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Hi Lisa, I will stop by tonight and say hi to Max when I go see Ryan. I'm so sorry he's hurt.
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Friday, July 9, 2010 6:31 PM CDT

When Jim called about the accident with Max's leg, I first thought of Max and then of Lisa and how she was feeling and then the nurses and how they were feeling and then Spencer and how this would affect him and last(sorry Jim)Jim who tries to support all of us and not show how he is feeling. Need less to say , my mind immediately knelt in specific prayer, once again, for all of you. My love extends to each.
Mom/Joanne/Gramma <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, July 9, 2010 12:20 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Red.
I had sent a Birthday wish to your mommy's facebook page.
can't believe 13 already. hope you had a great day
at home with your family.

love you
~Carrie
- Monday, March 22, 2010 12:33 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Maxwell! It was so good to see and touch you yesterday during our birthday visit in your room at Sugar Lake. I think that next time I see you, you should really open your eyes and look at me. OK? You have grown so "bigger" like you always wanted to be when you were a little guy and you're still a beautiful (or should I say handsome)fellow. I love you!
Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Saturday, March 20, 2010 0:37 AM CDT

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's hard to lose someone so close, especially this time of year. May he rest in peace!
laura <laura7550@yahoo.com>
albertville, mn wright - Thursday, January 7, 2010 1:09 AM CST

I MUST have a copy of that picture. I love the people on it!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol. com>
- Wednesday, December 23, 2009 1:02 PM CST

sara dubose
diana cartrette <jimmycartrette@att.net>
ft.worth, tx usa - Tuesday, October 13, 2009 2:05 PM CDT

I check in all the time to see new pictures and see how you are all doing. I notice how proud you are of your boys, what a hard worker you are, and what a great mom you are. I'm always praying for you. God bless all of you!
laura <laura7550@yahoo.com>
Albertville, MN USA - Wednesday, August 19, 2009 3:07 AM CDT

I sure do love you all!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, August 7, 2009 12:46 AM CDT

I love the new shirt.
Max, Uncle Scott would be so jealous.
that is his kind of shirt.
Carrie <cbloom61@aol.com>
- Monday, August 3, 2009 2:29 PM CDT

Max,Just springing by to wish you a wonderful day.

God bless,love & hugs,Linn,Daniel,Michael & Ariel
The Marrero's <gillinn7@msn.com>
- Tuesday, July 7, 2009 9:19 AM CDT

We have troubles all around us, but we are NOT defeated. We do not know what to do, but we do not give up the hope of the living. We are persecuted, but God does not leave us. We are hurt sometimes, but we are not destroyed... So we do not give up. Our physical body is becoming older and weaker, but our spirit inside us is made new every day. We have small troubles for awhile now, but they are helping us gain an eternal glory that is much greater than the troubles. We set our eyes not on what we see, but on what we cannot see... 2 Corinthians 4:8-9, 16-18

The ETERNAL God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms. Deuteronomy 33:27

.
.., MN USA - Monday, June 15, 2009 11:42 PM CDT

OH WOW!!
When I opened up Max's site today the first page picture came up huge and it just took my breath away. Then the profile one in photos is so beautiful. I can't claim that nose either as Grandma, so Lisa you get the credit! I am proud to be gramma to those handsome boys/men and love you all.

Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Thursday, May 14, 2009 10:02 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer and Max, Just thinking about you and hoping and praying that Max is recovering well and that things are finally settling down a bit for all of you. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Tuesday, May 12, 2009 7:36 PM CDT

I love the new pictures.
Maxie you have grown so BIG...
I am so glad that everything went well.
I am glad you are home.
Carrie <cbloom61@aol.com>
- Monday, April 27, 2009 3:04 PM CDT

Wow! You now have two young men, no more little boys..

Great pictures! Happy to hear the surgery went well and Max is settled back in Sugar Lake. You all take care and have a wonderful spring :)
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 21, 2009 11:26 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, I am so thankful that the surgery went well and that Max is back at his home. You have been concerned about this for so long and now it's just time to enjoy your taller boy! The photo is great! It was great to see everyone on Saturday. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Monday, April 20, 2009 8:26 PM CDT

MAXWELL!!!

You got all grown up when I wasn't looking! You and Spencer must be related.

I love you.
Joanne Dressel <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Monday, April 20, 2009 4:52 PM CDT

I am so thankful that all went well and you are on the mend. hope you get to be home soon.

Carrie <cbloom61@aol.com>
- Thursday, April 16, 2009 11:49 AM CDT

Dear Jim and Family,
So, so glad to read that the surgery went well. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

-melissa-
Melissa Sundboom
- Wednesday, April 15, 2009 1:35 PM CDT

Best wishes to you all Jim.

Regards,

Kieran Monaghan - MME
kieran monaghan
Minnetonka, MN USA - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 9:46 AM CDT

Jim,

We're glad Max's surgery went well. Know that you're in our thoughts and prayers during his recovery.

Paul and Michelle MacKinney <paul.mackinney@minnetonka.k12.mn.us>
Excelsior, MN USA - Monday, April 13, 2009 10:10 PM CDT

It is great to hear that surgery went well! We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers!
Wendy Stensrud <wendy.stensrud@minnetonka.k12.mn.us>
Eden Prairie, Mn USA - Monday, April 13, 2009 11:11 AM CDT

Jim and family,
I am so glad that everything went well for your little boy. I will pray for a speedy recovery!

Mona...MME <anderson.family6@yahoo.com>
Minnetonka, MN USA - Monday, April 13, 2009 10:22 AM CDT

Hi All! I stopped in and saw Max this evening. He was sound asleep. He looked good. I can't believe how much he's grown! I'm so happy everything went well. Happy Easter to all of you!
Ann O'Brien
Blaine, MN - Friday, April 10, 2009 10:43 PM CDT

Maxwell, I am thanking God today for all that was done for you yesterday and the care you will receive as you get "all better" from the surgery. Gillette has become a home away from home over the years with physicians and staff expertise and caring shown over and over again. We will see you soon , a much taller and straighter boy!
With much love,
Gramma and Ralph
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, April 10, 2009 10:59 AM CDT

Dear Gosewisch Family:
I have been thinking and praying for Max & the surgeons quite a bit during this work day. Lisa, when you have a chance to take a breath - please call me.
Mary Streich <mary@tmcindustries.com>
Waconia, MN USA - Thursday, April 9, 2009 1:42 PM CDT

I most definitely will send all the prayers I can your way.
Love you all
Carrie <cbloom61@aol.com>
- Thursday, April 9, 2009 11:46 AM CDT

Thinking of you guys while taking our break today. Have a peaceful Easter weekend.
MME Lunch Ladies <mme.kitchen@minnetonka.k12.mn.us>
Minnetonka, MN Hennepin - Thursday, April 9, 2009 9:54 AM CDT

Hi: Lisa

We wish Maxwell the best after his surgery. We will
keep Max, and his family in thoughts, and prayers.
May God Bless
Anita
Anita <serenitypeace0506@yahoo.com>
Naples , Fl USA - Wednesday, April 8, 2009 7:49 PM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max - I'll be thinking of all of you and praying on Thursday as you wait while Max is in surgery. He'll be taller than he already is - think of it! Jack grew 2-3 inches from his surgery in August, and he is doing better than ever. I will pray that Max has the same great outcome :) Take care of each other at the hospital. Love, Patti
Patti Barth <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 8, 2009 12:53 AM CDT

Maxwell, Jim, Lisa and dear Spencer,
My thoughts and prayers are with and for you all especially during this time of stress. You know my love is with you always.

Joanne Dressel <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, April 7, 2009 11:10 AM CDT

Maxwell, I loved being with you yesterday to celebrate your 12th birthday! I just want you to know I love you so so so much
Gramma
Joanne Dressel <GRAMMACONGO@AOL.COM>
- Monday, March 23, 2009 10:57 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Max

I love you bunches
hope you have a good day

hugs and kisses
Carrie
- Friday, March 20, 2009 8:10 AM CDT

Maxwell,
Just had to visit you today on your caringbridge site. I love to look at that picture of you on the opening page! I am waiting for winter to be done and then you can come to visit Ralph and me at the camper by Howard Lake. Is that a deal? We'll meet at the camper and spend the afternoon outside listening to the birds and looking up at the leaves on the big trees. And I will be so happy to be with you!
Love Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, February 13, 2009 11:13 AM CST

Thankyou Lisa. Love you!
Joanne
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Sunday, February 8, 2009 3:51 PM CST

HI MY NAME IS CANDY CARDENAS I WAS LOOKING AT SETHS WEB SITE AND HE REMINDS ME SO MUCH OF MY SON NICHOLAS.NICHOLAS WAS IN A NEAR DROWING ACCIDENT ON SEP.12,2004 WE ARE FROM CUERO TX,77954 I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO MAKE NICHOLAS A WEBSITE YET BUT I WILL SOON,NOW THAT WE HAVE A COMPUTER.I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO TALK TO SOME ONE FOR A WHILE, BUT I DID NOT HAVE ACCESS TO A COMPUTER,BUY THE WAY YOUR SON IS SO BEAUTIFUL.
CANDY CARDENAS <candacecardenas34@yahoo.com>
CUERO, TX 77954 - Saturday, December 27, 2008 7:06 PM CST

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
~Carrie
- Wednesday, December 24, 2008 11:48 AM CST

Maxie,
I am looking forward to seeing you at Christmas.
Are you ready for the dice game??
or should I say is your Mom =)???
she always trys to get you the good stuff..
She is such a good Mommy.
keep warm see you soon

Love to you
~Carrie
- Thursday, December 18, 2008 8:34 AM CST

Jim, Lisa, Spencer and Max, Oh what a time you have all had. I want you to know you can call me anytime also. Especially on a work day, I'm very close to Children's. Glad to hear that Max is out of the hospital, but the waiting while doctors try to figure out what is wrong is always a difficult time too. Try to stay strong. You know you have lots of support out here. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Hope to see you on Saturday. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Wednesday, November 19, 2008 10:38 PM CST

I've been praying! I only need a little advance notice if pumpkin bars are required..LOL.
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Monday, November 17, 2008 1:31 PM CST

I am sorry to hear you are having a bit of a rough spot. I pray that God will guide your doctors in finding what is causing the problem,Jim I am sorry to hear about your shoulder take care. I pray for God to be with you all.

Love you much
Carrie <cbloom61@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 16, 2008 10:30 AM CST

My prayers are with Max and all of you who love him (guess that includes me 'cuz I love him too!). Good job Lisa, Sugar Lake personnel and school staff person in working together to help Max with this bump in the road. Now the Dr's will have good information to work with toward a solution. My thoughts continue every hour of the day for all.
Love,
Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, November 14, 2008 10:19 AM CST

Just wanted to say hi and let you know we are thinking about you.

www.freewebs.com/quilts-of-hope
Jaime <aquiltofhope@aol.com>
- Thursday, October 23, 2008 7:53 PM CDT

Hi Max
My name is Jenna and I came across your site. You are a brave, courageous fighter and a real inspiration. You have a great smile and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
caringbridge.org/visit/champ291
Jenna <allfighterswin@gmail.com>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Wednesday, October 8, 2008 0:27 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, Just wanted to let you know I've thinking about you all. I don't feel so bad now not remembering the exact day of Max's accident. I will never forget that evening, being at the hospital all night and all that went along with that. I know you never will forget either. Oh, in all of our lives, so much has happened since then. It is so amazing how life, as we know it, can be changed so suddenly. We can only go on by putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward one moment at a time as we seek to find the "new normal" - if there is such a thing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Tuesday, September 30, 2008 8:41 PM CDT

Lisa,Jim,Spencer,Max
Thinking of you all.
Sending you all much love
XOXO =)
~Carrie
- Tuesday, September 30, 2008 5:46 AM CDT

Lisa, your strenght has always amazed me!
Martha
- Friday, September 19, 2008 8:33 PM CDT

Happy Belated Birthday Lis,
I hope your little get together was wonderful.
I hope you had an awesome day.
I hope you got as many of your jobs done as you were hoping also.
Love to you all
~Carrie
- Monday, August 25, 2008 7:13 AM CDT

Happy belated birthday Lisa! I don't write or check back here as often as I could, but know that I think of you and your family often and you are always part of my prayers.
Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
- Monday, August 25, 2008 6:52 AM CDT

I haven't checked here in a while until today. I got a sick feeling in my stomach thinking about what it must be like to re-live that day like you do and worry about the inevitable surgery that Max must face (sooner than you would have wished). People can tell you over and over not to dwell on that stuff but you're a mom and you can't help it. I will pray for all of you but especially you, Lisa. I'm sure your heart breaks a little each time you have to think about what could have been. I will pray that you have healing in your heart.
Laura
albertville, mn - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 6:47 PM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, Just checking in to say "HI" and to let you all know I think about you all the time. I can't believe it has been a month already since the wedding here. What a wonderful, blessed day that was for me and I hope for everyone else as well. Grandpa Jerry was so proud and happy to see so many of his loved ones together that day! But Lisa your update again is so sad. My dear, I can't even imagine what you go through each and every day dealing with all of Max's issues. Just know that you are continually in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and bless you and keep you strong as this journey continues. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Monday, August 4, 2008 8:34 PM CDT

About longing for Heaven:

The only ultimate disaster that can befall us, I have come to realize, is to feel ourselves to be home on earth.
As long as we are aliens, we cannot forget our true homeland.

Unhappiness on earth cultivates a hunger for heaven.
By gracing us with a deep dissatisfaction, God holds our
attention. The only tragedy, then, is to be satisfied
prematurely. To settle for earth. To be content in a strange land.

We are not happy here because we are not at HOME here. We are not happy here because we are not SUPPOSED to be happy here. We are like foreigners and strangers in this world. (1Peter 2:11).

And you will never be COMPLETELY happy on earth simply because you were not made for earth. Oh, you will have moments of joy. You will catch glimpses of light. You will know moments or even days of peace. But they simply do not compare with the HAPPINESS that lies ahead.
(Max Lucado - When God Whispers Your Name)

(I know I have put this in here before, but it is my favorite, because I believe it is so very true. Sometimes we need to be reminded of these facts, when we get caught up in our daily lives and the sadness that we all experience, (some more than others). It is just so comforting to be reminded that hey, we don't stay here forever, and as Christians, we will all see each other again in PERFECT form. I don't know about you, but it makes me smile to think about it!)

THERE ARE MANY ROOMS IN MY FATHER'S HOUSE; I WOULD NOT TELL YOU THIS IF IT WERE NOT TRUE. I AM GOING THERE TO PREPARE A PLACE FOR YOU. AFTER I GO AND PREPARE A PLACE FOR YOU, I WILL COME BACK AND TAKE YOU TO BE WITH ME SO THAT YOU MAY BE WHERE I AM. John 14:2-3

.
- Monday, July 28, 2008 8:37 PM CDT

Oh Lisa, so many worries for you I feel bad :(. You hang in there, girl! My nephew is having the spine surgery on August 4th, so we can give you input on how it goes. Of course he doesn't want it, but he knows he needs it (he's 16) to keep his internal organs working well for the future. Just keep praying, it always works the best to see the brightest outcome! Love, Patti
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 24, 2008 11:58 AM CDT

Maxwell,
I loved having you relaxing on our deck at the camper on Saturday. Come again b/4 summer is over.
Also am glad you brought your brother along with you this time. Most 11 year old guys don't get to hang out with their 13 year old brothers! Spence, I just love you!
Love you all-----
Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, July 15, 2008 10:08 AM CDT

Hey Gosewisch family,
Just stopping in to say Hi!
I had to check and see how you all
are doing. I hope you have a wonderful
vacation. talk to you soon
~C
- Friday, June 13, 2008 12:02 AM CDT

http://geo.ya.com/tagomiru/ msn hotmail
mail <mail>
Kiev, Kiev Ukraine - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 12:43 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, Just thinking about all of you and thought I'd stop in and say "HI". Spring is here and nature's signs of new life are beginning to appear again. My hope for you is that the longer days and warmer temperatures are revitalizing you and helping you to find renewed energy and new life also. Take care. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Sunday, April 20, 2008 6:35 AM CDT

I commend Minnetonka schools for recognizing Jim! Jim always continue to be you. I am proud to be your Mom.
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, April 16, 2008 10:09 AM CDT

maxwell,
hello just want to wish you a very happy birthday.sending you lots of hugs and prayers.
quilts of love angel"angel rebecca"
www.quiltsoflove.com
www.caringbridge.org/visit/angelperez.
rebecca perez quilts of love angel"angel rebecca" <babygirlx3perez@yahoo.com>
moorhead, mn usa - Thursday, March 20, 2008 2:03 PM CDT

Happy Birthady Max
have a awesome day.
all my love
~Carrie
- Thursday, March 20, 2008 11:52 AM CDT

Maxwell Scott Gosewisch is 11 years old today! Happy Happy Day! In love you!
Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Thursday, March 20, 2008 9:49 AM CDT

Happy Birthday, Max!
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 20, 2008 8:51 AM CDT

Precious Child--you have always loved the "fishies". Remember going fishing with Andrew and the fish you caught? I remember that wonderful camping time! I think you can catch one of those fish in your special tent! I love you so much! Gramma
joanne dressel <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, March 11, 2008 10:41 AM CDT

I love the new pictures, they seem so cheery and summery "if that is even a word".
It made me think of a tropical Island. =)
Your update sounds so good and positive.
I hope Maxie will get good results from the ambien.
hope you and your family are all doing well.
see you soon.
lots of love

~
- Friday, March 7, 2008 11:57 AM CST

Angel Steff ~Quilts of Love~ <steff1@frontiernet.net>
Northfork, wv - Monday, February 25, 2008 6:45 PM CST

Hey Lisa, Jim, Spencer and Max!
I hope this new year that has begun brings you a lot of happiness, the fulfillemnt of your wishes and the miracle we all are praying for :)

Love ya!
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Thursday, February 21, 2008 10:22 PM CST

It was a good meeting and I'm glad you wanted me there. I am thankful for what is provided for Max and for the particular therapists he has to help him(you know how critical I can be about how things are done). Keep at it Maxwell, caregivers and teachers!

I love you!!
Gramma Joanne
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, February 12, 2008 10:16 AM CST

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, Just wanted to check in and say"HI". I am also so proud of both the boys. So many lessons to be learned. Great job! Thanks for the very positive update. The temps did go up a bit and hey it's the end of January. Can spring be far behind?? Take care. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Sunday, January 27, 2008 5:33 PM CST

What a great update lis.
Im glad that things are going well for both of your boys.
Good Luck Spencer for Saturday's testing.
Also Happy Belated Birthday Spencer hope you had a Great Day.
~
- Wednesday, January 23, 2008 12:22 AM CST

Lisa--Spence may just descover why grocery shopping isn't your favorite thing to do or maybe he'll want to do it all, all the time!
Maxie--good job with your head that seems so heavy sometimes! Keep at it!!

Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 23, 2008 10:54 AM CST

Happy New Year Maxwell! Did you and the nurses celebrate that night? I love you!!!!
Joanne Gramma <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 2, 2008 9:55 AM CST

Skabrewno [url=http://web.skgwu.edu/board/8198615.html]Skabrwino[/url] http://web.skgkw.edu/board/8198615.html
simetszz <simetszz>
none, ny USA - Thursday, December 27, 2007 6:43 PM CST

Maxwell, you look so good up on that horse. It even made you give Mom a smile, I wish I'd seen it. You keep practicing that smile so you can do even more than one when we are at Jeremiah's place for our fun Christmas time. We'll all be smiling then! I love you!!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, December 21, 2007 9:59 AM CST

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, Oh Lisa, I just read your update and you sound so sad. This is such a hard time of the year. Not only is it winter and cold, which I really don't mind, but the short short days. All the darkness is, I think, what is so hard to take. And getting ready for Christmas, if you do all the things one is "suppose to do" is also really hard. Over the years, I have chosen what I want to be the priorities and what I have fun with and not do the rest. And, you know what? No one seems to mind and I am a lot less stressed. The sun was shining today. That usually helps the mood, especially if you can be out in it. Try and relax a little. Remember the true meaning of Christmas is the birth of a baby. Spending time with family and friends can be celebrated with simplicity and love. Try not to push and be so hard on yourself. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Wednesday, December 12, 2007 8:17 PM CST

Don't be afraid, because I have saved you. I have called you by name, and you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned, nor will the flames hurt you. This is because I, the Lord, am your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior. Isaiah 43: 1-3
pz
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 11:14 PM CST

Hey Lisa and Max!
I am not surprised of what Petey did with Max...my shar pei puppy, Greta, who is 7 months old, pampers me when I am feeling blue or when I am sick...I just can't believe that she realizes I am not doing so well.
Animals cant' communicate with words, but they deo it in awsome ways..and maybe having a puppy like Petey is going to help Max to finally wake up. he does great with horse therapy

All my love
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Friday, November 30, 2007 10:53 PM CST

Wow I can't believe the snow photos. I can't imagine having to clear off a car to drive it. We would be lucky to have 1 mm of ice on a windscreen twice in winter where I live. LOL
Liz and Ashleigh <ashminiwench@yahoo.com.au>
Australia - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 2:55 AM CST

Not long to go! Are you getting excited? We are!

Love Everyone at Post Pals

viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Tuesday, November 20, 2007 1:11 PM CST

Lisa, Jim, Spencer and Max - hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving! Congrats on your grades, Spencer - it makes parents very proud when you do so well in school. Lisa, I am praying that your entries in the future show progress for Max in his rehab work - it would be so exciting to hear of positive changes after the hard work. Take care! Love, Patti.
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 16, 2007 2:07 PM CST

Lisa and whoever sent this wonderful example for Max and all of us ---thankyou so much for the reminder to keep on keeping on! Lisa, I see you shared it on the "parents of near drowns" site. This encouragement will reach far into other states,other countries and other lives with that one click on the computer. Love to you!

Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, November 9, 2007 10:33 AM CST

One day I decided to quit...
I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality... I wanted to quit my life.
I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.
'God', I asked, 'Can you give me one good reason not to quit?'
His answer surprised me...
'Look around', He said. 'Do you see the fern and the bamboo?'
'Yes', I replied.
'When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them.
I gave them light.
I gave them water.
The fern quickly grew from the earth.
Its brilliant green covered the floor.
Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo.
In the second year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.
And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. He said.
'In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed.
But I would not quit.
In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would
not quit.' He said.
'Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared
to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant...But just 6
months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.
It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive.
I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.'
He asked me. 'Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots'.
'I would not quit on the bamboo.
I will never quit on you.'
'Don't compare yourself to others.'
He said.
'The bamboo had a different Purpose than the fern.
Yet they both make the forest beautiful.'
'Your time will come', God said to me.
'You will rise high'
'How high should I rise?'
I asked.
'How high will the bamboo rise?' He asked in return.
'As high as it can?' I questioned.
'Yes.' He said, 'Give me glory by rising as high as you can.'
I left the forest and brought back this story.
I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you.
Never, Never, Never Give up.
For the Christian Prayer is not an option but an opportunity.
Don't tell the Lord how big the problem is,
tell the problem how Great the Lord is!
Heavens door open this morning, God asked me... My CHILD...
what can I do for you?' and I said 'Father please protect and bless the one reading this message.
God smiled and answered ... 'request granted .............
This message is now in your hands.
What will YOU do with it?
You never know when GOD is going to bless you!! Good things happen when you least expect them to !!!!!!!!

???
- Thursday, November 8, 2007 12:15 AM CST

i just want to let you know you dear little angel that i admire your strength and will to keep going you are a very lucky baby and i will pray for you daily for further recovery
all my love from PA
stephanie crawford <nevaehbirdie@hotmail.com>
wellsboro, pa usa - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 6:45 AM CST

I have a suggestion for a communication method. I learned in psychology that even infants as young as 7 months will attempt to grasp a photograph of an objects as if it is an actual object. Therefore, they have a greater success when used in communication boards over line drawings. They don't require as much symbolic interpretation. I tried this technique with a little girl I worked with who was non-verbal and wasn't having much success with pecs cards. I made cardstock pages with three enlarged photographs so she'd be able to choose a toy or snack that she wanted. I was wondering if you could put enlarged photographs of Max's favorite toys on an eye gaze board. They he'd be able to gaze to request what he wanted.
Laura Gilmour <llgilmou@ualberta.ca>
Edmonton, AB Canada - Saturday, November 3, 2007 6:20 PM CDT

Wow Max and Mama you guys are sure busy doing stuff together! I pray for both of you to have strength as you do new things! Go for it!!
Love you!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, October 19, 2007 11:05 AM CDT

Hi Max, I stopped by to say hi and let you know all your friends at Loyal Lamb Outreach are praying for you!

[Glitterfy.com - *Glitter Photos*]
Tanja <loyallamb@cogeco.ca>
Canada - Sunday, October 14, 2007 6:08 PM CDT

Happy Autumn

Being a human being is like being a pumpkin. God lifts you up, takes you in, and washes all the dirt off of you. He opens you up, touches you deep inside and scoops out all the yucky stuff-- including the seeds of doubt, hate, greed, etc. Then He carves you a new smiling face and puts His light inside you to shine for all the world to see.
~C
- Tuesday, October 9, 2007 6:11 AM CDT

Thinking of you all this week. It sounds like you are doing really well this week Max. Enjoy your day at your Grandmas.
Liz and Ashleigh
- Sunday, September 30, 2007 6:16 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, I have been thinking about all of you so hard this week, realizing this was the anniversary of Max's accident. Jim and Lisa, you are both truly amazing in many ways. Spencer is excelling in so many areas, and Max's achievements are miraculous. With all of lifes twists and turns, if we keep praying, and trust and follow God's way for us, we can have hearts filled with joy. The journey is not usually how we would have planned it, but remember "all things work together for glory to them that love God". I believe the hardest thing is to have patience, because our timeline is different than God's timeline. But I can look back on the past year or two, and even with all the day to day difficulties we faced, see how God's timing was perfect in so many areas of my life and in Grandpa Jerry's life. We only need to continue to pray for strength and courage to face each new day......one day at a time. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Saturday, September 29, 2007 7:58 PM CDT

Today I heard someone (that had lost a child and a grandchild)say about the sad moments that never really go away "honor those moments but go on to live". Yes, this Gramma watches John Edward on TV and that's where I heard it. I equate it to the sadness we all feel about when we lost the little redhaired 3 year old 7 years ago BUT I see and feel the thankfulness and the living Lisa,Jim and Spencer continue to do with the new Maxwell. How you all are loved as we honor Maxwell's life today! Ice cream cake for everyone on Happy Maxwell Day!
Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Saturday, September 29, 2007 12:43 AM CDT

"Slight not the still small voice in the blessing of the little things".All the little things we celebrate are what lead to joy and happiness.Whether it is holding a hand,watching our new puppy play with an older dog on a lazy Saturday, a knowing smile, a good book, a good friend, cherished family, or watching your kids acomplish a seemingly small task to the rest of the world; the little things bring joy. You and your red-headed litle boy model this. You show us daily how to celebrate the those "little things".All those things added up, lead to living.Focusing on what we do have.And we do have so much.Living life focused on what we do not leads to existance instead of living life.Thank you for sharing all those little things of your living so we can remember to not "slight the still small voice of God".
**
- Friday, September 28, 2007 12:01 AM CDT

Max,

Be sure to take a good nap on Saturday morning so when you come to my house you can look around the house and see the kitties too.
I can hardly wait to see you!

Love from your grammacongo to you!
Joanne <grammacomngo@aol.com>
- Thursday, September 27, 2007 10:18 AM CDT

Hey Lisa... In that support group for parents of near drownings that you have been involved with... is there anything similar that Spencer could be part of?

I remember us at his age and shudder to think of our antics and while we had brothers who were pains :) , Spencer's situation is a lot different. Your responsibilities and priorities for dealing with your kids is very different from our folks had to deal with... (US!)

Anyway, stopped by to say Hi and see how you all were!
Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, September 19, 2007 10:38 AM CDT

Thanks Lisa for responding, I was very curious about it and concerned for you both.
Liz
Liz and Ashleigh
- Wednesday, September 12, 2007 0:01 AM CDT

Lisa are they planning to try and reduce Max's anticonvulsant medication again as he is so very drowsy? I know the seizures have been a big problem for him but being so drowsy is not normal.He is such a handsome boy and I can't believe how big he is. It must be so hard for you to go and see him and have him asleep so much of the time. I would pursue a different neurologists opinion and try some new drugs that are less drowsy. My husband who is epileptic takes 16 tablets a day to control his epilepsy but is alert, I know Max's is from brain injury but there are so many new and different drugs out there. I hope you are not upset that I commented on this but as a registered nurse and Ashleigh's mum (ND) I felt I hneeded to ask. Just remember the nurses will not be too concerned about his drowsiness as it makes their jobs less demanding if he is relaxed and quiet.
Liz and Ashleigh
Australia - Thursday, September 6, 2007 7:42 PM CDT

Hope you had a great birthday, Lisa! See you on Sunday so I can give you a hug and a beer! Patti.
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, August 28, 2007 1:46 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Lisa! Looks like it will be a nice weekend for you and your family to enjoy!
Julie <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
Mtka, mn - Friday, August 24, 2007 10:27 AM CDT

Hey Max!
Be patient, the staff can't know you as well as a mommy feels, because mommies are very special. She will fight for them to recognize that you have your rights to choose, they just need to know how....and give them a little hint ;)
Dear Lisa, you are absolutely right tone and posture are different things. The staff surely is well trained, but we learn new things each day, so you need to teach them. They will learn with time, if they are willing to do so. NEVER forget that you are e-mom...."EXCELENT- MOM"

HUGS FOR YOU ALL GUYS!!!!!
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Saturday, August 18, 2007 11:42 PM CDT

Hey Lisa.
I think I've said this before, but everyone, including you, including Jim, including Spencer have their ups and downs. I know your emotions get crazy sometimes when you are with Max and think about the "before" times. This is so normal. I think it's normal for everyone.

Have Spencer check out www.tryscience.org it is a really cool website and has all kinds of experiments that he could do around the house - with mostly normal everyday items you have around the house....and if you go camping, there's things he could do there too.

It's such a different world than when we were growing up. We couldn't wait to get on our bikes are ride all over during the summer...but then again, we didn't have computers or cable tv!

Take care. My thoughts and prayers always include you and your family.

Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
Minnetonka, MN - Thursday, August 2, 2007 7:35 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, Just dropping by to say "HI" and to let you know I've been thinking about all of you. Hope you are having a fun filled summer. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Monday, July 30, 2007 7:45 PM CDT

Lisa,

I still want to feel the closeness of holding my kids on my lap (don't even try to picture that), but I want that feeling again. I understand what you're saying and feeling.

Love you!

Joanne
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, July 24, 2007 11:45 AM CDT

Maxie,

Next time you come out to the camper you be sure to take a nap before you get there, not while you're there. Actually I'll take you any way you are. It's just so good to see you out and about lazing around in and out of the sunshine and fresh air. I do love you!

Gramma Joanne (Congo)
Joanne <grammacdongo@aol.com>
- Monday, July 16, 2007 9:55 AM CDT

So glad to hear the surgery went well and that Max is doing well! Hope you have a great finish to the summer - so far it's been wonderful. Take care, Love - Patti.
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
HL, - Monday, July 2, 2007 1:39 PM CDT

Sending you all..
lots of hugs,kisses,thoughts and prayers your way.
~C
- Wednesday, June 27, 2007 12:32 AM CDT

Dear Ones,

Thinking of and praying for all of you, especially right now as Max's surgery should be in progress at this moment.

Love,
Mom/Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, June 27, 2007 9:51 AM CDT

Just stopping by to say hi and let you know we are keeping Max in our prayers. I was hoping he could be Ryan's roommate but he's already got one in there. I will stop by and see Max tomorrow when I go in. Thanks for always keeping everyone updated. I'm still checking on him but just rarely write!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 9:56 PM CDT

Max I know this procedure will be like a piece of cake for you. I wish I had a magic wand to make things much easier for you and yours...and I hope one of this days you wake up like if nothing had happened
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Tuesday, June 26, 2007 9:55 PM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer,and Max, I've just been thinking about all of you the past few days and hope all is well with job changes again, summer vacation and all. The storm cloud photos are awesome. They remind me of the many photos Jerry would take. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Friday, June 22, 2007 8:28 PM CDT

The pictures are sooo good! And another wonderful surprise for me was that Maxwell was chosen the "child of the month" for the Hugs foundation! The story again brought tears to my eyes and an ache in my heart BUT I came back to our dear Maxwell still with us and looking so beautiful as in the picture on that site and I was on my knees thanking God for keeping him here with us. Lisa, how can other people access that site to see the story and the picture?

Love to you all--

Mom/Gram
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, June 22, 2007 10:37 AM CDT

I love the picture lisa
Hope all is going well.
talk to you soon
~C.
- Friday, June 22, 2007 6:38 AM CDT

Maxwell, I am so happy to hear that you can sit up straighter than before, well that your spine is straighter!!
I do love you!
And Spencer, I wanna look at that report card so I can just feel that good feeling that a Gramma feels for her Grandkid and about her Grandkid! Congratulations on all your hard work!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Saturday, June 16, 2007 10:12 AM CDT

Sometimes new jobs arent all they are cracked up to be, have fun at your new old job.
Karn
- Thursday, June 14, 2007 2:10 PM CDT

Lisa,
what a great update.
I am so Happy that the new job stuff is coming together for you.

hope your family is doing well.

Oh by the way the wake up pill.
I could really use that some days LOL... =)

sending you all Hugs and Kisses
~C
- Wednesday, June 6, 2007 12:06 AM CDT

Lisa,

Thinking of you this morning especially, as you go about your "new job" business.

Love,
Joanne
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Monday, June 4, 2007 10:49 AM CDT

Hey you guys that family picture is awsome!!!

Maxie, keep fighting and come back as the wonderful boy you are
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Wednesday, May 30, 2007 8:42 AM CDT

Hello, there is a hidden message here for you, but you've got to do a little bit of work to find it. Use the coin to "scratch" the surface to reveal your message

Love Viks

If you have 1 minute spare today please send an email to a sick child at www.postpals.co.uk
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Tuesday, May 22, 2007 4:46 PM CDT

HURRAY FOR LISA AND CONGRATULATIONS TOO!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, May 16, 2007 9:24 AM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Lisa!
Love from your other Mother---
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Sunday, May 13, 2007 8:43 PM CDT

What is a Mother?

A Mother has so many things to do,
From washing, ironing, cleaning to tying a shoe.
She scrubs, she mends, she cooks and sews,
She bathes the children and washes their clothes.
When they forget to wash their faces clean,
And their clothes are the muddiest you've ever seen,
Who repairs the clothes and scrubs them like new?
Of course, that is what a Mother will do.
Who becomes the doctor or the nurse when they are ill,
Applying a bandage or giving them a pill?
Who becomes a teacher when a child has homework?
She must never her duty shirk.
Who becomes a detective to find a toy or a book?
For missing things she must look and look?
Who becomes a listner to every heartache,
To every accompolishment that a child makes?
Who scolds their children when they are naughty,
Or remind them of God when they are to haughty?
Who tends her family with love and patience, too?
Of course that is what a Mother will do.
- Unknown

Happy Mother's Day Lisa
~C, - Friday, May 11, 2007 6:22 AM CDT

Good Morning Gosewisch's
How is everyone surviving all the new changes?
Im sure once you get used to it, it will be awesome.
Lisa I am so proud of you. hang in there.
~C
- Thursday, May 10, 2007 6:34 AM CDT

Max has been featured in the prayer video from Loyal Lamb Outreach

Tanja Theriault <loyallambtanja@msn.com>
Canada - Monday, April 23, 2007 2:12 PM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer and Max, What a beautiful picture of all of you! Lisa, I've been thinking about you very hard this past week and wondering how your school was going. Your update pretty much answers those questions. Great job on your test score! Take care. Enjoy your week. Keep up the good work. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Sunday, April 22, 2007 7:31 PM CDT

Lisa,
I give a big second to Julie's note. I haven't known you quite as long as she has but my knowing you has been very intense and for a long time. I know you can do it too!

Love to each of you as you all progress through this strange land.

Joanne
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Monday, April 16, 2007 10:08 AM CDT

Lisa,
Stick in there. You can do this new job thing... I know that! You are a smart, caring, inventive, and creative person...you always have been. You will get through this school thing and EXCEL in this new job. (It's just you are a little out of practice for going to school! ha ha ha)
Hang in there! You, Jim and the boys will adjust and you will all be more than okay when you get used to new schedules.
Take Care and keep on keepin' on!
You can do this!

Julie
Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
Minnetonka, MN USA - Monday, April 16, 2007 7:46 AM CDT

Maxwell,
Today is a new start of a different schedule in the life of your family! Your Mom is learning a new job and Spencer and your Dad a new schedule of how the household runs. Your schedule will remain the same so guess it's up to you to keep them on track. The pictures your Mom sent me of all of you out at your place when you decorated Easter eggs are so good, I just have to keep looking at them. I love you! And I am praying for a good transition for all of you Buffalo Gosewischs.

Gramma/Mom/Joanne
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Monday, April 9, 2007 10:02 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer and Max, Just hanging out on this rainy Palm Sunday afternoon and thinking about all the Old Country Buffet meals we had together on this day. Grandpa was always so proud to have all of you together. Last year I don't think we gathered because I think Grandpa was in the hospital. Anyway I am here today cherishing those memories of days gone by. I enjoyed being a part of the birthday party last weekend. Max is getting sooooo tall. Have a good week and I wish you Easter Blessings. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 5:24 PM CDT

Love the birthday pictures!, even the one I took! Guess I need an in hand copy of that one.

Love to each of you

Gramma, Mom
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, March 28, 2007 10:32 AM CDT

Lisa,
CONGRATS ON THE JOB!!! You will do great! It'll be an adjustment getting back to the 40 hr weeks, but you can do it. and Spencer, Jim and Max will all adjust. It'll just take a little time. I think you having a regular schedule will be a huge plus for you all.

Happy belated b-day Max!

Hopefully this warm weather will stay with us for awhile.

Take care!
Julie
Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
Minnetonka, MN - Monday, March 26, 2007 7:21 AM CDT

Max,
Sorry we missed your birthday celebration.
just want you to know you were in our thoughts.
Wishing and hoping you had a great day with all the
family. hopefully we will see you all soon.
~Carrie
- Monday, March 26, 2007 5:52 AM CDT

Maxie,

I sure thought you looked great yesterday at your birthday celebration! And you are so so bigger! You can tell you and Spence are brothers 'cuz you both have those long tall legs. I loved seeing Spencer talk with you and hold your hand. It's pretty obvious you recognize your "people" when they talk and when you look right at them. You make this Gramma happy!

Love to you!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 12:42 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Max. Love from Ashleigh in Australia.

We love the new photo on your home page. What a smile.
Liz and Ashleigh <ashminiwench@yahoo.com.au>
- Thursday, March 22, 2007 4:29 AM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY RED....
I can not believe that you are already 10.
just seems like yesturday that I was walking you
back and forth trying to get you to sleep.
I am so very proud of all the accomplishments you have
made. You are a fighter..... =)
Hope to see you saturday.
sending you all my love and kisses
~Carrie
- Wednesday, March 21, 2007 6:52 AM CDT

Happy 10th Birthday Max!!!
I hope you have lots of fun! Enjoy your ice cream cake this weekend.

Ann O'Brien
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 4:22 PM CDT

Well Happy Birthday, Max! Seems like just yesterday that you and Spencer were fighting over suckers in my driveway! I think Spencer got the best color, because he could run faster than you did. Smile for your family tonight, and I'll smile for all of you from Howard Lake. Love, Patti.
Patti Barth <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 1:34 PM CDT

HAPPY B-DAY MAX!!! THIS IS YOUR DAD, I LOVE AND AM VERY PROUD OF YOU! I WILL SEE YOU LATER TONIGHT. DAD.
DAD <GOSEWISCHJ@AOL.COM>
- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 9:33 AM CDT

Happy Birthday Darling Darling boy!

You really did get bigger didn't you!! 10 years old! I love you very much. Make sure you save a piece of ice cream cake for me and Grandpa Ralph.

Love and Kisses too!

Gramma C and Ralph
joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 9:33 AM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAX!!
Hope you have a nice one!
Sending lots of Love and Prayers
Quilts of Love ^Angel^ Trista ^i^

Trista Long <Chris-Trista@att.net>
Fairmont, Wv 26554 - Monday, March 19, 2007 5:04 PM CDT

Max, I hear you're having a birthday tomorrow. Just want to send good wishes along with lots of hugs and prayers.
Diane, Quilts of Love
Diane Roche <d.crochet@yahoo.com>
Bronx, NY USA - Monday, March 19, 2007 3:28 PM CDT

Maxie, guess who has a big birthday coming? I know and I love that redhaired boy!

Love,
Gramma
joanne
- Thursday, March 15, 2007 10:50 AM CDT

"Imagine, what would you do if you could...

Harness God's (or any higher) power?
Feel love at all times, even during trying times?
Create opportunity to get all that you deserve?
Open the floodgates of true financial prosperity?
End struggle and finally achieve peace of mind?
Banish doubt, pain and stress that are stopping you?
And live a life of purposefulness, power and passion?
Finally, live the life of your dreams.

Use the law of attraction to create everything in your life. Creat not only the life you desire, but more importantly, the life you deserve. "
***************************
Pretty interest invitation isn't it? It is taken from an advertisement for "The Secret". Oprah swears by it, so shouldnt we all look for a quick fix in this crazy world?
Any body remember a time and a place where Jesus was promised all these things? It was Satan who told him that all the world could be his, if only....

This is the latest fad, although the advertisers will tell you it has been around for centuries, to get-happy-quick and it is all in your OWN control and power to do! I have seen many peoplewho are desperate cling to this as a hope.
My friends, it is not Christian.

The One needed for this is not a fad. He will never go out of style. He can be found in a Book, however. The one and only Book is The Book. It will tell you the opposite of "The Secret". It will tell you God is in control. That He is your happiness. In Him, you will find contentment. Successes may be found seeking different avenues, cults, or ways. However, I guarantee you will never find the one true peace, happiness, and contentment that only He can provide.

Seek first His kindom.
..
- Sunday, March 11, 2007 12:39 AM CDT

Dear Lisa
God sends this things, only to strong people who can overcome them. Medical advances are going by the day and in no time they might have a new medications to stop forver Max's seizures, or even better, restore his brain.
Have faith in yourself. because I am counting on you
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Tuesday, February 27, 2007 9:11 PM CST

Lisa, I wish I had a fix button.
I hear and understand alot of the pain you feel.
the last two updates from your mom =) and grandma Karen all say so much.
I will continue to pray for you and of coarse the rest of the family.
I think we all keep things inside so we dont always have to deal with the pain and hurt that we feel.
So that we can keep going each day.
But it does have to come out sometimes.
We are all so Blessed with the family that we have.
We are always their for each other.
You are all so loved and cared about.
May God Be with you and Hold you tight.
~Carrie
- Monday, February 26, 2007 8:02 AM CST

Jim, Lisa, Spencer and Max, Why is life so hard? I ask myself that question a lot, but never seem to get an answer other than to just take one day at a time and work through what needs to be done. At least I'm back to saying "one day at a time", instead of "moment to moment". I can so feel the pain and hurt you expressed in this lastest update. And I believe that Joanne is right in saying that so much memory and emotion has flooded back because of Franks accident and what that family is going through. And here we are in the middle of the biggest snow storm of the season and I know it doesn't help to be couped up in the house all the time. Prayers for your strength and courage continue to be lifted up. I am so thankful for all of you and the support you have given me, not only the past 3 months, but for the past year for sure. I feel so honored that I can continue to be a part of your lives. I love you all.
Grandma Karen <karengirl 67@aol.com>
- Sunday, February 25, 2007 5:42 AM CST

Dear dear Lisa,
How I love your caring, hurting heart. I think worrying ab out and praying for Frank and knowing what they must be going through sorta triggered alot of emotion in all the Gosewisch bunch of us, stuff that we try not to get too involved in our heads with about our so loved Maxwell. Crying and writing are things we can work with to relieve some of the hidden stuff. But try as I might I can't think of the reason why this all is either. I just know some good things have come out of it and I know how much you care and want it all to be different. I want it to be different for you. Just know I love you very much, all of you there in Buffalo and the darling redhead at Sugar Lake.
Mom/Gramma

Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, February 23, 2007 7:12 PM CST

Lisa - so sorry you have to put up with vehicle issues - they are the worst! Hope your visit with Max yesterday was wonderful. Thinking of you often, and pray for that little redhead often. Love, Patti.
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 11:08 AM CST

Go cars Go!! It's always something isn't it? or is it just the "Gosewisch Curse"? Love to you and you and you and you!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, February 20, 2007 10:56 AM CST

Happy Valentines Day Max and Family
I am sending you lots of love and kisses
today.... =)
~C.
- Wednesday, February 14, 2007 6:10 AM CST

What a great looking cowboy you are Maxwell!! I am so thankful that you can go riding !

I love you!

Gramma
Joanne <hgrammacomngo@aol.com>
- Monday, February 12, 2007 11:10 AM CST

Hey Max how was horse riding today?
Grandma just sent me some pictures of
you. that your mom sent from today. you looked way
cool sitting there on your horse.
I bet you missed your riding lessons.
There is nothing like riding a Horse.
know that you are loved and prayed for daily
~C
- Saturday, February 10, 2007 5:50 PM CST

Hey Max how was Horse riding this morning?
I bet you were so Happy to get back on.
There is nothing like riding a horse.
stay warm and Know that you are loved
and prayed for daily.
~C
- Saturday, February 10, 2007 5:20 PM CST

Lisa, Max, Jim & Spencer: You know you are always on my thoughts. I just can't hide it I LOVE MAX'S SMILE!!!!! That is awsome a true miracle...

I'll keep Frank in my thoughts as well...may the brain swelling diminishes and he returns back to whom he was in no time

Chocolate Hugs
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Saturday, February 10, 2007 4:35 PM CST

Jim, Lisa, Spencer & Max, Just checked in for the lastest update. My heart goes out to Jill & Dale and to all who love their son, Frank. I will lift them all up in prayer and just ask that God's will be done. I haven't talked with any of you for a while. I'm doing OK, keeping busy and trying to hibernate through all this cold. Take care. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Thursday, February 8, 2007 7:19 PM CST

I LOVE the picture of Max, he looks so happy!
I havent written for a long time, been so busy. Just wanted you all to know tht I was thinking of you. Hope all of you get well soon!
Tammy Juntilla
Tammy <joshjames@aol.com>
Minnetonka, MN 55305 - Thursday, February 1, 2007 12:40 AM CST

That is an awesome update lisa.
that is so encouraging.
Sorry to hear that you are fighting the crud.
Happy to hear you got a jeep.
You can be the off road queen.
cant wait to see it.
take care all my love and kisses to your family.
hopefully we will see each other soon.
~C.
- Thursday, February 1, 2007 6:42 AM CST

Good Morning,

Glad to see you here, how is Max? How are you and Spencer?
Dawn <tom_dawngough@prodigy.net>
GJ, CO USA - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 7:15 AM CST

Hi Lisa, Max, and all, I just thought I would stop by and say Hi! I'm still one of your faithful readers but I'm not so good at writing you a note! Take care! ~Ann
Ann O'Brien
Blaine, MN - Thursday, January 25, 2007 2:51 PM CST

Hi Max
My name is Jenna and I came cross your site. You are an inspiration. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
htt://www.caringbridge.org/canada/jenna
Jenna <hockeykid@telus.net>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Saturday, January 6, 2007 1:09 AM CST

Passion :
All of us at some time or another, need help.
Whether we're giving or receiving help,
each one of us has something valuable to bring to this
World.
Fred Rogers
- Tuesday, January 2, 2007 11:46 AM CST

Passion.....
All of us at sometime or another, need help.
Whether we're giving or receiving help, each one of us
has something valuable to bring to this world.

By: Fred Rogers
- Tuesday, January 2, 2007 6:35 AM CST

I just had such a hectic day that I dreaded reading "one more book" to my little, three-year old red-headed boy. He makes me read at least 4 of the same books every night and says, "One more book, PLEASE!!!" EVERY night. Before bed, I checked out this site and I thought of Max when Niklaus asked me the question. Thank you to Max for reminding me not to take those moments for granted. Thank you, Max, for the gift that is your life...I read him 2 more books and he didn't have to say, "Please!" this time. It might have taken a few more minutes, but I won't forget them and I don't regret them.
Laura N.
Albertville, MN - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 0:49 AM CST

Jim, Lisa, Spencer and Max, Thank you so much for having Christmas and for including me. It was wonderful for me to be a part of such a lively gathering where we were all sharing in the loss of a loved one. Have a happy and safe New Year. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Thursday, December 28, 2006 6:48 AM CST

I just looked at the new pictures today---did you notice that Max doesn't think much of Spence's hair in the second picture. In the first one he looks like he approves. Gramma likes to see your handsome face too Spence. I love you boys!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Thursday, December 21, 2006 10:33 AM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JIMMY, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!! Hard to believe my baby boy is 41, and if I call you Jimmy instead of Jim it'll make you younger-----right? Love to you!
Mom
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, December 19, 2006 10:46 AM CST

Just checking in. The photos from the cemetary are wonderful. Thank you so much for putting them up here. It's been a tough week for me. It is soooooooo quiet around here. Looking forward to Christmas at your house. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Sunday, December 17, 2006 7:07 AM CST

Thank you Lisa for your words. You sure got me crying now. I think I'm missing him a lot tonight. I really haven't had a meltdown yet. Maybe it is time. I'm looking forward to spending time with everyone tomorrow. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Friday, December 8, 2006 9:00 PM CST

Jim and Lisa,

I'm so sorry about the loss of your dad/father-in-law.

I've never met any of that Gosewisch clan you married into Lisa, but from your words over the these last years, they must be an exceptional family to belong to. You have been blessed.

I also know your dad would have loved to meet, love and joke around with your boys. But, I have this feeling that he is at peace knowing you had this wonderful man to kind of step in his place as your father-in-law and make sure you were loved and that your children were played with, joked around with and loved.

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
Minnetonka, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 2:46 PM CST

Lisa,

Your gift for description and writing continues. Your update captures those days of celebration and honoring of Jerry's life and our thoughts about it so well. Thankyou for putting it into words.

Love to you

Joanne
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:31 AM CST

Good morning all from the one who doesn't sleep or maybe I should say from the one who rises early no matter what time she goes to bed. Lisa we talked a bit last night about your latest update so I had to check it out this am. What a wonderful picture of Grandpa Jerry and Max. And your update couldn't mean more to me. They are always so heartfelt. I love the written poem about Jerry. I did see it on the board last night, but really didn't read it. There was so much going on, so many people. It truly is a written as a reflection of his life. Thank you dear writer. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Saturday, December 2, 2006 4:50 AM CST

Lisa,

Such a heartfelt tribute to Jerry and the picture of Max and him is so special. I'm sure he knows your feelings, even if you felt you didn't get them said out loud. Thankyou for writing about him.

And to our poem writer--thankyou for putting those particular thoughts in words.

Joanne
Joanne <graqmmacongo@aol.com>
- Thursday, November 30, 2006 6:14 PM CST

A Life Full of Living

J oy filled living not just
E xisting!
R emember the laughter!
R emember the stories!
Y ou all made my life really living.

G o celebrate this life
O ne day it maybe gone!
S o much I wanted to do, there just wasnt
E nough time
W onderful adventures this world had for me
I loved the journey; to continue it wasn't meant to be
S o thank you, from your dad, your grandpa, your friend...
C ome gather together, to celebrate living
H eaven knows no end!

What an honor to have known Jerry!

- Thursday, November 30, 2006 1:29 PM CST

I was reading about your sons seizures, and wasnt sure if you have looked into the Ketogenic diet. My 4 year old son is also a near drown. We are looking into several options as well. I hope this information helps.

Jill Albring
Jill Albring <pvtpilot@dtnspeed.net>
Delta , oh usa - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 9:00 PM CST

Those pictures even brightened this overcast, cloudy day for this Gramma. I wanna see more! My goodness Max is getting so tall, soon he'll have to hold his Mama, cuz he won't fit on her lap anymore! I love you Maxwell and the rest of you too!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, November 28, 2006 10:12 AM CST

"Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are. Let me learn from you, love you, savor you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it will not always be so. One day I shall dig my nails into the earth, or bury my face in the pillow, or stretch myself taut, or raise my hands to the sky, and want more than all the world for your return." - Mary Jane Irion

- Monday, November 20, 2006 12:18 AM CST

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between two "wolves" inside us all.

One is Evil.
It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority,
lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.

The other is Good.
It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness,benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion
and faith in GOD."

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"

The old Cherokee simply replied,.....

"The one you feed."

- Monday, November 20, 2006 11:20 AM CST

Hello, I miss all of you very much and I hope things are going well.
Ezra
Ezra Lideen <l_ide_en21@hotmail.com>
Daegu, South Korea - Friday, November 17, 2006 4:11 AM CST

Maxwell,

This is your Gramma writing to you--Yesterday I went to Auntie Laurie's house to visit Gracie. Gracie has a book of photos, that she likes to look at. She is so little that she thinks it's good to take them out of the book to see them--There was a picture of you and she brought to me saying "Max Max", then she looked and looked at your picture. She remembers you and it sure looks like she likes you alot! I like you alot too, in fact I LOVE you!

Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Monday, November 13, 2006 10:01 AM CST

Happy Halloween Gosewisch family.
Spencer good luck with your pyramid costume.
it looked really cool. good job.
~
- Tuesday, October 31, 2006 12:35 AM CST

BOO!

We just wanted to wish you a Happy Halloween and share a joke,

Why was the skeleton afraid to cross the road?

It had no guts!

Love from Everyone at Post Pals
www.postpals.co.uk

Postpals <info@postpals.co.uk>
- Tuesday, October 31, 2006 6:31 AM CST

Maxwell and Lisa,

Thankyou so much for the Happy Birthdays to me! You know how much I love all of you!

Gramma/Joanne
Joanne Dressel <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, October 25, 2006 10:27 AM CDT

I will prayer for you all to stay healthy. Im so glad the fever is down for max. he sounded like he was so miserable. Lisa you are such a good Mommy........
~
- Monday, October 23, 2006 12:37 AM CDT

Prayers for Max and all of you!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Friday, October 20, 2006 6:30 PM CDT

I will be praying for Max, Lisa!
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Friday, October 20, 2006 8:30 AM CDT

Maxwell,Just stopping by to say hello and wish you a Happy Autumn.

God bless,love & hugs,Linn,Daniel & Ariel
The Marrero's <gillinn7@msn.com>
port orchard, wa usa - Monday, October 16, 2006 11:24 PM CDT

Hey Lisa! I was wondering if you guys were part of the group without heat. Hopefully they'll show up soon to get you warm and comfy again... with clean hair!!

I think I have a picture of you in curlers when we were on one of our band trips - don't remember where we were... but you were in curlers! I should look some of those pics up one of these days and show them to Spencer.

I'm so happy that Spencer is doing good this year. You've expressed some concerns in the past...maybe he needed the right teacher to bring out the impulses to want to learn. I don't know if we ever met up with that "right" teacher...but am glad that Spencer has.

Stay Warm! You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers
Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
Minnetonka, MN - Friday, October 13, 2006 10:06 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, & Max, Oh where does the time go? First, I haven't been on site here for a couple weeks, Second, I'm sure to you, but I also can't believe Max's accident was 6 years ago. I only know that with all that has been going on here with Jerry, we are never promised tomorrow, and yesterday has come and gone, so all we can do is do the best and be the best we can be today. There are words to a song that come to my mind so often these days: "We don't know what tomorrow holds, but we know who holds tomorrow.............". All we can do is turn everything, all our tears and sorrows over to the Lord. I know I no longer have strength and energy of my own,so there is only one place it can come from and that is through faith and trust in Jesus. The other thing I can tell you is that I sleep well and always feel rested in the morning, even if I only get a few hours of sleep. Thank you so much for including Jerry's stuff in your update. I know the prayers are coming in strong. I love you all.
Grandma Karen <karengirl67@aol.com>
- Tuesday, October 3, 2006 9:05 PM CDT

Tninking of you today.... Hope you and Max had a nice day!!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Friday, September 29, 2006 1:33 PM CDT

Today I celebrate Maxwell's 6th anniversary of his second life here on earth! In addition I celebrate his extraordinary family (Lisa, Jim and Spencer)as they continue a journey they didn't make a reservation to go on.I send love to each of you!

Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, September 29, 2006 10:16 AM CDT

Good Morning Gosewisch family,I know it has been a long road and it surely has had it's up and down's.But through it all you have been the best Mom,Dad,Brother ever. I read your site everyday,I dont write everyday but Im always thinking about you.I understand the pain you talk about.I understand the feelings you have.I wish there was more that I could do other than pray for you and tell you that I love you.Im just so happy with the progress that max has made.It is never ending.I know today will be a hard day. just know you are in my thoughts and prayers and that I love you =)
~
- Friday, September 29, 2006 7:11 AM CDT

Hi Lisa - I'm not sure if you remember me - I used to work with you at Haven Homes. It is awesome that you continue to update - I think of you and your family often.
Renee <rglessing@hahc-mn.org>
Hutchinson, MN - Thursday, September 28, 2006 12:39 AM CDT

Do not worry about anything but pray and ask God for everything you need, always giving thanks.
And God's peace, which is so great, we cannot understand it, will keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus....I have learned to be satisfied with the things I have and with everything that happens. I know how to live when I am poor and I know how to live when I have plenty.
I have learned the secret of being happy at any time in everything that happens. I can do ALL things through Christ, because HE strengthens me. Phil. 4:6-7, 11-13

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- Wednesday, September 27, 2006 8:09 PM CDT

I'm deeply sorry to read about the medication error....little Max, he sure didn't had a good time. But as always Supermom Lisa fixed the problem!

Chocolate hugs
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Wednesday, September 20, 2006 8:17 PM CDT

So sorry to hear about the medication error.... Poor Max...
You are his best advocate Lisa, and you know him best. Great catch! It's so hard to figure out what's wrong when he can't tell you! You can bet he WAS having some drug withdrawel that also played a role in the increase in seizures. I hope Max is feeling better now. As always... You're all in our prayers. XXXOOO
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, September 19, 2006 6:23 PM CDT

Hello, Just a short message to say

Love Viks

v <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Sunday, September 17, 2006 12:36 AM CDT

Sometimes when we make a phone call,the other person says, "I was just about to call you!" Always surprising. But God says something far more surprising through Isaiah: "Before they call I will answer: while they are still speaking, I will hear."
How often we wonder whether our prayers will be answered. We struggle because of our sins. We feel overwhelmed by circumstanes. We cry out in despair. But even before we call, God has already answered by sending His Son, who is with us always, "to the very end of the age" (Matt. 28:20).
Jesus says, "Ask and it will be given to you, seek and you will find, knock and the door will be opened to you" (Matt. 7:7).
We can go to God regularly with all our needs, small or large, and we can be certain that He will hear our prayer and answer in His own way and at His own time. How comforting to know about God's personal, immediate attention!
Prayer.. Christians while on earth abiding, Let us never cease to pray, firmly in the Lord confiding, As our parents in their day. Be the children's voices raised, to the God their parents praised. May his blessing, failing never, Rest upon his people ever. (From My Daily Devotion.)

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- Saturday, August 26, 2006 0:18 AM CDT

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LISA!!!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Thursday, August 24, 2006 2:45 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Dear One! Today I celebrate YOU and your life in our family!

Love,
Joanne
Joanne <grammacongoi@aol.com>
- Thursday, August 24, 2006 10:17 AM CDT

Hey Lisa! Happy Birthday!
Seems like just yesterday we were so cool riding our bikes between our houses....uh... it wasn't !
Have a good day....even at the dentist office...maybe you'll get a special prize for the dentist for being a good patient!

Hi Jim, Spencer and Max!
Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
Minnetonka, MN - Thursday, August 24, 2006 7:13 AM CDT

Hi ALL, Just stopping by to check in on all of you and I'm so glad that everyone is doing so well!!! GREAT UPDATE!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Friday, August 18, 2006 10:48 PM CDT

We have troubles all around us, but we are not defeated. We do not know what to do, but we do not give up the hope of living. We are persecuted, but God does not leave us. We are hurt sometimes, but we are not destroyed... So we do not give up. Our physical body is becoming older and weaker, but our spirit inside us is made new every day. We have small troubles for awhile now, but they are helping us gain an eternal glory that is much greater than the troubles. We set our eyes not on what we see, but on what we cannot see... 2 Corintians 4:8-9,16-18

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- Thursday, August 17, 2006 7:33 PM CDT

Patience isn't just the ability to wait, it's the ability to keep a good attitude while you're doing it. God knows the exact time for everything, and while your impatience can make you and everybody else around you miserable, it won't rush Him. Listen: "In due season we shall reap" Galatians 6:9. "Due season" is God's season, not ours. We're in a hurry, He isn't. He takes the time to do things right. We may not know what He's doing but He does, and that'll have to be good enough for us.

God's timing seems to be His own business. He's never late but He usually isn't early either. He takes every opportunity to develop in us the fruit of patience. But other fruits are being developed in us as well. There are several things that must arrive at the finish line at the same time in order for us to win the race! Developed potential without character doesn't glorify God one bit. If we were to become a huge success yet be harsh with people, that wouldn't be pleasing to the Lord. Therefore, if we get ahead of ourselves in one area, He gently but firmly blocks our progress in that area until the others catch up. We don't appreciate any of this while it's happening, but later on we realize what an awful mess we'd have made if things had been done on our timetable instead of God's.

.
- Wednesday, August 9, 2006 3:36 PM CDT

Hi Maz, Lisa, Spencer and Jim:
I haven't been able to post as much as I'd like because things have been hectic around here. But know that you all are very dear to my heart
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Tuesday, August 8, 2006 7:20 PM CDT

Lisa and Jim,

I think God prompted you in your decisions those years ago. Those were big decisions! How appropriate the entry just before this one to your Maxwell update. Next I am taking to heart about paying attention to those promptings in the little things as the example af keeping on talking when feeling you should stop was meant for me!

I remember Maxwell shooting baskets before his accident and telling me "Jeremiah told me how". I wonder if Jeremiah could think of a way to help him have that feeling of basketball now so we can see another "Maxwell real smile".

I loved this update as I can feel Lisa'a smile as she wrote it.

Love to you!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, August 4, 2006 9:15 AM CDT

When you know you've heard from God, be resolute. Things worth having never come easy. If you find yourself weakening, remind yourself that God has given you the grace to succeed at whatever He's called you to do! This means being sensitive to His voice. God's voice isn't like a hammer pounding on your head; it's more like a gentle prompting within. Paul says: "We serve...[under obedience to the promptings] of the Spirit" Romans 7:6 AMP. Now you can ignore His promptings, disobey them, argue with them or even try to postpone them, but when you do that you end up stressed out. How could it be otherwise?

The word obedience can be a real turn-off. We think of God asking us for a whole bunch of money or sending us to some mission field. Get real! If you won't turn off your television and spend a few minutes with God each day, what makes you think He'd tell you to go to the mission field? Obeying God in little things, not big ones, is the key to learning how to be led by Him. For example, when He prompts you not to say another word but you keep on talking - that's when you get into trouble, right? God's Word says, "If you will listen diligently to the voice of the Lord your God...you shall be above only, and you shall not be beneath" (Dt 28:1&13 AMP). The difference between being under the situation and on top of it lies in one word - obedience. Want to get on top of things? Do what God prompts you to, and be resolute about it!

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- Tuesday, August 1, 2006 10:07 PM CDT

Hello All...Max sure is more brave than I am! I make them give me gas just for a filling! I hate going to the Dentist. Glad to hear he did okay. (You too Lisa) Take care...
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Saturday, July 29, 2006 4:54 PM CDT

Maxwell, I am so proud of you to do your dentist stuff like you did! You're like your brother Spencer (brave). I think you showed your Gramma, Mom and Auntie Laurie how to do it!

Guess who loves you?

Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, July 28, 2006 9:58 AM CDT

I, like many people at Clear Springs, think about and pray for you all the time! I just heard the news, Jim, that they are moving you to MME! :-( We are SO SAD! What are we going to do without our JIM???? Sounds like you are having a nice summer together!
Chrissy Ziegler <czamzig@hotmail.com\>
chaska, MN 55318 - Wednesday, July 19, 2006 1:12 PM CDT

The pictures of spencer are awesome. looks like he had a good time.
Sorry to hear about your boat.
I had a feeling that kitty would become one of the tribe. =) she is very sweet.
Im glad max was able to enjoy just lounging at congo's.
.
- Monday, June 26, 2006 12:58 AM CDT

Need a philosophy to live by? Try this one.

"Today I will delete from my diary two days - yesterday and tomorrow. Yesterday was for learning and tomorrow will be a consequence of what I do today. Today I will face life with the conviction that this day will never return again, that it may be the last opportunity I'll have to contribute because there's no guarantee I'll see tomorrow's sunrise. Today I will be courageous enough not to let opportunity pass me by; my only alternative will be to succeed.

"Today I will invest my most valuable resource, my time, into my most important possession, the life God has given me. I'll spend each minute purposefully, making today a unique opportunity. I'll tackle every obstacle, knowing that with God's help I can overcome it.

"Today I will resist doubt and pessimism and illuminate my world with a smile. I'll maintain a strong faith, expect nothing but the best, take time to be happy, see every task as an opportunity to honour God, and endeavour to leave His footprints on the hearts of those I meet.

"Today I invite you to start afresh with me, to dream again, to 'Live one day at a time', remembering that, 'with God all things are possible'" Matthew 19:26.

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- Thursday, June 22, 2006 0:42 AM CDT

Lisa- I so enjoy your updates and pictures. it keeps me informed as to what is going on in max's life and your families. letting things go is not an easy thing or giving it away to God.It seems no matter how hard you try. sometimes it still creeps back in. I believe it is a mom thing to constantly be thinking. My point is hang in there keep trying to give it away one of these days it will work. and it is ok to let your feelings out. you have to. to survive.
You and Your family are always in my thoughts. hope you have a nice week off and enjoy.
.
- Thursday, June 15, 2006 1:05 PM CDT

Hey guys!
I just want to share a little of the hapiness that it's arriving to my life.....so I'm sending it to you in positive vibes, strong ones.

LOVE CONQUERS EVERYTHING
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Tuesday, June 13, 2006 1:21 PM CDT

Thank you for posting pictures and updates of your beautiful boy. He reminds me that all life is precious and not to be taken for granted. I will pray that God will strike those sad thoughts from your mind and fill you with His LOVE and care!
Laura
Alb., MN - Saturday, June 10, 2006 1:53 AM CDT

When worry comes knocking at your door, stop it on the porch, otherwise it'll move in and take up residence. Listen, "Throw the whole weight of your anxieties upon him, for you are His personal concern" ( 1 Peter 5:7 Phillips) How wonderful; God cares, (He really does), about the things that worry you and prey on your thoughts. He cares about them more than you do. Not a single nagging, aching, worrisome, gut-wrenching, blood-pressure-raising thought escapes His notice. Because "you are His personal concern," you never disappear from His screen.

What qualifies as a worry? Anything that drains your tank of joy... anything you can't change... anything you're not responsible for... anything you're unable to control... anything that frightens and torments you... anything that keeps you awake when you should be asleep. All of that 'stuff' needs to be transformed from your worry list to your prayer list! Listen, "Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all He has done. If you do this, you will experience God's peace" Philippians 4:6-7 NLT.

Give each worry, one-by-one, to God! The more you practice doing this, the more exciting your walk with Him will become. You'll be amazed at how easily He handles things that overwhelm you. Always keep these three things in mind: (1) He's able to handle it. (2) He's willing to handle it. (3) He's waiting for you to give it to Him.

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- Wednesday, June 7, 2006 4:52 PM CDT

Cremate your past - don't embalm it! Dr. Harold Bloomfield writes: "Unresolved emotional pain wreaks havoc on your immune system, cardiac function, hormone levels and other physical functions. We must make peace with our past because our life may literally depend on it!" Challenging words! Here are four suggestions for dealing with your past:

(1) Reframe it. Ask yourself, "How did it make me stronger? What do I know now that I didn't know then? Be a learner, not a loser.

(2) Break the shackles of shame. Shame isn't feeling bad over what you've done, it's feeling ashamed of who you are. It's lethal! When God created you in His image He said, "I like it! It's very good." See Genesis 1:31. Start agreeing with Him!

(3) Arrest the acid drip of regret. Stop punishing yourself with the 'if only's'. David said, "Happy is the person whose sins are forgiven...whom the Lord does not consider guilty" Psalm 32:1-2 NCV. Forgive yourself, God has! When He looks at you through the finished work of Calvary, you look better to Him than you do to yourself!

(4) Move from grief to gain. Healing takes time, so expect some anger, fear and sadness. Don't disown them - they're part of the healing process. But don't adopt them either; know when it's time to move on. You can't walk backwards into the future, and the future God has for you contains more happiness than any past you can remember!

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- Monday, June 5, 2006 10:51 PM CDT

Lisa,
Those blame old tears---I felt like they were going to invade my eyes when we were sitting and talking at the lake about Jimmy's (still my little boy, otherwise known as Jim) burn when he was 6 years old (now 40!). Those days were bad too and he's fine now but yet I was feeling what he felt then and what I felt. Guess it just doesn't go away . You are wise to take your mind away from dwelling on it when it does pop into your head as that wouldn't help you or Max now. Know that I love you very much and can feel the sadness that lurks inside of your head and heart.

Joanne
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Monday, June 5, 2006 12:29 AM CDT

AMEN
joanne
- Wednesday, May 31, 2006 9:06 AM CDT

Sometimes God permits things, and other times He actually plans them! Either way, He's got your best interest at heart. When you hear words like "he has appointed it for me," it changes your perspective; now you have to look at it from God's viewpoint. It's like flying. On the ground your view's limited, but at 30,000 feet up, things look very different - they begin to fall into place. Why? Because now you're seeing "the big picture."

The Bible says that when Job came through his trials, he ended up with 100 percent more than he started with Job 42:10. Does that mean if you lose a $30,000 a-year job, you'll get back a $60,000 a-year one? Or that your chequebook will always balance, your car will never break down, or your health will never come under attack? Hardly!

Sometimes, God rewards your faith with things that you can't measure in dollars and cents. Things like... character... peace you didn't have before... a fresh sense of purpose... clearer understanding... more compassion for others... and new direction. What value would you place on those things?

There are three things you need to keep in mind today: (1) God loves you, and He's in control of everything that concerns you Psalm 138:8. (2) As long as you can do it, He won't do it for you Ecclesiastes 9:10. (3) He'll use things others don't understand to bless you Psalm 25:4. Why? So that when the answer comes, there's no doubt about who gets the credit. So, trust Him today.

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- Wednesday, May 31, 2006 0:53 AM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, Just thought I'd check in quickly and see how everything is going. I've been a bit preoccupied the past couple weeks with Grandpa Jerry. I so appreciate, all the family messages you include in your postings, including prayers requests for us. You are so thoughtful. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are coming your way as well. So sorry I missed your 15 year anniversary, but "Congratulations!" I've always said marriage is the hardest job I've ever had, but I am thankful for each year and with each passing year, I believe, appreciation for one another grows stronger. I also am so thankful that you are so faithful in keeping up this website. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Saturday, May 20, 2006 6:11 AM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Lisa!!!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Sunday, May 14, 2006 12:43 AM CDT

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY LISA!
jOANNE
- Saturday, May 13, 2006 6:38 PM CDT

Glad to hear Max is doing better. Thanks for the update. We will keep you in our prayers! Take a rest Lisa, you deserve it!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, May 9, 2006 7:20 PM CDT

When Lloyd Douglas, author of The Robe, attended university, he lived in a boarding house. A retired wheelchair-bound music professor resided on the first floor. Each morning Douglas would stick his head in the professor's door and ask, "What's the good news?" The old man would tap his tuning fork on his wheelchair and say, "That's middle C! It was middle C yesterday. It'll be middle C tomorrow, and it'll be middle C a thousand years from now. The tenor upstairs sings flat. The piano across the hall's out of tune, but, my friend, that's middle C." And don't we all need a middle C? Haven't we had enough changes? Relationship changes. Job changes. Health changes. Weather changes - but the One who ruled the earth last night is the same One who rules it today. He never changes! David writes, ">From everlasting to everlasting you are God" Psalm 90:2 NIV. Counsellors may comfort us in the storm, but we need a God who can still the storm. Friends may hold our hand at our deathbed, but ultimately we need the One who defeated the grave! Remember the Wizard of Oz? Dorothy followed the Yellow Brick Road only to discover that the Wizard was a wimp, all smoke and mirrors. Is that the kind of God we need? No. We need One who can place a hundred billion stars in our galaxy and a hundred billion galaxies in our universe; a God who, while so mind-numbingly mighty, can come and touch us with the gentleness of a mother's hand. We need both a Lord and a Shepherd. Both strength and tenderness - and that's what we've got!

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- Friday, May 5, 2006 11:53 PM CDT

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY JIM AND LISA!!! You're a beautiful couple.
P.S. I love the picture of Max smiling. I always say.... A smile is worth a thousand words!!!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Friday, May 5, 2006 11:27 AM CDT

Back at you Jim (I'm so romantic huh?) LOL It's been quite the trying times (sometimes) in the last 15 years but we've pulled through (with much help from Family) So, I think we'll make it another 15.

LOVE YOU VERY MUCH ALSO.
Lisa <gosewischj@aol.com>
- Thursday, May 4, 2006 11:23 AM CDT

HAPPY 15 YEARS TO YOU LISA!! AND TOO ANOTHER 15 MUCH BETTER YEARS! AND I DO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU KNOW,HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!!!!!!!!! JIMG.
JIM <JIM.GOSEWISCH@MINNETONKA.K12.MN.US>
- Thursday, May 4, 2006 9:04 AM CDT

The smile on the update page is so wonderful! I think Gramma needs a copy of that picture.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY to Jim and Lisa!!! 15 years---love and friendship---Congratulations!
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Thursday, May 4, 2006 8:53 AM CDT

The Lord says, "My thoughts are not like your thoughts. Your ways are not like my ways. Just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts." Isaiah 55:8-9

I have good plans for you, not plans to hurt you. I will give you hope and a good future. Then you will call my name. You will come to me and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will search for me. And when you search for me with all your heart, you will find me!
Jeremiah 29:11-13

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- Wednesday, May 3, 2006 5:09 PM CDT

Do not lose the courage you had in the past, which has a great reward. You must hold on, so you can do what God wants and receive what he has promised. Hebrews 10:35-36

We must not become tired of doing good. We will receive our harvest of eternal life at the right time if we do not give up. Galations 6:9

Jesus said, "Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God and trust in me." John 14:1

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- Wednesday, May 3, 2006 0:53 AM CDT

Hey Lisa, Jim, Spencer and Max!
Guess what? Today is my Birthday....so I have decided to light a candle and make my b-day blowing-candle wish for you.
The most bright positive thoughts your way!
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Thursday, April 27, 2006 8:32 PM CDT

Patti dear, dear Patti--
I couldn't sleep the night after I wrote that note for fear I sounded TOO bossy! But once you've pressed the button you can't take it back or reword it or anything. But , know what? just seeing your note made me feel good and I know it does lots of good stuff for Jim and Lisa. Bless your heart! Oh---- HI Jim and Lisa! Love you!

Gramma Congo
gram
- Thursday, April 27, 2006 5:22 PM CDT

Hello everyone! When Congo speaks, I listen, so I'm giving my feedback to you! I also enjoy the site, Lisa. I think of Max often, and to get an update (almost) weekly keeps him in my thoughts and prayers. We went to Ney Park fishing, and I thought of him the whole time, as he was so close. I think of him every time I go to Walmart - even though I don't see the near-death drowning boy that works there every time, the place just reminds me of Max. Looking at that boy and thinking about his recovery reminds me that there are miracles every day, so it's always worth praying for Max. You keep those updates coming, Lisa! (Congo - thanks for the shirts - they fit great and Kelly even liked them!!)
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
HL, MN - Thursday, April 27, 2006 3:00 PM CDT

Hey Lisa, I forgot to thank you for stopping by and seeing Ryan when you go to Gillette. That's so very NICE of you to take the time to do that!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, April 24, 2006 7:38 PM CDT

Hi Lisa, Max, and all....
I'm one of your faithful readers who rarely takes the time to write a note. Please know that we always think about you and keep you in our prayers. I always enjoy seeing the new pictures that you post, and appreciate the updating that you do to keep us informed of Max's progress. He's such a beautiful boy and he's touched our hearts!
Ann O'Brien <Oducks@msn.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, April 24, 2006 7:35 PM CDT

This is not written to Maxwell or Jim or Lisa or Spencer, but to all of you who so faithfully read Lisa's updates about Maxwell's condition and the family's feelings and activities. I really enjoy Lisa's writings, even when I talk with her by phone almost daily and I've been keeping track of the "hits" on this site every day for a month or more. There are 20 to 30 times someone checks the site every day! How thankful all of us are for your continued interest, prayers and support through these years since Max's accident! Now I have a request for you to just take a minute and stop to say Hello on your computer in this guestbook. It would give so much encouragement to that dear family as they go from day to day to day with life.

With love and thankfulness,
from a
Mom, Mom in heart and Gramma
, <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Thursday, April 20, 2006 10:25 AM CDT

Hi Lisa, Max, Spencer and Jim: I know I haven't posted recently, but you are in my thoughts always.

Keep bringing those small miracles Max dear
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Tuesday, April 18, 2006 10:36 PM CDT

I hope you all have a wonderful Easter.
Red I hope the bunny is good to you =)
Bless you all.
c.
- Thursday, April 13, 2006 12:50 AM CDT

Beautiful picture of a beautiful boy on the front page of the update! I think I see Momma kisses all over that face!
gramma
- Monday, April 3, 2006 6:17 PM CDT

Jim, Lisa, Spencer, and Max, Just checking in to say "HI". Grandpa Jerry and I are back from our two weeks in Arizona. We are sorry we missed the birthday party for Max. The pictures are great! The snow is gone, the clocks change this evening, and we are once again following the greatest journey in history...that of the final days of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. How can spring and the rebirth of all things be far behind? I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Saturday, April 1, 2006 8:02 AM CST

Hi Maxwell I just finished updating your web page at the outreach. I just started an animal rights web site at http://humane-heart.150m.com/Enter.html
http://mascottshiloh.tripod.com/LoyalLambMaxwell.html
Tanja <tanja@mnsi.net>
Ontario Canada - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 9:33 PM CST

We have around us many people whose lives tell us
what faith means.
So let us run the race that is before us and never
give up.
We should remove from our lives anything that would
get in the way and the sin that so easily holds us
back.
Let us look only to Jesus, the One who began our
faith and who makes it perfect. Hebrews 12:1-2

.
- Thursday, March 23, 2006 1:11 AM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU DEAR MAXWELL, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!You are so big,, I can hardly believe how you have grown just this last year. I had a really good time at your party yesterday and am hoping you feel like eating some of your birthday cake today. Gracie certainly likes you. Even though you were very quiet while we were there, she sure noticed you and would keep coming to look at and touch you, I bet that gave you a good feeling. It definitely made me feel good. The pictures of you and your family your Mom posted are very special to me too.

I love you!

Gramma <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Monday, March 20, 2006 11:05 AM CST

Maxwell, I just want to let you know how much you teach all of us. Since I am part of your family, I can see (and feel it myself) the wonder,excitement and appreciation of the little things in life. Your fleeting Maxwell smiles and pouty looks, you being able to hear and know who Mama is when your "Horse riding Lady" asks you to look at Mom and then to carry through and look at her, the fact that you can look at your and Dad's hands and track the movement and that you can let us know that your TLSO brace doesn't feel right. All cause for rejoicing! And it carries forward into my own daily life too, so I can appreciate so many more of the little things around me. Thnakyou Maxwell for teaching all of us! And Thankyou God for having Maxwell bring these gifts to us.
With much love,
from your
Gramma

Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Friday, March 10, 2006 10:50 AM CST

To the entry just before this---What a good reminder! So often we think we can "earn" points and we don't need to do that!! As Jeremiah (Max's cousin) said when he signed off a letter "surprised by His grace"
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- Tuesday, March 7, 2006 9:23 AM CST

God loves you just as you are, but He loves you too much to let you stay that way! Do you think God's love for you would be stronger, if your faith was stronger? No. You're confusing God's love with human love. Human love increases with performance and decreases with mistakes. But not God's love; He loves you just as you are right now.

Do you have trouble accepting that? Listen to how God introduces himself, "I am the Lord, the merciful and gracious God. I am slow to anger and rich in unfailing love and faithfulness" Exodus 34:6 NLT. Awesome!

In spite of his terrible failures, David could say, "I will sing of the mercies of the Lord forever. With my mouth will I make known Thy faithfulness to all generations" Psalm 89. And if you need more to convince you, Paul writes, "God showed His great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners" Romans 5:8 NLT.

Get rid of your do-it-yourself righteousness. Salvation is not Do! Do! Do! It's Done! Done! Done! It's a finished work. You can add nothing to it. You stand before Him in His name and in His righteousness - not yours.

Perhaps you're saying, "It sounds too easy." Wrong! There was nothing easy about it! The cross was heavy, the blood was real and the price was staggering. It would have bankrupted you and me, so He paid it for us. Call it simple, call it a gift, but don't call it easy. Call it what it is - call it grace!

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- Sunday, March 5, 2006 11:23 PM CST

I love the smilie pic before riding, Lisa!!!
Chris
c, GA - Thursday, February 23, 2006 6:51 AM CST

Happy Valentines Day
I'm sending you lots of hugs and kisses.
I heart you bunches...
c.
- Tuesday, February 14, 2006 6:56 AM CST

Lisa - what a great surprise from the family. I agree with you - they are great people! Keep those updates coming, because it's great to hear how Max and your whole family are doing when we don't get to see each other as often in the winter. Take care........
Patti <barthpl2002@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 9, 2006 2:23 PM CST

What encouraging news about Max! I've been talking with Jim lately about Max's great experiences on horseback - how that is helping with his muscles etc. He is a beautiful boy. All of us at Clear Springs continue to pray for Max and all of you. His website makes it clear that Maxwell is safe and content and deeply loved. Thanks for suggesting I visit, Jim!
Diane Rundquist <drundquist@mn.rr.com>
Minnetonka, MN - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 11:14 AM CST

Hey Max! I know it's been a long time since I posted for you in here, but do know that you are always on my thoughts. Every "small" progress you make is a HUGE step!
Martha <hege_angel@yahoo.com.mx>
- Friday, February 3, 2006 11:08 PM CST

WoW....What an awesome and encouraging update. Im so happy to read all of that. Lisa thank you for taking the time to keep us all informed. also thank you Spencer,Jim and Lisa for being a great family.
c.
- Wednesday, February 1, 2006 6:29 AM CST

Hello, just thought i would pop by your page to have a nosey at how you are doing, im so glad max is making some progress how ever "small"

Love Viks from www.caringbridge.org/visit/cliff and

viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Monday, January 30, 2006 1:57 PM CST

Maxwell, You came to me in a dream just before I woke up yesterday. It was so real that I felt good all day. The dream must've been some part of a memory that is stored in my mind as you and Spencer were much younger, sitting in the big chair and I was looking at you and we were all chewing bubble gum and trying to make the biggest bubble. (remember when we used to do that?).
Spencer made a lttle one , I made the biggest one and you tried and tried to get that gum in the right place to make a bubble. You were so beautiful and all day I remembered how you looked and I smiled. Now tonight when you close your eyes and go to sleep , I hope your mind will find that dream for you to see and remember. I think in your dream you will blow the biggest bubble! I love you so so much!
Gramma
Joanne <gra,mmacongo@aol.com>
- Monday, January 9, 2006 10:27 AM CST

I've been trying to update but the site is not responding (so it tells me) so It's not letting me update. I'm sorry and I'll keep trying. I've written to Caringbridge before but they are saying it's my end (computer) that's not working. Which doesn't surprise me. Dang computer hasn't been right for along time.
Lisa <gosewischj@aol.com>
- Monday, January 2, 2006 10:46 AM CST

I have good plans for you, not plans to hurt you.
I will give you hope and a good future.
Then you will call my name.
You will come to me and pray to me.
I will listen to you.
You will search for me.
When you search for me with all your heart,
you will find me! Jeremiah 29:11-13

MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS! GOD BE WITH YOU ALL EACH AND EVERY DAY!
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- Friday, December 23, 2005 5:08 PM CST

Jim, Lisa, Spencer and Max, The pictures are wonderful! I wish I could have seen the concert and Spencer in person. Thanks as always for updating the website and showing new pictures. May the gift of Jesus be in our hearts and minds this Christmas season. I love you all.
Grandma Karen
- Saturday, December 17, 2005 6:58 AM CST

Hey Lisa! what are you feeding Spencer? He's as tall as you are... or almost! what's up with that? We weren't that tall at that age were we?
I'm glad you are having some "Ups" lately. Everyone needs those "ups".
So... did Spencer's concert remind you of our old band concert days? Just reading about it brought those memories back to me!! LOL!
Have a wonderful holiday season. You and your family are never far from my thoughts and prayers.
Julie
Julie Opheim <bohunkbbq@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, December 8, 2005 7:24 AM CST

Now that is one handsome 10 year old! (and I would say that even if I wasn't his gramma) I need some copies of the pictures for a frame here at home. Maxwell I'm so glad you can go (and enjoy) your horseriding times.

Love,
Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Wednesday, December 7, 2005 11:32 AM CST

Hi! My name is Laura Nielsen and I used to work with Lisa a million years ago at Haven Homes. I remember how nice you were and how sweet your boys were and how proud you were of them and how much you loved them. I have thought about you guys often through the years since I saw a poster for Max shortly after his accident. I finally found this site after searching a bit and I thank you for sharing your joys and pains with your son and his life. It is a real inspiration to me. My son, Matthew is Max's age and I remember bumping into you one time in Buffalo when they were both small. I have had two more children (one on the way, too) and I can't imagine the challenges you face on a day to day basis. It's amazing what time and God have planned for us. God bless you all this Christmas season!
www.laurathecrazymama.blogspot.com
Laura Nielsen <laura7550@yahoo.com>
Albertville, MN USA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 4:06 AM CST

Happy Thanksgiving Red,(maxie)
You are in my thoughts, have a nice day
with your family on Thanksgiving.
we are so Thankful for your health
.
- Thursday, November 24, 2005 11:34 AM CST

Hi Handsome fella'
It sure was good to see you at Gracie's party. It was lots of action wasn't it? I saw you looking around at all the people. Sorry I couldn't kiss you, but didn't want you to catch my cold germs. I wonder what you were thinking when Gracie sat on you and tickled you. I wonder what she was thinking too. I think she wanted you to play with her.

I love you!
gramma

Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, November 22, 2005 12:02 AM CST

Maxie, didn't you like that kitty very much? or were you just trying to see him better? I hope I can see you tomorrow at Gracie's birthday party. I love you a big bunch!

Gram
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Saturday, November 19, 2005 3:18 PM CST

Lisa,good quick update and great pictures Max needs a hair cut? looks like a he has a MOW- HAWK , BUT YOU KNOW ME AND HAIR CUTS.See you later and LOVE YOU! Jim
jimmyg. <jim.gosewisch@minnetonka.k12.mn.us>
buffalo, mn wright - Friday, November 18, 2005 9:32 AM CST

OK, I've tried to update two times and it wouldn't go through. I hope everyone reads this to know that I have tried and it's not working so I'll have to try another time. I'm soooo bummed. Why me having all this trouble with this site. Lets see if this even goes through.
Lisa <gosewischj@aol.com>
- Saturday, November 12, 2005 9:38 AM CST

GOOD MORNING LISA,ARE YOU HAPPY TO GET YOUR VAN BACK! GOOD ME TOO! ALSO JUST CHECKING TO SEE IF ENTRY GOES THROUGH? LOVE YOU! JIM
JIM G. <jim.gosewisch@minnetonka.k12.mn.us>
- Tuesday, November 8, 2005 8:28 AM CST

Good Morning Butterfly Maxwell, peeking out from your cocoon with that wonderful smile for your Mom. Peek out some more!

I love you!!!~

Gramma
Joanne <grammacongo@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 6, 2005 7:15 AM CST

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