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It was 10 years ago today that we lost our Little Princess Madi. I can't help but wonder what life would be like if a 12 1/2 year old daughter were part of our family. I miss her so much, but am truly grateful to have been her Mommy for 2 years, 8 months, and 4 days. We can't wait to see our Princess in Heaven!!! Never take your kiddos for granted....hug them, kiss them, and tell them you love them every single day!!!
Madi's Mommy <mitchem@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA - Monday, October 28, 2013 11:07 AM CDT
Marian, Mike and Mikey,
Just want to drop by and say hi. We miss your family. Hope you all are doing well. From his writing, Mikey must be a handsome young man now.
Christina is 11 years old now, and she is in six grade. She changed her name to Savannah for reasons we don't know exactly. We are happy to see her grow-up like a normal kid, while those old days will be forever in our memory.


Jun, Mingyan, and Savannah <jlu276@gmail.com>
Cary, NC USA - Saturday, October 12, 2013 10:42 PM CDT
I miss my princess! Sure glad I got to be her mom though! Mother's Day is still more special because of her. I'm truly blessed to still have my sweet boys!!!
Madi's Mom
Riverside, CA - Sunday, May 13, 2012 11:08 AM CDT
We never forget. Can it be 7 years?
So proud of how Madi's big brother, Mikey, is turning out.
He is an Uncle now. Madi would be Auntie Madi!!!
Sending love and hugs to you all,
Madi's Auntie Linda & Aunt Carol

Linda Dealy <dealyl@wwdb.org>
Fontana, Ca 92335 - Thursday, October 28, 2010 7:33 PM CDT
Hi Marian and Mike,
I was just thinking of Madi and thinking she would be 9 by now. I still remember her beautiful smile like it was yesterday. You are all still in my prayers. You have a beautiful angel looking over all of you.
Love,
Lori

Lori <ltygerson@yahoo.com>
Lake Forest, CA - Wednesday, July 28, 2010 1:21 AM CDT
Happy birthday Madi!! Time goes by so quickly, and yet it seems like just yesterday we had to say goodbye. Thinking about you guys today! Love you!!
Richelle <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
Yucaipa, CA - Wednesday, February 24, 2010 1:08 PM CST
Thinking about our girls! Love you!
Rikki <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Sunday, August 30, 2009 10:01 PM CDT
WHAT A BEAUTIFULL LITTLE ANGEL SHE IS....THIS IS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WAY OF REMEMBERING YOUR CHILD AND SHARING WITH US HOW WONDERFUL SHE WAS....(((((HUGS)))))
JULIANA
SANTA ANA, CA USA - Tuesday, March 31, 2009 5:03 PM CDT
Just checking in on you guys. I still have "our" picture up on my site as I just cannot bear to take it down. I'm so thankful to know you guys. Your lives have and continue to bless mine.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Severe Aplastic Anemia <saawarrior@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Saturday, February 28, 2009 8:05 AM CST
Happy Birthday Madi!
Wow, I cant believe Mikey turned 11. Happy belated birthday to him too. Hope everyone is doing Ok. Sending everyone big hugs!

Love,
Cori

Cori Ramirez <dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net or www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon>
Fontana, CA - Wednesday, February 25, 2009 8:41 PM CST
Just wanted to see her face, I know her birthday is coming up and I think of her always... God bless Tasha
Natasha Johnson <Tishtash33@aol.com>
Lake Elsinore, Ca USA - Tuesday, January 13, 2009 5:59 PM CST


Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy (MPS-III) BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, November 15, 2008 11:01 PM CST
I still think of her.

God bless,
Monica

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, November 7, 2008 6:04 PM CST
We sure miss your princess too! Wonder what the girls would have been for Halloween this year. We love you guys!!!
Richelle Bates (Queen Maddy's Mommy) <rikkilee23@hotmail.com or www.miracleformaddy.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Sunday, November 2, 2008 10:04 PM CST
I still look at your daughter's sweet face.. after following your story for many years. You're in our prayers, along with all the sweet little kids with cancer. You taught me alot - I hug my kids often and appreciate the little things with them so much more. Thank you.
Julene
- Wednesday, October 29, 2008 12:49 AM CDT
Thought about you at the Walk this past weekend. Of course, I think of you guys every day and continue to lift you up in prayer. "Our" picture is still on my homepage as I can't bear to take it down. Know that you're loved and missed terribly. Hugs!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, May 8, 2008 12:17 AM CDT
The Mitchem Family,
I just wanted to let you know that you were missed at the Rainbow Hero's Walk this weekend. I'm sure Madi caught the bouquet of balloons I sent to her. Your family will also have a special place in my heart
Maureen

Maureen <keste001@mc.duke.edu>
Durham, NC USA - Monday, May 5, 2008 2:13 PM CDT
Just wanted to stop by and let you know we love you!!!

Madi,

We miss you tons and tons. We all look forward to the day we are reunited with you and Miss Moo. We love you!!!

Rikki <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Sunday, March 9, 2008 10:11 PM CDT
I didn't miss your Birthday little Princess... I was just fashionably late! I hope that where ever you are you got to have an Evil Aunty "cocktail" party!
EVIL AUNTY SHELLEY <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA USofA - Tuesday, February 26, 2008 1:53 AM CST
Happy Birthday Madi. Just wanted you to know I still think about you, always.
Cori Ramirez <dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net or www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon>
- Sunday, February 24, 2008 4:30 PM CST


Alicia, John, Ciara, Hunter, & ^^Angel^^ Tommy (MPS-III) BENNETT CHILDREN'S JOURNAL <mps3mom@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, February 14, 2008 9:58 PM CST
IH, its me Katelyn Tygerson iam Loir Tygerson daughter i dont no if you remember me or if you have talked 2 my mom latly she is firends with robben they worked 4 ganral inployment 2 gather but you may not remember.... i was about 10 years old when i went 2 Madison's funeral it was veary sad but the slid show you guys made was beautiful and i wont you 2 no that madison and your family are in my prayers and we are thinking of her and praying 4 her...
Katelyn Tygerson <katelyntygerson@yahoo.com>
ca u.s - Friday, February 8, 2008 1:40 AM CST
Merry Christmas friends!!!!!

Love ya!

Richelle (Queen Maddy's Mommy) <rikkilee23@hotmail.com or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
san bernardino, CA - Monday, December 25, 2006 9:19 PM CST
Dear Mitchum family,

I still cry when I see pictures of your Princess Madi. I hope you don't mind a stranger telling you that after I am reunited with my own daughter that I cannot wait to meet the other cancer children, including precious Madi.

Thinking of you this blessed season and praying for a Holy Christmas.


The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, * Saint Gabbie * and Noah

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, December 22, 2006 11:22 AM CST
I loved your address section about awaiting the return of our Savior. Praise God that you will see her soon. I am praying for your family during this time of year.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/markjones

Mark Jones <mark@truehopecf.org>
Canton, OH - Saturday, December 9, 2006 9:29 AM CST
Our hearts and prayers are with you during this special time. We know from experience that life will never be the same but there are times when this hollow, throbing pain becomes even emptier and acute. May our precious Lord shower you with His comfort and peace and, above all, hope.

Yolanda Rogers, Mom to Anna
- Saturday, October 28, 2006 6:00 PM CDT
HI Guys,
I just wanted to stop by and let you all know I was thinking about you and the Princess. I just went and visited the Queen. I think it took me 20 min to post a small note. There just seems to be no right words. I visit all the kids several times a week, just cant get out the words to say hi. I was going thru some pictures that got misplaced and found a few more of Brandon and Madi. I dont know if they were ones that I forwarded or not, they might be similar. Brandon saw them to and asked me who that was, I told him she is a Princess.

I love you guys
Cori

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbrige.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, CA - Thursday, August 31, 2006 11:16 PM CDT
Dear Princess Madi's family,

Just want you to know I still tear up when I come look at the pictures of Madi. I'm so very sorry...we know God loves them so much and they are truly happy now....but why did they have to leave so early?

God bless,
Saint Gabbie Paquette's Mama

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, August 4, 2006 5:59 PM CDT
Wanting you to know that you are by no means forgotten. I love you very dearly and you remain in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings in Christ.
Khalita Aplastic Anemia Duke Peds BMT <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, July 18, 2006 0:35 AM CDT
Dear Marian and Mike,
Just a little note to let you know that we think of you and princess Madi.
Sending our love across the ocean,

Harmen, Hanna, Jan and Jacomien <jacomienwichers@planet.nl>
Haren, The Netherlands - Thursday, July 13, 2006 3:16 PM CDT
Hi Mike & Marian, I am so happy that I finally got to you meet the both of you and my west coast counter part (the original Evil Auntie Shelly). I only wish we could have met under different circumstances than Steve's service. Marian thank you so much for lending me a shoulder and an ear. It helped me more than you will ever know. Evil Auntie Shelly it was awesome to finally meet you and I will let you know the next time I come to town so we can party like the Evil Aunties we are!! Take care guys!
King Brandyn's Evil Auntie Dawn <lilsis214@aol.com>
MD - Wednesday, June 28, 2006 3:26 PM CDT
HAPPY FATHERS DAY MIKE. WE LUB YOU!!!
The Bates family <rikkilee23@hotmail.com or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Redlands, CA - Sunday, June 18, 2006 10:52 PM CDT
Hey Guys,

Just wanted to stop by and say I lub you! Hope you have a good week!

Hugs,

Rikki <rikkilee23@hotmail.com or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Redlands, CA - Thursday, June 15, 2006 10:03 AM CDT
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LETTING YOU KNOW THAT YOUR THOUGHT OF ON MOTHER'S DAY.KEEPING YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS.



A Mother's Day Wish From Heaven

Dear Mr. Hallmark,

I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear
A rather strange idea, I see everything from here.
I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card
A card of love for my mother, as this day for her is hard.

There must be some mistake I thought, every card you could imagine
Except I could not find a card, from a child who lives in heaven.
She is still a mother too, no matter where I reside
I had to leave, she understands, but oh the tears she’s cried.

I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know
That though I live in heaven now, I still love my mother so.
She talks with me, and dreams with me; we still share laughter too,
Memories our way of speaking now, would you see what you could do?

My mother carries me in her heart, her tears she hides from sight.
She writes poems to honor me, sometimes far into the night
She plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells
She writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease their pain as well.

So you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth
I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth
She needs to be honored, and remembered too
Just as the children of earth will do.

Thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you’ll do your best
I have done all I can do; to you I’ll leave the rest.
Find a way to tell her, how much she means to me
Until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity.a

LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~>
EDMONTON ,ALBERTACanada, - Sunday, May 14, 2006 9:01 PM CDT
Hi, I know I just met you guys in clinic the other day (Lane's mom) but I was just looking on your website today and I can't tell you how sorry I am. I wish I could write some helpful words but there are no words to say that could make it better. I just want to say that you are some strong people and I will continue to pray for ya'll.

Sincerely,

Danielle Brown (Lane's Mom) I met ya'll in clinic on Sunday.

Danielle Brown <danielleejb@yahoo.com>
Durham, NC USA - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 9:46 AM CDT
Hey guys, I was just checking in. Wow how fast three years go by. It seems like yesterday we were walking the halls of Duke. Miss you guys bunches.
Love,

Sam and Nancy <samdramsey@comcast.net>
Erie, Co - Thursday, April 6, 2006 10:41 PM CDT
Hi I am Rebekah Brown, Richelle Bates friend. I met you at her birthday party this yr. Your daughter was adorable. HUGS to you and your whole family.

I hug my kids every chance I get because of Richelle and everyone that she knows who has gone through this same situation, you have changed my life and the way I think about my kids or any kid for that matter. Thank you for that.

rebekah brown <thegreateststarr@aol.com>
sb, ca - Wednesday, March 29, 2006 1:29 PM CST
Oh Miss Princess Madi...
You missed one fun Party!!! This Evil Aunty of yours got her head shaved and so did 5 of her kids from school! Some drunk guy got his head shaved too, but we don't know him.... Anyway, Queen Maddy's Mommy and Daddy and Ethan were there and of corse your Mommy and Daddy and Mikey, and Aunt Linda & Aunt Carol (the not so evil aunties) even your Gramma was there! It was a good day, and we raised over $2000.00!

This bald thing is kinda weird! If I don't have a hat or beanie on, I just rub it all the time.... By the way, I see why you loved the HAT THING>>> How fun!!! I couldn't figure out which one to wear so I took them ALL to school and changed every hour!
Love from your one and only,

Evil Aunty Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, March 20, 2006 1:01 AM CST
Dear Mitchem family,

I still think of Madi and stop by your site to look for updates. I love the new picture and still have the pictures of her in our computer with the cheerleading uniform.

I know she is deeply missed.

God bless,
Monica

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, March 9, 2006 8:35 AM CST
Happy Birthday Angel Madi. Hope you had a great party in heaven. God Bless you all.
France Albert
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Monday, February 27, 2006 11:13 AM CST
I love the new picture. Today has been hard for me, too. I so loved my little granddaughter! She has been missed by many others, too. I couldn't mention it when I was over because I didn't want us all to cry, but I'm doing it now that I'm alone! Please know I love all of you! I told my hairdresser this morning it was Madi's 5th birthday and she patted my shoulder - she knew I was hurting. So many loved and adored her!!
Grandma FloraMaye <dealyfm@wwdb.org>
Riverside, CA Riverside - Saturday, February 25, 2006 1:34 AM CST
TODAY IS YOUR BIRTHDAY
YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN FIVE
I WILL SMILE BECAUSE YOU HAPPENED
AND NOT CRY BECAUSE YOU DIED!

LOVE FROM


THE EVIL,EVIL, EVIL, AUNTY SHELLEY <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA - Saturday, February 25, 2006 0:01 AM CST
HAPPY DOOT DAY TO YOU, HAPPY DOOT DAY TO YOU, HAPPY DOOT DAY DEAR MADI!!!!!! HAPPY DOOT DAY TO YOU!!!! WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU PRINCESS. CAN'T WAIT WE ALL GET TO HAVE A GROUP HUG WITH OUR PRINCESS AND OUR QUEEN.

LOVE YOU SWEET GIRL!!!

Mike, Marian, and Mikey,

On this day, five years ago, a little princess was blessed with an amazing family. Madi is proud of you and all you do to help others. I think God wispers all the wonderful things you've done in her little ear and say's, "Be proud of them".

We'll be smiling with thoughts of madi today! We love you!!!

Squeezers,
The Bates

Richelle (Queen Maddy's Mommy) <rikkilee23@hotmail.com or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Redlands, CA - Friday, February 24, 2006 10:37 AM CST
Praying for you this week - and I'm sure there is one heck of a party being planned in heaven!
Julene
St. Louis, - Monday, February 20, 2006 7:52 AM CST
Hi Mitchems!

I got your email today with the link to Maddy Bates' video! Yeah... it was a tear jerker!

Then I had this horrible thought, that I had missed Madi's Birthday! So.. I came right to her site.... and it is close... It is about the time that invatations should be sent for her party!!!! I will be awaiting mine, I am sure it will arrive any day now! Because... I will not cry because it's over, I will smile because SHE happened... Let's celebrate Madi's Birthday!!!! So... when is the party?

Love,

Evil Aunt Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 11:41 PM CST
God is SO amazing! I was JUST thinking about you guys today and thought about how I needed to come sign in. And, then, lo and behold, you left a message on my guestbook today! I love you guys dearly and definitely miss you. Hopefully I'll get to see you in May!?!? I continue to lift you up in prayer! Thanks so much for keeping in touch and thinking of me :) HUGS!
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 6:21 PM CST
Hi Mitchems,
Just thinking of you!
Lots of love from,

Evil Aunt Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, January 21, 2006 2:41 AM CST
Merry Christmas...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <eleasha@cox.net>
www.caringbridge.org/va/cody, - Sunday, December 25, 2005 7:44 AM CST
Hi,

Just drop by and say hi, and hope you all are doing well. We had a good visit to duke a few days ago. Just so happy to see many familiar faces. Hopefully we can see you all in next year's rainbow walk.

Happy holidays,

Jun, Mingyan and Christina <jlu276@yahoo.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, December 21, 2005 6:41 AM CST
Just stopping by to drop off some hugs and love...you are in our thoughts and prayers...
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha <eleasha@cox.net>
www.caringbridge.org/va/cody, - Monday, December 19, 2005 8:06 AM CST
Another cute photo of the "Madie's"

So how about a "Christmas Kereoke on Monday? With the not so evil Aunt Linda? Is she still doing it???? The Monday before Christmas is always the best!

Holidays are tough!!! Thinking of you..

Evil Aunt Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, December 17, 2005 4:00 AM CST
Hi Marion
Thanks for your generous words of encouragement. Jeremiah smiled at me yesterday for the first time since the transplant. It was awesome!!! our address is 5467 Taylor Street, Davenport, IA 52806.

I am sure the holidays coming up are hard for you all. We think of you often.

Hugs!!
Peggy & Jeremiah

Peggy Fulton <pegakamogan2@aol.com>
Davenport, IA USA - Saturday, November 19, 2005 11:35 AM CST
Hi Mitchems!

The photo of the Maddy/ies is adorable!
But....... What about the Light The Night Update & Photos?????
Always the Evil One,

Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, November 16, 2005 11:20 PM CST
Mike,Marion and Mikey,
Just wanted to say we are thinking of you guys. I wish we could see you more often than we do. I miss ya!!!
We had a great Vacation to Maui, just Sam and I, but glad to be back with the kids. Praying for you always!
Love, Sam and Nancy, Cooper, Kenzie and Nolie

sam and nancy www.caringbridge.com/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@comcast.net>
Erie, Co - Wednesday, November 2, 2005 3:18 PM CST
I can't believe it's been so long. I wanted to let you know that you guys are still very dear to me. I think of you all the time. I still have that picture of Madi and me up on my page. She's just so CUTE! Know that I love you and that you're in my prayers even when I'm bad about signing the guestbook and keeping up. Blessings in Christ.
KhalitaDuke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Saturday, October 29, 2005 10:01 AM CDT
Thinking of you today. Many prayers sent your way.


Rachel Maglio <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
san bernardino, ca - Friday, October 28, 2005 4:37 PM CDT
Hey Mitchem's!

Where are the photos from light the night?

Hi Miss Princess!

E.A. Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Saturday, October 22, 2005 2:16 AM CDT
i'm so sorry to hear that she pastaway at least we all know she not suffering and that shes in a better place.
Shannon Olds <maries_appleblossoms@yahoo.com>
Chillicothe, OH USA - Wednesday, October 19, 2005 0:44 AM CDT
Okay, Okay!!!!

I just read my last entry and there seems to be a few extra letters in there, in places they are not supposed to be! Well, It was late and I was tired... and the cocktails I had appreciated....... well, never mind!

Still your Evil Aunty...

Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, October 13, 2005 0:27 AM CDT
So... My Miss Princess...

You know, your family is so awesome....I went to the "Light The Night Walk" .... and had the privllege of spending time with ALL of them again! Will we ever know the magnitude of the people you havew touched?

Alwasy remember.... Your Evil Aunty LOVES you!!!
Love to the M. M. M's
FDrom the Evil Aunty Shelley

Evil Aunty Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, October 12, 2005 2:22 AM CDT
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Love Always BRENDA My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
EDMONTON,ALBERTA CANADA, - Thursday, September 29, 2005 3:39 PM CDT
Dear Mike and Marian,
Just a small note to let you know that we are thinking of you and Madison. Hope you are well.
Are thoughts go back to you so very often,
Love,

Harmen, Hanna, Jan and Jacomien <jacomienwichers@planet.nl>
Haren, The Netherlands - Monday, September 12, 2005 3:30 AM CDT
Dearest Mike and Marian
You two were one of the first people I thought of this morning when I heard the sad news. I know Queen Maddy was very dear to you both, as is her entire family. I am so thankful that Joe, Richelle,Ethan & Maddy have had all your encouragement and love through out these past years. God Bless you for all you have done and all you will do in the future. I love you and I can't wait to see both of our Madisons again. With HIS love, always....Lisa K

Lisa Kanady <MopigletRN@aol.com>
Redlands, Ca - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 11:36 PM CDT
Mitchem's......

It's JUST NOT FAIR!! Who made up these rules anyway? I for one don't like this game and I don't want to play anymore!!! The Queen NEVER even got to have her Evil Aunty Lessons!

I am so sorry you have to endure the loss of your "other" Maddy!

Let me know if I can do anything for you or the Bates'.

Love from,

Evil Aunt Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 9:47 PM CDT
Thinking about you this afternoon.

Love, Sam, Nancy, Coop, Kenzie and "baby Nolan"

sam and nancy www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@comcast.net>
erie, co - Wednesday, August 31, 2005 5:10 PM CDT
God has another perfect rose for His Heavenly Garden. Madison was a beautiful angel & I thank you for sharing her with me. God Bless.
Janice
Rowe, VA USA - Saturday, August 27, 2005 0:28 AM CDT
Okay Mitchem's!

You did it again.... But I am not going to do it anymore!!!

For the Princess and now for the Queen!!!!!

I love you guys!!!!

Evil Aunt Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA - Wednesday, August 24, 2005 6:49 PM CDT
I can't imagine how much you must miss your sweet little girl. My heart breaks for you. On your saddest days, I hope you find comfort and a smile when you recall all the wonderful memories you have with her.
A. Walker
S. S. Marie, ON Canada - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 10:26 PM CDT
I can't imagine how much you must miss your sweet little girl. My heart breaks for you. On your saddest days, I hope you find comfort and a smile when you recall all the wonderful memories you have with her.
A. Walker
S. S. Marie, ON Canada - Tuesday, August 23, 2005 10:26 PM CDT
Hey...I have not signed in for a while, but I think of you guys often as well as your sweet angel...such a beautiful soul that will never be forgotten.
alyssa (bennett's best friend!) <sabiemc@aol.com>
orlando, fl usa - Friday, August 12, 2005 11:13 PM CDT
Thank you for sharing the story of your precious princess. I found your site on a connection from several others and I am so glad that I did. I pray that God will continue to sustain you and grant you the peace that passes all understanding each and every day. We have a daughter (now 22) who was born on Feb. 24th. It must be a day of princesses because she is. We also have a 12 year old son and a 7 year old daughter who is an achonodroplastic dwarf - God has worked miracles in her life as she has endured several trials - though nothing that you, your daughter and family have endured. We are told that God never puts more on us than we can bear and there have been times when I have felt that He has too much confidence in me - I'm sure you've felt that way too. I so admire you for the decisions that you made during your daughter's life and for continuing to work to support those going through similar trials. It is amazing how God uses us to reach others. Thank you for doing His work even through your pain. One of our favorite songs is "Every Move I Make" - know that every move you make is through Jesus and that as He guides your steps you leave a mark for him. May God Bless and strength your family.
The Frederick Family (www.caringbridge.org/al/emilyclaire) <apfredm@netzero.net>
Gadsden, AL - Friday, July 8, 2005 0:16 AM CDT
Wanted you to know that I love you! I am sure you already knew that, but you were on my heart tremendously today and I wanted to sign in and let you know that I'm thinking of you. I still have the picture of Madi and me up on my front page. I think it just says so much about what an awesome little girl she was and I praise God for the opportunity to have a picture with her. So, I'm just leaving it :) Take care and God bless. I will keep checking on you and of course you'll be in my prayers.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Monday, July 4, 2005 11:51 AM CDT
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, PRAYERS ARE ALL OVER YOU!
TAWNNIE TERRACCIANO <dominicandtawnnie@verizon.net>
HEMET, CA RIVERSIDE - Thursday, June 2, 2005 11:33 PM CDT
It was awesome to see you last weekend. I just wish I could have spent a little more time chatting. I still have Madi's picture up on my site--I can't take down (and don't want to). I think it's one of those pictures that really just says 1000 words. I love you guys and am keeping you close in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings and love to you in Christ.
Khalita Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@yahoo.com>
Lexington, NC - Monday, May 16, 2005 10:18 PM CDT
Hey friends!!! Six days to go!!! We are so excited!! Can't wait to see ya!!!
Ricky <rikkilee_23@verizon.net or <a href="http://www2.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy/">QueenMaddy's Site</a>>
Durham, NC - Thursday, April 28, 2005 7:20 PM CDT
HI there
Was thinking about you guys today, and thought I would let you know. I think about Maddy often and am sure I will never forget her, or any of you. My prayers go out for you and for any children and their families who are going through the same ordeal, the same fight, or will in the future. God Bless you for continuing to fight for all the children. Love you, always, Lisa K

Lisa Kanady RN <MopigletRN@aol.com>
Redlands, Ca - Monday, April 18, 2005 2:05 PM CDT
Well I know it has been way to long since I have signed The Queens questbook (or anyones for that matter) so I am making this the 1st one my list. Even though you cant see that I have been visiting please know that I always keep on eye on you guys. I remembered Maddi's birthday as it is also Dennis Birthday. I am sure she had a nice party in heaven with all her friends. You guys are a true role model for all of us parents. I know Maddi must be so proud of her family. And Mickey must be getting so big :)

Hugs and love to you all!!
Cori

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, CA - Friday, March 18, 2005 1:20 AM CST
I still come to your sight to smile at your precious angel. I love the picture you had posted of her at one time when she was half way in the refrigerator... just looked like something she would do based on your great stories. We still pray for you, and hope you are doing well.
Julene
St. Louis, - Monday, March 14, 2005 4:51 PM CST
Just wanted to stop by to tell you that I'm thinking about you guy's. I love you and can't wait to see you. I'm praying that time will fly!

Big Hugs,

Ricky <rikkilee_23@verizon.net>
Durham, NC - Saturday, March 12, 2005 9:17 PM CST
Happy Belated Birthday Angel Madi. Hope you had a lot of fun with the other angels.

Once again, your posting has inspired me like they always do. God Bless.

France Albert <france.albert@gdcanada.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Friday, February 25, 2005 10:55 AM CST
You're in our thoughts and prayers. Remember, the separation is only temporary....soon you will see your little princess again.
Carol and Greg Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Thursday, February 24, 2005 6:54 PM CST
We love you and we are thinking about you today...Not like we don't think about you everyday! :) Every morning when I wake up I say a prayer for all of you...and I know it will be ready for you when you stert your day because your three hours behind :)! Mike and Marian, You two are wonderful parents! Mikey is so blessed and so was Madi!!!

Lots of hugs and kisses,

Richelle Bates <rikkilee_23@verizon.net or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Durham, NC - Thursday, February 24, 2005 2:16 PM CST
Love the new picture. God Bless.
France Albert <france.albert@gdcanada.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Saturday, January 29, 2005 2:57 PM CST
Hello,

The new picture of the sugar baby is soooooo cute! She looks like a little ninja turtle...I love it! I'm thinking about you guy's! Love ya!

Ricky Lee <rikkilee23@verizon.net or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Durham, nc - Friday, January 28, 2005 8:15 PM CST
its great to see the "new" pics of Madi... I hope you guys are doing well. Thinking of you all the time! with love and hugs
Latane Grove <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, January 27, 2005 2:14 AM CST
Mike and Marion...
What a journey we've had together the past two years. Your love and support have been so crucial to Joe and Richelle. Your sense of humor has been a shot in the arm right when we need it. Greg and I just want you to know that we appreciate all of your love, support and help. Know that not a day goes by that we don't think of Princess Madi. She's a special little angel that will never be forgotten. We love you guys and pray that your spirits are uplifted. Give Mikey a hug!!!!!

Carol and Greg Bates (Maddy's Nana and Papa) <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Tuesday, January 25, 2005 9:56 PM CST
Just wanted to stop by to tell you that your sugar baby has been on my mind all day. The kids and I made chocate chip chookies last night and the baby girl was our main topic after that. Talking about her made us smile. We sure do miss you guy's! Give each other big squeezers for us! Love ya!
Ricky Lee <rikkilee23@verizon.net or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Durham, NC - Monday, January 10, 2005 6:06 PM CST
Hi Mitchums, I remember the first time that I saw your Madi. It was when our Maddy (Bates) was just diagnosed. Your Madi was being discharged from Kaiser..she was bouncing around just like Tigger, with a big grin on her face..she was free. I can't even imagine how much you must miss her, but I'm sure that she's bouncing around in Heaven as one of God's little angels. I can't thank you enough for all of the support and friendship you have given to Joe and Richelle. I'm sure that you have made their journey a little easier. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Janis (Joe's Aunt)

Janis Snarr <Janis.L.Snarr@kp.org>
Calimesa, Ca US - Tuesday, January 4, 2005 4:28 PM CST
Thinking of you and your princess-angel. Hope you have a happy and healthy new year. God Bless!
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://www2.caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Saturday, January 1, 2005 12:40 AM CST
Dear Marian and Mike,
We hope you will have a wonderful Christmas, although we are aware that this time of year also must be very hard for you!
We are thinking of you and are holding you in our hearts.
Love,

Harmen, Jan and Jacomien <jacomienwichers@planet.nl>
Haren, The Netherlands - Saturday, December 25, 2004 4:11 AM CST
I know you miss Madison terribly. I was struck tonight as I came by the site--it just hit me all over again that she's really not here with us in body. So strange how emotions work. It hurt my heart to think of you facing Christmas without her. I just wanted you to know that I love you and am praying for you. Blessings to you as you face Christmas without your precious little one. And, thank goodness that you have Jesus and friends & family who can shower you with love in this difficult time. HUGS!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Friday, December 24, 2004 0:38 AM CST
Mike, Marian and "The Man" Mikey,

Just stopping in to say Hello. Again our computer blew up! But we are..............back.
We think of you everyday, and miss you all very much.
Your family is in our hearts and prayers always. :)

Love you guys and miss you


Rita, Mike, Anita, Danielle, Melissa and Nicole Rivera <beaver-fam@juno.com>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Tuesday, December 21, 2004 9:29 AM CST
Hello,

Thinking of your family this Christmas. I know you will celebrate the birth of our Saviour but also know you will miss little Madison.

Her story really did touch my heart.

God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabrielle, and Noah

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Sunday, December 19, 2004 8:26 PM CST
I'm thinking of you today and wanted you to know. Blessings and love to you in Christ.
Khalita <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, December 16, 2004 8:32 AM CST
hey guys, I think about you often and pray that you are well, we hope to get out there someday soon to see you.
Love, Nancy

Sam and Nancy <samdramsey@comcast.net>
Erie, Co - Friday, December 10, 2004 4:55 PM CST
I prayed for you tonite. May God grant you a measure of peace. She was a lovely little girl.
Lisa <loumicsmom@comcast.net>
Dallas, TX USA - Friday, December 3, 2004 10:39 PM CST
Hey gang,
We miss you guys too! I know Ohio is a long ways away. But, hopefully soon the lord will find a way to bringus back to California. You never know...We may end up neighbors some day. I really wish we were able to apend more time together before we left. But, I know we will be back before we know it.

I hope you guys are doing good. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.


Melissa Miramontes <angelmanny@netzero.com>
Troy, OH USA - Wednesday, November 17, 2004 5:59 PM CST
I am so so so sorry I did not get by here last week on the anniversary date. Things have just been so crazy. But, I want you to know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I still have the picture of me and your sweet little Madison on my site. I can't take it down. Her cute face just makes me smile so big every time I look at it. I love you guys. HUGS!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, November 4, 2004 7:37 PM CST
Mitchums...

I meant to write this a week ago...so sorry I'm late. I want you to know that you're in our hearts and prayers. We pray God will grant you peace and heal your heart. Your loss is very great (I can't imagine) and it will take you a long time to feel normal (though the normalcy will not be the same).

We want to thank you for befriending our children Joe and Richelle. I think God brought you together and because of the love and strength you shared...our Maddy is on the road to recovery. How can we ever thank you? Certainly, words are not enough!

You are a wonderful, loving and caring family - so unselfish! We love you. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Carol and Greg Bates <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Thursday, November 4, 2004 1:57 PM CST
Dear Mitchems,

I still think of Princess Madi and know that your journey will always be painful. Thankfully our always faithful Father in heaven promises all those who are His that they will be reunited in heaven.

Thinking of you.

God bless,
Monica

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, November 2, 2004 1:19 PM CST
We understand your feelings of the world going on, but your world coming to a screeching halt. It is something all too familiar. We wanted to just stop by and let you know that we got the books you sent to us. Thank you. We appreciate you thinking of us. We know that this past week has been a tough one for you guys too. Please know that we are thinking of you often and praying for your strength.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Angel ^^Jordan^^

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC - Sunday, October 31, 2004 6:25 PM CST
Hi Mitchems,
It's the Evil Auntie here. Although I was moved to tears by your latest update. (don't tell anyone, Evil Aunties aren't supposed to do that crying thing any more that they do that praying thing)

But, I must tell you that YOU HAVE ONE THING VERY WRONG! WRONG! WRONG! You wrote "We still find ourselves amazed that the world keeps going along as if nothing has changed."

I beg to differ! As I am sure others would say as well (so all of you others better leave a message here, and set these Mitchem's straight.)

Let me tell you how (at least from my perspective) the "world has changed because of Madi's life!!"

I have talked about your Madi so many times in class, my students have heard so many stories about the strength of your family! About the little girl who fought such a hard battle! About her daddy who said he would have carried her on his back all the way to Duke if that was what it took! About her mommy changing her bandages and comforting her when she said "ouch", about her big brothers who let her take center stage and never complained! These kids have cried in class!! THE WORLD HAS CHANGED!

Your Princess' name and stories have been written on my board hundreds of times, her pictures are all over the classroom, teenagers cry on her birthday when they see the memory board. THE WORLD HAS CHANGED!

Selfish, self centered students walked in the Light the Night Walk, they sold balloons and buttons to their teachers! They asked questions about stem cell research! For a moment or two they cared about something or someone other than themselves! THE WORLD HAS CHANGED!

I have read your past guest book entries from people who now "HUG THEIR KIDS" like never before! THE WORLD HAS CHANGED!
This Evil Auntie even got close to doing that prayer thing! THE WORLD HAS REALLY CHANGED!

Mitchems.... I could go on and on, Miss Princess Madi (SmartyPants) Mitchem's life HAS CHANGED THE WORLD! AND CONTINUES TO CHANGE THE WORLD!!

All of us who were privilleged to know her and the even more who were not so lucky have been touched in the deepest parts of our hearts.... THE WORLD HAS CHANGED, IT NO LONGER GOES ALONG AS IF NOTHING.......!!!!
My birthday memories will always be of Madi at her last BIG party, appreciating her cocktails with gummy bears and saying a million times "Tell-ma shoe, tome ear!"

Forever changed by the life of Princess Madison Renee Mitchem, and with all of my love,

Evil Aunt Shelley (Vote for stem cell research, John Kerry supports stem cell research, the 'other guy' does not!) <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA USA - Friday, October 29, 2004 11:50 PM CDT
Hi Guys - Congrats on raising so much money for Light the Night. I know you also rasied a lot for the Rainbow of Heroes Walk. Maybe you should become professional fundraisers :-) Hopefully one day there will be a cure so others won't have to endure what our kids have been through. We enjoyed meeting you at Duke and think of you often. Hugs,
Jill, Steve, Alex and Emily www.caringbridge.com/ca/alexschwab <jillschwab@adelphia.net>
Manhattan Beach, CA USA - Friday, October 29, 2004 6:29 PM CDT
God is just so amazing. You guys, of course, have been on my heart constantly over the last few weeks, but I just couldn't get by here to sign. (I was praying harder for you though). I did not remember the exact date of Madi's journey into sleep to wait for the resurrection, but I just kept praying that God would remind me because I wanted to at least leave a note for you. Well, I had closed up the "computer shop" and was about ready to go to bed and I was just compelled to log back on and check on you. I see that today is indeed the 1 year. God is just so faithful in answering us even in the smallest of ways. Please know that you are very dear to my heart and I miss and love you tremendously. HUGS. Our picture is still up :) I just can't take it down. I'll be praying for you...
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, October 28, 2004 9:16 PM CDT
Aloha, dear Mitchems.... you are often in my thoughts and prayers , especially so today...I admire you so very much for getting through this most difficult of all of life's experiences with such grace, dignity, good humor and an appreciation that God can bring joy to even the most trying times. How fortunate Madi was to have such a supportive family and parents who love each other enough to emerge even stronger in their relationship ...just looked out the window to see a beautiful rainbow... a reminder of God's care for each of us and His Precious Promises that our tears will be wiped away someday when all those who love Him will be reunited... Love you lots..take good care Auntie Marion
Marion Esteb <mariane@aloha.net>
Koloa, Kauai, HI USA - Thursday, October 28, 2004 12:41 AM CDT
Hi Mitchems,

I have been thinking of you all week. I pray that God eases your pain and brings you comfort. Maddy lives in our hearts forever. Love in Christ

Rachel Maglio <rachel_maglio@sbcss.k12.ca.us>
San Bernardino, CA - Thursday, October 28, 2004 11:58 AM CDT
Hi guys, doesn't seem like its been a year, Janice tells me the same thing about her son, but you know, they will always be in my heart, my world, and all those who remember that cute little baby girl. My prayers continue to be with you and your family, always Barbara
barbara jeffries <barbara.a.jeffries@kp.org>
- Thursday, October 28, 2004 11:32 AM CDT
Mike Marian and Mikey,

We love you and are saying are prayers for you every day. Let yourselves mourne for your baby. Cry for her as much as you need to. God has never put a time limit on missing your child...and please, please, please call me on your bad days so that I can be there for you. You don't have to pretend that your wonderful so that other people don't feel uncomfortable or because you think they don't want to hear it...and even if they don't, I Do! I love you guy's and I want to be there for you in any way I can. I will be saying a special prayer for you today. Give each other BIG hugs for me!

Lovies,

Ricky Lee and the Fam <rikkilee23@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA - Thursday, October 28, 2004 11:19 AM CDT
Hey,

Where's the update you promised? It's not like I get to talk to you every day or anything!

Love you guy's,

Ricky Lee <rikkilee23@verizon.net>
San Bernardino , Ca - Wednesday, October 27, 2004 5:59 PM CDT
I can't get the princess out of my mind today. It helps to see her sweet face! I love you guy's!
Richelle Bates <rikkilee23@verizon.net or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
San Bernardino, CA - Wednesday, October 20, 2004 1:36 PM CDT
Hi, just stop by to say hello. We have been thinking of you all often. Hope things are going well.

Christina Lu's family

Jun <jlu276@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, October 10, 2004 1:12 PM CDT
Hi Mitchems, saw your post on Brandyn's site and wanted to stop by and say Hi! Thinking of you always!
King Brandyn's Evil Auntie Dawn <lilsis214@aol.com>
MD - Sunday, October 3, 2004 6:31 PM CDT
Hello,

Just want you to know that I still have tears for Madi, especially when I see new pictures.

Someday God will make everything new! Madi is full of joy and peace and rest. And that future reunion will bring her even more joy.

God bless,
Monica

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, September 15, 2004 6:16 PM CDT
You are so loved!
Nancy Chadwick <nancychadwick@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA USA - Sunday, September 12, 2004 5:01 PM CDT
Hey Marian, just wanted to say 'hi' and thank you for your recent update. Love the picture of Mikey; he's grown so much in just one year! Do me a favor and give your sister a hug from me, okay? Thanks!
~Karen Goodridge O'Carroll

Karen O'Carroll <koccheers@yahoo.com>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Thursday, September 9, 2004 1:01 PM CDT
I love and miss you guys more than I can even tell you with words. I'm sorry it's been so long since I've signed in but I think of and pray for you constantly. Please know that this will never change. You have left an indelible mark on my life. Blessings and love to you in Christ.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 7:25 PM CDT
Wow! That is so touching. Mickey is so cute and so big. It's hard to believe he is only starting grade one.
God Bless.

France <france.albert@gdcanada.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 8:23 AM CDT
Okay Mitchems!!!!

Who is that boy in the web site photo album? And what have you done with "little" Mikey!

Honestly, I can't believe how much he has grown and changed in a few short months!
I will be talking to you and the Aunties, Linda & Carol about getting my school kids involved in Light the Night in Redlands this year!

As always it was great to get an update,
Love,
Madi, Oliver, Alexander and soon to be Samantha Noel's,

Evil Aunt Shelley <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA U.S.A. - Tuesday, September 7, 2004 1:25 AM CDT
Your Madi has taught me so much.. ! (and I guess your writing has helped!) I check regularly, and hope often that no news means good news for your family! But I love seeing the pictures and always smile. In addition to learning to HUG MY KIDS all the time, I have put together a team of 5 people for the St. Louis Light the Night Walk and our goal is $2,000 - we're well on our way! I've also asked my office of 500 people to look into becoming a bone marrow donor (I am on the list and wait patiently for as much help as I can give.) It's the least we can all do. I get a heavy heart knowing that people have gone through such sadness to teach others goodness...God works in mysterious ways. God bless you, and your precious Madi!
Julene
- Friday, September 3, 2004 1:54 PM CDT
It is SO wonderful to hear from you guys... the new pictures are great and I can not get over how big Mickey is... I miss you guys... With Love and hugs
Nurse Latane <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
- Friday, September 3, 2004 7:02 AM CDT
Hi Mitchems, was thinking about the Princess and the King today and wanted to stop by and say hi. Hopefully when I come west next year (somewhere between March and May) I will be able to meet you as well as my west coat counter part...the famous Evil Auntie Shelley. Take care!
King Brandyn's Evil Auntie Dawn <lilsis214@aol.com>
Boyds, MD - Wednesday, August 18, 2004 9:26 AM CDT
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Katie, Hayley, and Hunter (ALL-Kids)
Franklin, ma - Saturday, August 14, 2004 11:49 PM CDT
Hi Mitchems,
For some reason I was thinking about you more than usual just now! And for some reason was missing the Princess more than usual too!
Let's get happy soon! Okay?
Lots of love from,

Madi's(and Oliver & Alexander's and soon to be Noel's)

EVIL AUNT SHELLEY (Vote for stem cell research) <OneBadAunty@sbcglobal.net>
Riverside, CA. America can do better! - Monday, August 9, 2004 0:47 AM CDT
Hello Madi's Family,

Alex Martini's page directed me to you. She and I met at Camp Agape last week where I am one of the camp nurses (15yrs pediatric BMT in Seattle). As a nurse, human being, ans sibling of an ALL patient I am endlessly amazed at the courage and grace of parents. You are such a beautiful and blessed family. I am so sorry that your princess had such an aggressive disease. But I am so thankful for all the treatment options you had. I hope you will always live with the knowledge that you made the very best decisions for Madi, especially the one to say goodbye. There are so few people who truly understand how selfless you are. I remember my mom tellimg me how she prayed when our David's doctors talked about this very new and experimental therapy, BMT. It was 1968 you see and transplants were no where near standard therapy. My mom prayed that God would guide her to the decison that would be best for her son. There would be no transplant for our David but I believe his suffering & death helped those of us in oncology learn so that other children would win this fight. I also believe that when your princess went to heavan, my princely brother was there to hold her hand and show her the kingdom of God. Please know that today you are in the prayers of a not so distant stranger, who has sufferd with familes just like yours. May God bless the road before you with peace and joy!

Mindi
Tacoma, WA USA - Friday, August 6, 2004 5:36 PM CDT
I still pull up your page every week - that pretty little face makes me smile. We pray for your family, and know that Maddie is watching over you.
Julene
St. Louis, - Thursday, August 5, 2004 8:43 AM CDT
MADI CROSSES MY MIND MANY TIMES THROUGHOUT OUR DAYS. I THINK OF HER EACH TIME I SEE A LITTLE GIRL THAT SEEMS LIKE A LITTLE PRINCESS. YOUR LITTLE PRINCESS MADI REALLY TUGGED MY HEART STRINGS. I WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT.
LOVE,
Tracy and Katia




TRACY AND KATIA <TMSOL87@AOL.COM>
- Sunday, August 1, 2004 8:21 PM CDT
Still thinking about Princess Madi...

She is gracing all those around her in heaven and I know she so much looks forward to everyone joining her some day. During these times we can only wait and trust in the good LORD.

God bless,
Gabrielle's Mama

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, July 23, 2004 5:46 PM CDT
Dear Marian and Mike,
We just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and hope that you are all doing well.
You are in our thoughts and hearts!
Love,

Harmen, Jan and Jacomien <jacomienwichers@planet.nl>
Haren, Groningen The Netherlands - Thursday, July 22, 2004 1:13 PM CDT
You haven't heard from me in some time. I think of you often and miss all of you. I am glad to hear that life is going on in your household, as it should. I of course keep busy traveling and enjoying life and when I'm home it's work, work, work...but I don't have to tell you, I love it and my heart just keeps swelling as the years go by with new kids to love and care for. When my Sarah died a part of me died too but the part of my heart that was left is continuously filled with precious children like our Maddy was. I feel so blessed that she shares a corner of my heart. You are remembered with much love...call the unit some time, would love to talk!!!
Mean Nurse Marta RN
Riverside, - Sunday, July 4, 2004 11:20 PM CDT



Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Sunday, July 4, 2004 10:41 AM CDT
HI guys... it was great to read your post... I think of you all often and wonder how life is going. I'm still in Charlotte, nursing away! I hope each day is bringing with it a reason to smile and some comfort for you! With love
Latane Grove <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Sunday, June 27, 2004 9:39 AM CDT
Thank you for posting your updates. We love hearing about what you are doing. Getting to spend time with you at the Rainbow Walk was a blessing for us. You give us such strength and encouragement just by being the loving, wonderful family you are. We have told your story to so many people and I know it has brought them closer to God. Koko prays for Maddie in heaven every night and talks about seeing her in heaven one day. Have a terrific summer. ARK
Allison Sutter <Sandesta@aol.com>
- Friday, June 25, 2004 0:32 AM CDT
Hi friends,

I just read your update and I thought I would actually write something...not like I don't talk to you every other day! I want to tell you how much Joe, Ethan, Maddy and I love you! You have been a blessing since the moment we met you! Ok, the ugly face is comming on...thank God you aren't here to see it...cuz it's ugly! Mike, I hope you had a wonderful Father's Day! I love you! We can't wait to get back to California and spend some much needed time with you!

That young girl that's married to Joe <rikkilee@hotmail.com or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Durham, NC - Monday, June 21, 2004 7:57 PM CDT
God bless you,
I will be praying for your family. We will all be in Heaven together one day. Hang in there and believe God's promises.
Love and continued prayers

Dent Lambert <dent.lambert@mindspring.com>
Douglasville, ga USa - Monday, June 14, 2004 2:26 PM CDT
Hello Michems,
Just stopping in to tell you that I am thinking about you! I can't wait be on the west coast and give lots of hugs! I really miss ya'll! I'm counting the days til we see you again! I love you!
Love,

The Youngster <rikkilee@hotmail.com or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Durham, NC - Monday, June 14, 2004 9:23 AM CDT
Hello Mitchems, saw your post on Brandyn's site and wanted to stop by, say hi and let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers.

For Evil Auntie Shelley...I lost your email...could you please email me again as I have some emails I would like to pass along to you!

King Brandyn's Evil Auntie Dawn <lilisis214@aol.com>
MD - Wednesday, June 9, 2004 10:07 AM CDT
I just wanted you guys to know I am thinking about you, and sending you my love.

love always
Cori and Brandon

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, CA - Thursday, June 3, 2004 2:10 PM CDT
Thinking of all of you and sending continued prayers for peace and comfort...
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, May 29, 2004 9:50 PM CDT
Just dropped in to check the latest. I check it occasionally to see if new pictures or info have been added. It has been great getting to know your family. Thanks for sharing Madi with us! Loved the pictures, what a special little girl! She's touched so many lives.
Carla Driver
Murrieta, CA USA - Monday, May 24, 2004 5:04 PM CDT
I found out about your family through Zachary Finestone's Caring Bridge site. I have been one of his "Chemo Angels" for almost 2 years. I moved to Riverside, CA in October of 2003. I wish I knew about Madison. What a beautiful little girl she is. I'm so sorry your family has had to go through all you've experienced. Take Care.
Diane Parker <riverside.mom@charter.net>
Riverside, CA USA - Saturday, May 22, 2004 1:57 AM CDT
Hello,

Just wanted to know I'm still thinking of you all the time. Princess Madi is so VERY special. I know this is so hard.

God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabbie, and Noah

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, May 21, 2004 6:12 PM CDT
Hey,
Where's our update! How is the most wonderful family in the world doing? We miss you terribly! Can't wait to get back and give you big squeezes! Love you!

Richelle Bates(Queen Maddy's mom) <rikkilee@hotmail.com or www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy>
Durham, NC - Saturday, May 15, 2004 8:25 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day Marian! Sounds like they raised a lot of money at the Rainbow of Heroes Walk. That's great. God Bless.
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Sunday, May 9, 2004 9:35 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day!
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 8, 2004 8:59 PM CDT
Dear Mitchems,

I still check your Web site often. Based on the guest book entries I guess you did go to North Carolina for the Rainbow Walk.

I know this journey is so hard but God really loves these little ones and I will always believe they have very special roles in heaven. Their "crowns," I'm sure, show much glory. But more importantly, they are worshipping the good LORD all the time!

God bless,

The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, * Saint Gabbie * and Noah

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, May 6, 2004 5:32 PM CDT
Dear Marian,
I'm glad I finally got to meet you. I hate the circumstances in which we have met but I guess that's just one of the many purposes our children were put on this earth. Your little princess was a very special little girl and I know my little ReesieCup and she are getting along wonderfully! That's what gets me through the days... knowing he is healthy now and happy, finally free to play and be a kid. I pray your pain eases a little every day... never completely going away, but that one day, if you haven't already, find peace knowing that Madison truly is a PRINCESS, and God is her prince. He loves her so much he wanted her with Him, and she is happy now.. pain free, and living life to the fullest! God bless you and I hope to see you next year at the Rainbow walk.. you can always spot me in the 'bright orange reese cup tshirt'. Love you!

Shawn, Taylor, & ^^REESE^^ <selboc@aol.com>
Winston Salem, NC - Thursday, May 6, 2004 8:05 AM CDT
Hi Mitchems! Just wanted to send you a hug.Isabella and I want to say hi and that we're thinkin about you! Love, the pictures, so sweet. Hope to see you soon. Have a great week and God bless!
Zara & Isabella Driver <lucent_dawnstar@yahoo.com>
Murrieta, Ca USA - Monday, May 3, 2004 4:40 PM CDT
I'm so glad we were able to see you guys today. Hopefully we will be able to get together before you guys head home on Wednesday.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, May 1, 2004 9:21 PM CDT
I love the wedding gown picture. What a cutie! I am touched it was inspired by our angel. I always told Ken that Madi reminded me of Jillian when she was younger. Have fun at the Rainbow of Heroes walk. I am sure it will be a bittersweet event. Can you let a balloon go for Jillian? I would appreciate that. Please know that we think of your family and your little hero, cheerleader, and princess - Madison often. God bless. You are always in our prayers.
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^
Naples, FL - Wednesday, April 28, 2004 12:36 AM CDT
Hello Mitchum family,

Just wanted you to know you are still in my daily prayers. I know I never met Madi but I also know I will never forget her, either.

Until that glorious reunion comes some day...we place all our hope in Jesus. Madi's wedding gown picture is only a foreshadowing of the wedding feast that is also yet to come.

God bless your family!

The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabbie, and Noah

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, April 22, 2004 4:39 PM CDT
Wanted you guys to know that you are most definitely loved, cared for and prayed for. Blessings and love to you in Christ. I can't wait to see you in May!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Monday, April 19, 2004 3:55 PM CDT
Just wanting to let you know we are stopping in to let you know we are HERE :)

We miss you :(

One of these days when things slow down for us all, maybe we can get together.

Love you lots


Rita <beaverfamily@comcast.net>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Wednesday, April 14, 2004 2:18 PM CDT
Mike, Marion, & Mikey

We can't wait to see you all in a couple of weeks!! This has been quite a year. But you are right when you say the friends we have made on our journeys have been the greatest. Have a safe trip see you soon.

Love Peggy, Mike, & Jeremiah

Peggy Fulton <Pegakamogan2@aol.com>
Davenport, IA USA - Wednesday, April 14, 2004 10:15 AM CDT
I just wanted to tell you all that I miss you and love you and can't wait to see you in a few weeks. Thanks for the new pictures. They are beautiful, of course since Princesses always are!! Thinking of you everyday! Love, Lori :)
Lori Burton <loribug2@earthlink.net>
Durham, NC - Tuesday, April 13, 2004 0:54 AM CDT
What wonderful pictures.. and what wonderful memories you must have! Your family was a part of my Easter prayers!
Julene
- Monday, April 12, 2004 9:36 AM CDT
Well I know its been awhile since I signed the guestbook, so I knew it was time to do so. I stop by to see Madi every single day. The words just cant always come out to let you know I've been by. I'm glad to see the new pictures of her. I want to wish you a Happy Easter.

Love and Hugs Always
Cori and Brandon

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, CA - Saturday, April 10, 2004 10:49 PM CDT
Hello to all of the Mitchems!
Thanks for the update and the darling new pictures of Madi! I especially love the picture of Madi holding all of her Barbie dolls with her amazing smile!!! I will never forget her. I also like the picture of the whole family together- it looks like pure contentment and joy. I know you must miss her beyond words. Know that I am thinking of you and praying for you always. I miss seeing all of you.
With love,

Natalie Skergan <skergan@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC - Saturday, April 10, 2004 10:39 AM CDT
Dear Mitchum Family,

I hope and pray that our Father above shower your family with many blessings. Always knowing that of course you would love to still have Princess Madi here with you.

I am sure that the already beautiful heavenly chorus became even more beautiful when Madi entered heaven.

She really is so very special.

Love and God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabbie, and Noah

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, - Thursday, April 8, 2004 5:18 PM CDT
Hey Guy's,
We miss you all so much and can't wait to see you in May! Mike and Marian, You are such wonderful people! We are blessed to have you as friends! Mikey, your the sweetest little boy in the whole wide world, we think your something special! I pray every night that God will continue to give you strength to make it through each day. I also pray that He will continue to bless us with your friendship! We love you!

Richelle Bates <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
Durham, CA - Monday, April 5, 2004 10:40 PM CDT

Alicia & ^^Angel^^ Tommy www.caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Saturday, April 3, 2004 11:08 PM CST
I am Julien Mezey's father. Thank you for you message on Julien's page. It was especially poingant because I met Mike very briefly at a Durham Bulls in August. Julien was just getting ready to go into the unit to start his transplant and Madi was just getting ready to go home to California. Mike was as friendly, open and upbeat as anyone could be. I can't tell you how sorry I am that our paths are now crossing again.
Matthew Paul
Washington, DC - Thursday, April 1, 2004 0:15 AM CST
I was just thinking you all and wanted to stop by and say hello! I hope all is well and that you are continuing to heal each day! I always think of Madi and smile! With love
Latane Grove <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, March 31, 2004 5:56 PM CST
I pull your Madison's page up everyday, while I'm checking other CB sites - to say a prayer for her and your family! Everyday I smile when I see her picture...You were truly blessed, as was she!
Julene
St. Louis, - Wednesday, March 31, 2004 8:17 AM CST
Sorry it's been a while since I've signed in but I think of and pray for you guys constantly. I want you to know that Madi touched my heart in a HUGE, HUGE way. That's why I still have the picture of the 2 of us in RDH up there on my front page. I just can't take it down (not that I want to). My original plan was to leave it up until her "one year", but I may not be able to take it down even then--she just captured my heart in a way I can't explain--so did you guys. Please know you're very dear to my heart and I love you. Hugs and I can't wait to see you guys in May! Until then, I'll keep checking up on you here.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Tuesday, March 30, 2004 9:11 PM CST
Hello Mitchum family,

Would you believe me if I told you I weep everytime I come to see pictures of Princess Madi? Would you believe me if I told you I think so often of a precious little girl I never met.

Always thinking of you and praying for you. Our God has plans for these little ones that we cannot understand now. But we know these little ones are joyfully praising Him right at this very moment.

Love and God bless,
Gabbie Paquette's Mama

* * * Gabbie’s Site * * *



Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, March 26, 2004 10:13 AM CST
Hi Mitchems,

We think of you all always and talk of you often. We miss you very much, and our Mikey (the little man).
Just stopping by to say HI, and let you know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Rita, Anita ,Danielle, Melissa , Nicole and Mike too! <beaverfamily@comcast.net>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Monday, March 22, 2004 11:39 AM CST
Hi guys!!!!!
We haven't forgotten about you. We wanted to give you some time with the new "news" in the family. I hope everything is going well. Please call and let us know. We would love to get together.......Anytime, any place. You name it!!!

Always thinking about you all

Brandyn's Gang <www.cash_guru@comcast.net (www.caringbridge.org/ca/kingbrandyn)>
Murrieta, ca - Friday, March 19, 2004 8:38 AM CST
I think about your Princess Madi all the time. I cry everytime I come by to look at her pictures. I'm so very sorry for your pain. I know your family is faithful and that your hope eternal in Jesus Christ the Savior will help you press on in this life even without Madi.

She really is very, very special.

God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabbie, and Noah

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, March 17, 2004 4:20 PM CST
Just stopping by to let you know that you are being thought of and prayed for. Blessings to you in Christ. HUGS! I can't wait to see you guys!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, March 10, 2004 9:55 AM CST
We are thinking of you guys. Thanks for posting that picture of Madi. It reminds me of the day we got pictures of her and Jordan in their Duke uniforms. We miss you.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, March 6, 2004 6:21 PM CST
Hello to the other maddy michems family,
Just wanted to stop by and tell you how much we miss you. You know, you could just come live here for a couple of months. I know you have to be missing North Carolina something fierce. We can't wait til your here. We love you and will most likely be talking to you soon.

Richelle Bates <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
San Berdo, Ca - Thursday, March 4, 2004 9:48 PM CST
Hi Mitchems,

Just wanted to let you know we have been thinking of you. I know the last couple weeks have been especially hard but I know that Madison is up in heaven having the best party that will never end. I know that our Maddy's transplant took place on the most special day and I like to think that your Maddy wouldn't have had it any other way. All of you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

Love in Christ
Rachel Maglio (Maddy Bates aunt)

Rachel <rachel_maglio@sbcss.k12.ca.us>
San Bernardino, CA 92405 - Wednesday, March 3, 2004 3:30 PM CST
THE PICTURES OF MADI ARE JUST SO CUTE!!! I COME BY YOUR PAGE SO OFTEN BUT I DON'T SIGN TOO MUCH. FOR THAT, I AM SORRY. I THINK OF MADI ALL THE TIME ESPECIALLY WHEN KATIA IS HAVING A GOOD DAY. I JUST WISH THEY COULD ALL HAVE NORMAL LIVES AND BE KIDS. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR KATIA'S GOOD DAYS AND I TRY TO REALIZE THAT ON BAD DAYS. THANK YOU FOR SHARING MADI WITH US. LOVE, TRACY
TRACY AND KATIA <TMSOL87@AOL.COM>
- Thursday, February 26, 2004 4:57 PM CST
Hey guys, I think of you so often and pray that life is moving along. I am so glad you are going to the walk in May, we will be there also as will Peggy and Jerimiah. It will be so good to see you. The kids still talk about Mikie and Madi all the time, we had a really hard time telling them that Madi had gone to be with Jesus, but they seem to understand as we have talked about it many times when they look at all the pictures of Nolan and Madi. They will be thrilled to see Mikie. I am so sorry I have not called I have no excuse, just afraid my own emotions will get the better of me. I am better now and will call before we go to Duke. We love you guys so much
Sam, Nancy and kids

Nancy and Sam (caringingbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Thursday, February 26, 2004 10:59 AM CST
Dear Mitchem family,
My name is Amanda, I am Maddy Bates' second cousin, and her daddy (Joey's) first cousin. I have heard such wonderful things about all of you through my family, and when I noticed your Maddi's webpage address on our Maddy's guestbook, I was compelled to write you! I am so sorry for you loss. Yet your strength, your endless faith, and your courage is so incredibly inspiring! Best wishes to you all, and may God continue to bless you with strength and courage. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Amanda (Bates) von Kleist <curlygerly@hotmail.com>
Rancho Cucamonga, CA usa - Thursday, February 26, 2004 10:49 AM CST
Happy Birthday Maddie...one day late, But still thinking of all of you often and hoping the memories provide peace & love always. With HIS love, Lisa K
Lisa Kanady <MopigletRN@aol.com>
Redlands, CA - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 5:37 PM CST
Dear Madi's family,

The cheerleading picture is so precious. But it has me crying. I think I've only signed your guest book once before but I do check up on you about once a week or so.

I'm so sorry about Madi. But I'm so glad that you know that your faith in Jesus will reunite you with Madi and what a glorious reunion that will be. Jesus will come some day to bring all his children home and the children who have gone before us will be there to greet us.

Keep pressing on and God will carry you.

God bless,
The Paquette's: Monica, John, Aubrey, Saint Gabbie, and Noah

* * * Gabbie’s Site * * *

Monica Paquette <mj.paquette@att.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 11:04 AM CST
M&M&M!
Thanks for the update. I thought about you guys lots yesterday - a very, very special day for Queen Maddy to get her "new blood." I miss you all very much and will keep all of you, and Aunt Carol, in my thoughts and prayers. (When does this ever end??) Give Mikey LOTS of hugs and kisses and my new word, MOOCHIES! To see the glass half full, moving to Missouri means I am that much closer to the day I get to come back to California! :-)! I'll be here loving and hugging the Bates Family (and making sure they eat and sleep etc.) - you can be assured of that. Ethan and I are going to Chuck-E-Cheese tonight...wish Mikey could come - that would be a blast!! Love you very, very much! XOXOXOXO

Dora the Explorer <djg12@duke.edu>
Durham, but next time, Columbia, NC/MO - Wednesday, February 25, 2004 6:28 AM CST
Thank you M's, for the update. I think of you so often and wonder how you are getting along, but I know that with the love and trust that all of you have in God, you are doing okay. Happy Birthday, dear Madi, resting safely in God's arms. We love and miss you.
Shirley Roper (Grandma FloraMaye's friend) <rope87@msn.com>
Perris, CA - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 11:25 PM CST
I keep thinking... You would have been 3 today! But it is not about would have been. It is about:

Ms. Princess Smartypants Madi Mitchem,

You ARE 3 today! You have been touching and changing lives since the day you were born, and you never let up for a moment,

Shelley & Renee (a.k.a. Madi's Evil Aunties) <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside (just around the corner), CA - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 10:55 PM CST
MAJOR EVIL AUNTIE MESSAGE!!!!
CANCER SUCKS!!!!

Evil Aunties Shelley & Renee & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside (just around the corner), CA - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 10:27 PM CST
Marian,you did a wonderful job on the update, thanks! The pictures you chose were so "Madi" - just loved them. As you know I was not able to attend Bible Class today because of my car problems, but I prayed for you and the rest of our family to get through this day with thanksgiving and love for our baby. Carol, you will be remembered daily in my prayers, hope all works out well.
My love always, Grandma FloraMaye

FloraMaye Dealy (Madi's Grandma, Marian's mom. <fmdealy@wwdb.org>
- Tuesday, February 24, 2004 7:39 PM CST
Cake and ice cream, cookies and candy to Madi in heaven! Hugs and peace from God to Madi's family as you celebrate memories from her birth and life on earth.
Lynda <bobodum@bellsouth.net>
atlanta, ga - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 5:31 PM CST
***Madison***

Happy Heavenly Birthday, sweetheart! I imagine you're having the greatest time partying it up in Heaven on your special day.

Sending lots and lots of BIG 'Happy Birthday' hugs and MUCH love your way!!!

~*~*~*Samantha Therese*~*~*~

Shannon, Jeff & Samantha Therese <humphity319@aol.com>
#24 - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 5:09 PM CST
Hi M's, I hope this is a good day! I know they are all tough, but some are tougher than others. Madi and all of you are always in my thoughts. Happy B-Day little m! I want to thank you again for all the research you did for me and that you question me to make sure I'm not being led down the wrong paths and I'm making the best most informed decisions I can. I will continue to be forever greatful! Thanks for including me in the update. Thank you to those who pray for Madi and her family.[(me),(me),(me)] Just kidding. I'm working on the 400 laughs a day program. Those that know us will understand.
I love you all, Carol (The Pillar)

Carol Ratliff <dealyl@wwdb.org>
Fontana, CA - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 4:34 PM CST
Happy Birthday Madi!!!! I'm sure that you and all of your little friends will have a wonderful party!!! (Don't forget all of those Evil Auntie lessons to make it even better!!
Pat Manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
Antioch, CA USA - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 10:56 AM CST
Happy Birthday Madi,

I'm sure you're having a great party up with the angels.

I am glad to see an update. I check Madi's website regularly. I keep praying for your family but will add a special prayer for Aunt Carol. I know that she will get all the support she needs from you guys.

Take care and God Bless.

France Albert <france.albert@gdcanada.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Tuesday, February 24, 2004 7:37 AM CST
Mike,Marian,and Mikey,
Well I know tomorrow will be an especially hard day for you guys. I always remembered her b-day cause its Dennis' too. I'm so sorry you have to feal the pain of her no longer being here. I know how strong you all are, but, I also know how it must hurt. I'm sure all the kids in heaven will sing to her tomorrow, and she will be playing up there having fun. Just know that I always think of her and of all of you. I will look up to heaven tomorrow and wish her a happy birthday.

love always
Cori

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, Ca USA - Monday, February 23, 2004 10:20 PM CST
I'am sending Princess Madison an starkiss

No I'am thinking about you

Mutch off love from Holland

Mandy <m.wouda1@hetnet.nl>
Netherlands - Monday, February 23, 2004 7:36 AM CST
Hi M's....
So Richelle and I are here chattin' at 10pm on 5200 (sound familiar??) and we have come to the consensus that an update would be splendid. Boots would like an update too! We talk about you guys all the time and we sure do miss you and love you. Lots and lots of moochies, Dora and Richelle

Dora and Richell <dora.gosselin@duke.edu>
yup, we both live in DURHAM, NC USA - Friday, February 20, 2004 9:07 PM CST
Mariane, I hear you have a few brain cells missing? Not to worry...most will slowly come back..I promise! The healing process last a lifetime, it's how we choose to heal that is important. You have chosen wisely...so many of our families look up to you and Mike and though at times you might not feel "worthy" that is the most wonderful blessing God bestowed on you after Maddy's death. You and Maddy are in our hearts, in what we do everyday, in the smiles of children and the hope in their eyes. God gives us many miracles and Maddy and her family are just one of them. I think of you all often and stop in quietly.....much love,hugs and kisses...
Mean Nurse Marta RN
- Wednesday, February 11, 2004 12:00 AM CST
You're all in my continued prayers.

Much love...

Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Sunday, February 8, 2004 8:59 PM CST
Hello,

I got your name off of Hannah Rowley's webpage. I went to view your page and was amazed at out beautiful Madi is. I am so sorry for your loss. What a great gift to you she must have been. She sure seemed to be a true earth angel. God bless you all.

www.caringbridge.org/ca/kayleyhutchinson

Kathy Hutchinson <KathysBaskets@msn.com>
Lone Tree, CO USA - Saturday, February 7, 2004 10:17 PM CST
WE MISS YA'LL!!!!What am I going to do with no one to pick on me?We would love to here from ya'll as much as possible.We love ya'll!:) :)
Richelle Bates <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
San Berdo, ca - Wednesday, February 4, 2004 3:51 PM CST
Stopping by to say hi! Time is a wonderful healing thing. I am sorry that I missed you all at Brandyn's memorial service but I was there in spirit. Mike thank you for your help in getting me in touch with Maddy Bates mom it really helped!

P.S. To Madi's Evil Auntie Shelly...would still like to hear about some of the evil auntie lessons!!

King Brandyn's "Evil" Auntie Dawn (www.caringbridge.org/ca/kingbrandyn) <lilsis214@aol.com>
Boyds, MD - Tuesday, February 3, 2004 8:26 PM CST
Your Madison truly was a beautiful princess. But she is even more a princess now in the presence of her King, Jesus. I noticed you live in Riverside, Ca. Our pastor and his family came from Riverside where he was an asst. pastor at Harvest Christian Fellowship.
Our daughter,Leah, was dx with ALL in Nov. 2001, relapsed in May 2003 and had BMT on Nov. 3, 2003. Today is day 90 post-transplant. She will be 4 on Feb. 11th.
Our prayers are with you as find comfort from the great Comforter, the God of all comfort.
www.caringbridge.org/va/leah

Carrie Holdcraft <choldcraft@yahoo.com>
Sterling, Va - Sunday, February 1, 2004 9:15 AM CST
We just came by to let you know that we are thinking of you guys.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Friday, January 30, 2004 7:48 PM CST
I just wanted to tell you that I have been sharing the quote written on Madi's DVD cover, "Don't cry because it's over, Smile because it happened" and people thank me for sharing this with them.

So it's my turn, I'd like to thank you for sharing this quote because I think about it all the time and it makes hard times easier.

God Bless you and yours.

France Albert <france.albert@gdcanada.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Thursday, January 29, 2004 7:41 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you and hope the beautiful memories of Madi help easy your heart's.
We love you all,
Lori and Katelyn

Lori Tygerson <ltygerson@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 28, 2004 6:14 PM CST
Hey guys just stopping by to send our prayers and good wishes. We just returned from our 9 month checkup at Duke. It was not the same having to be there by ourselves without the wonderful families we met last year. We miss you all and think of you EVERY DAY! God bless

Love
Peggy, Mike, & Jeremiah

Peggy Fulton <pegakamogan2@aol.com>
Davenport, IA USA - Sunday, January 25, 2004 10:07 AM CST
Just dropping by to say thank you so much for coming to Brandyn's service it made it really special. Hope all is going well. After Mikey is off of restriction, let us know how he likes the Spyro games. (P.S. Auntie Linda I have the PS one for you so you and Mikey can play together)

Lots of Hugs and Kisses

Brandyn's Gang <cash_guru@comcast.net>
Murrieta, Ca - Friday, January 23, 2004 12:42 AM CST
Hi,

Just drop by to say hello. We haven't forgotten you. Happy Chinese New Year!
Best wishes,

Jun, Mingyan, Christina <jlu276@yahoo.com >
Durham, NC USA - Thursday, January 22, 2004 7:13 PM CST
Hi Mitchems,
From the wintry North. You would think we lived in Alaska since we have had snow and cold since Dec. 28. At one time we had 15 inches of snow and for a couple of days it got down to below zero. It isn't usually like this here. We didn't even use the snow shovel for the last couple of years, but we sure have this year.

We continue to pray for you dear members of our family. We pray that all of us will be ready for Jesus soon coming so we can all be with Madi as one complete family. We look forward to seeing her in person for the first time and to think she will be in perfect health forever! Isn't that wonderful? Oh yes, all our aches and pains will be gone too as a side benefit.

We love you all.

Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta <ddealy@charter.net>
College Place, WA USA - Tuesday, January 20, 2004 11:12 PM CST
Hi Mitchems!
Your Christmas prezzies arrived today! (Better late than never!!) I am sooo excited! I will call to see when I can drop them off!

So what is this about a RAINBOW walk? When, where etc. Maybe some of us would like to go too!!! You know RAINBOWS are very special to me!!!!!

Since Boxing day, Oliver has sprouted 2 teeth, Alexander has hair and they both can push themselves backwards in their walkers!

Lots of love,

Evil Auntie Shelley & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside (just around the corner), CA - Tuesday, January 20, 2004 10:14 PM CST
God is with you!

We got our tickets to go to Durham for the Rainbow Walk and are so excited that we will be able to see you. Koko is thrilled that she will have Mikey to go in the jumping room with!

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Koko's teacher, Mrs. Noriega lost her father died last week and on the way to school this morning Koko was talking about it. As we were discussing heaven she perked up all the sudden and said that Mrs. Noriega's Dad would have Maddie to play with in heaven. She said Maddie was very nice and would play with him. Then she said that at the Rainbow Walk we should let our balloons go to heaven for Maddie and Mrs. Noriega's Dad to play with.

Bless you!

Allison <Sandesta@aol.com>
- Tuesday, January 20, 2004 8:58 PM CST
Hi!
I just wanted to tell you again how much we cherrish the frienship that we have with you.GOD knew what He was doing when He put you into our lives.I alway's knew He was a smart guy!Through all of the darkness we have had in our life God alway's finds a way to let some light in.FOR THE PAST FEW MONTHS YOU HAVE BEEN THAT LIGHT!WE LOVE YOU!

Richelle(the youngster)Bates <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, Ca - Tuesday, January 20, 2004 12:21 AM CST
we continue to check madi's page regularly. just a note to let you know that you are in our prayers.


jeff and stephanie beck <jbeck@kdhosiery.com>
mt airy, nc - Monday, January 19, 2004 1:30 PM CST
I keep checking Madi's site regularly and I always enjoy seeing a new update. I pray that you find the strength to carry on in peace and find happiness in life's little things again soon. I wish I had met Madi's because she sure was special. I guess I'll meet her one day. God Bless you and your family.

France <france.albert@gdcanada.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Monday, January 19, 2004 8:31 AM CST
Hi Madi's Daddy!
Good to hear from you! I don't know what to say either! I visit everyday, It's a hard habit to break! Just before I came to Madi's site tonight, I was at the Interview with God site! http://www.theinterviewwithgod.com/

Okay, Okay, I know I don't do that God stuff, but I really like that place! So... anyway, they have a new link, it is really cool too!
http://www.pathways-to-peace.com/
I think you'll like it!

Love you all,

Evil Auntie Shelley & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside (just around the corner), CA - Sunday, January 18, 2004 1:40 AM CST
Always nice to see an update & ESPECIALLY nice to see a new picture of your beautiful baby girl. I hope this new year continues to bring you happiness and the memories of Madi, gentle smiles. By the way, even though my "baby" will be 29 in a few months, he's gotten a lot of extra hugs thanks to Madi's daddy!! :-)




Pat <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Saturday, January 17, 2004 11:19 PM CST
I miss you guys. Thanks for signing my guestbook with encouragement. I will dole out hugs next visit to RDH. I just love that picture of Madi and I and am glad it blesses you too. I will continue to lift you up to the Lord in prayer. Blessings and lots of love from NC.

P.S. Per your request I will give Sue a hard time for you!! :)

Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 10:14 PM CST
WIshing you lots of smiles, with memories of Maddie each and every day of the New Year. I think of you all often and my prayers are still with you. Hugs and love for you all, Lisa K
Lisa Kanady RN <MopigletRN@aol.com>
Redlands, CA - Tuesday, January 6, 2004 9:51 PM CST
I hope you find peace, strength, and happiness in the New Year. God Bless.
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Monday, January 5, 2004 3:01 PM CST
My heart goes out to you and my sincerest prayers for continued peace in the days to come. I know of Madi and a little of her story through Team in Training, Yorba Linda. I wish I had had the joy of meeting her face to face, her smile alone can melt your heart. I am so blessed to read that you know Jesus - I pray that He will meet all your needs and more to carry on. God bless you and your precious family. A sister in Christ, Katherine
Katherine Marquez
Orange, CA USA - Monday, January 5, 2004 2:26 AM CST
I HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO WRITE TO YOU ALL BECAUSE IT'S HARD TO KNOW WHAT TO SAY. SO I JUST WANTED TO SAY I MISS
MADI VERY VERY MUCH AND I MISS SEEING ALL OF YOU. I MISS HER LAUGH, HER SMILE AND HER BEAUTIFUL FACE. YOU HAVE A GREAT FAMILY AND A LOT OF SUPPORT AND ALOT OF LOVE. KEEP
YOUR HEADS UP HIGH BECAUSE THERE IS A ANGEL WATCHING OVER YOU. YOU ARE ALWAY'S INCLUDED IN MY PRAYER'S.
I LOVE YOU ALL.

JENNIFER (KAISER)
SAN BERNARDINO, CA - Sunday, January 4, 2004 3:19 PM CST
My deepest condolences to you. Madi was one of our honored teamates for the yorbalinda fall tnt group. I know she feels no pain anymore. I will dedicate my next marathon in Madi's honor.
Rachel Barron <barron247@yahoo.com>
Fullerton, CA - Sunday, January 4, 2004 3:21 AM CST
Blessed Holidays to you! We can't help but smile when we think of Madison. She lit up the whole unit at 5200!

Koko prays for her friend Madison who is in heaven during her evening prayers and talks about her at school. Our love goes out to you and I know the Lord has something special planned for your amazing family this year.

Thank you for continuing to update your website.

Allison, Richard, & Koko <Sandesta@aol.com>
- Saturday, January 3, 2004 10:10 AM CST
Happy Snowy New Year to the Mitchems,
We have had gobs of snow all week. It makes us think of our winters in New England for the last 14 years before we retired. At least we don't have to drive to work every day in it. I had 15 miles to drive each way, Uncle Donald about 2 miles. So I got lots of practice driving in ice and snow.

We often think of you and continue to pray for you as you are putting your lives back together. You mentioned that perhaps you will be coming north to Portland. Be sure to let us know in plenty of time and we will try to see you then. Hugs all the way around from us.

Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta
College Place, WA - Friday, January 2, 2004 9:45 PM CST
Mike and Marion and Mikey!
Thank you again for all that you have done. IT was great seeing you in the hospital. You have made it much easier for us to accept the loss of Brandyn. We hope that we will be as strong as you are. I know that Brandyn and Maddi are both playing together right now! Brandyn telling the princess what to do and she giving it right back. (Of course because of the lessons from the evil aunties).

Know that you have alway been in our thoughts even when we have not be able to sign on and leave a message. After Brandyns service maybe we can get together.

Lots of love and hugs
Brandyns gang


Brandyn's Mom <cash_guru@comcast.net>
Murrieta, Ca - Friday, January 2, 2004 6:01 PM CST
Hi, Mike and Marion!

Our email address changed, sorry I didn't notify you sooner. I gazed at the picture of Madi by the Christmas tree for quite some time this a.m., and for some strange reason it brought me peace...there is a Tree which whispers life through its leaves, and we, like children, will gaze at it with wonder which will never diminish over time, and times, and the multiplying of times.

This is the hope that we have, a confidence that transcends all sorrows, and brings wonder from despair. This is the season that will never end, when we are healed and united and our bellies and hearts are filled under that Tree.

Madi seems to have understood that, in a way that we adults so easily forget. "Unless you become like a little child..." That photo is a window for me-thanks for posting it!

God bless you, and give you a happier year than you've ever known!

With love and awe,

The Beach family

Preston Beach <lunarcy@verizon.net>
Temecula, CA usa - Tuesday, December 30, 2003 12:34 AM CST
Dear Mike and Marion,

Just wanted to let you know I visit this site often and think of your family all the time. I pray that your princess is eternally peaceful and dancing with the rest of the angels. I pray that our Lord Jesus and Savior is embracing her in His arms as I feel comforted that He is.
Happy Holidays to you and yours. Take care and God Bless.

Warmest Regards,
Becky Wright (mom to Nathan dx: Infantile ALL on 7/19/02 at 5 months of age...Relapsed 5/14/03..Received unrelated BMT on 8/8/03...Going strong as of today, Praise God
visit us at: www.caringbridge.org/nh/nathanhunter

Becky Wright <Mom2nateandjulia@aol.com>
Manchester, NH USA - Monday, December 29, 2003 10:58 PM CST
You are always in our thoughts and prayers, especially during this holiday season.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Monday, December 29, 2003 10:26 PM CST
Mike and Marian, I think of you so much and the pain you must feel. I am so sorry I have not called, the words just won't come yet. I pray for you and that God will be the strength and comfort for you. "Though he brings grief, he also shows compassion according to the greatness of his unfailing love." Lam 3:32 We miss you guys so much. "Baby Nolan" sends a big kiss. Love, The Ramsey's
Sam and Nancy Ramsey (www.caringbridge.org/co/nolanramsey) <samdramsey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Monday, December 29, 2003 10:22 AM CST
Just dropping by to say hello, and hoping that you were surrounded with the love of family and friends during this holiday season. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers........


Angel Katnapper/Smile Quilts <katnap22@hotmail.com>
Bloomington, IL United States - Sunday, December 28, 2003 5:12 PM CST
Why is it so hard to write here now? I know Madi's Daddy comes here every morning and every night.... But what can I say? What words of comfort can I possibly leave for parents who have lost their sweet Princess? Should I wish you a Merry Christmas, when this will be such a difficult time for you?

Oh.. and Happy New Year? Right!!!

Evil Aunties aren't supposed to deal with all of this emotional stuff!!

So... Mitchems, just get on over here on January 3rd, (you got the invitation) for our slightly delayed Boxing Day Celebration, and appreciate a few cocktails (in true "Madi & Mikey Cocktail Appreciation style!)

And always remember... JUST SAY NO TO COOKIES AND MILK!!!

The one who is ever so proud to be,

Madi Mitchems Evil Aunt Shelley <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside (just around the corner), CA - Saturday, December 27, 2003 1:31 AM CST
Hi Mike and Marion - not a day goes by that we don't think of your family. You have blessed our family so very much and have been a source of encouragement and knowledge for Joe and Richelle.

We pray God will replace the emptiness in your heart with His perfect peace that goes beyond human comprehension. He's holding your little "princess" in His arms until you see her again. We're praying for all of you and just want you to know it.

Greg and Carol Bates - Maddy's Nana and Papa - granddaughter dx w/ AML M16 @ one year, www.caringbridge.org/ca/queenmaddy) <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Friday, December 26, 2003 5:34 PM CST
CHRISTMAS GIFTS

IF I COULD GIVE YOU LOVELY GIFTS

TO MAKE GLAD YOUR CHRISTMAS DAY,

I WOULD NOT GIVE YOU A SINGLE ONE.

I'D TAKE SOME THINGS AWAY.

I WOULD TAKE AWAY ALL YOUR SORROWS

ALL PAIN AND DOUBT AND FEARS.

I'D TAKE AWAY THE LONELY HOURS

THAT WOULD COME THROUGHTOUT THE YEAR.

I WOULD TAKE AWAY ALL UNKIND WORDS

THAT MAKE YOUR HEARTACHES DEEP.

I'D TAKE YOUR WORRIES AND YOUR CARES,

THESE I WOULD NOT KEEP.

YOU SEE INSTEAD OF LOVELY GIFTS,

"IF I ONLY COULD"

I'D TAKE AWAY FROM YOU ALL THE BAD THINGS

AND LEAVE ROOM FOR ALL THE GOOD.

Author Unknown
Memories are treasures that can never be taken away.
Wishing you and yours a very Happy Holiday.
Hugs and Hope, Love and Prayers to you from us. QOL.

Cheryl <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, December 25, 2003 0:29 AM CST
Hello Guys,
Just realized that I havent been signing the guestbook when I stop by. Well I stop by everyday, dont think that will ever change. But I want to wish you all a Very Merry Christmas. I know this is going to be a hard holiday, but, I know you guys will be OK. I know Madi will be watching her big brother open his gifts. I pray that the New Year will be a little easier on you all. You guys are always in my heart.

Love you all
Cori and Brandon (and Dennis too)


Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, CA - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 11:21 PM CST
Praying for peace in your heart this holiday season.

Much love...

Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 6:22 PM CST
Oh, I am praying that sweet precious Angel Princess Madison can bring you comfort this season! God bless!
Ronnie Wood <ronniewood@comcast.net>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Wednesday, December 24, 2003 6:13 PM CST
Hey Guys,
Thankyou so much for your support! I told you once but I want to tell you again. I know The Lord sent you to us and you have truly been a blessing in our lives. I thank God for your family every day! We love you! Have A Merry Christmas! We,ll be thinking of you!

Richelle Bates <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Tuesday, December 23, 2003 3:05 PM CST
Another angel takes flight.

My deepest, most sincere sympathy and condolences to each and every one of you!! Madison was a fighter, there is no doubt about that! She is now pain free, free to fly in the Heavens and watch over all of you!
We lost our precious Pam on Oct. 7, 2003, so I know what you are going through. There are no words that can ease the pain.
I would like to share, with you and your family, a poem that was put on Pams website:
God's Garden


God looked around His garden
And found an empty place
He then looked down upon the earth
And saw your tired face

He put His arms around you
And lifted you to rest
God's garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best

He knew that you were suffering
He knew you were in pain,
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again.

He saw the road was getting rough
And the hills were hard to climb
So He closed your weary eyelids,
And whispered "Peace Be Thine."

It breaks our hearts to lose you
But you didn't go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.

You are all in our prayers. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

Frank father of ANGEL Pam (www.caringbridge.org/ny/pamostrowski) <frmurato@nyct.com>
SYOSSET, NY USA - Monday, December 22, 2003 10:49 AM CST
Wow......came here to visit your site a couple of weeks ago and could not leave a message.....too emotional. Still emotional today, but must rise above to tell you that I am thinking of you and have been since I read your story. I think I tore the site address from the newspaper. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are an inspiration to us all. Your strength is amazing and I'm sure comes only from your faith in God. But, in those times when you are not feeling so strong, please know we are out here, praying for you, rooting for you, and sending our thoughts to you. Thank you for sharing your story with us. It makes us so appreciate what we have.
Peggy Sue Lansing <Pegsue33@hotmail.com>
Riverside, c u - Sunday, December 21, 2003 9:59 AM CST
I wanted to stop by and let you know that I am thinking of you and praying for your family. I will never forget sweet little Madi and her wonderful family. May you feel the arms of Jesus around you, especially during the holidays.
With love,

Natalie Skergan <skergan@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, December 19, 2003 8:20 PM CST
We are thinking of you and we know that the holidays are going to be tough this year without your princess. Please know that there are tons of people out there praying for your peace and comfort. We love you guys.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan Horton

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, il - Friday, December 19, 2003 12:12 AM CST
Dearest Family

I gently wrap warm thoughts of you
in my christmas prayers
For Heaven to smile on you
For Angels to watch over you
and the love of Jesus to fill your heart

God Bless You And Your Family This Holiday



Chris Ullrich - Grand daughter dx with AML M5 <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma >
Hemingford, Ne USA - Thursday, December 18, 2003 7:32 PM CST
Hi!

I came across your website from Khalita's address book. I pray for peace and healing for your family. You have a wonderful faith and it will pull you through. Thank you for being so inspiring at a time that must be very hard for you.

Take care & Stay Strong,

Laura Hinkle <lhinkle@carolina.rr.com>
Weddington, NC USA - Wednesday, December 17, 2003 9:55 PM CST
Hi, just visiting from another caringbridge website. I find so much comfort in visiting other websites and knowing that so many of us are struggling to find "normal" in our lives again. It is not easy, but with the help of others, we will make it!! Your little Maddy was so beautiful, I hope that she has found my Amy in heaven....she left a little niece here named Maddy, who misses her very much.

www.caringbridge.org/sd/amyschroeder

Rosemary Harris <Rosmaburg@aol.com>
Rosemount, MN USA - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 5:37 PM CST
I spoke with Karen and she gave me this website address, I cried and then went and hugged my Kids!!!!
Jodi Ager Nelson <5starbookkeeping@msn.com>
Yucaipa , CA - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 5:33 PM CST
Stopped in to spread some holiday cheer around. May God grant you all the peace and strength you deserve to have some joy during this holiday season. GOD BLESS. Sending lots of love from above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW. (forever missing our precious angels)
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Tuesday, December 16, 2003 11:18 AM CST
Michael,
Decided to get on the web page and see if you were still sending updates on your family and you are. I am so glad to hear that things are going somewhat better for you. I know that some times have to be tough, they are for me and I'm only her cousin. My prayers are with you and Marion and Matt and Mikey as you continue to heal from this.

Christmas seen through the eyes of our children is the best way to view it, huh? Mikey is such a blessing to both of you. He gives you each another reason to get up and be a part of life. Children also seem to know when we need their love and they know how to give it. He is also a gift to you.

I pray that Christmas and 2004 brings to all of you the joy that only God can give.

Love you lots and lots,
Line-Line

Caroline Spriggs <Cspriggs65@aol.com>
Monrovia, Ca - Sunday, December 14, 2003 6:47 PM CST
Hi M's
Happy to read that things are slowly getting back to "normal".
I am sure that if Mikey had it his way your house would look like Christmas Vacation!
We all will be thnking of Madison tomorrow evening, during the candle lighting.

Sending lots of love to you all

Rita Rivera <beaverfamily@comcast.net>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Saturday, December 13, 2003 10:22 PM CST
Hi Mike, Marian, Mickey, and Matt,
It really was an early white Christmas here last Thursday. We seldom have snow, but that was just perfect with everything covered with about 2 in. of non wind blown snow. All the ugliness of winter and bare trees was covered with white. It makes me think of Jesus covering us with his robe of righteousness. We continue to pray for you. It is good you are able to get back into the "normal"
routine of life, whatever that is. We find being very involved with our church family helps us to be doing things for others and not thinking of ourselves so much. Uncle Donald had a touch of the flu. We were exhausted after the fund raiser for Blue Mt. TV and he picked up the bug. We even told Tom and Jeannine not to come for Thanksgiving as neither of us felt up to having company. We are glad Matt is able to spend time with you and help you through this time.
Our love and prayers.


Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta
College Place, WA - Saturday, December 13, 2003 7:03 PM CST
Dearest M's - IT's AUNTIE LINDA!

I love you so much!!

And to everyone else, I love you too and, if only I could sign onto the computer and check the email or look at the web site or write another update or two without bursting into tears that prevent me from being able to read...well, maybe soon.

Until then, thanks to everybody who has called and sent cards and letters...and to those of you who have left messages on my email and here on the website, thanks to you too! What I have been able to read has been so very supportive - without you all I don't know what we would do...One day at a time is the motto for the moment.

May God bless each family who will be lighting a candle at 7:00 p.m. on Sunday, December 14th (the 2nd Sunday in December). My heart will be with you as I light a candle for Madison Renee and you all light your candles for all the children who have been lost this year to one awful thing or another.

As soon as possible there will be another update or so...until then, may this holiday season bring you joy and peace.

Ya You,
Madi's Auntie Linda and Aunt Carol

Linda Dealy & Carol Ratliff <dealyl@wwdb.org>
Fontana, CA - Friday, December 12, 2003 9:02 PM CST
Dropping in to let you know I am thinking of you and your special little princess Madison. As you experience your "firsts" with Madison in heaven, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Friday, December 12, 2003 5:15 PM CST
May love surround you
May faith sustain you
May hope encourage you
Day by day

Amy, Mom to Angel Delaney, 4/9/96 - 1/7/2002, dx. AML Leukemia 2/6/01, fought courageously for 11 months, and Kevin, 11, with ADD, loves tennis and roller coasters.
Delaney's website: www.caringbridge.com/ca/delaney

Amy, Mom of Angel Delaney and Kevin, age 11 <Wright_Amy@hotmail.com>
San Diego, CA USA - Thursday, December 11, 2003 11:16 AM CST
Hi little Princess... I know you are watching over your family in Princess fashion... Please tell them I think of you all often and am sending huge hugs right now!!! Tell your mommy and daddy thanks for sharing those wonderful pictures of the bestest princess around.. I miss you little one! Be good and uphold the royal code of FUN!!!
Love and hugs

Queen Latane! :-) <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 5:59 PM CST
Hi Marion what a pretty picture you have on the home page. Just what you to know I think of you and Madi often. I will continue to pray for you and your family. Hope you can have a Merry Christmas.
Lavonne <lavonne.penn@wachovia.com>
Mount Airy, , - Wednesday, December 10, 2003 9:24 AM CST
Please know I'm thinking of and praying for you. I miss you guys and I SOOO wish you didn't have to go through this. I know that the Lord is sustaining you though and I am most thankful for that--that you have ASSURANCE of being with Madi again through Christ. I will continue to lift you up in prayer. Blessings and lots of love from NC!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 6:34 PM CST
I have been checking Madi's site since earlier this year, I must say that I still marvel at your courage and strength as a family. My thoughts and prayers are with you M's. I also wanted to take a moment to thank "Evil" Auntie Shelley for sharing "the interview with god" website, it was so beautiful.
Dawn (King Brandyn's "evil" auntie) <lilsis214@aol.com>
Boyds , MD - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 5:27 PM CST
Hi Mike Marion and Mikey -
I am so glad to hear that you are getting some time away with friends and family. What a gift you are to everyone. Looking at the beautiful picture of Madi brings such joy and warmth to our hearts. Her life will always be a constant reminder of the need for faith in our own lives. Our family wishes you a holiday season filled with wonderful memories and "new" special moments.
We love you.

Ruth, Ray, and Brandon
Murrieta, CA - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 3:24 PM CST
Hi Marion, That is a wonderful photo. Don't you just cherish each and every photo you have and wish there were more. Thanks so much for the talk we had today. We've been praying for your family and we're sorry for your loss. Let's get together soon. We don't go in for anything until Dec. 22 ( all day but home that night) God bless you, Susi (Hannah's mom ALL 7/99)
Susi Rowley <painthorsegirls@earthlink.net>
Mira Loma, ca - Tuesday, December 9, 2003 1:08 AM CST
What a BEAUTIFUL front page photo and what a beautiful girl Madison is! I hope this Christmas will fill your hearts with Peace. I am so sorry for your loss and I check in often. Take care.
Eileen www.caringbridge.org/il/ej - Please come and visit - ALL are welcome to stop by! :)
- Monday, December 8, 2003 11:56 PM CST
Thinking of you and wanted to wish you a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
Lori Anne (Mom to Amanda, 13, Dx ALL) <galer@ptd.net>
- Monday, December 8, 2003 3:36 PM CST
I really like the new picture of Madi-she's so beautiful. It sounds as if you are doing alright, coping I should say. The first year is indeed the roughest and while I am not sure "easier" is the right word, it does get more tolerable with time. Our local ballet company performed Nutcracker this weekend and the 16 year old who danced Clara was diagnosed with leukemia (not sure which particular type-they are all horrible!) in July. She begins radiation today after finishing chemo recently. I watched her dance and thought of all the families in Caring Bridge and I just prayed for her and all of you. Take care, and know there are many people like me who never had the privelege of knowing you or Madi but still were deeply touched by her. May the holidays be the best they can for all of you.
ann <akeran@isbe.net>
springfield, il - Monday, December 8, 2003 2:43 PM CST
Hi Mitchems

Its Rachel (Maddy Bates aunt) again. I am writing to express my sincere gratitude for your help. Your support and willingness to help with our Maddy means so much. We thank the Lord every day for you. Joe and Richelle treasure your friendship and talk very highly of you. Our whole family is so very grateful for all of the useful information you have passed on to us. We have had a rough couple of days but are standing firm on the Word of God. Trusting that the Lord will be with Maddy and bring her home healed. Again, my family just wants to thank you so very much for being such kind, loving friends to my brother and Richelle, you are a blessing to our family. It means a great deal to all of us to have your help and support. We continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Love in Christ
Rachel

Rachel <rachel_maglio@sbcss.k12.ca.us>
San Bdno, ca - Monday, December 8, 2003 12:51 AM CST
What a beautiful picture! We are still praying for all of you, to find peace and comfort during this holiday season.
Vickie Whicker
NC - Monday, December 8, 2003 7:12 AM CST
May you find peace in time.

God Bless you

BPL & family
Cleveland , OH USA - Sunday, December 7, 2003 4:16 PM CST
This is my first visit to Madison's site. I am heartbroken.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May God wrap his arms around you all and comfort you all!!!



GOD BLESS!


Kim
Hannah's page
<kymberleigh321@aol.com>
TN - Sunday, December 7, 2003 10:10 AM CST
Hi Mitchems!

So...
......someone did this interview with God!
...Then someone emailed it to me! Usually I delete that sort of stuff! After all, I am the "Evil Auntie!" I don't usually do that God stuff, but this one is really, really good! I think you will like it too.

http://www.theinterviewwithgod.com/

Lots of love,
E.A. Shelley

Shelley (aka: Evil Auntie) <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside (just around the corner), ca usa - Sunday, December 7, 2003 1:31 AM CST
I found this site while searching cancer. My mother died of cancer last year. I have been reading your site but just couldnt find the words to post.
I also have a "princess" daughter. Madison is such a beautiful girl. I really dont know what to say and I just cant imagine how you feel.
We had an ad here in Australia where a mother took her child to the dr and the dr said "yes its cancer" and the mother says "thank goodness" - its an ad for cancer research and it pretends that cancer has a cure. I wish that was the case.
There is also another ad saying that one in three Australians either have cancer or have a close friend/relative with cancer.
I wish that the money spent on STUPID things like defence and war would be channelled to cancer research so that people we love didnt die.
My mother and father both have had cancer. Mum died and Dad has survived bowel cancer 3 times. I have started having tests.
Dealing with Mums death was the hardest thing in my life. But I cannot compare it to the death of a small child. That just doesnt seem right. I WISH I could say something that would give you some measure of comfort, but I cant think of any words that even come close.
I am thinking of you in Canberra Australia.

Anne <anne_boo11@hotmail.com>
Canberra, ACT Austral - Saturday, December 6, 2003 4:25 AM CST
Hi M's,
Just thought I would write a little note to let you know how often I think of you. I'll be in CA beginning next week, so hopefully we can all get together. You guys are all so amazingly strong and I know your continued strength, love and faith will get you through this holiday season. Love you and miss you Princess! Love you all very much. XOXO Dora the Explorer

Dora <dora.gosselin@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Friday, December 5, 2003 3:33 PM CST
Hi,
You don't know me and I didn't know your precious daughter but we are connected through another Maddie. Maddie Bates is the grand daughter of our dearest friends Greg and Carol Bates. Carol told me today about your beautiful daughter and gave me the website. She told me you are going to help Richelle and Joey to get their Maddie back to North Carolina. They are so grateful! I just wanted you to know that you will be in my prayers for strength and courage in your time of pain and grief. I know I would have loved your little girl. May Jesus Christ comfort you in the days and months ahead. In Christ Laureen Hurley

Laureen Hurley <landlhurley@hotmail.com>
Redlands, Ca. USA - Friday, December 5, 2003 1:45 PM CST
Mike, Marion, & Mikey

There isn't a day goes by that I don't think of all the wonderful people I met while at Duke. This year the holiday season is very different for alot of us. My prayers include all of you for healing. Mike I wish I could think of something Jeff Foxworthy would say to make you smile. I will never forget our dinner together, you made me laugh whenever I was around you. It was good to be able to do that. We all needed it. Love to you All!!!!

Peggy & Jeremiah <pegakamogan2@aol.com>
Davenport, IA USA - Thursday, December 4, 2003 7:22 PM CST
Dear PrincessMadison's Family,
I visit your website regularly but have not left a message because I am not sure what to write. Everytime I try to leave a msg, I start crying. I am Radha Patel's mom. We met few times in the clinic. I remember how happy Madison was and we talked about her love for shoes. Your and Manny's family is always in our prayers. Radha is doing very well and I am very thankful for that but I find myself scared all the time. God bless you all.
Radha's website:caringbridge.org/nc/radha

Gita Patel <gitadilippatel@yahoo.com>
Rio Rancho, NM - Thursday, December 4, 2003 1:39 PM CST
How inspirational you are to have found SO much to be greatful for this holiday season despite the loss of your sweet little girl! I am taking that thought forward with me today. There always is something to be thankful for isn't there? God Bless!
Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor, CT - Thursday, December 4, 2003 11:16 AM CST
Dear PrincessMadison's family,
I visit your princess' web.site regularly, although I rarely am able to leave a message. I aonly have a few minutes each day to check all the sites so as to notify the prayer groups of specific prayer requests. I am therefore very sorry I am not always able to leave a message.
I have found this poem on another precious angel site.
Your family is so very strong, such an inspiration, such a testimony of true rocky faith and family love. Thank you so much for sharing your precious Princess with us, your memories, your souls, your hearts. Thank you.

I WON'T BE FAR AWAY

When I am gone, release me, let me go;
I have so many things to see and do;
You mustn't tie yourself to me with tears;
I gave you my love, you can only guess,
How much you gave to me in happiness;
I thank you for the love you each have shown;
But now it's time I travel on alone;
So grieve a while for me if you must;
Then let your grief be comforted by trust;
It's only for a while that we must part;
So keep the memories within your heart.
I won't be far away, for life goes on;
So if you need me, call and I will come,
Though you can't see or touch me, I'll be near;
And if you listen with your heart, you'll hear;
All of my love around you soft and dear;
And when you must come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and say, "Welcome Home".


sabrina <morini@agriflex.it>
Forlì, FC Italy - Thursday, December 4, 2003 10:38 AM CST
Hi. I am at your house so much, I don't feel I should take up space on this site, but you know I love you very much. I enjoy playing with Mikey and helping with his "school work" -he's such a SMART kid!! I check every few days to see what others have written as I get helped through this a lot, too. A grandparent feels so helpless at a time like this, but just know I'm praying for a better day soon. We have had a lot of good times together with Madi and Mikey!!
Helping another family at Christmas is a healing process for us as we can still buy things for them and enjoy seeing their joy at opening the gifts later this month! Know I always keep you all in my prayers!!
Love you.
Mom

Flora Maye Dealy (Grandma) <fmdealy@wwdb.org>
- Wednesday, December 3, 2003 5:05 PM CST
I love the story that you wrote.I am sorry to hear about your little girl.I had a cousion die of cancer when I was little so I know how you feel.
Tresha Pearse <pearsetresha@hotmail.com>
Riverside, Ca united states - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 4:42 PM CST
I am a silent reader (I wrote once) who check Maddie's site often. I do find a lot of strength in your postings and look forward to reading them. God Bless.

France <france.albert@gdcanada.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 12:48 AM CST
I don't know you but what an amazing family you are. I pray that God will comfort you and surround you with His peace always.
Karis Scott <karis@byco.net>
Stone Mountian, Ga - Wednesday, December 3, 2003 12:17 AM CST
my prayers are with you in the upcoming month. as you know, it's not gonna be easy but for your son's sake, i'm sure you'll make the effort to make it special for him. your continued faith is certainly uplifting. hang in there!

Lori
Albany, OR - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 8:57 PM CST
Good-morning, Darling Marian,

It's "Auntie Sherene" here. I found your web page this morning, rather by accident. Todd Martini, Alex's dad, runs the website for the ferry service I use to commute to San Francisco every day. From time to time I click into her site to see how she's doing, and today I saw your names on it. I'd heard, of course, of Madi's death, but seeing your sweet words and photos brings it so much closer. What a big empty spot there must be in your days just now. Eventually the days will fill themselves, but her place in your heart will always be there. I had a little brother, just two years younger, who dies of SIDS at two months; my parents still carry his photo in their wallets. And I'm sure you know about Danny, Judy and Lon's older brother, who also had leukemia and hasn't been forgotten either though none of us knew him (except your Mom, who I think was his babysitter ever so many years ago).

Your family loves you, Marian - take good care of yourself.

Love, "Auntie Sherene"

Sherene Bieber, 230 Carter Street
Vallejo, Ca 94590 - Tuesday, December 2, 2003 10:04 AM CST
I am amazed at your continued faith. And so Thankful that Maddie has brought you all closer to The Lord and to one another. As we came to Thanksgiving and the Christmas Holidays I know it will be very hard to go through. We know that as Christians the Lord has a reason for each thing that comes our way. I try to remember this and look for the blessing he brings through each trial.
We have gone through a lot this year also as you know. I am so thankful for Nolan and the many friend we met through his illness. God has used him in his short life as he did Maddie. I don't know why we all have had to go throug this illness but I know the One who has a plan for each of us. I will keep you and the other familes in pray as you all go through this diffcult time.

lorene Davis (Nolan's nana) <nanaingarland@ont.com>
Garland, Tx - Monday, December 1, 2003 9:17 PM CST
Just a note to let you know I was thinking of your family. I continue to pray for you through your grief and continue to pray for a cure.
Delana Moore <dmoore@dos.state.fl.us>
Crawfordville, Fl USA - Monday, December 1, 2003 3:08 PM CST
P.S. to the entry before this one. I miss Madi too!
Madi and Mikeys nother Aunt, Carol

Slow aunt Carol <dealyl@wwdb.org>
- Monday, December 1, 2003 12:21 AM CST
Hi to my favorite M’s,
I am guilty of read and run often. All of you are always in my thoughts. I had a great time on Friday, it was a good day. I need to make a play date with Mikey for darts; maybe he’ll let me win.
All my love.
Mikeys nother aunt, Carol

Carol <dealyl@wwdb.org>
- Monday, December 1, 2003 12:16 AM CST
love the new picture.. just wanted you to know that you continue to be in my thoughts.. take care..
mary burns
Albany, NY - Monday, December 1, 2003 10:34 AM CST
I have been visiting Madison's page for a few months, as I heard about it on another child's website. I just wanted to let you know I am still praying for your family, and I am so encouraged to see that your faith in God remains strong. I admire your family so much, and am very thankful for the testimony of your strong faith to the other families who come to your website, many with sick children. Thank you for being such an amazing witness.
Christy Lee <Christyl@email.unc.edu>
Chapel Hill, NC US - Monday, December 1, 2003 6:42 AM CST
I am one of those that drop by often to check on you but I haven't signed. I am sorry. I know how important the words of encouragement are to me on Katia's site and how they warm my heart. I just want you to know I think of little Maddie quite often. So many things Katia does reminds me of how many sweet little innocent children are having to fight the hardest fight of all. I wish so bad all of this would end with a cure. I always feel so sure there is a cure right around the corner but then another angel earns their wings and I think, "Why couldn't the cure have been found yesterday?" I just pray so hard for everyone and my heart is really behind my prayers and really behind my visits to your page and the others I often visit (not as often as I would like) but I do want to continue to sign the guestbook as often as possible. I really enjoyed so much the picture of Maddie watering the flowers. That was just precious and will always stick in my heart. Your family has been through so much and I pray you will always find the needed strength for each day and know that so many people will always remember Maddie and she will grow in my heart. I promise to continue coming by and checking on all of you. Love, Tracy and Katia
Katia's Page

Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 9:14 PM CST
We think about you guys all the time and miss you terribly. We pray for your strength in the upcoming months. We love you guys!
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, November 30, 2003 7:06 PM CST
May God bless you. You will be in my prayers as you face such a tremendous amount of pain. The ways of the Lord don't always make sense but I pray you will continue to trust in Him.
Wendy <wkfrazier@msn.com>
Savage, mn - Sunday, November 30, 2003 0:09 AM CST
Hi Mitchem family,

I am just writing in to say hi and to let you know that I think of all of you often. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you and happy holidays

Love,
Rachel Maglio
(Maddy Bates Aunt Sissy)

Rachel <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Saturday, November 29, 2003 4:21 PM CST
Hello. We visit your site often and have shared it with our family who all send their prayers. We think of you guys constantly and pray God is helping you through. Thank you for the DVD. It is amazing. Dora was here last week and we talked a lot of Madi - we have precious memories of her! Much love!
Parry Family <giparry@lanset.com>
- Saturday, November 29, 2003 10:29 AM CST
The new picture is wonderful!
Ronnie Wood <ronniewood@comcast.net>
Scotch Plains, NJ - Saturday, November 29, 2003 9:53 AM CST
Hi Mike, Marian, Mikey and Matt,
We haven't visited this site for awhile. I guess we should have been sending you messages. We continue to pray at least twice a day for all of you. Thank you for the VCD. We were able to play it over our DVD player and it was really great. We had to really laugh sometimes.It is good to have this for you to look at frequently to help you remember the happy times you had together. I hope you had a good Thanksgiving.
Tom and Jeannine were going to come, but we had been sick and Uncle Donald was running a fever so they decided it was best to let us get well. Yesterday was the first day in a week that we felt like anything. It helps us to feel much better to get out and walk in the fresh air every day. Enjoy the cheerfulness of the Christmas season.
That was OK for you to feel the way you did about the Merry-go-round. After the deaths of our parents there were certain hymns I (Aunt Orletta)couldn't sing without tears flowing. They were the favorites of them and I still think of them when I hear those songs. Stay close to Jesus, He will see You through. We look forward to hearing more about your Portland trip. If possible we will try to meet you somewhere there. It depends if we are around when you are. I haven't seen the tour schedule yet and we take videos for the leaders.
Love you much,

Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta
College Place, WA - Friday, November 28, 2003 10:01 PM CST
I have visited many times, but have not left a message in a while. I continue to be in awe of the strength of your family. You are living the experience I most fear. I pray for continued healing and peace for your family as you head into the holidays, your first without your precious angel. Happy Thanksgiving.
www.caringbridge.org/ca/jordan
Jordan's Mommy, Angela

Angela Atherton <angatherton@comcast.net>
Murrieta, CA USA - Friday, November 28, 2003 1:23 AM CST
We are losing just way too many kids, its sickening.
Deepest sympathies to your family

Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Thursday, November 27, 2003 8:52 PM CST
Just dropping in to say hi and have a Happy Thanksgiving. I check on you frequently, I am amazed how you have gone through so much, yet you're still sane and still giving thanks. You are so courageous. May God help you and Happy Holidays.
Allison <sweetdreamer1989@yahoo.com>
Columbia, MO - Thursday, November 27, 2003 7:37 PM CST
Stopping by to wish you and your family a very blessed Thanksgiving holiday.

Random Acts of Kindness


http://lightingchildrenslives.org

Melanie Davila- Lighting Children's Lives <positivestories@aol.com>
- Thursday, November 27, 2003 12:01 AM CST
We wanted to wish you Happy Memories and Blessings this Thanksgiving.
Love and Hugs, Hope and Prayers to you from us.

Cheryl <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, November 27, 2003 10:36 AM CST
To All- I just love the new picture!!! I, too, am GUILTY of reading and running. I do care but I can't type!!! My thoughts and prayers are for your strenght, Adrienne
Adrienne Saunders <asaunders@newbedford.k12.ma.us>
New Bedford, MA - Thursday, November 27, 2003 10:33 AM CST
i am guilty of checking in and not signing, and i'm sorry.. just wanted you to know that you are all in my thoughts this thanksgiving day.. god bless..
mary burns
Albany, NY - Thursday, November 27, 2003 9:40 AM CST
You are so right--I have been checking Madi's site these past few weeks as much as I did before she began an angel. I keep praying for all of you and hoping that things will get easier. I can't imagine what you are going thru--and especially today --on Thanksgiving....but you are being prayed for by many people, and most importantly--being watched over by a beautiful princess angel!
Vickie Whicker
NC - Thursday, November 27, 2003 8:29 AM CST
Ok guys, first let me say the tears still are coming. I just cant get them to stop. I have a story to tell you about Brandon asking about Madi but the problem is I keep crying so hard I cant seem to get it out. But I promise very soon I will tell you. I really do hope you have a good Thanksgiving. I just dont know if that sounds right?. Yes, I know you are thankful for Madi and all the memories she gave you, it just seems hard to be Thankful when god took something so precious. I guess I am a selfish person. I really do admire your strength. I am glad you have Mickey keeping you busy.

Love you guys
Cori

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, - Thursday, November 27, 2003 1:19 AM CST
I'm praying for comfort and strength as you go through this year's firsts without Madi. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this time of thanksgiving.
Trish <trishrbarnett@aol.com>
Florence, AL USA - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 11:57 PM CST
Just my mean old self here..thinking of you all and sending hugs...
Marta Gonzales RN
Riverside, - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 9:04 PM CST
It started out as the last day of work before Thanksgiving. A skeleton crew here in the office. With absolutely no work to do, I went onto the LA Times website and saw an article about a little boy who "lost his battle", Tommy. From that article, for the rest of today, I have been able to glimpse into the lives of so many other children and families. A mother myself, the only thing that I can offer you is all of the love in my heart. Our lives are gifts. Your little girl knew that. Continue to live your lives, embracing each moment. Embrace each other. Thank you for allowing me into your lives, on this day before Thanksgiving. May peace be upon all of you.
Julia Anthony <julia.anthony@baesystems.com>
Escondido, CA USA - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 5:53 PM CST
I'm glad to see you holding up ok, I wish I could have known Maddie she certainly sounds so special and I'm sure she will be greatly missed, I hope I get the privilege to meet her one day in heavens. God bless you
sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 5:41 PM CST
IT'S MADI'S AUNTIE LINDA THANKING ALL OF YOU WHO HAVE GIVEN SO FREELY OF YOUR SUPPORT IN THE PAST MONTH. YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYER EACH DAY AND I ASK THAT YOUR HEARTS WILL BE FULL OF JOY DURING THIS HOLIDAY SEASON.

I AM SO THANKFUL TO HAVE HAD THIS EXPERIENCE IN MY LIFE. MADISON DEEPLY TOUCHED SO MANY OF US AND FOR SOME OF US, IT CAUSED US TO FEEL THE GOOD THINGS WE MAY HAVE FORGOTTEN... THE SIMPLE JOYS OF SEEING A HUMMINGBIRD OR TOUCHING A LEAF OR LOOKING UP AT THE CLOUDS.

MAY YOU FIND MANY THINGS FOR WHICH TO GIVE THANKS TOMORROW.
AND, MAY YOU FIND PEACE.

LOVE,
Madison & Mikey's Auntie Linda

Linda Dealy <dealyl@wwdb.org>
Fontana, Ca - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 3:50 PM CST
Just wanted to stop by and wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. Thank you God for Princess Madison, her wonderful parents, her big brothers, her evil aunties, and the rest of her loved ones. It was a privilege and a blessing to get to know them at Duke and through her journal. God bless.
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Wednesday, November 26, 2003 10:02 AM CST
Wanted to stop by and let you know that I'm thinking of and praying for you. Blessings and I'll check in on you again soon.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Saturday, November 22, 2003 6:36 PM CST
It was wonderful to see you the other day. You all are an inspiration to us! Your faith in the Lord is strong and it shows! I hope we can have a friendship that will last for a very long time! Talk to you soon.
Richelle Bates <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
San Berdo, CA - Saturday, November 22, 2003 12:41 AM CST
Mike, Marian, and Mikey and Angel Princess Madi,

Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts every day.

Jodi

Jodi <jodisgreen@aol.com>
Roselle Park, formerly Bloomfield, NJ USA - Thursday, November 20, 2003 4:07 PM CST
Your family is in my prayers. I really miss the updates and stories about Madi - her events were always so much like my 2 year old's antics!!! Your positive words amaze me, and have taught me to slow down, take the time and appreciate my girls. I'm so sorry that your Madi is no longer with you.. but I'm sure she's watching out for you from a better place.
Julene
St. Louis, - Wednesday, November 19, 2003 8:23 AM CST
Thinking of you all today as always...miss you bunches and thinking of our princess. I want to call, but am not sure when is a good time. I will talk to you all soon. I keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Love you! Lori
Lori Burton <loribug2@earthlink.net>
Durham, NC - Tuesday, November 18, 2003 10:28 PM CST
Just want you guys to know that you are always on my mind. I hope things are going as best as can be expected. Give Mickey big hugs. Love you all

Cori,Dennis and Brandon

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, - Monday, November 17, 2003 12:10 AM CST
I had you guys in my mind today.. Hope each day give you a reminder to smile. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. With love
Latane Grove <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, November 17, 2003 8:11 AM CST
Dearest M's
We could not believe when we heard the news!!! It pains us that Madi is gone after all she had beaten. We were at the hospital (Kaiser) when you called the ward. We all cried for a while then lapsed into memories of "THE" original princess... We will miss her dearly and know that like all the other entries we are not so far away that you can't call if you need ANYTHING we can do... Keep hugs for all of you and know that we will never forget any of you. Hope to see you soon... BMW and company a.k.a. King Brandyn

King Brandyn, Steve, Dajana, and Chantelle <Tcma@aol.com>
Murrieta, Ca USA - Friday, November 14, 2003 8:05 PM CST


Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Friday, November 14, 2003 7:51 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss...we can relate to your pain, we lost our 14 year old Kyle to cancer in June of this year..May God give you the strength He has given us...
The Lee family
www.kylelee28.com

aileen lee <milf31@hotmail.com>
rancho cucamonga, ca usa - Friday, November 14, 2003 1:17 AM CST
Hi Mitchems!

Hope you have had a great time getting away from it all for a couple of days!!!

Don't forget, if you need anything, we are as evil as ever and just around the corner!!!

Lots of love,

Evil Aunties Shelley & Renee & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside (just around the corner), CA - Thursday, November 13, 2003 9:34 PM CST
Mike and Marion,

This is the first chance I have had to look at the webpage, however it is not the first time I have thought of you, Mikey, Matt, or Madi! There has not been a day go by that I have not thought or talked of you all and Madi.

I know so many people have written you to offer you their love, and I just wanted to take a few minutes to do the same.

The service was so beautiful. I loved howyou used Madi's music and made it about her and her life.

Hug each other for me until I can do so in person.

Love,

Line-Line

Caroline Spriggs <Cspriggs65@aol.com>
Monrovia, Ca usa - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 9:23 PM CST
Dear Family,
I just want you to know that you have my deepest sympathy. My cousin, Haley Tuck was in Duke with Madison. She is only one day younger than Maddie. I am so sorry for you loss. I know that you hear those words so much, and that they do little to ease your pain. Just know that we are all praying for you.

Chelsea Sawyers, Rocky Mount, VA
- Tuesday, November 11, 2003 8:38 PM CST
You have my deepest sympathy. What a precious princess Madi is! I have hugged all my kids and thanked God for them today. Take Care and thank you for sharing your story. I came from Gooch's site. I will pray for your healing and may you remember she is with you ALWAYS!!!!!

Jeanne Brown <brownjj@bright.net>
Wapakoneta, OH - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 6:22 PM CST
Dear Mike and Marian,

We are thinking of you all the time. We are very sad of not being able to see Madi again. She is in our memory forever. I never imagine how much our kids have taught us on the meaning of life. Just to have you know that we are very glad to know Madi and you all. You are such a wonderful parents!

Jun, Mingyan and Christina <jlu276@yahoo.com >
Durham, NC USA - Tuesday, November 11, 2003 2:25 PM CST
Madi loives forever,
Ruling Over us all,
In her kingdom forever thats in our heart s,
They call her Princess Madi the Queen of the sweet tarts!
By:
Meghan~NATER"S SISTER~
For Princess Madison who rule over us for alll eterity

Meghan Gapa aka nates sis nater website www.caringbridge.org/ny/naters_page. password nate vewing name gapa. <gaphouse@yahoo.com>
Lyndonville , NY USA - Monday, November 10, 2003 7:34 PM CST
LOVE, LOVE and more LOVE! Miss you guys. Thinking about you LOTS!!! XOXOXOXOX Dora and Boots
Dora <dora.gosselin@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Monday, November 10, 2003 4:03 PM CST
Princess Madi,

You have just recieved your first official Angel assingment:

It seems that God needed another Angel. So your friend Manny has joined you in your "kid heaven!"

This is your "Evil Auntie" lesson:

I know that Jillian is the Line Leader, and you are the Cheer Leader and you are both taking wonderful care of Baby Noah and Emily Grace. I want you to make sure you give Manny a really important job, because he is a big boy: He can be the big brother! I know he will give you lots of hugs, your Daddy told me about his hugs...

Sweet Princess Madi, we miss you!

Love,

Evil Aunties Shelley & Renee & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Sunday, November 9, 2003 11:39 PM CST
Although things are not perfect
Because of trial or pain
Continue in thanksgiving
Do not begin to blame
Even when the times are hard
Fierce winds are bound to blow
God is forever able
Hold on to what you know
Imagine life without His love
Joy would cease to be
Keep thanking Him for all the things
Love imparts to thee
Move out of "Camp Complaining"
No weapon that is known
On earth can yield the power
Praise can do alone
Quit looking at the future
Redeem the time at hand
Start every day with worship
To "thank" is a command
Until we see Him coming
Victorious in the sky
We'll run the race with gratitude
Xalting God most high
Yes, there'll be good times and yes some will be bad, but...
Zion waits in glory...where none are ever sad
Author Unknown

Camille <most_blonde@hotmail.com>
Winchester, CA USA - Sunday, November 9, 2003 12:05 AM CST
Hello,
My name is Camille and I attend the Murrieta SDA church. Yesterday I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Remember that in this time and always God is with you so do not forget to go to Him. Madi was a beautiful girl and I know she taught you more about life than you could ever have imagined. God Bless You and be with you!
Love Always,
Camille

Camille <most_blonde@hotmail.com>
Winchester, CA USA - Sunday, November 9, 2003 12:04 AM CST
Hi,
My name is Donna. I'm a friend of Teresa and her darling son Marcus(ALL). I have been following Maddie's progress, and just wanted you to know you are in my prayers and thoughts at this time. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Donna McGhee <red.mcghee@rogers.com>
Toronto, On Canada - Saturday, November 8, 2003 3:39 PM CST

Random Acts of Kindness

I just can't tell you how moved I am by your page. It is so beautifully written from the heart. That you would take the time to reach out to others when you have so many feelings to wade through yourselves tells me what a wonderful family you are. I go to many caringbridge sites regularly. I will continue to do so and will think of Madison and her loving family when I do. You are a gift...as was your Madison.
Blessings,
Debi

Debi Blacklidge <amhardy1@cox.net>
Rancho Santa Margarita, CA United States - Saturday, November 8, 2003 11:53 AM CST
Mike/Marian/Everyone. Madison's life, briefly lived, had significance and impact. It will not be forgotton. All too many slide through life cloaked in mediocrity. I identify with this group. But my heros are people like Madison and her loved ones who have all met a tremendous challenge head on. The Princess is gone but each in his or her own way has prevailed. God bless you one and all.
Jay M. Reeves <jreeves@valint.net>
Walla Walla, WA 99362 - Saturday, November 8, 2003 11:15 AM CST
Dear Marian and Mike,
I wanted so much to be at Madi's service last Sunday but distance proved to great. I was praying for all of you and for Gods love to ease some of the pain for all of us. Mom and Kris called me when they returned home so I was able to learn about how wonderful and beautiful the service was. I am only now able to write you as I was numb and unable to even attempt to put words together to express my feelings. The only reason I am able to write now is because of the strength I have received from reading yours and Linda's letters. I look forward to seeing you at Christmas when we are in Calif. Madison will be with us always. I love you all, Kathy

Kathy Murray <kathymurray1@comcast.net>
Sterling, MA - Friday, November 7, 2003 8:54 PM CST
I just want to say you do not know me but my prayers are with the michem family. i came to know princess masison from working at the Blood bank of San bernardino. she will be missed.
emily hernandez <milagra@adelphia.net>
colton, ca 92324 - Friday, November 7, 2003 8:44 PM CST
Hi- you don't know me- I saw your e-mail address on Isaiah's site- I just want to let you know that I admire your true faith in God- and I know He will give you the peace and strength you need to get through the days ahead- but I also can't imagine the pain you feel from the loss of your little princess- I too have a child that has been attacked with that horrible disease (leukemia) I hate the word- My son, Carson, was diagnosed at the age of 3- relapsed when He was six- and had a sibbling match transplant in Jan. '03- none of this has been easy but I know I would have never made it through all of this without God- just as you do- and I give Him all the praise and Glory for healing Carson- Duke is a wonderful place with wonderful people- but their not God- I too cherish everyday with my son because I too know that all of this could change anyday- our thoughts, and prayers are with you all-
wendy and carson <thearthurfamily@charter.net>
- Friday, November 7, 2003 3:50 PM CST
Dear Mariam and Mike,

I am very sorry for the loss of your precious Maddie. I wish that I had words in me profound enough to be of some comfort to you, but I just wanted you to know that there is yet another family thinking of you and praying for you to rediscover your peace. I'm going to sneak into my childrens' rooms right now and give them a kiss for your Maddie.

Bless,

Terry Josephson <tjosephson@winnipeg.ca www.caringbridge.org/canada/julianna>
Winnipeg, Canada - Friday, November 7, 2003 1:22 AM CST
Dear Madi's parents, family and friends,

like other readers, I am a silent one. I got your website from a few others actually and I had been praying for Madison to get better and now I am praying that you keep finding peace. You guys are so amazing and truly are a HUGE inspiration to me and I am sure everyone who reads this site. I have always considered myself a very strong believer in God but I don't know if I could go through what you went through with as much grace as you have. To loose your child is something no parent should ever have to go through. I can't even begin to imagine how you must feel. I will definitely read your posting over and over again because it is so inspiring and peaceful. Even if I cry everytime I read it, I also find so much peace in it.

I want to wish you me deepest sympathies (from the bottom of my heart). I'm sorry it took so long for me to get the courage to let myself known to you but I didn't seem to find the words until now. God Bless you and yours.

France <france.albert@gdcanada.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Thursday, November 6, 2003 8:37 PM CST
Dear Mike & Mariam - Thank you for sharing your pain and sorrow with us. Your courage and faith in the Lord are an inspriation to us. May the Lord send His healing balm to heal and help you through the next weeks and months. Love, Maurice & Betty
Maurice & Betty Crandall <Mcrandall@twlakes.net>
Deer Lodge, TN - Thursday, November 6, 2003 1:42 PM CST
Dear Mike & Mariam - Thank you for sharing your pain and sorrow with us. Your courage and faith in the Lord are an inspriation to us. May the Lord send His healing balm to heal and help you through the next weeks and months. Love, Maurice & Betty
Maurice & Betty Crandall <Mcrandall@twlakes.net>
Deer Lodge, TN - Thursday, November 6, 2003 1:41 PM CST
I am so sorry to learn of Madi's death. I only knew her through this site. She was a brave little girl. And your plight as parents has provided me inspiration and perspective as a parent. There are many lives that Madi's life has touched and I am just one of the silent many who have monitored and rooted for your daughter behind the scenes. I have been and will continue to pray for your family.
Mary Lou Ribar (Jillian's aunt)
Cleveland, OH - Thursday, November 6, 2003 12:15 AM CST
Dearest ones, know that we have you in our hearts and daily prayers. The days and weeks ahead are sure to be filled with reminders of our little princess. They will also be filled with extraordinary comfort from our Savior. Watch for the blessings, know that they are coming and recieve comfort from His loving arms. We love you. Always in Christ,
Jim and Cynthia Clark
Murrieta, CA USA - Thursday, November 6, 2003 10:53 AM CST
Hello to Madi's family. I am Jillian Lamparyk's aunt and I just found out that Madi has joined Jillian in heaven. I am sure they are having a wonderful time! I just wanted to sign in and let you know that I had been praying for Madi and I will continue to pray for all of you. I am so sorry for your loss. I am inspired by you as I am by my brother and sister in law, Ken and Laura, seeing your strength and your faith. I know you will miss your princess terribly but it is clear that you are confindent as to the fact that she is healed now and that you will all be together again in God's good time. May God continue to bless and comfort you. Thank you for being an inspiration to others.
Kathy Aloi <dgaloi@aol.com>
Rocky River , OH - Thursday, November 6, 2003 8:31 AM CST
My sweet Princess Madi,

Everyone keeps saying you are in a better place! I can't imagine a better place than with your Mommy and Daddy!

I just don't get this!!! How many little Angels does God need anyway?

If you are in some place like Heaven, I hope Jillian is the line leader and that the two of you are looking after baby Noah and little Emily Grace.

We miss you little girl,

Evil Aunties Shelley & Renee & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Thursday, November 6, 2003 2:15 AM CST
Imagine that! A pastor finding it hard to come up with words! Rest sweet princess until that glorious day, when you will rise up in that sublime 1st ressurection. Rest dear parents in the assurance that a family reunion like none ever seen is soon to come! Pastor Rob
rob <rbenardo@aol.com>
fenton, mi usa - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 9:07 PM CST
Still thinking of you, praying for His sweet comfort for you, and loving you. Yes, you were blessed to have Maddie these 2 1/2 years, as were we who came to know and love her, but she too was blessed to have a terrific, loving family, who shared their love for Christ with her, and taught her about His undying love for her and "all the little children". God bless you all, love always..Lisa
Lisa Kanady <MopigletRN@aol.com>
Redlands, - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 8:14 PM CST
What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it with us. You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, November 5, 2003 3:00 PM CST
I'll try not to cry because it is over (that's the hard part) but I'll definitely with out a doubt smile because it happened (that's the easy part) Thinking of you all.
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^
Naples, FL - Wednesday, November 5, 2003 11:13 AM CST
Hi Mike and Marian,
I pray for you and thank you for the Christian witness to all who read your web site. I wish that things could have worked differently in your lives and that your princess could have been with you happy and health for many years. But as you know God makes no mistakes, even though we as human beings can't understand. But one day in heaven we will know all things.
I am a friend of Stephen and Melissa Miramontes. And my heart goes out to them. We miss them but know that they had to move back to CA. I am sure that it means so much to them to have you visit and offer support.
Keep us updated as to how you are doing. And God Bless you is my prayer.

Faye Stark
Taylors, SC - Tuesday, November 4, 2003 7:25 PM CST
Hi. I'm a friend of Susi, Jerry, Hannah and Abby Rowley's. I read your entry on their web site and that's how I got to yours. I was so moved by your words and your precious little girl. It amazes me to see the strength and ability that the Lord gives to families who trust in Him, in the midst of such turmoil. I wish I had the opportunity to know you and your little Madison. I will pray for your family and the healing that I know Jesus has already begun. Love, Wendy
Wendy Graves <wrtgraves@hotmail.com>
Chino, CA USA - Tuesday, November 4, 2003 5:52 PM CST
May the lord bless your family now and forever. Thank you for sharing your life experience with us. I have learned to appreciate my 21 month old daughter a lot more. Although I never got to meet your princess, she taught me more in her short life about love then anyone has taught me in my 21 years of eing alive. Your princess has brought me closer to my princess. Thank-you princess madison.
kristine leyva <ramblin rose @ aol.com>
lake elsinore, ca united states - Tuesday, November 4, 2003 10:18 AM CST
Once again, I am overwhelmed by your ability to bring Madi to life for those of us who didn't have the pleasure of actually knowing her!! That story from her brother's perspective was absolutely beautiful! I have a 2 year old niece who I am crazy about and can just see some of Madi's traits in her (i.e. her consideration of bugs!) Anyway, what a tragic loss for your family and friends but I feel so priveleged to have gotten the chance to know Madi through this site. It is obvious that she was indeed a princess in every sense of the word and her entire family exhibits the grace, courage, and dignity befitting a royal family! Thank you so much for unselfishly sharing Madi with all of us. I will remember her story for the rest of my life! Take care, and God Bless all of you!
ann <akeran@isbe.net>
springfield, il us - Tuesday, November 4, 2003 10:06 AM CST
It sounds like Madi's service was REALLY fit for a Princess. She is such a beautiful little girl; thanks again for sharing her with us. Take good care of yourselves & each other; it's what Madi would want yet it's SO easy to forget to do sometimes.

Love,
Pat


pat manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Monday, November 3, 2003 11:07 PM CST
Mike and Marian, We are constantly thinking of you, I was looking at some pics of us all at Spartacus I have a couple of good shots of Madi, I will send them soon. We miss you and wish we could be there to give you physical comfort of a shoulder to lean on. All I have are words from our Lord, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted;he rescues those who are crushed in spirit." Psalm 34:18
"He heals the brokenhearted, binding up their wounds." Psalm 147:3
"God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4
Looking to the day when Jesus comes to whisk us home!!!
We love you, Sam and Nancy

Nancy and Sam (caringingbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramey@msn.com>
Erie, co - Monday, November 3, 2003 7:53 PM CST
Mike, Marian, Mikey and family,

The services, yesterday were beautiful. I am so thankful I got the chance to know the "Princess". Madison has taught me many things, along with giving me some new friendships, along the way. Madison will always have a special place in my heart :)

Love you all

Rita <beaverfamily@comcast.net>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Monday, November 3, 2003 7:53 PM CST
Hello,

I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you all. I wish we could have come to the services, but one day we will see you again. Take Care.

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Monday, November 3, 2003 7:21 PM CST
Thoughts & prayers are with you.
Candice Behm <candice333@netzero.net>
Portland, OR USA - Monday, November 3, 2003 4:51 PM CST
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Madison was a beautiful child and I am sure she is shining bright in Heaven. I am also touched by Madison, as she has my name as her middle name. I'm sorry it didn't bring her the luck she needed. But she was obviously surrounded by love and compassion. May God grant you peace and serenity.
Take Care and God Bless,
Renee Curkendall

www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <rcurk@aol.com>
- Monday, November 3, 2003 2:22 PM CST
I wanted to pass this song's word onto your family. I'm praying for your family during this most difficult time.


Good-Bye
by Sondra Burnett

Into His hands I send you now;
If I could keep you with me I would some how;
But you have been chosen to be by His side;
The angels have come to take you for a ride.

Up above the clouds where Heaven is waiting;
Jesus has His arms opened wide;
So good-bye for now my sweet lullaby.

Letting you go isn't easy to do;
We hope you know how much we love you;
The time is come to tell you good-bye;
We'll see you again someday in the sky.

Up about the clouds where Heaven is waiting;
Jesus has His arms opened wide;
So good-bye for now my sweet lullaby.

So good-bye for now my sweet lullaby.


Anita Moore mother of Holly
Sikeston, MO - Monday, November 3, 2003 1:39 PM CST
This is the first time signing your guest-book, we wish it could be under different circumstances. Our son Dre' was at Duke the same time Madi was, he just loved to see her at clinic, she was always smiling and happy-talking about her tubbies. We are very sorry for you loss. We too have lost our angel to ALL. He passed away on Aug 13 2003. We will always remember Madi's smile. www.thestatus.com Name: Heimann password: supper-brass
Billy and Lori Heimann <heimann87@aol.com>
IL - Monday, November 3, 2003 10:11 AM CST
What an angel... I know you are proud of her and what she accomplished in her short life. The strength and grace of God shines through your family. As you grieve your loss you faithfully remind us all about the other kids still fighting their battles, and ask for prayers for them. God is truly working through you and Madison was blessed to have you taking care of her as much as you were blessed to have her. These days will be difficult for you but with Our Lord on you side you will get through day by day. I know this first-hand, because my sweet baby Cameron went to be with Jesus just 2 years ago after a BMT for Hurler Syndrome. We may not always understand what the plan is and what purpose is being served when we have children, only to lose them too soon... but I have faith that my God knows best for me, for you and for every other family out there in similar circumstances. My prayer for you is peace and hope, and that you always remember the blessing you had and still have in Madison.
Cameron's Page
Love from Alabama,

Emily Martin <esmw72@yahoo.com>
Anniston, AL USA - Monday, November 3, 2003 10:07 AM CST
Please accept our sympathy in the passing of your little princess. Thank you for sharing her journey with us.
Love,
Courtney and the crew
Hendrick Marrow Program
Pit Crews for Kids

Courtney Hurd <churd@hmsracing.com>
Charlotte, NC - Monday, November 3, 2003 8:11 AM CST
Praying for you in Ohio, what a Lovely Angel Heaven has gained. May God be with you.
Aunt to Angel ^Chase^ www.caringbridge.org/oh/chaser

Lisa <LRFilo@aol.com>
OH - Sunday, November 2, 2003 9:37 PM CST
Let me first start out by saying Madi's service was fit for a princess. I am just so upset that she is no longer hear with you (us,the world,etc) I dont know why but for some reason the past week or so Brandon has asked me every day to see Madi. We will just be sitting or doing something and he tells me "mom can I see Madi today?" I dont know what to tell him. For some reason he thinks I told him she moved away. (but I didnt) I just think he is to young to understand the truth. Anyways I havent been able to stop the tears from coming so I just wanted to come up and see her face again. My heart is so broken, I'm so sorry you guys. Give Mikey big hugs and kisses.

Love Always
Cori

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, CA - Sunday, November 2, 2003 9:21 PM CST
Thinking of you today.....

Love,
Pat

pat manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Sunday, November 2, 2003 8:02 PM CST
A peom Called Fly Madi fly by: meghan gapa for madi!!!!
Fly Madi Fly
You have suffered enough,
Fly Madi Fly
You are so very tough
Fly madi fly
Cancer is so rough,
Fly Madi Fly.

You tried madi you tried,
Fight leukemia not die
You tried madi you tried
Princess and apple of our eye,
You tried madi you terid.

Goodbye madi goodbye,
Will miss you forever,
goodbye madi goodbye,
You were never afrid or shy,
Goodbye madi good bye,
Miceky misses you madi,
Goodbye Madi Goodbye.



Meghan Gapa aka nates sis nater website www.caringbridge.org/ny/naters_page. password nate vewing name gapa.
- Sunday, November 2, 2003 4:17 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting Princess Madison, but I would check her website often and would speak with King Brandyn's bunch about her progress. She was a happy and beautiful creature that god gave to everyone, and she radiated that to everyone she came into contact with, even over the internet. I agree with what someone else said earlier that I also have been struggling with Madi's passing, but your faith and courage have been an example to all of us. May God Bless You All!!!
Dawn <lilsis214@aol.com>
Boyds, MD - Sunday, November 2, 2003 3:46 PM CST
Dear Mitchem Family
We are Angels' Hermes and Aristofanis parents. Our children were at the 5200 Unit when Madi was transplanted. We would like to express our deepest sorrow for the loss of your precious princess. We will never forget her sweet smile! May God give you peace!
Savvas-Marianna Koumpouras.

Marianna <ermiskub@yahoo.gr>
Lamia, Greece - Sunday, November 2, 2003 2:13 PM CST
Just thinking of you all today as you lay your little princess to rest.
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^
Naples, FL - Sunday, November 2, 2003 2:10 PM CST
I am still feeling shock over your news, I can only imagine the loss you are dealing with. My prayers are with you and your family today as you go to the Princess' memorial service, and always as you deal with her loss...and her wonderful memories she has left you with. She is such a beautiful and precious little girl.
Debbie <DGomin718@aol.com>
Lyndonville, NY - Sunday, November 2, 2003 12:48 AM CST
Dear Mitchem family,

I am so sorry for your loss. It has been a long a difficult journey, but Madison is now at peace. Even though I never had the pleasure of meeting little Madison I would check her website often and rely on Richelle for information. I asked about Maddy often and asked Richelle to pass on my love and support to you all. I have really been struggling with Maddy's passing, but your faith and courage have been an example to us all. It makes me happy to know that we all believe in Christ and that we will see Madison again. Continue to rely on the Lord our savior as he will bring you through this. You remain in my prayers and in my thoughts. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!

Love in Christ
Rachel (Maddy Bates Aunt)

Rachel Maglio <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA - Sunday, November 2, 2003 12:06 AM CST
Even though it's taken me a few days to sign in, I wanted to let you know that I've been thinking of you all over the past week. No child deserves to go through what Madi did, but I now know that she is having the most fun anyone could imagine. I just picture her dancing to the Wiggles with her little guitar and entertaining everyone in heaven. How cute! She was so lucky to have parents like you-she knew everyday how much she was loved. I'll be thinking of you and hoping that you find peace as your life goes on.
Andria Kokoszka, RN <aks623@hotmail.com>
Raleigh, NC - Sunday, November 2, 2003 11:09 AM CST
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious angel, your loss is heavens gain, she is running pain free with all those who have went before her.
Toto
- Saturday, November 1, 2003 10:54 PM CST
Dear Family,

My heart goes out to you. I pray you soon find comfort and peace within. That your midnight sirens are over. Your sweet Madi is smiling now; she is already in the presence of Jesus and radiant.

Jo Yost <jyost@manekin.com>
Durham, NC - Saturday, November 1, 2003 10:46 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss what a beautiful little one and such a smile.
Betty Kwist Alicia Bennett's aunt <bkwist@coloradocollege.edu>
Co Spgs, CO USA - Saturday, November 1, 2003 9:16 PM CST
I am truly sorry to hear about Madison. There are no words to express the depth and magitude of your loss.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Saturday, November 1, 2003 8:44 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.


Friendship from SD <royaltree@hotmail.com>
South Dakota - Saturday, November 1, 2003 8:27 PM CST
God Bless and be with you...You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
Kasey Gunde <topgund@aol.com>
Mt Holly, NC US - Saturday, November 1, 2003 4:15 AM CST
Mike and Marion,
Words escape me right now. There are no words to say that could express how sorry I am about Madi. She was such a beautiful little girl and I will miss her much!

As I sit here tonight I not only feel sad for her loss, but I also feel privaledged to have known her. I wish I had had the opportunity to know her better, but I still feel privaledged tho say that that beautiful child was a member of MY FAMILY. It has been a privaledge to share her story with others. A privaledge to tell others I know how strong and beautiful she was. To tell others how you two have handled all of this with such grace and peace.

I know that over the next few day and weeks, or how ever long it takes, it will be hard for you. None of us understands this and I have no idea how you could even come close to understanding. I know, however, with the faith you have in God and the love you have as a family, God will be there to help you survive!

Please know my cousin, know that I am here. You are in my prayers daily, and I am also here to help in ANYTHING I can do. I can't do much, but I am willing to do all that I can.

I love you all so much and I am sending you the biggest hug that can be sent through the internet!

I also can't wait to see her again in heaven. To watch her run in the green grass and dance and be free. Free from pain, free from tubbies, free from all that can hurt her. I want to be there to play and get to know her like I didn't before!

I love you, love you, love you,

Caroline (AKA: Line-Line)

Caroline Spriggs <Cspriggs65@aol.com>
Monrovia, Ca - Friday, October 31, 2003 7:26 PM CST
I am so SORRY to hear about Princess Maddi. My prayers are with the family during this time. May God Bless your family and Maddi.
Kyle Hernandez <Nation1229@aol.com>
Moreno Valley, ca USA - Friday, October 31, 2003 5:51 PM CST
May God bless and keep you all during this time. Sending hugs and prayers.
Martha White <MWhite6@charter.net>
Princeton, WV - Friday, October 31, 2003 5:35 PM CST
Mike, Marian, and family,
There are no words of comfort that we can offer, but we are so very deeply sorry for your loss. We would like you to know that your sweet princess touched our hearts and left her imprint there forever. We are so pleased that you and the entire family, were able to be there during her final hours to hug, snuggle, hold, comfort, cry, laugh, and love her. If we can offer you anything, please do not hesitate to drop us an email. We are so very, very blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know Madi and your family. God bless you with peace, healing and renewal in the hours, days, weeks, months and years to come.
Aloha,
Greg, Debbie and angel baby Noah

The Prichard Family <noahprichard@yahoo.com>
Honolulu, HI USA - Friday, October 31, 2003 5:17 PM CST
I've beeen following Madi's story for a while now and am so sorry for this conclusion. She wasn't suppossed to die, she was suppossed to be a survivor! My heart breaks for I cannot even begin to imagine your heartbreak. I hope that you've found peace in knowing that she lived her life with strength and courage far surpassing her young age. She will never be forgotten.
Danielle
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Friday, October 31, 2003 4:24 PM CST
May God bless and keep you all during this time. Sending hugs and prayers.
Martha White <MWhite6@charter.net>
Princeton, WV - Friday, October 31, 2003 4:24 PM CST
My prayers go out to you and your family for the loss of your precious gift from up above. Our children are our blessings. Continue to be strong as we can all clearly see that you are. Thank you for sharing your child's life with all of us.
Alicia R. <alianna72@hotmail.com>
san Bernardino, ca san bernardino - Friday, October 31, 2003 4:05 PM CST
Dearest family of Madi...You are all in our thoughts and prayers, and we wish you were close enough for hugs! We miss Madi's presence here at the clinic, especially her sweet smile and extremely fashionable outfits! = - ) We know she is at peace, and look forward to seeing her again someday. Thanks for sharing your baby with us! Love, Lynn (nurse at Duke Children's Health Center)
Lynn Boyd <lynn_b1965@yahoo.com>
Durham, NC - Friday, October 31, 2003 3:21 PM CST
Dearest family of Madi...You are all in our thoughts and prayers, and we wish you were close enough for hugs! We miss Madi's presence here at the clinic, especially her sweet smile and extremely fashionable outfits! = - ) We know she is at peace, and look forward to seeing her again someday. Thanks for sharing your baby with us! Love, Lynn (nurse at Duke Children's Health Center)
Lynn Boyd <lynn_b1965@yahoo.com>
Durham, NC - Friday, October 31, 2003 3:21 PM CST
I'm so sorry, Madi was on my mind all night. I just could not stop thinking about her. I will pray for you and your family. God bless you.
Lavonne
mount airy, usa - Friday, October 31, 2003 2:32 PM CST
We send the prayers of many families who have walked the same path. We all share the deep sadness of your losing your little Princess as we have all been there. We need to continue to hope that we can change the future for children and families who will follow.
Antonia Ithurallde <antonia@babycancer.com>
Long Beach, CA USA - Friday, October 31, 2003 2:24 PM CST
Aloha to Madi's family ..... I really have nothing profound to add to all the previous entries ...I know you find comfort in the writings of Paul that tells us "we need not grieve as those who have no HOPE " ... but grieve we will and then move on to cherish the wonderful memories of a precious little life . I love you all .. Auntie Marion..
Marion Esteb <mariane@aloha.net>
Koloa, Kauai, HI USA - Friday, October 31, 2003 1:20 PM CST
I came across Madison's webpage several months ago from a link on another CaringBridge site. I check on her weekly although I hadn't signed her guestbook before. I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful little princess. My thoughts & prayers are with you all. Hugs & kisses to Angel Madison, the sweet little princess with beautiful angel wings.
Jennifer Kahler <Jenifrkk@cs.com>
Rockford, IL USA - Friday, October 31, 2003 11:53 AM CST
Dear Marion and Mike,
I had the privilege of caring for Madi a few times in the clinic at Duke and I must say that she left quite an impression on my heart as did all of you. What an extra special girl and family. You are such awesome parents. Madi made me feel good to be around her- she had such a spunky, fun and loving personality. I will never forget her or all of you. I pray that God wraps you tight and brings some peace in this time of sorrow. Madi was such a fighter. I look forward to seeing her again some day. I am sending big hugs to all of you...an extra big one for sweet Mikey.
With love and prayers,

Natalie Skergan <skergan@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Friday, October 31, 2003 9:00 AM CST
I am so sorry for your pain at the loss of your precious little princess. She was so cute, so beautiful, and so courageous throughout her awful ordeal. She looked like a ray of sunshine! I am so glad that we have a marvelous hope in our Lord, Jesus Christ, that He will be coming back to this earth very soon and will resurrect and restore little Madi and give her back to her parents and brothers and the rest of the family who long to see her again. What great joy there will be on that day!

Keep looking up, keep your faith strong, and know that we are praying for you here in the Hampton Roads area of Virginia.

Karen Edwards <kredwards@juno.com>
Virginia Beach, VA USA - Friday, October 31, 2003 8:45 AM CST
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you today.
Maria
NJ - Friday, October 31, 2003 8:15 AM CST
I have been following Madi's journey through the web site and was so sorry to hear of your loss. Madi seemed like an amazing girl - with an equally amazing family. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers as God has added yet another Angel to watch over us.
Christy Parrack <cparrack@nmdp.org>
- Friday, October 31, 2003 7:51 AM CST
I learned of this horrible trajedy from Dawn....u dont know me but my thoughts and prayers are with all of the family
Steve Hausler
Frederick, MD Frederick - Friday, October 31, 2003 0:30 AM CST
To Madi's family,
I learned of your daughter from Katia's website. I am terribly sorry for your loss. As a former pediatric oncology nurse, I know how amazing these kids are! Someone has a new wonderful guardian angel today. Our prayers are with you.
Annette Asher

Annette Asher <annettem@gate.net>
Tarpon Springs, FL - Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:38 PM CST
When we heard of Madi's passing, we all held hands and said a very special prayer for her and all of you. Nate remembered Madi as "the girl who gave me a Clifford book." Madi's magnetic personality will stick with us all. She will make a wonderful angel and we will miss her very much. Peace be with you, the Parry family
Ingrid Parry <giparry@lanset.com>
Sacramento, CA USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:35 PM CST
Madi's Family,
My heart breaks at the news of Madi's passing, but I know of one special angel who is dancing with her in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
^^Angel^^ Jillian's Aunt Meg

Meg Fox <MegMFox@aol.com>
- Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:24 PM CST
Your family are in our prayers.
sheila
Taylorville, Il - Thursday, October 30, 2003 9:41 PM CST
Mr.and Mrs.Mitchem,We are friends with Manny's family and we wanted you to know how sorry we are to hear of the passing of your little girl.May the Lord's Grace keep you and comfort you at this time in your lives.We will keep you in our prayers!!
Sheila Barnett
Taylors, SC - Thursday, October 30, 2003 8:45 PM CST
I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet little Madi.

Carolyn (Fisher's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/va/fisherc <oshelrina@aol.com>
Chesapeake, Va USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 8:20 PM CST
our prayers will continue for your family. we love you and your sweet baby maddi!God Bless You!
Richelle Bates <rikkilee23@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, Ca - Thursday, October 30, 2003 7:36 PM CST
Fly Angel Madi Fly Way up high to the sky.
Nate and Meghan Gapa who
Miss Little Madi Depply
www.caringbridge.org/ny/naters_page
Vewing Name:gapa
Password: nate

Meghan and Nater Gapa <gaphouse@yahoo.com>
Lyndonville, New York ~ Home of the Yankees!!! USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 7:22 PM CST
I am so SORRY to hear about the loss of your little princess Madi. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Cory Hernandez <Axion86@aol.com>
Moreno Valley, CA USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 7:09 PM CST
I am so terribly sorry to hear about the loss of your baby Princess. You are an amazing family. Little Madison touched the lives of so many people. Although I never met her, she made me count my blessings and hold my kids tight on many days. I hope that you continue to have some peace, comfort and strength in the days ahead.
Jessica
NJ - Thursday, October 30, 2003 5:27 PM CST
I am so very sorry. I wonder, will the other angels call her Princess Angel Madison, or Angel Princess Madison? God bless you all. I found you through Tommy Bennet's site.
Ronnie Wood <ronniewood@comcast.net>
Scotch Plains, NJ US - Thursday, October 30, 2003 4:34 PM CST
Dear Mitchem's, I am so sorry. I am heartbroken to hear of your loss. But what a tremendous GAIN for heaven! Can you just imagine Princess Angel Madi's arrival at the pearly gates~~~I bet she ran right into the arms of Jesus! I can picture him scooping her up in his arms and running right to his Father! I bet they are showing her around heaven right now! She is so happy, and pain-free. It is a tremendously sad time for all those in her circle of friends and of course, for you, her family. I just must continue to image what she is doing right now, and how she is looking down from her new "princess" post and watching lovingly over you all. You did such a wonderful job letting her know how much you love her. I pray that we all are able to find the peace that Madi has found with her Savior.
Jenifer Hayes <jenndahouse@aol.com>
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 3:45 PM CST
God bless you baby girl!
God bless your family!!!

Mia Santana <mamamia6@msn.com>
Riverside, CA 92505 - Thursday, October 30, 2003 3:08 PM CST
Your entry to tell us the news of Madi's passing was so beautifully written and so touching. My heart hurts for those of you whom she loved and had to leave but I know she will remain with each of you forever. She was obviously a VERY special little girl and I am glad you had some wonderful times with her recently for those are the memories you will treasure. Heaven has received a most beautiful angel in Madison. Take care, and may God Bless You all.
ann <akeran@isbe.net>
springfield, il Sangamon - Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:54 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear about your precious angel. I will always have a picture in my mind of Madi & Jordan sitting on the bed in Rainbow day in their Duke outfits. Madi was so sweet and wanted to make sure that Jordan could hold one of her pom pons. We sadly miss your princess. You all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:53 PM CST
To Madi's Mommy, Daddy, Brothers, Grandparents, Aunties (even the evil ones), and uncles..................

I am the mother of Natasha (The Bank Lady) Johnson. My husband and I got involved because Tasha called and asked if we would be part of the "Birthday blood donation Party" for Madi. That was the only time we met Madi and her Daddy Mike. We fell in love with her as did everyone who has met her. We have followed the princess's progress thru her web site. Thank you Aunt Linda xxxxx & ooooo. I was so sad to read the news in the paper today I can't seem to stop crying. I know you are all very happy for Madi as she goes from princess to Angel. The pain and suffering for her is over now. I know God will walk through this journey with all of you and will help you deal with the new pain of missing her. Thank you all for sharing your precious princess with all of us. Your family has touched our hearts.
Now God has Angel Madi to help pour out the rain. You are ALL in our hearts and prayers. Big Hugs to all of you

Dawn King (The Bank Lady)'s Mom <DMK611@aol.com>
Corona, CA usa - Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:51 PM CST
My mistake... it's Psalms 116:15...
Shawn Coble <selboc@aol.com>
- Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:40 PM CST
Psalms 116:5 Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.

We have to remember that our children are so much better off than we are. One day we'll all be together again.

I know it's hard to stay focused on that all the time. You will go thru many emotions and they are all normal. I still struggle with Reese's death - 7 months later - but he is with me, wiping away my tears and getting me out of bed in the morning.

God bless you all... I'm sure Madison is enjoying all Heaven has to offer!!!

Shawn Coble, mother of ^^REESE^^ (www.caringbridge.org/nc/reesecup) <selboc@aol.com>
Winston Salem, NC - Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:36 PM CST
I am sadden to hear of the loss of Princess Madison. I pray that God help you go through the healing process until the one day you see your princess in Heaven. May God be with you.
Gretchen Woods <4trees@mail.itwebs.com>
St. Louis, MO - Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:15 PM CST
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of you sweet little princess.

May God's love and your faith follow you through these very trying times!!

In deepest sympathy-
Cindy and Jim

Cindy and Jim Fehon <cynafeh@aol.com>
Sicklerville, NJ USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 1:27 PM CST
We are so sorry for the loss of your little Princess Madi. She has touched so many lifes. You are all in our prayers and we love you.
God Bless.
Lori Tygerson and Family

Lori <ltygerson@yahoo.com>
Lake Forest, CA Orange - Thursday, October 30, 2003 12:59 AM CST
Our hearts and prayers are with everyone that has been touched by your Angel, Madi. To Mike, Mariam, Little Mikey, Matt, and the grandparents, aunties and uncles....I wish our arms could reach each of you, but please know that our hearts are with you during your loss and healing.
We are thinking of you all, with great admiration for the fight that you ALL fought so bravely! We know that God has touched everyone with lessons that came from your Princess, and we all need to rejoice in her life...her being with us for the time that she was, gave us each a reminder of how precious each day is and how we can look at life as innocently as a child like Madi, who in the midst of the fight of her life, could smile and spread such joy. She is surely loved, and the Lord is most fortunate to share heaven with such a gift. We love you.

Sue DeLozier and Kelly Horejs <s_delozier2@hotmail.com>
Neenah, WI USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 12:47 AM CST
So sorry for the loss of your sweet princess. You are in my prayers.
Michele <mash128@hotmail.com>
Winona, MN - Thursday, October 30, 2003 12:30 AM CST
I am deeply sadden by the loss of Princess Madison. May God wrap his wings of Love around you and your family during this time of Grief. I am sure she is running free in the gates of heaven. All my caringbridge angels are there to help show her the way, Taylor, Codi, Julia, Britney, Noah, Etc... They are all there with her and showing her the way.

I send my thoughts and prayers to you and your family. God Bless

Jennifer Hines <joverby45@yahoo.com>
Coon Rapids, MN - Thursday, October 30, 2003 12:25 AM CST
May the angels ( Madison´s friends ) keep you all embraced during this extremely difficult moment. She is free and happy - remember that when you are sad. And look into the future. Brighter days will come.
Madison couldn´t have chosen a greater family for her.
Love and Peace.

Rose from Brazil <rosecb@aps.com.br>
- Thursday, October 30, 2003 12:20 AM CST
I just read the press enterprise news paper while i was at work. I couldent help but start crying in front of 10 co workers. I wish i could run to the day care center to give my daughter an big hug. I feel so bad. what a strong little girl she was. Maddi may the lord bless you always.
I also live in lake elsinore and have seen the billboards with her beautiful face on it. I will try very hard to attend her services. god bless your entire family

kristine rose leyva
perris , ca usa - Thursday, October 30, 2003 12:14 AM CST
Dear Mike, Marian, Matt, Mikey, Linda & Flora Maye,

I'm not sure what to say...I don't really have words of comfort. What I can say is that I admire you guys so much for doing everything that could have been done and taking the time to just go out and enjoy the time you had with Madi. Though I only met Madi once, I'll always remember her beautiful smile. I've been receiving the updates and forwarding them from the very first one. I've learned so much from all of you. I'll keep you guys in my thoughts and prayers. If there's anything I can help with, please let me know. Thank you for sharing Madi with me. And Mike, when I have kids, I'll be sure to hug them every chance I get!

Love you guys!!

Becky Martinez <coronasda@sbcglobal.net>
Corona, CA USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 12:12 AM CST
Mike & Family....Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times...
The Don Beltz Family <dandtbeltz@msn.com>
Riverside, CA USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 11:56 AM CST
Mike, Marion & family
It is with a heavy heart that I send my prayers of healing to you all. Nancy and I have been missing you all. Your strength and faith in God just amazes me. As I have done since I have been home I will continue to think of you daily, and remember Madi's little smile. She was so amazing through it all. Someday we will all see it again. We will all be together with our children and each other and won't be all stuck in a waiting room discussing how each child is doing but rejoicing in the moment of happiness. God bless you all!!!

Peggy & Jeremiah <pegakamogan2@aol.com>
Davenport, IA USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 11:50 AM CST
My heartfelt condolences to Madi's family. I am so sad to hear the news but she is now free from any pain and is an angel looking down upon all who loved her. My prayers are with each and every one of you. God bless!
Linda <lindabf19@comcast.net>
Tallahassee, FL - Thursday, October 30, 2003 11:24 AM CST
Hello,
I am a good friend of Manny Miramontes' Mother (Melissa)and she told me about Madison. I just want to send my condolences to the whole family and let you know that I am praying for you all to help get you through this hard time.
Take Care and may God bless you

Melissa Cruz <m.cruz23@verizon.net>
Azusa, CA USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 11:09 AM CST
I am Jordan Horton's aunt and I have been looking in on Madison from time to time. I will never forget the picture of Madison in her cheerleader outfit with Jordan, she captured my heart! I am so sorry for your loss, I will keep your family in my prayers.
Tina Shipman <tina.shipman@eby.com>
Kansas City, - Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:40 AM CST
To all of madi's wonderful family,
I have been following Madi's story for quite some time now. I will never forget the day mike came into the bank(where I work) and told me the terrible news. Since then it has always seemed to be a gift from God the way things have come into place, to help Madison and the Mitchems. As hard as it seems now, I think the most wonderful part is that Madi is at peace and there is no more fighting! I will always keep her in my thoughts, and the family in my prayers. My special thanks goes out to Aunt Linda for always keeping us updated and letting me know via the madi updates how things were. Hugs and Kisses to you Aunt Linda. Madison will be greatly missed, however her life was a legacy that will live on, goodbye little Princess!! Love Natasha(The Bank Lady)Johnson

Natasha Johnson <TishTash33@aol.com>
Lake Elsinore, Ca USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:40 AM CST
My heart and prayers go out to all of you. I worked with Flora Maye for years and keep up with Little Madison thru the email from Linda. Your story of faith and courage is one that needed to be shared with all parents. Your little Priness will never be forgotten. God's peace and faith continue to be in your life each day. God Be With you ALL.
Norma Burleson <njbdwb@earthlink.net>
Rancho Cucamonga , CA USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:37 AM CST
The Lord has blessed many people with the shining face of Madi, she will be missed a great deal but rest assured that she is still shining as she sits by the side of God and she is more beautiful than ever!
Denise Risner <rcknrsadls@aol.com>
Norco, Ca U.S.A. - Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:18 AM CST
WE HAVE FOLLOWED MADI'S JOURNEY, BUT AS IS NOW, DID NOT KNOW WHAT TO SAY FOR AN ENTRY. STEPH AND I WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. WE WISH THERE WAS WORDS TO LESSEN YOUR SORROW--THERE ARE NONE. WE DO WANT TO EXTEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. CONTINUE YOUR FAITH IN GOD'S INFINITE WISDOM AND MERCY KNOWING THAT YOUR PRINCESS HAS BEEN TAKEN TO A PLACE WHERE THERE IS NO PAIN OR SORROW AND WHERE ONE DAY WE ALL SHALL BE JOINED WITH THE ONES WE LOVE FOREVERMORE.


JEFF AND STEPHANIE BECK <JBECK@KDHOSEIRY.COM>
MT AIRY , NC - Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:02 AM CST
Send prayers your way! So sorry for your loss!
Melissa
New Ulm, MN - Thursday, October 30, 2003 10:02 AM CST
I am Alicia Bennett's cousin. She always said nice things about Madison so I would always check in on her page when I checked up on Tommy. I enjoyed reading about your sweet little girl. I'm very sorry for your loss. God bless her and your whole family.
Tamara Kwist <tkwist@yahoo.com>
Paris, France - Thursday, October 30, 2003 9:49 AM CST
Mitchem family,

I am so sad for your loss. I've been following Madi for a long time now, and she has inspired me with her strength and her love. She will be missed by those who never personally knew her, but loved her anyway. My prayers are with you, as they have always been. You now have a beautiful angel to watch over you.

Love,

Jodi

Jodi <jodisgreen@aol.com>
Roselle Park, formerly Bloomfield, NJ USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 9:04 AM CST
They must be celebrating in heaven since Madison’s arrival. What a glorious place it must be -nothing but peace, happiness, and cancer free plus one more beautiful little angel. What you write is true. God is in control and no one could be more concerned about what is best for Madi than her creator. And just think of it. You were blessed to be the parents of such a sweet, courageous, and amazing little princess. You must be so proud of her. She enriched your lives beyond belief and I know from experience your love for her will still grow. The world is a better place for having Madison in it but now heaven is a better place. It is comforting to know our little angels are watching over us until we can be with them again someday. I told Jillian today to be on the lookout for a new playmate. Your whole family (evil aunties and all) is in our constant thoughts and prayers.
Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Thursday, October 30, 2003 8:55 AM CST

Random Acts of Kindness

Dana Sanford <pooh_n_tigger2002@yahoo.com>
Jackson, Mi - Thursday, October 30, 2003 8:31 AM CST
My heart and prayers go out to all of you. I never knew your family directly but have been kept in the loop by Sue Delozier (co-worker). Your story of faith and courage is one that needed to be shared with all parents. Your little Priness will never be forgotten. God's peace continue in your lives.
Mike Kinderman <mike@prninc.com>
Appleton, WI Outagamie - Thursday, October 30, 2003 8:17 AM CST
We are praying for you and your family.
Patsy & Jim Burke
Blauvelt, ny - Thursday, October 30, 2003 7:19 AM CST
The Mitchem family,
I am so sorry to hear that Madison lost her battle with cancer. My prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless.

Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 7:16 AM CST
To Madi's loving and devoted family,
In every message of comfort, in every word of concern, in every expression of love, may you feel the compassion and caring of our faithful Heavenly Father who knows your every need and will continue to sustain you through this time of deepest sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
In Christian love,
Hendrick Motorsports Prayer Warrior

Bonnie Curran <bjcurran@earthlink.net>
Concord, NC - Thursday, October 30, 2003 6:24 AM CST
I am so sorry Madi is not here with us, but I could only imagine the wonderful place she is with God!! Madi has been taken away from you way to soon but she gets to rejoice and watch over eveyone here!!! Boy how lucky are we to have Madi watching and taking care of all of us!!
I belive that Heaven has become a much sweeter place with her and baby Noah in it!!!
I have been on Madi's site eveyday and had a special bond (I felt because i have a Madison and in her cheer outfit they look alot alike)!! My heart goes out to you and your family and I hope you can find comfort knowing she is an angel with no pain and no illness and is just flying over everyone with her sweet spirt!!!!
My love and Prayers are with you, your family, and everyone who grew to care about Princess Madi as I did!!!
We all have a wonderful Angel watching over us!!!!!!

Jennifer Preson <loverdover@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, Ca - Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:52 AM CST
I wish to add my condolences to those of so many others who, like me had never met Madi, but felt I knew so much of her from Aunty Marian Estab's reports. Your journal has been such an inspiration to me. Every time I read that line "go hug your kids" I would go to my 2 year old daughter and hold her and say a prayer for Madi. May God continue to give you strength.
Debbie Nakamura <deborahnakamura@msn.com>
Kapaa, Hi USA - Thursday, October 30, 2003 2:17 AM CST
Your family is in my prayers...Madi was a sweet little girl. Although I only knew her for a short time she will hold a special place in my heart!
Kenny Sandoval <KnSndvl28@aol.com>
Fontana, CA USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 11:50 PM CST
We are deeply saddened to learn that Madison passed away. Reading about her final moments brought tears to our eyes, the love that covered her as she slipped away was so deeply felt. There is little that can console you at a time like this. But we want you to know that Madison has touched our lives in a special way and we will continue to fight against this horrible disease in her name.

As I was reading this Bible verse I thought of you.

"Do not fear, for I am with you, do not be afraid, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand." ( Isaiah 41:10)

Allison, Richard & Koko <Sandesta@aol.com>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 10:52 PM CST
Rest well and sleep with sweet dreams princess Madi...until Jesus returns and you will live again!! You were such a beautiful gift to so many people, God created a princess for all to love.

To Madi's parents,
You are such an inspiration by your strong witness at such a painful and difficult time. I will be praying for you to feel God's presence and love surround you each moment as you walk this sad journey. I am so grateful that you have the knowledge that God is in complete control.
In Him,

Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 10:45 PM CST
To Madi's family: We also know of your pain. My 5-year old daughter, Delaney, is in heaven due to complications from AML. We miss her so much and will never stop loving her. That is the greatest gift they have given us and it is our honor to cherish it daily.
Please visit Delaney's site and email me if you would like. I am also a member of DaybyDay (email group) and it has helped me.
Delaney's site: www.caringbridge.com/ca/delaney

Amy, Mom of Angel Delaney and Kevin, age 11 <Wright_Amy@hotmail.com>
San Diego, CA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 10:29 PM CST
I am so very sorry to hear about Madi. Keeping you in thoughts and prayers!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 10:28 PM CST
You have been in our constant thoughts and prayer over these last few days and I my heart just cried when I read that Madi had left us...I am grateful that she is waiting in line to see our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ...I had prayed that her healing would be here with us in the flesh on earth but I guess God had a different plan...we will continue to call upon His name for the strength and peace that your family will so desperately need now...
Praise God, Madi is FREE...We rejoyous in the glory of her spirit moving on...yet mourn the reality that she ahs gone on without us...
You all are an amazing family and we will miss you and your beautiful princess cheerleading down the halls of Duke.
Our hearts are there with you as you lay your baby to rest.

In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody & Greg & Riley <ehilliard@verizon.net>
www.forcody.org, - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 10:20 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Madi brightened my day every time she walked into clinic, with a new pair of shoes or in her Duke cheerleading outfit. She definately was a princess. May you guys find strength in God to get through this time. Thank you for sharing Madison with us. She will truly be missed by all who knew her. She touched the hearts of many. My girls, Madison and Brynne will get very special hugs tonight. God Bless You. Jerilyn
Jerilyn Reid <sreid2@nc.rr.com>
Cary, NC Wake - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 10:01 PM CST
I am so touched and saddened by the loss of your sweet Madison. I have only been visiting her site these past few weeks, and I am in tears. My daughter has been fighting Medulloblastoma for two years. I know the journey, I just don't know our destination yet. I know
that Madi is playing with the angels and will be with you forever. I pray for your strength in this most difficult time.

My daughter's website is www.caringbridge.org/ca/jordan

Angela Atherton <angatherton@comcast.net>
Murrieta, CA USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:43 PM CST
I am so terribly sorry for the pain you are feeling right now. I understand completely. I'll be praying for you. In Christ,
jan livingstone (Andy's Mom forever)
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:42 PM CST
Your loss is very sad to so many of us. Our prayers will be with you all now and always. May our Heavenly Father Bless you and may we always remember and celebrate your bravery and Madi's life.

God be with you all.


Martha & Duane Goertson <goertson@dowco.com>
Chilliwack, British Columbia Canada - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:31 PM CST
I learned of your recent loss through Katia's website and my heart is very sad and heavy right now thinking of how precious Madison's life was and how unfair it seems to have to lose her. I do believe in God and know that He has her in His arms and she is now without pain and only feels His overwhelming love. I am happy that she feels no more pain and hope that your pain will lessen soon. You will never forget but hopefully you will be comforted by God's love and knowing that Madison is OK and you will see her once again. I will continue to pray for your entire family, everyone who knew Madison, and all those children who are suffering and battling from this awful disease. Thank you for loving Madison so much and for all the love and care you provided to her to make her time on earth that much better. You are my heroes.

Anne Marie Taft
Tampa, Fl USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:24 PM CST
We have followed your story for a few months. It is hard to say "I'm sorry for your loss of your daughter/sister/family member" when you all seem so blessed and thankful to have experienced life with your princess. Know that there are so many thinking of you...and know that I take to heart what Daddy writes "GO HUG YOUR KIDS." I do, and I always will, and I will always be thankful that I can. I know that one day you will hug your princess again not only in your hearts but with your loving arms forever.
Jill and Caroline
MD - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:09 PM CST
What will I do now that Mom can't send me the updates on my little cousin. I'll just have to do the same thing that you will do and that is have the hope that Christ gave all of us when he died for us. I'm thankfull that she was able to spend some time here and light up the world around her with her smiles. Remember the sad time and rejoice in the glad times you had with Madi. She is now in the rest that is only a nap to Madi, next thing she will see is her family.

thanks for sharing her's and your pain with all of us.

Tom & Jeannine Dealy <tom@dealyclan.net>
Snohomish, WA USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 9:07 PM CST
Dear Madison,

We just want to have you know that we always love you wherever you are.

Mingyan, Jun and Christina <jlu276@yahoo.com >
Duham, NC USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:55 PM CST
Dear Mike and Marian,

I was so sorry to hear that Madison became an angel last night, well she was always an angel. I was happy to read that all of her family was there with her and I know that made her feel better. You will always be our friends and I hope that once we get back to California with Tommy, we will be able to get together. Please let me know if there is anything that we can do for you. I know this is not the tme to think about this, but if you decide to do anything about Kaiser, we will be right there with you.

We love you all and will miss Heaven's newest little princess.

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:43 PM CST
God bless you. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Deirdre Antalek <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
Livonia, NY - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:43 PM CST
I have followed your story since Alex put you as a link on their page last July. You and your family have been part of my daily morning prayers. Although I have never met you or even Alex, your updates have made me feel part of your journey. May God's love be your strength through this difficult time. Please know that the thoughts and prayers of so many are with you.
Debbie <dera@amulex.com>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:40 PM CST
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of beautiful Madi. Please accept my sincerest condolences and know that you're all in my thoughts and prayers.


Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:32 PM CST
i am so sad for your lost. please remember she is always alive in your thoughts and memories..god bless you all


karen and sammi www.caringbridge.org/ny/sammip <mpbowler1@aol.com>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:27 PM CST
Dearest Marian and Mike,
I just found out that our wonderful, brave, and spirited little princess lost her battle with that awful disease. My heart aches for you and your loved ones. I know that Madi's loss won't be easy for you, but know that God's love surrounds you all. Thank you for letting me spend Saturday evening, getting to know our little princess. I love you all very much. May God continue to bless and comfort you. You are still in my prayers.

Naila Mall <nmconsultant@mindspring.com>
Palm Springs, Ca - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:22 PM CST
I am so incredibly sorry to hear about your loss. It is just not fair. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope that you kind find some kind of comfort knowing she is free of pain.
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
carrboro, nc usa - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:17 PM CST
To all of Madi's family - all the extended family too. This is a difficult time for all of us just now. Madi had become very special to so many of us. Our church family continues to pray for all of you during your time of sorrow. We are looking forward to seeing all of you in heaven. God loves you very much and so do we.
Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta <ddealy@charter.net>
College Place, WA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 8:11 PM CST
I have followed your little princes through Jillian Lamparyk's site and from Katia's. I have been praying for Madison and for your family. I will continue to keep you in our prayers.
Kim Sweat, mom to Whitney <KSweat9588@aol.com>
Naples, Fl - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 7:57 PM CST
Tears...of sadness and of joy. I am so moved by the way you explained how she went to sleep to wait for Jesus second coming--a very accurate description that so many miss during a horrible time like this. I want you to know that I love you guys very much and that I will continue to pray for you as I have been. Please don't hesitate to let me know if there's anything else I can do. Blessings and much love to you all in Christ.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 7:46 PM CST
I'm so sorry your little princess lost her battle with this horrible disease. I know my Meghan was first in line to welcome her to Heaven. My prayers and thoughts are with you all as you begin this journey with your angel watching from above.
Carolyn Mack (^^Meghan's^^ Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com>
Titusville, FL USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 7:19 PM CST
I'm so sorry you guys lost Madi. It just doesnt seem fair. I'm so glad Madi feels no more pain and she is at peace. You guys are forever in my thoughts and I will cherish the fact that I knew that BEAUTIFUL ANGEL!

Love
Cori,Dennis and Brandon

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 7:10 PM CST
Hi Mitchems,

Since I don't know how to say any of that comforting God stuff. I thought I would just go out in the back yard with Thelma Sue, sit in the ashes, and appreciate some cocktails! I am going to close my eyes and see Madi running around the yard and listen to her voice, "Thelma Sue, you come here!"

P.S. to Madi, If there are any kitty's in that place you are at now, tell all the other angels what to do....
..you remember..... "pull the tail and run!"

Love,

Evil Auntie Shelley & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 7:00 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss.
God Bless all of you and may he hold his newest angel very near.

The Carter's <TLC2866@sbcglobal.net>
Manchester, CT - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 6:58 PM CST
I'm so sorry to hear about Maddie's passing. I've been checking on your page every day and praying for a miracle for you. Maddie has touch so many hearts. She is a true angel. God Bless.
Becky Roy <keleey@hotmail.com>
Hillsborough, Nc USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 6:55 PM CST
My heart is heavy with sadness, but I am happy that Madison is now free, pain free, tubie free and just all out kid free! Your little girl taught me how to smile at the bad and to even laugh harder at the good! May God be with you all during this your most difficult time. Mike and Marian you are both exceptional people that I will always remember... I will always hold close the words of faith that you shared with me Mike, please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. With love and prayers
Latane Grove <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 6:54 PM CST
I found your site through Katia's and I just want to stop in and say my prayers are with you for strength at this time. Your entry is so touching and so you know, I went over right after reading this and hugged my kids so tight with tears in my eyes and thoughts of you.(((hug)))


Melanie Davila-Lighting Children's Lives <positivestories@aol.com>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 6:46 PM CST
My prayers are with you and my heart is so torn right now. I check the page a few times each day (every time I sit at the computer) and I have just really prayed so hard God would grant your family a miracle. God bless you and your strong faith. Love, Tracy
Katia's Page

Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 6:09 PM CST
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I was just now blessed with visiting Madi's site for the first time last week, and I am truly sorry for your loss. May God give you the strength and comfort you need in the days, weeks and eternity to come!
Amy Fandel <afandel@anpi.org>
Springfield, IL - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 6:04 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your faith shines as a bright light in the midst of pain and shadows. God Bless Madi and Madi's family!

Trueda
Seattle, WA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 5:44 PM CST
I'm a friend of the Horton's (Jordan's family) and came upon your website through them. You show such strength through your writing, and that will get you through this time. To know that Madison is much better off has to make things easier, but it could never take away the pain you must be experiencing. Know that my prayers are with you.

Karen
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 5:38 PM CST
May God keep you and your family in His loving arms now and always! Treasure your memories and rejoice, knowing that Maddie is in a far better place(pain free) and waiting for you to join her one day, soon! Many prayers are being said for you and your family.
Verdelle Reynolds <player2player76@hotmail.com>
ALTA LOMA, CA USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 5:25 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I have been reading about your little princess for a while now, just didn't sign the guest book. Little Brandyn is like a grandson to me
and I read about him daily also and pray that he will soon be well. I know the heart ache you feel, because I too have a son who is in heaven, but I had him longer than you had yours. May God bless you all.

grace <mgrace11@hotmail.com>
GARDEN GROVE, CA USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 5:19 PM CST
I am sorry to read about Maddie, I will pray for your family
Heather <mcmurray@interlynx.net, www.caringbridge.org/canada/memorialformom>
- Wednesday, October 29, 2003 4:40 PM CST
I'm so sorry that Madi is no longer with you in body, but she'll stay alive forever in your memories...a little part of her will always be with you. She was such a fighter!!!
Thanks so much for sharing her with the rest of the world!!

Love,
Pat

pat manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 4:36 PM CST
I am sorry for your loss. I have no words for you. Yet, I am amazed at what strenghth you have. You daughter went to heaven, but you are still worried about other people. You are amazing. May God bless and may your next few days not be too difficult.
Allison <sweetdreamer1989@yahoo.com>
Columbia, MO - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 4:17 PM CST
It seems from the last guest entry that Maddie has aleady passed I'm deeply sorry she is a beautiful little girl. I have a cousin who also lives in Riverside, Ca that has cancer she is on hospice right now, she has a little girl herself who is 7 years old. She has cancer and will be leaving to live with the lord soon. I will ask her to give Maddie lots of hugs and kisses for you. She lives on Doverwood st. by Magnolia you may know the area. God bless you I will keep praying for you family
sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 3:47 PM CST
I'm so sorry but she is now with the angles up above......may she lay in peace. all my love to you!
Christie Zeen <czeen@redcent.com>
COVINA, Ca usa - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 3:17 PM CST
My heart and prayers are with you always, with HIS love, Lisa
Lisa Kanady <MopigletRN@aol.com>
Redlands, - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 1:15 PM CST
My heart is heavy as I read the last entry. There are no words to express how sorry I am to hear of your precious Madi having to endure this path she is walking down. All I know is that Our Lord and Savior is with her and will grant her the peace she is searching for, either through a miracle or to bring her home with him. May God's mercy be with you all.
Dana Chade <chade@svusd.k12.ca.us>
San Juan Capistrano, Ca Orange - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 12:16 AM CST
I'm Soooo sorry Madi is going thru all of this. I have followed you for awhile. I pray that God will heal her little body. She is such a sweet little girl and it looks like she has so much fun in her pictures. I will continue to pray for Madi and the family and I will go hug my kids. Thanks. May God bless you.
Lavonne
Mount Airy, USA - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 12:12 AM CST
You know how strongly I feel about Madi and all of you. It tears me apart to think of her being gone and for your tremendous loss...but rejoice also that she has gone home into the hands and caring arms of God. Will call you soon. In my prayers as always, Sue
Sue Wood <wood0039@mc.duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 12:09 AM CST
I read and have kept up on your guessbook every day and want you to know I have laughed, prayed and cried. You and your family are thought of very much. Remember to hug each other along with you kids. So sorry about all this.
Christie Zeen <czeen@redcent.com>
COVINA, Ca usa - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 11:04 AM CST
You guys have been on my mind constantly. I know that words can't help right now; just know I'm here for you, as are so many others.

Love,
Pat


pat manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Wednesday, October 29, 2003 10:31 AM CST
Just checking in to let you know that we are thinking of you ALL.

We love you :)

Rita, Mike and the girls (A,D,M,N) <beaverfamily@comcast.net>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 10:56 PM CST
It is so easy to remember Madi at Duke a few months ago lauging with Koko and showing off her fancy shoes. Koko loves to tell the story of how she and Madison sat in the chair together and Madi would put her arm across Koko and say, "No" everytime we said it was time to go. Koko loves Madi!

We pray for a miracle and for many more wonderful memories with Madi. She is a blessing to our family.

Allison <Sandesta@aol.com>
- Tuesday, October 28, 2003 10:40 PM CST
Hello to the Ms. Our hearts are overflowing with prayers to our heavenly Father for all of you to have strength and courage for this tough tough time. We are so looking forward to the day when there will be no more pain or sickeness and all will be made new if they love Jesus. Keep trusting in Him, He will give you the strength and courage you need for this time.

We just spent the weekend with our son Tom and his family. It doesn't seem possible but the little baby girl they adopted had her 16th birthday celebration while we were there. His sons are 27,25,and 22. My how time races by.

Hug each other from us. Love all of you loads.

Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta
College Place, WA - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 8:38 PM CST
My heart is breaking thinking about what that beautiful child is going through. She is so lucky to have you guys as parents. Please know you are in my everyday thoughts and prayers.
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
carrboro, nc usa - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 7:42 PM CST
Dear Mom and Dad of Madi,

We don't know each other, but you're in our prayers. Thank you for your sustaining faith in God - you're right, we may not know it in this life, but we will understand when we are finally with him.

I can't fathom how hard it must be to see your little one in pain and not doing well. I honor you by doing just what you said, hugging my child, and making the most of each day for that is a gift.

Blessings on you,

Christine
Portland, OR USA - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 6:51 PM CST
My heart breaks for you guys. I wish that there was better news for Madi's treatment. I pray for a miracle for your little princess.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 6:39 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Dawn <lilsis214@comcast.net>
MD - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 5:34 PM CST
Mike and Marion, just checking in today to say we love you guys. Maddie is my hero! She is such a little fighter I pray for her comfort, tell her baby Nolan loves her and misses her. Give Mikey a big hug from Cooper and Kenzie.
Love Sam and Nancy

Nancy and Sam (caringingbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramey@msn.com>
Erie, co - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 3:07 PM CST
I am praying very hard for that miracle for Madi. She is such a wonderful child and is so lucky to have a caring and loving family that she does have. God bless all of you.
Linda
Tallahassee, FL - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 3:06 PM CST
Truer words were never spoken. If not for Jesus I do not understand how ANYONE can get by in this life. It breaks my heart that Madi is having to endure so much and that YOU are having to endure so much. On the flipside, it makes my heart smile that in the darkest of times, you are clinging to the Lord with all that you are and being an absolutely amazing witness. Of course I will continue to remember you in my thoughts and prayers. You know where to find me. Blessings and lots of love in Christ.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 2:27 PM CST
I am amazed at your determination to help Madison live her life to the fullest. What a wonderful mother and family you are. Madison is a beautiful and lucky little girl. I am so sorry at the progression of this damn disease, but she is surrounded by love and God is smiling down upon her and preparing a special place with many little friends in heaven. May God grant you peace and serenity.
Take Care and God Bless,
Renee Curkendall

www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <rcurk@aol.com>
- Tuesday, October 28, 2003 2:01 PM CST
Dear Mike and Marian,

Everytime we visit here, we are full of tears. Our heart is broken when we see all these things happening on Madi so quickly. But we know Madi has such wonderful parents and lots of love around. We are praying for peace and comfort for our princess Madi.

Mingyan, Jun and Christina <jlu276@yahoo.com >
Duham, NC USA - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 1:44 PM CST
Although you don't know me, I check on Madi every day. I found your website through Angel Jillian's site. Your daughter is absolutely beautiful and I keep her and your family in my prayers. And every night when I get home, I do exactly as you tell me and I "Go Hug my Kid!". Thank you for sharing beautiful Princess Madi with me and reminding me how precious a child's life is. You are amazing parents.
Missy Ribar <missy_ribar@medcohealth.com>
Columbus, Oh - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 1:35 PM CST
Sending prayers and (((Hugs))) your way. Madi has such a zest for life and is surrounded by love.

Delaney's website: www.caringbridge.com/ca/delaney

Amy, Mom of Angel Delaney and Kevin, age 11 <Wright_Amy@hotmail.com>
San Diego, CA USA - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 1:34 PM CST
Thinking of you guys constantly & hoping for gentle days for all of you as well as comfort for Madi. She's so lucky to be surrounded by so much love, and I know that she gives back even more in return.

Sending love from the northern part of the state,

Pat

pat manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 1:08 PM CST
I dont know what to say other then you guys never leave my thoughts and we love you lots.

Love
Cori,Dennis and Brandon

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
fontana, - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 12:48 AM CST
Love you guys LOTS and thinking about you and praying for you TONS. I miss you Princess Madi! XOXOXOXO
Dora the Explorer <dora.gosselin@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 12:03 AM CST
Thank you so much for sharing this part of Madi's battle with us. I've been raising money for the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society for almost 2 years now and there have been so many breakthroughs that it can make people complacent about where we are in terms of curing these diseases. Peace be with you and your family during this time. Go hug Madi, Mikey, Matt, and Marian for me.
Amber Martinez <amartinez408@yahoo.com>
SanJose, CA USA - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 11:13 AM CST
You have such an eloquent way of expressing what your family is experiencing. What a blessing for all of you to have the unshakeable faith that is seeing you through this horrific period. Although my heart breaks to read what Madi is going through, it is comforting to know how much she is loved and cherished by all of you. I continue praying for her, and ask God to ease your suffering as well.
Take care, and know that everyone who is familiar with the princess in any way is praying for her and keeping you all in our thoughts.

ann <akeran@isbe.net>
springfield, il us - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 10:03 AM CST
Noah's parents led me to your webpage, and I have followed Madison's progress for some time, rejoicing with you and her as things were going well. Now that the situation has changed, I wanted to write and let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for comfort for Maddie and for God to give you all you need.
Jeannette <jeannetteln@yahoo.com>
Winston-Salem, NC - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 8:49 AM CST
Praying for your beautiful princess. I first got to know Maddie from her picture on the front of Khalita's page. I am so sorry that this has happened, and especially that things are happening so quickly. I am thankful that you have such a tremendous faith, that is apparent from your journal entries. May that faith comfort you and give you strength to endure what is ahead. I will continue to pray for an earthly miracle for you princess, but if it is to be otherwise, I will pray that Maddie be in no pain and be able to feel the tremendous love of family and friends surrounding her.
In His love,

Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 7:39 AM CST
More prayers headed your way from Alabama. God Bless each of you.
Trish <trishrbarnett@aol.com>
Florence, AL USA - Tuesday, October 28, 2003 0:10 AM CST
Hi again, just "checking in"...thinking of you often, glad to hear Maddie is having some happy, comfortable times. You are in good hands...Essie is wonderful. Love you, praying always...Lisa K
Lisa Kanady RN <mopigletRN@aol.com>
Redlands, - Monday, October 27, 2003 11:37 PM CST
Mike and Marion, My words can not express my heart. Sam and I are praying for you all and pray for the peace that passes all understanding. We love you guys and miss you so much, if we could be there now for you we would be in a heart beat. please keep us informed. Give Maddie and big hug and kiss from baby Nolan. Call if you need us 303-604-6751 Love, The Ramsey's
Nancy and Sam (caringingbridge.org/co/nolanramsey <samdramey@msn.com>
Erie, Co - Monday, October 27, 2003 6:13 PM CST
Mike, Marion,Mikey, and Madi

WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU!!!!!

Peggy & Jeremiah <pegakamogan2@aol.com>
Davenport, IA USA - Monday, October 27, 2003 4:19 PM CST
Praying for you!
Mary B. <boyerm25@care2.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Monday, October 27, 2003 3:13 PM CST
I am praying too.
Joe Pounds
IN - Monday, October 27, 2003 3:04 PM CST
I am praying with all my heart - for a miracle for your Princess, and for strength for your family. I love the pictures - the all-encompassing hug just tells all! What an absolutely precious little girl! And what a lucky brother to have gotten the love that was included with that hug!!
Julene
St. Louis, - Monday, October 27, 2003 1:40 PM CST
Praying for Madi and her family!
Trueda
Seattle, - Monday, October 27, 2003 10:33 AM CST
Hi-I hadn't checked on Madi for several weeks and was very sad to learn all the news when I stopped by today. However, miracles do happen and I will be joining all the others praying for her. She's obviously a true champion and this just stinks! You are absolutely right when you talk about how many lives she has touched. Her courage and spirit have been evident in every journal entry I have read. I have so much admiration for her and your entire family. Stay positive and keep believing!!! You are all in my prayers.
ann <akeran@isbe.net>
springfield, il us - Monday, October 27, 2003 10:05 AM CST
Sending Prayers your way!
Kathy <kmayo42@aol.com>
Whitehall, OH - Monday, October 27, 2003 9:28 AM CST
Sending lots of love and prayers to the Princess and her family,

lots of positive thoughts and gentle hugs

Debbie <DGomin718@aol.com>
Lyndonville, NY - Monday, October 27, 2003 6:42 AM CST
Sending lots of love & positive thoughts to all of you; wish I could do more.

Love,
Pat

pat manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Sunday, October 26, 2003 11:03 PM CST
Hi Madi and Family,
I think about you all the time and wish I could do something to make things right. It just does not seem fair for this to happen to such great people. I know she is in the best care possible. It really sounds like your faith is helping you through this but if you ever want someone to talk to..... Please let me know if I can help in any way and just know my thoughts are always with you.
Love,
LB

Lana Barrett <lanabar@cox.net>
San Juan Capistrano, CA - Sunday, October 26, 2003 10:39 PM CST
This is Madi's Evil Auntie.

If you do that Prayer thing, I think right now would be a really good time to do it!





Shelley (a.k.a. Madi's Evil Auntie) <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Sunday, October 26, 2003 10:33 PM CST
Hi Mitchems!
I have been thinking about you all so much lately. I am sure that you are living life to its fullest as you always do with an amazing amount of laughter and love. I was talking to my Mom about you guys (she asks for update every couple weeks) and after we got off the phone I got this email from her:

Thanks for the Life put in Perspective...very touching. Hard to handle. What
a gift to have experienced all that you have with amazing Madi and her
wonderful family. May we always take each day one at a time...and with Perspective.
Love to all the "Madi Family" from the Gosselins.

I do feel so lucky to have had the opportunity to know you all. Whether it was Barbies, Wiggles, Dora the Explorer, or an exercise tape that focuses on expiration it was all so fun. I love you guys very much and am praying for a miracle for the princess and for you all. Hugs and Kisses, and, as my Dodee (grandma) says TCHI (Take Care Hang In)!

Dora the Explorer <dora.gosselin@duke.edu>
Durham, NC - Sunday, October 26, 2003 9:23 PM CST
Praying for the miracle the Lord wants to do for Madison. He is able, and He is willing. He awaits our 100% faith in Him, yet has mercy when we are cry, "Lord, I believe. Help Thou mine unbelief!" When we pray for His will, and we read in the Word over and over that His will is to heal, we do not have to have a conflict of soul but can pray with confidence. As He promises in James 5, "the prayer of faith WILL heal the sick and they WILL recover." Thanking Him for the faith in His promise for Madison!
Carolyn Wyman <sythismom@yahoo.com>
Belding, MI - Sunday, October 26, 2003 4:12 PM CST
Dear little Princess. I am a firends of Jordan Horton and knew his daddy, Patrick, when he was little like you. I just wanted you to know that I will add my prayers to those already sent to heaven for you. You are a brave little girl, but then girls have always been a little bit tougher than boys. God made us that way. Have fun Princess and I understand that you are a Duke cheerleader. Well Duke is my favorite basketball team, can't say much for football. Take care little one. May God truly bless you and your family, but then you are a blessing. Saundra in Archer Lodge, N.C.
Saundra Freeman <sfreema4@bellsouth.net>
Clayton, NC USA - Sunday, October 26, 2003 8:23 AM CST
Hi Madi,
I sure hope you were able to have fun with the Evil Aunties on your Girl's Night out. Was Thelma Sue REALLY softer & fluffier than any kitty?? Sleep tight Sweetie, and have a wonderful weekend!!

Love,
Pat

pat manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, Ca usa - Saturday, October 25, 2003 3:09 AM CDT
Thought I would write this time since I only check the site a thousand times a day. Madi, I continue to be inspired by your princess ways. Your strength through this entire ordeal had taught me so much. I am so proud of you. I do wish you were here to do girl stuff with me though. I am very jealous of all the fun you are having on these girls nights out. Missing you bunches as I do the entire family. I will continue to send messages and e-mail until I am told to stop. Tell everyone I said hello and i will talk to you soon. Love you!! "nursie" lori
Lori Burton <loribug2@earthlink.net>
Durham, NC - Friday, October 24, 2003 11:53 PM CDT
Marian and Madi,
I hope that you are enjoying the "Girls Only" party. We wanted to join you, so we could watch you play with Thelma Sue. But I am not sure if I have a little cold or all the smoke from the fires is bothering me :( I would rather be safe than sorry.
So instead we are thinking about you, and can hear you calling Thelma Sue Come here!
We love you

Auntie Witchy

Rita, Danielle and Melissa <beaverfamily@comcast.net>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Friday, October 24, 2003 10:21 PM CDT
I had originally planned to visit as many caringbridge sites as possible, and leave some encouraging words, prior to my daughters passing. Unfortunately her passing came sooner than we had expected, but longer than any of her doctors expected.

Another angel takes flight.

My daughter Pam had a brain tumor and was fighting the fight since November 4th, 2002, after the birth of her daughter (Casey Morgan). My youngest daughter, Karen, set up a caringbridge website for Pam. Karen's friends mother shared a prayer with us, that I would like to share with you and Madi. It's called DON'T QUIT:
Don't Quit -
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, When the road you're trudging seems all uphill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, and you want to smile, but you have to sigh, When care is pressing you down a bit - Rest if you must, but do not quit. Life is queer with its twists and turns, As every one of us sometimes learns, And many a fellow turns about, When he might have won had he stuck it out. Don't give up though the pace seems slow - You may succeed with another blow. Often the goal is nearer than it seems to a faint and faltering man; Often the struggler has given up when he might have captured the victor's cup. And he learned too late when the night came down, How close he was to the golden crown. Success is failure turned inside out - The silver tint of the clouds of doubt, And you never can tell how close you are, It may be near when it seems afar, So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit, It's when things seem worst that you mustn’t quit.(Just call on Jesus).

I would also like to share a saying that was on the card my wife Diane picked out, and we bought for Pam:

If you were a star
That wasn’t expected back
In the universe
For a thousand years,
I’d wait.

If you were the sky
And everyone went inside
When you got sad
And started to rain,
I’d stay.

And if you were a peach
And the world decided to get rid of all peaches,
I’d pick you up,
Put you in my pocket…

AND KEEP YOU.

Prayers have scientifically been proven to work.

REMEMBER NEVER GIVE UP THE FIGHT. You are in our prayers. GOD bless you all.

Frank father of ANGEL Pam (www.caringbridge.org/ny/pamostrowski) <frmurato@nyct.com>
SYOSSET, NY USA - Friday, October 24, 2003 1:03 PM CDT
Mike and Marion
I got on this morning thinking about Madi so strongly that I had to visit the Web-page to see what new news you had to share. I needed to know what you learned about the radiation. I sat here a cried as I am sure many have cried with you these last few days.

You two amaze me! I have no doubt that God is standing right beside you and many days carrying you. The grace and acceptance you two show and share with us is so amazing. I keep coming back to that word, but there is no other one to describe all of you!

I AM PRAYING for a miracle for Madi! I know that she is in God's hands and He knows what is best. I believe that someday we will all be with her again and she will be perfect. She will have nothing growing in her to hurt her. She will run with the lambs and never fall down unless she wants to! Her spirit is so strong here, imagine what it will be like in heaven. God won't be able to keep up with her!!!!

BUT I STILL WANT THAT MIRAGLE NOW and I am still praying for it everyday!

I love all of you so much and really enjoyed the wonderful pictures you shared on the site. Thank you so much for sharing your daughter with us. Both of you could have locked yourselves up and told us nothing, but you have shared your joy and your pain and have allowed all of us the privalege of praying for you, of wathching you, and learning how God can carry us through anything. Thank you my cousin for the gift of your daughter and and sharing of this journey.

Love,

Line-Line

Caroline Spriggs <Cspriggs65@aol.com>
Monrovia, Ca - Friday, October 24, 2003 9:00 AM CDT
Each day is a new beginning, we pray that today will be the day Madison is cured. Nothing is impossible for God. He hears ours prayers and knows our pain. May the Lord show His love for you in a special way today.

We were talking about Madi today as we were walking home from the park and Koko was telling me that when Madi comes to visit she can ride Koko's bike to the park and they can take turns. It made me very happy to think of them playing together.

Allison <Sandesta@aol.com>
- Friday, October 24, 2003 1:17 AM CDT
Dear Family,

I don't think you know me (my son, Andy, was also a patient on 5200 in August at the same time Madison was there.) But I wanted to write and give you support and encouragement. I am overwhelmed by what I have read in the last few days in your journal. Please stay strong. Someone sent the following prayer to me and I am now sending it to you.

A Prayer for you

"God still sits on the throne. We all have our tough
times but God is getting ready to bless you in a way
that only He can. Keep the faith."

Prayer is powerful, and prayer is
one of the best gifts we receive. There is no cost but
a lot of rewards. Let's continue to pray for one
another.

Here is the prayer:

"Father, I ask you to bless my friends and relatives and
those in need who are reading this right now. Show them a new
revelation of your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask
you to minister to their spirit at this very moment.
Where there is fear, restore courage and hope.
Where there is pain, give them your healing peace and mercy.
Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed
confidence through your grace. Bless their homes,
families, finances, their goings and their comings.

In Jesus' precious name. Amen."

Hang in there, wonderful family.

Jo Yost <jyost@manekin.com>
Glen Arm, MD - Thursday, October 23, 2003 10:51 PM CDT
I HAVE JUST BEEN SO TOUCHED FOLLOWING MADISON'S STORY. I AM SO SORRY SHE IS GOING THROUGH ALL OF THIS AND YOU ARE TOO. MY HEART IS JUST SO BROKEN RIGHT NOW. MADDIE SHOULD BE OUT RUNNING AND PLAYING AND I JUST CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHY THIS CAN'T JUST HAPPEN. I STILL PRAY EACH DAY FOR A MIRACLE, A HUGE MIRACLE!!!! GOD CAN DO IT. GOD BLESS YOU AND GOD BLESS PRINCESS MADDIE! LOVE, TRACY
KATIA'S PAGE

TRACY AND KATIA <TMSOL87@AOL.COM>
- Thursday, October 23, 2003 9:13 PM CDT
Our Little Princess
We loved hearing, that today was a good day! :) Eat all the cheese you want little one. Cookies, candy, and soda too!
I see that the Evil Auntie is at it again. "Pull the tail and run" she's so funny!
Madi, please give Mikey, Mommy and Daddy a great big hug for us!
We love you all and are thinking about you always!

Rita, Mike and ALL the Girls <beaverfamily@comcast.net>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Thursday, October 23, 2003 8:20 PM CDT
Our thoughts and prayers are with you so much with tears in our eyes and hearts. We just enjoyed your album. That little Madi certainly does look happy.
Trust in the Lord.
Betty & Willard

Willard & Betty Gutknecht <bettyjaneg@aol.com>
Lincoln, NE USA - Thursday, October 23, 2003 7:32 PM CDT
I thought about you guys when I was in clinic on Tuesday and missed the presence of your beautiful smiling faces. Please know that I'm continuing to keep you close in thought and prayer. I'll check back soon. You know where to find me if there's anything I can do besides pray.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, October 23, 2003 5:29 PM CDT
Although you do not know me, I can't imagine the pain that you must be experiencing right now, as I have never lost a child and God willing I never will!! I have been blessed enough to find your site through another caring bridge site (Jordan Horton through Noah Pritchards through Ashleigh Ryanne Gwinn's- I work with Ashleigh's Daddy at Johnson Matthey), and unfortunately have been following your beautiful families battle with this unforgiving disease.

Your faith will help you through these times and it will build your strength. I know that you will hear those words often from people and probably have heard them too much!!

May Madi have love, find comfort and peace through all the days of her life and may your family find the same!!! GOD BLESS YOU and may you have the strength to endure!!

Peace be with you-

Cindy Fehon
Sicklerville, NJ USA - Thursday, October 23, 2003 1:49 PM CDT
Whatever decisions you make for Madi will be the right ones because they're decisions made out of love. I'm so sorry she has to go through this; it's NOT what childhood is supposed to be about. Cancer sucks!

Love,
Pat in Antioch


Pat Manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Thursday, October 23, 2003 10:19 AM CDT
I continue to be in awe of your faith and strength for Madi. My prayers continue!
Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor, CT - Thursday, October 23, 2003 9:11 AM CDT
As i sit here at my desk at work, tears rolling down my cheeks, I think "It's just not fair". But then I marvel at the strength that you have. I just cannot imagine - my own little 2 year old daughter - God must know how special your family is. I will continue to pray for a miracle for your princess, and for healing for all children with these horrible illnesses. And I will continue to rock my baby a little longer, and 'read one more book mommy' - because you have taught me to appreciate every moment.
Julene
St. Louis, - Thursday, October 23, 2003 8:29 AM CDT
Dear Mike, Marian, Mikey and Princess Madi,
We are so incredibly heartbroken with the most recent news about our dear princess, ... but we haven't given up! We are praying harder than ever for God's mercy upon Madi and the whole family. We are so glad you were able to go to Disneyland and the firestation, etc. and have FUN! Your family has been such a blessing and witness to us through this difficult journey. Our love ,hugs and prayers to each of you!
Preston, Lori, Krystal and Kelly

The Beaches <lunarcy@dslextreme.com>
Temecula, CA - Thursday, October 23, 2003 0:15 AM CDT
RED ALERT! RED ALERT!! EVIL AUNTIE IS PACKING HER BAG!!

EVIL AUNTIE IS PACKING HER EVIL AUNTIE GOODIE BAG, READY FOR DEPLOYMENT AT ANY TIME.

IF THE PRINCESS CAN'T COME TO THE PARTY... THEN THE PARTY WILL COME TO THE PRINCESS....

Let's see! I'll pack up Thelma Sue 1, and Thelma Sue 2 (you get to keep #2... Please Mommy and Daddy can I keep her?) She looks just like Thelma Sue, she doesn't need to be fed because she is already stuffed, she won't potty in the house, because she paid attention to her evil auntie lessons about that sort of thing. She is really soft and fluffy (softer and fluffier than any cat) By the way, MY PRINCESS remember YOUR EVIL AUNTIE LESSON #246, when it comes to cats... "pull the tail and run!!!"

Please, please, Mommy and Daddy can we keep her?

I've packed up the Umbrella straws, Gummy Bears, Flamingo toothpicks and your very special Appreciation goblets. A train track and train!! (that arrived from an E-Bay Auction today) Mikey you will love it!

I am not going to wait much longer before I just bring the party on over!!!!

I love all of you M's!
Your favorite,

Evil Aunties Shelley & Renee & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside (just around the corner), CA - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 10:43 PM CDT
Hello,

I don't even know what to say, I am just sitting here in Tommy's hospital room crying. First for Tommy because is is back on the oxygen again and having breathing problems, but then I read your journal. It is so unfair! We will continue to pray for a miracle for the little princess. Let me know if there is anything we can do.

Alicia & Tommy Bennett http://caringbridge.org/ca/bennettboys/ <Lumberhead@twinwolf.net>
- Wednesday, October 22, 2003 9:27 PM CDT
I am so sorry to hear that Maddie is not doing well. I guess we all have such hope after the transplant. My prayers are with you as you make the discission for treatment or not. I want you all know what a blessing you have been to Sam and Nancy and myself. The Lord has used you in a wonderful way. I will be praying for little Madison.
Nolan's Nana

Lorene Davis <nanaingarland@ont.com>
Garland, Tx USA - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 9:04 PM CDT
Dear Madi and Family,
I just want to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I will pray for that miracle for you.

God Bless you,
Barbara (Cory's mom & Brandon's grandma Mimi)

Barbara Robinson <blk.wuf@verizon.net>
Chino, CA USA - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 11:24 AM CDT
Dear Madi and Family,

My name is Dana Chade and am a close friend of the Martini family. After seeing them last week they shared your story with me. I hope you don't mind. You see, we have recently been down a similar road as yourselves. We were also at Duke and we also had the Leukemia come back in the form of tumors. Reading Madi's sight brought tears to my eyes. For Madi, but also for her family as you struggle to make decisions and do all you can do for your precious baby. Please feel free to call me at any time (949) 661-4900 -home and (949) 939-8243 -cell. Rely on your faith. It is the source of strength that will really get you through. Know that you all will be in our prayers. May God's mercy be with you.

Dana Chade <chade@svusd.k12.ca.us>
San Juan Capistrano, CA Orange - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 10:09 AM CDT
Hi Madi,
Wow Disneyland must have been great. I am praying for you everyday. I believe in miracles. I know a little angel who is watching over you right now. So these Aunties of yours, are they really evil? Sounds like you have a great family that really loves you a lot. God Bless.

Laura, Ken, Nathan & ^^Angel Jillian^^ http://caringbridge.org/fl/jillian/
Naples, FL - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 9:05 AM CDT
I'm in tears...again...Every time I open my page there is that picture of me and Madi in the clinic before you guys left and I just pray and pray for you guys. I know God is Sovereign and will take care of you. I just wish this didn't have to be so painful. Please know that, of course, I will continue to lift you up to the Lord continually. I can't possibly think of anything I can do but if there is something, don't hesitate to let me know. I love you guys and miss you...LOTS. Blessings to you in Christ as you attempt to try and navigate this mine field.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 5:39 AM CDT
Hey Madi!

You're still the prettiest little girl in the whole wide world. And we love you the mostest!! Loved hearing you giggle today when you played catch with your Minnie Mouse with Grandma Flora Maye.

You hang tough Sugar Baby. It's going to be all right real soon. Your whole family is rooting for you little cheerleader.

Your Aunties Linda & Carol


Linda Dealy & Carol Ratliff <dealyl@wwdb.org>
Fontana, CA - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 2:34 AM CDT
Hi Madi,
Sounds like you've been having fun partying with the girls, huh? Good for you!! Also sounds like you had a GREAT time at Disneyland....wish I could have gone too!
Have a wonderful week & feel better!

Hugs, Pat

pat manning <patricia.manning@comcast.net>
antioch, ca usa - Wednesday, October 22, 2003 2:04 AM CDT
So.. Madi are you ready for the rest of Princess Smartypants?

Before we begin, I know you had a wonderful time at Happy Hour on Friday night appreciating your cocktails, apparently you took the getting wobbly and not being able to walk part a bit too seriously! It is only supposed to last for a few hours.. not for days afterward. So you get another chance to practice: Don't forget it's GIRLS ONLY this Friday with the Evil Aunties.... And don't worry about being wobbly.... We can all do that with you after we all do our appreciation!!! Same time and same place as last week! We'll see you and Mommy there...

By the way I could have sworn I heard Thelma say "Madi Mitchem, YOU COME HERE".. She has just had a bath and is softer than any cat could ever be!!!

Remember.... Pull the tail and RUN!!!!!

As for Princess Smartypants.. A quick recap.. All the princes want to marry her, she makes them do all kinds of stunts.. they all fail, until Prince Swashbuckle comes along and accomplished everytinng she requested..

Prince Swashbuckle didn't think Princess Smartypants was so smart.

So she gave him a magic kiss...
...and he turned into a gigantic warty toad!

Prince Swashbuckle left in a big hurry!

When the other princes heard what had happened to Prince Swashbuckle, none of them wanted to marry Smartypants...

.......so she lived happily ever after.

See you Friday for the pictures!!!!!!
Lots of love from your favorite,

Evil Aunties Shelley & Renee & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 11:15 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. It hurts so much to know what you must be going through and what lies ahead. I will continue to pray for a miracle. I love you all, and am thankful to have had the pleasure and blessing to have cared for Maddie, and your family, during her very special life. She too has been blessed with the wonderful parents you are. Hold her, comfort her & love her, as you always have, God Bless you all, with HIS love, always...Lisa K
Lisa Kanady RN <MopigletRN@aol.com>
Redlands, Ca - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 11:13 PM CDT
It's difficult to understand the things of God and His plans for our lives. We must remember that we only see a small part of the picture...but God see's the whole picture.

We are praying for Madi. Lord, we come boldly before your throne and lift Madi Mitchum and her family up to you. We ask that you heal Madi completely and give her mom and dad strength, courage, and wisdom. You are the great comforter and we pray that you will comfort them in all ways. Amen.

God loves you and is with you always. Remember the power is not in the prayer, it's in the One who hears it.


Greg & Carol Bates (Maddy Bates Nana & Papa) <carol.bates@verizon.net>
San Bernardino, CA USA - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 11:08 PM CDT
Lifting you in prayer, as I write. God bless you little Madi.
jan livingstone (Andy's mom forever)
- Tuesday, October 21, 2003 10:55 PM CDT
We to shall pray for your miracle.
Many hugs to you all,

Lynn <candlys@aol.com>
www.caringbridge.com/pa/jessiespage, PA - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 4:07 PM CDT
Madi, you are beautiful, Khalita was right. I read your page and I cried for you. I don't understand why this has to happen to our precious babies. My little man is an angel in heaven's playground. He was a toughy, too. His name was Chayton and I talk to him a lot. I'm gonna talk to him about you and ask him to bug the Lord for some healing to send your way! You know, he had a pretty crazy auntie, too. She actually helped all of us with her humor and love for him. You are a very lucky little misses! You are SOOOO loved, from people that don't even know you! Take Care little one... Much love from a stranger.
Dawn Anderson www.caringbridge.org/page/chaytonanderson <naughty@means.net>
Winthrop, MN - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 4:02 PM CDT
"The Long Silence"

At the end of time, billions of people were scattered on a great plain before God's throne. Most shrank back from the brilliant light, but some near the front talked heatedly. How can God judge us? How can he know about suffering? snapped a pert young brunette. She ripped open a sleeve to reveal a tatooed number from a german concentration camp. We endured terror...beatings...torture...death!" In another group a negro boy lowered his collar. "What about this" he demanded, showing an ugly rope burn. "Lynched for no crime but being black." In another crowd a pregnant school girl with sullen eyes. "Why should I have suffered, It wasn't my fault". Far out across the plain there were hundreds of such groups. Each thinking about the God in heaven who leads such a sheltered life- no suffering, no pain. What did God know of all the pain that man had been forced to endure? So each of these groups sent forth a leader, chosen because he had suffered the most. A Jew, a Negro, a person from Hiroshima, a horribly deformed arthritic, a thalidomide child. In the center of the plain they consulted with each other. It was rather clever. Before God could be qualified to be their judge, he must endure what they had endured. Their decision was that God should be sentanced to live on earth as a man! "Let him be born a Jew. Let the legitimacy of his birth be doubted. Give him a work to do so difficult that even his family will think him out of his mind. Let him be betrayed by his closest friends. Let him face charges, be tried by a prejudiced jury and convicted by a cowardly judge.Let him be tortured. At the last let him see what it means to be terribly alone. Then let him die. Let him die so that there can be no doubt that he died. Let there be a great host of witnesses to verify it. As each leader announced his portion of the sentance. loud murmurs of approval went up from the throng of people assembled. And when the last had finished pronouncing sentance, there was a long silence. No-one uttered a word. No-one moved. For suddenly all knew that God had already served his sentance.

As impossibly hard as your situation seems to me, I know that God sees every tear and feels every heartache. May God be to you what his word declares, "The Father of mercies and the God of all comfort" 2 Corinthians 1:4 I wish I had all the answers. But one thing I know. This one thing I'm sure. When we get to heaven God is going to take you aside and put his arm around you, and explain how he answered all your prayers in just the right way for everyone involved.
As the song says; "When you can't trace his hand, trust his heart." In the name of Jesus, Pastor Rob

Pastor Rob Benardo (Isaiah Binghams pastor) <rbenardo@aol.com>
fenton, mi - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 2:28 PM CDT
I've known Don and Orleatta since we were members of the same church in RI. I've been following Madi's story via their emails. I'm praying for a miracle for Madi. It breaks my heart to hear about all she's going through. It must break God's heart, too.
Joan Ilves <bobcats4@juno.com>
Charlestown, NH USA - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 10:17 AM CDT
Prayers and positive thoughts to your precious daughter and family.
Hugs Deneen
Mom to Angel Tiffanie Salvadia
www.caringbridge.org/page/tiffanie


Deneen Gethouas <dgethouas@state.pa.us>
Enola, PA USA - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 8:18 AM CDT
Please know your family is in our prayers. I hate to hear all that little Madison and your family is going through. No parent should have to make all of these decisions. We should just be wiping finger prints off of things and picking up toys, reading stories and giving baths. Just so much for someone so little. God bless you with each day you have and will continue to be blessed with. I am praying for a miracle. Love, Tracy

Katia's Page

Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, October 21, 2003 5:08 AM CDT
I, too, have been following your journey since you were at Duke. My daughter, Delaney, is an angel in heaven from complications from AML Leukemia. She, like Madi, had a zest for life and knew how to live it.
Thinking of you during this difficult time.
Delaney's site: www.caringbridge.com/ca/delaney

Amy, Mom of Angel Delaney and Kevin, age 11 <Wright_Amy@hotmail.com>
San Diego, CA - Tuesday, October 21, 2003 0:07 AM CDT
Princess Smartypants continues.....

We left off with: None of the princes could accomplish the task he was set. And they all left in disgrace!

.... Then Prince Swashbuckle turned up.

He stopped the slugs eating her garden.

...fed her pets...

...roller-discoed until dawn...

...rode for miles on her motorbike...

He rescued her from her tower.

He found some firewood in the forest.

He even tamed her horrid pony...

...took her mother, the Queen, shopping

and retrieved her magic ring from the goldfish pond.

Prince Swashbuckle didn't think Princess Smartypants was so smart.

So she gave him a magic kiss...

...(to be continued)

Lots of love,

The Evil Ones! Shelley, Renee and THELMA SUE!!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Monday, October 20, 2003 11:31 PM CDT
I was just a Jillian's site and her mom left a link to Madison's-I have been here before but somehow lost the address. Anyway, I want for all of you to know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. You are such a strong and brave little girl, Madison :) and not to mention,oh so pretty :) God Bless.
Leah Wilson
NC - Monday, October 20, 2003 11:15 PM CDT
I've been following Maddie's story for awhile and just wanted to let you know our prayers are with you for peace in these hard decisions you are making and peace and comfort for Maddie.
Holly, www.caringbridge.org/mi/mayam <hollyorn@aol.com>
Niles, Mi - Monday, October 20, 2003 9:08 PM CDT
Mike and Marion,

We have been thinking of you all. Christina, my wife Mingyan and I really like Madi. It seems that we should take for whatever happens. Since Christina was diagnosed, I found it was very helpful to find patients with same disease and post your questions (such as what the best treatment is) to them. Here is one message board I found on brain tumor (http://www.brain-tumor.com/discussion-board/index.cfm). I often feel good if there is a hope.
We will be with you as always.
God bless,

Jun, Mingyan and Christina <jlu276@yahoo.com >
Durham, NC USA - Monday, October 20, 2003 8:37 PM CDT
madi, you are a beautiful little angel. you'll be in our prayers. Love and peace be with you baby.
Debbie and Terry <debbie_80817@yahoo.com>
Lake Elsinore, CA USA - Monday, October 20, 2003 8:27 PM CDT
Madi,
RED ALERT!! RED ALERT!!! EMERGENCY EVIL AUNTIE LESSON!!!

Did you see what that person Janie Jones Simon wrote in YOUR guestbook about OUR Thelma Sue?

Here is the LESSON: When you see that cat, you pull it's tail!!! Then run as fast as those wobbly legs will take you!
As for you, Janie Jones Simon....They don't call me the Evil Auntie for nothing!!

The photos from the fire station are great. Lisa took about 70, so I have saved them to a CD for you along with the Happy Hour ones. Will drop them by with Madi's sipper cup (she left it at the Station) as soon as my germs are gone.

Another installment of Princess Smartypants a bit later tonight.
Love you all heaps,

The Evil Ones! Shelley, Renee and THELMA SUE!!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Monday, October 20, 2003 7:55 PM CDT
Dear Maddie,
My name is Janie and I knew your Mommy when we were in college. I live in the state of Virginia but I will be visiting Riverside soon and I would love to see you if you are feeling like some company. I am bringing my cat with me on the airplane. His name is Bailey. He travels with me everywhere I go. He is a Ragdoll breed and is much more soft and lovable then Thelma Sue ever thought about being. Well, that probably was not very nice about Thelma Sue but I can assure you that you will love my soft, fluffy, floppy cat and he will love you right back. I enjoyed looking at your pictures and think you are a very pretty girl - you look like Brooke Sheilds! Hope to see you soon. Janie

Janie Jones Simon <jsim@erols.com>
Potomac Falls, VA 20165 - Monday, October 20, 2003 6:46 PM CDT
I just read your update and I feel so terrible my heart aches for your family. I was so happy when I saw that Maddie got to go home. I will keep praying for a miracle, I have a two year old daughter and I can't imagine her going through anything like this, no kids should have to suffer, Maddie shouldn't have to suffer. If there's anything I can do please let me know I'm in Anaheim so I'm not to far from you guys. God bless you, I will keep praying your little one.
sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Monday, October 20, 2003 6:22 PM CDT
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
Gullatt Faimily <gullatt58@aol.com>
Indio, ca USA - Monday, October 20, 2003 5:46 PM CDT
Dear Mitchem Family, This morning at 5 a.m. when I turned on the computer I checked Madi's web site and was shocked at what I was reading. I waited until 6:30 before calling Uncle Donald to tell him and then I called the prayer chain for the valley. This goes all over the area. I asked for prayer not only for God's will to be done on behalf of Madi, but for you Marian and Mike to have wisdom along with the Medical team to make the right decision for the good of Madi. Also requested prayer for health, strength, and courage for each member of the family as you are going through "the shadow" and that you will "fear no evil". You have had many more days to enjoy Madi than anyone thought when she was 5 months old.

It is so nice you have had some real fun times together as a family in the last week. May God give all of you courage and strength for each new day.

We love all of you. Give each other a hug for us.

Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta
College Place,, WA - Monday, October 20, 2003 5:23 PM CDT
I am new to your site and Maddie's story and I am so touched. I am so sorry that events are happening in a way to which you did not anticipate. I will add your sweet angel to my prayer list of children I pray for each day, with an added request for a miracle in Maddie's life.
Lisa Post <ltjpost@cox.net>
South Windsor, CT - Monday, October 20, 2003 5:01 PM CDT
Hi Mitchem family,

I am Maddy Bates aunt Rachel, and I just read the update on Madison. I just want you to know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. I know that this is a very difficult time and that you don't feel like anything makes sense but continue to trust the Lord. He has a plan for your daughters life and although we don't understand it we have to trust him. Throw all your cares upon the Lord!!!

Madison you are a tough, beautiful little girl and I am continuing to pray for you. Be strong little one, I really believe that things will be ok, God has brought you so far already. God is working in you, and he is hearing our prayers for you.

Hang in there Mitchems...
Love in Christ
Rachel

Rachel Maglio <sissycakes74@hotmail.com>
San Bernardino, CA US - Monday, October 20, 2003 3:09 PM CDT
I was so sad to read the latest news...you all are a wonderful family and I am blessed for having had the chance to briefly get to know you...I will pray very hard for a miracle for Madi...God can make big things happen...you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
In Love & Prayer...Eleasha & Cody <ehilliard@verizon.net>
www.forcody.org, - Monday, October 20, 2003 2:36 PM CDT
Dear Mitchem Family,
I am Jillian Lamparyk's aunt and I check in on you often, but don't usually sign the guestbook. I just wanted you all to know that I am keeping Madison and all of you in my prayers. I will pray for that miracle.
Meg Fox

Meg Fox <MegMFox@aol.com>
Olmsted Falls, Ohio - Monday, October 20, 2003 1:20 PM CDT
It has been a while since I have signed Madison's guestbook, but after reading the last entry I wanted to say that I am so sorry....but mircles happen everyday and Madison deserves one:) Know that I am praying for your family... God Bless you
Robin Tucker <rtucker@hmsracing.com>
- Monday, October 20, 2003 12:58 AM CDT
Mike and Marian,
I am just sitting hear speechless. My heart is torn apart for you guys. Just know that we love you and will continue to pray for Madi.(and all of you) Please if you need anything at all call me. I live down the street from the hospital and will do anything I can.

Love
Cori,Dennis and Brandon

Ps. if you dont have my # it's 574-0798home and cell 838-6297

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon or dolphin0204@sbcglobal.net>
Fontana, - Monday, October 20, 2003 12:37 AM CDT
Dear Mike and Marian,
We're so sorry to hear about this latest setback. But we will pray fervently for a miracle because through Him all things are possible. Please know that your SDA friends in Michigan are thinking of you and praying for you. Our heart is also aching for you all.

Pat and Isaiah Bingham --- www.caringbridge.org/mi/isaiah <patricib@umflint.edu>
Swartz Creek, MI - Monday, October 20, 2003 9:30 AM CDT
Mike and Marian

We check your website often and think of you all even more. We are praying that all goes well for Madi and the tumor. It is like a roller coaster, but sometimes feels like a merry-go-round. When everyday is the same with no real change forward. Hang in there!! You guys are great.

Peggy & Jeremiah
Davenport, IA USA - Monday, October 20, 2003 8:26 AM CDT
My sweet Princess Madi,

Tell your Mommy and Daddy that I had my very best birthday ever because you came to the Party! And having you meet Alexander and Oliver made it even better! That was their very first PARTY!!!

Since you were so busy appreciating your cocktails, playing with Thelma Sue, and charming the entire crowd with your "Thelma Sue come here" that we didn't get to read Princess Smartypants! That's okay! I will continue it tonight! We WILL read it together and you WILL get to see the pictures!! But for now here is the second installment.

(for anyone reading this, the first part of the story is in a guestbook entry on Oct. 15)

We left off with the Queen telling Princess Smartypants to "Stop messing about with those animals and find yourself a husband!"

Suitors were always turning up at the castle making a nuisance of themselves.

"Right" declared Princess Smartypants, "whoever can accomplish the tasks that I set will, as they say, win my hand."

She asked Prince Compost to stop the slugs from eating her garden.
She asked Prince Rushforth to feed her pets.
She challenged Prince Pelvis to a roller-disco marathon.
She invited Prince Boneshaker for a cross-country ride on her motorbike.
She called on Prince Vertigo to rescue her from her tower.
She sent Prince Bashthumb to chop some firewood in the royal forest.
She suggested to Prince Fetlock that he might like to put her pony thru its paces.
She told Prince Grovel to take her Mother, the Queen, shopping.
She commanded Prince Swimbladder to retrieve her magic ring from the goldfish pond.

None of the princes could accomplish the task he was set. They ALL left in disgrace.

"That's that, then," said Smartypants, Thinking she was safe.

..... Then Prince Swashbuckle turned up....

....to be continued.

Love from your favorite,

Evil Auntie Shelley & Thelma Sue too!! <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Sunday, October 19, 2003 10:51 PM CDT
Mikey, and "The Princess"
We had so much fun seeing you both last night!The girls and I talked all the way home, how you both have grown. And what zoomers you are.
It was so much fun finally meeting the "Evil Auntie and the not so Evil Auntie" and all their friends. We had sooo much fun.
Love you both!

Rita, Danielle and Melissa <beaverfamily@comcast.net>
Lake Elsinore, CA - Saturday, October 18, 2003 9:28 AM CDT
Hey Mady
You made Pa Pa very happy when you went for a ride with him in his Red '40 Ford last wed. We are happy with the latest news about 100% donar cells!!

Thursday nite Pa Pa did a loan docs notary signing with some people that he told about you and they asked what your name was etc. They said that they would be praying for you this was made me feel very good. See ya tomarrow we will see some electric trains.

Love ya
Pa Pa

Ray Mitchem (Pa Pa) <barbrshopr@juno.com>
La Mirada , CA USA - Friday, October 17, 2003 10:08 PM CDT
I AM SO THRILLED that you guys had fun... and believe it or not those giggles were heard! SPOIL them ROTTEN and then hug them for me... Take care With love and hugs
Latane Grove <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Friday, October 17, 2003 6:26 PM CDT
Mike and Mirion,

Thanks for updating Madison's progress. Although it is a disappointing development, we believe "She HAS CHANCE". No better results than she has 100% donor cells. Donor cells are the best weapons for fighting leukemia right now. I wouldn't say give up at this point. Let's wait to see what Dr. K says.
We will pray for Madi and always be with Madi and you all.

Jun, Mingyan and Christina <jlu276@yahoo.com >
Duham, NC USA - Friday, October 17, 2003 9:19 AM CDT
Oh, you guys... the roller coaster you've been on! We were so sad when we read the email from Linda a few days ago, but know that God has better plans for Madi after reading your update today. You all are in our prayers daily. We miss you guys being closer, but are thrilled for you that you are back home where you have your support system. The pictures are just adorable and fun. Every few days Stephanie, Matthew and Andrew ask to see if there are new pictures of Madi and Mikey and love looking at them. Thanks for keeping up with Madi's journal and with new pictures.
With Love and Hugs to you all!
The Thomas Family

Barbara Thomas <sbthomas1@charter.net>
Asheville, NC USA - Friday, October 17, 2003 9:18 AM CDT
I am at a complete loss for words. I am soooo sorry that you have yet another battle in front of you. But 100% donor cells is a wonderful starting point and hopefully Dr. K will have some positive ideas on how to pursue without causing any more undue hardship to Maddie. For this I will pray.
Take Care and God Bless,
Renee Curkendall

www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels
- Friday, October 17, 2003 8:08 AM CDT
Hi Madi, what a trooper you are! Still 100% donor cells. Now we don't know what the future holds, but our prayers are ascending often along with hundreds of people here in this valley. Have fun at Disney Land and Marine World. We were some of the first people to go to Disney Land when it first opened. We lived in LA at the time. Hug each other for us. We love all of you. Madi and Mikey those cars look like lots of fun.

Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta
College Place, WA - Thursday, October 16, 2003 10:09 PM CDT
Hey guys, not sure if you remember me, but this is Alyssa, Tommy Bennett's friend. I met you in clinic a few months ago. I have been checking in on you guys everyday and I am sorry for this latest set back. Madi seems so strong that I have a strong feeling that she will kick this in the butt. My prayer are with you all.
alyssa <sabiemc@aol.com>
carrboro, nc usa - Thursday, October 16, 2003 3:56 PM CDT
Hi guys... family time sounds fantastic, especially for a wonderful family like yours! I am so so very sorry that you are having to face these realities once again.. Please know that Madi is and always will be someone with whom I relate to strength and grace. You and your family have taught me so much and I'll never ever forget those smiles, hugs and most of all the Barbie playing. Please know that you will all be in my thoughts and prayers. Mike, I don't have kids of my own and always say that my babies are at the hospital and each and every night I hug each of them with my heart, those here and in heaven. Thank you for reminding us all of the simple things in life to be thankful for. I hope you have fun at Disney and make sure you hug Madi and Mikey twice tonight... once from me! With love and respect
Latane

Latane Grove <lataneh@bellsouth.net>
Charlotte, NC - Thursday, October 16, 2003 2:57 PM CDT
I am so, so sorry. Your entry left me heartbroken - I've watched your Princess Madi's progress for some time now, and have been so excited about how well she is doing. She is about the same age as my little girl - and it is always so fun to see the new pictures and hear the new stories about her! She's is truly a wonderful and special little girl. Your family is so blessed. I will continue to pray for a miracle for you all. It amazes me how the 'Caringbridge' parents can be such an inspiration to the rest of us... when it is you who's faith and strength is being challenged. I hug my girls extra-long every night - thanks to your words of encouragement.
Julene
St. Louis, - Thursday, October 16, 2003 2:34 PM CDT
I'm so sorry to hear about Madi's recent setback. I once saw her billboard on the way to Palm Springs and she really touched my heart. I too believe in miracles and Madi definately is deserving of one. I'm keeping my fingers and my toes crossed that your child grows up and is able to show her own family the same amount of love you've shown her.
Danielle
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Thursday, October 16, 2003 1:03 PM CDT
Mike,Marian,Madi,and Mikey,

I just dont know what to say. As I sit here typing this the tears are flowing so fast I can barely see the screen. My heart is torn into pieces. I just dont want to believe what I just read. I will be praying for you guys. And Madi I will pray special prayers for you. I love you little girl, and I know you have something special up your sleeve that you will pull out and surprise us all with.

Much love and prayers for you all.
Love Cori,Dennis, and Brandon

Cori Ramirez <www.caringbridge.org/ca/ourbrandon>
Fontana, CA USA - Thursday, October 16, 2003 1:02 PM CDT
Hi, Madi and all, Uncle Frank surely wishes you the best. Just talked to Grandma FM and she told me you were going to San Diego. Please have a wonderful time there. We definately enjoyed the times we went there.
Great Uncle Frank Bietz <fbbietz2000@yahoo.com>
Clifton, CO usa - Thursday, October 16, 2003 12:51 AM CDT
GOD promises us that he will not allow us trials that are to great. Sometimes this is hard to understand and is a real test of our faith. HANG IN. Someday all questions will be answered and understood.
Wayne & Mary Rector <wrector@cerritos.edu>
Downey, Ca. LA - Thursday, October 16, 2003 11:14 AM CDT
M's you are in our thoughts and prayers! Let's hope for the best. If you need anything please give us a call. We have seen each other through some really rough spots over the past 22 months yet our children always seem to have something special up their sleeves that makes us keep going. Have a great time doing all of the family places. We will be doing the same again soon.
Love and big hugs
Brandyn's gang

Dajana Graham <cash_guru@comcast.net>
Murrieta, ca - Thursday, October 16, 2003 10:44 AM CDT
Hello Princess Madi, I am a friend of King Brandyn's and having been following your progress along the way. I just wanted you to know that there are people that you have touched even across the county who have never met you but have been touched by you and will continue to pray for you and your family. Keep smiling and keep fighting those awful "bad" cells!
Dawn
MD - Thursday, October 16, 2003 9:38 AM CDT
Princess Madi!

The story begins like this....
Princess Smartypants did not want to get married. She enjoyed being a Ms.

Because she was very pretty and rich, all the princes wanted her to be their Mrs.

Princess Smartypants wanted to live in her castle with her pets and do exactly as she pleased.

"It's high time you smartened yourself up," said her Mother, the Queen. "Stop messing about with those animals and find yourself a husband!"..........

So my dear little Princess! Do you want to hear more, and see the pictures as well? Come over this Friday night with the other M's, and not only will you get to see and hear the rest of this story, you and Mikey can have another Evil Auntie Cocktail Appreciation lesson! I have lots of new fancy toothpicks and straws with all kinds of flashy things on them. Not to mention the new colorful liquid we can fill your glasses with!

Tell your Mommy and Daddy to bring you over this Friday October 17, from 5 - 9. You know the place with the big back yard, the cute little doggie, the toys, the gummy bears on toothpicks, little umbrellas in your drink...... The great company, The tikki torches, and the candles hanging in the trees too (you can help light them all again)!!!!.....

My sweet Princess, You have so many Evil Auntie Lessons to learn. There is no time to waste!! I will have my lesson plans ready for you on Friday!!

Oh, I will send a special invitation to the Witchy Auntie as well. And if all the M's can't make it this Friday. Next Friday (10/24) Is a GIRLS only Happy Hour, because there are just some things only fitting for us Princess' and Queens!!!! (If Mike and Mikey want to come to that one, well... they will just have to "dress" for the occasion!!!!)


Lots of love,
Your very favorite,

Evil Auntie Shelley <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Wednesday, October 15, 2003 8:03 PM CDT
Hi to all,
Got Madi's Auntie Linda's email. We are very sad on hearing the new news. You have all been in our continued prayers and constantly high on my womens bible study prayer list. Miricles do happen. I as a matter of fact just found how wonderful prayers are... I am now in remission myself from Chronic Myelocytic Leukemia (CML)!! So I (we) will continue to pray for miricles for the little princess.
All our love and prayers

Cindy, Robert and Katie Lougee <cockerlady@aol.com>
Wildomar, Ca Riverside Cnty - Wednesday, October 15, 2003 7:08 PM CDT
Hi everyone.
Just wanted you to know I received my t shirt yesterday from Duke. Thank you very much. I love you all and everybody at work says HI.
Great Aunt Nancy

Nancy Reading <nreading@vegasbbb.org.>
Las Vegas, nv us - Wednesday, October 15, 2003 1:29 PM CDT
Your email message was the first thing I read this morning. I just wanted to stop by and let you know that you guys remain very much at the top of my prayer list and I will be continuing to pray without ceasing for you. We certainly serve a God of miracles. I thank Him for the ones He has performed in your lives and the ones He will perform in your lives in the future. God bless and know that you are loved and missed here. HUGS and please let me know if you need anything I can help with besides prayer. I'm right here!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Wednesday, October 15, 2003 8:25 AM CDT
Thinking of you guys today and hoping the line removal went well. We love and miss you guys. We love the new pictures of Madi. She is such a doll.
Love,
Carrie, Patrick, & Jordan

Carrie Horton <iteach2u@hotmail.com>
Decatur, IL - Monday, October 13, 2003 10:53 PM CDT
Such precious pictures.It looks like Madi will have dark hair like her Grandma Flora Maye used to have. We are so glad for the progress and that today you were to have one of the tubes removed. Hi to all the family. We continue to pray for the medical team and for complete healing for Madi. God bless all of you as you continue on the Yo Yo ride with this precious little princess.

Uncle Donald and Aunt Orletta
College Place, WA - Monday, October 13, 2003 10:47 PM CDT
Hi Princess Madison :~)

I saw your picture in the paper recently and you looked very CUTE! I also reckognized your Mom, we used to go to school together long, long ago (we won't say how long, he he).

Anyway, I just thought I'd write and say "Hi". I also wanted to tell you that I have a son named Christopher who is 2 years old. We like to go to the park several times a week and swing and stuff, and we'd be happy to have you join us if your in La Sierra some time. Or if we're ever in Lake Elsinore we'll keep an eye out for you :~)

Bye for now,

Bob Bauman (& Christopher)

Bob Bauman <brcbauman@charter.net>
Riverside, CA USA - Sunday, October 12, 2003 10:20 PM CDT
Madi - I know your mom Marian. She is my ex-husbands cousin. Hadn't heard how you were doing since this summer. Am so glad to hear that you are doing so well. I am praying for you. You are very cute in your picture. Send me updates.
Elaine (Dealy) Dreger <elainedreger@hotmail.com>
Goldbar, WA - Wednesday, October 8, 2003 10:45 PM CDT
Hi Mikey!
I love the photo of you climbing to the top! You are so brave and big and strong! You could be a FIREFIGHTER when you grow up!! Just like your Evil Auntie Renee!!! Keep up the good work, and thank you for being such a great big brother for Madi!!
Love from,

Evil Auntie Shelley <bagladies4u@earthlink.net>
Riverside, CA - Friday, October 3, 2003 0:28 AM CDT
Mike,

I just saw the "Miracle Child" article in the Riverside Press-Enterprise and learned of Maddi's website. I've read through the entire update chronology and am overwhelmed with emotion and gratitude. From the moment I shook your hand and hosted you at the Regional Appeals Committee at Kaiser Walnut Center earlier this year, I sensed the Lord's presence upon you and knew that He would be guiding your family's journey. I am REJOICING at Maddi's progress and am humbled by the privilege of having even a small part in her odyssey. I continue to pray for her complete healing and for the Lord's richest blessings upon you and your loved ones.

Kurt

Kurt Drumheller <kurt.drumheller@kp.org>
Pasadena, CA USA - Thursday, October 2, 2003 5:19 PM CDT
I think about you everyday. I send you good thoughts and my love.
Darci Hodder <Hodderfam@aol>
Cupertino, ca usa - Wednesday, May 7, 2003 10:45 PM CDT
God bless you and hope you get to home soon. Best wishes!
Ronald and Jackie Snow
Navasota, TX USA - Wednesday, May 7, 2003 9:51 PM CDT
Just received the update from Jody Masquefa. Praise God. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Strength and courage, through your faith, is obvious with Madison and the whole family. God Bless you always.
Jeff and Jenny Kreil
Irvine, CA USA - Thursday, May 1, 2003 5:42 PM CDT