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Dear Rhonda,

I hope you are having a good weekend. I saw some Fourth of July riddles, and I wondered what Connor would have thought of them.

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist, and I prayed for you, there, in the beauty of holiness.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, you have taught us to keep all your commandments by loving you and our neighbor: Grant us the grace of your Holy Spirit, that we may be devoted to you with our whole heart, and united to one another with pure affection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 5, 2009 12:06 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today our democracy is 233 years old. I have been sitting here, at my keyboard, remembering the ways in which our family celebrated independence, when my boys were little. We always attended at least one fireworks display, and we also often traveled with relatives to hear my cousin, a New York State Senator, give a speech. The community parade and speech was generally followed by a picnic and a birthday cake for my uncle, whose birthday was July 4. I am sure you did similar things with Connor. May memories of those things bring a smile to your face and joy to your heart today.

Beneath my signature, I will add some patriotic quotes and the collect of the day.

God bless you always, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless America.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Patriotic Quotes

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.

~The Declaration of Independence July 4, 1776

We must be free not because we claim freedom, but because we practice it.

~William Faulkner (1897-1962)

When an American says that he loves his country, he means not only that he loves the New England hills, the prairies glistening in the sun, the wide and rising plains, the great mountains, and the sea. He means that he loves an inner air, an inner light in which freedom lives and in which a man can draw the breath of self-respect.

~Adlai E. Stevenson (1900-1965)

If you take advantage of everything America has to offer, there’s nothing you can’t accomplish.

~Geraldine Ferraro (born 1935)

Oh, it's home again and home again, America for me!
I want a ship that's westward bound to plough the rolling sea
To the blessed land of Room Enough beyond the ocean bars,
Where the air is full of sunlight and the flag is full of stars.

~Henry Van Dyke (1852-1933)

Ours is the only country deliberately founded on a good idea.

~John Gunther (1901-1970)

If our country is worth dying for in time of war let us resolve that it is truly worth living for in time of peace.

~Hamilton Fish (1888-1991)

Freedom has its life in the hearts, the actions, the spirit of men and so it must be daily earned and refreshed - else like a flower cut from its life-giving roots, it will wither and die.

~Dwight D. Eisenhower (1890-1969)

You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism.

~Erma Bombeck (1927-1996)

May the sun in his course visit no land more free, more happy, more lovely, than this our own country!

~Daniel Webster (1782-1852)

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Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 4, 2009 5:48 AM CDT

Happy Fourth Of July Weekend To All!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor on another Friday.

We are continuing to have rough weather, and I hear more thunder in the distance. It was on television last night that we ended up with 2.3 inches of rain on Wednesday, and nearby Latham had 3.8 inches. Another community, about a thirty minute drive away, had almost seven inches. We have also had a lot of hail. The evenings are expected to be all right for fireworks, but Saturday and Sunday afternoons may be quite wet. I hope you are having more enjoyable weather and that you can do something fun and relaxing.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 3, 2009 2:53 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We are expecting more severe thunderstorms later today, tomorrow, and Saturday, so I am trying to write in Connor's book before the threatening weather sets in again. I believe I just heard some thunder in the distance.

I would like to thank both you and Tanya, from Delaware, for the kind and encouraging words you expressed about me over the weekend. They really mean a lot to me and to my family. To use Tanya's words, "may God's protection, blessing, comfort, and love surround you" both, and may He grant you both cheer, joy, peace, and provision, as well.

If I am able to see the fireworks this year, I will remember how much your sunshine boy loved them.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

An Early July Collect Remembering Catherine Winkworth, 1 July 1878:

Heavenly Father, by whose grace your servant Catherine was moved to render into English the words of praise which she had heard in the German tongue: grant us a like devotion, that we may be moved to proclaim your glory in sacred song; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 2, 2009 10:01 AM CDT

Rhonda,
I just wanted to let you know that I haven't forgotten about you or Connor. His magnetic picture is still on my refrigerator with that great smile. I was looking for your e mail address but I guess I lost it.... anyway, God Bless you and yours... and especially Connor, I am sure that he is looking down at you from above. I hope that you are doing well now. (Please feel free to contact me IF you have time....I think of you both often)
Ken
Ken Sartini <Sars300@aol.com>
Arlington Heights , Illinois USA - Wednesday, July 1, 2009 4:21 PM CDT

Although the time of remembering our loved one's passing always tugs at our hearts, the assurance of their joys in heaven helps us move on with comfort and a confident hope that we will see each other again.

~Roy Lessin

Dear Rhonda,

I found this quote a few days ago, so I am sharing it with you on another first of the month. We have severe storm warnings in our area, so I am not going to write a lot now, but I am remembering sweet Connor, and I am praying for you. I have had car trouble, now resolved, the weather has been very unsettled, and in general, the last few days have been hectic. Despite it all, Connor was remembered in Sunday Eucharist, and you have both been in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 1, 2009 3:29 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and your blue eyed blonde angel today on another first day of the month. Know Connor is forever in our hearts and you are daily in our prayers.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave <kamik48@att.net>
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 1, 2009 3:23 PM CDT

Rhonda, you've been on my mind a lot lately. I know Connor loved fireworks. I think of him whenever I see them exploding in the air. I'm sure his big beautiful smile was shining as brightly as the explosions. When we all get to Heaven, it will be so nice to meet Connor in person. Thank you for sharing him with all of us.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, Tn USA - Tuesday, June 30, 2009 6:18 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
I dropped by Connor's page today on a whim...it has been quite a while since I've visited this site although I've followed Connor's story since 2003. I don't often sign the guestbook as I usually prefer to remain a silent prayer warrior. However, I do scroll through the guestbook entries and am always moved by Colette's entries and loyalty. Like you, I would also like to thank her. I know that her entries are meant for you, yet she encourages me also with her faith and the collects she leaves so often. Rhonda, thank you for keeping Connor's page up as a tribute to your wonderful sunshine boy. It remains a place of hope and strength. Colette, thank you so very much for sharing your kindness with the world. May God's blessing be with you always. You are a true angel on Earth and you have no idea how much your words help others. Your entries have inspired and encouraged me on many occasions and allowed me to leave this page feeling better than I did when I came. I apologize for the length of this entry but like Rhonda, I feel the need to publicly thank you for all that you continue to do. May God's protection, blessing, comfort, and love surround you and Rhonda always.
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya

Tanya <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
DE God Bless America - Sunday, June 28, 2009 1:27 PM CDT

Colette,

I just wanted to thank you, right here on Connor's page, for your faithfulness to us. For anyone else reading this, Colette has been there since she first found Connor's page when he was going through treatment. She encouraged him with cards, gifts, and most all, her sweet, heartfelt entries in this guestbook. And now, going on FIVE years later, she continues to sign just about every day! Colette, you are an Earth Angel, as I've told you before. Your entries uplift me, and I'm so thankful for you. I "borrowed" a quote you posted on the 55th month anniversary of Connor's entry into Heaven (June 1st), and posted it on my Facebook.

Thank you, you are SUCH a blessing.....

I love you,
(((Hugs)))
~Rhonda, Forever Connor's Mommy :)
Connor's Mom <rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN 37075 - Saturday, June 27, 2009 10:19 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As the birds sing, here in southern Saratoga County, I am thinking of Connor, as I do every day. May assurance of a reunion with Connor, in God's heavenly kingdom, bring you hope and joy this early summer weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Cyril, Bishop Of Alexandria, Theologian, 27 June 444:

Heavenly Father, whose servant Cyril steadfastly proclaimed your Son Jesus Christ to be one person, fully God and fully man: Keep us, we pray, constant in faith and worship; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 27, 2009 9:18 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As the school year comes to a close, here, in New York, I am thinking of Connor and what he might be doing with his time during the summer months. I know that memories of Connor riding his bike, building with his Legos, and enjoying water activities must make you smile. Be assured that you will see Connor again, and that when you do, all shall be well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, we praise you for the men and women you have sent to call the Church to its tasks and renew its life, such as your servant Philip Melanchthon. Raise up in our own day teachers and prophets inspired by your Spirit, whose voices will give strength to your Church and proclaim the reality of your kingdom; through your Son, Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 25, 2009 11:28 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered Wednesday morning, in Holy Eucharist. I think of you both often.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Wednesday (The Nativity Of John The Baptist):

Almighty God, by whose providence your servant John the Baptist was wonderfully born, and sent to prepare the way of your Son our Savior by preaching repentance: Make us so to follow his teaching and holy life, that we may truly repent according to his preaching; and, following his example, constantly speak the truth, boldly rebuke vice, and patiently suffer for the truth's sake; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 24, 2009 11:35 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and of Connor on a beautiful early summer morning. I hope you are well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Sharing A Summer Prayer:

May the openness that Summer brings be a gift to us-
To open the windows of our lives to other people,
To open our homes to share the hospitality of table and church.

Open our minds to revel in the beauty of nature-
The smell of newly mown grass
The morning dew on the rosebud
The scent of honeysuckle on the evening air
The open spaces offering relaxation and a change of pace.

Open our hearts to your love and may your Spirit rest with
each one of us.

~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 23, 2009 9:56 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today's saint is Alban, the first known martyr of England. When my boys were little, they enjoyed seeing the St. Alban stained glass window at the Cathedral of All Saints, in Albany. Certainly there were pictures that Connor enjoyed and things he liked to make with crayons and clay. May thoughts of those things bring you comfort today.

God bless you always, and of course God bless your dear son, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyr Alban triumphed over suffering and was faithful even unto death: Grant to us, who now remember him with thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with him the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 22, 2009 10:07 AM CDT

Summer Blessings To All Of Connor's Family, Friends, And Supporters!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and of Connor today. I hope all is well and that you are enjoying the first day of summer. When you can, please drop me a line.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 21, 2009 3:47 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

While remembering Connor this weekend, I am thinking of Eddie, your father, your brothers, and the other important men in Connor's life. May you, and all of them, be blessed on Father's Day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

I watched a small man with thick calluses on both hands work fifteen and sixteen hours a day. I saw him once literally bleed from the bottoms of his feet, a man who came here uneducated, alone, unable to speak the language, who taught me all I needed to know about faith and hard work by the simple eloquence of his example.

~Mario Cuomo, 52nd Governor Of New York (born June 15, 1932)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 20, 2009 8:09 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

This is a special date in our family life. I know you have many special anniversaries as well, and I pray that you remember some of those good times with a happy heart today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 19, 2009 5:27 PM CDT

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keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Friday, June 19, 2009 1:48 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and remembering sweet Connor, during this busy time of the year. I hope you and your family are well and at peace.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Faith is to believe what you do not yet see; the reward for this faith is to see what you believe.

~St. Augustine Of Hippo (354-430)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 17, 2009 7:11 PM CDT

To my fellow classmate John Henry, thoughts a prayers go out to you.
Paige Peltier Fenton <Paigeart10@cox.net>
Tulsa, OK - Wednesday, June 17, 2009 7:29 AM CDT

Anyone can carry his burden, however hard, until nightfall. Anyone can do his work, however hard, for one day. Anyone can live sweetly, patiently, lovingly, purely till the sun goes down. And this is all that life really means.

~Robert Louis Stevenson, Scottish novelist, poet, essayist, and travel writer (1850-1894)

Dear Rhonda,

I saw this quote in a magazine, while waiting in an office earlier today. I thought you would like it.

I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Collect For The Commemoration Of Joseph Butler, Bishop Of Durham, Theologian, 16 June 1752:

O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant Joseph Butler, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 16, 2009 5:33 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We had our dinner at DeVoe's Rainbow Delights last night. Andrew treated me to a sausage sandwich with onions and peppers and a drink. I treated him to a cone for dessert. It was a lovely night to be out on a picnic table. If Connor had been with us, he could have chosen anything he wanted.

God bless you always. I hope all is well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 13, 2009 9:18 AM CDT

You say grace before meals. All right. But I say grace before the concert and the opera, and grace before the play and pantomime, and grace before I open a book, and grace before sketching, painting, swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing and grace before I dip the pen in the ink.

~Gilbert Keith Chesterton, writer (1874-1936)

Dear Rhonda,

Yesterday, while receiving Communion, my position along the altar rail faced the Jesus and the Children stained glass window. As I gazed upon the figure of Jesus surrounded by children, I remembered sweet Connor, and I prayed for you. I hope you are safe, well, and content.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Commemoration Of G.K. Chesterton, 12 June 1936:

Almighty God, who gave to your servant Gilbert the gift of a Ready tongue and pen, and endued him with zeal to use them in your service: Mercifully grant to each of us, that we may well and truly answer anyone who asks of us a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 12, 2009 11:17 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

The birds have been singing in Clifton Park all day today. They often make me think of Connor. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you are all right. When you can, please let me know.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (For Columba, Abbot of Iona and Missionary
9 June 597):

O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant Columba caused the light of the Gospel to shine in Scotland: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness to you by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

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Be thou my vision, O Lord of my heart,
be all else but naught to me, save that thou art;
be thou my best thought in the day and the night,
both waking and sleeping, thy presence my light.

Be thou my wisdom, be thou my true word,
be thou ever with me, and I with thee Lord;
be thou my great Father, and I thy true son;
be thou in me dwelling, and I with thee one.

Be thou my breastplate, my sword for the fight;
be thou my whole armor, be thou my true might;
be thou my soul's shelter, be thou my strong tower:
O raise thou me heavenward, great Power of my power.

Riches I heed not, nor man's empty praise:
be thou mine inheritance now and always;
be thou and thou only the first in my heart;
O Sovereign of heaven, my treasure thou art.

High King of heaven, thou heaven's bright sun,
O grant me its joys after victory is won;
great Heart of my own heart, whatever befall,
still be thou my vision, O Ruler of all.

Lyrics: Ancient Irish hymn;
trans. Mary Byrne, 1905, and versified by Eleanor Hull, 1912

Music: Slane (Irish)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b021.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 9, 2009 3:39 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Earlier today I was thinking of the importance of gratitude. Later I read James Kiefer's hagiography of Noah Seattle, which seemed connected to me. Below is the collect of the day.

God bless you, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, who loved animals and nature.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who in giving us dominion over things on earth have made us fellow workers in your creation: Grant us such wisdom and reverence toward you that, following the counsel and example of your servants Noah Seattle and Black Elk, we may so use the resources of nature that no one may suffer from our abuse of them, and that generations yet to come may continue to praise you for your bounty; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 8, 2009 1:00 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It is always a great joy to come here and view all of the lovely pictures of Connor. Thank you for keeping his site up for all of his friends to view.

As always, both you and Connor were in my prayers when I was at church, and I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray again.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (Trinity Sunday):

Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 7, 2009 10:53 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist this weekend, as he always is.

Someone sent me a beautiful prayer this morning. I will leave a copy for you beneath my signature. I have not seen the book this prayer came from, but my friend says it is a wonderful book.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A PRAYER FOR JOY

O God of marvel and mystery, make me joyous!

Bless me with the healing and forgiving power of laughter.

Help me to delight in life’s wonderment and surprises.

Preserve me from sanctimonious solemnity and morose morality, and deliver me from the vanity of regrets.

Remove me from the perverse tendency to make mountains out of the molehills of my life.

Help me to regard the duck’s waddle, the monkey’s antics and my own foibles with the same sense of humor.

Remind me that I am important, not for what I do but for what I am—your child, created in your image.

Help me to realize that it is your love that gives meaning to my existence, and that joy and laughter and singing are echoes to that tremendous love.

Let me not forget to be joyful!

Let me not be too hurried to be cheerful.

Let me not be too busy to smile.

I ask these things, my Lord and my God, so that someday I may join with all the mirthful saints and singing angels in praising you eternally. Amen.

~Theresa Cotter in Christ is Risen: Celebrating Lent, Easter and Pentecost
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 6, 2009 2:45 PM CDT

thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, June 6, 2009 10:37 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am remembering Connor on another Friday. I am also pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Today's Collect (For Boniface, Bishop, Missionary, And Martyr, 5 June 754):

Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a
witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and
by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own
possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in
every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy
Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus
Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 5, 2009 11:16 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Late yesterday, I had my first ice cream cone of the spring/summer season. It was one of DeVoe's lovely flavor of the week soft served treats. As I sat on a bench and licked, I thought of your sunshine boy, and of how much most children enjoy ice cream. I wondered if Connor would have chosen the flavor I had, coconut pineapple, or if he would have opted instead for chocolate, vanilla, a dipped cone, or a frozen yogurt. If he were with me, Connor could have had a hotdog, or any sandwich he wanted, as well as a cool treat. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you and for all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (For John XXXIII, Who Died June 4. 1963):

Almighty God, whose will it is to heal all division and discord among those who call upon the name of your Son: We thank you for the good will shown in your servant John, and we pray that we may always be ready to hear our fellow Christians with humility and a willingness to learn, and may also speak the truth in love, to the healing of faction and the renewed witness of your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 4, 2009 3:25 PM CDT

Even beyond the grave there is hope. The God of Life goes on striving in the afterworld; death is a crisis, but not an ending.

~G.A. Studdert Kennedy (1883-1929)

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you this morning, and I am remembering your golden sunshine boy.

God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's many friends and loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 3, 2009 8:57 AM CDT

Rhonda
thinking of you
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Tuesday, June 2, 2009 2:56 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

When my older son was Confirmed, he was about the age that Connor would be now. It was early June, he thought Justin was an interesting saint, and he also had a close friend named Justin, so he used the name "Justin," as his Confirmation name. I will leave the collect for you.

May the name "Justin" and the name "Connor" stir up images of character and bravery today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, who found your martyr Justin wandering from teacher to teacher, seeking the true God, and revealed to him the sublime wisdom of your eternal Word: Grant that all who seek you, or a deeper knowledge of you, may find and be found by you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 2, 2009 9:31 AM CDT

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toronto, on Canada - Tuesday, June 2, 2009 3:32 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Because May 31 fell on a Sunday this year, the church is remembering the Visitation of the Virgin Mary today. In many ways, all of us who are mothers, share in Mary's motherhood of the Holy Child. So, may we too, be blessed, as the collect says, in keeping God's word.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Father in heaven, by whose grace the virgin mother of your incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 12:11 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you today and your little blonde haired boy who was so much a part of your life and lives on in your heart and the hearts of all those who were blessed to have him in theirs...us included! God Bless and know you are daily in our prayers....I saw a little lady bug while we were in Michigan this past week end for a wedding and my thoughts were of Connor. :):):)
Take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave <kamik48@att.net>
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 10:04 AM CDT

...55 months

Dear Rhonda,

I know it is hard to press on in faith and some days, it may seem impossible, but Pentecost teaches that in our baptisms, we have the power to endure. You CAN do it.

I am thinking of you today, and I am remembering sweet Connor.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.

~Charles Wesley (1707-1788)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 1, 2009 6:41 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

On a windy Pentecost afternoon, I am thinking of you and remembering Connor. I read the lessons at one of our services, including a long lesson from Acts 2, with many difficult names identifying groups of ancient peoples.

I hope you are well and that you have had a good weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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Here's one of my favorite Pentecost hymns. Perhaps you can sing some of it today.

Refrain: Hail thee, festival day!
Blest day that art hallowed forever;
day wherein God from heaven,
shone on the world with his grace.

Lo! in the likeness of fire,
on them that await his appearing,
he whom the Lord foretold,
suddenly, swiftly, descends. Refrain

Forth from the Father he comes
with his sevenfold mystical dowry,
pouring on human souls
infinite riches of God. Refrain

Hark! in a hundred tongues
Christ's own, his chosen Apostles,
preach to a hundred tribes
Christ and his wonderful works. Refrain

Praise to the Spirit of life,
all praise to the Fount of our being,
light that dost lighten all,
life that in all dost abide. Refrain

God, who art giver of all
good gifts and lover of concord,
pour thy balm on our souls,
order our ways in thy peace. Refrain

God Almighty, who fillest
the heaven, the earth and the ocean,
guard us from harm without,
cleanse us from evil within. Refrain

Kindle our lips with his live bright coal
from the hands of the Seraph;
shine in our minds with thy light;
burn in our hearts with thy love. Refrain

Words: Venantius Fortunatus (530-609);
trans. Gabriel Gillett, 1906

Music: Salve, festa dies

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/h/h031.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 31, 2009 5:30 PM CDT

I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor,
And one was a queen,
And one was a shepherdess on the green:
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.

~Mrs. L.L. Scott (1898-1986)

Dear Rhonda,

I know I have shared the hymn above in its entirety with you previously. The "shepherdess on the green," Joan of Arc, is remembered today 578 years after her death. Over twenty movies and more than 20,000 books have been written about her, but she still remains a puzzle to many of us today. We remember Joan, in the words of James E. Kiefer, "not for winning military victories, or even because her visions were necessarily authentic, but because, being persuaded of the will of God for her life, she responded in faith and obedience to that will as she understood it." May we be able to also respond to that Will in our own time.

I am thinking of you and of your handsome sunshine boy today, and I will remember Connor in Holy Eucharist.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (For Joan Of Arc, Visionary, 30 May 1431)

O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgement, and light rises up in darkness for the godly: Grant us, in all our doubts and uncertainties, to ask what you would have us do; that the spirit of wisdom may save us from all false choices, that in your light we may see light, and in your straight paths may not stumble, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 30, 2009 10:02 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Once again, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor. I hope you and Connor's grandparents are well.

Today's collect reminds me of the joy and the value in singing to God. I know that acappella singing is very important in your faith tradition, and I hope that you will use your voice to praise God today. I am adding the collect and another related collect.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (For Juraj Tranovsky, 29 May 1637):

Almighty God, who have taught your people to praise you in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs: We thank you for your servants to whom you have given skill in the writing of hymns, especially at this time for Juraj Tranovsky, and we pray that by your grace we may sing your praises joyfully in this life, and finally attain to the harmony of the life to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

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For Church Musicians And Artists:

O God, whom saints and angels delight to worship in heaven: Be ever present with your servants who seek through art and music to perfect the praises offered by your people on earth; and grant to them even now glimpses of your beauty, and make them worthy at length to behold it unveiled forevermore; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 819
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 29, 2009 8:34 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Between tonight's raindrops, two young teens are playing ball in the road. I wonder if Connor would enjoy toss and catch as much as these fellows do. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

I hope you are having a good spring.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 28, 2009 5:59 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy on a rainy spring day. In my mind's eye, I am thinking of the picture of Connor holding his umbrella.

God bless you always, and God bless all those everywhere who love Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Grant to us, Lord, we pray, the spirit to think and do always those things that are right; that we, who cannot do any thing that is good without you, may by you be enabled to live according to your will; and, taught by the writings of your servant John Calvin, may see in the blessings you give us the fruits, not of our deserving, but of your pure bounty; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 4:25 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of your sweet sunshine boy, today. May you have peace in your heart.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For St. Augustine Of Canterbury, Missionary And Bishop (605):

O Lord our God, who by your Son Jesus Christ called your apostles and sent them forth to preach the Gospel to the nations: We bless your holy name for your servant Augustine, first Archbishop of Canterbury, whose labors in propagating your Church among the English people we commemorate today; and we pray that all whom you call and send may do your will, and bide your time, and see your glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 26, 2009 11:28 AM CDT

Happy Memorial Day To All Of Connor's Family, Friends, And Supporters!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on a clear, pleasant Memorial Day afternoon. I hope you have had adequate time to remember, reflect, and pray during this long weekend.

Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Prayer For Our Country

Almighty God, who hast given us this good land for our heritage: We humbly beseech thee that we may always prove ourselves a people mindful of thy favor and glad to do thy will. Bless our land with honorable industry, sound learning, and pure manners. Save us from violence, discord, and confusion; from pride and arrogance, and from every evil way. Defend our liberties, and fashion into one united people the multitudes brought hither out of many kindreds and tongues. Endue with the spirit of wisdom those to whom in thy Name we entrust the authority of government, that there may be justice and peace at home, and that, through obedience to thy law, we may show forth thy praise among the nations of the earth In the time of prosperity, fill our hearts with thankfulness, and in the day of trouble, suffer not our trust in thee to fail; all which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 820
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 25, 2009 4:24 PM CDT

Blessings To All On Ascension Sunday!

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered before the altar this morning, at Eucharist. May God bless his sweet spirit.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

See, the Conqueror mounts in triumph; see the King in royal state,
riding on the clouds, his chariot,
to his heavenly palace gate.
Hark! the choirs of angel voices
joyful alleluias sing,
and the portals high are lifted
to receive their heavenly King.

Who is this that comes in glory,
with the trump of jubilee?
Lord of battles, God of armies,
he has gained the victory.
he who on the cross did suffer,
he who from the grave arose,
he has vanquished sin and Satan,
he by death has spoiled his foes.

While he raised his hands in blessing,
he was parted from his friends
while their eager eyes behold him,
he upon the clouds ascends;
he who walked with God and pleased him,
preaching truth and doom to come,
he, our Enoch, is translated
to his everlasting home.

Now our heavenly Aaron enters,
with his blood, within the veil;
Joshua now is come to Canaan,
and the kings before him quail;
now he plants the tribes of Israel
in their promised resting place;
now our great Elijah offers
double portion of his grace.

He has raised our human nature
on the clouds to God's right hand;
there we sit in heavenly places,
there with him in glory stand:
Jesus reigns, adored by angels;
man with God is on the throne;
mighty Lord, in thine ascension
we by faith behold our own.

Glory be to God the Father,
glory be to God the Son,
dying, risen, ascending for us,
who the heavenly realm has won;
glory to the Holy Spirit,
to One God in persons Three;
glory both in earth and heaven,
glory, endless glory, be.

Words: Christopher Wordsworth (1807-1885), 1862

Christopher Wordsworth is one of my favorite English poets. I hope you enjoy these words, which were sung at St. George's this morning.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 24, 2009 11:16 AM CDT

Happy Memorial Day Weekend To All!

Dear Rhonda,

I know with your work for a retailer that you may not have much time off on, and around, holidays, as the stores, and the offices supporting the stores, are often open. However, I hope you can have some relaxing time this weekend.

My mother always called Memorial Day "Decoration Day," as we always fixed up all of our cemetery plots that day. I am sure you have Connor's resting place looking beautiful. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

This thought was in my email today.

Where there is Love and Wisdom, there is neither Fear nor Ignorance.
Where there is Patience and Humility, there is neither Anger nor Annoyance.
Where there is Poverty and Joy, there is neither Cupidity nor Avarice.
Where there is Peace and Contemplation, there is neither Care nor Restlessness.
Where there is the Fear of God to guard the dwelling, there no enemy can enter.
Where there is Mercy and Prudence, there is neither Excess nor Harshness.

~St. Francis of Assisi (1181/1182-1226)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 23, 2009 11:05 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

While I was waiting for the Ascension Day service to start last night, I was praying some of the Ascension hymns. I will leave you one I found that I have never used before and another of the collects.

I remembered sweet Connor, there, in the beauty of holiness, and I prayed for you, as I am doing today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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A hymn of glory let us sing,
new hymns throughout the world shall ring;
by a new way none ever trod
Christ takes his place--the throne of God!

You are a present joy, O Lord;
you will be ever our reward;
and great the light in you we see
to guide us to eternity.

O risen Christ, ascended Lord,
all praise to you let earth accord,
who are, while endless ages run,
with Father and with Spirit, One.

Words: The Venerable Bede (673-735);
trans. verses 1-2: Elizabeth Rundles Charles (1828-1896)
verse 3: Benjamin Webb (1819-1885).
as altered in The Hymnal 1982

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a019.html

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An Ascension Collect:

Almighty God, whose blessed Son our Savior Jesus Christ ascended far above all heavens that he might fill all things: Mercifully give us faith to perceive that, according to his promise, he abides with his Church on earth, even to the end of the ages; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 22, 2009 12:31 AM CDT

Blessings On The Feast Of Ascension!

Dear Rhonda,

I will remember Connor when I receive Communion later today. I will also pray for you, there, in the beauty of holiness.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that as we believe your only-begotten Son our Lord Jesus Christ to have ascended into heaven, so we may also in heart and mind there ascend, and with him continually dwell; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 20, 2009 11:42 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. Father Henry taught about the saint of the day, Alcuin, saying that anyone who has ever attended a group Bible study, church history class, spiritual life seminar, or prayer group owes a lot to Alcuin, as he promoted those and the saving of books in a dark period. Let us give thanks for Alcuin and his followers today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Alcuin: Deacon, Scholar, and Abbot of Tours (20 May 804):

Almighty God, who in a rude and barbarous age raised up your Deacon Alcuin to rekindle the light of learning: Illumine our minds, we pray, that amid the uncertainties and confusions of our own time we may show forth your eternal truth, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 20, 2009 11:13 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today the people of New York are voting for school boards, school budgets, and school related propositions. Such an occasion always reminds me of my boys as students and of other children I have loved and supported over the years, including sweet Connor. May God bless his spirit.

I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are well, safe, and content.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (For Dunstan of Canterbury, Monk and Archbishop, 19 May 988):

O God of truth and beauty, who richly endowed your bishop Dunstan with skill in music and the working of metals, and with gifts of administration and reforming zeal: Teach us, we pray, to see in you the source of all our talents, and move us to offer them for the adornment of worship and the advancement of true religion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 19, 2009 12:49 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, on another cool, spring morning. The hint of new life is in the air. May we be open, grateful, and expectant.

I am leaving you a short poem I like very much.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

On Waking
By John O'Donohue, Irish Mystic (1954-2008)

I give thanks for arriving
Safely in a new dawn,
For the gift of eyes
To see the world,
The gift of mind
To feel at home
In my life.
The waves of possibility
Breaking on the shore of dawn,
The harvest of the past
That awaits my hunger,
And all the furtherings
This new day will bring.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 18, 2009 7:11 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Eucharist on Saturday afternoon, as I gazed at the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.

After the service, I joined my cousin, from western New York, who had been to meetings in the Plattsburgh area, for dinner about twenty miles north of here, before she started home to western New York. It was so wonderful spending a couple of hours with her.

Linda Martin's note makes me think of Ryan's friend, Richie Shannon, who probably would have also graduated this year. There are many milestones that both Connor and Richie will not achieve, but both have earned the highest award of all, the Crown of Life. May we aspire to achieve the victory those boys have attained.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect (Another Favorite):

O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 17, 2009 3:48 AM CDT

This is from the MARTIN-7 for all of you who followed us...Ryan is graduating tomorrow night from High School. We miss Kevin so much everytime we have another mile-stone that he isn't here for. Ryan is going off to college in the fall. I just wanted you all to know that we are all doing well here in Tennessee.
Linda Martin-Crocker <crockers217@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN - Friday, May 15, 2009 10:49 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Early one night this week, Andrew took me to Albany, to see thousands of tulips, in Washington Park. They were gorgeous. I hope you, too, are experiencing beauty in your life this week.

As always, I am remembering Connor, with a smile in my heart.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 14, 2009 10:02 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As many of us are enjoying plants, flowers, chocolates, and perfumes from Mother's Day, I hope you are having sweet memories of Connor. He was a beautiful boy, and I am sure you will see and know him again. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and every day.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Quote From A May Saint:

There is no creature made that can understand how much and how sweetly and how tenderly our Maker loves us.

~Julian Of Norwich (c.1342-c.1416)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 11, 2009 9:22 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have thought of you many times today. I know you miss your sweet sunshine boy.

I hope you have been able to spend sometime with your mother. She is also in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, whom truly to know is everlasting life: Grant us so perfectly to know your Son Jesus Christ to be the way, the truth, and the life, that we may steadfastly follow his steps in the way that leads to eternal life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 10, 2009 9:45 PM CDT

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY Rhonda
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 10, 2009 9:17 PM CDT

I guess once wasn't enough.:):):) ..sorry my previous entry was entered twice?
Kathy
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, May 10, 2009 8:30 AM CDT

Good Morning Rhonda,
Happy Mother's Day! I am sure a little blonde hair boy with angel wings is sending his love today to his special, wonderful, awesome, caring,kind,loving, mom. Your love for Connor remains forever in your heart and the hearts of all those whose lives he touched. God Bless you...and know you are daily in my thoughts and in my prayers.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, May 10, 2009 8:28 AM CDT

Weekend Blessings To All Mothers!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, of your mother, and of all nurturing women in Connor's life, on this Mother's Day Weekend. May you all be well and be blessed.

Connor will be remembered at Eucharist.

In the poem below, there is a mention of that place where Connor now dwells. May it bring hope to your soul.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

To My Mother

~by Wendell Berry (born 1934)

I was your rebellious son,
do you remember? Sometimes
I wonder if you do remember,
so complete has your forgiveness been.

So complete has your forgiveness been
I wonder sometimes if it did not
precede my wrong, and I erred,
safe found, within your love,

prepared ahead of me, the way home,
or my bed at night, so that almost
I should forgive you, who perhaps
foresaw the worst that I might do,

and forgave before I could act,
causing me to smile now, looking back,
to see how paltry was my worst,
compared to your forgiveness of it

already given. And this, then,
is the vision of that Heaven of which
we have heard, where those who love
each other have forgiven each other,

where, for that, the leaves are green,
the light a music in the air,
and all is unentangled,
and all is undismayed.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 9, 2009 12:50 AM CDT

Hi Rhonda,
I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you on Mother's Day weekend. God sure gave Connor a beautiful and special Mama. With love and hugs.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, May 8, 2009 4:34 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking about you and remembering sweet Connor on another Friday. God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 8, 2009 3:23 PM CDT

Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.” ~John 4: 13-14

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Dear Rhonda,

Today's rain will green up the lawns and nourish the blossoms for the weekend's Albany Tulip Festival. May the water of life, nourish your soul today, as you remember your beautiful sunshine boy.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 7, 2009 6:58 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

At this time, when the Connor J. Hunley award is given out, may the name of Connor, pronounced at his school, bring a smile to all of Connor's teachers and friends, who hear it.

God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's many loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 6, 2009 12:41 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and of Connor on another pretty spring day. We have a beautiful pink tree in our yard, which brings great joy. I have also been watching the birds. I hope you, too, have some cheerful signs of new life to enjoy.

May God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Spring Blessing

The blessing of the signs of spring be yours today:
The new life visible in the fields be a sign of new life in you,
The birds building nests be a sign of belief in the future for you,
The tiny flowers on grassy bands be a sign of the small but
significant things in your life.

May the blessing of God,
Sower of seed,
Nurturer of hope and
Gardener of harmony,
Stay with you today and always.

~Rosemary Wass
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 5, 2009 11:21 AM CDT

I'm sorry you had another rainy weekend for the Relay. It rained very hard here since Friday. I hope the weather was better in your area. Your dedication to Relay for Life and your dedication to Connor is so inspiring. I know God and Connor are always smiling down on you. God blessed you by giving you your precious Connor. God blessed Connor by giving him you. You are thought and prayed for often.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Monday, May 4, 2009 5:00 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As the story of Monnica and Augustine reminds us, the bond between a mother and son is one of the most powerful and enduring. Truly, your bond with Connor is deeper and stronger than most. May you rejoice today that that bond is not broken, and that you will see Connor again, in that place where there is fullness of joy, peace, and celebration.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Lord, who through spiritual discipline strengthened your servant Monnica to persevere in offering her love and prayers and tears for the conversion of her husband and of Augustine their son: Deepen our devotion, we pray, and use us in accordance with your will to bring others, even our own kindred, to acknowledge Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colete
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 4, 2009 12:43 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have remembered Connor, in Eucharist for Good Shepherd Sunday. May God bless you today, as you remember your son.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people: Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 3, 2009 3:20 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I cannot believe that four and a half years have passed, since Connor left his earthly home for his heavenly dwelling. What a bittersweet anniversary this is for you, for all of Connor's family, and for all of his fans! Yet, we are not like those who have no hope. Connor will be seen, known, and loved again, in that place where there is no sorrow or grief, but only life eternal. You can count on it.

In the meantime, Connor is remembered in our thoughts, prayers, and candle lighting.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Connor Jordan Hunley, your hero, and our hero, too.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who gave to your apostles Philip and James grace and strength to bear witness to the truth: Grant that we, being mindful of their victory of faith, may glorify in life and death the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 240
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 1, 2009 10:05 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of a blonde little sunshine boy who captured my heart and taught me how to live life to the fullest..,also thinking of you on this day....actually he and you are in my thoughts and prayers EVERY day! God Bless you.
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI, U.S.A. - Friday, May 1, 2009 8:35 AM CDT

Tim we are keeping up with you at Church. Our Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Carol and Buzz Hamblin <hamblin@gbta.net>
Lewis, KS USA - Sunday, April 26, 2009 11:34 PM CDT

Rhonda, I was watching my son Andrew today and how big and tall he is. and of course reminds me to always remember connor because they are both oct 94 babies. and 15 is around the corner.. then 16 and driving. And It always reminds me to be thankful for every min with them. Our kyle is the same age as cheyenne fiveash and prom was this week.. I just cant help but wonder what the kids would be doing. I think of connor and cheyenne all the time. Praying for you!
kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
indiana - Sunday, April 26, 2009 10:28 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today is a beautiful day, the kind of day that Connor would use for bike riding and other outside activities. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who by the hand of Mark the evangelist have given To your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 25, 2009 3:07 PM CDT

Blessings To All On St. George's Day!

Dear Rhonda,

I am smiling thinking of events on this day in years past. One year, at the annual St. George's pageant, at St. George's, as the child portraying the saint, kicked the dragon's cave, a startled young Andrew began to cry. Minutes later, the same young Andrew was all smiles, when tasty treats were served.

I wonder, did Connor ever see this pageant? What plays and shows did Connor enjoy? Did he ever participate in a play? What role did he have? You know the answer to these questions. May they be a source of joyful remembrance to you today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

God bless us all, when we exercise courage over ourselves, in times of difficulty, and courage in faith, to witness to the Name of Jesus.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 23, 2009 10:03 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered at Holy Eucharist today. Father Henry taught about St. Anselm, who lived from about 1033 until 21 April 1109. He was Archbishop of Canterbury for fifteen and a half years. I will leave one of his prayers and the collect for you.

While at church, I prayed for you. If you need a listening ear, please send an email, or call.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Prayer of Anselm
My God,
I pray that I may so know you and love you
that I may rejoice in you.
And if I may not do so fully in this life
let me go steadily on
to the day when I come to that fullness ...
Let me receive
That which you promised through your truth,
that my joy may be full.

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Almighty God, who raised up your servant Anselm to teach the Church of his day to understand its faith in your eternal Being, perfect justice, and saving mercy: Provide your Church in every age with devout and learned scholars and teachers, that we may be able to give a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 22, 2009 5:56 PM CDT

Rhonda, I came here to see Connors precious Smile! And hoping he leads me to Panda tissue.. Of course its a product of china.... Of course I had to email china and ask where Oh where can it be here in the USA.. How did dollar general get it ect?? I have emailed dollar general too! Sure I could by Northern... Or Cottonelle.. but there is No cute panda on the package... I just would giggle when I put the panda tissue in my cart.. so so cute! I found a website in china for it.. I cant read Chinese... so that site is of No use to me. LOL then I get an email from sweet collette that says.. It sounds like a product of china! LOl Gotta love collette! now if she could just read chinese and help me track the Bum.. tissue down! I know I know I have to much time on my hands. Dollar general HELP! Next step Im contacting oprah! No not really.. she would yell at me for not buying american! Well Hope all is well with you... I will let you know when I get a case of panda delivered to my door and the shipping is more than the rolls! KIM
kim AKA panda Hunter! <dakk2222@comcast.net>
indiana - Monday, April 20, 2009 2:47 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Once again, I am looking at Connor's website, as I do every day. May God bless his sweet spirit.

Since this is Poetry Month, I am trying to read at least one poem every day. Today, I have read several by John Donne, who was an attorney and a priest. From 1621 until his death in 1631, Donne served as Dean of St. Paul's Cathedral, in London. I will leave what is probably his best known poem beneath my signature.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Death, Be Not Proud (Holy Sonnet 10)

Death, be not proud, though some have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou are not so;
For those whom thou think'st thou dost overthrow
Die not, poor Death, nor yet canst thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy pictures be,
Much pleasure; then from thee much more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul's delivery.
Thou'art slave to fate, chance, kings, and desperate men,
And dost with poison, war, and sickness dwell,
And poppy'or charms can make us sleep as well
And better than thy stroke; why swell'st thou then?
One short sleep past, we wake eternally,
And death shall be no more; Death, thou shalt die.

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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 18, 2009 12:57 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As always, I am thinking of you and of Connor. Although it has been very cold here this week, it has been sunny, and I know the kids are glad to be on vacation. If Connor were here with me, we would have gone to a movie, or two, and also gone to a new (to me) nature museum in the Albany Pine Bush. We also would have flown kites at the Clifton Commons or gone roller skating. I am sure you are thinking of all you could have done with Connor this week and missing him very much.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (Friday In Easter Week):

Almighty Father, who gave your only Son to die for our sins and to rise for our justification: Give us grace so to put away the leaven of malice and wickedness, that we may always serve you in pureness of living and truth; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 224
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 17, 2009 11:28 AM CDT

Rhonda, I am sorry I havent been faithful in coming here. I havent been on cheyenns site either.. but I think of connor and cheyenne alot.. they became angels so close to each other. I hope your doing o.k and moving on with some happy things in your life. I hope the real estate starts to pick up for you! Are you still at dollar general?? I had to laugh I think of you when I go into our local one.. and they stopped carrying PANDA Toilet paper.. it was a great soft fluffy brand.. My favorite! well its GONE!!! so what happened to it?? can they get it back?? Im actually going to contact the district here and ask! LOL I think of you and precious connor so much. I need to be faithful and jump on here and let you know.. Im trying to get better again!
Kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
indiana - Thursday, April 16, 2009 10:45 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this morning. I also prayed for you and for all of Connor's loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 15, 2009 4:42 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As we continue Easter Week, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor. I hope you could spend some time this past weekend with your mother, father, and brothers, and I hope all are well. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who by the glorious resurrection of your Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be dominion and praise for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 223
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:27 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on Easter Monday and remembering Connor.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 13, 2009 3:06 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We're sending you Easter blessings from New Hampshire - and thinking of Connor every time we spot a ladybug :-) They love my laundry room!
Deb <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Sunday, April 12, 2009 10:40 PM CDT

Easter Joy And Blessings To All!

Dear Rhonda,

Connor has been remembered in Easter Eucharist.

I hope you are having a good day. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's friends and loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

+++

Jesus Christ is risen today, Alleluia!
our triumphant holy day, Alleluia!
who did once upon the cross, Alleluia!
suffer to redeem our loss. Alleluia!

Hymns of praise then let us sing, Alleluia!
unto Christ, our heavenly King, Alleluia!
who endured the cross and grave, Alleluia!
sinners to redeem and save. Alleluia!

But the pains which he endured, Alleluia!
our salvation have procured, Alleluia!
now above the sky he's King, Alleluia!
where the angels ever sing. Alleluia!

Sing we to our God above, Alleluia!
praise eternal as his love, Alleluia!
praise him, all ye heavenly host, Alleluia!
Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Alleluia!

Words: Compleat Psalmodist, 1749
Stanza 4, Charles Wesley (1707-1788)

Music: Easter Hymn, from Lyra Davidica, 11708; adapt. The Compleat Psalmodist, 1749

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/j/j038.html

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Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 12, 2009 12:53 AM CDT

Happy Easter
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 12, 2009 10:02 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of all of Connor's family, on this day of holy resting.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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O Sorrow Deep!

O sorrow deep! Who would not weep
with heartfelt pain and sighing!
God the Father's only Son
in the tomb is lying.

The Paschal Lamb, like Isaac's ram,
in blood was offered for us,
pouring out the life that he
might to life restore us.

Blest shall they be eternally
who ponder in their weeping
that the glorious Prince of Life
should in death be sleeping.

O Jesus blest, my help and rest,
who tears I pray thee, hear me:
now, and even unto death,
dearest Lord, be near me.

Words: St. 1, Friedrich von Spee (1591-1635); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944). Sts. 2-3, James Waring McCrady (b. 1938). St. 4, Johann Rist (1607-1667); tr. Charles Winfred Douglas (1867-1944)

Music: O Traurigkeit

The Hymnal 1982, #173

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/o/o594.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 11, 2009 11:26 AM CDT

Love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi
www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
Glasgow, - Friday, April 10, 2009 6:32 PM CDT

I was looking for my Ryan J. Betsinger on Facebook. My Ryan is 17, and lives in Sycamore,Illinois He is my grandson. Have a great day.
Colleen Elizabeth Betsinger <redfox7348@aol.com>
Saint Charles, Il USA - Thursday, April 9, 2009 12:07 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered on Wednesday in morning Eucharist, mid-day Stations of the Cross, and evening Tenebrae. I will continue to think of both you and your sweet son, as this most holy week continues.

As lads, my boys enjoyed this week. We always attended all of the services and a Maundy Thursday potluck and colored eggs. I know you have dear memories of Connor at this time of the year, as well. May those memories be sweet for you today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 9, 2009 9:40 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I continue to think about one of my all time favorite little blond boys during this most holy week. God bless Connor, and God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Wednesday In Holy Week:

Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 8, 2009 3:52 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered this morning in Holy Eucharist, as he will be remembered throughout this Holy Week. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit.

I hope you are doing well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

~The Collect For The Monday In Holy Week, The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 220

If this looks familiar, it is, as we also use this collect every Friday.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 6, 2009 12:02 AM CDT

~Palm Sunday Blessings To All!

Dear Rhonda,

As my son and I enjoyed spinach omelets on a cold Palm Sunday, I thought of my CaringBridge friends. Connor will be remembered in many services this week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):

Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

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Traditional Palm Sunday Processional Hymn:

Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.

Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain

The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain

The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain

To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain

Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain

Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern

Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 5, 2009 4:06 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's friends and relatives.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, by the hand of Moses your servant you led your people out of slavery, and made them free at last; Grant that your Church, following the example of your prophet Martin Luther King, may resist oppression in the name of your love, and may secure for all your children the blessed liberty of the Gospel of Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 4, 2009 9:23 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I was having a little difficulty with my internet connection on April 1, but I was remembering Connor and thinking of you and of all of Connor's other loved ones. May God bless you all.

Since yesterday was the first day of National Poetry Month, and since I have been thinking of an Antoine de Saint-Exuperty poem for a few days now, I will leave it beneath my signature. Your family, like mine, lived as the poet talked, and our boys were enriched by all we did with, and for, them.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Generation To Generation

In a house which becomes a home,
one hands down and another takes up
the heritage of mind and heart,
laughter and tears, musings and deeds.
Love, like a carefully loaded ship,
crosses the gulf between the generations.
Therefore, we do not neglect the ceremonies
of our passage: when we wed, when we die,
and when we are blessed with a child;
When we depart and when we return;
When we plant and when we harvest.
Let us bring up our children. It is not
the place of some official to hand to them
their heritage.
If others impart to our children our knowledge
and ideals, they will lose all of us that is
wordless and full of wonder.
Let us build memories in our children,
lest they drag out joyless lives,
lest they allow treasures to be lost because
they have not been given the keys.
We live, not by things, but by the meanings
of things. It is needful to transmit the passwords
from generation to generation.

~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery (1900-1944), Author Of The Little Prince
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 2, 2009 3:29 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
I just wrote an e mail and then they asked for the confirmation # and there wasn't one there so I think I lost what I wrote so here goes again.
I am thinking of your sweet Connor and you today on this first day of the month. I imagine Connor is playing April Fools Pranks in Heaven on all the angels there. (mother nature is playing pranks on us here as it is more like winter than spring.)
Know you are daily in my prayers.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 1, 2009 11:51 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It has been a busy week, but I have remembered Connor in various Lenten services. I hope you are doing well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Friday's Collect (For The Fourth Friday In Lenten):

O God, you have given us the good news of your abounding love in your Son Jesus Christ: So fill our hearts with thankfulness that we may rejoice to proclaim the good tidings we have received; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 28, 2009 1:08 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

A lot of things have come up in discussion, in recent days, about animals. It has made me think of Connor a little more often than usual. May God bless your sweet little animal doctor, and may God bless you.

I am leaving a prayer in thanksgiving for animals, which I hope you enjoy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

For All God's Creatures

O God, we thank thee,
for all the creatures thou hast made,
so perfect in their kind --
great animals like the elephant and the rhinoceros,
humorous animals like the camel and the monkey,
friendly ones like the dog and the cat,
working ones like the horse and the ox,
timid ones like the squirrel and the rabbit,
majestic ones like the lion and the tiger,
for birds with their songs.

O God, give us such love for thy creation,
that love may cast out fear,
and all thy creatures -- and thy creation,
see in men and women like us
their priest and their friend.

~George Appleton
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 24, 2009 12:23 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on a cold late March day. I hope you and Connor's grandparents are well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (Monday in the Fourth Week of Lent):

O Lord our God, in your Holy Sacraments you have given us a foretaste of the good things of your kingdom: Direct us, we pray, in the way that leads to eternal life, that we may come to appear before you in that place of light where you dwell forever with your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 23, 2009 11:02 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in weekend Holy Eucharist, and while at St. George's, I prayed for you and for many of Connor's loved ones. I hope you are doing well, as we begin spring.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (A Favorite):

Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 22, 2009 11:20 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I thought I left a St. Patrick's Day message early Tuesday morning, but I guess it did not register. I hope, if you like it, that you had a traditional Corn Beef and Cabbage dinner. I also hope you had a chance to hear some Irish stories and jokes.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For March 17:

Almighty God, in your providence you chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 18, 2009 1:40 AM CDT

Good luck with the Relay. I know it will be in a few weeks. It is such a wonderful tribute to Connor. Take care.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Tuesday, March 17, 2009 9:18 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have been here several times tbis past week, but I have not had time enough to leave a message. I hope you and all of Connor's loved ones are doing well. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Forty days and forty nights
thou wast fasting in the wild;
forty days and forty nights
tempted, and yet undefiled.

Should not we thy sorrow share
and from worldly joys abstain,
fasting with unceasing prayer,
strong with thee to suffer pain?

Then if Satan on us press,
Jesus, Savior, hear our call!
Victor in the wilderness,
grant we may not faint or fall!

So shall we have peace divine:
holier gladness ours shall be;
round us, too, shall angels shine,
such as ministered to thee.

Keep, O keep us, Savior dear,
ever constant by thy side;
that we thee we may appear
at the eternal Eastertide.

Words: George Hunt Smyttan (1822-1870), 1856

Music: Aus der Tiefe rufe ich (Heinlein) (Nürnbergisches Gesangbuch, 1676, attributed to Martin Herbst, 1654-1681)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/f/f242.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 15, 2009 2:44 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I haven't signed in a long time, and I'm so sorry. I'm sending you hugs and special prayers for a peaceful and prosperous week.
Deb
Litchfield, NH USA - Tuesday, March 10, 2009 5:24 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor has been remembered in Eucharist. May God bless your sweet sunshine boy. It's hard to believe that Connor would be well into his teens (almost 14 and a half).

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 8, 2009 11:25 AM CDT

thinking of Connor's family
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 7, 2009 12:26 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and of Connor today. May God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (For Saturday In The First Week Of Lent):

O God, by your Word you marvelously carry out the work of reconciliation: Grant that in our Lenten fast we may be devoted to you with all our hearts, and united with one another in prayer and holy love; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 7, 2009 10:07 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist and at Stations of the Cross, earlier this week.

Last night, I had dinner out with Andrew. Coming home, I thought of Connor and how much he and you would have enjoyed a similar meal.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Friday In The First Week Of Lent:

Lord Christ, our eternal Redeemer, grant us such fellowship in your sufferings, that filled with your Holy Spirit, we may subdue the flesh to the spirit, and the spirit to you, and at the last attain to the glory of your resurrection; who live and reign with the Father and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 6, 2009 0:28 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of you and your sweet sunshine boy who brought sunshine into the lives of everyone he touched with his courage,inspiration and that beautiful smile that lit up the world!
God Bless,
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, March 1, 2009 4:37 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on another first of the month. May God give you comfort, strength, and courage.

God bless you, Eddie, and all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan; Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son my Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 1, 2009 11:06 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of your brave little trooper, Connor, this morning. I will also remember Connor, in Eucharist.

God bless you always, and God bless your little hero.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Saturday After Ash Wednesday:

Almighty and everlasting God, mercifully look upon our infirmities, and in all our dangers and necessities stretch forth your right hand to help and defend us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~Lesser Feasts And Fasts
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 28, 2009 9:44 AM CST

Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of Himself.

~Mother Teresa (1910-1997)

Dear Rhonda,

On the first Friday of Lent, it seems good to think of the words of Mother Teresa. Those who keep a holy (prayerful) Lent know the joy of receiving our Lord afresh and alive on Easter.

One of the men of St. George's is emailing a Psalm a day, based on the favorite Psalms of the lay readers of the parish. He began the season with his favorite, and he honors me by sending my favorite today. Please honor God by praying it with me.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Psalm 16: 5-11, The Book of Common Prayer, Page 600

5. O LORD, YOU are my portion and my cup; *
it is you who uphold my lot.

6. My boundaries enclose a pleasant land; *
indeed, I have a goodly heritage.

7. I will bless the LORD who gives me counsel; *
my heart teaches me, night after night.

8. I have set the LORD always before me; *
because he is at my right hand I shall not fall.

9. My heart, therefore, is glad, and my spirit rejoices; *
my body also shall rest in hope.

10. For you will not abandon me to the grave, *
nor let your holy one see the Pit.

11. You will show me the path of life; *
in your presence there is fullness of joy,
and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 27, 2009 8:47 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy. He will ALWAYS be in my heart.
Love and hugs,

Kathy
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, February 26, 2009 9:07 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

As Lent begins, I am thinking of you, Connor, and all of Connor's loved ones. I glanced at the Resurrection/New Life stained glass, at St. George's, while there yesterday, for the imposition of ashes, and thought of Connor and his enjoyment of animals and of nature, in general. God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you, your parents, and all of Connor's other family members are doing well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.

As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.

As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.

And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.

Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!

Words: Claudia F. Hernaman, 1873
Music: St. Flavian
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 26, 2009 11:14 AM CST

Happy Mardi Gras To All!

Dear Rhonda,

When my boys were little, we always enjoyed a Shrove Tuesday Pancake Supper on this day. My older boy could really pack the cakes in! Pancakes, especially my blueberry pannies, are still one of Andrew's favorite meals. Will you be having pancakes tonight?

As always, I am thinking of Connor. May God always bless him.

God bless you and all of your loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For February 24:

God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be guided and governed by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 24, 2009 10:21 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I have been here a few times this week. There has not been too much to say, but I do want you to know that I am thinking of you and of your sweet sunshine boy, Connor.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 20, 2009 10:02 AM CST

Happy President's Week To All!

Dear Rhonda,

I have just finished sending President's Day greetings to the children in our extended family. I added about a dozen cute dog pictures, as the oldest child is only six and a half, so I have to keep things light for them. I would love to be able to send such greetings to Connor.

You were in my thoughts and prayers, when I was at Eucharist yesterday. May God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 16, 2009 12:37 AM CST

thinking of you and our angels..missing them so dearly
DeAnna~Chase's Moma FOREVR!!! <Chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, February 15, 2009 10:10 AM CST

Dearest Rhonda. We have been so blessed to have you come in to our lives and therefore being able to hear about Conners' journey. I am most certain he was an amazing little boy because his mommy certainly is. Love you lots..Kim Eddie & Family
Kim & Eddie Dorris <kimmy62@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Sunday, February 15, 2009 9:12 AM CST

Happy Valentine's Day To All!

Dear Rhonda,

I have thought of you, and of sweet Connor, several times this week. I hope things are going well, there in the Hendersonville area.

Since today is Valentine's Day, I will leave you a few of my favorite quotes on love.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

We must begin with love, continue with love, and end with love.

~St. Francis de Sales

+++

To fall in love with God is the greatest of romances. To seek Him the greatest treasure. To find Him the greatest human achievement.

~St. Augustine

+++

We may not be able to give much, but we can always give the joy that springs in a heart that is in love with God.

~Mother Teresa Of Calcutta

+++

Love Him totally who gave Himself totally for your love.

~St. Claire of Assisi

+++

Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.

~Phillips Brooks
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 14, 2009 2:26 AM CST

I'm thinking about you and your so very special valentine, Connor.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Friday, February 13, 2009 6:20 PM CST

My thoughts & prayers are w/ you! Connor your a real HERO!

Love, Renee
Renee Lammons <brslammonss@yahoo.com>
Houston, TX USA - Friday, February 13, 2009 1:29 PM CST

Rhonda and Eddie: Thinking of you both, and praying for a successful Relay this year.

Big hugs,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Wednesday, February 11, 2009 9:44 PM CST

thinking of you;wishing you the best
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 11, 2009 2:45 PM CST

looking for some one to corespond with
samuel1 <chigozie_schi@yahoo.com>
abidjan, abidjan i vory coast - Wednesday, February 11, 2009 4:19 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I have just finished preparing Valentines for the children of our family. How I wish Connor was here, so I could make one for him. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you are doing well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 9, 2009 9:59 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Yesterday, Andrew and I had lunch at the Pizza Hut Buffet. It has been a couple of months since we have been there, so it was a greatly appreciated break from the humdrum of a really long winter. The Super Bowl made me hungry for wings, so we ordered a basket, to go with our buffet selections. It was a tasty, fun, and relaxing meal.

Connor will be remembered in Eucharist this weekend. While at the service, I will pray for you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

From Today's Reading From The Nouwen Society:

Gentle is the one who is attentive to the strengths and weaknesses of the other and enjoys being together more than accomplishing something. A gentle person treads lightly, listens carefully, looks tenderly, and touches with reverence. A gentle person knows that true growth requires nurture, not force. Let's dress ourselves with gentleness. In our tough and often unbending world our gentleness can be a vivid reminder of the presence of God among us.

~Henri Nouwen (1932-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 7, 2009 12:18 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and remembering dear Connor on another Friday.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 6, 2009 9:38 AM CST

Dear Sherry and family,
Alan and I have you in our prayers. We wish you continued progress in your road to recovery...Sally & Alan Klein
Sally Klein <sallyotg@suddenlink.net>
Vienna, WV USA - Thursday, February 5, 2009 6:23 AM CST

we misss you very much !!!!
Bill &Mary Crook <crookwf@comcast.net>
goodlettsville, tn USA - Wednesday, February 4, 2009 12:15 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Andrew and I are eager for pictures of the new family baby. My cousin now has six grandsons and one granddaughter. I enjoy them all.

Many times, when I see pictures of one of the older kids holding one of the younger, I think of the picture of Connor holding Brett. God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty and everlasting God, you sent your servant Anskar as an apostle to the people of Scandinavia, and enabled him to lay a firm foundation for their conversion, though he did not see the results of his labors: Keep your Church from discouragement in the day of small things, knowing that when you have begun a good work you will bring it to a fruitful conclusion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 3, 2009 9:43 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

A couple of hours ago, my cousin, Marge, called to tell me that her son, Rick, and his wife, Anita, had a baby boy, they plan to call Wes, this morning, at 5:01. Marge and I have been in touch regularly, as this birth approached, and last night, she called to tell me that the newcomer was on his way. Thank God for another healthy family baby and for all healthy children everywhere.

Today is the Feast of the Presentation. I will leave the collect below.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty and everliving God, we humbly pray that, as your only-begotten Son was this day presented in the temple, so we may be presented to you with pure and clean hearts by Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 2, 2009 11:13 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,
As the sun shines brightly this morning in Green Bay my thoughts are of a little blonde haired sunshine boy. He will NEVER be forgotten. A few of his pictures adorn my computer desk and whenever Brandon is here and playing on the computer he acknowledges Connor's pictures. I do miss Connor's earthly presence, but I feel him near me often.
God Bless you and know you are daily in my prayers.
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, February 1, 2009 10:58 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered, in Holy Eucharist, yesterday. After the service, we enjoyed an Italian dinner, sponsored by the youth group. The kids were working hard, but also having a lot of fun. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed the evening.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, you govern all things both in heaven and on earth: Mercifully hear the supplications of your people, and in our time grant us your peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 1, 2009 10:20 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, when I did the lay reading yesterday. Connor is a solid thread in my prayer life and in the prayers of many others. God bless his sweet spirit!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Give us grace, O Lord, to answer readily the call of our Savior Jesus Christ and proclaim to all people the Good News of his salvation, that we and the whole world may perceive the glory of his marvelous works; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 215
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 25, 2009 11:44 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Today is the commemoration of Bishop Phillips Brooks, who penned the lyrics to "O Little Town of Bethlehem." Brooks was known as a friend of children. After he died, a five year old girl asked her mother why she had not seen him recently. When her mother told her that Brooks had gone to heaven, the child exclaimed, "Oh, Mama, how happy the angels will be."

Truly the little girl was right, and truly the angels were also happy to have Connor enter the glorious kingdom.

Beneath my signature, I will add today's collect and my favorite Brooks quotation. Truly you, in your care for Connor, are an example of the bishop's words.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O everlasting God, you revealed truth to your servant Phillips Brooks, and so formed and molded his mind and heart that he was able to mediate that truth with grace and power: Grant, we pray, that all whom you call to preach the Gospel may steep themselves in your Word, and conform their lives to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

+++

Duty calls us to do things well, but love makes us do them beautifully.

~Phillips Brooks (1835-1893)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 23, 2009 12:10 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of your little sunshine boy who brightened the lives of all those who were blessed to know him. Though I was never fortunate enough to meet him in person he alway has held a very special place in my heart and always will. You are in my prayers daily.
I fell on the ice a few weeks ago and ended up in the emergency room with stitches in my finger and a very sore rib/side. This week has been my best week in a few, although still a bit sore I am able to move much easier. I am lucky I did not break anything, I fell hard on our back porch which is concrete, my rib hit the step.
Miss hearing from you. Take care
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, January 22, 2009 4:37 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

This is a quickie to remind you that I am thinking of Connor, and of you, today. May God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (I am struck by the words, "invincible and steadfast faith." May we ask for and receive this gift today.) :

Almighty God, whose deacon Vincent, upheld by you, was not terrified by threats nor overcome by torments: Strengthen us to endure all adversity with invincible and steadfast faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 22, 2009 12:23 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and hoping you are all right. If there is anything I may be able to do to help, please be in touch.

We are awaiting the birth of a child in our extended family. The young couple has a little girl, Ella Grace, who is three. As I think of the child, who will be born any day now, I remember the picture you posted of Connor and Brett.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, you choose those whom the world deems powerless to put the powerful to shame: Grant us so to cherish the memory of your youthful martyr Agnes, that we may share her pure and steadfast faith in you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 21, 2009 11:13 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on this historic day. I wonder if Connor would have enjoyed the inauguration and other national observances as much as my boys always did. My sons were into scouting, sports, church, music, and community service, when they were in their early teens. I wonder what may have interested Connor. Surely animals and fast vehicles would have been a part of Connor's life.

God bless you always, and God bless our nation.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 20, 2009 9:24 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, on a snowy winter evening. Connor has been remembered in Eucharist, and it is about time for some hot drinks, at our house. I hope and pray that all is well with you and with all of Connor's loved ones.

Below is the first prayer for the Week of Christian Unity, which began today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

God of compassion, you have loved and forgiven us in Christ, and sought to reconcile the entire human race in that redeeming love. Look with favor upon us, who work and pray for the unity of divided Christian communities. Grant us the experience of being brothers and sisters in your love. May we be one, one in your hand. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 18, 2009 5:45 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, at the end of a very cold week. We may reach temperatures around 28 toward the middle of next week, which would be a real heat wave. I hope you are safe, warm, and well.

Today's saint is Antony, an abbot in Egypt, who died on 17 January, 356. His biography was written by Athanasius, who said of him: "Who ever met him grieving and failed to go away rejoicing?" I will leave the collect below.

God bless you always, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones and friends. (I am naming several of those relatives and friends to the Lord, while I am at Connor's site.)

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who by your Holy Spirit enabled your servant Antony to Withstand the temptations of the world, the flesh, and the devil: Give us grace, with pure hearts and minds, to follow you, the only God; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 17, 2009 1:30 PM CST

Rhonda--please know I am thinking of you and Angel Connor. You are all still in my heart, thoughts, and prayers.
We love you! Hayden is 7--can you believe it?
Lori Pierce
Lori <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, Tn - Thursday, January 15, 2009 3:38 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

For a couple of days, I have been thinking about a prayer of St. Ambrose. I will leave it here, so it can help you, too.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord Jesus Christ, you are for me medicine when I am sick; you are my strength when I need help; you are my life when I fear death; you are the way when I long for heaven; you are light when all is dark; you are my food when I need nourishment.

~St. Ambrose of Milan (c.337-397)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 15, 2009 2:20 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

As always, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Lord our God, you raised up your servant Hilary to be a champion of the catholic faith: Keep us steadfast in that true faith which we professed at our baptism, that we may rejoice in having you for our Father, and may abide in your Son, in the fellowship of the Holy Spirit; who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 13, 2009 11:24 PM CST

Your site uplifted me. Thank you
Dane Charity <danecharity@yahoo.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Monday, January 12, 2009 7:33 PM CST

Blessings On The Feast Of The Baptism Of Our Lord!

Dear Rhonda,

Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist this weekend. After church yesterday, a friend and I went to IHOP for dinner. It began snowing, as we were about to leave the restaurant, and we got about eight inches of fluffy, light snow overnight. Connor would have delighted in the abundance of soft snow.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Father in heaven, who at the baptism of Jesus in the River Jordan proclaimed him your beloved Son and anointed him with the Holy Spirit: Grant that all who are baptized into his Name may keep the covenant they have made, and boldly confess him as Lord and Savior; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 214
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 11, 2009 12:57 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

As always, I am thinking of you and of sweet Connor. God bless you on another day of walking in the way of the cross.

As I came to this site, I found myself humming the Epiphany hymn, by John Mason Neale, which I left you on Tuesday. Here is a bit of it again.

Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter.

+ Remember, no one ever truly encounters the living Christ, with out her heart and footsteps becoming lighter. +

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, January 9, 2009 12:42 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

We have had another mixed weather night and morning, with a lot of ice coming down on top of snow. It is very slippery walking out there, but this time, our power stayed on, and as far as I know, most others also have electricity, too.

In doing my spiritual reading, I came across two related quotes that I want to share with you.

May you know the strength and depth of God today, and may you always be blessed.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

+++

I have no other helper than you, no other father, I pray to you.
Only you can help me. My present misery is too great.
Despair grips me, and I am at my wit's end,
O Lord, Creator, Ruler of the World, Father.
I thank you that you have brought me through.

How strong the pain was - but you were stronger.
How deep the fall was - but you were even deeper.
How dark the night was - but you were the noonday sun in it.
You are our father, our mother, our brother, and our friend.

~an African prayer

for January 7
in Prayers for Healing: 365 Blessings, Poems, and Meditations from Around the World
edited by Maggie Oman

+++

One who is at peace can draw good from everything.

~Gerald Groote, Dutch preacher, 1340-1384

Peace Thought for January 7

~from Peacemaking Day By Day, Volume 2

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 7, 2009 12:26 AM CST

Glad Epiphany To All!

Dear Rhonda,

On this holy day, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor. We are having nasty weather, and I am not feeling my best, so I did not get out to Eucharist tonight. I am contenting myself singing some of my favorite Epiphany hymns. I will include the John Mason Neale hymn that not many people know, but which is probably my favorite. Tony Barrand and John Roberts, who study and perform traditional music, are the ones that introduced it to me. It is on a couple of their Nowell Sing We Clear albums and also on a Pint and Dale recording.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Over the Hill and Over the Dale
by John Mason Neale

Over the hill and over the dale
Came three kings together
Caring naught for snow and hail
Cold and wind and weather
Now on Persia’s sandy plane
Now where Tigris swells with rain
They their camels tether
Now through Syrian lands they go
Now through Moab faint and slow
Now o’r Edam’s heather.

Over the hill and over the dale
Each king bears a present
Wise men go a child to hale
Monarchs seek a peasant
And in front a star proceeds
Over rocks and rivers leads
Shines with beams incessant
Therefore onward, onward still
Ford the stream and climb the hill
Love makes all things pleasant.

He is God ye go to meet
Therefore incense proffer
He is king ye go to greet
Gold is in your coffer
Also man he comes to share
Every woe that man can bear
Tempter, railer, scoffer
Therefore now against the day
In the grave when him they lay
Myrrh ye also offer.

Over the hill and over the dale,
Riding east together
Caring naught for snow and hail,
Naught for wind and weather
Warned by God from Herod’s door,
Each king turns for home once more
Hearts and footsteps lighter,
Now behind them shines the star
Which they followed from afar,
Shining ever brighter.

Today's Collect:

O God, by the leading of a star you manifested your only Son to the peoples of the earth: Lead us, who know you now by faith, to your presence, where we may see your glory face to face; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, January 6, 2009 7:01 PM CST

Rhonda, just wanted to let you know that you and Connor are on my mind. I am so glad the holidays are over. They are so very painful now.
I am so very proud of our warriors. They had SO MUCH strength & courage.
Praying you have comfort and get lots signs from Connor.
WWW.caringbridge.com/visit/miracle2
DeAnna~Longing to be with my son, Chase <Chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 5, 2009 5:36 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Greetings to you, and to all of Connor's friends on Twelfth Night! When my boys were little, we used to go to the party at Fort Crailo, in Rensselaer. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed the traditional food treats, music, and gaiety.

I have just learned that one of Connor's best supporters, a special lady from Arkansas, is celebrating her birthday today. God bless you, Sharon!

Connor has been remembered in several celebrations of the Eucharist, during these holy Twelve Days.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, January 5, 2009 3:09 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

A friend sent me a forward about a young boy, with leukemia, being made an honorary fireman. As I read, I could not help thinking about Connor and the picture of him in his fireman's outfit on the homepage. I also thought of Connor's Disney trips, his ride in the General Lee, and his go-kart. Despite suffering and evil in the world, many people are so good. Of course, when the ill person was Connor, it was easy to be good.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (another of my favorites):

O God, who wonderfully created, and yet more wonderfully restored, the dignity of human nature: Grant that we may share the divine life of him who humbled himself to share our humanity, your Son Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, January 4, 2009 1:06 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, as I listen to the wind blow. We have had a very windy start to the new year.

Yesterday, Andrew treated me to a showing of the movie, Valkyrie. We enjoy history, so we liked it.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Gladys Aylward, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the people of China. Raise up in this and every land heralds and evangelists of your kingdom, that your Church may make proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, January 3, 2009 12:47 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of Connor and you on this first day of the month and the New Year. He will always be in my heart and my life was blessed and enriched by knowing that sweet little blonde boy with a heart so big and courage so strong.
God Bless you.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, January 1, 2009 7:51 PM CST

Happy New Year To All!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, as we begin a new year. My 2009 be a time of peace, prosperity, and blessings for you.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus):

Today's Collect:

Eternal Father, who gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of
Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we
pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord
Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, January 1, 2009 9:49 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on New Year's Eve.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 31, 2008 8:21 PM CST

HI I just wanted to let you know that not a day passes that I do not remember your Connor and you. Today its been 15 years since i lost my Mike,
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 30, 2008 7:37 PM CST

"And new command I give you:Love one another.As I have loved you,so you must love another."this is my dear greeting to you all who love Christ and will exsept him with joy and hope and watching theys hearts that stand in Christ,so win too your neighbor to him and pray and joy,thanks and bless and joy,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
södertälje, sweden - Monday, December 29, 2008 11:04 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Yesterday, I received three beautifully framed pictures of my boys celebrating Christmases in their childhood. I cannot help comparing them to the picture of Connor with Santa and the picture of Connor beneath your tree. The look on Connor's face, as he gazed at Santa was priceless.

Today we remember the Holy Innocents, the first to die for Christ. The collect is below.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

We remember today, O God, the slaughter of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod. Receive, we pray, into the arms of your mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might frustrate the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 29, 2008 9:13 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Eucharist, on Saturday afternoon. He was also remembered earlier in the week on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.

Andrew and I have a busy day planned for today, so I am signing early, to be sure I do.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, you have poured upon us the new light of your incarnate Word: Grant that this light, enkindled in our hearts, may shine forth in our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 28, 2008 3:26 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I have just read a good article about customs for the Twelve Days of Christmas, in homes, and in churches. It makes me think of years past, when my boys were growing up. I am sure the topic could bring to your mind many delightful thoughts of Connor. I love the picture of him, beneath your family Christmas tree! May your memories of your own childhood Christmases, and your memories of Christmases with Connor, bring you joy and peace today.

Today is the Feast of St. John, the Apostle. I will leave you the collect, and the verse for St. John from For All Your Saints Still Striving.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Shed upon your Church, O Lord, the brightness of your light, that we, being illumined by the teaching of your apostle and evangelist John, may so walk in the light of your truth, that at length we may attain to the fullness of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

+++

By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.

For John, your beloved disciple, exiled to Patmos' shore,
And for his faithful record, we praise you evermore;
Praise for the mystic vision his words to us unfold.
Instill in us his longing, your glory to behold.

Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.

Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)

Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 27, 2008 11:13 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Today is the Feast of St. Stephen the Protomartyr. Stephen was on my list of boys' names, which reminds me that I never heard the story of Connor's name. Perhaps someday you will share it.

God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

We give you thanks, O Lord of glory, for the example of the first martyr Stephen, who looked up to heaven and prayed for his persecutors to your Son Jesus Christ, who stands at your right hand; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.

+++

Perhaps you can take a minute to sing this hymn with me.

By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.

All praise, O Lord, for Stephen who, martyred saw you stand
To help in times of torment, to plead at God's right hand.
Like you, our suffering Savior, his enemies he blessed,
With "Lord, receive my spirit," his faith, in death, confessed.

Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.

Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)

Hear Nyland at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209a.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 26, 2008 10:08 AM CST

Merry Christmas!
Just wanted to stop by and let you know we're holding your family in our heart today and always.
God bless!
The Garcia Family,

Frank, Renee, Kassidy, Kameron, Kennedy & Keeghan

http://www.myspecialks.com

http://www.carepages.com/carepages/kennedygarcia

Renee Garcia <CAmommy2KJ@aol.com>
Clarksville, TN - Thursday, December 25, 2008 8:29 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy this blessed day. God Bless you and know your sweet boy is always on our minds and in our hearts.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, December 25, 2008 5:43 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I read at St. George's, this morning. While there, I remembered Connor in Holy Eucharist, and I prayed for you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, you make us glad by the yearly festival of the birth of your only Son Jesus Christ: Grant that we, who joyfully receive him as our Redeemer, may with sure confidence behold him when he comes to be our Judge; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 25, 2008 2:37 PM CST

Ronda
thinking of you this Christmas day
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Thursday, December 25, 2008 11:19 AM CST

Hodie Christus natus est
hodie Salvator apparuit:
hodie in terra canunt Angeli,
laetantur Archangeli:
hodie exsultant justi, dicentes:
Gloria in excelsis Deo, alleluja.

Today is Christ born;
today the Savior has appeared;
today the Angels sing,
the Archangels rejoice;
today the righteous rejoice, saying:
Glory to God in the highest. Alleluia!

God bless you all on this blessed Christmas morning!

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist, on Christmas Eve, at St. George's. Andrew and I had five guests with us. What a lovely thing to happen!

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

This Morning's Collect:

Almighty God, you have given your only-begotten Son to take our nature upon him, and to be born this day of a pure virgin: Grant that we, who have been born again and made your children by adoption and grace, may daily be renewed by your Holy Spirit; through our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom with you and the same Spirit be honor and glory, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 213
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, December 25, 2008 1:37 AM CST

A Christmas Prayer
by Robert Louis Stevenson

Loving Father,
Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.

Close the door of hate
and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift
and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing
which Christ brings,
and teach us to be merry with clear hearts.

May the Christmas morning
make us happy to be thy children,
and Christmas evening bring us to our beds
with grateful thoughts,
forgiving and forgiven,
for Jesus' sake.

Amen.

God bless you, dear Rhonda. I am thinking of you tonight.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 3:21 PM CST

Christmas Blessings To All!

Dear Rhonda,

May your worship tonight, or tomorrow, be filled with joy and praise. I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, at this holy time of the year.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

LORD JESUS, as we contemplate your en-flesh-ment,

so that you could be like us in all ways but sin:

give us hearts filled with faith and gratitude,

that in this Christ-Mass we make experience Your redeeming love.

~A Prayer By Daniel William Herzog

Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 9:43 AM CST

merry christmas rhonda...i know connor will be with you tonight and tomorrow...love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborahmp64@gmail.com>
southgate, MI - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 7:01 AM CST

I'm thinking of each one of you during the Christmas season. I hope Connor can send you a special sign on Christmas day.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Tuesday, December 23, 2008 8:59 PM CST

Rhonda, I have been thinking of you so much, and connor. I know it seems like an eternity to you that he has been gone.. It doesnt feel like 4 yrs could of passed though to me. You have come so far from those early days when thinking of surviving this 4 yrs later seemed so impossiple to bare. We pray for you. And are thinking of you especially during the Lords Birthday celebration! connor is celebrating with jesus again... can you even imagine that? it is more than we can ever imagine. Peace to you and your family.
Kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
IN - Monday, December 22, 2008 10:07 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Today is another blustery December day. We have fresh snow, but, due to the wind, few children will be playing outside, after school.

We are marking the Feast of St. Thomas, the Apostle, today. (It is normally celebrated on December 21, and is often the day of winter ordinations, but it was transferred, due to Sunday, which is always a Feast of Our Lord.) I will leave the collect and a hymn below.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everliving God, who strengthened your apostle Thomas With sure and certain faith in your Son's resurrection: Grant us so perfectly and without doubt to believe in Jesus Christ, our Lord and our God, that our faith may never be found wanting in your sight; through him who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest,
Your holy Name, O Jesus. for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious, that they might wear the crown
And ever shine in splendor reflected from your throne.

All praise, O Lord, for Thomas whose short-lived doubtings prove
Your perfect two-fold nature, the depth of your true love.
To all who live with questions a steadfast faith afford;
And grant us grace to know you, made flesh, yet God and Lord.

Then let us praise the Father and worship God the Son
And sing to God the Spirit, eternal Three in One,
Till all the ransomed number who stand before the throne
Ascribe all power and glory and praise to God alone.

Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal, 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
or Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 22, 2008 12:26 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

This weekend, we lit the peace candle in our parish Advent wreath, and many of us light the peace candle in our homes, at mealtime, or as we sit reading, or having family time. May you know the deep peace of Christ this week.

Tonight is the Blue Christmas, in Clifton Park. I almost always attend, but the snow is coming down, at a good clip, so I will stay home and sip hot chocolate, thinking about those in bereavement this year, and those sad because of illness, job loss, income reduction, and other hardships.

I hope you are at peace, safe, and comfortable.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (one of my favorites):

Purify our conscience, Almighty God, by your daily visitation, that your Son Jesus Christ, at his coming, may find in us a mansion prepared for himself; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, December 21, 2008 3:23 PM CST

Rhonda,
Just thought that I would look at Connor's sweet face & saw the update. Sorry that we have missed the Toy Drive this year. Not a day goes by that I don't think of Connor.Hope that you'll have a good Christmas.Maybe we can come to the Relay.We do miss him alot.
Donna Davis <daviswel@nctc.com>
Westmoreland, tn USA - Saturday, December 20, 2008 12:15 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Many of us in the Great Northeast are getting back to normal now after the Ice Storm of December 11 and 12. Please pray for those still without heat, lights, and/or phone service, especially the elderly, children, and the disabled.

I am thinking of dear Connor, and of you, during this week of lighting the rose candle for JOY.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 15, 2008 9:41 AM CST

Rhonda,
I am was thinking of you today and wanted to say hello. Its hard to believe its been 4 years since Connor died. I still remember clearly you guys coming in and the fun we had. You are in my prayers. Michele Stratton
Michele Stratton <rstratto@bellsouth.net>
Burns, TN USA - Friday, December 12, 2008 3:26 PM CST

Thinking of you, Rhonda, and Connor tonight.
Can't wait to be with our boys!
DeAnna~Chase's Moma FOREVER!!! <Chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
US - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:53 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

During this week of lighting the "love" candle in our Advent wreaths, I am thinking of you and your son, who was full of God's love.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

People, Look East
Text By Eleanor Farjeon

People, look East. The time is near
Of the crowning of the year.
Make your house fair as you are able,
Trim the hearth and set the table.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the guest, is on the way.

Furrows, be glad. Though earth is bare,
One more seed is planted there:
Give up your strength the seed to nourish,
That in course the flower may flourish.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the rose, is on the way.

Birds, though you long have ceased to build,
Guard the nest that must be filled.
Even the hour when wings are frozen
God for fledging time has chosen.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the bird, is on the way.

Stars, keep the watch. When night is dim
One more light the bowl shall brim,
Shining beyond the frosty weather,
Bright as sun and moon together.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the star, is on the way.

Angels, announce with shouts of mirth
Christ who brings new life to earth.
Set every peak and valley humming
With the word, the Lord is coming.
People, look East and sing today:
Love, the Lord, is on the way.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:24 AM CST

Rhonda
I hope Connor's Toy Drive brings lots of happiness to the children
in the hospital this Christmas season.

prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Tuesday, December 9, 2008 8:00 AM CST

Blessings To All On St. Nicholas Day!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of your dear sunshine boy, on St. Nicholas Day. My boys used to put their shoes out on this day, to receive an orange, a candy cane, and some gold wrapped chocolate coins. It was also the day we began our annual reading of The Life and Times of St. Nicholas.

I am sure you have many memories of things you did with Connor during these winter days of longing and preparation for Christmas. May those thoughts keep you in good cheer this month.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who in your love gave to your servant Nicholas of Myra a perpetual name for deeds of kindness on land and sea: Grant, we pray, that your Church may never cease to work for the happiness of children, the safety of sailors, the relief of the poor, and the help of those tossed by tempests of doubt or grief; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, December 6, 2008 11:06 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, on another Friday morning. I hope you are well and are having a productive and holy Advent.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God of unsearchable mystery, who led Clement of Alexandria to Find in ancient philosophy a path to knowledge of your Word: Grant that your Church may recognize true wisdom, wherever it is found, knowing that wisdom come from you and leads to you; through our Teacher Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, December 5, 2008 6:44 AM CST

have a blessed holiday season
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 3, 2008 2:01 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

We had a touch of snow here yesterday, as well, but with a temperature close to 50 today, it has all melted away. My cousin, who lives near Oswego, had twenty inches on the ground, when I talked with her, last Monday.

Of course, I think of your sweet Connor every day. He has a place in my heart, as he does in Kathy's.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Lord God, make us so reflect your perfect love; that, with your Deacon Nicholas Ferrar and his household, we may rule ourselves according to your Word, and serve you with our whole heart; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, December 1, 2008 4:09 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your little sunshine boy on this another first day of the month. I love the new picture you added of Connor...it is now in my Connor file of pictures. Visiting his site makes me smile when I see him. He certainly touched my life and although I don't write often you are daily in my prayers and Connor will forever be in my thoughts and in my heart.

It snowed hard here all night and when I woke up we were like in a winter wonderland...I imagine Connor would be out playing in the snow if he had lived in WI. We don't really like it that much, but our grandsons love it!!!!
I have a dental appointment and I dread going out in this, I would rather stay in where it is warm, cozy and safe.
Take gentle care...love ya!
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, December 1, 2008 8:56 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

It surprised me to see that Pat Kashtock learned that I had quoted her "Dancing Feet," in Connor's book and wrote to you. Sometime I will try to view her website, as I am sure you will also.

I have been thinking of you, as we lit the first Advent Candle. This one symbolizes hope, one of the great themes of the season. May you find home with you, as you pass through a holy and healthy Advent.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 30, 2008 9:09 PM CST

Hi Rhonda -- I am the person who wrote the Dancing Feet devotional for the Upper Room. My daughter, Heidi, died in the same year as your son. Heidi died as a result of long term radiation effects. It was long and hard, but like your Connor, she smiled through so much of it.

Shortly before she died, she told a friend of ours that she had to stay here until that time because there were things she "had to do." Then she said, "but they are done, now, and it is time for me to go home."

She did not tell us that, but after she spoke with our friend, she became extra happy. We had a wonderful few weeks where she seemed almost her old self again.

I have a web page if you would be interested:
http://patkashtock.squarespace.com/
I divided it into three sections. The first one called "Conversations" are more along the line of devotionals.

The second part has to do with Heidi. I add content as I can get to it.

I am so sorry to read that your marriage suffered from going through this. A critical illness of a child tends to prey on marriages because the situation is so hard on the family. I am really, really sorry. It seems one huge heartbreak would have been more than enough.

Prayers and blessings to you,
Pat Kashtock
Pat Kashtock <Zairezia@aol.com>
Woodbridge, VA USA - Saturday, November 29, 2008 4:52 PM CST

Remembering 14 year old Connor today and wishing you comfort and more "signs of love".

"There will be a day with no more tears and no more pain" & that day is when we're REUNITED with our lil men! Oh what a GLORIOUS,WONDERFUL DAY that WILL BE!!!!

"FOREVER missing my son, my HERO...*Chase*!!!"
DeAnna~Chase's Moma FOREVER!!! www.caringbridge.org/visit/miracle2
- Friday, November 28, 2008 6:13 PM CST

Happy Thanksgiving, To All!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of all of Connor's other loved one, on this great feast day. God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Now thank we all our God,
with heart and hands and voices,
who wondrous things hath done,
in whom his world rejoices;
who from our mother's arms
hath blessed us on our way
with countless gifts of love,
and still is ours today.

O may this bounteous God
through all our life be near us,
with ever-joyful hearts
and blessèd peace to cheer us;
and keep us in his grace,
and guide us when perplexed,
and free us from all ills
in this world and the next.

All praise and thanks to God
the Father now be given,
the Son, and Holy Ghost,
supreme in highest heaven,
the one eternal God,
whom earth and heaven adore;
for thus it was, is now,
and shall be evermore.

Words: Martin Rinkart (1586-1649), 1636
trans. Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858

Music: Nun danket alle Gott (later form of melody by Johann Crüger, 1598-1662)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/n/n139.html

Gratefully. Thankfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 27, 2008 11:18 AM CST

~Blessings On Thanksgiving Eve!

Dear Rhonda,

I have been thinking of what a young Connor might have been like on this day. Perhaps he would be smelling the apple, pumpkin, mince, and/or pecan pies baking in the oven, helping to cut up the fruit and vegetables, stirring the stuffing, "stealing" the olives and pickles, and sticking his fingers in those pies. May your memories bring you smiles and peace.

Together, let us express our gratitude to God, the Father of all, and God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.

~Melody Beattie
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 26, 2008 1:27 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

This week, two saints named Andrew are celebrated. One is Andrew Dung-Lac, a Vietnamese martyr, and the other is St. Andrew the Apostle, for whom my son was named. As we go through this week of thanks giving, let us name to God all those who have gone on before us, including those saints with a capital letter, who have become our friends, and those saints, including Connor, that we have known and loved on earth.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley. I would still enjoy hearing the story of Connor's name, when you can share.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 25, 2008 5:24 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on another cold November day. It is likely that Connor would have enjoyed the wonders that this time of the year brings, with Thanksgiving dinners, football games, and Advent approaching. May your happy memories sustain and encourage you.

Today's saint is Clement of Rome. When I have spent time with friends, in Philadelphia, I have always attended Eucharist at St. Clement's, near their home. The entire building was moved to its existing location, using logs as rollers, many years ago. I am sure Connor would have thought the pictures of the move interesting.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who chose your servant Clement of Rome to recall the Church in Corinth to obedience and stability: Grant that your Church may be grounded and settled in your truth by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, and may evermore be kept blameless in your service; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 24, 2008 3:14 PM CST

Blessings On The Feast Of Christ The King!

Dear Rhonda,

Connor has been remembered on another Sunday, this one specifically the last Sunday of the church year. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

"When Aslan said you could never go back to Narnia, he meant the Narnia you were thinking of. But that was not the real Narnia. That had a beginning and an end. It was only a shadow or a copy of the real Narnia which has always been there and always will be there: just as our own world, England and all, is only a shadow or copy of something in Aslan's real world. You need not mourn over Narnia, Lucy. All of the old Narnia that mattered, all the dear creatures, have been drawn into the real Narnia through the Door. And of course it is different; as different as a real thing is from a shadow or as waking life is from a dream."

~C.S. Lewis, in The Last Battle, 1956

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, whose will it is to restore all things in your well¯beloved Son, the King of kings and Lord of lords: Mercifully grant that the peoples of the earth, divided and enslaved by sin, may be freed and brought together under his most gracious rule; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 23, 2008 1:47 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I visited Connor's site two times yesterday, but each time, I had to leave, before I could post a note. It was the Feast of C.S. Lewis, a time to think of children, Narnia, ourselves, and all those things that truly endure. Lewis once said that prayer might not change anything else, but he knew it changed him. That is something real to ponder.

God bless you, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For C.S. Lewis, Scholar And Spiritual Writer, 22 November 1963:

Almighty God, whose servant C.S. Lewis received of your grace singular gifts of insight in understanding the truth in Christ Jesus, and of eloquence and clarity in presenting that truth to his readers: Raise up in our day faithful interpreters of your Word, that we, being set free from all error and unbelief, may come to the knowledge that makes us wise unto salvation: through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 23, 2008 1:30 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,
I was so glad to see an update when I visited Connor's page today. It is truly amazing how an incredible young man whom I have never had the honor of meeting continues to inspire me. I am glad to hear that things are going well and that you are still doing the toy drive and Relay for Life. I know Connor is looking down on you and smiling proudly. Please know that your family continues to be in my thoughts and prayers. Even though I do not sign in often, I check frequently for updates.
Love, blessings and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
DE USA - Friday, November 21, 2008 8:12 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Earlier today, I was reading about Bishop Dionysius, who served during an uncertain economic time, similar to our own. May God grant us wise church and civic leaders and an earnest desire to live faithfully and fairly, so we may get through these hard days.

I am thinking of you, and of Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Dionysius Of Alexandria, Bishop And Scholar
21 November 265:

O God, who have enlightened your Church by the teaching of your servant Dionysius: Enrich us evermore with your heavenly grace, and raise up faithful witnesses who by their life and doctrine will set forth the truth of your salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever.
Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 21, 2008 12:28 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I have had an interesting morning, and I am so glad that all has turned out well. I hope you are well and happy today.

I am thinking of you, and of your dear sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Feast Of Edmund Of East Anglia, King And Martyr, 20 November 870:

O God of ineffable mercy, who gave grace and fortitude to blessed Edmund the king to triumph over the enemy of his people by nobly dying for your Name: Bestow on us your servants the shield of faith, with which we can withstand the assaults of our ancient enemy; through Jesus Christ our Redeemer, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 20, 2008 1:50 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

The ladybug is on another part of the lamp shade. I guess it likes it here, in our computer area. It certainly makes me think of your little animal doctor, Connor.

I hope you are doing well. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 19, 2008 8:35 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Last night, I spotted a ladybug on the shape of my lamp, here on my computer table. Of course, I thought of your lovebug, Connor. May God bless you both.

I hope you are thinking about a good Thanksgiving. Perhaps you can attend a community service, as we plan to do.

On Monday the church honored Margaret of Scotland, who was the queen in the children's hymn I often quote, "I Sing a Song of the Saints of God." Today, we honor Elizabeth of Hungary. Both used their high place in life to serve those in need, honoring Christ in their generations. I will leave their collects below.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Margaret, Queen of Scotland, 16 November 1093:

O God, who called your servant Margaret to an earthly throne that she might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave her zeal for your church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate her this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; though Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Collect For Elizabeth of Hungary, Princess and Philantropist, 19 November 1231:

Almighty God, by whose grace your servant Elizabeth of Hungary recognized and honored Jesus in the poor of this world: Grant that we, following her example, may with love and gladness serve those in any need or trouble, in the name and for the sake of through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

The numerous "St. Elizabeth's Hospitals" throughout the world are for the most part named, not for the Biblical Elizabeth, the mother of John the Baptist, but for this princess of Hungary. She was concerned for the relief of the poor and the sick, and with her husband's consent she used her dowry money for their relief. During a famine and epidemic in 1226, while her husband was away in Italy, she sold her jewels and established a hospital where she nursed the sick, and opened the royal granaries to feed the hungry. (James E. Keifer's Christian Biographies)

The brother of one of Andrew's close friends, was hurt in an autombile accident over the weekend and is being treated at St. Elizabeth Hosptial, Utica, NY.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 19, 2008 8:20 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Today's Upper Room, called "Dancing Feet," is a meditation, written by a mother, who lost her child to leukemia. I certainly thought of you, and of Connor, as I read.

The mother, Patricia Hammell Kashtock, ended her short meditation, with this paragraph.

"Now, her new, strong feet move gracefully in the warmth of God's presence. In heaven, my daughter dances with joy again, without fear or pain, in light that will never fade. She is with God who is love and who will not let her go. Her joy will never end."

As you think of Connor this day, may you have grace to know that Connor is alive in God's eternal kingdom, where there is no suffering or pain. Connor's joy is full, and it will not end. Someday, you will enter into that joy, and all shall be well.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Hilda Of Whitby, Abbess And Peacemaker, 18 November 680:

O God of peace, by whose grace the abbess Hilda was endowed with gifts of justice, prudence, and strength to rule as a wise mother over the nuns and monks of her household, and to become a trusted and reconciling friend to leaders of the Church: Give us the grace to recognize and accept the varied gifts you bestow on men and women, that our common life may be enriched and your gracious will be done, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 18, 2008 12:23 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

In reading of today's saint, Hugh of Lincoln, it occurs to me that he and Connor were very much alike in loving animals. James Kiefer wrote of Hugh:

He was fond of animals, and they of him. Birds and squirrels came readily to his hand. He had a swan that would feed from his hand, follow him about, and keep guard over his bed, so that no one could approach it without being attacked.

Perhaps Connor and blessed Hugh are enjoying a day in heaven today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Hugh of Lincoln, Bishop, Protector of the Oppressed, 17 November 1200:

O holy God, who endowed your servant and bishop Hugh of Lincoln with wise and cheerful boldness, and taught him to commend the discipline of holy life to kings and princes: Grant that we also, rejoicing in the Good News of your mercy, and fearing nothing but the loss of you, may be bold to speak the truth in love, in the name of Jesus Christ our Redeemer, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 17, 2008 5:53 PM CST

its hard to beleive its been 4 years and yet it seems like forever dont it? I keep you in my thoughts and prayers....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 16, 2008 7:01 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

In reading about today's saint, Albert the Great, I learned that Albert was so curious about eagles that he had himself lowered down a cliff and into an eagle's nest. As I read that, I thought, "Now there is something Connor would do."

God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet animal lover, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O Almighty God, who gave to your servant Albert special gifts of grace to understand and teach the truth as it is in Christ Jesus: Grant that by this teaching we may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent: who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 15, 2008 11:35 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

On a sunny autumn day, I am thinking of Connor. I am sure that he would be eating lots of pumpkin and apple treats, if he were here in bodily form.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

We give you thanks, O Lord our God, for your goodness in bestowing upon this Church the gift of the episcopate, which we celebrate in this remembrance of the consecration of Samuel Seabury; and we pray that, joined together in unity with our bishops, and nourished by your holy Sacraments, we may proclaim the Gospel of redemption with apostolic zeal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 14, 2008 9:13 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Thank you for updating Connor's home page and for sharing a picture of Connor, which I don't recall seeing previously.

In reading the comment just below mine, and in reading many comments in Connor's guest book these past four years, it is accurate to say that Connor taught us about eternal life. Since we spoke of William Barclay, at a class, at St. George's, today, I will add a quote from Barclay from another source.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord, help us so to live that when your call comes, at morning, at midday, or at evening, it may find us ready, our work completed, and our hearts at peace with you, so that we may enter at last with joy into your nearer presence and into life eternal.

~William Barclay (1907-1978)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 13, 2008 5:37 PM CST

I thought of Connor this morning. I have probably shared this with you Rhonda, but praying for that little angel and his family literally changed my life forever. I have been a Christian for a long time, but praying for (and loving!) a little boy that I never met (and that brings tears to my eyes even now) truly changed me from the inside out and I will be forever grateful to you and that precious little warrior of yours. Have a very blessed holiday and know you remain in my thoughts and prayers often.
Kim Uldrich <kaykay23@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Thursday, November 13, 2008 11:16 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

As always, I am thinking of you and remembering your brave little trooper. What a blessing Connor was!

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Lord our God, grant that your Church, following the teaching of your servant Leo of Rome, may hold fast the great mystery of our redemption, and adore the one Christ, true God and true Man, neither divided from our human nature nor separate from your divine Being; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 10, 2008 9:25 AM CST

Rhonda, just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you and your family today. I saw an angel figure that had dark blonde hair the other day & I thought of Connor. Maybe he was sending me a message to say hi. :) I love getting my 'connections of love' as I call them from Chase. They give me great comfort.
I pray you have strength & comfort today and plenty of signs always.
DeAnna~Chase's moma FOREVER!!! <Chasesmiracle@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 9, 2008 4:07 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

The lawnmower is buzzing nextdoor, and I am getting ready to do some of my own work. I just want to remind you that I am thinking of you and remembering Connor.

God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, whose blessed Son came into the world that he might destroy the works of the devil and make us children of God and heirs of eternal life: Grant that, having this hope, we may purify ourselves as he is pure; that, when he comes again with power and great glory, we may be made like him in his eternal and glorious kingdom; where he lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 9, 2008 10:47 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I will let the Epistle Lesson for this weekend speak for me today. It is below.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

1 Thessalonians 4:13-18:

We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about those who have died, so that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have died. For this we declare to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will by no means precede those who have died. For the Lord himself, with a cry of command, with the archangel's call and with the sound of God's trumpet, will descend from heaven, and the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up in the clouds together with them to meet the Lord in the air; and so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage one another with these words.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 8, 2008 3:04 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Once more, on a Friday morning, I am thinking of you and remembering dear Connor. God bless you both.

I hope Nana and Poppy are doing well. Please give them a warm greeting from me.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Treasure the love you receive above all.
It will survive long after your good health has vanished.

~Og Mandino (1923-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, November 7, 2008 1:38 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

The quotation I am leaving today has been in my head a few times this week, when I have thought of you, so I guess I am supposed to share it.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy. Connor truly is missed, but I know we will all experience him again, and that when we do, Connor will be more himself than he ever has been, and so will we.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

In the end what matters is not how good we are, but how good God is. Not how much we love Him, but how much He loves us. And God loves us whoever we are, whatever we've done or failed to do, whatever we believe or can't.

~Archbishop Desmond Tutu (South Africa)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, November 6, 2008 7:48 PM CST

thinking of Connor so i stopped by
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 5, 2008 12:56 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Today I am remembering Connor and several children and adults that I learned about through Connor's website. I am also praying for you and for all who are in any form of bereavement.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, with the wonderful smile, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of wonder and mystery, you gave us Jesus to go before us and to show us a way to new life through our dying: As the season of autumn reminds us that all living things must die, so must our faith in the life Jesus promised encourage us to embrace life's potential, rather than being saddened by life's endings, may we find, in the wisdom of your creation, the constantly renewing love that reassures us of your presence. With our eyes on the tree of life and its spectacular beauty, may we remain always in Jesus. Amen.

~Sister Karen Berry
in Prayer Services for Parishes
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, November 5, 2008 8:56 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I had a ladybug land on my head last night. Of course, you know who I thought of, when I reached up and pulled it out of my hair.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

I feel a strong immortal hope, which bears my mournful spirit up beneath its mountain load; redeemed from death, and grief, and pain, I soon shall find my child again within the arms of God.

~Charles Wesley

++++++++

Nothing loved is ever lost or perished.

~Madeleine L'Engle, in A Ring of Endless Light, Newberry Honor Book
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 4, 2008 10:57 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I had planned to be at the polls, at this time, but a small household problem has brought me and my plumber together, instead. I hope you are safe and well today. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you, God bless Connor, and God bless our country.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, November 4, 2008 9:34 AM CST

Blessings On All Soul's Day!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, on this twin feast to All Saints Day. May you find peace and encouragement throughout the day.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless that sweet soul, your sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Father of all, we pray to you for those we love, but see no longer: Grant them your peace; let light perpetual shine upon them; and in your loving wisdom and almighty power, work in them the good purpose of your perfect will; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, November 3, 2008 0:25 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I just want you to know that I am thinking of you many times each day during this weekend of remembrance. May God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Help us, in the midst of things we cannot understand, to believe and trust in the communion of saints, the forgiveness of sins, and the resurrection to life everlasting.

~From The Book Of Common Prayer
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 2, 2008 3:56 PM CST

Blessings On All Saints Sunday!

Dear Rhonda,

I thought of Connor several times, during our All Saints Eucharist, yesterday. While there, I also prayed for you.

I think it is very cool that so many of Connor's friends have had lady bug encounters this week. Truly, Connor is with those he loves.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O blest communion, fellowship divine!
we feebly struggle, they in glory shine;
all are one in thee, for all are thine.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, November 2, 2008 3:56 AM CST

Rhonda,
Sydney and I are praying for you on this special rememberance weekend. We also had a ladybug encounter today as we walked out of the movie theater. Sydney had on her ladybug earrings. We were walking out of the theater and she found two lady bugs on the floor by the door. We rescued them and delivered them to a nearby shrub when we noticed at least a half dozen of them flying all around us. I thought of you and Connor. We are blessed to know you and of your precious son. We are grateful for your friendship.
Love you,
Elizabeth
Gallatin, TN USA - Saturday, November 1, 2008 8:37 PM CDT

Rhonda, I had an abudance of ladybugs all over the screens.. we have cornfields behind us.. and we were blessed with many many ladybugs.. I thought of connor as they arrived yesterday On his birthday.. Pretty cool huh?? again today... they are here.. Im thinking of you and sweet connor.. On his 4th birthday with jesus.. Sometimes it seem s like its been 10 yrs.. other times it seems you were just writing about him... I love to come and look at his sweet smile.. It always makes me smile.. Praying always for your strength daily. Happy Birthday sweet connor.. You will never be forgotten! Not ever!
Kim <dakk2222@comcast.net>
IN - Saturday, November 1, 2008 7:29 PM CDT

Rhonda,
thinking of you on Connor's Heavenly birthday.
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Saturday, November 1, 2008 6:10 PM CDT

I am thinking aboutyou today too... prayers
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, November 1, 2008 4:48 PM CDT

i guess connor was busy yesterday, as i too, had 2 ladybugs in my house! one was on my computer screen and the other on a basket on the desk. our daughter(who is a ladybug lover)stopped by on her way to a party to show us her costume,found the first one. love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Saturday, November 1, 2008 3:22 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I had to smile, in reading Kathy's note, as I have had two lady bug experiences this week, as well. I never gave them much thought at all until I learned about Connor.

I am writing twice today, as I want to assure you that you are in my thoughts and prayers especially on this bittersweet anniversary. When you can, please join me in singing a hymn that I know I will sing in church this weekend. For All the Saints always lifts me beyond my circumstances, and I know it will boost you as well.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

For all the saints, who from their labors rest,
who thee by faith before the world confessed,
thy Name, O Jesus, be forever blessed.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

Thou wast their Rock, their Fortress and their Might;
thou, Lord, their Captain in the well fought fight;
thou, in the darkness drear, their one true Light.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

For the apostles' glorious company,
who bearing forth the cross o'er land and sea,
shook all the mighty world, we sing to Thee:
Alleluia, Alleluia!

For the Evangelists, by whose blest word,
like fourfold streams, the garden of the Lord,
is fair and fruitful, be thy Name adored.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

For Martyrs, who with rapture kindled eye,
saw the bright crown descending from the sky,
and seeing, grasped it, thee we glorify.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

O may thy soldiers, faithful, true, and bold,
fight as the saints who nobly fought of old,
and win, with them the victor's crown of gold.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

O blest communion, fellowship divine!
we feebly struggle, they in glory shine;
all are one in thee, for all are thine.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

And when the strife is fierce, the warfare long,
steals on the ear the distant triumph song,
and hearts are brave, again, and arms are strong.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

The golden evening brightens in the west;
soon, soon to faithful warriors comes their rest;
sweet is the calm of paradise the blessed.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

But lo! there breaks a yet more glorious day;
the saints triumphant rise in bright array;
the King of glory passes on his way.
Alleluia, Alleluia!

From earth's wide bounds, from ocean's farthest coast,
through gates of pearl streams in the countless host,
and singing to Father, Son and Holy Ghost:
Alleluia, Alleluia!

Words: William Walsham How, 1864

Music: Sine nomine

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/f/f174.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 1, 2008 1:21 PM CDT

I'm thinking of you today.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Saturday, November 1, 2008 10:50 AM CDT

Thinking of you today.......
Maria <mariaw19@hotmail.com>
NJ - Saturday, November 1, 2008 8:37 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you today and your sunshine boy on the 4th anniversary of his arrival into Heaven.
I saw two lady bugs yesterday...one was on the car door handle when I went to open it up to take my mom to the dr. to have her hip checked....I said "oh look mom it's a lady bug and today is Connor's birthday" I smiled and said "that just made my day!" Then the other was crawling on our end table when I sat down between trick or treaters....again a smile. I know he is here in spirit and I love the way he appears to let me know:)

Know you are prayed for daily and I miss Connor and I love you both!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, November 1, 2008 8:15 AM CDT

And see how beautiful is our Jesus, when he die for our all sin and sickness and he rise from dead and he is life with power of God. Joy and and let he save us from this the wicked the world.Win and help th emn that find him,thanks and bless and hope,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Saturday, November 1, 2008 6:26 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on Connor's fourth anniversary. Somehow, it doesn't seem possible.

Today our new rector, Father John Henry, will be installed. I will remember Connor during the service, and I will pray for you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

One Of The Collects For All Saints Day:

Almighty and everlasting God, we give you most high praise and hearty thanks for the wonderful grace and virtue declared in all your saints, who have been the chosen vessels of your grace, and the lights of the world in their times: for Abraham, the father of believers, and Sarah his wife; for Moses the lawgiver, and Aaron the priest; for Miriam and Joshua, Deborah and Gideon, and Samuel with Hannah his mother, and for all the holy patriarchs; for Isaiah and all the prophets; for the Blessed Virgin Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ our Lord and God; for Peter and Paul and all the apostles; for Mary and Martha, and Mary Magdalene; for Stephen, the first martyr, and for all the martyrs; and for all your other righteous servants, known to us and unknown; and we beseech you that, rejoicing in their fellowship, encouraged by their examples, and aided by their prayers, we also may run with steadfastness the race that is set before us, and finish our course in faith; and that at the day of the general resurrection, we, with all those who are of the mystical body of your Son, may be set on his right hand, and hear his most joyful voice: "Come, you blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world." Grant this, O Father, for the sake of your Son Jesus Christ, our only Mediator and Advocate. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, November 1, 2008 2:31 AM CDT

I always remember Connor's birthday. Hope this finds you well, Rhonda. I prayed for you today as I thought of that cute boy with such a sweet smile.

Shelly VanB <jayandshel@msn.com>
Saskatoon, Sk - Friday, October 31, 2008 8:12 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Connor love a Mummy to another Angelxxxxx
sandra o'connell <sandraoconnel67@msn.com>
uk, uk - Friday, October 31, 2008 2:53 PM CDT

happy birthday connor! love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, mi - Friday, October 31, 2008 1:41 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Connor
Mel - Canada
- Friday, October 31, 2008 11:44 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on Connor's fourteenth birthday. What a blessing he was to you, and what a blessing Connor was to the world!

God bless you as you launch that special balloon later today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 31, 2008 9:41 AM CDT

**Happy Birthday, My Sunshine Boy! Mommy loves and misses you SO MUCH! Watch for your birthday balloons this afternoon! Can't wait until I'm there to celebrate with you! All my love for eternity!
Mommy
Connor's Mommy Forever <rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN USA - Friday, October 31, 2008 7:58 AM CDT

thinking of Connor on his earthly birthday
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
st. Louis, mO - Friday, October 31, 2008 7:50 AM CDT

Good Morning Rhonda,
Thinking of you today as Connor celebrates another birthday among angels. I am certain there is some go cart races today in Heaven and lots of birthday cake, ice cream and balloons. We miss your sunshine boy and thank you for allowing him to be a part of our lives through his journey. He truly was and always will be an inspiration to many. He will forever be in our hearts.
God Bless,
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, October 31, 2008 7:32 AM CDT

Thinking of Connor and of you. I am sorry to hear of your divorce. I hope you are well. The things you are doing to honor Connor's life are just wonderful, he would be so proud. He will always be remembered. By people who never knew him. Praying for peace and comfort for you
Lisa Kingsbury <dldarakingsbury@msn.com>
Sandty, ut - Thursday, October 30, 2008 1:16 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am remembering many of the things of Connor's life, such as his enjoyment of his go-cart and his bike, his ability to joke and tease, his marvelous smile, and his super hugs. He will be in my thoughts and prayers, when I am at church, later in the day.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

When Jesus lived upon the earth
so many years ago
He called the children close
Because he loved them so
And with that tendersness of old
That same sweet, gentle way
He holds your little loved one close
Within his arms today
And you'll find comfort in your faith
That in his home above
The God of little Children
Gives your little one his love
So think of your little darling
Lighthearted Happy and Free
Playing in God's promised land
Where the is joy eternal

~Helen Steiner Rice
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 30, 2008 6:53 AM CDT

Rhonda and Eddie:
Thinking of you SO much as October 31 and November 1 draw near. No other words, just emotions.
Love, H
Holly Hoxeng
Denver, CO USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2008 5:39 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

On another cold, windy fall day, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor.

God bless you, and God bless all of your loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Precious in your sight, O Lord, is the death of your saints, whose faithful witness, by your providence, has its great reward: We give you thanks for your martyrs James Hannington and his companions, who purchased with their blood a road unto Uganda for the proclamation of the Gospel; and we pray that with them we also may obtain the crown of righteousness which is laid up for all who love the appearing of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 29, 2008 1:41 PM CDT

Rhonda, I have had you in my thoughts as this week is here. I know these are the hard days to get past. Just know that so many of us still think about you and say a prayer for you. and far to many of us have been there and kow how hard it is. Its hard for me to beleive that nearly 15 years have passed since I last saw my son, MIke. seems like just yesterday

Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2008 10:55 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Laura and I are thinking of Connor as October draws to a close. I wish you peace and continued signs of Connor's presence. You are always in our prayers.
Deb
Litchfield, NH USA - Tuesday, October 28, 2008 9:38 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We are having hard rain, here, in southern Saratoga County. As the temperatures drop tonight, we are expecting a nasty, heavy, wet snow. This is not good, as most of the trees around here still had almost full foliage last night, so with a heavy snow and lots of leaves, limbs, and even whole trees, could come down causing power outages. We are expecting 2-4 inches here, and that is enough to cause that type of occurrence, but areas in the Tug Hill and in the Adirondacks probably will get up to a foot.

I hope you are well, safe, and content. I am thinking of you, and of all those whose lives are closely linked with you and with Connor. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Today, The Feast Of St. Simon and St. Jude, Apostles:

O God, we thank you for the glorious company of the apostles, and especially on this day for Simon and Jude; and we pray that, as they were faithful and zealous in their mission, so we may with ardent devotion make known the love and mercy of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 28, 2008 11:27 AM CDT

Hi Rhonda-

Just thinking of you (Eddie too) these next few days. I hope all is well, our thoughts and prayers are always with you.
Kristen <kristen@gmail.com>
Minneapolis, mn 55122 - Monday, October 27, 2008 11:05 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am especially thinking of you, during this the anniversary week of Connor's birth. I know you were eagerly waiting to see and hold your child fourteen years ago. May you now, know with certainty, that you will see and hold Connor Jordan Hunley again, in that place where there is now sighing or pain, but only life eternal.

Earlier this month I wrote to you about Archbishop William Temple. Today is his Feast Day, so I leave you the collect and a quote.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, to others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise your Name for the gifts of grace manifested in your servant William Temple, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

A Quote From William Temple (1881-1944):

In the days of His earthly ministry, only those could speak to him who came where He was: if He was in Galilee, men could not find Him in Jerusalem; if He was in Jerusalem, men could not find Him in Galilee. His Ascension means that He is perfectly united with God; we are with Him wherever we are present to God; and that is everywhere and always. Because He is "in Heaven" He is everywhere on earth: because He is ascended, He is here now. Our devotion is not to hold us by the empty tomb; it must lift up our hearts to heaven so that we too "in heart and mind thither ascend and with Him continually dwell": it must also send us forth into the world to do His will; and these are not two things, but one.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 27, 2008 12:21 AM CDT

I'm thinking of you as Connor's birthday week approaches. I hope he can send you some special signs this week. With love and prayers.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Sunday, October 26, 2008 8:28 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am listning to a football game, as I type to you today, and I have been watching the World Series. I know Connor followed the Titans and enjoyed sports. He would have loved this beautiful autumn day. May God bless his sweet spirit.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, increase in us the gifts of faith, hope, and charity; and, that we may obtain what you promise, make us love what you command; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 26, 2008 3:15 PM CDT

Hi Rhonda!
Lisa Lowrey, Kambryn's mom, and I have set up a Vanderbilt Children's Hemonc Forum for our families, past and present, to get together and chat. Our hope is that we can have a place for families going through active treatment to get to know each other... families whose kids are done with treatment can talk about what's next and families with angels to connect for friendship and support. We also hope to start raising awareness for Childhood Cancer here in Middle Tennessee as well as help the families going through active treatment. Basically this is one solid place to connect and hopefully help find a cure for this horrible cancer that has drawn our families together. Check it out and let us know what you think. If you have any ideas or questions we would love to hear them! Also, please feel free to pass this info along to other Vanderbilt families... I know I have missed several, so the more we get the word out the better the forum will be! We hope to see you over there!

Vanderbilt Hemonc Heroes

Renee & Kennedy

www.carepages.com/carepages/kennedygarcia

www.myspecialks.com

Renee Garcia <CAmommy2KJ@aol.com>
Clarksville, TN - Saturday, October 25, 2008 3:07 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist today, and I will pray for you beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, as I do, at each Eucharist. I hope you are safe and well and having a good weekend.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Heavenly Father, who gives to us your servants gifts differing according to our calling: We praise you for the gift bestowed upon your servant Geoffrey Chaucer, of writing poems concerning human nature and human loves and desires, and showing us in them a guide that points to you, the love which you bear toward us, and the love we ought to have, and by your grace are being brought to have, for you, through your well-beloved Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 25, 2008 1:54 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have been thinking of you, and of Connor, this week. May God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who through your holy Apostle have taught us to praise you in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs: We give you thanks this day for the gift of writing great hymns which you gave to your servants Philipp Nicolai, Johann Heermann, Paul Gerhardt, and Joachim Neander; and we pray that your Church may never lack those with the gifts of writing words and music to your praise, and may be ever filled with the desire to praise and thank you for your great goodness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

How bright appears the Morning Star,
with mercy beaming from afar;
the host of heaven rejoices;
O righteous Branch, O Jesse's Rod!
Thou Son of Man and Son of God!
We, too, will lift our voices:
Jesus, Jesus!
Holy, holy, yet most lowly,
draw thou near us;
great Emmanuel, come and hear us.

Though circled by the hosts on high,
he deigned to cast a pitying eye
upon his helpless creature;
the whole creation's Head and Lord,
by highest seraphim adored,
assumed our very nature;
Jesus, grant us,
through thy merit, to inherit
thy salvation;
hear, O hear our supplication.

Rejoice, ye heavens; thou earth, reply;
with praise, ye sinners, fill the sky,
for this his Incarnation.
Incarnate God, put forth thy power,
ride on, ride on, great Conqueror,
till all know thy salvation.
Amen, amen!
Alleluia, alleluia!
Praise be given
evermore, by earth and heaven.

Words: Philipp Nicolai, 1597;
paraphrased in Psalmodia Germanica, 1722
and altered by William Mercer, 1855, 1859.

Music: Wie schön leuchtet (Frankfort)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 24, 2008 1:53 PM CDT

Thinking of you... Colton's family

www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
Laura
ca - Tuesday, October 21, 2008 11:53 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you today.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of the nations, who gave to your faithful servant Henry Martyn a brilliant mind, a loving heart, and a gift for languages, that he might translate the Scriptures and other holy writings for the peoples of India and Persia: Inspire in us a love like his, eager to commit both life and talents to you who gave them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 21, 2008 7:02 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Last night, I went to the Glen Sanders Mansion, to hear some stories. The teller, Elizabeth Ellis, was born and raised, I believe, in your area, and I know she often tells at the National Storytelling Festival in Jonesboro. She comes up here, from her current home, near Dallas, Texas, about once a year to teach and to tell. She did a wonderful job. I know Connor would love good tellers like Elizabeth.

My thoughts and prayers are will you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyrs Antony Daniel, Charles Garnier, Gabriel Lalemant, Isaac Jogues, John de Brebeuf, John Lalande, Noel Chabanel, and Rene Goupil triumphed over suffering and were faithful even to death: Grant us, who now remember them in thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with them the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

I know that Connor Jordan Hunley has recieved that crown of life.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 20, 2008 8:28 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday, the Feast of St. Luke, and he will be remembered again today. May you feel God's love and Connor's love with you this day and every day.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, in Christ you have revealed your glory among the nations: Preserve the works of your mercy, that your Church throughout the world may persevere with steadfast faith in the confession of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, October 19, 2008 5:58 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of Connor, on another weekend. I hope all is going well for you.

One of this week's saints is Teresa of Avila. I will leave a quote from her below.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Prayer is not just spending time with the Lord. It is partly that - but if it ends there, it is fruitless. No, prayer is dynamic. Authentic prayer changes us - unmasks us - strips us - indicates where growth is needed. Authentic prayer never leads us to complacency, but needles us - makes us uneasy at times. It leads us to true self-knowledge, to true humility.

~Teresa Of Avila (1515-1582)

The Collect:

Almighty God, who, when the hearts of your people have grown cold, send your Spirit to relight the flame of your love in their hearts, and raise up faithful ministers to recall your people to their former devotion and service: Mercifully grant that we, following the teaching and example of Teresa of Avila and others, may be filled with your Holy Spirit, may be aflame with zeal for your glory and love for your goodness and hunger for your love, and that our feet may be set upon the path that leads to true holiness; the which we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 18, 2008 5:06 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Since many of Connor's friends come to you via the internet, I leave for you today's collect for "St. Sam, Patron Saint of the Internet." Schereschewsky, a European Jew, accepted Jesus as his Lord and Savior, and trained for the Episcopal priesthood. After ordination, he spent 41 years in China, and was consecrated bishop of Shanghai. After being paralyzed, he gave up his bishopric and spent over twenty years, in a chair, typing Biblical translations with his one remaining useful finger. May we, with like confidence, have faith that God will use our talents, despite our infirmities and shortcomings.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Samuel Isaac Joseph Schereschewsky (14 October 1906):

O God, who in your providence called Joseph Schereschewsky from his home in Eastern Europe to the ministry of this Church, and sent him as a missionary to China, upholding him in his infirmity, that he might translate the Holy Scriptures into languages of that land: Lead us, we pray, to commit our lives and talents to you, in the confidence that when you give your servants any work to do, you also supply the strength to do it; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

P.S. A ladybug landed on my lap, as I was reading the other night. Of course, I thought of Connor right away.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, October 14, 2008 11:21 AM CDT

Happy Columbus Day To All!

Dear Rhonda,

When my boys were little, I always planned an outdoor outing for the Columbus Day holiday. One year, we hiked the Saratoga Battlefield and ate a picnic lunch on the trail. Another year, we visited Stone Bridge and Caves, where we hiked the trail twice, visited the gift and gem shops, and ate a picnic lunch. Another trip was to Fort William Henry, and a fourth trip was to Fort Ticonderoga. As the guys got older, they had school sports commitments on Columbus Day, so the family outings stopped. Those outings are good things to remember, with fondness, as are your fall holiday memories of Connor. May your memories bring you joy today and every day.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 13, 2008 11:19 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We had a lovely autumn afternoon, here in southern Saratoga County. Andrew and I did some errands. Then we stopped at Friendly Ice Cream for a late lunch. I had a fish sandwich, broccoli, water, and a Happy Ending Sundae of pistachio with hot chocolate. As I ate that cold treat, I thought of Connor and wondered what ice cream he would have ordered.

Both you and Connor are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of light and love, you illumined your Church through the witness of your servant William Temple: Inspire us, we pray, by his teaching and example, that we may rejoice with courage, confidence, and faith in the Word made flesh, and may be led to establish that city which has justice for its foundation and love for its law; through Jeus Christ, the light of the world, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Quote From William Temple (One Of My Favorite Archbishops):

Worship is the submission of all of our nature to God.

It is the quickening of conscience by His holiness, nourishment of mind by His truth, purifying of imagination by His beauty, opening of the heart to His love, and submission of will to His purpose.

And all this gathered up in adoration is the greatest of human expressions of which we are capable.

~Archbishop William Temple (1881-1944)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 11, 2008 8:08 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Dave and I walked the breast cancer walk this morning and upon completing it I sat down on a bench to enjoy a bagel and some juice and a little lady bug landed on my lap:) You know who was with me this day!:) I do miss hearing from you and I miss your sunshine boy. The sun is shining brightly today and it seems more like summer than fall, we are enjoying each precious second of this day.
God Bless and know you are prayed for daily and you and Connor are forever in my heart.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, October 11, 2008 1:17 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As always, I will remember sweet Connor, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend. I will pray for you, while I am at St. George's. May God bless you both.

I hope you are at peace and having a good weekend.

Beneath my signature, I am leaving a prayer, which may be of interest during this difficult time. I like the last part of it, as it reminds us of where are true joy is always found.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Prayer For The Current Financial Situation
From The Church Of England

Lord God, we live in disturbing days:
across the world,
prices rise,
debts increase,
banks collapse,
jobs are taken away,
and fragile security is under threat.
Loving God, meet us in our fear and hear our prayer:
be a tower of strength amidst the shifting sands,
and a light in the darkness;
help us receive your gift of peace,
and fix our hearts where true joys are to be found,
in Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 11, 2008 5:07 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It has been a while since you have emailed me, or updated Connor's homepage. If you can, will you please do one or the other? I know other friends of Connor would appreciate your news, as well.

As always, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Feast Of Robert Grosseteste (Bishop Of Lincoln), October 9, 1253:

O God our heavenly Father, who raised up your faithful Servant Robert Grosseteste to be a bishop and pastor in your Church and to feed your flock: Give to all pastors abundant gifts of your Holy Spirit, that they may minister in your household as true servants of Christ and stewards of your divine mysteries; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

+++

A Collect For Fridays (By William Reed Huntington):

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 10, 2008 4:28 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Yesterday Andrew and I went to see the movie, Eagle Eye. It was a good action thriller, which kept us engaged throughout, and of course, I enjoyed being out with my son. I thought of Connor, coming home, as I know he loved car action scenes. God bless his sweet spirit.

My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who gave your servants Thomas More, John Fisher, and William Tyndale boldness to confess the name of our Saviour Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may also be ever ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, October 6, 2008 1:53 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today churches and church parking lots are full of household pets and farm animals, as we bless animals and remember St. Francis of Assisi. I had hoped to go to the Cathedral of All Saints to attend the event this morning, but a late night last night got in the way. However, if Connor had been here, I would have gotten up, and we would have had lunch out on the way home.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy. I lift you both up to the Lord, during Eucharist, this weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Collect:

Most high, omnipotent, good Lord, grant your people grace Gladly to renounce the vanities of this world; that, following the way of blessed Francis, we may for love of you delight in your whole creation with perfect joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

If we endure things patiently and with gladness thinking on the sufferings of our blessed Lord, and bearing all for the love of Him: herein is perfect joy.

~St. Francis Of Assisi
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, October 4, 2008 2:31 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

On Friday afternoon, I hope you are continuing to enjoy your birthday week and at the beginning of a good weekend. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord Jesus Christ, you stretched out your arms of love on
the hard wood of the cross that everyone might come within
the reach of your saving embrace: So clothe us in your Spirit
that we, reaching forth our hands in love, may bring those
who do not know you to the knowledge and love of you; for
the honor of your Name. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 101
Colette <abc@aol.com>
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, October 3, 2008 2:04 PM CDT

Hey Connor,

The doc said I need to watch my sweets so I've been buying sugar-free ice cream. It's not quite the same, but ice cream is ice cream! Not sure what I'm going to do Christmas when its time to make fudge. Guess we'll try using Splenda and see how that works.

Thank you for the blessings and encouragement that are a part of my life because of you. I miss getting to see your smiling face but my heart is full of great memories of an incredible young man. I love you!

Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, October 3, 2008 9:25 AM CDT

And Jesus took our sin aways ,when he died on the cross and sickness and gave to us new life in peace and joy and health,let us be thanksful and praise him and worship him with thanks given and love,winning the sinners hearts to him.Thanks and bless and hope,pray,keijo sweden
keijo <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Friday, October 3, 2008 3:26 AM CDT

Happy Birthday, Plus One!

Dear Rhonda,

As you continue enjoying your birthday week, I want to thank you for sharing Connor with all of the readers of this site. You have gifted us, by letting us know about your brave, handsome, and mischievous son. We are grateful.

I hope you are nibbling a little cake today and enjoying your cards, notes, and gifts.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Birthday Thought:

We turn, not older with years, but newer each day.

~Emily Dickinson
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, October 2, 2008 2:31 PM CDT

Hi Rhonda,
Happy Birthday my dear friend! Thought of you often today. I celebrated my birthday with my mom at the nursing home, I brought cup cakes that Brandon and I made. He loves to cook, tomorrow Aiden and I are making my birthday cake as we are celebrating my birthday tomorrow with the little guys.
Take gentle care know you are loved and Connor is forever in my heart. Miss that sun shine boy with the smile that lit up the world.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 7:51 PM CDT

Rhonda, I wanted to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I hope today is filled with lots of new hopes and dreams..Of course cake and ice cream... and you dont look a day over 29! keep up the good work! eat lots of cake and ice cream! I think connor is in heaven sending hugs to you . I hope you know you are loved...Much more than you know,, by your friends and family.. your a very special person... that 1 in a million you find! that is why connor was so amazing.. he had you as his mommy! i just smile when I see his infectious grin on his face in his pictures.. what an amazing angel you have watching over you! Until your with connor again.... we are all here for you!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 5:20 PM CDT

Happy Birthday to you i hope its been a good one.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 1, 2008 5:17 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Happy Birthday! May today, and the days ahead, be filled with grace, hope, and encouragement. I also hope you have some gifts, many cards, and a piece of birthday cake.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor, too.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Watch over thy child, O Lord, as her days increase; bless and guide her wherever she may be. Strengthen her when she stands; comfort her when discouraged or sorrowful; raise her up if she fall; and in her heart may thy peace which passeth understanding abide all the days of her life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 811
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 3:57 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Happy Birthday! I am sending you a never-ending hug and Laura send birthday greetings as well...
Deb and Laura <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH USA - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 8:33 PM CDT

Rhonda, "It's Birthday Eve!"

Dear Rhonda,

We use the three words above in our family on the day before a birthday. It is with the greatest of pleasure that I say them to Connor's forever mother today.

May God bless you always, and of course, may God bless sweet Connor, too.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Lord, O God of truth, whose Word is a lantern to our feet and a light upon our path: We give you thanks for your servant Jerome, and those who, following in his steps, have labored to render the Holy Scriptures in the language of the people; and we pray that your Holy Spirit will overshadow us as we read the written Word, and that Christ, the living Word, will transform us according to your righteous will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 8:02 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I had a busy and enjoyable weekend with cousins and their babies visiting. Jameson, age eight months, who is from Rochester, is beginning to walk and is very social, cute, and funny. Finn, from Boston, is only two months old, so although sweet, not as much fun yet. Being with the boys made me think of Connor with Brett.

I do hope you are well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Feast Of St. Michael And All Angels (September 29):

Everlasting God, who have ordained and constituted in a wonderful Order the ministries of angels and mortals: Mercifully grant that, as your holy angels always serve and worship you in heaven, so by your appointment they may help and defend us here on earth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 29, 2008 4:46 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It is raining here in southern Saratoga County, but I hope you are having a good day. I also hope you have a good weekend, possibly celebrating your birthday, a few days early, with your family.

I am leaving you today's collect commemorating Lancelot Andrewes (1555-1626), Bishop of Winchester. He was a great scholar and preacher and a member of the committee that produced the King James Translation of the Bible. He probably contributed more to that work than any other person.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

O Lord and Father, our King and God, by whose grace the Church was enriched by the great learning and eloquent preaching of your servant Lancelot Andrewes, but even more by his example of biblical and liturgical prayer: Conform our lives, like his, to the image of Christ, that our hearts may love you, our minds serve you, and our lips proclaim the greatness of your mercy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 26, 2008 12:48 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As always, I am thinking of you and of your sunshine boy, Connor. May God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect

O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Sergius of Moscow, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 25, 2008 1:29 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Helmets and go-carts also remind me of your sweet sunshine boy. May your thoughts of Connor be sweet and happy today.

Earlier this week, many people of faith marked the anniversary of the death of Henri Nouwen. I will leave you one of my favorite Nouwen quotes.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Real prayer penetrates to the marrow of the soul and leaves nothing untouched. The prayer of the heart is prayer that does not allow us to limit our relationship with God to interesting words or pious emotion...In our hearts we come to see ourselves as sinners embraced by the mercy of God. Thus the prayer of the heart is the prayer of truth.

~Henri J.M. Nouwen (1932-1996)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 24, 2008 11:05 AM CDT

this is from a greeting card but the thought is still the same
Nothing new
nothng clever
just thinking of you
same as ever.
I think of you so often and always say a prayer for you when I do. I hope thngs are getting a little esier for you as time passes but I also know the pain is always there. its just waiting to jump out when you least expect it

Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, September 23, 2008 6:17 PM CDT

thinking of you today
Love and prayers from Scotland,Rosi

www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, September 23, 2008 5:40 PM CDT

Hey Connor,
One of my neighbors has a gokart and will occasionally get it out for a ride. He's about 14 now and gokarts aren't quite as important as when he was younger, so I don't get to see it running too often. Seeing it the other day reminded me of a special young man who continues to bless my life daily. As I watched Joseph pulling on that starter rope I thought about you and how God uses you to reach so many in his kingdom!

I love you bunches!!

Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Tuesday, September 23, 2008 8:34 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on a beautiful first day of autumn. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's many loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

We thank you, heavenly Father, for the witness of your apostle and evangelist Matthew to the Gospel of your Son our Savior; and we pray that, after his example, we may with ready wills and hearts obey the calling of our Lord to follow him; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 22, 2008 5:09 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor has been remembered in Holy Eucharist once again. I always think of your sweet sunshine boy, when I am in church, and I always pray for you.

Please let me know if I can do anything for you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):

Grant us, Lord, not to be anxious about earthly things, but to love things heavenly; and even now, while we are placed among things that are passing away, to hold fast to those that shall endure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 21, 2008 2:18 PM CDT

He who has surrendered himself to it knows that the Way ends on the Cross--even when it is leading through the jubilation of Gennesaret or the triumphal entry into Jerusalem.

~Dag Hammarskjöld (1905-1961)

Dear Rhonda,

As young people, my boys were always interested in individuals like Hammarskjöld. Perhaps Connor has met him in their heavenly country.

My thoughts and prayers are with you today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Heavenly Father, who have taught us that the peacemakers shall be called the children of God: Grant that, like your servant Dag Hammarskjöld, we may always seek to live at peace with our neighbors, and to reconcile those living in strife and enmity; so that in this way we may follow in the footsteps of your beloved Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 18, 2008 9:57 AM CDT

Underneath all the texts, all the sacred psalms and canticles, these watery varieties of sounds and silences, terrifying, mysterious, whirling and sometimes gestating and gentle must somehow be felt in the pulse, ebb, and flow of the music that sings in me. My new song must float like a feather on the breath of God.

Hildegard Of Bingen

Dear Rhonda,

I left you that quote from Hildegard, as I did not have much to say on my own. I do love singing, especially when I am singing to God, and I believe you do, as well. May our songs float like feathers to God and to Connor.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect: Feast Of Hildegard Of Bingen, 17 September 1179

O God, by whose grace your servant Hildegard, kindled with the fire of your love, became a burning and shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 17, 2008 2:33 PM CDT

The soul is healed by being with children.

~Fyodor Dostoyevsky, novelist (1821-1881)

Dear Rhonda,

The thought above was in my email today. I know Connor was such a wonderful child that it may be hard for you to see other parents enjoying their children, but I hope that you can spend time with children of friends and family, as there is healing in being with young people.

God bless you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Feast Of Ninian Of Galloway,
Bishop, Missionary To Scotland, 16 September 430:

O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant and bishop Ninian caused the light of the Gospel to shine in the land of Britain: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 11:54 AM CDT

HELP ST. JUDE BY CREATING A PEPPER AT CHILI'S TO FIGHT CHILDHOOD CANCER!!!!

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital and Chili’s Grill & Bar® announced the kick-off of their fifth annual Create-A-Pepper to Fight Childhood Cancer campaign. Now through September 30, Chili’s restaurants around the country and, for the first time, in Puerto Rico, are marking National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month by inviting people to get creative and raise funds to help St. Jude find cures and save children with cancer and other catastrophic childhood diseases.
Guests at participating Chili’s restaurants can contribute to St. Jude in multiple ways:

- Make a donation to St. Jude and receive a Create-A-Pepper chili pepper coloring sheet designed for display at restaurants during the month.

- Purchase Create-A-Pepper T-shirts that can be customized with permanent marker.

- Buy a customized Create-A-Pepper key that can be cut for use at home or the office.

- Eat at Chili’s on Monday, Sept. 29, when Chili’s will donate 100 percent of profits from participating restaurant sales to St. Jude.

Visit www.createapepper.com and to make an online donation.

PASS IT AROUND!!!!

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Cindy Choi
Miami, FL - Monday, September 15, 2008 4:15 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Last night, we attended a gala storytelling banquet. In reflecting on an amazing evening, I think Connor would have enjoyed the humorous tellings offered by women from Saratoga Springs and from Albany and the dessert. I know I did.

Today is the Feast of the Holy Cross. We have two churches in our diocese that carry this name. I was fortune enough to visit the church in Jerusalem, near where St. Helena discovered the true cross, several years ago. I will leave the collect below.

God bless both you and Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whose Son our Savior Jesus Christ was lifted high upon the cross that he might draw the whole world to himself: Mercifully grant that we, who glory in the mystery of our redemption, may have grace to take up our cross and follow him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 15, 2008 9:22 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am remembering sweet Connor and thinking of you on a beautiful late summer afternoon. I hope you are enjoying the weekend. There are many cancer awareness/fund-raisers going on. Perhaps you are involved in one of them. If so, may your activity bring Connor's story to the attention of new people and help find cures.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.

~Leo F. Buscaglia (1924-1998)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 13, 2008 2:36 PM CDT

stopped by to tell you that I'm thinking about you and the Martin7
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, September 13, 2008 9:28 AM CDT

Rhonda
just wanted you to know that I was thinking of you
and your sweet Connor
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Friday, September 12, 2008 5:14 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. May God bless you and your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect, Feast Of John Henry Hobart, Pioneer Bishop Of New York (1775-1830):

Revive your Church, Lord God of hosts, whenever it falls into complacency and sloth, by raising up devoted leaders, like your servant John Henry Hobart whom we remember this day; and grant that their faith and vigor of mind may awaken your people to your message and their mission; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 12, 2008 2:11 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have thought of you, and of your family, often on Patriot's Day, and I have also thought of a man from my hometown, who died in the World Trade Center. May God bless the souls of all the faithful departed.

A friend sent me a card containing the prayer below from The Book of Common Prayer. The word "catholic" in the prayer refers to the whole church of Christ.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, whose days are without end, and whose mercies cannot be numbered: Make us, we pray, deeply aware of the shortness and uncertainty of human life; and let your Holy Spirit lead us in holiness and righteousness all our days; that, when we shall have served you in our generation, we may be gathered to our ancestors, having the testimony of a good conscience, in the communion of the Catholic Church, in the confidence of a certain faith, in the comfort of a religious and holy hope, in favor with you, our God, and in perfect charity with the world. All this we ask through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 11, 2008 11:45 PM CDT

rhonda.. I emailed you. but wanted to sign... thanks again for keeping up connors site.. he was such a brave young man... and soo handsome.. Our middle child andrew was also born in oct of 94... and has often said how cool connor was, and how strong he was. He said ( mom I could never be that sick and still be happy like connor) We were just talking about him earlier today... connor set an example to so many people.. even kids his age.. we will always remember connor.. and smile!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Wednesday, September 10, 2008 5:52 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Now that school is back in full swing, soccer and football are being played by youth of all ages, here, in southern Saratoga County. The kids are also beginning to plan for Halloween. I am sure Connor would have been looking forward to that day, as it was also his birthday. May God bless Connor always, and may God bless you and all of Connor's other loved ones, too.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant Alexander Crummell, whom you called to preach the Gospel to those who were far off and to those who were near. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 10, 2008 3:42 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Someone is using a lawn tractor in our area, and the sound of it makes me think of the picture of Connor driving the tractor. How all of the young guys enjoy things with wheels!

You are in my loving thoughts today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Here's a quote, from Mother Teresa, that always makes me smile.

When I was crossing into Gaza, I was asked at the checkpost whether I was carrying any weapons. I replied: Oh yes, my prayer books.

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 8, 2008 4:26 PM CDT

Rhonda,
Yesterday I helped give a bridal shower for my niece Sarah and a little boy 1 year old was there and his name was Connor, he had the biggest smile and reminded me of your sweet sunshine boy. I do miss him!!! I am thankful for the short time I "knew" him and for the lessons he taught me about being courageous and to live life to the fullest each and every precious day.
Note: Thank you for the awesome entry Mr. Wayne....Connor will forever be in my heart!:) Colette, you are always so faithful in writing. I love your quotes and the prayers you include. Mother Teresa was one of my favorites and I took the name Theresa for my confirmation name.:)
God Bless everyone reading this and especially Rhonda.
We love you!
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, September 7, 2008 12:51 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Both you and Connor were in my thoughts and prayers, during Eucharist last night. When the service was over, a friend and I had dinner at IHOP. We tried the Louisiana Bananas Foster Pancakes, which have been advertised. They came topped with a large scoop of vanilla ice cream, and they were yummy. I wonder what Connor would have thought of them, or of some of the other specialty pancakes they served.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Prayer enlarges the heart until it is capable of containing God’s gift of Himself.

~Mother Teresa
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, September 7, 2008 11:45 AM CDT

Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.

~Mother Teresa

Dear Rhonda,

So many of Mother Teresa's sayings were about smiling, and certainly one thing Connor was known for was his smile. May God bless them both and all the faithful departed.

I am reading at one Eucharist, this weekend, and while I am at church, I will remember Connor, and I will also hold you up in my prayers.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

Grant us, O Lord, to trust in you with all our hearts; for, as you always resist the proud who confide in their own strength, so you never forsake those who make their boast of your mercy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, September 6, 2008 1:22 PM CDT

Hey to everyone who visits Connor's web site and signs his guestbook!

Life happens. People get involved in their hectic schedules. Without meaning to, we often get 'lost' in our daily routines and may forget those who are important to us.

Maybe you feel as I do when you think often about a special person like Connor. Hardly a day goes by that this young man doesn't enter my thought process. However, I fail to take the time to come here and say a few words. It's so easy to let the hustle and bustle take over and we forget that some may need the blessing of a few minutes of our time.

God's plans for us are quite easy to understand and yet can be difficult to follow. I think that is why he uses the innocence of a young child to reach out and gently let us know there are things more important than our full and busy schedule.

I cannot visit here without thanking Connor for his incredible gift of being a mighty soldier in God's army! Although his physical walk is finished, he will continue to be a strong influence in many lives. I think about the scripture that states unless we become like little children, we cannot inherit the kingdom of heaven. God knows what he is doing.

Thank you Connor for being such a good guy!!

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Friday, September 5, 2008 4:06 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

My thoughts are with you on another Friday morning. May we all, "walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and peace," today and every day.

Since today is Mother Teresa's eleventh anniversary, I will leave her daily prayer below.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Dear Jesus, help me to spread Thy fragrance everywhere I go. Flood my soul with Thy spirit and love. Penetrate and possess my whole being so utterly that all my life may only be a radiance of Thine.

~Mother Teresa's Daily Prayer, by Cardinal Newman
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, September 5, 2008 11:21 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today is a beautiful summer day, so it is easy to think of Connor buzzing about on his go-cart and also riding his bike. He was one active young man! Connor will always be missed by all of his friends and supporters.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's dear ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Merciful God, who sent your beloved Son to preach peace to those who are far off and to those who are near: Raise up in this and every land witnesses, who, after the example of your servant Paul Jones, will stand firm in proclaiming the Gospel of the Prince of Peace, our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, September 4, 2008 1:48 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

The school busses are roaring through our development. Today is the first day of school here, and those busses have been going for almost an hour. I think back to young Connor and to my own boys, in new shoes and clothes, and to the hopes, dreams, and excitement of a new beginning. I also think of fall sports and a return to Christian education which would follow on the weekend. My thoughts are sweet, and I hope that yours are as well.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

Almighty God, we remember before you this day the blessed martyrs of New Guinea, who, following the example of their Savior, laid down their lives for their friends; and we pray that we, who honor their memory, may imitate their loyalty and faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 3, 2008 6:41 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and of Connor today. May God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

All of the good that you will do will come not from the fact that you have allowed yourself, in obedience of faith, to be used by God's love. Think of this more and gradually you will free yourself from the need to prove yourself, and you can be more open to the power that will work through you without you knowing it.

~Thomas Merton (1915-1968)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 2, 2008 8:01 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Aiden of Lindisfarne is one of my favorite saints, so I am leaving his collect below. His day is usually August 31, but with that date being a Sunday, he was remembered today.

I have thought of Connor many times today, and another of his friends emailed me to say that she had, as well. Connor will not be forgotten by those who signed his guest book faithfully during his illness, but even more importantly, Connor is always in the heart and mind of God.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O loving God, who called your servant Aidan from the peace of a cloister to re-establish the Christian mission in northern England, and gave him the gifts of gentleness, simplicity, and strength: Grant that we, following his example, may use what you have given us for the relief of human need, and may persevere in commending the saving Gospel of our Redeemer Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 1, 2008 9:11 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

On another first of the month, I am thinking of sweet Connor and how much we all miss him. May God give you special grace to go through whatever emotions today brings, and may you never lose sight of the tree of life.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of wonder and mystery, you gave us Jesus to go before us and to show us a way to new life through our dying: As the season of autumn reminds us that all living things must die, so must our faith in the life Jesus promised encourage us to embrace life's potential, rather than being saddened by life's endings, may we find, in the wisdom of your creation, the constantly renewing love that reassures us of your presence. With our eyes on the tree of life and its spectacular beauty, may we remain always in Jesus. Amen.

~Sister Karen Berry
in Prayer Services for Parishes
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, September 1, 2008 11:59 AM CDT

Good Morning Rhonda,
Thinking of you today and a little blonde haired boy who captured my heart and is forever in my heart. I miss your sunshine boy and I love you.
Please know I am always here for you and pray for you daily.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay , WI. U.S.A. - Monday, September 1, 2008 7:32 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Andrew took me out to lunch today, and I enjoyed my time with him very much. I do not sign guest books very much now either, but I do try to get to Connor's book often as he was so very special. Like Sharon, I hope you are doing all right.

God bless you, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 31, 2008 3:39 PM CDT

I do not sign very often any more Rhonda but I do think of you so often. I hope things are ok.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, August 31, 2008 8:48 AM CDT

Happy Labor Day Weekend To All!

Dear Rhonda,

Connor will be remembered, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend, as he is every time I am at church.

May God nourish you with all good things, especially hope.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

Lord of all power and might, the author and giver of all good things: Graft in our hearts the love of your Name; increase in us true religion; nourish us with all goodness; and bring forth in us the fruit of good works; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 233
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 30, 2008 12:32 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

The news and the history of this week have made me think a lot of a young man, who like our Lord Jesus, gave his life for others. Today I leave you the collect for Jonathan Daniels, who died on August 20, 1965. A seminarian, his action in stepping in front of another, to prevent her death, still speaks louder than any words he could have preached.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God of justice and compassion, who put down the proud and the mighty from their place, and lift up the poor and afflicted: We give you thanks for your faithful witness Jonathan Myrick Daniels, who, in the midst of injustice and violence, risked and gave his life for another; and we pray that we, following his example, may make no peace with oppression; through Jesus Christ the just one: who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 29, 2008 10:03 AM CDT

Regarding Connor's page. Thank you so much! My 3yo daughter has been through a battle with cancer and is now in remission. She is like a normal little girl but I am now finding it hard to greive and move on. Reading Connor's page helped me alot. Thank you!
Nicole Conway <jasonconway@optusnet.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Thursday, August 28, 2008 11:18 PM CDT

Of this I am certain, that no one has ever died who was not destined to die some time. Now the end of life puts the longest life on a par with the shortest... And of what consequence is it what kind of death puts an end to life, since he who has died once is not forced to go through the same ordeal a second time? They, then, who are destined to die, need not be careful to inquire what death they are to die, but into what place death will usher them.

~St. Augustine of Hippo (354-430)
Feast Day: August 28

Dear Rhonda,

I hope these words from St. Augustine of Hippo will be comforting to you today, as you think of Connor and others who have gone before you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Lord God, the light of the minds that know you, the life of the souls that love you, and the strength of the hearts that serve you: Help us, following the example of your servant Augustine of Hippo, so to know you that we may truly love you, and so to love you that we may fully serve you, whom to serve is perfect freedom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 28, 2008 10:31 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Last night, Andrew wanted pizza. As I watched him, smiling as he placed the order, I thought of your smiling sunshine boy, and I wondered what Connor would have chosen, had he placed the order.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O loving God, whose will it is that everyone should come to you and be saved: We bless your Holy Name for your servants Thomas Gallaudet and Henry Winter Syle, whose labors with and for those who are deaf we commemorate today; and we pray that you will continually move your Church to respond in love to the needs of all people; through Jesus Christ, who opened the ears of the deaf, and who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 27, 2008 1:30 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today's saint is Bartholomew. One of my connections with this name is that when they were young, my boys gave me a white teddy bear that I named Thomas Bartholomew. We had such a good time with that bear! I am sure little stories like this one make you think of dozens of sweet things Connor did as a little guys, and I hope those thoughts make your heart smile.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty and everlasting God, who gave to your apostle Bartholomew grace truly to believe and to preach your Word: Grant that your Church may love what he believed and preach what he taught; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 25, 2008 11:32 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
I was watching televison last night and a little lady bug crawled all around the t.v. screen, I just sat and watched it as it circled around and around and I immediatly thought of a little blonde haired boy with a smile that could light up the world and who captured my heart many years ago and I will NEVER forget him or his courage. I miss that little boy and know you do with all your heart...just know he touched so many lives and he will ALWAYS be in our hearts. I miss hearing from you, hope you are doing okay. You are daily in my prayers.

Love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, August 24, 2008 8:49 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Blessings to you on a beautiful Sunday afternoon. I am thinking of you, Connor, and all of your loved ones.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Grant, O merciful God, that your Church, being gathered together in unity by your Holy Spirit, may show forth your power among all peoples, to the glory of your Name; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, August 24, 2008 2:30 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Our cousin, Jennifer's oldest boy, Liam, is six today. It does not seem possible. Where does all the time go?

I hope you are doing well. You, and all of your loved ones, are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 23, 2008 9:00 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, on yet another Friday. May God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 22, 2008 12:47 AM CDT

Rhonda
thinking of you
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Thursday, August 21, 2008 4:50 PM CDT

I think of you many times during the week. Each time, I pray for you. I know God has you in the palm of His hand. I check in just to look at Connor's sweet face. He's an inspiration to so many of us. Your love for him radiates through this site. If there is anything that I can do for you, please let me know.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Thursday, August 21, 2008 3:42 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I know you are reading Connor's guest book. May God bless you today and every day, and of course may God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who gave your servant Blaise Pascal a great intellect, that he might explore the mysteries of your creation, and who kindled in his heart a love for you and a devotion to your service: Mercifully give us your servants, according to our various callings, gifts of excellence in body, mind, and will, and the grace to use them diligently and to your glory, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 21, 2008 1:17 PM CDT

Hello Rhonda and all readers,
I know this site was kept live by Rhonda for others. Can anyone tell us how Rhonda is doing and or if she is in touch. Thank you and apologies for using the page in this way.
ALL Friends to Connor
- Wednesday, August 20, 2008 10:01 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

In reading today's collect, I thought of Connor, who truly was a child of light. May God bless you both today and every day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, by whose grace your servant Bernard of Clairvaux, kindled with the flame of your love, became a burning and a shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, August 20, 2008 12:53 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Over the past few days, three friends have died, and I have three friends battling breast cancer. Life is often uncertain, but all of these departed had faith, as did Connor, so are hearts, although hurting, are not like those without hope. We will see them again.

Today's saint is Helena, mother of Constantine, and finder of the True Cross. Several years ago, while in the Holy Land, I attended two worship services in the church she helped to build.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your dear son, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who called your servant Helena to an earthly throne so that she might advance your heavenly kingdom, and filled her with zeal for your Church and love for your people; Grant to us your people that we may be fruitful in good works, and steadfast in our faith in you, and finally by your mercy may attain everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 19, 2008 7:34 AM CDT

rhonda, im thinking of you.... and connor alot lately. We were laying at the beach and the clouds formed and looked like angels, I was thinking of sweet connor and cheyenne and maxie. and wondering what they are all doing... Summer is almost over school starts here this week.. the housing market is still awful here.. so i was thinking of you in real estate. I think its still bad all over.. Praying for you with that as well.. thank you for keeping connors page here. I come look at his sweet face many times.. without signing.. and to pray for you.. I should get better at letting you know i was here.
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Monday, August 18, 2008 6:51 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I stopped at DeVoe's yesterday, as they advertised lemon ice cream, which is one of my favorites. I had my cone dipped in chocolate, and as I ate, I wondered, as I often do, what cool treat Connor would have chosen. May God bless your sweet, sunshine boy, and may God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who gave to your servant William Porcher DuBose special gifts of grace to understand the Scriptures and to teach the truth as it is in Christ Jesus: Grant that by this teaching we may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 18, 2008 12:43 AM CDT

thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 16, 2008 9:52 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

On a day when many think of mothers, I send you greetings and love. God bless you always, God bless your mother, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For The Feast Of St. Mary:

O God, who have taken to yourself the blessed Virgin Mary, mother of your incarnate Son: Grant that we, who have been redeemed by his blood, may share with her the glory of your eternal kingdom; through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Also see the second verse below, a tribute to the mother of our Lord.

Ye watchers and ye holy ones,
bright seraphs, cherubim, and thrones,
raise the glad strain,
Alleluia!
Cry out, dominions, princedoms, powers,
virtues, archangels, angels' choirs,
Refrain:
Alleluia! alleluia! alleluia!
Alleluia! alleluia!

O higher than the cherubim,
more glorious than the seraphim,
lead their praises,
Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
most gracious, magnify the Lord, Refrain

Respond, ye souls in endless rest,
ye patriarchs and prophets blest,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
Ye holy twelve, ye martyrs strong,
all saints triumphant, raise the song, Refrain

O friends, in gladness let us sing,
supernal anthems echoing,
Alleluia,
alleluia!
To God the Father, God the Son,
and God the Spirit, Three in One, Refrain

Words: Athelstan Riley (1858-1945), 1906

Music: Lasst uns erfreuen (Geistliche Catholische Kirchengeäng, Cologne, 1623)

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/y/y023.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 15, 2008 3:17 PM CDT

This has been a long time since writting, but I still think about the sunshine boy. Alot of little things bring back the times when I couldn't stay away from the site. Hope all is fine in your life too!
sandi slezak <slezak@ez-net.com>
wabeno, wi usa - Friday, August 15, 2008 7:42 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We have a little sunshine this morning after another very overcast and rainy week. It is good to come here and see the sunshine on Connor's sweet face. May God bless him, and may God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Most loving Father, whose Son Jesus Christ came to give his life as a ransom for many: Give us the grace, as you did to your servant Maximilian Kolbe, to be always ready to come to the aid of those in need or distress, not counting the cost; that so we may follow in the footsteps of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, August 14, 2008 8:09 AM CDT

Rhonda, I am thinking of you today. Hayden started 1st grade yesterday. I can't believe it. I hope you are doing well. I love getting to see Connor's smiling face when I come to his site. He will always be in my heart.
Love,
Lori
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, Tn - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 12:12 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today is the birthday of one of my favorite cousins. It is a good day for me to think of Connor, and of his cousins, and to pray for them all, and for you.

Connor was remembered, in Eucharist, at St. George's, on Saturday, when I served as lay reader.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, whose blessed Son became poor that we through his poverty might be rich: Deliver us from an inordinate love of this world, that we, inspired by the devotion of your servant Clare, may serve you with singleness of heart, and attain to the riches of the age to come; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, August 11, 2008 1:10 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

What a privilege to come here to see Connor's pictures today! The one of young Connor, in the puppy costume, touched my heart especially, this morning.

Last night, I watched the opening ceremony of the Olympics, on television. I wonder what Connor would have thought of so many people and of the pageantry. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you are well. I would love to hear from you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Franz Jägerstätter: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 9, 2008 11:32 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I hope you are well. I will think of you, and of sweet Connor, when I read at church, over the weekend. God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God of the prophets, who opened the eyes of your servant Dominic to perceive a famine of hearing the word of the Lord, and moved him, and those he drew about him, to satisfy that hunger with sound preaching and fervent devotion: Make your Church, dear Lord, in this and every age, attentive to the hungers of the world, and quick to respond in love to those who are perishing; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 8, 2008 12:28 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Andrew is taking care of five cats for three different families this week, while they are on vacation. Two of the cats, Alex and Houdini, are Kristen's. This makes me think of Connor and his cat, Zoe. Connor had so much fun with her.

I hope you are well and enjoying good weather.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Lord God, whose servant Oswald the King sent for preachers to bring the Good News of salvation to the people of his country, and stood beside the preacher Aidan and interpreted his words into the Anglo-Saxon language: Place in our hearts a concern for those who have not heard the message of your love; and where we have not the ability to reach them ourselves, grant us the discernment and the charity to uphold those who do have it, that your way may be known upon earth, your saving health among all nations, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Ghost, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, August 5, 2008 9:12 AM CDT

another first of the month has passed us by sometimes they seem to fly by and sometimes to drag.... I think of you every day and how much I know you miss Connor
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 2, 2008 6:44 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

After a spurt of heavy rain, the birds are singing and we are having a pleasant summer afternoon, here in southern Saratoga County. I hope you and your loved ones are enjoying a good day, as well.

I will remember Connor, in Holy Eucharist, this weekend, as I always do.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

Gracious Father, by whose hand your servant Simon Peter was most wonderfully delivered out of prison and from impending death: Grant us, in all the changes and chances of this mortal life, to dread nothing but the loss of you, and to cast all our care upon you, who care for us. When disasters lie ahead, help us to avoid them if we may, and to endure them if we must, knowing that we walk with him who endured all for us, your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, August 2, 2008 1:41 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As we enter another month, I am thinking of you and of dear Connor. May your faith remind you that you will see Connor again, and when you do, "All shall be well."

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, August 1, 2008 11:54 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I just want you to know that I am thinking of you today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

Today's Collect:

Merciful God, whose servant Joseph of Arimathaea with reverence and godly fear prepared the body of our Lord and Savior for burial, and laid it in his own tomb: Grant to us, your faithful people, grace and courage to love and serve Jesus with sincere devotion all the days of our life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 31, 2008 9:37 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It is another warm, summer day, in southern Saratoga County. I hope you are enjoying the rich produce of the earth, the touch of the sun, and peace in your heart.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Let your continual mercy, O Lord, enkindle in your Church the never-failing gift of love, that, following the example of your servant William Wilberforce, we may have grace to defend the children of the poor, and maintain the cause of those who have no helper; for the sake of him who gave his life for us, your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 30, 2008 11:08 AM CDT

Rhonda
thinking of you
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Monday, July 28, 2008 4:28 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I hope you have had a safe and pleasant weekend. I have thought of Connor many times these past few days. Connor will always be someone special in my heart.

Today the church remembers a great leader in William Reed Huntington, the rector for 21 years (1862-1883) at All Saints' Church in Worcester, Massachusetts, and for 26 years (1883-1909) at Grace Church, New York City. He died 26 July 1909, and his feast is marked on 27 July. He is the author of the collect I often leave you on Fridays.

"Almighty God, whose dear Son went not up to joy but first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and peace; through the same thy Son Jesus Christ our Lord."

This is a prayer that has brought me through and beyond many hard experiences. May it always be a help to you, as well.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O Lord our God, we thank you for instilling in the heart of your servant William Reed Huntington a fervent love for your Church and its mission in the world; and we pray that, with unflagging faith in your promises, we may make known to all peoples your blessed gift of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, July 28, 2008 1:25 PM CDT

Hi Rhonda,
I participated in my first Relay for Life on Friday evening. I surprised my Uncle Pat and his family and went to Two Rivers (about 45 minutes from here) to walk with them in my Aunt Char's honor. It was such a moving experience. I walked the very first lap alone as it was for survivors and I didn't know a single survivor there...I cried as I walked and people clapped and cheered. I wore my Connor blue bracelet and thought of him, Cheyenne, Tyler, my dad, Aunt Char and many others who have inspired me through their courageous journeys through cancer. I hope to attend again next year.

Hope things are well for you, miss hearing from you and updates about what is happening in your life. We have had a rough few weeks here, but we keep trudging along. A dear friends dad was killed in a car accident last week, his funeral will be Weds. Also my sister Kris' sister in law passed away last week...lots of "little" things in between that do put things into perspective but none the less are worrisome.
Take gentle care, and know that Connor is forever in my heart.
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, July 27, 2008 3:42 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have just viewed Connor's pictures again. One that always stands out is one you sent me of a very young Connor, wading in some water, with Poppi. How fitting as today the church remembers the maternal grandparents of Jesus.

God bless you always, and God bless your mother and father, your brothers, and sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, heavenly Father, we remember in thanksgiving this day the parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary; and we pray that we all may be made one in the heavenly family of your Son Jesus Christ our Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 26, 2008 1:26 PM CDT

O gracious God, we remember before you today your servant and apostle James, first among the Twelve to suffer martyrdom for the Name of Jesus Christ; and we pray that you will pour out upon the leaders of your Church that spirit of self-denying service by which alone they may have true authority among your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Dear Rhonda,

Greetings to you on the Feast of St. James. Our church, down in Oneonta, is named for this saint, and Andrew's confirmation name is also James.

I wonder if Connor enjoyed names as much as Andrew always has. Andrew's elementary school librarian, called him "a namer," long before Andrew informed his third grade teacher that he had just added "James" to his name and she could call him "AJ." Soon after that, Andrew asked me to help him list all of his nicknames. When we got to about 150, with still many more names to list, I declared him to be "the man with a thousand names," much to his delight.

Connor certainly had a great name. I am sure there is a story to his name, and someday, I would love to hear it.

When you can, please let me know how you are. I know your life is different, with Connor in heaven, but with God's help, it is also good.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 25, 2008 10:13 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

In our extended family, we have a new baby boy, born yesterday, in Boston. His name is Finian, and he joins a brother, Henry, who will be four, in October. Events like this make me think of Connor holding his little cousin. May God bless Connor's sweet spirit, and may God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, July 19, 2008 8:18 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

How quickly the time passes from one Friday to the next! Once again, I am praying for you and remembering sweet Connor on the day when many pray William Reed Huntington's prayer. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's loved ones. Hopefully, you can update soon.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 18, 2008 5:35 AM CDT

Thinking of you today and always!!!!
Jessica Locklear (Vaughan) <jvaughan82@aol.com>
clarksville, tn - Tuesday, July 15, 2008 5:12 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It does not seem possible that today is the fifteenth of July already. We have been happy and busy. I hope the same has been true for you, although I know that your life is forever changed with Connor living in another dimension.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, who called your servants Olga and her grandson Vladimir to an earthly throne that they might advance your heavenly kingdom, and gave them zeal for your Church and love for your people: Mercifully grant that we who commemorate them this day may be fruitful in good works, and attain to the glorious crown of your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 15, 2008 7:55 AM CDT

Holiness is knowing we have tasted God and knowing that we can never be satisfied with just that taste. It is choosing, in spite of our fear, to go more deeply.

~Joyce Rupp

Dear Rhonda,

I thought you might like the quotation from Joyce Rupp, one of my favorite spiritual writers. May God bless you today and every day.

It does not seem that it could possibly be another Friday already. Let us continue walking in the way of the cross, as in it we will find life and peace.

Grace, peace, love, and all good to Connor's forever mother,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 11, 2008 10:10 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Andrew is on his way to a concert. It is a lovely time of the year to go hear music. I wonder what Connor would think of all the concerts in parks and arenas. Some include fireworks.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 8, 2008 5:34 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I hope you are enjoying this Fourth of July weekend. Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist on Saturday, as he always is.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

O God, you have taught us to keep all your commandments by loving you and our neighbor: Grant us the grace of your Holy Spirit, that we may be devoted to you with our whole heart, and united to one another with pure affection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, July 6, 2008 10:46 AM CDT

I really love your song "God Bless the USA." Keep up the great work for Jesus.
Shelia Turner <sheliaann_1978@live.com>
Hammond, IN USA - Saturday, July 5, 2008 8:10 AM CDT

Happy Fourth Of July To All!

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, of Connor, and of all of Connor's family, fans and supporters, on this Independence Day. May God bless you all.

One picture that has been coming to me, off and on, during the last few days, is the one of a young Connor wading in water with his poppy. It is a precious image to have. I am sure there are lots of little ones enjoying their grandfathers and grandmothers this weekend. Connor was blessed in having your parents in his life. They were terrific! Please give them my love.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

The Collect For Independence Day:

Lord God Almighty, in whose Name the founders of this country won liberty for themselves and for us, and lit the torch of freedom for nations then unborn: Grant that we and all the people of this land may have grace to maintain our liberties in righteousness and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 242
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, July 4, 2008 4:41 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Both Lori and Kim have spoken well this week. What awesome sites indeed are Connor's in heaven, and truly someone thinks of you, at every part, of every day.

Earlier this week, Catherine Winkworth was remembered for her work in hymnal translation. I will leave the collect and one of her best known hymns.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Heavenly Father, by whose grace your servant Catherine was moved to render into English the words of praise which she had heard in the German tongue: grant us a like devotion, that we may be moved to proclaim your glory in sacred song; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Blessed Jesus, at thy word
we are gathered all to hear thee;
let our hearts and souls be stirred
now to seek and love and fear thee,
by thy teachings, true 1 and holy,
drawn from earth to love thee solely.

All our knowledge, sense, and sight
lie in deepest darkness shrouded
till thy Spirit breaks our night
with the beams of truth unclouded.
thou alone to God canst win us;
thou must work all good within us.

Glorious Lord, thyself impart,
Light of Light, from God proceeding;
open thou our ears and heart,
help us by thy Spirit's pleading;
hear the cry thy church 2 raises,
hear and bless our prayers and praises.

1 some have "sweet"
2 some have "people"

Words: Tobias Clausnitzer (1619-1684), 1667;

Translation Catherine Winkworth (1827-1878), 1858

Music: Liebster Jesu (Johann Rudolph Ahle, 1625-1673)

Hear It At: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b134.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, July 3, 2008 4:57 AM CDT

rhonda, thinking of connor on the first again... and often.. and I think of you.... I hope your doing o.k... update us when you can... Happy 4th of july! Your always in someones hearts and prayers! Kim
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 3:45 PM CDT

Hi Rhonda--I am thinking of you and angel Connor. I am reading a book called 90 minutes in Heaven and as it is describing Heaven--I am thinking of Connor. What awesome sites he must be seeing. I hope you have a Happy and Safe 4th of July!

Lori
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 8:09 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I was unable to sign Connor's book during the day on July 1, but I was thinking of him, and of you. May God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, July 2, 2008 2:03 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
I am thinking of a little blonde haired boy who stole my heart on another first day of the month. Birds are singing, and my thoughts are of Connor. I MISS HIM and WILL NEVER FORGET HIM! Also miss hearing from you.
love and hugs,
Kathy
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 6:49 PM CDT

another first of the month........ and here we are missing our boys still. I went to Ga in June and visited Mike's grave and took him some purple flowers It's been a long time since Dec 1993 but I sitll miss him so much. I still think about you every day Rhonda.....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 1, 2008 5:23 PM CDT

hi rhonda...just wanted to let you know i'm thinking of you today. i haven't left a message in a while. i had surgery a month ago, and am having some complications. i could certainly use some of connor's courage! with love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Tuesday, July 1, 2008 10:05 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have thought of sweet Connor in prayer, in shopping, and in eating this weekend. I certainly miss Connor, and I also miss seeing updates, here on Connor's website. I am sure this time of the year was often exciting for Connor with carnivals, fairs, circuses, and rodeos making the rounds from area to area. We have amusement rides, games, and foods set up in the parking lot behind our main local shopping mall. One can see the Ferris Wheel at night, for quite a distance. It always looks so pretty.

I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, whose blessed apostles Peter and Paul glorified you by their martyrdom: Grant that your Church, instructed by their teaching and example, and knit together in unity by your Spirit, may ever stand firm upon the one foundation, which is Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 30, 2008 2:11 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

How the time from Friday to Friday passes! Once again, I am praying for you and remembering Connor on the day when many pray William Reed Huntington's prayer. I hope all is well with you and with all of Connor's loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 27, 2008 6:32 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As the thunder rumbles on another humid June afternoon, I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor. May God bless you both.

Today's saint is John the Baptist. I will leave the collect.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, by whose providence your servant John the Baptist was wonderfully born, and sent to prepare the way of your Son our Savior by preaching repentance: Make us so to follow his teaching and holy life, that we may truly repent according to his preaching; and, following his example, constantly speak the truth, boldly rebuke vice, and patiently suffer for the truth's sake; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 24, 2008 12:50 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today is the Feast of St. Alban, the first known martyr of Britain, and the person for whom nearby Albany, NY, was named. There is a St. Alban's window, in the Cathedral of All Saints, where my son, Andrew, was Confirmed.

Connor and you are in my thoughts today, as always. God bless you both, and God bless all those close to you, and all of Connor's fans and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyr Alban triumphed over suffering and was faithful even unto death: Grant to us, who now remember him with thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with him the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 23, 2008 7:53 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered several times during the morning liturgy, at St. George's, on Sunday, June 22. May you and your golden boy always be blessed.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Sunday's Collect:

O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your lovingkindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 23, 2008 0:19 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on another Friday morning. I hope all is well.

God bless you, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 20, 2008 1:51 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

This is the final week of school for most of the kids in New York. I know that young people, in Tennessee, are already out. I will often think of Connor as I watch our neighborhood children riding their bikes, playing ball, skateboarding, and riding their scooters. (We don't have any go-karters in this development.)

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your Love in the heart of your holy martyr Bernard Mizeki: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 18, 2008 3:51 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We have had quite a weather day, here, in upstate New York, today. Colonie, about a fifteen minute drive away, had golf ball sized hail. Other areas had nickel and penny sized hail stones. There was a tornado down near Poughkeepsie. We are safe and sound. Our power did not even flicker, but it sure rained hard. I hope you are safe, well, and comfortable.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Please give Nana and Poppy, Tabitha and her family, and your brothers a "Hello!" from me.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, we entrust all who are dear to us to your never-failing care and love, for this life and the life to come, knowing that you are doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 831
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 16, 2008 9:46 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I hope you are enjoying Father's Day with Poppy and your mother. God bless all three of you, and God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 15, 2008 2:56 PM CDT

Happy Flag Day To All!

Dear Rhonda,

I guess almost everyone loves a parade. One of the largest Flag Day Parades in our nation is held each June, in nearby Troy, NY, the home of Uncle Sam Wilson, meat packer during the War of 1812. We have missed it this year, as it was held earlier in the week, but our thoughts are toward our country this morning.

Our thoughts are also toward you and Connor. He will be remembered in the celebration of the Holy Eucharist, at St. George's.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, June 14, 2008 8:25 AM CDT

Love wholly and not partially. God does not have parts but is present totally everywhere. God does not want only a part of you….Give all of yourself and God will give you all of himself.

~From the writings of St. Anthony of Padua

Dear Rhonda,

It's another Friday, and I am thinking of you, and of sweet Connor, once again. May God bless you both.

Today's saint is Anthony, also spelled Antony. I will leave the collects below.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, who by your Holy Spirit gave your servant Antony a love Of the Holy Scriptures, and the gift of expounding them with learning and eloquence, so that your people might be established in sound doctrine and encouraged in the way of righteousness, grant us always an abundance of such preachers, to the glory of your Name and the benefit of your Church; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 13, 2008 12:56 AM CDT

Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless.

~Gilbert Keith Chesterton (1874-1936)

Dear Rhonda,

I hope you are having a good week. I also hope all of Connor's grandparents and other loved ones are doing well. When you can, please let Connor's fans know how everyone is.

Today's saint is Gilbert Keith Chesterton. I have read him, at times, over the years, but still don't really know or understand him. I will leave the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you always, and God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who gave to your servant Gilbert the gift of a ready tongue and pen, and endued him with zeal to use them in your service: Mercifully grant to each of us, that we may well and truly answer anyone who asks of us a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 12, 2008 2:17 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

The birds are singing, here, in southern Saratoga County, and I am thinking of you and of Connor. God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Grant, O God, that we may follow the example of your faithful servant Barnabas, who, seeking not his own renown but the well-being of your Church, gave generously of his life and substance for the relief of the poor and the spread of the Gospel; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 11, 2008 1:23 PM CDT

Heavy hearts, like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by the letting of a little water.

~Christopher Morley, writer (1890-1957)

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you today. Try to stay cool and well hydrated during this heat wave.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet boy, Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 10, 2008 9:18 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I hope you are staying cool, safe, and comfortable, during this heat wave. I also hope all of Connor's grandparents are safe and well, in this difficult weather. Please give them my greetings.

I am not exactly sure when the school year ends in Tennessee, but I know it is earlier than it is here. I am wondering if the Connor J. Hunley Award has been given out yet. May this recognition honor worthy students each year and keep the name of Connor alive at his school.

Today's saint is Columba. I will leave a hymn sung, to the tune St. Columba, and the collect.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

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O God, who by the preaching of your blessed servant Columba caused the light of the Gospel to shine in Scotland: Grant, we pray, that, having his life and labors in remembrance, we may show our thankfulness to you by following the example of his zeal and patience; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

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The King Of Love My Shepherd Is

The King of love my shepherd is,
whose goodness faileth never;
I nothing lack if I am his,
and he is mine for ever.

Where streams of living water flow,
my ransomed soul he leadeth,
and where the verdant pastures grow,
with food celestial feedeth.

Perverse and foolish oft I strayed,
but yet in love He sought me,
and on his shoulder gently laid,
and home, rejoicing, brought me.

In death's dark vale I fear no ill
with thee, dear Lord, beside me;
thy rod and staff my comfort still,
thy cross before to guide me.

Thou spread'st a table in my sight;
thy unction grace bestoweth;
and O what transport of delight
from thy pure chalice floweth!

And so through all the length of days
thy goodness faileth never:
Good Shepherd, may I sing thy praise
within thy house for ever.

Words: Henry Williams Baker (1821-1877), 1868

Music: St. Columba, Irish melody

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/t/t199b.html

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 9, 2008 11:11 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am home from church, as I read at the early service this morning. Our deacon of forty-one years, a gentleman well into his 80s, is retiring from the active clergy schedule. Today's early Eucharist was Al's last "official" service. He will continue to visit the sick and shut-ins, and I know he will assist, from time to time, for funerals, baptisms, and other services. However, after forty-one years of seldom missing a Sunday, he will no longer "have" to be at church, in heat and humidity, during hard rain, and when the ground is covered with snow. We will miss him.

All of us have benefited from faithful people like Al, over the years. Perhaps today is a good day to review who those people in our lives are, in prayer. May God bless them, and may God bless you.

Of course, while I was at St. George's, Connor was remembered, beneath the Jesus and the Children stained glass window.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, from whom all good proceeds: Grant that by your inspiration we may think those things that are right, and by your merciful guiding may do them; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 8, 2008 10:50 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have just looked through all of Connor's pictures again. They always make me smile.

God bless you, and God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, June 6, 2008 1:31 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Our power has been off briefly twice today and once last night. I guess this may be connected to the thunderstorms we have had off and on. I hope you have not had even minor interruptions and that you are safe, well, and content.

As always, Connor is in my heart.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who called your faithful servant Boniface to be a
witness and martyr in the lands of Germany and Friesland, and
by his labor and suffering raised up a people for your own
possession: Pour forth your Holy Spirit upon your Church in
every land, that by the service and sacrifice of many your holy
Name may be glorified and your kingdom enlarged; through Jesus
Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy
Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, June 5, 2008 9:40 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

This morning, I read at Holy Eucharist, at St. George's. While there, I remembered Connor, in the beauty of holiness.

God bless you always, and God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, whose will it is to heal all division and discord among those who call upon the name of your Son: We thank you for the good will shown in your servant John (born Angelo Roncalli), and we pray that we may always be ready to hear our fellow Christians with humility and a willingness to learn, and may also speak the truth in love, to the healing of faction and the renewed witness of your people; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, June 4, 2008 10:37 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and your dear son, Connor, on a lovely June day. May God comfort, bless, and encourage you and all of Connor's family, friends, and supporters.

I hope you are safe, well, and enjoying this pleasant weather.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O God, by whose providence the blood of the martyrs is the seed of the Church: Grant that we who remember before you the blessed martyrs of Uganda, may, like them, be steadfast in our faith in Jesus Christ, to whom they gave obedience, even unto death, and by their sacrifice brought forth a plentiful harvest; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, June 3, 2008 1:47 PM CDT

"Here I am Lord and can´t do nothing without you even today ,"and the death will take his victim again today and those who believe will enter in to pradice and to God,but those who had forsked Christ will cast into fire, so let us stop the evil that take his victim again in Jesus name.Pray for blessed revival soon,thanks and bless and hope,keijo sweden
keijo leppioja <keijo.leppioja@hotmail.com>
sweden - Monday, June 2, 2008 2:49 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Once again, I am thinking of both you and Connor. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you this week.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Feast Of The Martyrs Of Lyons:

Grant, O Lord, we pray, that we who keep the feast of the holy martyrs Blandina and her companions may be rooted and grounded in love of you, and may endure the sufferings of this life for the glory that shall be revealed in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, June 2, 2008 10:55 AM CDT

hi rhonda...just wanted to stop by and let you know i'm thinking ofyou.
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Sunday, June 1, 2008 5:36 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I think of you, Connor, and all of Connor's loved ones on another first of the month. May God bless you all.

Andrew and I may go to the drive-in movies tonight, or some night this week, as there are two movies playing which we would like to see. I wonder if Connor ever had an opportunity to go to a drive-in theater. One of the first times Andrew ever went to the drive-in, Snow White was playing. He and his brother were in the back of the car on a quilt. When the witch came on the screen, all of a sudden, Andrew was between me and the steering wheel! In some ways it would be nice to have a little one like that again.

God bless you always, and enjoy the month of June.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, your never-failing providence sets in order all things both in heaven and earth: Put away from us, we entreat you, all hurtful things, and give us those things which are profitable for us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, June 1, 2008 1:41 PM CDT

Here we are at another 1st day of the month. I think of you often but always will remember the signifinace of the 1st in the lives of you and me and Linda. May we all feel the peace that only GOD can give. and all the love of our family and friends....
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, June 1, 2008 9:31 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and your sunshine boy Connor on another first day of the month. The birds are chirping and the sun is shining here this morning and my thoughts are of Connor and my Aunt Charlotte. My Aunt Char passed away on Friday evening. We are all going to miss her earthly presence. We are happy for her, sad for us. She was my mom's youngest sister....speaking of mom she will be 88 on Thursday. She has had a rough year so far this year health-wise but is doing much better.
Hope all is going well for you. Miss hearing from you.
Remember Connor will always be in our hearts and NEVER forgotten. I love coming to his site to see his smile.:)
Take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Sunday, June 1, 2008 6:51 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this afternoon, at St. George's. I thought of him, while gazing at both the Jesus and the Children and the Resurrection/New Creation stained glass windows.

Beneath my signature is the collect for the Feast of the Visitation, which was celebrated today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Feast Of The Visitation:

Father in heaven, by whose grace the virgin mother of your Incarnate Son was blessed in bearing him, but still more blessed in keeping your word: Grant us who honor the exaltation of her lowliness to follow the example of her devotion to your will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 31, 2008 11:31 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today's saint has always been a hard one for me to understand, but Joan of Arc was important enough for Mrs. L.L. Scott to include in her beloved children's hymn, I Sing a Song of the Saints of God. Therefore, I have been making another try. I am sure there are some strong ties between your child saint, Connor Jordan Hunley, and this teen saint, as both were faithful to the vision of Christ that they had.

Here is the hymn, which I know I have shared with you previously. It is one many children know, but it is also often sung with the most joy and enthusiasm by their parents and grandparents. Beloved, this hymn is also used at a lot of funerals. I have added the names of the saints that I have heard Mrs. Scott was writing about. Mrs. Scott was married to John Mortimer Scott, a naval officer, who later became an Anglican priest and served a parish near Dartmoor. She wrote all of her hymns for her own children, who often suggested a topic.

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I Sing A Song Of The Saints Of God

I sing a song of the saints of God,
Patient and brave and true,
Who toiled and fought and lived and died
For the Lord they loved and knew.
And one was a doctor, (Luke)
And one was a queen, (Margaret of Scotland)
And one was a shepherdess on the green: (Joan of Arc)
They were all of them saints of God—and I mean,
God helping, to be one too.

They loved their Lord so dear, so dear,
And his love made them strong;
And they followed the right, for Jesus’ sake,
The whole of their good lives long.
And one was a soldier, (Martin of Tours)
And one was a priest, (John Donne)
And one was slain by a fierce wild beast: (Ignatius)
And there’s not any reason—no, not the least,
Why I shouldn’t be one too.

They lived not only in ages past,
There are hundreds of thousands still,
The world is bright with the joyous saints
Who love to do Jesus’ will.
You can meet them in school, or
In lanes, or at sea,
In church, or in trains, or in shops, or at tea,
For the saints of God are just folk like me,
And I mean to be one too.

Lyrics: Mrs. L.L. (Locket) Scott, (1898-1986) 1929

Music: Grand Isle, By Father John Henry Hopkins (1861-1945)

Hear It At: http://www.geocities.com/rgetman/hymns_list.htm

I hope you enjoy the weekend.

God bless you, and God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Joan Of Arc, 1431:

O God, by whom the meek are guided in judgement, and light rises up in darkness for the godly: Grant us, in all our doubts and uncertainties, to ask what you would have us do; that the spirit of wisdom may save us from all false choices, that in your light we may see light, and in your straight paths may not stumble, through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 30, 2008 2:42 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Last night, Andrew, Kristen, Wendy, and I went to a storytelling/New York State food sampling, at a TV studio, in Schenectady. The tellings were recorded for future broadcast. The audience was all adults, but three of the four tellers sang with us, so kids would have enjoyed it, too. About half of the stories were about chocolate, one of the main foods sampled. We had a chocolate fountain in which we dipped strawberries, pound cake, pears, peaches, apples, bananas, and lady fingers. That chocolate came from Uncle Sam's, in Schenectady, a wonderful family owned and operated business that ships candy all over the country. I know Connor would have enjoyed sampling the wares.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 28, 2008 1:39 PM CDT

Hi Connor,

Been a little while since I 'dropped' by. All the kids are either out of school or will be shortly. I bet you loved summer break as most kids do-especially boys!

Summer usually means a few enjoyable things besides being out of school. Swimming, vacations, ICE CREAM, ICE CREAM, etc., etc., etc.....

I hope all your family is doing great. You continue to bless my life daily. I think you will always be a part of so many people's hearts! You bless us incredibly and help us look for the good in each day.

Thank you for being my friend and an encouragement to all of us!

Love you lots!
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Wednesday, May 28, 2008 9:38 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and of Connor on a sunny May day. I hope you enjoyed the holiday weekend and are safe and well.

I am adding today's collect and a quotation from St. Augustine of Canterbury. Apparently, he liked my favorite Psalm portion, Psalm 16: 5-11, too.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect Of The Day:

O Lord our God, who by your Son Jesus Christ called your Apostles and sent them forth to preach the Gospel to the nations: We bless your holy name for your servant Augustine, first Archbishop of Canterbury, whose labors in propagating your Church among the English people we commemorate today; and we pray that all whom you call and send may do your will, and bide your time, and see your glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Quote From St. Augustine Of Canterbury:

God, in his promises to hear our prayers, is desirous to bestow Himself upon us; if you find anything better than Him, ask it; but if you ask anything beneath Him, you put an affront upon Him, and hurt yourself by preferring to Him a creature which He framed: Pray in the spirit and sentiment of love, in which the royal prophet said to Him, 'Thou, O Lord, are my portion.' Let others choose to themselves portions among creatures, for my part, You are my portion, You alone I have chosen for my whole inheritance.
Colette
Clfton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 27, 2008 2:22 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and Connor on Memorial Day. It is windy here today, a perfect day for kite flying. Many years ago, I taught Andrew to fly a kite one windy winter day, in St. George's parking lot, while his brother was acolyting a second service. He now flies his kites, whenever he has a chance. I am sure he would show Connor the ropes, if he could, and I know he would love to help Connor shoot his potato gun.

Beneath my signature, I will add a litany I like to pray on Memorial Day.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Litany For the Nation

Almighty God, giver of all good things: We thank you for the natural majesty and beauty of this land. They restore us, though we often destroy them.

Heal us.

We thank you for the great resources of this nation. They make us rich, though we often exploit them.

Forgive us.

We thank you for the men and women who have made this country strong. They are models for us, though we often fall short of them.

Inspire us.

We thank you for the torch of liberty which has been lit in this land. It has drawn people from every nation, though we have often hidden from its light.

Enlighten us.

We thank you for the faith we have inherited in all its rich variety. It sustains our life, though we have been faithless again and again.

Renew us.

Help us, O Lord, to finish the good work here begun. Strengthen our efforts to blot out ignorance and prejudice, and to abolish poverty and crime. And hasten the day when all our people, with many voices in one united chorus, will glorify your holy Name.

Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 839
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 26, 2008 1:25 PM CDT

When reviled, we bless; when persecuted, we endure; when slandered, we speak kindly.

~From The Second Reading Today (In 1 Corinthians 4)

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Eucharist this morning, at St. George's. I was one of two lay readers. The other was Father Bill's wife, Barbara. The above quotation is from toward the end of my reading.

After church, Andrew and Kristen took me to Red Lobster, where I enjoyed tilapia in a bag and other treats. They are good to me, as Connor was always good to you.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Grant, O Lord, that the course of this world may be peaceably governed by your providence; and that your Church may joyfully serve you in confidence and serenity; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 25, 2008 7:15 PM CDT

A Safe And Happy Memorial Day Weekend To All!

Dear Rhonda,

Once again, I think of you and Connor. No doubt you have many happy memories of Connor, at the time of the unofficial kick off to summer. We have often had cookouts during this weekend, as I am sure you have, too. I bet Connor loved the excitement and the tastes of this weekend. In fifth, or sixth grade, I once carried the American flag in a long parade. Perhaps Connor marched, or rode on a float, too. May all of your thoughts of Connor be sweet, affirming, and blessed by God.

Today's collect connects to our Memorial Day thoughts about our military personnel, faithful until the end. I will place it beneath my signature. May we with them, and with Connor, attain the Lord's crown of victory over evil, suffering, and death.

God bless you always, and God bless all of Connor's loved ones, friends, and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyrs of Armenia triumphed over suffering and were faithful even unto death: Grant us, who now remember them in thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with them the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 24, 2008 5:35 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Kathy's discussion of children and insects reminds me of a time Andrew got in trouble in elementary school. His science teacher wanted the students to collect around a hundred different insects, identify them, and mount them on cardboard. Having a tender heart, Andrew would not poison even one insect, no less beautiful butterflies, in order to display them. That is life affirming behavior that Connor would also choose.

I think of your sweet sunshine boy every day. God bless him, and God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Please pray the collect for Fridays with me.

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 23, 2008 4:46 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
It has been awhile since I have written in Connor's guestbook but that does not mean I have not thought of him or you. I pray each day for you and for Connor to watch over you. I know he would love this time of the year when spring returns and all of the signs of spirng abound....flowers, birds building nests, lady bugs, bugs in general...etc. etc. Yesterday while Aiden was here a strange little bug landed on the window of the front door, Aiden and I got a maganifying glass to check it out:) Reminded me of something Connor might do. I do miss your sunshine boy and he will forever be remembered.
take gentle care,
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Friday, May 23, 2008 6:37 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and with your family. If you can, please update, or send me an email. I would like to know how you all are doing.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

In the cross, He showed us how we are to bear suffering. In His resurrection, He showed us what we are to hope for.

~St. Augustine Of Hippo
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 22, 2008 1:17 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Yesterday was statewide school budget vote day here in New York. All of the budgets in our immediate area passed, despite the problems in the economy. This included Shenendehowa, Albany, East Greenbush, Saratoga, Troy, Lansingburgh, Ballston Spa, Scotia, Burnt Hills, Niskayuna, Schenectady, and Waterford. The only budgets that I heard of that went down were in South Glens Falls, Averill Park, Duanesburg, Northville, and Schodack, all quite a drive away. We elected two new school board members here in Clifton Park.

Last night, Andrew and I had a Happy Ending Sundae, at Friendly's. It was Swiss chocolate topping on a new peanut butter ice cream flavor. I wondered what Connor would have thought about it. As always, you and Connor are in my thoughts and prayers this week.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 2:23 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you on a very windy afternoon, in southern Saratoga County. When he can, Andrew goes kite flying on days like this. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed it, too, and Andrew, always a good helper, would have loved to teach him some technique.

Today is the anniversary of an important spiritual occasion in my life, so I share the collect of the day, with great pleasure. May this knowledge give you the desire to reflect upon some of the special occasions in your relationship with our Lord.

God bless you dear Rhonda, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God of truth and beauty, who richly endowed your bishop Dunstan with skill in music and the working of metals, and with gifts of administration and reforming zeal: Teach us, we pray, to see in you the source of all our talents, and move us to offer them for the adornment of worship and the advancement of true religion; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 19, 2008 1:30 PM CDT

thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 18, 2008 11:10 PM CDT

Blessed Trinity Sunday To All!

Dear Rhonda,

Connor has been remembered throughout the weekend, as he always is. May God bless both you and your dear sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, you have given to us your servants grace, by the confession of a true faith, to acknowledge the glory of the eternal Trinity, and in the power of your divine Majesty to worship the Unity: Keep us steadfast in this faith and worship, and bring us at last to see you in your one and eternal glory, O Father; who with the Son and the Holy Spirit live and reign, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 18, 2008 2:13 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Until it started to rain, Andrew was out with mower and weedwacker, working on our lawn. Remembering the great picture of Connor on the tractor, and knowing how helpful Connor always was at school, I am sure, if he could, teenage Connor would be a good help in your yard. My how I miss your sweet sunshine boy!

I know it is not always easy to hang in there, especially when one has lost a beloved family member, but you do have what it takes to endure.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Endurance is not just the ability to bear a hard thing, but to turn it into glory.

~William Barclay (1906-1978)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 17, 2008 5:52 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and Connor on another Friday morning. God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 16, 2008 2:50 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Once more, I am viewing Connor's wonderful pictures and thinking of both of you. May God bless you always.

Sixty years ago yesterday, the State of Israel was founded. A much older wisdom asks us to, "Pray for the peace of Israel." Let's take a minute to do that today.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 15, 2008 1:31 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have just heard the music of an ice cream truck, going through our neighborhood. This is the first time I have noticed it this year, and it, along with all the singing birds and lovely flowers, is a real sign of spring. I am sure that ice cream music brought a smile to Connor's face, as it does to most children. You cannot imagine how often I think of your sweet sunshine boy!

God bless you always, and God bless sweet Connor and all of Connor's relatives, friends, and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

It is likely that Connor knew this traditional American saying.

I scream, you scream, we all scream for ice cream.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 13, 2008 5:27 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As the school year begins to draw to a close (about one month earlier where you are than here), I think of the school award ceremony there, and the Connor J. Hunley Award. May the awarding of the prize, given in the name of you sweet sunshine boy, be an occasion of joy and fond remembrance for you, and may the hearts of many students, teachers, and visitors be stirred by Connor's story.

Beneath my signature is the collect for the saint of the day for May 12, which I forgot to leave, on Saturday. Perhaps I was not thinking of Gregory of Nazianzus, as we honor three other Gregorys, in March, and one in November.

God bless you always, and of course God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, who have revealed to your Church your eternal Being of glorious majesty and perfect love as one God in Trinity of Persons: Give us grace that, like your bishop Gregory of Nazianzus, we may continue steadfast in the confession of this faith, and constant in our worship of you, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, who live and reign for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:01 AM CDT

rhonda, i was thinking of you and hoping you had great memories of connor this weekend... You are a great mom! one of the best! you always will be! connor was so blessed to get you for his momma!! i know he was looking down on you sunday!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Monday, May 12, 2008 3:04 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and of Connor today. I hope you are doing well in business and can have a good week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Heavenly Father, whose most dear Son, as He walked the way of The Cross, accepted the service of Simon of Cyrene to carry his physical burden for him: grant us each the grace gladly to bear one another's burdens, for the love of him who said, "As you did it to the least of these my brethren, you did it to me," your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 12, 2008 1:10 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 11, 2008 8:47 PM CDT

Rhonda
thinking of you and Connor
on Mother's Day....
prayers and love from mrs pam
- Sunday, May 11, 2008 6:10 PM CDT

Rhonda: Thinking of you in a special way on this Mother's Day.

With love and prayers, and thoughts of your Sunshine Boy,

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Sunday, May 11, 2008 1:30 PM CDT

hi rhonda...i just wanted you to know i'm thinking about you today. if ever i can do anything, please let me know. i hope your day is filled with love and happiness...
love and hugs...
deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Sunday, May 11, 2008 11:28 AM CDT

Greetings To All On The Feast Of Pentecost:

Dear Rhonda,

Connor will be in my thoughts today, as we celebrate the birthday of the church. It is not often that this great feast of the Holy Spirit also falls on Mother's Day. Here in the Capital District, of New York, is it also the Albany Tulip Fest, in honor of our Dutch heritage. What a busy day for folks involved in all!

I hope you, your parents, and your brothers are all doing well. I am sure you are all missing Connor, but I know you have terrific memories of your brave little trooper and that you WILL see Connor again.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

O God, who on this day taught the hearts of your faithful people by sending to them the light of your Holy Spirit: Grant us by the same Spirit to have a right judgment in all things, and evermore to rejoice in his holy comfort; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 11, 2008 1:08 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Happy Mother's Day!
Love, blessings, and tons of hugs,
Tanya
Tanya <tanyans83@yahoo.com>
DE USA - Saturday, May 10, 2008 8:36 PM CDT

My mother had a great deal of trouble with me, but I think she enjoyed it.

~Mark Twain (1835-1910)

Dear Rhonda,

Those of us who have had rascal sons, enjoyed every minute of child rearing, and our boys call us blessed.

May your thoughts of Connor be sweet this weekend. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 10, 2008 7:58 PM CDT

Rhonda, I know we are approaching Mother's Day. Please remember to celebrate being a wonderful mommy to Connor. I hope he sends you lots of signs tomorrow. You are in my thoughts.
Happy Mother's Day!

Lori
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Saturday, May 10, 2008 4:42 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

   As Mother's Day approaches, I just want you to know that I am thinking of you. It has to be hard for you with your sweet sunshine boy in heaven. However, that cannot negate the wonderful years that Connor lived on earth, and the fact that you will be with Connor again, in heaven. I will pray extra hard, and extra often, for you this weekend.

   God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

       Grace, peace, love, and all good,

                                  Colette

I will be lighting a candle for you at Barbara Crafton's Geranium Farms.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 9, 2008 5:40 PM CDT

Rhonda -
Wishing you a pleasant weekend and a Mothers Day with a glimpse at the Peace that Connor knows. You are a wonderful Mom to him.
Blessings,
Jim Fleming

Jim
- Friday, May 9, 2008 4:23 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

As always, pulling up Connor's website and seeing his sweet, handsome face, brings joy to me. Thank you for keeping this site up.

Today is the Feast of Julian of Norwich, for over twenty years, one of my favorites. Beneath my signature, I will leave the collect.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord God, who in your compassion granted to the Lady Julian Many revelations of your nurturing and sustaining love: Move our hearts, like hers, to seek you above all things, for in giving us yourself you give us all; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 8, 2008 12:48 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

At least at one time, you would be up in the night. A friend has shared a Night Prayer, from New Zealand, with me, today, so I thought I would pass it on to you.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Night Prayer

Lord,
it is night.
The night is for stillness.
Let us be still in the presence of God.
It is night after a long day.
What has been done has been done;
what has not been done has not been done;
let it be.
The night is dark.
Let our fears of the darkness of the world and of our own lives
rest in you.
The night is quiet.
Let the quietness of your peace enfold us,
all dear to us,
and all who have no peace.
The night heralds the dawn.
Let us look expectantly to a new day,
new joys,
new possibilities.
In your name we pray.
Amen.

~New Zealand Prayer Book, page 184
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 8, 2008 1:42 AM CDT

A Sioux Prayer

O our Father, the Sky, hear us
and make us strong.
O our Mother, the Earth, hear us
and give us support.
O Spirit of the East,
send us your Wisdom.
O Spirit of the South,
may we tread your path of life.
O Spirit of the West,
may we always be ready for the long journey.
O Spirit of the North, purify us
with your cleansing winds.

Dear Rhonda,

This prayer was in one of my prayer books, as the prayer of the day for Sunday. It seemed especially appropriate, as Andrew and I spent the evening, at a Story Sunday, with the Native American author and teller, Joseph Bruchac, providing the stories. Joe, who is a familiar teller to us, also lead us in simple greetings in his Abenaki language, and in singing his traditional songs. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed it very much. Indeed, if Connor had been with us, I would have purchased one of Joe's books for him, as I did for Andrew.

I hope all is well with you and that you are enjoying a good spring.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, May 6, 2008 11:28 PM CDT

rhonda... thinking of you and connor today.... and colette actually... she is the most faithful questbook friend, and prayer warrior i have ever had the pleasure to knowing through caringbridge... you have alot of support.... know that your in my thoughts and prayers as you continue to find your way...God bless you!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
IN - Tuesday, May 6, 2008 5:17 PM CDT

thinking about you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 6, 2008 8:59 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

On a day when the church remembers a great mother, I salute you, and I hold you in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Commemoration Of Monnica, Mother of Augustine of Hippo:

O Lord, who through spiritual discipline strengthened your servant Monnica to persevere in offering her love and prayers and tears for the conversion of her husband and of Augustine their son: Deepen our devotion, we pray, and use us in accordance with your will to bring others, even our own kindred, to acknowledge Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, May 5, 2008 1:22 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have been watching a bird build a nest in a pink flowering tree, near my bedroom window. As I watched, I thought of your little veterinarian, Connor. May God bless you, and sweet Connor, always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, May 4, 2008 2:00 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist this afternoon. A beautiful young boy was baptized. I have known Sean's dad and grandparents for a long time. It is always special to renew my own baptismal covenant during such a service.

When the Eucharist was over, I stayed in church, a while, as I almost always do, to pray for you, and also to pray for all of Connor's other relatives, each by name. May God bless you all.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Seventh Sunday In Easter:

O God, the King of glory, you have exalted your only Son Jesus Christ with great triumph to your kingdom in heaven: Do not leave us comfortless, but send us your Holy Spirit to strengthen us, and exalt us to that place where our Savior Christ has gone before; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, May 3, 2008 10:38 PM CDT

Rhonda, I have been thinking of you alot lately. My neighbor Savannah just had a relapse of rhabdo and her parents are waiting until the end of the weekend to tell her so she can enjoy the rest of the weekend being carefree. She is a precious 7 yr old old little blonde girl. In many ways she is Connor's counterpart. I hope he is sending strength down to her as she is about to face another battle with this dreaded disease. Please visit her site, http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/savannahswandal.

Love,
Lori
Lori <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, TN - Saturday, May 3, 2008 2:23 PM CDT

dear rhoda and naomi and mr and mrs williams have a nice day with blessings sent down from above take care may the lord guide ya in his pathways all day long
liane davies <www.rhianjones@hotmail.com>
tredegar , sw uk - Friday, May 2, 2008 5:14 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered on bended knees, at Eucharist, during the Feast of the Ascension. When the service was over, those who wished, went to the parish hall for pizza, tossed salad, soda, and ice cream. We had about twenty teenagers there. I am sure Connor would have fit right in with those young people.

I can hear a train in the distance. It reminds me of many evenings when Andrew was little. Either the train, or perhaps rain, would wake him up, and he would come looking for me. "Mom, do you want to be rascals tonight?" he would ask.

"Sure, pull on some clothes," I would answer, and we would either go out riding in the car, for about a half hour, pull into the drive-in at Taco Bell, or go into Denny's for a midnight snack. How much we both enjoyed those "rascal outings!"

I am sure you have many similar warm, family memories of Connor. May those remembrances give you peace and joy during the weekend, and at many other times.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet son, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Feast Of St. Philip and St. James, Apostles:

Almighty God, who gave to your apostles Philip and James grace and strength to bear witness to the truth: Grant that we, being mindful of their victory of faith, may glorify in life and death the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

By all your saints still striving,
for all your saints at rest,
your holy Name, O Jesus
for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
that we might wear the crown
and ever shine in splendor
reflected from your throne.

We praise you, Lord, for Philip,
blest guide to Greek and Jew,
and for young James the faithful,
who heard and followed you.
O grant us grace to know you,
the victor in the strife,
that we with all your servants
may wear the crown of life.

Then let us praise the Father
and worship God the Son
and sing to God the Spirit,
eternal Three in One,
till all the ransomed number
who stand before the throne
ascribe all power and glory
and praise to God alone.

Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #231

Music: Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #232

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, May 2, 2008 1:40 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Sorry I didn't sign in earlier today as planned, but had the little guys here and had them earlier than usual this morning and they were here later than usual, then Dave and I went with them to the Red Robin for a burger. I have been thinking of you and Connor ALL day though. I know the first day of each month is hard for you. I do pray for you daily and Connor is and will forever be in my heart. Sunshine boy he was, and we who were able to be touched by his life are so blessed. He truly was an inspiration. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOUR LITTLE ANGEL.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Thursday, May 1, 2008 8:21 PM CDT

hi rhonda...just wanted to let you know i'm thinking of you...
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Thursday, May 1, 2008 6:15 PM CDT

Rhonda, thinking about you as always and keeping you in my prayers too. I did not end up coming your way.. gas is getting to expensive to make a long trip.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 1, 2008 5:15 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Blessings on the Feast of the Ascension! Connor will be remembered in Holy Eucharist.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that as we believe your only-begotten Son our Lord Jesus Christ to have ascended into heaven, so we may also in heart and mind there ascend, and with him continually dwell; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 1, 2008 1:17 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you as you mark the three and a half saddest years in your life. My prayers are with you.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Almighty God, Father of mercies and giver of comfort: Deal graciously, we pray, with all who mourn; that casting all their cares on you, they may know the consolation of you love; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

~The Book of Common Prayer, Page 505
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, May 1, 2008 3:03 AM CDT

Please keep Savannah in your prayers, everyone! Rhonda, this is a sweet neighbor of mine and she is fighting the beast. I hate cancer. I found it ironic that her mom calls her sunshine girl just like Connor is your sunshine boy!
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/savannahswandal.
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, - Wednesday, April 30, 2008 6:16 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Lawn mowers are sounding, here in southern Saratoga County today. It seems good to hear them after two cold, rainy days. I am picturing Connor on the big mower, as I write to you. That sure was a great picture!

God bless you and all of Connor's relatives, friends, and supporters, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

An Easter Collect:

O Lord, you open the portals of your kingdom to those who have been reborn by water and the Spirit: Increase the grace you have given to your children, that those whom you have cleansed from sin may attain to all your promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 30, 2008 1:40 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda
Just letting you know that I still think of Connor, and that I pray for you.
Love from Scotland,rosi

www.caringbridge.org/hi/kayla
Rosi Pullin <rosipullin@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 29, 2008 2:57 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

The sun is shining in Clifton Park today, and I am hoping you are having a good day, too.

I would like to ask you, and all of Connor's friends, to pray for Samuel, a ten and a half year old boy, from Clifton Park, who is a patient at Children's Hospital, in Philadelphia. Sam's grandmother, Gert, is a storyteller, a good friend of mine, and the founder of our faith based story circle. I have been praying for Sam, since when he was in the womb, as testing revealed that he had half a heart. Sam, who had surgery on his heart, the day he was born, is in Philadelphia for testing and to have a pacemaker replaced. Thank you.

Today's saint is Catherine of Sienna, a reformer and spiritual teacher, who died on this date in 1380. Our Daughters of the King, at St. George's, is St. Catherine of Sienna Chapter, in her honor. I will leave the collect beneath my signature.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

Everlasting God, who so kindled the flame of holy love in the Heart of blessed Catherine of Siena, as she meditated on the passion of your Son our Savior, that she devoted her life to the poor and the sick, and to the peace and unity of the Church: Grant that we also may share in the mystery of Christ's death, and rejoice in the revelation of His Glory, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 29, 2008 2:02 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It rained here throughout the night and is raining yet. Believe it, or not, after the very moist winter, we had, the lawns needed this rain. I hope, whatever the weather is, there in Tennessee, that there is sunshine in your heart.

God bless you always, and God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

An Easter Collect:

O Lord, you have given us the grace to know the resurrection of your Son: Grant that the Holy Spirit, by his love, may raise us to the newness of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 28, 2008 1:09 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I thought of Connor several times today, including while having ice cream, at Friendly's, with Andrew. He had a peanut butter topping on vanilla/peanut butter ice cream, and I had blueberry topping on black raspberry. Of course, since Andrew likes blueberries, he leaned over and took a few spoons of my treat, which was more than OK with me. I wonder if Connor would have liked either of these sundaes, or if perhaps a banana split or a hot fudge on chocolate would have been more to his liking.

I hope you have had a good weekend. God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (One Of My Favorites):

O God, you have prepared for those who love you such good things as surpass our understanding: Pour into our hearts such love towards you, that we, loving you in all things and above all things, may obtain your promises, which exceed all that we can desire; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 225
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 27, 2008 11:07 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Andrew and I had a late lunch at De Voe's Rainbow Delights yesterday. He had a hotdog, soda, fries, and a chocolate cone. I had a sausage sandwich with onions and peppers, fries, and a pistachio cone. There was a slight breeze there, and we really enjoyed being at a picnic table together. As always, when I have ice cream, I think about Connor and what he might have ordered. If I were treating, Connor could have had anything he wanted.

God bless you, and of course, God bless you sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect From This Week:

Almighty God, by whose grace and power your holy martyrs of Armenia triumphed over suffering and were faithful even unto death: Grant us, who now remember them in thanksgiving, to be so faithful in our witness to you in this world, that we may receive with them the crown of life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 26, 2008 3:32 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today is St. Mark's Day, and Father Bill is away, so there was not a Eucharist, at St. George's. It seems funny to me to not be attending a Red Letter Day service, but I will be remembering Connor in the beauty of holiness, over the weekend.

I hope you are well and anticipating a good weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, by the hand of Mark the evangelist you have given to your Church the Gospel of Jesus Christ the Son of God: We thank you for this witness, and pray that we may be firmly grounded in its truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Since I could not receive today, I have been singing. Perhaps you will join me in this hymn that mentions St. Mark.

By all your saints still striving,
for all your saints at rest,
your holy Name, O Jesus
for evermore be blessed.
You rose, our King victorious,
that we might wear the crown
and ever shine in splendor
reflected from your throne.

For Mark, O Lord we praise you,
the weak by grace made strong:
his witness in his Gospel
becomes victorious song.
May we, in all our weakness,
receive your power divine,
and all, as faithful branches
grow strong in you, the Vine.

Then let us praise the Father
and worship God the Son
and sing to God the Spirit,
eternal Three in One,
till all the ransomed number
who stand before the throne
ascribe all power and glory
and praise to God alone.

Words: Horatio Bolton Nelson (1823-1913); ver. Hymnal 1982
Music: King's Lynn, English melody; adapt. Ralph Vaughan Williams (1872-1958)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #231

Music: Nyland, Finnish folk melody; adapt. David Evans (1874-1948)
Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/b/b209.html
The Hymnal 1982, #232
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 25, 2008 2:23 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

The news, in our area, has been sad this week. A 21 year old man, missing from Albany, since December, was pulled out of the Hudson, on Tuesday. Another area man, age 38, fell into the Hudson, while repairing a pier, in Troy, on Wednesday, and also died. Today, there was a massive fire in Johnstown, which destroyed five factory buildings and damaged about a dozen homes. I sure hope the news has been happier in your area.

As always, I am thinking of Connor and praying for you.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 24, 2008 6:37 PM CDT

Happy St. George's Day To All!

Dear Rhonda,

Many things have made me think of Connor this week, as the trees and flowers begin to bloom and the sun shines gently, in southern Saratoga County. I know that your Connor memories are sweet, as mine are.

Today makes me smile, as I remember St. George and the Dragon pageants from years gone by. If Connor were here, we would let him have the role of the noble soldier today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Commemoration Of St. George, The Martyr:

Almighty God, who gave to your servant George boldness to Confess the Name of our Savior Jesus Christ before the rulers of this world, and courage to die for this faith: Grant that we may always be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us, and to suffer gladly for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 23, 2008 12:58 AM CDT

rhonda, i have been thinking of you so much..I hope your starting to put the pieces of your new life together... I pray for your strength.. and think of connor.. his smile absolutely is unforgettable! Just wanted you to know! we wont forget connor!
Kim <dakk2222@netnitco.net>
- Tuesday, April 22, 2008 9:19 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Thought often of Connor today as the sun shined brightly, it was so nice and warm and the flowers are finally blooming and there are lady bugs galore around here:)
Pray daily for you and Connor's pictures grace my fridge and my computer desk:) Miss him...love you!
Take gentle care my friend,
love and hugs,

Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 22, 2008 9:10 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

What a joy to come here and view the wonderful pictures of Connor on a beautiful spring day! One of my favorites is of him holding the umbrella, because of his smile there. Of course I always love the picture of Connor in the hammock, the one of him running through the water, and the one of young Connor in his puppy costume.

As we remember Anselm of Canterbury, I share one of his Anselm's songs.

God bless you always, and thank you for keeping Connor's site up and open.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Song of Anselm:

Jesus, as a mother you gather your people to you:
You are gentle with us as a mother with her children;
Often you weep over our sins and our pride:
tenderly you draw us from hatred and judgement.
You comfort us in sorrow and bind up our wounds:
in sickness you nurse us,
and with pure milk you feed us.
Jesus, by your dying we are born to new life:
by your anguish and labour we come forth in joy.
Despair turns to hope through your sweet goodness:
through your gentleness we find comfort in fear.
Your warmth gives life to the dead:
your touch makes sinners righteous.
Lord Jesus, in your mercy heal us:
in your love and tenderness remake us.
In your compassion bring grace and forgiveness:
for the beauty of heaven may your love prepare us.

The Collect:

Almighty God, who raised up your servant Anselm to teach the Church of his day to understand its faith in your eternal Being, perfect justice, and saving mercy: Provide your Church in every age with devout and learned scholars and teachers, that we may be able to give a reason for the hope that is in us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 21, 2008 1:10 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have been looking through those wonderful pictures of Connor again. I love the one of him running through the water! May God bless Connor always.

Both you and Connor were remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday. After the service, a friend and I had dinner at the Chinese buffet. They have new decorations which would have delighted Connor, as they did me. My friend had four desserts, but I had some shrimp instead. I am sure Connor would have opted for the sweets, too.

I hope you are well, and I hope you have a good week.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, whom truly to know is everlasting life: Grant us so perfectly to know your Son Jesus Christ to be the way, the truth, and the life, that we may steadfastly follow his steps in the way that leads to eternal life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 20, 2008 5:06 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking about you and Connor on another Friday. May God bless you both.

Andrew has been sick this week and has been a little grumpy. This reminds me of how good your brave little trooper always was.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 18, 2008 10:01 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
I pray for you all the time, and I am so sorry about you, and Eddy. Know that we are praying for you.
LaKota, she is now in 4th grade, she loves school a lot. It will be 4 years in May that she had her transplant.
Thinking of you.
Love LaKota, and her mom Debbie.
http://www.caringbridge.org/mn/laplafcan <LaKotaDeb@hotmail.com>
St.Cloud, MN - Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:23 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I was one of the lucky ones to escape out of cubedom today around mid-morning, and my only comment about this day was "GLORIOUS!" Clear blue skies, pure blessed sunshine, and temps in the low 70s. I now appreciate how flowers feel in the spring :-)

I'm thinking of you and Connor on this beautiful day.
Deb <endyke@speakeasy.net>
Litchfield, NH - Thursday, April 17, 2008 11:05 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am sure it is nearing the time when people at Connor's school will begin looking for the 2008 recipient of Connor's Courage Award. May the fruit of their search be good, honor Connor, and bring joy to your heart.

God bless you always, and God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Deb: Thank you for your kind words. Your entries always make me smile, too. Most of all, all kind words left here, comfort Rhonda and Connor's other loved ones. Keep writing.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 17, 2008 1:06 PM CDT

hi rhonda...just dropping by to say hey, and i hope all is well with you.

colette...i enjoy your stories...you always make me smile!

love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Wednesday, April 16, 2008 7:01 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

A few minutes ago, I learned of the passing of Canon Rue Moore, a priest that used to supply, at our previous parish, Grace Church, Waterford, when our rector was ill, or on vacation. This news saddened me, as Rue was a brilliant and kind man, but it also made me think of another priest, who supplied at Grace, during the same time period. His name was Father James Imler.

My boys liked both of these clergy. One night, when the boys were young, near the time we had visited the Bird Sanctuary, in Petersburg, NY, they spotted Father Imler, in a crowd. They were so excited to see him that one of them shouted out, "Look, Mom, there's Father Emu!"

Rhonda, I hope you are chuckling.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Commemoration Of Marie Bernarde ("Bernadette") Soubirous, 16 April 1879:

Gracious Father, whose Son Jesus Christ went about healing the Sick: We praise you for the gift of healing, whether granted directly or through the work of dedicated physicians, surgeons, and nurses; and we pray you to keep us always grateful for deliverance from illness whenever it pleases you to heal us, and patient and cheerful in affliction when for any reason you call us to endure it; and this we ask through your Son Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 16, 2008 1:05 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda.

Once again, I am at my keyboard thinking of sweet Connor. May God bless him always.

I hope you are having a good spring and doing well in business. Please let me know, if there is anything I can do to help.

God bless you, your parents, and all of your family.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For The Commemoration Of Damien The Leper, 15 April 1889:

Almighty Father, we praise your name for those who, following in the footsteps of your beloved Son, have preached the good news of salvation to the despised and rejected of the earth, not counting the cost to themselves; and we pray that your love for us may enkindle in our hearts an answering love for you and our neighbors, and that your grace may give us wisdom to see the opportunities you give us to serve you, and the courage to grasp them; that in all things we may be made conformable unto the image of the same your Son our Savior Jesus Christ, who now lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 15, 2008 3:09 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Sunday afternoon, Andrew decided to treat Kristen and I to dinner at the Red Lobster, which is one of my favorite places. We had a lovely time, although we all had a difficult time choosing from the ample menu. I was even able to bring home a couple of their excellent Cheddar Bay Biscuits. One of Cheyenne's favorite foods was shrimp, so I thought of Connor and Cheyenne, when the waitress brought a shrimp appetizer to our table. They are always linked in my thoughts, and of course, they are always in my prayers.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Fourth Sunday In Easter:

O God, whose Son Jesus is the good shepherd of your people; Grant that when we hear his voice we may know him who calls us each by name, and follow where he leads; who, with you and the Holy Spirit, lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 14, 2008 0:46 AM CDT

My son was just diagnosed with cancer, his 15mos old, I can't imagine losing him to this nor do I want to. You seem so strong and positive, I just hope I can hold the same mentality during all of this, the fear of relapse is so surreal and scary. Thanks again for telling your story and allowing others like me to see the strength and love that is unconditional and never ending. Your heroes yourselves.

Shannon Staino <sstaino@comcast.net>
Swainton, NJ USA - Saturday, April 12, 2008 7:54 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It is another wet weekend, here in southern Saratoga County, so I am planning to watch a baseball game on TV. My boys always have enjoyed watching baseball, and both were Little League players. I wonder if Connor liked baseball, as well. (I know he enjoyed the Tennessee Titans.)

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

An Easter Collect:

Let you people. O Lord, rejoice for ever that they have been renewed in spirit; and let the joy of our adoption as your sons and daughters strengthen the hope of our glorious resurrection in Jesus Christ our Lord; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 12, 2008 2:10 PM CDT

~Thinking of all of Connor's loved ones.

Grace and peace,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 12, 2008 1:28 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Yesterday, while entering the grocery store, I was watching the associate return carts from the parking lot to the sidewalk, near the entrance. He was using a seven-wheeled device the store owns to propel the carts through the lot, and I started studying its wheels. That led to thoughts of Connor and his go-cart. May God bless Connor's sweet, active spirit.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, we thank you for your servant George Augustus Selwyn, whom you called to preach the Gospel to the peoples of New Zealand and Melanesia, and to lay a firm foundation for the growth of your Church in many nations. Raise up in this and every land evangelists and heralds of your kingdom, that your Church may proclaim the unsearchable riches of our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 11, 2008 2:20 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you and Connor today. May God always bless and keep you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, by whose grace your servant William Law, kindled with the fire of your love, became a burning and shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and may ever walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

~The writings of William Law had profound influence on John and Charles Wesley, William Wilberforce, Henry Venn, George Whitefield, and Thomas Scott. The courageous life of Connor Hunley had profound effect on thousands of ordinary people. May God bless them both.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 12:57 AM CDT

Rhonda, I hope all is going well for you. Please know I always think of you and Angel Connor.
Love,
Lori Pierce
Lori P <hayden01@tds.net>
mt juliet, TN - Wednesday, April 9, 2008 9:50 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

This is a short note to remind you that I am thinking of you, and of Connor, today. God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Do not let your Church close its eyes, O Lord, to the plight of the poor and neglected, the homeless and the destitute, the old and the sick, the lonely and those who have no one to care for them. Give us the vision and compassion with which you so richly endowed your servant William Augustus Muhlenberg, that we may labor tirelessly to heal those who are broken in body or spirit, and to turn their sorrow into joy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

May your sorrow turn into joy today, knowing that Connor lives with our merciful Lord.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 8, 2008 1:14 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Last night, I had an opportunity to hear some wonderful stories. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed them, particularly the story of four boys, who decided to take a cooling swim in the Ballston Water Tower, on a hot day, many years ago, before the rise of air conditioning. As the residents left the mills to go home and bathe, the water, in the tower, went down, and they were stuck inside the tower. I think Connor would have related to those boys and been absorbed in their story. May God bless his sweet spirit.

I hope you are well, safe, and having a good week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, who by your Holy Spirit give to some the word of wisdom, To others the word of knowledge, and to others the word of faith: We praise you for the gifts of preaching through visual representation that you gave to your servants Albrecht Duerer and Michaelangelo Buonarroti, and we pray that your Church may never be destitute of such gifts; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns, with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, April 7, 2008 1:44 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of sweet Connor today, and I have paused, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you. A few minutes ago, I received a "Cancer Candle," which I sent along in honor of family members and friends, who have died from this terrible disease. Connor was one of those, in my thoughts, as I did so. He has also been remembered in Eucharist, once again.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Another Easter Collect:

O Lord, the life of the faithful, the glory of the saints, and the delight of those who trust in you: Hear our supplications, and quench, we pray, the thirst of those who long for your promises; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, April 6, 2008 1:51 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I hope you are having a good weekend. Connor will be remembered in Eucharist this weekend.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Peace Thought:

When we yield to discouragement, it is usually because we give too much thought to the past and to the future.

~St. Therese Of Lisieux
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, April 5, 2008 2:09 PM CDT

Thinking of you....
becky bustin
gallatin, tn - Friday, April 4, 2008 3:11 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

The things Deb wrote are basically true in upstate New York, as well. We have very little snow left in Clifton Park, except where it is piled up, in banks, in parking lots, but not far from us, in Indian Lake, people still have over three feet of snow on their lawns. Last night, we had another mixed wintery mix, which continues now, as very cold rain. People are beginning to wonder if spring will ever come, but, of course, we know that it will.

I hope you, and all of Connor's loved ones, are safe, well, and comfortable.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For The 50 Days Of Easter:

O Lord, you have saved us through the Paschal mystery of Christ: Continue to support your people with heavenly gifts, that we may attain true liberty, and enjoy the happiness of heaven which we have begun to taste on earth: through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, April 4, 2008 1:07 PM CDT

It's been a long time since I stopped by and signed the guestbook, but we think of you often. What a LONG winter it's been here in the Northeast. But the robins are in the yard, the snow is almost gone, the chives are coming up in the garden and I'm back on the football volunteer committee...for this fall...so SPRING HAS ARRIVED!!!!

We send much love and many prayers.
Deb and Laura
Litchfield, NH USA - Thursday, April 3, 2008 10:48 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Today is the feast of St. Richard of Chichester, a bishop in the Church. Those of us with little learning, like myself, know Richard chiefly for his prayer, which was adapted and sung in the musical Godspell, as Day By Day. Let us all, on the anniversary of Richard's death, pray with him to see our Lord more clearly, love Him more dearly, and follow Him more nearly, just as Connor, and all the people of heaven do.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect:

We thank you, Lord God, for all the benefits you have given us in your Son Jesus Christ, our most merciful Redeemer, Friend, and Brother, and for all the pains and insults he has borne for us; and we pray that, following the example of your saintly bishop Richard of Chichester, we may see Christ more clearly, love him more dearly, and follow him more nearly; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, April 3, 2008 11:32 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We had another wintery mess last night, so people are beginning to ask, "Will spring ever come?" Of course it will, but how comforting to know that Connor is in a land, where the weather is always pleasant and good things are in abundance. May God bless his sweet spirit, and may God bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For April 2:

Teach thy Church, O Lord, we pray, to value and support pioneering and courageous missionaries, whom you call, as you called your servant James Lloyd Breck, to preach and teach, and plant your Church in new regions; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 2, 2008 10:20 AM CDT

hi rhonda...i just wanted to let you know i'm thinking about you. isn't your relay for life coming up this month?
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 7:49 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Along with Kathy, I am thinking of what April Fool's Day jokes Connor may be making in heaven. I can remember, as a preschooler, running to the window, as my dad told me there was a green dog outside. That was the first and last time he got me on April 1. I am not sure if families and school children pay much attention to April Fool's Day anymore, but I know my Aunt Catherine does, as today is her anniversary, and she misses Uncle Ronald. I KNOW you are missing Connor, and I hope fond memories of fun times and great hugs bring you joy and comfort today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor Jordan Hunley. All of his fans miss him.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 12:24 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Another first day of the month and my thoughts are with you. It is April Fool's day and I wonder what tricks Connor is playing in Heaven? I think of him so much, I love to look at his pictures which make me smile even on the saddest of days. Mother Nature played a trick on us last night, it snowed AGAIN!!!! Waiting patiently for Spring to arrive, it has been a tough winter here this year. "Hope Springs Eternal" is on my calendar for the month of April. I like that quote:)
Hope you are well, we are doing fine here. My physical was A okay.... next the dreaded mammogram, but I know it saved my life once, so have to have the courage to go:) Made the appointment for late April.
I loved Mr. Wayne's guestbook entry!:) I saw go cart streaks in the sky the other day and of course Connor came to mind. I sure do miss that little guy along with many others whose hearts he touched. WE LOVE YOU!
take gentle care,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 7:29 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

It was sleeting and cold, when I went out to Holy Day Eucharist, this morning. Connor was remembered in the beauty of the service.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 31, 2008 4:41 PM CDT

Thinking of you this morning
with lots of love and prayers.
I just want you to know
so many of us still care....
I just woke awhile ago with this little thought on my heart so wanted to remind you so many of us are stil out here just don't sign in much any more..... shame on us!!!!!
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 31, 2008 5:51 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

Andrew, Kristen, and I had some lunch at Friendly's today. There is a claw machine in the lobby, which always makes me think of Connor and Cheyenne.

I hope you have had a good weekend.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 30, 2008 11:15 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I was at church most of the day today, and I thought of Connor several times, particularly in the Eucharist. The afternoon sun was streaming through the Jesus and the Children stained glass window, reflecting beautiful sky shades of orange, purple, and pink, a foretaste of heaven. May God bless Connor always.

My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Easter Saturday:

We thank you, heavenly Father, that you have delivered us from the dominion of sin and death and brought us into the kingdom of you Son; and we pray that, as by his death he has recalled us to life, so by his love he may raise us to eternal joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 29, 2008 11:11 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

We are having another snowy day. I think Connor would be excited by a day like today, as the snow is good packing snow. I certainly miss him.

I hope you are well, safe, and comfortable.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Easter Friday:

Almighty Father, who gave your only Son to die for our sins and to rise for our justification: Give us grace so to put away the leaven of malice and wickedness, that we may always serve you in pureness of living and truth; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 28, 2008 8:18 AM CDT

Hi to Connor, family, and friends,

I was driving back from a job today and the road was a two-lane country type road with farms on either side. I passed two gokarts that were riding along side one of the farms and the kids looked to be having a lot of fun. I think of Connor riding his gokart and I'm always amused when I think about him hitting the AC unit while riding around his house. (That must have sounded like a bomb inside the house!)

Connor, I hope you are having the time of your life getting to enjoy all of God's glory. I guess the brakes don't wear out on heaven's gokarts.

May God richly bless each of you that are Connor's family and friends. May Connor's memories flood your hearts and fill you with pride as you think of the remarkable young man he is.

In Christian love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Thursday, March 27, 2008 10:17 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

This is another quick note to let you know I am thinking of you and of all of Connor's loved ones.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Easter Thursday:

Almighty and everlasting God, who in the Paschal mystery established the new covenant of reconciliation: Grant that all who have been reborn into the fellowship of Christ's Body may show forth in their lives what they profess by their faith; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 27, 2008 12:51 AM CDT

I think of you often.
Lisa
Mount Juliet, TN USA - Wednesday, March 26, 2008 4:50 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, Nana and Poppi, and Connor's uncles, Johnny and Chad, today. I hope all of you are well. Perhaps you could update to let us know how everyone is.

Today's collect is one of my favorites. Please pray it with me.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Easter Wednesday:

O God, whose blessed Son made himself known to his disciples in the breaking of bread: Open the eyes of our faith, that we may behold him in all his redeeming work; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 26, 2008 10:37 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

People are beginning to talk about going to see the circus. Such talk is a sure sign of spring, although we are expecting a wintery mix again tonight and into Wednesday. I am sure your sweet sunshine boy would enjoy all of the animals that Ringling Brothers, Barnum, and Bailey bring. My guys always loved the elephants.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your golden boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Easter Tuesday:

O God, who by the glorious resurrection of you Son Jesus Christ destroyed death and brought life and immortality to light: Grant that we, who have been raised with him, may abide in his presence and rejoice in the hope of eternal glory; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 25, 2008 11:22 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

This is another quickie to remind you that Connor is thought of and that you are in my prayers. I hope you have a good Easter Week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Easter Monday:

Grant, we pray, Almighty God, that we who celebrate with awe the Paschal Feast may be found worthy to attain to everlasting joys; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 24, 2008 2:47 PM CDT

Happy Easter, Rhonda!

Connor was remembered at the Easter Vigil, at St. George's. He is always in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who through your only begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord's resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your life-giving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 23, 2008 1:43 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I echo Sharon's words. May you have the strength and courage of Christ each and every day. God bless you, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, Creator of heaven and earth: Grant that, as the crucified body of your dear Son was laid in the tomb and rested on this holy Sabbath, so we may await with him the coming of the third day, and rise with him to newness of life; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 22, 2008 2:35 PM CDT

Rhonda, I do not sign in to often but I think about you and Connor every single day and pray for you to be strong...
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 21, 2008 10:41 AM CDT

Dear Loved Ones Of Connor,

I am thinking of you this morning, knowing that your connection with this day is strong, because of Connor. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Good Friday:

Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family (the assembled church), for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 21, 2008 9:22 AM CDT

Rhonda
I was thinking about Connor
during this Holy Week with the
anticipation of celebrating Easter,
and the gift of eternal life.

This is my first 2008 visit.
I am indeed sorry to hear about Eddie and you.
prayers and love from Mrs. Pam
- Thursday, March 20, 2008 6:02 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

At a time of the week, when the children are beginning to enjoy some school vacation, I am thinking of you and your dear sunshine boy. At his age, my boys were enthusiastic about spring sports, dying eggs, and hoping for a few treats in their Easter baskets. I am sure Connor enjoyed some of the same things, and I know you miss him terribly. I am pausing, here, at my keyboard, to pray for you, and for all of Connor's many other loved ones, each by name.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For Maundy Thursday:

Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 20, 2008 12:31 AM CDT

wishing you a Happy Easter
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 19, 2008 4:54 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

May the spiritual messages of this Holy Week provide assurance for you, in every way.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Wednesday In Holy Week:

Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 19, 2008 10:52 AM CDT

Hi Rhonda,
I was just sitting here thinking it has been a long time since I have written in Connor's guestbook. Just wanted to let you know I think of him every day and pray for you daily too.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 5:09 PM CDT

A donation is being made in Connor's name. You are in our prayers.
Mike Hock <azbiglawdog@gmail.com>
Toronto, ON Canada - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 3:35 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and remembering Connor, today. May God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Collect For Tuesday In Holy Week:

O God, by the passion of your blessed Son you made an instrument of shameful death to be for us the means of life: Grant us so to glory in the cross of Christ, that we may gladly suffer shame and loss for the sake of your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 18, 2008 12:49 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

This is a quickie to wish you a Happy St. Patrick's Day. May the cheer and humor of the day lift you and give you some joy.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, in your providence you chose your servant Patrick to be the apostle of the Irish people, to bring those who were wandering in darkness and error to the true light and knowledge of you: Grant us so to walk in that light that we may come at last to the light of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, March 17, 2008 1:01 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I have been thinking of you throughout the day. This was always an exciting day, when my boys were young, and I am sure you have many memories of Connor, from this holy day. May those memories be sweet, as you rest tonight, and as you go about your week, and may God always bless you.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Here is the song that we sing, year after year, to begin the Palm Procession. If you have time, perhaps you can sing it, too.

Refrain:
All glory, laud, and honor
to thee, Redeemer, King!
to whom the lips of children
made sweet hosannas ring.

Thou art the King of Israel,
thou David's royal Son,
who in the Lord's Name comest,
the King and Blessed One. Refrain

The company of angels
are praising thee on high;
and mortal men and all things
created make reply. Refrain

The people of the Hebrews
with palms before thee went;
our praise and prayer and anthems
before thee we present. Refrain

To thee before thy passion
they sang their hymns of praise;
to thee, now high exalted,
our melody we raise. Refrain

Thou didst accept their praises;
accept the prayers we bring,
who in all good delightest,
thou good and gracious King. Refrain

Words: Theodulph of Orleans (ca. 750-821), ca. 820
Trans. John Mason Neale (1818-1866), 1854,
as altered in Hymns Ancient and Modern

Music: St. Theodulph (Valet will ich dir geben),
(Melchior Teschner, 1584-1635, arranged William Henry Monk, 1823-1889)

Hear It At http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/a/a108.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 16, 2008 4:54 PM CDT

~Palm Sunday Blessings To You All!

Dear Rhonda,

We had the reading of the Passion, at Saturday afternoon Eucharist today, and it will be done again, tomorrow, at all of the services. It is always such a solemn, reverent occasion.

My thoughts are with you tonight, and I will remember Connor, and think of you, throughout Holy Week.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

The Collect For The Sunday Of The Passion (Palm Sunday):

Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 15, 2008 9:18 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I greet you on another Friday. I am sure you know that I continue to think of Connor, and of all of his family. Connor will never be forgotten.

God bless you all as we mark Palm Sunday and Holy Week.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, March 14, 2008 11:07 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

My companion and I enjoyed an evening of Irish Stories, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, on Sunday night. Many of the stories were humorous, and I am sure Connor would have enjoyed them. We also had a very good meal.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and merciful God, who raised up Gregory of Rome to Be a servant of the servants of God, and inspired him to send missionaries to preach the Gospel to the English people: Preserve in your Church the catholic and apostolic faith they taught, that your people, being fruitful in every good work, may receive the crown of glory that never fades away; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, March 12, 2008 1:10 AM CDT

Rhonda, I am just thinking of you and Angel Connor. When we got the snow the other day I wondered what Connor would have thought of it. I am sure he would have loved it. Hopefully he is having some snowball fights on the streets of gold. Take care!
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
Mt Juliet, tn - Monday, March 10, 2008 2:44 PM CDT

Dear Rhonda,

I attended an Irish Day of story and prayer yesterday, and I will be going to hear some more Irish stories tonight. I am thinking of Connor in connection to some of the things I have learned and to the enjoyment of the time. May God bless his sweet spirit.

God bless you, and God bless all of Connor's other loved ones, friends, and supporters.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, you alone can bring into order the unruly wills and affections of sinners: Grant your people grace to love what you command and desire what you promise; that, among the swift and varied changes of the world, our hearts may surely there be fixed where true joys are to be found; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 9, 2008 1:51 PM CDT

thinking of you
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 9, 2008 10:52 AM CDT

Dear Rhonda,
Thinking of you and just wanted to let you know!:)
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, March 8, 2008 8:04 PM CST

hi rhonda...just wanted to let you know i'm thinking about you.
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Thursday, March 6, 2008 6:09 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

As always, I am thinking of Connor, and of you. I hope you are safe and well this week.

We have had a lot of mixed winter weather again, with a total of two and a half inches of rain yesterday. February was the second wettest February on record in this area, and the way March has begun, we might reach some record this month, as well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, March 6, 2008 12:08 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

This is a quick note to let you know I am thinking of Connor, and of you.

God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord God, you inspired your servants John and Charles Wesley with burning zeal for the sanctification of souls, and endowed them with eloquence in speech and song; Kindle in your Church, we entreat you, such fervor, that those whose faith has cooled may be warmed, and those who have not known Christ may turn to him and be saved; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 4, 2008 1:24 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon, and he will be remembered in the celebration throughout the coming week.

I seldom buy bread, as Andrew and I don't eat enough of it to finish a loaf, and then it spoils. However, we had pasta and sauce one night this week, and we did have some fresh bread sticks with it. It really tasted good.

I think we need to think of the joy of eating good bread when we read the Scriptures about bread and when we pray today's collect.

I hope you are having a good weekend.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

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The Collect For 4 Lent:

Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 219
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, March 2, 2008 6:39 AM CST

Rhonda and Eddie:

Thinking of you both tonight with love.

Kriste
My Big Brother - Tracy Lanius <Kristewithane@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN USA - Saturday, March 1, 2008 10:40 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,
Thought of your sunshine boy often today (he brings a smile to my face)and also thought of you on another first day of the month. Know Connor is always in my heart and you are always in my prayers.
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, March 1, 2008 6:51 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

As we begin the month of March, I am thinking of you and remembering sweet Connor. May God bless you both.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty God, who called your servant David to be a faithful and wise steward of your mysteries for the people of Wales: Mercifully grant that, following his purity of life and zeal for the gospel of Christ, we may with him receive the crown of everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and ever. Amen.

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Last Words Of David Of Wales: Be joyful, brothers and sisters. Keep your faith and do the little things that you have seen and heard from me.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, March 1, 2008 1:49 AM CST

Hi Rhonda, I am thinking of you today with a prayer in my heart.
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Friday, February 29, 2008 6:16 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist last night, at St. George's. Following the service, we had a wonderful simple supper of ziti with sausage and tossed salad. My boys always loved church suppers. I wonder if Connor did.

We are having a bitter cold spell here. I hope you are safe, warm, and content. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

God bless you always, and God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

A Collect For Fridays:

Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but
first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he
was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way
of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and
peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord. Amen.

The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 99
Written By William Reed Huntington (1838-1909)
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 29, 2008 4:14 AM CST

Hey Connor,

We finally got a little snow yesterday and all the kids were excited being out of school for the day. We didn't get quite enough to make snow ice cream though. It's been a few years since I've had some. It was always fun going out into the yard and finding a huge pile of clean snow just right for making snow ice cream. (Got to watch out and make sure you don't get any snow that's been visited by the critters!) Maybe we'll get a good snow yet. I know the school kids won't mind at all!!

I guess you are surrounded by all kinds of neat stuff and maybe snow ice cream is there anytime you want it. Neato!! Thanks for the great example you continue to shower down on us. There isn't a day I don't thank God for allowing us to meet here in this life and I'm looking forward to seeing you again!

Love,
Mr. Wayne
Wayne Gordon <wgordon@cscsystems.com>
Hermitage, TN USA - Thursday, February 28, 2008 7:12 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

We have had several hours of blustery weather this week, so far. It is getting to be a regular thing that we have a mixed weather day each week on Tuesday. It will continue to snow today until toward noon, and we may have more on Friday. It is good to have a comfortable home.

Connor is often in my thoughts and prayers. You are, too. I hope all is well.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Our God and King, who called your servant George Herbert from The pursuit of worldly honors to be a pastor of souls, a poet, and a priest in your temple: Give us grace, we pray, joyfully to perform the tasks you give us to do, knowing that nothing is menial or common that is done for your sake; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 27, 2008 2:04 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,
Just stopping by to let you know that you are on my mind and Connor is in my heart.
I have been busy with my mom since her knee surgery and haven't been on the computer too much, that does not mean you are not in my prayers each and every day!
Mom is doing well, I take her to the dr. to get her staples out and for a check up on Mar. 4th. She is getting around pretty good, but is so sore after her exercises.
Take gentle care,
God Bless,
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 26, 2008 5:54 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Preparing to share with you, it occurs to me that I have missed morning Eucharist on a red letter day. This is something I seldom do. I was thinking about it on Saturday and knew what time Father Bill planned the service, but then, with my mind running in a dozen other places, I went to bed, not thinking about it, so did not get out of the house to go. This reminds me of a sign that I have seen many times and that you may have seen, too. It is worded in various ways, but the gist of each poster is, "Thank you, Lord, that although I may forget about you, you never forget about me." When our faith is weak, we are frustrated, or we are afraid, may that thought comfort and sustain us.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

O Almighty God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful Servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be ordered and guided by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 25, 2008 8:56 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist Saturday afternoon. We are having chancel dramas, in place of sermons, during Lent. The one this weekend was about the role of the camel in Scripture. There was a fellow about Connor's age working with Mother Laurie and doing a wonderful job. It made me think of Connor.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

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Collect For The Second Sunday in Lent:

O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astry from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

~The Book Of Common Prayer, Page 218

Deb, stay well, and God bless you.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 24, 2008 1:52 AM CST

hi rhonda...just wanted to say hi and let you know i'm thinking of you.
colette...you ended your day friday the way ours started!

love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Saturday, February 23, 2008 2:49 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I have been thinking about Connor on another mixed weather day, which ended with three inches of fresh powder. I bet Connor enjoyed playing in stuff like that.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 23, 2008 0:41 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

A song by Mary Chapin Carpenter has been going through my mind, so I will leave the lyrics for you. For those of us, who know grace, I believe one day we will find heaven to be a lot like Carpenter explains it. May these words bring you hope and comfort today.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

My Heaven
By Mary Chapin Carpenter
Album: Between Here And Gone
Hear It On National Public Radio Broadcast Of November 25, 2004

Nothing shatters nothing breaks
Nothing hurts and nothing aches
We've got ourselves one helluva place in my heaven
Looking down at the world below
A bunch of whining, fighting schmo's
Up here we've got none of those, in my heaven

There's pools and lakes and hills and mountains
Music, art, and lighted fountains
Who needs bucks here, no one's counting
In my heaven
No one works, we all just play
We pick the weather everyday
If you change your mind, that's ok, in my heaven
Grandma's up here, Grandpa too
In a condo with to-die-for views
There's presidents and movie stars
You just come as you are
No one's lost and no one's missing
No more parting just hugs and kissing
And all these stars are just for wishing
In my heaven

There's little white lights everywhere
Your childhood dog in Dad's old chair
And more memories than my heart can hold
When Eva's singing "Fields of Gold"

There's neighbors, theives and long lost lovers
Villains, poets, kings and mothers
Up here we forgive each other, in my heaven
For every soul that's down there waiting,
Holding on, still hesitating
We say a prayer of levitating, in my heaven
You can look back at your life and lot
But it can't matter what you're not
By the time you're here, we're all we've got
In my heaven
In my heaven
In my heaven
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 22, 2008 5:10 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

While the children of upstate New York, are home on school vacation, I cannot help but think of Connor and what he might be doing under similar circumstances. My boys and I used to go down to Steamer Ten, a youth theater, in Albany, to see puppeteers, actors, magicians, and ventriloquists, at least once, most years. We also went to movies, museums, and malls, at this time. We spent a few days in my hometown, too, where we stayed with relatives. The boys liked playing outside in the snow with their cousins, playing cards and other games with them, and eating family food favorites. I am sure Connor would have enjoyed many of those things, as well.

God bless you always. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God, by whose grace your servant Cecile Isherwood, enkindled with the fire of your love, became a burning and a shining light in your Church: Grant that we also may be aflame with the spirit of love and discipline, and may ever walk before you as children of light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 20, 2008 12:56 AM CST

God bless you today.

Grace and peace,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 19, 2008 12:56 AM CST

stopping by to say hello...always thinking about you and wishing you the best.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>
- Monday, February 18, 2008 6:47 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,
Sitting here watching the snow fall and thinking how much fun Connor would have building a snowman. We have had about 10 inches of snow since yesterday. Our total so far this year is 71 inches and we still have the rest of Feb. all of March and maybe even April. I am sure we will set some kind of record this year. The kids didn't have school today so I didn't have Brandon and Ryan here today. I plan to go up to the hospital to visit my mom when Dave gets home if the roads aren't too bad. He can't visit her as he has a nasty cold and she doesn't need that right now and I hope I don't catch it either!:)
My Aunt Char is back in the hospital. I haven't heard yet today how things are going.

Not much other news from here..know you are daily in my prayers and Connor is forever in my heart.
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Monday, February 18, 2008 4:43 PM CST

Happy President's Day To All Of Connor's Family, Friends, And Supporters!

Dear Rhonda,

I hope you have enjoyed this extended weekend and that you are safe and well.

I thought of both Connor and you, when I was at Eucharist. I also thought of Connor while watching a beautiful cardinal and several bluejays, this morning.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Monday, February 18, 2008 4:15 PM CST

Hi Rhonda! I just wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you. I wonder what kind of Valentine's Day Connor had. I bet it was a blast.
Take care,
Lori P.
Lori Pierce <hayden01@tds.net>
mt julie t, tn - Monday, February 18, 2008 12:35 AM CST

Hi..... I'm a lurker here... Just wanted to say that I am sorry about the divorce. I hope you and Eddie find some peace in your lives and remember all the good times that Connor blessed you with.
Jennifer Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net>
- Monday, February 18, 2008 12:25 AM CST

hi rhonda...although i haven't signed in a while, i wanted to let you know i'm still thinking about you. i've had a rough couple of weeks.i hope all is good with you.
love and hugs...deb
deborah pearce <deborah77@wowway.com>
southgate, MI - Monday, February 18, 2008 8:57 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Early on a February morning, I am thinking of Connor, of you, and of all of Connor's loved ones. May God bless you all.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

O God of compassion, who opened the eyes of your servant Thomas Bray to see the needs of the Church in the New World, and led him to found societies to meet those needs: Make the Church in this land diligent at all times to propagate the Gospel among those who have not received it, and to promote the spread of Christian knowledge; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Friday, February 15, 2008 1:42 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Happy Valentine's Day. May God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect:

Almighty and everlasting God, who kindled the flame of your love in the heart of your holy martyr Valentine: Grant to us, your humble servants, a like faith and power of love, that we who rejoice in his triumph may profit by his example; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 14, 2008 8:56 AM CST

I'm thinking of your very special valentine, Connor. I know he sends his love to the both of you everyday.
Lisa
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NEW DELHI, ND INDIA - Wednesday, February 13, 2008 1:13 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I attended a wonderful Story Sunday, at the Glen Sanders Mansion, on Sunday night. As always, I thought of Connor, both as I listened, and as I reflected upon the stories later. One of the tellers, Fran Yardley, of Saranac Lake, ended the evening by reciting a well known poem by one of my favorite poets, Robert Frost. I'll leave it beneath my signature, as it says something very deep about the life choices we have both made.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless your sweet sunshine boy, Connor Jordan Hunley.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

Colette

THE ROAD NOT TAKEN

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

~Robert Frost (1874-1963)

Gratefully. Faithfully. Peacefully.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 12, 2008 10:44 AM CST

Dear Rhonda, I am so glad you kept the pages down. I miss everything about Connor and was quite depress after I couldn't get int the site. Hope you were safe during the storms. I pray for you and Eddie every day. Keep the faith and find your peace.
sandi slezak <slezak@ez-net.com>
wabeno , wi usa - Sunday, February 10, 2008 10:54 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I was speaking with my cousin, Marge, last night, as yesterday was her late mother's birthday. She told me that her newest grandson, Baby Jameson, is receiving a special, pre-baptismal prayer, in church, this morning. Of course, our thoughts and prayers are with them all at this very happy time.

As with Kathy and Dave, I hope you, Linda and her family, and all of Connor's friends and loved ones, are well, after the storms of Tuesday. Our snow did not accumulate as much as I thought it would.

God bless you always.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Today's Collect (First Sunday In Lent):

Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan: Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Sunday, February 10, 2008 6:21 AM CST

Dear Rhonda,
Are you and the Martin-Crocker's okay? I saw where tornadoes hit but I have no idea if they hit near you or not? I am praying NOT!!

I have had a rough week, my Aunt Char (my mom's youngest sister) was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer on Monday. It happened so fast, she was fine the week before and then the next week she finds herself in the hospital having surgery,they did not remove the tumor and it has spread to her liver. She is still in the hospital and will have some big decisions to make when she sees her oncologist after her release from the hospital in another week or so. I have not seen her yet as the family has requested no visitors or phone calls and we will honor that request.
My mom is having a total knee replacement on Tues. so I will be busy with her for a few weeks for sure, maybe longer depending on how fast she recovers.
At any rate wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and Connor is always in my heart.
love you lots!
love and hugs,
Kathy and Dave
Green Bay, WI. U.S.A. - Saturday, February 9, 2008 10:29 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

I am thinking of you, and of Connor, as I do every day. May God bless you both.

Andrew is doing some extra work for his company today, so I took him a lunch a few hours ago. It was snowing hard, when I went out, but, due to relatively warm temperatures, it had not started to accumulate. We could end up with several inches, if it continues.

I hope you are safe, well, and enjoying some of the good things in life, this weekend.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Saturday, February 9, 2008 6:30 PM CST

Rhonda..i'am glad I checked this link again haven't been able to get in due to being locked.Thinking of you and your Sunshine boy he really is.I'am sorry about you and Eddie.I'am very happy to hear you will keep this page.Hoping all is well ..from the papers here in California it shows devastation in 5 states from the tornado. Keeping you in my thoughts,someone who cares in Hemet.sherry
Sherry <cowpies5@aol.com>
Hemet, ca - Thursday, February 7, 2008 2:18 PM CST

Dear Rhonda,

Connor was remembered in Holy Eucharist yesterday. We had four Ash Wednesday services, at St. George's. As much as I wanted to attend, at night, to enjoy the choir and to sing myself, I went at 12:10, as we were expecting a wintery mix, in the evening. Andrew had to attend a business meeting, locally, last night, and he told me the driving was rough, and he was glad I was able to stay in.

I hope you, your family, and the Martins, are all safe, after the tornado on Tuesday night.

God bless you always, and of course, God bless sweet Connor.

Grace, peace, love, and all good,

~Colette

Lord, who throughout these forty days
for us didst fast and pray,
teach us with thee to mourn our sins,
and close by thee to stay.

As thou with Satan didst contend
and didst the victory win,
O give us strength in thee to fight,
in thee to conquer sin.

As thou didst hunger bear and thirst,
so teach us, gracious Lord,
to die to self, and chiefly live
by thy most holy word.

And through these days of penitence,
and through thy Passiontide,
yea, evermore, in life and death,
Jesus! with us abide.

Abide with us, that so, this life
of suffering over-past,
an Easter of unending joy
we may attain at last!

Words: Claudia Frances Hernaman, 1873

Music: St. Flavian, Melody From Day's Psalter

Hear it at: http://www.oremus.org/hymnal/l/l511.html
Colette
Clifton Park, NY U.S.A. - Thursday, February 7, 2008 11:21 AM CST

I pray that the tornados didn't affect you at all.....or the Martin 7. I think of them all the time.
tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com>