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Thought about folden and you all today. Wanted to come by and let you know I still think of him.
Randal
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Monday, November 6, 2017 10:54 PM CST

God Bless you all.. What a touching story, We have known of yall's story for a long time and my son was dx back on 08 and is in remission. we actually go to your Husband's office which we love and he loves as well even at the age of 13. God Bless your family. Truly beautiful. God Bless each and everyone of you!!
Alecia <asmith@cctc.com>
Smithfield, NC Johnston - Tuesday, September 13, 2011 4:17 PM CDT

Hi Lori, It's Patty Kendall Varney's mom..I read Folden's page from time to time to see how you are doing...Im so glad You are doing well..I had something I wanted to share with you. Mandie Kendall's sister had a baby girl Nov 2nd 2010..She is so precious and true blessing.. Mandie named her Kendalleigha..She is so full of spunk just like Kendall..Also this year at her high school the first ever Kendall Kristine Varney scholarship..I think of you and folden often and just like to check up on you and see how your doing.. I have a facebook if you ever want to add me ..I have a ton of pics on there of Kendalleigha.. jimmypattyt@yahoo.com or Patty Sue law-tilley
Patty <prettypatty08@yahoo.com>
Sophia, wv usa - Saturday, June 18, 2011 0:44 AM CDT

hi lori. hope you are all well.
i was just thinking about you and your family today. you all are always in my prayers.
the girls are getting so grown up now. how is folden? both of your families?kate and lindy are doing well.kate is so grown up . it is scary. lindy is doing great and is a wild woman.
i have some very sad news. i lost mike last august. he died suddenly from a seizure . still not sure what i'm doing, just missing him . for now i will stay in md. it helps to see courtney and lynn and of course kate and lindy.
anyway hope you have a great summer. love to all
barbara
barbara kelly <kellybarbara4@gmail. com>
myersville, md usa - Tuesday, June 14, 2011 10:10 AM CDT

Thinking of you and your family today. God Bless you!
Kristin Broadwell
Clayton, NC USA - Wednesday, September 1, 2010 6:58 AM CDT

hi lori and family. i check in often.glad for the great news.
we will always be keeping you and that beautiful family in our prayers.
beach time suits me the best too.i just have to figure out how to bring the 4 horses 3 goldens and 2 cats .

love and hugs

barbara kelly
barbara kelly <kellybarbara4@gmail .com>
myersville, md hot and dry - Tuesday, August 3, 2010 11:51 AM CDT

Lori, I am so glad you're their most boring patient of the day! It's wonderful news! Glad the girls are doing well and that life has more balance these days. Love to you all.
Lisa Bailey <jlnn@bellsouth.net>
Raleigh, NC US - Sunday, July 4, 2010 3:37 PM CDT

So glad to hear your reports were good!
Lisa Bailey <jlnn@bellsouth.net>
Raleigh, - Thursday, April 22, 2010 10:19 PM CDT

I have followed Folden's site for years. Tracey Tew is a friend of mine. I lived in Raleigh and Charlotte many years ago and read the news online. My heart stopped a few weeks ago when I read a Lori Lee, in the Raleigh are had died. I know you have been battling cancer. Just happy to know it was not you and pray things are going well with you and your family.
Sheilah Harrell <sheilah1@atmc.net>
Ocean Isle Beach, NC - Sunday, February 14, 2010 5:18 PM CST

Thanks for the wonderful analogy...it is so true! I love hearing good updates from you and although I don't post here often, I do check in to see how you all are doing. Prayers for continued health for you and your family. You are such a blessing to so many people.
Kim Linville <khlinville@yahoo.com/ caringbridge.org/nc/linville>
- Thursday, October 22, 2009 6:42 PM CDT

Lori, I enjoyed reading your update and glad that things are going well. Tell Folden that I ran across the cutest picture of him & Robbie at Robbie's birthday party. Take care of yourself and God bless you & family. Love,Frances
Frances B. Gupton <fgupton1@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, NC - Tuesday, September 15, 2009 8:52 PM CDT

Thank you so much for the update. Moreso thank you for being you. I really don't know if you realize how inspirational you have become to so many people. Can we say enough thank you's, I don't think so. From time to time I go back and re-read your entries and thank God for my friend whom I've never met, but has shown me the way so many times. God Bless you laurie and your family.
Marilyn Faulise <mfaulise@roadrunner.com>
Depew , NY USA - Friday, September 11, 2009 3:09 PM CDT

So good to hear an update. Glad you're doing well. Really thinking about your entire family today. So hard to believe it's been 5 years! I know the celebration in heaven is still going strong for the little Superman!
Lisa Bailey <jlnn@bellsouth.net>
Raleigh, NC US - Monday, August 31, 2009 11:09 PM CDT

Great to read an update! Glad all is well. Your Caringbridge friends continue to remenber Folden and check in on your family. Happy Normal!
Linda Britt <lbritt@fmrealty.com>
Cary, NC USA - Sunday, August 30, 2009 11:24 PM CDT

Lori,
I am so glad to hear how well you are doing! I bet your new hairdo, is cute and sassy. I have been thinking of you and your family. You are truly special people!
Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@bellsouth.net>
Elon, NC USA - Wednesday, May 13, 2009 3:36 AM CDT

Still sending love and prayers from the Lindy camp. Great to hear things are "normal".
Robbie & Lynn Gupton <robbiegupton@earthlink.net>
Raleigh, NC - Wednesday, May 6, 2009 6:41 PM CDT

TO GOD BE THE GLORY GREAT THINGS HE HATH DONE!!!!
PATRICIA BROWN <PBROWN0826@NC.RR.COM>
CLAYTON, NC - Monday, May 4, 2009 3:58 PM CDT

Ok, did u "see" the glitter?

Prayers to your family.
Jenn Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net>
- Saturday, April 25, 2009 6:29 AM CDT

Lori---You still AMAZE me. You are a one in a million kinda lady.
Donna Latham <hugyournurse@gmail.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Thursday, April 2, 2009 7:47 PM CDT

We still check in - Still pulling for you all. Lindy sends her love. Bring on warm weather. Bring on the beach.
Robbie & Lynn Gupton <robbiegupton@earthlink.net>
Raleigh, NC - Monday, March 16, 2009 11:13 AM CDT

Lori- I am very happy to hear you are doing better. I pray God gives you the strength you need to continue your work for him. He is an awesome God. You can do all things through Christ which strengthens you. I love your store I visit as much as possible.
Kim Price
Smithfield , NC Johnston - Monday, March 16, 2009 9:58 AM CDT

Lori..so good to see your post and that you are doing well- WOO HOOO!!! Spring has sprung thank goodness and it sure makes me feel good too. Wonderful news about the kids too..how terrific :) Just makes my heart sing..enjoy the spring and know you are always in my heart..still holding your hand, sorry if mine's a bit clammy LOL!!! Love you :)
Cindy

Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Wednesday, March 11, 2009 12:44 AM CDT

Lori, I don't know if you remember me but It's Patty aka Kendall's mom.I was just checking up on some of you guys from 5200. I was shocked to read about you..Your are a strong women and I know you will overcome this..It's been 3 and half years since Kendall passed and it's hard to find people who can relate to me. I find it hard to move on.Kendall would be 20 as of Feb 15th. I wish I could see her now. I will pray for you Lori and have my church pray for you as well..Your an inspiration to me and a wonderful person.. If ever you need someone to talk to( although it seems you have many friends) just know you have one more..GOD SPEED IN YOUR RECOVERY..
Patty ( kendall's mommy) <jimmypattyt@yahoo.com>
sophia, WV USA - Tuesday, March 3, 2009 11:56 PM CST

Lori, Folden and girls,
I hope all of you are doing well. I think of you so often and keep you in my prayers daily. Please tell the girls to come with Rose to see me soon. We'll go and get some "Squirel legs' from Bojangles.LOL
Love and prayers to all of you,
Diane
Diane Bailey <patznme@live.com>
Garner, NC USA - Thursday, February 19, 2009 7:36 PM CST

Thinking of you and wishing that 2009 brings you positive energy to renew your spirit, as you continue on this blessed path called life. So glad you are finished with your chemo... hoping your recovery is a smooth one and that only good things come your way each day. With love and best wishes always,
Claudina <claubonetti@mac.com>
NY, NY - Friday, February 6, 2009 12:52 AM CST

Lori, I'm so glad you're finished with chemo and hope by now you have many more eyelashes!! Know that you and Folden and family are always in my prayers. Love, Frances
FRANCES B. GUPTON <fgupton1@nc.rr.com>
CLAYTON, NC - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 9:56 PM CST

Hey. We're still checking in and sending thoughts and prayers your way. Lindy sends her love.
Robbie & Lynn Gupton <robbiegupton@earthlink.net>
Raleigh, NC US - Sunday, January 18, 2009 8:35 AM CST

Lori, I hope and pray that in 2009 you find what you are looking for. Let this year be the one where you discover new and exciting things that will bring you inner peace. God Bless You Always..you deserve all the best life can bring you.
Love Always,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Saturday, January 10, 2009 11:25 AM CST

Happy New Year!!!! I hope it brings GREAT things to the Lee Family. Lori-Thinking about you always.
Love, Sam , Stormie, & Blade <rosebuzzmom@netzero.com>
Clayton, NC - Wednesday, December 31, 2008 11:25 PM CST

Merry Christmas!!
I pray that you and your family will have a wonderful holiday! I also pray that 2009 will bring you good news and good health. Keep the Faith!
Bethany
Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@bellsouth.net>
Elon, NC USA - Tuesday, December 23, 2008 4:16 AM CST

Merry Christmas to the Lee family.
love
barbara and mike kelly
barbara kelly <kellybarbara4@gmail.com>
myersville, md usa - Thursday, December 18, 2008 1:26 PM CST

LORI, SENDING PRAYERS FOR GOOD HEALTH AND WISHES FOR A GOOD CHRISTMAS. LOVE TO YOU, FOLDEN AND FAMILY.

FRANCES B. GUPTON <fgupton1@nc.rr.com>
CLAYTON, NC USA - Monday, December 15, 2008 11:54 PM CST

Lori,
I just want to know, I am always thinking of you sending positve energy and prayers your way. Hoping you are all done with chemo, so you can enjoy the holidays.
Love you with all my heart,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Monday, December 15, 2008 9:00 AM CST

way to go lori !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i knew you could do it.
always in our thoughts and prayers.
love
barbara kelly

barbara kelly <kellybarbara4@gmail.com>
myersville, md usa - Friday, December 5, 2008 1:15 PM CST

Lori,

You are such an inspiration to me and those around you. You teach those around you how to stand up and fight when they feel like they can't. You hang in there, and when you can't go anymore, those around you will carry you through. I hope to raise my daughters to have the strength and courage that you have. I love you so much.
Rhonda Martin <rhondarmartin@hotmail.com>
Clayton, - Wednesday, November 26, 2008 3:02 PM CST

Lori,
I just want to wish you a blessed Thanksgiving. Hope you are able to celebrate and enjoy this time with your family.
Holding your hand, even if you have gravy on it!
Love you,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Wednesday, November 26, 2008 1:49 PM CST

Lori, hang in there!!! I am thinking of you and your family-- Happy Thanksgiving!
Jessica Irven, Recreational Therapist
Chapel Hill, NC - Wednesday, November 26, 2008 1:02 PM CST

Lori, by nothing more than "coincidence" or maybe it was "divine intervention" I found your online journal. I honestly could not stop reading,crying and praying. I am so sorry to read of all the things you and your family have endured in the last few years. I find myself checking each day to see how you are doing. Your words have compelled me to hug my children tighter and be so grateful for all our blessings. Even though it has been many years since I have seen you please know that you all are in my prayers and thoughts daily. We are praying for your recovery.
Tammy Jones (now Pooley) from Sunsations Tanning Salon in Clayton <tammypooley@yahoo.com>
Oviedo, Fl USA - Tuesday, November 25, 2008 9:10 PM CST

WOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YOU GO GIRL!!! Last one YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY..
Love you!!
Cindy
PS Let us know when you are done so we can celebrate with you!
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Wednesday, November 19, 2008 8:16 PM CST

R and R does not get any better than when at the Beach! Enjoy your birthday and your time with Folden. Keep putting one foot in front of the other...Love you and God Bless you, Heather
Heather Asebes <heddiemack@msn.com>
- Tuesday, November 18, 2008 0:13 AM CST

Lori, just wanted to let you know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers. You have had more than your share and I just know that you are meant for great things. Take care and know that we love you.
Cindi Baker and family <cbaker012@nc.rr.com>
Angier, nc - Wednesday, November 12, 2008 1:41 PM CST

Lori, so glad to hear you are almost done! WOO HOOO...you just amaze me..I just can never say it enough! I hope someday you write a book because your writing hits home, especially for someone like me. You are so talented, honest and inspirational..just thinking about you makes me smile.
Hoping the next 2 rounds go well, your side effects mimimal and that you will be cured and never tested like this again.
Much love, hugs and hand holding always..
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Friday, November 7, 2008 8:50 AM CST

Halfway mark...that is great! Please know that you are loved and are being prayed for:) Hang in there...so many love you...Heather
Heather Asebes <heddiemack@msn.com>
Raleigh, nc - Friday, October 17, 2008 3:32 PM CDT

Hey Lori, it is LaVern. Praying for you and your family.
LaVern Carter <lavern.carter@rbc.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Thursday, October 16, 2008 1:59 PM CDT

Lori, you have been in my thoughts and prayers!
Red <jennvierre74@yahoo.com>
Wilmington, NC 28403 - Tuesday, October 14, 2008 2:51 PM CDT

Hey Lori,
Congrats on the half-way mark! Just think next year you will be celebrating Breast Cancer Awareness month cancer-free! You have such a strong spirit and I hope the treatment hasn't been too rough. Continuing to pray for you!
Bethany
Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@bellsouth.net>
Elon, NC USA - Tuesday, October 14, 2008 5:17 AM CDT

Lori, thank you for letting us know you are halfway through..it's the home stretch now! Looking forward to hearing you are all done. Hang in there..thinking of you every day and holding your hand tight.
Love and Hugs,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Sunday, October 12, 2008 11:19 AM CDT

Thinking of you tonight. Hope you are doing well.
Linda Britt <lbritt@fmrealty.com>
Cary, NC USA - Friday, October 10, 2008 11:27 PM CDT

Praying for you and sending good thoughts your way! I love ya! Lisa
Lisa Brown <charlieandlisa@embarqmail.com>
Sneads Ferry, NC - Thursday, October 9, 2008 10:51 PM CDT

Lori, I am praying for you each day. Don't get discouraged. God has a plan for you and I know it's something awesome. You have been and continue to be such an inspiration. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!
Katherine M. Beasley <kcb21tcb2@aol.com>
Princeton, NC USA - Sunday, October 5, 2008 8:45 AM CDT

Can you believe today is the first time I have heard about you and what's been going on? Why no one thought to say anything to me is amazing? I saw Ginger and the Ingrams and Christy Hinton and several others at a softball game in Myrtle Beach this summer and not one word.......I am so sorry...........I am your sister and I wasn't there for you even though I still pray for you all the time even if it has been five years. Please send me your phone number or call me when you have a few extra Lori minutes. I Love you lots and again I am sorry I didn't know.
Tracey Tew <traceytew@yahoo.com>
Shallotte, NC USA - Thursday, October 2, 2008 9:28 PM CDT

Lori~Thanks for keeping your Caringbridge Family updated.� Hope it helps to know that we are thinking of you and checking in to see how you are doing.� I have to say that I agree with you--Some families are hit harder than others. When we are surrounded by people who have not been touched by illness and we hear them complain about the most mundane things and their lives seem so uncomplicated, it can be a very lonely feeling.� However, as I have walked the halls of Duke and UNC, it has only taken moments to see families less fortunate than me and I trudge forward reminded that I have many blessings in addition to the challenges.�God in in Control. Stay Strong. You Win in the End.� �
LBritt <lbritt@fmrealty.com>
Cary, NC USA - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 9:15 PM CDT

Lori, Just trust God even more during this time. Sometimes when you don't know what to say, think or feel just say Help Me Jesus!! There is peace in his name. The one that wants you to fail is the Devil. He waits and watches us at our most vulnerable time and he swoops in and plants the seed of doubt. Don't give in!! Sometimes your head tells you things that you find strange, but your heart will always lead you in the right direction. You have a good heart. Stay strong and know that many, many prayers are lifted up to you each day.
Charlotte Williams <cwilliams@stonewoodins.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Monday, September 29, 2008 3:25 PM CDT

Lori, I can't even imagine how you feel but I must tell you how much of an inspiration you are. The way you write and word things makes me feel I am truly with you. You know how to tell it like it is, without the sugar coating, which I really can relate to. I just admire you for the honest person that you are no matter what your situation. My heart is with you always.
Love,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Friday, September 26, 2008 6:48 PM CDT

Lori, the strength you give even when you're in the midst of sickness is much more than most people on their good day. It is very admirable and respected. Hang in there, God has a plan for you!!

Tara Johnson <tara.johnson@firstcitizens.com>
Zebulon, NC US - Thursday, September 25, 2008 10:19 AM CDT

Lori,
I met you at the Purse Gala. I was with Becky. I had heard so many wonderful things about you and remember when our church was praying so hard for little Folden. My Mom beat breast cancer twice. You will knock this thing. And just know that even folks you hardly know are praying for you.
Dana Sessions <drasessions@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, September 23, 2008 7:32 PM CDT

Lori,
For the last few birthday/Christmas occasions I have asked of family/friends that typically buy gifts instead give to either Me Fine, American Red Cross, or the SPCA. After sending an email out about it this year, I decided to click on your website to update myself as to what is going on with Me Fine. After a few clicks I found myself on your journal and I had absolutely no idea you have been going through what you're going through with your own health. I have never met you in person, but please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.

Michelle
Michelle Blalock <mich438@aol.com>
Charlottesville, VA - Saturday, September 20, 2008 8:54 PM CDT

LORI, MY PRAYERS GO UP DAILY FOR YOU AND ALSO FOR YOUR FAMILY.
Frances B. Gupton <fgupton1@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, NC - Wednesday, September 10, 2008 7:17 PM CDT

Lori,
My prayers are with you today as you have your next treatment. Kick Cancer Butt!!

Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@bellsouth.net>
Elon, NC USA - Wednesday, September 10, 2008 1:34 AM CDT

Sending love and prayers to you, Lori! God Bless You!
Heather Asebes <heddiemack@msnl.com>
Raleigh, NC - Tuesday, September 9, 2008 10:25 PM CDT

You are truly one amazing woman,God bless you and your family. Sending lots of love and continuous prayers
Alex <alexjoa@gmail.com>
Greenville, SC USA - Tuesday, September 9, 2008 7:07 PM CDT

Thinking about you this morning, and praying you are doing fabulous with your treatment!
Cheryl Mills <cherylmil@nc.rr.com>
- Tuesday, September 9, 2008 6:10 AM CDT

Lori, You continue to impact the lives of others by your faith, strength, determination, will, and love for your family. Thank you for sharing your heart through the past years. We are praying for you and for your family. May your recovery continue to be quick and may the days ahead be full of blessings and moments of joy together. As you said, you will kick this things...it doesn't know who it's dealing with!! The Pinon Family
Sally Pinon
Raleigh, NC - Monday, September 8, 2008 7:34 AM CDT

Lori,
Our prayers are with you, to lift you up and give you strength as you go through your treatments.
John and Pat Toler <patltoler@earthlink.net>
Surf City, NC USA - Monday, September 8, 2008 0:20 AM CDT

Lori,
Thank you so much for that update...WOO HOO YOU GO GIRL..KICK THAT CANCER'S BUTT RIGHT OUTTA TOWN! I just love the way you put everything into perspective. Guess all us Moms are guilty of feeling the same way you do. Believe it or not, today is Matt's first day of college!!! Who would have ever thought we'd make it this far?? Incredible feeling :)
Love and Hugs,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Wednesday, September 3, 2008 10:10 AM CDT

Cheering you on!! Kick its BUTT!!!
Cheryl Mills <cherylmil@nc.rr.com>
- Tuesday, September 2, 2008 7:42 AM CDT

Dear Lori, I met you through Folden's journal and stayed with you throughout your journey. I had so hoped and prayed for a different ending, but your faith got me through your son's death and I thought if they can do this, than why am I questioning so much. It helped me to look at myself and my own faith. I thought I had made some progress and then the other day I read about you and your journey beginning again. I couldn't believe it. I thought how cruel can life be? I know if there is one and only one person on earth who deserves to be well both physically and emotionally, that person is YOU! You have helped so many others with your faithful thinking. I cannot tell you how many times during the week you come across my mind. You are truly an inspiration. I will continue to send my little prayers skyward for you and wish you strength in the coming days ahead. God bless you.
Marilyn Faulise <mfaulise@roadrunner.com>
depew, ny USA - Monday, September 1, 2008 10:11 AM CDT

Hi. We're just checking in. Still sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. We think of you all daily.
Robbie & Lynn Gupton <Robbiegupton@earthlink.net>
Raleigh, NC - Sunday, August 31, 2008 7:43 AM CDT

Hi Its Linda--Cindy's friend in Staten Island and on Candilyne's prayer list (also a good friend). I check back on you from time to time as you have on my hubby at his CaringBridge Website.

I remember when all of us from AOL Women's Open Chat were checking on Folden daily. We were a big group then and there was this negative (but sometimes very loving) older cranky woman who was in our chat room. She fought with almost everyone in the room (acccept Cindy and me)and was even blocked by people because of her antics. Well, she followed Folden's story religiously, and she was so genuinely bereaved when he died. Ann died in Mid 2005 of bladder cancer within a few months of diagnosis in her after a brief period of finally being happy and content. Before she was sick she gave Cindy's son a nice gift when he was ill. She died right after we adopted or daughter, Irina, from Russia so we were able to send pictures and share our story with her. Irina was 8 at the time and do you know this woman left me a "gift" (I was sworn to secrecy about the details) to help with the adoption ??? Her son contacted me after her death and the help came right when we hit a month when we could not have made it. I had only met this woman once in person opposite coats) and I did get a chance send pictures of Irina and feel glad she had her son and friend helping her out at the end.

Miracles happen in this nasty cancer business. Sometimes they are the miracles we want and sometimes they are miracles we never expect. Sometimes there are big miracles, and sometime little daily life miracle moments. I try to accept them whenever I can. I never ask why

Just wanted to share that. Hope we meet one day under brighter circumstances.

Linda <Lippylulu@@aol.com>
Staten Island, NY USA - Sunday, August 31, 2008 0:56 AM CDT

Thinking of you and hoping all is well.
Linda Britt <lbritt@fmrealty.com>
Cary, NC USA - Thursday, August 28, 2008 7:01 PM CDT

Lori,
Wishing all good blessings to you in your treatment. Once again I'm praying for you and your family.

Peggy
Peggy McKita <peggy95443@embarqmail.com>
Rocky Mount, NC USA - Saturday, August 23, 2008 2:36 PM CDT

I have just recently heard of your breast cancer.
You are in my prayers and also your family.
God be with you.
I know words do not help much but just know you are being thought of and the even though it seem impossible, God is in control.
Michelle Swick, Mt. Moriah Baptist WMU <swickm82@aol.com>
Clayton, - Saturday, August 23, 2008 11:56 AM CDT

Yes, I too believe in devine guidance, praying for such devine guidance from the Physician of all physicans to guide your Wizard through your treatment, healing, and cure.
Prayers from the Ozarks...
Rhonda <rhondabill@aol.com>
Springfield, MO - Wednesday, August 20, 2008 2:51 PM CDT

Lori,
I have sent your post to my prayer group so we can all storm the heavens for you. Praying for you in every way possible. Hoping these next 12 weeks go by quickly and that your outcome will be you are cured! Squeezing your hand..not too hard I hope.
Love and Hugs,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Wednesday, August 20, 2008 9:13 AM CDT

Lori,Folden & family, Thinking of you often and sending love,prayers and best wishes.
Frances B. Gupton
Clayton, NC - Monday, August 18, 2008 5:57 PM CDT

Lori,

Remembering Folden; thinking of you; praying for peace.

Becky Smith <beckysmith62@aol.com caringbridge.org/nc/sarahsmith>
Smithfield, NC - Saturday, August 16, 2008 10:10 AM CDT

Lori, I followed Folden's story, God bless him, and I haven't checked your site for a while. I don't know why I looked today, someone above told me to. When I read your most recent entry I felt dumbstruck. I can not believe this is happening to your family again. I am sure you feel that you would rather it be you than one of the girls and that you are stronger than they are to take on this battle and can beat it. I will keep you in my prayers. God Bless your family.
Cherie Mazutis <cmazutis@comcast.net>
Houston, PA USA - Thursday, August 14, 2008 6:59 AM CDT

Thanks for the update today. Your guardian angel will continue to direct your every move toward the very best course of treatment to ensure a full recovery. I'm very certain that you'll be old and grey one day rocking your grandchildren Lori. Much love ~ Lisa
Lisa Valentino <MeFineDevelop@aol.com>
Benson, - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 7:30 PM CDT

Lori this is Brenda I will be praying for you and if you need me let me know. Mama is going Monday Aug 11 at 10:45 to have her left knee done pray for her too. I love you.
Brenda Watson <Bwatson711@aol.com>
Clayton, NC US - Sunday, August 10, 2008 9:17 PM CDT

I am so sorry to hear what you all are going thru.
I remember Folden, I followed him from start to finish and he was such a sweet little boy. Did he have a friend call;ed I remember when Folden passed, alot of prayers went up for him and for all of you.
I am keeping you all in my prayers

Wasen't Folden in at the same time as Allie, she is also and Angel now. Too may kids are losing this battle.
Susan Hubley <susanhubley@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, August 7, 2008 12:46 AM CDT

Congratulations on having clear lymph nodes! That's simply wonderful!

Wishing you a fast recovery & lots of happy & healthy years ahead!
Jenn Hartley <hartley1025@verizon.net>
- Tuesday, August 5, 2008 2:36 PM CDT

Checked in to find a much welcomed update! You know you are always in my thoughts and prayers! I love ya! Lisa
Lisa Brown <charlieandlisa@embarqmail.com>
Sneads Ferry, NC - Saturday, August 2, 2008 11:45 AM CDT

Lori,
I am so glad you are recovering well. Please keep the faith, and yes, people do care and are praying for you!
Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@bellsouth.net>
Elon, NC usa - Saturday, August 2, 2008 3:43 AM CDT

Lori,

I just wanted to let you know that I am praying for you! I haven't been on the site in a while and was shocked to hear about what you are going through. I know you have a special little angel looking after you!
Sonja Hickman, RN <sonjahickman@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, August 2, 2008 0:06 AM CDT

Lori - We didn't know until today. Please know that we are praying and sending positive thoughts your way. If there is ever anything that we can do - please call. Even before this, we still think of you all daily. Your family has meant so much to us and you have had an impact on how we live our lives. thank you. Lindy sends her love.
Robbie & Lynn Gupton <Rgupton@wcpss.net>
Raleigh, NC - Tuesday, July 29, 2008 2:41 PM CDT

Lori, You and your family are in my prayers. God has given you a special ability to write/communicate your feelings and thoughts to help others. Keep using this gift. You have touched my heart and reminded me that life is very special and you should cherish each day with family and friends. May God bless you efforts.

Jody Castlelberry
Clayton, NC - Thursday, July 24, 2008 9:06 AM CDT

Lori you continue to inspire people near and far with your spirit and strength. Keep fighting the fight!! Your journaling about Folden on Caring Bridge gave me a place to go when my husband was diagnosed with a serious illness http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/jeffreysomach You have helped so many people without even knowing it!
Linda (friend of Cindy's ---husband with metastatic melanoma) <lippylulu@aol.com>
Staten Island, NY USA - Wednesday, July 23, 2008 6:19 AM CDT

Hey Crazy Lady - Welcome to the Club. Thank You for sharing your journey. Hope it helps to know that we never forget Folden and continue to check his site no matter how long it goes without an update. Blessings to You and Your Family. Be Well!
Linda Britt <lbritt@fmrealty.com>
Cary, NC USA - Tuesday, July 22, 2008 6:33 PM CDT

LORI, I GET SO MUCH INSPIRATION FROM YOUR JOURNAL ENTRIES AND AM IN AWE OF GOD'S GREATNESS EVEN DURING TIMES OF PHYSICAL SUFFERING. I PRAISE HIM AND PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I PRAY THAT HE WILL HEAL YOUR BODY AND RESTORE YOUR HEALTH AFTERALL YOU HAVE A WAYS TO GO TO 82!
PATRICIA BROWN <PCBROWN@FOUROAKSBANK.COM>
CLAYTON, NC 27527 - Tuesday, July 22, 2008 3:52 PM CDT

You are a very special lady. Just found your website and feel perhaps God has lead me here. I'm struggling to find a purpose in my life and while, honestly, I hope my wake call is not cancer, I know I need something. I'm praying and believing God will lead me where I need to be. You will stay in my thoughts and prayers. We're all struggling with one thing or another and it helps to know I'm not in this battle alone. Thanks for your profound thoughts and eye opening words! I pray for your strength, return to good health and am grateful for your words.
Beverly Atkins <bevwalks@aol.com>
Clayton, NC - Tuesday, July 22, 2008 7:59 AM CDT

Lori,I just found out today about your diagnosis. I am so very sorry you are having to go through "cancer" again. I burst into tears when I got the email from Cheryl. They say life is what happens when you are busy making other plans. I am sorry that I wasnt there when you were having surgery, had I known I would have been another face in the hallway or waiting room. Please let me know if I can do anything for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I will reach out to you soon. We love you!!!!!
Cindi Baker and family <cbaker012@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, NC - Monday, July 21, 2008 5:48 PM CDT

Lori,
You are such a special lady, I knew that the first time I met you. You are in my prayers. A strong, gifted, and wonderful mother! Take care.

Janet Pipkin <4pipkins@nc.rr.com>
Princeton, NC Johnston - Monday, July 21, 2008 11:02 AM CDT

Lori,

Thank you so much for taking the time to update, I go to bed thinking about you and wake up thinking about you and what you are going through. Praise GOD for NED!! I will continue to pray for your recovery and for your future, may it be full of blessings for you and your family!!
Cheryl Mills <cherylmil@nc.rr.com>
- Sunday, July 20, 2008 1:31 PM CDT

Lori, even though I haven't seen you in a while, I do think of you often and the happy times we have shared in years past. Even though friends might become distant doesn't mean that we have forgotten you. You can know that you will be in my prayers and if there is ever anything that I can do for you I will be there to help. Take care

Earlene Gatlin <mywaytoday@embarqmail.com>
Benson, NC US - Friday, July 18, 2008 9:40 PM CDT

Lori,
You and your family are in my prayers.
Rose Harper <gregswife@embarqmail.com>
Four Oaks, nc - Friday, July 18, 2008 10:06 AM CDT

Dear Lori,

We prayed for you before while Folden was in the process of earning his wings and we learned then that the apple doesn't fall far from the tree you are truly and amazing woman. Once again we'll continue to pray for you and for your family especially for your girls who have already been through so much. Keep that positive attitude going and we will get through this!!!!
The Joa's
Greenville, SC USA - Friday, July 18, 2008 9:11 AM CDT

Lori,
I know you are going to be fine. You will always be my Scorpio friend. We have had loads of fun in the past. Hang in there you have seen a lot of miracles so you know you have God on your side. I am thinking of you and praying for you.
Carol Johnson <c.johnson@earpappraisalservice.com>
Clayton, NC Johnston - Thursday, July 17, 2008 12:53 AM CDT

Lori,
You and your family are in my my prayers. I am re-growing hair and had radiation # 6 today! only 27 more to go!! If you need a shoulder that has recent experience call me....and by the way it is ok to feel sorry for yourself once in a while ..u are allowed!! Keep looking up ! Love and prayers.

Denise Evans <dte1366@yahoo.com>
Princeton, NC USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 3:40 PM CDT

Good luck!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!!
Sue Thomasson <sue@thomasson@johnstonnc.com>
Wendell, N.C. Johnston - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 2:45 PM CDT

Lori,
I do not know you personally but you have to be an amazing woman. I am a mother of three and I can't imagine what you have gone through or are going through but know that people you do not even know are praying for and thinking of you. You are an inspiration to me and just know, as I'm sure you do, that God is with you always and will never leave you. As my mother reminds me alot: Phillipians 4:13; I can to all things through CHRIST who strenghtens me!!! God Bless You, Heather Gerrell
Heather Gerrell <heather.gerrell@johnstonnc.com>
Selma, NC USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 1:41 PM CDT

Our prayers are with you and your family. Thanks for being so brutally honest. It sure makes one count the blessings usually taken for granted.
Wanda Barefoot
Benson, NC USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 11:33 AM CDT

I am so sorry to hear what you have had to face. But I do know also that God will be there every step of the way to walk with you and carry you if need be.
We at our office here(Dr. Joseeph Russell) did follow with Folden. I just want you to know that you all are in my heart and prayers and pray God will give you the strength that you need. God bless all of you and we send our love.
Brenda Baker, Wilson, NC
Brenda Baker <bbaker@cocentral.com>
Wilson, NC USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 10:04 AM CDT

I will be praying for each one of you and I am sending this out to all of my email friends to pray for you and your family. My husband has know Folden all of his life and we are patients of his. God will not let you down. Just stay focused on Him and He will carry each one of you through this and I know that you already know this, you will come out stronger on the other side of this.

Love in Christ,
The James Barbour Family
Marie Barbour <mbjsbarbour@aol.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 8:54 AM CDT

Lori, I am telling you we can cure you.
I am sending you a CURE for cancer with NO SIDE EFFECTS. It will also keep any malignancy from ever recurring and help the body recover from all of toxic treatments someone might undergo during conventional cancer treatment. See the dosing for prevention, which I also recommend to any family members who have experienced a malignancy in the family. Our entire family follows the diet and all of us take the Ellagic Acid, even baby Jaya who is 14 weeks old today. The diet will help with preventing heart disease, high and low blood pressure, diabetes and many other illnesses. I have many notes in the diet and at the bottom so you can see some things that we have added or changed per the help of Dr. Gomez and in consideration of the age of our children. Please find the diet attached as a word document. I am also pasting 3 links with articles for you to read that give you the science behind why we are determined to cut most GRAINS out of our diet. Very interesting stuff and our biggest challenge �dietarily� speaking; it is harder than giving up cheese! Here are also a few links about how our milk is tainted and how bad SOY is for you as well.

GRAINS:
http://www.mercola.com/article/carbohydrates/paleolithic_diet.htm
http://www.mercola.com/article/carbohydrates/scientific_evidence_low_grains.htm
http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2000/10/08/sugar-cancer-part-one.aspx
MILK:
http://www.mercola.com/article/milk/no_milk.htm
http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2004/07/17/cla-cancer.aspx
http://www.realmilk.com/where.html
SOY:
http://www.soyonlineservice.co.nz/
http://www.mercola.com/article/soy/index.htm
http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2000/02/13/more-on-soy.aspx

You can call Mike Jones a local farmer here in NC who can tell you about how some cuts of pork are as healthy as salmon because of the omega 3 oils in it, he can also talk to you about how real milk can help reduce cholesterol and promote healthy development of our bodies especially in children. He also has useful insight about how America has put farmer�s under pressure to use unreasonable practices to raise large quantities of meat and how we are being poisoned by commodity meats sold in grocery stores. 252-430-1988

Please remember that all healing begins with faith. You have to have faith in your physician as well in the prescription. Meena has proven that this works. Dr. Gomez told me that he has been healing people of cancer for years. He says it is more difficult for him to find those who believe him than those who are happy to know there is a cure. I have learned this myself over the past couple of weeks. It is so strange and sad to know there are too many people out there suffering needlessly. If you read this link from the FDA you will see why most people hesitate to have faith in natural treatments. I am pasting an exchange I shared with Dr. Gomez, which includes the FDA link:

In a message dated 7/10/2008 7:01:14 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, Gomez writes:
Thank you Niti.
Over the past 15 years or so, I have been painfully aware of the rejection by the medical establishment of simple, natural and relatively inexpensive products that can be helpful to many people. However, unfortunately and very regretfully greed and hunger for money of many individuals and powerful companies and organizations in America are trying to lead consumers in the wrong direction. It is really a shame.
The good news is that over the last 8-10 years more and more people are becoming aware of the many benefits of Alternative and Complementary Medicine.
Yes, it is true too that many unethical companies and individuals are profiting from the suffering of others by making false claims and selling products, devices or machines, which are completely worthless. I have been there too, and many times disappointed as well.
As for my self, I just keep a low profile and make no claims of any kind or accept any charges, fees or donations from those that benefit from my suggestions in order to avoid problems with the forces of darkness so prevalent in this time of spiritual neglect.
Gomez
In a message dated 7/9/2008 11:18:27 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, nbali@nc.rr.com writes:http://www.fda.gov/bbs/topics/NEWS/2008/NEW01852.html
Dr. Gomez, I now understand all the reasons why you are not sharing this cure for cancer with anyone. Check out this link. It probably is nothing new to you. I can completely believe that the �mafia� as you call it is controlling more than the drug companies. It is truly a crime that so many people have to suffer and die because of these greedy, selfish people. I never realized how inhumane our fellow human beings can actually be. I do not know how they go to sleep at night knowing what they are doing to other human beings every day. I feel so na�ve after reading this publication by the FDA. I hope you are doing well. We are praying for your good health and prosperity every day. Thank you for choosing to work for God and helping us save our precious Meenakshi. We are forever in your debt. With Deepest Gratitude, Niti
Meenakshi�s medications are:
The Ellagic Acid works for current malignancies and as a preventative supplement. It is reported to stop the production of malignant cells within 48 hours of ingestion and then it begins to kill the existing malignant cells in the body after 72 hours. By taking this as a preventative measure, it will not allow malignant cells to be produced in the body. The diet is a very important part of keeping your body toxic free so these things should be done simultaneously to be sure to prevent malignancies or to kill those cells in the body. Dosing for adults should be 3 tablets per day to kill malignant cells until remission, 1 tablet per day to be used for prevention. For children 12 and under, 1 tablet twice a day or a teaspoon of the powder twice a day to stop malignancies. For prevention give them one � teaspoon or 1 tablet per day.
Ellagic Acid can be purchased at:
http://www.ellagic.net/?gclid=CIK-vOujn5QCFR0RnQodlDfhBQ
Essiac is supposed to help the Ellagic Acid work more efficiently and a lot faster. It is also good to detoxify your body or remedy the harmful effects that X-RAYS, chemotherapy and Radiation can have on your body which are also causes of malignancies or secondary cancers. This tonic also has many other benefits. Please read all about it on their website. Dosing should be as per the bottle. Dr. Gomez only recommends the elixir form of this remedy. This is only to be used to fight malignancies and not on an ongoing basis like the Ellagic Acid for purposes of prevention. The Essiac can be purchased at:
http://www.essiac-resperin.com/ As with any medical treatment, the patient would need to have faith in this prescription and must follow the treatment properly for a cure against malignancies of any kind. It is not recommended to increase the dosing just because this medicine is natural and not synthetic. Remember to respect Mother Nature.

Niti Bali <nbali@nc.rr.com>
Raleigh, NC USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 8:04 AM CDT

Lori

I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I went through a bi-lateral mastectomy and 6 chemo treatments 2 years ago. There is a tremendous amount of support in the Triangle area for Breast Cancer survivors, and you are one already! I attend a support group twice a month at Duke Raleigh Hospital in Raleigh. It is a great group of women and I invite you to come. Please contact me as I live in Johnston County and I would love to carpool with you. It has been a wonderful addition to my life and an unbelievable benefit to be able to discuss all I went through with other women who totally understand. You and your family will be in my prayers and please know I am here for you for what every you may need.
Karen Drumm
Clayton, NC USA - Wednesday, July 16, 2008 7:41 AM CDT

Lori, I have written to you in email form but I felt the need to post here. I too am a friend of Cindy and Matt. As I told you in email, I had a bilatery mastectomy on June 30, 2000. I had cancer in both breast AND I am still here. I had 8 aggressive chemo treatments the last one being on Dec. 26, 2000.
While you were dealing with Folden I was with you thru this journal. I laughed with you. I cried with you. When Folden became an angel, I felt that a special child was taken from us way to soon. I have said many time I wish that I could trade places with Folden and other young people who are taken from us due to cancer. I have lived a full life and they had their lives in front of them. I prayed for Folden and your family throughout this journey.
Now I turn my prayers for you and your upcoming surgery and treatment. I have heard and believe this: HUMOR IS THE BEST DEFENSE FOR CANCER. You also must do your homework and become knowledgeable of your diesase. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I am here for you.

Pat Rode <shipalum@aol.com>
Greater Harrisburg Area, PA USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2008 6:20 PM CDT

Lori, I have written to you in email form but I felt the need to post here. I too am a friend of Cindy and Matt. As I told you in email, I had a bilatery mastectomy on June 30, 2000. I had cancer in both breast AND I am still here. I had 8 aggressive chemo treatments the last one being on Dec. 26, 2000.
While you were dealing with Folden I was with you thru this journal. I laughed with you. I cried with you. When Folden becanme an angel, I felt that a special child was taken from us way to soon. I have said many time I wish that I could trade places with Folden and other young people who are taken from us due to cancer. I have lived a full life and they had their life in front of them. I prayed for Folden and your family.
Now I turn my prayers for your upcoming surgery and treatment. I have heard and believe this HUMOR IS THE BEST DEFENSE FOR CANCER.When you click on the link to check the meaning of the word all you see is sponsored links Buy a link here.You also must do your homeword and become knowledgeable of your diesase. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I am here for you

Pat Rode <shipalum@aol.com>
Greater Harrisburg Area, PA USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2008 6:15 PM CDT

Lori,
I heard about you having breast cancer and your already in my prayers. I have a little boy with blond hair and blue eyes and as you know he is my joy. You have been through more than anyone that I know of. To be able to still keep your head above water is remarkable. God sees how very strong you are and uses you to strenghen others. YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS EVERY DAY.
Terri Shaw Carraway <bcarraway@embarqmail.com>
Clayton, NC U.S. - Monday, July 14, 2008 9:04 AM CDT

Hi Lori, I'm a friend of Cindy's (Matt's Mom) and have known her through the chat room for years. She's blessed my life in many ways as well as her son Matt. When little Folden was sick she sent everyone the caring bridge to keep up with the updates and such. I was sadden when he died and lit a candle for his safe passage to be an Angel of God.
Now.... it's time for us to pray for you. You seem so much like my favorite aunt. She too lost her son of leukemia... although he wasn't as young as your son but still it was painful. Then recently on the 8th anniversary of his death, she got the news that she has breast cancer. It was quite ironic. Within a week and a half the decision was made for her to have double mastectomy and after that she'll go through chemo. I'm not sure about the radiation, I believe they were planning to hold on to that thought after they see how she did. According to my mom she's doing quite well. I believe you will too. I pray that whatever happens from this will be a blessing in disguise and it'll bring you and your family close again.
BTW..feeling sorry for yourself is not such a bad thing once in a while. It's okay to go through that and allow yourself a little pitty party (as I've had many a times). Sometimes, feeling sorry for yourself you'll find that you're working through certain things that you didnt work through while you stayed so busy and it can be quite helpful. So dont beat yourself over the head for those times you went through those times. It's okay. We all do it, sometimes we need it.
You are so right about one thing. GOD IS IN CONTROL. Whatever he allows our way... He allows it because he KNOWS we have the strength to get through it even when it seems we dont think we have that strength...but apparently God sees something in us that we cut our selves short for. In the end......we realize that we can get through anything with his help. That's what life's all about, having faith, and asking God for help in times of crises as well as times of happiness and sorrow as well as anger even.
Just know that you are NOT alone. You're never alone even when at times you'll feel alone. Someone out there is thinking of you all the time. I still think of you and your family and how y'all were dealing with the little one being an Angel watching over you as a guardian Angel. I just know he'll be right there with you as you go through your surgery holding your hand whispering in your ear "it's okay mommy everything'll be just fine."
I'm praying for you as well and will tell my daughter what's going on too. She too watched and read with me all the updates on that precious boy of yours. She prayed all the time for him and cried when i told her that he went home to Heaven. She's asked on several occasions if you'd made any other updates and when I looked there were none. I told her with all the things going on with the foundations and stuff you were probably very busy. She agreed and understood. She'll definitely want to know about this so she too can pray. She's got a huge heart even for people she's never met.
Keep us posted as often as you can. If you can let us know through Cindy possibly when your surgery is scheduled for so we know which day to pray on. And know...some how some way, spiritually you'll be surrounded by many, holding your hand, praying over you, thinking of you, praying for the doctors and everything. I have the faith that you'll do just fine and you will feel so much better once it's all over. My aunt's amazed how much better she feels as well. She, like you, is a very strong lady and very much in tune about how God's in control over everything. You'd really like her, as i believe she'd really like you.

God bless....hang in there....and remember , you're NOT alone!
((((((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Beverly Davis <ibebionicwmn@aol.com>
Hartselle, AL USA - Monday, July 14, 2008 3:15 AM CDT

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dianne Creech <ladydi2000@embarqmail.com>
Smithfield, NC Johnston - Sunday, July 13, 2008 3:00 PM CDT

Lori, my prayers go out for you and your family. May God hold you in his hands, and give you the strength you need. I understand the question of "why me?". I asked it just over a year ago when diagnosed with a permanent and progressive liver disease. There is no answer to "why me?", it is as it is. I followed your journal with Folden, after Matt's mom, Cindy, sent the link. I know Cindy from the Women's Chat Room. Prayers from these people gave me the comfort that I have needed more than once, I hope they provide you with comfort also.
T. Berriault <tdberriault@aol.com>
Regina, SK Canada - Saturday, July 12, 2008 3:53 PM CDT

I am a friend of Matt and Cindy's, and was touched by Folden's journey years back. My husband now too has a very serious cancer (metastatic melanoma with brain metastisis) My heart and prayers are with you as you begin your treatment and hopefully the road to health. FYI, there is an alternative cancer treatment that is showing promise for people called LDN (Low Dose Naltrexone). There is a Yahoo group about it at http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/LDN_4_cancer/ My husband is taking LDN and while we have no idea if it is doing anything for him, it has no side effects. Love, strength and prayers to you and your family.
Linda <lippylulu@aol.com>
Staten Island, NY USA - Saturday, July 12, 2008 10:39 AM CDT

Praying for you!
Charlene
Raleigh, nc - Thursday, July 10, 2008 1:36 PM CDT

Praying for you!
Kristy G
Princeton, nc - Thursday, July 10, 2008 7:26 AM CDT

Lori,
I cannot imagine what you are having to go through, and I was saddened to read about your illness. I just know your girls are as beautiful as ever and they will help you through this. Foldie Lee is missed a great deal, and will never be forgotten. He taught me alot about life, strength, and being a better nurse. I will never take my childrens' health for granted. I pray for your speedy recovery! If anyone can beat this, you can. Take care and God Bless You!
Bethany Kistler <bnkistler@bellsouth.net>
Elon, NC USA - Thursday, July 10, 2008 3:04 AM CDT

It is wonderful what you are doing to help families. I commend you all. My three year old son is a brain tumor survior - treated and saved at UNC Hospitals. We have been through the financial struggle of having an ill child and couldn't have made it back and forth to Chapel Hill each day if it weren't for friends and family's assistance. You guys are amazing... Little Folden is an Angel. Thanks for doing what you do.
CE Hailey
Cary, NC USA - Monday, June 23, 2008 11:20 AM CDT

thinking of you this weekeknd. sorry for your lose. sorry!
lsh
- Thursday, May 22, 2008 10:32 PM CDT

Lori, I am DeLayne's Mom and she has told me so much about you and what all you have been through. I cannot imagine having to deal with all that you have had, and I Thank God that this has not touched our family so far. However, DeLayne and I have friends here in her hometown of Copperas Cove, Tx that have just learned that they are facing this terrible cancer. Their oldest, Dustin 6 year old has just been diagnoised and it is a horrible thing for the entire family. DeLayne told me that she had submitted their names for assistance from your foundation and I just want to say how proud I am of her for doing so and to thank you for any assistance you can give. This is a very young couple, they have a 3 yr old at home also. Both parents work for Wal-Mart and really don't make that much money. Right now they are driving approximately 60 miles one way to take Dustin to the hospital, at least every 3 day. They have used all their sick leave, vacation time and now when they have to be off work they are not getting paid. So anything you and your foundation can do for them will be greatly appreciated. Thank you for all that you do. I have spent the morning on this site and have read of so much pain and how much you have helped others.

I am very happy that DeLayne found you and was able to work for you at your girls spa. She LOVES working there and the people she works for and with. It is all she talks about when we talk. Since she has lived there I have flown up several times for a week's visit. I don't plan on a trip this summer at this time, but I do look so forward to meeting you when I do make another trip. DeLayne is my "baby" and we have been through alot together and I love her so much and am so proud of her. She has handled her life in such a positive way these past few years.

And those boys, well they are my heart and soul! I cannot describe how much I love them.

God Bless you and your family.

Cyndi Patton
Kempner, TX
Cynthia (Cyndi) Patton <cpatton1@hot.rr.com>
Kempner, Tx USA - Thursday, May 22, 2008 1:41 PM CDT

God bless you in all that you do.
Cyrus Moon <cyrus.moon@gmail.com>
Fresno, CA USA - Tuesday, April 1, 2008 0:49 AM CDT

Dear Foldon's Family,
I want to let you all know that Mrs. Jill King came to talk to my school class today. It really touched my heart because when I was born I had a hole in my heart and I had to have open heart surgery when I was 13 months old so me and my family know what you went through. God blessed me and my family and I made it through the surgery. I want you all to know that God is in control and that I am going to be praying for your family.

i am Sarah J. Honeycutt <amyhoney@embarkmail.com>
Fuquay varina, NC USA - Thursday, January 10, 2008 6:13 PM CST

hey mrs. lori -
i havent talked to you in a while.
i just wanted to say hey, i hope everyone is doing good<3
i love you !
kayla
- Tuesday, January 1, 2008 8:17 PM CST

Hi all..just want you to know I thought about your family today..hope you had good Christmas and please have a healthy and happy 2008. Always and forever holding your hand.
Love,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <jaycin1@aol.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 8:21 PM CST

Just checking in. We think of you guys everyday. Hope everyone is well and happy.
The Gupton Family <Robbiegupton@earthlink.net>
Raleigh, NC - Friday, December 21, 2007 2:10 PM CST

Lori,

Just stopped by to check how things are going. What a wonderful blessing to read of so many that the foundation has helped...since I haven't posted to your site in a very long time, I wanted you to know that Mike passed away on October 8...he always enjoyed talking with Mr. Lee on our stay together at Duke. Now, he and Lane are together...and that thought gives me tremendous peace...Continuing to remember you always in prayer.
Diane Hancock... ...caringbridge.org/ky/lanehancock <dianeh66@hotmail.com>
Hanson, ky - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 3:48 AM CST

Thank you so much for the me fine foundation! My family is going through hardship with our 2 year old son with brain cancer, and the me fine foundation has helped us, and when we get back on our feet, we will help the foundation too. Sending prayers your way from the BECKER FAMILY!www.caringbridge.org/visit/sethbecker
Tina (seths mom)Becker <greenigirl2u@aol.com>
Iron Station , nc - Wednesday, November 14, 2007 11:41 AM CST

Thanks for everything.
Candace Barker <candace_m_barker@yahoo.com>
Sparta, NC - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:23 PM CDT

Hi guys. Just thinking of you all, which we still do daily. Hope you're doing well.
Robbie & Lynn Gupton <robbiegupton@earthlink.net>
Raleigh, NC - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 7:51 PM CDT

hello Lori and family this is kiona how are you gys doing. I am doing great I am now going to Lenoir Community College. not too far from you guys I hope that things are going great with you all I am doing wonderful, I play volleyball. here also. i miss you guys sooooooo much. and KD my brother started school today. he was so excited. I went by the road to your house the other day when we came back from a volleyball game. I almost cried. well I have to go so I will write back soon please e mail me and let me know how things are going. ok bye bye
Kiona Bowen <livin4dee_14@hotmail.com>
Beulaville, NC USA - Monday, August 27, 2007 2:19 PM CDT

Caringbridge Test
CaringBridge
Eagan, MN - Monday, August 27, 2007 2:15 PM CDT

Dear Lori and Friends of Me Fine... This Friday June 1st starts the annual Relay For Life, sponsored by ACS; come join us and celebrate the victories over cancer and honor those that have gone to be with God. Our team F.R.O.G. (Forever Relying on God)has completed a Relay quilt for the fight against cancer and is one of many items that is being raffled by participating teams. Come join us at the Johnston Community College Campus to see the wonder of this event. In addition there is all kinds of foods to enjoy after a lap or two around the campus pond. And on Saturday we now have a new youth rally to encourage youth survivors and friends to have a special cermony and walk. God Bless.
Bill Royal <lcroyal@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, Nc USA - Thursday, May 31, 2007 8:31 AM CDT

Dear Lori,
So glad to hear some updates...sorry things were such a mess for so many months..hoping everything will go in the right direction now, you certainly deserve it! Your writing is always so inspirational, I just love it! Take care and know I am always thinking about you :)
Love,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Sunday, May 20, 2007 3:06 PM CDT

Lori..I just want to let you know I come to this site just about every day..just something I feel I have to do...still holding your forever my friend!
Love you,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Monday, April 16, 2007 8:55 AM CDT

Lori,
Hope you all had a Blessed Easter.

Amanda Dean <ktal3879@aol.com>
Clayton, NC - Monday, April 9, 2007 9:13 AM CDT

Lori,
I am totally speechless too...always holding your hand but this time in silence...there are just no words to say.
Much Love,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 2:18 PM CST

Hey Mrs. Lori, anna gaites, wilson and Mr. Folden this is Kiona I just wanted to say hey to everyone. I miss you guys alot. I decided to write since I am on the computer everyday since I have a on line class at school mama tried to get a hold of you guys to invite yall to my surprise bday party (i AM NOW 18 YAY)

Well the bell is about to ring so I hope yall are doing well and tell everyone that I said hello bye bye
Kiona Bowen <livin4dee_14@hotmail.com>
Beulaville, NC USA - Monday, February 26, 2007 10:11 AM CST

So sorry Lori, you have seen and felt so much, too much. I am always amazed at the strength the Lord has given you to do all that you do. Praying you will continue to seek him and draw strength from him. Don't forget to take care of yourself,(and that goes for Lisa B. as well!) you are just as important to him as all the families you help.
Cheryl Mills <cherylmil@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Sunday, February 25, 2007 9:55 AM CST

Thinking of you today.
Bailey family <jlnn@bellsouth.net>
Raleigh, NC - Saturday, February 24, 2007 3:37 PM CST

Lori,
Thnking of you today. I pray God's peace for you.

Brenda <bplatacis@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 10:19 PM CST

i love you mrs. Lori!!!
chasney Gurley <chaznj@yahoo.com>
princeton, nc usa - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 8:02 AM CST

I am so sorry for Maci's loss. Words can't express how sad I feel. We have lost so many children along the way that it's impossible to tell you how I feel or how Matt feels. I don't have any words of wisdom, I just have to feel in my heart that she is in a better place now.
Lori, you are an amazing woman and I will always admire your strength and wisdom.
Always holding your hand..
Love,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Sunday, February 18, 2007 10:31 AM CST

Never forgetting Folden....
I'm thinking of you guys...
Take care,
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
Carolina , Puerto Rico - Monday, February 5, 2007 2:04 PM CST

HI!!! You probaly dont know me but if you know Rebbeca Simpson than you must be fimillour with our school!!!!God is with you alwys and dont forget that!!!
Ashley Scott <95cheer02@earthlink.net>
Wake Forest, NC United States - Thursday, February 1, 2007 9:49 AM CST

Reading your entry made me remember not to be too hard on myself...I always want to do more...but I forget to give myself credit for a decent job done at most of what I tackle...and an excellent job at some things too. Thank you for the enlightening entry.

I began following Folden's site several years back through Spencer Rocket when he was at Duke. My daughter had a similar leukemia at the time. Every once in a while I wonder back and wish I could win the lottery so I could send you $$ to spread to those in need.

Love from CA,
Cali Ali's Mom
Marey <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, January 23, 2007 11:41 PM CST

Lori-

I find myself always coming back to see what you have wrote and how you and your family or doing. You have made such an impact on my life and how I view and do things each day. I know God works through you because you have inspired so many..... I have never met you in person but I feel like you have always been a part of my life. All I can say is I am proud of what you do and the leadership you provide. Keep up the good work with Me Fine Foundation!
I know Little Foldie is up there bursting with pride for all his mother and family has done with ME FINE..
ROBYN ROSS <robyn.ross@ncfbins.com>
SELMA, NC USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:32 AM CST

Oh Lori...I have finally read the updates since the start of December. My heart is so heavy...As I have wrote so many times...I can't imagine what you go though with every passing day... Such faith. And your strength is amazing to me. I am a wallower (remember?). I think of you guys all of the time, and just pray...Best wishes for everything beautiful in the new year.
Jenny Parrish <JennyParrish@johnston.k12.nc.us>
Smithfield, NC USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 7:35 AM CST

Hi all! Just want to wish you a happy and healthy 2007...may Me Fine find much prosperity this year, so you can help all the people that need it. Happy Birthday Folden..we think of you every day!
Much love, prayers and hope in our hearts,
Cindy, Jay, Rachel and Matt
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Sunday, December 31, 2006 10:00 PM CST

Lori, sorry I was away from the computer yesterday. I pray you found peace in knowing Folden is celebrating with Jesus. Happy Birthday Folden.

Karen Norfleet <karennorfleet@gmail.com>
Wilson, NC USA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 2:50 PM CST

Dearest Lee family;
I'm thinking of Folden today...and of all of you...
I know Folden had a wonderful birthday in heaven; I hope your day here on earth was one full of many strong memories of your precious angel.
God bless you. Your family is in my thoughts,
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, December 27, 2006 10:50 PM CST

Hi Lee Family. I know today must be a very difficult day. You all have been in my thoughts and I hope you had a Merry Christmas and a Great New Year!
Donna Latham <donnalatham@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 9:03 PM CST

Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas.
Amanda Parks
Clayton, NC - Friday, December 22, 2006 6:22 AM CST

Hey Lori,
I just wanted to let you know my sister n law and I made our first of many visits to your shop on 70. It was wonderful. I know i did not spend much but was happy to know where it was going. my husband has been wanting to take up golfing and i know he does not have much time,nor do i have the money to spend on a new set like he would want. And much to my surprise you had a full set and a bag there!!!!!!! It made my christmas to know that I could give some money to help with someone in need and my husband could get a great gift for Christmas. God does answer even the smallest of prayers!
Crystal Johnson <crystal.johnson@ncfbins.com>
Smithfield, NC - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 3:48 PM CST

Hi! Just want to let you know, we all think about you every day. With the holidays approaching, The Me Fine Foundation becomes an angel for every family in need. My heart goes out to each and everyone of them. The difference you are making in these lives is just incredible.
We are going to be in the hospital Christmas week. Matt needs a special pancreas test and we want to try and avoid him missing school. Unfortunately, the test can cause pancreatitis, so as a precaution, we are staying overnight. We can only hope this doesn't happen. I know your holidays will be filled with a ton of emotions but you have to know in your hearts the impact you have made on others.
God Bless You All...always holding your hand!
Love,
Cindy, Jay, Rachel and Matt
Schechter Family <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 8:57 AM CST

I was thinking of your family with the holidays coming up. I just reread yur halloween at your old house, I can only imagine. I'm sorry that your life has changed so. and am always impressed with how much you have accomplished in Folden's name. Well I just wanted to let you know I think of folden and his family often. I have a friend that's daughter had a transplant and doing well and has been making carepacks for other families as a way of giving back, i was talking to her today (caringbridge.org/nj/kyliejae ) she was saying Duke is one of the hospitals they want to start sending packs too soon and I told her she should get in touch w/ you. well your in my prayers, lyn www.caringbridge.org/nj/justinw
ps ooh I don't know if you know Jake Raborn but he's been pretty busy since he became and Angel too. his family is just starting a foundation and just gotsome great news http://www.caringbridge.org/la/jakeowen/
Lyn Wyatt <glwyatt@gmail.com>
stratford, nj usa - Thursday, December 7, 2006 6:26 PM CST

Hello Lee Family
I think of you guys often. You guys don't know me, except for Dr. Lee, I worked on 4th Floor at UNC with the students about 4-5 years ago. I to am a mother who has a angel in heaven named Chase. It marked 7 years yesterday that he left this world at the age of 3. He has born with severe congenital heart defects and had major surgerys. His last surgery did not go well and even though he fought for 2 weeks at UNC hospital the Lord still had other plans. I read your beautiful story and you described everything I to felt as a mother about my son. You are also right about God, He has a plan greater than we could ever imagine even though the plan my not go the way we wanted. Please keep on fighting the good fight of faith and know that you have a sister that understands and lifts your family up in prayer when I think of you. Be Blessed
Christy Allen <chase_27522@yahoo.com>
Creedmoor, NC Granville - Monday, November 20, 2006 9:57 AM CST

I check in every so often...our friend Spencer Rocket was at Duke when Folden was. I loved reading your entry about the wheel chair. We just recently gave Ali's away...I put it on Craig's List for $10...I had a few response but it wasn't right for the first few people and then when I found the person it would work for we gave it to them for free....and it felt good! I did like your dinner idea...I will have to do that when I finally eat out:)

Please email me on how to order Tupperware as there are some items I need.

Thinking of you in CA,
XXOO, Marey, Ali's mom
Cali Ali
Marey <kteachermom@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, November 19, 2006 11:29 PM CST

Thank you for still caring about families in need. I still enjoy reading your entries; so please don't stop writing. I am still hoping that one day you will write many books about you and your family lives. I do check on you from time to time when we visit Folden's office. One Saturday I am going to make it to one of the stores. I want to see the handmade pocketbooks and Christmas ornaments. I know you will have many jewels in your crown one day for the blessings you have given to so many people through your words of wisdom as well as financial help. I always am touched by your words of wisdom. Yes, Folden was given to you for a special purpose. He was an angel on earth for a short while and yes I feel he is still touching our lives today as an angel. May God continue to give you the strength and courage that you need to continue your mission.
Jill Pilkington
Clayton, NC USA - Thursday, November 16, 2006 10:05 AM CST

Mrs. Lori,

There is never a day that I don't think about you. When I am online and I see your name pop up, it just reminds me about how thankful we should be and how much we take little things for granted. But you, you always count your blessings. You are my hero. I think about you everyday and I will never forget you or your family.

Mama says hello.
Kayla <hColOvE43@aim.com>
- Monday, November 13, 2006 6:55 PM CST

KEEP WRITING! I ENJOY READING EACH ENTRY. WILL ME FINE BE SPONSERING ONE OF THE CHRISTMAS SHOWS IN SELMA THIS TIME.
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!
BRANDI EDWARDS <nelmslogging@earthlink.net>
LOUISBURG, NC USA - Monday, November 13, 2006 3:57 PM CST

I know nothing that anyone can say will make the hurt go away or make the days any easier, but I want to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you everyday. And I think that you are very brave to continue on as you have. I just want you to know that your son is in such a better place right now. And I know that there is no better place then with you but I know in my heart he is so very happy. He is looking down on you and seeing all you are doing and smiling. All of my best to you, and remember you are in our hearts. And in our prayers. Please Keep up the good work and know that you are making a difference.
Theresa Johnson <Ttmj30@aol.com>
Smithfield, NC USA - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 1:38 PM CST

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
- quote from Leo Buscaglia

Lori,
Time can be measured by a hourly wage.
Items can be priced to sell.
The lives you & your "me fine" team have touched & turned around . . .
is priceless!

Still supporting you from Florida!
Mary-Ellen Cobb (Kyle's Mom) <MEC.FL@att.net>
Pinellas Park, FL USA - Wednesday, October 25, 2006 11:49 PM CDT

Lori..your words tug at my heart so, as I feel the same way in so many of the same situations. I sent out a letter along with the Me Fine website asking for donations before the end of the year. Trying to do my part here but sure wish I was closer to help you.
Hang in there and never stay in bed! I'm holding you hand dragging you out..remember that!
Much Love,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Sunday, October 22, 2006 7:36 PM CDT

You are all so strongly on my mind tonight...I don't sign much but I'm here all the time, checking for new updates. My emotions are overwhelming right now, and words wouldn't suffice, but I just had to at least say "hi".
Take care,
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, October 15, 2006 8:22 PM CDT

Lisa, to be honest, this is the first time I've been able to sit and read about Folden since first speaking with you. Not for any other reason but because of the emotions I feel with Eddie and then realizing that you feel the same ones everyday. I've told you countless times "thank you" over the past few months, but "thank you" for sharing Folden & your stories. I will say a special prayer for your family today! With love always!
Miranda <racingrl1980@yahoo.com>
Greensboro, NC - Saturday, October 14, 2006 9:58 AM CDT

Lori..All I can say is WOW WOW WOW!! Still amazes me all you do for everyone! Glad you take time for yourself and your family as well. I am totally speechless on your accomplishments.
Holding your hand and skipping now!
Love you,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Tuesday, September 26, 2006 7:31 PM CDT

Praise the LORD for all he has done.....Sometimes he puts alittle test in our midst to keep us in check....you passed the test!!! Great and wonderful is HE! Lori, so glad to hear your news.
Sandra Stallings <sandraastallings@yahoo.com>
Rocky Mount, NC - Sunday, September 10, 2006 9:02 PM CDT

Yeah!!!!!!! Sometimes God just wants to hear you say "I trust you" I am so happy that you did, and that now you have this behind you. Praise God! I knew he wouldn't take you from us, way to many people are feeling his love and comfort because of you and your journeys. See ya Tuesday...
Cheryl Mills <cherylmil@nc.rr.com>
Clayton, NC usa - Friday, September 8, 2006 4:23 PM CDT

Thinking and praying for you and your family today and always!
Crystal Murphy <kerropi_18@yahoo.com>
Durham, NC 27712 - Friday, September 1, 2006 1:43 PM CDT

Got you all in my heart, and lifting you up in prayer.
kelli fisk <kelli.fisk@ncmail.net>
clayton, nc - Friday, September 1, 2006 12:12 AM CDT

As others have said Lori, I enjoy your writing and thoughts that make us stop and thank God again for his many blessings, all the little things we get too busy and forget about. You should write a book. You have such a way with words; they bring me to tears. I pray that your biopsy result comes back negative and the surgery to remove the mass goes well. Please keep us posted. I know you will. I continue to pass your needs on to organizations I think can assist you with items and always look for upcoming events. Take care and may God continue to shine through you and bless your family! Love, Angela
Angela Harris <angela.harris@talecris.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Friday, September 1, 2006 9:25 AM CDT

Thinking of Folden so much tonight, on the eve of his angel anniversary. I remember exactly where I was when I found out he had finally taken his last breath...and how devastated I was. I don't think I could ever forget such a precious little boy, (not that I would ever want to anyway). God bless you with strong, beautiful memories and the gentlest of pain tomorrow and forever. I'll be praying for that.
Take care.
Love,
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
ottawa, ontario canada - Thursday, August 31, 2006 9:21 PM CDT

Lori,I am praying for GOD's will for the outcome of your tests. You are in great HANDS!
Sandra Stallings <sandraastallings@yahoo.com>
Rocky Mount, NC - Thursday, August 31, 2006 7:15 PM CDT

I'm praying all goes perfectly with your surgery. I think of you guys very often.
Take care and God bless,
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, August 30, 2006 8:18 AM CDT

Lori,

I am always in tears at the end of your posts. I hope all goes well for you with the surgery. You always provide a reality check, and you are so right. I struggle with personal issues (ie weight, wearing glasses etc) really stupid stuff, when I read your posts I am reminded how really trivial those things are, I am blessed, I am able to tuck my kids in at night, and do all those things alot of mom's can't because their chidren are sick. My heart breaks for every parent and child out there that are facing a life trheating illness.

You make me realize how truly grateful and blessed I am.

God Bless
Kim Hamilton
Coquitlam, Canada - Tuesday, August 29, 2006 3:26 PM CDT

Thanks Lori for the reality check, sometimes I do need it when life gets hectic. Praying your surgery and results will go well and you and your family will have reassurance of your good health!
Cheryl Mills <cherylmil@nc.rr.com>
clayton, NC USA - Monday, August 28, 2006 7:02 AM CDT

Just wanted to say Hi...it has been a long time since talking with or seeing any of you all...sounds like the foundation is doing great...so happy to hear that...I think of Folden and your family often, even more so when we are at Duke...We are still there quite often as Nicole is still going through cancer...she had surgery in May to remove nodules in her lung...there are more nodules, so we are facing more treatment with chemo...Actually, it was her who had just asked me about the foundation and your family, so I decided to check the website...your page on Folden's story is so beautifully written...I am honored to have had the chance to meet your son...We will continue to think of you all in prayer...please do the same for us...would love to hear from you
Amanda Bjorling <myjsandme@yahoo.com>
Clayton, NC USA - Sunday, August 13, 2006 6:35 PM CDT

Hi mrs. lori ... just wanted to stop by ... you know .. some people my think im way too young to understand ... but i really think about what you sayy ... and it helps me...understand...and like the person before me said Little Folden is still at work on earth...

Take Care,
Kayla
Kayla <LiLkAy0397@aim.com>
- Thursday, August 10, 2006 8:27 PM CDT

Lori, you never cease to amaze me. You always make me stop and think about the things you say. I also believe we are on this earth to help one another, but the way you put it into words is deep. Thank you for all you do, and Judy, Lisa, Lisa and the other volunteers too. You change so many lives, little Folden is still at work on Earth, he is just working through each of you.
Karen Norfleet <karennorfleet@gmail.com>
Wilson, NC USA - Thursday, August 3, 2006 8:04 AM CDT

Lori,
Anxiously awaiting to hear Josh's interpret of the second verse. Thank you so much for sharing with us, as I for one, had not heard of the second verse before.
Thanks once again...

Rhonda <rhondabill@aol.com>
Springfield, MO - Monday, July 31, 2006 7:53 PM CDT

WOW Lori..you have a lot going on for Me Fine..it's just amazing! Guess the girls will be starting school again before you know it. Hope they are doing well and I think about all of you every day. Keep those updates coming, I love reading about all the wonderful things you do!
Always holding your hand with love,
Cindy

Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Friday, July 28, 2006 6:54 PM CDT

Lori, I think of you so often. We were in North Carolina with the Guptons two weeks ago, and it was so great to see Lindy, Kate, Lynn and Robbie. (Lynn and my husband Matthew are first cousins) It is through them that I learned of Folden and your family. I check in all the time to see what amazing things you and Me Fine are accomplishing. It's so impressive. Thank you for continuing to inspire me with your attitude, determination and desire. Love, Mary
Mary Elder <Mary.R.Elder@NationalCity.com>
Louisville, KY - Tuesday, July 25, 2006 2:17 PM CDT

Hi Lori,
I just wanted to let you know I still check Folden's site. I hope you are all doing well.
Hey...I follow another little girl's CB site who lives in Smithfield. She has just recently relapsed. caringbridge.org/nc/sarahsmith I'm sure you already know her family since her dad is pastor at First Assembly in Smithfield. But, just in case, I thought I would mention it. I hope you are having a relaxing summer at the beach!
Amy Finkler <amyfinkler@cox.net>
Byron, GA - Saturday, July 15, 2006 6:36 PM CDT

Lori - I still check your site from time to time. Everytime I read one of your entries, I think of my son and the pain you must be going through. I will keep your family in my prayers and if there is anything I can do for your foundation, please let me know.
Tammy Holt Boyd <rtboyd5@yahoo.com>
Clayton, NC - Monday, July 10, 2006 8:57 AM CDT

Hi Lori,
Thanks for checking in. I just read your latest journal and was so saddened to hear about Rebecca. I will keep her and her family in my prayers. It means alot that we keep in touch even if the words are hard to come by. I have had so many of the same questions-Did we choose the right hospital-Were we careful enough-How did Alex get the adeno virus? I know it doesn't help, but every now and then it creeps in. It helps to know I'm not the only one who struggles. Thanks for taking the time to check on us.
Love,
Mary
Mary Johnson <kellandmary@eatel.net>
Prairieille, La - Wednesday, June 21, 2006 3:51 PM CDT

Lori, Each time I read your entries, I feel like I am looking at everything thru your eyes. I know that I could never truly feel your pain but my heart aches. You make me so thankful for all that I have, especially 2 healthy girls. You are such an inspiration to everyone and I just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers.
Rose Harper <gregswife@earthlink.net>
Four Oaks, NC - Wednesday, June 21, 2006 9:14 AM CDT

Still checking in and thinking of your family.
Brandi Edwards <nelmslogging@earthlink.net>
Louisburg, NC - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 12:15 AM CDT

Still checking in...thinking of you all
With love,
Amanda King Sullivan <Amandaandkeith2@aol.com>
Smithfield, NC - Tuesday, June 20, 2006 7:38 AM CDT

Lori, I always look forward to your updates, even when they rip my heart right out of my chest. I am heading to Rebecca's site next, just to let her know she is being prayed for. You are such a sweet person, your family is so blessed to have you there. You do so much for so many, and you carry each one in your heart. You must have one huge heart! Thank you, your family, Lisa, Lisa, Judy and all who contribute to MeFine in any way. You all are so special and I know the Lord will bless you for all the wonderful things you do.
Karen Norfleet <karennorfleet@gmail.com>
Wilson, NC USA - Monday, June 19, 2006 9:57 AM CDT

Since the first time I "met" Folden IV, I fell instantly and head over heels in love with him. I come to this page many, many times in a week, not always every day anymore, but if I do in a day, it's many times in that one day. As I sat here reading the latest update, and then linking to Rebecca's and going over old journal entries on her page, reading about her experiences with Folden, the song "Time of your Life" came on, brought instant tears to my eyes as I thought, Yes, that's how it must be for you...even though Folden is no longer here, I wouldn't give up "meeting" him and knowing his family and I wouldn't give up the ache in my heart every time I see his beautiful face, because knowing Folden has added so much to my life. I know my children have given me and continue to show me the time of my life, and I wouldn't change it for anything, and I know it must be the same for you guys.
God bless you always...
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, June 18, 2006 10:13 AM CDT

Found your website on Angel Ryans caringbridge site. Wanted to stop in and say Hi!

We will be keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Hugs, Sammy Nichols & Family
www.caringbridge.org/va/princesssammy
Desiree (Sammy's Mommy)
Gordonsville, VA USA - Thursday, June 15, 2006 3:10 PM CDT

Dear Lori, It has been a while since I sat down and looked at this site. So much goes on in our lives that we don't stop and smell the roses. I underwent surgery last year for possible breast cancer and the Lord saw fit for everything to be benign, however, I have since developed another lump in my breast and have to return to the Cancer Center at LSU next Tuesday to have it looked at. I don't know what made me look at this site today except that at times like these it makes you remember what other people have lost. You were always a strong and brave person and when I get down over the test that I have to go through I think of you and remember. Enjoy the beach for me as I miss it terribly. You are in my prayers and thoughts as well as the rest of your family.
Tammy Daughtry Short (PHS Class of 1984) <tysonbunch@hotmail.com>
Princeton, LA United States - Wednesday, June 14, 2006 8:58 AM CDT

Still checking in.
Linda Britt (Taylor's Aunt Linda) <lbritt@fmrealty.com>
Cary, NC USA - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 10:23 PM CDT

God bless you -- you are making such an impact on so many lives.
Sue S
Athens, GA - Tuesday, June 13, 2006 9:32 PM CDT

I have been visiting your site for years. I go to church with Rebecca Simpson. I have never had a seriously ill child but know that it could happen any day. So, I have not forgotten your family or any of the families I have learned about through your links and others. Know that your work is good and reaches so far beyond your home, neighborhood, town....I pray for you and all the families you support. Everytime I hear "Over the Rainbow," I think of a sweet boy I never met but who is looking down from Heaven, so proud of his family for making a difference in this world.
Ruth Patterson, Wake Forest Presbyterian Church <ruth_patterson@hotmail.com>
- Monday, June 12, 2006 2:32 PM CDT

Lori, I still read your entries at least once every 2 weeks just to stay on top of what is going on. Daisy is growing up so fast. You were right, time flies. Where does it all go?? Your girls are soo beautiful. They have grown up a lot too. Enjoy the summer and the beach. Things will fall into place. No one will forget what ME FINE stands for nor the families and loved ones that it helps. Love, Heather
Heather R. Ballance-Brown <missjohnston04@aol.com>
Smithfield, NC - Sunday, June 11, 2006 9:45 PM CDT

Hi Mrs. Lori...It's Kayla...we haven't talked in a while...but I still think about you, your family, folden, and your organization everyday...I pray for your organization and your family...I miss talking to you...but there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you...My little sister is almost 3 now...my daddy is doing great...they think that the cancer is gone...he's been without chemotherapy for a while...I thank you for praying for him...It seemed so nice to have someone to talk to that new where I was coming from...Well...I hope to talk to you soon..Bye...I Love All Of You

Love,
Kayla
Kayla
- Sunday, June 11, 2006 12:26 AM CDT

I check this site often. I first saw Folden on a newscast in NC in support of bone marrow drives and his courageous story. He and your family have been such an inspiration. I lost my mom in October of 2004 to AML so your grief has become even more real to me. I used your site to find Spaghetti Legs and had a beautiful quilt made in my mom's memory for my grandmother (another outlet for expression and healing). You will never know how much this site means to me. I too have continued my mom's Caringbridge site and often wonder if anyone visits anymore. It was such a source of communication during her struggle but is now a way for me to communicate my feelings. Thank you!
Mary Devon
Pinehurst, NC - Thursday, June 8, 2006 8:38 PM CDT

We still think you of guys. The one thing that continues to get us through the hard times is that God doesn't put anything onto you that you can't handle. Take care.
Rodney, Donna & Brandie Eason
Clayton, NC - Thursday, June 8, 2006 7:46 AM CDT

No matter how many years I am supposed to walk this earth, I will never...ever forget! Matt is running another Alex's Lemonade Stand for pediatric cancer research on Friday..he even helped paint the stand. No one in my family could or would ever forget...still holding your hand, always.
Love,
CINDY
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Monday, June 5, 2006 8:12 PM CDT

I will never forget....I will see you soon...promise.

With Love,

Cindi Baker <flossybug@nc.rr.com>
- Monday, June 5, 2006 2:20 PM CDT

Dear Lori,
Just want to let you know I check in every week to see if you had added anything new. I love reading about Me Fine's accomplishments as well as keeping up with you and your families lives.
Thank you so much for keeping this site updated...still and always holding you hand..
Love,
Cindy
PS Matt's projected "end of chemo date" is Sept. 30th. He is so excited at the prospect, it's been a rough 3 years. I too am excited but a bit worried as well..we'll just take it one day at a time...much love to you, Folden and the girls :)
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Thursday, May 18, 2006 5:50 PM CDT

It seems that I overlook signing the guestbook since I "talk" to Lisa so often through e-mail.
I do want to tell each one of you at the MeFine Foundation how special each of you are. The work you do is so awesome, reaching out to bring happiness and joy to those who need it the most. I am sure Little Folden is so proud of his family and friends for honoring his memory.
You are a special class of people, thank you for what you do. I pray God will continue to bless you and MeFine.
Karen Norfleet <karennorfleet@gmail.com>
Wilson, NC USA - Wednesday, May 10, 2006 8:29 AM CDT

I'm glad things are going so well /w Me fine. I smiled when i read you took a plane I know exactly how you feel, before we went on Justin's wish trip I actually was online looking up to see exactly how those big heavy things stay in the air lol,. I came here just to let you know i pass on your email to my friends in NC so hopefully that will help. interestingly the person that signed right before me lives 10 min from me, as always you are in my prayers Lyn www.caringbridge.org/nj/justinw
lyn Wyatt <ddog117@comcast.net>
stratford, nj usa - Saturday, April 22, 2006 12:39 AM CDT

WOW !!! Things are moving along at an amazing pace for you. Sounds like incredible things are happening and it makes my heart sing :) So glad you and the girls get to go to the beach, the ocean is always such a healing sight for me. Matt will be done with chemo in September and I need to see the beach!! We have been staying away because of the risk of him getting sunburnt plus he would have a hard time walking in the sand and riding the waves. Makes me so sad..but here we are almost at the end of his treatment. We just got out of the hospital a few weeks ago...this time hepatitis with no known cause. We certainly have been on a rollercoaster but praying that this Fall we can get back to some type of normal life. Of course there is that little voice always in your head worrying if it will come back but we need to just push on forward like we have been doing.
Take care, thanks a million for the update...love hearing about you, your wonderful family and Me Fine.
Much love,
Cindy
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ - Thursday, April 20, 2006 3:51 PM CDT

Thinking of you and Folden more than alot today...so many things made me think of you guys. I thought of alot of little angels today, way too many of them.
Words aren't enough, but I hope you're ok.
Take care,
and Love you,
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 11, 2006 9:35 PM CDT

Remembering you always, always, always!!!
Love you forever, sweet guy!
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, April 9, 2006 10:26 AM CDT

Dear Lori,
Just want to let you know I check this site almost every day to see if there are any new entries and look at the pictures of your wonderful family and Folden.
Praying things are moving along for the foundation and just letting you know I will always be holding your hand and never will I forget!
Cindy Schechter <JAYCIN1@AOL.COM>
Cherry Hill, NJ 08003 - Friday, March 24, 2006 3:38 PM CST

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