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- your browser may not have loaded the new page. Click here to sign the guestbook. Click here to go back to the main page. Click here to view older guestbook entries. Thinking of Miranda today Bekah White <rebekah_e_white@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, March 7, 2012 11:50 PM CST Martin that is a beautiful song.Just reading it told me how much you and gail loved that precious little girl.I believe you'll be reunited one day.And I believe she is watching both of you.Those memories you have will last forever.Mine and the rest of the family have you in our prayers and thoughts!!!! Kim Goodyear Romaine <herbieslady1@yahoo.com> Southbury, Ct USA - Thursday, June 9, 2011 9:21 AM CDT Cant believe its been 7 years. Someone else said it too - there are no words. Nothing can minimize the unexplainable loss and grief you two are feeling. Chris Russo <goochsplace@yahoo.com> Vernon, , CT USA - Sunday, June 5, 2011 12:08 AM CDT I am so sorry about your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Barbara Hire DeTar <bbbakc1@aol.com> Fort Myers, FL Lee - Sunday, June 5, 2011 10:53 AM CDT Hi, Amber Lada here...I used to be Jeff's roomie and I can remember him talking about her and when he did I could see how much he loved her. (I'm sure he still does with all of his heart) I'm am sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl. I prayed for her and asked my church to pray for her a while back when she was still here. Anyways, I hope you and your family are doing well. Amber Lada - Monday, May 3, 2010 10:00 PM CDT Just wanted you to know that Miranda has not been forgotten. I have never met her, but she certainly touched my heart in a very special way! Linda Pittsburgh, - Wednesday, January 13, 2010 4:01 PM CST Hi Martin and family, Miranda popped into my head today. All happy thoughts of crafts and singing. I stopped by here to remember a very special little girl. Thinking of you all- Leeann USA - Thursday, December 3, 2009 10:26 PM CST A very special thought for Miranda and her family today. In loving light, Eva Eva Van den Broeck <eva.michaele@skynet.be> Bruxelles, Belgium - Tuesday, December 1, 2009 10:15 AM CST Hello. I was just thinking of you all. It does not seem possible that it has been five years. My heart is heavy for you still. I just want you to know that I am thinking of you today. Malissia Loucks <vmvloucks@gmail.com> - Monday, July 27, 2009 11:08 AM CDT hello...........anyone out there? thinking of you tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com> - Saturday, June 6, 2009 10:45 AM CDT Just thinking of your family as Miranda's 5th Anniversary is here. ((HUGS)) Jennifer Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net> - Thursday, June 4, 2009 11:45 AM CDT Thinking of Miranda today. Still praying for you and your family, Bekah White <rebekah_e_white@hotmail.com> Cleburne, tx usa - Wednesday, May 27, 2009 10:30 PM CDT Praying for your family, thinking of Miranda. Barbara <barbara.colello@pseg.com> Paramus, NJ - Tuesday, May 26, 2009 6:50 AM CDT Hey Martin, just thinking of Miranda today and wondering how you, Gail and Dylan are. Sending you good thoughts and prayers for peace. Rene Woods <rwoods@hpdps.org> Dallas, TX - Wednesday, January 28, 2009 2:12 PM CST Been thinking about pink trees and Miranda... Carol in Minnesota, - Friday, January 2, 2009 4:54 PM CST Hey, Just wanted to let you know you are still in my thoughts and my prayers. Your family will always have a special place in my heart. Carol Strosnider <wkjmommy@yahoo.com> Monroe, nc - Friday, November 14, 2008 8:51 PM CST Not forgotten! Still check by often for an update. God bless! Cindy Wright Tennessee , - Tuesday, September 9, 2008 1:43 PM CDT Thanks for sharing your story. Godspeed to your family. Tina Carter <cartermom@ctc.net> Badin, NC - Friday, June 13, 2008 6:16 AM CDT Your sweet Angel Miranda continues to be in our hearts and prayers.... Your family remains as well in our hearts and prayers. Roger*Alexandra*Samantha*Cassidy* & 'Cookie' The Drabyk Family Winnipeg, MB Canada - Friday, June 6, 2008 8:01 PM CDT Thinking of you. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. Mary <miniteasets@mail2world.com> Worth, IL USA - Friday, June 6, 2008 11:25 AM CDT ((HUGS)) Jennifer Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net> - Thursday, June 5, 2008 8:54 AM CDT Hello Miranda's Family, You're in my heart as the 4th anniversary is coming up... I didn't know "know" Miranda, just via this website, but cannot believe it's been 4 years. ((HUGS)) Jennifer Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net> - Tuesday, May 27, 2008 8:56 AM CDT Know that your sweet little Miranda is not forgotten. Even though I did not know her personally, she certainly touched my life in a special way. She and the stories about her are greatly missed! Linda Pittsburgh, PA - Wednesday, May 21, 2008 11:41 AM CDT Happy Birthday Sweetheart We miss you ^HUGS^ Judy& Dave Dobrowski <Rainbow of Hope and Cancer Sucks Club Members davidd@comporium.net> Rock Hill, RockHill,SC www.caringbridge.org/page/emiann - Wednesday, May 14, 2008 8:46 PM CDT Always remembering you Miranda. You live in my heart and the thought of you always makes me smile. Happy Birthday angel-girl. I hope the family is doing okay. Patty, mom to angel Jonathan - Monday, May 5, 2008 3:35 PM CDT Happy Birthday, Miranda! My daughter and I still sing the "Miranda" song from time to time...it makes us smile. Enjoy choosing something from God's big hall closet for your special day :-) Christy Smith <christy6789516@aol.com> Mint Hill, NC - Monday, May 5, 2008 9:50 AM CDT Happy Birthday, Angel Miranda! I only found your site recently and I'm sorry I did not "get to know" you sooner. It is also my birthday today (I'm 17) and it is an honor to share it with such an amazing little girl! To Miranda's family-- I lost a best friend to leukemia 3 years ago so I have some inkling of how hard the birthdays without them here can be...I am thinking of you all and praying that you find strength and peace on this difficult day. ~Meg Meg <mbeneville@gmail.com> CT - Sunday, May 4, 2008 11:35 AM CDT Still reading and remembering your Maranda. God bless! C. Wright Tennessee, - Thursday, May 1, 2008 1:08 PM CDT Just stopping by to say I am thinking of your Miranda and your family. I bet her swing garden is more beautiful this year. Jennifer Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net> - Friday, March 28, 2008 9:16 AM CDT Stopped by to wish you a Merry Christmas and a blessed New Year. I miss your shorty too... I wish there were no updates because she was healthy and you all had moved forward with life.... I am sorry. Elizabeth <e_spehr_99@yahoo.com> Washingtion, DC USA - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 4:44 PM CST Just stopping by to say hi & hope all is well as can be. Deb Geneva, FL US - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 10:22 AM CST I am praying for you. Emily <socceriscooleb@yahoo.com> Waxhaw, NC USA - Saturday, November 3, 2007 10:33 AM CDT She looked like a very sweet child. I would have loved to know her. Emily <socceriscooleb@yahoo.com> Waxhaw, nc USA - Sunday, October 21, 2007 8:21 AM CDT Just came by to see if you were still posting from time to time or not. So glad to see that silly picture of Miranda again. Hope you are coping, and beginning to move forward with life. It's a different life than the one before our kids, and a much different life than the one while we had them here...but it's still live nevertheless. It's our job to go forward, to bring their memories and legacies with us, and scream from every mountain top about them, their lives, what they endured, and what we've learned from them. It is our duty, to them, for being so strong, to now be strong in their place. Don't let go, Martin. Don't let go of her, of her voice, of her smile, of her silly faces. Tell everyone you meet about her, and when they go home that night, and they hug their child tight, it will be because of Miranda...and that makes it all worth it. Let her, and Christ, shine through you...oh, how bright you will be! Wishing you all the best, Jennifer Naeger-mom to angel Ty www.caringbridge.org/mo/butterflyty <jnw_jnn@hotmail.com> MO - Sunday, September 2, 2007 12:12 AM CDT Hey Martin, Just came by to say hi and see how you all are doing. And to get my Miranda fix. That girl never fails to bring a smile to my face. Take care of you and yours. Leeann Leeann <niccofive@gmail.com> - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 1:42 AM CDT I have to say, in response to Dave's post below, I think its 2 out of 4 and the both of you are it... Chris & Gooch <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Friday, August 17, 2007 8:44 PM CDT They say 1 in 4 people are insane if you have 3 sane friends you must be the one but you have me as a friend so it can't be you Dave Angel Emily Ann's Daddy <davidd@comporium.net> Doha, Qatar - Friday, June 22, 2007 11:47 AM CDT Martin, I just wanted to let you know that Miranda is not forgotten. You're journal entry brought me to tears. I'll continue to keep your family in my prayers. Mary <miniteasets@mail2world.com> Worth, IL USA - Monday, June 11, 2007 1:30 PM CDT I still come here once a week and gaze at Miranda and say a prayer for all of you. Miranda left a legacy and my world is a better place for just having followed her story. I still believe in the miracle of Miranda. Hang on to that, Martin. She's got you covered. Ness <dachsielvr@aol.com> Belleville, IL - Thursday, June 7, 2007 7:00 PM CDT Missing you Miranda. I think of you everyday with prayers for you and your family. I know how much they are missing you. Patty, mom to angel Jonathan - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 9:20 PM CDT You are not forgotten - nor will Miranda ever be. Hugs, Wendy and Ryan Repchick <wendys6@aol.com> Charlotte, NC - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 2:08 PM CDT Thinking of you guys today. We do the same thing of wondering what would she be doing today. (Hugs) Judy, Dave, Katie, Dana and Emily Angel <davidd@comporium.net> Rock Hill, sc usa - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 9:46 AM CDT Just Letting you know that I am thinking of you and sweet little Miranda. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Laura <ELCgrey1216@aol.com> Richmond, Va USA - Monday, June 4, 2007 10:05 PM CDT Dropping by with tears because they left and we cannot see nor hear nor hold them but with laughter because we know where they went and are. Dropping by with sorrow because we miss them so and they cannot return but with joy because we will go to them. May you continue to know our Lord's comfort, peace and hope as Miranda's Homegoing anniversary approaches. Yolanda, Mom to Anna <weloveanna@earthlink.net> Alt Spgs, FL USA - Friday, June 1, 2007 7:50 PM CDT Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of y'all, and I still think about Miranda too. You will always be in my prayers, and I will always remember your sweet little girl. Malissia Loucks (Abby's mom) <Malissia@carolina.rr.com> Charlotte, NC USA - Friday, May 25, 2007 2:27 PM CDT Thinking of you! Kathy H. T.O., CA - Saturday, May 19, 2007 4:17 PM CDT Martin I wanted to tell you I had ordered a ribbon for Miranda on the candlelighters tree but I guess they arent mailing them - usually they mail the gold ribbons out in Jan when the tree comes down but I didnt get any of them this year so maybe they didnt... just wanted you to know she was up there though.... and your earthlink email bounced back to me. Hope you guys are doing okay and smiling as always when you think of her! Chris Chris & Gooch <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Wednesday, May 16, 2007 6:53 AM CDT With Much Love Miss Shannon & Miss Samantha "Froggy" <humphity@gmail.com> Always Missing & Remembering *Miranda* - Sunday, May 13, 2007 12:19 AM CDT I stopped by to let you know that although I didn't know her personally, Miranda touched my heart in a special way as I followed her (your) journey. What a beautiful, witty, wonderful little girl. She will never be forgotten. Linda Pittsburgh, - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 8:57 AM CDT thinking of that darlin' girl on her birthday! lisa <lisathaxton@Hotmail.com> boise, - Sunday, May 6, 2007 12:36 AM CDT With Much Love Miss Shannon & My Baby Bunny <humphity@gmail.com> Always Missing & Remembering *Miranda* - Sunday, April 8, 2007 9:28 AM CDT With Much Love Irish Sammi & her Irish Mommy <humphity@gmail.com> Always Missing & Remembering *Miranda* - Saturday, March 17, 2007 12:30 AM CDT Just sending some ________XXXXXXXXX_______ XXXXXXXXX_________ ______XXXXXXXXXXXX____XXXXXXXXXXXXX ________ _____XXXXXXXXXXXXXX__XXXXXXXXXXXXXX ______ ______XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX _______ _______XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX________ ________XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX_________ __________XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX __________ ____________XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX _____________ ______________XXXXXXXXXXXXX ______________ ________________XXXXXXXXX ________________ __________________XXXXX __________________ ___________________ XX ____________________ ______________________________________________ To you, From Everyone at Post Pals www.postpals.co.uk viks <viks@postpals.co.uk> - Friday, March 16, 2007 6:40 PM CDT Miranda and you all are in my thoughts and prayers each day - whether you post and entry or not. Great to see your recent posting, but so understandable that sometimes you just don't have it in you to write, and sometimes you just don't want to share what you are going through. This site is all about what you and your family need. Miranda will be loved, remembered and visited here no matter how often you write. Patty, mom to angel Jonathan - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 9:59 PM CDT I am glad to see your post. I still wonder often about the pink Christmas tree ... did you put it up this year? Carol - Friday, March 9, 2007 4:29 PM CST Hey Martin, glad to see you guys are still active with the church. Glad to see you posting again. I think its a decent stress reliever, so keep it up. We all like hearing from you. Chris & Gooch Share the Love.org <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Sunday, March 4, 2007 1:52 PM CST Hi Martin, thanks for checking in. I stop by often but guilty of not leaving a note. I always dread that when I pull up Miranda's CB site that the picture of her has changed and I love.that.picture. That picture endeared Miranda to me. She will always be forever that age to me and no matter how bad this thyroid cancer and fibromyalgia make me feel, all I have to do is look at Miranda's picture and I feel empowered again. If I read your latest entry correctly(my mind isn't firing on all cylinders anymore) you said something about doing what you can to get back to Miranda. I don't see anything wrong with that. Some would probably say that is just dead wrong to feel that way, like using God to get to Miranda but I don't see it that way at all. And you still need a boost to write your next post? :-) Keep on keeping on. It's what the Wally World shopping chic would want. My heart to yours. Vanessa <dachsielvr@aol.com> Belleville, IL - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 8:10 AM CST Hi Martin. I just read your entire journal entrees for your sweet Miranda. Your honesty, pain, hopefulness and humor were a tribute to the wonderful father you are to Miranda and Dylan... and husband to Gail. Gail is an incredible woman and mother. May you find peace in your journey. And it is ok to question and scream at God - he must understand. I also loved (and cried while reading) your song. Lisa <lisathaxton@Hotmail.com> Boise, id - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 2:37 AM CST Greetings from Doha, Qatar Plug that into Google Earth..... Will be away for 2 months, we will have to do therapy long distance. Great to see your update Dave Dobrowski <ddobrowski@midrex.com> Far, far away, - Monday, February 12, 2007 3:36 AM CST I don't think we ever get over the grieving, but knowing that we will see them again one day because we've given our life to Jesus is our only peace (if you can call it that). The knowledge of being with them again is comforting as we remain on this earth. The pain is still there, but just keep looking up and relying on God's guidance, comfort, and continuing love. I can't imagine what going through this without Jesus must be like. No hope, no peace, nothing. Well now, I sound like Jimmy, too, so I'll close. I love your humor, God put that in you and I believe God has the greatest sense of humor too. Mary Walker <mary@walkeragency.com> Scottsdale, AZ USa - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 11:17 AM CST I was wondering when you'd come back to visit us. August 20 was a long time away. (not that I'm counting or anything). Thanks for the update; good to know you're trudging along 0 good, bad, or otherwise. Don't be such a stranger to your loyal fans who check on y'all regularly. Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com> Charlotte, NC - Monday, February 5, 2007 3:04 PM CST I for one have missed you. Check in almost daily. Hope to hear from you sooner rather than later. xx Sandra <luigitumminelli@virgilio.it> Italy - Monday, February 5, 2007 2:49 PM CST Still thinking about all of you, especially that sweet face of Mirandae's. D <tulip43@wherever.com> G, FL US - Monday, January 29, 2007 9:21 PM CST You have been silent for almost 5 months now- Think about you, Gayle, Dylan & Miranda every day. Hope all is well as can be. D G, FL - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 8:24 AM CST Ya'll are in our thoughts and prayers this Christmas Season... May God continue to be with you always... Merry Christmas.... Jessica and Mathew <bradyhouse707@yahoo.com> Pageland, SC - Monday, December 25, 2006 7:50 AM CST Martin, You've been silent for almost 4 months now... I hope all is well. Wishing you a gentle Holiday season. Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net> - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 12:11 AM CST Hey Martin, I stop by daily just to have a peek at Miranda's sweet face. I am guilty though of not leaving a guestbook entry (which is one of my pet peeves- but I'm guilty as well).... anyway, just wanted to say hello to you all and wish you all a peaceful holiday season. Carol Mack (Mom2Angelz Meghan & Taylor) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com (Everybody Loves Meghan)> Titusville, FL USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 7:35 PM CST Hey guys, Martin I am glad you are "coming to terms" with this, as best anyone can understand something of this magnitude. My sister is thrust into the bottomless pit of grief now too, having lost her only child in a car accident a few months ago. Chris & Gooch Share the Love.org <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Sunday, December 3, 2006 9:58 PM CST Thinking of you all, keeping you in my prayers. Patty, mom to angel Jonathan - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 8:44 PM CST thinking about Miranda's family. Asa and I used to peek into her room at CMC when we would be there,. Do you think that they are up there making fun of us parents for crying so much? It is always nice to read your journals. Hope your Holidays are tolerable and even a little bit wonderful. Like us, there's an empty chair that can never be filled. God Bless. Donna (angel Asa's mama) <aandzmama@yahoo.com> Tega Cay, SC USA - Friday, October 27, 2006 4:43 PM CDT I check this site daily- No update in a while. Think about you, Gayle & Dylan everday( and of course, Miranda) Hope all is well as can be:) Deb <tulip43@bellsouth.net> - Thursday, October 26, 2006 8:05 PM CDT i love the garden by the way.......... thinking you Robyn mom to Nicole and angel PJ www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicole rw ottawa, on - Saturday, October 7, 2006 8:30 AM CDT I am still here .. just hanging around thinking of Miranda... Carol MN - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 8:21 AM CDT As always, Miranda, you are in my prayers and I think about you daily. Patty, mom to angel Jonathan - Saturday, September 30, 2006 8:50 PM CDT Hi Martin and Family, I hope Dylan is getting back in the swing of school and is liking it this year (at least as well as one can like school!) I was thinking of sweet Miranda and wondering how you all are doing. I hope you are doing all right, Hugs, leeann <niccofive@aol.com> ellicott city, md - Monday, September 18, 2006 7:50 AM CDT I was posting this picture on Cassie's site, and thought I would swing by your page to say "hello". Happy belated brithday to Dylan Lots of love Viks viks <info@postpals.co.uk> - Saturday, August 26, 2006 4:32 PM CDT Dear Martin, WOW ! Thanks for sharing with us such a personal message. You know, you really are helping alot of people out there as you share your personal feelings as a result of what I consider the most tragic experience a parent can feel. I know for myself as I continue on with my life after Max's surviving his cancer, my biggest fear comes from what the docs told me to expect in his future as a result from the treatments. I'm suppose to plan on melanoma, lukiemia,heart,lung,and kidney transplants.I do try my best to rely on God, not the docs, but it's still there in the back of my mind. You give me hope that if some day, God decides it's Max's time, I might be able to get through that, though I can't even begin to imagine how. I guess that's where God steps in. Everytime I rely on myself and my own strength, I eventually fail or mess up. But when I allow God to take over, and trust him, things go so much better.(peace) No matter what the outcome of the situation. You really are giving alot of parents both with sick children or well children, hope, that they might be able to survive the inevitable. God is definitly using your family. I hope you feel his pressence as much as I see it in you! Sincerely, Karen Each one of your entries are "food for thought" Karen Cope Wake Forest, NC - Wednesday, August 23, 2006 7:27 AM CDT Thinking about you guys, and just wanted to stop by and say hi. Happy Birthday, Dylan! Love, Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com> Charlotte, NC - Tuesday, August 22, 2006 7:36 PM CDT Hey Martin and family, Just popping in, as always, to say hi and see how you are. I hope you are catching a few rays this summer. Take care! leeann <niccofive@aol.com> ellicott city, md - Saturday, July 29, 2006 8:15 PM CDT I'm so glad you updated. I check in often and think of Miramdae alot. When I look at her pix on the website, I have to smile--her ready to go shopping! I'm glad that you are doing "well" (very loose term...no one can understand well in your situation). I'll keep praying and checking in--you keep writing the journal! love and prayers to all, Vickie Whicker <avsecg@aol.com> Mocksville, nc - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:20 AM CDT God, I miss you guys. I want to get out there to you soon, there's so much for us all to catch up on. Love you lots!! Ashley <asb0521@earthlink.net> Spring Hope, NC - Saturday, July 22, 2006 3:07 PM CDT Martin, It was so nice to hear from you. I have missed you! And I have wondered about Dylan also so it is good to hear about him as well. You sound good. Hugs, leeann <niccofive@aol.com> ellicott city, md - Sunday, July 16, 2006 11:36 PM CDT Thinking about Miranda. She is still alive through your webpage. I say a prayer for her every morning as well as one for your family. She has definitely not been forgotten. I never knew her, but she has absolutely touched my heart. Your journal is keeping her spirit alive. I truly hope that you have many many happy memories to hold tight too. Hopefully some of those memories will start to erase the sad, painful ones. Ill stop now, just know that you are being thought of and prayed for all across the country. :o) Rebecca Fleming (Friends of Allie) <rektorikfleming@yahoo.com> Dallas , Tx USA - Friday, July 7, 2006 3:51 PM CDT With Much Love, Shannon, Jim & Our Patriotic Girl <humphity@gmail.com> Always Remembering *Miranda* - Tuesday, July 4, 2006 3:18 PM CDT Just wanted to stop in and wish you a happy happy Father's Day! Miranda sure couldn't have gotten a better one! Your love for her is obvious through your journal. I am praying for your family and believing that Miranda is running and playing and dancing in heaven. Rebecca Fleming (Friends of Allie) <rektorikfleming@yahoo.com> Ridgeland, MS USA - Monday, June 19, 2006 10:47 AM CDT Hey Martin, I just wanted to let you know that your Miranda was in my thoughts. This is really awkward for me to say and I apologize up front for being so blunt about it, but I find myself lurking around here from time to time because we're both dads who both had pretty much identical challenges thrown at our little cuties, who were also the same age, yet we have ended up on such different paths...and no matter how much I rack my brain or look up for an answer, it just makes no (curse word) sense to me. Why Miranda? Why you? Why not Julianna? Why not me? Am I on the same path and just don't know it yet? I don't know, man, I just don't know, it's just messed up. But I just really REALLY want you to know that I so wish for better days for you and yours. There's nothing superficial about that, that's dad to dad, heart to heart. To better days, and to your Mirnada, Terry Josephson, Julianna Banana's dad <tjosephson@shaw.ca> Winnipeg, Canada - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 11:59 PM CDT Hi Martin & Family, Again, I'm so sorry for your loss of beautiful Miranda.....Please do not be ashamed of screaming with all your might when she passed......It is not shameful..You lost a huge part of your heart that day.. A huge part of your future that day.....It makes all of us out here in cyberspace want to scream & shout with all our might, too. My best friend lost her brother in a freak car accident 16 months ago.. To this day her father walks around in a daze & just wants to shout at people "how can you laugh? how can you be happy? MY SON DIED!!!!!!!! Don't you get it? You should be sad, too!" There is no shame...you guys have been thru the worst situation imaginable. If anyone has a problem with the fact that you may have changed - too bad - that's their problem. You have to do what you have to do to carry on. I admire your strength to go on & carry Miranda's happy memories in your heart. Take Care. You're in my thoughts & prayers. Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net> Bensalem, PA USA - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 7:35 AM CDT Thinking about you now and always. Carol - Monday, June 12, 2006 7:56 AM CDT Haunting and beautiful.... Praying for your broken hearts. ~Peace~ Barbara Matthews, NC - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 5:23 PM CDT Hey Martin and family, At a time like this, I have no idea of what to say. There is no possible thing that can take your pain away or explain why Miranda's life was taken so prematurely. I have no idea what that agony feels like and I truly hope that I never have to...reading your entry was heartbreaking as it is. So instead of trying to tell you it will all be all right, let me just say that I miss Miranda, I care deeply for you and your family and I am so sorry that Miranda is no longer here with you. And thank you for sharing your gorgeous little girl with us. Hugs to you. PS- How is Dylan? What is he up to these days? Leeann <niccofive@aol.com> ellicott city, md us - Wednesday, June 7, 2006 0:29 AM CDT Just think, eternity in heaven. Miranda is there! God's word says no more pain and new bodies! Spend time with someone you trust that knows the Bible and search for your answers there. God says we won't always know everything, but he will give you a peace in your heart if you let him. That doesn't mean life gets better, but your ability to deal with it will increase. Let me know if you need exact scripture for your questions, my friend is awesome at helping me find answers in the Bible. She lives her life for Christ. I know she would love to help if she can. Sincerely, Karen Karen Cope <alankarenalexmax@aol.com> Wake Forest, NC - Tuesday, June 6, 2006 9:46 PM CDT Martin, Gail and Dylan, we send our Love & Prayers to you and I can't say I know all your hurt, but just keep trusting and GOD WILL continue to ease that hurt and the beautiful garden is planted so Miranda is surrounding you all with so Much Love... May peace be with you and we will continue to lift you up in Prayer... Margo, Johnell & Sharnetia <mnewman1@carolina.rr.com> Charlotte, North Carolina - Tuesday, June 6, 2006 8:17 PM CDT Martin all of your journals are heartfelt. The good and the bad. Unfortunately not nearly enough good, and I think every parent can understand they why them and not us question.... Chris Gooch's mom Share the Love <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Monday, June 5, 2006 10:24 PM CDT Thinking of your family today and everyday. Words cannot express my sadness for your loss. GOd Bless! Cori <cmonaco1@hfhs.org> Detroit, MI - Monday, June 5, 2006 4:15 PM CDT Broken hearts somehow seem to mend enough to be functional but there will always be missing pieces. ^^HUGS^^ The Dobrowski's - Dave, Judy, Katie, Dana and Angel ^Emily Ann^ <davidd@comporium.net............... www.caringbridge.org/page/emiann.....www.rainbowchildren.homestead.com> Rock Hill, SC Duke 5200 & CMC 7T Family, Rainbow of Hope & Cancer Sucks Club members - Monday, June 5, 2006 7:16 AM CDT Your family is in my heart & prayers today. Jenn Hartley <ronjenn696@prodigy.net> bensalem, PA USA - Monday, June 5, 2006 7:13 AM CDT You are all in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Miranda is so missed. Patty - mom to angel Jonathan - Sunday, June 4, 2006 9:19 PM CDT Martin...Gail....and Dylan.... As you face the eve of June 5th please know that you are in our hearts and in our prayers as you face this difficult time. We have not forgotten about sweet Angel Miranda ...and the impact she made on our family. Love, The Drabyk Family Roger, Alexandra, Samantha, Cassidy & 'Cookie' <rdrabyk@shaw.ca> Winnipeg, MB Canada - Sunday, June 4, 2006 4:27 PM CDT My heart and prayers hold you tonight, the eve of Miranda's Homegoing. The memory of the righteous is a blessing (Proverbs). May your memories be blessed with her presence. In His Love, Yolanda Rogers http://www.galatians5.com Mom to Anna <weloveanna@earthlink.net> Altamonte Springs, FL USA - Sunday, June 4, 2006 3:01 PM CDT thhinking of you tricia <triciabxny@yahoo.com> - Sunday, June 4, 2006 10:32 AM CDT Martin, Miranda's garden looks awesome. I wish I had known to paint a preservative on the stepping stones my kids made about six years ago. I have their handprints in them and they did designs with marbles and glass but the stones are now beginning to crumble. I just wanted you to know that you and your family are in my daily prayers. Dot O'Connor <Dotocon@aol.com> Philadelphia , PA - Wednesday, May 31, 2006 6:21 AM CDT I MISS YOUR UPDATES!!!! I have been reading your website for some time now, and I really miss your updates! I hope you know that there are many people across the country that still pray daily for your sweet Miranda and for your family. I have been so touched by the story of your little girl. She is very special. I appreciate you sharing her with the rest of us! Rebecca Fleming (FOA) <rektorikfleming@yahoo.com> Ridgeland, MS USA - Wednesday, May 24, 2006 4:39 PM CDT I love the website you have for your daughter. It is very evident how much she is/was loved. When I heard this song the other day, I thought of you: By Kenny Chesney "Who you'd be today" "Sunny days seem to hurt the most. I wear the pain like a heavy coat. I feel you everywhere I go. I see your smile, I see your face, I hear you laughin' in the rain. I still can't believe you're gone. It ain't fair: you died too young, Like the story that had just begun, But death tore the pages all away. God knows how I miss you, All the hell I've been through, Just knowin' no-one could take your place. An' sometimes I wonder, Who'd you be today? Would you see the world? Would you chase your dreams? Settle down with a family, I wonder what would you name your babies? Some days the sky's so blue, I feel like I can talk to you, An' I know it might sound crazy. It ain't fair: you died too young, Like the story that had just begun, But death tore the pages all away. God knows how I miss you, All the hell I've been through, Just knowin' no-one could take your place. An' sometimes I wonder, Who you'd be today? Today, today, today. Today, today, today. [Instrumental Break] Sunny days seem to hurt the most. I wear the pain like a heavy coat. The only thing that gives me hope, Is I know I'll see you again some day. Some day, some day, some day." Lisa S. <lisa_in_sd_ca@yahoo.com> San Diego, CA USA - Monday, May 15, 2006 11:39 AM CDT I'm so glad that Miranda's song is back on. My daughter and I will sing it from time to time, always with full voice and smiles! Thank you for continuing to let us peek into your world. How you must miss your baby girl. Christy Smith Charlotte, NC - Sunday, May 14, 2006 9:11 PM CDT I really enjoyed listening to "Her Name is Miranda." Miranda's garden is really pretty. My thoughts and prayers go to your family as Miranda celebrates her birthday in heaven. Kathy H. T.O., CA - Saturday, May 13, 2006 6:09 PM CDT LETTING YOU KNOW THAT YOUR THOUGHT OF ON MOTHER'S DAY.KEEPING YOU IN MY THOUGHTS AND IN MY PRAYER'S ALWAYS. A Mother's Day Wish From Heaven Dear Mr. Hallmark, I am writing to you from heaven, and though it must appear A rather strange idea, I see everything from here. I just popped in to visit, your stores to find a card A card of love for my mother, as this day for her is hard. There must be some mistake I thought, every card you could imagine Except I could not find a card, from a child who lives in heaven. She is still a mother too, no matter where I reside I had to leave, she understands, but oh the tears she’s cried. I thought that if I wrote you, that you would come to know That though I live in heaven now, I still love my mother so. She talks with me, and dreams with me; we still share laughter too, Memories our way of speaking now, would you see what you could do? My mother carries me in her heart, her tears she hides from sight. She writes poems to honor me, sometimes far into the night She plants flowers in my garden, there my living memory dwells She writes to other grieving parents, trying to ease their pain as well. So you see Mr. Hallmark, though I no longer live on earth I must find a way, to remind her of her wondrous worth She needs to be honored, and remembered too Just as the children of earth will do. Thank you Mr. Hallmark, I know you’ll do your best I have done all I can do; to you I’ll leave the rest. Find a way to tell her, how much she means to me Until I can do it for myself, when she joins me in eternity. LOVE ALWAYS BRENDAMY LOVING DAD'S SITE <brurka@shaw.ca~~THE PRAYER BEARS~~> EDMONTON ,ALBERTA, - Saturday, May 13, 2006 0:26 AM CDT ok, there goes my heart again. the feelings of complete sorrow grip my soul when i see those pictures of MIRANDA'S swing and garden. like i said before,those pictures really slap me in the face with your reality. i soooooo love those pictures. although she is not sitting there,her pressence is so real. am i making sense? maybe not. as a mother, i am overcome with emotions when i see her little swing. thanks for the update, and the picture. sincerely, karen cope karen cope <alankarenalexmax@aol.com> wake forest, nc - Friday, May 12, 2006 5:14 PM CDT How nice to hear from you! And Happy Birthday, Miranda! I loved the pictures of the garden...just gorgeous. Thank you for letting us see them. I am looking forward to seeing the stepping stones on here one day! Leeann <niccofive@aol.com> ellicott city, md - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 7:48 PM CDT Martin, simply beautiful........ I'm sure Miranda LOVES the stepping stones......May peace be with you guys. Carol Mack (Mom2Angelz Meghan & Taylor) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com (ELM/Everybody Loves Meghan)> Titusville, FL USA - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 7:23 PM CDT I am still here. I think of Miranda so often. Just wanted you to know I haven't forgotten her. Carol - Tuesday, May 9, 2006 4:54 PM CDT I have not left a note in so long, but still think of Miranda every day. Her garden is gorgeous. Happy birthday Miranda. Hope you had an awesome celebration in Heaven. I know this is an especially tough time of year on Mom and Dad. Let them know you're near. Patty - mom to angel Jonathan - Monday, May 8, 2006 5:22 PM CDT Cant believe Miranda'd be 6 now. Such a funny and full of life little girl. yesterday must have been pretty darn hard on you guys. dont know what else to really say.... Chris Gooch's mom <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Saturday, May 6, 2006 11:16 AM CDT Hi Martin, Its been a great while since I wrote in the guestbook, doesn't mean I haven't been thinking of you guys. I hope this Friday morning finds the sun shining on you, Gail and Dylan, and that Miranda's birthday in heaven yesterday was spent with more games from the hall-closet than she could ever imagine. I'll be here for the next update....see you then. Rene Woods <rwoods@hpdps.org> Dallas, TX - Friday, May 5, 2006 10:07 AM CDT I've often come to Miranda's site but I'm not sure if I've ever signed her guestbook. She is sure a cute little girl, and I love the pictures of her on her Barbie 4-wheeler. My thoughts and prayers are with you today especially, as you remember your precious daughter on her birthday. Denise Ward <deniward@shaw.ca> Winnipeg, Canada - Thursday, May 4, 2006 8:11 PM CDT Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday Angel Miranda ! Happy Birthday to you! We miss her and love her! Jeff, Amanda, Taylor, Matthew, and Emily. The Braswells <abras4004@charter.net> - Thursday, May 4, 2006 7:43 PM CDT Thinking of all of you today.... ~prayers and peace~ Barbara Matthews, NC - Thursday, May 4, 2006 11:46 AM CDT HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHORTEY!!!!!!!!!!Just to let you all know that: That little cutie pie has been on my mind all day. I hope today is a happy day for you all. I will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Diane Lee <diane@carolinacustommillwork.com> Lancaster, SC USA - Thursday, May 4, 2006 9:50 AM CDT Dropping by with warm and knowing hugs and tears as you celebrate the remembrance of Miranda's birth. I am certain our children are whole now and in the presence of our Saviour where together they wait for a blessed reunion. May our Lord bless you with His comfort, peace and hope in a very special way. In His Love, Yolanda Rogers http://www.galatians5.com Mom to Anna Altamonte Springs, FL USA - Monday, May 1, 2006 8:05 PM CDT Yes, Martin, please update. I was a quiet follower for a long time but the whole table thing prompted me to send you an email several weeks ago. I've been wondering if you got it and if you knew Morgan G. that I talked about. Anyway, I hope you and yours are doing well. Gina Hawkins <ghawkins@thefamilyy.org> Augusta, GA USA - Tuesday, April 25, 2006 11:42 AM CDT OK! If you don't update, your going to be in trouble! I have many friends who are quiet followers of you and Miranda and I keep getting the same question. Why hasn't Martin updated? Don't you know you are not aloud to have down time? Ha Ha! Please update so I can live in peace. I'm still praying for you guys. I have it on my calendar that little Miss Miranda's birthday is arriving. I hope you can focus that day on the blessing of experiencing her birth, her special pressence and your short time you were blessed to have with her. I can't imagine it ever being less painful to lose your child whether their 2 or 90 years old. There will never be a good time. I can't imagine all the what if's that must be going through your head and heart since she was here so briefly. Lots of Love to your family, Karen karen cope <alankarenalexmax@aol.com> - Saturday, April 22, 2006 8:06 PM CDT Martin and Gail- It hurts my heart to read about such a tragedy you both have experienced. I find it very hard to find the words to leave for you. I will say she certainly was beautiful and you can see what a great personality she had in all of her pictures. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Always remember you will be holding her again, one day, forever. Martin, since you are a co-worker of mine, I look forward to learning from you. I haven't met Gail, but, I do know she has to be a special lady and a strong one too. My heart goes out to you! That table issue really teaed me OFF. (Some people are just plain shallow.) I will remember them in my prayers, as well. Diane Lee <diane@carolinacustommillwork.com> Lancaster, SC USA - Thursday, April 20, 2006 2:38 PM CDT Sometimes I think we all believe that after a death that time will heal all wounds. In the death of a child, time obviously doesn't heal. I am so very sorry you are having to live life without your precious Miranda. I will keep your family in my prayers. Rebecca Fleming (FOA) <rektorikfleming@yahoo.com> Ridgeland, MS USA - Tuesday, April 18, 2006 10:55 AM CDT Martin...this whole table thing has left me speechless...and believe me...if you asked my husband...NOTHING leaves me speechless!! Give me 5 minutes with your table-talker....I would LOVE to give him/her a piece of my mind! I have not walked in your shoes, nor do I ever want to. I can't begin to imagine the pain that you, Gail and Dylan must have. It is insane for someone to walk into your home and have words of wisdom for you all. No...you do what is right for ya'll. Please know Martin, that we will continue to hold you all close in our prayers and thoughts. I know it has been a while since my last post...but believe me when I say that Miranda is never far from our thoughts. Love,The Drabyk Family.... Alexandra, Roger, Samantha, Cassidy & 'Cookie' <rdrabyk@shaw.ca> Winnipeg, MB Canada - Friday, April 7, 2006 1:22 PM CDT Martin, yes, while Gail has been the absentee person here in the journals all along, no doubt shes been through her own living hell. Its not normal to outlive a child. Maybe the family member who said that didnt know the story behind the lack of table? Maybe they just didnt think. Maybe they should have asked before offering up your house for the meeting place. Whatever, who cares. You have bigger things to deal with than their feelings. And as you said, no one quite knows what its like. I looked at healthy kids with some "why him and not them" resentment when ron was on treatment, so I cant even imagine looking at kids the same age as yours WOULD have been. Just not right. Chris Gooch's mom <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Sunday, April 2, 2006 10:54 AM CDT Hey Shively family, I completely understand the kitchen table thing. The girls are expressing interest in eating at the table and I just can't get into it. I am thinking of selling ours at a yard-sale and get something different. We only have three chairs. I guess we all have our stuff to deal with. I haven't had to deal with peoples mouths like what Gail just experienced. I guess I am lucky in that sence. I guess we should pray for her family. Well, keep up the good healing and look forward to reading your next journal entry. Carol Strosnider Carol mommy to ^Angel Will^ Kelli and Jerri www.caringbridge.org/nc/littlewill <wkjmommy@wmconnect.com> Monroe, NC - Sunday, April 2, 2006 10:42 AM CDT Oh Martin and Gail, I will never be shocked again by what I hear from people and your story just strengthens my belief that if you haven't been here and gotten the t-shirt, you know not what you speak so you best not speak at all. I wish you peace in dealing with the search for a new table. It will never be as good a table as the Miranda table, but it will be a place to eat and hopefully share some new great memories with Dylan. Rambling as usual, you always seem to touch me deeply- maybe cause our girls were close in age. Meghan would have started kindergarten this past school year......sigh...Sending you peace. Carol Mack (Mom2Angelz Meghan & Taylor) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com> Titusville, FL USA - Tuesday, March 28, 2006 6:23 PM CST Hey Guys! It's the Friddle crew! I am so glad you got a dog. Barney deserves a good home and I know Miranda had a hand in choosing him. I miss that cutie-pa-tutie sooooo much. I can still see those new tennis shoes she got with PINK laces! She was so proud of them! I hope you guys are doing well. I think of you often and I especially think of that sweet angel. She comforted my spirit when nothing else at the time seemed like it would. Anyway.... take care and keep in touch when you can. Martin, you just hang in there. The computer "stuff" will kick in soon! Riley says hello! Love The Friddles caringbridge.org/visit/Rileyfriddle Andrea Friddle <Friddlex3@comporium.net> - Tuesday, March 21, 2006 6:12 PM CST Hey, whatcha doin? How's Barney? He is not replacing us, is he? :-) I can look really cute too! Just kidding, just miss you. Pop back in when you get a chance. leeann <niccofive@aol.com> ellicott city, md usa - Wednesday, March 15, 2006 4:28 PM CST thinking of you Robyn mom to Nicole and angel PJ www.caringbridge.org/visit/nicole RW Petawawa, Ontario (Canada), - Friday, March 10, 2006 9:07 PM CST I love dogs and am sure Barney will be a great member of the family. God Miranda would have had a ball with him. On an aside, I think its ridiculous that we have all these kids and families are deterred by money. I was adopted myself and we all know most of us are NOT financially as ready to fork over that amount of money when we have our own children, doesnt take away from the ability to love or raise them though) Chris & Gooch <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Sunday, March 5, 2006 8:08 PM CST What a gorgeous little girl and what a brilliant, moving and very honest journal. My heart goes out to you.... Hannah UK - Friday, March 3, 2006 6:15 PM CST Congratulations on your new family member! I'm glad he's helping to ease some of the emptiness. Must be the thing to do anymore, I got Brinley last week for the same reason. But he isn't potty trained yet and he's teething, so I think I walked into quite the adventure. I hope you all have a wonderful time sharing the love. Love, Wendy and Ryan <wendys6@aol.com> Charlotte, NC - Friday, February 24, 2006 7:38 PM CST Dear Martin, Congrats on Barney!!! And, you got him at what I think is a good age. You'll have missed out on the terrible "2s". The first two years with our beagle, Freckles, were pure torture. From age 2 until now (8), he really has been mostly pleasure. If you ever need any tidbits of advice (we've been pretty successful with most things, not successful with some), I've got lots to share. It's a lot of work but its well worth it too. Good luck with him. I am always praying for you and your family. Dot O'Connor <Dotocon@aol.com> Philadelphia , PA - Friday, February 24, 2006 9:07 AM CST Hi Martin, Gail and Dylan, Congratulations on your new addition! Dogs really are heart healers. I am looking forward to seeing pictures of Barney up on the site soon as well as the picture and music restoration. :-) Some people are just never satisfied, huh? LOL It was great, as usual, to hear from you. Continuing to check faithfully, Leeann leeann <niccofive@aol.com> ellicott city, md us - Wednesday, February 22, 2006 6:46 PM CST Dear Martin, Congrats on having a new, well, dog! Barney is a cute name. Sounds like one Miranda would have picked! I've been dropping in, sorry I haven't left any messages.I hope God will bless you with another child to love along with Dylan and Miranda. I'd have another if I could! Hope things are going good at your job! We're going to Duke soon for Max's 5 year visit. It's amazing how you imagine what it will be like when you get to such a big mile stone, according to the doctors, but when you get there, life is still the same. Cancer may go away physically, but emotionally, your scarred for life. I don't think it will ever leave my mind. I just have to learn to live with it. Life does suck! It says that in the Bible, just not in those words. Have fun cleaning up the dog poop! Sincerely, Karen Cope Karen Cope Wake Forest, NC - Tuesday, February 21, 2006 9:13 PM CST Martin God Bless You! We all know you and Gail did the best you could for Miranada and she knows you did too, please know your not rambleing,And we are here because we care HAPPY VALENTINES DAY to you and your family And congratulations are the job promation! Hugs Marty Marty <AngelsKiss73069@aol.com> Louisville, Ky USA - Wednesday, February 15, 2006 11:52 AM CST Bless your hearts... Amy Kies <davysmama@comcast.net> Sterling Hts, MI - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 6:45 PM CST Know I havent been here in a while and wanted to check in on you guys. Wow Martin, as usual, I sat here crying reading your entry. I dont know what to tell you, life is never as unfair as when you have to outlive a child... Chris Gooch's mom <chrisrusso_@hotmail.com> - Saturday, February 11, 2006 7:39 PM CST Martin, I completely understand........ Thinking about you all....... Carol Mack (Mom2Angelz Meghan & Taylor) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com (ELM/Everybody Loves Meghan)> Titusville, FL USA - Friday, February 10, 2006 9:02 PM CST I come here because Miranda is too cute to be forgotten. What more can I say? (Hugs) Elizabeth <e_spehr_99@yahoo.com> Washington, DC USA - Tuesday, February 7, 2006 11:16 AM CST I never signed but have been here for over 2 years. I don't even know what to say now. Can't even imagine your pain. You make me laugh, you make me cry. Miranda will NEVER be forgotten. You, your wife, son and MIRANDA have a special place in my heart. Marisa OH - Saturday, February 4, 2006 10:37 PM CST Martin, I question just as you do, and I haven't had anything bad happen to my children. I want to shout at God "Leave the children alone!!" They should be born with some kind of Survivor Immunity idol branded to their chests. I wish it worked that way. I just don't get it. ps- looking forward to hearing miranda's song again. I miss it. leeann <niccofive@aol.com> ellicott city, md usa - Friday, February 3, 2006 7:56 PM CST I have not forgotten Miranda. Like I have said before, I feel like i knew her personally. I pray that you will make it through this. Carol - Thursday, February 2, 2006 3:59 PM CST Martin Gail & Dylan ... I read the updates on Miranda's site, but have never signed the guestbook. Your entry has moved me to do so. You are so real , and dont hold back, nor should you. I wont say I know how you feel, because I dont, I pray I never do. Miranda was beautiful, and you Martin, a so loving dad. Many hugs to help you get through your day without your baby beside you. Becky OH USA - Wednesday, February 1, 2006 9:42 AM CST Martin, your message is so raw and so real. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Gail and Dylan. I won't pretend I know how you feel because I can't imagine. We love you! Cindy & Kenna Cindy Bradley <cbradley@teamt.com> Gastonia, NC - Monday, January 30, 2006 2:49 PM CST Well I'm sure there are a few more eyes with tears in them after reading your thoughts, I know mine do. I come here each Monday morning to see if you've updated on Sunday. Last night I just had a feeling that you had. Your journals inspire me to appreciate the days I do have with my family and to try to see the good things that are happening amid the junk. Your words really touch my heart. I will continue to keep your family in my prayers. I think of Miranda often. 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