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Lately I have been amazed and awed(is that the word?) at the beautiful evening skies. I see lots of different colors, the different shades of pink remind me of your precious Hayley. I always say a little prayer for you two when this happens. I do hope you feel His everlasting love. There are many standing in the gap for you as you struggle to face each new day. Praying for a little bundle of blessing to come your way.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Monday, October 10, 2005 8:33 AM CDT

Thinking of you each day.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Monday, October 10, 2005 8:09 AM CDT

Thinking of you and praying for you and for all you dreams to come true. Andrea (a friend of Mary Grace)
Andrea Sinatra <andreasinatra@yahoo.com>
Canton, GA USA - Sunday, October 9, 2005 9:08 PM CDT

My son and I saw a beautiful rainbow wednesday night (we're just south of Atlanta). I told him that it was Haley's rainbow and she painted it. He just kept repeating, "Haley's rainbow! Haley's rainbow! Haley's rainbow, pretty Mommy!" I will forever think of your sweet angel each time I see one. You are in my prayers and thoughts.
Heidi Foster <heidi_foster@yahoo.com>
Locust Grove, GA - Saturday, October 8, 2005 9:44 PM CDT

I found myself driving along daydreaming about "kircles" today. I often think of Hayley. Her little life has really impacted mine, so often I think of her. I continue to pray with you.

Shelly <jayandshel@msn.com>
Reno, - Saturday, October 8, 2005 9:33 PM CDT

Just checking in to say, you're always in our thoughts.

The Dolbin Family
OH - Friday, October 7, 2005 8:23 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I saw Hayley's picture at the end of a PBS show on childhood cancer recently. I want you to know that I have not had any personal experience with childhood cancer, but your story of Hayley's courageous battle with this monster has turned an intellectual concept into an emotional reality for me. I will forever now be an advocate for more awareness of and funding for the fight against childhood cancer, all due to your daughter's face.
Jennifer Ceraso <jennifer.ceraso@turner.com>
Atlanta, Ga US - Friday, October 7, 2005 1:59 PM CDT

Dayna,
This is my first time ever signing the guestbook.
I have been following your story for well over a year.
I check in almost daily...you are in my thoughts and prayers always.

Stacey
Toronto, On Canada - Friday, October 7, 2005 9:49 AM CDT

Prayers & Hugs

Keith's Korner
Dena' Towells Angel Keith's Mom <denatowells@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, October 6, 2005 9:59 PM CDT

Just dropping in to let you know that I am thinking of you. ((hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Wednesday, October 5, 2005 10:38 PM CDT

Always think about you and sending you my prayers.

Much Love,
Katie Dixon :)
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 0:23 AM CDT

Thinking of you and sweet Hayley today.
Chrissy
Kingsport, TN - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 8:13 AM CDT

I stop by frequently knowing that one day there will be the announcement that we all are praying for. Until then know you are in my prayers and Hayley will always be remembered.
Karen <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney,TX, - Sunday, October 2, 2005 10:11 PM CDT

I think about you both and your beautiful Hayley all the time. I just spent the last hour looking at her pictures in her first web site....WOW! What a beauty....outside of course, but inside so clearly! Just wanted you to know you are being prayed for and thought about many times a day by many people....even strangers like me!
Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!! <klgrace@comcast.net>
- Friday, September 30, 2005 9:40 PM CDT

Just stopping by to check on you two and say a prayer.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 7:11 PM CDT

Hi Dayna,
I had originally found your site through Friends of Allie and think to check in now and then to see how you are doing.
Keep hanging in there and know many people are thinking of you!
Liz <laliz22@aol.com>
Chicago, il - Monday, September 26, 2005 7:07 AM CDT

Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter with us. I just recently happened upon your story and have been touched by your strength, love and commitment.
Sharon, John & Brenna
Brantford, Ontario Canada - Sunday, September 25, 2005 8:55 PM CDT

Thank you for the update. I check your site often. I followed Hayley's life and battle with cancer. I would grin from ear to ear when I would look at her pictures and her cute smile. Whenever I see a rainbow I think of her. Whenever my daughter gives me a hug, I ask God that he and Hayley will hug you both.

I have so much respect for you. And I thank you for bringing me back to God.

God bless you.
Jen <maggs17@charter.net>
St. Louis, MO - Sunday, September 25, 2005 8:21 PM CDT

We love you guys - very much.

In fact, I was sharing with a co-worker just over the last few days - even though I never had the opportunity to meet Miss Hayley, I miss her.

And then I think of how much fun she's having and how much pain she is NOT in! HALLELUJIAH! (OK, so I'm not sure if I spelled that right but you get the picture.)

Again, I love you guys and think of you often.
De Anna Waldrop, Ronald Blue & Co. <deanna.waldrop@ronblue.com>
Brentwood, TN U.S.A. - Friday, September 23, 2005 8:16 AM CDT

I saw the most beautiful rainbow this afternoon and thought of Hayley...you are all still in my thoughts.
Meg Usrey <mmusrey@yahoo.com>
Americus, Ga - Thursday, September 22, 2005 5:46 PM CDT

Dayna - it's so good to hear from you!! I think of you, Alan and your precious Hayley every single day!
I got tears in my eyes reading about the rainbows and balloons! That is so awesome that your neighborhood did that!
Thanks for letting us know about the Chili's day. What a good excuse to go out to eat!

I found a couple of things on other sites that made me think of you and I wanted to share them. Sorry so long!

By the way, I'm still sending truckloads of *~baby dust~* your way! :)

A LETTER FROM HEAVEN

"To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every
morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

"It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do,
and foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you... in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving months,
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too....
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night... "My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented.... that my life has been wothwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in you footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.... you're coming here to me.

http://www.bearhugsbear.com
this is a link to another mom who recently lost her son to cancer. to honor him, she is making bears for other parents who have lost children to cancer. she makes them out of the angels clothes or blankies. I thought it was a great idea and thought you might be interested.

I'll Be There

Daddy please don't look so sad,
Momma please don't cry,
Cause I am in the arms of Jesus and
He sings me lullabies.
Please try not to question God,
Don't think He is unkind.
Don't think He sent me to you,
And then He changed His mind.
You see, I am a Special Child,
And I am needed up above,
I'm the special gift you gave Him,
The product of your love.
I'll always be there with you,
And watch the sky at night
Find the brightest star that's gleaming,
That's my halo's brilliant light
You'll see me in the morning frost,
That mists your windowpane.
That's me, in the summer showers,
I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a gentle breeze,
From a gentle wind that blows,
That's me, I'll be there, Planting a kiss on your nose.
When you see a child playing,
And your heart feels a little tug,
That's me, I'll be there, giving your heart a hug.
So, daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mommy don't you cry.
I'm in the arms of Jesus,
and He sings me lullabies.

Take care! You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, September 22, 2005 2:12 PM CDT

thinking of you....stay strong...

God bless

Ozzie <ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Thursday, September 22, 2005 12:19 AM CDT

Dayna-
Thanks for the update...we certainly can't blame you when you can't find the words, but love to hear how you both are doing. I hope it helps to know that there are many of us out here that remember Hayley each day and know that the pain for you does not lessen with time. Each time I look at Hayley's picture I am flooded with such gratitude and love for such an incredible little girl. What a joy I know she was to you and I pray that your memories still take you to a time when you didn't know the pain of cancer. We are still praying for your growing family and for the upcoming golf tournament. Also, thanks for forwarding the information about Chilis.....we'll be sure to go! With much love.....
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 8:18 PM CDT

Dear Hayley's family
I found your daughters page through Cancer warriors
I'm so sorry for your loss My son Jacob also lost his battle with AML in June this year 1 day before his 14th birthday
I understand your pain
with love Jacob's mum

Deanne McLeod-Steinmetz www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob
Alexandra Hills Brisbane, Queensland Australia - Wednesday, September 21, 2005 4:18 PM CDT

Praying for you. I want to let you know that your precious girl is still in my heart.
Julie <jlpeacock_3@yahoo.com>
MO - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 8:58 PM CDT

Hi Dayna, thank you so much for the update. You and your sweet family are so loved. I wish I could take away all the pain. Be brave and strong. We love you.
Mindi
Fernley, nv USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 2:01 PM CDT

Thanks for the update, Dayna! You and Alan are loved by so many people....many of whom you don't even know. I am so grateful you have shared Hayley here. I think of her every single day and continue to pray for you!!
Your big gift will come, don't ever lose faith!! (I know you won't). Just when you think it is just not meant to be, it surprises you. I have a 5 year old to prove that!

Hugs! And lots of love!
Karen (FOA & Olivia's Grace)
Stow, OH - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 12:50 AM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan,
I thought of you both yesterday, the 19th...a number forever carved in your memories, and I, too, think of December creeping up on you and bringing with it difficult times and painful memories.
I know you don't feel like it, but you truly are heroes.
I find myself subconsciously wanting to shield you both from hard times, difficult visions of healthy children playing, and families complete. Know that, although it goes unspoken, others worry about your thoughts and feelings, what haunts you, and what breaks your heart...

I am so glad the painted rainbows and pink balloons brought you comfort...the kids SO loved painting them.

I continue to pray for you both....
Sue O'Malley
Cumming, GA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 12:08 AM CDT

Dana, my thoughts and prayers are with you and Alan. I love coming to Haley's site and just looking at her pictures what a beautiful angel she is in heaven.

Love, Karen
Karen S. Perdue
Plano, TX USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

Thanks for continuing to update. I always check back, and think of your precious girl all the time.
Ashley Hast <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 10:50 AM CDT

I think of you often and come by the website alot to see Hayleys smiling little face. What a smile!!I know she is doing alot of smiling in heaven and watching over you both. I have already been to Chilis and coloring peppers and will be there on Monday.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 10:09 AM CDT

Thinking of you today and remembering Hayley. All the best.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 7:48 AM CDT

Your Hayley and your familiy are always in my mind.

I have a daughter who is 22 months old and I look at her and CANNOT even imagine losing her... My prayers are with you always!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net>
Bensalem, PA USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 6:43 AM CDT

I still check in from time to time. I think of you often. Waiting to hear the good news. Our little War Eagle Girl, will always be in our hearts. God Bless You, Beth
Beth Jenkins <jenkime@auburn.edu>
Auburn, AL USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 0:50 AM CDT

Always thinking about you and sending my prayers :)

Much Love
Katie
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Tuesday, September 20, 2005 0:20 AM CDT

Hi Dayna,

It rarely rains here in So Cal, and for some reason, today it is. My daughter told me she saw five rainbows at the park, this afternoon, which of course, made me think of Hayley. I decided that because of the rainbows, I needed to check your site. I was so pleased when I saw a new journal entry! I just want you to know that it means a great deal to me that you udate, every now and then, to let us know how things are going. Please don't feel any "pressure". Things will happen as they are meant to, and in the meantime, it is very nice to hear from you.

Take good care!

Love,
Debbie
Debbie Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Monday, September 19, 2005 10:03 PM CDT

Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.
Shannon Ball
Shannon Ball
Keller, TX USA - Monday, September 19, 2005 10:00 PM CDT

Hayley was the first person I thought about today when I woke up! I am praying so hard for you both! Please know you are thought of often, especially today!
Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!!
- Monday, September 19, 2005 8:55 PM CDT

Praying and believing!
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC - Monday, September 19, 2005 5:40 PM CDT

Dayna:
You are in my thoughts and prayers today.
Darcie Wallace <darciepw@bellsouth.net>
Marietta, GA USA - Monday, September 19, 2005 10:10 AM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan! Just thinking of you and your sweet Hayley. I hope that everything is going well for the two of you and I hope that things are working out great for the golf tournament. Take care!
Always thinking of you and your precious Hayley.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, September 19, 2005 9:29 AM CDT

Thinking of you today.
Chrissy
Kingsport, TN - Monday, September 19, 2005 7:01 AM CDT

I just wanted to let you know that there is truly not a day that goes by that I don't think of Hayley's legacy and pray for her precious parents. I know that the days are still incredibly tough and that this new "normal" is NOT what you bargained for. I continue to pray that God will grant you more peace and unexplained comfort than you can imagine! Hope you have a blessed week.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
langrange, ga - Monday, September 19, 2005 6:58 AM CDT

Hope things are going well for you both.
D
OH - Monday, September 19, 2005 6:51 AM CDT

Stopping in to say hi! Hope things are going ok- Praying for you.
In His Grip-
Kim <kas412@sbcglobal.net>
Bartlett, il - Sunday, September 18, 2005 6:35 PM CDT

Still praying for your family, as always.
Annie <jessiebelle@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, September 18, 2005 1:09 PM CDT

I came to the website today as I often do to look at Hayley's precious face and to see how to best pray. I believe in praying specifically when we pray. Each time you update and share a glimpse into your heart, I find new words to take to the Father as I pray for you. Your family remains in my prayers. May God's presence and peace fill your hearts.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Saturday, September 17, 2005 12:10 AM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan,

Just wanted to stop in and say that we think of you all the time. Our daughters Catholic school had open house Wednesday night. Our fourth grader's class had essays written in the hallway about what they pray for. While reading my daughter's she had written that she prays for Hayley and her family as well as Kylie B whose site we came to from Hayley. I want you to know that Hayley's light continues to shine in our home. The picture of Hayley my daughter printed out still hangs on her wall above her cross with the words pray for her written on it. We're praying for all of you.
The Dolbin Family <mcdolbin@columbus.rr.com>
OH - Friday, September 16, 2005 7:01 AM CDT

You two are always in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that you are doing well. Take care
Melissa <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Thursday, September 15, 2005 4:25 PM CDT

Still think about the two of you often and pray that you are doing ok. Take care!

Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington-Normal, IL USA - Thursday, September 15, 2005 12:40 AM CDT

Thinking of you all today just like everyday!
Amy <amynjake01@aol.com>
PA - Thursday, September 15, 2005 11:30 AM CDT

Thinking of you today.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer
- Wednesday, September 14, 2005 10:49 AM CDT

I just want you both to know that I think of you often. Not a day goes by that I don't think of Angel Hayley.
christine Rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 9:55 AM CDT

Just checking in and hoping you two are doing well! I was glad to read on Kendrie's site that you were able to attend the luncheon! :)
Stephanie Deal <stephanie.deal@kcc.com>
Lawrenceville, GA - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 8:26 AM CDT

Hey there, Just your friend and neighbor checking in. Love to you all and thinking of you all the time and praying for you as well.
shari wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
cumming, ga - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 6:38 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan, Wish you would consider attending the Johnson family reunion even though Dennis & Linda cannot make it. We'd love to see you and add to the already 56 coming! We will all miss you.
Karen Bartholomew <kbart276@aol.com>
Heath, Tx - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 12:23 AM CDT

Praying with you. You often come to mind.
Shelly Van B... <jayandshel@msn.com>
Reno, nv - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 11:07 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan - just stopping by to check on the two of you. And to look at the pictures of your beautiful Hayley...again! I still think of her all the time. She really made an impact on my life.
Still keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. And still sending *~baby dust~* your way!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, September 12, 2005 2:55 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan, I thought I'd check in and see how you two were doing. I've prayed so much for God to help bring you comfort these past nine months.

This past week, leukemia took another person from us....Rick Pearson, the Creative Arts Pastor at Mountain Lake Church (where my wife and I are members) died Friday after being diagnosed barely a month ago.

This has just made me respect and care about you so much more, for the courage you have shown after enduring so much pain.
Kevin Singh
Cumming, GA - Sunday, September 11, 2005 12:47 AM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan, I was truly blessed today to finally get to meet, "Hayley's mommy and daddy". I imagine today was hard as I am sure they all are. My most sincere prayers remain faithful for you both.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Saturday, September 10, 2005 10:14 PM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan,
I'm still traveling to work and remembering Hayley and other friends in my prayers as I make that particular turn in the road! I feel my prayers are met with a Hayley smile from Heaven when the sun is kissing the sky with rays of pink! I'll keep checking on you and remembering Hayley always.
Robin <bander23@bellsouth.net>
Suwanee, GA - Saturday, September 10, 2005 6:35 PM CDT

Continuing to check on you two and uphold you in prayer. It was such a blessing to meet you last Sunday at Perimeter. Remember, God is sovereign and He loves us!
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC - Friday, September 9, 2005 6:11 PM CDT

I wanted to stop by and let you know I am thinking of your family and your very sweet baby Angle. Stay strong!!!!!
Mindi & CamiJo
Fernley, NV USA - Friday, September 9, 2005 1:34 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan, The story I just sent you, reminded me of Hayley, by all the entries that the two of you wrote about her. I did not send it to make you sad. I'm very sorry if it did. God promises us a life free from pain in heaven and we can rest knowing that Hayley is not hurting or sick anymore. I think of you both often and still use Hayley's sickness and the way you both handle it to remind my 7th grade S.S. class that God is always there for us and that He has a plan for each of us. You have been a blessing to us during the past year and a half.
debbie vandeford
DACULA, GA USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 11:16 AM CDT

THIS IS BEAUTIFUL ....AND YOU WILL CRY...

Sally jumped up as soon as she saw the surgeon come
out of the operating room. She said: "How is my
little boy? Is he going to be all right? When can I
see him?"

The surgeon said, "I'm sorry. We did all we could,
but your boy didn't make it."

Sally said, "Why do little children get cancer?
Doesn't God care any more? Where were you, God, when
my son needed you?"

The surgeon asked, "Would you like some time alone
with your son? One of the nurses will be out in a
few minutes, before he's transported to the
university."

Sally asked the nurse to stay with her while she
said good-bye to son. She ran her fingers lovingly
through his thick red curly hair.

"Would you like a lock of his hair?" the nurse
asked.

Sally nodded yes. The nurse cut a lock of the boy's
hair, put it in a plastic bag and handed it to
Sally. The mother said, "It was Jimmy's idea to
donate his body to the university for study. He said
it might help somebody else. "I said no at first,
but Jimmy said, 'Mom, I won't be using it after I
die. Maybe it will help some other little boy spend
one more day with his Mom." She went on, "My Jimmy
had a heart of gold. Always thinking of someone
else. Always wanting to help others if he could."

Sally walked out of Children's mercy Hospital for
the last time, after spending most of the last six
months there. She put the bag with Jimmy's
belongings on the seat beside her in the car. The
drive home was difficult. It was even harder to
enter the empty house. She carried Jimmy's
belongings, and the plastic bag with the lock of his
hair to her son's room. She started placing the
model cars and other personal things back in his
room exactly where he had always kept them. She laid
down across his bed and, hugging his pillow, cried
herself to sleep.

It was around midnight when Sally awoke. Laying
beside her on the bed was a folded letter. The
letter said:

"Dear Mom, I know you're going to miss me; but don't
think that I will ever forget you, or stop loving
you, just 'cause I'm not around to say I LOVE YOU. I
will always love you, Mom, even more with each day.
Someday we will see each other again. Until then, if
you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so
lonely, that's okay with me. He can have my room and
old stuff to play with. But, if you decide to get a
girl instead, she probably wouldn't like the same
things us boys do. You'll have to buy her dolls and
stuff girls like, you know. Don't be sad thinking
about me. This really is a neat place. Grandma and
Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me
around some, but it will take a long time to see
everything. The angels are so cool. I love to watch
them fly. And, you know what? Jesus doesn't look
like any of his pictures. Yet, when I saw Him, I
knew it was Him. Jesus himself took me to see GOD!
And guess what, Mom? I got to sit on God's knee and
talk to Him, like I was somebody important. That's
when I told Him that I wanted to write you a letter,
to tell you good-bye and everything. But I already
knew that wasn't allowed. Well, you know what Mom?
God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to
write you this letter. I think Gabriel is the name
of the angel who is going to drop this letter off to
you. God said for me to give you the answer to one
of the questions you asked Him 'Where was He when I
needed him?' "God said He was in the same place with
me, as when His son Jesus was on the cross. He was
right there, as He always is with all His children.

Oh, by the way, Mom, no one else can see what I've
written except you. To everyone else this is just a
blank piece of paper. Isn't that cool? I have to
give God His pen back now. He needs it to write some
more names in the Book of Life. Tonight I get to sit
at the table with Jesus for supper. I'm sure the
food will be great.

Oh, I almost forgot to tell you. I don't hurt
anymore. The cancer is all gone. I'm glad because I
couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't
stand to see me hurt so much, either. That's when He
sent The Angel of Mercy to come get me. The Angel
said I was a Special Delivery! How about that?
Signed with Love from: God, Jesus &Me.

debbie vandeford
dacula, ga usa - Thursday, September 8, 2005 11:06 AM CDT

A little tribute to your angel:www.createapepper.com -
Code Number 6843.
A Huge Hayley Fan
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 11:55 AM CDT

Still praying for you both everyday.
Abbie Doser <doser.abbie@principal.com>
Des Moines, IA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 11:49 AM CDT

I just signed a few days ago, but couldn't help letting you know you are in my thoughts and prayers again today. My little girl reminds me so much of Hayley. I smile so many times just thinking about your sweet girl! Then, get so sad wanting her to be in your arms....I just PRAY so hard for you both! I hope you can find some joy in each day.Please know you are thought of often. Your Hayley will never be far from my thoughts and prayers.
a mommy from MA
- Tuesday, September 6, 2005 9:24 PM CDT

I saw this quote the other day and thought of you. I decided to post it for you, hoping it will do something positive for you. As always, I'm thinking of your sweet girl, and hoping things are okay for you too.

"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do."
~Eleanor Roosevelt
Debra Burgess
Ft Worth, TX - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 10:14 AM CDT

Checking on the Thomson household on this Labor Day 2005. I continue to remember you in my daily prayers and log on to see Hayley's sweet cheeks daily.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 5:34 PM CDT

Thinking of you tonight. You've been on my mind so much. This heartache doesn't get any easier as the days go on. I love imagining Hayley teaching her baby sibling in heaven all about kircles & chasing kitties! {{sending hugs}} across the net.
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Monday, September 5, 2005 0:06 AM CDT

Hey...there is still not a day that goes by that I don't think of your Hayley. What a treasure! I am praying that you continue to feel Hayley's presence and know that many of us are still praying for you both. (and especially that new addition!) Hoping you have a relaxing weekend together.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Friday, September 2, 2005 7:47 PM CDT

Just stopped by to see Hayley's sweet smile and let you know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers daily. I hope Hayley's sending some special rainbows your way!
Tina <georgenmia@gmail.com>
San Antonio, TX - Friday, September 2, 2005 7:32 AM CDT

I found this on a website and decided to decorate a pepper for Hayley. Its a silly decorated pepper. The code is 2454. I will never forget Hayley and I wanted something to dedicate to her, even if it is just a crazy decorated pepper. ((hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Thursday, September 1, 2005 11:44 AM CDT

Thinking and praying for you today and always. I always smile when I look at your sweet girl's picture. Sending you lots of good thoughts.
a mommy from MA
- Wednesday, August 31, 2005 7:16 PM CDT

Stopping by to let you know that I am thinking of your sweet little one today! Hayley's smile could just brighten a room any day. I know she is looking for a baby with the same little smile and cheeks just for you!!!! Know you are in my thoughts and prayer each and every day.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer
- Tuesday, August 30, 2005 3:09 PM CDT

I am always thinking of precious angel Hayley and both of you! I continue to pray that you will be blessed very soon! Hayley is just waiting til she can pick the perfect baby for you! Tons of hugs and prayers
Melissa McCarthy <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 10:31 AM CDT

I check in with you occasionally, and every time your page opens and I see that adorable picture of Hayley, I have to smile. Know that folks are still thinking of you and supporting you.
Anne Teddlie <ateddlie@aol.com>
Decatur, GA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 7:48 AM CDT

I am so happy that you and Alan enjoyed your time at the shore. I am praying for that positive pregnancy test any old time now!!!!!
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Monday, August 29, 2005 4:33 PM CDT

I check on your site and pray for you ALL the time....I just rarely sign in because you would be sick of me! But since no one has signed in since Saturday, I just wanted you to know there are so many of us out there continuing to lift you up in prayer. I pray for comfort and emotional healing, more babies soon!, and for God to bless you in ways you can't even imagine. In His Love, Carol
Carol Jackovich <colton_c@bellsouth.net>
Atlanta, GA - Sunday, August 28, 2005 3:21 PM CDT

Hugs from PA!
Amy <amynjake01@aol.com >
PA - Friday, August 26, 2005 11:32 AM CDT

Its been a while since I have visited but I always think of beautiful Hayley. What a beautiful thought - that not only is Hayley hand-picking the right brother or sister, but she is also teaching them too. I can't wait until the day he or she makes an arrival, whenever that may be. I just hope that it is sooner than later (ok, so I'm not the most patient person, I can't help it!).
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Thursday, August 25, 2005 7:38 PM CDT

Still missing your sweet baby angle. I come here to see your beautiful smile and sweet face. Stay strong.
Mindi & CamiJo
Fernley, NV USA - Thursday, August 25, 2005 10:22 AM CDT

Still checking in, big hugs from TEXAS!!
Thanks for the update.
Tisha Robbins <tisha.robbins@vertrue.com>
Houston, tx usa - Thursday, August 25, 2005 8:46 AM CDT

It was wonderful to get a quick update from you. Thank you for keeping us posted. I think of you both often and say a prayer whenever you come to mind. I know that "waiting" for God's gifts is often unbearable, but we know that His timing is perfect.....look at the timing He gave you your sweet Hayley....And wasn't she perfection! Again, thank you for sharing Hayley with us all. What a great way to know that Hayley's legacy lives on.....always
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 7:00 PM CDT

I pray that God will bless you "exceedingly abundantly above all you could ask or imagine"!
Kellie <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Wednesday, August 24, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

I received this on email today and immediately thought of your precious Hayley. I hope you enjoy it too. It's about rainbows. Bless you all.
http://www.spiritisup.com/colors1.swf
Kaye Schnieders <kayelynn49@yahoo.com>
Emmetsburg, IA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 1:15 PM CDT

Thinking about you guys today and ran into this poem that reminded me so much of you guys that I felt the need to share it with you both. I hope you both are still able to feel God's love and strength. I also hope that another child blesses your live. TAke care and know that you guys nor Hayleybaby will never be forgotten!

If Roses Grow in Heaven

If roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me,
Place them in my daughter's arms
And tell her they are from me.
Tell her I love her and I miss her,
And when she turns to smile,
Place a kiss upon her cheek.
And hold her for awhile.
Because remembering her is easy,
I do it every day.
But there's an ache in my heart
That will never go away.

I miss you Hayleybaby! ~*~ Butterfly kisses ~*~
Amy <amynjake01@aol.com>
PA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 9:20 AM CDT

Thinkig of you today.
Tina & Lance <lancejrmommy@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, August 23, 2005 1:37 PM CDT

I was just talking with Chris about you guys over the weekend. Everytime I see a little curly red-haired girl I think of Hayley. I have no doubt you will get your bundles, and how lucky will they be!
Shari Wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
Cumming, GA - Monday, August 22, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

Still in love with your adorable daughter and praying for peace for her special parents! On a lazy family afternoon it felt right to say hello and ask the Lord once again to wrap His arms around you. We hope to hear that you have been blessed with another child soon. In the mean time, thank you again for keeping us in your lives and for making a difference in the lives of so many!
Christine <mahoneymcjc@comcast.net>
NJ - Sunday, August 21, 2005 5:36 PM CDT

Dear Thomsons, I once heard of a book that I bought as a gift for a family whose son is suffering from Krabbe Disease (caringbridge site - tn/dylanmay). It is called, "The Angel With The Golden Glow". It is a children's book actually written, I believe, with surviving siblings in mind but I would love to send it to you as you await God's newest blessing(s).
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Saturday, August 20, 2005 6:30 PM CDT

Thank you for the beautiful post, Dayna. I still check on your family weekly. You are never far from my thoughts.
Kelley Edler
Flower Mound, TX USA - Saturday, August 20, 2005 5:51 PM CDT

Dayna, Please tell your Dad that Bob Lancaster has a brain tumor. We will be at Northside to have surgery on Monday morning at 7:30 August 22. Call Businessedge to find out details. Thanks Dayna and Alan for praying for us.
Linda Lancaster <ltlancaster@bellsouth.net>
Pelham, AL USA - Saturday, August 20, 2005 8:40 AM CDT

So glad to read the update today. My prayers are always with you. My sadness increases each day that Hayley is away from you. It is beyond our comprehension. God loves you and will wipe away all of your tears one day. You have treasure beyond measure in heaven and will be blessed. Jesus calls you blessed. Holding you tightly in prayer always,
akh
- Friday, August 19, 2005 8:27 PM CDT

holding you close in my thoughts tonight......

angel olivia's mother, wendy
olivia'sgrace
www.caringbridge.org/mi/oliviasgrace <wethomps@aol.com>
shelby, mi - Friday, August 19, 2005 8:16 PM CDT

Thinking of and praying for you always!
Karen (FOA & Olivia's Grace)
Stow, OH - Friday, August 19, 2005 7:50 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan,
Angel Hayley is watching over you both..

Debbie Fields Murphy, NC Tuberous Sclerosis Assn. (Olivia's Grace http://groups.msn.com/OliviasGrace) http://www3.caringbridge.org/nc/catherine_nicole/ (Tuberous Sclerosis Chat Room) http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/debbifmurphy/) <TuberousSclerosis@earthlink.net>
Snow Hill, NC USA - Friday, August 19, 2005 4:43 PM CDT

We saw a beautiful rainbow yesterday. Of course pink was the brightest color, with two very vivid bands. I couldn't help by think of Hayley and smile. We remain in prayer for your family.
Ann
- Friday, August 19, 2005 12:58 AM CDT

Good to "see" you today! I think patience is one of the hardest things to have in life. It is probably of little consolation and something you tell yourself each day anyway, but God has a special child for you and he is waiting for the perfect moment to send him or her. Keep the faith!! I truly believe this will happen for you guys. Take care and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you SO often.
Lauren Pena
CA - Friday, August 19, 2005 11:03 AM CDT

I was glad to read the update, and hear about your nice vacation. I just know Haley has the biggest beach and ocean ever imagined in heaven, and smiles down on you every day. You're always in my prayers.
Ashley Hast <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Friday, August 19, 2005 10:26 AM CDT

Just stopping by to let you know that a day does not go by without a thought of your beautiful girl. I pray for you both daily and know the Lord will bless you with more beautiful children when it is in his plan.
Robyn Anderson <robyn.anderson@cingular.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Friday, August 19, 2005 9:11 AM CDT

Just thinking about you and your beautiful daughter today. Praying for you!
Julie <jlpeacock_3@yahoo.com>
MO - Friday, August 19, 2005 8:03 AM CDT

you are still in my prayers.
Kim Elliott-Knoll (Leigh's Mom) <Doofus7734@hotmail.com>
Powder Springs, Georgia - Friday, August 19, 2005 7:17 AM CDT

Thinking of you, especially today!

Prayers,
Stephanie Deal <stephanie.deal@kcc.com>
Lawrenceville, GA - Friday, August 19, 2005 6:56 AM CDT

BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Friday, August 19, 2005 2:52 AM CDT

Just wanted you to know that I was thinking about you today and praying that God would send you a peacefull day.

Love
Katie
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, ca - Thursday, August 18, 2005 10:16 PM CDT

Just dropping by to let you know I have lifted you up in prayer this afternoon. May rainbows bless your days!
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Thursday, August 18, 2005 2:09 PM CDT

Thank you for the rainbow this morning, Hayley! I needed the pick-me-up. Tell my grandma I said hi. I know she's taking great care of you.
Chrissy
Kingsport, TN - Thursday, August 18, 2005 9:19 AM CDT

i miss the journal entries. i hope that you both are doing well. i pray daily for an addition to your family when the time is right. i am sure that hayley will handpick the perfect little brother or sister! looking forward to hearing how you two are doing soon. god bless you both.

sincerely,

lindsay k.
houston, tx - Thursday, August 18, 2005 0:18 AM CDT

I was thinking of your sweet angel today and wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
All my love.
Heidi Foster <heidi_foster@yahoo.com>
Locust Grove, GA USA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 8:17 PM CDT

I just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers today, just like you are every day.
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 12:19 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I logged onto Hayley's webpage this morning, and decided to go back to a yr ago today and read what you had written..then I found myself re-reading every entry up until the last with tears in my eyes....I just wanted you to know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers and I hope you feel a little less pain than yesterday.
Brenda Boatman <brendaboatperson@hotmail.com>
Greenville, SC 29615 - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 1:43 PM CDT

Stopping by Hayley's Corner to pray for you two.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Monday, August 15, 2005 8:08 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I miss you both. And though I never met her, I miss Hayley, too. I look forward to meeting her in Heaven one day.

You two, I hope to see sooner. Until that day, know that I often think of you.

Miller
Miller Cary <gdmc3@earthlink.net>
Suffolk, VA - Monday, August 15, 2005 3:34 PM CDT

Thinking of you & praying for you always!
Terrie Bonilla <tiggertails117@aol.com>
Port Reading , NJ USA - Monday, August 15, 2005 9:10 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that I continue to pray for you & check on you both often. Prayers for more babies soon.
Love,
Susan
Susan <Susanmvt@aol.com>
Peachtree City, GA - Sunday, August 14, 2005 9:11 PM CDT

Dayna,

I am not sure if you remember me,but my 4 year old son Daegen had AML as well. He passed away on July 17. I guess I am writing to you because I need someone who has been there. I attempted to send you an email, but it was returned. Anyway, I have been following your website and I am convinced that my life will be as hard as it is now, no matter how much time passes. THe pain is so immense and like you if I think about anything remotely related to my son I am a complete wreck. Please know that I am here to talk with you, if you need someone else to share in your pain. My email address is www.feyhfamily@earthlink.net. Our website is www.dmanhero.com. I am hoping and praying that you will have a new miracle in the very near future. God Bless your family. Sincerely, Janelle Feyh
janelle feyh <feyhfamily@earthlink.net>
Rossville, KS. - Saturday, August 13, 2005 10:21 PM CDT

I know the days must still be tough and I'm certain that some days are more difficult than others. I just wanted to let you know that although time is passing, I know your pain is every bit as real as the day sweet Hayley went to be with her heavenly father. I just pray that you feel God's hand around you and know that He is still walking before you. I pray for nothing but joyful days ahead for you both. Thank you, again, for sharing Hayley with us. I still love coming to your site and seeing that sweet smile.
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Saturday, August 13, 2005 8:57 PM CDT

It has been a while since I left a message. You are both on my heart so frequently that I feel as if I know you. I check in often and just wanted to tell you tonight that I still pray for God's continued healing and grace. I am also praying for His added blessing of a new little one to love and hold in your arms. I have no doubt that He has another special little someone planned for you two wonderful parents. At the perfect time, He will send that blessing to you.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Saturday, August 13, 2005 8:50 PM CDT

...always thinking of sweet Hayley....always praying for her sweet parents
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Saturday, August 13, 2005 9:02 AM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight. I pray for Hayley's brother or sister as I know she is waiting on the perfect one to bless her wonderful mommy and daddy.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Friday, August 12, 2005 10:12 PM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan,

Hoping all this baby dust is working. Each of you are always in my thoughts,ERIN
ERIN <LILFISHIE98@AOL.COM>
BABYLON, NY USA - Friday, August 12, 2005 9:34 AM CDT

Just stopped by to say I'm thinking of you. I hope that your prayers for a new baby are answered soon!

Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Friday, August 12, 2005 8:00 AM CDT

Dayna&Alan, I was thinking of you today and wanted to check on you. I sure hope that will hear the news about a baby soon, that would be wonderful. I am glad to hear that you are ready to move forward with a new baby. If it is God's will then I am sure it will happen. God Bless!!
Sonya Mayer <valsonya1@aol.com>
Valdosta, Ga USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 9:08 PM CDT

Just stopping by to say hi and let you know that I am thinking of you. ((hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
- Thursday, August 11, 2005 8:32 PM CDT

Hi Dayna,
For some reason I started thinking about you today.So I decided to check for an update and let you know. I am praying hard for you to be blessed with a new baby soon. Hugs from Texas.
Karen <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney,TX, - Thursday, August 11, 2005 5:55 PM CDT

Thinking of you both today and saying a special prayer for Angel Hayley to pick out the PERFECT brother or sister to send to earth. HUGS!
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta <skc1962@gmail.com>
Suwanee, GA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 9:51 AM CDT

Just thinking and praying for you both.
Brenda Boatman <brendaboatperson@hotmail.com>
Greenville, SC 29615 - Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:53 AM CDT

Keeping our fingers crossed for some baby news :) Just curious though --- which do you want by the truckful, prayers or kids? I think you'll be blessed by both.

Love you all,
Jen (Camp Jack: www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)
Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:37 AM CDT

Hi-
thinking about you all today and always. We miss you all and especially sweet Hayley.

Much Love,
The Libby's
Shawn & Mckinley <Shawn@summitsupplies.com>
alpharetta, GA usa - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 11:05 PM CDT

Hi guys- we are still thinking about you all and just wanted to let you know that Princess Hayley's picture is still the biggest on the bulletin board at 3 North. I spotted a rainbow today driving from Birmingham to Atlanta and instantly said "hey there Hayley" Just wanted to drop a note to let you know we're all still thinking of you
Elle Rivers www.teamrivers.com <therivers@teamrivers.com>
Smyrna, GA US - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 10:05 PM CDT

Sweet Hayley, I'm still checking on you. Big Hugs and Kisses from Houston Texas

sending truck loads of baby dust to Mommie and Daddy! I feel the news arriving soon...I feel it !!! :-)
Tisha Robbins <tisha.robbins@vertrue.com>
Richmond, tx usa - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 8:29 PM CDT

Just popping in to say hi! Is that baby dust working yet?!? We'd better send more!!!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 1:49 PM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan,

Just thinking alot about Hayley today... It blows my mind that she is no longer here on earth, and for some reason, just couldn't get her out of my mind today... Thinking and praying for you and Alan and any new "additions" that may come your way...sooner rather than later :)
Cecilia <cecilia.elias@alltel.com>
Cumming, Ga - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 10:12 AM CDT

Hello dear Thomsons!
It sounds like Hayley is taking her time picking out the perfect brother/sister for herself! I still think of Hayley quite often even though I may not post. Praying for continued healing and comfort for your broken hearts. God's timing is perfect. I know He will bless you at the right time as new parents again. Have faith!
Jenn B. *FOA & Angels on Earth* <pr@friendsofallie.org>
Fresno, CA - Wednesday, August 10, 2005 2:31 AM CDT

Lifting you up in prayer today...I hope it's a better day!
Take care.
Juli F.
Birmingham, AL - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 2:42 PM CDT

Just wnated to let you know Hayley got a fresh batch of balloons today! Always in my thoughts :)
Karen <troyandkaren@bellsouth.net>
- Tuesday, August 9, 2005 12:31 AM CDT

Coming to check out the most adorable smile that I have ever seen!!! Thanks Hayley. Praying the you are blessed with a truck load of little ones soon.

Mandy (Angels on Earth)
mamatooryan
- Tuesday, August 9, 2005 10:35 AM CDT

Still praying for you in your great loss and pain. God knows your grief and bears it with you; but He sees the perfection of His plans and the joy in Hayley's face. Wish we could too... one day we will.
Karen LaBarr
Alpharetta, GA - Monday, August 8, 2005 11:02 AM CDT

Hi, you know my friend merrill king, and the whole king family. i am their best family friend and was with merrill in the hospital a lot, and hayley was in their too. i will never forget her beautiful smile. i followed her site through her treatment, and know her story. she was a beautiful girl, and so sweet. but most of all she was blessed with wonderful parents that cared so much for her. im still praying for both her and her parents.
Caroline, 13
Caroline Ehret <caroline@mysite.com>
Roswell, GA US - Sunday, August 7, 2005 10:47 PM CDT

....still remembering Hayley, and praying for her incredible parents...
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Sunday, August 7, 2005 1:46 PM CDT

I read your site frequently but this is my first post. I was very touched at your longing to be a mommy again. I know what it is like to desire a baby that seems oh so elusive. I just wanted to share that after 6 long years of trying DH and I built our family through adoption.

I know the words "it will happen" often seem trite, but for most people it DOES happen the old fashioned way. For others a little medical intervention bring the miracle you have been waiting for. And for a select few the miracle of adoption is the answer.( and be careful what you wish for, when you tell a social worker you will take a truck full they just might take you up on your offer ;) )

I guess I am trying to say that if you keep your options open I am 100% sure it will happen.

I still have every confidence it will"just happen" for you, but if you ever get to the point you want to hear more of my story feel free to email.

A few times you have mentioned you are not sure what to post on the site. If you are comfortable doing so I would love to hear some of your favorite Haley memories.

Lori <LDBM2003@yahoo.com>
Spokane, WA - Saturday, August 6, 2005 11:23 PM CDT

Lifting you up in prayer today.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Saturday, August 6, 2005 3:13 PM CDT

I'm So Glad You Came
by: Jane Peterson
In memory of her daughter,
Colleen Kryder Murphy.

I'm so glad you came
For I will always know your light
In my hands;
Always.

And the power of your leaving
Was exquisite.
A kind of profound silence.
I will always be able to recall it
In a moment;
Always.

But I am so glad you came.
So incredibly honored
To have known you at all.
I will always know your light
In my hands,
And in a blink, I will see it;
Always.

Blessings,
Terri ^Friends of Allie - San Diego^
- Saturday, August 6, 2005 1:22 AM CDT

Thinking of you today.
Prayer friends in ohio
- Friday, August 5, 2005 9:28 PM CDT

I was reading some other caringbridge updates and thought I would check in. I pray and think of you often and am thankful you continue to update and share your thoughts and prayer concerns.
Laura Lynn <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Gettysburg, Pa - Friday, August 5, 2005 9:00 PM CDT

Thinking of you with love & prayers.
Susan <susanmvt@aol.com>
Peachtree City, GA USA - Friday, August 5, 2005 2:17 PM CDT

~*~*~*~*Trucks full of hayley sibling dust~*~*~*~*

If anyone deserves to be parents, it's you two.

My words (being a stranger and all) could never heal you, but your pain certainly does resonate and affect all of us. I wish you nothing but happiness, because I am sure sweet Hayley is happy now too, and knows that her mama and daddy will be right by her sooner than you could ever see.

Still reading, still thinking of you.
Nicole Anderson
Salt Lake City, UT USA - Friday, August 5, 2005 1:38 PM CDT

Hayley will never be forgotten. Whenever I see Barney I see that adorable face. Sending lots of baby dust your way. God and Hayley are being very particular on the special angel they send to you. I hope you have a nice weekend. You both are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Peg Poma - Angels in Atlanta <ppoma@firstcommunities.net>
Marietta, GA USA - Friday, August 5, 2005 12:32 AM CDT

Thinking of you and sweet Hayley with a smile in my heart. Though the days must still be heartwrenching without your earth angel, we're certain better days are just around the corner. Keep the faith, dear friends. And, if ever you need a reason to laugh, you know that a lunch with us provides plenty of comic relief :)

With hopes of seeing you again soon,
Jen (Camp Jack: www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)
Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Thursday, August 4, 2005 12:33 AM CDT

Hayleybaby can you hear me up in Heaven? I sure hope so..... I miss you sweet girl. My heart is forever missing a piece. I feel very lucky that your wonderful parents shared their sweet little girl with complete strangers to love and pray for. I hope you are having a wonderful time playing in Heaven. You precious little one have changed my life forever. I hope when my time here is done that you are one of the first people I see in Heaven. Thank you for being my hero....
Missing you ~*~ Butterfly kisses ~*~

Amy <amynjake01@aol.com >
PA - Thursday, August 4, 2005 8:24 AM CDT

thinking of you today.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer
- Wednesday, August 3, 2005 4:27 PM CDT

Every so often I just need to sign on and see Hayley's sweet sweet face. I pray for you both peace and love,

Tiffany , Frank, Jordan, and Jacob <murphy108@comcast.net>
GA - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 2:39 PM CDT

I think of Hayley often and want you to know that she is still touching lives. I had the extraordinary opportunity to share your amazing walk with my teenage stepchildren last night. They were in awe of your faith and love for God. Know that God uses you and Hayley in many ways. Please pray that my stepchildren come to know Jesus Christ and have the faith that they need to spend eternity with Hayley in Heaven.
Sandy Gay <sandrabrunergay@hotmail.com>
Edison, Ga - Wednesday, August 3, 2005 11:15 AM CDT

My daughter, Hayley, was born on December 19,1986. She was named Hayley because it meant "hero" and what a "hero" she has been. When her sister, Claire, was diagnosed with a brainstem glioma on Jan, 16, 2004, Hayley was right there with Claire. When Claire died on March 23, 2005, Hayley was also there with Claire. We are so lucky to have the children that we do. One of my friends said that if she had her life to live over, she would be happy to have her daughter live for 16 years. I am so happy that Claire was with us for as long as she was. I am so happy that she was ours. WE were so lucky.
margy nelson <margyprn@aol.com>
duluth, ga USA - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 11:09 PM CDT

Just wanted to check on the parents of the most incredible little girl named Hayley. I am still storming heaven with prayers for another miracle being formed! I can't wait to hear the news. God knows your every need and will be faithful, just as you have been through your journey with Hayley. I just have to say it again.....she made such an impact on my life and will ALWAYS be remembered. You both are in my prayers.
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 9:01 PM CDT

Thinking of you and your precious girl today and every day. I will pray hard for more sweet babies for you. Hugs!
Debra Burgess
Ft Worth, TX - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 7:21 PM CDT

Sending baby dust your way.....stay strong and know that I lift you up in prayer often.

Oh and I saw the most amazing rainbow a week ago while driving to the coast with my kids and thought of Hayley....
Juli F.
Birmingham, Al - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 3:44 PM CDT

Hi, there. I still come here often to check on you and your husband. Hayley was such a precious little girl that God is making sure he chooses another child just as special and perfect. I am confident that you will soon here "Mommy, mommy, mommy" again. Your family remains in my prayers.
Penney Thomas <tandp1991@aol.com>
Midlothian, TX USA - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 11:35 AM CDT

Haven't signed in a while, but you are always in my thoughts. Hayley is most likely loading her little brother or sister with all the kisses she can fit on that tiny body so they'll be delivered right to you both when the baby arrives. She's got lots to tell the baby of such wonderful parents that its just stalling things here on earth a bit. I will pray that your prayers are soon answered. I wish words can ease the pain of your loss.
Sandra Roberts <RobertsJaks@bellsouth.net>
Roswell, GA USA - Monday, August 1, 2005 11:46 PM CDT

Thoughts & prayers for both of you as you continue on without your precious little Hayley. Sending prayers & good wishes for more babies soon.
Love,
Susan
Susan <Susanmvt@aol.com>
Peachtree City, GA USA - Sunday, July 31, 2005 5:47 PM CDT

Just want you to know that you are still on my mind and in my prayers. I hope you get that little gift from above really soon. I know I will be reading about your good news very soon.

I have been spreading the word to the golfers I know!!!!

Sincerely,

Larissa Farley
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Sunday, July 31, 2005 9:56 AM CDT

Hi Danyna,

Just wanted to let you know that you are still in my prayers.

Take good care.

Love,
Debbie
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Saturday, July 30, 2005 8:52 PM CDT

Just want to stop by and see your beautie's little smile. Have a great weekend!
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Friday, July 29, 2005 10:49 AM CDT

This is long but I thought right away of you both as I read it. I'm praying for you.

Psalm 107:29-30, "He stilled the storm to a whisper; the waves of the sea were hushed. They were glad when it grew calm, and he guided them to their desired haven" (NIV).

Devotion:

Sheets of rain pelt the front bay window, again. The news reports of flooding throughout the nation. Homes wash away. Mudslides tear through communities. Storms rage outside my house, while inside my home mundane strife threatens a downpour of gloomy moods. It's a dismal day.

My friend, Tiffany Berg of Succeeding Gracefully, says, "Every girl should own two things, an umbrella and a feather boa. You never know what kind of day it's going to be!" Well, today happens to be an umbrella day. I need a large umbrella, but my heart desires a bright multi-colored rainbow to hover over me. And I want the rainbow now!

Do you recall the story of Noah? He built the boat, the animals came, it rained for days on end, and then God sent the rainbow. God spoke to Noah, "Whenever the rainbow appears in the clouds, I will see it and remember the everlasting covenant between God and all living creatures of every kind on the earth" (Genesis 9:16 NIV).

That promise gives me hope during the sundry storms of my life. The dishwasher floods the hardwood floors, the roof leaks, the kids catch the flu, my husband is laid-off, or I discover a lump. God's promise holds true in these types of storms as well as nature's downpours. Jesus promises, "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world" (John 16:33 NIV). He promises us peace through all the rough weather of life. His promise holds true because he has the power to fulfill the promise.

Let's look at a storm Christ's disciples went through in Matthew 8:

"Then he got in the boat, his disciples with him. The next thing they knew, they were in a severe storm. Waves were crashing into the boat - and he was sound asleep! They roused him, pleading, "Master, save us! We're going down!"

Jesus reprimanded them. "Why are you such cowards, such faint-hearts?" Then he stood up and told the wind to be silent, the sea to quiet down: "Silence!" The sea became smooth as glass. The men rubbed their eyes, astonished. "What's going on here? Wind and sea come to heel at his command!" (The Message)

Now here is what I love about Jesus. Not only did he calm a stormy sea, but also within the next few verses, he went on to heal two demon-possessed men and a paralytic. He is the Living Son of God who has the power to keep me safe and secure through any circumstantial tornado that rips through my life. He will guide me to a safe haven.

So, as the clouds continue to gather, I am going to find my umbrella. I am going outside to catch a glimpse of a multi-hued prism, the rainbow. Then I'll come inside and search for that feather boa. Because when the sunshine comes peeking through, I want to be ready for a new day.

My Prayer for Today:

Lord, help me to remember that regardless of life's storms you are my safe haven. Remind me that you have the power to calm the rough waters that occasionally flood my life. Lord, help me to see the multi-colored rainbows that you set in my life for encouragement. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Shelly Van B <jayandshel@msn.com>
Reno, NV - Thursday, July 28, 2005 10:58 AM CDT

Yes, I will pray.
tb
- Wednesday, July 27, 2005 2:17 PM CDT

Just wanted to check in and let you know we are thinking about you, hope all is well with the upcoming event.

Always in our prayers,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Wednesday, July 27, 2005 0:00 AM CDT

Hey- I just wanted to check in on you both and let you know that there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of hayley and lift a prayer up for you both. I am praying that you will SOON be blessed with another child.....and can't wait to hear the news! still missing Hayley....
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 26, 2005 5:03 PM CDT

My goodness!! Your girl is just SSOOOO SPECIAL! Everytime I visit her, it is so clear! I am having lots of "GOOD BABY thoughts for you today!!" Hoping, praying, and believing!! I can't wait to hear about Hayley's brothers and sisters.....by the truckload....yes, I just know it!!

This is really weird, but I am going to share anyway, hoping it will help you.... A few days after Hayley went to Heaven, I was looking at my ceiling in my bedroom before I fell asleep...PRAYING so hard for you both! Well, you know those swirls on the ceiling from the paint? I clearly saw a little girl on her knees praying. A little boy is kissing her head and another child is near him. I know REALLY weird!! It is kind of embarrassing even "saying" aloud, but I swear it is there... I look at it every night and think about Hayley and you and my own sweet children.....I just FEEL more babies are coming your way! Lots of love to you!
Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!!
- Monday, July 25, 2005 7:54 PM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan! Sending more baby dust your way! You guys are going to end up with twins or triplets at this rate!
I saw another rainbow Saturday. This one was huge! Hayley's a busy girl! Between painting rainbows and looking for the perfect baby brother or sister to send to her mommy and daddy!
Thinking of you often and adding prayers for a baby to my prayers for peace and comfort.
Here's a poem that I saw on another site that made me think of you. I thought it was perfect, especially when I read the last line!

Words from an Angel

I have not turned my back on you,
So there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from Heaven,
Just beyond the morning sky.
I've seen you almost fall apart,
When you could barely stand.
I asked the Lord to comfort you,
And watched him take your hand.
He told me you are in more pain,
Than I could ever be.
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard,
Then gave your hand to me.
Although you may not feel my touch,
Or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you,
While I wiped each tear you cried.
So please try not to ache for me,
We'll meet again one day.
Beyond the dark and stormy sky,
A rainbow lights the way.

Author Unknown

Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, July 25, 2005 11:58 AM CDT

My thoughts are with you on this journey. I think of Haley often.

Lots of *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*baby dust*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Amie
NC - Monday, July 25, 2005 10:47 AM CDT

You and your family are in our family's prayers. Your faith is inspiring. You have made an impact on our lives.
Teresa
MI - Monday, July 25, 2005 8:20 AM CDT

Please know that you and Alan are still in my prayers. Ya'll don't have to be "O.K." or "up" for anyone. You are (and have been)such an encouragement to me. Thanks so much for sharing your sweet Hayley with us, your love for her and your love for our God. Be kind to yourselves.
Kay <kayspage@knology.net>
Madison, AL - Sunday, July 24, 2005 8:44 PM CDT

I've visited your site so many times, captivated by Hayley's beautiful smile, but I've never signed.

I lost a child nearly 4 years ago (has it really been so long?) and I know your feeling of desperation, wanting to be a mommy again and yet the fear of it actually happening. I will continue to lift you up in prayer.

I wish I could say more to bring you comfort I just thought I'd let you know I'm sending you TRUCKLOADS of *BABYDUST* and I hope God hears and answers your prayers soon and Hayley will handpick her beautiful, healthy brother or sister and send him/her to you ASAP!!!

*HUGS*
Loryn (mom to angel Anna Faith, Lucas, and Juliana)
Loryn <loryn@thebagliones.com>
Columbia, MD - Sunday, July 24, 2005 6:31 PM CDT

Your little angel popped into my memory today. I came to your site and saw your prayers for a baby. That I will pray for too. Thank you again for sharing your story. She has touched me all the way up here in CT. My prayers are with you and your family.
Laurie <mamag@comcast.net>
Bristol, CT - Sunday, July 24, 2005 12:50 AM CDT

Thinking of you both and praying for a bundle of joy. You are such great parents, how could God not bless you with another child. I am sure Hayley will put in a word with him to send a brother or sister.
Tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Sunday, July 24, 2005 9:00 AM CDT

Dana, you will forever be a mommy. Your post brought me to tears. I have been following Haley since someone from Friends of Allie introduced her to me. I laughed at some of your posts and I cried after reading some of them. Youa nd Alan are special people and Haley is and will forever be one special little girl. I am absolutely positive that she is personally hand-picking your next bundle(s) of joy for you. Much love and babydust heading your way, Lisa
Lisa
Austin, TX - Friday, July 22, 2005 7:43 PM CDT

Dayna--there will never be the end to the "patience" that everyone who has ever visited this web site feels--for you --for Alan--for all these months it has been devastating to feel your pain in the words you write and yet it pales in comparison to the actual reality of your hearts--so please feel no obligation to sound "ok"--or "we're there"--the grieving process is just that--a process and though I am not a grief counselor I can bet that they would confer--we are all faithfully on the journey with you as prayer warriors--the only thing we can be---I so desparately wish that not one precious family have to endure this and quite honestly have to get on my knees to hear His gentle, quiet whisper "you are my beloved--I care so deeply about everything going on in their hearts"--and you are His Beloved---and so is your sweet Hayley in His awesome presence---so tonight I just pray for a peaceful rest for you and hope in tommorow--Tenderly--Andrea Jones

Andrea Jones <ajones20042@comcast.net>
Duluth, ga - Friday, July 22, 2005 7:32 PM CDT

Hayley has always been extra special to me...she reminds me so much of my Elizabeth (and the fact that Hayley also shares that name isn't lost on me!). I sincerely pray for another child to be added to the Thomson family...some people were MEANT to be parents and Dayna and Alan are those people! Having shared in the anticipation of Jenny and Andrew trying for another baby, I add EXTRA prayers that you too soon will be "surprised" by the good news of another Thomson baby!

And DITTO on the "you already are and ALWAYS will be parents!"

Love,

Jill Martin
Volunteer Coordinator
www.heroesforchildren.org <volunteer@heroesforchildren.org>
- Friday, July 22, 2005 7:31 PM CDT

You both have so much love, tenderness, and patience, I know in my heart that God will bless you with healthy brothers and sisters for Hayley. Then one day you can tell them all about Hayley, and tell them of her bravery and strength, and cuteness! :) I know it will happen, and we'll be praying for that day to come :)

Lots of love from our family to yours.

Corrie, Doug, Ruthie, Emma, and Jacob vanKampen--USCG <cavankampen@yahoo.com>
Rocky River, OH USA - Friday, July 22, 2005 11:43 AM CDT

(((Hugs))) I have followed Hayley's journey for quite some time. I cried with you on the day of her passing. I know that she is dancing with the angels. What a reunion you will someday have! Everyday I check hoping to see your joyful announcement of a new blessing on the way. We will continue to pray for your peace and the blessing of new little kitty chasing laughter to fill your home again!

Believing with you!
Your sister in Christ,
Amy Ehmann
Amy Ehmann <amyehmann@msn.com>
Thornton, CO USA - Friday, July 22, 2005 11:27 AM CDT

Dayna & Alan, I check in daily "looking" for good news! I have great faith that God will bless you two with another child to hold! I will continue to pray daily that your prayers be answered!!
Stephanie Deal <stephanie.deal@kcc.com>
Lawrenceville, GA - Friday, July 22, 2005 8:30 AM CDT

I have been hoping but didn't know you were trying. I will start praying for you now.I so want for you to have more children to love. Hang in there. Love, hugs and prayers from Texas.
Karen <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney,TX, - Friday, July 22, 2005 8:10 AM CDT

Hello Dayna and Alan,
I have followed Hayleys story since before her passing and have read your posts to date. I just wanted to let you know that I will be praying that the lord answers your prayers and fills your home with the children you so desire. As a parent who had a hard time conceiving, I know how difficult it is to be patient even though as a christian I knew that it was all in the lords time. I am now blessed with 4 beautiful children. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Treena <treenadanylo@hotmail.com>
Calgary, AB Canada - Thursday, July 21, 2005 11:02 PM CDT

I struggle with what to say, but I want you both to know I think of you often and pray that you will both be parents again soon! I'm praying for you! Thanks for the inspiration! You have such a way with words, and I so appreciate my children after reading your entries. Thanks!
Kristin <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
WI - Thursday, July 21, 2005 10:22 PM CDT

I think of you often and will continue to check your web site for news of a brother or sister for Hayley!

Mitchell continues to do well and has stayed on his original relapse protocol. Hopefully he will be done by the beginning of February.
Diane Marine <diane_marine@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:34 PM CDT

I hate to repeat what anyone else has said, but Dayna...you ARE a mommy! You and Alan are incredible parents. I have learned alot from ya'll and several other families on caringbridge.com. I continue to pray for healing hearts for both you and Alan, but now I will add to my prayers a (temporary-9 months) expanding belly! I mean temporary so you don't think I want you to be fat! HA HA! Anyway, I hope that you and Alan have a fabulous weekend and many prayers coming your way from Houston, TX.
Lindsay K.
Houston, TX - Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:06 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan ,I hope that you will get your"truck load " of babies SOON.My theory is that Miss Hayley is up there hand picking her little brothers & sisters.Only the best for her Mommy & Daddy.None of those spoiled rotten non veggie eating little urchins (kidding we know you are willing to even take those ones)for her Mommy!!!!
Sunshine <kssandman@hotmail.com>
claflin, KS - Thursday, July 21, 2005 8:56 PM CDT

You guys are such wonderful parents to sweet angel Hayley that i know she'll make sure you are blessed again with another little one to hold and love.I am adding you to my prayers for just that.
All of us at Cancer Warriors miss Hayley very much,
Love Theresa,
Executive Director
Cancer Warriors Angel Network
www.cancerwarriors.org
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Thursday, July 21, 2005 8:03 PM CDT

I just wanted you to know that I am still praying for you both. And remember Dayna, you are and always will be a mommy (and a wonderful mommy at that!)
Melinda~~Angels on Earth~~ <melinda_isaac@hotmail.com>
Tampa, FL - Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:24 PM CDT

Dayna
I wish I had some magic phrase that would make you feel better. Don't forget that Hayley is watching over you and I betcha she knows you'll be a mommy to more children. :)
I think of you and Alan so often. and Hayley of course. You remain in my prayers!!
Karen (FOA & Olivia's Grace)
Stow, OH - Thursday, July 21, 2005 6:55 PM CDT

Dayna and Allan - I don't post much anymore but you're never far from my thoughts and prayers. I've been watching a lot of Finding Nemo lately and feel like sometimes we need to remember to just "keep swimming". So hold on to each other and just keep swimming. You will forever remain faithfully in my prayers.
Rachel C. <lilcrazymamac@hotmail.com>
Bedford, TX - Thursday, July 21, 2005 6:22 PM CDT

Praying that your Hayley has another person in the family soon to watch over from heaven.
Suzanne/Olivia's Grace
Dallas, TX - Thursday, July 21, 2005 5:40 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
Thanks for the update, I still think about you guys and your beautiful Hayley almost daily. Dayna, I know that you already know this, but you are still and always will be a mom. I can't wait for the day when I will be able to read on your site that you'll soon have a new baby to hold and love, and teach about his/her brave big sister.
God Bless
Aly <afoussat@gmail.com>
Provo, UT - Thursday, July 21, 2005 5:08 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan - I have followed your story for a long time, and I just wanted to send you my warmest and deepest prayers after reading your most recent posting!! I can't even begin to imagine the pain of living without Hayley - but I hope that knowing how much SO many strangers around the country (and probably around the world!) are praying for and pulling for you both brings you some comfort!!! I will pray every day that you are blessed VERY SOON with a beautiful sibling for sweet Hayley! I KNOW it will happen - and when it does, I'll be among the first to smile and cry happy tears!!!!! Hang in there - you have alot of prayers coming from NY from me and my family!!
Barri
N. Bellmore, NY USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 4:33 PM CDT

Thinking of you. May your sweet memories of your beautiful Hayley warm your heart during the tough times

Kim (Friends of Allie / Angels on Earth / Oliva's Grace <friendsofalliememphis@yahoo.com >
Memphis, tn - Thursday, July 21, 2005 3:53 PM CDT

Hugs, Kisses and Happy thoughts to you and your family
Jennifer <jcorbitt123@yahoo.com>
Nashville, TN US - Thursday, July 21, 2005 3:37 PM CDT

Dear Dayna,

You WILL be a mommy forever. Nothing or nobody could ever take that away from you. I know you understand that. As for having another child...in my heart, I know that it will happen. I know that it seems like it takes an eternity when you want it so badly. Just hang on...

Love,
Debbie
Debbie Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
New York, N.Y. - Thursday, July 21, 2005 3:28 PM CDT

as one that is eight months and three days into the journey, my heart knows and screams with yours. i am sorry for hayley, for olivia, for you, for me.........
angel olivia's mother, wendy groups.msn.com/oliviasgrace www.caringbridge.org/mi/oliviasgrace <wethomps@aol.com>
shelby, mi - Thursday, July 21, 2005 2:20 PM CDT

Debbie Fields Murphy, NC Tuberous Sclerosis Assn. (Olivia's Grace http://groups.msn.com/OliviasGrace) http://www3.caringbridge.org/nc/catherine_nicole/ Tuberous Sclerosis Chat Room: http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/debbifmurphy/ <TuberousSclerosis@earthlink.net>
Snow Hill, NC USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 2:07 PM CDT

Big ((((HUGS)))) for you guys, Dayna. I think of Hayley often. Such a beautiful little girl! I just know she will have lots of wonderful, healthy brothers and sisters! I will be thinking positive thoughts and sending baby dust your way.
Ginny Deegan *FOA* <jgdeegan@msn.com>
Mtn. Home AFB, ID USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 1:56 PM CDT

Please know that you are always in my thoughts. I hope that one day you can share happy news with us as well. In the meantime, I will continue to keep you in my thoughts that you find some peace.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 1:54 PM CDT

Praying that your baby wishes come true! You always will be a mommy to Hayley, though.

Amy
- Thursday, July 21, 2005 1:51 PM CDT

Dayna,
Still pray for you and think of you and your family.
I will never see a rainbow again that I don't think of those bouncy little curls!
Just wanted to remind you people from all over, whom you've never met, still keep your family close to their hearts.
Kelley Edler
flower mound, TX USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 1:35 PM CDT

Continuing to pray for you.
Ashley Hast <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Thursday, July 21, 2005 1:24 PM CDT

I just wanted to share something with you all. A friend of mine lost her 10-year-old son to leukemia in in the late 80's. Just after she lost him, she became pregnant and was so excited.....not to try to erase the memory of her son, but she did want more kids. She soon had a miscarriage. Almost a year later, she suffered another miscarriage. A year or so later when she really wasn't even trying anymore, she became pregnant and gave birth to a very healthy little boy who is now 16 years old. About 2 years later she gave birth to a healthy little girl. These two children are still healthy and are the apples of her eye. They know so much about their big brother that they never got to meet. His memory still lives on very much with the entire family. I guess what I'm getting to is that as we know but sometimes forget.....it's all going to work but in His time! We just have to be patient.

I pray that the golf tournament will be a HUGE success! Take care!

P.S. Check out FLorida-Jacob's site if you haven't already, it's an awesome story but what I really want you to see is the pix of Jacob fishing w/ a rainbow in the background just last week. When I saw this, I thought of you guys. How aweseome!
Tammy Hulsey <tammy42@netzero.net>
Gainesville, GA USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 1:24 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan,
I still check in on you two often and think about Hayleybaby all the time. I'm sure that Hayley is helping God pick the best little brother or sister for you both. I hope they send the little bundle to you guys soon, but please know that you are and always will be a Mommy. You guys were the best Mommy and Daddy to Hayley! Hayley knew nothing but love because of the both of you. Strangers like myself feel head over heals in love with your daughter. So she not only knew the love of family and friends, but the love of many strangers.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for lettng us be there for you and Hayley. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her and smile.

Hayleybaby ~*~ Butterfly kisses to heaven ~*~ I miss you sweet girl. Have a wonderful time painting the sky and making rainbows, sweet baby!

Love and prayers!
Amy <amynjake01@aol.com>
PA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 12:07 AM CDT

praying for healthy babies....keep the faith...

God bless
Ozzie <ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Thursday, July 21, 2005 12:05 AM CDT

Many happy thoughts to you. I pray that you are blessed again with another wonderful child. And know that you are always a Mom. Much happiness to you both in the future.
Kari (Angels On Earth) <zfamily00@hotmail.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Thursday, July 21, 2005 12:02 AM CDT

I too log onto your site each day when I get to work. Somehow Hayley's sweet smile helps to remind me of what is truely important in life. And that helps me to be thankful. I include you in our family's prayers each night and will continue to do so. Take good care of one another!
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 10:45 AM CDT

I continue, each and every day, to log onto Hayley's site for just a little glimpse of that sweet face. There's something about that face that always brings a smile to my own. I pray for you each time and will now change my prayers to more specific ones for Hayley's brother or sister.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:50 AM CDT

I am sorry that you heart is so heavy. I hope that you get those healthy babies you so want. You are in my thoughts!
Sara and ~Emily~ <waffle13@sbcglobal.net>
Angels on Earth, - Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:44 AM CDT

Praying for healthy brothers and sisters by the truck full for you (or at least the car full)! I will think of your Hayley next time I see a rainbow.
Kris - Angels on Earth
Davenport, IA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:40 AM CDT

Sending you truck loads of baby dust!!!! Pink and Blue!!!! Watch out you may just have 8 with all the baby dust coming your way. hehe. Know that I am thinking of you and praying for you.

Mandy (Angels on Earth)
Amanda Bauer (mamatooryan)
- Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:39 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I pray every day for God to send another baby (or two- a double blessing, if He sees fit) to you to fill your home with joy and laughter again. I believe He will bless you abundantly above all you could ever ask or imagine.
"No good thing does He withold to him whose walk is blameless."
God bless you both!

Kellie Holcomb <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, July 21, 2005 9:35 AM CDT

I do pray that you will be blessed with another child soon! Very soon!
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 8:06 AM CDT

"It" will happen....when the time is right. My prayers for some time has been for God to send you another child. You are such wonderful parents and I know that He knows that too and will give you that gift. We lost our second child before he was born...I too thought "it" will not happen for me again. My "healing" came with the birth of Davis on July 2, 2001....he really is my angel here on earth. I counted my blessing and said..."we are done". God had other plans for us....Matthew was born St. Patrick's Day 2004...my post cancer miracle! I have 4 children...3 here and one sweet angel in heaven who without his passing I wouldn't have Davis!
Sally Yost <sally_pete@msn.com>
Woodstock, GA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 8:05 AM CDT

You are such a wonderful mother to Hayley and Alan is such a wonderful father to Hayley, I can't imagine the Lord not sending more children your way.

So many times in conversations with my children I will say, well, that was before you were born. My middle daughter would always say...where was I? My answer was always, you were in Heaven waiting for the right time to come be my angel on Earth. Now she often says, oh, that was when I was playing in Heaven right?

My vision of what's happening right now is that Hayley is helping to pick the perfect angel to come to you. My thoughts are that she's also going to play with her new sibling in Heaven before she gives God the thumbs up to send him/her to you.

Praying for rainbows.....
The Dolbin Family (one of the many on Hayley's prayer team)
- Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:52 AM CDT

Thinking of you guys and Hayley always. All the best to you in the future, and I hope that you have a house full of children, you are great parents.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:45 AM CDT

You guys are continually in my prayers. I can't say that I can even somewhat comprehend your pain, because I have never experienced all that you are going through, but my heart goes out to you each time I see that sweet face at the top of my screen. I know that God will bless you with more children. I too will pray that God will grant you this. We are still here and will continue to be for you:)
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:44 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I still think about you guys often. I was looking at Jennifer Corbin's site(caringbridge.org/ga/jennifercorbin) and the opening picture of the rainbow made me think of Hayley. The July 15th journal entry on Jennifer's site correlates with that picture and is worth reading. It really restored my faith that the one's we have lost are really here with us, just in a defferent realm. I truly believe that God will bless you with another child, Dayna. I'm sure he is just waiting for the perfect time. He holds the future, just keep believing. Much love to you both.
Amy Finkler <amyfinkler@alltel.net>
Bonaire, GA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:30 AM CDT

I pray that God will fulfill your lives with a sibling for Haley. I know that he answers my baby request prayers. My husband and I had been married for 15 years when I decided to pray for a baby. One month later I found that I was expecting. Please know that I follow your site and pray daily for you. Everytime I see a rainbow I cannot help but to think of your precious angel Haley.
Theresa Porter <davisgray2001@yahoo.com>
Chocowinity, NC USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 7:23 AM CDT

I, too, struggle with what to write in your guestbook at times. I want to sign so that you know you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Tonight, just for you, I will pray especially for God to send you another baby to love. Bless your sweet sweet hearts.
Lauren Pena
CA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 0:40 AM CDT

It is so nice to hear from you. I check Hayleys site daily, just to see her adorable face and I am always moved by your posts. Prayers continue for you both. Our Father knows what loving, faithful and grateful parents you are...He will bless you with more babies. Prayers for sooner than later :)

Hugs,
Stacie
Stacie Lynch <stacielynch2@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, co USA - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 9:08 PM CDT

Thanks for updating and sharing your heart. No one expects anything from you here. We're all aching with you and care about you. It helps to know how to pray for you. I'll be praying that your arms won't be empty for long. Our hearts are all full of Hayley.
Amy Kate
- Wednesday, July 20, 2005 8:19 PM CDT

Hey....I just wanted you to know that there is still not a day that goes by that I don't think of your sweet Hayley. It may be a song I hear, something I see, or I'll be in the middle of doing something and I'll think of how Hayley changed the smallest of ways that I live that have impacted my life the most. I pray for you each morning and still wish that there was something to take away your pain. I know "life goes on", but we just want you to know that with some of us it "goes on" in such a different way after "knowing" Hayley. We cared about her so much. I am believing that God is covering you with his peace and comfort each day....that's what I pray.
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 20, 2005 4:44 PM CDT

I never knew your darling daughter but thru some friends of mine came to know of Hayley. she really touched me in many ways. I was reminded of this when my husband and I were flying home from the islands, a beautiful rainbow appeared and your daughter popped into my head immediately as I remembered her love of rainbows. She continues to touch many lives.
You all remain in my prayers.

Cindie
Marietta, GA - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 3:37 PM CDT

I saw the most beautiful rainbow Monday evening and could not help but think of your dear sweet Hayley.
The Hardin's <hardinrt@bellsouth.net>
Covington, GA USA - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 10:28 AM CDT

Good morning, Dayna and Allan. Just thinking of you and hoping you have a good day.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 7:17 AM CDT

Hope you are doing okay today, just wanted you to know I was thinking about you and praying for you.

Love,
Katie
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Tuesday, July 19, 2005 11:31 PM CDT

Hello-
I have not signed in often (if ever - I can't remember), but I have been following for quite some time. I just wanted to let you know that I will be having a luminary at the McLeod Co Relay for Life in Hutchinson, MN. I just wanted to let you know that your beautiful Hayley has just pulled at my heartstrings. I will be sure to have my girls decorate it with beautiful rainbows. She won't ever be forgotten. I thought this was the least I could do in memory of her.

Always in my thoughts and prayers.
Becky L. Harbarth <peanutpie3879@netscape.net>
Gaylord, MN USA - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 12:47 AM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan! Just thinking of you and your beautiful girl!
As a previous signer said, Hayley has been busy! She smiled down on South Bend with one of her gorgeous rainbows the other day!
Take care! I hope all is well. You guys are never far from my thoughts!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 10:25 AM CDT

As I drove home last night I saw the most beautiful rainbow amidst the gray clouds...and instantly thought of your beautiful Angel. I will never see a rainbow again without thinking of Hayley and saying a prayer for your family.
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta <skc1962@gmail.com>
Suwanee, GA - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 8:56 AM CDT

I'm always checking in and decided it was about time that I said "Hello" as well! Dayna and Alan, you and your Hayley are always close in my thoughts and prayers. Thanks for letting all of us stay in touch with you.
Robin <bander23@bellsouth.net>
Suwanee, GA - Monday, July 18, 2005 10:26 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know you're being thought of and prayed for tonight. Hayley is never far from my thoughts.
Julie Peacock <jlpeacock_3@yahoo.com>
MO - Sunday, July 17, 2005 8:56 PM CDT

Stopping by to see your beautiful girl tonight....I think of her all the time...Sunday nights especially. I look at her sweet pictures w/ tears and smiles all at once..so happy to see her, so wishing she was still in your arms! My dd is 22 months and looks so much like her...Gymbo outfits and all! Hayley will never ever be forgotten! She is a HUGE part of my life! I Love your little girl and pray with ALL my heart for your happiness.
a mommy from MA <klgrace@comcast.net>
- Sunday, July 17, 2005 8:30 PM CDT

What a beautiful legacy Hayley has left to us...everyone who knows her or her story is blessed by her each time they see a rainbow! We think of you both often and pray for you.
Corrie, Doug, Ruthie, Emma, and Jacob vanKampen--USCG <cavankampen@yahoo.com>
Rocky River, OH USA - Sunday, July 17, 2005 4:24 PM CDT

My family spotted a beautiful double rainbow in Dallas, Texas last night as we arrived at a wedding. I couldn't help but think of Hayley. What a beautiful memory she painted for the bride - the bride was THRILLED that her guests arrived at the church with the beautiful double rainbow as the backdrop. Thank you, Hayley! Remembering you both in our prayers daily.
Rhonda Franks
Rockwall, TX - Saturday, July 16, 2005 9:54 PM CDT

According to that last guestbook entry, Hayley's been quite busy as I was logging on to say that she had painted a beautiful rainbow over the skies near my home in Franklin, TN (just south of Nashville). I couldn't help but smile and picture her there with my father-in-law (who we lost suddenly in January) cheering her on.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Saturday, July 16, 2005 6:32 PM CDT

A rainbow was over the Nashville sky tonight. Guess who I thought of?! Thoughts of Hayley always make me smile. Prayers for you both.
Nancy <nall3860@aol.com>
- Friday, July 15, 2005 10:24 PM CDT

Just a reminder that I check Hayley's Corner each evening and say a prayer for her dear parents.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC - Friday, July 15, 2005 5:58 PM CDT

I was just thinking of your beautiful little rainbow painter and wanted to say "hi".
I hope that all is going well. Take care!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, July 15, 2005 1:44 PM CDT

You are in my thoughts and prayers today. I pray that God continues to give you the strength you need each and every day.
Tabetha
Woodstock , ga - Friday, July 15, 2005 8:29 AM CDT

Thinking of you today as I picked up some pics. from CVS. Awhile back we saw a double rainbow as we were driving down the road and thankfully I had my camera. I immediately thought of sweet Hayley. I pray for you all often.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Thursday, July 14, 2005 1:22 PM CDT

Hayley was such a doll baby! Not a care in this world, regardless of all the medical tests she endured. Wish we all had faith like Hayley.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Thursday, July 14, 2005 9:10 AM CDT

Thank you for the beautiful pictures of Hayley. It is hard for me to believe that she is gone - her smile is so beautiful. I can't imagine what you go through day-to-day. I want you to know that I still think about you often and keep you all in my prayers. I wish you much success with your upcoming golf tournament - they are so much fun to plan.
Love, Terri
Terri Weiler <tweiler81@yahoo.com>
Cordova, TN USA - Thursday, July 14, 2005 8:17 AM CDT

Thank you so much for sharing some of your pictures of Hayley,i love seeing her smily face and she looks like she's having a ball in these .. My heart,thoughts and prayers are with you always as you go through your days without her ..
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 9:54 PM CDT

Hey....I just wanted to let you know that I continue to think of you both each day and know how "out of place" you still feel without your precious Hayley by your side. Although the days pass, I know that the heartbreak doesn't go away. I pray for you each day....that somehow you can find "new" joy. I love looking at pictures of Hayley. For those of us who didn't "know" her for very long, we LOVE to get to know her and remember who she was. She has such a presence about her that once you know Hayley, you just can't forget her! What a joy she must have been! I hate the hurt that I know you two feel....but how thankful I am that you have faith to continue on this journey. What a wonderful thought of you joining your daughter one day and NEVER having to say goodbye again! Thank you, again, for continuing to share with us and teaching us through your journey. I am praying that the tournament will be a HUGE success. My husband is getting a team together to honor one of the dearest little girls I've known.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 5:14 PM CDT

I just wanted to stop by and let you know that I am thinking of you. I may not sign the guestbook all the time but I do stop by several times a week to check and see if anything new is going on with you all. I hope that the golf tournament is a HUGE success. And the pictures - how beautiful. What I have noticed in all her pictures is that she always has the biggest smile and she always looks like such a little lady. I get so teary-eyed whenever I see her pictures. She totally should be here. So unfair. I look in on a lot of children every week but only a few that have affected me the way that Hayley has. The world certainly has a loss now that she isn't here.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 3:11 PM CDT

Hayley:
Walked outside yesterday here in Houtson and right behind my house with a rainbow. I immediately thought of you. I even looked to see if I could see you...I know that might sound weird but I'm being honest. The pictures of you last 4th of July are so sweet, Thanks Mommie and Daddy for sharing
Tisha Robbins <tisha.robbins@vertrue.com>
Houston, tx - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 1:51 PM CDT

I heard a song this morning that always reminds me of Hayley. Hope you guys are doing well.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 7:27 AM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan,
The pictures of last July are so sweet. Good luck with the tournament in the fall. Please let us know if there's anything we can do to help out.
Tabitha, Ben, Anna and Gwen Mason; www.caringbridge.org/ga/gwenmason <masonbx@comcast.net>
Marietta, GA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 2:54 PM CDT

Hello Sweet Haley !

I'm still around and checking the site Mommie and Daddy update for all us "strangers" who followed your story.
Big smile from Houston, Texas.

Love your pictures!! Love that smile....
Tisha Robbins <tisha.robbins@vertrue.com>
Richmond, Tx usa - Monday, July 11, 2005 9:53 PM CDT

Hi Dayna! Love the pics! I especially love the two in the top right corner!
Best of luck with the tournament! I really like the idea of having a different child featured at each hole!

Take care! Always thinking of you and your sweet Hayley.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, July 11, 2005 1:33 PM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan,

What a remarkable thing you are doing! I would be more than thrilled to send you an out-of-town donation in Hayley's name. Yesterday, July 9, my 43rd birthday, my grandmother passed away. And so in honor of Hayley, and in memory of my grammy, I will defiantely participate in your fundraiser.

May it be extremely successful!

Love,
Deb
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Monday, July 11, 2005 1:50 AM CDT

I love the photo's of Hayley in her 4th of July outfit. She reminds me so much of my little girl (she has the same hat) Wish they could have played together, they will someday on a perfect playground.

Always thinkging about her and send my prayers to you.

Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, - Monday, July 11, 2005 0:22 AM CDT

WoW! What a great golf tournament that will be! Ali's little brother would love to play...but Georgia is too far from California for a 13 year old...so we will have to have our own match here between Ali's dad and brother and send a donation to your tournament!

XXOO, Marey and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Friday, July 8, 2005 10:20 PM CDT

Thinking about Hayley this rainy day in New England...praying especially hard for her mommy and daddy...looking for one of "Hayley's rainbows"!
a mommy from MA <klgrace@comcast.net>
- Friday, July 8, 2005 9:10 PM CDT

As I try to put together sponsorship materials for our fundraiser for LLS Light the Night Walk, I just can't stop looking at your beautiful little girl with the impish grin. She has the be the most angelic of all the Heavenly Angels! What an honor it will be to include Hayley's name on our Angels in Atlanta/Friends of Allie banner this year. I pray for you every day and hope you continue to find the strength you need to face each morning. May God keep you both wrapped in His loving arms.
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta <skc1962@gmail.com>
Suwanee, GA - Friday, July 8, 2005 9:03 PM CDT

I saw a rainbow today and thought of your little girl. I think of you often and keep you in my prayers. Best of luck in planning the golf outing! What an honor to your sweet Hayley!
Alison
- Thursday, July 7, 2005 7:55 PM CDT

Just a note to say God Bless. I think of you often.
Sandy Gay <sandrabrunergay@hotmail.com>
Edison, GA - Thursday, July 7, 2005 3:02 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
The 4th of July pictures are too cute! And I love the one on the golf tournament website - Priceless! She is so very beautiful! Best wishes for a wonderful tournament day! I pray that this day will provide a warm remembrance of Miss Hayley, an increase in the knowledge of childhood cancer and great donation for the cause! May God bless you and may he provide glimpes of Hayley at every turn as you continue this planning process. This is such a wonderful thing to do in her honor!
Friends in Christ,
Leslie Ellenburg
Leslie - Mom to Jared and Katie <leslieellenburg@wmconnect.com>
Greeneville, TN - Thursday, July 7, 2005 12:13 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan, those photo's are priceless. Sweet Hayley is smiling in every one of them - bless her. Thank you for sharing. She really is a very special Angel and I think of her and you both often. xx

Yvonne "Friends of Allie" <yvonne.nicholson@xtra.co.nz>
Auckland, New Zealand - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 11:06 PM CDT

Still checking on you! Thank you for sharing the pictures of your always-beautiful daughter and sharing the bittersweet story of last July 4th. My heart still breaks for you over the loss of your sweet Hayley. Although I only knew of her through your updates, she touched my heart deeply!

Your golf tournament sounds so well-organized! I have a strong feeling it will be a successful fundraiser and a wonderful tribute to Hayley and the families represented at each hole.

Our prayers continue to be with you,
Jenn B. and family *Friends of Allie* <pr@friendsofallie.org>
Fresno, CA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 8:03 PM CDT

Thank you for sharing those photos! Gosh, I still am at a loss as to what to say to you. Nothing seems right.
I will say that you are amazing, and I will always pray for Hayley and your family.
Again, I LOVE those photos!!
God Bless You.
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Encia
New Brighton, MN - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 7:42 PM CDT

I love those pictures. I'm still tuned in and praying for you. I'm so proud of you with the work you are doing with this golf tournament! I'm getting the word out to my golfing friends (and my golfing husband) and I hope that my husband and some other friends can be part of the tournament and ultimately the cure for childhood cancer! Take care and if there are little things you need help with on the tournament, please let me know and I'll be glad to help if I can!
Carol Jackovich <colton_c@bellsouth.net>
Atlanta, GA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 7:18 PM CDT

Continuing to pray for you each and every day.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 6:54 PM CDT

Just thinking of you guys. What cute pictures!!!
Joy Rowan (Bill and Kevan's daughter)
Columbia, MD USA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 6:28 PM CDT

What a cutie! Those are great pictures. We're thinking about you and Alan as the anniversary of her relapse approaches.

Take care,
Natalie (www.maxeyweb.com/madeline.htm) <natalie@maxeyweb.com>
Marietta, GA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 4:11 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan, what beautiful 4th of July pictures, thanks so much for sharing, like the others, they brought on the tears, still praying for you both here in Texas!
Tammy DeBlaay ("Friends of Allie") <tammydeblaay@hotmail.com>
Fort Worth, Texas USA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 3:43 PM CDT

Thank you so much for sharing your sweet Haley with the world. My thoughts and prayers are never far from you, I check the site often. I love the pics you posted! So so precious. I'll be praying the golf benefit is a huge success and raises much money and awareness!
Jennifer
- Wednesday, July 6, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

Wow those photos bring on so many emotions. Tears and smiling all in one. Hayley is just beautiful. Thank you for sharing. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer
- Wednesday, July 6, 2005 10:22 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan:

The pictures of Hayley are such a breath of fresh air. I love seeing her smiling face. I am so sorry that each holiday brings a new challenge to you ... and I just pray that you will continue to find love and peace within yourselves. I still miss Hayley terribly myself...and I can't even begin to imagine how you both feel.
Rachael Soto <rsoto@nmrs.com>
Goose Creek, SC USA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 10:16 AM CDT

Thank you so much for sharing the beautiful pictures of Hayley. I am spreading the word about the golf tournament. I know it will be a huge success!

Sincerely,

Larissa Farley
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 9:53 AM CDT

Sending prayers your way and wishing you much success on the golf tournament.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 8:39 AM CDT

Always always thinking about Hayley and praying for you all.

Much Love & Many Prayers
Katie
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Tuesday, July 5, 2005 11:32 PM CDT

Oh Look At that lil girl! :) How adorable!!! Seeing her picture made me smile and cry! I can't imagine what life must be without her. I miss her and didnt know her!!! I hope things get "easier" for you! Just remember the happy times!

Much Love to you both!
Angel Dawn <dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Tuesday, July 5, 2005 10:28 PM CDT

Always touched. Always challenged. Always praying. I continue to pray for you and want you to know that, because of sweet Hayley and others like her who I've come to know in the last year or so, I am strongly burdened for what God would have me do to help find a cure for childhood cancer. I'm praying for His direction.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Tuesday, July 5, 2005 10:06 PM CDT

We couldn't say enough how deeply saddend we are for you. We continue to pray for your strength. This fourth of July we thought of Hayley. Homesick came on the radio which always makes me stop to think of Hayley. I never said anything to anyone when I heard the song. Later on that day I walked up on my nine year old telling her friend about Hayley and how she wants to make bracelets to sell to help kids with cancer because of Hayley. She has Hayley's picture taped on her wall above her cross and she said to her friend, "have you ever seen her picture on my wall? I want to help kids like her." Wishing you sweet dreams of Hayley.

Hayley's prayer friends in Ohio
- Tuesday, July 5, 2005 9:36 PM CDT

I thought of you a lot yesterday. I remembered reading that Hayley had a great day last year playing w/ the other kids. I thought about her and you both all day! The 4th of July will always make me think of your little girl. (actually there are sooooo many things that make me think of Hayley!!) Again, I am sending a ton of good thoughts, big hugs, and my prayers to you....hoping you willbe able to find some joy and happiness in each day.
Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!!
- Tuesday, July 5, 2005 8:30 PM CDT

Just letting you know you are still thought of and included in our family prayers daily. Take care of one another!

Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL usa - Tuesday, July 5, 2005 2:34 PM CDT

Hope you had a great 4th. Know that I am thinking of you.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer
- Tuesday, July 5, 2005 9:54 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan -
Just checking in and wondering how you both are doing.
You are often in my thoughts and prayers. I think of Hayley everytime I see a sunset, among other times.
Take care!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Tuesday, July 5, 2005 9:10 AM CDT

I'm just missing an update from your family and wanted to say hi and Happy 4th of July! Hope all is well with you guys. I think of you so often and check in here every day!
Lauren Pena
CA - Monday, July 4, 2005 11:42 PM CDT

I wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers always. I check you site often to hear how you two are doing and my heart goes out to you and your family.
Tabetha <born123@msn.com>
Woodstock , ga - Monday, July 4, 2005 10:58 PM CDT

Thinking of you on this holiday weekend. Praying for you each day. Knowing that each day without sweet Hayley on earth is one day closer to being with her in Heaven. I know she'll have a front row seat for tonight's beautiful fireworks.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Monday, July 4, 2005 10:01 AM CDT

Dear Alan and Dayna,

I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you both. I don't always sign in the guestbook, but I do check in often to see if ya'll have posted any updates. I hope that you two are doing well. It's so hard to write because I just don't know what to say. I don't want to say "I understand..." because I don't. I don't want to say "I know you must miss Hayley." DUH. I guess I just want to say something that will comfort you...even if it's just for a moment. Know that I think of your precious Hayley...especially when I see a rainbow. Take care of each other.

Sincerely,
Lindsay K.
Houston, TX - Sunday, July 3, 2005 11:59 PM CDT

still praying for you both.....and missing Hayley
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Sunday, July 3, 2005 9:28 PM CDT

Everytime I see a rainbow, your Hayley comes to my mind. What a beautiful little girl she was. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Big Hugs to both of you- from my Hailey!
Kellie (Hailey's Aunt) <KellieL20@aol.com>
Crown Point, IN USA - Sunday, July 3, 2005 1:12 PM CDT

Just wanted you to know that you are being prayed for.
Shelly Van B... <jayandshel@msn.com>
reno , nv - Sunday, July 3, 2005 0:22 AM CDT

I just stopped in, and although you posted weeks ago, it was my first time reading it. Like Nebraska I have no words to ease you, however your words and your wife's always seem to ease me. You are both an inspiration.
My prayers and thoughts are always with you.
Renee <rforte0531@sbcglobal.net>
CT - Saturday, July 2, 2005 8:33 PM CDT

Everytime I start to write something I keep deleting and editing...there just aren't words. I don't have any comforting or enlightening things to say...just want you both to know that I continue to think and pray for you often.
Someone who cares in Nebraska
- Saturday, July 2, 2005 1:15 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,

i was sitting here just now and just thinking about Hayley and how much i miss seeing new pictures of that perfect smile,chubby round cheeks and beautiful glow she radiated in every picture ... it made me smile.
I then felt the need to let you know i was thinking of her and that i miss her very much,you are both also in my thoughts often.
All my love and prayers,
Theresa.
Executive Director
Cancer Warriors Angel Network
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Friday, July 1, 2005 7:51 PM CDT

Sending prayers from Ohio. Thinking of you.
Prayer friends in Ohio
- Friday, July 1, 2005 10:42 AM CDT

I continue to check Hayley's site daily and lift you in prayer each and every time I see that beautiful picture come into view. Here's hoping you have a beautiful long holiday weekend.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Friday, July 1, 2005 10:31 AM CDT

May the God of all comfort refresh your spirits today.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC - Thursday, June 30, 2005 8:29 PM CDT

I just wanted to let you know that I will be walking in honor of three beautiful little girls(Hayley being one of them) at this year's LTN, September 16, in Kansas, at Corporate Woods. Hayley has touched my life like you will never know. I have formed my own team and have strongly encouraged those who are walking with me to come to Caring Bridge and get to know some of these kids before we walk. I just wanted you to know that your little girl is still making a difference and you are always in my prayers.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Thursday, June 30, 2005 2:48 PM CDT

Just sending sunshine and more prayers your way today!
Chris Jacobson <christinejacobson48@msn.com>
cumming, ga usa - Thursday, June 30, 2005 2:29 PM CDT

Stopping by to let you all know that I am thinking of you today. I opened your page, as I do everyday, and Hayley just made me smile and erased the bad day I was having. She is such a beautiful angel! Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mandy (Angel's on Earth)
Amanda Bauer
- Thursday, June 30, 2005 2:06 PM CDT

Hello,

I come to your site often to look for new entries and to see Hayley's pretty face. We've never met, but I pray for your family regularly and think of you often.

Your daughter is a beautiful little girl and an inspiration to so many.

Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you.
Deanne
Deanne S. <mscherm2@nycap.rr.com>
Cohoes, Ny 12047 - Thursday, June 30, 2005 11:23 AM CDT

Dayna,
It was so great to spend time with you today. I hope we have many more less eventful lunches in the near future :)

Love you tons,
Jen (Campjack: www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)

P.S. Now knowing what a tennis stud you are, I'm so glad you spared me the net! Now eating? Girlfriend, I WILL TAKE YOU DOWN! Don't even mess with me. Let's just hope next time I get the chance to prove it!
Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, ga - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 10:41 PM CDT

Thinking of you guys and your precious Hayley today. I come by often to see her beautiful pictures. Thank you so much for allowing me to be even a small part of this special little girl's life. Know that I will never forget her or you guys!
Michelle Fowler ~Angels in Atlanta~ <mfowler777@msn.com>
Stockbridge, GA - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 9:04 PM CDT

I haven't posted before, but have followed your story for the past seven months. I just wanted to write tonight to tell you that EVERY time your page loads, regardless of my mood or type of day I'm having, that picture of Hayley makes me smile. What a beautiful angel.
NS <Nsampson17@hotmail.com>
Nova Scotia Canada - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 9:00 PM CDT

Thinking of beautiful Hayley today. How can a complete stranger miss a little girl they've never even met? How much more can her parents possibly miss her? I'm praying that your hearts will be comforted today and that you will feel God's peace in your lives. God bless you.
Sonja <mom2joel@yahoo.com>
Trenton, IL - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 10:54 AM CDT

Thinking about and praying for you each and every day! Take care!

Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 4:20 PM CDT

Hi-

Just wanted you all to know that we were thinking about you all. We miss you all and hope to see you all soon.

Love, The Libby's
Shawn, Kenny, Brooke, Mckinley & Woods Libby <Shawn@summitsupplies.com WWW.caringbridge/ga/mckinley>
Alpharetta, GA usa - Monday, June 27, 2005 9:01 PM CDT

Always thinking and praying for you.

Many Prayers
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Monday, June 27, 2005 3:59 PM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan,

I just needed to stop by and see Hayley's sweet face. Please know that you are all very close to my thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Debbie
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Saturday, June 25, 2005 8:12 PM CDT

Reading your site and seeing Hayley's picture always reminds me of how incomprehensible God's plans are to us. None of us who "visit" would ever choose this hard road for you, but many of us cling to His promises that His love never fails. One day we will see it all so clearly and rejoice the way Hayley is rejoicing right now.
Karen LaBarr
Alpharetta, GA - Saturday, June 25, 2005 8:11 PM CDT

Dear Dana and Alan--WOW--I read Alan's words posted in honor of Father's Day and realized what an incredible gift He has given both of you in the form of each other--I can only imagine the toll the last year has taken on you and what an incredible testimony to see how strong and faithful your love is not only for Jesus but also for each other. You continue to touch people and Hayley continues to minister to so many--I can truly see Gods hand in all of you--take good care of each other--Blessings--Andrea Jones
Andrea Jones <ajones20042@comcast.net>
Duluth, Ga Fulton - Saturday, June 25, 2005 6:38 PM CDT

Oh sweet Hayley, what a beautiful face,
Burned in my memory, time will not erase,
How you touched my heart though we never met,
Forever in my thoughts, I will never forget.
I love you sweet girl!

Amy Finkler <amyfinkler@cox.net>
Bonaire, GA - Saturday, June 25, 2005 6:26 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
You guys were on my mind this morning, so I wanted to stop by the website and let you know that I prayed for you. I'm sure you don't remember me, but I'm a friend of Derek Jett & his family, and I was treated at Egleston 10 years ago when I had NHL. I wish we could know why some make it, while others do not. I wish we could see the big picture while we're still here on earth, but I guess we're just too close to the situation. I can certainly relate to the experience of going through cancer, but I cannot even begin to imagine the rollercoaster ride you've been on for the past 6 months. But know that you are still being prayed for around the corner in Sugar Hill, and around the world, too.

God is bigger than anything that we face in this world, and that same big God is holding little Hayley for you in His loving arms, until you are one day reunited.

In Him,
Jennifer Dove
Jennifer Dove <janedove75@yahoo.com>
Sugar Hill, GA - Friday, June 24, 2005 9:17 AM CDT

Dear Alan and Dayna, I just read Alan's Father's Day entry and am thinking of you this morning. Praying for God's grace and encouragement to supply your every need day by day, moment by moment.
Stanton Lanier and family
Marietta, GA USA - Friday, June 24, 2005 8:58 AM CDT

I just wanted to drop a note to let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers. I always look forward to reading your words of encouragement and wisdom. You both are beautiful people inside and out and you cannot imagine how your strength has enriched the lives of so many including myself. Love you!!
Shivonia <vosingleton@davidson.edu>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, June 24, 2005 7:36 AM CDT

Just stopping by to see your angel for a minute. I love seeing her face.
Amy Finkler <amyfinkler@cox.net>
bonaire, ga - Friday, June 24, 2005 7:34 AM CDT

Thinking of you guys and wanted to stop by and say hey! Your courage and strength provides such a light at the end of tunnel for so many. Thank you for continuing to update and share your ups and downs. Forever in my heart and always on my mind.
Making my own sunshine,
Beth
Beth Jenkins <jenkime@auburn.edu>
Auburn, AL USA - Thursday, June 23, 2005 3:01 PM CDT

I was just thinking of your Hayley today.She used to be the first on my list to check on and pray for. I looked at her beautiful pictures again and reread some of your journal. She was so beautiful and perfect. I have an ache in my throat now. I know you miss her so much. You remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Karen(FOA/RA) <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney,TX, - Thursday, June 23, 2005 2:34 PM CDT

Not a day goes by that I don't stop in and take a peek at your beautful Angel Hayley. I feel so honored to have met you all. Thinking of you both and keeping you in my heart and prayers...every day!
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta, FOA/CW/Angels on Earth <skc1962@gmail.com>
Suwanee, GA - Thursday, June 23, 2005 12:06 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of Hayley today. What a beautiful Angel she must be.

I'm sure Heaven's Kitties are having a ball.

The Hardin's <hardinrt@bellsouth.net>
Covington, GA USA - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 3:37 PM CDT

God Had A Different Plan

We will always be inspired
By the strength we saw in you
Even when life was very hard
You let rainbows pull you through
You touched the hearts of everyone
We�re all your biggest fan
And though we longed to keep you here
God had a different plan

You will never be forgotten
For your light will always shine
On all of us from up above
Until the end of time..
You�re a hero to so many
And please know from all your fans
It�s not goodbye, it�s see you soon
God had a different plan

Anne <clayandanne@aol.com>
Cumming, GA - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 2:36 PM CDT

Hey Dayna - just checking in on you - hope your day is going well. {{{{HUGS}}}}
Kathy Atwell <kathleen.atwell@aadc.com>
Mooresville, IN - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 1:52 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,

Thinking of you, praying for you, and wishing you a wonderful day. Peace to your sweet baby... :)
Abbie Doser <doser.abbie@principal.com>
Des Moines, IA USA - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 12:32 AM CDT

Thinking of you both and Hayley, as always. You two are such beautiful people, it's amazing how both of you can make "us" feel better while you're dealing with such grief and expressing your thoughts. What a wonderful gift.
Such an inspirational post Alan - thank you and happy belated Father's Day.
Anne & Clay <clayandanne@aol.com>
Cumming, GA - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 11:53 AM CDT

I have to say that I am checking on Hayley today and feeling such heaviness and sadness. Many days I check on you and Alan and have to smile when I see that precious face, but today my heart is breaking. I don't really know exactly why, but I still feel that this is all so unfair. I am so sorry for all the hurt you have to live with. Thank God that He is right there beside you and that one day you will hold your sweet Hayley as tightly as you want to.....what an incredible little girl.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Wednesday, June 22, 2005 10:39 AM CDT

Alan, I'm sorry I 'm late, but I wanted to say I thought your fathers day post was so beautiful. Your family is often in my thoughts and always in my prayers, Lyn www.caringbridge.org/nj/justinw
Lyn Wyatt <glwyatt@gmail.com>
stratford, nj usa - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 11:22 PM CDT

I'm not really sure how I found Hayley's site but did a few months ago. Thanks for being faithful to this journal and sharing your journey. The Father's Day entry was just as beautiful as Hayley. We had a beautiful rainbow in Cary, NC last week and me, a stranger, looked a minute longer than normal and thought of Hayley. All the best to you and your family.
Linda Britt <lbritt@fmrealty.com>
Cary, NC USA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 9:55 PM CDT

Still think of you every single day! Hope you are well!
D.D. Dixon www.caringbridge.org/ga/marygrace <d.d.dixon@comcast.net>
Canton, Ga - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 9:13 PM CDT

Alan and Dayna -
I've visited your site so many times I can't count them, but never left you a message. I have a good friend who had your site posted to hers as best as I remember, and I started checking in on your little angel back around November.

Reading your wonderful testiment to fatherhood led me to leave you a note, letting you know I've hurt for you both so many times as I've read about your journey with Hayley. I know as you do that she celebrated Father's Day with her heavenly father this year and has to look down on you with such love, anxiously awaiting your reunion one day.

I pray, as time moves on, that your heavy hearts continue to heal, and that you get great joy in your memories of her.

Love in Christ to you both -
Tami Payne <btjpayne@comcast.net>
Winston, GA United States - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 6:27 PM CDT

Making my daily visit to Hayley's Corner to look at that precious cutie and to pray for her wonderful parents. ;-)
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Tuesday, June 21, 2005 4:23 PM CDT

Alan, your post brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful tribute to your daughter, who left way too soon, and to your wife.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 2:46 PM CDT

You are both truly amazing parents. I still think of Hayley and pray for both of you.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 2:43 PM CDT

Alan~
What a beautiful post. You and Dayna are exceptional people and are so blessed to have each other and Hayley for always.
Megan D.
VA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 1:08 PM CDT

continuing to pray for you both and remember a precious miracle....Hayley. Alan, your words are so powerful....what an incredible father you are!
Celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 9:05 AM CDT

Remembering Hayley today, and always.

Melissa Brock www.caringbridge.org/tx/katsierane <melissa.brock@blockbuster.com>
TX - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 7:39 AM CDT

Jake submitted his artwork for the CURE Calendar...one of the pictures was for Hayley...Kercles. Her circles! I had told Jake about Hayley's circles and he drew quite a lovely rendition of them for her. When I dropped it off, Jill and Shelley knew instantly. Hayley's Circles. She still brings smiles and her picture is up on the wall at 3 North. Hugs to you all-
Elle Rivers www.teamrivers.com <therivers@teamrivers.com>
Smyrna, GA US - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 7:38 AM CDT

Hayley will always and forever be your daughter. Thank you for sharing a beautiful perspective on Father's Day.
Kelley Land <kelley@helwys.com>
Macon, GA - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 6:54 AM CDT

Your post was beautiful. Thanks.
Carrie
Frisco, TX - Monday, June 20, 2005 10:28 PM CDT

Alan,
Happy Father's Day. I'm sure Hayley is up in Heaven blowing kisses down to you. You and Dayna are in my prayers.
Lois (FOA/RA)
NJ - Monday, June 20, 2005 8:24 PM CDT

Alan Happy Fathers Day to you
what a beautfiul post you wrote. Sending you and Dayna many thought and prayer's & Rainbow Sighting's.
Kimberly (FOA/RA) <Krthide5478@msn.com>
Belvidere, IL - Monday, June 20, 2005 4:40 PM CDT

What a beautiful post. And a Happy Belated Father's Day Alan! I know that your Angel was blowing kisses to you in the winds. You are the reason your daughter touched so many of our loves. My prayers continue with your beautiful family.
Kari Z. (FOA/RA/Angels On Earth) <zfamily00@hotmail.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Monday, June 20, 2005 3:24 PM CDT

What a wonderful post! Happy Father's day Alan!!! You three are always in my thoughts and prayers. HUGS
Melissa (FoA/RA and Angels on Earth) <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 2:12 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day to you Alan. I am so happy to read your inspiring words. Hayley is so lucky to have you as her daddy! I think of her every day, and I thank you and Dayna for sharing her with all of us!
Karen (FOA/RA)
Stow, OH - Monday, June 20, 2005 12:37 AM CDT

What a beautiful entry. Thank you for sharing your heart with us.
Still thinking of you both and Hayley.
Diane Pursinger <dianepursinger@fuse.net>
Cincinnati, OH - Monday, June 20, 2005 12:30 AM CDT

Wow....beautiful words....thinking of sweet Hayley....

God bless
Ozzie <ovieira@hartz.com>
harrison, nj - Monday, June 20, 2005 12:11 AM CDT

Alan,
What a beautiful and thought provoking post! Happy belated Father's Day to a truly wonderful father!!!! In as much as you are lucky to have your "girls", they are so blessed to have you too. Much love to you and Dayna today and always.

Hugs,
Joy FOA/RA
Joy McCarthy <joymcarthy@aol.com>
San Jose, CA USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 11:43 AM CDT

Happy Father's day Alan
Niki <niki.steeves@gmail.com>
Sandwich, Il USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 11:38 AM CDT

Happy Father's Day, Alan! Thinking about you and your family.
Ria
near Philly, PA - Monday, June 20, 2005 10:52 AM CDT

Thinking of you all.

Mandy
mommytooryan
- Monday, June 20, 2005 10:39 AM CDT

Happy Father's Day, Alan- what an awesome Dad you are!
I just know God is going to bless you and Dayna for your
your faithfulness to Him. You are a wonderful family!
Kellie <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, June 20, 2005 10:37 AM CDT

Happy Father's Day Alan. Your post was so heartwarming. I think of you and your family often. Continued prayers for healing and strength.
Mindi & CamiJo (FOA/RA) <mopoelwijk@cs.com>
Sparks, NV USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 9:45 AM CDT

I expected to cry and instead felt warmed by your words of Father's Day.

Thinking of you in California,
XXOO, Marey and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Monday, June 20, 2005 9:26 AM CDT

Alan: I thought of you yesterday, and all the daddies who are without their little ones right now...and my heart broke. Then, this morning, to read your words, put so eloquently, I am touched beyond words. What a special family you are. And we too miss Hayley everyday. Not nearly to the extent that you do, but miss her nonetheless. Know that people all over the place are thinking of you ... and wishing that there was a way to put that darling little girl back into your arms.

Praying for you!
Rachael Soto <rsoto@nmrs.com>
Goose Creek, SC USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 8:47 AM CDT

Forgot one thing--we had some rain here in Illinois last week and afterwards a double rainbow covered the sky. We could see it from end to and end and it was BEAUTIFUL! Of course Hailey immediately came to mind. And the pink was most certainly the brightest. I don't think anyone who knows of your angel can every see another rainbow without thinking of her!
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 8:45 AM CDT

Happy Fathers Day to Alan. Thinking of you all!

Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 8:41 AM CDT

Sooo very nice.
Happy Father's Day Alan!!!
You see the big picture, where most can't!!!
Keeping you in my prayers.
A friend
Looking for Rainbows
- Monday, June 20, 2005 8:39 AM CDT

Rest assured that you define what it means to be a "daddy." Hayley hit the jackpot when she found you.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Monday, June 20, 2005 8:31 AM CDT

As always, thinking of you both!

Prayers,
Stephanie
Stephanie Deal <stephanie.deal@kcc.com>
Lawrenceville, GA - Monday, June 20, 2005 8:12 AM CDT

Happy Father's Day Alan. I hope your little sweetie visited you in your dreams to make it an extra special day.
I check in on you both often although I don't know what to say in the guestbook so I usually just keep you both in my prayers.
HAyleybaby has been painting some beauiful pink sunsets in my area lately! I miss her. My heart breaks for you both.
Please know that you both will forever be in my thoughts and prayers and Hayleybaby will always have a very special place in my heart.
Much love and prayers,
Amy

Thank you sharing your precious daughter with us and thanks so much for letting us be there for you now. All 3 of you are amazing!

Hayleybaby ~*~ Butterfly kisses ~*~ to heaven for you sweetie!

Amy ~*~FoA/RA ~*~ <amynjake01@aol.com>
PA - Monday, June 20, 2005 7:56 AM CDT

Alan,

I thought about you often yesterday. We continue to pray for you and Dayna daily.

God Bless you both!
Jeff, Amy, Anna Grace and Brock <jbowling@gutterworld.com>
Cumming, GA - Monday, June 20, 2005 6:42 AM CDT

Alan,
I hope you had a happy Father's Day! I was thinking about you all and had to stop by. It was nice to "hear" from you. I still think about your beautiful Hayley. I will never forget her! God bless,
Michelle <nghs_teach@yahoo.com>
Sachse, TX - Sunday, June 19, 2005 11:50 PM CDT

Happy Fatehrs Day, I want you to know that you are both always in my prayers.

I love to check in and see how you are doing and to look at Hayley's pictures.

Take care, much love and many prayers,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 11:40 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day to you, Alan. You & Dayna continue to be in my prayers. You have such a beautiful way with words.
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Sunday, June 19, 2005 11:34 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day, Alan. I bet your little girl thought she had the best dad ever! Thanks for posting...very bittersweet day for you, but it is so lovely to see that you can express your thankfulness for the time you had with sweet Hayley.
Julie Wilson <jwilso3340@aol.com>
Dallas, TX - Sunday, June 19, 2005 9:11 PM CDT

Alan.....Happy Fathers Day to a wonderful daddy and husband!! Your post was very dear. I want to tell you both that reading your posts means alot to me. I think of Hayley daily and check your site just the same.

Continued prayers for your family as I am sure each day is still very heart wrentching without your baby girl. Hayley could never possibly be replaced or forgotten, but may you be blessed -when the time is right- with a curly haired, chubby cheeked baby sister for Hayley.

You are loved!
Stacie
Stacie Lynch <stacielynch2@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, CO USA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 9:07 PM CDT

Big hugs for you guys today, and every day. We think of you so often!
Love,
Tre', Jenny, and Catie Wilkins
P.S. Ms. Hayley has been painting so beautiful rainbows in our neck of the woods! We think of her, and of you guys, each time we see one.
The Wilkins Family <jencarroll@hotmail.com>
Guyton, GA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 8:47 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day. Your family is always in my thoughts and prayers.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Sunday, June 19, 2005 8:34 PM CDT

Dear Alan, Many hugs are sent to you for Father's Day. We also send a great big thank you for all that you share and all you have given not only to precious Hayley but to all who have come to know you in some small way!!! You and Dayna continue to be in our hearts and prayers,
Christine and family <mahoneymcjc@comcast.net>
NJ - Sunday, June 19, 2005 5:55 PM CDT

Beautiful words. You're little girl was so lucky to have you as her father here on earth. I hope you see a rainbow today...
God bless you both.
Angela (total stranger) <angelasisney@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, June 19, 2005 4:57 PM CDT

Thinking of both of you today.
Lori and Emma
chelmsford, ma usa - Sunday, June 19, 2005 3:23 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day to you, Alan.
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA) <lauren.pena@gmail.com>
CA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 3:11 PM CDT

Dear Alan,
Happy Fathers Day. There are no words to say how much we wish the family that we've never met, peace and comfort. Six months later we still check in daily to see Hayley's smile and pray for you both as well as your parents. Our nine year old daughter still has Hayley's picture printed out and hung on her wall above her cross with the words, "pray for her", written in her nine year old handwriting.
We know it's just another day without Hayley and the more they had up the harder it must be. We are so sorry for that.
Praying for your rainbow today and sweet dreams of Hayley.

One of the many on Hayley's prayer team
OH - Sunday, June 19, 2005 2:10 PM CDT

Alan, what a beautiful post and tribute to your precious angel. You have a way with words just as Dayna. I hope one day soon you will get to enjoy the joys and hopes of fatherhood once again. Thinking of you and your cat-chasing sweetheart. Hayley is always remembered!
Jenn B. ~*FOA/RA/Angels on Earth*~ <pr@friendsofallie.org>
Fresno, CA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 1:35 PM CDT

Alan, your post today was so beautiful. Tears came to my eyes as I thought about your angel, and her loving father.
Happy fathers day to a great dad.
Another friend <jessiebelle@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, June 19, 2005 12:59 AM CDT

Dear Alan:
Just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you today and holding you close in our hearts and prayers. There is not a day that passes that we don't think about y'all. You are one of the best dads, Alan, and one of the best people I've ever met.
Love,
Kristin
Kristin, Mike, Ryan and Brandon Connor (www.caringbridge.org/ga/brandonconnor) <kristin.connor@comcast.net>
Norcross, GA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 11:49 AM CDT

Happy Father's Day Alan!!! Hayley was so lucky to have you as her Dad!! I hope your memories of Hayley are abundant and vivid.
Tracy (FOA-Fundraising Leader/RA/Angels on Earth) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
Newburgh, NY - Sunday, June 19, 2005 9:43 AM CDT

Happy Father's Day, Alan!

My three year old daughter has recently come up with a new phrase "I love you all the way up to the rainbows" and every time I hear it I think of your sweet Hayley. I hope tomorrow you can feel her love coming all the way down from the rainbows to you as well as the love and support of thousands of friends around the world.
Becky <westvalleyrealtor@msn.com>
El Mirage, AZ - Sunday, June 19, 2005 1:38 AM CDT

Alan: Cheers, to one of the best Dad's with the biggest heart. Your love for Dayna & Hayley is such a gift. Happy Father's Day. We love you. Kim & Jack XXOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Kim & Jack <Kgomogomo@joimail.com>
Alpharetta, Ga. USA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 1:31 AM CDT

Happy Father's Day Alan~~I have been following Hayley since you first posted the site. I have a son who is 15 months old and because of you and Dayna I am a better mother and I cherish each day more. My heart aches for you today as the memmories of what might have been flood your mind. Please know that you have inspired many people as did Hayley and she still does.
Have a peaceful day I will be thinking of you and Dayna.
Love
Amanda
Madison 5 and Landon 15 months
Amanda <iammadisonsmom@msn.com>
PA - Sunday, June 19, 2005 0:03 AM CDT

Happy Father's Day Alan. Hayley WILL be holding your hand tomorrow with bows tied in her curly hair. Father's day is not solely about the physical presence, but about the guidance and love and the miracles of fatherhood; of which you gave all in abundance to your sweet girl. Have a blessed day.
Rose <tomandrose@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, Ontario Canada - Saturday, June 18, 2005 10:59 PM CDT

Alan, what a beautiful post and a lucky man you are to have such wonderful girls in your life even if for too short a time. Sending love your way
meredith
- Saturday, June 18, 2005 10:50 PM CDT

Alan, thank you so much for your post. I have to tell you something. My husband has been going to school for the past year and hasn't worked in that time. He was offered an odd job tomorrow which would pay $100.00, money that we really do need. I told him that I didn't want him to work because it was Father's Day and we should spend the day together. He said that he spends every day with our daughter so its just any other day to him. After huffing and puffing, he called back and said that he couldn't take the job because it was Father's Day. I know in his heart that he really wanted to work and still thought of tomorrow as any other day.

With teary eyes I read him your post and I know that he feels differently now. Thank you so much for writing it. I know that you wish you had Hayley back more than anything but I appreciate you sharing your expereience with us so that we can all learn the importance of Father's Day.

I really hope you enjoy your day tomorrow.

Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 10:35 PM CDT

Thinking of you all and continuing to keep you in my prayers. I will say a special prayer for you all tomorrow. Hayley is as blessed to have you as her wonderful parents as you are to have such an amazingangel daughter.
Janice
Boston, MA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 9:39 PM CDT

Thinking and praying for you as usual, but especially hard tomorrow! Happy Father's Day! Hayley is blessed to have such wonderful parents.
a mommy from MA
- Saturday, June 18, 2005 9:34 PM CDT

Happy Father's Day to you!

We know what it is like, you have a wonderful deposit in Heaven!

Sincerely,

Justin, Father to Trinity
www.trinitysdiary.com
Justin <threebrazilnuts@hotmail.com>
Surrey, BC Canada - Saturday, June 18, 2005 8:02 PM CDT

We will be thinking of you on Father's Day. Hayley has been blessed to have such a caring and loving Daddy!

Robert, Shari, Isaac and Rachel
McAninch Family <robertshari@bellsouth.net>
Cumming, Ga - Saturday, June 18, 2005 7:38 PM CDT

How wonderful to hear from you, Alan. I stop by Hayley's site every day. I pray for you both, cry, and look at your precious daughter's picture.
amy kate
Holland, MI - Saturday, June 18, 2005 7:23 PM CDT

How could I feel so proud of two people I have never even met? But I do. I am so proud of both of you. God's Blessings
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 6:53 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan, You guys don't know me but I check on you and pray for you quite a bit. I am praying for you both now and will also tomorrow on Father's Day. Our Heavenly Father has given us all so many gifts to be thankful for and I pray that He gives you peace and enjoyment tomorrow.
Allison Davis <rostov@bonbon.net>
Dublin, GA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 6:43 PM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan - I still stop by your site several times a week. I must say that Hayley is never far from my thoughts - whether I see a rainbow or a circle - I smile in honour of your precious angel. I am lucky enough to be the mother of two a 12 year old son and a year old daughter - I have more patience because of you as parents and becuase of Hayley. I hold them a little tighter and a little longer. I now forgo my Starbucks cofffe a couple of times a week and make a donation to children's hospital on a monthly basis.

Your eloquence in the face of tragedy is amazing as was Hayley and I am anxious for the day that I read that Hayley will have a new important job being the guardian angel for her younger brother or sister.

With my very best regards.

Elizabeth Vorlop <bvorlop@shaw.ca>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Saturday, June 18, 2005 5:58 PM CDT

What a beautiful message from a great dad...it breaks my heart and lifts me up all at the same time. Our family thinks of you all often, even though you don't know us, and we continue to pray for you. We love to look at your baby girls pictures and to think of all of the fun things she is doing in heaven.

God Bless You all!

Happy Fathers Day, Alan.
Corrie, Doug, Ruthie, Emma, and Jacob vanKampen--USCG <cavankampen@yahoo.com>
Rocky River, OH USA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 5:21 PM CDT

You are, and always will be a great father - and you have your father to thank for raising such a wholesome and respectful person such as you.
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY - And the heavenly Father is the one to thank the most.

Jenn List <konawillie@hotmail.com>
Lake Worth, FL USA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 4:27 PM CDT

Still thinking of you both and still miss seeing Hayley's sweet smile. You are in my thoughts and prayers always.

Love,
Julie and Keira
Julie Pelker *FOA/RA/Angels on Earth* <julzpelker@comcast.net>
Leesport, PA - Saturday, June 18, 2005 1:14 AM CDT

Just a reminder that I check Hayley's Corner each day and pray for you two.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Friday, June 17, 2005 6:18 PM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan!
Alan, I just wanted to let you know that you will be in my thoughts on Sunday. I hope that the day goes well. And I hope that you can still mark the occasion, because you are a wonderful father!
Dayna - I read about a wonderful project on another site that made me think of you and Alan and Hayley. Please send me an e-mail so I can share what I know. I don't want to announce it since it's not my idea and it's a work in progress.
Take care! As always, the three of you are in my thoughts and prayers!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, June 17, 2005 2:50 PM CDT

Dayna,
I had to check in today to see Hayley's sweet smile! That picture on the home page is just the sweetest! I pray that your husband is filled with precious memories of Miss Hayley on this upcoming Father's Day and that you both see glimpes of her throughout the day.
Praying for you both,
Leslie Ellenburg
Leslie - Mom to Jared and Katie <leslieellenburg@wmconnect.com>
Greeneville, TN - Friday, June 17, 2005 1:07 PM CDT

Hayley I'm still here checking your website. You are in my thoughts each day.
Tisha Robbins <tisha.robbins@vertrue.com>
Richmond, tx usa - Friday, June 17, 2005 12:17 AM CDT

Tomorrow sweet Hayley I am walking in the 'Relay for Life' in remembrance of you!! Even though we never met, you sure weigh heavey on my heart.
Please watch over Mamma and Daddy this Father's Day weekend.
Good Night sweet Angel.

Laurie
MPLS, MN - Thursday, June 16, 2005 7:27 PM CDT

I still think of you often and sweet little Hayley. Alan, I will be thinking of you this weekend as Fathers Day approaches. I know Hayley will be having a great time in heaven celebrating having you as GREAT dad!!!Many thoughts and prayers coming your way.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Thursday, June 16, 2005 11:20 AM CDT

Dear Friends,
As we approach another holiday without sweet Hayley, you are in our thoughts. Alan, Hayley definitely had your smile -- a gift to us all. We hope the memories of your sweet rainbow painter will paint a smile on your hearts this weekend.

With love to you both,
Camp Jack(www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)
Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, Ga - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 1:02 PM CDT

We are heading out of town this weekend but I wanted to check in and tell you that I'm praying for you. Alan, have a good Father's Day - you are Hayley's precious earthly father! We'll be praying for each of you.
Shelly <jayandshel@msn.com>
reno, - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 12:50 AM CDT

Your family is in our prayers. Thank you for sharing your daughter's journey with us.
Stacey W. <yellow_daisy1977@yahoo.com>
Humble, TX - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 9:54 PM CDT

Thinking of you today and continuing to lift you in prayer. I miss reading about your sweet Hayley. Amazing how a precious little sweetheart I've never met has touched me so profoundly. Praying especially this week as it leads into Father's Day. Alan, Hayley was blessed to have a loving and wonderful dad such as you. May you feel a special touch from our Heavenly Father on this upcoming Father's Day.
Jenn B. (FOA/RA & Angels on Earth) <pr@friendsofallie.org>
Fresno, CA - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 6:13 PM CDT

Thinking of you today and wanting to send you a big hug.
Megan D.
- Tuesday, June 14, 2005 5:23 PM CDT

I am still praying for you both everyday as you continue your painful journey. Haley was such an incredible little girl and she certainly has changed many, many lives. Just wish there was something that we could do to make things easier.....may God continue to stay close as you try to live His plan.
celeste (another person who fell in love with precious Hayley) <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
Lagrange, - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 12:20 AM CDT

Always thinking and praying for you.

Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Monday, June 13, 2005 11:28 PM CDT

Dayna, it is funny how you mention God must have sent people, or other things your way. I haven't been able to come on here in awhile because of end of school functions, I believe that God has sent me your way today for some reason. I have no idea what it feels like to lose a child and hope I never have to experience that kind of pain. I know that emptiness never goes away. Everytime someone ask you if have any children you tell yes I have a child and she lives with Jesus, she is my Guardian angel now. I believe everytime you tell your story about Hayley you are changing someones life. Maybe that person will enjoy life more and cherish their children. You and Alan are never far from my mind! Love, Sonya
Sonya Mayer <valsonya1@aol.com>
Valdosta, Ga US - Monday, June 13, 2005 8:12 PM CDT

Hayley was truly beautiful. Many prayers are being sent your way from my family in Stockbridge, Georgia. I simply cannot imagine what you are going through but I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Nicole <metaphor82@aol.com>
Stockbridge, GA - Monday, June 13, 2005 7:05 PM CDT

Stopping by to let you know that I still think of you all every day. My prayers are with you.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer
- Monday, June 13, 2005 2:41 PM CDT

I just had to share with you guys something that happened last night. Back up to about 2 weeks ago when I was *surfing* the CB sites with my 2yo son in my lap and as I would open each page, I would tell him the name of the child. We looked at probably 10 or more pages. Fast forward to last night when I was again *surfing* the CB pages and every page I would open, Trent would say "baby" for each child that popped up. Finally, the last page I opened was sweet Hayley's page and Trent YELLED out "Hayley, mom it's Hayley". I just thought that was so sweet that out of all the pages I had shown him before, Hayley's name was the one he remembered. She is truly beautiful to look at. I'm still praying for you both daily.
Amy Finkler <amyfinkler@cox.net>
Bonaire, GA - Monday, June 13, 2005 7:20 AM CDT

My 21 year old niece Tressa went to heaven on Dec. 21 this past year after an ugly 8 month battle with AML. She LOVED children and I am sure that her new free life is one surrounded by little ones. I can just see Tressa holding the hands of your beautiful daughter. May God continue to wrap his arms around you and know that people who you have never met hold you up in prayers.
Janet George <jgeorge@insightbb.com>
Fishers, IN USA - Sunday, June 12, 2005 8:22 PM CDT

Still praying for you both....
Kellie <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Sunday, June 12, 2005 10:08 AM CDT

Today I find myself really thinking of Hayley. I miss seeing her pictures and reading her updates. She really touched a special place in my heart. I am not one who has many friends nor who was really ever drawn to childrend but since finding Allie's story, a certain few have really pierced my soul. Hayley being one! My prayers to Dayna and Alan, that healing will come to your soul and you will see the bright days ahead of you.
Kelly Mann <kellymann@grandecom.net>
Waco, TX USA - Saturday, June 11, 2005 6:09 PM CDT

Alan and Dayna - I know I am way down here in Florida, but I want you to know you are thought of very often and I pray for you incessantly as well as any family out there that has a sick loved one - I try not to take being a mom for granted and know God will again bless you in time. I hope to see you while I am in Atlanta the week of the 20th of June.
Jennifer List <konawillie@hotmail.com>
Lake Worth, FL USA - Saturday, June 11, 2005 2:17 PM CDT

Not a day goes by that you and Hayley aren't in our thoughts or prayers. It's hard to look around especially in the neighborhood and know that she isn't here to share that beautiful smile. I pray for your continued strength.
Shari Wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
Cumming, GA - Saturday, June 11, 2005 12:25 AM CDT

Dayna and Allen,

I look at your site of your beautiful angel often. You are in my prayers daily. I have a daughter just younger than Hayley, and the thought of not having her is unbearable, I wish I could help to ease your pain. Your daughter touched so many lives for good, what a great angel she is. I pray that our Heavenly Father will be with you continually and bring you comfort.

Love, Lee Ann
Lee Ann Norris <lee1201@msn.com>
Yakima, WA USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 1:41 PM CDT

Yesterday as it was raining, I noticed out my car window a beautiful rainbow. My son quickly pointed out a second. I immediately thought of precious Hayley and the promises of God. There were two perfect rainbows, one over the other. I had not seen one just like this since 1997, right after I got out of the hospital from having a miscarriage. It spoke volumes to me that day. I will never see a rainbow again that I dont think of Hayley and always say a prayer for you. I too cant wait to hug her in Heaven.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Friday, June 10, 2005 8:11 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan, I just wanted to let you know that I still think of you often. God bless.
Sandy (FOA)
Las Vegas, NV - Thursday, June 9, 2005 10:39 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan:

I miss Hayley every day! And this is from someone who never had the pleasure of meeting her! I am still aching in my heart for you ... and for the pain that you are enduring. Hayley to me is that special angel that brought me to understand so many things. She taught me so VERY much...and to her...and you ... I am so thankful! I can't wait to meet Hayley in Heaven and tell her how much she's done for me! God Bless You!
Rachael Soto <rsoto@nmrs.com>
Goose Creek, SC USA - Thursday, June 9, 2005 9:15 AM CDT

Just stopping into to check on you. Hugs and prayers for your both.
Lois (FOA/RA)
NJ - Thursday, June 9, 2005 7:26 AM CDT

Just thinking about you and your beautiful Angel. I hope your heart is healing and overflowing with wonderful memories of Hayley.I know you miss her so. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Love and Hugs.
Karen <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney,TX, - Thursday, June 9, 2005 7:22 AM CDT

Wishing you peace in your journey of grief, as a mother who has felt the pain.
Elizabeth (mother of Rebecca, b/d 6/10/99)
Austin, TX 78729 - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 8:03 PM CDT

Stopping by Hayley's Corner each day to see her precious face and pray for her parents.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Wednesday, June 8, 2005 5:04 PM CDT

I am so happy that the soccer team that I coached this spring took my pleas not to get me anything at the end of the season, and instead did the "Coaching for a Cure." I made it clear how important it is to help fight cancer and how unmaterialistic I am. So, I am awaiting my t-shirt and will proudly wear it and continue to encourage coaches to chose this rewarding "gift". I think they really should start "Teaching for a Cure." Being a teacher, and a mom to have to buy teacher gifts several times a year for several children, I feel this would be something teachers would love to do. Who should I suggest this to?

Thinking of you always.

Sandra Roberts <robertsjaks@aol.com>
Roswell, GA USA - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 4:26 PM CDT

Dana,

I wanted to share something with you I found some time a go. A dear friend of mine., too, lost her baby girl.. and she said she really identified with this. As I am coping with the murder of my best friend and sister, it also rings so true for me as well. I'm so terrified she will be forgotten. i want everyone to remember her.. forever.. as I do.

Anyway.. thought I'd share.

God Bless,
Heather

A Wish List�
(A little something for those around you)

� I wish you would not be afraid to speak my loved one's name. They lived and were important and I need to hear their name.

� If I cry and get emotional if we talk about my loved one, I wish you knew that it isn't because you hurt me: the fact that they died causes my tears.

� You have allowed me to cry and I thank you. Crying and emotional outbursts are healing.

� I will have emotional highs and lows, ups and downs. I wish you wouldn't think that if I have a good cry my grief is all over, or that if I have a bad day I need psychiatric counseling.

� Being Bereaved is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn't stay away from me.

� I wish you knew all the "crazy" grief reactions that I am having are in fact very normal. Depression, anger, fear, hopelessness and questioning of values and beliefs are to be expected following a death.

� I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over in 6 months. The first few years are going to be exceedingly traumatic for me. As with alcoholics, I will never be "cured" or a "formerly bereaved", but forevermore be recovering from my bereavement.

� I wish you understood the physical reaction to grief. I may gain weight, lose weight, sleep all the time or not at all, develop a host of illnesses and be accident prone, all of which are related to my grief.

� Our loved one's birthday, the anniversary of their death and the holidays can be terrible times for us. I wish you could tell us that you are thinking of us and them on these days. And if we get quiet and withdrawn, just know that we are thinking about them and don't try to coerce us into being cheerful.

� I wish you wouldn't offer to take me out for a drink, or to a party, this is just a temporary crutch and the only way I can get through this grief is to experience it. I have to hurt before I can heal.

� I wish you understood that grief changes people. I am not the same person I was before my beloved died and I will never be that person again. If you keep waiting for me to "get back to my old self" you will stay frustrated. I am a new creature with new thoughts, dreams, aspirations, values and beliefs. Please try to get to know this different me -- I'm the one who'll be here from now on.

--Author unknown

And lastly... I thought this was beautiful:

The Legacy

When I die, give what is left of me to children.
If you need to cry, cry for your brothers walking
beside you.
Put your arms around anyone and give them what you
need to give to me.
I want to leave you with somthing, something better than
words or sounds.
Look for me in the people I have known and loved.
And if you cannot live without me, let let me live on
in your eyes, your mind, and your acts of kindness.
You can love me most by letting hands touch hands and
letting go of children that need to be free.

Love does not die, people do.
So when all that is left of me is LOVE..........
Give me away.........

Heather Tierney <heather@bestnetsol.com>
Dawsonville, GA - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 3:48 PM CDT

Just stopping by to say 'Hi' and let you know that Hayley still remains strong in our hearts and thoughts and you in our prayers. Her story has truly touched my life and the lives of our children. There was a rainbow here the other day in Wisconsin. Hayley was showing her beauty to all of us. :)
Kari Z. (Wisconsin Angels/WI FOA) <zfamily00@hotmail.ocm>
Wauwatosa, WI - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 3:46 PM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan. I came to your site right before Hayley passed. I learned about her from another site. I've been so inspired by your unwavering faith and testimony that my husband and I shared it on Easter with our Sunday school class. Needless to say there wasn't a dry eye in the house. I feel so blessed to have been introduced to your family by this site and I have been so blessed through your testimony. Please know that we are praying for you and know that there is still joy for you in the future. I think Jeremiah 29:11 speaks to that.

Take care. In Christian Love,
Juli and Scott Ferguson
Juli Ferguson
Birmingham, Al US - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 1:28 PM CDT

I just wanted you to know I think of you often. I hope your memories are helping with your healing. I know Hayley is watching from above and having a grand time playing with all her little cancer buddies that have joined her. God bless you.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 11:48 AM CDT

Hey, Just checking in to let you know I was thinking of you.
Tracey <traceyharvey@cox.net>
Warner Robins, Ga - Wednesday, June 8, 2005 7:56 AM CDT

I just wanted to stop by and let you know I was thinking of you all. I saw a rainbow about a week ago and of course the first thing that popped into my mind was Hayley. What a beauty. I hope that you are all doing ok.

((hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 11:20 PM CDT

We had a huge double rainbow in the sky after a storm on Friday, and I thought of Hayley and you. What a magical looking little girl - every time I see her picture on your page I am struck by how cute she is. All my prayers for your peace and comfort.
A friend
Chicago, IL - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 10:40 AM CDT

Just thinking of Hayley and wanted you to know.....we are still praying for you and hoping that somehow you are touched each day by someone or something to make you feel close to your sweet Hayley....she is still missed by us more than you know...
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 10:38 AM CDT

I was just on Keith's site and learned of his passing. It brought me back to this site again. I always think of Hayley.
Thinking of you and Alan today.

A friend in Christ
Mpls, Mn - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 8:59 AM CDT

I found your site a few months ago through Connie Schofield's site. I check on you now and then and pray for you often. Just felt like letting you know. It does bring a smile on to look at your sweet Hayley's face. I'll keep praying for you and your sweet family.
Mary Ann Parker <maparker64@yahoo.com>
Douglasville, GA U.S.A. - Monday, June 6, 2005 9:53 PM CDT

thinking of you today. hope you are having a great day. know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mandy
amanda bauer
- Monday, June 6, 2005 3:51 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan - just checking in. I hope that you're doing well. You're always in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, June 6, 2005 10:07 AM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan-
We think about Hayley all the time and we all miss her. I was packing up some old summer clothes and I came arcoss the cute gymboree bubble with the fish on the bottom and I thought of Hayley. She looked so cute in that outfit that I had to go out and get that outfit for Mckinley. Hayley always looked like a doll baby. Just know we do care and we value your friendship.
Love, The Libby's
Shawn <Shawn@summitsupplies.com>
Alpharetta, GA usa - Sunday, June 5, 2005 11:55 PM CDT

Dear Alan & Dayna: We are here in these familiar halls again. I am here in the family room, and it doesn't seem the same place. What once was so familiar is not at all, and my friends are gone. I don't feel like making any new friends, we miss you guys and think of all the laughter and tears we shed together, I know we are all still crying. Jack & I continue to pray for you both and your family, I can't imagine the pain you feel everyday. Take care and know that you and Hayley are not forgotten she is also with us everyday. We love you guys God Bless Kim & Jack
Kim & Jack <Kgomogomo@joimail.com>
Alpharetta, Ga USA - Sunday, June 5, 2005 8:24 AM CDT

Last night was Reno's Relay for Life...there was a luminarie lit for Hayley complete with circle stickers and rainbows. I'll send you a photo when I get them developed. Remembering your girl,

Shelly <jayandshel@msn.com>
Reno , NV - Saturday, June 4, 2005 3:47 PM CDT

Sending love, hugs & prayers to you both & remembering your precious Hayley.
Susan <Susanmvt@aol.com>
Peachtree City, GA USA - Saturday, June 4, 2005 11:24 AM CDT

I just wanted to stop by and send my thoughts and prayers your way!

:) Erin
Erin <lilfishie98@aol.com>
Babylon, NY USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 7:47 PM CDT

I know you're trying to go easy on me with just "lunch". But, I promise, I can take the heat -- we might as well work off a few of the pounds we accrued eating hospital food for so long!

I'm not afraid of the power, oh mighty little one!!! Though God is giving you the strength to thwack through these hard times, I know he'll also protect my noggin.

Love you,
Jen (Camp Jack: www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)
Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Friday, June 3, 2005 6:32 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan,

I can't believe I forgot to post this sooner, but I just thought you would like to know that Hayley is watching over Iowa as well. Last Thursday at my softball game there was a beautiful rainbow...and it was almost ALL pink! I just looked up at her and smiled. What a precious angel she is. :)

Still thinking of you and praying for you everyday.
Abbie Doser <doser.abbie@principal.com>
Des Moines, IA - Friday, June 3, 2005 3:46 PM CDT

Sending more thoughts and prayers your way!
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Friday, June 3, 2005 1:21 PM CDT

Dear Dayna & Alan,

Just stopping in to say hi and I'm so sorry that you aren't able to give Hayley a big hug today. I am so sorry that your heart is broken and I pray everyday for the good Lord to provide you with all you need to get through each day.

One of the many on Hayley's prayer team
OH - Friday, June 3, 2005 11:51 AM CDT

Just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you. With all our love and prayers from Virginia.
christine rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Friday, June 3, 2005 9:47 AM CDT

Just wanted you to know that I continue thinking of you and Alan and of course sweet Hayley. It stormed the other night for just a brief time and then the sun peeked out and there was the most gorgeous rainbow at the end of our street, my mind instantly thought of your sweet Hayley. I know the pain you must feel is still so immense, but please know that there are so many of us who continue to think and pray for you.
Carissa <cwoleslagl@state.pa.us>
Hershey, PA - Friday, June 3, 2005 8:44 AM CDT

We will never forget. Always thinking and praying for you.

Much Love & Many Prayers,
Katie Dixon :)
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Friday, June 3, 2005 0:14 AM CDT

So often as I drive around and run errands I hear the song "I've Never Been More Homesick than Now." My brain tells me to flip the channel but I don't. I picture Hayley and Maddy and Carter and my heart aches for you all. I do not understand... but I guess we're not going to this side of Heaven. We miss seeing Hayley's smile and that ever present bow when we're at the hospital. Just know that you are thought of so very, very often. Prayers are still said for you. So many are pulling for you... We won't forget that the struggles are so very hard and ever present in your life each day.
Love,
Jenny
Jenny Wilkins <jencarroll@hotmail.com>
Guyton, GA - Thursday, June 2, 2005 10:19 PM CDT

I found your link from Allie Scott's website. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Amber
Wylie, TX - Thursday, June 2, 2005 8:05 PM CDT

It's raining and the sun is starting to peek through and so my thoughts turned to Hayley and you. Waiting for a rainbow ...
Shelly Van B <jayandshel@msn.com>
Reno , - Thursday, June 2, 2005 6:11 PM CDT

Just wanted to give you some hugs and tell you that I think of your sweet angel all the time.
((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Erin, Shawn, Emily & Lauren <moon2000_8@yahoo.ca>
Peterborough, Ontario - Thursday, June 2, 2005 9:09 AM CDT

Just wanted you to know that I'm still thinking about you and your family. Your little girl will always be remembered. I've followed your story for a while through Allie Scott's. Hugs to you all!!!
RaeAnn
British Columbia, Canada - Thursday, June 2, 2005 0:18 AM CDT

I found out about Hayley's website from Jenny and Catie. I find myself coming back to it time and time again. I am not sure why I feel like I know your family so well and why your struggles feel so personal to me but I wanted you to know that I think of you often and I pray for you. My husband and I tried for years to get pregnant and eventually adopted a beautiful baby girl from Russia. Riley just turned 2 in May. Every time I look at her I think of what you must feel and although I can not begin to comprehend your grief I wanted you to know that as a mother I hold you up in my prayers so often. You will always be reminded of your precious angel and may her spirit continue to shine brightly to us for years to come. Thank you for teaching me to cherish each moment and to always love to the fullest. Life is precious and time is fleeting and you are an inspiration to those around you. I know things are hard and I can't tell you when or even if things will get better but I can tell you that God loves you and Hayley does too and I wil continue to pray for bright happy days for you and the appearance of rainbows. In His love, Jamie Wohler
Jamie Wohler <JamieW2676@aol.com>
Rincon, GA USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 8:42 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I struggle to find words that will offer any kind of comfort to you. I think of Hayley and you both often. I recently ran across some of mom and Bill's wedding pictures and there was cute, chubby cheeked, smiling Hayley being held by her mom, who was smiling even wider than she was. We will never understand the depth of your loss but we are certainly still thinking of you and praying for you as you navigate through this minefield without your little girl.
Joy Rowan (Bill and Kevan's daughter)
Columbia, MD - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 6:02 PM CDT

Just found your site through a link for Allie Scott. God bless you and your family. I have cried so hard for you and will keep you in my prayers! God does have a plan and I will also ask Him some of the same questions you have when I reach heaven. May God bless you and keep giving you happy memories!
Brandi <brandiwh@darenc.com>
Kill Devil Hills, NC USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 4:53 PM CDT

Continuing to pray for you daily.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Wednesday, June 1, 2005 4:07 PM CDT

Always thinking of and praying for you both! Tons of hugs and prayers.
Melissa (FoA/RA and Angels on Earth) <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 3:07 PM CDT

Dayna,

During a thunderstorm last Friday night, my girls and I saw a rainbow. It was so bright and distinct. However, it only lasted about 45 seconds. It was so beautiful, I wished it would have lasted longer.

I made a comment as such to my 7 yr old and she told me that we were lucky to have seen it. Even though it only lasted a little while, we could always close our eyes and imagine it again. She said it was a lot better than not having seen it and not knowing it's beauty.

I immediatly thought about Hayley. She was here for such a brief time but she touched so many and we can close our eyes any time we want and see her smiling face. I hope you and Allan can close your eyes many times every day and see that beautiful, sweet smile.

Beth <elieber@bio.ri.ccf.org>
- Wednesday, June 1, 2005 9:48 AM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan,
just wanted to let you know that you're in my thoughts and prayers!
Love,
Gabby
Europe, - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 3:37 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan: I just want you to know that I still think of you both as well as precious Hayley everyday. That precious girl definately left her mark on many hearts. I wish I could ease your pain, but I know that it not possible. I went through losing 5 family members within a 3 year period and I know how much pain I still feel although I may not shed tears as often. I know that it couldn't compare to losing your own child. I have three and I am pregnant with the fourth. I am always mindful of how precious my time is with them. I know that life does not offer guarantees. I am thankful for you for sharing so much of your lives with people like me that you have never met. You stopped me from taking so much for granted. I also have learned the importance of giving blood more often, as well as platelets and I am now looking into cord blood donation. I will never again just be idle in life. Thank you for showing me that everyone can do something. We may have never met, but your family is very important to me. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I pray that you will find some comfort in knowing the difference you have made. I miss Hayley too and I want you to know she is not forgotten.

Sincerely,

Larissa Farley
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 7:57 PM CDT

I'm thinkin' a serious rally/slam session is in order. Just name the time and place, and I will stand at the net. I know that will mean some intense heat (hey, you're small, but mighty!), but catharsis is worth the black eye or whop on the forehead. Just thinking of you again and again...

Love,
Jen (Camp Jack: www.caringbridge.org/ga/campajack)
Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 6:53 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan-
Thinking of you today as I do so many days. Just praying that God will be very near to you as you move through each day. I love what an earlier journal entry said....we are walking with you silently. I just wish there was something, ANYTHING, that we could do to make things easier for you. I will continue to pray for you both and remember Hayley as such an incredible little blessing that she was for to so many, many people.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrangeg, ga - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 5:56 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan: Just want you to know that I think about you often. It has been almost 6 months since sweet Hayley
passed away and everytime I see a rainbow I smile and know that she's busy painting away.
Keeping you in my prayers.
Liz Unger <poppy4100@aol.com>
Arnold, Md - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 1:36 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan. I just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know the pain that you are going through. I lost my mom on Dec 27th in a car wreck and I didn't even get the chance to tell her goodbye. Thanks for sharing your little sweetie with us. She truely is a little peach

HUGS
Joni(FOA/RA) <kewl_gal_1980@yahoo.com>
Brandon Manitoba, Canada - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 11:22 AM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan! I hope that you were able to have a nice weekend. I thought of you guys and Hayley often. I can honestly say that I think of the three of you every single day.
And I just loved being greeted by her adorable face every time I log on to your site!
Thanks for everything that you've shared with all of us.
Take care. I hope that you can find some peace and happiness someday soon. In the meantime, enjoy your new job, and tennis, and golf and everything else that you do!

Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 9:46 AM CDT

I've been hearing that people can't get into my guestbook I think I fixed it now I hope.Thinking of you always.

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My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 1:22 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan...It's very tough, as time goes by, because it does seem as though people are just moving on and maybe forgetting about our little ones. Please know that I think of Hayley often...such a beautiful little face. She will always have a special place in my heart.

Much love and continued prayers of peace...
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Monday, May 30, 2005 8:52 PM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan,

As always, supporting you from afar. Please know that Hayley will always remain in the hearts and thoughts of anyone who has ever been touched by her story. You may not know it, but Hayley still creates hundreds of smiles all of the time, smiles that come from the memories that your words have created. She will always be remembered.

Love,
Debbie
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Monday, May 30, 2005 5:55 PM CDT

Hayley's name is on our 100 bracelet chain for our TNT bike ride next Sunday- we will ride a mile in her honor, along with a mile for each name on our chain...100 miles closer to a cure.

XXOO, Marey, Lex and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Monday, May 30, 2005 10:01 AM CDT

I found Hayley's story through Jenny Scott's site. I just spent the last hour reading and crying my eyes out. I am very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain you're going through. In the last 6 months, my life has been touched deeply through stories of little angels like your Hayley, and Allie Scott. I don't take a day with my daughter for granted anymore. I am now a regular blood donor, and plan to get on the bone marrow registry when I'm done having children. If I am able to touch someone else's life by doing these things, it would be because of Hayley and the other little angels like her who inspired me. Thanks for sharing your story. My prayers are with you.
Jessica Mullins <dinobites2@hotmail.com>
WA - Monday, May 30, 2005 3:24 AM CDT

At a restaurant, my 3 year old saw the quarter-holder for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society so she asked to put a quarter in. I instantly thought of Hayley, and how she inspires me each day to be a better mom and an advocate. We put a coin in, and I reminded Allie that this quarter was for Hayley, and Allie smiled. Hayley, Alan, and you are in our hearts.
Ann Berger <beanieann@yahoo.com>
San Juan Capistrano, CA USA - Sunday, May 29, 2005 10:59 PM CDT

Hello. Your entry reminded me of a poem I read in a book I edited for work. The book was about grief, particularly grief over losing a child. The author included the following anonymous poem. Grieving parents put their daughter's name, Blair, into the poem. I think it is a tremendous testimony to the power of a life, no matter how brief.
Anonymous (edited by Louis and Betty Smoak for their deceased teenage daughter, Blair)
The time of concern is over.
No longer am I asked how my wife is doing.
Too seldom is the name of our daughter mentioned to me.
A curtain descends. The moment has passed.
A life slips from frequent recall.
There are exceptions: close and compassionate friends,
Sensitive and loving family, Blair�s closest pals.
For most, the drama is over.
The spotlight is off. Applause is silent.
But for me the play will never end.
The effects on me are timeless.
Say Blair to me.
On the stage of my life she will always be a rising star!
Do not tiptoe around the most consuming event of my life.
Love does not die.
Her name is written on my life
Say Blair to me and say Blair again and again.
It hurts to bury her memory in silence�and I will not . . . .
So long as we are here, please say Blair to us.

Kelley Land <kelley@helwys.com>
Macon , GA - Sunday, May 29, 2005 7:29 PM CDT

I saw a rainbow about an hour ago, and the first thing that came into my head was "there is a sign from Hayley!!!"
I was saying hi to her and told her how much she is missed here on earth and how great it is to see rainbows and think of her. She has a special place in my heart and from now on rainbows will always remind me of sweet little angel Hayley!
Erin, Shawn, Emily & Lauren <moon2000_8@yahoo.ca>
Peterborough, Ontario - Sunday, May 29, 2005 5:29 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan--It doesn't seem possible that I am now praying for another child who is battling cancer--different from Hayley's but so very vicious in nature--neuroblastoma--stage 5--Trenton Kindred--and so now I pray for them as I have prayed for you and your precious Angel---I don't know them as I don't know the two of you personally--only a calling on my heart from the same shared faith in our Jesus to call out to on your behalf--I have used several of your poems and letters you shared with all of us--your extended family on caring bridge--with Ginger and Greg Kindred and I'm sure the words have brought even a hint of comfort as our precious Lord uses things in His own gracious ways--I am still called to be your prayer warrior as you continue on this amazingly hard jouney of grief--My prayer is that God would gently tap your heart on those days you feel so alone in a pile of tears and remind you that there are so many that will never forget you or your precious girl--we are just silently walking with you--wish you could hear every time I offer up a prayer for you guys--God Bless and take care of each other--Andrea Jones
Andrea Jones <ajones20042@comcast.net>
Duluth, Ga usa - Sunday, May 29, 2005 4:12 PM CDT

Angel Hayley, I think of you so often and get so mad at the loss for your family. You were an incredible gift to them and to so many of us. Heaven surely is a better place with you, but we miss you.
Love and hugs,
Nancy and Will's family
Nancy Olson <nkotarget@bellsouth.net >
Marietta, ga usa - Sunday, May 29, 2005 3:09 PM CDT

Hi beautiful baby girl Hayley! Just came by to see you! Whenever I look at your picture, I have the urge to pick you up! How I wish I could! I really wish your mommy and daddy could! I think of you so often. I will never, ever forget you...EVER! You are and always will be such a special little girl! So many people who never even met you, like me, have fallen in love with you!

I will pray for your mommy and daddy every day. I hope they can find some happiness. I know they miss you so,so much...I can't even imagine. I just hope the prayers and love from family, friends, and complete stangers help them get through each day.

Hayley, keep sending the rainbows and all the other little signs to show them how close you are....

Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!!
- Friday, May 27, 2005 10:09 PM CDT

I have followed your site for a while now, and I just have to say every time I see Hayley, my heart actually hurts cause she looks alot like my little girl and I can't even come close to understanding what you guys are going through. I am so very deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl :(
I remember praying for her so much and when the end was near it was breaking my heart, she is one special person and I guess heaven couldn't stand not having her as well, and now you have an angel with you at all times. I know it would be better if she was here but I belive everything happends for a reason, but having Hayley taken from you has broken my heart and I can't even imagine what it has done to yours.

Still thinking of you guys lots!
~Erin~ Mommy to Emily & Lauren
Erin, Shawn, Emily & Lauren <moon2000_8@yahoo.ca>
Peterborough, Ontario - Friday, May 27, 2005 8:58 PM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan,

I am always taken back when your page comes up and there is beautiful Hayley. She was so beautiful. I continue to think about both of you and wonder how you are doing. I am glad a strange has touched you heart, because you have touched so many strangers hearts with your love for Hayley.
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
NY - Friday, May 27, 2005 8:09 PM CDT

It's been a long time since I have visited your site. I had a very difficult time coming back the past few months. I just wanted to say that not a day goes by when I don't fine the time to give my son an extra hug. Thanks so much for continuing to post and for sharing your gorgeous daughter with the world. Blessings for all life brings your way.
Christine and Asher Ford <boomgirl79@yahoo.com>
Westminster, CO - Friday, May 27, 2005 7:21 PM CDT

Oh Dayna! My heart aches for you and Alan! I think of Hayley and you and Alan everyday and always say a little prayer for you each time you cross my mind.
Thank you for continuing to update Hayley's site.
There's always so many things I want to say to you, but I never know what's appropriate - especially since I don't know you personally.
I want to repeat what Stephanie in TX said. I couldn't have said it better! You really have changed a lot of people's lives. I have a little girl that I love with all my heart. I find that I have an incredible amount of patience with her. When she's crying or up in the middle of the night or just being plain difficult, the moment frustration starts to creep in, I stop and catch myself. I think of Hayley and Allie and am thankful for my daughter.
Thank you for everything, especially for sharing your angel and your emotions.
Take care. The three of you are in our hearts forever!

Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, May 27, 2005 4:00 PM CDT

My goodness she was beautiful! Every time I come to your site and see your preciuos little angel looking "up at me" on the front it just brings me to tears. If she was this gorgous on earth could you imagine how beautiful she is in heaven!
Kim (Friends of Allie) <friendsofalliememphis@yahoo.com >
Memphis, TN - Friday, May 27, 2005 3:39 PM CDT

Dayna:
I live in Texas and found your website via Jenny Scott. I followed Hayley's story to the end, and cried with you and Alan when you lost that sweet baby girl. Hayley taught me to be a better mom, and to thank God every day for what i have. I never knew Hayley personally, but I will never ever forget her. I look forward to reading your posts and hearing how Hayley's legacy lives on through you and Alan. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, and will continue to be there forever. Thank you for sharing Hayley with me. Thank you for helping me to remember to relish in the "small stuff" and appreciate my own daughters more than ever. Thank you too for continuing to post, it's nice to have an update on your family. It is amazing how one little girl affected so many people from all over the world, she was truely an amazing child.
Stephanie Sutherland <suth9111@excite.com>
Goldthwaite, tx 76844 - Friday, May 27, 2005 1:03 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan: I still daily think and pray for the two of you. I still miss Hayley myself, and I never even had the wonderful opportunity to meet her im person. Still I feel as though I really knew her. When Hayley left...even I grieved...a complete stranger, so I cannot begin to understand what you are feeling...but I pray that God continues to hold you in his hands...until the day comes that you see your beautiful little rainbow painter again! Perfect and cancer free! I also can't wait to meet her for the first time.

Signing with the utmost admiration.
Rachael Soto (FOA/RA) <rsoto@nmrs.com>
Goose Creek, SC USA - Friday, May 27, 2005 12:33 AM CDT

What you are going through right now is so normal. Of course you feel like you are at the breaking point. It is not easy going through all this. As I have said before, losing a child is similar to wading through a sea of wet cement. You must keep moving because you will become completely hardened if you stop. The waves will come from behind and knock you down when you least expect. Family, friends and strangers want to help so badly and often say inane things(as I am sure I do)but they too feel so helpless. It takes all of us to help you through this time. You are making it though! You really, really are making progress. I can read it in your notes and I am so thankful for that. It is painfully hard for you to acknowledge progress because then you may feel guilty. Guilty because you are here and Hayley is not. Then the cycle starts again. I know because I have has such grief in my life that I almost did not make it. Unlike you, I kept my grief to myself. That is NEVER healthy. Please keep on writing your feelings and we all will keep praying and helping you the best we know how. After all, we are only humans and we must take it "one day at a time."
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Friday, May 27, 2005 11:36 AM CDT

Dayna,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and your precious little girl. She touched my heart and made me a better person and mother and I thank you for that. I have this site bookmarked and always check in to see how you are doing and to see the picture of beautiful Hayley. I pray for your strength, comfort and peace until you see your angel again someday. May God Bless you and your family. I know Hayley will be with you always....
Thank you again for sharing her with us, she has made an everlasting impression.
Kathy Quist
Littleton, CO USA - Friday, May 27, 2005 10:22 AM CDT

Dayna,

As I have said before, I hesitate to write anything because my words and empathy must be so much less than your pain. My heart breaks when I read about you missing Hayley. Your pain must be so much more.

I never met Hayley - never saw anything more than 2 dimensional photos on a website. But I can still feel the stab in my heart to know she is gone. I can't comprehend your and your family's pain.

I hope it helps a little to post here and to tell you that I still check this page and still think of you guys all the time.

My Aunt recently went into hospice counseling and I have two friends who are hospice ministers. I have learned from them to never fear bringing up the names of a missed loved one. They tell me that parents adore talking about their children even when their children are no longer there. It is scary for 'us' to mention the names of the babies because we don't want to cause any more pain. But, without fail, I have seen parents' eyes light up through the pain when we share a laugh of their little ones. Memories and sweet recollections are the only weapons we have against pain and we should use them to the fullest.

I hope someone in your life mentions your beautiful daughter every day. I hope you get the opportunity to sing Hayleys praises to whomever will listen.

Beth <elieber@bio.ri.ccf.org>
- Friday, May 27, 2005 9:36 AM CDT

Your family continues to be in our prayers!
Todd Willis <dawgfan1@bellsouth.net>
Buford, GA USA - Friday, May 27, 2005 9:18 AM CDT

I always feel a certain type of comfort when I see your updates. Even though I don't know you, Hayley became so important in my thoughts and prayers over those many, many months of your updates and journey. I think of Hayley and you and Alan daily, and I continue to pray for you. You are a wonderful legacy left here by your amazing little daughter and her incredible spirit. I know she must watch both of you with such pride.
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Friday, May 27, 2005 8:31 AM CDT

I can only imagine your hurt and pain that you feel each and every day since your little girl went to heaven. I have a little girl that is 3 years old and everytime I look at her I think of your little sweet baby girl. Not a night goes by that we don't pray for angel Hayley or angel Shelby (little cousin that recently passed away from childhood cancer in October). I know that both of those little girls are up in heaven playing together, painting rainbows together, playing with cute little kittens and puppies, and of course smiling with the biggest grins. You have no idea how much I wish I could give you one more day or even minute with Hayley. All I can tell you is that I promise GOD will watch over her until you can see her again. God bless.
christine Rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Friday, May 27, 2005 7:49 AM CDT

For a little girl I never meet, I think of her so often. I can't even begin to know the pain you are going through, my heart aches for the loss of Haley. But I hold tight to "God's plan is perfect", life on earth is but a blink of an eye, but waiting to see her again feels like forever. "God's plan is perfect" just keep telling yourself that, because it is even when we don't understand.

We miss her oh so much and God knows that and he will send you (us) moments of relief just when you need it.

Always in my prayers,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Friday, May 27, 2005 0:00 AM CDT

Hi there,
Just wanted to let you know that I too often check in on you and pray for you. Tonight we had a beautiful rainbow to remind us of your beautiful sweet faced Hayley. What an amazing little life to have touched so many she never met.

Shelly Van B <jayandshel@msn.com>
Reno , NV - Thursday, May 26, 2005 11:20 PM CDT

At the end of another very busy day, I am stopping by, as I often do, to pray for you. At least once every day or two, I check in. I have this website bookmarked in my Favorites. It truly is a favorite of mine! I love your precious little angel. May God bless and comfort you through another day.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:58 PM CDT

I check on you often. I don't know you personally, but have grown to care for you and your husband through Hayley's site. I can't fathom what you must be going through. I'm sure there are so many emotions rising and falling daily if not within moments during a day. Those of us who have never had a child taken from us, can not understand the feelings that you must have. I do know that after reading so many Caring Bridge sites and meeting people who have lost a loved one, that it is their wish to have their loved one "remembered." So many of us find it uncomfortable to talk about someone who has passed away, for fear that we will say the wrong thing or upset those left behind. It's so very important to acknowledge their existence. To NOT forget them! To keep their spirit alive. It scares me at times to try and remember my father's face, or his voice and I can't remember how he looked or sounded EXACTLY. I don't want to forget, but it's hard to remember at times. It's been over 12 years since he died. In some ways it seems like eternity and in others, like it was yesterday. I KNOW that we will see our loved ones again, however, the thought of being left without them in this life makes us feel sadness and anger at times. Know that there are many who love and care for you and Alan, even if we've never "met." I hope that through all of your emotions- ups and downs- people will continue to acknowledge your beautiful daughter and the glorious, precious life she lived. She has two wonderful, loving parents who need to continue to spread her message to the world. May God bless you and give you the assurance that you will be together with your precious Angel again- this life is but a moment. In His Love,
Kristin "Friends of Allie"
Plano, TX USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:18 PM CDT

Dana,

You guys are still in my prayers. I talk to Keith about him meeting Hayley soon. He LOVES to give hugs so I'm sure he'll give her a great big one as soon as he meets her!!! Take comfort in knowing that I asked him to give her a hug from you guys :)

Love,
Dena'

P.S. We're on hospice now and we automatically got Candace. You were right, she's great!!
Dena' Towells <denatowells@bellsouth.net>
Atlanta, Ga - Thursday, May 26, 2005 9:17 PM CDT

Continuing to pray for you and Alan and always remembering Hayley.
Kay Jackson, mom to Ali (www.caringbridge.org/ga/alijackson) <KJack8286@aol.com>
Powder Springs, GA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:55 PM CDT

Hayley is to bright a star for anyone to ever forget her,there isn't a day that goes by when i don't think of her and smile.I still shed a tear when i remember back to how well she was doing at first and how excited we all were.
My heart,thoughts and prayers are with you always,
Love Theresa.
Executive Director
Cancer Warriors Angel Network
www.cancerwarriors.org
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcasat.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:54 PM CDT

Dayna,
I emailed you a while back about making a few scrap pages of Haley. I will get to them eventaully.lol, it feels like I am buried under a million things to do but I can't wait. Not sure if you remember? I just wanted you to know I come here nearly everyday just to look at that picture of Hayley. Can you imagine how overjoyed God was to look down at that ray of sunshine and scoop her up? I miss her and I have never even physically been in her presense. She really got into my heart. I love her sweet,playful beautiful spirit and she lives on in all of us that love her. She was so lucky to have you and Alan! God couldn't have picked more loving parents for her. :)
Erin
erin <eden75@yahoo.com>
des moines, ia - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:45 PM CDT

Dayna,
I felt your every word. Gosh, Life prepares us so inadequately to handle stuff like this. In the heart of the struggle, we're full of words, heart and faith. But, when the critical struggle ends, and the soul's struggle to move on enters, we grapple for words...

What any one of us wouldn't do to have sweet Hayley back. What any one of us wouldn't do to bring comfort to your days... Our words feel so flat given the magnitude of emotion we know you experience each day. Yet, for every single person who came to love Hayley, there is a rainbow in a heart.

Always know how very special Hayley was and continues to be to the world...Hugs of thanks for sharing her come your way with each and every thought.

Love,
Camp Jack (www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)
Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:42 PM CDT

dayna &alan we saw the most beautiful rainbow last night as the sun was setting after the rain and thought of your beautiful little angel hayley.
carrie <charmingirl@aol.com>
newtown, pa usa - Thursday, May 26, 2005 7:45 PM CDT

Dayna:
I put a pink bow in McKenna's hair today and thought about Hayley. I will forever associate pink bows, or any bow for that matter, with Hayley. You are a constant in my thoughts and prayers. I keep telling Jesee she needs to have a get-together in the new house...I hope to see you soon. Much love, Darcie

Darcie Wallace <darciepw@bellsouth.net>
Marietta, GA 30066 - Thursday, May 26, 2005 4:47 PM CDT

Sending big (((((HUGS)))) from Tennessee. I think of you guys often, you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Teri <teri22677@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, May 26, 2005 4:26 PM CDT

Dayna, I haven't signed much lately because I see Hayley's picture and see that smile and it makes me sad. I still can't fathom the depth of heartache you and Alan must feel. Please know that your beautiful Hayley touched my heart and continues to hold a special place there. I continue to pray for your family that you continue to be blessed by the little reminders of Hayley and that you continue to be comforted by them. Once again bless you for continuing to share yourselves with us. Hayley was a gift you shared with the world. We are better for having her.
Rachel C. <lilcrazymamac@hotmail.com>
Bedford, TX - Thursday, May 26, 2005 3:15 PM CDT

I check your site quite often to read your updates. I feel for your loss and you are in my constant thoughts. Strange how such a loss has allowed so many people into your lives. Hayley is truly a special child to have given you the opportunity to learn how important you both are to so many. God bless you both. Hayley will not be forgotten.
Karol <jlsfoster@yahoo.com>
summerfield, NC - Thursday, May 26, 2005 2:10 PM CDT

Still thinking and praying for you.
Christi
Mesquite, tx usa - Thursday, May 26, 2005 2:03 PM CDT

So sorry for your pain...you are in my thoughts and prayers daily...I often think of your precious Angel Hayley...especially her beautiful smile....stay strong...

God bless
Ozzie <ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Thursday, May 26, 2005 1:37 PM CDT

You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Yes, your pain will always be with you, even as you go on. My little one passed away 15 years ago. You learn to adjust and go on and some days are harder than others. Knowing they are in a better place and waiting for you gives us a little peace.I know we will one day be reunited. God bless you and I am sending a BIG hug!!!
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Thursday, May 26, 2005 1:08 PM CDT

I just wanted to let you know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I love to visit Hayley's page, to see her precious smile!

May God Be With You-
Zhohn Dupont <z_dupont@hotmail.com>
Moreauville, LA USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 12:13 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and Hayley today. I'm crying a tear for the pain that will NEVER go away for you. I pray that each day Hayley sends you a sign or message. I also pray that each day Hayley's name is spoken by someone, somewhere so that we never forget her and beautiful face. Hayley's life touched so many including mine and many other Friend's of Allie. Please know that I think of and pray for you often.
Christy Mensi **FOA/RA** <christy.mensi@gmail.com>
Houston, TX - Thursday, May 26, 2005 11:29 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I cannot fully imagine what your lives are like now. I have 2 daughters, one is 3 months younger than Hayley. I can try to imagine if I lost her, but it hurts just thinking about it. So that gives me a small clue as to what you've been feeling. I am so sorry.
I fell in love with Hayley many months ago and I think of her every single day. The picture of her on the home page here is etched in my memory, she is so beautiful and precious. When I think of her, I think of that picture.

I want you to be reminded today that she touched so many people and she WILL always live on in all of those hearts. I wish you had her in your arms, more than you know. But until you are reunited, know that she will never be forgotten.
Karen (FOA/RA)
Stow, OH - Thursday, May 26, 2005 11:24 AM CDT

I can't comprehend you pain. I think of your beautiful daughter often. Sending you prayers of strength and hope. I am so blessed to have known your sweet angle (even if only online). Thank you for sharing your feelings. You and your special family are so loved.

Mindi & CamiJo (FOA/RA) <mopoelwijk@cs.com>
Sparks, NV USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 11:02 AM CDT

Stopping by to see Hayley sweet smile. I truly miss seeing new photos of her radiant smile. There was a rainbow in the sky this morning when I was taking my son to daycare and I know that it was Hayley painting it. So you will be pleased to know that Hayley visited Nebraska today. Once again thank you for shaing Hayley with me, you have truly made me a better mommy!!! Know you are in my thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <mommytooryan@hotmail.com>
Hastings, NE USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:35 AM CDT

Prayers & thoughts today and everyday about your sweet Angel. She has touched so many lives in her short time here on earth. What a blessing. It tears me up that she had to leave you so soon. I do want you to know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Kari (FOA/RA) <zfamily00@hotmail.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:26 AM CDT

Dayna,
What a beautiful and heartfelt entry. You continue to amaze me each time I read a new posting or go back and read the journal history. You are an awesome woman in Christ and a WONDERFUL MOTHER! The answer to the question of "do you have any children?" is Yes, you do, her name is Hayley and she now lives in Heaven and closely watches over you the same way that you watched over her during her time here on Earth. You are no less of a mother than I or anyone else. I have always firmly believed that God never gives us more than we can handle so when I think of you, even though we have never met, I KNOW that you are such a strong and faithful Mother. I have so much respect for you that words can not even describe. I remember you often in my prayers! I loved what you had at the end of the entry. How true that is! My heart breaks for you and I will continue to lift you up and your husband as well. Your words are such a blessing and you set a wonderful example to all who read this. May God continue to show you little glimpses of Miss Hayley at every turn as a constant reminder that she is always there in spirit.
Friends in Christ,
Leslie Ellenburg
Jamie, Leslie, Jared and Katie <leslieellenburg@wmconnect.com>
Greeneville, TN - Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:25 AM CDT

Thinking of you both!
Amy <xrayminds@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:18 AM CDT

Please know there are so many people out there who care so deeply for your family. I still think of Hayley often and check your site each day to see how the two of you are doing. We still include you all in our family prayers each night, even though we have never met. I can only imagine how much you must miss your girl.

You and Alan must be two very special people in God's eyes to have been chosen as her parents. HE knew you would appreciate every second she spent her on earth and that you would care for her like no other. I truely believe HIS choice in you as her parents was SO intentional. I also think he knew that while your heart aches for her now you would use her story in a way that would enrich the lives of others. You've already done that simply by sharing her with us! Thank you for that.

I believe God has a plan that will bring joy to your lives once again! Keep taking good care of one another. We are all still here hoping for the best for you.
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 9:57 AM CDT

Just to let you know that there are lots of us out here who care and think about your precious baby. Please know that you are not forgotten and that people everywhere are touched and blessed because of your daughter. You are a mom--never doubt that. Wish you all the best, today and forever.
Heather
Heather Castagna <hayher01@aol.com>
Grapevine, tx - Thursday, May 26, 2005 9:35 AM CDT

Dayna and Allan, I did not follow Hayley's journey, but saw your link on another site this morning. I have read some of your entries and wanted to send my sympathy and love your way. Losing a child is such a heart break and I can't say I know how you are feeling. I just know that Hayley is with our Lord now and is pain free and smiling all of the time. She would want us all to smile and remember her life. Each day without Hayley is sad, but try to find a positive thing to live for so Hayley's memories will live on. I have marked your site as a favorite and will check back. Love to you both.
Pam Gerstner/Wisconsin Angels/FOA <ggpg6@yahoo.com>
Kenosha, wi - Thursday, May 26, 2005 9:29 AM CDT

Dana, I'm so very sorry for the intense pain you and Alan are going through. I pray for you and think of you both and your beautiful Angel every day.
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta, FOA/RA/CW <skc62@gmail.com>
Suwanee, GA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 9:29 AM CDT

Dayna - we've never met and probably never will. BUT... please know that I pray for you and Alan daily and check Hayley's website daily. I was so happy to see your update today since it had been two weeks since you last posted. I am so sorry for your grief as I know it never goes away. I guess I just wanted you to know that silent prayer is sent up for your daily! Hang in there and God bless you and Alan.
Stephanie Deal <stephanie.deal@kcc.com>
Lawrenceville, GA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:16 AM CDT

You are so amazing and never cease to amaze me....there is not a day that goes by that i do not think of you. i have this webpage in my "favorites" and every morning the first thing I do do is log on to see if you have updated this...i cannot begin to imagine how you feel each day, i don't even know that i would be able to step out of my bed in the mornings...i do hope you find more peace with each day that goes on.
brenda <brendaboatperson@hotmail.com>
simpsonville, sc usa - Thursday, May 26, 2005 8:14 AM CDT

Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of all of you and praying for you all. What a beautiful angel you have.
Jenny (WI Angels/FOA) <jennifer.hohner@marquette.edu>
St. Francis, WI usa - Thursday, May 26, 2005 7:49 AM CDT

I think of all of you and Hayley often. I am currently raising funds for the inaugural "Light the Night Walk" in Canada, (June 10 in Mississauga, Ontario). Hayley has helped to inspire me. All the best from a friend in Canada.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, May 26, 2005 7:44 AM CDT

Dayna-
I am at a loss for words....I know that your pain itensifies each day because it is another day without your Hayley. As broken as I feel right now, I know it can't compare to your sadness. I am so sorry for the "numbness" you must feel during the days and that each day you have to wake up and learn to live without your sweet Hayley all over again. But, I am reminded by your entry that without such love there wouldn't be such sweet memories. Your love for your daughter will continue and will grow for eternity. And the lessons she taught us will be carried on. I am praying for you and Alan and know that God will continue to meet you just when you need it most. I know that is the only way you get through each day. I also pray that those you come in contact with will continue to speak Hayley's name.......and what a sweet name it is. Thank you again, for your honesty.
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Thursday, May 26, 2005 7:23 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,

There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about dear sweet Hayley! Its hard for me to come here. Although I did not get to be her angel for very long, I still cherished her. My heart still breaks. Know that you are always thought of!
Dawn Briscoe <Dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 1:34 AM CDT

Dear Dayna and Allan,
I will never ever forget sweet Hayley. I pray for you all the time for Jesus to give you peace and comfort. My heart is truly broken for you. I am so glad you have such wonderful memories of your precious angel. She has brought so much joy to me and to countless others. She has taught us so many lessons. She has taught us how to live each day to the fullest. She has reminded us all how special rainbows are. You and your families are being prayed for so much every day. I bet someone is always saying a prayer for you every single minute of the day. When one person finishes, another one begins his or her prayer for you!
Love, Shannon Ball
Shannon Ball
Keller, TX USA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 1:16 AM CDT

I think about you and pray for you all the time. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayes. And I will never forget Hayley; Never ever. She is one little girl that had a HUGE impact.
Stacie (Wisconsin Angels/Friends of Allie) <stacie_7@yahoo.com>
Stoughton, Wi USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 10:49 PM CDT

I have been "silently" praying for you, but had to sign tonight, couldnt keep the silence tonight. My tears flow, but want you to know we are thinking of you praying for peace. You are so strong and I admire you to the fullest. You have taught me time and time again to love everyday to the fullest, and renewed my faith as a mother and wife.

Praying in Arizona!
Wendy <wapeters@cox.net>
Mesa, AZ USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 10:41 PM CDT

Dayna-
I think of Hayley often. A huge smile comes to my face when I open her site and see that wonderful photo! I can't begin to imagine what you are going thru. Please know you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Ginny **FOA/RA** <jgdeegan@msn.com>
Mtn. Home AFB, ID USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 10:30 PM CDT

Dayna,

For a long time now, I have continued to visit Hayley's CaringBridge Site. I was captured during her treatment and even more so by her eternal cure from this disease. This disease has no concious, no soul, or else it wouldn't ravage the lives of the loved ones it attacks. I have never had the chance to meet you, or had the chance to meet Hayley, yet everytime I see a rainbow, I focus on the pink and remember her sweetness. Or, everytime I see the twins I am a Nanny to chasing their cat, and occasionally giving an ear or her tail a quick tug, I also think of Hayley. I am only a few short months away from becoming an educator and have passed my time until then as a preschool teacher of children Hayley's age. Children, of all ages, are my life. When Hayley met our Father, I went to my preschool class and saw my children so differently. I embraced them all everyday after that, just in case their Mommies had been in a hurry. I always told them that their teacher's loved them and wanted the best for them and encouraged them just a little more. You see, your daughter's life, even though it was far too brief changed lives around the world for children. I recently lost my grandmother and next to my mother, she was the most important woman in my life. Words cannot describe the raw pain I have felt with this or that I feel with each passing holiday. The poem you have posted on your site could not do a more adaquate job to describe the pain and experience I am dealing with. Although no, I have not lost a child, I have been given a chance to understand grief through a completely different perspective. Before learning of the angels of childhood cancer, I had sympathy for people who lost loved ones, but nowhere near the sympathy I have now. I take that time to check on them, and just to give that phone call a few weeks down the road. It's been several months since my grandmother passed and since she was such an intricate part of my life, I can still walk into a room and see her picture and well up with tears. Some days, I still pick up the phone and dial her number before the realization sets in. Again, I can't imagine what it is like to be you and Alan, but I do want you to know that Hayley will never be forgotten. From seeing her pictures, I see her on the faces of children that are smiling and laughing all of the time, and I always say a quick prayer for you. You are amazing, and you constantly embrace your faith in God, which is so encouraging to those who still visit the site, and trust me we're here. We think of you, even though we don't know you, and honestly just want you to know that someone, somewhere still thinks of your sweet angel and of you.
Tiffany Thomas <tiffanyrthomas@yahoo.com>
Waycross, GA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 10:08 PM CDT

Dayna~

I use to post to your family quite a bit and when Hayley earned her wings it truly broke my heart.... I think because I have a little girl and just knowing that my heart would be crushed forever if I ever lost her... I couldn't even begin to imagine truly how much hurt you were dealing with.... I did send you a card when Hayley passed away and while it wasn't much it was the first time I ever reached out to try and comfort another person that I had never truly met but I wanted you to know how much you and your beautiful angel touched my heart. I'm a better person because Hayley touched my life through the words of her mother. I will never forget what Hayley gave me and for that I will always be trying to help the littlest soldiers of this disease.

I think of you often and your family will be in my prayers.
Jane Kahl (Wisconsin Angels/FOA) <kahlja@charter.net>
Sun Prairie, WI - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 9:44 PM CDT

I hope you got the e-mail I sent you the other day. Even though I do not know you personally, I think about you often and pray for you to have peace in your life. Whenever I see cats I think of Hayley and the other day, there was a rainbow and I thought of her too. I don't think you will ever know how many lives Hayley touched from afar.

((hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 9:16 PM CDT

I will always remember your precious little girl. I still think about her every day, so I can't even begin to imagine how you feel. I'm happy that you were blessed with her though, and will see her again one day.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 9:00 PM CDT

I cannot begin to understand your pain, but I know that your hearts are broken and I pray for you each day.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Wednesday, May 25, 2005 8:22 PM CDT

Dayna-
Everyday, there in my cubicle at work, next to the photo of my nieces is a little black and white photo copy picture of Hayley. Some people may think that sounds wierd, but to me, Hayley touched me that much that I feel honored to have her photo up. What a lucky Mama you were to be blessed with such a beautiful little princess. I can't imagine the pain you feel having something so perfect sent from God and then have to give her back to God. It seems impossible. I pray for you and Allen.
(and Grandmas too!)
You will be forever be a Mommie Dayna. You are Hayley's Mama!
Thinking and praying for you from a far.

Laruie
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 7:49 PM CDT

Alan and Dayna,
I just wanted to tell you once more that I continue to come to "see" you guys every day here. I'm still so sad for you too, after 5 months. Nobody expects your hearts to ever heal completely. I'm glad that woman was sensitive enough to recognize that and help you a bit last weekend. Many thoughts and prayers---
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA)
CA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 5:58 PM CDT

I still check your site daily and constantly think of your beautiful girl. Everytime I see a little girl named Hayley, I think of your Hayley, and how she must be right now- how her mama and dad must be right now.
I have not lost a child, but the mere thought of such takes my breath completely away.
Hayley was so lucky to have come into the lives of such wonderful, loving parents.
The Rainbow has to get brighter someday.
Hugs-
Nicole Anderson <purplenurple@comcast.net>
Salt Lake City, UT USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 5:48 PM CDT

Silly me...once again thinking that I came here for you. Looks like by now I'd see that it was I who receives the blessings by coming here though I do want to always let you know that you're in my daily prayers. Thank you so much for teaching me another lesson in life; one of how we should help to keep the memories alive instead of feeling like if we bring up one's lost loved one, we'll only bring a flood of tears. May your memories of sweet Hayley sustain you until you're united once again.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 5:18 PM CDT

Dana...I want you to know I think of you daily. You and Allen are in my families prayers daily. I have not expierenced what you have but I feel as if I 'know' you through this website. Please know you have prayers coming your way from Texas!
Missy <Missymom24@email.com>
Lubbock, Tx US - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 5:07 PM CDT

That story is so true and I was thinking the whole time I was reading it that just as the pain lasts forever, your memories do too (I was glad to see that at the end). I am blessed with 4 children, 3 here and 1 in Heaven (God got to see him first...I am still waiting for my chance) and I wouldn't want to forget a single moment. I think of you all often as I work by the cemetary and pass it on my way home. I will continue to pray for you both that you will eventually "heal" and that the scars remind you of what a wonderful gift you were given.
Sally <sally_pete@msn.com>
Woodstock, GA - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 3:29 PM CDT

Just checking in. Hope all is going well with your new job, Dayna. Keeping you in my prayers.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 8:42 AM CDT

Thinking of you & remembering you in my prayers.
Susan <Susanmvt@aol.com>
Peachtree City, GA USA - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 6:56 PM CDT

Just stopping by to say hi. We think about you often.
Love,
Jenny Wilkins
J Wilkins <jencarroll@hotmal.com>
Guyton, GA - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 11:17 AM CDT

Praying for you...
celeste welch <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 6:58 AM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan,

Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you. The photo of Hayley on the mainpage still makes me smile. She has not been forgotten.

Love,
Debbie
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Monday, May 23, 2005 9:16 PM CDT

Just thinking of you both and checking for updates. I hope that all is going well. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
I think of Hayley everyday, especially at lunch time. I pass a small pond each day and there are always geese there. After reading your post about the cemetary, I always relate the geese to Hayley, along with the rainbows and the pink sunrises and sunsets. What an angel she is! And when I think of her, I think of you two and say a little prayer. Take care! Thans again for sharing your princess with us.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, May 23, 2005 9:48 AM CDT

Continuing to check Hayley's site and pray for her precious parents.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 8:36 PM CDT

Thinking of you both and all of Hayley's family and friends. Praying for your peace and comfort.
Hayley's prayer friends in Ohio
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 7:59 PM CDT

I am thinking about you and praying so much for you both! I check Hayley's site often just to see her beautiful face! Sending lots of good thoughts your way. :)
a mommy from MA
- Sunday, May 22, 2005 7:01 PM CDT

Just checking in to let you know you are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Much Love
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, ca - Sunday, May 22, 2005 3:24 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,

I saw the most beautiful double rainbow yesterday on Staten Island, New York. My grandpa sends rainbows to my family and I know that Hayley's pink was shining bright in the other rainbow and I automatically thought of you. I hope your all doing well.

-erin-
Erin <lilfishie98@aol.com>
Babylon, NY USA - Sunday, May 22, 2005 3:20 PM CDT

I saw the most beautifully perfect rainbow yesterday and immediately thought of sweet Hayley and you guys. My prayers for strength and comfort for you continue in earnest.
Stephany <stephsand28@yahoo.com>
Newcastle, WA - Friday, May 20, 2005 10:02 AM CDT

I find myself continuing to check your sight just to look at the picture of your beautiful daughter. I can't imagine what you are going through, but from one mother to another, know that I think about you.
Alicia Lovens <ablovens@aol.com>
Castro Valley , CA - Thursday, May 19, 2005 10:36 PM CDT

I'm checking in on you, like I do so many days....just wanting to remember precious Hayley. It is a moment in my day that I stop everything I am doing and think about your sweet daughter and how God used her to make me a better mommy. It's a time when I pray for you wherever you are....that God is showing you glimpses of HIS love and happy glimpses of Hayley. Hayley opened a whole new world for me and the fight against childhood cancer. More than that, Hayley (and you) remind me that each day is a gift...never to be taken for granted. thank you, again, for allowing "strangers" to be a part of your journey and learn from one of the sweetest, most loved little teachers I will ever know. keep hanging on....
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 5:36 PM CDT

Thinking of you in Austin!
Love, Barry and Cheryl
ferguson <CFERGUSON@MAIL.UTEXAS.EDU>
- Wednesday, May 18, 2005 4:10 PM CDT

Stopping by to see Hayley's georgous little smile. Know that I am thinking of you. You are in my prayers.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <mommytooryan@hotmail.com>
Hastings, NE USA - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 2:12 PM CDT

Thinking of you in California!
XXOO, Marey and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 17, 2005 11:21 PM CDT

Continuing to check Hayley's site each day as I life you up in prayer.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
- Tuesday, May 17, 2005 7:51 PM CDT

Dana and Alan,

You inspire me. You and Miss Hayley give me encouragement.

I think of you and her often. Your struggle and her life has touched me so.

I have a 19-month old little girl, Maddie Grace. Reading about Hayley and also her friend Maddie Grace has made a difference in my life.

I just wanted to let you know that.
De Anna Waldrop <deanna.waldrop@ronblue.com>
Brentwood, TN United States of America - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 11:50 AM CDT

Hi Dayna,

i just wanted you to know that even though i haven't signed the guestbook in a while i'm still here,still thinking about you all and still remembering Hayley's gorgeous smile .. She has a piece of my heart always.
Love Theresa xxx
Executive Director
Cancer Warriors Angel Network
www.cancerwarriors.org
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 11:06 AM CDT

Hi Dayna and Alan,
Just wanted to let you know, I still think and pray for you two. Thanks for updating.

Kristin <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
- Monday, May 16, 2005 9:16 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,

I haven't signed the guestbook in a while. I just wanted to let you know that I think of you each day! Congratulations on the part time job Dayna.

:)ERIN
erin <lilfishie98@aol.com>
babylon, ny usa - Sunday, May 15, 2005 8:40 PM CDT

Dear Dayna,
I saw a rainbow today that was so unusual. It was completely horizontal in the sky. Everytime, we see a rainbow, I think of Hayley. My daughter Allie, 3, calls them Hayley's rainbow. The rainbow today was as if Hayley was jumping up and down on it with some friends. It made me smile!
xoxox
Ann Berger - Friend of CampJack and especially Hayley!
Ann Berger <beanieann@yahoo.com>
San Juan Capistrano, CA US - Saturday, May 14, 2005 0:50 AM CDT

not a day goes by when I don't think of you both.....today was no different. I am praying for your continued battle with the unwanted "new". I am reminded of the verse that says...His mercies are new every morning....great is His faithfulness. EVEN in the depths of your pain...
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Friday, May 13, 2005 9:11 PM CDT

Dayna,
I am am thinking of you this day and praying for your continued strength. Your faith is an amazing example for me and must be for many others. May peace be yours today-
Rita <r.wils@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, May 13, 2005 11:49 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
Hello! I have checked your site several times but never signed your book. I am not sure how I even found your site but I am so glad that I did! She is absolutely gorgeous! Hayley's picture on the home page makes my heart smile! What a sweetie! I want to tell you that I am so sorry for your loss and you both are in my prayers. I have several little CaringBridge friends that I pray for and check on. Cancer is such an ugly thing and something that none of us will ever understand while here on this Earth. Praise God for the blessed assurance of knowing that Miss Hayley is now running and playing in her Heavenly home! While so many things are so hard to understand, I have seen so many glimpes of our Precious Lord from reading these children's pages. So many of these children have led people, some of whom they have never even met, to our Lord. What a blessing! I want to give you the site of my first CaringBridge friend. Her mother is a friend of mine. From reading your entries, I believe that you would find comfort in reading Cindy's entries. She is such a faithful and awesome believer. I pray that you find more comfort and peace in the days ahead. May God hold you both close to his side and cradle you in his arms especially at the times when you feel so alone. Also, I love the message in the card that you received. That is so true.

Sarah Grace Garland
www.caringbridge.org/dc/sarahgrace

Friends in Christ,
Leslie Ellenburg
Jamie, Leslie, Jared and Katie <leslieellenburg@wmconnect.com>
Greeneville, TN - Friday, May 13, 2005 10:08 AM CDT

You are so right in saying that it hurts more later. The reality sets in and does not seem to budge. What often hurts even more is when someone thinks it is time for you to put it behind you and move on with your life. You will get to the point where the grief is not so raw, but that is on your time schedule. Everyone is different. I am sure that you are working as hard as you can to adjust to life without your precious rainbow painter. Your rainbow painter does not grieve because she knows the truth about eternity and she knows you will all meet again. Does it not delight your soul that she does not grieve? I think that would be one of the few things that would bring "pure joy" to me;knowing that my precious child will never experience anything but happiest and laughter and all good things. There are no tears in heaven. There will be people who go to heaven because of your witnessing. Some people would never have known about the love of Jesus had it not been for Hayley.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 8:14 PM CDT

I still check your site every few weeks. Thank you for continuing to share your journey. I'm writing tonight because, for the briefest of moments just now, I GOT IT. My daughter is 6 months old, and as I read your words about Mother's Day and then looked at Hayley's precious pictures one more time, I felt this ache in my heart that I've never felt before. For the briefest of moments, I knew the absolute devastation that would consume me if Samantha were no longer present here with me. I saw her face in my mind and imagined her not here, and it shattered me right then and there. What you've been through shouldn't happen to any parent. I don't understand why it does. I will pray for the two of you as you seek help to deal with your ever-present grief. I sure do appreciate the perspective you bring to my life and the lives of so many who sometimes take our children for granted.
Kelley Land <kelley@helwys.com>
Macon, GA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 8:03 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan - you are in my thoughts and prayers every single day.
"little rainbow painter" - that's sweet and that card couldn't have been more perfect.
Take care! Congratulations on the tennis and on your new job, Dayna!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, May 12, 2005 4:04 PM CDT

You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I so wish we could do smoething to help ease your pain. But as we all know God is great and he is holding you tight.

Always Praying,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Wednesday, May 11, 2005 10:46 PM CDT

I heard this song recently and thought of you all. It's called Held by Natalie Grant and just states that when the unthinkable happens you are being "held" by the father. I hope it can bring you some comfort, Here are the words Two months is too little
They let him go
They had no sudden healing
To think that providence
Would take a child from his mother
While she prays, is appalling
Who told us we�d be rescued
What has changed and
Why should we be saved from nightmares
Were asking why this happens to us
Who have died to live, it�s unfair
This is what it means to be held
How it feels, when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive
This is what it is to be loved and to know
That the promise was that when everything fell
We�d be held
This hand is bitterness
We want to taste it and
Let the hatred numb our sorrows
The wise hand opens slowly
To lilies of the valley and tomorrow
This is what it means to be held
How it feels, when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive
This is what it is to be loved and to know
That the promise was that when everything fell
We�d be held
If hope if born of suffering
If this is only the beginning
Can we not wait, for one hour
Watching for our savior
This is what it means to be held
How it feels, when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive
This is what it is to be loved and to know
That the promise was that when everything fell
We�d be held
Repeat Chorus

Meredith
Carrollton, TX - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 5:44 PM CDT

You guys are amazing. I am praying that the grief counselor will be used by God to help ease your pain. Dayna, I thought of you all day Sunday and I just marveled at what an amazing mother you are!!!! As amazing as you both are I know the pain is intense, so I just keep covering you in prayer and I keep checking back here to see how you are doing. Thanks for keeping us posted.
Carol Jackovich <colton_c@bellsouth.net>
Atlanta, GA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 2:30 PM CDT

I just wanted you to know I still check in on you both and pray for you. I thought of you so much on Sunday. I said prayers for all the mom's I know of that have lost a child. Hayley had such an impact on my family. God bless you both.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 1:37 PM CDT

I visited sweet Hayley's gravesite today. The sun was shining and the geese were playing nearby. Her pink flowers looked fresh and pretty. It was so beautiful at the cemetary today that I could only imagine how beautiful it must be for Hayley and Matthew today in Heaven!
Robin Salley <rzsalley@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, Ga US - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 1:32 PM CDT

Way to go on the Job!!! Thats great news. I am also glad you and Allen are seeing a counselor, I think that is one of the best things you could do for each other! I am so sorry for your pain, so sorry for the loss you feel everyday, and still think of you often, thank you for continuing to share your life with us!

Paige <medicpaige@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 12:49 AM CDT

I don't think I can express my feelings any clearer that what was posted just below by Celeste. But I can tell you I feel exactly the same way, and I pray for you daily and think of you more.

Karen
Stow, OH - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 12:02 AM CDT

I am STILL thinking of Hayley each day and wishing that you had her wrapped in your arms. I am STILL so sorry for your pain and grief. I am STILL heartbroken for the loss of a precious angel who God used to change my life. I am still CERTAIN that somehow God is going to bring you through this and CERTAIN that you will be reunited with Hayley and those sweet cheeks one day! It's just the "getting there" that's so hard......
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 11:29 AM CDT

Thanks for posting. I think about you guys a lot. What a perfect card. I couldn't think of a way to say it better. Still praying for your peace.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 10:37 AM CDT

I think of you often and still check the site to get updates on you and Alan. Thanks for continuing to share with all of us, as I know it helps me to pray more specifically for both of you!

Take care and know that many people across the U.S. pray for you daily.
Stephanie Deal <stephanie.deal@kcc.com>
Lawrenceville, GA - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 10:33 AM CDT

I thought of you so much last weekend and lifted up so many prayers for you both. I am so sorry for your pain. I hope your new job helps to occupy your mind. Still remembering your little punkin.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:35 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,

I still think of both of you both often. Praying for peace and comfort.
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
NY - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 9:29 AM CDT

A Mother's Day Gift From God

Lord today is Mother's Day,
but my heart is split in two,
Half is hear on earth still
here, the other with the child
that is there with you.
All the lovely presents are a
nice surprise
But the only thing I want most is missing, and tears fill my
eyes.
I know when you sent him Lord,
You didn't promise how long he would stay
All you said was to love him and treasure each and every day.
But Lord it crushed my heart, when you called for his return.
I really feel like half a mom, as I ache, weep, and yearn.
But Lord tell him I love him just as much as I did before.
And could you please make a window, so he can see through
heaven's floor,
Let him see that he is missed and thought of with each breath.
And that a Mother's love begins before life, and does not end
with death.
So on this Mother's Day, The Greatest Gift "I Give To You.".
For Lord I know you missed him, and you Love him too.

Kim (Friends of Allie / Raise Awareness) <friendsofalliememphis@yahoo.com>
Memphis, TN - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 8:48 AM CDT

Just dropping by to let you know you are in my thoughts. All the best.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 7:53 AM CDT

Ditto to Pat.

We love you,
Camp Jack

Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 9:03 PM CDT

We think of Hayley all the time......she is missed and never forgotten.

Patrick king, (father of Merrill King 10 years old, AML DX April 2004 www.merrillking.com) <kingpa@corp.earthlink.net>
Roswell, GA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 5:58 PM CDT

You all came to my mind when I read this in Our Daily Bread this morning: "To be able to accept God's purposes during times of great pain and loss is the essence of faith. We trust Him because we know Him, not because we always understand Him." You two continue to demonstrate your remarkable faith in the midst of nearly overwhelming sorrow - that is such a magnificent testimony.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 4:01 PM CDT

Thinking of your sweet Angle today. I wanted to let you know I think of her often and pray for your strength. Stay strong sweet family. I am blessed to have known your sweet Angle (even if it only was on this site). (((((HUGS))))
Mindi & CamiJo (FOA/RA) <mopoelwijk@cs.com>
Sparks, NV USA - Tuesday, May 10, 2005 12:29 AM CDT

I read the poem and it gave me goosebumps. I realize that yesterday was probably a tough one for you, but know that many, many people were thinking about you and saying a prayer for you. Please know that all of you remain in my prayers.
Terri
Terri Weiler <tweiler81@yahoo.com>
Cordova, TN USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 4:04 PM CDT

Dayna know that I thought about you yesterday. I know that your angel was shining down on you. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <mommytooryan@hotmail.com>
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 3:44 PM CDT

Thinking of you and your sweet angel Haley today

Kim (Friends of Allie ) <friendsofalliememphis@yahoo.com>
Memphis, TN - Monday, May 9, 2005 2:43 PM CDT

Hi Dayna - was thinking about you this weekend...thought I would check out your site. I hope you had a nice day, despite the sadness I'm sure you endured....I was hoping for rain yesterday, so that you just might have seen a very special rainbow from a very special someone! Talk to you soon!
Cecilia <cecilia.elias@alltel.com>
Cumming, Ga - Monday, May 9, 2005 2:43 PM CDT

I thought about you over the weekend, Dayna. God Bless you. Please keep us all posted on how things are with you and Alan!
Kevin
Cumming, GA USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 2:14 PM CDT

I just wanted to drop you a note to let you know I continue to check your site often and keep you in my prayers.
Laura Lynn <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Gettysburg, Pa - Monday, May 9, 2005 1:10 PM CDT

Just wanted to leave a note telling you that I thought of you yesterday, and think of you and Alan daily. You don't know me - and I don't really know you guys, but I followed your story, and fell in love with Hayley! I'm praying for you guys all the time, hoping that you're doing ok. Hang in there!!
Barri <barrikim@optonline.net>
N. Bellmore, NY USA - Monday, May 9, 2005 1:02 PM CDT

I am sitting here sobbing. I am sooo sorry for you Dayna. May God Bless you.
Missy <missymom24@email.com>
Lubbock, Tx us - Monday, May 9, 2005 10:26 AM CDT

Dayna - I thought of you yesterday and asked God to be with you. That was a beautiful poem that you shared.
I'm sure your angel was looking down on you and blowing you kisses.
I hope the day wasn't too terribly difficult for you. As one of the other "signers" said, once a mother, always a mother. And you are definitely one to be honored. Take care!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Monday, May 9, 2005 9:36 AM CDT

I am sure this was a difficult Mother's Day for you. I can't imagine the emotions you must have felt today. I pray that most of them were happy as you looked at how wonderful of a mommy you are to Hayley. I hope that in the future, you and Alan decide to have another child. I will continue to pray for you two.
Lindsay
Houston, - Monday, May 9, 2005 2:48 AM CDT

Best wishes to you today and everyday!
Love,
Allie, Ann, Erica and Scott - Friends of CampJack
Ann Berger <beanieann@yahoo.com>
San Juan Capistrano, CA USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 11:01 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Dayna. Once a mother, always a mother and a great one at that. I am sure your precious angel was with you today.
Take care
Tarah ~RA~ <tarah@aol.com>
Austin, TX - Sunday, May 8, 2005 10:35 PM CDT

I think of you guys so very often, but especially on days like today... know that prayers continue to be said for both of you.
Hugs,
Jenny

P.S. Let me know if there is anything that I can do to help out with the golf tournament.
www.caringbridge.org/ga/catie <jencarroll@hotmail.com>
Guyton, GA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:48 PM CDT

Thinking of you today
Crista <sahwvmom@aol.com>
WV - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:42 PM CDT

Thinking of you today....
prayer friends in ohio
- Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:40 PM CDT

Thinking of you today! (and everyday!!)
D.D. Dixon www.caringbridge.org/ga/marygrace <d.d.dixon@comcast.net>
Canton, Ga - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:39 PM CDT

Dayna, just wanted to stop by and wish you a Happy Mother's Day... no one deserves it more than a mom who has had to give a child back to God.

Lots of love,
Katie, Hayley, Hunter, and Taylor <dugan2b@yahoo.com>
Franklin, MA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:01 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day, Dayna. I remember you walking Hayley endlessly through the halls of Scottish Rite, thinking "what patience". Hayley always had a smile for me and I could tell she felt confident and loved, thanks to your generous presence. I know she's smiling down on you this Mother's Day.
All our love, Tracy, Pat, Merrill, Devon and Reeve King.
Tracy King <tracyking4@earthlink.net>
roswell, gA uSA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 7:20 PM CDT

I have thought about you so much today...What an incredible mom you are. I am praying that amist the tears, you have many wonderful memories of being Hayley's mom....forever.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Sunday, May 8, 2005 6:36 PM CDT

Dayna,
Thinking of you today and praying for you. May your heart be comforted and full of warm, happy memories of your beautiful Hayley. She is always remembered!
Jenn B. (FOA/RA) <pr@friendsofallie.org>
Fresno, CA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 4:08 PM CDT

Prayers today.
A.C. <care.clark@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, May 8, 2005 2:24 PM CDT

Just wanted you to know that my prayers have been many for you today as your mommy role is different this year. You are the definition of Super mom!
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, GA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 12:33 AM CDT

my thoughts are with you today. The poem was beautiful.
holly morrison <hollymorrison25@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 8, 2005 11:18 AM CDT

My thoughts are with you today.
Laurie McDaniel <lauriemc@uga.edu>
Athens_Moultrie, GA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 10:10 AM CDT

Dayna,
My thoughts are with you today! Know that I am forever thinking of you and your pink angel, Hayley! I hope despite not having Hayley with you that you still have a good Mothers Day! Much Love to You!
Angel Dawn <dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:49 AM CDT

Thinking of you today and holding you close in our hearts!
Love,
Kristin
Kristin, Mike, Ryan and Brandon Connor (www.caringbridge.org/ga/brandonconnor) <kristin.connor@comcast.net>
Norcross, GA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 8:37 AM CDT

Thinking of one of the most beautiful moms we know today.

Love you,
Camp Jack (www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)
Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 7:27 AM CDT

Dayna - You're on my heart more than ever today. You truly deserve to be honored for the phenomenal mother you were (ARE) to Hayley! As heart-breaking as it is for me to think of you without your child, it is such a comfort to me to know that Hayley was so well-loved when she was with you. Whenever I think of your last days with her, I always feel peace thinking of how she just got to spend that time snuggled with you and Alan. Blessed girl.
Shannon
Fullerton, CA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 0:10 AM CDT

God Bless you both. Happy Mother's Day Dayna
Kristen
Minneapolis, MN - Saturday, May 7, 2005 11:46 PM CDT

I am praying for you. That was a beautiful poem.
sara <saphirelag@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga usa - Saturday, May 7, 2005 8:24 PM CDT

Dayna,
What a beautiful poem. As always you have touched the hearts of many through you strength and faith. Thanks for sharing. Happy Mother's Day to you.

shari mcaninch <robertshari@bellsouth.net>
cumming , ga - Saturday, May 7, 2005 2:41 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Dayna ! That is the sweetest poem you posted - it brings a smile to my face to picture Hayley having such a wonderful time and a tear to my eye for those left here on earth without her. I think of the 3 of you all the time and say a special prayer for you and Alan to find peace and joy if only in bits and pieces for now.

Kathi - Angels in Atlanta <scrapntime@hotmail.com>
Alpharetta, GA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 12:08 AM CDT

Happy Mother's Day, Dayna. Though your arms may feel empty at this time, when it was your time......you gave it all you had. You did your very best. It is my prayer that in due time, in God's perfect timing, that you will once again experience the joy of having another little one. Don't you just know that Hayley has praised your name and Alan's too? Give my best to Lynda and Linda.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:47 AM CDT

One of my all-time favorite poems...I was given this poem on my first mothers day without my baby girl by a dear friend.

*hugs* to you on this Mothers Day. You are an AMAZING mommy, today and always. I hope you feel Hayley's presence this weekend. You are in my prayers.
Loryn (FOA/RA) <loryn@thebagliones.com>
Columbia, MD - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:20 AM CDT

Oh no! Dayna, I'm sorry for misspelling your name!! You know that I know better. !
Kimberly Johnson <mommy2spencer@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:13 AM CDT

Dana,
I am so sorry for the pain your heart must be feeling this weekend especially. We, the thousands of people who love you and Alan and Hayley, know that you are a wonderful, devoted and loving mother. I pray for you and Alan every day that your hearts will be a little more quieted and that you will find a little more joy in every day.

God Bless,
Kimberly
Kimberly Johnson <mommy2spencer@hotmail.com>
Suwanee, GA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 9:12 AM CDT

Dayna,
Hayley was so wonderfully blessed to have you for her mother. You and Alan brought a beautiful little girl into the world who has touched so many thousands of lives. I pray God's love and grace will carry you through this weekend and that you will feel the prayers of the many people who will be praying for you. I pray daily for you and Alan and that God will heal your broken hearts and bring joy back into your lives. God bless you this Mother's Day. Psalm 107:28-31
Kellie Holcomb <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
Hoschton, - Saturday, May 7, 2005 8:42 AM CDT

Thank-you for sharing such a beautiful poem. I will be thinking of you and saying extra prayers for you tomorrow.
A Caring Mom
Wilmette , Illinois - Saturday, May 7, 2005 8:37 AM CDT

Dear Dayna, Happy Mother's Day to you. I pray you feel Hayley's love shine on you today and every day. Many hugs,
Christine Mahoney <mahoneymcjc@comcast.net>
NJ - Saturday, May 7, 2005 7:32 AM CDT

I am thinking about you this weekend and praying for you. God bless you on this mother's day!
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.neet>
Moultrie, Ga - Saturday, May 7, 2005 7:07 AM CDT

Dayna, I am so sorry for the pain sunday must bring. But you are a wonderful mother, and you are obviously surrounded by wonderful people at home. I will pray for strength and peace for you this mothers day. Remember that without you and Allen, your beautiful little daughter wouldn't have been here to touch so many lives. And she has, you raised a wonderful little girl, you are a wonderful, bright, strong mother. Happy Mothers Day.
Paige <medicpaige@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 1:12 AM CDT

Happy Mothers Day!
Carmen Jackson <gypsynurse00@hotmail.com>
Tucson, AZ USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 10:48 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day
Rebecca O'Kelley <beccaok@bellsouth.net>
Marietta, Ga USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 10:37 PM CDT

Still around and praying for you and Allen. Thank you for the sharing the beautiful poem. Happy Mother's Day! I know this day will be very difficult for you- I just know you will see a RAINBOW with pink the brightest color. Just as a reminder to you that she is still there on this special day.

Tisha Robbins <tisha.robbins@vertrue.com>
sugar land, tx usa - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:17 PM CDT

Dayna, I wanted to wish you a Happy Mother's Day. You ARE a wonderful Mommy! It is so clear to me and I am a complete stranger. I will be thinking and praying for you extra hard this weekend. We are suppose to have a rainy weekend in New England. I have a feeling Hayley will be "showing off" her beautiful art work again. I will be looking up a lot looking for her rainbows. Sending big hugs and lots of love and prayers to you this weekend and always!
Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!!
- Friday, May 6, 2005 6:55 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day, Dayna, to one of the most amazing moms I've ever "known". I hope you have a wonderful day.
Shelly <jayandshel@msn.com>
Reno , - Friday, May 6, 2005 5:25 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day
Caroline (RA) <Carolinen@motek.com>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 4:35 PM CDT

My prayers are with you constantly. I know, I am a mother, too.
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 4:33 PM CDT

Happy Mothers Day Dayna, may God bless you always
The Charles Family <ncharles@appleone.com>
Saint Paul, MN USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 4:30 PM CDT

Thankyou for sharing that poem with us Dayna:) I hope that you have a beautiful Mother's Day and know that your little girl is smiling down on you proud to have called you Mommy:)
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 3:37 PM CDT

Praying for you as always.
Susan Smith <susanhsmith@adelphia.net>
Cumming, GA 30040 - Friday, May 6, 2005 2:54 PM CDT

That is an awesome piece Dayna - and yes, you most certainly are a Mother!! You always will be Hayley's Mother, and I just know she is smiling down on you this Mother's Day, and will have her arms wrapped around you tightly!!! I know that heaven isn't your first choice of where she should be, but what awesome company she is in!! Please try to concentrate on your beautiful memories of her, and do something really fun with Alan!!!! I'm praying for you guys always!!
Barri <barrikim@optonline.net>
N. Bellmore, NY USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 2:40 PM CDT

What a beautiful poem. Thank you for sharing it with us, Dayna. Have a wonderful Mother's day!
Diane Pursinger <dianepursinger@fuse.net>
Cincinnati, OH - Friday, May 6, 2005 12:33 AM CDT

Thinking of you...Happy Mothers Day Dayna. Hayley is celebrating you from Heaven!
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 12:26 AM CDT

Thank you for the poem Dayna... how beautiful. I have a dear friend that the poem is very fitting for also, having lost her baby in her womb.

From one very loved mother to another, Happy Mothers Day!

love and hugs,
Stacie
Stacie Lynch <stacielynch2@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, CO USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 10:23 AM CDT

That is a beautiful poem. I just cried and cried reading it. Still praying for you guys.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Friday, May 6, 2005 10:18 AM CDT

I love the poem. I printed a copy for myself. I know my little one that left me after having her only 3 days is watching and waiting for the day I arrive at heavens gates. Happy Mothers Day, Dayna!!!
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Friday, May 6, 2005 9:03 AM CDT

BEAUTIFUL!! Happy Mother's Day, Dayna!
Carin Geraci <tcrgeraci@earthlink.net>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 8:44 AM CDT

Oh man, I'm at work and I just read that poem. Sobbing doesn't even come close to a description of me right now.

What a beautiful poem. The part that really got me was when she visits you at night and lays her head on your pillow. I know your baby does that for you. I hope it give you comfort to know that she is with you.

I always wish I could say more - something to alleviate all your pain and allow you to feel the joy Hayley must feel in Heaven. All I can do is to tell you that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Happy Mother's Day to an incredibly special mom.
Beth <elieber@bio.ri.ccf.o.rg>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 8:17 AM CDT

That is a beautiful poem...Happy Mother's Day...you are a WONDERFUL MOM.
Dena Olsen <olsen7945@wi.rr.com>
Oak Creek, WI USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 7:41 AM CDT

I hope you have a very wonderful Mother's Day weekend. Hayley is a VERY lucky little girl to have such a great Mamma.
Thinking of you....

Laurie
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, May 6, 2005 7:37 AM CDT

VERY beautiful poem. I can't imagine the pain you are going through. Even though Hayley isn't here with you on earth to celebrate Mother's Day, know that you have been and STILL ARE , ONE INCREDIBLE MOTHER and that Hayley is wishing you a Happy Mommy's Day from a far better place :)
Marie <chrisormarie@aol.com>
Dallas, Ga USA - Friday, May 6, 2005 7:18 AM CDT

Continuing to check on you and to pray for God's perfect peace.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Thursday, May 5, 2005 4:44 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan - just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you. I hope that you're both doing well and that, despite everything, you were able to have a nice anniversary. You two are amazing and you're an inspiration to couples everywhere. Take care!
I can't help but smile everytime I visit this site and see that picture of Hayley! I just love that face!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, May 5, 2005 10:45 AM CDT

Several weeks ago I was driving on Mansell Road when I decided to turn into the cemetary where Hayley rests. I had no idea where she was but was lucky enough to catch a man closing the funeral home. He was nice enough to check the records and directed me to her. My first thought as I drove through the cemetary was how beautiful and peaceful it was...a world apart from the busy traffic of Alpharetta Hwy. and Mansell. It was like I stepped into a little piece of Heaven. Her head rest is beautiful. While my 2 younger ones slept, my (then)6 yr old and I knelt and prayed to Hayley. We told her to give you extra hugs. On the way out we saw the geese there too! My daughter thought that was cool. We're still with you in thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Roberts <RobertsJAKS@aol.com>
Roswell, GA USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 11:41 PM CDT

Greetings,

Happy Belated Anniversary. You both are truly blessed to have a love so strong that it survived truly the 'worse'. Mnay marriages don't make it through the illness of a child. What a wonderful gift you share in one another.

Blessings,

Shari and Nicole
www.caringbridge.org/nm/nicole
Shari McElroy <ShariMcElroy@aol.com>
Belen, NM USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 3:20 PM CDT

still praying for you each and every day. I wish there were words to ease your pain and loss. I'll just continue to say...I am so sorry and I will forever remember you precious daughter.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 1:01 PM CDT

I am thinking of you and praying for you especially over this coming weekend. Dayna, you are an example of what a mom truly is.

Shari Wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
Cumming, GA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 9:52 AM CDT

I'm so glad the two of you have a strong marriage, one that was made even stronger through Hayley's fight against cancer. Seems strange to say, "Happy" anniversary, but I do know that to survive, you need to find that happiness and joy in each other, and God. So, Happy Anniversary. I hope y'all had a great day.

Again, I heard the song last night by Los Lonely Boys that I mentioned earlier. Strange how I hear it on days that something makes Hayley pop into my head. I had pulled out my daughter's splash bloomers (the one in the pic on your homepage) to see if they still fit her. Of course, I ended up in tears. I will think of her & say a prayer for you every time Hanna wears them. {{{many cyber hugs}}}

Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 0:12 AM CDT

Happy Anniversay. Know that I still check on Hayley daily but can't find the words to leave any messages. Hayley is very blessed to have parents like you. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <mommytooryan@hotmail.com>
Hastings , NE USA - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 4:02 PM CDT

I've been thinking about Hayley a lot lately, which really isn't anything new - I think of her almost constantly. Today is my son's third birthday and amidst my happiness for him, I am sad for the two of you. I know this weekend will be a tough one for you, and I will send extra prayers of strength your way. I so wish there was more I could do.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 7:45 AM CDT

Happy Anniversary, Dana and Allan,

May God truly bless your marriage...Hayley was blessed to have wonderful parents like you...keeping you in my prayers...

God bless,

Ozzie <ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Monday, May 2, 2005 1:33 PM CDT

Happy, Happy Anniversary...from your words I imagine that it feels quite "different" than your past anniversaries. At times you may not feel much like celebrating, but, I know that you certainly can celebrate a deeper relationship and love with all that you have been through together. I still pray for you both every morning and remember that precious gift you were given. I know I speak for others as well as myself when I say that Hayley will FOREVER be remembered and that God used a precious child to truely change the way I live my life. Thank you, again. God has blessings instore for you two...I just know it
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Monday, May 2, 2005 8:45 AM CDT

Happy Anniversary!!!!I am glad that you two have each other to hold onto. I am sure little Hayley is celebrating your 5 years together up in heaven and she is always with you. God bless you.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Monday, May 2, 2005 6:01 AM CDT

I've followed Hayley's page for quite some time and still check in from time to time to see how you are holding up but don't always sign...

Well tonight when I read your journal entry it hit me a little differently and I just had to sign to thank you for making me look at my marriage and wedding vows in a perspective in a way that I don't think I have ever looked at them before! "For better or for worse" these are strong words and the worse has definitely affected you in a way never expected it's also affected us as well although our little girl is still with us fighting but we don't know what the future holds for her... at times I've felt my marriage a little rough due to the added stress of a sick child but then I think we need each other and she needs us but never before did I think about the "for better for worse" in my wedding vows until now!

Thank you... I guess I have to look at this as a bump in the road that we need to hold onto each other tight to make it through!

Hayley is a beautiful angel and will forever be in our hearts!

The Krueger Family ~ Shawnee, Ryan, Taylor & Sydney!
www.caringbridge.com/ia/taylorkrueger <krueger01@netins.net>
Van Horne, IA USA - Sunday, May 1, 2005 9:23 PM CDT

Hope that you had a very happy anniversary! Just want you to know that I am thinking about you and keep you in my prayers.
Liz Unger <poppy4100@aol.com>
Arnold,, Md. - Sunday, May 1, 2005 3:32 PM CDT

Happy Anniversary. Even tho you are feeling kind of empty, to me you have done wonderful things in your years as a married couple. I have no doubts Hayley is endlessly proud of her parents!!
I hope you had a good day!!
Karen (FOA/RA)
Stow, OH - Saturday, April 30, 2005 8:21 PM CDT

Hope you have the happiest Anniversary possible!
Annie <care.clark@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, April 30, 2005 6:54 PM CDT

Just wanted to wish you both a happy anniversary! I still check in here daily and think of you and Hayley often. I wish you both well. :)
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA)
CA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 4:47 PM CDT

Glad you had a Happy Anniversary. You remain in my prayers. Thinking of your little Hayley still brings a smile to my face.
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 12:21 AM CDT

Happy Anniversary! I think of you often and continue to keep you both in my prayers. Hope you have something special planned today to celebrate your 5 years! You both deserve that!
Brenda <KBThomason@comcast.net>
Manteca, CA USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 10:21 AM CDT

Happy Anniversary Dayna and Alan:) You guys are an example of true love. I agree that Hayley is smiling down on you, proud to have a mommy and daddy who continue to keep the promises they made on their wedding day.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Saturday, April 30, 2005 8:00 AM CDT

Happy Anniversary!!! I am one of the many who has been touched by your beautiful little Hayley, and who has been praying for you guys daily!!! We don't really know eachother - but I check in often in the hopes of seeing an update, so I can see how you guys are doing. You guys seem like such an awesome couple - I'm so glad you have eachother! I know Hayley is so proud of you guys, and is watching over you with such love!!! You have tons of prayers coming from my family in NY!!!!! Take care!
Barri <barrikim@optonline.net>
N. Bellmore, NY USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 8:47 PM CDT

I want to wish you a Happy Anniversary. I haven't check your site in awhile, but felt drawn here tonight. I hope you are oth enjoying each other and remembering all of your wonderful times with Hayley.
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
NY - Friday, April 29, 2005 7:18 PM CDT

Happy Anniversary! My husband Shehrzad and I are relative newlyweds and are celebrating our 3-month anniversary today. (I know, kind of silly to celebrate the monthly anniversaries, but I told him that it's just his 12 trial runs before the real thing next year!) :) I hope that Shehrzad and I can one day be as wonderful parents as you both are and can have our children be as proud of us as I'm sure Hayley is of you.
Lubna <lubnac@yahoo.com>
Palo Alto, CA USA - Friday, April 29, 2005 5:53 PM CDT

Happy anniversary! I think about you both often and pray that the days are getting a little easier. Enjoy today as you have certainly earned it.
Terri Weiler <tweiler81@yahoo.com>
Cordova, TN 38018 - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:51 PM CDT

Happy anniversary! The two of you are an inspiration!
I was just looking through some of the guestbook entries. I too, saw the gorgeous pink sunset last night and immediatley thought of Hayley. I bet tons of people did! In fact, I often see sunsets like that and automatically describe them to my daughter as "Hayley pink".
I hope that you and Alan have a nice evening together. I'll be thinking of you. You're always in my thoughts and prayers, as is Hayley.

We will definitely keep Keith in our prayers!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend , IN - Friday, April 29, 2005 2:06 PM CDT

I can see her smile and hear her laugh when I close my eyes. I remember being kissed by your angel (I had to work hard for that kiss). I always pray for you! I miss her and I miss you.

Anne Shawcross <one_of_two1978@hotmail.com>
Alpharetta, Ga 30004 - Friday, April 29, 2005 1:42 AM CDT

Just letting you know that I'm thinking of you all tonight. I just have to say it! Cancer stinks!! I want to scream that to the top of my lungs, it breaks my heart to see imagine what your family experienced and is still going through each day. Keep the faith and know you have lots of people praying for you !
Tisha Robbins <tisha.robbins@vertrue.com>
Sugar Land, tx usa - Thursday, April 28, 2005 9:44 PM CDT

Tonight I saw a gorgeous pink sunset, clouds that were pink and lavender swirled. I immediately thought of your sweet Hayley. She's doing a wonderful job as God's little painter! Thinking of her and you many times a day, praying for your peace.
Debra B <Burgesstx@aol.com>
Ft Worth, TX - Thursday, April 28, 2005 9:13 PM CDT

Praying for you and your beautiful girl always! :)
Annie <care.clark@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, April 28, 2005 7:55 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan - I stop by periodically for your updates and to see Hayley's beautiful smiling face. Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers DAILY.
Robyn Anderson <robyn.anderson@cingular.com>
Cumming, GA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 9:54 AM CDT

Just stopping by to let you know that I was thinking about your beautiful little girl:) I continue to remember you both in my prayers.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:46 PM CDT

Thinking about you and praying a lot! I think of your sweet girl all the time. Sending lots of good thoughts your way and many hugs.
a mommy from MA
- Wednesday, April 27, 2005 7:15 PM CDT

We saw the most beautiful, fat, colorful rainbow today coming home from work. My kids and I said a prayer for your family. We always pray that God is providing each of you with a overwhelming dose of comfort and healing, and that His Angels - especially Hayley are surrounding you and protecting you at every moment.

Ann <amilam@charter.net>
- Wednesday, April 27, 2005 7:01 PM CDT

Just checking in like I do each day. I pray for you all each and every day and different things remind me of precious Hayley quite often. Its as if I knew her, she will definately be one of the first I meet when I get to heaven. I just love to look at the pics. on her site and see the love that she knew here on earth. I wish I could help but I know I cant.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 4:50 PM CDT

Continuing to pray that God will heal your hearts.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 1:16 PM CDT

Big hugs coming your way. Feel them? Oops, sorry for the thwack on the head... I couldn't see where I was reaching through the computer screen.

We love you!
Jen (Camp Jack: www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)

Camp Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 11:59 AM CDT

Just thinking of you both today and praying that with each day that passes, the happy memories overpower your grief. Keeping you in my prayers always! BIG HUGS!!!
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta, FOA/RA/CW <skc62@juno.com>
Suwanee, GA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:20 AM CDT

Hayley sent us the most beautiful rainbows Saturday evening - a single one and a double one! We walked out of a store and the entire arc of the big double rainbow was straight in front of us. Then it quickly disappeared. It was as if Hayley (with help from my rainbow-loving grandma, I'm certain) had painted them just for my husband and I to see. She painted another one for our drive home. Thank you, Hayley! Give my Grandma a hug from me!
Chrissy Pierce <clpierce@matternandcraig.com>
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 7:19 AM CDT

I took my daughter to kindergarten orientation today. There was a little girl wearing the black cat pants from Gymboree. I instantly thought of your precious Hayley. Blessings, Carin Geraci
Carin Geraci <tcrgeraci@earthlink.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 9:33 PM CDT

Just wanted to drop by and say hello and let you know I was thinking about you all. I hope you have a good day.

((Hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:54 PM CDT

Mising Hayley along with you....and praying that today will be a brighter one.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, - Monday, April 25, 2005 10:49 AM CDT

Thinking of you and praying for your comfort each day. Hayley really touched my heart. I will never forget her.
Nancy <nall3860@aol.com>
- Monday, April 25, 2005 9:56 AM CDT

Hi mother of Hayley

I hope that you are doing ok, the first year is somewhat surreal and it does go by fast, especially if you are noting the date every month too!

I have gone on the same journey you are on, here is my little angel, www.trinitysdiary.com

God is with you and we do have the Blessed Hope! I Thess. 4:13-18!

Sincerely,

Elaine, Angel Trinitys mother

www.trinitysdairy.com
Elaine <angelsmom@shaw.ca>
Surrey, BC Canada - Sunday, April 24, 2005 2:27 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
We are thinking of you.
Sending you love and prayers,
Tabitha, Ben, Anna and Gwen Mason; www.caringbridge.org/ga/gwenmason <masonbx@comcast.net>
Marietta, GA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 6:41 PM CDT

Praying for your family
http://www2.caringbridge.org/ky/landon/ <LandonsPrayerTeam@hotmail.com>
louisville, ky usa - Saturday, April 23, 2005 4:15 PM CDT

Always praying for your stength. God loves you sooooooooo much.

Katie
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Saturday, April 23, 2005 3:28 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
We think of all of you daily and continue to send prayers to heavan for your beautiful girl Hayley and you.

Love,
CampJack

Jen, Steph, Kate and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, - Friday, April 22, 2005 11:03 PM CDT

I wish my words could express to you how much Hayley means to me. I see her little face all the time. Just when I think I am running out of patience with my little ones, I see Hayley's adorable little face! I smile and cry all at once. I smile because she IS and ALWAYS will be so beautiful... and cry because I so want her to be in your arms!!!! I don't understand why...I can only PRAY so much for you both and I will continue to...I miss your little girl so much and I have never met her.
Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!!
- Friday, April 22, 2005 8:39 PM CDT

I remember your entry from Thanksgiving being a good one. I remember that Hayley had a good day. I am so glad that you have special memories like that to hang on to. She "IS" such a beautiful little angel. I pray that you find strength to get through each day and you and Alan can lean on one another and become closer and closer each day. You both deserve all the love in the world.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Friday, April 22, 2005 7:41 AM CDT

I woke in the middle of the night last night and thought of you. You've been on my mind all day. Hayley continues to be in my heart.
Shannon
Fullerton, CA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 11:35 PM CDT

Missing your baby girl with you again tonight.

Amy Kate
Holland, MI - Thursday, April 21, 2005 7:33 PM CDT

I visit your site at least every other day checking for updates in your life. I can not imagine what you are feeling, I have noticed that when I open the site I have to close my eyes so I don't see the picture- it just breaks my heart! My daughter's name is also Hayley but spelled Hailey. She will be a yr old Monday. I guess it's hard for me to look at the picture only because my Hailey gives me that same sweet look. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, feeling and experiences. Your family will always be in my prayers.

I was also following Kylie's story but lost her site. Can you post that site again.

Tisha Robbins <tisha.robbins@vertrue.com>
sugar land, tx usa - Thursday, April 21, 2005 4:41 PM CDT

thinking and praying for you always....stay strong....:)

God bless

Ozzie <Ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Thursday, April 21, 2005 2:26 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan,
I first learned of Hayley's site back in November, and have been stopping by daily ever since. However, this is my first message in your guestbook. I want you to know that both of you, along with your sweet Angel Hayley, are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. And I also want you to know that because of Hayley, I now get to pray for all of her friends as well. All of the fighters and angels that I've grown to know and love on the CaringBridge sites have changed my life and made me a better person...and I have Hayley to thank for that!

My heart aches for you both everyday...please know that you are in my thoughts.
Abbie <doser.abbie@principal.com>
Des Moines, IA USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 10:42 AM CDT

Thinking of and praying for you today, and every day.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Thursday, April 21, 2005 9:55 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan - I hope that all is going well. I cannot tell you how much I love seeing that picture of Hayley every time I check your site!
I'm glad you had such a beautiful experience at the cemetary, and I'm glad it made you think of so many happy memories. I'm sure Hayley was right there beside you enjoying the scene.
Take care. You are still in my prayers and always in my thoughts, as is your darling girl (especially when I see pink sunrises and sunsets, and now ducks!) (((hugs))) :)
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, April 21, 2005 9:47 AM CDT

How sweet! Hayley feeding her ducks at Thanksgiving, what a kind hearted little doll she was.

May her memory continue to bring smiles to your face, and to your heart.

Love,
Debbie Whaley
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:52 PM CDT

Thanks so much for sharing your sweet girl with us. Thanks also for sharing your heart with us even though you are hurting. It is an encouragement to me even though I haven't experienced that heartache. I do hurt for you though and will continue to keep you in my prayers. Keep going!!

Kay alias Catie's Great Aunt <kayspage@knology.net>
AL - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:22 PM CDT

I wish I had better words. We check in all the time, and I am so glad you were able to see her resting place as a beautiful one at long last. I am so sorry, I am always reminded how unbelievably bleesed we are to have our little one, and I am so glad yours found peace. Now every time I see a rainbow, I think of 3 precious smiles. Peace be with you.
Love, The Moss family
Paige Moss <medicpaige@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 12:09 AM CDT

I can't understand how you feel, but it makes me smile to hear the beautiful things you saw that day, and thinking about how Hayley is seeing things even more beautiful in heaven. You're still in my prayers every day.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 11:50 AM CDT

I check in on you very often, and I wanted you to know that your sweet baby is such an inspiration and that you and your family are in my prayers daily. I know that there is not anything I can say, just know that you are truly loved. I live in Georgia and I would love the oportunity to bring a flower to cemetary only with your permission though. I learned about sweet Hailey from light the night, I walked for Allies Angels now friends of Allie, I have followed that sweet baby from the beginning. I was hopeing that someway I could walk for both babies this year.
Jennifer Mattingly <anabrit@numail.org>
Newnan, Ga - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 11:26 AM CDT

Your recent post truly touched my heart. My prayer is that God will overflow your days with beautiful memories and glimpses of His amazing creation everyday. I check your site often, and I continually lift prayers for each of you. May you be strengthened by God's love and promises.
Sue Ellen Thomason <sethomason@hotmail.com>
Carrollton, GA USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:42 AM CDT

I was glad to see your recent post. I check on you often and think of your Hayley daily. My heart feels heavy when I read about your sorrow. I wish there were some way I could shoulder some of the sadness. Although childhood cancer defies all explanation, perhaps Hayley's legacy is that she taught people everywhere the joy of living in the moment and loving all of God's wonderful creations. I know her life serves as a constant reminder to me to appreciate my children and never take tomorrow for granted. Sending "Texas-sized" gratitude for sharing your personal thoughts, today and forever.
Haylee & Holland's mom
Heather Castagna <Hayher01@aol.com>
Grapevine , TX - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 10:21 AM CDT

I am starting to give blood everytime i can now, in honor of hayley. i plan on donating platelets as often as i am able to as well...hayleys story just doesnt leave my head ever and i want to be able to help in some way! i think of you both all of the time!!!!
brenda <brendaboatperson@hotmail.com>
greenville, sc 29615 - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:37 AM CDT

Dayna & Alan,
Wanted to let you know we still think about ya'll and especially Hayley. We still pray for ya'll all the time. I'm glad you found beauty yesterday, Hayley I'm sure was smiling down on you!
The Hardin's <justafastpitchmom@yahoo.com>
Covington, GA USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 9:04 AM CDT

I wanted to let you know that we still include all of you in our prayers each night. Continue to take great care of one another. God Bless!
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:58 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan, I just wanted you to know I think of you often and praying for you to find peace. Enjoy your happy memories of your beautiful little Hayley. She touched so many lives and she will never be forgotten.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:54 AM CDT

Like so many others who have posted here recently, I too continue to check your site each and every day but rarely find the words to say. The heaviness in my heart each time I log on brings me to tears for the emptiness that I know lives in your heart. How wonderful it is to log on last night and read your latest update; thank you so very much for sharing your sweet memories of Hayley. One of my own mother's favorite stories of me as a baby was of how I loved to pick the flowers. Once, at my Aunt's, I presented with only the top of every single tulip that she had painstakingly planted up either side of the sidewalk. Leaving only tall and upright stems. So funny! I imagine Hayley must be looking down at all the beauty in the Springtime that she helped God to create.
Kelley Williams <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:53 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I haven't signed in a while, but I have visited daily. Can you believe the site has been viewed over 761,500 times?? Wow! So many people who loved Hayley and are now praying for you guys daily. I think all of us, if given the choice to live in heaven or on earth, would choose heaven. Hayley was given that choice, and she chose heaven. God only takes the very best early. He makes the rest of us work as hard as we can to get there.
Amy Finkler <amyfinkler@cox.net>
Bonaire, GA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:05 AM CDT

Thinking of you!
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 8:02 AM CDT

I know Hayley is up in heaven picking all the trees and flowers bare. I am sure she is keeping GOD pretty busy up there.
christine Rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 7:20 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,

Even though I have not posted in awhile, I'm still here reading your entries and thinking of you and *especially* Hayley! I can't believe four months has passed for you - it seems like a long time ago and yet I still remember reading about her by the fireplace as if it were yesterday. I'm sure those feelings are 100-fold for you.

My son loves to pick our flowers too. It is difficult to get angry when he runs to give them to me as a gift. And, even moreso knowing Hayley picked your yard bare! The other day he pulled out the Old Navy ad and saw the little girls' clothes. Out of the blue he said he wanted to buy something for Hayley and Allie S. and send it to Heaven. Your beautiful girl will always be remembered!

I continue to appreciate your strength and grace. Our prayers are with you.
Jenn B. and family (FOA/RA) <mjmb2004@gmail.com>
Fresno, CA - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 3:29 AM CDT

Now not only will I think of Hayley when I see rainbows but also when the ducks visit my classroom (they are close enough to geese right?!)

XXOO, Marey and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 20, 2005 0:25 AM CDT

You have both shown such strength and faith in God. I can only imagine the hurt you feel. I pray for God to give you peace and comfort until the beautiful reunion you will have with sweet Hayley! I'm sure she has lots of flowers she's picked in heaven and is saving them just for you!
Amy Ehmann- FOA/RA <amyehmann@msn.com>
Thornton, CO USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 11:57 PM CDT

What a beautiful entry. My heart hurts for you and I hate it that you don't have your daughter there to enjoy all the wonderful things she loves. I bet she is enjoying even more beautiful days than we are. You are always in my prayers.
"Always remember that Haley is a beautiful flower in God and even like a natural flower getting beat down in the rain, but comes back more beautiful than ever, she may feel beat down by cancer, but she will come back more beautiful than ever!"

Lauren Pratt <mlaurenp@hotmail.com>
Arlington, TX USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 11:28 PM CDT

Again, I also wanted to tell you that because of you, I read Max Lucado's book, Just in case you've ever wondered to my children almost everynight. I think of your little Hayley, each time I read it to them. Thank you.

Kristin <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
Nekoosa, - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:27 PM CDT

My heart breaks as I read your entries. I try not to read, but I just must! Thank you writing and keeping the world updated on your lives. You do not know me, but I've followed your story for months. All I can say is, thank you. Thank you for making me a better person.
Kristin <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
Nekoosa, WI - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:22 PM CDT

I am thinking of you today...4 months after Hayley became an angel. When I think of Hayley, I always remember the first time I saw her at Scottish Rite last September. She was cuddled in her mommy's arms (being rocked), wearing pink and had this adorable bow in her hair. So beautiful! Then I remember seeing her at Egleston, on her way home before Thanksgiving - those precious eyes peaking out from the blue mask. Just know, I'll never forget her and continue to think of you guys and send prayers of comfort your way.
Michelle Fowler ~Angels in Atlanta~ <mfowler777@msn.com>
Stockbridge, GA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:17 PM CDT

Dayna,
What a beautiful entry you wrote. I think of you often and say many prayers for you and your sweet family. I miss Hayley so much.
Love, Shannon Ball
Shannon Ball
Keller, TX USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 9:04 PM CDT

Thank you for sharing yet another wonderful memory of your sweet Hayley. I love to hear stories about her and the things she loved. I know the pain is no less, but I am so thankful that you can at least have some wonderful memories that still bring a smile....at least for awhile. Once again, I have to tell you that Hayley has impacted my life in such a personal and lasting way. You see, it was through her journey that God has shown me the blessing of my everyday journey. I know that none of us know what our next breath will bring us, but I know that I have to live THIS breath with all I have and I know that God will be there no matter what tomorrow holds. I know that all of us "changed" by Hayley is no consolation for losing your most precious earthly treasure and I am sorry that I had to learn this lesson from her, but thank you for allowing me to have a piece of Hayley that will NEVER die. still praying....
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 19, 2005 8:31 PM CDT

I never knew Hayley, but I still felt the hurt in my heart when I thought of her, happy and smiling, four months ago. Prayers for you always.
Annie <care.clark@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, April 19, 2005 7:27 PM CDT

I can't believe it has been 4 months myself. Although I have never met your family, I will never forget Hayley. She is a special little girl.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 7:19 PM CDT

Thinking of all of you always.

Many Prayers,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, Ca - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 7:13 PM CDT

Continuing to hold you tightly in prayer.
Tricia <TriciaBxNY@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 19, 2005 5:13 PM CDT

You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers! I am so glad you were able to have that beautiful moment yesterday and the memories to go with it. Hayley is watching over you!
Melissa (FoA/RA) <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 4:53 PM CDT

Thinking of you.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 4:46 PM CDT

The Los Lonely Boys are from San Angelo,TX. I thought you might feel a special connection with the song "Heaven," that Jennifer from Plano referenced below. "Heaven" was written when one of the band lost a baby to SIDS.
Stacey <mom_2_wkn@yahoo.com>
San Angelo, TX - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 2:02 PM CDT

Hayley painted me a beautiful sunrise this morning. I thought of her right away!
I hope you both are doing well. I think about you everyday and still check the site just to see Hayley's sweet baby face. I miss her and I haven't never met you guys......

My prayers are with you,
Amy <afulcher@localnet.com>
PA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 12:38 AM CDT

Praying for you today and smiling at those beautiful pictures of Hayley...(also shedding some tears too)!
Molly Moore <mollysmoore@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC 27713 - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 7:53 AM CDT

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Thomson: I clicked on your link through my dear friend's site (Shawn Libby) and am amazed at the strength of the site and of the strength of your family through your words. I am one of the fortunate ones who has a healthy little five year old, but as I sit here with tears in my eyes and hurt in my heart for your family, it has somehow given me strength and I thank you for that. I am a stranger, but look what your perfect little girl did for a stranger. Thanks so much for sharing your site with McKinley, Shawn and Kenny Libby-through them I was made more humble. You an obvious amazing family and I send blessings and prayers to you all. Keep the faith. Cordially, Linda Ayer Holt and Jordan my little girl.
Linda Ayer Holt <stxlinda@aol.com>
St. Croix, VI US Virgin Islands - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 7:24 AM CDT

Dayna & Alan,
Your family has been on my mind...I met another loss mom at a luncheon on Sunday. I heard her say she had given birth 3 times earlier. Later we were talking and she said she had 3 children, 2 here, 1 in heaven. She had lost her 18 month old to CROUP on the way to the ER, 10 yrs ago. For whatever reason, mainly, I think, because she still has a positive outlook on life, she reminded me of you. Then today, on the way home, I heard "Heaven" by Los Lonely Boys. Here are the lyrics, if by chance, you don't know it:

Heaven
Save me from this prison
Lord help me get away
Cause only you can save me now
From this misery
Cause I�ve been lost in my own place
And I�m getting� weary
How far is heaven
And I know I need to change
My ways of livin�
How far is heaven, Lord can you tell me
Cause I�ve been locked up way too long
In this crazy world, how far is heaven
I just keep on prayin� Lord
Just keep on livin�, how far is heaven
Lord can you tell me, how far is heaven
I just got to know how far, how far is heaven
Lord can you tell me
(translated from Spanish)
(You that's in a higher place
Send me down a blessing)
Cause I know there�s a better place
Than this place I�m livin�, how far is heaven
And I just got to have some faith
And just keep on giving, how far is heaven
I just wanna know how far

It is a beautiful song. I heard it the day after Hayley passed & have heard it several times at the end of a weary day...usually accompanied by a pink sunset! I just felt compelled to share this with you, because I know that Heaven must seem so far away right now...time wise, and I imagine that is a prayer that I would be crying out to God, but I know that Hayley's spirit is always close by you. Sending hugs & prayers your way.

Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 2:38 AM CDT

Thinking of you..... hope you are having a good week!
D.D. Dixon www.caringbridge.org/ga/marygrace <d.d.dixon@comcast.net>
Canton, Ga - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:30 PM CDT

Still praying for God's healing and an abundance of His blessings for you.
Kellie <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
Hoschton, GA - Monday, April 18, 2005 6:36 PM CDT

Continually praying for you. . .
Kris
Minneapolis, MN - Monday, April 18, 2005 6:14 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
You have both been in my thoughts today. Just popped by to see if there was a new update. Hope you guys are doing ok.
Take Care,
Aly <foussatfam@hotmail.com>
Provo, UT - Monday, April 18, 2005 6:11 PM CDT

Just stopping by to look at Hayley's adorable little face again. You and Hayley are never far from my thoughts. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 2:51 PM CDT

I stumbled upon Hayley's page and it immediately caught my heart. I went all the way back and read from the beginning, as I got closer to the end I cried as my heart was breaking for you. Hayley was a beautiful little girl, never have I heard of such strength and courage as Hayley had when she was fighting her battle. May God give you her strength and courage to get through each day! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Jenny <basketlover@joplin.com>
MO - Monday, April 18, 2005 10:43 AM CDT

I haven't signed your book in a while but I wanted to let you all know I am thinking of you.

Whenever I need to remind myself of what is important in life or to go to a place that inspires me, I come to your website. Hayley's smiling face is all the motivation I need to slow down and cherish every second. Your daughter gave me a wonderful gift - I have learned to ingore the small stuff and never take a second for granted. She was,and is, a true angel.

Hope you are finding joy and peace in every day.
Beth
- Monday, April 18, 2005 9:25 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that you still have lots of good thoughts and prayers coming to you from Long Island NY!! I think of you all daily, and check in all the time, and I'm constantly hoping that time is helping to bring you some peace, and that your memories of your beautiful Hayley are bringing you smiles this Spring. You guys are always in my thoughts....
Barri <barrikim@optonline.net>
N. Bellmore, NY USA - Monday, April 18, 2005 9:10 AM CDT

Just wanted you to know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
christine Rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Monday, April 18, 2005 7:59 AM CDT

God Made You For A Reason

When I look upon my screen
I find a happy reason
the joy that comes to me from you
is gratitude so very pleasing...

What a wonderful creator
that made a friend like you,
He placed a sweet kind person
and gave me lots of comfort too.

A world without your kindness
would be a sad sad world.

But I don't have to worry,
there's no need to be,
because of you I am very happy,
and that's good enough for me.

I've found great people everywhere,
they come into my life.
Just like you, all those others too,
have given me delight.

So I thank God I met you,
I thank him for all seasons.
Now I know for sure with all my heart,
GOD Created YOU for a reason.

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My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta CANADA, - Monday, April 18, 2005 0:55 AM CDT

Thinking of you in California,
XXOO, Marey adn Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Monday, April 18, 2005 0:30 AM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan...I haven't written in the guestbook in awhile but I still think of your beautiful Hayley. I don't know your religious preference but I thought of Hayley the day Pope John died. And I pictured Hayley greeting Him when he came up to Heaven...with pictures of her rainbows and her kitties. For Spring break my family went to Hawaii. As we were flying I saw the most beautiful sunsets ...ahhh, Hayley painting again!!!
Jane Want <thewants@numail.org>
Newnan, GA - Sunday, April 17, 2005 9:58 PM CDT

Just wanted to say Hi and that I pray for you guys everyday....many times. I think of your precious girl so, so often.. Today my son noticed a rainbow on the kitchen floor. Before I could even answer him, my thoughts were on Hayley and you...PRAYING SO MUCH! It really isn't fair you have to go through this. Wishing I could do more...Sending lots of love and hugs to you.
Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!! <klgrace@comcast.net>
MA - Sunday, April 17, 2005 8:09 PM CDT

Just wanted you to know that I was with my family visiting a church in LaGrange, Ga when they announced a benefit to raise money in Hayley's honor for the AFLAC cancer center. Yet, again...Hayley is still touching lives! I couldn't stop thinking of you throughout the rest of the service. I prayed that God would shower you with wonderful memories and comfort your hurting heart. We will not stop praying for you....Hayley was certainly blessed by you both.
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Sunday, April 17, 2005 8:06 PM CDT

I am continuing to check on you and to uphold you in prayer.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Sunday, April 17, 2005 7:32 PM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan, I stumbeled onto Haley's page the day after she went to be with Jesus, and after reading about her, I want to tell you that your family has touched my heart. I do look in on you guys from time to time, and sometimes it brings tears to my eyes as I read about your pain and how you miss your sweet girl. I pray that you will find rest in the Lord, and I want you to know that even after shew as gone from this world you little one has captured my heart.
Trisha <Irishspirt@aol.com>
Oregon, Ohio USA - Saturday, April 16, 2005 10:38 PM CDT

As always thinking of you two and Hayley....thanks for the updates. I know your album will be an amazing picture of a beautiful angel.
Love,
Nancy and Will's family
Nancy Olson <nkotarget@bellsouth.net >
Marietta, ga usa - Saturday, April 16, 2005 8:57 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan, hang in there. I can't imagine what you are still must feeling. Missing Sweety Hayley, is probably the hardest thing you've ever endured. Jesus, is taking such good care of her. I am still praying for you. We've never met, but I think of sweet Hayley all the time. Thank you for sharing your story with the world. You've made it a better place because of your words.
Kristin <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
Nekoosa, WI usa - Saturday, April 16, 2005 12:44 AM CDT

Even though we've never met, I just wanted to tell you that I still think of Hayley daily. Today I couldn't help but smile....when all the lawn sprinklers came on, I could see several little rainbows in the streams of water, and I immediately thought of sweet Hayley. God bless.
Carmen Jackson <gypsynurse00@hotmail.com>
Tucson, AZ USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 10:29 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and Hayley. It's a beautiful day and I was thinking of all the beautiful angels.
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Friday, April 15, 2005 8:01 PM CDT

Your words always touch my soul. Thank you for continuing to share your journey.
Lari
Cumming, GA - Friday, April 15, 2005 7:06 AM CDT

continuing to pray for you and Alan.....and missing sweet Hayley. I am still so sorry for your loss...words are just not adequate these days. Hang on...
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Friday, April 15, 2005 6:52 AM CDT

Continuing to check on you and pray for you.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Thursday, April 14, 2005 5:50 PM CDT

Still praying for you both as you miss your little angel. Her beautiful little face is imprinted in my mind. I hope you have many sweet funny little memories these days.
Shelly <jayandshel@msn.com>
Reno , - Thursday, April 14, 2005 5:11 PM CDT

I just wanted to let you both know that you (and my sweet Hayley) are still very much loved and missed. I think about you everyday. It's been a little hectic here at the hospital and just when I think I can't do this anymore, I think of Hayley's precious smile... and that reminds me that everyday is worth it. You both will always be in my prayers. Remember, God will take care of you.
Nurse Erika
- Thursday, April 14, 2005 4:13 PM CDT

sending love and prayers your way....keep the faith...missing sweet Hayley...:)

God bless
Ozzie <Ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Thursday, April 14, 2005 8:51 AM CDT

You're little Hayley has touched my life in a way that I'll never be the same. I think and pray for you daily.
Michelle <goingflyin@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, April 14, 2005 4:11 AM CDT

Thinking and praying for you always.
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My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta CANADA, - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 9:28 PM CDT

All of your "cyber" friends are still praying for comforting.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 6:57 PM CDT

I am praying for a way for you to be comforted. I know Hayley is smiling on you guys. She is pain and cancer free.
Jesus is watching over her.
Leslie <faithinhim99@hotmail.com>
Fort Worth, TX USA - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 2:01 PM CDT

My prayers are with you each and every day. I wish that no parent had to go through what you guys are going through. It breaks my heart. You will continue to be in prayers throughout this time.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Wednesday, April 13, 2005 8:36 AM CDT

Continuing to think of you and pray for you often.
Janice Tarpley - Information Desk - Scottish Rite <janice.tarpley@choa.org>
Atlanta, ga usa - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 5:56 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan - Thinking of you everyday and keeping you in my prayers. The "normal" poem brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry that you and any other parents have to feel that way. I know that you will always miss your precious angel more than anyone can imagine, but I hope that your days will start to get a little easier. Take care! I wish you the best of luck with the golf outing!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 2:58 PM CDT

It would be difficult to not think that you are alone in this time but you are not. I keep you in my prayers because I have been through this with friends too many times. I often think of a childhood friend of mine that died near the Christmas holidays when she was 12 years old. Something happened at her birth and she developed cerebral palsy. She was one of the happiest people I have ever known. She loved her friends and family from sun up to sun down. Her parents are still alive and in their 70's. They are on a different maturity plane than I. They are filled with joy in all they do in their daily lives. I recently ask the Mother about the anticipation of the day of seeing her daughter again and she replied
" That will be THE day." When I think of you and Alan, I think of you both being on that same maturity plane. You have a radiance about you and your words that bring so much joy to others, even when you are in the middle of so much suffering. You both encourage us all in our daily life. There is hope in the days ahead.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 1:25 PM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan,

That poem broke my heart, but trying to imagine Hayley's grave marker was unbearable... It must truly be the unthinkable thought...I am so hurt for you and continue to pray for your strength to live through the unthinkable and unimaginable.
Cecilia <Cecilia.Elias@alltel.com>
Cumming, Ga - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 11:55 AM CDT

Dayna & Alan...thank you for sharing that. The letter on what is "normal" just broke my heart. Please know that you are both in our hearts in prayer.
Love,The Drabyk Family
Roger,Alexandra,Samantha,Cassidy &'Cookie' <rdrabyk@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, MB Canada - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 9:13 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
Just thinking of you both today. The scrapbooks you have already made were so touching and beautiful to see at Hayley's service.

Joy Rowan (Bill and Kevan's daughter)
Columbia, MD - Monday, April 11, 2005 8:50 PM CDT

I am so, so sorry for your loss. I pray for peace within your soul. God bless you,
Monica Coffey <tika98@yahoo.com>
Frisco, TX - Monday, April 11, 2005 2:25 PM CDT

Hi there!

Yesterday, after a brief rain I went outside and saw an incredible rainbow! Hayley's pink was shining bright! I'll never again look at a rainbow with out thinking of your beautiful angel.

Please know that you and your precious Hayley are in my thoughts and my prayers.

Thank you again for sharing your story. You're little girl is an inspiration to many.

Jen H <jhumphrey@heroesforchildren.org>
Fort Worth, Tx - Monday, April 11, 2005 9:51 AM CDT

I think of you daily and pray for you to find peace in your memories.It has been 15 years since we lost our baby and I alway wonder what she would look like now and that she would be getting her drivers permit. I have two kids now ages 14 and 9 and when people ask how many kids I always say 3. My kids talk about her all the time which is great but sad. It does get easier, but I still have teary days and good days. God bless you.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Monday, April 11, 2005 8:44 AM CDT

Every morning a say a prayer that you're day might be a little tiny bit easier.

Always praying for you all.

Love
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Monday, April 11, 2005 1:18 AM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan,

You are always in my prayers. Even though I never met your sweet Hayley, I find myself thinking about her, sometimes, and smiling.

I hope that God continues to heal your hearts.

Love,
Debbie
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Sunday, April 10, 2005 7:09 PM CDT

I am still praying for you and Alan. You pop into my head daily, and whenever you do, I pray. The other day you came to mind while I was swimming laps! So I prayed and hoped that for whatever reason, you needed that prayer right at that moment. In His Love, Erin in Utah
Erin Myers <yldemyers@yahoo.com>
Park City, UT - Sunday, April 10, 2005 2:44 PM CDT

I can't think of adequate words to say....I am constantly aware of your loss and have stopped in my tracks during the day thinking of sweet Hayley and your loss. I am so sorry and know that there is nothing any of us can say that will ease your pain. Thank you for sharing, again, with us. You are such a special couple. I am praying that somehow God will use these messages (many from "strangers", like me) to lift your spirit. Even if for just a moment. I am also an "scapper" and think that your memory album will be one of your most precious treasures. I have a close friend that lost her baby last year. Someone told her of an idea to have those that knew her daughter to jot down thoughts or any memories of her. She passed around a journal to all of us to add to. She now has a precious momento of what her daughter meant to so many. I am sure that there are many who would love to share with you about the Hayley they knew. Just an idea. I check on you each day and still look at Hayley's pictures and wonder "why". I can only imagine your questions. Thank goodness God knows our questions and our hearts. Hang on....
celeste <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Saturday, April 9, 2005 8:00 PM CDT

Always thinking of you.
Johanna <johannastuart@juno.com>
Flagstaff, AZ USA - Saturday, April 9, 2005 9:34 AM CDT

Hi. I've been following Hayley's story for quite a while now but never signed the guestbook. I've never found the right words to say.

Hayley was a absolutly beautiful little girl, It's hard to not fall in love with her beautiful smile! It's amazing how she could touch my heart without even knowing her, but she has. Your strength is amazing. My heart aches to even imagine what you have gone through and are going through. I will continue to visit often. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you.

Hugs- Hailey's Aunt Kellie
Kellie <KellieL20@aol.com>
Crown Point, IN USA - Friday, April 8, 2005 10:54 PM CDT

Still thinking of you and praying for you always. I am here to help you guys with anything I can to pull off the golf tournament. Just let me know as it gets closer what you need.

I have to say that although I never met Hayley, I truly do miss her. I think about it everytime I do my caringbridge visits. Hayley became so very special to me. She will never be forgotten.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Friday, April 8, 2005 9:42 PM CDT

I haven't signed the gb in a while and thought it was about time. I was thinking about you guys so much at Easter. I have had two close friends that have lost a child, I pray for you as I do for them. Sometimes time can feel like it is standing still when days, months or years have passed.
Shari Wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
cumming , ga - Friday, April 8, 2005 6:40 PM CDT

Thinking of you.
Audra, Mike, Amanda, Ariel, Keegan, and Liam /ALL-Kids
<audramama@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 8, 2005 4:24 PM CDT

It is always good to see an update. You are still in our prayers!

Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Friday, April 8, 2005 3:12 PM CDT

I was direceted through another site. My nephew is battling Histeocitosis. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for your added entries
Erin LaFountain <elafountain@hotmail.com>
OH - Friday, April 8, 2005 1:38 PM CDT

My heart breaks when I read your entries. I don't know what else to do but pray, so that's what I'll keep doing.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Friday, April 8, 2005 11:30 AM CDT

I just couldn't read the "New Normal" poem. My heart was already too full and emotional by the time I finished reading your entry. We hurt for you, though we know it is only a fraction of the pain you feel on a daily basis. Thank God you've been given the talent and patience to create such beautiful scrapbook memories of Hayley's gorgeous face. Having seen your work, I know it will be the most treasured and healing gift you could give to yourselves. Someday, we'd love to pour over it with you.

Thinking of you always,
Jen, Steph, Kate, and Jack (www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)
Camp Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Friday, April 8, 2005 9:46 AM CDT

Continuing to check on and pray for you daily. Each time as I scroll down past Hayley's sweet picture I think of how much more wonderful Heaven must be with her there but as I scroll further, I am overwhelmed by how difficult your pain must be.
Kelley <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Friday, April 8, 2005 9:37 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I continue to check on you often. If I come and don't see a new post, I know I have sweet Hayley's face smiling back at me. I am glad to hear the golf tournament is moving forward and that your lives are moving forward. You both continue to be in my prayers and so is sweet Angel Hayley.

Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
NY - Friday, April 8, 2005 8:18 AM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I still check on you everyday, sometimes more. Sometimes, I pop over here just to look at Hayley's sweet face. I especially love the bottom right picture of her playing with the remote. Seeing her face makes my heart smile and my eyes fill with tears. I can't imagine (and I don't want to imagine) the pain you feel. I do wish there was something that I could do for you to lessen your pain. Your strength and faith always amaze me. I am a better person for "knowing" your family.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Friday, April 8, 2005 7:35 AM CDT

Dayna & Alan,
I have been visiting Hayley's site for a long time but have never signed the guestbook. I always felt that no words would be adequate to express my sadness for what you are enduring. My precious Mom passed away from cancer the afternoon of New Year's Eve-3 months 1 week and 6 days ago. I can feel your pain and pray daily that it will lessen. I pray for your family each night and I ask my Mom to look after all the little children who went to their Heavenly home much too soon. My Mom was a kindergarten teacher for 22 years and children are her passion! I have no doubt she has found Hayley. I long for my Mom's presence and can't wait for the day that I get to meet up with her again in Heaven. Until then, I will live each day to the fullest and continue to pray that the pain of my (and your) broken heart will heal. I know there will always be a void in your heart for Hayley. Please be comforted in knowing that she is with her Heavenly Father and is pain free, tube free, cancer free at last. I know that is what is helping to heal my wounded heart.
In my prayers daily,
Holly <h_hoenes@hotmail.com>
Macon, GA USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 10:41 PM CDT

That was a powerful verse. Still checking on you often. Thank you for sharing Hayley with us - she has left a mark on my heart forever.
Connie <Bogeymama2000@yahoo.ca>
Calgary, Alberta Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 10:03 PM CDT

My heart continues to ache for both of you as you grieve the loss of your precious Hayley. With love, hugs & prayers,
Susan
Susan <Susanmvt@aol.com>
Peachtree City, GA USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 7:25 PM CDT

Praying for you daily-
Kellie <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, April 7, 2005 6:58 PM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan,
Rarely does a day go by that I don't stop by Hayley's Corner and pray for you. May the Lord hold you close.

Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Thursday, April 7, 2005 6:31 PM CDT

I think of you every day and pray for you. I wish somehow all of us that care about you could take away your pain.
It's still so unbelievable to me, a stranger who only knows you thru this site. I cannot imagine how you deal with each day. Always remember SO many people care and are praying for you. And remembering Hayley!!
Karen (FOA/RA)
Stow, OH - Thursday, April 7, 2005 6:04 PM CDT

If its still unbelievable to me that Hayley isn't here ,I can't imagine your pain. My heart goes out to both of you......and her grandparents too. I pray for you all and visit the site often.
Tricia <TriciaBxNY@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 7, 2005 5:48 PM CDT

Praying for you as you miss Hayley so much.
I cannot even imagine the pain you must feel. She is a beautiful precious girl.
Ali <usmomx4@hotmail.com>
Omaha, NE - Thursday, April 7, 2005 5:29 PM CDT

I think it would get more difficult in time to accept that Hayley is not right here. I think the reality of the temporary permanence begins to sink in to our souls. I said temporary because we do meet again in heaven. Not believing that must be unbearable. I wish that grief did not have to hurt so deeply. When I have grieved for someone that I lost, I think of what I should have done, could have done, would have done if I had known it would end like this. In other words, I beat myself up more than the pain of grief has handed me. It feels like wading through a sea of cement. The waves will crash on top of you and smother you. It will get better.....I promise. It has to get better because you cannot stay like that and survive. I think that is what happens to you.....you will wake up one day(when the time is right for you and on your personal time schedule)and know that you have to get going with the life you have left. You will stop feeling guilty for not grieving. Do you understand what I am trying to say? I think eventually you have to reach the point when you say to yourself that it is ok if I feel joy again. At that point, you will not have to apologize to Hayley for going on with your life. I think it is easy to punish ourselves unnecessarily. Hayley KNOWS that you and Alan did everything humanly possible for her. Hayley is with the LORD and I bet he has told her that it was her time and it was out of earthly control.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 5:20 PM CDT

I'm so very sorry that Hayley isn't with you like she should be. It's so unfair that any parent has to lose a child. The story, poem, however you call it "Normal" was very difficult to read; I cannot imagine how difficult it is to live it every day.

Even if you ended this site today, I would always be a different person because of the small glimpse of your life I have been able to see.

((Hugs))
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 5:13 PM CDT

Dear Dayna and Alan:

I come to Hayley's site more than once each day. It's not that I expect to see new updates. It's just that she lives in my heart, just like the two of you do, and this is just where I come to think of you and pray for you. I know we haven't known each other long, but your family has touched my soul.

I read the "New Normal" with tears in my eyes, knowing that you must feel like you live on a different planet than most around you. I can only imagine what it's like to have happy yet painful memories flooding your heart all the time. I can only imagine what it must be like to deal with all of the frivolity and insignificance that consumes most of us when your heart is missing your baby so desperately. Please forgive all of us who seem not to understand. Please feel our most heartfelt love and compassion and empathy. I pray with all my might that somehow that will ease your burden ever so slightly.

Recently, I shared a poem with Leigh Ann Martin that I want to share with you. I don't sign your guestbook often, because my words are so inadequate in the face of your enormous pain. I share this with you as an expression of my love for your precious family:

When tragedy comes
overwhelmingly ~
wounding your hearts to
the core;
leaving more questions
than answers ~
sorrows as never before.

Our Words do not bring
any comfort ~
your hearts are too numb
to hear;
How can you face tomorrow ~
when the loss is
a loved one so dear?

Yet through the pain
and emptiness ~
a precious thought
is born;
Weeping endures through the night ~
But, Joy cometh at morn.

So we're asking the One who
holds tomorrow ~
to shelter you 'neath
His wing;
Give your broken hearts
that comfort ~
That ONLY HIS presence
can bring~

And, remember you are
in our hearts ~
in our thoughts and
prayers, too;
We are trusting God,
our Father ~
for those things we
just cannot do~

Lots of love to you!
Kristin

Kristin, Mike, Ryan and Brandon Connor (www.caringbridge.org/ga/brandonconnor) <kristin.connor@comcast.net>
Norcross, ga - Thursday, April 7, 2005 5:02 PM CDT

May the sweet memories of your dear Hayley warm your heart durning the rough times. Praying for you
Kim (Friends of Allie / Raise Awareness) <friendsofalliememphis@yahoo.com >
Memphis, TN - Thursday, April 7, 2005 4:35 PM CDT

Dayna, know that we are still praying for you. God will get you through this. I can't even imagine how hard it is, but he will. He loves you. Remember that always.
Chris Jacobson <christinejacobson48@msn.com>
Cumming, GA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 3:28 PM CDT

Still praying for you both.
Melinda***FOA/RA*** <melinda_isaac@hotmail.com>
Tampa, FL - Thursday, April 7, 2005 3:23 PM CDT

Dayna & Alan
Every day at work I check on your site at least a couple of times. I want to know how you are doing and love to look at Hayleys pictures. I can't tell you how much pain I Feel for the two of you. I have 3 little girls and Hayley sure changed a lot in my live. My girls love horses, so every time I see horses I think ( if the girls are not with me) " the girls would love to see that and so would Hayley" she really is a big part of our lives and will never be forgotten. I have learned so much from you and especially Hayley. Thank you, and you are always in our prayers and thoughts

Rosi <rcoronado@ase-inc.net>
- Thursday, April 7, 2005 3:01 PM CDT

Thank you for that beautiful post today. I can't imagine the pain you have to endure on a "normal" day. I have a good friend who just lost her daughter. Someday I will give her that so maybe she can find comfort in knowing she isn't alone. I pray that you and your family find comfort in the happy memories you had with little Hayley and the fact that she is indeed w/ God now.
Christa <critterwil@yahoo.com>
Louisville, KY United States - Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:49 PM CDT

Although I never knew her, I think of Hayley often. The thought of her can bring tears to my eyes, a complete stranger, so I can't imagine what you both feel on a day to day basis. I hope that over time it gets easier as you deserve that. All the best to you.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:46 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
I am so happy to hear from you two! I am always checking in on Hayleys site to see how you are. I miss her too.
I bet she is smiling to see you working on her album...good for you :)

I continue to pray for God to give you strength every day and to heal your sadness, as slow a process as it may seem right now. Hayley is with you always. I don't think life is meant to be "normal". God didn't intend for Hayley to be normal, look how many, many lives she touched and changed along her journey. My father passed 6 years ago from cancer, I still miss him daily and cry. I look back at how wonderful he was and the lives that he touched and think, "God made him one special man". Life will never be normal for me without him, but at least he is a part of me and we were together for the time God allowed. You and I were both given special gifts and in a "normal" life we wouldn't have received them.

Love and hugs,
Stacie
Stacie Lynch <stacielynch2@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, CO USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:46 PM CDT

I check on your family daily, and want you to know you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Tipton
Fairborn, Oh USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:43 PM CDT

You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Ginny **FOA/RA** <jgdeegan@msn.com>
Mtn. Home AFB, ID USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:37 PM CDT

Please know that you remain in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss and for the pain you are going through.
Angela(FOA/RA)-
- Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:30 PM CDT

Think of you and praying for you daily! I hope the memories are still strong and able to carry your through! BIG hugs and lots of prayers.
Melissa *FoA/RA* <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 2:22 PM CDT

Still thinking of you and praying for you daily.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Thursday, April 7, 2005 1:22 PM CDT

I think about you all the time, but a ton today. Spring has finally arrived in New England. I see Hayley in everything..the flowers blooming, the spring air, the green trees and grass.

I hope you are okay. I pray you can see some of "Hayley's rainbows" all the time. Hayley is such a beautiful part of my world. I will NEVER EVER forget her. I only wish I was able to meet her. I REALLY wish she could have stayed with you MUCH, MUCH longer.

I am sending a ton of prayers, love, hugs, and good thoughts to you!
Another stranger who fell in love with Hayley!! <klgrace@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, April 6, 2005 7:09 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know what I was thinking of you today.

Hugs!
Michele <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 5:59 PM CDT

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My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 5:07 PM CDT

Checking in, like I do every day, just to see that smiling face with the precious cheeks. Truly Angelic! Thank you for your beautiful Easter message. My heart aches for you both. Just know that you're still in my thoughts and prayers as I ask Him to give you strength to get through another day.
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta, FOA/RA/CW <skc62@juno.com>
Suwanee, GA - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 2:13 PM CDT

I can't say I understand what you're going through, because I don't; but I am happy that you were blessed with Hayley and will spend eternity with her. You're in my prayers every day.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 10:07 AM CDT

I think of you often and keep you in my prayers even more. You are precious and shared such a beautiful, heartfelt message about Easter. When my grandmother passed a few days before Easter, I remembered the touching lyrics, Homesick you posted on the site, and found comfort in them during the ceremony. Thank you for sharing.
Tiffany Thomas <tiffanyrthomas@yahoo.com>
GA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 11:01 PM CDT

We saw a beautiful pink sunset tonight and know it was a gift from Hayley.

Love,
CampJack
Jen, Steph, Kate, and Jack <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 9:34 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know you are still in our thoughts and prayers.
Misty
Las Vegas, NV USA - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 5:58 PM CDT

Dayna and Alan,
Well, this week I tore off the cute picture of the April child on my calendar, prayed for her, and then continued to look at Hayley as she has now become "Miss April." I still can't believe she's not here for us to touch in the flesh. I know that you miss her terribly, day after day...I'm so far away and I miss her a great deal and think of her at the most special times.
Love and prayers always,
Cheryl
PS I was so happy to see Karen B's. entry. Yes, we hope you (and Linda) can come to the reunion....Dennis told me he will be in Tanzania during that part of Oct.
Cheryl Ferguson <CFERGUSON@MAIL.UTEXAS.EDU>
- Tuesday, April 5, 2005 4:23 PM CDT

Dayna, Just wanted you to know that we enjoyed seeing your Dad at Aunt Blanche's funeral and afterwards at Tina's. We are planning a family reunion probably in October and would love for you and Alan to make it. Your name came up as someone that we have all prayed for and love. We really hope that you both can make it. Details later.
Karen Bartholomew <kbart276@aol.com>
Heath, Tx - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 10:36 AM CDT

Just checking on you all today as I do everyday. Hope you have a great week. Know you are in my prayers.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, April 4, 2005 1:54 PM CDT

Wanting you to know that I am thinking of you today as every day.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, April 4, 2005 1:41 PM CDT

I wanted to check on your family after Easter, but couldn't find the links anymore. I remembered it was Hayley in GA, but I kept typing Haley. How could I forget? I am so glad I kept trying until I got it right. It sounds as though it was a tough Easter, but was also a beautiful time for you. Even though I don't know you, my heart aches for you. You are such a beautiful family and such an inspiration. Happy Easter little Hayley!! Love and Prayers.
Kym Little <kymlittle@comcast.net>
Mobile, AL - Sunday, April 3, 2005 9:50 PM CDT

I just wanted to check in on you and see how you were doing. I love seeing Haley's sweet face. We are still praying for you both.
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Sunday, April 3, 2005 3:30 PM CDT

I just wanted to come by and say Hi to you. I come and visit your beautiful daughter's web page often and I think of you and your family a lot.

God bless you and your strength in Him. You are an ispiration to those of us who read your story. I am in awe of your faith.
Taryn Carrell
Grande Prairie, AB Canada - Sunday, April 3, 2005 1:52 PM CDT

I have been thinking about you guys a lot this week and wondering how you are doing. You are always in my prayers.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Saturday, April 2, 2005 7:02 AM CST

Just checking in to see how you are doing and to remind you that I continue to pray for you each day.

Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Saturday, April 2, 2005 6:28 AM CST

Thinking of you today....
Becky <mashedpeas@msn.com>
El Mirage, AZ - Friday, April 1, 2005 10:41 PM CST

My heart breaks each time I come to Hayley's site. She really has touched me, and countless others. I hope that your Easter was nice. That you walked into church with your head held high knowing that you have a beautiful Angel looking down upon you. You both continue to be in my thoughts and prayers as I think of Hayley and pray for a cure.

Warm thoughts to you today, and everyday.
Kari Z. (Cancer Warriors) <zfamily00@hotmail.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Friday, April 1, 2005 10:38 PM CST

Hey there! Spending some time on my knees tonight and you continue to touch my heart. I pray God continues to carry you when you need it most! I miss seeing you and hope we can have lunch sometime soon!!!
D.D. Dixon www.caringbridge.org/ga/marygrace <d.d.dixon@comcast.net>
Canton, Ga - Friday, April 1, 2005 7:13 PM CST

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My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Friday, April 1, 2005 11:19 AM CST

Dayna,

i come and visit Hayley's webpage often,sometimes when you haven't posted i just go back and read some of your previous entries and other times i just come to look at Hayley's pictures and remember that beautiful face.
I don't always know what to say so i don't leave an entry here all the time but i wanted to today ..
My heart breaks for you everytime i think about all the things you're not getting to do,all the clothes unworn especially the beautiful Easter dress and how you face each day unable to hold your princess in your arms.I hope the wonderful memories you shared with us about all the fun you had together and all of the other memories that are only yours comfort you during the times when your heart aches the most.
I love and miss Hayley and will never forget that smily face.
Love Theresa Heath
Executive Director
Cancer Warriors Angel Network
www.cancerwarriors.org
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Friday, April 1, 2005 9:40 AM CST

Hi, Dayna and Allan. Just wanted you guys to know that I am continually thinking of you and sweet Hayley. I check in on you every day and pray that you are doing well.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Thursday, March 31, 2005 10:21 AM CST

I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and praying for you every day. I'm so sorry that you had to miss so many things this Easter. I can't imagine how difficult it must have been. Your little Hayley has touched my life more than you could know. I know I've said it before, but thank you for sharing her with us.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Wednesday, March 30, 2005 2:41 PM CST

Dear Dayna and Alan, I have just finished reading your journey with Hayley. Your family has touched my heart and increased my faith. I love your friend's quote about what joy is - I will hang it in my kitchen. I will pray for your family.

Ps. 126:5-6 "Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy. He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with him."
Laurie <sweeneystuff@cmcpc.net>
Park City, UT USA - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 4:12 PM CST

Just wanted you both to know that Hayley is still remembered everyday, even by those of us who never met her. It is quite incredible how she changed my life, not only in the way I live each day, but in the way I have been made aware of how AWFUL childhood cancer really is. I have been able to witness firsthand the daily battles and struggles and I want to do whatever I can to help find a cure! Hayley left us with a legacy that will continue to impact the world by all the lives she touched. Dayna, you and Alan are in my thoughts each day and I pray that you are able to see the sunshine again....always knowing that you were blessed with a most precious gift. We all were. I am still so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing a part of you with us.
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 2:55 PM CST

Just letting you know that I'm thinking of you.

LOVE BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 1:16 PM CST

Dayna and Alan,
You have been on my heart, especially in the last couple of days. We continue to pray for your strength and some "really good days" to come. We saw a rainbow coming home from Atlanta the other day, and I smiled thinking Hayley probably had something to do with it.
Love,
Tre', Jenny, and Catie Wilkins
The Wilkins Family <jencarroll@hotmail.com>
Guyton, GA - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 9:17 AM CST

I still stop by and check Hayley's site all the time. I love seeing her adorable little face so much! I often try to sign her guestbook and come up with some words that would help you, but I know that is impossible. I just want you to know I think about and pray for you every single day. Your precious little girl will NEVER be forgotten. She has changed my life FOREVER and I WILL be a better person because of her. Thank you for sharing her story. I know MANY HAPPY days will come your way. I TRUELY BELIEVE that!!
a mommy from MA
- Monday, March 28, 2005 9:39 PM CST

I thought so much of you and other families yesterday during church. Our pastor mentioned that most of us have asked God, "why" and may have felt guilty for questioning his decisions. I have felt this way many times since my life has been touched by cancer. Especially since I have come to know so many stories through caringbridge. I have always questioned why this has to happen. I have always felt that guilt. Our pastor then reminded us that Jesus even questioned his father as he hung on the cross. He truly understands us. He has and always will carry our burdens. I was really comforted by that. I hope this also will bring some comfort to you. It is okay to ask why! Still thinking of you and praying for you daily. Never forgetting your precious girl.

Larissa Farley
larissafarley@bellsouth.net <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
lawrenceville, GA USA - Monday, March 28, 2005 2:11 PM CST

Just stopping by to caught a peek at you beautiful angel. I love looking at Hayley's pictures. Hope your Easter was a happy one with wonderful memories of Hayley. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, March 28, 2005 1:06 PM CST

Your words truly inspire me. Hayley's life & passing has brought so much to me and the way I look at life. I think & pray for you daily. Your faith brings me so much happness, I can't imagin how anyone could get through this without our amazing, loving God. Thank you for sharing your story.

Happy Easter,
Katie Dixon :)
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Monday, March 28, 2005 12:55 AM CST

My heart is aches for you and please know that many are thinking of you. Hayley's legacy will live and be a guiding light to many. She's the source of your strength when you feel weak. Life is a gift and Hayley has taught me to never take it for granted. Embrace the joy and love Hayley has added to many lives.
Kelly <kellymann@grandecom.net>
Waco, TX - Monday, March 28, 2005 11:54 AM CST

Dayna & Alan, your strength amazes me. I visit your site often and I always come away with a feeling of awe. After everything you have been through with Hayley, your faith doesn't waver. I think that is one of the reasons I visit your site - you inspire and encourage me in my walk with God. I pray for you often. Keep your heads up and thank you for sharing your story.
Terri Weiler <tweiler81@yahoo.com>
Cordova, TN USA - Monday, March 28, 2005 9:08 AM CST

Dayna and Alan,
Happy Easter. You are in my thoughts an prayers.
Monica F <filyaw@bellsouth.net>
Florence, SC - Sunday, March 27, 2005 9:35 PM CST

You guys have entered my thoughts so many times over the last few days. I pray that you will be filled with the peace of God's love. Hayley is so precious and I love to look at her pics. from time to time.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Sunday, March 27, 2005 8:03 PM CST

Just stopping by to wish you a very happy Easter!
Chris, Belinda, Jeremy and Ben Smith <belindasmith@comcast.net>
marietta, ga usa - Sunday, March 27, 2005 5:18 PM CST

I'm so thankful that you guys are clinging to Jesus in spite of your incredible pain. Because of Him, you get to see your precious Hayley again, someday. "Someday all that's wrong will be made right, every wounded soul will be made whole, when we see Him face to face". I know you must long for that day now more than ever. May that truth bring comfort to your hurting hearts. I doubt anything on earth is as beautiful to Jesus as one of his children still trusting him with hands emptied of what they loved so much. He cries with you I'm sure, but brings comfort too I hope.
Shannon Ede <shannon@edefamily.net>
Round Rock, TX - Sunday, March 27, 2005 4:18 PM CST

Thinking of you this weekend. I am sure little Hayley is having a GREAT BIG Easter egg hunt in heaven and what better way than with Jesus.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Sunday, March 27, 2005 1:29 PM CST

Just stopping by to wish you a happy easter and to let you know I am thinking of you!
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Sunday, March 27, 2005 9:07 AM CST

I am always moved to tears when I read your site. What a vey lucky girl sweet Haley was. Your thoughts are so guenuine and profound. May God Bless you in the years to come.
Blessings Always,
Lisa
Blake's Page
Lisa Young <lyoung@austin.rr.com>
Round Rock, Texas - Sunday, March 27, 2005 0:54 AM CST

May this Easter bring lots of light to dull your pain a bit. I think of you and your sweet girl SO much. Just wanted you to know. :) Happy Easter to you both and to sweet angel Hayley.
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA)
CA - Saturday, March 26, 2005 11:30 PM CST

How odd - I was just thinking of you all tonight - and all the other Mom's and Dad's going through another first without a child. I open Hayley's page and you summed it all up. Easter really is the joy of all joys, but yet it has a very sad side to it, too. Thank you for sharing your journey and your beautiful, precious daughter with us. I promise you - Hayley's life has touched my heart deeply. You guys are in my prayers.
Nancy <nall3860@aol.com>
Nashville, - Saturday, March 26, 2005 11:25 PM CST

It is ALL because of Easter that you know that you will be with Hayley again one day!!
Every one of your journal entries is so beautiful and eloquent. I have thought for quite a while that you should copy your journal and send it to Christian publishing companies to be made into a book. It would be such a blessing to other families going through what you have.
I pray you will be blessed very soon with another beautiful child to fill your hearts and home with joy! From reading your website, I know you are wonderful parents.
God bless you this Easter season.
Kellie Holcomb <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Saturday, March 26, 2005 1:09 PM CST

God bless you during this ever so spiritual time. You remain in my prayers.
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Saturday, March 26, 2005 12:40 AM CST

It is hard to comprehend that "He chose the nails." It does make one appreciate life in a different way. I am praying for you all at this beautiful time of the year.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Saturday, March 26, 2005 10:15 AM CST

Still AMAZING in your GRACE!

God bless you and keep you this Easter season and always!
Kelley <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Saturday, March 26, 2005 9:15 AM CST

I am thinking of you and praying for you
Kristin Jenson <kjenson08@wat.midco.net>
Watertown, SD USA - Saturday, March 26, 2005 8:23 AM CST

Dayna & Alan,
The two of you are such amazing parents. What a wonderful testimony of God's love. So many people cannot fathom what God's sacrifice meant, as a parent. You are able to make it so real, by sharing your pain with us.

I am so sorry that Hayley won't be wearing the Easter dress you bought for her last year. That she won't be finding Easter eggs. I am so sad for you. Yet, just as you were able to look on the "heavenly side" at Christmastime, when your loss was so fresh, you are able to do it again this Easter, as we celebrate Jesus' resurrection! You are in my prayers.
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Friday, March 25, 2005 10:39 PM CST

Dear Dayna and Alan,
You once again astound me with your total grace. May the Lord give you comfort during this time and may you have sweet dreams of your precious Hayley.
Love and Blessings
Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Friday, March 25, 2005 9:59 PM CST

Dear Dayna and Alan,
You are both in my thoughts and prayers always, as is sweet little Hayley. You both have such incredible faith and it is truly inspiring. I know Hayley will be celebrating this Easter in Heaven with Jesus and all the other angels....I'm sure it will be a beautiful and joyous occasion. She is missed by so many....My love goes out to her and her wonderful parents. May God bless.

Love,
Julie, John, and Keira
Julie Pelker *FOA/RA* <julzpelker@comcast.net>
Leesport, PA - Friday, March 25, 2005 9:37 PM CST

Thank you for sharing not only your daughter, but your incredible faith with us. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Sharon <skc62@juno.com>
Suwanee, GA - Friday, March 25, 2005 9:31 PM CST

I am so sorry for your loss. My baby with AML has one more round of chemo to go and I am so scared of a relapse. I can't imagine going through this as long as you did, and seeing your child ascend to heaven in the end. I will pray for your family for continued strength.
Cathy, mom to baby Wyatt with AML, www3.caringbridge.org/wa/wyatt/ <daisyandme@hotmail.com>
Eatonville, WA 98328 - Friday, March 25, 2005 9:10 PM CST

I have been following your story for several months and am so sorry for your loss. Today's entry left me amazed at your incredible faith - you are such a strong soldier for the Lord. I'll be praying for you this weekend - may God bless you this Easter in ways that you could not have even imagined, and may he continue to bless you each day for your faithfulness. You WILL see Hayley again, and what a party it will be!
Paige Stanfield
Decatur, GA USA - Friday, March 25, 2005 8:13 PM CST

Today's entry was soooo sad, I thought I'd cry. I'm so sorry for your loss.
A.C. <jessiebelle@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, March 25, 2005 6:32 PM CST

One day all the sadness will be gone & we will be together with the ones we have lost. Praise God that we were given this precious gift of eternity!
Thinking of you!
Hugs.
Donna Drosche <chictexas@hot.rr.com>
Waco, Tx USA - Friday, March 25, 2005 6:16 PM CST

Dayna and Alan,

Your faith and love of God is amazing. I wish you many happy memories and sweet dreams of your beautiful ray of sunshine.
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
- Friday, March 25, 2005 6:02 PM CST

Just stopping by to check on you two. May the Lord bless and keep you.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Friday, March 25, 2005 5:59 PM CST

Just a quick hello to both of you and wishing you many Easter Blessings. My husband and I think and pray for you often. Hardly a day goes by that we aren't reminded of your precious Hayley and the love you share. Fondly,
Christine and Matt Mahoney <mahoneymcjc@comcast.net>
NJ - Friday, March 25, 2005 5:58 PM CST

Beautifully written. You couldn't be more right about everything. May God bless you (a little extra) this weekend!
Karen (FoA/RA)
Stow, OH - Friday, March 25, 2005 5:35 PM CST

Thank you for sharing your pain! I find incredible encouragemnt from your words.
Lara Hall (http://www3.caringbridge.org/va/jennihallupdate/) <lara@cavtel.net>
Midlothian, va usa - Friday, March 25, 2005 5:18 PM CST

Still forever in my heart and prayers........ I hope you guys have a Happy Easter.

Love,

Amy
Amy <amynjake01@aol.com>
Delta, PA - Friday, March 25, 2005 12:52 AM CST

Stopping by to wish you all a Very Happy Easter. Know thata you are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Friday, March 25, 2005 10:42 AM CST

Just a quick note to say that I think of you often and still check in to see how you are. I hope that you can have a good Easter. You'll be in my thoughts.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, March 25, 2005 8:17 AM CST

I still think about both of you often. Of course ours lives will never be the same. But don't you both have a different perspective on life from most other people....and actually a better one? Don't you find that you just don't sweat the small stuff? Do you tell prople that you love them and appreciate them, rather than expecting them to "just know" it? Don't you take every opportunity to "make a memory"? Life is good.
Kim Elliott-Knoll (Leigh's Mom) <Doofus7734@hotmail.com>
Powder Springs, georgia - Friday, March 25, 2005 6:45 AM CST

Dayna and Alan,
Just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you guys and still checking in regularly. I keep thinking about this wonderful "journal" you have created through this website and how many people have been touched by your story of faith and love and just by Hayley's incredible spirit. I keep thinking what a wonderful and inspiration book it would make. You guys have already inspired so many people. Everyone who hears your story, in your own eloquent words, is so moved.
Take care and happy Easter!
Joy Rowan (Bill and Kevan's daughter)
Columbia, MD - Thursday, March 24, 2005 4:15 PM CST

May God bless you and comfort you. I pray that life will be good for you now and always. Peace
Tim Higgins <timothyjhiggins@aol.com>
Wyoming, DE U.S.A. - Thursday, March 24, 2005 12:49 AM CST

I just want to wish you a blessed weekend and pray that as you celebrate our savior that you will be filled with an incredible peace like you've never felt before. Your sweet Hayley is in the hands of her savior and Heavenly Father....if nothing else brings you comfort, you know that God himself is right by her side. I know you are still missing her so terribly....we will not stop praying for you!
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Thursday, March 24, 2005 10:42 AM CST

Just wanted to wish you a happy easter, I bet you get another rainbow from your little one! We think of you every day.
Paige Moss <medicpaige@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Thursday, March 24, 2005 9:59 AM CST

Thinking of you both and sending our love and prayers.
Kim & Jack <Kgomogomo@joimail.com>
Alph, ga USA - Wednesday, March 23, 2005 2:51 PM CST

LOVE

My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Wednesday, March 23, 2005 1:21 PM CST

I just wanted to let you know that I think of you and precious Hayley often. I'm saying a prayer that you are blessed with happier days ahead and many, many rainbows.
Jacquelyn <jacqmills@sbcglobal.net>
Sacramento, CA - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 2:35 PM CST

I just wanted you to know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Christine Rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 1:09 PM CST

I just wanted to let you know that I think of you often. I really hope you are doing well.
Johann <johannastuart@juno.com>
Flagstaff, AZ USA - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 9:24 AM CST

My thoughts so many times go to Hayley and her precious smile. Yesterday, my 3 yr old was drawing with sidewalk chalk and she suddenly announced, "look mommy I made a rainbow for Hayley in heaven." To the best of her ability she had indeed done just that and my heart smiled at the thought of Hayley's rainbows. I pray for you and Alan often and hope that you find some comfort in knowing what a difference you and Hayley have made in so many lives.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 8:59 AM CST

Dayna and Alan,
"Hayley Pink"--I like that..pink has become my new favorite color and will remind me to pray for YOU!
Love,
Cheryl
Ferguson <CFERGUSON@MAIL.UTEXAS.EDU>
- Tuesday, March 22, 2005 8:53 AM CST

Thinking of you with love & prayers every day.
Susan Adcox <Susanmvt@aol.com>
Peachtree City, GA - Monday, March 21, 2005 4:26 PM CST

Just wanted you all to know that I was thinking of you today. I still check on you everyday and your are in my thoughts and prayer also.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, March 21, 2005 3:08 PM CST

I don't come with any great thoughts or words of wisdom today. I have thought of you two so much lately and want you to know that I just don't understand why or how you two could be going down this painful road of losing one of the most precious little girls I have ever come in contact with. It just doesn't make sense! I am sure that you have a roller coaster of emotions flooding your hearts daily and I want you to know that we, too, have some "roller coaster" thoughts. I find myself awake some nights trying to make sense of why Hayley was ever sick. I know that God's plan is best and His ways are not our own, but those words still don't help me explain the hows and whys. I just can't fathom it with my human mind. On the other side...I am just thankful that we serve a God that knows our deepest thoughts and hurts and is there with open arms and understands because he lost a child, too. My heart aches for you, but I KNOW that God will hold you tightly each day and pull you through. I don't know if life gets "normal" again or "better", but I DO think you WILL learn to live life happily on the other side of this tragedy with a different "normal" and a deeper "joy" that God will provide. Let's face it...you are different, now and will forever be. Our faith in God allows us to see things from a little different persepective. I know for me, life is more precious and Heaven so much closer! That's where my home is.....still praying
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Monday, March 21, 2005 10:07 AM CST

Thinking of you with love today. God bless you both!
Kathy Sanders (FoA/RA) <kathy_sanders@comcast.net>
Richardson, TX - Monday, March 21, 2005 9:55 AM CST

Still thinking about both of you. Hope things are going alright and that Allen is enjoying his new job. Take care!
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Monday, March 21, 2005 7:50 AM CST

We think of you and sweet Hayley so often... that doesn't seem like nearly enough to say to you... but it's all I have. The photo of your little angel on the front page makes me smile every time I see it.

You are in our thoughts and prayers... always.
Katie, Hayley, Hunter, and Taylor <dugan2b@yahoo.com>
Franklin, MA - Sunday, March 20, 2005 7:37 PM CST

We just wanted you to know that you are still daily in our prayers!
Love,
The Underwoods
Especially, Elise
Tiffany Underwood <underwater9800@yahoo.com>
Cumming, GA USA - Saturday, March 19, 2005 1:56 PM CST

Dayna and Alan, I was just wanted to sign because I was thinking about you and Hayley. Dayna, I hope you have a wonderful and blessed birthday.
Shivonia <vosingleton@davidson.edu>
Charlotte, NC - Saturday, March 19, 2005 11:04 AM CST

Thinking of you and Sweet Hayley today, and so I came to take a peek at her little angelic face. I think of her when I see rainbows and pink clouds at sunrise and sunset. She's a busy little angel!
Debra B <Burgesstx@aol.com>
Ft Worth, TX - Saturday, March 19, 2005 7:49 AM CST

Just thought I would stop

in and say that I'm thinking of you always.

See you on Monday.

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My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Saturday, March 19, 2005 0:51 AM CST

Not a rainbow shines above me without me thinking of Hayley! (And here in No.Cal we have had more than our share of rain...lots of rainbows these days!)

We met Jack's family on Monday, and Jen and I both had on our green REACH THE DAY bracelets :) Thanks!

Hayley's name will be on the chain for our 100 mile ride...a mile in her honor is our pleasure :)

XXOO, Marey and Cali ALi
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Friday, March 18, 2005 10:52 PM CST

Thomson Family -
I think about your precious Hayley all the time. I am a friend of McKinley Libby's and have been reading about your daughter for quite a while. Her story has touched me more that I could have ever imagined. I have 2 small children of my own and I am blown away by your strength. I know you don't know me, but I pray for you and hope, in time, your pain will ease - of only slightly. God be with you. Kim Cochran
Kim Cochran <khcochran@charter.net>
Birmingham, al US - Friday, March 18, 2005 9:10 PM CST

I was driving home from work on Wednesday and saw the most beautiful rainbow. It wasn't one of those fleeting rainbows that you can see only for a moment, but it was constant. It didn't matter which direction we turned, it remained completely vibrant and visible. It was amazingly beautiful. It made me think of Hayley and to say a prayer for you all. I can't imagine how hard this is for you both! I know that you know you are being blanketed in prayer. I hope that provides some comfort.
Ann <amilam@charter.net>
Knoxville, TN - Friday, March 18, 2005 6:14 PM CST

You're Angel is going to take Great Care of you... Fear Not... when you forget, just ask her and she'll tell you!

Praying for you guys!
Carla <carlaj@zoominternet.net>
Butler , PA - Friday, March 18, 2005 11:10 AM CST

Just reading about your daughter's life her on Earth has touched me to my very core!! What a beautiful little girl she was!! I already feel incredibly blessed to have my daughter as she was born extremely premature at 27wks gestation, but reading about Hayley makes me feel even more blessed. May God bless your family, and may each day be a little easier than the day before!
Angie Rachels <angierachels@Hotmail.com>
Sycamore, GA USA - Friday, March 18, 2005 9:33 AM CST

still checking in and praying for you to have an extremely blessed weekend.
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Friday, March 18, 2005 8:28 AM CST

That Hayley doesn't miss a thing does she? How you were always there for her, she's now always there for you when you need her most. Gotta love her!

PS-At least my bracelet was " the color to wear" today! (yesterday by now...)
Sandra Roberts <RobertsJAKS@aol.com>
Roswell, GA USA - Friday, March 18, 2005 0:18 AM CST

Hoping that your life together is really, really good again. Sooner than later.

Every time I see a rainbow (or a cute Gymboree outfit) I think of sweet Hayley. I'll stop and say a prayer for your comfort and peace when I see these reminders, as I'm sure many other people do as well. I hope you are able to feel the love and support of the many people who were changed by Hayley.
Becky <mashedpeas@msn.com>
El Mirage, AZ - Thursday, March 17, 2005 11:04 PM CST

Happy St. Patricks Day!
a.c. <jessiebelle@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, March 17, 2005 4:49 PM CST

Dayna and Alan - That was so sweet of Hayley to send you that rainbow! I often think of her on my way to work in the morning. So many times, I see the most beautiful sunrises surrounded by a gorgeous pink sky. I call it "Hayley pink" and imagine her playing happily up there. I think of you often and those beautiful pink skies remind me to say a prayer for the two of you. Take care! Best of luck with your new job, Alan!
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, March 17, 2005 12:25 AM CST

I am so sorry for your loss. Your daughter is just beautiful. My daughter passed on 1-8-05 she was 4 yrs old. I believe that she is now in heaven just Like Hayley free from all pain and having a great time.

Nicola mummy to angel Teagyn
www.myangelteagyn.bravehost.com

Nicola <teagynsmum@aol.com>
virginia beach, va - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 9:25 PM CST

LOVE

My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 5:28 PM CST

Dayna & Alan, I met you guys at the memorial service. How wonderful that you saw that beautiful rainbow the other day. Hayley is smiling upon you saying, "Don't be sad Mommy, I'm so happy!"

You ask if life will ever be the same again? I think Hayley changed not only your life, but a lot of lives for the better. What an amazing gift from God.

Let Him give you peace right now. You will always be in my prayers.
Kevin
Cumming, GA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 9:31 AM CST

Yes, I believe it will. Haley made your lives really, really good while here and forever always in your heart. There are sure to be a few zillion rainbow moments ahead that will take your breath away. You are wise to see and believe them when they happen!
Robin Anderson <bander23@bellsouth.net>
Suwanee, GA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 5:08 AM CST

My favorite color is Pink, too! God Bless You ALWAYS!
Jill Mondo <jmcel@gte.net>
Palm Beach Gardens, FL - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 10:04 PM CST

What a great sign from Hayley! I love rainbows and now every time I see one I am reminded of the most adorable little girl ever! Just wanted you to know that there are many great thoughts and prayers going your way.

Mandy
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 4:38 PM CST

What a reminder that God knows and hears our every thought and word! He knew you needed a little "touch" from Hayley. Rainbows have always awed our family...because of Hayley, we stop and look at them a little longer and with warm hearts. Please know that we do pray for "good" days ahead filled with loving memories and reminders of Hayley.
The Wileys <mwiley36@comcast.net>
Evans, GA - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 3:47 PM CST

Dayna & Alan, you remain in my prayers. I am so thankful for all that you have shared with us, especially your precious Hayley. She has captured a part of my heart that will forever be hers. I can't wait to meet her in heaven one day. God bless you both.
Terri Weiler <tweiler81@yahoo.com>
Cordova, TN 38018 - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 2:57 PM CST

That rainbow you saw was Hayley up in heaven painting the sky. I am sure she is showing GOD some new art tricks!!! I just want you to know that you are always on my mind. Every night, me and my little girl say a pray for Hayley. She will never be forgotten!!!
Christine Rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 9:29 AM CST

Yes, life will be GOOD in time. You will be better for this pain you have suffered. If I were in your shoes, I would be saying to myself.....I don't want to be better for this, I just want my child in my arms!!!!! I know without a doubt that I would not want anything but my child. Unfortunately that is not the way it works. It is through the absolutely horrendous times in our lives that we are shaped into the kind of soul that God wants us to be. Regardless of our wants or wishes that is just the way it is. It actually scares the living daylights out of me. I do know that I would be a very shallow person and I would have no empathy or sympathy for any other person if I had not gone through some rough times in my life. It will get better, the sun will shine on you and you will feel pure joy and then you will be tested again and again in your faith. Each time you are tested, you will be stronger. You all are in my prayers. I don't like to get stronger, either. I do not like it at all. I know you are so thankful for all the people you know that love you and are there for you and they, too have lost a child. Imagine if you were the only person who had experienced the lost of a precious child. It helps knowing someone who can genuinely feel our pain. That is why God puts those people in our path. He knows what we need before we know it. We can lift each other up when we do not want to go on in life. We all can get so discouraged. It takes time to grief and it actually drains our energy.
Linda Lancaster <ltlancaster@bellsouth.net>
Pelham, AL USA - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 8:56 AM CST

Good days will definitely be there for you and Hayley's rainbow is that promise:) Your angel is always there watching over you.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 8:32 AM CST

Hayley was smiling down on you from heaven! What a wonderfull thing to see.
A.C. <jessiebelle@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, March 14, 2005 7:30 PM CST

Thank you Hayley!! I pray so much for you both EVERY day, soooo many times! I come to her site to see her beautiful face and I pray, pray, pray for you both! I can't even begin to tell you how much of a difference your little princess has made in my life....I hope each day, you "can see" a little bit of that beautiful rainbow to make you smile!

a mommy from MA
- Monday, March 14, 2005 7:21 PM CST

what a priceless gift! Those good days are certainly out there, just filled with a new outlook and appreciation as you will always remember your incredible daughter and know that though she is not here she is still very close. We miss Hayley so much. Thank you for continuing to share with us. You are both in my prayers. Because of your daughter, I have signed on to donate platelets...everytime I go I will share Hayley's story. I will never be the same.
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Monday, March 14, 2005 3:58 PM CST

Why of course there was!!! And not a moment too soon or too late. Hmmm I bet someone was telling you something! many prayers for peace and comfort coming your way!
Betsy *KC Metro FOA/RA* <betsy.clayton@selectivesite.com>
Overland Park, KS USA - Monday, March 14, 2005 3:53 PM CST

Oh sweet family. I can not even imagine the pain you are going through. But if I could, I would take it all away. Stay strong, you are in my prayers. You are so loved.
Mindi & CamiJo (FOA/RA) <mopoelwijk@cs.com>
Sun Valley, NV USA - Monday, March 14, 2005 3:02 PM CST

I guess Hayley wanted you to know her answer also. I believe it will be reallygood again for both of you. It will just take time to get there.
Tracy (FOA/RA) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
- Monday, March 14, 2005 2:28 PM CST

I believe your lives will be really and truly good again. Just with a little more wisdom and sadness too. The more I read about Alan, the more I like him. He sounds like such a courageous man and someone who innately moves through tragedy with grace. It made me cry to read that Hayley and God answered your question yesterday. Many hugs are sent your way.
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA)
CA - Monday, March 14, 2005 2:12 PM CST

I have been checking on you all periodically here and through your neighbor, Chris. Today's entry made me smile with tears. God's plan is mysterious sometimes. Mysterious and beautiful. Bless you both.
Cyndy <cchec@classicnet.net>
- Monday, March 14, 2005 2:01 PM CST

My family and I are praying that God will pour out abundant blessings upon you both, greater than anything you could ever imagine. I know He will! Your sacrificial love and devotion to Hayley did not go unnoticed and I believe God is going to bless you for your faithfulness.
We continue to pray for you!!
The Holcombs <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, March 14, 2005 1:35 PM CST

How can people 'not believe'? God's grace is amazing. Thank you so much for sharing that. Continue to believe and don't be too hard on yourself for being human. That story just made my day. I think of you both and pray for you every day. I will never forget Hayley. From your friend in Nashville,
Nancy <nall3860@aol.com>
- Monday, March 14, 2005 1:28 PM CST

A little Hello from your Sweet Angel! God Bless You Guys!
Angel Dawn <dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Monday, March 14, 2005 12:57 AM CST

Priceless!! Thank you for sharing that!
Karen (FOA/RA)
Stow, OH - Monday, March 14, 2005 12:38 AM CST

Your beautiful angel sure knows when to send a message!! How amazing she is! I hope that now you can feel her answer in your heart--life WILL be good again. How great it is to know that your little angel is listening always!

Still including you in our prayers every day.
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Monday, March 14, 2005 12:05 AM CST

God is so gracious to send you HIS answer to "will life ever be good again?" ... in the form of Hayley's rainbow! Not only was He reminding you that knows your pain and He is there to help you through it, but Hayley was sending her love to you as well. What a sight that must have been. I'm so glad you saw it!

Your precious Hayley will not ever be forgotten. I see her sweet face in my mind's eye so many times during the day, and think of her with a smile. At those times I also whisper a special prayer for the two of you, that God will comfort you and give you strength. His grace will see you through this until the day you hold Hayley in your arms again.

Thank you for sharing Hayley with us. Your family is loved by so many. I pray your heart can smile today.

Kathy Sanders <kathy_sanders@comcast.net>
Richardson, TX - Monday, March 14, 2005 11:22 AM CST

Hayley is with you both always and how wonderful she has the chance to show it!!! Everytime I see a rainbow I will think of her and smile.

Thank you for sharing that with us!

hugs and prayers,
Stacie
Stacie, Peter, Cole and Macie Lynch <stacielynch2@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, co USA - Monday, March 14, 2005 10:13 AM CST

I stopped to "check in" this morning. Not totally expecting an update. There it was, and I just made my day. I love this post. Thank you for sharing it with us...what it did for me doesn't even compare to what it did for you. However, today I will smile a little more having read it.
Kelley Edler
Austin, TX - Monday, March 14, 2005 9:48 AM CST

How wonderful to get a message from Hayley at a time you needed it most. I just read on Kylie's site that you were at the Jog for a Cause on Saturday. I am so sorry that I didn't get to meet you. I went with my daughter (she is 7) and we walked the mile. It was a wonderful opportunity to have some one-on-one time with my daughter (we left our "guys" at home). We had the chance to talk about the difference between my cancer treatment and Kylie's. She knows about all my caringbridge "kids" and we talk about the successes (like Jack's clean scans) and the sad events (like losing sweet Hayley and Carter). I know it must be a little scary for her to know that some people don't survive cancer and then to know that I have/had cancer. I tell her that we have to keep raising money through things like Saturday so that every person with cancer has the same chance as me to be cured. I am glad I got the opportunity to be involved.
Sorry for the ramble...I hope things get good again...I am confident they will (believe me...I have had that same question many times).
Sally Yost <sally_pete@msn.com>
Woodstock, GA - Monday, March 14, 2005 8:24 AM CST

LOVE

My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Monday, March 14, 2005 2:14 AM CST

I've been out of town for a bit, but I'm always praying for you guys.

Love
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Monday, March 14, 2005 0:22 AM CST

Please don't apologize for not updating regularly. I applaud you for having strength to even visit the site where so many memories of the days when we all were praying for Hayley's miracle on earth were. But as you said, everything reminds you of her and visiting the site probably helps by sharing thoughts and hearing ours. I'm glad that you still share. You are always in my prayers. I forever will keep your little girl close to my heart as she stole it at first glance.
Sandra Roberts <RobertsJaks@aol.com>
Roswell, GA USA - Sunday, March 13, 2005 9:47 PM CST

Thanks so much for the entry....we all are "pulling" for you each day. I still think of your precious Hayley and want you to know that she is not forgotten. We loved her, through your your words and pictures. thank you
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Saturday, March 12, 2005 6:40 PM CST

Dear Dayna and Alan, I still think of you often and check your site. Glad to hear you're playing tennis, over the last 3 1/2 yrs with Mitchell's treatment it's been the one thing that can get my mind off my worries. We saw Shane's mom on 2/25 and she said the transplant hadn't worked. Mitchell always enjoyed his company so much. Any chance you might have their address? Good Luck with the new job!
Diane Marine <diane_marine@bellsouth.net>
Marietta, GA - Saturday, March 12, 2005 2:44 PM CST

With many prayers for you both every day.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, Ga USA - Saturday, March 12, 2005 1:18 PM CST

You all are still in my prayers.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Friday, March 11, 2005 9:01 PM CST

Thanks for the update Dayna. YOu and Alan are always in our hearts and prayers.
I did not know about Shane--we were in BMT at the same time. His grandma is a trooper...what devotion she gave him. Too many angels....
Love and hugs,
Nancy and Will's family
Nancy Olson <nkotarget@bellsouth.net >
Marietta, ga usa - Friday, March 11, 2005 8:29 PM CST

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Dave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Friday, March 11, 2005 6:39 PM CST

Just to let you know that I think about you all the time and am keeping you in my prayers.
Thanks for your updates!
Love,
Liz Unger <poppy4100@aol.com>
Arnold,, Md. - Friday, March 11, 2005 1:30 PM CST

Ok- Dayna - I hope your tennis game has come back faster than mine has! We start our ladies' season next weekend and I can't wait! If you have 3.... I'd love to make a 4th! Let me know and I'll be on my way! Miss you and think of you often!
D.D. Dixon www.caringbridge.org/ga/marygrace <d.d.dixon@comcast.net>
Canton, Ga - Friday, March 11, 2005 8:05 AM CST

Dayna,
I'm so very glad we had the chance to actually talk yesterday. I've thought about several snipets today, and have to say that I'll never look at my microwave (my main artery to the kitchen), the same again. :)

Please know we think about you so very often. I can't tell you how times I drive in the car and hear the song, "He Will Stand By Me". It sneaks up on me every time, until the "Even though I'm walking through the valley of the shadows" takes my breath away in memory of you and Hayley. Listening to the words, and remembering her Celebration, fills my heart with comfort knowing He is helping you through this painful transition. And if, in some small way, he puts a Dork like me in your path to make you smile for one second, then I am the lucky one.

Be well and know that we're rooting for December!!!
Love you,
Jen (Camp Jack)

P.S. Sharon also shared with us about Shane. We were in transplant together, and you were right, he was full of life (and insistent on eating regular food!) Our hearts share the hurt you feel with the news.
Jen, Steph, Jack & Kate <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 6:55 PM CST

I am so happy that you posted and am still smiling...thinking of you, Alan and Hayley everyday as I check up on my list at Caringbridge.

Prayers for you two that life will make you happy and smile, as your future is so bright...new jobs, more beautiful babies to come, many many more magical moments waiting just for your family :)

Little Hayley is doing her best, I am sure, to make you both smile! She is one angelic child that will never be forgotten by me.

Hugs and continued prayers,
Stacie
Stacie Lynch <stacielynch2@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, co USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 6:12 PM CST

Continuing to check up on you and keeping you in my prayers.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Thursday, March 10, 2005 5:20 PM CST

Dayna and Alan,
It is wonderful to see an update from you. i often check on your site to see how you are doing and to look at the beautiful pictures of Hayley (love the one on the front page). Congrats on the new job Alan... that is wonderful and a good commute helps too ;) Dayna, hope that whatever you got brewing comes to fruitation. We would never thing that a new baby would lessen the pain you feel over loosing Hayley...no one can take her place EVER. I do hope that when you are ready and the time is right for you that you are blessed with many more children to share you life and Hayley's legacy with. Update when you have time and we will keep checking in on you.

Hugs,
Joy McCarthy
Joy McCarthy <joymcarthy@aol.com>
San Jose, CA USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 5:07 PM CST

So glad to hear an update. We still think of you daily and you remain in our prayers.
Love,
Another mama
Laura <joshua.tree@comcast.net>
Littleton, CO - Thursday, March 10, 2005 3:09 PM CST

Keeping you in my prayers. I, too, am running a marathon with Team in Training benefiting the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society and would be honored to add Hayley's name on my jersey.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Thursday, March 10, 2005 9:43 AM CST

It's good to hear an update. You're still in my prayers every day.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Thursday, March 10, 2005 9:33 AM CST

I was glad to check in on you and see you updated. I am so glad that you are doing OK.
Just know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

http://www2.caringbridge.org/il/adrianne/
Shel <Myshel04@yahoo.com>
Hampton, IL - Thursday, March 10, 2005 9:26 AM CST

It so great to hear your words, having lost Steph, I have found my comforting words hard to come by. However to read your words brightens my day. Thank you Dayna for being such an uplifting soul. I know Hayley is proud of you and her daddy. I'm sure her and Steph are decorating everything in pink with kitty cats. What a glorious time they are having, I am jealous, thats the best way to put it.

I wish you all the best making many many more beautiful children. God Bless you both.

All My Love and Support,
Beth
Beth Jenkins <jenkime@auburn.edu>
Auburn, AL USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 8:50 AM CST

YAY! You posted! :) :) I miss you guys! :) And Especially Hayley!

Alan, Good Luck with the new job. Dayna, good luck when the time arizes.
Good Luck with the Baby Making ;) Im going to assume that you are trying?
I wish you guys all the happiness in the world. Things arent that happy it seems but you will get there. You had Hayley and thats happiness enough!
Dawn Briscoe <dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 8:40 AM CST

Good luck to Alan with the new job:) Thankyou for the update, how awesome that Hayley has been the inspiration behind so much fundraising. What a legacy!
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 8:10 AM CST

Continued thoughts and prayers from Illinois. It is good to see an update on how you are doing--congrats on the new job. I hope that your lives will be blessed with more happy news throughout the year!

Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Thursday, March 10, 2005 8:08 AM CST

Hello! Thanks for the update. I think everyone understands your not updating more often. But we sure do think of you all the time and pray for you. I never met Hayley but I can honestly say I think of her every single day and pray for you and your extended family!
Congrats to Alan on the new job. And best of luck to you Dayna in your search.

Karen (FOA/RA)
Stow, OH - Thursday, March 10, 2005 8:07 AM CST

Dayna and Alan,
Congratulations on the new job. I still can't believe that Hayley has passed. I still pray for her like I did when she was here on Earth. I hope that you two are blessed with a new bundle of joy in the future. I know it won't replace Hayley, but I look forward to watching you two bring up another wonderful child. You did an amazing job with Hayley! Ya'll also mention a little boy named Shane who passed recently. Is there a website that we can go to to let his family know that we are thinking and praying for them?
Lindsay
Houston, TX - Thursday, March 10, 2005 6:19 AM CST

Thinking of you & Haley tonight.

Hugs & Blessings Always!
Kellee <kelleemcd@yahoo.com>
Allen, TX United States - Thursday, March 10, 2005 0:00 AM CST

Sending love from California!
XXOO, Marey and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, March 9, 2005 11:10 PM CST

Dear Dayna,

It has to be very, very hard for you to sit down and write about a life that has been, and a life that is still in the midst of finding its "new normal". Thank you for the updates. I am sure that I speak for many others when I say that it is very comforting to hear that you are finding your way. I know that you will ALWAYS miss your baby, no excuses, no apology. She will always be a part of your lives, and a huge part of your hearts.

Be well, and know that I am still praying for a different kind of healing for you now.

Love,
Debbie
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 10:38 PM CST

Hi Dayna and Alan,
You do not know me, but I've followed Hayley's story for a very long time. I continue to pray all the time for you and for a cure for cancer. I continue to appreciate my children so much more, and don't take any day for granted. Thank you for still writing. Take care.
Kristin <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
Nekoosa, wi - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 9:32 PM CST

Just wanted to stop in and say hello. We think of you often and Hayley's name always seems to pop up in our conversations amongst the Angels in Atlanta or other families we have had the honor of meeting. Thanks for mentioning Shane--he was one of "our kids" and just like Hayley's passing, it was devestating to our group. Please know that we continue to pray for you and always will be grateful that you shared Hayley with us all.
Carrie Bell (Angels in Atlanta) <ccbell0322@yahoo.com>
Marietta, GA - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 8:06 PM CST

Hi Dayna and Alan,
As I travel to school each morning, there is a turn I make which is my cue to spend the rest of the commute in prayer for my students, my Caringbridge friends, direction for our world leaders,world peace and more. (Some days I am sure that He would like me to come up with a shorter list!) I also pray that I do some good for someone each day and that He would allow his work to be done through my hands.

I often wish that more people could learn of God's love and the strength he gives us when we trust in him. Those same people could so benefit from reading your journal. His works have definitely passed through your hands as you parented Hayley and shared your family's journey through writing your story.

My mom is with Him and she was just the greatest person. Always loving and giving to others as a mom, grandmom, wife, sister, friend, nurse. I thought of Mom while at Hayley's Celebration of Life and I whispered to her in my heart, "Mom, make room on your lap, Hayley's coming and has hugs and smiles to share with you!"

It's been eight years and I know that time is supposed to make missing her easier too...but it doesn't. I've decided that it doesn't get easier, you just get better at making room for the void and not falling in it as often!

Congrats on your new job Alan and good fortune in your search Dayna. As mom would say, "Keep your chin up and follow your nose!" There will be many life experiences ahead and you two have shown that together you can face whatever may come.

May you continue to be... and feel, blessed.

Robin Anderson <bander23@bellsouth.net>
Suwanee, GA - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 7:37 PM CST

Praying for you daily! I think of Hayley often, she was my inspiration!

Good luck in all you do !

Becka RA <rlmarsch@nycap.rr.com>
Delmar, NY USA` - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 7:11 PM CST

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Dave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 2:50 PM CST

I stumbled across your story this morning and have spent half the day reading about your beautiful daughter. I am so in awe of you and your strength. I wanted you to know that I have been touched by your story and have said a prayer for you.
Liz Newberry <emnewberry1964@aol.com>
Boston, NY US - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 1:52 PM CST

Just stopping by to check on you- just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and Hayley.
Cheryl Zettler (friend of Catie)
Clyo, GA - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 1:37 PM CST

We're still praying for you daily.
The Wileys <mwiley36@comcast.net>
Evans, GA - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 1:28 PM CST

Just a little note to let you know I am thinking of you and still visit your website. Hope you are doing ok.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 12:39 AM CST

You are in my thoughts and prayers{{{{{HUGS}}}}}
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Wednesday, March 9, 2005 10:37 AM CST

Dayna and Alan,
I've decided that the way to have Hayley be my calendar picture each month is to just tear off the new picture that pops up (pray for that sweet child) and then see Hayley all month, each month!
What an adorable face...we miss her and think of her (and YOU)
so very often.
Love and prayers each day,
Cheryl
Ferguson <CFERGUSON@MAIL.UTEXAS.EDU>
- Wednesday, March 9, 2005 9:19 AM CST

Thinking of you both today and praying for God to bless you. From your friend in Nashville,
Nancy
- Tuesday, March 8, 2005 9:10 PM CST

Just dropping in to say that you are in my prayers as always and wanting you to know that you are never far from my thoughts.

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Tuesday, March 8, 2005 4:30 PM CST

Dayna and Alan, I check Hayley's website everyday and pray that God will somehow get you through the pain each day. I know that it must be a roller coaster from "I think I can..." one minute, to "I simply can't...". I have no words of wisdom, only hopes that you feel enough hope to get up each morning, enough faith knowing God will somehow see you through each hard day, enough memories that thoughts of Hayley will somehow comfort you and make your hearts smile, and enough patience to know that its one day at a time. My heart continues to ache. You are loved...
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
lagrange, ga - Tuesday, March 8, 2005 8:51 AM CST

Just checking in to say I'm thinking of you & you are in my prayers. Many {{{{cyber hugs}}}} sent your way.

Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Tuesday, March 8, 2005 2:14 AM CST

Always like to stop in and see Haley's sweet face. Hope you are doing okay today and as always we are sending our prayers.

Always out here praying,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Tuesday, March 8, 2005 1:12 AM CST

Everyday my family and I are sending yall prayers of love and comfort.
Jennifer
Marietta, GA - Monday, March 7, 2005 9:17 PM CST

Stopping in to let you know that I'm Thinking about you today and always.
Always LOVE

Dave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Monday, March 7, 2005 7:36 PM CST

Always thinking of you and praying for peace in your world. Knowing that each and every day without Hayley is a challenge.
Kelley <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Monday, March 7, 2005 11:50 AM CST

Just checking in on you. The second entry down from "a friend in Ohio" is awesome! There's no way Hayley can be forgotten when sarch 7, 2005 11:19 AM CST
My little boy is turing one this week and I keep thinking about you and Haley. When you come to mind I always say a prayer for all of you. I can not imagine how you feel each day, but I can say a prayer for comfort.
Sandy <sandyportis@yahoo.com>
GA - Monday, March 7, 2005 7:15 AM CST
I saw a strip of pink in the sky this morning and thought of sweet Hayley. Still praying for you daily and still living a changed life thanks to your beautiful angel and the faith you've shared with us.
a friend in ohio
- Monday, March 7, 2005 7:08 AM CST
Dayna and Allan,
Haley was certainly a beautiful little girl - you must have such a hole in your hearts. Blake's grandmother and grandfather are dear friends of ours, so that's how we know about your journey.Another one of our friend's granddaughter in Tampa, FL is battling AML - she just turned 2 years old. Her bone marrow transplant was a success - her 4 y/o sister was the donor. Our hearts are heavy for your loss. May Haley's memory afford you eventual peace. God bless you.
Barbara Kemp <dbkemp@austin.rr.com>
Austin, TX USA - Sunday, March 6, 2005 10:35 PM CST
Just stopping by to catch a glimpse of your little cutie and to say a prayer for you two.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Sunday, March 6, 2005 1:54 PM CST
Hi from Moultrie! I still think of your precious Hayley often and say a little prayer for you two each time. I will continue to lift you up and come to this site to see a perfect, beautiful angel.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Sunday, March 6, 2005 1:04 PM CST
You and sweet Hayley will remain in my daily thoughts and prayers always.
Kim
KMadison
GA - Sunday, March 6, 2005 12:21 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,

I am sorry that you have a memory of such a sad day. I can tell you that your tragedy had an enormous impact on so many others however. You renewed faith in so many people that I often wondered if you could read all of the messages that were being written. Despite all of this you shared a love for Hayley and a love for God that will not soon be forgotten in so many people's hearts. I hope that the memories of love for cats, dogs, and circles can help to erase the sadder times. We all still love you two so much,

Karen & Tim
Karen R. <copsgurl@carolina.rr.com>
- Saturday, March 5, 2005 6:39 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know that I'm still thinking about you. God bless you both.
Sandy (Friends of Allie)
LV, NV - Saturday, March 5, 2005 4:25 PM CST

Always LOVEDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Saturday, March 5, 2005 11:16 AM CST
Thinking of you, not only today but always.
Janetann Lenz (FoA/RA) <pjabslenz@hotmail.com>
Southport, NC USA - Saturday, March 5, 2005 3:10 AM CST
Just thinking of you guys this evening, as I often do. Hope you are both well and have a nice weekend. Many prayers for you, as always.
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA)
CA - Friday, March 4, 2005 11:32 PM CST
I saw a CA rainbow this afternoon, and thought about sweet Hayley.

May you continue to heal with more rainbows than rain.

Love,
Debbie
Debbie Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Friday, March 4, 2005 11:30 PM CST
Have been thinking of you all and praying for you often. Wanted to post a note to you after having been sick for a long time. You are truly an inspiration to me. I wish so much peace and comfort for you.
Shari Wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
Cumming, GA - Friday, March 4, 2005 7:58 PM CST
I continue to pray for you both every day. I think of your precious, beautiful daughter so many times a day. Maybe because my daughter looks so much like her, maybe because your words have made me love her so much! Hayley is so loved by me and so many other strangers. My prayers now go to you. I hope each day brings a little happiness for you. I wish I could do more, but I will continue praying and praying for you both. Your beautiful little Hayley has made an enormous impact on my life.
a mommy from MA
- Friday, March 4, 2005 7:47 PM CST
Warm Greetings. Just checking in on you!
{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
Kathy Atwell <kathleen.atwell@aadc.com>
Mooresville, IN - Friday, March 4, 2005 3:32 PM CST
Dayna,

It was great seeing you last night at Pokeno!

Thinking of you and sending (((HUGS)))) your way!

Chris
chris jacobson <christinejacobson48@msn.com>
cumming , ga - Friday, March 4, 2005 9:45 AM CST
Hi, Dayna and Allan. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you guys. Hope ya'll have a good weekend.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Friday, March 4, 2005 7:18 AM CST
I still think of Hayley often and enjoy looking at her precious pictures from your previous website. As I look at her pictures I can't help but cry for your loss and pain, but as soon as I start feeling sad, one of her pictures will make me smile....that smile of hers was contagious and that is just from the pictures! I can only imagine what she was like in person. I'll say it again, what a priceless gift you and Alan were given. Thank you for sharing her (and yourselves) with me. I continue to beg God on your behalf to allow you to live with some joy everyday
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
LaGrange, ga - Friday, March 4, 2005 6:49 AM CST
isn't it wonderful reading all the new entries that pile in everyday? it is amazing to me how much i think about you everyday..wonder how you are doing today, wonder what you are doing, what you are thinking. i wish to God i could take some of your pain away, even if it would be for 1 hour..just so you were HAPPY for 1 hour....i think about you both all of the time and pray for peace for you.
brenda boatman (friend of mchanns) <brendaboatperson@hotmail.com>
simpsonville, sc usa - Thursday, March 3, 2005 4:20 PM CST
I hope that you are both doing well. I know it must be very difficult, more difficult that I can imagine. I just want you to know that you are still very much in my thoughts and prayers. You sweet Hayley will NEVER be forgotten by the Farley family. She really made an impact on our family. My nine year old daughter even picked her basketball number 22 for Hayley's age when she became an angel. We care deeply for you and are here if you ever need anything.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Thursday, March 3, 2005 12:40 AM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan:
We used to live in your neighborhood; my husband, Steve Wilson, played tennis with Alan. I wanted to extend our condolences and know how deeply saddened we are to learn of your loss. Hayley's story is an inspiration as is your story as the parents of a terminally ill child. Your courage and strength is admirable. Hayley is an angel in Heaven now and is cancer/pain free. One day you will be with your angel again. I have our 'pink Hayley ribbon' hung in our kitchen to remind our family of your child's precious soul. We think of her and your family daily and pray for your comfort and peace. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Sincerely,
Amy and Steve Wilson
Amy Wilson <swilson78@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL Hillsborough - Thursday, March 3, 2005 10:03 AM CST
Hi Dayna and Allan

Thinking and still praying for you...missing sweet Hayley....stay strong...:)

God bless
Ozzie <Ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Thursday, March 3, 2005 9:04 AM CST

Thinking of you always.Sending hugs your way.

Brenda Dave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Thursday, March 3, 2005 2:06 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I have always been so drawn to your story. Partially because of the beauitful pictue of Hayley by the ottoman and the one of her looking up, partially because of Allie's story, but mostly because the day your baby was diagnosed my baby was born. Such a significant day for both of us! I continuously think of you both and pray for you...hoping that there is a peace within both of you. I guess this rambling is simly to tell you that I am thinking of you and thank you..for sharing your special story.
Hillary West <tigger4817@aol.com>
Chesapeake, VA USA - Wednesday, March 2, 2005 9:10 PM CST
Hi Dayna and Alan -

I think about Hayley everyday! She continues to be such an inspiration - and I feel very blessed that I was able to get to know her, if only through this website and your heartfelt journal entries. You story is a call to action - many of us reading your story are donating money, time and energy to help find a cure for childhood cancers. And we can thank little (but so big) Hayley for moving us to do so. You are in our prayers!
Stephanie Libby <stephanie.libby@edelman.com>
Atlanta, Ga - Wednesday, March 2, 2005 3:31 PM CST
Thinking of you and praying for you daily.
Kim Tumbleweed Foundation <kce1613@aol.com>
Madison, TN - Wednesday, March 2, 2005 2:06 PM CST
Dear Dayna,

I hope you do not feel pressure to assign anything positive to the day Hayley was diagnosed with cancer. As Christians we are called to hope--for Jesus lives and so do our departed children--but we do not have to view everything that happens to us in a positive light. In fact, pediatric cancer is a reality only because we live in a fallen world.

I know you and Alan miss Hayley so very, very much. She is so special and heaven is graced by her presence but for those who loved her here, the world is a lesser place.

God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabbie, and Noah
Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, March 2, 2005 8:26 AM CST
Alan and Dayna, God really did hand pick you to be Hayley's parents. Hayley's journey has been expressed to all of us with such raw emotion on your part. You have bared your soul to us and for this, we thank you. Your faith has impacted us. Many of us have prayed more in the last year than we have ever done before as we have gotten to know your sweet family. We have renewed our own faith in God and hug our children more. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you see lots of pink sunsets as spring comes and renews our spirits. I'm sending you a hug!
Paige Fague <pfague@bhs-inc.com>
HOOVER, AL USA - Wednesday, March 2, 2005 7:54 AM CST
Dayna:
I read your last entry and cried reading aboutyou talking of the possibility of loosing Hayley. I will not try and tell you I know how you feel...but I want you to know how much sweet baby Hayley touched my life from several states away. I remember praying at night and waking up to check on how she was doing. I am so very sorry for your loss, just from the website, I fell in love with Miss Hayley too. Thank you SO VERY much for teaching me to treasure my children. After reading your 2/25 post, I drove home from work as fast as I could to get to my girls. Thie little things are so trivial now to me, and I do not sweat the small stuff. Your angel TRUELY touched my life, thank you for sharing her with us. I will be praying for you and Alan always.
Stephanie Sutherland <suth9111@excite.com>
goldthwaite, tx usa - Tuesday, March 1, 2005 5:24 PM CST

Brenda Dave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Tuesday, March 1, 2005 2:37 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,

Thinking of you this day and always with lots of hugs and good wishes your way.
Joyce W illis <myjoygs@aol.com>
Columbus, OH - Tuesday, March 1, 2005 2:32 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan:
Thinking of you today and every day and sending lots of hugs your way!
Love,
Kristin
Kristin, Mike, Ryan and Brandon Connor (www.caringbridge.org/ga/brandonconnor) <kristin.connor@comcast.net>
Norcross, GA - Tuesday, March 1, 2005 2:11 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,

Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you guys. I, too, remember that day, you and Alan sent the very first email with Hayley's diagnosis. I remember, blinking my eyes REALLY hard as if they were playing tricks on me. I read, and re-read in disbelief and immediately felt heartbroken for you. I took that journey with you and everyone else who has faithfully checked your website...and I think you know how many people, me included, felt her presence, her pain, your pain, and ultimately her loss. I miss her for you, and still think of Hayley ALL OF THE TIME. She remains in my prayers and daily thoughts. Take care!
Cecilia <cecilia.elias@alltel.com>
Cumming, GA - Tuesday, March 1, 2005 1:43 PM CST
As always your eloquent words touch the hearts of many. My prayers and the Lord's peace be with you.
Shari McAninch <robertshari@bellsouth.net>
Cumming , GA - Monday, February 28, 2005 8:59 PM CST
I still think of you and pray for you. Your witness and that of others has made childhood cancer one of my most passionate causes. Thank you for continuing to share your story.
Kelley Land <kelley@helwys.com>
Macon, GA - Monday, February 28, 2005 8:50 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,

Not a day goes by that we don't think of your beautiful daughter, her courage and your strength. So many days and so many nights last year you lifted our family up on the third floor of Scottish Rite.....you'll never know how important your family was and is to ours.

We look forward to seeing you soon...when the time is right.

Pat, Tracy, Devon, Reeve and especially Merrill....

Patrick King, (father of Merrill King 10 years old, AML DX April 2004 www.merrillking.com) <kingpa@corp.earthlink.net>
Roswell, GA USA - Monday, February 28, 2005 6:22 PM CST
I think about you all so much! May the Lord give you extra peace this week. I know for us that first week of being dignosed was shocking and numbing to say the least. We miss you all and we will never forget the impact of Hayley's journey and life.

Love,
The Libby's
Shawn & Mckinley <Shawn@summitsupplies.com WWW.caringbridge/ga/mckinley>
Alpharetta, Ga usa - Monday, February 28, 2005 2:58 PM CST
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your little one, may got bless you with many more to come, I'm so very sorry!!
http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/myfristbabygirlang/
Angel <angelisthequeen@yahoo.com>
Albany, OR USA - Monday, February 28, 2005 12:39 AM CST
Dayna & Alan,
As I read your entry for February 25th, my heart aches with you. I shared those very same feelings, watching my baby boy triple in size, lose oxygen, turn blue...then into a coma, on life support and basically brain death within 4 hrs. from he DEMON "AML". Four days later, taken off of life support and free from any pain. I am so glad that your story did turn around so that you did have 10 additional months with Hayley. This life without our babies is very painful. I stay very busy working with CureSearch. Helping other children is a way to heal. Adam would have wanted to help other children with cancer. I know he and Hayley have met...he was a flirt with the cute little girls. Being a mom/dad to an Angel is hard. I will keep you in my prayers.

Always,
Angel Adam's Mom
ADAM CHRISTIAN CULLIVER
Donna, Tim & Andrew Culliver <misstex@worldnet.att.net OR adamsangelsministry@worldnet.att.net>
Brenahm, Texas USA - Sunday, February 27, 2005 11:19 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,

I still think of you so often and pray for you and your comfort. Your precious Angel has touched too many lives to ever be forgotten as have you.

God Bless!
Stephanie Lim <StephanieRE@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL - Sunday, February 27, 2005 8:07 PM CST
Dayna and Alan, You are in my prayers, I think of Angel Hayley often and picture her in Jesus' arms and playing on Heaven's playground. No more pain, no more needle sicks. God bless you and comfort you until you see your sweet Daughter again.
Love and prayers,

Bridge Of Dreams

Debbie from the Bridge Of Dreams and Friends of Allie/RA <debbie@bridgeofdreams.org>
VA USA - Sunday, February 27, 2005 4:03 PM CST
Always sending prayers of love and comfort to your family during these hard times
Jennifer
Marietta, GA - Sunday, February 27, 2005 3:02 PM CST
Reading your last entry of dx had me thinking about my sweet Ali who is just 28 days from ending treatment. What a long uncertain road we all travel.We followed Hayley's site and smiled and cried with you every day. You are always in our prayers and Hayley's name is on our bracelet chain for our TNT 100 mile bike ride. We will ride a mile in to honor sweet Hayley.
XXOO, Marey and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, February 27, 2005 10:12 AM CST
Dayna and Alan, I think of you often and pray for you to have strength. Even though you know sweet Hayley is at peace and a beautiful angel, you wish she was here with you. It is so very very hard. God bless you both.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Sunday, February 27, 2005 8:11 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
You are still in my prayers. Your sweet Hayley touched my heart! I appreciate my two little ones so much more because of you sharing your precious story with the world. Thank you!
Kristin <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
Nekoosa, WI - Sunday, February 27, 2005 7:52 AM CST
You are in my prayers. Again, we are so honored that you would share your feelings & fears with us. It's got to be so hard to relive them as you type them to share, though I'm sure it's not anything you don't relive everyday. For that, I am so incredibly sorry. I pray that you are able to find comfort in God's loving arms.
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Sunday, February 27, 2005 0:40 AM CST
Still caring and praying for you. May God hold you close every day and night, but especially on the heartwrenching anniversaries of those saddest of days.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Saturday, February 26, 2005 7:23 PM CST
Sending our thoughts and prayers from our family to yours. We never met you or Hayley and yet we miss her everyday! Many hugs,
The Mahoney 's
NJ - Saturday, February 26, 2005 6:14 PM CST
My words are so inadequate and my heart is broken for you. I just couldn't leave Hayley's corner without letting you know how much you are loved. I am so sorry for your journey and pray that God will somehow continue to lift you up each day. His hands are extraordinary and they will pick up you from the depths of sadness. I am so sorry for all the pain and sadness you have endured. It's just not what any of us wanted. Keep the faith...
a friend
LaGrange, Ga - Saturday, February 26, 2005 1:29 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss & wish you could have had more time with her. Haley will always be the "blessing miracle" God gave you! There is now more pain for her now only joy & happiness! She is your guardian angel now!
Hugs.
Donna Drosche <chictexas@hot.rr.com>
Waco, Tx USA - Saturday, February 26, 2005 10:40 AM CST
Just dropping in to let you know that Haley is remembered and loved for the goodness and grace she shared with us through your journal.
Robin Anderson <bander23@bellsouth.net>
Suwanee, GA - Saturday, February 26, 2005 9:53 AM CST
Yesterdays entry was so sad that it made me cry. I pray for you always.
Annie <care.clark@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, February 26, 2005 9:25 AM CST
I constantly pray for you please know that you and your daughter will never be forgotten. You have changed so many peoples lives forever. I think of your daughter in heaven often and know that God most be smiling all the time watching her. God Bless
Lynn Pearcy (Angels in Atlanta) <pearcys74@msn.com>
Sharpsburg, Ga - Saturday, February 26, 2005 9:08 AM CST
Hey Mrs.Dayna and Mr.Alan,
This is Devon King. Our family is praying hard for you, yesterday and today both. February 25 is definitly an important day in the cancer world, Hayley's diagnosis date, Merrill's birthday, Gwen Mason's transplant... We miss Hayley so much! Lots of Love!
The King Family/Devon <merrill@merrillking.com>
Roswell, GA - Saturday, February 26, 2005 9:01 AM CST
I saw this on Julianna Banana's website, and I just have to shamelessly plagiarize, because it is sooo perfect for your precious Hayley - after all - a hug is really just a 'kircle' of love, and Hayley always knew it!!

" I propose another small way to claim back some of what has been taken from us, the One-Hug Salute. When a child is needlessly taken from us, claim back some of the love lost and give it to the children in your life! Go out of your way to give an extra hug to your children in honor and in memory of our fallen friends. Tell them why you are hugging them if you like, but just make sure they feel and understand how loved they are. Imagine a ripple of thousands of children on the loving end of a hug that would have never happened, but for the light of a candle now extinguished. But for the reach of a beautiful child that extended far, far beyond than her arms."

(www.caringbridge.org/canada/julianna - thank you and I hope you don't mind Mr. Banana - I simply could never match the eloquence!)

I rejoice in the gift of extra time you were given here on earth with Hayley, and in the Promise that you will come full kircle to be with Hayley again someday. I know she is loving you right back right now.
With love & prayers

Anne Barnett <anne@bonac.net>
Roswell, GA - Saturday, February 26, 2005 7:40 AM CST
Thinking of you today and always.
Janetann Lenz (Friends of Allie/Raise Awareness) <pjabslenz@hotmail.com>
Southport, NC USA - Saturday, February 26, 2005 6:00 AM CST
Thinking of you both today and dreaming of your beautiful little angel in Heaven.

Every time I visit your site (and every time I look at my calendar)I smile. I just love seeing Hayley looking up to Heaven.

Sending love your way~
Jen H <jhumphrey@heroesforchildren.org>
fort worth, Tx - Saturday, February 26, 2005 0:50 AM CST
Thinking of sweet Angel Hayley today and always. May you feel the presence of your angel every day. I can't imagine how hard it is to lose a child to cancer. Best wishes to you and Alan during these most difficult days without your beautiful daughter in your arms. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always. Love and MANY Blessings~
Lisa D. <anglwngz@aol.com>
Manchester, CT USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 11:28 PM CST
Dayna, Alan & sweet Hayley � You are constantly in my prayers and I think of you all so often.
Stephany <stephsand28@yahoo.com>
Newcastle, WA - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:40 PM CST
Tears for you both and for your sweet girl today. February will always hold both joyful and heartbreaking dates for you, I suppose. Please know that I think of you all SO often. Daily. My heart truly aches for your family and for your loss of your sweet girl.
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA)
CA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:52 PM CST
You write so beautifully of Hayley's struggle (and yours)....Hayley was so lucky and so chosen to be your daughter. God bless you Dayna and Alan on this memorably sad anniversary. Thank God for those extra 10 months with lots and lots of smiles from MIss Hayley.
Love,
nancy and Will's family
Nancy Olson <nkotarget@bellsouth.net >
Marietta, ga usa - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:31 PM CST
Thinking of you and your precious Hayley. May the memories of her bring you some peace today. The love you have for your daughter and your strength has blessed so many.
Amanda
Richmond, TX USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:01 PM CST
PRAYING, PRAYING, and PRAYING some more for you!
Kerri
MA - Friday, February 25, 2005 7:22 PM CST
Thinking about you often. We are forever grateful for your strength and faith. We have truly been blessed by your courage during this time. We check on you often, you are in our thoghts and prayers.
Jeff, Amy and Anna Grace <jbowling@gutterworld.com>
Cumming, GA - Friday, February 25, 2005 7:20 PM CST
I have thought of you so many times today....and always tears welled up in my eyes. I am so sorry for you. God bless Angel Hayley.
Debra B <Burgesstx@aol.com>
- Friday, February 25, 2005 7:07 PM CST
Thinking of you three today and always...
Caroline <caroline.moore@earthlink.net>
Johnstown, Oh USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 6:50 PM CST
My heart aches for you. May the Lord hold you close.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Friday, February 25, 2005 5:51 PM CST
Thinking of you today...

Thank God that you did have 10 extra months worth of smiles from darling Hayley. I only wish it could have been more.
Becky <mashedpeas@msn.com>
El Mirage, AZ - Friday, February 25, 2005 3:58 PM CST
Dayna & Alan your sweet, beautiful girl has touched so many lives. I'm so sorry for your loss, but grateful as I know you are for knowing your precious little one. She has reached through my computer screen and stolen my heart. Thank you for sharing her with me!

Chrissy Howard- Friends Of Allie/DFW <chrissymhoward@hotmail.com>
Fort Worth, TX - Friday, February 25, 2005 2:48 PM CST
Just want you to know I'm still thinking of you all. I know today must be a very hard day for you. It's another one of those firsts you'll have to go through this year. God be with you!
Tammy Hulsey <tammy42@netzero.net>
Gainesville, GA USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 2:23 PM CST
Hayley's family,
I was so touched and moved to tears by the story of you beautiful lil Hayley, what a sweet lil face. I do know today must be hard all the annivesay dates become so promanteIts what you have to hang on to, I to know this b/c we to have a lil angel girl Mikayla.. MAy God Bless you and your family for I know lil Angel Hayley is watcing over you always.
www.geocities.com/angelmomfriends5/kayla1.html
www.caringbridge.org/tn/kayla
www.caringbridge.org/tn/mimmie
April H <april.harris01@comcast.net>
tn USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 2:12 PM CST
God bless you on such a sad anniversery. Your words describe a pain that would be unbearable for most and yet, though it, you found a way to inspire all you touched. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. Peace.
The O'Shea Family <marypato@bellsouth.net>
Cumming, GA USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 2:11 PM CST
Hayley gave love and inspired love in others. She touched my heart and I have never met her or your family. There must be times that your grief seems overwhelming, it is because your love is so great. I will pray for your peace and comfort. My you feel the prayers of many and the love of God today.
Betsy Williams <btwilliams@shc.edu>
Mobile, Al USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 2:05 PM CST
Dear Dayna and ALan:
I'm at a loss for words, yet I could not leave your site without telling you how my heart is broken...broken that you have gone down this road at all and that Hayley is not here with you now. Never a day goes by that I do not think of you and ask God for strength and peace for you both. Sending lots of love to you today and every day!
Love,
Kristin
Kristin, Mike, Ryan and Brandon Connor (www.caringbridge.org/ga/brandonconnor) <kristin.connor@comcast.net>
Norcross, GA - Friday, February 25, 2005 1:45 PM CST
Thinking of you and your beautiful angel today. My heart just breaks for your family. Many prayers coming your way.
Carrie Harrison
Tulsa, OK - Friday, February 25, 2005 1:37 PM CST
I cannot imagine what you must be going through....all I know to say is that Hayley and your family has touched us all and she will always be remembered by many, many people. I am so sorry that she is no longer with you and will be thinking of and praying for you both.
Jennifer <jenniferbf@bellsouth.net>
Centreville, AL US - Friday, February 25, 2005 1:30 PM CST
So many people love you and are praying for you. The only words I have are God's Plans Are Perfect..we don't understand but have comfort in knowing it is perfect.

I miss the little girl I never met.

Love
Katie
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Friday, February 25, 2005 1:20 PM CST
I have been following your journey for a long time now and I don't know if I have ever signed in or not. I just wanted to say that Hayley was such a beautiful girl. The pictures posted are absolutely precious. I, too, thought it would be a different ending. Maybe some day we'll find out the "why", but now we have to trust in the Lord and lean on Him for strength.

Always in my thoughts and prayers.
Becky L. Harbarth <peanutpie3879@netscape.net>
GAYLORD, MN USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 12:43 AM CST
We're praying for your peace and Hayley is never far from our minds.
Rebecca <rebecca@creativetwinkle.com>
Visalia, CA USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 12:36 AM CST
It was so good to hear from you today. I knew this day was close at hand and I recall it vividly. When Dennis called and told us I screamed NO, NO, NO. It was an awful evening. Barry and I felt so weary and sad for all of you and began praying fervently for Hayley's comfort and healing. Those 10 months of emotional and physical up's and down's are recorded beautifully in Hayley's Corner and kept us all close and informed as we shared the burden of the journey. We're still in this with you with love and prayers sent your way every day.
Rememberng Hayley and picturing her smile,
Barry and Cheryl
ferguson <CFERGUSON@MAIL.UTEXAS.EDU>
- Friday, February 25, 2005 12:11 AM CST
Dayna and Alan, I am thinking of you today and pray for you often. I to, truly believed there would be an earthly healing for Hayley. May you feel love and peace somehow, someway.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Friday, February 25, 2005 12:09 AM CST
I know that today is a hard day for you but just know that you have many people who are thinking and praying for you all.
Christina
- Friday, February 25, 2005 12:08 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I just wanted you to know you are never far from my thoughts and you are in my prayers. I probably don't sign the guestbook often enough.
Monica F <filyaw@bellsouth.net>
Florence, SC - Friday, February 25, 2005 11:46 AM CST
Praying daily for you both.
Tricia <TriciaBxNY@yahoo.com>
- Friday, February 25, 2005 11:40 AM CST
Our love, thoughts and prayers are with you both today and always. And, don't worry - there isn't a soul that has known Hayley, or known 'of' her, that will ever forget her.
Clay and Anne McHann
Cumming, GA - Friday, February 25, 2005 11:28 AM CST
Dayna and Alan. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you all. Hayley is such a beautiful gift that will forever be in my heart. How I wish I could have known her personally.

Your memories of this day one year ago, and those that follow are so sad to read about. As a mother myself, I can only imagine your spectrum of emotions. But please know you are in my daily prayers and in my constant thoughts.
Karen (FOA/RA)
Stow, OH - Friday, February 25, 2005 11:23 AM CST
I am thinking of you all today as you face yet another difficult day.
I wish Feb. 25 had never happened either.
I am sorry for your loss.
NO parent should have to face days like this.
Your right about one thing, that smile is priceless..............
Thinking of you
Bonnie
Bonnie <fordham_family@hotmail.com>
Jamestown, nc - Friday, February 25, 2005 11:12 AM CST
I woke up this morning and immediately thought of you and Alan. Today must be so hard. When I read your journal entry, and you said "Truly, we believed that we would have a happy ending" - I can relate to that statement. That is how I would've felt. You never anticipate that something so terrible can affect your family, and even when it does, you almost don't believe that it's real. I hope I'm making sense and not rambling.

Please know that I think of your sweet angel daily, and that I keep you and Alan in my prayers. There are a few children that I have watched battle this beast called cancer, and my heart is forever touched, and my life forever changed for knowing of these brave warriors. Your daughter is most definitely one of those!

Hugs and prayers to you both today!
Angie Dotson <adotson@chum.net>
Earlysville, VA USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:57 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I think of you two so very often (and your parents) and I know that you miss your precious sweet little girl so much. I know that every time you see a two-year-old, it makes you think of what could have been. Hopefully one day, you will be able to erase some of the bad memories from your mind and that you will only remember the happy memories. I will continue praying for your strength.
Jeanette Lancaster <jeanette_lancaster@fc.dekalb.k12.ga.us>
Suwanee, GA USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:54 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:53 AM CST
So do not fear, for I am with you, do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. ISAIAH 41:10

May these words bring you comfort and peace. Your little angel is thought of often as well as you and Alan. Prayers from Minnesota.
Gloria Thom <gloria.thom@fingerhut.com>
Rice, mn usa - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:50 AM CST
Dayna I too am sorry that your family ever had to face such an awful disease; that Hayley had to go through so much. It isn't fair! I continue to hold you in my prayers and want you to know that. Your family has made a big difference in my life. Where I would take for granted the little daily blessings, I now stop to savor them and I think of Hayley when I do. I used to be a lot more impatient with my own children, but now I just think that I am lucky to have inconveniences with them. Thankyou for giving that to me. Thankyou too for continuing to share your life with us.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:48 AM CST
My prayers are with you on this difficult day. I am glad you 10 more months with Hayley! I'm sorry it wasn't longer and for all of your pain! You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Love,
Jennifer
Jennifer <pinkribbonmom@comcast.net>
Loveland, CO - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:45 AM CST
Those extra ten months were definitely a gift from up above. I am glad that you had those extra moments to share with her. I wish everyday that she would have beat those odds and made it. I know that no one wishes that more that you. All I can say is that she is in peace now and free of those IV's, free of pain, free of hospitals, and free of cancer.
Christine Rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:32 AM CST
Okay, I am sitting here at my computer sobbing. I am so so very sorry you had to go through this. My heart goes out to you. However, I am greatful that you had the blessing of smiles and kircles. :) What and angel you had in your presence and still do. I will pray for you and Alan to find strength in God and in one another.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:24 AM CST
I don't know how to describe your words .. all of your journal note is really touching and beautiful. It is beyond my immagination and understanding how much you both can love your little sweet Hayley. I hope GOD bless you with strength and peace. You all are blessing of other. :-) You make me love my little boy more and more. You make my everyday to hug him like i will never hug and kiss him again. You make me give thank to god everyday for healthy baby that we have. Thank you so much for being God blessing for us.
PookTX
Houston, TX US - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:13 AM CST
I am thinking of you and praying for peace to surround you.
Love, Shannon Ball
Shannon Ball
Keller, TX USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:01 AM CST
Thinking and praying for you always!

Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:00 AM CST
The first time that I heard about sweet Hayley was actually on the website of Mary Tuley and Beth was asking us for our prayers for her. I have been keeping up with Hayley since and I pray so often for you and your family. I know it has to be the hardest thing to get through each day, just know that everyday there are prayers going your way. Always remember that God is by your side and I am sure Hayley is there every step you both take.
My heart aches as I read your passage today and I will continue to pray for you and your husband.
Jennifer Hale <jjlhale@earthlink.net>
LaGrange, Ga Troup - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:55 AM CST
Just want you to know that I'm thinking about you all! I will say prayers for you today.
Karla
ks - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:47 AM CST
My thought and prayers are with you today and everyday.

Cherish the sweet happy memories of your beautiful Angel.

Hugs and prayers from Texas!
Karen(FOA/RA) <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney, Tx - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:42 AM CST
I don't realy know what to say...I am so sorry. It can happen to any of us, I can not imagine it. Please again know, I always hug my daughter one more time at night for thought of your sweet daughter, whom we have followed for some time. I just pray for peace for you and your family...I so wish there was more I could do, as I am sure all these wonderful people who have followed you in your journey. God be with you.
Paige <medicpaige@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:39 AM CST
Remembering Hayley with you today. Your sweet family is always in our prayers.
The Wileys <mwiley36@comcast.net>
Evans, GA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:36 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
You are both in my thoughts and prayers. There are so many things I would like to write to you, but none of them would truly let you know how sorry I am. So all I can do is give you both a virtual hug. ((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))
Tracy (Friends of Allie) & (Raising Awareness) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
- Friday, February 25, 2005 9:32 AM CST
I am praying for you today and everyday. May the strength of your faith and the love and prayers of us all help to uplift you on this difficult day. You are always in my thoughts
Megan *FOA/RA* <megan.hess@ipsos-na.com>
NYC, NY USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:28 AM CST
I sit here in tears reading your journal. I am so glad I got to "meet" your sweet angel. She has made me realise what is really important in life. I am sure sweet Hayley is watching over you both day and night! Please know that I pray for your family nightly, and I think of you always.
Becka(Angel Dawns friend)
Becka RA <rlmarsch@nycap.rr.com>
Delmar, NY USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:27 AM CST
{{{{{{{{{{Dayna and ALan}}}}}}}}}},
I just wanted to let you know that I am praying for you today. I am heartbroken with this very sad day. I am glad that you were given the extra 10 months with Haley. She will be forever in my heart. What a beautiful little angel she is. I know how proud you are of her and how much you both love her. She will be with you always.
Love and prayers,
Barb <barbilens@msn.com>
La Crosse, Wi USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:24 AM CST
Dayna and Alan I am so sorry! My heart is breaking for you after reading your post! I am sorry you had to deal with this awful disease! I also rejoice in the 10 extra months you got to have with sweet sweet Hayley! Always keep those memories and she will forever be with you! Love and Hugs
Melissa (FoA) <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:16 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,

as you know i think of you both every single day but i wanted to leave a message today and let you know my heart is truly with you both today.Just reading your entry today Dayna i found myself sobbing and hurting inside i can't imagine how it's been for you to live through everything.Like you i would just fall into a chair and cry faced with that diagnosis how all of you went on and bravely and fiercly battled the beast within Hayley was inspiring and seeing the love for that gorgeous little girl both of you have was beautiful and wonderous.

I wish Hayley was in the other 50%,i wish the numbers were 100% and nobody had to fall in the 'other half' .. there are so many things i wish but if it i was given just one it would be that two of the most wonderful women i know .. Jenny and you could have their baby girls back.
I'm so sorry she's not here,my heart aches for you because i miss reading about her daily antics so i know for you it's a million times worse.
Please know you're loved and Hayley is adored.
Theresa xxx

Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:10 AM CST
Wanting you to know that you are in my thoughts, everyday, but especially today! May God loving wrap his hand around you today and give you peace. I hope Hayley sends you many happy signs today also! Know you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. Once again thank you so much for sharing Hayley with us. You are a wonderful family!!! Much love going your way today.

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:10 AM CST
What a blessing - every single day you shared with your sweet girl. Now, you are still blessed with your memories and the promise of everlasting life. My prayers remain with you.
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:09 AM CST
Sending many prayers your way today.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:08 AM CST
Not a single day goes by that I don't think of you guys and sweet little Hayley, and today is certainly no exception. Thank God for little girls, those precious 10 months, and the promise of eternity together.
Kathi <scrapntime@hotmail.com>
ALpharetta, GA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:02 AM CST
Dayna and Alan, Thinking of you today and always. I thank you for sharing Hayley's story this past year. Your family has touched many hearts!
Teryl Stroud ~FOA/RA~ <teryls@south-west.net>
wylie, TX 75098 - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:02 AM CST
Alan and Dayna,
I pray you will feel the Lord carrying you through this difficult day. I also pray your wonderful memories of Hayley will fill your hearts and minds. I pray God will once again fill your home and family with love, joy, and laughter.
God bless you
Kellie <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Friday, February 25, 2005 9:02 AM CST
Thinking of you guys today.................
Christi
Mesquite, TX USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 9:01 AM CST
Dayna and Alan~ Sweet Hayley is right there with you holding you on this sad day. She knows there is a smile in your heart when remembering all the love that was shared here on Earth. She also knows you will be filled with those smiles and that love again. Our prayers are with you today and always!
Megan D
VA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:42 AM CST
Lots of prayers for you today. I'm so sorry that you are reliving all of those difficult memories, but I, too, am thankful for you that she had 10 more months of new experiences; some of them hard, but many of them so joyful. Hayley packed alot of living into her short life!
Peace and comfort to you today and always.
Jackie
Grand Rapids, MI - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:41 AM CST
The only good thing about all that you endured is that you truly understand another parent's pain. Until a person has walked in those shoes, their comments are often inane. Other parents will be drawn to you both because they can be real with you. They don't have to pretend to be something that cannot be. You both are such a blessing to so many who are hurting. I have not forgotten about you.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:37 AM CST
How my heart aches for you today. I hope you have many wonderful Hayley moments today that make you smile and remember the happier days. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Christy Mensi **FOA/RA** <christy.mensi@gmail.com>
Houston, TX USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:35 AM CST
Dayna & Alan: Oh how hard it must be to face this day...as it will be to face many more to come! My prayer for your family is peace...and the grace of our Lord to lift you up and carry you through this! I can't wait to meet Hayley in Heaven!
Rachael Soto (RA and FOA) <rsoto@nmrs.com>
Goose Creek, SC USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:31 AM CST
Thinking of you today and sending extra prayers and CYBERHUGS your way. Hayley must be sooo proud of you!
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta, FOA/RA <skc62@juno.com>
Suwanee, GA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:30 AM CST
Thinking of you, Dayna and Alan, as you endure this sad day. Try to remember all the wonderful times, and not the bad. May God and Hayley surround you and comfort you today and always... Thinking of you with much love,
Emily (RA/FOA)
NN, VA USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:23 AM CST
Praying for you always... If I say more I will cry. Thank you for sharing. I miss Hayley, and someday I hope to meet her in heaven.
Betsy Clayton *KC Metro FOA/RA* <betsy.clayton@selectivesite.com>
Overland Park, KS USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:18 AM CST
I can't begin to imagine what you are going thru- Thank you for sharing your story- it can't be easy think about what has happened let alone share your story to the world- keeping you in my thoughts and prayers- God Bless-

Kim <kas412@sbcglobal.net>
Il - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:06 AM CST
Special thoughts and prayers for you today.
Holly Hall (FOA/RA) <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 8:05 AM CST
Thinking of you both today and everyday. This day is an ugly one, hopefully you can find the strength to make it through by knowing we are all thinking of you and praying for you around the US.
Wendy <wapeters@cox.net>
Mesa, AZ USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 7:59 AM CST
Thinking of you both and sweet Angel Hayley today and everyday. She made quite an impact on the world during those 10 months. May you find comfort in all the wonderful smiles you had and the love you all shared.
Kari (FOA/RA) <zfamily00@hotmail.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Friday, February 25, 2005 7:58 AM CST
I can't begin to imagine how hard today is for you and your family. My prayers are with all of you.
Elisabeth ~FOA/RA~
Houston, TX USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 7:56 AM CST
You will be in my thoughts today.

Many hugs.
Michele (FOA/RA) <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Friday, February 25, 2005 7:54 AM CST
Praying so hard for you today. I know our God is faithful and I know He is with you today and every day!
In His Loving Arms,
Michelle Blair
Michelle Blair
- Friday, February 25, 2005 7:20 AM CST
We're thinking about you today.
Kirk and Natalie Maxey <natalie@maxeyweb.com>
Marietta, GA - Friday, February 25, 2005 6:50 AM CST
hi I am in mrs. diana hudgens's class she told us about hayley every one in our class was crying. I am very sorry for your loss. I just not too long ago lost someone very close to me. i hope you cope with it and want you to know I am thinking about you and hayley.
Lauren <laurenthebrunette@hotmail.com>
Ladson, S.C USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 9:27 PM CST
Thinking and praying for you a lot! I will say some extra prayers for you tomorrow. I am going to teach my kids how to paint a rainbow tomorrow for Hayley...or I should say WITH Hayley because I know she will be there to help us.
Kerri
MA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 7:20 PM CST
My 2 yr old has been chattering in his room for about 15 mins by himself. He just came out covered in circle stickers and I have a feeling he was chatting with your Hayley!!!!!!
corbinfriends@hotmail.com <corbinfriends@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, February 24, 2005 5:56 PM CST
Dayna & Alan,

Sending you a long distance hug. Hope all is well with you.

Much love,

Karen & Tim
Karen <copsgurl@carolina.rr.com>
- Thursday, February 24, 2005 5:03 PM CST
God must have had Hayley busy painting the sky last night in Bellingham. I couldn't believe how beautiful it was. Pink absolutely everywhere!
Amanda Warner <amandajanewarner@yahoo.com>
Bellingham , WA USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 4:33 PM CST
I am thinking of you today and wishing I could be there to give you hugs and encouragement. I think of your beautiful daughter often and still come here to look at her sweet pictures. Sending you prayers and support. Much Love.
Mindi & CamiJo (FOA/RA) <mopoelwijk@cs.com>
Sun Valley, NV USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 3:48 PM CST
Just wanted to leave a note and let you know I am thinking of you!
Annie (FOA/RA) <kinseydivine@gmail.com>
TN - Thursday, February 24, 2005 3:43 PM CST
Dayna and Alan

I htink about you all the time! Hayley touched the lives of so many people. I still wear my Cure Search bracelt in honor of that sweet little girl.

Thoughts and prayers always
Becka
Becka RA <rlmarsch@nycap.rr.com>
Delmar, NY USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 3:14 PM CST
Dayna and Alan:

I think about the two of you often and hope you are doing ok. My little family includes you, Hayley and the rest of your family in our prayers each night. I hope you can feel the love being sent to you from across the country!

Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 3:02 PM CST
Dayna and Alan.
My heart, prayers and love are with you both. I will be like always, thinking about you tomorrow. (((Hugs)))

Hayleybaby I miss you! *Butterfly kisses*
Amy <amynjake01@aol.com>
Delta, PA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:51 PM CST
Dayna and Alan: I just want you both to know that I still think of you so much and pray for you both daily. Take care of each other.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:37 PM CST
Saying extra prayers for you tomorrow... Praying strength and peace for you and your family. Hayley will always remain in my heart. What a precious girl. God Bless always, you are always in my prayers...

Much Love and Prayers,
Emily (RA/FOA)
NN, VA USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:32 PM CST
I think of you both all the time. I really hope you are doing well.
Johanna <johannastuart@juno.com>
Flagstaff, AZ USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:32 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you both and your families.
Becki (FOA/RA)
Clinton Township, MI USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:31 PM CST

BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:24 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,

I just wanted to pop by and let you know you are both still in my thoughts and prayers. Little Hayley's picture just brightens my day when I come here. Thank you for sharing her life with all of us.
Tracy (Friends of Allie) & (Raising Awareness) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
- Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:00 PM CST
Pink seems to be everywhere. Driving around the only trees I see in bloom are pink ones and each one reminds me of sweet Hayley.
You are in my thoughts and prayers constantly.
It seems like a lot of people have been asking me about the "Angels" group lately. Every time I tell the story of how we got started I get the chance to tell them about your girl. I feel honored to talk about her and to tell them about you.
Your family is so dear to me, and always will be.

God Bless,
Kimberly
Kimberly Johnson <mommy2spencer@hotmail.com>
Suwanee, GA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 1:56 PM CST
Dayna & Alan, my thoughts, prayers and hope continue to be with you and your family. I regret never meeting Hayley, but her photo's attest to a beautiful smiling child that will be deeply missed, but fondly remembered.
David Lee <dglee52@mindspring.com>
Atlanta, GA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 9:18 AM CST
Alan and Dayna,
Still thinking of you and that sweet darling Hayley! As I go about my day, I see reminders of Hayley - pink trees, circles, round baby cheeks... I never had the opportunity to meet her, but she (and you) have touched my life in a profound way. Continuing to pray for your strength and comfort!
Jenn B. ~*Foa/RA*~
<mjmb2004@gmail.com>
Fresno, CA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:02 AM CST
You two, and your moms and dad, are in my thoughts every single minute as I run every day. I look at the sky and talk to Hayley and God.
Candace <cns48@aol.com>
Atlanta, Ga USA - Wednesday, February 23, 2005 11:49 PM CST
Thinking of you guys and saying a prayer for you.
Megan D
VA - Wednesday, February 23, 2005 8:49 PM CST
God is with you and he will help you get through your toughest times. You don't have to worry anymore because she is now in a better with all of her pink balloons. My family and I will keep you in our prayers and may God bless you and your husband. When you see the pink in a rainbow you will always know Hayley is looking down on you with the biggest smile on her face.
Erin Harrison <lilweezyC@sc.rr.com>
Summerville, SC - Wednesday, February 23, 2005 7:13 PM CST
Dayna and Alan you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. I can honestly say that Hayley is greatly missed! Many hugs and lots of prayers
Melissa ~Colorado FoA~ <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Wednesday, February 23, 2005 2:48 PM CST
Hi family,

You are in my thoughts and prayers...keep the faith and keep loving one another and think of the good times that you had with Hayley....she is truly missed!!!

God bless
Ozzie <Ovieira@hartz.com>
hariison, NJ - Wednesday, February 23, 2005 10:44 AM CST
Just checking in on you and letting you know you are still in my prayers.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, February 23, 2005 7:50 AM CST
I saw a beautiful rainbow today and thought of sweet Haley. You are always in our prayers.

Love,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 8:53 PM CST
Just checking in on you all again. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day and always will be.

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 4:01 PM CST
I just wanted you to know that you are in many of my thoughts and all my prayers. I pray that Jesus will always surround you with peace and comfort. I look forward to the day when I get to meet your precious Hayley in Heaven.
Shannon Ball
Shannon Ball
Keller, TX USA - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 2:15 PM CST

BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 2:13 PM CST
Just thinking of you and Hope all is well
Jillian
Chattanooga, tn - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 1:47 PM CST
Oh, I am so very sorry of your loss...what a special and sweet little child. I pray for peace and sweet memories for you all as you struggle with the pain of not having her with you. The memorial service sounded incredible. You know if you sit in the quiet for a minute you will feel the little angels all around and your little Hayley will draw close. She is in Jesus' loving arms until you meet again~

Love-n-Peace to you all, Grace and Katey
*Katey's Site* <olsens5@execpc.com>
Waukesha, WI - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 11:46 AM CST
Dayna & Alan...you are never far from our thoughts and prayers.

Love,The Drabyk Family
Roger,Alexandra,Samantha,Cassidy & 'Cookie' <rdrabyk@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, MB Canada - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 11:10 AM CST
I have been unable to check your site lately. I just read your entry about the service. It sounds like it was absolutely beautiful. Your description of it brought tears to my eyes. I can't even begin to imagine how much you must miss your angel. Take care! As always, you remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 10:17 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,

I know you have seen these all 100 times before, but I wanted to share them with you again today, as I am sitting here at my desk at work, thinking of Hayley and of your pain...

and one of my favorite quotes: SMILE! God loves you! Remember that always!

"He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do." John 14:12

"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding." Proverbs 3:5

"He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength." Isaiah 40:29

"Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed; for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest." Joshua 1:9

"Your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God."
I Corinthians 2:5

"Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart." Psalm 27:14

"Behold, I am with thee, and will keep thee in all places whither thou goest." Genesis 28:15

"God is my strength and power: and he maketh my way perfect." II Samuel 22:33

"For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." II Timothy 1:7

"Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect." Matthew 5:48

"Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee." Deuteronomy 31:6

"Be still, and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10

Chris Jacobson <christinejacobson48@msn.com>
Cumming, GA 30041 - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 9:12 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know I think of you & sweet Hayley so often. You're in my prayers.
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Tuesday, February 22, 2005 1:42 AM CST
Alan&Dayna, I am still thinking and praying for you both. I am sure it is very hard to wake up each day without Hayley. Continued prayers! Sonya
Sonya Mayer <valsonya1@aol.com>
Valdosta, Ga usa - Monday, February 21, 2005 8:08 PM CST
We are thinking of you and remembering Hayley in our prayers. Andrea and Stephen Sinatra (friends of Mary Grace)
andrea sinatra <andreasinatra@yahoo.com>
canton, ga usa - Monday, February 21, 2005 11:03 AM CST
Just signing in to let you know that I woke up this morning with a pink balloon floating into my bedroom door(one that was given to my daughter yesterday at a card shop) and I immediately thought of Hayley. Thinking and praying for you both{{{{{HUGS}}}}}
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Monday, February 21, 2005 10:20 AM CST
still remembering.....we also are praying for a BRIGHT future with wonderful memories of Hayley always near your hearts.
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
LaGrange, ga - Monday, February 21, 2005 10:09 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,

I hope you are doing ok. I think of you often and check on Hayley's page every day. Please know that many people are praying for you all each and every day! Continue taking good care of one another!
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Monday, February 21, 2005 8:27 AM CST
Wanted you to know that we think of you often. We have been following you since the summer. Our son is a Hodgkins patient, 9 and has lost 2 friends. One to AML. Haley was a beautiful child. You are wonderful people and great parents; Haley was so lucky to have you. I am sure you know that you are not alone; hopefully that comforts you some. We wish you peace and happness in your future. Haley will watch over you now. I also want you to know that everytime I see a rainbow I think of your sweet Haley. As far as I am concerned, every rainbow is Hayley's.
Blessings for a BRIGHT Future,
Lisa Young
Blake's Page
Lisa Young <lyoung@austin.rr.com>
Round Rock, Texas - Sunday, February 20, 2005 10:29 PM CST
I am a student of Diana Hudgens and I wanted you to know that you are in our prayers. The story that Mrs. Hudgens told us of Hayley touched the whole class and we are thinking of you.
Jessica Scott <SCsk8rchic18@aol.com>
North Charleston, S.C. U.S.A. - Sunday, February 20, 2005 8:28 PM CST
You remain in my heart and prayers.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, Ga USA - Sunday, February 20, 2005 7:25 PM CST
I continue to think of you both very often as I remember sweet Hayley's face and say my prayers for you. May God continue to wrap his loving arms around you...and I will continue to pray for you-always!
Megan *FOA/RA* <megan.hess@ipsos-na.com>
NYC, NY USA - Sunday, February 20, 2005 3:49 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,
We are at Egleston now for Gwen's first transplant, and we've had several nurses coment that Gwen reminds them of Hayley! She loves to jump up on the scale when it's time to get weighed, and I guess Hayley liked that too.
I think of you often--especially whenever Gwen points out a circle (although for her it's more a thircle than a kircle :) You are in our prayers.
Love, the Masons
Tabitha, Ben, Anna and Gwen Mason; www.caringbridge.org/ga/gwenmason <masonbx@comcast.net>
Marietta, GA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 10:58 PM CST
Dayna and Alan...I continue to think of you both and love going to Hayley's page to see her beautiful smile. I love those sunrises and sunsets that Hayley paints!!
Jane Want <thewants@numail.org>
Newnan, GA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 9:56 PM CST
One more thing. A while back my son Jack (3 years old) was saying his prayers "Dear God Help Haley get better" It was so great and so sad to tell him that "Haley is all better and playing with Jesus at his house". He so wants to go and play at Jesus' house with Haley. I told him in time he would get to see Haley. And it just made my heart happy to say she is "all better and having a great time playing". So sad for thoses left behind but God is good and his plan is perfect.

Thanks for letting me share you little girls with you. What an honor.

Love,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 9:35 PM CST
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and Haley and the way she touch the world. Amazing how she could touch someone like me across the country. Her smile and cheeks are just the best. She has taught me to take more time with my kids and I will forever be thankful for that lesson.

Thinking and praying for you daily,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 9:26 PM CST
Dayna and Alan-
We think of you often. Mary Grace is doing well after her surgery.... I've had some extra special prayer time lately! Just want you to know that you continue to bless my heart and I consider it an honor to lift you in prayer!
D.D.Dixon Mary Grace's Mom <d.d.dixon@comcast.net>
Canton, Ga - Saturday, February 19, 2005 7:54 PM CST
Just stopping by Hayley's Corner to check up on you and remind you of my daily prayers.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Saturday, February 19, 2005 5:57 PM CST
Praying for and thinking of you everyday.....We live so close to you, and I often want to call you to have lunch to talk Dayna, but I'm afraid you'll think I'm nuts!!!!!
Heather Davis <heatherdavis3@bellsouth.net>
Alpharetta, GA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 4:40 PM CST
I just wanted you to know that I still think of you daily and pray for you. Hayley still brings a smile to my face whenever I remember her.
Shannon
Fullerton, CA - Friday, February 18, 2005 11:38 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,

You are still in our prayers and thoughts. Many mornings as I am driving Isaac and Rachel to the bus stop we will see a pink sky. One of them will make the comment that Hayley is painting again! You have touch our lives as well as many other's and continue to do so. You have shown the world what it means to be truly faithful to God. My faith has grown and changed because of you sharing yours. Thank you.
Shari McAninch <robertshrari@bellsouth.net>
Cumming, GA - Friday, February 18, 2005 9:53 PM CST
OH HOW MY HEART HURTS FOR YOU . YOUR LITTLE ANGEL IS PRECIOUS. MY LITTLE GIRL ANNABETH PASSED AT EGLESTON 3 YEARS AGO. I KNOW THE HURT AND I AM SO SO SORRY. PEOPLE ASK HOW DO YOU LIVE ON ? YES THE WORST POSSIBLE THING ANYONE CAN GO THROUGH IS LOOSING THEIR PRECIOUS CHILD. BUT AS THE DAYS PASS IT DOES SEEM A LITTLE EAISER. I KNOW WITHOUT A SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT OUR ANGELS ARE WITH THE BEST CAREGIVER THEY COULD EVER HAVE " OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST" AND THEY WALK THE MOST BEAUTIFULL LAND EVER "HEAVEN". SO FOR THAT I HAVE PEACE. I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN HOPES THAT YOUR PAIN CAN START TO EASE SOME. MAY GODBLESS YOU AND YOUR PRECIOUS FAMILY.
NICOLE HAMILTON <KG4MTW@AOL.COM>
JEFFERSON, GA US - Friday, February 18, 2005 8:37 PM CST

BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Friday, February 18, 2005 5:18 PM CST
Hi Dayna and Alan - Still praying for you and always remembering Hayley. I go in for my first platelets donation on the 23rd (Hayley inspired me to sign up as I have always wanted to donate platelets, but never have made the time).

I am enclosing an part of an email I got today from a man at the church my husband served in England. He lost his wife to cancer about 8 months ago and he was following your story from 'across the pond':

Can I take this opportunity to thank you for telling me about Hayley some months ago. Although she was included in my prayers and sadly the outcome was not what we hoped for, I feel so blessed to have sort of known her and to have witnessed the faith and God given bravery of Alan and Dayna.
With best wishes, Bill

Hayley (and you) continue to touch so many! God Bless.
Molly Moore (Anne's twinsister) <gregandmolly@hotmail.com>
Durham, NC 27713 - Friday, February 18, 2005 3:02 PM CST
I read this on another "Angel's" site and thought it was beautiful...I immediately thought of Hailey and cried. I still check on you both and come to see Hailey daily. I miss hearing of her...even when I had never met her. Little Hailey has profoundly affected my life and she will never be forgotten in my heart. God couldn't have gotten back a more perfect ANGEL!
God be with you both always.

"I'll lend to you for a little time,
A child of mine," He said,
"For you to love the while he lives
And mourn for when he's dead.

"It may be six or seven years
Or twenty-two or three,
But will you till I call him back,
Take care of him for me.

He'll bring you charms to gladden you
And should his stay be brief,
You'll have these precious memories
As solace for your grief.

"I cannot promise he will stay
Since all from earth return.
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.

"I've looked this world over,
In my search for teachers true.
In the crowds that throng life's land,
I have selected you.

"Now will you give him all your love
Not think the labour vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call
To take him back again?"

It seems to me I heard them say,
"Dear Lord, thy will be done.
For all the joys a child shall bring,
The risk of grief we'll run.

"We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.

"And should the angels call for him
Much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand."

author unknown.

Stacie, Peter, Cole and Macie Lynch <stacielynch2@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, CO USA - Friday, February 18, 2005 2:12 PM CST
I just wanted you to know that I am continuing to pray for the both of you. I know your loss will never leave. My only words of wisdom is to remember all the wonderful times you spent together and the times she made you smile. You will see her again one day. Take comfort in knowing she is safe in God's arms, free of pain, and having fun in the 'streets of heaven.' Thinking of you from Hampton, Virginia.
Christine Rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Friday, February 18, 2005 7:52 AM CST
Still here, still thinking of you and still praying for your strength and peace.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
- Friday, February 18, 2005 6:58 AM CST
The staff at Egelston is so amazing! As if nurses and doctors don't have enough paperwork on their patients....to take time to make a scrapbook page for each patient, put together a memorial complete with personal song and memory-each! There ARE angels among us aren't they? That's inspiring. Though many of us hear the "flutter", it's comforting to know that some can see them fly. Through the innocent eyes of my soon to be 2 year old, I often catch her smiling up at the ceiling, "following" the flowing movement of something "up there"-as she puts it. When I ask her, "what's up there?" she says "baby" then says hi to the baby. Kinda gets me to slow down in life and realize that at any given time, I'm not alone. We are always surrounded by those we love. You are always in my prayers.
Sandra Roberts <RobertsJAKS@aol.com>
Roswell, GA USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 10:55 PM CST
I just happened upon your website. I have a 14 month old and a soon to be 3 yr old. I can not imagine your loss. But reading over your guest book I could see that you are so loved. I do not know you. We have never met and most probably never will. I just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers. You were blessed with your little angel. She was so special she got to come home early. I pray that you are able to feel all the love that God and others are sending your way.
Sharon Varner
Macon, Ga USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 8:38 PM CST
I found your website through "Kylie's corner". I think Hayley and my son, Austin were in the hospital around the same time but I never was able to meet you. Austin was dx with high risk ALL in March of last year. He had just turned 2 yrs old. I just wanted to let you know that your strength and faith through your journey has really touched me and I feel has helped my faith. God bless you and your little angel, Hayley.

www.caringbridge.org/ga/austinharris
Kim Harris <triplet1mom@charter.net>
Carrollton, GA USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 7:57 PM CST
Thought about you a lot today.... the smallest thing reminds me of Hayley. I really did not think it was possible to miss someone (who I never even met) SOOO MUCH!! Your little Princess has me... stop, think, pray, love, cry, smile, and pray some more.... MANY,MANY times a day! I truly miss her and I am so sorry you are going through this....I wish I could do more for you. I hope my thoughts and prayers help a little. Sending lots of love and prayers for you both....
a mommy from MA
- Thursday, February 17, 2005 7:27 PM CST
Thanks for sharing the song and the service at Egleston. You guys and Hayley are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Nancy and Will's family
Nancy Olson <nkotarget@bellsouth.net >
Marietta, ga usa - Thursday, February 17, 2005 3:54 PM CST
I went back today and read some of Haley's first entries. I continue to keep you in my prayers as I try to imagine how much you must hurt.
Sandy Portis <sandyportis@yahoo.com>
Woodstock, GA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 1:25 PM CST
Just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you both constantly......i hope it is a bit comforting to know how many people log onto hayleys site multiple times a day for updates and to send a message just so you know their thoughts are with you.
brenda <brendaboatperson@hotmail.com>
greenville, sc usa - Thursday, February 17, 2005 11:50 AM CST
Just checking in again. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Dayna and Alan you are truly an amazing couple. You always show such strength and courage. Thank you again for shaing Hayley with us. I truly miss her everyday!!! Dayna I ordered from Gymboree today and thought of you and Hayley the whole time. My Ryan will be cute all because of you!!! Thanks.

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 10:38 AM CST
One of my best friends in high school suffered through ALL leukemia. I still couldn't believe I knew another little girl going through something like this. I can't even imagine the depths of how much you are missing her. I know that she has taught us all ho to live life to the fullest.
Shari Wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
Cumming, GA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 9:23 AM CST
Hayley meant so much to so many people and made true changes in their lives that you will never know. She will never be forgotten. I love the poem from the memorial. Thanks for including it in your post. We are always praying for ya'll and sending you courage and strength. Love, The Morgans
Missy Morgan <LMorgan374@aol.com>
Winder, GA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 3:56 AM CST
Alan & Dayna,
Many prayers sent your way as another anniversary approaches. We had the most beautiful pink sunset on valentines day. Of course, I thought of Hayley & her sweet smile. How beautiful heaven must be with her smile lighting up everywhere.

Thank you again for being such an inspiration to so many.
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Thursday, February 17, 2005 0:07 AM CST
To Hayley's Wonderful Family,

I found out about Hayley through a friend that I work with at NetBank. My friend works in Atlanta and I work at NetBank in Columbia, SC.

Driving home last night I was praying and thinking about Hayley. I don't know why but I can't get the picture of her out of my mind - which is good because that helps me remember to pray for your peace and comfort.

Anyway, I feel that the Holy Spirit put her on my heart for a reason. My company is hosting a blood drive on March 16th and I was wondering if I could use Hayley's story to help get more donors in her honor as well as maybe get some people involved in platelet donation.

Let me know your thoughts because I certainly would never do this without asking.

May you be granted peace and comfort during this time of sorrow.

Sincerely,

Darla Helms

Darla Helms <dhelms@netbank.com>
Columbia, SC USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 1:15 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,
Thanks so much for your updates. I am always wondering how you are doing and it's great to be able to come to the site and feel like you are sitting their talking to me. You are always in my thoughts and prayers and Hayley is always in my dreams.
Shivonia Singleton <vosingleton@davidson.edu>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 8:05 AM CST

BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 1:22 AM CST
My heart aches for you,what a beautiful little girl. Jodi(Mom to McKayla liver tx)

McKayla's Site

Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com>
Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 0:40 AM CST
Im glad to see you guys are still moving on. Its hard im sure. More than I can imagine. But Im glad to hear from you! Please dont forget about us out here. We wont ever forget about you!
Dawn Briscoe <dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 9:39 PM CST
A smile in remembrance, it warms the heart,
keeps us always closer, never far apart.

Hayley harbors sweet corners in many hearts!
She will always be loved and remembered, as are
you, Dayna and Alan.

fondly,
Robin Anderson <bander23@bellsouth.net>
Suwanee, GA - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 9:07 PM CST
Thank you for the update. I think of you guys everyday. I am praying for your strength. ((((HUGS))) from Minnesota
Natasha Zahler <natashazahler@charter.net>
Monitcello, MN - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 7:35 PM CST
Thanks for sharing a little bit of the memorial service with us. You are in my prayers each day.

Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 5:57 PM CST
Forgotten?....that is impossible. How can a most precious angel that has touched so many lives be forgotten? You never have to worry about that. Thanks for posting to let us know how you are doing. So many of us have cared about you through your journey and want you to know that we will continue to think and pray for you. Not just for today or this week,but for many years to come. One day at a time....I hear the flutter,too.
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
LaGrange , Ga - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 2:43 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,

I do hear the flutter...

Wishing you happier days with lots of happy reminders,
Debbie
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, Ca - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 2:31 PM CST
I love your postings. You always make my eyes well up. I know it is difficult but the strength and courage you and Alan show is awesome. Time passes but memories are forever. Blessings.
The Barrys
- Tuesday, February 15, 2005 1:48 PM CST
I found this page on Coulter Hampton's page and even though I have never met you or your family I wanted to let you know that your little angel touched a place in my heart and I will never forget her. God says that He will not put on us more than we can bear and I am sure you have been thinking just how much does He think I can bear? I believe that all things happen for a reason and I believe that sometimes things happen to remind us of how truly blessed we are and that we should be as thankful as we can for each day we have together. None of us are promised the next breath and I have seen that through the pages on this website. I am so sorry for your loss but you have the assurance that you will see her again and hopefully that will see you through the dark times. God bless and most of all comfort you now and in the days to come.
Gina Cronan <gcronan@frontiernet.net>
Ranger , Ga USA - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 1:44 PM CST
Dayna and Alan, Thankyou for coming and sharing with those of us that are here and want to help you keep Hayley's memory alive. I wish I could have met her. I feel like I knew her very well through you and others who knew her so well. I hope that you can feel the prayers of all of us surround you even in your grief. They are there.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 1:21 PM CST
Memories of Hayley... Oh, they touch the heart: the way her hair swirled in curls, adorned with a bow to the side; the way she toddled around with her "Ugly" toy, and just took everyone's breath away; the way she reached for things with her tiny hads stretched as far as she could go, without completely lunging out of Alan's arms; the way (depending on the approach), you could tickle her knees and bring about the biggest smile, or like I said, get the quick head turn into Mommy or Daddy; the way she looked at you as though she was studying your face...

She will not be forgotten. Promise.

Much love to you both (and Grammie, Nana and Grandpa!),
Jen (Camp Jack: www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack)
Jen, Steph, Jack & Kate <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 1:14 PM CST
Everyday, I think about your little precious angel. Everytime I see a rainbow, I think of her. Everytime I see the sun, I think of her. Everytime I see the rain, I think of her. I know she is up in heaven smiling down on each and everyone of us.
God bless.
christine rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 11:52 AM CST
Thanks for the update. I'm glad you attended the memorial services honoring the dear little children.

When my three year old daughter, Jill, looks at Hayley's picture on your home page, she points out that Hayley was hooked up to something. Jill too had a central line. Somethings a child will never forget. Jill called them her buddies.

Keep on keepin' on. I can't even imagine how hard your days and nights must be. We return to St. Judes in March for Jill's six month post-treatment check up.
Joyce Zulovich www.caringbridge.org/mo/jillsjourney <stjudemom@tranquility.net>
Columbia, MO - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 11:50 AM CST
Thanks for sharing this Dayna. You and Alan, and of course Hayley are in my thoughts so much each day.
Karen (Friends of Allie/Raise Awareness)
Stow, OH - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 11:00 AM CST
What a beautiful poem. Thank you for sharing. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer
Hastings, NE USA - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 10:03 AM CST
Wow, that was really nice.
A friend
- Tuesday, February 15, 2005 8:44 AM CST
Still in my thoughts and prayers! Northside's prenatal loss department does a memorial service for babies that earn their wings before making it here and we feel blessed to have had our son's name called out and a candle lit for him 5 years ago. It was quite healing and an experience that will forever be held in my heart. Thank God for the wonderful hospital staff that make such a difference in such a difficult time.
Thank you for the update and I will continue to hold you both in my prayers. I hope Hayley is keeping my sweet kitty busy!
Sally <sally_pete@msn.com>
Woodstock, GA - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 8:23 AM CST
What a lovely service for the hospital to do. And how wonderful it is that the hospital keeps a scrapbook of the children they treat. It's obvious that they care very much.
Every time I sign in I end up leaving a little story about my son who is almost 3. Here I go again...He recently discovered sunsets. This morning he asked me who paints the sky so pretty. I answered him, "God, Hayley, and all the other angels." Hayley has been part of our nightly prayers for so long that he never questions who she is - he just knows she's very special. I can't wait to introduce him to rainbows, which my precious grandma will be helping Hayley to paint!
Thank you for your update. I can't imagine how hard it is to get on this site and pour out your feelings. But, I check on you every day and think about your angel almost constantly. We will continue to pray for you and to look for Hayley's sunsets.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 7:45 AM CST
Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers!
Liz Unger <poppy4100@aol.com>
Arnold,, Md. - Tuesday, February 15, 2005 4:32 AM CST
Thank you for sharing those beautiful words from the service Dayna.
I'm glad the hospital did that for all of you who have lost your precious one in this last year,i know remembrance of your child is so very important.Please know she is always remembered here with so much love,not a day goes by i don't also think of her.
My heart is with you always,
Happy Valentines Day Hayley we love you.
Loving Hugs,
Theresa
Executive Director, The Angel Network
Cancer Warriors, Inc.
www.cancerwarriors.org/angel.shtml

Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Monday, February 14, 2005 10:58 PM CST
Thinking of you today and everyday. SO many prayer to try and ease just a little bit of your pain.

Much Love to you all,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Monday, February 14, 2005 10:49 PM CST
Thinking of you & Hayley today. I can't believe it has been less than two months. How can time go so fast and so slow at the same time? Wishing you much strength and peace in the coming spring. Much love.
Amjlee
- Monday, February 14, 2005 10:37 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,

I continue to be in awe of your strength and faith. Not a day goes by that I don't check on your precious Hayley, just to look at her beautiful face. She always manages to put a smile on my face and a tear in my eye, all at the same time. No one that has every seen her face will EVER forget her. She is special.

Love and Blessings
Michelle Petrow
www.caringbridge.org/nj/jaclynpetrow
Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Monday, February 14, 2005 10:27 PM CST
You have been on my mind even more than usual today. I just wanted to let you know that you remain in my heart and my prayers.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Monday, February 14, 2005 10:14 PM CST
What an amazing thing to do! (the service the hospital has). Just wonderful! I go to so many web sites and pray for so many little wonderful,lovely children.Yet everytime I come here and see that picture of Hayley my heart just skips a beat. She really is truley so special to me and close to my heart. She is a soft spot in me. Everytie I hear the name Hayley I think of her.I still can not believe how much I miss a child I have never met.
erin <eden75@yahoo.com>
des moines, ia - Monday, February 14, 2005 9:51 PM CST
Dayna and Alan, it only takes one look at Hayley's picture for one to fall in love with her. None of us will ever forget her or what wonderful parents she has. Anytime I see Barney the first thing I think of is Hayley. You both are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Peg Poma <ppoma@firstcommunities.net>
Marietta, GA USA - Monday, February 14, 2005 9:15 PM CST
As much as I love an update from you guys, they make me cry every darn time!!! :) You can rest assured that your Hayley will never be forgotten. I think of her every day. This is a little silly, but it might make you smile--I have been perusing Ebay for some Gymboree spring clothes for my 18 month old and there are few special items that I am determined to get for Elizabeth that Hayley wore. Whenever I see something from Hayley's pictures I think of her and HAVE to get it for Elizabeth. You have such a beautiful girl. I pray for peace for your hearts.
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA)
CA - Monday, February 14, 2005 8:19 PM CST
I think of you and Hayley almost every day as I see her beautiful face at the office! (Her program inspires me and sits framed right in front of my desk!) Know you are loved by many! May you feel and KNOW the love our heavenly Father has for you! Press On and Pray On!
Dean <DeanRCrowe@comcast.net>
- Monday, February 14, 2005 8:00 PM CST
Hope your Valentines Day is a happy as can be.
Annie <care.clark@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, February 14, 2005 4:30 PM CST
Continuing to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Monday, February 14, 2005 12:29 AM CST
We constantly are thinking of you. Our hearts are with you everyday.

The Barrys <dbarry10@aol.com>
- Monday, February 14, 2005 11:20 AM CST
Just dropping by to let you know I still pray for you often and think of sweet Hayley.
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Monday, February 14, 2005 11:18 AM CST
Thinking of you today and wishing you a day filled with love and loving memories of your sweet Hayley.
Becky <mashedpeas@msn.com>
El Mirage, AZ - Monday, February 14, 2005 10:36 AM CST
happy valentimes day angel hayley . make sure you send lots of hearts filled with love to your mom and dad :-) love tonya
tonya cinnamon <tonyacinnamon@knology.net>
knoxville, tn usa - Monday, February 14, 2005 9:58 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you today and saying a prayer for you both. Happy Valentine's Day! Lots of cyber-hugs coming your way!
Sharon <skc62@juno.com>
Suwanee, GA - Monday, February 14, 2005 9:46 AM CST
Happy Valentines Day!!!! Just wanted you all to know that you are on my mind and I am still checking on you all the time. Know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, February 14, 2005 9:28 AM CST
I was thinking about the sweetest angel on Valentine's day. I know you are missing her. My thoughts and prayers are still with you. Happy Valentine's Day!
Karen(FOA/RA) <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney, TX - Monday, February 14, 2005 9:21 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day, Hayley! I blew some kisses up to Heaven for you! I hope you caught them!

I am sending your mommy and daddy lots of good thoughts and many prayers. I think of you all often.
a mommy from MA
- Monday, February 14, 2005 9:08 AM CST
Happy Valentines Day!!! Still thinking of you and praying for you.
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
- Monday, February 14, 2005 8:37 AM CST
Just wanted you to know I think of you both often and hope you are doing ok. Know many people are praying for you.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Monday, February 14, 2005 6:28 AM CST

yOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS
BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Monday, February 14, 2005 2:21 AM CST
Always thinking and praying for you both.

Take Care,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Monday, February 14, 2005 0:58 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
You are always on our minds and in our hearts. We are praying for you both. We are here if you need anything.

Love Campjack

Jennifer, Steph, Jack & Kate <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA USA - Sunday, February 13, 2005 10:24 PM CST
I'm continuing to stop by Hayley's Corner to check up on you and remind you that you are in my prayers daily.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Sunday, February 13, 2005 1:19 PM CST

BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Sunday, February 13, 2005 2:07 AM CST
I've found you find strenght in your moments of weakness. May God continue to bless you both. Your little Angel is shining down on you from heaven.
Kristen
Minneapolis, MN - Sunday, February 13, 2005 0:41 AM CST
I still think of you daily and will continue to pray for you both. If you need anything, or even need any help with planning the golf tournament, I am here. If you just need a new buddy, I am here for that too!!! :)

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Saturday, February 12, 2005 3:32 PM CST
Just wanted you to know that I am praying for you. I think about that sweet faced little girl I never met all the time. Your family has touched ours. My boys are getting the benefits of that. I hope you have many happy memories revisit you today.
Shelly <jayandshel@msn.com>
nv - Saturday, February 12, 2005 1:38 PM CST
Thinking of you both. Having trouble sleeping. Thought I would come check on ya'll. I think of Hayley almost daily and pray for you both as well. I can't imagine this road that ya'll are having to go down. I can only pray that you feel all the love and support out there for your family. We will never forget...
Lindsay
Houston, TX - Saturday, February 12, 2005 1:46 AM CST
Thinking of you today, hope you are doing okay.

Take Caare,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Saturday, February 12, 2005 0:44 AM CST
Thinking of you guys and sweet Hayley. You are always on my mind. :)
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA)
CA - Friday, February 11, 2005 10:22 PM CST
I was just thinking about Hayley today as I do so often. Hoping you are doing okay. I am sure she is the sweetest happy little Angel but know you miss her dearly. Hugs and prayers from Texas.I miss coming her and checking on her daily.
Karen(FOA/RA) <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney, Tx - Friday, February 11, 2005 4:03 PM CST
We check in with you both daily and continue to pray with you. Caringbridge has touched our lives, and Hayley has changed us forever.
The Wileys <mwiley36@comcast.net>
Evans, GA - Friday, February 11, 2005 10:32 AM CST
Just wanting you to know I am thinking about you.
Brenda Boatman <brendaboatperson@hotmail.com>
Greenville, sc 29680 - Friday, February 11, 2005 9:44 AM CST
Still thinking of your family and including you in our prayers.
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Friday, February 11, 2005 9:18 AM CST
I miss that sweet precious girl of yours so very much,she's never far from my thoughts and i find myself checking in here everyday still looking for an update on her,wishing there was one.
She may not be here in person but i can guarentee you she is always here in my heart.
Theresa
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Friday, February 11, 2005 8:55 AM CST
Still praying for you guys - and I still visit Hayley's site daily just to see her beautiful face smiling at me to help me keep my day on the right track! Your family has touched mine in a way I can't fully explain, but I wanted you to know that we are all praying very hard for you, that you have peace and happiness for every single day for the rest of your lives! You deserve much much more, but no less than that!!
Barri <barrikim@optonline.net>
N. Bellmore, NY USA - Friday, February 11, 2005 8:47 AM CST

BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Friday, February 11, 2005 2:33 AM CST
As I see the photos of Hayley and see how very much she was immersed by your love, I can only imagine your grief at not having her to touch every day. I hope the knowledge that she is absolutely basking in GOD"S perfect love right now is a comfort to you. My first gradnchild, Ceanna Grace, never breathed here on earth, but went directly to be with the Lord last March. I am really looking forward to seeing her someday in heaven. What a wonderful day of reuniting we will all have. God bless you!
Brenda Zwahlen <brendazw@aol.com>
- Thursday, February 10, 2005 10:44 PM CST
Thinking and praying for you daily.

Love Katie
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Thursday, February 10, 2005 8:07 PM CST
I just had to stop in and let you know that I still come to Hayley's website everyday. I just can't seem to see her beautiful picture enough. What a blessing she was to you and so many others. Thanks again for sharing your story. Allow yourself time......whatever you need. And when you have those days and feel that you just can't get through, that's ok, because you don't have to....God will continue to carry you through. I can't fathom your loss and wish there was some way to take away your burden.
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
LaGrange, Ga - Thursday, February 10, 2005 3:17 PM CST
My prayers for you and your family continue.
Sandra Gay <sandrabrunergay@hotmail.com>
Edison, GA - Thursday, February 10, 2005 12:55 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I'm so glad that I finally got to meet you in person (also your Dad). You are such a precious couple and Hayley was so blessed to have you as her parents. Your love shines in your eyes. I pray everyday that God will once again bless your home, and soon. I will continue to lift you both up. Dayna, I wish that I could express myself in words like you do. You really have a talent. Love to you both.
Jeanette Lancaster <jeanette_lancaster@fc.dekalb.k12.ga.us>
Suwanee, GA USA - Thursday, February 10, 2005 11:09 AM CST
Though I have that sweet picture of Hayley imprinted on my brain, I can't help but come here daily to see her precious face. Dayna and Alan, I pray for you daily and, like so many others, wish that I could help to bear some of the burden.
Kelley <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, February 10, 2005 8:51 AM CST
Just found your website this morning before I go take on the day. What a perfect tribute to Hayleys life and birthday by donating platelets. I just had my morning cry as I looked at your beautiful picture page (thankfully I hadn't put on my makeup yet). What a precious angel!! My heart aches with you as I read your journal, and wanting you to know that your sweet Hayley was being remembered at our house this morning.
love,hope,courage
Carol and Dale
parents to Riley, Reagan, Reese and our forever baby Reid
Carol Miller (Reid's page) <dmill3@insightbb.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Thursday, February 10, 2005 7:20 AM CST
Sorry I haven't posted but I have been swamped by this nueroblastoma demon. I knew it was Hayley's bday the other day and wanted to let you know that we think of her often. That little angel is smiling down on us and I am sure she had an awesome celebration. Raquel and I send our love and prayers. Kylie saw Hayley's picture the other day on the third floor and said "Hayley". She must know Hayley is looking out for her. Blessings.
The Barrys <dbarry10@aol.com>
- Thursday, February 10, 2005 6:47 AM CST
Thinking of you guys often. Praying for your peace, happiness, and love. God Bless!

Vicki & Caden Williams <vicki.williams@netxv.net>
San Angelo, TX - Wednesday, February 9, 2005 10:03 PM CST
Just stopping by to see Hayley's sweet baby face. I thought about her a lot today (actually every day!) I continue praying SO much for you two. Right now my prayers are asking for peace, happiness, support for each other (and letting others support you!) and just being able to get through the day.
a mommy from MA
- Wednesday, February 9, 2005 6:50 PM CST
My Mom Is A Survivor

My Mom is a survivor, or so I've heard it said.
But I hear her crying at night when all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night and go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her to help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach that never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mom, who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...a smile of disguise.
But through Heaven's door I see tears flowing from her eyes.
My mom tries to cope with death to keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows it is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mom...through Heaven's open door.
I try to tell her that angels protect me forever more.
But I know that doesn't help her or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...no matter what she feels.
My surviving mom has a broken heart that time won't ever heal~!

Author unknown.

laurie ***((Friends Of Allie))***
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, February 9, 2005 5:47 PM CST
I have almost had to stop comming here. With your little Hayley being a very close age to my Emma, I cry everytime I read a post, and see how you are all doing. I come back every once in a while. But I want to Thankyou 2 for being so strong and continuing keeping a journal of your lives. God Bless you all.
Chris, Jen and, Emma <CJEvans@charter.net>
Granite City, IL U.S. - Wednesday, February 9, 2005 5:20 PM CST

BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Wednesday, February 9, 2005 5:19 PM CST
Just wanted you to know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers daily.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Wednesday, February 9, 2005 2:28 PM CST
Hello Hayley! Your name was mentioned to me this morning in an email and I started to cry so I had to come see your pretty face. How I miss encourging you and sending prayers for a miracle! I didnt get the chance to spoil you with lots of gifts. I was to afraid they wouldn't make it in time. Now I have nothing to give you. I hope you are having a lot of fun up there. You will forever be in my heart.

Dayna and Alan,
I hope this message finds you both doing well. I think of you guys often and I wear my green cure search bracelet for Hayley. KNow she is loved always by thousands of people all over the world!
Angel Dawn <dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Wednesday, February 9, 2005 9:25 AM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. Your daughter was so beautiful and seemed so full of life and love. You don't know me, but I'm a 20 year old girl from Anoka Minnesota. I stumbled upon your webpage through the real live preacher. You and your daughter will be in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing a bit of her in my life.
Katelyn
Anoka, MN - Wednesday, February 9, 2005 0:39 AM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
I haven't posted a message in a long time, but I want to both to know that you are both still in my prayers and I think of you often. Hayley changed the lives of so many and so have you both with your amazing faith and outlook on life. Reading your entries and how you continue to reach out and touch so many people is so inspiring. Thank you for your strength in sharing Hayley's story and your heartfelt emotions with us.
Love always,
Joanne Dodd <joannedodd@comcast.net>
Acworth, GA - Tuesday, February 8, 2005 9:03 PM CST
I was listening to the radio in the car the other day and Blessed by Your Name came on (which is rare, b/c I mostly have CDs in there). It was yet another sign of Hayley. I continually pray for your continued strength.
Shari Wheat <Shariw1@yahoo.com>
cumming, ga - Tuesday, February 8, 2005 6:13 PM CST
I "dropped by" to let you know that we are still praying for you as you wake up and face each day. I look at Hayley's pictures often and can't fathom how or why God allowed your precious daughter to leave so soon. I know in my mind that God's ways are for our best, but my heart has a hard time truely understanding that. My heart continues to ache for you both, yet I know without a doubt that Hayley is so happy and satisfied. I think of you often and send MANY prayers on your behalf.
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
LaGrange, Ga - Tuesday, February 8, 2005 2:45 PM CST
I just want to let you know that we are continuing to think about your family and your little angel Hayley. God bless.
christine rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Tuesday, February 8, 2005 9:19 AM CST
Just letting you know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayer's always.
BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Tuesday, February 8, 2005 1:49 AM CST
Checking in to say I'm thinking of you. What a beautiful way to celebrate your daughter's birthday. As always, you are in my prayers & thoughts daily.
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Monday, February 7, 2005 10:38 PM CST
I've been to Hayley's website once before after finding it from Kylie's. I am a mother of a 22 month old son who was diagnosed with AML last October. My son too has been the "model" cancer patient. His last biopsy showed he has relapsed. We went ahead with the bone marrow transplant this past Friday. Honestly, I don't know what to expect next. Whatever the outcome, I hope and pray I have half your strength to deal with it.

Peace and Blessings to you,
Keith's Korner
www.caringbridge.org/ga/keithskorner
Dena' Towells <dpeek@att.com>
Baltimore , MD - Monday, February 7, 2005 10:08 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan...as I was looking our the window this morning getting ready for work I noticed that Hayley had been painting again!! The entire sky was ablaze in pinks and purples. I said to my son and husband with a smile "Look! Hayley's painting the sky!!". My husband always gets tears in his eyes after I showed him Hayley's picture!! My son asked where God got so much paint for Hayley to paint with,asked it Hayley already ate breakfast, etc. I was crying walking out the door after saying goodbye to my men in my life! You are thought of all the time...
Jane Want <thewants@numail.org>
Newnan, GA - Monday, February 7, 2005 8:02 PM CST
Dayna & Alan,
I honestly don't know how anyone could ever get over what you've been through. They say time heals, and it seems that it does, but the strength you two are able to draw from is so much greater than the passing of time. Your balance-- though excrutiatingly hard, I'm sure -- is remarkable.

We know you will always hurt. If we could take any of it away, we would in a heartbeat. But, we also never doubt that you'll be o.k. God couldn't have made two stronger or amazing people.

With love always,
Camp Jack
www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack
Jen, Steph, Jack & Kate <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Monday, February 7, 2005 1:36 PM CST
Just a quick note to let you know that today I am thinking of you, as always. I love to come and look at Hayley's photos they always make me smile! Once again thank you for sharing her with everyone! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, February 7, 2005 1:09 PM CST
Just wanted to check in with you both and let you know that I am constantly reminded of Hayley and that incredible smile. I am praying that today finds you hopeful and that each day you learn to live again. You are loved....
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
LaGrange, Ga - Monday, February 7, 2005 10:11 AM CST
Hello, I just discovered your web sight through Charles Johnson. I am so sorry about your dear little angel. She was a cute little girl. She and I shared the same birthday. I was 71 this year on my day. I lost my husband of 52 years this past March so this was my first birthday without him. I too am a blood donor. I was made aware of the importance of giving blood during his bout with bone marrow cancer. You have my love and prayers.
Judy Wood <woodbabb51@bellsouth.net>
Tallapoosa, GA USA - Monday, February 7, 2005 10:10 AM CST
Dear Alan and Dayna,
Charles and I have thought about you all so many times throughout the year and feel awful that we havent kept in better touch. As Charles called me and told me the news (we just found out a few days ago) an unGodly amount of sorrow and pain filled my heart. There are no words that I can give you that will make healing any easier, but knowing that she is with God smiling down on you might make life a little less painful. It's amazing how Hayley's passing has changed our family's life so much in the last few days. Because of her, we have spent more time together and have really moved our focus on Caleb and less on work. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family. God Bless you.
Diana Hudgens <dhudgens@dorchester2.k12.sc.us>
Charleston, SC USA - Monday, February 7, 2005 7:28 AM CST
Just wanted you guys to know still remain in my thoughts and prayers. You are such an inspiration to all of us!
Tammy Hulsey <tammy42@netzero.net>
Gainesville, GA USA - Monday, February 7, 2005 7:25 AM CST
Thinking of you and sending our love and prayers,
Christy and Tim Smith
caringbridge.org/nv/baileyaustinjohnson
Bailey's Nonny and Papa <csmithnonny@charter.net>
Genoa, NV USA - Monday, February 7, 2005 0:03 AM CST
Sorry I didn't post on Hayley's Birthday. We did light a candle. I almost lit a pillar candle but then thought...why not light a birthday candle. So that's what we did. I was so touched by the thoughtfulness of your wonderful neighbors. That must have been some sight to come home to. Many people wrote in the guestbook about the beautiful pink they saw in the sky that day. Well, by the looks of it, it was surely the sunlight passing through all of the pink balloons in the sky! (LOL) Peace be with you. I continue to pray for your strength. I told my co-workers about the new bracelets (they all know about and pray for you and Hayley) so hopefully they will go to the website and order some. can't wait for mine! My 6 year old can't either. Take care.
Sandra Roberts <RobertsJaks@aol.com>
Roswell, GA USA - Sunday, February 6, 2005 10:20 PM CST
Still caring and praying.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Sunday, February 6, 2005 9:12 PM CST
Hello..I am a friend of Charles, Nancy and Sweet Caroline Johnson and I just read your page of how you celebrated your daughter's birthday. I have to say that all of you parents of children with cancer are the strongest people I know of. Good luck in the future. Renae Kiger
Renae Kiger <renaek@bellsouth.net>
Acworth, Ga USA - Sunday, February 6, 2005 7:25 PM CST
Just stopping by Hayley's Corner to check on the latest posting and remind you of my daily prayers.

Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Sunday, February 6, 2005 7:08 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
We sent many prayers and happy thoughts on Hayley's special day. We are sorry that we could not post as our baby girl had us in the hospital all week. Sitting in our room, I thought of our friends at CampJack, Hayley and you and so many other families who have lived a part of their lives in the hospital. We are truly grateful that our daughter has made a recovery. We can't help but think that our Angel Hayley and her heavenly friends had something to do with it!
Best wishes,
Allie, Ann, Erica and Scott - Friends of Allie. CampJack, and especially Hayley
Ann Berger <beanieann@Yahoo.com>
San Juan Capistrano, CA USA - Saturday, February 5, 2005 6:28 PM CST
I just wanted to say thank you again, for sharing your life with all of us, for sharing your beautiful daughter. I'm glad that yesterday was an "ok" day and that you had friends and family help you through it. Take care and G-d bless.
Andrea (FoA & RA) <andreah7@sbcglobal.net>
Austin, TX - Saturday, February 5, 2005 4:23 PM CST
There is not a day that goes by when I don't here the laughter of your sweet angel. I know that she is playing and smiling. I miss you all.
What a sunny birthday Hayley had both here and in heaven.
god bless you both,
amy perkins
amy perkins <nrseamyj@aol.com>
newnan, ga - Saturday, February 5, 2005 11:45 AM CST
Dayna & Alan...You know...the other night there were soooo many twinkling stars...I figured there was a big party up there for Hayley! Please know that we continue to hold you close in our hearts in prayer.

Love,The Drabyk Family
Roger,Alexandra,Samantha,Cassidy and 'Cookie' <rdrabyk@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, MB Canada - Friday, February 4, 2005 11:17 PM CST
I was thinking of you two!
Sending smiles your way :):):)
XXOO, Marey and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Friday, February 4, 2005 9:44 PM CST
Dayna&Alan, I so glad to hear that your family had a special celebration and I am sure little Hayley was right there in spirit blowing out those candles. We have a local red cross here and I am going to check in to donating platelets if I can. I am like you I am borderline anemic but I will give it a shot. Ya'll have really been an inspiration to me and seem to be very strong people. God Bless you both.
Sonya Mayer <valsonya1@aol.com>
Valdosta, Ga USA - Friday, February 4, 2005 7:18 PM CST
I read about your darling daughter on the Cancer Warrior site and clicked on the link to the Caring Bridge site. My niece..Hailey Elizabeth Sadler.. lost her battle to Wilm's Tumor October 24, 2004. Her birthday is coming up on Feburary 25 and we are dreading it of course so I know what you mean. What a nice way to "celebrate" Hayley's life, I hope it is your new tradition and can help you cope with each year. God Bless you. www.caringbridge.org/mi/myhaileybear
Kim Chesley <KimChesley@aol.com>
Phoenix, az - Friday, February 4, 2005 4:52 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,
You are always included in our family prayers and we included and extra secial prayer for you yesterday. I hope the love you receive from those around you will help keep you strong. There are so many people out there praying for your family. God Bless!
Holly Hall <hollywh1@yahoo.com>
Bloomington, IL USA - Friday, February 4, 2005 2:24 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I wanted to let you both know that lastnight after my 3 year son, 19 month old son and I sent a pink balloon to Heaven for Hayleybaby with a birthday love note on it, we went inside to start dinner. I was talking to Jakey (my 3 year old) and I asked him if he wanted to let me make something special tonight, mainly for a special treat for the family. He said yes he wanted to make a birthday cake for Hayley so that is what we did lastnight. Jakey and I made a spice cake with cream cheese frosting for Hayley on her birthday. Jakey while we were mixing it said can we take it to Hayley... I paused for a moment and said sweetie I wish we could but I'm sure she will be watching us eat her very special birthday cake. He agreed that she would be watching from Heaven. Jake then said "Momma, Hayley isn't sick any more" I said you are right baby, Hayleybaby isn't sick anymore.
I don't know how I held back the tears but somehow I did...and I smiled thinking of her sweet cubby cheeks.

I just wanted to let you know how deeply she and the both of you touched my family's heart!

May you cuddle and chase kitties with your sweet baby girl in your dreams tonight.

Love and prayers,
Amy

Amy <amynjake01@aol.com>
Delta , PA - Friday, February 4, 2005 1:37 PM CST
Glad that your day was okay. We sent many prayers your way. thanks for the update glad to know your hanging in there.

Much love & many prayers,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katiedixon@cox.net>
Lake Forest, CA - Friday, February 4, 2005 1:35 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
The three of you were on our minds all day yesterday. As we drove home in the evening there was a beautiful strip of pink right at the horizon and we smiled thinking of Hayley, the little girl we've never met but feel as if we've known forever. Then, while putting leftovers in the freezer and writing the date on the bag I wrote 2/3/03. I stopped and thought, why would I have done that? I'm two years off. After a few minutes I smiled and thought, it's Hayley's birthdate. We are constantly amazed at the very magic of your daughter. Truly, a gift from God for all of us to learn from. She is constantly in our thoughts as we go about being better people because of her.

Prayer friends in Ohio
- Friday, February 4, 2005 12:07 AM CST
Thank you so much for sharing your day with all of us. It was so touching, especially your neighbors' gesture. I am certain Hayley is beaming with pride over her mommy and daddy!
Karen (Friends of Allie/Raise Awareness)
Stow, OH - Friday, February 4, 2005 11:48 AM CST
I'm glad that you were able to get through the day with such positive rememberance. And I realized that I have not thanked you both. Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter and her journey here on earth. She will always have an effect on my life and that of my family. She will never be forgotten and will always be remembered in the blood donations, the ltn walks, the simple wearing of a livestrong band. I pray for your strength and look forward to the day that we can all rejoice and release balloons to the heavens thanking the angels for showing us a way to the cure. That day will happen thanks to you sharing your beautiful girl. She has raised a lot of awareness of both the beast and ourselves and how we live. You are truly blessed to be her Mommy & Daddy always.
Kari (FOA/RA) <zfamily00@hotmail.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Friday, February 4, 2005 10:16 AM CST
I haven't signed in a while, but wanted to let you know that I still check Hayley's website daily and pray for you. I'm so grateful that God allowed you to have an OK day on Hayley's birthday. I've shared my friend Zach's website with you before (www.caringbridge.org/ga/zach). His parents decided to stop posting on the anniversary of his funeral. However, their final posting is amazing, as is the journal history of their first year without Zach. I pray that it may bring you comfort.
Melanie <melamos@bellsouth.net>
Alpharetta, GA - Friday, February 4, 2005 9:27 AM CST
So glad you got through yesterday, and what a wonderful tribute to donate. It is so important to do that! I kept thinking about Hayley yesterday--how could you not with all of the pink ribbons around here. I heard from a quite a few people that wanted me to send more prayers to your family.
Shari Wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
- Friday, February 4, 2005 9:08 AM CST
Wow soundslike you have the most wonderful neighbors!! I am sure Hayley was just beaming down at the whole thing!! It is aawesome news that you could donate! Hayley didn't want to let you down! Please, if you would not mind, can you post pictures of the tree? I know we woudl all love to see it! We have heard so much about it!

You are both just so wonderful!!
Becka RA <rlmarsch@nycap.rr.com>
Delmar, NY USA - Friday, February 4, 2005 8:45 AM CST
You two just can't imagine what an inspiration you are to me by reading your journal entries. Through all of your heartache, you still touch so many lives. Such wonderful neighbors and friends you have. I know that there definitely was a big party going on in Heaven yesterday. Stay as strong in the future as you are now and God will be there for you 24/7.
God Bless,
Jeri Lynn McGrew
Jeri Lynn McGrew <Taximomwv@aol.com>
Cross Lanes, WV - Friday, February 4, 2005 7:54 AM CST
Thoughts of your sweet Hayley warm my heart. You both make her proud.
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Friday, February 4, 2005 7:47 AM CST
Dayna.. You are an inspiration! I know that God was holding Hayley tight yesterday and everyone gave her those hugs you so badly wanted to give yourself!! The good news is I not only think God had all the animals in heaven yesterday but I think that he gave Hayley a entire farm the day she arrived to watch over and play with!!!

Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Thank both of you for your continued support to "Find a CURE!"
Jill Wolfe (Little Brady's mom) <chefjillwolfe@bellsouth.net (www.teamwolfe.net)>
Roswell, GA - Friday, February 4, 2005 7:39 AM CST
I hope that yesterday was a good day for you. Your journal entry was beautiful. You never cease to amaze me! You and Alan are such wonderful people! Your devotion to each other and to God is inspiring. And especially your devotion to helping to find a cure.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Friday, February 4, 2005 7:17 AM CST
I am thinking of you fondly on this special day. I check your site often, it always offers me comfort. I find comfort in your devotion and faith in God. I'm sure that Hayley got her special hug from Jesus and was the special princess for the entire day.
God bless you all!
J
OH - Friday, February 4, 2005 6:22 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet girl! You are so loved by your mom and dad!
Janice (Raise Awareness) <janicem@bu.edu>
Boston, MA - Friday, February 4, 2005 3:04 AM CST
I could sit here all night searching for the right words...

I'm so sorry that you had to spend this special day without your precious little girl by your side. Your strength amazes me. May God wrap His arms around you and surround you with comfort and peace.
Becky <mashedpeas@msn.com>
El Mirage, AZ - Friday, February 4, 2005 1:45 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Sweet Hayley! Prayers sent your way, that you rest peacefully in your Father's arms.
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Friday, February 4, 2005 1:43 AM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
Several months ago my life changed forever because Hayley, Kylie, Ali, Jack, Mary Grace, and many other children, along with their parents, became a part of my heart. I never realized how many children have been afflicted with cancer. You are in my prayers daily. Know that you continue to touch our lives with your strength, faith, and love. I am so deeply saddened by your loss.

May God comfort you always with His precious love and peace. Thank you for your letters of love in honor of your precious Hayley. Even though we have never met, you are all forever in my heart.

Happy Birthday beautiful and perfect Hayley!

Beth Botts <botts4jesus@aol.com>
Napa, CA 94558 - Friday, February 4, 2005 1:15 AM CST
Happy 2nd birthday Hayley
Amber Willard <awillard@bak.rr.com>
Bakersfield, CA - Friday, February 4, 2005 0:20 AM CST
Happy Birthday Angel Haley. My thoughts and prayers are with your parents today and always.
Love, Karen
FOA/RA
Karen S. Perdue <ksperdue@sbcglobal.net>
Plano, TX USA - Friday, February 4, 2005 0:08 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I have been too saddened by the loss of your dear sweet Hayley to sign your guestbook since her passing, yet I continue to check your site often to keep up on you because your family has touched me so deeply. Your love, faith and strength are an example to all. No one can imagine the pain and sadness you must be feeling now for your beautiful, sweet child, but please know that your baby girl has touched the lives of so many and has helped us all to realize how short this gift of life is. Hayely will be carried in our hearts forever!
We are sending up special Happy Birthday prayers today for your dear sweet girl and find comfort knowing that she is in peace with our Lord.
With much love, The Di Scala Family
Annette, Ciro, Danielle, Gregory, Kaitlyn and Lauren
Annette Di Scala <agdiscala@aol.com>
Aliso Viejo, CA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:56 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan, You both have demonstrated stead fast faith, strength, love, joy, and far more many emotions than we could possibly image in the past year. Hayley is truly the center of attention in heaven with angels dancing with her every move. We love you dearly and pray for you! Happy Heavenly Birthday Hayley
Becky and Andy Weiller <beckywell@yahoo.com>
Suwanee, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:30 PM CST
I'm sending prayers to Heaven for your beloved child, sweet Hayley, and saying prayers for you both so that you can get through these difficult days. I'm sure you feel like you can't get through this trial but, Our Lord, Hayley and your community will lift you! Praying for you fervently!
a <a@a.com>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:04 PM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Angel Hayley

I sent a pink balloon up to Heaven for you!!

Kristie <GymnDragon80@aol.com>
Westfield, MA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:48 PM CST
Thinking and praying for you on this special day.
Kim Jordan <kimboj35@yahoo.com>
McKinney, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:41 PM CST
What beautiful writing about your precious little Hayley. You had an incredible 22 months filled with more love than most people can only dream of....Thanks for sharing Hayley with us.
Love,
Nancy and Will's family (caringbridge.org/ga/williamolson)
Nancy Olson <nkotarget@bellsouth.net >
Marietta, ga usa - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:29 PM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Sweet ^i^Hayley^i^!!
Dana Sanford ~*~Friends of Allie~*~Raise Awareness~*~ <Aunty.Dana@Gmail.com>
Spring Arbor, Mi - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:39 PM CST
Hi Guys!
Thinking of you in a special way today. Sending prayers and many hugs.

Thanks for sending the $ and the picture of Hayley for the tournament. We will display it proudly.

Much love to you both,
Tre', Jenny, and Catie
www.caringbridge.org/ga/catie <jencarroll@hotmail.com>
Guyton, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:27 PM CST
Today we lost another little girl to AML - Hannah passed away early this morning from transplant complications. I can just picture Hayley welcoming Hannah in heaven today just in time for her birthday party. Have fun together sweet angels! We miss you both so much!!
Connie Greenshields <Bogeymama2000@yahoo.ca>
Calgary, Alberta Canada - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:23 PM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Angel!! I am so sure that there are a gazillion pink balloons in Heaven tonight. :)

I was reading Just In Case You Ever Wonder to my girls this afternoon and couldn't stop thinking of Hayley. She is loved even by people that never met her.
Katie, Hayley, Hunter and Taylor <dugan2b@yahoo.com>
Franklin, MA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:54 PM CST
Happy Birthday Precious Baby! We continue to pray for you both. The words you spoke about how you would have taken her even knowing what would happen were so wonderful...you are such awesome people and your baby has made the world a better place! God bless you!
Stephanie Lim <StephanieRE@aol.com>
Jacksonville, FL - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:53 PM CST
Happy "Best" Day Dayna and Alan

((fondly))

Robin Anderson <bander23@bellsouth.net>
Suwanee, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:51 PM CST
Happy Birthday little Hayley. Enjoy your second Birthday in Heaven. You are surely missed
Amanda <a-dhold@houston.rr.com>
Richomd, TX USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:51 PM CST
Happy Birthday princess Hayley!! Please tell Jesus to give you an extra squeeze from me, even though you don't know who I am. Heaven must have been a brilliant shade of pink for you today, judging by the way it reflected in the sunset down here.

With much love,

Christa
Tacoma, WA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:38 PM CST
Happy Birthday to Angel Hayley and a special prayer for both of you today.
Joy Rowan
Columbia, MD - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:43 PM CST
Hello,
I came to you from Kendrie's site. I wanted to let you know that Hayley is such a beautiful little girl. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Lisa Deaton <deatongnl@charter.net>
Troy, IL - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:41 PM CST
My heart cries for you, I wore pink today without even knowing why...I'm sure all of the angels are in pink too.
Dianna Jackman <jackmand@comcast.net>
Corona, CA United States - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:39 PM CST
Happy birthday baby girl, you are never far from our thoughts and hearts. Dayna and Alan, you guys are amazing.

May God continue to bless you,
Laura
Laura Q <laura.quevedo@gmail.com>
Diamond Bar, CA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:33 PM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! I hope that Jesus throws you a really nice birthday party!

Annie <care.clark@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:33 PM CST
Happy Birthday sweet angel and may your mommy & daddy enjoy a peaceful day of remembering what a wonderful gift from God they were given on this day:)

In God's Love,
The Massey Family
The Massey Family <christymassey@adelphia.net>
Cumming , GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:17 PM CST
Happy Birthday my sweet Hayley! I miss you with everything that I have. I'm continuing to pray for your mommy and daddy; they have more courage, strength and faith than anyone I know. I love you and I'm always thinking about you. By the way, I'm wearing pink today!
Nurse Erika
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:14 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
I know this day, truly, is so sad for you, thinking of what SHOULD be...but, once again, you've shown me, as you always do, why it is that I admire you so...What an amazing tribute, turning this into a beautiful day of remembrance.

I've thought of you all day today.
Happy Birthday, Sweet Angel....
...and to you, her parents, I wish you peace as you celebrate the day you were changed forever.

We are thinking of you...

The O'Malleys

Sue O'Malley <susanlomalley@adelphia.net>
Cumming, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:08 PM CST

BrendaDave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:06 PM CST
I know she is getting many hugs from Jesus today. My eyes fill with tears thinking about your loss. Your words bring joy in knowing that it was the greatest 22 months of your life. I so wish she could be here for you to throw a birthday party for, I know she is looking down saying "don't cry mommy & daddy life is so short on earth, we'll be togeather in a blink of an eye and what fun we'll all have in heaven".

Thinking & praying for you daily,
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:05 PM CST
Remembering Hayley today, just as I do every day!
Peace,
Theresa
Theresa
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:59 PM CST
Hayley ~

Happy Birthday, beautiful girl! Enjoy your party and your hug!
Jennifer <jennfu@hoho.org>
Holland, MI USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:53 PM CST
What a wondeerful tribute to your precious baby girl. Your words so eloquently describe the depths of your love for Hayley. I am sad for your loss and wish there were more I could do to ease your pain. But know this, there are parents like me who after reading your journal, strive to do better and have more gratitude for the gifts bestowed us each day. So, with a heavy heart, I wish your baby Hayley a very happy happy birthday; and for you, I wish only the best.
Haylee & Holland's Mom
Heather Castagna <Hayher01@aol.com>
Grapevine, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:50 PM CST
Hayley will always be remembered on this and every day. Happy Birthday!
Joyce <Bachigs@nycap.rr.com>
Albany, NY USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:44 PM CST
Sending lots of love and comfort on this special day!
I think about you'll everyday!
Jennifer
GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:40 PM CST
Happy Birthday beautiful Hayley. My heart melts when I look at her pictures-what a perfect angel she must be! Prayers for your family today and always!
Brooke (FOA/RA) <bleyl22@adelphia.net>
Twinsburg, OH USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:37 PM CST
Happy Birthday sweet girl.
Prayers to your mommy and daddy on this special day

Bonnie (FOA/RA) <fordham_family@hotmail.com>
Jamestown, NC - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:32 PM CST
Hayley,

Hi precious! Happy Birthday :) I am thinking of you, mommy and daddy today. They are so lucky to have you up there as an angel. What a beautiful angel you are!

Erin <eden75@yahoo.com>
des moines, ia - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:14 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
I just wanted to let you know that you've both been in my thoughts continually--Especially today. I pray for you both that you will be filled with peace and comfort. Hayley had a beautiful life. Although it was short, she touched more people in her 22 months than I have in my 28 years.

Aly Foussat <afoussat@gmail.com>
Provo, UT - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:13 PM CST
Sweet Hayley,

We think of you everyday and are celebrating with you in a sea of pink!! We love you and hope that your mommy and daddy will feel the warmth of God's love as he hugs you today!!
Karley, Madysen & Marshall Grandy *FOA/RA* <ckGrandy@charter.net>
Klamath Falls, OR USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:02 PM CST
I have been quietly following Haley's story, and your story, for quite some time now. But today is not a day to remain quiet - it's a day to shout to the heavens . . . Happy Birthday Haley! We are celebrating your life on earth, and all that you and your parents have taught us! And I hope today brings you joy too Dayna and Alan. God bless.

Darice
Holt, MI - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:00 PM CST
Thinking of you on this special day. Praying for your family! Happy Birthday Little One!
Jess
Keller, tx usa - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:58 PM CST
I have to sign again... I'm so proud of you Dayna and Alan! Thank you for sharing Hayley's beautiful life with us.

Happy Birthday Sweet Baby.

Amy A.
Lincoln, NE USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:57 PM CST
Happy Birthday Little One. And God be with Mommy and Daddy. My heart breaks for you. I admire your faith, your familiy story makes me hold my daughter tighter at night. I can not immagine your pain, I can only pray God continue to mend your hearts as much as he can. I wish you the best in life, I wish your heart well.
Paige <medicpaige@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:54 PM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley! With Lots of Love.
Jacquelyn <jmills@gatewayrealty.com>
Fairfield, CA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:50 PM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!!! i hope your mom and dad have
a peaceful day full of wonderful thoughts about you.

monica
prosser, wa usa - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:42 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET ANGEL HAYLEY!
jessica
marietta, ga uas - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:42 PM CST
Happy Birthday, Sweet Angel...
praying for you, today and all days.
Karen, mom to Haedyn and Jaelyn <khackins@netscape.net>
Red Lion, PA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:37 PM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Angel Hayley
Julie (FOA/RA)
Allentown, PA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:34 PM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Sweet Baby Girl!

Tori <tori_42459@yahoo.com>
Sturgis, KY USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:21 PM CST
Dayna & Alan-I have been thinking of youy all day long. Thank you for sharing your sweet words. I know there is a celebration in heaven today, as it is beautiful here. Just a reminder that you are being continually lifted in prayer by friends, loved ones, and, strangers, like me, with whom you have shared and continue to share your story.
Cyndy
Ozark, MO - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:17 PM CST
Happy Birthday Angel Haley!
Kelli (FOA/RA) <thompsonkelli@hotmail.com>
Sandwich, IL USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:15 PM CST
The first thing that popped into my head this morning, was 'it's Hayley's birthday'...what an inspiration her life has been to me...a complete stranger.

Dayna and Alan: you are the most amazing people I've ever "met." I hope that in my life I can be half the parents you have been to our angel!

We all love you...and pray for you every day. May this day be a day to celebrate Hayley's life...as she is so very special to so many! I don't think I could imagine the pain that this day must bring to your hearts...but you are, as always, graceful in stating that you will celebrate the gift that was HAYLEY!

With my most heartfelt love and support,
Rachael Austin Soto <rsoto@nmrs.com>
Goose Creek, SC USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:14 PM CST
Happy Birthday baby girl.
Kristi <snickles04@comcast.net>
flint , mi - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:08 PM CST
As I woke up on Hayley's birthday, thinking of her absence here on earth, I noticed the weather fit my mood...dreary, gray and rainy. But then I decided to think about what it must be like in Heaven today. And, of course, everything in Heaven is absolutely perfect - today and EVERY day. Then, I could almost hear Happy Birthday being sung...who were these wonderful angels sitting around Hayley singing sweetly??
Princess Diana, Elvis Presley, Mother Teresa, Ray Charles, Judy Garland...the list goes on and on...
Suddenly, my mood changed completely...how AWESOME.
Happy Birthday Hayley! We miss you!
Anne McHann <clayandanne@aol.com>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:04 PM CST
Thinking of you today and every day. What a precious day Hayley's birth was for us all.

We love you and are sending special hugs right this very second.
Love,
Camp Jack
www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack
Jen, Steph, Jack & Kate <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:00 PM CST
I pray that God will be with you and bless you with His peace on Hayley's birthday.
Ashley Hast (FOA/RA) <ahast24@aol.com>
White Oak, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:58 PM CST
Happy birthday sweet angel Hayley!!
Tabetha <born123@msn.com>
Woodstock, ga - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:58 PM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Hayley. We miss you so much but know that you are having a wonderful time in heaven with Jesus. Extra hugs and prayers go to Dayna and Alan on this difficult, but precious day.
Terri Weiler <tweiler81@yahoo.com>
Cordova, TN 38018 - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:51 PM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! You are loved by so many and I know you are having a party in Heaven.
Krista Avedikian <ms_krista@hotmail.com>
The Colony, Tx USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:46 PM CST
Happy Birthday little Hayley!
Carmen Jackson <gypsynurse00@hotmail.com>
Tucson, AZ USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:42 PM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! What a sweet angel you are! We think about you daily and keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We also keep your mom and dad in our prayers as well. They are truly incredible people. God Bless all of you! Love, The Medley's
The Medley Family <jenmedley@bellsouth.net>
Marietta, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:38 PM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday sweet angel Hayley. Let mommy & daddy know your having a good day.
Becky
Ohio - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:35 PM CST
Happy birthday Hayley!!!I hope you have a great one We all miss you!!!!!!!!!
Lyric Baty <trick_lover247@yahoo.com>
cumming, ga united states - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:31 PM CST
Happy Birthday Angel Baby Hayley!
Rachel C. <lilcrazymamac@hotmail.com>
TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:29 PM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! Kisses to you in Heaven.
Dayna and Alan - We think about you and pray for you daily, especially today. May God hold you close on this difficult, yet joyful day. We can not tell you enough how Hayley's beautiful life has made such an impact on all us! She truly was a gift from God.
Stacy, Robyn, Dominik and Kira Anderson <robyn.anderson@cingular.com>
Cumming, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:22 PM CST
Hayley, Happy 2nd Birthday! I know you are having a super special day with Jesus and all your knew friends. You will always be remembered in our hearts.
Jim, Cynthia, and Matthew <jiredale@bellsouth.net>
Roswell, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:14 PM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday sweet Hayley...Alan and Dayna my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Renee (Cancer Warriors) <rforte0531@comcast.net>
East Haven, CT - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:14 PM CST
I find it very ironic that today was my first ever visit to beautiful Hayley's site and today is her 2nd birthday too! What a beautiful angel she is...an absolute doll. I know she must be looking down from heaven celebrating with all of her new angel friends. I hope you find comfort in the many difficult days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Happy Birthday Hayley!
Amy <athomas@hansoncomputer.com>
westminster, CALIF - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:06 PM CST
happy 2nd birthday hayley!! much love and well wishes to you and your family
Sheri <lil_mommas_2@yahoo.com>
Brunswick, ME 04011 - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:52 PM CST
Dayna and Allan,
When stop to think about the impact that Hayley had on peoples lives from around the world I am sure you could ask any of the 162 people that signed Hayley's guestbook today to wish her a Happy Birthday. Their stories could fill a book!
Can't stop thinking about you today,

Tiffany , Frank, Jordan, and Jacob <murphy108@comcast.net>
GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:47 PM CST
Dayna and Allan - Though I'm a stranger, I continue to think about you and pray for God to comfort you. Hayley touched my heart as she did to thousands of others. With today being Hayley's birthday, I'm sending extra special happy thoughts your way. May the precious memories of your beautiful little girl bring you joy and happiness on this important day.
Lari <larigalen@mindspring.com>
Cumming, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:28 PM CST
Hello, I know that no day is easy for you without your beautiful girl, but I know today will be one of the hardest, so I just want to let you know that I am thinking about you & praying for you. I am sure that Hayley knows all of the warm wishes you are sending out to her today and that she feels your love, as she always will.
I enjoy looking at Haley's beautiful, adoring face each day on my calendar!
Lots of hugs, prayers, and love going out to yu today. Happy birthday sweet Haley.
Mel (FOA/RA) <mschultz@i-sect.net>
Bristol, CT USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:23 PM CST
Happy Birthday Hayleybaby! <3 Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. You are missed badly even though we have never met. I hope you are having a very special birthday in Heaven. ~*~ Butterfly kisses ~*~

Dayna and Alan my heart goes out to both of you on this very special day. Please know that I think of all 3 of you often (every day many times through out the day). I come here looking for updates but lately I have been not so good at posting in the guestbook. Please know that I don't always know what to say sometimes I want to scream, yell and cry that it isn't fair but most of all I want you to know that my prayers for strenght, peace and love are always with you even when I don't have the words to post. ((Hug)) Thank you both for sharing such an amazingly sweet, strong, loving, caring and beautiful daughter of yours with all of us. Hayley will forever be in my heart and I feel honored to be one of the many that you have shared your precious daughter with. She truely is an angel just like her Mommy and Daddy.

I'm going to stop tonight on my way home from work and get a pink balloon, take it home to write Hayleybaby a love note and have my boys help me send it to Hayley!

May you both have sweet dreams tonight of your beautiful birthday girl!

My love and prayers,
Amy
Amy Fulcher <amynjake01@aol.com>
Delta, PA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:21 PM CST
Hi Dayna and Alan,
Thinking of you on this special day. I'm looking at Ms. February right now. I remembering visiting you all in the hospital when Hayley was born. I remember how small and perfect she was. I particularly remember Alan volunteering to change her diaper, and your dad asking me when I was due. And, I remember telling him a week before you, and then we all laughed.

I can still see her out at the tennis courts hangin' with all the other babies at that time (it was a baby boom wasn't it?) I feel quite sad for you all today. To think...it has been over a month since Hayley's passing, I wonder how you ever get through the days. How long these days must be for you. "They" say time will heal you, and that it does get better. I hope "they, whoever they are," are right. This is such a special day...and always will be.

Happy Birthday Hayley!!

Take Care!
Cecilia
Cecilia Elias <cecilia.elias@alltel.com>
Cumming, Ga - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:18 PM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!!! I found your website - and today's Happy Birthday posting to Hayley, via the St. Peter Chanel website. Although there are names for spouses who lose a spouse (widow or widower) and for a child who loses a parent (orphan), there isn't a name for a parent who loses their child - because it shouldn't happen. I pray for peace in your hearts and remembrance always of your darling sweet angel who lived 22 months on this earth before God wanted her home.
Beth Brown <BETH.BROWN@MCI.COM>
Roswell, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:16 PM CST
Dayna and Alan- I pray for peace and lots of happy memories for you both today. I also pray for the strength to continue on this new and difficult path. I know God and Hayley are both looking down on you all with lots of love and support.
Meredith
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:06 PM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet Hayley- may it be filled with sweet memories for you both.
Erin <jfulk@nc.rr.com>
NC - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:02 PM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Sweet Hayley.
Dayna and Alan I pray for your day to be filled with joyus and happy memories of your little angel. Her time on this earth was short but her impact will be seen for decades to come.
Terri Bodine ~~FOA/RA~~ <terrib@nightowl.net>
Imperial, MO - Thursday, February 3, 2005 12:54 AM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet Hayley!

Hope you are celebrating up there bigtime!! Your mommy & daddy are sending you lots of kisses!!

Always in my thoughts and prayers.
Becky L. Harbarth <peanutpie3879@netscape.net>
GAYLORD, MN USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 12:54 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley
Watch over your mommy and daddy
They miss you so much!
Michelle Petrow <mdpetrow@aol.com>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Thursday, February 3, 2005 12:27 AM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet Hayley! I hope you have a wonderful party in Heaven!
Dayna and Alan, your strength and faith never ceases to amaze me. I know that today is especially painful and I pray that God will wrap His arms around you both today.
God bless, Ann Compton
Ann Compton <annmrc@aol.com>
Land O Lakes, FL usa - Thursday, February 3, 2005 12:17 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley

Somewhere wonderful, far beyond the earth,
Hayley you celebrate 2 years since your birth.
This is your first birthday in Heaven above,
But as always, we know you're surrounded by love.
From those who one day will join you there,
Wishes float on breezes, rising high in the air.
Bringing you kisses, hugs, dancing and swirls
Lots of special things for such a special girl.

Happy Birthday Hayley!!

Kim <friendsofalliememphis@yahoo.com >
Memphis, tn - Thursday, February 3, 2005 12:16 AM CST
Dayna, Alan, and sweet Hayley: you are all in my thoughts today, as you are most days. I will light a candle tonight in honor of this beautiful precious day. The thought of Hayley not being here on her special day is absolutely unbearable, but with the Grace of God, I do hope and pray that you both will be allright. Take care, sweet family.
Brandi Lopez, mother to Ella Ireland, 1 yr. old. -FOA/RA- <brandipandi88@hotmail.com>
NJ - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:58 AM CST
You are in my thoughts and prayers,as we think of your wonderful daughter, Haley today and everyday, Lyn www.caringbridge.org/nj/justinw
Lyn Wyatt <ddog117@comcast.net>
stratford, nj usa - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:55 AM CST
May God look down and bless you today as you both share this special day. You, with the memories of Hayley and her birth and His, as he has his special angel. May the gift of her life give you strength today.

You are in our thoughts and prayers now and always.

The Westbrook Family
Cumming, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:51 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! I just wanted you to know
that I was thinking about you today. I know your
favorite color is pink so I have lit a pink candle
in your honor that I will burn all day.

Dayna & Alan my thoughts and prayers are with you
everyday but especially today.

Carol Armstrong <BIZeMOM4@aol.com>
Marietta, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:46 AM CST
Happy Birthday to the sweetest angel of them all. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers everday.
Angela(foa/ra)- -HEATHER GRACE

ma - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:45 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Hayley. We are thinking of you today. Prayers of peace are being sent to your parents so they may get through today with smiles on their faces.

God bless,
Tiffany Borner and family
Tiffany Borner <tkinser@mindspring.com>
Suwanee, Ga USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:39 AM CST
Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday; sweet Haley,
Happy Birthday to you!

I hope you are having a wonderful heavently birthday. Please send your mom and dad some birthday hugs...I'm sure they would love to get them from you and feel them on this most special day.

Alan and Dayna, you continue to amaze me. Love to all on this day and everday....
Rose <tomandrose@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, Ontario Canada - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:32 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! I too hope that Jesus himself will give you a hug from me. I will be looking for pink in the sky today so I too can enjoy you birthday party.
Dayna and Alan your stregth, courage, and undying love never ceases to amaze me. As I have said before I hope that one day I can be the kind of parent the two of you are. May God bless you and hold you extra tight today. Reach the Day!

Sending Lots and Lots of Love, Hugs, and Kisses Your Way, Beth

Make your own sunshine everyday! ~Stephanie Phillips
www.caringbridge.org/ga/stephaniephillips
Beth Jenkins <jenkime@auburn.edu>
Auburn, AL USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:22 AM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
My thoughts and prayers are with you both today and always. Your sweet Hayley has touched my soul and stolen a piece of my heart, even though I've never met your family except through your beautiful words online. She is such a beautiful girl...I get the pleasure of seeing her sweet face all month because I have the childhood cancer calendar hanging next to my computer. I can't even begin to imagine how difficult today must be for you both, well I'm sure everyday is difficult, but today even more so. Please know how much your little angel has affected and touched the lives of so many, many poeple who never had the honor of meeting her. She will always be remembered as the sweet, beautiful, pink-loving, cat-chasing angel that she is! May God bless.

Hayley,
Happy 2nd Birthday baby girl!!! So many people are thinking about you today and hoping you have a wonderful birthday up in Heaven. Eat lots of cake, chase those kitties, and slide down those rainbows! You are a beautiful little girl who is missed and loved by so many. And I'm sure you are the prettiest little angel all dressed in pink today. Sending lots of hugs to you sweet girl, today and always.

Love,
Julie, John, and Keira
Julie Pelker *FOA/RA* <julzpelker@comcast.net>
Leesport, PA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:21 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I'm sure that they're having a pig party with just what you wish for Hayley, and I'm sure that Jesus WILL give her the hug you want to give her so badly. I'm not quite sure how He couldn't ;)
Hayley,
Happy birthday beautiful girl :) I hope you have a wonderful day up there with all of your new friends!
Tab, Memphis FoA <susannasmommy@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:20 AM CST
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday dear sweet kitty chasing pony loving pink is my signature color Angel Hayley
Happy Birthday to you!

Sara (FOA/RA) <mthoroughman@verizon.net>
Seminole, FL - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:13 AM CST
I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you today and am so thankful I had the chance to share in Hayley's life. I ran across a picture of me holding Hayley shortly after you brought her home from the hospital. May God give you the peace you need and the joy you deserve! With all my love.

Heather <hbarnes@idi.com>
Atlanta, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:09 AM CST
Dayna and Alna, I am sure Jesus is with her, showering her with love jsut for you!
Praying for you always
Betsy *KC Metro FOA &RA* <betsy.clayton@selectivsite.com>
Overland Park, KS USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:07 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley!!!

I'm sure you're having a wonderful birthday up there...full of laughter and fun. I hope my nephew James is joining you for the big bash :)

Dayna and Alan, I know that this day will be hard and I pray that the Lord will comfort you and give you peace. Thank you for all you have taught me and for sharing precious Hayley with all of us.
Heather Thomson <heather_thomson@yahoo.com>
The Dalles, OR USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:07 AM CST
I'm so sorry for your pain! I think that Jesus is giving Hayley that big hug for you right now! I'm thinking and praying for your family today and the days to come.
Chrissy Howard- Friends Of Allie/DFW <chrissymhoward@hotmail.com>
Fort Worth, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:06 AM CST
Happy Birthday Beautiful Hayley!!!

Dayna and Alan, I am so sorry that this day will be so hard on you. Know that so many people are thinking of your whole family and praying for your peace. I will say a special prayer for your little girl today and we will celebrate Hayley's very special life along with you today. My MIL's birthday is today as well and tonight when we take her out to dinner I will share Hayley's beautiful life with our entire family and ask them to share her with others. Everyone should know about your special girl and the message she brings to all - Love. I'm so glad she touched my life, even though I didn't get to meet her in person.

Thank you for sharing your story with us all and I hope Hayley's wonderful memories shine bright today and make the clouds of sadness disappear.

Rebecca Rubalcaba <rebecca@creativetwinkle.com>
Visalia, CA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:58 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!

Dayna and Alan, I know today will be so hard, but reading your words today I know every word is so true. It reminds me of the Garth Brooks' song, "The Dance." Please know that all of your caringbridge friends are thinking of you and praying for you today and always.

God Bless you both.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:55 AM CST
Thinking of you and your sweet baby girl on her birthday. Happy Birthday Hayley!

Sandi
Alberta, Canada - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:54 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet girl. We all love and miss you.
Hugs,

Tracey Chambers~Heroes For Children
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:47 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Sweet Hayley! I hope, like your mom said, that you got a huge hug from Jesus!

Dayna, thank you for sharing your heart with us today. I could feel the love in your words. My heart goes out to you guys as you celebrate the life of Hayley. What a beautiful life! I pray that your day is filled with beautiful memories and love. You both are my thoughts and prayers! God Bless.

Always-
Kristel Hanlon
McKinney, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:45 AM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HALEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
KRISTY
ROCKMART, gA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:41 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley. I hope your party in Heaven is spectacular! Dana and Allan,I pray that your heavy hearts continue to feel the joy of Hayley's time on earth.
Tricia <TriciaBxNY@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:36 AM CST
Dear Alan and Dayna,
God bless you as you go throughout this day. I pray He will fill your day with wonderful memories and that you will feel His presence very near. Hayley's beautiful life is being remembered by SO many today!
Love,
The Holcombs
Kellie <warkalg@bellsouth.net>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:33 AM CST
Dayna & Alan,
You don't know me but I stumbled across Hayley's page by accident about a month ago, and was just taken aback by how beautiful she was, I was glued to the computer screne for a few hours, reading the whole history, crying, and laughing, by just picturing her chase after the cats. I check on you both often, to see how ya'll are. The first thing I thought of this morning when I woke up was Hayley's birthday, and how you both must be feeling today. I am not even sure what else to say, but that I will continue to pray for you both, and will continue to check in on you both.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET HAYLEY!!!
Heather Vinson <hdv3902@hotmail.com>
Baytown, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:30 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley! May you be swinging on the clouds today and playing with all your cats, dogs, and horses.

Dayna and Alan: sending lots of warm thoughts and big hugs all the way from Maryland on this special day!!

Dana and Ashley Cope <mom2ashn3dogs@gmail.com>
Owings, MD - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:29 AM CST
What a beautiful birthday post that was. Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley! Dayna and Alan, may you find some smiles on this special day as you remember your girl.
Amy Benson <amybenson00@hotmail.com>
Overland Park, KS - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:27 AM CST
Happy Birthday, beautiful Hayley! Dear Dayna and Alan, you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers daily. Hayley's such a beautiful child. I have visions of her chasing the cats from your posts. I hope that today, she is chasing the most beautiful cats and enjoying a celebration that we can only attempt to imagine. Lots of hugs,
Moni "FoA Arizona"
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:26 AM CST
Thinking of you and your sweet baby girl on her birthday. may God grant you peace today. Happy Birthday Hayley!
Carrie Harrison (FOA/RA)
Tulsa, OK USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:25 AM CST
Thinking of you on this difficult, yet wonderful day. Your recollection of Hayley's birth brought me to tears. I am so sorry for your pain. HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET HAYLEY!!
Debra Burgess <Burgesstx@aol.com>
Ft Worth, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:24 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Hayley! My name is Wendy and I am celebrating my 36th birthday today. I am friends with the Dixons, and have checked updates on this site as often as I check Mary Grace's site. Alan and Dayna you sound like wonderful parents. I hope that if I was ever in the same situation, and would handle it with as much love and diginity as you. My first thought as I woke this morning was of your beautiful little girl. I said a special prayer for your family after that. I know she is having the party you invision for her. May your precious memories of her give you strength today. God bless you all.
Wendy <mel_wl@alltel.net>
Canton, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:22 AM CST
Happy birthday to Haley. My heart goes out to you on what must be a very difficult day for you. God bless.
Mindy Ernest
Oro Valley, Az USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:21 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Angel!
Dawn Cryer <dawnvg@aol.com>
Shreveport, LA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:21 AM CST
I juat want to wish Haley a Happy Birthday. I know that she is having the biggest pink birthday in Heaven. I so wish that she could be here with all of us. I am planning on releasing a Happy Birthday Balloon for Haley to play with today. I will celebrate her life in many small ways. I think that I will get a small cake for my little guy to enjoy tonight and we wil sing Happy Birthday to Haley. She is a true wonderment. An angel in Heaven as well as on earth.
Lots of love,
Barb <barbilens@msn.com>
La Crosse, WI USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:16 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!
Anna ~*~FOA/RA~*~ <344tefft@comcast.net>
East Hartford, CT - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:14 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley!!!

Dayna, your post to your daughter brought me to tears. She is so lucky to have you as her mother.
Teri (FOA/RA) <teri22677@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:13 AM CST
Dayna & Alan,
You don't know me but I stumbled across Hayley's page by accident about a month ago, and was just taken aback by how beautiful she was, I was glued to the computer screne for a few hours, reading the whole history, crying, and laughing, by just picturing her chase after the cats. I check on you both often, to see how ya'll are. The first thing I thought of this morning when I woke up was Hayley's birthday, and how you both must be feeling today. I am not even sure what else to say, but that I will continue to pray for you both, and will continue to check in on you both.
Heather Vinson <hdv3902@hotmail.com>
Baytown, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:12 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!

Dayna, your post has me in tears. I will celebrate your beautiful girl's life today.

Sending you extra *HUGS*
Loryn (FOA/RA) <loryn@thebagliones.com>
Columbia, MD - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:10 AM CST
Sorry Dayna i missed the 'y' our of your name ..

Theresa.
Theresa <danjotay@comcast.net>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:03 AM CST
Dana,

i'm in tears,your post is beautiful.

I wish you could give her that hug as well,i don't know what else to say but that i'm thinking of you and Alan and your whole family today.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAYLEY,we love you so much.

Theresa
Executive Director
Cancer Warriors Angel Network
www.cancerwarriors.org

Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:02 AM CST
Happy birthday, sweet Hayley!

Dayna & Alan, you are continuously in my thoughts and prayers, especially today as you celebrate Hayley's amazing life.

Stephany <stephsand28@yahoo.com>
Newcastle, WA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:01 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! I'm sure she is sending you guys a great big hug and kiss too. When you hold each other throughout the day, know that Hayley is right between your hearts giggling and squeezing with all her might to share the love with both of you!
Megan D.
VA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:01 AM CST
You are so right about it being worth all the pain. When I gave birth to my children, the pain was gone. Someday all the pain that you and Alan are experiencing will suddenly be all worth it....when Hayley is waiting on your arrival into eternity. This will all be so far in the past that you will never recall it again.
Linda Lancaster
Pelham, AL USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 10:00 AM CST
I just wanted to stop by and let you know that I will be keeping you all in my prayers today. Many hugs!

Happy Birthday Hayley!!
Michele (FOA/RA) <mshelez@msn.com>
New Jersey, USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:53 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley!!!!

Dayna and Alan, I pray for you as you celebrate Hayley's life and remember the wonderful times you were given with her!! Imagine all the pink at her party in heaven!!!
AShley <jandagordon@comcast.net>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:51 AM CST
We're thinking of you guys today. Happy Birthday sweet girl!
Kirk and Natalie Maxey <nataliemaxey@hotmail.com>
Marietta, GA 30060 - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:49 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Hayley! And, Dayna and Alan, I pray for a great day of celebration for you both in remembering your sweet girl.
Karla
Wichita, ks - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:48 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I know that Jesus is helping Hayley to celebrate the day that her spirit was born!

My prayers are with you. You are truly an inspiration of love.

Connie Bechtolt <mypunkin04@yahoo.net>
Aurora, CO USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:41 AM CST
Praying for you today on Hayley's birthday. I'm sure she is having a huge party in Heaven.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:40 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! We know you are looking down on your Mom and Dad just smiling!
Cheryl Zettler (friend of Catie) <czettler@effingham.k12.ga.us>
Clyo, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:40 AM CST
*~*~HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HAYLEY!!*~*~ I hope you are having a big party, filled with all of your favorite things! I think about you and your family often.
Ginny **Friends of Allie/Raise Awareness** <jgdeegan@msn.com>
Mtn. Home AFB, ID USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:39 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday, precious Hayley.

Prayers for you, Dayna and Alan, as you struggle to make this day one of thanks for the time that you had with her.
Kelley <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:38 AM CST
Happy birthday in Heaven, sweet Hayley.

Sending thoughts, prayers and lots of love...
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:37 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! I know you are having the best party up in Heaven. I continue to pray for your Mommy and Daddy. Love and Miss You Sweet Girl!
N. Sheridan
Richmond, VA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:35 AM CST
We are praying for you today. We do not know you personally but pray for you daily!
Michelle Blair <mblair524@hotmail.com>
LaGrange, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:34 AM CST
Dayna & Alan,
My heart goes out to you both today as you celebrate the life of sweet little Hayley. You will always be two of the most amazing parents I have ever known, even though you don't know me. Thank you for sharing your beautiful girl with us -- and for reminding us what's really important in life.

Take care,

Colette *Pennsylvania FOA*
Warren, PA United States - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:33 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Hayley!!! I think of you so often and see what tremendous things your parents are starting to do in your honor. I'll bet that you are so proud of them as they are of you. I hope that you get that hug your Mom wishes for because you all deserve it! We love you Hayley, and you've changed the way I look at life. I hope you have the best party in heaven.
Kari (FOA/RA) <zfamily00@hotmail.com>
Wauwatosa, WI - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:33 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! We are wearing are brightest pink today just for you! We are sending big hugs, lots of love, and many, many prayers to your mommy and daddy today.
a mommy from MA
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:33 AM CST
Not a day goes by that I don't think about Hayley and what you are going through. Happy birthday sweet angel baby!

Thinking of you,
Kristen and Molly

Kristen Fahey <kristen.fahey@gmail.com>
Hudson, MA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:28 AM CST
May you have a wonderful birthday in heaven today sweet Hayley.....we truly miss you so much....Dana and Alan, may the Lord blessed and watch over you forever...stay strong...:)

God bless
Ozzie <Ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:26 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Sweet Baby Angel. We love you.
Shelley *Colorado FOA* <shelleyburnette@hotmail.com>
Loveland, CO USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:21 AM CST
I have been reading Hayley's journey since this summer. I have never signed the guestbook. I guess I just didn't know what to say.
But today I want to let you know I am thinking of you & your sweet, sweet little Angel on her birthday.
I pray that you & her daddy can find some comfort in this bittersweet day.

Kristine
Hutchinson, MN USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:15 AM CST
I pray that God blesses all of you, Hayley's parents & grandparents, with incredible peace today as Hayley's gift to you on her birthday.
Stacey Sauer <stacey.sauer@angelo.edu>
San Angelo, TX USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:14 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you today. Happy Brithday sweet Hayley, may the heavens be filled with lots of kittens to chase and a big pink rainbow!

Tammy <tammysabel@yahoo.com>
new providence, nj usa - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:11 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley! I hope the angels are singing to you and letting your mommy & daddy know you are watching over them. Have a great day up in Heaven!

Dayna & Alan,
May God give you the extra strength you need to celebrate Hayley's life today with your loved ones. She is no doubt a miracle! God Bless you today and always!

Thinking of you in Texas,
Amber
Amber McElreath <crazy43@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:09 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday, Sweet Hayley!! Enjoy your special day. I'm sure you are celebrating with all of your favorite things--horses, cats, dogs, music and pink frosting on your cake! Lots of love and birthday wishes, Carin Geraci
Carin Geraci <tcrgeraci@earthlink.net>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:06 AM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HAYLEY!!! I can see the fluffy pink dress you must be wearing today. I hope you have fun!

Dayna and Alan, your strength is remarkable - no wonder Hayley is Teflon! I will always celebrate the life given to Hayley! She is very special to me and my Bethie! They are both 'kitty chasers!'

Love, Jill Martin
Volunteer Coordinator, Heroes for Children <jill.martin70@gmail.com>
www.heroesforchildren.org, - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:05 AM CST
My thoughts and Prayers are with you, on this special day. Happy Birthday Haley !!!
Love, Karen
FOA/RA
Plano, Texas
Karen <ksperdue@sbcglobal.net>
Plano, TX USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:03 AM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet angel Hayley!

Dayna and Alan, I know today must be so hard and bittersweet. So difficult to celebrate Hayley's life without her there. Please know that you are in the heart and prayers of so many. May Hayley visit you both in your dreams tonight!

Hugs,
Angie Dotson <adotson@chum.net>
Earlysville, VA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:03 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet girl. I hope Jesus is throwing a huge party for you. With all your friends and family. Sure wish you could be here with us, but we know you are in a better place. You are loved and missed so much.

Lord - please give this family strength during this difficult time. Be with them, hold there hands and warm there heart. Please give them comfort.
Mindi & CamiJo (FOA/RA) <mopoelwijk@cs.com>
Sun Valley, NV USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:02 AM CST
Just wanted you to know I was thinking and praying for you today. I can not imagine how hard it is for you today and everyday. But, know that God will give you the extra little bit of strength you need to make it through each hurdle you encounter. My prayers are for your entire family.
Someone you have never met from GA,
Meredith
Meredith M Smith
Manchester, Ga - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:01 AM CST
Dearest Alan and Dayna,

I'm thinking of you and your family today with sadness but also with joy for the gift of Hayley. My heart aches that you are without your sweet girl, but I know that she is snuggled in Jesus's lap, giggling and smiling as He gives her a big birthday hug and tells her over and over again how precious she is, how she was given to the perfect parents at the perfect time, how much her Mommy and Daddy love her, and how much she is and will forever be adored by them.

-from "THE DANCE" by Garth Brooks
And now I'm glad I didn't know
The way it all would end, the way it all would go
Our lives are better left to chance
I could have missed the pain but I'd of had to miss the dance.

Dayna and Alan, I'm so glad you didn't have to "miss the dance."

God bless you today, and always. Thank you once again for sharing Hayley with us. She continues to teach so many about grace and beauty.

Kathy (Friends of Allie)
Richardson, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:01 AM CST
I am thinking of you today.
Johanna <johannastuart@juno.com>
Flagstaff, AZ USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 9:01 AM CST
Happy B'Day.. Hayley..
pooktx
Houston, TX US - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:54 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley. I know that you are having a wonderful day, because you are in the best place ever. What better way to have a birthday and have Jesus by your side. It must be awesome.

Dayna and Alan, I am praying for you today as I know this day has to be very hard for you. I pray exspecially for your strength to get you through.

Love In Christ
Jennifer Lammie

Jennifer Lammie <jlammie@hrflegal.com>
Villa Rica , GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:52 AM CST
Oh Dayna! What a beautiful post! We will all be celebrating Hayley's birthday along with you! HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAYLEY!! I HOPE YOU ARE CELEBRATING YOUR DAY WITH ALLIE AND ALL THE OTHER PRECIOUS ANGELS! BIG HUGS Dayna and Allan~ you will be in our thoughts and prayers today as you are always. HUGS
Melissa McCarthy (Friends of Allie/RA) <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:52 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!!!!! Have fun celebrating in your pretty pink dress with all the cats, dogs and horses in Heaven. Have a wonderful birthday! Dayna and Alan know that as always my thoughts are with you today. Many hugs and good thoughts going your way. You are in my prayers.

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer
Hastings, NE USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:51 AM CST
Happy birthday sweet baby girl. I know you are having the best day of your life!! Dayna and Alan - you are in my prayers. You have so much strength and understanding - thanks for sharing. God Bless you every day of your life
Lynn (Angels in Atlanta) <pearcys74@msn.com>
Sharpsburg, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:50 AM CST
Know this is a hard day for you! You are in our prayers
Heather Burns <hlbtburns@yahoo.com>
Macon, Ga 31210 - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:49 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!!!! I just know you're celebrating like crazy, pink dress, puppies, horses and all. Dayna and Alan, my thoughts and prayers are with you today... as they are every day.
Michelle ** Friends of Allie** <goingflyin@yahoo.com>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:45 AM CST
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley,
Happy Birthday to you.

I am thinking of you today sweet Angel Hayley. I am so sure that you are having a wonderful party filled with love and laughter.

Dayna and Alan, please know that you both are in my thoughts and prayers today. Thank you so much for continuing to share Hayley's life with all of us.
Tracy (Friends of Allie) & (Raising Awareness) <feeneyd@earthlink.net>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:45 AM CST
Celebrating with you today the life of your beautiful daughter. Our world is a better place because Hayley was here. Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley!

Renee (FoA/RA) <rudolphs88@msn.com>
Hagerstown, MD USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:43 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Haley...
Melanie "New England Friends of Allie""Raise Awareness" <MINGRAHAM@MEMUN.ORG>
Augusta, ME USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:41 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet angel baby!
The Welton Family <rwelton72@sbcglobal.net>
Burleson, TX 76028 - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:41 AM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet girl. Always thinking and remembering you.

Amy
Amy
thousand oaks, California US - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:41 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley.
Cindy <deb8able@aol.com>
Chesterfield, VA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:41 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!
I'm sporting my pink shirt today and will have some ice cream tonight to celebrate your life. Dayna & Alan.. thanks for sharing your beautiful little angel with all of us. She has touched my heart and the heart of so many others.

Tara FOA/RA
Zion, IL - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:40 AM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SWEET BABY GIRL!

Nancy - ^/\^Friends Of Allie^/\^ & Raise Awareness
Chula Vista, CA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:39 AM CST
Thinking of you today, as I do everyday. I pray that Hayley is having a heavenly birthday party with all her favorite animals and is in the arms of Jesus. Dayna and Alan - may you have this day to reflect on the amazing 22months you were given with this amazing, spunky little girl. Thoughts and Prayers.

Happy Birthday Hayley!
Carissa <cwoleslagl@state.pa.us>
Hershey, PA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:38 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley.
Tina & Lance-www.caringbridge.org/md/lance <lneonkia@comcast.net>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:37 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!! I'm sure pink balloons are flooding heaven today.
Peg Poma <ppoma@firstcommunities.net>
Marietta, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:37 AM CST
Thinking of you today. Happy 2nd Birthday sweet Haley!
Michelle from FOA/RA <chellrome@bellsouth.net>
Lake Mary, FL - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:35 AM CST
I am praying for you every day, but especially today. May God hold you close, just as He is holding your precious little girl close to His great heart.

Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:35 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Hayley.
Sara <jeffsara@telus.net>
Port moody, BC Canada - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:32 AM CST
Happy birthday sweet angel. I am positive you are sporting a beautiful pink dress on your day today. Please know you continue to inspire SO MANY people, we love you and think of you lots. Have fun today Hayley!
Wendy <wapeters@cox.net>
Mesa, AZ USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:31 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday, Sweet Angel! Dayna and Alan, you're in my thoughts and prayers today.
Cate Crowley
Coppell, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:29 AM CST
I'm sorry about what happened to your daughter I know your going through rough time right now , but you got to hold on to god he will see you through your time need.
Sherri <cylover32@yahoo.com>
Thomasville, Ga United States - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:28 AM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
I know your beautiful angel Hayley is celebrating her 2nd birthday today with Allie and all the other precious angels! I know the wonderful and fond memories you have of her will stay in your hearts forever, and that you will be able to celebrate this day with even more love for her year after year. You are such a wonderful family, and I hope God blesses you with anything your hearts desire....
Happy birthday Hayley!

Timi Tikos "Friends of Allie" "Raise Awareness" <etikos@comcast.net>
Drexel Hill, Pa USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:26 AM CST
Your post was absolutely beautiful. I want to send Happy Birthday wishes to your angel. 22 months of memories of Hayley is a wonderful gift. Enjoy your the sweet memories of your angel. Happy Birthday, Hayley!

Leslie
Kyle, Jack and Cecilia
Leslie <ohcecilia228@gmail.com>
Harleysville, PA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:25 AM CST
I am sure Hayley is having a great big birthday party in heaven. When my little one passed away, what would of been her first birthday was the hardest day of my life. But, I would not have changed a thing. I only had her for 3 days but it was the best 3 days of my life. Celebrate Hayleys life today and enjoy her memories. She is always with you. God bless you.
tammy <tammy.hammock@delta.com>
sharpsburg, ga - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:23 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Hayley! It's your day to shine! Dance, play, smile, and chase kitties! Dayna and Alan, I pray for peace for you today and always. I can't imagine what a difficult day it must be! Hayley's life was definitely one worth celebrating! She's been a miracle to so many! Please remember that so many here are wishing you all the best!
Brenda Thomason <KBThomason@comcast.net>
Manteca, CA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:21 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley!!!!!

Thoughts of you are alive as ever!
Sonya London <funnyfarm67@yahoo.com>
Derby, KS - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:18 AM CST
Know that many are thinking of Haley and praying for her dear family today! We are friends of Dani who Haley received treatment alongside and also attenders of Perimeter. Though you don't know us, we have prayed with you all along the way and continue to be in constant prayer for you!
Brooke Woody
Duluth, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:18 AM CST

Happy Birthday Hayley. God bless you both Dayna and Alan.

Suzanne <suzmaher@yahoo.com>
va - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:17 AM CST
Oh Hayley!!! Happy 2nd Birthday Angel!!! I bet your so beautiful in a pretty pink dress donned with your beautiful wings! How I wish I could see you but how I wish so much more you where here with your mom and dad!

I hope you have a rockin party up there! Know that we are partying hard for you here as we see your cute little face dance thru our head!
Angel Dawn <dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:15 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Hayley. I am sure that there is a big party in Heaven for such a sweet girl. My sweet 13 year-old cat passed away suddenly on Monday and I like to think that maybe He was getting her ready for Hayley's party...she would be a great cat to chase (she was certainly my friend when I didn't have anything else).
The births of each of my 3 children hold such a special place in my heart and those days will forever be etched in my memory...I pray that today you will think of only the happiest memories!
Sally <sally_pete@msn.com>
Woodstock, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:11 AM CST
I hope today brings you many wonderful memories of your sweet beautiful girl that will lift your hearts to the heavens. We know she's getting hugs all around as she watches her mommy and daddy today...and how proud she must be of the grace, dignity and FAITH with which you place your trust in the Lord. Your little girl has touched many lives and today, I will celebrate her life! Many prayers are lifting you up today and holding you close...many cyber-hugs being sent your way!
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta <skc62@juno.com>
Suwanee, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:09 AM CST
Thinking of you today. Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley!
Janetann Lenz FoA <pjabslenz@hotmail.com>
Southport, NC USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 8:05 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Hayley!! Thankyou, Dayna, for sharing your thoughts so openly with us{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}You both are such awesome, inspirational people.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner@earthlink.net>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:55 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Hayley!!!!! Dayna and Alan,My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.
Tracey Harvey <traceyharvey@cox.net>
Byron, Ga - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:54 AM CST
Thinking of you today!! Happy birthday baby Hayley.
Robin Brunet <robinb@neptune.on.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:54 AM CST
Thinking of you today on Hayleys brthday.My prayers are with you.
Karen <karen0801@aol.com>
McKinney, Tx - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:53 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Hayley!!!!! Dayna and Alan,My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.
Tracey Harvey <traceyharvey@cox.net>
Byron, Ga - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:52 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley! You are missed so much, even by people like me who never met you.
Sending loving thoughts to you, Dayna and Alan!!
You have the right attitude, I hope today brings more joy than sadness. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Karen ~ Friends of Allie/ Raise Awareness ~
Stow, OH - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:51 AM CST
Dayna & Alan:

We still haven't met however, we're more connected every day.....today is our Will's 8th birthday. How wonderful that Hayley and Will share this day! How interesting that 2 years ago today your sweet Hayley was born and your day was so joyous. While two years ago Will had just been discharged from Scottish Rite after his first chemo treatment, was feeling very sick on his birthday and our world was still spinning out of control from his diagnosis.

We know God has a plan for all of us and we continue to trust in him. We'll pray for you and think of you on this very special day. We look forward to meeting you soon!!

Hugs,
Will, Clare, Phil & Jane

Alan: How funny that you met my co-worker & friend, Maggie Roe, at Fuddrucker's this week! She returned to the office and couldn't wait to tell me she'd met you. Then, we walked down the hall to tell Amy Bowling, who also works with us, that Maggie had just met you. (Maggie didn't know you're such good friends with Amy). What a small, small world!
The Hennessy's <hennessy@mindspring.com>
East Cobb, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:51 AM CST
You are both the most amazing people I have ever had the pleasure to "know". I hope your strength and faith can be an inspiration to many! Hayley touched so many people's lives, most she never even met.

Happy birthday sweet angel! Hope you are having a wonderful birthday with all your angel friends!!!

We love you baby girl!
Becka RA <rlmarsch@nycap.rr.com>
Delmar, NY USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:50 AM CST
Thinking of you today as you celebrate the birthday of your most precious gift, a child that didn't stay on earth long enough, but accomplished more in her short life than most people hope to in 100 years.

Happy Birthday Hayley!
Amie from FOA/RA
nc - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:47 AM CST
I found this poem on another site and I thought of Hayley it is called * My First Birthday in Heaven* It's my first Birthday in Heaven What a Joy to Partake. My presents are Flowers and Rainbows and angelfood cake. My crib is decorated with roses and glitter. And the stars that shine on around me make everything shimmer. The other angels are dancing and singing me songs. Soon Jesus will be joining me it won't be long.We'll all gather and pray for my loved ones on earth Who loved me so much since the day of my birth. You see Birthdays in heaven are full of happiness and cheer. We celebrate with our loved ones who proceed us here. yes Birthdays in heaven are wonderful and gay. One day we will celebrate together, For that moment Mommy and Daddy i pray. May you have Peace as you remember your precious little girl. My thoughts and prayers are with both of you today. ((HUGS)))
Kim Cyr (FOA) (RA) <kimcyr@hotmail.com>
Woodstock,NB, Canada - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:43 AM CST
Children of the heav'nly Father
Safely to his bosom gather;
Nestling bird or star in heaven
Such a refuge ne'er was given.

God his own doth tend and nourish,
In his holy courts they flourish.
From all evil things he spares them,
In his mighty arms he bears them.

Neither life nor death shall ever
From the Lord his children sever;
Unto them his grace he showeth
And their sorrows all he knoweth.

Though he giveth or he taketh,
God his children ne'er forsaketh;
His the loving purpose solely
To preserve them pure and holy.

How thankful I am that you know Him and that He knows you. He is faithful.

akh
Holland, MI - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:38 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! Dayna and Alan, I hope your day is filled with wonderful memories of your precious daughter. She was a wonderful gift from God to so many. Her memory lingers in the hearts of thousands of family, friends, and strangers. Many of whom are thinking of you today and sending prayers to heaven for sweet birthday wishes along with wishes for your own happiness and well being. {{{HUGS}}} You are never far from my thoughts.
Monica F <filyaw@bellsouth.net>
Florence, SC - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:33 AM CST
Happy Happy Birthday to Hayley and loving thoughts to you both!
You are always in our prayers,
Tiffany , Frank, Jordan, and Jacob <murphy108@comcast.net>
GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:30 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet, sweet girl! I hope your birthday in heaven is wonderful for you! Dayna and Alan, my thoughts are with you on this tough day.
Kristin ~Friends of Allie~ <khicks2@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:29 AM CST
God Bless you, Dayna and Alan. I know this is going to be a tough day. I know Hayley is surrounded with more love than we can ever imagine. I pray that your 22 wonderful months of memories will stay with you until you are reunited with your sweet girl. Hugs from Nashville. Happy Birthday, Hayley!
Nancy <nall3860@aol.com>
- Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:27 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley Girl! I am thinking of you today and I hope you have a wonderful party!
Amy FOA/RA
Amy Smith <smithfamily99@charter.net>
N.Richland Hills, Tx USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:21 AM CST
happy birthday sweet haley!!!!!! little sweet angel blow mom and dad many kisses. they are watching. a bittersweet day to remember but with love abound. love tonya
tonya cinnamon <tonyacinnamon@knology.net>
knoxville, tn usa - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:20 AM CST
Happy Birthday Haley ! Today we are having a special picnic lunch with pink cupcakes to celebrate Haley's wonderful life and how she touched so many people. Dayna and Allan even though this day will be a very hard one I know you will take comfort in all the memories and joys you had with your precious girl.
Michele, Kaitlyn and Lindsey <mdelong@cogeco.ca>
Oakville, ON Canada - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:19 AM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet Hayley! I hope that Heaven is throwing you a wonderful party.
Dayna and Allan, you amaze me. I'll be saying lots of extra prayers for you both today.
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:17 AM CST
Happy Birthday Hayley! What a wonderful day for you to remember and rejoice at the wondrous gift you were given, though for an all-too-short time. I wish you love and peace today and laughter through the tears. May the love you have for each other and for Hayley shine brightly today and always. You are all in my heart and prayers...
Lara Shields, Friends of Alle/Raise Awareness <lara_shields@mac.com>
NH - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:11 AM CST
I haven't signed your guestbook in awhile but I just want you to know that I think of y'all everyday!! I hope you are able to do something to celebrate your beautiful girl today and that the day holds more joy than sorrow. Happy birthday sweet angel girl. I know you are eating cake and ice cream in heaven....God Bless you all, Jan
Janice <jimjan03@yahoo.ca>
Rothesay, NB Canada - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:08 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet Angel Hayley.
Dayna and Alan you are in my thoughts and prayers today and everyday.
Christy FOA/RA
Cleveland, OH USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:08 AM CST
I wanted to come by today to check in with you guys - since I know this will not be an easy day for you all. I wanted you to know that I will be thinking of sweet Hayley all day today, on what would have been her 2nd birthday. I have a vision of her dressed all in pink, dancing up in heaven, chasing lots of cats!! My heart and thoughts are with you both today, and every day. Please hold on to eachother, and to the happy memories of your gorgeous girl. I wish there was something more profound I could say, other than I'm thinking of you.
Barri <barrikim@optonline.net>
North Bellmore, NY USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:06 AM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley! May the choir of Angels sing to you on your special day! My continue prayers for your family....
Cindy Mellen
Ellicott, Md - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:06 AM CST
Happy Birthday to Heaven's Sweetest Angel Hayley!
You are truly missed here on earth but your love is felt everywhere!

Amy McEvoy***FoA/RA <amemac1@aol.com>
Lincoln Park, NJ USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:03 AM CST
The first words out of Meghan's mouth this morning were "today is Hayley Thomson's birthday Mom", so we just wanted to stop by and say ... Happy Birthday Hayley !!! We can only imagine the hoopla today in Heaven :)

Alan & Dayna, Out thoughts are with you and your beautiful girl. Celebrate the gift you received 2 years ago today and dream of forever together.

Kathi <scrapntime@hotmail.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:02 AM CST
Happy birthday, sweet Hayley!
Dayna and Alan, you are in my thoughts and prayers daily, but especially today. I know you must miss your angel terribly, but I hope that you have a happy day today celebrating Hayley's life and recalling all of the wonderful moments you had with her.
I wish you peace and comfort.
Jenn Huston <jennifer.k.huston@citigroup.com>
South Bend, IN - Thursday, February 3, 2005 7:00 AM CST
Happy Birthday sweet angel Hayley!

Thinking of you on this bittersweet day, Dayna and Alan.

Hugs,
Susan
~MN FOA~
Susan Bernhardt <dshszb5@yahoo.com>
zimmerman, MN - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:52 AM CST
Dayna & Allan-
I wish you peace and comfort on this very special day. May you spend it recalling all of the joy that Hayley brought to your life, and to the lives of others all over the world who you may never meet. Thank you for sharing your sweet angel with us!

Naidne <ngbilinski@hotmail.com>
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:50 AM CST
Happy Birthday little angel as you celebrate your first birthday with Jesus.

Dayna and Alan, my thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Lois
NJ - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:48 AM CST
Happy Birthday precious Hayley! I'm sure all of heaven is celebrating with you! We miss you terribly here on earth, but know how happy you really are! I pray for your sweet mommy and daddy that they can somehow celebrate on this hard, yet wonderful day! You blessed their lives in ways that I"m sure they can't even explain. And boy, have you blessed mine. I can't wait to meet you myself and I will one day when I am able to go "home", too. I pray that God will allow your mommy and daddy sweet "glimpses" of you all throughout this special day. We honor you, sweet Hayley! May you truely have a happy day
a friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
LaGrange, Ga - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:40 AM CST
Happy birthday Hayley!
Dayna and Alan, I hope this is a happy day for both of you, remembering your girl and all her wonderful memories. I am thinking of you today (and most everyday really).

Hillary West <tigger4817@aol.com>
Chesapeake, VA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:27 AM CST
Thinking of you on this special day.. God bless
Tammy <mom2my3kids@gmail.com>
Terre Haute, IN - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:25 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I hope this day is peaceful for you and you have all the wonderful memories of your beautiful daughter, Hayley.
She was such an inspiring little girl for her short time here on earth.
Take care
Liz <laliz22@aol.com>
Chicago, il - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:14 AM CST
Happy Birthday, Angel Hayley!
Heather <hollybelle7376@earthlink.net>
Howard, OH - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:07 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Hayley in heavan. Thanks for sharing your sweet sweet daughter with us. I continue to pray for both you Dayna and Alan.
Kristin FOA/RA <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
Nekoosa, WI - Thursday, February 3, 2005 6:05 AM CST
Happy Second Birthday Hayley! Dayna and Alan I will be thinking about you throughout the day today. Thank you again for sharing your precious little girl with us.
Teryl Stroud ~FOA/RA~ <toto8525@gmail.com>
Wylie, TX 75098 - Thursday, February 3, 2005 5:42 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Sweet Angel Hayley! I hope you are having lots of fun. Lots of running, lots of cake and balloons. We all miss you sweet girl, you are so pretty. Thank you for shining your beautiful light on us all.
Melinda Bogan~FOA/RA~
West Carrollton, OH USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 4:43 AM CST
Tonight, I sat and read Hayley's story from beginning to end. I "met" you all back around November or so, but never actually read the whole story until now. I have to say, it was so hard for me to do this, but I felt it was a tribute to Hayley on her 2nd birthday to honor her valiant fight with remembering. Knowing the whole story makes me so much more heartbroken for you, Dayna and Alan. My own daughter is 18 months old and reading about Hayley during those summer months last year and all the things she was doing only reminded me of my little girl. So now, after crying countless tears and hoping that when I got to the end, the outcome would be different than what I knew to be true, I say thank you for sharing your daughter with me. May Hayley have a beautiful birthday today. May she soar on angels' wings and never be far from your sides. And may the two of you have peace in your hearts on this hard but wonderful day. Best wishes for happy memories of your girl today---love to you both, and especially, Hayley.
Lauren Pena (FOA/RA) <lauren.pena@gmail.com>
Salinas, CA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 3:04 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Sweet Hayley! I'm sitting here staring at your picture on the Childhood Cancer Calendar. I know you are having a good time up there! I imagine balloons everywhere & a huge cake. I bet you are dancing all over the place. One big happy party up there!

Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday dear Hayley!
Happy Birthday to you!

Dear Dayna & Alan,
I'm thinking of you today & you are in my prayers. I know its going to be a hard day, but I'm thinking of you. Your daughter is so beautiful. You are wonderful parents & just try to stay strong!

Stacey (FOA/RA) <ashlynmom23@yahoo.com>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 2:28 AM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet Hayley.
I am sitting here in the wee hours of your birthday thinking of you and your Mommy and Daddy. I know that heaven is celebrating all that is you today, and I pray that your wonderful, generous, loving parents are comforted as they too celebrate your life.
How you are loved, little one. What a wonderous thing to find your little fingerprints on so many hearts. Hearts that are broken, filled with a new sense of purpose, hearts that have been handed over to Christ all because of you. They too are eager to meet you someday in our real home.

Dayna and Alan, I wish you so much peace and comfort today. May you feel all of the love and tenderness from all who love you.

God Bless,
Kimberly
Kimberly Johnson <mommy2spencer@hotmail.com>
Suwanee, GA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 1:08 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Angel Hayley.... I am sending pooh up to give you a beautiful balloon for you to play with today

Dayna and Alan you continue to be in my thoughts daily and you remain in my prayers as you continue down the hardest road any parent ever was given..... my warmest wishes are with you especially today as you remember that wonderful day 2 years ago that God gave you the most wonderful gift.
Jane Kahl (Wisconsin FOA) <kahlja@charter.net>
Sun Prairie, WI USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 0:15 AM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday, Sweet Hayley!! Alan & Dayna, I know that this day will be so difficult. I am praying that you get some sort of sign from Hayley that will get you through the day & bring a smile to your face, in spite of your pain. Please know we are all lifting you up in prayer! {{hugs}}
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Thursday, February 3, 2005 0:07 AM CST
Dayna, Alan and especially Hayley...
Your strength continues to amaze and inspire!
Lifting you up in prayer everyday, especially on Hayley's birthday. May you embrace happy memories and celebrate the life of a beautiful little girl who touched the hearts of so many in such a short time. I think about you all everyday, and pray for God's peace to surround you. May He hold you all in the palm of His hand and heal you as only He can. Happy Birthday sweet baby girl!!
Kristin Schauer <schauers@powercom.net>
Fredonia, WI USA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 11:28 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
Here I am up passed midnight and you came into my mind. I linked over and noticed what today is for you. Hayley's birthday....
May God embrace you with His presence with peace, comfort and strength...
Happy Birthday Hayley....
Robin, mom to Mitch <vb11potsy1@yahoo.com>
Senoia, GA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 11:26 PM CST
Happy Birthday, sweet Hayley. I hope you are having one big giant party up there in heaven! We miss you here and we sure love your mom and dad! Don't worry, Hayley. We'll take good care of them for you until you are back together for eternity.
Love,
Kristin
Kristin, Mike, Ryan and Brandon Connor (www.caringbridge.org/ga/brandonconnor) <kristin.connor@comcast.net>
Norcross, GA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 11:14 PM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley~~Alan and Dayna I am thinking about you~~~
Amanda <iammadisonsmom@msn.com>
- Wednesday, February 2, 2005 10:08 PM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Sweet Girl! I am praying for your mommy and daddy everyday. ((((HUGS))) from Minnesota
Natasha Zahler <Natashazahler@charter.net>
Monticello, MN - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 10:02 PM CST
Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley! You are in my thoughts and prayers every day.
Sully Meek <Sully@Meek.com>
Cumming, Ga USA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 8:45 PM CST
Thinking of Hayley everyday, especially tomorrow, on her 2nd birthday. I wish, so badly, she could be here celebrating with you both. I think of her so many times throughout the day and have to just shake my head at how unfair this all is. You two are WONDERFUL parents. She is so lucky to have you (and I say IS because she still has you!!!) Good luck tomorrow, on your very precious Angel Hayley's 2nd Birthday.
Caroline <caroline.moore@earthlink.net>
Johnstown, Oh USA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 8:38 PM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Sweet Angel Hayley

I'll be sending a birthday balloon your way tomorrow!!!
Crossing my fingers and toes that they have a pink one just for you!!!

They must have a beautiful pink birthday cake picked out just for you!! What a party you will have!!!

Happy Birthday Hayley!!!

Dayna and Alan thinking of you as you celebrate Hayley's first birthday with Hayley up in Heaven, and you down here. Be strong and know that you both are WONDERFUL parents, and are truely blessed to have such a beautiful daughter that has touched so many people!!!
Kristie <GymnDragon80@aol.com>
Westfield, MA USA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 8:24 PM CST
Thompson Family, I've been thinking about you more than usual this week and then I remebered that yesterday was Hayley's birthday. Please know that you all remain in my prayers and my heart as you continue on. Know too that Hayley touched my heart and has taught me so much. Thank you again for sharing her with us.
Rachel C. <lilcrazymamac@hotmail.com>
TX - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 8:24 PM CST
With February 3rd on the horizon, I'm sending my love across the miles. I think of your beautiful girl every day. I come here often just to see her precious little face. And when tomorrow comes, this family will celebrate the 2nd anniversary of her birth...we know her soul is radiant and ALIVE. Prayers for your family are sent from our home each night. Trust Him, Dayna and Alan, the plan is unfolding before our eyes. And in the words of Tom (Ben's father): Continue "Believing God's promises"
Amy A.
Lincoln, NE USA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 8:21 PM CST
Thinking of you especially this week, Thomson family! Praying for you as Hayley is in Heaven for her 2nd birthday.

I've been back to read your updates, but find it difficult to know what to write in the guestbook. Words are so insufficient... Nonetheless, you are still in my prayers as you adopt a 'new normal'.

I do miss reading about your precious daughter and seeing pictures of her sweet smile and "puffy and round cheeks" (as my 4 yr old would affectionately say!). Hayley knew how to light up a room with her 1000-watt smile. I never had the joy to see it in person, but could tell simply by her pictures!

Your testimony and Hayley's life touched my heart. I will always remember the glimpse of Heaven she gave to you. It inspires me to always seek God. Thank you for sharing her story so openly. God bless you!

Jenn B.
~*FOA/RA*~
Fresno, CA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 8:18 PM CST
I'm thinking of you ahead of tommorow,i've got a candle i'll be lighting for Hayley tommorow morning as well and will send her tons of love as i do so.We all miss our brave warrior Hayley,
You're in my thoughts always,
Theresa
Executive Director
Cancer Warriors Angel Network
www.cancerwarriors.org
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 8:03 PM CST
I think of you so much. Hayley is in my thoughts so many different times. I picture her beautiful face in all the pictures of her I have seen. I will say extra prayers for you tomorrow, her birthday, so that your faith which has pulled you thru this dark time, will be even stronger. And again, I want to thank you for sharing your sweet precious girl with so many!
Karen ~ Friends of Allie ~
Stow, OH - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 5:36 PM CST

I got your website from Kylie's. After reading your post, which touched my heart, I had to send a note to say what a gorgeous little girl Hayley is. I'm sure God needed that special little one in just that special place in heaven. What a doll! And what special parents she had here on earth...I know your lives have touched many and will continue to do so. May God's blessings continue to uphold you daily and may you find rest in His loving arms.

Patty Miller <prmiller77@earthlink.net>
Acworth, GA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 5:23 PM CST
To Hayley's Mamma and Daddy- I am thinking of you as her 2nd birthday falls near. Oh how I wish she was with you to celebrate. But I do take some comfort knowing- She will always be beautiful, she will always be young, she will always be healthy. I think that is a great birthday gift. And- I am sure she will be filling those cheecks with cupcakes up in heaven. Ooo.. what a party up there!!!
I wish I had something profound to say to you, but there are no words to express what baby Hayley did for thousands of people.
She made me want to be a better mother. She made me never take one day for granted. She showed the world how brave she was right until the end, and most of all she brought us all to you. I think you both are amazing people. Though we have never met, I think you are wonderful, strong, brave and giving. You shared your sweet baby with us, and I feel very privileged for knowing her story.
We all celebrate with you tomorrow.
God bless,

Laurie F **Friends of Allie**
Minneapolis, Mn - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 5:15 PM CST
To Dayna & Alan, and especially Hayley. As it's now the 3rd here in New Zealand, I wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of your family today. I hope you can smile today as you remember all the beautiful times with your special girl. She is truely missed. Happy Birthday Sweet Princess Hayley. xxx

Yvonne - FOA/RA and mummy to Rachael & Emily <yvonne.nicholson@xtra.co.nz>
Auckland, New Zealand - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 3:20 PM CST
It has been awhile since I signed the guestbook, but I still check in daily. I just wanted to let you all know that I will be praying for you as you face Hayley's birthday! You are amazing people. Keep trusting in Him!!
Ashley <jandagordon@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, February 2, 2005 2:35 PM CST
We're thinking of your family today! I hope today passes with smiles on the life you shared with sweet Hayley. I hope today brings you nothing but warmth at the thoughts of your sweet daughter! Hugs and Prayers and of course Happy Birthday sweet Angel!
Renee and Family ~~~FOA's/RA~~~
- Wednesday, February 2, 2005 2:34 PM CST
Thinking of you today. Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers on this very special day.

Happy Birthday Sweet Hayley

Valerie **FOA/RA** <vmoline@gmail.com>
Houston, TX USA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 1:05 PM CST
Just thinking of you today
Sahwvmom@aol.com <sahwvmom@aol.com>
WV - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 12:38 AM CST
Dayna, Alan
You are in my mind and prayers. I met little Hayley at Scottish Rite when I used to visit Merrill. She touched our hearts so much. I attended the Celebration of Life for her which was beautiful. I have 3 little girls and when they pray at night they always say (in German, since I am trying to teach them german)"Please make Merrill healthy and little Hayley and all the kids they are sick" I have not told them that Hayley has gone to heaven, it is still hard for me to tell them ( they are 5,4 and 1)
I just wanted to tell you that you are in our minds and little Hayley touched our lives so much and changed the way we appreciate love and time together. YOU have been such great parents and I was amazed every day by your strengh and believes.
Happy Birthday sweet Hayley. We'll be thinking of you.
We miss you

Rosi Coronado <rcoronado@ase-inc.net>
- Wednesday, February 2, 2005 9:48 AM CST
Just thinking of you all again today. Know you are in my thougths and prayers!!!!

Mandy (FOA/RA)
Amanda Bauer <abauer@adamscounty.org>
Hastings, NE USA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 9:45 AM CST
Thinking of you today on this MOST special day! Thank you for the gift of 'Haley'! We are so thankful for you! Celebrate the day..... and the precious memories of a VERY precious little girl!
D.D. Dixon <d.d.dixon@comcast.net>
Canton, GA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 9:41 AM CST
We'll be thinking of you and lifting you up in prayer to help get you through the day tomorrow. Your beautiful Angel is in our hearts every day.
Sharon, Angels in Atlanta <skc62@juno.com>
suwanee, GA - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 8:56 AM CST
I can't imagine how difficult this week must be for you. Please know that we are thinking of you often and praying for you every day. By the way, Hayley painted us a gorgeous sunrise this morning! Thank you, sweet Hayley!
Chrissy Pierce
Kingsport, TN - Wednesday, February 2, 2005 7:31 AM CST
I find it hard to come to Hayley's site but I must because I want to know how you two are doing! I wear my green CureSearch braclet ever so proudly and it is my show of Hayley! I will forever love that little girl. I only wish that I could have seen her just once! I think of you guys often.
Angel Dawn <dawn7246@wi.rr.com>
Milwaukee, WI USA - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 11:02 PM CST
These days when I think of Hayley, I always feel that Heaven is even more "Heavenly" now that she is present there. Unfortunately, the world is a lesser place without her.
Please try to take comfort in knowing that Hayley's amazing strength and courage (as well as your own) will forever be remembered by so many.
And, somewhere over the rainbow...she is smiling down at us all.

Anne and Clay McHann <clayandanne@aol.com>
- Tuesday, February 1, 2005 7:03 PM CST
I miss Hayley too. But not nearly as much as you. Stay strong.
Mindi & CamiJo <mopoelwijk@cs.com>
Sun Valley, NV USA - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 6:04 PM CST
I feel so sad when I think of your sweet Hayley and all that you must bear. I can only imagine how your heart is torn. I hope it somehow helps, even if a little, to know that I (like MANY others)am forever changed by Hayley and your testimony. I look at her pictures several times a day....I can only imagine how many times you must look at them. Hayley is alive in so many ways! You and Alan are constantly lifted up in prayer for every single second that you face without sweet Hayley. I struggle so deeply with understanding childhood cancer. I pray that God will allow a cure to this terrible disease.
your friend <joycwelch@yahoo.com>
LaGrange, Ga - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 2:44 PM CST
Happy 2nd Birthday Miss Hayley

may you day be wonderful as you play with the angels above...you are very much loved and missed!!
Jody <jlk923@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, February 1, 2005 2:23 PM CST
I am so SORRY DAYNA! I can't imagine what you are going through!!! I wanted you to know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Great job on getting over one hurdle, we will be with you in spirit as you face the others. HUGS and PRAYERS
Melissa McCarthy (Friends of Allie) <melnjess2002@yahoo.com>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 1:40 PM CST
Just wanted to let you both know that you continue to be held close in our hearts in prayer.

Love,The Drabyk Family
Roger,Alexandra,Samantha,Cassidy and 'Cookie' <rdrabyk@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, MB Canada - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 1:40 PM CST
After I saw a few pictures of her in her Gymboree clothes, I started thinking of Hayley when I went in there or saw the ads. We are thinking of you especially at this time. You have every right to feel or say anything you want or need to.
Shari Wheat <shariw1@yahoo.com>
cumming, ga - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 1:39 PM CST
Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you often. Praying for you more.
Sandy Gay <sandrabrunergay@hotmail.com>
Edison, GA - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 1:12 PM CST
Just thinking of you today. I am praying for you both...
Tiffany , Frank, Jordan, and Jacob <murphy108@comcast.net>
GA - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 12:13 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
I am stopping in to see how both of you are doing. I so enjoy reading your journal updates. I cannot imagine the pain and lonliness you feel. But I do believe that Haley is watching over both her mommy and daddy and giving you the necessary strength to adjust. Haley is such a beautiful little Angel. God is with you both, holding you in his hands. You are in my heart.
Lots of love, hugs and prayers,
Barb <barbilens@msn.com>
La Crosse, WI USA - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 10:17 AM CST
I flipped the page on my calendar last night and saw beautiful Hayley. Everytime I see her beautiful face, I will say a prayer for your family.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 9:45 AM CST
just checking in and wanted to let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers....stay strong and keep up the good work....:)

God bless
ozzie <Ovieira@hartz.com>
Harrison, NJ - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 9:27 AM CST
I actually had heard that song on the radio a couple of days ago and was thinking of your family. How difficult it must be, although I can not imagine. We are praying for your peace.
Jacquelyne Wright <jdwright@optonline.net>
Dunellen, NJ USA - Tuesday, February 1, 2005 7:25 AM CST
Still caring and praying.
Lori Judd <lsjudd@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Monday, January 31, 2005 10:02 PM CST
If words or prayers could heal your hearts then they would be healed. God is our refuge and our strength--that seems so trite somehow but it is our only absolute truth and hope.My prayers are with you. Mary Jo
Mary Jo Taylor
Moultrie, Ga. USA - Monday, January 31, 2005 9:23 PM CST
Hi, just wanted you to know we are still praying for you. and thinking of you often.
www.caringbridge.org/hi/breanna

Corinne, Angel Bree's mom
sept.19,2002 - Jan 18, 2005

Corinne Arthurs <barthun628@rogers.com>
woodstock, On Canada - Monday, January 31, 2005 5:41 PM CST
Sending so many prayers and warm wishes your way. May God bless you,
Monica Coffey <tika98@yahoo.com>
Frisco, TX - Monday, January 31, 2005 3:11 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,
You are such strong and amazing people that I truly admire. You have been through so much that you should not have to endure. I was checking on you again and wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers each and every day. Many great and happy thoughts going your way.

Mandy

Amanda Bauer
Hastings, NE USA - Monday, January 31, 2005 3:04 PM CST
I haven't been able to check this site recently because of internet troubles, but I've been thinking of you often. I bought a package of Curesearch bands today, and I'll always wear it in honor of Hayley and her friends. Praying for you always in this year of firsts,
Annie <care.clark@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, January 31, 2005 2:46 PM CST
Oh ouch, my heart just hurts so much thinking of the pain you felt on Thursday, and every day at varying degrees. I can only imagine how hard it was for you to go to Gymboree. But, I will always think of that store with a smile, because of your little fashion plate. While we (meaning all three of us) could hardly get out of our pjs most days, you and Hayley always looked adorable strolling the halls. But it was more than the clothes you wore, it was your incredible spirits that accessorized each and every outfit perfectly.

We will be thinking about Hayley's sweet bows and smiles as we remember the day you brought your amazing gift into the lives of us all. Thank you for that.

Much love coming to you every day,
Camp Jack
www.caringbridge.org/ga/campjack
Jen, Steph, Jack & Kate <will3995@bellsouth.net>
Kennesaw, GA - Monday, January 31, 2005 2:14 PM CST
I know each day is another reminder of your little angel being gone. Just remember she is safe and free of pain. God is taking care of your little baby girl until you can meet again.
christine rogers <christinemrogers@hotmail.com>
hampton, va usa - Monday, January 31, 2005 12:09 AM CST
The Homesick song is a beautiful song. Each time I hear it, I think of all of the Caringbridge Angels that I have "met". You are still in my prayers.
Briana Roehling
Pflugerville, TX - Monday, January 31, 2005 9:21 AM CST

You are in my thoughts and prayers always.
BrendaDave's Site <rurka70@hotmail.com>
Edmonton,Alberta Canada, - Monday, January 31, 2005 2:58 AM CST
You are in my prayers always!
XXOO, Marey and Cali Ali
Marey, Ali's mom <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, January 30, 2005 11:56 PM CST
My friend who lost her 6 year old son in 1999 asked how you guys were doing and can't agree more with the statement that you don't get through grief, you just ge by it. That it changes everyday. I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I too long for the day where cancer has a cure...no child should have to go through such a horrible monster that cancer is. No parent should have to watch their child endure the wrath of this evil thing. I am saddened that you did and pray for those on Hayley's friend list and all others out there with this disease. God Bless and hold you tight.
Sandra Roberts <RobertsJAKS@aol.com>
Roswell, GA USA - Sunday, January 30, 2005 9:00 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,
You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I'm amazed, proud, and not suprised, all at the same at how strong you are and all that you do. {{{HUGS}}}
Monica F (Friends of Allie) <filyaw@bellsouth.net>
Florence, SC - Sunday, January 30, 2005 8:18 PM CST
Dayna and Alan
I think of you so much and of course sweet Hayley too. I never even met her and I miss her. So I can only imagine your yearning. And Dayna, you're right, you do have every right to cry every day for the rest of your life if you need it! Always remember there are tons of people pulling for you, and remembering Hayley every day. I tiny bit of her lives on in the hearts of SO many!!
My best to you both as you get thru every day.
Karen ~ Friends of Allie ~
Stow, OH - Sunday, January 30, 2005 7:08 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan, You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. We can only imagine the range of emotions you must endure. We ask the Lord to shine His loving grace on you and to guide you each step of the way. I will look for those bracelets and see if the kids in our area will start a new trend (the yellow and pink ones are very popular)!!! I guess that would be just one more way for Hayley to light up the world even all the way from heaven.
Christine and Matthew Mahoney <mahoneymcjc@comcast.net>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Sunday, January 30, 2005 6:42 PM CST
Dayna and Alan,
Thinking of you from here in cold, snowy MD. Hayley's beautiful soul still continues to shine so brightly through you. The way you have been willing to openly share the ups and downs has been such a comfort and inspiration to so many people and in so many different ways it is impossible not to see Angel Hayley reaching through you to touch so many.
Joy Rowan (Bill and Kevan's daughter)
Columbia, MD - Sunday, January 30, 2005 5:52 PM CST
So many prayer for you this week. Even though I have not yet met Haley (I can't wait to play with her in Heaven) we share the same birthday and I will be thinking of her and you so much this Thursday. We think and prayer for you daily.

Hope all works out with the job.

Much Love and many prayers
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Sunday, January 30, 2005 3:58 PM CST
It's been some time since I signed your guestbook (though I'm here on more than one occasion each and every day). If you remember back to some of my last posts, my father-in-law was diagnosed with colon cancer on 12/20. He underwent surgery on 1/5 and did fairly well with the surgery though we learned that the cancer was as bad as it could possibly have been (Advanced Stage IV). He was released from the hospital on 1/11, where later that same day, he suffered a heart attack (age 59). He was Life Flighted back to Nashville from his home 75 miles away and we soon learned that though his heart attack was relatively minor, he had suffered extensive brain damage due to lack of oxygen for some period of time. My husband and his brothers, along with their mother, had life support removed and he passed away in the early morning hours of 1/14. As you might recall, he was the grandfather ("Daddy Bob") to four wonderful little boys. He loved them dearly but I know that his heart would have completely melted for a little girl. I asked him to find Hayley and love her for you.

In the meantime, I hurt for the loss that you must feel, I learn from your posts and I pray for your strength. I thank God for leading me to Hayley's site and will always, as long as you feel the need to keep it going, be an onlooker as your words are so honest and such a reflection of God's love.

Once again, thank you for your transparency, for letting us love Hayley (and the two of you) in some way. We hope that we help, in even the smallest of ways, to shoulder some of the burden for you.
Kelley <kelleywms@hotmail.com>
Franklin, TN USA - Sunday, January 30, 2005 11:52 AM CST
Dayna and Alan,
We think about and pray for you all the time. I am amazed that you made it through Gymboree, Dayna. We know this is the toughest of times coming up--our tears join yours and we continue to lift you up.
Love,
nancy and Will's family
nancy olson <nkotarget@bellsouth.net>
marietta, ga usa - Sunday, January 30, 2005 10:29 AM CST
I keep you and the many other children and families in my prayers daily.
Beverly
Durham, NC USA - Sunday, January 30, 2005 9:33 AM CST
I check on you both often and pray for you even more. I can't seem to find the right words to say, so I'll leave it at that.

Heather Davis <heatherdavis3@bellsouth.net>
Alpharetta, GA - Sunday, January 30, 2005 8:44 AM CST
Dayna & Alan: Just to let you know that not a day goes by when I don't think about you. I'm keeping you in my prayers.
Liz Unger <poppy4100@aol.com>
Arnold,, Md. - Sunday, January 30, 2005 7:41 AM CST
Oh Dayna, I just love that song by Mercy Me, and cry each time I hear it. So true, but how long must you wait....a life on earth is nothing compared to eternity though. I have tears running down my face after reading your recent post....I will continue to pray for you...I bet Hayley is playing with baby Allie and God right now... (www.scotthousehold.com)
Kristin (friend of Allie) <kdaliege@hotmail.com>
WI USA - Sunday, January 30, 2005 7:32 AM CST
Thinking and praying for you always......
Patrick King, (father of Merrill King 10 years old, AML DX April 2004 www.merrillking.com) <Kingpa@corp.earthlink.net>
Roswell, GA USA - Sunday, January 30, 2005 5:10 AM CST
Dayna...I just wanted to thank you for being so honest with everyone in your journals...for those of us going along a similar journey it helps to read that we are not alone in our emotions. I like what you wrote about it not getting easier to live with, you just get more practice. I will have to pass that onto my sister as she lost her baby exactly one month ago tomorrow :( It's so hard! Also, at James' (my nephew) funeral they played Homesick..it is so powerful.

I guess this isn't a very uplifting entry I just wanted to thank you for being willing to share your families story, it really is helpful.

I pray that the days ahead are peaceful for you and that God will give you the strength to endure whatever lies ahead.

Heather Thomson
Heather Thomson <heather_thomson@yahoo.com>
The Dalles, OR USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 9:44 PM CST
I just wanted you both to know that I am still praying for you. I have to smile when I think of your comment about how Gymboree always will remind you of Hayley. That has to be my favorite store and I noticed in your pictures that Hayley was always dressed in their outfits! And of course the outfits were even cuter with her in them. Take care of yourselves!
Melinda***Friends of Allie*** <melinda_isaac@hotmail.com>
Tampa, FL - Saturday, January 29, 2005 8:54 PM CST
Dayna and Alan, there are no words that accuratly express how I feel for you both. If I was a fairy godperson I'd have a magic wand and make everything better. But I don't so all I can say is that you both remain in my prayers and Hayley is never far from my thoughts. Thank you forever and always for sharing her beautiful life with all of us.
Rachel C. (Friends of Allie) <lilcrazymamac@hotmail.com>
TX - Saturday, January 29, 2005 8:38 PM CST
Dear Dayna & Alan - All I can tell you is that I will always continue to come here and check on how you're both doing, and will pray for you guys. Your loss is surely overwhelming, but I hope that knowing that there are those that will always check on your family, brings you some comfort.

Take Care of each other,

Angie Dotson - Friends of Allie <adotson@chum.net>
Earlysville, VA USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 8:28 PM CST
Hi there,

Just letting you know that I'm still thinking of you, and still visiting the site to see pictures of that gorgeous little girl. Hope you're able to get through next week with some sweet memories of Hayley on her birthday. I know many of us will be thinking of her on that day.
Connie <Bogeymama2000@yahoo.ca>
Calgary, Alberta Canada - Saturday, January 29, 2005 8:28 PM CST
Letting you knwo I am thinking of you everyday! You are such a strong couple and an inspiration to me and many others. I wear my CureSearch bracelt with pride, in memory of Hayley.
Becka *Friends of Allie* <rlmarsch@nycap.rr.com>
Delmar, NY USA` - Saturday, January 29, 2005 8:16 PM CST
I'm praying for both of you - I can't imagine how empty you must feel. It's great that you are honoring Hayley by working on the golf tourney. I hope your job works out, Dayna. Your friend in Nashville,
Nancy
- Saturday, January 29, 2005 8:04 PM CST
You both have been so strong for so long. Eventually the wounds will not open so readily, but they will open because you are only human. The overwhelming pain does lessen with time. You are doing the healthy thing by experiencing the grief now and not trying to stuff it down into your soul. You will have bright days again and you will experience pure joy many times in the days ahead. Winter seems to make the days of sorrow just drag on forever. There is hope in the future. On a lighter note...many years ago my very good friend's son died on Christmas Day from leukemia. He was 3 years old and they were just devastated. Although the doctors told them for months that there was very little hope, they were not accepting the defeat. The day after the funeral they left their home and went to the Bahamas to get away. They were miserable and only stayed about 2 days. They came home and called us and asked to come over to our house. My son was also 3 years old and their son had been his best friend. My son knew that his friend went to be with Jesus and he took it very well( the faith of a child). We were sitting at the dinner table and my son suddenly said to the griefing parents " Do you remember when Kevin was alive?" and we all just broke into laughter and they said " Yes, we do remember our son." They had not laughed for so long and it felt so good to them to do so. I will never forget that moment. It helped them so much and they still recall the question 26 years later.
Linda Lancaster <ltlancaster@bellsouth.net>
Pelham, AL USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 7:59 PM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan:
I have been thinking of you so much since we had dinner this week...thinking of what next week will bring to you as you try to get through Hayley's birthday without her. Words fail me as I want to comfort you. But I know that there is nothing to say. We are with you as you go through the week. I am truly praying that, like Mercy Me sings, God WILL give you strength to make it through some how and ease your homesickness day by day. Please be gentle with yourselves and know that you are allowed to have as many of "those" days as come. We love you.
Love,
Kristin
Kristin, Mike, Ryan and Brandon Connor (www.caringbridge.org/ga/brandonconnor) <kristin.connor@comcast.net>
Norcross, GA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 6:47 PM CST
I already signed in today, but something told me to come back and I am glad I did. I wish so much I could help you through those days of crying all day. They are truly so much a part of healing though. After I read your entry I looked back at Hayley's photos and I was brought to tears. I have never met any of your family, but I miss Hayley. I too had so much hope for her. I had even thought how cool it would be if she could play with my little boy, Jamie. I cannot tell you the amount of motivation I have to help raise money for the cure. Again, keep me posted on the golf tournament. Put me high on the list of volunteers to work at the event! I am here...I am still praying for you daily.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 6:28 PM CST
As I planned my son Cade's birthday party today I flipped my calender to February. What a beautiful little face I saw! There was the little girl I've grown to love through her parents sharing. That is my very favorite picture of Hayley and I get to have her picture hanging in my home for the next month.
When Cade saw my face and I said "look, there's Hayley" he immediately starting asking questions about Hayley. I shared her story (in 4 year old language) and he asked me "does that mean she gets to play with Memaw and Baby Allie?" (Referring to his great-grandmother and Allie Scott.) I assured him that yes, Hayley and Baby Allie get to play together each and every day. He smiled and was happy to know that they are friends.
We then discovered something that I had not realized - Cade and Hayley share the same birthday. Cade immediately said "I will share my birthday cake with her." Ya gotta love it.
I tell you this because I know this week will not be an easy one, but know that a little boy in Texas will be lighting a special birthday candle just for Hayley this year. We'll all be saying a special prayer for Hayley's Mommy and Daddy as well.
Much love to you both and thank you for sharing Hayley with us all.
God Bless You
Jen H
Fort Worth, TX - Saturday, January 29, 2005 4:01 PM CST
I just want to tell you that I am still praying for you both. Take care of each other.

Larissa
Larissa Farley <larissafarley@bellsouth.net>
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 2:50 PM CST
Hello Dayna and Alan - I've been thinking of you, as I know that sweet Hayley's birthday is coming soon. She actually shares the same birthday as our younger son Noah. Hayley will be with you especially on that day, as you commemorate day of her arrival to this world.

I am happy to hear how amazingly well you are coping - although I know of course that your sorrow must be endless.

We are keeping you in our prayers.
Jen, Lori, Sam and Noah - www.caringbridge.org/canada/sam <samno@telus.net>
Vancouver, Canada - Saturday, January 29, 2005 2:23 PM CST
I cannot imagine how tough your daily struggles must be. I pray for strength for you and trust that you share that same remarkable spirit we all witnessed in your precious daughter.

Susan Smith <susanhsmith@adelphia.net>
Cumming, GA USA - Saturday, January 29, 2005 12:23 AM CST
Thinking of you & sending you healing HUGS & prayers. May God grant you grace & peace.
Kellee (Friends of Allie) <kelleemcd@yahoo.com>
Allen, TX United States - Saturday, January 29, 2005 10:55 AM CST
I continue to check Hayley's Corner and to pray for you, Alan and Dayna. May God hold you close to His heart.
Janet McPherson <LMcPherson@ec.rr.com>
Whiteville, NC US - Saturday, January 29, 2005 9:25 AM CST
I am still praying for you both. I think of sweet Hayley often and cant help but wonder how the two of you are doing. Peace and love to you!
JoBeth Hunnicutt <jobeth73@alltel.net>
Moultrie, Ga - Saturday, January 29, 2005 7:30 AM CST
Just checking in on you to let you know you're in my prayers daily. You're such an inspiration. I pray that God bring you comfort and good memories in this coming week, which will be so difficult. I pray that you curl up in God's hands and let him provide you comfort. {{{hugs}}}
Jennifer Guidry <j.guidry@comcast.net>
Plano, TX - Saturday, January 29, 2005 1:27 AM CST
Continuing to hold you both in my prayers.
Tricia <Triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 28, 2005 11:06 PM CST
Thinking of you tonight and keeping you in my prayers. My prayer for you right now is that you feel God's presence and find comfort in Him and those around you who love you both so much.
Becky (Friends of Allie) <mashedpeas@msn.com>
El Mirage, AZ - Friday, January 28, 2005 10:39 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know that I continue to be amazed at how strong the 2 of your are. I check your site every single day (and sometimes more than once). It is amazing how close you can feel to someone you have never even met. I will never look at rainbows or pink the same!!! Continue to look to God for your strength and He will sustain you!!!
Ashley <jandgordon@comcasst.net>
- Friday, January 28, 2005 10:06 PM CST
^^HUGS^^

The Dobrowski's - Dave, Judy, Katie, Dana and another AML ^^Angel^^ Emily Ann <davidd@comporium.net.......www.caringbridge.org/page/emiann>
Rock Hill, SC
5200 and CMC family, Rainbow of Hope and Cancer Sucks Club menbers - Friday, January 28, 2005 8:34 PM CST
Thinking of you everyday.
Janetann Lenz (Friends of Allie) <pjabslenz@hotmail.com>
Southport, NC 28461 - Friday, January 28, 2005 1:46 PM CST
Dear Alan and Dayna,
Just a note to let you know that I am thinking of you every day & praying for you both as you approach your precious little Hayley's birthday. I hope you can be surrounded with happy memories of your baby girl & know that the thousands of lives she touched in her short life will be forever changed in such a positive way. You continue to inspire me through this journey. With love, prayers and blessings to both of you and to all who loved Hayley as you face another difficult anniversary. I am praying for peace and comfort for you both as you continue to deal with such grief and loss.
Susan <Susanmvt@aol.com>
Peachtree City, GA USA - Friday, January 28, 2005 12:41 AM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,
I'm thinking of you and sweet Hayley in my prayers every day. I hope that you are finding moments of peace in each day as you remember her.

God bless,
Tiffany Borner and family
Tiffany Borner <tkinser@mindspring.com>
Suwanee, Ga USA - Friday, January 28, 2005 11:42 AM CST
Dayna & Alan...continuing to hold you close in prayer.

Love, The Drabyk Family
Roger,Alexandra,Samantha,Cassidy & 'Cookie' <rdrabyk@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, MB Canada - Friday, January 28, 2005 10:56 AM CST
Thinking of you guys!!!
Amy <xrayminds@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA - Friday, January 28, 2005 10:25 AM CST
I hope you both are having days filled with gentle and wonderful memories of your sweet girl,i think about her all the time as well.

My thoughts are with you always,
Theresa
Theresa Heath <danjotay@comcast.net>
Rowlett, Tx - Friday, January 28, 2005 9:32 AM CST
Hi Having met Haley while Leigh was having treatment, I feel part of your loss. I think about you'll often.
John Elliott <jelliott@mindspring.com>
New Orleans, La USA - Friday, January 28, 2005 7:37 AM CST
Dear Dayna and Alan,

Just wanted to stop by and let you know that I am thinking about you. I pray that life is being gentle with you.

Love,
Debbie
Deb Whaley <syracuse84@cox.net>
Ladera Ranch, CA - Thursday, January 27, 2005 10:13 PM CST
I just wanted you to know that I still check your site often. I am thinking of you all the time!
Melissa **FRIENDS OF ALLIE** <jmbarclay@ptsi.net>
Perryton, TX - Thursday, January 27, 2005 9:46 PM CST
Just wanted to check in and let you know we are out here praying for you daily.

Hope you are having an okay day :)

Love
Katie Dixon
Katie Dixon <katie.dixon@disney.com>
- Thursday, January 27, 2005 9:27 PM CST
Dayna and Alan, I continue to hold you guys in my prayers each day. I haven't signed the guest book in a little while, but wanted you to know that you are still thought of on a daily basis.
Heather Buckner <hsbuckner73@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Hill, MO USA - Thursday, January 27, 2005 9:20 PM CST
Dayna & Alan, You don't know me, but I found Hayley's page from a link on my nephew's Caringbridge page. I just wanted you to know that a sister in Christ in Utah will be praying for you in the days ahead. In His love, Erin Myers
Erin Myers <yldemyers@yahoo.com>
Park City, UT USA - Thursday, January 27, 2005 8:53 PM CST

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