
Love,
Grandpa and Bari
Carl and Barbara McKinney <carbar6@verizon.net>
Marion, NC USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 3:17 PM CDT
Just thinking of you and I hope tomorrow goes as well as it can possibly go! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, October 2, 2006 5:26 PM CDT
I hate that I went away for a week and couldn't check your site - seems you have had a rough time! Debbie, I'm always praying for you, and I pray God continues to give you the strength you need. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, September 30, 2006 9:12 AM CDT
Debbie
Miss you and love you. I think of you often. I am glad you had your last chemo! I hope the news is good about the next test. I wish I was closer to help you, but you are in my prayers and mom has her whole Sunday school group praying for you too. You are so strong, I admire you so much!
Kristin Brannon Ayala <kayala@cherrycreekschools.org>
Aurora, CO USA - Thursday, September 28, 2006 10:08 PM CDT
YOU ARE THE GREATEST EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love you so much & hope you feel better- you rock!
Trevor Rhyne <urhyne@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, September 28, 2006 7:45 PM CDT
Debbie, all i have to say is we have so much to offter each other. I can and will very happiply take you around to where you need to be. Errends, pick up kids, whatever. '
I think we each have something great to contribute to each others lifes. lets get started.
Just call and we will make plans.
Keep Praying.
suzi flynn <chrissuzi@earthlink.net>
charlotte, nc usa - Tuesday, September 26, 2006 10:13 PM CDT
Dear Debbie:
I'm so sorry about the TIA. I get teeny tiny ones from the lupus and migraines, but nothing that scary. Just creepy numbness down one side of my body. But then, no one would have figured out the lupus if it hadn't been for the BC. Mixed blessings, I suppose. Keep on rockin'. You know how that goes. You're on a path, and there's really nowhere to go but forward. I'm with you in spirit. I promise. ZL, Betsy
Betsy <ecamp5@houston.rr.com>
Dickinson, TX USA - Monday, September 25, 2006 8:31 PM CDT
Hey Debbie (my dear coffee house friend),
Thinking of you, knowing it's been a hard week and you are looking forward to Monday without a doubt. Hang in there, your strength endures and amazes! You are truly awesome. Lots of love, Nancy D
Nancy DiCenzo <nancyandguy@att.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, September 20, 2006 8:53 PM CDT
Debbie, since your Mom is going home, if you need a chauffeur - I am volunteering Jim. Actually he offered himself. His office # is 704-365-5562 or you know the # at home. Love you lots.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 18, 2006 9:15 AM CDT
Hey, girl. Thinking of you - keep STRONG. We love you. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, September 17, 2006 8:50 AM CDT
Keep on keepin' on, dear Debbie! And thanks for sending the link to the Warriors in Pink thing. I nominated my mom, the human guinea pig. I need to send you a pic of her with the b-day flowers I sent her. You know, even though I'm about to hit 6 years, the fear never goes away. Of course, as I told you, my mom had 10 years of remission before her mets hit. Ah, well. Blessings to you and your family.
Betsy <ecamp@utmb.edu>
Dickinson, TX USA - Saturday, September 16, 2006 8:31 AM CDT
Debbie, You are such an inspiration to us all. Your strength and faith in God are so inspiring. The folks at MUMC have you permanently in our prayers. Hang in there!
Beth Lynn <beth@matthewsumc.org>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, September 14, 2006 5:19 PM CDT
Debbie, you have more strength in your little TOE than I will ever possess in my whole body. Ever. Love you, praying for you, and I know that you will get through this. ZLAM, AW
AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, September 12, 2006 6:46 PM CDT
Debbie, I only know "of you" as our children go to the same school and we attend the same church, but your story is such an inspiration!! You live such a beautiful testament to faith. You are in our prayers and in our hearts.
Kelly Harris <kharris2003@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, September 12, 2006 6:33 AM CDT
I can't tell you how much you mean to me....Hang in there, you're the strongest person i know.
Carolyn Romero-Patton <lapin1217@yahoo.com>
Mckinleyville, ca usa - Tuesday, September 12, 2006 3:07 AM CDT
Debbie, just thinking of you this evening. As always, saying prayers... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, September 10, 2006 7:48 PM CDT
Sending you many hugs and prayers today, Debbie. Thank you for keeping us posted. We all love you,
Mandy
Atlanta, GA USA - Saturday, September 9, 2006 1:00 PM CDT
Debbie, that is good news and bad news. The four tumors is definitely not good but the wonderful news is that the doctor can do something. Keep plugging away and sooner or later you are going to beat this once and for all. I don't need to tell you how many prayers and good thoughts go your way each and every day. You are an inspiration to everyone who knows you and many who don't know you personally.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Saturday, September 9, 2006 12:38 AM CDT
Hey Debbie......
I just hate to hear that more lumps have been found....Just know that your are in good hands, both at radiation and in the Lord. I know HE has more work for you to do here on earth.....and I also know that YOU will continue HIS work. I will share this news with your Bosom Buddies.....and we will all be praying for you and this next treatment. Love you a whole bunch......Carole
CaroleParkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, September 9, 2006 10:40 AM CDT
Debbie, I am praying. Everyone is praying. You need all of our energy to help you fight this, and God's energy, and He is going to give you what you need.
I know you are tired. But lean on us, lean on God, and you *will* get through this. You've been through so much and if I could take this from you, I would. We are all here for you, and we will all help you through this setback and will all be there on the other side when these tumors are *gone* and yet again, you have kicked this ugly disease back a notch.
"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, September 9, 2006 9:58 AM CDT
Debbie, my prayers continue for you and your family. You're setting endurance records for dealing with IBC, and I'm in awe of your power at times others would feel powerless. You and Brant are quite a team. Glad the radiation oncologist is ready to tackle the latest "speed bump" in your road.
LLLove to you and family -
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR - Friday, September 8, 2006 9:16 PM CDT
Hi cousine!
Debbie, those are some beautiful pictures! I'm sorry I didn't say this when you were here, but it was so nice to see you and I love you very much. I also think you are a great writer - I've just read all of your journal entries.
Love from your N'awlins cousine
Beth Guthrie Scarlata <bgscarlata@yahoo.com>
New Orleans, LA - Friday, September 8, 2006 4:30 PM CDT
Debbie,
As always your determination and love for your family show through your smile. God has given you a really big job to do and I can't imagine anyone could do it with the grace and strength you show. I am so proud to be your friend. Again this year I am an Ambassador for ACS attending Celebration on the Hill carrying the message that we need more money for cancer research.
This summer I received the call any breast cancer survivor dreads. "Mom, I found a lump." We were fortunate that it was not cancer, but gosh were we scared. So instead of going to Tx this summer to take the grands to Busch Gardens, we spend the vacation time running from Dr. to Dr. Thank God we got the answer we wanted.
I'm so glad you enjoyed your vacation this summer with your family. After all, family is everything.
Hope to see you at the Komen Luncheon or the Race.
Love,
Helen
Helen Squeo
- Friday, September 8, 2006 3:53 PM CDT
Hi Debbie,
I know this is not the news you wanted, you've come SUCH a long way. I have every confidence that you will tackle this with the same determination and spririt and ultimately prevail.
I hope you truly feel the strength and love of your friends, family and this community. We are surrounding you with prayers and hope for an easier future. Please call on me if I can do ANYTHING!
Love,
Michelle
Michelle <mplaisance@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Friday, September 8, 2006 1:57 PM CDT
Debbie,
Thanks for keeping us all up to date. I know the radiation will wipe out those nasty buggers in your neck. I'll be thinking of you.
Alexis Frisinger, IBC Sister in Charlotte <ajfrisinger@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC United States - Friday, September 8, 2006 1:51 PM CDT
Debbie, I pray for you every morning! I know that God has put you on this path for a reason and I pray for a Miracle for you! I do pray for your strength and health as well as for Christopher and Haley and your husband. Love, Jill Fuller
Jill Fuller <jill.fuller@cms.k12.nc.us>
Fort Mill , sc usa - Friday, September 8, 2006 1:50 PM CDT
What beautiful children you have! And I am loving the San Antonio pics - that place is great!
Praying for you - I always hate the days you get bad news and celebrate the days you get good. Here's praying for more good!!!
Leilani <leilani311@hotmail.com>
Gastonia, NC USA - Friday, September 8, 2006 1:42 PM CDT
Wow!! What GREAT pictures!! Your kids are so beautiful. Thinking of you...
Ellen Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC - Friday, September 8, 2006 1:35 PM CDT
I pray for miracles and NON-CANCEROUS results, but I also know that you are in God's hands and therefore, no matter what, He will be with you... Mandy is right - ALL of the pictures are beautiful!!! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, September 7, 2006 8:14 PM CDT
Wow the pictures are great! Your kiddos are growing up. Haley's eyes are so pretty - she's such a cutie - and that smile on your "little" boy? He's gonna be a "heartbreaker" heehee - Thinking of you this week and praying tons. Love,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@comcast.net>
Atlanta :(, GA USA - Thursday, September 7, 2006 7:52 PM CDT
Thanks for making me famous! It was great getting to see you and your parents and finally meeting your adorable kids. Hope you can come home again soon!
Love,
Robyn
Robyn Blackwell <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA USA - Thursday, September 7, 2006 9:14 AM CDT
Just thinking of you and hope Labor Day was a relaxing weekend! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, September 5, 2006 11:41 AM CDT
Debbie, I am glad that you are OK from the accident, sorry about the car. I am so happy that your mom can be here for a while to help out.
Hope you are feeling much better soon! You and your family are always in my prayers.
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Friday, September 1, 2006 5:55 PM CDT
Debbie,
We are all thinking and praying for you and your family. I hope you have a great holiday and your feet start to feel better!
Suzi Flynn <chrissuzi@earthlink.net>
- Friday, September 1, 2006 11:27 AM CDT
Debbie - I am so glad your mom came out to help! And I am sooo glad you are here! I pray you get a chance to relax and just 'disconnect' and enjoy your holiday weekend! Lova, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 8:03 PM CDT
Debbie, sending you tons of love and prayers tonight. Are your kids liking being back at school? I hope you are having a good week this week. Love,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 5:35 PM CDT
Debbie,
Thinking about you. Hope you're having a fabulous week!
Ellen
Ellen Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 7:25 AM CDT
Just thinking of you... KEEP STRONG! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 2:31 PM CDT
Hi deb! it was so nice to see you last month at the chinese restaurant - thank you for stopping by! did you like this weather here? it's so dry, austin gets a little precip when san anton doesn't. good reason for a margarita on the riverwalk i guess. i still long for charlotte's green and tall trees. and i think of you all every day!! with love and prayers,
cindy organ <rugbymum3@yahoo.com>
san antonio, tx usa - Friday, August 25, 2006 8:32 PM CDT
Oh Debbie .. I'm really sorry you are having these problems but knowing you, you'll get over this setback and be stronger than ever before. Love you so much, Mare
Mare
Des Plaines, IL USA - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 6:35 PM CDT
Debbie, you have my prayers constantly as well as my family's, but you will get *more* prayers now. I think that sometimes this is what we need to do is turn it over and let Him take charge... I'm so glad you had someone with you and that you are safe now. Prayers, hugs, and more prayers your way! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, August 21, 2006 5:07 PM CDT
Hiya Deb - sorry for what you're going though! Your post reminded me of something ... when my mom had a bad UTI she had the same symptoms that you described. Thought you might want to know that in her case antibiotics did the trick and w/in a few days she was back to her norm :) Thinking of you!
Elissa <momkatto3@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, August 20, 2006 9:18 PM CDT
Egad! I'm at a loss for words. I'm right next door and didn't have a clue. Of course and always, you are in our continued prayers. It's the weird and/or unexpected things that are the most worrisome, don't ya think? I'll say a double prayer for this strange "thing" to resolve itself quickly.
Please-PLEASE don't be afraid to ask for my (our) help....even if it's just a shopping list. I'll be happy to shop for you or drive you anywhere. Geez... we're just right here, so don't be afraid to at least ask!
Jen
- Sunday, August 20, 2006 2:48 PM CDT
I am glad you had such a great weekend! Man - 2 bday parties in one week is a LOT. You are a better woman than I - I would have said 'Mommy says your party will be next week' to one of them... lol Just thinking of you and wanted to drop a line. Keep strong. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, August 19, 2006 3:58 PM CDT
Couldn't sleep and got up to get on the PC to kill time, and was thinking of you! Hope all is well... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, August 12, 2006 2:43 AM CDT
Hey Mom! I'm 11! love you~!
Haley McKinney <Haleym@carolina.r.com>
Matthews, NC USA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - Friday, August 11, 2006 2:00 PM CDT
Debbie, my brother had gone down there to help clean up a while ago, and he said the same thing. I can't imagine how hard it is to see your old stomping grounds like that...
On the cancer front, I am glad to hear such a good report, and I'm glad your feet feel a little better and that you had such a good vacation. That is wonderful! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, August 4, 2006 8:06 AM CDT
As a fellow cancer survivor, I love reading your thoughts about the care and treatment of this nasty disease.
BJ Weitmann <mamawx3@iwon.com>
Kimberling City, Mo. USA - Monday, July 31, 2006 7:41 AM CDT
Just thinking of you... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, July 28, 2006 6:48 PM CDT
AFter that trip to Chicago, I can relate to the trying physical moments of travel. I should take the cart, but I fall in that too stubborn category. Debbie - another day where you are teaching me yet another lesson... The grasshopper is taking her pebble... I hope Austin was pleasant and the hurricane damage recovering - can't wait to see pics. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, July 22, 2006 8:49 AM CDT
Missed you at the Dine Around, hope you are doing great!
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Char, - Thursday, July 20, 2006 5:31 PM CDT
Deb, You and your family are in my prayers. Remember to continue to persevere. Gwen
Gwen Johnston <rjohnston@netcnct.net>
The Dalles, OR Wasco - Thursday, July 20, 2006 8:34 AM CDT
Just thinking of you... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, July 19, 2006 8:05 PM CDT
Thanks for your post in *my* guestbook - hugs right back to you!!! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, July 15, 2006 10:35 PM CDT
Debbie,
I haven't written in awhile but so glad to see you are enjoying your summer. Your perseverence is an inspiration to so many people! Glad to see Haley in dance camp. Wishing you many blessings...Karen & Monica
Karen Washington <kbrewash@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, July 10, 2006 8:12 PM CDT
What great pics! You have to email me that one of the flowers, though- I miss it and it cheers me up! :) ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, July 10, 2006 6:56 PM CDT
Love your pictures from your vacation. It looks as if your are enjoying your summer with your kids!
Kelly Brun
Matthews, nc - Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:39 PM CDT
Just making the CaringBridge 'rounds'... :) Thinking of you and thought I would post a quick 'hello'! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, July 6, 2006 9:59 PM CDT
I have already educated a couple of people on IBC with your link - and I also learned a couple of things myself! Just wanted you to know that, and wish you a Happy 4th of July! You know that picture of the flowers on your home page? Well, they I think are the most beautiful flowers - maybe it is the colors? - that I have seen. They make me feel happy when I look at them... Keep fighting and keep strong! :) ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, July 4, 2006 10:04 AM CDT
I'm sorry about the eyes...but that is some AWESOME news on the tumor markers... I am very happy to see things move in the right direction for you! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 7:11 PM CDT
Bummer about the cataracts, but WAY COOL news about the marker test!
Love,
Robyn
Robyn Blackwell <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 12:03 AM CDT
Praise God that the tumor markers are down and the problem in your eyes may be something that will go away on its own. Thank goodness it's a benign condition. I'm happy right along with you!
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 11:10 PM CDT
Tumor markers 131 .. you rock and roll Debbie McKinney! Wishing you happy and healthy eyes! Our prayers are always with you ..... Love, Mare
Mare
Des Plaines, IL - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 9:56 PM CDT
I was thinking about you yesterday and praying that you would get good news. Let us know the outcome. Love you lots.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 8:10 AM CDT
hi aunt debbie i love you~!
lauren <beachbumlmb94@aim.com>
ch, nc United States of America!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - Monday, June 26, 2006 1:00 PM CDT
I am praying that this is something that is manageable, and that you DON'T have cancer spreading to your eyes. I believe that God can work some major things, so I'm praying for you... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, June 25, 2006 1:34 PM CDT
Hi there!
Have you seen the latest issue of MAMM? It has quite a few articles about IBC with stories from women surviving 12, 15 years and more. It was very uplifting, from that point of view. I did find it a little distrubing to think that research is suggesting that ALL breast cancers evenutally act like IBC. It's amazing what we can learn when we try!
continue to take care of yourself - hope to see you soon - have Myra call me the next time you are at Buddy Kemp and I'll come by to say Hi in person!!
Ann Lampron <Ann_Lampron@alumni.unc.edu>
Denver, nc usa - Friday, June 23, 2006 9:46 AM CDT
Debbie: So glad to hear of all of your positive results and most importantly, your positive attitude. Can't believe your "little" girl is a 6th grader!!
Laura Fancher Johnson <bentnail4@clearwire.net>
Holliday, TX USA - Thursday, June 22, 2006 4:28 PM CDT
Hi Deb,
I passed your website along to a co-worker who has been recently diagnosed with breast cancer. You are such a great person, friend, and sister. I couldn't say enough to her about how proud I am to be your friend and part of your life. What a inspiration you have been to so many people, with and without cancer. Love Ya!!!
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Friday, June 16, 2006 9:49 AM CDT
Girl, if anyone can relate to the pins & needles in the feet thing, that would be me. Not the most enjoyable thing, and at times downright painful. But know what? I end up telling myself I am thankful that I can *feel* my feet. It is screwy, but it mentally makes me feel better. So...I am thankful that you have slippers that you can put on, I am thankful you are able to feel your feet, and I'm thankful to have your journal to read! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 9:02 PM CDT
Mom,
I'm so happy that schools out! I'm also happy about me going in to 6th grade middle school! I'm also happy for making that great report card! I hope I will keep it up!
Well love you and see ya later!
Haley McKinney <haleym@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC US - Saturday, June 10, 2006 8:38 AM CDT
What BEAUTIFUL pictures!!!!! I am so glad to hear that you are truckin' along! Keep positive, and keep STRONG! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, June 8, 2006 8:07 PM CDT
thinking of you and hope you had a great day! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, June 5, 2006 6:57 PM CDT
Debbie,
Just delighted with the news that you are feeling great. My prayers continue to be with you,Brant,Haley and Christopher.
Cindy Wood
- Monday, June 5, 2006 6:44 AM CDT
Hey mom!
Hope you have a great day! I can't wait to go swimming tomorrow!
Haley McKinney <Haleym@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC 28105 - Friday, June 2, 2006 9:41 PM CDT
I can feel the blessings as I read over your past few journal entries. You are awesome and an inspiration to so many. Love to your family! Can't wait to get back and visit with ya!
Leilani <leilani311@hotmail.com>
Scottsdale, AZ USA - Wednesday, May 31, 2006 3:28 PM CDT
I hope you are feeling better very soon!
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Char, - Wednesday, May 31, 2006 11:01 AM CDT
I know about hurting feet! When your feet hurt, or feel cold, your whole body wants to follow suit. I have to make my mind stop the madness sometimes with those feet... I pray for warm, comfy feet for you. Because those "little" things can mean a lot! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, May 27, 2006 8:03 PM CDT
This information is so useful. I think many do 'write off' IBC symptoms, which can be a little different... I am forwarding your post to all of my female friends... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC 28211 - Saturday, May 20, 2006 9:46 PM CDT
I'm glad you had a good Mother's Day. :) ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 5:21 PM CDT
I hope you are having a great week this week, Deb- this weather has been priceless. There's so much to be thankful for this time of year. I hope you're feeling well,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 11:46 AM CDT
Couldn't sleep! Thinking of you, so thought I would pass the time by *telling* you that! I hope that today is a great day for you... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, May 9, 2006 1:05 AM CDT
YEAH even more good news! Praise the Lord, he IS answering all of our prayers.
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 5, 2006 2:00 PM CDT
Hey Debbie......I am just so thrilled to hear your really good news.....I can even hear the "feel good excitement" in your sweet little whispering voice.....as I read your journal!!!! Just know that I continue to pray every day for your complete healing. Our God truly is an AWESOME GOD....and it sound as if you have finally got HIS attention.....or.....HE has yours!!! Hope to see you June 4th at the Survivors Day at BKCH. I will share your good news with your bosom buddies, even though there are only a few you would know. Keep the faith....stay strong....and....GOD BLESS.......Love ya'....Carole`
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, April 29, 2006 8:39 PM CDT
Yeah mom I'm so glad about your report! Oh and wasn't today fun? I mean we went to the duck race and played games. Hopefully one of our ducks will win a prize! And I can't wait until this tonight when we're having people overfor dinner. Well talk 2 you later bye.
Haley McKinney <Haleym@carollina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC US - Saturday, April 29, 2006 3:11 PM CDT
Praise God is RIGHT!!! Debbie, that is AWESOME. I truly believe that God can turn things around on a dime, and you are proof of that. I'm going to pray for it all to keep moving in the right direction - OUT of your body... Have a *wonderful* Sunday. I will say a prayer of thanks at Mass tomorrow, but I'm telling God He's not off the hook either - He has more work to do! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 9:32 PM CDT
Praise Him! I hope you have an incredible weekend, Debbie! We are so happy to hear the wonderful news. Relax and enjoy! much love,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 9:29 PM CDT
I wish you the BEST of luck!!! It is only 45 mins until 8p, so I hope your drive home from Duke is safe, and that you come home with good news.
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 6:20 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Debbie! It is so good to read about your happy news. I pray for continued success with these treatments!!!!!
Stacey Wilson <staceywilson@alltel.com>
Waxhaw , nc - Thursday, April 27, 2006 9:16 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! (I don't know whether to say 'Happy 34th' or 'Happy 6th'!) Both ages are SO important! The latter is the one that makes me so *proud* to have you in the 'friend' category. Keep fighting. Keep strong. I want to hear you years down the road say the latter is your *34th* birthday! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, April 26, 2006 9:29 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Day Debbie! What a gift you are to all of all of us and especially your family! So glad to hear all your good news this week. We are thrilled for you. Keep your positive attitude and stay well.
Cindy LaPoint <clapoint@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, April 26, 2006 9:13 PM CDT
HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY, DEAR DEBBIE! Enjoy your day to yourself and bask in this beautiful sunshine. God is looking down on your spunk and spirit shining and SMILING today. Praise Him!
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, April 26, 2006 8:11 AM CDT
So glad I got to see you yesterday! And so glad I got to say 'yay!' in person for that great report you posted. I pray everyday for this good news to keep coming your way. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, April 23, 2006 1:49 PM CDT
What great news!! All of the prayers are working--we will give some credit to the Dr and Rx too. God's plan continues to be amazing!!
Betsy
- Saturday, April 22, 2006 11:24 AM CDT
Congratulations of the great news. It may have been the medicines...but I firmly believe that your optimistic attitude also had something to do with it! Don't understimate the power of positive thought! Also have a happy Birthday!
Kelly Brun <kkchancey@hotmail.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Saturday, April 22, 2006 9:16 AM CDT
Hey!
I can't wait until this afternoon for the Zeta tea. That will be fun! And thanks for taking care of me yesterday when i had to get a fat patch on my ear. Well I love you and i hpoe you will feel great this afternoon! Talk to you later bie.
Haley McKinney <HaleyM@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC US - Saturday, April 22, 2006 7:35 AM CDT
Yippee! Great news! Enjoy your weekend! (and Happy Birthday!) ~Jen
Jennifer
Matthews, NC - Friday, April 21, 2006 11:21 PM CDT
GREAT news!!! I am going to keep believing, Deb - your will is just as strong, if not stronger, than any chemo. And with *both* of those showing in your favor, the sky is the limit. Keep strong, keep that great positive thinking of yours, and happy birthday! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, April 21, 2006 7:18 PM CDT
Oh thank the heavens...You so deserve that terrific news.
Hope to see you soon.
alexis frisinger <ajfrisinger@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, April 21, 2006 2:45 PM CDT
Wonderful news. A very happy early birthday gift.
I hear the combo of drugs you are on are miracle workers. So, hopefully you've found yours! Keep strong!
Suzi Flynn <chrissuzi@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, April 21, 2006 8:45 AM CDT
Fabulous news! Happy early birthday!
Robyn
Robyn Blackwell
Lafayette, LA USA - Friday, April 21, 2006 8:01 AM CDT
oops! I'm sorry! I didn't mean to send the other message twice!
Lauren :-) <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
charlotte, nc United States of America!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - Friday, April 21, 2006 6:56 AM CDT
Hi Aunt Debbie!
I REALLY like your website! It is very cool. Well, feel MUCH better! I love you! <3 (that's supposed to look like a heart!)
Lauren :-)
charlotte, nc 28277 - Friday, April 21, 2006 6:55 AM CDT
Hi Aunt Debbie!
I REALLY like your website! It is very cool. Well, feel MUCH better! I love you! <3 (that's supposed to look like a heart!)
Lauren :-)
charlotte, nc 28277 - Friday, April 21, 2006 6:52 AM CDT
Wonderful news, Debbie. I'm grinning and cheering for you (quietly so the dogs don't start barking!) and thanking God for the progress.
Very, very happy for you - sending LLLove too -
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR - Friday, April 21, 2006 0:14 AM CDT
Thinking of you - how is your voice doing? I hope that you're feeling pretty good this week and enjoying this beautiful weather. Much love,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, April 20, 2006 8:44 AM CDT
Hi Deb,
I haven't been here in a while, but you are always in my thoughts and prayers. See ya tomorrow! Happy early b-day!
ZLAM, Debbie
Debbie Chandler and family <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 9:20 PM CDT
Hey Mom!
It's almost your birthday,it's coming soon
and it feels like it's this afternoon
IT'S GETTING CLOSE BE READY!
Haley <Haleym@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC US - Friday, April 14, 2006 5:49 AM CDT
Debbie - Thinking of you this Holy Week. Have a blessed Easter weekend! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, April 13, 2006 8:44 PM CDT
Hey Deb,
The whisper voice would have been great when you were growing up. Ha Ha! I remember your singing all the time. Your voice was beautiful...only wish that they would have had American Idol back then. You would have won hands down. Hang in there kiddo, your mom and I are coming soon to be with you. Love, Dad
Ed Bohannon <edwin.g.bohannon@wellsfargo.com>
Austin, TX - Thursday, April 13, 2006 12:46 AM CDT
OK---now I understand why you can't call me to talk! 8-) I'm reminded of this wonderful older black woman featured in a video about cancer support many moons ago and they asked her, "How bothersome is it not to be able to use your voice? Wasn't that a difficult adjustment?" And she just looked at the interviewer with a smile on her face, did a little chuckle and said, "Well, I was kind of getting tired of talking anyway!!" Debbie, your spirit and grace DO speak volumes; the voice was just a tool to make things easier. Now we can all pay more attention with our eyes and hearts. And girlfriend, what I see in you is magnificent, and you are always in my heart! Because we DO live in a Good Friday world, I wish there were more Easter people like you!!! Love you and miss you!! Sara
Sara <shank1094@triad.rr.com>
Mebane, NC USA - Wednesday, April 12, 2006 10:04 AM CDT
Hey gorgeous .. whispering is sexy! Prayers and thoughts with you ALL the time. Love, Mare
Mare
Des Plaines, IL USA - Monday, April 10, 2006 1:19 PM CDT
Darling Debbie - you say more in a whisper than almost anyone else does who is shouting! I know it is frustrating in the everyday things but you are such an inspiration to so many. You speak volumes.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, April 10, 2006 10:03 AM CDT
Hang in there, Debbie! I know what you mean with the comment about not worrying so much about your sickness as the 'little' things. I get the same way with my MS. Yes, I have lesions all over my brain. But what worries me is when I have to walk and not be able to feel my feet, or see, or go to the bathroom, or whatever 'little' thing is bothering me that day... But to you, they are not little. It just means for us that we will be more quiet, because we want to hear what you have to say - it is always valuable! And we will all pray that the 'little' things become easier for you - I am glad you have such a great attitude! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, April 8, 2006 6:37 PM CDT
Debbie - those are great pics! I remember going to Wilmington and touring that battleship you were on - that was amazing. I am glad you all were able to take that vacation - you certainly deserve it!
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 9:08 PM CDT
Hang in there. I hope today is better for you. Love you. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, March 25, 2006 5:16 PM CST
Duke better watch out - their reputation is slipping away. Now they can't even win a basketball game and the coach is selling cars! I'm glad you don't have to do that travel again. While the ride is not bad, it's still a ride and NFAA (No Fun At All). Grab a cup of tea, a good fluffy book and enjoy a great day to stay curlled up on the couch.
Love ya always.
Ann Lampron <Ann_Lampron@alumni.unc.edu>
Denver, NC 28037 - Friday, March 24, 2006 9:33 AM CST
Good Morning Debbie! As I started out my day, you were in my thoughts and prayers. Today will be a better day--no school! Hold your "babies" tight and enjoy this day! God continues to shine down upon you and He will continue to guide you through this journey.
Love--Betsy
Betsy Martorelli <bcmartorelli@carolina.rr.com>
- Friday, March 24, 2006 6:09 AM CST
Thinking of you... Hope tomorrow is a better day.
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Char, NC - Thursday, March 23, 2006 5:24 PM CST
Debbie - Have you ever asked your doctor about Procrit? It is for anemic fatigue related to chemotherapy. It might be worth a try, and may help the fatigue... It helps stimulate red blood cell regeneration. (Knew of it from previous conversations with someone with cancer)... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, March 20, 2006 6:52 PM CST
I was so happy to see you yesterday. Hang in there and keep fighting! We love you!
Old Irish Blessing my mom used to say:
May the road rise to greet you,
May the wind be at your back,
May the sun shine warmly on your face,
May the rain fall softly on your field,
and until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
HAPPY ST. PATRICK'S DAY!
ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, March 17, 2006 10:11 PM CST
So good to finally meet you in person. Did I ever quit talking long enough to let you eat?
Hope we see each other real soon.
alexis frisinger <ajfrisinger@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 1:57 PM CST
Okay Debbie, smile knowing that you have motivated me to stop making excuses for not working out! If you can be so exhausted from the treatment you received last week and the medication you are on and still walk on a treadmill for 12 minutes, I can get off my lazy butt and work out too!
You are incredible! Sending all my love!
Ann
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 10:05 AM CST
I am so glad to hear that you aren't nauseous! I just wish the fatigue away for you as well - but I also know we choose our battles. My neurologist once said to me 'Amanda, your body is fatigued, it is because your body is fighting your MS with such might from within that it is expending energy'... I think the same here - I picture all of your little cells throwing the smack-down on that Cancer! Keep fighting, Debbie... We love you!
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 11:10 PM CST
Gosh! I hated to write a message above Haley's! (but hey--if you don't have enough players for Bunko tomorrow, just give me a call. I'm a fast learn! LOL!!) Girlfriend, you are teaching all of us so much, because you know things we don't know about all of this. I remain in awe of you, and your strength and grace. YOU ROCK MY WORLD! And, you continue to put a cap in Cancer's ass. So, ROCK ON!!!! 8-)
You know I love you!!!
Sara <shank1094@triad.rr.com>
Mebane, NC USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 8:07 PM CST
Hey Mom, I hope your doing very well! I''m glad that your getting together with your friends tomorrow night at Bunko. Well you know that I have you in my prayers always!I love you!
Haley McKinney <Haleym@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 4:03 PM CST
Glad to hear that things are going ok for you. I'd take fatigue over nausea any day! Hang it there!
Kelly Brun
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 3:49 PM CST
Hey Debbie....so glad to catch up with your journal. I'm happy you handled it "halo" as well as you did. I did not want to comment too much on that apparatus. But, in the rehab center in Pgh. (when I was still nursing)...I had assisted with "installing" halo's on the head's of brain trauma and spinal cord injury patients. They wore their halos for months....or until their injuries improved. But, you seemed to have handled it like a real champ. Hope the oral med (can't spell it).....calms down a little as time goes on....and you feel stronger. I miss you and I love you....and I "Pray without ceasing" for you and the famly......Blessings.... Carole
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 2:22 PM CST
Just got back from Team Leader training in DC and have you high in my thoughts. We really missed you there. My roommate, SAndra, is from New Orleans, so that made it seem a little like you were there. She did fix me some pralines, which I don't think I've had from you before...
We are all still as spunky and fiesty as ever and plan to storm the Hill in May to make sure that this disease doesn't affect our children and grandchildren like it has us. You're in my prayers constantly!
Ann Lampron <Ann_Lampron@alumni.unc.edu>
Denver, NC USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 11:14 AM CST
Thinking of you... Hope things are going ok... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, March 9, 2006 10:10 PM CST
My dearest Debbie, distance will not be in our way of your need for me. I'm just an airplane ride away. I enjoyed our time together, especially the shakes! I was so happy to see your appetite come back. Keep it up so you can get stronger. I love you with all my heart and soul. Mom
Barbara Bohannon <bbohannon@grandecom.net>
Round Rock, TX USA - Monday, March 6, 2006 5:48 PM CST
Glad it is over and you came through none the worse for wear. I'm praying these new treatments will work their magic. Hope to see you soon.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, March 6, 2006 9:11 AM CST
I'm very relieved to hear that this latest round of treatment seems to be easier on you. Went to New Orleans yesterday and had a muffaletta and a Barq's in your honor.
Love ya'!
Robyn
Robyn <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA - Saturday, March 4, 2006 12:11 AM CST
Wow - by no means a walk in the park but it sounds much less worse than you imagined. That's probably a good thing, in an eerie and twisted way...
We continue our prayers from you. Hopefully those side effects won't be so bad and you can soak in some of this beautiful weather. Larry Sprinkle said this AM that the only people that will see clouds today is if they are WAY up 77 North! Much love,
Mandy and Issa
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, March 4, 2006 11:44 AM CST
I am relieved everything went so well, and that your new chemo is not having the bad side effects! I hope it starts killing off those cancer cells pronto, and that you get some well-deserved rest...
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, March 4, 2006 10:01 AM CST
I am praying that all went well on Tues.
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 3, 2006 10:36 AM CST
I've been thinking of you all day today. You are in my thoughts and are continuously in my prayers. When you're up to it, please let us know how the Duke adventure went.
Jen
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 2:25 PM CST
You are the strongest person I have ever met! Thinking of you right now and hoping all is going well at Duke.
cherise gilbert <hcmragilbert@alltel.net>
matthews, nc - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 8:51 AM CST
I hope today went okay. Thinking of you... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, February 27, 2006 7:11 PM CST
Saying so many prayers for you tonight, Debbie. Much love,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, February 27, 2006 4:36 PM CST
Debbie, I will do whatever I can to help. Nan's right - lean on your sisters and we will make something work out... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, February 25, 2006 11:42 AM CST
Debbie, if your mother is leaving on Friday, do you have the logistics worked out to get to Duke next week? Please call on the Zetas if you need help. Remember both Jim & Ray Beem have offered to drive you whenever you need it and all of us are there to help with the kids if you need us. We don't want to intrude but all you have to do is ask and we will make it happen. Love you bunches.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, February 24, 2006 7:15 AM CST
Debbie:
You are always in our thoughts and prayers. I pray that the peace that surpasses all understanding envelop you before and throughout your procedure. Your strength and courage are a testament to all. May your halo light up the room protecting you and surrounding those hands that are working on you and filling their spirits as well. Special healing blessings, Owen and Nancy
Owen and Nancy Johnson <nancy@ibcresearch.org>
Bainbridge Island, WA - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 10:32 AM CST
Debbie, first I am so sorry about Lucy. I know she was your first baby and she will always have a special place in your heart. You know you are in my prayers. I think the term "halo" is especially appropriate because you have long been an angel in my mind - not to mention my hero!
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 8:11 AM CST
Debbie - I have nothing but prayers for you. This halo? You can handle it. It can't be as bad as the worst chemo that you have already lived through. For that matter, you don't get pain meds that always work with some of the *best* chemo that you have already lived through. You are strong in mind and spirit, and that will see you through, along with all of the prayers that are coming your way. I hope that you weren't too scared today (if it was today? reading the journal entry I can't tell if it was today or next Tuesday). If it is next Tuesday, I hope that God brings you some peace of mind while you wait. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 21, 2006 7:29 PM CST
Debbie, I am at a loss for words, and don't even know where to begin. I am so sorry about loosing your dog. I know how I felt when our dog "Zeta" died, they are a part of our family just like our husbands and children. By now you have had the "halo" installed, I hope it wasn't as bad as you described. Know that you and your family remain in my prayers. With my flexible schedule, PLEASE let me know how I can help.
ZL- Connie
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, - Tuesday, February 21, 2006 6:21 PM CST
I cannot imagine the uncertainty and worry that you are feeling. I will not try to imagine. Please know that you are in the prayers of SO many, worldwide. We will continue to pray for you and think of you even more. Sending much love, Mandy and Isabelle
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 21, 2006 5:48 PM CST
I am sooo sorry to hear about your dog, Debbie. They are just as much part of the family as the people in it. Praying your chemo goes okay... ZLAM, AW
AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, February 20, 2006 7:29 PM CST
Awww, Debbie - with all else you have going on. I'm sorry about your dog. It's a difficult decision, but one that shows love for your fur-baby.
I hope your chemo that starts Monday is the most successful you've ever had. Love to your family too, and I'm so glad your mother is there to help.
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock , AR - Sunday, February 19, 2006 2:47 PM CST
Still praying for you. Talked with Debbie at the Zeta meeting last week, and she let me know a little more of how you are doing. You need absolutely anything specific please ask, but in the meantime, I'm sending you my love, because I have plenty of that to give... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, February 18, 2006 8:06 AM CST
Debbie, I have been reading your journal anonymously since last June when Mrs. Stewart from Providence Spring advised the parents of your special situation. My son Logan was in Christorpher's class and this year my daughter Megan is in Mrs. Stroupe's class with Haley. I have had the privilidge to assist in teaching on planing day and spent a little time with Haley getting to know some of her outside interests and joys. She is a lovely little girl and with a very strong constitution. She impressed me as a child who is a very wize soul. As I know you are very proud of them and should be. In addition, I witnessed the care and concern the PSE staff showed Haley when she voiced concerns about her stomach that day. You are an incredible woman to share the details of your journey with Christ and the acceptance of taking this disease one day at a time. I felt compelled to write this message as I felt I was cheating you out of the confidence and courage I witnessed in your children, their peers and the community. I pray daily that your walk with Christ be an everlasting reminder of the poweer of faith and a prayer. With love to you and your family and the gratitude you have shared for those of us who need to be
reminded of what is truly important in life. Nancy Cox
Nancy Cox <coxnancy@hotmail.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, February 17, 2006 2:04 PM CST
Debbie, I have been following your journey online. I am praying for you and will continue to do so. You inspire me so much. Peace, Margaret Nunez
Margaret Nunez <mmnunez@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 6:22 PM CST
Debbie-
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Brun
Matthews, nc USA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 3:16 PM CST
Debbie,
Constant prayers.
Gwen Lindner <lindnerbug@hotmail.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 2:57 PM CST
You're in my prayers, Debbie. It reminds me of when we are first dxed, running around for all those scans and tests. Get all the rest you can. Hugs, Gayla
Gayla <gayla42@aol.com>
- Wednesday, February 15, 2006 1:26 PM CST
Good Luck @ Duke, I am praying that these 3 drugs will do the trick quickly. Stay stong and lean on others. God be with you!
ZL- Connie
Connie <Conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Char, - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 11:58 AM CST
The prayers have never stopped, so of course they'll keep going. And I'll continue to keep up the work you've inspired in DC to see that funds are available to discover the way to keep this disease from affecting our daughters. Love ya!
Ann Lampron <Ann_Lampron@alumni.unc.edu>
Denver, NC USA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 10:15 AM CST
You! You want God to bless us... Wow. I wish you those blessings tenfold. Thinking of you today. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 6:49 PM CST
Mrs. McKinney, my prayers are with you and your family. I am so proud of your daughter for following your lead in life - she keeps her head held high, never strays far from a smile, and works diligently to meet her goals. You are doing a great job with her!
Fondly, Amanda Stroupe, Haley's 5th grade teacher
Amanda Stroupe <amanda.stroupe@cms.k12.nc.us>
charlotte, nc usa - Monday, February 13, 2006 6:56 PM CST
My thoughts, love and prayers go with you to Duke. I'm glad your mom is with you.
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, February 13, 2006 3:13 PM CST
my prayers continue, dear debbie, and i send a gentle hug this very moment. thank you for letting us be part of your life.
Cindy Organ, bc and b.kemp alum 2002
spring branch, TX USA - Sunday, February 12, 2006 10:29 PM CST
Oh, my dearest Debbie....my mentor and my angel of mercy......I just hate that you are having to go through all this.....and that the journey must keep on....keeping on. Just know that I am with you in spirit and love, as you and Mom travel back to Durham on Monday. And, I know I can speak for all of your Bosom Buddies, we love you...and your strength and your spirit....have been, and will continue to be.. such a precious testimony to all of us. Blessings..... Carole
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, February 12, 2006 1:57 PM CST
Debbie, Please know that I will think of you while you are nearby at Duke. I am sending a hug and good wishes to you, too. I know you feel all the prayers that surround you. Bless you.
Margo
Chapel Hill, NC USA - Sunday, February 12, 2006 12:59 AM CST
God bless YOU, Debbie - and give you lots of peace and comfort in the coming weeks. I pray for the doctors and staff at Duke as well, for clear minds and help to offer. I am with you in spirit and my little Isabelle keeps you in her prayers.
Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. (Isaiah 41:10)
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, February 11, 2006 8:30 PM CST
Debbie, please stay strong. I know that whatever happens on Monday, you have oodles of people that love you very much, a God that loves you very much, and we will be there for you no matter what you here at Duke. Much love, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, February 11, 2006 3:21 PM CST
Hi Debbie, Laney from the UK here. For others reading this I met Debbie in Washington at the NBCC conference. Debbie, you are an amazon woman with an amazing zest for life. I know if anyone can beat this back, you can. My heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with you. Be strong my IBC sister, love and blessings from Laney xxx
Laney Cummings <laney@aboutibc.co.uk>
Durham, United Kingdom - Saturday, February 11, 2006 5:38 AM CST
Just thinking of you today - hope you are doing ok. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, February 8, 2006 6:20 PM CST
Much prayer, much love, and I pray for much healing for you. Stay strong and don't be discouraged - this bump in the road will be over soon and I believe those tumor markers will go *down*. You have way too much spunk to let those awful markers get the best of you. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 8:19 PM CST
Deb: I read all these messages from friends both near and far. It is an amazing journey you have been on these past six years. Your mom and I are always praying and thinking of you. Being the optimist I am, I always think things are going to turn out OK. But even these past six years haven't always been OK. You have jumped far too many hurdles in your short life. Thank God you have your family and friends to add support. It is so daunting to be a parent with a feeling of helplessness....there is nothing we can do but pray to God that He will guide you through this and also try our best to let you know that Brant, Haley and Christopher....yes, and Lucie too, are also in our prayers and we stand by to do whatever a parent can do in this situation. Hang in there, Kiddo...remember your mom and dad love you very much!!!
Ed Bohannon (Dad) <ebohannon@grandecom.net>
Austin, TX USA - Monday, February 6, 2006 11:03 AM CST
I just read your latest post - the prayers are going up as I write. Love you lots.
ZLAM - Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, February 6, 2006 8:56 AM CST
I am asking God for the best possible news from your tests. As always you & your family remain in my daily prayers.
ZL- Connie
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Cahrlotte, NC - Monday, February 6, 2006 8:53 AM CST
Prayers continue for you, Debbie. You're have so much spirit and determination - and so much love and admiration coming from those of us who are following your story.
May you feel God's hand on you as you continue to work on healing, and feel the gentle breezes of our prayers surrounding you.
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock , AR - Sunday, February 5, 2006 5:21 PM CST
Debbie, you are in my prayers every day. Take care.
Carroll Beckham <cbeckham@nc.rr.com>
Fayetteville, NC USA - Saturday, February 4, 2006 10:52 PM CST
Sending you so many prayers, Debbie. Thinking of you tons.
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, February 3, 2006 4:46 PM CST
Hey, Deb. Just read about your tumor markers. Hang in there, kiddo. You have come this far with God's help and grit. You are in my prayers.
Gayla Little <gayla42@aol.com>
Fair Oaks, IN - Friday, February 3, 2006 1:42 PM CST
Deb, you touch so many lives. It always touches my heart so much to see so many people posting to your guestbook. The new ones are learning what we already know - that you are a strong, vibrant, giving heart. Hang in there if your still not feeling great. It's 11:13p as I post this - tomorrow has the chance to be a great day! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 10:14 PM CST
I was introduced to your web page by a classmate of mine, Ann Calandro. She shared bits of your life story with us and encouraged us to see for ourselves a testimony of amazing strength. Thank you for sharing your life on this web site. May God bless you and your family as you travel the roads ahead.My thoughts and prayers are with you. Tracy Clark
Tracy Clark <tc913@sssnet.com>
Massillon, OH USA - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 7:11 PM CST
Dear Mom,
I'm sorry that you haven't been feeling too well lately. Thanks for coming to my school Providence Spring Elem. for jump rope for heart.I can't wait until Tomorrow since it is funky hair day! It was funny today since we were looking for spray paint for hair for tomorrow and it wouldn't come out for 8-10 shampo's, and you were like woa! No thank you because you diddn't want me to walk into school for two weeks with my hair blue! Well I love you and I hope tomorrow will be a very great day!
Haley McKinney <Haleym@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 7:04 PM CST
My name is Regina Boring and I am completing my MSN with Ann Calandro and she was kind enough to share your site with the class. Thank you for your honesty and for allowing others to take a candid look at your life and journey. My prayers are with you. May God bless you and your beautiful family!
Regina Boring <gboring@aultman.com>
North Canton, Oh USA - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 5:43 PM CST
Hey Debbie.... Just finished catching up on the journal...again......such good news, that you are feeling much better.....95 pounds#### good grief, girfriend!!!! Hope that comes to a screeching halt.....TODAY!!!! Please just know that I love ya'...and I lift you and the family up every day......and I'm here....please let me know.....what I can do to make your life just a little easier......Keep up the "feelin' good" part.... Blessings..... Carole
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, January 28, 2006 12:28 AM CST
Debbie - just got your donation for the MS Walk - *thank you*!!! Just wanted to let you know - it is a 5-mile walk and not 16 miles a day - that is the MS *Ride*, and I think I would fall apart!!! But I am so beyond appreciative, you just don't know. Thinking of you today and hope you are feeling ok... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, January 26, 2006 11:44 AM CST
Hi Debbie!
So good to see you the other nite. You are truly an insiration to us all. Thank you for sharing your story. :) Zeta Love always, kjo
Kristin O'Carroll <kristin.ocarroll@wachovia.com>
Denver, NC - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 7:44 AM CST
Debbie - I am so sorry to hear that - being nauseous and getting sick is one of the worst feelings for me, and I know you have to be frustrated... Hang in there... ZLAM, AW
AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 8:21 PM CST
Hey, lady! I am hoping that no news is good news, and that this is another 'uneventful' week, where your meds are working and you are not taxed... Love you and thinking about you today. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, January 20, 2006 11:09 AM CST
Debbie, So much has happened to both of us in the past year. I'm so very thankful to hear that you have has some good news to start the new year. I've been on Tamoxifen now for 6 years, and Zometa for 3-4. They are both womder drugs. I have had several scares recently but God in his goodness has protected me.
I'm sorry I haven't kept in touch. I changed computers and lost a lot of data including your web site. I saw Ann Lamproon and asked her to forward it to me.
You are on the prayer list at out church and all of my friends are praying for you too. Keep up the good fight!!
Jackie
Jackie Richmond <jackierich1@aol.com>
Denver, NC usa - Thursday, January 19, 2006 7:41 AM CST
A non-eventful week is good, so I am glad to hear it! I keep prayering for continued good reports from the doctor, and more non-eventful weeks (much better than the ER.) Hope to see you Thurs @ the Zeta meeting, they are certainly not the same without you!
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Char, - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 3:45 PM CST
Debbie, I am so happy to see a good report!!! Pulled muscles are such a better response than any other answer, I am relieved for you... And *thank you so much* for the pep rally on my guestbook the other day! I really needed that and I actually laughed out loud when I read that. You made me smile - I had this mental picture of you with some pom-poms doing that cheer with your big ol' smile... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 7:10 PM CST
Sorry about the ears but so very, very glad about everything else!!! Love you lots.
Your Zeta Mom -
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 9:38 AM CST
Oh......Debbie, Debbie, Debbie........is that enough??!!? Praise the Lord for your good news. I can just hear the "bounce" in your voice, as you wrote about your new found energy.....and..plans for your future at the "Y". I work out and swim at the Harris "Y" 3-4 days/week.....and you won't find a more "caring" place. You get to know folks, after a while....and you encourage one another....and it's just great!!! So, glad to know you feel well enough to do this. I'm praying for those ears, and that the infection(s)....will be healed...like...yesterday!!!! Just know I care...and I enjoy the fact that I can be "your cheerleader"....since you are "my angel of mercy!" Blessings.... Carole
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 2:56 PM CST
Debbie, I bet you were never so thankful to just "pull a muscle"!
Sending prayers your way - by the way, those kids are GROWING! That boy's gonna be a heartbreaker!!! :)
Mandy
Charlottte, NC USA - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 2:10 PM CST
That is wonderful that they are able to pinpoint something like that and know that this Tamoxifen is the thing to try! I will be saying oodles of prayers that it does its job! Happy New Year, Debbie! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, December 30, 2005 7:51 PM CST
Debbie, I love the new site! There *are* so many things in life to be thankful for - for these doctors to know that an estrogen blocker will be helpful is amazing! Keep those positive thoughts coming - the power of them is awesome. What a beautiful past couple of days it's been. I'm praying for you still. Love you much,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, December 30, 2005 6:19 PM CST
I hope are feeling great and able to enjoy the holidays with Brant and the children. You and your family remain in my thoughts and prayers. And I am hoping & wishing for a great 2006 for you!
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Char, NC - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 11:05 AM CST
I've got a good feeling about this year. Debbie, you have come so much farther than the doctors wanted to say you could go. Who says that you won't go even further??? Keep your spirits up, and know that we are praying for you! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 10:21 AM CST
Debbie, we hope that you, Brant and the kids had a wonderful Christmas and that you are all looking forward to the new year. We keep you all in our prayers daily. With love, Chloe et al....
Chloe <wolf5pck@comporium.net>
- Tuesday, December 27, 2005 8:51 PM CST
Still think about ya all the time and praying you get the break you need from so much medical "attention". So far you're beating all the odds and I think that is the best sign of all! Miss you tons - it is no fun out here in the desert without people like you around!!!
Leilani Rabourn <georgiacactus@yahoo.com>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Thursday, December 22, 2005 9:09 AM CST
These doctors are going to know what to do. I have faith and I'm sticking with it. Praying for you. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 9:11 PM CST
Thinking of you, Debbie-
I hope that you are recovering still from the surgery and are soaking in this beautiful time of year with those sweet kids of yours. I'm praying for ya- MUCH love,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC 28205 - Monday, December 19, 2005 6:36 PM CST
Debbie,
You continue to inspire ME to not let this beast get me down.
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Alexis Frisinger <ajfrisinger@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, December 18, 2005 6:57 PM CST
I just go updated on your entries. It has been great keeping up in person lately!. Remember that we Zetas pray for you EVERY day and we love you...especially me! I will see you soon. Keep up the spirit, because it is definitely in you.
love always, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Sunday, December 18, 2005 6:04 PM CST
Hi beautiful! Thrilled and delighted that your surgery went well as we all knew it would! Rest up and love to you and your beautiful family. The Spq's
The SPQ's <kbaum1@comcast.net>
FL-GA-IN-IL-TN-UK-WA, IL USA - Saturday, December 17, 2005 3:19 PM CST
Continuing to keep you in our thoughts and prayers :)
With love,
Elissa and Andrea <momkatto3@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, December 15, 2005 9:09 PM CST
deb, just to let you know you are being thought of often in texas. with love and prayers, cindy, buddy kemp alum 2002-04
Cindy Organ <rugbymum3@yahoo.com>
san antonio, TX - Thursday, December 15, 2005 4:51 PM CST
Wow - you're an amazing woman, Debbie. You go through all this and still come out reaching out to help others. So... it hasn't changed your giving personality. Your children are fortunate to have you for their mother, and Brant for their dad. Wishing you improving health and improving finances as the winter moves on.
LLLove,
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock , AR - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 11:49 PM CST
So relieved that it went well! I am glad you are ok, and I hope that scar heals up quickly! When I had my back surgery, I had a *huge* 6-inch scar that had been *stapeled and stitched* shut down my lower back. It was so painful and I thought 'there is no way I'm not going to look like a baseball'... Well it healed and quit hurting quickly, and now, you can't even really see it! I hope the same quick healing for you. In the meantime, I wish you thoughts of comfort and rest! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 7:14 AM CST
I'm hoping that your surgery went well, and that you get some rest. Praying for good things. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 6:47 AM CST
Debbie, Amanda could not have said it better, you have God and an army of friends praying that all goes well tomorrow!
Zeta Love & prayers- Connie
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Char, - Sunday, December 11, 2005 7:41 PM CST
I will be praying for you tomorrow morning, Debbie. Am praying for a good night's sleep as well for tonight. Much love,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, December 11, 2005 7:37 PM CST
Debbie, you don't need luck - you've got God and a veritable ARMY of friends and family by your side!!! I know you will do well tomorrow. Stay strong. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, December 11, 2005 4:17 PM CST
Praying for you... Sent you an email with some details on getting your car fixed cheaply. Love you and good luck with Monday! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, December 9, 2005 7:23 PM CST
Debbie, I continue to pray for you and your family. You are truly amazing and God has a divine purpose for you and all of us. Just know you are an inspiration to so many... many people you don't even know but are fighting the same battles you are.
Love, Trille Mendenhall (friend of Jackie Jarrell)
Trille <tmendenhall@ci.charlotte.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, December 8, 2005 11:50 AM CST
Hey Debbie!
I haven't written in a while, but I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Not only do I pray for you, but pray that I may have the faith to put my life in God's hands the way you do. You really are an inspiration to us all.
Love,
Ann
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA USA - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 12:41 AM CST
Love you, Love you, Love you. We keep praying!!!
Ellen Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 7:06 AM CST
What a big day and great milestone, you are a HUGE inspiration to so many people. Good luck on Thursday with the surgery, you remain in my prayers.
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 5:07 PM CST
I pray for you every day girl. You are truly the strongest person I know. I love you.
Becky <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
- Tuesday, December 6, 2005 4:15 PM CST
Debbie,
Constant prayers.
Gwen Lindner <lindnerbug@hotmail.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 3:11 PM CST
Debbie, I know today is a big milestone in your journey. You have faced this unwanted intruder in your life with courage, dignity, persistence and strength. Those of us who knew you when you were very young are sometimes amazed at the woman we know today - but no less awe inspired. I love you very much and always will.
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 8:11 AM CST
Debbie, you stay in my thoughts and are included in my prayers. Thank you for taking the time to write in your journal so that we all might learn and grow from your experiences.
Love from your buddy from Buddy Kemp.
Lora L. Corson <corsonl@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC US - Monday, December 5, 2005 11:27 PM CST
You humble me. I don't know how else to say it! I actually sat there reading your guestbook entry in *my* journal last night, and was living vicariously... How I would LOVE to throttle my insurance company - you gave me a great mental picture!!!
But you are right, and I have started to be more thankful for what I Do have, rather than what I Don't. Have started to think that more and more, but reading your journal entry still humbled me... Love you, and keep fighting! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 9:03 PM CST
Thinking of you. We pray everyday for you, and you are on many a prayer list. Just wanted to remind you that you are loved! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 7:05 PM CST
Thinking about you my ibc sister - I pray for you often and am inspired and moved by your resiliance and faith. You are definitely a star! Keep shining my beautiful sister. Laney in the UK. xxx
Laney Cummings <laney@aboutibc.co.uk>
Durham, United Kingdom - Thursday, December 1, 2005 3:28 PM CST
Debbie I think of you and pray for you often. Your faith is stronger than anyone I know. Your website is amazing and beautiful...such an inspiration as you are. I miss seeing you but will follow your journey on the web.
Karen Washington <kbrewash@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, November 30, 2005 9:35 PM CST
Debbie, I pray for you tonight. I know you are scared and I am praying for you and your family. No one can truly know how you feel but I do know that the power of prayer works, and I am sending you all the prayers that I have tonight. Much love,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, November 29, 2005 9:35 PM CST
Debbie, please check your personal email for a message regarding Shirley Harkey and a possible way to help with the cost of your meds. LET HER DO THIS! She quite possibly may be able to swing some weight around to help. Hope the treatments are going easier on you this time. Love you.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, November 29, 2005 10:17 AM CST
Dear Debbie -
I didn't realize how much you look like your daughter - or is it she looks like you - anyway, 2 beautiful babes!
And if she has your fighting personality, she is doubly blessed!
You are in inspiration to many as you continue to cope with
test results and take on the next step in your journey.
With prayers for your successful treatment and admiration for your courage and faith in God that He will be with you every step, I am,
Sincerely,
Doris in NJ
Your IBC Sister
Doris in NJ, IBC Sister <dnmoore@comcast.net>
Elemr, NJ USA - Sunday, November 27, 2005 7:15 PM CST
Debbie - I am, once again, in complete awe of your strength and courage. Please keep fighting! We will all try to help as best we can - just know that you are loved. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, November 27, 2005 3:20 PM CST
Debbie -
Sorry to hear about this setback, but I know that you are one determined woman and you will get through this as well. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and stay strong and keep fighting!
Beatrice Runyan <uncczta@gmail.com>
Chapel Hill, NC USA - Sunday, November 27, 2005 8:25 AM CST
Dear Debbie,
I am praying for your comfort and peace and healing. I am so glad to hear that this current crop of tumors is treatable with focused radiation. Hang in there, dear. Victory does not always belong to the swift. Sometimes it goes to those of us who are just stubborn. 8*D
Hugs and prayers,
Gayla
Gayla Little <GAYLA42@AOL.COM>
Fair Oaks, in - Saturday, November 26, 2005 1:40 PM CST
Debbie, I am so sorry to hear of the "set back" but I am glad to know that these are treatable as well. You are such an inspiration to so many of us. Let me know how I can help you and your family, you all remain in my prayers daily.
ZL- Connie
Conne <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Char, NC - Friday, November 25, 2005 8:17 AM CST
Debbie you are always in our prayers. Look at how you have beaten the odds right now...there is so much to be thankful for this season. Hang tough and keep fighting the fight!
Betsy <bcmartorelli@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, November 22, 2005 4:09 PM CST
Debbie - I am praying. I am so sorry to hear about the lesions, and I am hoping above all hopes that they are able to zap them for you. Now that the nausea thing appears to be figured out, hopefully there won't be anymore lapses in your chemo - I pray this does something as well! Anything I can do to help, I know I'm not much, but please let me know. Love you. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, November 22, 2005 1:14 AM CST
To our dear beautiful Debbie .. We're so so sorry the news wasn't as good as you anticipated but knowing you, you'll conquer this as you have so many times during this ibc journey. Our love, our prayers and always positive thoughts are with you 24/7 ... The ibc Research Foundation and of course the spq's!
Mare
Des Plaines, IL Cook - Monday, November 21, 2005 8:07 PM CST
Debbie, I'm praying for you tonight. Just know that I'm thinking of you and your ENTIRE family tonight and praying harder than ever. Sending much love,
Mandy
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, November 21, 2005 5:32 PM CST
Debbie, check your email. I have sent you some information that may be helpful with the meds. A Zeta sister who should have some pull has offered to intercede. Please take her up on it. Love you - keep that chin up.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, November 21, 2005 11:33 AM CST
Debbie-
It was great seeing you on Thursday night! I am always amazed at your strength and sense of humor. Keep on fightin'!
Kelly Brun <kkchancey@hotmail.com>
matthews, NC USA - Saturday, November 19, 2005 4:23 PM CST
Debbie, I'm praying for you! I hope that insurance company turns around. I'm hoping to see you tonight at the ZTA meeting! I feel like it's been forEVER! Love, Mandy
Mandy Allbritton
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, November 17, 2005 12:21 AM CST
Love and prayers go with you Thursday for the tests. I'll be watching for an update - looking for the very best!
LLLove,
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR US - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 10:42 PM CST
Debbie - I am praying that they shaped up today at the insurance company after a good dose of your hubby... If not, I have left you an email with some other info in it. Praying for you. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 9:18 PM CST
Oh, Debbie, what next!!! I wish I could just go to where ever they are and shake them til their teeth rattle! Hang in there, girl. Hopefully Brant can work some magic. Can your doctor do anything? Love you & hope to see you Thursday. I hope Haley is feeling better - it was Haley, wasn't it?
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 11:36 AM CST
Debbie, You are an amazing woman. Thank God for you. You are an inspiration to so many. Best wishes and prayers for your good health.
Cindy LaPoint <clapoint@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, November 11, 2005 8:31 PM CST
Thinking of you... Wishing you great MRI results with NO brain mets, a CT-scan with clear improvement (or how about just CLEAR??? Miracles DO happen when God is involved!), a good night's sleep, no nausea, and energy to do what you want to or need to do during the day. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, November 10, 2005 6:51 PM CST
Hi Debbie!
Just wanted to write a quick note and tell you I was thinking about you.
You really are an inspiration to us all.
Zeta Love Always,
Kristin
Kristin O'Carroll <kristin.ocarroll@wachovia.com>
Denver, NC USA - Thursday, November 10, 2005 8:40 AM CST
Debbie- I am happy to hear that you are getting back on the right track, sorry it took so long and that the dr. wasn't able to figure it out for you- but that you did. Hopefully you can get back to eating and get your strength back.
Let me know what I can do to help you and your family .
ZL- Connie
Connie Beals
Char, - Wednesday, November 9, 2005 6:33 AM CST
Hi Deb!
Just got caught up reading your entries. It sounds like you may have identified the nausea culprit. I am surprised the doctor's didn't catch it first. Well, maybe not that surprised... It sounds like things are moving in the right directions for you. You are still forever in my thoughts and prayers.
ZLAM, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Saturday, November 5, 2005 9:46 AM CST
Prayers answered! I have to confess, I found it a bit ironic that I was praying that you would get hit with the triple-drug dose of chemo... But I know it was working, know you wanted more than anything to have a chance to continue treatment, and I wanted that for you too. I am happy that this is what was able to happen. You are putting me to shame with this walking - I will need to get off my duff and get outside somehow. ZLAM, AW
AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, November 4, 2005 7:32 PM CST
I am so glad you were able to get out yesterday, and I am praying for you that you didn't have a mean time with chemo today. Prayers are with you!!! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 6:47 PM CST
Good for you!! The weather has been so beautiful that it must be wonderful to go outside and walk during the daytime. I'm relegated to the treadmill when I get home - when I have a free evening!! Hope to see you soon!
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 8:25 AM CST
Glad to hear your up and moving!
Love ya!
Robyn
Robyn Blackwell <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA USA - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 10:54 AM CST
You are one beautiful gal! Let's hope it's the codeine that has been the villian all of this time and you're on your way to feeling REALLY great! Happy Halloween and hope the party was a happy one! Love from all the SPQ's ...
Mare
Des Plaines, IL USA - Monday, October 31, 2005 10:22 PM CST
Debbie, I hope that was it! You haven't been drinking Diet Coke, have you? Oh, yeah, that caused temper tantrums - not nausea! Must have been having a senior moment. Love you lots! You are always in my prayers.
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, October 31, 2005 2:13 PM CST
Sometimes prayers get answered in mysterious ways. I'm praying that it *was* the Vicodin this whole time really exacerbating your nausea, and I'm praying you can start back up on your chemo soon!!! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, October 29, 2005 8:36 AM CDT
Dear Debbie,
Great new pictures on your site! You look marvelous, sorry that you don't feel as good as you look. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Keep looking forward spending time with those beautiful kids of yours. We're with you on this journey.
Ginny Mason <ginny@ibcresearch.org>
Goshen, IN USA - Thursday, October 27, 2005 6:22 PM CDT
Debbie - I am praying very hard that your side effects clear up enough for you to keep your chemo going... You were getting great results, and I pray that God helps your body to get where the doctors need it to be to continue your treatment. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 8:31 AM CDT
It was great to see you last night at the Light the Night Walk. Thanks for volunteering. I love the poem - you are absolutely too much!!
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Saturday, October 22, 2005 8:22 PM CDT
Watching you go forward gives me strength. Keep fighting, Debbie. And keep that spirit, because it will not only keep you going, but it spreads like wildfire to those around you. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, October 22, 2005 4:15 PM CDT
Thanks for communicating with so many about LIVING with breast cancer. Thanks for sharing your joys and tears, your discouragement and persistence, grace and grit, creativity and strength, for 'keeping on' no matter what. Thanks for giving of yourself when you are entitled to put yourself first. Thanks for being a great model of courage (feeling afraid and moving forward anyway) for your kids, your family, your friends, and for countless people you don't even know. Thanks for working so hard to defeat breast cancer. Thanks for giving breast cancer a human face and for showing there is life, albeit different, after a diagnosis. Thanks for enriching all of us who come in contact with you bcause of this horrible disease. With Much LLLove, Barbara
Barbara Parker <brparker@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 2:05 PM CDT
LOVE LOVE LOVE that poem! You are just precious. You are one of the people I will miss the most when we move and I am so blessed and honored to have been able to call you "friend". Must visit ASAP!!! Luv ya!
Leilani <leilani311@hotmail.com>
Clover, SC USA - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 5:59 PM CDT
Debbie,
I am in awe of you. (I met you about 3 years ago at the Buddy Kemp house.) If every one of us just had a tiny bit of your strength...wow! I pray for you every single day. You are AMAZING!
Gwen Lindner <lindnerbug@hotmail.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, October 17, 2005 4:35 PM CDT
Boy, you really know how to cheer someone up! I read your guestbook entry on my site, and thought I would 'stop by' and here I see this great poem! Thanks for pulling me from my own doldrums. I am glad to hear you are having a good day! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, October 17, 2005 4:06 PM CDT
what a great poem-(hope it means you are feeling better too)am looking forward to seeing you Thurs. night!
ZL- Connie
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Clt, NC - Monday, October 17, 2005 3:21 PM CDT
I just read your latest entry. That is all good news, except the nausea part. I am glad for all the ups! See ya Thursday night.
ZL, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Sunday, October 16, 2005 6:40 PM CDT
Debbie, what a wonderful prayer. Your "babies" are so lucky to have you as a mom. I'm putting something in the mail for you tomorrow - if I remember.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Sunday, October 16, 2005 5:51 PM CDT
Debbie - that is the most beautiful prayer, and I am saying it for you, for Suzi, for me, right now. You are such a beautiful person - God has a special place for people like you, and I am praying that he keeps you close. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, October 14, 2005 6:36 PM CDT
And thank you for Debbie, who helped lift my day! This is a wonderful prayer of blessings that I just said also. I am praying for you. My baby is 5 months now! I can't even believe it. Thinking of you and praying your prayer for you, too,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, October 14, 2005 12:53 AM CDT
What great news! Our prayers are being answered! Let me know how I can help.
ZL- Connie
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Monday, October 10, 2005 1:45 PM CDT
Debbie - This is good news! I keep on praying for these good reports. I know you still feel run down, but please keep those spirits up - your body is still working very hard to heal! You are always in our prayers. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, October 10, 2005 7:48 AM CDT
Hi, Debbie. I'm keeping up through your page, but don't sign often. You're in my heart and my prayers, and I rejoice with you at every victory, and understand the feeling bad too. You're bound to be exhausted from the battle with cancer - and there's no time to rest. You are my hero. Lots of love and prayers for you.
Barbara Mullins <arkytype @swbell.net>
North Little Rock, AR - Sunday, October 9, 2005 8:46 PM CDT
I LOVE coming in here and seeing some positive news reports. Keep them coming - I am glad something appears to be working! My family prays for you everyday. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, October 7, 2005 11:51 PM CDT
Hi Deb,
I added you to our prayer list again Sunday. My preacher sent me a note that he had tried calling you, and left a message. I am glad to hear that your tumor markers are down! That's great news. Now we just need the lb's to go up, right? I think of you often and pray for you always. Zeta love and mine, Deb
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC 28079 - Thursday, October 6, 2005 5:09 PM CDT
How did I miss you at the Race for the Cure?!? Actually, I didn't even find my team from the Presbyterian Cancer Center, so I guess it's not a big surprise. I did collect a bunch of 'goodies' for my family and friends. I was towards the front of the walk and it was breathe taking to see how many were behind us. I thought I was slow until I looked back towards the end. It was a great day for a walk and an inspiration for us all.
Ann Lampron <Ann_Lampron@alumni.unc.edu>
Denver, NC usa - Thursday, October 6, 2005 8:13 AM CDT
hey debbie!!
it feels like forever since i've talked to you or seen you. i am sOoOo glad that you got that goo news yesterday, so yeah i don't know if it would be possible, but i am having a birthday dinner on saturday and i would love for you and the family to be there. if this isn't possible then i totally understand and just know you are all there in spirit...email me or just call and let me know!! i love you and tell the kids and brant that i said "hey!!"
keeping the FAITH,
*~*allie*~*
allie <never_let_go730@myway.com>
ITL, NC - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 8:12 AM CDT
Debbie - I am sooooo happy that those tumor markers are moving in the right direction! I am praying for you always. They will keep moving that direction and *stay* gone. I have faith, and it will move mountains. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 9:13 PM CDT
Debbie,
It was so good to see you at the race yesterday. You are so awesome. I wish you could have seen Haley's face as she watched you up on stage and listened to what was said about you. She is so proud of you, as we all are. You are such an inspiration. We love you Debbie.
Keep on Keepin on,
Ellen Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC - Sunday, October 2, 2005 12:01 AM CDT
Debbie,
I tried to speak with you at the Komen Race today. You looked beautiful up on that stage! Keep going strong - You are an inspiration to all!!
Carol Jackson <cjackson1330@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Saturday, October 1, 2005 4:18 PM CDT
Debbie - Be strong!!! You are in my prayers ALWAYS... Just thinking of you. Couldn't sleep myself, so thought I would let you know that you are in my thoughts. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, September 29, 2005 8:51 PM CDT
Debbie - I am a friend of Jackie Jarrell's and have been praying for you for a long time. I was diagnosed with leukemia so I understand your journey. You have been an inspiration to me and I admire your courage. Also, I pray for your family members who have been displaced by the hurricane. I will continue to keep you in my heart and I ask you to pray for me.
Trille Mendenhall <tmendenhall@ci.charlotte.nc.us>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, September 29, 2005 5:08 PM CDT
Hi Debbie!
I have been able to keep up with you through Sara, but I am glad that I can send my thoughts and prayers through your website. You are an inspiration to me when I get discourage at the lack of progress in this fight against breast cancer, that there is still so much to do. We have another generation of women our daughters and granddaughters that we want to have better future of not having this dreaded disease. So, I vow to continue that fight!!!!!! My prayers and best wished to you and your family.
Love,
Vernal Branch
Vernal Branch <VerBra@msn.com>
Richmond, VA USA - Thursday, September 29, 2005 8:09 AM CDT
Just thinking of you. Saying a prayer for you right now! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, September 26, 2005 1:40 PM CDT
Hi Debbie! Just checking in on you to see how you and your active crew are doing. I'm glad to hear that the MRI had no bad news to report. I see from the updated pictures that you've been keeping busy. You're in our prayers!
Chloe <wolf5pck@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC US - Sunday, September 25, 2005 8:39 PM CDT
Just checking in on ya - I was thinking of your Cajun ties when Katrina hit and wondered about your family...I am sorry so many of them have lost so much. I will keep them in my prayers as I do you!
No news is "good" news as far as the scan goes? Probably not the BEST news you could get, but another day another fight.
OH! And I will be more than happy to help you fight the insurance company! Just tell me where to write! We'll get your meds - we will!!!!
Must set up a visit soon...luv and miss ya since I never get to see ya anymore!
ZL,
Leilani
Leilani <leilani311@hotmail.com>
Clover, SC USA - Sunday, September 25, 2005 12:20 AM CDT
Debbie, I of all people can understand appreciating an MRI with at least no new or inflamed brain activity... I'm praying for you. FIGHT that insurance company! There are patient advocate groups that will help if you need them to - you deserve every shot you can get to feel well. Keep fighting - your spirit gives me hope just watching. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, September 23, 2005 9:35 AM CDT
Debbie, you continue to be a model to follow... I am praying for you, and that your scan shows ZERO brain lesions!!! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 7:45 PM CDT
Debbie, I'm praying for those scans... may God's grace pull you through the worrisome times. I can't imagine the uncertainty sometimes that you must feel. In these times, take it to Him! Give Him your worries and you will be free. I'm praying for you (and hope that one of these days Isabelle cooperates so that I can get to a ZTA meeting!!!) Much love,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 11:57 AM CDT
Debbie, I am so glad you were at the Zeta meeting last night. You looked stupendous - that outfit was worthy of an award. You made the rest of us look sort of plain. Seriously, it was great - especially the shoes!
Thanks for volunteering for Light the Night. I love you!!
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, September 16, 2005 8:28 AM CDT
Praying for you always, but also your family and friends that have been affected by this hurricane. There are just no words that can make that better for them right now. I'm glad they are all *safe*. Let's just relocate them all to Charlotte!!! The more the merrier!
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, September 12, 2005 10:26 AM CDT
Dearest Deb, our prayers and thoughts are with you as always and am so anxious to know how your family is. Picking up on the positive side that your cough medicine is helping ... Hurray! We all love you and miss you more than you can ever imagine! The ibc Research Foundation
Mare <mare@ibcresearch.org>
Des Plaines, IL USA - Friday, September 9, 2005 0:11 AM CDT
Hi, Debbie! I'm sorry to hear about your extended family. We've got lots of evacuees here in Galveston, and I'm doing my bit to help. I'm very happy to hear your fight is going so well! My mom's is, too, and in just a few days I mark my 5-year anniversary! Keep on going. Love, love, love.
Betsy Camp-Hoffman <ecamp@utmb.edu>
Galveston, TX USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 10:19 AM CDT
Hang in there, Debbie. I'm praying for you. And Ann is right - you need to report that to the Commissioner. With everything you are going through you deserve the little bit of comfort that some good nausea meds will bring. I love you, and my family prays for you everyday! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 9:15 PM CDT
Debbie, sorry to hear you weren't well this weekend. Keep fighting - I keep you in my daily prayers. Want to see an adorable smiling baby to cheer you up? Go to www.allbrittons.com. I update pictures of my almost-4-month-old usually on Sundays. Issa and I say prayers for you at night... MUCH love,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 12:02 AM CDT
Hey Debbie!
I've been thinking about you and your family for the past week. Have you heard from your Mom? Are your family members in Louisianna okay? A friend of mine at work is from Bay St. Louis and all of her relatives lost everything. She and her husband flew to Pensacola, drove to near Bay St. Louis and brought back as many family members as would come yesterday.
About the nausea, don't do without the better medicine. Call the NC Insurance Commissioner and place a complaint so you can get the good stuff! You are worth it!
Love,
Ann
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 8:57 PM CDT
Dear Debbie,
I'm glad to hear that your heart is better and the tumor markers are down. I hope all goes well so that you can get your chemo on Wednesday. I'll keep you and all your family in my prayers. Katrina sure has made a mess, but I hope that when the clean-up is over at least some of your family's things can be salvaged.
Phyllis Johnson <phyllishj2@aol.com>
Concord, NC USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 0:45 AM CDT
Debbie - Praying for you and your family. I have been watching this hurricane coverage, and have another good friend that is also from LA... Please know that my prayers are with you all... ZLAM - AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, September 2, 2005 7:57 PM CDT
Hi Deb:
You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers and now we will add all of your family memebers--it is really tragic what has happened. Peace and God Bless,
Nancy and Owen
Nancy Johnson <nancy@ibcresearch.org>
Bainbridge Island, WA USA - Friday, September 2, 2005 11:32 AM CDT
Debbie,
I just read your whole story last night. I felt i needed to, in order to understand. Now i do. i am in awe of your fight and spirit. i hope i can be as strong! Hang in there, and we will keep pushing.
Suzi Flynn <chrissuzi@earthlink.net>
- Thursday, September 1, 2005 8:41 AM CDT
Debbie, your family and all the others down there are in my prayers - as you are! See you soon.
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, September 1, 2005 8:10 AM CDT
Debbie - got your post. Thank you. I put a note in my own journal entry, but I'm putting here so that I know you will see it. You have been a constant inspiration, and I take a lot of lessons from watching your grace with your own fight. I feel, no I *know* that your spirit not only keeps you going but helps others as well. Constantly in my prayers - keep fighting... ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, August 29, 2005 2:48 PM CDT
Oh, Debbie. I am so glad to hear the news about your tumor markers. You are right. Something good is happening. I can't wait to hear that they are in the 50s and then the 25s! The spqs miss you; but, keep up the good fight! Hugs, Gayla
Gayla Little <gayla42@aol.com>
Fair Oaks, IN USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 12:17 AM CDT
Thank goodness for the good news!
I love the new pictures on the site! You and Brant look great and the kids are absolutely gorgeous. I can't get over how much Chris looks like Chip at that age!
Love ya!
Robyn <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:21 AM CDT
Oh Deb .. bless your heart! Such EXCELLENT news .. YES!!!!Tumor Markers down and we are all so very thrilled. We love and miss you dearly ....The infamous Sweet Potato Queens missing our favorite tater!
Becky, Bee, Gayla, Ginny, Linda, Mare & Rita Kate <mare@ibcresearch.org>
Des Plaines, IL USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 11:17 PM CDT
I am soooo happy to hear the news on your tumor markers!!! I am now praying that it keeps *moving* in that direction! ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 9:35 PM CDT
Debbie,
So pleased to hear the positive news. You,Brant,Haley and Christopher are constantly in our prayers.
Cindy Wood
- Wednesday, August 24, 2005 4:20 PM CDT
Debbie, I have an exercise bike for you. Check your email. Roll Corn? I think not!!! Love you!
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 10:53 AM CDT
My prayers continue for you and your family. Please let me know what I can do or how I can help. With Erika going away to UNC on Wednesday I'll have some free time on my hands!
ZLAM
Connie
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 22, 2005 3:20 PM CDT
I missed seeing you and Christopher at church today. I got to hug Brant and Haley. Tell Christopher to do well in school as it gets started. We love you and pray everyday for your healing. Love Shelby and Stuart
Shelby Stout <sstout2@carolina.rr.com>
Weddington, NC - Sunday, August 21, 2005 1:30 PM CDT
I *hate* that I was not able to see you at the alumnae meeting. Please take my Zeta love 'virtually' over the internet, and take this *big hug* as well... Keep on fighting, Debbie - you have armies of prayers that are said for you and your family. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, August 20, 2005 6:58 PM CDT
It was great spending time with you last night. You are such an asset to our alumnae group. Never a dull moment. Roll corn!
Take care of yourself and stay strong. We love you!
ZLAM, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Friday, August 19, 2005 9:43 PM CDT
Hey Debbie......My family has been with us all week....and this has been my first chance to check out your journal.....YEAH GOD!!!!! Praise the Lord for your good chest reports....and what good news that you are feeling a little better each day. I have shared your journal address with lots of Bosom Buddies, who have inquired about you. I sure hope you are hearing from them. I'm not up to date on much of anything at "the house", as I have been traveling off and on all Summer....and lots of house guests. Although this battle is not yet won, I commend you and I praise you for keeping up the good fight...with HIS help, of course!! Love ya' "Old Mother Parkinson"
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 8:37 PM CDT
Hi Debbie -
I am praying for the power of Avastin and any other drug that may be discovered tomorrow and be helpful to you.
Please know that I have great respect and gratitude for everything you are doing in the IBC world.
Sincerely -
Doris in NJ, IBC Sister
Elmer, NJ USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 4:26 PM CDT
Debbie, my husband and I continue to keep you and the whole family in our prayers. Sending you lots of hugs and prayers. Issa is 3 months old this week and I head back to work on Monday! They grow so fast, don't they?!
Much love,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 11:54 AM CDT
Hi,
Sescourka probably isn't in your memory but maybe
Cathy Mills is (go ZTA UNCC-mid 80's)
Actually this is her husband writing since I got forwarded to your site from Ann Heitz's email (the home email is somewhat screwed up these days).
We hope all is going well and we have you in our thoughts.
The Sescourka's and Mill's.
ed and cathy sescourka <cesescourka@hotmail.com or ED_SESCOURKA@TAKATA.COM>
greensboro, nc usa - Friday, August 12, 2005 7:21 AM CDT
Debbie, I hope your scans went well and that you get a good report. I'm keeping you in my prayers.
Phyllis Johnson <phyllishj2@aol.com>
Concord, NC USA - Friday, August 12, 2005 6:23 AM CDT
Debbie - I was not able to get into my PC yesterday and I wanted to let you know I have been praying for you and will continue to do so... I hope everything went okay on Wednesday, and I'm praying that you receive good results. Just know we are thinking of you... ZLAM - AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:10 PM CDT
Debbie,
You are in my prayers and especially for Wednesday.
Pat
Pat Haugen
- Tuesday, August 9, 2005 9:12 AM CDT
Debbie, I pray for you every day but will add an extra one for Wednesday. Can't wait to see you since now we can actually talk!! Love you.
Your Zeta Mom,
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, August 8, 2005 9:02 AM CDT
Really glad to know you are able to get out and go places with your mom and daughter!!
That's great news!!
Will be praying for you next Wednesday!! Linda Rush in Memphis
Linda Rush <LRRush@aol.com>
Memphis, TN USA - Saturday, August 6, 2005 11:59 AM CDT
Hi Debbie! We all will be praying for you and that you get the news you want to hear on Wednesday! I hate insurance companies!!! We have had to battle for almost every reimbursement this year. We have the coverage, but it seems things are always "in review" until you call and complain and then they will pay for it. Keep that wonderful attitude you have and let God take care of you.
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Friday, August 5, 2005 5:20 PM CDT
Hi Debbie,
So glad to hear things are going better and you are able to vacation with your family. Still checking your website daily and praying!! The girls at bible study ask about you all the time. Can't wait to hear about Chicago.
Ellen Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC USA - Friday, July 29, 2005 9:44 PM CDT
Hi Deb:
Elated to hear things have gotten better. You are always in our thoughts and prayers...Owen and I would like to set up something special for the three of you while in Chicago.....please get in touch and have a wonderful, most memorable mommy/daughter/grandaughter bonding trip.
Hugs,
Nancy
Nancy Johnson <nancy@ibcresearch.org >
Bainbridge Island, WA USA - Friday, July 29, 2005 3:24 PM CDT
Hi Deb,
I know that you are REALLY enjoying your trip to Chicago. You look so good in the pictures. It is so good to hear a good report.
Gayla Little <gayla42@aol.com>
Fair Oaks, IN USA - Thursday, July 28, 2005 6:29 PM CDT
Deb - I just saw your latest entry. Today is Wednesday. If you need Andy to watch the kids, he can do it. Just call the house - 704-366-4806. Meghan and Patrick would love the company. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 1:49 AM CDT
So good to hear you are doing well...and that you made it to and from Chattanooga. Have a great time in Chicago. Going to see Mare while you are there? God Bless...you are Special!!
Linda Rush <lrrush@aol.com>
Memphis, TN USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 11:16 PM CDT
Hi Debbie! I'm so glad we visited with you on Thursday afternoon. It was great to see you and nice to meet Brant and the kids. Have a great time in Chicago!
Ann and Allison
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 4:51 PM CDT
Debbie, I'm glad the surgery was successful but so sorry to hear that it didn't go as smoothly as we had hoped. Anne said she & Allison had a wonderful visit with you which is what I need to do too. I hope things are going better. I love you!
Your Zeta Mom, Nancy <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 3:13 PM CDT
Dear Deb and Family,
I check your web notes every day! I'm so happy that you're better! I pray for you every day & I know that you and God make a pretty good team or you wouldn't have such inner strength. I will be checking on you and your wonderful family, so please take care.
Love to you and yours!
Katy Wimberley
Katy Wimberley (Robyn's Mom) <granx5@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 2:36 PM CDT
Deb - so HAPPY to see Haley's note and know that your vocal cords are working again!!! (Matters not that it is deep - some people say that's sexy! You will have a voice that has *sass*). :)
Said a prayer for you today.
ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 1:08 PM CDT
Dear Mom,
yeah! Horray! You can talk! When I got on the phone with you yesterday I taught I was on the phone with someone else. You had a deep tone in your voice but that's ok. I can't wait to go to Chicago with nana & you
Love,
Haley
Haley McKinney
Matthews, NC 28105 - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 8:17 AM CDT
Hi Deb,
I am up in PA visiting dad and family, and just shared your site with Peg. She is in awe with your perseverance and continuing appetite with life. I hope the surgery went as expected and we can have a grand chat soon. I continue to pray for you daily. You are loved and prayed for by so many, huh.
ZLAM, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Chester Springs, PA USA - Sunday, July 24, 2005 7:33 PM CDT
Said a prayer for you tonight - hope your cord surgery went well and can't wait to hear your update. Sending many hugs,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, July 23, 2005 9:27 PM CDT
Debbie, I'm really missing your voice too! Nan is right - it is definitely too quiet right now. Much love and prayers - always thinking of you.
ZLAM, Amanda
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 10:51 PM CDT
Hope you're having an absolutely marvelous vacation and not thinking about IBC (know you can't forget it completely) Enjoy some concentrated time with your family and gain strength and energy to face things when you get back home. You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Ginny Mason <ginny@ibcresearch.org>
Goshen, IN USA - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 8:43 PM CDT
Carole shared this web site with me,and I just wanted to send you my strongest prayers and wishes for your return to feeling good and staying good for a long long time. You are an inspiration!
Brenda Mottern - Busom Buddy <brenmott@netzero.net>
Mooresville, NC - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 8:40 PM CDT
I just got back from Alabama and you are leaving for Chattanooga (famous for being my birth place!). Have fun and forget about all this for a few days. Sorry I missed seeing you at the dine around. Good luck with the vocal cord surgery - it has been too quiet around here!! Love you.
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, July 18, 2005 9:19 AM CDT
I am so glad you are getting good news for a change! You deserve it so much. Iknow you will continue getting better. You have such drive and motivation through your family, faith, and strong personality. We love you and will continue to pray for you and your loved ones.
Debbie Chandler and family <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Sunday, July 17, 2005 8:23 PM CDT
Hi Debbie, So glad to hear you were released from your radiation doctor, I know you've had enough of him!! We've been to Chatanooga, and had a wonderful time, hope you do as well. Enjoy your family and make some great memories. Keep EXPECTING MIRACLES, and we'll all continue to keep you in our prayers. Love, Wanda
Wanda Martin <wandaemartin@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, N.C. 28277 - Saturday, July 16, 2005 5:35 AM CDT
Have a wonderful vacation, Debbie. All the best to you and your family. Thank the Lord you're feeling so much better!
LLLove,
Barbara Mullins <arkytype @ swbell.net>
North Little Rock , AR - Thursday, July 14, 2005 4:03 PM CDT
Debbie, I was so glad to hear your good report. We missed you last week and our heart goes out to you and your family. I am inspired by your courage and faith. My family continues to pray for you. I don't have to tell you to keep the faith because you have enough for all of us. God bless you and your family.
Anita Owens <AOwens62@carolina.rr.com>
Indian Trail, NC - Thursday, July 14, 2005 10:16 AM CDT
I am relieved to see a good report! You certainly deserve one!!! Debbie, everyone I tell about you says the same thing - "What an AMAZING woman!" You are GOING to get through this. Wenda is right. EXPECT MIRACLES. You are on oodles of prayer lists. I have put you on a few myself, and we all love you very much. ZLAM, AW
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, July 14, 2005 9:16 AM CDT
You ARE the woman! We're all thrilled, delighted and excited about your great report! You put a smile in our hearts and on our faces! The SPQ's continue to send their love and prayers to you --- can you feel the positive vibes? We love you Deb!
Spq's
Des Plaines, IL USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 7:33 PM CDT
Praise God! What wonderful news. May it continue until you reach good health - and stay that way.
LLLove,
Barbara Mullins <arkytype @ swbell.net>
North Little Rock, AR - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 4:12 PM CDT
Yea, Debbie, It's about time you got some good news. God is good, EXPECT MIRACLES, and stay strong in your faith. May God bless you and your family, I pray for you daily and check your webpage daily as well. Peace to you and Brant, Haley and(our little) Christopher!
Wanda Martin <wandaemartin@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, N.C. U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 0:51 AM CDT
HOORAY!!!!
Robyn <robyn@blackwellfamily.com>
Lafayette, LA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 8:16 PM CDT
Hooray!
Robyn <robyn221@bellsouth.com>
Lafayette, La. - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 8:13 PM CDT
What great news!! I am happy to hear things are looking up again. All of our prayer are being answered. Know that you and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 7:52 PM CDT
Praise Him! You are on all prayers lists that I know of, Debbie, and my personal one is giving prayers all the time. Thanks be to God - I am so happy to hear of the good report. Please know we're thinkin' of ya all the time. Love you much,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 1:21 PM CDT
Debbie, I'm sorry to hear you've had such a hard week. Sounds like Haley did wonderful at her competition, I know you're proud. I continue to pray for you, Christopher, Haley and Brant, may God send his peace and healing to you. EXPECT MIRACLES!!!! Love, WEM
Wanda Martin <wandaemartin@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, N.C. U.S.A. - Sunday, July 10, 2005 4:21 PM CDT
Dear mom,
I'm so excited about winning two platnum's, two first overall's, and getting on the simi-finals at Showstopper! I'm sorry that you couldn't come to my dance compitition at the beach.Well at least you saw me on the computer.
Haley McKinney
Matthews, NC USA - Sunday, July 10, 2005 11:11 AM CDT
Debbie, Debbie, Debbie .. Let's go girlfriend! Too much time has elapsed for us to have a Hurricane! We're all so sorry you have had such a rough road but if anyone can make it through this it's OUR Debbie! Special love and prayers from the Sweet Potato Queens .. we really miss you!
Mare <mare@ibcresearch.org>
Des Plaines, IL USA - Sunday, July 10, 2005 0:05 AM CDT
Debbie - I haven't been writing in here, but I have been reading. Since talking has been harder and harder for you, I'm going to write now. Stay strong. You are a fighter, and you are a gleaming example of God at work every moment. My kids, myself, and my hubby pray for you everyday, and we won't stop praying now if you won't stop fighting!
ZLAM, Amanda (and Andy, Patrick, and Meghan)
Amanda Warfield <AMWarfield@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, July 7, 2005 5:21 PM CDT
Dear Debbie, Our friend, Carole P, directed me to your site. Please know that you have often been in my thoughts, and you and your family are in my prayers. I still can see you in your Statue of Liberty costume at BK; much better than my 'bald eagle.' Remember, when fighting is too hard for you, we are holding you in our safety web of prayers. Love and peace, Cindy Organ, 2002 BC alum
Cindy Organ
Spring Branch, TX - Thursday, July 7, 2005 12:21 AM CDT
Debbie, Just wanting you to know that you stay close in my heart and prayers. I feel so helpless otherwise sometimes...just cry out to God and ask for His healing and for your strength. I pray for Brant, for the children, for your extended family. I know everyone is weary and holding onto His promises.
That's what we all need to learn to do..to trust His hand is upon us, that He will always be there for us, and that He will always provide what we need. You are a shining example for so many..Thank you for your continued faith and for the lessons you teach all of us as you walk this path.
With prayers and love, Madeline
Madeline Kamp <madeline@matthewsumc.org>
Matthews, N.C. USA - Thursday, July 7, 2005 9:43 AM CDT
Debbie, I'm sorry to hear you're back in the hospital. I pray you will get the strength to go to Haley's dance competition. I check your webpage every day and continue to expect miracles. Stay strong in your faith. May God give you peace, and a wonderful trip with your family.
Wanda Martin <wandaemartin@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, N.C. U.S.A. - Monday, July 4, 2005 11:17 PM CDT
Dear Debbie, Brant and Kids,
You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there Debbie! You are such a fighter, I admire you so very much. May God bless each of you and hold you close during this time and always.
Brenda <brenda_maloney@alltel.net>
- Monday, July 4, 2005 2:44 PM CDT
Debbie, I check on you thru your website frequently. You and your family continue to be in my prayers. A dear friend of mine had the brain radiation for brain mets as well. She was exhausted as well. She finished up about a month ago, and she told me today that she has slept for that month. Sleep and take care of yourself.
Carol Jackson <cjackson1330@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 5:31 PM CDT
Dear Debbie and Brant,
I'm keeping you all in my prayers. May the new chemo go well, and may you have the strength, courage, and wisdom you need to get through this next stage.
Phyllis Johnson <phyllishj2@aol.com>
Concord, NC 28027 - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 1:45 PM CDT
Hang in there - let us know what we can do to help. You know you have the prayers. Love you bunches!
Your Zeta Mom, Nancy <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 10:16 AM CDT
I am praying every day for you and your complete recovery. Let me know how I can best help you and your family. Love & prayers to all of you.
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, June 28, 2005 9:22 AM CDT
Debbie, I continue to pray for you and your family. Stay strong in your faith and know that God is with you every inch of the way. You are such an inspiration to so many people, I'm in awe of your strength. May you find peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Wanda Martin <wandaemartin@earthlink.net>
Charlotte , N.C. U.S.A. - Monday, June 27, 2005 10:19 PM CDT
Debbie and family... We are all thinking of you and we are so inspired by your will to fight. Take good care of yourselves. The Bond Family
Bond Family <cbonds@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, June 23, 2005 7:26 PM CDT
Debbie--It's great to hear from you today. All of our prayers continue for you to regain your strength and for your complete healing. Peace--Betsy
Betsy <bcmartorelli@carolina.rr.com>
- Thursday, June 23, 2005 11:42 AM CDT
Debbie, Glad to hear from YOU today on your website. Your strength, faith and fight are a witness to us all.
Sherry
Matthews, NC - Thursday, June 23, 2005 8:40 AM CDT
Debbie, Pat from SD here again, we are in the midst of bad thunderstorms, typical weather for here. They are impressive for their power and strength - just like you have been and continue to be for all of us. God's Blessings to you and your family,
Pat
Patty Haugen
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 9:01 PM CDT
Brant:
Thanks for the update. I figured she was still having a tough time with the radiation when there was no posting for nearly a week. I am totally in awe of the strength and courage your whole family has shown throughout this ordeal. You all are just amazing. I wish Louisiana was just a bit closer to North Carolina, but know that you and Debbie and your beautiful children are in my heart and my prayers.
Robyn Blackwell <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, La - Sunday, June 19, 2005 7:15 AM CDT
Hello Deb, Just wanted to say hello and much love.
Rita Kate <simonetta@ellijay.com>
Cherrylog, GA USA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 5:52 PM CDT
Dear Debbie,
You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. You are so amazing, the fight that God has put in you is an inspiration! Have a blessed day.
With Love,
Brenda <brenda_maloney@alltel.net>
- Saturday, June 18, 2005 5:57 AM CDT
Dear Mom,
I'm glad schools out; also I'm glad that you're feeling better! It's sometimes hard to talk to you but that doesn't really bother me. Well,atleast you can talk a little bit. Love you!
Love,
Haley
Haley McKinney <HaleyM@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 8:16 PM CDT
Debbie, This is Pat from SD. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pat Haugen
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, June 13, 2005 1:20 PM CDT
To our beautiful Debbie .. Our prayers and thoughts are always with you in this ibc journey .. your courage and tenacity has been more than outstanding and we're so proud of you and your accomplishments and know there will be many more in the future. I love you dearly, Mare
Mare <mare@ibcresearch.org>
Des Plaines , IL USA - Monday, June 13, 2005 0:56 AM CDT
Debbie, you are such an inspiration to me. I check your notes all the time and pray for you after I read them. Hugs to those sweet kids,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, June 12, 2005 6:03 PM CDT
Hang in there, Debbie. People are thinking and praying for you all over the world. The SPQs all love you.
Gayla
Gayla Little <gayla42@aol.com>
Fair Oaks, IN USA - Saturday, June 11, 2005 1:50 PM CDT
Debbie,
We love you. You are an inspiration to us all as humans and christians. I passed your last entry on to some family and friends because it was so moving. I know it will touch their hearts and souls as you touch mine over and over.
ZL, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Thursday, June 9, 2005 12:27 AM CDT
Dear Debbie, you got it girl. Isn't it the most wonderful feeling to know God cares so deeply for you!!!! He blesses us with this when we face such challenges. Thank you for sharing your faith with many. This is his command. Love you, and your sweet family, Shelby Stout
shelby Stout <sstout2@carolina.rr.com>
Weddington, nc - Saturday, June 4, 2005 7:56 PM CDT
Hey Debbie....Just finished reading your "Faith Journal"....What a beautiful and precious testimony. Although, you have no contol of your destiny....Jesus promises us...in Isiah..that HE will walk with us through the waters and we will not drown....and ..HE will be at our side as we go through the fires....and we will not be burned up......Just know, you are not alone in your journey....and that Jesus loves you....and so do I. Your Sister in Recovery.....Carol...with an..."E"
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 10:45 PM CDT
Hey Debbie,
Boy, it's been forever since I've seen you and Brant. I think of you guys often. I've been keeping up with your journal and am quite frankly speechless. Who would have thought that the girl I used to party with would turn out to be such an inspiration to so many people. Losing my mom last year has forced me to view life in a different way. My faith has been put to the test this past year and reading your journal has helped me to try and focus on the blessings in my life. I am I'm truly sorry for all you and your family have gone through. I pray for you, Brant and the kids regularly.
Mimi Stansill <robandmimi@bellsouth.net>
Summerfield, NC USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 6:35 PM CDT
hey Mrs McKinney-
I just read your journal,and,Wow you are so amazing. Reading what you wrote made me know that you are an angel stent from God to help others and show them the way of Faith. any one who read your jounral was enspired I know I was. I know that when you do die ,which i hope is not soon, that you will go strait to heaven.{:~)
Allison Heinz <Bballstealer23@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA United States - Friday, June 3, 2005 4:11 PM CDT
Hey Debbie!
I read your journal today and was really touched by the story of your faith journey. You really are an amazing person! I think of you everyday, and pray for you each morning, and night (when I don't fall asleep first). Even though you are suffering through this, you are doing God's work. You have touched so many people, and perhaps have strengthened other's faith by yours. Be strengthened by knowing how many people love you and are praying for you!
ZLAM,
Ann
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Friday, June 3, 2005 3:44 PM CDT
I hope it's 92 but that is not in our hands. I love you dearly and you are constantly in my prayers. How lucky I am to have you as a sister/daughter/friend! ZLAM
Your Zeta Mom, Nancy <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, June 3, 2005 10:00 AM CDT
We're continuining to keep you in our love, thoughts, and prayers. You're an inspiration to everyone, and we know that together you and God make a great team! Always here for you ...
Elissa and Andrea <MomkatTo3@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 11:49 PM CDT
My love and prayers are with you, Debbie. You're still there - and you and God are putting up a strong front. I look forward to reading your essay when it's done.
Barbara Mullins <arkytype @ swbell.net>
North Little Rock , AR - Thursday, June 2, 2005 10:33 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking and praying for you and your family. God Bless. ZL, Raechel
Raechel Biggs <biggszta@triad.rr.com>
High Point, NC USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:59 PM CDT
Hi, Debbie.
I haven't seen you in the longest time, but I'm praying for you daily and have added you to my church prayer list. Your positive attitude and unfailing hope are very inspirational! I will keep you, your husband, and your children in my thoughts and prayers daily. I hope to see you again soon.
Kerri Miner <kewmin@carolina.rr.com>
- Monday, May 30, 2005 4:33 PM CDT
Hey Debbie.....thanks for the updates. I sure hope you have a wonderful and relaxing time on your holiday trip. I was so pleased to hear that Brant went to D.C. in our place..and I hope he was able to make some impact on the legislators. I miss you....and I love you.....and I continue to ask our Lord to bless you with complete healing of this horrid invasion of your body. Just know I do care.....Blessings.....Carole
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, May 28, 2005 10:13 PM CDT
Hi Deb,
I spoke with Connie today and she told me about Friday's bad news. I just don't know what to say... I'm in shock too. Well, you know you and your family are forever in our thoughts and prayers. Besides that, I want to do something. Tell me what to do for you. I could come and video tape you and the kids doing things together this summer. It might be fun to get some footage with hair before it starts coming out with treatment and before you start feeling icky again. Think about it or any other ideas.
ZLAM, Debbie C
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Saturday, May 28, 2005 9:57 PM CDT
Hi-it's me again. Just want you to know that the prayers are continuing and I think about you several times a day. Did Brant have anything exciting happen while he was in D.C.? I hope you are going to feel up to the picnic on June 4th. We would all love to see you and I know the kids would have fun. Love you bunches.
ZLAM
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, May 26, 2005 4:24 PM CDT
Hello Debbie, I just spent a few minutes catching up on your journal entries. Your strength is outstanding and I admire your courage. I want you to know that you are thought about and prayed for daily in this house. Abby asks about you every time we see the ribbons in the neighborhood and hopes you are better soon. Brant promised you be at bunco this month...we are counting on it. Remember that if there is anything we can do to make life a little easier, we are only a phone call away. Enjoy yourself this weekend at the beach. I'll be there too, thinking about you and hoping that the sound of the surf soothes your soul and strengths your resolve (if that's possible!).
In our thoughts and prayers always,
Michelle Plaisance and family
Michelle Plaisance <mplaisance@carolina.rr.com>
- Thursday, May 26, 2005 3:04 PM CDT
hey Mrs.Mckinney,
I'm so happy to hear that you are doing better!When my mom told me about the fuild around your heart I told my Confirmation group and we all prayed for you. So we're all glad to hear that your doing better. I just want you to know that you are an amazing person and I think when you set your mind to something you should never give up and apparently you think that too. {:-)
Good Luck
Allison Heinz <bballstealer23@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 5:05 PM CDT
Hey Deb.....just spent the last hour getting caught up on your journal and guest book entries......you are truly loved and such an inspiration to us all. I was pleased to learn that Brant has gone to D.C. in you place to lobby congress...bless his little heart!!! What a guy he is. Please know that I am here for you....all your Bosom Buddies are. It would be great if y'all could join us on Sun, June 5th at 4pm... for the Survivor's Day event at Buddy Kemp. Keep the faith.....I'm praying..... Blessings... Carole Parkinson
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, , NC USA - Sunday, May 22, 2005 11:11 PM CDT
Hi Deb,
Remember me over the next few months if you want some down time where I can grab the kids and bring them to my pool, or I can bring Allie over and grab you for some fun time. We love you and the kids include you in their nightly prayers every time... mine too!
ZLAM, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Saturday, May 21, 2005 5:11 PM CDT
Debbie...Your strength is amazing. I hurt to know that you are suffering..that you are having to live with this pain...We all want to reach out and do something...Know that we are keeping you close in prayer. I have always held onto a verse I learned as a child..."Lean not upon thine own understanding, but in all things acknowledge Him, and He will give you strength." We cannot understand all things...but, He does...We do not know what the future holds, but we do know who holds the future...Hold onto Him.
With love and prayers, Madeline
Madeline Kamp <madeline@matthewsumc.org>
Matthews, NC USA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 11:25 AM CDT
Dear Debbie
I'm a Zeta Sister from California and I received an e-mail yesterday from another sister telling me about you and your website. Keep fighting! You and your family are in my daily prayers. You are loved by so many people and we are all praying for you.
Zeta Love,
Trish
Trish Manners Ferenz <ztatrish@pacbell.net>
Pleasanton, CA USA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 11:22 AM CDT
Be strong Debbie. Our prayers are with you.
ZLAM,
A ZTA sister in Virginia
Karen Bromberg Branson <mkbranson@cox.net>
Chesapeake, Va - Thursday, May 19, 2005 9:55 AM CDT
Dearest Debbie,
The Maloney family is holding you and your family up in our prayers. We are strong believers in hope and God's plan in our lives!
With Love and so very much admiration for your fighting spirit,
Brenda <brenda_maloney@alltel.net>
- Wednesday, May 18, 2005 5:19 AM CDT
debbie, just a weddington ridge neighbor who is PRAYING
for you and your family, you are an inspiration to so many and your battle isnt in vain! please stand on Gods word and confront the enemy of sickness with Gods word becuz he is the ultimate physician regardless of what man says God is more powerful then any prognosis , believe that with all of us and gods healing can be made manifest in you!! we are in prayer for you along with are friends nationally .. we have prayer warriors everywhere and we are eagerly awaiting to hear your healing testimony. sincerely and with lots of love, kristine , randy and noah aderman
KRISTINE ADERMAN <randyaderman@earthlink.net>
matthews, nc usa - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 1:54 PM CDT
Debbie - Love and prayers again from Arkansas - and both will continue. Tears too. Want your prognosis to be a happy one, want you to finish raising those wonderful children. May God be with you on that journey. I know He is....
Barbara Mullins <arkytype@ swbell.net>
North Little Rock , AR USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 9:21 PM CDT
Dear Debbie, I pray that you can feel the warmth and love from all the people that you have touched and that are now praying for you and your family. You are an exceptional woman! You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You.
Cindy LaPoint <clapoint@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 12:29 AM CDT
Debbie--I'm praying for you, Brant and the kids and please know I have you all close to my heart.
Vicki <vchaifetz@hotmail.com>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, May 12, 2005 8:41 AM CDT
Debbie ~ I don't really 'know' you, but I have heard alot about you and I have been keeping up with your journal entries for some time now. My daughter Nikki kept one of your children in nursery at the church when she worked there. Keep up the fight - you are such an inspiration to us all. Some days, I start to slip into a 'pity party mode' - I have lupus and MS - and it's folks like you that bring it all into perspective. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers every day.
Suzanne Hinson <itsmesuzy@aol.com>
Mint Hill, NC - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:26 PM CDT
Debbie, Brant, you are in so many people's hearts. You've all made a difference! Read it---it's in the journal entries!
Love, Janice
Janice Bradley (BKemp support group) <bradleyworld@comporium.net>
Fort Mill, SC - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:35 PM CDT
Hello,
I know I am a complete stranger but your story of courage and strength is very humbling to me. You and the kids will stay in my prayers. KEEP UP THE FIGHT!
Natasha(co-worker of Vikki) <natashadenny@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 2:20 PM CDT
One more thing before I go Debbie...Thank you so much for being there for Allie, it means so much to her and me because if you hadn't have been there for her, well me and her wouldn't have happened. I love her so much and I love you so much. Stay strong!
Jesse Meador <Meador6@isp.com>
Concord , NC - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:41 AM CDT
Debbie,
Hi, my name is Jesse and i'm also a very good friend of allie. She has told me alittle about you and how you are doing. I want you to know that along with so many other people, i'm praying for you to get well. Allie says you are a wonderful person and intouch with God on a very high level, and I believe prayer is a very powerful thing. I had a lock-in at church and, I hope you don't mind, I told my youth group about your situation, I told them to pray for you to get better and I know that they did. You are always in my heart.
Jesse Meador a.k.a Mack <Meador6@isp.com>
Concord, NC U.S. - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:30 AM CDT
Debbie,
My name is Anna and I live in your neighborhood. I am truley blessed to live within even a mile of you! Your are the sweetest person I think I have ever met, and remain that way, even through your sickness! I continuously pray for You, Brant, Haley, and Chris, ever since I received the note and the pink ribbon in the mail! Stay strong, and don't EVER forget that god and many of your family and friends are with you. God bless!
-Anna M.- <Majorbrunette02@aol.com>
Matthews, N.C. U.S.A - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 5:47 PM CDT
Debbie, Just wanted to send our thoughts and prayers to you during this difficult time. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help!! We hope to see you back at the dance studio soon!
Joan, Emily and Megan Schumacher <jschumacher2@carolina.rr.com>
- Tuesday, May 10, 2005 5:39 PM CDT
Debbie, We pass in the halls at church yet have never met. I pray for you, your husband, and children through the Tuesday morning bible study. You are an awesome woman and I am glad to see you are going to keep fighting. Wow, what a woman! Your Sister in Christ, Jenny Savage
Jenny Savage <mopnmom@aol.com>
Matthews, nc 28105 - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 3:49 PM CDT
Dearest Debbie, thank you for the years you have carried the banner in DC for NBCC. We have caused over 1.4 Billion dollars to be allocated for Peer Review Breast Cancer Research.
You should be proud and rest with comfort because you have carried the battle many years for all women with breast cancer. You made this great effort while enduring your own complicated disease journey.
Lobbying with you in DC for NBCC, serving on the board of the Breast Cancer Coalition of NC, working on various projects for ACS,and the fun time at news conference for Erskin Boyles will remain in my memory forever as well as your wonderful smile!
May Jesus wrap his arms around you and your family with comfort and love. You have my prayers often during the day. love, maryb
mary d g barker <barkermary1@msn.com>
Cornelius, NC Mecklenburg - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 3:21 PM CDT
Debbie,
hi my name is Brandon Alexander Estep i am a good friend of allie chandler and her family they told me about your situation and allie told me how you are a great person , and how you have helped her in some of her situations and i am extremely thankful. by what she tells me your are a really great and loving friend and mother. I just wanted to let you know that i am praying for you and so is everyone else at Stallings United Methodist Church> I hope You keep on fighting. God Bless You
-B
Brandon Estep <BigEstep67@aol.com>
Matthews, NC - Monday, May 9, 2005 9:24 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know how amazing I think you are. Keep up the fight. TONS of prayers are being sent your way.
Jennifer Fore
Matthews, NC , - Monday, May 9, 2005 8:07 PM CDT
Debbie,
Your postings to the IBC RF site have been inspirational to me during the almost 2 years since my journey with IBC began. Reading the archives with all of your "keep on fighting" messages ignited the same spirit in me. Please know that there are lots of folks out there who hold you in their hearts, minds, and prayers. You have shared so much with us, and we bless your generous nature in doing that.
Carol McWilliams
Orlando, FL - Monday, May 9, 2005 11:40 AM CDT
Keep fighting Debbie! We love you!
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Monday, May 9, 2005 9:13 AM CDT
Dear Debbie,
I work with Brant and have heard bits and pieces about your struggles from him. I have now read your journal and I am in awe of you. You must be an amazing woman because I don't know how Brant comes to work everyday and keeps his positive attitude!
I am so glad you got to be home with your family for Mothers' Day. I have put you on my church choir's prayer list. I want you to know that we have experienced many miracles through this group's prayers and we are praying for a miracle for you as well. We do keep in mind that we do not always understand God's work but we have plenty of faith.
Keep fighting! God bless you and your family.
Carmel Gillogly <radred@mac.com>
Fort Mill, SC United States - Sunday, May 8, 2005 7:53 PM CDT
Dear Debbie-
Your spunk and determination continue to inspire me! Keep your hopes high! I believe in you!
ZL,
Kelly Brun
Matthes, NC - Sunday, May 8, 2005 7:42 PM CDT
Dear Debbie!
So glad you are home on Mother's Day. I have kept you, Brant and the children in my prayers. God bless you!
Angela Bauer
Angela Bauer <jabauer@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 5:53 PM CDT
Wow Debbie, Happy Mother's Day!!! As I read your latest entry today, I could not help but smile. Your spunk, determination, faith and so much more are what put that smile there. As you know, you are definitely not fighting this alone. You go girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stacey Wilson <swwilson@carolina.rr.com>
Waxhaw, NC - Sunday, May 8, 2005 4:42 PM CDT
hey debbie!!
i just wanted to say happy mother's day!!! you are an amazing, strong, inspiring person and one of the best mothers i know. today in sunday school our teacher asked us who we looked up to and the first person that came to my mind was you. you have changed my life in so many unforgettable ways and i'm sure you've touched so many other lives, but for me you not only touched my life you saved it...so many times and i am so thankful that you did because if you weren't there i don't know what i would have done? with everything you were going through somehow you didn't make that your main priority you made every day a blessing for everyone you came in contact with, you somehow made time to help me get through all my hard times, including the transition from my mom's household to my dad and debbie's, you were the one i always knew to run to, you were the first person i thought of to ask if they would be my mentor and without any hesitation you said yes as soon as you were asked and you being there meant more to me than anything because i was so sick of being let down; it seemed as if everywhere i turned i felt like i was somehow being "let down" and i felt like i knew for sure i could always trust you not to let me down or lie to me no matter what. one of the biggest things i am so thankful for is when you literally saved my life....last year christmas time(2003).... you and the kids were over at our house making christmas cookies with our family like we do every year and when i reached for something and my long sleeve shirt's arm cuff came open and you saw something that no one else knew about besides me and when you saw it i thought i was "done for" i figured you would (like any other adult) tell debbie right there on the spot, but instead we went upstairs to "look at my room" and we just hugged and you asked me what was going on and if i was ok and i said i would be fine and that i was just going through some really hard times and that was just what i turned to. you told me you loved me and that you would always be there for me, that whenever i got upset, scared, or felt alone you would always be there no matter what....and then we went back downstairs after hugging some more....then a couple of weeks later my dad and debbie BUST into my room at 6:00 in the morning and ask to see my wrist and i was so scared because i didn't want them to know what i had been doing to myself, but they knew and they looked at it in aww, not understanding why i would do such a thing, there own daughter...hurt herself. i had no clue who could have told them, but then it became clear to me that it was you. at first yeah i was upset and didn't understan why you would do that, but when it came down to it i see that you did the right thing by telling them and in the end if you look at it you saved my life because if you wouldn't have told them then well we both know what could've happened. debbie you are my lifesaver and my hero in more ways than i can find words to write it down. you are the most infuential, "always there" person that i know and i truly believe that God sends angels to be here on earth in his place and places them here so that they can bless the lives of the people that he decides needs their guidance to get through thier lives and in the end really find him. and debbie whether you belive this or not i truly believe that you are that angel for go for now.....
~i love you debbie with all my heart, you mean the world to me and i hope you have the happiest mother's day ever because God knows you deserve it and so does everyone else~
love always and foever,
Alexandra Faith Chandler....(what a word...FAITH)
allie <faithprincess163@yahoo.com>
Indian Trail, nc USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 4:25 PM CDT
Keep fighting Debbie. I am a physical therapist at Piedmont Medical Center...my aunt sent me your link so and you are on our family's prayer chain. As a PT, half the battle to healing is heart...and from your entry 5-7...you have it.
Good luck and Happy Mother's Day.
Leslie Glenn <Leslie.Glenn@tenethealth.com>
Rock Hill, SC - Sunday, May 8, 2005 12:51 AM CDT
Dear Mom,
Happy Mothers day! You,re finally HOME! Also you can talk a lot better, but you're not all the way better.
Haley McKinney <HaleyM@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC US - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:10 AM CDT
Oh Deb .. We love you so much! We all knew you would make it home for Mother's Day! YOU GO GIRL! Debbie does Duke and dodges the crazy people who think she is ready to give in! Rest up our dear friend .. Man, oh man we
missed hearing from you! You put big smiles on our faces and in our hearts! Love from the sweet potato queens!
Mare
Des Plaines, IL USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 10:28 PM CDT
Dear Debbie Brant, Christopher and Haley, don't ever lose HOPE!!!!!We love you and are praying for you and your complete healing, Love Shelby and Stuart Stout
Shelby Stout <sstout2@carolina.rr.com>
Weddington, nc - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:41 PM CDT
Debbie, Molly and I are praying for you to be healed. I was not aware of your courageous battle until recently. I was also not aware of IBC so I went to the linked website listed in your journal to learn more. I will spread the word to my friends and family while asking for their prayers also. Your spirit and faith are so strong....may your next birthday find you well! We miss you at the studio. Molly and Melinda
Melinda Latham <mlatham@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC - Saturday, May 7, 2005 4:47 PM CDT
Dear Debbie--As always you and your family are in our prayers. We continue to pray for your healing. Know that God is with you on this journey and he will not fail.
Love--Betsy
Betsy M. <bcmartorelli@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Saturday, May 7, 2005 10:42 AM CDT
Debbie, After talking with you last night, it reminded me yet again how full of life, love, and determination you are. You will prevail...I have no doubt. "Be stong and courageous. Do not be terrified, do not be discouaged. For the Lord, our God, is with you wherever you go."(1Corinthians) My love and prayers are with you all the time! love, Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC 28079 - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:35 AM CDT
Debbie, I love you and I'm here for you and the kids and Brant...You are truly the toughest person I know.
Becky <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:12 AM CDT
Dear Debbie,
I hope you know how loved you are. God made you to carry out part of His special plan. You are an inspiration to so many. I am so lucky to know you. I am praying for you and your family. I wish for you God's peace that passes all understanding, continued faith that can move mountains, joy beyond comprehension, and grace and mercy beyond all measure. I pray God's most awesome blessings on you and yours. I love you-----
ZL,
Allison
Allison Courtenay <acourtenay@yahoo.com>
Frisco, TX USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 11:56 PM CDT
Dear Debbie,
Your bravery and the depth of your faith are an inspiration to us all. I thank God for people such as yourself who have shown us all the honorable way to fight. We will all eventually have the same battle that you have faced so bravely and I am blessed to have your example to follow. I know that God Himself is pleased with your example to all of us and especially your dear children during these difficult years. Please know that you are all in our prayers and that we are here for you all.
Love
Cyndie, Larry, Ashley, Alexis and Alyssa Berman
Cyndie Berman <cyndielikeshorses@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:48 PM CDT
Delaney and I, as well as the rest of our family and friends have you in our prayers. I have just recently been sent your website - and spent many hours reading your journal entries. You have done a remarkable job keeping your struggles to yourself these last few years - and I, like many never realized the depth of your journey. You are an inspiration to us all - and please remember that we are here for you, and your family.
Jackie Searles <jsearles@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 6:45 PM CDT
Debbie -
You, Brant, Haley & Christopher remain in my and my friends andfamily's thoughts and prayers. There are a lot of people who love and care about you and are sending positive thoughts your way.
ZLAM,
Bea
Beatrice Runyan <uncczta@gmail.com>
Chapel Hill, NC - Friday, May 6, 2005 5:34 PM CDT
Debbie, I am carrying you and your family even closer in my heart and in prayer.
Margaret Nunez <mmnunez@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 5:16 PM CDT
I AM WALKING IN THE AVON 2 DAY WALK FOR BREAST CANCER IN DENVER, CO. MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU!!!!!!
ANNA SCIBELLA
DENVER, CO USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 4:19 PM CDT
I'm praying for you and your family. I am participating in the 3-Day Breast Cancer Walk in June and will keep all you in my heart during the event. Too many people die from too many forms of cancer; we've all got to help one way or another, because it's never too late.
Blakeney Marsh <blakeneym@charter.net>
Denton, TX USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 12:58 AM CDT
My name is Amanda Robertson, and I too am a member of First Baptist Church Flower Mound. I'm sure words can't express what you and your family are now feeling, so I can only pray that you will all feel God's hand during this time.
Amanda Robertson <amandacamp@hotmail.com>
Flower Mound, TX - Friday, May 6, 2005 12:53 AM CDT
My name is Shawn Talarico a member of First Baptist Church Flower Mound. My prayers are with you and your family. Your website is beautiful and full of beautiful people including yourself. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Shawn Talarico <Shawn@labequipmentgirls.com>
Flower Mound, TX USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 12:00 AM CDT
Hello, I am J. R. (Jimmy Ruth) Martin. A member of First Baptist Flower Mound and a widow. I lost my precious husband Feb. 12, 2004 to cancer. I know the battle you and your family are fighting. Hold fast to Gods word and His understanding. Know I am praying for you and will continue to pray for you and your family. If I can help Let me know.
J.R. (Jimmy Ruth) Martin <benttree1@comcast.net>
Lewisville, Tx USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 11:53 AM CDT
I just wanted to let you know that you, Brant, Haley and Christopher remain in my prayers.
Connie <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 10:20 AM CDT
Debbie,
I read your story through the ZTA chain and you seem like such an amazing person and have come so far. I have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Melissa Crismon-Wallace, Eta Nu Chapter <mwallace@khov.com>
Ashburn, VA USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:43 AM CDT
Brant and Debbie, my family is praying for you and your family as much as we can. Thinking of you so much, Love, Mandy
Mandy
Charlotte, NC - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:22 AM CDT
Debbie & Brant, the Zeta prayer chain is working as hard as we know how. You have no idea how much you are loved - especially by me.
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, May 6, 2005 8:53 AM CDT
Love and prayers continue coming for you and your family, Debbie. You're an amazing woman, and you've beaten the odds so far - and I pray you'll set a whole new standard for IBS survival. It's pretty scary right now, though. Lots of love to you and your family -
Barbara Mullins <arkytype @swbell.net>
North Little Rock , AR USA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 9:05 PM CDT
Debbie-
Seeing your site is very moving. I pray that God continues to provide you and your family with the strength and faith to get through this recent episode. You are such a strong person, always with a positive attitude and smile on your face. Please know we are here to support you in any way we can. You're in our thoughts and prayers. Vicki and Brianna
Vicki Chaifetz <vchaifetz@hotmail.com>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, May 5, 2005 4:36 PM CDT
Debbie, Ann sent me your latest entry. I am carrying you in my heart in prayer as you battle this new challenge. When I see all the other hurdles you have cleared, I know that this one will also be one to look back on as a cleared hurdle. Blessings to you and to all you hold near to your heart.
Margaret Nunez <mmnunez@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, May 5, 2005 7:27 AM CDT
To our dear, precious, lovable, beautiful Debbie,
Our prayers are continuous .. With all our hearts we pray that every day will be a better one for you. You have to get well soon .. it's almost Hurricane time! Lots of love, the SPQ's
Mare <kbaum1@comcast.net>
Des Plaines, IL Cook - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:06 PM CDT
Debbie
Brant shared your website with me and it is very moving. You have really touched my heart with your openess, strength and determination. I will keep you, Brant and the kids in my prayers. I hope all goes well with your surgery. Belated Happy Birthday!
Angela Bauer (Tropical)
Angela Bauer <jabauer@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 10:00 PM CDT
Hey Debbie, I've been praying for you all week. I knew Saturday that you felt really bad despite your "always sunny" attitude. You are such an inspiration to us all! I Love you and continue to keep you and your family in my prayers. Haley did great this weekend!!
Lana Hewitt <dlhewitt@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 9:03 PM CDT
I am keeping you in my prayers. I also have had breast cancer and I know how scary it seems! May the peace of the holy spirit be with you and calm you.
Connie Davis, friend of Ann Calandro <ldavis@colby.ixks.com>
Colby, KS USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 3:47 PM CDT
Dear Debbie,
I am moved by your strength and your activism in the fight against IBC, both in your personal health and that of other women. Praying for many blessings to come your way and hoping that that SOB moves out soon!
Sincerely, Susan Baker (friend of Ann Calandro)
Susan M Baker
Westborough, MA 01581 - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 12:58 AM CDT
Debbie, I truly hope you will get these stomach problems behind you----I know it it's difficult to feel bad so much of the time---stay strong and always know how many people love you and think of you and are pulling for you through this awful battle---
Janice Bradley (BKemp support group) <bradleyworld@comporium.net>
Fort Mill, SC - Thursday, April 28, 2005 6:46 PM CDT
You are a powerful woman of God & do not forget that. We all have a purpose in life & you have & are doing your purpose.My name is Rosa
Rosa Herbert <rosa.herbert@wachovia.com>
Charlotte, NC united staes - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 4:29 PM CDT
Hi Debbie! I'm a friend of Robin Ketner, your sorority sister. I prayed for Jesus to give you a sign of comfort that he is with you and loves you, for strength and understanding from your husband and children. When I was very ill a couple of years ago and suffered for several months with excruciating pain, the Lord gave me a scripture which I have searched for in my bible and cannot find this morning. It basically asked, Why would I have you suffer in vain? I found comfort in that, knowing he was refining me and that His ways are higher than mine and I gave my direction up to his purposes. I suffered much judgement from my family and friends during that time, much more than compassion. It came down to me and Jesus. I hope he sends many angels do do his good works in your life like he did for me. Love and prayers!
Dawne <davisdawne@hotmail.com>
Fort Mill, SC USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 7:52 AM CDT
Happy 40th Debbie!!! I love your poem. It is awesome! I hope you live at least 40 more years...
Becky <chipbeck@bellsouth.net>
- Tuesday, April 26, 2005 11:25 AM CDT
Happy Birthday - you are a Zeta sister in a million and I don't think I'm alone in saying that! We are wishing all good things for you.
Nancy & Jim <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 11:09 AM CDT
I wish you a birthday to enjoy with those you love. You do have a special way of celebrating your birthdays! I remember the one year in the hospital despite your best efforts. Hopefully at home this year! Thinking and praying for you! Much Love, Donna
Donna Swegan <dswegan@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:00 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Debbie:) You and your family are in my prayers constantly. I know that God has a purpose for you!! I think that your courage and faith are remarkable. What a beautiful woman of God you have grown up to be. To the big 40 and the wonderful times to come... Love, Allison
Allison Courtenay <acourtenay@yahoo.com>
Frisco, TX USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 10:54 PM CDT
Debbie,
I'll say a special prayer for you for your birthday! Happy Birthday! I turned 40 last year, and thought it was no big deal. That is until I got home and found that my sister had forty pink flamingos put in my front yard with an enormous sign that something about a flock of friends flying in to wish me a Happy 40th birthday! Her 40 is still 3 years away so I've got plenty of time to plan my revenge. Ha Ha!
Love,
Ann
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
- Monday, April 25, 2005 8:20 PM CDT
Debbie, I am starting a prayer chain for you tonight, I hope you can feel its warmth and know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many of us. Your strength is amazing and your fight is so brave. Happy Birthday this year and many more years to come. I look forwarded to celebrating together with my bandanaded sister...Love, Michelle P
Michelle Plaisance <mplaisance@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC US - Monday, April 25, 2005 6:59 PM CDT
Debbie, hang in there diva...it will get better. You inspire so many of us with your strength, courage, and insight. I know that you are in great hands at DUMC, and they will do everything they can to help you along the way. You have a huge fan club out here; I, and many others, are praying for you and cheering you in this fight. The N&V can't last forever...
Happy 40th - there are better times ahead:)
Heather Waddell <HWaddell@PattersonDilthey.com>
Raleigh, NC - Monday, April 25, 2005 6:36 PM CDT
Debbie, I am a friend of Ann Calandro. I lead a prayer group each Wednesday night with some wonderful sisters in Christ. You will be in our prayers as we pray to the Great Healer.
Anna Moore <BMoore24@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, April 25, 2005 5:22 PM CDT
Dear Debbie,
You are always in my thoughts and prayers. You are such a strong fighter and I pray that the nausea and diarrhea will end.
I wish you a very HAPPY 40th!!! ...and you are fabulous!
With Love,
Brenda Maloney <brenda_maloney@alltel.net>
- Monday, April 25, 2005 3:52 PM CDT
Happy Birthday. Please know you are in my prayers.
LInda <LPARRYLLL@aol.com>
- Monday, April 25, 2005 3:47 PM CDT
I'm a couple days early, I know, but I wanted to be the first to wish you a very happy birthday! May all your dreams come true for you and your family. You truly deserve it!
Hugs!
Robyn
Robyn <robyn221@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, La - Sunday, April 24, 2005 3:15 PM CDT
Deb,
Thanks for rewriting your entry and sharing your true feelings with us. You are so right that we don't know what to pray for if you don't tell us. Please don't think that is selfish. We all want to know REALLY how you are doing, we all REALLY care and want to be able to pray for you in a specific way that will be able to help you. Thank you for letting us know.
Thinking of you often,
Ellen
Ellen Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 0:28 AM CDT
Debbie,
I just wanted you to know I've been praying for you. Nancy keeps me posted on how you're doing and I stop by your page to read your journal entries... You're such a wonderful, loving, strong woman, and I know that you will make it through. God puts people like you on the Earth for a reason!
With love and prayers,
Stephani Yurkanin
(Charlotte Alumnae Panhellenic Council)
Stephani Yurkanin <syurkanin@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 2:56 PM CDT
Whew!! L
Linda Rush <lrrush@aol.com>
- Monday, April 18, 2005 10:18 PM CDT
Debbie,
I have been sick and just now felt like getting online. What A blessing you received on Friday. New life comes in many different forms. You looked wonderful when I saw you at the Lenten Fair. It was great seeing you, Christopher and Haley. All of you continue to be in my prayers.
Cindy Wood
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 10:24 AM CST
Hi Mrs. McKinney!
I am so happy to hear that the treatment is working. That's great. I have been keeping you in my prayers and I had the whole school pray for you on the morning annoucements one day. I think it was last week. Also we have prayer in every class before we start to work and I pray for you as an intention. I think that God answers the prayers of little children and we have tons of them praying for you in Fairfax, Virginia. :-)
Get well soon!!!!!
Allison
P. S. My mom sends a hug! {{{{{hug}}}}}
Allison Heinz <bballstealer23@aol.com>
- Monday, March 28, 2005 1:13 PM CST
Hooray for you, and for those awesome test results! Oh, Debbie - it's working. It's WORKING!!! I'm so happy for you. May the Easter season bring you joys and hopes galore!
Love to you and your family - Barbara
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR USA - Saturday, March 26, 2005 12:20 AM CST
AWESOME Debbie! We're so glad to hear that things went so well. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers constantly. LLLove,
Elissa and Andrea <MomkatTo3@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, March 25, 2005 11:53 PM CST
Debbie, I do not beleive we have ever met but I am one of your Zeta sisters. I got an e-mail from Nancy and I looked at your website. It is amazing how strong you are. God has an awesome plan in your life. You can only put your life in His hands. I will be praying for you and that the best physician, Jesus Christ, will heal your body. I look forward to reading your journals! May God give you and your family rest and peace!
Zeta Love
Lauren Stinson
Lauren Stinson <lrn_stinson@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 22, 2005 5:42 PM CST
Debbie, This is the first time that I have read your Journal. It has been 14 months since I was diagnosed with IBC-I have been very fortunate with treatment and surgery. My physicians have treated IBC before so I wasn't lost in the shuffle as so many others are. I pray daily for all of as us especially the children. I can't imagine what goes on in a child's mind when they are being treated for cancer, it is so hard as an adult. God is looking out for all of us. The power of prayer is wonderful, don't ever lose faith.
Felice <fmegb@stjoelive.com>
St Joseph, MO USA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 11:01 AM CST
Debbie,
I haven't written in a while. I just wanted to let you know that you,Brant,Haley and Christopher remain in my prayers. I check on you through Beth. Please let me know or let her know what I can do to help. God is touching lives through you and your faith.
Cindy Wood
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 4:56 PM CST
It's me again! I just read your post and want to tell you what a wonderful and caring person you are - not to mention you tell the best jokes with a Cajun accent! Just sending love your way. Your Zeta Mom,
Nancy <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, February 28, 2005 3:16 PM CST
Hi Debbie! I was just thinking about you today and want to send a big {{{{{hug}}}} to you!
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 8:24 PM CST
Debbie, I am so proud of you. You remind me of a determined 12 year old "red-head". Your spirit and heart for others with this disease is truely a blessing for them. I wish as I did for Hope, to help you carry this burden. I am offering you my help in anything you need. Please to do not hesitate. A ride? Help with the kids? You got it babe. God is using you in such a powerful way. Don't feel survivor guilt! Your work here is NOT FINISHED! Keep looking up to God for your strength and peace. We pray for your healing everyday. Shelby Stout
Shelby Stout <sstout2@carolina.rr.com Caringbridge.org/nc/hope>
Weddington, nc - Thursday, February 24, 2005 11:03 AM CST
As I usually do several times a week, I checked your web site and am crying inside (It's hard to cry outside sitting at my desk!). There is a plan and you are part of it - we grieve that you have lost your friends but we are so glad that we have you and trust we will for a long, long time.
Your Zeta Mom, Nancy <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 8:57 AM CST
Big {{{{Hugs}}}}, Debbie. How hard it is for you to see friends taken by IBC - when you're doing all within your power to work for progress toward a cure for all affected by that horrible disease. I have survivor guilt too - without even having a disease - when friends who still have children at home are taken by disease. Sometimes life doesn't seem fair - but we don't know the Master's plan.
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock, AR USA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 11:08 PM CST
Debbie, I have been reading your messages on IBC Research site for some time now. I was dx. in Jan 2001 and have also lost a number of IBC friends to this monster. I have a friend battling for her life in the hospital with two young children right now. It just breaks my heart. I can relate to your survivor guilt . My only answer & what I try to hang on to is the MAN ABove, whatever your religion is, has a mission for us at the moment and we are trying hard to spread the word and help fellow sisters with IBC. Only he knows when it is time for us to leave this cellestial world.I hope for all of us it won't be soon. I am praying for everyone with IBC. Keep up your good work.
Penny Whitmore <whitpen@aol.com>
Greenwich, CT USA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 11:13 AM CST
Prayers coming for your GI system to return to perfect health - and soon. I keep up with your progress and cheer you on, though I don't post often. You certainly belong on my list of "most admired women" for your strength and grace in educating yourself and others about how to deal with IBC. Hang in there, Debbie!
Barbara Mullins
North Little Rock , AR USA - Friday, February 4, 2005 7:57 PM CST
Hi Debbie. I'm so glad to see your webpage. Yours is much fancier than mine. I will have to learn how to add more picturs like you did, and I love the memorial to the women who have died from IBC. Keep up the good work. God is doing some awesome work through you.
Blessings, your fellow mets sister Linda from Houston
Linda Bounds <lindabounds@sbcglobal.net>
Houston, TX - Wednesday, January 26, 2005 2:41 PM CST
Debbie---I visit your website often---I'm pulling for you! Stay strong! Love, Janice
Janice Bradley <Bradleyworld@comporium.net>
Fort Mill, SC - Monday, January 24, 2005 5:14 PM CST
Said a prayer today for you and your family, Debbie. Jacob and I continue to pray for you guys and admire your strength and optimism. Sending many hugs,
Mandy <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, January 21, 2005 4:15 PM CST
Debbie,
I pray for each of you as you continue to allow us to be part of your journey. Your faith shines through as you wait to become a part of the study. Hopefully this Friday will mark a new beginning for you and other IBC patients.
Cindy Wood
Charlotte, NC - Monday, January 17, 2005 7:19 AM CST
Debbie, I hope all of your tests go well and I am praying that you are able to start that clinical trial that soon. !!!!!!!
Stacey Wilson <swwilson@carolina.rr.com>
Waxhaw, NC - Friday, January 14, 2005 8:06 AM CST
Debbie, I'm praying really hard. Love you.
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, January 13, 2005 10:26 AM CST
Derar Debbie,
My daughter's Confirmation Group the" Faithful Followers" are praying for you and your family. You will be receiving letters from the kids over the next 2 months. They want to let you know that you and your family are in their thoughts and prayers. A friend and college classmate of yours (Ann Heinz, whose daughter Allson is in the Confirmation Group) told the Group about you and your journey of faith and hope. Continue to live strong Debbie and always know that the Faithful Followers and Parents have you in their prayers.
Pamela Rittenhouse <pamela.rittenhouse@fairfaxcounty.gov>
Gainesville, va usa - Wednesday, January 5, 2005 1:52 PM CST
You are continually in my thoughts and prayers. Know that I am available to help you if you or your family need anything. Thank you for inviting me to attend the healing service, what an wonderful night. Your strength and ability to share your story on this site is amazing and I admire you and thank you for all you do to help find a cure for this dreadful disease.
Connie Beals <conniebeals@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, January 5, 2005 9:37 AM CST
Debbie, good luck at Duke. Please let us know how things went. Our prayers are with you. See you Saturday?
Your Zeta Mom
Nancy
Nancy <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, January 5, 2005 8:24 AM CST
Debbie---my thoughts and prayers are with you! Stay strong & continue your fight!
Love, Janice Bradley
Bosom Buddies (Buddy Kemp Caring House)
Janice Bradley <Bradleyworld@comporium.net>
Fort Mill, SC - Tuesday, December 28, 2004 7:25 AM CST
Debbie,
You are so kind and considerate of others and we all are praying for miracles to happen for you. Have a wonderful Christmas. May God bless you.
Carol Jackson
Matthews, NC - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 1:45 PM CST
Debbie, Marilyn Beem's husband has offered to drive you to Duke if you need him and Jim has offered the same. You know we will all do whatever it takes to see that you get the best treatment. Hopefully it was the asthma medication that is elevating your BP. This is the time of year for miracles - you deserve one. I love you.
Your Zeta Mom - Nanny
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, December 17, 2004 12:31 AM CST
Deb, You dont' know me, but I want to tell you I think and pray for you often. Good luck with getting your pressure down!
Kathy
Middletown, nj - Thursday, December 16, 2004 7:01 PM CST
Wonderful that you heard about the new drug that helps with IBC and got home to be invited to be part of a study using it! I'm happy for you - continuing to hold you in my prayers.
Barbara in Arkansas
North Little Rock, AR USA - Tuesday, December 14, 2004 3:04 PM CST
Hi Deb,
Your mom and I are very proud of you as you pass through into the sixth year with IBC. We know this will always be a part of our lives, but we are so proud of you and the way you have been so unselfish about spreading the word about IBC. We are there for you and you inspire us more and more each day. Love, Mom and Dad
Ed Bohannon <ebohannon@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, December 10, 2004 9:37 AM CST
What a story, Debbie. I check your page almost daily for updates - and missed you when you were gone. You rock, woman! Love and prayers from here, to you and your family.
Barbara in Arkansas
North Little Rock, AR USA - Monday, December 6, 2004 10:04 AM CST
Dear Debbie,
God bless you for your dedication to heightening IBC awareness! From one Zeta to another, you and your family are in my prayers.
Crystal Hulet <chulet@tropicalfoods.com>
Fort Mill, sc USA - Monday, December 6, 2004 9:25 AM CST
Hey Debbie......just checked in on the journal.....and the new pics are really good. The children are growing by leaps and bounds. Keep your Bosom Buddies posted, once you get your latest results..we will miss you at lunch..travel safe to San Antonio.....Love ya;
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC Mecklenburg - Saturday, December 4, 2004 10:19 PM CST
I think about you daily... even if I don't call regularly. I AM SORRY IT HAS TAKEN THIS LONG TO SIGN IN!You will forever be in our thoughts and prayers. I love you.
Debbie
Debbie Chandler <darebear@alltel.net>
Indian Trail, NC USA - Saturday, November 20, 2004 9:43 PM CST
Ah, Debbie - I'm so glad the visit to Duke brought more hope, and more options to you. Things are looking up; prayers being sent that they'll continue to get better and better - and that you'll be first in line for the cure when it's found.
Barbara Mullins <arkytype@swbell.net >
North Little Rock, AR 72116 - Friday, November 12, 2004 10:57 PM CST
Dearest Debbie,
You don't know me, but I am a Occupational Health Nurse and have the pleasure of working with your brother, Chip. He happened to mention your situation to me during Breast Cancer Awareness Week at work.
I have had a chance to briefly look over your website, but I plan on forwarding this site to my home address this weekend and reading your journal entries. As a nurse, this will give me the greatest insight form the perspective of a breast cancer survivor. I believe you are a strong, beautiful, intelligent, courageous person with what it takes to fight the fight. My wish for you is continuing good health and happiness. I would love to have you come speak to our ladies at work and would love to hear from you. On a personal note, Debbie, in talking with your brother, Chip, it is obvious that he has such love for his sister. It's such a nice thing to hear and observe. God Bless. SUE
Susan Majarrez <smajarrez@comporium.net>
Tega Cay, SC USA - Friday, November 12, 2004 10:21 AM CST
hey debbie,
thanks for telling us which member of the senate you visited.it makes my decision a lot easier for tomorrows election.I always have you in my prayers as I know a lot of your Zeta sisters do. Keep positive!!!!!
zlam
Michelle Lowry-Thomason
MIchelle Thomason <chellnc8422@aol.com>
salisbury, nc usa - Monday, November 1, 2004 8:23 PM CST
Hey Debbie.....I've just spent the last 2 hours reading your web.....and catching up on all your app'ts, etc.. what good news to learn that the bone spots and lymph nodes are gone.....Praise the Lord!!!Think about trying to join us at Bosom Buddies for lunch on Dec. 8th....we would love to see you and hear from you, as well. Best wishes and a belated Happy Anniversary to you and Brant. Love ya' !
Carole Parkinson <cdparki9255@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Saturday, October 23, 2004 10:42 PM CDT
Debbie, I am so excited that you can really enjoy this anniversary. Blessings, Margaret Nunez
Margaret Miller Nunez <mmnunez@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, October 21, 2004 10:44 PM CDT
That is awesome news, Debbie! The power of prayer is an amazing thing...and you do have A LOT of people praying for you! I admire your faith & determination. Keep it up! Thanks for updating all of us on your great news!
Beth Lynn <bblynn1@aol.com>
Matthews, NC - Thursday, October 21, 2004 6:39 AM CDT
Hello Debbie, I have read your entires in the Herceptin Message board, and enjoy your web site, I too have a web site that keeps my friends and family updated on my good and bad days. Know you are never alone in your fight. You see the support in your immediate family and friends, but there are many women out here in cyber world that love and support you, we have your joys, pains, test results and chemo days with you. Please continue with your fight and educating others on this illness!
Shannon Ledford <sledford2001@aol.com>
Mountain View, CA USA - Thursday, October 7, 2004 3:04 AM CDT
Dearest Debbie,
I just spent the last 3 hours perusing your website and reading your journal entries. Wow!! What an inspiration you are! Your strength and determination and commitment to help others is incredible. Although we don't see eachother, I think of you often. I am so glad for this website and I will check back often on your progress. I am praying for you and I know God has BIG plans for your future. Please know that you are in are hearts and minds. I think I'll give my kids a big hug when they get home from school because...I don't want any regrets!!
ZLAM,
Ellen
Ellen (Hesse) Brandt <ebrandt@comporium.net>
Rock Hill, SC USA - Tuesday, October 5, 2004 12:20 AM CDT
Debbie,
You are probably one of the strongest people I have ever met! Your willingness to continue to help others when you are struggling is an inspiration to us all. You are constantly in my prayers! I hope Oprah puts you on her show!
Love,
Ann
Ann Heinz <AnnMHeinz@aol.com>
Chantilly, VA - Monday, October 4, 2004 8:51 PM CDT
Debbie,
Nan keeps me updated on how you are doing. This is such an inspirational website - you have found your true calling in helping to find an end to this terrible disease. Please know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
ZLAM, Bea (Beatrice Runyan)
Chapel Hill, NC USA - Saturday, October 2, 2004 8:43 AM CDT
Dear Debbie:
Thank you for refering me to your website. I didn't know you had a site on Caringbridge. I promise to share this with the "Maryland Guthrie's" (although they are scattered all over the country right now). I also promise to follow your story and I look forward to joining you and your family in prayer throughout your ordeal. Nancy (my wife) and I have been donating to Susan Komen and The Avon Walks for the last couple of years. If you have a place that is near and dear to you please let me know and I will add them to our list of donations.
Thank you also for sharing pictures of your family. I have seen pictures of your Mom and Dad, but I hadn't seen pictures of you for a while.
Stay strong. God bless you and your wonderful team of friends. You're in my prayers daily.
Cousin George
George Guthrie <georgegut3@aol.com>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Monday, September 27, 2004 7:04 PM CDT
Debbie:
God Bless You for everything you have done to heighten awareness towards IBC. As you continue the journey may God give you strength to beat this. Thanks for remembering Wendy on your website. We all miss her very, very much. IBC has touched so many of our lives forever, and not only took away my twin, but a part of me.
Cindy McGinniss <cindymcginniss@earthlink.net>
Charlotte, NC USA - Monday, September 27, 2004 8:47 AM CDT
Debbie
It is good to hear your news from the States, espically as I am so far away. I think and pray for you often. Take care and live every day to the full. My safe place to cry is in Church with friends and I often leave my burdens there. Love to you all Jane Rebecca and Bella
Jane Inglis <janeinglis@btinternet.com>
Emsworth, Hants, England - Tuesday, September 21, 2004 3:36 PM CDT
DEBBIE....I understand....Sept 7th entry hit home for me...as well as the entry on finances/health insurance. I include you in my prayers. I pray for your children. Everyday seems to be a battle for me (you can relate) and yet the most important factors that keep up my fight are my children. I look at the baby (you; knowing the circumstance)....and I can believe in miracles!!! HEALTH & HAPPINESS...WITH LOVE,YOUR BOSOM BUDDY.....KAREN
KAREN HOZELLA <BOZQUEEN2@AOL.COM>
CHARLOTTE, NC USA - Tuesday, September 21, 2004 1:07 AM CDT
Hi Debbie, I just found out about your Caringbridge site and have spent some time tonite reading your journal. You and your family are so strong. I was trying to imagine your reality of having to deal with this day after day and now literally, year after year. I think about you so often, it is coming up on 5 years since you and my Mom were diagnosed. I will share your website with her. My reading about your website and the healing service at the time I did is one of those cool God intervening moments because my Dad was diagnosed with Lymphoma just today and I was talking to my Mom about it when I saw the email about the healing service. Thank you for asking for it as I believe my Dad will want to be there. You are so often in my thoughts and in my prayers. You are an amazing woman, thank you for showing us how to fight with faith and determination.
Stacey Wilson <swwilson@carolina.rr.com>
Waxhaw, NC - Friday, September 17, 2004 8:54 PM CDT
Dear Debbie, Your strength and courage are a gift from God. My prayers are with you and your family always. Haley is always smiling when I see her and she is so blessed to have such a strong and loving mother. Take care and God bless.
sabrina angert <sdangert@aol.com>
charlotte, nc usa - Friday, September 17, 2004 5:13 PM CDT
Dear Debbie, you amaze me with your faith. God is good and he will provide what you need. Never doubt that. I know first hand. Keep fighting. HOpe had a healing service and many people came forward. It was a time I will never forget. The support of all who came was enough to get us through a very tough road. I pray you will feel God's peace for you as you start this new drug. May it be the one with God's help to completely heal your body. I love you. Tell Christopher and you family I said hi. Love, Shelby I will be there Sunday night for you.
Shelby Stout <sstout2@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC - Friday, September 17, 2004 1:37 PM CDT
My dearest Debbie,
Wow - you know it takes a lot for me to be speechless and after reading your journal .. I am! What a great job you have done while going through the ibc journey. A tough one, as we all know, but with all the love and support that you are surrounded with, there is not a doubt in my mind that you ARE going to beat ibc. Your words were so beautifully written. I love you with all my heart and am so happy we've shared so many happy memories in D.C.and in San Antonio. We will never forget your pink hair .. the fun we had that night and of course the infamous Hurricane drink. Wishing you good health
Marilyn (Mare) Kirschenbaum <mare@ibcresearch.org>
Des Plaines, IL USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 1:16 PM CDT
Debbie, you are in my prayers, and I hope that the newest chemo goes well. I'm sure your children and husband are proud that you're so optimistic and such a go-getter. I wish you a long life of love and happiness!
Lori Pittard <loripittard@hotmail.com>
Mount Pleasant, NC USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 2:45 PM CDT
Debbie, you are in my prayers. I think of you often. Thanks for putting up this website so I can know how you are more frequently. Few of us can say we have any idea what you have gone through, but I have to tell you what a tremendous role model you must be to your children. Your stamina and optimism is inspiring to me. ZLAM, Mary
Mary Alexander <mary@johnmary.com>
Fairfax, va USA - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 8:45 PM CDT
Debbie,
You are awesome! You're in our thoughts and prayers daily- hang in there! Nancy D.
Nancy DiCenzo
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, September 6, 2004 9:39 PM CDT
Debbie, you are awsome and we are so blessed to have you I our life and sharing your experiences with others and helping all of us to better understand your journey. We pray for you daily. Your awsome!!!!!! Love, The Meyers
Beth and Dan Meyer <BMeyer1@carolina.rr.com>
Matthews, NC USA - Monday, September 6, 2004 8:35 AM CDT
Thank you for sharing your journey Debbie. Because of you and your courage and honesty, you give hope to other women who have also been diagnosed with IBC and information to the rest of us who need to know more about it. My prayers and love have been with you since the very first day of your diagnosis. I am honored to be with you on this journey, and to call you my friend. You are an inspiration to me! Keep up your important mission of sharing. May God bless you!
Ann Calandro <acalandro@carolina.rr.com>
Waxhaw, NC USA - Sunday, September 5, 2004 7:00 PM CDT
Thanks Debbie for sharing your IBC story and helping educate others so unselfishly. I will have to take your suggestion and journal my website as well. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Your IBC sister,
Heather
Heather Goodes <hgoodes@cogeco.ca>
Niagara Falls, ON Canada - Sunday, September 5, 2004 4:23 PM CDT
Debbie, your strength & courage through this fight is AMAZING! I sincerely admire your attitude & unselfishness. Keep fighting & keep that great outlook!
Love, Aunt Eileen
Eileen Guthrie
Pass Christian, MS USA - Saturday, September 4, 2004 7:35 AM CDT
Dear Deb,
Your courage is inspirational and I admire what you have done. I can't say that I am surprised, because you are obviously a very strong person. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family and am glad that I can keep up with you through your web page at CaringBridge.
Much love to you and yours,
Lisa Eller
Lisa Eller <lisaeller@aol.com>
Greensboro, NC USA - Friday, September 3, 2004 5:31 PM CDT
Hey Debbie. I am a Zeta too. I am praying for you and your family. Good luck with the treatments!! Take care and you are a true inspiration to everyone.
zeta love
Stacy Cappel <zeta559@yahoo.com>
Kernersville, nc - Friday, September 3, 2004 9:50 AM CDT
Hi Debbie, you are a gift and courageous person to help and serve others while going through your own struggle. My prayers and thoughts (and my heart) is with you. Thank you for all you do. I love you, and hang in there.
tammy nisbet
charlotte, nc usa - Friday, September 3, 2004 8:39 AM CDT
Hey Debbie......did you ever know that you're my hero....you're everything I would like to be.....I can now fly higher than an eagle, cause' you have truly been "the wind beneath my wings". My encouragement began with you, my breast cancer education began with you....and my admiration of your fighting spirit remains with you. You will always be my Bosom Buddy. Thanks for starting this site, it's a great idea....and such a special way for your friends and family to encourage you.....Love ya' Carole
Carole Parkinson
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 10:40 PM CDT
Deb
I am so proud of you! I love the pictures and will take my time looking around.
Kristin Ayala <kayala@cherrycreekschools.org>
Aurora, CO 80013 - Thursday, September 2, 2004 10:16 PM CDT
Hi Deb; You've always been a fighter and I thank you for sharing so much of your battle with so many of us who love you and want to hear about your progress. You have been blessed with a beautiful family and your Lafayette "MOM" is very, very proud of you. Love You, KTW
Katy Wimberley <granx5@bellsouth.net>
Lafayette, LA USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 4:58 PM CDT
Debbie - thanks so much for sharing this with all of us and for all that you do. You are truly an inspiration. Lots of Zeta love and mine,
kjo
Kristin O'Carroll <kristin.ocarroll@wachovia.com>
Denver, NC USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 3:27 PM CDT
Debbie,
I am a fellow UNCC ZTA alum, and Nancy Fulmer keeps me posted on your news. You are so inspiring to me, and I want you to know you are always in my prayers. Keep fighting - we are all behind you.
Heather Waddell <heatherwaddell@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 3:24 PM CDT
Debbie, your strength and positive outlook are so encouraging. I am praying for you - for strength, love, and energy. Sending lots of love,
Mandy Allbritton <mandyallbritton@carolina.rr.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 2:56 PM CDT
Debbie, Thanks for sharing. I suppose I should have done the same but there isn't much about IBC I've wanted to remember. The only good part about chemo is the forgetfulness.
Health!
Laura Barrowman
- Thursday, September 2, 2004 12:10 AM CDT
Debbie:
You are a true hero in every aspect! You are and continue to be in our thoughts and prayers for your strengh, courage and HEALING! You are an inspiration to all of us--Keep the faith.
Nancy Johnson
Bainbridge Island, WA USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 12:02 AM CDT
Debbie:
You are a true hero in every aspect! You are and continue to be in our thoughts and prayers for your strengh, courage and HEALING! You are an inspiration to all of us--Keep the faith.
Nancy Johnson
Bainbridge Island, WA USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 12:02 AM CDT
Debbie, I am so lucky to know you. You are strong, smart and beautiful. You know a lot of big words. :-)I want to be just like you when I grow up. Not one second ever, did I ever doubt that you could beat this. I know that you will. You and your family are in my prayers. Thank you for all that you give. Thank you for not being afraid to fight. -April
April Scott <asscott@mmm.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 10:47 AM CDT
Debbie, you know I love you and am praying for you as I have been. Your sisters are in this with you even though we don't talk about it much. You are an inspiration to all of us and we are all there for you - if you need ANYTHING, all you have to do is ask. I still say things like this shouldn't happen to people like you!
Your Zeta Mom - Nancy
Nancy Fulmer <nhfulmer@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 10:20 AM CDT
Debbie:
You are an inspiration to all of us with BC. I was there with you at the beginning in Bosom Buddies. I miss Charlotte and especially our little group. I keep you in my daily prayers and know you will beat this. Keep up the good fight. Suzanne in KY
Suzanne Rodgers <SRodg1468@aol.com>
Frankfort, KY USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 10:15 AM CDT
I'm so glad you did this, Debbie! It's a war, but you can win the battles like my mom does. I'll hit my 4-year anniversary in just a few days. Just in time to be officially diagnosed with lupus. Hell, a fight's a fight, right? I keep our mutual Zeta and Centenary friends updated on your wins, so I'll send them this link. You go!!!
Betsy Camp-Hoffman <ecamp@utmb.edu>
Galveston, TX USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 9:39 AM CDT
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