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Merry Christmas and a Very Happy & Blessed New Year. I was thinking of you guys of late and thought that I would visit your site. Your pictures are precious and Olivia is, of course, even more beautiful than when I first met her.
Congratulations Stefan...Way to Go...I can't wait until Kelly comes home so that I can tell him of your great accomplishment.
Thank you for sharing your family with everyone. Many thoughts and prayers for you often. Good luck in Canada.
Love to you all ^_^
Phyllis Pyle <phylspyle@hotmail.com>
Kirkland, Wa USA - Sunday, December 30, 2007 6:21 AM CST
Merry Christmas, Rikki, Stefan and Olivia!
We were all much blessed by your presence on Christmas day, and I am blessed and inspired upon reading and learning more today of Olivia's big sister, of Naomi's life and death and blessing to her loving and beautiful family and friends. I look forward in hope to meeting Naomi one day, and I'm so thankful to know her family. We will miss you much! Very nice tree photo, Olivia! God bless,
Love, Jeannie and all the Guerins
Jeanne Guerin <heyjg@hotmail.com>
Chester Springs, PA USA - Wednesday, December 26, 2007 12:43 AM CST
Miss you so much this Christmas. Can't wait to see you in a couple of weeks in Toronto. Love you soooooo much!
Auntie Meggie <MegPagelerMourning@yahoo.com>
in Bonaire, - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 9:48 PM CST
Merry Christmas!
Dear Olivia, our Sunshine!
We are so happy that you and your parents visitet us for Christmas Celebration. We had a wonderful Christmas Season together.
And many congratulations to your Dad. We are very proud of him and looking forward to seeing you all in Canada!
We miss you all.
Love, Grandma Inge and Grandpa Gerhard from Germany
Inge and Gerhard Boehmer
Baiersdorf, Germany - Monday, December 24, 2007 3:26 AM CST
Dear Olivia and Friends,
It's nice to see you in germany.
I hope you have a good time hear and feel well.
I miss you all.
In love Marcus
Marcus Böhm <Ma.Boehm92@gmx.de>
Germany - Tuesday, December 11, 2007 10:27 AM CST
Wow zow!! I'm so excited for you! Congratulations Stefan! And I loved the pics you took on Meg's wedding day. Great to see you guys! Love, Leslie
Leslie Hampton <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Monday, December 10, 2007 3:14 PM CST
Wow! Congrats to Stefan and all of you! Wonderful. Ps I have always wanted to see Toronto, so may bring the kids for a visit! It was a huge treat to see you at "the best wedding ever", and would love to see you all again soon. Much love, Laurie, Ava and Thomas
Laurie <lauriethebull@yahoo.com>
Seattle, WA US - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 10:55 PM CST
Congrats Stefan! Let us know if you find yourself in Vancouver BC and we can meet you for dinner. Jack is up there once a week.
Love
The Bennetts
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 6:04 PM CST
olivia is so cute!!!!!!!! shes had her first pikle with me today.
jaclen mae moxley <jaclenmae@gmail.com>
granville, oh uas - Thursday, November 22, 2007 8:47 PM CST
Don't worry. She's in good hands.
Riley Lium <swimmerriley@hotmail.com>
Bothell, wa usa - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 7:55 PM CST
Hi livy hope riley DOSENT drop you. I LOVE YOU vary much
Grace lium <googoohammer@hotmail.com>
bothel, wa u.s.a. - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 6:34 PM CST
Hi Livy!!!Hope your teeth get bigger every day!!!I love you.
Chloe
Chloe Lium <tinyswimmer@hotmail.com>
Bothell, WA United States Of America - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 6:21 PM CST
Hi livy! How are you?? I can't wait to carry you in the wedding! I hope you don't throw a fit! You sure have grown! I love you!! Riley
Riley Lium <swimmerriley@hotmail.com>
Bothell, WA USA - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 6:11 PM CST
Welcome back to Seattle! Looking forward to seeing you at the wedding and before. Love, Carol, Pat and Shannon
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
- Wednesday, November 14, 2007 2:13 PM CST
Hi Rikki, Stefan and Olivia!
My dad sent me the link to your website and I have just spent the last few hours getting caught up...when I saw you guys at the family reunion last year, I did not know about Naomi Ruth or all the work you did to bring Olivia Joy into the world. I am sorry for your loss of Naomi Ruth and I am happy for your gain of Olivia Joy. I hope to meet Miss Olivia and see her wonderfulness myself! Thanks for sharing your story on this website. I think I am hooked on it now!
Your cousin, Jennifer Humphrey
Oakland, CA USA - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 4:42 AM CST
Another way The Bug is just like her Auntie Meggie: can't resist that yummy Texas Road House sweet cinnamon butter! The rolls will be next!
Give her a big huge kiss for me. Can't wait to see you all in just one week!
Love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, November 6, 2007 9:50 PM CST
Happy Birthday, Rikki!
We love you!
Meg & Dave
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, September 30, 2007 2:28 AM CDT
Lots of Love and kisses for Jesse. We love her.
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Saturday, September 29, 2007 7:41 PM CDT
Olivia lights up my life! I am so thanful she comes to Bible study .......
kisses and hugs..
Miss Patti
patti koschmeder
Malvern, pa usa - Tuesday, September 25, 2007 3:52 PM CDT
I swear, this child is so precious, so happy, so surrounded with love. Thank you Naomi Ruth. I am thinking of you guys, and wanting to squeeze those cute baby cheeks!
:) Ali
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <afoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, WA - Wednesday, September 19, 2007 6:17 PM CDT
My son, my "baby," Evan turned 21 today and I remember Naomi Ruth and how you celebrated her brief life on his 18th birthday. You taught me something that day, and the lesson continues to resonate. Naomi's birthday tribute is beautiful! Love, Katy
Katy Faas (still Andrea's sister) <katyfaas@hotmail.com>
Redmond, WA USA - Tuesday, September 11, 2007 0:33 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
Sending you all our love today on Naomi's 3rd Birthday.
Love, Meg and Dave
P.S. We tried to Skype you this morning but you were not online.
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, September 10, 2007 9:27 AM CDT
Can't wait to see you again in just ONE WEEK!
Love, Auntie Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 7, 2007 0:39 AM CDT
What a gorgeous family picture! You all are so wonderful.
The movie of the week was great and all I can say is "You GO Girl!" What a bouncer!
Love from Bellingham
Shelley
Shelley and Susie <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Friday, August 24, 2007 9:57 PM CDT
Happy 7th month Birthday Olivia! Can't believe how fast you are growing! We love getting the updates on you and sure wish we could come see you! Tell mommy & daddy if they are ever close to Indy to call us and stop in for a visit! Love to All!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Wednesday, August 15, 2007 10:28 PM CDT
Happy 7-Month Birthday, Olivia! You are adorable and I can't wait to see you again!
Love, Auntie Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, August 12, 2007 1:12 PM CDT
Hi Rikki, your daughter is soooo cute and getting so big. Hope all is well, keep in touch, Tiffany
Tiffany Gregory <tiftaffy@aol.com>
SanJose, ca usa - Sunday, August 5, 2007 12:38 AM CDT
What fun to hear Olivia say "Ma Ma" today! Give that girl some big huge kisses from her Auntie Meggie!
=)
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, July 23, 2007 10:19 AM CDT
A precious gift, Olivia is. Happy Six Months!
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, wa - Friday, July 13, 2007 5:16 PM CDT
Happy 6th Month Birthday, Bug! Your Auntie Jenny is climbing to the top of Mt. Rainier this weekend - where she spread your sister Naomi's ashes two years ago.
I love you and miss you!
xoxoxoxo Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, July 12, 2007 10:08 PM CDT
Missing you guys very much. Please give that adorable little girl lots of love from me. Does she have any teeth yet?
Love, Auntie Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, July 9, 2007 3:57 PM CDT
Baby sweetcheeks Olivia is just darling! My how she is growing, WOW. Can't wait to see her again, I was so happy to meet Stefan, and to see you Rikki. What a fabulous family!
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, wa - Monday, June 25, 2007 4:11 PM CDT
Loving her! Loving You. Such a nice visit last weekend. Hope to see you before you go, but you are on baby schedule, so we will see.
much love
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
bellingham, Wa usa - Friday, June 15, 2007 0:05 AM CDT
What a precious little gal! You both should be so proud! We love you all and can't wait to see a bow in her hair! Love to you all! Susie & John
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 10:40 PM CDT
18 Weeks Old Today! I love you, Olivia, and cannot WAIT to see you in just FOUR days! Sooooooo excited. Love Love Love YOU, Meggie =)
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, May 18, 2007 5:04 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Rikki!
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, WA USA - Monday, May 14, 2007 11:07 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day, Rikki! Can't wait to see you in just nine days!
Love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 11:52 AM CDT
Hi, dear Boehmer family!
Four months old already, sweet little Olivia!! You are so adorable and huggable, except I can't get to you!
I hope Seattle will show off some nice spring weather for you all. I know the family is counting the days!!
My love,
"Grandma Diane"
Diane Morris <dianemorris@oci.org>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 10:42 PM CDT
Happy Sweet Sixteen Olivia Joy! Nearly four months old - I can't believe it! Hurry up and get here, I miss you so much!
Love, Auntie Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, May 4, 2007 6:55 PM CDT
Happy 15-Week Birthday, Olivia! It has been WAY too long since I've got to snuggle you, sweetie. Not sure I'm going to make it another four weeks until you get here. I may have to come to you!
I love you! Glad you are having a ton of fun on the beach.
I miss you!
Love, Auntie Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, April 27, 2007 10:39 AM CDT
Just checking in on the CUTEST baby ever! The sunglasses pic of Olivia is simply darling. Girl after my own heart. :) enjoy the sunshine, pool and icecream.
Thinking of you guys fondly, Ali
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, wa - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 6:15 PM CDT
DEAR Rikki, Stephan and Olivia,
Fourteen weeks and you are growing up so fast, and so beautiful, Olivia! You are probably all enjoying the Carolina sunshine now. Have a WONDERFUL, RELAXING time!
My love from Colorado,
"Grandma Diane"
Diane Morris <dianemorris@oci.org>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Saturday, April 21, 2007 4:02 PM CDT
Those grandpas are adorable. Such a wonderful family.
Love
The Bennetts
Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
- Monday, April 16, 2007 0:40 AM CDT
Happy 3 month bday sweet pea! All the pictures of you are so adorable. We look so forward to meeting you in May.
Love
The Bennetts
jrbjrwa@aol.com <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bham, Wa USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 7:59 PM CDT
Happy 3 Month Birthday, Olivia! I miss you lots, you sweet little bug. Can't wait to see you again next month. Love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 1:30 AM CDT
Hi livy! You're getting your new hairline! I miss you! Are you eating any bebe food yet? AKA bananas, carrot mush, etc. I miss my livy! Try to skype us OK? I want to see my babe in action!
Riley L. <swimmerriley@hotmail.com>
Seattle (Bothell), WA USA - Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:41 AM CDT
Sweetest Easter bunny I've ever seen!
FYI: For a literal translation of proud Großmutter und Großvater's comments see www.babelfish.yahoo.com.
Martha
Cupertino, CA USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 0:47 AM CDT
Thinking of you everyday and remembering the joys of a newborn. Just when you think you get a routine going, THINGS CHANGE, it's great and I know how tired you both get. Olivia looks so cute in her hat, she's a doll! Will we see her at FOTOG? Love, Grandma Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA, WA USA - Saturday, April 7, 2007 2:27 PM CDT
I swear, she gets cuter by the day!
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, wa - Thursday, April 5, 2007 10:11 PM CDT
What a cutie pie! I look forward to the day I get to meet Olivia!!!
Lisa Waldvogel <lisa.waldvogel@gmail.com>
Grosse Pointe Woods, MI USA - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 3:21 PM CDT
Happy TEN WEEK Birthday to Olivia! And Happy Belated Birthday to Stefan! Miss you guys, and lots of love from Meggie.
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, March 23, 2007 8:48 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Stefan!
Love
The Bennetts
Bennett Family <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 12:24 AM CDT
Lieber Stefan,
wir wünschen Dir alles Gute zum Geburtstag!
Feier schön und grüß Deine Frauen!
Viele Grüße
Petra & Jürgen Kliemt
Baiersdorf, D - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 8:41 AM CDT
Dear Boehmer Family -
I like the pictures and Olivia is growing up so fast and she is looking always very interested. Enjoyed the time and Stefan congratulation to your today birthday. Happy Birthday ! Many many greetings from Germany. Love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 3:09 AM CDT
Stay warm you guys! I miss you very much, especially that little bug. She's growing up so fast. All my love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, March 17, 2007 0:44 AM CDT
WOW!!!...OLIVIA is BEAUTIFUL!!!...Next to Cameron she is our favorite baby-kins... We are so proud of you two!!!... We can't wait to see you both in Seattle-Town.... LOVE, JOHN and ANNIE
John and Annie Murray <johnannmurray@msn.com>
SEATTLE, Washington U.S.A. - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 9:40 PM CDT
Olivia Joy is a cutie. (thought you might want to know that there is a typo on the home page. It says Born on January 12, 2006 instead 2007, just thought I would let you know) Enjoy every moment with Olivia, they grow up really fast. You both are doing a great job.
Gina Geranen
Sunnyvale, CA USA - Monday, March 12, 2007 10:50 AM CDT
Missing you guys and snuggling with and singing to that adorable baby girl! Hope you are having a ton of fun with Gpa Jack and company! Come visit soon! Love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, March 11, 2007 10:07 PM CDT
Your dad looks exactly like he did when we were playing soccer together in high school. Wow!!! Olivia sure is a cutie pie.
xoxo, stephanie
Stephanie <stephanie.gilbert@gmail.com>
- Sunday, March 11, 2007 9:04 PM CDT
Who is cuter? Grandpa or Baby? I don't know.
Love
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa 98229 - Saturday, March 10, 2007 7:58 PM CST
Okay, Rikki, I love that picture of you changing the baby in the car. Your facial expression is priceless. Aint baby poop great?
Love, Aunt Nancy
Nancy Lundsgaard <nancylunds@netscape.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 8:54 PM CST
Hello livy! This is riley and I just wanted to tell you I cant wait to see you! How is dada? Is he doing good at work?? You were born 1 week before I left! Darn! Ill skype ya later!!
Riley Lium <swimmerriley@hotmail.com>
Bothell, WA United States - Sunday, March 4, 2007 4:24 PM CST
Here's sending love and happy wishes from London. The Pageler Family is incredible and I'm really honored to be part of all of this. Thanks to the internet, web cams and direct flights I never feel out of touch. Olivia is beautiful and reflects the love of this family. Love, Colleen
Colleen <paulcoolleenuk@btinternet.com>
- Sunday, March 4, 2007 5:28 AM CST
She's beautiful, Steve and I are very happy for your family! We'll be in Philly for our 40th anniversary June 1 but you'll probably be in WASHINGTON?!?!?!?Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, March 3, 2007 8:05 PM CST
Olivia has wonderful eyes and the neatest ears. I've been trying to figure out the best thing for a gift and knowing you're well supplied with clothing, I think something in the "head covering" dept. might come in handy...what with this extreme winter weather and the lack of hair on her head. All that will change soon enough.
Suzanne Jones
Suzanne Jones <skhuntjones@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA usa - Saturday, February 24, 2007 9:15 PM CST
Oh, what a cutie. Can't wait to see you guys again (on Tuesday morning!) and snuggle with adorable Little Miss Olivia! Love love love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, February 24, 2007 7:29 AM CST
Oh that Olivia Joy is just GORGEOUS!!!! what a blessing!
She is totally beautiful, and we can hardly wait to meet her, although we feel as if she is one of the family. :) We are so lucky to share this experience. Love, Ali
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, February 20, 2007 6:51 PM CST
Look forward to meeting little Olivia! Don't think that you have to put her in her bed just yet. She is your baby, and if you want her close, keep her there. Shed no tears about that, she is only one month old! Give yourself a break when the time is right you'll know. Love, Jen
Jen Sayre-Johnson <jdjkdj@comcast.net>
Kirkland, Wa - Sunday, February 18, 2007 1:24 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day!
I hope Nani makes it there safely and on time.
Have a great week together.
Love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 6:38 PM CST
Happy One Month Birthday, Olivia Joy! I love you sooooo much and can't wait to see you again soon. Have fun with your Auntie Nani next week and try not to miss your Daddy too much, he'll be home soon. I love you I love you I love you! Auntie Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, February 12, 2007 2:10 AM CST
It is so nice to hear how all of you are doing. She looks wonderful. Happy Four Weeks.
Love
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bham, Wa USA - Friday, February 9, 2007 8:47 PM CST
Olivia is absolutely perfect. I'm very happy for the entire family. What alot of fun you'll have.
Suzanne Jones <skhuntjones@hotmail.com>
Seattle, wa - Monday, February 5, 2007 12:36 AM CST
Congratulations Rikki & Stefan, I am so happy to see that beautiful bundle of joy with her eyes open. That gorgeous little face and that precious mamma's love lying next to her. I LOVE that feeling. You are going to enjoy your role as caretaker. You'll soon be wanting to bottle up all these special moments. Write things down and save them to read and smile about later as they will make your heart sing forever! You're in my thoughts...
Michele Banks <mmbanks70@hotmail.com>
Woodinville, WA - Saturday, February 3, 2007 12:26 AM CST
I loved the detailed update from you, Meg!! Will you still be there when I come on Monday? Hope so, as I'd love to see you, too! I promise not to steal much of your "Olivia time!" Rikki, at last - to see you And Olivia Joy! It will be Wonderful!! I'll call you on Sunday and hope to at least talk with Stefan, as he'll probably be at work when I come with lunch on Monday.
Much love,
"Grandma Diane"
Diane Morris <dianemorris@oci.org>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 9:18 PM CST
Hi Meggie, We are having fun thinking of you and all the fun auntie time you are having. Missing you. Let us know when you get home and we can come over and see your photos of baby Olivia. Love to Rikki and Stefan.
Love
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bham, WA USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 5:21 PM CST
I am loving all your updates and new photos. She is too cute for words and seems to look like her papa... do you think? I'm glad Meg is there and I wish we could come too!!! I'm so jealous of all the people who have had the chance to visit. Rikki, please tell us when you guys head to Seattle. I think that will be our best bet. We love you all....
Natasha <taline71@yahoo.com>
Ventura, CA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 10:27 AM CST
She is so beautful!!! So precious......
Tiffany Gregory <TifTaffy@aol.com>
San Jose, CA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 2:04 AM CST
Much thanks to Aunt Meg for the latest update. We are so thrilled to hear of the adventures of the Boehmer family in Chester Springs. Try to enjoy every day, it'll go so fast. Love Grandma Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA United States - Monday, January 29, 2007 11:28 PM CST
Olivia is just beautiful. It has been really nice to read the updates on you, the baby and Stefan.Enjoy every precious moment, before you know it Olivia will be going to school for the first time. I remember taking my own to school for the first time and I cried and then they look back at me just to let me know it;s ok I would be back before I knew it to bring them home and see all the great things they have learned. They grow so fast.I wish you the best of luck.
Kelly Gambale <kelly.gambale@siemens.com>
Drexel Hill , PA - Monday, January 29, 2007 2:19 PM CST
I am following your updates with great interest and just love the gorgeous photos. I am so happy to know that everything is going well for the three of you... enjoy every precious second of being parents to this beautiful baby girl!
I'm looking forward to meeting her in the not-too-distant future... in the meantime, have a great time with your sister/auntie Meg to Olivia!
With much love and a big hug,
Helen XOXO
Helen Orsinger <helenorsinger@hotmail.com>
Villanova, PA USA - Sunday, January 28, 2007 10:18 AM CST
I just read today's update and loved every word of it!! The photo is darling, too!! I'm so very happy for your happiness and can't Wait to see you all next week!!!!
Lots of love,
"Grandma Diane"
Diane Morris <dianemorris@oci.org>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Saturday, January 27, 2007 4:08 PM CST
Olivia is just beautiful---Congrats to you both! So happy for you two! Babies are most definitely precious! I want to thank you for a special time at your cabin with Jen, Kyle, girls and Kathy and Roger. Had my first snow mobile ride with Jen and loved it! The mountains and lake there are gorgeous! Enjoyed the nice cabin also! Take care and enjoy motherhood! It's ongoing! : ) Toni
Toni Bell, Jennifer's Aunt in Nebraska! <tickertone@cox.net>
Omaha, NE 68136 - Saturday, January 27, 2007 3:17 PM CST
We're so delighted to know about Olivia Joy (what an appropriate second name!). Your accounts bring back days of other babes - and the awesome time of new life and families forming. Our love and happiness sent your way. Jenny and Tom
Jenny and Tom Springer <tjspringer@wavecable.com>
- Friday, January 26, 2007 4:50 PM CST
What a gorgeous baby girl! We love getting the updates and the pics. How wonderful to enjoy all of this family time together. We'll be down there soon!
Love, The Mosillo's: Laurra, Joe, Derek, and Sammy
Braintree, MA USA - Friday, January 26, 2007 3:42 PM CST
How great to "hear" your voice, my sister. So glad you guys are having the time of your lives. Can't wait to see you again in a couple of days. Anything I can bring you from Seattle? Besides millions of kisses and snuggles for your beautiful Olivia Joy, of course.
Love you all, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 26, 2007 11:06 AM CST
Olivia Joy Is so precious and lucky to have you both as parents. May you have a lifetime of wonder with her. Congratulations! Terry.
Terrence Gibson <tgibson20@gmail.com>
Mercer Island, WA USA - Thursday, January 25, 2007 6:47 PM CST
She is beautiful. Congratulations.
Jorge Amador <jorge.amador@siemens.com>
High Point, NC USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 11:17 AM CST
We are so excited for the three of you. What a beautiful addition to you family! Congratulations from each of us. Let the long nights and fun begin!
Kris, Scott, Kevin, Anna, Sam and Sarah Belle Selig
Kris Selig <yardkid1@aol.com>
Durham, NC USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 9:07 AM CST
Hello to my dearest friends. I miss you so much! You all look so wonderful. Rik you are so BEAUTIFUL and Stefan you are such an adorable father. Olivia.... well she is perfect. I think every day about Olivia's beautiful entrance into this world. Rikki and Stefan, I know you will be wonderful parents. I am missing our tranquil and picturesque walks through the Penn coutryside. The amazing food and mostly the company of friends. I love you both very much and I am really looking forward to sharing your years ahead as parents. I wanted you to know I am thinking of you. Daily.... xoxo Melissa
Melissa <MMand4Es@msn.com>
Morgan Hill, CA - Sunday, January 21, 2007 11:49 PM CST
Liebe Erika, lieber Stefan wir freuen uns sehr sehr sehr für Euch!!!!. Alles Liebe, Gesundheit, das Beste für Euch und die wunderschöne Olivia.
David, Lukas, Myriam y Axel Markert <myrisamar@chello.at>
Viena, Austria - Sunday, January 21, 2007 3:42 PM CST
Olivia is DARLING! We are thrilled!!!!
Laurie , Ava and Thomas Bert <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
- Saturday, January 20, 2007 4:58 PM CST
Olivia is DARLING! We are thrilled!!!!
Laurie , Ava and Thomas Bert <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
- Saturday, January 20, 2007 4:58 PM CST
You three look great! Olivia's beautiful and Mom and Dad look pretty darn good too!! Good for you for getting outside. These first few months will be a blur, no matter what. Sleep when you can and it'll get better. Whatever problem you have this week, GUESS WHAT? It'll be gone next week and there'll be something else and that sums up parenthood. Mostly ENJOY and thanks for bringing us on the ride!!! Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, January 20, 2007 10:34 AM CST
Happy Birthday to a very beautiful baby!! May your lives be filled with a lot of happiness and joy as you start a new journey as a family.
Bill Carrano <bill.carrano@siemens.com>
Mountain View, CA USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 6:33 PM CST
Happy Birthday, Olivia Joy! Looking forward to seeing you again in just over a week! Love, Auntie Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 3:42 PM CST
FYI: how are Jesse and Bagera? Just curious how the pets are adjusting to the baby.
Please let the animals know they always have a get-a-way here in B'ham.
Love
The Bennetts
Bennett Family <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
B'ham, Wa USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:13 PM CST
Congratulations to our newest little neighbor on Black Horse Road!! Little Olivia is gorgeous!!
Lots of Love from the Phillips Family -
Diane, Jason, Caitlyn, and Connor
Diane Phillips <dphillip@sju.edu>
Chester Springs, PA USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:12 AM CST
Liebe Rikki, lieber Stefan,
herzlichen Glückwunsch zu Eurer süßen Tochter Olivia Joy. Wir können kaum in Worte fassen wie wir uns mit Euch freuen. Die letzten 3 Wochen haben wir fast täglich auf Eure Homepage geschaut um zu sehen wie es Euch geht und haben mitgezittert wann Eure Kleine wohl auf die Welt kommen wird. Das war spannender als jeder Krimi. Wir wünschen Euch für die Zukunft alles alles Liebe, vorallem viel Spaß mit Olivia Joy.
Dickes Bussi
Sandra, Holger und Nico
Sandra und Holger Roth <Sandra.Roth1@gmx.net>
Baiersdorf, Germany - Thursday, January 18, 2007 7:55 AM CST
She is so beautiful! How wonderful to finally get to meet her! Although I am sure you have been getting plenty of advice from well-qualified professionals and other mothers and friends, I would like to share my pearls of wisdom as a recent member into the motherhood club (my girl is now 5 months old). Things I wished I had known at the time, I want to give you the benefit of my experiences. Here they are, in no particular order: 1) The first 6 weeks were the hardest thing I ever did. There is so much "business" and "work" associated with keeping this little being alive and well, and it is your sole purpose in life at this time. It is very hard work, with very little immediate gratification. The smiles won't come until after about week 6, so until then you may feel very unappreciated by your little creature. 2)Lack of sleep will make you think crazy thoughts, and you may even wonder if you are up to this challenge or what the heck you were thinking when you decided to have a baby. Don't let the crazy thoughts get to you, and don't worry about them later. You are entitled to some insanity right now. 3)Napping when the baby naps is not always possible - I felt more tired when she would wake me after I had been asleep 20 minutes than if I had not slept at all. 4)For the first 12 weeks, baby's reflexes are nutty - use a swaddling blanket to help her feel secure if she flails around a lot. I recommend the book "The Happiest Baby on the Block" for help with a colicky baby or a hearty crier. My girl was not colicky, just fussy and needy and hard to calm once she got worked up. 5) Hold her as much as humanly possible in these first 12 weeks (and beyond!). She will never again be such a little bundle of cuddly joy. Hold her while she sleeps just because you can. Get a baby wrap like the Ultimate Baby Wrap and wear her as much as you can. Not only will it help you bond, but nothing beats that feeling of closeness and love. 6)Do not feel like you have to do any chores around the house. Short of eating rotten food off dirty plates, it can all wait. Hire a housekeeper immediately. On the same note, 7) Never pass up an offer of help from anyone - laundry, meals, baby-holding, errands, etc. Call in all favors RIGHT NOW so you can rest and be with your baby. 8) If the breastfeeding is not "working" for you, by all means give it up. I had so many challenges and I feel I missed out on just being with and loving my baby because I was so focused on giving her my milk. I cried so much during those weeks, from hormones and fatigue and feelings of inadequacy. In hindsight, I would have given it up after 6 weeks. If you feel it is not right for you, give it up WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY! Today's formulas are very good, and a happy family unit is much more important. If breastfeeding is working for you, count your blessings because it is a wonderful way to bond and be with your baby. But also, 9) Don't be afraid of bottles. It is a great way for daddy to get into the feeding picture, and can give you a much-needed break on the feedings. If your baby has a good latch and breastfeeding is going well, you can start as early as 2 weeks without issue. Go with your gut on this one. I was so happy to have one night with more than 5 hours of sleep in a row (we did not start bottles until 6 weeks due to all the challenges). And finally 10)stay connected with the outside world and keep living your life (baby will likely eat and sleep better after regular outings into the world). But don't be too busy or have too many visitors to have just the three of you alone together to bond and just be together. Sorry this is so long! I'm sure I'll have more retrospective thoughts after the first year! Love to you all and good luck!
Liz Steppe <steppes@juno.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 5:54 PM CST
Thank You Gpa Jack. Any chance she can fit into your suit case? If you have a duffle, try to get Rikki and Stefan over here too. We love the update.
Love
The Bennetts
Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
B'ham, WA USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 8:30 PM CST
And what a cool little bundle she is! Sounds like you did great, Rikki. I know you and Stefan and family couldn't be happier. Thank you for sharing her and your experience. Brad's little boy, Hunter, arrived Sunday during the Seahawks game so we had a little excitement, too. He is healthy, mellow, and of course, gorgeous. Take care of your little darling and send some more pics!
Love, Jen's mom...and Kylie's best friend, Roger
Kathy Sayre and Roger R <quincecastle@earthlink.net>
Olympia, WA USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 7:39 PM CST
Rikki and Stefan, Congratulations on your new beautiful baby girl. Jason just forwarded on your websight so I could see the pictures. She is a cutie!
Suzanne <suzanne.davison@siemens.com >
Los Gatos, CA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 3:20 PM CST
Don't forget drink. Eat, Play, Drink, Sleep.
She is a doll and we are having such fun thinking of her great life with her great parents.
Love
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 11:37 AM CST
Hello Boehmers and Welcome Olivia Joy! We are delighted to hear of your baby girl's arrival and can't express enough our joy for you. Congratulations and Praise God! We love you.
Koby and Nancy Kumasaka
- Tuesday, January 16, 2007 11:13 AM CST
Congrats on your new beautiful girl!! I am so happy for you!!! Enjoy every moment!!!
Maybe I can meet Olivia when I come to Malvern!!
Best Wishes!
Eileen Brassel
Eileen Brassel <eileen.brassel@siemens.com>
Midland Park, NJ USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 10:30 AM CST
You've got the pattern already!!**!! Eat, play, sleep and then start over. It'll be this way for about , ah, oh say
THE NEXT EIGHTEEN YEARS. We loved parenthood and you will too. Love Sue
Sue BUll <smallbull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 10:17 AM CST
Congratulations on your new addition! Olivia is a beautiful baby. Thank you for sending me this link, I have enjoyed reading your entries. Your story is inspiring, well documented, and fabulously written! Erica you look great. May God continue to bless your family!
Simone (Reed) Hill <SIMONE.HILL@SBCGLOBAL.NET>
Plano, TX USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 9:40 AM CST
Congratulations!! I couldn't be more happy for you. Olivia is so lucky to have such wonderful parents! I can't wait to see her next time you're in Seattle.
Robbie Sherman
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 8:09 PM CST
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
Congratulations on your darling little baby daughter, Olivia. What a pretty name...We are so happy for you and wish you the very best and God's blessings for the days and months to come. Love, Anita and Bill
Anita and Bill Osborn <wd.osborn@charter.net>
Scottsbluff, NE USS - Monday, January 15, 2007 6:50 PM CST
Hi Olivia, Rikki and Stefan,
Missing you guys! Wishing I could still be there with you and looking forward to my trip back in two weeks. Please give my little niece lots of kisses and hugs for me. And I hope you guys get enough sleep and that nursing gets easier.
All my love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 3:33 PM CST
Congratulations Rikki and Stefan!! Welcome beautiful baby Olivia!! I am so excited for you. Can't wait to meet her! Praise our awesome Lord.
Sarah and Mike Hubbell <sbhubbell@comcast.net>
Mont Clare , PA USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 2:52 PM CST
We are so happy to know of Olivia Joy's debut. Congratulations and best wishes for a good sleeper!
With much love,
Sy and Dan <Sy@mydogboris.com>
- Monday, January 15, 2007 12:53 AM CST
Baby Olivia is beautiful! Congratulations! Take naps whenever you can......
Tiffany Gregory <TifTaffy@aol.com>
San Jose, Ca - Monday, January 15, 2007 12:44 AM CST
Congratulations on your new baby girl! She is just beautiful! So glad that we got a chance to reconnect this summer at the reunion in Seattle. God bless you over and over again on your new journey with Olivia!
Juli Hillis <julih@prodigy.net>
Coralville, IA USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 12:08 AM CST
Congratulations on your new little gift from God! I'm so excited for all of you!
Last night as I was praying for all of you and thanking God for the miracle of her birth, I was also "playing" with her beautiful name. What's a good nickname...Ollie? (ick) Via? (no) Liv?...oh, "Live Joy". That's it. And that's when God showed me that will forevermore be my prayer for this little one -- that she would LIVE JOY! She has a great start with such a fabulous entrance to the world! May you all be living joyfully in these wonderful days! Love you!
Malia
- Monday, January 15, 2007 11:27 AM CST
Congratulations to you both. She is beautiful. What a great new journery you have ahead of you. I am so happy for you.
Beverly Teachworth <beverly.teachworth@siemens.com>
Flower Mound, TX US - Monday, January 15, 2007 10:13 AM CST
What pure joy to read your entries and revel in the miracle unfolding, now in your arms! Welcome to this part of the parenting adventure ... may gratefulness be translated into a sense of having slept!
We can't wait to meet Olivia!!
Lots of Love - Tina, Chloe and Christian
Tina <tsellers@spu.edu>
Seattle, WA King - Monday, January 15, 2007 9:56 AM CST
Wonderful News! Congrats and we look forward to seeing more pictures. Try to get some sleep and Stefan-turn off the Blackberry!
Best wishes from Amy & Kirk Zambetti
Kirk Zambetti <kazambetti@comcast.net>
Grosse Pointe, MI - Monday, January 15, 2007 8:54 AM CST
Greetings to Olivia Joy, what a beautiful name. She is the third baby girl born to friends of ours within a month, so we're excited to welcome her as the third "good things come in threes" member. We thank God for all your family, friends and medical personnel who have shared this time with you. We'll look forward to seeing Mom, Dad and baby Olivia (I LOVE that name).
Carolyn and Stewart Goetz <carolyn@ccme.org>
- Monday, January 15, 2007 8:53 AM CST
Dear Stefan,
Congratulations to you and your beautiful wife! Your baby is just precious. What a blessing she is! You will have to bring her in the office for a visit sometime so we can all make a fuss over her. God bless you and your family at this very special time and in the years to come.
Best regards,
Mary Dowd
Mary Dowd <mary.dowd@siemens.com>
Malvern, PS USA - Monday, January 15, 2007 8:21 AM CST
Congratulations Rikki and Stefan - and welcome Olivia to a wonderful world !
All the best for you all!
Love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Monday, January 15, 2007 1:37 AM CST
Ricki Stephan and Olivia - congratulations to you all! What an epic few days having a baby is - hate to tell you but it doesn't stop from here - hectic hectic hectic . I am sure you are enjoying every minute of it - as you should. Michael and I and the kids are sooooo happy for you. My only advice from afar is to be selfish of your time with your new baby. It all passes to quick in the first years.
We miss you - what great people you are - and look forward to meeting up with you again somewhere in the world! And to meet Olivia. Our kids - Charlotte, Joshua, William and our new Sarah(4months) are all doing well.
love always
Kathryn and Michael Tuttas
Sydney, NSW Australia - Sunday, January 14, 2007 10:44 PM CST
Welcome to the World Olivia!
"Nothing is as precious or brings home so much love, as a brand new baby sent from above."
So happy for you Rikki and Stefan! All the best and enjoy every waking moment (your going to have a lot now!)
Dana, Mohammed, Leila and Ibrahim Dessouky <dana.benhalim@gmail.com>
Toronto, Canada - Sunday, January 14, 2007 9:34 PM CST
Congratulations Rikki & Stefan on the birth of your beautiful daughter, Olivia Joy. We are so happy to hear that both Mom and baby are doing fine. Thank you for your Christmas letter. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Hope we can meet "Olivia Joy" someday.
Love and best wishes to all of you from Lanigan, Saskatchewan, Canada. Take care. Herb & Dianne Bartel
Dianne Bartel <herb.bartel@bogend.ca>
Lanigan, SK Canada - Sunday, January 14, 2007 8:41 PM CST
What a beautiful name for a beautiful baby! I am absolutely thrilled for you! And I will remember Jan. 12th - as it is my Mother's birthday & Grandmother's. May God continue to make Himself real to you!
Becky Jones <bbjones22@juno.com>
Newtown Square, PA USA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 3:45 PM CST
Hello Erica and Stefan, I am very happy that everything went well so far and I wish you all the best. You will surely have a lot of joy with your child. I wish you a lot of rediscoveries of your self only a child can lead you to.
Greetings from Heidi (biologist in the IVF-clinic in Germany)
Heidrun Koebernick <heidrun.koebernick@tiscali.de>
- Sunday, January 14, 2007 2:18 PM CST
Congrats! She is super cute! We are so happy for you!
Joseph and April Hawthorne <zonajoe300zx@yahoo.com>
Tempe, AZ USA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 12:33 AM CST
She is so beautiful!! Congratulations to both of you......we can't wait to meet her!!
Holly & Dave Gannett <hollygannett@aol.com>
Downingtown, PA - Sunday, January 14, 2007 10:41 AM CST
Congratulations on the safe and healthy arrival of your baby girl!!! This is wonderful news and we can't wait to have the opportunity to meet her!
Ilene and Will Simmonds <ilene_simmonds@yahoo.com>
Redmond, WA 98052 - Saturday, January 13, 2007 10:20 PM CST
Congratulations on your little bundle of joy. Hopefully she and Sebastian can meet sometime! We hope that your labor ran smoothly and that you were able to put to practice the many things we learned in our class!!
Love, Kristin, Luis and Sebastian
Kristin and Luis Molavoque
West Chester, PA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 10:08 PM CST
Congratulations! We are so happy to have Olivia Joy as the newest member of our family. We are thrilled for you guys and thank God for this special gift.
Dick and Jen <spress@earthlink.net>
- Saturday, January 13, 2007 7:12 PM CST
Dearest Rikki,
What a joy to follow your birth story and see your precious little girl. I was surprised by that picture of Olivia Joy in a blanket with my handwriting on it! But then I remembered those words from 2 Corinthians 1:7: "God will tenderly comfort you when you undergo sufferings."
May God tenderly comfort you through all the sleep-interupted nights ahead.
All blessings, love, and hugs,
Marcia Davis-Cannon <mdcannon2@yahoo.com>
Mountain View , CA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 7:01 PM CST
She is so beautiful. WE are all so excited for you both and can't wait to meet her one day when you come to visit Joe and Laurra. God Bless you all!!!!!!
Susan and PAtrick Gannon & Family <twinsmm@aol.com>
PEmbroke, MA 02359 - Saturday, January 13, 2007 5:47 PM CST
Congratulations Rikki & Stefan to your own "family" and welcome little Olivia Joy...
Andreas Feiler <a.feiler@gmx.de>
Erlangen/New York, Germany - Saturday, January 13, 2007 5:43 PM CST
She is soooo Cute. Looking forward to seeing more pictures of the whole family. Nobody deserves this more then the two of you. Take care and try to get as much rest as possible.
Love, Sheryl Price
Sheryl Price <Pricesr70@hotmail.com>
Kirkland, Wa USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 4:47 PM CST
Paul and I are so happy for your new little life from God. We were blessed with 4 little girls and know how thrilling it can be. We will be praying for you in the coming days especially for strength and rest. We know how hard those first few weeks can be!! God is good and he certainly answers prayer. Our prayer for your daughter is that God will watch over her and keep her in all her ways and that she will find him at an early age.
Dorothy and Paul Yaggy
Campbell, Ca USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 3:54 PM CST
Rikki & Stefan, We are so happy for you!!!! Thank you for letting us share in this blessing from our awesome God! Enjoy these first precious days with Olivia. Our love -
Annie, David, Harrison & Henry
Royersford, PA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 3:08 PM CST
Congratulations......I'm soooooo happy for all of you. Keep the pictures coming.
Suzanne (W.) Jones <skhuntjones@hotmail.com>
Seattle, wa - Saturday, January 13, 2007 2:57 PM CST
To little Olivia Joy:
You have such incredibly wonderful parents. Wait until you hear the amazing story of how you came into this world! We know you have a sense of humor already because you made your mom play frisbee and mop the floor right before you were born!! You sound hungry, so we'll keep this short. We love you and may the Lord bless you always!!
The Sarian Family
Laurel and Greg <glsarian@comcast.net>
Malvern, PA 19355 - Saturday, January 13, 2007 2:42 PM CST
Olivia Joy - Welcome to LIFE! All your aunts and uncles are dying to see you!! We have baby sitters galore and you are a baby so we need to get together!! We are so thankful for your safe and healthy arrival. May God richly bless each day of your life and fill your parents with deep joy as they watch you grow. My kids say "hurry and grow so they can play with you"! Brian for the Atlanta Hillis crew.
Brian Hillis <bhillis2@bellsouth.net>
Atlanta, Ga USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 2:02 PM CST
Welcome Olivia Joy! We are so very happy for you all and appreciate that you have shared this wonderful time with us! We showed Macy the pictures, and she signed (unprompted) "baby I love you." We know you'll enjoy every moment with your little treasure !! All our love to you -
Brian, Janet & Macy Rockafield <janetrockafield@yahoo.com>
Snohomish, WA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 12:22 AM CST
Floodgates of tears came rolling down my eyes when I read Dr. Silverman's words. I will never forget that day ... and will never ever forget this day either. Such joy, such joy! Olivia Joy ... to see your face this morning, well, David and I couldn't help but beam from ear to ear when we saw you again, another day. Too precious for words ...
Martha
Cupertino, CA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 12:14 AM CST
Stefan & Rikki,
Congratulations on your new bundle of joy. She is so beautiful.
Thank you for remembering me, and thank you for sending me your wonderful Christmas newsletter.
Take care, and may God always bless your family and home.
In christian love,
Jim
Jim Stone <jimcstone@comcast.net; jimcstone@yahoo.com>
Renton, WA United States - Saturday, January 13, 2007 12:11 AM CST
Lieber Stefan, liebe Rikki,
die gesamte Liebel Family freut sich ueber die Ankunft der suessen kleinen Olivia Joy!
Wir wuenschen euch viele, schlaflose Naechte mit eurem "Wonneproppen" ;-)
Geniest die Zeit, ab jetzt beginnt der "fast forward" mode.
Vielleicht bis bald an der East Coast!
Liebe Gruesse aus LA,
The Liebels
Christina und Holger mit Sarah, Dominic und Pascal <holger.liebel@cox.net>
Los Angeles, CA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 11:22 AM CST
Welcome to the world Olivia Joy! Congratulations Rikki and Stefan. Oh what fun you have ahead of you. We can't wait to meet her.
Love, Chrissy & Eva (Glenn and Noel too, but they aren't here to know the news yet)
Chris Airoldi
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 10:24 AM CST
Hallelujah! Welcome Olivia Joy, and congratulations Mama & Papa. Justyn is already looking forward to their first "date". I was compelled to pray for you around 4 or 4:30 yesterday afternoon. Now I know why. We can't wait to see and hug all of you!!!
Theresa Peterhans
Florham Park, NJ - Saturday, January 13, 2007 9:06 AM CST
Welcome to the world little Olyvia. So fantastic to be here for your first day on this earth. I look forward to many years of throwing you in the air and dragging you down the slopes and teasing you about your boyfriends. Welcome to the world and the Pageler/Boehmer family.
Jon Pageler
New York, NY America - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:44 AM CST
We rejoice with you as you receive Olivia Joy fresh from the hand of God. We pray He will continue to shape and guide her and grow you through parenting her. Your lives will never be the same as you embark upon this adventure relying on the Lord. All praise to Him!
Christi for the Rhines
Christi Rhine
West Chester, PA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:31 AM CST
Congratulations! We are very happy for you.
Barbara + Kristian Ofstad <barbofstad@netscape.net>
Weinheim, Germany - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:28 AM CST
Wir sind überglücklich und dankbar, dass nach langen Tagen der Aufregung unsere Enkeltochter Olivia Joy gesund und munter das Licht der Welt erblickt hat und dass es ihr und ihrer Mom (und natürlich ihrem Dad) gut geht. Wir wünschen ihr ein glückliches Leben im Kreise ihrer glücklichen Familie.
Special thanks, dear Melissa, for being there and taking care – far away from your family. It was soothing for us to know that you were always close to Rikki.
Wir freuen uns darauf und können es kaum erwarten, in 80 Tagen Olivia in den Armen zu halten.
GrandMa Inge and GrandPa Gerhard from Germany
Inge und Gerhard Böhmer
Baiersdorf, Germany - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:26 AM CST
Congratulations Boehmer family! What a wonderful birth! I couldn't be happier right now. Please give that little angel a kiss for me and enjoy this incredibly special time together. I feel so blessed to have had you in my class and to have shared in the experience.
Love,
Dusti
Dusti Bowling <dustibowling@gmail.com>
Glenmoore, PA 19343 - Saturday, January 13, 2007 8:13 AM CST
Congratulations I hope all remains well and you don't ever have to see us again!
--
Norman H Silverman MD, D Sc, (Med) FACC, FASE.
Professor of Pediatrics,
Division of Pediatric Cardiology,
The Roma and Marvin Auerback Scholar in Pediatric Cardiology
Director, Pediatric and Echocardiography Laboratory,
Lucile Packard Children's Hospital,
Stanford University Medical Center,
750 Welch Road - Suite 305,
Palo Alto, California 94304,
Norman Silverman
Palo Alto, CA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 6:33 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan, Congratulations. Its great news to hear that Olivia Joy is here. She looks beautiful! Our God is a great God! May he continue to bless you and Olivia Joy adding to our joy. We are greatly happy for you and look forward to meeting Olivia Joy.
Chipo and Malama Chibwe <chipo189@hotmail.com>
Royersford, PA 19468 - Saturday, January 13, 2007 6:05 AM CST
Glückwunsch,Ihr habt so ein süßes Baby und Olivia ist ein schöner Name.Ihr könnt nicht vorstellen wie wir uns für euch freuen.
Ana und Lothar <anapeuter@gmx.de>
Forchheim, Germany - Saturday, January 13, 2007 5:24 AM CST
Welcome, Olivia Joy! Rikki, Stefan - we are so happy that everything went fine. Alles, alles Gute!
Petra and Jürgen
Baiersdorf, - Saturday, January 13, 2007 5:22 AM CST
Liebe Rikki, lieber Stefan, ihr könnt Euch gar nicht vorstellen wie sehr wir uns für Euch freuen. Rikki Du warst super tapfer und Stefan hat Dich ganz toll dabei unterstützt. Eine tolle Geburt mit einem noch schöneren Ergebnis: Olivia Joy - ein echt süßer Name. Wir wünschen Euch alles, alles Gute für die bevorstehende Zeit und viel Vergnügen mit der Kleinen. Alles Liebe
Kerstin, Thomas und Dominik Cont <tcont@t-online.de>
Hausen, - Saturday, January 13, 2007 5:00 AM CST
Congratulations and welcome Olivia! Can't wait to meet you and see the proud mama and papa in action. We couldn't be happier for you.
Much, much love,
Debbie and Sean
Debbie and Sean McDonald <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 1:27 AM CST
Herzlichen Glückwunsch!
Ilse
- Saturday, January 13, 2007 0:53 AM CST
Congratulations, we must have checked the website every half hour today! We are so happy for you all. Love to Olivia, Rikki and Stefan and the entire extended family. The 'Hillis Family Tree' chart is already updated on the Humphrey website.
Dick and Kathy Humphrey <rhumphrey@gmail.com>
Glendale, CA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 0:26 AM CST
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE to you all! We can't wait to meet Miss Olivia!! Give her a big love from us --
Kyrsten, Rick, Kate & Anna <rklaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 11:51 PM CST
Rikki, Stefan and Olivia, I feel honored to be a part of Olivia's birth, if only from a distance. I am so very happy for all of you and extremely proud of Rikki's perseverance, positive attitude, and performance today.
My love to you all - Barb
Barbara Del Prince <barbara.delprince@siemens.com>
San Jose, ca - Friday, January 12, 2007 11:50 PM CST
Congratulations on the safe birth of Olivia. I would also like to thank you for the kind hospitality you gave me on my trip to Philadelphia last August. My husband Ray also sends his good wishes to your family.
Mary and Ray Davis <mpd@bigpond.net.au>
Seacombe Heights, SA Australia - Friday, January 12, 2007 11:25 PM CST
I love a thumb/finger sucker. I was one, I have a daughter who is one. Matter of fact, the ultrasound photo of Emma at about 8mo. showed her sucking on her two middle fingers. A habit she still loves today. I suppose we will have to discourage it by high school.
Love the Photos and looking forward to more of the baby.
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bham, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:57 PM CST
Congratulations! We are so excited for you and family as you continue this awesome journey. In 11 days Jaclen will turn 9. The time goes by so quickly. We still remember her birth day. We know you will enjoy every second, every sound, every step of the way. Lots of hugs and kisses to all of you. We look forward to all the updates, pictures and to seeing you soon. Love, Don, Laura and Jaclen Moxley
Laura Moxley <lauramoxley@alltel.net>
Granville, OH USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:13 PM CST
CONGRATULATIONS Rikki and Stefan! Finally, Olivia has arrived! What a beautiful name you have given her. May your lives be filled with joy and happiness, may your days be filled with laughter, may your hearts be filled with peace and love, and may your nights be filled with sleep.
~Sarah (Melissa's sister)
sarah
Morgan Hill, ca USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:55 PM CST
We are on the phone listening to Olivia's perfect birth story as retold by Auntie Meg and we are sooooo truly elated that she is here. Rikki, you are amazing. Congratulations to you all... we can't wait to meet her!!! Please give Olivia a specific kiss from the Sargissian family and tell her that we love her.
Natasha, Victor, Andre, and Arman <taline71@yahoo.com>
Ventura, CA - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:42 PM CST
Dear Rikki, lieber Stefan,
Welcome to the world, dearest, sweetest Olivia Joy!
Rikki, you are the BEST and an example for so many other women...what a wonderfully short delivery, that's what you get when you're as fit as you are... and jumping around on trampolines a couple of days before delivering a wonderfully healthy baby! I can't say how happy I am for you, Stefan and all your family... may the celebration of life and all the good eating at the Boehmer household continue!!!
Thinking of you and sending my warmest and heartfelt congratulations to all present!
With love,
Helen XXXX
Helen Orsinger <helenorsinger@hotmail.com>
Villanova, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:28 PM CST
Helen has just rung me to tell me about Olivia joy's safe arrival into the world.It is fantastic to know that you can now be the parents you always wanted to be. Us old ladies at german can't wait to be introduced to your very special daughter.Take care in between time. Much love
Anne Kybert <annekybert@hotmail.com>
Haverford, PA US - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:10 PM CST
Oh Happy Day!! I have been following your family's journey since Naomi graced you briefly on her way to Heaven. I am thrilled that Olivia has arrived safe and sound and she can now bask in the gazillion watts of love that is radiating from your household. I can feel it all the way across the country!! What a fabulous way to start the new year. I can't wait to tell Andrea and Brian the joyful news (they're in Belize). Love, Katy
Katy Faas (still Andrea's sister) <katyfaas@hotmail.com>
Redmond, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:44 PM CST
As we rode the ferry across Puget Sound Mt Ranier was stunning I told the girls to look. Chloe said "Naomi your sister was born today!" We love you Boehmer family. Miss Olivia is georgous. As Markiss would say "FANTASTIC!!"
LIUM CHICKS <SWIMMERRILEY@HOTMAIL.COM>
BOTHELL, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:44 PM CST
Congratulations Rikki and Stefan and Welcome "Little Olivia"! You are just so precious! I left to go get dinner and a little shopping and came home to the great news! Just shared it with John as he is stuck in Chicago! He sends his Congradulations also! We love you all and give Olivia a gentle kiss and hug from us! Love to you all!
Susie & John
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:34 PM CST
congratulations and welcome to the world Olivia Joy we are so excited for all of you. i am glad your labor went so smoothly. Rest now when you can and enjoy every moment of looking into your daughters face. we love you all.
Theresa, Brad, Emily and Philip <leh-ander@msn.com>
Seattle, Wa USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:29 PM CST
Welcome little Olivia Joy to the big world and congratulations to Rikki and Stefan. We haven't seen the fireworks yet from our deck. We were already waiting for it ;-)
All the best to you,
Renate, Marko, Janina & Nico
The Feulner Family <marko.feulner@web.de>
Chester Springs, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:24 PM CST
I love Olivia Joy and she will bring you much joy. She is beautiful. You look great and so does Stefan. All the help you have is a blessing. I agree what a family to be born into - the family of God. All my love and prayers!!!
Peggy
ps Today was my brother's birthday.
Peggy Lux <peggylux1@verizon.net>
Kirkland, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:22 PM CST
Welcome to the world little Olivia Joy!!! Congratulations on another beautiful little girl. Thank you so much for allowing us to be part of this amazing journey... it has been very fascinating reading all of the journal entries. Love to you all!
Ann-Marie, Zak & Cameron Murray <onesummer@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:12 PM CST
Congratulations to you ,and the whole family !!!WELCOME OLIVIA Joy!,We hope to meet her very soon ! Viel spass noch !!Felicidades !
Dalhía ,Sebastian and Joachim <jokra@t-online.de>
Grossenseebach, Germany - Friday, January 12, 2007 8:07 PM CST
Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your special journey with us. So deeply moving....it will remain with me forever. Can't wait to see the Boehmer family as soon as you have had a chance to rest!
Sylvia <sylvmatthes@yahoo.com>
Wayne, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 7:46 PM CST
Well, here I am at Grandma's desk, viewing the picture of lovely little Olivia Joy. How nice that she is with us all at last!! I have a little wee book I'll pop in the mail to her this weekend! Nice going, Rikki & Stefan (and everyone else...)!!!!!!!
LKS
Linda Stores <lindastoresf@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 7:37 PM CST
Congratulations guys, she's adorable!
Mo and Lawrence
Philadelphia, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 7:37 PM CST
hooray for little girls! she's beautiful! welcome olivia joy! nice work mama rikki! :) woohoo!
diane, shane & casey <pfre@comcast.net>
seattle, wa usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 7:13 PM CST
Oh....Olivia Joy is SO purdy!!! Congratulations and a lifetime of joy and love to all!!! Love, Lisa
Lisa Marie Waldvogel <lisa.waldvogel@gmail.com>
Grosse Pointe Woods, MI 48236 - Friday, January 12, 2007 7:02 PM CST
Congratulations to you all! Olivia is beautiful and has such big eyes! Thanks for letting us know what a special day this is.
Love,
Vicki and Ken
Vicki and Ken <vjsayre@hotmail.com>
Salado, TX USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 6:57 PM CST
O JOY! Congratulations!
Love, Debbie
Debbie Bull <dbull67@yahoo.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 6:45 PM CST
Congratulations, Rikki and Stefan! And welcome to the world Olivia! We are rejoicing with you. :)
Gabi & Mike Tanis
Audubon, PA - Friday, January 12, 2007 6:24 PM CST
Dear Boehmer Family,
CONGRATULTIONS! What a blessing to have received another baby girl! She is absolutely beautiful. We can't wait to meet Olivia and visit with you guys! We love you guys! The Ness Family
Astrid Ness <ness_a@msn.com>
Bellevue, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 6:10 PM CST
She' BEAUTIFUL. Love to all and thanks for keeping us informed. Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 6:08 PM CST
Yay! We are so excited and happy for you!
It will be so fun to have all of the new babies meet next time you are in Seattle!
Cristina McGlynn (Tina Poppe) <cristinapoppe@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 6:08 PM CST
Dear Olivia Joy,
Welcome! We are just thrilled that you are here. As are your scores of close relatives and hundreds of friends! You surely took your own sweet time arriving, causing many of us to haunt our email multiple times daily and bite our fingernails to the quick. But we can already see that you were well worth the wait! Tell your mom and dad congratulations from us - they must be over the moon with happiness (I KNOW your grandpas and grandmas are!!!)
We can't wait to meet you. And by the way, we LOVE your name.
Great Aunt Nancy
Nancy Lundsgaard <nancylunds@netscape.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 6:02 PM CST
What a beautiful, perfect little girl. I can see she already sparkles with personality. She is the luckiest girl in the world to come into a family with so much love to give. Congratulations birth team for a job well done!
Vicky Doyle
Seattle, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:56 PM CST
What exciting news to hear of Olivia's arrival. I've been thinking of you both and ofcourse I look forward to getting a chance to hold Olivia soon! Your family is so loved by so many of us and Olivia is so very blessed to have you both as her parents!
Kimberly Stanton <slskms@yahoo.com>
Berwyn, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:51 PM CST
Wow! Congrats to you both! She's beautiful! Praise God for this little miracle.
Nancy Erickson <NancyE@VitalFlame.com>
Redmond, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:50 PM CST
The waiting was worth while! What a beautiful girl! Tell her I said hello and I'll be coming soon to hold her!
Welcome little Olivia Boehmer! Love, Jen Sayre-Johnson
P.S. I hope her mommy is doing fine!
Jen Sayre-Johnson <jdjkdj@comcast.net>
Kirkland, Wa - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:49 PM CST
Way to go team! Congrats to all of you and most to Rikki and Stephan. We join in your circle of love and thanks and joy for this wonderful day. All our love, Pat, Carol and Shannon
Carol Higgins <iampath@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:46 PM CST
I was so surprised that Olivia Joy came so quickly, but so very glad for YOU, especially, Rik!! I'm so very thankful, rejoicing with all of you, with many, many thanks and praises, echoing what the other Diane wrote!! Can't wait to see you, precious Olivia Joy!
So very much love, hugs, and blessings,
"Grandma Diane" XXX000
Diane Morris <dianemorris@oci.org>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:43 PM CST
Praise God for such a miracle. Have been watching the website all week and prayed for you at our VFM meeting this morning. Olivia Joy - What a beautiful name for such a blessing from God.
Much Love - Bill and Lois Pollard
Lois and Bill <BillPoll74@aol.com>
Chester Springs, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:41 PM CST
A brand new day is dawning, for you Olivia Joy, and as it gets it's start, I want you to know, we are thinking of you with Warmth and Love in our hearts!!! Congratulations Rikki, Stefan, and Family!!!
John and Annie Murray <johnannmurray@msn.com>
- Friday, January 12, 2007 5:39 PM CST
Alice and I are excited to hear and see the wonderful news! Congratulations: Olivia Joy, a precious gift from heaven. God bless you both - all three of you!
Hans (and Alice) Wilhelm <hanswilhelm@mac.com>
Arnold, CA 95223 - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:34 PM CST
Congratulations--she's beautiful and I love her name. Boy, I can finally get something done today, I've been checking the website every 15 minutes. We can't wait to meet her--come to Seattle soon. Love, Margaret.
Margaret Day <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
- Friday, January 12, 2007 5:30 PM CST
She is so cute. That is just great. We are so happy for you.
Victor Sargissian <ahswood12000@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 12, 2007 5:26 PM CST
Congratulations!! Olivia Joy is beautiful. What a precious picture. God bless you!
Cindy Eichling <cindye@cosnet.org>
Wayne, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:25 PM CST
Congratulations, Olivia Joy is here! Can't wait to meet her.
Love You All,
Casey
Casey <casey.murray@qwest.com>
Seattle, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:21 PM CST
Hallelujah! Congratulations Stefan and Rikki! And Welcome precious Olivia Joy! What a beautiful name! You are so blessed, Olivia, to be born to two such amazing individuals! Your parents exude (practically drip) of God's amazing love. They have persevered through an amazing journey to have the privilege of holding you! What plans He must have for all three of you! I can hardly wait to see it all unfold! Treasure these days, as I know you will, as from a true gift from On High! Jehovah-Jirah has INDEED provided! Hallelujah! What a Savior! We are right there with you in all of the excitement.....rejoicing. Rikki! You look and ARE amazing! You are an inspiration! Love ya babe!
Diane Ramey <dianeramey@comcast.net>
Bothell, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:20 PM CST
Wow, she's beautiful. I'm so happy for you both!! Can't wait to see more pictures, she looks so alert. Now, it's time for a bit of relaxation, yeah...right!! Congratulations, Hugs and Kisses - Tony, Sherri and Mason Bridges
Sherri Bridges <personalizedpromo@msn.com>
Snohomish, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:20 PM CST
Congratulations Rikki and Stefan! What a beautiful baby girl!! What an exciting birth - it has been so fun to watch! Mom and Mort send their love too - she had me call as soon as Olivia arrived.
Enjoy your precious bundle of Olivia Joy!!
Love you lots!!
Laurra, Joe, Derek, and Sammy Mosillo <JoeLar@beld.net>
Braintree, ma usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:14 PM CST
Rikki & Stefan,
We love Olivia Joy already....She will be in our prayers, as you are..... Love, John and Marilyn
John & Marilyn Nugent
Villavona, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:14 PM CST
Hi again,
after reading all the threads now the first picture is online - what a nice baby! Hope we´ll meet soon.
Gerald
Gerald <xxx@xxx.xx>
Fuerth / Germany, - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:14 PM CST
Congratulations! She is beautiful!!!
Donna Lipp
- Friday, January 12, 2007 5:13 PM CST
Hugs and kisses to the beautiful Olivia Joy. So sweet.
Congrats and we look forward to meeting her.
Love
The Bennetts
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
BHam, Wa USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:11 PM CST
Hi Olivia, hi Rikki and Stefan,
CONGRATULATIONS AND BEST WISHES!!!
..from your Cousin Gerald with wife Karin and (sleeping) Tiziana and Yannik. It´s midnight in good old germany and we are going to sleep now, but we´ll hope to see some pics soon :-) have a nice day and a good night...
Gerald
Gerald <blabla-interesiertdochehkeinen@yahoo.de>
Fuerth / Germany, - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:05 PM CST
Congratulations Rikki and Stefan! Welcome to the family, Olivia Joy! We can't wait to meet you someday!
Love, Jason and Amy Zazzi
Amy Zazzi
Westlake Village, CA 91361 - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:02 PM CST
Congratulations!!! Give Olivia a kiss for me!
Leslie Hampton <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 5:00 PM CST
We can't wait to meet Olivia Joy! Sounds like a true Pageler moment - everyone had a role! Sad to have missed it, but will plan a trip back east soon!
Colleen Birch <cgbirch@cox.net>
Las Vegas, NV - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:58 PM CST
Congruatulations!! Thanks for sharing your special time with Oliva with all of us. I am very happy for you both. Olivia Joy is a beautiful name and she will be a very much loved little girl. God Bless!
Laura Hernandez <lbhernand@yahoo.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:56 PM CST
Welcome Baby Boehmer, You are so loved! Rikki and Stefan, Happy parenting and congratulations are in order for the perseverance and grace you displayed through your daughter's miracle of life. Blessings!
Cinda and Tom <cmarturano@comcast.net>
Malvern, PA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:52 PM CST
Welcome to the newest member of the family! January 12 sounds like the perfect birthday to me! We cannot wait to see you two and your little girl. Many hugs and kisses to you three special and speedy delivery from Laurie, Ava, and Thomas Bert
Laurie Bert <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
Shoreline, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:50 PM CST
AMEN!! to the comments made my Martha in Cupertino! "Friday's child is loving and giving" Loving and giving runs in the family so Baby B fits right in!!!
CONGRATULATIONS to you Rikki & Stefan! We love you all and can't wait to see the pics. A warm hello to the Pageler family and CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Dana & Dave Nelson <thenelsons101@msn.com>
Auburn, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:48 PM CST
"Grandma" Marcia says, 'Welcome dear Baby B!' This may be the only way I have a 'grandchild' so I'm claiming her now! WOO HOOOOO! Sending LOTS of hugs through the tears of joy!
Marcia Sonnevil
Bellevue, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:35 PM CST
Herzlich willkommen auf der Erde!Herzlichen Glueckwunsch liebe Rikke und lieber Stefan!
Karin Boehm <ka-boehm@web.de>
Herzogenaurach, - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:34 PM CST
Congratulations, Rikki and Stefan, and to the entire Pageler and Boehmer family!
Monday's child is fair of face.
Tuesday's child is full of grace.
Wednesday's child is full of woe.
Thursday's child has far to go.
Friday's child is loving and giving.
Saturday's child works hard for a living,
But the child who is born on the Sabbath Day
Is bonny and blithe and good and gay.
TGIF will never sound quite so perfect again.
Much love,
Martha
Cupertino, CA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:34 PM CST
Hooray! Blessings and praises. What a joy to see the word "born" finally appear. Yippee!
Debby <towtdeb@att.net>
- Friday, January 12, 2007 4:32 PM CST
Welcome to the world loved one.
Love The Bennetts
Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bham, Wa USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:23 PM CST
Welcome little one! You were so waited for...but we know God's perfect timing is everything ...we will meet you one day...Big Kiss to Mom and Dad....faithful parents..you are so Lucky!
Hugs from California!
Paula and Joe Osorio
Paula Osorio <poejoeeao@aol.com>
San Mateo, CA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:22 PM CST
COngratulations Stefan!!!
You must be the proudest husband and father :-)
Sylvia
Wayne, p USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:22 PM CST
Congratulations Rikki!!! Welcome baby Boehmer!!
All my love
Sylvia
Wayne, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:21 PM CST
Rikki you are truly an amazing woman. You look radiant in the pictures...I am in awe and you are an inspiration to us all! Go Girl!
I am glued to the computer watching for your progress :-)
All my love...
Sylvia
Wayne, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:18 PM CST
It's a glorious day in the neighborhood, it's a glorious day in the neighbor! Could it be? Could it be? :-) Too exciting for words! Love you guys!
Martha
Cupertino, CA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:16 PM CST
Rikki and Stefan, YAHOOOOO!
Dick and Jen <spress@earthlink.net>
- Friday, January 12, 2007 4:16 PM CST
I am so thrilled that 'we' will finally get to hold 'our' long-awaited baby! Give her lots of hugs and kisses for me. You go Rikki! You are a total champ. A million thanks to everyone on the birth team - truly a global community cheering this baby on. When are you bringing her out to Seattle??
Jen & Mark <jpageler@amgen.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:15 PM CST
this is a trip ! love the nudie in the tub ! kisses to you my friend !
michelle
michelle clair <mimicw@hotmail.com>
seattle, wa - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:57 PM CST
what wonderful news!!! can't wait to get the next update. we're thinking about you and praying for you!
xoxoxoxo--tim, mo , madeline jacob & ben
maureen moxley <momoxley@aol.com>
longwood, fl usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:52 PM CST
Dearest Rikki, lieber Stefan,
This is so EXCITING... I can hardly take my eyes off the computer... I'm hoping and praying that everything goes smoothly AND QUICKLY! Soon you'll be able to hold your little bundle of joy in your arms... can you believe it????
Love you tons and wish you all the very best my dear!
Helen & family
Helen Orsinger <helenorsinger@hotmail.com>
Villanova, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:52 PM CST
YIPPPEEE!!! I can't wait for little baby Boehmer to come! You will be the best mama ever! Lots of love sweetheart! Missing you always and The whole Calkins' Clan wishes you the very best! Krissi =) p.s. Baby Thomas will be here in July! =)
Krissi Thomas <kthomas@ciaofornow.com>
Seattle, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:42 PM CST
I am so excited for you and Stefan and the whole family. She will be such a wonderful blessing to everyone. I love you both so much. Jesus loves you! I am praying also.
Thank God for this website it is like being with you.
Love,
Peggy
Peggy Lux <peggylux1@verizon.net>
Kirkland, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:29 PM CST
Congratulations and much joy to you both!
Suzie <CincoSuzie@yahoo.com>
Maple Glen, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:19 PM CST
WOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! I'm praying!!! xoxoxoxo
Christine B
Renton, wa usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:15 PM CST
Rikki and Stefan,
I am so impressed with you and your family! Your faith and joy about life is an inspiration to me! I wish for nothing but happiness for your future.
My guess for the baby weight is 8.12.... we'll find out soon enough :)
~J.
Jane Cruice <jfcruice@yahoo.com>
Philadelphia, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:06 PM CST
OH HAPPY DAY!!!!! We are so privileged for you to include us in this most eventful and blessed day in your lives, Rikki and Stefan! Please forgive us for not communicating to you during these nine months of our continued prayers for you! We have been holding you up to The Father and today is the culmination of our prayers! We are so there with you in our spirits, our hearts and our prayers! We will be checking hourly. May you sense us there with you rooting you on.....more importantly.....may you sense our Precious Lord holding you close as you welcome your long awaited priceless treasure into this world and into your hungry arms. Oh how He loves you!!!!! And so do we!
Diane and Ken Ramey <dianeramey@comcast.net>
Bothell, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 3:04 PM CST
By sharing with us your active labor we can all pray for you and the baby's safe arrival!! Thank you! I will be checking the website all afternoon (CA time). God Bless!!
Laura Hernandez <lbhernand@yahoo.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:59 PM CST
Rikki takes a record for one of the most amazing moms i have ever seen- in body and in spirit.
I can't wait to meet this baby!
She is so lucky to have such a wonderful family!
Kate Fawley, CPM <hmebrth@aol.com>
Chester Springs , Pa 19425 - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:57 PM CST
Go Rikki! GO Rikki! I am sitting here in San Jose waiting with baited breath to read each new update...I will be crying with joy along with the rest once this blessed baby makes her appearance. You're almost there, Mama!
Becky Carlsen
San Jose, CA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:44 PM CST
Hi Rikki,
So excited to hear that the baby is on the ways. Can't wait to see the first photos. Huge hugs, Barbara
Barabara Kip <barbarakip@msn.com>
Rosemont, PA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:40 PM CST
Erica & Stefan:
I'm so excited for you! Thanks so much for including me on your cool website - I love the photos of you jumping up & down! Your energy is contagious! I'll pray for an awesome delivery & speedy recovery. Love ya!
Nancy Erickson <NancyE@VitalFlame.com>
Redmond, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:37 PM CST
Your all in my thoughts! Oh Happy day.....A baby is on it's way!!!!!
Megan Walters <meganwalters2001@yahoo.com>
Seattle, Wa - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:34 PM CST
We are with you as your love and faithfulness deliver your long awaited angel into your arms!! We are toooo excited for you!!
Love, Tina, Chloe and Christian
Tina Schermer Sellers <tsellers@spu.edu>
Seattle, WA King - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:31 PM CST
Yahoo! Way to go! I can't think of a better birthing team.
Lots of Love and Thoughts
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
B'Ham, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:04 PM CST
Ah the power of a visit from Grandma!! Can't wait, Love Gma Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 1:41 PM CST
Go Rikki Go!! Good Luck! Don't worry Stefan, I won't spend to much money while you're out.
Donna Lipp
- Friday, January 12, 2007 12:18 AM CST
This is so exciting! I am so so so happy for all of you. I can feel the excitement, the love, the joy, the anticipation all the way over here in icy/snowy Seattle. I can't wait to see pictures of the most anticipated baby in the whole wide world. I've been checking the web site every day so I can "be there" with you all. Good luck with the birth and welcome to the baby girl!
Liz Steppe <steppes@juno.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 11:55 AM CST
What a great day to have a baby! The sun just came out and the sky is blue, and the heavens are smiling as this baby is preparing to be born. RIGHT ON! BA-BY, BA-BY, I will be checking on you in a couple of hours...Happy Birthday!
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 11:55 AM CST
God's timing is amazing. A year ago we were in San Jose at grandpa Hillis's memorial service. And here we are now waiting in anticipation of a new life to enter into this world. May she be a constant reminder to those around her of God's steadfast love. I pray this birth is peaceful and relaxed. I pray that, as she lets out her first cry the heavens erupt in a triumphant cheer. I love you all my chosen family. I can't wait to see her!!!
Nani Lium <nanilium@comcast.net>
Bothell, Wa USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 11:08 AM CST
Now this is the morning update I have waiting for! What a great pleasure to log on this morning and see some action happening out in PA. Good luck everyone and enjoy this special time.
Vicky Doyle
Seattle, WA - Friday, January 12, 2007 10:51 AM CST
Hello Rikki and Stefan,
as I now saw Rikkis picture on your page cleaning the floor, I recognized Karins activities soon before Yanniks and Tizianas birth. Seems it´s like a primary instinct: Cleaning and preparing the nest for the little baby which comes soon...
Gerald <mussdasdennwirklichseindasmitderemailadresse@gmx.de>
Fuerth, - Friday, January 12, 2007 2:23 AM CST
Every morning as soon as we rise, we check to see if today's the blessed day that Baby B will arrive in this world. Every night before we close our eyes, we say a special prayer that Baby B will arrive soon and that Mama Rikki endures very little discomfort. We love you ALL and are thinking of you. Godspeed Baby B!
Dave & Dana Nelson <thenelsons101@msn.com>
Auburn, WA USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 1:22 AM CST
Here I am in Bellingham, with three kids that can't go to school because school has been cancelled due to 6 inches of snow and ice since wednesday. You are waiting for one kid to arrive and I am waiting for three kids to get back to school.
Here is hoping that time and the weather are on our side.
We are checking every couple hours now and look forward to any active labor.
Lots of Love to Stefan, Rikki, Gpa Jack, Meggie, Melissa, Kate, anyone who helps baby Boehmer come out.
Love
The Bennetts
Bennett Family <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:42 PM CST
We are checking updates about 3 times a day! Just returned from Florida and hoping this baby arrives soon! We were way off on the date - that's okay - she will arrive when she is ready! Can't wait to hear when the real Labor starts! We Love You!
Susie & John Smith
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:38 PM CST
Stefan, my wizard finance friend...did you forget to audit the calculation of the due date (or don't they teach that calculation in school;-) Rikki, I heard that hula dancing helps the baby come but you have to wear the grass skirt. Sending lot's of love your way.
Amy <amy_rademaker@msn.com>
Kirkland, W - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:35 PM CST
Oh ma gah!! Trampoline too, you're trying everything Rikki, good for you. Won't be long and it'll seem like you had NO wait at all after she's here a few days. Love, Sue
Sue Bull <susanb@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 2:10 PM CST
Chocolate chip cookies, chocolate brownies...they do the trick, really.
Cinda Marturano <cmarturano@comcast.net>
In Malvern today, PA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:45 AM CST
Rikki & Stephan,
Congratulations on another day closer. We've been checking on your progress every day and sometimes more than that! It won't be long now.
Andrew & Tessa
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:28 AM CST
Hi Rikki,
I love the pictures ! you are fit as a fiddle and Baby B has a lot of fun in mama's belly so I can see why B B isn't hurry to come.
Love Barbara
PS I will keep my fingers crossed for the delivery !
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:13 AM CST
I think you guys are going about this all wrong.... your little baby is having so much fun galavanting around, jumping, frisbeeing, and all that other stuff, it must be like an amusement park ride for her! Why would she ever want to leave!? I think about you every day and wonder if Melissa will ever come home! I wish you the best and hope you enjoy EVERY MINUTE of your pregnancy!
Sarah Simon
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 1:50 AM CST
Such cute entries, thanks for updates. checking almost hourly, all our hearts are there with you, waiting. Love, Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 0:08 AM CST
Love the photos. Rikki you are wonder woman!
Much Love and enjoy your sleep before baby beautiful arrives.
Shelley, Jack, Kids and Doggies
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
BHAM, WA USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 11:42 PM CST
Rik and Stefan, you are awesome, and how lucky this child is to have you both and your fabulous families to surround her. Can't wait, can't wait, but obviously the baby can! Staying tuned...Ali and Eric
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, WA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 8:44 PM CST
We're so excited for you, and are anxiously awaiting the good news that Baby B has arrived! Macy sends her love and prayers, too!
Brian & Janet Rockafield <janetrockafield@yahoo.com>
Snohomish, WA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 7:33 PM CST
OK, baby, time to come out and play. Mommy needs a new playmate. :-) Way to go, Rikki!
Martha M. and David H. Bills
Cupertino, CA USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 7:25 PM CST
Rikki, you are the most beautiful Mama I have ever seen in my life! I love the new pics!!
Laurra Mosillo <JoeLar@beld.net>
Braintree, MA USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 6:08 PM CST
Loved Grandpa Jack's entry. Now I see where Rikki get's her writing abilities. Things are moving along here, too. The movers came yesterday, and Justyn and I headed for the hotel in Radnor where they are doing construction. Still, significantly more quiet than packers. They started loading the van today. We should be completely out by Thursday at the latest. Will baby B. beat us??? Praying for you guys (though with limited internet access for updates now)!
Theresa Peterhans
Penn Valley, PA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 4:27 PM CST
Hey Rikki, my Mom always said that driving the car over railroad tracks is what got us moving. Thanks for keeping us all up to date. Stefen, GET SOME SLEEP!. Our best to you all, Rick
Rick Laboda <rklaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 12:27 AM CST
DEAR Rikki and Stefan,
Just a note to let you know that I am standing by with love and prayer,
"Grandma Diane"
Diane Morris <dianemorris@oci.org>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 11:29 AM CST
Dear Stefan und Rikki,
all the best for 2007 ! and all the best for the big event -my thoughts are with you. Since the weekend I thought always if I now look into your webpage I will see Baby Boehmer but its again an exciting time. Thanks for your
seasons greetings and thanks to keep me always nformed.
Love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 1:41 AM CST
Rikki you are so strong, thinking about you....
Candy Rosenberg Populus <cpop17@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 8:19 PM CST
I'm having fun checking the website. Thanks for all the great pics! I was overdue with Chris by about 10 days, so I know how you guys feel. I'm sure she'll come soon! :)
Leslie Hampton <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 5:07 PM CST
You guys are amazing with your patience and activity level! Can't wait to hear the good news. Praying daily for you all.
Sarah Hubbell <sbhubbell@comcast.net>
Mont Clare, PA USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 3:15 PM CST
RIKKI AND STEFAN, TAKE CARE, PRAYING DAILY FOR YOU TWO AND YOUR BABY. IT WILL COME WHEN IT IS READY. GOD BLESS YOU FROM QUEEN SAMMAMISH.
LEE WOELKE
TONASKET, WA USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 12:32 AM CST
Rikki - You should have tried the frisbee! Go out today and toss it around - I tell you, it works...
Love from the Higgins group, Carol
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 11:43 AM CST
Good Morning! Checking in on progress... today will be the day, I can feel it :)
Love you guys,
Casey
Casey Murray <cmurray32@msn.com>
Seattle, WA - Monday, January 8, 2007 9:44 AM CST
Good Night, Sleep tight and hope your labor/delivery is soon.
Love
The Bennetts
Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bham, WA USA - Monday, January 8, 2007 0:07 AM CST
Scrubbing the floor on your hands and knees maybe????
Suzanne (Walters) Jones <skhuntjones@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 11:44 PM CST
Hi Gang,
Sounds like you are having fun waiting for the newest family member. If she only knew the celebration that was waiting for her (around the world) she might hurry it up a little:-)
Love ya,
Amy
Amy <amy_rademaker@msn.com>
Kirkland, WA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 11:26 PM CST
Hi Rikki and Stefan, I remember your pool in California, it was really fun and I remember the song we played, it was JUMP JUMP JUMP. Hope you have your baby soon. Love Ava.
Ava Bert <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 10:53 PM CST
DEAR Rik and Stephan,
I finally found out (thanks to Steve) what I was doing wrong in not being able to get to this site. I'm SO relieved to know that everything is okay and SO anxious to read the one that says, "She's Here! Mother and daughter doing fine!" THANK YOU FOR THE UPDATES And the photos!!
With Lots of love and prayer,
"Grandma Diane" ("Great Grandma?!")
Diane Morris <dianemorris@oci.org>
Colorado Springs, CO USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 3:15 PM CST
Hi everyone...Meg's friend Katlin from Omaha andPortland...just read your journal entry...and a note in GERMAN(I was a german minor in undergrad!) I do hope TODAY is the day...very exciting!
Love,
Katlin
Katlin Larimer <kplarimer@aol.com>
Omaha, NE USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 9:42 AM CST
Hallo Ihr Lieben,
wollten Euch auch noch a Happy New Year wünschen und uns recht herzlich für den Brief bedanken. Wir schauen schon jeden Tag ins Internet ob sich bei Euch was getan hat. Wir sind in Gedanken bei Euch und würden uns über die Nachricht dass Baby Boehmer endlich da ist sehr freuen. Liebe Grüße von Kerstin, Thomas und Dominik
Kerstin, Thomas und Dominik Cont <tcont@t-online.de>
Hausen, - Sunday, January 7, 2007 6:54 AM CST
Hi everyone! Amy and I are going to bed now and she won the game. Get used to no sleep! It wont happen again until, I don't even know when!! 2nd baby, two pushes and she's outta there!! Can't wait to hear the news about the new baby Boehmer!Love you all, Jen and Aim
Jen and Amy <jdjkdj@comcast.net>
- Sunday, January 7, 2007 3:47 AM CST
This sounds like the start of something big. Thanks for keeping us posted. Kisses all they way around. Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 3:41 AM CST
Dave and I are up tonight watching for more news of Baby Boehmer's arrival. Hopefully a nice warm bath will help Rikki relax. We love you all and are thinking of you!!
Dave & Dana Nelson <thenelsons101@msn.com>
Auburn, WA USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 2:41 AM CST
Yippeee! I'm so excited that you will get to see your baby daughter soon. She's almost here! Go Rikki! Go Team M&M! Can't wait to see a picture of her lovely little face. All our love, Jen & Mark
"Aunite" Jen <markjen126@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 2:22 AM CST
Jen and I are playing Canasta and thinking of you! We love you and can't wait for the news that the newest Boehmer has arrived.
Jen and Amy <amy_rademaker@msn.com>
Kirkland, Wa - Sunday, January 7, 2007 2:13 AM CST
Thank you Stefan for the updates. We really appreciate it.
Love
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
B'ham, Wa USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 2:09 AM CST
We are thinking of you and checking often now. I hope it will be soon. We love you all.
The Bennetts
Shelley Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 11:42 PM CST
Thanks for the updates!!Checking in every few hours, sure it'll be soon. Not much new from Seattle except the SEAHAWKS WON!!!! Gma Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 10:50 PM CST
Thanks so much for the updates, checking every few hours. Not much new in Seattle except SEAHAWKS JUST WON the WILD CARD!!!!!!!!!!! Love Gma Sue.
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 10:40 PM CST
Thanks so much for the updates, checking every few hours. Not much new in Seattle except SEAHAWKS JUST WON the WILD CARD!!!!!!!!!!! Love Gma Sue.
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 10:40 PM CST
Checking in regularly from Braintree. Enjoy your sleep ... won't be getting much of that soon! Love you!
Laurra Mosillo
Braintree, MA USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 6:58 PM CST
Just checking in to see if the baby came yet! We are thinking of you guys from Seattle!
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Shoreline, WA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 6:23 PM CST
Just checking in on the three of you. Will check again tomorrow to see if our girl has deciced to arrive. What a great way to start the New Year!
We love you,
Valerie & Larry
Valerie Smith
- Saturday, January 6, 2007 3:38 PM CST
I loved Monsoon Wedding. The music and visuals are amazing. We just watched "The Last Kiss". It was interesting.We are now watching "The Lady in the Lake". We will see how that goes. As I was going into labor with Susie, I was watching Broadcast News. Maybe that would help.
Love you all
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 0:57 AM CST
Yep, we are watching movies. We had a audio-visual free house until the New Year, but after the ever-exciting Liums left we were hard-pressed to entertain each other, so we wheeled out the TV. Little Miss Sunshine was a favorite - tonight we're watching Monsoon Wedding. Better go - it is starting!
Love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 8:20 PM CST
Are you all watching any movies? If yes which ones?
Love
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 8:05 PM CST
We are checking at least once a day for the update. I think baby Boehmer is just shy like Philip.He was 11 days late . I think we just provide such a warm cuddly environment they aren't sure they want to come out. But watch out because when she sees how much room she has on the outside she will want to stretch out. Hang in there. We are all waiting to meet this wonderful little girl
Theresa, Brad, Emily and Philip <leh-ander@msn.com>
Seattle, Wa USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 9:25 PM CST
Hallo Ihr beiden,
wir tippen auf den 6. Januar und wünschen für Rikki, daß die Süße nicht so schwer wird wie Tiziana, die bei der Geburt fast 3900m Gram wog, daher unser Tip dazu: 3200 Gramm :o).
Werdet nicht ungeduldig, sondern genießt die Nächte voll Schlaf - bald wird sich das ändern ;o)
Wir drücken die Daumen für eine schnelle & reibunglose Geburt.
Viele gute Gedanken schicken Euch
Karin und Gerald mit Yannik und Tiziana
Karin <karin.knopf@gmx.de>
Fürth, - Thursday, January 4, 2007 2:23 PM CST
Being told by my mom that your dad "looked like a 2 year old when he was born", I predicting Sunday !
Love you all !
Cousin Sarah
Sarah <smiles@kuntrynet.com>
LaGrange, IN USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 1:53 PM CST
Hi Rikki and Stephan! I remember when I was over-due with Shannon. Pat and I had played frisbee in the front yard every evening, and the night she was finally born Pat kept throwing the frisbee just a bit over my head! Maybe it was that reaching that finally did it? I have to now chime in with my predictions - a nine pound even girl who will be born in the early morning hours of Friday the 5th. So, get out there with the frisbee this afternoon... Love from all of us, Carol
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 11:58 AM CST
I'm going with a ten pound bowling ball of a baby girl :) And she'll arrive on Saturday January 6th. xoxo, stephanie gilbert
stephanie <stephanie.gilbert@gmail.com>
seattle, wa usa - Thursday, January 4, 2007 0:11 AM CST
Thank you for sharing. I'm so happy for the both of you. My guess on baby B, will be January 6th at 7lb 14 oz. I'm guessing at the weight because I was told I would have a 8 lb baby, and she was 7 lb. 14 oz.
Gina Geranen <ggeranen@comcast.net>
Sunnyvale, CA USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 11:14 PM CST
Well, it will be a 2007 baby after all! If you wait till January 8, then I will celebrate my birthday with her... Thanks for sharing with us.
Hans (and Alice) Wilhelm <hanswilhelm@mac.com>
Arnold, CA 95223 - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 10:35 PM CST
So is there a prize for guessing the correct birth weight and date of birth? If so can I get in on this! Just kidding! Jan. 2nd would have been nice, that is my nephews birthday and my dog Sadie's birthday. It still could happen! Rikki, for your sake, I hope it happens soon, and with little pain, and a quick recovery, and of course a healthy baby. Can't wait to meet her! Love, Jen
Jen Sayre-Johnson <jdjkdj@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, January 2, 2007 8:45 PM CST
Hello Rikki,
Wow I can't wait till I hear she arrives, Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Carmen Banuelos <cvbanuelos@yahoo.com>
San Jose, Ca USA - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 4:06 PM CST
Our best guess is....Thursday the 4th, in the evening. She will be fabulous, every ounce - every inch!
Loves and Happy New Year,
Ali and Eric Foliart
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 1:27 PM CST
Thinking of you all. Rikki, get a pail of soapy water and mop the kitchen floor, worked for me (be careful). Waiting to exhale, Love, Grandma Sue in Seattle
Sue Bull <susanb@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 10:46 AM CST
Happy New Year! I hope the baby comes soon.
Derek Hill
Goshen, KY USA - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 9:01 AM CST
We are going to bed here in Seattle and ready for school in the morning. Hope you are all actively working on getting that baby ready for her big entry into the world!!! We just can't wait.
The Liums <nanilium@comcast.net>
Bothell, WA - Monday, January 1, 2007 11:53 PM CST
Hey Sweet family - Happy New Years!!! Wish we were there to help add to the chaos and excitement. We are excitedly anticipating the arrival of the baby which will be Jan 3, 2007 and weigh in at 8lb and 7 ounces!! Our love and prayers to the mama and daddy. We love all you guys - Brian, Susan, and the crowd.
Brian Hillis <bhillis2@bellsouth.net>
Lilburn, GA USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 9:24 PM CST
Happy New Year to all of you there! We love you and missed you on new years eve. Can't wait for Baby B to make her appearance
Love
The Bennetts
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 9:15 PM CST
HAPPY NEW YEAR from the MURRAY's....LOVE the pictures of the family and your amazing self...We Love You!!! Anxiously awaiting the arrival of Baby Boehmer..Our guess: 8 pounds 6 1/2 ounces.. 19 1/2 inches long... born tomorrow 1/1/07!! JOHN,ANNIE,CASEY[Over here for New Years]and the dogs Magnum, Alki, and Gus-Gus!!!
The Murray's <johnannmurray@msn.com>
Seattle , WA U.S.A. - Sunday, December 31, 2006 9:07 PM CST
I heard Rikki had cravings for BBQ Ribs, I had 3 slabs delivered from Corky's BBQ (Memphis TN), I hope it curbed the cravings
Mark Dean <dizzydean6@msn.com>
- Sunday, December 31, 2006 1:04 PM CST
1) Baby Boehmer is feeling well. She doesn't hurry and she takes up time.
2) Of course, we are excitet, curious and a little bit nervous. But this is our problem! Baby Boehmer's problem is ---- read Number 1
My guess?
Baby Boehmer will come at January, 2nd early in the morning like sunrise and a singing bird. And we'll love sunrises and singing birds forever. And our Baby B., of course.
The weight? Bautiful 8 lbs 12 oz
The length? No matter, but every inch will be cuddly.
Many greetings to all our relatives and friends in Chester Springs. We love you. And we're waiting.
Love, Grandpa Gerhard
Gerhard Boehmer
Baiersdorf, Germany - Sunday, December 31, 2006 10:00 AM CST
Meine Ferndiagnose ist:
Baby Boehmer kommt am 1. Januar 2007, dann ist es immer ein Jahr juenger und hat immer Feiertag am Geburtstag.
Gewicht: 4025 Gramm, Groesse: 52 cm
Viele liebe Gruesse Oma Inge
Inge Boehmer
Baiersdorf, Germany - Sunday, December 31, 2006 5:45 AM CST
Okay, it is time for our guess! We are guessing January 1, 2007 - 12:39 a.m. and 8 pounds ~ 11 ounces! GO RIKKI! We love you all and Good Luck!
Love, The Smith Family!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Sunday, December 31, 2006 0:56 AM CST
Wishing you well from Rio, baby Boehmer! We will be thinking of you while we jump our seven waves, while wearing white with candles in hand. You are truly loved!
Jon and Kimberly <kimberlyswain@hotmail.com>
Rio, Brazil - Saturday, December 30, 2006 9:47 PM CST
Liebe Rikki, lieber Stefan!
Vielleicht kommt eure kleine Prinzessin ja auch erst am Hl.Dreikoenigtag (6.1). Auch der 9. Januar bietet sich als erprobter Geburtstermin an (=Merlin). Oder ihr fragt mal Babylein, was sie von 07.01.07 haelt? Viele liebe Gruesse von uns allen! Wir sind in Gedanken bei euch!!!!!
Karin Boehm <ka-boehm@web.de>
- Saturday, December 30, 2006 6:38 PM CST
Hi, we guess January,1st and almost 4 kg, 3950 g. We, too, are checking your updates several times a day and are thinking of you a lot! Ganz viele liebe Grüße!
Petra and Jürgen <pjkliemt@yahoo.de>
Baiersdorf, Germany - Saturday, December 30, 2006 1:12 PM CST
Happy Due-Date Day, Rikki! We're guessing 8 lbs 3 ounces and January 4th.
Laurra, Joe, Derek, and Sammy
- Saturday, December 30, 2006 12:35 AM CST
I'm guessing 10 lbs 3 oz, born January 3rd.
Rikki <erica.boehmer@gmx.de>
Chester Springs, PA - Saturday, December 30, 2006 11:44 AM CST
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
I was not at your baby shower, but I am guessing that this precious little girl is waiting to be the first born in "2007"! Hang in there Rikki ~ you will do great! We love you both and hope to see you sometime soon!!
Love and Prayers,
The Smith Family
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Friday, December 29, 2006 11:16 PM CST
Hi Rikki and Stefan.
Is there anyway we can do the baby shower game of guessing due date and baby weight over the caringbridge site? I am guessing the 2nd of Jan. and 8lbs. and 6oz. Anyone else care to guess?
Love
Shelley and Susie
Shelley and Susie Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Friday, December 29, 2006 10:59 PM CST
Just want you to know that you are on our minds and in our prayers! May these days be happy and bright for you and yours! Our best to you, with love,
Wilna Derr
- Friday, December 29, 2006 6:04 PM CST
Hi Rikki and Stefan, It's the eve of your due date. We're up in the Poconos anticipating your daughter's birth, checkin' your site. May Brodia be a sweet delivery. Best blessings and prayers for these days ahead. Love in JC, Cinda and family.
Cinda Marturano <cmarturano@comcast.net>
Lake Harmony, PA USA - Friday, December 29, 2006 4:31 PM CST
Yeah... a 12/29 baby - or a 12/30 baby (Maria B.) either way, she'll have excellent company. Capricorns are wonderful people! Our thoughts are with you! Love you tons.
Colleen & Family
Colleen Birch & Family <cgbirch@cox.net>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 10:42 PM CST
Good job on the long walk ! While I'm sure you're interested in getting the new one on the "outside", if she should linger a bit, she and I (Larry) can share a birthday - January 2. In any case, good luck and Happy New Year !
Larry & Kyle Brennan <larry.brennan@siemens.com>
Sammamish, WA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 8:05 AM CST
Hello Busy Boehmers! We're checking the webpage hourly ... the anticipation is so exciting. We can't wait to meet your precious daughter. You might just find us on your doorstep in a few days .... Love you lots!! The Mosillo Family
Laurra, Joe, Derek, and Sammy
Braintree, MA USA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 6:40 AM CST
Dear Stefan, I can't tell you how much we appreciate your updates. You, Rikki and Baby are on our minds daily now and your updates are so comforting. Thank You So Much! We love you dearly and your inclusive attitude towards this life changing time.
The Bennetts
The Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 10:45 PM CST
Sending my love to the entire Boehmer/Pageler family. How awesome that Naomi Ruth finally gets her baby sister!!! I can hardly wait! Love, Lisa
Lisa Waldvogel <hippiewarrior2004@yahoo.com>
Grosse Pointe Woods, MI USA - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 10:15 PM CST
I'm sitting on the edge of my chair... you too, I'm sure. I wish you all the best for an easy delivery and a beautiful baby. I'll be in Las Vegas Dec. 28-Jan. 4 with the Birch's so we'll all be anxiously awaiting the news.
Suzanne (Walters) Jones <skhuntjones@hotmail.com>
Seattle, Wa - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 1:11 PM CST
Hi Rikki and Stefan, and all the rest of the family out there! The Christmas photos are wonderful and make you feel so close to us all. We are eagerly awaiting news here in Seattle and sending all our positive thoughts your way. Love from the Higgins Family
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 9:18 AM CST
Merry Christmas! I cant wait untill we get to see you again and meet your new baby. We miss you and have been praying for you. Tell Stefan to come down soon so we can play him in Ping Pong!
Trevor Hillis <bhillis2@bellsouth.net>
Lilburn, GA USA - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:55 AM CST
Merry Merry Merry Christmas and a joyful new year.
We love you and look forward to baby boehmer.
Shelley, Jack, Kids and Dogs
The Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 8:30 PM CST
Rikki and Stefan,
We just got your Christmas greeting in the mail! SO GOOD to hear from you and that God is blessing you with a little girl in just a few short days! We are THRILLED for you both and will be watching the site for the progress and announcement!! We have just come off an eight + day power failure here in Woodinville, WA - and trying to get back to normal. God Bless you with an easy birth as you welcome Baby B into the world!! Love you both!!
Omar and Sandy Rivas <sandy@sandomar.com>
Woodinville, WA USA - Saturday, December 23, 2006 3:43 PM CST
Rikki and Stefan,
We're looking forward to meeting your new baby girl. Rikki, you looked fabo!
Tina, Craig and Ian Rothe
- Saturday, December 23, 2006 12:31 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan: We just checked in to make sure that we hadn't missed anything. We're excited to meet your daughter. Enjoy all your company. Merry Christmas. Margaret & Charlie
Margaret Day <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 6:32 PM CST
Rikki, you look great. So fun to think of the house full you'll have over Christmas. Hope you all have a great time. I am excited for baby news! She looks so cute in the ultrasound. Merry Christmas!
Leslie Hampton <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 4:39 PM CST
Rikki & Stefan,
The time is growing closer for Baby B. to arrive - HOW EXCITING! Sounds like everything is going smoothly and on schedule. Just wanted to wish all of you A Blessed Holiday Season!
Love, The Smith Family
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Thursday, December 21, 2006 2:42 PM CST
anytime now anytime! You look great and can even see Stefan smiling behind the camera! We are praying and waiting on the Lord to deliver!!
we check the website almost daily!!
love you guys
paula and joe osorio
Paula Osorio <poejoeeao@aol.com>
- Monday, December 18, 2006 7:33 PM CST
Beautiful pictures of Rikki on 12-10-06.
We look forward to seeing pictures of baby Boehmer by month end or early Jan.
God Bless you all.
Lee and Mike Woelke
Tonasket, WA USA - Sunday, December 17, 2006 4:40 PM CST
Hi Rikki, Stefan, I really miss you! How is Jack_olyn?? [ _ is for baby jack] Or did you change the name? Our power is out, so we are at Meggies. The baby is cute! I wish you a merry x-mas!!
Riley L.
Riley L. <swimmerriley@hotmail.com>
Bothell, WA usa - Saturday, December 16, 2006 0:56 AM CST
Hi rikki its the lium girls we miss you so much. Right now the power is out and we are sleaping at meggies house.I miss you and wanted to say merry christmas to you steafin and the baby.xoxoxoxoxo
chloe lium <tinyswimmer@hotmail.com>
bothell, wa usa - Saturday, December 16, 2006 0:41 AM CST
Stefan, you are so cute!! I love your posts. Rik, I think you are such a stunning mommy! Can't wait to see you in 12 days! I love the new and wonderful news!
Melissa <MMand4Es@msn.com>
Morgan Hill, CA - Friday, December 15, 2006 7:40 AM CST
Stefan and Rikki, We love the updates and will check everyday now for the news of her arrival. I know it is a wait, but we love the waiting for good news like this. Sounds like a wonderful day. Love Shelley
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Thursday, December 14, 2006 9:38 PM CST
Rikki - I didn't even know! I am so happy for you. God is good. I can't wait to hear the news. We will all be praying for you...Love, Milei
Milei M. yardley <mileiyard@yahoo.com>
Newport Beach, CA USA - Thursday, December 14, 2006 0:28 AM CST
What a beautiful baby! Can't wait to meet you in person and hold you in my arms and love all over you!
R&S, I'll see you in just 12 days!
Love, Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 0:14 AM CST
Hi Riki and Stefan - talked with Margaret yesterday and learned that all is well and you are preparing to be joined by the family for Christmas. What a wonderful way to celebrate the last couple of weeks before BB's birth! Our love and thoughts are with you all. Do take care and don't overdo. Love, the Higgins Family, including our furries (Bear, Willow, Ming, Daizy and Rajah)
Carol Higgins
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, December 4, 2006 5:13 PM CST
What a beauty. Hope all is well and we look forward to hearing of her arrival.
Love
Shelley
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 26, 2006 10:29 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving to all the Boehmers: Rikki, Stefan, Jesse, Bagheera, Naomi and her sister on the way. Just a month and a day until we get to see each other again at Christmas. Can't wait! Hope you have a wonderful holiday today and I hope your little bundle of joy turns herself around in time for a healthy, happy delivery. I love you guys, Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle (actually Silverdale today), WA United States - Thursday, November 23, 2006 11:24 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan, I have only had the pleasure of knowing to two of you a short while and it has been my pleasure. I wish for the both of you and you'll little new addtion soon to arrive all the happines and love in the world. You guys will make a great Mom and Dad. I can't wait for the arrival. Thanks for sharing your photo's with me.
Kelly Gambale <kelly.gambale@siemens.com>
Drexel Hill, PA USA - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 9:07 AM CST
wow again -- big milestone 34 weeks-- anyday now!! we are praying and waiting -- for all good things come in time-- Ever so thankful for the grace, mercy and gifts from Our Father above.
we are checking the website more and more now!
Happy Thanksgiving
Joe and Paula Osorio
Paula Osorio <poejoeeao@aol.com>
- Tuesday, November 21, 2006 10:57 AM CST
Hallo Ihr Lieben,
nun hast Du nur noch wenige Wochen vor Dir und es freut uns sehr Euch so glücklich und erholt zu sehen. Ich hoffe Du hast weiter keine Beschwerden und das die Geburt gut verläuft. Wir sind bei Euch. Alles Liebe
Kerstin, Thomas und Dominik Cont <tcont@t-online.de>
Hausen, D - Wednesday, November 15, 2006 6:03 AM CST
Rikki, You look great and what a PRETTY MOMMY! We are so excited for all of you! Love and Prayers!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Monday, November 13, 2006 8:53 PM CST
Hello from the four Kliemts, thanks for the newest pictures, nice to see that everything is fine! Just a few more weeks to go, we think of you and wish you all the best.
Love, Petra and her three men
Petra
Baiersdorf, Germany - Sunday, November 12, 2006 4:17 PM CST
Rik, could you get any more gorgeous? I am so looking forward to seeing you and Stefan and the baby hopefully soon. Baby B's due date is on my calendars...and you guys are in my thoughts. Take care, love you. Ali
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
- Friday, November 3, 2006 11:02 AM CST
So glad to see all is well, you both look great (and the Lium's too!). Thinking
of you over Naomi's second birthday and looking forward to the arrival of her sister. All our love, Steve and Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, October 26, 2006 11:30 PM CDT
What a beautiful Mama!!!
Derek Joseph
Braintree, MA - Wednesday, October 25, 2006 6:19 PM CDT
I love the pictures! thanks!
Leslie <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 7:00 PM CDT
Sitting here in colorful Colorado with Meggie and she said we just had to sign your guestbook. Well, here we are sending all our love and believing in the near future and that new baby girl!!
We love you guys, all three of you.
Mary, Tom and Meg
Mary, Tom and Meg <PagelerTM@msn.com>
Denver, co - Tuesday, October 10, 2006 9:03 PM CDT
Love the updates and am glad all is well.Good job and take it easy.
Much Love
Shelley
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Friday, October 6, 2006 0:28 AM CDT
Happy birthday to Naomi! She'll always be one of the children in our family. All my love, Leslie
Leslie Hampton <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, September 11, 2006 2:31 PM CDT
Happy birthday Naomi Ruth. We have been thinking of you and your family today and know that you are watching over them all. We have been so excited to read all about your sisters development and are so happy that all is well.Rikki and Stefan know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Theresa, Brad, Emily and Philip <leh-ander@msn.com>
Seattle, wa USA - Sunday, September 10, 2006 9:22 PM CDT
Rikki & Stefan:
You have been in our thoughts and prayers today. Precious Naomi Ruth has touched so many lives and though her minutes on earth were short the impact of her life has been eternal.
We are so proud of you and love you both!
Uncle Steve and Aunt Nancy
Steve and Nancy Hillis
Lexington, KY - Sunday, September 10, 2006 9:16 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Naomi Ruth! Though we never met, you are in our thoughts and love always.
Love
The Bennetts
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Sunday, September 10, 2006 6:46 PM CDT
Hello, thinking of you & your family with Naomi in our hearts. Ann
Ann Wolfe <annwolfe@earthlink.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, September 10, 2006 12:51 AM CDT
Can't believe two years already, and Naomi will always be in my thoughts, as well as her mom and dad.
Miss you guys, love, Jen
Jen Johnson <jdjkdj@comcast.net>
Kirkland, WA USA - Saturday, September 9, 2006 10:35 PM CDT
Thinking about you both today. And so glad to read via Jesse that all is well with Naomi's little sister. We love all four of you (oh, dear, sorry, Jesse, I guess I was leaving you out - make that five or six or seven, depending on how many cats live with you.)
Love, Aunt Nancy
Nancy Lundsgaard <nancylunds@netscape.net>
Seattle, WA - Saturday, September 9, 2006 11:21 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
Sunday is Naomi's second birthday. Diane's little Casey turned 2 a couple of weeks ago. She is amazing: wicked smart, funny, inventive, problem-solving, loving, giggly, stubborn at times, and so very sweet. Every so often while playing with Casey, and marveling at her wonderfulness, my heart goes pang thinking about how you, and all of us, too, were robbed of these times with little Naomi. On her second birthday I hope you know that she will always be such a special and beloved part of our lives. Now that we are so excited and filled with joy about the arrival (soon!) of Naomi's little sister, never fear that Naomi's place in our hearts will remain precious to us forever.
I love you so very much, my dear baby sister and your fanTAStic husband, too. =)
Love, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, September 7, 2006 10:26 PM CDT
WOW and PRAISE THE LORD! GOD is good and faithful to His Servants--we serve an Awesome God! Have been thinking and praying for you all lately--so glad the dog and cat keep us updated! Rest, Eat, Pray ---and we will wait upon the Mighty Hand of Jesus ....We are so Excited for everyone. Know that we are there in prayer
love you
Paula and Joe
Paula Osorio <poejoeeao@aol.com>
- Friday, September 1, 2006 10:38 AM CDT
YAHOOOOO!!! I am so excited to hear the good news! Colleen emailed me the other day and told me! I was so happy for you I almost broke down in tears at work! This is the best thing EVER! I cannot wait to meet little Baby B and welcome her into this world! You two are survivors - rocks - inspirational soldiers! I love you guys and my prayers are with you ALWAYS! Hugs and Kisses! =)
Krissi Thomas <kthomas@ciaofornow.com>
Seattle, WA - Friday, August 25, 2006 9:27 AM CDT
Hallo Ihr Lieben,
ich wollte Euch nur sagen wie glücklich auch wir darüber sind, dass Euer Baby ganz gesund ist. Anfangs konnte ich mit den englischen Fachbegriffen ja nichts anfangen, aber mittlerweile verstehe selbst ich das es allen gut geht und ihr ein Silvesterbaby erwartet. Wir freuen uns riesig mit Euch. Herzliche Grüße von Kerstin, Thomas und Dominik
Familie Cont <tcont@t-online.de>
Hausen, D - Tuesday, August 15, 2006 6:01 AM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan, I have to admit that I was in tears when I read the last 2 updates! (We have been out of town). We are so happy for you and can't wait to hear more good news! God has blessed you with another beautiful daughter and Naomi is and will always look over her! Congratulations Mommy & Daddy and blessings to you all! Love YA!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Saturday, August 12, 2006 10:38 PM CDT
Hi Rikki, hallo Stefan,
wir freuen uns zu hören das alles bestens läuft. Alles Gute weiterhin! Hoffentlich klappt es, das wir uns nächste Jahr mal alle treffen... wir können es kaum erwarten :-)))
Gerald
Gerald
Fuerth, D Frankonia - Friday, August 11, 2006 3:16 AM CDT
BEAUTIFUL NEWS!! She is simply lovely. We send our love to you all.
Kyrsten, Rick, Kate & Anna <rklaboda@comcast.net>
- Friday, August 11, 2006 1:13 AM CDT
Sugar and spice and everything nice! How precious! Congratulations! You guys are going to be wonderful parents. We can't wait to meet her. :-) Love you both (and Jesse and Bagheera too)
Love -- Laurra, Joe, Derek, and Sammy
- Thursday, August 10, 2006 6:49 PM CDT
Dear sweet Rikki and Stefan,
I am ashamed to admit this is my first time to your site. An hour ago, I clicked the link in Meggie's email and quickly found myself devouring every word written since Journal Entry 1. In this hour I have wept unhindered, marveled at your perseverence through the ups and downs of these past years, and greatly appreciated your stark honesty. Thank you for reminding me that God is all we need. (I have indeed let the drain-pipe clog lately!) I truly am sorry for the loss of your first-born Naomi, and I am enthralled to hear that she has a baby sister! Naomi Ruth's life has already impacted so many, and now she has a little sis to impact and instruct as well. Therefore I pray a blessing on the newest Boehmer: that she may learn well the lessons Naomi's life and death teaches and that she may embrace the same Father who held little Naomi so close to Him through her brief time on earth. With love and congratulations, Amy (for Jason, too)
Amy Zazzi
Westlake Village, CA USA - Thursday, August 10, 2006 4:44 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan,
Wonderful news! Give her a hug and a pat for us as she continues to bloom and grow. Enjoy!
Much love,
Debbie and Sean
Debbie and Sean <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, August 10, 2006 4:26 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
What WONDERFUL news today! Can't wait to meet Naomi's little sister in just 20 weeks. Goodness knows she's got a lot of pink hand-me-downs already. =) So very very happy for you both, and so hope some of the worry has been dispelled with her healthy 20 week ultrasound.
All my love, Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, August 10, 2006 1:28 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan, I am so very happy for you. No one deserves this more than the two of you. I'm Meggie's friend from "Lawyer Camp." I hope to meet both of you and your beautiful new daughter some day. Take care.
Cindy Smith <cks@montanalaw.com>
Misoula, MT USA - Thursday, August 10, 2006 12:39 AM CDT
We are so happy for you!! We look forward to seeing you soon.
Holly and Dave <hollygannett@aol.com>
Downingtown, PA USA - Monday, July 31, 2006 4:37 PM CDT
Rikki, I am so excited for you and your family about this pregnancy. I have been practically holding my breath and also sending you my prayers since your first post about the success of the IVF. It sounds like this has been a wonderfully "uneventful" pregnancy so far and I hope it continues that way.
My husband and I are expecting our first baby in about 3 weeks, a girl scheduled to arrive around August 19th. She has been a very good baby in the womb, pretty much a textbook pregnancy, and I hope she is as good once she is out in this world. We are very excited and happy and scared all at the same time. Us, parents? Wow, what a concept!
Take good care of yourself and rest, rest rest. I think floating in the pool sounds like good medicine! Hopefully we'll be swapping baby pictures soon!
Liz Steppe <steppes@juno.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, July 26, 2006 1:08 PM CDT
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Vivian May <vivianmay@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, July 17, 2006 8:37 PM CDT
It's so fun to follow along with you, thanks for your communication! I felt the same way with the second pregnancy, you realize that being pregnant isn't the real prize, it's holding the baby! I'm glad to hear you're feeling better!
Leslie Hampton <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, June 29, 2006 4:14 PM CDT
So glad to hear all is going well. Look forward to seeing you soon.
Love
Shelley
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bham, Wa usa - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 0:37 AM CDT
Rikki, Stefan and BB ~ Fantastic News! We are all so "HAPPY" for all of you! We are sure Stefan will take the "Best Of Care" of you Rikki. Will check in again soon! Love to All!
The Smith Family
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Sunday, June 25, 2006 6:50 PM CDT
Hi Rikki, Stefan, BB, and family furries! Glad to see the good news yesterday and hope all continues well. Take care of yourselves and know you are loved! Not a day goes by that you are not thought of and sent good wished and vibes. Peace and love, the Higgins Family
Carol Higgins <chiggins@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, June 23, 2006 2:59 PM CDT
we missed you both at fotog but we were all wishing you the best and everyone was very excited for you. I would like to put in my reservation now to hold baby Boehmer next fotog I know there will be quite a line this baby is already very loved. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Theresa, Brad, Emily and Philip <leh-ander@msn.com>
Seattle, wa USA - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 10:15 PM CDT
Hi Rikki,Hi Stefan, How are you feeling? We have been thinking about you. How is Jesse girl? How is Bagira? We miss you and look forward to seeing you when we can.
Love
The Bennetts
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 1:21 AM CDT
Congratulations!
Gladys Wu <gladys.wu@yahoo.com>
Beijing, - Saturday, June 3, 2006 11:12 PM CDT
So Happy for You! We love being able to receive the updates! Well, we are off to Evansville and then California! Will check for updates next week! Love You All!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN Johnson - Friday, June 2, 2006 4:55 PM CDT
hooray! hurrah! Congratulations! Just love the pictures...can't wait to see more...Love, Ali
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, June 1, 2006 4:55 PM CDT
Hi guys, Just wanted to say I'm so happy for you both, and certainly have been thinking of you. We missed you at FOTOG, and hope you'll make it back to Seattle for a visit at some point. I'll be following the progress eagerly!! Love, Leslie
Leslie Hampton <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, May 31, 2006 6:05 PM CDT
So exciting and wonderful. I am sure it is fun to be in Boston but we missed you tons at FOTOG. Your stories and names were constantly around us, but we missed you all the same. I haven't seen you since the San Jose trip in 04. Yikes that is way to long. We send love.
Shelley, Jack and Kids
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Monday, May 29, 2006 8:09 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
Which wonderfully news ! Again an exciting time. All the best for you three. I wish you a very very nice time awaiting a new arrival. You are in my mind.
Love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Monday, May 29, 2006 2:01 AM CDT
Liebe Rikki,lieber Stefan, wir freuen uns rießig mit Euch, daß Ihr wieder Nachwuchs erwartet. Genießt die Schwangerschaft in vollen Zügen und freut Euch auf Euer Christkind. Wir wünschen Euch eine wunderschöne Zeit und viel viel Glück.In Gedanken sind wir bei Euch.
Alles Liebe Sandra, Holger und Nico
Sandra und Holger Roth mit Nico <Sandra.Roth1@gmx.net>
Baiersdorf, Deutschland - Saturday, May 13, 2006 3:00 PM CDT
Liebe Ricky und lieber Stefan, wir freuen uns sehr für Euch!!! Alles Gute, eine schöne Schwangerschaftszeit und hoffentlich sehen wir uns noch einmal bevor Euere kleines Christkind zur Welt kommt!
Alles Liebe von Karin & Gerald mit Yannik & Tiziana
Karin <leviatha@gmx.de>
Fürth, Germany - Friday, May 12, 2006 3:09 PM CDT
What a wonderful thing to see your baby. Thank you for describing what is happening so that we can share in the joy.
Looks like you will have a Christmas baby after all :-))
Sylvia Matthes
Wayne, PA USA - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 9:11 PM CDT
YIPEE!!! Much love and happiness to you from Seattle!!! You are in our thoughts and prayers daily. I remember thinking when you were pregnant with Naomi Ruth "how could Rikki look any more beautiful???", now we begin the journey again. The Bert family is so happy for you!
Laurie, Aaron, Ava Thomas Bert
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, May 8, 2006 10:11 AM CDT
Hello dear family Boehmer, I was so happy this morning hearing the news from my colleague in the lab that you Erica are pregnant. I wish you all the best!!! Thank you for you letter. I will keep it to remember you.
Heidi
Heidrun Koebernick <heidrun.koebernick@tiscali.de>
Erlangen, - Monday, May 8, 2006 3:49 AM CDT
Rikki & Stefan,
GREAT NEWS and CONGRATULATIONS! We are so happy for you! If you are ever close to Indy, Please Stop By!
Love to you all!
Susie, John, Nick & Justin
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN 46184 - Sunday, May 7, 2006 7:25 PM CDT
Yipppeeee! Now I know why you've been on my heart so much the last few weeks! I love it when God calls us to pray and celebrate and love even when we don't know the reasons -- may He continue to touch you in amazing ways as we all wait in eager anticipation to meet this little one!
Malia Ansberry
- Sunday, May 7, 2006 4:06 PM CDT
Rikki and Stephan, Steve and I are so excited for you both. We're holding our breath hoping all goes well and knowing, deep down, that all things come to good for those who believe. Love, Love, Love, Sue
Sue Bull <smallbull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, May 7, 2006 3:12 PM CDT
Dearest Rikki and Stefan:
Meg emailed me to give me the good news. I am so happy for you both. Cheers to a wonderful experience. There is nothing like it - as you are so very well aware.
I will be thinking of you - all three of you. Take good care of each other. And, although I know I don't have to say it, don't ever forget your experiences together. You have journeyed through so much together thus far. It's only just beginning....
Much love - Ulla Blichfeldt Fox [Vashon Island, WA]
Love - Ulla
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox <blichfeldtfox@msn.com>
Vashon Island, WA USA - Sunday, May 7, 2006 0:00 AM CDT
Rikki and Stefan, We are so excited for you!!! This is so exciting and we look forward to hearing how everything is going. We will miss you at fotog but look forward to seeing all of you next year.
Theresa, Brad, Emily and Philip <leh-ander@msn.com>
Seattle, Wa USA - Saturday, May 6, 2006 11:24 PM CDT
The Birch family is so thrilled for you! What wonderful news. Can't wait to follow you through this journey. We love you.
Colleen Birch & Family <cgbirch@cox.net>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, May 6, 2006 10:10 PM CDT
Yay! Congratulations Rikki and Stefan! What happy news.
Love you!
Debbie Bull
Seattle, WA - Saturday, May 6, 2006 7:36 PM CDT
Congratulations!
We of course will miss you at FOTOG, but this is certainly a WONDERFUL reason. What great news!
Debbie, Sean and all <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, May 6, 2006 3:36 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan - We rejoice with you and look forward to the good things that our heavenly father has in store for your family. May God be gracious in His protection of this little life.
Brian Hillis
Lilburn, Ga USA - Saturday, May 6, 2006 1:46 PM CDT
Congratulations! I am absolutely thrilled for you! Another great journey begins--we are all rooting for you. With love, Robbie ( and Charlie and Dylan, too)
Robbie Sherman <Robbie,Sherman@Polyclinic.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, May 6, 2006 12:04 AM CDT
We are all so excited for you both! congratulations. take care of yourself and enjoy all that lays ahead!
scott, kris, kevin, anna, sam and sarah belle selig
Kris Selig <yardkid1@aol.com>
Durham, NC USA - Saturday, May 6, 2006 7:44 AM CDT
Wow! A New Year's Eve baby. How fabulous! Congratulations. Can't wait to see you and feed you lots of yummy food to fatten you up! :-) Love you lots!
Laurra, Joe, Derek, and Sammy Mosillo <JoeLar@beld.net>
- Saturday, May 6, 2006 7:27 AM CDT
No wonder you won't be joining us at Fotog!! Hurrah for the outstanding news. Can hardly wait for the updates.
Kay Abramson
- Friday, May 5, 2006 11:46 PM CDT
YYYIIIIPPPPEEEE!!! Happiest of thoughts sent your way. From all of us,
Rick, Kyrsten, Kate, & Anna
Looking forward to the next round of Cannonballs!! Maybe we can all splash this time!
Kyrsten Laboda
Seattle, WA - Friday, May 5, 2006 10:35 PM CDT
Congratulations. You both deserve this happiness and joy. We are thrilled to see that the baby is due on Rick and Charlie's birthday....................Take care of yourself and we'll see you in a few weeks.
Margaret and Charlie <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, May 5, 2006 10:21 PM CDT
Congratulations. You both deserve this joy. We are tickled to see that the baby is due on Rick and Charlie's birthday....................What a fabulous Christmastime gift. Take care of yourself and we'll see you in a few weeks.
Margaret and Charlie <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, May 5, 2006 10:20 PM CDT
YIPPEEE!YAHOOOO!HOOOORAHHH!
We are thrilled for you! Love
Shelley,Jack, Kids and pups
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Friday, May 5, 2006 10:18 PM CDT
I just had this feeling, sounds corny, but this "Springy" feeling, and thought I would check in with you guys to wish you well. Holy Smokes!!! I just read the good news, gave a HUGE whoop in my office, and everyone came a'runnin' to check if I was okay. Of course when they get here, tears are in my eyes. Tears of joy and excitement. Thank you for sharing everything, it means so much. Love to you both, and I am hoping that this community of love grows a lot of pumpkins.
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, May 5, 2006 5:18 PM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
Thanks Lord for the great news! We love to hear you more.
In HIM,
Dan, Cora, Chris & Jessie
Daniel Yuen
Bellevue, WA USA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 11:32 PM CDT
Hi Guys,
this is great news, fingers crossed from MV.
Andrew, Roma and alyssa Hartmann
Mountain View, CA USA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 11:12 PM CDT
We Love You Both and as I said before "God Has A Plan"! You both have been blessed! What A Great God We Have! Looking forward to the Updates! Love You Both (All)!
Love, The Smith's!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 11:12 PM CDT
My husband, Mike and I, met you and Stefan at a HAND meeting in Los Gatos in August of 2004. We had lost our daughter Julia at 25 weeks pregnancy. I have followed you and your journey during the past 20 months and I couldn't be happier for you. What a blessing to be pregnant and carrying life. Thank you for all your posts - they have ministered to me in many ways. I gave birth to a baby boy, Derek, on Sept 30, 2005. I will continue to pray for you and your babies. God Bless,
Laura Hernandez <lbhernand@yahoo.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 8:06 PM CDT
I'm singing and laughing and jumping up and down!!!! Hooray for Rikki, Hooray for Stefan!!! Our God is an AWESOME God!
Love you.....
Melissa <MMand4Es@msn.com>
Morgan Hill, CA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 7:30 PM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
I am so excited for you...just checked the website...I love the bright colours and the balloons - hurray!
Looking forward to hugging the new mother-to-be in person...
Love as always,
Helen & family
Helen Orsinger <helenorsinger@hotmail.com>
Villanova, Pa USA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 5:57 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan,
Lizzy just informed me that I should check this website for the latest updates! What a joyful surprise!! We're so very excited!!!
Many hugs,
Tina Poppe :-) (McGlynn) <cristinamcglynn@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 4:14 PM CDT
Hoffnung ist der Regenbogen über dem herabstürzenden Bach des Lebens.
Friedrich Nietzsche (1844-1900), dt. Philosoph
Wie schön, wenn die Hoffung endlich in Erfüllung geht.
Mit unseren Gedanken, Glaube, Liebe und Hoffnung sind wir immer bei Euch, liebe Rikki und lieber Stefan.
Eure Eltern Inge und Gerhard
Baiersdorf/Germany, May 4, 2006
Inge and Gerhard Böhmer
- Thursday, May 4, 2006 7:59 AM CDT
Happy news! It was so great to finally meet you both and be able to share in such great joy!
Kimberly Swain <kimberly.swain@citigroup.com>
New York, NY - Wednesday, May 3, 2006 2:43 PM CDT
Great pictures, Miss Rikki.....I have the good fortune to see you live and in living color.... Marilyn
Marilyn Nugent <mrlyn637@aol.com>
Villanova, PA - Wednesday, May 3, 2006 2:30 PM CDT
I was in my garden yesterday and you came to mind -- I thought--hummm--haven't checked the web page in a while --wonder what is up ! Celebrate Life --at every stage--that Brings Honor and Glory to the One Who gives it-- THERE IS NO GREATER GIFT! the prayers will continue and we like you will wait upon Him who knows just what we need when we need it.
Our Love
Paula and Joe Osorio
Paula Osorio <poejoeeao@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 2, 2006 11:01 PM CDT
Hooray! Praises to Our Lord and King for the joy of new life!
Debby <towtdeb@att.net>
- Tuesday, May 2, 2006 5:08 PM CDT
Dearest Rikki Tikki!
Jen, Dave and I are just leaving sunny Cabo and have been checking the computer fervently since yesterday! How WONDERFUL to see the webpage change to YELLOW background - I knew immediately that there would be good news below.
Jen just got here and hasn't read your post, so I'll sign off. SOOOOOO happy happy happy!
Love Love Love, Meggie & Jen & Dave
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Los Cabos, BCS MEXICO - Tuesday, May 2, 2006 12:13 AM CDT
Rikki & Stefan,
We are praying that all goes well and awaiting new news! As always, you are both in our thoughts and prayers!
Love, The Smith's
John, Susie, Nick & Justin
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Monday, May 1, 2006 10:47 PM CDT
Thinking of you!
Laurra Mosillo <joelar@beld.net>
- Monday, May 1, 2006 2:47 PM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
I just read your journal entry and I am so excited for you... hopefully all of our prayers are being answered! I have thought of both of you so often in the last few days and I wish you confidence and continued faith on this incredible journey together.
I am almost holding my breath until I hear further from you after Monday's visit...
Love you,
Helen XXXX
Helen Orsinger <helenorsinger@hotmail.com>
Villanova, PA USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 11:49 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan:
Thank you for giving Tracy and me the opportunity to get to know you through your journal. And, thank you for honoring me by placing your care in my hands during this pregnancy.
Tracy and Joe Castelli <joey.cast@verizon.net>
Devon, PA USA - Friday, April 28, 2006 6:01 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan -- I just thought I'd check in and say you have been on my heart lately. May God continue to show His face to you and warm you with His tight embrace! Love you!
Malia Ansberry
- Thursday, April 27, 2006 4:55 PM CDT
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as always! Please keep us updated and we hope to be able to visit you soon! We Love You All! Easter Blessings! Love, The Smith's!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN Johnson - Sunday, April 16, 2006 9:22 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan - We are so happy to read your updates. We have been thinking about you and sending warm thoughts your way all week. We can't wait to come down and spoil you by your pool too!! Love Laurra, Joey, Derek, and Sammy
Laurra Mosillo <JoeLar@beld.net>
Braintree, MA - Sunday, April 16, 2006 9:18 AM CDT
Dear Rikki,
I love you and am excited for you. Just as you did when you were pregnant with sweet little Naomi, I hope you are enjoying *every minute* of this trip to Germany and IVF process. Much love to you, the little embryos, Gerhard and Inge, and to Stefan, Jesse and Bagheera waiting for you in PA.
I love you, Meggie
Meg Pageler <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, April 12, 2006 12:42 AM CDT
Rikki,
I am praying almost without ceasing for you and those two babies. I am also sharing this information with others who know you and would want to be praying. I notified all the TIPS ladies. Please remeber all the love and prayers that are surrounding you as go in for the transfer today.
Blessed be the name of the Lord!
Theresa Peterhans <peterhans@comcast.net>
Penn Valley, PA USA - Tuesday, April 11, 2006 10:13 PM CDT
Rikki, You and those 3 little babies are clothed in prayer daily! We will anxiously anticipate God's answer! Thank you for sharing your life with us. It is an honor to travel this journey beside you.
Brad and Marissa Jones
Ashburn, VA 20147 - Monday, April 10, 2006 7:11 PM CDT
Hi Love! Thanks for the update. I've been on pins and needles since you left. I'm praying! Hope you're having fun seeing all the family too. Love you and miss you. God is in control! Rest in Him.
Melissa <MMand4Es@msn.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Monday, April 10, 2006 12:49 AM CDT
Ich hoffe mit Euch, dass es diesmal klappt!
Liebe Grüße
Ilse
Erlangen, Germany - Wednesday, April 5, 2006 4:00 AM CDT
Hello, Rik and Stefan. Thinking of you often, miss you. Pray for you and I thank God for strength, patience and the gift of each other. Luvva Luvva you, Ali Lawrence-Foliart
Ali Lawrence Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Seattle, wa USA - Thursday, March 9, 2006 11:44 PM CST
rikki, I know that you think about ruth all of the time and more than anything that you more than likely want to have another baby to but in all time good thing's will happen to people who deserve it i know that it has been over two year's senice i have hade my miss carrige and i was 6 month's pregant and when my mother passed away when i was only 15 almost 16 on july 26,2002 what i have learned from all of my experince's is that you never will get over something as termatic as loseing someone you truly love you you will learn how to deal with it in different situation's and be come a stronger person day by day with out even knowing it
stephanie veness <stephanie1221@hotmail.com>
renton, wa usa - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 1:13 PM CST
we love you and hope that all of you are doing fine
stephanie <stephanie1221@hotmail.com>
renton, wa 98059 - Tuesday, March 7, 2006 12:47 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan,
This website is wonderful. I've forwarded it to my sister, who I hope will find comfort and help with her grief under similar circumstances to yours.
Susan Sims
Ft. Washington, PA 19002 - Friday, February 17, 2006 9:11 AM CST
Rikki - I deeply thank you for sharing yourself and your pain. In your journals I see how you know that Jesus is the Rock beneath your feet! It is only on Him that we can stand!
Love you new friend -
Milei (Cook) Yardley
Milei Yardley <mileiyard@yahoo.com>
Newport Beach, CA USA - Sunday, January 29, 2006 0:40 AM CST
My precious Rikki,
How could I, or anyone, read that precious journal withut tears? What a gift God has given you to express such deep feelings and such deep TRUTHS as well. My heart aches with yours for the fulfillment of your yearning for parenthood. I will pray with you for that. What a treasure any child would have to grow up in the home that you and Stefan would provide!!
I have been meditating again, particularly over this past week, on the significance of the Cross. I just said to a friend yesterday that I am ashamed that I can take communion without tears. Your sharing, so poignantly expressed, on the DEEP significance of our Lord's spilled blood has now become a part of that meditation and leads me on to a greater appreciation of the cost of my salvation.
THANK YOU, and thank you for sharing your heart with me.
With much love,
"Grandma Diane"
Diane Morris <dianemorris@oci.org>
Colorado Springs, Colorado USA - Wednesday, January 25, 2006 11:16 AM CST
Dear Ricky,
it was such a joy and privilege to meet you in Colorado Springs at your Grandfathers Memorial Service.
Your message and tribute to Dick Hillis was awesome and we were so touched.
Thank you for sharing and giving me your website. My husband and I were deeply touched by your writings on your website and my heart ached for you. Only God can give us comfort and encouragement to go on, we wish that comfort, encouragement and hope for you and your husband.
Please stay in touch, I would love to get to know you.
My best to you,
Anita Osborn
Anita Osborn <wd.osborn@charter.net>
Scottsbluff, NE 69361 - Thursday, January 19, 2006 1:10 PM CST
Am sitting here in puddle of tears. God knows whom He can entrust with such pain - those who will allow Him to work wonders in their lives.
God IS SO VERY GOOD!!!! Praise Him. Thanks for sharing your very hearts.
Lois Vogen <lodarv-fnf@yahoo.com>
Milpitas, CA USA - Thursday, January 5, 2006 10:29 PM CST
Rikki-I was just checking on some journals I keep track of, and you were on my heart. Praying for a grace-filled adventurous new year.
Becky Carlsen <daveandbecky@covad.net>
San Jose, CA - Saturday, December 31, 2005 11:28 PM CST
We send our love and well wishes to you this holiday season Rikki and Stefan... Your daughter Naomi lives in our minds and hearts every day... Your words amaze and enlighten me. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Laurie Bert <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
- Tuesday, December 20, 2005 2:19 PM CST
My heart reaches out to you both. Your words are so eloquent. It took me a long while to ponder your thoughts in my heart and I appreciate your care and deep aquaintance with grief. And that is why Jesus came to save us from this everlasting sadness and loss. Thank you for redirecting my heart,Rikki. I will be thinking of you both this Christmas as I chase this ten year old son of mine around the house and wonder who in the world got into our family! He is a character!
HAVA BERGDOLL <havabergdoll@rcn.com>
morton, pa usa - Monday, December 19, 2005 12:32 AM CST
A friend from another support board directed me here. My beautiful little girl, Ella Lorine, died after just six hours on August 31, 2005. She was diagnosed as Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks. I appreciate you sharing your journey, and I'm so, so sorry about the loss of your daughter.
Julie Fullerton <Coachfullerton@hotmail.com>
Menomonee Falls, WI USA - Wednesday, December 14, 2005 11:41 AM CST
My love to you both, across the miles...
Leslie <luck4hamptons@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA - Monday, December 12, 2005 3:24 PM CST
Oh Rikki and Stefan,
I am so sad for you right now. Hold each other close this blessed season of the year. We are still praying for you.
Becky and Dave Carlsen
Becky Carlsen <daveandbecky@covad.net>
San Jose, CA - Wednesday, December 7, 2005 9:54 PM CST
I am sorry to read your entry. I keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Carmen Banuelos <carmen@php.com>
Santa Clara, CA USA - Tuesday, December 6, 2005 2:27 PM CST
Rikki & Stefan,
I weep alongside you and God. I, too, feel grief each month as I see my hopes disappear in a river of scarlet. I often wonder why God has chosen this course for our lives; what He wants us to learn from this experience. I may never know in this life. I only know that He is sovereign, and I am thankful that He gives me just enough grace to make it beyond each disappointment. And that He has given me beautiful people like you to share this journey together and encourage each other along the way.
Love,
Theresa
Theresa Peterhans <peterhans@comcast.net>
Penn Valley, PA - Thursday, December 1, 2005 6:41 AM CST
I love you. Small comfort at such a time. But comfort, I hope. I have been praying for you each day. And because of this, and so many others, I know that this is God's will for you at this time. Small comfort, again, maybe. Rest in Him my dear friend. You will find peace. He does have a plan for you. He has a child for you. Waiting..... waiting for the magical day when you three shall meet. I am sorry that I have only words to comfort you. Words that are probably hollow sounding. They don't reach to the depths of your sorrow. I am grieving the loss of this child with you. I write this with tears streaming down my face. I wanted this so much for you! I find myself feeling angry too. I'm sorry. I will continue to pray for you each day. That you will find peace.
Love you! Melissa
Melissa Dean <MMand4Es@msn.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Wednesday, November 30, 2005 9:24 PM CST
Dearest Rikki and Stefan,
my thoughts are with you!
Love
Ilse <ilse.becker@siemens.com>
- Wednesday, November 30, 2005 4:35 AM CST
Rikki & Stefan,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you ~ please remember that GOD does have a plan for you! Even though we were only together for a short time, we Love You Both Dearly! God Be With You During The Holiday Season and Always!
Love & Blessings,
Susie, John, Nick & Justin (and Nala)!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Tuesday, November 29, 2005 10:35 PM CST
We are praying and lifting you all up in prayer
"for I know the plans that I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope"
Paula and Joe Osorio <poejoeeao@aol.com>
San Mateo, CA USA - Monday, November 28, 2005 12:12 AM CST
You have been in our prayers daily that all goes well! Just returned from Evansville, IN for a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend! Hope all is well and hope you had a Great Thanksgiving!
Love & Blessings, John, Susie, Nick & Justin (and Nala)!
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN USA - Sunday, November 27, 2005 8:03 PM CST
May your dreams come true. We are thinking of you!
Petra, Juergen and the twins
Petra Kliemt
Baiersdorf, Germany - Monday, November 21, 2005 12:18 AM CST
Alles Gute! Ich denke an Euch!
Ilse
Germany - Monday, November 21, 2005 1:10 AM CST
Hello Rikki and Stefan: We are thinking of you and are very excited about your latest news. We will be praying for you. We were at Meg's on Friday and can report that your Mom, Dad, Jen and Meg are doing well. We hope to see you over the holidays?! Tahoe would love to visit the dog park, as she only gets to go when you are in town!
Margaret Day Laboda <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, November 15, 2005 7:25 PM CST
So as I was driving home tonight I was singing Homesick by Mercy Me and I always think of you Rikki. I want you to know every time I hear that song Naomi's precious face come to mind, my mom, my dad. I understand the words ,"If home is where my heart is then I'm out of place. Lord won't you give me strength to make it through somehow. I've never been more homesick than now."
I love how God rejoices in our questions and truly enjoys when we seek his Word for answers. He wants us to send our prayers to Him and for us to give Him our burdens. I have asked God to send an army of angels to surround you with the love of those who cannot be with you today. I ask that these angels comfort your heart and fill you with the peace you need both physically and spiritually. I cast out all fears, I break the bonds of self doubt. I ask that God's will be done.
You are amazing my friend. I pray you find rest and peace. I pray that Stefan's love for you is as real today as it has always been. May your marriage grow stronger each day. Pray my friend and you WILL be heard. You are constantly in a battle. We both know who will win. I love you and walk beside you my friend. God Bless- Nani
Nani Lium <nanilium@comcast.net>
Bothell, wa 98012 - Sunday, November 13, 2005 7:47 PM CST
My Dear and wonderful friends..... I am praying at this moment, as I have been these last few days. Lovingly for your sake most of all.... but also selfishly for my sake as well.
Lord, let this wonderful couple experience the precious gift you gave to me on four different occasions.
I know you know, Rik...
but remember, all things are sifted through His hands.
Kisses and Hugs to both of you! Ethan and Evan are jumping up and down yelling HI Rikki and Stefan!
All My love, Melissa
Melissa Your-friend-forever <MMand4Es@msn.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Saturday, November 12, 2005 10:59 PM CST
Oops! Stefan - so sorry for the typo on the name from my last entry! Love you!
Krissi Thomas <kthomas@ciaofornow.com>
Seattle, WA - Saturday, November 12, 2005 8:26 AM CST
Hi Rikki & Stefan - it's been a while but I have never stopped thinking of you! My hope for you is filled with happiness and peace, which I know God continues to bring you every day. I love you guys and miss you tons. Take care and thank you for continuing your journals. They are truly inspiring for me! All the best and much love! Krissi (And Marc says HI too!)
Krissi Thomas <kthomas@ciaofornow.com>
Seattle, WA - Saturday, November 12, 2005 8:25 AM CST
Hi Rikki & Stephan - it's been a while but I have never stopped thinking of you! My hope for you is filled with happiness and peace, which I know God continues to bring you every day. I love you guys and miss you tons. Take care and thank you for continuing your journals. They are truly inspiring for me! All the best and much love! Krissi (And Marc says HI too!)
Krissi Thomas <kthomas@ciaofornow.com>
Seattle, WA - Saturday, November 12, 2005 8:24 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan,
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious baby girl last year. She was beautiful. I had no idea about your loss until our life group sent us this website as you are asking for many prayers during your trip to Germany this week. Please know that I will be on my knees praying that Gods meets the needs of your hearts and that the procedure goes smoothly. Love in Christ, Laurie
Laurie Tiffan <laurietiffan@hotmail.com>
Royersford, PA 19468 - Friday, November 11, 2005 1:05 PM CST
Rikki and Stefan, There are not many who can say "I know how you feel" and I'm sure you are glad for that...for you would not wish upon any young couple the journey life and God has called both of you to travel. The pain a parent feels over the loss of a child is beyond words or explanation....Thank you, though, for letting us travel along side you on this path for awhile. Your revealing account of your joy for the life of little Naomi Ruth, and sorrow for its brevity has instructed us how to pray for you and other's who know, unfortunately, from experience, the path that you must travel. We're so glad that God has put you and, yes, Naomi Ruth in our lives. Even though we did not get to meet her here on this side, we will one day, as she rests with our Heavenly Father. In the meantime, we pray that the God of comfort will carry you. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord. Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you," declares the Lord, "and bring you back from captivity....." This is our prayer for you...
In HIS Love, Marilyn and John Nugent
Marilyn Nugent <marilynmargaret@comcast.net>
Villanova, PA USA - Tuesday, November 1, 2005 4:49 PM CST
I was very touched by reading your story on your daughter. My little sister sent it to me this morning.When i came in to work and turned on my computer there it was. As i read your touching story, tears streamed down my face, as i remembered my dear mother. She pasted away in a car accident on October 31, 2003.
Growing up, I never had a very good relationship with her, and we faught a lot. I was very angry at her and held a lot of blame. But, when she died I realized how wrong in was and what a big mistake i had made. I spent so much time doing all the wromg things. Now, I look back and regret not appreciating all the special wonderful things about her.
I look back on all the times she was there and how wonderful she truly was. I try to remember her smile and the sound of her laugh. i remember watching her when she was driving, just looking at her for minutes at a time. i remember the way she smelled and how she loved to shop. i remember the love she had for her grandchildren.
I was just showing off the pictures of my sons birth and saying how proud she was. There she was so happy holding my precious little boy. There where so many great tings about that woman, that I never realized until she was gone.
Now, I have no more anger, no more resentment for her. I only have peace and love for her. She has become my strength and insperation. I have prayed to God so many times to give me peace and help me continue on this path of life without her by my side. And, he has.
Although, I still hurt for her time and time again, I know i was blessed by having her for the time I did. I now am able to my friends to love and appreciate their mothers, becasue our time here is limited. I also, appreciate the time i spend with others. My mothers death has taught me so many things. Because of her, Today I am a better person. I will forever miss her, her smile, and most of all her laughter, but I will always carry her precious memories with me. And I will continue to pass on her memory to my children and nephews and neices.
I am terribley sorry for your loss. I cant imagine the pain of losing one of my children, and you have a strength I never want to know. You are amazing to be able to be so open about your daughter. Thank you for sharing your story and giving me strength. May God always be with you.
Sandi Perez <sperez@oaktreelending.net>
Santa Maria, CA USA - Tuesday, October 18, 2005 12:34 AM CDT
Pleasure to have met you in Modesto, Ca. My God continue to comfort you and encourage you through your daughter and grandmothers sweet and precious memories.
Noemi Vela <cvhnoemi@hotmail.com>
Modesto, Ca USA - Monday, October 17, 2005 6:11 PM CDT
DEAR RIKKI AND STEFAN, I HAVE JUST FINISHED READING THE COMMENTS IN YOUR GUESTBOOK AFTER READING RIKKI'S COMMENTS.
THERE IS NOTHING IN THE WORLD I COULD SAY AS PROFOUND AS ALL I HAVE JUST READ. ALL I WILL DO IS SEND OUR LOVE, PRAYERS AND THE BEST TO YOU ALWAYS.
LEE WOELKE <leemwalta@amerion.com>
TONASKET, WA USA - Wednesday, October 5, 2005 4:52 PM CDT
Hi Rikki and Stefan, Just want to let you know I think of you guys all the time, and your little girl will never be forgotten. You went through a lot to give her a little time on earth, and that is truly the love that parents give to their children. I wish she were here. I appreciate hearing your thoughts, and am amazed by your ability to articulate them. Love to you both!
Leslie Hampton <hamptonl@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA - Tuesday, October 4, 2005 12:17 AM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
I just looked into your website and I feel overwhelmed by a multitude of emotions...even if I tried, I would be unable to understand what you went through a little over a year ago: welcoming your daughter Naomi Ruth into this world for just a few precious hours and then having to let her go again... I feel truly humbled by the depth of your experience and can only say that the three of you are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
With all my love and affection
Helen Orsinger
Helen Orsinger <helenorsinger@hotmail.com>
Villanova, PA USA - Sunday, September 18, 2005 3:59 PM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
You are truly pearls. I am sorry that your refinement has come at such a personal cost. You have been a blessing and an inspiration to so many people including myself. Bless you as you continue to heal and wonder at what could have been, and hope in God's plan for your future.
Love,
Theresa
Theresa Peterhans
- Tuesday, September 13, 2005 10:30 PM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
I wanted you to know I was thinking of you. I will always think of you at this time of year. And wonder at your amazing strength, your horrible loss, and your profound love -- both inward and outward. I will also -- always -- think about and miss Naomi. I will miss the growing girl she was not to become.
My Love,
Kyrsten Laboda <rklaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, September 13, 2005 2:03 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan - just wanted to let you know that you and Naomi Ruth were remembered Sunday Sept. 11 at Valley Church - Cupertino, CA. Kurt Jones mentioned your words and how encouraged he was by them - we too were blessed by your testimony of God's grace and love. Thank You for standing firm during a very difficult time.
Love,
Ken & Kris Hubbard
Kris Hubbard
Cupertino, CA USA - Monday, September 12, 2005 3:27 PM CDT
Stefan and Rikki- I love you somehow seems not enough to say to you. But I do!
I ache yet I know my ache is no where near the ache you have.
Precious Naomi. I was blessed to pet that little fuzzy head, to kiss that beautiful face. To hear her breath and gurgle. I felt the weight of a little child who God so desired to make a mark on this earth. I remember the weight of her body as she layed on my chest.
I rejoice that she was in the womb listening to her mother pray. I rejoice she came into this world to prayer. I rejoice she was lifted up to heaven escorted by prayer.
Thankyou my friends for your sharing of Faith, Thankyou for your Hope for the future, and most of all know that you are surrounded by the community of believers who Love you and love your child.
I wish the distance between us were smaller. I send hugs, love and tears your way. I desire to hear both of your laughter soon. Your Friend-Nani
Nani Lium <nanilium@comcast.net>
bothell, wa usa - Sunday, September 11, 2005 9:34 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan
We spent today thinking of you both and your dear daughter. We wish we could be with you. We never met her yet it is amazing how often we think and talk of her. She has left a life that touch so many. You continue to be possibly the strongest people I know. I love you for that strength, your faith, your love and your friendship.
Love Shelley for the Bennetts
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Saturday, September 10, 2005 10:36 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
I love you both so much. I so wish I could be with you today - to hug you, to cry with you, to look at pictures and mini-movies of Naomi with you, to simply be near you. I miss you both so much. And I miss little Naomi terribly. I can't even count the number of times in the last year I've thought about how much I wish she was alive and growing up before our eyes. Casey is just a few weeks older than Naomi and everytime I see her and watch her grow and change and learn, I think about your precious baby.
I don't know what else to say, except that I'm so very sad, I'm thinking of you both and missing you so much.
I love you - Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, September 10, 2005 1:06 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan,
I have been dreading this day, this birth day death day anniversary. I know this must be a rough time for you as well. In Seattle, it is raining for what seems like the first time all year. Coddling me, I think.
I am remembering the feeling of Naomi wiggling and kicking under Rikki's skin. I remember her soft hair, and the blue of her one open eye, and her absolutely gorgeous hands and feet. Her sweet little gurgle-y cry. The joy she filled the room with when she took her first breath. Such a beautiful baby.
Naomi came with me to the top of Mount Rainier - she's nestled at the base of an alpine lily at Paradise, she gurgles along with Pebble Creek, she's resting at Camp Muir, and she's dancing on the wind at the summit.
Naomi came with me to the tidepools of Sooes Beach, at the northwest tip of Washington, with the brightest green anemones.
I would rather hold her by the hand at the tidepools and mountain meadows, but since I have a dime bag and memories of her sights and sounds and shape, I will carry that dime bag next to my heart, and share my favorite places with her ashes and her memories.
I love that little girl.
Today, in the rain, we are celebrating our own little 'birthday'. Mark and I pick up our new puppy today. We are so excited to have our own little 'girl' noisying up this empty house. So our tears and our laughter will mingle today, on the birthday deathday anniversary of our beautiful niece Naomi Ruth.
We love you Rikki and Stefan, and wish you every happiness.
Jen and Mark
Jennifer Pageler <markjen126@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, September 10, 2005 9:58 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
Thank you so much, again, for sharing every moment of Naomi’s life with me. And thank you for allowing me to spread some of her ashes in meaningful places. I can’t find the words to describe how much this means to me – how deeply I feel connected to her and to you both when I get the opportunity to spread my dear niece’s ashes in all sorts of beautiful places. I was lucky enough to spread her ashes in Lake Kachess near our beloved cabin, the beautiful Palo Duro Canyon in the panhandle of Texas near Amarillo with my dear friend Rafe, and in the Ohanapecosh River in the Grove of the Patriarchs on majestic Mt. Rainier with my Dave.
I got a letter from Rafe today in which he said the following: “But what I am really thankful for is that you would include me in the precious ceremony of your niece. I will never forget it as long as I live. I am immediately changing my will because that is exactly what I want to happen to me. I have struggled with this decision in the past but now my mind is made up.”
Thank you, again, my dear sweet sister and brother.
All my love, Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, August 11, 2005 7:07 PM CDT
Hey guys, it's Ali. Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you with love. Take care, and enjoy the new house!!
Ali Lawrence-Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, July 24, 2005 4:28 PM CDT
Dear Rikki, Stefan, Bagheera and Jesse,
Thank you so much for hosting me over Mother's Day weekend in your beautiful new home. It really was one of my most favorite trips ever - such a wonderful time. Your home is perfect: so welcoming, so comfy, so beautiful, already full of so much joy, which will only increase each day. Thanks for letting me spend your first Mother's Day with you, that was really special for me. Thanks again for making me an Auntie and bringing Naomi into my life.
I love you all so much.
Looking forward to seeing you in Seattle soon and can't wait for my next trip back to Beautiful Pennsylvania. (Although I must say I don't miss the bugs...)
All my love, Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, May 12, 2005 2:58 PM CDT
Hey you two..... I miss you! My boys miss you! The whole family misses you!!! Just wanted you to know. We think of you OFTEN and can't wait to see you in a couple of months.
Peanut says hi to her sister Bahgeera.
Hugs to Stefan. Yes, Stefan, hugs. Big strong bear hugs, just cuz you love them so much!! :)
And a smooch to Rikki.
There is a void in my life because you are gone. I miss the pool and the iced coffees and mostly the warm friendliness that was ever present in your home.
Hope you had an enjoyable Mother's Day. I had a delivery until early this morning and then spent the day in my jammies. Absolute heaven. Went to Mom's about 4 PM for dinner with sisters and families. Now back in jammies.... waiting on a foot rub. Watching Phantom of the Opera with Eliza. Heaven I tell you.... pure heaven.
xoxo
Melissa
Melissa Your-friend-forever <MMand4Es@msn.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Sunday, May 8, 2005 11:48 PM CDT
Alles Gute im neuen Zuhause! Ich denke oft an Euch.
Liebe Grüße,auch von Jürgen, den Zwillingen sowie Eddie&Murphy, Petra
Petra Kliemt
Baiersdorf, BY Germany - Sunday, May 8, 2005 3:47 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan:
I would like to send you my families' welcome to your new home and to extend to you both a very Happy Mothers' Day. You have both endured so much, and become parents. Rikki, you are a mother now, and will always be a mother. Celebrate this day in a way that makes you happy. I do hope to really have a chance to meet you both some day. In the mean time, I wish you well.
Cheers and Hugs from one Mother to another.
Love, Ulla
Friend of Meg
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox <ublichfeldtfox@peoplepc.com>
Vashon, WA USA - Saturday, May 7, 2005 2:59 AM CDT
Dearest Rikki,
Uncle Dave and I are thinking of you during this Mother's Day weekend. You are, and always will be, a wonderful mother and we love you very much. Aunt Nancy
Nancy Lundsgaard <nancylunds@netscape.net>
- Friday, May 6, 2005 10:59 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
We didn't even know that a move for you was in the future. Hope and pray all goes well! We just returned from Orlando with Justin. They had a Show Choir Competition at Epcot. We are tired but had a great time! We love every moment of it. Please e-mail your new address to us as soon as you can! We love and miss you!
God Bless,
Susie & John Smith (Turks Buddies)
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
whiteland, IN United States - Wednesday, March 23, 2005 8:32 PM CST
Hope you are having a safe and joyous trip East. Here's to new beginnings, the first day of Spring, and all sorts of new experiences. Celebrate and treasure! Love, Carol
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA - Monday, March 21, 2005 12:01 AM CST
Hello Rikki and Stefan,
Sad as I read in January that you are not pregnant. I tell you both: Chin up ! If it should happen it will happen – I am sure. Look ahead. The new year is still young and it can happen a lot of things until it is over – but hopefully only good things will happen for you both.
Nearly 6 month are over that you had born and lost your pretty girl Naomi – the time flies for me. A lot of things are happened for you and me in this time – good and bad things but this is the real life. Now we are looking foreward was the spring will bring. At the moment we have winter in Germany, a lot of snow, it’s very cold at night (-10 until -16 degree) but during the day we have sunshine and nearly 0 degree. The birds are singing in the morning and it seems the spring will come soon - longingly due.
May the memory of Naomi not pale and the set of beliefs that she is doing well.
My best wishes to you both and also to your familiy, friends and your pets
Love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Saturday, March 5, 2005 5:39 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day, Rikki. It must be a happy and sad day for you. Enjoy your love. I am sorry I missed you at Valley church last sunday night. Dave said you and Stefan were there, but I was so busy trying to keep Teagan entertained and unfortunately I walked out without a chance to say hello. I think of you often.
Becky Carlsen <daveandbecky@covad.net>
San Jose, CA USA - Monday, February 14, 2005 5:29 PM CST
Dearest Rikki and Stefan, Bagheera and Jesse,
Not a day goes by that we don't think of you, not one. We know that God, friends, and family will continue to bring blessings into your life. You are awesome, and we celebrate Naomi with you. :) Can't wait to see you, and with this weather here in Seattle, it looks like Spring in our yard! Love to each, Ali and Eric Foliart
Ali Foliart <alilawrencefoliart@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, February 3, 2005 11:45 PM CST
dearest rikki and stefan-- it's been a long road but one that the Lord has not left your side on-- He is faithful to His children and He is the maker and creator of all things-- hold tight to your faith and one another. Naomi was a gift directly from the Father to you both and many-- You did the Lord's will and He will honor you both --His time ( thou now seems forever) is Perfect-- just like Naomi was for you. Know that Joe and I are praying for you both daily and know your pain and deepest heartaches.
Love to you in Christ
Paula and Joe Osorio
Paula Osorio <poejoeeao@aol.com>
- Tuesday, February 1, 2005 6:03 PM CST
I have been thinking about you.
Carmen Banuelos/Touchstone/ HAND <carmen@php.com>
Santa Clara, CA USA - Tuesday, January 11, 2005 12:32 AM CST
Rikki & Stefan
Wanted to say hello, and send my well wishes.
Love You! Casey
Casey Murray <casey.murray@qwest.com>
Idaho Falls , ID USA - Sunday, January 9, 2005 6:21 PM CST
Hi Stefan and Rikki. Such mixed feelings as I visit your webstie today...You've been in my thoughts and prayers since you left. And I have to admit I haven't visited the site since Naomi's death, but today, I was lead to check out the website. I was delighted to see that there were updates, but extremely sad to hear that the embroys didn't stick. I'm so sorry...
Back in Oct, we had a guest pastor, Mike Hayes speak at our church. While he spoke, you were heavy on my heart. I picked up his tape because I believe you were meant to hear it. I'm saving it for you until you return or if you want, let me know where I can send it.
In the meantime my dear friends, thanks for sharing with us how you're doing. You should know, it's not the good news and happy moods or the bad news and gloomy moods that determine our friendship. We simply love, accept and care for you just as you are.
You will continue to be in our prayers and I can't wait to have you back in California.
We send you our love, hugs and kisses.
Koby and Nancy
Koby and Nancy Kumasaka
San Jose, CA - Friday, January 7, 2005 8:11 PM CST
Dear Rikki and Stefan: We are all saddened that this wasn't the month and grateful for your larger vision. You continue in our prayers.
Robbie
Robbie
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, January 5, 2005 3:31 PM CST
Rikki and Stefan, sending warm thoughts in your direction. Meg's formerly of Washington, currently of Michigan, friend
Lisa Waldvogel <hippiewarrior2004@yahoo.com>
Grosse Pointe Woods, MI USA - Wednesday, January 5, 2005 11:33 AM CST
Dear Precious Ones....
I am so inspired by your amazing spirit and attitudes! Our hearts are stooped today to realize you have to sit a little longer in God's waiting room. But praise God....we know and are most confident that He has NOT forgotten you two and so desires to give you the desires of your hearts! Even now we are praying for those precious eggs harvested....sitting and waiting to be what God wants them to be! See...they are in God's waiting room as well! The best IS yet to be.....how it could be any other way with our Lord at the helm! Right? You keep your eyes upward and onward as you are doing! We are so excited for what God has for your futures! That is so great about your resolves physically! God smiles on us, I believe, when we are taking care of these temples He has given us to live in! God Bless you guys! We love you so! Thank you for letting us know how to pray for you two....because it IS our delight to hold you up before The Father! Hugs and much love......Diane for Ken and I
Diane Ramey <dianeramey@msn.com>
Bothell, WA USA - Tuesday, January 4, 2005 5:51 PM CST
Dearest Rikki and Stefan,
I was just finishing an e-mail to you when I received Meg's e-mail with your news. We are deeply saddened along with you.
God must certainly have a plan for the very best time in this world for the two of you to be parents. Perhaps He is waiting for a time when there are more than one set of footprints in the sand.
We are inspired, however, by your quest to take the time to improve your own physical health just when we both are striving to uphold our own New Years' resolutions. Let's make a date to play tennis upon your return to the States!
Please know that we love you both and pray for you everyday. We are your FOREVER friends.
Dave & Dana Nelson <thenelsons101@msn.com>
Auburn, WA USA - Tuesday, January 4, 2005 3:26 PM CST
Alright you little troublemakers! Shape up, or ship out!!! Attatch already! Let's focus here. You may be tiny, but you are strong! No giggling you gregarious gadflies!! You don't want me to come in there!!!
(Boehmer's: I love you. Thanks for keeping me on the mailing list! Peace, Sean)
Sean Eagon <eagonflow@hotmail.com>
Delridge, WA USA - Tuesday, January 4, 2005 1:32 PM CST
My dearest friend. What is to be said to you? Far too many tears have been shed in the past few months. Tears of sorrow, tears of renewal, tears of desire to find understanding. And today I cry tears of not being close enough to hug you, not being there to make you laugh, as well as my own selfish desire for you to be a mommy again. My heart has ached for you in the past few months. As I have said for you in the past and continue to say, I am here beside you. I pray for you, and I ache for you, and I walk this walk of life along side you my friend. I am so encouraged to hear your excitement to go out and do things with your wonderful hubby. All the way over here in Bothell Washington there is a family that loves you both dearly. I look forward to seeing you again soon. God smiles down on the two of you today and carries you both in His embrace.
Nani Lium <nanilium@comcast.net>
Bothell, WA USA - Tuesday, January 4, 2005 12:52 AM CST
I am sorry this was not the time for babies. But I will adopt your positive attitude and look forward to hearing about the next attempt. Some of the best things require waiting for. Love you all
Shelley
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa usa - Tuesday, January 4, 2005 12:18 AM CST
I am so sorry that this attempt to get pregnant didn't work out. I am, however, thrilled that you are in good spirits and moving forward. I think it will be good for you. I love you and am anxious for you to return so I can selfishly see you again.
Melissa Dean <MMand4Es@msn.com>
- Tuesday, January 4, 2005 12:06 AM CST
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
I am so sorry the embryos didn't stick. :( What fun it will finally be to one day have nieces and nephews to watch grow up and play with - but I can wait until the time is right. I'm sorry for your loss now, though. I miss you guys, and so does Bagheera (who jumped up on my lap to write this with me) - when are you coming back to Seattle?
All my love,
Naomi's Auntie Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, January 4, 2005 11:36 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan, My prayers are with you and your beautiful embryos. I hope to have the chance to share them with you soon.
All my love.
Barbara Del Prince <bdelprin@yahoo.com>
San Jose, ca USA - Tuesday, December 28, 2004 0:08 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan,
Thank you for sharing these precious moments. You are truly blessed amidst your grief to be surrounded by the love of family and friends.
Ann & Krishna Wolfe <annwolfe@earthlink.net>
Seatttle, WA USA - Monday, December 27, 2004 7:40 PM CST
Thank you for your entry. I think of you, Stefan and Naomi often. I am so happy for you to hear that you are trying again. I will pray that the little ones will stick! Your entries, always so raw and honest, have been a part of my healing process. I find it healing to read, to share with others who are also grieving. You put into words some of my feelings as well. I just wanted to write that by sharing Naomi you are helping others as well. So thank you! The Philippians verse you quoted is something a dear friend recently asked me to remember during my dark days so it so appropriate to see it on your site. Have a wonderful Christmas and I look forward to hearing your news in 2005. God Bless!
Laura Hernandez <lbhernand@yahoo.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Friday, December 24, 2004 12:23 AM CST
Dear Rikki and Stefan: You are in my prayers. Why is it that the best lessons are so painful? I pray and hope for your pregnancy but even more for full joy in your lives.
Love, Robbie
Robbie
Seattle, Wa USA - Thursday, December 23, 2004 10:00 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan,
My My My!!! You have had a couple of busy days! Our thoughts and prayers are with you both and we pray that all goes well with those little embryos! You keep rubbing that belly like we always saw you doing in TC! We are having a White Christmas here also - So far we have between 6 to 8 inches and more to come! We love it but we don't! We are just glad that we will be leaving this beautiful white stuff for alot of clear turquiose water on the 31st! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
God Bless, Susie, John, Nick & Justin
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, I United States - Wednesday, December 22, 2004 2:22 PM CST
WOW! Once again, thanks for sharing so openly and beautifully your journey and the wisdom you have obtained along the way. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. May those little embryos set up housekeeping for the duration.
Much, much love,
Debbie and Sean <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, December 22, 2004 2:13 AM CST
Whoopie! I remember when Jonita was pregnant with Robbie she kind of had a scare early on and we weren't sure how things were going to turn out. The doctors had told her that he was only the size of a Cheerio. So to encourage him along I would talk to her belly and say "hold on little Cheerio". If I could hold you right now I would send along the same message to your belly.
I Love you!
Go Cheerio!
Marsann
Marsann Easterday <marsannd@u.washington.edu>
- Tuesday, December 21, 2004 5:44 PM CST
Rikki and Stefan: You are in our prayers. We are so hopeful..............we want all three to "stick"! I hope to see you at Meg's when you return. We can take Jesse and Tahoe down to the off-leash! Have a wonderful Christmas. God Bless You!
Margaret Laboda <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 5:40 PM CST
It's always worth having a look at Naomi's homepage - great to read your news. We're thinking of you and wishing you as much luck as we had. Take especially good care of yourself!
Love, Petra and Jürgen
Petra Kliemt
Baiersdorf, BY Germany - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 3:26 PM CST
thanks for sharing this special and exciting time with us. we will all wait anxiously and excitedly for the next entry. you will be in our prayers. our hope and love are with you both as the holidays come and go, and the new year comes in with promise, beauty, peace and reassurance that there is good in this world of ours. our best, kris selig and the north carolina gang
kris selig <yardkid1@aol.com>
durham , nc usa - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 2:15 PM CST
What a lovely thing to read at this time of year, when so many are so consumed with what they don't have. A great Christmas present to all of us. Good luck to you, take very good care and know that thoughts all over the world are with you!
Kathlyn (Kate) Albright <kathlyn@pinkraincoat.com>
Los Angeles, CA USA - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 12:50 AM CST
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
How exciting to get your call at nearly midnight my time last night that you were headed off to the doctor's to have three dividing embryos implanted! You asked me what I was "ordering" - niece, nephew, both, twins or triplets. I told you I would gladly accept whomever arrives. I can't wait to tell them all about their big sister Naomi!
What a beautiful journal entry to wake up to this morning, my sister. Naomi brought us all so many gifts, especially your seemly new-found (or at least newly-shared) gift for beautiful, poignant writing. You could write a book...
All my love! - Meggie
P.S. Bagheera jumped up on my lap while I was writing this and asked that I tell you both how much she misses you!
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 12:25 AM CST
My prayers are with you both at this difficult time. Remember that Noami will always be looking down from that special place hoping that her parents know that she is being well taken care of.
You are in God's hands and he will guide you through all that is coming your way.
Gina Geranen <ggeranen@aol.com>
Sunnyvale, CA USA - Monday, December 20, 2004 6:25 PM CST
Upon reading your last entry my thoughts are that you are
so on target with your emotions. This thing called grief is
going to do it's thing in the time it takes and no matter
what, we will have good days and not so good days. From my
experience I learned to try to go with the flow and it was
hard at times. Our daughter was taken from us at birth 38
years ago and there are stil moments that tug at my heart.
It's the knowing where she is that allows me to smile and
gloat in the fact that I have my own little angel looking
after us down here....and so do you! Just Be...be sad, mad
happy, glad or all of the above. I never liked it when people would tell me that time would heal for I mistook it
as their telling me I would forget...and you know what? They were right! Time is a great healer. Be happy, Love, Cecelia
Cecelia Pellizzari <cecepell@inreach.com>
Los Altos, ca usa - Sunday, December 12, 2004 8:16 PM CST
I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you.
Much love.
Barbara Del Prince <bdelprin@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 11, 2004 0:23 AM CST
Rikki and Stefan. Thank you so much for sharing Naomi with all of us. I'm very proud of you for sharing your feelings and I hope that you continue to do so. There is much strength and comfort that is derived from sharing. I'd like to share a passage that I pray will help you maintain your strength through all of this. II Corinthians 1:3-5 "God is the Father who is full of mercy and all comfort. He comforts us every time we have trouble, so when others have trouble, we can comfort them with the same comfort God gives us. We share in the many sufferings of Christ. In the same way, much comfort comes to us through Christ". I will continue to pray for you. Know that Naomi Ruth is enjoying her new life with her Heavenly Father.
Carol King <mzking44@hotmail.com>
Renton, WA USA - Thursday, December 9, 2004 3:18 PM CST
Rikki,
We love you.
Debbie and Sean <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, December 6, 2004 0:23 AM CST
Hello Rikki and Stefan,
Thank you for sharing your feelings; happy or sad you have a beautiful way of expressing them. Ironically enough I read the following passage today. I think it is an interesting and powerful perspective:
(From The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran)
"Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's
longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they
belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which
you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make
them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth."
Thinking of you, praying for you, loving you ALWAYS!
Don, Laura and Jaclen Moxley <lauramoxley@alltel.net>
Granville, OH 43023 - Wednesday, November 17, 2004 8:53 PM CST
Dear Rikki,
Please do not ever stop sharing your feelings. Talking it out in person or via this journal is a part of the growing and healing.
Part of me wants to reassure you that the pain will lessen in time, part of me wants to join you in ranting against the unfairness of the lot life has dealt us. How many times have I asked why? I know there are so many blessings around all of us, all I have to do is look out the window at the beautiful fall leaves we are enjoying here. It is just so hard to see those blessings when we hurt so bad it is hard to breathe. I understand your ache and emptyness - and know how very alone one feels with it, even when others are around and wishing us well and being helpful. It's like that old song, "Nobody knows the trouble I have seen..."
Please know that while each of us has our own experiences and none can feel what you are feeling, we do love you and want to be here for you - just for a hug, or to cry together or whatever you need at the moment. Crying is also an important part of healing, but better to cry together. I am so glad you have reached out to Stefan to share your grief, so you can cry together. Please let us be there for you too. When you need space we will respect that, when you want to see us, please let us know - we don't expect a bright cover, we want to be with you, where ever you are at right then.
In love and hope for healing, Carol
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, November 15, 2004 4:04 PM CST
Your words ring the truth. I think of you and your husband.
Carmen Banuelos <carmen@php.com>
San Jose, CA United States - Tuesday, November 9, 2004 2:36 PM CST
Rikki -
I just wanted to say "I LOVE YOU!" The articulation of your words; the true, real and genuine feelings you express are refreshing in a world filled with anything but. I encourage you to continue writing and expressing every last detail of thought which comes to your beautiful heart, mind and soul. You are an absolute gem and while I know you hurt, remember that your pain is helping so many find a deeper meaning in their lives. God IS working through you and it is an absolutely amazing thing to witness.
"But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on winds like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." Isaiah 40:31
Keep hope in your heart, Rikki, because you will see the mountain top again.
In HIS Name,
Krissi
Krissi (Calkins) Thomas <kthomas@ciaofornow.com>
Seattle, WA - Sunday, November 7, 2004 5:24 PM CST
Rikki,
What a powerful jounral entry the Nov 2 one was.
I cannot imagine how it can help at all to hear us tell you again and again that we think of you and grieve with you, because we were not in your shoes, and even if we had been, how could our own pain lessen yours??, but here I am, saying it anyway.
Thinking of ya and crying over your loss.
Sharona <ricesharona@hotmail.com>
Edmonds, WA - Thursday, November 4, 2004 6:47 PM CST
Sweet Rikki, your words are beautiful. I have so very much to say to you. I've composed about 1,000 letters in my head, but never written or sent them. Here's the tip of the iceberg:
I think of you daily. I think of you at the sweetest times -- when Anna is asleep on my chest and her delicious breath warms my body and heart. I think of you at hard times -- when Anna WON'T sleep and we're all beyond exhasted. You should be experiencing all of these things right now.
I remember first hearing that you were pregnant. I was so excited that we'd have children the same age.
I do know grief. I know that it never goes away. It may soften, but it's never gone. I know that the first year is filled with unhappy anniversaries. One week, two weeks, months, one year. Holidays take on a severe sadness because your person is missing..
I know you will continue to grieve and hope that you continue to express it -- because that helps. I remember that we'd get so sick and tired of crying that it hurt. I also remember feeling amazing relief when / if a good time or a funny thing happened our way. Intense grief breeds intense feeling -- and joy is certainly welcome at times.
Please know that, as Rick said, we love you. And that your honest expression is welcome with us at any time.
Love,
Kyrsten
Kyrsten Laboda
Seattle, - Thursday, November 4, 2004 1:31 AM CST
Rikki,
Thank you for sharing, with so many of us, the mystery of the loss of a child. Your update does not sound dark to me, it sounds real. I am grateful to never have known your pain, but I am also in awe of your ability to define it. I have no idea what you are feeling, I just know that I want you to feel free to share it at any depth and at any darkness.
SBennett <jbjrwa@aol.com>
Bham, WA USA - Thursday, November 4, 2004 0:51 AM CST
Hey, just to let you know, we love you both very much and think of you often.
Stephen, stay away from the edge of the pool!
Rick, Kyrsten, Kate and Anna <rklaboda@comcast.net>
- Thursday, November 4, 2004 0:22 AM CST
My dearest little sister,
Thank you so much for sharing that journal entry from Korea with us. I am awed, again, by your deeply touching and profoundly truthful words. You take after Dad in your ability to express yourself so beautifully, even when talking about such hard things.
I hope you know that I, too, grieve for Naomi and for you and for Stefan everyday. For the entire family - biological and adopted - that has been touched so very deeply by your amazing daughter. I truly don't know how everybody could go back to work and actually be productive after what we've been through - and are still going through. Thank goodness my *#$%!* boss fired me so I wouldn't have to try, and I can have this time away from work not only to grieve but also to get to spend as much time with you as I can.
Thank you so much for entrusting me with the care of your beautiful, loving, cuddly little kitty - whom it seems will remain nameless =). I feel so truly honored. I find myself surprised everyday at how much I miss her when I'm gone and how happy I am to see her when I return and how much more I love her everyday. I haven't connected like this with an animal since our dog Susie when I was a little kid. I know it is because she is so special to you and because of the role she has played, and is playing, in your - and now my - grieving process.
In my "retirement" I'm also making a point to spend a lot of time with Casey and Anna, two dear little babies born just before and after Naomi. Holding them and cuddling them and watching them grow is important therapy for me. But in the midst of my happiness of having them in my life, I also feel a tinge of sadness and sometimes even anger that Naomi is not growing up right alongside them. That you and Stefan have been robbed of the intensely positive emotions and experiences Casey and Anna's moms and dads get to take almost for granted. That my little niece isn't here cuddling in my arms right now. Kitty is sleeping in my lap as I am typing on the computer though, as is now her custom to do. =) Thanks so much for that!
I don't know what else to say except how much I love you and wish things were different, but how thankful I am that you shared all this with me and hopefully will continue to share with me. I can't wait for your plane from Korea to land tomorrow morning so I can hug you again and deliver you to your kitty impatiently awaiting your arrival.
I love you, Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, November 3, 2004 11:22 PM CST
Rikki& Stephen You have both been in my thoughts and prayers and I will continue to pray for you both and your family!
Tiffany Gregory <TifTaffy@aol.com>
San jose, ca usa - Sunday, October 17, 2004 0:29 AM CDT
Dearest Rikki & Stefan,
Just wanted to let you both know that we still hold you in our prayers. I wish we could have made it to Naomi's Memorial Service. It sounded like a wonderful celebration on Little Naomi's Life. We love you both and hope to hear from you soon!
Love & God Bless,
Susie, John, Nick & Justin Smith
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN United States - Friday, October 15, 2004 2:41 PM CDT
Rikki & Stefan
Thinking of you both today, realizing Naomi's birthday was just over one month ago. The picture painted by your niece is so amazing and beautiful. I pray for the continued healing of your hearts. God Bless,
Laura Hernandez
Laura Hernandez <lbhernand@yahoo.com>
Morgan Hill, CA USA - Thursday, October 14, 2004 0:11 AM CDT
dear rikki and stefan,
what a lovely remebrance service for naomi! the poems, and the thoughts from the hearts of people who love her and love you------------the photos were heart wrenching yet soft and beautiful. god's love truly shows through you two! i consider it an extraordinary priviledge to have been a part of naomi's brief life on this earth---i thank you for that opportunity. she touched the lives of many folks around hospice of the valley. come visit us sometime when you are ready.
joan
joan pariani <jpariani@msn.com>
- Saturday, October 9, 2004 0:19 AM CDT
Tonight I shared with my son, now 20,(who has Trisomy 21, Down Syndrome) the photographs of his birth, and that of his older brother. He's seen them before. (But was grossed out none-the-less, what can I say...he's a teen)
As an aside, I was looking through my files, and I had the medical records and bills from Carl's first open heart surgery. It was not only amazing that I still have it (although I save so much....) but it was amazing to me how much I still needed a record of these past events, since they were so painful and after nearly 20 years, hard to recollect. Upon finding my files however, I was right back. And it was a good place to be. I say this because, while I still have my son, I wouldn't have remembered all of these events and feelings without this record.
Your daughter, Naomi Ruth (celebrated by her family) will always be remembered because of your efforts.
This is what parents do for their children; and you are now parents.
Be well, and good luck to you with Naomi's siblings.
Cheers forever...Ulla Blicheldt Fox
P.S. Meggie is a great auntie and friend.
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox <ublichfeldtfox@peoplepc.com>
Vashon, WA USA - Friday, October 8, 2004 2:08 AM CDT
Rikki and Stephan - I hope that today helped you find some comfort in the middle of this sad time. I am sorry that we could not be there with you to celebrate your daughter's beautiful and amazing life. Your whole family is in our thoughts and we pray that you will continue to find your way as you travel down this life changing path. Grief is a continuous process, but it will get easier. No one will ever forget this precious person you brought into the world. Much love,
Vicky Doyle & Jose Garcia <vdoyle@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, October 3, 2004 9:17 PM CDT
I thought of you today and will for many days to come. Naomi will always be a part of your family; from an experience you allowed your family and extended family to join. Thank you for this.
Auntie Meg shared some very special photographs with me last week, which I feel honored to have shared. Your joy and not sadness, but acceptance in letting go, was very spiritual and truly appreciated. From a distance I've felt involved, and yet not available to you and your family. It was so good to see Meg to hug her and to cry when sharing your most intimate birthing moments. My, you and your family have been most gracious to let us be involved in these most intimate experiences. And you and Stephan and your family are beautiful. Thank you for your willingness to share your excitement, and your pain. It is very cathartic for your Internet family as well.
Please be well. I think of you both often.
Hugs - Ulla
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox <ublichfeldtfox@peoplepc.com>
Vashon, WA USA - Saturday, October 2, 2004 11:46 PM CDT
thinking of you today all the way from rainy north carolina. know there was lots of love and special moments shared by all. our love, scott and kris selig
kris selig <yardkid1@aol.com>
- Saturday, October 2, 2004 8:08 PM CDT
Dear Erica and Stefan
When David lost his newborn child, he arose from his bed and refreshed himself, went to the house of the Lord and worshipped. He then ended his fast and rejoined this world telling his household that while the child would not return to him, he knew, "I will go to him." 2Samuel 12:23
May this certainty of reunion
in that perfect life to come
sustain you both
between now and that joyous reunion;
bringing joy to you both,
and - to your marriage - unity,
as you continue to pursue
the life, ministry and witness
for which God has called you and joined you together.
Our thoughts and our prayers are with you today as you celebrate the life and witness of your precious NaomiRuth. May God bless, and strengthen you in your faith in Him and your relationship with each other.
We love you.
Larry and Valerie
Larry and Valerie Smith
Bellevue, Washington U S A - Saturday, October 2, 2004 4:17 PM CDT
Dear Erica and Stefan
When David lost his newborn child, he arose from his bed and refreshed himself, went to the house of the Lord and worshipped. He then ended his fast and rejoined this world telling his household that while the child would not return to him, he knew, "I will go to him." 2Samuel 12:23
May this certainty of reunion
in that perfect life to come
sustain you both
between now and that joyous reunion;
bringing joy to you both,
and - to your marriage - unity,
as you continue to pursue
the life, ministry and witness
for which God has called you and joined you together.
Our thoughts and our prayers are with you today as you celebrate the life and witness of your precious NaomiRuth. May God bless, and strengthen you in your faith in Him and your relationship with each other.
We love you.
Larry and Valerie
Larry and Valerie Smith
Bellevue, Washington U S A - Saturday, October 2, 2004 4:12 PM CDT
Dear Rikki - I read the entry from your sister Meggie that you had birthday yesterday. Delayed greetings and all my best wishes for you. That all your wishes come true.
Tomorrow three weeks are past that you had born and lost your little girl. I will be in thoughts with you when you will celebrate Naomi Ruth's memorial service.
I wish you strength, hope that your familiy and friend will keep you up.
Love Barbara
Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Friday, October 1, 2004 9:13 AM CDT
Thank you for sharing via website and email the experience you went through with Naomi. Hermann and I are very sorry to hear of her passing, but are happy to see how strong the both of you are and the great support you have from friends and family. I am sure that it is a very difficult time for the both of you and we keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you strength and courage during this time and of coures, wish you all the best with your next pregnancy. Liebe Gruesse aus dem Schwarzwald, Karin und Hermann
Karin Bauer <kloisch@web.de>
Wildberg, Germany - Friday, October 1, 2004 2:44 AM CDT
Just letting you know that you are constantly on our minds...and in our prayers. Your precious family and friends will soon be there with you. Some may already be there! I know you are going to be surrounded with so much love! Soak it up, precious ones! Soak it up! Knowing that all of that love is just a mere glimpse of your Father's Love. I love to think of the Lord holding your Naomi in His Arms. That used to bring me comfort in regard to our Jeffrey. OH sure! I'd rather be holding him.....and I know you are feeling that way about Naomi. And the Lord understands that! His heart is stooped with yours....He is smiling with you when you smile....He is crying with you when you cry.....He is holding you both very close to His heart! May you sense it all throughout the days and the nights. May this next week be all that you are needing it to be! You are most loved Rikki and Stefan. Please know that!
All Our love to you......Diane for Ken and I
Diane Ramey <dianeramey@msn.com>
Bothell, WA USA - Friday, October 1, 2004 1:31 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Rikki!
I called your cell phone a few hours ago and wanted to talk to you and wish you a very happy birthday today. Instead, I talked to your voice mail and told you how much you are loved and how much we miss you.
I know your heart will be especially heavy the next few days with the memorial service around the corner, but please know that there are so many people who love you and Stefan and pray for you everyday.
I've been thinking about you all day long. I want to be with my favorite girlfriend today and spend her birthday with her and be able to hug her, pamper her, and comfort her.
I hope you have an extra special birthday. We're sending you big hugs!
All Our Love,
Dave & Dana
Dave & Dana Nelson <danan@qpointonline.com>
Auburn, WA USA - Thursday, September 30, 2004 8:11 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
I'm pulling all the last minute things together for my trip back down to San Jose this weekend. I find myself so excited to see you again. This time away from you has been really hard: not getting to hug you every day, and grieve with you, and fuss over you.
I hope you find the memorial service and gathering of many of your friends and family beneficial. I know it will be hard, but maybe seeing how Naomi's short life has touched so many others will add some joy to your sad hearts.
I don't know what else to say, except that I love you so much and am so glad I get to finally see you again tomorrow. And HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my little sister Rikki!
See you soon! All my love, Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, September 30, 2004 5:08 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan....
I have been following you from the onstart of your labor and delivery....to your entry this morning. I have been walking around today, doing my chores and such, mulling over in my mind...."How can I possibly express the emotions that are stirred within me as I have read and re-read the journal from others as well as yourself?" I have come to the conclusion.....I can't fully describe to you what's in my heart....no more than you being able to fully relay the depth of all that you are feeling in your heart and your spirit to others! But shame on me if I don't try! I find it interesting that today has been a day of me thinking and praying for you guys overtime....and thinking about your precious Naomi. And then it came to me....today is the anniversary of the day, 34 years ago, when Ken and I buried our son....Jeffrey Paul. He lived 4 months but was very ill and on the door of death the entire time he was here. Realizing this, I was rushed to all that we experienced pre-death and post-death. The things that people did and did not do.....fumbling around as best they could to say the right thing.....not knowing......it was the wrong thing! I had to keep reminding myself.....at least they tried to reach out! I just want you to know that my heart is reaching out to you both....and I can truly say.....I know what you are going through. And I am so thankful for that in your regard, because I really know how to pray for you. And I want you to be assured that you are being held up to The Father throughout the days and nights. Especially the nights! I am asking that the Holy Spirit comes to you, Himself, and through others, and ministers to you in unbelievable ways! I am praying regarding this coming week-end as you memorialize sweet Naomi. I pray it is a time that will be so precious, as you are surrounded by your amazing support members, and that it will be a time that will always put a smile on your face when you remember that day! Please know that my heart will be there with you all and I wish I could've come in person to give you a big hug and cry and laugh with you! There is so much one, who has walked this path, can pass on to another who is going through this......but I am confident you have great people around you who are giving you all the advice you need....and more! There IS such a thing as too many voices! But I want you to know.... Please know..... I AM here for you, in the present....and in the future.....if you need someone to relate to that's been there. OR just to say....."This sucks....When am I going to feel better?" Whatever! I am here for you! Please know that, Rikki and Stefan! You are right next to my heart.....and you will remain there! May our Precious Lord Jesus wrap His Loving Arms around you....and bring you peace....in the eye of the emotional storm you are in right now! Consider yourself hugged and kissed.....and a long hug again!
Praying Without Ceasing......Diane
Diane Ramey <dianeramey@msn.com>
Bothell, WA USA - Monday, September 27, 2004 9:13 PM CDT
Hi Rikki, Stefan and the adorable Jesse,
Just checking in. You can call anytime. Susie is home Mon,Wed and Fri and would love to talk to you too. We think about you everyday and can't wait to see you when you visit this fall. You know Bellingham is a great place to visit! We would love to have you at our house. Call anytime.
Love
Shelley, Susie and all the Bennetts
Shelley <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Monday, September 27, 2004 11:13 AM CDT
Life is such a miraculous gift.
Kaarin Taipale <kaarin@iclei.org>
Helsinki and Toronto, Finland and Canada - Monday, September 27, 2004 10:14 AM CDT
Erica & Stephan:
I am touched with many emotions while reading your journals recounting the anticipation & sadness, joy & pain surrounding the birth of beautiful Naomi. Please know my thoughts & prayers are with you....with much love,
Nancy Erickson
Redmond, WA USA - Sunday, September 26, 2004 6:03 PM CDT
To my dearest niece Naomi Ruth,
You would be 16 days old today. I miss you. I'm so glad I got to meet you, hold you, sing to you, kiss you, tell you I love you. But I so wish you were still here, cuddling in my baby sister's arms (and mine), getting bigger and stronger every day. It is so unfair. We are all busy busy busy planning your memorial service weekend. I wish we were instead planning your visit to Seattle, birthday parties, and other happier celebrations...
I knew that your life and death would change me inside, that I would never be the same person because now I am an auntie and now I have loved and lost you. But I was surprised to also be changed physically, instantly by your presence in my life. My eyes have changed. There is a constant sadness in my eyes. Even when I have managed to not shed a tear for hours or days, my eyes cannot hide what I feel. I look different. I don't recognize the person looking back at me in the mirror, and others notice it as well. I think this is exactly how it should be. Life is not as it was, nor should it be. You should impact my life every single day. And you do.
I love you and miss you so much.
Love, Auntie Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Sunday, September 26, 2004 12:50 AM CDT
Liebste Naomi,
jetzt bist du schon gegangen Kind,
und hast vom Leben nichts erfahren,
indes in unsern welken Jahren
wir Alten noch gefangen sind.
Ein Atemzug, ein Augenspiel,
der Erde Licht und Luft zu schmecken,
war dir genug und schon zuviel,
du schliefest ein, nicht mehr zu wecken.
Vielleicht in diesem Hauch und Blick
sind alle Spiele, alle Mienen – des ganzen Lebens dir erschienen,
erschrocken zogst du dich zurueck.
Vielleicht wenn unsere Augen, Kind,
einmal erloeschen, wird uns scheinen,
sie haetten von der Erde, Kind,
nicht mehr gesehen als die deinen.
Hermann Hesse
Liebe, liebe Erika und lieber Stefan,
durch Verluste erfahren wir, wie verletzlich wir sind;
Wir lernen, das wir keine Garantie fuer die Menschen und Dinge haben,
die uns am kostbarsten sind.
Wenn du traurig bist, schau in dein Herz,
und du wirst sehen, dass du in Wahrheit um das weinst,
was deine Freude war.
Am Ende kommt das Annehmen und damit kommt der Friede.
Heute trage ich die Narben meines bitteren Kummers.
In gewisser Weise betrachte ich sie als Auszeichnungen.
Das sind ein paar Zitate die ich nach dem Tod von Judith gesammelt habe und die mich auch heute noch bewegen. Ich werde weiterhin an euch denken.
In Liebe
Eure Conny
Conny Brückl <conny.brueckl@gmx.de>
Hemhofen, Germany - Sunday, September 26, 2004 11:35 AM CDT
Rikki and Stephan,
How fortunate you were to be able to spend even a few short hours with her, to let her know that her time in this world was filled with love and support from her parents and family. I'm sure you received the announcement about Mia being born and we said a little prayer for you and for Naomi, as she has brought so much more meaning to your lives and to ours. We didn't meet her, but we looked at our own children and reinforced the thought that all children are put on this earth for a specific reason and no matter how long they are here, they carry with them a light that illuminates the lives of their parents and family that shines forever in their hearts. Her spirit is with you and we know that He will see you through. We love you, Stefan and Naomi. I applaud your courage and honesty, for I know it will help many people through there own tough times and loss.
Rhonda Smith-Banchero <mabanchero@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 24, 2004 2:24 PM CDT
Your courage and faith have been a great example for those of us that have followed your trials from a distance. I am grateful that I know you and your family. Naomi's blessed sprit will be with you always. I look forward to meeting Naomi on the other side. We love you and our thoughts are with you.
Kevin & Erin Sylvester <kevin@zotes.com>
Salt Lake City, UT USA - Thursday, September 23, 2004 11:05 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan
I am so sorry to hear about your baby dying. My heart just filled with pain to read your last journal entry. I am so happy that you are allowing yourself to feel the pain of this loss. I believe in the pain we truly experience God's presence. Scott and I know this pain to a small degree when we lost our daughter early on in our last pregnancy just a few years ago. Since that time, I find that I live one day at a time. In the beginning, it was just survival. Now, this mind-set helps me keep my eyes on Jesus and not worry. May God bless you with the strength to keep coming to Him with your pain, tears, and anger. And may the Lord surround you both with angels to lift you up....Ps. 91.
Patty and Scott Mossing
bothell, wa usa - Wednesday, September 22, 2004 11:31 PM CDT
Hi Rikki & Stefan,
I am so amazed and inspired by your faithfulness through little Naomi's birth and death. I had know idea you were even pregnant. The Lord works in mysterious ways...I was having a horrible day today home with my two boys and was just quietly praying to God to reveal to me the lessons I am learning as a stay at home mom and in my struggles to just make it through each day. I turned on my computer and the message from SVCC was there...I normally read through this quickly but today I read every line and then I opened your website and was over joyed by your faith and overwhelmed by the passing of your sweet little girl. God truely wanted me to see this and to know that in the midst of my life there is so much going on out in the world and around us. I am proud of you and Stefan for you amazing attitude. I am wishing you the best and with you in prayer as your sister in Christ Jesus.
Jessica Cavanaugh on behalf of the Cavanaugh Clan <jjcav97@comcast.net>
Maple Valley, WA USA - Wednesday, September 22, 2004 4:38 PM CDT
Dear Rikki, Stephan and all the family of love,
I have a poem on my desk that I look at most every day, and wanted to share it with you, today it is through my tears for all of us.
"God has not promised skies always blue, flower-strewn pathways all our lives through. God has not promised sun without rain, joy without sorrow, peace without pain. But God has promised strength for the day, rest for the laborer, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy, undying love."
May all of you find strength and hope from this, as I have for many years.
Love, Carol
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, September 22, 2004 1:14 PM CDT
Hi Rikki -
I am happy and sad.
I am happy to hear you are loved by so many people, judging by all the letters in the guestbook. After reading your lovely letter, I am happy that you have found someone to share your life with. I am saddened by the loss of your daughter but you seem to gave a great support system to help you thru this.
I haven't seen you for about 20 years and you still look the same, a beautiful young woman. It was great to see a picture of you entire family again. Please tell everyone that they haven't aged a bit.
I have a co worker that had 3 miscarrages in the last few years but had a beautiful daughter 6 months ago. She had that same great attitude and didn't let it get her down. She knew that when the time was right, she would have a baby.
I hope you are doing ok.
Love,
Bekki
Bekki Duboff <bekki_duboff@mindspring.com>
san francicso, CA USA - Wednesday, September 22, 2004 2:19 AM CDT
Hi Rikki and Stephan,
I read through your journal today and cried all over again. That night I rushed over when I got the call, but now I've seen a fuller picture of what was going on... May God's strength continue to uphold you! I'm so glad I got a chance to see and hold Naomi. Can't wait to see her again someday in heaven!
Kurt
Kurt Jones <kurt@valleychurch.org>
San Jose, CA - Tuesday, September 21, 2004 5:22 PM CDT
RIKKI AND STEFAN. I AM SO SORRY ABOUT THE LOSS OF NAOMI . WE HAVE NOT HAD A WORKING COMPUTER FOR MONTHS AND I DID NOT KNOW WHAT YOU WERE GOING THROUGH . YOU ARE BOTH AMAZING AND INSPIRATIONAL. NAOMI IS BEAUTIFUL AND WAS VERY BLESSED TO HAVE YOU AS HER PARENTS AND SUCH AN AWESOME EXTENDED FAMILY. I KNOW SHE IS UP IN HEAVEN AND PATTY IS LETTING HER KNOW ALL ABOUT ALL OF YOU. KNOW THAT OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. LOVE THERESA, BRAD, EMILY AND PHILIP
THERESA LEHAN-ANDERSON <leh-ander@msn.com>
SEATTLE, WA USA - Monday, September 20, 2004 10:04 PM CDT
Rikki & Stefan,
My first reaction upon hearing about your situation and your loss was "How could this horrible thing happen to sweet, loving, wonderful Rikki?!? This is so unfair!"
My second reaction was "I am truly, unbelievably humbled by your strength and courage". I am absolutely in awe. Words cannot describe.
I have not seen Rikki since we were kids - I practically lived at the Pageler house when I was in grade school (bless you Margaret and Jack!!). We lost touch after Junior High, but my sister has kept in touch with Jenny, which is how I was directed to this web site.
I pray that your pain & suffering will ease with each passing day, and that you remember forever the joy at having known Naomi for those few short moments.
Love, Liz
Liz (Poppe) Steppe <steppes@juno.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, September 20, 2004 4:02 PM CDT
You are in my thoughts and prayer's. I am so sorry for your loss. Words are not enough but please know I am thinking of you and sending energy your way to help deal with your loss.
Robyn Plute <rplute@msn.com>
North Bend, WA USA - Friday, September 17, 2004 4:50 PM CDT
I thought of Naomi today and smiled. I also said a prayer for you Rikki & Stephan for comfort and strength,and I said a prayer for Jesse as he will feel your loss sadness as well. My heart aches for you, I know your pain...I have had seven beautiful babies in heaven (all miscarriages). Their brothers Ty & Kevin say that they are all their little sisters. They are such a precious gift.
The grief of losing Naomi will never go away but life does go on, like others have said, you both need to take the time to grieve. Don't apologize to anyone, you shouldn't be expected to. Reach out to those closes to you when you feel like it. Most importantly hold tightly to one another, your love for one another is so amazing. And just love your little girl for all of eternity, she is your special angel.
Much love,
Phyllis...for Kelly & I
Phyllis Pyle <phylspyle@hotmail.com>
Edmonds, Wa USA - Friday, September 17, 2004 3:51 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
…..one week is past……all days in thoughts are with you. Every evening lights a candle for Naomi. Naomi was such a beautiful little girl. I am so sad for your loss of Naomi. Sometimes the life is hard, we don’t understand and we think it is unfair.
For you is the loss of your own child painfully as everything else. Nothing will be as before.
As my father died 1967 with 35 years (I was 10 years old) his mother (my grandma) said - it is as died a part of myself. I have never forgotten this sentence.
Take up time for your mourning - it needs time.
Love Barbara
Barbara <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Friday, September 17, 2004 10:19 AM CDT
Rikki and Stefan,
We continue to hold you and Naomi in our thoughts and prayers every day. We love you.
Debbie and Sean <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 17, 2004 1:44 AM CDT
Dearest Erica,
I prayed for Melissa and Naomi every day. For a miracle. I even felt like God showed me a miracle with Melissa - not complete but something to hold on to. And in addition to my daily prayers, we prayed for Naomi and Melissa every Wed night at prayer team.
I am SO sorry for both of you guys (you and Stefan and Melissa's family)
I have only been pregnant once, and miscarried. I often talk to the child - which I believe to be a boy - knowing he's with the Lord, and know that he is very excited while he's growing and waiting for me to join him there. A Pastor by the name of Jesse Duplantis had a 'heaven' experience. I might have already shared this with you - not sure. Would have been a long time ago. When he was in heaven he saw many incredible things, but the children impacted him more that anything. There were children all over heaven all different ages. The children that were 'alone' (without parents in heaven), miscarried, aborted, etc were being raised by Jesus, the apostles, other christians, etc. Jesse said that all those kids talked about was the day when they were going to finally get to meet their parents. The children grow in age and appearance just like here, and as they grow in heaven and time passes they are taught about God and his ways by all those that are in heaven. Jesse saw a family excitedly preparing a home for a big party. Everywhere the little girl would throw flowers on the ground they would stay - they were alive not dead. Jesse asked the little girl what the celebration was for - she told him 'My mommy is coming home today!!'.
Jesse was amazed that even in the midst of such perfection, beauty and the presence of God and the angels, the children are breathlessly waiting for their parents arrival.
I won't know my child when I go to heaven, but I know he'll know me.
I'll know Naomi - she'll be the one with her momma's eyes.
All my love
Christine Burleigh
Christine Burleigh <boodog15@comcast.net>
Renton, WA George Bush Central - Thursday, September 16, 2004 10:12 PM CDT
You and your family are in my prayers.
Michael L Barber <mbarber53@aol.com>
Charlotte, NC usa - Thursday, September 16, 2004 9:47 PM CDT
Dearest Rikki and Stefan,
What a beautiful Mama you are Rikki... Naomi touches the lives of so many of us. It's exciting to think that Naomi must have known the impact that even a few precious hours would make. Even through 66 hours of labor, her determination to make a grand entrance into our world was a miracle in itself. Each hour of life was truly a gift.
Dave and I are so deeply touched by your strength, love and courage throughout these past months. We've never been more proud to be your friends as we are today! Rikki, your honesty about how you have been feeling the past few days is heart-wrenching. To know our precious girlfriend is suffering, breaks our hearts. We want to tell you that WE LOVE YOU. What can we do to help you and Stefan? "You just call out my name, and you know wherever I am, I'll come runnin' to see you again. Winter, Spring, Summer, or Fall, all you've got to do is call and I'll be there. Yes, I will. You've got a friend. When the sky above you, should turn dark and full of clouds, and that ol' north wind should begin to blow, close your eyes and think of me and soon I will be there, to brighten up even your darkest nights."
Take your time to grieve. Everyone understands your emotions right now. Soon you'll feel like smiling and giggling again. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. All Our Love, Dave & Dana
Dana & Dave Nelson <danan@qpointonline.com>
Auburn, WA USA - Thursday, September 16, 2004 7:02 PM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
Our thoughts are with you and your family.. we send you all our love.
Glenn, Julie and the girls
Glenn Davis <davis.glenn@siemens.com>
Tokyo, Japan - Wednesday, September 15, 2004 8:54 PM CDT
Hi Rikki,
I am so sad for your loss of beautiful Naomi. I keep thinking about her these days especially when I'm holding my own little Jessica. As a mother of two, I cannot imagine what I would do if that happen to me. So go ahead to do whatever you want to do now. But I would like to let you know she will always in our mind. I know it might take sometime, but we all hope to see your smile again.
Love from raining Seattle
Cora & Daniel Yuen <corayuen@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, September 15, 2004 0:52 AM CDT
Greetings in the Lord! What a beautiful journal of God's love and support during this difficult time! Thanks for sharing your experiences. The journal has been moving and touching. May God continue to bless you with His love, strength, encouragement, comfort, peace, and rest everyday. My prayers go out to you. God bless.
Anna Wong <blue_hawaii51@yahoo.com>
Mountain View, CA U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 14, 2004 3:56 PM CDT
My family and I have shared in your grief and your joy. We send you our love.
Jim Wren <wren@trialfirm.com>
Waco, TX - Tuesday, September 14, 2004 2:25 PM CDT
I have just been filled in on the circumstances and my emotions feel like they have belly flopped into a blender set on frappe. Mostly I am thankful to know a family (and I guess that includes all of you)that personifies love, unbelievable courage and positivity. There is so little magic in the world - thank you for sharing. My thoughts are with you. I will make sure to light a candle, look for errant baloons, eat some cake, and let the spirit of this celebration saturate my heart so that I might continue to share its beauty with others. Thank you for being who you are. Mahalo
Matt Springer <matt_springer@hotmail.com>
kaunakakai, HI USA - Monday, September 13, 2004 7:52 PM CDT
I was also one of the people with Viggo that heard about you while having Casey as a trainer. The words don't come easy at times like this. We all want to say so much but what do you say! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers....
Dee <deedldee1969@yahoo.com>
Idaho Falls, ID USA - Monday, September 13, 2004 4:54 PM CDT
Erica & Stefan
My heart is so full of so many emotions but strangely, gratitude that you would allow all of us to be the beneficiaries of the winesss of NaomiRuth's life. It seemed so painfully short, conception to death, measured in months, yet look at the lives whose faith walk she has touched, enriched, challenged, perhaps even awakened to the promise of eternal salvation! God led me this morning to Psalm 23. Yeah, yeah, we've all heard that before...but did you know God gives us 16 promises in those 6 verses that are all we need..I hope it reconfirms and comforts you in a new way. Know that Larry and I love you.
Psalm 23
1) The Lord is my Shepherd,(RELATIONSHIP)
2) I shall not be in want (SUPPLY)
3) He makes me lie down in green pastures, (REST)
4) He leads me beside quiet waters (REFRESHMENT)
5) He restores my soul (HEALING)
6) He guides me in paths of righteousness (GUIDANCE)
7) for His name's sake. (PURPOSE)
8) Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow death (TESTING)
9) I will fear no evil (PROTECTION)
10) for You are with me. (FAITHFULNESS)
11) Your rod and your staff (DISCIPLINE)
12) they comfort me. (CONSOLATION-HOPE)
13) You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. (ABUNDANCE)
14) You annoint my head with oil, my cup overflows. (BLESSING)
15) Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, (SECURITY)
16) and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever. (ETERNITY)
Valerie Smith
Bellevue, Wa - Monday, September 13, 2004 1:05 PM CDT
We had heard of you thru your whole 9 months and we were excited to share in your happiness and now share your sorrow. Naomi must have been an Angel already to be taken by God so quickly. Casey has kept us informed thru your pregnacy and we always saw your pictures. Please know that this is God's will for Naomi and our prayers are with you now, she is free and is lucky to have had such wonderful parents like you!
Viggo Madsen <Viggo.Madsen@qwest.com>
Idaho Falls, ID US of A - Monday, September 13, 2004 12:59 AM CDT
Dear Meg,
I am so very sorry to hear about Naomi, but it is clear that her time with you all was filled with love. What beautiful and utterly amazing parents she has. Thank you for sharing this profound, joyous & heart wrenching journey with us all. I was unaware of Naomi's condition until a very short while ago. Your family has been in my heart and tears ever since.
You're family is amazing and may peace find you all along this journey. I am glad for you all that you were given the gift of Naomi's presence for a short while. Naomi is beautiful!
My thoughts, prayers, tears, love and heart are with you.
Love,
Heidi Dudley
Heidi Dudley <heidi@skwwc.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, September 13, 2004 12:23 AM CDT
Finally I am able to write to send our best wishes to your entire family. Thank you so much for sharing your story --our family has learned from your family's love and courage. With love from all of us, -the Cohan family
Ann L. Cohan (friend of Meg) <ann@bergmansenn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, September 13, 2004 11:59 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
I was the last days in thoughts always with you. I have spoken about you and Naomi with my family and also with good friends. I am really glad I could share this time with you. For you both it was as yet the greates challenge in your life. It will need a lot of time to accept what is happen and turing this time you will never forget why and for whom you have done it than you have seen and felt your little girl. I will again write that I admire you both. I also think your decision to do what you have done was the best way first at all for your sweet little girl Naomi. She could feel your unlimited love which will never end. Your and your families online support was so natural as the life is. Rikki you had a very hard job but you have done it so wonderful. I was always glad to see you at the picutres smiling and bright eyed - it was unbelievable. I hope your smiling will return soon. Long time ago I had also a hard time but what I have learned at this time you have to take the day as it is and make the best. Today I don’t wait for big events, I am every day happy about the little joy’s in my life. It could be a beautiful sunset, a rainbow, a butterly and so on. I hope you both will find very soon your every day’s little joy’s and please be glad to have you both and your memory. Do all what you feel like. I am not a native english speaker and so I don’t know if I always found the right words but I am shure you know what I mean. Love Barbara
Barbara <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Monday, September 13, 2004 11:30 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan - Your love, courage, and graciousness to share this intimate part of your lives and the life of little Naomi Ruth with all of us is truly a gift. Thank you. You are surrounded by the love given in return and from above. Naomi's presence has touched us all. She couldn't have picked better parents and family to receive her during her short time here. I wish you restful days ahead and continued peace in your hearts.
Shawn Barrett (Meg's friend) <mycristagalli@aol.com>
Seattle , WA USA - Monday, September 13, 2004 11:21 AM CDT
Meg,
Knowing that your entire family has been in the thoughts of many in Seattle. As always you are an inspiration
to the Irvines, Traci's inlaws.
Peace be with you and Naomi's family.
Margaret Irvine
Seattle, Wa. King - Monday, September 13, 2004 11:18 AM CDT
I am a friend of Casey Murray. My whole family has you in our prayers. I pray the Father will comfort and guide you. What a precious gift he blessed you with. And remember all thing work out for those whol love him. I can't wait to meet you all one day!!!:)- The Brediger's
Stephen Brediger <stephenbr24@hotmail.com>
Idaho Falls, ID USA - Monday, September 13, 2004 10:45 AM CDT
Hi Rikki and Stefan,
I'm so impressed that about your positive approach of life and wish you all the best.
Your courage is outstanding !!!
Naomi Ruth will be forever in your hearts.
Frank
Frank Sauer <frank.sauer@siemens.com>
Erlangen, BY Germany - Monday, September 13, 2004 4:47 AM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
We don't know each other but I am a friend of Melissa Dean's from Seattle and she sent me the link to your web site. My thoughts, prayers, and tears have been with you since Melissa first told me about you. I am so touched by your joyful, loving celebration of Naomi's short life. You are an inspiration to all! May God continue to give you strength and bless you in the coming days.
Teresa Willson <willsontrio@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, September 13, 2004 1:07 AM CDT
sweet rikki, stephan and the rest of the family~
my heart is both bleeding and grateful for your willingness to share this transcendent time - naomi is beautiful and the picture of the whole family gives evidence to how sacred these moments. it is thru your openness that naomi's love was given voice. what an angel she is to have created such a profound experience of god's love. as naomi is held in all that is perfect, we will tenaciously pray that in every moment you also feel held in perfect, tangible, nourishing love. we grieve and celebrate with you. lots of love~ tina, christian and chloe
Tina Sellers <tsellers@spu.edu>
Seattle, WA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 9:29 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
I could feel the smiling faces in Heaven and on Earth reading the wonderful journey of Naomi and you. Naomi’s short stop here has been a blessing to many of us.
I did not have a chance to check Naomi’s website after 7 PM, Friday. I found out about Naomi’s passing only a few hours ago, when I arrived in Beijing. I am so glad that you invited me to your home last Thursday to experience, in person, the love and the faith of you and your family.
My prayers are with you.
Gladys Wu <wugladys@yahoo.com>
Beijing, China - Sunday, September 12, 2004 3:42 PM CDT
Boehmers and Pagelers,
I have been checking Naomi’s website several times a day since I received Meg's first e-mail, and thinking often of Rikki and Stefan and your entire family.
Reading the journal entries and guestbook messages from friends and family, I have felt incredibly privileged to be a witness to this event. Rikki and Stefan, I am deeply moved by your willingness to experience not only the profound sadness of Naomi’s death, but also the equally profound joys of her development, birth, and life. I am also moved by the deep expressions of love and support from all of your family and friends. Naomi truly was blessed to spend her few short hours on earth with such an amazing, loving group of people. And I feel blessed to have been a distant witness to this journey, to have learned a bit more about the power of acceptance, faith, and love.
You all are in my thoughts and prayers right now. I wish you comfort.
Love,
Hank Balson (Meg's friend)
Hank Balson <HankBalson@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA U.S.A. - Sunday, September 12, 2004 2:47 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
So much love and compassion pour from the family and friend shot with Naomi Ruth. We appreciate your transparency and generosity to be included in this mysteriously wonderful journey. Secured by your love, she lives on with Mom in heaven. Can you imagine the great joy Great-Grandma Margaret is having embracing her? We send you our love.
Jennifer and Dick
Jennifer Hawthorne <spress@earthlink.net>
Alhambra, CA USA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 1:22 PM CDT
Estoy segura que Naomi Ruth está orgullosa de tenerlos como padres, ella es un angelito que está al lado de Dios ,desde allí les dará muchas fuerzas de seguir adelante y pronto les den muchos hermanitos!,Su recuerdo siempre estará con todos nosotros que seguimos paso a paso su historia , Mucha suerte en el camino que continuaran juntos , Los recuerdan sus amigos Joachim ,Dalhía y Sebastian Kraemer
Dalhía <jokra@t-online.de>
Grossenseebach, Germany - Sunday, September 12, 2004 12:35 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stephan,
I've visited your web page so many times... each time overcome with emotion and at a loss for words. But I've been keeping close tabs on you, cousin, thanks to this wonderful site, and am just continuously amazed (as I was when I saw you in July) by your strength, positivity, love, and faith. I don't think many people could have embraced an experience like yours as gracefully as the two of you have.
So, thank you both for sharing this truly remarkable time in your lives with us. To say that we have been touched by Naomi's life and by your love for her is an understatement. We are so happy that you were able to spend those precious hours with her and with all of your family surrounding you. When I read the journal entry that Naomi was lying on Rikki asleep, I cried (as I'm doing now). I know that is a feeling that cannot be replaced and I'm so happy you experienced it. I wish we could have been there yesterday to join in celebrating her life...but we were with you in spirit nonetheless.
We hope to see you soon... love to all the Pagelers. Our thoughts are with you all the time.
Love,
Natasha, Victor, Andre, and Arman
Natasha Hillis <taline71@yahoo.com>
Ventura, CA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 11:28 AM CDT
You are a true pillar of srength! We are so touched by your faith and devotion to God! When we saw you at Rosanne's house at that one Bible-study you were glowing with the prescence of the Lord! Were very glad we met you! We honor you guy's as stones for Jesus!! We know beyond a shadow of doubt that the Lord has major blessings coming your way!! You will be in our prayers!! God bless you both!!
Perry and Cheryl Spalinger <sntper@sbcglobal.net>
Mt. View, CA United States - Sunday, September 12, 2004 11:26 AM CDT
Stefan & Rikki ~
We have never met. My family and I are missionaries to Spain and we know your doula and friend Melissa Dean. We have been praying for you and your family and will continue to do so. Thank you for the pictures. Everyone looks so happy and blessed. We continue to pray for God's strength and His blessings on your precious family. You truly are a shining example of God's light in a dark world. Know that you will remain in our prayers.
Bendiciones (blessings),
Rob and April Jones and family
April Jones <jones-and-company@juno.com>
Tarragona, SPAIN - Sunday, September 12, 2004 3:59 AM CDT
Ricki and Stephan, We haven't met, I'm a friend of Meg's from Trial Lawyers College. I feel like I know you, right now I'm in Meg's home surrounded by pictures of all of you. I heard the news last night of Naomi's birth, I heard the news this afternoon of her death. My first reaction was sadness but after seeing your website, I see the beauty that she was with you for almost four hours, those must have been the best few hours in your life. I had a little cousin with the same medical condition who brought intense joy to our lives for 3 months, I just wish you could have enjoyed Naomi as long as we enjoyed Baby Kristen. We didn't really talk about Baby Kristen once she was gone, I think you've shown me that Naomi won't stop being after a few short hours. Love, Lisa from Bellingham
Lisa Marie Waldvogel <hippiewarrior2004@yahoo.com>
Bellingham, wa USA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 2:14 AM CDT
Dearest Rikki und Stefan,
All our thoughts are with you and your family.
We admire your unbelievable strenghth you received through your love to God and wonderful family and friends.
We thought a lot about the news you told us when you visited us a few months ago hoping all the best for you. Congratulations to have given life to beautiful Naomi Ruth. The pictures speak 1000 words. You are all so beautiful.
We wanted to share with you the story of our very good friends Kathrin and Joerg in Germany who have been through a very tragic loss of their baby in 2001, but on Christmas Day 2003!!! they gave birth to beautiful twins girls... only possible through their deep love to each other never giving up hope and faith.
Our Love to you
Leay, Lothar with Johnny, JJ and Tobias
Leay und Lothar Metten and family <lmetten@yahoo.com>
Roseville, CA USA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 2:07 AM CDT
Thank you for sharing your life w/ others, my family and I have been praying for you and will continue to do so. You are quite an example to us all on the acceptance of Gods sovereign plan for our lives. Thank you
In Him,
Cera Malech
Cera Malech
Morgan HIll, CA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 11:47 PM CDT
Ricki and Stephan,
I've been sittting at the computer now for about 15 minutes....not really sure what to write. As soon as I start to type tears start as well! I hope you two are doing well, your strength amazes me (send some my way!) I'm so happy that you were able to spend time with her before she passed. I've been thinking about all of you everyday and will continue to do so. I send my love from Seattle.
Megan Walters <meganwalters2001@yahoo.com>
Seattle, Wa - Saturday, September 11, 2004 9:44 PM CDT
we've been thinking of you all day, and of little naomi. it is amazing how this precious child has touched our hearts so deeply. don't we all wish we can pass on such a gift during our lives here on earth? we are saddened by her passing, but thrilled you were able to have some time with her. hope today's tribute to naomi was as beautiful as her.........thanks for sharing the picture of you all. our love - kris and the north carolina seligs
kris selig <yardkid1@aol.com>
durham, nc usa - Saturday, September 11, 2004 8:55 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan,
Your strength, courage, and joy has been so evident and inspiring. We wish you much love as you go through this process. Thank you for sharing this time of your life with all of us. You are loved immensely and we wish you the best.
Sally and Heather
Sally and Heather Hiatt-Rusk <willis01@comcast.net>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 7:53 PM CDT
You don't know me personaly, but I am one of the Christian Doulas here in San Jose who has been praying for you.
You are such a wonderful family. My prayers are still with you. I wish that I could give you a hug, and cry with you, the tears of joy, and of sorry. But I know that Our GOD has his arms around you, and that your little girl is in his arms.
God Bless
Bev
Bev Young Reed <SanJoseDoula@aol.com>
San Jose, CA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 7:25 PM CDT
Dear Stephen&Rikki, What a beautiful family ! Im sorry I can't be with you today but know you are in my heart & mind. I want to share with you a verse I read the day Erick went to his garden in the sky. Psalm : 139: 13-16 For you created my inmost being:you knit me together in my mothers womb ,I praise you because I am fearfully & wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depts of the earth your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. I send all my love to your family & support friends. God bless. Love Connie
Connie Bernhardt <connieskats2@hotmail.com>
Kirkland, WA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 5:03 PM CDT
Naomi was as beautiful as her family, friends and extended families all loved her to be ... She will always remain in our memories ... With peace I pray her grace will shine on us all as a beacon of love now and forever more ....
Patty Lewis <lawpal@hotmail.com >
San Diego, CA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 4:30 PM CDT
Dear Erica & Stefan,
A candle will light all the night remembering us for Naomi. What could we write now? We send all of our love for you.
Julianna & Tamas Stefan <electra@freemail.hu>
Szigetszentmiklos, Hungary - Saturday, September 11, 2004 3:17 PM CDT
What a wonderful job you all did providing a loving cocoon for Naomi in her short life. I am so impressed by all that Rikki and Stefan went through to bring her into the world, what an expression of love! And I could feel the strength of the "entourage" too! It was great to know the Boehmer's had so much support. Thanks so much for sharing your experience with us! We love you! The Hamptons
Leslie <hamptonl@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 1:44 PM CDT
So many emotions the last 24 hours! Praise God for the miracle of getting to hold Naomi, hear her precious cry and to celebrate her very first birthday! I wish I could be at your party for her and give you a huge hug -- may God continue to bless you as you walk with a new understanding of how deep and passionate his love is for you, his precious child.
Malia Ansberry
- Saturday, September 11, 2004 1:25 PM CDT
Dearest Rikki & Stefan,
It is really hard to put into words what we are feeling. We couldn't send a message last night because we were so sad for you both and your families. The pictures of Little Naomi were just precious and she was a beautiful little baby girl. Be strong for each other and we are sure your family will be there for you both! We leave you with this poem and our thoughts and prayers continue for all of you.
God saw that Naomi was getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So he put her tiny hand in His
and whispered, "Come With Me."
With tearful eyes and broken hearts,
you watched her fade away.
Although you loved her dearly,
you could not make her stay.
A precious heart stopped beating,
tiny hands to rest.
God broke your hearts to prove to us,
that He only takes the BEST.
A million times we thought of you,
a million times we've cried.
If love alone could have saved her,
she never would have died.
In life you loved her dearly,
in death you love her still.
In your hearts she will hold a Special place
no one will ever fill.
It broke your hearts to lose her,
but she didn't go alone.
For part of you went with her,
the day God took her home.
We love you all and God Bless,
Susie, John, Nick & Justin
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN US - Saturday, September 11, 2004 1:09 PM CDT
Naomi,
beloved,
how many prayed that you could stay for an hour;
that your mother would know
the warmth of your skin
against hers,
the pleasure of comforting your cry,
the touch of your tongue
at her breast,
the weight of your precious life
in her arms.
God heard those prayers
and He smiled;
an hour He granted, two hours,
three hours and more.
And then God
bent all the way down to earth
and lifted Naomi
ever so gently in His arms
resting her warmth against His chest.
And he smiled.
He's smiling still.
Marcia Davis-Cannon <mdcannon2@yahoo.com>
MountainView, CA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 12:51 AM CDT
Rikki & Stephan - We went to bed so sad last night, words could not express how we were feeling. Our comfort was your faith and knowing you were surrounded by the most important thing in life, a truely loving and caring family. Take care of yourselves and each other through this intense time. We love you both with all our hearts and will never forget your beautiful baby.
Vicky & Jose <vdoyle@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 10:59 AM CDT
Rikki and Stefan,
What an honor and privilege it was to spend the labor (65 hours), the birth and the passing of Naomi with you. You are both so amazingly strong and compassionate, not to mention generous with your love and your faith. There is no question that in Naomi's short time here on earth she felt a lifetime of love - from the hundreds of people refreshing their webpages, to the thousands of people praying for her; from the friends and family that gathered at your house to the family you packed into the delivery room. But most of all, from the intensity of the love and compassion you showed her from her first breath to her last.
Naomi will be part of us forever, for that we are all truly grateful. But I will also take what I learned from the two of you - about strength, about courage, about faith, about love - and grow from it. Thank you so much for being who you are and for sharing with me - with all of the people you love - your most precious moments. You are remarkable.
Jon Pageler <jpageler@hotmail.com>
San Francisco, CA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 10:55 AM CDT
Your beautiful story will remain always in our hearts -
ourhearts are heavy for you and at the same time we are
so proud to have known this story - we can't imagine how
many people you have helped by sharing your story. Naomi Ruth will reign in heaven with pride for her loving parents
Again, may God's love continue to guide you both.
cecelia pellizzari <cecepell@inreach.com>
los altos, ca usa - Saturday, September 11, 2004 10:54 AM CDT
Hello Family,
I am currently teaching in a Christian-based school grades K-2. Each morning the students have assembly where they learn a Bible Verse for the week. A recent verse found a special place in my mind and in my heart. I would like to share it with you since it so preciously applies to you at this moment and time in your lives: Nehemiah 8:10
Nehemiah said, "Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks...This day is sacred to the Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength."
We are so happy and yet so sad. The question is not, Why us? but rather, What is to be learned? Continue the faith for what has happened is God's will. Lift all of this up to Him. Please remember that if the Lord brings you to it, He will bring you through it.
Love, Laura, Don and Jaclen Moxley
Laura, Don and Jaclen Moxley (cousins) <lauramoxley@alltel.net>
Granville, OH USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 10:12 AM CDT
Carrie and I are sitting in her living room in Houston loving you, Rikki. We are so proud of you and Stefan and we will never forget Naomi. Aloha, Aunt Nancy
Nancy Lundsgaard <nancylunds@netscape.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 9:10 AM CDT
This morning Sean went out early in the windy, storm-a-comin' weather and came back a minute later carrying a white balloon on a string - the kind with a loop on the end where it was tied to a child's wrist. He said, "Look what I found. It's from Naomi's birthday party. She wanted us to celebrate with her." We'll light our Naomi candle again today as we, too, celebrate her brief but shining life, that has touched so many people around the world. We love you all. Hugs all around.
Debbie and Sean <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 9:08 AM CDT
Big Hugs to everyone.
Sending all our love,
Chris and Sharon
sharona <ricesharona@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, September 11, 2004 9:04 AM CDT
To all of you.....what a sweet, precious family photograph..a heartbreakingly beautiful portrait of an amazing family.
My spirit will be with you today as you celebrate Naomi's life and your love for her and each other..
Love,
Katlin Larimer(aunt Meggie's pal)
Katlin Larimerh <kplarimer@aol.com>
Omaha, NE USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 9:02 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan, and the rest of Naomi's family: I am so happy for you that you all got to share Naomi's brief but beautiful life with her, and that you all got to tell her and show her how very much you love her. I can't begin to know the pain you all are feeling to have lost her so soon. Rikki and Stefan, I know your faith has made you both incredibly strong and able to focus on the gift of this experience. Rikki, you worked so hard to bring your daughter into this world. This was literally a labor of love. I admire you both. I wish you all peace and comfort and sweet memories of your precious baby girl. Love, Cindy (Auntie Meggie's friend)
Cindy Smith <cks@montanalaw.com>
Missoula, MT USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 7:45 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan, I am quite unable to write anything right now, still in tears, but I wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and your sweet little daughter.
So sad that you just had a few hours, but those hours will last forever.
Others wrote it before, but I want to thank you as well for this wonderful webpage and how you shared everything with all of us. I read your news almost daily - thanks again.
Love, also from Jürgen and the twins,
Petra
Petra Kliemt <pjkliemt@yahoo.de>
Baiersdorf, Germany - Saturday, September 11, 2004 5:40 AM CDT
What should I write now ? I am sitting here and reading all the entries again and again. Very happy to see that Naomi was born alive. Deeply sad that she has such a short time with you. But this time was full of love and harmony so she could go peaceful to heaven. In all of your hearts she will live on. The time is to short and the way is to long to come tomorrow. If I can do anything for you please let me know. Love Barbara
Barbara <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Saturday, September 11, 2004 4:21 AM CDT
Dearest Rikki and Stefan,
Even 1500 miles away, I smiled for your family when Naomi came to You. I smile for You still because You were blessed with time to hold Naomi in your arms and Love Her- and Naomi Loved you. Even now She still Loves You.
Some people live their whole lives never blessed with having children. I feel if You were to talk to them, they would tell You their loss is so much more than yours.
I have such joy and deep sadness for You and Naomi this morning. Meg has shared Naomi's story with people all around the country. I wanted your family to know Naomi has had an impact on me, and others as well.
Naomi is still with You. She will never leave You.
Happy Birthday Naomi- I Love You,
Tommy
Tommy Johnson <thjatty@attglobal.net>
Texarkana, AR USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 2:41 AM CDT
Dear Ricky and Stephan
We woke here in Germany this morning and logged on straight away. Congratulations on the birth of your first child - a lovely daughter Naomi Ruth. I was very excited to see that Naomi arrived safely and alive into the world. Ricky - you did an awesome job. Delivering a baby is a momentus and intense experience - and one that is hard to put into words. You did great it seems.
From the journal entries it seems Naomi had some wonderful hours sharing your love. This is what we (and you I am sure) had been praying for. Naomi´s spirit will take this with.
We are not religious people, but can see how strong comforted and you must feel with your beliefs. I admire that.
I will be giving Charlotte, Joshua and William a big big big never ending hug today - as you would if you were here.
All our love to you, XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
FAMILY TUTTAS
Kathryn Tuttas
Erlangen, Germany - Saturday, September 11, 2004 2:23 AM CDT
Rikki and Stefan, How fortunate for all of us who know you that you two were chosen to bring Naomi into our world and let her go, lovingly, to God's. We've all learned from you and your experience, thanks for all the information, sharing and openess. How we have been touched by the love you've shown and those kindnesses will surely show in our lives. Thanks and love, Grandma Sue
Susan Bull <suebull@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA King - Saturday, September 11, 2004 2:05 AM CDT
Liebe Rikki und Stefan,
wir haben die ganze Zeit an Euch gedacht und bewundern Eure Tapferkeit und Staerke.
Alles was passiert, hat irgendwie seinen Sinn. Auch wenn man es nicht gleich erkennen oder verstehen kann.
Naomi Ruth ist sicherlich an einem Platz, wo sie sehr gut aufgehoben ist.
Liebe Gruesse
Eugenia, Nicolas und Matthias
Eugenia, Nicolas und Matthias Probst <eumani@web.de>
Erlangen, Germany - Saturday, September 11, 2004 2:01 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
I just read your update tonight and I see that Naomi has already gone onto heaven. I went upstairs after I read that and went through the bag of our baby's things that I have still. There's a letter there that we received from some friends the day Carly passed away. I'll never forget how much the letter meant to me, so I want to share parts of it with you. It said,
"Dear Jimmy and Lisa,
I have just read (in an email) that a loving and gracious God has welcomed your little Carly back into His tender arms."
"There is now way for us to know your feelings at this time. Such a complex mixture of love, loss, relief, longing and sadness. But just because we cannot know the feelings does not mean we do not bear them with you."
"Sometimes God's sweetest gifts are the most transitory, the most fleeting. As a parent, I sometimes see each day as a gift I can ever hang onto, or get back. So it has been with you and your little Carly. As God heals you from this sadness, as you embrace the precious relief of knowing she rests, healthy, whole, and happy with Him, your memories of your time with her will grow happier. We will pray that God will lift you up and care for you, as He now cares for Carly. We pray that the two of you will find rest in the arms of Jesus, just as Carly rests there."
"I know that there are hard days ahead. May God grant to you the strength and peace to endure them. May He fill you with the love and prayers your friends are sending to you. May He grant you rest, and may His tender grace overwhelm you, pick you up when you are tired, hold you when you cry."
So, Rikki and Stefan, all these thoughts are ones I want to pass onto you. I've been there and you're in my prayers. God is still good, and you have impacted many lives with your faith in Him.
I pray you feel blessed during this difficult time...
Lisa
Lisa Liu <weezyliu@cox.net>
- Saturday, September 11, 2004 0:41 AM CDT
God looked around his Garden and found an empty place.
He then looked down upon his earth and saw your loving face.
He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest.
His Garden must be beautiful, he always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering, he knew you were in pain.
And knew that you would never get well on earth again.
He saw your path was difficult,
He whispered to you "Peace be Thine" and gave you wings to fly.
When we saw you sleeping so calm and free of pain,
We would not wish you back to earth to suffer once again.
You've left us precious memories, your love will be our guide,
You live on through us, you're always by our side.
It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you on the day God called you home.
Casey <casey.murray@qwest.com>
Idaho Falls , ID - Saturday, September 11, 2004 0:37 AM CDT
Stephen & Rikki, I picked up my bible to see what God was saying. The first thing I read was this. Isaiah 55: 12 You will go out in joy and be led forth in peace, the mountians and hills will burst into song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap there hands. Instead of the thornbush will grow the pine tree,and instead of briers the myrtle will grow . this will be for the Lords renown , for an everlasting sign which will not be destroyed. Your in my heart, Love connie
Connie Bernhardt <Connieskats2@hotmail.com>
Kirkland , WA USA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 0:34 AM CDT
Dear Boehmer/Pageler/Lium/Thebault Family -- We send all of you our love & appreciation for the fervor with which you have embraced this tremendous little life. We're going to put a little candle in our window too -- for Naomi -- to see through the Seattle rain.
Kyrsten, Rick & Kate Laboda
Seattle, WA - Saturday, September 11, 2004 0:15 AM CDT
We continue to hold you in our thoughts and prayers. I do have an image of Patty Pickle welcoming Naomi into heaven and holding her in her arms. We lit a candle and put in in the window so Naomi can look back and see that we are holding her close in our hearts.
We love you all and are sending our hugs your way. Love Always, Sean, Debbie and kids
Sean & Debbie McDonald <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 11:49 PM CDT
CONGRATULATIONS !!!! Im so happy for you both. A miracle you were able to bring her full term. God had a plan. The touch you will never forget. I know God , along with Erick are loving on her. A note from Naomi: P.S . Mom & Dad ,I had a great Birthday Party!!!Jeasus Brought me a puppy in a box and of course I named him Jessie !!!I was told to take good care of him .Up here dogs talk .Jessie sang happy birthday to me !!! . Well, I just want you to know that you don't have to worry about me . Things are totaly different then where you are. Thank you Mommy & Daddy for all your loving, caring ,Warm love, All my Love , Naomi
Connie Bernhardt <connieskats2@hotmail.com>
Kirkland, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 11:31 PM CDT
Precious peace for you all and for Naomi.
Denver watch continues to send love and prayers from us all!
Aunt Mary, Uncle Tom, Lara, Rowan and Ben <PagelerTM@aol.com>
Denver, CO USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 11:10 PM CDT
What a wonderful experience on earth. Thank you for your gift of Naomi.
The Bennetts
The Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa 98229 - Friday, September 10, 2004 11:00 PM CDT
Good job you two! Glad you survived that horrendously long labor Rikki! You go girl! She looks beautiful in the picture you guys. Love to all, the Johnsons
Jen Johnson
Kirkland, WA - Friday, September 10, 2004 10:51 PM CDT
Congratulations Mommy and Daddy and WELCOME NAOMI.
A big hug to everyone from Edmonds.
Please kiss her on the head for us.
Chris and Sharona
sharona <ricesharona@hotmail.com>
Edmonds, WA US - Friday, September 10, 2004 10:16 PM CDT
Welcome Noami Ruth. I know your parents don't know me but I heard about you through many people at church (CBC). Your parents are remarkable. I have all three of you in my prayers everyday and I tell God to keep looking over all of you. May the angels keep looking over you and your mommy and daddy.
Gina Geranen <ggeranen@aol.com>
Sunnyvale, CA United States - Friday, September 10, 2004 10:04 PM CDT
Welcome to the world! Congratulations to the new parents, grandparents aunts and uncles! Love to you all, The Hamptons
Leslie <hamptonl@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA - Friday, September 10, 2004 9:06 PM CDT
Congratulations on the birth of Naomi!! May God give you much joy and peace as you enjoy her life! God bless you and your family; I am praying for all of you; you are blessing many people with your story. Wendy Carignan (Becky Carlsen's mom)
Wendy Carignan <wendy4grls@aol.com>
El Dorado Hills, CA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 8:52 PM CDT
You're beautiful. Welcome!
Antonio (Meg's friend) <aponvert@koskoff.com>
- Friday, September 10, 2004 8:24 PM CDT
Happy birthday, Naomi! What a wonderful family picture of love! Thanks for sharing your birthday with us. We'll continue to pray for your precious life!
Malia Ansberry
- Friday, September 10, 2004 8:12 PM CDT
Thanks so much for the family picture! I have been staying at work, glued to my computer, since we don't have e-mail at home. Our love and joy to all of you, cherishing the glow that is beaming out of that photo. Welcome Naomi, to the largest family of love ever from around this world and beyond! You are treasured and celebrated! Love and hugs, Carol
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 8:08 PM CDT
Welcome, Naomi! The family photo says it all--so much love. I'm so glad you got to hear her cry and feel her beating heart. Because you've known her, you have been changed for good. Much love and peace to all of you!
Katy Faas <katyfaas@hotmail.com>
Redmond, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 8:03 PM CDT
Naomi, You are beautiful. Your whole family is beautiful. We are so happy to see you! You'll have to forgive me but I must quote Stevie Wonder
"As around the sun the earth knows she's revolving
And the rosebuds know to bloom in early may
Just as hate knows loves the cure
You can rest your mind assured
That God will be loving you always"
The Bennetts
Bennetts <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
That place north, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 8:02 PM CDT
She's beautiful!!! Congratulations. I love you all.
Casey <casey.murray@qwest.com>
Idaho Falls , ID - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:59 PM CDT
Welcome Naomi. You arrival has been anticipated with great love and joy. There is no greater picture of love than seeing you surrounded by your parents and family. By your very presence you have given great joy forever. We will cherish you always. Love, Sean & Debbie
Sean & Debbie McDonald <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:55 PM CDT
Welcome to baby Naomi! I've been reading the updates all day today. Enjoy your precious gift. God is so good!
Lisa Liu
Lisa Liu <weezyliu@cox.net>
- Friday, September 10, 2004 7:36 PM CDT
WE LOVE YOU NAOMI! We are sending love, hugs and kisses from Olympia! We celebrate your life!!!!! With much joy we also celebrate the strength of your mommy, daddy and the love in your family!
Laurie Bert <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
- Friday, September 10, 2004 7:28 PM CDT
WE LOVE YOU NAOMI! We are sending love, hugs and kisses from Olympia! We celebrate your life!!!!! With much joy we also celebrate the strength of your mommy, daddy and the love in your family!
Laurie Bert <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
- Friday, September 10, 2004 7:28 PM CDT
Hooray! Oh Rikki and Stefan, we are so happy for you. I was praying she would be having the opportunity to be loved on by all of you! Congrats, and job well done, Rikki!
Becky and Dave Carlsen <daveandbecky@covad.net>
San Jose, CA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:26 PM CDT
Welcome Naomi! Rikki and Stefan, I have been following your progress all day, praying for you and Naomi and for her birth. I am so glad she has arrived and you can now hold her and meet her face to face. What a precious moment. God Bless to you and all your family.
Laura Hernandez <lbhernand@yahoo.com>
Morgan Hill, CA US - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:24 PM CDT
Dear Rikki, Stefan & Naomi,
Isn't God amazing? You DID it through HIM!!! Congratulation! Thanks for sharing the whole process with us. We keep checking your web page today and keep praying for you guys. And we know our prayers really work! Please keep us posted and we'll keep praying for your whole family. Love from Seattle - Daniel, Cora, Christopher & Jessica
Daniel & Cora
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:18 PM CDT
Congratulations Rikki, Stefan and Naomi! We are so very proud of you! The faith and courage you've demonstrated are beyond comprehension. Our love, support and prayers will continue to be with you. Your memories will last forever. Love, Laura, Don and Jaclen Moxley
Laura Moxley <lauramoxley@alltel.net>
Granville, OH 43023 - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:14 PM CDT
Welcome to the family, Naomi. We love you. Charlie, Margaret, Ali, Chance & Tyler
Margaret <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:14 PM CDT
I admire your strength. May all prayers said around the world be with you and your family.
Dave Schubert <dave.schubert@qwest.com>
Idaho falls, id usa - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:13 PM CDT
Welcome Naomi,
You have come into the world the best way possible, surrounded in love and prayers!
Love, Molly
Molly McDonald <mollym04@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:12 PM CDT
Welcome Naomi! We love that you are here!
Love to all
The Bennett
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:07 PM CDT
Great Job Rikki...Congratulations to you and Stefan on your beautiful new baby!
Barbara Del Prince <Barbara.Delprince@siemens.com>
san jose, Ca - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:04 PM CDT
Welcome Naomi!
Casey <casey.murray@qwest.com>
Idaho Falls , ID - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:02 PM CDT
Congratulations! And Welcome Little Naomi.
We've been following the progress of your birthday party all day.
Warm hugs to all of you.
Ulla
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox <ublichfeldtfox@peoplepc.com>
Vashon, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:01 PM CDT
Riley Chloe and Gracie can't stop talkin' about baby Naomi. Gracie is especially excited for you. All is well here in Seattle and the kids say you can keep mommy down there as long as you want because dad has the house in tip top shape....yahh right. God Bless, David
David Lium <dlium@printinc.com>
Bothell, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 6:33 PM CDT
Love is in the air! We feel you, all the way up here in Bellingham. We are very moved by what you are all doing and send every ounce of prayer and love to you.
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 6:20 PM CDT
Hi friends,
here I am again, it is 0:30am in Germany - back from visisted friends - Irene and Peter Schittek - in Erlangen. Hoping all is over. Oh little girl Naomi you need a lot of time for your arrival. All my and also my friend best wishes for your arrival. A lot of kisses for you and also for your wonderful mom. She is singular - I saw the new pictures - Stefan take care of both. Love Barbara
Barbara <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Friday, September 10, 2004 5:22 PM CDT
Hi Rikki and Stephan, and all the family there! Sounds like this is really happening - it will be so wonderful to see Naomi Ruth face-to-face! In my prayers I have been telling my Mom about her - Rikki - do you remember "Grandma Ruth" from her trips to Seattle and your visit to Florence? I am certain she is with us in spirit as well. Love, Carol, Shannon, and Patrick
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 4:22 PM CDT
Rikki, great pictures...you are glowing. Wish I could be there with you, but thanks to all the updates (I'm checking every half hour or so) you are surrounded with love & support!! xoxo!!
Casey <casey.murray@qwest.com>
Idaho Falls , ID - Friday, September 10, 2004 3:54 PM CDT
Hey girl, pregnancy sure suits you, you look so beautiful and happy in the pictures you've shared! I am thinking of you today and every day and praying for an easy delivery. Can't wait to see you in October!
Andrea & Brian Rolf <andrea@sittignw.com>
Redmond, WA - Friday, September 10, 2004 3:00 PM CDT
Rikki, have that baby soon! I'm headed to Seattle soon.....won't have internet access!!! Love, Lisa
Lisa Marie Waldvogel <hippiewarrior2004@yahoo.com>
Bellingham, WA - Friday, September 10, 2004 2:51 PM CDT
Thanks so much to the family for keeping the website updated so often!! As you know how much we all care about Erica and Stephan - I'm sure a lot of people - like me are checking every hour or half hour to see the current progress of God's blessing! We love you!
Sandy & Omar Rivas <sandy@sandomar.com>
Woodinville, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 2:47 PM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
I have been following the events of the last couple days with much anticipation and am anxious for you to finally meet your little angel. My son, Evan, was born 18 years ago today--it's a glorious day for birthing! Thanks to Naomi, I am now aware of this wonderful website and plan to use it for my daughter's (Chelsea) upcoming colon surgery. Naomi's journey has touched all of us in so many different ways. So Rikki, you keep pushing and we'll keep praying!
Katy Faas (still Andrea's sister) <katyfaas@hotmail.com>
Redmond, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 2:37 PM CDT
Margaret and Charlie Laboda have shared your Website with me. I am honored to be able to witness your incredible journey, and I am in awe of your strength and faith. My prayers are with your family. Special hugs for Margaret and Jack.
Marilyn Day <mday@seattleschools.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 2:29 PM CDT
Sounds like your doing great! I knew you would handle labor as gracefully as you handle everything. Once your on all fours in the garage it's clear that Naomi's time is fast approaching. I love you all!
Marcy Easterdy <marsannd@u.washington.edu>
- Friday, September 10, 2004 2:13 PM CDT
We are praying for U'all
Bill and Mary VanSice <maryvansice@direcway.com>
Eastman , GA Dodge - Friday, September 10, 2004 1:42 PM CDT
thinking of you and admiring the strength you all have. feeling helpless yet calm due to your extreme willingness to share all that is happening. our love, kris and scott and kids
kris selig <yardkid1@aol.com>
durham, nc usa - Friday, September 10, 2004 12:31 AM CDT
All my postive Mama energy is headed your way. Push hard!
All my love
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 12:15 AM CDT
Thanks so much for the play-by-play!!!! It is such a great way to be able to share this experience with you all. I can almost smell and taste the meatballs. I can certainly feel the love that is radiating from San Jose to Seattle to Germany and beyond. Go Rikki! Go Rikki! You will have that little baby in your arms in good time. Hugs and kisses to everyone! Jenny - you are in charge of giving Naomi a big kiss from me.
Much love - Vicky
Vicky Doyle <vdoyle@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 11:07 AM CDT
THINKING OF YOU, RIKKI!!!!! And all of you!
sharona <ricesharona@hotmail.com>
- Friday, September 10, 2004 10:25 AM CDT
Dear Rikki, Stefan, Naomi and the whole clan - I close now my workingday at the office - anyway I can not work. Naomi take up a lot of time. Hope and tremble at close quarters. I hope everything is going to be alright. I hope - no I know you are in good hands. Love Barbara
Barbara <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Friday, September 10, 2004 10:09 AM CDT
Long ago as I have so much pine for a arrival. Rikki I hope the paine of the birth is soon over and you can embrace your little girl Naomi. God speed you. Love Barbara
Barbara <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Friday, September 10, 2004 9:27 AM CDT
Continually with you in thoughts and prayers. Our arms are stretched all the way south to California to embrace you and welcome Naomi!
Debbie and Sean <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 8:26 AM CDT
God bless you all during this time. You are both remarkable people. You have both made Naomi's life such a precious time for her that will never be forgotten. She is lucky to have parents like you both. Good luck today with everything. The Gannons are thinking about you all.
Susan Gannon <twinsmm@aol.com>
Pembroke, Ma 02359 - Friday, September 10, 2004 8:16 AM CDT
Meg, no Naomi yet?????????????? Hopefully now you're helping with the delivery of the baby......has to be soon! I guess you're destined for no sleep this month! Ok, keeping my fingers crossed. Love, LIsa
Lisa Marie Waldvogel <hippiewarrior2004@yahoo.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 7:07 AM CDT
Dear Rikki,
keep up - everything goes over – you look allways wonderful on the pictures first at all at the hot tub. Thank you that you share this time with us. We get away from it all and see again what is realy important in our life. Good to see all this faith, hope and big love. Staying power for you all – it is a very big event and how it would be celebrated is impressing.
Love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Friday, September 10, 2004 2:41 AM CDT
To Naomi Ruth (I can't sleep...and perhaps you can't now either! :) )
You’ve touched so many people
Your energy and spirit are an inspiration
We love you
You were born into a world of turbulence…
While at the same time giving peace and perspective to us all,
You are a lucky girl
Your family is there and loves you, just the way that you are
Born of love, and future hopes
You will have family where ever you go
And that is so peaceful and important
Your parent’s courage, families’ love and acceptance…
You are loved
You are one of the very loved and lucky children
We will work to make a better place for your siblings
And you will never be forgotten
Thank you for offering your family this experience to understand the ways of life, disabilities, difficulties (only because it makes stronger people) and community.
You are loved.
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox <ublichfeldtfox@peoplepc.com>
Vashon, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 1:37 AM CDT
"If a butterfly chanced to alight on your finger, would you try to grab it and hold it? Of course not. You know a butterfly is fragile. To grab a butterfly would be to crush it, to knock the dust from its wings and kill it. Butterflies must be appreciated, not possessed. Likewise, we have to be willing to observe our lives unfolding like butterflies, to gratefully accept the beauty around us and live within it without trying to possess it."
Pebbling the Walk, By Steve Reed (a former Vashon resident, and author) about cancer caregiving...but worthwhile thoughts for so many other areas of all of our lives. He is soulful and offers me much inspiration and insight for my life and my life's consequenses.
All my love,
Ulla
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox <ublichfeldtfox@peoplepc.com>
Vashon, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 0:35 AM CDT
Dear Rikki, Stefan and Naomi, I have just returned home after spending the evening with you and your family. I feel fortunate for having the opportunity to share in this experience. In the few short weeks since we have met you have scarcely left my mind and I am confident that you will all have a permanent place in my heart. I look forward to meeting Naomi face to face soon. Love, Barbara
Barbara Del Prince <barbara.delprince@siemens.com>
San Jose, Ca USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 0:15 AM CDT
I am keeping track of your family's progress through this event. Know that I am thinking of you and all of your wonderful family periodically (probably even through the night).
Hugs to all of you in your supportive and loving efforts!
Ulla - Vashon Island, Washington
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox <ublichfeldtfox@peoplepc.com>
Vashon, WA USA - Friday, September 10, 2004 0:10 AM CDT
Rikki - only you could look so fabulous while in labor! I love the Pageler/Boehmer/Thebault/Laboda/Lium picture! Fabulous. I love the updates! We're watching from Seattle, so excited to see the progress. Love from the Hamptons!
Leslie <hamptonl@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 11:18 PM CDT
Dear Jesus -- Thank you so much for Rikki, Stefan and Naomi. Your grace is amazing, your love is wonderful and your strength is without limit! Hold them all through the next few hours as they witness the wonder of meeting Naomi face to face!
Malia Ansberry
- Thursday, September 9, 2004 10:33 PM CDT
Dear Rikki,
I've loved reading your journal entries and updates since we talked on the phone. I can tell God is right there with you. You are so blessed, as well as Stefan and Naomi Ruth. Take care and give me a call if you ever want to talk. Know that you're in my thoughts and prayers as you labor and give birth to your precious daughter. Love, Lisa Liu
Lisa Liu <weezyliu@cox.net>
Glendale, AZ 85308 usa - Thursday, September 9, 2004 10:08 PM CDT
Hey Little Naomi! You sure are taking your time coming into this world :-) We just got home from Justins Soccer Game and I couldn't wait to check the Web-Site! We are so excited about this and we are sure you all are even more excited being there! Our prayers are with you Rikki that you have a very easy delivery - and Stefan you are so good to Rikki and you both are so blessed to have each other! GOOD LUCK! We will be checking back later!
Love You All!
Susie, John, Nick & Justin
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN US - Thursday, September 9, 2004 8:46 PM CDT
Well, I spent most of my day checking the website for updates. I love the pictures--I assume Amy is still there? Do you people sleep? Thank you for keeping us informed. It appears Naomi is orchestrating a memorable labor experience for her mother. Good luck Erica and stay energized!
Margaret Day <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 6:37 PM CDT
I've been thinking of you so much. Now you are in labor. I know you will have a beautiful and loving experience giving birth to your precious Naomi Ruth. My prayers are with all three of you.
Catherine Frosi Bradley <tennis@alpinehills.us>
Boulder Creek, ca usa - Thursday, September 9, 2004 6:32 PM CDT
Hang in there! We will always be there for you. We are thinking of you. Rikki, pretend I am taking some of the pain away, contractions hurt like hell, I can handle it! Love, Jen
Jen Johnson
Kirkland, WA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 6:17 PM CDT
To the Boehmer and Paigler family,
Koby and I love you all very dearly. Your love, support and commitment to each other is inspiring and awesome.
Rikki, Stephan and Naomi, we are constantly praying for life, joy and blessings to be over you. God will be faithful; keep up your faith.
Thanks to all who continue to keep this website up to date. Know that your efforts are greatly appreciated and we are waiting to read every new update.
BIG hugs and SMOOCHY kisses,
Koby and Nancy
Nancy Kumaska <nkumasak@cisco.com>
San Jose, CA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 5:20 PM CDT
Keep up the good work, Mom!
I am so glad you have such a great family and they are all there with you. How extraordinary.
Lucky Naomi.
Best wishes and happy warm thoughts and hugs and all that is mushy and filled with love...
sharona
sharona <ricesharona@hotmail.com>
Edmonds, WA US - Thursday, September 9, 2004 5:16 PM CDT
We love you! We are thinking of you all day and checking the website often, thank you so much for keeping us up to date! Aaron is home on leave and we all send much love to Naomi, Rikki, Stefan, and all the other family! With awe, the Berts
Laurie Bert <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
- Thursday, September 9, 2004 5:13 PM CDT
Hi Rikki and Stefan,
How are you feeling? Mom said the baby is coming soon. I hope you are good. I wish I was swimming in your pool. I started Kindergarten today. My teacher is Ms. Young.
I Love You
Susie
Susie Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, Wa usa - Thursday, September 9, 2004 5:09 PM CDT
So amazing so amazing. My day is revolving around the updates. I love it! I look so forward to hearing how Rikki and Naomi are doing and of her arrival with such love surrounding her.
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham, WA USA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 5:07 PM CDT
Rikki-
It sounds like you are doing great with your long labor! Enjoy your labor as your body works to bring little Naomi into this world. Hang in there, rest while you can, enjoy each contraction, just experience it all fully! It is a miraculous process.
We are continuously thinking and praying for you three.
Becky and Dave Carlsen <daveandbecky@covad.net>
San Jose, CA USA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 5:05 PM CDT
Erica, Stephan & Naomi thank you for allowing us to share in this your precious and special time. Dorian and I are very excited about Naomi's coming and we can't wait to see more pix! Hang in there Rikki! You look such a trooper in your picture this morning, and I know how bad those contractions kicked my butt! We love you all!
Maria Benjamin
Seattle, wa - Thursday, September 9, 2004 1:22 PM CDT
All the Springers express awe at birth and all that you are sharing with us and with each other. Our hearts are with you on this wonder filled day. Love, Jenny and Tom
Jenny and Tom Springer <tjspringer@wavecable.com>
Belfair, WA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 12:32 AM CDT
You all -
I am the whole day in the office but I could not realy work today than my thoughts are always with Rikki and Naomi and also with Stefan. I am thinking what will now happen. It is terrible! I am glad to see that Rikki’s whole family stay with you. By such events it is good to have the family near by. What I can see and read I think it is a famous family. It is not everywhere such a strong company. You stay in heavy seas together – glad to see it. Naomi may be glad to have you all. All my best wishes to the whole family. Love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Thursday, September 9, 2004 11:09 AM CDT
We are checking, checking, checking as we follow your journey. A family that labors together stays together! I can just picture Rikki doing her laps and everybody watching and recording. We love you all!
Debbie and Sean
Debbie and Sean McDonald <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 8:56 AM CDT
Ricky, Stephan and Naomi
I am reading the Journal entry from aunt sally as you are in labor. I have been checking in every day or two to see any progress and am wishing you all the best for the delivery. (happenning now as it seems - Thursday morning in Erlangen)
I am thinking of you all and beaming all my best wishes to you across the seas. I admire your strengh and wish you all the best over the next days and weeks which will be full of joy and sadness.
I have goose bumps just thinking of you now.
love love love to you all
Familie Tuttas
Kathryn Tuttas
Röttenbach, Deutschland - Thursday, September 9, 2004 3:12 AM CDT
Dear friends,
exciting day's for you and also for us. Hope that all goes well. Again all the best for the delivery. Thanks that you always keep us informed. You need a lot of power this days so I will send what I have and not needed. My thoughts are with you. Love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <Haefner-Grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Thursday, September 9, 2004 2:23 AM CDT
Querida Erika : Sigo al tanto de lo que estás viviendo por medio de esta pag Web ,pasan los dias y muy pronto vendrá al mundo Naomi Ruth , hoy ya es 9 set y quizás ya tengan nuevas noticias, Lo mejor para tí ,Suerte!! Te Recuerda tu amiga por siempre Dalhía
Dalhía <jokra@t-online.de>
Grossenseebach-Erlangen, Germany - Thursday, September 9, 2004 2:20 AM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences and love for Naomi. Reading your journal entries has been inspiring for me. I think of your family and Naomi every day. I look forward to reading about her arrival and your first meeting with your precious daughter! God Bless.
Laura Hernandez <lbhernand@yahoo.com>
Morgan Hill, CA US - Thursday, September 9, 2004 0:10 AM CDT
Dear Rikki & Stefan,
Well Naomi missed Johns Birthday (Sept. 6th) Will she arrive soon -- Justin was born Sept. 8th! What a blessing that would be! But we just hope and pray that she is going to arrive soon! Hope Mom & Dad are doing GREAT! We love you all (4) including the doggie! (Even though we have not met the doggie) We love them all! Naomi -- you will have a birth date very close to your adopted cousin and uncle -- God Bless and hope to get an update soon! We Love YOU ALL!
Susie, John, Nick & Justin
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, I US - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 11:36 PM CDT
Dear Ones, We are thinking of you and sending you our love. Thank you for keeping us informed, and we will check the website often as Naomi makes her appearance. All our love to you, The Malones: Steve, Linda, Erika and Kristin
Steve, Linda, Kristin and Erika Malone <lmalone@nwlink.com>
Seattle, WA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 11:32 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan - We are watching the website for updates and keeping you and Naomi in our hearts and prayers. We're sending our love your way and wish we could be there with you. It makes us so happy to be a part of your wonderful circle of friends and family, and we deeply admire the true love you two share with each other. We love you so much!! Hugs & Kisses... Love - Lar & Joey
Laurra and Joe <joelar@beld.net>
Braintree, MA USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 8:15 PM CDT
To all of you, celebrate your wonderful little "shooting star" as she streaks through all of our lives. She, and you, have touched so many of us so deeply. Thanks for sharing her and your journey with us.
Carol Higgins <carolh@qualishealth.org>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 4:03 PM CDT
Stefan & Rikki...Thanks for the encouragement your lives have been to Becky and I. Know that we are praying diligently for you two and the already incredible life of Naomi! Sounds like things are moving...we'll miss you at church this weekend. Hang in there...love dave and beck
Dave and Becky Carlsen <dave@valleychurch.org>
San Jose, CA USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 2:07 PM CDT
Dear Rikki,
Sending you all my best. You certainly have an enthusiastic aunt in Meg!!! I've never seen anyone so excited about the impending birth of her niece! Sending you good thoughts and hoping for the best...
Much Love,
Jeanne Legault
Jeanne Legault <jeannelegault@aol.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 2:00 PM CDT
Your story is so incredibly touching and inspiring. I am in awe at the strength you both possess, and the attitude you have about all that Naomi can bring to your life, whether she is born alive or not. My thoughts are with you, and I wish you peace and love and strength in this time. Have a good delivery and enjoy the love of your family around you.
Much love to you,
Andy King <atk_esq@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 1:44 PM CDT
hello from the selig clan in north carolina. we are thinking of you and sending lots of love your way. kris, scott, kevin, anna, sam and sarahbelle
kris selig <yardkid1@aol.com>
durham, nc usa - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 1:33 PM CDT
You have been an amazing and inspiring family throughout. Best wishes for a joyful delivery and lasting peace and happiness in your lives resulting from your adventures in this pregnancy. I will think of you all day and everyday for a long time.
With love,
Sharona
sharona rice <ricesharona@hotmail.com>
Edmonds, WA US - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 12:47 AM CDT
Boehmer Family! Best wishes for the day and the delivery! I hold you in my thoughts. Love, Debbie
Debbie Bull
Seattle, WA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 12:45 AM CDT
Rikki, Stefan and Naomi: Your story is unbelieveably touching. I am truly amazed at the positive way you have approached Naomi's life. I am a friend of Auntie Meggie's and I so hope that Naomi gets to meet and spend time with her Auntie Meggie and the rest of her loving family. Thank you for sharing your incredible courage and love through this website. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love, Cindy Smith, TLC '04
Cindy Smith <cks@montanalaw.com>
Missoula, MT USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 12:19 AM CDT
Rikki, Stefan & Naomi, just checking in to hear about the big day. I love you very much...you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Casey <casey.murray@qwest.com>
Idaho Falls , ID - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 12:03 AM CDT
Dear Rikki, Stefan and Naomi,
our thoughts are with you these days and we are looking forward to hearing your news soon. Good luck and take care!
Love,
Petra, Juergen and the twins
Petra Kliemt <pjkliemt@yahoo.de>
Baiersdorf, Germany - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 7:42 AM CDT
All the best for the big event - my thoughts are with you.
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 5:22 AM CDT
Dear Little Naomi,
I'm on my way down there, my sweet! Please please please wait for me. I can't wait to meet you, but please don't hurry out as I can't get there until the morning. Love you, Auntie Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, September 8, 2004 2:36 AM CDT
Rikki and Steffan,
The two of you are truely miraculous human beings... truely inspirational with your love, strength, compassion, and courage. We admire you so much. Naomi is a true blessing. We're glad we got to meet her on such a beautiful vacation in TCI. We had alot of fun swimming and lounging on the beach with Naomi. From the pictures on this site, it looks like Naomi still loves the water. We can't wait to see a picture of the little munchkin. Although we know she's just as beautiful as her mommy.
Love, Heather and Kris
Your TCI friends
Heather Hintzen and Kris Schwartz <hjhint@excite.com>
Fairfield, CT USA - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 6:40 PM CDT
Dear friends,
We are very lucky to have you as our friends, and can only hope that your character and love for life spills a little to us. Our hearts are with you.
Peter & Pat Durnhofer
Sunnyvale, CA USA - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 5:20 PM CDT
Dear Naomi,
What a wonderful gift it is that you belong to such amazing and loving people. Both Rikki and Stephen are so blessed to have you, just as you are blessed to have them. Thinking of and loving you all!
Molly
Molly McDonald <mollym04@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, - Monday, September 6, 2004 9:39 PM CDT
Hi Ricki,
It's been years since we've talked, but I heard the Colleen about your site. I will keep you in my prayers and hope we can talk soon. Noami Ruth is such a meaningful name for your beautiful girl. I pray these next days God is close to you all and you feel His presence with you. Hugs and Kisses, Rachel
Rachel Sottile <rachelsottile@bellsouth.net>
Miami/Coral Gables, FL USA - Monday, September 6, 2004 8:10 PM CDT
Naomi, Rikki and Stefan,
Loved hearing about the cannonballs (fun) and the peace and contentment you are feeling as Naomi's birth approaches. How wonderful for all of you to be awash with such love, strength and support. I feel it coming through all the messages. We love you and hold you in our thoughts and prayers. Debbie and Sean
Debbie and Sean McDonald <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, September 6, 2004 4:26 PM CDT
Erica and Stephan,
Wow you are both such an inspiration! I can't think of any better way to describe how awed I am about how you are handling this situation that God has blessed you with. And that is what's so inspiring - though it's a difficult situation - He chose JUST the right people that would give Him honor through it. Naomi Ruth is such a special treasure - that God would want in no other hands than yours. I'm still praying and believing for a miracle for her - but as we must - accepting God's will. We love you and our hearts and our prayers go out to you!
Omar & Sandy Rivas <sandomar@iglide.net>
Redmond, WA USA - Monday, September 6, 2004 1:18 PM CDT
Hi Riky,
Just talked to you on the phone .
It is still possible that Naomi will be born today Wouldn't it be lovely to have birthday at the same day.
You look absolutely wonderfull I gained 20 Kg when I was pregnant and ton still found me baeutifull, but Ton thinks all pregnant woman are prity.
We wish you an easy delivery and we love love you and Erlangen is not the same without you
Joli
joli willemse <willemse@arcor.de>
erlangen, germany - Monday, September 6, 2004 1:08 PM CDT
ERICA and STEFAN,
John and I have been thinking so much about you in the last few weeks., and we know you have so much loving support, from family and friends. I want you to know I am on my knees to Jesus, lifting you up, and trusting him to bless you, and carry you both through this. WE LOVE YOU VERY MUCH, John and Annie "DAY AND NIGHT I BRING YOU AND YOUR NEEDS IN PRAYER TO GOD" ROMANS1:9
JOHN and ANNE MURRAY <johnannmurray@msn.com>
SEATTLE, WASHINGTON U.S.A. - Sunday, September 5, 2004 8:46 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
I have been deeply touched reading about your life with Naomi these past months. What a blessing for her to spend her short time on Earth with such loving parents who have taken such joy in the pregnancy! Naomi has brought a dimension and richness to your lives that most of us will never know. I am in awe of your strength. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Love, Katy Faas (Andrea's sister)
Katy Faas <katyfaas@hotmail.com>
Redmond, WA USA - Saturday, September 4, 2004 2:12 PM CDT
Dear Rikki + Stefan,
Where to begin ... I think you know how I feel about what you've both been going through and the concern I've had for your spirit and well-being. You've been an inspiration to me, Rikki - as it seems you have been to others as well - and I am equally humbled and grateful for our friendship. When I think of the extraordinary partnership you and Stefan share, and about why it is Naomi came into your lives, I'm reminded of a quote that comes from a poem by Gwen Frostic. Simply stated, it says, "... for always - there is beauty for the heart that understands." Thank you for sharing your heart and helping me to understand the beauty in life, as in death ... Love,
Martha
Cupertino, CA - Friday, September 3, 2004 5:40 PM CDT
Dear Rikki and Stefan,
We would like to share with you the words of João de Deus, a poet from our country – here is a translation of a fragment of one of his poems:
“Life is the moment that passes,
Life is a fleeting sigh,
Life is a shadow that flies,
Life is a drifting cloud.
Life is a dream so light
that it melts away like snow
and blows away like smoke.
Life lasts only a moment;
it is lighter than a thought,
it is carried away by the wind,
it is only a falling leaf.
Life is a flower in a stream,
Life is a soft whisper,
Life is a shooting star.
It flies as light as a bird;
a cloud that the wind in the air,
a wave that the wind in the sea
tosses one after another.
Life is like a feather fallen
from the wing of a wounded bird,
floating from valley to valley,
carried away by the breeze.”
And yet, because it is so fleeting it becomes extremely precious, and each moment that it lasts is to be cherished and loved.
All our love to both of you and to little Naomi.
Teresa and Zé
Teresa Spencer <teresa.spencer@siemens.com>
Mountain View, CA USA - Thursday, September 2, 2004 12:56 AM CDT
What do you say to someone who has more integrity than i could ever dream of having?
After reading through your journal, I am speechless. [pause 6 minutes while figuring out what to write.] Knowing your sister, I should not have been suprised. But there's so much i would want to say or share ... or do i admit that i feel guilty because i have an incredible urge to drive home right now and kiss my wife and kid? and all i can find that fits is a quote from a woman who seemed to embody the same spirit as you:
People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within. -- Elizabeth Kubler Ross
Gonzo TLC '04 <gonzospice@yahoo.com>
Austin, TX USA - Tuesday, August 31, 2004 11:28 PM CDT
Rikki,
We would love to see the video of you doing Cannonballs!
Let us know if it is possible!
Waiting for an update! We love you all and our prayers are with you!
Love, Susie, John, Nick & Justin
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN United States - Tuesday, August 31, 2004 11:24 PM CDT
Szia Naomi!
Ez az elso alkalom hogy meglatogatjuk a weblapodat. Magyarul irunk te meg igy is erted. Aztan majd igyekszunk gyakrabban idenezni, hogy mi ujsag veled. Nekunk is van egy kisfiunk, remeljuk egyszer meg latjatok egymast. Korban pont illenetek egymashoz. Szuleidet ne nagyon boritsd ki az elso idokben. Vigyazzon rad sok kis angyalka.
Hi Erica and Stefan,
We have just visited your page and wanted to leave some sign of us. We have left a short hungarian message for Naomi she can still understand it. We will check your page frequently in the future for upcoming events:)
PS: Sorry for our english.
Julianna and Tamas Stefan
Szigetszentmiklos, Pest Hungary - Monday, August 30, 2004 4:21 PM CDT
Dear Naomi -- I saw some video of you this weekend in which your gorgeous, bikini-clad mom was running & cannon-balling into the swimming pool with all of your aunties & extended cousins. I want you to know (which you already do) that 1) your mom looks fabulous in a bikini, 2)you've cannon-balled far more than any other babe in-utero that I know -- LUCKY GIRL!, and 3) Kate, "Broccoli" & I were so sad to miss out on all the fun. We send you love, hope that the next few weeks holds lots more fun & strength for what follows.
Kyrsten Laboda
Seattle, WA - Monday, August 30, 2004 2:15 PM CDT
Rikki & Stefan:
When Naomi moves from your arms into the loving arms of God, standing right at God's side will be her great-grandmother Margaret saying, "Let me hold her now!" And she will do that until you are once again with her and able to hold her in your arms yourself.
Steve & Nancy Hillis <srhillis@asbury.edu>
Lexington, KY USA - Monday, August 30, 2004 10:29 AM CDT
"Weißt du wieviel Sternlein stehen
an dem großen Himmelszelt?"
So heißt es in einem schönen Kinderlied, das ich, liebe Naomi, dir so gerne vorgesungen hätte. Später könnten wir dann die Melodie zusammen auf der Ziehharmonika oder der Heimorgel spielen.
" ... Gott der Herr hat sie gezählet,
daß ihm auch nicht eines fehlet
an der großen, großen Zahl ......."
Der liebe Gott zählt nicht nur jeden Abend seine Sternlein und Wolken, sondern jeden Tag auch seine Englein, damit ihm auch nicht eines fehlt. Und er wird immer wissen, wo du gerade bist, liebe Naomi, und nie vergessen, dich mit zu zählen.
In Liebe,
dein Opi aus Deutschland
Gerhard Böhmer
Baiersdorf/Germany, - Monday, August 30, 2004 3:08 AM CDT
Rikki and Stefan, when I mom died I heard a poem on a bad TV movie and spent quite a long time looking for it. Ironically I found it in the pew at Margarets grandfathers funeral on a program from another funeral. Words of comfort that I still carry with me. "God has not promised skies always blue, flower strewn pathways all our lives through, God has not promised sun without rain, joy without sorrow, peace without pain. But God has promised strenght for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy, undying love. Love Charlie
Charlie Laboda <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle, - Monday, August 30, 2004 0:34 AM CDT
Hi Rikki, Stefan and Naomi,
since I read the first time your webpage I visit it every day. I am very glad to see the nice new photos from Rikki. I am looking every day if it gives news and I read the guest book. You both are wonderful partents and I admire your strength. All the best for the next week. My thoughts are every day with you.
Keep care
love Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Sunday, August 29, 2004 1:15 PM CDT
I continue to lift all of you up in prayer. Thanks for the verses to pray into Naomi's life. And thanks for sharing the great pictures...you look so beautiful!!!!
Blessings, Kelley
Kelley Drake
San Jose, CA USA - Saturday, August 28, 2004 9:09 PM CDT
You have already given Naomi so much love - she is blessed to have such loving, wonderful parents. I will send you thoughts of love and strength, and I will remember, when I feel down, that the world is a wonderful place because of people like you.
Cammie Nichols, TLC alum & friend <camnichols@rothsteinlaw.com>
Albuquerque, NM USA - Friday, August 27, 2004 1:08 PM CDT
I have searched for "just the right words" to say to you, Rikki and Stefan, but they do not exist. Instead, I can only say how much I respect you both. I send you all my love and prayers. I can't wait to see Naomi! She has already blessed us all, and I know the Lord has great plans for this special angel. The following excerpts from God's word remind me that God is in control of little Naomi, and also has his arms around her mom and dad.
Psalm 139:1-18 (NRSV)
O LORD, you have searched me and known me.
You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
you discern my thoughts from far away.
You search out my path and my lying down,
and are acquainted with all my ways.
Even before a word is on my tongue,
O LORD, you know it completely.
You hem me in, behind and before,
and lay your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me;
it is so high that I cannot attain it.
Where can I go from your spirit?
Or where can I flee from your presence?
If I ascend to heaven, you are there;
if I make my bed in Sheol, you are there.
If I take the wings of the morning
and settle at the farthest limits of the sea,
even there your hand shall lead me,
and your right hand shall hold me fast.
If I say, "Surely the darkness shall cover me,
and the light around me become night,"
even the darkness is not dark to you;
the night is as bright as the day,
for darkness is as light to you.
For it was you who formed my inward parts;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.
I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Wonderful are your works;
that I know very well.
My frame was not hidden from you,
when I was being made in secret,
intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
Your eyes beheld my unformed substance.
In your book were written
all the days that were formed for me,
when none of them as yet existed.
How weighty to me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
I try to count them--they are more than the sand;
I come to the end--I am still with you.
_________________________
Thus says the LORD, ". . . As a mother comforts her child, so I will comfort you."
- Isaiah 66:1, 13 (NRSV)
Martha Vivoli
Los Altos, CA USA - Thursday, August 26, 2004 11:11 PM CDT
Rikki and Stefan, Arece, Steven, Chris and I love you both, and love little Naomi. We will be thinking of you over the next few weeks, and are happy for any time you get to spend together as a family. She'll spend her life surrounded by love, which is a wonderful thing. We would love to see her, but know that you'll have lots of support. Lots of hugs!
Leslie and Arece <hamptonl@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, August 26, 2004 6:15 PM CDT
Dear Rikki, Stefan and Naomi Ruth,
Rikki from the day you told me the news about your baby girl my heart has been sad. You have shown so much courage. You, Stefan and Naomi Ruth have been on my mind and in my heart and prayers every day. I'm so glad you have a doctor who is "honored" to help all three of you. I know in my heart you and Stefan will have the opportunity to hold your beautiful baby and she will know and feel your love as you will from her. Be strong and let your love see you through. The Angels are all around you surrounding you with love, joy and light. She will never be alone and always with you both.
Catherine Alana Marie Frosi <tennis@alpinehills.us>
Boulder Creek, CA USA - Thursday, August 26, 2004 6:05 PM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you. You are fortunate to have a loving family who cares deeply about you and each other. May God be with you.
Rosemarie Paine TLC 2000.1
New Haven, CT USA - Thursday, August 26, 2004 5:38 PM CDT
Your journey will likely be one of joy and sadness. But you can be sure of one thing. You will not regret having made the journey with Naomi. You take care.
Bob Dawson TLC 04' <dawson@pencedawson.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, August 26, 2004 8:39 AM CDT
I am deeply touched by the strength of your love for your little girl. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Alan Cleveland, TLC '04.
Alan Cleveland <rac@actriallawyers.com>
Suwanee, GA USA - Thursday, August 26, 2004 7:22 AM CDT
I do understand the fatality of the disease and that Naomi may not live long. But do trust me, she will live in my heart and in my soul forever. Just like you and your husbands faith and love for her have inspired me to no end. You are true warriors of the heart.
Marina-Thais Douenat TLC '04 <xtremelaw@aol.com>
SA, Tx - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 11:10 PM CDT
I truly am in admiration of the way you have embraced your beautiful daughter Naomi. You both (and little Naomi of course) are incredibly courageous. I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts and look forward to seeing her grow before all of usthrough this website and through Meg. An Admirer from Afar,
Marina-Thais Douenat TLC '04 <xtremelaw@aol.com>
San Antonio, Tx - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 10:37 PM CDT
My prayers, hopes and support are with all of you.
Don Brisson TLC 04 <don@donbrisson.com>
New Bedford, MA USA - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 7:33 PM CDT
My prayers to you.
Fredilyn Sison, a TLC friend <sisonf@hotmail.com>
Reno, NV USA - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 7:10 PM CDT
I will keep all of you in my prayers. Your courage is an
inspiration to us all.
James Moriarty
Cresco, IA USA - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 5:55 PM CDT
You have my prayers for joy and my tears for you. I'm a friend of Meg's.
Jim Wren <wren@trialfirm.com>
Waco, TX - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 5:54 PM CDT
Spuren im Sand
Eines Nachts hatte ich einen Traum:
Ich ging am Meer entlang mit meinem Herrn.
Vor dem dunklen Nachthimmel
erstrahlten, Streiflichtern gleich,
Bilder aus meinem Leben.
Und jedesmal sah ich zwei Fußspuren im Sand,
meine eigene und die meines Herrn.
Als das letzte Bild an meinen Augen
vorübergezogen war, blickte ich zurück.
Ich erschrak, als ich entdeckte,
daß an vielen Stellen meines Lebensweges
nur eine Spur zu sehen war.
Und das waren gerade die schwersten
Zeiten meines Lebens.
Besorgt fragte ich den Herrn:
"Herr, als ich anfing, dir nachzufolgen,
da hast du mir versprochen,
auf allen Wegen bei mir zu sein.
Aber jetzt entdecke ich,
daß in den schwersten Zeiten meines Lebens
nur eine Spur im Sand zu sehen ist.
Warum hast du mich allein gelassen,
als ich dich am meisten brauchte?"
Da antwortete er:"Mein liebes Kind,
ich liebe dich und werde dich nie allein lassen,
erst recht nicht in Nöten und Schwierigkeiten.
Dort, wo du nur eine Spur gesehen hast,
da habe ich dich getragen."
Margaret Fishback Powers
Gott wird euch auch in euren schweren Zeiten tragen und mit hindurch begleiten auch wenn es vielleicht ab und zu nicht den anschein hat. Ich bin zwar nicht sehr gläubig aber ich glaube an Gott und daran das er sich bei allen seinen Entschlüssen und Vorhaben etwas gedacht hat egal wie grausam sie uns erscheinen mögen. Er würd euch stützen und stärken; und er hat euch das Geschenk eines Babys gemacht, das Geschenk ein neues von liebe erfülltes Leben in die driste Welt zu bringen. Auch wenn dieses Leben vielleicht nicht sehr lange ist so hat auch dieses leben seinen Zweck. Naomi Ruth hat zwei sie lieben Eltern und wird durch sie nie in vergessenheit geraten. Durch euch wird sie immer auf dieser Welt anwesend sein egal wie lang ihr leben ist.
Ich bin zwar erst 17 und hab auch noch keine Kinder aber ich kann mir sehr gut vorstellen das des Mädel ihre Eltern immer auf trapp halten wird und ihnen den dristen Alltag aufhellen wird und sei es im Moment durch das Kickboxen in Mamis Bauch schließlich kann sie sich anders ja noch nicht bemerkbar machen.
du stichst heraus weil du einmalig bist
du hebst dich ab weil du eine andere Farbe trägst
du bist so herrlich anders als alle um dich
bei Gott stichst du heraus
für ihn bist du einmalig
du bist ein herausragendes Original
so herrlich anders hat er dich gewollt
deshalb mach dich nicht gleichförmig
und lebe nicht von der Stange
passe dich nicht einfach an
sondern sei
wie du bist
>>Danke, Herr, dass ich so wunderbar und einmalig gemacht bin<<
Hermann Traub
Ich wünsche euch all die Stärke, die Freude und die Liebe die ihr braucht....
Naomi Ruth's Großcousin
Ralf Böhmer
Ralf Böhmer <ralf2613@web.de>
Erlangen, Germany - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 3:58 PM CDT
My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your precious babygirl since Meg first told me about the three of you. As you know, she adores you, and I adore her, so I can't help but look upon the three of you with love and concern...I LOVE your swimsuit pictures...such joy in the midst of a heartache....what life brings us...and your embracing of it touches me deeply.
Much love to the three of you,
Katlin Larimer
Katlin Larimer <kplarimer@aol.com>
OMaha , NE USA - Wednesday, August 25, 2004 8:43 AM CDT
Dearest Rikki, Stefan & Precious Naomi,
What GREAT NEWS! So glad to hear that you have a doctor who is willing to work with you and to help care for Precious Naomi! You have to feel so blessed and it is so wonderful to know that there are caring doctors out there! I share with you Rikki, when I can't sleep or I am having a bad day, I read and re-read the entries of your guestbook! I do alot of crying, but also feel so blessed to have met you all! Please tell that little blessing in your stomach that we also love her and give her a Butterfly Kiss from the Smith Family! We Love You All and our Thoughts and Prayers are With You!
Love & God Bless,
John, Susie, Nick & Justin
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN US - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 9:41 PM CDT
Dear Naomi Ruth,
I am so excited to meet you! I am grateful to have kissed you through Rikki's belly, and felt your little rocker feet beneath her skin. I look forward to filling your little life with love and kisses and hope and happiness.
Thank you for blessing your parents these past few months. I have watched them grow together in love and happiness, hope and joy, and grief and courage, and it has strengthened my faith in the human spirit. You have the world's best parents.
We will cherish you while you are here with us, and we will cherish your memory when you are with God.
And don't worry, we'll be sure to take great care of your parents - and all your future little brothers and sisters!
Jenny Pageler <jpageler@amgen.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, August 24, 2004 2:24 PM CDT
Liebe Rikki, Stefan und Naomi
" Es ist unglaublich, wie viel Kraft die Seele dem Körper zu verleihen mag " (Wilhelm von Humboldt).
Die Geschichte von Eurer Tochter Naomi hat mich sehr bewegt. Ich habe erst heute durch Stefan's Email davon erfahren. Ihr habt Euch bestimmt gefragt: warum wir ? Keiner kennt die Antwort darauf. Aber alles im Leben hat seinen Sinn auch wenn wir es manchmal erst später begreifen. Es gibt für alles Statistiken aber es gibt Menschen, die sich nicht daran halten! Ich wünsche Euch 3 für die Zeit, die Ihr miteinander verbringt alles Gute, sehr viel Glück und Harmonie.
Ausserdem wünsche ich Euch weiterhin viel Kraft. Ich kann Euch nicht direkt helfen oder etwas beeinflussen aber Ihr habt viele Freunde und wenn wir auch nicht direkt helfen können wir sind in Gedanken bei Euch.
in Liebe Barbara
Barbara Häfner-Grabert <haefner-grabert@t-online.de>
Bubenreuth, Germany - Monday, August 23, 2004 2:40 PM CDT
It was an honor to be with you during our Bible studies w/
the CBC womens group. Our babies will be together as our
own little angels, your Naomi and my Mary. You continue to
be an inspiration to us all. May God's love guide you always and everywhere. Love, Cecelia
Cecelia Pellizzari <cecepell@inreach.com>
los altos, ca usa - Sunday, August 22, 2004 1:40 PM CDT
Rikki, Shephan & Naomi - your journey has greatly touched our hearts. Your appreciation of the joy and preciousness of life and your courage in preparation for death is truely insipiring. We are so proud of the both of you for living every moment of this experience to the fullest. Your are in our thoughts and prayers. Please give little Naomi a big kiss from each of us when she comes, she is a special little girl who has already touched a lot of lives.
Vicky Doyle & Jose Garcia <vdoyle@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA US - Saturday, August 21, 2004 12:45 AM CDT
Dear Stephan, Rikki, and Naomi: This guest book for you to save forever must please God knowing how much love is expressed here for "the least of these", His babies, who are so often "terminated", but Naomi will be handled with care for the full ride. I pray for your indulgence while I tell you that I especially liked reading your website and friend's comments like Valerie Smith's inspiration from Vashon and John Nagel's, for his love for you, and Michele and Kevin Banks for their good advice about taking photos for good memories, and Shelley Bennett's for her precious thoughts from Bellingham, and Chloe S.'s for her understanding, and Shellee W's for her generosity, and Gladys in Beijing for her historical perspective, and Fränzi und Günter for speaking to each of the 3 of you with faith in Gott from Deutschland, and Chris B. for not being inhibited about sharing the good news of his blessed grandbaby, and Auntie Nani for saying that they would hold the baby and give her a kiss, and Auntie Meggie for her intimate love, and Grandpa Jack for telling the truth simply, how much you have already touched us, deeply. I especially benefitted from the email from Ulla Blichfeldt Fox about the trip to Holland from her place on Vashon Island in Washington, USA.
I had heard it years ago, before my son needed to go to a mental hospital; back when he was the star athlete and in recovery from alcohol and other drugs. Now I am in Wetzlar Germany (but it feels like a trip to Holland) and he is in the hospital for a second time in Herborn and it is true that there are many blessings here, too, though Italy does not appear to be in our future, so to speak. It is still ok to feel the full range of emotions, I remind myself, because it feels weird sometimes. Some people will understand, others won't. We cherish our close friends. May you continue to enjoy the intimacy and space that you need when you need them. Love in Christ, Julie Rusk, fellow FOTOGIAN and at 011-49-6-441-24072, Joe and Susi's place in Germany until August 29, then home to the USA.
Julie Rusk <julierusk2002@yahoo.com>
Bothell, WA USA - Friday, August 20, 2004 11:58 AM CDT
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with Naomi. It is clear that you are appreciating every moment of her precious life. You are in our thoughts and prayers daily. We love you all!
Debbie and Sean
Debbie McDonald <maccdaddy50@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, August 20, 2004 11:32 AM CDT
Rikki, Stefan & PRECIOUS NAOMI,
Thank's for the updates! I want to get on a plane and come to be with you! You know, it is so funny - I e-mailed Nancy (Laurra's Mom) and she made a comment on how close we all got in such a short time! How the Good Lord Works in so Many Ways! I feel we all have been friends for-ever! Rikki & Stefan - please let us know if there is anything we can do! Our Love & Prayers are with you CONSTANTLY! We Love You!
John, Susie, Nick & Justin
P.S. Thank's for the Web-sites! I have learned alot!
Susie
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, I United States - Wednesday, August 18, 2004 11:01 PM CDT
Rikki & Stefan - Our thoughts and prayers are with you. What an incredible website. I truly admire you both embracing this pregnancy regardless of the outcome. You are both an inspiration for others to strive to live life so positively! God bless you all. Love, Janet & John McAuliffe (Turks and Caicos buddies)
Janet McAuliffe <BlondieM@Worldnet.att.net>
Weymouth, MA USA - Wednesday, August 18, 2004 8:56 PM CDT
Querida Naomi Ruth, tienes mucha suerte de tener a Erica y Stephan de padres. Sólo amor podemos recibir de toda esta experiencia que estan todos viviendo.
Los queremos mucho y estan presentes en nuestras oraciones!
Que Dios los bendiga. Besos grandes Karen, Miguel y Montserrat.
Karen Jordan Wiesner
Lima , Perú - Monday, August 16, 2004 9:30 PM CDT
Stefan, Rikki and Naomi. You are loved beyond imagine. We are so blessed by your faith and hope in our Heavenly Father. He will not forget nor let you down. You are in our hearts and prayers. We love you. Ephesians 1:15-19, Jeremiah 29:11
Koby and Nancy Kumasaka <nkumasak@cisco.com>
San Jose, CA - Monday, August 16, 2004 8:29 PM CDT
I feel so blessed to have been asked to visit you on Saturday. You both have the strength and wisdom of Job. Joan, who has been working in hospice for 10 years commented that your family was the highlight of her career. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Kate Brookhouser <kate2145@aol.com>
Santa Cruz, Ca USA - Monday, August 16, 2004 11:04 AM CDT
I am so sorry to hear of little Naomi. My name is Shellee and I lost my son, Aaron, to anencephaly on 8/17/01. He would be turning 3 tomorrow. We found out at my 20 week u/s that he had this fatal condition and would not survive. We opted to carry him full-term anyway and were very blessed by that decision. He was born still - died during the hour that I was pushing.
If you have any questions for me about what we did, how we preserved memories, etc. please feel free to e-mail me.
May God bless you and little Naomi!
Shellee <shelleew@charter.net>
- Monday, August 16, 2004 7:41 AM CDT
Stephan , Ricki, Naomi and Jesse
We have been thinking of you every day and send all our love and admiration to you. Wishing you all the best over the next few weeks.
Love Kathryn, Michael, Charlotte, Joshua and William.
Kathryn Tuttas
Erlangen, Germany - Monday, August 16, 2004 6:44 AM CDT
Dear Stefan and Rikki,
Naomi, with her loving parents, has already made her marks in this world, and definitely on me. Through war, heroes are made and the courageousness is tested. It is also through extra-ordinary happenings the best in us are being brought out to the surface.
I first heard about Naomi last Thursday. I read through the postings in your web site multiple times in the weekend. My tears of sadness, then, admiration and, then, joy for your whole family flown on its own accord. Naomi is in the best of hands. My prayers are with you. Our Father above will take care of all.
Gladys Wu
Beijing, China - Monday, August 16, 2004 6:10 AM CDT
Hallo Naomi,
du wirst zwar nicht die Welt in ihrer Breite und Fülle kennenlernen, aber dafür die uneingeschränkte Liebe und Fürsorge deiner Eltern und der ganzen Familie. Wir wünschen dir eine schöne Zeit mit ihnen und Gott möge dich beschützen jeden Tag und jede Nacht und immer über dich wachen.
Hallo Rikki, hallo Stefan,
wir wünschen euch, dass ihr trotz allem eine glückliche Zeit mit eurem Töchterchen verbringen könnt. Außerdem Gottes Segen und dass er die Quelle, aus der ihr eure Kraft schöpft nicht versiegen läßt.
Fränzi und Günter Böhmer <gufboehmer@t-online.de>
Erlangen, Germany - Saturday, August 14, 2004 11:08 AM CDT
Hi you guys,
It's Chris Catherine as ytou know is in Europe. I haven't read everything yet since I've been s o busy but our prayers are with all three of you.
I just went down to LA last week to see my Grandson be born.Ethan Bradley Frey was born last wednesday at 343 in the afternoon. I am a very proud grandpa. Stay in touch and I will try to swing by sometime in the next week or so to say hi. Take care. Chris
Chris Bradley <candcnbc@aol.com>
Boulder Creek, Ca. USA - Friday, August 13, 2004 10:45 PM CDT
Dear Stefan and Rikki - It seems as though I have known you both for so much longer than just the week we spent together on Provo in April. The two of you made all of us there so aware of the joy you felt in expecting Naomi's arrival. I am in awe of the loving and realistic manner in which you are sharing the news of Naomi's circumstances. You are a truly exceptional couple with wisdom far beyond that which most of us are ever called upon to display. May your love keep you stong....the three of you are obviously loved by many!
Deanna Rohnke - (Laurra's aunt, Nancy's sister)
Deanna Rohnke <bdrohnke@greeleynet.com>
Greeley, CO USA - Friday, August 13, 2004 2:07 PM CDT
Liebe Rikki mit Naomi Ruth, lieber Stefan,
euer Schicksal oder vielleicht besser euer Weg hat mich sehr berührt. Ich wünsche euch von ganzem Herzen, dass ihr eure Tochter für viele Tage in den Armen halten und die wenigen kostbaren Stunden genießen könnt.
Alles Gute und viel Kraft für die bevorstehende Geburt.
Verena
München, Germany - Friday, August 13, 2004 1:49 PM CDT
Thinking of you today.
Offering you endless love and support.
Wishing we lived even closer so we could shower you with lovin'.
Sending you hugs.
We love you.
Dave & Dana Nelson <danan@qpointonline.com>
Auburn, WA USA - Thursday, August 12, 2004 4:37 PM CDT
Isn't she lovely, isn't she wonderful, isn't she precious
MADE FROM LOVE
We love you all and look forward to hearing of her arrival.
Shelley Bennett <jrbjrwa@aol.com>
Bellingham , Wa USA - Thursday, August 12, 2004 11:39 AM CDT
We are thinking of you, praying for you and love you all very much!
Brian and Andrea Rolf <andrea@sittignw.com>
Redmond, WA USA - Thursday, August 12, 2004 10:53 AM CDT
I would like to share a poem by Emily Perl Kingsley that still makes me cry, not tears of sorrow, but of wonder. She is eloquent in her explanation to "an outsider" and has most certainly helped many to understand the experience, wisdom and enrichment that all children bring to our lives...however short their time here with us may be. My son was born with Trisomy 21 (Down syndrome). I am still amazed at what he brings to my life, and all those he touches.
These life changes make us better people. While my experiences are very different from yours, I understand how dreams change. And your family is handling your significant change in plans with the utmost dignity and love.
I wish you only the best.
Sincerely, Ulla Blichfeldt Fox (Bergman Senn Pageler & Frockt)
Emily Perl Kingsley begins as follows:
"I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability--to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this........
When your going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip--to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wounderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The Gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.
After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."
"Holland?!?" you exclaim. "What do you mean, Holland?? I signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."
But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland, and there you must stay.
The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine, and disease. It's just a differant place.
So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you never would have met.
It's just a Different place. It's slower paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for awhile and you catch your breath, you look around.....and you begin to notice that Holland has windmills...Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.
But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy....And they're all bragging about what a wonderful time that they had there. And for the rest of your life you will say, "Yes, that's were I was supposed to go. Thats what I had planned."
And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, go away...because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss.
But.....If you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things...about Holland."
Ulla Blichfeldt Fox
Vashon, WA USA - Wednesday, August 11, 2004 4:50 PM CDT
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. ~Kahlil Gibran
Rikki & Stefan my thoughts and prayers are with you!!
Love You!!! ~Casey
Casey Murray <casey.murray@qwest.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Wednesday, August 11, 2004 2:28 PM CDT
Liebe Rikki, lieber Stefan,
erst aufgrund Eurer E-Mail haben wir von dem Schicksal Eurer Tochter Naomi Ruth erfahren. Wir waren schockiert und fassungslos. Wir bewundern Eure Stärke und sind sicher dass Ihr Naomi eine sehr schöne, wenn auch kurze Zeit auf Erden schenken werdet. Wir denken an Euch und wünschen Euch von Herzen alles Gute.
Sandra+Holger Roth , Kerstin+Thomas+Dominik Cont <Sandra.Roth1@gmx.net>
Baiersdorf, Deutschland - Wednesday, August 11, 2004 9:03 AM CDT
Dear Erica, Stefan and precious little NaomiRuth,
"I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes,I will remember your miracles of long ago. I will meditate on all your works and consider all your mighty deeds. Your ways, O God are holy. What GOd is so great as our God? You are the God who performs miracles; you display your power among the peoples." Psalms 77:11-14 Naomi, you are already a miracle just as you are, and you can't lose! God will either continue to entrust you to parents who know Him and trust Him,or He will bring you home to live as a perfect angel in Heaven with Him, or (my favorite) God will,indeed, display His mighty power and transform whatever needs transforming in your little body and deliver you to your wonderful parents, perfectly formed.
Valerie Smith
Bellevue, Wa - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 3:50 PM CDT
Queridos Stefan,Erica y Naomi: Gracias por compartir con nosotros esta experiencia que les a tocado vivir ,sentimos mucho lo de Naomi Ruth como si fuera parte de nuestra familia ,,Creemos en DIOS ,él es grande y sabio ,él decidirá lo mejor para ella ,Sé que existen los milagros y las esperanzas es lo último que se pierde ,Estamos en estos momentos con uds ,Sus amigos por siempre Joachim ,Dalhía y Sebastian
Dalhía Jordan de Kraemer <Jokra@t-online .de>
Erlangen, Germany - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 2:28 PM CDT
We'd like to offer you our thoughts and prayers and hope you will truly know the blessing that's been bestowed upon you. It's hard when the control is not within our grasp, and the feeling of helplessness. May you find some comfort in knowing that it is however in His hands.
Relish in the moments you have and believe in the moments to come.
Lance Smith / Jennie Saddler <Smithnsaddler@aol.com>
Longview, WA United States - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 9:48 AM CDT
Liebe Naomi,
Deine Eltern sind schon voller Freude auf Dich.
Sie werden Dich sofort in Ihr Herz schließen,
und das Glück Deines neuen Lebens mit Dir teilen,
denn es ist wunderschön
Mutter und Vater zu werden...Wir sprechen aus Erfahrung :-)
Wir wünschen Euch allen eine wunderschöne Zeit
(ich bin mir sicher,die werdet Ihr haben)
und knuddelt Naomi mal von uns.
Lina + Felix + Silvia + Torsten
LinaFelixSilviaTorsten <st.steiner@imail.de>
Germany - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 5:12 AM CDT
Stephen,Erika and dear angel Naomi, You are in my heart always and know all to well the sorrow you feel. Pain is a feeling that will not last but will fade slowly. Memories and joy will enter. God let me experience his gift of Love,a joy I will never forget. Feel his Love and hold tight. Naomi,you are a gift from above and will be in the loving arms of your Father above but you will always be in my heart. Thinking of you always.Im sending warm hugs to you both. Love Connie
Connie Bernhardt <connieskats2@hotmail.com>
Kirkland, Wa USA - Tuesday, August 10, 2004 0:15 AM CDT
Hi Sweetheart, Your Daddy used to live with me when he met your beautiful Mom. Please know that you are sooooooo loved by all of us here and our Father in Heaven.
John Nagel <john7682@comcast.net>
Sammamish, WA USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 11:24 PM CDT
Erica, Stefan and Naomi,
You will be in my thoughts as the next couple weeks/months pass. From someone who's recently lost a precious wonder, a few words I hope help...this is your baby, you are a mother, so take time to write down your feelings and thoughts in a special place, get those arms ready to hold her for as long as you can and take lots of pictures for your memory book -- this will make remembering her spirit much more real FOREVER! Cry out those tears, bring out your smile and remember the joy and happiness her movements bring to your soul!
Love, Michele & Kevin Banks <mmbanks70@hotmail.com>
Woodinville, WA USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 8:26 PM CDT
You are all in our prayers. I am glad that you have had this time together. Your faith and love are an inspiration for us all.
Clare Megathlin <clare.megathlin@attws.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 3:54 PM CDT
You are always in our prayers.
Garry Flower <gflower@acuson.com>
Ambler, Pa US - Monday, August 9, 2004 1:43 PM CDT
Dear Naomi, Thank you for coming to us through such beautiful people. The love and joy your parents are experiencing because of you is inspiring to us all. Blessings and love surround you and your parents. Thank you for the gift that you are.
Love, Erin <lindyhopper28@yahoo.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 12:30 AM CDT
hi rikki! its chloe...i am so sorry about your precious baby but i know that you are the best people to be with her through this... i am so happy that she has you to keep her safe. i love you so much...
Chloe Sellers
saettle, wa USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 12:06 AM CDT
Rikki and Stephan,
We just got to know of it right now. We're soooo sorry for you, but glad to see how you're standing it.
We know how much you love this child and we're sure you'll get your time with her, to give her this intense love.
We wish you all the best and wir drucken the Daumen.
Virgilio, Adriana und Henrique <dridilo@terra.com.br>
Salvador, BA Brazil - Monday, August 9, 2004 12:03 AM CDT
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. The love and support from your family and friends is truly amazing!
I share your thoughts of being pregnant- each second is a miracle and something that a woman should feel blessed to experience. You both have such a wonderful outlook and Naomi will be so loved for how ever long she is meant to be with you, and for ever more after that. You both are so strong and admirable to share this with us and make lasting memories for your family to look back on some day.
Thinking of you often-
Your Turks and Caicos Friends...
Kim and Jim
Kim Rutherford <k-rutherford@ti.com>
Boston, MA USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 8:43 AM CDT
Your faith is inspiring and she will be well taken care of by God when she enters her new home.
She will go from one set of loving parents to the arms of her Father. God bless
Judy Worland <j.worland@btlaw.com>
Indianapolis , IN USA - Monday, August 9, 2004 7:58 AM CDT
Erika, Stefan und Naomi,
Ihr seid Super. Naomi hat Glueck wenn sie Euch als Eltern hat.
Liebe Gruesse aus Brasilien
Familie Souza <dridilo@terra.com.br>
Salvador, Bahia Brazil - Monday, August 9, 2004 7:18 AM CDT
Hi there
Just want you to know that I have been thinking about you guys and have been praying. God bless.
Patty Mossing <mossingps@hotmail.com>
Bothell, wa usa - Sunday, August 8, 2004 10:03 PM CDT
Dear Naomi Ruth,
We loved seeing your mommy and daddy recently at Natasha's and Victor's house, and to hear your story. It's amazing how loved you are and how your mom just glows in carrying you. You are truly a gift made in His Image and we are grateful for you. Love, Dick and Jennifer
Dick & Jennifer Hawthorne <spress@earthlink.net>
Altadena, CA USA - Sunday, August 8, 2004 7:36 PM CDT
Dear Stefan and Rikki: You are already fabulous parents. Courage, strength, faith and love--Naomi is lucky to have you two for her Mom and Dad. We are thinking of you! God Bless.
Charlie and Margaret Laboda <charlielaboda@comcast.net>
Seattle , WA USA - Sunday, August 8, 2004 2:35 PM CDT
Dear Naomi and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you. You have the greatest parents as well as a wealth of other relatives and friends all over this world. Bless you and God speed.
Suzanne (Walters) Jones <skhuntjones@hotmail.com>
Seattle, WA - Sunday, August 8, 2004 0:03 AM CDT
Our thoughts and prayers have been with you since we learned of your being! Rikki and Stefan - you are both such strong people - Naomi is lucky to have such wonderful parents! We love you all! Collen, Greg and Gavin Birch.
Colleen Birch & Family <cgbirch@cox.net>
Las Vegas, NV USA - Saturday, August 7, 2004 3:11 PM CDT
Rikki, Stefan & Naomi - I am deeply saddened to hear the news of your precious daughter, but I DO KNOW she is with the best parents any human being could ask for. You both are amazing and your spirt is contagious. Rikki - your smile is the heart and soul of you and I know Naomi will have it too. I wish I could have seen you during your visit and I apologize for missing the both of you. Marc and I are praying for you and we know GOD will take care of you during these tough times. Please know our love and positive energy is being shot down to California continuously!!! We love you and I am giving you big fat smooches all over your tummy!
Krissi & Marc Thomas <kthomas@ciaofornow.com>
Seattle, WA - Saturday, August 7, 2004 12:06 AM CDT
Precious friends,
Do not look forward to what may happen tomorrow; the same everlasting Father who cares for you today will take care of you tomorrow and every day. Either He will shield you from suffering, or He will give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace, then, put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginations, and say continually: "The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart has trusted in Him and I am helped. He is not only with me but in me and I in Him."
Amen and Praise the Lord! Diane & I are with you in love, prayer and trust.
Ken Ramey <kenramey@msn.com>
Bothell, WA USA - Saturday, August 7, 2004 9:50 AM CDT
Dear Erica,
I'm so sorry to hear the sad news about your baby daughter. When did you find out? Jeff and Ann hadn't mentioned anything to me, so it must have been after your visit.You have a wonderful outlook. I admire you and your husband.I wish the best for your family and will have your daughter in my prayers.
Vivian
Vivian Lohn-Tinker <VLohntinke@aol.com>
San Diego, CA San Diego - Saturday, August 7, 2004 1:23 AM CDT
Dearest Rikki, Stefan & Naomi Ruth,
We didn't get to spend much time with you, but the time we did spend was priceless! We feel we made terrific friends with you and we feel you are so blessed with Naomi. We know you won't have much time with Naomi, but we also know that the time you have had with her and will have with her will be Wonderful and God will Bless each and every moment! We love you all and God Bless Each and Everyone of You!
Love,
Susie, John, Nick & Justin Smith
Susie Smith <dssmith82@earthlink.net>
Whiteland, IN US - Friday, August 6, 2004 7:51 PM CDT
Naomi, You are so loved and so beautiful! Thank you for coming into our lives. You are truly a blessing and part of an amazing family. We love you!
The Bert Family <lauriesbert@comcast.net>
Seattle, WA USA - Friday, August 6, 2004 6:35 PM CDT
Sweet Naomi, you are powerfully loved, and have been since the first dream of you appeared. May this love hold you and keep you, and may you know even now, of the many loving arms that await you! You and your family are held in our prayers. Love~ Tina, Chloe & Christian
Tina Sellers <tsellers@spu.edu>
Seattle, WA - Friday, August 6, 2004 6:14 PM CDT
Naomi, wir haben uns soooo auf dich gefreut und auf ein langes gemeinsames Leben voller Glück und Freude.
Deine Oma und dein Opa aus Deutschland
Inge und Gerhard Boehmer
Baiersdorf/Germany, - Friday, August 6, 2004 2:29 AM CDT
Naomi I cannot begin to explain to you how amazing your parents are. Their love for you is beautiful and a concrete example of agape love. My family has prayed for you since they day we first knew you were in your mommy's tummy. Thank you for blessing us with the lessons you were sent here to teach us. The Lium girls cannot wait to hold you and give you a big kiss!
Auntie Nani and the Lium ladies <nanilium@comcast.net>
Bothell, wa usa - Friday, August 6, 2004 0:24 AM CDT
My dearest Naomi, I love you sooooo much. I'm so thankful you waited to come to Rikki and Stefan until they lived closer, so I'll have a chance to meet you and hold you and tell you I love you in person. You are my first and most precious niece, and I love you. Can't wait to meet you soon! Love, Auntie Meggie
Auntie Meggie <megpageler@msn.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, August 5, 2004 6:24 PM CDT
Your faith is a living testimony of God's unconditional love, mercy, and grace. May the Lord bless and keep you during these challenging days...fulling you with the power of His Holy Spirit, wisdom, endurance, love for one another, and hope.
Kelley Drake
San Jose, CA - Thursday, August 5, 2004 1:48 PM CDT
Welcome to our family, Naomi. You are long anticipated. You have touched us all already, deeply.
Jack Pageler, G'Pa
Seattle, WA USA - Tuesday, August 3, 2004 10:55 PM CDT
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