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Dear Jean, It's been such a long time since I've written to you in your guestbook. I'm not sure why. Alysa called me today and told me about your entry about a friend who lost her husband and asked her friends to write their memories of him and send them to her and that you would like that to be done for Frankie as well. I have so many wonderful memories of Frankie, and know that soon, January 16th will be the anniversary of her surgery in Michigan. The two dates, August 26th, Frankie's birthday (and Rick's) and January 16th, her surgery (and Alysa's birthday) are always in the back of my mind. For next Christmas, the stocking will have some of my memories of Frankie for you to share with the children. Thank you for offering that. Happy New Year to all of you. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, December 31, 2007 5:14 PM CST

Jean,
Wishing you a Very Happy New Year!
I know that there will always be a
huge hole in the fabric of your
family life. My wish for you is
that you can find a way to cope
with that hole and mend the tear a
bit so it won't be so big and hurt
so much.
Praying for all of you.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 31, 2007 4:45 PM CST

Dear Jean,
Thank you for sharing the letter.
It fits so very well.
Yes, it makes us think that we can do anything.
Happy New Year to all of your family. My prayers are with you every day.
Jacqui
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Monday, December 31, 2007 2:23 PM CST

Jean,
What a great way to end the Year.
Norman Rockwell, Italian food, friends and
time with you.
We will have to have a movie time scheduled
throughout the New Year.
Maybe a movie and foot rub combo.
Thanks for the wonderful time.
The kids appreciate the museum experience and
learning in general. That's one of the gifts
you have given them, making learning fun.
With all the dreams we have for the New Year,
I would enjoy making times like that more often.
Blessings on each and every one,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, ohio usa - Monday, December 31, 2007 7:12 AM CST

Jean,
What an awesome reading about the shoes.
I'm sure that anyone who has lost a child
will relate to that.
Blessings and prayers are sent your way as the
New Year approaches.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 30, 2007 11:29 AM CST

Jean,
I am up with you tonight as you work.
I'm hoping the night goes well.
I imagine you working with your good buddies
and know that if they are there it goes much faster.
Hardest part could be getting sleep when you get home.
Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Glad to hear the Radwany's gathered the Wilson's and
Frisone's. Nothing like life long friends.
Sure have so many sugar plums dancing in my head from
our gathering. Julie's cookie name place cards.
You girls and guys taking over the kitchen. Our talks
around the table. Your brothers and sisters all gathered
to enjoy eachother, teaching the little ones the importance of family. Game time.
John's entertainment.
Gina out on the "field" with all the guys playing football.
Mario giving his ginger bread house to Jami.
Jami, Mario and Vince traveling band of buddies, playing
so well together.
Sharing love from N.J.
We are blessed to be able to all be in one place.
The rest is icing.
I'll look forward to making plans for Sunday.
Call as you are headed for home, we can keep
eachother awake.
I love you,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, ohio usa - Friday, December 28, 2007 1:39 AM CST

What a beautiful letter.
I read it several times
and each time, it made my
skin tingle. I believe the
letter illustrates just what
Heaven is like for our loved ones
who have entered.
May the Frisones and their extended family
find much joy and peace in 2008.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com (www.caringbridge.org/ny/gabrieldavid)>
- Thursday, December 27, 2007 9:08 PM CST

Jean,
Wishing you peace and comfort.
Praying for all of you.
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, December 27, 2007 4:55 PM CST

I'm glad you had a nice Christmas Jean. It will get easier. We have made a tradition of visiting the cemetery on Christmas Eve, sprinkling a little glitter on the grave site, putting down some small lights and singing Silent Night. That works for us. You will eventually have your own traditions that include Frankie somehow too! I hope you find even more peace in the new year.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, December 26, 2007 5:24 PM CST

Jean,
Sending you love and prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 26, 2007 9:36 AM CST

Jean: So glad to hear that all your siblings were
with you all yesterday. The love of your family and
all of us will help you through the difficult times.
As I wrote before, one of my favorite memories
(although a selfish one), was when I finally got the
chance to hold Frankie and she let me of her own free
will! What an accomplishment I thought - I had been
able to hold and play with all the kids since starting
at the agency and Frankie was the hold out!! I also
remember bringing her one of my Elmos (and no one ever
got one of those from me!) to the Clinic and an ever
so faint smile came across her face when I played with
her with it. We have wonderful memories of the ever
present love and courage you showed for your child. I
will never forget that and you inspire all of us.
We send lots of love to all of you. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12358@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 8:57 AM CST

Jean,
To write memories brings a flood of emotions.
I'm glad so many are willing to go there,
expressing their care for her as if she was
their family. How blessed we are to have a
child like this to lead us.
For sure she loved you.
She relied on you for her every moment care.
But she had deep love for Mark and her brothers
and sisters. I so appreciated her passionate
care for her Dad and the kids.
When she would be struggling, it was like a parade
of entertainment. Each one would come through her
room with funny skits to distract her. Those antics
were a pure act of love. So was Hey Ho.
I reflect often on her last night and day with us.
You were, as for every moment of her life, focused
on balancing the demands of the family, and
incredibly locked in to her every change and need.
Calling the doctors, following the ever changing
orders. I really don't know how you did it.
Uncle Phil was right. Thinking of you holding
her for hours is a reminder of what Mary did.
She did not want to let go any more that you.
She understands. She will bless you.
Give her the cares of your heart, the needs of your
family. It is no secret, Frankie is with us.
She will intercede for you.
Our hearts ache as we navigate through all the "firsts"
You were strong and courageous as you made ever difficult
decision for her. I so understand why you are worn, discouraged and heart broken. But have Faith, she
will bring you the Joy you need in your heart to continue.
She will wrap it in the most beautiful ways.
Look this year for her gifts to you.
She will honor you as you cared for her,
with a pure love.
You said it best, one down eight to go.
She has achieved the ultimate goal,
she will help you carry the other children
to Jesus.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, ohio usa - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 6:39 AM CST

Hey Jean and family , its Denise from M40, one memory I think of often is when I was pulling Frankie in the wagon on one of her sleepless nights, and we were down the m41 hallway and I was very tired and I ended up tripping over my own feet and turned around to find her laughing at me, I thought to myself, if only I could trip myself 40 times to see her have a smile on her face!! God bless you all this holiday season.
Denise <denroot@aol.com>
Parma, OH USA - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 3:50 AM CST

You are always in my
thougths and prayers--
and in my heart.
I just haven't been able
to find the words to say to
you this Christmas.
I send you Love and Hugs.
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 10:43 PM CST

Merry Christmas to the Frisone family. I hope you had many moments of joy today. It was so nice to visit with you. I hope you finally got to watch your movie! I wish you would have been able to watch "The Sullivans" before you lost Frankie. It would be too hard for you to watch it now, maybe someday. I can't imagine losing one of my children, but they lost all 5 sons on a ship. The reason I wanted you to see it way back was that their household reminded me of yours. They only had 6 kids but they made up for it in the ornary department. But when things got tough, they stuck together. Those parents had to be doing what you do, open that memory bank and think back to the things that made that child special. Frankie may have had a shorter time to create memories, but she did it with more people than someone 40 times her age! Frankie was too special of a child not to be shared with others. Had she not been sick, so many people would have missed out on the joy of Frankie. I try to tell myself that it was God's plan from day one, but I wish now he would come up with the rest of the plan to ease all of our aching hearts. My sister gave me a beautiful gift for Christmas. She hesitated about doing it because she didn't want me to cry. The last gift she gave me was a beautiful musical globe with an angel. It was engraved "In memory of Frankie". And yes, I cried and Patty was saying "I'm sorry" But I told her not to apoligize because I do cry sometimes when I think of her, she is in my heart and I miss her. Not acknowledging her doesn't make the hurt go away. She was your litle girl, but you shared her with us, the joy and the pain. I will continue to keep you in my prayers, Love and hugs, Debbi P.S. Do you think they do 'HEY HO' in Heaven? It kind of makes you smile to think about it , doesn't it?
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 9:38 PM CST

Thinking of You and Wishing You Peace, Comfort and Joy this Christmas Day! God Bless!
Love~Hugs~Prayers from S.C.
Darline Rollins <drollins07@yahoo.com>
Kershaw, S.C. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 5:51 PM CST

Jean,
Merry Christmas!

My best memory of Frankie is at the Kent Fest
last year. You were pulling her in the wagon
and she was looking around in wonder at all
the activities. She was always so alert and
interested in everything.

My second best memory was her first birthday
party. She looked like a princess and she
held herself like one. It was wonderful of
your family to share her special day with all
of us who prayed for her. I will cherish that
memory all the days of my life.

May God hold all of you near today and every
day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_laucj1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 25, 2007 12:06 AM CST

Jean;

I so remember Frankie's first birthday. You were holding her, those big beautiful brown eyes and that killer smile, Mary Ellen and I posed for a picture with the two of you....that is forever etched in my mind. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of her celebration. Now we are a part of her celebration in Heaven, she is truly rejoicing, pain free. Love,
Anne Marie & Mary Ellen <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 10:59 AM CST

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO THE FRISONE FAMILY.
It was good to be together.
Our 4 year olds were so cute.
Your cooking so appreciated by all.
John's entertainment a hoot.
It was good to sit and talk, how affirming.
I read an advent reflection to Gail this morning
that reminded me of the grace present while hearing Joe
relate the memories of the past. The reflection
said that it is important to see Jesus in those who
do that with us. That sure captured what I felt
as he shared with Gina all your strenghts and qualities.

Blessings on each of you as you this day and
all of the New Year,
I Love You,
Grandma, Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, ohio usa - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 9:18 AM CST

Jean, Mark and children...you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Anne Marie & Mary Ellen <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, - Monday, December 24, 2007 11:52 PM CST

Frisone family,
I just wanted to let you all know that we are thinking of you. I can not imagine how difficult it is going through a holiday without your precious little one. Although I don't sign often I ALWAYS check on our favorite roommates family. My thoughts are with you and as always, prayers are and will be prayed for peace and strength. Sending you heart hugs from the south :)

Your heart family,
www.caringbridge.org/visit/sawyerdt
The Tolberts <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
asheville, nc - Monday, December 24, 2007 7:59 PM CST

The below poem was one that I came across a couple of years ago. I keep a copy of it on my computer for those who have lost and come upon Christmas. This year, I thought maybe you could really use this...
Julie Kline <tani_meezer@hotmail.com>
Mogadore, Oh USA - Monday, December 24, 2007 5:55 PM CST

My first Christmas in Heaven

I see the countless Christmas Trees around the world below.
With tiny lights, like heaven's stars, reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular! Please wipe away that tear,
for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear,
but the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
for it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me. I see the pain inside your heart,
but I am not so far away. We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me dear ones. You know I hold you dear
and be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I send you each a special gift from my heavenly home above.
I send you each a memory of my undying love.
After all "LOVE" is the gift, more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do,
for I can't count the blessings or love He has for you.

So, have a Joyous Christmas and wipe away that tear.
Remember, I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

Julie Kline <tani_meezer@hotmail.com>
Mogadore, Ohio USA - Monday, December 24, 2007 5:49 PM CST

Jean and Mark: Just a quick note to wish you all
a Merry Christmas. You will all be in our thoughts
and prayers. Lots of love is being sent your way.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Monday, December 24, 2007 6:15 AM CST

Jean,
Prayers and loving thoughts are sent your way
this Lord's Day.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 23, 2007 1:05 PM CST

Hi Jean, I hope that you had a wonderful day with all your family. Your mother is a such a super cook! I still remember her contributions to the street picnic.
Merry Christmas,
Linda Albers Serotta
Linda Albers Serotta
Cherry Hill , NJ - Saturday, December 22, 2007 5:54 PM CST

Jean; Thoughts and prayers are with you. Please know what an inspiration you have been to me and to so many others. I know we must sound like a broken record, but it's true...you give us strength and encouragement when we need it the most.

God Bless you and yours!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, - Saturday, December 22, 2007 4:06 PM CST

Jean,
How inspirational are your writings. I have
read many of Max Lucado's books. Our church
has used many of them in Bible study sessions.

It is truly wonderous how God connects us with
books and people just when we need them the most.
Many times in my life when I was in the depths
of dispair, a friend that I hadn't heard from
in a long time would call or I would find a book
that inspired me. That is one of the wonders of
the Christian faith, that God never leaves us
alone to face our problems, that He sends us the
means to survive yet another tragedy or loss.

I will continue to pray for all of you, as I
have for over three years. May the wonder of
this Holy Season bring you and your family
comfort and peace as we celebrate the birth
of our Lord and Savior, Jesus.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 22, 2007 7:27 AM CST

What an encouragement YOU have
been to others, Jean. Through your
journal entries, I have gained an
entirely new perspective on life.
Your honesty and openness on your
journey to healing has enriched my life.

I pray that 2008 will be a year full
of blessings and continued healing for you
and your awesome family.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com (www.caringbridge.org/ny/gabrieldavid)>
- Saturday, December 22, 2007 6:28 AM CST

Dear Jean,
Thank you for the heartfelt Christmas card! I stood in the post office reading it and crying (something I do a lot of these days) This Christmas is harder than last because I was still in shock ( Patrick passed on November 7th). That is why I haven't written in a while. However, I do pray for you and Mark and the children every day. I have now read all of the books which you recommended, plus a few more. They have brought me understanding and comfort. Also Max Lucado is one of my favorite Christian writers. I have attended several Bible-studies based on his books. In reading your journal entries, I can so very much identify with you. Patrick lived 46 years in suffering from age 16 on, and I did not have the privilege of holding him when he passed or even seeing him afterward as you did Frankie. No matter how they went or how long it has been, it is as if it were yesterday. But we know that life must go on and there are so many to be taken care of. My job has been a life-line for me, since my children are all grown, but I remember what it was like to have 7 running around and going thru puberty and the terrible teens. Yes, a reality show is what it seemed like a lot! May God continue to bless us as we walk these uncharted waters.
Can you imagine what Jesus' birthday in Heaven must be like! They are celebrating it with Him!
Merry Christmas
Jacqui

Jacquieline Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Oh USA - Thursday, December 20, 2007 3:38 PM CST

"May the angels surround and protect you"
I have always loved this prayer.
What amazing angels you have!
The wish Melissa sent backed by their gifts
of love and care,
hearing from Linda after all these years, and
having Linda and Melissa as friends in N.J.
If you ever have any wonder how God is the conductor
of a beautiful orchestra, bringing us all together in
harmony.
BLESSINGS BE IN ALL YOUR HOMES
MAY THE LOVE, PRAYERS AND CARE YOU HAVE EXTENDED
TO THE FRISONE'S
RETURN TO YOU A THOUSAND FOLD.
MERRY CHRISTMAS,
Rita
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Thursday, December 20, 2007 3:28 PM CST

Jean, I haven't written in awhile, and just wanted to let you know that each day I see Frankie's picture on my bulletin board and are reminded of what a very specail girl she was and what a great family she was a gift to. Know that you and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers and hope that the wonder and beauty of this very special season touch you in a blessed way. Barb
Barb Moledor <barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Thursday, December 20, 2007 3:24 PM CST

Today...I wish you a day of ordinary miracles-
A fresh pot of coffee you didn't have to make yourself.
An unexpected phone call from an old friend.
Green stoplights on your way to work or shop.
I wish you a day of little things to rejoice in...
The fastest line at the grocery store.
A good sing along song on the radio.
Your keys right where you look.
I wish you a day of happiness and perfection-little byte-size pieces of perfection that give you the funny feeling that the Lord is smiling on you, holding you so gently because you are someone special and rare.
I wish You a day of Peace, Happiness and Joy.

MELISSA, LARRY and SAM BENNETT <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Thursday, December 20, 2007 3:15 PM CST

Jean,
As busy as this time of year is, my thoughts keep turning to you. Whether organizing gifts, making cookies, scrubbing bathrooms or dealing with the kids, I know you're doing all the same things, and I think, "I wonder how Jean is doing with this right now?" ....and I say little prayers for you. I know Frankie and the Christ Child keep taking time from their play to do the same.
Love, Kathy

Kathy Lofreso
- Thursday, December 20, 2007 5:08 AM CST

A friend forwarded this link to me and I thought
of you. I hope that it is as moving for you as it was for me.
http://www.valenciahills.com/Logan
Praying for you and your family as this difficult first
holiday without your little girl approaches.

An admirer of your strength
Cleveland, Ohio - Wednesday, December 19, 2007 5:03 PM CST

Jean, I've been talking to Melissa about the wonderful times that I had with your family when I was a little kid. I hope that God will give you the strength to get out the sleds and to race down the hill with your children in your mother's front yard. Your family had so much joy, and were so much fun! And, your mother made such wonderful cups of hot chocolate. Your family made great memories for me! I am thankful that your family included me in the games and fun! I hope that God will grant you a special Christmas wish and bring you comfort and joy.

The picture of your children is absolutely beautiful. The younger boys look exactly like your brother Joe. (At least my memory of what he looked like at that age).

My mother said that she met your Frankie once, and that she was a beautiful child. I am sorry that I never had the pleasure of meeting her.

Merry Christmas to you!
Linda Albers Serotta

P.S. Does your mother still have a spinning wheel? Susan and I were fascinated by it.
Linda Albers Serotta
Cherry Hill, NJ - Wednesday, December 19, 2007 1:22 PM CST

Jean: Sorry I haven't written in a few days.
I was preparing for Kozue's visit and Monday
was wonderful. She looks the same and is just
as sweet as ever. I told her I was going to
take her passport and not let her go back to
Japan!! She remembers coming to your house
and sends her best to you all.
These holidays are going to be rough - that is
a fact but you will get through them. You are
surrounded by so many who love you and the most
important one of all, our Lord, is watching you
all constantly. I talked with Mrs. Schubert
yesterday at the Holiday Give-Away and it warmed
our hearts knowing that my Dad and Mr. Schubert
were there with Frankie.
We continue to keep you all in our prayers and
send lots of love. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Wednesday, December 19, 2007 6:46 AM CST

Jean,
The Christmas pictures are adorable. I'm
sure they are also heart rending. My prayers
are with you each and every day. I know that
no matter how difficult this Christmas is, you
will survive because your faith is strong enough.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 18, 2007 8:23 PM CST

Jean,
I love the Christmas morning picture on the steps.
Wild hair day. How very precious is each face.
These days are flying by, I look forward to gathering.

I can't believe Linda knows your friends in NJ
It is a small world. So good to hear from her.
The circle of love keeps going round.
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 8:04 PM CST

Dear Jean,
You are SO right in that your loving safety net is always lifting you
up in prayer. It is such a blessing for me to see Frankie's
face before me each morning as I check in for up-dates.
Your God, your family and your huge extended family is
here for you. You know this. May this special season bring you the very best gift---PEACE. Hugs to you today!
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
- Tuesday, December 18, 2007 8:05 AM CST

Oops - - my closest friend in Cherry Hill is the wife of your husband's friend from law school. The kids are running around. I mistyped.

Linda A. Serotta <lindaserotta@comcast.net>
Cherry HIll, NJ USA - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 5:58 AM CST

Dear Jeannie,

I have been disconnected from the world of Dayton Avenue for several years because I've been taking care of an autistic 6 year old with multiple medical problems. My heart goes out to you and your family.

I've read that some families who have lost children start a giving tradition in the child's honor. For example, some families collect stuffed animals to deliver to hospitals during the holidays, or books/magazines to a pediatric ward. Other children are remembered through environmentalism - - planting trees and gardens in public spaces - - making the world more beautiful.

It is amazing how small the world is - - my closest friend in Cherry Hill is your husband's friend from law school. I didn't make the connection until yesterday.

Again, I hope that each day brings you more sunshine.

All the best for the holidays,
Linda Albers Serotta

Linda Albers Serotta
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 5:56 AM CST

Jean,
I still hear John's little voice,
"Happy Tuesday" he would say.
Can you believe he will be 28 in a few short weeks.

I received an email from a long time supporter of your
family. She just was on a mission to put a smile on your
face. How very kind. I think she will be very successful,
but just the generous, kind, and persistant energy
she was putting into her efforts put a smile on my face.
So very many have that wish an intent for your family.

I know the holidays are difficult and rightfully so.
But this is just not any holiday.
If we keep focused, as you wrote on the meaning of this
season.
I can tell you, as our family gathers, each person
is so happy when you are present. Come to think of it,
we are blessed because we feel that way about
every member of the family. But when one of us is
suffering, I experience an uncommon love and compassion.
That is Christmas at any time of the year.

As much as I look forward to gathering, I carry with me
the joy that no matter what happens in each of our lives
that we try to be there for each other.
If physical presence is not possible,
we can count on our call for prayer to be answered.
Ready to guide more by example than lecture,
love over judgement, but challenge
to grow in the ways of wisdom.
We have had many "opportunities" to do this.
This New Year will be no different.
Jesus will remind us, "I came just for you.
I came to give you a full measure of living examle.
Do this and remember me."
It will be the love that carries you through.
The love of Jesus, I see reflected in all who love you.

I love that we had a shopping time, and coffee all by
ourselves at Borders. I love that we made grandma's
ravioli together. Let's gift eachother with ordinary
love through the days ahead.
God bless each and every one of you with
Peace in your hearts and home.
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 3:34 AM CST

I'm thinking and praying for you over the holidays Jean. This year will be the hardest I'm sure. May Mother Mary hold you close to her heart now and always.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Monday, December 17, 2007 6:19 PM CST

Thinking of all of you during the holidays.
Jenn <jmatlack01@yahoo.com>
Parkman, OH - Sunday, December 16, 2007 1:38 PM CST

Jean,
Holidays are a stressful time for families.
Your family will have a lot more stress this
year than before. Please don't beat yourself
up if you can't smooth out all the wrinkles.
No mother can, especially not one in grief.
Just remember, the kids all suffer too. God
will guide you through this Christmas Season.
Continuing to pray for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 16, 2007 10:36 AM CST

In spite of the pains of the day, actually for the negatives as well as the beautiful miracles...I give thanks. God give you many blessings.
Lynne
Lynne <lynnetony@sbcglobal.net>
Stow, 0hio - Saturday, December 15, 2007 4:55 PM CST

Jean,
What a wonderful reminder to give thanks every day.
No matter what trials face us there is always
something to be thankful for, even if it is
just being alive.

We have a lot to be thankful for. Fred and I
are getting our health back. All of our
children and their families are doing well.
I thank God every single day for all our many, many blessings.

Wishing you joy and peace this weekend.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 15, 2007 12:23 AM CST

Jean,
What a beautiful reminder
of how we need to give thanks and praise
to our Lord at all times and
during all trials, big and small.
Thinking and praying for you and your
family, especially during this
Christmas season.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, December 14, 2007 7:42 AM CST

Dear Jean, I just wanted to let you know that I think of you and your family often. My sister (Deb Pfleiderer), my mother and I talk about Frankie alot. She touched so many lives in the short time we were blessed to have her. I still miss my weekly phone conversations with her. Please know that you are in our families thoughts and prayers this Holiday Season.
Patty Herdlick <pjrace24@hotmail.com>
N. Canton, OH USA - Thursday, December 13, 2007 9:45 PM CST

Jean: Our Heavenly Father is always with you and
will continue to be especially now with Christmas
approaching. You are always in our prayers and
thoughts and please know that I am only a phone
call away (in case you want to talk to someone
different than normal). We are very excited at
our house for Kozue is coming to visit on the
17th. We haven't seen her in 4 or 5 years and
Monday is not coming fast enough!!!
Hugs and Kisses to you all. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Wednesday, December 12, 2007 11:47 AM CST

Jean,
In my devotionals this morning I came across this
and wanted to share it with you,

There is a story behind every name.
Advent is a good time to trace the
meaning of Jesus' name "Emmanuel",
which means "God is with us." It
also means Jesus is living our night-
mares with us, is not above them,
is not the cause of them, is not
exempt from them, and is abiding
with us."
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 12, 2007 6:21 AM CST

Dear Jean, thank you for the new pictures. At first glance I got that old familiar hurt at seeing her looking so beautiful and perfect. I made myself focus on the impish grin and pulled out some good memories of little miss "I have to try on all of the shoes in my dresser before I go to bed" and how I had to brush up on my Sesame Street to name all of the characters because she knew when I made something up! How lucky I am to have these prescious memories of such a special little girl. You remain in my daily thoughts and prayers, Love, Debbi
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, aoh USA - Tuesday, December 11, 2007 7:59 PM CST

Jean,
Still thinking of you and praying for you,
especially every Tuesday.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 11, 2007 5:19 PM CST

Jean,
My friend Gail Willmott always prayed for Frankie.
Her Mom told me, if you ever need prayers for anything,
ask Gail, "She is our family Saint"
You would never know how much she suffers herself.
Through all of her struggles, she never complains.
She is praying for Luke.
I know all of these prayers will make a difference.
Blessings on this Tuesday,
Love, Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Tuesday, December 11, 2007 4:09 PM CST

I love the new pictures, Jean. May you feel peace and find the strength to move forward today and everyday. Frankie's memory will always be with each and everyone of us whose lives she touched, and continues to touch.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, - Sunday, December 9, 2007 2:42 PM CST

Jean,
The pictures are lovely, thank you for sharing
them with us.

The reading this morning is very meaningful.
We often think that we should be given a
break after we survive many tragedies,
but it doesn't work that way.

This morning I was reading the words from
"It Came Upon A Midnight Clear" and this
verse struck me as very profound.

"And ye beneath life's crushing load
whose forms are bending low, who toil along
the climbing way, with painful steps and
slow, look now for glad and golden hours come
swiftly on the wing; O rest beside the weary
road and hear the angels sing."

May you have a peaceful and meaningful Lord's
Day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 9, 2007 8:10 AM CST

Jean,
Thank you for sharing that meaningful song with us.
No matter how low you get you always find something
inspirational to give all of us.
Hoping that your weekend is filled with memories
that make you happy and new experiences to sustain
you.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 7, 2007 4:28 PM CST

Jean,
What a beautiful prayer.
Keeping you and your family
in my prayers always, but especially
during this Christmas season.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, December 7, 2007 4:48 AM CST

Jean,
Thank you for sharing that meaningful prayer.
I am sure that there are many people who will
always remember Frankie. She was a special
Angel sent to us by God to teach us how to love
and laugh and we will never forget her.
Praying for comfort and healing for you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, December 6, 2007 7:13 PM CST

Jean;
I just had to share this experience with you. I am in the Portage County Leadership class and today was government day. In the afternoon we toured the Juvenile Detention Center and I noticed in the math and science classroom (Mr. Balog's classroom) there were two pictures of Frankie on his wall. I can't tell you the emotions that I felt, especially remembering your posting about how you wished Frankie's memory would live on. I couldn't leave until I knew why her picture was there so I could share this with you. I was told that when Mr. Balog and/or his students are having a bad day, they remember Frankie. That little gal has touched more lives in more ways than we realize.
May you find peace in your heart and the strength you need to accomplish your tasks at hand during the holiday season.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Thursday, December 6, 2007 3:41 PM CST

Jean: We will always remember our loved ones who
have gone before us - everyday memories, holiday
memories and the love we have for those people.
Not a day goes by that I don't think of my Dad.
How I wish he was here to tell me that my
Christmas meal was "fit for a king". I know that
he is watching over me and he is taking care of
Frankie. We need to go on with our lives and
remember that some day we will all be together
again. Our thoughts and prayers are with you
all and lots of love too. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Thursday, December 6, 2007 12:24 AM CST

One of our fond memories of Frankie
is our ravioli making last year.
She was funny and bright, entertaining
us all with her charm and antics.
The picture with the ice cream bucket on
her head captures her spirit.
This year we will gather to remember and
carry on Grandma Melucci's tradition.
I was reading an Advent reflection of a
Jesuit martyr Fr. Delp, that Advent is a
time of promise and a time for uncommon courage.
Thank you for having the uncommon courage
to go on one day at a time. And to host us
for this family tradition in the midst of your pain.
It will be good to be together.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Thursday, December 6, 2007 12:08 AM CST

Jean,
Words fail me, but know my heart aches for you.
Geri Ann
- Wednesday, December 5, 2007 8:38 PM CST

Jean,
I am so glad that you and the girls went to
the remembrance at Children's last night.
I read about it in the paper and was hoping
that you would go. It sounded beautiful. It
sounds like you could go every year. The
speaker sounded very helpful as only someone
who has lost a child can truly understand and
relate to your grief. The poem was beautiful
as well. How comforting it must have been to
join with other parents and feel all the support.

Jean, You have come a long way and even though
you experience setbacks you will get through all
the days and minutes and seconds ahead of you.

May God's blessings be upon you. I continue
to pray for you daily.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 5, 2007 6:03 PM CST

Jean,
My heart breaks for you as I think about
your mixed emotions this Holiday Season.
As always, you are in my thoughts and
prayers daily. I pray that you will find
a way to celebrate the Christmas Season
through your grief. The first holiday
is the worst. You will still remember
Francesca every holiday the rest of your
life, but each one will get a little easier.
Blessings from our Savior and prayers from
those who love and admire you are sent your way.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 6:03 PM CST

Jean: Hope you had a good weekend and everyone
is well. Today is Mark's 45th birthday and I
know he has a Board Meeting so just order out
dinner and act like it's your birthday again!!
You are all in our continued thoughts and
prayers. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Monday, December 3, 2007 6:20 AM CST

Dear Jean,
Hoping that you are doing OK.
I think of you and pray for you
daily.
Blessings,
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 1, 2007 12:47 AM CST

I like your birthday gift.
I don't know if you will enjoy it's
benefits as much as I will.
I love my cup and CD.
Blessings one and all,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Saturday, December 1, 2007 8:36 AM CST

Hey Jean its Denise, its weird how some days I will be here at work at night, and just randomly gravitate to your website, and find you are such an inspiration!!! I hope the holidays bring you cheer, sorry I missed the memorial, I hope you and your family found some comfort in it. Denise
Denise <denroot@aol.com>
Parma, OH USA - Saturday, December 1, 2007 2:44 AM CST

Jean,
Your birthday was like a blur.
The only sleep you got, after working all night was
sitting up, while helping Dom with his school work,
I saw your head bobbing.

Guiseppe's gift was the greatest.
The locket so touching.
Looking forward to baking cookies together,
and having you collect on my gifts to you.

May this year bring a surprising peace and joy,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Thursday, November 29, 2007 9:08 PM CST

Jean,
You probably think that I have lost my mind.
I have been off work so long I don't even
know the date. That will all change on Monday.
It will sure seem strange to be back at work
after 10 weeks off. It won't take me long to
get back in the groove. My office partner
set up my new office and even hooked up my
computer so I can just start to work on Mon.
Hope your birthday was great. Blessing to you
and yours.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, November 29, 2007 10:58 AM CST

Happy Birthday Jean,
December people are kind and loving. I should have
known that you were one of them. Linda Anderson and
I are December people too.
May our Lord and Savior bless and keep you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 28, 2007 1:46 PM CST

Happy Birthday, Jean! You are a wonderful inspiration to so many people...and for that, I thank you!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 11:10 AM CST

Jean- Buzzie came home from school one day and told me she and Sophia had written a letter to Sophia's little sister that died. I asked her more but she said she didn't know. So I did a search and found Frankie's obit and this website. I sat here one evening and read the entire thing. It often brought tears to my eyes. I cannot tell you first, how sorry I am about Frankie's passing. Second, I cannot express the admiration I have for you and your strength and faith. I do not think I would have been able to handle everything you and your family has had to endure for the last years. I hope that you will continue to remain strong. Each day I check the site to read your postings. I feel for you and keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Julie Kline <tani_meezer@hotmail.com>
Suffield, Oh USA - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 9:13 AM CST

JEAN,
WISHING YOU A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY to a wonderful women, mother, wife, daughter and friend. We think of you and the family often. We pray for healing and good health for all of you. Try to take 5 minutes today for yourself.
LOVE, MELISSA, LARRY and SAM ROSE BENNETT
BENNETT FAMILY <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, November 28, 2007 8:08 AM CST

Jean: From your mom's entry,I am going to assume that today is your birthday.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JEAN!! Hope you have a wonderful day. Take the day and enjoy it.
Tell Mark that he needs to bring dinner home tonight!
Hope Dominic is feeling better. Give him a hug and
kiss from us. Know that you are all on our minds
continually. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 6:37 AM CST

Jean,
Praying for you and yours as always.
Wishing you all the best things in
life.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, November 27, 2007 5:03 PM CST

Dear Jean,
You are in my prayers today as always. May peace be in your heart throughout this day and may God send special blessings for all of you as His presence is revealed in new and hope-filled ways.

Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
- Tuesday, November 27, 2007 10:33 AM CST

HAPPY DAY BEFORE YOUR BIRTHDAY JEAN,
Looking forward to spending some time together.
May you be blessed with knowing you are loved,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Tuesday, November 27, 2007 10:27 AM CST

Hope the kids are on the mend.
As usual, you added the best culinary treats to the
family Thanksgiving.
Good for us to be together,
Especially on Maria's birthday.
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Monday, November 26, 2007 2:53 PM CST

Jean,
Continuing to pray for you abd your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, November 26, 2007 9:03 AM CST

Jean: It was great seeing you on Thanksgiving.
The fundraiser was a success as usual and it is
heartwarming to know there are so many caring and
giving people in our community. Hope your holiday
was nice - I'm sure the meal was delicious!!
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Monday, November 26, 2007 6:40 AM CST

Jean,
This is the day that the Lord hath made.
We shanll rejoice and be glad in it.

What wonderful memories you described.
I have always wanted to attend the Brunch Bunch.
We have the holiday at my house and we eat at 2
so I am always too busy. One year I will attend.
This year we had many blessings to celebrate,as
we always have each year. It was a joy to be
able to cook dinner after being down for so long.
Two of my grandchildren spent the night and helped
me prepare for dinner. They had to lift the turkey
and I was grateful they were there.

We attended Francesca's first birthday party and
I remember How beautiful she looked. I remember
thinking that she did not look like she had
endured all the surgeries and procedures of the
past year.

We will always treasure all the times we saw her
and prayed for her. She changed our lives and we
will never forget her.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 25, 2007 7:19 AM CST

Jean; It was wonderful to see you on Thanksgiving. Please know you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 25, 2007 0:40 AM CST

Jean,
HAPPY THANKSGIVING! I know that this will
be a mixed feeling day for your family. I
hope that you will be able to find some
things to be thankful for as well as being
sad because Francesca is not with you.
Always remember that she is with you in
spirit. I pray that you will feel her
with you today.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, November 22, 2007 6:44 AM CST

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
I'm so glad that Guiseppe had such a
good time on Search. It really is a
pretty amazing experience, I know that
my Search changed my life, I hope that
his does at least some of the same.
Going on without Francesca is always
going to be difficult. I wanted to
witness about her at Search, but I couldn't
because it was just too hard, and she wasnt
even my real sister, although it often
felt as though she was. I wish that I could offer
you some good words of comfort, but I don't
really have any.
Just know that I am always praying for you and
that I love you guys all very much.
Love,
josephine
Josephine <josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, Oh - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 9:57 PM CST

Christie gave me a little painted wood box for my
birthday. It has a purple tulip painted on each end.
I put it by the picture of Frankie and will fill it with
our prayer requests.
Even though our hearts are aching, it is a time for giving
thanks and being aware of all the needs of others.
Luke, Gabriel and Sawyer's names are in the box, as is
each member of the family.
A prayer of Thanksgiving is tucked in the box,
for all those who support your family in thought and prayer.
Linda Lauck, we will pray for continued healing for you
and your husband. If you need help unpacking we could
arrange for someone to be there to do the lifting.
THANKSGIVING BLESSINGS TO ONE AND ALL,
Rita
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 11:45 AM CST

Jean,
Your words ae so inspiring to all of us. Thank
you so much for keeping the website open. It has
been a true blessing for those of us that visit
it often.
I have been busy with Fred. I was able to start
driving last week. Fred had his gall bladder out
on Tuesday and came home on Wed. He has been
sleeping a lot and Mon the incision where they
put the camara in started bleeding. I took him
back to Urgent Care at the VA Hospital in Cleve.
yesterday. He has a wound infection. Of course
we were there from 9:30 AM until 5 PM, which was
torture for him as he had to sit all that time
and the incision is at his waist line. Hopefully
this will be the end for both of us for awhile.
I return to work on Mon Dec 3rd to a different
office and all the stress of setting up another
new office when I cannot lift anything. Such is
life.
Take care and have a wonderful Thanksgiving. I
know that it will be hard for your family, but
hopefully with the Brunch Bunch and a family
gathering the day will go quickly.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 21, 2007 10:57 AM CST

It was so good to see you and the kids on Sunday! Looking forward to Thanksgiving!!! Love you!
Jules <jdog782@yahoo.com>
Columbus, OH USA - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 1:52 PM CST

Jean,
Even though I do not write very often, please know that
you and your family continue to be in my prayers.
As I read your entries, I am in awe of your remarkable
strength, courage, and most of all your faith! I wonder if you know how much you inspire all of us that are out here soaking in every thought, word, and feeling you write?
Your last entry included a prayer from Faith in the Valley.
Recently, I have been struggling with a personal dilema. This prayer that you shared with us, spoke directly to me. The words in this prayer, along with another friend's words, have made it quite clear where my intentions need to be! Thank-you for sharing that prayer!!
I hope you continue to share with us your thoughts, as God continues to work amazingly through, with, and in you!

Prayer Warrior
- Tuesday, November 20, 2007 11:11 AM CST

Jean: Thinking of you all with the holidays
approaching. They will be difficult but with
all the love which is being sent your way, it
will help you all get through them. Looking
forward to seeing you all on Thursday at the
Brunch Bunch. Hopefully I will have my pictures
back from the party at the Watsons - will bring
them if I do. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 6:25 AM CST

Jean,
Wishing you a peaceful Lord's day.
MAy the wonderful love of God be
with all of you this day and every
day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 18, 2007 12:40 AM CST

Thinking of Guiseppe and his fellow Searchers as they
learn more about their faith and how very much God
loves them.
Keeping all of them and you in thought and prayer.
I Love You,
Mom
P.S. So good to go on the walk with the home school
group. What a great group of families.
The leaves on the ground, the snow on the trees,
and being with you, what a great birthday present.
Maria and Gina, thank you for making the candle.
We will use it for our Thanksgiving dinner together.
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, November 17, 2007 4:38 PM CST

"When a child loses a parent,
he or she is called an orphan.
When a husband or wife loses a
spouse, s/he is called a widow
or widower. When a parent loses
a child, there is not a word for it."
Ronald Reagan
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
Grand Island, NY - Saturday, November 17, 2007 5:03 AM CST

Jean,
I went out to the mall last Saturday and as I approached the enterance, there were beautiful purple mums on each side of the doors. I immediatly thought of Francesa. My thoughts warmed my heart and I said a prayer for her.
Natalie Roarty <NMarie2428@aol.com>
- Thursday, November 15, 2007 8:00 PM CST

Jean,
Please remember that you will have "grief bombs"
for a long time. You will never truly get over
losing Frankie. I will just become easier and more managable.
May God continue to hold you in his loving arms.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, November 15, 2007 6:47 AM CST

Jean,
Praise God that Gina's eyesight is OK.
Flashbacks are the pits. It's something
that you can't help and you never know when
they will strike.
God is surely working in your life and giving
you the strength to carry on.
Fred had his surgery yesterday and we came home
today. Now it is my turn to take care of him.
He was the most tender and caring caregiver.
The problem is that neither of us can lift, run
the sweeper or push or pull. It is a challange
to get things done with both of us down at the
same time. Thank God I am progressed as far as I am.
Hopefully by the time I return to work on Dec 3rd
things will start getting back to normal.
Will continue to pray for you and yours.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 14, 2007 5:22 PM CST

As you well know, even every day life,
lived with Love, can take discipline and
courage.
I can live out that challenge so much easier,
when I offer my efforts for you and your intentions.
Frankie has made Sainthood before us
and calls us forth with her loving presence.
Love to one and all,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 11:16 AM CST

Continued prayer for you and your family. Read this today in devotional and thought of you all. When we are walking through the green pastures, or over mountains rugged and bare; precious the thought and sweet the assurance, Jesus is always there. B. Lillenas
Rochelle Stein <rojf1@yahoo.com>
kent , ohio - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 8:58 AM CST

Jean: Press on - each day will get a little better
than the previous one. Remember what you wrote -
what a view Frankie has from up in Heaven. Even
though she is not here physically, her spirit is
still between you and Mark playing with the covers.
I'm glad to hear that Gina is okay. Give her a
hug from us. Our continued thoughts and prayers
are with you all. We will probably see you all at
the Brunch Bunch on Thanksgiving - looking forward
to it!! Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 6:48 AM CST

Jean,
As the holidays approach my thoughts and prayers
go out to you. The first holidays after a loss
are the worst. But all holidays will have a
sadness because there is a person missing from
your celebration. It does get easier but it
never goes away.
May God in His infinite mercy and wisdom see
you and your family through these and all the
holidays to come.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, November 12, 2007 8:36 AM CST

Loved being with Angelo and Gina.
We had so much fun cooking and working together.
I treasure the times we share.
Anxious to see what the eye Dr. says.
You remain in my constant thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Monday, November 12, 2007 6:27 AM CST

Guiseppe will be making a Search next week end.
That is a retreat for youth to 21 at Camp Christopher.
I would ask your prayers for this young man,
as he Searches for his Christian Maturity.
At one point on the week end, the Searchers are given
letters of support. Just a reminder of his unique
specialness, and the fact that many are praying and thinking of him.
If anyone is so moved to write a support letter for him,
You could email me, and I will copy it and deliver it
for you.
Keep all these young people in your prayers.
Thank you for all your support and prayers for Jean,
Mark and the kids.
Love,
Rita
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, November 10, 2007 11:48 AM CST

Jean,
Blessings and good wishes for all of you.
Conntinuing to pray for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, November 9, 2007 5:23 PM CST

Dear Jean,
Sending warm thoughts and continued prayers your way.
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
- Friday, November 9, 2007 7:09 AM CST

Jean
Thinking of you!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Thursday, November 8, 2007 10:43 PM CST

Jean: Sorry I haven't written since last week.
Sam and I are in Florida visiting his parents
and putting up a new fence for them. Being down
here brings back memories of earlier this year
when we got Frankie her "Bike Week" t-shirt.
How I wish we could have seen her in it.
Our thoughts and prayers are always with you all.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Thursday, November 8, 2007 5:45 PM CST

What lovely words from the service in Cleveland - thanks for sharing them! I continue to lift you in prayer...
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Thursday, November 8, 2007 11:59 AM CST

Jean,
Today and every day I think of you and your
family and pray for all of you.
Love,
Linda
LInda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, November 7, 2007 9:01 AM CST

Jean,
You obviously take so many opportunities
to learn to endure through your grief. You
are doing the best a person can possibly do
under such circumstances. I am so proud to
be able to call you my friend. You continue
to be in my prayers.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, November 6, 2007 7:42 PM CST

Jean,
The memorial service sounded lovely. What a comfort
to all the parents it must have been. The words also
sound uplifting and comforting.
I continue to pray for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, November 6, 2007 12:32 AM CST

Jean,
Continuing to pray for you and your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, November 5, 2007 2:34 PM CST

We need these reminders to endure the pain
of letting go.
I feel her presence, her inspiration, her spirit.
I miss her so.
Our precious little Saint.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, November 3, 2007 9:42 AM CDT

Jean,
How beautiful the service must have been. I'm sure
that it was very meaningful to you. Hoping that you
and your family will have a wonderful weekend.
I continue to pray for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, November 3, 2007 8:02 AM CDT

I'm sorry I missed the dedication but I am looking forward to going there when things start to bloom again. I had to laugh when I read what you wrote about Halloween. Frankie was a new "terrible two" and although she was a beautiful princess, she would have loved to have worn Mario's costume instead. She always wanted his weapons and loved using them. She could be a stinker sometimes. That's just another way that she gave us such wonderful memories. Every day with her was special and I will miss her for the rest of my life and will always keep you all in my heart.

I saw Debby Missimi the other day at a meeting. We started talking about your little angel, and we both opened our planners as we spoke....to pictures of Frankie! It is a comfort to keep her close and a reminder that life is short and we should live each day to the fullest. Hope to see you all on Thanksgiving. Love and Prayers, Debbi
Debbi Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:58 PM CDT

I think of and pray for you so often.
It is always so inspiring to come to your
site & read how God is working on your
heart and those of your children - thank
you for your transparency - you have no
idea how deeply you have affected me, a
stranger to you, with your depth of faith.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:55 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
Just came back from mass celebrating All Saints Day and was thinking a lot about Frankie, how happy she must be....and how difficult it is for you. Know that you continue to be in my prayers.
It was good to see you at the hikes. Hope to see you again soon.

Blessings,
Mary Beth
Mary Beth Garvin <garvinfam@protectus.com>
Cuyahoga Falls, OH USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 1:00 PM CDT

Hi Jean
I can tell that you are feeling better by the things that you write. I am happy that you are recovering so gracefully. You know those moments like the pumpkin patch will always sneak up on you. Now, I like those moments because they remind to stop and ponder on the memories of my dad. They are always bitter/sweet. But mostly sweet. I am thinking of all of you everyday and I keep you in my prayers. Give everyone a hug for me. Give yourself a hug for me too.
Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 12:32 AM CDT

Jean,
Where has the time gone? I can't believe it is
November 1st already. Of course I missed the
first couple of weeks in a fog from all the pain
meds.
Still praying for you and yours daily.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:40 AM CDT

HAPPY FEAST DAY!
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:21 AM CDT

At times my heart aches with deep pain and loss,
and then I think of you.
Then there are the times I am rushing here and there
and get a wonderful soft whisper from Frankie,
and I think of you.
When I am in the car, where I say my rosary,
I think of you.
In the morning when I know we will talk, and with
the setting of the sun,
I think of you.
And with every thought of you between these times,
I say a prayer.
A prayer of Thanksgiving for the gift of you.
And a prayer for all your aching hearts
and lively spirits and all your intentions great and
small.
I feel hope,
I see the light.
I know your strength,
and I know from where your strength comes.
Keep the Faith,
Keep the Peace,
And know that I love you,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
k, Ohio USA - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:07 AM CDT

Jean: I'm sure Frankie is dressed in her
princess costume and parading around for
Dad, Sr. Jordan, Mr. Schubert and Mr. Missimi.
Dad is probably telling her how the Great
Pumpkin would come for his grandkids every
year and she's sitting on his lap, smiling and
laughing! Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 8:36 AM CDT

Jean,
You grow stronger every week. I can tell
by your writing. God is with you every
day and blesses you and your family. How
glorious is His name and how awesome He is.

Know that I pray for you and your family daily.
It has been so for three years and will remain
so.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l)lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 30, 2007 7:11 AM CDT

Jean: Hope this entry finds you and
the kids well. Sam and I had a Mass said
for Frankie on Sunday. I continue to keep
you all in my prayers and thoughts. The
holidays are almost upon us and I know it
will be difficult. Your memories and love
will get you through, believe me. Until
we see you in a few weeks at the Brunch Bunch,
hugs and kisses to you all. Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Monday, October 29, 2007 5:53 PM CDT

Jean...I have not been on here in a long time...but you and the kids are never far out of my mind and heart.. I miss you and the kids very much... The business of life has prevented a visit from me in awhile and I can say that I am overdue to come "home" and be with you... There many things I miss about back home, the orchard this time of year, being at mom's house and of course you guys... As I read a little today on this website, I am overcome with such emotion... I miss Frankie so entirely much and how she looks in your arms and the smile on her face that her brothers and sisters gave her... I miss her outstretched arms when she wants to be held by someone and the way she loved to be on her daddy's shoulders!... I know this journey has been riddled with pain for you...making it extremely difficult to go on... But you have managed to do what we are called to do, surrender everything to the foot of the cross. You are doing it every day, I know.. You have taught others by surrendering your suffering... And each time you do so, you are blessed... Savor the blessings that have been given to you by God... You are a wonderful mother and a beautiful spirit...I hope we can catch up and spend lots and lots of time together and with the whole fam over thanksgiving weekend... I give thanks for our awesome fam and for you, my big sister, who has taught me so much since we've been little... Miss you!~
I love you, sis!~
T...

P.S. Since Aunt T hasn't been to any football games this year hopefully mom's chant can be loud enough for all of us who want to be yelling "LET'S GO HOBAN" from the stands!!!~ Are the boys wrestling this year??... Miss the kids!!~

P.P.S.. Your Godson has a 3.8 accum. his first quarter of college!!~ I paid him a visit recently and did mom things for him there... It makes working so hard all of this time to send him to college so worth while! He is coming to mom's early from school to help with the Thanksgiving preparation with me!~ thank you so much for everything you have done in his life to help mold him who he is today ...he loves you guys so much!~

Christie Hamilton <tmagrace@aol.com>
Grove City, OH - Sunday, October 28, 2007 9:20 AM CDT

Jean,

Wishing you and your family a glorious Lord's Day.
Hoping many blessings will come your way. Still
keeping all of you in my prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, October 28, 2007 7:45 AM CDT

Jean,
I finished the book "Ninety Minutes In Heaven."
What a powerful story. It gives all of us the
assurance that heaven is a real place. I have
always believed, but always wondered what it is
like. It also reinforces the power there is in
prayer.

I pray that you and your family will have a blessed
and meaningful weekend.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 27, 2007 6:25 AM CDT

Jean,
Each week your update gets more uplifting.
What progress you are making. Remember
that no one ever gets it all done, There
is always one more thing to do or take care
of. So take the time to enjoy a part of
each day and the children.

I have learned so much from your family
these past three years. I have grown in
faith and trusting. I am reading the book
"Ninety Minutes In Heaven" and what a story.
How he survived all that pain and suffering
when he really wanted to go back to heaven
reminds me of the story of Job.

My own personal journey through pain has
been nothing compared to so many other's.
I have been feeling that I am not making
enough progress after four weeks. Yesterday
my physical therapist told me I am doing
better than most people do after a spinal
fushion. I guess we cannot grade our own
progress. I am disappointed that I will be
off work another four weeks. But it all
works out in the end. Fred will have his
gall bladder out in three weeks and I will
be improved enough to take care of him. So
hopefully when I do go back to work we will
both be back on our feet. This past six
months has been very trying, but we made it.

Thank you so much for sharing your grief journey
with us through this website. It has truly been
an inspiration to us.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, October 26, 2007 5:08 AM CDT

Thinking of you dozens of times a day.
I'm praying for you all.
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Thursday, October 25, 2007 2:36 PM CDT

Jean: It was so nice to see all of you at Judge Watson's
on Sunday. The boys have grown up so fast!! I truly
enjoyed talking with them. You have taught them well -
very polite and always coming up to me to give me a hug.
Sam had so much fun with the kids. We just love them!
You all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Thursday, October 25, 2007 7:09 AM CDT

Jean,
My purple impatients still look
beautiful and here it is, late
October. Praying for you and your
family.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, October 24, 2007 4:11 PM CDT

Jean,
Keeping you in my prayers today.
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
- Wednesday, October 24, 2007 8:12 AM CDT

Jean,
Keeping you in my prayers on this Tuesday morning.
No matter what the weeks just keep rolling by. I
pray for all of you daily.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 23, 2007 7:07 AM CDT

Jean,
Wishing you all a glorious fall day
Filled with colors and crisp air.
Praying for all of you.
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 20, 2007 2:51 PM CDT

You are making it Jean! Being at the curb is a good thing, a real move in the right direction. You will never forget, but the pain does ease, in time. Thoughts and prayers for you and yours!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Friday, October 19, 2007 9:05 PM CDT

Jean,
How far you have come. From the middle of the road
to the sidelines is a long way. Especially when
you had to fight all the way. It's OK to grieve.
It's OK to miss Frankie. It's OK to think about her.
Every day you grow stronger and better able to cope.
You are a remarkable woman and I feel blessed to
know you.
Thinking of you and praying for you every day.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, October 19, 2007 4:24 PM CDT

Jean, just wanted to let you know you are still in my thoughts and prayers. Your tribute to Sister Jordan is inspiring. It's not often we are blessed with such unique people in our lives. Barb
barbara Moledor <barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Friday, October 19, 2007 3:13 PM CDT

It is Autum.
As you watch the leaves change and fall,
and then the snow come,
think about all those purple tulips placed
under the earth in honor of Francesca, just waiting
for spring.
How thoughtful and kind is the spirit of care poured
out for you.
I Love You,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio u - Friday, October 19, 2007 9:25 AM CDT

Jean,
Look how far you have come from the
early days of your grief. It will get
easier to bear and you know this doesn't
mean that you love her any less. It's ok
for you to be happy. Frankie is happy.
She's now having more fun than we can
possibly imagine. There is no pain,
no sorrow, no tears in Heaven. You will
smile more as you think of the happiness
she brought into your life. I pray that
the bad memories will fade away.
The pain is still too deep, the grief too fresh.
One day at a time, Jean. You continue to be in my
prayers.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, October 19, 2007 9:06 AM CDT

Jean: Healing takes time and there isn't
a timeframe for it. You can be going along
just fine and then something is said to you
or you see something to remind you of the
one you lost and then the flood gates open.
I found out yesterday that my Dad had a massive
heart attack the day he was brought into the
hospital. Thoughts of "was he in pain", "what
could I have done had I knew it was that bad"
are all in my head right now. I knew he had a
heart attack but didn't know it was that severe.
We tend to question ourselves about the details
and could we have done something different. I
am on the verge of tears constantly, fighting
hard to not let them show. I have to believe
that the place he and Frankie are in is the
most beautiful and serene one there is. It's
been 2-1/2 years since Dad passed away and
sometimes it feels like yesterday. We have
to move on but not ever forget them. You are
a wonderful woman and I am always here for
you. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Friday, October 19, 2007 8:08 AM CDT

Jean,
How exciting that Francesca will have a
waterfall named after her. I'm sure it
will be as bubbly and energetic as she was.
Still praying and thinking of all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 18, 2007 12:28 AM CDT

I had this song pop into mind suddenly, and then just as quickly thought of you. I came to this site and decided to post the lyrics. Look at the main message here- I hope you like the song. Please forgive me if it is inappropriate. Its meant to encourage you. I'm praying hard for you and your family. Remember, God loves you unconditionally and will never leave you on your own. He is always with you. :-)
"weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning." How true that is.

If I had the chance
To go back again
Take a different road, bear a lighter load
Tell an easy story

I would walk away
With my yesterdays
And I would not trade what is broken for beauty only

Every valley
Every bitter chill
Made me ready to climb back up the hill
And find that . . .

You are sunrise
You are blue skies
How would I know the morning
If I knew not midnight?

You're my horizon
You're the light of a new dawn
So thank You, thank You
That after the long night, You are sunrise

There's a moment when
Faith caves in
There's a time when every soul is certain God is gone

But every shadow is evidence of sun
And every tomorrow holds out hope for us
For every one of us

You are sunrise
You are blue skies
How would I know the morning
If I knew not midnight?

You're my horizon
You're the light of a new dawn
So thank You, thank You
That after the long night, You are sunrise

You alone will shine
You alone can resurrect this heart of mine

You are sunrise
You are blue skies
How would I know the morning
If I knew not midnight?

You're my horizon
You're the light of a new dawn
So thank You, thank You
You are sunrise

And you are loved, dear one. Spend some time in the arms of Jesus today. Let yourself be loved by Him. He's here for you, and anything you might be carrying- He can take it.
Andrea Miller
Anchorage, Ak United States - Thursday, October 18, 2007 0:45 AM CDT

Today, Dan Hickin, the kind landscaper who donated
his gifts of time and talents to Sr. Jordan's
Peace Garden visited. He began his vision for
Francesca Falls, coming down the back hill of our
yard. Dan has an amazing spirit and puts his
heart and soul into his creation. His respect
for nature and organic way of expressing that
respect, fits beautifully into the purpose of the
falls.
I am hopeful that the generous donation of time
talents and plants will all come back to him and
bless his business and family.
Noni
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 3:02 PM CDT

Jean,
Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 16, 2007 11:53 AM CDT

Jean: Thank you again for letting us all
read your amazing words about Sr. Jordan.
Thank you for being you!! Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 6:27 AM CDT

Jean,
Hope things are going well for you.
Still keeping all of you in my prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, October 15, 2007 6:11 PM CDT

The purple impatients I planted
in Francesca's honor look as beautiful
as ever. They line the walkway to my house
and have grown so full and tall. I'm not much
of a gardener, so I am amazed how how great
these flowers look.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, October 15, 2007 4:30 PM CDT

Jean,
What a beautiful fall day. How good it is to see
the start of colors changing and the smell of fall
in the air.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your
family daily. Peace be with you. Strength be
all around you. And may God's love fall upon
you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, October 14, 2007 12:27 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I haven't written for a while as
I have been inundated with reports,
etc. Also, the grief is very strong
again, as Patrick's birthday is
next week, and the anniversary of his
death is in 3 weeks. I have read
every book that you have mentioned
and a couple more besides. They
all help me to know that all of
the things which I am experiencing
are normal for the season of grief.
I, too, knew Jordan and liked her
immediately. Your tribute was beautiful!
I, also had decided to plant purple
tulip bulbs among the many other colors
already planted in my gardens.
I bought two purple mums this Fall
for planting. Little Frankie will
be remembered in many gardens.
Such a beautiful, pure little soul!
Your family are in my prayers daily.
Jacqui Dewey-smith
Jacqueine Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Oh USA - Saturday, October 13, 2007 3:27 PM CDT

Jean,
Keeping you and your family in my prayers and thoughts.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, October 12, 2007 4:19 PM CDT

Jean,
What a beautiful dedication,
what a beautiful person. I wish
I were as blessed as you to have
known her.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, October 12, 2007 12:39 AM CDT

Jean
Thank you for being a part
of the dedication of the garden.
Your words were wonderful and a
loving tribute to Sr. Jordan.
She loves you very much and knows
what a special person you are.
There will be purple mums in the fall
and purple tulips will welcome the spring.
The garden will hold memories of love.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Thursday, October 11, 2007 10:47 PM CDT

Jean,
Thank you so much for posting your wonderful
words about Sister Jordan. I wouldn't have
missed the dedication except for my surgery.

Indeed, Sister Jordan was a very unique
individual who touched everyone's life for
the better. She was an insparation to all
of us. Her life and legacy will live on
forever in those who knew her.

I improve every day. I still have a long road ahead
of me.

I still remember all of you in my prayers daily.
Frankie will always be a special part of my life.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, October 11, 2007 4:19 PM CDT

JEan,& MARK,

I just planted 100 purple tulip bulbs in honor of Francesca and your family. I hope that each and very time you see a purple tulip ANYWHERE, you will smile. We think of you often.
LOVE, Melissa, Larry and Sam
BENNETT's <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Thursday, October 11, 2007 4:13 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
Thank you for capturing Sr. Jordan's spirit so well.
I will never forget her inviting smile. Keeping you
in prayer today as always,
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
- Thursday, October 11, 2007 2:41 PM CDT

Jean,
How blessed you are to have had
Sr. Jordan in your life and what
a blessing your family was (is)to her.
thejohnstonvi@msn.com <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Thursday, October 11, 2007 4:25 AM CDT

Jean: Your words yesterday were beautiful.
Your love for Sr. Jordan surely was shining
through to all of us who were there. Thank
you for being the woman you are. As they
were watching from above, I wonder if Dad,
Mr. Schubert, Frankie, Mr. Missimi and Sister
were eating some of her delicious baklava!!
I'm sure they all demanded everyone's attention
for this dedication!! Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Wednesday, October 10, 2007 6:29 AM CDT

Jean;
It was wonderful to see you today, your words were beautiful, thank you for sharing with all of us today. Jordan was truly a special person and I am a better person for having known her.
Peace

Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Tuesday, October 9, 2007 7:47 PM CDT

Jean,
Today I feel much better. I am so sorry to miss
the dedication of Sr. Jordan's garden. Would
you consider putting your speech on this site?
I think of you so often and have prayed for all
of you even when I was down flat.
Pain is a humbling experience. It has made me
more aware of what Frankie went through in her
many surgeries. Yet she was so happy and cheerful.
Believe me, when I was at my worst in the hospital
I thought of Frankie's incredable strength and
courage and I knew that I would be able to tolerate
the pain.
May God continue to guide you.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 9, 2007 12:26 AM CDT

Mark,Jean,and family,
As Johnny said in his early days, "Happy Tuesday".
This day will always be reserved for you.
So many memories have been filling my days.
My friends are doing the Lap around the Lake for Lupus this Saturday in honor of Kassie Mc Mullin.
We decided as a group to bring fruit for the walkers/runners. The first two people to sign up were Laura and Karin, apples and bannanas.
Emotions came suddenly with the memory of ICU and the song on the Barney tape, apples and bannanas. I put her p.j. bottoms on my head, grabbed an apple and bannana, and sang along. You know how hard it was to get a grin in those difficult days. Another baby, or Connor could bring a smile. But she even giggled at my crazy rendition.
From then on, when I took her p.j's in my hand and looked at her, she had that look with the silly grin. She was so smart about the important insights to humor. Without saying anything, we would look at each other with the knowing discernment, do they go on Frankie or on Grandma's head and she would half smile.
I miss her so, and pray for each of you with every thought of her.
Today as we honor her Godmother with the dedication of the Garden, they will be present and united with us.
I Love You,
Noni
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, October 9, 2007 6:48 AM CDT

Dear Jean; I pray that Frankie was standing at the gates of Heaven to welcome Ben Dillon when he arrived, the young Army Ranger from Edinburg. Ben was an outstanding young man, from an outstanding family that give back to their church and their community each and every day of their lives.

Please know you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Tuesday, October 9, 2007 6:29 AM CDT

Jean,
Prayers for a week of peacefulness
in your heart. May our Father bless
you in a special way. Hugs,
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Monday, October 8, 2007 9:20 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I have to share with you that I just returned home from a 3 day conference in Akron dealing with Hospice and Palliative care for children. Needless to say, it was a very emotional-yet informative 3 days. Friday evening I found myself sitting in a lecture at Akron Childrens listening to Dr. Sarah Friebert. She was an amazing speaker who shared so much with hundreds of professionals from all over the country. Her power point presentation consisted of a few pictures of children (I assumed they were involved with her programs as I looked at their beautiful faces). And there she was......Frankie. In her little purple outfit smiling at us all. My heart skipped a beat and the tears were flowing down my cheeks. I was not expecting to see her like that. Everyone in the audience (hundreds of people) were smiling and saying, "awwww". No details were given about her situation, and I felt so honored to tell my friend sitting next to me, "I have an amazing story to tell you later about that little girl"...

As we took the tour of the hospital, I kept thinking of you and your family. How many times you walked those halls to get to the PICU...wondering if the nurse passing me in the hallway ever took care of Frankie....I could go on and on.

Frankie is still putting smiles on the faces of strangers...and I just had to share this with you.

Hugs to you all,
Jen Estep (Deb Melucci's friend)
Jen Estep <bailees_mom@hotmail.com>
Wheelersburg, Oh USA - Sunday, October 7, 2007 1:38 PM CDT

Thinking of you!!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Saturday, October 6, 2007 10:42 PM CDT

Jean,
Just a note to say "Hi." I am still very weak and fuzzy headed from my surgery. I feel better every day. Will write more later.
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, October 6, 2007 12:23 AM CDT

I love the tea bag quote.
Especially since that is our drink of choice these days.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Friday, October 5, 2007 4:54 AM CDT

Jean,
I have a question for you.
I emailed it and wanted you
to know in case it gets mixed
in your junk mail. Thanks.
Love,
Debbie
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Thursday, October 4, 2007 7:11 AM CDT

Memories
If we could have a lifetime wish
A dream that would come true,
We'd pray to God with all our hearts
For yesterday and You.
A thousand words can't bring you back
We know because we've tried...
Neither will a thousand tears
We know because we've cried...
You left behind our broken hearts
And happy memories too...
But we never wanted memories
We only wanted You.
(Unknown)
Praying for you...
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Thursday, October 4, 2007 3:46 AM CDT

So sorry to hear about Dom. I wish him a speedy recovery. you are all in my prayers.
Larry Bartlett <eljaybee63@aol.com>
Modesto, CA - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 5:39 PM CDT

I can only imagine what it will be like
When I walk by your side
I can only imagine what my eyes will see
When your face is before me
I can only imagine
I can only imagine

Surrounded by your glory
What will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you Jesus,
Or in awe of you be still?
Will I stand in your presence,
Or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing Halelluja,
Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine
I can only imagine

I can only imagine when that day comes
And I find myself standing in the Son
I can only imagine when all I will do
Is forever, forever worship you
I can only imagine
I can only imagine

Surrounded by your glory,
What will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you Jesus,
Or in awe of you be still?
Will I stand in your presence,
Or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing Halelluja,
Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine, yeah
I can only imagine
I can only imagine, yeah, yeah, yeah

Surrounded by your glory,
What will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you Jesus,
Or in awe of you be still?
Will I stand in your presence,
Or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing Halelluja,
Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine, yeah

I can only imagine, yeah, yeah
I can only imagine, Yeah
I can only imagine
I can only imagine, Ohh yeah
I can only imagine

I can only imagine when all I will do
is forever, forever worship you
I can only imagine

Thinking of You
Akron, OH USA - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 3:26 PM CDT

Jean: Glad to hear that the zoo was fill with
lots of fun. How true Mario's comment was -
I can't swim and only like getting my feet wet!!
Here is a quote from Eleanor Roosevelt that Pat
Henze gave me - "Women are like tea bags - they
don't know how strong they are until they get
into hot water." It is the Moms of the world
who hold their families together - able to meet
the everyday bumps in the road and then able to
climb the mountains when the problems are huge!
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 1:19 PM CDT

Everytime I read your newest journal entry, I see/read a different tone than in early entries. You are slowly healing one little step at a time. As I've stated previously, I do not know you but I do pray for you and your family, however, as a mom I pray just a tad more for you. My prayers are always with you, I hope this helps you when you are having a down day, knowing many others are lifting you up. God Bless.
Wendy
Deerfield, OH - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 1:15 PM CDT

Jean,
The days could not be fuller, but they will always hold the empty arms from Frankie's absence.
Your reflections brought me back to the days we went to downstairs Mass at Holy Family. Bullock's had Stephen, when Jeff was born. We shared our hospital stay with such incredible laughter and joy. Things quickly changed for Stephen, he probably needed intervention with his heart that was not available at that time.
Remember our trips to their home as he fought for life? There was little they could do then. They always sat in the full row behind us in church, watching Jeff grow through each step of life, with empty arms. Our bond grew as I ended up in the hospital having Mike when their daughter Tracy had her first born.
Many share our journey. I look forward to the unfolding of God's plan for you as you reach out in healing Grace, to your family and others. I know your example will bring encouragement and peace to the suffering.
You are as Henry Nowen would say, a "wounded healer".
That is your call. I've wittnessed you staring down the most aggresive opponent on the court, field and in the arena of life. You will answer this call as it unfolds
with a resounding "Yes". You have my prayers for the pain of this journey, it is your Salvation Story in progress.
There is an incredible beauty to your response.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 7:11 AM CDT

Thanks for reminding us that inspite of any of our own woes, we need to continue to care for others, even those we may not know personally like Luke and Gabriel. Many of us have shared their fear and pain and know how much they need our prayers. I hope Dominic is feeling better. How scary was that! If he is in a good place now, then he is already got bragging and embellishing rights. It is better than the one my son got to tell. When Jared was a Sr., he had just made a touchdown and his friend and teamate was so excited, when he went to smack him on the helmet, he poked his finger through the face mask and lacerated his cornea. So keep your eyes shut, Dom, after you make that TD! Love and prayers, Debbi (Miss you all)
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Ravenna, OH USA - Tuesday, October 2, 2007 9:49 PM CDT

Jean I awarded your site with a blog award. You can get the graphic and read about it at
http://mydomesticchurch.blogspot.com/2007/10/mathetes-award.html

I hope your boy is feeling better - ouch!!
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
Akron, OH USA - Tuesday, October 2, 2007 8:30 PM CDT

Thinking of you and praying for you all this Tuesday.
I will offer my rosary for you and all your intentions.
Before this 40 days are over, let's plan a rosary
in the garden with the kids.
Love to one and all,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, October 2, 2007 5:42 AM CDT

Hello Jean!
My groceries are sitting on the kitchen floor waiting for me to put them away. But I didn't want another day to go by without saying hello. The busyness is constant and I neglect things. Been trying somethimes struggling to pray the rosary everyday for the 40 days for Life initiative and remembering how easily I prayed the rosary for Frankie. I have asked her to help me regain some desire and joy in prayer.

Today is the Feast of St. Therese, an ordinary girl, an extraordinary soul. Sounds like someone I know and her mommy too.

I miss you and love you and hope we can come up with a time to get together.

My dad and mom read your journal faithfully and Dad gave me a heads up on Dominic. Please tell him he will be in our prayers.

Jane
Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Monday, October 1, 2007 12:26 AM CDT

Jean: So sorry to hear about Dominic's injury.
I'm glad he is doing better. Be sure to give
him a kiss and hug from us. Did Joey and Anthony
both go to Homecoming? How I remember those days!!
Please take care of yourself. You are very
important to your family and all of us. Our
continued prayers come your way. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Sunday, September 30, 2007 6:24 PM CDT

Jean,
I will pray for Dominic to fully
recover from his injuries. How frightening!
May the Lord protect him and all your
other children. May you always hold firm
to your faith in the Lord.

Thank you for praying for Luke.
He and his parents have been
weighing heavily on my heart.

God Bless you.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, September 30, 2007 6:19 PM CDT

Frisone family,
I just wanted to stop by and let you know that your favorite family from the south had you on their mind! we check on ya'll ALL the time to see how things are going. Always know that we think of Frankie a lot and she will always have a special place in our heart. Sawyer still prays for Frankie...it's so hard for him to understand that she's living with Jesus now. I will continue to let him pray for Frankie as long as he wants!!! We love you and keep those post coming.

Roommates forever,
Sawyer's mommy
www.caringbridge.org/visit/sawyerdt
ashley <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
asheville, nc - Sunday, September 30, 2007 4:11 PM CDT

The idea of the tulip - waiting through the cold loneliness of winter waiting for that spot of hope in the spring - it just sent chills down my arms. I continue to pray for you, Jean, even though we have never met - and may never, this side of heaven - and I will continue to pray for you - you come to my mind at odd times - and I know the Spirit is prompting me to lift you up, so I do! I pray that God will continue to walk along you in this incredibly difficult journey you and your family are on.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Saturday, September 29, 2007 4:05 PM CDT

Jean,
I agree with Debby M's comment:
you do have an incredible way
with words. I have referred a
couple of grieving moms to your website.
When the time is right, you ought to
consider writing a book. It would be
a be a blessing and an
inspiration to others. You have a
beautiful gift. You have made my life
richer.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Saturday, September 29, 2007 4:31 AM CDT

It has been a rather difficult day,
the pictures around the house call for
a big hug. I want so to reach out and touch her.
Someone asked to see some more pictures.
The one in the Fall with the corn husks is one
of my favorite.
I must turn my energies to Thanksgiving and embracing
the miracle of Francesca's New Life.
I have had so much fun focusing on all those I can
hug. There is a time for grieving and a time for
letting go.
Today is just one of those times to honor the
pain of her physical absence.
We know when we glance at her face and the pain comes,
how very much you grieve.
Know how much you are loved and prayed for.
The purple tulip bulbs are so beautiful.
Wouldn't you love to plan them all over?
What a beautiful memorial.

Prayers go to Luke, Gabriel's little friend.
May Jesus heal his heart.
We have much to do to spread His
Love,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
k, Ohio USA - Friday, September 28, 2007 1:38 PM CDT

Jean; Thoughts of you always cross my mind, you are such an increidble inspiration to so many of us moms. Thank you for continuing to write and express your deepest most personal thoughts. Remembering all of you in my prayers.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Friday, September 28, 2007 5:13 AM CDT

Tulip bulbs! What a neat idea! I hope the weather stays nice so that you have a chance to plant them.

I said a special prayer for you on the Sorrowful Mother's Day at church.

If you have a chance Jean, there were so many wonderful pictures of Frankie at the funeral home. I'd love to see more of them on your site.
Elena LaVictoire <elljazz@gmail.com>
Akron, OH USA - Thursday, September 27, 2007 2:54 PM CDT

You are always in my thoughts
and prayers!
I'm so glad that you continue
to write-
you have an amazing talent with words.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 10:38 PM CDT

Jean,
By reading between the lines I can see your hope is being restored as you continue grieve your loss. We never forget those who touch our lives, especially little ones like Frankie. You continue to be an inspiration to me. When things get hectic with two teenagers and so much to do to get ready for college I stop and think of you and wonder how would you handle it. As always, I say a prayer and ask for guidance from our heavenly Father. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. I can picture Frankie sitting on Jesus' knee as He beckons "let the children come to Me." I continue to pray for you and your family.
Love,
Mary
Mary Rodenbucher <Sportsmom@neo.rr.com>
Randolph, OH - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 2:15 PM CDT

Jean,
I'll always remember
Frankie and her courageous and faithful
family and I will continue to pray
for all of you.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, September 25, 2007 11:04 AM CDT

Jean: Thank you for always remembering all of
us who read the website. I look forward to hearing
from you and read how you are doing. I wish I got
to see you more often - I just may call for a
"coffee date"! I enjoyed seeing Dominic on Friday
at the office. We had lunch together and then
went for ice cream. We are continuing to pray for
all of you. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Mantua, Ohio - Tuesday, September 25, 2007 6:23 AM CDT

Hi Jean and Family! What beautiful weather we are having! A nice time to enjoy the warm nights and see the moon and the stars. Think of you each day--I send many prayers to Frankie asking her for support for you and the rest of the family! She is with you--always! Love and prayers, Aunt Cindi and Uncle Joe. p.s. I found my glasses the other day--on top of my head!!!
Cindi Pritt <jrpritt@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, September 25, 2007 6:08 AM CDT

Mrs. Frisone,
My thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family.
Peace,
Stephanie
Stephanie K. <kstation@juno.com>
- Saturday, September 22, 2007 5:49 PM CDT

Jean,
We have had some gorgeous days lately.
I hope that you have been able to enjoy
them.
I still think of you and pray for you daily.
My best wishes for you and your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, September 22, 2007 7:04 AM CDT

Jeanne,

Found myself thinking of you and your family today and felt like letting ya know you are all still in my prayers. Life has a way of moving on but sometimes life's pace doe not coincide with one's heart. Enjoy your favorite season...
Mike Finley <mfinley@hall-green.com>
- Friday, September 21, 2007 1:51 PM CDT

When I read the entries from near and far,
I am touched.
Those who cared for Frankie, some who never
met her, faithful friends, co-workers, Uncle Phil's
paritioner, relatives.
When I read Debbie Johston and Sawyers mom, the
feelings that rise are those of appreciation for
Moms and families doing the same you did.
The compassion and connection with those who know
is so powerful.
I remember so vividly being in Frankie's room in
Michigan, suddenly all the doors closed,
the curtains were drawn,a code was called.
Every parent held their breath,shed tears,
prayed with unity. We did not know the
baby in serious danger, but our hearts,
our compassion poured forth.
Gabriel, Sawyer and Francesca
teach us that life is fradgile and precious.
The children do lead us.
We are better parents, friends, Grandparents, neighbors.
Compassion and love for others is a valuable lesson
I learned from these children.
We must cherish each day and each other.
I love you all so much,
Mom, Grandma
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
k, Ohio USA - Friday, September 21, 2007 9:12 AM CDT

Hi Jean
I know that you can't see this right now. I see a very wise, intelligent, caring, comforting and open woman who will do GREAT things with this NOT SO GREAT experience! I have always admired your strength and still do!!!
Say "Hi" to everyone for me.
Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Thursday, September 20, 2007 2:18 PM CDT

Jean,
I love fall too. The colors are so
vibrant and beautiful.
I am glad that you are able to be
involved with the kids' games and
activities. Don't think about the
reasons right now. Just enjoy being
with them.
I'm sorry we missed seeing you and
the kids at the Balloon-A-Fair.
I hope all of you had a great time.
Keeping you in my thoughts and
prayers.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 20, 2007 11:02 AM CDT

Dear Jean,

Special prayers for you this day. God bless,
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
- Thursday, September 20, 2007 8:10 AM CDT

Jean,
Thinking of you.
Praying the Lord will
soothe your aching heart.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com (www.caringbridge.org/ny/gabrieldavid)>
- Wednesday, September 19, 2007 10:59 PM CDT

Jean, My daily prayer is that you and your family will have uplifted souls knowing that Francesca is at peace and with you always. My God Bless you and yours.
Angela Avery Maffett <camaffett5@aol.com>
Noblesville, In - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 4:12 PM CDT

Jean: It sure was great seeing you and the
kids in the Balloon-A-Fair parade. Wish I
could have had the chance to talk to you all.
Hope all is going well with you. You are
always in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. Need to start getting some nursing
supplies for Sara (penlight, etc.)!
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 9:44 AM CDT

Hey Jean, its Denise, just wanting you to know we all still keep you and your family in all of our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, You are missed a ton, Denise
Denise <denroot@aol.com>
Parma, OH USA - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 9:07 AM CDT

Thank you for sharing your heart with us, Jean. I continue to pray for you.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 9:50 PM CDT

Jean,
Praying that you are still making some
progress. Praying for all your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, September 18, 2007 9:28 PM CDT

Think about you all each and every day....especially Mondays and Thursdays! I miss rocking, reading and being silly with that precious baby girl. I even miss the endless activity of the Frisone household! I still owe you a night out with your significant other so say the word if you need a sitter for the youngers. I can do the soccer mom thing as long as you give me good directions! Hugs and prayers, Debbi
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Monday, September 17, 2007 8:06 PM CDT

Jean,
Still praying for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, September 17, 2007 5:24 PM CDT

Jean, It was so nice and such a pleasant moment in my busy day to receive your note and picture of Frankie. The hands clasped together and that awesome smile are the best! She has a prominent spot on my bulletin board in 3 places along with a permanent place in my heart. Just want you to know that you are an inspiration to so many and hope that you and the family have the opportunity to enjoy some of this wonderful fall weather. I remember the day you and Frankie and the girls surprised me with my OSU donut. That was such a special treat and with football season upon us again we can only hope it is a great OSU season. PLease tell grandma "GO Bucks" You have always been so very thoughtful and were always so interested in the best ways to help Frankie achieve all that she could. We only see a brief part of the entire puzzle at any given moment, but some day all the pieces will be in place. Take some time for yourself and thanks again for the encouragement. Barb
Barbara Moledor <Barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Monday, September 17, 2007 3:22 PM CDT

I continue to pray for you -- and learn from you. Many more prayers coming.
Monica
IL - Sunday, September 16, 2007 11:06 PM CDT

Jean,
I'm sorry that I haven't written for a time.
My husband was in AGMC for 4 days with a severe
gall bladder attack and I was with him all the time.

I still remembered you and your family in my
prayers. I hope that you do some better each and
every day. It sounds like you are.

May God continue to bless all of you and keep you in His loving arms.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, September 16, 2007 7:44 PM CDT

Thinking of you!
Know that you are always
thought of with Love
and prayed for with Hope.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, OH - Thursday, September 13, 2007 10:18 PM CDT

Jean; Just wanted to let you know you were on my mind. Sending prayers your way with hugs!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Thursday, September 13, 2007 6:24 PM CDT

Jean,
I just had your family and Frankie on my mind today. Sawyer got a balloon at a nearby resturant and he sent it up to heaven for Frankie :) Just wanted to tell you that you all are still fresh on our minds and we think of you often. Praying for strength and comfort.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/sawyerdt
ashley <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
arden, nc - Thursday, September 13, 2007 2:06 PM CDT

Jean, just a thought, but maybe you and the kids could decorate Frankie's grave for fall with mums and a pumpkin and such. Some of the moms out at Holy Cross go all out for the fall holidays and really decorate the grave sites!

You probably alreadyknow this but the Sorrowful Mother is this week. I think that is always a special day for Catholic moms who have experienced loss.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, September 12, 2007 4:06 PM CDT

Jean: It was wonderful seeing you on Saturday.
We just wish that you and Mark could have stayed
longer. I told you Sam would get you laughing
and he did and it was great seeing your beautiful
smile. My prayers and thoughts are with you
always and with Mark and the kids. We love you
all. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 6:50 AM CDT

Grieving is indeed hard work; but you don't have to work hard at it because somehow it happens on its own. There are some similarities between grieving and pregnancy as least
as far as normal is concerned. Remember back to your first
pregnancies and all the questions and concerns you had. You read and asked, but nothing you did changed the pregnancy
itself - it just continued on its own. Bringing the baby
home changed all the dynamics of the family and continued
to change them as the baby grew and needed different things.
When there were already little ones at home with an established routine and relationship with each other and a
new little one was introduced, everything changed again.
It happens every time, and we never know how the changes
will manifest themselves. Everything changes all by itself
while we're busy with just living. Grieving is rather like
that. You can never know at the beginning how it will end
up and you can't get there any faster. You just go about the
living you have to do each day; and one day you realize that
some good things have happened, that new routines have begun, that people have grown and developed.
Relax as much as you can. Let life just happen to you. Take care of yourself physically.
And remember - that in very many ways -
Normal is just a setting on your dryer.
Carolyn
- Tuesday, September 11, 2007 4:05 PM CDT

"To everything there is a
season, and a time to every
purpose under the heaven."
Ecclesiastes 3:1

No one but a grieving mom can really
understand the difficulty of the season
you're in. Only God knows the purpose for
it. I'm praying for you, Jean, that the Lord
would fill your heart with great hope and
comfort.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
Grand Island, NY - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 7:01 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying for you and your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, September 9, 2007 1:16 PM CDT

Jean,
I would like to share something I read in my devotional
reading this morning.

We are never prepared for the death of a loved one.
Remembering the life of a loved one is God's special
gift to us. All who die in Jesus are only temporarily
seperated from those they love for a shopt time.
Because Jesus lives, so will we. That is our hope in
time of death. With God's help we will be able to release
those we love into His loving arms. We will be able to
believe that we will see them again.

This spoke volumes to me. I hope that it will you too.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, September 8, 2007 9:42 AM CDT

Maria,
The meat balls for the street picnic will be so much
sweeter with your loving, and cold hands rolling them.
So good to have time together.
Love,
Graham Cracker
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohiou USA - Friday, September 7, 2007 8:07 PM CDT

I'm so glad you've had some good days Jean!

I truly believe that I've had some of my best praying times in the cemetery with all of those little saints to hear! I found that to be very comforting.
Elena LaVictoire <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Friday, September 7, 2007 1:26 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
Sending love and prayers to you for a blessed weekend. Again, I affirm you for your trust to put one foot in front of the other and hang in there when you so much just want to make everything better. You and your family are in such good hands, and I know you know that!!
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
- Friday, September 7, 2007 10:40 AM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that things are finally starting to
get some better with your family.
Maybe if you told Mark what an impact he has
on the family he would be more positive. Most
men don't realise this fact.
I know at work his enthusiasm and his negativism
are very contagious.
May God continue to bless all of you and send
His comforting presence to all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, September 6, 2007 4:45 PM CDT

To the Mom of a Saint,
I wish everyone in the world had an
Uncle Joe and Aunt Cindi. Then we would
be in heaven.
We must remember, they do not come by their
unabandoned loving, caring,
sometimes crazy ways with out
overcoming great difficulty.
They have often times been my salvation
in times of trouble, joy in times of celebration,
and most of all inspiration in terms of living
Faith.
When we were last at Queen of Heaven Church,
the priest made a comment after Mass about Uncle Joe.
Something like, if he was a great an Uncle as he is
a Spiritual Rock, then he knew what kind of an Uncle
he was.
This is not to give him the Glory that God deserves
for completing His good work in him.
It is to give you encouragement and the example,
of what God can do with your suffering.
And they are only one of the countless people who
mentor you, love you, pray for you, advocate for you, serve you, are inspired by you.

"All things work to the good for those who Love God,
and are fitting into His Plan"
Watch out, He has great things in store for you.

Last night being with the kids while you were at work
was such a joy.
Sports for 6 of them, with you delicious meal served
at 6 different times.
Mark with his trip to ER with Guisseppe.
The kind help of the girls, considering everyones needs,
before their own. (wonder where they learned that)
We reflected together on the bitter sweet reality,
that Mario is the baby and he is so big!
We thought the perfect solution is to spend time
with Gianna. We must plan a trip.

May kindness and gentleness surround you and
give you hope.
In the times of difficulty keep focused on how
blessed we all are to have you in our lives.
This kind wonderful Wife, Mom, Daughter, Aunt,
Sister, and Faithful Servant.
I love you so much,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
k, Ohio USA - Thursday, September 6, 2007 11:25 AM CDT

Jean - I'm so happy to hear the weekend was a
positive one. Frankie is constantly with all
of you and I like the idea of praying to her
as a saint. She can only help you all. Sam
and I are looking forward to seeing you this
Saturday night. It will be fun and believe
me, Sam will get you laughing!! Many good
thoughts and prayers come your way. We love
you all! Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, September 6, 2007 6:41 AM CDT

I am glad you had a ray of sunshine day. You needed that and you know it IS possible to have more of those because certain people that live in your home (ahum, we are talking about the male species here) are quite able to give you the respect and support that you deserve. I only live with one 14 year old male and I am crazy. I think their testosterone erodes their common sense and kindness brain cells! anyway, it was great to see you all again (don't you hate that when people just "stop by") I think of that Family Circle cartoon when these people are standing outside ringing the bell and one says to the other "I know they are in there, I can hear them running around picking things up". I know, I've been there! But I did want to get the stuff to you (I hope the kids aren't making you crazy with the cookbook) and to let you know that I am here for you....and if you ever need to escape, you can pay me back and hear me running around picking things up! Hugs and prayers, debbi
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
ROOTSTOWN, OH USA - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 8:49 PM CDT

Jean,
How wonderful it is to read such an up-beat
and positive entry.
Praying that there will be many, many more.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, September 5, 2007 6:28 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
I check the website several times a week to read about your journey. We are traveling the same path daily, and I have read most of the books you quote from. They have helped me so much. I pray for you, Mark and the children daily. Francesca and my Patrick are enjoying so much more than we could ever imagine! Don Piper has written a daily devotional which I purchased and love it! Another book which is very good is "Let Me Grieve, but Not Forever...." by Verdell Davis. There are many of us walking this same path, but we each have to find our own way, and we will.
Blessings on all of you.
Jacqui Dewey-Smith
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 1:57 PM CDT

JEAN,
PLEASE READ THIS SLOWLY AND CAREFULLY. You continue to be a wonderful lady, mom, daughter and wife. Feeling " OFF" and sad is okay. Each and every day PLEASE take 15 minutes for some deep breaths. I remember when my parents had to deal with 3 teenage girls. We "hated" my parents on most days and decided to " run away" for only a few hours on other days. Now, wE are all in our thirties with professional jobs and fanilies. ALL of your feeling are NORMAL. DO NOT BEAT yourself up. Give yourself time, lots of deep breaths and many hugs from your family and friends. We think of allof you often. Love, Melissa, Larry and Samantha
Bennett Family <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, September 4, 2007 5:59 PM CDT

Jean,
Wishing you many blessings this day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, September 4, 2007 10:23 AM CDT

It did my heart good to look out towards the grill
and see you standing with Uncle Joe while he did his
majic with good food. It is always great for us to get
together, but to see you smiling was a treasure.

I have not been on line for several days,
to read the memories brings tears and smiles.
There are almost 90,000 hits on Frankie's sight.
For each of these hits there are multiple times
your family receives thoughts and prayers from
those near and far.
Walk in the grace being poured forth upon each of you.
You are loved and have so much love to share.
Blessings,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, September 4, 2007 10:19 AM CDT

Thinking of you!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, September 3, 2007 11:01 PM CDT

Hello Jean,

Got Frank on the mind and decided to check the website to see if you were still writing. Her first birthday party was such a celebration. I was so grateful to be counted as one of Frank's and your friends.

I remember when we all went to the McKinley Museum in the big "Creampuff" van and Michael was sitting right next to baby Frankie. He was not quite three and she was not quite two. Anyway, that was the day I realized that baby Frankie was not a sick little baby but rather a fiesty little girl. Apparently Michael was a little too close to her or may have put his hand on her car seat because I remember him saying with an increasing level of concern "That hurts baby Frankie". We turned to look and she was pinching him. You of course quickly admonished (gently but firmly) her and put a stop to the pinching. It was then that I realized that she was in many ways a normal little child. Your care for her and the rest of the family was truly heroic.

I continue to think of you and pray for you and miss our regular weekly visits. I struggle to find words of encouragement because I have no idea how painful your loss is. My Aunt Monica shared a devotion recently from JPII that was "Hope is what remains when optimism fails." I pray that God floods your heart and soul with Hope in the midst of your grief and family struggles.

Jesus, I trust in You.

Peace,
Jane

Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Monday, September 3, 2007 10:24 PM CDT

Jean: All will be okay and life will start to be
normal again. Maybe doing things different than
the way you are use to would make things go better.
It's okay to know that you have limitations right
now. Sophia will be okay at St. Joe's and it might
do her good. The teenage years are trying for any
parent (remember I have 3 girls!!) but you and Mark
are great parents and all of you will get through
this terrible time. All of the prayers of everyone
can only help. Let us help take the burden off
of you. Anything you need, we are there for you.
We love you all. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, September 3, 2007 6:19 AM CDT

Jean - You are in my prayers today, as you have been every day now for quite awhile. I know the Lord will continue to carry you through this terribly rough time - and you will come out on the other side of it - having grown in His image. I will continue to pray....
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Sunday, September 2, 2007 3:36 PM CDT

Jean,
Wishing you blue skies and a trouble free Sunday.
Wishing you a day full of family happiness and
blessings.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, September 2, 2007 1:39 PM CDT

Jean;
What a beautifully, talented writer you are. I just know one day you will write a book that will help others who are in the place you now find yourself. I know you must be so tired of hearing "time heals all, it takes time, etc". But these are all true statements. You have truly experienced a terrible loss in your life, and it's ok to grieve, it's ok to have a bad day, this is all normal and part of your grieving experience. You weave all this in with typical, normal teenage behaviors (and some not so typical) and I can truly understand how frustrating it can be for you. Please know we all are praying for you and your wonderful family. Try not to be so hard on yourself. Keep the faith, we are pulling for you.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Saturday, September 1, 2007 10:14 PM CDT

Jean,
I have never spoken to you or added to the guest book until today, but I have held you and your family in my thoughts and prayers since you first shared there were problems with your pregnancy with the congregation, for I was pregnant at the same time, delivering the following March. My son and I would see you and Francesca frequently in the cry room, though I never saw her crying. She always seemed so pleasant and content when we saw her. I remember her cherubic face and she seemed to have the eyes of an "old soul" as my mom used to say; miles of life lived in a small amount of time. I have followed you and your family's struggles and triumphs reading the entries on caring bridge, and feel I have come to know you in some small way. While I cannot share many memories of Francesca in life, I can attest to the profound affect both of your stories have had on my life and the lives of my children. Your pain is palpable. I think I can speak for any mother and safely say our hearts ache for you. Yet, in your pain, you have given me, and many others I imagine, great insight. Time and time again you have clung to your faith when I think I would have been too weak to hang on. Thank you for sharing your journey. My family and I continue to pray for healing and peace for you and yours.
In Christ, Deanna Hermann

Deanna Hermann <thehermanns@netzero.net>
- Saturday, September 1, 2007 9:18 PM CDT

Jean,
Although I don't post each day, I do check the site daily. I pray for you, Mark, and the kids each day. Francesca is never far from my heart and is always in my prayers.
Love, Natalie
Natalie Roarty <NMArie2428@aol.com>
- Saturday, September 1, 2007 12:27 AM CDT

Jean,
The people who know and
love you can be patient
with you in your time of grief.
I know you are trying so hard
to find a new kind of normal,
but I pray that you will be patient
with yourself, riding out the most
sorrowful times knowing the Lord
will carry you through. I pray
continually for peace for you. Remember,
during this difficult time, if all you
did was pull yourself out of bed, anything
else is an accomplishment. One day you have
your energy back. You will be optimistic again.
For now, you need this time to heal. I have
known too many moms who have lost a child.
I have watched them suffer as you suffer now
and I have watched them move in to a new
season filled with hope, energy and ambition.
No, the pain never really goes away, but they
do learn to live with it and I know you will,
too. Hang on to your hope in the Lord.
Sending my prayers and love.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
Grand Island, NY - Saturday, September 1, 2007 8:46 AM CDT

Jean,
Please stop beating yourself up. Birthdays, holidays,
the anniversary of a death all are traumatic for one
in grief. This is normal and may happen for years to
come.

As a former Victim Advocate I not only saw this first
hand, but when my sister died I was shocked to learn
that I too went through this grief cycle. I was so disappointed at myself because I thought I knew "How"
to grieve. I thought I had all the answers, had read
hundreds of books on grief. None of that mattered at
all. I went into the deep, dark places where the
grieving go. I was non-functional. I could not help myself or the ones who depended on me for support.
I felt I was drowning for months. I can't even tell you how I got back from the darkness. But I can tell you I still sometimes after 12 1/2 years break into tears when I see her favorite flowers or hear the song of her favorite bird. She was more mother to me than sister as she was 19 when I was born. She lived with my family the last 5 years of her life.

I'm not trying to tell you it is immpossible to let go
of grief because it is. What I mean is that you never let go of wanting what was no matter how long you live. It
is possible to go on, just not in the same way.

My heart breaks for you as I can only imagine how much
worse it is to lose a child than a sister.

Please know that I pray for you several times a day.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.org>
- Saturday, September 1, 2007 7:25 AM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that you are doing some better
now that the birthday weekend is over.
Remember, I pray for you daily, several
times a day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, August 31, 2007 12:02 AM CDT

Jean: Sorry that I haven't written yet this week.
Sam and I are on vacation and trying to get the
house in some order. Know that you have been on
my mind and hope that each day will make you
stronger. Going through the "firsts", i.e. birthdays,
holidays, etc. is the hardest. Each one after that
hopefully will get better. You never stop remembering
or wishing that the person you lost will walk through
the door, but knowing that they are in a wonderous
place helps to ease the pain. I truly take comfort
in knowing that Dad is there for Frankie and she is
there for him. What joy she has brought to him and
I know he is spoiling her!! Our continued prayers
and thoughts come your way. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, August 31, 2007 6:38 AM CDT

Jean, One of my memories of Frankie was the first home visit I made without a teacher. The teachers were always responsible for bringing the "toy bag". I never thought about this, but came without a toy bag. Well, of course Frankie was looking behind me, around me, and everywhere else for the toy bag. Never again did I not come back to your house without a large bag of different surprises. She would always check out each and every item, and definately had her favorites. Sometimes words are so inadequate to express what we would like to share. Know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers and especially at this special time. Barb
Barb Moledor <barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Thursday, August 30, 2007 3:06 PM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that your day is good. Hoping that
your family are all well.
Praying for you daily.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 30, 2007 12:25 AM CDT

Jean,
How beautifully you write. That talent is a
gift from God. WHy not try writing a book?
What a wonderful way to honor the memory of
Frankie than to write her story from birth to
death. I am sure that reading this would help
others who have lost children.
You are so right. God is not finished with all
of you. Gina is a wonderful writer also, especially
at her age. She could write a book for children who
lose siblings.
Remember, to make sense of Frankie's death by helping
others would be a tribute to her.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 29, 2007 1:32 PM CDT

Jean,
Your faith and determination to keep holding on inspires me so much! My burdens are lightened when I attempt to live the way you do, always believing that God is "not done". May your heart be blessed with sunshine on this day. We keep you in our prayers and we remember that God is in charge.
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH - Wednesday, August 29, 2007 7:38 AM CDT

Jean,
I think of you and pray for you every day.
May the Lord send you peace and comfort.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, August 28, 2007 9:22 PM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
I have so many wonderful memories of
Frankie. I took the time this summer to
write them down. I'll have to share them
with you sometime. I miss you all a lot,
I'll have to stop by soon and we can
catch up. I hope things are going well
for you guys. I'm pretty swamped with school,
this year is going to be tough, I can tell.
I'm praying for you guys always!
Love,
josephine
Josephine <josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Tuesday, August 28, 2007 6:27 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
Hoping that you had a better day today.
I pray for you always.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 27, 2007 5:20 PM CDT

Another memory I have of Frankie is when she would practice jumping off the bottom step or in place. She would say, "YIKES!" and then jump. She was so happy doing that....I can still hear her little voice saying "YIKES!" and laughing about it....what a little sweetie.
Cathy
Akron, Oh - Monday, August 27, 2007 2:29 PM CDT

Hi Jean
I was at Cedar Point yesterday and towards evening I remembered, "It's Frankie's Birthday". And then I prayed for peace for you. How are you today, now that it is Monday, the 27th?
I think of you often,
Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, oh USA - Monday, August 27, 2007 2:12 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
I pray that all of you made it through yesterday.
My thoughts and prayers were with all of you all
day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 27, 2007 9:20 AM CDT

I miss the jokester Frankie. She would say Cindy, Cindy, Cindy and I would finally say "what" and she would laugh and say "Debbi" in a motherly way like "you shouldn't have answered to Cindy! She thought that was so funny. I miss her rummaging through my bag, looking for my phone so she could make some calls or to see if I still had the bunny and kitty picture on it (she had a fit when I changed it and I had to change it back!) I miss holding her and reading books. She pointed out every detail. She had just started singing in the winter before her surgery. She sang 'Jesus Loves Me' in her cute little voice. I had to call my Mom. Frankie usually wouldn't do something when you wanted her to, but she sang for her and had her in tears. That's just a drop of Frankie memories and how Frankie touched even people who never got to meet her. This has been a sad day for those of us that loved her. Happy Birthday in Heaven, sweet girl. Love, hugs and prayers to the Frisone family
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Sunday, August 26, 2007 9:00 PM CDT

Dear Jean,

I have had this day marked on my calendar and have been holding you close to my heart. My memories of our times with Frankie are of the several visits with you here at our home. The first time Frankie had her O2 and tank, pulse ox, and various other contraptions. The pictures from last summer remind me of how much better she was, and what hope it gave us! She was walking around with Gianna, happy and as healthy as could be expected. I loved her curiosity, her smile, and her strong opinions. I felt bad that she could taste, but not really eat the delicious chocolate cake you brought one time. The hikes with the home school group are a fond memory also, us with our strollers and toddlers huffing and puffing at the back of the pack. My fondest thought, when I look back, is of how your other kids interacted with her. Always willing to help her, to hold her, loving her in the true sense of the word. Your kids learned that "love" is not really just a feeling, it is a commitment and a service of another. Frankie was a beautiful way for them to see that.

I hope we can do more hikes this year, minus our strollers now, but with the rest of the kids and the fellowship of the other moms. Maybe we'll be able to keep up this time! I love you, and treasure our friendship. And I bet Frankie is finally able to eat some birthday cake at the banquet in heaven! Happy 3rd birthday, dear little one!

Love,
Teresa
Teresa Giorgio <ggiorgio@adelphia.net>
Sharon Township, OH - Sunday, August 26, 2007 4:00 PM CDT

Frisone Family -
Prayers for you always, but especially today, as I look at my birthday girl sleeping (and drooling a litte!)
on the couch, and get tears in my eyes as I think about your precious angel sharing her birthday with Jesus!
I can't even imagine the pain in your hearts today, but I can surely imagine the LOVE in Frankie's heart, in Heaven.
Peace and prayers, and how I wish I could say something comforting and worthwhile...
I'll always share our daughters' birthday with you and Frankie, in my heart and prayers, and will always
remember the legacy of a 2 1/2 year old spitfire of faith!
A St. Matthias Parishioner
OH - Sunday, August 26, 2007 3:20 PM CDT

Frisone Family,
Early this morning at 12:05 a.m. I could not get you all and Frankie off my mind. Although we celebrated Sawyer's earthly birthday we had to add in Frankies heavenly birthday. Sawyer had a yellow thomas the train balloon that he ask to send to Frankie. So, I took him outside thinking he would just let it go to heaven like he normally would do. Not yesterday....he looked at me and said "Mommy, Frankie has lots of balloons with Jesus" I responed with a "Yes Sawyer, Frankie has lots more balloons than you do today." He then looked up to the sky and said "Here Frankie" and let go of the balloon. Tears were streaming down my face by that point just knowing that a 2 year old really does understand to a certain extent. I said all that to say this....please know that although we are many miles away from you we still think of all of you. I said it a million times....Frankie will always have a special place in our heart. Jason wants to buy the movie Monsters Inc. just because that little girl reminds him of Frankie!!!! We love you all and thanks for sharing Frankies journey with us.

Heart mommy,
www.caringbridge.org/visit/sawyerdt
ashley <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
arden, nc - Sunday, August 26, 2007 2:33 PM CDT

Jean,Mark and family,
Today I said some special prayers for all
of you and especially for Frankie in Heaven.
I hold all of you close to my heart on this day.
May the Lord Bess you and keep you, today and
always.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, August 26, 2007 1:42 PM CDT

Happy Birthday in Heaven, Frankie.
KatieButler
NJ - Sunday, August 26, 2007 7:38 AM CDT

Jean and Mark: One of my fondest memories of Frankie
was at Dan Seachrist's benefit. Being that she went
through so much, it was no wonder that she clinged to
you Jean and I never had that chance to hold her like
I did the other kids. Well, that all changed at the
benefit and I seized the opportunity when she was
trying to carry her bottle of water. She needed help
and I jumped at the chance (not only to help her but
in a selfish way to have MY chance with her!). Well,
I asked if I could help and she nodded yes and the
rest of history!! She held my hand and let me hold her.
Sam joked with her and made her smile. She started
saying the code words for lifting her up on your
shoulders but I didn't know what she wanted. I asked
Mark and he said I wouldn't be able to do it. I
understand now why - Frankie was a solid little girl
and you needed some pretty strong shoulders!!! If I
could have - I would have!!! I am so thankful for
the times I shared at the Clinic with her. I hope
Elmo brought some smiles and Sam and I would have loved
to see her in the Bike Week shirt we got in Florida for
her. You are all in our thoughts and prayers today and
always. We love you all! Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
HAPPY BIRTHDAY FRANKIE - I KNOW THAT YOU ARE HAVING A
WONDERFUL DAY AND I KNOW THAT DAD, SR. JORDAN,
MR. SCHUBERT AND MR. MISSIMI ARE MAKING SURE OF IT!!

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Sunday, August 26, 2007 5:39 AM CDT

One of my favorite baby pictures of Frankie
(the one on the wall in Mark's office)
is a sweet little girl wrapped in her baby blanket
with the most "Beautiful Italian Eyes".
I remember the day at the Moose when
I won a doll out of the machine --
those eyes lit up and the smile
on her face when I handed it
to her warmed my heart.
I smile when I think of her sitting
on the floor at my house with Elmo and Eore,
those beautiful eyes bright with amazement
as they talked and sang for her.
When I think of Frankie I will
always think of love. The love of
her Mother who took such amazing
care of her, the love of her Father
as he picked her up when she wanted
to be held or to play their special games,
the love of her Grandparents who
would do anything for her
and the love of her brothers and sisters
who would were her world.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers-
Take care of each other
and love each other with
the same kind of devoted love that
Frankie has for all of you.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Saturday, August 25, 2007 11:32 PM CDT

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you strength, tomorrow and always.
Kristina
Malden, MA - Saturday, August 25, 2007 8:58 PM CDT

The memory that comes to mind immediately is our visit on Easter day, the day you brought her back home. We had not planned on stopping by, but did so on a whim. It was a graced decision, for sure. We walked in and Anthony was holding her, swaying back and forth. I remember that Mike held her and she would pat him on the back when he talked with her. I will forever remember those little pats of communication. When you walked in, those pats turned into shouts of "Jean, Jean"! Hearing her call you Jean when "Mom" wasn't working was priceless. She was so fiesty and so cute. Mike and I deeply treasure that visit. We are thinking of and praying for you and Mark and all the kids. Love you...
Julie <jdog782@yahoo.com>
Columbus, OH - Saturday, August 25, 2007 8:36 PM CDT

Oh how hard it is to do what we must do, remember.
We don't want to forget and the memories bring a
flood of tears.
I remember how much Frankie loved being with the kids.
The first sign of her discomfort, and there was a
steady stream of siblings, entertaining, and making her
laugh. It worked. Love always does.
I remember her trying to spare Guiseppe from getting
up when I called for his help. "No, Guiseppe, knee hurts"
she reminded me.
I remember Maria handling her venting, all the while,
talking in her sweet voice to distract her from her
discomfort.
I remember a bite for James or Pappy, her favorite.
How she would smile when she saw her cousins.
Barney! We can't forget how much she like him.

She loved you Jean. That was a given. You were
in every way Lifegiving to her.
But Mark, she loved you so completely and unconditionally.
The moment your headlights would hit the drive,
she would come alive with anticipation to see your face.
She adored you.
We can't remember without the pain,
but we will never forget.
Her Love, her Spirit lives on.
We must celebrate her New Life and
imagine her advocating for us and
calling us to be all that we can be.
We will all be praying for healing grace.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, August 25, 2007 4:03 PM CDT

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been a silent partner in prayer for the last year.
Janette
- Saturday, August 25, 2007 2:21 PM CDT

I read your story some time ago and think of you and Frankie often. Please know that I'm thinking of you and your family and sending you prayers of comfort and peace for her birthday.
Anne Basso <AnneBasso@gmail.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Saturday, August 25, 2007 1:09 PM CDT

Jean, Mark and family,
I remember Frankie at the Kent Fest a year ago.
You were pulling her in a wagon and my husband
and I were working the F&CS booth. She looked
so healthy and was so cute. That's the picture
I try to visualize when I think of her. Mark
was on the street handing out the whirlygigs the
agency was giving away. You were there with the
smaller children and everyone seemed so happy.

I wish that could have lasted many years for you
all, but it was not meant to be. We must remember
that things happen for a reason. We are seldom
allowed to know what that reason is. God knows,
however, and we must trust in Him. I know that is
so very hard.

I pray that after this difficult, bittersweet
weekend that you will find that things will get
a little easier for you. As one of your friends
wrote, things will never be normal again. You
have to make a new normal for yourself and your
family. As time goes by it will get easier. You
just have to get to that point.

The next traumatic time will be the holidays, then
January when you went to Michigan, then of course
the anniversary of her death. This is also part of
grieving. Slowly, after the first year passes it will
start to ease up some. The hole in your family will
always be there because nothing will ever replace her.
But you will learn to live without her and go on.

I will pray for all of you this weekend. And the
weekend will pass and Monday will bring it's own busy
schedule and things will go on.

I wish I could ease your pain, but grief is a passage
only you and your family can go through. The rest of
us can only offer support and love and concern. There
are many who stand behind you and your family to uphold
you in this difficult time.
Love from one of them,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 25, 2007 9:39 AM CDT

I haven't signed the guest book in awhile, however I check this site often to see how you are doing. I have so many sweet memories of Frankie....I remember using tissue to get her to squat down,pick up a tissue, then stand to wipe her the nose of her baby. Also, how she would use your family picture and point to each member and name them. I can remember all the kids coming in to help Frankie with her therapy session. They would read her books or act silly to make her laugh. I mostly remember walking out your door, turning around to see Frankie's smiling face through the window and waving at me with her sweet chubby hand! I will always remember the loving, devoted, caring family that Frankie was born into! There is no doubt that little girl was loved her entire life! Thank you for allowing me to be a small part of her life.....God bless all of you.
Cathy
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
Akron, OH - Saturday, August 25, 2007 8:22 AM CDT

Jean, I will remember how ARCHE prayed so hard for you and Frankie before she was born. I remember seeing her newborn picture and being mesmerized with how beautiful she was!! and redoubling my efforts to pray for her. I remember finally meeting her in person on the hikes last fall and telling my kids about what a special little girl she was. My kids always tried to wave to her. I loved the story you told us about her throwing the nurse's pen one way so that she could run the other way! I loved that she was smart and spunky!

I've noted her birthday too and you will be in our prayers tomorrow. Happy first birthday in heaven Frankie!
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Saturday, August 25, 2007 7:58 AM CDT

I remember Frankie on Christmas Eve, dasing around the church as if it were her own playground.
I remember thinking, "how awesome that such a small child feels as comfortable here, as she would at home."
I remember Fr. Phil carrying her around like the princess she is!
She was happy, she was in church, she was dressed like a princess she was with family, and that was good enough for her,
it was all she seemed to need! We should all take a lesson from Frankie!!!
I will think of you all, all day today and tomorrow, as I celebrate the awesome blessing of my daughter's birthday.
Thank you, Frisone Family, for sharing your amazing daughter and the journey with us.
You make us all cherish our children, our family, and our God so much more. THAT is Frankie's legacy, at so young an age.
A St.. Matthias Parishioner
- Saturday, August 25, 2007 7:09 AM CDT

Jean-
I just read your last entry.
It's "supposed to look like" exactly what it looks like!
(Scary as that is.)

After a sudden and devasting loss of a loved one,
somone close to me kept asking, "when will it be
'normal?' I just want things to be normal."
We started with "there's no such thing as 'normal'."
And then the mantra soon became "This IS normal."

After what your family has been through and is still
going through, textbook 'normal' is out the window.
You all don't need to work so hard to be better or more
than you are. Especially you Jean. You ARE as normal
as it's gonna get. Let Christ hold you there, until
you can feel it. You are all doing exactly as God would
have you do, which is "the best you can."
Peace and Prayers, especially this Sunday.

A St. Matthias Parishioner
- Thursday, August 23, 2007 10:33 PM CDT

I still think I should be driving to Suffield Mondays and Thursdays. I miss you all and think of you every day. I was hoping to be able to visit you this week but things are crazy. I am taking care of my son's snimals while he is on vacation which requires going there in the am before work and trying to get 3 pills down a Great Dane. Get the visual of a dog with a mouth the size of a croc finding a pill in a hot dog and spitting it on the floor. When Jared get's home, he will have no peanut butter cause that's the only thing that works. Then there's the rabbit, cats, and a horse that's about 30 years old, who decided to look for greener pastures and the cops came. The first day I went there, the dog had some "side-effects" from his antibiotics and without going into details, left me a nice mess on their kitchen floor....and there were 4 paper towels on the roll!!! anyway, I hope you needed a little smile, our lives will always be hectic and crazy but there is always something to be thankful for, and I am thankful I don't own a Great Dane! Love and prayers...Debbi
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Thursday, August 23, 2007 9:29 PM CDT

Gina, You were the delight of 5 adults at the
Lion King. We all enjoyed your giggles and
observations more than the performance itself.
You are a truly gifted young woman.
Our invitation to Italy sounds tempting.
We must keep dreaming.
Blessings,
Grandma
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, August 23, 2007 6:04 AM CDT

Jean,
I am glad to read that the grief bombs are coming
less often. I read something that I thought might
help.

"Weeping may linger for the night, but joy comes
in the morning." (Psalm 30:5) We find God's comfort
when we allow ourselves to mourn. In time, God will
wipe every tear from our eyes. Death will be no more;
mourning and crying and pain will be no more;
for the first things have passed away." (Rev. 21:4)
God's time may not come as quickly as we would like,
but the pain of sorrow diminishes and leaves behind
blessed memories. Through our tears, the Savior's
words echo: "I will not leave you orphaned; I am
coming to you." (John 14:18)

I will hold all of you in my heart this week. May
God comfort all of you and give you peace.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 22, 2007 7:32 PM CDT

Jean, Just wanted to let you know that you and your family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Barb
Barbara Moledor <BarbM@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, Oh USA - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 3:20 PM CDT

Hi Jean!
This is the first time in awhile that I've been on the website. I will be checking it more regularly now that we are more settled in. You and the fam are constantly in our prayers! Look forward to seeing you again...
Julie <jdog782@yahoo.com>
Columbus, OH - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 11:32 AM CDT

It was so good to talk to you yesterday. It makes me sad to hear the hurt in your voice, I wish I could make everything better but that is not my job at the moment, it is to listen and so you are probably the only person at the momemt that actually gets me to shut up and listen! I know this weekend is a tough one, I have plans for a rosary for you. When you talked about fasting you really challenged me, you are so strong when it comes to sacrifice, I can really learn something from you.
Abby started the Elms today, I am so thrilled! Freshman Blessing is next week and the last time I was in the convent chapel was for Frankie's public baptism. I'll say a special prayer and re-introduce myself to the nuns. I miss you! I need to come over for a hug and laundry. Love you.
Mamie Wilson <gwilson@wyseadv.com>
Medina, OH USA - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 10:49 AM CDT

Jean: It was wonderful seeing Gina and Maria
today over at Gougler after their eye appointments.
I could just take them home with me!!! Hope you
are doing okay - I know the weekend will be rough.
We'll be thinking of you all as we always do.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. The move went well - I think having to put
everything away is more work that the actual moving
of it all!!!

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 1:18 PM CDT

Gina,
I could read your writing any day.
I know you feel this site is for Francesca,
and do not feel the need to write now.
But Mom and so many of us like to remain in
touch with each other through the baby girl
who brought so much Love to this world.
You are a gifted thinker and writer.
Your reflections reveal the advanced maturity
I see in you. I can't wait to read your first
book. Keep writing and expressing your feelings.
Even when you keep your writtings to yourself you
are using a valuable gift.
I Love You,
Graham Cracker
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh USA - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 10:06 AM CDT

Jean, Mark, and family,
We think of you often, and hold in you prayer always that your strength and God's grace will continue to sustain you. May your Easter Sundays far outnumber your Good Fridays.
Judi
Judi Wise <judi.jerry@gmail.com>
Randolph, - Tuesday, August 21, 2007 8:59 AM CDT

Jean,
Thinking of you and praying that your
family will find comfort in Him who heals all wounds.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, August 21, 2007 8:19 AM CDT

Jean,
Continuing to keep both you and all your family
in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 20, 2007 3:50 PM CDT

Welcome Back Gina!!!
I have missed your wonderful writings!
You keep us informed and entertained.
I'm glad to hear how you are doing.
I hope that you continue to write.
As always, you are all in
my thoughts and Prayers.
Love,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Saturday, August 18, 2007 6:01 PM CDT

Keeping you and your entire family in my prayers.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Saturday, August 18, 2007 3:51 PM CDT

I continue to pray for you - God loves you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Saturday, August 18, 2007 3:17 PM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that the storms of life are calming.
Hoping that things will be calmer for you
after the older boys start school.

I know that this coming week will be hard on
all of you with Francesca's birthday. It will
open old wounds and cause a flood of tears.
Remember, she will always be happy in heaven
and trouble free. I know that you'd rather
have her with you. Many of us will be praying
for you more often during the coming week.

I will double my prayers for you this week, asking
that you have the strength to make it through.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 18, 2007 9:56 AM CDT

Jean: I apologize for not writing last week -
things at work were hectic and also at home.
You all have the strength to get through the
"storm" and will all the prayers coming your
way, you will get safety back to shore. I
think of you everyday and send good thoughts
your way. Know that you are all always in our
prayers. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. This is a big weekend for Sam and I -
We're moving in together!!!! Yet another phase
in our lives.

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Saturday, August 18, 2007 7:59 AM CDT

Jean,
Continuing to pray for you daily. Hoping
that the perfect storm is quieting down.
Maybe when the older boys start school
you will some times of peace.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 16, 2007 11:57 AM CDT

We are to be aware of the blessings held in the
challenges given to us in this life.
As Uncle Phil captured so well,
this past three years has held it's Good Friday
and Easter Sunday experiences.
I am counting one of my Easter Sunday blessings,
talking with you, praying for you and your family,
having a daughter like you.
Be keenly aware of the Grace being poured forth
on your family, as you continue to be faithful.
God Bless You one and all,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, August 16, 2007 11:54 AM CDT

Dear Jean;

Thinking of you and praying you continue to heal. As Frankie's birthday approaches I remember the picture of you,Frankie,my daugher Mary Ellen and me, (and I think Pat Henze)...at Frankies 1st birthday party. What a precious angel! And now she looks down upon all of us with warm smiles, until we are all reunited.
Peace...
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Thursday, August 16, 2007 0:06 AM CDT

Having survived 2 teenage boys at the same time and one to go, I can only say I live for the day when i can go to their homes and not take off my shoes, throw my starlight mint wrappers on the floor, leave a trail of kleenex falling from my sleeves, hide their telephones, complain about what's for dinner, etc. Revenge is mine!! So start planning! Just thinking of it will make you feel better! You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. Give the kids (age 13 and under) a hug for me, and the older ones, well it's just OK to not like them very much sometimes, even though you do love them. Take care, Debbi
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 9:10 PM CDT

Jean,
Hopefully, The Perfect Storm, will be over soon
and you will be able to sail to calmer shores.
I still pray for you daily and send my love and
positive thoughts to you several times a day.
Praying for calmer seas and that your boat remains
upright and can withstand the waves.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 15, 2007 9:05 AM CDT

I pray that you all stay
in that life boat "together",
loving each other and holding on,
until you are able to reach
the peace on shore.
Thinking of you this Tuesday
and everyday.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 10:37 PM CDT

Just wanted to tell you that you are in my thoughts and prayers every day. As her birthday approaches, I feel such an ache in my heart, I can't imagine the feelings you are having. But I hope you will be able to celebrate the gift of Frankie that we all got. Everyone that knew her has been touched in a way that we will never be the same. She was so amazing, the way she absorbed everything like a sponge. She was not a typical 2 year old. How many 2 year olds remember (or even care!), who gave her those jammies, stuffed animals or books? Frankie alway made those associations like she was saying "I know I am loved, and I am thankful for it" and, in turn we are thankful for every minute of her life and the opportunity to love her. A child so special was meant to be shared and I think I can speak for us all.......thank you for sharing your precious Francesca. Love and hugs, debbi
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 8:24 PM CDT

Do you remember when John was little,
he would often say "Happy Tuesday"
He knew some days it was a joke, cause
he knew it wasn't Tuesday.
Deb Johnston is right in her view of what
separates us from Frankie and her eternal
Happy Tuesday.
On Tuesdays, I always remember our last embrace.
She has encouraged me to be excited about that
future embrace, and trying to bring a little of
heaven to earth each day.
She holds you and the entire family in purest Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 8:19 AM CDT

Jean,
You continue to be in my
thoughts and prayers. The only
thing that separates you from
Frankie is your time left here on earth.
Hold on tightly to God's promises.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, August 14, 2007 4:39 AM CDT

You are always in our thoughts
and prayers.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, August 13, 2007 10:29 PM CDT

Frisone Fmaily -
As August 26th nears, please always remember that SO many
people you barely know are thinking of you so often, and
praying for all 10+ of you. My daughter's birthday is
also August 26th, and I will squeeze her tighter on
birthdays to come, and think of you and of Frankie, and of
how blessed we are to be mothers, in all times, and all
seasons. That you continue to share your journey with us
is remarkable. Because of you all, Frankie is still here,
with us. Prayers for peace in your hearts and joy in your days.

A St. Matthias Parishioner
- Monday, August 13, 2007 10:09 PM CDT

Jean,
I am sorry that I do not write as often as
I used to. Some days I am unable to get on
the computer to check the site.
Please know that I think of you and pray for
you daily even if I do not write.
I will continue to pray for all of your family
daily.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 13, 2007 8:36 AM CDT

Jean,
As we gathered at Julie and Mike's, we all began working
like happy little worker bees.
You were with us. Not just with the delicious chicken
Mike H. grilled, and the cream puffs etc.
But as we said Grace, Mike W. quoted your words from
the eulogy. With tears in his eyes he thanked you,
and the rest of us for being such a part of the home
making. They trully know this home is not for them
alone. So come on down. It's like the Spirit of
Jean and Gene's is infused here.
Our prayers are with you all,
With Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Sunday, August 12, 2007 10:35 AM CDT

Jean,
Aunt Mary really appreciated all your home made
meals and treats.
Tricia was in amazement at how you could pull of
all that cooking and baking with your busy schedule.
It was fun spending those moments together.
Continued prayers and appreciation for your unique
gifts.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Friday, August 10, 2007 9:00 PM CDT

Jean,
Thinking of you always..... little Frankie sure has a special place in our heart. Although we didn't really even know her she gained a spot that many other people don't even have!!!!
www.caringbridge.org/visit/sawyerdt
ashley <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
arden, nc - Friday, August 10, 2007 7:48 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
Thinking of you today. Prayers for a fresh day,a weekend of gladness and a peaceful heart.
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, Oh usa - Friday, August 10, 2007 7:16 AM CDT

Thinking of you today...
Praying for you all.
sue <busksue@aol.com>
rootstown, - Thursday, August 9, 2007 6:57 PM CDT

You've been on my heart today -
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 5:19 PM CDT

Hi Jean

You sound a little stronger. It's hard to hold your head up some days! I couldn't agree more with the "learning to adapt". I have often told other people that there are some things in life that you never get over. You learn to live with "it" and you learn stronger coping skills, and you do eventually learn to accept "it", but you never learn to like "it", or get over "it". My father died when I was 11 years old. You would think by now that I could just forget about him, move on! I can't. I still see his face very clearly, I still miss him and Christmas has never been the same. I am now 42years old. I pray every day for strength for you and your family! It will come in time!! Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Ohio USA - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 1:03 PM CDT

Jean,
I think about you and pray for you daily.
I hope as each day passes you will grow stronger.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 8, 2007 9:36 AM CDT

There isn't a day that comes and goes that you, Mark and the kids aren't in my thoughts. I have Frankie on my work computer desktop so she is with me constantly. Hugs.
Geri Ann
- Wednesday, August 8, 2007 8:07 AM CDT

Jean: How I wish I had the gift of writing like
you do. I truly enjoy reading your words and hope
that in some small way, my words to you are helping
you all. I look at my pictures of Frankie and of
the three older boys when they were little which
are on my desk and think - what a truly amazing
family this is! Know that you continue to be in
my thoughts and prayers. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, August 8, 2007 6:30 AM CDT

Jean,
My prayers for you continue...I was talking to an old friend about Frankie. This friend lost her 5 year old son to cancer 7 years ago. She said to tell you that it may seem impossible now, but things will get easier in time. Those "grief bombs" may continue for a long time, but you will learn to deal with them and the sting won't be as painful. May you receive comfort from my prayers and the prayers of so many others.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, August 8, 2007 3:57 AM CDT

Jean; Always thinking of you, hoping each new day brings greater strength. You continue to be an inspiration to all of us!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Tuesday, August 7, 2007 9:34 PM CDT

Jean,
Still thinking and praying for you daily.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, August 6, 2007 3:41 PM CDT

Jean
As always, you are in our thoughts and prayers. May you feel more of God's healing touch with each day.
Kathy Hartong <emptynest@juno.com>
Randolph, OH - Monday, August 6, 2007 2:41 PM CDT

How accurate Judith Bernstein is! Her perspective on adaptation is incredibly accurate. Your feelings never go away. Frankie will forever be missed. She's left an indelible mark. You will learn new ways, different ways to go about doing the many things that you need to do. The "grief bombs" will get fewer and fewer, not because your memories abandon you, but instead, you learn to adapt. You are a remarkable woman Jean, with a remarkable family. Give yourself the time and the "bombs" you need to have in order to adapt. My love and prayers continue for all of you. Can't go onto the 4 floor without thinking - Donna
Donna Patno <donnacnm@windstream.net>
Hudson, OH - Monday, August 6, 2007 12:42 AM CDT

Jean - I continue to lift you in prayer.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Saturday, August 4, 2007 10:32 PM CDT

No matter how deep your grief and how great your pain, remember that you are not alone.
Larry Bartlett <eljaybee63@aol.com>
Modesto, CA - Saturday, August 4, 2007 6:53 PM CDT

Today is a new day. May this beautiful day, God's creation, bring feelings of hope and sunshine into your heart. You remain in our thoughts and prayers!
Tim and Linda DeFrange <timlin@neo.rr.com>
Kent, OH United States - Saturday, August 4, 2007 10:34 AM CDT

Thinking of you!!!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Friday, August 3, 2007 10:42 PM CDT

Jean: Will and always will be here for you, Mark,
the kids and the rest of your family. Sending
much love your way. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, August 3, 2007 6:18 PM CDT

Jean,
You amaze me!
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, August 3, 2007 6:05 PM CDT

Jean,
How very far you've come. You are absolutely
right. Nothing will ever be the same again.
So you have to find new paths to take and new
ways of looking at things. You have to create
a new "normal" for you and your family. You
will make it and also find ways to help other
families going through long term illnesses
with small children.
You are loved and admired by so many people.
May God continue to bless all of you and work
through you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, August 3, 2007 10:59 AM CDT

Jean,
We continue to pray for you
as you journey on this road
of healing.It took amazing strength
for you to go back to the hospital-
you are a very special woman.
Remember you are loved!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Thursday, August 2, 2007 10:08 PM CDT

Jean,
Thinking of you and praying for all your family.
Each day is a new beginning and I pray that each
new day brings you respite from your grief, if
only for a short time.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 2, 2007 10:07 AM CDT

Jean: You have taken one more step in the healing
process. I'm proud of you even though it was
extremely painful emotionally for you. You are all
continually in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. Just found out yesterday that Sam and I are
going to be grandparents!! His son and daughter-
in-law are expecting. Also, I will be moving in
with Sam by September 1st. New phases in our
lives are happening all the time!
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, August 2, 2007 9:00 AM CDT

Hey Jean, Im so sorry I was not here when you came on monday. I cant imagine what it was like, but thank you for sharing your feelings on having to come back here. We are all thinking about you and your family, and miss you too. God bless u, Denise P.S. Let me know if you want to get together, anytime!! And I told Annmarie you had asked about her and she is thinking of all of you!!!
Denise <denroot@aol.com>
Parma, OH USA - Thursday, August 2, 2007 2:55 AM CDT

Jean,
I Love You,
and hold all of you close in my heart
and prayers,
MOM
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 2:18 PM CDT

Dear Jean,

Thank you so much for sharing your heart and your thoughts here. Yesterday was a very big step. You are healing. God is good.
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 10:10 AM CDT

Jean,
How difficult it must have been
to walk through those halls. As I read,
I felt like that was me, except I don't
know that I would have anywhere near the
courage you have to go back there. I
pray that your visit there will help to
bring you some peace, maybe some closure.
I'm praying for you.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, August 1, 2007 9:59 AM CDT

Jean,
I can only imagine the horror and pain that
you must have felt when you went to the Clinic.
I'm so glad that your in-laws drove you. They
are such wonderful people and you are so lucky
to have them.
I hope the information that you received will
ease some of your pain and suffering. Yes, you
and your family were blessed to have had Frankie
as long as you did. She was a very special "angel"
and you may never know how many lives she touched
in her short life.
Please know that I pray for you and your family
every day. I haven't been writing daily like I
used to. This is not that I care less, but I am
going through some health issues myself. Never a
day goes by that I do not think of you and pray
for you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, August 1, 2007 8:36 AM CDT

Praying for you today and always.
Love Natalie
Natalie Roarty <NMarie2428@aol.com>
- Tuesday, July 31, 2007 12:01 AM CDT

My prayers continue to be
with you and your family.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, July 31, 2007 6:15 AM CDT

Jean,
What a wonderful step that you have taken.
Seeing a grief counselor is a big step
toward recovery. What she told you makes
perfect sense,90% of your energy is going
towards grief right now.

You are a woman of faith and we all admire
you so much. You WILL overcome this "veil
of tears."

Blessings from God be upon you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 30, 2007 10:29 AM CDT

Jean: I'm glad to read that you spoke with
someone. Everyday the light at the end of
the tunnel will begin to get brighter. You
are an amazing woman and mother - I know that
and so does everyone else. Things will get
back to normal - it takes time. Our continued
thoughts and prayers are will you all.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, July 30, 2007 6:23 AM CDT

Jean,
I just want to tell
you this and I mean
it with all my heart:
I feel so blessed to
know you. Your strength
courage amaze me.
God Bless you.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, July 29, 2007 7:43 PM CDT

i know i met you and your beautiful family not long ago, but every single one of you makes me feel warm inside, especially you and frankie. i think about you and yours all the time and pray that times get better and brighter. your strength and your love are truly an inspiration to me. i know it has been a while but i just wanted to let you know that i (and all of the staff on m40 at the cleveland clinic) are thinking about you
kristin cherney PCNA M40 cleveland clinic <kristin_182003@yahoo.com>
mentor/cleveland, oh USA - Sunday, July 29, 2007 4:16 AM CDT

Jean,
I am so glad that you
are taking the time to
take care of yourself-
we can't begin to know the
pain you are going through
but we pray that you hold
on to the hope that there
is a light at the end of
the tunnel for you and your family.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, OH - Saturday, July 28, 2007 10:25 PM CDT

Dearest Jean,

There is a glory that you share
with all who read your words,
feel your pain, watch you reach for resolve
as you seek the sacred salve to soothe the wounds of such a loss.

In that glory, we who meet with your words
reflect back the light of your glowing internal candle
as you call forth for us appropriate words of others
in the soothing balm of song (for in singing, we pray twice)

In your gift for grasping the perfect bible quote for the moment's need,
you are pleading for help and giving help to us within your prayers
as you express the deepest part of your pain,
calling forth every reserve of the heart, every command of the soul.

Thus, we are blessed that you cast your light upon us
... the light that shines brightly from within you
because you and Frankie blessed each others' days with bountiful love
so that the two of you could be partners in bringing forth understanding of ...

The Great Art of Living, The Divine Design of Dying
and The Eternal Light of Faith, Love, Hope, and True Communion with God.

How bright a star little Frankie is,
as she smiles from the heavens on her Mommy.

We who stand in your light humbly give thanks to you
for your willingness to share your gifts with us.

June Starshine (sister to Lynne Shannon) <onceuponastarshinetime@hotmail.com>
Crestline, CA USA - Saturday, July 28, 2007 10:24 PM CDT

Jean, I am so glad you are seeing a grief counselor. I took a grief and bereavement class at KSU. An awesome instructor, great class. You will learn much during your sessions, and will realize you are doing much better than you give yourself credit for.

You are an incredible woman! An inspiration to so many. Just remember, one day at a time. Your faith will see you through this.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Saturday, July 28, 2007 9:04 PM CDT

Jean, Thanks so much for the book--I just got it today! How thoughtful of you to remember me. I look forward to reading it.
As I think of you and the sorrow you are going through--take it from someone who knows the pain--when you have a reminder of Frankie--simply talk to her out loud or quietly as if she is there with you--because she is! I would often go to the cemetary and spend the day talking to my daughter--I felt I was closer to her--but I knew she was in heaven! I left her handprint on the mirror for a very long time--I would not wash it off. I realized after my next two children were born--and healthy--I knew that God knew what was best for me and for Sherry--it takes time but God will help you through it and so will Frankie.
Our prayers are with you daily to give you strength to endure the pain. lovingly, Ruth Ann Hydeg
Ruth Ann Hydeg <rahydeg@10.>
Akron, OH USA - Saturday, July 28, 2007 2:17 PM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
I just got back from Canada and I just
wanted to say hi and that you are all
still in my prayers all the time. While
I was away I stayed up all night and watched
the sun rise over the lake. It was one of
those amazing beautiful moments
and i couldn't help but think of you and
Francesca. You think that you are not
getting enough done, but you are still
an amazing women. You are my role model
of how a mother should be. I always hope
that when I have kids of my own I can be
something close to as wonderful a mother
as you are. And i'm not just saying that
to make you feel better. I mean it.
You are all in my prayers day and night.
Love,
josephine
josephine <josephineland@aol.com>
suffield, OH - Saturday, July 28, 2007 1:41 PM CDT

Dearest Jean,

My sister Lynne has called me in ~ to your side
To witness the tears you've cried,
the life you've led,
the many profound things you've said.

I've watched from the sidelines,
heard the stories, landed in the news
Sharing, yet fighting my own mother's tears back
Thinking of wearing such shoes

That's not the mile I was ready to walk

Compassion has been here
Prayers followed in the air,
Yet, t'was not till now I found my way
To come forth with something to say

So here am I arriving now,
just one month shy of the annniversary
of Love's sweet birth

~ Baby Francesca ~

into this place called earth

How amazing is the outreach
of such seemingly tiny hands!
June Starshine (sister to Lynne Shannon) <onceuponastarshinetime@hotmail.com>
Crestline, CA USA - Friday, July 27, 2007 4:29 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
I have thought that you should write a book some day. It would be so helpful to so many going through the grieving process. Don't be concerned about the meltdowns! They are perfectly normal. I still have them after almost 9 months. I spoke with a colleague yesterday who lost his brother one year ago, and he said the pain is still there but the periods in between the meltdowns are farther apart. That WILL come about. She is still your precious baby.
Memories are good. Crying is therapeutic. The music is wonderful! Just think what heavenly music Frankie is hearing now! You are very, very strong even though you may not think so. My prayers are with you and your family every day.
Jacqui
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Friday, July 27, 2007 3:52 PM CDT

Thank you for sharing the lyrics and book excerpts that have
brought you some comfort and hope. I notice that many people
have received hope from what you write. I wonder if it is time
for you to start to think about writing your own book. You have the
ability to write naturally and transparently about your
situation, and your thoughts and feelings about what you are
going through. You already have the skeleton of your book in
your journal and the entries in the guestbook. Your pain and
your growth could be a real blessing to others through a book
as they have been through your online journal. It would also
be a way to bring your memories of Frankie together in one
place in a special way.
I will continue to pray for you. I know that God loves you
and has much good in mind for you.
Carolyn <bcnome@aol.com>
- Friday, July 27, 2007 11:13 AM CDT

Jean,
Thank you for sharing that wonderful song.
I hear it often and have found it truly
inspiring. I love contemporary Christian
music and listen to it every chance I get.

You will find many things that will send
you to tears. How could you not cry when
remembering a child so loving and special?

I pray that God will send you comfort and
peace each and every day and pull you through
this rough time.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 27, 2007 10:21 AM CDT

Jean,
I can see why you enjoy listening to this song. The words are so uplifting and hopeful. Please don't be so hard on yourself. No one expects you to just forget everything associated with Frankie. There will always be little reminders, but with time they won't hurt so much and will bring a smile when you think of Frankie. Praying that you will feel our heavenly Father renew and restore you and your family.
Love,
Mary
Mary Rodenbucher <Sportsmom@neo.rr.com>
Randolph, OH - Friday, July 27, 2007 8:08 AM CDT

Jean,
I can't believe you
put the lyrics to that
song on your journal. I
was listening to that song
shortly after Frankie's passing
and was wondering how I could
email it to you. It's so beautiful
and so full of hope. God knew you
needed to hear it.

Everyday I continue to
lift you up to the Lord,
Jean. Every day I pray that
your day will be brighter
than the one before, realizing
that it's a very slow and painful
process. How I wish there was
something tangible I could do
for you. Please let me know. You
know how to reach me.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, July 27, 2007 6:45 AM CDT

Jean,
One fond memory I have is Frankie, in her
hospital bed, with your ipod.
She looked so "hip",
You could tell, the familiar beautiful music
from home was soothing to her.

Thank you for keeping the Faith in the midst of such
intense pain.
Looking forward to today.
Also looking more forward to the weekend.
Audit will be over and I will have nore than
half of my grandchildren here.
Thoughts and prayers come with every thought of you,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh USA - Friday, July 27, 2007 6:41 AM CDT

Jean: Just a quick "Good Morning" to you.
Know that you are always in my thoughts and
prayers. Sure do miss seeing you and the
kids over here at the Gougler location. Be
sure to give them all a big kiss and hug from
me!! Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, July 26, 2007 6:24 AM CDT

Jean,
I wanted to wake up and smell the coffee this morning.
Then thought of you.
One day I dream of sitting on the lake at Jean and Gene's
and sharing our favorite brew.
Till then looking forward to all the precious every day
times we have, like seeing you today.
Lots of love and prayers sent your way,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, July 26, 2007 5:53 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying fervently that you and your family
are able to get over this hurdle that looms
before you. Grief can be paralyzing and rob
you of recognizing the precious things that
you do have.
May God's peace decend upon all of you and
ease your grief.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 25, 2007 11:05 AM CDT

Jean, Just wanted to let you know that I am continuing to read your journal entries and pray for you and your family. For some reason we have seen many new infants with a variety of heart problems, many quite severe. Frankie's memory and short life will always be a part of me and help me to be a better therapist.
Barbara Moledor <BarbM@portagemrdd.org>
ravenna, OH USA - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 9:00 AM CDT

Hi Jean,
Yesterday another precious heart baby friend of mine passed away. I thought about her parents. After reading your journal, I have a little more understanding of the pain they're in. Sometimes I wish I were still ignorant to the world of CHD. It's very painful to see what too many parents have to endure. However, it's this pain that brings me closer to the Lord and could this be the grand purpose of why you have to suffer your loss? I will continue to pray for you and to thank God for you. I am very encouraged to see that you having moments where the intensity of your grief is lifted a bit. I have so much confidence in you, Jean. One day you will find a new "normal" again.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
Grand Island, NY - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 6:58 AM CDT

Jean
Thinking of you on this Tuesday
and praying for your strength and
peace.
It was good to see you
and be able to give "hugs"
in person and share "good" memories.
Always remember you are loved!!
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 10:27 PM CDT

I just wanted to thank you so much for continuing to share Frankie with us. I still feel so connected to you even though we don't communicate as often as we did when we first found one another on Caringbridge. I still understand the plight of a "heart child's" parent. I cannot fully feel your grief, but I can wholly understand the pain.

God had a plan for Frankie. He may not have clued you in on it, but she knows what it is now. For all you know, the gentle breeze that grazes your face when you find the strength to go outside could be Frankie. You have to find it in yourself to once again find the beauty in all that God has created. I will pray for you every night. I will pray that you will find your way from under the wheels of that truck and somehow manage to find your place under his wing again.

Love from Virginia Beach,
Kendra Briscoe
Mom to 19-month-old Justin, Ebstein's Anomaly patient
http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/justinbriscoe
Kendra J. Briscoe <briscoekj@yahoo.com>
Virginia Beach, VA USA - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 10:07 PM CDT

Jean, I am reading a book right now that you might like. It is called "How full is your bucket?" It talks a lot about ways to be positive and bring that into the workplace, but I think it might be worth reading in your case too! It uses the Bucket and the Dipper to represent our emotions and how positive and negative interactions take away from or fill our "bucket". It is a short one too. I continue to pray for you and your family. I hope I get achance to talk to you in peraon again some day. Your strength lifts me up, and you continue to be a role model as a mother to me. Love, Teri Stevenson
theresa stevenson <rnrnx2@gmail.com>
akron, ohio usa - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 8:42 PM CDT

Jean, remember to offer up your pain, and your kids' pain so that He will put it to good use, and so that you will remember that it isn't all for nothing. . . because it surely is not. In the meantime, I know we are all praying for you - you are under the healing rays, even if you can't yet feel their effects.
Monica <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 4:44 PM CDT

Jean,
The scriptures tell us,
"Hope is not hope if it's object is seen."
I have faith in God that He will carry you.
I have faith in you that you will claim His Word
for your light unto this rocky path.

I can't wait for time with the kids.

I Love You,
Mom

HAPPY BIRTHDAY T!
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, OH USA - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 11:18 AM CDT

Jean,
Another Tuesday is here. There will come a time
that Tuesdays are not as painful for you.
Please know that I am still thinking of you
and your family every day and pray for you every day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 24, 2007 10:26 AM CDT

Jean: What a beautiful song! One day all of us
will be together in the wonderous place called
Heaven. Until then, we need to hold on to our
memories and the love we have for one another.
I'm glad to hear the weekend went well for you
all. You continue to be in my thoughts and
prayers always. Thank you for sharing yourself
with us through the website. Hugs and kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 6:22 AM CDT

Hi Jean
I am finishing your request of me. Please check the mail.
The heaviness that you speak of is so so normal. It will be at its worst this first year. Because everyday is a brand new day. Next year it will lift, then it will come and go, until eventually you find a way to accept all of this. Your family is going through the same feelings. You must be patient with them and yourself!! You will not FIX this for anyone. You must go through it! You will come out on the other side and it will be a Beautiful New Day!! Until then Please Rest your heart, mind, body and soul! Stay connected with people,and don't be afraid to break down and cry whenever and where ever you need! It's cleansing and necessary!
Your Friend
Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Monday, July 23, 2007 12:49 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
Thank you so much for the song!
I, too, know that my son is so happy
in Heaven, and I want to be with him.
However, I know, as you do, that we
have much to do here yet. We are examples
to our families, friends and co-workers.
I pray for you daily and share your
"mothers' grief". Give yourself time
to recover, and enjoy the thoughts
of Frankie in Heaven. We will hold
them again one day. Did I ever tell
you that my Patrick left us on a
Tuesday also? He loved little ones
and left a 16 month old grandson,
Alexander, whom he adored.
Perhaps he has held Frankie.
I am glad to hear that the
darkness/heaviness is lifting
somewhat. Crying everyday is o.k.
I still do too.
Love and prayers always,
Jacqui
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Monday, July 23, 2007 12:19 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I SO agree that God is definitely using you in a very
specific way right now. For many of us you speak
stronger than the greatest homilist. I never forget your
mom's reminder to me a long time ago that it is in our
weakness that we're made strong. I hold on to that
thought often. The weakness that is the burden in your heart each day is strength for me.
As you said, being connected is VERY important.
Love you

Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
- Monday, July 23, 2007 10:54 AM CDT

Jean,
Please know that even though I haven't written for a while, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Your words are so inspiring. Like others have said, your words are a gift to others. I pray that by sharing your grief with others it will lessen the heaviness in your heart. May you find comfort that so many are lifting you up in prayer.
With love and prayers,
Mary
Mary Rodenbucher <Sportsmom@neo.rr.com>
Randolph, OH - Sunday, July 22, 2007 1:51 PM CDT

Jean,
I know that writing your feelings is helpful to you in dealing with your pain. But I wonder if you realize how helpful it is to those of us who read your thoughts. So many times, when I read your inspiring words, they are just what I needed to hear! I can randomly open up the scriptures, and God speaks directly to me. I can check your guestbook, and He speaks to me as well! God is using you, Jean! Thank you, thank you for sharing! Still, I'm sorry you're suffering so much. I won't stop praying!
Kathy
Kathy Lofreso <kmtlofreso@msn.com>
- Sunday, July 22, 2007 6:16 AM CDT

Jean - I have been praying for you today - we're having a beautiful, wonderfully sunny day here in Arlington and I was praying that you were in Ohio, too - in your heart if not in the weather!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Saturday, July 21, 2007 3:31 PM CDT

Jean,
My thoughts and prayers are with you daily.
You are loved and prayed for by so many.
May God continue to bless your family and
hold all of you in the palm of his hand.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 20, 2007 10:33 AM CDT

I am praying for your peace and comfort daily. I know Tuesdays are very difficult days for you. My prayer group continues to meet each Tuesday morning and we pray for you and for Frankie.
Love, Natalie
Natalie Roarty <NMarie2428@aol.com>
- Thursday, July 19, 2007 8:22 PM CDT

Dearest Jean,
I think of you daily and lift you up in prayer. Francesca's picture is in my computer room and not a day goes by that I look at this little saint and thank our God for her..........Love and prayers and blessings. Mary Jo Alexander
Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Wednesday, July 18, 2007 8:23 PM CDT

I am here for you Jean.

T <tmagrace@aol.com>
Grove City, OH - Wednesday, July 18, 2007 1:05 PM CDT

JEAN,
YOUARE A WONDERFUL MOM AND WIFE!!! Mark had wonderful things to say about you ( and the kids) while in PA/NJ. Praying that time will help you heal.
LOVE, Melissa, Larry and Sam

Bennett Family <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, July 18, 2007 12:52 AM CDT

Jean
Thinking of you,
praying for you,
crying with you.
You are very special.
You are loved.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 10:24 PM CDT

I am praying for you - praying that you will recognize God's grace in moving forward, one small moment at a time - and that His arms will enclose your entire family.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 2:41 PM CDT

Jean: You need no one's forgiveness. You are all
going through a difficult time and the kids are aware
of your pain. They are feeling it also. With all the
thoughts and prayers coming your way, your life will
get back to "normal". It's going to take time. Know
that we are here for you. Hugs and kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 12:27 AM CDT

Jean,
I read Debby Johnston's note,
and she trully knows your heart.
All those who love you and your
family are praying with every
thought of you.
I am so confident in you,
because I know your strength,
and I know who you rely on for
your guidance.
I am with you in the trenches,
my Joan of Arc.
I look for days when the gifts of
the Spirit abound in you fully.
Till then I want to carry
the light of hope to you.
God Bless You this day,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 9:19 AM CDT

Jean,
My heart feels sad as I read your latest entry.

I feel so helpless as I know there is nothing I
can say or do to help you. I was a Victim
Advocate for 12 years with MADD and worked with
many parents who lost children of all ages in an
alcohol related crash. I can tell you this, at
some point in time they all found their own way
to cope with their loss. Losing a child is the
most devastating loss one can experience. But it
is a road no one can walk with you, except your
family. God can surely help you and your family
through this tragedy.

I pray for strength for you and your family. God
loves you and so many others do as well. The house
will always be there. Focus on the children now
by spending time with them and find comfort in each other.

May God bless and keep you now and always.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 17, 2007 9:14 AM CDT

Jean,
This recent journal entry
though very heartbreaking,
allows me to know how I
can specifically pray for you.
This journey you are on, to learn
to go on with life without
Francesca is without doubt
the most difficult journey
anyone could ever imagine. My
prayers are always with you. I
ask God to ease this burden of
grief that you carry. I pray also
that you would be patient with
yourself. God loves you and counts
your every tear.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, July 17, 2007 7:54 AM CDT

Jean,
Just a quick line to let you know that
I am still praying for you and wishing you
peace and comfort.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 16, 2007 3:07 PM CDT

Jean,

Looking forward to seeing Mark in Philly alhtough we wish that you and the kids were also coming. Next summer a hotel outside of Philly ( near our house) is opening a Water Park. PLEASE think about a trip to Philly with the kids as we would LOVE to see all of you. Take Care!! Think of you often.

LOve,Melissa, Larry and Sam Rose
BENNETT FAMILY <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Sunday, July 15, 2007 7:04 PM CDT

Jean and family - Just a little note to let you know my thoughts and prayers are with you each day. We had some good times celebrating the 4th of July at your house too. Happy Birthday, Joey! We celebrated with the Denglers this year, Tyler's 8th birthday - camp out(I camped in)It was great! most of the grandkids were there. I attended a mass for Francesca on July 5th and there will be one on Sunday, July 22 at 10:00 at St. Pat's.(I'm not sure that I can attend.) I'll let you know whenever I see a mass for her. When I think of Francesca and I think of your grandmother rocking her and singing, "You are my sunshine!" Love Ya!
Mary Ann Lovell <Llovellma.@aol.com>
Kent, OH USA - Sunday, July 15, 2007 5:09 PM CDT

Jean,
Today is the day that the Lord has made.
And He made this day so we can be together.
I don't know what we are going to do,
but He is going to bless it.
Everything may go wrong.
It could rain on our silly heads,
but I will have time with you and the
amazing Grandchildren you have given me.
Remember sitting at Myrtle Beach,
we didn't know that
the camper had a fire on the road.
The rain came and thankfully put out the
fire before the propane exploded.
We found all this out as we opened the camper,
found the hole in the wheel well.
Christie, who already wanted to be in a condo,
had all her clothes burned, and then sopping wet.
I sat down, looked up to the heavens and asked
Uncle Ray and Aunt Peg, "You even did winter camping,
how do I deal with this?"
The answer came as if they were talking into my heart.
This is how you teach your children one of the most
important lessons in life, how to deal with the difficulty.

It is not really what I wanted to hear.
But surely the "Voice of Truth", and I have never forgotten
that moment.
Life is messy, and how we deal with all the messes,
with the Grace offered us, is a skill we must learn.
Let's go see what fun adventure we can have with the
kids today.

You are my child this day,
you don't need to plan anything, or drive anywhere,
or make many decisions. (You still have Veto power)
I'll be there to pick you up shortly.
I pray for the grace to accept the blessing of this day.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Sunday, July 15, 2007 9:03 AM CDT

Jean Marie,
Even though you don't see my words to you here that much at all....Please know how much you are in my heart... I think of you several times...when I am cooking, or when I am trying to be a better mom, or just memories of us in the past...growing up or just good times together... I think of you when I struggle with things in my life and look up to you by your example of what it means to be strong in faith and character...no matter how badly we want something....we know who REALLY is control... I love you sis... Can't wait to be with you hopefully sometime soon when I have some well needed R and R time off of work... The boys and I look forward to coming up to visit... How I would love for you to go to a trail with mom and I... The memories of you holding Francesca on your shoulders just last July on the trail by mom's house is still so precious to me... I look at those pictures from time to time and loved the good times we were having together... Frankie was laughing and loving playing with her cousins...I miss her so much...I can't seem to take her picture off my window/dash... the sun has managed to curl the edges quite a bit...but no matter...I can stil see her sweet face each and every time I drive or get into the car... Even though we all miss her terribly...she has brought so much joy and happiness into each of our lives.. I am grateful for what she has taught me... I can't begin to think of taking my camera in to fix the top button that fell off after it dropped from Frankie's hands in your kitchen... Why is it I think of her, when my finger goes to the "missing button place" to press down to take a picture...i love the memory of her reaching for me when I would come to visit and hear her say "T..."
I hope you seek comfort, when you miss her, in the people that love you the most... Surround yourself in the comforter of love people have for you... I don't like the fact we don't visit with eachother as much as I would like... I know our schedules are busy...but I would like to change that...I will try harder...
Thank you again for extending yourself to come to Michael's graduation when I know it wasn't the best timing for you... It meant more than you know...
I am here working in the E.R. on this very early Sunday morning, listening to XM radio on the Christian channel and hear the words sung by Casting Crowns "Voice of Truth"... I hope we can always hear those words of truth spoken to us...time and time again...telling us what we need to know... I am thankful to be working in the medical profession where it is an opportunity to be humbled just a little and do service to others... It reminds me how thankful we are to all of those who have cared for Frankie throughout her journey...
I hope you know how much you are loved!!...
I hope to see you soon!!~
Love,
T..
Christie Hamilton <tmagrace@aol.com>
Grove City, OH - Sunday, July 15, 2007 2:48 AM CDT

Jean,
Please know that I pray for you daily.
I pray for strength, release from depression
and a heart that will mend.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, July 14, 2007 10:57 AM CDT

Dear Jean, As I read your postings, I realize just how much I have grown throughout Frankie's short earth life. Now I find myself thinking of her and talking to her sweet face. Through your selfless love and care, Frankie gifted all of us and continues to do so. Often I think of the day I was able to play with her at your home. I am still amazed at how she was so affirming and loving and how afraid I was that I would do something that would cause her pain. In her pain there was only open arms and a big beautiful smile. I will never forget that day and my shock at how such a sick child could be so very loving and giving. Frankie continues to give to all of us. I wish I could do just one thing to take one moment of your grief away. I want you to know how much you and your family and Mark have given to others so that they can glimpse perfection and hope. Perfection only God can create as he did in Frankie, and hope that someday we all will live in His presence. Hold on Jeanie, He will fill your heart with understanding and peace. I love you all, Sandy
Sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
kent, oh usa - Saturday, July 14, 2007 8:39 AM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
Just wanted to say hi before i
leave for Canada. I'm going to miss
you guys a lot while I'm gone. I'm
always praying for you guys, I miss
Frankie a lot. I'll always remember
her smile and laugh. I feel privledged
that I got to take care of her, she
brought such joy to my life. Anyway,
my prayers go out to you,
love,
josephine
Josephine <josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Friday, July 13, 2007 8:50 PM CDT

Jean: In my eyes, you rank right up there with
Sr. Jordan. I can't believe that a year has gone by
already but then again, I can't believe that Dad has
been gone for 2-1/2. And now Mr. Missimi joins the
group. Frankie will never want for anything!! I hope
you realize that you are just as much an inspiration to
all of us as Sr. Jordan was for you. We love you all
and continue to pray for all of you. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, July 13, 2007 6:26 AM CDT

Jean,
I was thinking of you today and went to check your site. How inspiring and what a blessing it must be to know that you are in so many people's thoughts and prayers.
In difficult times, I have felt such strength and peace in knowing that I am part of this wonderful family - the Catholic Church - both here on earth and in heaven.
May the graces from these prayers awaken joy in your heart. Frankie must be "smiling' in heaven at all the prayers that are being sent for those she loved here on earth.
Jane Louis (ARCHE) <jj-louis@sbcglobal.net>
green, - Thursday, July 12, 2007 7:56 PM CDT

Jean,
My thoughts and prayers are with you
tonight. I pray for peace and comfort.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 12, 2007 7:35 PM CDT

Frisone Family,
My prayers of healing are with all of you. Frankie was a remarkable and spunkie little girl. She gets that from all of you. I have never seen a family with so much faith and love as I did that night. I read your journal at least once a week. You have given me Faith. My job is a difficult one at time and reading your journal gives me hope. It appears that there are many angels watching over you and your family. God Bless ALL of you.

Tera Casenhiser <tcasenhiser@adelphia.net>
Twinsburg, oh - Thursday, July 12, 2007 4:12 PM CDT

Jean,
Just remember how much Sr. Jordan loved you.
She cares very deeply about you.
That is a compliment of high regard.
I just read a note she wrote to you,
"Keep your courage high,Jean, Mark and children,
and YOU will survive this difficult time in your lives.
Never doubt for a moment that you are all in God's hands, that your are sustained and supported by prayers and
grace.
God will always bring light to darkness."

Jean do you remember her last words?
Wasn't it something like,
"You have been the greatest blessing to my life"

Hold these words close as you navigate the rough
waters.
Your are going to regain your Joy and strength.
I believe in you,
and Love you very much.
More importantly, the Communion of Saints
surround you and lift you up.
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, July 12, 2007 9:55 AM CDT

Jean,
Sister Jordan touched all of us in many ways.
Just as Frankie did. We will all have these
memories of both of them to inspire us forever.

Sister Jordan helped one of my sisters out when
she was having difficulties with her children.
She also came to my sister's funeral when she died.
I will never forget her kindness to my family.

Over the years I have had my only brother and 3
sisters die. I am the youngest and have only 1
sister left. I am no stranger to death. I cherish
all the memories and hold them close to my heart.

My love and prayers go out to you every day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 12, 2007 8:28 AM CDT

Jean, You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Many years ago before I worked for F & CS, Sr Jordan and I crossed paths. What an incredible lady! I remember having her over for dinner when my oldest daughter was around 6, she loved Sr. Jordan....she always had such a calm way about her. Nothing was impossible for her, where there was a will, there was a way! I don't know of a single person that could or "would" tell her no! Portage County is a better place because of Jordan! She is at peace and looking over our loved ones. One day at a time...
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Thursday, July 12, 2007 7:18 AM CDT

When I would come home
from work Dad would ask about
"Francesca" -
now Frankie has a new lap to sit on--
Dad joined her last TUESDAY.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 10:40 PM CDT

my favorite memory...I came into the front door as someone from inside yelled "come in". It was a cool fall day and I quickly closed the door behind me and kicked off my shoes. As I was getting my coat off, I looked up. Usually i hear a hearty..."Mary Lou" by this time. I see Frankie sitting on the couch. I do not see anyone else, from my position. All of a sudden, Frankie gives me a twinkled eye look, but no smile, no talking. It took me just a few seconds to realize that Frankie had her hands folded and was praying. I heard someone leading the prayer. Then I hear Frankie say "Amen" "Mary Lou". That was a precious image that I will never forget. So sweet, so pure, so honest. That image is in my heart's memory forever. I am praying for your healing daily.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 6:18 PM CDT

Still praying for you Jean. Another mom who lost a child once told me after I lost mine that she wanted to always carry a bit of grief around with her. That that was her special sorrow to to have. I understood what she meant although I'm probably not expressing it very well.

Tuesdays are your Good Fridays. Interestingly it is also one of the days for the Sorrowful mysteries. There's a purpose there although maybe we can't quite fully understand it yet.

God Bless you Jean
ELena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, July 10, 2007 2:04 PM CDT

Jean,
This Tuesday, as will be every Tues. is for you, Mark
and all the kids.
I have enjoyed the moments we have had lately.
Simple, but precious to me.
Hopefully, before Fall, we will make it to the lake
for old times sake and to enjoy some more time.
The movie, Like someting God made, inspires me and
makes me sad. We have alot of those conflicting
feelings.
You are doing the right things, there will be a
time you can reclaim the vocation you always lived
with JOY.
Prayers, Frankie's advocating, and commitment to God's
Plan will get you to deep Peace.
I Love You,
Mom

P.S. I cannot close without honoring such a good, good,
man and Dear friend, Tony Missimi.
Going to heaven on Dianna's birthday, no surprise.
But I do bet he was surprised to see Frankie there
to greet him.
When you were just a baby, I would look out the
window, early in the morning to see him walking to Mass.
He reminds me of my Dad, pure goodness, strong faith,
faithful husband, great Dad.
A truly saintly man, now a Saint for sure.

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 12:07 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying for you on this Tuesday. I know that Tuesdays
are sad for you. Hoping that this Tuesday is better than the last ones.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 10, 2007 10:06 AM CDT

I think every mother at some time in our lives
fears the passing of a child. You very eloquently
describe the truth of grieving.

For me Frankie still lives as I see her at the football
game carried by her grandpa. My pain is for you Jean and
your family. There are no words or quotes that ever seem
appropriate, although others do that very well. As for me
I will continue to pray that we will all be healed
from Francesca's physical absence.

Please dear Jesus listen to our wailing for peace and joy
to return.
Lynne
Lynne Shannon <Lynnetony@sbcglobal.net>
Stow , Oh - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 6:35 AM CDT

Hey Jean, just wanted to drop you a little note to say hello and let you know Im thinking about you and your family. Washington is such a beautiful place, the only time I ever went there was when I was about 14 and I felt so inspired by all the monumnets, so I can relate to your experience. We are all keeping you and your wonderful family in our prayers. Denise
Denise <denroot@aol.com>
Parma, OH USA - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 1:06 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that you will find peace and comfort
in God's loving presence. I know that God
loves you and all your family. I know that
He wants you to find rest and comfort in His
arms.
Praying for blessings and a good night's rest.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 9, 2007 6:51 PM CDT

Jean, It's nice to see you and the family were able to go to Washington for the 4th. What a historical area and the fireworks must have been awesome. Frankie will never be forgotten and the ways she touched so many people, you can be asured that her life continues to effect more people than you could ever imagine. Hoping you and the family continue to grow together as a family, and keeping you in prayer, Barb
Barbara Moledor <BarbM@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Monday, July 9, 2007 1:23 PM CDT

Hi Jean
Hang in there, be patient, you will enjoy family events again. Frankie was such a little girl who left a big impression. That will not be easy to forget, or put to rest. That impression is especially noticeable on you and your family. It gets easier as time goes on, but that may take a while. Big impressions are not easily forgotten.
If you need a friend and a cup of coffee I am a phone call away.
Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Monday, July 9, 2007 12:49 AM CDT

Jean:
I am so happy that all of you were able to spend time
together. Happy Birthday to Joey - give him a big
birthday hug from me! I wish I could do something for
you to help ease your heartache. You are always in my
thoughts and prayers. Please know that I am only a
phone call away. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, July 9, 2007 12:37 AM CDT

Jean,
My heart goes out to you in your grief.

When my olderst sister died 12 years ago
I thought I would too. She was 19 years
older than me and I looked on her as a mother.

I went for a year and could not remember
her face no matter how hard I tried.
I think it was because it was too painful.

I remember feeling isolated from my family
and friends. It was only through prayer and
reading my bible that I found peace. I still
miss my sister deeply every day. I always will
as she was a vital part of my life. I have
learned to live without her, but I feel a hole
in my life that can never be filled.

I earnestly pray that you will find your way
to go on without Francesca. I know that there
will always be a place in your life that can
never be filled, a place that only she could fill.

I pray that you find a way to honor her life through
service to others that have lost children. Only one
who has gone through it could ever understand your
pain and grief. My grief for my sister can never
compare to losing a child.

May God bless you this day and every day and give
you peace.
Love, Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 9, 2007 10:38 AM CDT

Frisone Family,
Your friends from the south just wanted to stop by and let you know that we are always thinking and praying for you. Although we were only aquainted for a while ya'll will ALWAYS be friends forever. I know I have said this time and time again..I will never forget Frankie sitting up in her crib, hair in piggy tail, and those BIG brown eyes looking over watching Sawyer. That's how I will always remember that cute little girl. Sawyer's cousins still ask about Frankie and they still pray for her even though we have told them she's in heaven. So not only did Frankie touch our life she has touched the life of many others in our family. There sure is something special about heart buddies!!!! We love you

Jason, Ashley, and Sawyer

Ashley <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
Arden, NC - Monday, July 9, 2007 10:11 AM CDT

Dear Jean,

Prayers that if only for a brief moment today God's peace will enter your world of private pain. You are loved and God is watching over you.
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Monday, July 9, 2007 10:06 AM CDT

Jean-I am glad you guys had the opportunity
to have a little vacation--I feel your pain and
heartache as I read your entries.
Frankie wants you to be happy! -She is happy
now-your little angel in heaven-on my way to church this a.m. sending prayers to you and the family!

Happy Birthday Guiseppe! love Aunt Cindi and Uncle Joe

Cindi Pritt <jrpritt@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, July 9, 2007 6:04 AM CDT

Jean,

st
Jean, Still thinking and praying for all or you.I hope the summer months are treating you well and allows you time to enjoy the summer activities with your children. love Chrissie

chrissie pape <chrissie@55southst.com>
middlebury , ct usa - Sunday, July 8, 2007 8:59 PM CDT

"Lord, I've been pierced to my very soul, and I really didn't know I could hurt this deeply. And so at this point, if I have to go through this, please don't let this pain be wasted in my life. Use it. Use me."
Nancy Guthrie

C
- Sunday, July 8, 2007 7:56 PM CDT

"The Spirit of the Lord
God is upon me; because
the Lord hath annointed me
...to comfort all that mourn...
to give unto them beauty
for ashes, the oil of joy for
mourning, the garment of praise
for the spirit of heaviness; that they
might be called trees of
righteousness, the planting of the
Lord, that he might be glorified."
~Isaiah 61:1-3
debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, July 8, 2007 6:45 AM CDT

Can't wait to see you.
Praying for each of you,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, July 7, 2007 2:17 PM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that your weekend is pleasant.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, July 7, 2007 7:29 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that you find peace and endurance in
the path of grief you are on.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, July 6, 2007 8:24 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
The following touched me so much and I hope it does the same for you. It is an excerpt from Verdell Davis' "Riches Stored in Secret Places"
To become strong in the broken places in our lives demands that we do two things, seeming opposites: hang in there and let go. To somehow dig up thecourage to keep going is the very courage that allows us to scoop up the broken pieces of our lives and lay them at the feet of one who would do more in us than just get us through the storm. He would sharpen our vision in the darkness that oppresses us. He would use the despair of standingat a grave to deepen our trust. This we cannot do for ourselves. Perhaps because our brokenness brings us to the end of ourselves, it is here,in these jars of clay that we offer up to His very special grace, that God's all-surpassing power is made known and He, indeed makes us strong in our broken places.
Cry, grieve, love and laugh when you can. It is all part of our life. Holding you and yours daily in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Jacqui

Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Thursday, July 5, 2007 3:05 PM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
Just wanted to let you know that I'm
still praying for all of you guys. You
are such an amazing family, even
through all your chaos and turmoil, you
guys are great. I love spending time
with you guys. Miss you all lots,
love,
josephine
Josephine <josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 11:35 PM CDT

Jean - I'm praying for you right now.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Wednesday, July 4, 2007 9:23 PM CDT

Jean,
I'm thinking of you,
hurting with you,
praying for you.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, July 3, 2007 11:22 AM CDT

Jean,
Keeping you and your family close to my heart
today and praying that you will find peace and
comfort.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 3, 2007 8:32 AM CDT

Today is Tuesday,
I'm sure you don't need
a reminder. This day
is offered for you.
May you enjoy the fireworks at the Capitol,
and celebrating Guiseppe's 15th birthday.
I Love You,
MOM
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 4:26 AM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that you can find some blessings this day.
May the Lord God continue to hold you and your
family in the palm of his hand.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 2, 2007 9:29 AM CDT

Jean: Just a quick "Good Morning" before I get my
day started here at the Agency. Hope you all had
a great weekend and are looking forward to the
holiday. It's Joey's birthday isn't it? My Tina
and future son-in-law, Brian will be coming up
on Thursday for about four days. I can't wait to
see them (and also my grandpuppy, Lara!!)
I think of you daily and you are always in my
prayers. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, July 2, 2007 6:41 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
The following is a page from my daily devotional, Joy for the Journey, a Woman's Book of Joyful Promises.
Trading Hurt for Wholeness
We live in a world gone wrong, one that was created perfect but now suffers the ravages of sin: death, violated relationships, children born with disabilities and deformities, disease, man's inhumanity to man, moral failures, tragdies of major proportions, chaos. It is, indeed, a broken world. But it is one thing to shake our heads at the mess the world is in; it is quite another to congront the reality of it in our own lives. One layer away, it is sad. But when it hits us, it is ominous...
When we stand in the middle of a life storm, it seems as if the storm has become our way of life. We cannot see a way out. We are unable to chart a course back to smoother waters. We feel defeated-and broken. Will that brokenness produce a cynicism that will keep us forever in the mire of "if only" thinking? Or will we yield up that brokenness to the resources of One who calms the winds and waves, heals the brokenhearted, and forgives the most grievous of sins? The choice is ours.
Verdell Davis
Riches Stored in Secret Places

My prayers are with you daily. It WILL get easier. It will be 8 months on the 9th for me and it truly has gotten easier.
Blessings,
Jacqui
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Sunday, July 1, 2007 4:10 PM CDT

Hi Jean, I wish I could say something to ease your pain. I am not surprised by it, though. Frankie made everyone fall in love with her.Every time I am outside, I think of our walks. Whenever any insect would fly by,she would say "bee ouch" giggling wen I would say Oh, thats not a bee. She was a blessing to know and care for. There is no one she loved more than you,though, and because of that blessing you are suffering so much. Everything about life is so bittersweet. I continue to pray for all of you and miss seeing you. Love,Patti
Patti Kraynack <pak4881@yahoo.com>
Stow, Ohio - Sunday, July 1, 2007 12:33 AM CDT

Jean,
Wishing you the best that this day can bring.
Praying for you and your familiy every day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, June 30, 2007 2:24 PM CDT

I thinking of and praying for you today!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Saturday, June 30, 2007 9:59 AM CDT

Jean you have such a powerful hug.
Drawing the pain from you was my hope,
but I realize that only God can heal that
pain and so we continue to keep you in our
prayers.

Lynne
Lynne Shannon <Lynnetony@sbcglobal.net>
Stow , Ohio - Friday, June 29, 2007 1:11 PM CDT

Hi Jean; Just thought I would send a little note to share another purple flower story. Tina (my daughter) has a purple petunia that grew up in a crack between her patio blocks. Out of nowhere did this purple flower arrive. I know this is not a sign from Frankie, not a miracle, or anything like that. But it is a constant reminder to say a little prayer for Frankie and your family. Tina will not let the boys ride their bikes on the patio. She is protecting that single little purple flower. You are in my prayers daily. miss you, glo
gloria gmerek
akron, Oh summit - Friday, June 29, 2007 12:33 AM CDT

Hi Jean,
I was very excited to hear that you were able to get away and attend the Women of Faith seminar. It was like I was relieved that you were going. I knew from the last time I saw you, it was getting unbearable for you. I pray that you found "alittle something" to hold onto. Possibly a glimpse of light for your heart! I continue to pray for peace & healing for you and your family.
I just wanted you to know what a pleasure Dominic is at baseball. He is such a sweet sweet boy. As much as I could imagine what hes going through right now, he is still full of smiles! He is so respectful, polite and mature for only being 8 years old. He is truly an awesome kid! A direct reflection of his parents!!

Love, Michelle
Michelle Voiers <voiersm@yahoo.com>
Suffield, Oh Portage - Friday, June 29, 2007 10:00 AM CDT

Jean,
Sorry it has been so long since I wrote to you.
I have been experiencing both physical and family
problems. I never stopped praying for you through
all my difficulties.
Thank you so much for the picture of Frankie. My
husband and I will treasure it always.
May God assist you in finding peace and relief from
your grief.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 29, 2007 9:32 AM CDT

Frankie does have an awesome Spirit of Love.
She is advocating for you.
Her life made us better people.
The memorial service was very difficult.
The reading that impressed me most
was "I honor you".
We try to honor God with an offering
of our daily lives.
Frankie calls me to a personal relationship with
all that is good and holy and true.
I love you,
and keep you in my prayers throughout every day.
Blessings of God's transforming Love
be with you Mark and the kids,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Friday, June 29, 2007 5:27 AM CDT

Hello Frisone Family - I find myself thinking of you often, mostly when I look at my 3 1/2 year old...her birthday is also August 26th. You are in our prayers often and always. How powerful a spirit you daughter has, to still impact us, even from Heaven. Praying for your peace.
St. Matthias Parishioner
- Thursday, June 28, 2007 8:21 PM CDT

Hi Gina,
We want to let your family know that you are in our prayers and wishes. We hope that you will come over more before the summer is over, we love having you! Just remember:

"Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loves is born of God and knows God ... Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another, God dwells in us, and his love is perfected in us."
- (1 John 4:7, 11-12)

God bless,
The Dreger Family
Kyle and the Dreger Family <Kqdsoccer@aol.com>
- Wednesday, June 27, 2007 10:23 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
I want you to know I think of you often and am glad you are keeping in touch with friends and others who care about you and your family. Grieving is such a personal process and it would be so tempting to be isolated and withdrawn. I spoke to Debbie (who was Frankie's nurse)today. I saw her at Coleman Adult Day Care. We talked about you and both of us are concerned about you. It is so important to nurture yourself and allow yourself time to heal. I am encouraged that you are allowing others to share your grief and memories of Frankie. When my brother in law died suddenly several years ago my sister shut down and still can't bear to share memories. I adored my brother in law and have many happy memories I can't share with my sister.So I am glad you want to know how Frankie touched lives around her. She was a sweet, loving and happy child. She left many broken hearts but made us stronger and able to cherish life more fully. Take care and know Frankie's love lives on.
Jane
Jane Gwinn <jgwinnaps@yahoo.com>
Kent, Oh USA - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 9:54 PM CDT

Dear Jean,

You and your loving family continue to be in my prayers - every day. I am so grateful for your sharing via your journal entries - you write so beautifully, and your ways of expressing your grief, and hope, and love for Francesca, and all your family are truly God given. May you have a good week - as you continue to restructure your thinking and grieving and coping skills. What a remarkable little girl you have had - and how beautifully you are making her remain alive for all of us.
Carol Morling <cmorling@comcast.net>
Mechanicsville, VA USA - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 7:03 PM CDT

Dear Jean, so glad that you had a good weekend(a beacon in the storm). Have almost finished reading 90 Minutes in Heaven, what an inspiration! Remind me to tell you of my experiences over the years with visiting fifferent churches (Baptist, Penticostal, etc.)I've seen some interesting things! Feel free to call and bring the kids to swim. I don't have air conditioning so I went in last night at 8:30 to get some relief! So nice to see you all again, I will be by to drop off your book. Love and prayers, Debbi
Debbi Pfleiderer <nuirsedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 10:07 AM CDT

Jean - So happy that you had a nice time in
Cleveland and were able to laugh. Losing
someone is very hard, but life does need to
go on. Our memories are what keeps them alive in
our hearts and minds. Frankie will always be
with you all and with all of us. Know that we
continue to pray and think of you all.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, June 26, 2007 6:24 AM CDT

Jean,
I'm always thinking about you
and praying for more laughter
and fewer tears as the weeks
and months pass. It sounds like
you had a very nice weekend.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, June 26, 2007 4:33 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I just want to share with you a phrase from scripture that helps when I feel overwhelmed or anxious.I meditate on it, and all that it implies, and I feel a wonderful sense of calm. "Be still, and know that I am God"
Lucy Bueno <Lbueno2@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Monday, June 25, 2007 7:04 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
I am so glad that you were able to attend the conference! I am sure it was reassuring, enlightening, and HELPFUL TO YOU IN THIS PLACE WHERE YOU NOW STAND.
Frankie did not die, she just changed her nortal body for a spirit one. The day will come when she will be alive in a beautiful, whole, mortal body as Christ is!
The following is from one of my daily devotional readings:
1. Birth is a miracle. It's a blessing to have children, a gift for however many minutes, days, months, years we'll be allowed to have them.
2. We're not being punished for any sins of the past. The New Testament's good news has promised this.
3. Thr children are not ours. They are God's. But they are ours to love and raise as long as we have the privilege.
4. GOD WILL CARRY US THROUGH WHATEVER IS AHEAD.

This was written by a grandfather who almost lost his son, Ryan at birth and then the son of his son, Austin, at birth.
He ended his offering by saying "Thank you, heavenly Father, for the miracle of life. And thank You for saying yes, for healing Austin."
Frankie has been healed in the most glorious way possible! You still have her in your heart and memories, in pictures and possessions,in the memory of the sound of her voice, and her scent. She has blessed so many of us in mighty ways.
You WILL be able to go on, please know this.
God bless.
Jacqui
Jacqui Dewey-smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Monday, June 25, 2007 11:02 AM CDT

I've seen Women of Faith - actually, seen seems the wrong word to use, eh? Experienced, maybe. I am happy to hear you laughed - and cried - it sounds like a weekend of healing with God's grace.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Monday, June 25, 2007 10:57 AM CDT

Dear Jean,

I thank God that you were open to hearing what these women
had to say as I imagine they can relate to your emptiness in a
way many of us cannot. May their words and lives speak to you
in special ways as you digest all you
heard. Blessings for a day full of hope and smiles!!

Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Monday, June 25, 2007 9:10 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that your spirits are lifted after this weekend away with your mom. May the Lord comfort you and ease your pain.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, June 24, 2007 7:39 PM CDT

Jean,
Ho[ing that this Lord's Day brings
you peace and comfort.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, June 24, 2007 12:41 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying for healing and peace of mind.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, June 23, 2007 7:27 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
I just want to share with you a memory of Frankie that always makes me smile when I think of her. When she was tired of doing her exercises, she would walk over to the front door, get my shoes and say, "shoes on!" That was my cue that she was ready for me to go! She was such a funny, sweet and spirited little girl! I do miss her and my visits to your home.
Cathy
- Saturday, June 23, 2007 9:38 AM CDT

Jean,
I continue to pray for you, Mark, and the kids. Frankie is always in my heart.
Love, Natalie
Natalie Roarty <NMarie2428@aol.com>
Akron, OH USA - Friday, June 22, 2007 10:12 PM CDT

Jean,
Hoping you and your family have a wonderful weekend.
Still praying for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 22, 2007 7:07 PM CDT

I pray for you every day -
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Friday, June 22, 2007 4:42 PM CDT

Jean,
Wishing you blue skies and gentle breezes
on this summer soltis day. May God in His
Heaven smile down on you and your family and
bring you peace.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, June 21, 2007 7:55 PM CDT

Hi Jean

I was one of those that was totally shocked to hear of Frankie's death. Because she was so fiesty and such a little pistol, I forgot how ill she really was. Children have always amazed me with their incredible strength. If you don't tell them that they are sick, they just keep living. If you do tell them that they are sick, they forget in a few minutes and just keep living! Doesn't that sound like Frankie?
I want you to know that I still have a whole in my heart from my father's death 30 years ago. It gets better and you learn to live with it, but it doesn't go away. Be patient with yourself. I keep you and your family in my prayers everyday. I hope that all of you find peace and comfort. Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Ohio U.S.A. - Thursday, June 21, 2007 4:20 PM CDT

Jean just wanted to let you know I continue to read your entries and really miss our visits and time with Frankie. She continues to have united so many people and changed so many lives in her short time.You are a remarkable Mom and have a beautiful family to be so very proud of. I have unfortunatley been to many funerals for children in my almost 30 years of working with kids with special needs, but have never been to such a beautiful service as Frankie's with total family involvement. She knew she had a bond beyond all others. she will continue to be a part of more people than you will probably ever know of. I continue to keep you and your family in prayer. Take care of yourself, Barb
Barbara Moledor <barbM@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Thursday, June 21, 2007 3:09 PM CDT

"Find rest, O my soul, in God alone;
my hope comes from Him.
He alone is my rock and my salvation;
He is my fortress, I will not be shaken.
My salvation and my honor depend on God;
He is my mighty rock, my refuge.
Trust in Him at all times, O people;
pour out your heatts to Him, for God is our refuge."
Psalm 62:5-8
Carolyn
- Thursday, June 21, 2007 9:52 AM CDT

Jean,
I think of you and your family every day.
I do not know how you feel, only you know
that. But I am with you every day in
prayer, in Christian love and in sending
you my wishes for brighter days ahead.

I read a book by a mother who lost her son.
She was in perpetual torment until she
decided to give her grief to God. She would
close her eyes and imagine carrying her son's
broken body up the stairs that led to the cross.
Then she laid her son at the feet of Jesus and
left him there. She did this every day for
many years and she said that it somehow made her
feel better knowing that she was placing her
son in Jesus' care.

I don't know if this would help you or not. I
just wanted to pass this along to you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, June 20, 2007 2:38 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
Your entries bring me to tears as I am still missing my Patrick so much, every day, when I wake, when I fall asleep, when I look at my garden which he loved and also planted one. Even though I know, as you do, that he is free of pain, depression, anxiety, and torment, the slightest thought, word, memory wherever I am can devestate me. The cleaning man just brought this to me that he read on the bus, and copied for me and that, too, dissolved me into tears..."I have stolen this day..It is sweet with small guilts, and summer and my son...smile". I am not sure what the author meant. She is Peggy Brungansky, and the words are from From the Garden. Just keep on coping the best that you can. You are very strong, and God smiles on you. I think of you every day and pray for all of your family. It is wonderful to have loving friends and family to support us but we walk this uncharted course by ourselves. God bless.
Jacqui Dewey-Smith
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 11:05 AM CDT

Still thinking of you every day.
Jenn Matlack <jmatlack01@yahoo.com>
Twinsburg, OH - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 8:00 AM CDT

Jean; Thinking of you, hoping today will bring you some comfort. I can remember when my mom passed away, one of my struggles was wanting to know if she was ok, if she was peaceful in heaven. I prayed for a sign from her. Eventually I did get my sign....I will share that with you some day.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 6:55 AM CDT

Jean: It never ceases to amaze me when I read
your words. You are truly the most amazing
woman I know. My thoughts of Frankie always
bring a smile to my face (and yes sometimes
tears) but I know that she is in a place that
is so beautiful and wonderous and she is being
looked after. When I think of my Dad (and I do
everyday), I think of Frankie. What joy she has
brought to my Dad and I'm sure he is spoiling her!
His birthday is coming up soon and he would have
been 91. I know there is a difference between
losing a child and a parent but the pain is still
the same. You long to see them and hold them
again. Our thoughts and prayers are always with
you all. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, June 20, 2007 6:49 AM CDT

Thinking of you as another week passes.
Sending you love and prayers.
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, June 19, 2007 10:19 PM CDT

Jean, your Mom is right - the witness of your surrender is incredible. Thank you for continuing to share so much and I pray you will continue to.

Continued prayers for you and all your family.
Monica <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Tuesday, June 19, 2007 9:21 PM CDT

Jean,
It is Tuesday,
My heart aches with you.
Surrendering this grief to the foot
of the cross, is the most unbelievable
offering.
I feel Frankie's presence.
It is both wonder full
and painful.
My prayer for you this day:
May you be aware of your witness
to Mom's who know you.
May the painful memories of your remarkable care for Frankie,
become a beautiful reminder of God's call,
and your response.
Frankie causes all of us to reflect on,
what is it God is asking of me today?
Tough act to follow.
I Love You,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, June 19, 2007 11:42 AM CDT

Dear Jean & Family,
I think of you often. It seems that there is always something that reminds me of Frankie or one of you. I don't eat much jello anymore, it just doesn't seem quite as good as it used to when I shared it with Frankie. I read books to some of my other patients, and I will find myself reading one that I used to read to Frankie. I drive on 76 past Hoban and think of Anthony and Joe. I wonder if the girls are still sewing and who's turn it is on the computer now. I even learned to appreciate classical music because of my time with your family. If you are wondering why I haven't called, it's because I don't have control of my emotions so talking can be difficult(but I can type.) So this note is to let you know that I still care and am praying for you.
Cindy Ringler <CiJo5258@Yahoo.com>
Tallmadge, OH Summit - Monday, June 18, 2007 8:18 PM CDT

Jean, I check Frankie's sight every few days...I read your entries, I cry and i pray daily for your family during this time of loss.I have not written because I didn't know what to say. But, you just wrote that it's ok not to know exactly how to write how we feel. All that i know is that after meeting your family for the short time that I was with you, I knew that the experience would remain with me forever. There have been a few families that i have felt this with, but very few.With entering your home, I felt total acceptance of everyone who entered, complete function of a family unit and the very obvious fact that your family works together,shares and thrives as one. It is amazing. My mom died when I was 26...4 months before I was married, my dad made it to the wedding, but dies 5 months before my first child was born. i cried for 13 years. in the grocery store, at the park, anywhere. after 13 years...I could smile. you will smile when it's time. bless you.
Mary lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Monday, June 18, 2007 6:37 PM CDT

Jean,
Praying for you and your family.
I wish you the best in your journey
of grief. God bless and keep you
always.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, June 18, 2007 4:12 PM CDT

Jean,
Looking forward to the weekend together.
I have always wanted to snorkel the Barrier Reef,
or canoe across Lake Louise.
There are so many beautiful Wonders of the World.
You could not name a place nor give me a more
awesome wonder than this time together.
I am very excited.
Hope work goes well today.
Blessings and Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Monday, June 18, 2007 8:42 AM CDT

I continue to pray for you all.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Monday, June 18, 2007 8:32 AM CDT

Mark and Jean: We hope that your Father's Day
was a good one. The weather was beautiful and
hopefully your day wasn't too difficult. We
think of all you and send much love and prayers.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, June 18, 2007 6:36 AM CDT

Mark,
Happy Father's Day!

Jean,
Wishing you a glorious day with Mark
and the children.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, June 17, 2007 12:11 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
Yesterday I purchased the book
90 Minutes in Heaven. I heard
about that book before my Dad's
passing and how I wish I could
have given it to him to read.
What amazed me was Piper's description
of Heaven. Many times in my life I
remember my dad telling me that he had
"visions" of heaven. He said these
visions were as clear as a bell. His
visions were so much like Piper's
description. As I read, a hospital
minister walked into the ICU to talk to
me. She asked what I was reading. I told
her about Frankie and my Dad. She asked
if she could borrow the book because she
knows many people who could benefit from
Piper's experience. Then she told me about
experiences she witnessed over the years
with patients who were dying. One man was
clinically dead but brought back by the
doctors. He experienced a taste of heaven,
saw loved ones welcoming him and was
actually very angry when he was revived.
But he left the hospital with an entirely
new attitude about life and death. He had
been an agnostic. Now he wants to know
Jesus and has no fear of dying. This minister
also told me stories of how young children
would ask questions like, "who is that person
sitting in my room?" The child would describe
a person who passed away, usually a relative
that the child never met. As I grieve the loss
of my dad, these stories gave me great comfort.
I think I read that you also lost your dad and
I know the loss of Sister Jordan hurt you very
deeply. I believe they were there in the room
with Frankie as she passed peacefully to Heaven.
I imagine an indescribable joy the day you are
reunited.
Thinking and praying for you and your family.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, June 17, 2007 6:07 AM CDT

Jean,

It was good to hear your voice yesterday
and talk for awhile. I always enjoy our
conversations and wish it were easier for
us to be together. How I long for another
Frisone visit with us sitting in the porch
swing sharing thoughts. I miss you and the
kids and don't like not knowing the next
we'll be together. I hope we can get a date
on our calendars soon! I hope your weekend
has some times of renewed energy, hope and joy.
I will continue my daily prayers for you, Mark
and the kids.

Love,
Deb
Debbie Melucci <joedeb5@yahoo.com>
Grove City, OH USA - Saturday, June 16, 2007 4:49 PM CDT

Wishing you and your family a blessed, beautiful
summer day. This is the day that the Lord hath
made, rejoice and be glad in it.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, June 16, 2007 1:47 PM CDT

Still thinking of you all & sending prayers your way.
Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, OH USA - Friday, June 15, 2007 1:14 PM CDT

Jean,
I pray for you and your family every day.
I think about you several times a day and
wish there was some way I could ease your
pain.

Please remember many pray for you and your
family. You are strong and you will survive.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 15, 2007 9:08 AM CDT

Jean,
My prayer today is for a deep peace in your heart.
Yesterday was a huge letting go.
Thank God for such loyal friends and vigilant prayers.
Hard to close chapters of our lives that we cherish
with all our hearts.
Believe that this letting go will open you for
renewed blessing and the ability to be
surprised by the Spirit.
I wish we could go to the ocean.
It seems to capture the harmony of holding on
and letting go, washing away and bringing peace.
"may all those who toil, let them come to the water"
Maybe that's our call to the lake or to Jean and Gene's.
The thought always brings a smile to my face.
Let's make that little dream a reality.

I watched some of the Cav's last night.
Before the game, the Q was wild with
screamig fans. I pictured us there next
Friday with Deb and her Mom.
That will carry me through the hectic days
ahead. I look forward to our oasis.
I Love You,
Mom
PS Over 80,000 hits on this sight,
representing multiple more thoughts,
prayers and grace available to you.
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Friday, June 15, 2007 5:08 AM CDT

Just in case you need to know, another day of prayers
are coming your way. I pray especially that today
brings a renewed feeling of peace in your heart as
Frankie smiles down on us all. She is surely
keeping that heavenly company of angels up there
entertained!
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Thursday, June 14, 2007 7:22 AM CDT

Prayers,Jean. I'm sure every mother reading your words wishes she could take some of your pain.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
- Wednesday, June 13, 2007 2:45 PM CDT

I think of you and your family everyday! I love to come to this site and see Frankie smiling at me! Thanks for sharing your journey...
Cathy
Akron, Oh - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 2:26 PM CDT

Hi Jean and Mark
I read the journal every week. Please know that you are in my prayers every day. Jean be patient with yourself, this is not an easy task to endure. Love yourself like you love others.
Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 12:12 AM CDT

Jean: Know that so many are praying for
your family and that much love is sent
your way. We love you all.
Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 9:47 AM CDT

Jean,
I thank you for your honesty.
You do not leave us wondering what to pray for.
All who love you would like to lift the blanket
of grief and give you the brightness of Joy.

Frankie desires so much for you,
She wants you and all of us to see
things clearly, as she does.
But we are left here, in sometimes a
confusing world.
Frankie would want us to take one of
God's promises for the day and claim it
for our own.
"Hope that is seen is no hope at all.
Who hopes for what he already has?
But if we hope for what we do not have, we wait
for it patiently" Romans 8:24-25

I do not have any easy answers to all of your
questions, but I do know,
"You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you"
Any one who knows you, knows you are strong.
The boy who tried to pin his flags to his belt,
got them yanked off with your brute strength.
You were not the tallest St.V.-St. Mary basketball
player, but you had the meanest blind pass around.
You have matured and grown in wisdom and age and grace.
Does every one know where your strength comes from?
It comes from the Lord.
It's the only way you could have delivered Frankie,
got up to go with her to surgery and endured the
trials you so eloquently share with us.
You are sharing your Salvation Story.
It is not pretty and neat, nor pain free.

I have so much confidence in you, my first born child,
Not only because you are strong, but you know where your
strength comes from.
Blessed are you who morn for you shall be comforted"
All who love you are praying for your comfort
and peace in this time of great grief.
They are doing such kind deeds,
praying so hard,
crying with you,
hearts aching with you,
planting and noticing all the purple flowers
and remembering,
they are being more loving because of your journey,
appreciating their children, carring for those they
love with more tenderness.
You have made such a difference in the lives of so many.

I am looking forward to filling the Q with
our joy of being together as Women of Faith.
I thank God for the blessing of being your Mom.
I Love You

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 8:01 AM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
I am one of those who does not know what to say.
Although I do not fully understand what you are
going through, I identify with the grief of the
younger children. I just want you, and all of them
to know that I love you all very much and you are
my second family. When you came to Lembo's I pointed
you out to all of my coworkers as though you were my
real family. If any of the kids ever want to talk,
I'm here for them.
love,
josephine
Josephine <josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 1:33 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that I think of you all every day and pray that you are finding some peace in your lives (not peace and quiet, I'm sure!). I still feel lost not coming there but I try to bring up one precious memory of Frankie every day to give myself that peace that seems so hard to find. I have been working on my flower garden for the first time in 2 years.If you think things multiplied at your house, you need to see what happens with one pot of black-eyed susans that are allowed to have their way unattended.They took over everything, except the poison ivy that got me! I decided to do a Frankie garden with angels and butterflies. The butterfly bush is supposed to be purple, time will tell. I didn't know there were purple impatiens, I will have to look for some. Call me sometime if you want to bring the kids over to swim. I know Sophia wants to meet her namesake kitty and there is enough other cats that everyone else can hold one.......pass out the Claritin! I will be in touch.miss you all! Love and prayers, Debbi
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 10:47 PM CDT

Jean,
Hello!!! I share your family "story" of being a phenomenal mom with many people each and every day. Your strength and dedication is wonderful. WE had a very difficult weekend. Your postings were very helpful for us. It has taught us that sadness is "okay".Thanks to YOU our difficult wknd is a little more tolerable. THANK YOU JEAN!!! WE THINK THAT YOU and the whole family are wonderful. Each and every time we see a child misbehaving, we always talk about the well behaved, loving and intelligent "FRISONE KIDS". Kudos to you and Mark.
PS. Can Mark bring home EMPTY xerox paper boxes with the lids? They are WONDEURFUL boxes ( and free) for organizing EVERYTHING!! You can NEVER have too many. Maybe over the summer if each child helps to pack up a few boxes in their own rooms, YOU will feel a sense of ORGANIZATION. Just a thought!! Hope it helps!! LOVE, MELISSA, LARRY and SAM BENNETT
Bennett Family <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, June 12, 2007 8:16 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
I still check the website several times a week even
though I usually don't write a message. I continue
to pray for you and your family. I am coming to
Ohio for a visit on Thursday because I am done
teaching for the summer. I will be home for a week.
I am so excited to visit with my family.
Take care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 7:53 PM CDT

Dear Jean; How my heart aches for you and your family as I read your journal. As difficult as it may seem, I am confident that you will return to normalcy. Frankie will never be forgotten, will forever be in your hearts. Your faith will continue to carry you through this very difficult healing process. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry for your pain.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 2:27 PM CDT

Dearest Jean - You, Frankie, and your wonderful family are so often in my thoughts and prayers. As I've come to know you through your journey with Frankie, the two aspects of your personality that most impressed me was your committment to your family and your tenacity to do right by each and every one of them. I know that spirit continues despite your profound sorrow. I know that you will get through this with renewed insight and purpose. Most importantly, I know you know this too. Don't doubt. You will. So much love to each and every one of you -
Donna Patno <donnacnm@windstream.net>
Hudson, OH - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 12:17 AM CDT

Hi Jean
I know that you are really having a hard time as well as your whole family. All of you are in a deep level of grief.

You, being a nurse, know all about the grieving process. You also know, there is help available to you and your entire family. People who are trained to look at the whole picture and help all of you work through your grief and into a state of fond memories of Frankie. In time and with help you will be able to savor those memories with your whole family.

You owe it to yourself as well as those whom you love and who love you as well and who look to you for help and guidance to seek out those that can help you.

We are praying for the peace of God to invade your hearts and home and bring you lasting comfort and wonderful memories to savor.

Kaylee's Gma

Our hearts are aching with you. Please take that huge step to healing for you and your family.

Marge Huber <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, FL usa - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 12:04 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
Thinking about you alot today. May you be
blessed in a special way. As God is watching
over all of you and as we see and feel
HIS sunshine and warmth and the beauty of
HIS nature, may your little angel's love
bring you strength and courage just for
today. She is surely smiling down on all of you!
My prayers remain with you, Linda
Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 11:42 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
You are only 2 months into your grief. It WILL be better one day. Don Piper's book has helped me too.
They are not suffering anymore. What a sweet consolation!
The children will become stronger and more compassionate as they mature. Gina will be a doctor if that is what she wants in her heart. You are doing your best. They will come to understand that. We grieve differently than our spouses, but they don't know that. They all love you and just want to see the hurting lessened. It will. You are in my prayers daily.
Sincerely,
Jacqui Smith
Jacqueline Dewey smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 10:21 AM CDT

You hope that someday the family will be functional again - it is functional now - it's just in a different way and it
will take time to feel comfortable in the new way. You are getting to the doctor, helping with memory verses. As long as everyone sleeps, eats, and survives another day, you are functioning. Look at what gets done and not what still needs to be done. The day will come when you will do more. Take your time. The Lord gives His mercies one day at a time. Rest in His care.
Carolyn
- Tuesday, June 12, 2007 9:41 AM CDT

I do not know you or your family, but I know of many others that are friends or co-workers of you and your husband. I check your site all the time, my heart aches for you and even tho I never knew Frankie, I feel like I did. I have a lot of purple flowers and I always say a prayer for your family while I'm taking care of them. My grandmother lost both of her sons and still grieves for them but in a different way than at first. I told her about you and she said to tell you the pain will subside, it takes time and soon, the pain from memories will make you smile instead of cry. My hope for you is peace and comfort in knowing that others are truly praying for all of you.
Wendy
deerfield, OH - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 8:48 AM CDT

Thinking of you!!!!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, June 11, 2007 9:41 PM CDT

Jean,
Today held a special gift.
I feel Frankie pulling for
all of us.
I look forward to getting
together at the lake
with you and the kids
for making memories like we did
so long ago.
My Tuesday will be for you,
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Monday, June 11, 2007 5:45 PM CDT

I wanted to let you know I'm praying for you - for you to see the Lord at work around you every day, to encourage you and give you hope for the future - He loves you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Monday, June 11, 2007 4:18 PM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that your summer is going well.
Enjoy the wonderful weather and take
time to smell the flowers.

Our Creator God is awesome and gave us
a beautiful world to enjoy and cherish.
Even though we are sad we can still be
thankful for all the beauty that God
created for us to enjoy.

Hoping that you will find something beautiful to be thankful for today.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, June 11, 2007 10:43 AM CDT

Jean: Just a quick note to say "Good Morning"
and to let you know we are thinking of all of
you. Hope your summer is going smooth. Be
sure to give all the kids a hug and kiss from
us. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, June 11, 2007 6:24 AM CDT

Jean,
I'm praying for you and
each member of your family,
that they would allow Lord
to carry the burden of their
grief and feel His loving comfort.

I met a mom the other day who
lost a young infant and has
another in very critical condition.
The small bit of faith that I believe
she has is all that is keeping her
going. It makes me think of how much
more devastasting it would be for
your family, after losing Francesca,
if you did not have your hope in the
Lord.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, June 11, 2007 5:49 AM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that you are having a relaxing time
with your family. Hoping that you will find
rest and peace this summer day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 8, 2007 12:23 AM CDT

Jean - Please know that there isn't a day that goes by that doesn't include a fond memory of and heart tug for Frankie.
Last weekend was the first that we've been to the farm since fall - all I could think about was when you & Mark and all the kids came down & Frankie on the rocking horse and with her Uncle Dave....we need to continue to make today's events the fond memories for tomorrow.

Each day we have choices - how and where to focus our energy. I hope to be more like you and be grateful for what life offers; to appreciate every day for the gifts they bring (large or small). In that vain - I will say, I'm grateful that we got to see you, Mark and (most of) the kids yesterday...Love you.
Geri Ann
- Thursday, June 7, 2007 10:17 PM CDT

Jean, I look at Francesca's picture on my refrigerator everyday! I ask her to watch over all of us--especially her loving mother--God bless
love, aunt Cindi and uncle joe
Cindi Pritt <jrpritt@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, June 6, 2007 8:27 PM CDT

Jean,
Our Heavenly Father holds you and your family in
His loving arms every day. How comforting to know
this. I hope it is comforting for you too.

Please know that many, many pray for you on a daily
basis.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, June 6, 2007 4:18 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
Last night I was quoting your scripture for today to two friends, and also quoted it at my son's funeral. I have always loved that one in particular. I pray for all of you daily, and think of all of the joy our children are experiencing in the Father's house! Blessings always.
Jacqui
Jacqui Dewey-smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 10:20 AM CDT

Jean,

Tomorrow is the last day of school for
the kids. I'm looking forward to a
lighter summer schedule in the hopes
tht it will allow for more Melucci-Frisone
gatherings. The kids always enjoy being
with all of you so I'm hopeful that we can
make it happen more frequently now.
Thinking of you all multiple times a day
and look forward to seeing you soon!

Love,
Deb
Debbie Melucci <joedeb5@yahoo.com>
Grove City, OH USA - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 8:52 AM CDT

Just to let you know,
you are all in my thoughts
and prayers.
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 8:18 AM CDT

Jean: I think of Frankie daily and also
all of you. Someday we will all be together
up at our Father's house and it will be
magnificent. Know that much love is sent
your way. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 6:21 AM CDT

You are all in my thoughts
and prayers everyday!
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 10:37 PM CDT

Jean,
There are purple flowers everywhere, more
so than usual. Or is it because they remind
us of Francesca? My yard is wildly blooming
with violas. Every time I see them I think of
you and of Francesca both.

Eight weeks! Such a long/short time. I
pray for you every day. I send you my
thoughts and love every day.

Please remember, you and Mark are a couple
first, then parents. The kids need both of
you right now as they suffer too. The death
of a child is hard on marriages. Please don't
let this happen to the two of you.

Blessings for today, tomorrow and for always.
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, June 5, 2007 3:54 PM CDT

Jean,
On this Tuesday,
As we remember,
may we commit ourselves to
seeing the beauty of God in
the faces before us.
Sending my love and prayers,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 10:31 AM CDT

Jean,
I check this site daily, usually several times a day. Frankie's page is at the top of "My Favorites." You'll never know how much your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Through Francesca's intercession, I pray that each day you feel less pain, and more of her happiness. I'm anxious for you to bring the kids over to visit.
Kathy
Kathy Lofreso
Norton, OH - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 10:06 AM CDT

Dear Jeanie, Thoughts of you and Frankie filled my mind this morning. Just a short note to say how loved you are and how much of an inspiration you and Mark and your family are for evryone. Love and prayers, Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 7:34 AM CDT

Jean,
I wasnt at the church so it was so nice to hear the eulogy (not sure if that is spelled right), it was beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing it again. Words cannot describe how much you and your family are still missed and will always be, keeping you in our prayers....Denise
Denise <denroot@aol.com>
Parma, OH USA - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 0:46 AM CDT

Praying for you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Monday, June 4, 2007 7:32 PM CDT

Jean, thanks for showing me how to read your journal and see your wonderful testimonial to Frankie from the funeral. The meaning you found in your sometimes painful journey with Frankie and the fact that you wanted to share the lessons with others... I understand,as I get to know you, that this is part of your nuturing nature, your desire not to be defined by your grief but inspired by her life, and your deep faith. Thank you for sharing.
Susan Lakin
Cleveland, OH USA - Monday, June 4, 2007 12:23 AM CDT

Jean,
So glad you were able to be there
for Mike's graduation. To see all
these young men growing into adulthood
is amazing.
They love being together and I know it
was important for Mike to be with his
cousins. Did you get to see that the
streets of Grove City are lined with
beautiful pots and hanging purple flowers?
We all keep you and the family in our hearts
and prayers,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Monday, June 4, 2007 11:16 AM CDT

Jean,
Continuing to pray for you and your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, June 4, 2007 10:39 AM CDT

Jean; You are always in my prayers and thoughts. Please let me know if I can help in anyway.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Monday, June 4, 2007 7:32 AM CDT

Jean,
My purple impatients, which
line the walkway to my house,
in honor of Francesca, are filling
in so beautifully. I also added
some white ones because the petals
remind me of the wings of angels.
Every morning the first thing I do
is check on these flowers and say
a prayer for your family, that you
and your family would experience
more peace and love from the Lord
than the day before.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, June 4, 2007 7:11 AM CDT

Jean: So sorry for not writing the last
few days. The Rock and Roll event had me
quite busy. It is always a nice surprise to
see that you have updated the site. I think
of you every day and well as the rest of the
family. Frankie's picture is on my desk and
I always wonder what she and Dad are doing.
Our continued prayers and thoughts come your
way and also to Gabriel's family. Hope to
see you all soon. Hugs and kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, OH - Monday, June 4, 2007 6:33 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark, and Family,
I just want to thank all of you for being a part of our big day. I can't even imagine how hard that would have been to come out and celebrate a bittersweet time. Francesca was on our minds all day. We were so proud of Angelo reading for us- he did a fantastic job!! I hope you all had a good time- it was great seeing the kids with smiles on their faces. Please know that we think of you all the time and we don't stop praying for you.
erin zalewski <cow23@msn.com>
akron, oh - Saturday, June 2, 2007 2:26 PM CDT

It's so difficult to write since no words can change
your feelings of grief. My screaming prayers have not
helped so I am gently pleading with Jesus to give you
peace. You are a "Hero" Jean. Although you are doing
everything you can to function and many prayers are
filling the heavens your life has been changed forever.
Fortunately you have wonderful memories that will replace
this devistating loss, not to forget 8 marvelous children
and Mark who hopefully can comfort you despite his own grief.
Admiration and prayers for all of you.
Lynne
Lynne Shannon <Lynnetony@sbcglobal.net>
Stow , Oh - Saturday, June 2, 2007 8:53 AM CDT

Jean,
Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, June 2, 2007 7:10 AM CDT

Jean,
A couple weeks ago I planted
impatients (I realize I can't
spell.) I chose purple in honor
of Francesca and some white which
remind me of the wings of angels.
This morning as the sun rises, I see
that they are blooming beautifully.
One day, your grief will lessen and
happier times will come. Francesca
will always live with you in your heart.
Praying for all of you.
Debra Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Saturday, June 2, 2007 4:35 AM CDT

Jean, Just wanted to let you know I continue to think about you and your family often. I read your updates and hope that you continue to keep the web site. You are right, you really have influenced so many people and can continue to help others in ways you may never know. We only see small threads of the large tapestry but he knows the entire plan. Keeping you in prayer, Barb
Barb Moledor <barbM@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Friday, June 1, 2007 3:32 PM CDT

Thanks for spending the day with me
yesterday. I had such a great time!
I leave tonight, but I hope I get to
see you guys soon after I get back.
You and your family have always been
so wonderful to me. Thank you for
everything you do. I hope things
work themselves out soon. Give all
the kids lots of hugs and kisses for
me. Tell Mario I said, "Whatever you
say dear." I'll be thinking about you
all week. See you soon.

Kaylee <crishub3@aol.com>
- Friday, June 1, 2007 2:58 PM CDT

Jean,
I just want to let you know that you and your family
are in my thoughts and prayers. Not a day goes by
that I don't think of you.

Debbie Heeter <dheeter@neoucom.edu>
Atwater, OH - Friday, June 1, 2007 12:39 AM CDT

Jean,
Hope to see you tonight at Rockin on the River.

This morning in my devotional reading I found
something that touched me. I hope it helps you.

"I will give you the treasures of darkness
and riches hidden in secret places, so that
you may know that it is I, The Lord, the God
of Israel, who call you by your name."
Isaiah 25:3
"It had been a bad year. My Dad, the hero of
my life was dead. I sank into guilt and despair.
I questioned if there was really a God. Then I
read Isiah 45:2-3 'I will go before you....
I the Lord, the God of Israel, who call you by
your name.'
There is a God, I thought, and God knows my name.
God, the God of Creation, knows my name out of
all the people in the whole world. God is aware
of my pain and suffering. I am not alone; God's
strong arms hold me. I experienced no instant
healing, but healing and relief did come. My
mind was at ease. Others may forget who I am,
but God knows me by name."

May you remember that no matter what God cares
for you and comforts you by name. I pray that
you feel God holding you in His arms this day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 1, 2007 9:25 AM CDT

Dear Jeanie, I haven't been in touch and feel bad about that. Some times there are no words that I feel will help. I do know something though, God does have a plan for you and He will reveal it to you. Along with our human nature comes impatience, our time / His time..."Hurry God and let me move forward, don't leave me where I am at too long" that is what I have wanted to say so many times and I'm sure you are feeling that too at times. I do know the depth of the pain from losing someone is directly related to the depth of the love that person brought to our life and that their life was a gift from God to us. It's hard to get mad at Him when you think of someone as His gift to us for however long He allows us to embrace and love them, but that doesn't stop me from getting very angry at times. I can't even begin to imagine your pain but I want you to know the prayers haven't ended and wont. Love to you, Mark,your mom, and your wonderful family, you remain in my heart each day as Frankie always will. Love, Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Friday, June 1, 2007 7:40 AM CDT

Jean,
I think you got it
all backwards. YOU
inspire ME! Thank
you for your kind words.
I'm so grateful to God
for the priviledge of
knowing you and meeting
your family. Francesca
will forever be in our
hearts.

I have a friend, Cindy
Griffiths,author of a
Christian best seller
titled Road to Forgiveness.
She tellsabout how her 11
year old daughter and her mom
were killed by a drunk
driver and how her bold act of
forgiveness blessed so many
people. She appeared on one of
Oprah's best of the best shows.
After losing my Dad, I asked
her how she could possibly
endure the pain of losing both a
parent and a child at the same time.
She said, "If losing a parent is
like a giant tidlewave that covered
your entire house, losing a child is
like a tidlewave that reached up to the
moon." I know the pain of losing my
Dad, and it really hurts. It gives me a
small glimpse of how you must feel. You
are a blessing to others. Your life,
the joy and the pain,
has a purpose and Francesca, in
the life she had here and now her
Heavenly lifealso has a purpose.
All part of God's perfect plan.
One day we'll understand.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
Grand Island, ny - Friday, June 1, 2007 4:28 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark and Family,
Thinking of you always. May each day bring you peace.
Love, Melissa, Larry and Samantha
Bennett Family <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Thursday, May 31, 2007 7:49 PM CDT

Dear Jean,

You have been in my heart and prayers. You are going through a very difficult time.........but give yourself some time to grieve. This is a huge loss and Francesca was and is so special and how can you get on without struggling. YOU will be able to help others in the future but your time now is to heal and slowly get back to your life. There is no magic Jean........don't be so hard on yourself. You are a wonderful woman and so admired by many. I have Francesca's piture in my computer room and just loved to look at it. She is an angel......and watching over all of us........but that doesn't bring comfort right now. There is just too much pain and hurt.........you will heal........take time dear friend and be gentle with yourself. Love and Prayers.......Mary Jo
Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio Summit - Thursday, May 31, 2007 11:20 AM CDT

Hello Jean! I have thought of you so often
since my visit with you and the kids. Being
with them brought me so much joy
and a continued appreciation for
each of their personalities
and gifts. I am looking forward to seeing you
again soon and I'm glad to read that you are
feeling a bit better. We'll keep the prayers
coming!

Love,
Deb
Debbie Melucci <joedeb5@yahoo.com>
Grove City, OH USA - Thursday, May 31, 2007 10:29 AM CDT

Jean,
Thanks for dinner.
Uncle Phil really enjoyed it as well.
How yummie! I just walked the track
and left a few of the cheesie potatoes
out there.
I know your family
appreciates your good meals.
Boys last day!
I will be praying for you.
In the morning, call me when it is
good for you.
Love,
Mom
Talked to T this morning
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, May 31, 2007 9:21 AM CDT

Jean, I so enjoyed our conversation last week. I do hope you will get a chance to visit us in CT.You are in my constant thoughts and prayers.love chrissie
Chrissie pape <chrissie@55southst.com>
middlebury, Ct - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 8:41 PM CDT

Jean,
Your God son is graduating,
the first of a long line of
gentlemen to take this big step
out in the world.
I know how hard these celebrations
are for you, even a "normal" day
presents it's challenges. Oh how
good it is for the family to be with
each of you. It is healing for all of
us.
I remember after Daddy died,
so many people would have us over or plan
an outing. It was very hard to go. I
knew it was best, but only with hind
sight do I see how healing it was for
us. I will offer a special
sacrifice for you each day. May the Lord
wrap His arms around you and comfort you.
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 5:30 PM CDT

Jean,
Still keeping you in my thoughts
and prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 30, 2007 5:22 PM CDT

Hi Jean,

Just checking in to let you know I'm thinking about you and praying for you. I am sorry to hear that you are having such a rough time, and I wish there was something I could do or say to make the hurt go away. Just remember... Good days, Bad days, the Lord is is faithful. Hang in there.

God Bless,
Tim <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Wednesday, May 30, 2007 9:36 AM CDT

Dear Jean, I haven't written lately and I apologize about that. Things have been hectic for us lately, Rick's father is very ill. However I do think about you often and pray for you. Rick and I are participating the the Relay for Life this weekend. It is always such a wonderful event - it's so uplifting to be among those whose lives have been touched the same as mine and Rick's. I hope to be able to see you soon. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 7:15 AM CDT

Hi Jean,
Thinking of you and the fam...
Many prayers and much love,
Julie and Mike
Julie and Mike <jdog782@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH USA - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 7:06 AM CDT

Jean,
I don't have the words to
help your pain - I wish I did.
Just know that you are always
in our thoughts and prayers and
that you are loved.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 10:41 PM CDT

Dear Jean,

Wow, I just read that same book "90 Minutes in Heaven" too! I read it on our trip out to the Grand Canyon. I thought of you so often as I read of the many things that Don Piper went through. Incredible, absolutely incredible. My eyes welled up with tears as I read his account of heaven and I pictured Francesca there.

I like you would certainly be having a difficult time with the deep sorrow and hole left in your heart by Frankie's absence. But cling to those words you quoted from Corinthians - that now we see in the mirror dimly, we don't understand the sorrow and suffering, the tearing apart of your heart and life. And I probably wouldn't want to understand - I would just want to wake up and have my little girl back. Don't be hard on yourself - you are human, not divine. We see dimly....our fallen nature doesn't allow us to see "face to face" as we will in heaven. But Frankie sees face to face now - she beholds all of the beauty and love of heaven, and understands all of the suffering and heartache. Maybe it would help to ask her to pray for you to have peace and to soften your sorrow.

I know words are just words, and can't really comfort your heart. But know that I am praying for you, and love you like a sister. I'm looking forward to our visit soon.

Much love and many prayers,
Teresa
Teresa Giorgio <ggiorgio@adelphia.net>
Sharon Township, OH USA - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 9:19 PM CDT

Hi Jean~
I was Angelo's Biology teacher at OHDELA (probably Crutchfield was my name then). I have been reading about Francesca since you shared her CaringBridge address with us in her obituary and decided that today I have the strength to leave you a message.
My husband and I lost our little boy, Justin, at 19 weeks on March 6th due to a kidney infection turned septic during my pregnancy. There have been so many times that I have read your journal entries and found comfort in your words. I realize that our experiences are very different, but in reading your journals have found that our pain is very similar.
I am so sorry for your loss and just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you and your family daily.
There was a poem posted in your guestbook on April 30th that gives me strength and helps me realize that while Justin and Francesa are not here with us on earth, they are still a part of our souls every second.
I am not sure if this would help you or not, but my husband and I have planted a tree in Justin's memory and plan on creating a memorial garden all around the tree where we can put a bench and a hammock so that we can always have a place where we can go to reflect and remember our little guy. It will be our special place where we can have a sense of being with him until we get to hold him in our arms.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of us~ you have no idea how much you have helped me through my grief and pain.

~Karla~
Karla Dillon <karla_dillon@yahoo.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 7:31 PM CDT

Mrs. Frisone, I just had to tell you.
I walked outside just now to find a single
dark purple flower near our front porch.
I don't know what it is, but we have never
planted that kind before. All of a sudden
it popped up. It wasn't there this morning.
I know this is your wonderful Frankie
letting me know everything will be okay!
I was having such a horrible day, and now I
have faith again that things will work out.
She's our little angel and she is looking over
you and everyone else that loved her so much
everyday. She knew just what I needed to cheer
me up. Thank you for sharing your miracle with
me and everyone else.
Love you always,

Kaylee <Crishub3@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 29, 2007 4:47 PM CDT

Thank you so much for listening to
me today. You have no idea how much
that meant to me. I look forward to
seeing you on Thursday. I'm so sorry
if I've let you down in any way.
Kaylee <crishub@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 29, 2007 2:00 PM CDT

Hi Jean,

Just wanted to sign in and let you know I'm here and listening...I truly learn so much by reading your entries. It reminds me of how blessed I am and how unthankful I can be! And thats just for starters!!!

You and your family are still so much on my heart and in my prayers.

Love,
Michelle
Michelle Voiers <voiersm@yahoo.com>
Suffield, OH Portage - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 11:27 AM CDT

Mark and Jean: It was wonderful seeing you all
on Sunday. We hope that Mario enjoyed sitting
on the Harley and learning the "Harley wave"!!
Sam is still talking about the kids and how much
he enjoys them. In fact, when we left your house
he made the comment that we should have taken
them with us and kept them overnight! Hope you
all had a nice holiday. Hugs and kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 8:20 AM CDT

Jean,
I am praying for you today as you go
through the seventh week after losing
Francesca.

Your Mom is right. Look for the
purple tulips to remind you of the beauty
you had for a short while. That beauty
can never be taken from your memories or
your heart.

Even though the tulips are gone there are
magnificant irises, violas, pansies and other
purple flowers to take their place and keep
her memory alive for all of us.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 29, 2007 8:08 AM CDT

Jean - I am praying for you.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 6:22 AM CDT

I was directed to your journal through the carebridge site about my little neice (diagnosed with CHARGE syndrome). I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Kellie Lewis <kmtcheermom@yahoo.com>
Keyser, WV United States - Monday, May 28, 2007 10:26 PM CDT

Jean,
This is a most difficult time.
Everything we know about the stages of grief
seem so "canned" but here they come, popping
out all over when they are least welcomed.
When Uncle Ray, Aunt Peg and the girls died,
I remember the strength and courage came from
some unusual places. I felt the hand of God
through strangers. A lady in Michigan who read
about the plane crash, and had suffered a similar
loss, wrote a beautiful letter to us. On that day
I felt her love and compassion from afar, and it
made a difference.
I read the web site and see parents who are suffering
the uncertain out come of their childrens illness.
Others who have lost a child and grieve right with you.
Francesca has generated so much love amoung so many.
All who love you want to relieve your burden, even if for
a moment.
I know it seems like nothing will help,
try anyway. Our Saint Francesca would
want Spring to blossom in our hearts.
Keep looking for the purple tulips,
even though they are gone from view.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh usa - Monday, May 28, 2007 5:17 PM CDT

Jean,
My heart breaks when I read your update.
How can you not be sad and discouraged?
She was your child. You walked through
the valley of the shadow of death giving
her life. You fought tirelessly trying
to keep her alive. You cannot go through
something so tramatic and so miraculous and
not feel empty, lost and forlorn.

We ask why? There is no answer. The week
before Francesca passed my 28 year old niece
also passed. She had given birth 12 days
before. Her husband asks why? He is left
alone to raise the baby they had dreams and
hopes for. I just talked to him and he has
found God for the first time in his life.
He now is faith-filled and hopeful for the
future. He still misses my niece terribly.

My heart breaks for both of you. One has
lost a child. One has lost a life mate.

God is all we have. He is our rock and our
salvation. We will never know the why's in
this life. But we will know the love of our
awesome and powerful God.

Please don't feel guilty for mourning your child.
One day it will not hurt as much. One day you
will be able to go without crying. One day you
will be able to function again. Only you will
know when that time is here.

Remember, lots of us love and care for you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 28, 2007 5:00 PM CDT

Jean,

I'm crying along with you.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, May 28, 2007 4:42 PM CDT

"I feel guilty because I have much to be thankful for but there are days I cannot stop crying."

Jean, the bible says there is a time for everything. This is your time for feeling sad. Please do not feel guilty about it! There will be a season for gratefulness and that will come soon enough. For now it really is okay to feel sad and to be sad. There is a goodness to it.

Still praying for you and with you.

Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Monday, May 28, 2007 4:10 PM CDT

Jean,
Happy Memorial Day! As we remember our
veterans, we also thank them for giving
us the precious freedom we enjoy each and
every day.

From my devotional reading this morning:
Sometimes problems seem to come at us all
at once and we get depressed. We feel alone
and dejected. We blame God and rail angry
words at Him

During these times we need to find a quiet
place to pray and get reconnected with God.
We need to listen to what He is saying to
us. We need to find the direction that He
wants us to follow.

Some prayer times are more inspiring than
others, but we are always able to tap into
God's presence and find strength for the day.

God is our strength and refuge. He never
abandones us in times of trouble and grief.

Have a blessed day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 28, 2007 2:34 PM CDT

I
I came across your site while visiting another one.I want to let you know I'm sorry for your loss.We will add you and your angel Francesca to our prayer list.May you find the strength and peace to go on.Remember you are not alone God will walk with you throughout your journey in life,he will always be there for you.Turn to him in your time of need and he will blanket you with his love,grace,and mercy.My heart and thoughts go out to your family.I looked at your pics you have a WONDERFUL FAMILY.Take care of each other and hang in there.We all know the "POWER OF PRAYER". Your lovely angel is watching down upon you,and some day you will be reunited with her in the KINGDOM OF GOD.I will check by later.Take Care and God Bless You.
Prayers Coming
Kristen and Joyce
Kristen Thompson
caringbridge.org

Kristen Thompson <the-one-and-only-me1@yhaoo.com>
Ashville, Pa USA - Monday, May 28, 2007 10:16 AM CDT

Jean,
I was thinking of you and your family this Memorial Day weekend and checked your site to see how you were. I will continue to keep all in my prayers. May the peace that God has graced you with continue to sustain you.
Jane Louis (ARCHE) <jj-louis@sbcglobal.net>
green, oh - Sunday, May 27, 2007 8:11 PM CDT

I hope you have a really
nice day today and every
day! You are always in
my thoughts and prayers.
I love you and your
family. Thank you for
giving me an opportunity
to get to know such wonderful
people. No matter what
happens in life you are
and always will be a huge
role model for me. I
look towards you when
I need to make any
decisions.
Lots of love,
Kaylee
Kaylee <crishub3@aol.com>
- Sunday, May 27, 2007 3:32 PM CDT

Jean,
From my devotional reading this morning:

At times we pray and receive not bread
but what seem to us like stones. Our
initial reaction in these times is to
complain and imagine that God is being
hard on us.

We must come to realize that God is good
and that hidden in the "stones" of unanswered
prayer there must be something beautiful
and valuable.

This is brought home when we look at geods -
stones that look ordinary on the outside but
are hollow and lined with dazzling crystals
inside. A hidden treasure.

So we must ask God to give us discernment when
we think we have received stones. We need to find
the beauty locked inside those stones. This
requires patience and confidence that God is
good no matter what life throws at us. Even
within difficult situations, God can show us
something beautiful and valuable.

I hope that this will help you in some small way
as you go through this difficult time.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 27, 2007 2:14 PM CDT

It's been so long since I've been here to check on Frankie and I'm so shocked and heartbroken right now. I pray for your family.
Kendra Briscoe <briscoekj@yahoo.com>
Virginia Beach, VA USA - Sunday, May 27, 2007 8:42 AM CDT

Jean,
Sending you many thoughts for a peaceful weekend
with your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck
- Saturday, May 26, 2007 7:05 AM CDT

No words of wisdom,
Just Love and Prayers,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Friday, May 25, 2007 10:24 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that the beautiful weather will
bring you some small measure of joy.
Blessings,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 25, 2007 9:51 AM CDT

Just wanted to leave you a little
message to let you know I was
thinking about you. I had a really
nice time at your house last weekend
and I hope I get to see you again
before I leave on my trip. Hope
you are having a nice day!
Missing you,
Kaylee
Kaylee <crishub3@aol.com>
- Thursday, May 24, 2007 4:09 PM CDT

Jean,
Glad Deb, Marissa and Jami are with you today.
It's beautiful out and I know they will bring
all of you lots of Joy.
Safe travels, love you,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, May 24, 2007 11:10 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that this message finds you having a good
day on this beautiful day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 24, 2007 7:24 AM CDT

Jean,
Yesterday I visited Sister Martha Fox in
Akron General. She was in cardiac CCU.
She was supposed to go home today and she
requested that I ask you if you would take
the children to visit her. She said all the sisters miss you and the children.
Sorry, I forgot earlier this morning.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 23, 2007 3:45 PM CDT

Hey Jean... I was just about to send you a note and discovered that Julie beat me to it! But I thought I'd write anyways to let you know I've been thinking about you and look forward to continuing our conversations and time together that was cut short at the first communion.

I'm curious if you have any pictures of Frankie and Sr. Jordan together to put up on the website? (those of us who post could always use to see more pictures of her smiling face)

Love you!

P.S. School here is wrapping up this week and yesterday was my very last day of classes at St. John's (definitely bitter sweet - i'm ready for summer but will miss the people here and the place itself) So thank you Jean for your prayers for that and our transition to Columbus.
Mike (& Jules) Warner <warner5313@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 1:49 PM CDT

Hi Jean!
Hope the Confirmation went well! We're thinking of
and praying for you!
Love,
Jules and Mike
Julie and Mike Warner <jdog782@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 7:46 AM CDT

Jean,
Indeed Francesca taught us all so meny things.
I feel thankful to have been one of thousands
of prayer warriers during her life. Thank you
again for posting the words from her funeral mass
for all of us to have.
Blessings on a beautiful day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 23, 2007 5:46 AM CDT

Guiseppe reminds us,
we can be surprised by the Spirit.
You are such a strong young man.
You are so full of life.
You love fire, and the fire within you
is filled with passion.
You seek direction. You have chosen
some very amazing people who you
go towards to hear more.
Don't leave out the influence Sr. Jordan
and Francesca Jordan have in your life.
They both love you and are more than ever
in a position of power to advise and guide you.
I remember mom giving me a visual immage,
of you sitting at Sr. Jordan's feet,
throwing one question after the other,
eager to hear her response. You know
she loves you. You know she never was
afraid of your inquisitive nature.
Unshakeable Dominican wisdom.
Keep asking, but take time to listen
to the Spirit of those you admire,
so full of fire.

My prayers will be with you this morning
at Jeanette's Mass.

I Love You,
Grandma
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 5:28 AM CDT

Jean, I continue to pray for you and your family.
Your amazing and inspiring words have struck
yet another chord in my heart. The beautiful
testimony of your love and compassion for all
of your children must surely be the reason God
chose you to be Frankie's MOM! How fortunate
your children are, to have such a strong,
dedicated and loving mother. How fortunate
you are, to have such wonderful children.
How fortunate all of us are, to have had
this way too short glimpse of Frankie's life.

One of many prayer warriors.
- Tuesday, May 22, 2007 8:25 PM CDT

Thank you for sharing your beautiful words! I read this and thought of Frankie and her family. I thought you might like to read it.

"The Brave Little Soul"
By: John Alessi

Not too long ago in Heaven there was a little soul who took wonder in observing the world. She especially enjoyed the love she saw there and often expressed this joy with God. One day however the little soul was sad, for on this day she saw suffering in the world. She approached God and sadly asked, �Why do bad things happen; why is there suffering in the world?�

God paused for a moment and replied, "Little soul, do not be sad, for the suffering you see, unlocks the love in people�s hearts.� The little soul was confused. �What do you mean,� she asked.� God replied, �Have you not noticed the goodness and love that is the offspring of that suffering? Look at how people come together, drop their differences and show their love and compassion for those who suffer. All their other motivations disappear and they become motivated by love alone.�

The little soul began to understand and listened attentively as God continued, �The suffering soul unlocks the love in people�s hearts much like the sun and the rain unlock the flower within the seed. I created everyone with endless love in their heart, but unfortunately most people keep it locked up and hardly share it with anyone. They are afraid to let their love shine freely, because they are afraid of being hurt. But a suffering soul unlocks that love. I tell you this - it is the greatest miracle of all. Many souls have bravely chosen to go into the world and suffer - to unlock this love � to create this miracle - for the good of all humanity."

Just then the little soul got a wonderful idea and could hardly contain herself. With her wings fluttering, bouncing up and down, the little soul excitedly replied, "I am brave; let me go! I would like to go into the world and suffer so that I can unlock the goodness and love in people�s hearts! I want to create that miracle!"

God smiled and said, "You are a brave soul I know, and thus I will grant your request. But even though you are very brave you will not be able to do this alone. I have known since the beginning of time that you would ask for this and so I have carefully selected many souls to care for you on your journey. Those souls will help you create your miracle; however they will also share in your suffering. Two of these souls are most special and will care for you, help you and suffer along with you, far beyond the others. They have already chosen a name for you.

God and the brave little soul shared a smile, and then embraced. In parting, God said, �Do not forget little soul that I will be with you always. Although you have agreed to bear the pain, you will do so through my strength. And if the time should come when you feel that you have suffered enough, just say the word, think the thought, and you will be healed.�

Thus at that moment the brave little soul was born into the world, and through his suffering and God�s strength, she unlocked the goodness and love in people�s hearts. For so many people dropped their differences and came together to show their love. Priorities became properly aligned. People gave from their hearts. Those that were always too busy found time. Many began new spiritual journeys � some regained lost faith � many came back to God. Parents hugged their children tighter. Friends and family grew closer. Old friends got together and new friendships were made. Distant family reunited, and every family spent more time together. Everyone prayed. Peace and love reigned. Lives changed forever. It was good. The world was a better place. The miracle had happened. God was pleased.

Cathy
Akron, Oh - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 2:53 PM CDT

Jean: Your words inspire me every time I read
them. Thank you for posting them for those who
may not have gotten a copy. Congratulations to
Joey on his Confirmation. Give him an extra
hug and kiss from Sam and me. You all continue
to be in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs and
kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. Mom turns 88 tomorrow and is as fiesty
as ever!!!

Linda Andersons <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, OH - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 1:41 PM CDT

I am praying that the Holy Spirit will give you - and all the kids, and Mark - a big healing embrace on Pentecost.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 12:48 AM CDT

Jean, It's good to read your words again.
When I hear you say, the funeral was
the begining of the healing process,
I could say the same.
I appreciate any time we have together.
The kids are growing so fast.
Looking forward to tonight,
Love,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 11:14 AM CDT

Wow - Thank you for posting your words from the funeral - what an amazing message you bring!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 8:01 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying for many Easter Sunday moments and memories for your family.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, May 22, 2007 6:05 AM CDT

Jean,
Thank you for continuiong your inspirational
words from the funeral for Francesca. They
moved me to tears then and they do so now.
Have a great Monday and God bless!
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 21, 2007 10:33 AM CDT

Jean, Mark and Family
It's been a while, but please know we are
keeping you in prayer every day. Thank you,
Jean, for keeping us all in touch with you
this way. Please give each other a hug from
us! and God bless!!

Tim and Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Monday, May 21, 2007 10:21 AM CDT

Hi Jean,

Nice... Get me all teary eyed and crying at my desk on a Monday Morning. Seriously though, I am glad you are sharing this in writing, it gives time to reflect on your powerful wittness.

Still thinking about you and your family often, and praying for you all daily. I be calling Guiseppi once school is out to get him up to speed on our Summer events for Youth Group.

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Monday, May 21, 2007 10:09 AM CDT

Jean, Mark, Angelo, Anthony, Guiseppe, Gina, Maria,
Dominic, Sophia, and Mario,
Yesterday we went to Uncle Phil's for Mass, to celebrate
his 45th Anniversary. We sat in our usual seats up to the right side.
I thought nothing of it, until the beginging of Mass, Uncle Phil had the two families,
with their beautiful babies, ready for baptism,
process in.
Was it their healthy chubby legs that triggered
the memory of Frakie's pudge, or being there
where we always held her. The tears would not stop.
She loved Uncle Phil, and thought nothing
of being carried by him to process out of Mass,
as if she belonged as an integral part of
St. Matthias Parish.
Well, let me tell you, she still is.
I was no sooner inside the door when we arrived,
than I was approached by paritioners,
offering continued thoughts and prayers.
I thought of each of you, and all
the triggers that happen through out your days.
I want you to know I am praying for you,
and so are countless others who love and care.
We must take on the challenge
that Frankie presented to us.
As your Mom spoke so well,
"When life gets tough, and it will"
that's when we remember the courage and sweet vulnerability of our pure Saint Frankie.
Ask her and her Heavenly Father who embraces her,
for help and assistance,
so we can be there with her one day.
I Love You,
Grandma in the cry room at St. Matthias
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Monday, May 21, 2007 7:12 AM CDT

Jean,
Thinking of you!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Sunday, May 20, 2007 10:48 PM CDT

Jean and Family, Thank you once again for sharing with us your memories. I have enjoyed so much being with you and the kids and am waiting for a day to come back again! You haven't organized the toy closet without me have you?? :>) You all have been, and continue to be, an inspiration to me! I miss you all. Karen
Karen Pippin <knursed@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 20, 2007 10:41 PM CDT

Jean,
Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful
words from Francesca's funeral mass. I was
inspired at the funeral and am doubly inspired
as I am able to read them slowly and absorb
them. Thank you also for keeping this web site
going. It has been an inspiration of love and
hope for all of us for nearly three years now.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 20, 2007 4:36 PM CDT

Jean,
Thank you for posting the words spoken at Francesca's funeral. They were beautiful. And your mom's entry made my skin tingle.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, May 20, 2007 4:33 PM CDT

Yesterday, my friend Jeanette Downey went
to heaven. She was a holy woman, and so
full of life. She was diagnosed at the same
time as Christie, with breast cancer.
It was obvious how much she appreciated the
simple things in life, especially her family.
Every time I saw her over the past many months,
she was never concerned to speak about her ever changing
and threatening condition. She would immediately ask,
"How is Francesca", and vow to pray. And pray she did.
I sent her a note with Frankie's picture.
This morning when I woke, I wondered, can you hold
her for me? Will you be able to gaze into her
beautiful eyes?
I walked into the kitchen to get my morning coffee,
there on the kitchen table, was a note from Jeanette,
with her reply, "Francesca is gorgeous. How
wonderful to see God's work in such a beautiful face."
Pray for the Downey Family,
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Sunday, May 20, 2007 4:02 PM CDT

Dear Jean,

I am SO glad you are posting on the site what you shared at Frankie's funeral. So many friends, who weren't able to attend, asked me afterwards what you said, and I know I didn't do justice to your words. I was so caught up as you were speaking at the funeral, and so moved by your words, that my emotions seemed clouded every time I tried to articulate what you had said. So now I can point them here so that they can hear, word for word, your beautiful message. I am so inspired once again reading through.

Thanks so much for calling the other day. I can't wait to see you. One bit of good news - Gary called Gianna's ortho surgeon, who he happens to know from when they were in residency, and they agreed that it would be best to take her hip cast off tomorrow and put a brace on instead. Not only is the cast smelling from bodily fluids soaking into the padding underneath, but more importantly, she is starting to get blisters and other break down of her skin up under her cast by her bottom. We were concerned that if it was left on for two more weeks she would have some real problems. The brace will still lock her hips in place and go down to both knees, but both lower legs will be free and she should have better air flow to her skin. Plus I'm sure she'll be a lot lighter to carry around!

Keeping you in my prayers more than daily,
love,
Teresa
Teresa Giorgio <ggiorgio@adelphia.net>
Sharon Township, OH USA - Sunday, May 20, 2007 1:22 PM CDT

Jean,
It was soo good to see you last weekend. Although I'm just now getting around to thanking you for it, know that I have been thinking of you this whole week. It was so hard for Julie & I to only be at the house for a quick hour, but yet so good to hug you and all the kids in that short time. The first communion was beautiful and makes me so proud of Dominic. I enjoyed helping Joe with his HIPPO project (though adding a St. Augustine of Hippo slide probably wasn't the kind of "help" he was looking for). I especially cherished the look in Anthony's eyes when getting into his '93 Buick Regal Limited ;) -- any chance I get to follow in Uncle Phil's footsteps, I'll take :-D

I miss you all very much & look forward to spending more time together during our next visit... although I should tell you the Toledo Zoo just added a few more baby panda's (wink, wink).

Love you all!

P.S. I LOVED THE HUNK OF ROMANO!!!! :-D
Mike Warner <warner5313@yahoo.com>
Toledo (for now), OH - Saturday, May 19, 2007 4:59 PM CDT

Jean and family,
It's a beautiful day for baseball and soccer.
Dominic is as strong at bat as Maria is with
the kick.
As our schedules fill again with so much of
what was missed the last many months, and it
becomes challenging to set our time together.
I long to simplify. I cherish the moments we
have had to talk, however brief. I hold you
and all the intentions of the family in my heart
and prayers.
I Love You So Very Much,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, May 19, 2007 8:17 AM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that you are having a good day.
I pray for you and your family every day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 18, 2007 10:12 AM CDT

Dear Jean,

You and all your loving family continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you so much for sending the song lyrics for us to read - they are so lovely and comforting. There isn't a day I don't think of you, Frankie, your family and your mom, Rita. Somehow, someway, I pray we'll get together in person again. I have such dear memories of you as a little girl on Dayton Ave - and can only imagine the many ways your children are like you - very special. May the prayers I lift up be a small source of comfort. I truly can 'read' your moments of acceptance as you grieve, and am so grateful you are able to express many of your feelings in words. With love, Carol
Carol Morling <cmorling@comcast.net>
Mechanicsville, VA USA - Thursday, May 17, 2007 6:33 PM CDT

Jean,
Got your message. Can you imagine,
I forgot my cell phone. Very unusual
occurance, for me to misplace something,
I wish.
Glad you got to send Mike a "cheesie" gift.
Jules has such great ideas.
Went to an Aeros game with the kids from
school today. I'm ready for a Frisone
field trip. Hope Monday works.
Love ya,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, May 17, 2007 1:38 PM CDT

Jean,
The song is beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
I love inspirational music. Do you ever listen
to 95.5 The Fish?

I was having a crisis in my family several years
ago and as I was driving to the hospital the song
"God is in Control" came on the station and I knew
that no matter what everything would be alright and
it was.

Have a blessed day.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 17, 2007 11:40 AM CDT

Hi Jean!
Thanks for Mike's "cheesy" gift :-) He loved it!
You're in our thoughts and prayers daily...
Love,
Julie
Julie Warner <jdog782@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH USA - Thursday, May 17, 2007 7:35 AM CDT

Jean,
What beautiful lyrics and so very true.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Thursday, May 17, 2007 4:21 AM CDT

Hey Jean, its Denise, last night, myself, Amy and Sharon read your insert from yesterday and it made us chuckle!!! We are thinking about you guys too, and miss u. The funny thing is right before I went to the caring bridge site last night I thought how funny would it be if jean really called up here and I was really sleeping! Talk to you soon Denise
Denise <denroot@aol.com>
Parma, OH USA - Thursday, May 17, 2007 4:04 AM CDT

Always thinking of you and
praying that wonderful memories
of "happy times" will help
with your pain.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Wednesday, May 16, 2007 10:15 PM CDT

Jean,
Thinking of you and praying for strength,
comfort and peace of mind.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 16, 2007 9:16 AM CDT

Jean, Mark and family,
Praying for God to comfort you as only He can.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, May 16, 2007 6:45 AM CDT

Jean: Your weekend sure was busy -
working, weddings and First Communion.
Keeping busy makes the time fly and at
times makes us forget what is going on
in our lives for a little while. Know
that you are in our prayers and thoughts
daily. It was wonderful talking to you
the other day. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, May 16, 2007 6:28 AM CDT

Hi Jean- Even though I haven't posted a message lately
I am still checking the website and thinking about you.
I can't believe it has already been five weeks. Thank you
for still writing messages on the website, it is so good
to hear how things are going.
Take care
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 6:36 PM CDT

Jean just wanted to let you know how I miss our visits and am grateful we can still stay in touch via this site. You really are a remarkable person and have such a great family. I hope you find time to enjoy the sun, birds, and flowers and know how very much Frankie affected so many people and will always be in our thoughts and prayers. She has left such a void. Thinking and praying for you and your family, Barb
Barb Moledor <Barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Rvenna, OH USA - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 1:58 PM CDT

Jean,
I can see a huge difference in the way
that you write. Each week there is more
acceptance about Francesca's death.

That's not to say you are forgetting her, just
learning to live without her. No one wanted
you to ever have to learn this hard, hard,
lesson. No one ever wanted you to have to
learn to live with this grief. But you were
forced into it. And you are learning to accept it.

May God bless and keep you every day of your
life. May He comfort you and bless you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 15, 2007 1:27 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Mother's Day has been a bad day for me for the last 9 years since my own mother died the day before Mother's Day. Usually I wake up in a bad mood which lasts through most of the day. But this year was different. The song you posted on the website sung by Ginny Owens ("If You Want Me To") inspired me to sing it in my little church on Mother's Day. I also read a tribute to you as my nomination for Mother of the Year. Focusing on you and your loss as a mother, took my mind off of my own loss and helped this Mother's Day to be a special day for me. I hope it was a special day for you as well.
Debbie Cooper LPN Hattie Larlham Community Services <nfbandmom1@earthlink.net>
Newton Falls, OH - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 12:21 AM CDT

Jean,
Tuesday will always be a day of remembrance for us.
How can a little girl bring so much richness to the
world? Our souls are more pure, our hearts more full,
our spirits more resolved, our minds more focused on
all that is good and true and right.
Francesca sure did teach me more about spiritual
growth and awareness than any theologian.
Remember your wedding candle. The words on it were
from the Psalms, "Set me like a seal on your heart"
Frankie sure has set her seal.
I want to immitate her courage.
As hard as it is to think that 5 weeks
ago we were holding her, I want to remember.
I want being her Grandma, to change me daily.
I used to offer Monday's up for you and your family,
but I changed it to Tuesday. I look forward to seeing
you this afternoon. I hold you close in prayer.
I Love You,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 8:32 AM CDT

I am glad to read the hope in your writing - praise God for the eternal hope He gives! I pray today is a good day for you.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 7:08 AM CDT

I hope you had a nice mother's day Jean. I recently found Regina Dorman's web site and thought you might be interested in it. Her little boy died last summer in a car accident. She has a beautiful and faithfilled web site up for him and you might enjoy it as much as I did.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 15, 2007 6:48 AM CDT

Dear Jean,

I got a little taste of your many hospital visits with Frankie this past weekend. Gianna, who is just six months younger than Frankie and now an active 2 year old, ended up with a fractured femur Friday night. One of the middle kids was carrying her in the kitchen and fell with her - she fractured it up by the hip - can you say hip spica cast?!?! I just remember seeing one of those in nursing school and thinking - oh, that's bad. They left a small opening for her bodily functions, but otherwise she can't move or even sit up without being propped up.

As I held her in recovery (they had to bring her to surgery Saturday morning to place the cast) and she fussed about the IV, pulse ox, EKG leads, and that big bulky cast on her legs and hips, I was reminded of what true heros and long suffering saints-in-the-making both Francesca and you are. Gianna was moaning constantly, "Take it off....take it off!" referring to all of the contraptions. I can only imagine how many times Frankie had to suffer those same tubes and leads and worse. And how many times you as her mother had to watch her suffer. I hugged her tight, and thankfully the cast will be off in 3-4 weeks.

On a lighter note, I'm having the vet out on Thursday to check our other mare - she is looking mighty round. Her previous owner said he kept her with his stallion all of last summer....so we may end up with another foal! I'll keep you posted. Give me a call so we can have you guys out, or even just the girls if you are too busy catching up with life.

Talk to ya soon,
Teresa
Teresa Giorgio <ggiorgio@adelphia.net>
Sharon Township, OH USA - Monday, May 14, 2007 3:57 PM CDT

Hi Jean,

Thinking of you and praying for you!

PS: Tell Mamie she can come clean my closets any time...And I was wondering if she had fun in Clyde too?

God Bless
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Monday, May 14, 2007 1:00 PM CDT

Jean,
I came across this poem and thought of you and Frankie:

THE BORROWED GEM
I'll lend you for a little time,
a child of mine, He said.
For you to love while she lives,
and mourn when she is dead.

It may be six or seven years,
or only two or three.
But will you, till I call her back,
take care of her for me?

She'll bring her charms to gladden you,
and shall her stay be brief,
You'll have her lovely memories
as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise she will stay,
since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.

I've looked the wide world over
in my search for teachers true
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,
I have selected you.

Now will you give her all your love,
nor think the labor vain,
Nor hate me when I come to call,
to take her back again?

I fancied that I heard them say,
Dear Lord, Thy will be done.
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,
the risk of grief we'll run.

We'll shelter her with tenderness,
we'll love her while we may:
And for the happiness we've known,
will ever grateful stay.

But shall the angels call for her
much sooner than we planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes,
and try to understand.

~Author Unknown

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, May 14, 2007 11:11 AM CDT

Jean,
How wonderful that Dominic made his first communion.
That made some special memories I'm sure. I kept
you in my thoughts and prayers all day yesterday.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 14, 2007 10:58 AM CDT

Dominic,
Thank you for providing for the family
another opportunity to gather and
celebrate you!
Mom sure made you smile with your favorite
foods (I saw a few others smile as well)
Mom is right, it is so good to be together
and make these memories.
You are such a special young man.
Your smile brightens the day.

Jean, I could not have asked for a better
Mother's Day. Making memories is what
you do best.
You continue to inspire me.
We all look up to you and keep you in
our prayers.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Monday, May 14, 2007 8:45 AM CDT

Good morning Jean! It was so good seeing you and the family yesterday, but it was MUCH TOO SHORT! We look forward to spending more time with you. We think about you and pray for you everyday. Love you very much!
Jules
Julie Warner <jdog782@yahoo.com>
Toledo, OH USA - Monday, May 14, 2007 7:16 AM CDT

Happy Mother's Day, can't wait to hear all about it.
We were in Clyde and the kids had a great time.
I started cleaning out kids clothes, bins, boxes, closets...
I was overwhelmed and thought of you. I need to get over there and help you! Even if I just get one closet done for you.
Abby played a beautiful song for me today that reminds her of Frankie, we both cried. We miss her.
Love, Mamie
Mamie Wilson <gwilson@wyseadv.com>
Medina,, Ohio USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 8:52 PM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Jean,
Just thinking about you and that little Frankie. I love what you have shared in your journal. You and Frank continue to lead me closer to God.
Love,
Jane
Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Sunday, May 13, 2007 8:11 PM CDT

Jean,
Happy Mother's Day! I know that this will
be a bittersweet day for you. You do not
have your beautiful Francesca, but you do
have 8 other wonderful, compassionate and
talented chiuldren.
You are such a good mother, balancing all
the various needs of your children, working
and being a wife. May God continue to bless
you in all you do. Your children will
definately rise and call you blessed among
mothers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 13, 2007 4:26 PM CDT

Praying for you this Mother's Day - what a tremendous mom you are, Jean!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 2:54 PM CDT

Dear Jean;

My thoughts and prayers are with you on this Mother's Day. May HE continue to hold you and give you strength. You are a great Mom! Call if you need a sitter.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Sunday, May 13, 2007 10:14 AM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Mrs. Frisone!!!
I hope you have a wonderful day and
that you know how special you are to
so many people, not just your children.
You are an amazing mom and I'm so happy
I've gotten the chance to know you.
You'll be in my prayers and thoughts
throughout the day and every day.
Love, Kaylee
Kaylee <CrisHub3@aol.com>
Akron, OH - Sunday, May 13, 2007 10:03 AM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!
I know today must also be hard,
but you're a wonderful mother and
I only hope that I can be like
you someday. Thank-you for sharing
so much with me.
Love,
Josephine
Josephine <Josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Sunday, May 13, 2007 8:30 AM CDT

Jean,
Another day closes and my thoughts
and prayers are with you. I pray that
You find comfort and peace.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, May 12, 2007 7:59 PM CDT

JEAN MARK AND FAMILY
BEEN THINKING OF YOU DAILY AND
CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU.
SUE AND MATT TESTA <susan@buildersdiversified.com>
KENT, OH USA - Saturday, May 12, 2007 6:12 PM CDT

Jean: Just wanted to wish you a
Happy Mother's Day. We will be
thinking of you and sending lots
of love and prayers your way.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Saturday, May 12, 2007 3:14 PM CDT

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
Well just as the purple tulips
are about to disappear,
we have the reminder that
dandelions filling the yards
can be viewed as a blessing.
Chem Lawn won't like our view.
I am trying to keep a grateful heart
when I feel the tears flow.
They really do not conflict with each other.
I am so grateful for every day we had Francesca.
It is not for her that we cry,
or feel the pang of grief.
It is for us, that we miss her sweet,
sweet face and our arms
so full of her presence.
As Mother's Day comes with the morning,
I am grateful for all you Mother's
who share Jean's journey,
for all you faithful souls that uphold Motherhood,
for my daughters and daughter-in-laws
who are such wonderful Mothers,
and for my children, what a blessing
and gift it is to be your
MOM

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, May 12, 2007 12:04 AM CDT

Jean,
I will be thinking of you today. I
pray that you will have a better day today.
I pray that the Lord will give you
comfort and peace.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com >
- Saturday, May 12, 2007 6:24 AM CDT

Jean and Mark,
Thinking about you on this weekend
that will be filled with both
happiness and tears.
There are never the right
words to say to help your pain
but remember that you are loved
by so many and by your
beautiful Angel.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, ohio - Friday, May 11, 2007 10:46 PM CDT

Jean,
Another week is drawing to an end.
Another week gone by. How quickly
they pass. Even though they go one
day at a time, collectively they
zoom by and another weekend is here.
May your weekend be blessed with much
love from your husband, children, and
other relatives. It takes everyone
together to make the pain easier to bear.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 11, 2007 12:18 AM CDT

Jean,
Remember that even in your grief,
Lord never leaves you. "Yet I am
always with you; you hold me by
my right hand. You guide me with
your counsel, and afterward you take
me into glory." Psalm 73:23-24
I pray that you feel His
loving presence.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, May 11, 2007 6:59 AM CDT

I don't know who wrote this, but I thought it was nice!

Dandelions From Heaven
Mothers Day is coming...and I wanted to send you a sign...
Something you can tell others..."Is from an angel of mine".
So I searched the Heavens high and low for that perfect thing..
And low and behold I found it....and a smile I hope it will bring.

So when you look to the Heavens...and see the yellow stars in the sky...
Just think of me...your angel... in the Heavens way up high...
And just imagine those stars...are dandelions up above...
Yes! Dandelions are also in Heaven...,which you know how much I love.

So on this Mothers Day... when you awake and feel blue...
You will notice those yellow stars...are no longer in view...
So just look to the meadows and the dandelions you see....
Are the ones I've tossed down this Mothers Day from me!

And when you find a dandelion that has turned from yellow to white...
You're supposed to make a wish...and then blow with all your might.
For you will be blowing kisses... to me in Heaven above....
And I will be catching them and blowing them back...sent with all my love.

Please know that I am with you...on this Mothers Day...
And also in the days ahead...God and I will never stray...
We will be with you in the morning...when you wake and see the sun..
We will be with you when you say your prayers...when the day is done.

For God and I will never be...very far from your side...
For I can now be everywhere.. .and God will be your guide...
So...remember when you see dandelions.. .its your guarantee...
That I am alway close to you....
For dandelions are free to roam.....now just like me.

Cathy
akron, oh - Thursday, May 10, 2007 8:38 PM CDT

Jean,
I planted a little Frankie garden at
the Melucci's. Actually, I had a big
hand from the resident gardeners, Marissa
and Jami. Really! they were troupers,
we had the mud to show for it.
I want to think of it as a spiritual bouquet
garden. There are thousands
of little tiny forget-me-nots and
purple flowers of all kinds. If I say a
prayer for you every time I think of you,
then I picture each of these flowers
giving glory to God.
Blessings on you as you work tonight.
Remember you are loved by so many,
I'm happy to be one of the blessed,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Thursday, May 10, 2007 6:54 PM CDT

Jean,
Another day has come and gone.
Another chance to praise our
Lord and Savior. Another chance
to do the best we can do with
what we have.
Blessings for a good night's rest.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 10, 2007 6:48 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
I just got onto the site for the first time since Frankie's funeral to catch up on your postings. As usual, I found myself weeping with you. I long so much to be able to comfort you, put my arms around you, and to cry together. I pray that our Lord can continue to provide some sort of comfort through little glimpses of beauty throughout your day, knowing that Frankie is glimpsing those beautiful scenes every day in heaven. She has all the birdies she wants to look at and squeal in delight over up there.

We just returned home from our long vacation to the Grand Canyon. What a trip (and I mean TRIP!) with all nine kids in a vehicle for at least 8 hours a day. We learned how much we get along and how much we don't (and not to scandalize anyone here reading, but the latter seemed MUCH more apparent - I'm sure you understand). But the trip was well worth it - we were able to see the beautiful West. It was great to come home to spring though, with all of the greenery and streams that actually have water in them.

Our foal was born while we were gone - a colt. We moved them back home the day we returned and are enjoying working with him. We're thinking of the name Applejack for him. I would love to have you and the kids over for lunch or even an all day get together. Give me a call....or I'll call you soon if I don't hear from you.

Much love, and many prayers,
Teresa

Teresa Giorgio <ggiorgio@adelphia.net>
Sharon Township, OH USA - Thursday, May 10, 2007 6:40 PM CDT

Jean,
Another day.
Each new day we have is a blessiing and a
gift from God to be enjoyed and treasured.
I pray that this will be a good day for you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 10, 2007 8:10 AM CDT

Jean: It was wonderful, as always, to see
your Mom last night. I had to cover the
night shift due to illness of the night time
girl. Don't worry, I will make sure Mark gets
the package your Mom brought in for him.
Sounds like Dominic will be making his First
Communion on Sunday. I can't believe he is
old enough already. Frankie, Dad, Sr. Jordan
and Mr. Schubert will all be watching and
sending so much love to Dominic and all of you
as he receives one of our most blessed sacraments.
Please give him a special hug and kiss from
Sam and me (and all the other kids too!)
Hope you have a good day today. Hugs and kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, May 10, 2007 6:29 AM CDT

Jean,
My prayers are with you today.
So good to hear from Chrissie.
Was just a few short years ago
you were cracking the books together,
here you are Moms supporting each
other in thought and prayer.
When I made the delivery to the agency
yesterday, Linda was saying she knew a
Mom who could not update the website after
her child's death. Another testimony to
your strength and courage. Many hearts have
been touched and prayers said from you sharing
your family journey of faith.
I Love You and will hold you close in prayer
this day,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Thursday, May 10, 2007 4:17 AM CDT

jean, Please know that you and your family have been in our thoughts and prayers at this extremely difficult time. love chrissie
chrissie pape <chrissie@55southst.com>
middlebury, ct usa - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 8:08 PM CDT

Jean,
With the falling night, I
pray for peace and rest for you.
I pray for relief from the pain
of grief. I pray for comfort
and solace.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 9, 2007 7:23 PM CDT

Jean,
Thank you so much for the update.
I am so glad that you are reading
inspirational books. They do help.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 9, 2007 12:13 AM CDT

Jean,
I planted a little memorial garden.
You must bring the kids and visit.
Looking forward to Mother's Day with
you, and Dominic's First Communion.
I know how much these days will bring
more intensely, the pain of missing
Frankie, so we will wrap you in prayer
and offer our daily challenges for you
and the family.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 12:03 AM CDT

You continue to be a great inspiration to us mom's.
You are always remindng me of what is important.
Had dinner with your uncle Monday, it was great!
Glad to hear you went to the Hoban mass.
Enjoy your Mother's Day!
Love, Mamie
Mamie Wilson <gwilson@wyseadv.com>
Medina, Oh USA - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 10:32 AM CDT

Jean, Just wanted to let you know that you and your family are still in my continued prayers. Even thought we have not kept in touch, you are still part of my Akron Kids 7200 family, which yeans so much to me. Keep feeling Franchesca's kiss as the warm spring sun touches your face. I truly believe your little angel is with you and the family in so many ways. Keep looking to God's love to guide you through the many firsts. Take care Angie Maffett
Angela Maffett <camaffett5@aol.com>
Noblesville, In - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 8:15 AM CDT

Jean,

Once again I find myself sitting with my fingers
on the keyboard trying to find the right words to
express my love and concern for you. Most times
I just give up and walk away, feeling that I
unable to adequately transfer my thoughts into
words. I am still at a loss, however, I'm
determined to not let that stop me! Frankie
would not have given up that easy, so why
should I? I find myself thinking of her
(and all of you) so many times throughout
each day. I'm reminded of her beautiful
face and lively spirit and I miss her terribly.
How much I want to have her say my name
insistently while reaching up so that I can
carry her. I can almost feel her snuggle
into my neck while patting my back. The
emptiness brings tears to my eyes, yet
makes me so grateful for each and every time
I had the honor of holding Frankie in my arms.
I am able to draw strength from the words of
little Marissa who is able to see the big
picture despite her grief. I found this
note in her bookbag, " Frankie is in God's hands.
No hunger,or thirst, no pain." Each "I" was dotted
with a heart and the note itself was in a heart.
Frankie is loved beyond words!

I am looking forward to seeing you and the kids
this weekend. Be assured of my continued love
and prayers that are being poured out for
each of you!

Love,
Deb
Debbie Melucci <joedeb5@yahoo.com>
Grove City, OH - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 1:49 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
It is amazing that in your grief you continue to give hope and faith to those who may be doubting now. Your total faith shows through in your acceptance of Frankie's death. I too don't believe in blaming God when bad things happen. I don't believe God picks and chooses good or bad things to happen either. As one who shared in Frankie's brief life I am grateful to have wittnessed the love and acceptance your family demonstrated with each other and to friends who reached out. I can't imagine your grief and loss but want you to know I think of you daily.
Love,
Jane
Jane Gwinn <jgwinnaps@yahoo.com>
Kent, Oh Portage - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 9:26 AM CDT

Jean,
Another glorious day with pleanty of sunshine.
Another week gone by without Francesca.

Your grief cannot be experienced by anyone else.
It is a path that you alone must walk. Just remember
that so many are with you in spirit and pray for
you along the way. I pray that your journey will
take you to new depths of faith and bring you peace.

I too encourage you to bring the children into the
Oakwood Building for a visit. I am in Suite # 224,
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 8, 2007 8:14 AM CDT

Jean: Thank you for the latest entry.
I'm sure all of us agree that with Spring
here, it makes the days bearable no matter
what one is going through. How true the
five "F's" are. To me the first three,
Faith, Family and Friends, are the most
important. Yes, we should all be "fit"
but that gets thrown by the wayside -
always an excuse, not enough time, too
tired. And for some "fortune" is way
too important in their lives. Sure, we
would all like to have enough to live
comfortably and not worry about the
bills, etc. but money isn't everything.
I feel truly rich because of my faith,
family - I couldn't ask for better kids.
My Mom and Dad (even though he is no
longer with us, he enriched my life and
still does), my brother and sister mean
so much to me and of course, Sam. I have
been truly blessed with the most wonderful
man in the world. My love for him is
unending and grows with each day. And Friends,
the blessings I have been given through friends
is unbelieveable. My Dad use to say "A true
friend is man's greatest asset". I have so many
of those and I thank God for them.
You continue to inspire me with your words
and I thank you for that. Please know that
you are all in our prayers and send much love.
Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P.S. Tell Mario we will come over soon on
the Harley!
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 6:15 AM CDT

My Dear Jean, How good it is to be with you.
I wish the sandman did not come visit last
night. I could hear the delight in the boys
voices as they ate the calzones, I heard you
late into the night making stromboli for their
lunches. You comfort them, teach and nurture
them. Date night was a great idea.
You were so very much missed at home.
It is so very bitter sweet that you are home.
My heart aches for you. New Life all around
reminds us of Frankie's eternal Spring.
I thank God for purple tulips, the beauty of
your family, and that I have you as a daughter.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, oh usa - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 5:48 AM CDT

Jean,
Francesca comes to mind so often.
I think of how hard she fought and
of her beautiful eyes and happy
smile despite all she had been through.
Now I picture her happily playing in
Heaven with her grandfather. Then I ask
that God would give you and your
family comfort and peace. I ask that He would
give you the strength that you need
to get through the day, because I can only
imagine how painful this must be.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, May 8, 2007 4:51 AM CDT

Jean, Life does go on, doesn't it?
I'm sure each first will be difficult
for you and maybe even the second and
third time a special day comes along
or an event. No matter how many special
events come and go Francesca will always
be there with you.
I had a wonderful visit with Alysa this
past weekend and fortunately I'll see her
again in two weeks in Kansas City attending
a family wedding.
We're all moved in at Oakwood (well, some
of us). It's so different, but we'll get
used to it. Bring the kids by sometime to see us!
Enjoy this beautiful weather. Love
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, May 7, 2007 6:26 PM CDT

Jean,
I didn't have enough time before
to write much, but I am so glad
to hear from you. The focus the
priest said to follow is very true.
Thank you for sharing that with us.

I see purple tulips everywhere,
just never noticed them before.
I will forever think of Francesca
every time I see them in the future.

She was so special and she taught
all of us so much in her short life.

Tomorrow will be a hard day. Four
weeks since her death.

We will all be with you in spirit
and pray for your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 7, 2007 4:05 PM CDT

I will fondly remember Francesca when I see purple tulips this spring. You are still in my prayers.
Larry Bartlett <eljaybee63@aol.com>
Modesto, CA - Monday, May 7, 2007 12:46 AM CDT

Jean,
What a wonderful update! I was
so worried about you. I feel so
much better now knowing that your
internet service was down.

Thank you for the update.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, May 7, 2007 10:36 AM CDT

Hi Jean,

Still thinking about you and your family, and praying daily. Sorry Joey couldn't make it this weekend, school comes first. Talk to you soon.

God Bless
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Monday, May 7, 2007 10:32 AM CDT

I had the pleasure of meeting five of the Frisone children, Gina, Maria, Sophia, Dominic, and Mario, at Chris (my son) and Gina Bryan's last weekend. They got to ride ponies and other outdoor activities. What wonderful well behaved children. It was good to see them having a little fun, with all they have been through. My prayers are with them all. Gina is especially mature for her 12 years, and looked after the little ones. God bless their family.
Donna Lallone <dlallone@wheelinghospital.com>
St. Clairsville, OH USA - Monday, May 7, 2007 9:43 AM CDT

It was so nice to see you at Dominic's game. I'm sorry I never signed in before. I never know what to say. You on the other hand, have an amazing gift to write!
I pray this week goes better for you.

Michelle <voiersm@yahoo.com>
Suffield, OH USA - Monday, May 7, 2007 9:31 AM CDT

Jean: It's the start of a new week and
there are so many changes here at the
Agency. No more going over to the
"Dark Side" and seeing Mark and the
Gang. It feels very strange. Pat and
I have had lunch together for 11 years
and now she is over at Oakwood.
I hope you enjoyed the beautiful weekend
and everyone is doing well. You are all
in our prayers constantly. Much love is
sent your way. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, May 7, 2007 6:30 AM CDT

Thinking of you!!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Sunday, May 6, 2007 10:31 PM CDT

Jean,
I hope that you are coping better.
It has been nearly a week since your
last update. I know that it is hard,
but I hope that you are doing some
better.
love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 6, 2007 7:58 PM CDT

Dear Jean and Mark,

Thinking of you and your family on this beatiful Spring Day. I bet that Miss Frankie is helping God make a ton of purple tulip bulbs for sale in the fall. Something tells me that all of your friends and family will be planting FRANCESCA BULBS in the fall. Take Care!! Love, Melissa, Larry and Sam Rose
Bennett Family <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Sunday, May 6, 2007 7:54 PM CDT

Just a quick note to say I'm praying for you - today and every day!!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Sunday, May 6, 2007 7:43 PM CDT

Jean,
Praying for you and your family.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Saturday, May 5, 2007 9:27 AM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that this new day brings you hope,
peace and comfort.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, May 5, 2007 6:12 AM CDT

Dear Jeanie and Mark and family members,
Just to say how often thoughts of Frankie pop into my heart each day, some bring a smile and some bring tears then I think of each of you and wish I could take some of your sorrow and tell you how much I care. You havent beem far from my thoughts or prayers daily. I continue to pray and ask for strength for each of you/ You are truly a family that lives the word of God and I am so blessed to know you. Prayers, love, and blessings. Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Friday, May 4, 2007 9:24 PM CDT

Jean, I'm here in Chicago visiting Alysa and TJ. Hope you and your family have a good weekend.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Friday, May 4, 2007 7:04 PM CDT

Jean,
Blessings on you and all your
family this beautiful day. I
hope that you and Mark were
able to have another date night.

I hope that you all have a
wonderful weekend.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 4, 2007 4:16 PM CDT

Hi Jean -- I am continuing to keep you and your family in my prayers. I am one of those that check your page often and sometimes don't sign. Please know you are in thoughts!
Judy Doyle <jadoyle@zoominternet.net>
Medina, Ohio - Friday, May 4, 2007 11:26 AM CDT

Hi Jean - thanks for sharing your heart and all that God is teaching you. You are so transparent and your words have been a real blessing and challenge to me, to share more openly with others what God is teaching me. Thanks - we are praying for you and your family. I will be calling you soon, Holly and I hope that we can come help out for a day. Love - Debbie
Debbie Brumfield <dbrumfield@neo.rr.com>
- Friday, May 4, 2007 7:56 AM CDT

Jean,
I just noticed something
very beautiful...
Two "Francesca" tulips
in my garden.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, May 4, 2007 7:18 AM CDT

Jean, Well the move took place today.
Fairly uneventful since I was the only
one who moved today (since I'm going
to Chicago tomorrow). I think everyone
else will move tomorrow. It was sad
going to Kent for the last time today.
I will miss seeing everyone each day.
You should stop by someday and see the
new offices in Ravenna - Mark has done
a great job with this venture.
Take care.....I hope to see you soon.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Thursday, May 3, 2007 6:04 PM CDT

Jean,
Someone just emailed me this and
I wanted to share it with you, for
you are truly an angel to your children.

A baby asked God, "They tell me
you are sending me to earth tomorrow,
but how am I going to live there,
being so small and helpless?"

God said, "Your angel will be waiting
for you and will take care of you."

The child further inquired, "But tell
me, here in heaven I don't have to do
anything but sing and smile to be happy."

God said,"Your angel will sing for
you and will also smile for you.
And you will feel your angel's love
and be very happy."

Again the child asked, "And how am
I going to be able to understand
when people talk to me if I
don't know the language?"

God said, "Your angel will
tell you the most beautiful
and sweet words you will
ever hear, and with much
patience and care, your angel
will teach you how to speak."

"And what am I going to do
when I want to talk to you?"

God said, "Your angel will
place your hands together
and will teach you how to
pray."

"Who will protect me?"

God said, "Your angel will
defend you, even if it means
risking its life."

"But I will always be sad
because I will not see You anymore."

God said, "Your angel will
always talk to you about Me
and will teach you the way
to come back to Me, even
though I will always be
next to you."

At that moment, there was
much peace in Heaven, but
voices from Earth could be
heard and the child hurriedly
asked, "God, if I am to leave
now, please tell me my angel's name."

God said, "You will simply call her, "Mom."

You are such a good mom that I juct had
to share this with you.

Francesca is with God now and I'm sure
that she is happy to be back in heavan,
even though she misses you and Mark and
the children very much.
Peace,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 3, 2007 1:18 PM CDT

Jean,
I saw a butterfly this morning
and I thought of Francesca.
I remember her at her first
birthday party. She looked
just like a princess.

I am so very sorry for her early
departure from this life.
In her brief life she touched
many, many lives. She taught
all of us to reach out to others
in love and compassion.

She will always be remembered by
all who prayed for her for two and
a half years.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 3, 2007 12:41 AM CDT

Gina, I don't know if you remember me I haven't seen you in many years Mark was my son Gary's football coach. You and I spoke often at practices and games. What I remember about you is your patience and grace as a mother. I am so deeply sorry to hear of the passing of your precious child I have logged onto the website several times to see how you are doing. Know that I am praying for you I wish somehow someone could give you words to take pain away but until you are with her for all of eternity she will continue to walk beside you until you are both able to hold each other again. God Bless Laura
Laura Parsons <luparsons00@yahoo.com>
Mogadore, OH U.S - Thursday, May 3, 2007 9:31 AM CDT

Jean,
You are thought about and prayed
for many times throughout the day.

Debbie and Rick Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, May 2, 2007 7:52 PM CDT

Jean,
Night is falling and my prayer for you is rest,
peace and the assurance that you are loved by
so many who pray for you daily.

Your mom is right, we must not forget the
children. We must cherish them every day as
they suffer too. Please know that many still
pray for your family. That all the children
may find peace in knowing that Francesca is
with them in spirit. That they may find a
way to go on without her.

Peace be with you, the peace that only God can give.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 2, 2007 7:12 PM CDT

Dear Jean, I have so much to
tell you yet wonder if telling you
about what's going on in my life is
appropriate. Has Mark told you how
crazy it is a work? I'm moving my
office to Ravenna tomorrow and the
rest of Admin. will be moving
as well. It's sad in a way. I've worked
with the staff in Kent for 7 years
and will miss seeing them every day.
I guess I'm not good with change.
Anyway, I'll close for now. I wish I was
as good with saying the right words to give
you comfort as many others are on the guestbook;
but what I have is to tell you that I think
of you always and pray that you will find some
comfort in knowing how many people
love you. I hope to see you soon.
This Friday I fly to Chicago and will never
forget the last time I flew there...
Frankie was being flown to Cleve at the
very same time........
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Wednesday, May 2, 2007 6:37 PM CDT

Jean,
I think of you and pray for you daily.
I know that no amount of words can take
away the pain you feel. But I hope that
in some small way they help.

Today is a beautiful day. I hope that you
and the kids will find time to get outside
and enjoy it. I know that where ever you go
Francesca is with you is spirit. She is in
the gentle breeze that blows, the song of a bird
or the wings of a butterfly. I hope that you
feel her presence today to comfort you.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 2, 2007 7:46 AM CDT

Jean, It helps me to check the guest book.
I have not written, and if it helps you, I
will try to collect my thoughts.
Glad to be reminded that Jesus cried, for so
many little things stop me in my tracks.
Sometimes when you are talking about one of the
kids sporting events or something you have to do,
I get all excited inside, thinking for a half a
moment, oh good, I can run out and hold Frankie
so you can go. The thought stops with the piercing
reality. But immediately, I turn to the truth that
we have so many beautiful children, who must know
that we would go to the end of the earth to love, just
like Frankie.
So in my thoughts and prayers and actions, I want to
uphold all the children of the world, big and small,
old and young, in Frankies honor and in the name of
Jesus who holds her close.
Marlene, Tony and all the Frisone family, I think of
you several times a day. I grieve for your deep loss.
I thank God for the ways you loved Francesca and the
family. She had her favorite "Hey-Ho" moments with you.
Barney stood at attention over her for a fitting time.
How you bring life so fully to the kids. The ways you
were willing to help, no one else could have done.
Dave and Geri, I will be forever grateful for you getting
to the house so quickly, so I could go to the hospital.
Tony, "Pappy" everyone knew Frankie would do anything
for you. You brought a smile when her joys were limited.
I will never forget all of the kindness and life giving
care that everyone in the family gave so freely.
Thank you!
For Jean, Mark, Angelo, Anthony, Guiseppe, Gina, Maria,
Dominator, Sophia,and Mario, you can count on us.
No one is forgetting you. We so want
our prayers and thoughts and love to carry you.
Blessings on each of you as you take one day at
a time and love one another.
"There is no difficulty that enough love will
not conquer" E.Fox
I love you,
Grandma
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, May 2, 2007 7:43 AM CDT

Jean,
I think of you everyday
and hope that it is a better
day for you and all of the
family.
I pray for your strength
and peace.
Remember that you are loved.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 11:30 PM CDT

I am so glad you are keeping this going. If we can all let you know how much we care, how much we miss her and that you are in out thoughts and prayers, it helps our healing, too. At least, I think I can speak for everyone. In other words, we are bonded to your family, whether you want us or not! Please call me if I can sit with the kids some night. I would love to be able to do that. Take care....Debbi
Debbi Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 7:03 PM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
I just wanted to let you know
that I'm praying for you and
your whole family. And I miss
you all very much. I know
that nothing I can say or
do will take away your pain,
but I hope that knowing that
I, and many others, are praying
for you can help even a little
bit. I love you all.
Love,
Josephine
Josephine <josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 6:29 PM CDT

Dear Jean, I don't think I've signed this
guest book since Francesca left us. Maybe, but
I don't remember. I sent a card to you at
home but haven't found the words to put on
the guestbook. But if reading these entries
helps you, then I will sign it. I think of
you all the time. And if I don't happen to
check the website, Alysa tells me if there is
a new update. I ask myself all the time, "how
is Jean handling this"? Because to tell you
the truth, I'm not doing such a good job. I pray
for you and hope each day you find the strength
to get through. May your many happy memories
of Francesca sustain you. You took such good
care of her. I'm going to see Alysa this weekend
and will cherish each second I'm there. Someday
I'd like to take you with me. I think you'd
enjoy it. Love,

Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 6:29 PM CDT

I have never seen a specifically Catholic poem like this before Jean. Thanks so much for sharing it. We pray to our newest ARCHE saint and ask her intercession often!
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 1, 2007 12:17 AM CDT

Jean,
What a beautiful poem. You're right, it
does seem longer than three weeks.
MAy our Lord God hold you close today.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, May 1, 2007 8:20 AM CDT

Jean: What a beautiful poem. All the
angels and saints are taking care of
Frankie this I know. Each morning I
look at Frankie's picture by my desk
and wonder - what is Dad and Frankie
going to do today? I'm sure he is
telling her all the stories he once
told his granddaughters and for sure
the story about Angelo getting the
key ring stuck on his lip!! I know
that he is watching her for you and
Mark. I wish I could do something
to take away all the sadness and
pain you are going through. Know
that we love you all and continue
to send that love and all our
prayers your way. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, May 1, 2007 6:20 AM CDT

Jean,
I was reading this from a devotional
called "Our Daily Bread." It talks
about the shortest, but a very
profound verse in the bible.
"Jesus wept." John 11:35 The
devotional says, "Sadness, tears
and mourning are familiar territory
for everyone on this earth-even for
Jesus. His tears tell us that it's
ok if tears "just slip out." And
they remind us that the reason tears
of sorrow will be extinct in eternity
is that there shall be no more death,
nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall
be no more pain." Rev 21:4

Debbie Johnston (www.caringbridge.org/ny/gabrieldavid) <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, May 1, 2007 5:27 AM CDT

Jean,
I wish I had the words
to help you with your pain
but I don't know what they are.
So I send you hugs and prayers
and hope it helps you to know
that you are loved.
Love and Payers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, April 30, 2007 10:19 PM CDT

Jean,
Although the pain of losing Francesca may
never go away, the love you shared with her
will never die. She will always be with you.
She was a special child of God, lent to you
for a little while.

We do not know the answers to all the questions.
We do not know the "whys". But we know that we
have a loving God who knows all the answers.
We can but trust in Him to do the things that
are best for us. We may not always agree with
His decisions, but we must trust and obey.

I pray daily that you will find comfort in
His arms. You are on a lonely road and only
He can help you. May He continue to bless you
and your family and give you His peace.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 30, 2007 4:39 PM CDT

Jean, know that you continue to be thought of and prayed for. I find myself going to the guest book frequently for your updates and am always grateful when I see an entry and am able to read your words. I know this is an extremely difficult time for you. I hope you and the family are able to come closer together and support each other. Please don't hesitate to call if I can ever be of any help or support. Barb
Barbara Moledor <Barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Monday, April 30, 2007 3:13 PM CDT

I do not know your family, but my heart aches when I read about such a beautiful girl who has been lifted into Heaven. It is an encouragement to know that your family has stayed strong, and that your trust in the Lord has not disappeared, it has only become stronger. Frankie is now in Heaven, planting her own garden, and living ecah day to the fullest. I will keep your family in my prayers. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!
Desarae Phillips <dphillips0208@hotmail.com>
Akron , Ohio USA - Monday, April 30, 2007 11:13 AM CDT

I found this poem I thought you might like:

Daddy please don't look so sad,
Mommy please don't cry,
Cause I'm in the arms of Jesus and
He sings me lullabies.
Please try not to question God,
Don't think he is unkind.
Don't think He sent me to you,
And then changed His mind.
You see I am a Special Child,
And am needed up above,
I'm the special gift you gave Him,
The product of your love.
I'll always be there with you,
And watch the sky at night,
Find the brightest star that's gleaming,
That's my halo's brilliant light.
You'll see me in the summer showers,
I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you find a gentle breeze,
From a gentle wind that blows,
That's me, I'll be planting a kiss on your nose.
When you see a child playing,
And your heart feels a little tug,
That's me, I'll be there, giving your heart a hug.
So Daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mommy don't you cry. I'm in the arms of Jesus, and He sings me lullabies.
~Author Unknown~
Debbie Johnston (www.caringbridge.org/ny/gabrieldavid) <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, April 30, 2007 10:20 AM CDT

Jean,
Hope this day brings you some measure of comfort.
Hope that the Lord will bless you and comfort
you this day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 30, 2007 9:50 AM CDT

Jean, I check in with the guestbook nearly daily. I'm so glad you and Mark had a date night. Please keep me in mind if you need someone to watch the children on one of your date nights! Please know you are in my prayers.

Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Sunday, April 29, 2007 9:28 PM CDT

Jean,
I check in on your website daily, even though I don't leave messages. I think of Frankie every day and remember how sweet and loving she was. I see her picture on my refridgerator numerous times a day and I just pause for a moment and hold her in my heart and say a small prayer. I think of her each time I hold my babies, then my heart aches for what you must be feeling. I then say a prayer for you and for every mother who is missing her baby at that moment. I now see my after midnight awakinings with my babies as blessing rather than annoyances, for I rejoice to God that I have them to awaken me. I love you all very much and think of you and pray for you more than you will ever know.
Natalie Roarty <NMarie2428@aol.com>
Akron, Ohio - Sunday, April 29, 2007 9:15 PM CDT

As I went about my weekend tasks - organizing clothes, preparing for the week to come, etc. - you were in my thoughts and prayers. God has used you in such a mighty way to testify to so many - and you have been so obedient to Him! I've been praying for you to see some progress in those mundane things that can bring us down, like the house status.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Sunday, April 29, 2007 7:37 PM CDT

Jean,
Even though I have not written, you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers often. The last time I spoke with you felt rushed and awkward. Please know that it was not you. There were some issues going on in my family and now that they are resolving I hope to be able to give you a call soon. I look at my children and think how hard it would be for them to lose each other and ache for what your kids are going through. You are an inspiration to them even if you don't feel like you are. I don't think I have ever met anyone who has had all the challenges you have in the past 2 1/2 years and when seeing you with your children knowing that there is such a deep bond. As you go all of the stages of grief hold on to all that you have now and what Frankie brought to all of you lives. I feel priviliged to have been able to have a small part in your time with Frankie and feel that in watching how gracefully you were able to get through all this that I have learned so much about being a parent and what is truly important in this world. I will continue to be praying for you all and each time I see a purple tulip will think of Frankie.
Tammie
Tammie Feuer <tfeuer@ohiohcp.org>
Youngstown, Oh USA - Sunday, April 29, 2007 7:15 PM CDT

My son died at 31. You will always love Frankie and miss her, but the sharpness of the pain will smooth. For months I felt as though there was a person in the corner of my heart who was always crying. One day I realized that the crying was no longer continuous. It does get better with time, but don't try to rush things. The loving Father who has been with you throughout Frankie's life is with you still and will never leave you.
One easy way to deal with the closets is to close the doors. Also close the doors to the kids' rooms. Don't open them until you feel very strong. Concentrate on the people - talking, hugging, listening, etc. The stuff can be dealt with later; after all, it's only stuff.
We are continuing to pray for all of you.
Carolyn Nome <bcnome@aol.com>
Kent, OH - Sunday, April 29, 2007 5:54 PM CDT

Jean, Mark, and family,
What a beautiful day this is. The Lord's day.
Rejoice and be glad in it. Do something fun as
a family today and enjoy every minute.

Hoping that you had a restful night and that you
will have a relaxing Lord's day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 29, 2007 8:18 AM CDT

Dear Cousins,
We're so grateful for you to continue to give us an update on how you and your family is doing. It touches us to read what you have to say, yet it helps us to be more specific in our prayers for you. I can't help but think that the doctors were able to gain knowledge through Frankie in how they will be able to help other children with similar conditions. It is amazing to me how many people were touched by your circumstances, and were truly blessed with the privilege of praying for your daughter and your family *and are continuing to do so*. Thank-you so much for taking the time to let me know you received the package it was very thoughtful of you to do so.
God Bless.
Love
Your Cousin
Francine
Francine Miller (Frisone)
Anchorage, Ak - Sunday, April 29, 2007 2:51 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I am so very sorry to hear of your sudden loss. I had not read about Francesca since Christmas time. I am crying for you and your family now. Even though I never actually met Frankie, I feel as though I know her through your journal. I still can't believe your unbelievable strength and faith. You have been, and remain a role model to me as a mother. I had to go back anf read about the purple tulip. There have been a few hem/oc patients that I became very attached to since I saw them so frequently for sedation for painful or "must hold still" procedures. I think of them every day. The one little boy, Ridge, spoke to Jesus as he was passing to heaven asking him how he got the holes in his hands. If that doesn't make you believe in God, then I don't know what will. The little girl that I was attached to, Jayoni, became paralyzed over 2 days before she died from a brain and spinal cord tumor. All I could think of when I heard that she was gone was that she was free - free from pain, free from a body that didn't work right, free to fly like a bird. I happened to be at the store the next day, and found the cutest, happiest, fattest little bluebird I had ever seen, and I immediately thought of Jayoni. Well of course I had to have it. So now my Jayoni bird sits atop my curio cabinet, and I think of her every day as well. I think I will have to find some purple tulips to plant in honor of Francesca. Even though she was only on this earth for a little time, she touched a lot of lives. God had a plan for her here on earth, and he has one for her in heaven as well. Mar1anne Manspeaker's husband passed away from liver cancer about 6 weeks ago. I was talking with her and I was telling her that I don't think of death like I used to. Before, I thought that you would never see the person again, but now I know I will see them again, it just may be awhile, and it will be in a wonderful place when it happens. I just wanted you to know I was thinking of you. Keeping the Faith, Love, Teri Stevenson
Teri Stevenson <rnx2@worldnet.att.net>
akron, ohio usa - Saturday, April 28, 2007 11:58 PM CDT

Dear Jean and family,
I am glad you are still using the site to find strength from your friends and family. We at Lake Cable keep you in our prayers. From the suffering of one family many have found deepened and shared faith. Love and hugs from all in our prayer group.

debbi lowry <dlowry@neo.rr.com>
canton, - Saturday, April 28, 2007 8:41 PM CDT

Dear Jean and family, just a note to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. I'm so glad you write on the website and let us know how your days are going. My heart aches with your hearts, but we know Francesca's isn;t aching anymore. She's at peace now. Funny that you wrote about the purple tulips. I have alot of tulips in bloom now. Mostly red & yellow, but after I read your note today, and went outside, there in the front was 1 purple tulip with a white one next to it. How special is that? Love and prayers to you and your family.
Nancy <Nance1029@aol.com>
Akron, Ohio Summit - Saturday, April 28, 2007 5:39 PM CDT

Jean and Mark: Everything will get
back to normal (as normal as it can
be) and the kids will remember all
that you have instilled in them.
Your entire family has gone through
the worst event imaginable and time
will heal the pain and you all will
be able to move forward. I'm so
happy to hear that you and Mark went
out on a date and it wasn't a agency
function!! Enjoy those times and
have them often. We have you all in
our thoughts and prayers. Hugs and
kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Saturday, April 28, 2007 4:05 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
I was so glad to hear you have kept your guestbook open. For some of us it is the only way to be able to keep in touch with you and let you know we're thinking of you. I was also very happy to hear that you and Mark had a date night! It is so easy to slip inside our own grief and forget that we need to allow those closest to us to share our grief too. It is apparent that you and Mark have your priorities in the place. Jean....give yourseslf a break!!! The house will be there!! Your family needs you now....and you need to catch up with yourself before you can catch up with projects!!
You need a lot of rest yourself..you've been runnning on sheer adrenaline for so long you probably are beyond exhaustion. John and I send our thoughts and love for better days ahead.
Love,
Jane
Jane Gwinn <jgwinnaps@yahoo.com>
Kent, Oh USA - Saturday, April 28, 2007 3:27 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
Yes, there are many of us who check in every day. You are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I dreamed of Frankie last night! Unbeleivable. She is so happy and carefree, and loving all of you.
Her life is so special and always will be. She touched the world in a great big way!
Sincerely,
Jacqui
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Oh USA - Saturday, April 28, 2007 1:23 PM CDT

We have been following your journey from the begining and we still are praying for Frankie and your family. We have never lost a child but it has to be hard. It will take time but I am sure things will get better. We are Cindy Ringlers parents and I went to school with your Uncle Fr. Phil Pritt at St Joseph's in Cuyahoga Falls.
Joe Caracciolo <JJCCLB@yahoo.com>
Stow, Oh USA - Saturday, April 28, 2007 9:22 AM CDT

Jean,
You have come a long way in the past weeks.
Remember, it took 3 months to get your
house in disorganization, there is no
way you can correct it in a few weeks.
The house will always be waiting for
you, but the kids grow up quickly.

Having a date night with Mark is a
wonderful idea. You need to be a
couple first to survive the rigors
of parenthood.

The purple tulip is a very special
way to remember Francesca. She
was a beautiful little girl and
she will always be remembered by
those of us who prayed for her for
so long. Purple tulips are very
majestic looking and special,
just as she was.

Have a relaxing, fun-filled day
today. Remember, there are many who
are with you is thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 28, 2007 7:26 AM CDT

We are so sorry about Frankie. We grew to know her and your family through Kaylee and your web site. Words cannot express the sympathy we feel for all of you and also the hope that Frankie's experience will help others like her.

As for your frustration with home and family right now, know that in time it WILL get better. Give yourself and the kids time to heal. When wounds are open as yours are now, it makes problem solving difficult if not impossible.

As you go through daily/weekly routines, all that was left undone will get done and as life returns to normal behaviors and schedules and lifestyle will return too, although there will always be the missing link that is now in heaven watching over all of you and sending her love along with God's love.

Hardly have you had the time to begin your grieving let alone problem solve. All of you need a comforting break during which you just love each other as you & they are. The rest will wait.

We will continue to pray for all of you for love, peace and healing.
Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl USA - Saturday, April 28, 2007 6:33 AM CDT

Jean,
As Rick and I prepare to put
Gabe through another heart
surgery, I think about you
constantly. I think of the
incredible strength, courage
and faith you have. Your
endurance is unreal. When I begin
to tremble at the thought of what
may lie ahead, I am inspired by
your experiences and how you
perservered. It makes me less
afraid. Closets and rooms will
eventually get cleaned, school will
get caught up, bad habits will
get changed and more purple tulips
will show up to put a smile on
your face. God is using you
in a big way. He only gives us
one day at a time, so do what you
can and then rest in His love.
Debbie Johnston (www.caringbridge.org/ny/gabrieldavid) <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Saturday, April 28, 2007 4:17 AM CDT

Mark and Jean: How very proud you
both must be of Gina and Maria and
really of all the kids. Your children
hold a special place in my heart and
always have and always will. Heck, I've
been around long enough to witness most
of the births!! ha, ha I can't tell you
how special they make me feel when I get
my hugs and kisses from them all!
You have done an amazing job in raising
them and I have no doubt their futures
will be bright. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, April 27, 2007 7:15 AM CDT

Good Morning!
I hope that you had a restful night.
May God hold you close today and
help you make it through one step
at a time.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 27, 2007 6:31 AM CDT

I got on today to see what amazing words of wisdom you would share. Your grief breaks my heart but I know many of us will learn from your experience. As much as you think I have helped you, you continue to remind me of what is really important in life, family and friends. (Although they do like a place to sit down so you have to pick up the house, that is where I come in!) I can't wait to see you. I'll let you know how DC goes.
Mamie Wilson <gwilson@wyseadv.com>
Medina, Oh USA - Thursday, April 26, 2007 10:53 PM CDT

Jean - As you so well know from your years as a nurse, the loss of Frankie will never go away, but it will become less burdenful to cope with. You and your family have poured your souls into Frankie during the time we were all blessed to have spent with her. Please give yourself and your children time to grieve and heal. Life really will continue on, with Frankie forever owning a piece of it. You have my love and prayers -
Donna Patno <DonnaCNM@windstream.net>
Hudson, OH US - Thursday, April 26, 2007 3:17 PM CDT

Jean,
I love the poem the girls wrote.
How proud you must be of them
and their talent.

All your children are beautiful,
talented, polite and very thoughtful.
What a tribute to motherhood, to raise
such wonderful children. What a
blessing they must be to you now.

Francesca was so very lucky to be
born into your remarkable family;
where she received all the love and
care she needed with her special
condition. God surely knows what He
is doing.

I know that you mourn her so and that
no one will ever take her place. But
your family was the best one she could have.

Blessing for the day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 26, 2007 12:53 AM CDT

Hi Jean,
I have been checking the website everyday
as I have since January. I was so happy to
see that you were still writing messages.
I am sorry that I couldn't attend the services
for Frankie, but mom shared the program with
me. I was glad you put the poem on the website
today so that I could also read that. I continue
to pray for you and the entire family as you deal
with your loss.
Take care,
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Thursday, April 26, 2007 8:46 AM CDT

Jean: Know that we are all here
for you and will help all of you
through this. You always thank
everyone for their kindness but
I want to thank you for yours.
Your updates throughout Frankie's
ordeal kept us informed and even
now after her passing you are still
doing the same. You amaze and
inspire me. Remember that all of
you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P.S. It was wonderful seeing your Mom
yesterday. I know now where you must
have gotten all of your traits!
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, April 26, 2007 6:33 AM CDT

Jean,
Hey its Denise m40 your favorite nurse haha!! I love the lyrics to that song...so beautiful. You know I dont have to tell you we all miss you already, so you know where to find us if you need anything, even if its three a.m., well I might be sleeping at the desk but I will be there, just kidding! God bless you all.
Denise
Parma, OH USA - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 9:10 PM CDT

Jean,
I hope that today was easier on you.
I hope that you will be able to sleep
tonight and rise rested tomorrow.
Peace,
Love, Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 8:44 PM CDT

Dear Jean , Mark and the whole family,
I planted many bulbs this past fall after Larry had a phone conversation with Marc. Yesterday 9 beautiful tulips opened near our front porch. Most of the tulips were orange and yellow except for one that is a MAGNIFICENT DARK PURPLE color just like the color of Francesca's dress on the website. We will "NAME" the purple tulip afer Francesca and always think of how beautiful she is EVERY spring when she blooms. Praying for a breath of fresh air for all of you. OUR LOVE, Larry, Melissa and Sam Rose
BENNETT'S <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
CHERRY HILL, NJ - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 4:05 PM CDT

What a beautiful song!

Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 2:34 PM CDT

Dear friend,
Im terribly sorry to hear about your daughter. I only now just caught this painful story. She was a merical in the making.
I know we don't know each other but i would like to reasure you that your daughter is in a much better place.... she is in a place with god that only you , i or anyone could only dream about, she has no more suffering and she can be happy and worry free. Although this does not help the pain from missing her she still is here in spirit and memories. Time heals all but takes nothing from you and I hope that your pain will be lessend knowing that you will see her again someday. Know that even though her life was done here on earth that yours is not... and you have a beautiful family and you all have a close bond and in times like this that is what will pull you through it all.
God bless and heal

The franklin family <tfranklin003@neo.rr.com>
louisville, oh us - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 11:55 AM CDT

Praying for you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 10:49 AM CDT

Jean,
What an uplifting message!
I just had to say thank you
for sharing that somg with all
of us who care about you.
It was very meaningful and
I can see why it touched you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 8:19 AM CDT

Jean,
As the sun comes up on a new day,
remember that no matter what, the sun
will always rise. Your grief and pain
are all-consuming right now; but there
will be a tomorrow out there for you when
you will start to feel better.

My thoughts and prayers are with you
all day and night. I wish I could somehow
take your pain away, but I know I cannot.
And so I will continue to pray for you
and ask our Heavenly Father to comfort you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 5:45 AM CDT

Jean,
I'm crying with you and praying for you.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 4:13 AM CDT

Jean and Mark,

As a mother who has lost a child, I feel your pain anew. I have only a few thoughts to share: Take solace that she hurts no more (only we do, who miss her so)....She will never be forgotten; keep her visible and speak of her often to help ease the pain of grief; try to focus on your other children so they don't also feel the loss of their mother; thank God daily for the time you had together and know that He healed her suffering; time helps to heal...call me anytime, if you like (330-995-6268), we now have a bond. Much love, Flip
Flip Eavenson <jfkacres@aol.com>
Aurora, OH - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 10:58 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
Thinking of you and wishing we could
help with your pain.
Jean remember that we are all
still with you offering prayers and love.
Praying that you begin to feel some peace.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 10:27 PM CDT

God Bless you all. Your family remains in my daily prayers. My heart is very heavy for you. Know that others sincerely care.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 9:28 PM CDT

The tears continue. As my heart aches
for you all, I pray that your heart will
be lifted by our true concern.
Tony and I were at my sister's in Canada so
we couldn't make the funeral. I wanted desperately
to return home knowing that it was my loss not to
be there. No one can take away this pain but surely
God will show you his mercy and wash away the agony
with so many tears being shed.
You're entire family is a blessing to all who know you.
I had the picture of Francesca with you Jean and showed
everyone, sharing what an inspiration you have been
despite this incomprehesible trial. They are all praying...screaming is more like it.
Lynne Shannon <Lynnetony@sbcglobal.net>
Stow , Ohio - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 3:57 PM CDT

It is with sadness and care that I send these words written after reflecting on the loss of Francesca:
The dark dealings of death are always something of a mystery
Yet life becomes full & complete whether one has a long or a short history
How do we say 'goodby' as we bury the body of a child in earth's cold tomb
Why does life sometimes end before it ever is able to come to full bloom
It seems that for Francesca, her survival was surrounded with stress and strife
The story of her struggles and trials began at the first moments of her short life
For Jean & Mark the visits to hospitals and doctors were many and varied
How painful the process as thru every exam and procedure their child they carried
When besieged by so many medicines and operations, by all the doctors and nurses
It's hard to relate to God and to respond not with blessings but with curses
So many hours of vigilant vigil with times of chaos and times of quiet
Such a schedule making it difficult to maintain a regular regimen or a healthy diet
Still, everywhere we turn there are manifold miracles of compassion and care
As so many people - relatives & strangers - of themselves selflessly share
Names newly known become part of the tragic, yet triumphant tale
Those formerly unknown are now connected as family via the net and email
There are Mamtaz & Molly, Bove & Harsch, Smoyer & Arruda, & other medical staff too
Such a throng of thoughtful people who think of creative and positive things to do
A large crowd comes to Bisslers' to grieve and share stories at the calling hours
They worship together at the funeral and they decorate the burial site with flowers
Fr. Phil presides at the Mass with his usual warmth and familiar, friendly fare
The two-hour ceremony speeds by with sincere sharings, songs, and heartfelt prayer
The kids are led to reflect on Good Friday moments and Easter Sunday highlights
Jean's words and this whole experience will console and inspire us for future days and nights
May we be blessings wehn we also must suffer and die
May we be blessed though we may not know the when or how or why
And may dear Francesca, angel and saint, welcome us to our heavenly home
When we have earned our eternal rest and no longer this earth's paths roam
j warner <jwarner25@peoplepc.com>
louisville, oh usa - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 12:51 AM CDT

Jean, I read your letter today, I know your heart is breaking. We have been there, but you have avery special angel in heaven. God needed her she will always be a part of your family. When you are out side and you hear the soft wind blowing that is her foot steps and as the wind touchs your face that is her kisses on your cheeks. She is always with you. Love and prayers Joe and Ruth Ann Hydeg
Ruth Ann Hydeg <rahydeg@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, OhIO Summit - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 12:47 AM CDT

I'm glad I checked the site today, almost didn't because of the pain of seeing that impish face. Last night, I felt real lost, I kept thinking "it's been 2 weeks since I saw Frankie for the last time". I can't even imagine the pain in your heart. I am so worried about you, Jean. Frankie has been the biggest part of your life since she was born. Mark and the kids had other things going on that helps them with some distraction. But Mom's bank memories in different ways and you can't help but think about all of those details and little things that made her so special. Your bond was even more special than most mother and child because of all you went through together. I pray that you will have more moments of peace every day. Love and prayers, Debbi
Debbi Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 10:49 AM CDT

Jean,
I think of you and your family every day and pray that you will all be comforted by the memories you have of Francesca. I have a little sister buried just across the driveway from Francesca so if the kids need someone to talk to please let me know. Jean, my mom has been there give her a call.
Debbie Heeter <dheeter@neoucom.edu>
Atwater, OH - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 9:06 AM CDT

Jean: You, Mark and the kids are always
in my thoughts and prayers. After two
years I am still grieving for Dad and
don't think I will ever get over it.
I know that it is different losing a
child than a parent but I have to
believe that both Dad and Frankie are
in the most beautiful place one can
imagine. They are free of any pain
and are watching and taking care of
all of us from above. Always remember
that I am only a phone call away.
Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 6:23 AM CDT

Jean,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
This is a hard day for you. Please
know that many hold you up in prayer today.
You will make it through today, and
every day. Sometimes a minute at a time.
God is with you.

Remember, don't rush yourself. Take all
the time you need to grieve. It took 9
months to create Frankie and you can't
begin to grieve for her in 2 weeks.

May God continue to bless and care for you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 24, 2007 5:19 AM CDT

Jean, I don't know how to encourage your right now, so I won't even try. Sometimes it's just right to cry and to feel bereft and lost. You are being held close to His heart, even if it doesn't feel like it - but that will probably not be a consolation to you. Just know I have been praying continously for your family and will continue to do so.
Monica <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Monday, April 23, 2007 5:39 PM CDT

Jean,
You and your family are constantly on my mind and in my prayers. I am so sorry for the pain you endure. One day at a time, Jean. God is holding you in the palm of His hand. He loves you and counts your every tear. He lost His own child too, and He feels the sorrow you feel. Hold on tight to those precious memories.
Debbie Johnston (www.caringbridge.org/ny/gabrieldavid) <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, April 23, 2007 4:54 PM CDT

I'm so sorry Jean. I think about you every day and pray for your continued healing and peace. I know this is really tough. Your analogy with the Oklahoma building was spot on - missing, rugged, raw.

I talked with Peter about this before and he said that for him, getting right back into work was how he dealt with his grief. I wonder if that's a guy thing?

I think going to the cemetery is a good for you. I use to go so regularly out to Holy Cross the workmen still wave at me when we go to visit! If you feel drawn there I think it's part of God's way of healing your mother's heart.

Thanks for sharing your grief with us. You have a writer's gift.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Monday, April 23, 2007 3:13 PM CDT

Jean,
My heart goes out to you. I'm sure that you feel
that you are in a time warp. The kids, being kids,
are involved with their own interests, Mark, being a
man, is involved with work ( men do that because they do not know how to grieve) and you are left alone to
face each day without your precious Frankie.

I'm sure that the memories are almost too much to think about now as you try to adjust to life without Frankie.
You miss the wagon rides and the chubby hand in yours.

Please remember that no mater how painful these memories
are, they are your last contact with Frankie. They are precious and very dear. Although they are now causing you pain to remember them, in time they will bring you comfort.

In time (your time, no one else's) the pain will lessen. Everyone is so willing to tell a person how to grieve and how low to grieve, but there is no right or wrong way to grieve. There is only your way.

For now it will hurt. For how can you give birth to a child and have that child ripped away from you and not
hurt? You would not be the good mother you are if that were true. And you are a good mother, the very best.

There is no way anyone on earth can help you through this horrible pain. This is the road that you must walk alone.
But remember, the Lord walks with you. He understands your pain as no one here on earth can. He lost His Only Begotten Son and whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life. I know in my heart that Frankie, as young as she was believed in Him because you taught her to. I know in my heart that Frankie is with Him in eternity where there is no more pain and suffering. Her little body is whole and healthy and happy. And you too will be whole and happy some day. If not this day then someday. Do not allow anyone to take your grief away from you for it is yours and yours alone.

One morning you will wake up and it not hurt as much. You will know what day that is. Remember, the Lord Gos loves you and watches over you. And He will lessen your pain and grief one day.

I pray for you every day and wish that I could help you through this. I hope that my words will bring you comfort.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 23, 2007 12:44 AM CDT

Jean,
I just wanted to let you know I think of you and your family daily. Reading your entry today reminded me of how Frankie would make the sign for birdie. Also, I can see her sweet, smiling face and her little chubby hand waving to me as I would come to your home. So many wonderful memories of Frankie! I know your memories will help carry you!
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
Akron, Oh - Monday, April 23, 2007 12:39 AM CDT

Jean - I want you to know how often you come to my mind - we have not met, but I feel I know you, having followed along with Francesca's fight. Please know you are not alone - God loves you and is sending His Spirit to you - I can imagine how you are feeling and have no words but that I am praying for your peace.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Monday, April 23, 2007 12:05 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I just want you to know I am thinking of you and your family. No words can soften the grief you and your family are experiencing now.But all those who shared Frankie's brief albeit active life can also keep our own memories....thanks to you and Mark who shared Frankue's journey. Frankie's bright smile and mischievious ways will always be a part of my memories of her!! Take comfort in knowing you provided Frankie many wonderful family times and her siblings a valuable life experience that will touch them forever.
I know my life has been enriched knowing your family. Take care and know all who have been touched by you are praying that you find comfort now.
lOVE,
JANE
Jane Gwinn <JGWINNAPS@YAHOO.COM>
Kent, Oh USA - Monday, April 23, 2007 11:28 AM CDT

Dear Jean, I lost my dear mother almost 9 years ago and the pain of loss is still there but what is also there is all the wonderful memories of time with my mom and family. I am reminded of a song sung by Jeff & Sheri Easter-
Roses will bloom again
Just wait and see.
Don't mourn what might have been
Only God knows how and when
Roses will bloom again.
I know you have a lot of people sending you uplifting notes and right now, thats all they are-just words. But soon those words will start the healing process and you and your family will be able to reflect on all the wonderful memories. I will continue to pray for you and your family. Hold on, stand firm, keep the faith.
Debbie Cooper LPN Hattie Larlham Community Services <nfbandmom1@earthlink.net>
Newton Falls, OH - Monday, April 23, 2007 10:19 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
Oh how I can identify with your grief! It is horrible and nothing will assuage it, no words can describe this awful emptiness, the overwhelming sadness, and sense of loss, the mother's grief. All you can do is call upon your Father to help you walk through this time, and He will hold you up. I promise that. Although we know that they are supremely happy and want for nothing, we want them here with us, to touch, to hold, just to be with them. You are very strong and will walk these uncharted waters in the way that only you can. My mother's heart and prayers are with you and the family every day. Also know that He gives the heaviest crosses to those whom he loves the most.
For now, remember that Frankie loves you and thanks you for being such a good and caring mother. She will always be with you.
Jacqui
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Monday, April 23, 2007 9:45 AM CDT

Dear Jean, A friend of mine once told me her family planted a tree in memory of losing a child. They get to see it grow and they decorate it every year for Christmas. It's been helpful for them. Just thought I would share the idea with you. I know it doesn't take the pain away, but it may be a little helpful to do something like that.
Jenn Matlack <jmatlack01@yahoo.com>
Twinsburg, OH - Monday, April 23, 2007 8:25 AM CDT

Jean and family, So sorry to hear of your loss. May God's gentle and healing love keep you in this time of grief. Your precious Frankie is not gone. Her pain and suffering is gone; but her spirit is with you. In the quiet moments, listen to the birds singing and hear Frankie's giggles. When the gentle warm breeze touches your arms, that is the caress of Frankie's baby soft cheek. When you look toward Heaven and see the sunshine, you are looking into Frankie's sparkling eyes. And know she is sitting on the lap of a Good and Loving God watching over you. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family. Angela Maffett (formerly of 7200 Infant Toddler)
Angela Maffett <camaffett5@aol.com>
Noblesville, In - Monday, April 23, 2007 7:36 AM CDT

Jean, Mark and Family,
We send you our love, thoughts and prayers. We pray that you will find healing from the grief you bear. We know that you will never have things the same again, but you will find a way to go on.
We love you.
Linda and Fred
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 22, 2007 8:46 PM CDT

god bless
ragan and john frisone <rpostell8@hotmail.com>
bend, or united states - Saturday, April 21, 2007 10:56 AM CDT

Jean,Mark and Family,
This is the day that the Lord has made. Rejoice and be glad in it. Hoping that your family can get outside on this glorious day and enjoy it.

I know that there will always be a part of your family missing with Francesca's passing. She will always be in your memories and an invisible part of your family every day. She will always be a part of everyone's life who knew her or of her as well.

Fred and I pray for all of you every day. We send our love and thoughts to you.
Love,
Linda and Fred
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 21, 2007 9:48 AM CDT

Jean; Thank you once again for sharing. Please know that you are never alone. You, the children, Mark and of course our little angel, Frankie are in our thoughts and prayers daily. There is truth in "one day at a time". Peace and love.
Anne Marie & Mary Ellen <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Saturday, April 21, 2007 9:06 AM CDT

The Cord

We are connected,
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye.

It's not like the cord
That connects us 'til birth
This cord can't been seen
By any on Earth.

This cord does it's work
Right from the start.
It binds us together
Attached to my heart.

I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me.

The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe.
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied.

It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight.

And though you are gone,
Though you're not here with me,
The cord is still there
But no one can see.

It pulls at my heart
I am bruised...I am sore,
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before.

I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away

Someone who cares.
Akron, OH - Friday, April 20, 2007 4:49 PM CDT

Jean, I just wanted to let you know that I am extremely grateful to have had the opportunity to be part of the life of such a special child and family. You are a remarkable woman, and Frankie touched so many lives in her short life. She was an extremely strong and determined young lady and I will miss her dearly. I always looked forward to our visits and her progress was always so exciting. Know that you and your family will continue to be held up in the prayers of so many. Take care of yourself, Barb
Barbara Moledor <barbM@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Friday, April 20, 2007 3:26 PM CDT

Dear Jean and Mark,

Sometimes we have to live a few seconds at a time - or even minutes and accept it's the best we can do, remembering all that has led to this grief and fatigue. Hold each other close, give each other lots of hugs and kisses, knowing Francesca is smiling with each hug and kiss you share with each other, and in so doing, with her. May God's love enfold you during these early seconds, minutes, hours and days of grieving. Know that laughter is healing - and she would want that for all of you as well. God's comfort and presence with us is constant - any may the prayers of all of us help sustain you. May you take solace in knowing you and all who were involved with Francesca's care did the best they could - in the face of incredible odds it was powerful enough for her to live with you on this earth for over two years. Not long enough,not long enough, yet long enough to have her bright light and courage shine among all whose lives she touched. My heart, too, aches for all you have been through. With love and deep caring, Carol Morling
Carol Morling <cmorling@comcast.net>
Mechanicsville, VA USA - Friday, April 20, 2007 10:26 AM CDT

Jean: Just wanted to say "Good Morning"
to all of you. It was great seeing Mark
yesterday at the office. Please be sure
to give the kids a great big hug and kiss
from us. Tell Mario the weather is getting
nicer and in a month or so we will come
over so he can see the Harley!! Hugs and
kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, April 20, 2007 7:03 AM CDT

Dear Jeanie,
Your words are a beautiful testimony of faith, love, and dedication to the children of this world and those of us that forget to remember. Thank you for reminding me. My prayers will continue for all suffering children and their families and the wonderful medical staff that cares for them daily. Prayers, love, and support continue. Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Friday, April 20, 2007 6:54 AM CDT

Jean,
What a beautiful journal entry. You are a woman of great strength and courage. You think of others during your time of deep grief. You inspire me to face, with courage, my own son's next big surgery, which may be happening very soon. I am so blessed to know you.
Debbie Johnston (www.caringbridge.org/ny/gabrieldavid) <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, April 20, 2007 5:07 AM CDT

JEAN
WE WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HAVE CONSTANTLY BEEN IN OUR THOUGHTS SINCE THE DAY OF YOUR AWFUL LOSS. TODAY MY DAUGHTER,SOPHIE, ASKED TO SEE FRANKIES PICTURE ON THE COMPUTER AND WE READ YOUR HEARTBREAKING YET BEAUTIFUL JOURNAL ENTRY. I WISH THERE WAS SOMETHING I COULD SAY TO MAGICALLY HEAL YOUR PAIN BUT THAT POWER IS BEYOND MERE WORDS. THE TESTA FAMILY WILL ALWAYS HAVE YOU IN OUR PRAYERS. YOU HAVE TAUGHT US SO MUCH ABOUT GODS LOVE,GRACE, AND HOPE. MEMORY ETERNAL!
PS; YOU CAN OFFICIALLY ADD US TO YOUR LONG LIST OF ADMIRERS.
SUE TESTA <susan@builders diversified.com>
KENT, OH USA - Thursday, April 19, 2007 4:18 PM CDT

Thinking of your family at your time of sorrow.
Sandy Krutel <sandy.krutel@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 19, 2007 4:03 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark and Family,
It is so amazing that in your grief
you can think of others. I was so glad to
read your update of yesterday.

Please remember that the love that
has poured out to your family will not
stop now that Francesca is gone. We all
love you very much and will continue praying
for all of you to find healing, peace and
comfort from our Lord and Savior.

As each day follows another, please know that
there are many who hold you and your family
in their thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 19, 2007 2:51 PM CDT

I think the days after a funeral are the hardest. It is like life goes on for the rest of the world but you have to be stuck in a place and time trying to figure out how to go on without your baby. And there's nothing anyone can do to help you move past that place. It will happen on its own when you're ready. In the meantime you know you are surrounded by a lot of love and prayer support!

I hope you keep writing too. This is another part of your journey and those of us who have been following along in this journal will continue on with you if you do. I'm thinking and praying for all of you every day.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Thursday, April 19, 2007 1:54 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
It was good to hear from you again. I keep you in my prayers. You are a remarkably strong and faithful woman. You are a gift to your family and friends. I can't imagine how many lives you have touched. Please feel the strength and love of those around you at this time and let it help you through. God bless you, your husband, and your lovely children. Francesca lives on in all of you.
debbi lowry
I told Natalie I would love to meet you one day.
debbi lowry/lake cable <dlowry@neo.rr.com>
- Wednesday, April 18, 2007 4:22 PM CDT

Hi Jean
I read your latest entry. Please keep writing. I like knowing how you are doing.
Gina got her eloquent writing style from her mother.
I don't know if you get "bored" with 8 children, but if you do bring the kids over and they can play with the other kids that are here.
I will call you soon. If you need to talk call me.
I pray for peace and comfort for you everyday. Kim
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, OH USA - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 1:51 PM CDT

The Family of Frankie,I'm sorry for the loss of our dear Frankie.I will continue to pray and ask God to comfort your family.
Phyllis (Cleve. Clinic)
Cleveland, oh us - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 12:40 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I was at adoration for ARCHE on Monday and like others there you and your family were in my thoughts and prayers. It's difficult to form words of comfort when someone has lost a child, an actual part of "you". I lost the ability to have children many years ago and still feel the emptiness when I see a newborn. I pray that you will continue to feel the strength of Jesus and Mary's mercy. I heard a wonderful definition of mercy - it's love meeting suffering- May God's love meet all of you at your suffering as your little angel looks down from heaven.

Jane Louis <jj-louis@sbcglobal.net>
Green, OH - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 11:43 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
Reading today's posting on the website brought back all of the same feelings and emotions that I have been experiencing the last 5 months since my Patrick passed into Heaven. Tears of sorrow are falling as I write this. I couldn't believe that I was receiving cards and flowers and gifts!!!! It was always me comforting someone else. Patrick suffered for 30 years and helped so many along his way, but now his suffering, as is Frankie's, is over. They reside with the Father, His Son and the Holy Spirit in a place of peace, light and love everlasting. The BEST part is that we will be with them again. We cannot hold them now. Patrick was gone for 3 days before we found him, and I never got one last hug or heard "I love you, mom ", as he so often told me. I would sit and hold his sweater after he left us so abruply like you hold her blanket. I never knew there were so many tears to cry, and still are.
But, I too have 6 other children who are grieving in their own ways. Every morning as soon as I hit the office, I got on your website to see what the latest developement was, and being a former nurse, could understand a lot of what you put on it. Please know that you, Mark the children and all of your family are in my prayers and the prayers of my church prayer chain, as well as the Guideposts prayer group. Love, blessimgs and comfort always.
Sincerely ,
Jacqui Dewey-Smith
Jacqui Dewey-Smith <rsvpofsc@yahoo.com>
Canton, Ohio USA - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 11:28 AM CDT

With tears welling in my eyes, I send virtual hugs across the country...I wish I could do more. The prayers will continue for the family left behind as well as the repose of the soul of Francesca. May you all find healing in Christ and remember the good that your daughter brought out in people across the country. God bless you all!
Larry Bartlett <eljaybee63@aol.com>
Modesto, CA - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 10:17 AM CDT

Jean,
I was glad to see your posting this morning, although the time of the posting tells me you are not sleeping well, and your comments indicate that you are struggling emotionally. All probably normal, but troubling none the less. My love and compassion for you as a friend, wishes that your pain was gone, and your mind was at peace. Unfortunately, the best I can do right now is pray. Know that you and your family have been prevalent in my thoughts and prayers over the past week, and I will continue to pray for your healing and peace.

On a positive note... What an awesome Funeral, a true tribute to Frankie, and her family. I don't know if got the chance to tell you on Saturday... You are amazing. The message you delivered, and the effectiveness with which you delivered it, was truly inspirational. Your strength, perseverance, and faithfulness continue to astound me.

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Wednesday, April 18, 2007 10:04 AM CDT

Jean and Mark: My heart aches
for you, Mark and the kids. Your
words today brought me to tears
and I am truly amazed by the woman
you are. How fortunate we all are
to have you as our friend. Our
prayers and thoughts continue to
come your way. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. Who do you think is holding
Frankie now - Dad, Sr. Jordan or
Mr. Schubert?! I bet they are
fighting over her!!!

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 9:07 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Last night I sat and thought
that it had been one week ago at that
moment I received the news about
Francesca's death. This morning as I
was getting ready for work I thought about
going to the office for the first time
after her death and how we all cried
in each others arms that day and many
days after. The funeral service for
Francesca by her great-uncle and Godfather
was so healing for me. What a wonderful
celebration of her life and tribute
to the entire family. My prayers will
continue for the Frisone family as you heal.
You are loved so very much!

Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Oh - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:32 AM CDT

Frisone Family you are in our thoughts and prayers.What a beautiful guardian angel you all will have! Thinking of you and wishing for strength for you.
Love,Jim, Shelley,Grant and Nate Porosky
Shelley Porosky <jsgnp@sbcglobal.net>
Stow, Oh U.S. - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 7:23 AM CDT

Dear Jean and Family, My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. Your love, dedication, and care for Frankie have been a great inspiration to me. May God continue to give comfort and strength as you face each new day and may your memories help sustain you all. Love, Karen Pippin
Karen Pippin <knursed@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, April 18, 2007 0:06 AM CDT

Some people come into our lives
and quietly go.

Others stay for a while and leave
footprints on our hearts
and we are never the same.

Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 10:27 PM CDT

Dear Frisone family,
Please accept the deepest sympathies my family can bestow. I have served with Francesca's uncle, LTC David Frisone, for several years, and feel saddened at his loss and yours. We pray for her soul.
SSG Bob Clark and wife Laurie <psypgmr@yahoo.com>
Rock Creek, OH USA - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 2:15 PM CDT

Dear Jeanie & family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My children and myself have had you & your family in our prayers since your beautiful angel was born. I admire your faith and courage. We continue to pray for you. God Bless you all. Frankie will always be with you. Jeanie, you are an awesome mom!
Patti Sharlow - Mckoski <Pattilee65@yahoo.com>
Massillon, Oh Stark - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 9:28 AM CDT

I have only worked on M40 for a short period of time, but everytime I worked and saw Frankie in her wagon I would think to myself "There goes the little princess". I thought she was a beautiful little girl and I am glad that she is finally at peace. You are all in my prayers.
Chrystina Lumpkins <lumpkic@ccf.org>
Cleveland, Oh USA - Monday, April 16, 2007 9:23 PM CDT

I think of you so many times each day - I just know it is the Holy Spirit prompting me to lift you up in prayer to our dear Lord.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Monday, April 16, 2007 9:15 PM CDT

Dear Jeanie,Mark,Kids,Grandparents,and Aunts,Uncles and Friends, Frankie's "family" both immediate and extended are truly remarkable and I am blessed to be part of this family of love, hope, strength, and prayer. I learned long ago when you loose someone you love, the depth of my pain with that loss signified the depth of my love for them and how much I would miss them. It's so hard to be grieving and celebrating at the same time. You were first on my mind this morning and last on my mind last night as Frankie has been and I am sure will be for a long long time. Jeanie, thank you for your witness and your love and bravery, Mark, thank you for being a fantastic and loving father, brothers and sisters you are all so wonderful and gave so much of yourselves in ways your not even aware of yet, Frankie's forces of family and friends
and medical professionals will always remember her and she WILL LIVE ON. Frankie has made her mark on this world and it is a better place just because of her. Love, prayers, Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, ohio usa - Monday, April 16, 2007 1:59 PM CDT

To Mark, Jean, Frisone Children and Rita: Tom and I heard of Francesca's passing at Mass yesterday. Our hearts hurt so much for all of you. Please feel our arms hugging you and our prayers helping you get through this time of grieving. You are one special family .... all of you! Love, Tom and Sally Scudiere
Tom and Sally Scudiere <sallys@younginc.com>
Stow, OH USA - Monday, April 16, 2007 10:14 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family
My family and I are moved by your strong faith. We're thankful for the end of Frankie's pain and suffering but saddened by the loss of such a precious little angel. The funeral service was a true celebration of her short life and we were happy to be a part of it. God Bless all of you and may God's presence amoung you make your grief more bearable. Jean, you are amazing. Love from the Titkos'
Patty Titko
Kent, OH USA - Monday, April 16, 2007 7:49 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark and Family,
As you start today trying to live without Frankie, please know that I am still praying for all of you. I know today will be hard as you try to settle into a routine with the children.
I prayed for all of you all weekend and will continue to do so.
Your family is truly remarkable and you did a wonderful job is giving Frankie all the love and care she needed while she was with you.
Hold on to the memories of her. She was a very special little girl
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 16, 2007 7:49 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
Francesca's funeral service was so beautiful. Jean, I will never forget your incredible words of rememberance. Her life and the way your family responded to her needs has certainly glorified our Lord. Her siblings are all amazing, every one of them. The Lord looks upon the Frisones and says, "well done, good and faithful servants." They say one of the things you can take with you to Heaven is Love and Frankie took loads of it with her.

Before my dad's recent death,he sent me an email that I will forever cherish, "...knowing that people love you and care for you is worth so much more than a cure. A cure for me could only be my second wish. I've already gotten my first wish..."

Frankie's spirit will always be with you and what a glorious day it will be when you are once again reunited in God's perfect Kingdom where there is no sickness, pain or sorrow. God Bless all of you. I feel so priviledged to know you.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, April 16, 2007 7:18 AM CDT

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious little one. I will be praying for your family.
Tom Hottinger <hottingert@hoban.org>
Akron, OH USA - Monday, April 16, 2007 6:00 AM CDT

FRISONE FAMILY,
THANK YOU FOR SHARING SUCH A BRAVE AND INSPIRING STORY OF "PRINCESS FRANKIE" I HAD THE PLEASURE OF MEETING YOU AND FRANKIE. YOUR STRENGHT AND HER COURAGEMENT WILL HAVE A BIG IMPACTED ON MY HEART AND I WILL CHERISH EVERYDAY WITH MY CHILD EVEN MORE. MAY YOU ALL KNOW THE HEARTS THAT YOU HAVE TOUCH. I HAVE LEARN NOT TO STRESS ABOUT THE SMALL STUFF AND TO HAVE FAITH. GOD BLESS!!
JENNIFER <JBALDASARE1173@AOL.COM>
AKRON, OH SUMMIT - Sunday, April 15, 2007 10:58 PM CDT

I am so sorry for the loss of your little angel. My hope is that the power of prayer brings you peace and comfort.
Barb Wheeler <bwheelerrn@yahoo.com>
Akron, OH - Sunday, April 15, 2007 9:44 PM CDT

I am so sorry to hear about your lose of little Francesca. I hope this poem will comfort you.

Please do not stand at my grave and weep...
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on the snow.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry...
I am not there, I did not die.

Little Francesca will always be with you.
God bless you all.
Mary Slater <mslater57@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, OH Portage - Sunday, April 15, 2007 1:31 PM CDT

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little Frankie. You have now and forever her presence in all of your souls. Through all of the very tough times, I feel very priviledged to have taken care of her. God be with you all now and in the trying days ahead. My prayers are with you. Sincerely, Mary M. (RN,CCFPICU)
Mary Maloney <malone.10@sbcglobal.net>
Cleveland, Ohio - Sunday, April 15, 2007 12:16 AM CDT

Blessings and comfort to the family.
Diana Autry <ddca32@yahoo.com>
Akron, ohio usa - Sunday, April 15, 2007 9:04 AM CDT

Frisone Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with ALL of you. I hope all of Frankie's siblings hold on to the "huggy buddies" and think of that playful little girl. She was loved by many! Francesca is a little girl that I will NEVER forget.
MAY THE ANGELS BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TODAY AND ALWAYS!
Tera
Tera (RN CCF/AKRON) <tcasenhiser@adephia.net>
- Saturday, April 14, 2007 8:10 PM CDT

I feel so privileged to have witnessed the beautiful celebration of Francesca's young life. She touched us all in so many ways. May the Lord continue to give you strength as you begin the journey of healing. Frankie will never be forgotten and her sweet face forever etched in our minds and our hearts.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Saturday, April 14, 2007 5:02 PM CDT

Dearest Jean, Mark and Family,
I want you to know how gracious and kind all of you are. This was a horrible day for you, yet you made all of us who attended feel special. Thank you.
May God give you rest now that all the services are over.
May Gos give all of you family time to reconnect and just be a family.

May the peace that passes all understanding be with you now and forever more.
Blessings,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 14, 2007 4:32 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family, My name is Kristen Habel and I am the sister of John Lanshe of the famous John and Faith Lanshe bunch. Also, my daughter Brianna is a senior at Hoban. I am deeply sorry to hear of the passing of your little Francesca. I went back and read every posting on the caringbridge site and was touched by your heartbreaking journey, but was inspired by your perseverence and faith...so much needed in this world. It is hard to know what to say at times like these...but I will send this thought. When I sat at mass on Holy Saturday,with the church so dark and oddly quiet,there is a strange sense of hollowness. At last the pain and suffering and of our Lord are over, and yet here we are without Him. An in-between time when we all feel so lost... And yet, somewhere in the church, a single candle is lit, so small - like the sparkle of a child - and the light is passed on and grows. And Christ does rise, just as He promised. I truly pray that the light,the joy and the peace of the risen Christ will once again find its way into your family. I have added all of you onto the prayer list from the Women of Faith bible study group that I go to at IHM parish. Again, please accept my family's condolences and prayers.
Kristen Habel
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio USA - Saturday, April 14, 2007 4:16 PM CDT

To the Frisone Family, My family and I are so sorry for your loss. May the wonderful memories of your remarkable Frankie help you get through these very tough times.

Karyn Iffland and Family <karyn_iffland@merck.com>
Canton, OH USA - Saturday, April 14, 2007 12:56 AM CDT

Francesca's funeral was a loving tribute to her and your wonderful family. God bless you all.
Pam Mackintosh
Kent, OH USA - Saturday, April 14, 2007 12:53 AM CDT

I'm sorry to hear of her passing.
Tina & Angel Lance <lancejrmommy@comcast.net>
- Saturday, April 14, 2007 10:56 AM CDT

Dear Maria and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your baby sister, My family and I will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Take Care,
Love,
Macie Whittlesey from St. Joseph School
Macie Whittlesey <MYMANEEVENT@AOL.COM>
Atwater, OH U.S.A. - Saturday, April 14, 2007 9:31 AM CDT

Dear Maria and family,
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your baby sister. My family and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Take Care, Love Macie Whittlesey at St. Joseph School.
Macie Whittlesey <MYMANEEVENT@AOL.COM>
Atwater, OH U.S.A. - Saturday, April 14, 2007 8:58 AM CDT

Frisone Family - I wasn't fortunate enough to have met your beautiful daughter. No one should have to bury a child and I will be forever touched by Frankie. Your beautiful angel is in heaven and will be with you every day.
Kristin <thezinkman@aol.com>
Canton, Ohio - Saturday, April 14, 2007 2:09 AM CDT

Jean, Mark, and the whole Frisone Family,

You are all in our thoughts and prayers, especially in the days and weeks that lie ahead. May you sense God's presence, comfort, and strength.

Steve and Lisa Van Houten <van1464@aol.com>
Plymouth, IN USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 11:26 PM CDT

so sad to hear about your loss my prayers are with yall
jhaelun <babygurl212s@aol.com>
akron, ohio usa - Friday, April 13, 2007 10:37 PM CDT

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. What a beautiful little girl. Your journal was very touching. My heart aches for you and your family. God Bless all of you now and forever.
Gina Roberts <bgroberts01@msn.com>
Suffield, OH USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 10:30 PM CDT

I am so sorry for your terrible loss. Our prayers are with your family.
Dawn Kensinger <twocops97@sbcglobal.net>
Canal Fulton, oh USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 7:57 PM CDT

Jean, Mark and Family,
As I stood by Francesca's side today I felt God's presence with us. I know that He watches over you during this time of grief and loss. I know that He will continue to be with you to sustain you tomorrow as you lay your precious one to rest.
May the peace that only God can give be with you now and forever.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 13, 2007 7:36 PM CDT

My heart goes out to your family. I know what it is like to loose a precious child. My prayers are with you.
Karen Kirkbride
Massillon, OH Stark - Friday, April 13, 2007 6:14 PM CDT

Mark and family, We are very sorry to hear of your loss. May the love of God sustain all of you in the days ahead. We are praying for you. God Bless.
Bruce & Holly Saxe <Brucepsaxe1@aol.com>
Ravenna, ohio - Friday, April 13, 2007 6:03 PM CDT

May the Love and Peace of God's embrace sustain your family during this very difficult time and may your little "Princess Frankie" rest in Peace with God.
Eileen
Ravenna, OH - Friday, April 13, 2007 5:43 PM CDT

Mark & family,
May God's loving arms surround you with His care and comfort. We will continue to pray for your family.
Marie Edinger - Salvation Army <marie.edinger@use.salvationarmy.org>
Ravenna, OH - Friday, April 13, 2007 5:35 PM CDT

Francesca's Family -
As a mother of a 2yr old little girl myself my heart grieves for you. I know that you don't know me but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Misty Grether <mjgrether@aol.com>
Barberton, OH USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 5:34 PM CDT

I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LITTLE ANGEL. SHE WAS A BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL EVEN THOUGH I DONT KNOW U I JUST WANT TO LET YOU KNOW MY PRAYS ARE WITH YOU AND MY LITTLE BROTHER WILL HELP YOUR LITTLE ANGEL .
ANGEL JOHNSON <OHIOPEACHEZ4U@AOL.COM>
AKRON , OHIO SUMMIT - Friday, April 13, 2007 4:06 PM CDT

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, the skies above will open and the stars above will shine, our family will look for that one bright star and pray for you knowing your beautiful star will light the whole moonlit night
Chris and Joe Olson <sirhcolson@yahoo.com>
Windham, Oh USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 4:02 PM CDT

Mark, Jean and the Frisone, Warner
and Melucci Families -

I've just returned from Frankie's
calling hours and wanted to let you
know how wonderful it was meeting
some of you, although I wish it could
have been under better circumstances.
I look forward to meeting the rest of
you tomorrow. What beautiful family
members you all are.

The to Frisone, Warner and Melucci
families, rest assured that when all
of you have gone home - Mark and Jean's
extended "family" at F&CS will continue
to watch them, pray for them and help
them through this difficult time.

God Bless you all! Hugs and kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, April 13, 2007 3:29 PM CDT

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your little princess. Gina, I'm a big sister myself, I can't imagine what you are your family are going through right now. You are all so strong and courageous. Frankie was blessed to be placed with a family like yours. You will all be in my prayers.
Jessica Brandgard <JessB615@yahoo.com>
Cuyahoga Falls, OH - Friday, April 13, 2007 3:17 PM CDT

I've been reading about Frankie the last couple days. She was amazing! I am only 11 years old, but I can still tell she was a miracle. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope she meets my grandpa,Pete Burg, in heaven!!
Bailey Cole <baileykcole@yahoo.com>
Stow, oh usa - Friday, April 13, 2007 3:15 PM CDT

I do not know your family but my heart goes out to you an your family in your time of need, your precious little angle is at rest
Nakita <kevextra@yahoo.com>
Akron, oh summit - Friday, April 13, 2007 3:14 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family -
I am sorry I am not able to make it home for the services for Frankie. My thoughts are with you during these difficult days.
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Friday, April 13, 2007 3:00 PM CDT

I am truly sorry for your loss. We will keep your family in our prayers. God Bless you
Randy and Marcie Howard
Canton, OH U.S.A. - Friday, April 13, 2007 2:27 PM CDT

Your beautiful Francesca is now in peace and with our heavenly Father who will keep her in His care. They will both be waiting with open arms for you when it is your time to go into God's Kingdom. God Bless you all. Francesca is in no pain anymore.
Marie & Tony Stankiewicz <AStank105@aol.com>
Ravenna, Ohio USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 2:17 PM CDT

Jean there are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. My prayers are with you throughout this most difficult time and in the months ahead as you adjust. You and your family have touched my life and given me such inspiration. Frankie was an adorable angel who gave so much to so many in ways she never knew. I wish I could be at calling hours or the services for her and will be thinking of you during these difficult days. Tammie
Tammie Feuer <tfeuer@ohiohcp.org>
Youngstown, OH USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 1:42 PM CDT

God be with you... I am so sorry. Nothing at all I can say that would begin to be enough. What a beautiful sweet little girl Francesca was.
Naomi
- Friday, April 13, 2007 12:29 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,

Words cannot express our sorrow for the loss of your little angel. She touched each of us in a very special way, even though we never met her or your family.

Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you at this sad and difficult time.
A St. Matthias Parishioner
Broadview Heights, Ohio USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 12:21 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark and family,

Kathy Fogle sent me the link to this wonderful site. You have been in my prayers at mass for years, since Frankie was born. Now I am placing all your needs into the loving arms of Mary in heaven. May your little Saint comfort you as she is comforted by the love of God, Mary, the Saints and Angels of heaven. I will continue to pray for you. Hold on to heavenly truth amidst earthly sorrow. All my love and prayers,
Kim Coulter <info@daystaralpacas.com>
North Jackson, OH USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 12:18 AM CDT

I Never had the chance to meet your beautiful daughter, but I have heard alot about her through my father(TOm Patterson)
I know she is now a angel in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Francesca will always be a angel looking down over you.
Julie Patterson <julzpat@ameritech.net>
Uniontown, OH Summit - Friday, April 13, 2007 11:58 AM CDT

I am very sorry for the loss of your sweet little angel.
vicky pendleton <rompervic@yahoo.com>
newton falls, oh usa - Friday, April 13, 2007 11:55 AM CDT

I saw Frankie's beautiful face in today's paper, and was drawn to your site. I am so very sorry for your loss. Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Karen
Stow, OH - Friday, April 13, 2007 11:52 AM CDT

DEAR JEAN MARK AND FAMILY
I CAN HARDLY SEE THROUGH THE TEARS AS I WRITE THIS MESSAGE BUT I AM DEEPLY SADDENED TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS OF LITTLE FRANCESCA. HER JOURNEY AND YOUR FAITH IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE AN INSPIRATION TO THOSE OF US FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO KNOW YOU. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY AND YOU ALL WILL CONTINUE TO BE IN OUR PRAYERS.
SUE (YAIST) TESTA, MATT GIANA AND SOPHIA <susan@buildersdiversified .com>
KENT, OH USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 11:32 AM CDT

I work with Rita when she is at Ellet and I have been praying for Frankie. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your sweet little girl. I pray God will surround your family with peace during the difficult days ahead.
Kim Emerick <gemerick@neo.rr.com>
Akron, OH - Friday, April 13, 2007 11:28 AM CDT

Frisone family: I am so sorry for your loss. I am blessed to have cared for Frankie and to have known your family. You are an amazing family! I am sorry that I cannot attend services for Frankie but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please don't hesitate to call if you need anything!
Janel VanSickle <vansicj@ccf.org>
Cleveland, OH - Friday, April 13, 2007 10:42 AM CDT

To the Frisone Family. I am deeply sorry to hear about Franky-she was loved by all of us up here at Children's Hospital. It was a privilege to care for her and to get to know the family. You all have an angel smiling down upon you. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy nurse <bensonn@ccf.org>
- Friday, April 13, 2007 10:30 AM CDT

You do not know me.I am truely sorry for your loss.My cousin just delivered her tripletts 4-12-07 and Akron city at 21 weeks and lost her babies.She is in gods hands now watching over you and the family.We now have a beautiful gaurdian angel in this world.God Bless!
Nikki Bishop <mrsheid5122007@yahoo.com>
Akron, oh - Friday, April 13, 2007 10:25 AM CDT

In her short time with you, she has left footprints in all of your hearts! Sharing your story and courage with us has left her footprints on our hearts! Frankie was a gift and a blessing. Thank you for sharing her with us. Peace and prayers!
Brenda Houska <bhouska@adelphia.net>
wadsworth, oh usa - Friday, April 13, 2007 10:23 AM CDT

You do not know me. I am so sorry for your loss. I have great respect for you and your family I know what a trial it is to juggle family, kids and a critically ill child.
we have a multiple heart defects child. Things can be crazy. We don't know what the future holds or what god has planed for my special child. We just cherish everyday
we have. I feel for your loss. God sent you a special angel, She will be forever in your heart. If you need to talk or I can help in anyway. Just get in touch with me,
My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family
from My family,
Lisa Ferrante
Lisa Ferrante <ferrantes2twins@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, OH USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 10:07 AM CDT

Dear Frisone family, May our loving Lord wrap His arms around each of you and hold you closely as you pass through this valley of grief. May He guide you to peace and comfort. Rest in His arms, because He is able to do all things, immeasureably well. My heart and prayers go out to your whole family. From reading your journal, it is obvious that through you and Francesca, Christ was made visible to many people. May He continue to bless you all.
Lois Webb <justlois@aol.com>
Tallmadge, OH USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 10:04 AM CDT

Frisone Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Frankie was an incredible little girl! You, Jean are just as incredible example of an amazing wife and mother! As we read your journal entries on a daily basis I was amazed at what you did for your family. You may not have been home with them all the time but they knew what you needed to do. I see you as an example to be a better wife and mother to my own family. Pleae know that we think of you daily and our prayers are with ALL of you during this difficult time. Peace be with you.
Lisa
Akron, OH USA - Friday, April 13, 2007 9:31 AM CDT

Dear Mark & Jean,and Family,
You remain in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry about your beautiful Francesca's passing. May you find some comfort in knowing that his promise holds true. You will all walk whole together again. When reading your journal of Francesca's life it is bitter sweet. The beautiful Angel endured so much. But it brings tears to my eyes when I see how loving and caring your children have been throughtout this journey . They have such compassion and love it is truly moving. Your family and your faith in Gods promise will see you through this until you are all together again. God Bless.

Marta
Barberton, Ohio - Friday, April 13, 2007 9:27 AM CDT

Your family does not know me, but my heart goes out to each of you. You are an incredible family and after reading your journey with Frankie, I am even more amazed. My prayers will be with you as you go through this difficult time. Peace and many blessings to each of you.
Wendy
OH - Friday, April 13, 2007 9:14 AM CDT

Dear Mark and Jean,
Francesca has received the promised gift of eternal life. She will no longer have to endure the many physical problems that she has had in her short time on this earth. She has also left you with such wonderful memories of a little girl with a beautiful smile and an appreciation of the gift God gives us in each and every child born into a family. Francesca was given the perfect family to receive so much love and caring. Now you must all love each other as you mourn the loss of your little one. I wish you all the strength of the Holy Spirit in the days and weeks ahead.
Peace, Jean Bartula
Jean Bartula <jimjeanbartula@sbcglobal.net>
Kent, Ohio Portage - Friday, April 13, 2007 8:46 AM CDT

Hi,
You don't know me but I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for everyone in your family and will continue to do so. Please know your angel is with God and having a wonderful time and is out of pain. Sometimes it is hard to let go but she will always be a part of your life. Listen to the song The anchor holds by Ray Boltz it says it all and it is one of my favorite songs to sing when I get the chance to do so in public. God bless you all with peace, love and comfort.
MaryEllen Marion <memarion57a3@aol.com>
Akron, Ohio United States - Friday, April 13, 2007 8:30 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family, Thank you for sharing your beautiful little girl. Although her time here was short, the inspiration and impact she had on others is enormous and long lasting. You must be so proud of how many many lives she touched. Even though we never met her, the first thing my girls and I did every morning was check to see how Frankie was doing. We shared in your joys and your sorrows and now we share in your grief. You are all in our prayers and we are so very very sorry for your loss.
Amy (Burg) Cole <acole@neo.rr.com>
Stow, OH - Friday, April 13, 2007 7:55 AM CDT

Dear Mark , Jean, and Family,
We are praying for your whole family. Please accept our condolences. Francesca will make sure that God helps to give you additional strength.
Larry,Melissa and Sam <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
CHERRY HILL, NJ - Friday, April 13, 2007 6:24 AM CDT

Jean, Mark and Precious Family,
Today will be so difficult for all of you. Please know that I am praying for all of you and keeping you in my heart.

The Lord will be with you today; to guide you; to hold you up and to bless you. Remember, you are not alone. God will never forsake you or leave you to face this alone.

You are being held up by so many, many friends and family members and those who you do not even know. We all love and care for your family.
Blessings,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 13, 2007 5:54 AM CDT

I lost a granddaughter, I experienced the grief but be assured that your daughter is sitting in the lap of Jesus, smiling, happy, all little children go to Him.
Sherry Morgan, Art's Jewelers <sherry@quickcupid.com>
Canton, OH Stark - Friday, April 13, 2007 5:50 AM CDT

No one should have loose a child God bless you I will light a candle for sweet
Francesca

Marie <lady_baker_1957@msn.com>
North Platte , NE - Friday, April 13, 2007 5:47 AM CDT

God Bless you..She is definately an ANGEL IN HEAVEN!!!!
Chris
canton, oh - Thursday, April 12, 2007 11:44 PM CDT

Frisone Family- I would just like to add my condolences, and pray for the holy hand of God to comfort you in this most difficult time. I lost my brother at age 13 months, and remember that pain (I was 8 years old at the time). Then, at age 26, I lost my sister. Indeed, it is a rough cross to bear. But our God is a God of compassion, mercy, and love. I saw your little angel when I reported for duty at the hospital that night. She was beautiful. May God keep you.
CHMCA Security Officer. <genghis358@yahoo.com>
Akron, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:50 PM CDT

I know there's nothing I can say to make things any easier on you. I just want to let you know you have my sincerest sympathies, and highest respect for how you have handled what you've gone through, where you are, and what will come. Your family will be in my prayers.
Christina <bijagirl@yahoo.com>
Akron, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 9:57 PM CDT

YOUR FAMILY IS IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS!!!

KRIBY
KIRBY TWIGG <ktravoh@aol.com>
RAVENNA, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 9:51 PM CDT

I do not know your family, but am so saddened to see and read your story...it was a reminder of how precious life is and how precious our children are! You truly have a beautiful angel! I will keep your family in my prayers!!
Kris
Akron, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 9:20 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,

Words cannot express how saddened we are by the loss Francesca. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Joni Chatman
Canton, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:57 PM CDT

May the good Lord bless each and every one of you in the Frisone family. Not only was Frankie deserving of the best care she also recieved it. She touched so many people in her life and she will continue to shine on all of us. God keep her under his wing as they soar the heavens above. God bless you all. Love, Leo, Lori and Leah Krieger
Leo & Lori Krieger <leoandlori@sbcglobal.net>
Brimfield, OH Portage - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:09 PM CDT

My Prayers are with you and your family.
Mary Jane Carr <marycarr44201@yahoo.com>
Atwater, oh - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:56 PM CDT

I do not personally know your family but I'm praying for you. I have small children of my own and my heart aches for you.
Rebecca
Randolph, Oh. US - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:45 PM CDT

I'm thinking of you and praying for you. I hope that you all will be able to feel God's presence to comfort you.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:06 PM CDT

Words cannot begin to express the sorrow I feel for the Frisone family. Your strength is from the Lord and it is SOOOO obvious, what an awesome blessing, and what a blessing Frankie was to all of you. I've never met you but I feel I know you. May the Lord continue to bless all of you and keep you close together while your mourn Frankie's passing and know that she will NEVER leave you, she will always be watching over you and holding God's hand while she does. My deepest sympathy,
Stephanie Johnson <blondysouth@yahoo.com>
Norton, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 6:50 PM CDT

We never had a chance to meet Frankie, but looking at her in these pictures, you can see she is just a precious little angel. She is in our prayers as is the rest of the family. She is in no more pain and suffering now that she is in the arms of Jesus. God bless all of you and give you the peace that Francesca now has.
Marie & Tony Stankiewicz <AStank105@aol.com>
Ravenna, Ohio USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 6:49 PM CDT

I can not even imagine your pain or sorrow, you and your family are in our prayers.
victoria buckle (and family) <victoriabuckle@yahoo.com>
canton, oh united states - Thursday, April 12, 2007 6:41 PM CDT

Jean and Family,

We are keeping your family
and Francesca in our
thoughts and prayers.

God bless you all.
Don and Beth Coughlin <cough75695@aol.com>
Akron, Oh USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 6:38 PM CDT

My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. Keep her spirit alive in your mind and in your heart.
Lisa O'Brien <LA9691@aol.com>
Uniontown, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 6:34 PM CDT

Jean and family, I�m so sorry to hear of your loss. I haven�t seen you in 20 something years and as soon as I saw Francesca�s picture I could see the resemblance. She was a beautiful little girl. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this time.
Sandy Kearley(Miner) <scottnsandy1985@aol.com>
Rootstown, oh usa - Thursday, April 12, 2007 5:55 PM CDT

I am so sorry for your lost. There is no pain as the pain of loosing a child.
Nancy Dunlap <njdvt@netzero.com>
Hinesburg, VT - Thursday, April 12, 2007 5:31 PM CDT

dear frisone family,
i am very sorry to hear about your loss, i will keep you in my prayers.
hollie joiner <crh0629@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, April 12, 2007 4:43 PM CDT

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You all have and will be in my prayers.
Lydia <lydsterb1@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 12, 2007 4:39 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family, I don't think we have ever met,but through ARCHE we have prayed for her and your family. I am sorry to hear of her passing, but I know she is running with Jesus now.
The Mazzagatti Family
Marie <mazzama06@sbcglobal.net>
akron, oh usa - Thursday, April 12, 2007 3:25 PM CDT

I'm sorry for your loss.
Pat Schuckert <pattycake70@sbcglobal.net>
CuyFalls, Oh USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 2:40 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
There are very few words that can console anyone who looses a child, grandchild, sister, or cousin, but the Bible tells us that God only takes those who have finished their job down here on earth, and he has another job for somewhere else. Frankie must have been perfect, because she had obviously fullfilled all of God's obligations here on earth, and now your precious baby is one of God's special Angle's. God Bless to you and your family.
Melissa (also a mother and a nurse) <mnusbaum@services4aging@.org>
Fairlawn, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 2:31 PM CDT

You'r whole family are in all our thoughts and prayers. God will get you through this. Love, The entire Staff at Stow Glen Assisted Living
Bev Shay <bshay@stowglen.com>
Stow, Oh - Thursday, April 12, 2007 2:27 PM CDT

I'm very sorry for your loss, I've burned many cd's for rita to give to francesa to listen to at night , I hope it helped her sleep .

David Freshwaters <dfreshw103@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, ohio USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 2:25 PM CDT

I DO NOT KNOW YOUR FAMILY, BUT I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT MY FAMILIE'S THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME. CHILDREN ARE A GIFT FROM GOD AND I AM SURE YOU WERE BLESSED WITH THE TIME GOD GAVE TO YOU WITH YOUR ANGEL!
SARA <sfalatok@yahoo.com>
COVENTRY, OH SUMMIT - Thursday, April 12, 2007 2:13 PM CDT

Our heartfelt sympathies to your family.
Patty Eichler <ike195254@hotmail.com>
Randolph, Oh 44265 - Thursday, April 12, 2007 1:57 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family: I just learned (today) of Francesca's passing. My heart goes out to your entire family. May God bless all of you and everyone whose lives this precious little angel blessed. In Sympathy, Bryan, Dana, and Michelle Whittlesey
Dana Whittlesey <BWhittlesey@neo.rr.com>
Atwater, Oh - Thursday, April 12, 2007 1:49 PM CDT

I saw this beautiful little girl in the obituaries and had to let you know that your family is in my prayers.
God Bless You All!
Sherry Byars <sherba1225@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 1:42 PM CDT

I read the obituaries every day and when I saw this beautiful little girl my heart went out to you. I have a 4 1/2 year old daughter and a 20 month old son. I can not even begin to imagine what you are going through. I have read through many of the journals on this website and am overwhelmed at all this little girl and her family have had to go through in her lifetime. May God bless you and help you deal with your grief. You are all in my prayers.
Michelle Hawthorne <shelsmile@neo.rr.com>
Kent, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 1:28 PM CDT

Jean, Mark, Angelo, Anthony, Joe, Dominic, Mario, Gina, Maria, & Sophia: I am sorry to hear about Francesca. She has been in my prayers. If there is anything I can do to help in any way, please let me know. I love you all. Monica(Given)Moffit (330)283-8314
Monica Given Moffit <mmoffit@akron.k12.oh.us>
Silver Lake, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 1:28 PM CDT

We are so sorry for your loss, I didn't know about the journal & just read it. We are so sorry! You & your family are in our prayers. Love, David, Denise, Dale, Dakoda, & Drake Miller, from St. Joseph's.
Denise Miller <augersrun@yahoo.com>
Atwater, Oh USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 1:22 PM CDT

Guiseppe and Family:

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We love you - please let us know if there's anything we can do.
Robyn, Staff and Teens at the Mogadore Branch Library
Robyn E. Vittek
Mogadore, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 1:10 PM CDT

As I scanned the obituaries today in the Canton Repository. I saw a picture of this beautiful baby girl and I just wanted to know more. My heart goes out to your family. I spent too much of my morning fussing and complaining about the stressful situations that are going on in my life. There is nothing left for me to do but look up to heaven and repent for my ungratefullness. The faith and courage that your family has shown is a testament to the grace that we receive through our Lord and Savior Jesus. If His grace is sufficient for you, than surely it is sufficient for me. Thank you for allowing others to share in your intamate testimony. You are in my thoughts a prayers.
Tarrah Burton <tarrahburton@sbcglobal.net>
Canton, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 12:50 AM CDT

Mark, Jean & Family,
My heart goes out to all of you - you have all walked a very long road. God certainly has a "new little" angel with him in heaven. I pray that God contiues to sustain you and give you strength.

Laurie Warner & Family (Randolph Home Furnishings)
Laurie Warner <lauriem711@aol.com>
Randolph, oh usa - Thursday, April 12, 2007 12:50 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark and Family, Mother Theresa was visiting a poor family in India. They had an extremely disabled and sick child lying on a mat on the floor. Mother Theresa asked them what they called their child. His mother replied, "We call him Teacher of Love." That is what Francesca is -- a teacher of love. That is what your whole family has been for so many people -- teachers of love. Thank you for your beautiful Christian witness.
Love, Linda Radwany
linda radwany <lradwany@neo.rr.com>
Hartville, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 12:37 AM CDT

For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time has come for my departure. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day - and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing. 2 Timothy 4:6-8 Continuing to keep each of you in prayer, Love, Debbie
Debbie Purcell <JRP2832019@peoplepc.com>
Stow, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 12:33 AM CDT

Jean and Family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. Valerie Rundle
Valerie Rundle <val3371@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 12:21 AM CDT

Tears cloud my eyes as I try to write this.

Even Jesus is crying as he wraps his arms
around you and your family.

My prayer is that all the prayers will
comfort you "Somehow".

With love,
Lynne
Lynne Shannon <Lynnetony@sbcglobal.net>
Stow , Ohio - Thursday, April 12, 2007 11:58 AM CDT

We have never met, but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family during this most difficult time. I stand in awe of your families strength and faith. The Lord has welcomed Frankie into his kingdom and given her peace and rest. May the Lord give you all the comfort and peace that you deserve. May God Bless you all!
Carrie P <mrstwp01@ameritech.net>
Massillon, ohio USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 11:56 AM CDT

We are extremely sad to hear about your beautiful little girls passing. Your in our thoughts and prayers! If you need anything please don't hesitate to call.
Todd Vaughn and Jillian Richert (Nikolas) <jlr@usa.com>
Brimfield , oh us - Thursday, April 12, 2007 11:41 AM CDT

Dear Jean and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Frankie. My heart and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
Sharon Pollock <gpollock@neo.rr.com>
- Thursday, April 12, 2007 11:40 AM CDT

MAY GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AND YOU AS PARENTS. I WAS NOT ONE OF THE LUCKY LIVES TOUCHED DIRECTLY BY YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER BUT JUST SEEING HER IN OUR LOCAL PAPER MADE ME SEE HOW GREAT SHE WAS. YOU CAN SEE IN HER EYES HOW BLESSED THIS WORLD WAS TO HAVE KNOWN HER EVEN IF SUCH A SHORT TIME. I DONT HAVE A THOUGHT OF HOW YOU GET THREW THIS, OTHER THAN BY THE GRACE OF GOD AND THE LOVE OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS. TRUST IN THE LORD HE WILL CARRY YOU THREW THIS. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU IN YOUR TIME OF NEED.
BARB <CLAIR4487@AOL.COM>
MAGNOLIA, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 11:38 AM CDT

Frisone Family,
I am so very sorry. I know that it has been a long struggle. I pray that the Holy Spirit will cradle you in comfort and peace for the difficult days ahead.
Katie Haubert-- Hoban High School
Katie Haubert
Cuyahoga Falls, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 11:38 AM CDT

I'm sorry for your family's loss. She was a beautiful girl.
Tiffany Davis <Tifpooh@aol.com>
Ravenna, Oh - Thursday, April 12, 2007 11:34 AM CDT

My sincere symphony to your family and it's obvious Frankie has a wonderful family, what a beautiful little girl, she can now run,jump,and play with all the other angles. God bless you all.
Brenda Steiner <bjs1948@sssnet.com>
Canal Fulton, Oh Stark - Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:45 AM CDT

Every minute spent with Frankie was precious and will be forever cherished. My heart is breaking for all of you. Love and prayers, Debbi
Debbi Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:35 AM CDT

I do not know you, but I saw the obituary in the Beacon today. I'm so sorry for your loss and I pray for comfort for you. She was a beautiful little girl. She now has a new, healthy body in Heaven and will know only joy.
Another mother
Akron, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:34 AM CDT

My classes and I have prayed for your family since Anthony came to Hoban and will continue to do so. Your family has been an inspiration. If Anthony and Joey need anything, they know where they can find me.
Russ Kwitkowski <kwitkowskir@hoban.org>
Copley, oh Summit - Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:32 AM CDT

All of us at CMG have been touched by Francesca. Your family will always be an inspiration.
Doug Hackenberg
Akron, Ohio USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:22 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
How sad and speechless this makes me during this difficult time. As I read through the journal, it has shown me what a strong little girl she has been. Her strength and your loving devotion to her makes me pause to think about the beauty she has brought to this world. I never met her, but her will to live and your devotion can teach us all about the important things in life.
May I wish your family peace, love, warmth,and fond memories of little Frankie as you look ahead. I think we all are taking comfort in knowing that she is in paradise now with Sister Jordan...

Shannon Goss
Shannon Goss <shanbengoss@aol.com>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Thursday, April 12, 2007 10:08 AM CDT

What a touching story. I know times are hard now, but they will get better. I havent lost a child, but i have been through one ( I took care of this child, he was 11 months old when he passed) You are a very loved family and she has touched many people already. God Bless you and your family.
Melissa Riffle <wissa0399@neo.rr.com>
Canton, oh US - Thursday, April 12, 2007 9:43 AM CDT

Dear Mark, Jean & Frisone Family,

You are all in my thoughts & my prayers. May God bless and keep you all.

Goodnight Sweet Francesca

Love you all, Dee
Dee Vincent <DeeVincent12@aol.com>
Kent, Ohio - Thursday, April 12, 2007 9:43 AM CDT

I have never met you. I read the beautiful story about your daughter/sister. We lost our 2nd child in 2003- Jak- he blessed us with 10 wonderful hours! I just wanted to let you know that you are all surrounded with love & prayers. I pray that you all feel it soon.
I like to think that our son is playing with wonderful children like your daughter!
God Bless you all-
Katie S.
Katie S. <cmckszink@yahoo.com>
Canton, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 9:24 AM CDT

Dear Mark, Jean and family,
As we all grapple with our feelings about the loss of Frankie, I am comforted with the idea that the true purpose and measure of our lives rests in loving and being loved. In that regard, Frankie�s time with us was rich and full of purpose and meaning. For demonstrating the power of love, unwavering commitment, and strength in action, I thank you all. I wish you comfort and peace.

Cathey DeBord <cdebord@portagefamilies.org>
Ravenna, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 9:05 AM CDT

I can not imagin what you are going threw right now. Just remember she is with God now and is not suffering any more she is in a much better place. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Angela Heidinger <angalexis@gmail.com>
Norton, oh usa - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:59 AM CDT

Frisone Family ~
May God comfort you during this difficult time. Know that your little Frankie is now with God, sitting at His feet, and is breathing with no problem. She is free now and I am sure she is happy. May you feel His peace.
Patty
Canton, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:57 AM CDT

Your beautiful precious Angel-Frankie is in a much better place now and is healthy and happy again. You have an adorable angel watching over all of you now. May God bless you always and help you thru this difficult time. Thank you for sharing your story. I'll keep you in my prayers!
Denise <djjcnt6@yahoo.com>
East Sparta, Oh USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:53 AM CDT

Jean, I am thinking of you and your family and keeping you all in prayer, know that many love you and keep you close to their hearts and in their prayers. I am so sorry for the loss of your little angel, Frankie. Deb Young and family.
Deb Young <dybaskets@sssnet.com>
- Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:38 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family. Thank you for sharing your story. Although I have never met you or heard of your story before this morning, my heart goes out to all of you in the loss of your precious little girl. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. The Lord must have had a need for a little "Angel" named Frankie. Know that God is with you and will carry you through this difficult time.
Tracy Hower <thower@cndinc.com>
Perry Township, - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:30 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family--
Being there with you in heart and mind at the end of this very crazy journey, your quiet strength and compassion for life and God was evident in all of your faces as you said goodbye to your precious princess.
Sarah from Alliance wrote it best on this guestbook, and I think it is worth repeating, so I will quote her now:
"What a gallant girl, what a devoted family, what compassionate friends, what dedicated medical teams, what a loving God. Peace, Little Princess, run and play without tubes, without thirst, without fevers or pain, you are free. I never knew you, but you have now touched my life. God bless you, family, and know you are in many thoughts and prayers today." --Sarah

Thank you for sharing her caringbridge with all of us. Reading over your journey reflects just how strong your family is. Your baby girl is finally free from pain. She is now such a beautiful angel.

Prayers are with you.
CHMCA PICU NURSE
Akron, OH USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:25 AM CDT

Dear Coach, Mrs. Frisone and the Entire Family,
I am very sorry to find out that little Frankie(Mrs. Dyrlund's Scrappy Doo) had moved on to be with the Lord. She will be missed deeply. Your family is in my family's thoughts and prayers always. You guys have become quite the family to me as these past two years at Hoban have flown by. I love you all and I will see you on Saturday.
Love You!
Niece' & Papa(John) Russo <watergirl.niece.gold.90@gmail.com>
Akron, OH US - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:14 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,Thank you for sharing Frankie.To bring others on your family journey to me was and is very brave.I didn't get to meet her in person, but I followed her story closely from Missouri. I ran across it in the Evening Inde A Massillon, Ohio paper. Thank the lord she got to come back home to see her brothers, sisters and family in the place she felt most safe and comfortable one last time, she knew and the lord made it possible. God Bless and stay strong. Your family is amazing.
Brent Vales <bvales@riversedgeproducts.com>
Union, Mo USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:56 AM CDT

God bless you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss of your beautiful little Frankie. Your family will be in my prayers.
Kim Tritchler <ktritchler@neo.rr.com>
Uniontown, - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:52 AM CDT

I was not aware of your precious child until I read in the paper of her passing! What an unbelievable strength your family has. "Frankie" is now running and having fun. Free of all tubes and procedures, she is now your families' guardian angel. Our prayers are with you and your family!!
Kathy Keller <chap319@aol.com>
Barberton, Ohio USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:52 AM CDT

What a beautiful angel! You were all blessed to have known her. I did not, but Frankie's story has touched my soul! You all are in my prayers.I too have a congenital heart defect that I live with with the assistance of a pacemaker...every day is a true blessing. God bless you all. RIP Frankie.
Mother of three! <momma022@yahoo.com>
Barberton, oh usa - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:33 AM CDT

Dear Family, I just saw the obituary and went to the caring bridge journal where I read about your journey of the past two years. What a gallant girl, what a devoted family, what compassionate friends, what dedicated medical teams, what a loving God. Peace, Little Princess, run and play without tubes, without thirst, without fevers or pain, you are free. I never knew you, but you have now touched my life. God bless you, family, and know you are in many thoughts and prayers today.
Sara <Alliance4Animals@aol.com>
Alliance, OH God Bless the U.S.A. - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:10 AM CDT

I am really sorry to see that you have lost your beautiful little girl...I live in the area and go to your same curch St. Joseph's Church in Randolph...my prayers go out to you and I hope that the good lord takes care of you because we all know he is taking really good care of you little one. God Bless You!!
Charlotte <Cbrooks04@aol.com>
Suffield , oh usa - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:00 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark and family,
Please know that I am earnestly praying for all of you this day. I pray that you may find the peace and comfort that only God, Our Father can give. I pray that your family will find the strength that comes from God to face the next few difficult days ahead of you.

Frankie's loss will never be erased. But remember, all the precious memories that you have of her will never be taken from you. You have been on such a roller coaster experience these last several months. I pray that things will slow down for you, so that your family may find rest.

May the peace and comfort only God can give be with you this day, and every day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 12, 2007 6:59 AM CDT

My heart and prayers goes out to you and your family for the loss of your precious little girl.
know that she is keeping a close eye on you.
I pray that God will give you courage and strength in the time of your loss of a precious little "Angel Frankie"
Judith Bair <jabair@sbcglobal.net>
Massillon, Ohio U.S.A - Thursday, April 12, 2007 6:00 AM CDT

Dear Frisone family,
I was not aware of the situation with Frankie until yesterday when I read the heartbreaking news. While I have been reading some of the journal entries, my heart has been breaking for all of you. If only there was something we could all do for you. Please know that I will continue to keep your entire family and all of those who were close to Frankie in my prayers for a LONG time to come. You have a rough road ahead of you, but God will guide you through it all! Rely on Him.
Debbie Gudat <gobrowns_22@yahoo.com>
Akron, OH - Thursday, April 12, 2007 0:36 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We know how terribly you will miss your little Frankie. It is comforting to know we have a sweet and loving angel to watch over our St. Joseph Community. We truly admire your courage and strength in your faith. May God bless you. Your family is in our prayers.
Dave, Krissy, Jake, Greg, Abby and Katie Moore from St. Joseph's <dmoore33@neo.rr.com>
Rootstown , Ohio - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:37 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
We are so sorry to hear about Frankie. Our thoughts and prayers remain with you--

Chris and Elizabeth Rhoades <rhoades@uakron.edu>
atwater, oh - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:37 PM CDT

I'm so sorry to hear about Princess Frankie, her sweet spirit will be greatly missed but fondly remembered. May you be comforted by memories and knowing she is looking down smiling and watching over your family. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Jami Klein M40 <jhemsworth@sbcglobal.net>
University Heights, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:20 PM CDT

i know that nothing anybody says can help to ease the pain, but i want you to know how deeply she touched my life

"I've heard it said
That people come into our lives for a reason
Bringing something we must learn
And we are led
To those who help us most to grow
If we let them
And we help them in return
Well, I don't know if I believe that's true
But I know I'm who I am today
Because I knew you

Like a comet pulled from orbit
As it passes a sun
Like a stream that meets a boulder
Halfway through the wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
But because I knew you
I have been changed for good

It well may be
That we will never meet again
In this lifetime
So let me say before we part
So much of me
Is made of what I learned from you
You'll be with me
Like a handprint on my heart
And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have re-written mine
By being my friend

Like a ship blown from its mooring
By a wind off the sea
Like a seed dropped by a skybird
In a distant wood
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
But because I knew you

Because I knew you

I have been changed for good"

sarah <believeinmiracles721@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:06 PM CDT

I am so sorry to hear of Frankie's passing - all of you are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.

God's Continuous Love to You.
Joan Pendley <joan@joanpendley.com>
Bowling Green, KY - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:06 PM CDT

I'm so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you.
Sarah-M40 <lynchsar@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 7:43 PM CDT

My heart is so sad, but the angels are so happy to have a new friend in heaven. Francesca is now dancing and singing and hoping that everyone can smile as they think of her. Mourning always happens and is a process that we, as mortals, have to go through. But always remember Frankie's smile and sweet voice. She has touched our hearts and will be so greatly missed. We are all blessed for having had her in our lives.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 6:49 PM CDT

Dear Dear Frisone Family....I cannot possibly tell you all how sorry i am to hear about Frnkie! What a brave child and family....i know there are no words at this time so i will just tell you that you all are in my heart and prayers every moment....i love you anthony and joey!...mrs. dyrlund
Karen Dyrlund <ddyrlund@sssnet.com>
Canal Fulton, Oh usa - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 6:27 PM CDT

Frisone Family- I am so sorry to hear about Princess Frankie. She touched so many lives, and I, along with many others, will be sure to always remember her bright smile
melissa
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:52 PM CDT

I am so sad to hear the news. I will be thinking about your family and your beautiful little angel.
Sue Maxen
St Albans, UK - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:41 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,Thank you for sharing Frankie.To bring others on your family journey to me was and is very brave.I didn't get to meet her in person,but I new her.God Bless and keep you.Help and heal you.
Lorraine J. Lawrence <llawrence13@cox.net>
scottsdale, az United States - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:37 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family ~ I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that Frankie touched so many lives. I continue to pray for all of you.

Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:13 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
We are so saddened as we have been following your journey daily and praying for you all since Francesca came into the world. We will continue to pray for you to have the strength to get through this difficult time.
Jenn & Andy Matlack <jmatlack01@yahoo.com>
Twinsburg, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:13 PM CDT

Dearest Frisone Family,
Like so many others, my heart aches
for your entire family. You will continue
to be in my prayers, asking God to give you
strength and comfort.
Prayer Warrior
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 4:51 PM CDT

Dear Jean and Family, My heart aches for you all. May you all find peace and comfort in knowing that your little angel has returned home and is wrapped in the arms of her Heavenly Father. Frankie touched so many hearts and your labor of love touched many of us also. Your family has truly been an inspiration to many. Love and continued prayers, Karen
Karen Pippin <knursed@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 4:34 PM CDT

Jean, Mark, and family, I am so sorry to hear about Frankie. She has been such a fighter and so determined. She has touched so many lives in so many different ways, and will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you and your family at this so very difficult time. Barb
barb Moledor <barbM@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 3:36 PM CDT

My dear friend Jean; My heart is aching. I cry not for Frankie, for she is no longer in pain and is with the Lord. But I cry for you and your family for the pain you are left to deal with. My prayers are now focused on you Jean, and your family.
gloria gmerek
akron, ohio summit - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 3:36 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this sad time.
Nicky Ebner <ebnernic@kent.edu>
Macedonia, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 3:31 PM CDT

I work with Frankie's uncle Randy in NC. I am sure Frankie will be missed by many. She obviously was a strong willed little girl. God does work in mysterious ways and I am sure he kept her here to touch the many lives she did in order to made us all better people. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jeannie <beachgirl67@netzero.net>
Reidsville, NC USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 2:56 PM CDT

Dear Mark and Family, The first time I went to open Hospice as an RSVP volunteer station, the coordinator told me about an experience that she had as a Hospice volunteer that I thought might ease your pain a little bit. She told me of sitting with a family whose three year old little boy was dying. He had been in and out of a coma for several days and the mother was holding and rocking him when he suddenly woke up. She asked him if he had been dreaming and he said "yes." She asked him what he had been dreaming about and he said, "I was with "Grandpa Joe, and Grandpa Joe told me to tell you that he was going to take care of me." Shortly after that the little boy passed away. But what was so amazing about the story was that the mother's grandfather had died years before, and the family had called him Grandpa Joe. He had been gone so long that the child had never met him, and the family was sure that they had never talked about him in the child's presence. I pray that Frankie is with her Grandpa, and that he is taking care of her. May God Bless your and your children. Kathy Birch
Kathy Birch <rsvpcolumbiana@sbcglobal.net>
Calcutta, Oh USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 2:31 PM CDT

Mark, Jean and Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

Maureen Watson <maureen@unitedway.org>
Kent, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 2:28 PM CDT

Dear Frisones,
Today I feel honored. I feel honored because I now know a saint. How many people can say that they have seen a saint? I feel blessed to be one of those people who can say "I have seen a saint."
I'm sure this time is hard, but your reward is piling up in heaven. And I'm sure Frankie is smiling at how large that pile is.
Never hesitate to call and ask for anything.
I shall pray for all of you, and I shall pray that Frankie prays for you.
May God bless all of you,
Alex Lanshe <alex.jv24601@gmail.com>
Uniontown, OH U.S.A. - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 2:25 PM CDT

Dear Mark, Jean & family,
I am deeply saddened by the news of Frankie's passing. Even though I only had the privelege of caring for her for a short time, I came to know what a special child she was. There are no words to say except that she is in a better place now in the arms of Jesus and one day we will see her again. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Hold on, stand firm, keep the faith. Love to all.
Debbie Cooper LPN Hattie Larlham Community Sevices <nfbandmom1@earthlink.net>
Newton Falls, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 2:22 PM CDT

Mark, Jean and family,
Bruce and I send our condolences and prayers for each one of you. Your faith and strenghth has been such an inspiration to us. Know that we're here to help if there is anything we can do.

Kathy Hartong <emptynest@juno.com>
Randolph, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 1:50 PM CDT

I am greatly sadden to hear of Frankie's sudden death. She has touched the lives of so many. I can't believe she is gone. She is an ANGEL now flying pain free and Sickness free.
May God Comfort you.
Paula Thompson www.caringbridge.org/visit/zacharyathompson <thompson@sptent.com>
The Colony, TX 75056 - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 1:41 PM CDT

Dear Mark, Jean and family, I am so sorry to hear about Francesca. Please know that your family, each one of you, is being lifted up in prayer. Though this has been a long road, I know the blessing of Francesca's life will always bring you to a warm place in your heart. As I looked at her sweet pictures, I couldn't help but realize that her precious face is in the hands of Jesus now, He is wrapping His loving arms around her little body, and there is no discomfort anymore...nothing but peace and contentment now, and you will be with her again, though the pain and heart-felt tearing of seperation from your child must seem unbearable at this moment...remember the day is coming that you will hold her again and that God your Father is right there next to you...He will give you the stength you need each day, He will lift you up and put you on solid ground. "those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." Isaiah 40:31 God bless each of you, now and always. All our love, Dan and Denise, Triston, Josiah, and Gabrielle
Denise Myatt <designinspirations@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 1:31 PM CDT

Jean,How devastating, after all our prayers, and how hard Francesca and you fought, for it to end this way. God works in mysterious ways. "Not my will, but thine, be done." I will continue to pray for your healing.
Lucy Bueno
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 1:16 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark and family,
I pray for each and every one of you.
I pray for the comfort of knowing she hurts no more.

I am thankful for you allowing me to be
a part of your precious little one's life.

Please know that I care deeply for all of you.
If there were a way I could take this burden
from your hearts I would do so.

The Lord will be with you every step of the way on your
journey of grief. He loves and cares for you.
There are no answers as to why this had to happen
after all the times Frankie overcame her challenges.
We have to live by faith and not by sight.
May the Lord bless and keep each one of you.
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 1:15 PM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn the loss of your precious daughter.
Hara Dwyer <bckbskc@aol.com>
Barre, VT - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 12:57 AM CDT

You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May God's love sustain you at this difficult time. Frankie will be missed.
Rochelle Stein <rojf1@yahoo.com>
Kent, oh - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 12:40 AM CDT

Frisone Family,

We are so saddened to hear of your loss. You and the entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless you all especially that little Angel "Francesca".
The Kosco Family
Canal Fulton, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 12:39 AM CDT

Frisone Family,
I can not tell you how heartbroken I feel for you all today. We all know Frankie is in a better place with no pain and no heart problems but that does not fix our saddness. My eyes filled with tears as I thought back to a few weeks ago. I can see those BIG beautiful brown eyes looking across the room as Sawyer was slowly recovering. Her hair in those piggy tails and seeing her sit up in her bed watching t.v. and playing with her toys. She had to be one of the cutest girls I have ever met. Jean and Mark- your strength is unbelievable. So many times when I would feel so down and out because everything was such a rollercoaster my mind would go back to the strength of Frankie's mom and dad. Jason and I will forever keep the Frisone family in our thougths and always in our prayers. Never will Sawyer have a better roommate than frankie!!!

Your favorite roommate and heart buddy forever-
Sawyer Tolbert

We Love you all- Jason and Ashley Tolbert
www.caringbridge.org/visit/sawyerdt
Ashley Tolbert <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
Arden, NC - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 12:21 AM CDT

Dear Frisone family,
John and I are so sad to hear of Frankis's passing. Please know we are among many friends and family who share your grief and were blessed to know this amazing child for the time she was here. Our thoughts and prayers for your famiy continue.
Love,
Jane
Jane Gwinn <jgwinnaps@yahoo.com>
Kent, Oh USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 12:10 AM CDT

Frisone Family,
My prayers are with all of you at this time. May the Blessed Virgin care for your little one and God our Father be a source of strength and comfort to you.
Lauri Scharf <scharfj@netlink.net>
Ashtabula, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 12:03 AM CDT

I am so sad to hear of Frankie's passing.
Please know that she and your entire family have
touched so many hearts. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Shawna (Deaner) Moody <sdeaner@aol.com>
Parma, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 11:47 AM CDT

I am so sorry to hear of Frankie's passing. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Katie Hellrigel
Freehold, NJ - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 11:47 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I am so sorry to hear about Frankie's passing. I enjoyed every minute I had working with her, and you by her side. I will miss her cute but stubborn personality - she always had some say in how I would work with her! Thank you for trusting me and letting me share in her special life.

Suzy Golz/CCF echo tech
Rocky River, Oh USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 11:30 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family:
Words cannot express how sad we are to hear of Frankie's passing. We all love her very much and will miss her everyday. If anything is needed during this time, you know to call Mark's office.
Lacy Stickle <lstickle@portagefamilies.org>
Ravenna, Oh - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 11:27 AM CDT

Dear Frisone family,
I am so sorry to hear about Frankie. No words can comfort you, but a priest once told my grieving family, "Don't look to the distant shore and think of all the things we will never share, but rather just try to take one small step." That is what you all are doing.
Mary Beth Harper <mbharper@neo.rr.com>
Kent, OH USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 11:10 AM CDT

I am so sad - I will continue to pray for your family -
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 11:05 AM CDT

Frisone Family,
I am so sad to hear of your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Heather Daniel <heather.daniel@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:48 AM CDT

Mark, Jean and Family.
We are deeply saddened by your loss. May God bring you the comfort you will need to face the days ahead. Your family is absolutely amazing, you are an inspiration to all of us.
God Bless You!

Mike & Debbie Troyan <mtroyan@tmcinsurancegroup.com>
Twinsburg, Oh USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:41 AM CDT

we are so sorry for your loss and are praying for all of you. May the Lord give you peace and comfort at this most dificult time.
St. Matthais Parishioner <gfplusp@sbcglobal.net>
Broadview Heights, Oh USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:39 AM CDT

Mark, Jean and family.
I was so saddened to learn of the news of Francesca's passing. Simple words do not help at a time like this but please know that the entire Frisone family is in my prayers. Little Francesca put up a valiant fight but obviously our Lord God had plans for her and he has decided that it is time for her to be with Him.
Please know that your extended family at American Legion Post 496 are with you in every way. God Bless you all.
John Wilson <jmwilson2@aol.com>
Kent, Oh Portage - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:37 AM CDT

Francesca had the incredible gift of making a strong family even stronger. I pray that your Easter together will remain as a powerful memory of the unity, faith, and love that God gives so freely. Still, I share your grief and hold you all in my prayers, my own faith strengthened by the journey you have so courageously and eloquently shared with all of us.
With great love and affection,
Judy Mohan <mohanj@hoban.org>
Kent, OH United States - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:09 AM CDT

May the arms of Our Dear Lord who wept for his friend Lazarus wrap around you and hold you fast. You have no idea how your lives and the strength of your character have demonstrated Christ's love to the rest of us who have been on this journey with you through various means. I imagine Francesca skipping along streets of gold and praising God with the angels. He is faithful to those who believe and accept his saving power. I will continue to pray for you all.
Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:08 AM CDT

Dear Frisone family, We are all terribly saddened by the passing of frankie. Our hearts are breaking for your loss. We pray for all of you now to find some comfort in knowing you have your own special angel to guide and protect you. We are here for you in any way that you need us. Don't hesitate to call on us for help. We love all of you dearly. The Lanshes
Faith Lanshe <busymomlanshe@yahoo.com>
Uniontown, - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:51 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family, My heart aches with yours in this time of deep loss. I was at M's when Craig got the call. Just want you to know I am praying for all of you and your precious little Angel. Cherish the memories of little Francesca and know she is watching over all of you. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. God bless the Frisone family. Love and prayers
Nancy <Nance1029@aol.com>
Akron, Ohio USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:50 AM CDT

Dear: Mark,Jean & Family,
I know alot of strong Families, You are one of the strongest. Our thoughts, Prayers & condolences are with you at this difficult time.
Jimmy Raines & Family <jraines5@msn.com>
Suffield, Oh Portage - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:48 AM CDT

Jean, My heart aches for each of you. I pray you may lose yourselves in the embrace of your Heavenly Father as He and we weep with you. May He envelop you in His arms. filling your broken hearts with the hope that reaches beyond this lifetime of pain and sorrow. May He give you a glimpse of your precious little Frankie dancing and singing with Jesus - finally free from her broken little body, free from all the pain and a lifetime of struggles - finally whole. What a gift little Frankie has been - a wonderful gift that God blessed us all with for a short time. Though her visit here was short, it was mighty and touched so many hearts and lives. May her light continue to inspire us until we are all together again - forever. And may our Father help you find your way through the overwelming pain and sorrow as only His eternal hope can.
With a heart full of love and sorrow but also hope, Pamela
"No in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am convinced neither death nor life, neither angels nor the demons neither the present nor the future, nor any powers neither height nor depth nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Romans 8:37-39
Pamela Simmons <pamelasimmons@zoominternet.net>
Medina, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:34 AM CDT

Dearest FRisones, I am sorry beyond words for the loss of your precious little girl. May God's generous, unending mercy and love wrap you with His peace. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Jane Louis <jj-louis@sbcglobal.net>
green, - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:22 AM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this very tough time. May Jesus wrap his loving and comforting arms around you. I have no doubt that Frankie is sitting by his side telling him all about her wonderful family. God bless!
Bob Roth <bobthebiller@sbcglobal.net>
Ravenna, Ohio USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:19 AM CDT

Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints. O Lord, truly I am your servant; I am your servant, the son of your maidservant; you have freed me from my chains. Psalm 116:15-16

The righteous perish, and no one ponders it in his heart; devout men are taken away, and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil. Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they lie in death. Isaiah 57:1-2

I remember my affliction and my wandering, the bitterness and the gall. I well remember them, and my soul is downcast within me. Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, "The Lord is my portion; therefore I will wait for him." The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him. Lamentations 3:19-25

Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade--kept in heaven for you, who through faith are shielded by God's power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time. 1 Peter 1:3-5

Dear Frisone family, my prayer is that you will take comfort in the words of our Heavenly Father as you mourn the loss of a beloved daughter, sister, niece and granddaughter. Frankie has been released from her earthly body that was the source of so much pain and suffering and has been given a new body that wlll never fail her! The pain of her loss will be acute, but I rejoice that she is free of suffering and can once again laugh and smile and run with abandon! My prayers are with you all during this time.

Blessings,
Andrea Todd
Andrea Todd <andrea@swchurch.com>
Grove City, OH USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 9:16 AM CDT

I am so very sorry about Frankie's passing. Thank you for sharing her life with us. May you all be held close by God with His love, my family's prayers are with you.
Marty (Pesek) Kish <MKishlsw@zoominternet.net>
Youngstown, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:58 AM CDT

I am so sorry sounds incredibly inconsequential in all of this. Please know that we've all lost a small piece of our lives and our hearts. Reading your entry Gina, please know my prayers for all for all of you will continue. You too have my heart-
Donna Patno <DonnaCNM@windstream.net>
Hudson, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:53 AM CDT

Dearest Frisone Family,

Valiant is the word I choose to describe the Frisones! You can never know the number of lives that Frankie and your entire family have touched--thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing your family and your faith. You've taught us all how to be better humans. As Frankie's "soul job" yesterday was to leave her body your soul jobs will be to survive. I read just last week that authentic spiritual connection happens when you desire it, intend for it to happen, and embrace it when it happens. Thus, Frankie will live on through you and you will be forever connected...and keeping us connected too. Gina said it just right (as always) you've a little angel looking after you! Please consider publishing this journal and guestbook--it could help so many others. Bless you!

~Eileen Burg~
Eileen Burg <eileenburg@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:50 AM CDT

Mark and Jean,
I have never met you, but my mother, Angie Mudd, has always kept me updated on Frankie. While we all know God has a plan that is not for us to question, His actions were obvious when he created Frankie and sent her to you. What a strong little girl to have endured all that she did. Jean, each day I am amazed to read the journal. How broad your shoulders must be for the weight they carry...your faith, unwaivered. I have had the pleasure to meet two of your beautiful daughters, Gina and Maria. They too are blessings. My girls, Tori and Adrianne adore them. Thanks for maintaining this journal and letting the world peek into Frankie's life.
Many Blessings, Gina (Mudd) Bryan
Chris, Gina, Tori and Adrianne Bryan
Green, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:06 AM CDT

Thank you for letting us walk with you on this path. I'm so very sorry that it has ended this way. I will continue to offer prayers for your family now, as I believe, with you, that Frankie is no longer in need of them. Jean, my heart especially breaks for you, I will multiply my prayers for you.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 7:56 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
I love Frankie and you so much.
I am so sorry that she is no longer here but so grateful
that I had an opportunity to know her.
Your friend,
Jane
Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 7:19 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
Although no words can take away or lessen your sorrow, please know that all of us who have praying for your family continue to hold you up in prayer. With deepest sympathy and love, Dan, Mary, Katie & Susie Rodenbucher
Mary Rodenbucher <Sportsmom@neo.rr.com>
Randolph, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 7:06 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
Words can not express the great sorrow we feel for you all. Heaven has a new Angel that will always look down upon you all. Frankie was a shining star in so many lives especially yours. Know that we are all thinking of you all during this difficult time.
Love and prayers,
Claudette and Glenn Rogers <papiamento1968@aol.com>
Ravenna, OH USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 6:54 AM CDT

PEACE,
Know that we love, care, and pray for you!
Ken and Kathy DeCrane <ken@perlanesales.com>
Stow, oh USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 6:42 AM CDT

I wish there were words that I could offer to bring you some peace. Just know that your family has been and will continue to be in my prayers.
Laura Lynn and my two little miracle nephews: www.caringbridge.org/visit/asherandjacob <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Hollidaysburg, Pa - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 6:28 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark, and Family,
I am so deeply sorry for the loss and pain you are now going through with the passing of little Frankie. Your family will continue in our prayers. A loving and faithful family was Frankie's gift in her short life. Some children don't see this much love in a lifetime. And some never see the love of God that your family and friends have so shared. I am glad you were able to be together on Easter day. Frankie now sees the resurrection. God be with you.
debbi lowry <dlowry@neo.rr.com>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 6:03 AM CDT

I am so sorry for your loss. I know Frankie is a special little angel and I can't help but think that Sister Jordan is rocking her and holding her in heaven.
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
AKron, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:58 AM CDT

My dear Mark, Jean and children,

I am so sorry that Francesca has passed on....such a little angel and a figher..........and how she brought us all together and reminded us of what is truly important in life........each other....I share your sorrow and am in tears of your loss....Gina, you are remarkable to be able to carry on and help where you are needed........you are just like your Mom ........amazing...I am with you in prayers........and I like all the others know there ia a saint in heaven who will be with all of us, but especialy her wonderful family. Blesssings and Love,
Mary Jo
Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:46 AM CDT

Dearest Mark, Jean and family;

Words cannot express our deepest condolences to each and everyone of you. Frankie was a fighter to the end, she will be well received in Heaven by all of our loved ones who will continue to look after her until we are all united once again. Frankie was so blessed to have such a warm, loving and giving family of siblings and parents who never gave up. You are all remarkable and will be lifted up in prayer around the world. May God give you daily strength. Love,
Anne Marie and Mary Ellen <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, Oh - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:35 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Mark and family,
I cannot begin to express what is in my heart. I felt that Frankie was my family too.

We must remember that we do not always know the reasons for what happens. We must trust in the Lord our God to know best. This is probably the hardest thing to do right now.

Frankie was a very special little girl who united people from all over the world to pray for her and your family. In the past 2 1/2 years we all became like one big family.

Gina, you are a very brave girl to update the site so many times when your mom could not. Thank you for doing a very hard thing that meant a lot to so many people.

Please know that there are thousands who have prayed and will continue to pray for all of you.

Peace be with you and the assurance that she is now with the Lord our God and her suffering is no more.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 5:19 AM CDT

Mark, Jean and Children:
Words cannot express how deeply sadden
we are by Frankie's passing. Heaven now
has another beautiful Little Angel with
them, free of pain and able to drink to
her heart's content. We take comfort in
knowing that my Dad, Sister Jordan and
Mr. Schubert were there to greet her and
will now take over watching her until we
all see her again someday. Our deepest
sympathy to your entire family. We love
you all. Hugs and kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 4:59 AM CDT

Dear Mark and Jean,
Frankie's death leaves me speechless and in tears. Losing a beautiful, sweet daughter like Frankie is too difficult to imagine. She fought so hard. I remember meeting her for the first time when she was first born and how she stunned everyone by beating the odds and looking so perfectly healthy. I remember the joy on your face when the day came to take her home. She lived as long as she did because of the incredible love and care she received from her family. Though Frankie's time here was short, her presence touched many lives. May her memory forever be a blessing.
So much love and many prayers are being sent your way. I will be in touch.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, April 11, 2007 4:58 AM CDT

Dearest Mark & Jean:

I was truly at a lost for words and my heart was deeply sadden by the news of the Little Angel. Our prayers and sympathy is with you and your family. She was so precious and even though I had never met her it was if I had known her. She will always have a special place in my heart. Mark I want you to know that you and Jean are very special too.

May God Comfort & Keep You!!!!

Love Sharon Sanders & Family
Sharon Sanders <skeels@portagefamilies.org>
Ravenna, Oh USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 0:54 AM CDT

To all your family I offer my deepest sympathies. There are just no words that are adequate at a time like this. Just know that in the short time Frankie was on this Earth, she loved and was loved.

Larry Bartlett <eljaybee63@aol.com>
Modesto, CA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 0:43 AM CDT

We are SO sorry for your loss. You all are, have been, and will be, in our prayers. Your family's faith has been huge and an inspiration to all of us. God's Love has flowed through you throughout this journey, and now we believe God, through his Grace, has finally broght His Peace to Francesca.

Robb & Marie Kaufman (2nd Cousin Tristan's Grandparents) <rkaufman1@neo.rr.com>
Stow, OH - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 0:23 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
I know that nothing that anyone says
will make your loss easier but
remember that we all love you
very much and will be praying for you.
Frankie is so fortunate to have
a family that loves her so very much.
I have always said that God wanted
the best family he could find for
Frankie, that is why He sent her to
be a Frisone -- the best brothers and
sisters,grandparents,aunts,uncles,
cousins -- and a Mom and Dad who fought
for her with all of their strength.
Be at peace sweet Frankie and watch
over them all. We love you.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 11:26 PM CDT

I am truly at a loss for words, I dont know what to say except I am here for all of you if you need anything and I am praying for you nonstop. I love you all so very much. Please remember that and don't hesitate to call me.
much love,
josephine
Josephine <Josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, Oh - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 11:04 PM CDT

We are so very,very sorry. Having two sons in heaven, we understand your pain. We thank God for such a sweet little soul who touched so many in such a short time. As with us, may the tears you shed be tears of hope as well as sorrow. God bless you all.
The Marcin Family <the4marcins@hotmail.com>
Akron, Ohio USA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 11:01 PM CDT

Words are inadequate. Thank you for sharing the gift of your little angel with us. She has blessed so many and we all mourn with you and pray for you all, with broken but faithful hearts.
A St. Matthias Parishioner
Parma, OH - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 10:37 PM CDT

I know that nothing we say can really help you tonight, but there are many of us who will continue to care about, and pray for your family.
Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 10:20 PM CDT

That was very brave of you Gina to write that. I know how difficult it must be for you. People all over the world are praying for you and your family and crying with you. Frankie was very special to a lot of people.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 10:15 PM CDT

I am so very sorry. We will continue to keep all of you in our heartfelt prayers!
Donna Marie Tapp
NJ - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 10:03 PM CDT

Dearest Family, Frankie is now where our God can hold her and give her life free of worldly pain. She will live on forever in the hearts of thousands. She is an eternal light that will shine for so many, especially me. This hasn't turned out the way I wanted it to and though I wanted it to be so different I must trust. You are loved and my prayers continue. Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 9:54 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family, Those of us left here without Frankie are suffering and sad, but thankfully Francesca is no longer suffering. We loved her so very much and will always cherish every moment we had with her, August 26th Rick and Frankie's birthday - she'll always be a part of our life. Now, we pray for the family who will miss her loving face. Our memories are what we have and will always cherish. Francesca Jordan and Sister Jordan Haddad will watch over us. Goodnight Frankie.
Rick and Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 8:42 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family, Frankie is now in heaven with our Dear Lord in the loving Arms of Jesus. She is no longer in pain. She is her happy self smiling. You have your own angel to pray for you now. God picked you to give Him a very special angel. It is very hard for you now. But know that she is happy in Heaven and wants you to be happyfor her. Our prayers are with you to give you strength in this time of mourning. We also shed tears for you. Joe and Ruthann Hydeg
Ruth Ann Hydeg <rahydeg@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Oh summit - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 8:27 PM CDT

Praying for you right now!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 7:30 PM CDT

GINA,
You are a GREAT BIG Sister and helper to your Mom, Dad and Frankie. Thanks for keeping all of us updated. WE PRAY for all of you!!!
Love, Melissa, Larry ( Dad's friend from Law school) and Samantha
BENNETT FAMILY <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 6:07 PM CDT

Prayers pouring out for all of you, from St. Matthias' prayer chain...stay strong, body and spirit, Frankie.
Parishioner at St. Matthias
Parma, OH - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 5:14 PM CDT

Dear Frisone family,
I am thinking and praying for you
and your entire family. God Bless.

Sharon Pollock <gpollock@neo.rr.com>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 4:33 PM CDT

Gena,
Thank you for the update. I will pray harder for Frankie and call my church to put her on the prayer chain.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 4:07 PM CDT

Dear Jean and Mark,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Love,
Claudette Rogers <papiamento1968@aol.com>
Ravenna, OH USA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 4:01 PM CDT

Hello Mark & Jean:

The United Church of Jesus Christ prayers are always with you. Jean, you are a great inspiration to all mothers and your faith is so awesome in Our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ, the one that is able to keep us all no matter what test we have to go through.I know that you have even been strength to your wonderful husband, Mark. SMILE!
We are fasting tomorrow for one of my volunteers who is pregnant and she has problems carring children. We will be meeting down at our church at 4:30 and I will certainly remember the Little Angel, Francesca.

God Bless and keep you both in his mercy & grace
Love
Sharon Sanders
Sharon Sanders <skeels@portagefamilies.org>
Ravenna, Ohio USA - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 4:00 PM CDT

Jean and Mark,
Keep strong for you are not alone. The Lord walks with you. We all pray for you daily, many times daily.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 3:19 PM CDT

Our hearts and prayers are with your family and dear little Frankie!
Sue Cimino <ravennafrank@aol.com>
Ravenna, ohio usa - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 2:58 PM CDT

Our prayers continue for Frankie, the children, Mark and you,Jean. I am at a loss for words on what to say. I speak of you often and continue to share Frankie's story with as many people as will listen. I share her picture and ask for prayers. I actually met Pam from the mentoring program at Children. She was on a panel of mothers that spoke at a conference that I attended. I started talking about care givers and referenced you. Pam knew exactly who you were. Jean you have an amazing family all the way around. God Bless and know that you will not carry that cross alone!
Tricia Jones <tricia.jones@sbcglobal.net>
Brimfield, Ohio Portage - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 2:48 PM CDT

Praying for you and your family is the easy part. Finding words to encourage you all in this battle is impossible for those of us who can't imagine your fortitude.
Lynne Shannon <Lynnetony@sbcglobal.net>
Stow , Ohio - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 1:26 PM CDT

Jean and Mark,
How awful for Frankie, both of you and all the children. Are you able to give her the lemon swabs to moisten her mouth? Or suckers?

It may seem that there is no end in sight. But I know that the Lord is with you, walking with you, carrying you when necessary and loving you.

Remember the poem "Footprints". No matter what happens He is always with you. He will not forsake you or leave you without hope.

Please know that hundreds are praying for Frankie, you and your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 8:56 AM CDT

Dear Jean, I wish I had just the right words to
convey how I feel. I admire you so much.
Francesca is so incredibly lucky to
have you as her mother, care-taker - as
are the other children. They are very
special and I'm sure they understand the
need for you to give your attention to
Frankie.
There was a prayer in the Plain
Dealer Sunday in Regina Brett's column.
Part of it read - But I believe that the desire
to please you does in fact please you.. I
will trust you always though I may seem to
be lost.. I will not fear, for you are ever
with me, and you will never leave me to face my
perils alone. God is with you and Frankie.
Love, Terri <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 8:02 AM CDT

Dear Jean and family,
Prayers continue and know how loved you are and that Frankie remains in the hearts and prayers of so many every day. Jean you are so tired and weary with worry though you still find time to witness to so many people every day.
Thank you for your strong faith and for inviting us to be a small part of Frankie's journey. She is never far from so many hearts and minds. I trust that God will reveal His plan and provide you with what you need. Frankie and your family are constantly in my prayers. Sandy

sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, ohio usa - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 7:26 AM CDT

Jean: The main thing is that you and
Frankie are HOME!! The children will
understand that she needs alot of
extra care right now but they have their
Mom and little sister HOME. You are an
awesome woman and mom and am so proud to
call you my friend. Love to all of you!
Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 6:05 AM CDT

Jean,
I was away for a week and am sorry to see that Frankie is still having such difficulties. On top of all that you are doing for Frankie, I know you are feeling very torn with not being able to give more of your time to the others. Your children are watching and seeing what an incredible mother you are. Though they may regret the lack of attention today, they are learning that the love and care you give stops at nothing. Your stength is amazing. God loves you and is with you always. I'm continually praying for Frankie's comfort and healing, for the wisdom to know what Frankie needs and for the doctors to know how to get her healthy.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 4:41 AM CDT

Hi Jean and Frisone family - Just wanted you to know that I am thinking of all of you!
Take care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL 60202 - Monday, April 9, 2007 7:29 PM CDT

Jean: Just know that you are in our
thoughts and prayers daily. I hope
Frankie's stay at the Clinic will not
be a long one. Sending lots of hugs
and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, April 9, 2007 6:05 PM CDT

Our prayers are with you in this uncertain time.

Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Monday, April 9, 2007 6:05 PM CDT

Praying for you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Monday, April 9, 2007 5:54 PM CDT

Dear Jean, I heard Frankie had to
return to the Clinic this morning.
Just checking to see if there was
an update on how she is.
I'm praying it was just a small setback
and possibly you're back home. Easter
for us was very quiet. Our family could
not make it so we invited our
neighbors over who have no family
here. I pray for continued strength for
you and comfort for Frankie. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, April 9, 2007 3:19 PM CDT

Hi Jean and Mark
I will pray daily if not twice a day! I hope to see all of you soon.
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Monday, April 9, 2007 1:36 PM CDT

Praying for you, Frankie, and the family. This is tough stuff -- no platitudes for you today, just prayers and sacrifices. :-( I am hoping, hoping, hoping that the next update will be a good one.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
- Monday, April 9, 2007 1:28 PM CDT

Hi Jean, this is Erin Carpenter writing. I met you when we were in Cleveland about a month ago with our son Gabriel. My husband Jeff introduced us. ( I am the mother of five, I talked with you in the play room ) I just wanted to tell you that we have been thinking about you all and been praying for Francesca. I know this is so difficult for you and your family and I will pray for you guys. I pray things will get so much better for you all and you will have some rest and peace at home.
Erin Carpenter <erinjeff5@adelphia.net>
Greeneville, TN USA - Monday, April 9, 2007 11:56 AM CDT

I just wanted to write to let you know we continue to think of you everyday and we are so inspired by all of the strength your family has shown.
Jenn & Andy Matlack <jmatlack01@yahoo.com>
Twinsburg, OH - Monday, April 9, 2007 11:39 AM CDT

Jean, Frankie and Family,

We could not help but think of you all day yesterday and pray for a miracle. We'll continue keeping you in our hearts and prayers.
The Sangston Family
Rooststown, OH USA - Monday, April 9, 2007 8:26 AM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that things are going a little smoother for Frankie and all of you.

Praying that the Lord in His glory and mercy will bring healing to Frankie and peace to all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 9, 2007 6:44 AM CDT

Gina, you made a great disciple in the play Friday! I hope that you and your family have a great and blessed Easter.
God bless,
The Dregers
Kyle
- Sunday, April 8, 2007 6:27 PM CDT

Hoping for improvements for Frankie, peace for her mummy and family, and a return home very soon
Sue Maxen
St Albans, UK - Sunday, April 8, 2007 4:07 PM CDT

Continuing to keep you all in prayer on this Easter day.
Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, Ohio USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 4:04 PM CDT

Thinking of all of you with much love and prayers this Easter day and throughout this Easter season.
God bless.
Pete and Dolly <jhaught4@yahoo.com>
Kent, Ohio - Sunday, April 8, 2007 3:37 PM CDT

Praying for your situation on this glorious day - He is risen!!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 2:39 PM CDT

Jean, Mark and family
A blessed Easter to each and everyone of you.
May today bring you renewed strength and
comfort as you continue the path of unknown.

Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Sunday, April 8, 2007 12:09 AM CDT

Mark and Jean,
Angelo,Anthony,Guisseppi,Gina,
Maria,Dominic,Sophia,Mario,Frankie,
Rita,Marlene,Tony and your families,
Sending you all love and prayers
and hugs on this Easter Morning.
You are all in our constant
thoughts and prayers.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Sunday, April 8, 2007 9:49 AM CDT

Jean and Mark: Today we celebrate and rejoice
for our Lord has Risen but somehow celebrating
just doesn't seem right as all of you continue
to go through so much. We will remember all
of you in our Easter prayers today and as always.
We love you all. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Sunday, April 8, 2007 9:38 AM CDT

The tomb is empty;
The Lord is not there; He is risen!
Praying that the miracle of Easter morning fills your
hearts with hope and joy and in a physical way heals
our little angel's heart.
Getting to see you and Frank at home was a blessing and
joy to us. I was particulary grateful to hold her
and feel her small hand pat my back as I patted her.
Being with her has renewed my spirit and invigorated my prayers for her and the entire family.

Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Sunday, April 8, 2007 7:49 AM CDT

Jean, Mark and family,
Wishing you a HAPPY EASTER filled with miracles, love, joy and hope.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 8, 2007 7:06 AM CDT

Dear Frisone Family, Our prayers continue for you today, Easter Sunday. We love you.
Rick and Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Sunday, April 8, 2007 6:32 AM CDT

Mark, Jean, Angelo, Anthony, Guisseppi,
Gina, Maria, Dominic, Sophia, Mario,
and Francesca,
Tucked in your Easter Basket is lots
of Love and prayers from people who
are close and those around the world
we may never meet.
I pray that your hearts are
lifted by all the promise in
this Easter day.
Your eggs are so beautiful,
yes, even the "pewckie green" one.
HAPPY EASTER,
I Love You,
Grahamcracker
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 3:43 AM CDT

Dear Jean, I continue to remember you all in my prayers. May God continue to give you courage and strength for each new day. You truly are an amazing mother and you have an amazing family! Love, Karen
Karen Pippin <kpippin@yahoo.com>
Louisville, Oh USA - Saturday, April 7, 2007 11:50 PM CDT

Jean,
Praying for Frankie and for all
of your family. I also pray that
you continue to have the strength
you need to care for her.
You are an amazing Mom.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Saturday, April 7, 2007 10:46 PM CDT

Jean,
I am praying that your family will have a blessed Easter tomorrow.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 7, 2007 8:03 PM CDT

Prayers have continued daily. Happy Easter to all the Frisones.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@potagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, April 7, 2007 7:52 PM CDT

Jean,
Continuing to pray for Frankie that these new meds will work. Happy Easter to you and your whole family. Hopefulley I will be back to work full speed within the next 2-3 weeks. Missed seeing you this week. God bless you all.
Liz
Liz Flaker <eaf25@hotmail.com>
Akron, oh - Saturday, April 7, 2007 7:28 PM CDT

As I reflect on April 8, 1988, the day our precious Kristen Leigh left her earthly life for a heavenly one, and look forward to tomorrow, Easter, the new beginning, I'll pray for your family for such. May the doctors receive the guidance they need for Frankie's care. May your short visit home give you the strength to carry on. May God's grace befall you all.
Flip Eavenson <jfkacres@aol.com>
Aurora, OH - Saturday, April 7, 2007 6:06 PM CDT

Dear, Jean and Family,
We think of and pray for the whole Frisone family. Our fingers are crossed that the new meds help keep Francesca dry and enable her to breath much better. We also pray for several healthy long nights of restfull sleep for ALL of you!! Thank you for taking your valuable time to update all of us. We would love to see the ENTIRE family in Philly again once Francesca is feeling better.
LOVE, The Bennetts
Melissa, Larry and Sam Rose <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
Cherry HIll, NJ - Saturday, April 7, 2007 6:01 PM CDT

Jean, I've been checking your site all day hoping for some good news. I am so sorry you have to spend Easter in the hospital. We are continuing to pray all the time for Frankie. She is never ever far from my thoughts.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Saturday, April 7, 2007 5:58 PM CDT

I'm with Linda. Praying no news is good news!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Saturday, April 7, 2007 2:25 PM CDT

This last update was not what I wanted to read--possible readmission being possible. One thing that your family seems to know and practice is not to let ANYTHING harden their heart. We are all praying.
Eileen Burg <eileenburg@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH USA - Saturday, April 7, 2007 12:34 AM CDT

Jean: I'm hoping that the reason there is
no new update is because you are busy
getting ready for Easter. That is what
I am telling myself. Our thoughts are
constantly with you all and also our prayers.
Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Saturday, April 7, 2007 12:10 AM CDT

We are so sorry to hear your little darling is not doing well. We can remember when our Jacob was on a life and death roller coaster and each day brought new challenges to our hearts and faith. Know we are praying for Frankie and the whole family for peace and God's grace.

Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl usa - Saturday, April 7, 2007 10:10 AM CDT

Jean, I'm hoping that Frankie did not get re-admitted, but realize that most likely she did. You remain so strong looking at the positive - Frankie and you being able to spend a bit of time at home. Some is better than none. We're continuing to pray for all of you knowing how uncertain each day is for your entire family. All of our love,
Rick and Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Saturday, April 7, 2007 9:03 AM CDT

Jean,
Still praying for a good update.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 7, 2007 7:37 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that the next update will be good news. Praying that Frankie has rallied from her ordeal.

Frankie is on our prayer chain at church.

May God walk beside you on this Holy Saturday.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, April 7, 2007 6:39 AM CDT

Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Saturday, April 7, 2007 1:12 AM CDT

We continue to pray for all of you.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Friday, April 6, 2007 10:32 PM CDT

Dear Jean and Mark,
Our prayers continue that Francesca will be stabilized
and that your faith will not be shaken.
All our love to you!
Tim and Linda DeFrange <timlin@neo.rr.com>
Kent, OH United States - Friday, April 6, 2007 9:22 PM CDT

Dear Jean - we are all praying for you and Frankie. Are thankful for your time at home this week. Love - Debbie
Debbie Brumfield <dbrumfield@neo.rr.com>
- Friday, April 6, 2007 9:21 PM CDT

Praying for the Frisone family!
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
akron, OH - Friday, April 6, 2007 2:53 PM CDT

Jean,
Praying that all is holding steady with Frankie.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 6, 2007 2:09 PM CDT

Mark, Jean & Family-
We were so sorry to read of Frankie's set back. May God reach out to you and her and provide Frankie with the best health she can possibly have. We hope Frankie's journey to wellness does not take her back to the hospital as an in-patient any time soon. We know you will continue to trust in the Lord because his mercy endures forever.
Patty Cooper, Dianne Jackson & Denise Gehring <pcoopergapp@alltel.net>
Chardon, OH - Friday, April 6, 2007 12:47 AM CDT

I will have Francesca on my heart today as I listen to the story of Christ's passion. He will carry you.
Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 6, 2007 11:10 AM CDT

Jean: I'm praying that Frankie will not
have to return to the Clinic. Having her
home these few days as probably done her
a world of good and also for the entire
family. Our love and thoughts are sent
your way. Hugs and Kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, April 6, 2007 7:42 AM CDT

Jean,
What ever happens this day, God will be with you. I am so sorry to read that Frankie may have to go back into the hospital. Hopefully, her short home time will strengthen her and you as well to endure more hospital time.

I will ask my church to put her on the prayer chain later this morning.
LOVE,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, April 6, 2007 5:11 AM CDT

Jean,
I pray that this day has brought your family wonderful memories of being together and sharing in Frankie's being home.
I pray that tomorrow will bring improvement in Frankie's strength and your endurance.
May God watch over all of you this night,
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 5, 2007 9:07 PM CDT

Gina-
Thank you for brightening my day with your extremely entertaining updates-and for lightening the load for your mom. You don't know me(I work at a place named GAPP, but it isn't the clothing store), but I know your dad. You are very talented: God has definitely given you a gift for the written word, and you are putting it to good use!
All three of us here at GAPP are so happy that Frankie and your mom are home for Easter. We wish you a blessed Easter season and miles of smiles for you and your siblings.
Patty Cooper, Dianne Jackson & Denise Gehring <pcoopergapp@alltel.net>
Chardon, OH - Thursday, April 5, 2007 7:28 PM CDT

Gina, thanks for the update. Ever thought about a career in journalism? hi to Frankie.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, April 5, 2007 5:02 PM CDT

Dear Frankie and family,
PRAISE GOD, PRAISE GOD, PRAISE GOD...THANK YOU LORD FOR YOUR LOVE AND MIRACLES, THANK YOU GOD FOR FRANKIE AND FAMILY, THANK YOU LORD JESUS FOR YOUR HEALING POWERS AND FOR THE GIFT OF COMMUNITY....PRAISE GOD!!!!!!!!!!
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh 44240 - Thursday, April 5, 2007 4:15 PM CDT

Everyone at the Frisone Household - We are so glad
that Frankie is back home again. Although most of
us will be sad for what tomorrow brings, in our
hearts we are rejoicing that Frankie is home. On
Sunday as we celebrate Easter, we will also celebrate
Frankie and all of you. You all continue to be in
our thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to see Frankie
and all the other kids!! Hugs and kisses.
Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. Remember - when the weather turns warm,
we are coming over on the Harley and getting that
picture!!

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, April 5, 2007 2:43 PM CDT

Dear Frisone Family,
Just got back from a mini vacation and couldn't believe all the wonderful news. God certainly heard our prayers and answered them!! It must be a relief for you Jean to be home (even with all the chaos)and surrounded by all your children. What a blessing! We continue to pray for Frankie's complete recovery. May our Risen Lord shower your family with many blessings during this Easter season. With love, Mary
Mary Rodenbucher <Sportsmom@neo.rr.com>
Randolph, OH - Thursday, April 5, 2007 2:28 PM CDT

Jean and Gina, Thank you Gina for such a
vivid description of the day. I loved
the ending - that Frankie is back home.
I hope everyone has a great day today,
even with the cold and snow.
Enjoy being together. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Thursday, April 5, 2007 8:28 AM CDT

Gina,
Wow! What a vivid imagination you have and what a talent for writing. Thank you for an informative and amusing update. It is very healthy to laugh and you give us this gift every time you write. God bless you.
Linda Lauck

Jean,
I guess Frankie knew what she was doing in pulling out her pic line. I'm so glad that it all turned out so well. I pray that your family has a wonderful and blessed Easter.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, April 5, 2007 7:42 AM CDT

Thank you for the very creative update, Gina! I'm so happy to hear everyone is home in time for the Easter Bunny! A very Blessed Easter to you all!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 10:45 PM CDT

Hi Gina and Jean! Gina I love your updates!
You are quite a writer! I am glad to hear Frankie is
home and everything went well at the hospital today.
I am sure Frankie is really enjoying the entertainment
of her siblings!
Take Care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 8:41 PM CDT

Jean,
I am so very glad that Frankie did not have to be re-admitted. I am so very touched by your mom's telling of how your wonderful family has pulled together to love Frankie. She is indeed a special child.
Please know that I pray for her daily, along with my husband and our church.
MAy God continue to bless you always.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 4, 2007 7:54 PM CDT

I am watching your updates and praying for all the best and that your supporting and loving family have wonderful moments to share with Frankie.
Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl usa - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 1:18 PM CDT

When the children were little,
we used to pray, very simply,
God is great, God is good.
I echo those words today.
I just spoke with Maria and Jean,
they are on their way home.
I just can hardly believe it.
They are going to try all Lasix
by mouth.
We shared tears of joy,
and thanksgiving.
Frankie will get her labs drawn
at Akron Childrens.
THANK YOU JESUS!
Jean will update as soon as she can.
Blessings to each and every one of you,
Rita
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 1:13 PM CDT

Jean is pulling into the Clinic as I write this update.
Home is everything held in those 4 letters of LOVE.
And all those images we held in our minds hope came
true for Monday and Tuesday.
Angels of mercy to lend helping hands made
the transition possible.
Jean remained focused on Frankie's care,
which honestly took 100% of her best care
plus back up. If you can picture Frankie
surrounded by the children, little and big
laying next to her, cuddling or entertaining.
Best medicine she has had.
Grandma and Pappy being able to be there,
Uncle Benny talking with her.
Children always in and out of her room,
all very life giving.
All day medical equipment, nursing evaluations,
and other cars came and went. Late eve.
I was able to sit and rock Frankie,
almost asleep, Mark was returning from
his board meeting. Her eyes were closed,
I don't know how she even saw the lights of
his car begining to turn into the drive.
But she sat straight up and said,
"That's Daddy home!" With a big grin.

The challenge of Frankie's care
brought Grandma to tears more than once.
To see Jean so extended overwhelmes me. We
rely totally on the grace of God,
all the prayer warriors and
faithful people He has given this family.

During the night Frankie pulled out her pick line.
Her next I.V. med was not due till 10a.m.
So when Jean called the Fellow, she was directed
to bring her this morning.
Frankie remains so very fragile. I know with all
the prayers Jean and Mark will be able to make
the right decisions.
This may mean a readmission.
Jean will give an update asap
or maybe we will be lucky enough to hear
it from Gina.

We remain hopeful in this Blessed Season,
Thank God for each of you,
Keep you in all our prayers,
and wish you a Happy Easter,
Grandma
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 9:57 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that all is well at home.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 4, 2007 6:32 AM CDT

Gina, thanks for the great announcement!
We could hear the happiness in your words!!
Enjoy being all together at home again!!!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 10:16 PM CDT

We are jumping for joy! Home for Easter, YAY!! I think Gina's right, the depression, if any, will wear off quickly with so many wonderful and loving family members around. Get stronger, Frankie. We will continue praying and watching for updates.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 9:02 PM CDT

Such great news that Natalie shared at Lake Cable prayer group today. You were on our Praise and Prayer list, and will continue to be. May God continue to bless Frankie with strength and healing. Easter blessings to your family.
deb lowry <dlowry@neo.rr.com>
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 8:19 PM CDT

Such great news to read that Frankie
is home and your family is all together
again! Praise and glory to God!
Prayers will continue for Frankie to get
better every day.

Prayer Warrior
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 7:25 PM CDT

Dear The Entire Frisone Family,
We were thrilled to read Gina's wonderful update of Frankie and Mom's return home. May you all be blessed and have a Happy Easter together.

Love, Melissa, Larry and Samantha Rose Bennett

Bennett Family <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 7:18 PM CDT

I was so happy when M called and told me you was on your way home with Francesca. What great news. I will continue to pray for all of you and hope Francesca gets feeling back to normal real soon. It's been a long haul. Hang in there. Have a Blessed Easter and thanks to Gina for the nice update. love to all,
Nancy <Nance1029@aol.com>
Akron, Ohio USA - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 3:21 PM CDT

Home for Easter! How wonderful!
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 2:39 PM CDT

Gina and everyone! This is fantastic news! Nothing like the medicine of love and family! Happy Easter!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 2:08 PM CDT

Gina, this is the news we have all been waiting for and no one could have written it better than you!! Surely, you are a talented writer who knows how to capture the reader's heart. I'm hoping that your Grandma Warner will introduce us--perhaps by allowing me to take you both out to dinner some time in May when I am in Stow? Thank you. My thoughts and prayers remain with all you--it has been such a blessing to read the journal. I can't imagine how many hearts have been opened with the sharing of this journey!
Eileen Burg <eileenburg@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH USA - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 11:40 AM CDT

what great news!!! Thanks for the update Gina! You all remain in my prayers, but now each night,I can send them all in one direction!
Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 9:35 AM CDT

Enjoy, Enjoy!! We are so happy for you all.
Have a great day, and special thanks to Gina!
Tim and Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 9:30 AM CDT

Jean & Frankie,

Of all the blessings the Lord has graced us with during this Holy Week, your homecoming tops the list. I am overjoyed to hear that both of you are back where you belong, and I pray for continued healing for Frankie, so you can stay there.

I used the two of you as a frame of refference just this morning. Luke's allergies, and subsequent Asthma attack, have forced us to pur him temporarily back on the Steroids. When Luke is on steroids... Let's just say Crazy Toddler on Rocket Fuel... Litterally Bouncing off the walls. When we were talking about the lack of sleep brought on by this unfortunate circumstance, all either of us could do is think of you and your last 2 1/2 months. Again providing abundant perspective.

Gina... Great job on the update! Keep em comming, your literary prowess makes me smile!

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 9:14 AM CDT

Hello to the Frisone household. How wonderful for you to all be together again. Our prayers will continue. Thanks for the update Gina!
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 8:34 AM CDT

Ahhh - that's really good news!! Yayyyy!!!
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 8:32 AM CDT

Jean and Frankie: WELCOME HOME!!! What
a wonderful update to read this morning!
Gina, you did a tremendous job filling
in for Mom. I think you should be an
author when you grow up and write many
a book!! This is the best Easter present
anyone could ask for. Our continued
prayers and thoughts will be coming your
way. Hugs and kisses to everyone!
Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 8:28 AM CDT

I am thrilled that the family is together again!!!!!!!!!! There really is "no place like home!"
Good job with the update Gina! Thanks!
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
Akron, - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 7:45 AM CDT

Gina,
What a delightful update. You did an awesome job! Thank you.
Linda Lauck

Jean,
How wonderful you are home at last. After all that time and just like that you're home. It must have seemed like a dream.
I pray that things are better for Frankie and all of you. Just being home is an answer to a prayer. I'm sure Frankie will make a speedier recovery now that she is in familiar surroundings.

Thank God, Thank God, Thank God!

He is all we need to see us through tough times.
May He continue to bless your family and bring healing to Frankie.
Love,
Linda Lauck
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 7:28 AM CDT

Hi Jean, My prayers are for your strength this morning. I know bringing Francesca home is going to be a very big job for you. Lucky for Frankie that her mom is so wise. Being home sounds great,but it will be a 24/7 job for you taking care of Frankie. You will do a great job,trust in yourself. I hope somehow all works out and you can keep Frankie home for more than just a few moments. God bless all of you during yet another transition. I was so happy to see you,Frankie, and Maria last week. I have cherished Frankie's little smile,and sense of humor since then. What an amazingly strong child she is! Call if I can do anything to help when you get home. Love, Patti
Patti Kraynack <pak4881@yahoo.com>
Stow, - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 5:44 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that all is well and you are closer to going home.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 3, 2007 4:36 AM CDT

Jean, Mark and Family,
Praying that you have good days together!!!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, April 2, 2007 10:28 PM CDT

Jean and Mark:

Our prayers are with you and your family.

God Bless!
Dan and Linda Fuline <danjfu@aol.com>
Louisville, Oh USA - Monday, April 2, 2007 12:42 AM CDT

Hi Jean and Mark,
My prayers and hopes for your family continue. I sure hope you two can get some rest. You have an amazing family! I know you will be glad to have Frankie home with all her sibs to dote on her! Take care and know John and I are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers.
Love,
Jane
Jane Gwinn <jgwinnaps@yahoo.com>
Kent, Oh USA - Monday, April 2, 2007 10:41 AM CDT

Hi Jean,

Good news about the discharge. I think the psychological benefit of being around the family, will far surpass any of the potential downsides. I'm just happy for you, because you will have the rest of your family around to lift you up when you need it.

We'll keep praying. Please let me know if you need anything.
I will keep in touch with Mamie to see where she thinks we can help.

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Monday, April 2, 2007 9:58 AM CDT

Dear Jean, I am so thankful Frankie was weaned and it went well. Though I wish she could get better quickly so she can come home, I know it will happen according to God's schedule. Unfortunately, patience is so hard to have after such a very long time in the hospital. Continued prayers for a home coming very soon. Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Monday, April 2, 2007 7:27 AM CDT

Jean,
I read a book this weekend called "The Old Rugged Cross" by Catherine Ritch Guess. There was a part of the book I want to share with you, it states:

"When God wants you to know, you'll know. Think of Him as the bridge-builder. He lays the planks out in front of you one at a time as you need to step forward. You can't go any faster than He wants you to go, and He will get you to your destination safely."

These words spoke to me in a special way. Once again, not in our time, but in God's time. That is so hard to follow because we want what we want when we want it.

Then this morning in my devotional reading I read:

Humans may fail us, but the Lord is always there to help us. God is the armor of our lives and supports us when we cannot support ourselves. The Almighty is all-mighty. When no one else can help us and we cannot help ourselves, God stands by us. God's promise to help us is true regardless of the circumstances of our lives.

I hope that these words give you strength and hope. I pray that the news today will be positive and that it will be a step closer to home.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 2, 2007 7:08 AM CDT

Jean: Okay - we are one step closer to getting
you both home. Hurray!!! Having Frankie home in
familiar surroundings and with all her family and
friends may just be the medicine she needs. How
can you not be happy with all those brothers and
sisters around you! Our continued prayers and
thoughts for a wonderful homecoming are coming
your way. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, April 2, 2007 6:33 AM CDT

Jean,
We are praying that all goes
well so that you and Frankie
can go home.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Sunday, April 1, 2007 11:17 PM CDT

Continued prayers that you will finally be coming home. Nothing like the Frisone household for a little peace and calm!! :) I bet the kids are so excited. I can see Gina now, cracking the whip, getting everything ship-shape! I'm off this week so let me know if you need anything. I am so anxious to hold Frankie again.
Debbi Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Sunday, April 1, 2007 9:23 PM CDT

Dear Jean and family - so glad that Frankie is making progress and you will all be at home together again soon!! You are in our prayers daily. Love - Debbie
Debbie Brumfield <dbrumfield@neo.rr.com>
Akron, Ohio - Sunday, April 1, 2007 6:14 PM CDT

I am overjoyed to hear how well the wean has gone and that you will be going home. As you know, most patients do much better when they are home and not dealing with the stress of being in the hospital. We were warned that Gabriel would need a lot of support at home, but he got stronger by the hour once we left the hospital. I pray the same will be true for Francesca.

During a bible study this morning you immediately came to mind when I heard these two points: "God leads us even when we're not aware of his leading." and "God has a purpose in what he does in the lives of those who love Him." God Bless you, Jean.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 5:58 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Rick and I returned home from Chicago late this afternoon. Alysa read me the update as we were driving home. Our prayer is that you and Frankie will go home tomorrow. We will be anxiously waiting to hear.
Love, Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Sunday, April 1, 2007 5:00 PM CDT

Yahoo Jean; The BEST medicine she could ever get for that broken heart is waiting for her at home. Love and attention from her siblings. I am so happy for you and for Frankie. Happy Easter girlfriend.
gloria gmerek
akron, oh summit - Sunday, April 1, 2007 4:10 PM CDT

Continued prayers for comfort, peace and strength. Added prayers for knowledge and wisdom as you try to get Frankie transitioned to home. My daughter prays each night at the end of her prayers for Jesus to help Frankie feel better.
We pray each day for you and your family!!
Rochelle Stein <rojf1@yahoo.com>
Krent, Ohio - Sunday, April 1, 2007 3:34 PM CDT

I am so happy to hear you and Frankie are coming home. Hopefully she will do better at her home so she won't have to be readmitted. Maybe being around the entire family in a comfortable environment will help her recovery. Still continuing to pray!!
Kaylee <crishub3@aol.com>
Akron, OH - Sunday, April 1, 2007 3:32 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
I am happy to read that Frankie will be heading home. I will pray for an uneventful evening so you can get home to the rest of the family. Take care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Sunday, April 1, 2007 2:38 PM CDT

Jean,
So glad to hear that Frankie is making some progress, but so sorry to hear her heart is not doing good. I pray ferevently that you can take her home even for a little while and get rested up for the next ordeal.
We had prayer for her again in church this morning.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 2:07 PM CDT

Dear Jean and family, Prayers and thoughts all day and night for Frankie to come through this like a champ. Prayers for more and more strength for you and your family. Lots of love, Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@man.com>
akron, oh usa - Sunday, April 1, 2007 11:41 AM CDT

Jean, Keeping the faith with you and for you...Sue
sue buskey <busksue@aol.com>
rootstown, oh - Sunday, April 1, 2007 11:28 AM CDT

So happy that Frankie is dealing with the weaning well. Hang in there Jean.Lots of people are pulling for you and Frankie.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Sunday, April 1, 2007 9:44 AM CDT

Thanking God right now that she is handling the wean! Praying for and waiting for more good news!
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 4:45 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that the change in meds
goes well and that you continue
to have the strength that you
need.
You are an amazing Mom!!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Saturday, March 31, 2007 10:10 PM CDT

A thread of spider silk has greater tensile strength
than steel of the same diameter, at the same time
being so elastic it can stretch more than
twenty-five percent of its normal
length before breaking.
Hang in there, Jean. "Hope means to keep
living amid desperation and to keep humming
in the darkness. Hoping is knowing that
there is love, it is trust in tomorrow...
As long as there is hope there
will also be prayer...
And God will be holding you in His hands." Henri Nouwen
Phil & Linda Marcin <the4marcins@hotmail.com>
Akron, o USA - Saturday, March 31, 2007 9:13 PM CDT

Hi Jean, this is Ann, Terri's mom. You have been in my thoughts & prayers so much lately and I wanted you to know. It is by God's grace that you can hold up so well day after day. He does tell us that He will never leave us, and His promises are so true. We have to experience it to know it. Prayer is so powerful and I will continue my prayers for you, and as always, pray His will, not ours.

Ann Ansel
Fairview Park, OHio - Saturday, March 31, 2007 9:13 PM CDT

Hang in there, Jean! So far so good....will keep praying!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Saturday, March 31, 2007 6:02 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Just checking in for an update. We're still in Chicago and will be traveling home tomorrow. Had a bit of a set-back while we were here but all is ok now. I'll fill you in later. You probably know what I'm talking about. I hope things are improving....maybe a bit closer to going home. Hope to get some news soon. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Saturday, March 31, 2007 5:41 PM CDT

Jean: Just read Friday's update. We have to trust
in Frankie's doctors that they know what is best.
I know you are concerned but know that many prayers
are being sent your way. We love you all. Hugs
and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Saturday, March 31, 2007 3:09 PM CDT

Jean,
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and Frankie today.
I saw "nurse Betty" this past week, and we shared some fun memories of Frankie and her spirited personality! She cares so much about Frankie too! We all do.

Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
AKron, Oh - Saturday, March 31, 2007 2:55 PM CDT

Dear Jean, After your update on Friday I know how worried you must be. My prayers are for the physicians and for you and Frankie. Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Saturday, March 31, 2007 12:29 AM CDT

Jean,
Continuing to pray for Frankie, You and all the family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 31, 2007 10:07 AM CDT

Dear mom,i am happy to say that we are coming up today.I am very surprised that they are taking her off of millronone.The preveous weeks have been fun.i hope you can come home soon.LOVE MARIA XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXO.
MARIA FRISONE <suffield7@aol.com>
Suffield, Ohio america - Saturday, March 31, 2007 7:41 AM CDT

Jean, I love you,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Saturday, March 31, 2007 7:18 AM CDT

Daer Jean and all the Frisones: Thinking of you today and every day. We are up for some kids to come over if they need a place to stay or just a place to visit and play. Would be happy to get them to and from school, too. I'll call your house and see if I can reach anyone. You are all so very special people. We are so blessed to have you as friends. AQll our love, The Lanshe gang.
Faith Lanshe <busymomlanshe@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 31, 2007 6:34 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that Frankie does well
this weekend and for your strength to
get through the weekend.
My Mom sends her love and
prayers too.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Friday, March 30, 2007 10:56 PM CDT

Frankie and family - so desperately praying for you to have even one thing go smoothly - How your family stays so strong, we may never understand, but remember that God also believes in you, just as much as you believe in Him. --Constant prayers from barrages of folks at St. Matthias.
St. Matthias Parishioner
Parma, OH - Friday, March 30, 2007 10:47 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
I just read the entry for today. I can certainly appreciate your fears, but we must believe that God has a plan and maybe this time it will work. I don't think Frankie could have more people praying for her. Everyone who knows her (and some who don't) has held her up before God in prayer. I look foreward to seeing you, Frankie and your whole family again soon.
Cindy Ringler (AKA "Cinny") <CiJo5258@Yahoo.com>
Tallmadge, Ohio - Friday, March 30, 2007 9:20 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
I am sorry to say I don't understand the logic.
Two times she's been weaned from milrinone and two times she's responded poorly. What did he think was going to be different this time? Can you give me this guy's pager number please, I am feeling the need to have a conversation with him.

OK. Just getting a little fiesty. Sorry. I want so much for you to bring that little angel home, as we all do who read and write on this site.

Keep us informed on how the night goes.

Jane

Dear God,
Please prove Dr. Latson right tonight.
Please protect Frankie's fragile heart and health
and allow her and her mommy to come home. In Jesus
precious name, we pray.
Amen

Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Friday, March 30, 2007 7:54 PM CDT

Jean,
Praying that there are no serious side effects from Frankie being withdrawing from the med. Hoping that you will indeed go home next week. I'm sure that is what you both need.
Will keep praying.
Love,
Linda
LInda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 30, 2007 5:52 PM CDT

Jean, Thinking of you as these next 24-48 hours will be adjustments for Frankie. I trust the Doctor knows what he is doing and I'm feeling he would not jeopardize Frankie's well-being. Praying for you!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, Oh - Friday, March 30, 2007 5:49 PM CDT

Jean,
I am praying for the wean off the the mil. to be quick and easy this time. Dr. Latson knows what he's doing and so many are lifting Frankie up to the Lord. I believe she will be discharged sooner than you think.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, March 30, 2007 3:44 PM CDT

Jean & family my prayers continue to be with you - especially this weekend as we see how Frankie adjusts to the changes the doctor initiated.
Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, Ohio USA - Friday, March 30, 2007 3:30 PM CDT

Dear Mark and Jean,
Although we are mothers ourselves, we cannot come close to feeling what you, Frankie and your family have been going through all these months. We know that you have put your trust in her treatment team and your faith in God and that, coupled with your deep, unfailing love and care for Frankie, will bring her to better health SOON. Keep the faith and trust in the Lord, healer of all ills.
Patty Cooper, Dianne Jackson & Denise Gehring <pcoopergapp@alltel.net>
Chardon, OH - Friday, March 30, 2007 3:16 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Thank you for the update. I can tell you are terrified what the results of taking Frankie off the heart medication could be. I'm sorry you have to go through that. Continue to have faith that God is guiding the physicians as they make treatment decisions for Frankie. Remember there are so many praying for Frankie, you and your family. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Friday, March 30, 2007 2:57 PM CDT

Jean,
Praying that Francesca had another good night last night and that she is much improved today.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 30, 2007 9:51 AM CDT

Dear Cousins,
I am so pleased Frankie had a better night & is feeling better. That is really encouraging news! I was reading a entry that your Mom had written about Mrs. Mudd & your kids prepping the soil for planting flowers. I have to admit that is hard for me to imagine, while we in Alaska have to wait until the end of May due to the perma-frost & having to harden off our plants before we can even consider planting. Even though our snow is melting fast we still have a lot of it on the ground & daytime highs are approx 33 degrees. It's been really sunny so it feels much warmer. My daughter Andrea volunteers at the downtown soup kitchen which is sponsored by our Church & I asked her during prayer time that they pray for Frankie so please know you are all in our thoughts & prayers.

God Bless!
Love, Your cousin Francine
Francine Miller (Frisone) <fmm.ak_seabreeze@yahoo.com>
Anchorage, Ak - Friday, March 30, 2007 2:04 AM CDT

Jean,
Hope today was a better day.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Thursday, March 29, 2007 10:35 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Alysa my mom and I are sitting together in Chicago looking at the update. We're glad to read that Francesca had a better night and hope that today is going well also. Rick and I will be here all weekend but we will check the web site and wait for your updates Thank you so much for keeping us in touch with what is happening.
Love, Terri <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Thursday, March 29, 2007 4:49 PM CDT

Dear mom ,I am at mrs.mudds house and we are staing for 2 days. and we are having sooooooooooooo much fun and after we go bouling we are going to the fleemarket.ILOVE YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH .XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXXOX
MARIA FRISONE <suffield7@aol.com>
Suffield, OH america - Thursday, March 29, 2007 4:23 PM CDT

I feel like I am a broken record, saying the same thing each time, but it is genuine - I am praying for you - I love the quote that you have up today - it is the Lord Himself who lifts us up in these times - may He continue to do so for you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Thursday, March 29, 2007 3:20 PM CDT

So pleased to hear today is a much better day! We all look forward to many more of those and you and Frankie getting home very soon!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Thursday, March 29, 2007 2:52 PM CDT

Jean: I will keep my fingers crossed
that all continues to go well with Frankie.
As always, you are in our thoughts and
prayers. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda
and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, March 29, 2007 2:50 PM CDT

Jean,
What wonderful news. Let's all pray that there will be many more for your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 29, 2007 1:08 PM CDT

Such positive news today! May today be the start of her trip home. We will continue to pray.
Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 29, 2007 10:43 AM CDT

Jean, I just wanted to let you know that we prayed for Frankie and the whole family in Bible Study last night. We are studying about the importance of the blood of Jesus and the life that was contained in that blood. The shedding of Jesus's blood was necessary for our salvation but it does a whole lot more than just to save us. It also protects, delivers, and heals. Daily, as Christians, we should plead the blood of Jesus over ourselves and our families. But it's not enough to say the words, you have to have the faith to believe that the life that is contained in the blood was from the Son of God. Thank you Jesus that Frankie had a better night! Hold on, stand fast, keep the faith.
Debbie
Debbie Cooper LPN Hattie Larlham Community Services <nfbandmom1@earthlink.net>
Newton Falls, OH - Thursday, March 29, 2007 10:11 AM CDT

Jean,
I hope you can hear the delight in Maria's voice!
How could you miss the enthusiasm.
I'm so glad she was able to convey the Spirit
that filled the house yesterday, and keeps on
for them today. St. Angie, I want to grow up to
be like you.
Jean, so good to talk to you. I need to imagine,
sitting on the edge of Jean and Gene's
lake and reflect on our vacation
to come.
I Thank God for you and
all the wonderful people
He has sent to uphold your
family,
Let us keep all their intentions
in our prayers this day,
I Love You,
Mom

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, ohio usa - Thursday, March 29, 2007 10:02 AM CDT

Jean,
How wonderful to know Frankie is having a good day. Praying for many more good reports.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Thursday, March 29, 2007 9:03 AM CDT

Jean,
What to say to you that
we haven't written before--
the thoughts are always the same
because we sincerely mean them.
We pray for Frankie and all the family
and for you and Mark that
you have the strength that
you need to get you through each day.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 10:31 PM CDT

Jean,
My heart goes out to you having to watch your child not doing well day after day. Please know that I hold you in my thoughts and prayers daily. I pray for an end to all the misery that Frankie has gone through.
May the Lord God keep her safe in His loving arms and givce you strength to face each day.
Love, Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 28, 2007 8:43 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
You would have delighted in the girls, cheerfully helping Mrs. Mudd and me, cooking and baking. Mrs Mudd makes everything light and fun. I must say I cried on her shoulder, laughed, and we all prayed the rosary together. Then the girls giggles came from outside while they were digging in the dirt, preparing to plant flowers. The boys seem to be doing very well. Might me due to the mega quantity of food they saw when they arrived home. Mrs. Mudd took the girl shopping for their Easter shoes and to her house for the night. They will go to Mass together.
They pray so fervently. I enjoyed their humor between decades, it reminded me of your name sake and I in high school. A beautiful day here at the Frisone home, but our hearts are with you.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio United States of America - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 6:18 PM CDT

Still praying continually.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, March 28, 2007 1:47 PM CDT

I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and Frankie today. I keep praying for a better day for Frankie!
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
Akron, Oh - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 1:15 PM CDT

Dear Jean, I can only imagine how difficult these days have been for you and Mark. My prayers are continuous for all of you.
Love, Terri <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 1:07 PM CDT

Jean: We love all of you so very much and are praying so strongly for you all. Please know that you are always in our thoughts. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 12:26 AM CDT

Dear Jean and Frankie, Every morning before I get to work as I am driving I pray for Frankie and you. Today was no different and tomorrow will be the same, as each day will. When I get to work I look at your posting for the day and once again pray throughout the day for Frankie. Jean, all I can say for sure is that each day you and Frankie and your family fill the hearts of so many and bring us into cmmunication with our Lord and Savior, Mother Mary, Guardian Angels, God the Father, and our Holy Spirit. To think that one little girl could bring so many to God is amazing. I thank God for her, for you, and for the communion of so many people. I struggle and don't understand Frankie's journey, but I do see the miracle she is to all of us. "God has made everything appropriate in its time." "It is our responsibility to accept and cooperate with God's timing." Stay strong and know how loved you are. Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, ohio usa - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 10:45 AM CDT

Still praying & thinking about you all. Hope this day brings many blessings to count.
Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 9:49 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
Prayers for a positive day in Francesca's recovery and your return to routine life. You are the greatest mom and an unbelievable example of love and strength to us all!
Tim and Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, Oh USA - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 9:26 AM CDT

Goodmorning Jean and Frankie,
Michael just crawled into my lap as I was sitting at the computer and asked to see Princess Frankie's picture. After some discussion about her, Michael said "We got to pray for Baby Frankie." So he started a prayer and this is how is went:
"Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, and ever in thy Sacred Heart, a place for Baby Frankie to rest."
May God grant you the grace today to trust Him and may He offer you some glimpse of His glory to sustain you and Frankie in your suffering.
Your friend.
Jane Martin
Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Wednesday, March 28, 2007 7:54 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying for you and your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 28, 2007 6:14 AM CDT

Thoughts and prayers sent your way. Praying for your strength for you to endure what comes your way.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, Oh - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 10:21 PM CDT

Jean,
Thinking of you and praying.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 10:20 PM CDT

HI Jean,
I sent an email to you, but I am not sure if you actually get to your email or not so I will post it here....

I sent Francesca's picture to Dr. Nemeh (Catholic physician here in Cleveland who has been given the gift of healing). Last night (Monday), I received an email back from his wife, Kathy. This is her message back: "Please know that we will place Francesa's name in the prayer basket so that Dr. Nemeh will pray for her everyday at 3:00pm, please try to pause a few minutes and pray for her too! If I can, I will try to come to see her and have Dr. Nemeh on a phone and he will pray with her that way! It works, as we do this almost everyday for so many people and they have a full recovery!" Kathy and *Dr. Nemeh*

God Bless you and your family, Jean. Hang in there. You are a beautiful daughter of God. He loves you more than you could know.
Mary Beth

Mary Beth Garvin <garvinfam@protectus.com>
Cuyahoga Falls, OH USA - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 5:12 PM CDT

Hi Jean,

My thoughts and prayers continue to be coming your way. I continue to pray for strength and endurance for both you and Frankie. I found this prayer in a St. Therese book and wanted to share it with you.

Saint Therese, your love for Jesus led you to try to do every little thing well. By being hidden, small, and totally open to what God wanted, you became a powerful saint.
Teach me to live your way of love too. Help me to accept things that are hard or make me suffer. Let me follow this way with determination and cheerfulness. Then someday I will be with you in our Father's home. Amen

Lots of love and prayers,

Deb
Debbie Melucci <joedeb5@yahoo.com>
Grove City, OH - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 3:17 PM CDT

Jean,
Praying that things are better today for Frankie. Praying that you are able to rest and that you have peace of mind.
Love,
Linda
Linda Laick <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 27, 2007 8:32 AM CDT

Hi Jean,
I thought I would check the website to see how Francesca is doing. I am so sorry to hear of all the trouble lately! You are always in our daily prayers, but we will boost up the prayers even more! 10 weeks since being home! That just breaks my heart. Hang in there and we will continue to pray for Francesca and your entire family.
Liz Yoho <wjyoho@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, March 27, 2007 7:38 AM CDT

Jean: I am sitting here at my desk and after re-reading yesterday's update, I am at a loss for words. My thoughts are always with Francesca (I have her picture on my desk) and I have to believe that she will be okay. Your last quote at the end is very true. We pray to the Lord and honor him and have to trust in him that he will take care of our Francesca and make her better. I don't begin to understand all of this but do believe that the man upstairs (and Dad, Mr. Schubert and Sister) are taking care of and watching over all of you. We love you all and pray that you will both be home very soon. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. It's official - Tina's Wedding date is October 18, 2008!! I'm gonna be a Mom-In-Law!!!

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 6:45 AM CDT

praying for princess frankie!
melissa
- Tuesday, March 27, 2007 6:29 AM CDT

I'm so sorry to hear what a difficult time Frankie continues to have. It sounds like she is beginning to show signs of overcoming the rotovirus. I'm praying everyday for her and for you. I'm glad your mom is there to give you a well needed break.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Tuesday, March 27, 2007 4:47 AM CDT

Hi Jean,
It's late and I am not yet sleeping. My thoughts have turned to you and Frankie. I wonder what you and Frankie are doing now..trying to sleep maybe but with so many people in and out of the room and all the noise of the intercom. I was on the the Divine Mercy website and I read an essay about children suffering. The writer cited a section of St. Faustina's Diary in which she implores Jesus to look upon the tears of suffering little children. She writes: "At that moment, I saw the Lord Jesus, His eyes filled with tears, and He said to me, You see, My daughter, what great compassion I have for them. Know that it is they who uphold the world (286).
May God grant you strength and endurance and all you need to continue your special duty.
Jane

Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 11:37 PM CDT

Jean,
I am praying that God gives you
the strength you need to
care for Frankie, your family and yourself.
You are a remarkable woman
with so much love for your family-
your children are truely
blessed to have you for a Mom.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, March 26, 2007 10:49 PM CDT

Keeping you all in my prayers. Praying you are home soon.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Monday, March 26, 2007 9:34 PM CDT

I am sorry to hear of the tough time Frankie is having. I say many prayers each day for you all!
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
Akron, Oh - Monday, March 26, 2007 7:38 PM CDT

Jean,
So glad that Frankie is some better. How scary it must have been for you. You have been through so much. If you did not believe in God I don't know how you would have made it this long. I know it is hard to keep the faith in situations like this. I know how strong your faith is and I know it will see you through.
I wish there was something I could say or do to make this easier for you. So I will keep on praying for Francesca and for you and your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 5:09 PM CDT

Sorry to hear Frankie is back in ICU - you all remain in my thoughts & prayers.
Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, OH USA - Monday, March 26, 2007 4:42 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you - it just sounds so exhausting. Hoping and praying that Francesca feels a little better very soon
Sue Maxen <sue@maxen.co.uk>
St Albans, UK - Monday, March 26, 2007 3:26 PM CDT

Jean, I'm sorry things are so up and down, more down of late, but I think they will be up again soon. The roto seems to have been the wild card here . . . and it is costing some time. I know we can't even begin to understand how hard and frustrating that is for you and especially Frankie. Continued prayers. I am praying that something special will happen for you during Holy Week, which is just around the corner . . . a time of great grace. Even if your body is tired and you are feeling crabby and bereft, try to rest in the knowledge that God has not forgotten you or Frankie. All of this is being used for something, for someone, somewhere. Prayers and more prayers for you and Frankie.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 1:09 PM CDT

Hi Jean,

What a bummer that she's back in the ICU. Seeing her Friday, then hearing how bad it was this weekend, kinda gives me an idea of just how fragile her condition is.

Let me know if there is anything I can be doing to make it any easier on you. I have been talking to Mamie to see if I can help her work on anything she's doing to help.

We'll keep praying for you, Frankie, and your family.

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 1:06 PM CDT

Dear Jean, I'm so sorry to hear about Frankie's set back. I hope you have gotten some much needed sleep and that soon things will do an about face with your little angel. We are still praying with confidence that she will return home soon. Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Monday, March 26, 2007 12:13 AM CDT

Can not believe another set back. I am so sad and frustrated for you and Frankie and ALL the Frisones. Continuing to pray without ceasing. May He hold you all in His loving embrace.
Liz
Liz Flaker <eaf25@hotmail.com>
Akron, Oh - Monday, March 26, 2007 12:12 AM CDT

Jean~
I continue to think about you and Frankie everyday and pray for all of you more than ever. Take care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Monday, March 26, 2007 10:29 AM CDT

Jean,
So sorry to read about the set back. I can only imagine how you feel. Please feel free to call me anytime you feel discharge is getting close. My cell is 330-718-0862 to avoid phone tag, hopefully. I will keep checking the website as well. Hang in there and many prayers for you and your family!!!
Tammie Feuer <tfeuer@ohiohcp.org>
Youngstown, Oh USA - Monday, March 26, 2007 9:52 AM CDT

Jean: I'm so sorry to hear that Frankie is back in the ICU. Please know that we are praying for her always and I know in my heart that she will be home soon. Ten weeks is a long time to be away from everyone and hopefully it will not be much longer. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, March 26, 2007 6:25 AM CDT

Jean,
I am continuing to pray for Francesca, you, and all your family.
May God bless you this day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 4:00 AM CDT

Jean,
I'm so sorry that Frankie is back in ICU.
I pray that they will be able to get her
stablized quickly so that you can continue to
plan and look forward to coming home.
Always thinking of you.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Sunday, March 25, 2007 10:19 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
Know that you continue to be in our hearts and prayers. May the Lord continue to uphold you and give you strength.
Blessings,
Mary Beth
Mary Beth Garvin <garvinfam@protectus.com>
Cuyahoga Falls , OH USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:38 PM CDT

My heart breaks for all of you. Everyone's hopes were up thinking you could be coming home soon. It's hard to take it one day at a time when it's been this many weeks. You remain in my heart and prayers every single day. Love and prayers, Debbi
Debbi Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 7:08 PM CDT

Jean, I thought earlier today I was receiving a recorded message, but no voice mail came though. I'm so sorry Frankie has been taken back to ICU; although I would image that the care there is more one on one or maybe two. If just something would work; some combintation of meds; something. How much more does she, you, your family have to endure? God certainly has a plan. Last night me met for dinner with the other two couples that were given the Hope Award at the American Cancer Society dinner last fall. Even though we met them that night it was nice to get together, just the six of us and spend some time together. Each couple has been down a very long and bumpy road, but doing ok. I told them about Frankie. Today Rick and I painted my office at the Oakwood building (yes, I did do some painting). I have witnesses! It's beginning to feel like Spring - maybe good things will happen. Always thinking of you and Frankie. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Sunday, March 25, 2007 2:54 PM CDT

Jean,
Am so sorry to read that she is back in the ICU unit again.
Will pray for her in church again this AM.
Continuing to pray daily for healing.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:55 AM CDT

Jean, I was without a computer for the last week, so I'm just catching up. As I read through your entries, I felt as though I were there. I remember too well watching Gabe suffer, being torn between all that needed my immediate attention, feeling helpless and out of control. Then I remembered, that we really have no control. The Lord is always the one in control. He holds us in the palm of His loving hands and carries us through our pain. He will bring you and your family through these trials. He loves you and has a perfect plan for you. Keep trusting like you are and keep your eyes on Him. Praying continually for you and your family.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 7:06 AM CDT

I am still amazed at how you are keeping it all together Jean.......I have not writted this week because I was sick but have not stopped thinking of you and praying ........Love and Prayers,
Mary Jo Alexander
Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Saturday, March 24, 2007 8:23 PM CDT

Hello!
I haven't written in a few days but have kept up with "Fearless Frankie's" progress. This child will be able to do anything in life...no one is going to be able to tell her "No..you can't do that! She'll show them!! John and I are happy that Frankie may come home soon. I know all her "sibs" miss her! Nice to hear the news about the boys wrestling match! Congrats!!!
Thanks for the beautiful card Jean....Frankie is so adorable!!! Look forward to news you are all home again!! You will need a lot of rest!!!
Love,
Jane and John Gwinn
Jane Gwinn <jgwinnaps@yahoo.com>
Kent, Oh USA - Saturday, March 24, 2007 2:55 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
Please tell Frankie how much we love her. After Mass on Friday morning Charlie wanted to light a candle at the Blessed Mother's altar. Our friend Rob Craig (Michael's Godfather) took him over to light the candle while I stayed in our pew. He came over with such a happy look and said "Mommy, guess who I lit a candle for?" Of course Frank was the first person who came to mind but before I could say it, he said, "Baby Frankie". He remembers to pray for her often and I am often inspired by his simple, honest prayers. I am sorry about the Rotovirus and the screaming. I know that Maria is a great help and a friendly face for Frank. Take great comfort in how caring and nurturing your children are to each other. Your model of love and service is being learned well. Our prayers continue.
Jane
Jane Martin <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Saturday, March 24, 2007 2:54 PM CDT

Jean: It must be difficult being away from Frankie with a new doctor there. I'm sure he will be brought up to speed and all will be well. She will be home before you know it and then the real healing will begin - brothers, sisters, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and so many friends will be there to help her recover. Our continued prayers and thoughts are with you all. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Saturday, March 24, 2007 10:27 AM CDT

Jean,
I know being at work is another
difficult challenge, on top of all
the others. Our prayers will be
that your day goes well and Patty and
Maria have a great day with Frankie.
Patty, THANK YOU!
From the very begining, Maria has been
one of Frankie's best nurses.
Today Frankie will be cared for by three
of the people who love Frankie with all
their heart, Mom, Maria, Patty.
You are all going to be receiving bunches
of prayers.
Prayers for Pappy and Uncle Phil continue.
Frankie has always had a special
place in her heart for both of you.
May you feel the grace from the prayers
being said for you.
Blessings to all who pray and do such
marvelous acts of love,
Rita

rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Oh USA - Saturday, March 24, 2007 6:24 AM CDT

Jean; Praying you and Frankie
had a better day and she is working
towards turning the corner and heading
home very soon! You're so amazing,
an inspiration to us all!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, Oh - Friday, March 23, 2007 11:13 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
How nice that Maria is with you
and Frankie-she is so sweet
and loving--just like her Mom.
And she gives great hugs which
I am sure you need.
Remember that you are always
in our thoughts and prayers.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Friday, March 23, 2007 10:46 PM CDT

Still thinking about you all & keeping all of you in my prayers. Hope Frankie & you all get some sleep tonight!
Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, OH USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 7:17 PM CDT

Jean, it was great to get to talk with you and get the update. I Hope Frankie is able to be discharged soon. Hard to believe the rotovirus would only add to the ongoing list of unexpected events. We are off next week, but I will keep the April 2 time open. Keeping you in prayer, Barb
Barb Moledor <BarbM@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, Oh USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 3:46 PM CDT

You are all an inspiration to me! It's nice that Maria can be there with you and Frankie. I know how much Frankie loves her siblings! I hope you all have a good weekend. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers each day!
Sue Cimino <ravennafrank@aol.com>
Ravenna, oh usa - Friday, March 23, 2007 3:30 PM CDT

Jean & Frankie,

Once again the ladies of Robinson Memorial Hospital prayed for you and your family in our prayer meeting yesterday. You walk with Jesus inspires me to strengthen my faith. You are a wonderful example to Christians everywhere in your walk with God. Your strength and faith are amazing and I pray God brings you peace, love, and healing.
Tami Lewis-Hunt <thunt@rmh2.org>
Ravenna, OH 44266 - Friday, March 23, 2007 2:36 PM CDT

Jean and Maria,

You are the BEST medicine for Francesca. You are a PHENOMENAL MOM AND SISTER!!! WE pray that Frankie will start to get better just from having you CLOSE. THINKING of you and the whole family!! You are both ANGELS!!
Meluissa, Larry and Sam Rose <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Friday, March 23, 2007 1:01 PM CDT

Dear Family,
I too have walked the road you are on, and I can give you a great promise, God never left us alone. He was right there all the way. There are times that its seems just unbearable, and just need a break. God sees the whole picture, he knows the whole story, and its beautiful. Keep your faith strong, he will never let you down. Just keep praying for Gods will, and for all involved in Frankies care and recovery. I to will join in prayer. God is showing himself real, to all that is watching you because of your faith. May God give you peace, and comfort through all the days ahead, and nights. I will pray
Jeanne Wilson <jeanne@neodrywall.com>
KEnt, Oh USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 9:44 AM CDT

Glad to hear home may not be too far away. Hopefully Frankie will recover quickly from this virus and surely Maria's presence will give her some consolation. We continue to keep Frankie as well as all of you in our hearts and prayers.

Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl usa - Friday, March 23, 2007 9:30 AM CDT

Jean,
Another hurdle for Frankie to jump through. I am so sorry to hear that she has Rotovivus, but so glad that they now know what she is facing.
Praying that her many trials and set backs will soon come to an end and you can take her home.
May God continue to bless and keep your family in His love and mercy.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 23, 2007 8:37 AM CDT

Jean, Katherine had the rotovirus years ago - nasty bug! It really wiped her out. It is tough because these kids are working so hard that a bug like that really messes with their body. For Katherine, the doctors thought she was having respiratory problems but it was only a symptom of the the dehydration. I am hoping that you will see significant improvement when the bug passes. I am praying it passes soon and that you and Maria don't get it. I'm sure Maria's visit is a blessing for all of you. What a neat idea! So glad to hear the Dr. are working on a plan to get Francesca home. Praying that will be soon! Your quote is oh so true and if we can just keep our eyes on Christ and that day when all these struggles will be but a memory, we can endure and persevere. And God promises that He will work all these trials for good in your lives and others so be encouraged that none of this is for naught. Keep holding onto Him.
With love and prayers,
Pamela Simmons <pamelasimmons@zoominternet.net>
Medina, OH - Friday, March 23, 2007 8:24 AM CDT

Jean, You have something that so many people desire...a true, faithful relationship with Christ. He has held you together through every trial. You continue to be an inspiration to me to trust Him completely and everything will work out for good. You are always in our prayers.
Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 23, 2007 8:23 AM CDT

Go Maria! What a wonderful idea to have one of her sisters there! You have incredible children, each one has a special gift and are not afraid of sharing those gifts with others. You've done a beautiful job! Will keep the prayers coming and I know you will all be home soon!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Friday, March 23, 2007 7:52 AM CDT

Jean: Thank God for sweet Maria. I'm happy that she is there with you and Frankie and is able to help ease some of the burden you have been going through. Frankie will get through this latest setback and she will be home before you know it. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. Be sure to give Frankie and Maria a BIG kiss and hug from me!!

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, March 23, 2007 7:28 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Todays posting adds yet more fervor to continue the prayers for Frankie to return home soon with her family. "And now Lord what do I wait for? My hope is in you." Psalm 39....Way to go Maria, just what Frankie needs and what Mom needs. Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Friday, March 23, 2007 7:10 AM CDT

Anthony and Joe,
Congrats on lettering in wrestling!
Good job guys!!!
Jean,
We'll be praying that you and Frankie
can come home very,very soon.
Being home with your family is
what you both need.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:55 PM CDT

It just seems like I cannot pray enough. Wanted to let you know that Frankie WILL conquer this. Love to all the Frisones.

Liz
Liz Flaker <eaf25@hotmail.com>
Akron, oh - Thursday, March 22, 2007 7:40 PM CDT

Dear Jean and Mark and family, Praying for all that will be needed to bring Francesca home to her loving family and friends. Our vision is limited only His is complete. Praying for all that is for Francesca and all we cannot understand. sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Thursday, March 22, 2007 6:17 PM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone and Frankie,
I'm so glad that you are so close to coming home! I can't wait to see you both again. I'll have to bring Quinn by sometime so that you and Frankie can see him. I miss all of you guys sooo much. Let me know if there's anything I can do to help make this transition smoother. I'm ready to help out in any way I can.
Love and prayers,
Josephine
Josephine <Josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Thursday, March 22, 2007 6:16 PM CDT

I am happy for you and Frankie that going home is closer than it has been in the last 2 months. I am happy that Frankie will have daily contact with her siblings and them with her. I am happy that you will be able to kiss all of your children good night. It will take much organizing, but there is nothing as healing as family.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio Portage - Thursday, March 22, 2007 4:42 PM CDT

Jean,
Frankie must have reached her limit for patience. She lasted a lot longer than most adults I know would have.
Taking her home is probably the best thing that can happen at this point.
I will pray for a quick release so you can both go home and try to get back on an even keel.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 22, 2007 4:18 PM CDT

His love DOES endure forever - not just there in the hospital, but when you're at home with her and whatever comes next - He will be there!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 1:48 PM CDT

It is the season for New Life!
Praying these days are filled with
forward progress so home will be
with all the Frisone's snug and together again.
I Love You,
Mom
P.S. Mark took scripts to Walgreens
Did you email pictures?
I have to stop at Verison
tonight, as my new battery is dead
again. Love ya
Rita Warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
Kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 12:40 AM CDT

I am so happy that you guys will be coming home soon. Hopefully everything will work itself out nicely so you can have an enjoyable return home. Please let my mom and I know if there is ANYTHING we can do to help everything run smoothly. This has definitely been more than tough and hopefully she'll start to feel herself again once she gets home! Love you both..
Kaylee <crishub3@aol.com>
Akron, OH - Thursday, March 22, 2007 12:13 AM CDT

Jean: How happy I am to hear the news about Frankie coming home. Once she gets around all her siblings and family and friends who love her and all of you, she will start to feel better and be herself again. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, March 22, 2007 11:54 AM CDT

I don't blame Frankie for being cranky! I think most adults would react the same way under those conditions! I hope that she gets to come home soon and enjoy spring and summer with her family.
Elena <elljazz@gmail.com>
- Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:26 AM CDT

Jean and Mark,
It was good to read the latest update on Frankie. In His name we offer prayers of hope, strength, and healing as Frankie and your family travel the road that will eventually lead Frankie back home and to better health.
Take great comfort in the support offered by the prayers of so many and the medical team caring for Frankie.
Patty Cooper, Dianne Jackson & Denise Gehring <pcoopergapp@alltel.net>
Chardon, OH - Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:14 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
You haven't heard from us in a while but please know we are checking in and praying every day! You are such a strong example of selfless love to all of us who follow your daily agenda of struggles, heartaches and HOPE. May you be blessed in a special way today and continue to see God's hand guiding your family. Love to you all.
Tim and Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:01 AM CDT

Jean, is it possible to set her up with an iv pole and let her take a wagon ride outside in a courtyard or something? It's s long time to go without a little sunshine and breeze blowing in her hair (I'm assuming it's as warm there today as it is in Chicago). It's good for you, too.

Still praying.

Monica <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Thursday, March 22, 2007 10:00 AM CDT

Jean; Praying that everything comes together and soon! Once you are all home, Francesca will once again blossom to her old self, (especially when she gets around her siblings)!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, oh - Thursday, March 22, 2007 9:56 AM CDT

We hope and pray all went well yesterday. Is there any word about Fr. Phil? Prayers continue. Blessings, Phil & Linda
Phil & Linda Marcin <the4marcins@hotmail.com>
Akron, OH USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 7:59 AM CDT

Hi Jean, I have been hoping that Frankie's conference went o.k. Things are so complicated, and you have so much to consider. It is so hard to constantly have to be an advocate,and not just "mom". You are great at both of those jobs though. I hope Frankie is stable enough for you to leave on Saturday. If I don't hear from you I will see you before 7 as planned. Also don't rush back after work. Take some time to go home ,or have dinner with Mark. I hope today brings peace and comfort to you and Frankie. I cotinue to keep your entire family in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Patti
Patti Kraynack <pak4881@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 22, 2007 6:44 AM CDT

Jean: Hoping and praying that the meeting between all the doctors went well and that they will consider letting Frankie come home. Just read your Mom's message and congrats to Anthony and Joey. Now they can really be my bodyguards just like they were when they were little and would walk to the bank with me!! ha, ha! Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, March 22, 2007 6:21 AM CDT

CONGRATULATIONS Anthony and Joe on lettering
in wrestling! WAY TO GO!
Hang in there,
Love,
Grandma
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 10:35 PM CDT

Jean,
Thinking of you and Praying for you.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 10:20 PM CDT

Jean,
Continuing to pray for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 21, 2007 6:24 PM CDT

Hi Jean; Boy, I am so sorry I missed you at work the other day. I LOVE the picture of Frankie. She is so adorable. Maryann and I are planning on coming up one day to visit and bring you supper. I need you to get in touch with me or her at work one night so we can set up a day that would be good for you. As you heard when you returned to work, its pretty depressing there also. We miss two of our favorite girls and now are praying for TWO miracles.And miracles happen every day. So, we must be patient. Hang in there girl. You are doing a great job!, even though you have your doubts at times. Call at work some night after 11pm (if you're still up) I think of you every day and pray for you every night. Can't wait for our long night talks and sharing stories about the kids. See you soon. Glo
gloria gmerek
akron, oh summit - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 12:22 AM CDT

Dear Jean, I just read about the meeting today with the physicians, you and Mark. After I read it I said a prayer that God will guide the decisions that the doctors make for Frankie's on-going care. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 9:51 AM CDT

Dear Mom and Frankie,
There is something weird going on with the website; it is now reading all the messages long ways instead of making them in a paragraph kind of shape. Like Maria's message went on and on and on across the website page instead of just being close up and down [I know this is probably not a good description but it is the best that I can do.]. I don't know if it just a bug in our computer or the website has just changed. Anyway, I had a good time at science class on Monday. We did our regular homework and then had snack [Cowboy Cookies] and then did some more oh so enjoyable homework. We studied some steel and iron wool in two small vials that we had put chlorine in one and in the other chlorine and vitamin C and saw how one rusted and the other did not.
We then went down stairs to where we played ping-pong [I lost multiple times.]. Then when Mrs. Dreger came to pick up Nathan and Kaylee, she invited me to join their passion play! I replied, "I'm going to have to think about it and consider it deeply. Of course I'd like to be in your play! But I have to ask my Dad first."
The next day was Dominic's birthday and Maria's art class. Since it was Dominic's birthday, he got to go to Maria's art class with me and there we watched a fascinating movie about Mexicans and their way of life including their clothing, holidays, and food [I would rather not go into the food category but I will tell you that it has something to do with maggots, mosquito eggs and other insects.].
After art class, we found out that we were going to stay with Mrs. Tatro and Chad for the rest of the day. We went to their house where we played basketball and Chad taught us to ride his skateboard. Then we went inside and played a little video games. Dad then came and we went home to where Grandma had made us a delicious meal of homemade chicken finger and fries. We had a nice conversation over dinner about what we wanted to do when Frankie got home. We choose going to a water park that was near by, I hope you like that decision. We had birthday cake for Dominic and played a couple games before bed. Now I'm writing this for you and I got to go to do school. [Ugh!] Bye!
Love,
Gina

Gina Frisone <suffield7@aol.com>
Suffield, Ohio United States of America - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 9:30 AM CDT

And a child will lead them...Thank you, Maria, for the beautiful note to your Mom. As hard as things can get, it is love that inspires us all and keeps us going. Spring is finally here and the promise of Easter strengthens us. Love & prayers continue. God bless.
Phil & Linda Marcin <the4marcins@hotmail.com>
Akron, OH USA - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 8:15 AM CDT

Dear mom , I KNOW it's hard on everyone but everyone is fairing fine.I went to artclass and I leared about the mexican art and their tredishon. I am allways learning there and having a good time evrytime I go. Your in my thoughts and prayers love you much love MARIA XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
MARIA FRISONE <suffield7@aol.com>
SUFFIELD, OH America - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 7:08 AM CDT

Jean,
Your family is constantly in my prayers. What you are enduring is beyond overwhelming. I am so sorry for your heartache. When I'm feeling stressed, I know it's a walk in the park, compared to what you are living. You and your beautiful baby are an inspiration to so many. Your strength is contagious, even though you may often feel that you have none left. Hang in there, Jean. Jesus is showering you with grace to help you carry this cross.
Love, Kathy
Kathy Lofreso
Norotn, OH Summit - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 5:08 AM CDT

Jean; You are in my thoughts and prayers. Praying the doctors can come to agreement that will work for everyone and you will be able to bring Frankie home.

Happy Birthday Dominic!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 8:16 PM CDT

Jean,
I pray that God will guide the decisions made by the team tomorrow. I pray that what they decide is best for all of you.
God bless you this day and every day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 5:17 PM CDT

Happy Birthday Dominic,
Your friend Brandon Raines
Brandon Raines <jraines5@msn.com>
Suffield, Oh Portage - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 2:24 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Be assurred our prayers will continue and our love and support will continue. I can't imagine how you go on each day, (except I know your mom so well that I know where you get your strength and love.) It sounds like Frankie just needs to get home with you and her family. I'll pray for the care meeting to go well. sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, ohio usa - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 2:08 PM CDT

Jean: I hope and pray that the doctors will decide to try and send you both home. You are an excellent nurse and Mom and it would do you both a world of good to be home. We continue to send our thoughts and prayers your way. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. Happy Birthday Dominic!!!
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 12:30 AM CDT

HAPPY 8TH BIRTHDAY DOMINATOR!
God put so much toughness in that sweet spirit!
Your handsome face and great smile brighten my day!
I love you,
Grahamcracker
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio United States of America - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 11:01 AM CDT

i so wish there were many things that i could do to help out....but i can tell you i am keeping an eye on the older boys and they would "do you proud"...they have had some hard times, but their character and faith is so obviously carrying them through....great job!! all our prayers will continue...mrs. dyrlund
Karen Dyrlund <dyrlundk@hoban.org>
- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 9:03 AM CDT

Hi Jean,

Your frustration is palpable...for obvious reasons. I pray that you stay focused and centered, as you do so well. Your faithfulness is amazing, and continues to inspire me to be a better person and parent. Hang in there, I hope to see you soon.

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Tuesday, March 20, 2007 8:14 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
You are a remarkable woman. Your children are so lucky to have you for a Mom. You nurse, protect, comfort and love Frankie every step of the way on her fight to get well. God wanted a "special" Mom for Frankie-- that is why He sent her to you. I pray that He continues to give you the strength that you need.
We continue to pray for Frankie's healing and for all of your family and their needs.
Love and Prayers,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, March 19, 2007 11:13 PM CDT

I hope and pray that you can get the answers that you need and get back to a more normal life. Hang in there, it is a little better every week. Your family is on my mind daily.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Monday, March 19, 2007 7:50 PM CDT

Jean,
How sorry I am to read that she is still not doing well and that you had to return to work. All we can do for you is pray that you will endure and that Frankie will heal. Somehow that does not seem enough, but I do not know what else to do.
I am praying earnestly.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 19, 2007 5:59 PM CDT

Jean, I know your mother's heart feels torn into pieces and scattered far and wide but when any of your lambs are lost or in danger, that is where you need to be. I hope and pray the doctors get a true understanding of how difficult this is on your family and work very hard to arrange for a safe way for her to go home. I also pray for your family who feel the deep void with you gone. May they value your deep love and devotion that would give your life for each of them. May they recognize your heartache and constant guilt when you can't meet everyone's needs. May they be inspired by your selfless, tireless example and have a heart to support you however they can. And may you give yourself permission to take a break and get away when you can. No one can do it just like Mom but sometimes that is ok. You know when that is - take advantage of those moments. May God help you all band together now when it is the toughest - that is what a family is for. Don't give up, don't give up hope. You all have made it through very dark days and you will make it through these as well - together. You love your family with all your heart and are doing all you can - no room for guilt just realistic expectations on yourself. Maybe during those long vigils by Francesca's side you may have a chance to jot down a note to let them know just how much they are on your heart and mind back home. Only when they have kids of their own will they truly grasp how constant that is! Call anytime - my heart and prayers are with you.
Pamela Simmons <pamelasimmons@zoominternet.net>
Medina, OH - Monday, March 19, 2007 3:45 PM CDT

Dear Jean, Thank you for taking the time to do the update. I know it's not easy to find a spot with internet access but it means lot to all of us who are anxiously waiting. I'm sorry it's not better - we are all praying so hard for Frankie, you, Mark and the other kids. I know there must be so much on your mind worrying about everyone. You are an amazing person Jean. I've said it before but it's worth telling you again that you are such an inspiration to me and Frankie is truly blessed to have you there by her side. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, March 19, 2007 3:17 PM CDT

Jean,
I am so sorry that this road is rougher and longer than anticipated! Please know that you, Frankie and the entire Frisone family are in my prayers every day.
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
Akron, OH - Monday, March 19, 2007 2:15 PM CDT

Jean: Sorry to hear that Frankie is still not feeling any better. I don't know all the "ins" and "outs" of the medical world but maybe getting her home on the medicine you mentioned just may do the trick to improve her mood and healing. Will continue to send lots of prayers, thoughts and love your way. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, March 19, 2007 12:45 AM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that the news will be good on the next update. Praying for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 19, 2007 10:58 AM CDT

Dear Jean, How are you and Frankie today? I thought about you a lot this weekend. I'm looking forward to your next update. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, March 19, 2007 10:16 AM CDT

Jean: Glad to hear that you had some time with all the other kids even if it was short. I'm sure they were very happy to see you. Always remember that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, March 19, 2007 7:09 AM CDT

Hi Cousins. My thoughts & prayers are with you all. I am sorry to hear Frankie may need another surgery hopefully they will be able to postpone it for awhile. Jean unless you were cloned it's physically impossible for you to be two places at once. Take it one minute at a time. You have alot on your plate so please give yourself a break and please don't guilt-trip yourself. You are trying to do your best for your family and that is all you can do. If I was there I'd give you a hug and lend you a hand as it is all I can do is pray and offer encouragement. Please don't forget there are so many of us praying (family, friends, associates) and I know God hears us. I truely believe in the power of prayer. My love to you all.
God Bless. Your cousin Francine
Francine Miller (Frisone) <fmm.ak_seabreeze@yahoo.com>
Anchorage, Ak - Monday, March 19, 2007 0:57 AM CDT

Still praying here - hoping each day brings some improvement. It would be great to have Frankie home for Easter . . . well, before Easter for that matter, huh?! Jean, I'm glad you got to go home and see everyone, and listen to some good music. I hope you have some of your favorite music there at the hospital -- it can really make so much difference.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Sunday, March 18, 2007 10:59 PM CDT

Jean,
I pray for your days to get better and that you will soon have all your children together with you. You are such a loving Mom my heart aches for you to be so torn between your children at home and Frankie at the hospital. Please remember that you are loved by so many and that we all wish we could put our arms around you and give you comfort.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Sunday, March 18, 2007 10:54 PM CDT

Jean; It was great to spend some time with you and your girls yesterday. I know your trip home was short and I pray it brought you some comfort to spend some time with your other children. You are doing an AWESOME job, please don't second guess yourself there. You are doing the best you can under the circumstances. Please do not hesitate to call if I can do anything to assist your mom or you!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Sunday, March 18, 2007 12:08 AM CDT

Dear Jean, We prayed today again for Frankie in my little church in Warren. The message today was from Hebrews 4:14-16-Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession. For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.
Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.The main idea of the message was that in certain times, you may not have the faith to get through a situation but others do and they hold you up and help you get through it. You have so many others interceding for Frankie and your whole family. You will get through this and your faith will be made stronger. Hold on, stand fast, keep the faith. God loves you!
Debbie Cooper LPN Hattie Larlham Community Services <nfbandmom1@earthlink.net>
Newton Falls, OH - Sunday, March 18, 2007 11:18 AM CDT

Good Morning Jean. I'm glad you were able to go home and spend some time with the kids and do some routine household chores. Even though "routine household chores" may not be our favorite thing to do, to you it must have been a welcome change to be doing something routine again. I'm wondering if you are at work today! If so, how difficult to be doing that instead of being with Frankie. But on the other hand, it may help to be doing something that seems normal. As you said during our visit, little things like that seem to help you get refreshed for the week to come. Rick and I are going to a F&CS work-related function today so we may see Mark if he's able to make it. I pray that somehow, someway there is improvement this week for Frankie and your whole family. If my dates are correct this is Frankie's 64th day away from home; I pray that she is able to go home soon. Love and prayers are constant from me to you.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Sunday, March 18, 2007 8:17 AM CDT

Jean,
My heart broke when I read the update. How much more will Frankie and all of you be asked to endure. How strong is your faith that God will bring all things together for good. Faith is all any of us have to hold on to in difficult times.
I earnestly pray that your faith holds up and that God in His mercy will bring your suffering to an end.
It is so sad to think of what Frankie is enduring. She is so young and cannot understand all that is happening to her.
Please know that I think of you daily and pray that this will soon come together and that Frankie will be able to go home.
I will ask for prayers again this morning at church.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 18, 2007 7:45 AM CDT

Jean,
I am here at the hospital working the midnight shift in the E.R., surprised that the partiers haven't stumbled in here too much after a evening celebration of St. Patrick's Day!.. but maybe it's still too early! So I hopped online to check the website and hear the latest on Frankie...
My heart goes out to you more as you describe your present struggles... I pray for more strength for you...You are a mother full of love and devotion and I feel your pain as you describe your "pull".... It's hard when you are not sure of the next confident step in Frankie's care... But know you are doing all you can do....and are doing such a fine job in every single area... You have to "let go and let God" of the things that are out of your control...Then keep on keeping that faith that everything's gonna be alright....
I am thinking and praying for you....
I am sooooo very excited of the 4 little ones coming down again!....

...just before i am sending this, a trauma was called!..
Know I am thinking of you tonight!.. From one hospital to another!...

Love you!..
T..
Christie Hamilton <Christie.Hamilton@osumc.edu>
Grove City, OH - Sunday, March 18, 2007 2:08 AM CDT

Jean,
We continue to pray for Frankie. We also pray that you and Mark are given the strength that you need as you continue this journey and that your family will be all together again at home very soon. You are a great Mom so full of love for your family!!
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Saturday, March 17, 2007 11:13 PM CDT

Hi Jean,
Here is my weekly message to you letting you know I am thinking about Frankie, you and your family. I continue to check the website daily and enjoy reading your updates. I am glad to hear you got to spend a night at home and visit with the kids. TJ and I are busy doing work in our condo before my parents and grandmother visit at the end of March. I can't wait to see them!
Take care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Evanston, IL - Saturday, March 17, 2007 8:55 PM CDT

Jean
I am continuing to check the site often and am so moved by all the support and prayers from everyone. I am so sorry Frankie is having such a hard time and continue to pray for her. I can only imagine how hard it is for you and am in continual awe at how well you handle it all. I wish I were closer and could help out in some physical way. Keep postitive thoughts and I will continue to check in on you and Frankies progress. At some point will need to talk to you in early to mid April and will either call you at the hospital or on your cell. Even my 2 little boys are praying for Frankie. Daniel always wants to check in on the little girl with the angels in the picture.
Tammie Feuer <tfeuer@ohiohcp.org>
Youngstown, Oh USA - Saturday, March 17, 2007 8:48 PM CDT

He WILL bring it together for your good - I know it - I can imagine how hard this is for you and I am so thankful He gave you that song at that moment to encourage you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Saturday, March 17, 2007 8:31 PM CDT

Dear Jean,

Just want to touch base and let you know I am still keeping you close to my heart and prayers each and every day. You must be exhausted - I'm sure that's even putting it nicely. And the one night of sleep at home probably just whet your appetite for more.....but it will happen sometime. I will continue to pray for a speedier recovery so both you and Frankie can be home very soon. Sorry I have no words of wisdom for you.....just love and prayers!

Hang in there,
Teresa

Teresa Giorgio <ggiorgio@adelphia.net>
Sharon Township, OH - Saturday, March 17, 2007 7:32 PM CDT

Jean,
Hoping that your visit with the other kids was just what the doctor ordered. I think of you often during the day and pray that things will improve for you soon.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 17, 2007 12:52 AM CDT

JEAN AND MARK,

THINKING OF YOU , FRANKIE and the KIDS.

JEAN,

You are the best medicine for Frankie. She will heal in time. For now, we pray for lots of rest for you and Frankie.
Larry, Melissa and Samantha Rose Bennett <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
Cherry Hll, NJ 08003 - Friday, March 16, 2007 8:20 PM CDT

Frankie,
I pray for you every night before I go to bed that God will touch your broken heart. Mommy and daddy check on you everyday and give me updates on how you are doing. They told me that you needed more surgery for your valves and that really made me sad. Frankie, my heart didn't want to start back when I had my surgery and it looked like my race was done. But the Great Physican saw differently and allowed my heart to start after my fourth bypass run. If God can bring me back to life then he can heal your valves and other problems. I miss seeing you in the bed across from me and hearing your sweet silent voice in the wee hours of the morning. Just remember that a little red-headed heart buddy is on your side cheering for you!!!!! I Love you Frankie!!
Your favorite roommate,
Sawyer
www.caringbridge.org/viait/sawyerdt
Sawyer Tolbert <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
Arden, NC - Friday, March 16, 2007 5:43 PM CDT

Hi Jean. I hope you are at home spending some time with the other kids. I spent the day with my mom today and took her shopping for some clothes. We had lunch and tonight went to dinner with Rick when he got home from work. I don't see her enough! She is going with Rick and me to Chicago in a few weeks. It will be her first time seeing Alysa and TJ's condo. Take care - love and prayers coming your way.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Friday, March 16, 2007 5:33 PM CDT

Jean,
I'm so glad to see that Frankie's latest chest x-ray is looking better! I sent you an email on Monday but Kaylee said she didn't see it in the guestbook (I must have done something wrong). Anyway, I just wanted to thank you again for last Saturday and tell you how much Kaylee and I enjoyed our time with ALL of you! I'm so glad to see that you will be home on Friday night. Get a good night's rest and please let Kaylee or I know if there is ANYTHING we can do for you! Love, Cristi
Cristi Huber <CrisHub3@aol.com>
Akron, Ohio United States - Friday, March 16, 2007 10:39 AM CDT

Jean,
I am touched by the compassion shown by the staff. Some of the most skilled Doctors and nurses, giving in such extraordinary ways. You can feel their love for you, Frankie and concern for the family.
Then all the prayer warriors!
This takes Joan of Arc strength and courage.
I know what motivated her, the confirmation that she was doing what she was supposed to be doing.
The army you are leading is not just your family,
but all of us who love and pray for you. We are inspired and motivated to face our daily challenges with the same courage, and love.
God Bless the children one and all,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Friday, March 16, 2007 9:48 AM CDT

Good morning Jean. When Linda and I first arrived yesterday both you and Frankie were sleeping so we went to the waiting room for a while. I'm so glad we left after learning of so much lack of sleep the night before and your migrane. But seeing the both of you there sleeping was the perfect picture of a wonderful mother who is constantly by her daughter's side. Words could not explain that moment - it was heartwarming. I so much enjoyed talking with you and listening to you share your thoughts. You are such an inspiration to me and like I told you Frankie has touched me in ways that you will never know. I will continue to pray - for things we talked about, for healing and rest for both Frankie and you and even for possibly a private room again. Sometimes I feel like I just go on and on in this guestbook, but yesterday when you told us that reading these entries give you so much comfort and how much you enjoy them - I'll continue to write just like we were talking to each other face to face. I'm spending the day with my mom today - so I'll check in later. May today be a better day. Love to you both.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Friday, March 16, 2007 8:14 AM CDT

Jean,
Wishing you the best today and a wonderful visit with the children.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, March 16, 2007 7:44 AM CDT

Jean: It was wonderful seeing you and Frankie yesterday. After seeing what you are going through, I still can't imagine it day after day. You will get through all of this and so will Frankie and the rest of your family. Having some time to see all the other kids and getting a good night's sleep just might do the trick. Our prayers and thoughts and so much love is sent your way. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
P. S. Hope Elmo isn't making too much noise!! ha, ha
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, March 16, 2007 6:19 AM CDT

It must be so frustrating that recovery is taking very long. However, perhaps Frankie's ability to show her frustration is a good sign. She now has the strength to let her feelings be known instead of just lying in the bed. She has had a great amount of pain and suffering so I'm sure her outbursts and general displeasure are a normal reaction. Nevertheless, I'm sure this is very trying for you. We continue to pray for her recovery and the blessing of going home to be with family.
Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl usa - Friday, March 16, 2007 5:11 AM CDT

Jean,
On top of all this, I did not know about your migraines. This is one more thing we will add to our prayers. Your strength is amazing, though we know it comes from the Lord. I remember hitting the 8 week mark there with Gabe and by then it was really getting impossible to even imagine being home again. I am confident that you will be home very soon and I am thankful that the Lord has provided Frankie with so many caring people and competent doctors. She's been through a lot, but she's come a long way. May the arms of the Lord continue to support you through this long and difficult trial.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Friday, March 16, 2007 4:29 AM CDT

Jean,
So sorry that Frankie is so irritable and uncomfortable. I am not surprised that you have migranes. How you keep going is beyond understanding, except for the fact that you are a mother and you have no choice. A mother who loves her children will do anything for them and suffer any hardship for their good.
You are truly an inspiration to all who know you or of you.
May God provide respite for you tomorrow and give you rest.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 15, 2007 9:50 PM CDT

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
I am continuing to pray for you and your family and if you ever need someone to watch the kids I'd be glad to help out. I check the website every day and can't wait for the day when you both get to come home. I miss you and I'm sure Frankie would like to meet my baby brother, I know how she likes babies! Tell her hello from me.
Love and prayers,
Josephine
Josephine <Josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Thursday, March 15, 2007 6:48 PM CDT

Dear Jean,
Surely Our Lord is paying attention to our prayers - now at shouting level! Your writings reflect the incredible depth of your love, and the fatigue you and all your family are experiencing as Frankie's recovery time continues to be slow and ever changing. Somehow, you find the strength to cope with each hour, each challenge, each day. My fervent prayer this day is that there be some time for Jean - to rest, to be held closely and maybe even rocked to sleep! If I was in Ohio instead of Virginia I'd stay with Frankie in a heartbeat - I can only stay with her, and you, in my thoughts and prayers. May God's grace be yours this day. Love, Carol

Your journal about Frankie in the wagon made me think of our grandson, Max. When he had his bone surgery 2 months ago, the high point (for him) was getting wagon rides! He still talks about them. Hopefully, wagon rides will be a good memory for Frankie, in the midst of so many difficult things she is enduring.
Carol Morling <cmorling@comcast.net>
Mechanicsville, VA USA - Thursday, March 15, 2007 6:23 PM CDT

JEAN, The cath lab experience sounds amazing. It is often a wonder how the medical experts can pull together for kids in such special circumstances. I continue to look forward to each update on Frankie and sincerely hope each day brings her closer to being up and moving and you being united again as a family. Continuing to keep your family in prayer, Barb
Barb Moledor <barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Thursday, March 15, 2007 3:33 PM CDT

Dear Jean and Mark,
My prayers are still going out daily as are those of my family and friends for your beautiful little Frankie. Please let me know if there is anything we can do to help in any way, whatever it is. I happened on a quote that I thought may fit your exhausted state : "Meet today's problems with today's strength. Don't start tackling tomorrow's problems until tomorrow. You do not have tomorrow's strenght yet. You simply have enough for today." Wishing you that strength today and all the following days to come. Sincerely, Cheryl
Cheryl Roth <ckrothcrc@sbcglobal.net>
Ravenna, OH USA - Thursday, March 15, 2007 10:39 AM CDT

Reading your updates have become part of my daily routine and everyday I keep thinking, "I'll bet Jean would like to be doing any of the mundane things that I often silently complain to myself about." So, without knowing it, you have helped me to keep a better perspective on appreciating the everyday things like teaching my girls, cleaning, cooking, etc. I am trying to count it all as joy. As our own surgery date gets closer and closer I will try and not get bogged down by a to-do list, but rather a do-with list, as in,what am I going to do with my kids today to show them how much I enjoy their company? I imagine that you are planning to love your kids up this weekend. Enjoy every minute. Prayers will continue to flow to keep Francesca on her healing path.
Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 15, 2007 10:14 AM CDT

Hey sis!..
Even though I haven't written on here in awhile....I appreciate the phone updates on Frankie... Deb and I talked last night regarding the 4 little ones coming down again to "Buckeye Country"....and we are excited to tag team once again!!!... All is set with schedules and the Melucci's and Hamilton's are soooo excited to have the kids back for two weeks!... We miss them and look forward to catching up with them!.. We also feel honored to be with Dominic to celebrate his birthday on the 20th!!.. You can count on some good time to be had on that day!.. The weather should be better and much warmer than the last time they were down here....so....I hear a nature trail calling our names!!!.. (You know me!!)
Know of our continual prayer for all of you... Also...we keep Tony in our thoughts and prayers surrounding him in his recovery process and wondered if you can let us know how he is!... I remember you said he was coming down this way....and wondered if he was here at OSU at The James... Prayers for him in his healing....
It's interesting that the Cath Lab at OSU (Ross Heart) has two positions presently open that I am considering applying for....(if I cannot move over to OSU East in a relatively timely manner)...I can very well be in procedures that Frankie has been going thru since she was born... And also be acclamated to the echocardiograms you have asked me about in the past!.. I'll keep you posted!...
Please let me know how else we can be a help to you....especially when you come home... You must feel so very blessed with the most wonderful Godly friends supporting you along the way.... Special thanks to Mamie for always anticipating the most practical of needs for you!...
Keep the Faith and know how much you are prayed for!!..
Love you...
T...

Christie Hamilton <Christie.Hamilton@osumc.edu>
Grove City, OH - Thursday, March 15, 2007 9:57 AM CDT

Hi Jean,

Alright... Now I am going to quit complaining about how the time change is messing with my Cercaidian Rythems. It is, by the way, I just won't complain about it any more. I'm sure you would enjoy any sort of normalcy in your life and or sleep paterns right about now. I pray that the time you spend with your family this weekend, will be sufficient to re-fill your tank, and re-charge your batteries.

God Bless You my Friend,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@noe.rr.com>
CF, OH - Thursday, March 15, 2007 9:15 AM CDT

Dear Jean,
As each day passes and Frankie continues to warm and touch so many hearts I realize over and over the power of prayer. Rest easy that the prayer chain grows each day and that each day brings Frankie closer to home and family. We all love you and will continue to pray. Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Thursday, March 15, 2007 7:56 AM CDT

Jean: I'm glad that you will be able to get a break and go home and see all the kids. Enjoy your time with them. Hope Frankie had a good night. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, March 15, 2007 7:15 AM CDT

Jean,
I wish I could be more help to you. I have to work on Fri and have plans for Sat Am. I would have been honored to sit with Frankie.
I hope your visit with the kids will go smoothly and that you will get some rest at home.
Will continue to pray for Frankie and all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 15, 2007 6:52 AM CDT

Jean and Mark,
Thinking of you and praying for your strength and Frankie's healing.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 10:18 PM CDT

Dear Mom and Frankie,
Right now I'm at Mrs. Mudd's house. You are probably wondering why I'm here. Let me tell you.
Sunday night, [This part has nothing to do with me being in Mrs. Mudd's house, by the way, but I want to tell it to you anyway.] Let me start over because I rambled on about how this has nothing to do with me being at Mrs. Mudd's house [Oops! I'm rambling again! Let me start over AGAIN!] On Sunday night, I had to do some homework for science class the next day. The homework was to find some chemicals like protein and lipids at home. Obviously, we were not supposed to get pure chemicals but only chemicals in food and other objects. When I was finished, I put all the things in a clear plastic cup. It looked digusting! It was a mixture of oil, butter, soap, cereal, and other things.
I took it to science class the next day along with my schoolbooks and Coffee Cake for snack. [Just to let you know, Dad had not told me that I would be spending the night at the Tatro's so I received that pleasant surprise after science class.] Unfortunately, since I did not know that I would be spending the night, I did not bring any clothes with me. Mrs. Tatro and I went back to our house after science class to pick up Maria and Pudge while also getting my clothes.
When we arrived, we found the house empty. Mrs. Tatro figured out that Mrs. Jordan, who was babysitting at the time, had taken all the little kids with her to the store to pick up some meat. Apparently, Dad also did not tell Mrs. Jordan that Maria, Mario, and I were supposed to go to Mrs. Tatro's house. [I bet Mrs. Jordan is spanking Dad right now for not telling her!] We also found out that Pudge was going to the Martin's house over night instead and that we could not pick Maria up until tomorrow morning.
Mrs. Tatro took me back to her house with my clothes and [Groan! Sigh!] my school books. Chad, Sam, Anna, and I went outside and played the basket ball game called 'Pig' only in this case we called it 'Gina' [I lost of course.] and took turns riding on Chad's skateboard. Soon we had to go inside and face the armies of boredom and relentless monotony under the dreaded name 'Homework'. After we finished school, Sam and Anna's mom came over and picked them up. Chad and me played board games after dinner [I am reluctant to say Chad beat me to a pulp. I lost at Monopoly by negative three dollars.] and then went to bed.
The next morning, Chad and I got up, ate breakfast, got washed and dressed, and then went to pick up Maria for her art class.
Whe we arrived at art class, I had the choice of going to Chad's class or Maria's. I formulated a plan that would allow me to go to both. You see, Chad and Maria's classes are taught by the same teacher. First, Chad's class comes up while Maria waits down stairs with other kids and when Chad comes down, Maria comes up. I went with Chad first.
Chad's class was showing their paintings that they had done over the past few days to the class and the class would give comments and suggestions about the painting. The teacher, who is a very nice woman, gave me some drawing exercises to do. The exercise was for me to draw my hand in any position except flat [I did a good job if I do say so myself.]
Chad's class ended and Maria's class begun. I got to do even more drawing exercises. Guess what I drew. My hand!
When that class was over, Mrs. Tatro, Chad, Maria, and I went over to Panares the bread shop and had lunch. We went home after word and Maria, Chad, and me played in the backyard for a couple of hours. We had dinner and then went to bed and got up the next morning. We washed, ate, dressed and went home with Mrs. Tatro. Mrs. Mudd was there to pick us up and here we are. It seems every night is game night here! We play card games, dice games, board games, and even do a magic trick or two! It is really fun! The only bad thing is, is that I don't have time to watch the aliens. Now I have to go to bed! Good night! Oh! And please ignore that embarrassing note Maria posted about bed bugs? Bye!
Love,
Gina

Gina Frisone <suffield7@aol.com>
Suffield, Ohio United States of America - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 9:09 PM CDT

MOM I am going to go to bed soon all i wanted to do is say good NIGHT SLEEP TIGHT DON'T LET THE BED BUGS BITE IF THEY DO CRACK THEM IN TO AND EAT THEM LIKE THE ANTEATERS DO.I leaned that from mrs.creger good night.XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX LOVE MARIA
MARIA FRISONE <suffield7@aol.com>
suffield, OH america - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 8:08 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you all know that I am still praying for you all!
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
AKron, OH - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 6:30 PM CDT

Jean,
My heart aches for you as I hear the exhaustion and many tugs at your heartstrings. I tried to reach you in Francesca's room but missed you - I hope you are taking breaks for yourself. I wish I could send you a hug via email! I know you have so many who are holding all of you up by their prayers and support yet still those days and nights can feel so very lonely as you relentlessly work through one complication/issue to another - working so hard to manage Francesca's care while wishing you could just hold her and make it all go away - all the while your heart aches for your family to be whole once again. I am sure you are past spent but we are all here to stand by you & encourage you to hold onto hope - knowing this struggle too shall one day pass, though not sooner than you would wish. Our Father knew these days would come and He knows when these trials will pass (as all those that you have already faced) and He promises to never leave your side through them - just try to keep your eyes on Him instead of the stormy waves and He will carry you through one day/one hour at a time if necessary especially when you don't feel you can make it another day/night. Please give me a call if you need a shoulder to cry on/vent to...you are not alone!
Pamela Simmons <pamelasimmons@zoomineternet.net>
Medina, OH - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 3:35 PM CDT

Hi Jean and Mark
I keep reading the journal hoping for a miraculous "we are going home". I pray everyday for Frankie and your family. This is too big for words!!! Please call me if you need anything.
Kim Schilling <k-schilling@sbcglobal.net>
Akron, Oh USA - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:29 AM CDT

Jean: Frankie is a star no matter where she goes!! We will continue to pray that her doctors make the right decision as to when to operate next. Much love is sent your way. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 12:11 AM CDT

Praise God for the comfort He gave you in the midst of what could have been a really rotten day - I'm so happy you were able to see His hand on the situation!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 11:54 AM CDT

I've visited often but haven't signed. I keep praying for your little Frankie. She seems like a real fighter so I'm sure she'll come through all of these procedures with flying colors. Many prayers from South Dakota!
Becki Solberg <bslbg@hotmail.com>
Mitchell, SD USA - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 11:42 AM CDT

Jean,
Thank you so much for the update. Reading the account of what you experienced in the cath lab brought tears to my eyes. What a wonderful place you are in. How comforting to know that the staff is so supportive. You are held up by a huge network of folks who care about you and all your family and pray for you daily.
So sorry to hear that she faces yet more surgery, but how good to know what you face and prepare for it.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 14, 2007 9:24 AM CDT

Dear Jean - thank you for sharing about Frankie's progress each day....it brought tears to my eyes today reading about your experience in the cath lab and all the love and support you receive from the staff. Please know that we pray for you every day and that God is working. Praying for strength, rest and peace for you as you trust in Him. "I am the Lord, who heals you" Exodus 15:26 "Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Matthew 11:28 Love - Debbie
Debbie Brumfield <dbrumfield@neo.rr.com>
Akron, OH - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 9:07 AM CDT

Mark and Jean,
We continue to ask that God grant Frankie strength and healing. We also pray that he blesses you and your family as you face what lies ahead. Continue to have faith in the power of God's healing touch.
Patty Cooper, Dianne Jackson & Denise Gehring <pcoopergapp@alltel.net>
Chardon, OH USA - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 8:51 AM CDT

Dear Jean, Getting the best of what we can hope for is an answer to prayer. Thinking of you and Frankie and praying that today is a restful day for both of you.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 8:49 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying that things went well yesterday for Frankie. May the good Lord bless and keep you this day and every day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 14, 2007 7:02 AM CDT

Hi, Jean and family. I have finally caught up on your site. I am going to call Mamie and ask her what you guys need and when I can take my turn and help again. We had so much fun when your boys spent the night. The kids get along so well. This week is really busy for the girls and me--St. Patrick's day, lots of dancing. But my load should lighten up after saturday. I would love to help out again, especially since all the kids are home again. Thinking of you often--we pray every day. All our love, the Lanshes
Faith Lanshe <busymomlanshe@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 14, 2007 1:15 AM CDT

Mark, Jean and Frankie-
You are in our prayers and thoughts each and everyday.
Love,
Claudette Rogers <papiamento1968@aol.com>
Ravenna, Ohio USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 9:47 PM CDT

Praying hard for Frankie.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 8:54 PM CDT

I'm still praying!! What a gracious Father we have - He loves us so much and shows us in so many ways! I know He is with you right now, holding you up.
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 4:05 PM CDT

Mark, Jean and Frankie-
We continue to pray and ask God to reach out with his healing power to Frankie and to give wisdom and knowledge to all the medical staff caring for her and to give you His strength and peace.
Fondly,
Patty, Dianne and Denise
Patricia Cooper
Chardon, OH USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 3:31 PM CDT

Jean,
All of our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you, Francesca and the rest of your family! What a strong little girl you have. It is no surprise-look at her mother! Keep holding on to that strength and the assurance that there are so many people keeping you all in their thoughts and prayers!
Lots of love,
Adrianna

Adrianna Lovell <soccermomfor3@sbcglobal.net>
Munroe Falls, Ohio U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 1:56 PM CDT

Thank you all for your prayers!
You may never know the life giving
grace poured forth on this family
as a result of your care and compassion.
You are all in my prayers,
Rita
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 11:23 AM CDT

Jean,
Dr. Latson is the BEST. He is the one who fixd my friend's large hole in her heart via catheterization in December. Amazing doctor. I will certainly add his name to my prayer list. Continuing as always to pray for Frankie and all the Frisones!
Love, Liz
Liz Flaker <eaf25@hotmail.com>
Akron, Oh - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 9:51 AM CDT

Jean,
My thoughts and prayers are certainly with you and Frankie today as she undergoes yet another procedure. I can't even begin to imagine what she must be feeling being poked and tested for the past 8 weeks. My heart goes out to her and to you as well.
Today would have been my Mom's 101st birthday if she were alive. She always said that 13 was her lucky number. I'm sure it will be lucky for Frankie as well.
Maybe today will tell the tale of what is wrong so it can be fixed and she can go home soon.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 13, 2007 9:41 AM CDT

Hi Jean,
What a wonderful man this doctor sounds like. I will pray that he finds the cause and can determine the direction to go to get Frankie over this bump and on to recovery. You are such an inspiration. As always, prayers and love, Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 7:54 AM CDT

Jean: It sounds like this heart doctor is just what is needed. Frankie is a real trooper and after this echo more questions will be answered and then you will know what needs to be done to get her better and finally home. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 6:27 AM CDT

Jean & Mark, will continue to pray for all of you as you embark on another procedure. I pray for your continued strength.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 5:39 AM CDT

Jean,
Our thoughts and prayers for you and Frankie and your family.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, March 12, 2007 10:31 PM CDT

Hello Jean,
Well, we have just battened down the hatches here.. Charlie and Michael are simply giddy that the Frisones are here and spending the night. Bedtime tonight was pretty smooth. Sophie had some tears but not too many. We went to CiCi's pizza tonight and had some time after dinner to play some games in the game room. Mario told me at bedtime that he wished his dad would have been there at CiCi's because "dad likes guns" (I strongly discouraged them from playing the video games with rifles and hand guns) I told him that guns weren't really my thing and he said "praying for Frankie is your thing". What a kid!
Our new neighbors went with us to CiCi's and the mom commented several times on how caring and nurturing the children were to each other and how impressed she was with their manners and behavior. They are such neat children and I am so pleased to be able to spend some time with them.
We'll call tomorrow morning so they can say hi. Talk with you soon.
Jane <jeffjane99@adelphia.net>
- Monday, March 12, 2007 10:03 PM CDT

Hi Jean - glad to hear that my mom and dad got a chance to visit with you and Frankie over the weekend. I wish I was closer so that I could visit too. Please know I continue to think of Frankie and your entire family everyday.
Take care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Monday, March 12, 2007 9:08 PM CDT

Jean, Thanks for the pep talk, I needed that.
Isn't it supposed to be me, giving you strength.
Give Mame a big hug for me, she is such a good friend.
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, ohio usa - Monday, March 12, 2007 2:47 PM CDT

Jean,
How sad to read that Frankie had such a bad weekend. I pray that the doctor can find out what the problem is and take care of it. She has been in the hospital so long she probably thinks this is her normal life now. Poor little one.
I continue to pray for you all and hope that God in His mercy will end this nightmare that you are living.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 12, 2007 11:36 AM CDT

Hi Jean,

I'm sorry to hear that you had such a tough weekend with little Frankie. Another hill on the roller coaster ride you've been on for a couple of months. I'll keep praying for her and for you.

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Monday, March 12, 2007 10:48 AM CDT

Dear Jeanie, The weekend seems to have been so hard for Frankie and you. Thank God for the wonderful medical staff and for your vocation as a nurse. I was reading this morning and thought of you "The things that are impossible with men are possible with God"...Lk. 18:27 Praying that God touches the physicians that make decisions and care for Frankie so they are guided by His hand and direction. love, sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Monday, March 12, 2007 10:13 AM CDT

Good morning Jean. Rick and I felt so fortunate to be able to visit with you and Frankie yesterday. She is so very precious. You are a remarkable mother. I hope you are taking care of yourself (as much as you can). I pray today is a good day.
Love, Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, March 12, 2007 8:27 AM CDT

Hold on to God's promises. "My grace is sufficient for you, for my strength is made perfect in your weakness." 2 Corinthians 12:9
Love and prayers going your way.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Monday, March 12, 2007 7:04 AM CDT

Jean: Good Morning to you and Frankie! It was so nice to see you both yesterday, along with Angelo, Gina, Maria, Sophia and Mario. You are an amazing woman and Mom. With all that is going on, your children always have a smile on their faces and show so much love from their hearts. On a lighter note, the picture of Mark at the beach with Frankie will provide a lot of comic relief here at the office! ha, ha!! Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, March 12, 2007 6:15 AM CDT

Jean, Frankie is so lucky to have you as her mom and nurse! Keeping the prayers going for all of you!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Monday, March 12, 2007 6:03 AM CDT

Jean,
As always, we send our prayers for Frankie's healing and your strength to get through another day. You are truely an amazing Mom (and nurse) who is filled with love for her children.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Sunday, March 11, 2007 10:45 PM CDT

Jean and Mark, Does CC have a Play Therapy Dept.? Many years ago, when we could no longer engage our non-communicative 4 yr. old Kristen, a visit from "Miss Francis" soon became the highlight of her day (and ours!). She may be too ill to go to the P.Th. Room, but the therapist can come to her, if there is one! Also, Peds Psychology did a wonderful job engaging her when we no longer could. She is most probably suffering a form of depression, even at her tender age. She has gone through so much....as she gets older, she understands more, misses her family and routine and doesn't understand the "whys?" of her situation. As a tired parent, visits from these wonderful professionals were as helpful to us as to her, I'm certain! You remain in our prayers, as always.

Flip Eavenson <jfkacres@aol.com>
Aurora, OH USA - Sunday, March 11, 2007 5:33 PM CDT

Jean: I tried to send a message yesterday but for some reason it wouldn't go through. Each day I check the website and sometimes we hear about a little miracle happening and then some days it's not so good. I don't know why Frankie has to go through all of this - only God does, but I do know in my heart that all will be well and our little Frankie will be home soon. We love you all and continue to send prayers and good thoughts your way. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Sunday, March 11, 2007 11:56 AM CDT

Dearest Frisone Family, Continued and ongoing prayers for the strength you need to go through the hard times. You are never far from so many hearts and minds. Frankie is so much in need of some joy and fun and feeling herself. I pray for this throughout today. Love sandy

sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
a, ohio usa - Sunday, March 11, 2007 11:05 AM CDT

Jean,
Praying for all of you. Will ask for prayers at church this morning.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 11, 2007 8:44 AM CDT

Jean,
Frankie is so blessed that YOU are her Mom.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Saturday, March 10, 2007 11:05 PM CST

Dear Jean, Praying for all of you today.
Love, Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Saturday, March 10, 2007 3:20 PM CST

HI Jean,

I read you journal every weekend when I come to work.
I was here extra on Friday and I was hoping to get Frankie's princess pillow to her with someone going out to your house. I decided that someone was me on Friday. Angelo was home and he took it. I was really impressed with his independence and ability to have a conversation.
I hope FRankie likes her princess pillow from Tara. God Bless her she has inspired us. Susan Johnston
Susan Johnston <sjohn44614@sssnet.com>
- Saturday, March 10, 2007 9:56 AM CST

Jean,
How sad to think that Francesca is not talking. This must be very hard on you. You have been through so much and it doesn't end. How you keep going is a tribute to your faith and God's mercy.
Please know that I pray for you and Frankie several times daily and will continue to do so.
God bless and keep you going until this ordeal is over.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 10, 2007 7:44 AM CST

Dear Jean, When things are so unbearable and confusing seems to be the time Jesus makes his strength and love so apparent to me. I will continue to pray and know He is present and loves us especially in the times we are most weary. Jeanie we are all holding hearts and hands awaiting the time when this journey will bring Frankie home and healthy and with her family. You are marvelous and few people have the strength and continued constitution you have shown us. Praise God for the witness and the faith that has grown from the trials one beautiful little girl has endured. I am thankful for you and your family. I pray daily for Frankie and for her healing. sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Saturday, March 10, 2007 6:39 AM CST

I pray Frankie would feel stronger today and that you would feel renewed strength. Frankie has had setbacks before and has come a long way. You're an awesome mom, Jean, just keep trusting in the Lord. He's with you and He loves you.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Saturday, March 10, 2007 5:10 AM CST

Prayers that today is a better one for Frankie and a better one for you. I'm sorry that it's been so tough . . . again. I think things with Frankie are going to start going well again very soon - that's what I'm praying for.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
- Friday, March 9, 2007 10:26 PM CST

I hope that Francesca has a better day today. It has to be so confusing for you to watch her energy and endurance fluctuate so drastically day to day. Hopefully it won't be much longer before she can become somewhat predictable. That would be a blessing. I continue to pray for Frankie. I am hoping that your family is coping with your absence and daily functioning. My very best to you.
Mary Lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 2:54 PM CST

Dear Jean, I am so sad to hear of Frankie's day. I am praying for renewed strength for you and Frankie and All the Frisones. This roller coaster ride you are all on has been very tough for quite a while now. I pray that the ups will continue until you all come into the home stretch. God bless you all. Liz
Liz Flaker <eaf25@hotmail.com>
Akron, oh - Friday, March 9, 2007 2:39 PM CST

Hi Jean--I trust that today will be a better day for Francesca--my class prays for her each day in their morning petitions--it brings tears to my eyes when they ask that God may make Francesca well. They are still praying for the baby you asked everyone to pray for a couple of weeks ago (she was going into surgery)--they prayed for the doctors, too. The Lord does listen to our prayers--I am confident that Frankie will be up and running very soon!!!! Love and Prayers, Aunt Cindi and Uncle Joe
cindi pritt <jrpritt@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, March 9, 2007 9:51 AM CST

Hi Jean. We remember, all too well, the fatigue and anxiety that comes from standing by a loved one who is ill, listening to every breath and monitoring every drip. Although you must trust the experts, never discount a mother's love, instinct and determination to protect and nurture her child. Can you imagine a world where every single child had an advocate that was willing to suspend their dignity and "lose it" for them?! Just remember that you must take care of yourself to keep taking care of your loved ones. From the heart of one mother to another, I continue to pray for renewed courage, strength, wisdom and balance as we all wait with trust and hope for the better days that soon will come. GOD BLESS.
Linda Marcin <the4marcins@hotmail.com>
Akron, OH USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 7:48 AM CST

Mark and Jean: I'm very sorry to hear that Frankie is not feeling as good as she was the other day. She just might be a little tired from all the exercise. Know that we are continuing to pray for all of you and we look forward to seeing you soon. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, March 9, 2007 7:33 AM CST

Hi Jean,
I am sorry to hear that Frankie did not have a good day yesterday. It could be that she is tired from all the activity. After not doing anything for several weeks, it is probably a lot of work for her body to just what we consider "minimal" activity. Is the "in house PT" working with her? If not, maybe that should be a consideration so that they can help you out by making suggestions to "pace" her activities.
Take care!
Cathy
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
Akron, OH - Friday, March 9, 2007 7:31 AM CST

Hi my name is Cortney Rogers. Debbie Johnston told me that your daughter was sick. I will pray for you everyday. God works miracles and he will work one for your little one. I remember you vaguely. My daughter was born at CCF 16 weeks early (24weeks gestation)on Aug 1 2004 she was 1 pound 7 ounces at birth. Her name is Emily. We were at the Ronald Mcdonald house too. OK well please know that our family is praying for your family.
God Bless
Cortney Rogers
Cortney <cbrogers5454@yahoo.com>
Bellevue, oh 44811 - Friday, March 9, 2007 7:19 AM CST

Dear Jean, I know yesterday was not a good day and I'm so sorry. How difficult it must be not to have answers to what is causing Frankie's sudden change. My heart aches for you as you continue to comfort and nurse precious Frankie. I'm praying for both of you.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Friday, March 9, 2007 7:14 AM CST

So glad to hear the good news that Francesca is up and walking around.....Such good news.

Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Thursday, March 8, 2007 10:08 PM CST

Way to go, Francesca! I am still praying for all of you - what joy to read of her progress!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 2:23 PM CST

I was so glad to read that Frankie was up and becoming more mobile. That is exciting!! You and your entire family are in my prayers each day, even though I may not always write an entry. I hope that Frankie gets to the playroom soon!
Sue Cimino <ravennafrank@ aol.com>
ravenna, oh usa - Thursday, March 8, 2007 12:03 AM CST

Hi Jean,

Sounds like another step in the right direction for your Frankie. I'm sure she will regain her strength in time...She takes after her mom, one of the strongest people I know.

As always, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Your faithfulness make His Miracles complete.

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Thursday, March 8, 2007 10:38 AM CST

Dear Jean and family, Praise God for each and every positive step to recovery for Frankie. It is so good to hear she is up and standing and wanting more to drink. Soon she will be up & playing and giving her brothers and sisters orders! Continued prayer and love, Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Thursday, March 8, 2007 10:15 AM CST

Dearest Jean, Whenever we pray for your beautiful little champion, we remember the words of our Lord, "I Thirst". It is hard to fathom so much suffering but the goal is so much nearer even though each little baby step in the right direction must seem like a mountain mile. Although we must get through Friday to get there, we are an Easter people and we continue to love and support you with hope and love. Hang in there! God bless.
Phil & Linda Marcin <the4marcins@hotmail.com>
Akron, OH USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 9:15 AM CST

How wonderful that the chest tube was finally removed! Each day, small steps. We are praying every day. In fact, if I forget to mention her name, the little ones remind me about "Cesca". God is good!
Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 8, 2007 8:43 AM CST

Jean: So glad to hear that Frankie is doing better. We are hoping to come see you both soon. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, March 8, 2007 8:14 AM CST

Jean and Mark, and all the Frisone family -- you continue in our prayers. We're glad to hear that Francesca is able to be up and moving around! May God continue to give you patience and strength.
Reid Hamilton & Canterbury House <rhhamilt@umich.edu>
Ann Arbor, MI - Thursday, March 8, 2007 8:08 AM CST

Dear Jean, What a wonderful mother you are - Frankie is so fortunate. Praying for you both.
Love, Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Thursday, March 8, 2007 7:54 AM CST

Jean,
Wonderful news! I'm sure that she will improve daily now. I hope that you get to take her to the playroom today or tomorrow for sure. How wonderful that will be to see her being normal again.
Am continuig to pray for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 8, 2007 7:53 AM CST

Thinking of you!
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 10:24 PM CST

Dear Mrs. Frisone,
I'm so glad to hear that she is improving. I hope you can make these last few steps as quickly as possible. Let me know if there's anything I can do. I'd be glad to help out.
Love,
Josephine
Josephine <Josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 8:57 PM CST

Jean,
So glad to hear about all the improvements. I'm sure that this is the step towards going home.
Bless you for being such a wonderful, patient mother that you have withstood all that you have gone through.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 7, 2007 6:09 PM CST

We at Lake Cable continue to keep you in our prayers. God has given you such strength and will continue to do so. Frankie is certainly a strong little girl, what a fighter. She will be stronger with time, and just think in a few more weeks we awaken to a beautiful Easter morn, and how much stronger she may be by then. God Bless You All.

debbi lowry <dlowry@neo.rr.com>
canton, oh - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 5:34 PM CST

Mom and I are trying to find a way to get ourselves up to Cleveland this Saturday (you know with her highway issues and all) to see you and Frankie. We miss you guys so much. I am so happy to hear she is doing a little better. Let her know how much I love her and give her a hug. I'll get in touch with you to make sure that it's okay to come up.
Kaylee <crishub3@aol.com>
Akron, OH United States - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 4:53 PM CST

Jean, It was great to speak with you yesterday. I hope the info was helpful. Please keep me posted if there is anything I can help with. It is exciting to know that Frankie is moving towards more movement and upright. Your family continues to be in prayer, and hope you can all be together soon. Barb
Barb Moleodr <barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 3:22 PM CST

Jean: Frankie will be up and walking and running in no time - I have no doubt about it!! And then when the weather breaks and it gets warm, she will be ready for that ride on our Harley!! (Or at least sit on it with us!) So glad to hear that she is in a step-down unit. Our continued prayers are with you always and even when you come home. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 1:52 PM CST

Every step Francesca takes is a step closer to being home!!
Remember, the Lord is always near. We're praying continually for all the Frisones.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, March 7, 2007 1:40 PM CST

Dear Jean,
Just wanted to let you know that I think of you often and continue to pray for your whole family. Frankie is a fighter and will overcome all these obstacles that are presented to her. May you feel God's loving arms around you as all of us continue to lift up prayers for the Frisone family.
With love and peace,
Mary
Mary Rodenbucher <Sportsmom@neo.rr.com>
Randolph, Oh - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 1:28 PM CST

Jean,
I am happy to hear that she is up and trying to walk. I'm sorry that it has been such a long road, but trust that things will soon improve!
Cathy <webercath@juno.com>
Akrokn, OH - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 12:59 AM CST

Jean,
Praying that things are progressing well for Frankie.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, March 7, 2007 9:57 AM CST

Frisone Family - continue to hang on to that FAITH - no matter how hard, how frustrating...they say "patience" is one of the fruits of the Spirit...and your whole family is SO deeply rooted in the Holy Spirit...your message today just sounded so tired...may the strength of the prayers of literally thousands of people continue to bolster Frankie and the whole family, who patiently endure and wait and pray and believe.
Much love, A Parishioner at St. Matthias
Parma, OH, US of A - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 10:02 PM CST

Frankie girl, you made my weekend! It was so wonderful to see you smile in spite of all you have been through :) And you have PINK fingernails! YEAH! You are one tough cookie. Hope to see you again real soon. And that you are getting more popsicles! Take care of mom and grandma, prayers to you all.
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 8:47 PM CST

God in his infinite love and mercy will heal you. May all your prayers be answered, and may the love of jesus heal you quickly....Love Don and kate,,,(work with Randy)
Don and Kate Williamson <dkwillie@hotmail.com>
Greensboro, nc usa - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 2:11 PM CST

Hi Jean,

I hope the surgery to remove the tube is yet another step on the road to recovery, and one step closer to where you want to be... Home with your family.

We'll keep praying, you keep doing what your're doing.

God Bless,
Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Tuesday, March 6, 2007 10:32 AM CST

Good morning Jean, I hope both you and Frankie had a restful night and that today brings steps forward in her healing and maybe even to step-down. I spoke with Mamie last evening. What a great friend you have! Take care and I know you'll keep us up to date when you can.
Love, Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 8:08 AM CST

Jean: Just wanted to say "good morning" to you and Frankie. I hope she had a restful night after surgery. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Can't wait to see you both. Wait until you see what we brought Frankie back from Florida!! Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, OH - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 6:32 AM CST

Please know we pray for all of your family every day. So happy to hear Frankie is doing better. Home can't be far away.
Kaylee's Gm <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl USA - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 4:42 AM CST

I know it will lighten your heart to know the kids were so happy and giggling throughout the day. We all missed each other so much that it will take a while to catch up. School work went like a breeze, "Warden Jordan" kept us entertained with her stories. She was so helpful.
And the kids love her.
We tried to do Inventure Place in coordination with one of their Dr. apts., but they are closed Mon. and Tues. With that disappointing news, Maria said with delight, "Can we go to the Elms and visit the nuns?" It was past their normal visiting time, but I thought the Dear Nuns would appreciate being thought of right up there with so many great inventors. Your prayers are so appreciated.
Keep up the good work Frankie! I look forward to taking you outside to have all you can eat popscicles.
Jean, your ability to focus when things get rough is grace.
I find my mind not able to retain all the facts necessary and you are on top of it in a nano second. Comes from walking in faith, under the blanket of so many caring people, storming heaven.
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio United States of America - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 0:06 AM CST

Jean
We hope that today brought more positive steps of healing.
Thinking of you.
Love and prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Oh - Monday, March 5, 2007 10:22 PM CST

Dear Jean, I hope today's surgery went well and Frankie is recovering. Your entire family is in our prayers. It was good to have Mark back at the office today. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, March 5, 2007 5:40 PM CST

Jean,
What wonderful news. No more dialysis! Hopefully she will tolerate the feedings and you will be home soon. It sure sounds like she's on the mend finally.

We always need to remember that things happen not in our time but in God's time. I know that is so very hard to accept. We always want things to happen now.

Praying that Frankie will continue to improve hourly.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 5, 2007 4:01 PM CST

Mark and Jean: What wonderful news that the catheter is coming out. I know Frankie is on the road to recovery and she will be home soon. Much love to you all. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, March 5, 2007 12:37 AM CST

Thinking of you and hoping things are going okay. I look forward to reading an update soon!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Evanston, IL - Monday, March 5, 2007 9:49 AM CST

Jean and Mark - Many prayers for you and your daughter and the rest of your family. We do remember all of you in our prayers, even if you do not hear from us. I'm sure Jordan is up there looking over all of you. Lots of love.

Sister Nancy - Elms
Sister Nancy <ncrane@akronop.org>
The Elms - Akron , OH - Monday, March 5, 2007 8:23 AM CST

Dear Jean, Hope all is well - anxious to hear how Frankie is doing. Praying for all of you!
Love, Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, March 5, 2007 7:07 AM CST

Jean,
Still praying for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 5, 2007 6:52 AM CST

Jean,
Hoping there have been no updates due to Frankie's improved health and activity. Please know I am thingking of you and praying that all is well.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 4, 2007 2:06 PM CST

Mark and Jean: We got back home yesterday around 6pm and sure were surprised this morning to see all the snow again. I'm hoping all is well due not seeing any new updates. Sam and I will help in any way we can. Be sure to give Frankie a hug and kiss from us. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Sunday, March 4, 2007 12:11 AM CST

Jean,
Hoping that this Lord's Day will find things better for Frankie and all of you. Will ask for continued prayer at church this morning.

May God continue to bless and keep all of you in His loving arms.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 4, 2007 7:41 AM CST

Hoping things are improving with Frankie and that you are finding the strength you need to continue this awsome vigil. We are keeping all of you in our prayers. What a wonderful inspiration you are as parents.

Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
THE VILLAGES, FL USA - Sunday, March 4, 2007 5:11 AM CST

Hi, its Josephine and if you would like some help on March 5th I would be glad to help out. I have softball from 1-3 but I can work before that, after that, or both. I will call in case you don't check this. All my prayers go out to you!
love,
josephine
Josephine <Josephineland@aol.com>
Suffield, OH - Saturday, March 3, 2007 10:30 PM CST

Dear Jean, I'm so glad you are finally allowing us to help. I'm fighting some kind of bug myself so I'm going to pass on the 5th but will be checking on the week of the 12th. I hope things are going ok with Frankie since there is no update. I'll check again. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora , Ohio - Saturday, March 3, 2007 4:15 PM CST

Jean,
Hope that today was a good day. Hope that Franlie made a lot of improvements and that Mark and the kids are all better.

Am still praying for healing and peace of mind.
Love,
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 3, 2007 3:07 PM CST

Off the ventilator...
Breathe in the Name of Jesus
Breathe out the Name of Jesus
all day long. every day. for many many years to come.
May God continue to bless and heal Frankie. May God hold you all so very close.
The Mungo's
Cathy Mungo
Medina, OH United States - Saturday, March 3, 2007 1:38 PM CST

Jean,
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with Frankie and all of you. I am so glad that Frankie is finding more comfort off the ventilator. Hopefully if she moves around more she will feel even more relief.

May God continue to bless Frankie this day.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 3, 2007 6:51 AM CST

Jean,
You are an incredible Mom!! Stay strong.
We pray that everyday is a better day then the day before
and that "everyone" gets well.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Friday, March 2, 2007 10:27 PM CST

Our prayers continue for Frankie and your entire family.
Stephanie and RachelJoy <mom2rj@comcast.net>
- Friday, March 2, 2007 5:44 PM CST

Flip Evenson left me a message that was suggesting that we could collectively gather money and put it on two VISA cards, one for Mark and one for Jean. That way they could us the donations anywhere they need. Thank you for that great idea. If you'd like to participate in that option email me (below). My address is 224 Timber Trail Medina, Ohio 44256. 330-725-7722-home. 330-241-1328-cell.
Thanks again for your support of the Frisone Family.

Also still looking for help at the house!
Mamie Wilson <gwilson@wyseadv.com>
Medina, Oh USA - Friday, March 2, 2007 3:03 PM CST

Mark and Jean: Glad to hear that Frankie is doing better. She is strong and it won't be any time and she will be home. We are coming home from Florida tomorrow and have something for Frankie. Will check the website when we arrive back home. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Friday, March 2, 2007 12:38 AM CST

I prayed for Frankie and the whole family at Adoration last night. I'm really glad we have an idea of some practical ways to help you, even from afar! Still praying.
Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Friday, March 2, 2007 10:42 AM CST

Dear Mom and Frankie,
I'm sorry, the computer had a glitch and put my message on the website twice before I could finish the message. Well, let me finish it here. As I said, I finished my books and am reading another one [Everybody here thinks I read too much!]. I am now back on track with my school work [Blah!] and Dad, the little kids, and me are going to play some of his games like 'Weakest Link' and 'Tickle Monster' Then I'm off to read some more!
Last night, me and Mario played a little trick on Dominic. Me, Dominic, and Mario had just finished cleaning our demolition of a room [Most off it was theirs! Honest! Weeell...Maybe some of it was mine.] and in a rambunctious done-with-cleaning-your-bedroom spirit, we proceeded to mess it up again in the worst ways possible. Soon, after the wild romp began, Dominic tripped over Mario's foot and Mario got hurt. He lay down on the bed and complained of a broken foot although he could move it enough to run after Dominic to try and get him for revenge. To make Mario feel better, me and Dominic displayed a elaborate show of me hitting Dominic with a pillow and him fake screaming in agony. Needless to say, Mario enjoyed the spectacle. We ended the show with me chasing Dominic out of the room. Mario and me thought Dominic had not been punished enough so Mario and me plotted. We finally came up with a good, quick, mostly non-lethal plan. Mario piggybacked on me and we hid in the hallway bathroom upstairs. I called Dominic in a stern voice and said "Dominic! Get up here and apologize to Mario!" Dominic came up saying "Don't hit me with that pillow or anything-" But he never finished. Me with Mario on my back, jumped out at Dominic just as he was passing the door to the Bathroom and we yelled like banshees. Dominic screamed like a little girl [Not Kidding!] And the scream would have curdled the blood of Dracula. Mario and I fell to the floor in bundles of laughter it was several minutes until we could stop and it was several minutes until Dominic could get the look of horror off his face. And now here I am. Dad said I have to go. Bye!
Love,
Gina
Gina Firsone <suffield7@aol.com>
Suffield, Ohio United States of America - Friday, March 2, 2007 10:09 AM CST

Dear Mom and Franky,
I'M CURED! I had a bad virus but now I'm back! I have now added finding a cure to viruses to my now long list of things to do when I'm a doctor. There was although a upside to staying in bed and throwing up. Chad Tatro gave me two books to bring home with me and read when I went to science class on Monday. The books are 'A Series of Unfortunatne Events' and 'Eragon'. I finished both in the same day and am now reading 'The Chronicles of Narnia' again.
Gina <suffield7@aol.com>
Suffield, Ohio United States of America - Friday, March 2, 2007 9:32 AM CST

home address:
1225 Catherine Street
Mogadore, Ohio 44260

Jean has the hospital address on the front page. She is in room M43-11.
Thanks all for the positive respond to the request for help. With friends and family support all of this is made easier!

Mamie Wilson <gwilson@wyseadv.com>
Medina, Oh USA - Friday, March 2, 2007 8:38 AM CST

Mamie - Where do we send the gift cards -- to Jean at the hospital or to their home? Maybe you could give both addresses for those who may not know? Is Frankie's room number the same or did it change since surgery? Everyone would like to help them out and this sure is a great way to do it. Thanks for the info. Love and continued prayers for Miss Frankie!

Cheryl
Clinton, OH usa - Friday, March 2, 2007 3:27 AM CST

Jean
We hope that you and Frankie have a restful night and that tomorrow brings even more positive steps.
Thinking of you.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Thursday, March 1, 2007 10:37 PM CST

Dear Jean, Fantastic!!! Awaiting more reports and steps toward recovery and comfort. Hope Mark and the kids are feeling better. I Continue to pray and give thanks. Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
a, oh usa - Thursday, March 1, 2007 8:52 PM CST

HOORAY for no more ventilator!!!!!!!!!!!!! PRAYING for a GREAT night for the entire FRISONE FAMILY!!!!!!! We are thrilled and pray for more good news EVERY day. PLEASE tell Mark and the kids to eat Yogurt ( acidophilus) and drink a lot of fluids when they are feeling better. It will quicken their recovery. Hang in there!!

LOVE,
MELISSA, LARRY AND SAMANTHA BENNETT <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Thursday, March 1, 2007 6:00 PM CST

Jean,
What a relief for you that Frankie is resting comfortably. Hopefully this will be the start of the road home for her.

What you have endured since January 14 is unbelievable. I admire you so much and the strength you exibit in the face of all these crises.

So sorry to hear that Mark and some of the kids are under the weather. I guess you have to expect some "normal things" to happen along with what Frankie is going through.

God will surely save you from all these trials eventually.

May God sustain you and bless you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 1, 2007 5:36 PM CST

We returned from visiting our daughter in New Orleans. I think of you and all you and little Frankie are dealing with while I go on a trip. My prayers are for all the Frisones and especially your brave littlest daughter.
Sue Cimino <ravennafrank@aol.com>
ravenna, oh usa - Thursday, March 1, 2007 4:20 PM CST

Dear Jean, Prayers are constant from us. I knew yesterday Mark was not feeling well. I hope he and all the kids who are sick get better soon. F&CS has an all day in-service tomorrow. Hopefully you'll leave a voice mail as I won't have access to Frankie's website. Love
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Thursday, March 1, 2007 4:15 PM CST

I continue to pray for you all! God is good... all the time! All the time.... God is good!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Thursday, March 1, 2007 2:24 PM CST

Praying for you and the little one who is having surgery. I am happy that the surgery went well....We are inspired by you Jean..............MJ
Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Thursday, March 1, 2007 8:24 AM CST

It sounds like things are finally starting to turn the corner. Wonderful news! We will continue to pray everyday for her increased strength, especially as she is extubated. We are also praying today for Dr. Mumtaz. I have already seen how God uses his hands to do amazing things. He did such a wonderful job on a little Honduran baby recently. And he has been extremely kind and gracious to us in the many questions we've had about our daughter's upcoming surgery. He is special. But I am sure you know that. Anyway, with the first of March here, there is a promise of spring in the air and a promise of renewal for the earth and weary hearts. As we walk with Jesus, let us remember that our own crosses are carried by Him as well if we submit our lives to Him. Praise Him and His Glorious Name!
Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 1, 2007 8:11 AM CST

Mark and Jean: Glad to hear that Frankie is doing okay. There are so many of us praying for her and all of you, I have no doubt all will be well. I will check the website again later in the day. We are off to the Ponce Inlet and maybe the Daytona Speedway. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, March 1, 2007 7:34 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
I am so thankful that Frankie had a calmer day yesterday. Hopefully this will be the start of better days ahead for all of you. How wonderful that there were no complications this time.
Praying for a wonderful day filled with many good times.
Will pray for a good outsome for the baby who has surgery today.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, March 1, 2007 6:27 AM CST

Good morning Jean,
More memories from the window sill in Frankie's room.
I will treasure them in my heart.
You inspire me to keep going with a smile,
I Love You,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, March 1, 2007 5:08 AM CST

We are glad to hear that the surgery went well.
We'll continue to pray for Frankie's healing and your strenght. Also praying for Fr. Phil.
And we'll add the sweet baby that is at the beginning of it's journey.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 10:34 PM CST

Jean and Mark
I'm so glad to hear things are going better. That Frankie is something else, she just keeps on going. God knew what He was doing when He decided you were the ones to get her. I know you will need some extra help with the kids at home during March. I will mail you my schedule for March so you will know when I am available. My prayers are always with you.
Pat Shondrick <pshondrick@neo.rr.com>
Mogadore, OH - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 9:53 PM CST

When will those doctors ever learn that Frankie is in charge! I am so glad that the latest surgery seemed to help so much. Hope and pray this is one more step towards getting you ALL home. Love and prayers
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 7:09 PM CST

Dear Jean, So thankful and happy the surgery went well and that Frankie is fiesty and giving the docs a run for their money...wow what a little champ! Continued prayers for Frankie and for Fr. Phil. You are a marvelous mom and Frankie is a little miracle...God Bless, Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, ohio usa - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 6:28 PM CST

Jean and MArk,
Hoping that the day went well for Francesca and for you. Hoping that tomorrow finds her really improved and alert.
Blessings to all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 28, 2007 6:11 PM CST

Dear Jean, Thinking of you and Frankie and hoping all is as well as can be expected. You're in our prayers as always.
Love, Rick and Terri <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 5:58 PM CST

Jean,
I came across this verse and couldn't help but think of all you are going through.

But as for me, I shall sing of your strength;
Yes, I shall joyfully sing of Your lovingkindness in the morning,
For you have been my stronghold,
And a refuge in the day of my distress.
O my strength, I will sing praises to You;
For God is my stronghold,
The God who shows me lovingkindness.
Psalm 59:16-17

Still praying.

Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Wednesday, February 28, 2007 4:36 PM CST

Mark and Jean,

We haven't left a message, but have been following the little one's progress since this site was first created. Your daughter is on our minds, and we check in often. We just spent some time in Aruba, and thankfully, we had wireless internet. She was part of our morning ritual....coffee, email, and this website.

I am sure both of you are feeling cautiously optimistic. I'm not at all surprised that sedation isn't working.....look at her dad!

Our prayers are with the three of you and the rest of your beautiful family. Know that there are many of us viewing this website that may not leave messages, but are praying for all of you. God Bless!
Linda & Paul Copley <lindacopley@hotmail.com>
Kent, OH - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 3:43 PM CST

Glad to hear the surgery went smoothly - still keeping you all in my thoughts & prayers.
Carole
Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, OH USA - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 3:31 PM CST

I can picture her fiestiness that you describe...but who would have thunk it with all those meds!!... Hopefully she will have a smooth 24 hrs. so she can be taken off the vent ASAP... What do you think her latest films looked like post-op?.. R. lung a little clearer?.. Can you visibly see the R. diaphram lower on the film... (which is supposed to be taken on inspiration).. I was amazed to see the heart so enlarged on the films over the weekend... I will keep praying for more and more progress in the right direction...
Marissa made the sacrament of her first reconciliation last night... Afterwards, when we were all standing in the very back, I noticed that we missed the last phone update while in church...So we put your voice on speaker so we all could hear it...Mom, Joe, Deb myself and all the kids huddled around the phone to hear you say she was okay after her surgery...We all said "praise God!" all together...
Know I am always thinking and praying for you....
Let me know how I can be a help to you.... How about your needs for Dominic's upcoming first communion celebration?... I would love to help you with any preparation to be done with this...
Love you....
T...
Christie Hamilton <Christie.Hamilton@osumc.edu>
Grove City, OH - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 2:28 PM CST

that Francesca is such a mystery. I loved your prase...like trying to drug an elephant. hope that the next 24hrs goes well for her...thinking of her and your family.
Mary lou Renner <marylour@portagemrdd.org>
Kent, Ohio USA - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 2:09 PM CST

Jean and Mark,

I am glad the surgery went well, and also pleased to hear that she is already being fiesty. Hopefully, the increased thoracic room and minimized drainage will speed along the healing process.

Hang in there... Continued prayers, and much love!

Tim
Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
- Wednesday, February 28, 2007 9:34 AM CST

This little one is a fighter and so precious. Continue prayers and blessings.
Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 9:06 AM CST

Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers!

Family Service Council of Ohio
Peg Burns
Columbus, Ohio - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 8:20 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
Sounds like she's raring to get going. What a fighter she is!
How is Fr. Phil doing? Will continue to pray hard for both of them and all of you today. I pray that today will be the best day yet.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 28, 2007 7:51 AM CST

Mark and Jean,

We were thrilled to read the 6am successfull surgery update on Frankie. We thought of her all night. We will continue to think and pray for all of you.

Love,
Melissa, Larry and Sam Bennett <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, February 28, 2007 7:14 AM CST

Mark and Jean: How thankful we are that the surgery went smoothly. Frankie is a little trooper and I have no doubt she will be home soon. As always, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 7:12 AM CST

What a little fighter you have. Her spunk is quite wonderful. I'm sure your closeness is bringing her a great deal of comfort and peace even though she hurts. God is indeed watching over her and helping her get better. We are praying for her as well as for your entire family that God will bring an end to this soon and you will all be back together again with a healthy little girl.
Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl usa - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 6:45 AM CST

You are in our constant thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 11:04 PM CST

Dear Jean and Mark, So glad to hear that Frankie's surgery went well and our prayer is that she is on the road to recovery and home. Now that she is resting comfortably you should too. Take care of yourselves - let us know if you need anything. Love
Rick and Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 7:33 PM CST

Dear Jean and Mark, We continue to pray for Frankie's full recovery and will remember her in Bible Study Wednesday. We are also praying for wisdom, guidance, and enduring strength for both of you as you deal not only with Frankie but also with the rest of the family. You are a great testimony to others and God will honor you for that. Hold on, stand firm, keep the faith.
Debbie Cooper LPN Hattie Larlham Community Services <nfbandmom1@earthlink.net>
Newton Falls, OH - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 7:05 PM CST

Mark & Jean; Praying Frankie's surgery has gone well and this will bring her along to a full recovery!
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 6:57 PM CST

Dearest Jean and Family, Rest assurred there are a multitude of prayers and that we are with you in thought and supporting a successful surgery. We will continue to pray for Frankie night and day and the people caring for her as well as you and your family. Love, Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, ohio usa - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 5:08 PM CST

Dear Jean, Mark, and Francesca,
May this be the beginning of complete recovery. God Bless you with strength to continue through each long day. I see Frankie playing in the springtime sun and fresh air that is just around the corner. God is good.
debbi, from Lake Cable
Debbi Lowry <dlowry@neo.rr.com>
- Tuesday, February 27, 2007 4:54 PM CST

Dear Jean, Mark and Frankie. I'm praying for Frankie during her surgery and that God guides the surgeons. I'm also praying for you and Mark. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@protagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 4:43 PM CST

Jean and Mark...
I just wanted to let you know we are praying for Frankie. We are also praying for the surgeons hands to go to the right spots at the right time. Thinking of you all everyday.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/sawyerdt
ashley <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
arden, nc - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 3:57 PM CST

Mark and Jean: Just read the recent update and our prayers and thoughts are with you. We were in St. Augustine today and we visted the oldest mission in Florida. I lit a candle for my Dad and asked that he continue to look after Frankie and all of you. He will not leave her side. I will check again tomorrow and pray that Frankie's procedure goes smoothly and safely. We love you all. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam

Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 3:00 PM CST

Dear Frisone Family,
We continue to pray for all of you and read the updates daily. May the Lord bless you with a positive outcome and please know that all of us standby to assist if you need anything. Love, The Jones Family
Tricia Jones <tricia.jones@sbcglobal.net>
Brimfield, oh Portage - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 12:23 AM CST

May God gather all of you in His loving arms and gently rock you today. (including all the doctors, nurses and staff caring for Frankie) - my prayers continue for a successful surgery today. Love, Carol Morling
Carol Morling <cmorling@comcast.net>
Mechanicsville, VA USA - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 11:27 AM CST

Dear Jean and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family everyday. I'm praying for your dear little Francesca as she has another surgery and hope she recovers real soon. I ran into Tony at the Dr. office last week and he gave me an update and M keeps me informed also. I had asked my little Italian friend, Josephine, to pray for Francesca some time ago. When we talked the other day she told me she's been praying for a little girl Francesca and her gramma Rita, for a couple of years now. We couldn't believe it when we realized it was the same Francesca and Rita. Your mother worked, at one time, where Josephines sister, Antoniet Julia Didato lives. That's where Josephine met Rita. She continues to pray everyday for all of you also and said to tell Rita hello. What a small world. May God bless you and your family and give you strength each day. M's friend,

Nancy <Nance1029@aol.com>
Akron, Oh - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 9:44 AM CST

Jean,

I lifted you and Frankie up in a my Rosary this morning... I am confident that Mary understands the struggles of a mother carring for a sick or suffering child, and will interceed accordingly. Mary's faithfulness to and acceptance of God's will for both her and her devine son stands as a shinning beacon for all of us to emmulate. In many respects you are walking that same path with Frankie, and with all of your children. Rest assured that you will find favor with God for that faithfulness.

I was so happy to see you and Frankie yesterday, it really made my day. I feel truely blessed to call you friend!

I will pray for a successful outcome to today's surgery, and ask others to do the same.

God Bless
Tim

Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
Cuyahoga Falls, OH USA - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 9:39 AM CST

Dearest Jean, Although our all loving Father knows what we are praying for before we do, it helps to know what is going on so we can pray from our deepest hearts. With all that you are going through, thank you so much for keeping us informed. This community of care and prayer is with you in spirit every step of the way. God bless you all. We wait for word in confident hope and love. Phil & Linda
Phil & Linda Marcin <the4marcins@hotmail.com>
Akron, OH Summit - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 9:16 AM CST

I am with you Jean ............praying for Francesca and her surgery.........I am keeping Rome informed...........Love and Prayers..
MJ
Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 7:52 AM CST

Jean, Can't wait to see you,
Thank you one and all for your prayers and support.
To hear the strength in Jean's voice is a blessing and a grace.
Keep the faith,
Love,
Mom
rita warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 7:46 AM CST

Good morning Jean, My prayers are with Frankie today (and of course you and Mark) as she prepares for and is in surgery. I hope this finally resolves her issues with drainage from her chest. Did you find help for all of the children today? I heard from Rita and know someone is working on a schedule for you. Feel free to give them my number if help is needed. Please let us know how Frankie does after surgery - when you have time of course. Love to you all.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 7:37 AM CST

Dear Jean and Mark,
Continued prayers today especially for the procedure being done this morning. We are behind you all, storming heaven in Francesca's name.
Tim and Linda DeFrange <timlin@neo.rr.com>
Kent, OH USA - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 7:23 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
Please know that I am still praying for Frankie, Fr. Phil and all of you. How is Fr. Phil doing?

It sounds like Frankie is slowly coming around. I pray that it is continuing and that it is smooth sailing from now on.

Mark, I LOVE my new office. Thank you so much!
Love, Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 27, 2007 6:09 AM CST

Jean
Thinking of you and praying for Frankie's healing and your strenght.
It was fun having the "little kids" at KSS today-they are such a joy and so good.
Love,
Debby

Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Monday, February 26, 2007 10:42 PM CST

I have continued to pray for you ALL daily even though I have been unable to check on you daily. I am back in the loop now and can pray more specifically. May Frankie make a revolutionary turn around very soon!!!
All my love,
Liz
Liz Flaker <eaf25@hotmail.com>
Akron, oh - Monday, February 26, 2007 6:25 PM CST

Dear Jean, Thank you for the update. I'm sorry you're losing one provider but am grateful another has returned. It was WONDERFUL seeing Mario, Dominic, Sophia and Maria today. What great children they are. Never a complaint, just playing games the entire time they were at the office. I gave Sophie a picture of our puppy today. She seemed to love it. Frankie will be getting some pictures soon! Jean, what can I do to help? Please let me know. The offer is always there. Hoping you and Frankie have a peaceful night. Much love to you.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, February 26, 2007 5:57 PM CST

Dear Family:
I think everyone who checks Frankie's page should say a rosary for her tonight or tomorrow and pass that request along to their friends and families too. Think of how many prayers to our Blessed Mother that would be and the blessings it will bring to her! She continues to be in our hearts and on our minds day and night. She sounds like she is making baby steps in the right direction. We want to come and see her so much, but not until she feels up to it. Jean, I can't imagine how you are doing what you do and for so long. I realize you don't have any other choice, but know that you are being prayed for as well. We ask God to keep you strong and safe as you sit by Frankie's side. Because she is fighting, you are too, right along with her. Stay strong baby girl. Your family loves you so much and is so worried about you. Thank you for the updates Jean and thanks for changing her address so all of us can send get well cards her way. If there is anything you want Greg and I to do, please let me know. Love and prayers,
Cheryl and Greg
Cheryl Roarty
Clinton, Oh Summit - Monday, February 26, 2007 5:10 PM CST

Mark,Jean,Francesca&family. Our powerful prayers and thoughts are with you, Continue to stay strong.
jimmy raines <jraines5@msn.com>
suffield, oh portage - Monday, February 26, 2007 3:34 PM CST

Jean...
I just have to say your strength is blowing me away... Seeing you yesterday, first sitting with your children, then caring and loving Francesca with your unbelievable qualities of a mother and your superb qualities as a nurse... You know her care would be different if you weren't by her side... The things you "caught" while just being there and making sure things are run properly is amazing... Your knowledge and expertise in every area of her care is truly amazing... It was very difficult seeing her, knowing how much she has had to battle and knowing what is ahead...but it was also wonderful seeing her with her girly clip on top of her head, her half smiles and her asking softly for a Barney movie and sips of water... Her amazing "splits" in bed were funny and her soft voice was sooo sweet...
I wish you strength to keep on doing what you are doing...You are amazing.... Also, keep me in mind for the times, maybe on the weekends where you would like to go home for a bit and I will sit all day and night with her... Let me know what your needs are... It felt good to finally give you a hug... Know I am here for you, Mark, and the kids...
Love you...
T
Christie Hamilton <Christie.Hamilton@osumc.edu>
Grove City, OH - Monday, February 26, 2007 3:03 PM CST

Mark and Jean: Frankie is a true miracle and she will pull through. Her peeing without the dialysis is a giant step and she will continue to pee more and more. Sorry to hear about your friend Jeff leaving the Clinic. The man upstairs will not leave you without someone. You are all on my mind constantly and will continue to pray for you. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, February 26, 2007 1:17 PM CST

Although I will never presume to know how much you are undergoing, we (my husband Marcelo and I) do understand how frustrating the chest tube output issue can be. Bella was back in the hospital an additional 2 weeks after going home from her surgery at 8 months. She had the sclerosing (I'm not sure if that is spelled correctly)procedure done 3 times before it "took" and the drainage stopped and the chest x-rays cleared up. Dr. Mee had also entertained the possibility of going back in and surgically repairing it, but it didn't end up being necessary. We are praying that that will be the case for Francesca too. As for Jeff, please give him regards from the Gonzalez family. We think highly of him too. He was such a comfort when we were there. He will be greatly missed. May God continue to lift you up and help you to stay focused.
Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
University Heights, OH - Monday, February 26, 2007 12:45 AM CST

God bless both Jeff and Molly and all those they serve. Isn't it amazing how the Lord makes sure when one door closes another opens! Our prayers continue for Frankie, Phil and all those who love them and care for them. Much love and many prayers, Phil & Linda
Phil & Linda Marcin <the4marcins@hotmail.com>
Akron, OH Summit - Monday, February 26, 2007 12:08 AM CST

Mark and Jean: I see that there is no new update as of yet. I will check throughout the day. My prayers and thoughts are always with you all. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Monday, February 26, 2007 8:45 AM CST

Good morning Jean, No update yet so I'll check again. I hope Frankie rested comfortably last night and perhaps you were able to get some sleep too. I'm praying for all of you.
Love, Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Monday, February 26, 2007 7:35 AM CST

Jean & Mark...thinking and praying for Frankie! She's a tough cookie and will turn things around! Mark, we are heading to the Corporation office for a 90 minute meeting with David Eisner, and dinner tonight with Tess. I'll update on the happenings. Tomorrow will be on the HIll with meetings with T.Ryan and R. Regula. Hopefully we'll have some success in preventing the 12.1% reduction in FGP and SCP that the Prez has put in the 2008 budget!! Of course, we are educating them on the good works of the two programs.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Monday, February 26, 2007 5:58 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
I will be moving my office to Oakwood today and will not be able to check the site several times a day as I usually do. I will certainly still pray for Frankie, Fr. Phil and all of you.

May He keep you in His loving arms and hold you close no matter what this day brings.
Love, Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Monday, February 26, 2007 5:46 AM CST

Thinking of you and praying.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Sunday, February 25, 2007 11:21 PM CST

Hi Jean,
I am glad my dad got a chance to briefly visit with you and Frankie the other day. I know my mom is very anxious to see you! I wish I was closer to Cleveland because I would love to help out with the kids. You should take my mom up on her offer to help, she would love to have some kids running around her house! She is always reminding me how she wants grandkids! I continue to pray for all of you and also continue to be amazed by the strength of your family! Take care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Sunday, February 25, 2007 7:37 PM CST

Dear Jean, Continued prayers for Phil and Frankie and your family. Frankie is always in my thoughts and the set backs are so challenging. Continued prayers and love for all of you. Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Sunday, February 25, 2007 7:11 PM CST

Jean, Continued prayer is being sent for Frankie and your whole family. Attended a banquet this past week, the theme was "Angels Watch Over You." Thought of Frankie a lot. The bible verse for the evening was Psalm 91:11 "For God commands the angels to guard you in all your ways." We were reminded that we are all angels and we need to watch over one another. I thought Frankie has a lot of angels watching over her and praying for her each day. I pray that you can feel the presence of Frankie's Guardian Angel. We continue to pray for healing, strength and comfort. May your angels continue to guide you.
Rochelle Stein <rojf1@yahoo.com>
Kent, ohip - Sunday, February 25, 2007 6:30 PM CST

Jean and Mark,
I am still praying for all of you and Fr. Phil. This morning at church we all prayed for Frankie. Surely things will get better this week for her.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, February 25, 2007 6:07 PM CST

Dear Jean, Rick and I decided not to visit today. We do not want to show up unexpected. When the time is right for us to visit I'm sure you'll let us know. The offer is still here for us to help with the other children. We have lots of room and love to give. In fact, whoever would stay with us can go to work with me (unless Mark lets me take time off??). In fact, we can take Anthony and Joey to Hoban and pickup or whatever you need. If some of the children stay at our home I promise I'll cook! Just know we are waiting to help in any way we can. You can call at anytime. We're praying for you and Frankie and the entire family. We love you all very much!
Rick and Terri Clough <rectlc@windstream.net>
Aurora, Ohio - Sunday, February 25, 2007 4:04 PM CST

Unfortunately my too long message did not register so here I go again. Although you have every reason to let down your guard, be assured that we understand and are inspired by your perseverence. We can't judge Frankie's standing because she was born to these obstacles and doesn't know what "normal" is.

Your family (all) are so remarkable it's hard to comprehend.
Mark I hope you hold and comfort this amazing mother. When we hug we get double in return.

Father Phil has been an excetional influence in our family. He is an amazing man. Keeps things simple but totally real. The energy of our prayers are sent to all of you to return the favor for your fortitude.

Take care of yourselves since we don't want you fantastic parents to endure the consequences of stress. Keep positive and thank you for letting us be part of your life.

Lynne & Tony Shannon
Lynne Shannon <lynnetony@sbcglobal.net>
Stow, Ohio - Sunday, February 25, 2007 2:39 PM CST

I am with you and praying........I am soooooo sorry that Farncesca's condition seem to still challenge all. I am offering up all my own frustrations today for her and your family. I hope being closer your friends and family can see you. Blessings and Love
Mary Jo Alexander <MJAlexander48@sbcglobal.net>
Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio - Sunday, February 25, 2007 2:21 PM CST

Mark and Jean: Arrived in Florida about 11:30AM today. Had an hour delay leaving from Akron due to the ice. The weather is 75 and breezy!! I'm sorry to hear things are not going as smooth as we all would like. Frankie is a fighter and she will pull through and be home soon. I will check daily the website and always know that we will continue to pray and have you all in our thoughts. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Sunday, February 25, 2007 1:05 PM CST

Jean and family, Like so many others that are following Frankie's progress and your journey of trials and tribulations, I continue to pray for Frankie daily. When I sign onto your website, I am reminded to 'pray harder', it is a good reminder!
I wanted to share the words of a hymn we sung today. I thought of you and asked God to continue to lead you.

Lead me, guide me, along the way;
for if You lead me, I cannot stray.
Lord, let me walk each day with thee.
Lead me, O Lord, lead me.

I am weak and I need thy strength and power to help me over my weakest hour. Help me through the darkness thy face to see. Lead me, O Lord, lead me.

Help me tread in the paths of rightousness, be my aid when Satan and sin oppress. I am putting all my trust in thee.
Lead me, O Lord, lead me.

I am lost if you take your hand from me, I am blind without thy light to see. Lord, just always let me thy servant be. Lead me, O Lord, lead me.

May God's steadfast love continue to stengthen and support you.
One of many prayer warriors
- Sunday, February 25, 2007 12:22 AM CST

Dear Jean and family,
My mom had me go to your website. What a beautiful family you have. Francesca has such a light in her eyes. I was in Christie's class at Holy Family and I can remember her big sister who was always smiling and kind to everyone. You haven't changed. Your positive spirit and kindess shine through in your journal. Francesca and your entire family are inspiring. She is quite a little girl.
Please know we'll be thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers!!!
Amy Burg Cole <acole@neo.rr.com>
Stow, OH - Sunday, February 25, 2007 10:04 AM CST

Dear Jean, We are so sorry things are not going well right now. Had a message from Mark last night about Frankie so we'll try and check today to see if it's ok to visit you and Frankie. Just tell us what you need in terms of taking care of the children - we will do whatever you ask. We're praying for you and Frankie. Love,
Rick and Terri <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Sunday, February 25, 2007 7:13 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
Praying that this Lord's day will find Frankie much improved. She is so young, and all the things she has endured in her short life is more than ten people have faced.

I have been keeping Fr. Phil in my prayers also. He sounds like a wonderful man and I will continue to pray for both him and Frankie and all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, February 25, 2007 7:01 AM CST

The ups and downs must be so hard. We are praying that very soon Frankie will be stable and on her way to recovery and home. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Remember that it is in our lows that we grow. God does have a plan for us.
Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl USA - Sunday, February 25, 2007 5:05 AM CST

Francesca is in my prayers.
sara
lagrange, ga usa - Saturday, February 24, 2007 10:28 PM CST

Jean & Mark Been following the web site every day. Glad you're back in town. Been praying and will continue to pray for all of you. Will continue to keep Fr. Joe posted. Danie & Tom
Tom & Danie Nemeth <tndnwillows@netzero.com>
Aurora, OH - Saturday, February 24, 2007 6:32 PM CST

Jean & Mark; I am working in D.C. and will return home late on Wednesday, I'd be happy to help in anyway I can. Keeping Frankie and all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, OH - Saturday, February 24, 2007 5:17 PM CST

Jean and Mark,
So sorry to read that Frankie is still having issues. I will be praying for all of you.

At least you are closer to home now and can see the other children. I can't even imagine how you will manage when you have to go back to work in March.

I work full time during the week, but I could help out on weekends if you need a place for any of the kids to go.

You are such a strong person that I know somehow it will all work out for you.

Will continue to pray as hard as I can for your family.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, February 24, 2007 5:11 PM CST

Kind of a long commute to help in a physical way with your struggles, but please know that I am continuing to pray for all of you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Saturday, February 24, 2007 3:53 PM CST

Jean, Our center is closed on Friday the 9th,so I will be available for anything you need. I can sit with Frankie, watch the little kids, clean ,laundry, whatever. It is not an imposition, but a pleasure. Also ,any evening but Mondays I can help too. I can ride up with Mark anytime for you to be able to get out with him and the kids.Hope Frankie doesn't have roto, I remember when she had it at home,it really wiped her out.As always, you are all in my prayers. Love, Patti
Patti Kraynack <pak4881@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, February 24, 2007 3:36 PM CST

Dear Jean and Mark,
The up and down must be so overwhelming/ I bet the children were thrilled and the hours passed for you like minutes. Prayers continue and more for Phil. Love, Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Saturday, February 24, 2007 2:27 PM CST

We will be adding Fr. Phil to our constant prayers.
He is a very special person.
Love and Prayers,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Saturday, February 24, 2007 2:25 PM CST

Jean,

Through tears of joy and sadness when I read today�s update I thought �now I can finally be of some help along with praying�. Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday I am available all day just let me know the times. Love & prayers to all & Fr Phil, too.

Angie Mudd <ang733@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, February 24, 2007 12:57 AM CST

Francesca is in my prayers.
sara <pinkmoonpie24@yahoo.com>
ga usa - Saturday, February 24, 2007 12:31 AM CST

Jean,
After I sent you the last message I was talking to John about how I might be able to help and he suggested (he always has good suggestions!) that you might need someone to organize and arrange the sitters you need. If so, I would love to help with that. That way you have someone who can call to make sure that everyone shows up when scheduled. Let me know
Jane Gwinn <jgwinnaps@yahoo.com>
Kent, Oh usa - Saturday, February 24, 2007 12:24 AM CST

Hi Jean and Mark,
I am very glad to hear you (Jean) were able to have dinner with your other children and stay at home. It must have been a wonderful reunion! I was also very happy to be able to participate in Gina's birthday party. What a delightful young lady!!! Mark you,didn't look good that day and I didn't learn about your foot until later!!Hope it is feeling better. Everytime I check this site I hope to find good news. What a roller coaster ride!! Frankie is truly amazing and never ceases to show us the power of faith to heal. As I read your need for sitters I thought to myself, I'll volunteer as I would love to do something to help your family...then I started to read the other entries and laughed to see how many other volunteers you have!! As you can see by the responses you received we all want to do anything we can to help.I know you are a good delagator so if your family needs a break or maybe to take the kids somewhere...let us help...all you have to do is ask.
Take care and know we are thinking of you all the time.
Love,
Jane and John Gwinn
Jane Gwinn <jgwinnaps@yahoo.com>
Kent, Oh USA - Saturday, February 24, 2007 12:20 AM CST

2 Corinthians 12:10 - "For when I am powerless, then am I strong."
Your faith, your whole family is a shining, living embodiment of this!! Soldier on!
Peace, prayers and love coming your way daily.
A parishioner at St. Matthias
Parma, OH USA - Saturday, February 24, 2007 10:16 AM CST

Mark and Jean: Just saw the entry about needing a sitter. Sam and I would have loved to do that for you. But I bet you had a million people jumping at the chance!! Glad you were able to see ALL the kids at one time. We are leaving for Florida tomorrow morning (5:45am) but will check the website daily. Please give all the kids a hug and kiss from us. As always, you are in our prayers and thoughts. Hugs and kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.,com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Saturday, February 24, 2007 10:13 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
Hope all is well with Frankie and your family.

Still praying for recovery, rest and comfort.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, February 24, 2007 10:11 AM CST

You would have had 20 sitters last night had we all been able to do our daily checks! Hope you were able to get someone and had a great time. Think of you all every day and hoping and praying that you will be home soon. Jean, when you get the chance, could you update the hospital info so I can at least send cards, hopefully come and visit....will check with you first. Hugs to Frankie.
Deb Pfleiderer <nursedeb72@aol.com>
Rootstown, OH USA - Saturday, February 24, 2007 8:54 AM CST

Jean, I hope all worked out last night and you were able to go to dinner with Mark and the other children. Rick and I were almost the lucky ones to stay with Frankie. Looking forward to reading an update today. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Saturday, February 24, 2007 8:31 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
I pray that today brings news of more healing for Frankie. I pray that you and the other children had a wonderful time last night at dinner.

May God continue to keep you close and in the protection of His loving arms.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, February 24, 2007 6:12 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
I hope all of you know that if we were there we would LOVE to have sat with Frankie. That would have made our day. I also want you to know that my brother and sister-in-law ask about Frankie almost twice a day. They thought Frankue was just sooooo cute. My brother would always look over at Frankie, get tears in his eyes and say a prayer for her everytime he came into visit Sawyer. It really made his day when I called and told them how well she is doing today. Keep up the good work Frankie......we are sending lots and lots of prayers up to heaven for you :)
Favorite roommates forever~
ashley <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
arden, - Friday, February 23, 2007 8:27 PM CST

Many prayers are being answered as you settle in at the Clinic - you are there - safely, and it sounds like things are improving - fluid balance wise, and that Frankie's feeling well enough to play a little. May each minute of each hour bring a little more wellness to her, and a little less stress to all in your family. Your trials are of epic proportions - yet God still holds you close and provides enough grace to carry you through each hour. Have a wonderful, wonderful reunion with your children, Mark and Jean - and somehow, find a little time for the 2 of you. I wish I was closer to help - but prayers do travel over mountains and through valleys - may mine reach you. Love, Carol Morling
Carol Morling <cmorling@comcast.net>
Mechanicsville, VA USA - Friday, February 23, 2007 6:48 PM CST

Jean and MArk,
I wish I had know sooner about you needing someone to sit with Frankie tonight. I would have done it in a heartbeat. I checked the site early this morning and not again until now. I was packing to move my office on Monday. I hope you found someone.

How wonderful for you to be able to go to dinner with all your other children. I hope you had a great time.

I am so glad that Frankie is progressing so well. It sounds like things are finally going better for her.

Praying for continued healing for Frankie. Praying for rest and comfort for you and Mark.
Love,
Linda

Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, February 23, 2007 5:53 PM CST

Jean, Rick told me he was able to visit you and Frankie for a little while today. I'm jealous! I hope today is going well and that you have a wonderful visit with all of your children today. Love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Friday, February 23, 2007 1:37 PM CST

Jean and Mark, so good to hear the trip to Ohio went well. Glad to hear that she is starting PT there. If they want any info on previous interventions, let them know they can call me. Hope she continues to gain strength and that the heart and kidney function improve. Jean, hope you have the chance to be with your kids soon. Keeping you in prayer, Barb PT
Barb Moledor <Barbm@portagemrdd.org>
Ravenna, OH USA - Friday, February 23, 2007 12:13 AM CST

Mark and Jean: Frankie sitting up and playing is wonderful news! Be sure to give her a great big hug and kiss from me and Sam. We look forward to seeing you both again and hopefully it will be real soon. Hugs and kisses to you all. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, OH - Friday, February 23, 2007 11:55 AM CST

We are so excited to hear that you are back in Ohio! We all have faith that things will continue to improve after the setbacks. Words really can't express our feelings and thoughts, but please be assured that all of you are constantly in our daily thoughts and prayers. Jean, I have always admired your strength, your calming nature and all of your advice! Stay as strong as you have always been and know that you have much support!We love you!
Adrianna and Mark and the boys
Adrianna Lovell <soccermomfor3@sbcglobal.net>
Munroe Falls, Ohio USA - Friday, February 23, 2007 11:29 AM CST

How wonderful to hear that Frankie is sitting up and playing. Everyone was so concerned following the transfer to Cleveland and it sounds like the call for more prayers was successful.

Debbie Heeter <dheeter@neoucom.edu>
Atwater, OH - Friday, February 23, 2007 10:20 AM CST

Frankie, Your Godfather has been one of your best PR persons.
PR stands for Prayer Recuiter. He has all of his wonderful St Mathias family praying. And you know what it's like when they pray. And so many others join them in one voice.
When Uncle Phil came back from Michigan, he was very moved by
being with you. He did say that he thought he would see those blue M's in his sleep. So yesterday when I went to his hospital room, I plastered the room with M's, each standing for different things. Not University of Michigan,
but Many prayers, Mmmmmmmmmmm Ice Cream, Much love from Many. You have the idea. You always have your brothers and sisters picture near you, so I took your picture, and one of all your cousins. He had already told the nurse all about you, and called her over to see you. She offered to hang the pictures on the cork board across the room and Uncle Phil requested they be taped to his IV pole right by his bed. So there you are baby girl, in his thoughts and prayers as he focuses on others rather than his torn aorta.
We will all be in prayer for him as well.
No one who knows him would be surprised, he could not eat anything, but Uncle Joe fed him ice cream.
I remember at the childrens Mass on Christmas Eve at St. Mathias, Uncle Phil sat in the big chair, with all the children sitting attentively at his feet. All the children, that is except you Frankie. You would run up to him, he would reach out to you, to hold you in his lap and you would run back to Grandma. After several times of your teasing, I picked you up and held you. You are loved by so many, and have warmed our hearts with your courage and fiesty spirit.
We all have our visions of you running in the back yard, or simply playing with your brothers and sisters.
On Gina's birthday, she made you laugh out loud. It has been a long time since we have heard that music. Thanks Gina. You bring a smile to so many, most joyfully to your baby sister.
Hope you are all reunited today.
My prayers are with you,
Grandma Rita
Rita Warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
Kent, Ohio USA - Friday, February 23, 2007 9:53 AM CST

Hi Jean - Hope things are going smoother now and communication with the doctors is continuing/improving. God is in control - our part of trusting and waiting is just so hard. "But my eyes are fixed on you, O Sovereign Lord; in you I take refuge..." Psalm 141:8 He is our refuge and knows everything you, your family and Frankie are going through (and is right there with you). Love and prayers - Debbie
Debbie Brumfield <dbrumfield@neo.rr.com>
Akron, Ohio - Friday, February 23, 2007 7:22 AM CST

Dear Frisone Family,
Always know there are so many more offering daily prayers and love for each of you then even those that are posting messages..people you may not have even met are with you daily in prayer. Frankie is a miracle and each day brings her closer to healing. Praise God for all his blessings and strength. Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Friday, February 23, 2007 7:05 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
Hoping that you were able to rest last night and that today will bring good news about Frankie.

Am still praying for you and your family.

Blessings, peace and comfort to you all.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Friday, February 23, 2007 6:53 AM CST

We are praying for you and your family... We are big fans of Fr. Phil (members at St. Matthias) - and have him in our prayers today, too! You are amazing parents - keep doing what you're doing... sounds like you have a little miracle on your hands.
Suzi Ketterer <theketterers@msn.com>
Strongsville, OH usa - Friday, February 23, 2007 6:33 AM CST

Good Morning, Jean and Frankie! Hope this new day is filled with good news and thoughts! We think about you daily and we are constantly sending prayers your way! God bless you both--Jean, you are such a remarkable woman!!May God continue to give you strength! Love, Aunt Cindi and Uncle Joe
Cindi Pritt <jrpritt@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, February 23, 2007 6:27 AM CST

Thinking of you and praying for Frankie's healing and your strength. We all care about you so much and we will continue to pray for all of you.
Love,
Debby
Debby Missimi <dmissimi@portagefamilies.org>
Kent, Ohio - Thursday, February 22, 2007 10:49 PM CST

I had this feeling of goodness just come to me, Frankie will be fine. I hope that your family can see Frankie and you. You need them and they need you .. and I am sure Frankie could use their energy and spirit. We will continue our thoughts and prayers!
Tim & Bev Hartong <ppnews7600@aol.com>
Ravenna, Oh - Thursday, February 22, 2007 9:13 PM CST

Jean,

I am once again struggling with words (the reason I don't post more often) but just wanted to say that you haven't been off my mind or out of my heart this whole day. Just lots of lots of thoughts and prayers were offered for all of you today as you continue to deal with the ups and downs of this long journey. I am here for you in any way possible and I love you!

Thoughts and prayers,
Deb
Debbie Melucci <joedeb5@yahoo.com>
Grove City, OH - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:58 PM CST

Jean and Mark,
Hoping and praying that the night will bring all of you rest and peace. Hoping and praying that Frankie will be much improved tomorrow.

May God bless you and keep you safe in His loving arms this night. May tomorrow be a brand new day of hope and joy for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yqhoo.com>
- Thursday, February 22, 2007 7:18 PM CST

Jean and Mark
I am so glad to hear the transition went well. I was getting a little worried since we didn't hear from you for a few days :) I know all of you are busy though. I just want you to know that ya'll ( had to through in a southern term :~ ) are always in our thoughts and prayers. There are many people here in Asheville NC that ask us how Sawyer's roommate is doing. You guys are missed so much. When Frankie gets a little better I want to see those big brown eyes and those piggy tails again. We love you both and can't wait to hear more......

www.caringbridge.org/visit/sawyerdt
ashely tolbert <sawyer50@bellsouth.net>
arden, nc - Thursday, February 22, 2007 4:20 PM CST

Jean, Have you seen that this website has been visited almost 38,000 times? You have so many people praying for you and wanting to help in any way possible. You know that Rick and I would do anything for you that you may need or want. You are the most unselfish person I have ever met. You put everyone before yourself, especially your family. I pray for you and your family often and you are always in my thoughts throughout each day. I can't tell you how many times I am asked about Frankie everyday. We missed Mark at work today but he's where he needs to be - with you and Frankie. You know my number, call if there is anything I can do. Love to you all.
Terri Clough <rectlc@windstream.net>
Aurora, Ohio - Thursday, February 22, 2007 4:18 PM CST

Dear Jean and family,
You are in my thoughts daily. Always remember that God will never lead us where His Grace can't keep us! Hang in there! Love, Karen
Karen Pippin <knursed@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 22, 2007 4:12 PM CST

Jean, I'm guessing it's too far from home for you to go back for one day? Logistics are awful at times like these. But don't waste this awful sacrifice of not seeing your other children -- it's Lent, you know what to do!

Prayers for your perseverence, for Frankie's doctors to get with the program on her kidneys (how frustrating -- too bad they didn't listen to you -- and I hope that Dr Bove can consult with them on the why nots of the ligation), and for Frankie, herself, who probably misses all her siblings like crazy.

Monica (and Celine) <monica@benotafraid.net>
IL - Thursday, February 22, 2007 3:29 PM CST

Mark & Jean,
My prayers are with you for Frankie's recovery and the entire family to bring you all back together again asap.
Mary Shaffer <hfhofpc@sbcglobal.net>
Ravenna, Oh USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 3:03 PM CST

Jean & Mark,
Words seem so inadequate to describe how much we are praying for you all and the heartache we feel when we hear of yet another challenge. Not a minute goes by that we don't think and pray for every one of you. We send all of our love and hope to you...
The Sangston's
Rootstown, OH USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 2:49 PM CST

Dear Jean, Mark and Family,
So happy to hear that you're closer to home. I know this has to be a scary time with all the transitions between the hospitals, but remember to keep the faith. God will give you the strength you need to get through this. I believe that in time all of our prayers for Frankie's recovery and return to good health will be answered. Please be assured that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Mary
Mary Rodenbucher <Sportsmom@neo.rr.com>
Randolph, Oh - Thursday, February 22, 2007 1:29 PM CST

I can sense your frustration and deep sadness from not being with the rest of your family. At times when things seem the worst, a light appears to give you strength to get through. We are praying that God gives you both the strength and patience to bear this very hard time and that He will especially shine on Frankie. Praying for you and your whole family for Gods peace.
Kaylee's Gma <hmdhuber@aol.com>
The Villages, Fl usa - Thursday, February 22, 2007 1:07 PM CST

Jean & Mark; You can do this Jean, HE will continue to give you the strength and guidance you need. Frankie is the little fighter and prayers will continue to lead the way!

Anne Marie <amm0729@yahoo.com>
Stow, Oh - Thursday, February 22, 2007 12:40 AM CST

Dear Jean and Mark,
Jean, you CAN do this because you are not doing it alone and you are doing it one day at a time! It must certainly FEEL lonely when you and Mark sit at Francesca's side hour after hour. And I'm guessing some of the time there's helplessness in your hearts. If you could only give yourself a hug from all of us who rush to this site every morning and throughout the day, you would know that even at your weakest moments you are strong. May this day bring special graces to you and all of your beautiful children. Your whole family is lifted up by all of us as we pray each day. You know that God doesn't break promsises!!
Tim and Linda DeFrange <timlin@neo.rr.com>
Kent, OH USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 10:21 AM CST

Jean, Mark & Family:
Frankie & each one of you continue to be in my thoughts & prayers. Know that all of you are constantly surrounded by numerous prayers from all around... prayers from family, friends, and people you may have never met. Our prayers touch all of you as Frankie continues to touch all of us.

Carole Beaty <Caroleb6@aol.com>
Kent, OH USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 10:17 AM CST

Jean & Mark:

I am glad to hear that you are all safely back in Buckeye territory. I was thinking of you and Frankie last night at Mass... Luke was stressing us out with his typical terrible 2 behavior, when I realized how blessed we are to have his misbehaving at Mass be our biggest issue of the evening. I am quite sure you can't wait for the day when Frankie is well enough again, to get back to being a 2 year old. So, know that your faithfulness inspires me to be a better parent.

Lent is all about sacrifice in preparation for the Holiest day of the year... I think you have filled your quota for a liftime. We will continue to pray for you, your family and for a speedy recovery for Frankie.

God Bless,
Tim

Tim Radwany <timrad@neo.rr.com>
Cuyahoga Falls, OH USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 10:11 AM CST

Dear Jean and Mark,
We are so happy to hear that you were all able to come back to Ohio. We continue to pray every day for Francesca's continued recovery and hope that she will get settled into the Cleveland Clinic as quickly as possible so that you are able to take advantage of being closer to home.

Maria, I would also like to say how much we miss you at soccer, both as a player and as a teammate, and how we all look forward to having you back with us. First and foremost, of course, we continue to pray for Frankie to recover and for your family to be together again.

Our continued prayers and best wishes to you all!
The Chapman Family: Damien, Michelle, Cassie and Amelia
Damien Chapman <DamienC@neo.rr.com>
Brimfield, Ohio USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 9:32 AM CST

I feel for all those who don't know what to say.
I am almost speachless.
It is very difficult to see Frankie struggle so,
and to have each family member be challenged in the ways they are. I do have faith. I am renewed by the grace I see poured out. I am sure we must be alert to the blessing and gift each challenge holds for us. The children will lead us, and the children will learn what they live.
Angie Mudd, Gina's eyes lit up as we put the candles on the beautiful cake. Thank you! and for all the food.
To all at Mark's work, she will remember your Birthday surprise with loving thanks.
God Bless You one and all for your prayers and support,
Love,
Rita
Rita Warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
Kent, Ohio USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 9:21 AM CST

Jean,
I have been reading your updates daily and my heart goes out to you and your family. I can only imagine how difficult it is to see Frankie with so many medical issues and how very hard it is to not be together as a family. I will continue praying for you all!! Have faith and hang in there!
Tammie Feuer
Tammie Feuer <tfeuer@carestar.com>
Youngtsown, Oh USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:57 AM CST

We are going to bombard the Lord with prayers for Francesca today. We are having a joint birthday party for the girls today and will have 10 little children ask God to heal her. Those little prayers are so precious to Him. As are all of you. We are looking forward to finally meeting you in person when things settle down.

Lord, I am not worthy to receive you, but only say the word and I shall be healed.

Lynn Gonzalez <lynnagonz35@yahoo.com>
University Heights, OH - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:42 AM CST

Dear Jean and Mark, I am so glad to hear that you are closer to home and to your family and friends. We prayed for Frankie last night in our little Bible study group at my little church in Warren. Even though we didn't know anything specific to pray for, God knows what needs to be done. Hold on, stand firm, keep the faith. Lots of love to all of you!
Debbie Cooper LPN Hattie Larlham Community Services <nfbandmom1@earthlink.net>
Newton Falls, OH - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:32 AM CST

Jean & Mark -
We have been thinking of you constantly, and are glad to know that that helicoptor ride went smoothly (although we did not see you from our airplane when we departed Cleveland). It's amazing to hear that Frankie's levels are at normal with the dialysis challenges. She's fortunate that you are at her side through all of this to bring consistency and bridge the communications from MI to OH. I'm certain that you will be seeing the little kids soon. Love, Hugs and Prayers...
Dave and Geri Frisone <majorfrisone@yahoo.com>
Akron, Oh USA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:14 AM CST

Dear Jean, Thank you for the update. My prayer again today is that God gives you the strength to get through yet another day of concerns wtih Frankie and missing the other children. It's been so long since you've seen the younger ones and I know you miss them terribly. I pray for the doctors to make the right decisions regarding Frankies care and that He comforts Frankie. Much love to you, Mark, Frankie and the entire family.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Thursday, February 22, 2007 7:12 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
What you have been through is above and beyond anything we can imagine. Yet you remain so strong for Frankie and for your entire family.

You give meaning to the passage from Romans that tells us that God will not test you beyond your endurance to stand firm. How marvelous you are and what an outstanding example to a mother's loyality and courage. I am sure that Frankie would not have made it this far without you to do battle for her best interests. Maybe that is why God gave her to you and Mark, because He knew you were the best parents to make sure that she survived.

I pray all day long for healing for Frankie and for a quick end to this trial you are enduring.

Please know that thousands of prayers are being prayed all over the world for your little angel, who has touched all our lives.

Praying that today will bring positive changes in Frankie's health.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, February 22, 2007 7:07 AM CST

Frisone Family,
We are so glad to hear that Frankie is back in Ohio. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. A special note to Maria: Your soccer team misses you! Can't wait until your back in your spot on the team!

The Lehman Family: Joe, Becky, Amanda, and Kayla <rlehman@kent.edu>
Mogadore, Ohio Portage - Thursday, February 22, 2007 6:49 AM CST

Jean,
Just wanted to let you know that you all remain in my daily thoughts and prayers!
Cathy
AKron, OH - Thursday, February 22, 2007 6:46 AM CST

"I will strengthen you.
I will help you.
I will uphold you with my victorious right hand."
Isaiah 41:10

We are still with you everyday in prayer.
Debbie Johnston <thejohnstonvi@msn.com>
- Thursday, February 22, 2007 6:41 AM CST

Dear Jeanie,
Rest assurred that prayers will continue and not stop. Prayers for the docs to make the best decisions and that soon Frankie will rally and return home. Love, Sandy
sandywarner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Thursday, February 22, 2007 6:38 AM CST

Mark and Jean: Thank you for the update. With all that you are going through, you still find time for all of us. That just amazes me!! I am so happy and relieved that Frankie is here in Ohio. She will pull through and all will be fine. I just know this. Our prayers and thoughts are will you all always. Hugs and Kisses. Love, Linda and Sam
Linda Anderson <elmo12458@yahoo.com>
Ravenna, Ohio - Thursday, February 22, 2007 6:32 AM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY GINA!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOVE,
Melissa, Larry and Sam Bennett <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 7:58 PM CST

Dear Mark, Jean, and Family,
We are thinking of all of you and praying that Francesca achieves a quick recovery .
Larry, Melissa and Samantha Bennett <laurence.bennett@comcast.net>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 7:21 PM CST

Happy Birthday Gina! I hope each year that passes is better than the one before!
Larry Bartlett <eljaybee63@aol.com>
Modesto, CA - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 7:19 PM CST

Jean and Mark,
I feel something is wrong by the lack of response from you.
Please know that I care a lot about your family.
Whatever the problem is God will suffice.
I will continue praying for all of you.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 6:51 PM CST

Hi, I only today found out frankie was in Michigan,but I see in the guest book she is back in Ohio?! I wanted to just say hi My friends and family here in Arizona are Praying for Frankie.GOD Bless !
Lorraine J. Lawrence <llawrence13@cox.net>
Scottsdale, AZ United States - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 5:50 PM CST

I was so glad to hear that you and Frankie are back in Ohio!! Keeping you all in my prayers.
Sue cimino <ravennafrank@ aol.com>
ravenna, oh usa - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 3:33 PM CST

I was speaking with Anne (Lofaro) Face who works with Mark and she told me Mark's daughter was a thoracic/heart patient at the C.S. Mott Hospital at the University of Michigan. I told Anne that my daughter Emily is a nurse in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit (PICU) there as well. I thought you just might want to know there is another "Kent" connection in Ann Arbor.

Of course we all wish the best for your little girl.

Of course
Joe Drew <jdrew@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USa - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 12:44 AM CST

HAPPY BIRTHDAY To GINA MARIE!!!!

She is such a special girl with many many gifts!!

WE LOVE YOU GINA!!!!!

Love,
Aunt T...Michael....Alec
(and Brutis!!)

XOXOXOXOXOXOOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Christie Hamilton <Christie.Hamilton@osumc.edu>
Grove City, OH - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 12:01 AM CST

Today on this first day of Lent, know that my prayer and sacrafices will be offered up for Francesca as well as the whole of your family.... This struggle with everything you have endured has got to be overwhelming beyond belief... So many things completely out of your control....so you have to trust that God knows what He is doing here... It is so hard to comprehend why some people have to suffer and withstand so much....I know it has something to do with a way to become more Christ-like...Even when we throw up our hands and feel like not doing it anymore...Keep on keeping that faith... I believe in you....as well as so many others... The things in your family are tested to maxium capacity for sure...Hopefully the love that binds you as a family will give you the amount of strength needed to overcome this horrendous mountain....Remember the graces obtained thru your faith...God will not let you down.... I will mimic's Uncle Phil's words... "God is good....ALL the time...God is good"...
Mom gave me your phone number to the room so I will call soon...I want to make a trip up to the Clinic to see you this weekend...I want you to let me know what your needs are... I will call later...Until then..you guys are part of my intentions when my lenten sacrafices are being made...
I love you guys....
T...
P.S. You think we have enough time to get some little pink baby clothes up to Erie before our summertime niece is to be born!! You can tell I am tickled pink!.. God is good!..
Love you!...

Christie <Christie.Hamilton@osumc.edu>
Grove City, OH - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 11:42 AM CST

Jean and Mark,
Praying that today will bring Francesca healing and comfort.

Praying also that you may find rest and peace this day.

Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 4:19 AM CST

Gina and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Gina we love all the sweets you bring to class. We are sure that Frankie will be loving them soon. Keep your faith, God is with you all.
Kyle, Nathan and Kalli (science gang)Dreger
Rootstown, Ohio - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 10:00 PM CST

Dearest Francesca *and Jean too!* Welcome Home to OHIO!!!Everyone has been praying lots! One step closer...PRAISE GOD!!! GOD BLESS you and your beautiful family. We check in every day to see the progress. Peace and Love and Hugs, Patty, Mike & Jennifer Copeland xoxoxo
P. Copeland
Stow , OH USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 9:23 PM CST

Praying for you!
Barb Furner <teamfurner@verizon.net>
Arlington, VA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 9:09 PM CST

Jean and Mark,
I pray that the news tomorrow will be better. There are so many people who care about your trials and pray for you. We ask "Why God." There are no answers. We must trust and hope that God in His mercy will see fit to heal Francesca in His own time.

"Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord."
Psalm 27:14

May God keep you near and bless you this night. May the morning light bring hope and comfort to you and yours. May you find rest and comfort in His arms.
Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 20, 2007 8:06 PM CST

Jean - So glad you are back in Ohio with Frankie! I wish I could have been around for Frankie's party, but I had to get back to work. I know my mom enjoyed having a party for her at the office.
Take care!
Alysa Fetters <afetters25@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 5:42 PM CST

Jean, Thanks for the message. Hope all goes well in the Cath lab and her line works ok. By now you have probably seen Gina and heard about her visit to F&CS today. I think she was surprised. It was so much fun to see her surprised and selfishly it gave all of us a feeling that we were able to do something for you. I'm praying you are doing ok; it was good to see Mark. He perked up during the afternoon but I could tell he was anxious to get up there with you and Frankie. Take care and hopefully good news is just around the corner. Much love,
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 4:30 PM CST

Jean,
I talked to Mark today. I am so sorry that Francesca has had another set back. How disheartening for you. Please know that I am praying as hard as I can for all of you.

The Lord is good. His mercies endure forever.

Love,
Linda
Linda Lauck <l_lauck1211@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 20, 2007 3:17 PM CST

Many prayers for safe passage! I'll catch up with you at the Clinic -
Donna Patno <DonnaCNM@windstream.net>
Hudson, OH USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 2:54 PM CST

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong.
Jimmy Raines <jraines5@msn.com>
Suffield, Oh Portage - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 10:53 AM CST

Jean, So glad you're at the Clinic and closer to home. I hope the issues that Frankie is having get resolved soon. I think it was expected that she would have some trouble transitioning from Michigan to Cleveland. I hope you were told what is happening here today at F&CS - I'll fill you in later on the details. Take care of yourself and give Frankie a hug for me. Hope to see you soon.
Terri Clough <tclough@portagefamilies.org>
Aurora, Ohio - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 10:05 AM CST

Jean and Mark: This is such great news! Prayers for continued progress each day for Francesca and moving ahead in the journey toward your whole family being reunited again! Our love to all of you!!
Tim and Linda DeFrange <ldefrang@kent.edu>
Kent, OH USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 8:35 AM CST

Dear Frisone Family, Praise God for the great news. I will pray for a safe trip home and that Frankie continues to make progress. Jeanie and Mark, you are wonderful parents. Sandy
sandy warner <sandy_warner@msn.com>
akron, oh usa - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 6:52 AM CST

Jean, Can't wait to see you both. Looks as if Mark got in at 4:00 this morning. I will try to call you before we leave the house, he said you may need some things from home.
Maybe we can plan a Birthday for Gina at Gurinno's.
Talk about making a person hungry.
Great Aunt Cindi, is now, St. Cindi.
I cannonized her last night.
She accomplished a miracle of great significance.
We all knew of her wonderful capacity as a teacher.
She came to the rescue in directing Joe to choose his DNA
project, AND HE COMPLETED IT! Sitting by the front door, all neat and ready to go, it will be turned in a day early.
Jean, you know how grateful I am.
Gina said, "Aunt Cindi makes everything so fun!"

We will celebrate all miracles, great and small,
and thank God for bringing Frankie closer to home.
I Love You,
Mom

Rita Warner <keepthepeace13@yahoo.com>
Kent, Ohio USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 5:41 AM CST

It will be good for Frankie...and and all of you to back in Cleveland. Safe travels to you and may God continue to pour out His blessings on you!

Stop it Gina, you are making me hungry, and I've already eaten!

Good luck with the aliens!
Larry Bartlett <eljaybee63@aol.com>
Modesto, CA - Monday, February 19, 2007 9:40 PM CST

Hi Jean, I can hardly wait to hear about this helicopter thing! On my seven AM mornings I usually don't have time to check for an update, so my boss always prints it off for me as soon as she gets in to work. We're always eager to hear the days news. Today was the best ever, I was so nervous for you guys doing the helicopter, but then thought about all you have both been through, and decided this is probably nothing compared to five weeks in ICU.I am so glad you will be closer to home. I also know there is still much to be worked out, and I hope things progress well. You are all still constantly in my thoughts, and my prayers continue for Frankie's comfort,your peace, and now for patience for all of you. Hope somehow you and Frankie can have a restful evening. Love, Patti
Patti Kraynack <pak4881@yahoo.&