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I'll be thinking of you this Christmas. I know it has been a sad year for you, full of many firsts. You've done such a great job of taking it day by day, I know that will get you through this. Peace and Love,
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Friday, December 22, 2006 3:39 PM CST
Dear Karen, for you, Chris and Grazie have a peaceful Christmas, all my thoughts and prayers for you, love, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, , MD US - Friday, December 22, 2006 2:35 PM CST
Karen and family: I want to wish you ALL a Merry Christmas!! And tell Gracie that I too have written to Santa to tell him what a wonderfully good girl she has been and I hope he treats her and you all well. And I told Santa to keep an eye on his reindeer and don't let them eat Kevin's flowers!
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Friday, December 22, 2006 6:39 AM CST
Karen, you will never totally get over Kevin and all that happened, he is your son, time will heal most wounds but not all. Additionally no one should except you to get over him. Just know Kevin is in everyones heart and thought as well as you and your family. Kevin touch many people and made them all for the better. Have the best Christmas you can and just remember tomorrow is always a new day.
Anneliese Culley-Baker <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 8:55 AM CST
Dear Karen, Happy Birthday, I hope you feel better each day, regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, December 15, 2006 4:08 PM CST
Happy belated brithday Karen!!!
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.hih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Thursday, December 14, 2006 4:12 AM CST
Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday my dear Sister, Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday to the most wonderful Mother in the whole world! I love you!!
Theresa Broad <tbroad@rockvillemd.gov>
Frederick, MD Frederick - Monday, December 11, 2006 1:54 PM CST
Karen - That is exciting about adding to your already beautiful family - it is not ending a chapter because Kevin will forever be part of the book of McLane family Life, it is just starting a whole new series!!
Wow - how I absolutley adore the new pictures. They are great! I love the one of the three of you and how incredibly precious of Gracie kissing him and having her cute little eyes closed. It just made me stop and think that that is probably how she sees him when he is sitting with her watching a movie. She just has him all snuggled up in her lap and just cuddling with him. I think it is amazing how she can describe so inocently how Kevin is with her. The bible talks about having faith and being child like. If we could only believe so innocently and pure as children.
You all are in my continued thoughts and prayers.
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Thursday, December 7, 2006 10:55 PM CST
Hi Karen, I think it would be great if you have another baby, Kevin would be happy that Grazie has another sibling, I think it would be beautiful for all of you, my thoughts and prayers for you, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 2:44 PM CST
Wow...you are amazing. When I gave Teresa a little tidbit on getting pregnant, she had twins.....let me know if you want that tidbit - haha!! There are no "ifs" in store for you and Chirs my dear, it is only a when. Starting another chapter in your life doesn't mean closing out one - it is just adding on. Keep on writing. Gracie will continue to be a great sister to Kevin and any other siblings, plus think of the help she'll be (at first!).
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Monday, December 4, 2006 7:29 AM CST
Karen!! Good for you! I think this is wonderful! Please let me know if and when.
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Friday, December 1, 2006 11:28 AM CST
Hello Karen -it's an old friend Michele Oleksa (from Grandin Ave) My prayers are with you. Dec 14th marks the 9th anniversary of the loss of my husband. I wish I could share that the pain goes away, it transforms you. I can't imagine the loss of a child and hold your heart in my prayers. It sounds like you have husband and child to hold your hand too. Celebrate that Kev is with God this Christmas! God Bless you all!
Michele (Oleksa) Gehrke <gehrke67@comcast.net>
McHenry, IL - Friday, December 1, 2006 10:19 AM CST
Dear Karen, I'm sorry you are feeling so sad, I hope you feel better, enjoy your time with Chris and Grazie, think that you didn't want Kevin to be here suffering anymore, I hope you find peace, my thoughts and prayers with you, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, November 27, 2006 4:00 PM CST
HI! THIS IS LILMAN'S NANA. I'AM SORRY TO HEAR THE NEW'S. MY HEART IS WITH YA'LL
CATHY HOLLAND <MCHOLLAND41@YAHOO.COM>
PERRY, GA. - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 2:23 PM CST
I am grateful on this Thanksgiving holiday that you are able to share Kevin's story with the world. He has touched more people than you know.
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 10:13 AM CST
Karen & Chris - it was AWESOME. I am glad you found another group, I hope you will be more comfortable and it will allow you and Chris to open up a little and get some benefits. It was a Happy Birthday for Kev and the poem was beautiful. Very beautiful. I know Kev loved his messages and balloons - your friends and family are beautiful and I was happy to be a part of the celebration.
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, November 14, 2006 1:08 PM CST
What an great day Saturday! Chris, I know you weren't really prepared to say anything but you did wonderfully. It was awesome to watch all those balloons disappear into heaven. I love the poem about the birthday in heaven. I was thinking about Kevin this morning on my ride into work. I keep his obituary on my visor and was able to flip it down and see his cute little face. I'm so fortunate to have him as my nephew!! Thanks Karen and Chris. Happy Belated Anniversary! (I don't think I told you on Saturday)
Love, T.
Theresa Broad <tbroad@rockvillemd.gov>
Frederick, MD - Tuesday, November 14, 2006 11:47 AM CST
It was a wonderful celebration and I will never forget releasing the balloons. It was an awesome sight!!! Happy 3rd Birthday Kevin!
Melanie, Jordan and AJ
Melanie <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Saturday, November 11, 2006 10:02 PM CST
What a nice birthday celebration we all had for Kevin. Thank you Chris and Karen for sharing it with us. The balloons were awesome! And Kevin is lovin' getting each and every one! Happy 3rd Birthday to our Little Man, indeed!
Uncle Tim and Lillian and Eliza
- Saturday, November 11, 2006 9:14 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY KEVIN - NOT ONLY WERE YOU REMEMBERED TODAY BY YOUR BIOLOGICAL FAMILY BUT YOUR ADOPTED FAMILY AS WELL. YOUR MOMMY POSTED A REALLY HEARTWARMING POEM TO YOUR WEBSITE TODAY. I KNOW IT BROUGHT A TEAR TO EVERYONE'S EYES WHO READ TODAY'S ENTRY. DO KNOW THAT YOU ARE LOVED, AND MISSED BY SO MANY PEOPLE. YOU PERSONALLY TOUCHED MY HEART IN A WAY THAT WORDS JUST CAN'T EXPRESS. DO KNOW THAT YOUR FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY PRAYERS AS I ASK GOD TO GIVE THEM THE STRENGTH THAT THEY NEED TO CARRY ON WHEN THEY ARE READY TO CARRY ON UNTIL YOU ARE ALL TOGETHER AGAIN. GOD BLESS
Odarise (Dee) Coates - Nana's Co-Worker
- Saturday, November 11, 2006 5:11 PM CST
Happy Birthday Kevin!!! You are in our thoughts today and reading that beautiful poem helps me to picture you doing exactly everything in there. Your beautiful smiling face riding the carousal.... our love, thoughts, prayers and birthday wishes are with you today, your mum, dad and little Gracie. Enjoy your balloons little man!
Leisa - Jordan's Mum (AGS) <msleiann@iprimus.com.au>
Brisbane, Q Australia - Saturday, November 11, 2006 9:01 AM CST
Karen, I share many of your issues. We had to pack up or get rid of Marti's things because the house they lived in was sold. Jim is now with me and Adam is at Towson U. You are all in my prayers. Plese keep me in yours.
Martha Neal <m2neal@md.metrocast.net>
- Thursday, November 9, 2006 11:25 PM CST
Dear Karen, I sent you a message to your other e-mail, did you receive it? I'm sorry that I will be out of the country but I will be remembering you all, I hope you can celebrate Kevin's birthday remembering him as he deserves, all my thoughts and prayers for you, Chris, Grazie and Kevin, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 2:28 PM CST
Dear Karen, I was reading and you made me cry, it was very emotional what you wrote, I think you could write a book, my thoughts and prayers for you, Chris, Grazie and Kevin too, Happy Halloween!!!! hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 3:01 PM CST
I was looking through a Holiday book and saw something that made me think of Kevin. Merry Christmas from Heaven Ornament & Peom Sets with free Personalization. website WWW.TERRYSVILLAGE.COM item # EJ-95/2712
Diane (Pearson) Arthur <tay0530@aol.com>
- Friday, October 27, 2006 8:15 AM CDT
Wow - what beautiful (recent) entries by the people you have allowed into Kevin's life. He touched so many people - the # of people who have visited this site is amazing. I know it doesn't bring Kevin back - it is amazing that so many people have realized they need to live their lives better through you and him. Hope things at school are better for Grace - she always seems happy in the morning at drop-off :)
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, October 18, 2006 12:13 AM CDT
Hi Karen- I was thinking about you the other day when I went for a run - my time to reflect on lots of things. I find the physical exertion and the "zoning" time (once I get past the pain threshold) are just what I need some days to release a lot of tensions. Have you ever considered taking a walk with Kevin everyday? A 30 minute time to get out and walk around and think about your sweet boy. A time to exercise your body and reflect on your precious son and the special times you all had together. I know he would enjoy that for you and also it might help you with the sleep and depessive times. Exercise can be the best medicine and can help your mind to cope better with the unexplanable things in life! You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Monday, October 16, 2006 7:35 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm sorry that you don't feel well, I hope you can feel some comfort in this situation, is not easy but I know you will do it, a very low dose of a pill for depression will help too if you decide to take it, my thoughts and prayers for you, I hope you feel a little better, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, October 13, 2006 3:58 PM CDT
Hello Karen, Chris and Gracie. It's been a long time since I've written. I visit Kevin's sight every day hoping to find a way to ease your pain. I know that I can't, but my need to will not stop.
I just want to commend you on the beautiful job you have done with both of your children. Kevin at his young age was so loving and beautiful; Gracie as young as she is Karen, knows what you need to get you through the day or to make your day better. I know she actually sees and talks to her brother and she has found a way to bring you into the world her and Kevin now share. What an insightful young lady.
I am so glad you and Chris have shared the extent of your pain and have learned to share in it together whole heartedly. You all need the closeness in that way just as you experienced it with the fight for Kevin. I love the bond and connection you and your family have and admire you all beyond measure for sharing that with us on a daily basis. You are beautiful people.
Have comfort in knowing that God didn't let your baby suffer just to die in the end; he had to keep him here until he was sure you realized your blessing and then he took the pain away. Kevin won the fight.
Don't let the tears stop; with water there is cleansing. Let the tears be the cleansing for your heart to minimize the pain.
Don't forget that our memories are part of the blessing. God has blessed you and your family infinitely. I thank you for sharing it with me.
You all are forever in my thoughts and prayers.
Rose Handon-Brown <tempisg@wsscwater.com>
Silver Spring, Md USA - Friday, October 13, 2006 1:28 PM CDT
HI Karen- Today when I opened the page, I saw Kevin's infectious smile and I had to smile too. Despite his pain - he smiled a lot and that was because of the joy you did allow into his little world - in spite of his circumstances. None of us are given guarantees, we all wish for something more, and just need to rest in the fact that we need to release what we can not change. "This is what it is" as a friend of mine has shared with me who also lost a young child. Kevin is laughing and smiling all the time now.......and when I look at the picture of his smiling face, I can not imagine he would be even happier - but I know he is! What a jewel to hold onto each day! I know he wants you to be happy and smiling too! Remember that smile when the pain comes and allow yourself to feel the joy he now feels! I think he would want that for his special Mommy! As always, you are in our thoughts and prayers! Take care........Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, MD - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 6:48 AM CDT
Karen I'm sorry but I had to laugh I guess it does seem like "at least we don't have Karen's life" but you know that is not what we mean. You do have a wonderful life. I have never had children to love. I heard someone say, and I thought of you..he had lost a child and he said "we will never get over it we just have to learn to incorporate the lose in our lives" I thought that was good.
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 9:10 AM CDT
Karen,Chris and Gracie,
I would love to be a part of Kev's 3 year balloon fest.I am sorry it has taken me so long to answer but there have been a few bumps in the road here.All is ok now:-)
If I could add my 2cents of "heart thoughts" about going to Calf. You went because you and the Dr.'s at JH knew that was his last hope. He had to have that surgery if at all possible and his little body had worked so long and so hard that it just couldn't undergo that surgery. You and Chris were with him as he went on his last "trip" and the best one, to the arms of his heavenly Father. Hard, yes, but God was with you and nudged you when it was time to let Kevin go home. You knew and let him slip into Gods arms. I truly beleive that in Calif. or at JH that was the day for Kevin to go home. You and Chris did a wonderful thing in trying to get him to the place that maybe could save our boy but he just couldn't do one more surgery.
You are great parents and did everything you could for Kevin. Please be PROUD of that.
Well, this is my mini-book for this time---sorry-- I love you all so much and think of you every day as I talk to Kevins picture. Yes- he is still on my desk, fridg., and in my wallet and I'm sure he'll be there for years to come. Send me your address and I'll send you a note for our balloon:-)
Love and God Bless,
Anita
Anita Myers <thanks4life@neo.rr.com>
Akron, Oh USA - Friday, September 29, 2006 10:05 PM CDT
Karen - that was a nice entry. It shows how drastic anyone's lifecycle can change so easily...and quickly. Maybe Grace is getting to a point of understanding that life maybe isn's so "normal" when she sees, for example, images of girls her age playing with their little brothers or kissing them goodbye at the door. Her "normal" life from 3 to 5 was Mom and Dad going to the hospital every day or taking care of Kevin when he was home, alot of time at Gan and Pop's, etc... That was probably, in her mind's eye, all quite "normal". I bet Grace's actions, reactions and behaviors now are "normal" for her. Her environment has changed and maybe she is just changing with it... And as always, I, by no means, am an expert on such topics. Just putting in my "normal" 2 cents :) It was so awesome to see you all on Nana's bday!
Uncle Tim
- Tuesday, September 26, 2006 10:21 PM CDT
Karen and family, Just wanted to say I hope this weekend will be the start of a new and better week. Baby steps, baby steps. And if someone asked how many chrildren you have this week tell them you live in a Shoe. That should make them stop and think. :)
lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.com>
Stafford, Va - Friday, September 22, 2006 10:39 AM CDT
Dear Karen, excellent idea about the balloons, I want to send a message, I'm going to be away, in Florida, be back Thursday, I'll be in touch, yes, I would like to write something about Kevin too, love, hugs, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, September 15, 2006 5:06 PM CDT
GREAT IDEA ABOUT THE BALLOON ON KEVIN'S BIRTHDAY
HIS MEMORY STILL LIVES ON!!!!!!
TAKE CARE
ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS
AMEKIA RAY(HOMECALL) <amekia_ray@mamsi.com>
TEMPLE HILLS, MD - Friday, September 15, 2006 12:03 AM CDT
karen - I think the balloon idea is great! My grandmother passed away last year - only one week prior to her birthday - all of the great grand kids were sad when it came time for grandma's b-day and it was one of their ideas to do the same thing. I think it was a healing process for all- big and little kids. Kevin touched so many people lives - if it were possible for everyone of us to get together and let a balloon go - the skies would be crowded.
About stating -you only have one child - you should not worry about how the other people feel. You say it your heart what is real - 2 !!! Kevin always was and always will be your baby boy! I can not imagine how some peoples reaction may be but if they ask - YOu have the right to share with them if you feel like it and cut them off with - he is no longer with us and end it with that. You need to quit being so hard on yourself - no matter what you say - Kevin knows your heart, you do not have to worry about disappointing him - he saw you day in and day out doing everything in your might to assure he had top quality care around the clock - and when you couldn't be there with him - I am sure he missed you but he knew how much it broke your heart too. You are a fantastic mother!
I am going to be in town this weekend for a quick visit - I will give you a call. I am not sure what my schedule is because I am meeting a friend from England in DC for the weekend. I would love to come and see you and Gracie, and Chris. Talk to you soon.
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Thursday, September 14, 2006 10:22 PM CDT
Karen - there is no reason why you shouldn't say you HAVE 2 children. Simply say you have Grace and you also have a baby boy who passed away from illness back in March at the age of 2 and respectfully you'd rather not go into it right now. Human nature though will have others immediately offer up sympathy, pity, sadness and a host of stories concerning themselves. To minimize these reactions at times when you dont want to deal with it tell the person immediately that you dont want to go into it, but assure them you and the rest of your family are doing okay and going on with your lives with as much normalcy as possible. Once conversation is engaged about Kevin, it's going to be harder for you, i think, to back-peddle out of it. This is only my non-expert suggestion - and i recognize that i am in no way familiar with the shoes you fill. But by reading this journal i see a consistency that tells us that you don't like the sorry, pitiful looks on others faces when you mention Kevin. Unfortunately, i dont think that is ever going to dissipate. For example, i just recently met an "older" woman and in some point in the convesation i think i asked her if she had any children. I dont recall if she does now or not, but she told me she lost an infant years ago. I know that the expression that fell on my face was "oh no!...really?! how sad..." That kind of expression. And while engaged in conversation i asked how or what happened. She was very classy in the way that she waved it off and simply said "illness". I immediately recognized that she didnt want to go into it - so i simply said something like "i'm sorry to hear that". I mentioned something about Kevin because it was related - but alot of people wouldnt have a topic of conversation on hand that they could immediatey move on to. That's probably where you'd have to control the coversation and say - "Anyways, i like your earrings..." Thanks for letting me ramble, Karen. You're doing allright! xoxoxoxox
Uncle Tim
- Thursday, September 14, 2006 9:25 AM CDT
LOVE the ballon idea!! I think it is just such a beatiful and wondeful thing to do!
I will have to think hard on how to express how much and deeply this web site has had on me. but I will try and get back to you.
lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnical@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford , Va - Thursday, September 14, 2006 5:45 AM CDT
Karen,
I wanted to share a poem with you also
TIME WILL EASE THE HURT
The Sadness of the present days
is locked and set in time,
and moving to the future
is a slow and painful climb
But all the feelings that are now
So vivid and so real
Can't hold their fresh intensity
As time begins to heal
No wound so deep will ever go
entirely away;
Yet every hurt becomes
A little less from day to day
Nothing can erase the painful
imprints on your mind
But there are softer memories
that time will let you find
Though your heart won't let the sadness
simply slide away
The echos will diminish
Even though the memories stay.
Katie <krizak@niaid.nih.gov>
- Friday, September 8, 2006 2:02 PM CDT
Karen here is a poem I tought you would like
We Are Seven
[Wordsworth's own NOTES for this poem]
--A simple child,
That lightly draws its breath,
And feels its life in every limb,
What should it know of death?
I met a little cottage girl:
She was eight years old, she said;
Her hair was thick with many a curl
That clustered round her head.
She had a rustic, woodland air,
And she was wildly clad;
Her eyes were fair, and very fair;
--Her beauty made me glad.
"Sisters and brothers, little maid,
How many may you be?"
"How many? Seven in all," she said,
And wondering looked at me.
"And where are they? I pray you tell."
She answered, "Seven are we;
And two of us at Conway dwell,
And two are gone to sea.
"Two of us in the churchyard lie,
My sister and my brother;
And in the churchyard cottage, I
Dwell near them with my mother."
"You say that two at Conway dwell,
And two are gone to sea,
Yet ye are seven! -- I pray you tell,
Sweet maid, how this may be."
Then did the little maid reply,
"Seven boys and girls are we;
Two of us in the churchyard lie,
Beneath the churchyard tree."
"You run about, my little maid,
Your limbs they are alive;
If two are in the churchyard laid,
Then ye are only five."
"Their graves are green, they may be seen,"
The little maid replied,
"Twelve steps or more from my mother's door,
And they are side by side.
"My stockings there I often knit,
My kerchief there I hem;
And there upon the ground I sit,
And sing a song to them.
"And often after sunset, sir,
When it is light and fair,
I take my little porringer,
And eat my supper there.
"The first that died was sister Jane;
In bed she moaning lay,
Till God released her of her pain;
And then she went away.
"So in the churchyard she was laid;
And, when the grass was dry,
Together round her grave we played,
My brother John and I.
"And when the ground was white with snow,
And I could run and slide,
My brother John was forced to go,
And he lies by her side."
"How many are you, then," said I,
"If they two are in heaven?"
Quick was the little maid's reply,
"O master! we are seven."
"But they are dead; those two are dead!
Their spirits are in heaven!"
'T was throwing words away; for still
The little maid would have her will,
And say, "Nay, we are seven!"
William Wordsworth
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Friday, September 8, 2006 4:01 AM CDT
Dear Karen, thanks for sharing your feelings, you, Chris, Grazie and Kevin are always in my thoughts and prayers, keep writing, hugs and kisses for you all, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, September 6, 2006 11:16 AM CDT
Karen - I am sorry you got out of Back to School orientation before I could say hi - Gracie can just say whatever she wants about Angel Kevin her brother - you'll be amazed at how well the kids will receive the information and will want to talk about it - in a good way. Russ will be there for the 1 hour day tomorrow as I have training...See you and Gracie on Friday and Lyndsay is anxious to hear about Kevin, as she talks about "Kevin in Heaven who is Gracie's brother from her new pre-K at St. Mary's" everynight!! :)
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, September 5, 2006 1:24 PM CDT
Karen, Oh my gosh, I remember that day and how much we laughed! As I sit here now with tears in my eyes, but laughter in my heart it seems like yesterday! I truly miss my little boyfriend, and I am so happy for all of the beautiful memories and the feelings I have deep inside of me when I think of him! I am glad that you are remembering the good times that will help you too! I love you, just remember you are not alone! Ju
Judy Hanger <judy.hanger@montgomerycountymd.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 9:43 AM CDT
Karen - I am sorry if I have left you alone in the room with an elephant. I am not around much but i want you to always be comfortable talking about Kevin to me. I think the bereavement goup will be good for the whole family. As much as your friends and extended family want to try and be there for you - we will never be able to even get a glimpse of the pit that you feel in you heart! Please know that we all love you and have the greatest intentions - sometimes we just don't know how to show it, or how to act. I love ya and you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dawn Dee <ddee@prudentialalliance.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 10:53 PM CDT
Glad the vacation was fun for all. You are raising a wonderful little chick who will have more insight on life then most of us do. Well, I've always said kids have better insight then adults anyway - which is why she can talk to Kevin and see him. Have the best day possible...
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Friday, August 25, 2006 2:04 PM CDT
Karen - It is a fantastic outlook on life and I hope others catch on and grab hold of it too. Kevin is still teaching all of us - through you and Chris. So many peoples lives have been changed through your incredible little boy and his fantastic two parents!!! And wow, little Gracie too - she is amazing on how she is able to express her feelings. It is only because of you and Chris and how you were real and honest with her through everything! I admire you all so much for how amazing you are! Have a great time on your vacation! God Bless! Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Friday, August 18, 2006 9:05 AM CDT
Dear Karen, Chris and Gracie. I have been reading your Caring Bridge on a regular basis and keeping you all in my prayers. I understand this is a long and difficult process of mourning and healing that you are going through. Just know that you and Kevin are in my heart and I will keep praying for you all. Kevin loves you and is proud of all you are doing as you continue on. God bless you.
Mary Kay Alford <mkalford@jhmi.edu>
Pikesville, MD USA - Monday, August 14, 2006 3:13 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm sorry you are feeling sad, I hope you feel better on the weekend, go to the movies and the pool, that will help, my thoughts and prayers with you, Chris and Grazie and of course Kevin, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, , MD US - Friday, August 11, 2006 1:51 PM CDT
Karen and Chris - I still think of Kevin and often ask his help! I hurt my knee pretty bad and was out of work a couple of months. I still ask him to help me bear the pain when it gets bad and when I get frustrated. I feel so close to your little boy. He is my angel, too. I will continue to keep you all and Gracie in my prayers.
Pat Becker <pbecker@totalsiteteam.com>
- Wednesday, August 9, 2006 1:40 PM CDT
I saw this on another caringbridge website, and it was so lovely I wanted to share it with you ....
Once Again You'll Meet
Nothing is ever truly gone
like a puddle of water after the rain
It evaporates back into the clouds
and sometime later returns again.
Like the memory you'll forever hold
of your loved one that passed on.
They are a part of your thoughts and heart
therefore they'll forever live on.
Yet as for now they are resting
for now they are at peace.
Say so long, never goodbye,
until once again in heaven you'll meet.
A Friend ...
- Friday, August 4, 2006 12:53 AM CDT
Hey there! Just checking in. The marker is fantastic! Can't wait to see it. Me and girls coming into town this weekend, so we will visit. I'll call...
Uncle Tim
- Tuesday, August 1, 2006 10:34 PM CDT
Dear Karen, beautiful photos from the grave, thank you for sharing your feelings, you will feel better with time, we all miss and remember Kevin but he is in a very special place now, my thoughts are with you, Chris and Grazie, take care, hugs, kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, August 1, 2006 4:57 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I looked at the pictures and the headstone is beautiful, very impressive. Whenever I visit the USA again I'll contact you to visit Kevin. Even across the ocean he changed lifes. Please don't ever doubt your feeling, of course you are normal. And whenever you start wondering again just realize that losing your child isn't normal to begin with....You and Chris have been so strong and are such wonderful parents to both Kevin and Gracie. If only a few people take your example the world would be a better place and I hope and think that this is happening to many people that read your entries.
Diana Seegers
- Wednesday, July 26, 2006 9:52 AM CDT
HI Karen- So you are "normal", normal to feel anger, pain, and also joy. God made us to experience all of these things - yet in heaven, He says he will wipe away all our tears. So he is wiping all the pain and sufferring Kevin experienced away...he will only experience the joy and all those special giggles!! And thank God none of us have to work to be good enough to get to heaven...God provided a way for us all to be perfect - just like Him. That way is through the sacrifice of Jesus - Jesus paid the penalty for all our sins and imperfections. We just have to admit to God that we aren't perfect, can never be perfect, and by relying on this sacrifice, and placing our trust and belief in what Jesus did for us, we are guarranteed our place in heaven. What a WONDEFUL gift God has given to each of us - if we just take it. Hard to believe that is all we need to do. But how else could we live up to God's standards; we could never do it on our own. I continue to pray that you will find that peace, feel God's presence daily, in the peaks and valleys......and that you find that assurance of life everlasting with God and your dear little Kevin. Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD LI - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 5:37 AM CDT
Thinking of you all. The headstone is just beautiful!
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Monday, July 24, 2006 11:16 AM CDT
Dear Karen, my thoughts and prayers for you, Chris and Grazie, I hope you'll feel better with time, send me the information how to go to Kevin's grave, I would like to visit him one day, take care, keep sharing your feelings, thank you for that, love, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, , MD US - Thursday, July 20, 2006 12:06 AM CDT
Remember that progress moves forward and backward and it's all okay. You should want Kevin here and you should miss him everyday and you wouldn't ever want that to go away - look for him in the little things that happen around you everyday.
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, July 19, 2006 2:34 PM CDT
okay Karen...
I think I can keep the police away while we do a middle of the night bench installation...I'm sure Theresa will do it with me,I'm ready. Wish I had known you were beaching it - we have been here since last week until this weekend. Just keep making progress - forward or backward, it's still progress. Thoughts and Prayers
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, July 12, 2006 9:15 PM CDT
Karen and Chris - I love ya guys - I missed the updates while you were away, checking this site is still part of my routine. It sounds like you had a good time at the fireworks - I am sure that it was nice to see all of Kevin's girls that were blessed to be such a big part of his life. Atleast you had one nice day at the beach! I am so happy that the grave marker is finally in. I am sure it looks great - the proof was so nice. You tell your sister not to take no for an answer - and if all else fails next time I come in town we may have to take a late night trip to the cemetary and put a bench up ourselves( do you think they would know who it was who did it?). I am continuing to pray for you all! Love ya
Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Monday, July 10, 2006 10:01 PM CDT
Karen -
Just thinking about you and wanted to let you know that I am continuing to pray for you, Chris and Gracie! Love ya
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com+>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Friday, July 7, 2006 11:45 PM CDT
Dear Karen, beautiful photo!! have a nice and peaceful weekend with Chris and Grazie, my regards and thoughts to you all and thinking about Kevin, of course, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, June 30, 2006 1:10 PM CDT
Hey Kids! I got those pictures you sent in the mail and I LOVE THEM!! That is just how I picture him. That was so nice of you guys to send me those. Thank you! Call me if you need anything. I hear that I'll be seeing you on July 4th. I can't wait!!
Julia Paganini
Baltimore, MD - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 11:08 AM CDT
Hi Karen, Chris and Gracie
My name is Kimberly and I read and post on the Alagille webboard often. My daughter AShley is almost 3 and has AGS. I just read your post on the alagille website and posted a response. I have been following Kevin's story here for some time now. AShely has had two heart surgeries both done by Dr. Hanley. I felt a strong connection to you all. I want you all to know that I think and pray for you daily. The drawing of Kevin is absolutly beautiful. Anyway just wanted to say hello and for you to know you have someone here who thinks of you and Kevin daily.
God Bless you
Kimberly
Kimberly Borchardt <kborch@sbcglobal.net>
Fresno, CA USA - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 10:19 PM CDT
Awesome drawing....very awesome. Keep getting through the day. Hope the garden isn't getting too much rain!! Gracie is, well, a girl who is 4 - okay for her to get on your nerves :) Keep pushing for the bench - or just have it put there in the middle of the night and see what happens!! Our thoughts -
THe Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, June 27, 2006 12:27 AM CDT
Hey Karen~ On a very light note, I can say that my two girls have not had to deal with any of the things that your family has, and they have been whining for 9 years! I think it's very normal. Focus on looking through the windshield with her, not the rearview mirror. Kids are incredibly resilient, she will be fine! Hang in there! Kevin's drawing is JUST GORGEOUS!
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Thursday, June 22, 2006 12:20 AM CDT
Dear Karen, that drawing of Kevin is beautiful, thank you for sharing all your feelings, keep writing, I hope you feel better, my regards and prayers for you, Kevin, Chris and Grazie, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, June 21, 2006 2:45 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris-
the garden is such a wonderful idea! Lavender is one of my favorite flowers and will always give you a sweet fragrance to enjoy there. Love the picture - a talented lady, she really captured his smile! Keep pushing on, and don't hesitate to cry when you need to.......it really helps to heal the heart! You are always in our thoughts and prayers! Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH/LI, MD USA - Monday, June 19, 2006 5:28 AM CDT
Dear Karen,
Thank you for showing us the lovely picture of Kevin. It is amazing. What a wonderful likeness.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Sunday, June 18, 2006 2:27 PM CDT
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY CHRIS!!!! I love you! I hope everyone is doing well! I love the drawing...amazing!
-Katie
Katie Bastian <mysnafter10@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Sunday, June 18, 2006 11:28 AM CDT
To my brother Chris,
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!
From your sister, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Sunday, June 18, 2006 8:10 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen,
The new pictures of Kevin are GREAT!!! Congrats on the weight loss and blood pressure. Keep up the good work. I am sorry that your doctor did not do a very good job of helping you. That's OK because we all love you. It is a very hot day today so you all be careful while working on the garden. Fresh air, garden work and a little sweat will make for a good nights sleep.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Saturday, June 17, 2006 2:23 PM CDT
Karen - I am glad that you are having a better day! I love the new pictures and look forward to seeing Chris' fathers day gift too. Oh - and a picture of the garden when it is completed. Congrats on the 20 lbs and that is great about your blood pressure! I wanted to be up in Maryland this month to visit but somehow this month is half over already. I will be soon though! Have a great day and tell Chris happy fathers day and give Gracie a big hug and hello from me.
Your in my mnay thoughts and prayers.
Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, June 17, 2006 6:26 AM CDT
Mmmmm, lavendar ... what a lovely idea to plant it in Kevin's garden! :) Karen, may I also please say - since your regular doctor seems to be incapable of providing you the emotional support you need - that you find a good counselor to help as you and Chris and Grace wind your way through the grief that encompasses you. Your grief is your own, how you each deal with it is very personal and you deserve to learn how to live with it ... while we are all willing to help as much as we can, we admit we are helpless - none of us obviously know how to help. We only know how to love you all. Please do use your insurance - your EAP if you have one - your church if that will help - but let someone with the experience or training help you ... we love you, we support you, we know all too well that what we are lacking is being able to provide you with what you need. Our gift to you is acknowledging that.
We love you
- Friday, June 16, 2006 8:30 PM CDT
Karen, I love the new pictures! Can we have more? I check in every morning to see how you are. It is always so hard to read your pain. I know there is nothing anyone can do. You have fought so hard for Kevin now you must keep fighting for him but for a differtent reason. You must fight to keep yourself well. He loved you so much and would be so unhappy to think that he has made you unhappy. Get that fight back in you that you had when Kevin was here. you are his soldier in this life
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:25 AM CDT
Karen - Thinking of you and praying for you! Love ya
Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, June 14, 2006 9:48 PM CDT
Always thinking about you guys!!! If there was only something i (or any of us) could do... But for now please know that prayers don't cease. God Bless.
Uncle Tim and family
- Wednesday, June 14, 2006 8:03 PM CDT
Karen - you just keep the Faith - it has helped you get to this point and will help you get beyond this point. Your family is, of course, forever changed by Kevin's death - go be close to him whenever you want and however you want. Losing your baby is the hardest thing ever - God knows you are a great parent, there is no punishment in His action. His action is for Kevin - and for his peace. Kevin knows how lucky he is and he will tell you that when you someday meet again....until then, you keep the Faith and watch that Grace grow in so many ways - it is obvious that you are as proud of her as your parents of you. You have so many friends and family that leave you so many beautiful thoughts and prayers - remember all the times but don't forget to smile at the good times.
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, June 14, 2006 8:28 AM CDT
Dear Karen,
I am so sorry that you have not been doing well. Please know that God did not take Kevin to punish you. God fully knows what GREAT PARENTS you both were. God even supplied you with doctors, nurses and Nina that did what they could do to the best that they could do it. A trip to California was a trip full of HOPE.
I loved Kevin. I admit that I did not do a very good job at being Kevin's aunt. A phone call here and there was all I did. That wasn't enough. I kept myself updated with Kevin's entire history. I understood what the doctors were saying about Kevin. Kevin was a very sick child. Every time he pulled through I prayed harder. Don't ever for one minute think that your trip to California was a bad call. You both said it felt right to try this. Kevin knew how hard you wanted to save him. Kevin knew it was time to go. God's call to come home felt good.
With the loss of a LOVED ONE you can not have an ultimite high on love without the deepest depth of pain. A pain so deep it leaves a hole. A hole, no matter the size, you don't know if it will ever heal. It heals by keeping Kevin close to your heart. Where love comes from. Your love for Kevin will heal you. I HOPE you know that Kevin is in heaven watching over all of you. Kevin is truely happy watching his big sister Grace grow up. He is connected to your family for life. He will never forget you. He will never stop loving you.
Dear God, I pray that Chris and Karen have a tommorrow that is a little better than the day before. I pray that Karen's mind be put at ease so she may get some sleep. Thank you to the angels that keep watch over this family.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie , MD - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 3:26 PM CDT
My love, thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Leisa - Jordan's Mum (AGS) <msleiann@iprimus.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, June 12, 2006 10:16 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I hope you will feel better, all my thoughts and prayers for you, Chris, Grazie and remembering Kevin too, I hope you'll find peace with time, enjoy your weekend now that the weather is better, take care, hugs and kisses for you, Chris and Grazie, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Thursday, June 8, 2006 3:20 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen,
I reread some journal entries. The entry you did the night that Kevin passed you wrote that, "Kevin gave up. We gave up." I beleive that is a false statement. It was your love that brought Kevin into this world. It was your love that fought for him. It was your love that Kevin lived off of. It was your love that helped Kevin in the end. Kevin loved you both as much as you loved him. Kevin did not want to lose your love but his sick and tired body could not be helped by doctors. You never gave up on hope and God knows that. God loves you for the way you took care of Kevin. He brought Kevin home where there is no pain. God left you both here to take care of Grace. One day we will all be with Kevin. He is in heaven waiting for us. I pray that you understand your deep love for Kevin gave his spirit the will to live longer than doctors said he would live. Let your love for Kevin help you through the day.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Thursday, June 8, 2006 7:47 AM CDT
Karen - My heart aches for you and I wish that I could do something to help. I am glad that you and Michelle were able to talk and share your heart with someone who is going through a similar situation. We all love you dearly but we can not even imagine the emptiness or pain that you are experiencing. No two situations are a like but I am glad that you have found someone whom you can share your feelings with and I am sure she is greatful for you also. Somehow just sharing what you are going through, with someone what truly understands, helps the healing process. I am continually praying for you! God Bless!
Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 2:52 PM CDT
Karen - My dear sister, I'm so sorry you are having a rough time. I wish there was something I could do to ease your pain. I'm so greatful for the memories I have of your precious boy, my only nephew. They get me through the bad days and make my good days even better. I'm glad you have these memories to wrap yourself in when you need to. I hope your day gets a little better. I love you!
Theresa <tbroad@rockvillemd.gov>
Frederick, MD USA - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 11:33 AM CDT
Dear Chris, Karen and Grace,
Glad to read you had a good time on your mini vacation. It is always good to get away even if it is for a few days. According to Grace even though Kevin was not with you in body he was with you in spirit. May each day get a little better than the day before. All our love.
Happy Memorial Day.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Monday, May 29, 2006 8:30 AM CDT
Karen just wanted you to know I think of you often. The ocean of grief is deep. Keep swimming but remember to take time and float some
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Friday, May 26, 2006 4:57 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm sorry you are not feeling well, to go away for a few days will be good for all of you, Kevin is in good hands, don't worry, we all think and pray for him, you, Chris and Grazie, I hope you will feel a little better, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, May 23, 2006 2:16 PM CDT
Sometimes angels fly so close to the earth, you can hear the flutter of their wings.
Anonymous
- Tuesday, May 23, 2006 12:12 AM CDT
Karen - your family has been through so much....getting through the hours of the day are a success. I say listen to Chris and Gracie, God will bless you - your courage is powerful. I keep Kevin's Mass card in the visor of my Police Car and look at it everyday, several times. The kids always want to see it whenever they get in my car, they say where is the picture of "Kevin in Heaven?" - it's getting worn out, might have to get a few more!! The Bereaved Parents Writing was beautiful. Keep doing what you're doing -
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
- Monday, May 22, 2006 6:54 PM CDT
Karen - I am glad that your day got better on Saturday and I am sure it was good to see AJ and his family. I like the writing about grieving a child - even after Kevin's death, he still continues to touch so many peoples lives. And I continue to share with friends and family how remarkable you and Chris both are. Tell little miss Gracie I said hi!
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Sunday, May 21, 2006 10:31 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
It seems you are always apologizing to the rest of us for feeling sad about losing your Kevin ... it's ok!! Let yourself be sad! For heaven's sake, if you can't feel awful about losing a child than the rest of us have no good reason for feeling bad about anything - ever!! Make no excuses. Let the emotions roll over you. Then remember you have your Chris, and your Gracie; and know that all the rest of us are here for you. I don't know if it will ever get any easier, I haven't had to experience the grief you are going through. But I do believe your faith can help you through it. Let it. Let us. Let go and believe. We love you.
- Saturday, May 20, 2006 9:10 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
I wish there was something that I could do to make you feel better about the loss of Kevin. I prayed that God might shine a little light on you to let you know how proud he is of you as a mother and that He understands your pain. I am sending you a hug and a smile. Love You.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Saturday, May 20, 2006 5:42 PM CDT
Oh sweetie, I'm just so sorry your having one of "those" days.
Please don't hesitate to call me if you ever need to talk to a mommy that lives those days too. 715-764-7676 and I have free long distance so I can always call you back.
BTW. I have a couple questions for you, could you please email me? kat_76_99@yahoo.com
Kathleen Evertsen <kat_76_99@yahoo.com>
Chetek, WI USA - Saturday, May 20, 2006 12:49 AM CDT
Please accept my sincere wishes for God's strength and love to help you through the loss of Kevin. I didn't know you or Kevin personally, but, your love and support for him set a standard that I personally pray that, under the same situation, I could emulate. God bless you and continue to support you.
Charles Christ <charleyec@aol.com>
Rockville, MD 20853 - Friday, May 19, 2006 5:18 PM CDT
Dear Karen, you will always think about Kevin and miss him but think also that he is with God looking at you, Chris and Grazie, with time I hope you will feel a little better, we all miss little Kevin, I would like one photo, let me know if you have one to give away, hope you have a nice weekend, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, May 19, 2006 2:54 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
Thoughts of Kevin will always be with you. Some days will be harder then others. Know that you and Chris being there with Kevin till the end was the greatest gift you could give him. May this some how help you get through those "funk" times. God and Kevin are with you every day.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 8:12 AM CDT
Well, I can tell you that I think it's normal. I get in funks like that where for days on end I just feel like poop. If you ever want to talk, feel free to give me a call
715-764-7676
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/alexanderevertsen
http://www.bubbasbears4chd.com
Kathleen Evertsen <kat_76_99@yahoo.com>
Chetek, WI USA - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 8:19 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
God loves you very much. He is watching over Kevin for you till you two meet again. Kevin is in good hands.
One day at a time is so easy to say, but it is so hard to get through. We love you and hope your week gets better.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 8:14 AM CDT
I'm sorry yesterday was so hard for you,Karen. I thought about you alot, and hoped that you were doing okay.
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
- Monday, May 15, 2006 1:41 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
Happy Mother's Day.
May God bless you as you go through your day.
Sister-in-law, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Sunday, May 14, 2006 9:17 AM CDT
Dear Karen,
I believe that it has been very therapeutic for you to write about Kevin and your feelings. I know from personal experiences with death that there are a few stages that people go through. I can tell you that the first year is extremely tough. Sometimes it can seem unbearable. Especially the holidays. Go through these times at your own pace. It will get better. I was cleaning and found a poem that I would like to share with you.
"Each Life is a Song"
A life is like a song we write
In our own tone and key,
Each life we touch reflects a note
That forms the melody.
We choose the theme and chorus
Of the song to bear our name,
And each will have a special sound
No two can be the same.
So when someone we love departs
In memory we find,
Their song plays on within the hearts
Of those they left behind.
Author Unknown
I continue to pray for you and your family. Kevin will always be with you.
Sandy Dindlebeck <dindlebeck@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Friday, May 12, 2006 5:25 PM CDT
Dear Karen, Chris, and Gracie,
I am glad you were able to attend the Memorial Service at Hopkins. They usually do a nice job, and it often helps some of the families (and staff) to do some healing. The death of a child is so painful to those who are left behind. It's good to share stories of the good times those children did have while they were here with us.
Do something nice for yourselves. Kevin would want you to. Karen, I know Mother's Day will be hard. You are right that being a mom is the most important job you have. You are still Gracie's and Kevin's mom. And they love you. Be at peace and enjoy your day.
Love to all of you,
Mary Kay
Mary Kay Alford <mkalford@jhmi.edu>
Pikesville, MD USA - Friday, May 12, 2006 4:15 PM CDT
Karen - It sounds like the memorial was really nice. I really like what the pastor said - looking at the past with gratitude and the future with hope. I like your motto also - 'it could always be worse.' Somehow when we are in an emotional state we can't think of what else we could be going through - we just think about how we feel and what we are facing. You just have to continie to hold onto the treasured memories!!! All the laughs (remember when Kevin went potty in the tub with you in it)!!! The countless smiles!!! God Bless you all!!
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Thursday, May 11, 2006 9:35 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I hope you have a peaceful Mother's Day, I hope you feel better, say hello to Chris and Grazie, hugs and kisses for you all, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Thursday, May 11, 2006 3:01 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
I am a friend and co-worker of Susanne Vermillion’s here in Atlanta, Georgia. She has been sharing with me your website and information about Kevin for quite a while now. I have silently read and prayed for you and your family many, many times over the course of Kevin’s illness. But always felt that I could never write the correct words or express what I felt to you properly, so opted to just keep Kevin in my heart and prayers. However, I did want take a brief moment just to tell you what admiration I have for you and to express my deepest sympathy for the loss of Kevin. I am one of many silent and unknown cheerleaders that Kevin had. And even though I never had the pleasure of meeting him, he touched my life so personally through his story that you will never know to what extent. I have a daughter that is almost two years old and each time I held her at bedtime, I would think of you, my heart would break and I would pray for Kevin’s recovery. I still think of him often. God had plans of his own for Kevin and I will look forward to meeting this little angel in another lifetime. You are still in my prayers, as well as the rest of your family. I pray that God will grant you strength and to ease the burden that you carry within.
Sincerely,
Sarah Satterfield
Sarah Satterfield <hayessarah@yahoo.com>
Atlanta, GA USA - Thursday, May 11, 2006 1:51 PM CDT
Dear Chris,
One day at a time, one step at a time. I am proud of you. I love you.
Your sister, Cathy
Dear Karen,
I am really proud of the way you are trying to take charge of your life. Your right: If you can't remember to take the pills then what good are they doing. I liked reading about how you are trying to eat better and ......exercice! That is always the hardest part. You are a busy wife and mother and I love you for your strength and courage. Your trying and that's what counts. YOU GO GIRL!
Mother's Day will be NO different then the rest of the holidays this year BECAUSE of Kevin. You know they will come but that is to much to think about. Just getting from one to the other is going to be hard enough. Just look at how far you have come is such a short time. Know that God and Kevin you with you every day. They will guide you, hold you up, give you a shoulder or just walk beside you. We all love you.
Sister-in-law, Cathy
Dear Grace,
You are right, Kevin can eat what ever he wants. He is an angel. Tell Kevin we love him and miss him.
Aunt, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Thursday, May 4, 2006 2:09 PM CDT
MUCH peace to you all. Kevin is always with you and will be with you on Mother's Day, too - no matter where you are. Cry when you want, laugh after you cry...you've been through a devastating loss. Gracie knows and sees....kids know. They do.
The Hamill's <sammy351@comcast.net>
, - Thursday, May 4, 2006 12:45 AM CDT
Good for Gracie ... she understands the simplest truths, and can pass them on to you. Know that she knows. Know that we care. Know that the love between you and Kevin will never end.
Peace to you all.
- Wednesday, May 3, 2006 8:57 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen,
Don't worry about the length of time since Kevin has moved on. That is to hard to do. Only deal with present time. If today you want to cry, listen to a sad song, play the video again by all means do them. They make you feel good that you have them. They keep your senses alive. They help keep Kevin alive. Love to you both, Cathy
Dear Grace,
I am so glad to read what your mommy writes about you. You are a very good big sister. I like it that Kevin visits you. I think he misses you. Tell him we all love him and miss him. Love, Aunt Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 4:24 PM CDT
Dear Karen, you made me cry with the words of that beautiful song, I hope you feel better, I'm always thinking about you, Kevin, Chris and Gracie, my regards and love to you all, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 2:18 PM CDT
Karen - what a great entry about Gracie talking to Kevin....kids are SO much more perceptive then we adults are, it is something we could stand to learn from them. Her openess is just another additive to the great parenting everyone knows you have and will continue to do...The butterfly was surely a sign from Kevin. Hope the mascara held up for the day.
Paula & Russ Hamill <sammy351@comcast.net>
Boyds, MD - Monday, May 1, 2006 9:57 PM CDT
Dear Grace,
Your little brother Kevin loves you very much. Kevin is in heaven with God and God lets Kevin visit you when you are sad. Tell Kevin that you miss him and you love him. That will make you feel better. Keep telling mommy when he is around. It makes her feel better too. Did Kevin give mommy a kiss? I hope he gave her a big kiss. Love, Aunt Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Wednesday, April 26, 2006 6:10 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen,
Last night while I was saying my prayers it hit me:
Kevin left holes in your hearts, spirits, souls and your beings. That is alot of damage. That damage comes from the amount of LOVE you both poured into your son. That damage will heal but it will take time. Waking up and going every day shows courage and strength. This is a sign that God has not left you. He loves you and will be with you every day. Chris and Karen God has not shut off your tears for a reason. It is so you cry as much as you want to. It is part of the healing process. If God took those tears away you would not be able to heal. Love, Cathy
P.S. The marker took my breath away.
Dear Grace,
You are a good girl. You know Kevin is there and watching over mommy and daddy. You keep telling mommy and daddy when Kevin is around. You keep telling them Kevin is OK. Kevin loved you very much and you will see him again someday. Love, Aunt Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Wednesday, April 26, 2006 8:25 AM CDT
The marker is beautiful! People will see that and stop to wonder at who is that beautiful boy and wonder how parents cope with such a loss.
lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Wednesday, April 26, 2006 4:11 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm sorry to see that you are still suffering, I hope you can find peace, I know it will take time, is a big loss but you can be sure that you and Chris were excellent parents, unfortunately Kevin was too sick, think that now he is with God and he is not suffering any more, now you have Gracie, your family and friends, I really hope that with time you will start to feel better, I'm always checking, keep writing, my love, hugs and kisses for you, Chris and Gracie, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, April 25, 2006 11:00 AM CDT
Hi Karen~
I was just listening to NPR, to a Senator who had lost his son also. One of the things he said that gets him through the hard times, when he is deep in grief, is to attempt to feel grateful for the times he had with his son. I know that you certainly are grateful, and I can only imagine how difficult it must be to deal with your grief, but I could almost hear him smile, as he described how he had to make a concerted effort to be grateful for his son, and it ALWAYS end up that he is smiling instead of crying. I just heard that and thought of you. You are an inspiration to me, for all that you did, and continue to do, for your kids. Hang in there.
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
- Monday, April 24, 2006 11:00 AM CDT
Dear Karen, Chris, and Gracie,
I read the webiste every couple of days, just to check and see how you all are doing. Karen does a great job of letting us take a peek into your lives and see how things are going. I know that Kevin's death is very hard for all of you to take, and that you will miss him soooooooo much for a long time. But you really are working this out, and finding a way to live without him (although he really is with you always). I think Kevin would be happy at the little things that you do, that show you are trying to go on with living. That's what he'd want you to do. And you are keeping his memory alive with your love every day. Karen, I can't wait to see this beautiful ring! So happy that Chris got that for you; how thoughtful!
Dear Kevin, your Mommy, Daddy, and Gracie miss you so much. They are sad that they don't get to see you anymore, but they know that you will always live in their hearts and memories. We are all glad that you are not going through any more medical problems, and hope that if we are very good we will one day get to see you again in Heaven.
Mary Kay Alford <mkalford@jhmi.edu>
Pikesville, MD USA - Monday, April 24, 2006 9:25 AM CDT
Karen and family - you sure do have some great friends who have lent so much support to you all, in many ways, during this tradgedy of Kevin's death. We all know things like this just aren't supposed to happen at all. The number of people who have visited, read and written on this site speak volumes about how Kevin has touched their lives. It is simply breathtaking. You have allowed all this to happen and all these people to experience the feelings of love and loss. You have done everything right by Kevin, Chris and Gracie and they have all done right by you, too. Be proud of all you did and continue to do, your family has raised a lovely daughter who has in turn married a great guy and raised two lovely children who will BOTH continue to bring you joy (in real life and in memories) for years to come - until you meet in Heaven - which, yes, does exist. I know from my work that there is a reason for all endings and that Kevin's life ending here brought a new beginning above....it's not what you wanted - or any of your family and friends and doctors or even God....but is was what God knew was right. Keep getting through the day. Think of something to make you laugh, after you cry....always.
Paula & Russ Hamill <sammy351@comcast.net>
Boyds, MD USA - Sunday, April 23, 2006 10:43 PM CDT
Karen - We've been thinking about you, Chris, Gracie and Kevin lately. I was so sorry to hear that he passed away. He couldn't have asked for anyone better to take care of him here on earth than you guys. You did everything and more for your little boy.
Sharon, Anthony, Isabel, Tony and Eva Simpson <sharons@mafcu.org>
Portsmouth, VA - Sunday, April 23, 2006 2:27 PM CDT
Karen - I have and will continue to tell you - that you are an amazing mom. We can all continue to tell you - how we all observed through this journal how unselfishly you did everything in your might and power to provide for Kevin's every want and need (how many cars did you have promised to him???). When I would read about you taking Kevin and Gracie to the park or just taking Gracie to ballet or out to a movie (ha ha - great experience) after a full day of work and/or knowing that you had a new nurse coming that evening so you would probably be up half the night also - or not even knowing if a nurse was going to show that night - YOU STILL PUT YOUR CHILDRENS WANTS AND NEEDS FIRST. I would always think, where does she get her energy? - i would have wanted to just veg on the couch. You would even have both kids in the tub with you when you would have loved to just take a bath alone. We all know that you did everything you could for Kevin and you did it all with excellence and precision to ensure he had the best possible care ever!!! And like you said, we can all tell you the good things we see in you, but you have to see them in yourself!!! I think it is great that you are able to continue to share with all of us. Kevin still lives on in everyone of our hearts and I think it is great that the caring bridge continues. It is actually kind of funny because I almost feel like I kind of know some of the people who post entries in the guest book regularly. I know that you will have good days and bad - and I want you to know that I am here for you no matter what kind of day it is. I am coming in town in a few days so I will give you a call.
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Friday, April 21, 2006 10:13 PM CDT
Hi Karen - Its me again Dee (smile) I wanted Judy to know that her last entry was so heartwarming. It really touched me in a way that noone could ever imagine. I too told you that Kevin could not have had a more loving caring mommy, daddy, sister, family. He knows that as well as we do. I am so glad that Judy was able to see everything first handed. Its hard and will be hard for a long long time. I agree with every single word that she said. Chris the world's greatest daddy,and Gracie the best sister that any person could ask for. Don't you worry girlfriend, Kevin may be gone from our presence but "NEVER" "EVER" will he be forgotten. Always remember that we love you, Chris and Gracie. When you cry we cry. When you smile we smile. Stay strong and GOD will see you through.
Your Sister in Christ
Dee (Nana's co-worker) <dee_ coates-nr@raytheon.com>
Capitol Heights, MD US - Friday, April 21, 2006 3:06 PM CDT
Karen,
First and foremost you do not have a degree in medicine; you are a MOM, and a very good one at that! You need to stop thinking so negatively. Let me pat you on your back for once.
Karen living on the same street as you I was fortunate enough to see you with Kevin and let me tell you what I saw. I saw you his mom totally and unselfishly in love with him and doing all that you could to protect him! You mentioned the rashes and how you could possibly prevented them, well your memory is a little clouded because I remember how his poop was like acid and no matter how fast you changed him he still had it and it was awful. I remember how YOU his mom stayed on top of everything from his medicine, food and all of his appointments. All while holding down a job, having Grace and a husband too. The pressure you must have felt and still feel is unimaginable. But I was there and saw more than most! You are so courageous and you and your husband were the best fighters Kevin could have ever had (what a complement from God).
Kevin was not in pain you saw to that, and you need to remember it! There were times he was uncomfortable until you or the doctors could figure out what was wrong but it was never for long and you were a pro with the medicine levels to make sure he did not suffer.
Karen I love Kevin too and I miss him, but I am most thankful that you were his mom because you took such wonderful care of him. You did as much as you could, of that I am certain. The time that you could not be at the hospital with him he was being taken care of by all of his girlfriends and if they weren’t his girlfriends they were trained professionals who had to follow protocol which you know they did. I was able to sneak in and see Kev in the hospital and at home and I never saw a boy that was in pain or uncomfortable for any length of time.
He did not mind being at the hospital you know that, you saw how he was when you got there or when you left. So cut yourself a slack burger. You did the best job you could do!!!!!! Kevin was in the best hands possible here on earth and I am at peace with that but you need to be too. You never second guessed yourself when he was here, you knew you were doing all you could for him at every moment! You need to remember that.
Even the care he got at home with the nurses, sure some of them screwed up and you dealt with it but you know it was never on purpose and those that took care of him really did love him.
I remember all of the fun times I had with you son and it really helps. Now close your eyes and picture your dad walking in your living room. You and Kev on the couch and what do you see? Yep, your laughing I am sure of it! Because you know the first thing he did was close those eyes and blow his raspberries to his pop.
I hope I did not overstep my bounds but I think you needed to hear this. You did nothing wrong my dear all that you have done is to be commended!!! I love you! Ju
Judy Hanger <judy.hanger@montgomerycountymd.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Thursday, April 20, 2006 10:16 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I hope you start feeling a little better, is a big loss, I know, we all miss Kevin and I think we will always remember him but now he is in heaven and we have to think that he is enjoying being with God and looking at us, he will be near you always, don't worry. Try walking outside now that the weather is better, I think it will make you feel a little better, I hope. Take care, my love to you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 11:13 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen,
I've been checking in on you guys. You are both doing great to all of us. We understand those rough days and that is why we all send our love your way. You both follow directions very well... ONE DAY AT A TIME, ONE STEP AT A TIME. It is hard to do but, from what I hear and what I read you are both VERY strong. Love, Cathy
Dear Kevin,
Your Mommy and Daddy are doing O.K. They miss you so very much. Your sister Grace is doing fine. She helps mommy all the time. Keep watch over them and help them each day. May thoughts of you bring a smile to their faces every day.
We all miss you very much. Love, Aunt Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Monday, April 17, 2006 6:38 PM CDT
Karen,
I have been thinking about all of you a lot. The first holiday, the first everything without Kevin will be tough on all of you. I wish you continued peace on this long hard journey. I know Kevin's spirit is with you.
Have a good Easter.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Saturday, April 15, 2006 2:52 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you all know that I am still checking in, thinking of and praying for you. It is a glorious day out, and I just know Kevin is soaring through the beautiful blue sky, scattering angel dust wherever he goes. Hang in there.
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
- Saturday, April 15, 2006 9:56 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm glad you are feeling a little better, it will take time, hang in there, Kevin is in good hands with God, I keep reading your journal, I think that makes me feel a little better too, I will always remember Kevin, the same with you, Chris and Gracie, you all will be in my thoughts and prayers, love, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, April 14, 2006 2:20 PM CDT
Hey Karen, Chris and Gracie....Your journal entries are just beautiful, from the beginning to today. Everything you've captured about Kevin and your family has touched the hearts of so many. Russ and I and the kids pray for you to have the strength, courage and faith to push through each day....I hear the kids pray for "Kevin in Heaven" each night when I stand at their doors. Keep taking one day at a time. Paula & Russ Hamill
Paula Hamill <sammy351@comcast.net>
Boyds, MD USA - Thursday, April 13, 2006 4:47 PM CDT
I received your link via email and wanted to tell you I enjoyed reading your journal, your Kevin seemed to encounter a lot of things our Alex did.
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/alexanderevertsen
Kathleen Evertsen <kat_76_99@yahoo.com>
Chetek, WI USA - Thursday, April 13, 2006 3:50 PM CDT
Karen, Our thanks to you and your Mom for dinner between Marti's viewing cannot be expressed in words. Your strength is inspiring to me and helps me. Marti is playing with Kevin and hugging him. Hugs to you, Martha
Martha Neal <marthaneal@gmpexpress.net>
- Wednesday, April 12, 2006 8:19 PM CDT
Hang in here, you are doing OK. We all love you and are there for you when needed.
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD - Wednesday, April 12, 2006 9:15 AM CDT
You're doing alright, Karen. One little step at a time. I think about Kevin (and you guys) all the time.
Love,
Uncle Tim
- Tuesday, April 11, 2006 9:50 PM CDT
Hi Karen,
Ron and I are thinking about your family and will contact you later. We read this pretty much every few days.
Anneke and Ron Reed <Anneke.Heyliger@montgomerycountymd.Gov>
Gaithersburg, md USA - Monday, April 10, 2006 2:17 PM CDT
A candle here in Australia burns for Kevin, our prayers are also with Kevin and your family Karen as you go through life's changes. We always think of you guys.
All our love........
Leisa, Adrian, Jordan (AGS) & Harrison <msleiann@iprimus.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Monday, April 10, 2006 7:31 AM CDT
Hi Karen - One reason I believe in heaven is because of what Jesus said in John chapter 14 - "Let not your heart be troubled: you believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there you may be also." And John 3:16 says, "Fod God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in him, shall not perish, but have everlasting life." So I figure Kevin has his own mansion in heaven that God has prepared for him - full of toys and books and music and all kinds of neat things - and he can play whenever he wants to and the Lord and all his angels are taking care of him and holding him and loving him until you can see him again. You are all in my prayers. Sue Snyder
Sue Snyder <Bobsueduo@comcast.net>
Gaithersburg, MD USA - Sunday, April 9, 2006 9:48 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I was out of the country due to a family emergency, I see that you are still not feeling too well, it will take time, I will always remember Kevin and he and you, Chris and Gracie will be always in my thoughts and prayers, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, April 7, 2006 12:08 AM CDT
Karen,
I would like to talk to you via e-mails. If you are OK with it, please wrhite to me.
Dessi Whitehurst <dwhitehurst@totalsiteteam.com>
- Friday, April 7, 2006 9:34 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen - I still pray for you guys all the time. I ask that God will grant you peace and relieve some of your suffering. I also think of Kevin a lot and if I'm having a problem, I pray to him for help. He's my little St. Kevin. I picture him in Mary's arms, and in the arms of John Paul II. I actually picture him as an angel with wings! It brings me some comfort. I know he will ask God, on your behalf, to give you some relief from pain. You and your family will stay in my prayers.
Pat Becker
- Thursday, April 6, 2006 4:30 PM CDT
Dear Chris, Karen and Gracie: Just wanted to drop you a quick note to let you know Darlene, Kristen, Jimmy and I are still thinking of and praying for you each and every day. I hope you all had a good trip and enjoyed yourselves as much as possible. I know you have been through much so continue to be strong and know that you are not alone. We will continue to pray for you and do all we can to support you.
Eric Maxfield
Dayton, MD - Thursday, April 6, 2006 9:17 AM CDT
Dear Karen- I sit here and read your entry with tears streaming down my face because my heart aches for you. I wish that I could somehow help subside your pain. I can not imagine your hurt right now but I pray that God will mend your broken heart. I pray that God helps you to forgive yourself for everything that you feel you should of done. Karen you are the most amazing mother that I know and I am not just saying this to make you feel better - I am saying it because I mean it. You gave of your whole self to take care of Kevin and you did an excellent job too!!!! No mother can be with their child 24 hours a day - but Karen you were there for Kevin continuously day in and day out, loving him, caring for him, and watching over him and making sure that he had the best possible care ever. You are a fantastic mom! I can't wait to see you!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, mo - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 10:25 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
Your loss is a GREAT loss. This was not something that happened all of a sudden. You had time with your child. You had time to know him and to LOVE him. You had time to comfort him and to fight for him. You had sleepless nights and still found time to put him in time out. I don't know if you know this but what a "WONDEERFUL MOM" you are. Because of all of this your time to heal will take time. One day at a time, one step at a time. Your time with Kevin went by so fast, so why won't the time to heal go as fast. It can't because you LOVED KEVIN and it's that love that has to heal. With all my heart as a mother I LOVE YOU.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 4:50 PM CDT
Hi Karen,
This is the first time I've written in your/Kevin's guess book but after reading your last entrance I thought I needed to. I will never know the pain you and your family have endored I can only imagine. You have been so strong thoughout all of this and I do not know how you did it, but as a mother myself we often do things that are necessary to go on. It was very sad the day Gwen told us about Kevin passing and my heart instandly went out to you and your family but especially you, losing a child that has been a part of your life for 2 1/2 years and finally having to let go was a very brave thing for you all to do. Kevin is doing very well in God's hands, he is smiling down on you and your family.
I will continue to pray for you so you all will get the strengh you need to go on daily.
Vickie S. <vickie.schofield@verizon.net>
Laurel, MD - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 6:16 PM CDT
Welcome back! It sounds like Grace had a great time. I, too, have been thinking about Kevin alot. I wear that pin you gave to us to work. It reminds me that Kevin is watching over me and all the babies I'm taking care of that day. Love you guys!! We have to meet up for dinner sometime. You pick the place and time and we'll be there!!
Julia RN
Baltimore, MD - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 3:22 PM CDT
Dear Karen, Chris, and Gracie,
Welcome home. I am glad you all made it back here, safe and sound. Karen, I know you were not able to fully enjoy the vacation, but I think you and your family needed the break, the change of pace. It sounds like it was good for all of you. Don't be in too much of a hurry to get "back to normal". Things are not going to be normal for a while. There is a natural process of mourning to go through, and a period of time is needed to help make the loss of your son a little easier to bear. One day, not too far from now, you will think of him and smile, instead of crying. The hurt will lessen, I think, and the happy times will be the fond memories you hold near and dear. My prayers are with all of you as you go through this period. It will get better. Be kind to yourself. We are all here for you.
Love,
Mary Kay
Mary Kay Alford <mkalford@jhmi.edu>
Pikesville, MD USA - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 7:56 AM CDT
Hi Karen, Chris and Gracie. Glad to hear that you all made it back home safe and sound. I like many others still go to this website daily. Its just automatic. I know its hard for you, but do know that we your website family pray for each of you every day. Its hard for us too, but way near as hard as it is for you and your family. In time you will begin to feel better. Its just part of a healing process that is going to take some time. Its been 11 years since my grandma passed and believe it or not, I still have my moments. I often smell her especially when I'm in church. It's like she's sitting right there beside me. Don't worry we are all here for you all.
Love Always
Odarise (Dee) Coates (Nana's co-worker)
Capitol Heights, MD US - Monday, April 3, 2006 1:04 PM CDT
Karen, I like so many read this journal everyday. It has been apart of my morning for 2 years. It has been such a testimony to you and your family of love and strength. I think it is an important story to keep and share. Do keep this journal, it is so powerful so full of hope, love and courage. Hold on strong to your faith and Kevin’s memory.
Lesley pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Monday, April 3, 2006 4:43 AM CDT
dear mr and mrs mclane,
i am so sorry for your loss. in my line of work i meet a lot of parents who have sick children but few are as devoted as you both were to kevin.he touched many hearts even though his time here on earth was brief.just remember he may be gone but he will be with you always...in your heart.i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers..god bless
sharon popp <shar4po@aol.com>
baltimore, md - Saturday, April 1, 2006 9:05 PM CST
Karen - yes i still check the journal as it has been part of my daily routine. Now i am checking it to see how you and the family are doing. We know that Kevin is no longer in pain, he is jumping,running and playing with all of the other children. I am praying for you and the family and I hope that you have a good time at Disney - I know Gracie will love it. I know you wish that Kevin was there with you - but he will forever go wherever you go as you carry him so close to your heart. Love ya girl
Dawn
PS- if you read this before you leave - the best place to see ALL of the characters together is at Epcot - they get off the bus near the front entrance on the other side of the huge globe thing. Also - Gracie would love the princess breakfast which is also at Epcot - make reservations as soon as you get there.
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Monday, March 27, 2006 4:43 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris- I was saddened to hear of Kevin's passing. He was an Angel on Earth, and now he is an Angel in Heaven. My deepest sympathies are with you in this time of sorrow.
Sherri Strach
- Monday, March 27, 2006 3:13 PM CST
Dear Karen, just checking to see if you wrote something and I'm sorry to see that you are not feeling well, yes, it will take time, is a big loss, you will be in my thoughts and prayers and I really hope you feel better, say hello to Chris and Gracie, keep writing, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, March 24, 2006 5:27 PM CST
Hello, Just by habit I keep checking out the journal and was so pleased you had written something in it. I was so happy to meet you, to see the parents that were so strong and so loving and it broke my heart to see you in such pain.The love you had for Kevin and the love everyone else had for him permeated through the funeral home, and it was obvious that so many people cared. What a tribute to a small child. Take care and God Bless.
Bonnie McMahon
Bonnie McMahon <bmcmahon@phillips.com>
Laurel, MD - Friday, March 24, 2006 10:00 AM CST
Hi Karen,
I continue to think of and pray for you and your family. I still find myself checking Kevin's website several times a day, as it has been part of my routine for the past couple of years. Please know that Kevin was so very lucky to have you for his family, as you were to have him. Time will heal your pain. If there is anything that I can do, please do not hesitate to contact me.
Jessie
Jessie <zazu4@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD - Thursday, March 23, 2006 4:52 PM CST
Hello Karen, I felt compelled to visit this site. I needed to know that you were still connected. Thank you. I know you are going through it right now. I just wanted to tell you that you are strong, blessed and loved. I hope you know this.
Time is all we can pray for at this moment, because time is what is going to ease your pain. I'm glad to know that you are still able to cry; that is a vessel for getting it out, let it out.
Thank you for not letting go with Gracie at least that one night. Be honored that Chris is there for you to release your pain too. Chris you are also a blessing in this.
Hold fast to your family and pray for your time to come when the pain will ease. Me and my family are praying with you.
I love your strength, conviction and dedication, that is a testament to the love you have for Kevin. I'm glad to hear that Gracie is making it through. She probably knows that her little brother watches over her.
Kevin...Good night little Angel.
Rose Handon-Brown <Tempisg@wsscwater.com>
Laurel, Md USA - Thursday, March 23, 2006 4:16 PM CST
Karen - I can not even come close to imagine the pain, hurt, loss or emptiness that you are feeling. My heart goes out to you! I am praying for you often. Kevin was your every waking moment and now you have so much time that you don't know what to do - or you don't care to do much of anything. My heart aches for you Karen. I hope that you all have a wonderful time with Gracie on your trip. I am going to be in town the last week in April and would love to come by and visit. Take care and know that I love you and am praying for you.
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Thursday, March 23, 2006 12:42 AM CST
We continue to pray for you. I offer the words of the prophet Isaiah for encouragement: "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways," declares the LORD. "As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts."
And for a sense of victory, a quote from C.S. Lewis: "[Satan's] cause is never more in danger than when a human, no longer desiring, but still intending, to do [God's] will, looks round upon a universe from which every trace of Him seems to have vanished, and asks why he has been forsaken, and still obeys."
Remain in Him. He will see you through until you hold Kevin again.
Jamie Stenger <mjstenger@netzero.com>
Urbandale, IA USA - Thursday, March 23, 2006 5:59 AM CST
Dear Karen, I went to the viewing on Wednesday night and it was so emotional for me to see Kevin, he looked so beautiful and to see you, Chris and Gracie, I saw the videos, I felt so many emotions, I couldn't go to the funeral but you all were in my thoughts and prayers and you will always be, I will miss and remember Kevin always, I hope you, Chris and Gracie feel better and have a nice time on your trip, love, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, March 22, 2006 3:41 PM CST
Dear Karen, Chris, and Gracie,
Kevin's funeral Mass was really beautiful. I felt like we were all sharing something very special with all of Kevin's family and friends. The priest gave a wonderful homily, and your sister gave a very special eulogy.
I know that these times are very difficult for all of you, as you will miss Kevin so much... For so long caring for him was your main focus. Now you are going to have to regroup and learn a new way to live. That will be a long process for all of you, I think. But know that God is with you, that you have friends who are still here for you, and that Kevin will always be with you.
God bless,
Mary Kay
Mary Kay Alford <mkalford@jhmi.edu>
Baltimore, MD USA - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 8:50 AM CST
All our love and Prayers!
Love, The Walter's
Christa Leigh Walter
Loney, MD USA - Monday, March 20, 2006 4:15 PM CST
Hello Chris, Karen and Gracie,
Our family continues to pray for all of you everyday. When I look up Kevin's website, AJ gets so excited to see Kevin's picture. He starts shouting Baby, in his own special way. The pictures at the viewing were beautiful as well as the video. I was amazed at all of the special touches. Kevin was loved by so many people and I feel blessed to have met him and your wonderful family. I am so sorry we were unable to attend the funeral on Thursday. We plan to visit Kevin at Gate of Heaven soon. Please call if you need anything. God Bless you all.
Melanie, Howard, Jordan and AJ
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Monday, March 20, 2006 12:16 AM CST
Dear Chris, Karen and Gracie,
I have been hoping that you all were doing okay. It sounds like Kevin's service was just lovely. I would imagine that you have to get used to a "new normal". It's good that the three of you are going to get away. We think of you and Kevin a lot, and will continue to have you in our prayers and thoughts. When you get a chance, we would love to have one of Kevin's prayer cards: 2104 Harbor Drive, Annapolis, MD 21409
Hang in there,
Tania
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Monday, March 20, 2006 7:37 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen: You two did a phenomenal job this past week. You should be incredibly proud of yourselves. Every aspect of your son's funeral service was exquisite. I, personally, was quite blown away with all that was going on - but wanted to let you know, here on Kevin's website (for everyone to see), that i was honored - very honored - to take part in resting your son in PEACE.
Kevin Christopher McLane has a legacy to carry on. I think his legacy will vary based on the life he's touched, but for Uncle Tim, his legacy is one of utter proudness. So Proud.
Man...what a gift!
With Great Love... Uncle Tim
- Sunday, March 19, 2006 11:34 PM CST
TO Chris,Karen and Gracie McLane sorry for your lost chris and karen my prayers are with you and your family may God keep his arms wrapped around you in your time of sorrow love you zina. from the clerical staff on CMSC6
Zina B Brown <zinablessed1@verizon.net>
baltimore, md - Friday, March 17, 2006 6:38 PM CST
sorry for your lost chris and karen my prayers are with you and your family may God keep his arms wrapped around you in your time of sorrow love you zina.
Zina B Brown <zinablessed1@verizon.net>
baltimore, md - Friday, March 17, 2006 6:15 PM CST
Dear Karen, Chris, Gracie and all of Kevin's family and friends...I am so very sorry I was not able to come to either Kevin's viewing or his funeral, but you may be sure all of you were (and continue to be) in my thoughts and prayers. Kevin has a special spot in Heaven and will be a Guardian Angel for you as you were for him in his life. Although he had little time here on earth, Kevin touched the lives of many. May God bless each of you and grant you peace, Sharon
Sharon Strobel (Johns Hopkins) <sstrobel@jhmi.edu>
Baltimore, MD - Thursday, March 16, 2006 1:09 PM CST
Although we were unable to attend the viewing or the funeral, our thoughts are prayers were with you during this time. All our best to you in this difficult time. We will never forget Kevin or what you have done for him.
Nancy & Ron Corazzi
Ellicott City, MD 21042 - Thursday, March 16, 2006 12:07 AM CST
Karen and family:
Yours is an incredible journey that is not yet over. Your precious little angel was on earth for just a short time, but it is obvious from the many notes that he left a large foot print on the hearts of many. At times of great trials such as this we may ask, "why us, God, why my son". Our Lord truly works in mysterious ways. Your beautiful son and his loving devoted parents are and will continue to be an inspiration to everyone whose lives were touched. You will be a source of great strength to those going down the same path in their own lives. I thank you for sharing these most private moments, it is a most unselfish gift. Please take some comfort in the realization that God has chosen you, your baby and your family to show and share us all His mysteries and great love. I have not lost a child, but did send my loving Husband home over 10 years ago and know the pain of being left behind. The road ahead will be full of pot holes, but you have many people who are here to help pick you up and move forward. You have a beautiful little girl who will give you more strength than you could ever imagine. Cherish her, live your lives as Kevin would have wanted and plant a tree in his memory. Nurture it, feed it and watch it grow. As this tree grows and thrives, your pain will be replaced with wonderful, loving memories. You never forget and do not want to, but it evolves into peaceful, precious memories that will last your lifetime. May God Bless you and your family with strength, courage, and peace.
Mary Anne
Mary Anne Mazzarino, MAES/IAMB <mazzarinom@niaid.nih.gov>
Locust Grove, VA U.S. - Thursday, March 16, 2006 7:59 AM CST
It was good to see you both and meet Chris officially for the first time today. Thank you for sharing the movie/slideshow with everyone. Kevin was truly blessed to have such wonderful parents. Even though Kevin will always have a special place in your hearts, I hope that over time you will find peace knowing that he is in a better place. Kevin has a special place in more hearts and has touched more lives than you will ever know. If there is anything that I can do to make this time at all easier for you, please do not hesitate to contact me.
Jessie Fell <zazu4@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 15, 2006 10:29 PM CST
Tawny and I wish any sadness both of you withhold leaves you without pain in Kevin's passing. No more needles, no more pain, no more crying. He plays now on God's playground, giggling and talking with other babies in their own special way that they do.
Marcus J Tremblay <campeak@msn.com>
Silver Spring, Md USA - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 4:10 PM CST
Dear Karen,
I learned about your website through a colleague at work and oh, how the familiar feelings came rushing back to me--I lost my infant son, Jason Patrick, many years ago. You *will* go on, Karen, and your son will remain a part of you forever. I did, indeed, go on and I had another baby boy and his name is, yes, Kevin. By the way, I think it's wonderful that you've got all these pictures of your dear little Kevin. That is one thing I always wish I had--a picture of my first-born son. Feel free to contact me if you'd like. I am deeply sorry for your loss.
--Denise
Denise Woods <VunderMum@AOL.Com>
North Potomac, MD USA - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 3:13 PM CST
Karen, Chris, and Gracie:
No words we say can take away the pain of losing a child. The best we can do is give our warm regards, smpathy, thoughts, and prayers to you and your family. I was hoping that little Kevin could hold on in time for the bike run that we were planning. I am speaking on behalf of the entire Harley Owners Group when we say we are so, so sorry for your loss. God has called his child to be with him in heaven, and for that, you can feel a little comfort. The road ahead will still be filled with emptiness, but with the help of loved ones and friends; you,your husband, and little Gracie will pull through this diffcult time. We will post a picture of your little baby in rememberance. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Our first group ride will be dedicated to the life and memory of Kevin. Should you need anything at all, please contact me.
With Sympathy
Ed & Therese Chaney
Allen & Shariff Corp.
Edward M. Chaney <echaney@allenshariff.com>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 1:28 PM CST
My fianc'e and I send our condolences. Your family will be in our prayers.
Darriyell Honaker <dhonaker@vrtch.com>
Waldorf, MD USA - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 12:36 AM CST
Karen and Chris - My heart continues to ache for you all - and little Gracie too. How sweet she is!! You just never know how their little minds process such heart ache and loss. I am continually praying for your family and wish that I could be there with you today and the days to come. I am not able to travel out there at this time but will be out there next month and would love to come by and visit. It was such an honor to walk through the last two years of Kevin's life with you all and a privelage to get to meet him that one time - He is a remarkable young man that has had a tremendous impact on many lives! I love you all and will continue to pray for you! Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 10:39 AM CST
My deepest sorrow and sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your beautiful baby boy. God is really taking care of that little guy. God bless you and your family always.
Patricia King <pk101t@nih.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 7:20 AM CST
BTW Karen and Chris,
Here in the great land of OZ a fortnight equates two weeks!
Your fortnight has been one of love, strength and courage and my heart is with you guys at this time. Our Alagille babies are so precious and travel an enormous journey - some even become beautiful angels to watch over us.
Lots of love........ your new friend..........
Leisa Bate <msleiann@iprimus.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 6:52 AM CST
May the angels watch over you in the coming days.
As I am sure Kevin is watching over you all.
All my love, thoughts and prayers..... Leisa Bate
Mother of Alagille's son <msleiann@iprimus.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 6:23 AM CST
Karen and Chris- It is parents like you two that making caring for kids so wonderful. You have the most amazing dedication and compassion for Kevin. Words cannot express my sympathy for you and your family. Please know that the nurses that cared for Kevin keep a wonderful memory of him in their hearts. You are all in my prayers. Heather, RN
Heather Ackerman, RN <HeatherP418@hotmail.com>
Westminster, MD USA - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 2:58 PM CST
Karen. My deepest sympathy. You are in my prayers.
Kay McIver
Bethesda, MD USA - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 12:16 AM CST
Chris & Karen...I am so sorry for your loss. Allthough I never had the pleasure of meeting Kevin, I've followed his remarkable journey thru Tim's emails. I will continue to pray for Kevin, and your family, and hope that you will find comfort in knowing that he is with God and no longer suffering. Reading thru all of the touching remarks in this journal, one can't help but realize how Kevin touched so many lives in such a brief time on this Earth. My heart goes out to you.
~Tony
Tony Potter <anthony.j.potter@medstar.net>
Annapolis, MD - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 9:15 AM CST
that was a very touching story and i just want to say i'm very sorry about your little boy i'm praying for you and your family and everybody that was touched by the story god bless you all
Keith D. Hyman <keiferd11@aol.com>
- Monday, March 13, 2006 6:26 PM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
My my my...What an extremely mature young child you have on your hands. I could just picture Grace's little mind trying to make sense and sort all the information she was receiving. She is very smart. You should be very proud of her. Praying for you...One day at a time. Love, Cathy
P.S. Went on the web-site and found it to be helpful.
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, March 13, 2006 4:35 PM CST
Dear Chris, Karen, Grace, Nana Anne & family,
There are just no words to say how truly sorry I am for your loss. May knowing your little Kevin is now free of sickness and pain, and playing in the clouds of heaven with Jesus by his side bring you peace. Thank you for sharing with us the journey of your lives with Kevin - I have never seen a greater expression of love.
"Let the little children come to me,
and do not hinder them,
for the kingdom of God
belongs to such as these.
I tell you the truth,
anyone who will not receive
the kingdom of God
like a little child
will never enter it."
And he took the children
in his arms, put his hands on them
and blessed them.
Mark 10:13-16
Jane
Sioux Falls, SD - Monday, March 13, 2006 3:50 PM CST
Hi, I am Jennifer Drecchio. I am Naneen's step-daughter. She has kept me informed of all of the successes and relapses of your son's illnesses for the past 2 years. I am deeply and truly sorry for the loss of your son. You are obviously a very faithful person and I admire you for your strength. Hopefully we will meet some day. Sincerely, The Drecchio Family
Jennifer Drecchio <duckhook2005@yahoo.com>
Millers, md u.s.a - Monday, March 13, 2006 1:10 PM CST
Dear Karen, Chris, Gracie, Rainie, & Tom - I just wanted to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. I cannot imagine how deep the pain must run. I never got to meet Kevin but I'm sure he was beautiful as are all of you. I miss you all very much and think of you often.
Debby McMurray <dmcmurray@rvfd.org>
Gaithersburg, MD USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 1:07 PM CST
I recently saw Kevin when I visited the 6th floor, it had been over a year since I had seen him last. I was so happy to see him again. He was out of his crib in Julia's arms. I will always remember him that way. There are no words which ease the loss of a child, please know that I will pray for your family to find peace. Maggie, RN
Maggie Burk, RN <martin.maggie@verizon.net>
Baltimore, MD - Monday, March 13, 2006 12:42 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris, and Gracie,
I am so very sorry for your great loss. Kevin will always hold a special place in my heart, and in the hearts of many people. He was such an amazing little boy! Know that he is certainly in Heaven right now, and that he is no longer suffering. You will be in my prayers, as you work through the difficult days ahead. Please be at peace.
Sincerely,
Mary Kay
Mary Kay Alford <mkalford@jhmi.edu>
Baltimore, MD USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 8:29 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris and Gracie-
Kevin's life and your care of him have been an inspiration to so many. thank you for sharing this struggle with us all and allowing us the privilage to pray for this little guy. Allow the tears to flow - even "Jesus wept." I pray these tears will begin to heal your soul. You did everything humanly possible and then some more.......Kevin's life has had such a GREAT purpose in so little time...more so than you will ever know. Your story of love and dedication have moved so many people to do more as well. We will continue to pray as your heart heals.....in time. I will miss this little guy! Much love and prayers - Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD NIH - Monday, March 13, 2006 5:39 AM CST
Karen, Chris, Gracie, Raine, Tom and all of the family:
Words are so inefficient at a time like this. You all are an inspiration to everyone in the way you have taken on and faced this trial and hardship. I know all of the wonderful memories will carry you through. May the good Lord lighten your burden.
With loving prayers aand warm hugs,
Martha and Jim Neal <marthaneal@gmpexpress.net>
Hollywood, MD - Sunday, March 12, 2006 8:17 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
Words can not express my sorrow. You both have been through so much. I am deeply sorry for your loss of Kevin. Please know that many, many people are here to support you. I would like to thank you for letting us follow your journey. Take comfort in knowing that Kevin is no longer in pain and is now your special guardian angel. My prayers are with you and your family.
Sandy Dindlebeck <dindlebeck@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Sunday, March 12, 2006 10:32 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris, Gracie, Rainie and Tom,
We prayed for Kenin in church this morning as they said he had died. My heart aches for all of you. Such great family you are.....and how fortunate you are that he touched your lives. May you all find peace.
Ellie McCurley <macellie@aol.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Sunday, March 12, 2006 8:47 AM CST
To have been able to watch my brother, Chris, and his wife, Karen, grow in ways I, personally, could probably never fathom - and to know that "it'll be OK..." makes me so filled with admiration. Without gushing too much i simply wanted to tell you here, Chris and Karen - that I love you both wholeheartedly and you make me (and our families and loved ones) feel incredibly proud. I wish i could've done more. You two are truly blessed and there are many people to easily remind you of that - even in the midst of such sadness and grief. Godspeed.
Tim McLane <mclat4@hotmail.com>
Calvert County, MD - Saturday, March 11, 2006 2:54 AM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. I can not imagine you heart ache. I hope God is with you through these trying times. I know he has been with you through your difficult journey. God bless your family and keep you strong!
Marti Cain and family <marti.cain@comcast.net>
Silver Spring, MD USA - Saturday, March 11, 2006 2:36 AM CST
Karen, Chris and Gracie,
Oh how we love you all. How I wish I could have been there to hug, hold and cry with you . That little guy was put here for a pupose, we might never know what that was but we do know that he touched hundreds of people.He will live on in so many.You did such a wonderful job taking care of, loving and" grounding " Kevin.God picked the perfect parents for this heartaching task. God bless you and be with you through this trying time.
Your in our prayers !
In Christs Love,
Anita & Frank
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 9:36 PM CST
To my brother, Chris and his loving wife, Karen,
It is with the deepest saddness that I send you my sympathy for the loss of your son, Kevin. There is no greater loss. Take comfort in knowing his job here is done and God has brought him home. Family that has pasted before him were waiting with open arms to receive him. He is not afraid and happy to be watching over you.
Thank you, truly thank you for sharing Kevin's life with me on this web-site. It has brought tears and out right belly laughs. It has shown love and total frustration. It has shown the good and the bad. It has shown the ups and the downs. Truly a GREAT BOOK.
From your loving sister, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, March 10, 2006 9:24 PM CST
Tenderly ... may time heal your sorrow
Gently ... may friends heal your pain
Softly ... may peace replace heartache
And may warmest memories remain ...
in loving memory of Kevin
- Friday, March 10, 2006 7:41 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
I only wish I had met Kevin, but I feel as though I knew him from your journal. Kevin was truly an inspiration. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Ann & Richard Coffman and family <coffman.richard@netzero.com>
Florence, KY USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 6:52 PM CST
Karen and Chris,
I don't think there is anything anyone can say or do at this time to help you with your heartache. Please know that we we all loved Kevin and that even for his short time here, he was the bravest little guy that anyone will ever know. As always, you all and your families are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kristina, Winkie, and Grandma D. <winknkris@verizon.net>
Walkersville, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 6:50 PM CST
My prayers and heart are still with you and your family. Your precious Kevin was loved by many even though we never met him personally. God will mend your broken hearts as time passes. May God bless and grant you continued strength.
In Christian love,
Kate Monk
Gaithersburg, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 3:48 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
You and your families are in my thoughts and prayers.
Pritee
Pritee Agarwal <pagarwal@mail.nih.gov>
Arlington, VA USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 3:34 PM CST
Karen and Chris: My heart aches for you, Gracie, and all of the McLane and Broad families. I cannot imagine the pain you must be feeling.
Jesus said, "Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God." Your precious Kevin is now a treasure laid in a better world. I hope the Lord gives you some comfort in the days that lay ahead, and know that you have many friends here who care a great deal for all of you. God bless you.
Bob Ward <rjw1958@verizon.net>
- Friday, March 10, 2006 3:25 PM CST
Karen, Chris, and Gracie,
I cannot even begin to imagine the loss you are feeling right now. Thank you for sharing Kevins life! I only saw him once in person, but feel as though i knew him. My deepest sympathy,
Jessie Fell <zazu4@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD - Friday, March 10, 2006 3:11 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family have gone through the most horrific experience and no one can understand the pain you now face. My condolences go out to you and your family. We are here for you.
Katy Perry <kperry@niaid.nih.gov>
- Friday, March 10, 2006 3:06 PM CST
Chris and Karen, Thank you for sharing the last two years of your life with us. Kevin has had a greater impact on more people in his 2 years and 4 months than most people will ever have. He was only able to do that because the two of you are incredible! My heart aches for you and I will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Friday, March 10, 2006 2:40 PM CST
Karen, Chris and Gracie--I'm so sorry to hear the news, however, we all know Kevin is now in a better place. Thank you for keeping us informed with this website! It has really helped! God bless you all and I will continue to pray for you. Kevin will never be forgotten. Your new angel will always be with you! Love always, Katie
Katie Bastian <mysnafter10@aol.com>
Bowie, MD 20715 - Friday, March 10, 2006 2:12 PM CST
Dear Karen,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know that there is nothing I can say of any importance, but I am thinking of you and grieve with you.
Steve
Steve Holland
- Friday, March 10, 2006 1:53 PM CST
Karen, Chris, Nana Anne and Gracie; Words are never enough I know. I prayed and will continue to pray for your strength. I don't know you all; but I knew Kevin, he has been apart of my life from the first time I read his journal. I thank you for allowing me to share in his life. I hurt for your loss. I rejoice in his home-going and I want you all to know how truly blessed you were to be chosen to share this life with him while he was here. God doesn't make mistakes. He blessed you and Kevin by putting you all in each other lives. Your strength is impeccable and the love you all have and will continue to share is immeasurable. I hope we can all learn from your example of faith and love. May God continue to bless and keep you in his arms.
Gracie; you didn't lose a brother, you gained an Angel.
God Bless you all.
Rose Handon-Brown <Tempisg@wsscwater.com>
Laurel, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 1:18 PM CST
Karen and Chris - I have been following your journal since my aunt Pat Becker sent out an email over a year ago asking for prayers for Kevin. I have been keeping you all in my prayers and will continue to do so. I have three kids of my own and keeping up with your family over the last year has helped me to realize how blessed we are to be parents. I do believe that being a parent is a gift that God does not give to everyone. There is a reason why he chose you both for Kevin and Gracie is a very lucky girl. God must have a special place waiting for you both as I'm sure he has for Kevin. Please be rest assured that anyone that has kept up with your story will never forget Kevin. Take care.
Julie Prosperi <juliepro21@yahoo.com>
Odenton, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 12:30 AM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are feeling. Kevin was a strong little man who continued to suprise everyone until God took him in his hands. Thank you for sharing Kevin's life with us. Our continued thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Melanie, Howard, Jordan and AJ
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Friday, March 10, 2006 11:55 AM CST
God Bless!
Claudette Marie Ruehl <photos@clearimages.org>
- Friday, March 10, 2006 11:55 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris and Nana Anne,
No greater love and joy is there than between you and your child. Kevin depended on your strength and love at his beginning and through his full life, just like any child. My family and I express our sincerest condolences and you will be included in our prayers.
Timothy Ortiz <zitro101@verizon.net>
Huntingtown, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 11:47 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris, my deepest sympathy for you, you have been an inspiration, Kevin was a beautiful angel, now he is resting with God, thank you for sharing, as I was reading I was crying, I feel very sad, I imagine how you are feeling, I will always remember Kevin, he has been an example, so strong, he will be remembered by everybody who knew him through your journals, thanks again for sharing, my thoughts and prayers are with you all, my love, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, March 10, 2006 11:18 AM CST
Chris, Karen & Gracie,
Thank you so much for sharing Kevin with each of us. Although, I didn't know him personally, I knew him, thanks to your daily journal. Never in my lifetime have I heard of such a great family. Kevin was a gift God gave to each of us, thanks to your willingness to share his daily life. Kevin's battle taught us Faith, Strength, Love, Joy, Happiness, and in the end Peace. My prayers are with your family, for God to extend His Peace and Love to you all daily. I truly believe all of your daily journals should become a book. That could be a tool, to give other people strength to face daily challenges. You did a wonderful job keeping us informed. Thanks for that.
Phyllis Vanhook <pvanhook@ctsservices.net>
Lanham, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 10:55 AM CST
God Bless you Kevin, and I pray that your family take comfort in knowing that you are a little angel in heaven looking after them. We'll all miss you, even those who only knew of you.
"The Lord will not cast off forever, but though he cause grief, yet will he have compassion according to the multitude of his merceies. For he does not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men".
Lamentations 3:31-33
God Bless you all,
Marie
Marielena Collado <mcollado@rockvillemd.gov>
Rockvile, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 10:10 AM CST
Chris & Karen
I got the honor Of meeting Kevin at the my first company pinic that just passed. I just wanted you to know you guys are in my thoughts and I asked My son school (st. jerome's) to pray and to keep you in our thoughts. Please keep your heads high. I believe you will meet again.
Misty Burgess <mburgess@ctservices.net>
- Friday, March 10, 2006 10:03 AM CST
Thank you for sharing Kevin with us. My thoughts and prayers are with your family...
Diane Arthur (Pearson) <tay0530@aol.com>
Millersville, Md USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 9:55 AM CST
Chris and Karen & Family
My family and I would like to send our deepes sympathy and prays to you and your family. GOD is the light, And now Kevin sites in the light with GOD, NO More pain NO More test to run. Kevin ran a good race and WON. GOD will see you through this. We will cotinue to pray for all of you and the family. Chris My Brother I'm so sorry.
Kevin Chase <KCHASE@VRTCH.COM>
Baltimore, Md - Friday, March 10, 2006 9:51 AM CST
Karen,Chris and Gracie,
Kevin was such a inspiration to all in his 2 years of life, that words cannot express feelings. I know that the good lord wanted Kevin here on earth to do his job and now his job is over, returning to heaven to be with all the other angels. May the peace of Christ be with you all!
Theresa's friend,
Nadine Efird
Nadine Efird <efirds@comcast.net>
Selbyville, DE USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 9:30 AM CST
Karen and Chris--
Just talked to you Mom and she filled me in on your family. I just want you to know my prayers are with you and I will be happy to do anythink I can to help. Please be assured that I will keep Kevin in my prayers in a special way.
Fr. Mark
Fr. Mark Smith <msmith@adwparish.org>
Kensington, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 9:12 AM CST
I'm so sorry for your pain! God will carry you through this as He has carried you through your challenges the last few years. I know that doesn't take the pain away though. I learned of Kevin through an e-mail from my friend Jamie Stenger and have been praying from him all week. Thank you for sharing Kevin's story. There's so much to learn from it!
Brenda Riemenschneider <5ofus@mchsi.com>
Urbandale, IA USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 9:02 AM CST
Chris and Karen,
My family extends our deepest sympathy to you and yours.
We have been keeping Kevin in our prayers and will continue to pray for you and your family.
Your strength and faith have been an inspiration.
Sincerely,
Chuck Edwards
Chuck Edwards <edwards@chesapeakesys.com>
LaPLata, MD - Friday, March 10, 2006 8:52 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen - Thank you for sharing Kevin with me. He was a true blessing to me and has taught me so much in his short life. God Bless you and keep you and Gracie in his loving arms. Now we know we have a little angel in heaven. Thank you so much. Love, Pat
Pat Becker <pbecker@c2solutions.us>
- Friday, March 10, 2006 8:10 AM CST
Thank you for sharing Kevin's life - and death - with us. I sit here and cry, for so many reasons. It was an honor to be a part of his life, I'm so glad we got to meet him at Chris' company picnic, what a spirit he had, a spirit that can now be free to run, laugh and play, things his body wouldn't let him do.
Tania <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Friday, March 10, 2006 8:02 AM CST
God Bless, Kevin. I know you are with God. Please accept our deepest condolences, Karen, Chris, Gracie and the rest of your family. Kevin was so Blessed to have you during his time on earth.
Nancy and Ron Corazzi
Ellicott City, MD - Friday, March 10, 2006 7:58 AM CST
Chris and Karen
I know the pain that I feel cannot begin to compare with yours, but I know that Kevin is finally at peace and that is what we have to accept. You both have been the best parents, I'll see you when you return.
Ken Kocsan <kennethkocsan@comcast.net>
Joppa, Md 21085 - Friday, March 10, 2006 7:57 AM CST
Karen, Chris, and Gracie--my prayers are with you. I know that Kevin is watching over you now as you did him. You never lost hope even when the hope was one for a peaceful death. What love Kevin experienced. God bless each of you and give you peace.
Sharon Strobel (Johns Hopkins) <sstrobel@jhmi.edu>
Baltimore, MD - Friday, March 10, 2006 7:36 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris:
Please accept my condolences on your terrible loss. Having followed your heroic efforts to save this wonderful child, I can appreciate to a small degree the pain you must feel at this time. As you may know, our family suffered a similar tragedy two years ago and the memory of the little one is still with us as I know Kevin's memory will always be with you.
You have inspired our admiration with the strength and devotion you have shown.
Sincerely,
William Paul
William Paul <wpaul@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 7:33 AM CST
My deep sympathy to you all.
Shirley Starnes <sstarnes@niaid.nih.gov>
Silver Spring, MD USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 7:25 AM CST
Chris & Karen
I can't imagine the pain and sorrow that you are going thru right now. Just know that you have people here who love you both and Loves little Kevin in their hearts. If there is anything that I can do please let me know. God Bless both of you.
Paul L White Jr. <pwhite@vrtch.com>
Bowie, MD 20720 - Friday, March 10, 2006 7:15 AM CST
Karen and Chris,
I am numb and at a loss for words as I type this. My heart and prayers are with you as I offer you and your extended family my deepest Condolences.
Yves Mathurin
Beltsville , MD - Friday, March 10, 2006 6:49 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jamie Stenger <mjstenger@netzero.com>
Des Moines, IA USA - Friday, March 10, 2006 6:42 AM CST
To the McLane Family-Please know that Kevin touched the lives of the many Pediatric residents who had the chance to care for him over the years. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Julia (JH intern) <jaquino3@jhmi.edu>
Baltimore, MD - Friday, March 10, 2006 5:56 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris, what marvelous parents you are and how stong you have been. I am crying as I read your last journal entry about this beautiful little boy. He was so forunate to have this journey with such love and affection. Please know you will be in my prayers. I opened up your journal every day and if there wasn't an entry, I was sad because I knew he was ok if you wrote. Your last entry was heartbreaking.
My love to you and your family
Bonnie
Bonnie McMahon <bmcmahon@phillips.com>
- Friday, March 10, 2006 5:34 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. I'm sitting at work and checking on Kevin, in between seeing patients, as I have been doing daily for a long time. I feel so sad right now. You and Kevin have always been in my thoughts no matter how for away we are. I know Kevin is in a better place now and finally can rest. I admire his strength and courage. It has been such a battle for all of you. You are fantastic parents, and I admire you courage. Kevin was blessed to find you as his parents, and I believe that no one could have done this better. He has known a lot of love during his short life. This must be the most excruciating pain a parent can go through, but I know in my heart that Chris and you will find a way to find peace with it.
Diana Seegers-Bouma <dseegers@niaid.nih.gov>
Baambrugge, Netherlands - Friday, March 10, 2006 4:49 AM CST
We are all praying, "God hug and kiss your boy, Kevin!"
Love, Christa Leigh
Christa Leigh
Olney, MD USA - Thursday, March 9, 2006 11:08 PM CST
Karen and Chris - my internet was down for a couple days so I just read Tuesday and Thursday today! What a little trooper he is! He is an extrordinary young man! Too many times the doctors have thought he was done and he proved them wrong. We can only pray that he proves the doc's wrong again. I am praying for Kevin's strength and comfort - and for you and Chris too! Love ya all!
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Thursday, March 9, 2006 6:12 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris, you and Kevin are very strong and I'm sure he will be better, thanks for sharing, you are in my thoughts and prayers all the time, hugs and kisses for you all, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Thursday, March 9, 2006 2:40 PM CST
You go boy! Please kiss him and tell him I love him!!! You all are in my thoughts and prayers!
Effie Reyes
Middletown, MD USA - Thursday, March 9, 2006 2:09 PM CST
Karen and Chris -- Thanks so much for keeping us posted. So many of us are checking the website often. As always, lots of prayers sent your way. Give Kevin a big kiss!
Pat Becker
- Thursday, March 9, 2006 1:50 PM CST
Thank you for sharing yourselves with us... it's an honor to pray for such brave people. Though you are on the other side of the country, please know that we are with you in spirit.
We take courage from how you've been fighting the fight. There is no greater thing anyone could do than to pour themselves out in selfless love as you have done.
What an awesome, priceless gift you are faithfully taking care of for our Father God. Whenever it is time, as He does for every child of His, God will wrap Kevin up in angel's wings and lovingly carry him to the joyful home of Heaven.
John Bullock at Home School Legal Defense Association <johnb@hslda.org>
Purcellville, VA USA - Thursday, March 9, 2006 10:23 AM CST
Thinking of you...
Kathy
Kathy Roche <wes-kat@msn.com>
Harwood, MD - Thursday, March 9, 2006 9:16 AM CST
Chris and Karen,
We at HSLDA are praying for Kevin (and both of you, too!) at our twice a week company prayer meeting on Tuesday's and Thursday's.
Bill Bloom - Home School Legal Defense Association <bill@hslda.org>
Purcellville, VA USA - Thursday, March 9, 2006 9:00 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
I talked to Nana Anne last night and she gave me the update from Chris. Kevin is showing Stanford that he is in control. Stanford seems to be learning that Kevin is special and that he has a curve ball that they never see coming. Way to go Kevin. Our prayers are that Kevin stays comfortable and that God keeps giving you guys the strength you need each day. All my love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, March 9, 2006 7:40 AM CST
Karen and Chris,
We are so sorry to hear the latest news. I really don't know what else to say except that I love you all and I think about you every day and I wish that there was something more that I could do. Stay strong...
Kristina, Winkie, and Grandma D. <winknkris@verizon.net>
Walkersville, MD USA - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 7:26 PM CST
Karen and Chris,
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I can only imagine how hard this is for you. I pray that Kevin will be kept comfortable and not suffer. And I pray for strength for your whole family. Kevin has made a huge impact on so many people in his little life. His light will surely shine forever! Please let me know if there's anything I can do.
J. Johnson, RN <jaxarn@aol.com>
Olney, MD US - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 3:56 PM CST
Karen, Chris, Gracie and Kevin,
My heart goes out to you all, I wish there was more we could do for you. You are in my thoughts and prayer
Anneliese
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 2:45 PM CST
Karen and Chris, My heart and prayers go out to you. May God bless you and continue to keep you in His care.
Nancy Cogan <kevnancogan@aol.com>
- Wednesday, March 8, 2006 2:44 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris, I'm so sorry to hear the bad news but you are right it would be selfish to let him live suffering so much, it was a blessing having him here, he has been so strong, you will be in my thoughts and prayers all this time, I feel very sad but I think this is the right decision, my love for him and you, hugs and kisses for you all, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 2:41 PM CST
Kevin is still in our prayers. We pray for a miracle, but if God does not send one, He will be awaiting Kevin, and He will welcome him home to be at peace.
Louise Gregory <jancol77@aol.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 1:53 PM CST
Chris and Karen, Just want to let you know that you and your families are in our prayers. Kevin has sure lit up the world like no other child with his spirit and fight. Hang in there, and know you are thought of often. Love, Karen and Angie
Karen and Angie <kgippri1@jhmi.edu>
Nottingham, MD US - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 1:31 PM CST
Karen, Gracie, and Chris,
My thoughts and payers are with you. No words can touch what you are feeling now. Lean on each other and your Faith. Know you did everything possible to make Kevin's stay comfortable and ensure he had the best of care.
May we all learn a lesson from your strength and selfless decisions.
TC <pickles2188@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 1:21 PM CST
I have been receiving emails re: Kev thru Judy Hanger-Tuite since Kevin's ordeal began. I was very sad to see he is not fairing so well, God's got his hand on Kevin and will bless him. I have read a lot of the baby's history and he is a strong little boy. I wish peace to come within your hearts and my prayers are with your family.
NancyLee Chambers <nscarlettq@aol.com>
Germantown, md USA - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 12:38 AM CST
Karen and Chris, you are the most loving and giving of parents. In this challenge, you have shown us all the way to live our lives to the fullest. Not accepting the routine and always pushing to the limits of physical and emotional ends to provide for our children. My heart and prayers have been and will continue to be with you beautiful girl. Love Aunt Cathy
Catherine Sabo <biggrammysabo@yahoo.com>
Hollywood, MD - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 12:34 AM CST
Hello,
My prayers goes out to you and you family
God Bless you all
Love Juanita(twinBrook 2)
Juanita Reed <gospe282002@yahoo.com>
2800 16th place N.E. apt.#1, DC - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 11:33 AM CST
Hi Mrs. Karen and family,
I just would like to tell you that my heart and blessing are with you.
Kim (Security in TwinBrook 1)
Kimberley Tindal <kimberley_tindal@yahoo.com>
Severn, MD 21144 - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 11:17 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris, Gracie and Kevin~
I have followed Kevin's amazing life from almost day one. I want to pass on my most heartfelt prayers for your continued strength in the face of this most challenging crisis. I also am praying for Kevin and a compassionate resolution for this incredible little boy's life. He has touched my whole family more than you can ever know.
All my love to you,
Nancy
Nancy Corazzi
Ellicott City, MDq - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 10:25 AM CST
Dear Chris, Karen & Gracie, my prayer for each of you is that you will be gentle with yourselves in the days to come. There is a sacredness in the release of your tears. You have done well! You have served your beautiful son Kevin with a self-less compassion and hope that inspires us all. My heart is joyful for your precious Kevin. He will get to see Our Lord Jesus! I am praying for you all deeply.
LeeAnn Rorls <lrorls@lucent.com>
FREDERICK, MD usa - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 10:05 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
I am so saddened to learn that Kevin won't be returning home with you. You have made loving decisions throughout Kevin's little life, and I admire your strength and courage. He is a feisty little guy, just like his parents who never gave up on him. We can all learn from the very special gift of love that you gave Kevin and Gracie, and continue to give. Know that you've been in our hearts in peds cardiology. You're in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
Nancy Huslage <nhuslage@jhmi.edu>
Baltimore, MD - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 8:48 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
My thoughts and prayers were with you last night. I prayed for you to have strength and to just LOVE Kevin. Kevin never said it but you could see it in his face how much he LOVED you both. My arms are open and waiting for your return home.
I have kept in touch with Aunt Mary. She is sad to hear the news and wants me to tell you both how much she loves you. She thinks you are wonderful parents. She has asked about Grace and I told her she was fine.
All my love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 7:16 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris & Gracie--During his stays here at JHH, Kevin, you, Chris & Gracie (in abstentia) have touched numerous lives. When Kevin was having a good day, his chuckle and your smiles were memorable. As parents, the most loving gift you can give your child is comfort and peace. In his short life, you hoped for a cure but never let go of the 'care.' That is something you each reinforced for us. Kevin and each of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sharon Strobel (Johns Hopkins) <sstrobel@jhmi.edu>
Baltimore, MD USA - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 6:46 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
I really do not know what to say except that I admire you for being the parents that you are. While I know that there are many families with challenges, I have lead a sheltered life and never experienced anything like your pain. It seems selfish of me to thank you for sharing this but I do thank you. Your struggles have put many things in perspective for me and I think your steadfastness and dedication in the face of terrible odds have given me a better idea of what I would like to emulate as a parent and as a person.
Kim Dyer
- Wednesday, March 8, 2006 5:45 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
My heart goes out to you both and your family. You are all in my prayers. Kevin has certainly gotten his strength from both of you. I know that the Lord is holding you especially close to his heart right now and Kevin will soon be in His own arms comforting him until you can all be together again. What a blessing Kevin has been to all of us. Thank you so much for sharing his beautiful life with us. We have only met once at Judy Hanger's, but I love you through your writings. God bless you and keep you close. Love, Sue Snyder
Sue Snyder
Gaithersburg, MD USA - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 11:14 PM CST
Karen & Chris,
Your family will be in my prayers. I feel blessed to be a part of you lives. I will always hold tight to the memory of Kevin's smile and famous chuckle. I love you.
Catherine, RN <catmarsh4@hotmail.com>
Baltimore, MD - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 10:32 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris- Words can not express the sorrow in my heart tonight. I know that Kevin will be in heaven soon - what a wonderful hope we have in that knowledge. Each life is precious in its own way and causes us each to grow in our walk with God. Kevin's life has touched mine in so many ways, as you have as well. We will pray for you as you go through this valley and pray as you let go, God will fill you with his perfect peace......you are great and very special parents. Hold on to each other!! Much love, Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
bethesda, MD - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 9:30 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
I am so sorry to hear this news about Kevin. My heart goes out to both of you and especially Kevin. You are wonderful parents and have given Kevin a life of love and happiness. We are praying for all of you during this difficult time and know that we are here for you.
Melanie, Howard, Jordan and AJ
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 9:02 PM CST
I'm really sorry to hear the news. Chris and Karen, you two are the strongest people I have ever known. I look up to you both for being so brave through this whole experience. Kevin is the biggest inspiration I have ever had in my life. He will ALWAYS have a very special place in my heart. He has touched so many lives and I feel absolutely blessed to have been a part of his life. I can only imagine the heartache you all are going through, but never forget how many people are here to comfort you. However, this whole thing has been completely worth it, like you said. God bless you all! Stay strong like always! Love forever,
Katie Bastian <mysnafter10@aol.com>
Bowie, MD US - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 8:38 PM CST
Karen & Chris,
All I can do is wish you peace during this most painful and difficult time. My heart is saddened by your pain. You are all in my prayers. May you find some comfort in knowing what wonderful parents you are to Kevin and in all he got to experience in this world because of your love and efforts. Cindy
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 8:25 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris, I'm so sorry to hear this. Know that all of us are here with open arms for you now and when you get home. You're right, Kevin touched all our lives. I feel honored and blessed to have known and loved him. I love you guys! Dont hesitate to call.
Julia RN
Baltimore, MD - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 7:54 PM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
May the Lord be with you during this trying time. Know all are love and prayers are with you.
Chris and Karen you are the most beautiful people I know. You are a couple blessed by God.
Grace and Kevin are the result of your love for each other.
They are children of God and they are blessed.
Kevin has a special place in everyones heart.
God will help us heal these broken hearts.
May all this love find it's way to you and hope it offers up a little comfort.
All my love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S.,P.G. - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 6:54 PM CST
What a difficult time for you all. Please know how much love and how many prayers are out there on your and Kevin's behalf. He will be in a better place, where there is no pain and suffering. I am so sorry that you all are hurting so badly, but what a blessing that you can offer him comfort and love as he transitions. Hang in there.
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 6:18 PM CST
My Dear Karen and Chris,
My heart is heavy too. But no way can I feel your pain. All I can do is pray the Lord will continue to give you the strength to deal with this. Yes, I thank God also for Kevin's life. He certainly touched me and Frank. He has drawn so many closer to God.
Know that you both and your families are in our prayers.
God Bless You and hold you ever so gently in the plam of His hand.
Anita and Frank
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 6:15 PM CST
Dear Karen, for you, Kevin and Chris all my thoughts and prayers, I hope everything turns for the better, yes, Kevin is so strong, hugs and kisses for all of you, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 12:03 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
I hope that your meeting tomorrow goes well and there is some good news for Kevin. You guys have new friends from around the world. I hope this offers you some comfort. We are all praying for Kevin. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, March 6, 2006 7:30 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all! Tomorrow is a Grace playdate. Monica and I can't wait. Hang in there and know there are many many people that think about your family every day!
Janet, Monica & the rest of the Brown Family <coffy500@mac.com>
Rockville, MD - Monday, March 6, 2006 6:17 PM CST
I ran across your webpage and wanted to send you my best wished and prayers.
I have an 18 year old son with Alagilles who is mostly affected by the heart problems. His father also had Alagilles and died of liver failure at age 42.
Reading some of your journal brought back many memories. Stay strong and know that there are people out there thinking of you.
Kevin sounds like a trooper.....it seems like these kids have an inner strength.....they are very special.
Your new friend,
Emily Salinas
Albuquerque, NM
Emily Salinas <emily_salinas@inter-tel.com>
Albuquerque, NM USA - Monday, March 6, 2006 5:45 PM CST
Karen and Chris,
We are all thinking about you and Kevin here on CMSC-6. Let us know if we can do anything for you, and give Kevin kisses for us.
Katie RN <katieatwater@hotmail.com>
Baltimore, MD - Monday, March 6, 2006 8:24 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
Our prayers are for you and hoping for a quick recovery for Kevin. You guys are doing an amazing job as parents. I love you all very much and think about you during the day. I will keep praying. Hope today is a better day then yesterday. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, March 6, 2006 7:32 AM CST
Hi Karen and Chris,
my name is Dagmar and my son Mark (who will celebrate his 3rd birthday next sunday) has Alagille's. I have read Melanie´s request for extra prayers for Kevin and visited his website. I am so sorry that he and you have such a hard time. I hope he will be better very soon! Kevin is so cute and a real superman. We wish you all the best!
Dagmar
Eitorf, Germany - Monday, March 6, 2006 2:23 AM CST
I have asked for extra prayers to be sent your way from other Alagille Moms. Thinking of all of you.
Melanie
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Sunday, March 5, 2006 10:11 PM CST
Karen and Chris,
My heart hurts for all you are going through again. Kevin needs to just continue to prove the doctors wrong. We'll say an extra prayer for you and Kevin. Lots of people are praying for all of you. Take care of yourselves.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Sunday, March 5, 2006 8:31 PM CST
Hello Chris and Karen,
I hope things are going a little better today. We are praying that the new medication will work and his kidneys will begin working on their own. We are sending positive thoughts and many prayers your way.
Melanie, Howard, Jordan & AJ
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Sunday, March 5, 2006 2:25 PM CST
Chris and Karen:
Nina is always on this site and prints out the daily reports and gives them to me to read. Kevin is Superboy, and you are Supermom and Superdad. Have heard his name in church these last few weeks. He is in our thoughts, hearts, and prayers as you are also. Love you all.
Bernie Horn <blhornjr@aol.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Sunday, March 5, 2006 12:06 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
Let God give you strength and guide you in all of your decisions. Talk to Him. He is right there with you. He has never left your side. He loves you all very much and is there to comfort you. Karen I hope you are right and the male nurse can give Kevin a little extra care. Karen you are funny - male nurse being a cuddler - I hope there is a surprise! During these hard times are prayers don't stop. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Sunday, March 5, 2006 11:40 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
Our prayers are for Kevin to recover quickly and that he is on a path to feeling better soon. I pray for you as parents, to keep doing a wonderful job in taking care of Kevin. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, Md U.S., P.G. - Saturday, March 4, 2006 5:49 PM CST
Hi Karen and Chris!
Thinking of you guys and of my favorite little man. Hope things start to go your way out there. I miss you guys, and hope for all the best! Give Kev hugs from ALL of his girlfriends (that could take a WHILE!)Keep us up to date... our prayers are with you, as always.
AnnaRuth <ark4heels@yahoo.com>
Baltimore, MD 21230 - Saturday, March 4, 2006 2:58 PM CST
Hey Kids! Missing you guys! I know Kevin will pull through this like he always does. I'm sorry you are having such a tough time out there. Call us if we can do anything.
Julia RN
Baltimore, MD - Saturday, March 4, 2006 10:34 AM CST
Hi Karen and Chris,My name is Leisa and I too have a beautiful son Jordan (6) with Alagille's. I saw Kevin's site on another Alagille childs website and wanted to learn about your beautiful son.
I am so sorry to read about the tough time you all are having at the present and hope that things become brighter for you all soon. From what I have learnt Kevin is a strong little man with an awesome personality - I think this is a trait our children who follow these journies possess. I see too that he has some lovely girlfriends at your hospital - something Jordan also has too.
I am also thinking about your daughter as I know how hard having a sibling that needs extra attention can be on the brothers and sisters as Jordan has a twin brother without AGS.
So may I say that my thoughts and prayers are with each of you at this time and I will definately love to keep following Kevin's journey.
All my love.......... Leisa Bate
www3.caringbridge.org/oceania/jordanb/
Leisa Bate <msleiann@iprimus.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Saturday, March 4, 2006 7:36 AM CST
Karen & Chris, We are keeping a closse watch over you and hoping our caring helps your strength. WE are staying strong in prayer for all of you, including Gracie.
Marti Neal <marthaneal@gmpexpress.net>
- Saturday, March 4, 2006 2:13 AM CST
Karen - I feel so bad for Kevin - and you and Chris too! I pray that they will turn this swelling around quickly and get Kevin's kidneys working again at a higher rate. You all are in my thoughts and prayers!
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Friday, March 3, 2006 2:32 PM CST
Thinking of you, hoping Kevin isn't feeling too badly. Hang in there guys,
Tania
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD USA - Friday, March 3, 2006 2:29 PM CST
Dear Karen, I'm sorry to hear the news, I hope Kevin gets better soon, my thoughts and prayers for you all, regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, March 3, 2006 2:10 PM CST
Karen & Chris,
We hope all is going as well as possible and Kevin gets the help he needs. We say a prayer for you all every day.
The feathered babies are doing great. Nikki sits with us and lets us rub her neck when we are there. Pookie ignored us so she could eat some popcorn we left for her.
Alex & Linda <linda.grey@marriott.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Friday, March 3, 2006 10:18 AM CST
Praise God his line started working again and that the doctors agreed to Kevin's protocol rather than their standard - regarding drawing back on the line. It is so good to hear that he is giggeling and playing peek-a-boo too! You are lifted up in prayer regularly! Love ya guys!
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 4:35 PM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
I hope Kevin can come off of the kidney medicine. I pray that his WBC comes down. Now that his CO2 levels are too high, could the kidney medicine be messing with his WBC? Cafeteria - HEHE. God bless you. Glad to read that Kevin has perked up some. God bless him. Happy Ash Wednesday, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 4:25 PM CST
Glad to hear that Kevin is feeling better. I hope you have recovered from you trip to the cafeteria!!
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 4:01 PM CST
Chris and Karen,
Nicole called me at work yesterday to tell me she spoke to Chris and that Kev is doing great! I asked her Chris whooo? And she said mom, you know… Kevin and Gracie’s dad. I asked her what she was talking about and she said that she was pushing buttons on her cell phone and Chris answered. I am not sure if she really spoke to your Chris but she was convinced it was him, and she was so happy to hear Kev is doing great! She calls him her boyfriend too. She told me she knew that I was worried (we talk about him every night at dinner) so she called me at work to let me know. I thought you guys could use a laugh. We love you guys! Hugs, kisses and prayers to Kevin.
Judy Hanger <judy.hanger@montgomerycountymd.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 10:45 AM CST
Karen and Chris - just want you to know that your room at SLAC is paid for and you should check in today - Friday. Prayers are sent your way!
Pat Becker
- Wednesday, March 1, 2006 8:18 AM CST
Chris & Karen:
Just wanted to let you know that we're all still praying. I have to keep updating the entire workforce. I can't tell you how many calls I get asking how Kevin is doing. Please continue to be strong. We are here for you and you need to let us know if there is anything else that we can do for you. Praying nonstop!
Mary
Mary Roesinger <mroesinger@c2solutions.us>
Baltimore, MD USA - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 8:10 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
I hope Kevin is starting to fall into a routine that works for him and the hospital. Very glad to read that some issues are being taken care of. Anything to releive the stress. How is Kevin's rash? I do pray it gets better. I also hope you guys are getting some sleep. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 7:58 AM CST
Kevin is amazing, he just keeps bouncing back! What a lesson to all of us, and what a testament to the strength of the human body! Love and prayers across the continent!
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 7:09 AM CST
Hi Chris and Karen, Kevin too,
We are checking on Kev each day and I have to send out a"Kevin Update" to our entire prayer group.
Hang in there and remember there are a lot of prayers going up for all of you.. I bet Kevin is starting to wrap those nurses around his little finger just like a JHH. Love you much, God Bless. Anita & Frank
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Ohio USA - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 7:57 PM CST
Just a note to let you know you're all in my thoughts and prayers. I've been praying to John Paul the Great for Kevin, as JPII loved those little children. Thanks for keeping us updated. I check the website a few times a day to check on our little boy!! Glad to see he got to giggle some today!! Love and prayers sent your way!
Pat Becker
- Tuesday, February 28, 2006 3:15 PM CST
Karen and Chris - Kevin is such a little trooper! To bad the dotors and nurses do not have good bed side manners. You all are in my thoughts and prayers!
Love ya
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 12:41 AM CST
Dear Karen,
I understand your frustration. This is one of the hardest things you will ever have to do. One thing You may want to try that helped me alot- ask the insurance company for a case worker/social worker. They can put you in touch with a local nurse trained to liason with families and doctors. When the doctor is not as forth coming as you would like, the liason nurse and social worker step in. Different insurance companies offer different services, and you may have already spoken to them, but it is worth a try. It really helped my family get through some tough times.
TC <pickles2188@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, February 28, 2006 9:28 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
I'm a friend of Melanie Koller's from CA. My Colin and AJ spent a lot of time at LPCH together. Colin lived his entire life there, so I understand a lot of the frustrations. I see you've met my favorite cath lab doc. I credit him with saving Colin's life on more than one occasion, but he's still hard to deal with. I can laugh about it now, but it's been a year since I've seen him. I just wanted you to know that I'm praying for you all and Kevin, and I'm thinking of you often. I'll be down at LPCH for a couple of appointments next week. Let me know if you'd like to meet. I'd be happy to swing by and offer a smile or anything else. Let me know if you need anything, as I'm in the somewhat local area.
With Hope,
Wendy Zeitler
Wendy Zeitler <wendyzeitler@yahoo.com>
Fairfield, CA - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 1:46 AM CST
Dear Karen,
After I wrote my e-mail I went back and read your entry again and I have some questions.
What was the x-ray for? To see if they made a BOO-BOO? What was done about it or What do you do for it? Is his shoulder OK? Will this be something like his foot? What do you mean by they are late with KEVIN'S meds? On one level it amazes me...DO THEY HAVE CHILDREN THEMSELVES? and on the other level I'm like...THEY KNOW MORE THAN I DO. Chris and Karen our prayers are with you. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, February 27, 2006 9:59 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
After reading the last e-mail I can't believe these so called experts out in CA. I hope Kevin is doing better. Chris and Karen stay strong and put these people in their place. I know things are done different out there but Kevin is differnt in his own way and they are showing no respect for that. I understand if you get upset with them. In time they will get it. Keep fighting for your little man. God is with you in this battle. BELIEVE IT and this is how miracles happen. Love Kevin with all your heart and God will take care of the rest. Love for across the miles, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, February 27, 2006 9:38 AM CST
hi,
i just want to send my love and best wishes from the picu at Hopkins. not sure why they can not pull the central line if it is not working and he may have an infection from it. Take care and lots of prayer and love from us.
sheree dyer <prettybrown72@yahoo.com>
Baltimore, md use - Monday, February 27, 2006 9:35 AM CST
Karen and Chris,
At bedtime Neil Lee says, "God please give Kevin all our hugs and kisses! Amen"
Love you, Christa Leigh
Christa Leigh Walter
Olney, MD USA - Sunday, February 26, 2006 12:43 AM CST
Kevin, Chris and Karen -
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that Kevin's WBC is better quickly after the antibiotics. Your little guy is a trooper! And the two of you are amazing!!! Keep your heads up and know that we are all praying for you. I have never known two parents to have to endure so many trials, - the both of you are so strong. You have many people praying for Kevin - and we are all praying for you too. I love you all!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Friday, February 24, 2006 10:48 PM CST
Chris it is so hard to tell you how I feel... hoping you know how much I feel in my heart.. The feeling I have for you and your family and knowing the way that we were brought up together I know, you know the love that I have for you is so strong! God Speed ahead to you all....
I love you... kisses to your beautiful wife Karen and to your reamrakable son Kevin, big one for Gracie and one for you too!!! My Love and prayers with you bro!!!!!!
Bill McLane <sweetwilly@comcast.com>
Lothian, Md 20711 - Friday, February 24, 2006 10:25 PM CST
I am so sorry that the surgery had to be delayed. We are still thinking of you and hope that surgery can be rescheduled soon. If you get a chance to get out of the hospital, take a walk through the Stanford Shopping Center. It is a great place to window shop. There is a great Italian restaurant and farmer's market in there too. I know the hospital food can get old after awhile, so visit Andronico's Grocery store across the street for a good sandwhich. I lived off of them during AJ's second and third visit to Stanford. I emailed the Chaplain yesterday and asked her to stop by and say hello and to say a prayer for Kevin. We have asked many friends to keep Kevin in their prayers and we all know how strong the power of prayer is. Stay positive and if you need to chat please feel free to call 301-260-8271.
Take Care,
Melanie
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Friday, February 24, 2006 10:43 AM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Kevin today, especially during his surgery.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Friday, February 24, 2006 8:29 AM CST
Thinking of all of you!
Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Friday, February 24, 2006 8:04 AM CST
We are so glad to hear you made your trip safely. Our wishes and prayers are with you today and always.
Bill McLane & Claudette Ruehl <photos@clearimages.org>
Lothian, Md USA - Friday, February 24, 2006 5:38 AM CST
Hello Karen and Chris,
We will be praying for Kevin to have a safe and successful surgery and a smooth recovery. Kevin has proven how strong he is to JHH, so now it's time to prove it to LPCH. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for keeping us updated.
Melanie
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Thursday, February 23, 2006 11:23 PM CST
Karen, Chris, and Kevin,
You have come so far and beat so many odds. Kevin is the strongest and bravest little boy I have known. His strength comes from two of the greatest parents any of us will ever meet. Your JHH family loves you and is wishing you well during this challenging time. We will be thinking of you lots tomorrow. God Bless.
Megan Staley RN <mstaley428@hotmail.com>
Baltimore, MD US - Thursday, February 23, 2006 7:17 PM CST
Kevin, Karen & Chris,
I got a mini update yesterday on Kevin from Kevin's PT here at MCITP. Please know that all of Kevin's MCITP caregivers are thinking of you and praying all goes well. Give Kevin a big hug for me! Call me when you get the chance.
Jaqie Johnson, RN
Nurse Case Manager
MCITP
Jaqie Johnson, RN <Jaquenette_G_Johnson@mcpsmd.org>
Olney, md us - Thursday, February 23, 2006 5:22 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
So glad you made it safely with Kevin to California. Will be keeping the prayers going for Kevin's surgery tomorrow. He is a great little guy and has been through so much (you all have). Will keep cheering him (and you) onward!
Mary Kay Alford <mkalford@jhmi.edu>
Baltimore, MD USA - Thursday, February 23, 2006 3:06 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
Glad to hear that you all arrived in CA safely. Chris came by Monday while I was at work. He had gotten his sunglasses and was on his way home to finish packing. I am praying that everything will work out for Kevin. God bless you all. I know you have a HARD day ahead of you but we are all praying for Kevin. Prayers that never stop, Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, February 23, 2006 7:14 AM CST
Karen & Chris,
As the mother of a PA baby that has had 3 open heart surgeries@ INOVA, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Know Kevin has already performed miracles- more people have prayed because of him than we can ever count. We will continue to pray for you & your family.
God Bless,
TC
TC
Frederick, MD - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 4:27 PM CST
I am glad that your trip to CA was good and that Chris is there with you now too. You are all in my thoughts and prayers!!! Love ya and God Bless! Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 2:04 PM CST
We are thinking of you guys today! Hope all is well. Look forward to any updates. Give our boys hugs!
AnnaRuth, Mel, Catherine, and Julia <ark4heels@yahoo.com>
Baltimore, MD 21230 - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 10:05 AM CST
Hello Chris and Karen,
It looks like you have met Dr. Perry. You are right about his personality, but he is one of the best. He worked on AJ a couple of times. I am glad that you are getting to know the Doctors and nurses in the CVICU. They are wonderful. We look forward to reading updates on Kevin. I check several times a day. FYI, there used to be a computer in the Library/Media room on the third floor. They have books and videos that you can check out too. Please know that we are thinking and praying for Kevin and all of you during this challenging time. I am confident that Kevin is in the right hands.
Take Care,
Melanie, Howard, Jordan and AJ
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Tuesday, February 21, 2006 9:16 PM CST
Karen, Do you know if the town you stopped to refuel at in South Dakota was Sioux Falls? If so, you actually touched down in South Dakota on a pretty mild (for winter) day! I'm so glad we were able to accomodate you and Kevin on your flight - this past weekend it was below zero over night and the days were blustery, so Monday was practically a heat wave :). I know Kevin's Grandma Anne through work, and I've only posted once before - quite a while ago actually - but read your journal regularly, am always relieved when Kevin is doing well, and sad when he's in the midst of another struggle. Let me just add my vote for you and Chris as the most awesome parents little Kevin could have been blessed with. Hearts and prayers from around the world (well, as far away as South Dakota anyway ;) are with you all during this part of the journey ....
Jane
- Tuesday, February 21, 2006 5:17 PM CST
Dear Karen, I will be praying and thinking about Kevin, you and your family, all the best for Kevin, I'm traveling to Peru today, I have an emergency in my family but I'll be reading your news, hopefully I'll be back in a few days, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, February 21, 2006 12:11 AM CST
Dear Chris and Kathy:
The time you have waited for has finally arrived and I know you must be extremely happy but also very nervous. As you said Karen there is a chance Kevin will not make it. But without this chance we know he wouldn't make so, in fact, you and Chris are giving Kevin the chance to live! You've made a very unselfish decision and I admire both of you. I truly believe that God set the plans in motion two years ago when Kevin was born. Kevin was born in an imperfect world and God stepped in and gave Kevin the will to survive. God continued to push Kevin forward and never give up. He helped Kevin endure some of the most painful physical times and continue to survive. Why, we may ask ourselves. Only God knows that answer. But I know this there is a reason. Kevin's suffering has made him stronger and your family stronger. There is a plan and we just need to keep praying that His will be done and we do on earth what is necessary to achieve that will. It's time for a beginning, a beginning of a new life for Kevin. God stepped in and took over the arrangements for Kevin's new journey. He used many people as instruments but there is no doubt in my mind that He is the orchistrator of this whole journey. I am so glad that he chose you and Chris as parents for Kevin becuase I don't know if the rest of us could have survived what you have survived. We will continue to pray for all of you and pray that you and the rest of the world, let go and let God. God Bless you, I love you.
Mary
Mary Roesinger <mroesinger@c2solutions.us>
Severna Parka, MD USA - Monday, February 20, 2006 3:39 PM CST
Chris & Karen ~ My thoughts are with you and all of your family, I'll be thinking and praying for you all while you're in CA! Love, Al
Alison Clark <aclark@cbiz.com>
Crofton, MD - Monday, February 20, 2006 2:14 PM CST
karen and chris,
What a long road it has been... and I have loved being part of the journey. Thanks for including us, "the moms," in your lives for the past 2 years. You all mean so much to me, and no matter if Kevin is here or in CA he will always be my favorite boy! Best wishes and prayers for you all... keep us up to date when you can. Let me know if there is anything I can do. As always, love and constant thoughts and prayers (and the occassional tears) are with you. Love,
AnnaRuth
AnnaRuth Kelley <ark4heels@yahoo.com>
Baltimore, MD - Sunday, February 19, 2006 9:10 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris.
Being a mother I feel all that you are feeling. I cry because you cry. God has been with you this whole journey. He will not give up on you so don't give up on him. I visited with Kevin at the hospital yesterday. What a wonderful child he is. For being so sick he still had the mind to play "Peek a Boo" with me. It made my heart swell. The road ahead may seem long and hard but remember God is with you. Have a safe trip. Looking forward to the next update. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Sunday, February 19, 2006 2:23 PM CST
Dear Karen, What an exciting time for all of you. I wish you the best of luck and a wonderful outcome. We had prayers at church this AM for all of you. Of course I had to cry. My son said that if he can be helped you are going to the right place. He will be out of town until after the last of the month, but after that feel free to call him if needed. You are a wonderful advocate for Kevin. A mother's love can accompolish great things. I will be praying for you each day. Love
Pauline Bryan <surfinggma06@verizon.net>
Rockville, Md. USA - Sunday, February 19, 2006 1:02 PM CST
Wow! It is here! I know that you have so many thoughts going through your mind right now - so anytime those thoughts get going to fast or just tooooo many, remember the shampoo bottle and try (I know it will be hard), but try and put it all in God's hands. He has brought Kevin and you and Chris through this far. The bible says that He will never leave you or forsake you. You may not always feel it, but God is with you every step of the way. I love you all and will continue to pray for you all. I am looking forward to hearing all of the wonderful miracles that will take place. Kevin is your little miracle baby and I believe that the greatest are still to come!!!! God Bless you all!!!!!! Love ya Dawn Dee
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Saturday, February 18, 2006 3:59 PM CST
Dear Karen,
I'm so very excited about the good news. You have come so far. We hope for a good outcome, Kevin deserves it!
Diana Seegers-Bouma
Baambrugge, Netherlands - Saturday, February 18, 2006 2:21 PM CST
Dear Kevin,
I read the good news. Your mommy and daddy have worked so hard for this. God and his army of angels will watch over you, mommy and daddy as you travel to CA. Your big sister Grace will be home waiting for you. Prayers have never stopped. All my love, Aunt Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Saturday, February 18, 2006 9:13 AM CST
Dear Karen, I'm so happy with the good news, all the best for Kevin, keep us posted, I'll be reading the good news, Kevin, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers, love, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, February 17, 2006 4:27 PM CST
California here you come! All the pieces are falling into place, finally. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Friday, February 17, 2006 3:18 PM CST
Karen, I am so excited that you are heading to California. Our family will be praying for Kevin and your family during this journey.
Melanie Koller (AJ's Mom) <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
- Friday, February 17, 2006 12:40 AM CST
I am so hopeful for a great outcome for Kevin's California trip. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Friday, February 17, 2006 12:40 AM CST
Boy, Kevin sure does like taking you on roller coaster rides! I am glad to hear that he is feeling better. I can't even imagine the quandry you are in, wanting him to get the surgery so he can get better once and for all and wanting to spend as much time with him, just in case things don't go as well as they should.
You've done a great job so far, loving him and making sure that he gets the best care available. As always, we'll be keeping you in our prayers.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 8:57 AM CST
Kevin:
Happy Valentines Day Good Lookin!
Love You All!
Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 1:45 PM CST
Dear Karen, I'm sorry to hear that, I hope Kevin gets better, please keep me posted, all my prayers for him, you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Thursday, February 9, 2006 4:19 PM CST
Dear Karen, all my prayers for little Kevin, for you and your family, I'm always thinking about you all, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 4:07 PM CST
We are praying for Kevin and you and the rest of your family. It's difficult to imagine the pressure on all of you. May God bless you all and bring comfort and healing to Kevin
Charley Christ <charleyec@aol.com>
Rockville, MD 20853 - Saturday, January 28, 2006 1:22 PM CST
Little rays of sunshine warm the face and the heart. Your little guy's determination and grit generates so much love and devotion, and helps all of us tolerate the inconsistencies in life. We pray for Kevin and your family every day.
buttermaker <bchroniger@ctsservices.net>
Beltsville, Md USA - Friday, January 27, 2006 6:26 AM CST
I am Chris Lotts's sister. I have worked with your husband Chris several times. He is a delight to work with. I have gone through the same thing you are going through with my son Dillon. He was born with congestive heart failure and kidney and liver disease. I admire you and your husband and please know my family's prayers are with you and your family.
Kimberly Pounsberry <kimberly.pounsberry@prudentialcarruthers.com>
Pasadena, MD USA - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 5:03 PM CST
Karen - what a remarkable mother you are. You must have learned so much simply because you had to in order to help Kevin. You are such an inspiration to me! Kevin and his family are always in our prayers!! He is a phenomenal little person. I just love him so. Thank you for sharing him with us!
Pat Becker <pbecker@c2solutions.us>
- Tuesday, January 24, 2006 8:22 AM CST
All our love and prayers are with you each day!
Christa Leigh
Christa Leigh Walter
Olney, MD US - Thursday, January 19, 2006 9:07 PM CST
Karen,
I am sorry to hear about Kevin's latest trials. As you've said, "this kid never catches a break". That is true except for the wonderful family that he was born into. We will keep him in our prayers. I know he is a fighter and hope as you do that he is up to winning more battles.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 8:30 AM CST
The strength that you and Kevin show the rest of us, breaks my heart. We are praying for you.
Ruth Ann Talley <Talleyr@earthlink.net>
Frederick, MD USA - Saturday, January 14, 2006 5:35 PM CST
Dear Karen, I'm sorry Kevin is not well, I hope the doctors can help him soon, he is in my thoughts and prayers, take care, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, January 13, 2006 11:07 AM CST
I ALWAYS THINKS ABOUT KEVIN AND YOUR FAMILY WHEN I DON'T HEAR FROM KAREN IN A WHILE. I CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HIM. HOPEFULLY YOU WILL SEE ME AT ONE OF THE FUNDRAISERS I WILL TRY MY VERY BEST TO MAKE IT
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS
AMEKIA RAY (HOMECALL INFUSION SERVICES) <amekia_ray @uhc.com>
COLUMBIA, MD USA - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 2:11 PM CST
Kevin is in our thoughts and prayers every day, for Mom and Dad too. Your love and devotion for your son, inspires all of us to be better persons and to cherish what we have in our lives.
Buttermaker <bchroniger@ctsservices.net>
- Tuesday, January 10, 2006 1:24 PM CST
Dear Karen, I'm sorry things are so complicated, I hope the situation with Kevin improves, he is such a fighter, all my thoughts and prayers for him, you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, January 9, 2006 11:58 AM CST
Karen - I think Kevin is like his mommy - he likes a nice good long tubby (without the accidents), it helps him relax! I hope that all is going well with his dehydration and that they are able to get his line back in soon. I hope they are able to do everything with one trip to the hospital. I am praying for Kevin and I will be praying for you to have some sweet and restful sleep. I don't think you would ever make it out the door without Kevin or Chris. Love ya girl!
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Thursday, January 5, 2006 8:45 AM CST
Dear Karen, I'm glad that Kevin is finally at home, I hope you have a peaceful long weekend, all the best for the New Year, I will be thinking about Kevin, you and your family, my prayers for you all, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Thursday, December 29, 2005 3:14 PM CST
Karen, Chris, Gracie and Kevin, We think and pray for you'll everyday. You are a great symbol of Love and Family. Everyone I know in Kansas is praying for Kevin.
Happy Holidays! Love, Christa Leigh
Christa Walter
Olney, MD USA - Monday, December 26, 2005 10:43 PM CST
I'm sorry to hear that Kevin may not be home for Christmas but there's always next Christmas to look forward to. We love you all and hope that you still have a wonderful holiday.
Hugs and more hugs - Kristina, Gma D., and Winkie
Kristina Hawse <winknkris@verizon.net>
Walkersville, MD USA - Saturday, December 24, 2005 12:35 AM CST
What a wonderful Christmas present to bring home!!!
Merry Christmas Karen, Chris, Gracie and Kevin
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Friday, December 23, 2005 4:53 PM CST
Dear Karen, I hope Kevin will be home for Christmas, have a Happy Christmas with Kevin and your family, my prayers and thoughts for all of you, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 11:28 AM CST
Hi Karen, I am so glad that you sent the journal link to Della. She then forwarded it to me. I have read the entire journal from start to finish in 2 hours. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers everyday. Kevin is certainly a strong baby just like his mother and father. P.S. You should also be a comedian.
Tonia Moore <corolla03@msn.com>
Chevy Chase, MD Montgomery - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 10:59 AM CST
Karen,
I'm not an expert, but I was on a United Airlines flight in October and an older gentlman a couple of rows ahead of us was using oxygen from a tank. So check with the airlines, they obviously have some way to make an accomodation.
Praying that Keving comes home for Christmas. Wishing all of your family a Merry Christmas and a happy and HEALTHY New Year
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 10:36 AM CST
Hang is there Karen--Like yopu said Kevin is a fighter from way back(2 yrs. experence) Hope they can stop the runs and get his little butt fixed up. It does seem like he needs a break. I bet Gracie misses him. Your in our prayers honey ! God be with you and give you a little peace (and quite wouldn't hurt either). Love you, Anita
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Ohio USA - Thursday, December 15, 2005 2:23 PM CST
Dear Karen, I'm sorry that you don't feel well and that Kevin is not so well, keep hope, I'm sure he will be better soon, he is a big fighter, everybody is praying for him and I am too, a big hug and kisses for him, you and your family, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 12:22 AM CST
Chris and Karen,
Still keeping you in our prayers! May the Lord continue to bless your family each day.
Bill Bloom
Director of Technology Services
Home School Legal Defense Association
Bill - Home School Legal Defense Association <bill@hslda.org>
Purcellville, VA USA - Saturday, December 10, 2005 8:43 PM CST
My family is keeping Kevin in our prayers.
God's in control.. keep the faith!
Chuck Edwards- Chesapeake Systems <edwards@chesapeakesys.com>
- Thursday, December 8, 2005 2:57 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris- PTL!!! Looks like you got an early Christmas present from Kevin this year. We are so thankful that he has come through another little valley. You have both gone through sooo much, but I sense in you a new strength and resolve. I pray that this will continue to carry you through. We will continue to pray that kevin gains more strength each day and that all the details come together for your trip to CA. God is good and IS in control, even when others are not (:-)....Keep up the good work and smile and perhaps we need to start a car fund for Kevin (:-)... Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, MD - Thursday, December 8, 2005 6:34 AM CST
Praise God that Kevin is doing better! You all are in my continual thoughts and prayers! That is also great news about neither Chris nor you carry what contributed to Algilles. Karen - sometimes we don't have the answer of why things happen and we just have to say "I don't know why this is happening but I trust you God!" You and Chris have both been so amazingly strong through everything and I admire how you continue to put Kevin in God's loving hands and trust Him. Love ya all!
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 5:32 PM CST
Dear Karen, I hope Kevin gets better, my prayers for him, a big hug for you and your family, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 9:24 AM CST
Karen & Chris:
My thanks to God for defying the doctors. I didn't know what God's answer would be to our prayers but I knew He'd give us an answer that was His will. There are so many people praying for Kevin. He means so much to so many people. He has helped many people focus on God and his grace. Miracles are happening all around us everyday, we just don't take the time to see them. Kevin has made us stop and look. He is God's miracle. His life has made such an impact.
You two are amazing! You dedication and love for your children is phenomenal! God bless you Chris for taking the next step and asking to speak with your doctor. What a tribute your wife gave you when she said your actions saved Kevin's life. There aren't enough words to express my respect and admiration for both of you. My heart is consumed with love for your family and my appreciation for God's grace. He has given Kevin back to you, again. What a gift! It makes this Christmas season so much more meaningful. God bless you!
Mary Roesinger <mroesinger@c2solutions.us>
Severna Park, MD USA - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 10:47 AM CST
All the prayers going out for Kevin helped to pull him through I'm sure!!
Pat Becker <pbecker@c2solutions.us>
Beltsville, MD - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 10:17 AM CST
Karen - I wish I could be there to give you a big hug. I have been praying for Kevin and checking the site to read an update. I am so glad that Chris asked for Dr. Schwartz. Kevin is a miracle child and has such a fight on the inside of him. I pray that things go smoothly today with the kidney dialysis and it gives Kevin some relief from pain and helps him to get stronger on his own. I love ya girl! I wish that I could be there with you. Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Monday, December 5, 2005 1:08 PM CST
Karen and Chris - you all are in my thoughts and prayers. When I read the website today - this song came to my mind, it is a worship hymn we sing at our church "Your name is above all names." The name of Jesus is above any sickness, disease, infection or situation and I pray right now in the name of Jesus that whatever is trying to attack Kevin's body right now has to stop and that he continues to grow stronger and is strengthened every day. I love you guys and my heart goes out to you - I pray for your strength too! You all are amazing! God Bless, Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Sunday, December 4, 2005 5:20 PM CST
Dear Karen, I came back from Peru three days ago and I have been so busy, I'll be in touch with you, how was his birthday? I saw the e-mail about the book, we'll talk next week, I hope you have a peaceful weekend, my prayers for Kevin, you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, December 2, 2005 3:58 PM CST
Hi Karen,
You did a great job talking to Gracie. I would tell her that the Dr.'s will do their very best but it's Gods'call if Kevin lives on earth or goes back to heaven to be with Him.I also think I'd would tell her that God didn't make Kevin sick that the little cells that make a baby just weren't perfect but that God picked the McLane family because He knew they would be the perfect family to love and take care of Kevin.
Love You All,
Anita
Anita Myers <THANKS4LIFE@EARTHLINK.NET>
Akron, Oh summit - Thursday, December 1, 2005 2:52 PM CST
Didnt get a chance to call yesterday - but wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving !!! We will be over this weekend. Cheers!
Uncle Tim and family
- Friday, November 25, 2005 10:08 AM CST
May the Lord continue to strengthen Kevin and his loving family.
Jason Richardson and Family <jas7636996@aol.com>
Naylor, md usa - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 5:51 PM CST
Hello Karen and Chris,
Just wanted to wish your family a Happy Thanksgiving and I hope Kevin gets over his infection soon.
Love and prayers always,
Chris
Chris Woods
Bowie, md - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 12:04 AM CST
Karen and Chris - Happy belated anniversary to you! And happy belated birthday to Kevin too! I was actually in town last week and had plans to come over for the birthday party but it seemed like everyone I was around was sick and I did not want to take any chances. It sounds like you all had a good time. I am glad that the two of you are finally getting out to use your certificate! I need to get your address from you if you can send it to me. It sounds like exciting news from Stanford! You all are awesome and in my many thoughts and prayers! Give Gracie and Kevin big hugs and kisses from me. Hope to see you next time I am in town.
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St. Louis, MO - Saturday, November 19, 2005 0:20 AM CST
Your family will always be in my prayers.
Darriyell Honaker <dhonaker@vrtch.com>
Waldorf, MD 20602 - Friday, November 18, 2005 10:46 AM CST
Happy birthday Kevin! I'm sorry I couldn't make it to your party this weekend, but I have a cold. Wishing you, your mommy, daddy and big sister Gracie a wonderful Thanksgiving this year.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 7:02 AM CST
Kevin:
Happy 2nd Birthday big boy!
Love you all!
Traci & Jimmy
Ellicott , City USA - Friday, November 11, 2005 11:44 AM CST
Dear Karen, I'm sorry I won't be able to go to Kevin's Birthday because I'm traveling tomorrow to Lima, Peru to visit my family, I would like to visit him in December if it is possible, I'll get in touch with you when I come back, I wish Kevin a Happy, Happy, Happy Birthday and many, many, many more to come, many happy moments, he is in my thoughts and prayers, have a beautiful weekend and enjoy Kevin's Birthday, all the best for you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Thursday, November 10, 2005 11:46 AM CST
CITY ELECTION RESULTS
Mayor
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Councilmembers
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Susan Hoffmann
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Anne Robbins
here are the results from yesturday's election.
Jessie Fell <zazu4@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, November 9, 2005 1:00 PM CST
Dear Chris and Karen, Things will work out. I think Katie and I are coming. Katie is feeling much better and wants to see your guys. My computer has been acting up so this message is short. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, November 7, 2005 6:34 PM CST
you will have to rent out Ravens stadium (yes, chris, RAVENS!) for kevin's party... so many people who love kevin will be lined up to see the birthday boy! i will be out of town but "the moms" and I would love to have another special party if we can work it out! We love you and are glad you are doing well! Thanks for the message... you are wonderful and we miss you! (but don't you come visiting JHH!)
AnnaRuth Kelley <ark4heels@yahoo.com>
Baltimore, MD - Wednesday, October 26, 2005 7:39 PM CDT
Dear Karen, Just to let you know that I check on Kevin often through the web page and with your Mom. You and your family are constantly in my prayers,
Martha Neal <marthaneal@gmpexpress.net>
- Wednesday, October 26, 2005 7:18 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I haven't been writing because I fractured my foot one week ago and I haven't been feeling well and I can't walk too much, I have like special boot and I have to use a cane to walk, I feel like a 90 year old lady, well, I will be better hopefully soon. You and Kevin and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and yes, I would love to go and see Kevin, I want to know your address and how to get there, regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 4:15 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I am going to try again to send an entry. God bless you both for the hard work you do in taking care of Kevin. The load is heavy and you are doing a great job in carring it. God bless you. Talked to Chris the other night and Kevin sounds like he is doing good. I hope the pharmacist gets some luck with Kevin's meds. I pray that up coming test show that Kevin can wait till January. He would be home for the holidays. What a blessing. Hugs, kisses, and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, October 20, 2005 7:17 AM CDT
Karen and Chris,
This might be a blessing having to wait. Now some organizations and Churches have more time to do benfits.
We keep you in our prayers. We love you all and so does God !!
Keep the Faith !!
Anita
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Ohio USA - Monday, October 17, 2005 4:07 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, You go Chris. Why can't you get a nurse that can stay up. Is it in their contract to sleep on the job? Do they get paid for sleeping on the job? Would they take care of their own families like this? If you take care of family out of love you can take care of other familes as part of your job. You are getting paid to help them out. What great news about the medicine. A funraiser sounds like a great idea but is there time for it to happen. You would need this done in the next couple of weeks. Pray. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, October 14, 2005 7:55 AM CDT
Karen and Chris,
I am so happy for all of you. Kevin has a chance to get more out of life and maybe get some more "cars".
A fund raiser is a good idea this is a chance for your church to get involved or an organization you belong to. Bake sales, dinners, etc. I am sure there are hundreds of people that support you with their thoughts and prayers that would love to support you with some of their money. I can't do much but I sure would love to do a little. How about it everyone??
Love and prayers to all of you, God has you in the palm of His hands. His will is being done. Yea.
Anita
Anita and Frank Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Thursday, October 13, 2005 12:44 AM CDT
What about a fundraiser to help you guys get to California? I'm sure theres tons of organizations out there who will help as well......just a thought.
Kelly Talley <thetalleys0508@verizon.net>
Owings Mills, MD - Thursday, October 13, 2005 12:26 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Sorry I haven't written. The other night I wrote in the guestbook but our computer jammed and I lost my entry. I was upset. For as sick as Kevin has been it sounds like his is doing well with PT. One day at a time seems to be Kevin's speed. Grace will one day grow up and say to you, "You were right, mom." Since when does a doctor charge to write a referral. I have never heard of such a thing. This doctor does not have Kevin's back. What is wrong with her. You are trying to help your child and she is trying to stop you. Give 'em hell, Karen.
Kevin will be in the hospital on his birthday and that is OK because you guys will be with him. You guys will be at the hospital for your anniversary and that's OK because you will be where you need to be. Shame on the home care nurses, insurance company and doctor that are trying to hold you back from taking care of your son. Your mother is right. God loves you very much and will put everything in place. What goes around does come around. Stay strong for God loves you and is watching over you. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, October 13, 2005 9:36 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I think it is wonderful that he is doing well and he is going to have the surgery, everything is going to be great, keep writing, all my prayers for Kevin, you, Chris and Gracie, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, October 12, 2005 10:47 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm so happy with the great news, yes, there is hope, I keep praying for Kevin, you and your family, congratulations to you and Chris for being such sweet parents, all my thoughts and prayers for all of you, love, hugs, kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, October 7, 2005 11:11 AM CDT
What wonderful news!!!! Love to all
lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.hih.gov>
Stafford, Va Stafford - Friday, October 7, 2005 4:46 AM CDT
AMEN,AMEN yes God is answering our prayers !He has been ever since Kevin was born. We will continue to pray and ask for Gods' will to be done. I think God wants him to stay here with his great family for a while longer. ! Yea God. Thank You.
and yes, I am crying and I have BIG goosebumps on my entire body.
I agree with you , You should have one HUGE party for Kevin's 2nd. birthday.
Love You,
Anita and Frank
Anita Myers <thankd4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Ohio USA - Thursday, October 6, 2005 9:02 PM CDT
What WONDERFUL news! I have a feeling this is the start of something great!
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Thursday, October 6, 2005 5:32 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Wow! Cried! California! God does answer prayers. Sometimes it just doesn't seem fast enough. I hope you spent all day happy. You deserve it. Happy, scared, thrilled, worried - there is a lump in my chest and it is so full I can hardly breath. Hope, prayers and love have gotten you this far and they will take you where you are going. Thank you Lord for helping this family. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, October 6, 2005 4:44 PM CDT
That is great news, Let me know if you need anything. I would be glad to help. Sorry have nt been by but everyone in my house have had colds and did not want to give anything to Kvein. I am so happy for all of you.
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD - Thursday, October 6, 2005 2:24 PM CDT
The good news brought tears to my eyes. Each day I too have been waiting to hear what the Stanford doctors thought. I guess it's "California here you come!!". Keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Thursday, October 6, 2005 10:21 AM CDT
I will keep Kevin in my prayers. God has brought him this far. I know he will be with him all the way.
Debbie Prather <DPRATHER@ROCKVILLEMD.GOV>
Burtonsville, md USA - Thursday, October 6, 2005 9:59 AM CDT
Yes - I am crying too! This is such exciting news and all of the money needed for this will be available too. Kevin has people praying for him all over! I am sorry that you had such a rough time in the hospital, somehow it seems that they think if you are there then they don't have to do their job. But you would rather do it yourself because you know that you do it with love and care - and it is just a job to them. You are a fabulous mommy!!!!! and daddy too!!!!! and big sister toooo!!!!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, mo - Thursday, October 6, 2005 9:08 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Give 'em hell Karen. It is scary to think what would happen to any child at that ER room. Kevin looks like a sick child and I can't believe that the ER people can treat people like this. Thank God for the NIH person who visited you. You and your family are in our prayers. I am praying for Kevin to come home soon. Things will work out because God is with you all. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 7:11 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, God bless you Karen for being such a smart mommy. You do what you have to do. I support you in all of your decisions. If Kevin is a fighter then he must have gotten it from you. Be strong because you seem to know what is best for your child. I pray things go well over the next few days. With you there by Kevin's side he will be home in no time. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, October 3, 2005 7:18 AM CDT
I hope you guys are not at Shady Grove too long. Sorry we haven't been in touch for awhile. I love Kevin's new pictures on the website - what a cutie!! Isabel was talking about Gracie the other day - hopefully we will all get up there again soon for a visit. I am coming only twice a month now for work and am always rushing to get there and get back home. We have some crazy news - I am expecting AGAIN - the new baby and Tony will be 13 months apart. We were surprised, but happy. Anyway, just wanted to let you know we are still thinking of you and praying for Kevin.
Sharon, Anthony, Isabel and Tony Simpson <sharons@mafcu.org>
portsmouth, va - Sunday, October 2, 2005 8:55 PM CDT
Wishing for a speedy hospital stay for the big boy!
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Sunday, October 2, 2005 2:59 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Staying on top of Kevin's care is all you can do. It is stressful. I pray for Kevin every night. He is a fighter and a very good boy. His body is fighting so hard to get better. Love him. Hi - Chris and Grace. How is everything with you guys? Work and school going OK? God bless you all over the weekend. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, September 30, 2005 6:24 PM CDT
It was so very nice to meet your family at the picnic last week. Gracie seems so sweet...I can't imagine her being mischievious like you say ;) (although my girls do the same!) Kevin seemed to do really well the whole day, good for him! Both our girls have included him in their prayers since they met him. Even though we've been talking and reading about him, it was really special to them that they got to meet him. Have a great weekend guys!
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Friday, September 30, 2005 6:37 AM CDT
DEAr chris and karen, wow! having kool-aid spilled on your keyboard makes typing hard. i will have to keep this short. i don't know what words of comfort i could write that would make you guys feel better. I pray for you every night and i love you very much. Karen you are a good person. TALk to GOD and if you have to yell at him. trust me he will still love you because he understands. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love , CATHY
cathy bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
bowie, md u.s., p.g. - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 2:52 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm sorry to hear that Kevin is not doing so well, I'm praying for him, I really hope he feels better, try breathing exercises to relax for you, they are really great to lower blood pressure, try seating in a comfortable place for 10 or 15 minutes, no phones, nothing, relax your muscles and concentrate only in your breathing, breath in through your nose and breath out through your mouth, think only in your breathing, do this several times a day, even in the office, car, etc., the best place would be in a quiet room of course, all my prayers and thoughts for you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 12:30 AM CDT
I truly enjoy reading about Kevin and Gracie, I don't know if you remember me but I took care of Kevin at JHH a long time ago (Kelly Hill RN). I think I was probably one of the first nurses on CMSC-6 to care for him. I don't work at JHH but I still talk to Julia and AnnaRuth every now and then and they told me about this website. I enjoy reading about one of my favorite patients, i'm soooo glad to here that he is progressing so well. Little Kevin has come such a long way, well for starters his not little Kevin anymore his a big boy! I will keep you and your family in my prayers, best wishes!
Kelly <thetalleys0508@verizon.net>
Owings Mills, MD - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 1:05 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I hope you had a really good time. Maybe even a chance to relax. Nina and Kevin will be fine. Teething sounds like a good reason for the low grade fevers. Looking forward to reading how your adventure went. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, September 23, 2005 7:47 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, How long does Grace go to school for? All day program? Be firm with bedtime now before it gets out of hand. She could be testing you to see if she can get away with staying up a little longer. It's also getting darker earlier. It is hard to take care of two children. She knows Kevin is special. She also knows she is special. You are a great spirit Karen and Grace was just letting you know how tired she really was. Love her like you do every day and it will work out.
Kevin should be talking in sentences soon. Hey Kevin say: mama, again - mama. Boy I got all chocked up thinking about it. What a wonderful sound that will be. Thank you Lord. Now, how is Kevin's bottom doing. Hope it hasn't gotten any worse. Chris and Karen - Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 6:16 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm always reading to see how Kevin is doing, I'm glad that he is doing well, except the fever that I hope is gone, how sweet is Gracie, beautiful girl, I think you can take Kevin to the picnic, it would be fun, good luck with the nurses, I hope you find a good one, all my prayers for you, Kevin and your family, regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, September 19, 2005 12:08 AM CDT
If Kevin is well next weekend, I'm sure everyone would love to meet him and Gracie too, me and my girls included!
I love reading about all of his little antics!
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Monday, September 19, 2005 11:10 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, What a beautiful thing that Grace said. She is a very loving child. She cares for you a lot. Didn't seem so concerned for Chris mowing the lawn. She loves you too, Chris. Maybe Kevin is allergic to the nurse. Could explain the fever. HeHe Don't worry about next weekend that much. You will make a good choice in what to do. Love to the McLane family. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, September 19, 2005 7:38 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I was on the computer just checking. Katie has a POMS performance today. Her prayers are with you. Have a great weekend. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Saturday, September 17, 2005 10:00 AM CDT
Hi Karen,
My name is Nadine and I am friends with Theresa. I live near Ocean City and next weekend is SunFest and it does start on Thursday, Sept 22nd. This weekend is Bike Week. That means all the hogs are in town. LOL. I am sorry that you were treated rudely by the hotel. I hope it will make you feel better that I can tell you that alot of people will not be returning to Ocean City because of the same behavior towards them by the businesses of the city. I suggest that you write the mayor and tell him about what had happened to you. I cannot blame you for not wanting to come here. I wish I could accomidate you as you were looking forward to your little "reprive" from a very demanding situation. My prayers are always with you and your family. I hope one day to meet you! You are remarkable and very strong. Kevin and Gracie are beautiful children, and you are very blessed. I hope we can keep in touch!
Nadine Efird <efirds@comcast.net>
Selbyville, DE USA - Friday, September 16, 2005 3:30 PM CDT
Hey Kids! We're baaaack! It's so great to read that he is blowing kisses! I want him to blow some at me! Can I be his girlfriend? We HAVE to meet up sometime! The girls and I are ready when you are. Just let us know! Love you guys!!
Julia Paganini
Baltimore, MD USA - Friday, September 16, 2005 12:45 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, YEAH! Big sister is a winner. They could have told you the first time about the "Sun Feast". Maybe they were booked. OK! Honestly, they still should have told you this. Why are these so called "nurses" so uncaring. Is that part of the job. Caring does not mean you have to love this child, but it does mean taking care of him. They are getting paid for this. What a terrible thing to have to deal with. Karen you are strong and God loves you. Boy! Grace is spending the weekend with her cousins. What a break for you guys. It's good for her, too. Have you thought about the nursing field Karen. You are really good at knowing what Kevin wants. HeHeHe: Ask the nursing company to give you a job and have them assign you to Kevin. Night Shift: You get to stay at home, watch Kevin and get paid to sleep. Kevin would be so much better with just a day time nurse. Could Kevin be running a low grade fever because he might be teething? What about a yard sale for the extra clutter? Hugs, kisses and prayers Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, September 16, 2005 7:50 AM CDT
Hello Chris and Karen,
Traci gave me the pictures of Kevin and both me and my mom love them and think Kevin is a doll baby. It was very thoughtful of you guys to think of us.
I just wanted to say thank you and to let you know you guys are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Love Chris and Charlotte
Chris Woods
Bowie, MD USA - Thursday, September 15, 2005 1:10 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Time with Kevin is very special. Love ya. A sleeping nurse is no nurse at all. They get paid for sleeping on the job. Well sign me up. They should have pay taken away because of this. Keep up with the Ilex. It will get all better. Your prayers to God are special prayers. He will reward you for you love. Grace is a big girl now. She will do fine at school. It will be good for her. Prayers for the second opinion. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, September 15, 2005 7:58 AM CDT
Just dropping int to say, Hey! Love you all!
Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 3:36 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I sure hope you can find a better hotel. For business sake they really should be a little more understanding. Boy! Kevin really is learning how to check out his little world. Pulling on his tube, I take it, is not a good thing. He will learn. Stay strong and firm. You are doing a great job Karen. Chris stay strong. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 8:06 AM CDT
Hi,
THe picture up date on his web page is just to cute. He is getting so big. He sits on my desk and we talk quite a lot. I am praying that the Dr. will study that chart,and find a way to help Kevin. So he can contuine to grow and develope. Tell Gracie I said hi and love her too. I have her pic in my wallet.
You guys take care and turn your worry over to God. He's up all night anyway. He does wonders. Just look at Kevin and you'll see hundreds of them. Love you and God Bless.
Anita
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Ohio USA - Monday, September 12, 2005 8:29 PM CDT
Hey Bro, Just wanted to let you know that since I'm in the "trailer", here at work, we put this on our "Favorites" and we check in on Kevin every day. Lots of love, Jeff and all at the C2Solutions trailer....
Jeff Masone
- Monday, September 12, 2005 9:11 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Still praying that Dr. Hanley gives Kevin's charts a look at. Hoping something catches his eye for some good news. Try and sleep Karen. Let God take your worry for the night. He doesn't mind. Talked to Chris last night and he said Kevin's bottom is getting better. That is good news. Take care. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, September 12, 2005 7:37 AM CDT
Karen,
We're still having computer problems so i hadn't visited in a week or so. It sounds like things have been pretty good since then. I'll be sending vibes to Dr. Hanley so that she/he is willing not only to review Kevin's chart, but feels there is something that can be done to help him.
Have a wonderful weekend.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Friday, September 9, 2005 3:29 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Shoes shopping can be a pain. Keeping looking you'll find what you want at the price you want to pay. What about a store just for kids shoes. You might have some luck there. Kevin's bottom must be getting better if he let you use paper towels. The Ilex must be working. I will pray that your "BEACH" vacation works out. I hope that this second opinion is good news. You guys have a great weekend. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crapabble111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, September 9, 2005 7:55 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Shoes! Boy Kevin sure is growing up. Wait till he finds out that they make noise on the floor. What a wonderful sound that will be. Talking! WOW! What a wonderful sound that is. Sorry about all the hassle with hospice. Insurance SUCKS! Grace will be fine. I hope she had a great day at school. Chris, I love you. You guys will work everything out as far as Kevin goes. Great parents can do great things together. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, September 8, 2005 7:47 AM CDT
I am so happy that Kevin is doing good! His little hiney getting better and saying some words now too. They usually pick up the bad words too, so you will have to be careful what you say around him now. I hope that Gracie has a great day at school today, I am sure she will! You need not be worried about what the teacher thinks - if she has a heart beat than she would never view you as a basket case. Nobody in their right mind would view you as a basket case - you are a strong, phenominal women, mother and wife. Most women would not be able to do everything you do and handle it as wonderfully as you do. I really admire you from the bottom of my heart. I will be praying for the review of Kevin's file and that God is doing a miracle right now.
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, mo - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 10:40 AM CDT
Hello My Favorite Family,
As usual I am so pleased to hear that Kevin is doing well. I am sure that is because he has the best parents ever. You guys keep up the good work and continue to fight for Kevin. We are still praying for him daily and this is just proof that prayers work. I love the new look for the website and the party idea sounds fantastic. Missing you but glad that your not here.
Office Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
baltimore, md - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 8:47 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, So glad to read that the Ilex is working for Kevin. I hope his bottom keeps getting better. Hospice, meds, nurses - Karen I know it's a lot to deal with but you do a great job with it. That is why Kevin is here with us today because of all your hard work. Bless you. God bless Nina. Grace will do fine at school. Going out for lunch is great for the first day of school. It's spending time with mommy that she needs. Karen cry anytime that you want. Even if you don't mean for it to happen. It's good for you. God bless Karen. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy Bastian
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 8:41 AM CDT
Still keeping up with the ever-changing updates.
Still thinking about you all constantly.
Still fervently praying.
Still boggled by it all.
Still incredibly proud of my brother and his family. Still in awe.
Uncle Tim
- Tuesday, September 6, 2005 8:28 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I forgot to mention about Kevin talking, I think is a happy moment to hear him saying a word, enjoy every minute of it, I'm very glad about that, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 2:33 PM CDT
Dear Karen, congratulations the main page is great, the photos are beautiful, Kevin is so cute and beautiful and is so big now, I hope you can have a second opinion, I'm glad you had some free time with Chris,very good, my thoughts and prayers are with Kevin, you and your family, regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 2:27 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, The web page is FANTASTIC! You wrote one time about having it changed. It looks great. Glad to see new pictures of Kevin. Your nursing problems never seem to go away. Glad some relief helped you and Chris spend some alone time together. Breakfast the right way to start the day. Karen, so happy Kevin talked. What a beautiful sound that is. Good luck with this second opinion. I will pray. Reading the entry every day does make me smile. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 7:54 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Tony's entry is priceless. I promise to honor the same request at Thanksgiving. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Sunday, September 4, 2005 12:40 AM CDT
I witnessed the miracle child. Yes, I got some smiles. I got to see Kevin's temper. I saw Kevin throw up. And yes, I now have a differenct perspective on how cheese sticks to the lid of a pizza box. I listened to Uncle Tom and Kevin carry on a conversation; Ugh, Ugh. I prayed for him. A picture is worth a thousand words; to be in the presence of this miracle of life; a little angel living on earth, is amazing. Such a strong spirit. Karen and Chris and Gracie, I commend your willingness and perserverance in maintaining your composure and being there for Kevin. I sense that Kevin's life purpose is yet undiscovered; the miracle has only begun. I have a request; when Kevin throws his first Thanksgiving pea (Aunt Rainy told me she will make it so), take that pea and cut it into as many pieces as there are people at the table, pass them out, and give thanks. To the many who will read this guestbook entry, I ask you to make a similar token meal offering and give thanks. We will continue to pray for the McLane family.
Tony <tonyszw@aol.com>
Charleston, SC - Friday, September 2, 2005 11:39 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Bless you Karen for your strength. I don't know how I would have handled that situation. I think I would have been shocked at what she said first. Then...I'm not sure. Never heard of Ilex. I sure hope it works. I hope Tony had a good day with Kevin. Do you trust the morning nurse? With Grace gone maybe you and Chris should try and do something. I pray that your situation with hospice and Kevin's central line work out for the best. It is going to be a beautiful weekend. Try and get some fresh air and sunshine with Kevin. Have a great weekend. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, September 2, 2005 9:03 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, HA HA HA, "Awesome 3 year old", HA HA HA. That gave me a great chuckle. What a sense of humor you have Karen. Maybe that's why Grace and Kevin were given to you. You are a good mother. I really hope that toy helps Kevin. Sounds like a great idea. Good luck at the "Open house" thing. Good job with the batteries Chris. You are a good dad. I hope you receive some news from the other doctor. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, September 1, 2005 7:48 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, WOW! Kevin is really growing up fast. He sounds like a fast learner in communications. That will help you take care of him even better. More good news about these ladies coming in once a week. I pray that Kevin shows you what he knows. It is wonderful to see them learn. PARTY! Did you write B-Day PARTY for Kevin? That is a great idea and we would like to come. Dear Lord, please watch over this special family. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111 @aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 10:01 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Doctors are so funny. DUH!!! We know certain medications can make you throw up and have diarrhea. What about a medicine to make his little hiney better now. It would be nice if the blood work showed that he can come off of some medicine. Good luck with that. Is Kevin into size 12 months? Your right $18 is to much for pj's for Kevin. Karen glad to read that you are getting out with Kevin. Fresh air and new sights are good for him. God, bless Nina. More good news: handicap parking permit. That's great. If you have been taking Kevin off of feedings for up to 1 1/2 hours a day I don't think it is hurting him. Doesn't that give his tummy a rest from always processing food, and at 23 lbs. he has some good fat on him to burn up. One day at a time. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, August 29, 2005 5:17 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you all know we were thinking of you and missing you ! Glad things are going well. Ryan was a pro nose picker for awhile and im sure it runs in the family some where along the line...Love yas! Hugs & Kisses
Laura Aunt Mary Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD usa - Friday, August 26, 2005 7:40 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm so happy to know that Kevin is doing better, I hope he uses the walker, it would be excellent for him and I'm glad he is still covered by Hospice, have a great weekend, hugs and kisses, prayers for Kevin, you and your family, love, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, August 26, 2005 5:49 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I sure hope with help from mom Kevin will be able to add his walker to his list of toys. It would be so good for him and his legs. Once he figures this out there will be no stoping him. Do you really want him to be mobile? A 1 ounce can at $7.00 should kick some butt. No pun intended. I really hope this helps heal Kevin's bottom. Glad Kevin will still be covered by hospice. This entry is full of good news: a walker, butt balm, and hospice coverage. I am so happy for you Karen. Hugs, kisses, and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, August 26, 2005 1:24 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, You are a good mom, Karen. For almost 2 years( I can't beleive that Kevin will be 2 years old in 11 weeks) you and Chris have made the right choices in regards to Kevin's care. They are hard to make sometimes, but you guys always seem to make the right ones. It will work out because God is right there with you. Good luck tomorrow. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Dear Lord please make Kevin's bottom start to heal. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, August 25, 2005 5:06 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Nose boogers washed down with a Wendy's Frosty, a meal fit for a KING! If Kevin keeps this up you might be able to take out the feeding tube. If there is GOLD in them hills Kevin can help pay off his medical bills. Kevin we all hate red lights. It's just part of life. You didn't write about his bottom. I hope it is getting better. I'll pray. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 5:45 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, WOW! Alone time. I hope you both had a good time. So glad Grace had fun with her cousins. She is getting to that age where a short time away from mom is O.K.. Hope you can get Kevin out sometime this week because the weather is going to be great. Sorry Kevin's butt is not doing good. I pray to God to help it get better. Good luck at the doctors. Maybe they can give you something for Kevin's butt. Hang in there Kevin. Mommy is trying to take care of your butt. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 8:07 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm so glad that Kevin is feeling better, take him out, is good for him and I'm so happy that you had a nice time alone with Chris, you should do that more often and great that Gracie enjoyed being with her cousins, this is also very good to be with other members of the family, all my thoughts and prayers are for all of you, take care, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, August 22, 2005 3:05 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Glad to read Kevin is doing good with his throwing up. Is Kevin's sore bottom yeast related. If so what about just applying the yogurt for a short period of time on his bottom. Plain yogurt (no flavors) and cold. The cold yogurt will cool the area. It might even feel good. Grace is a good girl considering what you guys go through on a daily basis. Nurses, What ever. Karen I laughed when I read about Wal-Mart. Ill mannered people piss me off too. Early morning is best when shopping at any Wal-Mart. Don't you and Chris have a date tonight. If so have a good time and relax. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, August 19, 2005 4:57 PM CDT
Hi Karen- It does sound like Kevin has hit the "challenging twos". He is a smarty and the more you treat him like a "kid", the more he will probably like it. No matter what are the circumatnces, kids thrive on structure and discipline - even when they are sick. It is all part of being a loving parent. - which you are in innumerable ways. I would try "Vermont Bag Balm" on Kevin's little bottom. It comes in a 3" green square can - I have seen it at Costco, but a lot of places have it. It is a real thick emoliant cream - like petroleum jelly - so it protects, but it has some penetrating things which help to heal. Worked wonders on my daughter for many things. Perhaps after being on so many antibiotics, Kevin could use a dose of good gut bacteria, Perhaps trying him on some yogurt and/or getting some pro-biotic/acidolphius kind of stuff might also help. Might also help him to digest things better and ease his liver. Let him move and squirm and rub his toes in the grass and fresh air - when it is nnice outside. God's creation is wonderfully therapeutic! Just some thoughts. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.....I'll be praying for your Walmart escape - they may have the Bag Balm there! Showers of blessing to come your way - and I'm glad that you take some time periodically to shed some tears - that's why God made them! Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, MD USA - Friday, August 19, 2005 9:43 AM CDT
Sneaking a quick kiss and hug to baby nephew Kevin. XOXOXO.
Uncle Tim
- Thursday, August 18, 2005 8:28 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Dreams are good for you. They help you cope, think things through and plan your next move. You are a good mother with a lot on your plate. How sweet to read you have a date. I hope you and Chris get a little dressed up. Make sure you relax and enjoy it. Please try and get some sleep. Grace will be fine. Spending time away from each other is good for both of you. I am happy that you have found a mother going through what you are going through. Meeting her will be good for both of you. Kevin you be a good boy for mommy. Like mom said, "It's hard being a big boy in a little body." Dear Lord, thank you for watching over this special family. Hugs, kisses and prayer. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, August 18, 2005 4:42 PM CDT
Hello Karen -
I read your entry on our son's page today. Wow! You and your family have been through so much over the last couple of years. I can't believe how many similarities there are between our boys. I was thrilled to read that you have Dr. Schwartz at Hopkins. We love her and Mary Kay. I hope you are going to the Orioles Game in September. I would love to exchange further information so we can get together. We are always looking for other families to talk to. E-Mail me sometime.
Take Care,
Melanie Koller
Melanie Koller <melanie.koller@stjes.com>
Olney, MD - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 9:31 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, One day at a time. The Lord is by your side every day. It hurts when reality kicks in. Just know the Lord is there. The man at work sounds like a loving and caring man. I'm sure he did not mean to upset you. You both had something special to share and like you said it just makes you think. Maybe Kevin is hitting the terrible twos early. The weather is beautiful. Sure hope Kevin can get outside. P.S. Dear Lord please watch over Nina. She is a special Angel. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 4:13 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I saw the photos, are beautiful, Kevin is so cute and big, Gracie is beautiful too, keep the hope, enjoy one day at a time, don't worry about the future now, all my prayers for all of you, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 10:26 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, So happy to read about Kevin. Wow,23 lbs. That is great. This past weekend was the pits as far as the weather goes. Sounds like you all had a really great time at the fair. So glad to hear that you and Chris got away by yourselves and had a great time. That was nice you won some cash, but I bet (HAHA) you had fun losing it. Dear Lord thank you for letting this good couple have some time alone. GOD BLESS YOU ALL. Hugs, kisses and prayers. Love, Cathy.
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S.,P.G. - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 8:07 PM CDT
Karen - I am glad that Kevin is doing good! It sounds like you all had a great time at the fair too - I don't think I want to know how you know a donkey has a dry mouth!I am so glad for yours and Chris' sake that you were able to get out and have some adult time and have fun. You two are the most amazing parents. Continuing to pray for you all! Love ya
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, Mo - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 7:20 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Like I said in my last entry. Waaahooo. I bet Kevin really did like his bath. It is so hot outside it might be Fall before you can get him outside. What a wonderful surprise you got at the hospital. Lovely nurses coming for a visit with Kevin. Karen and Chris you guys are doing a great job at being parents. Grace and Kevin are very lucky to have you. Stay cool, relax and enjoy the weekend with Kevin. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, August 12, 2005 4:20 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm so happy that finally beautiful Kevin is feeling better and all of you too, I hope you have a nice weekend, take photos to see him playing, all my prayers for Kevin, you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, August 12, 2005 10:53 AM CDT
Yeh! No more casts!!! I am so happy for Kevin and all of you too. Now it will be easier to get that bottom healed. And he can get a tubby too!!! Now we will just continue to pray that the bottom heals quickly! God Bless
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, mo - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 10:29 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Thank you Lord for hearing ours prayers. WaaaaHooooo!!! I sure hope Kevin really loves his first bath. It's been so long. Now mommy can get down to business and getting your butt all better. Naked outside what every young boy loves to do. Sunshine and fresh air here comes Kevin. Kevin, sorry it's so hot outside. I bet his hair is B-E-A-utiful. I am really happy. Karen and Chris you must be happy. Spreading the good news over here. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S.,P.G. - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 4:35 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I hope the cast can be taken tomorrow so that it can be better for little Kevin, I hope so, let us know what happened, my thoughts and prayers for all of you, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, August 8, 2005 4:29 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Dear Lord, Please let Kevin's cast come off. I hope the doctor's say it can. I hope they notice Kevin's behind and give mommy some super cream to make it all better faster. Kevin you are going to LOVE your BATH. I hope you do. Your arm will get better too. Grace I am glad you stayed for the ballet. Were the dresses pretty? Karen maybe Grace has a swimmers ear. Drops and staying out of the water for a while will clear them up. Chris I haven't forgotten about you. Love you bunch. No mention of nurses. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? Good Luck tomorrow and may the Lord be with you. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, August 8, 2005 3:01 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I sure hope what you try on Kevin's little behind will help. Once that cast comes off it will heal alot faster. A good bath, some sunshine (naked of course), and mommy's great care will get Kevin all better. Karen I sure hope your day off goes well. I will pray to the Lord that a little luck goes your way. Chris, Grace and Kevin will be fine for the day. The Lord will be watching over them that day like every other day. Go have fun and try to relax. P.S. I already asked God if there was some way that he could, you know, maybe just touch the machine your playing on. Have a good weekend. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Saturday, August 6, 2005 11:04 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I am thrilled to read that the last couple of days and been ...good. The pool trip your taking sounds like a great escape, even though it's for a few hours. Kevin's expression must have been priceless. What a surprise he got. Dear Lord, Thank you for these good days. Please let the weekend plans work out. Watch over this family. Trying to stay cool, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S.,P.G. - Thursday, August 4, 2005 4:41 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I was thinking about you, my God, so many problems with the nurses, very upsetting, I hope you can find somebody good and nice for little Kevin, my prayers for all of you, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 5:29 PM CDT
Hi Karen, Try Lotromin cream for Kevin's diaper rash. When my twins were babies they had many rashes. I know it's used for athletes foot but the pediatrician recommended it. It's a little pricey but it worked way better and faster than Desitin. Please check with Kevin's doctor first.
Sandy Dindlebeck <dindlebeck@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 10:51 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Karen, God is watching over you. That is why you keep catching these nurses in lies and they leave. They know you are right and they know you fight well for Kevin. God's love is with you every day. You know how to take better care of your child then those dumb nurses. Dear Lord, Please help this family during these difficult times. Please comfort, guide and protect them. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 4:46 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, The cast will be off soon and that bath is going to feel soooooooo good to Kevin. I hope his sores are healing. Maybe Chris will take Grace and you could go to the movies by yourself. That would be SWEET! The weather has not been as good as I thought. Maybe over the weekend it will get better and Kevin can get more fresh air and sunshine. I pray your wishes for the weekend work out. Prayers, hugs, kisses and love. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, July 29, 2005 1:52 PM CDT
Karen & Chris,
I'm still having computer issues at home so I was surprised this morning to read that Kevin broke his arm. Poor guy. Guess that will teach him to arm wrestle! I must say once again what a lucky boy he is to have you as parents. Loving people who will fight for what is best for him. I continue to hope he feels better soon and that one day you will get good nursing care. Have a good weekend.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Thursday, July 28, 2005 9:00 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I hope Kevin feels better from his broken arm and from the problems with the cast, he is a great baby and you and Chris are doing a great job, I'll be away in Florida from tomorrow until next Wednesday, I'll be praying for all of you, I hope you can have peaceful days, regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 4:05 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Give them hell, honey. I am glad that they cut some of the cast away. Having to deal with stupid nurses that don't follow directions has got to be frustrating. Good thing Chris walks away because he would punch someone if he could. Why don't these cast guys, doctors or nurses seem to take Kevin's condition more seriously. On a healthy person maybe, but on a special child they should have some compassion. Yes? The weather will be nice for the next few days so you should be able to get Kevin outside. Love to all. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 8:59 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm so sorry to see all the problems you have been having, I really hope he feels better and that the problem with the cast gets fixed, all my prayers and thoughts for Kevin, you and your family, regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, July 25, 2005 11:54 AM CDT
Hi Karen and Chris- Wow - this little guy and you have one challenge after another! I will pray that you are able to get some relief from the cast thing soon - perhaps they could take off the cast and splint him until he completely heals - that would at least allow for easier cleaning. in the meantime, I hope you can get kevin out in the sunshine and fresh air a bit. I think the sun would help the wounds and make him feel better, as well as helping him get a Vitamin D fix! 15 minutes a day might help! You are doing such a wonderful job and are an inspiriation to us all. keep up the good fight and don't worry about crying - it is good medicine. even Jesus got to cry! we are praying. Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH.LI, MD - Monday, July 25, 2005 9:33 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Sorry to read that the leg cast can't come off for another 2 1/2 weeks. That Sucks! I hope you can get someone to look at that cast for Kevin's sake. I was really happy to hear Kevin does not have to have his arm in a cast. You and Chris are great parents. God loves you. Having to deal with Gracie and Kevin is a very hard job, but you are really good parents. Dear Lord please help Kevin feel better soon. Please watch over these people who call themselves doctors and nurses, if this were their child what would they do? Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, July 25, 2005 8:19 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm so sorry to hear that Kevin has a broken arm and so many problems, I really hope that he feels better and you too, you have the love of your family and good friends, my prayers and thoughts for all of you, regards, hugs and kisses for Kevin, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, July 22, 2005 3:32 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, WOW! So much changes in one day. I agree with you Karen. You have every right to be mad. A child in pain is a bad thing. Why other people don't understand this makes no sense. I am hoping that Kevin still gets his other cast off today. Dear Lord, I ask that prayers be answered for this family. These are good people you put in charge of this child. Please help them each day. Karen and Chris hugs, kisses and all my love go your way. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, July 22, 2005 12:22 AM CDT
Yeh - cast off tomorrow!!! How exciting for Gracie - with all of her swimming, and even holding her breath under water!!! Karen - you need to go to the movies - you are way overdue - and deserve that and much more! You are such an amazing women! Chris is an awesome guy too - you both really need a date night! I would so babysit if I were there. I may just have to drop in town soon to meet this little Kevin who i have so fallen in love with and to let you all have a date night! I love ya girl! The family is always in my thoughts and prayers!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, mo - Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:23 PM CDT
Hi all,
My computer hasn't been working so I haven't had my daily Kevin fix for a week now. Glad to hear that he is feeling well. I'm sure everyone is looking forward to getting that cast off. Have a great weekend!
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:12 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Gracie is going to be a pro in no time. Thank You Lord for Judy. Dear Lord, Thank you for watching over Kevin. He is a really Good Boy. His mother is a very special MOM. Thank You Lord for my brother. He is a very special DAD. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 1:13 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Glad to read that Kevin is not sick. This weather is getting to everyone. I hope the nurse works out for you guys. Gracie you keep swimming. What a good girl. Take care. Hugs, kisses and prayers are always going your way. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 8:08 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Sorry to hear that your weekend was not OK. One day at a time. I hope today goes better for all. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, July 18, 2005 7:25 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, He He, I know how you feel about the kid shows. They can drive you crazy, but the expressions on the kids faces save you. I hope you all had a great dinner. I am so glad that Kevin is doing really well. Grace is one busy little girl. Have a nice weekend and try to stay cool. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, July 15, 2005 9:24 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I really hope Kevin feels better and sleeps well, congratulations to Gracie for her swimming, I hope you and Chris can have a good night sleep, my prayers for all of you, hugs and kisses for Kevin and Gracie, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 4:40 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Uneventful is a really good thing. I hope Kevin keeps getting better. WOW! That is really wonderful what Grace can do. All my love and prayers. Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 12:00 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, So glad to read that Kevin is in a good mood. He must be feeling better. Gracie, you go girl. What a big girl to hold your breath under water and swimming. WOW! Gelcaps? What else do you say about that. I hope Kevin's bo-bo's are getting better. Dear Lord continue to give Karen strength. She is an angel. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 8:31 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, You are a good mother Karen. Thank you Lord for the cast guy. He really helped Karen. To bad they forgot you were there. You should have taken all the paper work. I think it would have been funny for these people to be looking for paper work. Kevin you are a really good boy. I am so glad to read that he is getting better. I pray that he doesn't have any more broken bones. Why can't these nurses be more careful with medicine. Who teaches these people. May you all have a great week. Hugs, kisses,love and prayers every day. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, July 11, 2005 7:45 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Where do these nurses get their education from. They don't come off as very smart. Would that nurse like for someone to give her child an overdose. I don't think so. Maybe Adi is the one. Her last case was five years. Dear Lord let her be the one. Kevin you are in my heart and prayers every day. Mommy is taking really good care of you. She is a special mommy. May Kevin get better soon. Love and prayers to all of you during this bumpy ride. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, July 8, 2005 8:03 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm glad that finally they removed the cast, I'm sad to know that Kevin is in pain, I hope he feels better soon, how can people who work with human beings be like that, terrible. All my prayers and thoughts for all of you, regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Thursday, July 7, 2005 1:04 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I got ver upset reading your entry. What kind of people put any child in this position. SHAME ON THEM FOR GOD KNOWS WHO THEY ARE. God's grace and love is on you Karen. Being home is the BEST place for Kevin to be. May Kevin's back heal quickly with no infections. My heart is full of love and prayers for the McLANE FAMILY. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 8:25 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm so sorry to read that you had all these problems, I was thinking about you, I really hope you can change his cast and everything goes well, my prayers for Kevin and you all, my regards, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, July 5, 2005 9:45 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, What a run around. You are a good mother to fight for Kevin. He knows you are fighting for him. I hope you get that appointment. Dear Lord, PLEASE get Kevin that appointment. His mother loves him very much. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, July 5, 2005 8:12 AM CDT
Chris and Karen - Just thinking about you and hoping Kevin is home and doing better! YOu all are in my prayers!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, mo - Monday, July 4, 2005 9:27 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, HAPPY 4th of JULY!!! I heard through the grape vine Kevin is home. That is great. I hope your day is enjoyable and relaxing. My prayers are with you all on this special day. GET WELL SOON, KEVIN. Hugs and Kisses to Grace and Kevin. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, July 4, 2005 8:10 AM CDT
Just to let you know we are thinking about you and hoping to hear that Kevin is home and feeling better.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@cxomcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Saturday, July 2, 2005 1:02 PM CDT
Well I hope the little guy is home by the time you read this. Your in my many thoughts and prayers. Love ya guys!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, MO - Friday, July 1, 2005 0:05 AM CDT
Hi Karen, Chris and Gracie - Hang in there and enjoy the sun on your face this weekend. You should have Kevin home with you and his beautiful eyes and smile can be your firework. Hugs to all. Aunt Cathy
Catherine Sabo <biggrammysabo@yahoo.com>
Hollywood, MD - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 10:24 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris,
I was sorry to hear about Kevin having to get his cast when I ran into Theresa on Sunday and now I'm really sorry to hear that he had to return to hospital. Although I don't post to this guestbook very often, you all are always in my thoughts. I hope that Kevin gets home soon so that I can stop by to see everyone (Karen, I got your reply to my email).
Love to all of you, Kristina
Kristina Hawse <winknkris@verizon.net>
Frederick, MD USA - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 9:02 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Just sending my thoughts and prayers your way. Hoping Kevin is feeling better soon. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 5:50 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm sorry to read that Kevin is in the hospital, I hope he is better soon and he can go home with you, all my prayers for all of you, regards, hugs and kisses for little Kevin, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 10:32 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Here is another bump in the road. Kevin is a very strong child and I pray he comes through this like everything else. Karen, I believe that God and his army of angels are with you. I believe God and his angels are with Kevin. One day at a time while God does his magic. Dear Lord please watch over this family and hold them tight in your arms. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 5:17 PM CDT
Sorry I missed you all on my short un-anticipated visit a few weeks ago. I suspect I will be be in town (Germantown) again soon. We continue to pray for all of you. Your endurance is remarkable. Keep on keepin on!
Tony <tonyszw@aol.com>
Charleston, SC - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 9:38 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I'm so sorry that Kevin has this other problem and using a cast, he is such a sweet baby, I hope he is better soon and doesn't feel pain, I can imagine how difficult it is, my prayers and thoughts for Kevin, you and your family, regards, kisses for little Kevin, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, June 27, 2005 10:39 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, So sorry to read about Kevin. God's path for Kevin is a bumpy road, but this must all be for a reason. Prayers continue for this child of God. Kevin we all love you very much. I hope you will be better very soon. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie , MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, June 27, 2005 10:20 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, So nice to read you got a night out. Thank you Grace for being a good girl. You are growing up to fast. Glad to read about the extra hours for nursing help. I pray you get the right nurse. Prayers again for Kevin's ribs to heal quickly. Prayers for all. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, June 23, 2005 2:31 PM CDT
Karen, Thank you for the pictures. They are growing so. Sorry to hear of the latest problem, but I know they will heal. I will be gone for a couple weeks and will miss reading about your wonderful efforts and his progress
Pauline Bryan <surfinggma06@verizon.net>
rockville, Md. US - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 8:07 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, With the right people in place God can work wonders. So glad to read Kevin's throwing up is getting better. How much does he weigh? Kevin is being a very good boy for having 2 broken ribs. Prayers are for Kevin to heal quickly, that good nurses are found, and Chris, Karen and Grace. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 8:17 AM CDT
Karen - so sorry to hear about Kevin's ribs - I am glad that he can atleast find a comfortable position and still play and be happy. I just received the pictures today - they are wonderful - thank you soooo much!! You are a wonderfully amazing mother and women! Love ya girl!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, MO - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 10:50 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Testing, Karen, is God's way of showing he is right by your side. Everything you do today is why I pray at night. Kevin's ribs will get better. It's just going to take him some extra time. You are a good mother Karen, and God loves you very much. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 8:21 AM CDT
Karen,
The pictures of your two little cuties arrived over the weekend. Thank you so much for them. I've put them up with pics of other family & friends in our playroom. Hoping Kevin's ribs are on the mend and that your day gets better and the car just needed a little rest!!
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 8:01 AM CDT
Dear Karen, thank you so much for the beautiful pictures, Gracie and Kevin are so sweet and beautiful, both are big, I will keep the photos with my family's pictures, thanks for sharing, you are great, how do you do to have time for everything, congratulations to you and Chris and I hope he had a nice Father's Day. I'm so sorry to read that Kevin is in pain, I hope he feels better, all my prayers for his prompt recovery, hugs and kisses for all of you, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, June 20, 2005 1:48 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I heard about Kevin's injury. Double time on prayers for this special child's quick recovery. May God be by Kevin's side till mommy gets home. So glad to read you have an artist in the family. One day the driveway the next day world fame. Go Grace. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, June 20, 2005 7:58 AM CDT
Happy Father's Day Chris!!! I hope you get a little time to relax or something! You deserve it more than anything! Love you all! -Katie
Katie Bastian <mysnafter10@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Sunday, June 19, 2005 8:18 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, HAPPY FATHER'S DAY CHRIS. Chris, sorry I can't come over this weekend. I came down with a head cold. We received the pictures. They are great. Grace you are getting so big. Kevin, you are getting so big also. Karen you are doing such a great job of taking care of Kevin. Just look at how big he is getting. Dear Lord, please watch over my brother and his family. Please send them a good nurse. All my love and prayers, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Sunday, June 19, 2005 6:57 AM CDT
Karen,Chris and Gracie,
I got the pitures and they are beautiful !! I just can't believe how big Kevin is, he looks like he would be a load to carry around. You are blessed. Gracie, you look like a really good big sister. I loved your picture thanks for sharing it with me. You are a really pretty little girl.
Karen remind us of the age so we can put it on the back. How in the world did you find the time to address and get all these out. You are a super mom. God bless you.
Thanks again,I have one in my wallet, one on the computer desk and one on the fridge door with all my kids.Love you all!
Anita
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlinnk.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 7:18 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Glad to read that Kevin got over what ever it was he had. Nina is one of God's angels. I hope the issues you wrote about on the web site work out. I pray that the nursing company can do something about the weekends. We pray every night for you all. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, June 17, 2005 9:21 AM CDT
Karen, Chris, Gracie & Kevin, I'm wishing for you a very happy and hopefully "uneventful" father's day celebration. Gracie & Kevin, you be good to your daddy this Sunday. I know he deserves it. Always in my thoughts.
Also, Karen, in case you didn't get my address from your email here it is 11028 Wood Elves Way, Columbia, MD 21044. Thanks so much for the pixs - definitely don't worry about the note!!
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Thursday, June 16, 2005 7:55 PM CDT
Come on now --you wouldn't know how to act if you had an "
uneventful, quiet day", Would you? I m glad that they booted the little babe out on her you know what. No she didn't act very christian. Love you all and think of you and pray for you lots and lots.
Anita
Ania Myers <thanks4ife@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 9:09 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, You guys make a good team. God sees you and will send the right nurse. So happy to read Kevin is doing much better. How has Grace been? Hope your feeling better Karen. Our prayers are with you. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 9:28 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I hope you find a good nurse to help you, yes, go early today so you will feel better to be near Kevin, I will be praying for you all, yes, send the photos, don't worry to write, you write a lot every day, regards, hugs and kisses for Kevin, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 10:37 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I know God's timing seems very slow to us. I pray that this means the right nurse is coming. So glad to read Kevin's feeling better. I hope your feeling better yourself. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111 @aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S.,P.G. - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 8:04 AM CDT
Karen- I am praying for a super spectacular nurse to be loving, caring, and knowledgeable! I love ya girl and am so proud to say that you are my friend! You are an amazing women and a terrific mom!!!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, MO - Monday, June 13, 2005 8:28 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, So sorry to read that you are still having trouble with the nurses. Could all of the trowing up be from to much medicine? Could she be doing this to keep Kevin quiet? To make the day easier to handle? Many prayers are said for the right nurse. Dear Lord, Please send Karen a good nurse. May your days be blessed with Gods spirit. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, June 13, 2005 11:19 AM CDT
Hi, my name is alissa. Im Karen and Jim Cobb's daughter. my parents have told me about Kevin and the family and what you all have been through. I just wanted to let you know that my hopes and prayers are with you and like my dad said "kevin's a fighter" and we all know thats every thing is going to be alright.
Alissa Cobb
Alissa Cobb <Lilsexychica90@aol.com>
Pasadena, Md United States - Saturday, June 11, 2005 12:51 AM CDT
Karen and Chris,
Enjoy Kevin, watch him grow. Keep your faith. NO ONE knows what the future holds for that sweet little boy. I just hope his mission on earth isn't complete for 50,60 or more years. If it is complete sooner just think of all he's touched,all the things he has taught. He is a wonder that boy a real work of art. God is so happy with the way you are working to help Kevin and the way you and Chris share him with all of us. GOD BLESS you all and keep you safe in his hands. Lean on Him. Give Him some of that load to carry. Keep the hope and Faith going strong. Your all in my prayers (often each day)
Hug and Kiss to Gracie. Love You,
Anita
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Ohio USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 8:27 PM CDT
Dear Karen, is so hard, congratulations to you and Chris for being such good parents, I really hope Kevin gets better, I will keep praying for him, you and your family, my thoughts are with you, have a peaceful weekend, hug and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, June 10, 2005 9:49 AM CDT
Dear Karen, God is with you every day. That can be the only reason for your normal blood pressure. May your many trips on the road be safe. I hope Kevin is doing better today. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 8:24 AM CDT
Dearest Karen and family I can not express how sorry I am. This has been such a rollercoaster ride. You are right when you say "people don't know what to say" I never feel I'm saying the right thing. I just feel at such a loss of words. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm so sorry that this is happening and if I had one wish I would wish that this had never and is not happening to Kevin. I wish that all the love that has been expressed was enough to cure Kevin. I what so much for him to be healthy. Karen...now I'm rambling.....let me just say I can't beleive how wonderful you are and how much you all have indured. You have made my lifes colores brighter. Love lesley
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 5:16 AM CDT
The pic of Kevin in the bathtub is ADOREABLE! What a cutie!! Glad to hear you all had a great outing at the Fair! And he and Gracie are having fun in the pool...Thank you for sharing so much of your life with me. It makes me appreciate what I have even more...Thanks, God Bless and we keep praying!
Pat Becker <pbecker@C2solutions.us>
Beltsville, MD - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 2:31 PM CDT
Dear Chris, Karen, Grace, and Kevin, GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 8:38 AM CDT
Hello to all, Mike and I wanted to let you guys know that even though we have not been around much, you are all in our prays. Keep the faith.
Natalie and Mike
Maryland and Trinidad and Tobago, - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 8:31 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, What a great way to spend a weekend, busy, hot, and tired. So glad to read that the family went on an outing. You guys are the best. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, June 6, 2005 9:07 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Yes, we would love to have a picture! I'm asking for my mom Lorraine Vermillion your Grandma's sister and if you have an extra one I would love one too if not I'll just share the one you send to mom. As always Kevin and his family are in my thoughts and prayers. Words can't describe what I feel when I think of all you do on a daily basis. You and Chris are very special people, God wouldn't give Kevin to just anyone. All our love and prayers from your family in Atlanta, Georgia. Love, Susanne
Susanne Vermillion <susannev@techforce.net>
Marietta , GA Cobb - Monday, June 6, 2005 9:00 AM CDT
Karen - Doesn't every child have a supreme poop story but Kevin kept his clothes clean!!! I am glad he is feeling better but this nursing situation just stinks! I would love a picture of your little angel if you have enough. 645 Lakeview Road, Lake Saint Louis, MO, 63367. I love ya girl and hopefully I will be coming to Maryland this summer and it would be an honor to meet this little handsome son of yours that I have fallen in love with through your writings. Love ya - you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
LAKE ST LOUIS, MO - Saturday, June 4, 2005 9:07 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Yes, I would like a picture too. God bless the memory of Kevin skating on his poopy. I don't understand the nursing company. I thought that a nursing company was set up for families that needed help with sick famiy members. Why does someone have to be a certain sick to get help. Karen God must have a shortage of angels in heaven because they are certainly with you and your family. Your family is surly blessed from above. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Saturday, June 4, 2005 11:27 AM CDT
Dear Karen, yes, I would like a photo please, my address: 4405 Chase Ave., Bethesda, MD 20814, (cell: 301-755-3948)thanks, I hope little Kevin feels better, he is such a wonderful baby, I will be out of the office until Tuesday, I hope everything goes well with Kevin, all my prayers and thoughts are with him, you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Thursday, June 2, 2005 1:17 PM CDT
Hi karen-
I would love to have a picture. Please send it to Lisa Boyd, 3001 Breezy Knoll Ct. Oak Hill, VA 20171-2252 or you can send it through campus mail at Bldg. 10/Rm11N311. thanks - can't wait to see them. We are praying that he will be able to eat more soon. Sounds like the world may just be too interesting these days for him. I hope you get that good nurse too! Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIAID/LI, MD USA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 11:22 AM CDT
Yes I would love to have a picture! My address is 1 Dunkrik lane, Stafford Va. 22554
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Thursday, June 2, 2005 9:28 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, I hope Kevin's feeds work out. Hey Chris I hope your feeling better. I already prayed for the new lady to work out for you. That would be nice. Gracie is being a good girl. God is with you. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:01 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, The weather is beautiful and it is good for Kevin. I sure hope and pray that the weekend coverage is approved. I pray that Kevin stays well. How is Kevin's weight? Meds are going OK? Hugs and Kisses to all. Love,Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S.,P.G. - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 9:35 AM CDT
I am glad everyone had such a great weekend!
Jennifer Courchaine
Odenton, MD 21113 - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 3:15 PM CDT
Karen, Read your update. No, Karen doesn't have any work on the weekend, nor does she need any sleep. I hope I understood your entry. Kevin is sick enough for coverage during the week, why not on the weekend? What about Gracie's time? You are very strong and loving Karen. I know that this is why you are Kevin's(he do man)mom. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 9:00 AM CDT
I am glad to see Kevin is home and getting better. He is a strong little boy, with a strong family always advocating for him - don't ever give that up. Take care - give Kevin a hug for me.
Mary Ellen <me2w@aol.com>
Sykesville, MD USA - Monday, May 30, 2005 3:56 PM CDT
Dear Karen, I hope Kevin feels better and you too, keep the hope, my thoughts and prayers are with Kevin, you and your family, regards, hugs and kisses for little Kevin, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, May 27, 2005 2:46 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Karen you are doing a great job with Kevin(he da man). One day at a time. Kevin will grow under your care and love. Your children know they are loved. Karen it is hard with a sick child to go to work. I just wished the rest of the world would help parents in your situation. Children are our future and the parents need to be helped. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, May 27, 2005 8:44 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, Karen you are doing a great job with Kevin(he da man). One day at a time. Kevin will grow under your care and love. Your children know they are loved. Karen it is hard with a sick child to go to work. I just wished the rest of the world would help parents in your situation. Children are our future and the parents need to be helped. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Friday, May 27, 2005 8:44 AM CDT
I am so happy to hear that Kevin is home! He is such a little trooper! Love ya all and praying for you too!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake saint louis, MO - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 9:35 PM CDT
I am glad that Kevin is home with his family where he belongs. I hope that together you experience many treasured, wonderful days, weeks, months, and years to follow. You all remain in my prayers. Please give Kevin a hug from me.
Sherri Strach
- Tuesday, May 24, 2005 6:03 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, What good news that Kevin is home. I bet Grace was loving it. Sorry to hear your day was so long but God was with you. May Kevin continue to grow and heal now he is home. So sorry that your jobs can't give you more time off. Our prayers are with you. Stay strong.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 9:53 AM CDT
Thank you for letting me spend the evening with the "Prince of Hopkins"! We had a great time he even let me hold him while he fell asleep. I only wish Hopkins was closer:( JimBob had a great time at the game but I had a better time with Kev. Thanks again...Oh yea, I want a picture! I will pick it up so you don't have to send it. My love to you all. Ju
Judy Hanger <judy.hanger@montgomerycountymd.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Monday, May 23, 2005 11:28 AM CDT
Chris and Karen,
HOPE never give up hope. Our prayers are working and we will keep them up. Baby Kevin has toouched so many lives and so have you ,Chris and Gracie. Enjoy each day with both the kids and each other and thank God for letting Kevin to continue his life here on earth with you.
Wish I lived close but I will have to settle for being close in heart and prayers.
Love to all,
Anita & Frank
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Sunday, May 22, 2005 9:06 PM CDT
Would love to have a pic of the little guy. Didn't want to hog one when I know there are so many who love him. I will pray for his comfort and healing,
Tania Howard 2104 Harbor Drive, Annapolis, MD 21401
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Sunday, May 22, 2005 1:27 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, What great news about Kevin being moved, sad to hear he is all by himself. Sorry to hear that you did not have a nurse for Kevin so he could come home this weekend. Kevin once you get home Doctor Mom will take good care of you. She is the BEST. We pray every day for Kevin and they are working. Just not as fast as we would like. May God stay by your sides during these tough times. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Sunday, May 22, 2005 8:27 AM CDT
Hi Karen! I would love a pic of Kevin when you get them. My address is 2010 Baltimore Road Apt. F-12, Rockville, MD 20851. I think about your little guy often and keep you all in my prayers. If there is anything that I can ever do please do not hesitate to ask.
Jessie Fell <zazu4@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD - Sunday, May 22, 2005 1:19 AM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris - I was sorry to hear about what the doctors said about Kevin, but am not without hope. They have said this all before. Kevin is a fighter and a real trooper and you will get through this time. None of us truly know how long the good Lord will give us on this earth and I know he has a plan for little Kevin. His little life has touched mine in so many ways. He doesn't give up and you don't need to either. God can make that one lung work wonders for him and stretch to do all that he needs. We will pray that the infection gets under control and that it never comes back. We will also pray that Kevin will come home sooner than later; at home he can thrive and continue to amaze us all! Keep up the good work and keep your eyes on the Lord who will sustain you through this time! Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USa - Saturday, May 21, 2005 11:52 AM CDT
Karen and Chris - Words can't express how my heart aches for you. The two of you are absolutely amazing parents and Kevin is so blessed to have you! God blessed you with Kevin because He knew the two of you would do a phenominal job! We are continuing to pray for Kevin and believe that he will once again- PROVE THOSE DOCTORS WRONG!!! I love ya guys and you are in my many thoughts and prayers!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Friday, May 20, 2005 9:20 PM CDT
Karen, your little one has gone through so much but you will have him until God needs another angel. It is hard to try and reason what has and is happening but your faith and attitude are what support you best. Hugs and Kisses to each of you, including Miss Gracie.
Aunt Cathy <biggrammysabo@yahoo.com>
Hollywood, MD USA - Friday, May 20, 2005 12:27 AM CDT
Dear Karen, I am very very sorry to read what the doctors told you, keep hope, my thoughts and prayers are with Kevin, you and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, May 20, 2005 11:14 AM CDT
You are so strong, Karen. Please keep the faith. There are no guarantees in life - for any of us - so please just enjoy both your children for as long as they get to be ours. My thoughts and prayers are with Kevin that he heals peacefully and fully, and with you that you can stay well, strong and happy.
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Friday, May 20, 2005 10:49 AM CDT
Karen,
There are no words sufficient to express our feelings about what the doctors are saying. Please know that Kevin continues to be in our thoughts and prayers and we hope, as you do, for another miraculous recovery.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Friday, May 20, 2005 9:25 AM CDT
Karen, I'm so sorry to hear the bad news from the doctors. But as you said, and Kevin has shown, they can be wrong. You are so right to hold on to hope..There is ALWAYS hope. And by the way I was so angry at that doctore who almost gave the wrong dose! If you had not been there....
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Friday, May 20, 2005 7:27 AM CDT
Dear Karen, What are you sorry for? None of this is your fault. Kevin is a sick child with the most wonderful parents in the world. I Love You! God and Kevin have something very special together and God let you be the parents. What a beautiful blessing that is. Very painful yet very beautiful. Kevin's reward is MOM and DAD. You are blessed because KEVIN is YOURS. Dear Lord please let Kevin get well enough to come home (Mommy wants him home).
Prayer and Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Thursday, May 19, 2005 7:11 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris-
Although it's been a while since I last wrote, please know that you and Kevin remain in my thoughts and prayers. Kevin is beautiful and brave, a true gift from above.
Sherri Strach
- Wednesday, May 18, 2005 10:21 AM CDT
Chris and Karen, I am so sorry to read about Kevin. I would have blown my top if that nurse did that in front of me. How cruel. I hope you two report her to someone. This is no time for the hospital staff to act like this in front of parents. Breath. Dear Lord thank you for being there with Kevin. Dear Lord please help Karen set these people straight. Dear Lord please help Chris keep his cool.
Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 9:05 AM CDT
Hey my Bro....Just checking in to see how the kiddo is doing. Haven't seen you at work for a while so I stopped in here to get an update. Stop out at R&D one day and give us an update....Your work Bro, Jeff@C2 Solutions
Jeff Masone <dontbugme@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, May 18, 2005 8:12 AM CDT
Karen and Chris - I pray in the name of Jesus that this infection will no longer remain in Kevin's body and he will continue in the healing process with great accomplishments! You all are continually in my thoughts and prayers and I am so sad that on top of everything you have to deal with ignorant insensitive nurses with no communication skills. I love you guys! and Kevin and Gracie too! Philipians 4:13 says " I can do all things, through Christ who strengthens me."
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 11:26 PM CDT
All of the employees of OCTO from the DC Government are keeping all of you in our prayers. Lil Kevin will remain on our hearts and mind as we know the power of God. He is a healer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Fletcher Davis <Fletcher.Davis@dc.gov>
Washington, D.C - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 9:32 AM CDT
Everyone at OCTO has Kevin in there thoughts & prayer's! God Bless
Donald Lamar <donald.lamar@dc.gov>
Washington, D.C. USA - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 9:19 AM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen, One day at a time. Kevin is doing better every day, that's 'cuz God is with him. Chris I know that you want to hold Kevin and you will real soon. Just let God do his magic a couple more days. Karen please know God is walking by your side every day and understands your pain. God knows your a good mother and he won't let you fall. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 7:51 AM CDT
Hi Karen and Kevin- Glad to see that Kevin is improving. we will pray that he continues to grow and that he will be put on that transplant list!! In the meantime, keep up the good work with him - you are awesome parents and I know you will be blessed by your dedication and love for your little guy. besides - you are right he is very cute! ENJOY THE SUNSHINE WHEN YOU CAN!
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD NIH - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 5:24 AM CDT
Chris and Karen, we continue to ask the Lord to see Kevin through his journey. We pray for your health and strength as you continue to navigate through a sea of emotions. Our love and prayers go out to you and your families as you deal with each turn of events. God speed and all will be well.
Bill Chroniger <bchroniger@ctsservices.net>
- Monday, May 16, 2005 3:09 PM CDT
Hi, its me again. I'm so glad to hear that your son is doing much better. He sounds like a little soldier. :) My prayers are with all of you. I can only hope that soon you will be able to bring him home.
Steve Roudebush <unforgivengcc@gmail.com>
Elkridge, MD USA - Monday, May 16, 2005 3:00 PM CDT
Chris and Karen, What good news about Kevin. He is such a strong child. God is right there with him. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S., P.G. - Monday, May 16, 2005 10:10 AM CDT
Chris and Karen, My prayers are with you and your children. My God keep watch over you and guide you through your day. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA, P.G. - Saturday, May 14, 2005 10:46 AM CDT
Dear Chris, Karen and Gracie,
I continue to pray many times a day for all of you.Keep your faith strong and you will remain calm. Sometimes people just don't understand.
I would love a picture and will gladly send you some money as soon as I get your address again.(I lost it when my computer crashed) Our address is: 662 Barbara Ave. Akron,Ohio 44306 Hang tight and let the Lord do the worrying for you.
Love you guys more than you'll ever know.God Bless!!!!
Anita and Frank
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Friday, May 13, 2005 10:44 PM CDT
Dear Karen, my prayers are with little Kevin, you and your family, I really hope Kevin will be better, regards, hugs, kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, May 13, 2005 4:43 PM CDT
Dear Karen and family, What a difficult couple of days you had. I'm sure Kevin will listen to his mummy a behave better by Sunday. I'm thinking about you guys all the time and checking the web site each and every day. Gerd always smiles, when the first thin I do after a couple of days from home is check on Kevin. I'll send you some stroopwafels soon. You sure need them!
Diana Seegers-Bouma
Baambrugge, Netherlands - Friday, May 13, 2005 12:14 AM CDT
Kevin, You keep fighting! You, your Mommy, Daddy and Gracie are in our thoughts and prayers. Each day I start my morning with my "Kevin Fix". Hang in there litte guy!
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Friday, May 13, 2005 11:52 AM CDT
Chris and Karen, Kevin has a strange sense of humor if he thinks these tricks of his are funny. Just reading about them takes my breath away. God is standing right there with you when this happens otherwise you guys would have collapsed. God has a mighty hold on you. Know this and it will be okay. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD P.G. - Friday, May 13, 2005 11:33 AM CDT
Hello ,
Just wanted to let you know we are hoping and praying with you too. You guys are wonderful and Kevin is a fighter and will be fine.
Love Chris
Chris Woods
bowie, md USA - Friday, May 13, 2005 6:28 AM CDT
Karen and family what a tough couple of days. It seams like I've been holding my breath for the last coulple of days. Know that I think of you every day and hope that this will all work out. Kevin is so strong and has beatten the odds for so long that i'm sure you and he will get though this and have many years together. My love to all
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Friday, May 13, 2005 3:44 AM CDT
Karen and Chris - You have an amazing little guy! Chris I don't really know you but from what I know of Karen, I think Kevin may have got his mommy's determination. He is a fighter! You all are in my thoughts and prayers! I can't imagine what you have gone through and are continuing to go through. It is nothing other than the almighty strength of God that is caring you! He has you and Kevin in the palm of His hand. You all are loved!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Thursday, May 12, 2005 11:21 PM CDT
Be assured my prayers are still with you guys, always. Thinking of you and asking God to watch over Kevin in a special way.
Pat Becker
Beltsville, MD - Thursday, May 12, 2005 12:40 AM CDT
Hi - we have never met, but I am a friend of Judy Hanger's and have been following your journal almost from the beginning. The courage you have shown as parents is amazing. You and Gracie and Kevin are in my daily prayers and I know God is holding you all very close to himself. Thanks so much for sharing so much of yourself - it gives the rest of us courage and inspiration.
Sue Snyder <Bobsueduo@comcast.net>
Gaithersburg, MD USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 12:06 AM CDT
Keep up hope and optimism Chris and Karen. The way you stay encouraged is incredible. Sorry about the distance between us, otherwise we'd always be there for you guys. Best we can do right now is pray and let your family know that you are constantly in our thoughts.
Tim and family
- Thursday, May 12, 2005 11:17 AM CDT
Hey guys just checking and praying. Another night under his belt is a good thing. One day at a time. Oh! Kevin don't you worry about your cars cuz' Aunt Cathy gonna buy you a whole bunch. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD P>G> - Thursday, May 12, 2005 11:02 AM CDT
Hi Karen and Chris, thanks for keeping us all posted. I have many folks praying for Kevin, He is a trooper and I'm sure will continue to astound the medical community - he is a fighter. I always know that when someone is at the end of their options, then this is when God is "free" to step in and do His thing! I pray that He will allow kevin's arteries to grow, and also cause his lungs to be able to expand and take in more oxygen than the average little person! And I pray that the Lord will give you special times with Kevin, Gracie and also special times alone with Him. And when He comes home, allow him to be a kid. I pray he will be able to eat soon and enjoy many, many things. I also pray that you and Chris will get some very deep sleep before he comes home and be rested to renew you herolic efforts!! You are an ecouragment to us all!! Life is preciious - no matter how hard it is sometimes! Keep up the GREAT work!
Lisa Boyd
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, MD USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 10:38 AM CDT
Hi There, I am so glad you checked in I have hit this web site 50 times already this morning! If you want me to get Gracie and keep her all night I can do that! She likes my tub better than yours anyway. 240-777-3845 Ju
Judy Hanger <judy.hanger@montgomerycountymd.gov>
rockville, md us - Thursday, May 12, 2005 10:33 AM CDT
Chris and Karen,it has become a daily routine each morning when I arrive here at work to check the updates on Kevin. Kevin has had a tremendous impact on my life! You should be very proud of your dedication, persistence, and strength to make your son well. I have two daughters and I can not imagine what the two of you go through each day. But I can pray that God continues to give your little guy the strength to show the doctors that he has a special place in this world! Please keep your strength and your faith, and that will help guide you through. Everyone here at work continues to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers! May God Bless your family! :)
Norah Smith <nsmith@ctsservices.net>
Baltimore, MD USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 3:50 PM CDT
Dear Karen, my prayers are with little Kevin, you and your husband, I hope everything goes well, I am thinking about you and praying, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 11:12 AM CDT
Dear Lord, Please watch over these wonderful parents as they stand by their childs side. Please bless the doctors as they do their best. Please watch over this blessed child for he is yours. Love, Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD P.G. - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:03 AM CDT
I was thinking of you all all day yesterday....I'm so happy Kevin is OK keep strong and know how loved you all are to so many people.
lesley pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, VA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 4:46 AM CDT
Chris and Karen, Hugs and Kisses! What wonderful parents you are. Kevin has the parents he was meant to have. God is really watching over this strong spirit. Trust in God, he will be there during recovery. With all my Love, Cathy B.
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD Bowie - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 6:48 PM CDT
Chris and Karen we can't let those doctor's give up on Kevin. We have been in prayer all day at work and look he made it out of yet another surgery. Prayers do work. We'll just have to keep praying that the doctor's keep their faith. I pray that it is God's will that Kevin continue to survive and bless your lives. None of us know Kevin personally but he continues to bless our lives with his strength and courage. He is God's miracle and his survival makes us stronger. You must be at the top of God's list becuase He blessed you with Kevin. I envy you. You both are wonderful people. This trauma you've experienced has made you stronger and your strength encourages us. You are my heroes but Kevin is my number one Hero! I thank God that you and your family have crossed my path. I am richer for it. Keep praying that God's will be done and that he gives you the strength and endurance to continue doing His will.
Mary Roesinger <mroesinger@chesapeakesys.com>
Severna Park, MD USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 3:38 PM CDT
I have a 2-year old son of my own, and I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you. But then again, you also know they're too stupid too give up that easily. :) My prayers are with you.
Steve Roudebush <unforgivengcc@gmail.com>
Elkridge, MD USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 12:06 AM CDT
Hey Bro, I hope everything goes well today.I think about you guys alot and can't wait to see all of you. If there is anything Lisa and I can do please let us know.
Ken Kocsan <KennethKocsan@comcast.net>
Joppa, Md USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 10:55 AM CDT
My prayers are with you Chris & Karen. Stay strong & maintain your faith. This little man is winning this battle.
Joyce Ester <Joyce_Ester@yahoo.com>
Waldorf, MD US - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 8:15 AM CDT
Thinking of all of you!
Traci
Ellicott City, MD - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 7:18 AM CDT
Karen and Chris, Just wanted to let you know that we had prayers at church for Kevin and both of you today. I wish you all the best of luck with the surgery. You are doing a wonderful job with that baby and everything elsr. Love, Pauline
Pauline Bryan <surfinggma06@aol.com>
Rockville, Md. USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:47 PM CDT
Karen: Have a wonderful Mothers Day! You have got to be the best and most wonderful mother there is!!! Kevin and Gracie are sooooo luckie to have you!!!! Hugs & Kisses!!!!
Effie <ehall@niaid.nih.gov>
Middletown, MD USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 4:59 PM CDT
Happy Mommy's Day to a very special mommy.....
Connie Roach and family(friends of Laura Savage) <vampires76@hotmail.com>
frostburg, md usa - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:28 PM CDT
Just a note to say what a special Mommy Kevin has and to wish you the best Mother's Day.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:22 AM CDT
Hi Karen, It's been a while since I wrote but I wanted to let you know I read your enteries every day and think of you. I must come by and see you. I can't imagen how you do all that you do Work take care of Kevine and family and all the nusing care!! I get a headach just thinking about it. Well just wanted to let you know that I think of you daily!!
Lesley pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 4:57 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I've been reading your journal for almost a year now, my husband works at the same company Chris does. Kevin (and the whole family) is is my thoughts and prayers daily. You truly are supermom, Karen!
Tania Howard <dr.tania@juno.com>
Annapolis, MD - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 7:33 AM CDT
Hi Karen, I'm glad Kevin is doing well, congratulations, I hope you all have a great weekend, hugs and kisses for Kevin, regards, Susana
Susana <susana@privatecause.us>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:20 PM CDT
Hello everyone. Just letting you all know that we are still thinking of you & missing you! Give Little Man a big hug from us and one for Gracie and yourselves. Keep in touch! We love you all!! Keep up the progress Kevin!! XOXO
Aunt Mary, Laura & Ryan <onelove1116@hotmail.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 11:02 PM CDT
Just want to tell you what an INCREDIBLE mom you are!!! Had to laugh when I read about the stay at home mom who was lost without her nanny. Too funny! Your kids are so lucky to have you!!!You have an incredible spirit and my prayers are always with you!
Pat Becker
Pat Becker
Beltsville, MD US - Monday, April 25, 2005 3:37 PM CDT
I am happy Kevin is having good days! I think of him often.
Jennifer Courchaine
Odenton, MD - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 3:22 PM CDT
Hi Karen, I'm glad Kevin is doing well, have a nice weekend, my prayers with all of you, hugs and kisses for little Kevin, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, April 15, 2005 3:35 PM CDT
Hi Karen and Chris Your little one is getting so big and he is ready for anything because he knows no limitations. You on the other hand have climbed to many emitional mountains. Remember when you got married, I told you the first 25 would be the hardest. I just did not know the curves that would come your way. You are doing GREAT. Hugs and kisses to all.
Aunt Cathy <biggrammysabo@yahoo.com>
Hollywood, MD - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 10:51 PM CDT
Kevin:
Just dropping in to let you know I'm thinking about you.
Love Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Monday, April 11, 2005 8:51 AM CDT
Hey guys! How is everything? I really miss all of you! and I just looked at the pictures on the website and Kevin is the most adorable baby I've ever seen! Especially in the last picture when he's smiling. awww! Well I hope I can talk to you all soon! I love all of you!!!! xoxoxo
Katie Bastian <mysnafter10@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Saturday, April 9, 2005 10:17 AM CDT
Hi Karen, I am sorry that I have missed you guys on your visits but things have been pretty busy at the hospital and at home. I am so glad to hear that Kevin is doing so well but I am not surprised because he is a fighter and you guys are the best medical staff that I know. Keep up the good work and tell Kevin that I miss him.
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Wednesday, April 6, 2005 3:02 PM CDT
Hi Karen, I was thinking what happened that you didn't write, I'm glad that everything is under control, a kiss for Kevin, my prayers for all of you, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 3:29 PM CDT
It has been a while since I signed the book. Macey and Caroline pray for Kevin everynight. We really hope the surgery goes well and he is back on track to a healthy future. We love you guys. Sorry we havn't seen you in a while! Talk to you soon.
Love, Janene, Matt, Macey and Caroline
Janene Brenner <beanbrenner@yahoo.com>
Annapolis, MD - Monday, April 4, 2005 11:40 AM CDT
Chris,
You and your family are in our daily thoughts and prayers. We will check the website to get updates on Kevin's condition. We pray that his upcoming surgery will go smoothly. Good seeing you today, just wish the circumstances would have been more pleasant.
Take care and God bless you,
Love,
your cousins Joanne Hardesty and Judy Walters
Joanne Hardesty
Ellicott City, MD USA - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 6:53 PM CST
Chris- I didn't have a chance to say thanks for all your hard work on the project at HSLDA. We are proud of how everything has turned out in our computer room; it is in many ways a monument to your thoughtfulness and thoroughness. We will continue to pray for you and your family. May you all receive the ultimate gifts of Easter: faith, hope and love in Christ.
John Bullock - Home School Legal Defense Association
- Saturday, March 26, 2005 12:02 AM CST
Chris -- i hope you had a great birthday bro !!!!!
tim
- Friday, March 25, 2005 5:39 AM CST
Chris, Happy Birthday! Keeping Kevin, Karen, Gracie and you in our prayers.
Bill - Home School Legal Defense Association
- Thursday, March 24, 2005 8:24 AM CST
Hey Kevin -- Happy St Patty's Day you little Leprechaun! May you always be showered with all the luck of the IRISH! Only about 20 more years for you, bud, before we can enjoy a pint of guinness together. The first one will be on me! BRILLIANT! With love!
Uncle Tim (O'Leary)
- Wednesday, March 16, 2005 9:00 PM CST
Hi Karen, I have been reading all what happened with the little Kevin, I hope now he feels good forever, the photos are beautiful, put more, you all look great. Kevin is so cute and beautiful, keep the excellent work you are doing with him, congratulations, you all are in my prayers, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 3:13 PM CST
What a special gift Kevin is - and how much God loves you and Chris to entrust him in your care. I am glad you are feeling better and survived Jeepers. I hope Kevin starts to feel a little better. Love ya all!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Tuesday, March 8, 2005 8:28 PM CST
The poem is absolutley wonderful. It emphasizes not only how lucky we are to have the Kevins of the world but how SPECIAL people like his parents are to the rest of us. You are in our prayers.
Martha Neal
- Thursday, March 3, 2005 8:28 PM CST
Karen, what a beautiful poem and how true. I know that when my brother was born many many years ago with Down's Syndrome, my parents did not realize what a gift from heaven they (and his sisters) received. Thanks for the reminder. Hope everybody feels better soon.
Cindy Myles Rhodes
Columbia, MD USA - Thursday, March 3, 2005 9:38 AM CST
I am glad that things went well - i hope everyones colds clear up quickly! Your in my thoughts and prayers!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Tuesday, March 1, 2005 10:40 PM CST
I am so glad to hear that my little man is doing so well, but he always does when he goes home. Kevin can't receive better nursing care anywhere else, not even at Hopkins :). Keep up the excellent work and as usual we are praying for you.
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Tuesday, March 1, 2005 7:54 AM CST
Thank goodness that Kevin has you as parents. It is sooo sad that you have to work sooo hard to get good care for your child. As always you are in our thoughts and prayers. You continue to prove the doctors wrong Kevin!
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Wednesday, February 23, 2005 3:52 PM CST
Hi Karen, it has been tough these days, a lot of things happened, I hope Kevin feels better, all my prayers for Kevin, you and your family, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 3:35 PM CST
we're just checking in. we've been keeping up w/ the goings-ons and at a loss for words for all you continue to go through. You all are always in our thoughts and prayer that a positive, permanent turn-a-round is just a round the corner!
Tracy - give Patty a shout. I believe her, debbie and dorothy are going out...march 10th i think. (debbie's 40th). Cheers!
Uncle Tim and family <patricia.o.mclane@verizon.com>
- Saturday, February 19, 2005 9:18 PM CST
I hope things are getting better - sounds like it has been a tough week! love ya all - and praying for you often!
God Bless!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Saturday, February 19, 2005 8:43 AM CST
Happy Valentines Day!!!!
Love you all!
Traci
Ellicott City, MD - Monday, February 14, 2005 8:29 AM CST
Hi Karen, I hope you have a peaceful weekend, the same for Kevin and your family, my prayers with you all, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, February 11, 2005 3:20 PM CST
Thanks for the website. Now I can get updates on Kevin even when I'm not at work! As always, let me know if you need anything and please call me with any concerns. God bless!
Jaqie Johnson, RN
Rockville, MD USA - Thursday, February 10, 2005 7:06 PM CST
I am so glad to hear that he had a good night. Even a few hours of smiles is a good sign. I hope that all goes well with the scan but I am sure that no matter what Kevin will do well because he is my little fighter. As usually I am keeping all of you in my prayers.
Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Wednesday, February 9, 2005 10:05 AM CST
You can never believe of all the "side effects" that seem to pop up on you just when things wre plugging along. Here is a hug for all of you. God must love you a whole lot.
Aunt Cathy <cs37e@nih.gov>
- Tuesday, February 8, 2005 10:26 PM CST
Hi Karen, hang in there, I know is very difficult, you have been very strong, I hope Kevin feels better, all my prayers for you all, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Tuesday, February 8, 2005 2:59 PM CST
I am glad he is doing good at home. I am sure that you are loving and gentle with every one of his little bones. If you want to package Gracie up and ship her to St.Louis, I will be glad to take her(for a little while at least)!!!
Love you guys and continue to pray -Gods hand is upon this little fighter!!! I pray for health and strength for Kevin, peace and comfort for you and Chris, understanding and love for Gracie, wisdom and guidance for the doctors & nurses and promptness and reliability for the in-home nurse. God hears us when we pray!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Monday, February 7, 2005 10:33 PM CST
I am soooooo glad to read that the little punkin is home. Being at home with mommy, daddy and big sis is where he gets the REAL TRUE LOVE and attention. The love that gives him the determination to be the fighter that he is. I may not sign too often but do believe that I read about Kevin each and every day faithfully. My family and I continue to pray for each and every one of you. Give Kevin a hug and and a snuggle for me :-)
Dee Coates, Mama Anne's co-worker <swetnjuc@comcast.net>
Capitol Heights, MD US - Saturday, February 5, 2005 9:31 PM CST
I am glad to hear he is coming home - it so much more comfortable, safe and fun loving place for him to be!!! YOu all are in my thoughts and prayers! - Hey, does Gracie want to pick some numbers for me - if I win I will split it with you, ha ha. love ya all!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:27 PM CST
Here's hoping that Kevin does "catch a break" soon. He has already has more than his share of hard knocks. As I said before, thank you for sharing your lives with us. I continue to hope and pray for Kevin's recovery. He certainly is a fighter, but of course so are his Mom & Dad.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 1:31 PM CST
You're in my prayers!!!! I hope he recovers soon.
Katie Bastian <imsosexi022@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Thursday, January 27, 2005 2:53 PM CST
Hi Karen, I'm so sorry that Kevin is not well, my prayers with you, Kevin and your family, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Thursday, January 27, 2005 9:56 AM CST
I am so sorry that Kevin had such a tough time - I will continue to pray for you all!!! Love Dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Wednesday, January 26, 2005 6:28 PM CST
Sorry to hear about Kevin, you are in my thoughts and prayers, If you need anything let me know.
Anneliese Baker <Rynemom@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD 20850 - Wednesday, January 26, 2005 12:56 AM CST
Hello Chris and Karen,
I'm sorry that Kevin didn't have a good day yesterday. Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris Woods
Bowie, MD - Wednesday, January 26, 2005 6:04 AM CST
Just dropping in to let you know that I am thinking of all of you!
Love Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Monday, January 24, 2005 9:56 PM CST
Hi Karen, I hope everything goes well with Kevin, keep up with your good work with him, my prayers are with you, Kevin and your family, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, January 24, 2005 3:46 PM CST
Hi karen-- My prayers for you were answered this weekend that YOU would get some sleep You can't function and take care of all you do without some rest! Make suree you take some deep breaths each day. Kevin needs his Mommy in good shape. You all are continually in my prayers and the prayers of many others I have solicited on your behalf. God will see you through this. Don't feel like you have to carry the whole load. Be sure to place in His hands each day, what you need to do, and He will make your path clear! Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH/LI, MD USA - Monday, January 24, 2005 11:01 AM CST
Karen - you hang in there girl! You are such a strong women! I am praying for Kevin, Chris and you, little Gracie too! You all can not do it in your own strength, but with God, ALL things are possible - lean on Him. Thinking of you often and praying for you.
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Saturday, January 22, 2005 11:25 PM CST
Hello Karen, I'm sorry to see that you have problems with the nurses and that Kevin is not too well, I hope he will feel better and that you find a good nurse, my prayers with you, Kevin and your family, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland us - Tuesday, January 18, 2005 4:06 PM CST
Hey Karen just had the chance to check the site and update myself with everything that is going on. I miss Kevin as usual but I am glad that he is not here. Remember that GOD is in control and will handle all of your problems. I am glad to hear that you are back at work. Don't stress yourself out about what you can't do at the job it will all come together. I will see you when you come back. Keeping you in our prayers.
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Tuesday, January 18, 2005 2:33 PM CST
Karen,
I don't know if you are aware of this or not but, just incase check out this website it may be helpful. As always, you all are in my prayers.
Love,
Susanne
http://www.reglan-lawsuit.com/
Susanne Vermillion
Susanne Vermillion
Marietta, GA USA - Tuesday, January 18, 2005 2:21 PM CST
Karen ~
Hope all went well your first day back to work! Just remember Kevin is in good hands with God right there to watch over him. Think good thoughts,oh, and don't forget to breathe!! :)
jane
Sioux Falls, SD - Tuesday, January 11, 2005 5:36 PM CST
Hi Karen, I'm sure everything will be all right for you in your new job, all the best, I'm glad Kevin is better, I hope you find a good nurse, keep writing, kisses for the little Kevin, a hug for you, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, md us - Tuesday, January 11, 2005 3:14 PM CST
I just found out from Theresa that I missed you today. Sorry about that. I know that you will adjust quickly - we have no doubt.
I am so glad that Kevin is doing so well. He is truly a super kid. My Daughter had one of those chairs for her children and they also fell asleep while in it. If any fuss was made - the chair was alway the solution to some soothing relief. I will stop by to see you soon. No need to say good luck - you will fit right in.
Take care and have a super day. Give that big guy a hug for me
Jan Ludwig <jludwig@niaid.nih.gov >
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, January 11, 2005 10:07 AM CST
Best of luck with heading back to work, Karen. Our prayers, of course, are that all works out just fine! It was great seeeing the families and friends on New Yrs Day for Grace's bday. Thank you.
Uncle Tim
- Monday, January 10, 2005 9:29 AM CST
Hi Karen, I see all what happened, poor little angel, I hope he feels better and I hope he doesn't suffer, he is in my prayers, you and you family, keep writing, regards, hugs and kisses for the little Kevin, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, January 5, 2005 5:20 PM CST
I hope the PICC line goes well today and he can come home. We've been thinking about you guys a lot. We're getting settled in the new big house, but still miss our little old house and you guys! Tell Gracie Isabel says "hi". We'll call soon so the girls can talk.
Sharon Simpson <sharons@mafcu.org>
Portsmouth, VA - Wednesday, January 5, 2005 8:02 AM CST
Hi! My name is Julie, you probably don't know who I am but my mother learned about Kevin through a mutual friend. I wanted you to know that Kevin has touched the bottom of my heart. He has such a radiant smile despite all that he has been through. Though I haven't met him I think about him often. I lost my son Blake to SIDS this past March 9th. His birthday was December 10, he would have been 1 year old. It has been a agonizing journey. I think Blake is the reason I am so drawn to Kevin. I wanted to do something special for the holidays in remembrance of him. I have an idea and it involves Kevin. Please, if you can managed to find a minute to e-mail me between everything you are going through, I would appreciate it. I'm thinking of you and Kevin, you are in my prayers.
julie Coon <coolj123@verizon.net>
columbia, md united states - Monday, January 3, 2005 3:18 PM CST
hey guys! it was good seeing you all. remember...if you ever need a babysitter i can help! Love Always,
Katie
Katie Bastian <imsosexi022@aol.com>
Bowie, MD - Wednesday, December 29, 2004 10:17 AM CST
Merry Christmas!
Love Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Saturday, December 25, 2004 10:29 AM CST
Merry Christmas to Karen, Chris, Grace and Kevin! I'm so glad to hear Kevin is doing better. I wish you the very best Christmas and a Great New Year. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Chris and Charlotte
Chris Woods
Bowie, MD - Saturday, December 25, 2004 7:33 AM CST
I hope you all have a very Merry Christmas! I am still praying for those nurses so you will have peace when you have to go back to work. God bless you all!!!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Friday, December 24, 2004 8:27 PM CST
God Bless you and your family over the holidays and a very Merry Christmas to you all!...
Connie Roach and family(friends of Laura Savage) <vampires76@hotmail.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Thursday, December 23, 2004 10:17 PM CST
Merry Christmas, Chris, Karen, Gracie, and Kevin! I'm glad that Kevin is doing well, and I am so looking forward to seeing new pictures of the handsome little guy. Take care!
Sherri Strach
- Thursday, December 23, 2004 1:48 PM CST
I am thrilled to hear Kevin is doing so good. I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas and I am looking forward to a new year for you and Kevin.
Jennifer Courchaine
Odenton, MD USA - Thursday, December 23, 2004 1:05 PM CST
Merry Christmas Karen, I wish you, Kevin and your family all the best and happy moments, I hope Kevin continues to feel better, hug and kisses, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Thursday, December 23, 2004 10:42 AM CST
Happy Holidays to my favorite family. I am glad to hear that Kevin is doing well at home (as if there was a doubt in mind that he wouldn't) Nobody knows your child better than you do so with the great care that he is getting at home it was only a matter of time before he was his happy and growing again. I know your concern with going back to work but I am sure that you will get the nursing staff stright before that time. I miss you guys alot but I am so glad that your not here for the holidays. See you next year.
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Wednesday, December 22, 2004 7:53 AM CST
Wanted to wish you and your family and A Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. We are so glad that Kevin is home. Look forward to seeing some updated pictures soon. Lots of Love and Kisses from Mike, Michelle, Brittany and Candice Vermillion
Michelle Vermillion <michelle.vermillion@alps.com>
Marietta, GA US - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 3:41 PM CST
Hang in ther gal. You have come so far and it's like picking at a scab just now. He is doing wonderful and so are you. Hugs to you for a better day.
Aunt Cathy <cs37e@nih.gov>
- Monday, December 20, 2004 2:04 PM CST
It is such good news that all went well, Kevin is back to himself and home again. I will be praying for those nurses so that you can have peace when you return to work. God Bless you all!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Thursday, December 16, 2004 9:40 PM CST
Keep up with the site daily, though we dont talk daily. I'm always thinking of you all - always. Man...what a year! Love
Uncle Tim
- Thursday, December 16, 2004 7:03 PM CST
Hi Karen, I see all what the little Kevin has been through, I'm sorry, I hope he feels better, all my prayers for all of you, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Wednesday, December 15, 2004 3:12 PM CST
Glad to hear Kevin is doing good. He is such a fighter. So strong.
Jennifer Courchaine
Odenton, MD 21113 - Wednesday, December 15, 2004 1:54 PM CST
Kevin:
Thinking of You!
Love
Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Tuesday, December 14, 2004 8:38 AM CST
Hi karen- So glad to hear that Kevin is doing so much better. they should let him begin to eat - I bet he would like that a lot! I know as your thoughts return to coming here I just wanted to let you know that our prayers are with you and Kevin. kevin has been surrounded in many ways by guardian angels; I know they will not leave him when you come back to the NIH. Maybe you can get one of those cameras that you can hook up to the computer so you can check in on him when you are here - and the nurses as well. just a thought! Looking forward to seeing you again here ....we will keep you busy! God is good and He does love little Kevin - hard to imagine - but even more than you do! Lisa Boyd
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, MD USA - Wednesday, December 8, 2004 5:21 AM CST
It's been just wonderful reading the great progress Kevin has made and how happy he is. He's in my thoughts and prayers always, and so are you. God Bless.
Sherri Strach <sstrach@nih.gov>
- Tuesday, December 7, 2004 2:31 PM CST
It's great to hear Kevin is home - I will be praying for you about these nurses, I know how that goes. You keep your head up and don't let those comments bother you - You are doing a superb, excellent, wonderful, fantastic job with Kevin and I know he is very proud of his mommy and daddy, and Gracie too! Love and affection is great medicine and you all shower him with that!!! God Bless!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Wednesday, December 1, 2004 8:09 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving!! Sending our love as always. Hugs & Kisses to all and a few extra for Kevin. We Love You
Aunt Mary Laura Jason & Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Thursday, November 25, 2004 5:56 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you all! I hope and pray that Kevin will be coming home soon to spend the holidays with his wonderful family!
Angie Szalecki
Reisterstown, MD - Thursday, November 25, 2004 9:08 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving to you all! I can't believe it's Kevin's 2nd Thanksgiving!
Nancy Corazzi <nancy.corazzi@verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD 21042 - Thursday, November 25, 2004 8:29 AM CST
Karen - I will be praying for you for good nurses - I know that it is no easy thing. It will be good to have Kevin home for Thanksgiving! I hope you all have a great day!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Tuesday, November 23, 2004 10:56 AM CST
Happy Thanksgiving.
Shirley Starnes <sstarnes@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Monday, November 22, 2004 3:58 PM CST
Karen-I am so sad that his fever spiked so high and he had to be miserable all day yesterday - hopefully they can figure out what is causing this - and atleast you know that it is not your house. Thinking of you and praying for you often!!! I will split the lottery with you if I win but I guess I would have to start playing also. God bless, love ya dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, Mo - Friday, November 19, 2004 3:20 PM CST
Hi Karen, I'm leaving today for a trip to Peru to visit my family and my brother who is sick, I hope the baby feels better, keep up with the excellent job you are doing with Kevin, I wish you all the best in these days, I will read your comments when I come back, my prayers with you, the baby and your family, hugs and kisses, Susana
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland USs - Thursday, November 18, 2004 9:55 AM CST
I am a friend of Traci's and heard about your family. I am so happy to see that Kevin is doing good. He is so lucky to have such a wonderful and loving family. My prayers are with you always.
Jennifer Courchaine
Odenton, MD USA - Wednesday, November 17, 2004 3:08 PM CST
HAHA. I know what you mean about the missing Belle. Except i miss Babe. The pig movie. It's been Home on the Range in this house since the day it came out. And while i love those happy heffers. I'd love nothing more then to buy that dang farm and save the day and stomp on that movie. Bring me back the talking pig... Anyway. Glad to here Kevin's starting to feel like himself again! Give him kisses from us all. We love you all with all out hearts! Take care!
Aunt Mary Laura Jason & Ryan <LS2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Monday, November 15, 2004 8:43 PM CST
WHat a wonderful celebration of Kevin's birthday. As always you are in my thoughts. Happy birthdy, Happy Anniversary.
Cindy
Columbia, MD - Friday, November 12, 2004 10:05 PM CST
God has answered so many prayers ! It is a wonderful feeling to know your joy at having Kevin for a whole year to hold and love.I visit the site everyday thanks to you for keeping it up to date so well. How you find the time I'll never know.Give that big boy a post birthday hug and kiss. Your whole family remains on our prayer list and our love is with you daily.
God Bless andd Keep You,
Anita & Frank Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Friday, November 12, 2004 9:02 PM CST
Hi Karen!! Your mom told Kathy about the website. We are glad to hear that things are good. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Happy Birthday to Kevin and Happy anniversary. He is such a precious gift from God.
Stacy and Ken Padgett <skpadgett@msn.com>
Rockville, MD - Friday, November 12, 2004 11:26 AM CST
Happy, Happy Birthday Kevin, I wish you all the best and many, many, many more!!!! I'm glad he had a nice birthday, I hope he feels better, all my love and prayers for Kevin, for you Karen and your husband, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, November 12, 2004 9:56 AM CST
Happy Birthday Kevin!!!! We can't wait to see your 1st birthday pictures!! Our thoughts and prayers are with you!!
Love,
Don,Jeannie,Amber and Donnie
Atkinson Family (Florida Family) <datkinso@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Thursday, November 11, 2004 7:41 PM CST
HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY KEVIN!
Sandy Dindlebeck and family <dindlebeck@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Thursday, November 11, 2004 5:46 PM CST
Happy 1st Birthday Kevin. Lots of hugs and kisses from Mike, Michelle, Brittany and Candice Vermillion
Michelle Vermillion <michelle.vermillion@alps.com>
Marietta, GA US - Thursday, November 11, 2004 9:07 AM CST
HAPPY 1ST BIRTHDAY KEVIN. WE LOVE U!! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY MOM & DAD! WE LOVE U TOO!!
AUNT MARY LAURA JASON & RYAN <LS2312@YAHOO.COM>
FROSTBURG, MD USA - Thursday, November 11, 2004 8:37 AM CST
Happy First Birthday Miracle Boy. We love you.
Happy Anniversary Chris and Karen.
Love,
Patty, Tim, Lillian and Eliza
patty <patricia.o.mclane@verizon.com>
- Thursday, November 11, 2004 8:26 AM CST
Happy 1st Birthday Kevin, from your Great Aunt Lorraine, Uncle Vincent and Susanne Vermillion. Karen, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers every day.
Susanne Vermillion <susannev@techforce.net >
Marietta , GA Cobb - Thursday, November 11, 2004 7:49 AM CST
Happy 1st Birthday Kevin!
Jessie <zazu4@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, November 11, 2004 7:11 AM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY KEVIN! I'LL SEE YOU SOON! LOVE ALWAYS!
EFFIE
Effie Hall
Middletown, MD USA - Thursday, November 11, 2004 7:08 AM CST
Lots of wishes!
Kevin:
Happy Birthday!
Chris & Karen:
Happy Anniversary!
Grace:
Happy Day!
Love to you all!
Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Thursday, November 11, 2004 7:07 AM CST
Happy First Birthday Kevin! You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Chris & Charlotte
Bowie, MD USA - Thursday, November 11, 2004 4:39 AM CST
I am so sad that Kevin has to go back to the hospital, but glad that they can get him on IV antibiotics and get him better quick - love ya and praying for you all!
dawn
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Wednesday, November 10, 2004 1:20 PM CST
Hello Karen, I'm sorry to read that the baby is not well, I imagine how you feel, I'll keep praying for the baby, you and your family, keep writing, regards, hugs, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, November 10, 2004 9:48 AM CST
Thinking about you all and wishing Kevin a Happy First
Birth Day.
Shirley Starnes <sstarnes@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Wednesday, November 10, 2004 6:13 AM CST
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COMMISSIONER WILLIAM H HALL SR <ONEWILDBILL@EROLS.COM>
COTTAGE CITY, MD PRINCE GEORGE - Tuesday, November 9, 2004 11:01 AM CST
Hello Karen, Missing you guys already and its only been two days. I am glad that you managed to get a moments peace. I hope that everything goes well at home and that he doesn't have to come back to stay. As always lifing you up in prayer.
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Friday, November 5, 2004 10:33 AM CST
Hey Sugar pie! Just checking on you! Tell your Mom, Dad, and big sister we love them, and of course we love you very much. Keep up the good work honey! hugs and kisses to all!
Aunt Mary, Laura jason &Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Wednesday, November 3, 2004 8:56 PM CST
I am so excited for Kevin to be home - He will get to be home for his birthday!!! Yeh! It is so great to hear the good news about his sats and not needing the blow oxygen after the anestetic. He is just going to continue to get stronger and stronger from here on out!!!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Tuesday, November 2, 2004 8:28 PM CST
Wanted to let you know I was thinking about you all! Love, Al
Alison Clark <ahc123@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, November 2, 2004 12:11 AM CST
Hi Karen,What a great looking guy. Your dad told me about Kevin's Web site. Your father & I worked to gether at WSSC over 20 yr.ago. Your son will be on the top of my prayer list. God bless you & your family.
Karl Russell <Karl5132@aol.com>
inwood, WV U.S.A, - Sunday, October 31, 2004 6:20 AM CST
karen - I am so sorry that these doctors do not believe that you know what is best for Kevin. You be stern and stand your ground- make them tell you everything that is going on. I will be praying for You and Chris - and the little trooper Kevin. God Bless
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Sunday, October 31, 2004 0:42 AM CDT
Dear Karen-
Keep hanging in there! You are doing such a GREAT JOB for this little guy - Chris too! It has been a long road....and for some reason continues to be long. Please remember that God will not put something before you that you AND HE can't handle together. As you have been, keep looking to Him for the grace to handle each day. I pray that Kevin will continue to improve, and the next cath will solve the problem with his oxygen situation. Please know that many, many people are praying for this special little guy and for you and all your family! And next time, I think you need to promise Kevin a convertible when he turns 16 - I know, I know this is dangerous, but I think he deserves it ...don't you! Thinking of you guys each day!
Lisa Boyd
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, MD USA - Saturday, October 30, 2004 10:10 PM CDT
Tonight I shall say an extra prayer for Gracie!!! I am so happy to hear about your leave until the rest of the year, that is great. That is great Kevin got his breathing tube out and hopefully more off tomorrow.
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Thursday, October 28, 2004 9:56 PM CDT
What a little trooper!!! Once he gets well and up and running - he is not going to stop!!! It makes me smile to hear the surgery went well - I will be praying and believing that those SATs will go up in the name of Jesus and those arteries will function correctly. May God continue to bless you, give you peace and strength and meet every financial need in the name of Jesus!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Wednesday, October 27, 2004 9:49 PM CDT
Hi Karen, I was reading about the surgery, so emotional, so difficult, I hope the baby is not in pain, I feel sorry for him, I hope he feels better, my prayers for the baby, you and your husband, regards, hugs, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, October 27, 2004 3:16 PM CDT
Please know that the Cogan family has kept Kevin in our prayers throughout this past year. He is a miracle and will continue to be. Kevin has been especially close to my heart since our boys share the same birthday. I'm so happy that Kevin's surgery went so well.
Love, Prayers and Many blessings!
Nancy Cogan <ncogan@niaid.nih.gov>
Emmitsburg, MD - Wednesday, October 27, 2004 11:14 AM CDT
We will be with you every step of the way. You and your family are in our prayers - and especially Kevin - every minute of each day. I know we haven't visited, but it just tears me up inside and I just can't look into your eyes without crying. Please understand and forgive us for not stopping by at your home. Give him hugs from Donna and I. God bless all of you.
Jan <jludwig@niaid.nih.gov >
Rockville, MD USA - Wednesday, October 27, 2004 10:52 AM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris-
I said several prayers for Kevin yesterday; he was on my mind heavily. I am so happy that the surgery went well. Please continue to know that Kevin and you are always in my thoughts and prayers. I wish Kevin a speedy recovery, and I'll visit your site daily to check on his progress.
Sherri Strach
- Wednesday, October 27, 2004 10:12 AM CDT
I am really pulling for the little guy who now is in surgery 7:30 P.M. 10/26/2004... I will be checking in here until at least midnight. The rest of you "Hang in There!!!" - Ron
Ron Ruben <Ronald_Ruben@Hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 6:22 PM CDT
We are all praying for Kevin.
The Dindlebecks
Sandy Dindlebeck <dindlebeck@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 4:22 PM CDT
God Bless u Kevin! Wishing u love and luck to get through this today! We all Love u very much. Hugs & Kisses baby
Aunt Mary Laura Jason &Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD usa - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 11:38 AM CDT
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Lots of hugs and kisses from your family in Georgia.
Mike Vermillion <michelle.vermillion@alps.com>
Marietta, GA US - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 9:55 AM CDT
Our prayers are with you and your family today.
Jan and Donna <jludwig@niaid.nih.gov >
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 9:52 AM CDT
Thinking of all of you!
Love Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 6:43 AM CDT
Karen - You, Kevin and the family are in my prayers - an extra one tonight and tomorrow morning for surgery. God will continue to calm your nerves as you call out to Him. Looking forward to the great report tomorrow!! God Bless!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO - Monday, October 25, 2004 9:01 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris-
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with Kevin and with you. Please give Kevin a little hug from me tomorrow morning before his surgery.
Sherri Strach
- Monday, October 25, 2004 1:10 PM CDT
Hi Karen, I hope the surgery went well, let us know, all my prayers with you, the baby and your family, regards, hugs, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Monday, October 25, 2004 12:00 AM CDT
HEHE..pms...oh my...HHAHAHA barbie doll squirt gun..too cute! teach her well!
Glad kevin is doing well..and we will have to discus that little redskins outfit issue, but ill wait on that. give him kisses for me tomorrow and tell him to be a big ham for all the nurses..kiss to gracie from ryan and all of us.
Love u all...
p.s. i wanna go meet santa too :(
Aunt Mary, Laura Jason & Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, md usa - Sunday, October 24, 2004 6:47 PM CDT
Karen, what a horrid day you had! Poor poor you! I wish there was some way to help.
lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va stafford - Friday, October 22, 2004 5:01 AM CDT
The little mice are working overtime at NIAID to assure that you will have donated leave to cover you for more of the time that you need. I have had numerous calls about giving you their use-or-loose leave and I have also verbally talked to people about donated leave that is needed for you. The word is out and hopefully you will be rewarded soon. We all love you and care deeply about your situation and we will do our best to make it an easier time for you and your family. They need you home right now. NIH can wait.
Jan Ludwig <jludwig@niaid.nih.gov >
Rockville, MD USA - Wednesday, October 20, 2004 1:23 PM CDT
hugs and kisses to Kevin. We pray for you every night. We love you.
Lillian and Eliza <patricia.o.mclane@verizon.com>
dunkirk, md - Monday, October 18, 2004 10:02 PM CDT
Hi karen-
Thinking about you all and praying for you daily. I have enlisted the prayer team from my church and many friends around the country are praying for little Kevin. You can't imagine how many lives his little life has touched. As I was thinking and praying for Kevin today, I couldn't help to think about his liver issues and wonder if this might be causing some of the problems he is experiencing. Do they ever put him under bili-lights when he is in the hospital or are there any other treatments that he could receive for his condition? I'm wondering if they are doing alll they can for him on that issue or whether they were turning a blind eye to that thinking he would not have been with us so long. Anyway, will continue to lift you all up daily and pray for extra measure of strength for you all and a time when you and Gracie can have special Mommy/daughter snuggle time. Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, MD USA - Monday, October 18, 2004 5:07 AM CDT
Karen - I was just recently made aware of this website and I spent hours reading from day one until now. Your little Kevin is quite the fighter- an adorable little bundle of joy from above, and you and Chris are wonderful loving parents as well- how about that sweet big sister!! Your whole family is beautiful! I will continue to pray for strength and healing in Kevin's body, peace and comfort for you and Chris, and wisdom and knowledge for the doctors. God Bless you all!!!
Dawn Dee <dee_dawn@hotmail.com>
Lake St Louis, MO USA - Saturday, October 16, 2004 9:50 PM CDT
Karen, Let the comfort and warmth of the prayers & hugs of everyone who loves you surround you ...
- Saturday, October 16, 2004 10:01 AM CDT
Dear Gracie, (and Karen & Chris)
I had fun playing with you and Dillon at my grandma's house.My mom was checking on Kevin and I ask if I could send you a note. How is your ankle? I am so glad your brother is home and ok. I will pray for him. I will keep checking on you and your brother.
Love
Gretchen (aka:brown haired girl)
Ann Coffman <acoffman@fuse.net>
Ft. Mitchell, KY usa - Friday, October 15, 2004 6:12 PM CDT
Hi Karen, I hope the baby feels better and can stay home, take care, all my prayers with you, the baby and your family, regards, Susan
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Friday, October 15, 2004 4:06 PM CDT
Karen & Chris - My mother has been keeping me updated on Kevin for many months now, and we were encouraged by your entry last Thursday. So sorry his surgery has now been postponed, but at least he'll be able to come home in the meantime! Your family has been and will continue to be in our hearts and prayers...
Kathy Roche <wes-kat@msn.com>
Harwood, MD - Thursday, October 14, 2004 8:23 AM CDT
All of you are in our prayers. Praying for everything to go well tomorrow. lots of love from your family in Georgia.
Mike, Michelle, Brittany and Candice
Mike & Michelle Vermillion <michelle.vermillion@alps.com>
Marietta, GA US - Wednesday, October 13, 2004 3:39 PM CDT
Hi Karen, I'm sorry that they baby had to suffer with the IV, I hope he doesn't suffer, I feel sorry.
I hope everything goes well with the surgery, all the best, my prayers with you, the baby and your family, regards,
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Friday, October 8, 2004 3:24 PM CDT
What great news!!!
Lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va Stafford - Friday, October 8, 2004 9:26 AM CDT
How wonderfull!!!!!!!!!!! Good for Kevin and you and Chris and little Gracie. Keep up the good work!
lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
stafford, Va stafford - Friday, October 8, 2004 5:16 AM CDT
WOW...im so happy for you .....God Bless you all!!!!
Connie Roach and family <vampires76@hotmail.com>
Ridgeley, WV USA - Thursday, October 7, 2004 10:07 PM CDT
Ohhhh YAYYYY what a wonderful entry. I am crying happy tears and enjoying every one of them falling on my cheeks. Thank You Lord. Karen & Chris- We love you both and Gracie very much and wish we were there to express it. Wow. That is all so wonderful. Keep it up baby boy!! Your right Karen. HE does have plans for this little baby, and I think you owe Kevin a few cars if I'm not mistaking. Gramma called Aunt Anne last night, so we kind of knew the jist of it. But reading this tonight has made it so much better. Wow..I'm so happy for your family. Great news guys!!
As always..here comes the lots of love hugs and kisses to all, and give extra lovins to that beautiful boy from us. Kiss for princess Gracie from Ryan. We love you so much!! We will continue our prayers and keep you in our thoughts! What a little miracle you have. Wow! Take care and keep us posted. Love Ya's
Aunt Mary, Laura Jason & Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Thursday, October 7, 2004 7:45 PM CDT
Awesome news!! We are SOOOO happy for you all! We continue to send our love and prayers (like you didn't already know that).
Kristina Hawse <winknkris@earthlink.net>
Frederick, MD USA - Thursday, October 7, 2004 6:47 PM CDT
Karen and Chris-
The news that you have provided is just wonderful!! Thus far, Kevin has beaten every obstacle that has come his way, and he is nothing short of a miracle. I'm happy to hear he may have heart surgery as early as next week. My prayers continue to be with you and with Kevin, and I know that God will continue to watch over him, especially during his upcoming procedure. As usual, please give this little wonder guy a hug from me!! Keep us posted!!
Sherri Strach
- Thursday, October 7, 2004 12:40 AM CDT
All I can say is Praise God from whom all blessings flow! You have been such an advocate for this little guy, and an example to us all how to honor each and every precious little life - no matter what the circumstances. I pray that the next humps will get smaller and smaller each step of the way as Kevin gets healthier. You may have your hands full when he is really healthy, with his current zeal for life and the state he has been in; won't that be delightful to meditate on now! We will be praying continually!
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
LI/NIH, Md USA - Thursday, October 7, 2004 10:37 AM CDT
KAREN AND CHRIS,
I HAVE BEEN CHECKING THE SITE A COUPLE TIMES TODAY AND JUST FINISHED READING THE GOOD NEWS!!! Of course I was crying and then I had to explain to the county attorney that walked in my office why I was crying. As I explained who and what was going on, I began thinking this is just one more person's life that Kevin has touched. He is your miracle in every sense of the word. As always you guys are in my thoughts and prayers and now he'll be in yet another families thoughts and prayers.
Love Cuz Annie
Ann Coffman <Acoffman@fuse.net>
Ft. Mitchell, KY usa - Thursday, October 7, 2004 10:25 AM CDT
Karen and Chris, I am so happy to read your latest entry. You're right, God must have a plan for Kevin. You guys are great parents for this little guy.
Nancy Corazzi <nancy.corazzi@verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Thursday, October 7, 2004 9:48 AM CDT
That is the best news Karen, I am so happy for you all. I will continue to keep Kevin in my prayers. Best wishes to you all
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD United States - Thursday, October 7, 2004 9:13 AM CDT
This is the bast day of my life to read that this special little boy is going to have a chance to meet all the people that have been praying for his existance since day one. I am so happy for you and your family. Keep the good news coming and we will keep our prayers going as long as we have to - and then some. After a very long day yesterday with a new incoming staff member, I am so glad to spread the good news about Kevin to everyone I see in my routine day at TwnII. I am so extatic and optomistic at this point. Wish I could give you a big hug right now. Close your eyes and feel the warmth of my feelings. I definitely will try to stop by soon.
Jan Ludwig <Jandonna@aol.com and jludwig@niaid.nih.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Thursday, October 7, 2004 8:32 AM CDT
Chris & Family -- it has been a long time since I have talked with you. Ever since Tim gave me the news about Little Kevin, I have been praying and thinking of you and your family every day. I drop in now and then and take a look at the wonderful website Karen has been keeping updated. Sometimes it brings tears and other times smiles. I can't begin to image going through what you all have been going through. I have my circle of friends praying as well. Keep the faith and God Bless You.
Teri "Cranford" Herren <teriherren@comcast.net>
Lusby, MD USA - Wednesday, October 6, 2004 1:29 PM CDT
Your in my thoughts! love you all!
Traci
Ellicott City, MD USA - Wednesday, October 6, 2004 6:53 AM CDT
Karen,
Give my boyfriend a big hug and kiss for me! I forgot to tell you when we went to see him we brought a bunch of car magazines. He pointed to some awfully expensive cars. I am pretty sure he wants mostly sports cars. So when you are ready to start purchasing them just let me know we have a list. How many did you say you were buying? Tell him I will bring some more on the next visit. Good luck tomorrow, I love you guys! I am here if you need me! Ju
Judy Hanger <Judy.Hanger@montgomerycountymd.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, October 5, 2004 10:54 AM CDT
Karen & Chris,
Where do I begin? As I check on you guys daily I am so happy when it is good news and yet heartsick when he is not doing well. I can't imagine the roller coaster you are going threw. I do believe you have made the right choice to go ahead. No one knows what is going to happen, but I think it would be easier to live with knowing that you gave him every chance you possibly could. It is truly in God's hands and I believe everything happens for a reason. What is the reason Kevin is so sick I don't know. I do know that it has made me thank God everyday for my children. When one of the younger ones spills milk or one of the older ones needs money I think of Kevin and all his pain he is going through and the struggle you and Chris go through everyday and it seems so irrelevant. You are always in my prayers and I today I pray for peace of mind for you and Chris.
Love and prayers ALWAYS!!!
Your Cuz Annie
Ann Coffman <acoffman@fuse.net>
Ft. Mitchell, KY usa - Thursday, September 30, 2004 7:21 PM CDT
Hi Karen and Chris,
It has been a little while since I have written - but you are never out of our minds. I have wanted to visit many times and still have not done so. I just don't know what to say and do once I see your face - I care about you and I would just start to cry. Please forgive me for not visiting. After reading today's insert, my heart just cries out for the two of you and also Gracie. Your decision to go ahead has my approval and I know Donna would agree also. If you don't take that chance, you will doubt yourself forever. At least you will give him some hope of being with you a little longer - or maybe for a longer period of years. We just have to hope that all will work out in the end. Donna and I will pray daily - as we have been for many months. We will also keep him on the prayer list at our church as we have also been doing. We are very proud of your strength and endurance through these past months. It has been more than any young couple should have to go through. But, just a look at that smiling face of Kevin's, says it is all worth it. Please know that our thoughts are with you and we read your page every chance we get. I check in on you every day to see what you have entered. We send our love to you and your family. Bless all of you.
Jan Ludwig and Donna Stoudt <jludwig@niaid.nih.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Thursday, September 30, 2004 4:31 PM CDT
Thinking of you all.
Shirley Starnes at LI <sstarnes@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Thursday, September 30, 2004 3:46 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris-
This is a very difficult time of decision that you are now facing, and my full understanding and support goes out to you. My prayers are with you all. Please give Kevin a little hug from me.
Your Friend, Sherri Strach <sstrach@nih.gov>
- Thursday, September 30, 2004 10:48 AM CDT
I'm thinking about you. I'm so sorry to hear this news. Please know I am here for you if you need me.
Lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va Stafford - Thursday, September 30, 2004 5:26 AM CDT
Karen, Chris, Gracie & Kevin,
I continue to be touched by your lives. I look forward to good news and feel saddened by bad. Thank you for allowing us to share in your lives and keep you in our prayers.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD - Sunday, September 26, 2004 6:49 PM CDT
Glad to here that everything is going well at home and that the new nurses will be coming on to take care of him. I miss seeing you guys but I'm glad that your not here. We are keeping the entire family in our prayers and will see you when you come in for the Cath Surgery.
Officer Dee and the Peds ER staff <neisha74@msn.com>
baltimore, md - Tuesday, September 21, 2004 11:01 AM CDT
Uncle Michael and Natalie stopping in to say that you are being thought of every day. Blessings and Eternal Prayers
Natalie and Uncle Michael
USA and Trinidad and Tobago, - Monday, September 20, 2004 10:03 AM CDT
Brian and I will be praying for your family. We think and talk about all of you often. May God Bless. Cathy and Brian Herchenroeder
Cathy Herchenroeder <cathy_herchenroeder@fanniemae.com>
Owings, MD - Tuesday, September 14, 2004 7:16 AM CDT
Wishing the best of luck in your procedure baby! We all love you Kevin..
Karen, Chris, Gracie, & Kevin...We continue to think of you daily and pray that things go great!! All our love and kisses and hugs!
Aunt Mary, Laura, Jason, & Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 8:04 PM CDT
Glad to hear that Kevin is doing well at home. I will see you all on Tuesday. Enjoy your weekend and tell Kevin that he is not allowed here any sooner than Tuesday :)
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
baltimore, md - Friday, September 10, 2004 2:36 PM CDT
What GREAT NEWS!!! you go Kevin!!
lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
stafford, VA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 8:40 AM CDT
It has been several years since I have been to visit youz guyz there in Rockville. When we learned of Kevin's spiritual challenge and your family's journey of faith, we immediately prayed for you. Eight of us together (Rose and Tony Sr here too), each with a rosary. I could feel Kevin's link with God, his sharing in the ministry of the suffering of Christ. It must be the ultimate test of faith to endure Kevin's life challenge, bringing you all closer to family and to God.
For what it is worth, I believe all things happen for a reason; that there are no coincidences. We will continue to pray for the comfort and peace of Kevin and all who have been touched by his gleaming spirit.
A prayer:
Today, our life is a gift from you Lord, given not in years but a day at a time. Today is the day you have made for us. You have planned it to be the most important day of our life.
Yesterday is gone, never to return, we must not worry about it, rather leave it in your hands, Lord. Tomorrow and all that it holds is your secret, its coming is not assured.
Only today is ours. Each day arranged by you as an act of love for us.
In thanksgiving, we offer this day this gift of sufferings, ourselves, our works, and our joys to you. We pray that you receive them graciously.
Tony <tonyszw@aol.com>
TALLAHASSEE, FL US - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 7:10 AM CDT
I am glad to hear his is doing better, tell Gracie congrats and have fun. She sure is getting to be a big girl. Best wishes and if you need anything let me know.
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD USA - Friday, September 3, 2004 9:52 AM CDT
Hi Karen, I'm glad that the baby is better, I hope he doesn't feel bad, send news when you fix your computer, regards, my prayers are with you, the baby and your family, hugs, Susana
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Thursday, September 2, 2004 3:30 PM CDT
Karen and Chris, I miss being able to see him everyday but I am really glad that he is home. I pray that Kevin continues to do well and does not need to return any sooner. As always I am keeping you in my prayers
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Wednesday, September 1, 2004 1:20 PM CDT
Glad to here Kevin is doing better, Sorry to hear about Chris's wallet, at least is was not somehting worse. I will keep you in my prayer hope all goes welll for Kevin when he comes home.
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD - Tuesday, August 31, 2004 7:53 AM CDT
Hi,
I work with Traci and she told me about Kevin and you. You are a very strong lady and Kevin is a very strong little boy. I don't believe I could ever be as strong as you are. I truly believe God only hands out the worst to those who can handle it and that's not fair. I truly feel for what you, Kevin and his father are going through but you all are doing a great job! My prayers are with you!
Carol Rankin <ppi0778@yahoo.com>
Leonardtiown, MD USA - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 2:46 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris- I am continuing to pray for little Kevin and for you, and have enlisted some special prayer warriors for this effort. I don't understand the doctors. the on and off antibiotics things makes me wonder if they know anything about immunology and disease (everyone has always told me to finish a course of antibiotics!). I would insist a two week couse - then go for the 3 day of culture if they still think they need to do that. At least you would irradicate whatever minor infection he might be having, then if something else shows up, then go for the BIG guns. anyway, I know you are frustrated - perhaps this might be a more logical course of action for the time being. Just want to put my two cents in as well as lots and lots of prayer power. keep up the good work! I know little Kevin is thriving more than anyone would have dreamed because of your heroic efforts! Do not weary in doing good, for your reward is in heaven - not here. Lisa Boyd
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH/LI, MD USA - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 11:27 AM CDT
Since I haven't been at the hospital I haven't had the chance to see Kevin. We are continuing to pray for him and the rest of the family. I hope to see you soon.
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Tuesday, August 24, 2004 2:48 PM CDT
We are continuing our prayers for your little boy. We love you all very much. May heaven help you all through this. Nothing but hugs and kisses and lots of love from us as always. Kiss Gracie for us and remember, we are always right here even though we arent right there! Love you all!
Aunt Mary Laura Jason and Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Wednesday, August 18, 2004 7:45 PM CDT
Karen, this is Allison - the "ebay onesie" girl. Since we last spoke I've been following your posts and I just want you to know that while we've never met, I feel like we are old friends and I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you and your family. I'm at a loss for words, but I have nothing but hope and positive thoughts for you and your family.
Allison <alliegene@aol.com>
Long Island, NY USA - Tuesday, August 17, 2004 9:51 PM CDT
Karen and Chris,
I am just catching up with the recent events. As usual Kevin is in our prayer circle along with the rest of the family. If I make it down to the hospital today I will come and see you.
Officer Jefferson <neisha74@msn.com>
baltimore, md - Tuesday, August 17, 2004 8:05 AM CDT
Karen & Chris,
I could not say it as eloquently as this prayer -- I hope you do not mind that it is not original, but it does still come straight from the heart:
For all those who carry the very heavy burden of caring ..
Our loving Father in heaven,
we thank You that You are a God who cares. You demonstrated this most perfectly when You gave You Son to die for us. You are a God full of mercy and love and grace.
We ask You to bless all who care for children today. We thank you for mothers, fathers, grandparents, everyone who has given everything to support this child, Kevin, through illness. They need to know Your love and grace in abundance. We ask You to keep them in good health. We ask You to surround them with Your Presence and bless them in their own souls.
We pray for the other family members, especially young Gracie, who cannot understand why family life has been turned on its head. Help her to accept the situation and have peace in her heart, too.
In our Saviour's wonderful Name we pray.
Amen
Jane <jburck@hotmail.com>
Sioux Falls, SD - Monday, August 16, 2004 9:59 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen,
Our thoughts and prayers are with Kevin. Hope he feels better soon. Take care.
Chris & Charlotte <cmw64@verizon.net>
Bowie, MD - Sunday, August 15, 2004 9:48 AM CDT
Dear Karen,
I'm so happy Kevin is home again. Finally some good news.
Diana Seegers Bouma
Baambrugge, Netherlands - Saturday, August 14, 2004 2:48 PM CDT
Karen, Chris & Kevin- Prayer can change things - Your family are in my prayers.
Joyce Ester
Laurel, MD USA - Thursday, August 12, 2004 10:33 AM CDT
Hi Karen and Chris- My favorite Bible verse is Romans 8:28 "All things work together for good, for those who love God and are called according to His purposes." I think of this verse often when I'm cut off in traffic, or get delayed for some reason or other, then come across a very bad car accident that moments before, I could have been a part of when the timing is right. How many times a day does this happen and I never even know that God and His angels are watching over me. Sometimes the worst things, can work out to the best and to God's glory. Each and eveything has it's purposes in the puzzle called life. Just think how much little Kevin's life has meant to alll those hospital folks who never see any hope for very sick little kids; how preciouus you and your attitude is to them to see a parent devoted to even a sick and possibly dying child. You will never know how many lives you and little Kevin have touched. Even when things aren't perfect, we know we have a God who loves us and loves little kevin even more than we can even think or imagine. We just need to trust Him in everything. We are praying for you and for little Kevin.......blessings to you all! Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH/LI, Md USA - Thursday, August 12, 2004 9:14 AM CDT
I am sooooo happy to read the last entry dated 10 August!! I know my heart just dropped when I read that he wasn't doing well at all. I can't wait for him to get home so that I can come by to visit him again (and, of course, you, Gracie, and Chris). Everyone in my family from Frederick, Lanham, and North Carolina send their love and prayers.
Kristina Hawse <winknkris@earthlink.net>
Frederick, MD USA - Wednesday, August 11, 2004 7:12 PM CDT
Praise God. I faithfully check this site day and night. Kevin is truly touched by an angel. He is such a fighter. I know that it is so very hard on you all. Especially you Karen. To see your child so sick and not be able to do anything. But not for one day should you ever think that you are not doing anything or all you can. The love that you have for your baby is so very strong, never ending, and true. I wish that all babies could experience the love that you have for Kevin. It is your love and being the mother that you are that gives him the strength fo fight. Little Gracie is such a cutie. You can see the love that she and Kevin has for one another in their eyes. I read where she said that Kevin was going to get better. And shortly after that I am now reading where he has made such progress. I just wanted you to know that my family and I are all praying for the Mclane family and especially little Kevin. To You Karen, May the Lord continue to give you strength from day to day.
God Bless You All
Odarise (Dee) Coates, Mama Anne's co-worker <ocoates@eos.east.hitc.com>
Capitol Heights, MD US - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 6:40 PM CDT
Wow, Last time I checked he was at home and doing well, which was just last week. Our prayers are with all of you. Lots of love from Georgia
Mike and Michelle Vermillion <michelle.vermillion@alps.com>
Marietta, GA US - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 4:19 PM CDT
I am so thankful to hear that Kevin is doing better and that talk of a translant has transpired!!!! Kevin is SUCH a fighter (he gets this from his parents). My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with him and with you. Your little guy is so special, and I pray that he continues to get stronger with each passing day.
Sherri Strach
Frederick, MD - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 3:07 PM CDT
My prayers to the entire family. It's such a small world when one simple phone call can bring such news into your life. Not having seen Karen for over 15 years, I can't help but want to be there for her and her family as they wait patiently for the next morning. Not having any children myself, I can't even say I must know how you feel because I don't and won't pretend that I do. What I will say to you Karen and family, stay strong and find joy in everything that gives you another day to be with Kevin. I know my words will never give you comfort but know that my prayers will be with each of you. Don't hesitate to call on me whenever you need a helping hand. (Theresa has my number if you want to call on me).
Carroline Owens <crowens@leggmason.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 2:28 PM CDT
God bless you! Kevin is so lucky to have such loving parents. I will continue to keep your family in my prayers!!
Pat Becker <pbecker@C2solutions.us>
Beltsville, MD - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 2:10 PM CDT
Karen, Where do I start? Although the time you have with Kevin is entirely too hectic and hard right now. It is a time that you will always be able cherish. And yes, I understand how hard it is not having a healthy child with all of the ups and downs. However, we must always remember we are lucky enough to have our beautiful children and at least we know how to cherish every moment. You are The Bestest mom I have ever met. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for allowing me to get to know such a wonderful little boy and such a wonderful family. In the past months I have grown to love you and your children. I admire the courage and love that you give both of them. Watching you with Kevin is the most beautiful picture I have ever seen, to watch him look at you and see the love you two share is the most amazing thing I have ever seen. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart…….I will always be here for you, to laugh or cry. You and your son have put such a wonderful impression permanently embedded on my heart. I smile each time I think of him. Please just let me know when you buy all those darn cars so that I can move mine off the street, I know you will need to park them in front of my house too! My thoughts and prayers are with you all everyday. Love Ju
Judy Hanger <schyriece@msn.com>
Rockville, md usa - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 1:07 PM CDT
Karen, I admire you for your courage and the love you all have for this little darling, Kevin. I pray for him every night and for the both of you to maintan the strength that it takes to go through this. Your humor is priceless, even at this sad time, you make me smile. I lost my husband to bone cancer 3 years ago, and I did not write a journal. I wish I had. You are so dedicated to keep this up. So glad you do. My prayers are with all of you.
Bonnie
Bonnie McMahon <bmcmahon@phillips.com>
Laurel, MD usa - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 1:02 PM CDT
Karen, Chris, Gracie & Kevin, Each day I look to see good news about Kevin. Earlier this week I was saddened to hear he wasn't doing well. I opened this web site with dread today, and was soooooo happily surprised to hear he is fighting on and doing much better. You are in my prayers.
Cindy Myles Rhodes
Columbia, MD USA - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 12:21 AM CDT
I am so happy to hear that Kevin is doing better today. If there is anything that I can do to help, please let me know.
Jessie Fell <zazu4@hotmail.com>
Rockville, MD - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 11:53 AM CDT
We're praying very hard for all of you.
Isabel, Sharon & Anthony <sharons@mafcu.org>
rockville, md usa - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 9:02 AM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris,
I pray that God will give you enough love and strength to get you through this.
My love to everyone especially Kevin.
Pritee
Pritee Agarwal <pagarwal@mail.nih.gov>
Germantown, MD USA - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 8:31 AM CDT
For Karen and Chris,
I'll lend you for a little time a child of mine, He Said,
For you to love the while he lives and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven months, or twenty-two or three,
but will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you, and shall his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief,
I cannot promise he will stay, since all from Earth return,
But there are lessons, taught down there, I want this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lane, I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again?
I fancied that I heard them say, Dear Lord, Thy Will be Done!
For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk for grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've know forever grateful stay;
But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand.
Edgar Guest
You and Kevin will be in our prayers, always.
Mrs & Dr. Mir Ali <anjumsayd@hotmail.com>
Rockville, md USA - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 8:23 AM CDT
I love u all! I wish I could do more. Hopefully he pulls through and will beat the odds like Katie said! God bless u all, and baby Kevin! We will continue our prayers and keep you in our thoughts and hearts
Laura Powers Savage <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD US - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 0:16 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Kevin in these difficult times.
Cem Akin <cemakin@umich.edu>
Ann Arbor, MI - Monday, August 9, 2004 3:06 PM CDT
Dear Chris and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your child. I wish I could help share the pain that you are going through so your burden is not as difficult.Your journal is extraordinary so continue to share your thoughts and feelings with all of us here at work.May god bless you and your family.
Tom Rosato
Tom Rosato <trosato@chesapeakesys.com>
Beltsville, Md. USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 3:03 PM CDT
Dear Karen, Chris and Gracie,
I feel so sad after reading your last entry. I don't know what to say. I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. This must be so hard. I wish you all the strength in the world.
Diana Seegers
Baambrugge, Netherlands - Monday, August 9, 2004 2:50 PM CDT
Please know that my heart and prayers are with baby Kevin and with you.
Sherri Strach
Frederick, MD - Monday, August 9, 2004 2:41 PM CDT
I don't even know what to say. That's unbelieveable, but Kevin is strong. I have faith that he'll beat the odds. I'm praying for you all.
Katie Bastian <imsosexi022@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 11:39 AM CDT
Karen I'm so very very sorry. I know there is nothing to say that will take the pain away. I am thinking of you.
lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va Stafford - Monday, August 9, 2004 10:22 AM CDT
Dear Karen, Chris and Gracie,
My heartfelt prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Kevin may be with us for a short time but will always be remembered as a truly special period. Love him for each and every moment.
Ivan Fuss <ifuss@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda , MD - Monday, August 9, 2004 10:19 AM CDT
Karen, Chris and Gracie my thoughts and prayers are with you. I too had hoped things would turn out better. Karen you are very strong lady and mother don't let anyone tell you different. God is with you and your family in this time of needs. We will all pray for you.
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD United States - Monday, August 9, 2004 9:20 AM CDT
I am praying for Kevin and his comfort and peace. God Bless all of you.
Nancy Corazzi <nancy.corazzi@verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 9:15 AM CDT
Karen,
I wish Kevin comfort in this difficult time for him, and hope that you and Chris can reflect in time on the blessings that he represents to you both now.
Steve Straus <ss44z@nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD - Monday, August 9, 2004 8:51 AM CDT
We are so sorry to read about what has happened in the past few days. We kept reading how well everything was doing and your entry this morning comes as a complete shock. Our prayers are with you, Kevin, Chris, and Gracie.
Love to all of you, Kristina, Winkie, and Grandma Dawson
Kristina Hawse <winknkris@earthlink.net>
Frederick, MD USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 8:01 AM CDT
Dear Karen, Chris, Grace and Kevin,
Just wanted to let you know my thoughts are prayers are with you all and I hope Kevin can come home soon. Tell Grace a blanket is on the way for her too!
Chris
Chris Woods <cmw64@verizon.net>
Bowie, MD USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 3:55 AM CDT
Dear Karen- Hello from an old friend, Michele Oleksa. Your sister found me a couple of weeks ago and shared with me of your family life. Seven years ago, I lost my husband to a nasty battle with bone marrow cancer. Your journal entries bring me right back to the time of that experience. I kept daily journals that mirror yours. Keep the faith and do rejoice in the small miracles of Kevin. It might only be that day, but oh what a day! I will pray for Kevin, for you and your family.
Michele (Oleksa) Gehrke <Michelegehrke8909@msn.com>
Island Lake, IL USA - Sunday, August 8, 2004 11:51 AM CDT
Hey you guys -- just wanted to let you know how wonderful it was visiting last weekend. We are very proud of you all. We can come over anytime you want or need us. Karen, if i worked for NIH or the Fed Gov't...you'd have all my time!
Uncle Tim
- Saturday, August 7, 2004 7:28 AM CDT
Hi Karen, I'm sorry to read that you are having problems with the nurses and that the baby is not well, is great that you can stay home with him, my prayers are with you, the baby and your family, regards, Susana
Susana <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Friday, August 6, 2004 10:59 AM CDT
Karen Chris Princess Gracie & Prince Kevin :
Was just reading the journals and was thinking about you. I print them out so Ma (Aunt Mary) can read them as well. We have started quite the little collection, but it is worth it. As always we send nothing but love and best wished to all of you! Keep in touch, we love hearing from you! Karen you are the best writter ever, you sense of humor is wonderful with the Gracie on EBay...oh my, post my rugrat if ya get a chance...haha..Hugs and Kisses to everyone!! So good to hear Kevin is doing well!
Aunt Mary, Laura, Jason , & Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Thursday, August 5, 2004 1:11 PM CDT
Dear Karen, Chris and Grace,
Our computer has been out of service. Karen you are a great mommy. I know your tired and wish the nurse's would be more concerned. I was glad to read that my brother, Chris, did meds for you one morning. Both of you, in your own ways, have come together for a child so you will always be blessed. Kevin came off of one med, that is great news. No red flags, only a few yellow, good news I hope?
Will keep in touch,Cathy
Cathy Bastian <crabapple111@aol.Com>
Bowie, MD U.S.A. - Friday, July 30, 2004 5:58 PM CDT
Kevin & Grace:
Since I was out of town this weekend, I will have to send my hugs and kisses thru the net. See you next weekend!
Love you all!
Traci Barsy
Ellicott City, MD USA - Tuesday, July 27, 2004 3:48 PM CDT
Dear Karen and family, Just stopping by to let you know that our thoughts are with you. I still check this page daily to see if there is an entry. I admire your courage and strength. Kevin is lucky to have you as his mom.
Diana Seegers Bouma
Baambrugge, Netherlands - Tuesday, July 27, 2004 4:33 AM CDT
There are many of us that check daily to see what you have entered. I know you have to be with Kevin and I know you get very tired. That is why we have not visited. But, I finally got you address from Effie and Donna and I would like to know when we could visit and play with Kevin and Gracie. Just e-mail us - and we will make arrangements at your convenience only.
Jan & Donna <Jandonna@aol.com>
Rockville, MD - Friday, July 23, 2004 4:17 PM CDT
Keep your chin up. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Also when you have chance e-mail me your address I have a gift for you and kevin.
Anneliese Baker (Nemier) <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD 21703 - Friday, July 23, 2004 1:43 PM CDT
just to let you know I'm thinking of you.
lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.com>
stafford, Va usa - Friday, July 23, 2004 4:52 AM CDT
I know Kevin's grandma through work (though she is in Maryland and I am in South Dakota). Grandma Anne is well loved by those who know her here, and we all wish for your family much love and peace of mind knowing Kevin couldn't be better off than right there in the middle of your loving family.
jane
- Thursday, July 22, 2004 9:27 PM CDT
stopping in to say a big HELLO to all in the family......
natalie and mike
usa and trinidad and tobago, - Thursday, July 15, 2004 11:33 AM CDT
Chris and Karen, you and your family are in our prayers.
Rick and Ginger Krovich <gingerandrick@windbits.net>
Dryden, VA USA - Wednesday, July 14, 2004 11:01 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
My family and I were in the process of moving, so our internet service has briefly been interrupted. When I got back to work I was checking up on you guys. If Childrens Hospital in Cincinnati can help, you guys are welcome to stay with us. We are about 20 minutes from the hospital. I am so glad to see his bili count is coming down, that has to be good. You guys are always in our prayers and thoughts.
Ann Coffman <acoffman@fuse.net>
Ft. Mitchell, KY USA - Friday, July 9, 2004 6:46 AM CDT
Dear Karen & Chris, Grace & Kevin,
I spoke to your Dad, Karen, in Pa over the 4th of July weekend. We were at the graduation party for Brad Dugan. My brother, Don and your Dad have been lifelong friends. Your Dad was talking to someone about your family and how Kevin was doing. Being a NICU RN (in Chicago, Il) I couldn't help but hear what was being said and I was curious as to what was going on with Kevin. You are a very courageous young lady Karen. I have read your daily journals and what you and your family have been going through. Kevin is very handsome. I wish I lived closer so
I could meet all of you and help in some way. You will all be in my prayers everynight and I am putting Kevin's name on our prayer list at the hospital. I will continue to read your journals.
Marsha Perryman, RNC <perry52@aol.com>
Streamwood, Il USA - Wednesday, July 7, 2004 10:26 PM CDT
I am sorry for all you are having to deal with. Hopefully things will work out. I continue to keep you and your family in my prayer. You are very strong lady Karen and don't let anyone push you around. Kevin deserve the best and you are giving that to him.
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@netzero.com>
Frederick, MD USA - Thursday, July 1, 2004 9:09 AM CDT
It is unbelievable that you have to deal with such poor work ethics. I am so sorry. If I knew how this could be resolved without all the stress and danger you are encountering, believe me, I would tell you. However, I think that you are the best parents Kevin could ever have asked for, and that you will put 200% of your best into making sure he is well taken care of. Our prayers, as always, are with you all.
Nancy Corazzi <nancy.corazzi@verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Wednesday, June 30, 2004 2:19 PM CDT
I can't beleive I was out bid! She would have fitted right in with our 5 dogs, 4 cats, 2 rats, and the 3 fish!!
lesley pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
stafford, Va Stafford - Tuesday, June 29, 2004 9:44 AM CDT
HAPPY FATHERS DAY!!!! I LOVE YOU! have a good day!
Katie Bastian <imsosexi022@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Sunday, June 20, 2004 3:00 PM CDT
Chris & Karen,
Sorry it has been awhile since we wrote. We have been busy, but perhaps not as busy as all of you. We loved the family picture! Gracie and Kevin are both adorable! You have a very beautiful family! Sydney, our 3 1/2 yr old, said "what a cute little baby" and asked if Gracie was a big sister like her too! We said yes and Sydney said that's great! Well, Happy belated Mother's Day to you , Karen, and Happy Father's Day to Chris! We think of you always and send all of our love & prayers!
Sara, Garth, Sydney, & Geoffrey Glotfelty <garth@tje1.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Friday, June 18, 2004 10:52 PM CDT
just stopping in to say hi and to say we are ALWAYS thinking of the family. Kisses to everyone for us.
Natalie and Mike
USA and Trinidad and Tobago, - Thursday, June 17, 2004 9:26 AM CDT
You go Girl!
Effie Hall
Middletown, MD USA - Wednesday, June 16, 2004 6:36 AM CDT
Karen that is a wonderful letter you wrote to the doctor. Good for you!
lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va Stafford - Wednesday, June 16, 2004 4:34 AM CDT
Hi Karen, I saw the photos, such a beautiful baby, I hope he can make it, so much for this beautiful angel, my prayers for him, you and your family, regards, Susana
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Monday, June 14, 2004 3:23 PM CDT
Dear Karen:
Please accept my apologies for not entering a message on the website before now. I am sure I can't fully appreciate the depth of your feelings but I have at least a partial idea of how difficult this must be for you and your family.
Kevin has the blessing of a terrific mom and you, for all the heartache, I know, draw strength and love from him.
Marilyn and I are among the legion of your supporters.
Bill Paul
William Paul <wepaul@nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD 20892 - Monday, June 14, 2004 1:55 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris~
I am still checking daily to see any updates. My husband and I think of and pray for Kevin and your whole family constantly. He has affected our lives so much, and we've never even met him! God Bless you all.
Nancy & Ron Corazzi <nancy.corazzi@verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Monday, June 14, 2004 3:02 AM CDT
Chris and Karen.. words cannot express the thoughts and prayers that are in our hearts. Though I am only a roommate and friend, I have shared your brother Bill's worries, concerns, and love for Kevin and for you. May God bless you and your family at this time. Be strong.... Our prayers are with you. Karen and your brother Bill
Bill Mclane <HKIC34@aol.com>
Crofton, MD USA - Thursday, June 10, 2004 9:11 PM CDT
Dear Karen your last entry touch me deeply. How hard to have to arrange your son's funeral. I'm so very sorry. Words can not express. Give Kevin a big hug and kiss for me will you?
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, VA Stafford - Thursday, June 10, 2004 5:13 AM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris-
My thoughts and prayers are with you and with Kevin. God Bless you all.
Sherri Strach
- Wednesday, June 9, 2004 3:51 PM CDT
Just letting you all know that you are still on ours minds. Sending our love to everyone....Karen..you should have been a writer...you crack me up sometimes. Give everyone a hug and smooch from us. We miss you all very much and hope to make it down this summer if we can. Love to all
Aunt Mary, Laura, Jason , & Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Monday, June 7, 2004 9:54 PM CDT
Hey Karen & Chris -- brother Tim here (again...) As you see the entries from friends and family dwindle a bit here, please be assured that you guys are still in our thoughts and prayers. Most people that you know and love have sent various words of wisdom, comfort and encouragement in one form or another...at one point. You are blessed with more than a beautiful family - that's for sure.
Also wanted to let you know that some friends of ours (Ron & Nancy Corazzi) are having a bday party for their one-yr old twins, Daniel & Amy. We got a cute little invitation in the mail. These dear friends included a card in the invitation that reads...
"We have a very little special friend, Kevin McLane, who was born on November 11, 2003 with very serious health problems. In lieu of gifts, (because we are so blessed), we'd like you to consider bringing a donation for the Ronald McDonald House, which has been very important in providing a place for Kevin's parents to stay when he has been in the hospital. If you'd like to find out more about Kevin, please visit his website, www.caringbridge...etc..." Cool, huh.
I know Kevin is on the Prayer list at our church. His name is read out-loud at every service. I'm positive that he is on countless other prayer lists as well. So, because communication diminishes on this site as time goes by, BY NO MEANS means that our thoughts and prayers diminish IN THE LEAST. (boy, my grammar sucks w/ that sentence...but you get the jist) Cheers to you all!
tim
- Friday, June 4, 2004 10:14 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
So sorry to hear that Gracie has been home for a couple of days. It sounds like alot of work. It's funny your sense of humor Karen. Sell Grace on e-bay. That is the funniest thing. Keep up the good work and sense of humor. God IS watching over you.
Love, Aunt Cathy - (Sell Grace on e-bay - HA HA HA HA HA)
Cathy Bastian <Crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Friday, May 28, 2004 12:34 AM CDT
Hi Karen, I'm glad to see that the baby is home and feeling better, congratulations, I hope he gets better every day, all my prayers for you, the baby and your family, regards, Susana
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Monday, May 24, 2004 4:18 PM CDT
Karen,
You are doing an awe inspiring job of displaying your love for your son every day! I am inspired by your strength in the most difficult situation. Has a child ever been loved more? I don't think so. Your heart is pure. Keep up the good work.
Donna Como-Roeder <DonnaComo@cs.com>
Pasadena, MD USA - Wednesday, May 19, 2004 10:03 AM CDT
Chris & Karen, I think of you guys often. I'm so happy for you that your son is finally home and your family can be together! Thoughts and prayers are always with you! Love, Al
Alison Clark <ahc123@comcast.net>
Crofton, MD - Tuesday, May 18, 2004 8:22 PM CDT
Dear Karen,
Just got finished checking the web site. Can't believe that it has been a month since I last wrote. Katie hogs the computer so I was glad to see she keeps up with it. I was thrilled when I read that Kevin was at 10 lbs., "Great Job Kevin". This just shows that you were right Karen. Kevin being home is the right place for him, "Great Job Karen". Before I sign off - GIVE THEM HECK KAREN!
All my love, Aunt Cathy
Cathy Bastian <Crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 18, 2004 9:08 AM CDT
I am glad to hear that Kevin is not getting sick as much. Good luck with everything and God Bless, you, Chris, gracie and Kevin.
Anneliese <rynemom@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD 21703 - Friday, May 14, 2004 10:34 AM CDT
i cant even put into words what im feeling for you all...but TIM said it nicely!....GOD BLESS!!!!
Connie Roach and family <vampires76@hotmail.com>
Ridgeley, WV USA - Tuesday, May 11, 2004 9:02 PM CDT
HI Karen, had a quick minute to check the site. Glad to see that my buddy is doing well despite the few scares. Remember to tell him that as much as I miss seeing you guys that I really don't want you back :) Tell Chris Hello and keep up the good work. Oh, Happy Mothers Day to the Mom of the Year.
Officer Dee <neisha74@msn.com>
- Monday, May 10, 2004 10:02 AM CDT
Hi Karen, Just a few minutes late - I wasn't going to bed without saying, "Happy Mothers Day! I hope you had a nice one.
Sandy Dindlebeck <dindlebeck@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Sunday, May 9, 2004 10:56 PM CDT
We all marvel (and wonder) about how you do it all.
We all think, "man, i can't imagine...".
We all cry when you cry without totally comprehending.
We all pray.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY KAREN!
Love --- Tim
- Sunday, May 9, 2004 10:14 PM CDT
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY KAREN!!! i hope you have a great day because you deserve it for being such a great mom! im glad everything is going well! chris karen gracie and kevin--I LOVE YOU! oh and when are the new pictures going to be up? cant wait! HAVE A GREAT DAY! All My Love.
Katie Bastian <imsosexi022@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Sunday, May 9, 2004 11:05 AM CDT
Karen, I am so glad that Kevin is doing well. I have been checking me e-mail everyday for pictures to see if there was anything there. The web site is great and of course I cried. Keep up the good work and keep me informed of any and all changes. Kiss Kevin and tell Chris to hurry up and install those outlets in his room :). I hope that the family is all doing well and as usual we all are praying for you.
Officer Dee Jefferson <neisha74@msn.com>
baltimore, md - Friday, May 7, 2004 1:51 PM CDT
KAREN, CHRIS, PRINCESS GRACIE AND THE O SO PRECIOUS KEVIN,
So glad he is still doing well!!! I have a girlfriend in PA and I was telling her about Kevin, (she remembers your mom and dad from Pete's graduation party) and she is checking on him as well. Dear baby Kevin has a lot of prayers coming his way. As always you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cuz Annie
Ann Coffman <acoffman@fuse.net>
Ft MItchell, KY USA - Wednesday, May 5, 2004 4:42 PM CDT
I have not gotten to check the site in the last few days, but, I am so glad that I checked it today. Our thoughts are with all of you on having him home. Your family is all together in his new home at last. WONDERFUL!!!! Once things have settled down, please e-mail us and we will visit at the appropriate time - not when you need to tend to his needs.
Jan & Donna <Jandonna@aol.com>
Rockville, MA - Friday, April 30, 2004 4:02 PM CDT
THANK GOD you all have good news.....GOD BLESS YOU and i hope everything goes ok for you....
Connie Roach and family <vampires76@hotmail.com>
Ridgeley, WV USA - Friday, April 30, 2004 12:01 AM CDT
KAREN, CHRIS, GRACIE AND SWEET BABY KEVIN,
SOOOO HAPPY YOU GUYS ARE HOME!!! MY GIRLS WANT YOU TO GIVE HIM LOTS OF KISSES FROM THEM!!! EVERY TIME MY KIDS SEE ME ON THE COMPUTER THEY ALL WANT TO KNOW HOW HE IS DOING. EVEN MY CO-WORKERS ASK WHEN THEY SEE ME CHECKING IT OUT AT WORK. HE HAS TOUCHED A LOT OF PEOPLES HEARTS!!! THEY KEEP ASKING IF THERE ARE ANY NEW PICTURES. YOU GUYS ARE ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.
CUZ ANNIE
ANN COFFMAN <ACOFFMAN@FUSE.NET>
FT MITCHELL, KY USA - Wednesday, April 28, 2004 3:12 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris- I try not to, but I fight tears when I read your updates. I am not sure if I should write this to you, but I can't help the tears because I care. I am grateful for the updates, because I want to know how Kevin and you are doing. Kevin is very precious and beautiful, and you are right to treasure every day that you have with him. He is a gift from God, and God's plans for him may not be what your plans for him are. Please continue to trust in God and treasure the time that you have with Kevin. Please give Kevin a little hug from me. You both are just wonderful.
Sherri Strach
Frederick, MD - Wednesday, April 28, 2004 1:01 PM CDT
Karen,
today's entry gives us all something to be happy about. That is great news. Nice you can finally be a family together. Prayers and thoughts always with you.
Love,
Patty
patty mclane <patricia.o.mclane@verizon.com>
dunkirk, md - Wednesday, April 28, 2004 12:42 AM CDT
Dear Karen and Chis know that Kevin has not only touch your lives but has touched many. He has been an inspiration to me. As you both have too. I don't take life for granted and see more beauty day to day. Thank you all for this. Kevin may have a short live but he has already done much.
lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@niad.nih.gov>
stafford, Va - Tuesday, April 27, 2004 5:15 AM CDT
Karen, I pray everything turns out gracefully, Angels are there at all times, and I will say a rosary for your child.
Roger
Roger VEga <rvega@niaid.nih.gov>
Rockville, Md 20852 - Friday, April 23, 2004 12:29 AM CDT
Hey Baby Kevin...sending you high fives and hugs!! LOVE U ALL
Ryan Savage <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Thursday, April 22, 2004 11:25 PM CDT
Hi Karen, I see that the baby is a little better, I hope he continues to feel better, congratulations for you and your husband for being such good parents, God bless you all and I really hope the baby feels better every day, my prayers are with all of you, regards, Susana
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Tuesday, April 20, 2004 2:41 PM CDT
Dear Chis and Karen, how very sad to read the lastest news. I can't tell you how sorry I am. I wish I had the words but I don't. I don't know how you will get thru this but I know you must so you will.
All my love.
lesley
Lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@pop.niaid.nih.gov>
Stafford, Va - Monday, April 19, 2004 5:57 AM CDT
i have read all your journal entrys and kept up daily and i have thought about you and your family, but i have to say the April 16th entry broke my heart i cryed when i read it and i am so sorry i wish there was something i could do for that lil angel....i will keep praying for you all.....GOD BLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Connie Roach and family <vampires76@hotmail.com>
Ridgeley, WV USA - Saturday, April 17, 2004 10:34 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen,
I just got finished reading the updates. So sorry to read that my nephew is back at JHU. Kevin, what are you up to? You gave Aunt Cathy a scare just reading the updates. If your mommy and daddy have to deal with idiots like that again... Dear Lord, please let Karen give it to them the next time. I pray every night for Chris and Karen to have strength to get through another day and for Kevin to get better.
All my love, Cathy
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <Crabapple 111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Thursday, April 15, 2004 6:23 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris
We felt sad to hear about Kevin but your love, dedication and strength is a gift of love for all human kind. Our prayers are with you. God bless you.
Tekli & Azeb
Tekli & Azeb <tsemere@cox.net>
Vienna, VA USA - Wednesday, April 14, 2004 9:40 PM CDT
Dear Karen & Chris,
Yes, Payers are answered. Sometimes not to our liking but they are all answered. I thank God that you got to bring Kevin home . I bet Gracie was as excited as you. I am sure Kevin will again show the Dr.'s just how strong he is and get home fast.Can't believe you haven't heard from the other hospitals. I will pray hard on that. You and Chris are doing a great job. God just keeps filling you with His strength.Remember God loves Kevin very much, and He loves Karen, Chris and Gracie very much too.
so do we,
God Bless,
Anita and Frank
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 9:20 PM CDT
Dear Karen & Chris,
We are so sorry to hear that Kevin is back in the hospital. He is always in our prayers. We hope he comes home very soon. You guys are so great!
Love,
Don,Jeannie,Amber,& Donnie Atkinson
Jeannie Atkinson <Datkinso@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 8:11 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris,
I am sorry to hear that Kevin is back in the hospital but glad to know that he is feeling better. Please know that he is always in my prayers and I am headed straight to church tonight to say a special prayer for him.
Trust your instincts as you have always done. No one knows what he needs better than his parents who adore him.
Love,
Pritee
Pritee <pagarwal@mail.nih.gov>
- Tuesday, April 13, 2004 2:42 PM CDT
CHRIS AND KAREN
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND BABY KEVIN
TONYA HANDLEY <TONYAHANDLEYANDMATT@MSN.COM>
MILLERSVILLE, MD AA - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 1:50 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris, I was so happy that you had him home for Easter. And I hope hope hope that he will again be home soon. But no matter where he is, he always has your loving arms and kisses on him right? Can you try to fit in a few for me?
Love to all
Lesley Pesnicak
lesley Pesnicak <lpesnical@pop.niaid.nih.gov>
- Tuesday, April 13, 2004 5:40 AM CDT
Karen and Family,
I heard about Kevin and your family from a mom in my multiples group. I have been following your updates daily. I marvel at your strength and that of your family. You, Chris, Gracie and little Kevin are in my thoughts, prayers and mostly my heart.
Cori Major <corilyn73@msn.com>
Baltimore, MD usa - Monday, April 12, 2004 8:47 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Chris-
I am sorry to hear about Kevin's latest set-back and pray that he will continue to improve so that he can come home to his true home with you all....and all those loving arms to surround him. I'm thankful that he has a mother and father who care so deeply for him and want his life to be as full as it possibly can be. We will be praying for complete healing, but in the meantime, that he can become stable enough to come home again. Wanted to ask you if they ever put him under "bili-lights" to help break down some of the excess bili-rubin in his system - just like they do for premies. Don't know whether they routinely do that in cases like his, but I had to ask. Keep up the good work and yes, Easter is a time of BIG miracles, but Kevin is a miracle each day of his little life!
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
LI/NIAID, - Monday, April 12, 2004 8:41 PM CDT
Dear Chris and Karen,
HAPPY EASTER! CONGRATULATIONS!
Thank you Lord, for you have answered their prayers. Having KEVIN CHRISTOPHER home is truly a wonderful thing.
Easter IS a time for miracles. I pray that Kevin thrives at home under Your watchful eye. Much Love.
Cathy - Sister and Aunt
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <Crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Monday, April 12, 2004 4:48 PM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with Kevin and your family...
Diane Pearson <Tay0530@aol.com>
Millersville, Md USA - Monday, April 12, 2004 3:30 PM CDT
Karen,
Well no wonder you didn't call me back on Friday! Congratulations on finally getting to bring Kevin home. So, when can we come see him? I'm sure he's been busy with lots of visitors. I'll give you a call later so that we can set up a day to come see him soon!!! Give my love to Gracie and Chris.
Kristina Hawse <winknkris@earthlink.net>
Frederick, MD USA - Monday, April 12, 2004 3:12 PM CDT
Congrats and Happy Easter again. That is wonderful news. I am very happy for you and your family. Let me know if you need anything. Congrats and stay strong.
Anneliese Baker <rynemom@netzero.com>
Frederick, MD 21703 - Monday, April 12, 2004 10:20 AM CDT
Karen, Chris, Gracie and Precious Kevin,
I have been checking on him daily and was so excited for you that he is home. As always, you guys (and all your family) are not far from my thoughts and prayers.
All My Love, Annie
Ann Coffman <acoffman@fuse.net>
Ft. Mitchell , KY - Monday, April 12, 2004 5:12 AM CDT
CONGRATULATIONS!! HAPPY EASTER!! WE ARE ALL SOOO EXCITED FOR YOU ALL!! WE LOVE YOU ALL VERY MUCH AND WISH WE COULD BE THERE WITH YOU ALL!! WOW...YIPPY! GIVE HIM LOTS OF KISSES AND HUGS FROM EVERYONE! HAPPY EASTER KEVIN & GRACIE!
SENDING LOVE AS ALWAYS!
AUNT MARY, LAURA JASON AND RYAN SAVAGE <LS2312@YAHOO.COM>
FROSTBURG, MD USA - Sunday, April 11, 2004 11:26 PM CDT
Oh Karen, I am so happy to read this last entry. My heart goes out to you and Chris. I really hope that Kevin is home with all of you soon. It sounds promissing from what the social worker told you. Hope you have him home for Easter. Wouldn't that be the best thing ever. Hope you can feel the big hug I am sending you and share it with Chris and Gracie. Love all of you.
Jan & Donna <Jandonna@aol.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Wednesday, April 7, 2004 2:52 PM CDT
Dear Karen and Family, I work with Kevin's Auntie Cathy, she has been telling me about the pain and heartache you are all going through. I will be regularly watching your web page. All my prayers go out to you all at your time of need and I pray that Kevin will soon be home to give you all the love and joy you deserve from him. Stay strong and much love to you all!!!
Lisa
Lisa Sidgwick <Lisasidgwick@aol.com>
Odenton, MD USA - Wednesday, April 7, 2004 9:30 AM CDT
Hi kiddo,
I just wanted to let you know that Donna and I check the website every other day to see how things are going. Can't wait until both of you are home and you can have company. We want to hold this little guy and give Gracie hugs too. We have put Kevin on the prayer list at Good Shepherd and know that God is watching over him. So glad to hear that he is eating better. From your entries, I can hear your thoughts are perking up and it won't be long until he is home and in a family environment.
Jan Ludwig & Donna Stoudt <Jandonna@aol.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, April 6, 2004 10:23 AM CDT
Karen & Family,
A mom in my multiples group (Nancy) told us about your family and asked that we keep you in our prayers. Although I don't know you, I feel that I do from your writings. You have touched my heart. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you, Chris, Gracie & Kevin at this most difficult time. May the good days far outnumber the bad.
Cindy Myles Rhodes <cmyles15@comcast.net>
Columbia, MD USA - Friday, April 2, 2004 6:43 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris
I do not know you but I do know your mother, Anne. She just told me about your beautiful Kevin. I am so sorry you have to endure something like this, but I do know there is a God and I am sure he is watching over Kevin and giving you both the strength to do what you are doing. I am sure Kevin can feel the love and warmth of you both.
Please know I will keep you in my prayers. I don't know this child, but he has definitely warmed my heart - he is beautiful
Bonnie McMahon <bmcmahon@phillips.com>
Laurel, md PG - Friday, April 2, 2004 12:03 AM CST
Karen (and family)
A quick note to let you know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Ruth
Ruth Poulin <rpoulin@nih.gov>
Kensington, MD - Thursday, April 1, 2004 12:06 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris-
Words can not express the sadness I feel for you. You have and continue to be wonderful parents for little Kevin. None of us know how long we will have our children - there are no guarantees. But we just take each day and make the most of it. I'm glad that you are Kevin's parents. He needed you....and God knew exactly where he needed to be and loved for his short life. Continue to be pro-active with your son as far as the medical treatment; as one who has dealt with a hospice situation, it is amazing to me what some people consider not to do for someone in this situation. Others may give up but you continue to be his best advocate. You have shown remarkable courage and strength Yesterday someone sent me this poem - which are the lyrics to a song. they encouraged me and I hope that they wil encourage you this day - Lisa Boyd - LI
God is God
by Steven Curtis Chapman
”2001
And the pain falls like a curtain on the things I once called certain
And I have to say the words I fear the most: I just don’t know
And the questions without answers come and paralyze the dancer.
So I stand here on the stage afraid to move -- Afraid to fall.
Oh, but fall I must, on this truth that my life has been formed from the dust
God is God -- And I am not
I can only see a part of the picture He’s painting
God is God -- And I am man
So I’ll never understand it all -- For only God is God
And the sky begins to thunder and I’m filled with awe and wonder
‘Til the only burning question that remains is: Who am I?
Can I form a single mountain? Take the stars and count them?
Can I even take a breath without God giving it to me?
He is first and last; before all that has been; beyond all that will pass
Oh, how great are the riches of His wisdom and knowledge –
How unsearchable . . .
For to Him and through Him and from Him are all things
So let us worship before the throne of the One who is worthy of worship alone
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH/LI, - Wednesday, March 31, 2004 7:58 AM CST
Karen and Chris, I'm so sorry this is happening. I can't imagine what this must be like for you. hold on. Hold on tight to all you've got. My love and sorrow are with you both.
Lesley Pesnicak <lpesnicak@pop.niaid.hih.gov>
Stafford, Va Stafford - Wednesday, March 31, 2004 4:38 AM CST
Karen & Chris,
I could hardly believe the bad news. I can't even imagine what you are feeling. My heart was broken when I read the news from Friday. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We'll keep watching hopefully for good news on the second & third opinions.
Love and prayers,
Cecelia
Cecelia Seese <rseese07@charter.net>
Johnstown, PA USA - Tuesday, March 30, 2004 2:45 PM CST
Karen and Chris, Thank you for allowing us to spend time with Kevin on Sunday. Having him fall asleep in my arms felt so good. He has touched our lives forever. He is a remarkable and beautiful child.
Patty <patricia.o.mclane@verizon.com>
dunkirk, md usa - Tuesday, March 30, 2004 8:05 AM CST
Karen, Chris, and Gracie,
I can hardly see what I'm typing, just know that you and your family are in my heart and prayers. You truly have 2 beautiful children. I can't imagine the pain you must be going through. I hope all your wishes come true and that Kevin can come home to a loving family soon. Take care of yourself and each other. I'm praying for your family, and with God's love you can get through this. Never give up!!
Enjoy the time you have with your precious son.
Teresa MacDonald
Gambrills, MD - Monday, March 29, 2004 3:11 PM CST
My dear Chris, Karen and entire family:
My heart aches for all of you. We know that only God knows the whole picture, but we wonder why these things happen and our questions remain unanswered. What a handsome baby Kevin is and what a blessing he must be to you all. Enjoy every precious moment with him. We will pray for all of you.
Dwight & Cheryl Atkinson <cheryltatkinson@msn.com>
Stevensville, MD USA - Monday, March 29, 2004 2:47 PM CST
I've been kept up to speed through Janene, Nan, and Grandma for the past few months. I just wanted to let you guys know that we are always thinking of you and Kevin is in our prayers. Janene and I plan on making time in the next week to bring dinner out and visit with you. Hang in there and let us know if we can help with anything in the meantime. We will be in touch. take care, love, Matt
Matt Brenner <matt.brenner@sourcefire.com>
annapolis, md usa - Monday, March 29, 2004 11:51 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris and Gracie,
We are so saddened to hear the news about Kevin. We have all been praying so hard. God must have a really big plan for him. I can not beleive how strong the two of you are, you both are amazing people. We would like to come visit Kevin this week or next and bring you all dinner, I will coordinate with Aunt Raine. We love you all and know we are thinking of you all the time. It breaks my heart to hear this news. I will keep praying for Kevin and I can't wait to meet him.
Love, Janene, Matt, Macey and Caroline
Janene Brenner <beanbrenner@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 28, 2004 7:44 PM CST
I am Nancy Corrazi's mom - Nancy and Ron are good friends of Tim and Patty's. Kevin (and all of you) have been in my prayers since Nancy first told me about this difficult cross you have to bear. He (and you) are also in the prayer chain of my church, St. Joseph's in Beltsville. Kevin really must be VERY special for God to want him back in heaven with him so soon. Just think- for the rest of your lives you'll have your own personal little saint to watch over you all! And close to God he will be.
Ginger Hand <Ginger4700@aol.com>
Beltsville, MD USA - Sunday, March 28, 2004 5:28 PM CST
All my love goes out to you all. I am so heart-broken to hear that the news isn't good. Kevin and all of you have been through so much. I and my husband would love to come meet Kevin once he's home. He's had such an impact on our lives and the way we live them. Each moment is so precious, and I'm really trying to make an effort to remember that as I deal with my 4 children and their antics. Kevin will always be our special boy (he was born on the 11th just like my twins, although they were born in June). So please know that our prayers are being said over and over for you, that you endure and love each other throughout this. You are truly blessed to have such an incredible little boy.
Nancy Corazzi <nancy.corazzi@verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Saturday, March 27, 2004 8:00 PM CST
Dear Karen and Chris, well, i want to write something but it's so hard to put it down in words. I feel so bad that your beautiful little boy has to go through all of this pain. I pray that soon enough he'll be able to go home and spend the rest of his time with his family and those who love him. I pray that the angels will watch over him. He will always hold a special part of everyones heart. Our family will always keep you in our prayers. Love Always
Melissa Zinkgraf <RhinosRCool@comcast.net>
Bowie, MD USA - Saturday, March 27, 2004 10:15 AM CST
Chris, Karen, Gracie and Kevin,
I'm so sorry about the bad news. I don't think anyone was expecting this. I know I wasn't. However, I can't wait to see Kevin for the first time. It should be quite an experience. He's such a strong lil guy for taking everything that was thrown at him. But I guess the best thing to do now is treat every day that he's here like it's his last. His life is made up of years that mean nothing, and moments that mean it all. So I'm sure that every second he's with people that love him is what really counts. I'll be sure to keep him in my prayers no matter what happens. I love you all! StAy StRoNg!!!
*My escape from life is in your arms, where I'm safe, secure, and happy*
*I'm trying really hard not to cry over you, because every tear is just one more reminder that I dont know how to let you go.*
ALL MY LOVE,
*Katie Bastian*
Katie Bastian (niece, cousin) <imsosexi022@aol.com>
Bowie, MD United States - Saturday, March 27, 2004 10:12 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
It is through blurry eyes that I write this. My heart is in pain. No words can describe this. I pray that God will help you through this time of sorrow. May the Lord watch over you and KEVIN CHRISTOPHER McLANE. May Kevin come home soon so Gracie can spend time with her brother.
From a broken heart,
All my love, Cathy
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <crapapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Saturday, March 27, 2004 8:30 AM CST
IT is absolutely wonderful how strong you are as parents..i have four children and i feel for you both..I think you are the strongest people i have ever seen...please give that little angel a kiss and hug from me please!! I am praying for you and your family! hope all goes well! GOD BLESS
Connie Roach and family <vampires76@hotmail.com>
Ridgeley, WV USA - Friday, March 26, 2004 10:09 PM CST
Karen, I am so amazed by your strength throughout this entire ordeal. I know that you would not have it without Chris, Gracie, all of your family, friends, and God. It all seems so cruel and heartless that Kevin must endure so much, but there has got to be a "greater plan" at work. I cry when I think what he is going through, and pray so strongly that he gets better and can come home and have a long life knowing how much everyone has loved him from the second he was born. God Bless all of you. All my love~
Nancy Corazzi <nancy.corazzi@verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD USA - Friday, March 26, 2004 2:55 PM CST
Karen, This is your great cousin, Susanne Vermillion your mom's cousin, aunt Lorraine's doughter.(does that help?) I remember you on the beach at Ocan City about 21 years ago. I remember how beautiful you were and I can see you have passed that on to Keven. On behalf of myself, Aunt Lorranine, Uncle Vincent, all of you mom's cousins Linda, Ron, Joe, Mike, my daughter Shelley (who was about 15 months old when I saw you last in OC) and all of their families we want you to know we follow your journal entries to keep up with Keven...we also want you to know how amazing you and Chris are. We are praying for Keven to come home soon and for you and Chris to continue to endure. I hope the next time I get to VA I can come by for a visit to meet you all.
All of our love and prayers, Susanne and the Vermillion's
Susanne Vermillion <susannev@techforce.net>
Marietta, GA Cobb - Friday, March 26, 2004 8:37 AM CST
Karen, I'm sorry that the baby is not doing well, I read all what happened, I hope he gets better, my regards and prayers for you, your husband and the baby, God bless him!
Susana
Susana Florez <susana@privatecause.org>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Thursday, March 25, 2004 9:15 AM CST
Chris & Karen, my thoughts are with you. You two have got to be the strongest people I know! Happy b-day Chris! Love, Alison
Alison Clark <aclark@cbiz.com>
Crofton, - Wednesday, March 24, 2004 8:43 AM CST
Happy Birthday Chris..Karen..You have been so strong during all this and I admire that! Keep us posted..Kevin...we send love and prayers as always and lots of kisses too! Wishing nothing but the best for tomorrow. Angels are all around you baby!! Love Always! Miss Gracie..sending you a big bear hug from Ryan! XOXOXO to all!
Aunt Mary, Laura Jason & Ryan Savage <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 9:41 PM CST
Dear Chris,
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY' Love, Cathy
Dear Chris and Karen,
God bless you both. Karen, you have had to deal with some really stupid people at the hospital. It is your strength and determination that I think is super. You go girl.
Dear Kevin Christopher McLane,
God has been with you the whole time. He will be with you tomorrow. Your mommy is doing a "GREAT JOB" in protecting you.
Please Lord help Kevin.
Love, Cathy
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 5:33 PM CST
I am lost for words. Because I am not a mother, I can only imagine and not know what you are both going through at this point. Know that it is in the Hands of the Lord.
Natalie and Mike
Maryland and Trinidad & Tobago, - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 9:25 AM CST
I, like many of us here in LI, first thing every morning, check to see how you and Kevin are doing. We are
all with you. xo
Shirley Starnes <sstarnes@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Tuesday, March 23, 2004 8:07 AM CST
Dear Karen-
YOur words touched my heart tonight as I read about Kevin's next hurdle. I pray the best outcome for you all, but I wanted you to know that no life is in vain. Kevin's sweet smile has truly touched my heart and my life. His struggles - although seem mounumental to us, are really normal life to him. He is sooooo thrilled to see you each day. You are his special Mommy who loves him so very much....and he knows it. God does have little Kevin in the palm of his hand, and although we would think we are the best to hold out babies, who best but our Lord who created them for us. We can never know truly the extent of the ripple of a life through out this world. Kevin is a special litle guy, and I pray that the ripple he is already creating will continue to grow as he is growing - although very slowly. We are praying for you all. Keep us posted....I love to hear about this precious little boy. What a wonderful gift he is!! Lisa Boyd
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
LI/NIH, - Monday, March 22, 2004 8:26 PM CST
he is soooo cute . i wish you luck and my prays are with you and your family.
judy clutter <mamaduck80@hotmail.com>
middletown, md - Monday, March 22, 2004 5:40 PM CST
Deear Karen and Chris,
I feel I already know you and Kevin through my dear friend, Judy Hanger. Please know my husband and I will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. Kevin is quite a fighter and with God's help he will pull through. God Bless You.
Ronnye Gutierrez <Bilrongee@aol.com>
Rockville, MD US - Monday, March 22, 2004 7:41 AM CST
Hi Karen and Chis: First time writing in this, you know I am not good with words! I just wanted to tell you, Chris, Gracie, and Kevin that you are in my thoughts "every day" and that I am praying for you!!! I have not talked to you at all, but you know I am here for you if you need anything!!! Hope to see you soon!!! Really do miss you!!!! I have some gifts for the kids, so I want to drop them off at your house. Effie
Effie Hall <ehall@niaid.nih.gov>
Middletown, MD USA - Monday, March 22, 2004 6:44 AM CST
Dear Karen,
This prayer is for you.
Dear Lord, please comfort, guide and protect her. Please take away any pain or discomfort she might have. Please dry her tears. Please watch over her while she travels to take care of Kevin. Please give her strength everyday. Thank you.
All my LOVE, Cathy: sister and aunt.
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <www.crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Sunday, March 21, 2004 5:52 AM CST
The baby looks so cute and beautiful, God bless him, I hope he gets better, my prayers are with you Karen and your family
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Friday, March 19, 2004 2:04 PM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
Please tell Kevin that Aunt Cathy said "Happy St. Patrick's Day" also a belated "Happy Valentine's Day". My heart aches for Kevin. What an amazing baby he is to put up with everything that has been dealt him. Chris and Karen your strength through this is the work of God.
Dear Lord, continue your love for this family. Please help Chris and Karen in their fight for their baby. Please give Kevin Christopher McLane the strength he needs. Please let Kevin get better so he can play with his sister Grace.
Thank You.
I am going to Double Time it with all the prayers I can. Dear God please let it work.
All My Love, Cathy: Sister and Aunt
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <www.crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Friday, March 19, 2004 1:31 PM CST
My love and prayers are with you each second of the day.
Patty <patricia.o.mclane@verizon.com>
dunkirk, md - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 9:28 PM CST
Karen & Chris -- I'm blown away by your strength, courage and endurance. I'm blown away by the vast number of people that are truly praying for your son day-in and day-out. I'm blown away by your commitment and your absolute, unconditional love to Kevin. God has blessed your son (whether you see that now or not) by delivering him to you two. HE moves in mysterious ways.
Your loving brother (in-law) - Tim
- Saturday, March 13, 2004 11:56 PM CST
Chris & Karen, We think about Kevin & your family often, wishing nothing but the best for you all. Sending all of our love and prayers!
Sara, Garth, Sydney, & Geoffrey Glotfelty <garth@tje1.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Friday, March 12, 2004 10:03 AM CST
Dear Karen, I know you are anxious to get Kevin home, but just remember that there is a God who is in control of all of this and He has Kevin exactly where he needs to be. thnking and praying for you all. You truly are a blessing to this child - you are a GREAT mom at a difficult time. We will pray that the hole in his heart repairs itself! Lisa
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, - Friday, March 12, 2004 8:08 AM CST
Karen, if you ever need to stay for Kevin call me at work and I will go get Gracie from Nina! My number is 240-777-3845 it is never a problem and I know she loves chicken with Italian dressing! Lots of love and prayers Judy
Judy Hanger <Judy.Hanger@montgomerycountymd.gov>
Rockville, MD US - Tuesday, March 9, 2004 6:17 AM CST
Karen you and your family are never far from my thougths. Every day I read how Kenvin is. I look forward to the day when I can come in your office and see pictures of Grace and Kenvin playing and laughing and the only promblem is that your office is too small to hang all the pictures!
lesley Pesnicak <Lpesnicak@pop.niaid.hih.gov>
- Tuesday, March 9, 2004 5:50 AM CST
keep up the good work baby...soon enough you will be home with your mommie and daddy and your big sister.....as always we all send lots of kisses down to you since we can't be closer....xoxoxox...i stuck ina few hugs from Ryan...we love you all and hope things stay in the right direction....lots of love and prayers as always...
Aunt Mary, Laura, Jason, and Ryan Savage. <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 9:14 PM CST
Hi Karen,
You guys are doing an amazing job as parents and advocates for Kevin. You and Kevin are often in my thoughts and prayers.
Hoping that Kevin comes home soon. I am looking forward to the time when I can take him off the "favorites" list on my web browser! Looking for calmer times ahead.
Calman Prussin <calman@nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 12:16 AM CST
Hey Little Buddy - I was hoping your twin cousins birthday would be a lucky day for you and you'd come home. I guess this means no birthday cupcake for you. Easter will be here soon and we'd love for you to be home. Feel better soon so you can come home. I love you! Aunt Theresa
Theresa Broad Hale <trbhale@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD Frederick - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 1:33 AM CST
Hello Karen, I saw the photographs, I hope the baby gets better soon, my prayers are with you and your family, regards, Susana
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Monday, March 1, 2004 12:20 AM CST
Great news on the weight gain - will continue to pray! Wow - 9 pounds!
Also if you even need a great after hours vet, try Pender Vet Clinic near Fair Oaks Mall (703-591-3304). they also do exotics and have someone on call 24hrs a day. Get some nice music for those long drives or some audio books. It will make the drive much more enjoyable.
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
NIH, - Monday, March 1, 2004 6:18 AM CST
Thinking of you.
Shirley Starnes
NIH, Bethesda, MD USA - Friday, February 27, 2004 7:49 AM CST
Keep on taking it one day at a time, like you said, and we will keep on praying for all of you. You guys are really amazing and showing a lot of strength through all of this. Let us know if there is anything we can help with back in Rockville.
Sharon, Anthony & Isabel <sharons@mafcu.org>
rockville, md usa - Thursday, February 26, 2004 10:18 AM CST
Hang in there Chris and Karen..Mom and Laura keeps us posted. We love you all and you will remain on our hearts and prayers as always.
BRENT & TRISH POWERS <ls2312@yahoo.com>
FROSTBURG, MD USA - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 10:04 PM CST
we all just want to send our prayers and best wishes for you and your family! We are friends of Laura and Aunt Mary...and we pray everything goes good for Kevin...in our thoughts and prayers..xoxoxoxoxoxo may the lord watch over you ALL!!!
Connie Roach and family <vampires76@hotmail.com>
Ridgeley, WV USA - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 9:57 PM CST
Karen, Chris, Gracie, & Kevin.....We send nothing but the best wishes and warmest hugs to baby Kevin. xoxoxox......we pray for you all and especially Kevin. Kiss him for us and give gracie a bug bear hug from Ryan!
Love you all, lots & lots!!
Aunt Mary Powers, Laura, Jason, & Ryan Savage <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 9:52 PM CST
Dear Karen-
My heart is aching for you and all that you have been through. We all take for granted the everyday things we are able to do and accomplish sometimes. I am praying for you and for little Kevin. A friend of mine reminded me that God never gives us more than we and He can handle together. I pray that as your strength wanes - as I know it must at times, that you will take a moment to turn for to Him for that extra measure of strength to see you through that moment. And don't forget, every moment of this ordeal will be used somewhere in this life, maybe as an encouragement for others, or who knows what. I marvel at your passion for your son and for every detail that helps his life to be better and comfortable - no matter what the stage and state. I pray that your whole family will soon be able to welcome Kevin to his home and surround him with the special love you have for him - that love shines through all your notes.....we will keep praying. Lisa Boyd, LI/NIH
Lisa Boyd <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
Oak Hill, VA USA - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 9:10 PM CST
Just read the update and I have eaten a box of chocolates to help Kevin gain the weight he needs. Well it sounded good when I was deciding to eat them or not. If I could box up my extra fat I would express it to you. Take care and give lots of love.
Michelle and Mike Vermillion <michelle.vermillion@alps.com>
Marietta, GA US - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 2:23 PM CST
Dear Mommy, Daddy and Baby Kevin,
I miss you, but Gan and Pop are taking good care of me. They treat me like the princess that I am. I am teaching them about circles, squares and triangles. Gan is getting pretty good with making Tubby Toast - the Teletubbies would be proud of her. Gan is teaching me Spanish and a lot of other goofy phrases - like Phooey ackey sacky - actually Grandma taught me that one. I am happy that I will get to see my mommy and daddy today. Aunt Linda and Denee are also coming to see me. We are going shopping now - this is what girls do best - I'm in training.
Love, Gracie.
PS Gan typed this because she won't let me CCCCWEREHGHTGTTHHHGG - OK she let me type a little.
Gan and Grace <rbroad6@email.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Saturday, February 21, 2004 7:28 AM CST
Hi Karen:
I had a new phone book for the NIH that was in the office and looked your number up. When I phoned the office, I was informed that you had been out since November and was given the web site.
Just wanted to let you know that I'm praying for you, Chris and Baby Kevin.
Take care of yourself!
Janice E. Kelsh, Personnel Security Specialist
Office of Security Operations,
Policy and Planning
Personnel Security Branch
Parklawn Building
5600 Fishers Lane, Room 15A22
HFA 604, Rockville, MD 20857
Phone: 301-827-8072
Email: jkelsh@oc.fda.gov
Janice E. Kelsh <jkelsh@oc.fda.gov>
Rockville, MD USA - Thursday, February 19, 2004 8:01 AM CST
Your stamina is overwhelming. As a prior hospital employee, I can sympathize with you as to the waiting period. It sounds like things are getting done and I look forward to reading that he is getting the necessary testing and procedures that he will need in order to get him home and that close feeling of a secure environment. Hope all goes well and our prayers are with you and your family.
Jan & Donna <Jandonna@aol.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, February 17, 2004 10:22 AM CST
Happy Valentines Day Kevin. We love you. Big kisses from all.
Love,
Patty, Tim, Lillian and Eliza
patty mclane <patricia.o.mclane@verizon.com>
dunkirk, md - Saturday, February 14, 2004 11:19 AM CST
Karen and Chris,
I don't know where to start except to say that I am so proud of you both. I'm amazed at your strength. How does that saying go? God does not give you more than you can handle. If he brings you to it, he will walk you through it.
My prayers and thoughts and all my love are you with you.
Love,
Pritee
Pritee Agarwal <pritee@nih.gov>
Germantown, MD 20874 - Friday, February 13, 2004 9:58 AM CST
Karen and Chris,
That little son of yours sure is a fighter. He's hanging tight. It's a hard road you guys are traveling but hang in there with him and put your trust in the Lord. Just look how he has improved.
Hi to Gracie!
Love Anita and Frank
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh Summit - Thursday, February 12, 2004 7:14 PM CST
All of you are in our prayers. Give him lots of kisses from Atlanta.
Mike and Michelle Vermillion <michelle.vermillion@alps.com>
Marietta, GA US - Wednesday, February 11, 2004 11:06 AM CST
What a little trooper Kevin is. He couldn't have better parents to be there for him. I admire your strength & faith and pray Kevin has a full recovery. Thoughts & prayers for your family.
Cindy Dyer <CMDyer2@aol.com>
Glen Burnie, MD US - Friday, February 6, 2004 3:50 PM CST
Karen, I hope the baby will be better soon and that you and your husband will be able to have him at home, I hope everything goes well, I keep you and your family in my prayers for a full recovery, regards, Susana
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Friday, February 6, 2004 11:31 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris-
I am so glad to read that Kevin will be coming home soon. I agree that you can do much, much more for him at home, and he most certainly will be loving every moment of it. What a wonderful, beautiful child. It must have been a sight seeing him smile for the first time. I pray that he continues to make gains. Kevin, as well as you, are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sherri Strach
Frederick, MD USA - Thursday, February 5, 2004 12:24 AM CST
Chris and Karen,
We are very excited to hear that Kevin will be coming home soon. I bet Gracie will be excited to have her little brother home. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
We say a prayer for you all daily!!
Much Love,
Don, Jeannie, Amber and Donnie
Don and Jeannie Atkinson <Datkinso@aol.com>
Jacksonville, Fl Duval - Wednesday, February 4, 2004 6:50 PM CST
I am a friend of Anne Mclane. I have been going thru very hard times in my own family, but none of them involve a baby's suffering. I do not know how Karen and Chris have endured this, except to say that Kevin must have been sent to them knowing what beautiful, faithful people they both are. I know that Anne is a true Christian , by her example of living her faith for everyone to see. I lift Kevin up to God and ask him to let Kevin mature and heal.
DonnaComo-Roeder <DonnaComo@cs.com>
Pasadena, MD USA - Tuesday, February 3, 2004 11:52 AM CST
He is absolutly adorable! We hope you will be able to bring him home soon. We are praying for his full recovery and for your strenght. All our love, Aunt Lorraine and family.
Aunt Lorraine and Family <susannev@techforceinc.net >
Marietta , GA Cobb - Monday, February 2, 2004 1:29 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know that you are all still in our prayers. We send love hugs and kisses for our little cute pie! kiss princess gracie for us and tell her ryan says hi!! love to mommy and daddy as well....miss you all and hope things keep in the right direction!! LOVE TO KEVIN & FAMILY....
Aunt Mary, Laura, Jason & Ryan <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Sunday, February 1, 2004 11:34 PM CST
Karen, I have just read all the entries. My God what a lot you all are going though. My heart goes out to every one. I'm so sorry that this is happening. Your family are in my thought and prayers.
Lesley Pesnicak
- Friday, January 30, 2004 6:27 AM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
You,Gracie and Kevin have been in our prayers since the day we met at Hackerman House. (I had the lung resection) and I continue to check the journal as my back allows. He is a darling litttle fellow and I know God is holding him in His hands.
Please know that Frank and I along with the prayer group will continue to pray daily for Kevins recovery.
Hug Gracie and tell her it's from a friend of mommy and daddy's.
It was wonderful meeting you and sharing our stories. Your a brave and loving set of parents,Gracie and Kevin are lucky.
Remember to put your trust in the Lord, He cares and hears our prayers.
Love and God Bless,
Anita and Frank
Anita Myers <thanks4life@earthlink.net>
Akron, Oh Summit - Thursday, January 29, 2004 10:28 PM CST
Karen, I hope the baby gets better, my prayers with you and your family, Susana
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 10:30 AM CST
Now it seems to me that little Kevin is a "Caribbean Man" as he does not want to be all bundled up in all the cloths. I DO NOT BLAME HIM. Who wants a tone of cloths on them. You tell little man for me just think of the ocean and he will warm as could be. :-)
Mike and I still have you all in our prayers.
Eternal Blessings
Natalie
Trinidad / USA, - Wednesday, January 28, 2004 8:23 AM CST
Hi, I'm a friend of Tim and Patty's, via Nancy and Ron Corazzi (I'm Nancy's mom). Tim and Nancy have been keeping me up to date about your darling little boy - and I have requested prayers for him through my bible study and church friends. Their responses have been incredible, and they don't even know him or you! God works in strange and wonderful ways, and miracles (of all sizes) happen all the time! Hope everything works out for you and Kevin - poor little guy, going through so much so soon. Glad he has loving and supportive parents and friends!
Ginger Hand <Ginger4700@aol.com>
Beltsville, MD 20705 - Wednesday, January 21, 2004 4:19 PM CST
Karen, Chris, and Grace
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always. You are not alone and the strength of family and friends will sustain you.
With love,
Daryl, Kassy, and Alyson
Daryl Foreman & Family <daryl.foreman@montgomerycountymd.gov>
Gaithersburg, Md U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 20, 2004 6:47 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Have faith.
Cindy Dyer <CMdyer2@aol.com>
Glen Burnie, MD - Friday, January 16, 2004 3:01 PM CST
Hang in the Karen and Chris. God is with the both of you. Donna and I check the website every other day, but, we never signed the guestbook. You are in our thoughts all the time. Can't wait until Kevin can have visitors. We will be there with bells on. I know this will take time - but we are very patient. Just give us the word and we will make a visit to that special boy. Give Gracie a big hugs from the both of us.
Jan & Donna <jludwig@niaid.nih.gov or Jandonna@aol.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Friday, January 16, 2004 10:31 AM CST
Good Evening Karen,
I am so encouraged by reading your journal entries! Kevin is a very strong little guy. My preferred route into Baltimre is to take Randolph Road east to Route 29 (Columbia Pike) which has been widened all the way up to Route 70. I take Route 70 east to the Baltimore Beltway. This route makes travel to Baltimore much easier than going 495/95. Hope this helps reduce your stress some. Peace and love to all.
Ruth Poulin <rpoulin@nih.gov>
Kensington, Md - Thursday, January 15, 2004 6:25 PM CST
My friend, of 27 years, Paul (now a pen pal) wrote me yesterday and here is his message to you. "Daughter Kristin was born 14 weeks premature and had 5 heart surgeries before she was 6 mths old. (She was in the hospital the first 7 mths of her life.) Kristin had large holes in her heart and today still has a loud murmer that is irrepairable, but today she is a beautiful young lady and I'm so proud of her. She was a real fighter and I'm sure that Kevin will be also. I'll also ask the congregation to pray for him tonight at the Chapel service.(He is now practicing to be a minister.) The strength of Prayer is so great. (In pictures, Kristin is 15 any a cutie.)
I'm saying the rosary for Kevin Christopher each day!
We love you,
Christa Leigh, Neil and Neil Lee
Christa Walter`
Olney, MD USA - Thursday, January 15, 2004 3:00 PM CST
Karen and Chris,
You two are wonderful parents! Kevin is such a cutie. I'm glad he is coming home soon.
Love, Katie
P.S. I'm so glad someone was looking out for Chris yesterday!!
Katie Nyswaner <knyswaner@ncifcrf.gov>
Keedysville, MD - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 1:55 PM CST
I am SOOOOOOOO glad someone was watching
over you yesterday - wow.
Shirley Starnes - LI <sstarnes@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Wednesday, January 14, 2004 7:13 AM CST
Karen, I've wanted to write something here for so long but I never knew what to say. I love you so much and want to make sure you know that I'm here for you in whatever capacity you need me. It's been so difficult to watch my baby sister go through all of this. God made you the STRONG one for a reason I guess. I know in my heart that God must have some REALLY special plans for Kevin. He's going through all this now so that he won't remember the pain. Although I know his parents will. You and Chris are such wonderful parents and truly blessed with Gracie and Kevin. She is a phenominal little girl and it looks as though her brother is following in her footsteps. Continue to be strong as I know you will. Maybe Kevin can be home in time for Dad's birthday! Love, Theresa
Theresa Hale <trbhale@hotmail.com>
Frederick, MD USA - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 9:58 PM CST
Chris, Karen and Grace,
That is wonderful news. Kevin is so lucky to have such an amazing family to take care of him. We continue our prayers.
Patty McLane
Patricia McLane <PATRICIA.O.MCLANE@VERIZON.COM>
Dunkirk, MD - Tuesday, January 13, 2004 6:25 AM CST
You are doing a great job and you're good parents. Keep the faith!
We love you,
Christa, Neil and Neil Lee
Christa Leigh <cleighwalter@yahoo.com>
Olney, MD USA - Sunday, January 11, 2004 6:42 PM CST
God is good. All of our Prayers are being answered. It is great to know that things are going well for Kevin and he is improving. Slowly but surely! Things are looking up for him, I know that it will be a long haul but he will endure it. He is a tough little cookie.
I will keep praying for him and for your strength because I know how tiresome it can be going back and forth and trying to be there for Miss Gracie.
PS: That was a great Chrstmas picture of Kevin. He is looks like a little girl in that red - He is such a cutie.
Dionne D. Draper <DD105W@NIH.GOV>
Washington, DC 20010 - Sunday, January 11, 2004 5:43 PM CST
Chris and Karen,
Although we are far away we have been following Kevin's progress. Our thoughts and prayers our with Kevin as well as with you.
Love,
Don, Jeannie, Amber and Donnie Atkinson
Don & Jeannie Atkinson <Datkinso@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Sunday, January 11, 2004 11:56 AM CST
Chris and Karen,
Thank you for the updates. I am sorry to read about Kevin's recent journey. You are wonderful parents. Our prayers are with you every day. Dear Lord please keep Kevin close to your heart so he gets better and can go HOME.
Love, your sister Cathy
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <www.crabapple111.com@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Saturday, January 10, 2004 7:46 AM CST
He is so Cute! I can't beleive all his hair. He has more than Caroline! I finally figured out this page, Karen you are doing such a great job updating us. Thank you. We are all praying for Kevin and his homecoming. We can't wait to meet him, very soon.
Love,
Janene, Matt, Macey and Caroline
Janene Brenner <beanbrenner@yahoo.com>
Annapolis, MD USA - Friday, January 9, 2004 9:47 PM CST
I'm glad to hear that Kevin's foot may not be as bad as it looks! Isabel and I say a prayer for him (and you guys) every night. Kevin is lucky to have such good parents.
Sharon, Anthony & Isabel <sharons@mafcu.org>
Rockville, MD USA - Friday, January 9, 2004 8:15 AM CST
Karen & Chris,
I think of Kevin and you guys every day with prayers of hope and strength. Wishing you happier and calm times ahead.
Calman
Calman Prussin <calman@nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD USA - Thursday, January 8, 2004 11:21 AM CST
A Prayer for Kevin and Family:
O Lord, as we direct our thoughts toward you and focus on your presence with baby Kevin, We are all aware of how you love him. It is so wonderful the way you work. We shall never forget that in times of inner storms, you enable us to lose fear and to trust in the firmness of our faith and the truth that is the basis of all our beliefs. I know that we can call on you in times of trouble. I know that you will change Kevin's family of fear to courage, and see them safely through. We love you Lord. You have touched us all with your wonderful love, and for that we are truly thankful. Please continue to touch little Kevin's body and heal him like noone but you can do. Continue to give his family the strength they need to carry on. In Jesus Name We Pray.
Amen
Odarise (Dee) Coates (Nana's co-worker) <ocoates@eos.east.hitc.com>
Capitol Heights, MD US - Thursday, January 8, 2004 8:28 AM CST
Chris, Karen and Gracie, Mike and I are sorry that we could not get a message on Christmas Day as the internet in Trinidad , well, let's just say it is not as good as it is in the United States.
Kevin is very HANDSOME and BEAUTIFUL boy and I know that he is going to be running around so fast soon it would be like a tornado passing through the house.
Eternal Blessings and prayers to the family.
Natalie and Mike
Natalie <crazimax@trini.com>
Laurel, MD USA/Trinidad - Wednesday, January 7, 2004 11:33 AM CST
Wonderful news on Kevin. Wish we could do more, but we pray for you all and the health of your baby boy. Sending love, kisses, and hugs to everyone!!
Aunt Mary, Laura, Jason, & Ryan Savage <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD 21532 - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 10:25 PM CST
We are thrilled beyond belief to hear this encouraging news. Baby Kevin is indeed a trooper and his life will hopefully be well rewarded for this difficult beginning. Our prayers continue...especially when Lillian asks us to say a prayer with her for her cousin Kevin.
tim patty lillian & eliza
- Tuesday, January 6, 2004 8:45 PM CST
Chris & Karen, I'm so happy that everything went well with the surgery; and great news that Kevin is coming home afterwards! My thoughts are with you all! Love, Alison
Al Clark <ahc123@comcast.net>
Crofton, MD AA - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 7:15 PM CST
WHAT GREAT NEWS THERESA!!! WE WILL KEEP THEM IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!!
Ann Coffman <rcoffman_6114@fuse.net>
Ft. Mitchell, KY - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 5:30 PM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
Just read the update on Kevin. What wonderful news. Our prayers are being answered. All our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Your Sister Cathy
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 4:22 PM CST
Karen and Chris, Ever Since My mom told me about the baby I've been checking every day. He is so handsome and you and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. Thanks for the new pictures.
Your cuz Annie and her family
Ann Coffman <rcoffman_6114@fuse.net>
Ft. Mitchell, KY usa - Monday, January 5, 2004 4:10 PM CST
Since Tim first wrote, you all are in our daily prayers. My daughters Mary 6, Elizabeth 4 and Laura 2 ask God for healing for the special new baby who needs the strengh of all of us.
Lou Ann (Evans) Dailey <chv6b@allstate.com>
Stevensville, md Queen Anne's - Monday, January 5, 2004 8:38 AM CST
Dear karen, Sorry to hear of your struggles with this new little precious gift. he has been through a lot already, but seems to be a tough little guy. he is beautiful - despite his color at this point. I pray that it will fade and that his liver will begin to function more normally. Always remember that there are things in this life we can not control, although we would like to. We can just put our faith in God that He does have a purpose for all of these trials we must sometimes go through. We just have to trust Him each moment. Our children are not truly ours - we are temporary custodians and need to do the best we can for them. We will pray that this new procedure is exactly what kevin needs to get back on track.
Lisa Boyd in the LI <lboyd@niaid.nih.gov>
- Monday, January 5, 2004 8:30 AM CST
Chris, Karen, Gracie and Kevin~
We continue to pray for Kevin and all of you. I have a wooden rocker that might work for you with a cushion if you would like to borrow it. We live in Ellicott City, so the hospital isn't too far from us. Please email if you're interested.
The Corazzi's (Nancy, Ron, Vince, Jenna, Amy and Danny) <nancy.corazzi@verizon.net>
Ellicott City, MD 21042 - Monday, January 5, 2004 8:22 AM CST
Chris and Karen - Your family is still in our prayers and we send all our love and wishes.
Brent & Trish Powers
Frostburg, MD 21532 - Friday, January 2, 2004 7:59 PM CST
Chris & Karen:
Sending our love and prayers to your little guy as always. We love you all very much and you are all in our thoughts.
Aunt Mary, Laura Jason & Ryan Savage <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USa - Friday, January 2, 2004 7:58 PM CST
I just want your whole family that I pray for the little everyday. Love, Cousin Linda
Linda Kenney Bruner <lindabruner@tje1.com>
Frostburg, Md. Allegany - Friday, January 2, 2004 6:32 PM CST
We are praying for Kevin and will have you in our thoughts also.
Ray, Cecelia, Raymond, and Emily Seese <rseese07@charter.net>
Johnstown, PA - Monday, December 29, 2003 7:37 PM CST
Karen and Chris-
Thank you for the updates on Kevin that you faithfully provide. You both are in my thoughts and prayers; you are wonderful and strong. Kevin is a beautiful, strong (like his parents) baby, and I pray that all his procedures are successful and produce the best possible outcomes. I pray that Kevin is able to come home soon and that God will continue to watch over him. Please give him a little hug from me. Take care.
Sherri Strach
Frederick, MD USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 4:19 PM CST
Dear Chris and Karen,
Thank you for the daily updates. They are a great source of
comfort. Our thoughts and prayers are for you. May GOD watch
over Kevin during the following week.
Love, Your Sister Cathy
Cathy (McLane) Bastian <crabapple111@aol.com>
Bowie, MD U.S. - Monday, December 29, 2003 10:07 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris, Gracie, and Kevin
You all are in our prayers. We hope that your beautiful baby son comes home real soon!
John, Sandy, Ryan, Robby, and Rachel Dindlebeck (friends of Cathy and James Bastian) <dindlebeck@aol.com>
Bowie, MD USA - Sunday, December 28, 2003 9:28 PM CST
Chis,Karen and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Craig Kinser <rcraigk@earthlink.net>
Bowie, MD - Sunday, December 28, 2003 1:15 AM CST
Wishing nothing but the very best for the New Year for everyone, especially baby Kevin. You are still in our prayers. Hang in there babe. Love to all!!
Aunt Mary Powers, Laura,Jason, & Ryan Savage <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Thursday, December 25, 2003 8:23 PM CST
Chris, Karen, Gracie & Kevin:
Still thinking of all of you!
Love Traci & Jimmy
Traci Barsy
Ellicott City, MD USA - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 6:56 AM CST
Karen and Chris,
We will pray for you that everything goes well.
Jim, Peg, Bernie, Stephanie, Dylan, and Zachary Broad <jamesbroad1@aol.com>
Cresson, Pa USA - Saturday, December 20, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Karen, I am very sorry that the baby is not well, I hope he gets better soon, regards,
Susana Florez <sflorez@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, Maryland US - Friday, December 19, 2003 3:39 PM CST
Chris, Karen, Gracie & Kevin ~ My thoughts and prayers are with you...what a beautiful baby boy! Please take care of yourselves! Lots of Love, Alison
Alison Clark <aclark@cbiz.com>
Crofton, MD AA - Friday, December 19, 2003 10:02 AM CST
Chris, Karen, Gracie, and Baby Kevin...you are all in our thoughts and prayers, and we know you will get through it. We love you!
Aunt Cathy, Uncle Bob, Cousins Julie, Katie, and James <rock4star2baby05@aol.com>
- Wednesday, December 17, 2003 3:40 PM CST
Chris & Karen
Just found out about Kevin's troubles. I hope all turns out well for him, and for you. Best of luck.
Rick & Katy Ryan <rryan@ryannet.com>
Deerfield, IL - Wednesday, December 17, 2003 2:41 PM CST
Hi Karen and Chris (Gracie too),
This is the best thing that we have ever viewed. We can keep up with all the progress that is being made. What a lovely gift. We have viewed it almost every day. Our prayers are with you always and forever. Please take care of yourself. Kevin needs to have his Mommy strong and healthy. Love you a whole bunch.
Jan & Donna <Jandonna@aol.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 8:47 PM CST
Karen and Chris - please know that though we aren't physically with you guys day-in and day-out, there has not been a single day since November 11th, 2003 that we haven't prayed for your beautiful baby boy. We have dedicated our hearts and souls and spirits to Kevin Christopher and constantly pray that God takes care of him. Please take one day at a time as best as you can. Karen-your updates are fantastic and very eloguently written. You guys are doing excellent and I boldly speak on behalf of everyone that has visited this site that we are all very proud of you two. Keep the faith. All our love... tim & patty
Uncle Tim <timothy.mclane@t-mobile.com>
- Monday, December 15, 2003 1:11 PM CST
Kevin is absolutely adorable! I held and rocked him for an hour and he just looked at me and smiled (no, it wasn't gas!) I was glad to spend time with you Karen - I miss you! I know in my heart that Kevin will pull through this and be home soon!
Joanne Ramella <jr24q@nih.gov>
Germantown, MD USA - Friday, December 12, 2003 4:51 PM CST
Dear Karen & Chris,
Kevin is beautiful!!! He looks like Gan!! (ha) Hope he gets to come home soon.
Love, Aunt Nan
Nan Macey <nanmacey@aol.com>
- Friday, December 12, 2003 8:16 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris, Please know that your family is in our prayers especially Kevin. I also send special prayers for Kevin to St. Theresa. Stay strong and God bless you all. I just saw Kevin's pictures and he is beautiful just like your Gracie. from Mrs. Winovich
Joan Winovich
Rockville, MD USA - Thursday, December 11, 2003 5:17 PM CST
Chris,Karen,Gracie & Kevin:
Thinking of all of you!
Love: Traci & Jimmy Barsy
Traci Barsy
Ellicott City, MD - Thursday, December 11, 2003 11:47 AM CST
Chris and Karen our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Mark Nagle <nshorty3_8@netzero.com>
Boiwe, Md - Thursday, December 11, 2003 8:50 AM CST
To the McLane Family,
Please know that you all are in my daily prayers. I can only imagine what you are going through right now. I saw the pictures of little Kevin and he is such a beautiful baby. I can see that he's a little fighter. With each passing day, may he continue to grow strong and know that there are folks who are praying for you all. Keep the faith and stay strong.
Odarise (Dee) Coates (Nana Ann's Co-worker) <ocoates@eos.east.hitc.com>
Capitol Heights, MD US - Thursday, December 11, 2003 8:19 AM CST
Kevin,
Happy one-month birth date. You are such a little trooper and are getting stronger each day, Thank God. Keep fighting young man for God has great things in store for you. I am truly sorry that you have had to go through so much in your short life but before long you will be fighting with Gracie :). I cannot wait to meet and greet you as I did your big sister, Gracie. I thank God for you and your family and my prayers and thoughts are with you all.
PS: Karen Happy Birthday - Chris & Karen Happy 37th month Anniversary
Dionne D. Draper <ddraper@niaid.nih.gov>
Washington, DC USA - Thursday, December 11, 2003 5:43 AM CST
Dear Karen and Chris,
I am so sorry for what baby Kevin is going through. I admire your courage and faith and believe as you do that God must have a wonderful plan for Kevin. Please know you, Gracie and baby Kevin are in my heart and prayers.
Trish <pscullion@niaid.nih.gov>
Laurel, MD AnneArundel - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 6:47 PM CST
Dear Karen,
You and your family are in our thoughts!
Lots of love from the Netherlands,
Gerd, Diana and Muriel
Diana Seegers-Bouma
Amsterdam, Netherlands - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 12:19 AM CST
Good Morning Karen,
I often pray for peace and strength for you and Kevin and your family during these very difficult days. Know that my thoughts are with you always and I send you all my love and continued prayers. Peace, Ruth
Ruth Poulin <rpoulin@nih.gov>
Kensington, MD - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 10:32 AM CST
My prayers are with Kevin, and with his whole family, that he will soon be healthy and come home. God be with you.
The Rev. Stephanie Chase Wilson <swilson@chesapeake.net>
Sunderland, MD - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 9:38 AM CST
Dear Karen, Chris and Kevin,
I don't know what I did wrong, but I could not view his photos. I've been keeping up with his progress from your Mom. Little by little he is getting stronger and I'm sure more adorable. He's always in my prayers and I'm sure Uncle D. is pulling for him too. Love, Aunt Nanene
Nan Macey <nanmacey@aol.com>
Annapolis, MD Anne Arundel - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 7:48 AM CST
Kevin,
Thinking of you daily.
Love,
Aunt Patty
Patty McLane <patricia.o.mclane@verizon.com>
Dunkirk, md usa - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 7:15 AM CST
Our prayers are with you, Kevin! You are an angel sent down to your family, and we all love you!
Nancy, Ron, Vince, Jenna, Amy and Danny Corazzi <vinniemakes3@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 10, 2003 6:31 AM CST
Sending my love, thoughts, and prayers to Baby Kevin and his family.
Amanda Negley <amandanegley@hotmail.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 8:43 PM CST
Dear God -- Please give us a miracle...PLEASE!!
Everyone say it...
DEAR GOD -- PLEASE GIVE US A MIRACLE...PLEASE!!
Amen.
Uncle Tim, Aunt Patty and cousins Lillian and Eliza McLane <timothy.mclane@t-mobile.com>
Dunkirk, MD USA - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 7:59 PM CST
Karen, Chris, Gracie, and Kevin
We're keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. We can't wait to finally get to see the little guy. It may seem tough right now, but it's obvious that he's a fighter (of course, knowing who his parents are, it doesn't surprise me) and I know everything it going to be just fine.
Love and Hugs to everyone!
Kristina, Winkie, and Grandma D. <winknkris@earthlink.net>
Frederick, MD USA - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 7:42 PM CST
Thinking of you all at this time.
Shirley Starnes <sstarnes@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD Montgomery - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 12:33 AM CST
Dear Kevin-
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there, and come home to your Mommy, Daddy, and Sister as soon as possible. Many hugs to you!!
Sherri Strach <sstrach@nih.gov>
Frederick, MD USA - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 10:47 AM CST
Karen, Chris, Gracie & Kevin,
All of you are in our prayers and we pray that baby Kevin will get strong and well enough to come home soon. We are right across the street if you need anything, just ask.
Linda & Alex Classen <Linda.Grey@marriott.com>
Rockville, MD USA - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 7:02 AM CST
Dear Chris, Karen, Gracie, & Kevin- Although we are so far away, your family is in my thoughts and prayers. All my love to baby Kevin.
Linda Bruner <lindabruner@tje1.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Sunday, December 7, 2003 5:16 PM CST
Karen & Chris
Both of you and Kevin are in my thoughts and prayers. I have no doubt that Baby Kevin will get well and grow strong. Stubborness and Perserverance are in his bloodline. I look forward to meeting my newest Grand Nephew when he comes home.
Love always
Uncle Bobby Mancini <lloryck@his.com>
Laurel, MD Prince Georges - Sunday, December 7, 2003 5:09 AM CST
Baby Kevin & Family-Sending our love and prayers always.
Bobby & Eric Powers
Frostburg, MD USA - Saturday, December 6, 2003 8:38 PM CST
Chris,Karen,Gracie & Baby Kevin- Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need. We Love You!!
BethAnn (Powers) and Bernie LaRue
Frostburg, MD USA - Saturday, December 6, 2003 8:37 PM CST
Karen & Chris,
Kevin's Mr. Bear is home @ the moment with Gracie; Kevin, who is getting some tests done at the Doc's, wants his BEAR back when he gets home, "ASAP!"
Our prayers are with you all, not only from our family, but through our diocese here in North Florida. Our pastor, (who lives 3 doors down from our house), has had Kevin in everyone's thoughts & prayers since his birth. He sounds like a fighter; & from what I have read thus far, will pull thru this to become a fine young/old man.
God's Speed on Kevin's departure from the hospital to his loving home with his family:
Love,
Don, Jeannie, Amber, & Donnie Atkinson
Don, Jeannie, Amber, & Donnie Atkinson <datkinso30@bellsouth.net>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Friday, December 5, 2003 11:10 PM CST
Baby Kevin, Gracie, Chris, & Karen, hang in there you are all in our prayers. We love you Kevin & family!
Brian & Kim Deriso
Mount Savage, MD USA - Friday, December 5, 2003 9:25 PM CST
Chris, Karen, Gracie and baby Kevin, you are all in our Thoughts and Prayers.
Marvin Mckenzie & Brenda <jmarvmck_13@hotmail.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Friday, December 5, 2003 9:10 PM CST
Hello,
Ariel and I will continue to keep all of you in our prayers. Just continue to believe and know that God is in control and that you should keep the faith that God will get you guys through this crisis with kevin. We love you guys very much and having faith that kevin will get through this. {Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10} {Cast all your anxiety on God because he cares for you. 1st Peter 5:7}
Chris and Karen, Do put all your trust in God because, how much lighter trials becomes when we realize God's grace is twofold. It is not only the happy ending. It is also the peace we can feel during a painful journey, when we trust in God ALL THE WAY. With Love... Sonya & Ariel
Sonya Whitted and Ariel Wood <swhitted@niaid.nih.gov>
Silver Spring, MD - Friday, December 5, 2003 8:37 AM CST
Sending our love & prayers. Hang on there little buddy!! We love you!
Brent & Trish Powers
Frostburg, MD 21532 - Thursday, December 4, 2003 9:25 PM CST
All our love and prayers are sent to baby Kevin & his family.
Karen (Powers) Nicholson and boyfriend Bill Bittner <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Cumberland, MD USA - Thursday, December 4, 2003 9:23 PM CST
Chris, Karen, Gracie, & Kevin, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of need. Sending our love and strength to all especially to Kevin.
Sara, Garth, Sydney, & Geoffrey Glotfelty <garth@tje1.com>
Frostburg, MD USA - Thursday, December 4, 2003 4:36 PM CST
We Love you baby kevin, gracie, karen, and chris. All our love is sent to you always.
Great Aunt Mary Powers, Laura,Jason, & Ryan Savage <ls2312@yahoo.com>
Frostburg , MD USA - Thursday, December 4, 2003 3:35 PM CST
We are praying for you all. I understand some of what you are experiencing since I went through the same type of thing with my son, Bill who is now in his mid 40s.
Martha Neal <jmneal@erols.com>
Hollywood, MD - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 4:16 PM CST
Hello, Karen. Just want to let you know that little Kevin is in my thoughts and prayers; I know that God is watching over your precious little bundle. I am very happy to hear that Kevin may be able to go home shortly after the new year begins, and I will be sure to check this site to obtain further updates. Please take care, and give Kevin a little hug for me.
Sherri Strach
Frederick, MD USA - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 1:59 PM CST
Karen/Chris From all that I have been told, Kevin (Little Man) has had it very tough so far. He has however pulled through everything thats been thrown his way which says to me his is a survivor.
Wishing all of you well.
Jim
Jim Cobb <jcobb@vrtch.com>
Pasadena , Md Anne Arundel - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 9:36 AM CST
Hello Karen. We have been thanking about you and little Kevin. Our prays are with you and your family and hope Kevin will have a wonderful recovery. Be strong and never give up in putting your faith and determination in the hands of God and not only will he provide you with the gift of live, as he has, but also with peace of mind and devotion to Kevin, as he develops into a wonderful son, brother and creation of God.
Ellis M. Dyson
NIH\NIAID\DIR
(301) 496-8568
Ellis M. Dyson <edyson@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, MD US - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 9:13 AM CST
Theresa, First I would like to thank you for setting up this guest book with updates on Kevin. I know how devastating it must be for Karen and Chris to have to keep repeating the same things over and over.
My prayers and Thoughts are with you all. Continue to pray and God will bring you all and Kevin through this.
Karen I miss you and Kevin, get well soon because we have to do our lunch that your mommy owes me and Auntie Dionne cannot wait to meet you.
Dionne D. Draper <ddraper@niaid.nih.gov>
Washington , DC 20010 - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 8:18 AM CST
Please know that our thought's and prayers are with all of you. God will take care of him and guide him to be a wonderful loving little boy. Karen Please know that all will be right you have lots of hope and love on your side.
Donna Stoudt and Jan Ludwig <Jandonna@aol.com>
Rockville, MD Montgomery - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 1:30 PM CST
I am praying for a speedy recovery for Kevin. God has plans for the McLean family and I feel that everything will be alright. Keep the faith and continue to thank God for this special little person, named Kevin, who is a fighter and champ.
Sandy Means <smeans@niaid.nih.gov>
Germantown, MD USA - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 10:34 AM CST
Your family and your little doll are in my prayers....
Faith and Prayer - unbeatable combination!! My wish for your Christmas - a happy, joyfilled homecoming.
God Bless you Karen, stay strong.
Jo Hubert <jh87j@nih.gov>
- Tuesday, December 2, 2003 8:53 AM CST
Congratulations on the birth of your new son. Everything will work out fine.
Rita Bauguess <RBauguess@niaid.nih.gov>
Bethesda, , MD USA - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 8:19 AM CST
Thoughts and prayers are sent your way everyday, Karen and family. I have no doubt that my little "angel" has her hand on Chris and will guide him through to a full recovery!
Linda Scott <lmscott@niaid.nih.gov>
Mt. Airy, MD - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 8:18 AM CST
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