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Kathy...

With much love,

Jessica..you are simply AMAZING!!

Love and hugs to you all,

Love and hugs,

The surprise party sounds like it was very nice for you..all of you.
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers,
Eva and Rodney <KWfan4ever@yahoo.com>
www.caringbridge.org/mi/rodneyreeves, - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 7:57 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Kathy!! I haven't checked in for a while, but I'm so glad that I chose to today! Forty is not far away for me either. Always remembering your Robert........
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
bham, al - Monday, February 5, 2007 9:18 PM CST

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Good Morning to all who join the journey which is the Charlton's tribute to our Robert---Robert, your mother turned the big 4-0 today. Yes, that is right, your mother who is beautiful, graceful and full of light is becoming wiser & stronger each and every day. She will shine for all the world to see, encompassing the love and passion for life she saw in your eyes. Your Mom should make you proud! She is making footprints on the landscape and in our hearts. Love and kisses from one of the Mimi's---Mimi Bunny
Barbara Waldron <imb4ubunny@aol.com>
west palm beach, fl US of A - Monday, February 5, 2007 6:24 AM CST

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just checking on you. think Vic, now near 19, is headed down in June to find mate work on a yacht...following his sister, who is still near you periodically...
If I get there with him will call you...
check out Stevens wedding pics...Matt had a followup PET scan, no tumor, rads scarring, so all relieved with him....

miss you
mary alice and family <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, VA - Friday, January 26, 2007 8:20 AM CST

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Hi Kathy. I came to your site last night from another site, Zachary F., and I sat here all night reading about your precious son. What a beautiful boy! All the things that he went through is so amazing, especially with the way he handled it head on, and continued his fight. And to hold on to you until the end was just awesome. Your relationship with Robert was just beautiful.
Your last entry really hit home for me, with saying goodbye. As parents, we are never ready to have to say goodbye.
I am praying for you and your family.
Hugs,
Ann Watts/Angel Wings <bubbasoldlady@cebridge.net>
Jacksonville, AR USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 10:46 PM CST

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Hi. I haven't written in a while.... but I never ever forget you and Robert. Your writing is a gift, I wish you could share it with others besides caringbridge.

Thank you for sharing your soul.... HUGS
Mary Lee (caringbridge.com/mn/davis.leukemia) <mleep@msn.com>
- Sunday, January 14, 2007 3:31 PM CST

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HAPPY NEW YEAR
MARTHA MALOY
WEST PALM BEACH , FL PALM BEACH - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 12:13 AM CST

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Dear Kathy,
I sit hear with tears streaming down my face after reading your last entry. How wise you are, or should I say, have become. How courageous you are, or should I say, have become. How faithful you have always been, to your Robert, to your children and since I have known you through this site, to God. May God continue to bless you greatly in the year 2007.
Love,
Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis County, MO, - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 11:54 PM CST

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To A wonderful, courageous family--happy new year. 2007 and you are growing and changing so quickly I have a hard time keeping up. (Being a Mimi means slowing down some.) Last night, I brought a candle to Robert's grave and told him of our plans for the night--I stayed to make sure that this candle would glow all night long. I left with it blowing in the wind---lighting Robert's photo and providing a light that should never be extinguished. The light of our beautiful boy, Robert Mitchel Charlton..............
Barbara Waldron <imb4ubunny@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, fl US of A - Monday, January 1, 2007 11:55 AM CST

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we used to have so many traditions..cookies..didnt make one this year. getting the tree...sent the kids out.....making a wreath..didnt do it at all, made eggnog, from my grand dads receipe....guess we dont have many traditions any more, often I feel our old life is just blown apart and we are beginning again... You must feel more so... think of you so often..yes, time goes on, thank Goodness, but, our hearts never forget.
Much love
Mary alice
isnt Stevens wedding the 27???
Mary alice dorschel, mom of Lizzie <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
- Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:16 PM CST

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Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas.

My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.

Jennifer Miles www.caringbridge.com/mn/deemartinson <jennifer.miles@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 8:28 AM CST

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Dear Mr. Hallmark,

I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear,
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here,
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card,
A card of love for my parents, as this day for them is hard,
There must be some mistake I thought, every card you can imagine,
except I could not find a card, from a child that lives in heaven,
they are still a parent too, no matter where I reside,
I had to leave, they understand, but oh the tears they cried,
I thought that if I wrote to you, that you would come to know,
that though I live in heaven now, I still love my parents so,
they talk with me, and dreams with me, we still share laughter too,
memories are our way of speaking now, would you see what you can do?
my parents carry me in their heart, their tears they hide from sight,
they plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells,
they writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease there pain as well,
so you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth,
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth,
they need to be honored, and be remembered too,
just as the children of the earth will do,
thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you will do your best,
find a way to tell them, how much they mean to me,
until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.


I know Christmas must be so hard for you although I can't comprehend how difficult it must be.

All my love,

Viks


viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 8:17 AM CST

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Hi Kathy,
Christmas memories.
My mom worked the night shift from 3pm to 12pm Monday-Friday. My happy Christmas memories are that she would always take off from work from Christmas to New Years. I was excited to run home from school because I knew she was there. Each night she would bake a batch of different cookies. Christmas Eve she would make a dinner of stuffed squid & fried smelt... ew.. And decorate our Christmas table with the oh so lovely decorative plastic plates & napkins. LOL. Every Christmas we would have lasagna with pepperoni & meatballs.
I remember some of our Christmas decorations smelled musty from being stored in the crawl space.
I loved Advent. I looked forward to our teachers lighting the pretty candles.
These memories are kind of funny to me because I remember our house being warm & decorative...but sadly I was not allowed to participate in the decorating or baking because I was a kid.... and I had "quick" hands when it came to following directions.
I have created new traditions with my kids where they can decorate the house & cookies.... My tree is very nicely decorated with ALL our 8 years worth of ornaments....75% of them are on the tree from the middle of the tree down to the bottom. (Where the kids could reach)... and it looks beautiful.
Because of your Robert & his legacy, I hold my kids extra tight & tell them I love them way too much.

Wishing you a gentle & happy & healthy holiday season.
Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net>
- Thursday, December 21, 2006 12:27 AM CST

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Kathy - I love a tradition. So much so, that my husband told me last week he was "exhausted" from all of our traditions!! My favorite is one that we always did when I was little. We make Christmas cookies that we do not give away. They are just for us - so my kids can pile the icing on, lick their fingers, eat the candy as they go. I don't worry about germs, or the way they look. Each child makes their own plate full, and they LOVE it!! We also light our advent wreath each night before dinner, each child chooses an angel tree kid that is their age to buy for, and my husband frys a turkey every Christmas morning (we're nothing if not healthy!!) I hope your family has a wonderful Christmas. I think of your Robert often.
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
Birmingham, AL - Thursday, December 21, 2006 12:00 AM CST

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The tradition that I love is unpacking my many nativity sets. As I unwrap each one, memories come back to me. This year, our grandchildren (10 months and 23 months) have a new one to play with. The Fisher Price Little People nativity set is adorable. The angel on the top of the stable plays "Away in a Manager". The animals now have texture to them (the sheep have fuzzy wool, the horse, the camel and cow have tails, etc). It really is so cute and sized just for little hands. I have another set that my dear mom made in 1986. It too can be touched by children. My original nativity set was made in Poland and carved out of wood. This was the first one my husband and I bought together (31 years ago). The star above the stable was broken by our daughter when she was little. I also have a Hummel set that was given to me by an elderly lady. So many different types but they are all very special to me. May you and your family have a blessed Christmas.
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 3:40 PM CST

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HI: I also will never forget your Robert. I think about him all the time. If I wasn't states away I would come visit his grave, and would love to meet you and your family. You are so strong Kathy, I would love to be a little bit like you. Our family tradition is making sugar cookies together. Have a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
Terri Daringer <tdaringer@shco.org>
Persia, Ia - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 2:52 PM CST

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Kathy - The new photos you added are absolutly beautiful. God bless your sweet family.
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
Birmingham, AL - Sunday, December 10, 2006 7:33 AM CST

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Dear Kathy,
You have such a beautiful family, Robert included. I keep trying to read your past journals but cry so hard I can't go any further. I cry because I am touched. Take care and know that I am thinking about you all. Love, Tammy
http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/gavinward
Tammy Ward <wardpalm@aol.com>
WPB, FL USA - Thursday, November 30, 2006 9:15 AM CST

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Hi Charltons
I know I am a little late but I just wanted to let you guys know that I have been thinking of ya'll! I did not let November 17th pass without remembering Robert. I love him and miss him and all the stories about him very much.
I am so glad to hear that ya'll had a lovely Thanksgiving as we did too. Please take care of each other. Have a great Christmas & Happy Holidays!!
Dawn <dehol25@aol.com>
Horn Lake, MS - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 8:46 AM CST

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glad you liked the pic of Liz and Steven..he is getting married soon, how about that.. have had you on my heart lately. my oldest daughter in Ft Lau. working on the yacht Serendipity...will be there over Christmas..our first with her away..time is slipping on.. Liz is good, things are even..
I think of you and your family so often. Much love from Virginia
Mary alice Dorschel <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, - Monday, November 27, 2006 1:49 AM CST

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Such wonderful memories of dear Robert. Thanks for sharing them with us.
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Saturday, November 25, 2006 3:39 PM CST

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Hello Robert Fans-Yes it is Mimi Bunny---fresh from kitchen duty cooking for my great family this Thanksgiving. I cooked a traditional meal and did think of Roberto many, many times during the past week of preparations. He was my biggest fan and loved this holiday more than any child I have ever known. Robert knew how to celebrate-with a He-man appetite and lots of laughter whenever his family gathered around. Robert-you were there with us in God and Love. We miss you, Mimi Bunny
barbara waldron <imb4ubunny@Aol.com>
west palm beach, fl us of a - Friday, November 24, 2006 4:47 PM CST

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Your words are so beautiful, truly a tribute to a beautiful boy. I wish your family a happy and blessed Thanksgiving and thank you again for sharing your Robert here.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 3:29 AM CST

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Dear Kathy,
What a beautiful entry. Tears just streamed down my face as I read it. Your Robert will always be remembered by me. I pray that the happy and beautiful memories of Robert always outweigh the sad ones of his final days here on earth. Have a blessed Thanksgiving.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, MO, - Monday, November 20, 2006 7:33 PM CST

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What a beautiful entry to Robert. No child was ever more loved. I know he is a child I wish I had a chance to meet. I am sure your other three are just as wonderful too. I still think of you all often with a prayer in my heart
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Monday, November 20, 2006 3:55 PM CST

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Your words of love for dear Robert are beautiful. His loving ways touched many of our hearts. May you and your family be blessed today and always.
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Monday, November 20, 2006 8:00 AM CST

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Gosh - it's hard to believe Robert has been gone for 4 years. Your words were beautiful. Robert will stay alive in your hearts forever. :)
Jo <jvonschoeler@cox.net>
- Sunday, November 19, 2006 8:23 PM CST

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What beautiful words, Kathy. It's hard to believe it's been 4 years. Robert will always have a very special place in my heart.

Thinking of all of you and sending continued prayers...
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, November 18, 2006 9:43 AM CST

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Good Morning Robert-I awoke this morning thinking about my last kiss from you. Funny, but I still feel that kiss on my cheek. I always will. My cheek is warm and fuzzy in that spot where you brushed my face while lying in bed. It was four years ago on my birthday, Nov. 14th and much to my surprise the other Mimi's took me out to lunch. We had a wonderful cheesecake, shared some much needed laughter and then came back home to see you, lying in your bed. "Did you have a good time?" they asked me. "Yes, but there's still one thing I want from you, Robert." You looked up at me, "What do you want, Mimi?" you were so weak. "A Kiss, Robert, I want a kiss." I leaned down, you lifted up and I got my kiss. A sweet, heartfelt kiss from a boy who could hardly move without a struggle. Well, Robert, that kiss is still on my cheek and I can still feel its warmth to this day. From that day to today, the day you left us and went on to a greater calling then us earthbound relatives and friends can imagine, no matter how hard we try. I saw your teacher the other day in church; I ride by your school almost every day, I love to tease your brother and try hard to keep up with your sisters and I will always do my best to stay close to your Mom, who is brave, loving and so busy she makes me look like a couch potato. Your Dad is an enigma and I hope you visit him often. Your family is growing, struggling, but incredibly brave and I know you are proud of them. They miss you, as we all do and while we do not understand, we know you had to leave us too soon. All the love I have for my Prince, my "European Royalty" Grandson, the comic relief guy & my spagetti & meatball loving buddy! Mimi Bunny
Barbara Waldron <imb4ubunny@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, fl US OF America - Friday, November 17, 2006 6:42 AM CST

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Remembering you and Robert on the eve of his Homegoing anniversary. I am grateful that, while this heaviest of burdens will always lay upon us weighing even heavier on these days, our Lord has also given His blessed, blessed hope. May this hope comfort and encourage your hearts till we hold our beloved children in Heaven.

In His Love,
Yolanda Rogers
http://www.galatians5.com

Mom to Anna
FL USA - Thursday, November 16, 2006 8:24 PM CST

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I wont be able to get to a computer tomorrow, so I wanted to tell you today that I am thinking of you and your family...especially tomorrow, the exact day that your oldest son Robert went to heaven....I have been thinking of him often leading up to November 17th...please know I think of all of you often. My prayers are with you.
Colette <colettemcknight@bellsouth.net>
Port Saint Lucie, FL - Thursday, November 16, 2006 6:29 AM CST

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I know this is a few days early but I will be remembering Robert and all of you especially the next few days as another of these anniversary days comes and goes. I know how they are and how we Mama's feel. I still check the site and think of all of you often.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 12, 2006 3:06 AM CST

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What a beautiful testimony to Robert...and to you as a mom. I used to say, "When Haley grew up, she may not think she had a 'normal' childhood, but she would know she had been LOVED."
Cheryl and Angel Haley <tnvincent@earthlink.net>
- Wednesday, November 8, 2006 7:36 PM CST

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Thinking of you and have you on my heart, as you quickly approach yet another difficult anniversary. If you're like me, in many ways it feels like an eternity and others like they left us just yesterday. I will continue to keep you and your kids in my prayers. God bless!
jan livingstone (andy's mom forever)
- Tuesday, November 7, 2006 10:32 PM CST

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Dear sweet Kathy,
Sorry I have not been by for awhile, but since my cancer this past year I have not visited CaringBridge like I used to. I am doing just fine. I tried to catch up with your journal entries and I have to comment on a few things you wrote. Maybe people do not visit Robert's grave, but there are many that still visit his website. I, for one, will always visit this site, as long as it is in existence. Robert's site has always been a blessing to me. Robert was one of the very first CaringBridge sites that I visited on a regular basis. I do not even remember if I signed in much during the first months that I found his site. I do remember that Robert was one of the first CaringBridge kids that I followed that left this earth. I remember to this day how sad I felt when he died. I was a complete stranger, very far away, but I mourned with you for your precious boy. I very much like what you wrote about love and being loved. One thing I do remember about Robert was his love of life and how much he showed those around him love. He was an incredible young man for one so young. He is imprinted on my heart. I will always remember Robert. Yes, I do think of Robert and remember him from time to time. I also have grown to love you and your family through your writings and the legacy that Robert left. Love really is what this life is all about, isn't it? Thinking of you today and praying for you always.

Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis , - Friday, November 3, 2006 6:54 PM CST

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I too cannot believe that it was 4 very long years ago.

You have an amazing family.

My prayers are with you always.

Jennifer Miles www.caringbridge.com/mn/deemartinson <jennifer.miles@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN US - Friday, October 27, 2006 9:27 AM CDT

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Kathy,
I don't know if you remember me, but....
I will never ever forget.
With my love and prayers,
Krista Iverson <iverson0215@sbcglobal.net>
Ottawa, IL - Friday, October 27, 2006 7:59 AM CDT

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I remember.


was just with Steven in Memphis for a day visit..all well.
Matt doing chemo in Maine..
Love to you..

mary Alice and Lizzie <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, VA - Thursday, October 26, 2006 5:55 AM CDT

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I will always remember Robert.
Always
Martha
martha Maloy <maloywayne@msn.com>
west palm beach, fl palm beach - Monday, October 23, 2006 12:24 AM CDT

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Kathy, you always write with wonderful, insightful words of life and death. Robert was and still is, an inspiration to all of us.
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Friday, October 20, 2006 7:29 AM CDT

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You brought me to tears again...
Always thinking of you and ALWAYS remembering Robert.
Christi <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
- Wednesday, October 18, 2006 7:59 PM CDT

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Hello fellow strong one. It is so nice to hear from you. Glad things are going well for your three wonderful smart ones. We are doing ok. Nothing new to tell you about. Say ole.....

Shalom,
Liz
lisbeth norcross <athomewithliz@yahoo.com>
- Friday, September 29, 2006 3:27 PM CDT

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IT WAS REALLY NICE TO SEE YOU YESTERDAY!!
Audra Tim Alex Sieharra and Ty-Michael Schmidt <grlwndr68@hotmail.com>
stuart, FL - Monday, September 18, 2006 2:49 PM CDT

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We want an update! :) How is school going? Are you teaching 1st grade again? Hope all is well with the Charlton clan!
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
bham, - Thursday, September 7, 2006 5:27 PM CDT

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Just wanted you to know I was thinking of you.....
I'd love to see more pictures of Robert and siblings through the years on your site! I love the little angel picture. :)
Colette McKnight <colettemcknight@bellsouth.net>
Port Saint Lucie, FL - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 6:55 PM CDT

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I was posting this picture on Cassie's site, and thought I would swing by your page to say "hello", I can't begin to imagine how hard it must of been to write on that form- or indeed the pain every moment must bring you.

Lots of love

Viks




viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Sunday, August 27, 2006 12:53 AM CDT

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Just stopping by to let you know that I'm thinking of you. God bless and *warm hugs* ><>†<><

*Jennifer C* from Angels on Earth <coopsie78@gmail.com>
Eugene, OR USA - Friday, August 25, 2006 8:36 PM CDT

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stars from heaven are only lent a gift from God thats why there sent
rebekah sharkey <bsharki@hotmail.com>
scunthorpe, england - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 11:57 AM CDT

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Your thoughts are beautiful, and so helpful to me....I just talked to Nancy Noyes, Matts mom, and he is still in Memphis, finishing RT, awaiting a decision on the chemo to use...I have tried my best to be here for her, but am so aware that down the road she will get to a point that I have no idea how to help her..your thoughts are showing me some of the way to help someone we love dearly..
I think of your family, and you and Robert so often.
Love,
mary alice dorschel <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
Suffolk, VA - Monday, August 14, 2006 7:05 PM CDT

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Kathy,

You are so right when you say that the instictive response to grief is to isolate and yet that is least likely to be life-giving. I've seen so many people follow that path only to be overwhelmed by their pain all alone. Our society, though, does not know how to deal with those who grieve. Your journal, though, is something of a primer for those who don't know what a grieving person is thinking or feeling. I'm glad you share your journey, your struggles, your triumphs, your thoughts. Not just for you, but for all those who come here to listen with their hearts and souls. You are an amazing person. Robert was lucky to have you as his mom, and so are your other children. God bless.
Barb Abernathy <just_do_it@earthlink.net>
- Sunday, August 13, 2006 9:28 PM CDT

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Thank you for writing this. I know what you say is true, but have no idea how to drag myself out of this pit. I am so uncomfortable anywhere but my home with my immediate family. I have completely isolated myself, it seems the only way to survive.
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Friday, August 11, 2006 8:21 AM CDT

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Hi
I haven't written in a looong time, can't believe Robert has been gone for all these years, seems like it was yesterday.

I too was swept up with your journal..... perhaps a book or booklet? You are such a wonderful writer. I never tire of reading your entries.

I'm sending a HUG to you....
Mary Lee (caringbridge.com/mn/davis.leukemia) <mleep@msn.com>
- Thursday, August 10, 2006 7:26 PM CDT

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Hi Kathy,
I just finished your post, it was quite amazing. It was interesting how you summed it up. I just wanted to let you that we still think of you often. I love coming here and reading about the kids. It is a great way for us to know them being so far away. I am so glad you have such a great outlook on life. I am not sure I could ever be that strong. It seems cancer has invaded my life over the past few years. Everywhere I turn there is another person battling. Some winning some losing. I come here for confidence. Thank you for that. Please pray for a friend of mine. Her daughter has leukemia. I am not sure the kind or where it is effecting her. All I know is she is being treated at St. Jude and she was just put on a respirator. She is bleeding in her lungs. They have been battling for a short time but it seems like forever. She is starting a new research drug tonight. Everyone please pray for them. Thank you Kathy for being such an inspiration to all of us!!!!

Love Always,
Dawn <dawn.holman@sw-stainless.com>
Horn Lake, MS - Wednesday, August 9, 2006 4:34 PM CDT

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Kathy,

I'm not even sure what to write after reading your journal. So many things went through my head and heart. (Including that you should become a grief counselor. No wiser words were ever written, my friend.) I remembered our Friday afternoon conversations, long emails, prayers said for each of you guys...pleading to God for Robert's miracle. All this to simply tell you that Robert changed my life...

Christi <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
- Monday, August 7, 2006 5:30 PM CDT

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Kathy - Good morning! It's a quiet morning here, but all of that will soon end............ SCHOOL!!! Soon it will be early risings, lunches to be made, homework to be finished and lots of grumbling!!! I haven't signed much this summer, but I continue to check on you. I'm happy to hear that you're happy and life sounds good. I thought of you the other day as my children dusted of the SHINE CD. That's what you continue to do here on your site - SHINE! Robert is not forgotten and your words still move me. Thanks!! PS) My fingers and toes are crossed... It seems that you've made it through the summer without any hurricanes!!
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
Birmingham, AL - Friday, August 4, 2006 8:10 AM CDT

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Hi guys!
Just wanted to say a quick hello, I have been checking in on ya'll but have not been faithfull about leaving messages. I hope you guys are doing great! It sounds like summer is going fast around there I know it is here.
Christina, I am so happy for you! Congrats! It is a wonderful thing that a child can put life into perspective like that! I am so very proud of you and happy about your decision to give your life to Christ! We love you and are very proud of you!
Take care everyone!! Good luck with the upcoming school festivities! We are looking forward to it up here!

Love always!!!
Dawn Holman <dawn.holman@sw-stainless.com>
Horn Lake, MS - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:30 AM CDT

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Hello my friend...it's been awhile since I've checked on you; once again you amaze me! I get goose bumps when I read your thoughts...it's as if we're soul mates somehow. You know, the question I've always thought of is "how can you get thru the death of a child WITHOUT faith?" My heart aches for those that see no hope in their lives. I know that I know that I KNOW our boys are hanging out together in Heaven, and waiting for us to join them. We're still plugging along here in Illinois. Pete and Gabbie are 26 months old and I feel about 100! :) There is a reason we have our children when we're young!!! ha ha Petey continues to amaze us with his vocabulary. I think he's even ahead of where Andy was at that age. He continues to be high spirited, demanding, and extremely high maintance;but his flip side is extremely loving and he's my cuddle bunny. Miss Gabrielle is finally starting to talk some. Of course she says NO and MINE extremely well. She also is getting pretty good at MY TURN...usually yelled at her brother! :) It's very true that it's much harder now that we're 'old' but I am so grateful to The Lord for a second chance with these two beautiful 'brown babies' (as we affectionately call them) From time to time, I tell them about their big brother Andy. When I ask them where he is, they look up and say "Jesus". I can't wait for the day when they truly understand... God bless you my cyber friend. with dove (as Pete would say)
jan livingstone (andy's mom forever)
- Sunday, July 16, 2006 9:42 PM CDT

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I think of you so often and I still keep you in my prayers
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 13, 2006 9:14 AM CDT

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Kathy,

This journey you have navigated well. What more can we want, hope or pray for than the eternal security and salvation of our children. For with that we can look forward to the reunion in the next life where there will be no more sickness, pain or death. I can't wait. By the way. Matt has relapsed and had surgery today. Check our Lizzies page for details. Nancy, Bill and Matt need our prayers

Blessings

Love you all,

Lyle and Peggy
Lyle and Peggy <lylev@alltel.net>
NE - Wednesday, July 12, 2006 10:25 PM CDT

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Kathy,

This journey you have navigated well. What more can we want, hope or pray for than the eternal security and salvation of our children. For with that we can look forward to the reunion in the next life where there will be no more sickness, pain or death. I can't wait. By the way. Matt has relapsed and had surgery today. Check our Lizzies page for details. Nancy, Bill and Matt need our prayers

Blessings

Love you all,

Lyle and Peggy
Lyle and Peggy <lylev@alltel.net>
NE - Wednesday, July 12, 2006 10:25 PM CDT

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You are such an inspiration,
thank you
Martha
Martha Maloy <Maloywayne@msn.com>
WPB, Fl 33406 - Monday, July 10, 2006 12:21 AM CDT

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HEre we are another month down the pike. I do check on you and see if you have updated and I ment to write as soon as you had this time. ITs hard to keep the faith when our lives are shattered isn't it? I am glad your are finding your way again. I was out of church for many years and am just finding my way again the past year or so...I always beleived just wanted to do it all my way.... which is not always GOD's way. I have always kept you and your family in my prayers and I will continue to do so.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 7, 2006 7:14 PM CDT

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faith after your child has cancer is hard. I cannot imagine the difficulty of after the childs death...because we know God loves them more than we do, so why?....Like you, to a much lesser degree, faith comes with my admitting I dont have a clue what God intends with my life...and am willing to go along to find out..it is not easy, and for you, the struggle harder still...But, here we go together, and I know totally that God is there directing it all..that is all there really is that matters..Bless your family and you...
mary alice, still trying to figure it all out too... <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, va usa - Wednesday, July 5, 2006 9:06 PM CDT

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What wonderful words of wisdom!
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Monday, July 3, 2006 8:02 PM CDT

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Kathy, welcome back to the beginning..thank you for sharing and I always follow...am in Naples now visiting.
Bless you all,
Mary Alice
maryalice dorschel <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, - Sunday, July 2, 2006 11:59 AM CDT

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Very Inspiring, Kathy.....thanks for sharing your spirit!

Jean
Jean Kropid <jkropid@hotmail.com>
West Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, July 1, 2006 10:28 AM CDT

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Yes Kathy I do have faith. Faith that I will one day see my son again. I love and miss him so much. I still check for your entries every day. Thank you for your writings. We are going to cape coral in feb. I would love to meet up with you some where in fl that week. We are going feb 17 til the 24th. I think we will only be a couple of hours away from you. We can meet up some where in between maybe. Keep in touch. Thank you for thinking of Adam it means so much to me when I go to a web site and see his name.
Hugs
Ruth Trombino <ARTrombino@cox.net>
Westerly, RI - Friday, June 30, 2006 11:41 PM CDT

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Hello Sweet Friend!

Goodness! I had to read back 2 months to find my last entry here! SHAME ON ME!!! As with you, life has been busy up here in Panama City as well. And also like you... sometimes there is the desire to come here, to spend time with you, but no words seem to come. Still I take comfort in the silence. I wish in those times, we could all just HANG OUT TOGETHER... just be together and share hugs, smiles, tears. Time and time again when I come, I see the same familiar people. Some of them live near you and know you in person - others like me have grown to love you without ever having seen you in person, yet feeling the bond of love and spirit between us. It feels "familiar" here... "comfortable"... and "comforting"...how glad I am to share LIFE with you Kathy Charlton.. and with other friends who come here.

Summer here in Panama City? BALL! That's it! BALL!! Softball tournament team, and high school baseball summer league - need I say more? I go from game to game to game! I tote the chair and the umbrella and the cooler MANY MILES per week! I OPEN the chair dozens of times a week, and then close it up dozens more times per week! I eat TOO MANY concession stand hamburgers and nachos and cheese (WITH jalapenos!) My waistline is showing it! I wince at the gas pumps, filling up for out of town tournaments. I have thought of buying my own ice machine. By now I must own stock in the ice company, right? If I had a dollar for every gatoraid and bottled water we've consumed the past month, I could BUY that ice machine! : ) And at midnight every night, I wash several filthy, stinky uniforms so it can all happen again the next day!

Sometimes I get tired - very tired. What was I thinking, still having babies in my 40s! Oh yeh.. I WASN'T thinking! It was all God's idea - NOT MINE!
Sometimes I get very tired - but I persevere. And I am grateful, truly grateful for their lives and their relative good health.. that no grave harm has come to them, that my heart has not suffered the shattering pain of the loss of one of them - my children. I pray it never will.

Hey, look at us! It's almost July and we've only had a minor visit from Alberto! This is a very good thing! I'm praying this summer will be hurricane-free! (At least damage-free, huh!)
Please do keep in touch! We are establishing friendships here, that will go on forever in heaven! And your friendship is precious to me!

Take care friend!
Love and Hugs,




A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement

Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Monday, June 26, 2006 2:29 PM CDT

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Hi Kathy, I have thought of Robert many times in the past few weeks, because the happiest I remember seeing him was at a Miami Fusion soccer game (with his brother Matthew and his dad and a friend) & lately soccer has been all over the tv because of the World Cup. I am glad your life is going well....please know, I check in often but neglect to leave any comments...please know you are thought of by many. (As you can tell by the amount of hits to your site!)
Colette <colettemcknight@bellsouth.net>
Port Saint Lucie, FL - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 6:47 PM CDT

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Thanks for the update,
Hope you're enjoying your summer so far. You must be so proud of your beautiful family! You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Tammy www.caringbridge.com/fl/gavinward
Tammy Ward <wardpalm@aol.com>
West Palm Beach , Fl USA - Sunday, June 18, 2006 3:29 PM CDT

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Kathy, I'm so glad for you. Its wonderful that you are so happy with the way your life is. Enjoy your summer. Me, I'm not as happy as you. I'm 47, single, in a long time (11 + years) relationship with a divorced man with 2 grown daughters. They are both nurses, one graduated last year and was married in January and the youngest graduates tomorrow. I live with my 88 year old mother and am her caregiver. My job isn't very enjoyable, even though it does pay the bills. I am trying so hard to enjoy the simple things in life but its very hard when I feel pushed to the limit the majority of the time. Oh how I wish I had done things differently. I wish that I would have gone to university and gotten a very good education. I wish that I would have met my 'soulmate' and married and had a family of my own. Oh well, I guess we aren't all meant to have the same purpose in this life. Sorry for 'spilling the beans'. I do enjoy reading your updates. Sending only positive thoughts and prayers your way.
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, ON Canada - Thursday, June 15, 2006 9:25 AM CDT

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I can not beleive it has been a month since I signed your book... I come by nearly every day. you have said so many things that I just re read and ponder over. You have great kids and I know you are proud of them.... I hope you all have a wonderful summer and NO hurricanes...... I stil lkeep you in my prayers
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, June 14, 2006 6:30 PM CDT

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Hey kathy,
Great to hear from you, I'm always checking on you guys so glad to hear everything is going well, It was so good to see you guys the other day, Christing is a beautiful young lady I can't beleive how grown up she is and Matthew is such a nice young man he is so polite and thoughtful, you have done an excellent job, he reminds me of Robert same way of making you feel good. Hope you guys have a great summer.
Love Martha
Martha Maloy <MaloyWayne@msn.com>
WPB, Fl WPB - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 12:50 AM CDT

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Greetings from chaos!

Happy to hear all the Charlton kids take after their mom! You have every right to brag! The Ham chicks are doing great. Jacey had her first dance recital a couple of weeks ago. I couldn't believe that my baby was up on that big stage. I sobbed through the entire thing. Tate graduates from kindergarten this Thursday. The child is wicked smart and keeps me on my toes. This is her first year of swim team and her first meet is this Saturday. Shea is finishing second grade and is the sweetest, most serene child. She, too, is swimming competitively and wants a pink surfboard for her bday. Unreal.

We move back into our house on 6/23. I have tons of room, so it's about time you headed west for a visit. We could do some damage!!

Robert has been on my mind so much lately. Remember when he died I told you I started volunteering for ACS? I've been working on the Cattle Baron's Ball the last several years, but this year I got asked to chair the children's party. We had about 400 oncology kids, and their families, this past Sunday. It was an amazing day. During the raffle, I bent down to give the first winner her prize (about 3 or 4 years old, no hair, lots of bounce in her step) and she hugged me SO tight. She wouldn't let go. I was bawling and had to hand off the raffle duties to someone else. I got to be the official hugger from then on. Robert was on my mind the entire time.

Enjoy your summer and look for cheap airfare. It's about time you put your toes in the Pacific.

XO
Christi <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
- Wednesday, June 14, 2006 8:09 AM CDT

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Wow Kathy, I bet you ARE proud of those kids!!! It's such a testiment to God and you, their Mom, that they've continued to keep up their studies and their grades; with all they've been thru! My Andy was a great student too... these days we're more into trying to get little Gabrielle to start talking & her brother to STOP talking! We're convinced that she just thinks she doesn't NEED to talk, because her brother does all the talking for her! They've both started to show signs of being interested in using 'the potty', so we're starting on that lovely endeavor! (they're ready... I'm NOT!) I had to laugh at our friend Debbie Nagy's comment about her birthday (happy birthday by the way, Debbie) I'm only a year behind you...and going thru all this stuff AGAIN! It's a struggle at times, but I praise God every day for another chance to 'mother' and for my two little reasons to get out of bed in the morning. (6am I might add!) Kathy, I will be praying for you all during the upcoming huricane season. By the way, maybe we can get a deal on a bulldozer together? I know that would be the easiest way to clean my house these days! God bless you all and have a fun summer.
jan livingstone (Andy's Mom forever)
- Tuesday, June 13, 2006 8:47 PM CDT

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Dear Kathy, You are back, yay! I have missed you and your inspiration. My granddaughter and I have been working on a book for kids in the hospital. I cannot tell you how many times I was ready to quit, such a simple idea turned into quite a project. Every time I felt overwhelmed I would come to Roberts site, to read your words...not written for me, but gladly used to help get over that next obstacle. Two words Remember him, Remember him? REMEMBER HIM! brings tears to my eyes and a new push for our journal. Your words are very powerful. Thank you. We would love to have your input on our project. It is very dear to our hearts and will be (hopefully) a little escape for our kids who need a little cheer.

Many Thanks,
Jeanne
Kenzies Cause <kenziescause@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, June 13, 2006 9:47 AM CDT

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Great to find an update. I check almost daily. :) Glad to know all is well at your house. I must ask though - what is the bulldozer for? Love you guys!
Carla
Cleveland, TN USA - Monday, June 12, 2006 11:04 PM CDT

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Hi Kathy!
What a wonderful surprise to come here tonight and find an update. You have so much to be proud of with your children, and YES! you are allowed to brag. Give them each a hug and a high five from me for all of their good work. My oldest son, Tom, graduated high school on May 19th and will be heading off to college in the fall. My how the time has flown, and it just keeps going by faster each and every year. Well, since you asked about what's going on in the lives of those that visit Robert's site...I will share with you that today is my birthday and I am now officially 50 years old!!!! Oh my gosh, I can't believe I put that in print. HA! It's been a good day and a great half century. Thank you for sharing your life with so many. Robert's site and your writings always bless me. Enjoy your time off, but especially enjoy those kids.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, MO, - Monday, June 12, 2006 10:00 PM CDT

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Kathy
Hi. Glad you are about to enjoy a peaceful summer. I will pray for no hurricanes, okay? Our kids still have school. These next 2 weeks will be so so busy. I am so excited when I can throw a reminder out from underneath a magnet on the fridge!!!! Yay. School is almost out and summer will fly by. Hope you are enjoying your beauthiful family. Relax kathy!!!! Enjoy your time off. You deserve it.
Hugs

Haley <haleymo@aol.com>
- Monday, June 12, 2006 9:15 PM CDT

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Dear Kathy,
Just stopping by to say hello and say a prayer for you and your precious children. Hope all is going well.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, MO, - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 8:13 PM CDT

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Hi,
Just thinking about Angel Jake this morning. Hope all is well. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Tammy http://caringbridge.org/fl/gavinward
Tammy Ward <wardpalm@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, Fl usa - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 10:22 AM CDT

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Hey Kathy
thinking about you lots
love martha
martha maloy <maloywayne@msn.com>
wpb, fl - Friday, June 2, 2006 12:13 AM CDT

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Kathy - Thinking of you as school comes to a close. I hope you enjoy your first summer off!! We expect many more updates. :) I hope you're planning a trip to Birmingham - I missed you last time you were here.
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
bham, al - Tuesday, May 23, 2006 7:38 AM CDT

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Wow. Beautiful, touching...and so sad.
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Thursday, May 18, 2006 7:37 PM CDT

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Hi Magical mom,
I finally had the opportunity to come here to read your entries!!! I have missed them and you. It was a nice Mother's Day-quiet and calm. No yelling, the kids got along, I got to sleep past 6am, my husband did laundry. It was great. Hope you had a great day. You so deserve it.
Great big hugs to you
Haley <haleymo@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 16, 2006 7:47 PM CDT

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Your words about "Magical Moms" are amazing and inspiring! Thank you so much for sharing them not only here, but with the children you teach-they are very blessed and fortunate to be in your class. You have no idea how many souls you have touched with your writings. With each word, you give honor to and share the love of your Robert. God bless and keep you and yours.
Tracy <hudsonkats@cox.net>
Hampton, VA USA - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 10:05 AM CDT

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So beautifully said...you need are a magical special mom.
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 8:31 AM CDT

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Happy Mother's Day Kathy - You are truly magical!!
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
bham, al - Sunday, May 14, 2006 1:02 PM CDT

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Happy Mother's Day to one of the most magical moms I have ever known.

Lots of love,
Christi <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
- Sunday, May 14, 2006 9:19 AM CDT

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I'm so glad you still see the magic in motherhood and strive to make everyday a magical one for your children. Happy Mother's Day!
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Sunday, May 14, 2006 2:52 AM CDT

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HAPPY MAGICAL MOTHERS DAY KATHY
YOUR ENTRY BRINGS ME TO TEARS YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION AND YOUR WORDS HEAL MORE WOUNDS THAN YOU COULD EVER IMAGINE.

AUDRA

www.caringbridge.org/fl/tymichaelschmidt
Audra Tim Alex Sieharra and Ty-Michael Schmidt <grlwndr68@hotmail.com>
stuart, FL - Saturday, May 13, 2006 8:28 AM CDT

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I was gone for awhile and missed Robert's birthday and posting to you. I know it is a day of memories happy and sad.
I can just imagine you as a teacher and wish I could see you as you convince the kids that moms are magical. and we truly are. Your post this week proves it. yes, we do have to be magical in the way we get things done and keep on going, even when our hearts are broken. Thannk you again for your wonderful way with words.
I hope you have a blessed Mothers day!
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, May 13, 2006 7:18 AM CDT

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I have never seen pictures of Robert or the other kids when they were so young....they are so cute. I hope you are doing well, life cannot be easy on you as you continue to miss your beautiful boy. I find it so amazing you see Robert through Matthew, he is probably so proud to be his living legacy. I think of you often.
Colette <colettemcknight@bellsouth.net>
PSL, FL - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 12:43 AM CDT

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Dear Kathy,
Happenings in my life bring me here today. I am fine, but others close to me are experiencing devastating news about their child. I want you to know that I came to Robert's site for inspiration, hope and strength. Not only for myself but hopefully to help others. You are a blessing to me. I do believe Robert, though sorely missed by so many, and especially you, did fulfill his mission on this earth and has the victory that we all long for when our time comes. Praying for you today.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Tuesday, May 9, 2006 9:11 AM CDT

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Kathy,

I just wanted you to know I'm one of your regular 'lurkers', checking in but not writing in. Just sending you and your family quiet good wishes. I, too, think of Robert often and many of the staff at the hospital speak of him. We even talk about other kids and how they remind us of him. In so many ways, Robert lives on. And you are part of our family forever.

Much love,
Barb Abernathy <just_do_it@earthlink.net>
- Saturday, May 6, 2006 4:31 PM CDT

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Kathy...wow, all the entries..so much love headed your way..

my daughter Becca is your way now, working on a yacht in Ft L....hope it is sunny down there..we miss her here.
Just had to check in on you again..

Mary Alice Dorschel and Lizzie,caringbridge.org/va/lizzie <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, Va usa - Wednesday, May 3, 2006 6:42 PM CDT

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Kathy you have never failed to impress me. I cant put my finger on it, if its the way you come across, or your attitude, but it always leaves me with the "what a classy lady" impression.. cant imagine Robert would be 15.. cant imagine how hard this is on you and his siblings...
Chris Gooch's mom <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, April 29, 2006 7:59 PM CDT

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What a beautiful tribute to your son, Kathy. Happy birthday, in Heaven, Robert.

Thinking of all of you and sending continued prayers of peace...
Terry (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw" forever and ever) http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, April 29, 2006 1:22 PM CDT

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Kathy~ We are thinking of you and praying for you and your family. We send our love. We are still adjusting to our loss of a loved one and how life has changed. It makes sense how our loved ones are a part of who we are and we reflect them in our lives. Truly we are sorry for the loss of Robert. 15 would have been such a special age - driving you around and being protector of Jessica, making sure that anyone who dare think that taking her out would be an easy task would have to think again. Keeping Christina and Matthew in check. His character will always be present in your family. Love to you today and always.
Kelli Fogleman
WPB, FL USA - Saturday, April 29, 2006 6:17 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Shadow... and special thoughts your way Kathy, and the band. We're heading to the beach next week for a couple days, and hope to see some of the things you often remember in your tales about Robert and the beaches.

Hugs,
Tom & Lynne <Solakinnc@yahoo.com>
Clayton, NC Heartland Gardens - Friday, April 28, 2006 10:57 PM CDT

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Kathy
Thinking of you today.
I hope Adam and Robert are having cake together tonight.
Hugs

Ruth Trombino <ARTrombino@cox.net>
Westerly, RI - Friday, April 28, 2006 9:59 PM CDT

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Dear Kathy and family,
I know today holds so many emotions for all of you. I have prayed that smiles have passed your lips today as you rememberd times you had with Robert. I know that each of you hold the memories of Robert so dear to your hearts.Your precious son and brother lives on in so many ways through all of you. I never met Robert, but feel as though I have always known him through this website.
He was such an incredible young man and so very courageous to the very end. Continue to have faith and believe, love each other and you will one day be with your precious Robert again. He has touched my life even though I never met him and he will never be forgotten.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Friday, April 28, 2006 5:31 PM CDT

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Hello Katherine & The Charlton Family,
As a big brother to you, I have always been awed by your ability to forge through any situation. As an Uncle, I have always been amazed at your childrens ability to do just the same. It has been over two years now, and each of us has gone on. Yet none of us have ever forgotten. I am truly blessed to have such a family as the one that you have provided.
Terence (Uncle Terry) Waldron <trw@americansalvage.com>
Miami, Fl USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 2:09 PM CDT

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Kathy, your entry in celebration of Robert's birthday was a wonderful tribute to him. A lot of us only knew Robert thru your journal entries, but we feel like we knew him and your family very well. Robert's loving kind spirit lives on in all of our hearts forever. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Friday, April 28, 2006 1:52 PM CDT

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Dear Kathy,
I enjoyed yesterday on the beautiful lake front, it was
a treasure seeing you. I told David and he said as we
all feel, how we all miss Robert and how unfair life is
sometimes. I have the Xmas picture David took when
the kids were acting up and the picture of Ms. Florence
and the kids on my frig all the time.
Happy Birthday to Dear Robert and Love to you and the
kids Kathy

Pam Schwarz <pschwa4992@a0l.com>
Lake Clarke Shores, fl usa - Friday, April 28, 2006 1:01 PM CDT

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Today is a beautiful, sunny day here. A perfect day for a birthday! Happy Birthday Robert! I hope that Mom, Dad and your 2 sisters and brother have a day filled with wonderful memories of the time spent with you. Sending only positive thoughts and prayers your way!
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, ON Canada - Friday, April 28, 2006 12:59 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday Robert, I want you to know, I miss him alot too, Ryan and I where just taking about him I stll read all your entries and most of the time I don't have the heart to write, because what can I possible say to make you feel better, but please know he is also in my heart and always will be and that I love him very much.
Love Martha
martha Maloy <maloywayne@msn.com>
wpb, fl palm beach - Friday, April 28, 2006 12:13 AM CDT

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Happy birthday Robert. I bet you hung a "gone fishing" sign on the pearly gates and all of heaven is knee deep in the surf. Keep on eye on your mom...she wrote that she sometimes thinks you're coming home to her again...in reality, someday she'll be coming home to you. It's only a blink, right?

Kathy, I pray today is full of lovely Robert memories. My miracle girl celebrated #6 yesterday. Have a great weekend.
Christi <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
Dove Canyon, CA - Friday, April 28, 2006 9:36 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Robert!

You are thought of often. You all remain in our thoughts and in our prayers.

Love and hugs,
Eva and Rodney <KWfan4ever@yahoo.com>
www.caringbridge.org/mi/rodneyreeves, - Friday, April 28, 2006 9:17 AM CDT

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A beautiful entry! My thoughts and prayers are with you all today. Am sure the pain never goes away, but being blessed with so many happy times and memories must be comforting. Best part is that thru our faith, we will all see Robert again. Praise God!
Benjy Starling <starling@northwood.edu>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 8:26 AM CDT

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What a beautiful tribute to your "sweetest boy". I miss him to even though I never met him!
Dede Dalbey <djdalbey@bellsouth.net>
Boca Raton, Fl - Friday, April 28, 2006 8:22 AM CDT

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What a beautiful tribute to your son. I am certain he sends those very small messages to you.

Stay strong and know my prayers are with you.

Jennifer Miles www.caringbridge.com/mn/deemartinson <jennifer.miles@target.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 8:14 AM CDT

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Happy birthday Robert!! We love and miss you a lot!!
We love all of you! Have a great day!
Dawn Holman <dawn.holman@sw-stainless.com>
Horn Lakd, MS - Friday, April 28, 2006 8:05 AM CDT

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Dearest Kathy,
Just one more mom saying thanks for sharing your all with us. Happy Birthday Robert!!
Lisbeth Norcross <athomewithliz@yahoo.com>
Lake Worth , FL USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 7:30 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, and much love to you...hold a spot for us all!....
Love to your mom and dad too...we remember.
MaryAlice D <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
Suffolk, va usa - Friday, April 28, 2006 7:22 AM CDT

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Dear Robert Happy Birthday, Mark and I love you and miss you.You'll forever be in our hearts. I will never forget the day I came to visit Mimi and you said, "Delores, do you know I have cancer?" I said, "yes dear I do and sat down on the floor with you in the florida room, and the day you came home in the taxi after your treatments did not work. I remember your braveness and the strong big man that got out of the taxi with you, he looked so big that day. I remember feeling so much guilt as I followed your progress daily. Guilt because, Mark your childhood friend, my son, was not sick. Guilt because your mom had to go through the worst imaginable thing and I did not.I struggled with that guilt for a long time and even still today I find it hard at these moments when it comes back to me. On my jorney, as a mother,in this difficult world for teens, I spend so much time focused on making sure I'm being strict enough,(which is hard to do), making sure I am protecting enough, I'm forgetting to guide with love out of fear. Crazy huh Robert? Help guide us with our teens Robert,look out for us. We miss you dear boy. Aren't you proud of your mom? I know she could of gone either way with loosing you, but she chose the high road. Her and your Dad being the devoted, high integrity parents that they are.I admired those two before you were born, and I admire them still.
Love, Delores and Mark
PS.Robert, Mark lost his father this year and has many struggles in the teenage world, he is taking it all so well and he is being so strong,I admire him too.
Delores Kern <dmpro@bellsouth.net>
Rockledge, Fl Dade - Friday, April 28, 2006 7:17 AM CDT

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Happy Birthday, Birthday Boy!

Robert, who was the most happiest person at any celebration, (especially if it involved FOOD!).

Robert, who had energy and enthusiasm for any project which included Outdoors, Star Wars, Fishing, Sports, Family.

Robert, who is still an enigma-loved by all who knew him-and adored by many who have never met our "European Prince" with the big, brown eyes, perfect hair and a smile which lit up the hearts and minds of us all.

Robert, Today is your 15th birthday and here is my wish for you.................................

I wish that you will swim with the fishes in the sea and dig in the sand with the crabs, soar like the free bird that you are, high up in the clouds-Pitch a perfect baseball game and run a two minute mile. Score the winning point in the final seconds of your basketball game as the crowd goes wild with joy!

Robert, all you were and all you could be was more than we could have dreamed and never, never enough now that you are gone. You have made me believe and know in my heart of hearts that the good truly do die to young, too soon and all too quickly does the loss of you sting inside while we remember and celebrate your life.

My heart is broken.

We love you and miss you,
Mimi Bunny

Mimi Bunny <imb4ubunny@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, Fl. USA - Thursday, April 27, 2006 11:24 PM CDT

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Dearest Kathy,
Somewhat by chance, I came across your site again tonight. When the page finally loaded, I sat up a little straighter and breathed a little deeper...tomorrow is your sweet boy's birthday. (Happy Birthday Robert!) Perhaps he is the one who lead me back to your words. The words that have taught me so many lessons through the years - lessons that I know have helped me to become the person I am today. I've come so far since our friendship began, and yet there is an ache in my heart for the things we haven't shared that we once did. I do hope we can rekindle what we once had. Please accept my apologies for being a stranger...

I hope that tomorrow will be a day filled with wonderful memories of your beautiful boy. I know that he will be fishing in the lakes and rivers of heaven in celebration of his day.

Love always,
Haley Hastings <haleyhastings@yahoo.com>
Atlanta, GA - Thursday, April 27, 2006 7:55 PM CDT

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"I'll lend you for a little time a child of mine," He said.
"For you to love the while he lives and mourn when he is dead,
"It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three,
"But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?

"He'll bring his charms to gladden you, but should his stay be brief,
"You'll have his lovely memories, as solace for your grief,
"I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
"But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.

"I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true,
"And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes I have selected you.
"Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain,
"Nor hate me when I come to call to take him back again?

I fancied that I heard them say: "Dear Lord, Thy will be done!
"For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness; we'll love him while we may,
And for happiness we've known forever grateful stay.

"But should the angels call for him much sooner than we'd planned,
"We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand."
Just remembering Robert on his birthday.
C



C
London, England - Thursday, April 27, 2006 2:22 AM CDT

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Dear Kathy,
I loved seeing the new pictures. Thank you so much for sharing them. The curls that Robert had were just beautiful. Thank you for your journal entry....thank you for reminding all of us to live life each and every day. You and your family are beautiful.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Monday, April 24, 2006 9:06 PM CDT

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What beautiful children you have. As are you! I have heard Robert stories but never got to meet him. My little Gavin was diagnosed with Neuroblastoma Nov.2004. He died the day after his 2nd Birthday April 8th, 2005. I just now try to get on with life daily. Never will be the same without my son. I've noticed since Gavin's death, I have become so much more compasionate for others that feel like their lives are lost. Everytime I see a teen struggling or a kid unhappy, I just think how my son will never experience any of this, the good and the bad.
http://www.caringbridge.com/fl/gavinward
Tammy Ward~Gav's Momma Forever <wardpalm@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, Fl USA - Sunday, April 23, 2006 10:53 AM CDT

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You know that I think you should write that book!!!
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Saturday, April 22, 2006 6:14 PM CDT

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Kathy, your words of wisdom and strength are an inspiration to all of us that read your journal.
Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Saturday, April 22, 2006 7:32 AM CDT

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I'm still reading consistently as well! I would love to read your book! Your entries are beautiful and thought provoking. I check in all the time and always think of you, Robert, and the rest of your family!
Love, Erin Doyle <boltsfan19@gmail.com>
Clearwater, Fl - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 6:42 PM CDT

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I am still here. You are an inspiration.


Jennifer Miles www.caringbridge.com/mn/deemartinson <jennifer.miles@target.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 1:34 PM CDT

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still here, after all this time. keeping you in prayer as well..and think of you often. Steven VonSp. is just newly engaged...that is some news !
Mary Alice Dorschel and Lizzie, Jay, and all <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
Suffolk, va usa - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 10:24 AM CDT

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I think your journal would make a wonderful book! I'm glad that you and your family found some comfort in the Easter service and songs and got to see a couple of old friends there.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 0:57 AM CDT

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Kathy - I still read along and will be one of the first in line to buy your book! I thought of you as we cranked our lawnmower for the first time this spring. I'm hoping yard work is going better these days. Remember my idea of finding an able bodied date each spring. Maybe one that's good with a lawnmower and weedeater. :) We sang "Because He Lives" on Sunday too. I wish we would sing it every week. It pretty much sums it up - Because he lives, we can face tomorrow. Because he lives, all fear is gone..... You will see your Robert again one day. What a glorious day that will be.
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
Birmingham, al - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 9:37 PM CDT

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I jst sent an email awhile ago and when I checked now you have updated too. I guess you answered at least one of my questions in your post. I do think of all of you real often I know that every funeral we attend brings back the pain for us but I agree it is so much worse for the family of the one that is gone. my prayers continue for all
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 18, 2006 8:56 PM CDT

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I have been thinking of you and the kids Have a blessed Easter... we know that we will see our sons again because of GODs great gift to us JESUS and Jesus death on the cross... I never really understood as a child just what that really ment. I am so sorry about the loss of Cam his mom and Dad did everything that could have been done and the love they have shown and faith just shows to thee rest of us how great they are... . my prayers still continue for all of you.

sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 14, 2006 4:21 PM CDT

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Love and hugs,
Eva and Rodney <KWfan4ever@yahoo.com>
www.caringbridge.org/mi/rodneyreeves, - Friday, April 14, 2006 7:23 AM CDT

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Dear Kathy,
I am praying that knowing you will see Robert again because of the resurrection of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, gives you an abundance of peace this Easter.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Thursday, April 13, 2006 10:42 AM CDT

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Dear Kathy:
It was nice to finally meet you last Wednesday. I'm only sorry it was under such sad circumstances. I know Cam was a special part of your family's life. I've read your journal for several years. Your insight about the emotional rollercoaster of life and death is such an inspiration. I glad I was able to tell you about Robert's bench and why "Be Not Afraid" has such a special meaning to me.

Brenda <wduffy6633@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL - Monday, April 10, 2006 7:08 AM CDT

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I'm so very sorry for the loss of your little friend Cam. I've followed his story for such a long time and always hoped and prayed that he would be healed. I might even have found his page from your page for Robert. My thoughts and prayers are with Cam's family, and with yours, as the pain of missing our dear ones never goes away.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 11:48 PM CDT

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Dearest Kathy,

It has been a little while since I have written here. I have continued to stop by for my visits with you, but things going on in my life have restricted my time online. I wanted you to know how very much you and your family have been on my mind and heart in recent weeks, even as Cam's doctor broke the heart-wrenching news that there was just nothing more to do, to fight off the disease that was ravaging his precious little body. : ( Having cared for you and your family for a long time now, I knew you well enough to know that this sorrowful news would hurt your heart so much. It surely hurt mine. : (

There's so much I could write here, so many thoughts swirling in my mind. But I will simply say that even from way up here in Panama City, you will have a "heart-friend" by your side tonight. I will be in that pew with you.. with all who gather there to honor dear little Farmer Brown. My heart will be there. As I had written to Michelle and Erik, may they feel our love and feel our collective arms around them.. I say it to you too, friend. Know that I am loving you in Jesus. I'll be there.

How strange that hearts should be so intertwined, and care so deeply for the pain of another, when our faces have never looked upon one another.. then again, not so strange. BLEST BE THE TIE THAT BINDS OUR HEARTS IN CHRISTIAN LOVE. THE FELLOWSHIP OF KINDRED MINDS IS LIKE TO THAT, ABOVE.

Yes indeed. Lord, draw us all together under your wing, right next to your heart this today. We need your comfort. Amen and Amen..

Love you Kathy girl. BE STRONG. Our tears will not endure.. our love WILL!
Rev. 21:3-5



A LEGACY OF HOPE! Cancer Support & Encouragement
Lynn <lynn@legacyofhope.org>
Panama City, FL USA - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 11:07 AM CDT

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Dear Kathy, Your words bring me to tears, your pain breaks my heart. I am so sorry for this loss to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
McKenzie and Jeanne Johnston <Kenziescause@hotmail.com>
Pevely, Mo - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 9:01 PM CDT

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Kathy - A couple of years ago I started following Cam because of the link at the bottom of your page. It has just left me heart broken and speechless for the past few weeks, and I didn't even know the sweet little man. I'm so sorry - that's all I know to say.
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
bham, al - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 1:03 PM CDT

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Dear Kathy,
My prayers are with you and the kids as all of you grieve the loss of beautiful Cam. I am sure you will be a special blessing to his family during this difficult time.
Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louisn, - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 11:19 AM CDT

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Just thinking of you all this morning. Know that my prayers are always with you.
Laure C. <laurec@bellsouth.net>
Vestavia Hills, AL - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 8:17 AM CDT

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Dear Kathy,
Another wonderful thought provoking journal entry. First, let me say that you are doing an incredible job of putting one foot in front of the other. I understand as well as I can that your heart is broken and so very heavy. I do not want to say that I "know" because I have never lost someone like Robert. I remember once reading on a CaringBridge site that the pain, grief and broken heart never goes away, you just get better at disguising it to those around you. That's is why people think you are doing okay, or getting over it, etc. etc. Of course, that will never be the case. How could anyone ever get over losing a child? I get so angry when I read on other CaringBridge sites the hurt that parents feel when people are telling them they have to move on and get over it. Obviously, those people have NEVER been in the same situation. I am so sorry that Robert is no longer here on earth with you to share his life. I imagine missing him is imeasurable. You are a remarkable mother and I know that even though you feel depression and all that goes along with losing a child, you do a wonderful job with the three children still here on earth. Feel good about that and the positive difference you are making in the classroom. That child that cannot leave without hugging you needs you desperately and you are fulfilling a void in his life. I hope you have a good week starting back Tuesday. I know it is always difficult to go back after being on break. Glad that you were able to get the garage and attic cleaned out. That always is a good feeling!! Wish I could get my act together and do the same. Oh well, all in good time. Prayers are being said for you from Missouri and blessings to you always.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Sunday, March 26, 2006 6:30 PM CST

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Hello my friend...

Almost four years? How can that be? I always remember because my sweet Jacey is turning 4 on Tuesday and we "met" when she was just a couple months old. Wow...to say time flies may not be true because every minute may have felt a lifetime to you. But here you are...still making us think; still challenging us; still putting one foot in front of the other. Your boy must be proud.

Christi <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
- Sunday, March 26, 2006 3:36 PM CST

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Oh Kathy, I know many, and myself included, have told you to write a book. But after reading today's journal, I think it would be a great loss for all of humanity, for you not to attemp to write a book. I know you are a busy, busy woman, but even a page a week would add up after time. I will pray for you and the children, but also pray that this endeavor could happen for you.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 1:24 PM CST

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Happy "late" 16th birthday to Jessica. I am glad she was surprised. What a wonderful story of Matthew's love for his brother. Kathy, I do not know the depths of your grief, because I have never lost a son like Robert, but my heart continues to ache for your loss. Blessings and love to you and the kids always.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Saturday, March 18, 2006 10:34 PM CST

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What a lovely story about the fish pond....I am glad the two of you did not give up...Robert probably loved watching and maybe even got a laugh out of it.....seeing his mom fishing him out with a big stick!! Such a heart warming story...a story of strenth between mother and child.
Colette <colettemcknight@bellsouth.net>
PSL, FL - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 11:16 AM CST

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I'm glad Jessica had a nice birthday--16 is such a milestone birthday for a young girl. I'm also happy to hear that Matthew was able to retrieve Robert's photo from the water and will put up his tribute to his brother again. I think his determination to retrieve the picture speaks volumes, far more than the actions of the person that knocked it down. I've been following your friend Cam's page for a long time now, and am also heavy hearted in hearing that his fight is coming to an end. My prayers remain with your family, and with Cam's.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 11:11 PM CST

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we love you... thanks for sharing your lives with us. how sweet of Matthew to want a place like that to visit and to take very one to see..... and how cruel of some one to destroy it. I don't know Cameron's family but I am heart broken for them.......and for all who love him so.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 13, 2006 3:39 PM CST

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I know I am late I have not checked in for awhile I hope you had a happy birthday Jess..... 16 is a great age to be.... I hope things are going good for every one...
Sharon
ar - Saturday, March 11, 2006 7:47 AM CST

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Hi guys!
Just wanted to stop in and say hello.....Happy 16th Jess!
We are so proud of you!
Take care everyone
Dawn Holman <Dawn.holman@sw-stainless.com>
Horn Lake, MS USA - Thursday, March 2, 2006 4:56 PM CST

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Hey Kathy! I have not picked up that book yet, just could not do it..maybe I will if you recommend it...
Just checking in on how your family is going ...Much love, from us all
Mary Alice Dorschel and Lizzie <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
Suffolk, va usa - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 11:27 AM CST

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Jessica ~ Happy 16th Birthday!
Cindy Wright
Tennessee, - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 11:14 AM CST

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I hope Jessica's birthday is a very special one and that she has a great year ahead of her.
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 0:40 AM CST

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Happy Birthday Jessica! I remember that day when you came into this world. Your parents were so very proud of you! I know they still are. Enjoy your day and may the Lord bless you with many, many, many more!
Carla <cartrash@bellsouth.net>
Clevleand, TN - Monday, February 27, 2006 10:14 PM CST

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Happy Birthday Jessica and Kathy!
Gwen Rollins <joedan1@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Monday, February 27, 2006 8:47 PM CST

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Kathy - I so miss your daily entries!! I seldom have the time to stop and sign the guestbook, so I can only imagine how difficult it is to make an entry. I do still check on you often. I hope your new job is going well and that life's not too crazy. Amanda's coming to B'ham this weekend - I can't wait to catch up!
Tammy Holston <tholston3588@charter.net>
bham, al - Friday, February 24, 2006 8:00 AM CST

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I know I dont sign in so you know I was here to often but you have no idea how often I think about you and the kids and wonder how you all are... and what is going on every time I do I say a prayer for you
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 22, 2006 5:18 PM CST

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Just checking in to see how the Charlton's are doing....

Love ya
Jenny <edmun006@mc.duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 8:44 AM CST

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http://www.GlitterMaker.com/ - Glitter Graphics

With much love,
Eva and Rodney <KWfan4ever@yahoo.com>
www.caringbridge.org/mi/rodneyreeves, - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 9:20 AM CST

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Kathy,

Long time. Oh the memories. You sound well. that is good to hear. Still run across the pictures or our boys and think of your family often.

Blessings,

Lyle
www.caringbridge.org/ne/steven <lylev@datacc.net>
clay Center, NE - Monday, February 13, 2006 0:52 AM CST

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Kathy,
I've seen pictures of you on Robert's site and you are gorgeous! I hope your birthday was a happy one, even though it has to be bittersweet without Robert here. You have moved on in many ways, but Robert is always with you and never forgotten by so many of us that got to know him through his mom's beautiful writings. Blessings and prayers to you always.
Love,

Debbie Nagy <nagyhome@sbcglobal.net>
St. Louis, - Thursday, February 9, 2006 3:54 PM CST

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I found Robert's site through a path that I'm not even sure of now. You have such a talent of expressing your feelings so beautifully in words. I will add your friends to our prayer list. God Bless!
Shannon
Lincoln, NE - Thursday, February 9, 2006 12:29 AM CST

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I hope you had a great birthday on Sunday. You have a wonderful talent with words and expressing your thoughts & feelings. Please know that you are already a gorgeous woman, mother & friend! Sending only positive thoughts and prayers your way.
Mary Lou Thomson
Exeter, ON Canada - Wednesday, February 8, 2006 9:10 AM CST

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Look at you...you're gorgeous at 39. You are ahead of the curve! Happy Birthday, sweet friend.

I will be praying for your friends, as well as continuing to pray for you and your family!!
Christi <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
- Sunday, February 5, 2006 11:07 AM CST

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what a beautiful tribute to your son. your heart will never forget him. my prayers for you and kyle and cam.
sheila sellenriek <shsellenriek@hotmail.com>
wildwood, mo - Friday, February 3, 2006 8:52 AM CST

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Once again....so beautifully written. I have Cam in my thoughts & prayers already - I'll gladly add Kyle.

Love to all
Jenny <edmun006@mc.duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Friday, February 3, 2006 6:38 AM CST

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I'm glad that you were all able to enjoy the holidays and hope that Christina gets accepted into the Arts school. It's nice that you're enjoying your work as a teacher--I'm sure it must take a great deal of patience and strength!
Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca>
Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 0:52 AM CST

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