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- your browser may not have loaded the new page. Click here to sign the guestbook. Click here to go back to the main page. MERRY CHRISTMAS ALEC!! Missing you terribly. I know the party in heaven had to be the best you've ever been to. Can't wait to join you someday!!! Love you!! Trista Trista - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 10:52 AM CST Thinking about you and your family today. I pray that this day will be filled with God's presence and His loving arms wrapped tightly around each and every one of you. This Christmas your little guy is safely in Christ's arms held tightly and eternally... www.caringbridge.org/ia/mitomomof9 (Asenath and Zipporrah) Darla Klein <honeybear50317@msn.com> Des Moines, IA USA - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 4:01 PM CST HAVE A GREAT CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS ALEC!!! WE MISS YOU & LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!! Carrie & Jacob <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, December 24, 2007 11:43 AM CST Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you this holiday season. Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. ~The Rajewich's Dean & Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, Sd - Monday, December 24, 2007 9:19 AM CST Wanted to stop by and see how you were all doing knowing that it will not be easy and will take many days to feel a little comfort to be home without knowing what to do with our your little angel.. my home is still empty after 2 years and I still think he will walk in the house and be ready for dinner.. I want to wish you a Very Merry Christmas and I do pray that you can find some joy and love in it. give your other two blessings much love and they will help fill some void,, but not all of it.. Take care and bless you all Jean <jeaneggers@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, - Saturday, December 22, 2007 10:42 PM CST I don't know what to say, I came on to wish you a Merry Christmas and found out that you had a beautiful baby but also that Alec earned his wings. I am so very sorry. I write this with tears in my eyes and wish there was more to say to help. I am very sorry I was not on sooner. Hugs, Deb Angel Katelyn's Mom, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com > Wheatley, Ontario, - Saturday, December 22, 2007 9:13 PM CST I have really lapsed with Hannah's caringbridge entries of late and so decided to go on and do christmas wishes to all our CB friends and it is with great sadness I came to Alec's page today and read that he is no longer with us. My heart is literally breaking for you, but it is nothing compared to the heartache you must be going through and I know words just seem inadequate but I cannot tell you how much I loved to read about Alec and the wonderful strength your family had. It is an inspiration to the times we have struggled. Thank you for sharing Alec with us and he has touched us in ways you will never know. Sending our love I am sending our christmas card here to you ( and I know that it will be so difficult this christmas but we will be thinking of you ) Jo Hannah, Rebecca and Rachel England UK <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> - Saturday, December 22, 2007 10:34 AM CST I sent this to your work e-mail. I'm not sure if you will get it so I thought I would post it here. Christmas in Heaven" 'Tis Christmas in heaven what a beautiful sight! I want you to know everything is all right. The crib is adorned with the brilliance of the star; Wisemen have come from near and far. I've met all our loved ones who preceded us here; The reunion was lovely, an event full of cheer. And tonight we'll all gather in reverence we'll kneel, For babe in the cradle, up in heaven is real! I think of my family that I left behind, And I pray that your Christmas is as blessed as mine. Please shed no more tears for my soul is at rest, Just love one another and live life to its best. Yes, it's Christmas in heaven, so I've heard them say, Yet, Christams in heaven happens everyday! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, December 21, 2007 10:59 AM CST Just checking in to see how you are doing? I check your site daily to see if there are new updates and of course to look at the wonderful pictures. I remember when you bought those pj's for the boys and they are so cute! We may be back over New Year's so hopefully we can see you then. Know that you are constantly in our prayers and we think of you all the time. We hope you are finding some peace and will enjoy the Christmas Holiday. I'm sure Alec is smiling down on you all and is wishing for your happiness this Christmas. May God continue to watch over you and give you His peace. Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Monday, December 17, 2007 9:56 PM CST Just checking in and hoping for another update. Although I mainly check in to look at the pictures. I hope you guys are doing okay. God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/visit/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Monday, December 17, 2007 7:18 AM CST Brad it was wonderful to hear your praises to your wonderful wife and amazing son. But don't forget you were a pretty amazing dad and husband also. The things your family went through are things that most of us would not even begin to know about or how to handle. But you all handled everything so wonderfully. You are loved and admired by so many. You are truly blessed to have each other. It never siezes to amaze me the patience and strength your family has. God definately knew what he was doing when he put your family together. Thanks so much for sharing your feelings with us. I find myself checking your site daily to see what wonderful things are going on in the Idecker home. It has been such an important part of my day for so long. Take care and God Bless you! Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, December 13, 2007 8:41 AM CST I love the pic of you and the boys in front of the tree. TOO CUTE!!! Sending many hugs and prayers your way. I know this Xmas will be difficult, you will be in my thoughts and Alec will be forever in my heart. God Bless www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole Tamm <Tamm06@aol.com> - Wednesday, December 12, 2007 6:23 PM CST Brad & Steph~ Don't kid yourself, many of us would LOVE to read a "Brad & Steph Landers" page every day if we could!!! You both give such truth, inspiration, and encouragement about "life" in general! You were sent down a road & you followed it with grace, integrity, and love - no matter the cost or situation...you were at the plate dealing with whatever was sent your way. You are all admired, loved, and continually prayed for! Thank you for being our "teachers" and blessing all of our lives with your beautiful family! With thanks & love, MAHEK Mitch & Amy & Girls <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> - Sunday, December 9, 2007 3:33 PM CST Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us Brad. It's always nice to see the Dad's of these wondeful children share their thoughts. Alec was so blessed to have you, Stephanie, and his big brother!!! You are a strong, courageous, loving family. I will always carry your son in my heart. God Bless with love and hugs for all of you! www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole Tamm <Tamm06@aol.com> - Thursday, December 6, 2007 8:47 PM CST Brad, it was wonderful to read your praises of Alec's strength and resolve to give your family as much time as he could. You are right, Alec had the best big brother and mom. But I also remember visiting and holding Alec and when you got home and started speaking to him, he would just go crazy talking to you. So I know he also had the best dad, too. It is wonderous how God picks the right family to bring a special boy into this world. A closing thought of something I recently read: We always knew you were an angel, we knew it from the start. We just didn't know God would take you home so soon to be with Him. You looked just like an angel, you touched so many hearts, your life will not ever be forgotten, your face will always be remembered. Your wings were always hidden but now are set free for you to fly home where you will always watch over us. God bless your family. Love to your family Great Aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA usa - Thursday, December 6, 2007 11:08 AM CST It was so nice to read your entry. "I'll praise you in the storm" is a song I hear on the Christian radio station. I'm not sure if that is the name of the song but I can see that people like your family and Alec are the kind of people this song is about. God blesses you everyday I'm sure with a kiss from your Alec. God Bless all of you and thank you for sharing both your struggles and your faith. Shelly Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Thursday, December 6, 2007 7:02 AM CST Brad and Steph, Well, a new perspective from Dad, a new appreciation for your gift of parenting, a new sense of awe at your amazing faith.....Thank you for putting things in perspective again! If any of us, including me, think they have it rough.....think again. You have touch my heart anew! Love, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> Alvord, ia USA - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 10:34 PM CST Brad, thank you for reminding us that we have to feel blessed with what God gives us. YOU and Steph are wonderful parents and Aaron, Alec, and Emily are blessed to have you. Thank you for sharing. Michelle Tilstra <tilly@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 6:05 PM CST Great to see your update Turk. We hope you guys are doing ok and pray for happiness this Holiday Season. I know it will be hard but we know how strong your faith and family are. We keep you in our constant prayers and think of you all the time. Please call if you ever need to talk. We would love to hear from you. Many Blessings, The Garrys Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 3:24 PM CST Thanks for the update Brad. It's always nice to hear things from a dads perspective. Jeff used to update, but hasn't in a long time. It's nice to have a break from the writing sometimes. Always thinking of you guys! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/visit/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 12:03 AM CST Who knew Brad was the writer in the family ;)! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 10:16 AM CST Hey Brad, (pretty sure this is the first time I'm writing to you! =) Thanks for the update. You and Steph are amazing & your kids are so lucky to have you as their parents! I think about you guys everyday & pray for peace & healing. Take care! Carrie The VanEgdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 8:16 AM CST I am so sorry about your loss. I lost my daughter 3/16/06 when whe was 4 months old so I do know how you are feeling and I cannot stress enough how horrible of a feeling it is to loose your baby. If you ever need to talk please call me. Tiffany (kailynn's mom) has my number. Michelle <expedition1203@yahoo.com> Tea, sd - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 9:30 PM CST Stephanie~ It was great finally meeting you and your family last night. There was so much I wanted to say to you and really couldnt find the words!! I would love to get together some time and see the pictures of Alec and Kailynne. Kailynne will talk about Alec out of the blue some days...I really dont think she will ever forget what a special friend he was to her. And I am so happy I finally was able to meet you! Hope to see you again soon Tiffany Lokken <tiffanylokken@hotmail.com> Harrisburg, sd 57032 - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 9:49 AM CST Stephanie, How fun to see you tonight! And what a treat to hold beautiful Emily! She is so precious! I love her cowlicks--just like her brothers. :) Wasn't the program fun? Looked like the boys had a great time--we had a great view of Aaron! Let's get together sooner than later. We continue to lift your whole family up in prayer and thought. Julie Else <julianaelse@gmail.com> Harrisburg, SD 57032 - Monday, December 3, 2007 9:44 PM CST Alec is very lucky to have such a beautiful family. Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss. Mito is truly an awful disease. God Bless You and your new addition to your family. Sue Cogswell www.caringbridge.org/visit/kellycogswell Suzanne Cogswell <nursescooby@comcast.net> Beachwood, NJ USA - Monday, December 3, 2007 8:25 PM CST I check in everyday and even though you haven't updated I so enjoy looking at the pictures of your beautiful children!! You are in my thoughts and prayers always. God Bless! www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole Tamm <Tamm06@aol.com> - Monday, December 3, 2007 7:20 PM CST Thank you for the update and pictures Stephanie! Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of your family often and have you constantly in our prayers. Tracy Rapid City, SD - Monday, December 3, 2007 3:53 PM CST Just checking in to see how you are doing. I find myself checking several times a day. How we wish we could see and talk to you face to face. We think of you constantly and hope you are doing well. Give the kids a big kiss and hug from us. Kari <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Monday, December 3, 2007 11:14 AM CST What beautiful pictures! You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Love and hugs, Carol Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> - Saturday, December 1, 2007 7:48 AM CST I just wanted to let you know that you guys are always in my thoughts. I often stop what I'm doing and think about Alec with that little tongue sticking out. I love the pics! Too cute! Thanks for sharing! Take care and God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/visit/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Friday, November 30, 2007 7:31 AM CST Stephanie, Thank you for your update. I use that band-aid (TV) still! What a good way to put it. Thank you so much for the photos. Ohhhh they are all too precious. Alec will forever live in so many hearts mine included. I have thought of you so much this month and all that you have been through. You encourage me through your journal today. Thank you for that. Ann "Angel Eli's mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, Co USA - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 4:01 PM CST Stephanie, I was so glad to see your new posting to this site. Emily IS a beautiful baby...love all the hair. I am so sorry that the Holidays are going to be tough for you and I am also "proud" that you are doing things for Aaron (and Emily). It may not make things easier for you at this point in time, but it will for Aaron. Keeping you in my thoughts. Thank You for sharing the photos of Alec. He really looked good in the pictures and you could tell that he was truly loved and well cared for. Stephanie, take care of yourself and your family. Alec is trusting in you to do this. You took excellent care of him and he knows you will do the same for everyone else. With love, Esme <eapostolou@gillettechildrens.com> Brooklyn Park, MN - Tuesday, November 27, 2007 11:27 AM CST I can't get over Emily's hair. My kids were all bald. I love the frog pj's you had Alec in. Those are some great pics and wonderful memories for you. Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, November 27, 2007 11:02 AM CST I think about your family often and what you must be going through, i can not begin to even understand, just know that you are still in my thoughts. Thanks for sharing your pictures, they are beautiful! you have such an amazing family. Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA USA - Tuesday, November 27, 2007 8:48 AM CST As always, my heart aches and I don't know what to say. It's been so nice talking with you lately but I can't even begin to fathom your pain and void. I'm just so thankful for your faith as that, in the end, is what will pull you through each and every day. Brave little soul, thanks for teaching us all so very much about life! Because of the lessons you and your family have taught me, each day, I'm a bit more grateful for the four souls God has loaned to us! Thank you! Peace, Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine, and Rebekah (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) <tsspader@sio.midco.net> - Monday, November 26, 2007 9:41 PM CST I cry every time I read your posts, I wont tell you it gets better with time, because I dont know..I look at your pictures and I see a very strong loving family. Your an amazing mother with more strength than I think I could ever have. You gave Alec the best love and care, I hope you realize that though he suffered, he knew great love because of you. I am a person you never met, but Alec's story will always be in my heart, I am glad to see the update. Emily is so very very pretty, thank you for sharing the pictures. I pray for you all everyday Meisha, Victoria, Isabel, Kaylee www.caringbridge.org/visit/kayleemae Meisha lemon <meisha_tori_izzy@hotmail.com> Wichita, Ks US - Monday, November 26, 2007 7:19 PM CST Through all your sorrow I know Jesus is stayig close to your family. You have a beautiful little girl with so much hair. God Bless Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Monday, November 26, 2007 5:32 PM CST You guys are always on mind and in my prayers. Alec, I miss you so much. Keep watch over your Mommy and Daddy, Big brother & Emily!!! They all love you very much!! Love you all, Trista Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Monday, November 26, 2007 1:00 PM CST Love the pictures! I am so glad you shared them with us. I know it must be a hard time for you guys but know that you have so many people praying for you. Alec touched so many lives, and of many people you will never know. This care page has been around the world I am sure. How blessed we all are to have met Alec. Thinking of you all. Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Monday, November 26, 2007 11:27 AM CST We hope you had a Happy Thanksgiving. I'm sure it was a hard one. The Garry clan is out visiting which has been nice. We are thinking of you and wish you a joyous Holiday Season. The Colorado Garrys Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver , Co - Saturday, November 24, 2007 11:25 AM CST Praying you guys have a nice Thanksgiving weekend! Love you all! Carrie The Van Egdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 2:50 PM CST Thinking of you guys. Ann "Angel Eli's mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brigton, Co USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 11:42 AM CST I just want to let you know we will be thinking of you during this Thanksgiving season. I know it will be hard for you but know that "Angel Alec" will be with you and your family every step of the way. I bet he is so excited to actually get to eat a Thanksgiving meal. Our continues prayers....Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey adn Bailee Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 9:05 AM CST Just wanted you all to know we are thinking of you as the holiday season begins. Continuing to pray for your strength and comfort. The Gibbons Family www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylie Maria Gibbons <riau2@aol.com> Falcon Heights, MN - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 6:26 AM CST Steph- You will find your place in this world. Actually, you already have. You are a wife and mother of 3. You did everything right for Alec. I know as the time goes on- you will have a message that is more clear as to what is next. Trust me- I speak from experience. We are nearing Morgan's 1 year anniversary of her death- it really doesn't seem possible. I think back to the first of the year- I was so lonely for her and the house was very quiet- life was back to normal for all of our family and friends... but mine was upside down. I know it is so cliche, but time will help you. Yes, a part of you is gone forever- with Alec forever. I remember telling my friends- I know Morgan is perfect and safe- she is with her Creator. I focus now on our son and doing all I can for him. I know you will do the same for your son and daughter. Grief is unpredictable and exhausting. Those are the two words I think that explain it well. I am praying for God's grace to be felt- I know how very difficult the holidays are- for me, I just always want them over. Love, Leslie Leslie Reynolds <rey7@bellsouth.net> Roswell, GA - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 11:43 PM CST Hi to you all! Just wanted to let you know that I think about you guys and Alec so much!! I pray that you are getting some much needed rest and know that we keep you in our daily prayers!! Please give Aaron and that beautiful "Baby Emily" HUGS from us! Your family has blessed my family and so many others!! Take care and love you guys!! Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 7:05 PM CST Hi Ideker family! Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you constantly and have you in our daily thoughts and prayers. We hope your holiday this week is a great one even though I know it will be hard to do with out Alec being there. We miss you and hope to get to see you soon. Tracy Page Rapid City, SD - Monday, November 19, 2007 5:36 PM CST Just wanted to let you know that we stopped by. We will continue to pray for your healing, especially as you approach this first holiday season without Alec. ~The Rajewich's Dean & Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Monday, November 19, 2007 1:15 PM CST Hey Idekers, Just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you and our angel, Alec. Steph, I hope you had an "OK" weekend without Turk around. I didn't know it was your birthday, Happy Birthday! Sending lots of love your way! Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Sunday, November 18, 2007 11:53 PM CST Hey Stephanie! Happy birthday to my birthday "buddy". It is our last year in the twenties, and I'm just sure that it will be a blessed one. You and your family are in my mind and prayers everyday. Continue to hold on and keep the faith. Happy 29th! Love, Anne (Hanson) Peters Anne Peters <annepeters@excite.com> Brandon, SD - Sunday, November 18, 2007 10:12 PM CST Thinking about you guys!!! As always praying for peace and comfort! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Jordan, MN - Sunday, November 18, 2007 9:20 PM CST Steph,Brad,Aaron and Emily, Our hearts ach with you. You are in our thougts and prays everyday. If you every need time out of the house, I am home on Tuesday and Thursday just give me a call. Hello Aaron! How were those cookies? I hope school is going well for you? Give Aaron and Emily big hugs from us. Talk to soon. The Kruse's <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills, - Saturday, November 17, 2007 9:58 PM CST Dear Brad and Stephanie, We are in Jamestown, ND for football and you have traveled here with me. I think of you constantly. I pray that you are finding peace and some new joy with your little pink bundle. Hello to Aaron. Hey Aaron, it is snowing here....a beautiful (but cold) blanket of snow. Mama always said, "Life goes on". Life has its difficult bumps, but like I told you, He has promised "Joy in the Morning" and the promise of a new day, a new season and new joys. Alec is sharing all of them with you forever! Love and prayers going your way! Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> Alvord, ia usa - Saturday, November 17, 2007 9:15 AM CST A friend of yours shared your story with me and I am so glad he did. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Rev. Jennifer Hallenbeck (Pierre First UMC) <jhallen03@yahoo.com> Pierre, SD USA - Friday, November 16, 2007 3:42 PM CST Our family will be praying for all of you. I can't imagine the conflicting emotions you all must be struggling with right now. I'm just so sorry for your hurt and for your loss. Hold on to how much God loves you all right now, and how His heart must break with yours. We will continue to pray for you. May God be near you all and give his ultimate comfort. The Hildebrand family <jennibrand@yahoo.com> Longview, TX - Thursday, November 15, 2007 7:31 PM CST I very rarely write when I visit the site because I feel I can not put into words the things I want to say. I just know my heart aches for you guys and I want to send you all my love and wish somehow I could help to ease the pain and loneliness you are feeling. But I realize only God can do that in His time. Please know you are all in our prayers. Luv ya all... Jill, AB and family <absflock@svtv.com> - Thursday, November 15, 2007 2:39 PM CST Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you. I hope your getting some much needed rest. Take care, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle :Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 10:28 PM CST Oh Steph, My heart aches for you. All I can do is be here for you & your family & keep lifting you in prayer many times a day! Love You, April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA. USA - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 8:52 AM CST Sending thoughts and prayers your way as you face the unthinkable days and try to take things one step at a time. I pray that time will heal the wounds as Alec lives forever in your heart. Hugs, www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaacsimpact Lisa Lawton <isaacsimpact@hotmail.com> Louisville, KY - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 9:52 PM CST Good Afternoon Idecker Family: It seems like I check this web page a thousand times a day. I think it just must be habit. I am so glad to hear that Emily is such a good baby. But afterall she has her own special angel watching over her. I am sure that things are still pretty lonely around your house right now. But do know that with the help of God and time things will get better. You will continue to be in our daily prayers. May God Bless you and your family..... Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey adn Bailee Roemen Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 2:57 PM CST Hey guys, Just wanted you to know we continue to think of your family and pray for your healing. Sounds like Emily is a really good baby, you are so fortunate. We wish we could be there to give you all hugs. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. The Garrys in Colorado <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 10:56 AM CST Hello Idekers! A new day is starting, and with it the chance to love up Aaron and Emily. Our hearts break for you, and realize just how much of a collosal adjustment this all has to be for you. I think of all the people (myself included somedays) who say, "Wow, new baby, older kids, a spouse, housework...I'm overwhelmed!" and you who say that you're bored. It just goes to prove how hard you worked to give your little boy the very, very best. You are a blessing to all around you, before, during, and after Alec's earthly life. Finding your place will take time, but we are all here to help. You are both talented people who will, in time, find even more ways to strengthen people in their faith. In God's time. We still pray that Alec is having a blast in Heaven (of course, he is!!), and that he will smile down on you in sunshine and warm your soul. Deric, Rachel, Alex, Mason, and Ella <rlangenh@rvcsd.org> Larchwood, IA - Monday, November 12, 2007 8:57 AM CST Hello Idekers! A new day is starting, and with it the chance to love up Aaron and Emily. Our hearts break for you, and realize just how much of a collosal adjustment this all has to be for you. I think of all the people (myself included somedays) who say, "Wow, new baby, older kids, a spouse, housework...I'm overwhelmed!" and you who say that you're bored. It just goes to prove how hard you worked to give your little boy the very, very best. You are a blessing to all around you, before, during, and after Alec's earthly life. Finding your place will take time, but we are all here to help. You are both talented people who will, in time, find even more ways to strengthen people in their faith. In God's time. We still pray that Alec is having a blast in Heaven (of course, he is!!), and that he will smile down on you in sunshine and warm your soul. Deric, Rachel, Alex, Mason, and Ella <rlangenh@rvcsd.org> Larchwood, IA - Monday, November 12, 2007 8:56 AM CST I continue to check in and to lift all of you up in prayer. Today in church I started to cry as I thought of your loss, my neice has a foster child that will be placed this week, our grandchildrens struggles with health issues and then a peace came over me. Jesus is here beside us each step of the way. I pray you will feel his arms around you when the hours get long or you wake up at night because of the routine you had for so many years. That little Emily must be a really good baby if she is not taking at least some of that time up for you. I am anxious for you to download some of her pictures too. Stephanie you will have to plan a scrapbooking weekend at our home again this winter. I love having you come. Give each other a big hug - and know part of it is from me. Sue Peters Sioux Falls , SD United States - Sunday, November 11, 2007 4:57 PM CST Dear mommy and daddy I see tears fall down your face When your thoughts have turned to me. Just know that I’m in heaven, With my Lord, who’s set me free. No pain or sadness do I feel, For God is by my side. The beauty here in Heaven Is now where I reside. I know it’s hard for you to cope For you can’t feel my touch. But every moment, I can see And love you very much. When you are at your lowest And feel you can’t go on, Look towards the heavens The light will be turned on. Talk to me, just like you did On earth when I was there. You see, I’m not so far away … Only as far as a prayer. And when it’s time for you to join Me up in Heaven above. It’s then that you will realize, The Golden Place of love. For here there is no sadness, Just everlasting light. Someday we will be joined again, When it’s time to take your flight. a mito friend - Sunday, November 11, 2007 4:34 PM CST My heart is breaking for you guys. I was thinking about you over the past few days. Patrick has been crying hard in pain the past few days, we think from his stomach. I think of how much of that you had to deal with and how hard it must have been. You handled it so well and I don't think I'm handling it as well as you. I have been asking Alec to pray for him. I hope this is not our new normal and it's just a bug of some sort. Always thinking of you, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Sunday, November 11, 2007 1:09 PM CST I am so sorry. Alec was a joy to so many. I wish you would have had a moment to hold them all in your arms. You are, as always, in my prayers. Kristi - Saturday, November 10, 2007 10:20 PM CST I am so sorry that you have to go through your loss of Alec. Grief is a terrible thing to feel and it is such a long and lonely process. Remember there is still so much love around you and that will get you through. Alec would want you to go on and just be the mom he always knew. You will always be Alec's mom. Nothing can take that from you. God Bless your family and keep you all safe. Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Saturday, November 10, 2007 8:46 AM CST Brad & Steph, although I didnt have the blessing to know Alec, I now know alot about him without meeting any of you. I have wrote some words to you a couple times in the last week and I have always been lost for words. I was glad to see your post today, but on the other hand my heart aches for you so bad, I wish I could just take the pain away. We are just starting our "journey" into the "mito world" I am so scared on what the future holds for my kaylee, but I know that when I read about your family, I pray I have just as much strength you all have had. I just feel this need to continue to let you know I am thinking of your family. Very much love and prayers from kansas! www.caringbridge.org/visit/kayleemae Meisha Lemon <meisha_tori_izzy@hotmail.com> Wichita, Ks US - Friday, November 9, 2007 3:59 PM CST Brad & Steph~ Don't get ahead of yourself - remember - one day at a time...you will find your way with God's help and his timing alone. The path will not be easy nor pain free, but God will show you many truths along the way! He will reveal His perfect plan unto you in time, and He will take the hurt and turn it into something beautiful and alive for His purposes! Alec's life was His gift to you! Cherish the many memories you have with him - those memories, all the photos, and all the timeless moments will serve as precious gifts to all of you for many years to come! We feel your pain as you write your feelings down on paper - just know that you are surrounded with loving and Godly relationships - they may not be the relationships that you are longing for so desperately, but they're the relationships that God has gifted upon you to get through this terribly difficult time! Don't give up...there will be a new day, filled with new realities, new purposes, and new fulfillments for you both....we know it doesn't probably feel that way now, but it is true - it's God's promises to you. He loves you and is daily paving the way for His will to be done through your beautiful family living to serve Him! Love you, care, and praying hard for you....MAHEK Mitch & Amy Knoblock <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> - Friday, November 9, 2007 3:49 PM CST Good Day, Idekers, I am sorry you have to feel such loss and emptiness. I can not say I have any idea how you are feeling, but feel for you and with you. Just like many who have written in the guest book, I check the site many many times a day just to check on you. When you write, I feel connected to you. Just think of all the lives you guys (and Alec) will continue to touch as we continue on this journey with you. Your faith and strength are amazing and a source of inspiration to so many. Take lots and lots of time to be with Emily and snuggle her and get to know her. All moms know that they grow out of that new baby stage so quickly. Isn't pink great???? And Aaron, he needs his mom and dad time now since he so selflessly shared so much of his time with Alec. I will continue to lift you up in prayer and think of you as you make all kinds of adjustments. Love to all, Carol Carol Childress <cchildress@west-lyon.k12.ia.us> Alvord, IA USA - Friday, November 9, 2007 1:27 PM CST Thinking of you always.....can't wait to hang out with you and Emily on Saturday. Love you all!!!! Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Friday, November 9, 2007 11:50 AM CST What a special and blessed family you are. To think that God took away your son's pain and gave you a beautiful healthy baby girl within 24 hours is truely a miracle. My sincerest sympathy and congratulations to you and your family. May God's blessings continue to flow and heal the ache in your heart. Jerene MN - Friday, November 9, 2007 11:04 AM CST Dear Steph and family, I have checked the website 101 times since Monday. I just wanted/needed to see your words. I was thrilled to see you had journaled this morning. I will continue to check in on you as long as you continue to write. I know you give me strength and I'm sure there are many others who feel the same. You are an amazing person. I have been praying for you continuously. Michelle Tilstra <tilly@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, - Friday, November 9, 2007 10:32 AM CST Steph and Brad, Just wanting to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. Alec was truly a gift from God and has touched so many hearts and will continue to do so. Please know that your family has touched and changed so many lives forever. Your dedication to your faith and family is an inspiration to all us. You have showed us how to love unconditionally and appreciate each and every day the Lord has given us. We will continue to pray that the Lord gives you strength and courage in the days to come. Just remember that your FAITH, FAMILY, & FRIENDS will always be there for you.. God bless, Jodi Rysavy Jodi Rysavy <jrysavy@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, - Friday, November 9, 2007 10:32 AM CST Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Emily I still think about you guys daily and find myself coming to your website daily, sometimes a few times a day. I just want you guys to know I am sending lots of hugs your way. Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA USA - Friday, November 9, 2007 8:18 AM CST Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Emily, I learned about your story from Steph Spader. It's taken me a while to sign your guestbook because I wanted to get the whole story, so I've spent my last two days pouring over your journal history. I am so inspired by your family, your faith, your parenting through unimaginably difficult circumstances, and your tireless fight to have nothing but the best for your beautiful family. Thank you for sharing your story. My heart and prayers are lifted for you, in thanksgiving for the life you had with Alec, for the joy he is encompassed by in Heaven, and for the new life you are discovering in Emily. May God continue to bless you all so richly, and know that you are well-covered in prayers. Laura Zimmerman <chuck2@centurytel.net> Poynette, WI USA - Thursday, November 8, 2007 7:54 PM CST I recieved an email from Anne last week telling me of your story, and was unable to get to this site until today. I am soo very sorry for your loss. My best friend lost her 5 year old daughter over a year ago, and I have watched her go through the grieving process daily. Ironically, I just came back from the hospital visiting her and her new baby girl today. I can't of course say I know how you feel, but watching my friend go through it, I have realized that God gives people strength and grace to get through the unbearable. My friend will forever go down in my book as my hero for getting through the inconcievable. My mom has told me of your strength and how your face would light up when you spoke of Alec. I truly pray that God will continue to give you and your family strength and grace. Angie Williams Angie Williams (Koedam) <angelawilliams1@bellsouth.net> St. Augustine, FL US - Thursday, November 8, 2007 2:24 PM CST I am so so sorry for your loss. My daughter, Kailynne went to Alec's preschool. Last night we had confrences and Karla told her father and I how close they were. I have heard Kailynne talk about Alec many times, but never once did she mention anything except by saying she loves her friend Alec. I don't think she even noticed anything different about him. Last week when she came home with the note from the school I did sit Kailynne and her sister Abbey (who is in 1st grade at Liberty and knows your other son) and explained to them what happened. I have never seen my Kailynne so upset and hurt by something. At that time I had no idea how close they were. She cried and cried for hours and wanted to call his mommy and daddy! It broke my heart. Still today she will not let us take the deflated balloon out of her room and she always is sitting in there with her picture of Alec. I just wanted you to know how special your son is to my daughter~ Kailynne has never really been one to make friends...and she tells me Alec was her best friend. I wish i could have met him. I wish I could have seen them together. I cant even imagine what you are going through. My heart breaks for you. you are in our familys thoughts daily. Tiffany Lokken <tiffanylokken@hotmail.com> Harrisburg, sd - Thursday, November 8, 2007 11:57 AM CST Brad & Stephanie, My heart is with you all at this time of roller-coaster emotions! Alec will be so missed, but oh the lives he touched! And sweet Emily, such a blessing. Treasure her and know that even though we cannot begin to comprehend God's timing, He knows what He's doing. You are all in our prayers every day. With loving thoughts, The Carolans Julie Carolan - Thursday, November 8, 2007 9:16 AM CST Steph- I'm here for you. Holding you close in my heart and my prayers. I know you are still numb- at least I was in the early days and weeks. I want you to know how special you and your family are. I remember my fear was always people would forget Morgan is a part of our family and always will be. Alec is ALWAYS a part of your family. When people ask me how many children I have- my reply is always 2. I have a son here with me and a daughter in heaven. I know some people squirm, and it makes people uncomfortable. But I always tell the world about Morgan- just like I know you will about Alec! We will continue the fight against Mito - all in memory of the sweet children taken much too soon. Sending you love, Leslie caringbridge.org/visit/morganreynolds Leslie Reynolds <rey7@bellsouth.net> Roswell, GA - Thursday, November 8, 2007 7:24 AM CST ^Alec^, Thinking about you this morning, just wondering what your playing with today or what stories you have to tell!?!? Watch over your mom, dad, Aaron, and little sister Emily!! With all my love... Trista Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Thursday, November 8, 2007 7:11 AM CST I had to stop in and give Alec a hug. Hope to hear from you soon but know you are probably way too busy now to post updates on how you are all getting along. I know it must be very difficult to get through the minutes but Jesus and Alec are with you helping you along. God Bless and keep you all safe. Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls , SD - Thursday, November 8, 2007 6:58 AM CST Brad~Steph~Aaron~Emily, Thinking of you this morning...wondering how you're doing, & praying that you're doing alright - you've seen & felt so much change in so little time! Just want you to know you're in thought, and we continue to pray that God will reveal his comfort, peace, and will unto you all! Love you and care, Knoblocks Mitch & Amy Knoblock <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, November 8, 2007 6:35 AM CST You have all been in my prayers even though you don't know me. Thirty years ago, I had a "special delivery" and she has been my sunshine. I understand your pain and pray that God will give you strength to sustain you and your family. God Bless You. Luann Watschun <LusZoo1@aol.com> Naperville, IL 60563 - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 2:25 PM CST My heart is aching for your family...I did put your family in prayer in church sunday..just wanted you to know I am thinking of you all. I have thought of this alot and wish there was some way to help, so I guess all I can do for now is to let you know a person you never met, is thinking and praying for you all to heal. Love and thoughts from kansas Meisha Lemon <meisha_tori_izzy@hotmail.com> wichita, ks US - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 10:15 AM CST I am thinking of you this morning! My older kids are getting used to the hugs and kisses now, not that I didn't do it before, but I make a special point to make sure I hug and kiss them in Alec's memory. I hope you are getting some rest. God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 10:04 AM CST I was on the cradle roll this morning to check out Emily and I cannot believe how much she looks like the boys! Maybe it is just the hair but she is just beautiful. We would love to see some new pictures of you guys when you have a chance. Still thinking and praying for you! Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Wednesday, November 7, 2007 9:57 AM CST We met at give kids the world on the sleigh ride. I remember talking to you and realizing that Alec was so loved. When he was on the ride he seemed to love the motion a lot. He truly enjoyed being there. I know it was hard to get there and do that because of the illness and the fact you traveled a LONG distance. The one thing that struck me was the knowledge that you all were loving every second of it and no matter how hard it was, it was simply perfect. You obviously embraced life and loved each other so much. That is the greatest gift we can ever ask for. I am sad to see Alec is gone. In the same breath I am thrilled that Emily is here. God has plans no man can possibly understand. I will not say I ever understand why things are timed the way they are. God only knows!!! I am positive Alec knew Emily and I am sure he loves her just as much as all of you. Alecs gift to you was the smile you will see on her face in the years to come. When you talk about him to her she will grow to love him just as much. As hard as it is, embrace Emily as much as you can...enjoy the smell of newborn baby skin...and keep your memories alive. Continue to share the memories here in the CB page. By sharing about his life you will let others know exactly how special he truly is. It matters. Alec was precious and loved. I am just glad I had the chance to meet and talk with your family. May God bless everything you do and may He help you keep the memories alive. Alec was blessed to have you as his family. Donna Thorell <iluvdizney2@comcast.net (www.caringbridge.org/ma/thorell_kids)> - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 10:37 PM CST We met at give kids the world on the sleigh ride. I remember talking to you and realizing that Alec was so loved. When he was on the ride he seemed to love the motion a lot. He truly enjoyed being there. I know it was hard to get there and do that because of the illness and the fact you traveled a LONG distance. The one thing that struck me was the knowledge that you all were loving every second of it and no matter how hard it was, it was simply perfect. You obviously embraced life and loved each other so much. That is the greatest gift we can ever ask for. I am sad to see Alec is gone. In the same breath I am thrilled that Emily is here. God has plans no man can possibly understand. I will not say I ever understand why things are timed the way they are. God only knows!!! I am positive Alec knew Emily and I am sure he loves her just as much as all of you. Alecs gift to you was the smile you will see on her face in the years to come. When you talk about him to her she will grow to love him just as much. As hard as it is, embrace Emily as much as you can...enjoy the smell of newborn baby skin...and keep your memories alive. Continue to share the memories here in the CB page. By sharing about his life you will let others know exactly how special he truly is. It matters. Alec was precious and loved. I am just glad I had the chance to meet and talk with your family. May God bless everything you do and may He help you keep the memories alive. Alec was blessed to have you as his family. Donna Thorell <iluvdizney2@comcast.net (www.caringbridge.org/ma/thorell_kids)> - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 10:37 PM CST Stephanie and Family, I am only today finding out about Alec's passing. I am so very sorry to hear this. My heart is heavy for you. Please know Alec will always be held dearly in my heart. Thank you for sharing his life with us. Love, Krystena Richards and Family (Caden & Carsen MADD/GAII) <momof2withga2@yahoo.com> Mt Sterling , KY USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 10:18 PM CST Jesus is looking after Alec now. It is easier than when you were doing it, because there are no medicines to prepare and no problems to correct. Alec is having so much fun playing with Mamie and so many other children. When we join them the wait that seems so long now will seem then to have been for such a short time. The emptiness we feel now will be filled with all the joy we can hold. And it will be forever. www.caringbridge.org/al/mamieadams Mamie's Daddy <george.f.adams@us.army.mil> Huntsville, AL USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 9:38 PM CST Steph, Brad, Arron, ^Alec^, and baby Emily, Our thoughts and prayers have and continue to be with you throughout this sad yet joyful time for your family. Just know that the Lord is Good and His time is always perfect. Please except our DEEPEST sympathies at the loss of such a special person in Alec. I keep seeing him running and playing and having a great time with Jesus. What FUN!!! We also want to rejoice with you on the birth of little Emily. What an awesome blessing she is. We will continue to up lift you to the Lord. Deb & Chic Van Ginkel---Trista's parents <mrs_chic@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 9:22 PM CST I've only met you guys once (but knew Brad from the early West Central Days)- you guys have been in my thoughts and prayers since the Make A Wish weekend. There are so many awesome things said in your guestbook and I really don't know what else to say! How heartbreaking it has to be and also a relief to know Alec is no longer suffering. No matter how much time you have to prepare, you're never ready, and the time never seems to be right, and you long for those 'one more times'. God does have a plan, and it's ok to wonder what it is... take it one day at a time. I was hoping to get to the wake or the funeral but wasn't able to make it. It sounds like it was beautiful. If anyone offers to help, take it! :) Your faith in God and this wonderful support system you have will help you all get through this. (**if anyone is planning to do something to help out this awesome family, will you let me know? thanks!) Hang in there- Teresa Nold <tresic@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 8:16 PM CST Stephanie- I have never met you, but I knew Brad back in high school. I work at the West Central School District (Caden’s teacher last year) and got your site from another teacher. I am amazed at your family’s strength and faith that you have all had thru this. Alec was so lucky to have you guys and you were just as lucky to have him! I have read thru your journey, thank you for sharing it with us. I am so sorry for your loss and I have been praying for you all. Sarah (Wiebersick) Weber <Sarah.Weber@k12.sd.us> Montrose, Sd USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 6:41 PM CST I had a wonderful vision this morning. You know how much Dad (Great Grandpa Gus) loved kids. I saw Dad take Alec by the hand and go over to his garden to plant a few plants and pick a few weeds. Alec was skipping along beside him. When they got to the gardne, Alec started digging in the dirt with his great grandpa, and he loved it! After awhile, they both got tired and Dad took Alec by the hand and led him into the house to Dad's favorite chair. Alec jumped up on his great grandpa's lap, gave him a big hug, then snuggled up to him so they could both take a nap. I know that Dad is happy (being in heaven and all), but he must be even happier now that he has his great grandson Alec around to keep him company. They are going to have a great time while they wait for the rest of us, one by one, to join them in eternal life. Great Aunt Lori <blauwet.lori@mayo.edu> Rochester, MN - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 12:47 AM CST Turk, Steph, Aaron and Emily, We are so sorry we were unable to make it back home for the funeral. We hope that you know how much you all mean to us. Everyone we have talked to said the service was beautiful and Alec looked so peaceful. We have been thinking of you constantly and asking God to help heal your broken hearts. We hope you find some peace knowing Alec is free and someday we will see him again. Sending lots of hugs your way. Give Aaron and Emily an extra kiss from us. Love, Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael Kari Garry <ryangarry1978@gmail.com> Denver, Co - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 12:22 AM CST I appreciate your honesty of your raw emotions in your journal. It's okay to keep the tears coming...they are cleansing for your soul. I am also so grateful for Emily Dawn's safe arrival here on earth. May you have many years of joy and happiness with her. I love that you named her middle name Dawn after Alec's middle name...what a tribute! Kristi Ose (Rachele's friend) Kristi Ose <osefam@insightbb.com> Goshen , KY - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 11:39 AM CST I come here from Zach West's page. I haven't signed before, and it's so hard knowing what to write. But just know that there are so many people out here who have never met you who do care and who are thinking of you and praying for you. Danielle and Jordan <twxee@aol.com> PA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 10:33 AM CST I feel so indebted to you and your family. Thank you for showing us how to live and how to love. Three years ago I questioned God's wisdom in sending a needy child into your busy young lives. But now to have witnessed His plan for Alec has deeply touched me, as it has our entire Seeds of Faith family. Your faith, your acceptance,your perseverance, and your endless love and devotion has been an awesome example. Thank you. I don't know how else to say it--thank you! With continued prayers and love-- Cheryl Cheryl A. Monen <cnrmonen@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA us - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 9:40 AM CST Please know that you are all in our prayers. Dave and Liza John, Erin, Jackson, & Jake www.caringbridge.com/visit/jacksonpasch Liza Pasch <practicingparenting@yahoo.com> Coatesville, IN USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 9:02 AM CST I just wanted to let you know how beautiful the service for Alec was. I really liked the pastors words about how Alec and Emily probably met and talked before she was born. We decided the trip down there and back was so easy that we want to come and visit again soon. I really wish we would have made the trip before coming down for the wake and funeral. I was thinking about you guys right away this morning and how hard it must be, so you will continue to be in our prayers. Oh and by the way, I hugged and kissed my kids today (even the teenagers who thought I was crazy, but loved it), and I will do so everyday especially for Alec. God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 8:54 AM CST Alec was blessed to have you, Brad and Steph as his parents!!!!!!! What amazing parents you are!!!!! It was so comforting to me to see him so peaceful. He will be missed. We will keep praying for you and your family Darcy Jo Gerber <dgerber@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 8:10 AM CST I still keep checking your site every day. I love to see the pictures of Alec and I press the hug button before I leave. I never knew him but for some reason I miss him. I hope to see pictures of your little Emily. I'm sure she is a beauty. God Bless and keep you all safe. Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls , SD - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 7:03 AM CST We are so very sorry for your loss. We pray that you are surrounded by much love to help you go on without your beloved Alec. Please know that we are thinking of you and praying for you. Love, MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth LeFevre <attnymb@aol.com> Williamstown, VT - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 5:35 AM CST We are thinking of your family so often and praying for you all. We feel blessed to have met Alec and spent time with your family that weekend around the 4th of July. You are all a true inspiration and we will continue to pray for you in the days ahead. We look forward to meeting little Emily. May God comfort and keep you. Travis and Julie Else <julianaelse@gmail.com> Harrisburg, SD United States - Monday, November 5, 2007 11:51 PM CST I am a friend of Mary Beth's from her days in North Carolina at UNC, and was so saddened by the news of Alec's death and yet inspired by the beautiful spirit of your entire family. GOD's mysterious ways are demonstrated with the timing of Emily's birth. You are surrounded with prayers from around the world and I hope that in some way you feel them as a big hug and a source of strength and hope. Teresa Taylor <tmtaylor@proteus-technologies.com> Annapolis , MD USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 11:15 PM CST I am Kynslee White's Aunt Judy and have read your journal for Alec. It is very difficult to find words to comfort someone who has lost such a loving wonderful child. Be strong for your new baby girl! May God bless your family and guide you with strength to understand. Judy Carter <judyacarter@insightbb.com> Louisville, KY - Monday, November 5, 2007 11:10 PM CST Stephanie Brad, Aaron & Emily Judt wanted to let you know that I've thought of you so much the last few days. Your family has been such an inspiration to our church.You have so many people lifting you up in their prayers.Take one day at a time and don't be afraid to cry when your feeling down.God will continue to be there with you and also there for you. Judy VerMeer <judy.vermeer@novartis.com> Lester, IA USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 10:02 PM CST Stephanie- My heart is breaking for you. I so wish that things were different, but I know that that is not possible. I wish that I could tell you that the pain will lessen in time, but I know that that is not the case. Your son was a blessing to you, and to all of us that had the pleasure of getting to know him through this site. Thank you for sharing him with us. I only wish that we could have met up that day at Gillette's so that I could say that I had actually met him. You are all in our prayers, that you might find some peace during this difficult time. Much love to you and your family- Abigail Vetter <abvetter28@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/visit/carolineruby> West Fargo, ND - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:50 PM CST Stephanie, I keep reading this over trying to find the right words to say to you, but I don't know what those words are. Just please know that you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Please be sure to take care of yourself and that new baby! Anne and Jon Peters <annepeters@excite.com> Brandon, SD - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:40 PM CST Hi Brad and Stephanie, I wanted to let you know that I thought Alec looked so peaceful today. He looked so relaxed and so pain-free. I can't imagine how you guys feel but I wanted you to know that there are so many people thinking and praying for you. You are quite possibly the strongest people I have ever met. Take care, keep in touch. Let me know when you are ready to have some visitors, I would LOVE to touch Emily's hair!!!! Teresa Brandsrud <brand@alliancecom.net> - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:12 PM CST My heart is deeply saddened by your loss of Alec. I can't even begin to comprehend the feelings you are experiencing at this difficult time. Please know that there are so many of us continually lifting you up in prayer. Your strength and courage for the past three and a half years has been a true inspiration to us all. Now, it is our time to be strong for you. Lean on us through these hard times and know that we are there. I look forward to meeting your new blessing, Emily. I was excited to finally see her picture on the web. She is beautiful with all that dark hair. :-) God Bless!! Melinda Ver Meer <mvermeer@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:00 PM CST Stephanie: I wish I could hug you right now. My heart aches for you. Your family has been an inspiration to us. I feel like we have come to know all of you through the wires. I wish there was something I could do. I will continue to pray and send you our love and sympathy. Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@embarqmail.com > Califon, NJ - Monday, November 5, 2007 2:59 PM CST Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Emily I am a friend of Mark and Leslie Ideker. I am so very sorry for your loss. I have read many of the postings over time and have cried many tears with you. I had the pleasure of meeting Alec at their house one time and he was absolutely adorable. What an Angel. You all are truly amazing! Your faith in God, your Love, and Awesome parenting skills have truly been uplifting for me. God gave you Alec because he knew that you would be the BEST family for him. Aaron what a sweetheart and yes the absolute Best Big Brother in the World!!! Emily is so very fortunate to be placed in your loving care. My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. God Bless Carolyn Zirpel <bczirpel@sio.midco.net> Humboldt, SD USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 1:40 PM CST The celebration today was beautiful. It was a true testament to Alec's life and the love his parents and brother gave him so unconditionally. Thanks for being such an inspiration to me and so many others of your dedication and selflessness to your children. I keep checking the site because I miss our daily phone calls and time together. I can't wait for that to happen again but it will be so different without Alec. You are all constantly on our minds and in our prayers. I can't wait to meet and hold that little sister too. You are so amazing and I am so thankful that because of Alec's life, our paths crossed. Thank you, Brave Little Soul!! God bless you guys. Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine and Rebekah Spader (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) <tsspader@sio.midco.net> - Monday, November 5, 2007 1:35 PM CST "My son, my precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you." Just wanted to let you know that you have been in our thoughts all day. Dean & Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Monday, November 5, 2007 12:49 AM CST First of all thank you for saying these messages mean something to you. We feel like we want to do something for you and if our words help at all...praise God! As mothers we can only imagine in such sadness what you are going through right now. However you and your family's amazing and awesome faith in God has been such a huge inspiration and to so many of us. A miracle of Alec....I can see myself so doing the same thing you were at his visitation. Always, always watching over our kids. That is a sign of what a great mother you were to him and are to your other two. However God is holding him now..just snuggling.. and it feels so good.. for both of them. Through Alec's life and journey to see Jesus, I have found super opportunities to talk with my girls about death and heaven and I am so thankful for that. A miracle of Alec.... McKenna has a huge understanding heart (I think her and Aaron might get together someday) She prayed the night Alec died and said she was sad that Alec died but she was so happy that God finally got to meet him!!! A miracle of Alec... There is so much more I want to say. I know this sounded more directed toward Stephanie but Brad the same goes for you in all I say. You were awesome parents. You were in our prayers today during Alec's celebration of LIFE! Beth and family Beth McSpadden <bbmcspadden@aol.com> Parker, CO - Monday, November 5, 2007 12:27 AM CST I am so, so sorry for your loss. I cannot even begin to understand what you are going through right now. I got to meet Alec for the first time at the Apple Orchard, even though I've been following his Caringbridge site much longer. What a beautiful little boy; I hope you guys are able to find peace someday, knowing he is free of pain. Our prayers are with you, as you grieve the loss of Alec, and also rejoice in the birth of your little girl. Dawn Hackrott <luvmymorgan79@hotmail.com> Lennox, SD USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 12:17 AM CST I am so sorry, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. God Bless...Diana mommy to Nicole Nieves Complex 1 Def. Diana Nieves <diana@qbcnet.com> Glen Oaks, NY 11004 - Monday, November 5, 2007 11:28 AM CST Brand, Steph, Aaron adn Emily, Alec looked beautiful and so at peace last night. What a beautiful child he was inside and out. He is most certainly an added blessing to heaven. Emily is such a wonderful blessing from God. More that anyone could imagine. I am sorry we will not be there today. But we will be with you in spirit and in our hearts. Be strong and know that your wondeful son Alec touched so many people in so many ways. God Bless you today and always. Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey and Bailee Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 10:07 AM CST We are so very sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling and the emotions you are trying to balance. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Emily Dawn is a blessing! Hugs, Jeremy, Vicki, & Caden Williams www.caringbridge.org/tx/cadenlane Vicki Williams <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:50 AM CST My name is Mandy, I learned of you and your family through a friend, I am so sorry for your loss! As a christain I truely believe Jesus will be coming home for us all soon, everything the Bible says is happening right now. My children often have questions about Heaven and I tell them to imagine all the beautiful things they can and it will be there. I couldn't imagine your pain in this time but know that your little guy is right up there beside God and his love is so strong and God has explained everything to him and how you all will be together again. God loves you all so much. Mandy Farmland, In America - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:44 AM CST May God give you extra comfort today. You are such a pillar of strength and faith, even amidst the tears and sadness. Just look at how many people Alec helped bring closer to Jesus!! It's amazing that a boy so young could have such an loving, enveloping power about him..but he did!! Glory to God for his life! May today be a true 'celebration of life'! Even though we can't be there today, we are praying for you and rejoicing in Alec's start to his new life in Heaven! Rachel and Deric Langenhorst <rlangenh@rvcsd.org> Larchwood, IA - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:38 AM CST Dear Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Emily, I am a friend and co-worker of Uncle Dean and wanted to tell you how very sad I am about Alec's passing. All of us at the office have been praying for the Holy Spirit's comfort for your family. Your example of strength, courage and faith are a testament of God's faithfulness. You are an encouragement to all of us. Psalm 56:8 promises us that God keeps track of all our sorrows. He has collected all your tears in His bottle. He has recorded each one in His book. Please know that many are holding you up in prayer. Karen Simmons <krscpa@rushmore.com> Sturgis, SD 57785 - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:38 AM CST We live in Union City Ohio, are children's pastors and we have two grandbabies with mito ages 15 months & 3. Our hearts and our love go out to you. We cannot imagine your grief. Please know that we care. THE MOUNTAINS AND HILLS MAY CRUMBLE, BUT MY LOVE FOR YOU WILL NEVER END. ISAIAH 54, 10 A (GNT) myron & julie stump union city, oh usa - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:30 AM CST I am so sorry to hear of Alec's passing. And we rejoice with you as you welcome your new little girl. We were very fortunate to have met Alec. His smile was beautiful and I'm sure he's running his little heart out up in heaven with that beautiful smile on his face while playing with his friends, camping, fishing and wrestling. I will pray for you that the Father will comfort you during this difficult period. And we will pray that as easily as those on earth received him that he may be received into Heaven surrounded by the angels and the saints. And may he find himself held firmly by the angels and saints in the place Christ Jesus made for him. Kim Kovash Omaha, NE - Monday, November 5, 2007 9:05 AM CST Brad,Steph,Aaron,& Emily~ Praying for you all on this day -you are all being uplifted...it is not easy, we do know that. Our hearts do break for you, but be reassured to know that the dear Lord sees every tear that is shed & it is only He that has the power to wipe those tears from your eyes & truly comfort you like you desire to be comforted - lean totally & fully on Him - He is your source of solace & peace! You are a beautiful family inside & out...you will have to allow yourself "time" to fit into this different lifestyle...be patient with yourselves...it will come over "time". But remember, the days may be quiet & all so different....they may even seem to drag on and on, but Alec will never be far, for he is a part of you & always will be...keep his memory alive & talk about him - there is healing power within doing that. We love you and continue to pray so very hard for you. Love, Mitch,Amy,Hayley & Evy xoxoxoxo Mitch & Amy Knoblock <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> - Monday, November 5, 2007 8:18 AM CST You are in our thoughts today especially. It is going to be a hard one but Alec would be the first to tell you he is now in Heaven with NO pain, no meds needed, no treatments. He got to meet his little sister and would want you to continue giving her the care you gave him. He knows she is being welcomed into such a loving family. The poem by Aunt Julia is beautiful. Please feel God's loving arms around you today and every day. He has been helping you care for Alec and now will give you the care you need as you care for little Emily. Just picture Alec in heaven giving Emily an extra hug every time you give her one. You are also giving Alec a hug at those times. Don't squeeze her too hard!! She might have to let you know she's not quite as big as Alec yet! Seriously, please take care of yourselves and take one day at a time! You are never alone as our loving heavenly Father is ALWAYS beside you. We are praying for you. Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Monday, November 5, 2007 8:13 AM CST You are in our thoughts today especially. It is going to be a hard one but Alec would be the first to tell you he is now in Heaven with NO pain, no meds needed, no treatments. He got to meet his little sister and would want you to continue giving her the care you gave him. He knows she is being welcomed into such a loving family. The poem by Aunt Julia is beautiful. Please feel God's loving arms around you today and every day. He has been helping you care for Alec and now will give you the care you need as you care for little Emily. Just picture Alec in heaven giving Emily an extra hug every time you give her one. You are also giving Alec a hug at those times. Don't squeeze her too hard!! She might have to let you know she's not quite as big as Alec yet! Seriously, please take care of yourselves and take one day at a time! You are never alone as our loving heavenly Father is ALWAYS beside you. We are praying for you. Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Monday, November 5, 2007 8:11 AM CST MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU GOD BLESS YOU Debbie Anderson <debbiea1958@yahoo.com> Fort Edward, New York 12828 United States - Monday, November 5, 2007 8:08 AM CST I found your site through Kynslee White. Our daily prayers will be with your family for always. Junie Cheshire Junie Cheshire <jcheshire@semonin.com> Louisville, Ky USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 8:07 AM CST OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOUR PICTURES AND STORIES ARE WONDERFULL AND HEARTFELT. MAY GOD GIVE YOU STRENGTH AND THE COURAGE TO MOVE ON. George & Lynn Taylor <llt@dishmail.net> Connersville, IN Fayette - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:57 AM CST Dear Brad and Steph, In the words of many of my students, OMG! You guys are amazing. Alec is beautiful, Aaron is beautiful, Emily is beautiful....and the pictures and scrapbooks are so amazing! God be with you today and always. Love, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> alvord, iA uSA - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:53 AM CST Tears are God's gift to us also. Remember the tears Jesus shed in the garden. So please don't hold back your tears they comfort and hold us close to God. God Bless and keep you all safe during this sad and confusing time and also happy new time with Emily. Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls , SD - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:51 AM CST Alec Donald Ideker Alec was a special child Lent to Brad, Steph and Aaron from God. Everyone who was fortunate to meet Alec Could not help but fall in love with him. Do you know how much we'll miss him, God? Our hearts are heavy that he's gone. Now we're gathered to rejoice in Alec's new life Although our tears are still falling for our loss Longing to hold Alec just one more time. Do you know how much we'll miss him, God? In heaven, Alec is so busy now. Diggin' up worms with Great Grampa to go fishin'. Every day, arms a pumpin' and legs a runnin' Keeping busy practicing his wrestling moves. Evening comes and Alec blows kisses and hugs to Aaron & Emily. Rest in God's care, Alec, until we meet again. Great Aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:49 AM CST You do not know me but i heard of your loss thru another family with caringbridge. i am so sorry for your loss and pray for you. words cannot express the sorrow you must feel and i dont even know what to say. you are in my prayers linda stansbury <lstansbury@humana.com> louisville, ky - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:35 AM CST My prayers are with each and eveyone,knowing this is a hard time ,but keep your eyes on God.I found out through Abbey and Joey Pholf.Candolences to the family. Donna Willen <gerttie1@yahoo.com> Farmland, In USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:32 AM CST May God be your comfort today and in all your tomorrows. Praying for you today. Brenda Huffman <brenhuff@mail.com> Losantville, IN USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 7:17 AM CST My love and candolences to Alex's family and friends. May God see you through these rough times and comfort your mourning. We all know he is with God now. Gregg McCorkhill <justcallmegregg@aol.com> Selma, IN USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 6:10 AM CST My heart goes out to you. Joey and Abby Pholf sent me your story.I just want you to know I am praying for strength for your family in the next few days. Brenda Cox <gl.cox@insightbb.com> Winchester, IN USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 5:27 AM CST I found out about Alec through the Spader's link and have been reading your blog for a while now (Maasa and Rebeka are my cousins). I'm so sorry for your loss and happy for the new miracle Emily. I'm sure your family has touched the lives of hundreds of people around the world. God bless. Emily Minor <emilyminor@yahoo.com> Shanghai, China - Monday, November 5, 2007 5:23 AM CST My daughter, Dawn, forwarded Alec's Caring Bridge Web Site. Her daughter, Kayla Marie Murphy, (my only grand child) has Mito, complex 1. I hesitated reading Alec's story. I already knew the ending, but I just spent hours reading everything. It was mentally exhausting reading it all at once. So many hospitals, emergencies, doctors, etc. We are certainly use to all this too, but yours seemed constant. You are extraordinary parents with wonderful family and friends. My heart aches for your loss, and yet is joyful for the birth of your baby girl. I cannot imagine such timing! I pray for the strength you will need to handle it all. I feel especially sad for Aaron. So young to have to deal with death. God Bless all of you. I send big hugs from New Jersey. Kayla Murphy's Grandmom Joy De Luca <JerZJoy@aol.com> Southampton, NJ USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 0:43 AM CST My daughter, Dawn, forwarded Alec's Caring Bridge Web Site. Her daughter, Kayla Marie Murphy, (my only grand child) has Mito, complex 1. I hesitated reading Alec's story. I already knew the ending, but I just spent hours reading everything. It was mentally exhausting reading it all at once. So many hospitals, emergencies, doctors, etc. We are certainly use to all this too, but yours seemed constant. You are extraordinary parents with wonderful family and friends. My heart aches for your loss, and yet is joyful for the birth of your baby girl. I cannot imagine such timing! I pray for the strength you will need to handle it all. I feel especially sad for Aaron. So young to have to deal with death. God Bless all of you. I send big hugs from New Jersey. Kayla Murphy's Grandmom Joy De Luca <JerZJoy@aol.com> Southampton, NJ USA - Monday, November 5, 2007 0:43 AM CST Dear Children of God, Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Cherish every moment and trust in the Lord. He holds the future as well as your here and now. Rena <mike_rena@hotmail.com> Lebanon, PA - Sunday, November 4, 2007 9:34 PM CST We are so sorry for your loss and will be praying for your family and praising God that your little one is sitting on His lap no longer in pain. The timing of our Lord is amazing!!!!!!!! Our child also has Complex 1 mito and we thank your for sharing your final moments and memories with us. Love in Christ The Unger Family Rob Unger <rob-unger@myway.com> Sullivan, In - Sunday, November 4, 2007 9:25 PM CST I learned of your loss through Ann Eide. I want to express my sincere condolances on your loss. I know how you feel because I have lost my 2 and only precious girls to this ugly disease in the last 5 years. I just looked at your family pictures. What a beautiful family and my tears shed for your precious loss. I have no perfect words of comfort except to tell you that you need to hang on to your faith, even though it is so hard to do so after this. Without my faith, I do not think I would still be alive and yet I am. You are in my prayers for comfort and strength. Suhad Haddad Suhad Haddad <suhad88@hotmail.com> Granada Hills, CA USA - Sunday, November 4, 2007 9:12 PM CST Stephanie, I have been thinking about you a lot these past few days. The last time I signed the guestbook there wasn't a baby yet. Congratulations on your daughter...Emily Dawn...wht a perfect name. She will be the Dawn of many new things to come. Alec passed away on All-Saints Day...he was welcomed into Heaven by many Saints. I agree with someone else who signed the guestbook. Alec went to meet Emily spiritually before she was born. He told her that she is going to be living with the best family (and especially big brother) on Earth. Esme <eapostolou@gillettechildrens.com> Brooklyn Park, MN - Sunday, November 4, 2007 8:33 PM CST Hi. We learned of you through Kynslee White's CB page. I wanted to let you know that I am so very much praying for you and have asked all my friends to do so as well. I know that the array of emotions you must be feeling our GREAT. I pray that God is able to comfort you and to hold you through this time. Congrats though on the joy of you new baby girl! God bless you so much! Mindy Pfohl <pfohl4@hotmail.com> Farmland, IN - Sunday, November 4, 2007 8:26 PM CST I am a friend of Kynslee White's and found your site through her Caring Bridge site. My prayers are with you and your family during this time, as you mourn the loss of your precious son and rejoice in the birth of your daughter. Denise Fisherville, KY USA - Sunday, November 4, 2007 7:44 PM CST I found your site through Kynslee White, and wanted to let you know that I am praying for your family during this time. May God be with you all. Andrea Mt. Washington, Ky - Sunday, November 4, 2007 3:45 PM CST We had a special church service today, although we missed you guys. We learned all about being of service to others...reaching out to others who are going through hard times. April even announced "Happy Birthday" to Grandma Kim. You have such a strong support system with your family and your friends. I hope you have gotten a little bit of rest. I hear that Emily is the MOST BEAUTIFUL baby ever!!!! Give her and Aaron lots of hugs and snuggle them for all of us until we can see them. Love you, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> Alvord, IA USA - Sunday, November 4, 2007 3:08 PM CST The Ideker family You are in my prayers sara lagrange, ga usa - Sunday, November 4, 2007 12:58 AM CST Dear Brad, Stephanie, Aaron, and Emily~I am at a loss as to what to say to you. Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers-I cannot imagine what you must be going through. I do believe though that God had it planned so Alec could be the first one to meet Emily. Know you have a lot of people sending prayers your way! Terilyn Terilyn Peterson www.caringbridge.org/visit/jacksonbradley <irishgemini@gmail.com> Merrillan, WI USA - Sunday, November 4, 2007 12:10 AM CST My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You have one special angel looking over your family now. Congrats on your baby girl. Beth and Kynslee White Beth <Janell630@yahoo.com> Shepherdsville, KY USA - Sunday, November 4, 2007 11:31 AM CST I'm so sorry for your loss! you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Alec was very loved by me and the other staff here at sanford. He will be missed! Amber C. RN Sioux Falls, SD - Sunday, November 4, 2007 9:55 AM CST Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Emily, My thoughts and prayers are with you all. The new blessing you received will never replace the one you lost and Alec was a blessing. Aaron, you were the best brother anyone could have, and you will be the best one for Emily also.. give her hugs and kisses and tell her stories of her brother she was not able to be a part of..I pray you all can find some peace after awhile, as losing a loved one is very difficult and you need to take care of yourself also. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to call.. I make a good babysitter and may have a few stickers Aaron... Jean Eggers <jeaneggers@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD - Sunday, November 4, 2007 7:37 AM CST Stephanie,Brad,Aaron,and Emily, I saw this beautiful face in the paper today... that brought me such sadness, I am so sorry. But your right Aaron, I bet Alec is having ice-cream with Jesus. It was a great privilege taking care of Alec, and I will always remember. See you tomorrow. Shelley Shelley <shelleyj4@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, S.D. - Saturday, November 3, 2007 11:52 PM CDT I wanted you to know that you're in my heart and although I am saddened by the death of Alec, I know what a gift you gave him, that of a wonderful loving and caring family. He was a cherished child, just as Aaron and Emily(congratulations) are. May God's love surround all of you. Dee from Make A Wish Dee Grosz <ddgrosz@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, South Dakota - Saturday, November 3, 2007 11:51 PM CDT I wanted you to know that you're in my heart and although I am saddened by the death of Alec, I know what a gift you gave him, that of a wonderful loving and caring family. He was a cherished child, just as Aaron and Emily(congratulations) are. May God's love surround all of you. Dee from Make A Wish Dee Grosz <ddgrosz@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, South Dakota - Saturday, November 3, 2007 11:50 PM CDT Brad, Steph and family, So sorry to hear about the loss of Alec. We met him once, at the family reunion and he instantly had an incredible impact. Our hearts go out to you as God holds you. Bless little miss Emily Dawn and her big brothers. The Berens' --Scott, Lisa, Trenten and Kaylie <scott.berens@comcast.net> Golden, CO USA - Saturday, November 3, 2007 8:45 PM CDT Congratulations on the birth of Emily Dawn! I am very excited for you that there is a new person to share in the overabundance of love your family has. I know deep in my heart that Alec is smiling in Heaven knowing he has a new baby sister. Melanie Winer <wintermelanie@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Saturday, November 3, 2007 8:03 PM CDT Brad,Steph and family, Congrats on the new little mircale. Emily and Aaron will always have their special guardian angel watching them. The Kruse's <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hils, - Saturday, November 3, 2007 5:46 PM CDT Brad and Steph, I am so sorry for your loss. Alec was an amazing kid. Although timing was ironic with the birth of Emily and the loss of Alec, remember God does everything for a reason. Even though we don't know why sometimes, HE is always right and with his love and guidance you will get through this difficult time. Although you ache for Alec, be joyous in the birth of Emily. My heart and prayers go out to you and your entire family. Heather <hschenkel@hotmail.com> - Saturday, November 3, 2007 5:01 PM CDT Do you not think God timed Alec's healing so that he could meet his sister in God's world and become part of her being before sending her down to our world? I think this is a blessing beyond our comprehension. Enjoy your family as it has grown in so many ways. Cathy Pepin - Saturday, November 3, 2007 4:41 PM CDT brad steph and family we are so sorry for the loss of your son, you and your family have touched soooo many lifes you truly are doing Gods will.His plan is not always easy but he is right there to help you thought it no matter what. we grieve with you on your loss and we rejoice with you on the birth of your new daughter. Gods timing is perfect (even when we can not figure it out.) Take care and our prayeres will continue to be with you all. mike and kathy moser kathy moser <mikekathymoser@hotmail.com> larchwood, ia usa - Saturday, November 3, 2007 3:12 PM CDT Sending lots of love to your amazing family. Alec will live on in you and through your children. Congratulations on the birth of your new baby girl. The joy she brings will never take away the loss of your son but she will bring so many new memories to cherish. My thoughts and strength are with your family. Sarah Boucher <sarahalisonbou@yahoo.ca> Fredericton, NB Canada - Saturday, November 3, 2007 3:00 PM CDT To the Idecker Family- This morning I learned of Alec's passing away and cannot truly imagine the pain you must are going through. I am praying that God will hold you with utmost care and comfort you today and in the days that follow. With Love, Ann Eide & Heartbeats For Mito <AnnE02@cableone.net> Columbus, MS USA - Saturday, November 3, 2007 9:43 AM CDT I am so very sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing that Alec is in his eternal home, at peace. May you find comfort in the memories you have of your days with him. God bless, Karla and Chris Krogmann (Trista Moss's aunt) Karla Krogmann <karla_krogmann@hotmail.com> - Saturday, November 3, 2007 9:42 AM CDT We are thinking of Alec and know that life must feel so different. I know that he will live on & on in your lives and has changed the way you will live. Our thoughts are with you as you mourn the loss of your beautiful boy welcome your new girl into the family. The Price Family <eneprice@verizon.net> Wayland, MA - Saturday, November 3, 2007 8:46 AM CDT We are sorry for your loss. We only got to meet him once and knew he was very special. We also want to congratulate you on your new little girl. She will also be very special to you. Kevin and Lynn Berens <lynnberens@msn.com> Castle Rock, Co - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:30 PM CDT do you know what i thought of today?? steph- remember the chocolate incident? i felt so stupid about that one. and then there was the picc line....i can't even tell you how bad i felt about that. i was sure you were done with me then! thank you for allowing me to continue to care for alec and be part of your family! he was so lucky to have you! jen <jenhuber28@hotmail.com> - Friday, November 2, 2007 10:51 PM CDT Sorry for your loss. Also congrats to your new baby girl. We are praying for you and your family to help you get through this hard time. My son Zack has just got diagnosed with mito but don't know what strand. If you just need to talk you can call me at any time or email me. 636-337-5019 www.caringbridge.org/visit/mylilangel05 Wendy,Scott,Zachary Perrin <mylilangel05@gmail.com> Desoto, Mo USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 9:21 PM CDT We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this sad time. Kelli and Jeff Morton <babybear12@bellsouth.net> Westminster, SC USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 8:59 PM CDT The outpouring of love from everyone is a tribute to the kind of people you and Brad are. You have truly shown the love of "Our Father" towad Alec and have been gifted with Emily Dawn as a tibute to that love. Judy and I are are in awe of the stength you have shown through this long stuggle and are example to all of us. God will bless you and your family for many generations be cause of the love you have shown. Ken & Judy Scholten <kvscholten@academic.com> Cyoress , Tx - Friday, November 2, 2007 7:41 PM CDT Brad and Steph I was sadden to hear of Alec's passing and didn't know quite what to say. Although we didn't talk to often you guys were always in my thoughts and prays. We have shared the same heartache of being told that a child that seemed to be born healthy was never going to walk or talk. Even thought it's still hard to believe that Alec is gone, there's joy in knowing he is free from pain and Aaron and Emily have a guardian angel looking down on them. I wanted to post this poem, it seems to fit your family so well. Heaven's Very Special Child A meeting was held quite far from earth, "It's time again for another birth." Said the Angels to the Lord above, "This special child will need much love." His progress may seem very slow, Accomplishments he may not show; And he'll require extra care From the folks he meets down there. He may not run or laugh or play. His thoughts may seem quite far away. In many ways he won't adapt, And he'll be known as handicapped. So let's be careful where he's sent; We want his life to be content. Please, Lord, find the Parents who Will do a special job for You. They will not realize it right away The leading role they're asked to play. But with this child sent from above Comes stronger faith and richer love. And soon they'll know the privilege given In caring for this gift from heaven. Their precious charge, so meek and mild Is Heaven's Very Special Child. Summer Jesse mom to Ryland <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com> Hartford, SD US - Friday, November 2, 2007 7:33 PM CDT Dear Idecker Family, We were so very sorry to hear of your loss. Alex was a very special gift. GOD bless your new baby girl. GOD has brought her to you when you needed her the most. May you find peace and strength through one another. Chris , Carrie, Kaitlyn, Sarah, Charlie Beaner <cbeaner@comcast.net> Jordan, MN Scott - Friday, November 2, 2007 7:30 PM CDT Congratulations on the birth of little Emily Dawn! What a precious, precious gift from our loving heavenly Father. We know Alec is rejoicing with you about his new little sister. Take care of yourselves in the next few days. You have so much going on but God will carry you through. All of our love to you and your family! Le Roy and Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Friday, November 2, 2007 7:11 PM CDT God's timing is perfect. Our deepest sympathy on the loss of Alec. We know that he is playing, smiling and happy in Heaven. Congratulations of the birth of your precious miracle, Emily Dawn. The meaning behind her name is priceless. You are such an inspiration to many. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Susan Long <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood , Ia Lyon - Friday, November 2, 2007 6:42 PM CDT Oh my goodness! I have massive tears running down my face reading your latest entry (11-2). I am crying tears of joy and of sorrow. But mostly joy for I know you all cherished the precious time you had with Alec and now get to enjoy your newest gift from God, baby Emily! I am so excited for you! I know you have the strength to make it through this emotional time of planning the celebration of Alec's life as well as celebrating your family's newest addition...I am and will continue to pray for you guys! Much love and take care... Heather Knobloch <heather_knobloch@yahoo.com> Hanford, CA - Friday, November 2, 2007 5:48 PM CDT Praise God for all your blessings. I know that may be very difficult right now, balancing both your loss and your joy. Both of your children are blessings from God and will both now and the future provide you with love and insight forever. Alec's struggle shows true courage from one so small. He was a true inspiration to life with extreme difficulty. I admire your true courage too Steph. You have been a rock through all of this and God's blessed you again with Emily. Everyone who knows you knows that this has been a trial beyond comprehension. Enjoy that new little girl in the midst of your tears. Alec is certainly a guardian angel now and will be with you forever. Vicki Rath <rath@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Ia USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 5:37 PM CDT Hey Idekers, (ballgames) I am not sure what to say. I am very sorry for your loss, and very happy for your new little girl,Emily Ballgame. I dont think there are words to say to make anything make sense right now, but know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers and if you ever need anything dont be afraid to call me. John Redenius (Johnny Ballgame) <rrdslaven@aol.com> - Friday, November 2, 2007 5:10 PM CDT Isn't our sovereign God absolutely amazing! When I think of all you have been through I am comforted to know that "The Lord is faithful to all his promises, and loving toward all he has made. The Lord upholds all those who fall and lifts up all who are bowed down." Psalm 145:13-14. As you are bowed down in grief over the loss of Alec and missing him more than you think your heart can bear, our prayer for your family is that you can also look up and see that in your grief, God has given you the precious gift of life to remind you of His promise of new life to us all someday! I hope you have felt our constant prayers and may the same Hand that is so gently holding Alec today hold you up now. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. Your example and your beautiful atttitude toward Alec's condition and all it involved has been an example and encouragement to me. We love you and look forward to seeing you soon!!! A special hello and hug to Aaron from Megan (his VBS pal) Beth Feuchtenberger <bfeuchtenberger@eidebailly.com> Alvord, IA - Friday, November 2, 2007 4:37 PM CDT Dear Idekers: What a week you have just endured. God truly does know how to place things. You were able to spend the time you needed with Alec and when God was ready to take him home, he blessed you with a beautiful daughter. My heart goes out to you with sadness and happiness all at once. My prayers are with you. Carol Van Houten <carolvanhou@hotmail.com> - Friday, November 2, 2007 3:20 PM CDT Alec is at peace now and we continue to hold your family in our prayers that you will also feel that peace. Chuck and Linda Andersen <lindacandersen@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD Minn - Friday, November 2, 2007 3:09 PM CDT First of all I am so sorry for the loss of Alec, he will always be your special Angel, but as you said in your last entry you must celebrate his life as he has touched many...Secondly congratulations on the birth of your daughter, I can't wait to meet her as well, and I know she will be as special as her brothers are, you are such a special family and I admire everything you do, congrats! Heather Lorenzen <jhgk@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 3:04 PM CDT Congratulations on the birth of your daughter. I am sure Alec was the first one to meet his new baby sister. And what wonderful stories he must have shared with her. Isn't it comforting to know your special little angel has already put his mark on Emily. God bless you as the emotions run rapid in your family. But know that Alec will always be with you. Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey and Bailee Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 3:00 PM CDT I'm so sorry to hear that Alec is no longer with you, you must miss him terribly. Congratulations on the birth of Emily, I hope you are able to enjoy her. Stacey and Sheldon Fleming http://www3.caringbridge.org/ny/sheldonf/ Milton, NY - Friday, November 2, 2007 2:52 PM CDT Congratulations Idekers! Wow. We can't wait to meet Emily! You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers... Todd, Rebecca, and Katie Schultz <Rebecca.Schultz@usiouxfalls.edu> Harrisburg, SD - Friday, November 2, 2007 2:40 PM CDT Congratulations! i can't wait until i can start flooding emily with stories of her big brother!!! i miss my little buddy so much...words can't even describe it. for 10 hrs a day i was able to be with and care for him.... i'm lost! thank you for that opportunity!! as the time passes, i think of what we would be doing now in our daily routine. i was so looking forward to helping take care of you and the baby while you recover, watching how alec would react with her and seeing how his jealousy would show! did you know that i can sing all 27 of those barney songs?? and alec didn't care how bad of a singer i was!! the more i sang, the bigger his smile got and the more he looked at me! maybe he was actually laughing at me and giving me the look to stop singing!! I sure hope emily grows to like barney and that cd! know that i love you guys and that you've touched my life more than you know!! jen <jenhuber28@hotmail.com> - Friday, November 2, 2007 2:33 PM CDT Tears of joy at the birth of your precious baby girl & the wonderful timing God truly has! In such a short period of time, you have experienced a very great loss, but at the same time, a gift of wonderful gain. One day, you'll look back on these days & stand in awe of God's plan for your family. Each of you is absolutely amazing! May God grant each of you a heart of peace in the midst of so many emotions of grief & joy. We continue to learn so much from your family, so we thank you for allowing us all to enter into your lives! Our love & continued prayers for each of you, Mitch, Amy, Hayley & Evy Great big hugs to you all! Mitch & Amy Knoblock <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> - Friday, November 2, 2007 1:56 PM CDT Congratulations on your new baby girl! She is blessed to have such a wonderful family. The timing is unbelievable, but you sound like you know it's God's will and only he knows why. I can't imagine how your handling all of this. I know it can't be easy. God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 1:51 PM CDT I have only just met you and read of your story as I linked here through Taryn's site but how my heart aches for you. I cannot imagine the processing of emotions that you are experiencing right now with the unthinkable loss of your precious son and the wonder of life in your precious daughter. Please know that I am lifting you all up in many prayers!! You have my deepest sympathies and respect as you travel this journey. God Bless You. www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaacsimpact Lisa Lawton <isaacsimpact@hotmail.com> Louisville, KY - Friday, November 2, 2007 1:28 PM CDT Dear Idekers, God granted yet another miracle to you. Three little Ideker beauties, each special in their own way. Although God chose to call one of them home sooner than any of us wanted, it is a comfort to know that God is with you and all of us who grieve for Alec. We will sure miss that little guy, and we've shed so many tears at our house in the last 24 hours. God Bless you on the birth of Emily. May it help ease your pain to know that Mom, Dad, Aaron and Emily have a beautiful guardian angel running, playing, dancing and singing in Heaven! We love you and pray for your continued strength. The Langenhorsts Rachel Langenhorst <rlangenh@rvcsd.org> Larchwood, IA - Friday, November 2, 2007 12:20 AM CDT Emily Dawn, what a pretty name. I know Alec would have loved to see his little sister but something tells me he is lookind down on her and is so happy for all of you. He would have made a very good big brother. Know that my prayers and sympathies are still with your little Alec but I also have to say congratulations on your new beautiful little Emily. Be sure and take care of yourself because all of these emotions at the same time could get very confusing for all of you. You know Jesus is looking after you and you have so much faith so I know that will help you to sort everything out. God Bless all of you and keep you all safe. Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls , SD - Friday, November 2, 2007 12:15 AM CDT As I read this journal entry all I could think was Alec must have had this planned because he knew you would miss him so much. God was just by his side with open arms and a beautiful gift of your new daughter. What an awesome name, Alec is a proud big brother. My prayers and thoughts are with your family. karen brubaker www.caringbridge.org/wa/love4justin <karenbrbkr@yahoo.com> Olympia, wa - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:58 AM CDT Brad, Steph, Aaron and Emily, WOW is all I can say! You have fully trusted God for his perfect timing, and perfect it was. You were able to be home to spend every minute with Alec, turn around and welcome your new little girl, allow Caleb to play his football game Saturday, and celebrate Alec's life with friends and family on Monday. I wept when I heard of the birth of your precious little girl. Aaron's prayers for a sister have been answered. God is good. When I read her middle name, "Dawn", I immediately remembered the verse...."Weeping may last for a night, but joy comes in the morning"......and indeed "she" did. I love you guys and marvel at your strength and unfailing love and devotion to your family and your God. God continue to bless you and yours. Love, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> Alvord, IA USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:51 AM CDT Congratulations! Welcome Emily Dawn. You are born to a wonderful, loving family. You have a very special brother watching over you in heaven. Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:38 AM CDT As I sit here and try to find the right words to say, I will just tell you that I am praying for you and your family. The girls have been saying a special prayer at night after their bedtime prayer for you and we will continue to do so. Allow us to uplift you and give you the strength you need...enjoy you new little one as she has come to you with Alec's spirit within her. If you need anything let us know...as for now we will continue to pray for all of you. Karla, Courtney and Riley Knobloch <kmknob84@yahoo.com> Lester, IA - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:38 AM CDT Stephanie, Brad, Aaron, and Emily Congratulations on the birth of Emily. What a beautiful name you have chosen. I am sure that Alec is looking down from heaven and smiling. Just know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all. Don, Lori, Kari, and Katie Lems <llems@west-lyon.k12.ia.us> Larchwood, IA - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:32 AM CDT Brad, Stephanie and Aaron Congratulations on the birth of your new baby girl. Your family continues to be in my thoughts everyday. Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:25 AM CDT Congratulations on your new baby girl Emily Dawn. What a beautiful name. I'm sure big brother Alec is smiling down on her and your family. May you find some peace and joy as you face a difficult road ahead. Give Emily and Aaron a big hug and kiss from us. Love, Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:16 AM CDT My heart breaks for your family, I can't imagion the pain you must feel.....I am SO SORRY for your loss! May God be with you :) Enjoy your new baby girl! Lots of Love and prayers sent your way. Zach West's friend Amie Amie Wollin <awollin@shakopee.k12.mn.us> new prague, mn - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:08 AM CDT Although I have not met you (I am a co-worker of Leslie), I have been touched by Alec and your family's trials. Nineteen years ago our first born son died in my arms and revisiting that pain is almost unbearable. Even after this much time, however, our son is in my thoughts daily so I offer to you the comfort of knowing you will never forget. His short time on earth will make sense to you one day. He is at peace now and I pray you will be patient while you wait for your own personal peace as well. God chose Alec to fulfill something that we may not yet understand but I have faith it will someday become clear. Joni <jonihoffman4@hotmail.com> Brandon, SD - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:07 AM CDT Congrats on your baby girl! I agree she does have a special angel watching over her! We are thinking and praying about you. Rachele, Marc, Zach and Carson <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Jordan, MN - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:06 AM CDT Wow, God works in remarkable ways, congrats on lifes precious people CHILDREN... love the name. Nick Driscoll <www.ottogolf36@aol.com> Hartford , sd use - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:00 AM CDT Congratulations on the birth of your daughter... She now has her big brother watching over her, her own personal angel. Prayers to all of you In this emotional ride you must be on. The Landrums' <Landrum.j@hotmail.com> Ankeny, Ia USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 11:00 AM CDT Stephanie, Brad and Aaron Congratulations on the new baby. God works in mysterious ways.... We hope one of us can make it up there on Monday, but know that you are continuously in our prayers. Brad and Salena Reimer <reimer606@msn.com> Johnston, IA - Friday, November 2, 2007 10:55 AM CDT Congratulations Brad & Stephanie! What a mix of emotions. I am so happy for you guys on the birth of your baby girl, Emily, but also have so much sorrow, as I still don't want to believe that Alec will no longer be with us. Embrace each other & I hope to see you soon. Love to all! Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, November 2, 2007 10:53 AM CDT Wow-I am just sitting here in tears reading your latest entry. Contratulations on you new baby girl-love the middle name. You have our deepest sympathy in the loss of Alec. I can't even imagine your roller coaster of emotions. Please give Aaron a special hug, we have been praying extra hard for that little guy!! Take care of yourselves and know that we are thinking of you and praying for your family!! Wes, Dawn, Logan, Jaxon and Carson Meyer <dawn.meyer@novartis.com> Alvord, IA usa - Friday, November 2, 2007 10:47 AM CDT My deepest sympathy to your family. My prayers are for God to help you through this difficult time. Lois Smith (friend of Marlys) <grammax8@hickorytech.net> Rock Rapids, IA. US - Friday, November 2, 2007 10:46 AM CDT Our deepest prayers of sympathy and love reach out to you and your family. May God's peace carry you through this most difficult time. Dietrich and Lex Knobloch <dlbbknob@speednet.com> - Friday, November 2, 2007 10:30 AM CDT Many prayers for Strength and Hope Travis, Shannon, & Journey <dwirets@alliancecom.net> Hills, MN US - Friday, November 2, 2007 10:27 AM CDT I am truly sorry for your loss and having a newphew with the same disorder and my sister in-law ready to deliver in December I can only imagine what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He truly was a beautiful boy. God Bless you all. Lisa <southflagirl@bellsouth.net> Pembroke Pines, FL - Friday, November 2, 2007 9:53 AM CDT I am so sorry to hear of your loss and my heartfelt sympathies go out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all. Deb Kes (friend of Bonnie Luskey) Deb Kes <deb.kes@biworldwide.com> - Friday, November 2, 2007 9:41 AM CDT Brad,Steph,Aaron: We are sadden by the loss of Alec. Our thoughts and prayers goes out to you and your family for this difficult time. We will be praying for you for a healthy delivery. Remember when you seen a penny on the ground it's not for luck, it's your angel Alec stopping by and letting you know he is watching over all of you and missing you. You both did a great job with Alec. Thinking of you....Tammy,Tristan,Tonya,Travis,Brandy, (Dalton) Tammy Ideker <tammysworldsd@yahoo.com> Camano Island, WA USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 8:58 AM CDT Along with our thoughts and prayers,I will offer you this.."A childs love is unending and never fails to bring light in dim situations" Children and there love is a blessing Nick Jody, Lauryn, Jordyn, and Morgyn Driscoll <www.ottogolf36@aol.com> Harftord, sd usa - Friday, November 2, 2007 8:55 AM CDT I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Alec. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. www.caringbridge.org/visit/Kaylamurphy Dawn Havre de Grace, MD - Friday, November 2, 2007 8:52 AM CDT Just wanted to say how sorry I am for all of you.. You were marvelous parents and a wonderful brother.. You will miss him deaply.. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.. take care and try to get some rest also Stephanie and Brad.. if there is anything I can do, please let me know Jean Eggers <jeaneggers@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, sd - Friday, November 2, 2007 8:15 AM CDT May God bring you comfort during this very difficult time...we found you through our mutual friend Zach West. Jessica Dahms Gavin's Page <jessdahms@Hotmail.com> Marshall, MN - Friday, November 2, 2007 8:08 AM CDT I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. For someone who is hardly ever at a lack for words, words seem so empty right now I know. God Bless you and I pray that His strength and Grace surrounds your every move and thought. I think my Bekah recognized Alec as soon as he entered the gates! I know how much you want just one more day. I wish you much peace and know that I am praying for your family. Love, Andy, Kristi, and Sam Cooley mom of ^Bekah^ Complex 1 March 5, 2004- August 23, 2007 Kristi Cooley <KCooleyRN@aol.com> Cleveland, TN USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 8:02 AM CDT God Bless Alec...your family is in my prayers. Jamie MacDougall <jmacdougall5@wideopenwest.com> trenton, mi usa - Friday, November 2, 2007 7:58 AM CDT I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. Chuck McNeil <charlesjmcneil@yahoo.com> Wilmington, Ma USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 6:44 AM CDT You are in out thoughts and prayers.Words can not express the feelings that I feel for your family.Love you guys.... Nick and Jody Driscoll <www.ottogolf36@aol.com> Hartford , SD USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 6:36 AM CDT It's me again. I just woke up thinking about you guys and the tears won't stop flowing. I finally had a minute with no interruptions and I think it just really hit me. What always seemed so far away has happened and the reality of it is unbelievable. Alec was taken on All Saints Day, and that he truly was, a saint. I went to church last night and it was such a different mindset than the usual All Saints Day Mass. There are so many more saints on this earth than anybody realizes, and Alec is one of them. Our children are truly saints for all they've had to endure, but the reward in heaven will be great for them. Thank God we have the faith we do, because without it I can't imagine how much more difficult this would be. God Bless and call if you need anything! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 5:39 AM CDT My heart aches for all that you and your family are going though. You will remain in my thoughts. Mito group lurker - Friday, November 2, 2007 5:37 AM CDT Oh my heart breaks for you guys. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. I am so sorry. With Love and many many thoughts The Fogels www.caringbridge.org/visit/taryn debbie fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net> corona, ca usa - Friday, November 2, 2007 4:30 AM CDT Steph,Brad&Aaron May the peace of God be with you now and especially in the days to come.You are in my prayers daily. Judy VerMeer <judy.vermeer@novartis.com> Lester, IA USA - Friday, November 2, 2007 0:45 AM CDT Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of deep sorrow. May GOD's love surround and comfort you. I bet Alec is enjoying his newly found freedom and his new body in heaven. Who knows, maybe he'll even be allowed to 'wrestle'. Allen, Janna, Cody, Justin, Tanner & Zachary Severson <ajseverson@svtv.com > Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:24 PM CDT With my Deepest Sympathy to the Idecker Family. I only wish I could take away some of the pain for you. I want the loving words that people write in this guestbook to soak into your minds and hearts. You must believe that Alec was so loved...look how many people are trying to comfort you from all over the United States. (there is one positive thing for computers). I know it is hard to understand the "Why", but God does have a plan. It stinks because as humans we always want to know which way we are going, but we need to let God be the driver, not us. I want to wish you all the best with your new baby. It will be hard, I am sure, but remember to cherish the new life that will be given to you to raise on this Earth. I hope that Aaron is able to get through this, as well. Alec is in great Hands and will look down on you all and let you know he is OK. Watch for a rainbow, a snowflake, a gentle breeze, a bright star...all the beautiful things in life....it will be Alec! Esme Apostolou (Gillette Triage Nurse) <eapostolou@gillettechildrens.com> Brooklyn Park, MN - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:58 PM CDT I am sorry to hear about your loss. We will be praying for you and for your coming labor/delivery, and birth soon to come. I will pray for God to bring comfort and strength. www.caringbridge.org/mitomomof9 (Asenath and Zipporrah) Darla Klein <honeybear50317@msn.com> Des Moines, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:47 PM CDT Our thoughts are with you all....we are so very sorry to hear of Alec's passing. He is safe in The Arm's tonight...resting peacefully... We pray for your peace now too. Aaron and Betsy Andersen <aaronbetsyandersen@hotmail.com> Sioux Falls, SD 57106 - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:42 PM CDT I cant imagine the pain your feeling but just know that alot of people across the US care and are praying for your family. Not sure what else to say besides your in my thoughts and prayers. Meisha Lemon <meisha_tori_izzy@hotmail.com> Wichita, ks US - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:16 PM CDT Steph & Family- I'm so very sorry to read about Alec's passing. I know your emotions all too well. I know it is a mixture of joy in knowing Alec is now seizure free for eternity, but I also know the deep sadness that comes with wanting to kiss his cheeks and hold him- just one more time. A piece of you and your husband is now in heaven and forever there. Alec without a doubt knows how loved he is by his mother and father and family. Know that Alec will never be forgotten- your brave fight will always be an example to others. I pray for you to feel Grace surround your family and hold you up. Please know I am here. Talking with other moms who have been through this has been the best thing for me. Much love and admiration, Leslie & Family (Morgan Reynolds, 5/12/04-12/16/06 - Complex IV) Leslie Reynolds <rey7@bellsouth.net> Roswell, GA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:05 PM CDT Brad & Stephanie our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time in your life. Let the good lord guide you through this trying time and know that Alec is at peace tonite with him in heaven. the memories you all made together with alec will last a lifetime. God Bless you all. Andy & Lisa Storms <shypoke@excite.com> Rapid City, SD US - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:04 PM CDT Idekers, We are so sorry to hear about your loss. May God comfort your hearts during this difficult time. Know that we are praying for you. Take care and God Bless. Kurtis Myrlie and Miranda Roth <kurtismyrlie@hotmail.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:04 PM CDT Steph and Family - I do not know the right words for you right now. Please know that I am praying for your continued strength and faith. I pray for a healthy delivery for both you and baby. Anne Peters <annepeters@excite.com> Brandon, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:10 PM CDT Brad, Stephanie and Aaron, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Chris & Cheryl Newton <cherylnewton11@comcast.net> Arvada, CO - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:56 PM CDT Praying for peace and comfort during this time. sara lagrange, ga usa - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:52 PM CDT Your family is in my prayers, especially for strength, peace and comfort. Jennifer, a Texas prayer bear <texasprayerbear@yahoo.com or sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Bridgeport, Texas - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:18 PM CDT i feel so lost without alec. how am i going to get those barney songs out of my head that we listened to after his baths?!?! he never did get tired of barney singing to him every morning! remember when i first started and he would only nap in his tumbleform sitting right next to me?? and then it was only in your bed! even though he never told me in words what he wanted, he let it be known until i'd get it just right for him! - even if it did mean taking a few naps snuggled up with him! jen <jenhuber28@hotmail.com> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:13 PM CDT All of our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs your way. Jen Boutwell (mom to Zach) <jboutwell@bellsouth.net> Suwanee, GA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 7:50 PM CDT I am so sorry. My heart is aching for all of you. Hugging and praying for all of you. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@embarqmail.com> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 7:25 PM CDT Praying that God gives you peace and comfort during this time and always. Keep the faith that God's plan is perfect and may He show you a glimpse of His glory in an amazing way. I am so sorry for all that you are having to endure. Alex is and will always be an amazing treasure. In God's Love, Mindy Welhouse www.caringbridge.org/visit/elenashope Mindy Welhouse <mwelhouse3@new.rr.com > Kimberly, WI - Thursday, November 1, 2007 7:23 PM CDT My thoughts are with you. I will send peaceful energy your direction. Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.com> Rush, Co - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:43 PM CDT My prays go out to you and your family. He is deeply love but now you know he is laughing , running , playing, and having a good time and pain free. He will be sadly missed but we will see him someday. Jessica , Jeff and Nicole Goody <merk93@yahoo.com> Northern Cambria , Pa USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:42 PM CDT Idekers - I am so sorry to hear of Alec's passing. You are in my thoughts. May you find strength at this time in all the wonderful memories you created! Peace Lacey Seefeldt <lacey_anns@yahoo.com > - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:17 PM CDT I am so happy that Alec was able to go to heaven peacefully and painlessly. He truly touched my heart and helped me grow not only as a person but taught me how to be a better therapist. He helped me to learn things I had never learned before, switches, alternative communication devices. These are all things I had never had the opportunity to learn about before I was so fortunate to work with Alec. The thing that touched me the most was that he could speak to me with his eyes. I could have a thousand dollar switch that he wouldn't move his head to activate (he could be very strong willed) but I knew if he was enjoying what we were doing in therapy by watching his beautiful eyes. They sparkled when he was happy and he was very happy in preschool. He loved watching the kids and having them play with him. We will miss him, we already do miss him. Thank you so much for the balloons today. It was very nice. The kids loved him, we all loved him. I just know that Alec is sliding down slides, singing songs and playing with kids in heaven. God Bless you. Teresa Brandsrud <brand@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:16 PM CDT Brad, Steph, and Aaron, You are in my thoughts and I have been lifting your family up several times in prayer today. Your faith is so strong and I know that you will get through this difficult time knowing that JESUS has his arms around you! Please let us know if you need anything!!! I wish I was there right now to give you all a hug! Remember that all of your church family loves you!!! I will truly miss seeing "little Alec." I loved watching him during "singing time" at Sunday School! (I know that he was singing along at times!!!) You had some wonderful memories with Alec and they will forever stay in your hearts! May this new little baby truly be a blessing to you all. I pray that you may be at peace now. We will see you soon. Love ya guys! Dar, Birdo, and girls Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:03 PM CDT Steph, I cry for you and I cry for Alec. I cry for what sorrow you are feeling and for what you have had to endure. I cry for Alec and things that he "missed" in his short time on earth. Yet.. I rejoice with you and I rejoice with Alec. You have gained so much more than any of us can understand by being Alec's mommy! You know what it truly means to experience God's Providence and Grace. I rejoice for Alec and his new body he now has in heaven! He doesn't feel pain, he doesn't need medications - he just gets to LIVE, play and be with Jesus. What a blessing for Alec. We continue to pray for you, and your family through the weeks ahead. We pray for comfort and for the new baby who is about to bring joy into your lives. God Bless you! Devin, Nickkie & Autumn Nickkie Hoekstra <dnhoek@mtcnet.net> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 5:28 PM CDT Wings - freedom that Alec has never known. How appropriate for you to share his passing that way Stephanie. I wish I was there to give you a hug and wipe away some tears. Now remember to take care of yourself and baby #3. I bet Brad and Aaron would love to do that if you just let them. You all remain in our thoughts and prayers. Sue Peters Sioux Falls , SD United States - Thursday, November 1, 2007 5:15 PM CDT I can only send you my deepest sympathies at this time. I wish that there was something that we can do for you, but I know that there is not. At the very least, we know that this is not a good-bye but a see you later. One day you will see Alec again at the gates of heaven and he will be gloriously healed and whole. Until then he will have an entire flock of angels to play with and he will be watching over you all. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. ~From a headstone in Ireland Abigail Vetter <abvetter28@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/visit/carolineruby> West Fargo, ND - Thursday, November 1, 2007 4:45 PM CDT Hi, I don't know you but Rachele Lacount gave me this website. Rachele's son and my son both have the same disease, INAD and I have recently met her. My heart goes out to you in your pain. I can tell you have a deep faith and that is what will sustain you. Alec is an inspiration to all of us as well as your family (including people who have not met you in person). Your love for him, and his for you, will never die. God Bless you! Kristi Ose Kristi <osefam@insightbb.com> Goshen, KY - Thursday, November 1, 2007 4:44 PM CDT Thinking of you during this diffuclt time. www.caringbridge.org/visit/stefbarber Stef <stefbarber@shaw.ca> Victoria, BC Canada - Thursday, November 1, 2007 4:14 PM CDT A friend of mine emailed this to me and I just wanted you to know that I will pray for you to heal and understand. I will also pray for you to have a good delivery and a healthy baby. I dont even know you or Alec but you have all touched me just by reading this. God Bless you!!!!! Jennifer <jennifer.mitsos@st-bh.com> Spearfish, SD Lawrence - Thursday, November 1, 2007 4:14 PM CDT Ideckers, Your strength and courage have been an inspiration to so many. Please know that our family will continue to keep yours in our prayers. Brian, Michelle, Caleb, Chelsea, Cade and Carter Tilstra <tilly@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 4:08 PM CDT The fall picture at the beginning of this site is great. What a terrific memory for you! Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 4:06 PM CDT Our thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of Alec. It is so hard to lose a loved one but you now can picture him being in heaven with Jesus! And then remember all of the wonderful memories you have of times spent with Alec! I am sure you would not want to give up any of them. God gives special kids to special people. We do not ever know the length of time God will give us on this earth. But we do know He is there to help us at all times. What a blessing you and your family have been to so many people. Your journal entries not only help you through this situation but help others too. Please know that you have many many friends whom you have never met who are thinking of you at this time! Please take care of yourself. God will give you the new baby in His time. The new baby will be a wonderful blessing. But the new baby will not ease the hurt of losing Alec. We know you will let this little one know of the angel in heaven that is watching over him/her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 4:03 PM CDT just wanted to send hugs and love from our home to yours sorry for your loss and may all youhave a head be nothing more but a gentle breeze he was a beautiful child and forunate to have you julianna's mommy <nena1294@aol.com> hamilton, nj usa - Thursday, November 1, 2007 3:44 PM CDT we are praying for your family and wishing the news we've heard wasn't true. gena atcher <atcherboy@iowatelecom.net> nevada, ia usa - Thursday, November 1, 2007 3:41 PM CDT We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Your family has been so strong and so inspirational to so many people. We are praying for God's comfort and peace for you during this time! Wayne, Angie, Brooklyn, and Benjamin Meyer Larchwood, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 3:04 PM CDT Turk and family, I am sorry to hear about Alec. You are in my prayers. Todd Herrmann <herrmann.todd@gmail.com> Dallas, TX - Thursday, November 1, 2007 2:52 PM CDT Praying for you and your family. So sorry to hear of Alec's passing but am giving thanks that he went peacefully surrounded by family. May God continue to bless you and your family. I can just imagine Alec running, playing and laughing in heaven. Janis Chaska, MN USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 2:37 PM CDT Praying for you and your family. So sorry to hear of Alec's passing but am giving thanks that he went peacefully surrounded by family. May God continue to bless you and your family. I can just imagine Alec running, playing and laughing in heaven. Janis <Janid731@aol.com> Chaska, MN USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 2:37 PM CDT I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious angel. My thoughts & prayers go out to you. I lost a baby in Jan 1991...if you ever need to talk ... or just cry I am here. HUGS Kelli Dietrich (Elisangels) http://amandajo.memory-of.com Kelli Dietrich <dietrichclan@charter.net> Austin, MN USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 2:35 PM CDT I have been checking in for awhile now. I was directed to your site by Tina Wagner. I am so so sorry for your loss. I pray peace and comfort, strength and renewed hearts for you, your family and all who loved Alec. He is a cutie for sure. Love his smile. What a cherished picture to have. May God hold you tight and His presence be felt like never before in your daily lives. God bless!!! Kim Bidwell <kimkbidwell@gmail.com> North mankato, MN - Thursday, November 1, 2007 2:15 PM CDT I am Caden Ideker's First grade teacher. I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you! Kathy O'Hara Humboldt, SD USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 2:06 PM CDT Dear Brad, Steph & Aaron -- Each of you are in our thoughts and prayers as your lives must continue on without Alec in your home. Take comfort in knowing that now he has a special home in Heaven and he'll be with you wherever you go. May God bless you and guide you through this difficult time. Kevin & Miki Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:38 PM CDT Thinking of you all and praying for peace and comfort. Alec has touched many lives. He was welcomed into Heaven w/ open arms and I can just imagine him meeting all of his new angel friends. I'm so glad we got a chance to meet sweet Alec the last time he was on 7940. You will all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. ~Maria Maria Gibbons <riau2@aol.com / www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylie> Falcon Heights, MN - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:38 PM CDT I pray that the Lord will give you strength in this time of your loss. May you find comfort in the promise of eternal life which is ours through our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Alec is at home with our heavenly Father now. Adrian Ludwig (Karla Knoblochs' fiance) Alcester, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:23 PM CDT The Ideker Family, I just got word on Alec's passing. May it comfort you to know that he is in God's loving arms. He did earn his wings and will be your guarding angel. Our prayers and our deepest sympathy go out to you. Am glad I got to know Alec and you guys. Like you said he may not be able to speak but his heart speaks to you. That is how I felt when I first met him. His smile was contagious. I will always remember that smile. If you need anything just let us know. Jami,Lorin,Jenna and Jayden Kruse <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills, MN - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:22 PM CDT My prayers and deepest sympathy on the loss of Alec. I will continue the prayers for all of you. Alec brought smiles and joys to everyone on his Birth to Three Team. I have missed working with your family since he transitioned into school. May God wrap his arms around all of you at this time and continue to give the strength to face each new day. My deepest sympathy is with you during this time. Paula Albers, Southeast Area Birth to Three Coordinator <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:15 PM CDT We've heard so many nice things about your family through Kim. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Mary Kranz <mkranz@aiproducts.com> Klemme, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:13 PM CDT Steph, I'm imagining Alec jumping, running, and playing hockey in heaven. We all loved him and will miss him. I am so thankful we met and he had been a part of our lives. Geri-Anne, Eric, Wyatt, Dina, and Bianca <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:02 PM CDT May God hold you in the palm of His hand as you miss Alec. Praying for you-- Pastor Penny Nance, Grandview Covenant Church <pennynance@sio.midco.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:02 PM CDT Our thoughts and prayers are with you. www.caringbridge.org/visit/connorscott Jen Clifton (Connor's Mom) <jenclifton@msn.com> Pembroke Pines, Fl USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:59 AM CDT My thoughts are with you. Alec will always have a special place in my heart. Thank you for letting me meet him and hold him when you came through Denver. God watch over you and give you strength. Ann "Angel Eli's mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO 80602 - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:52 AM CDT My heart goes out to all of you. God has a new angel. Melanie Winter <wintermelanie@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:43 AM CDT Our prayers and deepest sympathy on the loss of Alec. We will continue the prayers for all of you. Though we only met on a couple of occcasions, Alec brought smiles to everone. May God wrap his arms around all of you at this time and continue to give the strength to face each new day. God bless. Deanna, Jason, JP, Matthew and Julianna Peters <dpeters@sio.midco.net> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:32 AM CDT I just got the news of Alec's passing. He truly did earn his wings. What a wonderful place for him to be. Running and playing in the clouds with all of his "angel buddies". My heart goes out to you during this difficult time. No matter how much we think we are prepared we never truly are. Our prayers are with you today and always. Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey and Bailee Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:30 AM CDT We were recently made aware of the Alec’s circumstances. It is easy to see through this Carebridge that Alec was loved by many, and in such a short time changed so many people’s lives in a positive manner. Our sincerest thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. Alan & Lea Andersen Lakeville, MN US - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:28 AM CDT Brad and Stephanie we are so sorry for your loss, our prayers and thoughts are with you during this dificult time. Our deepest sympathie Frank & Diane Ledesma <fbullhead@yahoo.com> Chino, CA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:23 AM CDT Our prayers and thoughts are with your family in this difficult time in your lives. God bless The Landrums' <Landrum.j@hotmail.com> Ankeny, Ia USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:59 AM CDT Amy and Kyle just called us. We want to extend our deepest sympathies to your family. We were blessed to be able to know him and your family during the time we lived there. May God be with you. Brad and Salena Reimer Johnston, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:58 AM CDT I am so sorry to hear that Alec has died. What a turmoil of emotions you must all be going through. Alec is at peace now in Heaven with our sweet Jesus taking care of him. He will always be there for you. What a great gift God gives us when he gives us the ability to love so deeply as you have loved. I will shed tears for Alec also and for your family and know that I will also be praying for all of you. God Bless all of you. Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:55 AM CDT I am just trying to imagine Alec jumping on the clouds and playing with all of the other little angels who left us so soon. I am so sorry for your loss and the void you must be feeling. God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:54 AM CDT Alec is truly an Angel and one that will always be with you, guiding your family. You are in my prayers, take care of yourselves and let me know if I can do anything. Nancy Kerkvliet <dnkerk@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:48 AM CDT We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thought and prayers are with each of you. God Bless. Jodi, Tony, Sara, Austin and Dana DeSmet <tdesmet@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:31 AM CDT My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this very difficult time. May your family find peace in the days and months ahead. Please know that you have MANY people praying for you. God Bless! Ron, Tami, Aubrey, Matt, Zach, and Aiden Sauers <aubrey.sauers@mckennan.org> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:30 AM CDT My heart aches for you who will miss Alec. My heart rejoices for him that he is free from his pain. He was well loved and must have finished his job here on earth. I am so sorry for your loss. May you find some comfort from the many that are sending love, strength and peace your way. Fly high, sweet Alec. Love, Nena www.caringbridge.org/visit/reesejohnson Nena <nenaelise@yahoo.com> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:28 AM CDT We are so sad to hear about Alec. We will miss him dearly. We are thinking of you and praying for your strength. Love, The Garrys Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:27 AM CDT Idekars, We are thinking about you. Please let me know if you need anything, you know I will always be here for you. I'm so thankful for ALec, it's because of him I met a great friend who I cherish so much. Love you! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Jordan, MN - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:21 AM CDT We are so thankful to have known Alec and to be your neighbors. He has touched our lives in so many ways. What a wonderful and sweet child. We will miss his smiles and that little look he would give... While we will miss him here on earth, we rejoice knowing he is running, laughing, and playing in the arms of Jesus. Rebecca Schultz Harrisburg, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:21 AM CDT Dear Idekers You have my deepest sympathy. Alec will always be with you watching over all of you. Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:18 AM CDT Our thoughts & prayers are with you..... Dean & Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 11:00 AM CDT Angel Alec- Soar high above the clouds buddy! Your FREE!!! Free to run, dance, play & sing! We love you so much. Watch over your mom, dad, Aaron & the new baby because they need your help to get through days & weeks ahead. I will see you again someday! Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:58 AM CDT Words can't express what I feel for your family. Alec truly brought a different meaning of life to me. How proud you must be of your little boy. He has touched many lives. Jodi Lutjens Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:58 AM CDT Dear Brad,Steph,Aaron,& Alec~ Tears fall instantly as we read. Hearing what you're going through brings such vivid memories of praying for someone you love more than life to pass, but yet wanting them there with you for all the "one mores" we humanly desire. It's natural to feel that way and it's okay. Alec has touched your lives so deeply & immensely that he will be with you every day - just in a different way. What awaits him is far beyond our comprehension, but what comfort it will be to know he's surrounded by beauty, his body healed & rests with the Saviour we all long to reside with one day. May you find comfort in that fact, & rest in the love of Jesus as He upholds you all through this extremely difficult time. We are praying for your whole family - you've all been touched by an angel truly! Love & prayers, Mitch,Amy,Hayley & Evy Mitch & Amy Knoblock <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:53 AM CDT My deepest sympathy, my heart goes out to you. While we do not always understand God's plan, I know that Alec can now run and play and sing with the angels! God is good - all the time. Ladene Bachtell Sioux Falls, SD - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:51 AM CDT My deepest sympathy to you and your family Kelly Van Kekerix <kvankekerix@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:48 AM CDT Ideker Family~ You are in my thoughts and prayers through this time. Tonya Beaird <t_beaird@hotmail.com> Rapid City, sd USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:18 AM CDT We are praying that God will give you a peace that transcends all understanding. We are thinking of you. Josh and Carrie Taylor HopeKids Carrie Taylor <carrie@hopekids.org> Farmington, MN USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:16 AM CDT We are praying that God will hold you near his heart and comfort you all during this time. Our prayers are offered up every hour for you all and for Alec to remain peaceful during this time. Tom & Kim Kovash Omaha, NE - Thursday, November 1, 2007 10:07 AM CDT Brad and Stephanie - Know that I am here for you. If you need anything at all just call me and I will be there. My heart aches for you. Amy Snyders <asnyders@bell-inc.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:55 AM CDT Brad and Stephanie - Know that I am here for you. If you need anything at all just call me and I will be there. My heart aches for you. Amy Snyders <asnyders@bell-inc.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:54 AM CDT Idekers, Thinking of you, praying for you and loving you Aunt Lisa Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:48 AM CDT Brad, Steph, Aaron and Alec, No one can truly comprehend what you are going through right now. Please know, though, that you have so many people praying constantly for you. We share your sadness, and ask for God's peaceful hand to guide those who are hurting. You are a model of faith and strength, and what it means to know and trust God. Deric, Rachel, Alex, Mason, and Ella <rlangenh@rvcsd.org> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:46 AM CDT Our hearts are aching with you! I just wish we could take the hurt away. God bless you!! You and Brad are such an awesome example to everyone...such wonderful parents. We're Prayin' constantly for all of you!! Love n Hugs! Marilyn & Joel Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:13 AM CDT I don't know what to say , I ache for you all! Our prayers & our love & help if you need us are all I can think of! April & Brian & Wyatt Monen April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:09 AM CDT Stephanie, Brad, Aaron, and Alec, Someone sent this pray to me yesterday and I thought it was something I should share with you and know that I am praying for you ALL!!! 'May today there be peace within. May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith. May you be content knowing you are a child of God. LET HIS PRESENCE SETTLE INTO YOUR BONES, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love. It is there for each and everyone of us.' With all my love, Trista Trista Moss <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Thursday, November 1, 2007 9:08 AM CDT My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I am so glad you sent out a e-mail on Monday. I have been checking the website daily while I am out of town. Paula Albers, SE Area Birth to Three Coordinator <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:52 AM CDT Still praying for you all. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. ~Kahlil Gibran Abigail Vetter <abvetter28@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/visit/carolineruby> West Fargo, ND - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:43 AM CDT Alec, I remember your beautiful smile and adorable hair. You are a wonderful little kid with a great family.You will a loving asset to the other children in heaven. Robin Mills - Children's Care Rehab Center <millsr@cchs.org> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:03 AM CDT I am just so sad for you. I wish I could be there to give you a hug. I am praying and asking my mom to be at heavens gates to welcome Alec when it's his time. She was the best grandma, so I know she'll just love snuggling him up. God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 7:51 AM CDT Just sending hugs. I wish I could do more. Say something witty or inspirational. I pray that GOD holds you..all of you. millie <nena1294@aol.com> hamiliton, nj usa - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:32 AM CDT I feel your pain during this time with Alec. I am sorry that Dani and Alec never got to meet each other because I think they share the same orneriness and it would have been fun to see them together. I don’t know why some kids are given more challenges in life than others and some days it doesn’t seem fair at the struggles they endure. But it is the faith and love for our children that keep us going each day. If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. www.fortheloveofdani.com Heather German <dhgerman@iw.net> Tea, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:01 PM CDT Stephanie called me today to read your website to her as she was not near a computer - I cried all the way through it. You have shown us so much faith through your life with Alec. You have accepted what God has given to you. Not everyone does that. Be sure to let us know if there is anything we can do for you. So many people are praying for you. I pray you can feel His arms around you holding you close. Our humanness comes through and we ask "why now" but His timing is always perfect. So as we await for the news of Alec finally meeting Jesus and also the birth of baby #3 my prayer will be that some day soon it will all make sense for you. I love you all. Sue Peters Sioux Falls , SD USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:32 PM CDT I'm saying many many prayers for you and your family. I've been where you are right now and there are just no words. Please give Alec a nice snuggly cuddly hug from me. I'm praying for strength for all of you! Much love and hope always, Tamm Mom to Angel Skye www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole Tamm <Tamm06@aol.com> - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:31 PM CDT Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Roy, Rhiannon, and Cael Weber <rcweb316@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:08 PM CDT Summer (Ryan's mom) asked for prayers for Alec and shared his website with the holoprosencephaly list. Our youngest child, Evan, lived for a blessed 4 1/2 years teaching everyone he met about faith and love. I can see that your family is experiencing this same blessing. God is good. You are in our thoughts and prayers as you say your good-byes. I especially enjoyed the Animal Kingdom photos in your journal - it looks like that you've made a lifetime of memories together. Peace be with you all. Stacy Malecki (Evan's mom) CT - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 7:44 PM CDT My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless you with peace and comfort. St Therese Prayer Warrior Sioux Falls, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 6:36 PM CDT Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" Stephanie & Brad, May God give you all the strength you need!! Continually praying for all of you. Lots of love is being sent your way. Love, Trista Trista Moss - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 4:45 PM CDT Steph, Brad, Aaron - My Thoughts and Prayers are going out to you and your family. Your strength through all of this has amazed me. God is with you right now keep leaning on him. Christa Lee <clee@hagangroup.com> Lester, IA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 3:46 PM CDT Stephanie & Family. I do not know you personally, but Sue Peters forwarded a request for prayers for you. You and your family are in my prayers. I also forwarded this on to my prayer pals and found that we are connected in another way - Christa Lee & I work together. I cannot imagine what you're going through but know that the Lord will give you the strength you need. Know that you have an army praying for you! Ladene <lbachtell@hagangroup.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 3:07 PM CDT I have only known Alec for a short time but he really touched my heart. Ben really likes him. I am praying for you that God will give you all you will need in this time I can't even imagine but I know that Our God knows what this feels like and he can help you. I will keep you all in my prayers. Lynette Stone (Ben's Mom) <stonefamily6@msn.com> - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 2:55 PM CDT Dear Stepanie, When my newborn died, I tried so hard to memorize every inch of him. I measured his body against mine so that even today, 14 years later, I can remember that his arm was as long as my finger, and his foot just fit in the cup of my hand. Let the memory of Alec's body soak into your being and you'll forever be able to feel him as part of you. My time with my baby was brief-only an hour- but the memory and the love never, ever fades. When I delivered a baby girl 18 months after him, the nurse announced the time of birth-6:13. My son's birthdate/death was on 6/13. I just knew that this was God way, and my baby son's way of telling me that it was good to love the new baby. I hope you receive a similar message. It helped me a lot. And I hope this does to. My heart goes out to your whole family, and especially to Aaron, as he is just a little boy. Cathy Pepin <cassally@mindspring.com> - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 2:52 PM CDT Brad and Steph, We are students at west lyon school and are thinking and praying for you, your family and most of all Alec. Brady Reinke, Hailey Bruggeman, and Carrie Dieters <carriedieters@hotmail.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 2:39 PM CDT "The love of God is like an ocean, you can see its beginning, but not its end." May His love continue to wrap around you and comfort you always. The Reward For Fidelity For I am already being poured out like a libation and the time of my departure is at hand. I have competed well; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith. From now on the crown of righteousness awaits me, which the Lord, the just judge, will award to me on that day, and not only to me, but to all who have longed for his appearance. 2 Timothy 4:6-8 Dean & Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 2:05 PM CDT Hi, you dont know me but Jen is my oldest and dearest friend in the world. We grew up together and went through school together and good times and bad. I have heard about Alec every time I talk to Jen, and today she emailed me with a prayer request for him. Not only does she have things going on with her own child, she is so concerned for Alex and her heart is breaking watch you all suffer. I just want to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers clear up here, and I can not begin to imagine what you all are going through. I am praying for peace for your family, and for a healthy outcome on your pregnancy. Kristi Green <bkgreen@wah.midco.net> Breckenridge, MN - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 1:45 PM CDT Hi, you dont know me but Jen is my oldest and dearest friend in the world. We grew up together and went through school together and good times and bad. I have heard about Alec every time I talk to Jen, and today she emailed me with a prayer request for him. Not only does she have things going on with her own child, she is so concerned for Alex and her heart is breaking watch you all suffer. I just want to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers clear up here, and I can not begin to imagine what you all are going through. I am praying for peace for your family, and for a healthy outcome on your pregnancy. Kristi Green <bkgreen@wah.midco.net> Breckenridge, MN - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 1:44 PM CDT Steph, Brad, Aaron, Alec and Baby Ideker- May you feel God's presence all around you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you. Christy and Joel - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 1:26 PM CDT I wish I knew you all personally, as I think you are a wonderful family. I wish I could offer you a hug, a smile, a something! I don't know you personally, yet I feel so sad for you and hurt for you. I think of my own daughter and can't even imagine the path that you are walking. I cannot even think about that path without feeling complete sadness!!! I wish that I could say things like "It will be okay" or "It was all for a reason", and mean it! However, I have a hard time saying that b/c I find this so devestating! I just wish there was a "cure all" to help your family and any other family struggling! I do have faith though, and I do know that Heaven is a beautiful place. I know that God will hold Alec close to him and both of them will be looking down at you and smiling~ Hopefully, I helped make things a smidgen better! I hope that a stranger telling you that you are couragous and brave and someday, things will look brighter makes you feel a tiny bit better! a heartbroken stranger - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 1:11 PM CDT Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Alec, It has been my priviledge and honor to get to know Alec during his Sunday School time-what a blessing. As I look over the guest book and see all the people Alec and you guys have touched, inspired and influenced throughout all of this-you all are amazing to me. I am constantly uplifting all of you in my prayers and sending you strength to cope with what is to come. May you find some comfort in knowing that many are holding you and your family close through prayer and know that you have touched my heart and my family's heart in so many ways. God is always near-lean on him. May God bless you all. Karla Knobloch <kmknob84@yahoo.com> Lester, IA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 1:08 PM CDT You are all in our prays. Summer mom to Ryland <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com> Hartford, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 1:07 PM CDT Your family is truly an inspiration for everybody. I see God's arms wrapped around you all. May God Bless you. You are in our prayers. Love ya! Carol and Jay Rozeboom Carol and Jay <crozeboom@west-lyon.k12.ia.us> Rock Rapids, IA US - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 1:04 PM CDT Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Kristin Tuttle <kristin.tuttle@cchs.org> Harrisburg, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 11:51 AM CDT Mythoughts and prayers are with all of you, When Tomorrow Starts Without Me When tomorrow starts without me, And I'm not there to see, If the sun should rise and find your eyes All filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry The way you did today, While thinking of the many things, We didn't get to say. I know how much you love me, As much as I love you, And each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, That an angel came and called my name, And took me by the hand, And said my place was ready, In heaven far above, And that I'd have to leave behind All those I dearly love. But as I turned to walk away, A tear fell from my eye For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die. I had so much to live for, So much left yet to do, It almost seemed impossible That I was leaving you. I thought of all the yesterdays, The good ones and the bad, I thought of all the love we shared, And all the fun we had. If I could relive yesterday, Just even for a while, I'd say good-bye and kiss you And maybe see you smile. But then I fully realized, That this could never be, For emptiness and memories, Would take the place of me. And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, My heart was filled with sorrow. But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home. When God looked down and smiled at me, From His great golden throne, He said, "This is eternity, And all I've promised you. Today your life on earth is past, But here life starts anew. I promise no tomorrow, But today will always last, And since each day's the same way There's no longing for the past. You have been so faithful, So trusting and so true. Though there were times you did some things You knew you shouldn't do. But you have been forgiven And now at last you're free. So won't you come and take my hand And share my life with me?" So when tomorrow starts without me, Don't think we're far apart, For every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart. From another mito parent - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 11:50 AM CDT Dear Idekers, We wish so much that we could be there to help you at this time. Know you are all in our thoughts and prayers and that we love you. Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael Ryan Garry <ryangarry1978@gmail.com> Denver, Co - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 11:13 AM CDT We are thinking and praying for your family at this time. God's timing seems so unreal right now, but he must have one really special plan for your family! Take care, Amber & family Amber, Nick, Erica & Shelby Kellenberger <nicholask@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA US - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:53 AM CDT It was my privilege to work with Alex last summer. He taught me much. Peggy Bortnem - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:51 AM CDT Prayers being said for all of you. Kelly and Jeff Krell <Kelly.Krell@sdbar.net> Pierre, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:50 AM CDT My heart goes out to you and we are praying hard for God to take care of Alec, your family and the new baby. Ann <amgarry@hotmail.com> Madison, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:48 AM CDT To Alec, "What a God we have! And how fortunate we are to have him, this Father of our Master Jesus! Because Jesus was raised from the dead, we've been given a brand-new life and have everything to live for, including a future in heaven—and the future starts now! God is keeping careful watch over us and the future. The Day is coming when you'll have it all—life healed and whole." 1 Peter 1:3 Praying for peace to be with you and God's arms to be wrapped around all of you. Sending all our love.... Ethan, Trista, & Bryce Ethan, Trista & Bryce - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:35 AM CDT You are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time in your lives. Pamela & Pat Bollweg <pamelab@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:32 AM CDT We are so sorry to hear that Alec is not doing well, our prayers and thoughts are with you. Frank & Diane Ledesma <fbullhead@yahoo.com> Chino, CA USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:30 AM CDT Stephanie and family, You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you. Angie Brown Sioux Falls, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:26 AM CDT Alec, I am sending love and prayers for you and your Mom, Dad and brother Dawn Robertson <deltadawn0523@msn.com> Meridian, Id USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:06 AM CDT I talked to Grampa Dick yesterday and he told me Alec is not doing well. My love to all and may God be by your side now and always. Someone as loved as Alec, is never gone from your heart, he will always be there for you as an angel of God. Nancy Kerkvliet <dnkerk@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:56 AM CDT I have just met Alec through this Caringbridge site. A prayer request was sent into our church for Alec with this site attached. I cried and prayed as I read about the journey your family has taken with Alec. No words can be said except God Bless! Shelly Leither <leitherascj@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls , SSD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:48 AM CDT God Bless your family in this time of need. You are in our prayers. The Herdman Family Tea, SD USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:37 AM CDT Stephanie, It has been an honor and a pleasure to be welcomed into your house to help care for your child. The love, strength, and commitment to family you all have is extraordinary and I admire you greatly. I am very saddened to hear of Alec's declining health. Please know that Alec, you and Brad, and Aaron are all in my thoughts and prayers. I can think of nothing else except God loves you, lean on him. Melanie Melanie Winter <wintermelanie@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:34 AM CDT Storming the heavens with prayers for you. Sending you all of our love! Monie & Heath <siemonsmaelectric@yahoo.com> Humboldt, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:14 AM CDT I'm so so sorry to hear that Alec is not doing well. My heart and my prayers are with all of you. Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@embarqmail.com> - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:14 AM CDT You do not know me but please know that I am thinking & praying for Alec and your family. What you are going through is undescribable. As I read your story, my eyes well up with tears and my heart is heavy as I cannot imagine what you are going through. As the clouds seem darker than ever, God's ray of sunshine will shine through and he will bring you peace and understanding. Believe in God that what is happening in your life is all for what is good and it is for a reason. God has blessed you and your family with many great memories of Alec. Your story has touched MANY lives, even if you don't know them. Your story has made me take a look at what is important in my life and I am grateful for you sharing your story. Fellow Christian Tea, SD USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:07 AM CDT Brad, Stephanie and family, I am so sorry to hear that Alec is not doing well. You have been an awesome family for him during his time here and I am know God will give you the strength to be exactly what Alec needs now. Our families thoughts and prayers are with you. Laura Bosler Rock Valley, - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 9:07 AM CDT Stephanie, I have been thinking of you since I last saw you at Gillette. Your recent entries break my heart. I can not imagine what you and your family are going through. Please know that I will pray for you all. I will pray that Alec has a peaceful ending to his life on this Earth and that your new baby has a peaceful arrival. Once Alec is in Heaven, I truly believe that he will be running and laughing with all of the other children God has called home, watching over his loving family and friends. Take care, Stephanie, and God Bless your family. Esme <eapostolou@gillettechildrens.com> Brooklyn Park, MN - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:56 AM CDT You are in my prayers. Adrian Ludwig Alcester, SD USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:52 AM CDT We are praying with you, please let us know if you need anything! Mike and Darcy <dideker@totalcardinc.com> Hartford, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:46 AM CDT Praying for you this morning, God will wrap you up with his arms and you will feel his everending hug around you. Shawn Mattern <Shawnmattern@aol.com> Harrusburg, SD USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:39 AM CDT We love you so much and our prayers are going up as fast and fervently as we can. God is with you every step of the way. You are never alone. Heather Wilson <heather@mythigo.com> - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:39 AM CDT Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Terry & Kristin Ricke <kristinricke@mchsi.com> Johnston, IA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:31 AM CDT You are in our thoughts and prayers. Liberty Elementary students and staff <Tanja.Pederson@k12.sd.us> Harrisburg, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:27 AM CDT Jen stopped by last night and let me know how Alec is doing. I just want you all to know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers - all the time. I can't begin to imagine the emotions that you are all feeling ~ or the timing for the miracles you are about to experience. If there is ever anything we can do for your family (or for Jen), please let me know! Praying for your family daily!! Janel Janel (Almhjeld) Strawn <jjstrawn@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:25 AM CDT My eyes well up with tears as I read your entry today-it is hard to understand the timing of all this but our Heavenly Father will take care of His children and He is taking care of your family. All our love and prayers. Dietrich and Lex Knobloch Dietrich and Lex Knobloch <dlbbknob@speednet.com> - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:21 AM CDT I have been sitting here reading your journal entrys of the past couple of days. The tears just keep flowing and I really am at a loss for words. May God be with you and Turk and AAron as you struggle through this most difficult time. My continued prayers......Lindsey Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USa - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:20 AM CDT We are just some more Tea citizens that wanted to let you and your family know that your son and the rest of your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Doug, Franny, Cali, Lexi, & Kia LeKander <doug.lekander@gmail.com> Tea, SD USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 7:58 AM CDT You guys have been on my mind constantly. I have been sitting here for 5 minutes trying to write what I feel, but the sadness I feel is just too overwhelming. I will continue to pray for you. God Bless, Bonnie Bonnie Luskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 7:53 AM CDT Faith is the belief that God will do what is right. Fellow believer in Christ - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 7:51 AM CDT I have been thinking about all of you all night. We are praying hard that everything is peaceful and that you have peace. Please call if you need anything. Love Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Jordan, MN - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 7:49 AM CDT Tears are flowing as I read your update. We are PRAYING, PRAYING, PRAYING for God's perfect timing. Love you all! Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 7:38 AM CDT We are praying for you. Brad and Salena Reimer and kids <reimer606@msn.com> Johnston, IA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 7:30 AM CDT Steph, my heart goes out to you and your family. I have been keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I cannot imagine what you are going through. Your faith is unbelievable! Keep strong! Becky Van Surksum <bvansurksum@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA US - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 7:15 AM CDT This will be the 5th time I have tried to type something and deleted it. I don't have any words to express accurately what I want to say, Just tears. So I guess I'll have to leave it at that...TEARS AND PRAYERS!! Love, Suzie TG Suzie TeGrootenhuis - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 6:44 AM CDT Brad, Steph, Aaron & Alec We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Chad & Shari - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 6:41 AM CDT You do not know me but my heart goes out to your family and addorable son. I will pray for you tonight before I go to bed in hope that everything goes well this week for you and your family. A pray for your son that for every moment he is here with us he is so lucky to have you and your family to have love someone soo special. Christina <Christina@sio.midco.net> Tea, SD - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 0:44 AM CDT Children are such a blessing! Your web page is a wonderful display of that. I admire the strength and courage of your family and I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Mrs. Serocki's sister, Kari Nielsen Sisseton, SD USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 11:21 PM CDT Dear Brad, Steph and boys, God bless you as you continue on this journey, which we all trust is for all of time. God will take care of Alec and He will be there with you every step of the way. I have the greatest respect for you and your family as you have lovingly and willingly cared for what God has given you. God bless you as you soon will have another little miracle. I just love your poem...."God's lent child". It is so true, but I am sure it doesn't really make things easier. Please call upon your friends and your community if you need anything. Love, Carol Carol Childress <cchildress@west-lyon.k12.ia.us> Alvord, ia usa - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:59 PM CDT I have no words, just tears. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:58 PM CDT Steph and Brad, There is not a day that goes by which we are constantly praying for your family. May the Lord give you the strenght and courage to get through the days to come and just know you will be in our hearts and prayers each and every day. God Bless you and your family, Jodi, Jim, Brianna & Dawson Rysavy Jodi Rysavy <jrysavy@sio.midco.net> SF, SD - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:54 PM CDT Hey guys. I can't help but think of you each and every moment. I pray that you are feeling everyone's love and support and that the angels are holding you all very close right now. It doesn't seem fair that your plate has to be so full right now. I wish I could share in your burden to lighten the load a bit. We are all thinking about you and praying for and with you. You are blessed! May you always know and trust in that. Peace, Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine and Rebekah (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:50 PM CDT You are in my prayers. sara lagrange, ga usa - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:25 PM CDT Hi Alec! I am mommy to Reese who also has mito. Your mommy signed our guestbook a long time ago and I never returned the courtesy. Here I am. Wishing you safe and peaceful travels on this leg of your journey. Sending your family much love and hoping that they can find some peace too. Nena, Reese's mommy www.caringbridge.org/visit/reesejohnson Nena <nenaelise@yahoo.com> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:05 PM CDT You are in our prayers. Jodi and Tony DeSmet and Kids <tdesmet@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 8:56 PM CDT Dearest Brad,Steph,Aaron, & sweet Alec~ Our hearts weigh heavy as we read the excerpts of your thoughts & the many details of Alec's failing systems. We want you to know how deeply we care & admire your strength. You truly are living examples of compassion & endurance. We are thinking & uplifting each of you in prayer for many different reasons, but we rest assured that the plans are all laid out as God's will unfolds. Rest in his love and grace for you as we (your family, friends, and community) surround you with prayer & support. We are here if there would be anything at all that you would need! We love you & encourage you in prayer through Christ....Mitch, Amy, & girls Mitch & Amy Knoblock <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 8:49 PM CDT Praying for peace in your hearts as you say goodbye to your son. I will pray to my angels, to wait for him and take his hand. With care, Drew and McKenna's mommy shannon olson <shannonolson914@yahoo.com> lakeville, mn - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 8:15 PM CDT Stephanie and family - You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers Anne Peters <annepeters@excite.com> Brandon, SD - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 7:57 PM CDT My thoughts and prayers are with you. Kayla - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 7:48 PM CDT Brad, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Greg & Beth Stoebner <gregs@iw.net> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 7:37 PM CDT I am so sorry to hear that Alec is not doing well. Please know that we are praying for him and for you. MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <ATTNYMB@AOL.COM> Williamstown, vt - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 7:16 PM CDT I just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time. I completely understand your desires for things to go peacefully and that Alec will not be in any pain or distress. It is amazing to think that as you will be welcoming a new life into your family as you say good bye to Alec. The timing of things is not ours of course, but I will keep you in my prayers that you will be able to be where you need to be, when you need to be there. God bless you as you go through this difficult time. All my love, Abigail Abigail Vetter <abvetter28@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/visit/carolineruby> West Fargo, ND - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 6:39 PM CDT I am thinking of Alec and praying for him and your family. I wish there was something I could do to make this better for you guys. Let me know if you need me to do anything. Teresa Teresa Brandsrud <brand@alliancecom.net> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 6:12 PM CDT Our prayers are with your whole family at this time. May you feel God's presence and receive comfort and peace from Him. Susan Long <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia Lyon - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 4:43 PM CDT our thoughts and prayers are with your family. gena atcher <atcherboy@iowatelecom.net> nevada, ia usa - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 4:27 PM CDT Just wanted you to know we are praying for your family!! Please let us know if there is anything we can help out with...may God comfort you and keep you in His care! Love ya, Marilyn Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 4:11 PM CDT You are all in my prayers! I want you to know that we are here if you need ANYTHING!! Please kiss Alec for me!! Love you guys! Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 3:44 PM CDT I'm praying for you all. Miki Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 3:33 PM CDT My thoughts and prayers go out to Alec and your family. It was so nice to see Alec in church on Sunday. I am so blessed to be able to get to know him more while helping him out in Sunday School! God Bless! Aubrey Sauers Larchwood, IA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 2:40 PM CDT Just wanted to let you all know that you have continually been in my thoughts and prayers. Especially now so with the new arrival on the way and with Alec staying so strong through this difficult time. You are one of the strongest families I know and I admire your courage with the utmost respect. Please take care and keep your faith as high as possible as you always have. Just wanted to show some love from California. Eventhough I'm far away now I haven't forgotten people back home. Love you guys. God bless. Heather Knobloch <heather_knobloch@yahoo.com> Hanford, CA USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 2:12 PM CDT My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Know that there are so many of us, even though far away, surrounding you w/ our love. The Gibbons Family www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylie Maria Gibbons <riau2@aol.com> Falcon Heights, MN - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 1:31 PM CDT Hey Ideckers! We are praying praying praying for your family. Michelle Tilstra <tilly@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 12:51 AM CDT Our prayers are with you! We are praying for your family--especially little Alec and the new baby. Tons of hugs and love to you all! Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 12:39 AM CDT You are in my thoughts and prayers. I'm always here if you need anything. Love you guys. Dean <dean@sturgisbikeweek.com> Sturgis, SD - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 12:36 AM CDT We will all be praying for your family. Please call if you need anything, we are here for you. Gary, Brenda, Kira and Allie Loftesness <bloftes1@msn.com> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 12:09 AM CDT Continuing to pray... Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 11:47 AM CDT embrace each other & know we are praying for you and holding all of you close to our heart! if you need ANYTHING i am only a phone call away. love you guys! The Van Egdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 11:36 AM CDT Thinking of you all during this time! You are all in my thoughts and prayers! Heather Schenkel <hschenkel@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 10:55 AM CDT Dear Idekers, sending up many prayers for all of you. May God wrap his arms around all of you and give you the strength that you need right now. God bless. Deanna Peters and family <dpeters@sio.midco.net> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 10:36 AM CDT The Garrys in Colorado are thinking of you and praying for peace and comfort during this difficult time. We love you guys. Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 10:03 AM CDT We will be praying for Alec, for you and the new baby, and Aaron and Brad. Darcy <dgerber@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 10:00 AM CDT I am praying for all of you!!! Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 8:42 AM CDT Steph,Brad,Aaron,Alec are in my prayers. sara lagrange, ga usa - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 8:26 AM CDT We are praying for you. Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotamil.com> - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 7:59 AM CDT We are thinking about you all and praying. Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Jordan, mn - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 7:19 AM CDT All of us have you in our thoughts and prayers, praying that things get better quickly. Margo www.caringbridge.org/mn/corey <mitomom@hotmail.com> Pierz, MN - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 6:00 AM CDT Just wanted to let you know that you are always in our prayers, especially during this very difficult time. Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Monday, October 29, 2007 11:29 PM CDT Dear Stephanie, I don't know you except through Alec's site, but my heart goes out to you as a mother. I hope you will find solace in this prayer: Do not worry about what will happen tomorrow. The same loving father who took care of you today will take care of you tomorrow and every day. He will either shield you from suffering or give you the strength to bear it. Be at peace then and put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginations. I hope this helps. Cathy Pepin <cassally@mindspring.com> - Monday, October 29, 2007 10:22 PM CDT Steph, Brad, Aaron, Alec, We are all praying here for you. Please know that god will be wrapping his arms around you at this time and that all the prayers will be coming through him. You will be in our thoughts and prayers tonight. Hang in there. The Kruse's: Jami, Lorin, Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> - Monday, October 29, 2007 10:18 PM CDT Stephanie, I am praying, praying, praying for all of you right now. PLEASE PLEASE, let me know if there is anything else I can do for you guys. Call me if you need...any time tonight is fine. Keeping Alec, you, Brad, and Aaron in my prayers all night tonight. May God wrap his arms around all of you tonight and bring peace into your hearts. We love you all very much. With all our Love, Ethan, Trista, and Bryce Trista Moss <trista-ann@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, October 29, 2007 10:09 PM CDT Hey Alec, it was so nice to see you at Bryce's Birthday party yesterday! You must have been birthday partied out this weekend. I hope to be coming up this week sometime to see you all again. I didn't get any snuggle time yesterday so I will have to make up for it. I hope you got some good rest last night. Keeping all of you in my prayers. Sending lots of love your way. Love, Trista & Bryce Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Monday, October 22, 2007 12:04 AM CDT Oh boy the pictures are so wonderful. I had been thinking about you all a lot lately and thought I would pop in for a check. I will keep on praying for that sweet bundle of yours and for your precious Alec. God Bless www.elisangels.org Ann "Angel Eli's mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, co usa - Sunday, October 21, 2007 10:26 PM CDT I love the new pictures. Your dedication to Alec remains so steadfast. God truly blessed him with all of you for his family. We pray for all of you as your delivery date grows closer. Sue Peters Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 11:26 AM CDT Alec is in my prayers. Steph, I pray for a smooth delivery with a healthy baby and mom when the time is right. Jennifer, a Texas prayer bear <texasprayerbear@yahoo.com or sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Bridgeport, Texas - Monday, October 15, 2007 11:32 AM CDT The new pictures are great. The boys look like they had a wonderful time at the pumpkin patch. Steph pregnancy really looks good on you. You look Fantastic. You are in our prayers daily. God Bless you and your beautiful family today and always. Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey and Bailee Lindsey <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, October 12, 2007 8:36 AM CDT It was so nice spending the weekend with you all. Wish it wasn't so long between our times together but it's always enjoyable when we finally make it happen. Hope you had a good day in MN and hope that you have a great week. We're off the races tomorrow with school and appts. Have a good one. God bless. Love, Tony, Stephanie and family (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) <tsspader@sio.midco.net> - Monday, October 8, 2007 8:23 PM CDT The pics are great!! Thanks for sharing! I stop by often but don't sign the gb. I just want you to know that your family and Alec are never far from my thoughts and prayers. With love and hope always, God Bless!! www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole Tamm <Tamm06@aol.com> Ohio - Sunday, October 7, 2007 11:27 PM CDT Hi! it was nice to meet you and visit with you for a bit this weekend. I'm reading through your website for the first time and wow, what an ordeal you have all been through and continue to go through. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Let me know if I can do anything to help! Teresa Nold <tresic@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Sunday, October 7, 2007 5:18 PM CDT Stephanie and Crew! Thanks for the update on Alec. I love the family photos from the pumpkin patch. Hope to see you on Monday when you are at Gillette. I will be stuck in my Triage closet, but will try to look for you when you are in clinic. Esme Brooklyn Park, MN USA - Saturday, October 6, 2007 6:10 PM CDT Hi Everyone; It was good seeing you today at the Make A Wish breakfast. We're so glad you all could come. You're such an amazing family...and a growing family. Wow! You're each in my heart and in my prayers. Dee Grosz <ddgrosz@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD - Saturday, October 6, 2007 1:58 PM CDT What cute pictures--looks like you all had a great time! You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers and we pray for a good trip on Monday. Love, Carol Caro Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> - Friday, October 5, 2007 4:23 PM CDT What a great picture of all of you. Glad to hear Aaron is enjoying his new bedroom things. Don't forget to call when you need help. Great Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, October 5, 2007 4:09 PM CDT Thanks for the update on Alec! I love the pics from the apple orchard. You got some great scrapbooking material!!! HA!!! Glad to hear the pregnancy is going well too. We are keeping you close to our hearts! Hang in there buddy!!! P.S. Jacob says 'hi' to Aaron & computer Alec!!! The Van Egdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, October 5, 2007 3:15 PM CDT Amy H. mentioned that you now have Alec in hospice care. As you can tell it has been a while since I have checked the website. We have the greatest admiration for the Hospice program. They are there to help the pt and the family through this time. The poem you have on your homepage has so much special meaning in it. None of us knows when God will take us home to be with Him. But what a comfort to know He is there and will welcome us into heaven when the time comes. He will also be there to comfort those left behind and to remind them that they will one day join their loved one in a far better place where there is no pain, no crying, no sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Le Roy and Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Monday, October 1, 2007 11:03 PM CDT Amy H. mentioned that you now have Alec in hospice care. As you can tell it has been a while since I have checked the website. We have the greatest admiration for the Hospice program. They are there to help the pt and the family through this time. The poem you have on your homepage has so much special meaning in it. None of us knows when God will take us home to be with Him. But what a comfort to know He is there and will welcome us into heaven when the time comes. He will also be there to comfort those left behind and to remind them that they will one day join their loved one in a far better place where there is no pain, no crying, no sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Le Roy and Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Monday, October 1, 2007 11:02 PM CDT Just checking in! Wondering how your week has been going. I'll check in again later. Sending hugs to all of you! Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, October 1, 2007 12:11 AM CDT Cute picture! Glad to hear all is going well! We continue to pray for your family. Love, Carol Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, September 27, 2007 8:22 PM CDT Stephanie and family, just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you. Love the picture of the boys with your brother. Take care. Deanna Peters <dpeters@sio.midco.net (www.caringbridge.org/sd/jp)> - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 7:48 PM CDT Hey Steph, It was lots of fun scrapbooking with you last week Friday. I hope you and your family are all doing well. Can't wait to scrapbook again sometime! Take care. Kelly Van Kekerix Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 3:48 PM CDT Just wanted to let you know that we stopped by! Our thoughts & prayers continue to be with you! ~The Rajewich's Sarah rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, September 25, 2007 9:48 PM CDT What an AWESOME picture of the boys with "Uncle Caleb".... Our prayers are with you constantly. Take Care and God Bless you all!!! Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey and Bailee Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, September 21, 2007 9:36 AM CDT How sweet!!!!! Even this Mustang fan loves the Northwestern shot of Caleb and his boys!!!! It is such a neat photo! Glad you can enjoy all of these times! I am thinking of you constantly! Love, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> Alvord, ia usa - Friday, September 21, 2007 7:04 AM CDT Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Alec We don't tell you enough how much we love you guys!! You are all constantly in our prayers. Luv ya! The Hanisch's Hanisch's <ahanisch@iw.net> Harrisburg, SD - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 9:23 PM CDT Hi Brad, Steph and boys! It was great to see you all in church on Sunday, sorry I didn't get to talk to you. We missed you in Sunday School! We are praying for all of you and I hope you are able to get some much needed rest. Love and hugs to you all! Carol Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa Lyon - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 8:45 PM CDT Alex and Koda are stopping by to say hello. Praying for you all. MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 5:17 PM CDT Hello to all, thinking of you guys, stay strong, remember God is with you always. Alec and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. Love always, Aunt Nancy. Nancy Kerkvliet <dnkerk@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA US - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 11:28 AM CDT Sending continued prayers your way..... Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 9:48 AM CDT Alec and family are in my prayers. Jennifer, a Texas prayer bear <texasprayerbear@yahoo.com or sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Bridgeport, Texas - Monday, September 17, 2007 5:05 PM CDT Thinking of y'all, and praying that God will bless each precious day you share with your little hero. the Hildebrands Longview, TX USA - Monday, September 17, 2007 11:37 AM CDT Continuing to send prayers and thoughts in your direction. Anne (Hanson) Peters <annepeters@excite.com> Brandon , SD - Saturday, September 15, 2007 9:35 AM CDT Thinking of you guys always. I can't wait to see Alec & Aaron this weekend. Stephanie let me know if there is anything I can do for you guys. Continuing to pray for the entire family. We love you all. Love, Trista & Bryce Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Thursday, September 13, 2007 2:02 PM CDT Turk, Steph and Family, I am so sorry to hear of Alec’s transition into Hospice. The Hospice program is incredible and your goal of keeping Alec comfortable during this time is very respectable. It sounds as though you have recently had some very fun adventures with Alec and the family – what great memories! You and your family are in my thoughts during this challenging time. Peace Lacey Seefeldt Lacey Seefeldt <lacey_anns@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls , - Thursday, September 13, 2007 8:36 AM CDT Keeping you always in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Marci The Prayer Bears http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Charleston, Sc USA - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 12:38 AM CDT Steph and family You and your family are so strong and have so much faith. I can't even imagine what you are all going through, but I know one thing for sure, Aaron and Alec are so lucky to have parents like you and Brad. You two are full of love and faith. You are both so amazing. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 2:23 PM CDT Continuing to pray for all of you Big hugs Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ United States - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 10:51 AM CDT Brad and Steph, You are continually in our prayers. I pray for you to get some nights with some sleep. May God continue to bless you through this most difficult time. You are truly remarkable people and the admiration I have for you is endless. Take care and try and get some much needed rest. God Bless you.... Rich, Lindsey Koleby, McKensey and Bailee Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Monday, September 10, 2007 10:04 PM CDT Alec & Aaron, Steph and Brad As always - keeping you in our prayers. Lifting you up when the days are long and the burdens are heavy. "My grace is sufficient for thee; for my strength is made perfect in weakness". II Corinthians 12:9 Jane & Jon Klemme & boys <jklemme@iw.net> Harrisburg, SD - Monday, September 10, 2007 7:46 PM CDT Thinking of you, and praying for you all the time!!!!!!! Brad and Salena Reimer Johnston, IA - Monday, September 10, 2007 2:14 PM CDT Brad and Stephanie, You are on my mind all the time. Thanks for sharing just a little of your heart in Sunday School, Steph. Like your friends told you, your family is such an inspiration to all around you. You are faithful, kind, loving, patient, and have tackled this job you have been given with more grace than most would or could. We have so much to be thankful for, and don't always appreciate it. We look at you and see your hard work and your pain and don't know what to say or do to help. Just know that TONS of people are praying for you and that God is walking right beside you, holding you up, and he does not tire. God bless you as you continue your faithfulness and love, taking Aaron to Kindergarten, taking Alec to Sunday School and giving life to another child for all of us to love. All milestones and leaps of faith. Take care of yourself too, Steph, so you can care for your new baby. Love, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> Alvord, ia usa - Sunday, September 9, 2007 3:25 PM CDT Brad, Steph, & boys, We are thinking of you and praying for Alec and your family! We missed you on Sunday. Know that we are here and thinking of you all! We love you guys!! Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, September 6, 2007 9:13 PM CDT I love you guys! Aunt Amy Amy Snyders <asnyders@bell-inc.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 8:26 PM CDT Brad, Steph, and boys- We continue to pray for your family. I know it's hard but try to take time to rest- Steph, as you and the baby need it. We are praying that Alec stays as healthy as possible until the baby comes and that through all that is ahead, you will continue to feel God's comfort and presence. Doug and Lisa Van't Hof and family Alvord, IA - Tuesday, September 4, 2007 12:11 AM CDT Stephanie - I have no idea what it must be like to go through what you are. I do not know the right words to say, but please know that I am praying for you and your family. You are strong and faithful and I admire that. Keep the faith. Anne (Hanson) Peters <annepeters@excite.com> Brandon, SD - Monday, September 3, 2007 10:03 PM CDT Hope that Alec continues to be comfortable. I think of him every day. Liz <eneprice@verizon.net> Wayland, MA - Monday, September 3, 2007 8:23 PM CDT Hope things are going as good as they can be! We love you guys!!! Jess, Carrie, Jacob & Ethan Van Egdom <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, August 31, 2007 10:11 AM CDT Praying for you and your family. Sara Harris <saranryanharris@speednet.com> Harrisburg, SD USA - Thursday, August 30, 2007 3:08 PM CDT Hey Guys! Thinking about you all! Give ALec big hugs from us!! Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Thursday, August 30, 2007 8:01 AM CDT Stephanie, Brad, Aaron and Alec, wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you. Love the picture of Aaron that is in the Argus of him watching the football game from the back of the truck! Take care. Deanna Peters <dpeters@sio.midco.net (www.caringbridge.org/sd/jp)> Sioux Falls, - Wednesday, August 29, 2007 9:00 PM CDT Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May God's loving arms hold you all during all of this and provide you with comfort and peace. Elena's Aunt www.caringbridge.org/visit/elenashope Crystal Bates <andersonc@charter.net> Fond du Lac, WI - Tuesday, August 28, 2007 6:04 PM CDT Sending you hugs and praying that God will carry all of your burden and that you continue to have the strength to give it all to Him. Love, Mindy Welhouse www.caringbridge.org/visit/elenashope Mindy Welhouse <mwelhouse3@new.rr.com> Kimberly, WI - Tuesday, August 28, 2007 11:55 AM CDT Steph and Family You are in our thoughts and prayers. We know this can be a difficult time and a hard decision to make. We will be praying for you all. Jodi DeSmet <tdesmet@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA US - Saturday, August 25, 2007 11:28 AM CDT Hi Brad, Steph and boys, Just writing to say hi and that we are thinking about you and praying for you! How was Aaron's first week of school? I hope he had fun! Give Alec and Aaron a hug! Prayers are coming your way! Love, Carol Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Friday, August 24, 2007 4:52 PM CDT I have stopped in a few times but have never signed the guestbook. There are no words of comfort I can think of to give except how privledged you all are. God thought so much of you to give you Alec. I often have to remind myself as well that "God's timing is perfect". Cathy Rapsas - www.caringbridge/ma/marysprayer.org Cathy Rapsas Lanoka Harbor, NJ - Friday, August 24, 2007 7:23 AM CDT Brad,Stehp and boys, We are praying here for you everyday. May God's strength be with you through this time. I was also wondering how Aaron's first big day at school was? Did he have fun? Well just thought I would send you some prayers and hugs. The Kruse Family: Lorin,Jami,Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills, MN - Thursday, August 23, 2007 10:44 AM CDT Stephanie and Brad Have thought of you two so often,you are an amazing couple. Remember that God is with you at all times.Please know that you are in my prayers daily. Judy VerMeer <judy.vermeer@novartis.com> Lester, IA - Thursday, August 23, 2007 0:31 AM CDT Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Alec, We are so glad we ran into you at the school open house. We pray for Alec and your whole family daily. We will continue to pray for God's presence and timing. With love, Travis and Julie Else Harrisburg, SD - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 4:02 PM CDT Stephanie and Turk... You are both stronger than I could ever be, I have seen you with Alec and you both amaze me!!! I understand your decision to put Alec in hospice, I just don't know if I would be as selfless as you to do so, I admire you both so much and your faith, I hope someday I can be half the person you both are. Please know you and your family are in my prayers and I will pray that Alec has an easy and painless transition. You will have your very own Angel to watch over you!!! Heather Lorenzen <jhgk@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 8:55 AM CDT Just wanted you guys to know we are thinking of you all during this difficult time. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Love Maria & Kylie www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylie Maria Gibbons <riau2@aol.com> Falcon heights, MN - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 3:37 PM CDT Steph, Brad, Alec and Aaron My thoughts and prayers are going out to your family. I pray for strength and peace as each day passes for all of you. May God be with you and your family. Christa Lee <clee@hagangroup.com> Lester, IA USA - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 12:12 AM CDT Steph, Brad, Aaron, and Alec, All we can do is tell you that we love you and that we are praying for HIS will to be done. You are an amazing family and we are here for you. We hope that Aaron had a great first day of school! Remember: God will walk with you in every step of the journey. Our love, Dar & family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 10:54 AM CDT Brad, Steph, and family You are truly an inspiration to all of us. You are truly an amazing family. We are constantly praying for you and only hope for the best. Alec is truly in God's hands and what a wonderful place to be. We hope that Aaron has a great first day of school. I bet he is so excited. We will keep you in our prayers. God Bless you! Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey adn Bailee Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 9:43 AM CDT Sorry we didn't stop by. I couldn't handle another drive through Wyoming. My friend was right, No one lives in Wyoming. We ended up going home through Montana and North Dakota. Who knew I would appreciate the farm fields of North Dakota so much! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 7:37 AM CDT Hi Alec, I would love to come to see you again! I will have to ask my mommy to take me to your house sometime. I pray the Lord's comfort for you and your family. He has you in the fold of his hands and holds you close to his chest. May you feel his comfort as you deal with your earthly pains. Think of how glorious your body will be when you are sitting by Jesus in Heaven! Your mommy, daddy, brother and baby love you very much! My parents and I pray daily for you and your family. God Bless you all, Autumn Hoekstra Autumn Hoekstra <nickkie82@yahoo.om> Rock Valley, IA 51247 - Monday, August 20, 2007 11:22 PM CDT Wow! I will say some extra prayers for your family. You have been so amazing to me. No one can question your love and dedication and how hard you have worked to give your boys quality of life and to make some wonderful memories. May God continue to stay right beside you and IN you(you know He will). Love you guys, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> Alvord, ia usa - Monday, August 20, 2007 10:50 PM CDT Brad,Steph and boys, Sorry to hear about Alec. We will be praying for strength for you guys. I hope Aaron enjoys his first day of school. I bet he is such a big help with everything. He loves his little brother so much. You will be in out thoughts this week. The Kruse Family: Lorin,Jami,Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> - Monday, August 20, 2007 8:36 PM CDT Brad, Steph and boys, I can't imagine the pain that you have all had to endure. Your faith will get you through this ~ just trust in each other and know that your love for your little boy will always be there. Your family is always in my thoughts and prayers. Janel (Almhjeld) Strawn <jjstrawn@yahoo.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Monday, August 20, 2007 4:38 PM CDT My heart is so heavy for all of you. Alec has been on my mind for days now and I have been checking for updates. I'm so sorry to read today's. We are praying for all of you. Sending you cyber hugs and lots of love. Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ United States - Monday, August 20, 2007 4:31 PM CDT I wish that we were back there, and were able to do something for you guys. It is so hard to be here and read all of this. We pray for you every night. Brad tried to get in touch when he was back last, to swing a meal by, but couldn't get through. Hoping to get back soon, and get in touch with everyone. Praying for you. Good luck to Aaron, Olivia starts on Thurs! Salena Reimer <reimer606@msn.com> Johnston, IA - Monday, August 20, 2007 1:17 PM CDT You do not know me but I used to work for Julie and I have been truly touched by Alec's story all along. It is amazing to see how much of a life Alec has had, even though the odds have been against him. As a family, you all are an amazing story because every one of you provide the hope that the future is bright. Aaron's love for his brother is so powerful! Having children of my own, I can't imagine ever dealing with this myself but would hope that I would have at least half the strength that you all have shown. My prayers are with all of you. Alec is an angel, here for all of us to learn from. :) Jennifer Basquin <job_17@msn.com> Waukee, IA US - Monday, August 20, 2007 10:48 AM CDT My prayers are with all of you. Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, August 20, 2007 10:40 AM CDT Our prayers are with you!! It is heartbreaking to read your new entry, but we know Alec will have a wonderful home in heaven. We will all miss him. Lots of hugs and love and prayers to you all!! You are constantly on my mind! I hope Aaron has fun in school! Love, Carol and family Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Monday, August 20, 2007 8:49 AM CDT Sending prayers to you all Vicki & Caden Williams Vicki Williams <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Sunday, August 19, 2007 10:39 PM CDT Just stopping by to give you some hugs. Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ United States - Thursday, August 16, 2007 6:09 PM CDT I was so moved to read Alec's (and your) story. Our family will be praying for all of you. May God bless and keep you close to Him. "For I am the LORD, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, 'Do not fear; I will help you.'" Isaiah 41:13 The Hildebrand family: Stacy Allen, Jennifer, Timbrel, Dakota, and Warner <jennibrand@yaho.com> Longview, TX USA - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 4:04 PM CDT Steph,Turk and Boys, We are all praying for you. I can see how much you guys love that little guy. He is a true blessing. I can see that Aaron is in love with Alec and loves to cuddle with him. He seems to be a big help to you guys. Steph if you need anything just let us know. Like I said before we are praying for you everyday. The Kruse Family: Lorin,Jami,Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> - Monday, August 13, 2007 9:47 PM CDT We are saddened to hear that Alec is not doing well now. Stay strong and know that people all over are praying for your family! It was a treat to see the 4 of you in a recent photo, looking happy and relaxed! Good memories......keep them in your heart gena atcher <atcherboy@iowatelecom.net> nevada, ia USA - Monday, August 13, 2007 6:26 PM CDT We are keeping your family in our prayers.....God will provide, He is an AMAZING GOD and will do AMAZING things for you..... Darcy Jo Gerber Darcy Gerber <dgerber@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Monday, August 13, 2007 11:51 AM CDT Alex is flying by to say hello! I have not been here in a bit and am so sad to see all that is going on with Alec. We are praying for him and for you. Also, to get the guest book archived you just need to send caringbridge an email. They took care of Alex's in a day or so, making it very easy to get into the guestbook. Love, MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, August 12, 2007 10:30 AM CDT Dear Steph, Brad and boys, My heart aches for you guys and I just want you to know that you're always in my prayers. The way I see it, God knew exactly what He was doing when He chose you two to be Alec's parents. You have been such troopers, never faltering in your faith and in your love for Alec. You have given so-o-o much. You have been an awesome example for all of us. Now you need to reach for the comfort that only God can give. Continuing to pray, Cheryl Monen Cheryl Monen <cnrmonen@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Friday, August 10, 2007 9:37 PM CDT LOVE THE NEW PICTURES!!!! Thanks so much for adding some new ones, they are soooo cute. The family picture must be from Alexandria? Glad to hear you are home! Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Friday, August 10, 2007 10:30 AM CDT Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Greetings from a friend of Dr. Lori... Patty Stricke Rochester, MN USA - Friday, August 10, 2007 10:00 AM CDT My heart aches so for Alec and you all. My computer was down, so I heard from Julie C. that things aren't going very well. I can't imagine what you must be going through, but God will carry you through as hard as it may be. Lean on all of us also, we want to help! Your family is so very precious to us! Please give Alec and Aaron big hugs for me!! I will keep you all in my prayers. We love you! Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, August 9, 2007 9:24 AM CDT We just dropped by to check on you today. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Thursday, August 9, 2007 9:20 AM CDT Turk, Steph and Aaron, My heart is aching for you all and I pray that your faith will keep you strong. Alec is such a blessing to all of us and please know how special he is to so many people. Reading through your guestbook I see that Alec has touched so many lives and people who don't even know him. We love you and miss you guys! Love, Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 11:26 PM CDT Just wanted to let you know that we are still thinking about you and praying for you. Keep your great faith in God and remember that if He leads you to it, He will get you through it. ~Dean & Sarah Rajewich and family Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 9:53 PM CDT There isn't a minute that passes by that I don't think about you guys. Sending hugs & prayers your way!!! Sending our love- Jesse, Carrie, Jacob & Ethan Van Egdom The Van Egdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 3:56 PM CDT Hi Steph and family, I just wanted to let you know that I continue to watch for your updates and we think of Alec everyday and keep him and your whole family in our prayers. I still have a stack of pictures to send to you from camping. I hope that we can do it again some time. Blessings, Kim Kim Kovash <tomkimkovash@cox.net> Omaha, NE - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 1:54 PM CDT My thoughts and prayers are with your family! I have been thinking about you all a lot lately and I am so sorry to read how much you have been going through these past weeks...Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help. Tracy Page Rapid City, SD USA - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 1:30 PM CDT Thinking of you and praying for all of you. The Lord has blessed me with a truly remarkable grandaughter, your husband and sons and my heart breaks for you as you go thru this stressful time. We are all selfish and never want to part with someone you cherish so. Trust in the Lord and take care of yourself and unborn child. Love you all, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 1:08 PM CDT LOVE TO ALL OF YOU!!!! I have cancelled my office training trip to South Carolina next week because I could not bear to be gone now. I am availble to you 24/7. Please, please ask and allow me to do anything that I can to help! Love from Aunt Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 12:32 AM CDT Brad, Steph and Aaron, My heart breaks with pain as I read what you have been through. Decisions as parents we never want to think about. You and your entire family have been in our prayers and continue to be. Keep leaning on God he is there for you even though it may not feel like it. Cindy Cindy Waltner <cindywaltner@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 11:42 AM CDT stephanie and brad I can only imagine being a parent trying to make the decision you guys are. You have asked God to be with you for Alec's whole life... and He has been whether you have always felt it or not. He chose you to be his parents many very special reasons and He has not left you. You have asked Him to be with you at this time and He is. Just listen to your heart. God knows better than anyone what it feels like to have to make a decision about a son. He feels your pain. You cannot make a bad decision after asking God to be with you in the decision. Whatever you decide as parents is right. Love and prayers Beth McSpadden <bbmcspadden@aol.com> - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 11:01 AM CDT We're keeping you in our prayers, and asking that God give you the guidance you so need at this difficult time of decisions. He is with you!! Julie Carolan Lester, IA - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 8:55 AM CDT We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers, Steph. Hang in there...God is with you and you all are loved so much!! Hugs and prayers to you all!! GOD BLESS!! Love ya, Joel, Marilyn, Seth and Mia Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Tuesday, August 7, 2007 10:08 PM CDT I'm so sorry to hear that you are going back again. My heart goes out to all of you. Your in our prayers. Big hugs. Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Tuesday, August 7, 2007 6:15 PM CDT Brad and Stephanie, I am praying for your family. I know you are all tired, but you are doing so great to keep up with everything. You have done everything you can do and more, when others may have quit! You are amazing parents! Love, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> Alvord, ia usa - Tuesday, August 7, 2007 11:20 AM CDT Praying for you to have the wisdom and strength to understand God's plan for Alec and the rest of the family. great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Tuesday, August 7, 2007 8:05 AM CDT Your wonderful family is in our prayers continuously. May God Bless you as you make your trip to the ER. Our continued prayers, Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey adn Bailee Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Monday, August 6, 2007 3:00 PM CDT Dear family, my heart is hurting for you. I pray that what ever God decides He gives you the peace in your heart. I will be praying constantly and may His will be done. Alec hang in there baby. Aaron you are a wonderful little boy and Mommy and Daddy are very blessed to have you and Alec. Please keep us posted and if there is anything we can do. Heather Wilson <heather@mythigo.com> - Monday, August 6, 2007 1:24 PM CDT Glad that you are home and in your own surroundings. We check in often, but don't let you know by signing in. our prayers are with you. Stay strong! Gena, Don and Nick gena atcher <atcherboy@iowatelecom.net> nevada, iowa USA - Friday, August 3, 2007 9:57 PM CDT Glad to hear that you are home. Praying that Alec is able to rest peacefully with no ickies. Praying for strength, comfort, and peace for you all. God Bless www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole Tamm <Tamm06@aol.com> - Friday, August 3, 2007 8:11 PM CDT I check your site constantly, although I do not always sign in. I just want you to know that our whole family is praying for your family. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you. God bless you all. Judy Scholten Cypress, TX - Friday, August 3, 2007 4:07 PM CDT Lots of love and prayers and hugs from Colorado. Bob Beth McKenna Kenzi and Nikki McSpadden <bbmcspadden@aol.com> Parker, CO - Friday, August 3, 2007 1:28 PM CDT Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Christy and Joel Christy Harrisburg, SD 57032 - Friday, August 3, 2007 11:39 AM CDT We check up on you often and are very sad to hear how things have been going. you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Kim Holder (www.caringbridge.org/visit/alexanderholder ) <kaholder@comcast.net> Pembroke, ma - Thursday, August 2, 2007 7:06 PM CDT We just got back from seeing Tim's relatives in ND. Tom called us on the way home. Just to let you know, I'm praying for Alex, your whole family and the medical staff to give comfort to Alex. I pray that you feel God's arms wrapped around you in this difficult time. I continue to admire your faith Stephanie. You are an inspiration to alot of us!!! susan long <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, ia - Thursday, August 2, 2007 5:01 PM CDT Thinking of you and holding you in our prayers. Karen and Justin www.caringbridge.org/wa/love4justin <karenbrbkr@yahoo.com> Olympia, wa - Thursday, August 2, 2007 4:19 PM CDT Always here praying.......God Bless. www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole Tamm <Tamm06@aol.com> - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 8:52 PM CDT Hey guys. We are praying for your family, and think of you often. Sending lots of love your way. Brad and Salena Reimer <reimer606@msn.com> Johnston, IA - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 8:26 PM CDT Thinking of and praying for your entire family. May God give all of you strength in the days ahead. Hugs to you all. Hang in there and know that many are thinking of you. Ronda Steiner <rksccc@hotmail.com> Sisseton , SD USA - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 8:03 PM CDT Our continued prayers are with you dearest Alec and your wonderful family. God Bless you all during this very difficult time. The Roemen Family Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 5:11 PM CDT Brad and Stephanie, I will pray for your family that you will be at peace with all of your medical decisions. I am so proud of you and your strength and dedication to your boys and each other. Love, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm3@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 3:14 PM CDT Alec and family, we are praying for all of you and sending you lots of love and hugs. Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 12:51 AM CDT Alec, we love you. We'll be praying for all of you for strength and wisdom to make the best decisions for Alec. Love to all. great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 9:05 AM CDT Our prayers are with you! We will PRAY for little Alec! Lots of Love, Carol and Scott <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 8:39 AM CDT We've been thinking of you and praying for Alec. We're here if you need us for anything. Ann Garry <amgarry@hotmail.com> Madison, SD - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 8:30 AM CDT My heart breaks to hear what Alec and your family are going through. You're always in my prayers. Stay strong. Love, Miki Miki Snyders <miki@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 6:21 AM CDT Praying, praying, praying, for all of you!!!! Love ya all, Trista and Bryce Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 5:27 PM CDT Stephanie, Brad, Aaron and Alec; Keeping you in our prayers. May God bring you comfort in every way through all that you are experiencing. Deanna Peters <dpeters@sio.midco.net (www.caringbridge.org/sd/jp)> Sioux Falls, SD - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 5:05 PM CDT So sorry to hear that Alec is not doing well. We will continue to pray for you guys! ~Dean & Sarah Rajewich and family Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 1:27 PM CDT Guys, you hang in there. We will call to check in today on our way home from Minneapolis. Went to a healing service last night. You were in our thoughts so we are hoping by prozy, you are all healed! God has grand things in store for you! God bless and God speed. Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine and Rebekah (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 9:27 AM CDT The Garry's in Colorado are praying for you. I have been checking in on you guys all day so hopefully no news is good news. I'm sure you have had a long day but please update us tomorrow. We are constantly thinking of you and praying for Alec. Love, Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 0:17 AM CDT Hey guys, so sorry to hear Alec isn't doing well. Keep us updated with his condition. We are praying for you! The Garrys Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co - Monday, July 30, 2007 5:12 PM CDT I hope you had a good vacation. Alec will be in our prayers. Stay strong. Jami <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> - Monday, July 23, 2007 8:43 PM CDT Hi Idekers! I'm sorry we didn't get to talk before you left for your big vacation today! I hope you have a wonderful trip. You are always in our prayers! Luv ya guys! The Hanisch's The Hanisch's <ahanisch@iw.net> - Saturday, July 21, 2007 10:13 PM CDT Good Morning. What a wonderful blessing about the ECHO! You are constantly in our prayers and you will always be. I do hope that you guys can go on vacation; you definitely need the down time. Hang in there and take care of yourselves. We are always here to help. Heather Wilson <heather@mythigo.com> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, July 19, 2007 8:43 AM CDT I know you are very busy but we would love to see new/recent pictures of the boys since it's been 6 weeks since we have seen you. Funny story. We were watching Little Einsteins the other day and there was a little cowgirl on it. Regan said "she's a cowgirl and I'm a cowBOY like Aaron!" I found it pretty funny that she could distinguish the difference but she wanted to be like Aaron! Anyway, I had to share that with you. God Bless You All! The Garrys Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co 80247 - Wednesday, July 18, 2007 6:02 PM CDT Hey Alec, praying your appointment today goes well. Can't wait to see you tonight. Bryce and I will keep praying for all of you!! Love Bryce and Trista Trista Moss <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, July 18, 2007 2:33 PM CDT Alec, we're praying for you and your family. Hang in there buddy! Love, The Van Egdom's The Van Egdom's Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, July 18, 2007 10:56 AM CDT I have been thinking a lot about you guys lately. I stop and say a prayer. It is hard to read some of your latest journals. I can't say I know your pain but I can relate as you know. I wish I had words to make it all better. There are none. All I can say is that you are doing all that you can. How lucky you are to have Alec and how lucky he is to have parents like you guys. I am always praying for good days for your little/Big Guy. God Bless Ann "Angel Eli's mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 11:44 PM CDT Just to let you know my prayers are with all of you and praying the test came out OK. Love you all, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 3:11 PM CDT Steph,Brad and boys~ We will keep lifting you all up in prayers! Sorry I haven't checked the website in awhile and reading your last few entries makes my heart ache! May God just hold you all in His loving care and give you all the strength you need!! I am in AWE of you and Brad and how you have held your family all together through all this!! You have been an awesome example of perserverance and strength!! God bless you all! Love and prayers! Marilyn Moser Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 2:55 PM CDT Brad, Steph & boys~ Sorry about the lack of signing~ we check for updates every day, but are not good at letting you know that we have stopped by. You guys are still in our thoughts & prayers, especially during this trying time. ~Dean, Sarah & family Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 9:46 AM CDT We're praying for all of you. great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 8:09 AM CDT Prayers to you all as always! Alec is in Wyatt's prayers every night before he goes to bed. Your family is so special to us! We Love You! April & guys April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Monday, July 16, 2007 11:44 PM CDT Alec and family- Sorry I have not signed in a while. I'm praying for you all. I know the heavy heart of seeing your child suffer. Praying for a better night. Love, Leslie Leslie Reynolds <rey7@bellsouth.net> Atlanta, GA - Monday, July 16, 2007 11:22 PM CDT Continuing to lift you all in prayer. Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> califon, nj United States - Sunday, July 15, 2007 7:12 PM CDT Hello, Just wanted to let Alec and the whole family know that I continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers... I stumbled upon Alec's website, when checking on Dani German's, and have been checking back to see how things are going for all of you. Alec is quite the little trooper. May God give you the strength and guidance you need through this very difficult time ... Ronda S <rksccc@hotmail.com> Sisseton, SD - Friday, July 13, 2007 5:35 PM CDT Just wanted you guys to know you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. We will be praying for surgery to go smoothly and for peaceful days for you all, especially for Alec's big brother! Sending lots of love from MN~ Maria www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylie Maria Gibbons <riau2@aol.com> Falcon Heights, MN - Thursday, July 12, 2007 7:36 PM CDT your always in my thoughts and prayers Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, July 12, 2007 1:46 PM CDT Praying, praying, praying, praying, praying............what else can I do?????? Love you all so much it hurts!!!! Praying you all feel the hugs from the loving arms of Jesus around you....... Mom Grandma Kim - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 7:12 PM CDT Continued prayers for you all. The Reimers Salena Reimer <reimer606@msn.com> Johnston, IA - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 7:12 PM CDT I'm so so sorry. I just don't know what to say. You are an amazing family and truly an inspiration to many of us. Your faith in God is a beacon of Hope to me. I'm praying for all of you and sending you big hugs. Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> califon, nj United States - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 6:02 PM CDT Dear Stephanie and Brad, My heart goes out to you in this difficult time. I can't imagine what you are feeling. I do know that you are an inspiration to alot of us Steph. I also know that God is with you and has a plan for all of this. I pray that the Dr's can help Alec with the medical issues, that Aaron feels comforted with God's wide open arms and that you two continue to have the faith and trust. He is always with us! susan long <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, ia - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 4:42 PM CDT Our continued prayers are with you during this difficult time. Wow.....AAron sure is growing up fast isn't he?? So aware of whats going on around him. Give him a hug for us. Take care and God Bless! Rich and Lindsey Roemen and Family <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA US - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 2:43 PM CDT Happy 4th of July! Just wanted to stop by and check on how things are going. You all remain in our prayers. Can't wait for VBS to start Sunday! Are you excited Aaron?? We are going to have a blast! Take care guys! We love you! Dar and Family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 2:24 PM CDT Alec, I am continuing to pray for you and your family. Hope the physicians are able to figure how to help you during the reoccurrences like you are experiencing. Thinking of you. AnnEide <HFMito@cableone.net> - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 0:59 AM CDT Brad, Steph and Boys We just wanted to say Happy 4th of July! Hope you guys are doing well and enjoying the summer. I'm sure you have been busy camping! Mary and Connie are coming tonight so we are excited to see them. We started a blog page: thegarrys.blogspot.com We also have new e-mail addresses so keep us updated with everyone and especially the new baby! Lots of Love, The Garrys Ryan and Kari Garry <kari.garry@hotmail.com> Denver, Co USA - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 8:58 PM CDT Brad, Steph and family, I hope things are going better for you. I heard Alec was sick this weekend so I am hoping he is getting stronger. I hope you have a safe and wonderful 4th of July. Steph if you ever what to get away to scrapbook we have a group up here that meets every third Saturday of the month and we work on our books from 8:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m. This will be my first month in the group but they sound like a lot of fun. Food is provided. Well I better go I have to work tomorrow. Jami Kruse <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills, - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 8:48 PM CDT Have a fun & safe 4th of July! Miss you guys!!! Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 1:05 PM CDT Hey Stephanie and Family, It is Matthew's Mom checking out your site. Cute pictures! It sounds like the strain of MRSA is different from Matthew's. Maybe they should try IV antibiotics if the next culture is the same. Let me know if I can help out in anyway. Tell Dr Malone HELLO from us (haha). Email anytime. God Bless! Natalie www.caringbridge.org/visit/matthewfranson St Paul, MN - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 0:44 AM CDT The page is not www.4-life.com, I had a mistake the page is www.transferfactorwholesale.my4life.com, please visit that page, since Ariana started the transfer factor she doesn't need antibiotics, and never had a pulmonia since she started the transfer factors. Sincerely, Lisbeth Santiago Lisbeth Santiago <lisbethsan2004@yahoo.com> PR - Monday, June 25, 2007 10:58 PM CDT I'm so sorry I write throw, but I meant through. I hope do you understand me, my english is horrible. Sorry. Lisbeth Santiago <lisbethsan2004@yahoo.com> PR - Monday, June 25, 2007 10:27 PM CDT The reason I'm writing to you is because I have a daughter with a Mitochondrial disease, my daughter have been throw different types of medication, since I have discovered a natural medication that it call 4 Life Riovida, she started Riovida in April 2006, since that date my daughter has not been in the hospital. She has more energy, she's not having no more cramps, she is more awake. 4 Life Riovida doesn't have no side effects and boost the inmunology system. Ariana have lactic acidosis, carnitine defficiency, GERD, epilepsy(since I started Riovida she got better),developmental delay, failure to thrive, my little girl have 29 months. If you want more information about this product visit the page www.4-life.com. Sorry, but I'm so worry about your child health, I pray for him all the time. I'm from Puerto Rico, sorry but my english is no perfect, I hope that do you understand my letter. Lisbeth Santiago <lisbethsan2004@yahoo.com> Utuado, PR - Monday, June 25, 2007 10:05 PM CDT Hey there: Just stopping by to check in on all of you. I sure hope you are not still in the hospital. Our prayers are with you. Big hugs from Sara (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) The Hoffman's <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ United States - Thursday, June 21, 2007 6:44 PM CDT Praying that Alec is out of the hospital,, and that the seizures are under control now so that everyone can get adequate rest. Jennifer from the prayer bears <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Bridgeport, Texas - Thursday, June 21, 2007 6:10 PM CDT Stephanie and family, haven't signed for quite some time, but wanted to let you know that we check in on the website. Hope you were able to figure the meds out for Alec for his seizures and able to return home. Take care. Deanna Peters (Jason, JP, Matthew & Julianna) <dpeters@sio.midco.net / www.caringbridge.org/sd/jp > Sioux Falls, - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 2:55 PM CDT Just coming by to give you big hugs from both Joseph and I. I hope that you are enjoying your summer. Have a wonderful week. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Monday, June 11, 2007 6:08 PM CDT Thinking about you. If you need someone to talk to I'll be home later tonight (after 7:30). Love ya! Carrie Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproductsc.om> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 2:24 PM CDT Courtesy of SparkleTags.com Wishing you a safe and happy summer! Your Missouri Prayer Bear friends, Michael, Kristina & Dakota Glidewell Kristina Glidewell <Kristina_1409@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 7:50 PM CDT Happy summer! You were right, it was worth the read. Thanks for sharing. Love, Alex and MaryBeth MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, May 27, 2007 5:03 AM CDT Hi Alec! I had fun meeting you and Aaron yesterday at the farm. Hopefully we can play again sometime soon! Love, Jacob Jacob <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, May 25, 2007 7:50 AM CDT I was thinking about you guys today. Thought I would stop in and say hello. I pray everything is going well or at least ok. God Bless Ann "Angel Eli's mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> brighton, Co USA - Thursday, May 24, 2007 5:23 PM CDT Hey, Grandma B gave me an update, but sure would like to see one on your page. Also, would like to see a picture with Alec and his glasses. Grandma B said he was so cute. Take care and hope you are feeling better Stephanie. great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, ia usa - Friday, May 18, 2007 10:06 AM CDT Just wondering if you fell off the face of the earth??? I hope you had a great mother's day! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Thursday, May 17, 2007 8:18 AM CDT Hi Alec- I am glad to hear things are going great with you. I bet you are excited about a new baby on the way. How exciting! Keep on doing well! And tell your mommy "Happy Mother's Day and Congrats on the news!" HUGS- Ann Eide <HFMito@cableone.net> Columbus, MS - Sunday, May 13, 2007 3:45 AM CDT Happy Mother's Day Steph! (a little early) Hope you have a great weekend & I love the pic Nikki has posted of you, Alec & Autumn...too cute! Talk to you soon. Love, Carrie The Van Egdom's <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, - Friday, May 11, 2007 8:03 AM CDT Hi there! Glad to hear things are going well. Can't wait to see you all this weekend! Take care and I love you guys. Uncle Dean <dean@sturgisbikeweek.com> Sturgis, SD - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 4:37 PM CDT It was so good seeing you guys when you dropped the door off. Hopefully we'll see much more of you now that we're out of isolation for the winter. Have a great week. Miss ya. Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine and Rebekah (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 8:00 AM CDT Hey, Alec. How is everything going. Just thinking about you today. I hope you are having a great day. Can't wait to see you again. Love Trista Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Thursday, April 26, 2007 1:17 PM CDT I LOVE the picture of Alec on the top of the page, he is just so adorable! Hope you are all well Deb Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 10:30 PM CDT oh and by the way...where are some new pics in this photo album!! :-) Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine and Rebekah (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) <tsspader@sio.midco.net> - Thursday, April 12, 2007 4:19 AM CDT As always...you guys are in my thought and prayers. I just never have time to sign the guestbook during the day so now that I'm wide awake at 4:15am, I have all the time in the world. Maybe I should write a book! Anyway...I'm glad things are going better with Alec and I hope they continue that way - what a relief it would be if the IVIG was the answer to so many issues. We're cautiously optomistic that it may help us after we see that doctor this summer. God bless all of you. Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine and Rebekah (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) - Thursday, April 12, 2007 4:18 AM CDT Thanks for the update...I was getting a little worried! =) Have a great week & talk to you soon! Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> RV, - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 7:42 AM CDT Cheers to IVIG!!! It has been the best thing that has happened to Patrick also, and I would highly recommend it! I'm so glad for you guys! I hope you had a Hoppy Easter!! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 10:18 AM CDT Meagan & Sophie www.caringbridge.com/ky/sophiesong <tooge01@yahoo.com> Louisville, Ky USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 1:09 PM CDT Happy Easter! Wyatt <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Sunday, April 8, 2007 10:23 AM CDT Jo Hannah Rebecca and Rachel Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Saturday, April 7, 2007 6:48 PM CDT Alec, we found ;you on Eli's Angels quite some time ago and have been checking on you sporadically ever since. We are so glad that you have had a really good couple of days , we know how important that is for your body to get a break and for mom and dad's sanity. We will continue to check in on you often. Kim , Alex and Tom Holder (www.caringbridge.org/visit/alexanderholder) Kim Holder <kaholder@comcast.net> Pembroke, MA - Saturday, April 7, 2007 5:33 PM CDT Hi Guys, So glad to hear Alec is doing well! The article in the paper was very well done! I'm so happy for your baby news:) You are all in our daily thoughts & prayers!!!! Hope your Easter is great! Love Ya, April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 4:33 PM CDT Glad to read that Alec is doing well, and praying that he continues to do so. Also praying that the home IVIG therapy is approved soon. Jennifer from the prayer bears <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Bridgeport, Texas - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 2:46 PM CDT Hi Alec, I hope you had fun at you and Aaron's party this weekend. Give your mom a big hug from me today. Aaron too. I hope I get to see you guys this weekend, if not, soon!!! Have a great week!!! Love, Trista & Bryce Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Monday, April 2, 2007 4:47 PM CDT Steph, Brad and family I am happy to see the Alec is doing better. The story in the paper was very nicely put. I hope you have a good April and Easter. We will be travel to NC for Easter. Any hints on traveling, what to do or not to do.lol High fives and Hugs for Alec, from Ryland. Summer mom to Ryland <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com <A HREF= http://www.caringbridge.com/sd/ryland/>www.caringbridge.com/sd/ryland</a>> Hartford, SD - Thursday, March 29, 2007 12:31 AM CDT What a wonderful story in the newspaper. I feel that your new little one will be able to run and play with Aaron and then lay with Alec and provide hugs and kisses. It will be the best of both worlds. I'll keep praying for your family great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, ia usa - Thursday, March 29, 2007 9:50 AM CDT You have a very beautiful family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. It is wonderful to see and hear the progress your little boy has made. Erica Niemeyer <jae412@hotmail.com> Harrisburg, SD 57032 - Thursday, March 29, 2007 8:44 AM CDT Beautiful writeup in The Champion! Aaron and Alec will be so excited to have a new baby in the house. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Take care! Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Thursday, March 29, 2007 7:45 AM CDT What a wonderful article. You guys are such and inspiration and a testimony of FAITH!! THANK YOU!! Congratulations on the new little one. I am so glad things are going well for you right now. My girls pray for Alec nightly!! Love Beth McSpadden and family Beth McSpadden <bbmcspadden@aol.com> - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 11:02 PM CDT Hey Steph! I got behind on checking the site and then something big happens. CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! We will pray for your good health during the pregnancy and of course good health for the baby. I'm so happy for you. God Bless Michelle Tilstra <tilly@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 8:34 AM CDT We just dropped by to check on you today. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 1:51 AM CDT Congrats to you all! Hope you have a girl so that you gain some balance. Three against one isn't fair! Your time at DW looked fun! What a good time for ya'll! We wish you all the best!! Gena, Don and Nick <atcherboy@iowatelecom.net> Nevada, IA USA - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 9:25 PM CDT Congrats! What awesome news!! Prayers for a healthy baby and continued good days ahead for Alec! Maria www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylie Maria Gibbons <riau2@aol.com> Falcon Heights, MN - Monday, March 26, 2007 10:00 PM CDT Congrats to you all!!! Keeping you in our prayers, and wishing you a healthy, happy baby! Salena Reimer Johnston, IA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 7:22 PM CDT Alex is stopping by to say hello! Congratulations!! Alex’s Page Love, MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, March 25, 2007 5:17 AM CDT Great Pictures you guys. Thanks for sharing, looks like you had an awsome time. Im glad Alec is feeling better. Praise the Lord. Congratulations to you guys also. That is awsome. Take care of yourself. Thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Debbie www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn Debbie Fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net> Corona, CA USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 0:57 AM CDT So happy to hear your exciting news!! We are glad to hear Alec is doing better. Have fun with Aaron at State Wrestling! Gotta get those little wresters started early!! I bet he is eating this up!! Have a good weekend in Rapid. Congratulations again and we will keep you all in prayer! Love ya lots, Marilyn Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, - Saturday, March 24, 2007 8:44 PM CDT Congratulations on the baby news!!!! Also, I am so glad to know that you are having some good quality time at home. Have a safe trip to the cities next week. We will be praying for you. The Roemen Family Rich and Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 8:42 AM CDT What a wonderful update. I will be praying that Alec has some really good days and for a healthy baby. YEAH!!!!! God is Good Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 5:39 PM CDT Hey Stephanie and family Congratulations on your pregnancy, awesome news!! I am glad to hear that Alec has been having some good days. Take care!! Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 4:04 PM CDT Holly Cow!!! That's great news. Not what I expected but awesome. I'm so happy for you guys. We will pray with you. Glad to hear that you have been able to stay in and enjoy each other for the time being. We know all to well how the appointments can wear on everyone. Big hugs. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ United States - Thursday, March 22, 2007 1:33 PM CDT Wow, my mouth just dropped! We just talked about this! I am so happy for you guys. I love this kind of news! I'll talk to you soon! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <BONNIEL@STARBAND.NET> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 3:43 PM CDT Congrats on the pregnancy! Keeping your entire family in our thoughts & prayers.... ~The Rajewich"s Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD US - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 1:49 PM CDT OH! MY GOSH, WHAT A SURPRISE THAT IS WONDERFUL NEWS.I had no idea last time you were here, what a blessing!!! I'm thrilled for all of you! We are glad to hear that things are going well!! PS I was hoping that I could come on here and see Happy Easter for the next 6 months! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 11:24 AM CDT Congratulations guys! That is so wonderful. I am very glad Alec is feeling better overall. We are constantly praying for you and for your strength. It is very important especially now that you take care of yourself as much as possible. If you need anything don't hesitate but you definately have our prayers. Heather Wilson <heather@mythigo.com> - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 11:08 AM CDT congratulations. You're family is in my prayers sara lagrange, ga usa - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 10:59 AM CDT Brad, Steph and boys, 1st - CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am so happy for you guys! I pray that all goes well and that you will have a healthy baby! (how exciting!!) I'm glad that Alec is feeling better. It was good to see you in church. I didn't get a chance to talk to you, so I wanted to be sure and gratulate you and let you know that I'm praying for you!! Take care & God Bless! Lots of love, Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 9:44 PM CDT you guys are doing a great job keep it up . right when we think we have Gods plan figured out we both have to remember its a one day at a time thing right? well all is going pretty well with mike just keep doing the chemo thing for as long as his body will take it. we will continue to hold you in our prayers mike and kathy moser mike and kathy moser larchwood, ia usa - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 3:29 PM CDT Thank you so much for sharing. I wept as I read through your journal, thank you for your honest comments during the recent hospitalization. As a parent whose child is just starting his battle you have helped us immensly. Thank you. Donna and Dylan www.carepages.com CarePage: SuperDylan Donna Judd <djudd01@hotmail.com> Modesto, CA USA - Monday, March 19, 2007 11:18 PM CDT Hi from Dee with Make A Wish. The pictures are adorable. I hope today is a good day for Alec and the rest of your family. I haven't checked for awhile...my, you've had a lot going on. You have my prayers. Dee Grosz <ddgrosz@sio.midco.net> - Monday, March 19, 2007 11:32 AM CDT I love the pics, looks like so much fun, at least in most of the pics, lol Keep well guys, Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Saturday, March 17, 2007 9:48 PM CDT The photos are great! it brings up wonderful memories of taking Eli to Animal kingdom. Thank you so much for sharing Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Friday, March 16, 2007 12:42 AM CDT Neat pictures! Stay healthy! lots of love Great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, ia use - Friday, March 16, 2007 9:09 AM CDT So glad to hear that Alec is feeling better. I loved the new pic's! Keep them coming! Hope to see you Sunday. Take care and stay healthy!!! Lots of love, Dar and Family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Friday, March 16, 2007 8:12 AM CDT Hi Stephanie,Brad,and family. I loved your pictures-You have a beautiful family. Looked liked everyone had a great time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jamie Fjerestad/Driscoll <jfjerest@usd.edu> brandon, sd minnehaha - Thursday, March 15, 2007 11:03 PM CDT Those pictures are so percious. Looked like you had fun. Is Aaron going to be a little drummer? I hope things are going well for Alec. I hope you are enjoying the nice weather and have been able to get outside. We are still praying for you. The Kruse Family: Lorin,Jami,Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills, MN - Thursday, March 15, 2007 10:07 PM CDT What a beautiful family!! Looks like you guys had a wonderful time with many memories made. Thank you for sharing those with us. Brought a much needed smile to my face today. :o) God Bless with prayers always. Tamm <tamm06@aol.com www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole> - Thursday, March 15, 2007 10:03 PM CDT What awesome pictures!! It looks like you had a great time! What wonderful memories! I hope all is going well for you this week and Alec is feeling good! Lots of love, Carol Caro Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Thursday, March 15, 2007 2:21 PM CDT We are so glad to hear Alec is home and doing good. God is amazing. We hope that things continue to go well for you and your family. We will continue our prayers. God Bless! Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, Kensey and Bailee Roemen Lindsey <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Ia US - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 4:43 PM CDT We are so glad to hear Alec is home and doing good. God is amazing. We hope that things continue to go well for you and your family. We will continue our prayers. God Bless! Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, Kensey and Bailee Roemen Lindsey <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Ia US - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 4:42 PM CDT We are so glad to hear that you are home, and Alec is doing good. We continue to pray for your family. We will be back in next week. We'll stop by the neighborhood one evening, and maybe be able to catch you out if it is nice. We look forward to seeing everyone again! Brad and Salena Reimer Salena Reimer Johnston, IA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 4:24 PM CDT Hi Stephanie and family Good news that you guys are home. God is good. I will continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. take care Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 9:22 AM CDT So happy to hear that Alex is home! God does answer prayers as we know. Praying that the antibiotics work and that you all are able to rest and stay healthy. Enjoyed having supper with Tom, Kim, Caleb and Aaron Sat. night. Aaron was such a good little boy. Susan Long <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 8:43 AM CDT I am so glad Alec is home. The power of pray has come through. We will keep you in our prayers. The Kruse Family: Lorin,Jami,Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills, MN - Monday, March 12, 2007 10:34 PM CDT I'm so glad to hear that you guys are home. Praise God ! Barbara Hoffman (www.caringbirdge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, - Monday, March 12, 2007 7:51 PM CDT Glad to hear you are home and Alec is doing well!!! I talked to your mom and dad at bible study last night and they said Alec was very happy! I was so happy to hear that! Prayers are always with your family! Lots of love Carol Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Monday, March 12, 2007 4:48 PM CDT Glad to hear things improved. Sorry I didn't get a chance to call more often or check in on you. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Monday, March 12, 2007 8:29 AM CDT Steph,Brad,Aaron and Alec, I just was on the web-site and read your trials for the week. I am so glad that he is doing so much better. I hope that you can come home soon. I was reading in my book of sayings from scrapbooking and found two real neat sayings. The first one says "For where your teasure is, there your heart will be also" and the second one is " There is nothing like a child's smile to make all the chaos worthwhile." That last one reminds me of Alec's because he always has a smile on. I only met him that one day in church but he seems to be a very special little boy. Your pictures are great from Disney World. I was there when I was 6 and had a blast. Both kids looked like they had fun. I have a small gift for you guys that will help you with those memories. I will give them to you or your mom tomorrow in church. You will have fun with them. Disney is such a magical place and what memories you will have to treasure. The Kruse Family: Lorin,Jami,Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills , MN - Saturday, March 10, 2007 10:15 PM CST Awesome news! Thank you for updating your website today. It is such a relief to know NOW that Alec is doing better and not having to wait until tomorrow at church to find out! You and your families have been in my thoughts and prayers all day- (and by the looks of your guestbook, quite a few others!!) PRAISE GOD! Love, Suzie Suzie TeGrootenhuis - Saturday, March 10, 2007 6:34 PM CST Praise God!! You have been in my thoughts and prayers all day and I just got home and had to check your site. You don't know how happy I was to read that he is doing so much better! We will now pray that you come home this weekend and that you have safe travels! Prayers are with your special family!!! Love and hugs, Carol Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Friday, March 9, 2007 9:06 PM CST Praise GOD! Obviously Alec has more to accomplish here on earth! You were all in my thoughts & prayers all week! Continued prayers! Love, April & guys:) April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 3:30 PM CST The power of prayer is awesome. We thank the Lord for more time with our precious little boy. Love you all, Great-Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 12:47 AM CST THANK YOU GOD for allowing us to care for your special little angel here on earth for a little while longer - every moment with him is a treasured gift! Aunt Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Friday, March 9, 2007 12:36 AM CST Yay!!! That's great news! Keeping you in our prayers! ~Dean & Sarah Rajewich and family Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD US - Friday, March 9, 2007 12:25 AM CST PRAISE GOD!!! Carrie Van Egdom <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, March 9, 2007 12:08 AM CST We are friends of Amy and Kyle through "The Connection" in Harrisburg. We know Amy has mentioned our grandson's name, Gabriel Hackrott to you. The poem you have on the website is one that had special meaning to us when our daughter was born 3 months premature 27 years ago. I am so happy to have it again. I hope that you will use that poem as an assurance from God right now. We don’t know what God has planned for little Alec. But we know HE IS IN CONTROL. Your family has been through so much with Alec and will continue for as long as God will let you. But IF He would call him home to be with Him, we know that you would have many many precious memories of this wonderful little boy. We would also know that Alec was in Heaven with our precious Lord with no more pain, no seizures, no IV lines, no meds! What a blessed assurance we have over those who do not believe. I will keep checking the website. I truly believe God only gives these special little ones to special people. Although I have not met you, I know you are two of these special people. Our love and prayers go out to you! We pray that He will give you a peace as you have this very precious time with your young son. Be sure to also take care of yourself. It is hard to think of that as you try to be with Alec all of the time. We pray for God's healing touch! Cheryl Hackrott <clhackrott@sio.midco.net> Harrisburg, SD - Friday, March 9, 2007 10:24 AM CST dear Brad , Stephanie, Aaron and Alec We are storming the heavens with thoughts and prayers for you sweet little Alec. We will be checking in to see your updates and pray with all my heart for a speedy recovery. God Bless. The Fogel Family www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn Debbie Fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net> Corona, ca usa - Friday, March 9, 2007 9:56 AM CST Dear Stephanie and Brad, Just wanted you to know that you have been in our prayers. We are praying for peace and comfort. You are an amazing family! I can't imagine what you must be going thru. May you all feel God's everlasting love and His precious arms around you at this time. Susan Long <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia - Friday, March 9, 2007 9:06 AM CST You are all in our Prays. Steph, I know how hard it is watching them go through so much and you just wanting to take that pain away for them. Summer, Nick, Nathan, Mitchell and Ryland <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com <A HREF= http://www.caringbridge.com/sd/ryland/>Rylands website</a>> Hartford, SD - Friday, March 9, 2007 8:07 AM CST Brad, Steph, Aaron and Alec, Thinking and praying for you all. You are an amazing family and we love you very much. Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael Kari Garry <garryk@sanford.net> Tea, SD - Friday, March 9, 2007 7:40 AM CST The Johnson's are also lifting you up in prayer... Stephanie, Brad, Alec and Aaron. Our hearts are saddened that Alec is so sick. Remember, God's love is all around you in the nurses, doctors, and staff that are there with you, helping you. Shelley (one of Alec's nurses) and family-Ron,Joey, and Aubrey <shelleyj4@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, S.D. USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 10:50 PM CST We are thinking about all of you. Our prayers are with you always. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you. We are so sorry Alec is sick. We love you all. Gary, Brenda, Kira and Allie Loftesness <bloftes1@msn.com> Soiux Falls, SD - Thursday, March 8, 2007 8:35 PM CST Steph, Brad, Aaron & Alec, we are praying for all of you. God bless. Deanna Peters and family <dpeters@sio.midco.net / www.caringbridge.org/sd/jp > - Thursday, March 8, 2007 8:00 PM CST I don't know what to say. When I heard he was in the hospital it brought tears to my eyes. Your family has become quite special to our famiy despite the fact that we have never met personally. Please know that we are praying for all of you. My heart just aches and I wish I was near to give you a hug. Know that I'm hugging you through the wires. Kiss Alec from Sara. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ United States - Thursday, March 8, 2007 7:36 PM CST I'm not sure what to say to you except I will continue to pray for you and your family. Your mother-torn words about losing Alec are so heart wrenching. By the grace of God, I cannot even imagine the tugging your heart must be going through. God's blessings to you and your family. Suzie TeGrootenhuis - Thursday, March 8, 2007 6:43 PM CST You are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. So sorry to hear that Alec is so sick Lori Blauwet <blauwet.lori@mayo.edu> Rochester, MN USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 5:43 PM CST Give Alec lots of hugs and kisses from me. I am praying for everyone. Love Mary Beth Mary Beth Blauwet <marybeth.blauwet@bms.com> - Thursday, March 8, 2007 5:35 PM CST HEY GUYS PRAYING FOR ALL OF YOU THE GRANDPA'S AND GRANDMA'S TOO. KEEP ON LOVING HIM AND GIVE HIM LOTS OF HUGS FROM US. BOB AND GLENDA HORSTMAN <gonewrestling@alliancecom.net> INWOOD, IA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 5:27 PM CST You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I love you guys! Dean <dean@sturgisbikeweek.com> Sturgis, SD USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 4:59 PM CST brad and steph, thinking of you guys, alec and aaron and praying for you Mark and Leslie <lmideker@siouxvalley.net> Humboldt, sd 57035 - Thursday, March 8, 2007 4:28 PM CST I am lifting Alec and you all up in prayer! I am just asking that "HIS" will be done! Take care of yourself and give that precious little boy lots of love!! Lots of love, Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, March 8, 2007 4:06 PM CST God bless you and your family! I read Zach West's site and Rachele refered us to your site. I am one of Zach's teacher and have heard how wonderful you and your son are! Take care and we will send many prayers your way. Lynea <lkalenze@yahoo.com> chaska, - Thursday, March 8, 2007 3:41 PM CST brad steph and alex just wanted you to know that you are in our prayers and that we pray that God will give you what you need DAILY as we know only he can. sounds like you are doing your best to care for Gods gift and that is all he ask.keep the faith and continue to pray for his guidance. we will keep you close to our hearts and in our prayers. mike and kathy moser kathy moser <mikekathymoser@hotmail.com> larchwood, ia 51241 - Thursday, March 8, 2007 2:34 PM CST I know I just talked to you this morning but now after reading the website I couldn't NOT write a note to you. First off...I wish I could endure some of your hardship for you. Secondly...I pray you will be given the grace neccessary to allow what is God's (Alec) to return when he is called. The problem is that none of us really know when that time is and how hard we should fight for those little souls that can't seem to fight on their own. I wish I had all the right words and all the right ways to help. I hope you know and will always hold on to the fact that you and Brad are so blessed to have walked this journey. The fruits of the labor are already evident. Hold fast to the fact that there are so many more fruits to be uncovered. And...Alec's days in heaven are far brighter than anything you can fight for him here on earth. Be strong and courageous. I care and can't wait for you to come back to Sioux Falls. We miss you. The kids are sending their prayers to the big guy too. Love ya, Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine and Rebekah (www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders) <tsspader@sio.midco.net> - Thursday, March 8, 2007 2:26 PM CST Stephanie, I am SO sorry you are going through this. It does hurt so much. We want our babies here with us - I know. I'm so sad for your heartache and this burden. I am praying for peace for you and your family. I hope Alec is better soon. I know you are touching him as much as possible- I so miss kissing Morgan's cheeks. Thank you to Rachele for posting the message about Alec being at Gillette. Again- I'm here for you. I'm so upset when I see families going through this- it isn't fair. Mito is horrible! Love and prayers, Leslie Leslie Reynolds <rey7@bellsouth.net> Atlanta, GA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 1:29 PM CST Just wanted you to know we are thinking about you guys and praying for peace. Love Maria & Kylie www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylie Maria Gibbons <riau2@aol.com> Falcon Heights, MN - Thursday, March 8, 2007 1:14 PM CST We are praying for Alec and all of you. Hang in there! Love, The Schultzes Rebecca Schultz Harrisburg, SD - Thursday, March 8, 2007 1:11 PM CST Lifting you all up in prayer!! God Bless!! Love and Hugs, Marilyn Moser Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 12:44 AM CST Many Prayers! Travis, Shannon & Journey Dwire Hills, MN - Thursday, March 8, 2007 11:52 AM CST We are praying for you & hoping for the best! Dean & Sarah Rajewich and family <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD US - Thursday, March 8, 2007 11:47 AM CST You are all in our thoughts & prayers... our love-Carla & Tim Feucht & girls Carla Feucht - Thursday, March 8, 2007 11:15 AM CST Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Jen (Connor's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/visit/connorscott Jen Clifton <jenclifton@msn.com> Pembroke Pines, FL USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 9:51 AM CST We are praying for Alec and all of his loving support system. We are praying for your hopsital team as well. May God grant you all the strength you need at this very moment. Jane & Jon Klemme - Jacob, Jackson and Josh <jklemme@iw.net> Harrisburg , SD - Thursday, March 8, 2007 9:25 AM CST Hi Brad & Steph & Alec, You have been on my mind sooo much. You also have my heart! It is breaking for you! I will continue to pray & keep the faith that GOD is in control & has a plan! We have all seen so many of his plans for Alec & I know he will continue to reveal them to us...in HIS time! Love You all, April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, !a. USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 9:05 AM CST Lots of love and prayers, wish I could be with you. Stay strong little Alec. Love Aunt Lisa Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sious Falls, SD USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 8:39 AM CST We have tried to read the updates here since we've moved, but Amy let me know what was going on last night. I want you to know that your family is always in our prayers, and we think of you all often. Brad and Salena Reimer and kids Johnston, IA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 7:57 AM CST hi there.....we are thinking of you...we "cyber-met" through eli's angels, which is where i found the link to this site, which is beautiful!! we'll be praying for Alec and the rest of you! Jamie, Jason, Alex & Brian MacDougall <jmacdougall5@wideopenwest.com> Trenton, MI - Thursday, March 8, 2007 6:57 AM CST I just want you all to know we are praying for you constantly!! We love you guys!!--The Hanisch's Amy Hanisch <ahanisch@iw.net> Harrisburg, SD - Thursday, March 8, 2007 0:13 AM CST Hi all, just a quick note to say I love you guys and you are all in my prayers.... Love, Amy Amy Snyders <asnyders@bell-inc.com> Larchwood, IA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 9:51 PM CST I just read your updates and am sad to hear Alec is not doing well. Just know that prayers are coming your way! Lots of love Carol Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 9:48 PM CST DEAR ALEC AND FAMILY, JULIANNA IS HERE AND SENDS YOU LOTS OF SNUGGLES AND GET WELL PRAYERS! I AM HERE FOR YOUR MOMMY AND I HOLD YOUR MOMMIES HEART WITH ALL THE LOVE AND TENDERNESS A MOMMY CAN. JULIANNA'S DADDY HOLDS YOUR DADDY UP AND SENDS HIM DADDY MUSCLES KNOWNING HOW STRONG HE HAS TO BE RIGHT NOW FOR YOU. TO YOUR BROTHER, HER SISTER AND BROTHERS SEND I LOVE YOUS AND WE ARE HERE! GOD WRAP ALEC IN YOUR LIGHT AND GIVE HIM PEACE. FLORENCE ...MILLIE TO MY FRIENDS <NENA1294@AOL.COM> HAMILTON, NJ USA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 8:06 PM CST HI I am so glad to see your pictures and hear about your trip. It looks like you all had an awesome time! Prayers are always with you! Love Carol Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 12:26 AM CST Alec - it looks like you guys had a wonderful trip (aside from the airport and hospital). Your family will have special memories forever. Thanks for posting the pictures, we truly enjoyed looking at them. I'm glad you are feeling better and happy belated birthday! www.caringbridge.org/visit/reid The Oldham Family <burninfences@verizon.net> Denton, TX - Thursday, March 1, 2007 4:25 PM CST I was so excited to finally hear about your trip. I can't wait for Rylands, which will be in November. I hope for nicer weather and better days for all of you. Summer mom to Ryland <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com > Hartford, SD - Thursday, March 1, 2007 1:05 AM CST Alex is stopping by to say have a great week! MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 10:31 AM CST Hi there buddy. You look like you had so much fun on your trip. I hope all is going well. We send big hugs www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> deltona, fl - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 9:02 PM CST Hi, my name is Alec Ideker, I live in Harrisburg, S.D. with my mom (Stephanie), dad (Brad, alis "Turk") and big brother Aaron. I LOVE THEM WITH ALL MY HEART!!! If I were able to speak, I would tell them so, again & again & again. If I were able to hug them, I would squeeze them until I could squeeze them no harder. If I were able to walk, I would chase them and never let them out of my sight. I just wanted them to know how much it means to me for all their loving and caring of me. I know that it is very difficult, frustrating, sad and even depressing at times for them, but I know that they LOVE ME ALSO, WITH ALL THEIR HEARTS AND SOULS. I truly Thank them for this blessing. I also Thank God for His blessings and the time that He has granted me, to share with my family and all my realitives, friends and people who care. God is Amazing and Great and we must have total trust in Him, even if at times it seems that He has put many obstacales in our path. He has a reason for everything. Sometimes it takes us awhile to figure it out. I want to share some thoughts with you: "PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON", People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The Prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbeilvable amount of joy. Believe it. It is real. But only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. THANK YOU FOR BEING A PART OF MY LIFE, WHETHER YOU ARE A REASON, A SEASON OR A LIFETIME. GOD'S BLESSINGS BE UPON YOU ALL!!! You will have to excuse me for now. We will converse another time. Thank you for listening. Loving you all, Alec Alec Ideker Harrisburg, S.D. U.S.A. - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 6:24 PM CST Man, I sure wish I wasn't contaminated...I really want to see more pics of your trip & hang out with you and the boys! Hopefully soon this roto-virus thing will pass. Thinking of you always! Carrie The Van Egdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 5:36 PM CST Finally a update! Great pictures you all look so happy! PS Now if I only could stop seeing Merry Christmas every time I got on there Anynomous West S, MN - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 4:39 PM CST Hi guys: I've been worried about all of you. So glad to hear about the approval. Very excited to hear more about your trip. Sara's Make a Wish came through and we'll be going to Disney next January. I can't wait. I think I'm worse then everyone else. I would love to hear more about how Alec did with things. Was he able to ride any rides? Please know that you are coptinually in our thoughts and prayers. Big hugs. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 2:29 PM CST YEAH!!!! ALEC YOUR APPROVED!!! How exciting!!! We are so happy for you!!! Just praying the home infusion now gets approved. Love ya Trista & Bryce Trista <tmoss@aiproducts.com> - Monday, February 26, 2007 4:57 PM CST Just checking in to see how things are going. Your in our prayers. Big hugs (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> - Saturday, February 24, 2007 10:14 AM CST Just checking in on you all. I hope that Alec is having a better week. Your in our prayers. Lots of Love, Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Friday, February 23, 2007 9:28 PM CST Hey! Not that you're busy or anything, but sure would like an update on how everyone is doing. Hope everyone is healthy. Hugs and kisses Great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Friday, February 23, 2007 10:28 AM CST Hey Alec, I sure hope you start feeling better. Tell your mom I'm so sorry she can't come down here tonight and that I can't come up there. I can't wait to be able to come up to your house again. It's been a while since I've been there. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Lots of Love, Trista & Bryce Trista <tmoss@aiproducts.com> - Friday, February 23, 2007 7:37 AM CST Christmas was Two months ago! We sure would like to see pics from your trip! Oh yah and we always pray for you all. Anonymous LaCount - Thursday, February 22, 2007 6:39 PM CST Your family is in my prayers. Jennifer from the prayer bears <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Bridgeport, Texas - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 11:56 AM CST Hello! Just checking in to see how you are doing? We are thinking of you guys and lifting you up in prayer for God's will to be done and for strength to cope with each day. May God rain down blessings and comfort to you all! You are such an amazing example of Christian faith and endurance and can be proud of that! Take care of yourselves and stay well! Lots of love, Marilyn,Joel, Seth and Mia Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Saturday, February 17, 2007 11:29 AM CST Brad, Stephanie, Aaron and Alec my prayers and thoughts are with you. You are one of the most amazing families that I have worked with. Will miss working with your family on a regular basis. I will still check the website. Paula Albers <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD 57039 - Friday, February 16, 2007 7:07 PM CST Stephanie, I will be praying for you and your family! Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, February 16, 2007 4:57 PM CST I hate this, too! It is hard to hear about little Alec struggling so hard ( and th rest of you, too). You all remain in my prayers. Lori <blauwet.lori@mayo.edu> Rochester, MN USA - Friday, February 16, 2007 1:41 PM CST Brad and Stephanie, I want you to know our prayers are with you. You are such an amazing and strong family! You know I have been thinking about you a lot lately and my heart goes out to you. Just keep the faith and know God is always by your side. Lots of love, Carol Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Iowa - Friday, February 16, 2007 1:33 PM CST Brad and Steph, Just want to let you know that we pray for you each day. Hang in there. God only gives us what we can handle. I learned that last year with my own family. It may be a tough and bumpy road ahead but hang in there. Tell the boys Happy Valentine's Day. Hope you stay strong and hope to see you in church on Sunday. The Kruse Family: Lorin,Jami,Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills, MN - Thursday, February 15, 2007 10:23 PM CST Hey Alec, this is Jacob. My mommy & I pray for you at bedtime. I love the picture of Barney. I hope I can play with you and Aaron sometime. Mom says I have to get to bed. Bye. Jacob Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, February 15, 2007 9:27 PM CST We just dropped by to check on you today. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Thursday, February 15, 2007 4:35 PM CST Dear Brad and Steph and boys......Don't have any words to say that may be of help. You know God walks beside you and no matter what, He will never leave your side. I pray for your strength. You inspire so many....you have done your very best...and still are!!! You guys teach me every day that I have NOTHING to complain about! Take care in this COLD weather and snuggle up with your family to stay warm. Love you, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm@alliancecom.net> Alvord, IA USA - Thursday, February 15, 2007 6:39 AM CST Stephanie: I'm so glad you were able to go to Disney. What a wonderful memory for all of you. I love the picture with Barney. My heart is with you guys and we will continue to pray for sweet Alec. Big hugs from Sara. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 8:07 PM CST I'm here if you need to chat. We are thinking about you. Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 3:53 PM CST Turk & Stephanie, I am not sure I can say excately what I feel but know that your family has touched my heart in so many ways. All I know to do for you is pray, pray that whatever happens it is His will and design. I also will pray that He steadies your heart. Hang in there! You are a very strong family unit and you can pull through this together. Heather Wilson Heather Wilson <heather@mythigo.com> Larchwood, IA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 9:48 AM CST Brad and Steph, Thinking and praying for you always everyday and especially today. I can't even imagine what you have been through with all the Dr's and hospitals. You have been such a huge inspiration to so many,how you have handled anything thrown your way. Hang in God has a plan that only he knows. Give your kids an extra hug for Valentine's Day. Cindy Cindy Waltner <cindywaltner@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 8:38 AM CST Happy Valentines Day!!! Love ya! The Van Egdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 7:37 AM CST Steph~ I just read your latest journal entry and know that I cannot offer the words you need. Please know that your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. God's plan is a mystery for all of us and He never challenges us with more than He thinks that we can handle. Lots of love and prayers, Dean & Sarah Rajewich and family Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD US - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 10:37 PM CST Glad you are home...wishing you well. Angel Katelyn's Mom, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com > Wheatley, Ontario, - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 9:11 PM CST Hey little buddy, Just stopping by to check up on you and to wish you a Happy Valentine's Day your Prayer Bear friends, The Glidewell's~ Mike,Kristina & Dakota Kristina Glidewell <Kristina_1409@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 8:40 PM CST Glad to hear that you are out of the hospital! Now let's stay away from that place - OK??!!! How was school? You and your family are always in our prayers! Lot of Love! Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 4:39 PM CST Alec, you forgot to tell me you were going to start preschool! WOW, WAY TO GO BUDDY! I can't wait to hear about your first day. Tell mom to drive slow...it's slick out there! See you soon! Love, Carrie Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, February 12, 2007 3:49 PM CST Sorry to hear you guys are back in the hospital. I will say we had a horrible time getting rid of pseudomonas when Kylie had it. She was on IV antiboitics for months before it finally cleared up, although her's was in her sinus cavities. It was so nice to meet you when you were here in St Paul. Let us know the next time you are back and we'll stop for a visit! Maria www.caringbridge.org/mn/kylie Maria Gibbons <riau2@aol.com> Falcon Heights, MN - Monday, February 12, 2007 11:45 AM CST It is never ending at your house. I thought ours was hectic. Tell Aaron Happy belated Birthday! gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Monday, February 12, 2007 8:06 AM CST Brad and Stephanie, Hope things are going good for Alec. I just found out in church today that he was in the hospital. Hope you can go home soon. For my son's diaper rashes when he was little we used Butt paste. I found this at Wal-mart and it works wonders. It clears diaper rash up fast. Happy Birthday Aaron. Sounds like you had fun. Take care. The Kruse's: Jami, Lorin, Jenna and Jayden <jamilovesbooks@yahoo.com> Hills , MN - Sunday, February 11, 2007 9:08 PM CST We are praying for you Alec! I am so sorry that you are back in the hospital! Hang in there and get better fast! Happy Birthday Aaron! I can't believe that you are 5!!! Talk to you all later! Lots of love, Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Saturday, February 10, 2007 7:52 PM CST Alec- Bet you are glad to be home. Perhaps the nurses and drs can consider you a lab technician in training-since you removed your iv all by yourself. Hope you get to feeling better soon. We are continuing to pray for you. HUGS AnnEide <HFMito@cableone.net> Columbus, MS - Saturday, February 3, 2007 0:11 AM CST Alec, Glad to hear that you are home again. I pray that the Meds work and you can stay at home!! Lots of Love, Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Friday, February 2, 2007 11:13 PM CST Hi Steph, Brad & Boys, I wish that there was something I could do to make Alec all better! I'll just keep on praying! I am so glad that your Disney trip turned out so well after the rocky start! Tons of Love, :)xoApril April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 9:55 PM CST Ideker family, praying that Alec starts feeling better. We think of you often and check the website almost daily. Deanna, Jason, JP, Matthew & Julianna Peters <dpeters@sio.midco.net> SD - Thursday, February 1, 2007 3:20 PM CST Alec, So sorry to hear that you are in the Hosp. We will keep you in our prayers! Lots of Love, Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 5:21 PM CST It sounds like Disney was a Magical time for you and your family. I am so glad. I can't wait to see your pictures. I hope all is going well with his surgety. Our continued prayers.... God Bless, The Roemen's Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 9:34 AM CST Call if you need anything. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 10:46 AM CST Thinking of Alec today. Praying all is well and will check back for an update. Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Monday, January 29, 2007 4:03 PM CST Alex and Pluto are stopping by to say hello! MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Monday, January 29, 2007 12:24 AM CST WELCOME HOME! Hope you are adjusting to the cold and snow. We can't wait to hear the Disney stories and see your pictures. We pray you all stay healthy this cold/flu season. God blessings! Love & Hugs, Joel, Marilyn, Seth and Mia Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, - Thursday, January 25, 2007 9:24 PM CST WELCOME HOME! Hope you are adjusting to the cold and snow. We can't wait to hear the Disney stories and see your pictures. We pray you all stay healthy this cold/flu season. God blessings! Love & Hugs, Joel, Marilyn, Seth and Mia Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, - Thursday, January 25, 2007 9:24 PM CST Yeah! It is wonderful to hear about the trip I cannot wait to see the photos. www.elisangels.org Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 3:46 PM CST Steph and family, we are so happy to hear that Alec was able to get out of the hospital and you were all able to enjoy your MAW trip! Can't wait to see some of your pictures. God bless, Deanna, Jason, JP, Matthew & Julianna Peters Deanna PEters <dpeters@sio.midco.net/www.caringbridge.org/sd/jp> - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 3:45 PM CST Hey! Sounds like things are on the up and up. I hope and pray that the meds will kick this thing for Alec and for all of you. It sounds like your trip was so amazing and you probably can't possibly tell us ALL about it, but your pictures will tell a million words. Thank the Lord you are home safe and now can begin to enjoy the SNOW!!!!! Love, Carol Carol Childress inwood, iA united States - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 1:44 PM CST Steph, it's so good to hear from you. I am so happy that everyone had a great time! I can't wait to see all the pictures & hear all about your trip. Hopefully talk to you soon! Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 8:05 AM CST We are soooo glad you all had a good time at Disney and GKTW. We're anxious to see the pictures...especially ones eating ice cream!! Did you get lanyards full of pins? We keep you in our prayers. Sorry we were out of town and couldn't join MAW when you returned to SD. Dick and Dee <ddgrosz@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 5:58 PM CST Would you update!!!!! :) gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 8:58 AM CST Welcome Home!!! I am so glad that you guys had a wonderful trip in the long run!! You sure do deserve it!! Can't wait to see pictures and hear all about it. Kendra can't wait to hear what Aaron thought of it all!! Hope to see you Sunday! Remember: The POWER of PRAYER is so AWESOME!!! Lots of Love, Dar and Family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 8:43 AM CST Brad, Stephanie, Aaron, Alec I am so glad that your trip worked out so great once Alec was out of the hospital. You are a great family and I wish nothing but the best for you. Take care. Laurie Fluit - MAW <lfluit@aol.com> Sioux Falls, SD 57103 - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 8:13 AM CST Love Joseph www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, January 21, 2007 0:42 AM CST Happy Birthday Alec!! I hope you had a wonderful day. Can't wait for you guys to get back so I can hear all about your trip. See you tomorrow if it isn't snowing to bad. Love you all, Great Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Saturday, January 20, 2007 4:06 PM CST Glad you are finally having a great time in Disney. We know those characters must be giving you lots of special attention. So glad you are getting to enjoy this trip. We hope your mommy updates pictures of you on your trip on the site when you return. Hope you continue to feel better. Kim and Alex Holder www.caringbridge.org/visit/alexanderholder <kaholder@comcast.net> - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:00 PM CST I am glad to read the your Make-A-Wish trip is going better. You'll have to give us some pointers on what to do and not to do in Disney. We will be going, hopefully, in 10 months right around Rylands 4th Birthday. I am sure we will see you at some wrestling meet soon. We'll be praying that you all have a safe trip home. Happy 3rd Birthday Alec!! Summer, Nick Ryland Nathan and Mitchell <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com> Hartford, SD Rylands website - Friday, January 19, 2007 8:19 PM CST Happy Birthday Alec! You have been in our thoughts/prayers. God Bless! Heath, Monie & Boys Humboldt, SD - Friday, January 19, 2007 12:35 AM CST Alec you are such a lucky boy! You are spending your birthday in FLORIDA! I'm jealous!!! Happy Birthday!!! Jesse, Carrie, Jacob & Ethan <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, January 19, 2007 10:16 AM CST We are so happy that you are having an awesome trip! It was wonderful to get your mother's email that Alec was out of the hospital and the trip was going great! Thank God for answered prayers! Happy Birthday to Alec. What a lucky little boy to spend it at Disney. We look forward to seeing your pictures! Lots of love, The Smidt's Carol Smdit <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> - Friday, January 19, 2007 10:08 AM CST Happy Birthday ALEC! How exciting to be able to spend it with Disney. Can't wait to see all the pictures. Miss you all. Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD - Friday, January 19, 2007 9:51 AM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALEC!!! Grandma and Grandpa miss you but we know you are having the most awesome birthday ever!! We love you...... Grandpa Tom and Grandma Kim <tkblauwet@yahoo.com> - Friday, January 19, 2007 8:43 AM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALEC!!!! I hope you are having a birthday of a lifetime in Disney!!! Have a great day!! Love ya, Trista Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Friday, January 19, 2007 8:33 AM CST Happy Birthday Alec! Hope your having a super fun time! We are thinking about you!! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Friday, January 19, 2007 8:33 AM CST Hi Idekers!! So glad to hear your vacation is improving!! Happy Birthday to Alec on Friday!! Wow...three years old! We are so happy that you are having a great time -you all deserve it! Enjoy the trip and make some great memories together!! GOD BLESS!! Hugs, Joel, Marilyn, Seth and Mia Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 9:19 PM CST Hi from Dick and Dee with MAW. Have some ice cream for breakfast!! Remember to tell Donald Duck hi. Enjoy every moment. Dee <ddgrosz@sio.midco.net> - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:45 PM CST I am glad to have met you tonight on the carraige ride at GKTW. Hopefully this will be the beginning of the most beautiful memories we can share as new friends.... Have a wonderful time in florida and I hope the weather improves for when you get home!!!! Donna Thorell <Iluvdizney2@comcast.net/ma/thorell_kids> N. Carver , Ma - Thursday, January 18, 2007 7:34 PM CST PRAISE GOD!!!! So glad to hear that you are enjoying your vacation. The girls said to be sure and eat a rice krispy bar at Disney! They are the BEST!!! Take care and your in our prayers! Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, January 18, 2007 5:24 PM CST Hey, it sounds like you got your vacation back on track! I am so happy for you guys that you have this opportunity to do something special for your family. You guys work so hard and take such great care of your boys! Have a great rest of your vacation and we will see you very soon! Take Care! Love, Carol Carol Childress <cchildress@west-lyon.k12.ia.us> - Thursday, January 18, 2007 9:04 AM CST I just received your mom's email -- I'm soooo glad to hear that Alec is doing better and you're all enjoying the trip. What wonderful news!!! I pray everything continues to go well and you have a safe flight home. Have fun!!! Miki <miki.snyders@nreca.coop> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:35 AM CST We were so happy to hear that Alec is out of the hospital. We hope that you are just having a FANTASTIC time (how could you not after all it is Disney "The Magic Kingdom") Our continued prayers. God Bless The Roemen's Lindsey <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA US - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 10:39 AM CST Praying for you, Barb, John, Shawn, Shannon, & Colleen www.caringbridge.org/page/shannon Prayer Bear Barb - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 10:34 AM CST Hi all: We're glad to hear Alec is better so that you can all enjoy the Wish trip together. May all the days ahead in FL be sunny and fun. Eat some Ice Cream for us. Dick and Dee from MAW Dee Grosz <ddgrosz@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 9:47 PM CST So glad to hear that you are out of the hospital. Have a wonderful time on the rest of your trip. I will be praying, praying, praying for you guys. Can't wait to hear all about it when you get back. An extra day - how exciting!!! HAVE FUN!! Trista & Bryce Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 12:26 AM CST Praying that Alec is feeling better. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 10:38 AM CST I'm so sorry to hear that your trip is not going as planned. I can't begin to imagine what you must be going through. Please know that we are praying for all of you especially Alec. Sending you hugs. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 8:26 AM CST We are so sorry to here that Alec is in the hospital. Just remember the power of prayer works in miraculous ways. Keep the Faith. Our continued prayers are with you today and always. God Bless! The Roemen's <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 8:11 AM CST PRAYER BEARS WEBSITE Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy (MPS-III) BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 7:51 AM CST We are all angels with but one wing, And only by embracing eachother can we fly. God Bless you all through this journey. Love to you all. Amy <colletti6@yahoo.com> MI - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 6:00 AM CST Lots of love, hugs and prayers. Carol Carol Davis <DisneyMagicmama@aol.com> Richland, MS USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 5:27 AM CST You are all in our prays. Summer Jesse and Family <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com > Hartford, SD Rylands website - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 2:49 AM CST IDEKER FAMILY, SO SORRY TO HEAR THAT YOU GUYS ARE IN THE HOSPITAL. WE ARE PRAYING FOR ALEC AS WELL AS YOUR FAMILY. LET US KNOW HOW YOU ARE DOING WHEN YOU HAVE THE CHANCE. LOVE, THE GARRY'S Kari <ryankari@iw.net> Tea, SD - Monday, January 15, 2007 10:35 PM CST I don't know if you will have time to check your website/guestbook or not, but know we are praying for you. I hope Alec starts to turn around & feel better soon! Hang in there!!! The Van Egdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, January 15, 2007 2:18 PM CST I'm so glad that you are getting to go. We will be praying for Alec's health and that you have an un-eventful time when it comes to that. Be safe and have tons of fun. We can't wait to hear all about it when you get back. Big hugs. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ United States - Sunday, January 14, 2007 2:52 PM CST Pray'n you have a great time at Disney!! Remember your always "making memories"!! Michelle Tilstra Larchwood , - Sunday, January 14, 2007 2:34 PM CST "M-I-C-K-E-Y M-O-U-S-E" Here We Come!!! We lifted you all up in prayer this morning at Seeds of Faith!! I am so happy for you and I have faith that you will all remain healthy and have a great vacation filled with lots of family memories!! WDW is truly a magical place!! Can't wait to visit with you when you return! You'll be in our prayers!! Lots of Love! Dar PS. Give MICKEY and the GANG hugs!! Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Sunday, January 14, 2007 1:45 PM CST Hey Alec, It is so good to hear that you guys are going to make the wish trip. Have a fantastic time. I can't wait to see all of those pictures when you get back. I will continue praying for you all to stay healthy while you are gone. I'm sure we will hear lots of stories when you get back. Love ya, Trista & Bryce Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 10:16 AM CST Hey Alec, It is so good to hear that you guys are going to make the wish trip. Have a fantastic time. I can't wait to see all of those pictures when you get back. I will continue praying for you all to stay healthy while you are gone. I'm sure we will hear lots of stories when you get back. Love ya, Trista & Bryce Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 10:16 AM CST Steph and family, Have a great trip. We will lift you all up in prayer for a safe and healthy trip. Deanna, Jason, JP, Matthew and Julianna Peters Deanna Peters <dpeters@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD - Saturday, January 13, 2007 9:23 PM CST Hey Steph, after months of addiction to Alec's site, I am FINALLY signing his guestbook!!! It was so nice to talk to you at the wrestling meet tonight! Hoping that all goes well with your trip & know that you and your family are always in my prayers! ~Sarah Sarah Rajewich <sarah_rajewich@hotmail.com> Hartford, SD USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:13 PM CST Brad, Steph, Aaron, and Alec, I have been and will continue to PRAY PRAY PRAY that Alec will bounce back quickly from this bug!! Also, that no one else gets sick! I just know that you will all have a great time! It sounds like you will be missing a COLD week here!! Wish I was going to see MICKEY and the gang too!! (I just love WDW!!) I could use some good Florida weather! I wish you the BEST and will be so anxious to hear all about your vacation!! Remember: GOD IS SO GOOD!! Lots of Love, Dar and family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Thursday, January 11, 2007 8:02 PM CST Hey Alec! Just want you to know that we will be praying, praying, praying that you stay healthy for your wish trip. You will have such a great time!!! I am already anxious to see all the pictures your mom & dad will take of your trip. Tell your mom 'hi' for me & that hopefully we can get together soon! Love ya!!! Jesse, Carrie, Jacob, & Ethan Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 8:07 AM CST Hey Alec, just thinking of you today. I hope that you stay feeling well - you are going to have so much fun on your trip. Stephanie, I hope everything is going well with the packing. Aren't you just getting more excited everyday!!! I'll be praying you all stay healthy. Hope to talk to ya soon. Trista Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> IA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 1:32 PM CST Hi Alec - thanks for checking out my caringbridge page! I love all the pictures of you and your brother; you two look like best friends! Have fun on your trip and make sure your mom doesn't stress out too much. We all know how our moms can be when they have so much to take care of. I can't wait to check back and see how much fun you and your family had! take care, Reid www.caringbridge.org/visit/reid Reid Oldham (and his mom, Shelley) Denton, TX - Monday, January 8, 2007 11:17 AM CST We brought a dr's note because Alex had a lot of meds with us on his wish trip in November. The airport security never even looked at it, however, you need to have the prescription bottles with you to show what is what. I would recommend ONLY bringing the number of doses you need (as it sounds like you are planning on doing) because we forgot some meds in the fridge at GKTW and did not get them back. Fortunately, they were mine :) If you have not seen it yet, Alex's page has all about his wish trip on it and it has a few good things to know for once you get in the parks (I will likely update his page today, so it will be in the old entries). Feel free to stop by and have an absolute BLAST! Much love, Alex and MaryBeth MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, January 7, 2007 8:40 AM CST We just dropped by to check on you today. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Friday, January 5, 2007 3:51 PM CST Hey guys not sure if this will help but when we took Eli on his MAW trip we were afraid of the same things about travel. We had so many suitcases but took one carry on roller and put a small soft cooler, Meds, the feeding pump and the suction machine in it. Security did not have a problem, really he guessed what they were durring the scan but took a extra look anyway. There was limited space on the airplane and the lady asked me twice if they could check that bag. I looked at her and pointed at Eli and sain NO WAY! I guess with the new retrictions it wouldn't hurt to have a note from one of Alec's doc. I wish you all the best trip! www.elisangels.org Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 2:56 PM CST Hello Stephanie, I was never able to find your caring bridge site until today while visiting the Rentschlers. Shame on me for not trying harder. I read that you are going to Florida, that is great, I hope you have so much fun and never forget the memories. I love looking at your pictures, both your boys are precious!!! Now that I have your site I will keep checking as often as I can. May God's love give you and your family strength to get through every day!! Shauna (Boer) Kooima Shauna Kooima <shaunaboer@hotmail.com> IA - Friday, January 5, 2007 11:52 AM CST How exciting you guys are going on a wish trip! I hope you have a wonderful time with many many good memories made. I'll be praying that traveling goes smoothly and that Alec will be feeling well. Can't wait to hear all about your trip when you get back! Have fun!!! God Bless www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole tamm <tamm06@aol.com> - Thursday, January 4, 2007 7:27 PM CST Hi alex.. wanted to see how your doing... does your mommy belong to the mito group? im trying to picture your name... sorry so many kiddos in that group.. Saw that your getting a vns, we have one, it seems to be helping.. love melissa and hailee http://www.caringbridge.org/az/hailee ps have fun on your wish trip. melissa <angels4hailee@nc.rr.com> west end, nc usa - Thursday, January 4, 2007 5:51 PM CST Hi from Dee with MAW. We are so happy you are getting your wish and hope to see you at the airport on the 14th. I'm sure Mickey and crew are anxious to greet you in Florida. Have a wonderful time. Dee Grosz Sioux Falls, - Thursday, January 4, 2007 4:46 PM CST Wrestling is one of the coolest sports I bet you are so proud of Aaron. The picture with Santa is precious. I hope Alec stays healthy for his surgeries. We keep you and your family in our thoughts. Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.net> Rush, Co - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 11:46 PM CST Happy New Year! Always in my prayers. God Bless www.caringbridge.org/oh/skycoleycole tamm <tamm06@aol.com> - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 5:24 PM CST Best wishes for a Love Joseph www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 7:24 PM CST HAPPY NEW YEAR! Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 11:04 AM CST Happy New Year! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 8:44 AM CST I'm praying that you and your family will enjoy a very blessed 2007. I can't believe how big Alec is getting! Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Monday, January 1, 2007 2:19 PM CST Happy New Year to you all!! I wish only the BEST for you all in 2007!!! Lots of Love, Dar and Family Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Monday, January 1, 2007 1:45 PM CST Wishing you many blessings and a very happy new year! Love Alex and family MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Monday, January 1, 2007 10:34 AM CST Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Sunday, December 31, 2006 9:50 PM CST This message is for Aaron, Hey buddy I seen you at the wrestling tournament last night and you did so good. Everytime I watched you, you had a smile on your face. It was way to cute. Steph, I was going to go up and introduce myself but didn't get the chance to. I work with Carrie, Trista and Becky. One of these days I will get to meet you. Jodi Lutjens Rock Valley, IA USA - Friday, December 29, 2006 9:12 AM CST Wow. What an update. I know you are ready to pull your hair out on the biopsy results- or lack there of! I can't imagine hearing that some of my child's labwork might be lost. I am so sorry!!! I also feel bad b/c I didn't know Alec was getting the VNS. I'm sorry you have to wait to get this other sinus surgery done first- I hope it can all get scheduled as soon as possible for you. Your boys are adorable- I love the Santa pic. Here for you just like you are there for me... Love to you! Leslie Leslie Reynolds <rey7@bellsouth.net> Atlanta, GA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 1:12 PM CST Stopping by to wish you a hppy new year. Glad to hear that you had a merry christmas. Hope that everyone feels better soon. God bless yall. Sandra Kilpatrick <kilpatrickfamily@earthlink.net caringbridge.org/fl/joshuakilpatrick> Leesburg, FL - Thursday, December 28, 2006 9:35 AM CST Merry Christmas to you all! Love, Abigail and Caroline and family Abigail Vetter <abvetter28@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/visit/carolineruby> West Fargo, ND - Monday, December 25, 2006 3:31 PM CST Merry Christmas! Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Monday, December 25, 2006 9:05 AM CST Wishing you a safe and Healthy Holiday filled with many happy memories. Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Saturday, December 23, 2006 9:46 PM CST Praying for a healthy Christmas for you all filled with love, laughter and an abundance of blessings. Jennifer from the prayer bears <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Texas - Saturday, December 23, 2006 3:25 PM CST I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and pray that you all don't catch any of this nasty crud that is going around!! May God Bless You! Lots of Love, Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Friday, December 22, 2006 8:17 AM CST Wishing you all a Very Merry Christmas, Take care and hope all is going well for you all Jean Jean Eggers <jeaneggers@sio.midco.net> - Thursday, December 21, 2006 11:07 PM CST Just wanted to stop by and let you know I was thinking about you. Hope all is well and everyone stays healthy this next week. Hope to see you guys soon. Always ~ Trista Trista Moss <tmoss@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 4:52 PM CST We just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you through the holidays. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Monday, December 18, 2006 9:27 PM CST We check on you often, but we have never signed your guestbook before. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas! The Paulin Family Larry, Roseanna, Gia & Joey www.caringbridge.org/visit/joeypaulin Roseanna Paulin <bellaitaliana@earthlink.net> Alabaster , AL USA - Sunday, December 17, 2006 8:48 PM CST Sending Christmas hugs and prayers to you all... Your Prayer bear friends, The Glidewell's- Mike, Kristina & Dakota Kristina Glidewell <Kristina_1409@hotmail.com> Stoutland, MO USA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 10:38 PM CST Jo Hannah, Rebecca and Rachel Jo England, UK - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 7:31 PM CST Hey Gang! I love to check in and see all the awesome pictures of your cuties! Aaron was such a big boy in the program Sunday-- Proud teacher am I!! And Alec was so peaceful- I think he enjoyed the program! As always, you guys inspire me-- I count my blessings every time I think of you, and count you in there too! God's blessings & Prayers from us! The Carolans Julie Carolan Seeds of Faith, - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 9:02 AM CST The pic of the boys with Santa is super cute. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 9:00 AM CST I love all the new pictures of the boys. Alec is sure getting big. Ryland is to just longer but not any weight gain yet. We are hoping to see Santa this weekend but Ryland has a bad cold so if it doesn't clear up we'll have to wait. He's been going to school for a couple weeks now and seems to like it. It will soon be Alec's turn, wow. Hope you have a very Merry Christmas and I would say for us that means no Hospital stays or to many doctor visits. Take Care! Summer Jesse <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 6:14 PM CST "HO HO HO" How cute is this picture?!!! Just checking in, I hope that Alec is feeling well this week. Aaron, you did a great job in the Church Christmas Program! Take care and love ya! Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 4:33 PM CST Cute picture of the boys with Santa! Hope you and your family stay healthy through the holidays. Thinking of your family often. Becky Van Surksum <bvansurksum@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA US - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 12:56 AM CST Stephanie, I love the new picture of the boys and Santa. That will be a great for the scrapbook. :) Trista <tmoss@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 12:49 AM CST Love the new picture of the boys & Santa! Won't be long & Christmas will be here!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 10:21 AM CST Hi Steph & Brad, Just checking in again. You are ALWAYS in my prayers & thoughts! Aaron did such an awewsome job in the program lastnight!I'll email ya the pics soon if they turned out! Your boys are both so precious! Love Ya!xoxooxoxoxxoApril April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. US - Monday, December 11, 2006 10:28 AM CST Hi Brad,Steph and boys... Just checkin' in to say Hello and Thank you so much for all the cool gifts over the past year as my secret sis! You are too kind! I hope the VNS procedure goes well for Alec and I'm sure you will enjoy the DR MC DREAMY visits Steph!ha ha Well good luck and many prayers too!! Stay well! Love ya, Marilyn Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 10:19 PM CST I didn't know Alec was getting a VNS. Sara has had hers for a little over a year now. It has helped. We still have seizures but it has drastically cut down on our Diastat use. That in itself is a blessing. We will keep him in our prayers. Big hugs and Merry Christmas (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> - Thursday, December 7, 2006 9:23 PM CST Hope that Alec is feeling better! Angel Katelyn's Mom, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com > Wheatley, Ontario, - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:56 PM CST I love the pictures they're great! Praying Alec is feeling better soon. lol Skye used to make a liar out of me all the time. Gotta love when they do that! God Bless www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole Tamm Cline <Tamm06@aol.com> - Saturday, December 2, 2006 8:28 PM CST Alec you turkey. Were you talking to Ethan? I just had the same thing happen to me today. We just got back from the doctor & there was nothing wrong with him! What is with you boys? I'm glad you are feeling better. Love, Carrie The Van Egdom's <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, December 1, 2006 3:47 PM CST Hey Alec, I love all the new pics. Its great to see you so happy. I hope you're feeling better. Have a great weekend. Love ya, Trista <tmoss@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, - Friday, December 1, 2006 12:00 AM CST I love the new look - pictures and all! I love the picture of Aaron all snuggled up to Alec in bed. Also the one of mom and Alec snuggled in bed! How precious!!! Hope you are having better nights!!! Take care! Love ya! Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 10:25 PM CST Hi Alec: I just love all the new pics... you are surrounded by love and it shows. Sorry to hear that you were a bit under the weather, hopefully you are felling better now. Big hugs from Sara (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) The Hoffman's <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 6:15 PM CST Hey Alec, I hope you start to feel better soon! I love the Christmas decor on your website. It's AWESOME! Christmas will be here before you know it! Love ya, Carrie Carrie <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 3:21 PM CST Love the new home page!!!!! Smiling Alec is always awesome to see!! Love ya all....... Mom Grandma Kim <tkblauwet@svtv.com> - Wednesday, November 29, 2006 7:01 AM CST Hey Stephanie, I sure hope Alec starts feeling better and that you all get a good nights sleep tonight. Have a great week and hope to see you soon. Trista <tmoss@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, - Tuesday, November 28, 2006 4:27 PM CST Hey Guys! Hope that Alec is feeling better. I just want to let you know how special you all are to us! You are in our prayers always! Give your those boys a hug from me!! Take care and we love you!! Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Monday, November 27, 2006 7:05 PM CST Hey Steph It was nice seeing you in church yesterday and Carter will be thrilled to play with Aaron tomorrow if he's at Grandma Marlys's. I haven't been to your site in a month or so and I just read your last journal entry and it brought me to tears. You are the strongest women I know. Thank you for being an inspiration to me. You are a true hero and your boys are very lucky to have such an amazing mom! Thinking of you always, Michelle Michelle Tilstra <tilly@alliancecom.net> Larchwood , Iowa Lyon - Monday, November 27, 2006 4:34 PM CST I just read your journal and it breaks my heart. I know exactly where you are right now in your emotions. My oldest was the same way always asking questions about Skye and death and it was just heartwrenching. The best thing we can do is just be as honest as we can. I'm so sorry for the pain you are going through. I pray that Alec has many good days ahead and for strength, peace, and comfort in your heart. God Bless Tamm and Angel Skye <Tamm06@aol.com www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole> - Sunday, November 26, 2006 11:43 AM CST Dropping by to say hello, sorry we’ve not signed the guest book lately, we’ve been so busy since Hannah has her guest appearance on TV here in the UK Sending love and hugs your way Jo Hannah, Rebecca and Rachel Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Thursday, November 23, 2006 6:23 PM CST I haven't forgotten about you guys!! Thanks for sending me a notice about the quads, i am still praying for them! Love Deb Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie USERNAME: miracle PASSWORD: girl <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 9:50 PM CST Love Joseph www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 7:43 PM CST Hope you guys have a Happy Thanksgiving! Jodi Lutjens Rock Valley , IA - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 9:15 AM CST Wishing your family and Happy Thanksgiving...Prayers and Bearhugs Love, Marci The Prayer Bears http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears http://www.freewebs.com/caringcreators Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 7:19 PM CST Stopping by to say hi and let you know that we are thinking of you! Kristina Glidewell <Kristina_1409@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 1:52 PM CST Hey Buddy, how are you doing this week? I loved hanging out with you, Aaron & your mom this weekend. It was so nice to get to cuddle you for awhile. Wishing you and your family a great Thanksgiving & I hope to see you again soon!!! Give Aaron & your mom a big hug for me! Love ya, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 11:38 AM CST Brad and Steph, We will keep all of you in our prayers as you continue on this journey of yours. You are doing such a great job, being so young and having so much responsibility! Sometimes I think my life is hard, but I know it isn't when I see your job! I am so moved by your "lent child" entry and I know that God selected you to care for this "lent child" because you can do it! I also want to say how much it touches me to see Uncle Caleb or any of you guys bring Alec up to the children's message. You are making sure he has everything possible in this world, trips, holidays, building teddy bears...everything you can do for him, you are doing. God is surely raising you up on eagles wings and holding you in the palm of His hand. Love, Carol carol Childress <cchildress@west-lyon.k12.ia.us> inwood, iA united States - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 10:08 AM CST Praying for God's protection to surround Ike and his family. Jennifer from the prayer bears and ones who ccare <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Texas - Monday, November 20, 2006 0:22 AM CST Dear Stephanie and Brad, I have told Kim this a million times but I'm not sure I have you- YOU TWO ARE AMAZING. When people make excuses about not being able to make it to church- they need to take a look at you two! What an effort and challenge it is for you to just leave your house- most people stay home with a lot less reasons, but not you two. You are there with your precious boys in tow. You are such a blessing to all of us. Personally, I want you to know how you touch ME. EVERYTIME I see you, I am so PROUD of you. Isn't that silly? But I AM!! What incredibly good role models you are to me. The grace and strength that you display is overwhelming. You are both so young but you show the wisdom and contentment of people well beyond your years. God is obviously with you. Your beautiful smiles, your positive attitudes... like I said, you are an example of what God wants us ALL to be like. Watching your family (mom, dad and brothers) with BOTH boys is such a joy. The LOVE that POURS OUT OF ALL OF YOU IS INCREDIBLE. I am so glad and feel so priveledged to be a part of your church family. God knew exactly what he was doing when he chose you two, and your families, for this very special child. You continue to be in my prayers. Suzie TeGrootenhuis Susan TeGrootenhuis - Saturday, November 18, 2006 7:14 PM CST HI Guys, Just wanted to stop by and say "hi"! Kiss your beautiful little boys for me! You two are amazing parents! We got our flu shots yesterday. I hope everyone gets one. Let's help keep our precious children from getting the flu!! Take care and we'll see you all on Sunday. Lots of Love, Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Friday, November 17, 2006 9:40 PM CST LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON ,ALBERTA , - Thursday, November 16, 2006 8:37 PM CST Your mom told me about your bout with the flu. I hope everyone is doing well. Your boys are growing up so fast. They are so cute. I can't believe how big AAron is. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving. We have so much to be thankful for. God Bless you and your family. Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey and Bailee Roemen Lindsey Roemen Larchwood, IA United States - Thursday, November 16, 2006 8:50 AM CST Alex is stopping by to say have a great week! MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Monday, November 13, 2006 6:35 PM CST It was a delight to visit you last night(Wednesday)and get to know your family. The love and warmth of your hearts touched me. Greet Aaron and Alec for me. Dee Sioux Falls, - Thursday, November 9, 2006 11:49 AM CST I haven't read the website for awhile...hope you all survive the flu season...get those shots! Yes,the Wildcats played hard the other night...so sad for the guys that it's over for their high school days! How time flies..just enjoy those simple joys from your little boys-they really do grow up too fast. Take care, Marilyn Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA USA - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 8:54 PM CST We just dropped by to check on you today. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 0:06 AM CST Alec, Hi sweetie. stopping in to say hi..praying for you always. Pray you are feeling great..Prayers and Bearhugs Love, Marci The Prayer Bears http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears http://www.freewebs.com/caringcreators Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Monday, November 6, 2006 6:26 PM CST Just stopping by to check in and let you know that we are thinking of you. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Sunday, November 5, 2006 10:09 AM CST Alex (in his Diego costume) is just stopping by to wish you a HAPPY HALLOWEEN! Love, MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 10:15 AM CST Happy Halloween Alec! We hope you have a great time Trick or Treating with your bro Aaron! Stay Warm! Your Buddy, Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, Mn - Tuesday, October 31, 2006 8:38 AM CST KEEPING YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS. LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON ,ALBERTA , - Monday, October 30, 2006 11:40 PM CST www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Monday, October 30, 2006 10:13 AM CST Keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers...Sending you lots of prayer bear hugs Kristina Glidewell <Kristina_1409@hotmail.com> - Friday, October 27, 2006 8:21 PM CDT Praying for your guys. God Bless www.elisangels.org Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Friday, October 27, 2006 3:07 PM CDT Stephanie - I have been thinking about you so much lately. I pray that this new biopsy will provide you with much needed answers. You all have been through so much lately and I hope that soon things will settle down and that you will be able to enjoy the holidays. We are planning on being in SF over Thanksgiving. Maybe we can get together? Take care of yourself. I know that is easier said than done some days! Lots of prayers, love, and hugs being sent your way - Abigail Abigail Vetter <abvetter28@yahoo.com www.caringbridge.org/visit/carolineruby> West Fargo, ND USA - Thursday, October 26, 2006 8:33 PM CDT Glad to read that Alec is out of surgery. We will be praying for you guys that everything goes good the rest of your stay and you'll have a safe trip home. Take care. Summer & Ryland Jesse <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com> Hartford, SD - Thursday, October 26, 2006 5:22 PM CDT So glad to hear that the surgery went well. We are praying for you and sending you big hugs. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) Barbara Hoffman <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Thursday, October 26, 2006 2:57 PM CDT Steph just called and Alec is awake and happy....surgery went well!! Alleluia!! She'll update as soon as she had the opportunity! Grandma Kim <tkblauwet@svtv.com> - Thursday, October 26, 2006 12:56 AM CDT You are a wonderful mother! We are thinking & praying for Alec and your family in Rock Valley.I missed the party last night to but hopefully next time we can all get together. Jodi Lutjens Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, October 26, 2006 10:50 AM CDT Praying that the surgery goes well today. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Looking forward to meeting you again sometime, soon! Becky <bvansurksum@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA US - Thursday, October 26, 2006 10:18 AM CDT Alec was taken back for surgery about 10:00 am. Steph will update again when she gets a chance. Grandma Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Thursday, October 26, 2006 10:01 AM CDT Praying everything goes well today!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, October 26, 2006 8:32 AM CDT Hi Steph, this is Trista. We missed you last night! I hope everything goes well with Alec's surgery today. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Trista <trista-ann@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, - Thursday, October 26, 2006 8:32 AM CDT Stephanie and Family, So sorry to hear about your Grandfather. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Ryan, Kari, Regan and Kael Kari Garry <ryankari@iw.net> Tea, SD - Tuesday, October 24, 2006 4:11 PM CDT Alec and the rest of your family are in my prayers, especially next week during the upcoming appointments. Jennifer A from the prayer bears and ones who care <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Carrolton, Texas - Saturday, October 21, 2006 1:15 PM CDT Way to go Alec! I am so happy you were approved for Make a Wish!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Thursday, October 19, 2006 5:26 PM CDT Hang in there Steph. I know things are pretty hectic for you right now & you have alot on your mind, but know we are thinking of you! We miss your updates!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, October 18, 2006 5:27 PM CDT So I was wondering if you could maybe fill us in and let us know what is happening with Alec. You sure like to hog him to yourself! A friend from Shakopee - Tuesday, October 17, 2006 9:12 PM CDT Just coming by to say hello. Hope all is well. Have a blessed week. I will check in again real soon for an update. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Monday, October 16, 2006 7:25 PM CDT Just wanted to drop in and let you know that we are thinking of you! Love, MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Saturday, October 14, 2006 6:39 PM CDT We just wanted to drop by and say hi and let you know we are thinking about you. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Friday, October 13, 2006 10:40 PM CDT I sure hope things have gotten a little better in the past couple of days. I have been praying. Hoping that little man of yours is having some good days. www.elisangels.org Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 6:05 PM CDT We're stopping by to send you hugs and love from NJ. The Hoffman's (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> - Sunday, October 8, 2006 1:44 PM CDT Good hearing from you today - thanks for calling. You keep telling yourself to make it to December - how about ONE day at a TIME!!! Your a great mom and we all have "space" moments like you had. No worries!! Have a great day. Miss ya! Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine, and Rebekah Spader - Saturday, October 7, 2006 8:51 PM CDT I think I can, I think I can! gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, October 5, 2006 9:37 PM CDT We continue to pray for all of you. Hoipe things look up soon. HUGS Ann <AnnEide@cableone.net> - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 11:17 PM CDT Alec and Aaron, Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers always.Prayers and Bearhugs love, Marci The Prayer Bears http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 6:14 PM CDT Hello Spaders! Each and every one..Sara A. told me about some members of her family that are the most awesome role models of faith and love and commitment that she has ever witnessed..I just had to meet this family..she is soooo right!...Thank you for sharing your family with us. It is a wonderful site, Blessings and prayers to and for you...I am glad I stopped by to meet you and all your friends.. I see Mickey stops by too, he is soooo cool, don't you think Alex?? I see the angels are camped out here too.. It does not get much better than that! Love Judy and Jaimie Judy Altstiel <jjaltstiel@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 10:59 PM CDT What's been happening this week? Did you find someone to step in for your nurse? Just checking in on Alec & hoping everyone is doing fine! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, October 2, 2006 1:05 PM CDT Trinity and I are just stopping by to say hi. Sheryl www.caringbridge.org/visit/trinity sheryl <sherylsuml@yahoo.com> atlanta, ga usa - Friday, September 29, 2006 8:56 PM CDT Hi Steph! I knew Brad in our younger days. Went to WC. Jodi Rysavy sent me your link so I have been browsing. Wow! U R a strong woman/family! Alec is adorable and Aaron too! They look like the younger version of Brad. I will pray for your family and wish good health and peace!! Julie (Horner) Frank <eli2002@svtv.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, September 28, 2006 10:37 AM CDT I am so sorry that you all have been having such a hard time lately. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Tuesday, September 26, 2006 8:15 PM CDT Oh my gosh! What a week you've had. Tell Jen she's in our prayers. Wow, I thought Rachele's lasagna was pretty good:), just kidding Rachele! It sounds like your appts. went pretty well at least. We will pray Alec gets better soon! Take care and God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine , MN USA - Monday, September 25, 2006 9:13 AM CDT LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON ,ALBERTA , - Sunday, September 24, 2006 9:37 PM CDT Stephanie: As I read your journal my heart just goes out to you. We pray that Alec is feeling better and that your issues will all be resolved. Big hugs from Sara The Hoffman's (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Monday, September 18, 2006 8:10 AM CDT Praying that you are able to find a school that can meet ALec's needs, that you are able to find an ENT or allergist who is willing and able to help, and that the pneumonia is gone soon. Jennifer a from the prayer bears and ones who care <sassy_girl913@yahoo.com> Carrolton, Texas - Sunday, September 17, 2006 4:42 PM CDT Wow, have you been busy! Can't wait to see you on Tuesday! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Friday, September 15, 2006 6:57 PM CDT Can't wait to see you on the 19th. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, September 15, 2006 9:22 AM CDT Hi,I finally got a chance to check out your site. I love the pictures of the boys. Annie-Watertown, SD. Mom to Cameron-17,Type I diabetic, April-16, Damien-8, Coarctation of the Aorta, BAV and MV stenosis, also ADHD. and then Raiden-6, Heart transplant. Andrea Helwig <helwigp@iw.net> Watertown, South Dakota USA - Thursday, September 14, 2006 11:28 AM CDT Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 8:51 AM CDT Steph- I just want you to know I'll be thinking of you and Brad on Thursday. I can't imagine how hard that might be, but I understand how you would like to have some things in place. No one ever knows how long we have on this earth. In the meantime, I pray that the doctors can find/try something new so that Alec can live a very comfortable life. Love, Carrie Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, September 13, 2006 8:02 AM CDT They may not do the two surgeries together. I remember when we were thinking about the VNS and I had asked for another procedure done at the same time. I was told with the VNS being near/part of the brain the doc would probably want to be the only one in there. They were nervous about infection with two open sites. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Saturday, September 9, 2006 8:40 AM CDT Hi Alec- Glad to hear you have been able to camp...and hope you enjoyed Chuck E Cheese too. We love that place. Hope you are feeling better with your antibiotic and the meds are helping. Have a good weekend. HUGS Ann Eide (www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> MS - Sunday, September 3, 2006 0:58 AM CDT Have a wonderful Labor Day weekend. Joseph sends big hugs!!!! www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Saturday, September 2, 2006 7:51 PM CDT Alex is swimming by to say have a GREAT labor day weekend! Love, MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Saturday, September 2, 2006 9:41 AM CDT Just coming by to say hello. Your schedule after Labor Day looks like ours. I am always on the go. Please know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Wednesday, August 30, 2006 11:11 AM CDT NEVER A DULL MOMENT IS THERE! aRE KIDS BABY BOOKS ARE GOING TO FILLED UP WITH STORIES!! RACHELE <RACO2001@YAHOO.COM> - Monday, August 28, 2006 9:17 AM CDT Hope your feeling better! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Saturday, August 26, 2006 8:34 AM CDT Keeping you in my thougths and in my prayer's always. Love Brenda MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> Edmonton,Alberta/Canada, - Thursday, August 24, 2006 7:37 PM CDT I'm continuing to pray for Alec and your family. Hopefully, you're camping trip will happen as planned. Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 7:38 PM CDT Alec,Just stopping by to say hi and let you know we are thinking of you.God bless,love & hugs,Linn,Daniel & Ariel The Marrero's <gillinn7@msn.com> Port Orchard, wa usa - Saturday, August 19, 2006 11:20 AM CDT Hi guys I just came to check on the little cutie pie Alec. I Love the bugs on the homepage. too cute. Such a cute picture of the boys and the bugs. It is so fitting. Congratulations Steph on your exam. That is awsome! Thoughts and prayers are with you. Take Care Debbie www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn Debbie Fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net> Corona, Ca USA - Thursday, August 17, 2006 11:57 PM CDT Just coming by to wish you all a wonderful weekend. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, August 17, 2006 6:59 PM CDT OK That was too funny in Eli's Guestbook I had to pop over right away. You know me and the poop thing go way back. People are always associating me with poop. HMMMM not sure if that was a good thing. Let me tell you if that shirt has the power to help that little man poop by all means let him ware it. I just wish it had that affect on the other kids. I am sure their moms would love it. I do find it funny that I can't come up with words to save my life but someone mentions POOP and I am off and running. LOL Oh man that really can't be good. Well if little Alec ever does pinch it off long enough for you to get a photo I would LOVE TO add it. You know I might want a photo anyway. Alec is just to handsome. I think about you guys often and even though it was only a couple of hours I am grateful I was able to meet all of you. Honored is more was I was. Thank you for making it possible. The photo is great. God Bless www.elisangels.org Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Tuesday, August 15, 2006 9:12 PM CDT Hi Stephanie and family, This is Kristen.(Ethan)We met at mayo. This is the frist time at your web site and it is great. I have been meening to go to it earler but time. there is not enuf in the day. Your boys are so cute. I am glad to hear Alec is doing so good. Ethan is doing great. He has words now he can say. It is great to to see. Mayo was great for Ethan. Well I need to go. Take care and always thinking of you. Kristen Kristen <jkbier@charter.net> Milton, WI Rock - Tuesday, August 15, 2006 8:59 AM CDT We just dropped by to check on you today. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Monday, August 14, 2006 8:55 PM CDT Hello, I am sorry it has been so long since I have visited. I have been back to work full time since May and still trying to juggle my time Congratulations on your final, that is a great accomplishent. It is nice that you got to get away for a week, sounds like alot of fun. Take care, Deb Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Monday, August 14, 2006 8:27 PM CDT Just coming by to say hello. I hope you all have a wonderful week. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I love the pic of the boys. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph WAY TO GO ON YOUR TEST!!!!!!! Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, August 13, 2006 5:27 PM CDT Thanks for all your help yesterday! I was in such a panic and still am but thanks to you I have a plan. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Sunday, August 13, 2006 9:27 AM CDT Thanks for the update Steph! It's so good to hear that Alec is doing so good!!! Have a great weekend. Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, August 11, 2006 12:17 AM CDT Would you update?????? The parade was all Rachele's fault. I was an innocent bystander. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, August 11, 2006 10:26 AM CDT update?? or are you to busy for us now!! Rach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> - Thursday, August 10, 2006 11:18 PM CDT Alec, Keeping you always in my thoughts and prayers. Prayers and BIG bearhugs Love, Marci The Prayer Bears http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Wednesday, August 9, 2006 6:13 PM CDT Thinking of you guys....... Love, Vicki & Caden www.caringbridge.org/tx/cadenlane Vicki Williams <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Monday, August 7, 2006 10:27 PM CDT Joseph wanted to come by and wish you a blessed week. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, August 6, 2006 7:34 PM CDT Hi. I just met you through Sara's page. I will be praying for both of your wonderful boys and you and daddy too. Blessings. Gregory's grandma www.caringbridge.org/la/gregoryrobert Rose Kline Monroe, LA USA - Friday, July 28, 2006 5:57 PM CDT And I thought the girls added interest to my life! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, July 28, 2006 7:46 AM CDT We miss you guys. It's been WAY to long. Let's plan a get-together soon. God bless. Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine, and Rebekah Spader <tsspader@sio.midco.net> - Thursday, July 27, 2006 9:55 PM CDT Always Alec Sending love hugs & prayers to your family always. PAM STURGILL www.freewebs.com/prayerbears <psturgill@bellsouth.net> - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 12:57 AM CDT We just thought we would pop by and check on you today, and let you know we are thinking about you. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 1:59 AM CDT I loved your poem on the main page. You are truely blessed. May God continue to shower you and your family with blessings and stregnth. Hugs from a prayerbear, Cheryl Cheryl Taggart <chertagg@comcast.net> Levittown , Pa 19054 - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:44 PM CDT Alec, congratulations on being Cub of the Week. Please know lots of love, hugs and prayers are coming your way! Carol - A Mississippi Prayer Bear Carol Davis <Disneymama@aol.com> Richland, MS USA - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 2:53 PM CDT Sending love, hugs and prayers your way. Carol - A Mississippi Prayer Bear Carol Davis <Disneymama@aol.com> Richland, MS USA - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 2:18 PM CDT Even though I don't sign very often, I check in on you and think of you daily!!! Hang in there, your such a good mom! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 2:01 PM CDT alec congrats on being the prayercub of the week.we hope that you well get well soon.your such a cute little boy hugs and kisses kathy and katilynn preston.www.caringbridge.org/ky/katilynnsmom kathy and katilynn preston <katilynnsmom@yahoo.com> tomahawk, ky usa - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 1:22 PM CDT Alec, Congratulations on being the Bear Cub of the Week. I loved the pictures that are on your site. Know that you are being remembered in prayer and lots of hugs are being sent to you from Montana. www.freewebs.com/prayerbears Irene <mtsofttail@hotmail.com> Colstrip, MT - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 9:13 AM CDT Alec, Just wanted to stop by and let you know my family and I are lifting you up in our prayers. Have a great day and I hope the seizures lighten up. Love, LaWanda *Prayerbear LaWanda <onecoolwoman1971@yahoo.com> - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:54 AM CDT Alec Congrats on being bear cub of the week for The Prayer Bears. Always Sweetheart. Sending Love Hugs & Prayers Your Way. PAM STURGILL www.freewebs.com/prayerbears <psturgill@bellsouth.net> - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:06 AM CDT We will be praying for you little on , My friends will be by to say hi soon and will be lifting you up in prayers also. Blessings and Bearhugs PrayerBears Cub piker of the week for prayer bears <cubpikeroftheweek@aol.com> Bearville, - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 2:23 AM CDT Steph, I will pray for guidence on the path to helping your little man through some of his issues. You are a wonderful mommy and do what is in your power to help him. Keep up the good work. God Bless Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Monday, July 24, 2006 12:18 AM CDT I am so glad the I S are gone. I will be keeping your family in our prayers. Shelly Szymanski <princessshellie2002@yahoo.com> - Friday, July 21, 2006 2:06 AM CDT The Prayer Bears Belle <LanBelle@columbus.rr.com> Columbus, OH - Saturday, July 15, 2006 9:26 PM CDT I know they say the the Lord will only give us what we can handle. Do you ever wonder if He has you confused with someone else??? I know there are times when I do. Hope that made you smile. Thinking and praying for all of you. (www.caringbridge.org.nj/saraswalk) The Hoffman's <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> - Saturday, July 15, 2006 6:35 PM CDT Sometimes it is one minute at a time. This to shall pass. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, July 14, 2006 5:26 PM CDT Hello Steph and family Nice to see you made it back home, almost in one piece. It's nice to beable to go on vacations and camping, I wish we were able to do that kinds of stuff. We are also working on the transtion from birth to three to getting Ryland into Preschool. I am already looking at backpacks, probably going to be a Wiggles one. Email or call sometime, when you have time. Take care and hope Alec is feeling better soon. When they don't get sleep, boy watch out. Summer mommy to Ryland <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com> Hartford, SD US - Thursday, July 13, 2006 6:36 PM CDT Stopping by to say Hello and to let you know you are in my thoughts...Bearhugs.. The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe..... <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va usa - Wednesday, July 12, 2006 7:58 PM CDT Stopping by to let you know I am praying for your family. Jennifer A from the prayer bears and ones who care <charay913@yahoo.com> Carrolton, Texas - Wednesday, July 12, 2006 11:43 AM CDT Ah the joy or work. I love being able to sit at my desk and just stare, no screaming kids, no blowouts or puke. What more could you ask for. I'm glad you guys survived the trip. I'm sure there were times when you didn't think you would. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, July 11, 2006 8:33 AM CDT LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON ,ALBERTA , - Monday, July 10, 2006 10:53 PM CDT Alec, You are in my prayers today buddy!PRAYERS AND BIG BEARHUGS Love, Marci the Prayer Bears http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA US - Monday, July 10, 2006 11:29 AM CDT Hi Hannah the birthday girl has just dropped in to say Hi Jo Hannah, Rebecca and Rachel Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Wednesday, July 5, 2006 6:48 PM CDT We are thinking of you. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, July 5, 2006 0:26 AM CDT Happy 4th of July www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Monday, July 3, 2006 1:42 PM CDT SOOOOOOO glad you can all have some fun!!! Thinking of you lots and praying for your safe and healthy journey home! Keep smilin'!! Luv, mom mom <tk@svtv.com> - Thursday, June 29, 2006 11:11 PM CDT WOW!I can't imagine going through all you have the past week...but you have awesome faith and determination. I pray that you all can have a better next few days! Keeping you all in our prayers...HANG IN THERE!! Love and Hugs, Marilyn Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, Ia - Thursday, June 29, 2006 9:51 PM CDT All of us are laughing for you. I've been lecturing Wyatt on no blowouts while we are at the cabin. I am not washing everything by hand. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, June 29, 2006 5:38 PM CDT Glad you had a better day! There's also an awesome waterpark on the north end of Denver if you're looking for something else to do- I was there a couple weeks ago and it was a BLAST! We're praying the rest of your trip goes well. -The Schultzes Rebecca Schultz - Thursday, June 29, 2006 5:21 PM CDT YEAH YEAH!!!! I Am jumping for joy that there WAS a good day for all of you. By the way Six Flags has a water park too so take your suits. HAVE A GREAT TIME. I will be praying. Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO usa - Thursday, June 29, 2006 10:55 AM CDT I should be crying with you but Tony and I have had a good laugh. I guess maybe it's because we've been there and crying any more doesn't help - you have to laugh at these situations. And....you will when you look back at it. You must have prayed for patience lately. God has a sense of humor too it seems!! You're right - tomorrow has to be better (it can't really get any worse). God bless, take a deep breath, thank God for poop and have a wonderful day tomorrow. You're in our prayers. Tony, Stephanie, Maasa, AJ, Catherine, and Rebekah Spader - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 9:08 PM CDT Brad & Steph, You are in my prayers! I can't imagine what you're going through, but you can't say that you're not making memories! I pray that from here on out, you have "great days"!! Trust in HIM and HE will see you through! Love, Dar Gerber Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 11:04 AM CDT You are in our prayers! I hope you took a weeks vacation after your vacation, just to recover. I give you credit, I think I would have packed up and went home. It doesn't sound like it can get much worse, so there's no place to go but up, right??? Take care, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 10:12 AM CDT Brad and Steph, I stopped what I was doing and said a prayer for you. I believe you have a movie here. Going to "Wally World" sounds very calm to your trip experiences. I do pray everything improves and you do get some enjoyment and yes, relaxation. My prayers are with you and Brad as you continue your journey. Bless you! Don Nelson <seedsoffaith@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 9:40 AM CDT Stephanie, Hang in there-- we're praying for you, and know you will be rewarded for being able to praise Him in this storm! Julie Carolan <5carolans@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 8:55 AM CDT Hang in there........I am praying.........Love ya all lots....mom Mom <tk@svtv.com> - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 8:03 AM CDT Oh Gosh too funny. I hate to laugh but your story is so real. I am counting down the days until our family vacation next week but if its anything like yours ....I want to just stay home....or have a vacation after our vacation. We will be flying and that is never fun with a special needs child and 3 other kids. I just pray Taryns wheelchair comes back to us with no missing pieces...or that it just comes back to us ...period! My thoughts and prayers go out to Alex. How cool to have spent a bit of time with Ann. We need to have a Elis Angels get together. I wish we all didnt live so far apart. Take Care Debbie www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn Debbie Fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net> Corona, ca usa - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 10:38 PM CDT Stpped by because I saw the Entry on Eli's site. I am partially crying and partially laughing. Although I can't say I can relate to having a child with Mito I can definately relate to being STRESSED OUT on vacation with small children who don't feel well! Basically you end up with little or no sleep and don't know whether to laugh or cry in either case you feel like you might just go crazy. Hang in there and God bless. Praying Alec is feeling better. Kris Kris Vejvoda <kmvejvoda@cox.net> LaVista, ne - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 10:20 PM CDT Hi just coming by to say hello. I hope you all have a wonderful vacation. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 9:10 PM CDT Praying that Alec is doing better and that the rest of your vacation is excellent. Give the boys hugs and kisses from me. Love you all, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 6:39 PM CDT I haven't stop thinking about little Alec since Sat. Each time I stop and say a little pray that at that moment he feels a bit better. I also found it interesting that they wanted to tell you that Alec's condition was bad. I looked at your face and well you know. I think that is why we were there! I just wish that I knew you were going to take a cab from Children's. I would have been there ASAP. I thought they were keeping you guys until late morning. I will continue to pray for Alec and sleep for all of you as I am sure it would be nice to enjoy at least one day away from home. YES! Bonnie Step gave me a big hug! Thank you. God Bless www.elisangels.org Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 11:34 AM CDT Oh my Gosh! Aren't you glad you took a vacation:) I hope Alec is feeling better. I hope you gave Ann a hug from all of us Minnesotan's! What a trip! Take care, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 11:14 AM CDT Ours kids never can do things the way we want them. It's like they know when we have important stuff going on. If not a movie a book on how a vacation should Not go. I know with us we might be canceling vacation because I don't think we would beable to enjoy it with all the extra care that goes into taking care of Ryland. We are praying for all of you that the rest of the Summer goes better. http://rylandjesse.tripod.com Summer mommy to Ryland <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 10:25 AM CDT You guys are amazing parents. Hang in there. Someday you'll look back and smile. I always refer to the girls and I as a "traveling circus" when we go anywhere. Nothing ever goes as easy as it should. Take Care Amber Kellenberger <nicholask@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA USA - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 10:22 AM CDT Hang in there Steph...it can only get better right? I am sure you are sleep deprived and running on E but I hope Alec starts doing a little better so the end of your vacation will be a little less stressful & alot more relaxing. Take care & thanks for the update! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 10:12 AM CDT praying........praying.......praying.......Just remember, you are creating memories. It will make a great scrapbook! Love you lots and praying for you all!! Mom mom <tk@svtv.com> - Tuesday, June 27, 2006 6:52 AM CDT Dying of laughter! Seriously, I hope Alec is feeling better. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Monday, June 26, 2006 9:01 PM CDT Steph OH MY. I'm so sorry that things are going the way they are... I'm feel so bad, but giggling from your entry.. but really do feel bad. hopefully the rest of the trip will go better for you. WE are praying that Alec gets over the croup and gets better fast!! Tell Ann if you see we say HI!!! Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> - Monday, June 26, 2006 8:13 PM CDT Just stopping by to say hi and let you know that I still come by and am always praying for Alec. I hope the med changes help keep the ickies away. God Bless tamm cline <Tamm06@aol.com www.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole> - Sunday, June 25, 2006 11:12 PM CDT Hey guys just popped by to check on you this week. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Saturday, June 24, 2006 10:33 PM CDT Our prayers are with you and always with Alec. Have a great week! Alex and MaryBeth MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Thursday, June 22, 2006 5:48 PM CDT Hi There! I was also linked to your site via Eli's Angels. Your son is so handsome - both of them are! Your family is great and strong. You are in our prayers! Sarah & Lily <SMKLCR@hotmail.com> Fort Collins, CO USA - Thursday, June 22, 2006 0:30 AM CDT I linked onto your son's site via Eli's Angels. My son is also listed as an Angel. He was born with Mito in December of 2003 and is also severely effected by his disease. He has a severe seizure disorder as your son does so my heart goes out to your family. Your son is simply ADORABLE. I love his pictures. Will check back often to visit. Kim, Tom and Alex Holder P.S. I did attend the UMDF conference. It was awesome. Look into going next year if you are able. Kim Holder <kholder@adelphia.net> Pembroke, MA USA - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 7:48 PM CDT Way to go Aaron, do you have any pointers for Jess she's trying very hard to learn to ride her bike too. Hope you have lots of fun. I hope the trip to Colorado is a good one, beware we are having kind of weird weather, and that you have lots of fun. I hope you can find a good combination of meds to settle the seizures down some. Have a great Weekend, and hope it's a wonderfull Father's day Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.net> Rush, Co USA - Saturday, June 17, 2006 7:44 AM CDT Hi Alec! I love the poem! :) Sorry to hear that you're not doing so well... hang in there. Hope some of the meds will start helping! You take care. With love, Joanne and the Dream Team ~Bridge of Dreams ~ ~The Prayer Bears Website~ Ones Who Care, SOEW ~Simply Joanne~ Joanne <joanne173@gmail.com> Singapore, Singapore - Friday, June 16, 2006 1:56 AM CDT What a great poem. I love Aaron's discussion with Brad. I'm sure Brad was ready to bust a gut laughing. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, June 15, 2006 10:33 PM CDT Just dropping by to say hello, havent seen you much this spring and summer, hope you are doing ok, sounds like some fun vacations coming up yet, enjoy them. We are having a new baby in the family, Im excited, hopefully it will be something to look forward to after this past year. Stop in sometime to say hello, but not to stay,( at the hosp) Take care Jean www.caringbridge.org/visit/terryeggers jean - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 9:16 AM CDT Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers always Alec! Prayers and Bearhugs Love, MarcI The Prayer Bears http://www.freewebs.com/prayerbears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Sunday, June 11, 2006 8:34 PM CDT Just coming by to say hello. Have a blessed weekend. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 10:12 PM CDT Alec sounds like you are doing good. That's awesome!!! Take care! Carrie Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 11:14 AM CDT Good job on the quiz. Sounds like things are busy but fun. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 10:18 AM CDT RachelJoy and I are slowly recovering from last week's drama. I'm praying that your family will enjoy a very blessed week. Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Tuesday, June 6, 2006 0:15 AM CDT Stephanie, Your parents gave me little Alec's website. Our prayers go to you & your family. thank you for sharing your precious Alec with us. Nancy Sehr Clarence & Nancy Sehr <csehr@cox.net> Phoenix, AZ United States - Sunday, June 4, 2006 1:28 PM CDT Bonnie, I read the you are hoping for better day. Well just knwo that we are all praying for better days for you guys. I just hope they come.... www.elisangels.org Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Friday, June 2, 2006 0:16 AM CDT I'm so happy to hear your van is back. Life is going to be so much easier. No more backaches- woohoo! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, June 1, 2006 9:24 PM CDT Isn't it awesome when we get our new equpiment! It's like Christmas!! Sad that we get excited for wheelchair stuff!! Shapiro's number is 763-577-0008!!! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> - Wednesday, May 31, 2006 4:06 PM CDT Alex is just stopping by to say that we are praying for an end to the seizing and sleepless nights! Hope you have a great Memorial Day Weekend! Love, The Prayer Bears Website MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Saturday, May 27, 2006 7:40 AM CDT The dreaded cycle of seizures and med changes- sorry :( Hopefully they stop and you can enjoy your weekend. Did you order the jogger? geri-anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, May 26, 2006 9:25 AM CDT Sorry to hear that Alec is not doing so well you are in our prayers. Have a blessed weekend. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, May 25, 2006 9:01 PM CDT I'm so sorry to hear about your night. We've been there and we can relate. Even when it comes to going back to bed and waking up even more tired. As a mom of a child with seizures my heart aches for all of you. We know how hard it can be and want you to know that we are praying for you. Big hugs to Alec from Sara. The Hoffman's (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Thursday, May 25, 2006 5:58 PM CDT How eloquently said and I admire you for your courage and your honesty. Holding Alec in my prayers, close to my heart and always thinking of your family. He is a special child who definitely is a Gift for God. He knew He could entrust in You to provide the delicate care that Alec would need. And Alec in turn would provide you with a voice to speak for him, hands to provide love and a heart to capture all the precious moments of his life. You inspire me. May God Bless You. Ann (www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Wednesday, May 24, 2006 2:28 AM CDT Well said, sleep well! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Friday, May 19, 2006 11:17 PM CDT KEEPING YOU ALL IN MY PRAYERS. PAM STURGILL www.freewebs.com/prayerbears <psturgill@bellsouth.net> - Wednesday, May 17, 2006 9:43 AM CDT www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 8:54 PM CDT Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers today. Prayers and bearhugs Love, Marci The Prayer Bears www.freewebs.com/prayerbears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA US - Tuesday, May 16, 2006 7:11 AM CDT Alex is just dropping by to say that he hopes you had a Love, MaryBeth & Alex The Prayer Bears Website MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Monday, May 15, 2006 2:26 PM CDT Stopping by to say Hello and to let you know that I am thinking about you...Big Bear Hugs are being sent your way... The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va usa - Monday, May 15, 2006 1:21 PM CDT Happy Mother's Day!! Hope your day is very special!! Rachelee <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> - Sunday, May 14, 2006 9:35 AM CDT May the Lord bless your Mother's Day with love and laughter. Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Saturday, May 13, 2006 10:10 PM CDT Hey there: Your update made me chuckle when you said that Alec was being bad. Sounds so much like our house when Amy insists that Sara is keeping her awake. She'll get quiet for a minute and you think good and then the babbling starts again. It's music to the ears. Have a happy mothers day. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) The Hoffman's <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Saturday, May 13, 2006 2:58 PM CDT Happy Mother's Day Stephanie!! You are one of the best mom's I know. You are an amazing woman and I am very proud of you. And this goes out to all of Steph's many good friends who rank in the "best mom's ever" category. GOD BLESS YOU and your families!! May you have a wonderful Mother's Day!!! Grandma Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Saturday, May 13, 2006 10:50 AM CDT I love when our non-typical kids are naughty. I'm sure Brad's lecture was given with a huge grin. Happy Mother's Day! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Saturday, May 13, 2006 8:28 AM CDT Hello Alec,just dropping in to check on you and how you are doing i see there was no upp date hope all is well will stop back in a day. Love michelle the prayer bears Michelle <eyeore0516@optonline.net> - Friday, May 12, 2006 1:50 PM CDT LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~> EDMONTON , - Thursday, May 11, 2006 10:17 PM CDT Hello, Thanks so much for stoping by our page. I have today off so I am taking advantage of the time to visit my CB buddies. That bike falls sounds nasty. OUCH! I may not be able to visit the page as often as I was but I will be by to check on you guys whenever I can. You will not be far from my thoughts and prayers. Take care, Love Deb Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Thursday, May 11, 2006 4:23 PM CDT Hello my little friend the gnag is just stopping in to see how you are doing. keeping you in my prayers. Michelle A the prayerbears Michelle A <eyeore0516@optonline.net> - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 10:20 AM CDT Hi All, Hope you are doing better, thinking of you all, take care Jean <jeaneggers@sio.midco.net> - Monday, May 8, 2006 6:25 PM CDT Sorry to hear Alec is having a increase of seizures. That is absolutely horrible. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Prayers and bearhugs Love, Marci The Prayer Bears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Saturday, May 6, 2006 8:35 AM CDT Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 11:02 PM CDT Wanted to drop by and see how Alec is doing. Glad his toothies are coming in and are able to keep pain level down to a minimum. Sorry to hear about his allergies though, but hopefully the results will help you in the long run. Sending you warm hugs and happy smiles! Best Wishes- AnnEide (www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 3:15 AM CDT No matter what those levels are.. I still want you to see Shapiro.. I think he can help with all the Respitory stuff with Alec!! Ha Ha Funny about Aaron..So funny how their minds work, and what they pick up on!! Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, mn - Monday, May 1, 2006 4:42 PM CDT I can't believe the procedure lasted only 10 minutes. I would have thought it would have been much longer. I hope you are able to control the pain. I think Sept. is too long of a wait for a doctor appointment in Minneapolis. You should think about scheduling it earlier :)! Margarittas are waiting for you. Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Sunday, April 30, 2006 8:34 AM CDT Alex is peeking in to see how you are! Good job advocating for Alec. Our kiddos need it so much. It is a shame that we are forced to do it though. Glad that all went well :) Hope you have a great weekend! Love, MaryBeth & Alex The Prayer Bears Website MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Saturday, April 29, 2006 7:37 AM CDT Stopping by to say Hello and to let you know that I am thinking of you...Bearhugs.. The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe..... <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va usa - Friday, April 28, 2006 8:54 PM CDT Alec looks so studious there studying his book, it's very cute. Sorry for the hassle at the appointment, i hate when you get there and have to argue because they don't know what they are talking about. I'm glad the procedure went fairly well, and i hope he's recovering well. Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.net> Rush, Co USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 10:59 AM CDT Hope all goes well with the gum opening today. gaz <Gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, April 26, 2006 9:34 AM CDT I love that pic of Alec on the top of the page. Katelyn had that same book and she LOVED it! Wishing you a great week! Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Monday, April 24, 2006 9:48 AM CDT So sorry that we have not been around in awhile but we had computer problems and we just got it back. We missed checking in on you all but we are back. I will check in again real soon. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, April 23, 2006 8:22 PM CDT Hi there cutie!! RachelJoy is out of the hospital and back home again. We are praising the Lord for each small improvement that she makes each day. We are praying for you and your family too. Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Friday, April 21, 2006 8:34 PM CDT Have a great weekend! gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, April 21, 2006 10:08 AM CDT Hi Alec, My mom said to tell you we can't have secret meetings at the hospital anymore. We can meet up anywhere else- the pool, the park, the mall- just NOT the hospital. :) Love, Haley Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, April 20, 2006 1:41 PM CDT Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 3:37 PM CDT We just popped by to see how things were going. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 4:59 PM CDT We are so happy to meet our new neighbors and Katie is happy to have two new friends in Aaron and Alec. Todd, Rebecca, and Katie Schultz <tnrschultz@iw.net> Harrisburg, SD - Monday, April 17, 2006 8:09 PM CDT Hope you had a great Easter. What wonderful news about your van. God is good. (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) The Hoffman's <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Monday, April 17, 2006 5:58 PM CDT HAPPY EASTER... Kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Sunday, April 16, 2006 11:28 AM CDT Happy Easter! Hope today is a fun filled family day full of memories!! Thinking of you and praying for you all always! Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> - Sunday, April 16, 2006 8:54 AM CDT Happy Easter! Geri-Anne, Wyatt, and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Sunday, April 16, 2006 8:35 AM CDT Awesome news about the van!!! Janet Fisher <fisher5@cabelone.net> Dakota Dunes, SD - Saturday, April 15, 2006 10:16 AM CDT Good job Alec throwing up on the pantyhose. That is exactly how I feel when I have to wear them! We love the jogger. We have to do a few adjustments to get Wy's butt all the way to the back of the seat. Other than that it is wonderful. It goes anywhere and everywhere. It is so nice for running around the yard and neighborhood in. It is just much easier than the wheelchair to manuever. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, April 13, 2006 8:21 AM CDT Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Wednesday, April 12, 2006 10:45 PM CDT My goodness. It sounds like you were put through the wringer at the hospital. I am sorry you had a difficult time communicating with the staff there. You certainly had more than your share..Hope you write them a letter and let them know your disappointment. I am praying your family gets over the sickness there. Sounds like Aaron's new bike will be really neat and I am glad Alec is enjoying the pool. Take care. Until next time...HUGS AnnEide (www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Wednesday, April 12, 2006 5:25 AM CDT Just checking in before I hit the hay. Had a big day with Rebekah's surgery. Hope you are all doing well. God bless. Can't wait to play. Stephanie Spader <tsspader@sio.midco.net www.caringbridge.org/sd/spaders> - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 9:19 PM CDT HAPPY EASTER ALEC ALWAYS. www.freewebs.com/prayerbears. Pam Sturgill / The Prayer Bears <psturgill@bellsouth.net> - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 3:58 PM CDT Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always. LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~> EDMONTON , - Monday, April 10, 2006 10:32 PM CDT Hannah and Rebecca just wanted to drop by and tell you that they have a new baby Sister Rachel Emily born on 6th April 2006 weighing in at 9lb Jo Hannahand Rebecca Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Monday, April 10, 2006 3:10 PM CDT Thanks for the update! Glad to hear you are all on the mend! We soo want you to Dr here!! So I'm pumped!! Give ALec big hugs from Zach and I! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Thursday, April 6, 2006 8:06 PM CDT Stopping by to say Hello and to let you know that I am thinking of you..Bearhugs... The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe..... <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va usa - Thursday, April 6, 2006 7:03 PM CDT I hope you are feeling better. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 8:25 AM CDT I am so glad Alec was able to come home, and I really hope you start to feel better. i know the bugs going around this Spring are nasty. The new graphics are beautiful. I hope the weather is improving and getting to be more like Spring. I can't wait to see the quilt when it's done too, i hope the square got there ok. Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.net> Rush, Co U - Tuesday, April 4, 2006 3:09 PM CDT Just popping in to wish you a sun shiny day! So happy that you are home! We have been praying for you all. Love, MaryBeth & Alex The Prayer Bears Website MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Saturday, April 1, 2006 7:36 AM CST Glad you are home! Do the happy dance. Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Friday, March 31, 2006 8:57 PM CST Thinking and Praying for all of you. Call me if you need anything! I'll run it up!!!! Hoping you all can go home today! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Thursday, March 30, 2006 10:33 AM CST Hi Alec- Praying for you little one. I will do my best to try and call tomorrow and see how you are. HUGS Ann <HFMito@cableone.net> - Thursday, March 30, 2006 0:54 AM CST Hi to all of you, Sorry to hear that Alec is in McKennon and not with us in Sioux Valley. I will miss my other little boy with his teasing me and getting stickers for him. You all take care and stop by sometime Jean www.caringbridge.org/visit/terryeggers Jean <jeaneggers@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 9:07 PM CST Alec..Hope how soon you get to feeling better..Get well soon..Praying for a speedy recovery.. The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe..... <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va usa - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 8:13 PM CST Hoping you are feeling better Alec and going home soon. Let us know if you need anything. Love, Kari Ryan and Regan Kari Garry <ryankari@iw.net> Tea, SD - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 7:46 PM CST Praying for Alec to heal quickly and get back home. I sure hope today is a better day for him. Love the family photo... Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO US - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 11:16 AM CST We are prayting that Alec is breathing easier. Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 7:59 PM CST Keeping you in my thoughts and in my prayer's always. LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca ~THE PRAYER BEARS~> EDMONTON , - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 7:20 PM CST Dear Alec, I hear u had quite a terrific day at PT the other day. Keep up the good work. You are lucky to have a great brother who loves u so. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be back to see u soon and what u are doing. ((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))) Love Eileen PrayerBears,OWC,Hugs&Hope,Dabbles&Doodles Eileen - Monday, March 27, 2006 4:47 PM CST I went to a book fair today at work and I found the neatest books for Aaron and Alec. But don't tell them. It's a secret! I hope to come up for a visit real soon. Hope everyone is doing well. Hugs and kisses to all. Great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, ia USA - Monday, March 27, 2006 12:36 AM CST Praying for you always. Hope the night feeds and sleep get better,. Prayers and Bearhugs Love, MarcI The Prayer Bears, SOEW and OWC www.carigbridge.org/visit/bryanandmark www.freewebs.com/prayerbears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Monday, March 27, 2006 8:44 AM CST Just coming by to say hello. Have a blessed week. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, March 26, 2006 10:34 PM CST We broke out of the PICU today. Thanks for the phone call- we'll have to get together soon! Amy & Haley <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, March 23, 2006 12:56 AM CST Stopping by to say Hello and to let you know you are in our thought and prayers...Hope you get can the feeding issues worked out...Bearhugs.. The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va usa - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 6:15 PM CST Now I've got tears welling up in my eyes. I too am thankful for your friendship, something I've prayed for, for a LONG time too. I know you have many special friends and I am still holding out that God has more special people out there for us to meet. God is good and for that I am grateful! With thanksgiving... Stephanie - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 2:00 PM CST Just had to check the website to see what's new. The quilting idea is so cool! Cute pictures of the family! Hope you have a good week & stay healthy! See you at church next week, we missed you this weekend. Have a good day! God Bless, Marilyn Marilyn Moser <moserjam @hotmail.com> Alvord , Ia - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 8:43 AM CST I found your site through Eli's angels. My daughter, Rebekah is one of Eli's angels, too. I was just admiring how CLEAN his G-tube is. Ours is fairly new. Give me some pointers on how to clean the tube inside!!(its making me nuts looking at it!) Our kids are about the same age. Bekah turned two March 5. My son, Sam is a WRESTLER. I noticed that your e mail address referred to raising wrestlers. Just wanted you to know that I am praying for you guys. I know how tough it is. Please feel free to visit Bekahs care page at www.carepages.com/ourangelbekahgrace. Love you guys! Kristi Cooley Kristi Cooley <kcooleyrn@aol.com> Cleveland, , TN USA - Saturday, March 18, 2006 11:51 PM CST Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Friday, March 17, 2006 7:30 PM CST The family photo is great!!!! gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, March 16, 2006 9:49 AM CST Hi Alec and family, I am so happy that u had a nice little vaction. I agree with u its nice to have a kitchen. Just to meet some friends and have a good time must have been terrific. I want u to know that I always have u in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be back real soon, and have a Happy St.Patricks Day. (((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) LoveEileen PrayerBears,OWC,Hugs&Hopes,Dabbles&Doodles Eileen - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 5:26 PM CST Enjoy this Friendship Flower! ^ Click ^ to send a Friendship Flower and ^ Click ^ Clover for a visit to SOEW's March St. Patty Theme Page God's love 'n SONshine always, Angel Jen SOEW NEW WEBSITE Click to visit Sunshine on Eagles Wings (SOEW) - The Prayer Bears - One Who Cares & others Angel Jen <angel.jen@mymacs.org> Nashville, TN USA - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 4:32 PM CST Just stopping by to let you know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayer's always. Sorry it's been awhile since I have been here.Have a good day and I will be back again really soon. HAPPY ST.PATRICKS DAY LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 7:08 PM CST We just popped by to say hi. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 12:42 AM CST Just coming by to say hello. Have a blessed week. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Monday, March 13, 2006 11:41 PM CST Wow, it's great you have a game plan, I love it when that happens! It was great getting together and getting to meet your mom. Our cat is pregnant, so who knows, we may be taking a trip to their farm. Have a good night, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Monday, March 13, 2006 5:03 PM CST Thanks For the update!!! I'm glad to hear your appt went so well! It's nice to have a gameplan set up! it was great to see you and meet your mom!! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Monday, March 13, 2006 4:29 PM CST It was great seeing you. I'm glad the appointment with Wical went so well. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Monday, March 13, 2006 4:13 PM CST Thinking of you! Shay & Chayce Chayce's Mission <eeneedscure@yahoo.com > Davison, MI - Monday, March 13, 2006 7:16 AM CST hey guys, sorry it has been to long. I hope you are all doing well other than fighting on the phone............that is soooo frustrating. Angel Katelyn’s Mum, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, - Sunday, March 12, 2006 10:16 PM CST Steph I am glad to hear everything is going well. Keep on fighting, your family is in my prayers. Christa Christa Fenton <christamfenton@hotmail.com> Grand Meadow, MN US - Thursday, March 9, 2006 11:52 PM CST Hey, don't worry if people are afraid of you! You are being an ADVOCATE for your son! If that is the only way you can get things done, you do what you have to do. That's just what mother's do. Hope everyone is feeling well and will stay healthy. Hugs and kisses. Great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Thursday, March 9, 2006 8:57 AM CST Keep on fighting for Alec! I am sos sorry you have to fight so hard but in the end, it will all work out. Kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Wednesday, March 8, 2006 5:42 PM CST Just stopping by to say that we are praying for you! Love, MaryBeth & Alex The Prayer Bears Website MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, March 5, 2006 4:00 PM CST Alec, When I read that u didn't get what everyone else had I was happy. You have enough to deal with. Its nice that u have your brother with you. I always have u in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be back to see how everyone is doing. (((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))) LoveEileen PrayerBears,OWC,Hugs&Hope, Dabbles&Doodles Eileen NY, NY USA - Sunday, March 5, 2006 2:17 PM CST What a great story!!!! I hope that you can get all your insurance info worked out. I know the stress of dealing with those companies. NO FUN we love you all www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Saturday, March 4, 2006 10:11 PM CST Thank you for the wonderful story this morning! I'm so glad you are going back to school. It will go faster than you realize. gaz <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Saturday, March 4, 2006 9:49 AM CST That is outrageous, I sooo dislike Insurance companies. If thats the case I guess we won't be going either. Hope your weekend is going well! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Saturday, March 4, 2006 7:34 AM CST Stopping by to say Hello and to let you know we are thinking of you..Those insurance companies can be something else.....Bearhugs..... The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn , va Usa - Friday, March 3, 2006 5:47 PM CST The Prayer Bears Hailee sending prayers, my little one also has mito melissa <angels4hailee@Cox.net> cavecreek, az usa - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 7:58 PM CST Hey guys! The quilt project looks awesome! Great to hear the new nurse and big bed are going well. I hope to fit in the March schedule for a day or so - I miss you guys! Tracy Sorenson <tfiegen@hotmail.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 5:11 PM CST Just swinging on by to say Hi our hearts broke when we read the story of what Aaron said to you. how wonderful that Aaron has that sibling love, I hope that Rebecca will too have that love for Hannah sending our love and best wishes Jo Hannahand Rebecca Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Wednesday, March 1, 2006 3:33 PM CST Thanks for the update...Jodi and I were impatiently waiting for our Alec fix! =) Have a great week! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, February 28, 2006 8:11 AM CST Alec, I hope u and your mom are both feeling better. Everything looks brighter when u feel good. I think of u always and u are always in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be back real soon for another visit. ((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) LoveEileen PrayerBears,OWC, Hugs&Hopes, Dabbles&Doodles Eileen NY, NY USA - Sunday, February 26, 2006 4:43 PM CST THE PRAYER BEARSHUGS LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITEHUGS <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON,ALBERTA/CANADA, - Saturday, February 25, 2006 2:11 AM CST Aw, Aaron is caring towards his brother. I can understand why that would break your heart. Wishing you all well. {{{HUGS}}}Deb Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com > Wheatley, Ontario, - Thursday, February 23, 2006 10:36 PM CST I love the SITE!!!! Have a wonderful weekend www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, February 23, 2006 9:59 PM CST Our oldest Jess has had the same kind of reactions about her little brother sometimes too. It's hard trying to explain, but she just snuggles a little bit more and try to take care of her brother. i hope everyone is feeling better. The bugs have been bad this year it seems. Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.net> Rush, CO United States - Thursday, February 23, 2006 9:28 AM CST I just popped by to check on you guys. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, February 21, 2006 1:46 PM CST Stephanie, I am sorry Aaron is grieving for what he will never have with Alec, I have seen the pictures of the two of the and Aaron has a true love for his brother and it truly shows. I will keep Aaron in my thoughts and prayers and that he is able to handle what he can only have with Alec. Hang in there. kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Monday, February 20, 2006 6:38 PM CST Dropping by to say Hello and to let you know we are thinking of you... bearhugs.... The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va Usa - Monday, February 20, 2006 5:15 PM CST Alex and Cookie Monster are stopping by to check on you! It is amazing how intuitive kids can be. Praying for you guys. Love, MaryBeth & Alex The Prayer Bears Website MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, February 19, 2006 6:08 PM CST RachelJoy and I are praying for your family today. Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Sunday, February 19, 2006 5:14 PM CST Steph Nathan and Mitchell had and still have a hard time knowing that Ryland will never beable to be outside playing Football with them. And we are back in the hospital. We had plans for the weekend and it's funny because Ryland always ends up in the hospital when we have plans. You'll have to read his caringbridge page we have had a busy week. Hope everyone is feeling better. Take Care. www.caringbridge.org/sd/ryland Summer Jesse <thegame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Saturday, February 18, 2006 1:01 PM CST I hope that you both get to feeling better real soon. Take care and have a good weekend www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, February 16, 2006 11:10 PM CST Stephanie- I just read your update. I hope both you and Aaron feeling better soon. I am thinking of you today. Your entry broke my heart with regards to Aaron. HUGS Ann <HFMito@cableone.net> - Thursday, February 16, 2006 1:54 PM CST I hope your all feeling better soon. We are praying and sending some get well vibes over there. God Bless and Skye sends a nice feel better snuggly cuddly hug! tamm cline <tamm06@aol.com> - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 1:47 PM CST How can all of us be sick at the same time? I hope you are feeling better than me. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 9:12 AM CST Aaron and Alec, I wanted to make sure I got her to say hello and let u know that u are always in my thoughts and prayers.Happy Valentine's Day. I'll be back soon to see how u both are doing and we can have another visit. (((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))) LoveEileen PrayerBears, OWC, Hugs&Hope Eileen NY, NY USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 5:05 PM CST Happy Valentines Day Aaron & Alec! From your two little girlfriends Erica & Shelby Kellenberger. Amber Kellenberger <nicholask@alliancecom.net> Rock Rapids, IA US - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 11:17 AM CST I hope that Alec manages to avoid the bug going around, and i hope that it's a short lived bug that everyone recovers from quickly. Put me down for a quilt square i'll try and get on it and if you can email me your address i'll send it too you. I think it sounds like a very cool idea. Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.net> Rush, CO United States - Monday, February 13, 2006 8:53 PM CST Thinking of you....Bearhugs.... The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va Usa - Monday, February 13, 2006 7:15 PM CST Praying for all of you. William is sick with the strep we think, going to the ped's tomorrow. May you all get to feeling better real soon. Love and hugs- AnnEide(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Monday, February 13, 2006 6:26 PM CST Hoping you all get to feeling better real soon, so that you may have a HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!! Sending giant bear hugs and prayers.. Eva and Rodney~The Prayer Bears~ <KWfan4ever@yahoo.com> www.caringbridge.org/mi/rodneyreeves, - Monday, February 13, 2006 1:42 PM CST Too weird, Jeff and me are home sick today, and Patrick is still sick from yesterday. I just checked on Wyatt and their family is sick too. Is it contagious online or what??? Hope you get better soon! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Monday, February 13, 2006 10:07 AM CST That is a terrific idea for a quilt! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com > Wheatley, Ontario, - Sunday, February 12, 2006 11:04 PM CST Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com> - Saturday, February 11, 2006 8:17 PM CST Glad Alec had a fun time sledding. William got to see a few snow flakes fall today in Columbus,MS, but it was too warm to stick. The project sounds quite neat. Unfortunately I do not quilt and sew very little, otherwise I would happily participate. Sending you warm hugs and giggles too- AnnEide(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Saturday, February 11, 2006 5:35 PM CST LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Saturday, February 11, 2006 2:46 PM CST The kick sled came- yeah! You guys are going to have so much fun!!!! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, February 10, 2006 9:42 AM CST I'm stopping by to see what's new, and to pray for Alec and your family. Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Thursday, February 9, 2006 7:58 PM CST Thinking of you today..Bearhugs are sent your way... The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe <mmabe63@yahoo.com> Coeburn, va Usa - Thursday, February 9, 2006 4:11 PM CST Yeah I'm so glad you have a nurse starting! We will continue to pray that it works out! I hope that Alec gets over the ear infection fast!! Rachele <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 8:45 PM CST Hoping all is going well with the new nurse. I guess it is your season to have the near drowning incidents. I laughed so hard at your entry in Wy's guestbook. Geri-Anne and Eric <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 4:09 PM CST Just wanting you to know I was thinking of you and praying for you always..Prayers and Bearhugs, Love, Marci The Prayer Bears and SOEW www.caringbridge.org/visit/bryanandmark Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 8:28 AM CST Just dropping by to tell you that we think and pray for you all the time. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Monday, February 6, 2006 10:49 PM CST Wow, a new bed, that is great news. I love the pic on the main page, Alec is so adorable. I hope the check ups went well! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Monday, February 6, 2006 11:03 AM CST LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Saturday, February 4, 2006 0:13 AM CST Glad the bed is a winner:) Kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Friday, February 3, 2006 10:01 PM CST I can't wait to see pictures of him in his big boy bed. I remember how much Ann liked having it for Eli and how they had to adjust it for him as he got bigger. I love the picture of the boys with their daddy, wonderful.. kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Thursday, February 2, 2006 8:17 PM CST All right a big boy bed. Yeah for Alec, oh yeah and mom too. You will love getting him out of his new bed. It is much better for your back. Much love Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO usa - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 10:56 AM CST Dear Steph, I am anxious to see pictures of Alex's new room. That is so exciting! Hope the nursing situation is better soon. I also watched those movies on A&E this weekend. How powerful! I just got done reading a book "Let's Roll" about Todd Beamer's life and faith. Great inspiration and strength! Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 9:26 AM CST Dropped by to see how Alec and Aaron are feeling. Hope both will be on the mend very soon!!!!! I have seen the movie Flight 93 on its first run and it is very compelling...what brave men and women... A very dear friend was to be on one of the flights that was hijacked, but called the airlines to change her flight to a later one-because she wanted to sleep in. It hits the center of your heart. I'll be gone for a few days, but will be thinking of your family while I'm away. HUGS Ann(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 7:45 PM CST I hope your nursing situation turns out. You sound like us- Spring fever! Our house seems so small this time of the year. Take care! Amber, Erica & Shelby Kellenberger <nicholask@alliancecom.net> Rock Rapids, IA USA - Tuesday, January 31, 2006 9:42 AM CST www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Monday, January 30, 2006 10:41 PM CST Hi Ideker family! We wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and are glad to hear that the boys had a good b-day party. We can't believe that Alec is already 2 and Aaron will soon be 4!! We really hope that the nursing situation gets better for you soon too!! You are in our prayers. Tracy <tjpage@alliancecom.net> - Monday, January 30, 2006 4:13 PM CST Steph~~ I am so sorry about the terrible situation with the nurses! That is just awful what Paul did and wasn't going to tell you anything. Some people! I hope it all gets worked out soon. I hope Alec and everyone feel MUCH better SOON!! I haven't been able to get into Skye's site since Thursday, so if you know how, or know how she is doing..........would you please email me? I would appreciate it! Sending you all many thoughts & prayers, and we'll pray for a good nurse! Vicki & Caden <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Saturday, January 28, 2006 9:43 PM CST Just stopping by to say that we are praying for Alex and for you! Praying hard that you get the nursing you need. That is just so outrageous and burns me up! Love, MaryBeth & Alex The Prayer Bears Website MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Saturday, January 28, 2006 7:18 PM CST I will continue to pray for Alec and now Aaron. How rude of Interim to do that to you. I certainly feel that you have EVERY RIGHT to stand up for your sons best interest. I will keep praying that all works out with Jen. HUGS Ann (www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Saturday, January 28, 2006 2:46 PM CST Hey guys know we are thinking about you. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Saturday, January 28, 2006 12:36 AM CST Geesh, I cannot believe what you have to go through to get nursing care. That is just crazy! I am praying that nobody gets sick this week end! Angel Katelyn's Mom, Debbie < miraclegirl101@hotmail.com > Wheatley, Ontario, - Saturday, January 28, 2006 0:01 AM CST Alec, Hey..I wanted to stop in and say Hello. I have been keeping you in my prayers.Prayers and Bearhugs, Love, Marci The Prayer Bears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Friday, January 27, 2006 7:22 PM CST Hi Alec: Just checking in to see how you are doing. So sorry to hear that you guys are having a rough time with the nursing situation. Your in our prayers. Barbara & Sara (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Friday, January 27, 2006 3:53 PM CST Hi, I'm so sorry u are having such trouble with Alec's nurses. He is such a sweet boy. I really hope that things work out with this nurse that u like. For this and everything else, I will have u in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be back for another visit soon. ((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) LoveEileen PrayerBears,OWC,Dabbles&Doodles Eileen NY, NY USA - Friday, January 27, 2006 11:48 AM CST Don't even worry about if our kids get sick. If they do they do. A few hours with your children definately didn't caused them to get sick. It was already in their system. I can't beleive the guy would ask you if you were religious. I don't know how the whole conversation went, but when you are working with some one on a professional level that is so inappropriate to ask. It is the best that you are through with them. It sucks not having nursing, but with them you never had it anyways. So on to new and better. I think the best thing would be to move to Minneapolis :)!!!! I'm sure Brad is all for that- haha Enjoy your day! Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Friday, January 27, 2006 8:18 AM CST The teddy bears are very cool, especially that Green Bay one. I hope you can get some good nurses through the other agency. That's not a fight we've had to go through, cause Will's nurse is him Gma too, but i can't imagine the frustration. I hope the Robinal helps keep Alec's lungs a little clearer, and that he can get over this marathon respiratory infection quickly. Thanks for visiting Will's site, and hope it's a wonderful day today Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.net> Rush, CO United States - Friday, January 27, 2006 7:15 AM CST Hope the nursing problems get better soon... kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Thursday, January 26, 2006 10:14 PM CST Sorry to hear about all the nursing problems I hope that you get them resolved quickly. I love the pic of the boys. have a great weekend www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, January 26, 2006 9:54 PM CST Haven't checked in for a while, don't know if Dean told you but we moved to Iowa! By Ames, in a little town called Nevada. I am happy to read that you are all doing good. It is hard to believe Alec is 2. Hard to believe that Nick is 5...Hope you have better luck with the nursing aspect. Makes for too much stress!! Take care! Gena Atcher <atcherboy@iowatelecom.net> Nevada, Iowa USA - Thursday, January 26, 2006 9:27 PM CST Stopping by to say Hello and to you all of you know we are thinking of you. The Prayer Bears Website Mary Mabe <mmabe@verizon.net> Coeburn, VA Usa - Thursday, January 26, 2006 6:38 PM CST Welcome home, Just wanted to let you know that I'm happy you are back safe. I'm sure everyone slept better in their own bed. I'm hoping the Robinul helps Alex. I give that sometimes prior to surgery for pt's. It really dries up those nasty secretions. Keeping you in my prayers! Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, ia 51241 - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 6:33 PM CST Are you talking zonegram the seizure med? Wy had a terrible time with it. The seizures clustered and seemed to never stop. We were running him into the ER all the time. So now that I got you "excited" about the new med, umm have a great day! Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 8:14 AM CST Praying for you Alec. Hope your appts provide some helpful info. HUGS Ann(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <hfmito@cableone.net> - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 4:01 PM CST Wy uses Robinul on a regular basis. As far as I can tell it does not complicate any other meds. It does dry up Wy's secretions quite a bit. We use more on days when he has a cough and seems to drool alot for fear of aspiration. I think it would help Alec some, but don't look to it as a cure all. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 7:29 AM CST Hope all goes well with the rest of your appointments kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Tuesday, January 24, 2006 6:07 AM CST Glad his birthday is going well. kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Monday, January 23, 2006 2:31 PM CST Hi there: We came to you through some friends. Our daughter Sara was diagnosed with Epilepsy at 6 weeks of age. Despite surgeries and multiple meds she still suffers with the dang things. She also has a g-tube for all her nutritional needs. These children are truly a gift from above. They steal your hearts. Please know that we will be praying for you and that we will check back often. Barbara & Sara Hoffman (www.caringbridge.org/nj/saraswalk) <jbashoffman@earthlink.net> Califon, NJ - Sunday, January 22, 2006 7:00 PM CST Alex is swimming by to say hello! HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALEC!!!!!!!!!! Sorry we are a little late. We hope it was FANTASTIC! Glad that you are feeling better too. Love, MaryBeth & Alex The Prayer Bears Website HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALEC!!!!!!!!!! MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, January 22, 2006 3:25 PM CST Hey everyone. Go Broncos! Visit Elijah's Page Ann "Angel Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO USA - Sunday, January 22, 2006 1:30 AM CST Happy belated Birthday Alec!!! Have a wonderful weekend. Can't wait to celebrate with you nex weekend! Love, Ryan Kari and Regan Kari Garry <ryankari@iw.net> Tea, SD - Friday, January 20, 2006 1:59 PM CST Happy Birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope that you are feeling better soon ! Sandra kilpatrick <kilpatrickfamily@earthlink.net www.caringbridge.org/fl/joshukilpatrick> leesburg, fl - Friday, January 20, 2006 12:41 AM CST Hi Alec! Happy Belated 2nd birthday!!! With love, Joanne and the Dream Team ~Bridge of Dreams ~ ~The Prayer Bears Website~ Ones Who Care ~Simply Joanne~ Joanne <joanne173@gmail.com> Singapore, Singapore - Friday, January 20, 2006 10:11 AM CST Happy Belated 2nd Birthday Alec-Sorry that I didn't get a chance to come by here yesterday. Hope you had a bright and joyful day! HUGS AnnEide(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Friday, January 20, 2006 8:45 AM CST Happy Belated 2nd Birthday Alec-Sorry that I didn't get a chance to come by here yesterday. Hope you had a bright and joyful day! HUGS AnnEide(www.hertbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Friday, January 20, 2006 8:45 AM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY..... I hope that all your birthday wishes come true. Take care www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, January 19, 2006 9:22 PM CST Happy Birthday Alec! Hope you guys had a great evening. Is Aaron still in his swimming suit? Thanks for the phone call. It's time for bed so I have to get meds ready. Talk to you soon. Miss ya. Spader's - Thursday, January 19, 2006 7:37 PM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU, DEAR ALEC HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU FEEL BETTER SOON AND HAVE AN AWESOME BIRTHDAY WITH YOUR FAMILY. Kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Thursday, January 19, 2006 7:28 PM CST Happy 2nd birthday Alex! I think of you and your wonderful family often. I hope you get to feeling better soon and that you will have a special nurse to come and watch you. Have a fun day. Keeping you all in my prayers! Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia - Thursday, January 19, 2006 4:58 PM CST Happy Birthday Alec! I can't believe you are 2! You are a true blessing to your family and all of your church family! Have a great day! Love ya! Dar, Birdo, Kendra & Nicolet Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA USA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 2:04 PM CST Hope you had a great birthday! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Thursday, January 19, 2006 1:07 PM CST Happy Birthday Alec, Hope you have a wonderful day. The Prayer Bears Crystal's Page Cheryl <cheryl_rondeau@hotmail.com> Winnipeg, Mb Canada - Thursday, January 19, 2006 11:55 AM CST Alec, I'm sorry I'm a little late for your second birthday, but now u can celebrate it again. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be back again to visit real soon. I love u and your brother with all my heart. (((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))) LoveEileen PrayerBears,OWC, Dabbles&Doodles Eileen NY, NY USA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 11:45 AM CST Happy 2nd Birthday Alec!!! Wishing you and your family a great birthday weekend! Have fun!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 11:22 AM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO OUR LITTLE SWEETIE!! It was so wonderful getting to spend time reading to my little boys last night. And all I can think about today is how blessed we are!! Alec is two!!! Amazing how God works (if we let Him!) We have lots to be joyful and thankful for. Praise God and bless Alec on his special day. I wish a great big family bear hug from God to Alec, Aaron, Mom and Dad!! (Visualize it - it is pretty cool!!) Love you lots and praying always! Grandma Grandpa Tom and Grandma Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Thursday, January 19, 2006 10:51 AM CST Hi Buddy!!! And a GREAT BIG HAPPY "B" Day!! I have you in my thoughts - gentle on my mind, and smile thinking about the time I got to share with you. Say HI to mom and dad for me and your BIG Brother Aaron. Hugs and kisses. Gina Pfarr <ginapfarr@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD - Thursday, January 19, 2006 10:22 AM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALEC!!! Have a great weekend in Minneapolis Paula Albers, Birth to Three Coordinator <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD USA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 10:18 AM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY ALEC!!! Hope you are feeling better and have a great weekend with Mom, Dad & Aaron in Minneapolis. Tell your brother HI, and hugs & kisses to all of you. Love, Great Grandma Marlys & Grandpa Dick Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 10:07 AM CST I just wanted to say Happy 2nd Birthday to Alec. Claire's Birthday is also today. She is 14. That means we were meant to be Minnesota buddies! We miss you guys! I pray for your family every day. I hope you all have a great day today is very special! One of your favorite Minnesota Buddies, Carrie <Disgirl122@hotmail.com> O'Fallon, IL - Thursday, January 19, 2006 9:36 AM CST Happy Birthday Alec!! We can't wait to spend some time with you this weekend. Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, January 19, 2006 8:28 AM CST Happy Birthday to Alec!!! We hope you enjoy your day, and you are recovering fast!!! I heard you may be getting to spend the day with mom, HOW FUN!!! We are still hoping to get to see you this weekend!! We will be thinking about you lots on your special day! Rachele and Zach Attack! <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Thursday, January 19, 2006 7:45 AM CST Happy 2nd Birthday, Alec! Love, Haley Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, January 19, 2006 6:19 AM CST WOW 2, Happy Birthday Alec! We can't wait to see how big you are this weekend! I hope your all better so we can party! Love, The Luskey's www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 9:49 PM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALEC!!! WOW hard to believe two years have gone by already. What a blessing little Alec has been to all of us. He has taught us a lot. God bless all of you, hang in there! We love ya, Joel, Marilyn, Seth and Mia Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, Ia - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 7:49 PM CST Hope Alec is better now.. kristi <patzman.2@wright.edu> - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 4:41 PM CST HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! Well Wishes on your Special Day! Monie, Heath, Brayden & Connor <siemonsmaelectric@yahoo.com> Humboldt, SD - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 3:52 PM CST I sure hope Alec is doing better by now..I will keep you all in my prayers..Prayers and bearhugs, Love, Marci The Prayer Bears and SOEW Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Wednesday, January 18, 2006 8:32 AM CST Ugh- hoping and praying Alec is doing better. We have been praying every day that you will soon get a loving and competent nurse. Alec Our Buddy, two more days till your big birthday!! You have to get better so we can see you this weekend!! We will storm the heavens that you get better fast. Winter stinks with all this crud going around. You guys are awesome parents! Lots of love and lots of prayers to your family Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 9:29 PM CST I hope that Alec is feeling better and you didn't have to take him to the ER. I know what you mean about imbiciles caring for your child, it is so hard to find a good nurse. I hope you get one soon, this mommy business is a lot harder when you add in these special needs. ((hugs)) Sara, Emily's mommy - http://www.caringbridge.org/ca/emilyalexisrose <waffle13@comcast.net> Florida, - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 9:00 PM CST Happy Birthday, little one. Hugs and kisses to you and your brother, Aaron. Great aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> A, IA USA - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 11:26 AM CST Hey Alec, is mom working hard? Everyone in office keeping you entertained? Heard about your nurse delima Steph, hang in there and I'll be praying that the right person comes into your house SOON!!! But until then...hang tight!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, January 17, 2006 9:58 AM CST I can't believe he wouldn't get in the water for his cowboy boots. He really must like that teacher. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Monday, January 16, 2006 10:36 AM CST I hope that you are feeling better. I love you page and all the cool colors. Joseph sends you big hugs. Take care www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, January 15, 2006 10:36 PM CST Wo time is creeping up until your birthday. I am excited for you and tonight your feature page should be up for January. Sendingu lots of hugs! Best Wishes Ann(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Friday, January 13, 2006 4:44 PM CST 6 More Days till your big birthday!!! Mom and dad have a very fun birthday weekend planned for you, how are you going to dress your bear? They have lots of fun things you can pick out. I know its going to be so cuddely. Zach and I are so excited to meet you next weekend! Lots of Love- Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, Mn - Friday, January 13, 2006 9:18 AM CST I hope Alec is feeling lots better by now. Sending lots of thoughts, prayers, & (((hugs))) to you all~~ Vicki & Caden <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Thursday, January 12, 2006 3:28 PM CST We are always sending you guys prayers and a big huge hug,for that little cutie! Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Thursday, January 12, 2006 0:42 AM CST Just stopped by to say Hello and hope you are feeling better soon Alec. Ryland has had a cold all winter long. Take Care. www.caringbridge.org/sd/ryland Summer Jesse <thegame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 9:57 PM CST Wow, a big boy bed, you beat Patrick, he's still in a crib! I hope Alec is feeling better, can't wait to see you guys again! Take care, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 9:06 PM CST LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 8:13 PM CST Big bed for a big boy. How fun!!!! Hope the Z pak is making you feel better. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, January 11, 2006 12:22 AM CST Hey Mister Alec- I bet you will enjoy your new furniture! What a big boy you are and such a cutie too. I can't help but smile everytime I see your pics. I hope the meds keep other things out of reach and the bad stuff goes away quick! William sends you a hug from Mississippi too. Best Wishes- AnnEide(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 7:03 PM CST Stephanie ANd Terk, Steve and I have been thinking a lot about you lately. Carrie emailed me you web site. It was nice to hear from you guys and how you life is going. I will pray for Alec everyday. Kelsie and Aaron were the best of buds up in Minnesota. I had the pictures of both of them out the other day! Your Minnesota cabin buddies! Dawn Dawn Burrows <dburrows@stclair.k12.il.us> Freeburg, IL St Clair - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 2:21 PM CST Praying that Alec's cough gets better soon, and you all stay healthy this winter! I am so glad to hear that success of the bracelet sales allowed you to get the new bedroom set! WOW God works wonders! Cute picture of the boys by the Christmas tree! Have a great week! God Bless! Love, Joel, Marilyn, Seth and Mia Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 2:10 PM CST Hey Alec, hope you start to feel better real soon! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, January 10, 2006 1:37 PM CST Thats great news about the bed, that will be great for Alec. I am praying that Alec remains cold/flu free! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Monday, January 9, 2006 4:56 PM CST I don't know what it is with same sex swim instructors. It brings them to tears. The girls and Aaron must have ESP going on- freaky! What did you figure out for a hotel? Can't wait to see all of you. Geri-Anne and Family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Monday, January 9, 2006 8:18 AM CST www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, January 8, 2006 10:58 PM CST Happy New Year! I'm glad to hear that you had a wonderful Holiday with your families. We hope you are still healthy and no signs of RSV!!!! Just wanted to let you all know that we are thinking of you and you are always in our prayers. Can't wait to see you all again, it's been a long time. Love, Ryan Kari and Regan Kari Garry <ryankari@iw.net> Tea, SD - Saturday, January 7, 2006 9:15 PM CST Hi, It was good to see you and Mom at shopko today. Aaron you will really love to learn to swim, just try and you will see. I am also saving you some stickers, if I see you are swimming I will send you some. Promise. You all take care and give big hugs to each other. Jean <jeaneggers@sio.midco.net> - Saturday, January 7, 2006 4:54 PM CST I hope itchy boo boos go away real fast. Bless Alec's heart. I read your update and how I wish there was something that could take away those nasty seizures. I'll continue to pray for him and the perfect nurse also. Thinking of you.... Ann(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Friday, January 6, 2006 1:29 AM CST Yucky itches I hope they go away real soon. I have to say that you are one good looking little guy. Will check back again real soon. Take care www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, January 5, 2006 10:41 PM CST Love the snow angels. So precious! I am ready for some snow! kristi <patzman.2@wright,edu> - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 5:49 PM CST I love the snow angels!!! Happy New Year!!!! with much love hope and prayers God Bless and Skye sends a nice snuggly cuddly hug! tamm cline <tamm06@aol.com> - Monday, January 2, 2006 10:40 AM CST What beautiful snow angels! Have a great week and Happy New Year! HUGS AnnEide(www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Monday, January 2, 2006 2:19 AM CST Hi guys, glad you enjoyed your holidays! I LOVE the snow angels, must have been lots of fun!! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Sunday, January 1, 2006 3:19 PM CST Happy New Year! Geri-Anne, Wyatt, and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Saturday, December 31, 2005 8:02 PM CST Hi Alec, I hope u all had a wonderful Christmas. I wanted to get back here to wish u and your family a Happy,Healthy,and Safe New Year. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Do u think u will be awake to see the New Year come in? I know one thing, I will probably be sleeping. I love u with all my heart, and I'll be back to write next year lol. (((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Love Eileen PrayerBears,OWC, Dabbles&Doodles Eileen <Lobosgirl@aol.com> NY, NY USA - Saturday, December 31, 2005 1:46 PM CST Wishing you and those you love a year of good health, happiness, contentment and peace Love, MaryBeth, Scott, Carolee, Spencer & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Saturday, December 31, 2005 7:54 AM CST Love Always Brenda MY CHRISTMAS ANGEL FOREVER <brurka@shaw.ca> Edmonton,Alberta.CANADA, - Friday, December 30, 2005 10:07 PM CST Hey Alec, I thought I would take a moment and say Hello...You are in my thoughts and prayers...STAY CUTE!!! Prayers and Bearhugs Love, Marci The Prayer Bears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Friday, December 30, 2005 6:47 AM CST Just coming by to wish you all a safe and happy new year. I hope the boys get to feeling better real soon. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, December 29, 2005 10:21 PM CST I hope that Alec and Aaron feel better soon. Sick kids is no fun! It sounds like you had a great Christmas. :) Sara, Emily's mommy - http://www.caringbridge.org/ca/emilyalexisrose <waffle13@comcast.net> Angels on Earth, FL - Wednesday, December 28, 2005 7:05 PM CST Hi guys, I look at the page quite often and think and pray for you even more often. Hope you had a great Christmas and curious to hear about all the laney bear care families. You have a great family and we will continue praying. Tony Spader <rvs@spader.com> - Sunday, December 25, 2005 9:32 PM CST SANTA CLAUSE IS COMING TO TOWN TONIGHT!!! I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOUR PICTURES OF YOU WITH YOUR NEW GIFTS:) Kristi, Media Donation Manager, www.elisangels.org <Patzman.2@wright.edu OR kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Saturday, December 24, 2005 3:30 PM CST Your kids are so dang cute. I love all of their pics. Merry Christmas!!! Geri-Anne, Wyatt, and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Saturday, December 24, 2005 8:09 AM CST Merry Christmas! Love, Krystena Caden & Carsen http://www2.caringbridge.org/ky/cadencarsen/ <krystena@bellsouth.net> Mt. Sterling, KY - Friday, December 23, 2005 10:40 AM CST Joshua is stopping by to wish all of his friends Merry Christmas! I am glad that you had fun, it is great to spend time with friends in fun places! Sandra(mom) and Joshua Kilpatrick <kilpatrickfamily@earthlink.net www.caringbridge.org/fl/joshuakilpatrick> leesburg, fl - Friday, December 23, 2005 9:22 AM CST MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Friday, December 23, 2005 7:39 AM CST ohhh I love the Santa picture! I almost bought Zach those pajamas and talked myself out of it... I wish I did now, the money for them were so worth it!!! I'm so glad we met. I love your determined mind, and love to see the love you have for your kids!! You guys are awesome parents! We hope you have a very Merry Christmas! WE are so hoping to get together with you in January!! (I sound so like a Valley Girl!) Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, Mn - Thursday, December 22, 2005 10:44 PM CST Merry Christmas! Thank you for your kind words in Ashlyn's guestbook. Its wonderful to hear from you guys! We are busy getting ready for the big day! The kids are going crazy with the presents under the tree. Hope you have warm holiday wishes....... and that they may come true! Becky and Ashlyn www.caringbridge.org/sd/ashlyn <beckjo70@hotmail.com> Mitchell, Sd - Thursday, December 22, 2005 7:55 PM CST MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! I LOVE THE PICTURE OF THE BOYS WITH SANTA, SO CUTE. Kristi, Media Donation Manager, www.elisangels.org <Patzman.2@wright.edu OR kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Thursday, December 22, 2005 5:56 PM CST LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA MY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Thursday, December 22, 2005 10:51 AM CST Hi ALec and family, I wanted to wish you all a Merry Christmas, hope Santa is good to you! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Thursday, December 22, 2005 1:29 AM CST We are going to be very busy the rest of the week but wanted to wish you all a Very Merry Christams www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 10:32 PM CST Love the new picture, they are so adorable and getting so big!!! Kristi, Media Donation Manager, www.elisangels.org <Patzman.2@wright.edu OR kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 9:43 PM CST OH MY GOSH, CUTE PICTURE!!! Your boys are so cute in those pj's! They were worth every penny! =) I can't get over how big they are both getting. Have a MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 3:44 PM CST Hi Alec and family, I just wanted to make sure that I stopped by and wished u all a Very Merry Christmas, especially health. You are all always in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be back for another visit after Christmas. ((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) LoveEileen PrayerBear, OWC,Dabbles&Doodles,Hugs&Hope Eileen NY, NY USA - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 2:35 PM CST Have a MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! Hope everyone stays healthy! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 9:49 AM CST Alec, I bet you are getting anxious for santa to come. You know you can track him online Christmas eve at emailsanta.com My girls love doing that every year. I am praying for you to remain as healthy as possible and have a great happy prosperous New Year! Prayers and Bearhugs, Love, Marci The Prayer Bears www.freewebs.com/prayerbears Marci Connell <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 7:01 AM CST Just dropped by to do my weekly check on you guys. I hope all is well this Christmas and you get to have a great holiday! Your always in our prayers. Amber Kellenberger <nicholask@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA USA - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 9:54 PM CST Hope he is feeling better soon. Especially with the holidays so soon. I am glad you got and liked your Eli's Angels box:) Kristi Patzman Media Donation Manager www.elisangels.org - Tuesday, December 20, 2005 5:31 PM CST Hi there we are dropping in now as we are going to be really busy in the week up to christmas just to wish you a merry christmas and a happy new year Take care Jo Hannah and Rebecca Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Monday, December 19, 2005 5:49 PM CST Alex and Holly are riding by to wish you a very MERRY CHRISTMAS! MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Monday, December 19, 2005 2:13 PM CST Good night. Hope you guys have a good weekend. What are you up to? Same 'ol, same 'ol for me - BEDREST!! UGHH! Have a good one. Talk to you soon. Tony and Stephanie Spader - Friday, December 16, 2005 7:48 PM CST I love the quote. It says it all. Now if only others could see our children as angels instead of as disabled. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, December 15, 2005 12:09 AM CST Thank you for visiting my map, i thought i'd come by and visit your page. It's amazing how fast Christmas is coming, i think someone hit fast forward at the beginning of December, just hoping we can hit slow sometime soon and maybe get a breath in before it's all over. Hope Alec is feeling better and that you get more snow before the holidays, but not too much more. Thank you again for coming to see us, Sarah Johnson mom to Will (www.caringbridge.org/co/williamrein) <momme@elpasotel.net> Rush, CO United States - Thursday, December 15, 2005 11:45 AM CST Oh my gosh that quote gave me chills... It is the most truest statements I have ever met. Thanks for all the laughs this week! Come to MN we just got dumped with ton's of snow YUCK!! Anyhow, I hope you guys have a terrific Christmas. We are praying that you guys get the best nurse ever, and that your whole family stays healthy! Rachele and ZACH ATTACK!! <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 8:25 PM CST Stephanie, Thanks for the update. Glad Alec is doing well. Aaron and him are such buddies. i can't wait to see Christmas pictures of them. Kristi, Media Donation Manager, www.elisangels.org <Patzman.2@wright.edu OR kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 7:22 PM CST Popped by to wish you guys a very Merry Christmas. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 12:04 AM CST I need an Alec update:) Hope it just means that all is well with you all. Kristi, Media Donation Manager, www.elisangels.org <Patzman.2@wright.edu OR kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 9:29 AM CST Hi Alec and family hope all is well. You have such a handsome young guy there. will check back soon. Take care www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 11:24 PM CST Mothers just know. When will the doctors start to understand that. Hope you are having a wonderful week. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, December 13, 2005 9:17 AM CST We had Alec withdrawal, so we had to come by and see his sweet little face. Hope your having a good night! Oh yeah, your week is almost up again, isn't it? Guilt Guilt Guilt! Take care, Love, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Monday, December 12, 2005 9:22 PM CST Cute photos Alec. I am so proud of you for sitting up tall. Great work! Bless his heart having the bad ole pneumonia and no, you aren't psychotic for knowing your child....it's just good mom's intuition. Praying you feel better real soon. Merry Christmas. Best Wishes- Ann Eide (www.heartbeatsformito.org) <HFMito@cableone.net> - Monday, December 12, 2005 7:28 PM CST hi alec! Hope things are going well and that you have a very merry christmas! Take care. April Beckler- www.caringbridge.org/nd/levi <levcor_3@hotmail.com> minot, nd usa - Sunday, December 11, 2005 10:26 PM CST Hi Alec, Are you getting excited about christmas yet??? I bet you are. Hope you are doing well. Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Sunday, December 11, 2005 2:45 AM CST Hi My Friend, Sorry its been a while since I wrote to u. It looks like u and I are alike. I just had pneumonia too. I'll pray real hard that u will be well for Santa.You are always in my thoughts and prayers always. I'll be back real soon, and I love u with all my heart. ((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))) LoveEileen PrayerBears,OWC,Dabbkes&Doodles Eileen NY, NY USA - Friday, December 9, 2005 1:52 PM CST Hi Little Man, I am so sorry to hear that you have pneumonia. Hang in there Sweetie we will be storming Heaven with special prayers for you. Trish/Angel_Wings(Angel_Wings@yahoogroups.com) <Kngboyer@aol.com> Kingston, TN USA - Friday, December 9, 2005 12:34 AM CST I am praying for you to get better soon . Joshua is prone to pnemonia as well, so I do understand your "intuition". A mother always knows.... I hope you get to make your snow angels soon. Thank you so much for being so faithful in checking on us, we love yall lots. God bless! Sandra Kilpatrick <kilpatrickfamily@earthlink.net www.caringbridge.org/fl/joshuakilpatrick> - Friday, December 9, 2005 8:32 AM CST GET WELL SOON, ALEC!!! Love his new pictures Kristi, Media Donation Manager, www.elisangels.org <Patzman.2@wright.edu OR kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Thursday, December 8, 2005 6:44 AM CST Oh no, not pnemonia.....I hope it clears up quickly, along with the pooh too. Thanks for stopping by our page. I feel awful because I have not been spending as much time checking on my kiddo's as I want to. As you seen I have been busy decorating like crazy. Katelyn loved lights so I feel the need to go crazy with them this year. The page looks great by the way! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 1:24 AM CST I'm sorry to hear that Alec has pnemonia. I hear you on the poop though ... who would have thought that SO many moms would gather online and commiserate over poop? LOL Sara, Emily's mommy - http://www.caringbridge.org/ca/emilyalexisrose <waffle13@comcast.net> Florida, - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 4:14 PM CST Alex and the big bad wolf are going to HUFF . . . and PUFF . . . . and BLOW you a kiss! Love, MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, December 4, 2005 7:33 PM CST That picture made me go "awwwwwwww!" What a cutie! I am glad to hear that Alec is doing well, poop and all. I, too, miss Eli and his passing has had an effect on my whole family. I can't even imagine what Ann and Chad are going through. Give your sweet boys a hug sent special delivery from Vermont and have a great week! MaryBeth & Alex www.caringbridge.com/vt/alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, December 4, 2005 3:23 PM CST Love the new pic.! He is soooo adorable! I just want to hug him! Hope all is going well and increasing the meds has helped with the sleeping and seizures, God Bless, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Saturday, December 3, 2005 6:56 AM CST Alec is so dang cute! I just love seeing his pictures. You are too funny about the poop. It is so true, the mito kids wont poop for days than at a total in appropriate time here is all comes....we've spent many "in the back of the van" days too. We have been in tears all week as well with sweet little Eli's passing. I think it has really hit all of us Mito parents very hard. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Take Care Debbie Fogel www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn Debbie Fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net> Corona, CA USA - Friday, December 2, 2005 9:20 PM CST Hi i found you through elis site. I am so sad to hear of his passing. What a cute little prince you have!!! my little girl's site is www.caringbridge.org/ga/rheanacarter God bless. Heather <morh2gs@alltel.net> - Friday, December 2, 2005 9:00 PM CST I love the new pic of Alec he is just too cute!!! I too am struggling with Eli's passing the pain is so great and hard to imagine that will be my reality one day. But as Ann told me last week we can only worry about tomorrow then. So I'm taking it one day at a time. WooooHOOOOO for no appts in Dec. It will be a nice break. They also have really good docs here in Cleveland. I started bringing Skye up here from Florida last year till I finally moved up here. I'm getting my own muscle biopsy done at the Cleveland Clinic just another option other then Atlanta. I'm glad to hear that Alec is vocalizing and pooping. WE love poop! and of course it's always at the most inconveient places kids always know when to get us lol. Hope you have a great weekend. Skye sends a nics sleepy snuggly cuddly hug God Bless tamm cline <tamm06@aol.com http://www3.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole/> warren, oh - Friday, December 2, 2005 1:46 PM CST Just dropping by to say hello!!!! I hope that you have a wonderful holiday month. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, December 1, 2005 9:46 PM CST I love the new picture of the cutie pie:) I feel you on hurting for Ann and Chad, I wanted to be there so much, I wish we could have all been there to celebrate his life. We all learned a lot from that sweet blue eyed angel and his two VERY dedicated and loving parents. I love the poop story, almost beats Eli's poop story where he pooped on Chad. Never thought poop stories could be so funny. Kristi, Media Donation Manager, www.elisangels.org <Patzman.2@wright.edu OR kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Thursday, December 1, 2005 8:31 PM CST He Guys- I had to laugh because we mom's with sick kids must really all be on the same page! , Everone now knows that they can't be around my house if they even have the sniffles. Its the first thing I ask if we are going to anyone's house or they are coming to ours. Alec's new picture is so cute! I'm still waiting for all the funny emails I'm suppose to get from you!! Stay warm! Hugs to Alec and Aaron- Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, Mn - Thursday, December 1, 2005 7:15 PM CST Love the new pic of Alec. Maybe we shouldn't of introduced the girls to Aaron. Just meeting them can turn any child into a devil. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Thursday, December 1, 2005 7:40 AM CST Alec, look at you!!! Jodi and I were just checking out the website and can't believe how old you look in the picture your mom just put on the website! Your such a cutie. Take care. Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, November 30, 2005 3:51 PM CST Praying for you guys and thinking of you. We are all holding our kids a little closer since Eli passed I think. MaryBeth www.caringbridge.com/vt/alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Monday, November 28, 2005 7:55 PM CST Hi Guys- Wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you all. Hope you had a nice Thanksgiving. We're hugging our kids alot more these days aren't we. This Mito thing stinks. I hope things are going good for you guys right now. Talk to you soon- Hugs to the boys from us! Rachele and Zach <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Monday, November 28, 2005 7:45 PM CST Just on because of learning of the death of sweet Elijah Jeramie and wanted to send my well wishes to you all being you are part of Eli's Angels. Heaven gained one beautiful angel, while we lost one beautiful angel and left our hearts broken. Kristi <Patzman.2@wright.edu> - Friday, November 25, 2005 9:35 PM CST Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Thursday, November 24, 2005 10:39 PM CST Have a wonderful Holiday!!!!! You are always in our thoughts and prayers www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 11:12 PM CST Hi Alec just dropping by to say hello and hope you have a great thanksgiving sending you our warmest wishes Jo Hannah and Rebecca Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 4:58 PM CST HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!! Have a great weekend! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 1:59 PM CST Happy Thanksgiving! Enjoy the day relaxing and being thankful for all we have. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, November 23, 2005 8:45 AM CST Hi ALec, I am stopping in to say Hello. I hope you have been feeling great. Are you getting ready for the holidays...It wont be long before Santa comes to see you, I hope you get lots of neat presents...Love, Marci The Prayer Bears Marci Connell The Prayer Bears <mac093@bellsouth.net> Valdosta, GA USA - Sunday, November 20, 2005 6:58 PM CST Alex is riding by to say Hello and HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!! You got to go to the mall of america?? Thats it, I am GREEN with envy :) Hope you have a great holiday! MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Sunday, November 20, 2005 9:00 AM CST I am going away from November 21-December 30 so I won't be online so I wanted to wish you a happy Thanksgiving and a Merry Christmas, may you have a truly wonderful day both days and a ton more wonderful days in between. My thoughts and prayers remain with you. Love always, Kristi Media Donation Manager www.elisangels.org Kristi <Kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Saturday, November 19, 2005 1:50 PM CST Hi Alec and family, I love your goal, that is funny. I just wanted to pop in and say hi. Sorry I haven't been by the page as often lately, I am hoping to get more time soon to get back on the computer. Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Thursday, November 17, 2005 1:17 AM CST Hey Alec and family, I sold 29 bracelets for you. Hope that helps you get your new bed. Everyone have a healthy Thanksgiving. Love Great-aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Wednesday, November 16, 2005 9:16 AM CST Just dropped by to say hi cutie! Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 2:00 PM CST I know that you have been having a rough time but I pray that you get to feeling better real soon. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, November 13, 2005 11:44 PM CST Hi Steph and Brad, Love the happy picture of Alec (and the rest too) you 2 are sooo strong! Keep your faith and remember how many people are praying for your family! Have fun this weekend Steph and good luck this weekend with your bonding time Brad! :) :) Love April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Friday, November 11, 2005 2:27 AM CST Hi Alec, You have the most adorable face. I know u have been having a bit of a rough time, but I want u and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be back soon to see how u are. I bet u enjoyed going in the pool. (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))) Love Eileen A PrayerBear,OWC,Dabbles&Doodles Eileen NY, NY USA - Wednesday, November 9, 2005 3:47 PM CST Hi Stephanie, I viewed the guest book a little late, but did get your cancellation message last week. I hope Alec is feeling better. Melissa - Monday, November 7, 2005 4:41 PM CST Hi just dropping by to say hello. I hope all is going well. Please say extra prayers that Joseph's surgery goes well on Thursday!!!!! Take care www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, November 6, 2005 0:50 AM CST Hi Alec and Family, My name is Jenna and I came across your website. You are a brave little boy, and such full of life. You are in my thoughts and prayers. www.caringbridge.org/canada/jenna Jenna <hockeykid@telus.net> Kamloops, BC Canada - Saturday, November 5, 2005 2:13 AM CST The more your little guy keeps growing Eli and Alec will be needing the whole powerlifting team to help. I love that Eli is getting big. I am sure you love that about Alec too. God Bless and thanks to showing us the very cute pumpkin photos. Ann "Eli's Mommy" <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, co USA - Saturday, November 5, 2005 2:07 AM CST Alex and his friends are stopping by to say hope you have a great week! MaryBeth & Alex Prayer Bears MaryBeth <attnymb@aol.com> - Friday, November 4, 2005 7:10 PM CST Hi Alec! Glad to hear that the appointment went fine. :) Thinking of you! With love, Joanne and the Dream Team ~Bridge of Dreams ~ ~The Prayer Bears Website~ Ones Who Care ~Simply Joanne~ Joanne <joanne173@gmail.com> Singapore, Singapore - Friday, November 4, 2005 10:30 AM CST Hey everybody! Just wanted to let you know, my team and I have ordered about 20 bracelets for the Alec fund raiser. Kim is sending me 3 so everyone can see. Hope all is going as well as it can. God bless you, keep you, guide you and protect you. Hugs and Kisses Great-aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Friday, November 4, 2005 8:49 AM CST Just dropping by to say hi. keeping you close in thought and prayers. Skye sends a nice snuggly cuddly hug! God Bless tamm cline <tamm06@aol.com http://www3.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole/> warren, oh - Thursday, November 3, 2005 12:42 AM CST Hey guys! I would really look into IVIG. We are huge advocates of it and have been on it for over a year. Zach who was getting Pneumonia constantly hasn't really been sick since getting his monthly infusion. So I refuse to stop this! I don't know if Bonnie told you but the we all seea Doctor here who is awesome. (Dr Shapiro) I know its a long drive, but he would be worth checking out. He's the one Doctor I can honestly say that we love! Alec looked adorable in his costume. I hope you guys all enjoyed a fun evening. Let me know if you need more info on IVIG. Hugs- Rachele and Zach www.caringbridge,org/mn/zachwest <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 9:18 AM CST Hope you had lots of fun last night. You guys looked adorable in your costumes. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 8:04 AM CST Thanks for the pic you left in our guestbook, it is awsome! Happy Halloween! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Monday, October 31, 2005 10:51 PM CST HAPPY HALLOWEEN, just stopping by to say hello also, drive safely. Jean Jean Eggers <jeaneggers@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, - Monday, October 31, 2005 8:34 PM CST LOVE ALWAYS BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca> EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Monday, October 31, 2005 5:54 PM CST Oh my gosh, that picture of the boys you put in our guestbook is just so adorable! I had to let you know! MaryBeth www.caringbridge.com/vt/alex MaryBeth <marybethlefevre@aol.com> - Monday, October 31, 2005 3:54 PM CST HAPPY HALLOWEEN BOYS! Have a great time trick-or-treating tonight! G-ma Kim sent me your picture! Love the costumes!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, October 31, 2005 10:41 AM CST Yeah!!! I am the first to sign on Halloween!!! HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!! HOPE YOU HAVE A WONDEREFUL DAY!!! CHECK OUT www.elisangels.org Kristi <Kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Monday, October 31, 2005 6:35 AM CST Stopping by to wish you a FRIGHTFULLY good Halloween! MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <marybethlefevre@aol.com> - Sunday, October 30, 2005 5:24 PM CST Have a safe and wonderful Halloween!!!!!!! www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Saturday, October 29, 2005 10:36 PM CDT Thinking of you and praying for all of you. Your strength and courage amazes us. Beth and Todd Albrecht <balbrecht@speednet.com> Inwood, Ia U.S. - Friday, October 28, 2005 9:27 PM CDT I was stopping by to say hello and see how everyone was doing. Many prayers for those yucky sinuses! I know how terrible they can be! I hope you all have a GREAT, HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!! Hugs & Prayers, Vicki & Caden Vicki Williams <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Friday, October 28, 2005 2:54 PM CDT From the mouths of babes, what a sweet big brother Alec has. If you find an organization that's free let me know. I hope you have a safe trip to Mayo. Take care, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Friday, October 28, 2005 12:10 AM CDT Hi Steph! Your Grandma B. gave me this web site to check up on you and your family. This is very interesting and I'm going to check in on you more often. My prayers our with you, Brad and the cutie pies. Beth Payne <bgpayne_512402003@yahoo.com> Inwood, Ia - Friday, October 28, 2005 8:49 AM CDT Have a safe trip to Mayo and drive the speed limit this time. I would be happy to come over someday soon and do some organizing for you. I'll talk to you Sunday and make some plans. Love you all, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, October 27, 2005 2:37 PM CDT Hello, I'm not sure if I will get back on here before halloween so I wanted to wish you a good one, hope you have fun! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Thursday, October 27, 2005 0:09 AM CDT Thanks for the new pictures. Aaron looks so much like Thomas, his cousin, for those who don't know. Handsome kids! Glad you had a productive weekend. If I lived closer, I would come and help out. I love to organize and put things in order. :>) Glad that Alec had a pretty good week while in the hospital. Keeping you in our prayers....!!! Gena Atcher rapid city , sd usa - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 11:03 PM CDT alec is in my prayers sara <saphirelag@yahoo.com> lagrange, ga usa - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 9:37 PM CDT Sorry, cannot go along for the weekend - would love to but plan to work most of the weekend. You know how I love to organize - just give me a few more weeks to get work back under control and I will be glad to help with some projects. And, I am cheap - my most expensive fee might include a second big hug from your little sweethearts. Good luck at Mayo! Your NICE Auntie Diane (not the NAUGHTY Aunt Diane from last Sunday) <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Tuesday, October 25, 2005 2:01 PM CDT I wanted to stop by and thank you for sending me pics of the boys, they are great pics!! Looked like alot of fun. Take care and have a great week! <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Monday, October 24, 2005 12:23 AM CDT Just dropping by to say hello. WTG no sedation!!!! We will check in again real soon. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, October 23, 2005 11:43 PM CDT Alex and his scary mummy pumpkin are stopping by to wish you a bootiful week! YAY for no sedation! Way to go on pressing for an appointment. As if we don't have enough to do . . . the little stuff should not take so much effort! MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <marybethlefevre@aol.com> - Saturday, October 22, 2005 9:57 PM CDT Hope things are going well... I am thinking of you and am so glad the CAT scan didn't leave him having to be sedated. www.elisangels.org Kristi <Kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Saturday, October 22, 2005 6:29 PM CDT I sure hope you get to go home tonight, that would be wonderful!!! Have a great week end. Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Friday, October 21, 2005 0:19 AM CDT Sounds like things are going pretty well. I love when the piano guys play. Some of them have incredible voices. Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 6:15 PM CDT Your mom told us that you have VERY limited internet access while you are there, but we are SO HAPPY you got to update the website. You must have known that Jodi and I were waiting . . . We are hoping you will be able to get an appt with the Dr today. Thanks for the update & Alec make sure you sleep good tonight for mom! Check in with you later! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 11:49 AM CDT Hey Steph! I am so happy you got into the RM House! Woohoo!!! Hope you and Alec have a positive stay at Mayo and if you need anything I'm just a click away! Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 7:51 AM CDT Carrie and I were talking with your mom and we think we should play the lottery this week. We have big plans for Alec. He would get the best care anyone would get and what a spoiled little boy he would be. Your mom was getting all exicted. Hope all is well in mayo for you guys! Jodi <jlutjens@aiproducts.com> - Monday, October 17, 2005 4:39 PM CDT Glad you were able to make your trip. We made ours and kids stayed healthy while we were gone - Praise God! Hope to get together soon. Take care and God bless. Tony and Stephanie Spader - Monday, October 17, 2005 1:23 PM CDT Just dropping by to say hello. We are sending big hugs your way. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, October 16, 2005 11:28 PM CDT Just stopping by to let you know you all are in our prayers. Skye sends a nice snuggly cuddly hug! God Bless! tamm cline <tamm06@aol.com http://www3.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole/> warren, oh - Friday, October 14, 2005 6:34 PM CDT Our computer has been down for a while. I am so glad it is up and running again. I love the new photos...what a beautiful family. We were so glad to hear you got to go to Vegas. I hope you had a great time. You continue to be in our prayers.....God Bless your family. Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey and Bailee <roemen5@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, October 13, 2005 10:07 AM CDT Holy cow, time must fly right by at your house, busy week. Glad you had a fun and relaxing trip. Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Tuesday, October 11, 2005 10:31 PM CDT I hope you get to feeling better real soon. Take care www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, October 9, 2005 10:26 PM CDT Alex is just dropping by to say hello and to check up on you! Hope Alec starts to feel better! We will be praying for him. That was so sweet to give him the blankie! MaryBeth & Alex MaryBeth <marybethlefevre@aol.com> - Sunday, October 9, 2005 7:56 PM CDT Just stopping by to see how Alec is doing. He is such a cutee! I hope you guys are able to get away and have fun in LasVegas. Thoughts and prayers go out to your family. Take Care and God Bless. Debbie www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn Debbie Fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net> Corona, CA USA - Sunday, October 9, 2005 0:37 AM CDT Thinking of you...hope you and Brad have a great weekend! I'm sure the boys will love staying with G-pa and G-ma!!! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 1:10 PM CDT Oh Man My heart sank when I read about your night. Is sounds like so many we have had in the past. God bless you guys. I will be praying. We have to do the cold damp towel thing on Eli after some of those bad screaming sizures. It cools him down faster than the meds. The nero problems are just so hard to deal with and then Alec is sick on top of that. Poor little guy. I just wish I could take it away but I bet if the power were there you would have been the first to use it. Thinking about you little man. Get to feeling better. Kick the yuckies. We hate sizures. Visit Elijah's Page Or Eli’s Angels is a non-profit for children affected with Mitochondrial or metabolic illnesses Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, Co USA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 1:17 AM CDT Stephanie, Just thought I would drop you a quick note to see how you guys are doing. Thinking about you guys and wanting to wish you well. Hope you have a wonderful autumn. Esme, Gillette nurse Saint Paul, MN - Monday, October 3, 2005 12:19 AM CDT Alec, I forgot to leave you the scarecrow! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie - Monday, October 3, 2005 11:35 AM CDT Hi Alec and family, I hope you had a good week end with very little excitement! And hopefully this week goes just as well. Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Monday, October 3, 2005 11:19 AM CDT I hope you know how often you are thought of and how much you are cared about-today and every day!! Our prayers are with you. Amber Kellenberger <nicholask@alliancecom.net> Rock Rapids, IA USA - Sunday, October 2, 2005 11:04 PM CDT Hey Steph! Long time since I've seen you again. I was curious, is there a charity that gives to Alec and this website?? Let me know! Keep you head up-God didn't make you Alec's mom if he didn't know you could handle it! Amber Hess <amberlhess@hotmail.com> Larchwood, ia - Sunday, October 2, 2005 1:32 AM CDT We found you apge through another. We love to make new caring bridge friends. You are in my prayers. www.caringbridge.org/fl/joseph Elizabeth <michael_shipley@bellsouth.net> - Sunday, October 2, 2005 0:18 AM CDT Praying for Alec and everything that is going on with him. Praying for the rest of your family as you all deal with Alec's medical problems. Hope this weekend is much better for you all. Jennifer G from the prayer bears <charay913@yahoo.com> Bridgeport, Texas - Saturday, October 1, 2005 8:12 PM CDT Sending lots of prayers to you and that sweet boy! Even more prayers for his doctors to help him and to do what is best for him! Thanks for the info to help Caden sleep....I hope the issue has resolved itself! Lots of hugs & love~~ Vicki & Caden Lane Vicki Williams <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Thursday, September 29, 2005 3:03 PM CDT Thinking of you...and praying, too! Kris & Ellie, 3 years old, Mito - Leigh's (www.caringbridge.org/oh/ellie) <mkovalci@columbus.rr.com> Powell, OH - Thursday, September 29, 2005 2:26 PM CDT We are praying for you. Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Thursday, September 29, 2005 11:57 AM CDT Sinues surgery and my input, I had it and it was a Godsend, I have not had one problem with them since the surgery but I was not in the same boat as Alec but if you are leaning towards it, I would say give it a shot, it helped me. I am praying for you as you struggle with helping Alec. Don't give up and keep on fighting for your sweet angel. www.elisangels.org Kristi <Kristimarie2007@aol.com> - Thursday, September 29, 2005 10:09 AM CDT Happy Aniversary!!! Hope that you & Brad can enjoy the day and the boys have a good day also. Love to all, Grandma Marlys & Grandpa Dick Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom. net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 1:09 PM CDT Happy Anniversary!!! (I hope I have my dates right) Thinking of you and your family on this special day. Have a great one! Monie Siemonsma <siemonsmaelectric@yahoo.com> Humboldt, SD - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 10:43 AM CDT You will know when enough is enough. Just remember they are all choices and you can choose to do them or choose not to. But what ever you do, it is the right choice. There are no wrong choices. You are only doing what is right for your whole family. Again though you will just know. God will tell you and be there for you. Geri-Anne <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 8:46 AM CDT Hi Stephanie, just got your message on our website, I had not seen you for awhile at the hospital and was thinking that Alec was doing better, I didn't have his website address before this, Was thinking about you all and now I can check up on all of you. Tell Aaron that I miss his teasing and I have more stickers. Take care and get some rest, Its hard to know what to do, but I guess God has a plan for all of us, it just would be nice to know what it is without having them go through so much pain. Keep in touch, if there is anything I can do, please let me know Jean Sioux Falls, SD USA - Wednesday, September 28, 2005 7:41 AM CDT stephanie you and alec are in my prayers. sara <saphirelag@yahoo.com> lagrange, ga usa - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 7:34 PM CDT HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!! (1 day early!) I know if I wait to sign the guestbook until tomorrow, I'll forget! =) You are such a good mom only wanting the best for your kids. That is what we all want. Hang in there and I pray that Alec will start doing better again soon! Love ya! Carrie Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, September 27, 2005 8:57 AM CDT Don't ever second guess what you are doing. I remember whenever I went with my first instinct it was usually the right one. You know Alec the best and know what is best for him. You have already done such a terrific job with him and his needs, keep up the good work! Love Deb Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Monday, September 26, 2005 10:15 PM CDT Hi! Just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers! I love the new web page! Aaron and Alec are so lucky to have such wonderful parents, as you are blessed by having two precious boys! God is GOOD! Love, Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Monday, September 26, 2005 9:59 PM CDT Saying a prayer for you. Geri-Anne and family <gazecc@hotmail.com> - Monday, September 26, 2005 11:00 AM CDT Just checking the website to see how Alec is doing. Paula Albers, B-3 Coordinator <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD USA - Monday, September 26, 2005 8:29 AM CDT It's so exciting that Alec is moving more and reached for a toy! Even tho it's a hassle to go thru all the med changes maybe it will benefit him in other ways. Alec has the best parents who do the most for him that they can- what a blessed child! Anne <anne_butz@hotmail.com> - Sunday, September 25, 2005 2:43 PM CDT Thinking of you all... www.elisangels.org Kristi <KristiMarie2007@aol.com> - Sunday, September 25, 2005 10:56 AM CDT More power to you! Sounds like it is alot of work to keep up with all of the appointments. Hope the little boys are doing well (and Mom and Dad, too). Lori <blauwet.lori@mayo.edu> Rochester, MN - Saturday, September 24, 2005 11:15 AM CDT Hi to all of you.Your new website is awesome.Hope Alec's seizures diminish soon and he continues to be a happier boy. Just to let you know Ken & Judy and family have evacuated to higher ground. Tim stayed behind for some reason. Pray for their safety and that their homes are safe. Love to all, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, September 23, 2005 11:22 AM CDT Thinking of you all! gena atcher <atcherboy@rap.midco.net> rapid city, sd usa - Thursday, September 22, 2005 11:12 PM CDT Sorry it's been a while since I've signed, guilty as charged! Jeff says hi too! Just dealing with the same old stuff here in MN! Seizures, seizures, seizures! It must be a full moon or something! Your in our thoughts and prayers daily! Take care, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Thursday, September 22, 2005 10:13 PM CDT Hi, Was glad to see that you wrote an update on how things are going. I just met the Avera GI Dr. today when I was at work. He seems very nice and I have heard good things about him. I hope it goes well. We continue to keep your family in our prayers. Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia - Thursday, September 22, 2005 6:14 PM CDT alec is in my prayers. sara <saphirelag@yahoo.com> lagrange, ga usa - Thursday, September 22, 2005 4:35 PM CDT Our prayers continue for your sweet Alec. Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 9:13 PM CDT Hey little buddy! We were coming by to see how you were doing. I hope this week is a little better for you. Visit Elijah's Page Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brigton, Co USA - Tuesday, September 20, 2005 5:58 PM CDT YEAH!!!! I am so relieved to hear that Alec is feeling better and able to go to swimmming lessons. Hope you had a good week end. Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada, - Monday, September 19, 2005 8:43 PM CDT Hi Alec- You are so cute! I hope your trip to Gillette went well for you guys. We actually saw Dr Renaud 3 years ago and she couldn't figure Zach out so we got blowen off. Maybe now that we have a Dx she will be more helpful. Thanks for the advice! Its a tough deal about Dr Whiteman. Hope this week is great for you! We will be saying lots of prayers for Alec and his awesome family!! Hugs- Rachele and Zach www.caringbridge.org/mn/zachwest <rlaco2001@yahoo.com> Shakopee, MN - Saturday, September 17, 2005 11:13 PM CDT I'm sorry I haven't signed the guestbook in a while, but I have been checking in! I'm soooo glad that Alec is feeling better!! I can't get enough of that sweet picture at the top of the page. We finally got Caden's Kid Kart the other day and he loves it! Now, you have to tell me, what do you do for a cup holder???? Anyways, it really holds him up so well! Thanks for recommending it! I hope Alec continues to get better! Sending hugs & prayers~~ Vicki & Caden Williams Vicki <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Friday, September 16, 2005 9:30 PM CDT Hi Alec! We're glad you're feeling better, but now I think Haley has caught something. She just isn't feeling very good. I guess it's getting to be that time of year. What are we going to do with you two??? Have a good weekend and we hope to see you soon! Amy, Chris & Haley Sioux Falls, SD USA - Friday, September 16, 2005 1:03 PM CDT I love the new stuff on the website. I am so thankful that Alec is better. Him and Aaron both need Mom and Dad and home time!! God is good!! See you soon.........hugs and love, Mom Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Thursday, September 15, 2005 1:36 PM CDT Praise the Lord!!! I am so happy to hear Alec is better today. Hope you have a wonderful weekend! Love you all, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, September 15, 2005 11:12 AM CDT Hi, Just checking in to see how things are going at home. Sorry to hear that Alec is sick again. Hopefully, the medicine will work and you won't have to go back to the hospital. I can't wait to hear about Aaron's swimming lessons. I'm sure you will have stories to write about. I can see it now-Aaron out practicing swimming in Gpa Tom's water tanks for the cows! Ha-made you smile didn't I? Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia Lyon - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 7:12 PM CDT My gosh, you guys have had a busy time lately. I hope that Alec (and Brad) feel better soon! Sara, Emily's mommy - http://www.caringbridge.org/ca/emilyalexisrose <waffle13@sbcglobal.net> Southern California, - Wednesday, September 14, 2005 11:47 AM CDT Hey guys, how has it been going now that you are back home? Just checkin in and wishing you all the best! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 3:19 PM CDT Just checking in on sweet little Alec and your family. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Take Care of yourselfs. Debbie www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn Debbie Fogel <ejfdrf@sbcglobal.net> Corona, CA USA - Sunday, September 11, 2005 4:56 PM CDT What a great picture of Alec with his brother! I just wanted to stop by and let you know I was here checking in on Alec and the family. Take care Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, Canada, - Saturday, September 10, 2005 4:51 PM CDT Hey you guys~ Just checking in! I hope you are all doing well and the new meds help. Sorry I haven't signed the guestbook in a while.....busy, busy, busy! Sending lots of hugs, love, & prayers! Vicki & Caden Williams <vicki.williams@wallisd.net> San Angelo, TX - Friday, September 9, 2005 1:24 PM CDT So happy to hear you are home. Also nice to know you have different options to work with. Hopefully you will find the right mix of medications to make everyone happy! Love Aunt Lisa Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD Minnihaha - Friday, September 9, 2005 11:51 AM CDT You guys are really troopers. I would love to actually get together sometime when you have the chance to chat. I'm sure we know a lot of the same docs and just getting the chance to meet your family would be great. Please give us a call sometime when your schedule permits. God bless, Tony and Stephanie Spader <tsspader@sio.midco.net> - Friday, September 9, 2005 10:59 AM CDT Sorry I didn't get to say bye, but was so glad to hear you were going home. Hopefully everything settles down and you don't have to come back for a long, long time and then only to visit. Geri-Anne and family caringbridge.org/mn/wyattc Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> Golden Valley, MN - Friday, September 9, 2005 8:45 AM CDT I'm so happy for you. If there's anything we can do if you need to come back, just let us know. Take care and enjoy being home. Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, Mn USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 12:43 AM CDT CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU ALL!!! Alec and Aaron are going to be so excited to be home. Have a WONDERFUL week-end!! Love ya!! Mom Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Thursday, September 8, 2005 11:25 AM CDT I've been thinking of Alec and family. I know about back muscle strain. I did that last month and missed a week of work because I could not move. The good news is that I don't have any problems now, so tell Brad to hang in there. Hopefully, you have some good news to share with us today. Waiting to hear from you. Love Great-aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Thursday, September 8, 2005 8:44 AM CDT Just wanted to check in and see what was new.....stay strong! Tell Brad to go to the chiropractor! Much better than taking meds to mask the pain from the back! Hope you get to go home soon so you can get back to your normal! :>) gena atcher rapid city, sd usa - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 10:44 PM CDT Brad and Stephanie, I found a proverb today that reminds me of you. " A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." You guys have definitely taken that seriously. I know you must be so weary from your journey, but I want to say how remarkable I think you are to be doing such a great job taking care of your family. And, if I can give you another addage to lean on...."The strongest oak tree of the forest is not the one that is protected from the storm and hidden from the sun. It is the one that stands in the open where it is compelled to struggle for its existance against the winds and rain and the scorching sun". Your strength is remarkable. God Bless you as you continue on this difficult journey. We are proud of you and you know that your friends at Seeds of Faith are praying for you. Love, Carol Carol Childress <cchildress@west-lyon.k12.ia.us> Inwood, IA United States - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 3:53 PM CDT Hi, I have been thinking of everyone in your family and praying for good results. I certainly hope Alec starts to feel better. I finished knitting Alec's poncho. I just have to weave in about 100 ends and then I can send it on to you. Take care. Love Mary Beth Mary Beth Blauwet <marybeth.blauwet@bms.com> - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 1:23 PM CDT What a bummer about Brad's back! Sounds like you and Geri-Anne will be partying up at the hospital together, I'd say it's too bad I won't be joining you, but the only way I want to come is to visit. Good luck and I hope things settle down soon and your able to go home. Take care, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 1:09 PM CDT I just found out that you were up in the cities at Gillette. I've been so busy working in the hospital that I haven't had time to check Alec's website for awhile. Sorry to hear that Brad's not feeling well. Back pain can be a terrible thing! Hope Alec is feeling better today. Let me know if I can come up to help. I actually have lots of free time Friday through Sunday this week (finally getting some time off). Lori <blauwet.lori@mayo.edu> Rochester, MN USA - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 10:47 AM CDT Hope all is going well. We read the entries and noticed that you won't be around this week. Hope to see you next week. Patti and Melissa (from CCHS) - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 9:08 AM CDT Your little family is constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Hope that you all will soon be home with some answers that will give you some peace of mind, body and soul. I think that I need some rocking chair time with your little angel. Love to all! Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Wednesday, September 7, 2005 8:43 AM CDT We've sure been thinking about you and our prayers go out for your whole family. Glad to hear Alex's surgery went well. Just hope now things will go better for Alec. Lots of Love and Hugs to you. Jill, AB and familiy <absflock@svtv.com> Rock Rapids, IA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 9:16 PM CDT I've been thinking about you A LOT! I am glad to hear the surgery went well, now I hope Alec starts to feel better. Our prayers are with all of you! Can't wait to see you back in church! Take care! Love, Carol Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 8:58 PM CDT We are all praying for Alec and you and Brad that God will touch you with healing! Keep your head up and don't be discouraged...God will see you through. Here is Joel's aunt Kim Feller's #419-9997 (cell) and home#452-0862-she lives in Eagan MN and would love to help you out if you need anything. She works in St Paul so she is close by if needed. Hang in there and may God bless you and keep you all! Hugs, Marilyn Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, Ia - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 8:44 PM CDT Steph: Your mom told me about this site and said that it really eplains whats going on since ben is so quiet about it. I really admire you and brad for all that you have been through... Your family is always in my prayers.. Good luck I will be seeing you very soon! Love Christa Christa Fenton <christamfenton@hotmail.com> Grand Meadow, MN US - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 7:21 PM CDT Prayers, prayers, and more prayers. God will see you through. Love you all........ Mom Kim Blauwet <tk@svtv.com> - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 6:51 PM CDT You've been in my prayers all day! Hope things get better soon! Take care, Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 4:47 PM CDT Thinking about you guys! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, September 6, 2005 2:17 PM CDT Hey little man, I wanted to stop by and let you know we are praying for more GOOD Sizure days. We know that zero would be too much to ask for so less would be wonderful. God Bless Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, Co USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 11:49 PM CDT Hi guys! I hope you had a good day today. I hope that everything goes good tomorrow. Give Alec a kiss and hug from us. We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers. Take care. Chad, Shari, Jace & Cade Humboldt, SD USA - Monday, September 5, 2005 6:35 PM CDT Wow, I am sorry Alec has to spend time in the hospital. I am glad though that he had a good day yesterday. I hope they are able to staighten things out quickly so you can all get back home. In my thoughts............ Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, Canada, - Sunday, September 4, 2005 11:16 PM CDT Thinking of you and praying for you always. Aaron has been such a great kid. (And it was his thoughts in the guestbook entry - his suggestion to tell Alec he wants cowboy boots. And it was his idea to say a prayer for Alec at breakfast today. Quite the kid for only 3. You are truly exceptional parents.) I can't wait to see Alec!! Give him a big hug and kiss from Grandma Kim. Prayers and lots of love always......... Grandma Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Friday, September 2, 2005 11:44 AM CDT Hi Alec, I am having fun at the farm with my dog Harley and the kitties. Five of our caterpillars turned into monarch butterfiles. Tell mom and dad I want cowboy boots. I miss you. I said some prayers for you this morning. Tell mom and dad 'Hi'. Love, Aaron Big Brother Aaron <tk@svtv.com> - Friday, September 2, 2005 11:36 AM CDT Just checking in. Hope you have a good weekend. I'll be happy to watch Aaron again next week if you need me. We had such a good time together and he is such a well behaved child, you've done a wonderful job with both boys. I'm very proud of both of you. Hopefully these new developments will make Alec's life more comfortable. God bless you all. Love, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, September 2, 2005 10:55 AM CDT You sound tired. I hope you got a good nights rest. We are leaving for the cabin but will be back Sun or Mon. If you are still here, call. I will drop off another dinner for you guys. Geri-Anne Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> Golden Valley, MN - Friday, September 2, 2005 6:57 AM CDT I continue to pray for the doctor's to have wisdom regarding Alec's treatment. If you want to meet a family dealing with EOS, visit ky/jacindagore. Sherry is in touch with many other families too. Little Alec has touched my heart, and I will continue praying for him every day. I'm sorry to hear that things aren't well with his mom and dad, but I know the Lord can "cure" that too! Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Thursday, September 1, 2005 9:40 PM CDT Sounds like it's going to be a while before you go home! Let us know if you want company again, especially if your in over the weekend. It was great to finally meet you guys. We'll keep Alec in our prayers! Thank God Brad finally gets to have a good nights sleep. Take care! Bonnie www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, Mn USA - Thursday, September 1, 2005 4:54 PM CDT Just stopping in to say hi and have been thinking of you. Hope you get some answers this week. Take care. Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia 51241 - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 5:31 PM CDT Hoping you are getting answers and Alec is doing well with all that is going on around him. Thinking of you all! Gena Atcher Rapid City, SD USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 10:49 PM CDT Thanks for the update & hang in there. Hopefully you will find the answers you are looking for. You and your family are in my prayers. Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 3:20 PM CDT If you see the counter going up and up and up that's probably just me checking for updates. Glad your visit with the neurologist went well yesterday and we are anxious to hear any news from the GI. Amy, Chris & Haley Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 11:06 AM CDT Brad & Steph hope things are going well for you. Aaron & I had a good time playing yesterday. He got to play with the neighbor boys in the afternoon and they had a good time also. I'm anxious to have him come again tomorrow. Keeping you in my prayers. Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 10:00 AM CDT I hope you have a good week in Gillette, I will be thinking of all of you. Paula Albers, Birth to 3 Coordinator <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD USA - Tuesday, August 30, 2005 9:50 AM CDT Hey there Alec and family, I hope you have a good week, I wanted to stop in to say hello! Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario, Canada, - Monday, August 29, 2005 9:19 PM CDT Hey Stephanie and family! This last month has been so busy for me - no time for Interim hours. I see you're in the cities by now - hope all the test/appointments are productive and going well. The new pictures online are great! Looks like your new camper is getting good use. ;) I think about you guys often and always keep you in my prayers. Take care! Tracy Sorenson <tfiegen@hotmail.com> Sioux Falls, - Monday, August 29, 2005 1:21 PM CDT Hi! I hope that you have a good week in Gillette and get some answers! I wish that I could have helped out with Aaron this week, but Nicolet is in school now. Plus with our living quarters, it's a little tight! Did you know that my friend, Sheli Peterson, was in Gillette with her daughter last week? I'm not sure if she is home yet or not. Well, I better go, just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Dar Gerber Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Monday, August 29, 2005 8:32 AM CDT Hi Alec this is my first time to your site. My thoughts and prayers are with you. You are such a little cutee! I wish you the best of luck at gillette and you and your family get some answers. Take Care. God Bless Debbie ....mommy to Taryn www.caringbridge.org/ca/taryn Debbie Fogel <ejfdrd@surfside.net> Corona, CA USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 10:28 PM CDT The pictures on the second website are so cute. I like the poem, too. I'm hoping you get some answers when you are at Gillette. I praying for all of you. Love Great-aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Friday, August 26, 2005 9:27 AM CDT Just popped by to say hi! Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Thursday, August 25, 2005 1:47 PM CDT Your little sweethearts (and you and Brad) are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. Will pray extra hard this weekend for a good trip to Gillette. Love from Auntie Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Thursday, August 25, 2005 1:33 PM CDT On Tuesday the 30th I'll bring you dinner. Do you like Chinese, Mexican, Itallian, soup and sandwich? Let me know and I will drop off something for you. Geri-Anne Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> Golden Valley, MN - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 9:07 AM CDT I just checked in to see what's been happening lately. I'm glad to hear you're set to go to Gillette's and hope they can give you some answers to your questions. Have a safe trip. You're always in my prayers. Miki Larchwood, IA USA - Monday, August 22, 2005 5:58 AM CDT Hi Alec and family, I wanted to let you know that I was here checking in on you. I hope you have a good week with lots of fun! Take care, Debbie Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario, Canada - Monday, August 22, 2005 0:32 AM CDT We will be keeping you in our prayers on your next trip. May it be a short visit with lots of information. gena atcher rapid city, sd usa - Saturday, August 20, 2005 10:14 PM CDT Ahhhhhhhhhh! Thanks for posting all the wonderful photos of the boys. It is always wonderful to look back and see how the little ones have grown. I hate to see how little Eli was once but love to see how big he is now. That crazy kid. I pray you are all having a wonderful Sat. God Bless Visit Elijah's Page Or Eli’s Angels Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, co USA - Saturday, August 20, 2005 4:46 PM CDT Thanks so much for stopping last Monday night for a visit - I just love seeing you and the boys. Lotz of thoughts and prayers going your way for a good trip to Gillette. Auntie Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Friday, August 19, 2005 1:41 PM CDT Hi Stephanie and Brad, Aaron and Alec!! you all take awsome pictures. I really enjoy seeing these. Will be thinking of you in Gillette, and have a safe trip. Gina Sioux Falls, SD - Thursday, August 18, 2005 11:09 PM CDT Hi Stephanie - I don't know if you remember me but i met you @ water therapy & know Darcy- She told me about your sight & it is wonderful!!! We are up @ gillette right now with Brenna. She had to have rods put in her back to correct her curve. The surgery was yesterday and she seems to be doing okay. This is her first surgery so I was a little aprehensive about it but she seems to be doing okay. I hope when you get to Gillette you get the answers that you are looking for. In reading through your journal we have seen every dr that you have mentioned and i know sometimes it seems like you just go around and around again without ever finding what you are looking for. Well I better get back to Brenn'a room. If you get a chance email. Take Care- Sheli Sheli <tapslpbsp@sio.midco.net> Sioux Falls, SD - Thursday, August 18, 2005 5:26 PM CDT Glad to hear that you finally have an appointment scheduled in Gillette. Will be thinking about you guys when you are there. Paula Albers, Birth to Three Connections <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD USA - Thursday, August 18, 2005 11:44 AM CDT So glad you finally heard form Gillette - I hope you get some answers - your family will be in our thoughts and prayers! Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, August 18, 2005 9:50 AM CDT Great Aunt Julie shared your web page with those of us at the office. The pictures are great! I wish you all the best!! May God Bless You! Kathy Van Roekel Ankeny, IA us - Thursday, August 18, 2005 9:45 AM CDT I love the new picture of Alec. It is so serene and precious. I was so happy to get to cuddle with him when I visited last weekend. Take care of those boys. Give them both a hug. Great-aunt Julie <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Thursday, August 18, 2005 9:16 AM CDT The new pictures are awesome. I took one of them for wallpaper so I can enjoy them everytime I get on the computer. I'm so glad you finally got in at Gillette. Will keep praying that you get some answers. Love to all of you!! Grandma Marlys marvel3@alliance com. net <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 10:24 AM CDT Love the new pics! Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, August 17, 2005 8:47 AM CDT Eli’s Angels is a non-profit for children affected with Mitochondrial or metabolic illnesses I love those new pictures, you can tell the two brothers love each other. I love the naked cowboy picture;) Kristi <CubbieFanKristi@aol.com> - Tuesday, August 16, 2005 7:35 PM CDT I love the new pics, how photogenic your family is!! I hope Alec starts feeling better soon and you can find some help somewhere........ Angel Katelyn's mom, Debbie <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario Canada - Monday, August 15, 2005 11:31 PM CDT Love the new pictures Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, August 15, 2005 12:46 AM CDT Hey Alec, I am glad that you enjoyed your vacation, arent those vacation naps great?? I hope that you are having a great week and that you will be blessed in a special way. Thank you for checking in with us and we will be keeping you in our prayers. (where ever 2 or more are gathered!!!) God bless you and your family, I hope that you find your AFO! Sandra Kilpatrick <kilpatrickfamily@earthlink.net www.caringbridge.org/fl/joshuakilpatrick> - Monday, August 15, 2005 12:45 AM CDT Hi Alec and family, I'm glad you had a fun and relaxing vacation and that it ended better than it started off! Hope the rest of the week is going jsut as well. Oh yeh, did you end up driving to talk to God?? lol Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario Canada - Friday, August 12, 2005 0:10 AM CDT Hi Stephanie, Brad, Aaron and Alec. I was thinking of all of you and hopped on caringbridge to see what you have been up to. I'm glad you had a great vacation and were finally able to relax! It's very important to take the time for yourselves. I hope that you can find some answers in Gillette. I will be praying for Alec and all of you. You guys take care and let me know if you need me for anything. I would love to help, just give me a call. Love ~Amy Amy Snyders <asnyders@bell-inc.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, August 9, 2005 4:48 PM CDT Just want to let you know I stopped by to see how you are doing. Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario Canada - Sunday, August 7, 2005 11:04 PM CDT Just checking in. Hope you guys had/have a good vacation!! We'll be in touch again soon:-) Take care, Teresa www.caringbridge.com/or/emmarose & The Prayer Bears <teresabelle@gmail.com> Aloha, OR USA - Sunday, August 7, 2005 0:55 AM CDT I saw where Alec is a member of Eli's Angels and had to stop in and say hi. I just love your photos and know I will be praying for as you wait for the results from MN. Have a good week. Sincerely- Ann Eide (mom with Mito) <HFMito@cableone.net (www.heartbeatsformito.org)> Columbus, MS - Saturday, August 6, 2005 10:22 PM CDT Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, August 2, 2005 1:50 PM CDT I'm praying that your vacation goes well, and puts a smile on everyone's face. Stephanie & RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net> - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 12:25 AM CDT You are such an awesome mom. I read every single journal entry and you just amaze me. I love how you said you had to dig through piles of papers to find 1 simple thing. Jess always wonders why we even have a filing cabinet since I always think I have such a good 'system' of my own. Have a great time on vacation! Praying for you always! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 11:07 AM CDT Let us know when you get your appointment at Gillette. I would love to meet up. We can bring you something to eat or we could go out to eat. Whatever works for you guys. Geri-Anne Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> Golden Valley, MN - Wednesday, July 27, 2005 10:02 AM CDT I just stopped by to see how Alec is doing. I hope his vest comes in soon! Sara http://www.caringbridge.org/ca/emilyalexisrose <waffle13@sbcglobal.net> Southern California, - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 9:46 PM CDT Hi Steph, I'm glad we got to see you on the 3rd, even if it was for just a little while. And we finally got to meet Alec up close and personal for the first time! He really is a cute little guy!! Keeping all of you in our prayers. Judy Scholten <jscholten@valeron.com> Cypress, TX USA - Tuesday, July 26, 2005 3:15 PM CDT Just checking in to see how Alec is doing. Paula Albers, B-3 Coordinator <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD USA - Monday, July 25, 2005 4:35 PM CDT I just stopped in to say hi and see how you are doing. Hope you had a good week end! Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> - Sunday, July 24, 2005 11:30 PM CDT Just wanted to say hi and see how you are doing. Have fun at the wedding and the birthday party. Jaime caringbridge.org/nj/jaimelynn <Jaime13042@aol.com> nj usa - Friday, July 22, 2005 11:36 PM CDT Hi Alec~ Collin and Spike just wanted to skate on by to say Hi and wish you a GREAT weekend!! Thank you so much for coming by Collin's page. We love making new friends!! BIG HUGS, Collin and Julie Collin's Page julie <collinpresley@aol.com> q, ca usa - Friday, July 22, 2005 3:11 PM CDT Hi this is our first time to your site. Thanks for signing Lawson's guestbook and leaving your link. We will be adding Alec to our prayer list. God has given you a very special angel! I really enjoyed reading your testimony. It really puts it all in perspective. Thanks again for sharing Alec with us. We will be back to visit again soon! www.caringbridge.org/tn/lawson HUGS! Kristi and Lawson Kristi Wells <kristiwells@comcast.net> Hendersonville, TN USA - Thursday, July 21, 2005 3:22 PM CDT Hi Alec and Family, My name is LeAnn and a prayer warrior with Angel Wings! We are praying that Alec and you can find out what is going on with him!!! Keeping you and your family in Prayers!! God Bless!!!! Prayers and Hugs, LeAnn LeAnn Mooneyham/Angel_Wings <angel4God352000@yahoo.com> Baxley, GA United States - Wednesday, July 20, 2005 12:41 AM CDT I just showed some of my team the new pictures. They think Alec looks like "little Elvis" in the picture with Aaron. Thinking of the family. Hope to see you soon. Julie Davis <miss-Muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Tuesday, July 19, 2005 2:06 PM CDT Hi, Just wanted to let you know that I love the new pictures that you added. Aaron and Alex are growing up so fast. They really look like Gpa Tom in some of them. Hope you are enjoying the summer. I think of you often. Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, ia - Monday, July 18, 2005 5:05 PM CDT Just a short not to say HELLO!!! I am sorry I haven’t signed in a long time, but know we have been thinking about and praying for you! Love, hugs, thoughts, and prayers~~ Caden’s Connections Vicki & Caden Williams <vicki.williams@netxv.net> San Angelo, TX - Sunday, July 17, 2005 4:00 PM CDT Praying for you!! ~Laurie, The Prayer Bears~ - Friday, July 15, 2005 10:51 PM CDT Alec, hope your starting to feel better. Have a great weekend!!! Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, July 15, 2005 3:49 PM CDT Thinking of you big guy. Hoping you have a nice weekend God Bless Relay for Life-Duluth Elijah's Page Eli’s Angels is a non-profit for children affected with Mitochondrial or metabolic illnesses Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, Co USA - Friday, July 15, 2005 1:14 PM CDT What wonderful pics! We're just stopping by to say hi and let you know we are thinking and praying for you. Good luck with the doctors in Gilette and getting everything transfered over. God Bless and Skye sends a nice snuggly cuddly hug. tamm cline <tamm06@aol.com http://www3.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole/> warren , oh - Thursday, July 14, 2005 6:35 PM CDT Your new pictures are great. Such a helpful big brother. Glad you had a nice weekend. Hope your week has gotten better. Love you all!! Grandma Marlys <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 2:45 PM CDT Sorry to hear things aren't going great. Who is the doc you are sending the medical records to? We see a couple at Gillette and have been very happy. Only an incident here and there but that is expected. Don't drive up here with out an appointment. Gillette does NOT have their own ER. They are attached to Regions Hospital and you would sit for 24 hours before getting seen. Regions is a trauma hospital so they wouldn't even look at you for a long time, especially if Gillette doesn't know you are coming. It sounds like a great idea, but you would be way more frustrated then it is worth. Geri-Anne caringbridge.org/mn/wyattc Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> Golden Valley, MN - Wednesday, July 13, 2005 7:33 AM CDT Hello Ideker Family. Who is the little girl in the picture with Alec? She almost looks like a Blauwet! I'm going to be really embarrassed if she is a cousin of mine and I don't even know her. Hope all is going well and we'll be seeing you all soon -- the last week in July -- unless you are at the lakes that week. Take care Julie Davis <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Tuesday, July 12, 2005 5:07 PM CDT WOw, I hope they figure out what is going on soon. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario Canada - Saturday, July 9, 2005 11:20 PM CDT Eli’s Angels is a non-profit for children affected with Mitochondrial or metabolic illnesses Hope they figure out what is going on with his g tube... You are in my prayers Kristi <CubbieFankristi@aol.com> - Saturday, July 9, 2005 9:21 AM CDT I would be concerned if I saw that come out of Emily's g-tube! I hope that someone can give you an answer soon. Hang in there. Sara and ~Emily~ <waffle13@sbcglobal.net> Southern California, - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 4:18 PM CDT You are such a handsome little fella! I love the new updated pics! Hang in there Steph! Carrie <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 3:46 PM CDT Glad to hear you are back home, hope everything is going well. Paula Albers, Birth to Three Coordinator <paula.albers@k12.sd.us> Beresford, SD Lincoln - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 8:15 AM CDT Wow, I have not been able to check in for over a week now and things sure have been busy for you. I am sorry Alec was not feeling well and had to spend so much time in the hospital. I will definately be saying a prayer for you. Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario Canada - Wednesday, July 6, 2005 0:49 AM CDT HAPPY 4TH OF JULY!!! MY NAME IS KRISTI AND I AM A FRIEND OF CHAD AND ANN KURTZ AND OF COURSE ELI! I ALSO HELP OUT WITH ELI'S ANGELS AND WANTED TO SEND LOVE AND CARING THOUGHTS YOUR WAY!!! Hope Alec gets better soon and that he gets better soon.. Kristi <CubbieFanKristi@aol.com> - Monday, July 4, 2005 3:48 PM CDT Sorry to hear alec is back in the hospital. Alec is in my prayers. I check on him daily. sara <saphirelag@yahoo.com> lagrange, ga usa - Sunday, July 3, 2005 1:33 PM CDT Hello, Sorry to hear that Alex is back in the hospital. Hopefully, this will be a short stay. I'm sure that Aaron is having fun on the farm with Grandma and Grandpa. Keeping you all in my prayers. Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, ia - Saturday, July 2, 2005 2:31 PM CDT Alec & Family Just drop by to say hi an have a good 4th an you all are very much in my prayers. Sendinf love hugs & prayers your way. Pam Sturgill / The Prayer Bears <psturgill@bellsouth.net> - Friday, July 1, 2005 2:18 PM CDT Brad and Steph I just saw Grandma and Aaron in the grocery store this morning. Sorry to hear you are still in the hospital. I have been praying for you guys this week (like always) but sending a few more when I heard Alec was in the hospital again. Hopefully you can get home for the weekend and have a nice 4th together. cindy waltner <cindywaltner@hotmail.com> larchwood, - Friday, July 1, 2005 10:59 AM CDT Hey guys! Your little boy and your family has become part of my life. I was telling your mom that i just want to do something to make it better for you guys. Aaron brings tears to my eyes as he is such a loving brother and Aaron for being such a trooper through all this. Like you said Keep the Faith. Jodi Rock Valley, IA USA - Friday, July 1, 2005 8:56 AM CDT Hey guys! Your little boy and your family has become part of my life. I was telling your mom that i just want to do something to make it better for you guys. Aaron brings tears to my eyes as he is such a loving brother and Aaron for being such a trooper through all this. Like you said Keep the Faith. Jodi Rock Valley, IA USA - Friday, July 1, 2005 8:56 AM CDT Hope Alec gets well and you get out of the hospital soon and we pray Aaron doesn't get to sick. Keeping you in my prayers. Grandma Marlys <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IIA USA - Friday, July 1, 2005 8:08 AM CDT Hope you guys get to go home soon! That is so sweet of Aaron, little kids love with no boundaries. Hang in there! We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers..... gena atcher rapid city, sd usa - Thursday, June 30, 2005 11:12 PM CDT Hi Alec, we came by from Eli's Angels. I sure hope that you feel better soon and are able to get home. We will keep you in our prayers, you are such a cutie! Sandra Kilpatrick <kilpatrickfamily@earthlink.net www.caringbridge.org/fl/joshuakilpatrick> - Thursday, June 30, 2005 10:43 PM CDT We just want you to know we are thinking of you Alec and hope that you make it out of hospital and back home to be with your brother again The tears flowed when I read about your brother wanting you home and we pray that you will be able to go home soon. Mom:- I know what you mean about the powercut. We have had bad thunderstorms in the UK and for the past 2 nights we have had no power, pretty scary. and I have to say I love the picture of Alec practicing his head control and the toy that he has with the smiley face on it, Hannah has one exactly the same Sending you our love and prayers Jo Hannahand Rebecca Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Thursday, June 30, 2005 1:11 PM CDT Checking in to see how Alec's night went. Our prayers are with you! Alec's junkies <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, June 29, 2005 11:11 AM CDT Sorry to hear you were in the hospital. Hopefully things have calmed down. Geri-Anne and Wyatt caringbridge.org/mn/wyattc Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> Golden Valley, MN - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 5:29 PM CDT Hope you are out of the hospital soon - will try to stop by tonight or tomorrow. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Love Aunt Lisa Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 3:47 PM CDT You are in my thoughts and prayers. Hope you will be out of the hospital soon!!! Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley , IA - Tuesday, June 28, 2005 9:46 AM CDT HI Alec. You are a handsome little man. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless. http://www.caringbridge.org/al/michael Marcy Kelley <marcykelley@charter.net> Pelham, AL USA - Sunday, June 26, 2005 9:22 AM CDT I just caught up on your entries from the past couple weeks. Boy, there's never a dull moment! How do you do it??? See you on Sunday. Miki <miki@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, June 24, 2005 6:38 PM CDT Stopping by to let you know you're in my thoughts and prayers! Have added you to my prayer book so will be praying for you all the time. You're such a cutie! Praying so that you'll get better soon!!!!!!!! Lynn/PrayerBears <lworley416@gmail.com> Seattle, WA U.S.A. - Thursday, June 23, 2005 1:06 AM CDT I was just dropping in to say hi and check on Alec. Sounds like you had a great Father's Day weekend! :) Sara and ~Emily~ <waffle13@sbcglobal.net> Southern California, - Tuesday, June 21, 2005 6:09 PM CDT Hello, we found your site through Eli’s Angels and wanted to say Hi. We love to make new friends! We hope you come visit us at http://www3.caringbridge.org/vt/alex/ We love your pictures, Alec is such a handsome guy! Alex and MaryBeth MaryBeth <marybethlefevre@aol.com> Williamstown, VT - Sunday, June 19, 2005 9:03 AM CDT Hi Guys! Just checking in to say hi and tell ya we're praying for you! So so proud to call you our friends! Steph you will love Women of Faith! Bring lots of kleenex! Maybe Brad can go to Promise Keepers and we can all compare notes? Ha! Have a great week. Love April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia - Friday, June 17, 2005 4:35 PM CDT Sorry, I wrote Craig and meant to write Alec, I noticed it as soon as I sent it. I am such a whacho sometimes, I have been signing pages recently, apparently too many and this is my sign to take a break. I could not load all of the pics because the computer is too slow but I like the one on the top of the page. Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> - Friday, June 17, 2005 11:10 AM CDT That is a wonderful picture of Craig. I hope all is well and you have a good week end. Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario Canada - Friday, June 17, 2005 11:05 AM CDT Alec, look at you!!! Your getting so big! I saw in one of your pictures that you have a Baby Tad. That was Jacob's all time favorite! Glad to hear things have been going really well. Have a great day! Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, June 15, 2005 8:27 AM CDT hey Alec, You will have to say thanks mom for putting up the new pics they are so good. They also show how big you are getting. Praying you have a good day. Visit Elijah's Page Or Eli’s Angels is a non-profit for children affected with Mitochondrial or metabolic illnesses Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, Co - Tuesday, June 14, 2005 9:59 PM CDT holy smokes you are one busy woman! I thought I would stop in to say hi. Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Canada - Saturday, June 11, 2005 1:47 AM CDT Wow that was a interesting day that sounds like some of my journals and the frustrations I have with doctors and nurses and such some days. I hope Alec is doing better. www.caringbridge.org/nc/ashleyr Ashley Reber <alrhm@dnet.net> Cullowhee, NC USA - Friday, June 10, 2005 7:23 PM CDT Hi there , I loved reading your journal entries , your life sounds so much like ours its incredible !! thinking of you always and praying for you always we are praying for you and thinking of you always Sammy-Joe Maria and Sammy-Joe <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au> Melbourne , Craigieburn , Vic Australia - Thursday, June 9, 2005 11:32 PM CDT You had me rolling. That journal entry explains our whole entire life. You never have the equipment when you need it and when you don't you lug it everywhere. So typical. Plus I love when everyone is freaking out and I'm just like calm down this is normal stuff for us. Never a dull moment. I hope Alec is starting to feel better. Geri-Anne and Wyatt, Complex I caringbridge.org/mn/wyattc Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> Golden Valley, MN - Thursday, June 9, 2005 10:40 PM CDT Oh my gosh, what an ordeal! You definately are a great mommy to handle that so calmly and orderly. We have people wanting to call 911 on Emily choking all the time. It takes every fiber of my being to not scream at them but rather to calmly explain that this is the reason we have the suction machine, so we don't have to call 911. It's frustrating! I hope that the nursing place got a nurse to cover the hours. That would be very irritating! Sara and ~Emily~ <waffle13@sbcglobal.et> Southern California, - Thursday, June 9, 2005 5:24 PM CDT Alec, I saw you in the CMN video, my how you have grown since that day it was taped. Steph, your days are just to filled with excitement. It is amazing how you & Brad can handle it. I'm very proud of all of you. I pray that Alec will recover from this round of illness soon, so your life is a little easier. God Bless You All!! Grandma Marlys <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, June 9, 2005 1:51 PM CDT Oh, Steph,I couldn't be prouder of the way you handle things!! You are awesome. (so is Brad AND Aaron.) Little Aaron - crying because he wanted to see the policeman - what a hoot. Keep up the good work, Mama, and we'll keep up the prayin'!! Luv ya, Mom Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Thursday, June 9, 2005 11:35 AM CDT Hey Steph how's your day going? Your mom told me about Alec needing to be suctioned while you had him at work... I was sitting on the edge of my seat while your mom was telling me what had happened. I think I held my breath for most of the conversation. WOW, I can't imagine how you must have felt. Hopefully today will be a little less eventful! =) Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, June 9, 2005 11:21 AM CDT I was very sad to learn about Keith. You said it all when you said he is now cancer free. Ann <akurz1974@msn.com> Brighton, Co USA - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 12:02 AM CDT I loved your t.v. apperance!!! Don't tell, but I skipped church just so I could watch your segment! You looked so cute. Thinking maybe you need to take a trip to A & I so your Grandma has a chance to show you off!!! Take care! Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, June 7, 2005 8:41 AM CDT Hi Alec! We saw you on TV yesterday morning!!! Haley really wants to go to the zoo (or something!) with you and Aaron some day soon if you're not too busy with camping, television appearances, etc. Hope you had a great weekend! Amy & Haley <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, June 6, 2005 12:50 AM CDT Hello, I just popped in to say hello. Hope everyone is doing well. Debbie Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario Canada - Monday, June 6, 2005 1:01 AM CDT I think I just lost my entry -- otherwise, there will be two of me! I am coming up for a quick visit on June 17/18. Hope I can see the boys then. Have a great weekend. Julie Davis <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA Usa - Thursday, June 2, 2005 4:57 PM CDT Hi !!! Awesome new background on the main page!! I will pray you have a wonderful week-end and an even better rest of the summer. Can't wait for you all to come over again so the boys can play in the new sand box......I think Alec will like the feel of sand between his toes!! Love you all lots, Mom Momma B.. <tk@svtv.com> - Wednesday, June 1, 2005 2:37 PM CDT Just checking on alec. sara <saphirelag@yahoo.com> lagrange, ga usa - Tuesday, May 31, 2005 7:54 PM CDT Steph- your story is a riot! I am at work, just laughing my tooties off... i can picture the entire camping phenomenon! The dog, you, the boys... SO funny... lol. Anyway, I am glad it turned out to be such a wonderful weekend! Heather RN Sv peds <hschenkel@hotmail.com> - Monday, May 30, 2005 5:56 PM CDT Greetings from another South Dakota family. We came across your site and wanted to say hello. We hope you guys have a great weekend. Many Blessings~ Becky and Ashlyn www.caringbridge.org/sd/ashlyn <beckjo70@hotmail.com> Mitchell, SD - Friday, May 27, 2005 11:43 PM CDT OK so Carrie let the secret out i check the website quite frequently also. I just think to myself after i read your journal entries that we take so many things for granted in our lives and makes me take a step back and look at life. I hardly know you but you are in my thoughts and prayers. Alec has touched so many lives. You should be very proud of your little family. Stay strong. Jodi Lutjens <jlutjens@aiproducts.com> Rock Valley, IA USA - Friday, May 27, 2005 9:02 AM CDT I had to laugh when you said you check the journal entries 20x's a day. Well... Jodi and I have to confess that we are also Alec junkies!!! I check on him right away when I get to work and throughout the day just in case you would update! =) If we signed the guestbook everytime we checked in on you, it would be embarrassing!!! It's just so awesome to see entries from other states and countries! Hope all is well. Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, May 26, 2005 10:30 AM CDT Hi, Just dropping by to check out your site, I got it from one of my daily visits to Kirkland's site, you sure have a beautiful family. Sending warm wishes from across the miles.....Dawn Dawn Giles <kdgiles@sympatico.ca> georgetown, on canada - Wednesday, May 25, 2005 9:43 PM CDT Everyone needs a little help some times! Hi Big Guy~ You sure are a cutie. I found your page through someone elses page. You are a very special little boy and I can tell that you are very loved. I am sorry that I can not help you understand all of the "medical talk". I have been there myself and often times just felt like screaming. You are in our thoughts and prayers! BIg HUGS, Julie and Collin www2.caringbridge.org/ca/collinpresley/ julie presley <collinpresley@aol.com> long beach, ca usa - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 10:23 PM CDT I had no idea you had a CB page. You never gave me yours. I don't even know how I came across yours. Anyways I am happy I did. I have not had a chance to thank you for the cylinders and the phone call. I really appreciated you taking the time to talk to me. Boy did I need that. Things are going better. We were in the ER friday night for seizures, but when he is not seizing it is amazing how alert Wy is. When I had talked to you I never thought I would make it this far with the diet. Now I can see some benefit. I don't have my hopes up though. I know how fast things can change. In regards to the muscle biopsy. Did a surgeon perform it and was a pathologist in on it? If so try either of those to see if they have a copy of the report. For some reason the surgeon and the initial pathologist received Wyatt's report but no one else did. It took our GI doc to track it all down. Just a thought. Thanks again for everything. Is there anything I can do for you? I feel guilty about the shipping costs and would love to pay you for it. Geri-Anne and Wyatt, Complex I caringbridge.org/mn/wyattc p.s. - can't help you on the lab work. Wyatt's looks similiar, but it is all foreign to me. Geri-Anne Zubich <gazecc@hotmail.com> Golden Valley, MN - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 9:52 PM CDT Just stopped in to say Hi and to see how Alec is doing? Hope you are all much better and full of smiles I love the cool glasses you are wearing love from all of us to you http://www.caringbridge.org/ok/sammyjoe Maria Liistro <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au> Craigieburn , Melbourne, Vic Australia - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 5:15 PM CDT That is alot to decipher, Pitch a fit and make them explain in in layman's terms. Sounds like a good bit is normal in the testing process. We hope your answers are soon so that you can relax a bit. Have you gotten the camper ready for this weekend? We are going to Custer for a few days. gena atcher rapid city, sd usa - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 4:16 PM CDT Sure hope that one of Alec's local Drs can translate all that information into some dialect that us "normal people" can understand. Sounds like they were very thorough anyway. It was fun to see the boys even for a brief visit last week. Suppose you plan to camp over the long weekend - hope you all have fun and keep those marshmallows hidden away so there are no more "puppy" accidents! Love, Auntie Diane Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 1:11 PM CDT I hope you get all the answers you are serching for. God Bless Eli’s Angels Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, CO usa - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 11:41 AM CDT Wow, do they actually expect you to figure this out? That is just crazy. I have a friend with a son who has mito if you would like to check out her CB page it is www.caringbridge.org/canada/kirklandk Kelly knows alot about mito, right now she is busy organizing a Mito March for the week end but it wouldn't hurt to ask her. Take care, Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Canada - Tuesday, May 24, 2005 0:18 AM CDT Hey you guys! I was just trying to make the rounds and check up on all our buddies this morning. Sorry I haven’t signed the guestbooks in a while, last week was a hectic week. Sending prayers & ((((good vibes)))) for your results. Keep us posted! I hope you all had a wonderful weekend! Only 4 more days of school for us!!! Caden’s Connections Vicki & Caden Williams <vicki.williams@netxv.net> San Angelo, TX - Monday, May 23, 2005 10:42 AM CDT Hi there just wanted to pop in and say hello and some warm wishes your way Jo Hannahand Rebecca Jo <yarnall@blueyonder.co.uk> England, UK - Sunday, May 22, 2005 6:29 PM CDT Hi Alec, I just wanted to say hi and see how you are doing. Have a nice weekend. Jaime caringbridge.org/nj/jaimelynn <Jaime13042@aol.com> nj usa - Saturday, May 21, 2005 8:52 AM CDT I just stopped by to say hello and see how you were doing. I cannot believe the amount of seizures Alec has in one day, wow. I hope they will decrease and that work gets easier for you. Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Canada - Saturday, May 21, 2005 0:28 AM CDT I read your entry on Caden's site, and hope you get some positive results. We are praying for you and yours. One of the hardest jobs in the world is to be a mom- however, it is the most rewarding. stacie mcwilliams <stacie_cole@msn.com> san angelo, tx - Wednesday, May 18, 2005 3:22 PM CDT Hey guys I just wanted to pop in and say hi! Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 7:37 PM CDT I was thinking about you guys and thought I would come for a visit. I laughed so hard when you talked about crafting at night. Sometimes in my world it seems more like an addiction then a hobby. I am sad to hear about the seizures. I remember the days Eli has 75-100 or so. He is now on Depacote and it seems to keep them at bay or at least they have changed. The seizures seem to change everytime the disease progresses. Now he has a few aday. I pray that the docs can to something with the medication to help your little man. I do know how hard it is when you feel so helpless. Elijah's Page God Bless Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, Co USa - Tuesday, May 17, 2005 5:03 PM CDT Just stopping by to say that I hope everything is going well. Keeping you close in thoughts and prayers. God Bless and Skye sends a nice snuggly cuddly hug. tamm cline <tamm06@aol.com http://www3.caringbridge.org/oh/skyecoleycole/> warren, oh - Monday, May 16, 2005 9:55 AM CDT Just wanted to say Hello to everyone. Steph hope to see you on Tuesday. Summer Jesse mommy to Ryland www.caringbridge.org/sd/ryland <TheGame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Sunday, May 15, 2005 7:30 PM CDT Hello It is so nice to meet you. I think I have been here before because I remember that cute photo of you on the front page. I look forward to getting to know you better. You sure are a cute little man. God Bless Eli’s Angels is a non-profit for children affected with Mitochondrial or metabolic illnesses Ann <akurtz1974@msn.com> Brighton, Co USA - Saturday, May 14, 2005 1:54 PM CDT Alec & Family Just drop by to say hi an also say that your very much in my prayers. Pam Sturgill /prayer bears <psturgill@bellsouth.net> - Friday, May 13, 2005 5:16 PM CDT We are so happy that you had a great time on the east coast. We are thinking about you always. You are in our prayers. We hope you have a GREAT Weekend. Sari and Ashley <saribearbear@gmail.com> Baltimore, MD USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 7:31 PM CDT I check on "my boys" at least once a day -- just in case there is an update. I heard you had a great time visiting Mary. Hugs and kisses to Alec and Aaron. Hoping for a great summer for all. Great-aunt Julie & Great-uncle Steve <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA Usa - Thursday, May 12, 2005 11:10 AM CDT http://www.caringbridge.org/ok/sammyjoe thinking and praying for you always Maria Liistro xxxxxxxxxxxx Maria Liistro <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au> Craigieburn,Melbourne, Vic Australia - Thursday, May 12, 2005 6:14 AM CDT Just checking in to see how you all are. I hope you had a wonderful Mother's Day Stephanie, you are definately an AWESOME mom!!! I heard your trip went well. I am so glad, you deserved it. Lots of hugs and prayers to your whole family. Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom.net> larchwood, IA Lyon - Wednesday, May 11, 2005 5:12 PM CDT I just wanted to say "Happy Mother's Day!" to a very special mom. Hope you had a great day, Stephanie! Amy <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 9:05 PM CDT Hi All! This is my PS to my journel I just added: THANK YOU for all of the entries. We love to get them, even if all you do is write you name! Stephanie <raisingwrestlers@iw.net> Harrisburg, SD - Friday, May 6, 2005 3:28 PM CDT Hi everyone!! I'm glad that you are back at home safe and heard that you had a wonderful trip. Your mom is ready to go back. Hopefully the boys did well with their dad, I'm sure they did. We pray for everyone to stay well and have a great summer with your new camper. Hope to see you soon. Love you all, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, May 4, 2005 1:25 PM CDT Hi Guys! I'm a bit overwhelmed by all of the people you know from just about everywhere! And everyone is so computer savvy these days. Of course, I come from the dinosaur era so web pages are not my expertise! But your website is just delightful! I love the pictures!! Your sense of humor is refreshing and your strength and love are awesome. God definiitely chose the right parents for these kids! Great Aunt or is that Grand Aunt - no I like GREAT Aunt Judy Scholten <jscholten@valeron.com> Cypress, TX - Tuesday, May 3, 2005 3:40 PM CDT Hello, I am checking in to see how things are going, I haven't been back in awhile. Sounds like all is well. I thought I better sign the guestbook! I like what you wrote at the end of your journal, it is so annoying when people read the page but don't even sign the guestbook. Take care, I'll be back, Deb Brian, Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Ontario Canada - Monday, May 2, 2005 9:51 PM CDT Hey Brad, hope everything is going good at home! Thought maybe I would see a journal entry from you! =) Hang in there, Steph will be home soon! Have a great weekend! Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:54 PM CDT Just checking in on you and seeing whats happening , praying for you always and wishing you lots of happy times praying for you all the way from Aussie Land PRAYING FOR YOU ALL THE WAY FROM Australia thinking of you always Sammy-Joe and Family come and visit us in our webpage sometime Maria Liistro and Sammy-Joe <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au> Craigieburn , Melbourne , Vic Australia - Friday, April 29, 2005 3:48 AM CDT Hi guys!!! Just checking back in on you and your wonderful family. I was so glad to read that things are going so well. Give AAron a hug for us, we miss him. It sounds like he is a wonderful "big" brother. We will continue praying for all of you. Lots of love and prayers. Rich, Lindsey, Koleby, McKensey and Bailee Roemen Lindsey Roemen <roemen5@alliancecom .net> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Thursday, April 28, 2005 9:44 AM CDT This is my first time visiting your journal. What an adventure for one morning. I laughed, cried, giggled and then sat in awe at all that your family has been through. I will add your family to my prayers and thank God for giving Alec such an amazing family. God Bless you each and every day. Our prayers are with you. The Tilstras Michelle Tilstra <tilly@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Thursday, April 28, 2005 9:28 AM CDT I don't know what it is about church, but I always cry too! I hope you have a wonderful trip, you deserve a nice relaxing vacation. Take care and God Bless, Bonnie Luskey www.caringbridge.org/mn/patrickluskey <bonniel@starband.net> Belle Plaine, MN USA - Thursday, April 28, 2005 8:36 AM CDT Hi Steph and Brad, Just a quick note to tell you to have a great trip with your mom and to tell Brad that he'll be in our prayers as will the boys. He's such a good daddy he'll be fine and they'll have some good male bonding!! Hugs and prayers, April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia USA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 4:36 PM CDT Have a great time in New York!!! Your mom is so excited. She's already acting like she's on vacation!!! =) Can't wait to hear about your trip. You will all be in my prayers! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, April 27, 2005 9:54 AM CDT Steph, Have fun on your trip! We will be praying for you guys for safe traveling and also for Brad & the Boys! I know that you will miss them lots, but they have an awesome Daddy! You deserve this and enjoy! I will be anxious to hear all about it. Love & Prayers, Dar Gerber Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester , IA Lyon - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 8:26 PM CDT Hi Aaron and Alec Remember you have to be extra good this weekend while we take mommy to visit your GREAT Aunt Mary. Daddy will have his hands full keeping up with you two! Of course we will have to go shopping so we can find something special to bring you from New York. Have fun this weekend with Daddy, If you get into too much trouble - just call Aunt Diane, she will come to the rescue! Love Aunt Lisa Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD - Tuesday, April 26, 2005 4:49 PM CDT Thinkin' of you always, Sammy-Joe and Maria I am praying for you and I wanted to tell you that I have been to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester Minnesotta also and it is a fantastic Hospital , I was seen by Doctor Mark Pittelkow and he was very helpful with my condition Sammy-Joe praying for you always Maria Liistro <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au> Craigieburn , Melbourne, Vic Australia - Sunday, April 24, 2005 6:02 AM CDT This is my first time visiting your site, I seen your name on ours and thought I would mosey on over and say hi. I love the pics of Alec! When I seen the one of him cuddling with his daddy it reminded me of my daughter, she had the same cute and chunkly little hands, I just loved them. I hope that you will find out the diagnosis for Alec, I can remember when we were waiting for a diagnosis and it was frustrating waiting to find out, although it didn't change a thing. I will be back, Take care, Deb Brian, Deb & Angel Katelyn <miraclegirl101@hotmail.com> Wheatley, Ontario Canada - Sunday, April 24, 2005 0:35 AM CDT First time I have visited your Web page. Just stopped by to say hello and give Alec a hug. Glad things seem to be going well for you all and praying that they continue to do so. Jennifer <charay913@yahoo.com> Wichita Falls, Texas - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 5:09 AM CDT I just came by to say hi! Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <jodiphelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Thursday, April 14, 2005 3:23 PM CDT I am so happy Alec is out of the hospital and doing better..We are holding him very close in our prayers.. Trish/PrayerBears <Rrntbyr@aol.com> Kingston, TN USA - Tuesday, April 12, 2005 4:06 PM CDT Hi Brad and Steph, I hope your weekend was enjoyable. You deserved a break and some time for just the 2 of you! Your boys were in awsome hands with Kim and Tom. They were great in church, we missed you though! Love and Prayers, April Monen April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Monday, April 11, 2005 12:37 AM CDT Hey you guys! I love the new hair cuts!! Alec looks a lot more cool just looking at him! I also love the slide show! I finally got it to come through! Keep up the good work keeping it updated! Can't wait to see you guys this weekend. We hope that Alec will stay well so you can enjoy yourselves even though I know your thoughts will always be on him as will ours. Tracy <tracygoodwater@yahoo.com> Brandon, SD - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 11:20 AM CDT Your boys are so CUTE!!! I love the pictures. They look so cool in their sunglasses and new haircuts!!! Ready for summer! Hope this finds you all doing well. Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, April 6, 2005 10:03 AM CDT LOVE the new picture slideshow.....what a cutie!!! Big brother is so loving! Even though I am the grandma, I am sure everyone will agree! Luv you all lots, Mom Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Tuesday, April 5, 2005 7:21 PM CDT Hello Ideker Family! I am astounded by your grace. You are a phenomenal family and the love and support that you share is unprecedented in this day and age. There is no doubt that God is looking after you and your well-being. And when He isn't, many others are. May your journey together be blessed and may your time spent be full of the wonder and splendor that life has to offer. I think of you every day...and I am sorry that I don't make that more apparant...although, it doesn't make my statement any less truthful. I wish for you many smiles...today and always. I love you. May peace be with you each and every day. jaime wilson <bahnsai@hotmail.com> - Monday, April 4, 2005 10:25 PM CDT It's so great to hear Alec is outa the hospital, and doing better! I'm also very happy to hear your family is fulfilling their dream, and will be doing lots of RVing in the near future! Enjoy! I'm praying for you Alec! (((HUGS))) The Prayer Bears Heidi <praying_without_ceasing@yahoo.com> NM USA - Sunday, April 3, 2005 0:00 AM CST We are glad to hear everything is going good for you guys. We are so glad you have this website to keep everyone up to date on your family and Alec. Hope to see you sometime soon! Love, Ryan, Kari and Regan Kari Garry <ryankari@iw.net> Tea, SD - Saturday, April 2, 2005 4:21 PM CST I just wanted to let you know I am praying for you and you are in my thoughts Maria and Sammy-Joe Maria Liistro <sammyjo2@bigpond.com.au> Craigieburn Vic , Vic Australia - Friday, April 1, 2005 7:07 PM CST I can't imagine how scary this must be. You're in our thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and keep your faith. The Lord will carry you through everything. God Bless, Teresa www.caringbridge.com/or/emmarose <teresabelle@gmail.com> Aloha, OR USA - Thursday, March 31, 2005 9:44 PM CST Hi Brad and Steph: Just a note to let you know that I am continuing to pray for you and Alec. I was attending a Pastors Meeting on Tuesday. I was about to leave to visit you in the Hospital Wednesday when I read that you took Alec home. I pray that you have had some good nights of rest and sleep. Don't ever forget that our prayers are with you and Brad for strength and good health yourself. I know that Alec is well taken care of by you. God is a loving God. He has great plans for Alec and for you and Brad. Your life and testimony has already been a Blessing to all who have been around you. I must not forget Aaron. Aaron is a special little guy that has the Spirit of God with him. You are doing a wonderful job balancing your attention between Alec and Aaron. I will continue to pray for your special family. Pastor Don Nelson <myra@speednet.com> Alvord, IA - Thursday, March 31, 2005 11:35 AM CST Hi Brad and Steph, Praise God Alec is out of the hosp. He had a good hosp. free run and I'm so glad this was a short stay. But stressful even so! You will continue to be in my prayers, esp. for strength to keep on getting through what is to come. I admire your Faith and strive to be like you. Alec and Aaron are such blessings cherish each moment! (I know you do!) Love, April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Wednesday, March 30, 2005 9:08 AM CST Hey Steph, how did your night go? Just checking in on you guys!!! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, March 30, 2005 9:07 AM CST Happy to hear Alec is home! We will continue to pray for his healing and for strength for your entire family. Alec is a special boy(so is Aaron!) Love, Carol Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, - Wednesday, March 30, 2005 8:53 AM CST Glad to hear that Alec is back home. GOD IS GOOD!! That little boy and all of you, have so many people praying for you. I hope you will all get some much needed rest. Take care and God Bless! Love, Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 6:16 PM CST Hi Steph, I didn't know your family was going through these hard times until I read the journal. I'll be praying for your family. E-mail me your number and I'll give you call sometime. Brent Warner <brent-warner@uiowa.edu> Coralville, IA USA - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 6:04 PM CST Praying for Alec and the whole family. Glad to hear he is at home again. Cindy Waltner <cindywaltner@hotmail.com> - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 10:49 AM CST Glad to hear that Alec is going home today. I'm glad that I had the chance to visit Alec yesterday and to hold him for awhile. He sure is a cutie (long hair and all!) Hope you are all doing OK today. Lori <blauwet.lori@mayo.edu> Rochester, MN - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 10:43 AM CST Hi Steph & Brad; Glad to hear that Alec is on his way home and doing better. We are lifting you all up in prayer each day!! Hang in there!! Love ya, Marilyn Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, Ia - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 10:06 AM CST praying for you guys. Leslie <Leslie@asfora.com> - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 9:54 AM CST Your mom just told me that you guys are on your way home!!! Praise God!!! Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 8:46 AM CST We're praying for Alec, both of you and of course, Aaron. God bless you and keep you, guide you and protect you. Steve and Julie <miss-Muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, ia usa - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 8:11 AM CST Steph and Brad We will be praying for you guys. My heart just dropped reading your journal today. Steph if you need anything just give me a call. Take care and give Alec a (((HUG))) from Ryland and me. Summer, mommy to Ryland Jesse www.caringbridge.com/sd/ryland <TheGame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, March 29, 2005 5:52 AM CST Hi Alec, I'm sorry your not feeling good :( I know Jesus will make it all better one way, or another sweetie. He knows what is best for you, and will give you and your family only the best. It's hard though to wait on Him sometimes, and find out His will. It's also hard to know that it may not be our will sometimes. Whatever He gives you, I am praying for His Peace for you and for your family, and for His angels to lift you up with strength during this difficult time. With prayer and love The Prayer Bears Heidi <praying_without_ceasing@yahoo.com> NM USA - Monday, March 28, 2005 11:05 PM CST Hi, I just wanted to let you know that i am praying for all of you. Love in christ. Pam Sturgill /The prayer bear <psturgill@bellsouth.net> Eolia, Ky - Monday, March 28, 2005 10:21 PM CST Dear Brad and Steph, Just got done reading your journal and hoping it would read what a wonderful Easter the boys had. I am sad that Alec is back in the hospital. I pray that his breathing will become less labored and that all of you can get some rest and peace. Please let me know if you need me to sit with Alec in the hospital or to watch Aaron for awhile. Tim and I would be happy to help you. You are so strong and your faith is an inspiration. Prayers, Tim and Susan Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia Lyon - Monday, March 28, 2005 7:39 PM CST We hope that Alec's stay in the hospital is short! You are all in our thoughts and prayers! Let us know if you need us to do anything! Thanks for taking care of us with the garage situation yesterday...You are incredible friends. Tracy Brandon, SD - Monday, March 28, 2005 4:51 PM CST Hey Stephanie, I work with your mom at A & I and my friend's little girl is in the St Paul, MN Children's hospital. She just started her Caring Bridge web page on Saturday. This is a great way to just communicate. I have been watching both websites and just amazing how many loving people are out their just praying, thinking and watching out for you! I hope Alec comes home soon. Summer is coming so hopefully we can get rid of all of those nasty germs! Hang in their! Jodi Lutjens <jodilutjens@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA US - Monday, March 28, 2005 1:23 PM CST Brad & Steph, I'm sorry to hear that Alec is in the hospital. What a long night! We will pray that he will be able to come home soon. The boys both looked so cute yesterday in church. Give Alec a HUG from us. Get some rest and talk to you soon. Love, Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Monday, March 28, 2005 11:55 AM CST Hi Steph & Brad, I just found out Alec is in the hospital. Let me know if you need any help. Hopefully he will be back home in a couple days. Sounds like it is quite the infectious place up there. We will pray that he does not pick up any of the other things. Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Monday, March 28, 2005 11:28 AM CST Hi Steph, I just got an email from your mom that Alec is in the hospital, sorry to hear that. We will pray that his stay is short and he is better soon! Take care and try to rest--you sound like you should be very tired! Love, Carol Carol Smict <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Monday, March 28, 2005 11:12 AM CST Thinking of you. Hope this is a short stay. I will try to get up to visit soon. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Lisa Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD - Monday, March 28, 2005 11:05 AM CST Brad & Steph- You guys are in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that Alec will come home SOON!!! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, March 28, 2005 10:51 AM CST I wanted to come by and wish you guys a Happy Easter! Jodi and McKayla Jodi Phelan <Jodi Phelan@hotmail.com> Sherwood Park, AB Canada - Friday, March 25, 2005 9:01 AM CST We're so glad you got some GOOD news! You're always in our thoughts and prayers. Looking forward to seeing you at Easter. Miki <miki@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, March 24, 2005 12:11 AM CST Hi Alec! I am praying the doctor's find just the right thing to stop those nasty ol seizures! It's good to know that some progress is being made already! Congrats on the great cardio! The Prayer Bears Heidi <praying_without_ceasing@yahoo.com> NM USA - Wednesday, March 23, 2005 11:54 PM CST Hi Alec, You are such a cutie pie!This is my first visit to your site but i promise to come back often to check on you.Sending you a great big prayerbear hug and holding you close in our prayers.. Trish/PrayerBears/Legacyofhope <Rrntbyr@aol.com> Kingston, TN USA - Wednesday, March 23, 2005 4:35 PM CST Hello! My husband met Brad the other day while he was looking at campers. We just had to check out your site tonight as we were looking at ours too. It really sounds like you guys have been through a lot and our hearts go out to you. Maybe someday our families can meet and share our journeys. We loved the Lenten Child poem. Can we steal it? We talk often (when we speak of our journey with our daughter) about the contents of that poem. We have been given a gift only to have for a period of time. God only knows when He will call them back home. It's such a joy and a trial all at the same time to think of that! God's blessings to your family. Tony and Stephanie Spader <tsspader@sio.midco.net> SF, SD - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 10:31 PM CST So glad you guys are having good news!! We think of you all and hope for healthier days to come. We were going to go to Iowa for a long weekend, but the snow stopped us!! You got it all we didn't get but a little. Hopefully we can see you at the river this summer! gena, don and nick atcher <gla@rap.midco.net> rapid city, sd usa - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 10:30 PM CST AWESOME!!! I was so excited when your mom called and let me know that everything turned out o.k. with Alec's heart tests. What a scare! Goes to show that miracles happen everyday! Have a great Easter!!! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 9:28 PM CST What great news that his heart looks fine! You must be so relieved. I am glad you are on your way home, and that you have a Dr who is willing to try so many things for Alec. Thanks for signing Emily's guestbook, too! :) Sara and ~Emily~ <waffle13@sbcglobal.net> Southern California, - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 6:01 PM CST Hey you guys! Just checking in and wanted to say thanks for signing Caden's guestbook. We love to meet new friends. I haven't gotten to read your journal history, but I think Alec and Caden have a lot in common. Yes, the waiting is hard, but I try to act like the biopsy never happened, so maybe it will go by fast. If you ever need to talk about anything, feel free to email me! I hope you all have a great Easter weekend and holiday....find lots of eggs!! We will check back often!! Sending lots of hugs, thoughts, and prayers~~ Caden’s Connections Vicki & Caden Williams <vicki.williams@netxv.net> San Angelo, TX - Tuesday, March 22, 2005 3:47 PM CST Brad & Steph~ So glad to hear you made it home safely & that his heart test came back normally! We're so thankful & your mom is right ... your family has touched so many of us in such special ways! May God continue to go with you & grant you patience & peace. Mitch, Amy, & Hayley <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Saturday, March 19, 2005 12:46 AM CST Hi Brad, Steph, Aaron, and Alec. We have been checking out the website daily. We are so glad to hear that you are home. We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers. Take care! Chad & Shari <cswoody@siouxvalley.net> Humboldt, SD US - Saturday, March 19, 2005 11:43 AM CST Hi Brad and Steph, Praise God for your trip to Mayo. You Alec and your whole family are always in my prayers! I am so proud to call you my friends you are an inspiration to me and anyone else that comes in contact with you and your little angels! Glad you made it home safe and with yet more peace from your trip! Love and Hugs, April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia usa - Friday, March 18, 2005 3:57 PM CST Hello- I was just cheking in on Alec, I think about you guys often. Sounds like you've had quite the week! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care. Kelly Stocklin, RN <kstocklin@sio.midco.net> Soiux Falls, sd - Friday, March 18, 2005 1:30 PM CST What a blessing the four of you are to me!! I am so thankful Alec's heart test came out fine, and am so thankful for the time we got to spend with Aaron this last week. He was so well behaved and is so loving - always remembering his momma, daddy, and brother in his prayers. Your little ones are a very special gift from God to you and to us. I love you all very much and thank God for the way he is using YOU to minister to all of us. Your family touches more people's lives than you will ever know. You are a blessing............. Love always, Mom Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Friday, March 18, 2005 1:09 PM CST To the Ideker family, Our neighbor told us of this website,we had no idea your young little family were going through such strife,we will be thinking of you and praying for you,your website is great! Spud & Mary Grotewold <smette@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Ia Lyon - Friday, March 18, 2005 11:34 AM CST Steph,Brad,Aaron & Alec, I am so touched by this website & everything you share - thank you for what you are doing. You all continue to be in our prayers. God Bless you all. Love Carla Feucht Carla Feucht <feuchtfam@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA - Friday, March 18, 2005 8:52 AM CST Brad & Steph - Praise God for everything, Steph. Just remember our S.S. class lessons! It is so hard when you're sitting in the hospital waiting room (it seems like just yesterday I was there with Jerry). Everyone in our class is praying and lifting you up. I will pray that you feel His peace. Love to you all - Julie Julie Tolvstad <juliet@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 10:59 PM CST Brad and Steph, You are in our prayers and want you to know we are thinking of you this week. Love, The Smidts Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 9:47 PM CST Steph- I read your update and my heart dropped. I wish I could just hug you and tell you everything will be o.k. You, Brad, and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers always. With Love- Jesse, Carrie, and Jacob Van Egdom Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 9:41 PM CST Dear Brad and Steph, Please know that we are praying for all of you. I can't imagine what you are feeling right now but I know we can continue to pray for you that God will give you the peace, strength and answers that you need. You are such a special family and I know that God will never leave you-trust as you always do. Tim and Susan Tim and Susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia Lyon - Thursday, March 17, 2005 7:38 PM CST Brad & Steph, just want you to know I am praying for you. Stay strong. Love you, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 8:55 AM CST We are praying to God that we all can accept and understand God's plan for Alec. I wish I could be there to offer some comfort. Please give Alec and Aaron hugs and kisses from us. Great-aunt Julie & Great-uncle Steve <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 8:32 AM CST Brad and Stephanie: Our prayers are with you at this difficult time. My heart just breaks to read your concerns and fears. God will give you strength ....he won't leave you. Carol Van Houten <carolvanhoau@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Thursday, March 17, 2005 7:18 AM CST Dearest Brad & Steph~ Just wanted you to know how much we're thinking of you & your family. We continue to pray for God's comfort & direction as you seek so many answers to your questions. We uplift you in prayer & love during this difficult time. Much love~ Mitch~Amy~Hayley Amy Knoblock <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 9:19 PM CST Hi Steph and Brad! We are lifting you up in prayer for your week at Mayo clinic. Hope all goes well. We are trusting in God to comfort and strengthen you and your family. Blessings to you all! Love ya, Joel and Marilyn,Seth and Mariah P.S. Cute pictures of the boys! Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 8:24 PM CST Hi Steph and Brad! We are lifting you up in prayer for your week at Mayo clinic. Hope all goes well. We are trusting in God to comfort and strengthen you and your family. Blessings to you all! Love ya, Joel and Marilyn,Seth and Mariah P.S. Cute pictures of the boys! Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 8:20 PM CST I found your CB site through another guestbook, and just wanted to say good luck with Alec's upcoming tests and such. I hope that they lead to some answers. We've been looking for 17 months for an answer to my daughter's medical issues, so I know how frustrating it is. Lots of luck! Sara and ~Emily~ <waffle13@sbcglobal.net> Southern California, - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 5:31 PM CST To Alec and Family, We pray that God gives you strength and guidance. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during your trip this week. Travis, Shannon & Journey Dwire <shannon@millenniumrecycling.com> Hills, MN - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 4:39 PM CST Hope everything is well with Alec after the biopsy. Give him a big hug and kiss from me. See you in a week. Mary Beth Blauwet <marybeth.blauwet@bms.com> - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 4:36 PM CST Hope you had a safe trip home. Can't wait to give Alec some "real" hugs when he gets home. I could not believe the huge bear hug that Aaron gave me when he left my place last night - he was so good. Everyone was teasing me that I spoil him too much - I just say that I am using your boys for practice so that I am really good at being a grandma when I have grandchildren. Love from Aunt Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 2:30 PM CST Hey guys! I just want to let you know that your family is in my prayers. I was so happy I was home the Sunday you gave your testimony Steph. It was so incredibly touching. Brad and your strength is both admirable and respectable. I hold you all, especially Alec, very close to my heart and I hope everything continues to go well. Take care. God bless. Heather Knobloch <hknobloc@usd.edu> Vermillion, SD USA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 2:24 PM CST Brad, Stephanie and Alec, I having been thinking and praying for Alec. I hope that you find some answers from this trip to Rochester and I know that whatever the outcome, both of you are strong enough to handle it. I am so proud of you guys! What a wonderful family you have. I will keep in touch with Tom and Kim to get updated and I look forward to seeing all of you at Easter time. Love, Amy Amy Snyders <asnyders@bell-inc.com> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 1:31 PM CST May God be with you Aaron and your family. Even though we don't know you personally, we have seen you in church - every child is such a joy, no matter what the circumstances. Remember, God never gives us more than we can handle - you must be very strong parents! Dan & Becky Anderson <beckya@alliancecom.net> Hills, MN USA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 1:14 PM CST Brad and Steph You and your family are in our prayers, and we hope you have a safe trip. I love the pictures on the website. They bring a smile to my heart! Take care. Wayne and Angie Meyer <waanmeyer@hotmail.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, March 16, 2005 1:14 PM CST Brad & Steph We will be thinking and praying for you as you make the trip. I hope everything goes good and you get some answers. Ryland is doing good now, we got out of the hospital Sun. but now has a cold. Steph maybe we can get together after Easter. Take Care and give Alec a big ((((HUG)))) from Ryland. Summer, mommy to Ryland Jesse www.caringbridge.com/sd/ryland <TheGame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, March 15, 2005 1:05 AM CST Brad & Steph, I'm praying for you all, as you are on your way to Rochester. I hope that you can get into the Ronald MCDonald house. Nicolet is so excited to have Aaron come and play. We will have lots of fun with him. I pray that all the Dr. appts. go well, and you won't be gone long. Give Alec a kiss and take care. Love ya & God Bless Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Monday, March 14, 2005 2:32 PM CST Hi Guys! I love the new photos and updates! You did a great job. The boys look precious! I pray that everything will go well with your upcoming Dr. appts. in Rochester. Just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our prayers - ALWAYS! May God Bless You All, Dar Gerber Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Tuesday, March 1, 2005 7:38 PM CST Your update to the website is awesome!! Such a beautiful family. Anne <anne_butz@hotmail.com> - Thursday, February 24, 2005 7:24 PM CST The pictures and other things you have added to Alec's website are great. I hope he is enjoying his pleasure foods and the news from the optometrist is wonderful. We will continue to pray for some good news when you go to Mayo and for everyone to stay healthy. Great Grandma Marlys <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Saturday, February 19, 2005 1:27 PM CST What awesome pictures you added to the website, Steph. I am so glad Alec gets to try some new tastes and textures....he will love it. God continues to watch over and bless you all. God is truly an awesome God and your little family is living proof! Love you all lots, Grandma Kim Mom <tk@svtv.com> - Thursday, February 17, 2005 8:55 PM CST What a wonderful gift God gave to Aaron and Alec when he gave them the two of you as their parents. God bless your whole family. Judy Scholten <jscholten@valeron.com> Cypress, TX USA - Thursday, February 17, 2005 3:39 PM CST Hi Guys, You are on my mind and in my Prayers again! I'm so glad Alec has been healthy and hosp. free for so long, and I hope that continues!!!! He is growing into a little boy not a baby anymore. I hope Aarons birthday was great he is so adorable and just makes me smile! Have a great week! Hugs, April April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Wednesday, February 16, 2005 3:44 PM CST Hi Alec! Haley and I just wanted to tell you that we had a lot of fun with you at the Mall Walk on Saturday- even though Haley was such a sleepy-head! We'll see you again soon! Amy & Haley <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, February 7, 2005 11:30 AM CST Happy Birthday Alec!! I hope you had a great birthday Alec. Ryland is doing pretty good, just not sleeping very well. We are always thinking about your family and praying for you guys, take care. Summer Jesse, Rylands mommy <thegame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Thursday, January 20, 2005 12:46 AM CST Happy Birthday wishes to Alec! I thought he looked so good on Sunday. We just pray he continues to avoid getting sick through this cold/flu season. Hope you have a great week! Take Care! Joel, Marilyn, Seth & Mariah Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, Ia - Wednesday, January 19, 2005 6:52 PM CST Happy 1st Birthday, Alec! The past year has been a roller coaster ride of ups and downs but today is your day and you deserve to celebrate! We hope that this next year brings you many happy, healthy days and NO MORE SEIZURES! From your friends- Amy, Chris and Haley Lingbeck <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Wednesday, January 19, 2005 1:24 PM CST Happy Birthday big boy! You're 1 today! Such a long year for everyone, but today is for celebration! Stay healthy. God bless you and keep you, guide you and protect you. Hugs and Kisses Great Aunt Julie and Great Uncle Steve <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Wednesday, January 19, 2005 12:08 AM CST Happy Birthday to dear little Alec! May you have a happy and healthier 2nd year! Hugs and Kisses Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Wednesday, January 19, 2005 10:49 AM CST Edna Mae told us Alex has had a good month. Praise the Lord. BY the way, your testimonial was very moving. It is a wonderful thing to see you and the other girls in your class turn into such spiritual beings with such a loving gift of motherhood that makes a mother proud. God bless you and your whole family. Vicki Rath <rath@pfire.net> Larchwood, Ia - Sunday, January 16, 2005 11:12 AM CST Hello My mother-in-law said that she met you the other night and gave me your web site. We had a child with tay-sachs disease and also did alot of praying and time spent in and out of the hospital. She also had siezures. I just wanted to let you know that your site is beautiful and if you ever need anything just call us we'll help in any way possible. We saw many doctors at SVCSC. Josh & Lindsay Wermers <lindsay.wermers@us.army.mil> Huron, SD 57350 - Friday, January 7, 2005 9:22 AM CST Hi, you visited my son Cooper's web page so I wanted to visit yours. They are sure some cute boys. I know how hard it is to be in your shoes because I am there daily. It sounds like your doing a great job. We will pray for you as we pray for all every night. Hang in there! I also have a three year old and it is amazing how unselfish they can be in the situation they are in. God Bless! Tammy Curry <tamzanelexis@yahoo.com> Lake Preston, SD - Saturday, January 1, 2005 2:42 PM CST We're so excited to be coming up for Christmas with the whole Blauwet tribe. It will be wonderful to see Aaron and Alec again. Now, Alec, I'm sending you my healing touch so you will be healthy and happy for the holidays. We can't wait for the kids to open up the presents we brought them! God bless you and keep you, guide you and protect you. Great-aunt Julie and Great-uncle Steve. Julie & Steve Davis <miss-Muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Monday, December 20, 2004 3:31 PM CST Hey Steph, just checking in to see how things have been going. I am sure it is pretty busy around your house with Christmas only a week a way. Have a great Christmas!!! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Sunday, December 19, 2004 9:18 PM CST Hi Guys, Just a quick "HI" and wanted you to know you are on my mind and in my Prayers today and always!! I hope Alec is having a better week!! April <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Tuesday, December 14, 2004 12:22 AM CST Steph Thanks for thinking about us. Ryland is still in the hospital PICU. It has been a difficult past couple of days. I don't know how you guys do it. I talk to Tanya and she said Alec was not feeling very good. We will be praying that he gets better and you and your family can enjoy his first Christmas. Take Care Summer Jesse <TheGame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Monday, December 13, 2004 0:33 AM CST Hello Brad & Steph: I just finished reading your testimony...it was very touching. I am so proud of both of you how you have weathered this whole thing with GOd-given strength and courage. This situation could have brought destruction to a family and you have let it bring you closer together and closer in your walk with God. How amazing is that? I don't know that I could be holding up as well as you have been, but then we never know our strengths until God is revealing them in us and through us. We know that God will continue to pour out His blessings on all of you-that is our prayer for you. Love ya, Joel & Marilyn,Seth & Mariah P.S. Cute pictures of the boys! Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, IA - Thursday, December 9, 2004 7:38 PM CST Steph and family, I just saw your mom at A&I and she gave me your web site address. It is incredable what a person can do with God's guidance and love. I always knew that you would make a great mother but you have exceded my expectations. Keep the faith and take care of your wonderful family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Hegdahl's Garry, Connie, Matt, Jared, Ethen, and Brianna Garry hegdahl <garry.hegdahl@sdncommunications.com> Howard, sd usa - Thursday, December 9, 2004 1:50 PM CST Alec, Stephanie, Brad, and Aaron, Hope you are all doing well. It was nice to meet you (Stephanie) at the A & I Christmas party. It is a small world. I knew you looked familiar to me, and I thought it was through the ER. I love your website. You do a wonderful job of journaling. I have alot of respect for you and your family. Working in the medical field, I can only imagine what you're all going through on a day to day basis. I can work 12 hours with it and go home. You are wonderful, loving people. My thoughts and prayers are with you! Shelly Vonk <msvonk@mtcnet.net> Rock Valley, IA USA - Thursday, December 9, 2004 12:07 AM CST Wondering if your story touched any lives? After watching the DVD, our living room sat silent, no one moved to shut it off, no one got off the couch to get ready for bed . . . NOTHING. We just sat there. Listening to your story made us realize how fortunate we have been so far and how we take things in our life for granted. It's hard for me to understand why things like this happen, but I trust God has a plan & everyone has a purpose here on earth, and right now Alec's little light sure is shining bright! Thanks for sharing your story with us, you did an excellent job! Love always, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Wednesday, December 8, 2004 8:27 PM CST Hi Steph and Brad, just got the E-Mail about the 30 year old mom that died. Her family will def. be in our prayers. I hope Alec is staying healthy. I love your web site and I can't wait to see the new pictures. You all continue to be in our prayers!! Love and Hugs April Monen April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. US - Wednesday, December 8, 2004 4:32 PM CST Brad and Steph, I have been checking this site daily for updates. I just want you to know that the testimony you gave and wrote brought me to tears. I love the pictures of your precious two boys. We continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Susan susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, ia Lyon - Monday, December 6, 2004 5:10 PM CST Hi Stephanie. I work with your mom at A & I and frequently ask how your family is doing. Just wanted to know that i am praying for you and you are family. Jodi Lutjens Rock Valley, ia US - Sunday, November 28, 2004 6:58 PM CST Happy Birthday Stephanie!! I hope you are enjoying spending time at home. I love the new picture of Alec. I can't wait to see both of the boys next week. Mary Beth <marybeth.blauwet@bms.com> - Thursday, November 18, 2004 2:51 PM CST Hi guys...Thanks for the website! You do such a great job at keeping it updated! Please let us know if you ever need anything at all. You are all very special to us and we admire the amount of strength that your family has shown through all of this. Jody and I pray for you all of the time and you are always in our thoughts. Tracy <tracygoodwater@yahoo.com> Brandon, SD - Monday, November 15, 2004 10:10 AM CST We continue to pray for little Alec, Aaron and the two of you. We know, according to God's word, and our faith in Him, that He will never give us more than we can bear. Hope you get to go home from the hospital soon. Love you! Lex Knobloch <knobdlbb@alliancecom.net> - Friday, November 12, 2004 4:30 PM CST I happy to hear your heading home! I just learned about your web site. It is nice to hear how all of you are doing. Take care and I'll be praying for you all. Rhonda Garry <garryr@maguireiron.com> Humboldt, SD - Friday, November 12, 2004 3:54 PM CST Brad and Steph I see that you are at home. We will be praying that your family can enjoy some time at home. Ryland will be one year old in one week boy time goes by fast. You guys take care and we be thinking about you. Summer Jesse, mommy to Ryland <thegame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Friday, November 12, 2004 8:28 AM CST So glad to hear you may go home. I know it has been a very long haul for all of you. Keep the faith that God in his grace will constantly watch over Alec as he struggles. You are there as a reminder of what true family is. Good luck. I enjoy reading about Alec's progress. Vicki Vicki <rath@pfire.net> Larchwood, Ia USA - Thursday, November 11, 2004 8:28 AM CST Hi Guys---I am excited to hear you might get to come home! Let me know if there is anything you need. In the event you don't get out, just call. Mike or I can spend the night so you both can be with Aaron. I am hopeful you can come home. Darcy <dideker@totalcardinc.com> - Wednesday, November 10, 2004 9:16 AM CST I am so excited because I will be "home" the week of November 15th and I'll be able to spoil both boys. I so hope Alec is out of the hospital by then. I can't wait to see what new antics Aaron has. Of course, great-auntie Julie has another blanket coming for Alec AND books for Aaron. Aaron is going to get a new blankie from me for Christmas -- he will just love it. I sure need some hugs and kisses so can't wait to see all of you. Julie Davis <miss_muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Monday, November 8, 2004 2:38 PM CST Hi Stephanie -- I really don't know what to say for sure. All that I do know is that God has given you a wonderful gift and that is a gift of patience and understanding in this situation. God chose to give Alec to you and Brad for a reason so stay strong and he will help you through this. I want you to know that I check the website often and think of you often, too. Know that you and your family are in my prayers and if you ever should need anything, please don't hesitate to ask. With all our love and prayers! Mindi Skiles and family <skiles49@hotmail.com> Brandon, SD United States - Monday, November 8, 2004 2:37 PM CST Hi Steph & Brad, Yesterday in Sundayschool we talked about you and how strong you are. Then Kim mentioned your web site I had forgotten that she had given me a card, so today I have spent a long time on it. I have also spent a long time crying. I so wish that there was something I (or anyone) could do. I know that is where our faith comes in and we have to give it to God. I have complete faith that God has his hands on all of you and that is why you and Brad are staying so so strong. And when you don't feel so strong that's when and why your AWSOME families, friends, and prob. even some strangers are there to help get you through. I just want you to know that I am one of those friends and I will be there if you need me. You are all in the top of my prayers always. I will keep trying to keep your mom (Kim) togeather for now. Ha! I love your web site and you can bet I will be checking it tons. Then I won't have to keep bothering you and your mom about "how is Alec!?" Now you can just know that you have all my love, prayers, &support. I'm glad some of Wyatts cloths worked for the boys. Let me know when you need the next sizes!! Love & Hugs, April Monen April Monen <monen3@alliancecom.net> Lester, Ia. USA - Monday, November 8, 2004 1:20 PM CST Poor little angel...I hope that Alec feels better soon so that you can all go home and enjoy each other in your own surroundings. Lori <blauwet.lori@mayo.edu> Rochester, MN - Monday, November 8, 2004 12:02 AM CST Hello! I work with your Aunt Julie here in Des Moines. I have heard so much about Alec and your family. I try to visit the site often for an update. I have a 16 month old, Dominic, and every night when we sit down to rock we pray for Alec and your family. We have also added Alec to our prayer list at our church. Alec is so blessed to have such a strong and loving family. We love the pictures. Alec and Aaron are sooo adorable!!! Amanda Gardiner <GARDINER.AMANDA@PRINCIPAL.COM> Ankeny, IA - Monday, November 8, 2004 7:51 AM CST Hi Steph, I love Alec's new picture--he is so cute! I talked to your mom at Bible Study last night about coming to visit you and she said to send you an e-mail. A couple of us may come up on Wed later in the morning and were wondering if you will be around? We will bring you some lunch! I pray Alec is doing better! Carol Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Monday, November 8, 2004 7:22 AM CST Brad & Steph, I love the new picture of Alec. The poem brought tears to my eyes, but is so true to heart! You two are amazing parents! I am so proud of your unconditional love & strength! You are an inspiration to us all. May God bless you and your (His) precious little boy. You are in our thoughts and prayers - We love you all! Dar Gerber Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Sunday, November 7, 2004 9:39 PM CST Dearest ones... You know my prayers are always with you. I love the new picture of Alec! I love that poem too. I am thrilled to hear about how God has sent all those wonderful people into your life- you deserve it. You are all so special! Anne Butz <anne_butz@hotmail.com> - Sunday, November 7, 2004 7:55 PM CST Your sons are beautiful! My daughter has IS and is 5 days older than Alec and I am thinking about you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope that Alec fights off this infection quickly and feels better soon. Meg Schulte <mschulte1@comcast.net> Bloomfield Hills, MI USA - Sunday, November 7, 2004 4:21 PM CST Hi Stephanie & Brad, Ok, So I finally found this website and am so touched by that poem. Your mom said she bought it for you in Crossroads...how true the words are. We think that our kids are ours, but in reality they are just "on loan" from God. I just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and lifting you up in our prayers. May God give you strength and renew your spirits each day! Love, Joel and Marilyn, Seth and Mia Oh, if Aaron needs a place to stay he can come and ride the green tractors with Joelly!! He and Joel have a little farmer bond you know... Marilyn Moser <moserjam@hotmail.com> Alvord, Ia USA - Saturday, November 6, 2004 7:12 PM CST Even though I have never met Alec personally, he is in my heart & prayers each & every day. (along with the rest of you too!) Keep your chin up! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <cvanegdom@aiproducts.com > Rock Valley, IA - Friday, November 5, 2004 6:52 PM CST Stephanie and Brad,I have only seen Alec in pictures, but he looks like Aaron. Both are beautiful boys. I come to your site often and see how things are going for little Alec. We keep you in our prayers. Stay strong and positive! Gena Atcher <atcherboy@rap.midco.net> rapid city, sd usa - Thursday, November 4, 2004 10:12 PM CST Keeping you in our prayers. Darcy Gerber <dgerber@alliancecom.net> Lester , IA - Saturday, October 30, 2004 4:21 PM CDT Steph & Brad, I will be able to sit with Alec on Monday the 2nd. Let me know what time you want me to be there. I'll talk to you on Sunday. Love, Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Friday, October 29, 2004 12:35 AM CDT For Sunday, I was thinking late afternoon like 4:00 to 5:00 - just let me know when works best for you so Aaron doesn't miss any of the fun. Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Friday, October 29, 2004 10:10 AM CDT Alec and I had fun yesterday! It was a quiet afternoon. It looks like next week is not too hectic, let me know when you need help. I would love to spend more time with the little guy Lisa Ducan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD - Friday, October 29, 2004 9:49 AM CDT steph, if you need help on Sat. evening let me know or let Kim know and she can give me the info. susan susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, ia - Thursday, October 28, 2004 6:11 PM CDT I would love to spend Sunday evening with the little sweetheart so you can all enjoy the trick or treating - he can get dressed up in his new little ghost shirt from Great-Grandma. Auntie Diane Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> - Thursday, October 28, 2004 4:40 PM CDT Steph and Brad, I am so sad that Alec is back in the hospital. I pray that it is a short stay and that he will gain his strength back quickly. Please know we are praying for all of you. Susan and Tim susan <tjlong@svtv.com> Larchwood, Ia - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 7:06 PM CDT Brad and Steph We are thinking about you guys all the time and check this site everyday just praying that you aren't in the hospital. We will be praying for your family and that all turns out for the best. Take care. Nick ,Summer, Nathan, Mitchell and Ryland Jesse <thegame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, October 26, 2004 2:52 AM CDT Brad & Steph Well I'm sorry to hear that Alec is in the hospital again. I didn't get a chance to talk to you yesterday in church. I have to hurry and get to my classroom for sun. school. I pray that you will all be home soon and that God's will be done. You two are wonderful parents and have two precious little boys. You have a lot of people praying for you all! Hang in there and let me know if you need anything. Take care. Love, Dar Gerber Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Monday, October 25, 2004 7:44 PM CDT Brad, Steph and kids It was nice to read that you are back at home. Hopefully it stays that way. Sorry to hear about Aaron and his asthma, like you need anymore things to worry about. I talked to Tanya (LBC) and she was talking about we still need to get together sometime and have a much needed night out. We will be praying that everyone will stay out of the hospital and the ER for awhile. Take care. Happy belated Birthday Brad! Summer Jesse <thegame68@msn.com> Hartford, SD - Saturday, October 23, 2004 3:03 AM CDT I am so glad that you guys are coming home. I hope Alec continues to improve and that he gets over his bronchitis quickly! I am sure Aaron is ready to have you back home. Hang in there! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Sunday, October 17, 2004 3:50 PM CDT I am so happy to hear you are going home tomorrow. It has been a long week for you guys. I had a great time with Aaron last night. I was reading him nursery rhymes and we came to Old McDonald and he started singing along as I was reading. He has quite the voice for a little guy. He will be so happy when you all get back home again. I hope and pray that tonight will be good for Alec and he doesn't have to deal with that oxygen tube anymore. Let me know if you need me to do anything for you next week. Alec will be happy to see Ann again. Love you all!! Great Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Saturday, October 16, 2004 3:30 PM CDT Hello, little Godson! Hope things are getting better and you guys get out soon. Alyssa needs a baby fix. We are getting healthier, Caden has been asking for Aaron to come over and play with his new "play dough"! I will give you a call--let us know if there is anything else we can do! Darcy Ideker <dideker@totalcardinc.com> - Friday, October 15, 2004 10:13 AM CDT Thinking of you guys and hope you get out of the hospital very soon! Call us if you need anything! Amy, Chris and Haley <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, October 14, 2004 7:57 AM CDT Steph and Brad, Sorry to hear Alec is back in the hospital and your stay may be longer than you thought. I love your web site and check it often to see how you are all doing. We are praying for you! Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, Ia Lyon - Wednesday, October 13, 2004 2:43 PM CDT Another howdy from TX! You have 2 beautiful boys Stephanie! John jokes about remembering the days when you were just a kid. And now you are a strong, wonderful mother. Remember we are all with you in prayer. Lots of love and hope to see you and your family soon. John & Lena Scholten <lena@swbell.net> Houston, TX US - Tuesday, October 12, 2004 3:54 PM CDT Hello from Texas! I finally got to Alec's webpage. I don't really know what was happening before, but I finally got there. What cute little boys you have! And, Stephanie, I am so impressed with your attitude and upbeat comments. What an awesome mom! I'll keep y'all in my prayers. God bless. Judy Scholten Cypress, TX USA - Tuesday, October 12, 2004 12:16 AM CDT Alec and Family Sorry to hear that you are back in the hospital. One of these months you are going to be able to make it a month with out going. It was nice to meet everyone at the LBC funrasier. Rylands cosin, Kayla Jesse was in the hospital (Sioux Valley) and we were going to come and visit her on Tuesday but she got flown up the cities Monday. I figured we could visit you some more if you were still there. Well hope all goes better for you guys and we are praying for the little guy. Take care. Summer Jesse, Rylands mommy <rylandjesse@lycos.com> Hartford, SD - Tuesday, October 12, 2004 10:54 AM CDT Stephanie- I work at A & I with your mom & try to keep updated on Alec through this awesome website. I hope you know that there are alot of people thinking of you and Alec. I know you have been through some pretty tough times & alot of hospital stays, but I am amazed at how you guys handle it. You always seem up-beat on the website & that's great. Alec is so lucky to have parents like you!!! You inspire me. I pray each night for your family and I hope you are out of the hospital soon. Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> Rock Valley, IA - Monday, October 11, 2004 9:22 PM CDT Brad & Steph, I am so sorry to hear that Alec is back in the hospital. I pray that his breathing will get easier and you all will be be back home soon. What a precious little angel you have! I am sorry that he is having such a tough time. Keep up your faith! You know, that all of your church family is praying for you all and love you lots! Keep us updated! God Bless Love, Dar Gerber Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester , IA Lyon - Monday, October 11, 2004 8:43 PM CDT Brad and Steph, I will be praying for you and for Alec. I am sorry that things are so hard for you guys. Thank you Stephanie for helping me last week with my crisis. If I can do anything for you, please let me know. We missed you at Brandon's wedding, but I'm sorry I didn't know you were having such a struggle. We will keep praying. It is not easy, but remember the verse, "Cast all your cares upon Him, for He cares for you." Love, Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm@alliancecom.net> Alvord, IA USA - Monday, October 11, 2004 5:41 PM CDT He's sure been through a lot. I feel so bad for him. My prayers are with you, Brad and Stephanie. I wish there was something more I can do. Joyce Kadinger <doydee@msn.com> Kennewick, WA - Friday, October 1, 2004 11:28 AM CDT It was so wonderful to hold Alec again. And I get such joy in talking and reading to Aaron. I hope the blankets help to keep them both warm this winter. I am really jealous that Steve could sing to Alec and he would stop crying. Steve thought that was pretty neat. Love Great aunt Julie and Great uncle Steve Julie & Steve Davis <miss-Muffet55@hotmail.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Thursday, September 30, 2004 7:28 AM CDT Praise God! I will be Alec's nurse again. Stephanie called to tell me today that insurance approved RN homecare for Alec. Please pray for the boy I was caring for...that a new nurse be found for him quickly. Then Alec can stay home again and get a lot of attention! love, Anne Anne Butz <anne_butz@hotmail.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, September 28, 2004 9:59 PM CDT Steph & Brad I'm glad to hear that Alec is home from the hospital. I pray that he is doing better and you all are getting some much need rest! We saw Aaron at the football game Friday night and at Church yesterday. He is such a cutie! Kendra and Nicolet love to be around him. Please know that your precious little Alec is in my prayers, and so are you all. I pray for good days to come. Give both of your precious boys a hug from me. God Bless! Love, Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Monday, September 27, 2004 9:18 PM CDT Hi Stephanie, I am glad Trevor and I got to see you and Alec on Saturday. Alec looked so peaceful when he was sleeping, hopefully the docs can find a way to make him that peaceful when awake! I a glad Grandma Marlys was able to sit with Alec and give you guys a break so that you could go to Edna Maes Bday party. Hope you had fun and relaxed for a few hours. I think of you everyday and hope and pray that soon you will have some sort of normalcy (like anyone is normal) at your house. Trevor played lots of soccer over the weekend and ended up winning the tournament. It was quite exciting. Take care of yourself and please call me anytime you need to. I will always be available for you guys. Love ya, Amy Amy Snyders <asnyders@bell-inc.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Monday, September 27, 2004 4:25 PM CDT Hi Alec's family Tanya(LBC)gave me the web site address the other day when we went out for supper. I think she was going to visit Alec after that. I hope he is doing better. I think about the little guy all the time and hope to meet he and the family sometime. I think my husband Nick went to school with Alec's daddy. Ryland's Holoprosencephaly is doing okay and has not had trouble with it lately. You can check his web site at http://rylandjesse.tripod.com we try to keep it updated but it is not always easy to get the time to do it. We keep Alec in our prayers. Summer Jesse, Rylands mommy <rylandsmom350@yahoo.com> Hartford, SD - Sunday, September 26, 2004 0:22 AM CDT Stephanie and Brad, Tom and Kim shared with us this neat site. Aaron and Alec are darling boys and they are lucky to have you. You are such loving, patient and caring parents. We continue to pray for Alec. God will answer prayers. Tim and Susan <tjlong@iw.net> Larchwood, Ia Lyon - Thursday, September 9, 2004 3:18 PM CDT We loved having the boys stay with us this last week-end while mom and dad had a much needed break. I was nervous to take care of all of Alec's special needs, but things went great. Aaron and Alec are the sweetest little boys. We are very blessed!! Love, Grandma Kim Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Monday, September 6, 2004 7:45 PM CDT Steph & Brad Thinking and praying for you as we saw in the church email that you were also feeling ill! May God's healing and comforting hand be ever near and may you know that many family and friends are uplifting you daily in love and prayer! Have a great Labor Day weekend! Love, Knobs... P.S. Please let us know if we could do anything for you!!!! Mitch, Amy, and Hayley Knoblock <amyknoblock@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA - Friday, September 3, 2004 9:18 PM CDT Steph & Brad, This is the most precious web-site. I am so glad that you gave me the address. I pray for Alec and you all so often. He is just a precious little angel and you two are wonderful parents to him and Aaron. I really enjoyed the time that we got to spend with Aaron. If you ever need me to watch Aaron or Alec again, let me know. Thanks for keeping us all up on his progress. Love & Prayers, Dar Dar Gerber <brdrknic@alliancecom.net> Lester, IA Lyon - Monday, August 30, 2004 3:40 PM CDT Hi all... I just found a great web site about sensory stimulation in brain injured children. www.kidscanlearn.net/sensory.htm Check it out sometime. Have a great weekend! Anne Anne Butz <anne_butz@hotmail.com> - Saturday, August 28, 2004 9:51 AM CDT Hi Guys! We've been thinking about you and hoping everything is going well. Let us know if there is anything you need! Amy, Chris and Haley <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, August 26, 2004 9:12 AM CDT Hi, I love your web sight and it is great to be able to see how Alec is doing. You have 2 precious boys and I want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you!! I hope Alec starts to feel better soon. Carol Smidt <cjsmidt@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 3:59 PM CDT Alec - You're a lucky little boy to be surrounding by such loving and caring parents, family and friends. Brad and Steph you amaze me! I keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. I talked to a football mom friend in Algona, IA last night and she asked how Alec was doing -- she's praying for you too. Thanks for the updates...Miki Miki <miki@alliancecom.net> - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 6:05 AM CDT Hi all! My prayers are still with you daily and I miss my baby Alec and the rest of you. Steph- i'll call you for lunch. love Anne Anne Butz <anne_butz@hotmail.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 11:38 PM CDT Amber filled me in on all your challenges with Alec and want you to know our thoughts and prayers for his healing are with you. Know that God's grace is in the little things and Alec is truly a blessing, and a light for learning and love that may be hard to see at times. Keep strong and know there are family and friends thinking and praying for him and your whole family. All our love, Vicki and Lee Rath Vicki <rath@pfire.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 4:31 PM CDT Amber filled me in on all your challenges with Alec and want you to know our thoughts and prayers for his healing are with you. Know that God's grace is in the little things and Alec is truly a blessing, and a light for learning and love that may be hard to see at times. Keep strong and know there are family and friends thinking and praying for him and your whole family. All our love, Vicki and Lee Rath Vicki <rath@pfire.net> Larchwood, IA Lyon - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 4:29 PM CDT We are praying for you and can't wait for you to be back home. We look forward to having Alec and Aaron stay with us in a couple of weeks. Should be interesting learning all of this new feeding info. Love and prayers, Grandma Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Thursday, August 19, 2004 9:47 AM CDT Hi Stephanie and Brad! Hope Alec is doing well. Of course I just found out this morning that he was in the hospital doing this diet thing. I apologize for not keeping up to date! You are all in my prayers and if you ever need me to do something you are always welcome to call. Take care of yourself I will talk to you soon. Amy Snyders <asnyders@bell-inc.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Wednesday, August 18, 2004 10:10 AM CDT So far, so good! We're thinking of you guys and hope to see you tonight! Amy, Chris and Haley <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, August 17, 2004 11:52 AM CDT I am so glad to have seen you at the party on Saturday. Thank you so so so much for sharing Alec's story with me. I wish all of you the best. This is a great place to keep in touch with you and your family since we've lost touch over the years. Keep your faith! -The other Amber Amber, Katie & Matthew <amberlhess@hotmail.com> Larchwood, IA - Monday, August 16, 2004 8:50 PM CDT Stephanie and Brad: I was sorry to hear of the injury. I am glad everyone is okay. I really appreciate this website! I spelled it correctly. We will continue to pray for Alec and the family. It was great to see you in Church Sunday. Don Donald N Nelson <donaldm@alliancecom.net> Alvord, IA United States - Monday, August 16, 2004 10:59 AM CDT It was great to see you guys this past weekend. I was so glad you were able to make it. Aaron and Alec are both beautiful little boys! Alec looks wonderful and is so lucky to belong to such a wonderful family. You are in our thoughts & prayers. Take care, Amber & Erica Amber & Erica Kellenberger <nicholask@alliancecom.net> Rock Rapids, IA US - Sunday, August 15, 2004 7:49 PM CDT Steph~ what an amazing family you have. My heart was touched when I read your entries. Keep up the awesome honor of being a mommy to both of your children. And continue your workouts at Curves to take away some of the stress you have in your day. I love seeing ya at Curves!!! Brenda Brenda Robertson <queenb_robert@hotmail.com> Sioux Falls, SD US - Saturday, August 14, 2004 4:43 PM CDT Glad to hear your vacation went well and everyone stayed healthy! This website is wonderful and it is nice to be able to keep up with all of your updates without having to bug you guys all the time. Let us know if you need anything during your stay next week at SVH. Love you all! Kari Garry <garryk@siouxvalley.org> Tea, SD - Friday, August 13, 2004 1:00 PM CDT I have to keep coming to this web site to get my "fix" of Alec!!! I stare at his picture and comment to Rich or the boys about how cute he is. I miss him so much and of course pray at least daily for you all. Love, Anne Anne <anne_butz@hotmail.com> SF, SD USA - Thursday, August 12, 2004 10:33 PM CDT Thank you for such a wonderful update and information concerning Alec. What a wonderful web sight. Stephanie and Brad, you are God's gift to Alec; as well as he to you. You are so loving and attentive. I continue to pray for both of you and Alec as his medical program continues to move forward. I am Praying for the health care nurse opportunity. God loves you and so do Myra and I. P.S. - Stephanie and Brad, I forgot to ask you. Would you like to be placed on the Church E-mail newsletter? Donald N Nelson <seedsoffaith@alliancecom.net> Alvord, IA United States - Monday, August 9, 2004 2:34 PM CDT I just checked out Alec's website for the first time and was so touched. It will be a wonderful way for Alec's prayer warriors to pray for him-of course we pray for mom, dad and big brother, too. We love you guys so much and know that God will take care of you. Hope you have a wonderful and safe vacation-it was great to see you in church yesterday. Lex Knobloch <knobdlbb@alliancecom.net> - Monday, August 9, 2004 11:01 AM CDT Thanks for the little card, Kim. I enjoyed checking out the website. Alec is very beautiful and he has a pretty darn good looking brother too. I am sure you get tired of going over and over all the details of his care with so many people who are interested and who care. This way, many people can get the answers by reading your journal entries. I will visit again. Hope to see more pictures. They are fun! Carol Carol Childress <chilfarm@alliancecom.net> - Sunday, August 8, 2004 8:10 PM CDT I love this website. You do an awesome job of journaling so that we can stay on top of Alec's progress. I hope all of you have a great time on vacation. I know Grandma Kim is eager to go!!! You are constantly in my prayers! Love, Carrie Carrie Van Egdom <vanegdom@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, July 28, 2004 9:18 PM CDT I am so excited for vacation. I am praying everyone is healthy and we have an awesome week playing with Alec and Aaron. They were so good last week-end when they stayed with us and Alec was so fun to snuggle. I am so glad we can do that again without all the extra tubes. Steve and Joan saw him sleeping in my lap from across church and said he looked like the sweetest little angel....I told them he was!!! And that he is very blessed to have such an awesome Mom and Dad. You two are wonderful parents and I am very proud of you. luv, Mom Kim <tk@svtv.com> - Wednesday, July 28, 2004 9:46 AM CDT Katelyn says, "Hi. She is sitting at the computer at Grandma Pat's but can't think of anything to say-imagine that" The rest of us (Darcy, Kristin, Kyle, Austin, Sara) are all glad to see Alec doing so well. We can truly see a lot of big changes and are so proud of him. We sure were glad to see him tonight. Kristin Nelson <nelsonkr@siouxvalley.org> Hartford, SD USA - Monday, July 26, 2004 9:23 PM CDT Alec looks so wonderful!! I just want to go hold him and give him a great big hug! I didn't get to do that last time I saw him since he was sleeping, but I know I'll be making a special trip just to do that! Keep up the great work mom, dad, and big brother! Tanya Sandness <laneybearcare@aol.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, July 26, 2004 11:25 AM CDT HI ALEC GLAD TO HEAR YOU ARE DOING MUCH BETTER. WE WILL SEE YOU IN AUGUST AND YOU WILL GET TO MEET ANOTHER COUSIN THOMAS. LOVE YOU DEAN AND TAMMY Dean and Tammy Ideker <trb3164@aol.com> Rapid, SD USA - Friday, July 23, 2004 10:32 PM CDT What a wonderful picture of Alec. His eyes are so focused. He has come a long way which is due to prayers and to his wonderful parents and supportive extended family. He is so blessed, and I am blessed for having known him! "nurse" Anne Anne Butz <anne_butz@hotmail.com> SF, SD USA - Wednesday, July 21, 2004 7:03 PM CDT Hi Alec! Hope you are loving your new MicKey button as much as Haley is loving hers! Say hi to Aaron for us and your mom and dad too. Maybe we'll see you soon! Amy, Chris & Haley <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, July 20, 2004 5:12 PM CDT Every so often God sends one of his angels to earth to live among us to touch our lives. Brad and Stephanie, God has blessed you with the care of one of his most precious special angels and you are doing such a marvelous job! We are all so proud of you! Looks like I need to make a blanket to go with Alec's little hunting suit. Aunt Diane <Diane.M.Trei@usdoj.gov> Sioux Falls, SD - Monday, July 19, 2004 11:37 AM CDT Hi Alec!! You are such a little sweetheart and what a precious smile you have. I'm so glad to hear you are doing better and look forward to you getting your tube removed so I can cuddle you again. Love you, Great Grandma Marlys Marlys Snyders <marvel3@alliancecom.net> Larchwood, IA USA - Thursday, July 15, 2004 6:27 PM CDT Hi Alec, It is so nice to see you smiling. You are so blessed to have such an awesome mom and dad....and brother...who take such good care of you. Keep smiling for your angels!! Grandma Kim Kim Blauwet <tk@svtv.com> - Tuesday, July 13, 2004 4:34 PM CDT What a cutie - I can't wait until we get to spend a whole week with Alec and Aaron (Brad and Steph can come too!). We get to spend a week relaxing and playing with the boys - the first week of August. They will be sooo spoiled! You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Lisa Duncan <lisa.duncan@mckennan.org> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, July 6, 2004 9:21 AM CDT To my great-grandson, Alec: You are the cutest little baby in the world. Grandpa Gus and Grandma Edna love you very much. We hope you are feeling better soon. With all our love, Grandpa and Grandma Edna Mae Blauwet <edna01@mailstation.com> Larchwood, IA USA - Saturday, July 3, 2004 9:43 PM CDT Dear Alec, You are so precious! You have lots of love to give and you are such a wonderful snuggly baby. I'm so happy I had the chance to hold you today. And you were so alert and tried to talk. I'm sending you more healing touch. Lots of love, your great-aunt Julie Julie Davis <davis.julie.k@principal.com> Ankeny, IA USA - Saturday, July 3, 2004 8:39 PM CDT Now there's a cherub smiling! 8^) Anne <anne_butz@hotmail.com> SF, SD - Friday, July 2, 2004 11:18 PM CDT Hi Alec! It's nice to see a photo of you after hearing so much about you from your Mommy. This CaringBridge website will be a great way to keep friends and family up to date on the things you are doing. We really like ours! Hope to meet you soon in person. Amy <mcgourty@lycos.com> Sioux Falls, SD USA - Friday, July 2, 2004 2:04 PM CDT Alec IS a little cherub!! I am anxious for him to be on the ketogenic diet...hopefully that's why he did so well after surgery. Ilove him very much and pray over him for his healing. He is a very lucky boy to have such wonderful parents. Anne <anne_butz@hotmail.com> Sioux Falls, SD - Wednesday, June 30, 2004 5:43 PM CDT | |||||||||||
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