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Just to let you know you are both in my thoughts and prayers. That Ellis is in my heart!!

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, December 30, 2007 8:06 PM CST
Thinking of Ellis today. . .
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Saturday, December 29, 2007 8:19 PM CST
A New Year’s Prayer
May God make your year a happy one!
Not by shielding you from all sorrows and pain,
But by strengthening you to bear it, as it comes;
Not by making your path easy,
But by making you sturdy to travel any path;
Not by taking hardships from you,
But by taking fear from your heart;
Not by granting you unbroken sunshine,
But by keeping your face bright, even in the shadows;
Not by making your life always pleasant,
But by showing you when people and their causes need you most,
and by making you anxious to be there to help.
God’s love, peace, hope and joy to you for the year ahead.
Numbers 6:24-26
24 "The LORD bless you
and keep you;
25 the LORD make his face shine upon you
and be gracious to you;
26 the LORD turn his face toward you
and give you peace."
With Love and Prayers MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Orlando, Fl - Saturday, December 29, 2007 4:28 PM CST
Dear Bravest MaMa and DaDa.

Thinking of you and remembering the sweetest, tenderest boy every day!!!

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Friday, December 28, 2007 2:00 PM CST
Love to You
By: Anonymous

I've nothing else to offer,
So, to you, it's love I'll send.
It's nothing that I borrowed.
And it's nothing that I'd lend

It has no dollar value,
And it can't be overused;
It isn't fragile, so it can't break,
Though, often, it's abused.

I've given it to others,
But each time it's unique.
It's meaning's always different;
It depends on what you seek.

It's something you can store away
To feel when you're in need,
But never is it on display;
It's beauty can't be seen.

I'm giving it "no strings attached",
No costly warranty.
This love that I am sending
Has a lifetime guarantee.

Sending Angel_Wings Remembers hugs and prayers.


Polly from Angel_Wings Remembers <polly1511@gmail.com>
Rolette, ND USA - Thursday, December 27, 2007 4:51 PM CST
Melissa and Sam

Thinking of you today and remembering the sweetest, bravest, strongest boy.

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Thursday, December 27, 2007 12:39 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,
Thinking of the two of you as I do on a daily bases and also thinking about the Bravest Boy in the world. Wishing you a Blessed and Merry Christmas. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Love,
Dana C. <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 11:50 PM CST
Thinking of you tonite. Hope your day was as good as it could be.

Nite Nite Bravest Mama & Dada.

Nite Nite little shining star, Ellis. I look up at the sky and I know the brightest star out there is you.

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Tuesday, December 25, 2007 10:16 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
I'm remembering your precious Ellis today and wishing you a blessed Christmas and New Year. May comfort and peace fill your hearts.
Love,
Amy <agresham@sbcglobal.net>
TX - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 9:26 PM CST
Thinking of You and Wishing You Peace, Comfort and Joy this Christmas Day! God Bless!
Love~Hugs~Prayers from S.C.
Darline Rollins <drollins07@yahoo.com>
Kershaw , S.C. - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 5:31 PM CST
Merry Christmas Sam and Melissa.

I wish blessings upon you in 2008.


Katie Koestler <ktandbob@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, December 25, 2007 5:31 PM CST
Remembering Ellis.
Corella Thorbeck@aol.com
Plymouth, MN - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 2:11 PM CST
Merry Christmas, Bergstroms! You are in my thoughts and prayers often.
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Tuesday, December 25, 2007 1:10 PM CST
Silent Night, Holy Night. All is calm, all is bright round yon virgin, Mother and Child, Sleep in Heavenly Peace.

Merry Christmas, Bravest, Strongest Mama and Dada!! I have been thinking of you all day. This your second Christmas without the sweetest, strongest, tenderest boy.

He is never from my thoughts. That sweet dear little face and those beautiful cheeks, those shining eyes and his huge beautiful smile!!!

Hold tight to each other. Know that all of Ellisville is praying for you and thinking of you.

God Bless You Both.
Cheryl
- Monday, December 24, 2007 6:50 PM CST
Thinking of all three of you today and always.....
Marno
Robbinsdale, mn usa - Monday, December 24, 2007 2:08 PM CST
We're thinking about the two of you and dear, sweet Ellis during the holidays. His smiling face is on our tree; it is the most precious ornament on it. We pray you find peace and comfort this Holiday season.
Pat, Connie and Sara Martin <Pootieface@aol.com>
Brooklyn Park, MN USA - Monday, December 24, 2007 10:46 AM CST
HE ONLY TOOK MY HAND
Last night while I was trying to sleep,
My son's voice I did hear
I opened my eyes and looked around
But he did not appear.
He said "Mom you've got to listen,
You've got to understand
God didn't take me from you, Mom
He only took my hand
When I called out in pain that night,
The instant that I died,
He reached down and took my hand,
And pulled me to his side.
He pulled me up and saved me
From the misery and pain
My body was hurt so badly inside,
I could never be the same.
My search is really over now,
I've found happiness within,
All the answers to my empty dreams
And all that might have been.
I love you and miss you so,
And I'll always be nearby.
My body's gone forever,
But my spirit will never die!
And so, you must go on now,
Live one day at a time.
Just understand-
God did not take me from you,
He only took my hand.
(Unknown)
All my Love and Prayers
MJ/Angel_Wings
MJ/Angel_Wings <marijeighn@gmail.com>
Orlando, Fl - Monday, December 24, 2007 9:36 AM CST
Hey Melissa & Sam...
Here it is. Christmas Eve day. I am thinking about you and hoping you continue to stay close to one another and remember your beautiful Ellis. We will pray for you with much love and warmth and for the spirit of the holiday to hold you. Merry Christmas! With Love, Pam, Todd & Kids
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Monday, December 24, 2007 9:26 AM CST
Melissa & Sam

Thinking of you always. Thinking of Ellis every day. I love that picture of him at the top of the webpage. His shining little cheeks and eyes and mostly, his beautiful smile!!! That smile could light up all of Maple Grove!!!

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Saturday, December 22, 2007 4:06 PM CST
Ellis' ornament has a special place on our tree - we love seeing his smile each and every day. We call him the "angle on our tree".

We'll continue to hold you in our thoughts and prayers.
Steph Harms and Tom and Maddie Shaw
Stephanie Harms <stephanie.harms@csh.org>
Arden Hills, MN 55112 - Thursday, December 20, 2007 1:41 PM CST
Every time I hear the "Little Drummer Boy" I think of your darling babe. God bless you during this holiday season.
Mollie Trewartha <mollie.trewartha@gmail.com>
Houghton , MI USA - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 6:45 PM CST
We decorated our tree this weekend and the picture of your little guy is on top and will be as long as we live.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <osbornp@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 2:40 PM CST
I popped over to see the sweet smile of Ellis at the end of a crazy day. Thinking of him always puts a warmth in my spirit, even if I am grouchy. I remember how he handled life's trials with such grace and dignity... we should all be following his footsteps and find that within ourselves. Anyway, I don't always look at the photo book and I did tonight. There are pics there that I haven't seen before. Oh my goodness he was a handsome little fella! What a beautiful, perfect little boy. May you be blessed and held close as this Christmas season tumbles in. We love you and continue to think of you and remember you all.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Monday, December 17, 2007 10:42 PM CST
The concert was great! What better way to remember and celibrate Ellis than with music!
Dana C <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, December 17, 2007 3:35 PM CST
Thinking of you.
Corella Thorbeck
Plymouth, MN - Monday, December 17, 2007 1:40 PM CST
Melissa & Sam,
What a wonderful concert on Sunday. What a beautiful way to celebrate Ellis. I am sure he was up in heaven dancing. Thanks for letting me be a part of it.
Janice
St Paul, MN USA - Wednesday, December 12, 2007 6:47 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
We were unable to make it to the concert, but I can only guess it was magnificent. I think of you often.
Katie Koestler <ktandbob@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, December 12, 2007 2:46 PM CST
An Angel’s Kiss
by: Peggy Bouse

We go through life so often,
Not stopping to enjoy the day.
And we take each one for granted,
As we travel on our way.

For in your pain and sorrow,
An Angel's kiss will help you through,
This kiss is very private,
For it is meant for only you.
We never stop to measure,
Anything we just might miss.
But if the wind should blow by softly,
You'll feel an Angel's kiss.

A kiss that is sent from heaven,
A kiss from up above.
A kiss that is very special,
From someone that you love.
So when, your hearts are heavy,
And filled with tears and pain.
And no one can console you,
Remember once again...

About the ones you grieve for,
Because you sadly miss.
And the gentle breeze you took for granted,
Was just an Angel's kiss.

Polly/Angel_Wings: www.groups.yahoo.com/groups/AngelWingsRemembers <polly1511@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, December 11, 2007 5:39 PM CST
Hoping the concert was a magnificent time to honor and remember Ellis.
Shannon
MN - Monday, December 10, 2007 4:36 PM CST
thinking of you guys often. praying that the holidays hold a sweetness for you. missing ellis and his wonderful smile always. God bless.
erin eccles <sixtygallons@hotmail.com>
mankato, mn - Sunday, December 9, 2007 9:28 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
Through these last days and through the days to come we honor and remember Ellis and we honor and remember you...with our hopes, prayers, and caring...always.
Love, Marilynn and Phil
Marilynn and Phil <mkbast@comcast.net>
- Saturday, December 8, 2007 3:29 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
You are both in our thoughts and prayers. Your honesty resonates with us. We remember.
Levon and Melissa Larson
Melissa
Austin, MN - Friday, December 7, 2007 9:21 AM CST
Remembering your beautiful little boy Ellis who taught us all so very much...we do stop now and smell the roses...because of him.Love&prayers The Meyer's greg&annemarie
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Thursday, December 6, 2007 11:09 PM CST
Your Ellis passed away on the same day as my roommate's father just over a year ago. I see in my roommate a hole where only memories remain. Her dad lives through her and similarly, I know Ellis lives through you. You continue to be an inspiration through this difficult time.
Megan Selvig <selvme01@luther.edu>
St. Michael, MN - Thursday, December 6, 2007 11:00 PM CST
When my young son's classmate died at age 8 Charlie was crying. Then he said, "When people die we are sad for ourselves, but there is a better place than this..." I hope you find comfort thinking of your boy in that better place. I am so sorry you did not get to spend more time with him in this place. Love never ends.
Gail <mommareeba@gmail.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Thursday, December 6, 2007 10:07 AM CST
Thinking of you all today as you miss sweet Ellis. I hope you guys are doing okay. It sounds like you are doing the best you can by teaching your music and staying close to one another.

Love and hugs,

Vicki (Jayden's Mommy)

www.caringbridge.org/visit/jayden
Vicki Fields <jarjaysmom@aol.com>
Louisville, KY US - Thursday, December 6, 2007 0:08 AM CST
Mr & Mrs B...holding you in our thoughts and prayers. Your strength and love shine thru! As you continue on your journey remember that the past is what made you ready for today and also leads you into tomorrow. For tomorrow is full of questions, love and hope. Tomorrow....
The Kastendick Family <mrfishallday@yahoo.com>
Albertville, mn - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 11:32 PM CST
Dear Ellis,
We hope you and our dear angel Carly have become quite good pals in heaven, you both loved many of the same things and had some things in common. We have thought about you alot this past year and please know you will never be forgotten!

Dear Sam & Melissa,
Our hearts are with yours always, especially this time of the year. We will light a candle for Ellis on Sunday. Sending you strength and love. Take care of yourselves as you continue to find your way.
"Angel" Carly's Mommy & Daddy and Baby Brother Carter
caringbridge.org/mn/carlymayharris
Maria Harris <mariajharris@earthlink.net>
Farmington, mn USA - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 10:02 PM CST
Thinking of you all-always.
Mel Grammont <madebymel@gmail.com>
Appleton, WI - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 9:52 PM CST
Dear Bravest Strongest Mama & Dada -

How hard this time must be for you. I miss Ellis every day and I never got to meet him or touch him or smell his sweet smell. So I cannot imagine what it is like for you.

This brave and special little boy touched so many people, and while that is wonderful, I am sure that is small comfort when you would rather have him with you.

I keep hoping that I will find words that will help make your pain easier to bear, but I know that no words will do that. Only time and the thought that you will see him again in heaven can help.

Nite Nite Sweet Darling Ellis. Thank you for being on this earth if only for too short a time. I think of you every day and am so glad I got to know your life. Thank you for all the lessons you taught me about love and life. I see your sweet face in the nite sky and in the beautiful morning light.

Nite Nite Dear Brave Mama and Dada. I think of you and pray for you every day. You cannot know how much I admire you both and glad I got to know about such wonderful people. When I have read what your former students and friends write here, it shows how brave and wonderful you are.

God Bless You Both
Cheryl
- Wednesday, December 5, 2007 9:01 PM CST
Thinking of you both and your beautiful little boy. May God grant you peace and comfort.
Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 1:51 PM CST
Thinking of you two and the bravest little boy ever...in God's wonderful hands now but always in our hearts.
Nancy
Nashville, - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 11:21 AM CST
Remembering Ellis today and always. Hoping you find peace.


Mary S-S
Shelby Twp, MI USA - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 10:20 AM CST
With four minutes to spare I made it to this specialplace to let you know I have been remembering the bravest and strongest boy in the world, as well as, his beloved mama and dada today. May peace fill your hearts and joy fill your home today and always.

A blessed Christmas to you and yours!
Mindi <melindac40@comcast.net>
Tacoma, WA - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 1:59 AM CST
I don't know where to begin; all I can say is that our ultimate goal is to get to heaven and that earth is only our temporary home. Ellis didn't live long here, but it was his time to move, to go home; where we're all meant to be. You've probably heard all of this a thousand times and it's probably not of much comfort anymore, but just know that you both are in my prayers and the prayers of many and that Ellis will live on in you and each person that had a chance to know him and his story. You guys have made it a year without him...now we know where he got all of his strenght and bravery from. God Bless!
Emily Vorderbruggen <eav22@charter.net>
Albertville, MN - Wednesday, December 5, 2007 0:31 AM CST
Mr. and Mrs Bergstrom,

I just wanted to let you know that Ellis is constantly in my heart and prayers, but especially today. He will always be remembered. He was a loved boy and we miss him. Wishing you well these approaching holidays.
Ashley Budde
- Wednesday, December 5, 2007 0:23 AM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,
I am especially remembering the bravest,strongest little boy today. I just can't believe it has been a year. I'm sure in many ways it feels like forever and then like only yesterday. I miss your sweet boy whom I have never met. Love and prayers for you both today and always! Ellis will never be forgotten.
Love,
Amy <agresham@sbcglobal.net>
TX - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 11:22 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam: You son will never be forgotten. It finally occured to me why I was so drawn to Ellis. From the first time I saw him to the last, I saw Christ in his eyes. In some way, for the five or six months I knew Ellis, Ellis was Jesus to me. I know that may sound strange, but Jesus said, "whatever you do for the least of my brethren, you've done it unto me." I felt closer to God being around Ellis than I ever have in a church.

As far as Ellis' strings go? They are being used to try to help another person in a hard way---this time a 30 year old woman in whose eyes I catch the same glimmer of Christ that I caught in Ellis' eyes. Her name is Kaley Rotering, and when I'm in her hospital room I can just feel Ellis. Its a strange thing---a strange but beautiful thing.

May God be with you both. Ellis was loved; Ellis is loved still!
Paul Hahn <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 10:35 PM CST
Love for the bravest, strongest boy - prayers for peace to his brave and strong parents. We love you and miss him too and his sweet smile is all around our christmas tree from the paper heart ornaments. Love to you
Cousin Amy and family <amyjskar@charter.net>
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 10:20 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Just stopped by because you were in my thoughts today. I didn't even realize what today was until I got here. Even though I never knew Ellis, I feel touched by him. I look forward to meeting him in Heaven. May you be surrounded by God's love today.
Lisa
Lisa Whorten <lisawhorten@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 9:08 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Thinking of you today.

Marilyn


Marilyn Quarberg <Quarberg.mascot@comcast.net>
Blaine, Mn. - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 8:31 PM CST
dear sam and melissa...thinking of both of you today and sending you thoughts of love and comfort.

dear ellis...i heard your jack johnson song today on the radio and it made me smile :) i'm keeping you close to my heart... <3

gretchen gamm <gretchen.gamm@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 8:10 PM CST
Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you both today and am praying that you are surrounded by God's comfort and love.
Ellis will never be forgotten!
Ginnie Pollen <noelandginnie@mac.com>
Hopkins, MN 55343 - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:48 PM CST
Today marks one year... :( Today i know god is looking down on you both with ellis in his arms. His life was a blessing to all.. My thoughts and prayers are with you both today and everyday!!


Alyssa Gallagher <starangle1@juno.com>
St. Michael, mn - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:14 PM CST
Thinking of and praying for you
Angela J.
Brooklyn Park, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 6:58 PM CST
We are thinking of you all today. We pray that happy memories comfort you. We will forever remember Ellis and how strong he was. He has incredibly strong and inspiring parents. We hope that time will help heal your wounds. God bless.
Abbie and Travis <abushaw03@hotmail.com>
Rochester, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 6:52 PM CST
We're holding the light with you, for you, around you today so that you can collapse into this deep well of grief that feels like it will never end knowing that you are safe and loved and cared for.

This day is for your tears. This day is for the "sighs too deep for words". This day is for your loneliness. And this day is for your hope that is unrealized, your joy that is out of reach and the peace that passes all understanding.

Ellis and legions of angels are with you. Nothing can separate you from their light and presence. You are loved. Now and always.

Love,
Cheryl, Jonathan, Chloe & Justine

P.S. The vigil candle burns for you. The light is greater than the darkness.

Cheryl Persigehl <cherylpersigehl@msn.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 4:40 PM CST
Always keeping you guys close to my heart, but now more then ever!

Warm regards

Kelsey, Karen, Steve and Courtney Dolge
Kelsey Dolge <ksdolge@msn.com>
Saint michael, MN USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 4:36 PM CST
Thinking about all three of you today. God is with each one of you always and knows all that you feel in your heart and shares in those feelings. My love to you all as well.

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN U.S.A. - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 3:36 PM CST
Praying and holding you tight today. One year ago and you still inspire us all.
vicki
montricello, mn usa - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 2:56 PM CST
Sending my thoughts and prayers even more to the two of you today...It is a difficult day but never forget the wonderful life Ellis lived, as well as all of the lives he has touched (and continues to touch!), all of the wonderful memories, and all of the support surrounding your family.
Kelly Zachman <kazachman@csbsju.edu>
St. Joseph, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 1:36 PM CST
May God hold you close today and always. Remembering your precious son.
Terry & Ellen Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 1:24 PM CST
Just checking in here at Ellisville as I do so often. Remembering your bravest and strongest boy who made such an impact on my life and many others - I promise you - Ellis will never be forgotten!!! Praying for his mama and dada today!
A. Elliott
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 1:12 PM CST
We can only hope all the fond memories and fun rememberances of Ellis fill your minds and hearts today. We remember what a special little boy he was, full of fun and character. Oh, the party they must be having in heaven.

We're saying extra special prayers today for Mama and Dada on what we can only imagine is a hollow day of missing your little wonder.

Always in our prayers,
The Corbo's
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
The Corbo's
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 12:26 AM CST
Today is another milestone for you....Try to remember only good memories of sweet, special Ellis.....I just remembered Cory on his 10th year of being an angel....I wish I could tell you it will be OK but it never will be again....Your life has changed....forever....You will learn to survive...and over this pass year, you have survived....Continue to lean on each other and support each other.....You will always have those special memories......Thank you for sharing Ellis with the world.....He was and is loved by many....So celebrate his life today and smile because he is smiling at you and will always be in your heart....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 12:24 AM CST
With you today in thoughts and prayers and remembering Ellis.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <osbornp@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 12:05 AM CST
What a blessing Ellis' life was on this Earth. Thank you for sharing him with us. We think of him this day and remember all the wonderful moments he brought to you and how you shared them with us. I can clearly see photos in my head of him and his thumbs up, or his double pacifier trick! His wild "conductor hair" and his reverse trick or treating in his turtle suit. I can see him riding on that swing, taking his first baby steps... what a joy!

I pray that you too are looking at this day as a time to remember all the joy and fulfillment he provided to you. Of course there must be a lot of pain and grieving right along side these sweet memories, but hold onto the thought that one day you will hold him again in blissful eternity. We love you all. Your strength is remarkable.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 11:55 AM CST
Praying for you. I hope Ellis sends a sign to his Mama and Dada.
Shannon
MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 11:36 AM CST
Thinking of Ellis today. I am sure this is hard day for you both. God Bless You.
Rachel RN <theducharmes@charter.net>
Elk River, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 11:13 AM CST
Thinking of you both and Ellis today. Praying for comfort and peace to come your way. Know that Ellis will NEVER be forgotten and is still thought of by thousands of people each day.
Sara
Austin, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 10:32 AM CST
I had to stop in again today Melissa and Sam.....Ellis was the first thing I thought of when I looked at my calendar this morning.....I pray for both of you and still miss sweet Ellis stories everyday! God Bless You both!
Lots of love to you sweet Ellis!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 4, 2007 10:24 AM CST
You're in our prayers today--remembering your sweet Ellis and sending you hugs. Love, Shellie, Mike, Claire, angel Ashley, & Andrew
Shellie Kieke <kieke@csp.edu>
North St. Paul, MN USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 9:25 AM CST
Always thinking of Ellis and his parents.
Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:59 AM CST
Thinking of you today. Remembering your precious son.
Becky Rayfield <brayfield@winonaclinic.com>
Winona, MN 55987 - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:50 AM CST
Sending prayers and big hugs to you both on this tough day. Know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many. We will always remember the strongest boy in the world... Ellis's memories will live on forever
Karen Buege- New Life Bolingbrook <kbuege@wilton.com>
Downers Grove , IL - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:45 AM CST
Continuing to surround you with many thoughts and prayers, especially today.
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:39 AM CST
Thinking of you today and praying for you. I will never forget the strongest and bravest boy in the whole world - or his parents. :0)
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 7:33 AM CST
As I head off to work I wanted to stop and leave you two a message. A message of how much I am praying for you and thinking about the two of you as one year has come. I doesn't seem real that he is not here. I know he is watching over the two of you and telling everyone in heaven to pray for you and what wonder parents he has. Ellis will NEVER EVER be forgotten!!!!!!! He continues to be in my thoughts and praysn everyday just like the two of you. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day of my life.

Love,
Dana C. <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 4:47 AM CST
Thinking about you and praying for you ALWAYS! May God hold you close today and everyday. I know Ellis was watching you direct those choirs on Thursday night, Melissa. I know he was proud of you! I bet he was pointing you out to all his friends in Heaven! Ellis continues to teach me things EVERY DAY! Thankyou SO much for sharing your son with us! He will NEVER be forgotten.

God Bless you two and your families!
Sara Q
River Falls, WI - Tuesday, December 4, 2007 0:38 AM CST
Well hello.. its been a while since i last commented! but tonight is a special night a night that we will all think of Ellis .. one year ago tommorrow our band concert went one. Aprrox. one hour after we found out that our sweet ellis had passed away and was done fighting everything and was finaly in peace. Tonight we go on stage in rememberance knowing not only that this is my last winter band concert but, thinking about what one year ago ment to all of us. We Remember, Embrace, and Love tonight. Thank you for letting us all be apart of ellis's life, he inspired everyone of us not only to be better musicians but to be better people. We will think of him and you both tonight. Thanks so much for everything you have done for us!!
We know he is watching proud tonight!!!
"The Stma Bands"
Alyssa Gallagher <idbabe023@hotmail.com>
St.Michael, Mn Wright - Monday, December 3, 2007 7:18 PM CST
Hi Sweet Ellis.....wow....almost a year, so hard to believe it's been that long, yet it almost seems like forever. I still feel that ache in my chest thinking about you.....that is what an impact you had on so many! You certainly were the strongest bravest boy in the world! I am glad that you are free from pain, but miss you and new stories of you at the same time. Please watch over your mommy and daddy and bring them peace and comfort that they so need......lots of love to you sweetness!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 3, 2007 6:00 PM CST
You are in our hearts, just as you both and Ellis have been every day. When Riley smiles at us, we think of your beautiful boy and pray that he is smiling somewhere. We hope to see you at Ellis' concert.
Love,
Laurie, Chuck and Riley Holm
Laurie Holm <chuckh55748@yahoo.com>
Hill City, MN USA - Monday, December 3, 2007 9:01 AM CST
Tonight I sat here and wept. I never meet Ellis, but my life is never the same because of his life! Almost a year later, my heart is still breaking. Sam and Melissa, thank you so much for sharing Ellis with us. He is loved and I gaurantee he will never EVER be forgotten.
Kasey Eckert <kasey.eckert@hotmail.com>
Dallas, TX - Monday, December 3, 2007 1:04 AM CST
I just heard Ellis song "Little Drummer Boy" on the radio!! I rhought of Ellis and the two of you and I remembered how much he loved this song. I miss him as I know everyone here does. Thinking of you guys tonight as I do everyday. With continued love, thoughts and prayer each and every day.

Love Always,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, December 2, 2007 8:13 PM CST
Thinking of you today more than usual and that beautiful little boy.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <osbornp@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Saturday, December 1, 2007 9:15 AM CST
Thank you for your writings. It reminds me to always stretch for strength and grace. Your goodness and love of Ellis is felt in many hearts.
Corella Thorbeck
Plymouth, MN - Friday, November 30, 2007 9:41 PM CST
As I do quite often I think of the three of you and how far you have come and yet how far you still have to go. As one year approches I still feel empty as I miss Ellis. Thank you so much for sharing your son with me and letting me watch him. I am forever greatful. I will never forget Ellis as I know all of us here won't either. Ellis is loved by so many people, some who have meet him and some who haven't.

Melissa it was great to see you back up on that stage directing again. I bet Ellis was sitting front row to listen to the music and to be there supporting his wonderful mama. And I am sure Ellis gave you a thumbs up for a job well done. May god bless the two of you and be with you throught this difficult time. With love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana C. <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Friday, November 30, 2007 9:29 AM CST
You two have been in my thoughts and in my heart for the past several weeks especially. I'm remembering Ellis' struggle at this time last year, and the strength and courage you have exhibited and passed on to all of us. Ellis' picture hangs in our living room as a reminder of the precious gift of life and importance of remembering family. You are so brave. Keep fighting the good fight. Hugs to both of you. Dee
Dee Sanderson <deesand@aol.com>
Aberdeen, SD - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 11:27 AM CST
Even though no entries have been written by us for a while, your family always remains in our thoughts and prayers every day. Ellis' spirit lives on in all of us and this truly, amazing and courageous little boy still touches all our hearts so deeply and taught us all lessons of hope, love and courage beyond measure. It is with a thankful heart to a little boy who continues to reach out to all even beyond this earth and one who dwells within each of us in a special way!! Thank you Sam & Melissa for continuing to share your journey and prayers for healing & new hope in the years to come!!! ELLIS -- We love you & miss you sweet little one!!! :)
Donna :) & Jeff Tollefson <dftollly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Tuesday, November 27, 2007 5:47 AM CST
Thank you for your entry. I pray that God will give you new reasons to hope. . . Ellis is shining in his eternal home.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Monday, November 26, 2007 12:56 AM CST
I have to say "ditto" for what the Baumgartner's said... We do think about you all each day and yes what a true wonderful blessing that Ellis's name will live on with the birthd of baby Luther. Be strong Missy and Sam you have a HUGE circle of friends praying for you!
Karen <kbuege@comcast.net>
Downers Grove , IL - Sunday, November 25, 2007 10:25 PM CST
Just thinking of you all today. I know this season must be especially hard, but know we think of you every day. It is also a wonderful blessing that Sarah and Adam were able to give you the gift of naming Luther Ellis after the bravest boy in the world!
Baumgartner's <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Sunday, November 25, 2007 3:46 PM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam, I haven't written in quite some time but I felt compelled to today. Your trip sounded amazing and I'm glad you were able to take it. You write so beautifully and so meaningfully in your entires that emotion stirs up in me to a very powerful degree. You remind me of what is important. I am still so, so very sorry for the loss of your son. He is such a beautiful boy. You are a truly inspiring mother and writer and I think of you often. Take care, a friend in IL, Jessica Diedrich
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@whimsicalbutterfly.net>
Cary, IL - Sunday, November 25, 2007 1:19 AM CST
Thank you for sharing Melissa! My heart aches for you and Sam.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <osbornp@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Friday, November 23, 2007 3:58 PM CST
Wow.
I'm sure Ellis is so proud and grateful to have you as his mama and dada, and is probably giving you the "thumbs up" right now.
Where is the balance between such gratitude and sadness? I just don't know. But there you are, wafting between the two. Our care is still there with you, and our hearts ache and give thanks with you as well.
Here's to getting through these next weeks and, of course, prayers on your behalf for strength.
Love,
Joanne and Kent
Joanne & Kent Eittreim <j.eittreim@comcast.net>
- Friday, November 23, 2007 10:44 AM CST
Thank you so much for the update and the new pictures. I have hated this past year. It has felt like an empty year because Ellis is not in this world. I come to this site every day, truly every day and have to remember that he is not with you or with Ellisville.

I will not even try to guess what you and Sam have been through this past year. The heart ache and grief that rips through your soul and spirit. The black days of sadness that you must be feeling. I only hope that something you have read or something that someone has said or that beautiful art work for Ellis has helped to lift your soul and lighten your burden for even awhile.

I think God gave us art to be able to express profound joy and profound sadness. To lighten our spirts and to make us think. It does it all. What a fitting way to remember that sweet, tender, stong boy than a concert!!

I hope that you can feel through the expressions on this site that there are so many people praying for you and thinking positive thoughts for you that it will lessen your burden.

God Bless You Both!!
Cheryl
- Friday, November 23, 2007 9:25 AM CST
We missed you today. It is amazing how much can change in a year, yet the world continues on. So does Ellis. He is with us always. We are always thinking of you. There are no words sometimes to comfort us, just know that you are loved by many. Thinking of you always.
Abbie and Travis <abushaw03@hotmail.com>
Rochester, MN - Thursday, November 22, 2007 10:51 PM CST
Tears came to my eyes as I opened the page tonight after...my pain is not near like yours but its the 1st BIG holiday with out my grandparents who passed with in 4 months of each other this year. Such a void.... I can understand in some ways.. Missy and Sam you are so strong and so wonderful. Be strong each day and know that we all love and are praying for you all the time...
Karen <kbuege@comcast.net>
Downers Grove , IL - Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:38 PM CST
Missed you all today, and thinking about you lots. As always, you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Love you~
Angie <angie.419@gmail.com>
Rochester, MN - Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:37 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving ... Thank you so much for the update and pictures...We all loved Ellis so much ... Good luck with the concert....I wish we could all be there...
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, Ky USA - Thursday, November 22, 2007 6:20 PM CST
Hi Sam and Melissa,
I am thinking of you both and Ellis today. I remember last year, all of you and your family here for the holiday. I have not checked the site in awhile and I was so glad to read your update and look at the pics you posted.
Take Care and Happy Thanksgiving.
Rachel RN <theducharmes@charter.net>
Elk River, MN - Thursday, November 22, 2007 4:58 PM CST
Thinking of you and Ellis today.
Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Thursday, November 22, 2007 2:25 PM CST
Happy Thanksgiving!!! Thinking and praying today for you.

God Bless!!!
Cheryl
- Thursday, November 22, 2007 10:09 AM CST
HAPPY THANKSGIVING !!
SENDING MORE BLESSING THEN YOU CAN IMAGE.

LOVE, THE BAUMLER'S
KEN,JAN,TERRELL & EMANUEL( ia/terrell) <j_baumler@yahoo.com>
waukon, iowa - Thursday, November 22, 2007 9:07 AM CST
Many blessings upon you. We continue to hold you in our thoughts daily.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 9:00 PM CST
Just want you to know I am thinking of you today and every day. Happy Thanksgiving Beautiful Ellis. I think of you every day!!!

Happy Thanksgiving beautiful Bergstroms. I think of you and pray for you every day.

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Wednesday, November 21, 2007 8:54 AM CST
Peace and love to you.
Shannon
MN - Wednesday, November 21, 2007 7:19 AM CST
God Bless You and Keep You today!!

Cheryl
- Tuesday, November 20, 2007 10:26 AM CST
Thinking, remembering and praying for you.

Love,
The Corbo's
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
The Corbo's
- Monday, November 19, 2007 10:56 PM CST
Remembering Ellis and praying for you and your families.
meloney dyer
- Monday, November 19, 2007 5:17 PM CST
We flew to TN this last week for Justin's Air Force commissioning ceremony. Two things happened that made me think of Ellis. There was a baby on the plane that looked just like him and was about the same age he was and the other was the beautiful white fluffy clouds. It reminded me of his white blanket picture and reassured me that he was up there somewhere running through the clouds happy and healthy.

God Bless
Pam Osborn
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
Brooklyn Center, MN - Monday, November 19, 2007 7:58 AM CST
Remembering Ellis. Remembering you.
Corella Thorbeck
Plymouth, MN - Sunday, November 18, 2007 7:49 PM CST
For God commands the angels to guard you in all your ways.
With their hands they shall support you,
lest you strike your foot against a stone.
Psalms 91:11-12

Praying for you tonite for peace in your spirits.

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, November 18, 2007 7:06 PM CST
Sam & Melissa

I haven't posted for awhile, lots going on, but I come every day to see that sweet, sweet face.

It has been challanging lately. My mom is 85 and has been over the past year been losing her short term memory rather rapidly. She had to be hospitalized for flu this past week. One nite I was rubbing her back and crying, as she was so sick, I didn't want her to see me, but she did and said, I could be worse, look at the people up and down the hall that are worse than me. That made me think of Ellis. I know that if he could have spoken, he would have said something like that.

I am so thankful that I was brought to this website to share his life through your wonderful words. You have no idea how profound the affect/effect (I never know this) his wonderful life has had on mine. It brought spiritality back into my life and prayer. I do so believe in the power of it to help and heal.

I pray all the time that your burden is getting better and that you are healing. I think of you both every day and wonder how your lives are going.

I hope you have a good Thanksgiving with your family near and the spirit of your sweet, tender, special boy near.

God Bless You both.
Cheryl
- Saturday, November 17, 2007 12:34 AM CST
An Angel kissed my tears away
today when I was sad
I wasn't feeling quite myself
my day had been so bad.

I felt a warmth brush by me
that quickly dried my tears
A gentle, kind, and loving touch
that seemed to hold me near.

Immediately, I felt so much better
and the day seemed brighter too
I guess that's just the way you feel
when an Angel comforts you.
~~ Anonymous

Polly/Angel_Wings Remembers <polly1511@gmail.com>
- Saturday, November 17, 2007 11:28 AM CST
I will always remember the day, very early on, that Ellis' Auntie Sarah proclaimed how amazed she was that almost 85,000 people had logged into the website with concerns for all of you. I looked a few minutes ago and WOW almost a million!!! What a joyful blessing Ellis was and still continues to be to so many souls in this world.
We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers and to be thankful, especially at this Thanksgiving time of year, for having been allowed to be a part of Ellis' life. Thank you both. God's blessings to you.

Glenda Hagen <Hagen7@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Thursday, November 15, 2007 6:11 PM CST
Thinking of you both and praying for you...knowing that this time of year must be bittersweet to say the least. Hoping and prayig the Thanksgiving and the season of miracles bring you peace, respite and unimagineable Ellis joy!
Mindi <melindac40@comcast.net>
Tacoma, WA - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 4:55 PM CST
Hope that you're doing well...Happy Thanksgiving.
Chari Warner <millymango40@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA - Tuesday, November 13, 2007 2:23 PM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,
Thinking of you this morning. Memories of wonderful music moments at Holy Nativity are flooding my mind--grand concerts, fun musicals, brass players with sunglasses,girls with boas. Missing you and wishing you peace and comfort as painful anniversaries approach.
Marilyn Rausch
- Tuesday, November 13, 2007 7:18 AM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam. I was drawn to Ellis' site today to let you know that I'm still thinking of you and praying you are doing well. I think of Ellis often even though I never had the opportunity to meet that wonderful little boy of yours! Thank you for sharing Ellis with me! He certainly touched my heart!
Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Monday, November 12, 2007 6:07 PM CST
Still checking in daily and praying for you. Ellis' spirit remains strong in our hearts.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <osbornp@comcast.net>
Brooklyn Center, MN - Monday, November 12, 2007 7:17 AM CST
thinking of you today ellis. praying for your mom and dad, still. all our love to you. you are dearly missed, little man.
erin eccles <sixtygallons@hotmail.com>
mankato, mn - Saturday, November 10, 2007 1:22 AM CST
I just wanted you to know that I still think of you often even though I've never met you or got the awesome chance to meet Mr. Ellis you both impacted our families life tremendously. I've continued to pray for you and think of you often and send yet again my thanks for letting us be a part of your life!
Much love to you all!
Kelsi
Carepage Mom
CP: birneys
kelsi <brantandkelsi@yahoo.com>
Dighton, ks - Friday, November 9, 2007 11:18 AM CST
Hello Sam and Melissa,
Just wanted you to know that I continue to come to this site everyday. The Halloween pictures are awesome! You are always in my prayers and never far from my thoughts. Take care of eachother.
God Bless!
Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Robbinsdale, mn - Friday, November 9, 2007 7:11 AM CST
Melissa & Sam-

This past Saturday I visited some friends (the band "Terramara") who were in Winterland Studios (Very close to Holy Nativity in Plymouth) recording a CD. I was shooting some video footage for them to use in a "YouTube" video once the album is complete. Anyhow, as I was sitting in the drum room during one of the takes I was suddenly reminded of Ellis and how much he loved the drums. The largeness of the sound, the power and force behind the cymbal crashes coming together to build something solid and lasting. All this brought a smile to my face while I was sitting there, camera in hand, thinking about the same largeness, and power of spirit that he brough to this world and knowing that he will always be here as well. You guys are never far from my thoughts and prayers.

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN U.S.A. - Monday, November 5, 2007 4:54 PM CST
It has been awhile since I have been on here or even posted a thought. I went to a concert on Friday and had a great time. When it was all over and done I thought to my self how much Ellis would have loved all the diffrent lights, guitars, piano and especially the drums. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of the three of you. Thank you for sharing your son with all of us. I will never forget the bravest and strongest boy in the world. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Love,
Dana C. <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, November 5, 2007 4:41 PM CST
I lit a candle in church yesterday in memory of Ellis and his fighting spirit. I think of you two often and you're in my continued thoughts and prayers!

Melissa-it was so fun talking to you on Friday! Too bad a certain Music Department Chair won't let me take you back to RF with me. :( Your students are so lucky to have you! And the choir sounded great!

God Bless you both!!!!
Sara <singersara12@hotmail.com>
River Falls, WI - Monday, November 5, 2007 3:20 PM CST
Just want you to know I still think and pray for you all every day.
Baumgartner Family <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, il - Friday, November 2, 2007 2:31 PM CDT
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers! I check in often to see how you are doing, and to look at the pics of your sweet little Angel!!!
Carrie <carrie4rd@suddenlink.net>
Charleston, WV USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 8:36 AM CDT
Happy Halloween sweet little Ellis.....I am thinking of you often....Hope you are getting to know my Cory....He is alittle older than you but he loves kids.....Hope your Mom and Dad are doing OK.....
gail ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, KY usa - Wednesday, October 31, 2007 10:02 PM CDT
Happy Heavenly Halloween Sweet Ellis!!!! You have the best costume yet....a beautiful Angel!
Lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 31, 2007 11:15 AM CDT
The photo of Ellis in the orange sweater is one of my faves. Thinking of you two tonight. God bless you!
Mollie Coleman-Trewartha <mollie.trewartha@gmail.com>
Houghton, MI USA - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 10:23 PM CDT
Continue to have all of you on our minds, in our hearts and in our prayers.

Allen and Glenda Hagen <Hagen7@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Tuesday, October 30, 2007 8:28 PM CDT
Diddo on that last post!!! I check daily and read the new entries. Sometimes I don't post because I am not sure what to say. But I know what I feel, that I will never forget the strongest, bravest, sweetest, tenderest baby ever!!!! Or his brave, brave MaMa and Dada.

Please know I think about and pray for you every day.

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:19 AM CDT
Diddo on that last post!!! I check daily and read the new entries. Sometimes I don't post because I am not sure what to say. But I know what I feel, that I will never forget the strongest, bravest, sweetest, tenderest baby ever!!!! Or his brave, brave MaMa and Dada.

Please know I think about and pray for you every day.

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Tuesday, October 30, 2007 9:19 AM CDT
Eventhough we don't always sign the guestbook - just wanted you to know all of the residents of Ellisville are still right here. We check in frequently and I promise we will never forget your bravest boy in the world - still thinking of Ellis daily!
A. Elliott <jasaubri@aol.com>
Tx - Saturday, October 27, 2007 10:07 PM CDT
I remember Ellis.
Lyndsay
Canada - Friday, October 26, 2007 9:20 AM CDT
I love the new pictures of Ellis. I also wanted to let you know that I remember Ellis daily. Ellis inspired me to keep fighting and living after I lost my baby brother in an accident almost 2 years ago (December). If your little guy could smile through his pain, I could find a way to do so also. Ellis is a part of my heart forever and I know that somewhere out there, my brother is loving him too. Thank you for sharing Ellis with me.
Stephanie Randolph <Mommytomyangels@tampabay.rr.com>
New Port Richey, FL USA - Friday, October 26, 2007 9:17 AM CDT
I just love the Halloween pictures of Ellis. I am especially remembering Ellis today because I heard someone say "Slow and steady wins the race." Ellis certainly won the race only not in the way we had so hoped and prayed for. Thinking of you Melissa and Sam with prayers for peace and happiness.
Amy

Amy <agresham@sbcglobal.net>
tx - Friday, October 26, 2007 7:24 AM CDT
I saw your entry in Noelle's guestbook. What wonderful words you have given this grieving family. I remember Ellis very well and especially remember what a fighter he was.
Hara Dwyer <bckbskc@aol.com>
Barre, VT - Thursday, October 25, 2007 8:26 PM CDT
I met Ellis (on your site) last year through Jack. I was Coopers Preemie nurse (and Jacks too once they were co-bedding). A few weeks ago we were driving home from "The Strip" after attending a show with friends who were in town and we passed by Ellis Island. OK ~ it is Ellis Island Resort and Casino, but it was still Ellis Island. I just coundn't believe it and I had never seen it before, I immediately thought of your son. I, like so many others, have been touched by your son and he helps me be a better Mom everyday. Thank you for sharing him. He is an amazing boy.
Melinda Petersen <m-mpetersen@msn.com>
Henderson , NV USA - Thursday, October 25, 2007 8:26 PM CDT
Dear Melissa and Sam,

I check in on you all weekly and LOVED the new picturs of the bravest and strongest trick or treater in the world! How precious to have those memories. I wonder, do they bring more pain or joy at this juncture in your grief?

Melissa, I also saw your post on Noelle's page. I found it to be a blessing for this hurting family. I also loved the perspective on "remembering". A while back I read Elizabeth Edwards book called Saving Graces. I had seen her on Oprah and she spoke eloquently of the enormous grief that consumed her today even though her son had been lost so many years before. She challenged her viewers and readers to take the time to remind loved ones of the lost...that they were remembered, thought of, that they still brought a smile to our faces. You did that for the Naylor's and what a gift that was for them and to them.

I felt it only right to return the favor. I check in on Ellis and the both of your weekly, as I said. And while I don't know you beyond this forum, I admire and respect your ability to share the bravest and strongest boy in the world.

So Melissa and Sam, I remember Ellis today, how he loved to swing on the swings, and play the drums and the tuba, how he loved his kitties and turtles. But mostly I remember how he fought and the courage he showed and the 2 1/2 precious years he graced your physical life knowing full well he will always grace your eternal life.

Be well wonderful parents...know that you are thought of, prayed for and remembered to God today and always.
Mindi <melindac40@comcast.net>
Tacoma, WA - Thursday, October 25, 2007 6:39 PM CDT
Hi Guys-
Been thinking about you a lot lately. When I check Ellis's site, I keep wondering to myself, "why aren't they putting in an update?" Last night, it came to me that I was wanting the update for ME, my own reasons...and not thinking about what's best for you two. For that I apologize. I hope things are going well for you both, and that you are able to enjoy the fall colors, smells, sounds and energy. You are in my thoughts.
Katie
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
- Thursday, October 25, 2007 8:06 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa- Have been thinking about you today. Wondering how Sam is liking his new job? Wondering how the big trip this summer went? We miss you here!
Angie Swason <angelasw@stma.k12.mn.us>
St. Michael, MN USA - Monday, October 22, 2007 2:01 PM CDT
So cute. :0) Thank you for sharing your pictures with us.
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Sunday, October 21, 2007 10:42 PM CDT
Thank you for the Halloween pictures. Your Ellis continues to touch my heart. Sending you both many thoughts and prayers...
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Sunday, October 21, 2007 6:04 PM CDT
Hello, Melissa and Sam. It has been a while since I have checked in on the web page but something popped into my head and I was once again drawn here. I love the pictures of Halloween's past. Hope you two are drawing strength from each other and all of your friends here. Ellis is still in my thoughts often. God's blessings to all of you!
Kassie Houle <jkhoule@att.net>
New Hope, MN - Friday, October 19, 2007 12:29 AM CDT
I just wanted to let you two know that you and Ellis are still in my thoughts all the time.
Nikki. <andre376@mrs.umn.edu>
- Thursday, October 18, 2007 0:37 AM CDT
Sam & Melissa,

Today we celebrate Jack's third post-transplant surgery. We can't celebrate this day without thinking of Ellis. We think of how much living he did here on earth in such a short time. We think about how much richer heaven must be with him there. We just think about him!

We think of you two often, and oh, how we've wished you could have celebrated these anniversaries on earth with him. We know you will celebrate with him again.

Always remembering,
The Corbo's
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
The Corbo's
- Wednesday, October 17, 2007 7:18 PM CDT
Oh Ellis -

I remember reading in your journal last Halloween about how you trick or treated and then gave away all of your candy to people at the hospital because you couldn't eat it. I sure hope you get to trick or treat all around heaven this year and I hope you get to eat lots of goodies.

I've been meaning to write and just can't find the exact words - but anyway the jist of it is that we got a new law passed in ND that says anyone with a Driver's license can now sign up to be a donor - before you had to be 18 but this past summer that changed. The change was brought about by some people I know - their daughter Alexa died waiting for a lung transplant - I know her dad Mr. Kersting hs signed your page before. It was a pretty exciting day. Lots of Alexa's friends went to Dept of Motor Vehicles and were the first to get their ID's changed to reflect their desire to be an organ donor! Totally Awesome. I thought of you when I heard about the change.
I sure hope your mommy and daddy are enjoying working together. I can't even begin to imagine how much they miss you. We all thank them for taking us along on the "Journey of Ellis"
Take care little man!

Heidi Wolf <hwolf@west-fargo.k12.nd.us>
West Fargo, ND - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 2:49 PM CDT
What precious pictures!!! I love Super Ellis!!! Hope you are doing well and just know I think about you both every day and pray that you are doing well!!!

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Wednesday, October 17, 2007 11:15 AM CDT
Thanks for the pictures. I hope and pray you're doing well.
Angela J
Brooklyn Park, MN - Wednesday, October 17, 2007 11:06 AM CDT
Beautiful, angel boy . . . thinking of you.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 8:02 PM CDT
Sweet precious Ellis....I remember that costume last year! You are such a cutie! Mom and Dad, I think of you guys and sweet Ellis often....everyday actually. I hope that you are healing.....and I hope you are living and enjoying your lives...I know that is what sweet Ellis would want. God Bless!!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 16, 2007 2:25 PM CDT
His beauty will never cease to amaze me. Thank you for sharing these!

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <Osbornp@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 7:41 AM CDT
My spirit leaped with happiness to see these Halloween pics of Ellis! What a joy and wonder he is! Thank you for sharing such sweet memories of the bravest boy in the world! We miss him... and we hope you Super Parents are holding strong! Much Love to you!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Monday, October 15, 2007 10:47 PM CDT
Sam & Melissa -

Just stopping by to say hey!!! Thinking of you both and praying that you are well.

It goes without saying that I think of that sweet boy every day. The strongest, bravest and tenderest boy!!!!

I hope you are both well.

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Monday, October 15, 2007 3:11 PM CDT
Sam & Melissa -

Just stopping by to say hey!!! Thinking of you both and praying that you are well.

It goes without saying that I think of that sweet boy every day. The strongest, bravest and tenderest boy!!!!

I hope you are both well.

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Monday, October 15, 2007 3:11 PM CDT
Praying for you and thinking about your warrior!
Ashleigh Frye <ashleighwall@hotmail.com>
Mission Viejo, CA - Sunday, October 14, 2007 5:47 PM CDT
Thinking about both of you today and hoping that you are well.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Wednesday, October 10, 2007 12:16 AM CDT
Remembering.
Corella Thorbeck
Plymouth, MN - Tuesday, October 9, 2007 10:14 AM CDT
Good Morning Melissa and Sam,
I spent this past weekend with my parents up north near Vergas, MN. I attended church with them on Sunday morning at the United Methodist Church. As pastor Gary started to tell us the message, I was brought back to you both and Ellis. His message was about singing and music and how God loves to hear us rejoice in life with this beautiful sound. I sat there with some tears in my eyes thinking of you all.
Hope the new season and new school year is treating you well.
Thinking of you both and, of course, Ellis.
Love, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Robbinsdale, MN - Tuesday, October 9, 2007 6:14 AM CDT
Hi Melissa and Sam. I was sitting and thinking of and remembering Ellis (again) and all the amazing strength and courage exhibited by the three of you during Ellis' time on this earth. And just wanted to say Hi and hope you are getting along okay and getting on with your lives as they are forever changed. Keep your chin up and forge onward!! A big hug for each of you.
Dee Sanderson <deesand@aol.com>
- Friday, October 5, 2007 12:23 AM CDT
I attended the visitation for a 9 day old infant boy last night that died of congenital heart disease. The experience gave me the opportunity to talk to someone about Ellis, his incredible fight, and more specifically about his Mama and Dada and how amazing you are.
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
- Wednesday, October 3, 2007 12:55 AM CDT
Hoping you are enjoying this fall weather and working together this year! We think of you often.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Tuesday, October 2, 2007 10:57 PM CDT
I was just sitting here looking at some pictures of my little 2nd cousin and thinking about Ellis. What an amazing little guy Ellis was! And he continues to teach me things every single day!

Blessings to you both! I hope your semester is going well! I'm sure your students adore you two!
Sara Q
River Falls, WI - Tuesday, October 2, 2007 10:35 PM CDT
I too come to this site daily. Just to see that beautiful art work and that beautiful face. I think of you both daily and wonder how you are doing. How you are coping and mostly think of that dear sweet precious brave, strong and beautiful boy.

God Bless You Both!!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, September 30, 2007 10:21 AM CDT
Our thoughts are with you as you remember your journey of last year. This beautiful child and his courageous and loving parents are in our hearts. We continue to be sad as well as joyous with you.
Judy and Kay <judithandersen@visi.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, September 28, 2007 8:20 AM CDT
Not a day goes by that I don't come to this site and think of your beautiful Ellis and the both of you.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, September 27, 2007 1:16 PM CDT
Hope you are enjoying your time together at AR. Always thinking of you.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Thursday, September 27, 2007 10:41 AM CDT
Stoping by to say hi and that I think about the three of you everyday. Hope the both of you are doing well. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 2:44 PM CDT
I saw a store in St. Paul last weekend called Ellis Drum Shop and I immediately thought of Ellis and his courageous parents. You both continue to amaze me.
Brandon Cross
River Falls, WI United States - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 0:41 AM CDT
Thoughts are with you.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Monday, September 24, 2007 9:31 AM CDT
Thinking of you both. I hope you are having a great semester so far! You're in my thoughts and prayers...
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Sunday, September 23, 2007 8:08 PM CDT
Just a note to say I was thinking about Ellis and you today. What a sweet and beautiful child he was. I pray that our Lord continues to watch over you.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Friday, September 21, 2007 7:43 AM CDT
Hi Melissa and Sam,

Kent and I are currently vacationing in Colorado, and I think about you and Ellis often. The mountains bring me a peace and renewal like nothing else does, and I wish for the winds to carry these on to you.

"See the sunlight through the pine,
Taste the warmth of winter wine,
Dream of softly falling snow,
Winter snow, aspen glow..."
John Denver

Love,
Joanne and Kent
Joanne Eittreim <j.eittreim@comcast.net>
- Thursday, September 20, 2007 2:02 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I still think of you all often and your beautiful strong little boy.....
Carrie <carrie4rd@suddenlink.net>
CHARLESTON, WV USA - Thursday, September 20, 2007 11:30 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam~
Thinking of you today as I often do. Prayers and strength sent your way.
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
- Wednesday, September 19, 2007 12:14 AM CDT
My Grandmother died last week and the children, as sad as they were to say good bye to their great-grandma, were excited at the thought that she would be able to go see Ellis and rock him! She is full of lovely stories and contagious laughter... she lost a daughter (Mary Lou) who was 4 years old so, so many years ago, and we know that one true blessing of her passing is that she will be able to hold her child again. And one day, you too will hold your sweet Ellis.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 5:23 PM CDT
I am drawn to this site daily. I look at that artwork and I see new things all the time. I truly check daily. The words that others write are comforting to all Ellisville.

That one small special little boy blazed through so many lives and remains with them is truly amazing!!! But you already know that.

To the bravest MaMa and DaDa ever!! God Bless you both.
Cheryl
- Monday, September 17, 2007 3:27 PM CDT
I just wanted to write to you and share my scripture for the day - I praise you for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:14 - Right after reading this in my calendar this morning - I then checked your site, which I haven't done in some time and there it was on Ellis' artwork that is shining the halls of the new clinic. I think of your little boy often and pray for you both just as often. Thank you for sharing him with the world.
Love, Lisa
Lisa Buchanan <lbuchana@davisfloyd.com>
Greenwood, SC - Monday, September 17, 2007 9:58 AM CDT
May the angels keep you till morning.
May they guide you through the night.
May they comfort all your sorrows.
May they help you win the fight.

May they keep watch on your soul.
May they show you better ways.
May they guard you while you're sleeping.
May they see you through your days.

May they show you new hopes.
May they still your every doubt.
May they calm your every fear.
May they hear you when you shout.

May the angels keep you til morning.
More than this I cannot pray.
And if the angels ever fail you.
Then may God be there that day.

~ Author Unknown ~

Polly/Angel_Wings www.groups.yahoo.com/groups/Angel_Wings
- Sunday, September 16, 2007 4:09 PM CDT
I am curious about how work and life is going for you. Thanks for keeping this site up. I like to look at pictures and to remember you and your family in my prayers. I am a neighbor but have not been out yet due to my own illness. I also have a relative with a sudden severe illness of their eight year old. The prognosis is uncertain. It makes me sad and reminds me of all you went through. God must have a special place in heaven for parents to be rejoined with their babies. What a heavy cross for you to carry. Know that we are out here and still care dearly about you. I respect your decision on whether to write or not. I know one family who closed their site as they tried to move on with their life. Just know now and in the future I will be praying for you especially when we drive by your home. So glad you had that summer vacation. I hope your work is rewarded. I am a retired teacher and miss that job.
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, - Saturday, September 15, 2007 9:08 PM CDT
Oh,My! You are the bravest and strongest parents in the world! Thank-you for your writings. You WILL have that day again. It is promised you. God is indeed with you. Ellis: we never forget you. You light up Heaven in so many new ways.
Our love to you all,
Marilyn Mattson
Marilyn Mattson
Aberdeen, S.D. U.S.A. - Friday, September 14, 2007 11:26 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam,

Ellis' site continues to beckon to me every once in a while. Your words and tributes are beautiful. Ellis - has been, and continues to be your inspiration...as you have been to me. Thank you for your spirit and your joy and your devotion to your son and each other!

Karen Kraft
- Wednesday, September 12, 2007 7:57 PM CDT
I love this song. It is by Jane Siberry with KD Lang. It is so hauntingly beautiful.

A man is placed upon the steps, a baby cries
and high above the church bells start to ring
and as the heaviness the body oh the heaviness settles in
somewhere you can hear a mother sing

then it's one foot then the other as you step out onto the road
how much weight? how much weight?
then it's how long? and how far?
and how many times before it's too late?

calling all angels
calling all angels
walk me through this one
don't leave me alone
calling all angels
calling all angels
we're cryin' and we're hurtin'
and we're not sure why...

and every day you gaze upon the sunset
with such love and intensity
it's almost...it's almost as if
if you could only crack the code
then you'd finally understand what this all means

but if you could...do you think you would
trade in all the pain and suffering?
ah, but then you'd miss
the beauty of the light upon this earth
and the sweetness of the leaving

calling all angels
calling all angels
walk me through this one
don't leave me alone
callin' all angels
callin' all angels
we're tryin'
we're hopin'
we're hurtin'
we're lovin'
we're cryin'
we're callin'
'cause we're not sure how this goes

The other nite the dog had to go out in the middle of the nite, of course, so there I am hoping no one sees me letting him out. The sky was so clear and full of stars. One shown so bright, I choose to think that is Ellis's star!!!

To the bravest Mama and DaDa. To have the courage to keep on going. To get up every day and get yourselves going when I know, I know how some days it must be so hard.

I haven't posted for awhile, but never doubt that I think of that sweet tender baby every day!!!! Or of his wonderful MaMa and DaDa.

God Bless You Both!!
Cheryl
- Monday, September 10, 2007 7:28 PM CDT
We often find ourselves wanting to slow down time,even stop it at times because we fear we are not going to retain what is happening in our lives. Pictures, videos, poems, music and beautiful art work from some talented little individuals are such a wonderful connection for us to hold on to those memories. We are holding on with you in prayer, spirit and faith. Please continue to spread your boundless gifts. In His Name, The Dickinsons
Michael Dickinson <modicko@netzero.net>
Robbinsdale, MN U.S.A. - Wednesday, September 5, 2007 10:13 PM CDT
Hope the two of you are well. I have been thinking alot about the two of you. Hope things are going well now that you are back at school. I still think of the two of you and Ellis everyday. Have a blessed night.
With love thoughts and prayers each and everyday./

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, September 3, 2007 3:46 PM CDT
Dearest Sam & Melissa -

Just wanted to stop by and say, I think of you every day. I think of sweet tender Ellis every day.

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, September 2, 2007 11:55 AM CDT
I've been thinking about Ellis a lot lately. I hope you guys enjoyed your first week back at school! I was thinking about you on Monday, Melissa, and thinking about how you are directing the choirs again! Those LUCKY students!!! I totally wish I was in your choirs again!

Hope all is well with you two!
God Bless!
Sara Q. <sara.quarberg@uwrf.edu>
Blaine, MN - Friday, August 31, 2007 11:24 AM CDT
We continue to be inspired by Ellis and his story of courage and love! Thank you for the updates and for allowing many whom you have never met share in his beautiful legacy and the never-ending ways in which such a special boy has touched so many!!

Our continued thoughts and prayers for strength and healing!
Pam Walz & family
Cold Spring, MN www.caringbridge.org/visit/nathanwalz - Friday, August 24, 2007 10:37 PM CDT
Sam & Melissa -

Countdown to school. I hope that this new venture or I should say adventure goes well for you Sam. To leave a position that must have brought you such satisfaction and work with some incredible students to do something new is very brave. I wish I was that brave. I know that you will be wonderful in this new position.

Melissa - Please keep writing. You words are so incredible!!

I think of sweet,tender Ellis every day. I think of you both so often.

God Bless You Both!!!!
Cheryl
- Thursday, August 23, 2007 11:18 PM CDT
Tiny Angel

Tiny Angel rest your wings
sit with me for awhile.
How I long to hold your hand,
And see your tender smile.
Tiny Angel, look at me,
I want this image clear...
That I will forget your precious face
Is my biggest fear.
Tiny Angel can you tell me,
Why you have gone away?
You weren't here for very long...
Why is it, you couldn't stay?
Tiny Angel shook his head,
"These things I do not know...
But I do know that you love me,
And that I love you so".

Author © Unknown
Polly from http://groups.yahoo.com/groups/Angel_Wings <polly1511@gmail.com>
- Monday, August 20, 2007 11:16 PM CDT
You are an amazing writer, and your posts touch me beyond description.
Shelli
- Saturday, August 18, 2007 11:08 AM CDT
Hey Sam and Melissa!

I am thinking of you this morning hoping you are well. I know the school year is nodding its head in your direction at this time, and I suppose you are both preparing to join the workforce together! I wish you many happy days and peaceful moments. I also wish you the strength you need to continue to grow in a positive light, as you preserve all the tender memories of your Sweet Ellis! Take Care!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Tuesday, August 14, 2007 9:44 AM CDT
I think of you often and wonder, just wonder. I wonder why such awful things happen in this lifetime. I get frustrated, scared - just some of the emotions you have gone through, and continue to. Then I look out at wonder at the beauty of creation - the eagles, butterflies, flowers, the smell of pine trees, water, hugs...the list is endless. Somehow there are still reasons to be thankful.

Love to both of you from my journey,

Joanne
Joanne Eittreim <j.eittreim@comcast.net>
- Monday, August 13, 2007 4:31 PM CDT
I am so glad that you continue with this journal!!! I still check it periodically for any updates or to see how you are doing and what is going on with you and your family. The artwork is beautiful!! What a wonderful, beautiful, inspirational reminder. My thoughts and prayers remain with you and your family.
Denise Green <denise.green@anokaramsey.edu>
Coon Rapids , MN USA - Monday, August 13, 2007 2:16 PM CDT
That piece of artwork is one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen. What a truly awesome way to honor your sweet, brave boy and his journey. Please know I continue to hold your family in my prayers.
Laura Lynn and my two little miracle nephews, Asher and ^Jacob^: www.caringbridge.org/visit/asherandjacob <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Hollidaysburg, Pa - Sunday, August 12, 2007 8:10 PM CDT
Dear Bravest Mama and Dada -

Happy Sunday to you. Please forgive me for asking you to put Ellis' videos back up. What you do on this site is your decision and what your comfort zone at this time is. I asked out of my selfishness and not what is good for you.

This little soul has brought so much to my life. His life was was an inspiration and his legacy to so many people is still influencing so many. Brave, strong and smiling that is what is Ellis. He truly is super Ellis.

God Bless You Both. Missy for writing Ellis' story and Sam too, your posts were great. Sam for being a Great Dada. I hope that you are not preparing to close Ellisville. Though again you have to do what is healthy and well for you. Again please forgive me for being so selfish.

You are both strong beautiful people. Thank you for sharing your son's life with us.

God Bless and Keep You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, August 12, 2007 12:15 AM CDT
Though I have never met you, or your precious son, I don't need to know Ellis to love Ellis. And I love Ellis for what he brings to my life. About the time your beautiful boy abandoned his battered body, doctors began raising concerns about my infant son. These months later, we still have no answers... maybe there are none. I have been feeling anxious, preparing for another round of specialists and test results this week, and I found myself wandering a department store. I decided to buy my son a new outfit, so he'd look especially cute for the doctors. There, standing out on the rack, was an adorable blue romper printed all over with turtles. There were also words. As I got closer, I was certain they would read, "slow and steady." Instead, the phrase was "easy going." That is the perfect description of my son, and a wonderful outlook for our week ahead. Thank you for the gift of Ellis in my life today.
Andrea Krinke
Buffalo, MN USA - Saturday, August 11, 2007 9:26 PM CDT
The videos are gone. Please put them back. I know that is the most selfish thing to ask of you. It must be hard to see them, but they bring such happiness. That sweet little boy!!!

I understand though, you do what you have to for you. God Bless You Both
Cheryl
- Saturday, August 11, 2007 12:01 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam,
We all think of you and speak of you often here on 5C. There will never be a way to explain in words the way you and Ellis impacted all who cared for him. You are all a gift.
Your nurse, Brie
Brie Jensen <kbkjensen@yahoo.com>
Hudson, WI USA - Saturday, August 11, 2007 4:33 AM CDT
I just went to your Drop Shots attachment of Ellis talking, walking, swinging and laughing and it's gone. My heart just sank. Can we get it back? I need to see them.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Friday, August 10, 2007 12:57 AM CDT
Melissa & Sam-

Thinking of both of you always. I cannot grasp how difficult it is to think and write your Journal, but thank you for your beautiful words and refections. Ellis continues to visit, inspire and share his beauty with everyone who has heard his story. That is how God works, I think. You are right. Ellis IS.

Peace always,

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN United States - Thursday, August 9, 2007 10:33 PM CDT
Sorry that I haven't posted for such a long time, but I visit this page to see Ellis's smiling face often, and I am praying for you each day. What beautiful art work to commerate such a beautiful life! May God be with you both as you head into a new school year.
Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Thursday, August 9, 2007 7:59 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam,
I simply can't find the words to express how that piece of commissioned artwork made me feel...the words of Psalm 121 below those images that both bring tears and a smile at the same time have taken on a new meaning in my life in the past month. Those words also bring tears and a smile, for completely different reasons. My mom passed away a month ago last Thursday, and life is never the same after saying goodbye to a loved one, no matter who that person is. The morning before she died, a good friend of our family (who also happened to be a pastor who has helped both my parents and us cope with these end-of-life issues and questions that we never want to think or speak of)had a devotion with my mom (she was in a coma at the time), my brother, and me based on those inspiring and comforting words. As I sat with her and grasped so tightly her hand as she slipped away, I read her those words again. Three times since then have those words caused me to be overcome with emotion: our private family memorial service, her funeral, and now again as I read them on Ellis's memorial artwork. Life will never be the same, but it is better because of the times we spent with angels like Ellis and my mom.
Kristen Genet <kristen.genet@anokaramsey.edu>
Cottage Grove, MN - Saturday, August 4, 2007 2:52 PM CDT
You are never far from our thoughts and prayers. Hope your weekend is happy.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Friday, August 3, 2007 6:23 PM CDT
Sam & Melissa - Well the summer is drawing to a close soon and back to school time for you both. I hope your working together will be a wonderful experience for you both. I am sure that it will be.

Know that a day doesn't go by that I don't think of you both and our wonderful, sweet, brave boy!!!

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Friday, August 3, 2007 10:52 AM CDT
Always, ALWAYS thinking of you and of Ellis.
Serah and Tate
- Thursday, August 2, 2007 9:27 PM CDT
Sam and Melissa what beautiful work and wow its amazing but so is your Ellis, not a day goes by that I dont think of him,, God bless
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Thursday, August 2, 2007 7:53 AM CDT
Sam & Melissa (and of course Ellis!)
What beautiful artwork and such a nice entry. I have visited Ellis' sight for a long time and was infrequent at leaving messages but always inspiried by your courage and Ellis' will. I loved the stories you told about the man who would come around singing. The artwork done about Ellis is almost without words it is so beautiful. I wanted to tell you our son loves music, he's 3. Inspiried by one particular picture of Ellis, we bought him one of those pianos for his 3rd birthday and he loves it. On top of it there is a keyboard and a harmonica. Everyday in some way he is composing whether its dedicated play on the piano or just the passing by tink tink tink. It makes me think of Ellis - he lives on through many of us and inspires us to slow down and enjoy the moment. Be well.
Andrea Larson <andrea.larson@medtronic.com>
St. Paul, MN USA - Wednesday, August 1, 2007 1:41 PM CDT
How comforting it will be for us to get to see Super Ellis when we go to clinic. It will be like he is right there with us, watching over us.

The artwork is simply precious.

Love,
The Corbo's
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
The Corbo's
- Tuesday, July 31, 2007 10:24 PM CDT
The artwork is incredible. What a beautiful tribute to your precious Ellis. Continuing to hold you close in thought and prayer...
Shirley Ochnser <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Tuesday, July 31, 2007 10:50 AM CDT
I still remember you and Ellis each day. I hope you continue to find strength in each other.


Shannon
MN - Monday, July 30, 2007 8:58 PM CDT
I am drawn back again and again to Ellis's artwork. Each time I see something more. It is Well With My Soul. How can so few words say so much about the human spirit. That sweet smiling face is so precious.

I hope that things are getting better for your hearts and souls. The hole in your hearts and souls will never close, but hopefully it will become less hurtful and the day when you feel true joy will come again.

I think of you both every day and try to emulate our sweet tender Ellis in being brave and stong. I fail too often, I am afraid, but then I come and see his tender face and keep trying.

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Monday, July 30, 2007 5:00 PM CDT
Good morning Melissa and Sam. What a beautiful way to remember Ellis. I think of all of you often. May God continue to bless you as your continue this journey without your beloved Ellis.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Monday, July 30, 2007 7:49 AM CDT
What an amazing way to honor the bravest and strongest boy in the world. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of the two of you and Ellis. Thank you so much for sharing Ellis with all of us. Thank you for sharing your joy, pain, sorrow and everything else you feel. With contunued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn usa - Sunday, July 29, 2007 9:17 PM CDT
Just stopping by to say Hey!!! Thinking of you both. Hope your day will be good.

I am so enthralled with the art work of Ellis. The sweetest, tenderest, bravest, stongest boy!!! It is an awesome tribute to him.

Take care bravest Mama and Dada!!!

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, July 29, 2007 9:18 AM CDT
Thank you for sharing your precious son's journey as well as your honesty as you greive. I pray for you to feel peace and comfort.
If you get a chance, visit another caringbridge story. The mom has also lost her precious child (heart)and shares her feelings as honestly as you do.
www.caringbride.org/ohio/francescafrisone
C
Clarksville, IN - Saturday, July 28, 2007 12:16 AM CDT
What a wonderful tribute to a brave boy and his parents too! He surely won't be forgotten for so many reasons and the art project will be discussed forever. Glad you had a good trip and thanks for the music at Debbie's funeral. It was special. The first everything that happens after a loss is so difficult and then time begins to heal us slowly but surely.. That is how we survive losses of loved ones. Think of you often and hope your upcoming school year will be a good one for both of you .
Connie <lpriebe@smig.net>
Austin, Mn USA - Friday, July 27, 2007 3:00 PM CDT
What an appropriate tribute to the strongest, bravest, tenderest boy!!! To come and see that sweet, sweet smile when your child is facing heart surgery. I have looked at it 3 or 4 times now when I come to Ellisville and every time I see a different picture of our darling, precious Ellis and he is always smiling!!!

I thank God every day that I was given the opportunity to come to Ellisville. My life has not been the same.

Thank you bravest, stongest Mama and Dada ever, to share your son and to share the news of his beautiful artwork.

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Friday, July 27, 2007 2:53 PM CDT
That art work is so beautiful i hope to see it one day when in Minnapolis.Your words are so amazing and i have to agree tears flowing yet a smile and a laugh.I was honored to have met you in person at Debbie's service.You both are one of a kind.Love&continued Prayers sent your way.Greg&Annemarie Meyer
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Friday, July 27, 2007 12:29 AM CDT
Just a note to let you know that you all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! The artwork is absolutley lovely and what a wonderful tribute to such a WONDERFUL boy!!
Carrie F <carrie4rd@suddenlink.net>
Charleston, WV USA - Friday, July 27, 2007 8:45 AM CDT
What a beautiful piece of Art in honor of a wonderful boy and his family. Thanks so much for writing again. You are so awesome in the way you express your thoughts. I am thinking and praying for you. Yes we have discussed and decided to be organ donors. I think it is great you are helping spread the word for organ and blood donation. My love and prayers are with you. I am glad you were able to travel.
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
maple Grove, mn hennipen - Thursday, July 26, 2007 11:08 PM CDT
Your words always bring tears to my eyes and somehow you always manage to throw in a smile. Still thinking of you both...thinking of all 3 of you. Thank you for reminding me to go give my O negative. Thank you.

Mel Grammont <madebymel@gmail.com>
Appleton, WI - Thursday, July 26, 2007 5:08 PM CDT
I am positive Ellis would applaud the faboulous art in his honor! It's really cool! What a wonderful way to remember, love and hold onto all of the days of joy he brought to this earth! What a contribution he has made into the world! It is amazing how he is still giving... and he will continue to do so! What a blessing he has been!

So glad to hear that your trip brought you some good times and self exploration... new ways to remember your sweet Son and fresh ways to look at life now. We think of you often and remember Ellis in such a tender way.

Keep on keeping on! I know you will always find positive outlets of healing and hope and faith. You are inspiring to us Ellisville residents!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Thursday, July 26, 2007 3:42 PM CDT
AMAZING artwork and what a blessed tribute to that strongest boy in the world. We still pray for you and think of you often.... I will pass your requests on to those I know as well. Thank you for being such an inspiration.
Baumgartner Family <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Thursday, July 26, 2007 3:14 PM CDT
What a beautiful way to remember Ellis! That art work is beyond incredible. I'm praying for you two, your family, and Ellis' little heart buddy. God Bless you guys always!
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Thursday, July 26, 2007 2:00 PM CDT
Thank you Melissa for updating and sharing this amazing picture with us. I am amazed at all that Ellis has inspired. I think of you guys daily and still check in daily to the website. Ellis will never be forgotten and please don't stop writing.

God Bless
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, July 26, 2007 11:54 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa,
There have been so many times that I have thought of you both and Ellis. As this date (July 25th, well now the 26th)was approaching, you had been on my mind even more. I knew you would post a moving entry as usual to acknowledge this anniversary and I was happy to log in to Ellisville today and see happy smiling photos (and the fantastic artwork!) of Ellis and to hear that you are both doing okay. I am so glad that Ellis's memory is kept so alive in many ways... here on 5C there have been many times that I hunt down the CD's you donated to play for my patients. I don't know if it's more for the kids or for me so that I can hear Beatles for Babies CD and think of Ellis...
I will be soon leaving 5C to go on to grad school full time; I leave with so many experiences, but certainly one that will forever stand out in my mind is the time I spent with Ellis and getting to know your family. Thank you for letting me be your nurse! My very best wishes always!

Anna Rutherford PICU RN
Anna Rutherford <annarutherford888@hotmail.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, July 26, 2007 2:50 AM CDT
You are truly amazing!!! I want to let you know that I come by this site often to check on you guys and remember your beautiful son Ellis. He was and is such an inspiration. Thank you for continuing to bless all of us through your words.
Ashleigh
CA - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 11:10 PM CDT
Not a day goes by that little Ellis and you, his family, are not in our hearts, our thoughts -- the strongest, bravest boy's heart photo is displayed prominently in our home as that reminder of such great love and joy he brought to so many of us-- he is special!!! The story of courage, determination, and love live on forever and we thank you for continuing to share your journey!
Donna & Jeff Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 8:23 PM CDT
Wow, That's all I can bring myself to say...You are an inspiring writer....You are an inspiring mom....Thank you for that!
Kirsten <kirsten.hammel@hdrinc.com>
grand meadow, MN - Wednesday, July 25, 2007 7:25 AM CDT
Thinking of you today.
Angela Jamieson
Brooklyn Park, MN - Tuesday, July 24, 2007 10:03 AM CDT
I haven't posted for awhile, but have to say it again, I do NOT go a day without thinking of that sweet, sweet tender baby!!!! Or his special brave MaMa and DaDa.

I have to relate a story, the other day I was driving to work, running late as usual and I get behind this old dude in his truck. Now I am like why do I always get behind old people, blah, blah, blah. Well I got to looking at him and his mouth was moving and I though he was cussing me out because I was right behind him, and then I looked again and I realized he was SINGING, this old guy was singing!!! And I thought whose fault is it I am late, I can't get there any sooner, and I started to laugh. It was a bright beautiful day and he had his windows down and he was singing!!! LIFE IS GOOD. Thank you my darling Ellis!!!!
Cheryl
- Monday, July 23, 2007 2:22 PM CDT
Missing Ellis.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
St. Michael, MN - Saturday, July 21, 2007 2:52 PM CDT
Thinking of you.








Corella Thorbeck
Plymouth, MN - Friday, July 20, 2007 8:25 PM CDT
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of Ellis and the both of you. Hope your trip was good and you had fun. Have a wonderful rest of your summer. With continued thoughts, love and prayers each and every day.
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Friday, July 20, 2007 4:52 PM CDT
I am thinking strongly of you two today, and of Sweet Angel Ellis. After re-reading your last entry I was sharply reminded of how intense the love of a parent and child is. How blessed Ellis was to have you every moment of his life. Always there, always loving him, Always.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Wednesday, July 18, 2007 11:25 AM CDT
Hi Sam and Melissa! I hope you guys had a wonderful trip and were able to find some more peace in your lives. I read a previous entry from someone who said they think of Ellis everyday....I too, think of him everyday. It is strange sometimes, I wonder to myself why I do so.....and it just goes to show you what an impact he had on me and many others....he is forever precious and almost remembered! You are a sweet sweet boy Ellis! Watch over mommy and daddy as they swim on!!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 16, 2007 12:59 AM CDT
What a beautiful tribute to Ellis, Mandolin Paul playing his songs on his stings on a mountain. That sweet boy was looking down smiling all the way.

Oh sweet tender Ellis, what a footprint you have left on so many lives!!!

God Bless You Bergstroms!!! The strongest, bravest Mama and Dada ever!!!!
Cheryl
- Monday, July 16, 2007 12:03 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa, I haven't signed the book in a long time but i think of you all often and come to the websight often to see if you have been here and see that beautiful little boy. Jean Norton
JeanNorton <jeano1946@msn.com>
Austin, Mn. Mower - Monday, July 16, 2007 9:02 AM CDT
Dear Sam and Melissa: My wife and I just got back from Oregon where we climbed the South Sister mountain outside of Bend. I had Ellis' strings along, and played music dedicated to his memory all the way to the summit. I came across a plaque dedicated to a young climber who had died there, and at the bottom, it said, "life may not always be perfect, but it is always wonderful." Of course I immediately related it to Ellis. Was Ellis' life perfect? Of course not. But it was thoroughly wonderful. Thoroughly, totally and completely wonderful, and it will never be forgotten.
Paul Hahn <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 16, 2007 0:02 AM CDT
I'm very sorry to hear about your aunt, Sam. I'm praying for you guys!

Love and prayers,
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 9:16 PM CDT
Just thinking of Ellis and you...Hope your trip was wonderful...Gail
gail ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, ky usa - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 8:36 PM CDT
Sam and Melissa. I just heard that Sam's aunt Debbie died (some of you know her as Logan and Owen's grandma, www.caringbridge.org/mn/bushaw). I am very sorry for your loss. Just know that she is up with Beautiful Ellis now and they are playing together and talking about how wonderful Heaven is.
Sara <sarmoe@co.mower.mn.us>
- Wednesday, July 11, 2007 3:12 PM CDT
Just thinking of you today and wanted you to know....
Happy thoughts coming your way.
Traci Baumgartner <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 2:27 PM CDT
Thinking about you today and praying that you are both well.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Wednesday, July 11, 2007 7:29 AM CDT
Sam & Melissa -

The last week has had a lot of hard challanges for me. Things I thought had been dealt with cropped up again. I had to face something I didn't think I had the courage to do.

The one shining beacon that got me through this was our sweet precious Ellis. I faced the really, really hard thing I had to do today thinking of him, the bravest boy ever!!! How could I not at least attempt to be brave and face my hard problem.

I think of him EVERY day, this is no lie. That little sweet face is always in my head. That brave little soul who faced so much, but always had a smile on his face.

Thank you, thank you again for sharing his beautiful little spirit and his life with us. You are the bravest DaDa and MaMa ever!!!

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Wednesday, July 11, 2007 0:35 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam,
Although this is a different kind of pain and grief, I am in the process of coping with the loss of my Mom, who passed away last Monday. She had 10 grandchildren whom she absolutely adored. I just wanted to let you know that there was a Grandma with Ellis now...She loved watching my kids play, and now that her broken body has been healed, she can run and play with Ellis.
Kristen Genet <kristen.genet@anokaramsey.edu>
- Tuesday, July 10, 2007 12:44 AM CDT
Thinking of you both today and your beautiful Angel.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 11:38 AM CDT
I'm sure many other people have passed it, but I was driving through St. Paul last week and passed Ellis Drum Shop! It brought a smile to my face and of course, made me think of OUR Ellis!!
Wendy Grimes <wendy.grimes@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 10:36 AM CDT
Sam,
I don't know if you'll even remember me, but we used to play in band together. When I woke up this morning, the last thing I could've expected was that I'd be reading your son's story on this website or that you were teaching music in my town - the Lord works in mysterious ways.

I am SO very sorry to hear of all the challenges you and your family have had to face, and ultimately the loss of your beautiful boy. I'm literally brought to tears reading the memorial and viewing the pictures. You were truly blessed with a little angel - just for too short a time.

Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Sarah Christiansen <sarahdactyl1@yahoo.com>
Albertville, MN USA - Monday, July 9, 2007 9:37 PM CDT
Never does a day go by that I do not stop to remember you all....
Marno <msimon@gillettechildrens.com>
minnetonka, mn usa - Monday, July 9, 2007 4:31 PM CDT
Hello Sam and Melissa,
I hope your trip was wonderful. I don't sign your guestbook as much as I did in the past, but please know that I visit Ellisville everyday and look at a wonderful child and his wonderful parents. I think of Ellis and both of you often. I wish you a great summer.
Love and prayers always....Lana
Ellis will never be forgotten and neither will either of you!!
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Robbinsdale, MN - Monday, July 9, 2007 1:03 PM CDT
Thinking of you. Hugs of peace and comfort go out to you.
Susan Watson <susanwatson1999@hotmail.com>
St. Paul, MN - Friday, July 6, 2007 6:37 PM CDT
Looking forward to hearing of your travels abroad... Wishing you good days and happy moments together. Hope you are well!
The Russellls <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Friday, July 6, 2007 3:20 PM CDT
Thinking of you today...
Theresa
Pa - Friday, July 6, 2007 11:25 AM CDT
Just thinking of you all, so thought I'd send out a hello.....keeping you in my prayers!
Carrie <carrie4rd@suddenlink.net>
Charleston, WV USA - Thursday, July 5, 2007 9:16 AM CDT
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.

Where there is hatred, let me sow love, where there is injury, pardon, where there is doubt, faith, where there is despair, hope, where there is darkness, light, where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console, not so much to be understood as to understand, not so much to be loved, as to love; for it is in giving that we receive, it is in pardoning that we are pardoned, it is in dying that we awake to eternal life.

Saint Francis of Assisi

Sending you Angel Hugs, Praises and Prayers today.
Polly/Angel_Wings <polly1511@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, July 4, 2007 4:10 PM CDT
Happy 4th Sam & Melissa!! I am glad I am the first post today. I needed a smile so I came here and saw that sweet precious face in his Elmo car and his beautiful smile. Our darling sweet Ellis!! Those bright little eyes and that huge smile!!! It makes me smile every time.

I hope you are having a bang up (get it!!) fourth!!! I think about you both always and pray your hearts are getting lighter.

I have exhausted my Italian and absolutely don't know any German phrases, aren't you glad!! Ha-Ha!!!

Please take care of yourselves and know that everyone who comes to this site is compelled by the sweetest, bravest, strongest boy in the world and his wonderful, brave parents.

God Bless You Both, always!!!!
Cheryl
- Wednesday, July 4, 2007 11:56 AM CDT
I was thinking about Ellis today, so I had to "stop in" here and see his adorable, smiling face!! :)

God Bless!!!
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 9:11 PM CDT
I was visiting yet another caringbridge website today and everytime I come here I think of Ellis. Please know that Ellis will never be forgotten by even those of us who never really knew him. He was and you both are an inspiration to many many people. Hope you have a great time in Italy. Congrats to Sam on the new position. Maybe someday we will see him at an STMA function again.


Monica Bachman <monicabork@yahoo.com>
Bennington, NE - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 1:40 PM CDT
Hi Sam and Melissa, I, like Cheryl, still check in everyday. It's hard not to. I still draw strength from reading other people's posts and love looking at his pictures and the videos of him. They touch my heart deeply.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 12:35 AM CDT
Bella Bergstroms - I hope your trip was awesome!!! The food had to be wonderful!!! I am just stopping by to say I am thinking of you all and hoping you are all settled in to your lil house in the Grove after your trip.

Every day I think of sweet tender Ellis and the effect he had on people's lives, especially mine. That sweet lil face. I love the pic of him on the site. I might not sign in every day, but I come here every day.

God's Blessing on you both and prayers to you both to hopefully make each day a small bit easier for you.

God Bless You Both.
Cheryl
- Tuesday, July 3, 2007 10:35 AM CDT
I hope you had a wonderful trip! I was just stopping by to see your beautiful boy and his beautiful smile. He so touched my heart. Thinking of you and remembering Ellis...he IS!
Thank You!
T'Ann Love <daveandtannlove@yahoo.com>
Ovid, MI USA - Tuesday, July 3, 2007 0:08 AM CDT
I love the honesty of your writing. It is so real. You don't hold back the reality of your lives now. I weep for you and your sorrow. I hope for your future. I smile at the pictures of Ellis. I remember Ellis. I never met him, but I remember his strength, his beauty, his love for you and for life.
Mary S-S
Shelby Township, MI - Monday, July 2, 2007 5:29 PM CDT
Hello Sam & Melissa,
I loved reading your posting and am so happy to hear of your European Adventure. I hope you had a great time.
I think about you both and Ellis often. All the babies are enjoying the CD's you donated, especially the "Beatles for Babies" one. So good to hear from you, have a wonderful rest of the summer!
Rachel RN <theducharmes@charter.net>
Elk River, MN - Saturday, June 30, 2007 6:41 PM CDT
So sorry about your loss.
Keith Oldenkamp <kolden@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Saturday, June 30, 2007 10:35 AM CDT
Bona Sera - Bergstroms. My Italian is very limited, like 2 words. I hope your trip was wonderful. I stopped by to see the sweetest face ever on my way to work. That sweet smile!!

I think of you all every day!!! I pray for your renewed spirits. I hope all is going well and you are not too jet lagged. Ugh!!

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Saturday, June 30, 2007 8:19 AM CDT
Hello Bergstrom's! By now I suppose you are back from your adventure. How I hope and pray you had a good time! And I hope that nefarious airline didn't cancel any of your flights!

I still thank God everyday for the opportunity I had to meet your son. I will never, ever forget it.
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 29, 2007 9:12 PM CDT
Wow--another amazingly eloquent entry that makes one thoroughly feel and appreciate the spectrum of emotions that you continue to face! I can't imagine trying to find that delicate balance between wanting to escape the feelings because of the pain and yet needing to embrace the feelings because of the love and joy that was (IS!) Ellis. I am praying that your trip brings lots of smiles to your faces and a nutures your souls.

Blessings,
Barb www.caringbridge.org/visit/barbberg
Barb Berg <bergbarb@comcast.net>
- Friday, June 29, 2007 10:40 AM CDT
I walked outside yesterday after work. It was a beautiful sunny day and there in the parking lot was a brand-new Jeep with its top down. On the back tire there was a cover that said (in very big letters) ... LIFE IS GOOD! Thanks, Ellis!

Thinking of you and Ellis.


Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Thursday, June 28, 2007 3:41 PM CDT
Sam and Melissa I hope the two of you had a good time on your vacation. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about the two of you and how much Ellis is missed. May god bless the both of you as you continue this journey we call "life" without Ellis. He is looking down from above and smiling at the two of you. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Thursday, June 28, 2007 0:15 AM CDT
Melissa & Sam - I hope your trip is going well and you are seeing sights that will renew your battered spirits.

I think of you all every day and our special Ellis. The bravest, strongest boy in the world.

That's it, I just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and praying for you both.

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Tuesday, June 26, 2007 9:10 AM CDT
Dear Sam and Melissa,

As your trip comes to a close, I pray you come home energized and renewed and ready to take on the world! You two have so much to give to the world. You are a wonderful legacy to your son. He'd be so proud of both of you.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Monday, June 25, 2007 5:05 PM CDT
I can't get enough of that smile! I hope you guys had a great time on your vacation! Thinking about you, as always! God bless!!! :)
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, June 25, 2007 12:48 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa....I hadn't been on your site for a few weeks[was dealing with a eye issue and and it was hard to see with one eye]Again your writings are priceless...beautiful...inspirational to say the least.I don't think we could ever forget your baby Ellis or his mommy&daddy.Hope your having a wonderful trip and congratulations Sam on your new job,the two of you will be fabulous together they are the lucky ones to have you both.Caring thoughts sent your way today as we do everyday.Love&Prayers greg&annemarie meyer...PRAYER request for a VERY "special" DR. who needs them today Dr.Barb Berg www.caringbridge.org/barbberg
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Monday, June 25, 2007 7:34 AM CDT
Dear Melissa & Sam,

Not a day goes by our household that we don't think of you two and the bravest boy in the world.

You continue to amaze us with your strength. A statement I'm sure you've heard before and want to slap the person who says it. Why should you have to be strong? Why do you have to endure such pain? Why to any of it? I've asked myself and God these questions so often. I still have no answers here on earth.

We can only try to imagine what your life feels like now after the journey you walked with Ellis. No one will ever know what it was like then and what it is like now. We can only pray for peace in your lives now and the rejoice in knowing you will get to be with Ellis again.

We pray you enjoyed your trip and were able to appreciate the beauty and life around you and feel that Ellis was right along with you.

Peace for you two always,
The Corbo's
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
www.caringbridge.org/mn/corboboys
The Corbo's
- Sunday, June 24, 2007 10:56 PM CDT
Today is the 6th anniversary of my son's birth/death. It seems like only yesterday, yet it seems like an eternity ago too. The good days far outnumber the bad ones now. Rather than wallowing in the pity (although I have allowed a pity party or 2), I've tried to remember the blessings we received during our difficult time. Our's started half way into the pregnancy. It's hard to be as sad when your heart gets filled with thanks. I didn't get to this place overnight; neither will you. You must travel your own journey of grief. There is no "right" way or time. I pray that your trip will lighten your hearts. You are so often on mine, especially on a day like today. Remember, we are but a breath away from our children. They are healthy and whole now. We will have them for eternity.
Lisa Murphy <lisamurphy2@charter.net>
Spartanburg, SC - Sunday, June 24, 2007 5:23 PM CDT
Mr and Mrs B,

Ellis lives on in our every day lives; I'm reminded of his smiling face when I see street signs, hear band songs, and am looking for a reason to be strong. Ellis brought so much into our world and he left so much behind and how grateful I am to have had the chance to know him, even just a little bit. You are both amazingly strong people and your entries are just one more way I'm reminded of the strongest and bravest little boy. Enjoy your trip and I just wanted to let you know that Ellis IS somewhere. He lives in all of us and the wonderful memories he gave us. My thoughts and prayers always!
Ashley Budde <budd0043@tc.umn.edu>
- Sunday, June 24, 2007 1:23 PM CDT
Dear Sam and Melissa,
I've been thinking about you a lot lately and wondering how you're doing. I just read your journal from the beginning of June and I'm so impressed by your eloquence and courage in expressing your grief journey. Please know that you continue in my prayers. I hope you're having a wonderful trip - your Angel Ellis is with you on all your journeys.

God bless you........
Kathy Stone (Parkview UCC) <kaston@wbl.whitebear.k12.mn.us>
White Bear Lake, MN USA - Friday, June 22, 2007 12:14 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam,
I hope that your trip is going well. I wanted to wish the both of you a happy belated mothers and fathers day. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of the both of you or Ellis. I know that Ellis is watching over the two of you and smiling. He tought so many of us how to live life. I smile every time I look at his heart photo in my car. Have a blessed day and remember "Life is Good"!! Wth continued love thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn USA - Thursday, June 21, 2007 8:35 PM CDT
Yes, he IS somewhere. Somewhere with my daughter and lots of other kids who are happy and healthy, and finally getting the chance to just be kids again.

Be safe on your trip. :)
Cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Thursday, June 21, 2007 4:12 PM CDT
Hello Melissa and Sam,
Just stopping by to look at the wonderful pictures of Ellis. His smile puts a smile on my face each day that I come here. I hope you are having a great time on your trip. Take care of eachother.
Love and prayers everyday.
Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Robbinsdale, MN - Tuesday, June 19, 2007 6:40 AM CDT
Mr & Mrs B....and your map has many roads on it.

We wish you a wonderful rebirth traveling in the many historical places Italy and Europe has to offer. History and the past have a way of building the future. Please remember that!

We will surely miss Mr. B at STMA! You have given so much of your self and made dreams come true for alot of students! (brad just returned from London and Italy as well this past week pursuing his dreams of theatre and music!)(I wonder who inspired him! It must have been those endless jazz band practices....gigs at Barnes & Noble...the trip to Boston)

Again...history has a way of paving the future....look to the past to inspire you for tomorrow...the pain will fade...the joy and laughter will return...and today will create tomorrow.

Best wishes, peace and safe travels!
The Kastendicks <mrfishallday@yahoo.com>
Albertville, MN - Monday, June 18, 2007 8:33 PM CDT
I wish you both the best. I am one of Mrs. Mazzuca's students and she says that her daughter plays in the band that Sam was teaching. So I wanted to come and look at the cute pictures and the wonderful letter. And again I wish you both the best of luck & hope.
Sarah
- Monday, June 18, 2007 2:22 PM CDT
Dear Sam and Melissa,
A faithful follower and rare signer, thoughts of you often even though we haven't met. I hope you are having or had a wonderful trip and come home renewed and filled with hope.
Shawn Schlueter <schluetersm@hotmail.com>
Janesville, MN - Monday, June 18, 2007 12:18 AM CDT
We continue to pray for you both and wish you both peace and strength as you journey through each passing day. Through reading your touching journal entries, it is so evident that your precious son was just SO INCREDIBLY blessed with loving parents. Although his life was far too short, he surely felt more love from you both and was so blessed to have you as his parents. May memories of him live on in your hearts and keep sharing his spirit with others. Take care.
Jody Hermanson
Rogers, MN USA - Sunday, June 17, 2007 9:00 PM CDT
Hello Melissa and Sam. I continue to think of all of you often. I hold the two of you in the highest regard and would love to see you sometime. Please continue to take good care of each other. I miss you. ~Colleen Bulgatz
Colleen Bulgatz <cbulgatz@hotmail.com>
Apple Valley, MN - Sunday, June 17, 2007 7:41 PM CDT
Dearest Sam,
Happy Father's Day to you. You are a wonderful, loving, giving, caring man and I wish the best to you on this day. For Ellis' father you will always be. Always!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Sunday, June 17, 2007 6:28 PM CDT
Thinking of you today, and the ways Ellis' story has inspired me. Happy Father's Day, Sam. Safe travels.
Kat
New York, ny - Sunday, June 17, 2007 1:05 PM CDT
Happy Father's Day Sam. Thinking of you every day.
Kate
- Sunday, June 17, 2007 10:30 AM CDT
There are NO COINCIDENCES WITH GOD, only glorious moments of answered prayers.
It is no coincidence that you, Melissa, signed my blog at approx. 3:55 am this am with a comment: 'nice blog,' after I had awakened extremely early and could not get back to sleep, and was lying in the dark remembering my nieces' comment that the Holy Spirit and the angels work hardest in the wee hours of the morning - and I had it on my mind to add more Gift(s) of Life to my blog (which I had just started a month ago), and it was: The Gift of Hope that caught your attention, causing me to 'check' out who had written the comment; hence, reading your blog entry about Ellis - with tears of empathy and love flowing down my cheeks, reading of your beloved Ellis - and, oh, what a gift he was and is and will continue to be!!! Blessings to you dear sister and may you find peace, in Jesus' name I ask, in knowing that Ellis will be (if he is not already-no man yet knows, exactly when believers are resurrected, after the first death) with His creator, as all of God's children will one day be reunited in His kingdom to give glory to God!
Look at all of the lives that God has touched through your (His) son, Ellis, and both of you, Ellis' parents, God's children, as well.
Love now and forever,
Your sister in Christ,
(There were so many names and dates that matched in my life - that I KNOW this was no coincidence - June 4th (my niece's birthday and anniversary, June 12th, when I was returning home to Co, after visiting my niece in Florida, etc...)

Sharon Harte <nightbird32@excite.com>
Denver, Co USA - Saturday, June 16, 2007 6:57 AM CDT
Thinking of you today... I am sure you are building bridges together that make the next steps walkable. Seeing new ground, smelling new air, breathing life. Your incredible love for each other will hold you up, just as God's love of you will give you strength. We are with you in thought as you experience Italy!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Friday, June 15, 2007 7:42 PM CDT
Missy and Sam you are both amazing people. Thanks for the updates!! Stay strong and enjoy your trip! Know that you are always in the prayers of so many people. We know Ellis is watching over us and this week my grandmother went home to be with the lord she is now with my grandfather who I lost in Feb. So I know that can all hang out ...
Karen <kbuege@wilton.com>
Downers Grove, IL - Thursday, June 14, 2007 10:39 PM CDT
Always thinking and praying for you and your sweet, little boy in Heaven....enjoy your time in Italy!

God Bless,
Joshua, Maria & Emma Knox
The Knox's <jmeknox1@comcast.net>
Eden Prairie, MN - Wednesday, June 13, 2007 9:18 AM CDT
We hope you are both having a great trip! Very few people could empathize with all you have been through, but through your writing, we are inspired and we will continue to "live" and live life to the fullest! You're right, your son and others we have lost continue to give us strenght to guide us through the darkness. Thank you both!
Chris Barott and Brandy Brunmaier
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, June 12, 2007 2:38 AM CDT
You are never out of my thoughts. I think of Ellis everytime Riley does some new (at this point usually naughty)thing and I cry for you. You are both brave. I know it's embarassing to hear that, because I know you probably think "Brave? What choice do we have?" Because I get embarassed when people say we are strong. But sharing your grief, reading your words shows me you are brave and you aren't selfish-you continue to share your beautiful boy with the world.
All our love,
Laurie, Chuck and Riley Holm
The Holms <chuckh55748@yahoo.com>
- Monday, June 11, 2007 7:46 PM CDT
I hope your trip brings many things 'renewed'. My God keep you in the palm of His hand.


Roxann <horsesetc@msn.com>
Audubon, MN USA - Sunday, June 10, 2007 6:03 PM CDT
At work today, a customer was wearing a t-shirt that said "Life is Good" on it. And I thought of you. I hope you are having a fantabulous trip! You'll have to tell me about it when you're back, Melissa! :)
Angela Jamieson
Brooklyn Park, MN - Sunday, June 10, 2007 0:22 AM CDT
Thank you so much for your update, Melissa......... I think of you and often check your website, where I'm greeted by pictures of your beautiful boy!! He has not been forgotten- even by those of us who never really "knew" him.
Megan <mewohlwend@aol.com>
IL - Saturday, June 9, 2007 9:47 PM CDT
still thinking of your family often..
Barbara Dunn <barbthebrat1004@yahoo.com>
Merrillville, IN - Saturday, June 9, 2007 9:17 PM CDT
Melissa and Sam,
I am one of "those" people.
One of those people who still checks in to your blessed Ellis's webpage.
One of those people who has attempted to sign your guestbook many times in the past six months and who discarded all attempts because the words I offered seemed all wrong.
One of those people who weeps and aches and prays for you.
One of those people whose life has been touched by your dear son, Ellis, and the incredible love surrounding him.
God bless you on your journey in Europe.
From one of "those" people who care.
Mollie (Coleman) Trewartha <mollie.trewartha@gmail.com>
Houghton, MI USA - Saturday, June 9, 2007 9:26 AM CDT
May your travels, your journey renew you. You are in my thoughts and my prayers. Melissa your words are so moving. May life be gentle with you this summer.
mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
maple Grove, mn - Friday, June 8, 2007 9:24 PM CDT
Dear Melissa and Sam: Here is hoping you have a wonderful trip! I had to take a peek at your itinerary, and noticed there was no flight between Rome and Vienna. I bet you will be going on a train---how wonderful---may you enjoy each other's company immensely!

Melissa, your writing is so engaging and poignant I hope you let everyone in on the details of your trip. (And how nice that you have a new colleage in the exalted person of your husband! Is there a strict, union-type seniority system at the college? If so, will Sam be able to defer to you as the senior professional?)
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Friday, June 8, 2007 6:51 PM CDT
Dear Sam and Missy,

You both are living life as Ellis lived his...with courage and with hope. Your strength must come from the bravest and the strongest boy ever!!! Ellis.

Love,
Auntie L'....Bergie
Bergie <lambobergie@yahoo.com>
MPLS, MN 55417 - Friday, June 8, 2007 9:56 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam...
Wow...wow...what a journey...that will keep going until the day that you DO see Ellis again. Like so many others, both of you AND Ellis often are in my thoughts. All throughout spring semester, when I'd see you, or Ellis' picture in my office, my heart would ache, my eyes would swell, and incomprehensible feelings for my own children and husband would overwhelm me. Sam -- welcome to Anoka Ramsey! We're glad to have you! My husband and I worked together awhile back...even shared an office for a few years (now THAT was interesting!)...Enjoy your time in Italy and Austria. I've been both places, and they are some of the most beautiful places in all of Europe. Enjoy the time together...laughing, crying, holding, soaking things in...whatever. Know that your support network is always here. Thanks again for sharing Ellis, your personal joys, sorrows, and struggles. You are human...you can be strong, you can be weak, but all three of you have been, to so many people, an inspiration. Life IS good, although it really does suck at times!
Kristen Genet <kristen.genet@anokaramsey.edu>
Cottage Grove, MN - Friday, June 8, 2007 7:40 AM CDT
The day you wrote this... I cried and could not sign in for I did not know what to say. To say that I think of you often doesn't seem enough. To tell you I remember Ellis all the time and miss hearing about him and cheering on his victories doesn't seem enough. I have this weird, vacant, sad place when I try to come up with a morsel of healing words to pass to you... So I said nothing. For a few days now I have thought about it. What should I say? What can I do? And yet, I remain blank. I, like so many others sit and wish we could offer you wonderful, wonderful things that would lift your spirits, warm your souls, and offer you something that would lighten your sadness. It is my hope that simply knowing you are all in our continual prayers, dreams, memories, and wishes that you are carried just one more step on a hard day. Our love for you all is always surrounding you... Thank you for continuing to share your story, and hurdles. We pray for safe travel, healing, growth and remembrance. Our love to you... The Russells


The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Thursday, June 7, 2007 4:37 PM CDT
Yesterday I was at Gillettes West in Minnetonka visiting Courtney's muscle doctor. Courtney had a wonderful appointment. She weighs more then she ever has 46lbs 7ounces and was an inch taller. She was so happy and breathing great. And very relaxed when she realized she was not having botox injections this day. Such a great feeling for all of us. As we exited the exam room all happy we looked up and saw on the wall a big picture of Ellis from when he was in therapy at Gillettes. We smiled even more thankful for how Ellis had touched our family.
Karen Dolge <ksdolge@msn.com>
St Michael, mn us - Thursday, June 7, 2007 3:57 PM CDT
You are an inspiration! The strength that you have gained is incredible yet the pain it still very much there. Time heals and everyone says that when things like this happen, but it does. My parents have both died and I have dealt with that at a young age, but it is a daily life process a person goes through and it can be a benefit and a hinderance but we learn and grow from these things. God does not do anything without his reasons and many beyond our acceptence or abilities to understand but just have to have the peace to know it will be ok... Have a awesome trip! Drink some great wine over there! and enjoy!
Ravae <momps_rae2001@yahoo.com>
St Croix Falls, WI USA - Thursday, June 7, 2007 8:20 AM CDT
Melissa, Sam, theres not a day that goes by I dont think of your sweet Ellis... your both always in my prayers.
God bless you
Tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Thursday, June 7, 2007 7:24 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam, just a note to let you know that Ellis, the two of you, and your families are in my heart. I am in awe of your ability to describe your journey, Melissa. May you feel the support of the many prayers you are remembered in each day. What love Ellis brought to life, a love that lives on forever in you and all those whose paths crossed with his. I know we will all see him again one day. Until then I know he is looking down and wishing you relief from your pain and admiring what you are continuing to do in this world. With love, Nicole
Nicole Newfield <nicolenewfield@hotmail.com>
Hugo, MN US - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 9:52 PM CDT
I hope that you're having a wonderful trip...renewing your spirits. Ellis will always remain in my heart.
Chari Warner <millymango40@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 4:24 PM CDT
I hope you have a wonderful trip. All the best.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, ONtario Canada - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 3:06 PM CDT
God bless you both and have a wonderful and safe trip. Love and prayers, Shelley in Indiana
Shelley Klein
Floyds Knobs, IN USA - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 9:42 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam - I hope you will enjoy your trip. I continue to pray for Ellis and both of you. May God bless you.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Wednesday, June 6, 2007 7:36 AM CDT
Continuing to hold you close in thought and prayer...
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 1:33 PM CDT
I will always remember your sweet Ellis and that the words you write literally cause a lump in my throat. Words can't begin to do justice to your pain and sorrow - I just wish that there was something/anything that could be done to ease the grief in your heart.

I hope that you have a really good trip to Italy and Australia. It sounds like a wonderful trip although I know that the circumstances surrounding the trip make it less so...
Kim Magnan <k_magnan@hotmail.com>
Plt Prairie, WI - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 12:20 AM CDT
Sweet sweet Ellis, I still think of him every single day!! What a precious special boy. My heart aches for you both, I hope that the weight one day is lifted and you have only happy memories and thoughts of sweet Ellis. I know that the loss will never fade but I hope that it becomes something that brings only happy memories. God Bless You both, enjoy your vacation together!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, June 5, 2007 12:16 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa,
Ellis IS in the minds of so many people so often. We all think of your whole family. I hope you and Sam have a wonderful trip.
Wendy Grimes <wendy.grimes@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 10:28 AM CDT
Always remembering Ellis and his smile. May God be with you and Sam on your trip. May you began to heal and just have beautiful memorizes of Ellis.
Donna <drobinson1027@aol.com>
Williamston, SC USA - Tuesday, June 5, 2007 10:06 AM CDT
Ellis has the most beautiful smile! Remembering him today and ALWAYS, as he is always reminding me and teaching me new things about life. :0) I hope you are enjoying your first night in Italy! You two deserve it. Don't forget to smile, because I'm pretty sure that Ellis is always smiling down on you! :0) The ARCC music dept is SO lucky to be gaining such an AWESOME addition to their music faculty!!!! :0) Life is GOOD!! Ellis will NEVER be forgotten. I'm SOOO glad that I've had the privilege of knowing all of you!

With MANY thoughts and prayers everyday,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, June 4, 2007 11:07 PM CDT
Ellis has the most beautiful smile! Remembering him today and ALWAYS, as he is always reminding me and teaching me new things about life. :0) I hope you are enjoying your first night in Italy! You two deserve it. Don't forget to smile, because I'm pretty sure that Ellis is always smiling down on you! :0) The ARCC music dept is SO lucky to be gaining such an AWESOME addition to their music faculty!!!! :0) Life is GOOD!! Ellis will NEVER be forgotten. I'm SOOO glad that I've had the privilege of knowing all of you!

With MANY thoughts and prayers everyday,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, June 4, 2007 11:07 PM CDT
Remembering Ellis today, as always...

Love and Prayers,
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Monday, June 4, 2007 10:51 PM CDT
Melissa: You are a beautiful, beautiful woman. Ellis was so very blessed to have you as his mother. I hope that you and Sam have a fantastic time in Europe! And I hope if you flew NWA/KLM we didn't loose your luggage!
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Monday, June 4, 2007 10:50 PM CDT
Your love for your son pours out through your words. I feel like I've known you for years by reading your touching words. Enjoy each other and your trip to Europe. Ellis is in my thoughts frequently even though I came to your site shortly before he went to heaven. I am a better person because of all of you. I hope the angel I miscarried in May has found Ellis in heaven.


Shannon
MN - Monday, June 4, 2007 9:20 PM CDT
I still cry everytime I come back to Ellis' site. I am so glad you and Sam can still find hope in your loss of Ellis. What a lucky little boy he was to have such amazing parents. He was and IS amazing little boy! Enjoy your once in a lifetime trip to Italy. Take care.

Stephanie Taylor mommy to Avery and Lauryn Kate
Chesterfield, VA US - Monday, June 4, 2007 9:14 PM CDT
Melissa, I saw your mother's smiling face today. She seems simply radiant. Her time off must have done her some good. :) I then felt compelled to come visit "Ellisville". What a treat to see another radiating smile from Ellis (what a gorgeous picture). I was delighted to see an update from you. You continue to amaze me. I have been in awe of Ellis from the beginning and continue to be... I've been in awe of his parents strength, the pure beauty of your love, your ability to express it ALL so eloquently... There doesn't seem to be adequate words to express how amazing it all is. I am simply in awe... Please know how Ellis has touched me deeply and how your passion comes through and continues to touch me (and I'm sure other residents here). Sam, congratulations on your new career path - I pray it brings you both great joy! I'm happy to hear you are taking a 3 week trip - may it be one of great renewal! I continue to pray for your comfort and peace.
Shawn Hanson
- Monday, June 4, 2007 3:56 PM CDT
You both are just absolutely amazing and inspiring! God Bless.
Becky
Winona, MN - Monday, June 4, 2007 1:01 PM CDT
You both continue to amaze and inspire me. Ellis IS, he WILL BE, and I want you both toknow that I tell the incredible story of an impossbily, unbelievably awe-inspiring little boy I never knew, but hope someday to be lucky enough to meet.

With hope always,
~Sarah Larkin
Sarah Larkin <slarkin45@gmail.com>
Frisco, TX USA - Monday, June 4, 2007 12:30 AM CDT
Dear,dear Melissa and Sam, Yes, Ellis IS! What an honor to read your writings! You are awesome! Hold on: you are doing great. Well, if not great than good. Have a fantastic trip! I'm still praying and you are healing, if ever so slowly...slow and steady...
Love, Marilyn Mattson
Marilyn Mattson <dmmattson@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, S.D. U.S.A. - Monday, June 4, 2007 10:39 AM CDT
My dear Melissa, my heart is breaking for you. You are a mother, a wonderful, wonderful unselfish mother!! But you are also a human being. Please do not beat yourself up so. I am always amazed that you both have stayed so sane through the nightmare of the last few weeks of Ellis's precious life. You have been under so much pressure and ups and downs through his life that it is no wonder you have hit the wall, so to speak. But picking yourself up and dusting youself off to keep on going is a testament to you, Ellis's wonderful Mama. I think that a deep sobbing cry is a way to get the feelings out, get the sadness out, maybe people will think that is wrong to say, but it is like drawing the sadness out and start the healing process. I hope your trip will continue your healing process, you need to concentrate on you right now, healing your pain, you will never be the same again, but you will be stronger and life will be good for you again. Not that it isn't now, but you will wake up one day and the pain will be less, but the memory of this wonderful darling boy will be as strong as ever.

Dear Sam, Ellis's wonderful DaDa,I know that you have felt what Melissa has felt. Thank goodness that you have each other and can cling to each other through this time. Your students write so glowingly of you, that you must be a wonderful teacher. I think of you so much. Thank God you have each other and cling to each other. God Bless You.

Have a wonderful trip. I hope you can find peace and healing in Italy. It is suppose to be a beautiful country and sometimes seeing that kind of beauty can be healing and I think that is what you need is healing. I hope I don't sound patronizing or pompus, I just care about you both so much!!!

God Bless you both!!!
Cheryl
- Monday, June 4, 2007 10:17 AM CDT
Thank you for sharing your writings of dear Ellis. Your strength and perspectives help many. Prayers for safe travels.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Monday, June 4, 2007 10:06 AM CDT
What an amzing entry. So vivid and so real. Words that are cognizant of your boy. Enjoy your time away... take it all in.
PS... LOVE the cow sweater!
Margaret <wolfsonmargaret@yahoo.com>
West Saint Paul, MN USA! - Monday, June 4, 2007 8:49 AM CDT
Dear Sam and Melissa, Thank you so much for writing to us. We are still here praying for you and remembering. I find myself thinking of you many times during the day and wanting to know what you are feeling and doing. Perhaps it's because we want to learn from you how to handle such adversity. We want to know what it feels like and you express your feelings so eloquently. You are so "real." I pray you have a wonderful trip together and again thank you for sharing your most private thoughts and feelings with us.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Monday, June 4, 2007 7:23 AM CDT
Yes, I too still check his site almost daily. I love to catch a glimpse of his gorgeous smile. Thank you for updating us all on your lives. We are excited to hear that you will be teaching together. What a blessing. Terry has put much studio time into recording the song he wrote for Ellis, "Each of Us". He wants it to be just right before sharing it with you. Ellis has changed countless lives. Your courage and strength have been inspiring-- your vulnerability -- touching. May God bless you both as you explore Italy and continue on this life journey.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Monday, June 4, 2007 7:13 AM CDT
I too, contine to check Ellis' site 6 months later...HE IS still everywhere...the lessons he taught will be with me my entire life.

Enjoy your trip.

A proud member of Ellisville,
Jessica Dahms
Gavin's Page <jessdahms@Hotmail.com>
Marshall, MN - Monday, June 4, 2007 7:10 AM CDT
I still think of Ellis often and consider myself a proud member of Ellisville. A testimony to that is that I still check his site even now, 6 months later. I, too, want everything to be okay for you. Yet, I know it isn't. How could it be?

The new pictures are precious. What a special, handsome, adorable little man.

Enjoy Italy. You deserve to smile.
Mary S-S
Shebly Twp, MI - Monday, June 4, 2007 6:33 AM CDT
Hello Bergstroms - Just stopping by to let you know that you are in my heart and head and hoping things are going well for you!!!

Life Is Good!!!
Cheryl
- Saturday, June 2, 2007 1:21 PM CDT
You know I have never met any of you. In fact I did not even know of you situation until your precious son passed away. I am from Ipswich SD and his obit was in the Aberdeen paper. I have checked this site so many times and i can't believe the people that still "check in". I think of you guys often I have a son a week older then Ellis. Just wanted to let you know you are amazing couple, with a lot of love to give. Stay strong. You are in many people thoughts and prayers, as evidence in the site, but also people you don't even know. Thank you.
Heidi Sylte <sylte5@yahoo.com>
Ipswich, SD USA - Thursday, May 31, 2007 10:55 PM CDT
Hello Bergstroms! We havent been able to check in for awhile but think of you all very often. After reading a few of the guestbook entries I will have to say that we too thought of Ellis the other day when we saw a turtle on a tree branch hanging over the water. Thank you for checking in on Jaden.
Jeff, Tina, Jaden, and Spenser Nickel <lnickel222@yahoo.com>
Worthington, MN - Thursday, May 31, 2007 8:25 AM CDT
Dear Melissa & Sam-

Was outside for a bit on Memorial Day a couple of days. A beautiful sunny day in the afternoon that made me think of Ellis and his great smile. As always, you are all in my thoughts.

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN U.S.A. - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 12:38 AM CDT
Today I heard some thumping outside of my window, so I looked out and there was a turtle looking at me! Haha! I thought of Ellis and I just wanted to drop a note saying I'm praying for you and I hope you are doing well. :0)
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Wednesday, May 30, 2007 12:01 AM CDT
Just sitting here before work thinking about Ellis. The way that little guy imprinted himself on people's minds was so amazing. You guys have a great day, OK?
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, May 30, 2007 6:09 AM CDT
Dearest Sam & Melissa -

I think of you every day and hope that you are doing well. The school year is done and the summer awaits. I think of Ellis every, every day.

Thank you for sharing your son and lives with all of Ellisville. It has changed my life forever.

I hope you are doing well and know that you have so many people praying and thinking of you. I hope that brings you comfort and some peace.

Life Is Good!!!
Cheryl
- Monday, May 28, 2007 10:00 PM CDT
Just thinking of you all and remembering Ellis.....Hope you are doing as well as can be...It's been a long time since we have heard from you....Hope you can soon update us in Ellisville....Our prayers continue with you....
gail ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, ky usa - Monday, May 28, 2007 6:28 PM CDT
Remembering Ellis........
L Winkel <jlthwink@sbcglobal.net>
Suamico, wi USA - Monday, May 28, 2007 4:32 PM CDT
Hey Bergstroms.

Thinking of you always. Mr.B I hope that you relize that your legacy of your nine years at STMA and Your story will forever be engraved in our hearts and in the walls of STMA high school (figurativly of course ;) and that no band teacher (even Mr.Minkler;) can replace your progress with the bands.

just remember to drop me a line when you get settled in.

Kelsey Dolge
ps I can't wait for the joint concert next year.
Kelsey Dolge <ksdolge@msn.com>
St. Michael , MN USA - Sunday, May 27, 2007 8:37 PM CDT
Hello Bergstroms -

I just had to share this with you and all of Ellisville. I was working my second job last Monday nite. It was the end of the evening and it had been a crummy day, really crummy, and of course I am tired and feeling sorry for myself, boo-hoo, and this woman brings up her copy that she had made. It was a copy of a card, and on the card was the neatest painting of a TURTLE that I had ever seen. She had made a copy of it. I was going to ask her where she had gotten it, but I didn't.

Well the next day I was sitting at my desk and thinking, why didn't I ask her where she had gotten that card and what dummy, hoping that maybe I could find a copy of it, when it dawned on my, that is not what it was all about or why it had been sent to me, yes I think it was just a nudge to remember that LIFE IS GOOD, no matter how crummy your day, or how tired or down, that LIFE IS GOOD, it is good to be alive on this day at this minute!! And that you are not promised any more than right now.

Thank you my darling sweet Ellis, I know you sent that reminder to me. Life is good.

Take care Sam and Melissa, you are forever in my thoughts!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, May 27, 2007 4:49 PM CDT
Thinking of you and remembering your precious little boy. Our prayers are with you always!
Piehl Family
Marion, ND - Saturday, May 26, 2007 8:01 AM CDT
My new tattoo, the turtle from sweet Ellis's main page, above the turtle the words "Slow and steady" below the turtle the words "Wins the race". Just one of lifes lessons I learned from Sam, Melissa and Ellis.
Michelle
- Thursday, May 24, 2007 11:09 AM CDT
Still checking everyday and drawing strength from entries. I hope you will write to us soon. We will never forget your sweet baby boy!

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 7:12 AM CDT
Thinking of you... Hoping your world has settled some as you learn to walk this new part of your journey. May you find many golden moments in these new days.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Wednesday, May 23, 2007 0:11 AM CDT
Always thinking of you.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Tuesday, May 22, 2007 8:44 PM CDT
Praying that you are both doing well and finding some healing during these beautiful spring days. I continue to think of Ellis and pray for your family each day.
Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Monday, May 21, 2007 1:48 PM CDT
We think of you often and hope that you are able to smile (even through tears) as you remember Ellis and the joy he brought to your life. You honor your beautiful little boy's memory with your generous gifts and your expressions of gratitude for those who tried so hard to give him more time on earth. May it comfort you to know that there are many, including us, who continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Marsha and Darrel Bunge and Family
Marsha Bunge <publicimage@comcast.net>
Hugo, MN USA - Sunday, May 20, 2007 5:22 PM CDT
Just checking in to let you know you are still in our thoughts and prayers every day.
Baumgartner's <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, il us - Sunday, May 20, 2007 3:49 PM CDT
I bet Ellis is surrounding his mom today, as always, and giving you BIG birthday hugs from heaven! Thinking about you often and praying for you both! It was fun seeing you tonight! God bless you always!!!
Happy Birthday Melissa!!
Sara <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 9:39 PM CDT
Dear Bergstroms~
We think of you and continue to pray for you often. I hope you were able to celebrate on Sunday. I still agonize on holidays such as that, even 5 years later. Reassurance to me, though, are the words from Ellis's service. In our child's absence, our hurt and our sadness reminds us of our deep, deep love for them. And the days that we don't hurt as much, mean not that we love them less, but that they are allowing us and helping us to heal. For you, I pray for more healing days ahead, in your time, and in God's time.
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
Walters, MN - Tuesday, May 15, 2007 8:30 AM CDT
Melissa and Sam,
I hope the both of you are doing well. It has been a while since I have been to this site. I think of Ellis everyday and remember how brave he was and how he and the both of you have inspied so many people. Here to a spring full of new life. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, mn - Monday, May 14, 2007 7:13 PM CDT
Hello Bergstroms! Just wanted to let Melissa know I was thinking of you yesterday as we celebrated Mother's Day in the North Memorial Pediatric floor family lounge. My great nephew, Oliver (1 year old), was in a car accident on April 29th and was airlifted to North Memorial from a rural area outside of St. Peter, MN. I had told my niece, Oliver's mom, about Ellis a long time ago and I believe she even wrote in your guestbook way back when. Her name is Sarah Schweim from Mankato. She was in awe of your writing, Melissa. Well, she has now drawn upon your strength and become quite a writer herself. Oliver's web page can be found at www.caringbridge.org/visit/oliverschweim. You have definitely been an inspiration to Sarah! Things have been a roller coaster these past two weeks but we had a wonderful Mother's day yesterday with the family and now today they found something on his CT scan and we are anxiously awaiting the results of his MRI. I just wanted to let you know how once again you have touched someone else with the life of your precious son!

Also, I had an Ellis sighting a couple of months ago. As we were driving in the Brainerd area I saw a tire cover on the back of a Jeep that said "Life is good". I know I have seen it before but this time it had a special meaning for me. I certainly hope life has been and continues to be "good" for you as well.
Love you both!
Kassie Houle (www.caringbridge.org/visit/oliverschweim) <jkhoule@att.net>
New Hope, MN - Monday, May 14, 2007 1:55 PM CDT
i'm a day late...and it looks like i'm not the only one who was thinking of you this weekend. melissa, i pray your mother's day was full of remembering...for you were and are an astounding mother. i cannot fathom celebrating such a highly acclaimed day with a full heart and empty arms. there is no little boy like ellis, and for the blessings that were poured forth from his life, i pray they come back to you 100 fold as you press onward. you are such a treasured family in the hearts of many. i just wanted you to know i am still praying for you both and think of you often.
erin eccles <sixtygallons@Hotmail.com>
mankato, mn - Monday, May 14, 2007 11:39 AM CDT
Dear Melissa -

Happy Mother's Day to Ellis' sweet mama. Thank you for sharing your son with us.


Cheryl
- Sunday, May 13, 2007 9:14 PM CDT
Hi Melissa - HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! We never met but I followed your story for a long time through Caringbridge. Another family that we know from Children's Minneapolis has a daugther (3.5) with HLHS. She is being listed for a transplant on Monday. Even though our son has single ventricle and we have met many families of children with heart defects along our journey, you are the second family (I think the Corbos were the first) that I read about who went through a heart transplant. Abby will be on Fox-9 news on Tuesday night (May 15th) at 10:00 and her caringbridge website is www.caringbridge.org/mn/abbyleigh. I hope some of the prayers and support you have here for your family can be shared with hers as well. She will have her transplant at Fairview and her Dr. is Dr. Herrington - was that Ellis' surgeon?

Heart mom hugs!
Judi, Tom and Alex Lund <jlund@bestlaw.com>
Savage, MN USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 3:54 PM CDT
Thinking of you today, Melissa...and all the little boys in the world who don't have their mommy...my little great nephew is one of them.

Thanking God for the gift of memory...and, oh so big hearts of love.




Marilyn Quarberg <quarberg.mascot@comcast.net>
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, May 13, 2007 1:48 PM CDT
Wishing you a Mother's Day filled with wonderful memories... Ellis was such a blessed child to have you as his mom. He is surely looking down upon you today, smiling, loving you from the Heavens above.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 1:04 PM CDT
Thinking of you on this Mother's Day! You both are constantly in my thoughts and prayers!
Kelly Zachman <kazachman@csbsju.edu>
Elk River, MN - Sunday, May 13, 2007 11:54 AM CDT
Thinking of you on this Mother's Day. You are the best Mommy Ellis could have.
Mary Ann
- Sunday, May 13, 2007 10:30 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day to the strongest and bravest mama in the world.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Sunday, May 13, 2007 9:57 AM CDT
Thinking of you on this Mother's Day. You are a most precious mother!
Lisa Murphy <lisamurphy2@charter.net>
Spartanburg, SC - Sunday, May 13, 2007 7:51 AM CDT
Thinking of your lovely family today.

Peace,
Shannon
MN - Saturday, May 12, 2007 8:22 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day to Ellis' mommy!!
Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Micheal, MN - Saturday, May 12, 2007 7:14 PM CDT
One a mommy always a mommy... thinking of you now and always.....
Karen <kbuege@wilton.com>
Downers Grove , IL - Saturday, May 12, 2007 11:39 AM CDT
Dear Sam and Melissa - My thoughts and prayers are continuously with you. Especially tomorrow may God wrap his loving arms around you, Melissa, and give you a peace beyond understanding. You are still a mother to the strongest, bravest boy in the world. I would wish for you that you could hear the Happy Mother's Day words from him. Maybe you will hear him whisper them in your ear from heaven. God bless you . . .
Barbara (Heidemann) O'Neill <barbarak_oneill@msn.com>
Ft. Myers, FL USA - Friday, May 11, 2007 6:49 PM CDT
Hi Melissa , Sam, I htink of you two often and your beautiful Ellis, Im sure he will be sending down lots of hugs Melissa on Sunday. God bless,
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
ops, fk us - Friday, May 11, 2007 7:33 AM CDT
Thinking of Ellis again.....
terri
- Friday, May 11, 2007 1:06 AM CDT
Dear Bergstroms - I hope you are doing well on these beautiful days. I think of the strongest, sweetest baby every day all the time. I re-read your post for his birthday and think about how he just keeps giving his love and spirit keeps on giving inspiration to people.

Take Care Bergstroms!!!!!
Cheryl
- Thursday, May 10, 2007 4:16 PM CDT
Thinking of you both and thinking of Ellis. Prayers are with you ...
Jen Durst <jenniferdurst@comcast.net>
- Wednesday, May 9, 2007 11:40 PM CDT
Thinking of you; praying for you; and thanking God for giving us Ellis to brighten the world, if even for a short time.
Glenda Hagen <Hage6@sbcglobal.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 6:42 PM CDT
Hi Sam and Melissa! I will say a little prayer for Ellis this week before the show. I know how he loved music, and every time we put a production on the stage, I will remember him! Take Care... Thinking of you today!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Monday, May 7, 2007 1:29 PM CDT
I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.


Shirley Ochnser <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Sunday, May 6, 2007 5:19 PM CDT
Thinking of you. . .
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Sunday, May 6, 2007 1:48 PM CDT
Hi Melissa and Sam. I just wanted to let you know I'm still thinking of you and dear Ellis and keeping you in my prayers! God bless!
Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, May 4, 2007 6:28 AM CDT
Just checking in to say hello and to let you know that we keep you in our prayers....God Bless little Angel Ellis!
Kris Piehl
Marion, ND USA - Thursday, May 3, 2007 8:14 PM CDT
School is winding down quickly. I hope you two take some time off to rest and renew this summer. Ellis would want his momma and dada to take care of themselves!

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, May 3, 2007 2:39 PM CDT
Thinking of Ellis and you all today and always....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, ky usa - Thursday, May 3, 2007 12:09 AM CDT
Mr & Mrs B

You have shared your journey with so many and have touched and taught, laughed and cried. May this spring bring you happiness and peace.

Wishing you well.
The Kastendicks <mrfishallday@yahoo.com>
Albertville, MN USA - Wednesday, May 2, 2007 9:14 PM CDT
Thinking of you and Ellis today, and praying that you are doing well.
Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Monday, April 30, 2007 1:06 PM CDT
Yesterday my family and friends did the American heart walk in honor of Ellis and for all the little hearts. Ellis has taught us so much. Thank you Ellis, you will never be forgotten.
Stacey Elsenpeter <elsenpeters@msn.com>
andover, mn usa - Sunday, April 29, 2007 10:16 PM CDT
I was just sitting in my dorm worrying about what the next two weeks will bring, wondering if I'll make it through my finals and juries, and just wishing that it was time to go home! And I immediately thought of Ellis, and it's pretty silly that I'm worrying. Ellis has taught me to be brave, to persevere, and to never give up, and for a moment, I almost forgot that. Ellis will always be in my heart, and I will forever be reminded of his bravery and he will continue to teach me things every day! :O)

Thanks Ellis!
Sara <singersara12@hotmail.com>
River Falls, - Sunday, April 29, 2007 11:35 AM CDT
Yesterday Sullivan and I did the American Heart Association walk! What a beautiful day! We have never done the walk before but we are planning on trying to do it every chance we get in the future.... thanks for the inspiration Ellis!
Brandy, Chris and Sullivan <branbrun@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Sunday, April 29, 2007 2:20 AM CDT
As the warm sun is shining, I am thinking about that great video clip of Ellis in his swing. Laughter, hair blowing in the breeze... What a wonderful time to remember!

Thinking of you today...
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Saturday, April 28, 2007 4:54 PM CDT
Just thinking about little Ellis, and praying for both of you.
Ashleigh Frye <ashleighwall@hotmail.com>
Mission Viejo, CA - Thursday, April 26, 2007 10:11 PM CDT
Dearest Sam and Melissa-
Thinking of you and your extended families. May you continue to feel the support of family, friends and God as you hold Ellis in your hearts.
Laurie Callies
Holy Nativity Member, - Thursday, April 26, 2007 6:34 PM CDT
Just stopping by to let you know you continue to be in my thoughts and prayers!
Carrie <carrie4rd@suddenlink.net>
Charleston, WV USA - Thursday, April 26, 2007 1:17 PM CDT
Melissa and Sam,
Think of you (and Ellis) so often and continue to pray for your healing and peace.
Marilyn Rausch
- Thursday, April 26, 2007 8:11 AM CDT
Praying for you. :0)
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 8:03 PM CDT
Still thinking of Ellis everyday.......
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 12:55 AM CDT
Dear Bergstroms,
We've thinking about you and remembering Ellis in these last months. Please know that you continue in our thoughts.
Kathy and Darrell Stone, Parkview UCC <kaston@wbl.whitebear.k12.mn.us>
White Bear Lake, MN USA - Wednesday, April 25, 2007 12:48 AM CDT
Dear Bergstroms -

Just stopping by. I get so much from Ellisville!! He gave so much to so many people. That sweet face and he lil lisp. I just love that.

I hope that your days and nites are going well. that you receive some peace in your hearts to know how much your lil boy is loved by so many people that you know and don't know.

Sweet, tender boy, I will never, never never forget you. I look at the nite sky and the I know that the brightest star up there is my Ellis star!!!! I see a beautiful yellow crocus (sp), in the grass and think of your sweet, sweet happy face and blowing hair on your swing.

Take good care of yourselves Bergstroms.
Cheryl
- Wednesday, April 25, 2007 12:03 AM CDT
Saw a pretty green stainless steel travel mug today with a turtle on it and had to buy it. I will never forget....

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Tuesday, April 24, 2007 3:24 PM CDT
Hope you are able to enjoy this lovely Spring weather we are having. I think of Ellis as I see all sorts of life sprouting from the earth. The spring tulips and daffodils will all have short stays, but their bulbs, will continue to rest under the earth waiting to show up again next year. Ellis' life may have been short here with us, but he is planted in our souls and his spirit will live on and continue to show up in your lives and ours forever. Much Love...
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Sunday, April 22, 2007 12:57 AM CDT
Ellis will always be the strongest and bravest boy. Thinking of you.
Terry & Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
St. Michael, - Saturday, April 21, 2007 7:58 PM CDT
Sam and Melissa. What wonderful ways to pay tribute to your special son. I continue to pray for strength and peace for both of you. God bless you today and always.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Thursday, April 19, 2007 12:06 AM CDT
It has been awhile since I last visited or posted here. I thought of all of you on March 25th. I love the idea of the ballons with flower seeds in them. What an amazing idea and gift that is, how much like Ellis' life. Thank you so much for sharing that idea. I wish you both Peace.

Love,

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN U.S.A. - Thursday, April 19, 2007 11:46 AM CDT
Dearest Bergstroms,
I've been visiting Ellisville since back in the fall when I saw a prayer request on another CaringBridge friend, Hannah Sobeski's site. I've never signed your guest book but felt today that it would be appropriate as I came back to visit and remind myself of lessons I learned here. I had never until tonight looked at the video of your precious son swinging, walking and talking. I really never noticed the link until tonight. What a blessing to my heart and I feel as if this was a surprise saved for me until I really needed it. Through Ellis' courage and your willingness to be transparent you ministered to me in ways that you will never comprehend this side of Heaven. While my trials were and are very different from those you faced and are still facing, we share the same hope and I never failed to find it in abudance, in Ellisville. Thank you for sharing and I will continue to visit as long as this site is available. p.s. You both have such of a gift of writing and Mrs. Bergstrom you never ceased to amaze me with your ability to articulate from the recesses of your heart especially under the stress and often times lack of sleep. In your shoes, I'm not sure I could have written my own name. Many times, I felt as if I've visited with you and known you for a lifetime. Again, thank you for sharing your sweet boy and your journey.
Selena
Spartanburg, SC - Thursday, April 19, 2007 0:30 AM CDT
Hi Sam and Melissa! I tried to stay away from this site for as long as I could and lasted 4 days. I thought that it was "time to move on" but, in fact, the pull of Ellis is too strong. Looking at his pictures, thinking of him, thinking of you folks---I guess there will be no "moving on." The memory is too poignant. The lessons and love are too real. To "move on" would be walking away from a loci of sacredness that I have never known before and will probably never know again. Ellis? Your friends are here to stay.
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 18, 2007 10:58 PM CDT
Dearest Bergstroms -

Not a day goes past when I don't think of your sweet Ellis. I have my little turtle bell on my desk and I look at it and think of him always. His little face and spirit are part of my life forever.

I keep thinking of this prayer - This is the day the Lord hath made, Rejoice, be glad and live today - This is what I am trying to do. Thank you sweet Ellis for showing me the meaning of this prayer.

I am so trying to live this way. I get lost sometimes and then I come to this site to view this special boy and his special MaMa and Dada. I hope you are well and your spirits are healing. You have so many people that care about you. I hope that thought somehow helps.

Nite Nite Dear Bergstroms.
Cheryl
- Wednesday, April 18, 2007 10:45 PM CDT
I have been following Ellis's story for a while now. I would come and check out up dates on how and what he was up to. I have not signed until now. I just wanted to let you know that there are so many people out there still thinking and praying for you. Ellis was such a beautiful little boy. What a blessing it was just to be able to follow his journey. My prayers are with you and your family. Ellis will always be in my heart.
Jill
McComb, Oh - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 9:05 PM CDT
We come to your site very often for many reasons...we see something or hear something thats reminds us of your little angel and our little friend that we will never forget and use his quotes daily.God Bless may your heavy heart get alittle lighter with each day.Your beautiful gifts you have given bring tears to our eyes everytime we reread about them.You both are SO very special.May everyone on caringbridge take a moment and say a prayer for a fabulous inspirational lady/friend/ Dr.who has given many others love.hope.encouraging words,as now she needs everyone's www.caringbridge.org barbberg Continued love&prayers sent your way Bergstrom's The Meyer's greg&annemarie
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 8:24 AM CDT
We've been thinking of you and praying you are well. While on our vacation we took part in a ceramic painting class - we chose a turtle tealight and each time we look at it we will think of you and your wonderful little man! Thanks for letting us be part of your lives. Hugs & lotsa love
Jackie & John Schmidt <jschmidt4@att.net>
Aurora, IL USA - Wednesday, April 18, 2007 7:41 AM CDT
i woke up this morning and missed you little man. just thought i'd check in and look at your picture for a while. you are dearly missed here. there is still no place quite like ellisville. all our love and prayers still go out to your mom and dad.
erin eccles <sixtygallons@hotmail.com>
mankato, mn - Tuesday, April 17, 2007 1:38 PM CDT
Hello Sam & Melissa, We went to Twin City Reptiles store and saw 4 big turtles. We all thought of Ellis. "Slow and Steady wins the race!". It is amazing how he is constant in our thoughts, but that is what angels do.

Peace to you,
The Dickinsons
Michael Dickinson <modicko@netzero.net>
Robbinsdale, MN U.S.A. - Monday, April 16, 2007 9:28 PM CDT
Hello Sam & Melissa, We went to Twin City Reptiles store and saw 4 big turtles. We all thought of Ellis. "Slow and Steady wins the race!". It is amazing how he is constant in our thoughts, but that is what angels do.

Peace to you,
The Dickinsons
Michael Dickinson <modicko@netzero.net>
Robbinsdale, MN U.S.A. - Monday, April 16, 2007 9:27 PM CDT
Just wanted to sign in and let you know that you are still in our thoughts and hearts. Thinking of you all.

Mel Grammont and boys <madebymel@gmail.com>
Appleton, WI - Monday, April 16, 2007 3:44 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and everyday. I drove by a park this weekend and pulled over to watch the kids swinging and playing. I immediately thought of Ellis and "Life is Good."

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Monday, April 16, 2007 3:21 PM CDT
Somehow I found this page. I've visited several times before. Oh, Ellis was so darling. Today I watched the videos for the first time. He was an angel on earth! I'm so sorry that he's not here anymore. Thank you for sharing him.
Love and prayers Megan (tannersmom)
www.carepages.com tannernielsen
megannielson@msn.com <megannielson@msn.com>
ut usa - Sunday, April 15, 2007 11:07 PM CDT
Just stopping by to see the strongest and bravest boy in the world. :0)
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Saturday, April 14, 2007 9:09 AM CDT
Hello Sweet Bergstroms!!

You are on my mind today. I was thinking about Ellis for no reason other than he holds such wonderful memories in my mind. I love to stop by over here and look at his darling little face. His spirit is so captivating. It always was while he was here, and it still continues. Hope you are both well... Wishes of peace and happiness to you!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Thursday, April 12, 2007 8:59 PM CDT
you came to my mind this morning. i was praying as i was getting ready and you were the forefront of my thoughts. so i came down to check in on ellisville and see what wonderfully hard things were happening. we still hold you in our prayers...God bless
erin eccles <sixtygallons@hotmail.com>
mankato, mn - Tuesday, April 10, 2007 1:49 PM CDT
Hello Bergstroms - I haven't posted for awhile, but I visit Ellisville every day. I love looking at his lil pictures and seeing that sweet face that is never far from my thoughts. For some reason the one where he is 3 1/2 months old looking at your dog just tickles me lately. It is just like he is thinking 'what the heck is that!!!' It makes me smile and that is what Ellis is all about!! Sending joy and happiness.

I found this little turtle ornament at a shop, it hangs and has a bell in it. I was going to send it to you, but I was afraid it might make you sad or upset. Also I am sure you have enough turtle things in your house. So I decided to hang it in my office and ring it every day to remind me that life is good!!! That we only have today, this minute and no one is promised more than that. That life is too short to let the small things bother you. It has been hard to remember that for me lately, but tomorrow I will ring my turtle bell and remember the strongest, sweetest, tenderest boy ever and that life is good!!!

I also think of you both so often. I hope that each day brings you more peace. Again, thank you for sharing Ellis with all of Ellisville!!!
Cheryl
- Tuesday, April 10, 2007 1:43 AM CDT
I hope the promise found in Easter eased your hearts some. Ellis is fine; it is the rest of us who have broken hearts now. His goodness should make the goodness in the rest of us shine. I hope to honor Ellis and my own departed Matthew by loving deeds and kind gestures. Their goodness will be reflected in the world for eternity!!
Lisa Murphy <lisamurphy2@charter.net>
Spartanburg, SC - Monday, April 9, 2007 9:55 AM CDT
Hi Melissa and Sam,

Happy Easter! :0) I hope that you are comforted in knowing that Jesus died for us, and He is risen!!! Ellis is celebrating easter with Him. What fun they must be having!!

God Bless!! He is RISEN!! :0)
Sara Q <sara.quarberg@uwrf.edu>
River Falls, WI - Sunday, April 8, 2007 9:36 PM CDT
Happy Easter ... to the braviest parents in the world...We are thinking of you and Ellis today and always....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, ky usa - Sunday, April 8, 2007 8:50 PM CDT
Hey Bergstroms!

Happy Easter. Hope you guys are having a wonderful (well-deserved) break.
Kelsey Dolge <ksdolge@msn.com>
St. Michael , MN USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 3:09 PM CDT
Happy Easter!!
Angela J.
Brooklyn Park, MN - Sunday, April 8, 2007 12:43 AM CDT
Thinking of you this Easter Sunday. I was moved by your generosity in memory of Ellis. You are awesome. My mother just died. Maybe she is meeting with Ellis in Heaven? She loved babies and young children. The promise of Heaven is what keeps me going. I am just around the corner if I can ever help in any way. You will see me out with my dog in the neighborhood as the weather warms up. I continue to remember you in my prayers daily and each time I pass your house. Prayers and thoughts are with you. Bless you for your generous spirit. Ellis was so fortunate to have you for parents.
Mary Weinand
Maple Grove, MN hennipen - Sunday, April 8, 2007 11:36 AM CDT
Hey Guys!

Wishing you a blessed Easter holiday with your family. We will be thinking of you and praying for a peaceful day to hold you. Many blessings.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Saturday, April 7, 2007 4:07 PM CDT
On this Good Friday, I thank God for his sacrifice so that we will all be together again someday. Without this Promise, I don't know what we'd do. I hope you have a blessed Easter. Ellis is never far from my mind along with the two of you.

God Bless!
Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Friday, April 6, 2007 10:43 AM CDT
Just wanted to say hi, I was thinking about you two and your sweet little Ellis, I hope you both are doing ok, God bless
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Friday, April 6, 2007 7:40 AM CDT
Ellis,

Thinking of you once again at my usual late night hour, as I sit here and reflect on this Holy Week of church services and Jesus' death on the cross. May this time of family and faith gatherings hold you close in thought and memory for those who loved you first.

Happy Easter little one,

Terese Gammell <tereseg@stma.k12.mn>
- Thursday, April 5, 2007 11:03 PM CDT
Ellis is always in our hearts.
A friend <terrih@austin.rr.com>
- Thursday, April 5, 2007 3:57 PM CDT
Many, many prayers from South Dakota. I'm glad you are doing such good work for the community. I'm sure Ellis is proud of all you are doing.
Becki Solberg <bslbg@hotmail.com>
Mitchell, SD USA - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 9:34 PM CDT
What a beautiful way to celebrate Ellis's birthday! I am sorry I mised his birthday. Ellis is often on my mind, especially when my kids ask for a turtle...our neighbor has one and my kids think it is awesome!
My prayers are with you and I am wowed by the wonderful ways you are honoring the wonderful life of Ellis. God bless you both.
Karen, Isaac's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaachatfield
Karen Hatfield <wkhatfield812@yahoo.com>
Coarsegold, CA - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 2:39 PM CDT
Hey Bergstrom Family...sorry it's been so long. I am amazed and so light hearted to read that in spite of such tragedy, there are wonderful people out there like you two who are doing so many wonderful, GENEROUS things to celebrate Ellis's little life. I think it's amazing that despite your broken hearts, you are giving and sharing and I think it's just awe inspiring. Happy Birthday Sweet Boy...how I wish your Mama and Dada could see you grow...but look at how Mama and Dada are growing!!! I'm sure that you are all so very proud of each other. Much love from IL, Jess D.
Jess D. <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 11:09 PM CDT
What wonderful things you are doing in Ellis's name. Love to both of you!
RJ and Dedee Bergstrom <bcowgirl@smig.com>
Austin, MN USA - Tuesday, April 3, 2007 9:19 AM CDT
Can't get you guys off my mind. Thinking of Ellis all the time.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Monday, April 2, 2007 2:10 PM CDT
Thinking of you...
Anonymous
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 10:20 PM CDT
I miss you....
Marno
Robbinsdale, mn usa - Saturday, March 31, 2007 9:41 PM CDT
What beautiful ways to remember Ellis's birthday. I continue to think of you often and keep you in my prayers.
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Saturday, March 31, 2007 5:50 PM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ELLIS!
I wrote a story at school about if I could anyone in the world, it would be you!! I miss you SO much! I love you.
Rachel
Albertville , MN USA - Saturday, March 31, 2007 11:41 AM CDT
You have both been on my mind and in my prayers this week, and the many, many weeks that came before this one. I sat fixated on Ellis' 2nd birthday picture just reflecting on how unpredictable and unplanned life can be. You have taken the heroic fight and the tremendous loss of Ellis' life and found so many ways to bless other people. There is no doubt, his spirit will always remain!! May God continue to find ways to bring you both peace and comfort!!

With love and blessings...
Pam Walz & family www.caringbridge.org/visit/nathanwalz <hpwalz@clearwire.net>
- Friday, March 30, 2007 10:28 PM CDT
I'm always thinking about Ellis -- on his b-day and every other day. It's amazing how a family I've never met can affect my life so profoundly. I marked the date of the upcoming Twin Cities Heartwalk on my calendar. I will be honored to walk/volunteer and donate in memory of your dear Ellis.
Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Friday, March 30, 2007 9:37 PM CDT
Dear Sam and Melissa,
My heart sunk when I saw Ellis' birthday on my calendar and then saw the three white roses on our altar. But now it is soaring again hearing about all the wonderful things you are doing to honor his life and memory.
Marilyn Rausch
- Friday, March 30, 2007 3:04 PM CDT
I just have to say last night was amazing. Gretchen and the other girls raise so much money it was just simply amazing. I also agree with Gretchen and Sara about Ellis being right there with us rocking to the music, dancing with his cousin Grace and enjoying the drums. Most of all Sam and Melissa you two and your familys are so amazing for letting all of us into your lives. I know Ellis was watching all of us and giving us and especialy the two of you two thums way up! A big thanks to Ellis for showing all of us what life really means. As Ellis puts it "Life is Good". With continue love thoughts and prayer each and everyday.

Love always,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Friday, March 30, 2007 9:18 AM CDT
Hi Sam and Melissa, I wish we could see the video some Ellisville Residents are talking about. Maybe you could post some pictures from the event. Ellis' legacy is amazing! You are doing so much good in the world because of him. Keep up the great work! I'm sure it touched people to the core!

Love,
Pam
Pam Osbosrn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Friday, March 30, 2007 7:17 AM CDT
I agree with Gretchen! I know Ellis was out there dancing with his cute little cousin and rocking along with everyone else! :) The slideshow was awesome! And most of all, you, Sam and Melissa, are AMAZING and INCREDIBLE!!! It was really nice to see you and your family tonight! Life is GOOD and it will ALWAYS be, because Ellis has taught us all how to see how good life is! I wish Ellis would have been with us tonight, to dance and enjoy the drums! I know he was watching from above, and I'm most certain that he's giving his mom and dad two thumbs up for being SO BRAVE and for being such wonderful people!!

With love, thoughts, and continued prayers,
Sara Q <sara.quarberg@uwrf.edu>
River Falls, - Friday, March 30, 2007 0:05 AM CDT
oh. my. gosh.

i just got to a computer and had to say...TONIGHT ROCKED!!! ellis, we raised so much money to help kids and people learned about organ donation because of you! you are amazing. as i was walking out the door, i thought to myself, "i KNOW he was rockin along right there with us!"

sam and melissa, you guys are beyond incredible. thanks for dealing with the, um, noise and for being so willing to let us into your lives.

to all of the ellisville residents who showed up ~ thank you!!!

life is SO good.
gretchen gamm <gretchen.gamm@uwrf.edu>
- Thursday, March 29, 2007 11:06 PM CDT
Melissa and Sam, just stopped by to check in on you both. I am so impressed with the wonderful ways you celebrated Ellis' birthday! You both continue to inspire me! Thank you for sharing your dear Ellis with us and Ellis, I think of you often even though we never met, I love visiting your site and seeing your darling pictures! I'm thinking of all of you and keeping you in my prayers! God bless!
Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, March 29, 2007 9:44 PM CDT
Thinking of you always little Ellis, your always in my heart, God bless your mommy and daddy
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Thursday, March 29, 2007 7:56 AM CDT
Thinking of you and Ellis' life of Brave and Strong.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 4:35 PM CDT
Sam and Melissa, Ellis lives on in spirit and in the wonderful things you and others due in memory of him. You both amaze me with the love that you are able to give and share with others. I know Ellis is so proud of his wonderful parents. He is looking down on you and smiling and giving you a great big hug and kiss from heaven. Feel the love from him and those around you.

Shannon and Family

Shannon Schulzetenberg <shannons@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Wednesday, March 28, 2007 10:39 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa, Not only was your beautiful Ellis a priceles gift, you two and his legacy are priceless as well. Happy Birthday, Ellis!!! My daughter, Katie Koestler, emailed me yesterday and said to be sure and check Ellis' site. I check it weekly but hadn't yet this week. You are gems, indeed!
Jan Seplak <jseplak@ststephen.net>
Bloomington, MN - Wednesday, March 28, 2007 9:26 AM CDT
Happy belated birthday, Ellis. Your pictures on the website are beautiful, heart-breaking, and inspiring. I've been thinking about you a lot, today. Thanks to your parents for sharing with us such a tender tribute on your birthday. Your short life has moved me and I know it has impacted the lives of many others. Thank you.
Paul Schaefer <pschaefer1970@yahoo.com>
Maplewood, MN USA - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 10:09 PM CDT
Happy Birthday! Thank you, Sam and Melissa for sharing all of this with us, those who can't seem to stop checking in on the news from Ellisville. You are such an inspiration to the world. May all of your endeavors lead to joys!

Elise VanDyken <nevandyken@sbcglobal.net>
Grand Rapids, MI - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 10:04 PM CDT
Happy (belated) Birthday sweet Ellis - what a fantastic party you must be having in Heaven.
Melissa & Sam - you will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Kim Magnan <k_magnan@hotmail.com>
Plt Prairie, WI - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 8:26 PM CDT
Happy Birthday little buddy. You and your mom and dad continue to be an inspiration to many of us as we journey through life discovering our inner spirit. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!
The Scherbers <steves@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Tuesday, March 27, 2007 7:39 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis... I Know you must have had the best party up in Heaven!! We sure miss you, and continue to pray for your mama and dada.
You will never be forgotten!
Ashleigh Frye <ashleighwall@hotmail.com>
Mission Viejo, CA - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 5:03 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Dear Ellis! At church on Sunday there were two nice bouquets from your Grandma and Grandpa Bergstrom. I thought of all of you all day!
Sara
Austin, MN USA - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 10:18 AM CDT
Ellis,
It has been a while since I have checked the greetings and messages of support, that continue to fill your Caringbridge Site. So here I am, at my usually Ellis greeting time, thinking of your birthday yesterday and how special it was that it was celebrated on a Sunday. This day was good, as it allowed your mama and dada reflection time in God's house, a day away from their weekday routines. May you feel the love and prayers that continue to surround each of them.

HAPPY 3rd BIRTHDAY Big Boy!


Terese Gammell <tereseg@stma.k12.mn>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 11:20 PM CDT
Dear Great Bergstrom's,

We think of your darling family every day with inspiration and gratitude. We wish so hard that you got to help Ellis blow out his candles. We know he was clapping and dancing and thinking of his Mama and Dada.

With Love,
The Corbo's
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
The Corbo's
- Monday, March 26, 2007 9:56 PM CDT
We were out enjoying the weather, on a bike ride today thinking and talking about Ellis on his Birthday!
Brandy, Chris and Sullivan
Blaine, MN - Monday, March 26, 2007 9:36 PM CDT
Ellis - You are continually in our hearts and mind. God Bless you E-Man. You are the strongest and bravest boy in the whole wide world.
rperkins
Brooklyn Park, MN USA - Monday, March 26, 2007 5:17 PM CDT
Thoughts are with you.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 3:20 PM CDT
My 7 week old baby girl was baptized yesterday on Ellis' birthday. And when I chose this day for her to be baptized, I knew the date sounded familiar and I did not realize why until I got to church yesterday morning and saw the 3 white roses in memory of Ellis.

I think it is wonderful that my child was baptized as a child of God the same day as Ellis' birthday. That will always hold a special memory with me.

God Bless You All!
Teri Johnson....Bethlehem Lutheran Church
- Monday, March 26, 2007 2:58 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis!!!! What a wonderful way to honor your son. You both are amazing people. I will continue to hold you all close in my thought and prayers.
Cathy Moyolt <moyoltca@vvsd.org>
Romeoville, IL - Monday, March 26, 2007 2:33 PM CDT
Wow. Double Wow. Totally Incredible, Amazing and Unbelievable Wow. How impressed I am with your vigilance, your creativity, and your generosity. I love, love, love the balloon idea. I hope you were filled with joy yesterday, as while I read your (much anticipated) entry, I was overcome with joyous emotion for you and all of the wonderful ways you planned on celebrating Ellis's birthday. Sam and Melissa, you continue to be in my daily thoughts, prayers, wishes and hopes. Life is so good.
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
- Monday, March 26, 2007 1:03 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis! What wonderful ways your parents have chosen to honor your very special life! Thinking of them and you...
April
MN - Monday, March 26, 2007 12:55 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis! What wonderful ways your parents have chosen to honor your very special life! Thinking of them and you...
April
MN - Monday, March 26, 2007 12:54 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LITTLE ANGEL -- your spirit continues to live on with every day and we always feel your gentle presence in our lives. Just reading this entry is witness to just how much you continue to touch this world in so many ways. You are missed by so many of us also and always never forgotten!!! We think of your mommie & daddie (& other family members) all the time and hoping that each new day in some small way will continue to get a little more comforting & just knowing you always remain in spirit & in love to all of us!!! Angel kisses to you, sweet Ellis!!!!! ("
Donna & Jeff Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Monday, March 26, 2007 12:07 AM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELLIS, HAPPY BIRTHDAY to YOU!!!! I bet you had a wonderful birthday celebration in heaven. Your thought of and missed everyday. Again Happy Birthday!
Chrissy <coke2218@comcast.net>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Monday, March 26, 2007 8:37 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis! You are constantly in my prayers and on such a special day I know the angels are throwing you one heck of a party!! You are forever present on this earth and your memory lives on with so many little things that remind me of you. Enjoy this special day that is just for you. We miss you!
Ashley Budde
- Monday, March 26, 2007 1:01 AM CDT
I thought about you all day today Ellis...Happy Birthday! What wonderful things your mommy and daddy are doing to help other boys and girls and families who are needing to be strong and brave like you were. What a special way to honor your life! I know you are very proud of them...just as they were proud of you! Did you see your birthday balloons today? Everytime I see a little flower this summer, I will wonder if that was one of your special little seeds that fell back down from heaven and then I will think of you bending over to touch and smell them!
Oh what special little flowers they will be! The flowers and the trees that God plants are the most precious! Happy Birthday Ellis...you are remembered today and everyday! God bless your mommy and daddy...they are so kind and thoughtful and brave.
Marilyn Quarberg
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, March 25, 2007 10:42 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis!! You all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers!!!
Jill (Soucek) Wurth
Mason City, IA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 10:35 PM CDT
Happy Happy Birthday.. Today was a beautiful day to honor you. It is your third birthday and also your first birthday you spent with God. You were an amazing boy that touched many lifes. Mr. and Mrs. B i hope you know that prayers are still comming you way and I hope things are going alright! The things that you are doing in Ellis name i know that he would do if he could! Much Love
Alyssa Gallagher <starangle1@juno.com>
St. Michael, MN Wright - Sunday, March 25, 2007 10:21 PM CDT
Happy Birthday, sweet Ellis!
Aaron, Michelle, & Lauren Barclay <lambarclay@msn.com>
Prior Lake, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 9:58 PM CDT
Dear Missy and Sam,
What a beautiful day for a birthday celebrating Ellis' precious life. The roses here at Bethlehem Lutheran Church in Aberdeen--so precious.
Your plans for the weekend--wonderful. Please feel the love from Ellis and Jesus. Feel the love we send to you both. From Ellisville to you--our love, each and every day but especially today.
From the Smooks, Shirlene, Denny, Charley, Josh, and Missy

Shirlene Knudtson Smook <drmomsd@hotmail.com>
Aberdeen, SD 57401 - Sunday, March 25, 2007 9:47 PM CDT
Thinking of you on the birthday of your sweet boy. I hope you felt his love in the rays of sunlight this morning. I am certain he sent a beautiful day to warm your hearts on a day that was likely a mix of emotions. But what a wonderful day you planned to honor your Ellis' memory. Sending birthday wishes to the bravest and strongest boy in heaven...and prayers to his mama and dada here on earth.
Amy Runningen <amyscotland@hotmail.com>
Maplewood, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 9:41 PM CDT
Happy 3rd Birthday Ellis!! I hope that you are having a fabolus Birthday in heavn with Jesus this year. I know that you mommy and daddy wish you were here celebrating with them and everyone else. But they are doing so much to celebrate and honor you. Happy Bithday buddy I love you and miss you along with all your other fans.

Melissa and Sam you both are so amazing and strong. You have done so much to honor and celebrate Ellis and his life. You have helped so many people and touched so many lifes just like your son. There are alot of people that have benifited from your loss. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers daily.
With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, March 25, 2007 9:08 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis.....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, ky usa - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:50 PM CDT
Hapy Birthday to the STRONGEST, BRAVEST and most BEAUTIFUL boy in the whole wide world!!!!! We will never forget you Ellis!!!
A. Elliott
TX USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:48 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis! We all miss you so much and hope you are having the best birthday in heaven. Please watch over your mom and dad and remind us all that you are happy and always with us. : )
Abbie Bushaw and Travis Kaehler <abushaw03@hotmail.com>
Rochester, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:47 PM CDT
Dear Missy and Sam. Have been thinking of you and Ellis all day today, so was pleased to see your update tonight. The gifts you have given are so very thoughtful. Bless you and may God give you peace as you remember the 3rd anniversary of the day of Ellis' birth. You have shared so much and given exponentially of yourselves to us, and I thank you for that. Ellis and his superior attitude and strength will not be forgotten.
Dee Sanderson <deesand@aol.com>
Aberdeen, SD - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:13 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis! I hope you had a great party in heaven! You have touched my heart and I think of you and your mommy an daddy often. God Bless you all!
Becky <becky.suggs@gmail.com>
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:09 PM CDT
*~*~HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ELLIS!!*~*~ You have touched my heart. I will continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Ginny Deegan <jgdeegan@msn.com>
Mtn. Home AFB, Id USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:04 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis! You and your parents continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! Sending lots of love your way!
Kelly Zachman <kazachman@csbsju.edu>
St. Joseph, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 7:49 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis!!! You'll always be in my heart and prayers!
Trina Zahler <satinstiletto@yahoo.com>
St. Michael, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 7:36 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis!

We continue to think of you often as we have followed your journey for quite some time. We have admired your courage & strength in all that you have been through, even now more than ever. Our daughter Carly, who will be three in July, is currently in PICU at the University of Minnesota fighting oh so hard to get well. Today marks one month since she has been intubated. This past week has been one of the roughest. So today we want to thank you for giving us strength on your sons birthday and helping us to never give up. He will never be forgotten.....and again Happy Birthday Ellis! Carly will have an Elmo balloon in her room in memory of you soon!

Take Care,
Maria, Jaime & Carly Harris
caringbridge.org/mn/carlymayharris
Maria Harris <mariajharris@earthlink.net>
Rosemount, Mn USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 7:36 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis.....What special parents you have.Thank you for teaching all of us the importance of "life" we will never forget you.love&prayers The meyer's
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Sunday, March 25, 2007 6:53 PM CDT
Happy HAPPY birthday in Heaven Ellis...we are lifting your mommy and daddy in prayers and always remembering you, sweet Ellis. Hugs,
Cheryl/Angel_Wings
MD - Sunday, March 25, 2007 6:37 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis...you are in our hearts forever

Tony, Jessica, & Gavin Dahms
Gavin's Page <jessdahms@Hotmail.com>
Marshall, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 5:40 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis!!! Hope today finds you all well, with Gods arms safely wrapped around all of you.
God Bless you with your many generous gifts and thoughtful expressions of kindness and gratitude in memory of Ellis!
God Bless you today and everyday!
Katie & Carolyn Gallup <katiegallup@abe.midco.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 5:37 PM CDT
Missy and Sam,
Your love for Ellis and other children continues to shine throughout all your writings and contributions. What a treasure you are to all of us. Three amazing years! We continue to hold you and all your family in our hearts. Ellis was a lucky boy to have you as his parents.
Roberta Kagin <cark150@aol.com>
Minneapolis, MN Hennepin - Sunday, March 25, 2007 5:37 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis! You have inspired and blessed so many lives and you are so missed. I'm thinking of you and praying for your Mom and Dad today. :0)
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 4:16 PM CDT
Happy Birthday Sweet Pea, I hope you are having a wonderful day with your Heavenly Father! We love you!

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 3:52 PM CDT
Happy Birthday to dearest Ellis! Remebering your family in prayer today and always. It sounds like your little boy has inspired some wonderful happenings :) May God bless you all.
Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 3:08 PM CDT
Celebrating Ellis' birthday here in Houston. I don't have balloons, but I do have a cupcake. Happy Birthday, Strongest and Bravest Boy in the World. You have given each of us a wonderful gift.
Mary Ann
Houston, - Sunday, March 25, 2007 2:50 PM CDT
Ellis,
Rockin' for Robbie is only 4 days away! We are all so excited to have your story as part of our concert. You have already changed lives here at River Falls, we can't wait to share your story with everyone! You are helping other children in amazing ways! We are all so excited to meet your family and raise money for such a good cause!
The women of Sigma Sigma Sigma, Gamma Phi chapter
River Falls, WI USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 2:43 PM CDT
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELLIS! You are spending your birthday with Jesus! I know your mom and dad would love to be celebrating with you here, but they are doing SO many cool things in your honor!! What awesome people!

Melissa and Sam, you are AMAZING. It's so awesome to know that so many children, parents, doctors, and nurses are being touched and helped by you because of Ellis! It's AMAZING! I hope you can find comfort and happiness today, by doing all these great things for others in Ellis' honor! You guys are BEYOND AMAZING!!! :O)

God Bless you guys!

P.S! I'M SO LOOKING FORWARD TO THURSDAY NIGHT!!!!!! :O)
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
River Falls, WI - Sunday, March 25, 2007 12:39 AM CDT
Dear ones, Melissa and Sam,
Our candle for Ellis is burning brightly on this blue-sky day of his birth. We celebrate and honor Ellis. We celebrate and honor you. Our thoughts, prayers, and love continue to be with you as you day-by-day, minute-by-minute endure losing your beautiful son. We will forever remember Ellis.
Love,
Marilynn and Phil
Marilynn Bast and Phil Kofron <Marilynnkb@aol.com>
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 12:21 AM CDT
It is here! The day to celebrate one remarkable young child, the E-Man. Ellis. SuperTurtle. Happy Birthday to you Angel Boy! How we miss you! We thank God for you every day and will always remember you. May God Bless you, Sam and Melissa as you continue through this journey finding so many, many remarkable ways to give back into the world. You are so cherished and held high by all of us. Your enamouring spirits, and Ellis' joy have created an amazing and powerful difference in the lives of so many. Your ideas of giving on this day bring tears to my eyes as we see how you continue to see the light. Our best to you today and always...!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 11:33 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, Ellis! You are never far from my thoughts.
Continued prayers to mom and dad!
Melissa (Davis) Wilson <mwilson@larsonallen.com>
Austin, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 11:09 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Ellis! We just knew you guys would do something positive today in memory of Ellis; we are awed by your courage, strength, compassion and bravery. Take care today and every day and know we think of you often.
The Klinkhammer family <pgonefishin8@yahoo.com>
Albertville, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 10:50 AM CDT
Hi Sam & Melissa,
I am thinking of you both today and especially Ellis on his birthday.
His legacy and wonderful spirit continue on in so many ways.
Your donations in his honor will be so appreciated.
I really miss him too.

Rachel RN <theducharmes@charter.net>
Elk River, MN - Sunday, March 25, 2007 10:37 AM CDT
Happy birthday Ellis!!! We are so excited to rock out for you (and kids like you) on Thursday! You have already changed lives here at River Falls ~ we can't wait to share your story with everyone!

Love to you and your Dada and Mama!
The young women of Sigma Sigma Sigma, Gamma Phi Chapter
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 10:24 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, beautiful, shining, angel Ellis.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, - Sunday, March 25, 2007 9:59 AM CDT
Thinking about you and your precious Ellis, as I often do, on what would've been - no what should've been his 3rd birthday. My heart aches for you. I pray that you are well and that God is bringing you a sense of peace and some sort of comfort. What a blessing Ellis was to us all. Thank you for sharing him so beautifully with us. May the very thought of his smile bring one to your face.
Shawn Hanson
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 9:13 AM CDT
Happy Birthday, Little Guy! You are loved so very much. You are missed. We pray that God will comfort your parents today and always---
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 9:11 AM CDT
I have never signed your guestbook before but wanted you to know that I come all the time hoping for an undate to see how you two are doing. Today a very special angel will hold a celebration in Heaven to mark the birth of a very important child. And as your thoughts are with him always I know that I will hold my son (also born on this day in 2001) much closer and tell him of a special angel that shares this birthday with him. May you find some peace and comfort today and know that before you know that day will come when you will be reunited with him in Heaven and there there will be no more sorrow, pain or tears.

Happy Birthday to two very special boys: Ellis and my boy Caleb
Jennifer <eggy327@yahoo.com>
York, PA USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:46 AM CDT
Holding you close in thoughts and prayers today.
Angela Jamieson
Brooklyn Park, MN USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:43 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa,
we're thinking of you on this bittersweet day.

do something special for yourselves today. As always, Ellis will be with you.

Kelly, Roger, Cole, Josie and Julia Bovee <kellyb@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 8:42 AM CDT
Wishing you a day filled with sweet & wonderful memories of The Bravest Boy in the World. You will be sent many thoughts and prayers today, especially from your New Life Family in Bolingbrook. Happy Birthday Sweet Angel Ellis!
Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, il USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 7:02 AM CDT
Happy Birthday Dear sweet Ellis!! I know you must be having the most amazing birthday ever. Look after your mom and dad today ok?
meloney dyer
- Sunday, March 25, 2007 6:53 AM CDT
Happy Birthday to one of Heaven's most magnificent angels. I'll be sending a special prayer for your Mom & Dad today. Maybe you could send them a little reminder of how happy you are in Heaven. It must be nice to have Jesus at your birthday party.
Lisa Whorten <lisawhorten@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Sunday, March 25, 2007 0:17 AM CDT
Happy Birthday sweet Ellis... your bolingbrook family will remember you tomorrow with some special flowers and prayers...Missy and Sam.. we will always be thinking about and praying for you....
Karen <kbuege@wilton.com>
Downers Grove, IL - Saturday, March 24, 2007 11:59 PM CDT
In a few minutes it will be your birthday....Your first as an angel....I think of you often...I know you are just fine...I worry about your mom and dad....It is so hard on them not to have you with them...Please give them peace and the strength to go on....I hope you have a wonderful birthday in Heaven....You are still the braviest boy in the whole world....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, ky usa - Saturday, March 24, 2007 10:56 PM CDT
Happy, happy birthday beautiful boy. You are dearly missed- even by those who never really met you.

Megan <mewohlwend@aol.com>
- Saturday, March 24, 2007 9:40 PM CDT
Thinking about your family today, as Ellis celebrates his birthday in Heaven tomorrow. I'm praying for you.
Hugs,
Ann/Angel Wings

PS The pictures of Ellis are just beautiful.
Ann Watts <bubbasoldlady@cebridge.net>
Jacksonville, AR USA - Saturday, March 24, 2007 8:26 PM CDT
Happy Birthday tomorrow Sweetest Ellis Angel ever!
Please give Mom & Dad extra hugs and love on your very special day. Try and let them know of all the love and prayers and positive energy being sent to them (from loved ones AND complete stangers who know your journey of life so well!). It can be so confusing for us left behind but we know it all makes sense to You in Amazing Heaven! Happy Birthday precious!!
Kate W
Minneapolis, MN - Saturday, March 24, 2007 8:19 PM CDT

Thinking of you...
Much Love,

Amy Helfritz <ahelfritz@juno.com>
Albuquerque, NM USA - Saturday, March 24, 2007 5:40 PM CDT
Bergstroms,
Thinking of you as Ellis' third birthday nears. Ellisville was truly blessed to know of such an inspirational little boy. You should be very Proud. Wishing you the best!

Kelsey Dolge!
Kelsey Dolge <ksdolge@msn.com>
St. Michael , MN USA - Saturday, March 24, 2007 4:52 PM CDT
Thinking of you both and the upcoming 3rd birthday of your sweet angel. I hope the day is good to you.
Erin
- Saturday, March 24, 2007 2:56 PM CDT
Just thinking of you and sending warm wishes for healing and peace.
Peg <pbe@lstc.edu>
Chicago, - Saturday, March 24, 2007 1:37 PM CDT
Sam & Melissa -
Thoughts & prayers are with you often. I hope you can find some happiness amongst all of the sadness you must be feeling as ^Ellis'^ birthday approaches. Please know that you guys are the best parents anyone could ask for. My prayers for you will continue.

Melissa Karnick <mandm@brianeberling.com>
Crystal, MN - Friday, March 23, 2007 11:01 AM CDT
Here to say how very often that I think of Ellis...
Though I never met him...he sits in my mind and keeps me humble as I go thru life. He reminds me to smell the beautiful flowers and spend time laughing in the sunshine..

thank you for sharing him with us....

I will be thinking of him a lot as his birthday approaches.
I think I will have a tiny turtle shaped cake for the kids to share...as we celebrate that wonderful day in 2004.

All the best to your family!

www.caringbridge.org/visit/rachelanne


MONICA
GA - Friday, March 23, 2007 10:24 AM CDT
Happy 3rd Birthday Sweet ^Ellis^. I know I am a few days early but I won't be able to post on Sunday. Send lots of love to your parents as it will be a hard day celebrating without your physical presence.

Sam and Melissa ~ I still log on to Ellisville to see the sweet pictures of Ellis. I wish the two of you well. What wonderful parents you are.
Steph
ND - Friday, March 23, 2007 8:14 AM CDT
As Ellis' birthday approaches, I am feeling sad and angry. I know that I'm not supposed to feel that way, but I do. My heart feels very heavy. Ellis should be here tearing apart his cake with his momma and dada watching. It still feels so unbelievable to me. I can't imagine how you must feel. I continue to pray for you daily.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, March 22, 2007 2:03 PM CDT
Continued thoughts and prayers as 3 months is upon us and Sweet Ellis's birthday! Hoping spring brings brighter days.
Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, il USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 1:00 PM CDT
Melissa: I didn't speak directly to you last night at choir, because I didn't want to overwhelm you, but you have many prayers coming your way. Grief comes during these special times like birthdays and holidays and it feels as if it will never leave. It doesn't leave, but it does get better as time and God's healing give us ways to remember without being torn apart.

Hugs, thoughts and prayers, especially during this time, but also all the time.

Sandy Heidemann
Sandra Heidemann <slheidiss@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 11:11 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa,
Please know that my prayers continue with both of you. I check Ellis's site each day, saying an extra prayer, remembering all of you, hoping the pain is beginning to soften a tiny bit as you remember all the joy he experienced and gave. You are all especially close in my prayers these days preceding his birthday.
My prayers are with you.

Jean Maurer <jmaurer125@yahoo.com>
St. Michael, MN Wright - Thursday, March 22, 2007 6:09 AM CDT
Hi Melissa and Sam...
I am thinking of you as Ellis' birthday is approaching. It will be a hard, hard day for you, but as I look at his smiling little face on my bulletin board over my desk at work, I think of what a wonderful, happy birthday he will be having in heaven! He will be celebrating his birthday with the One who created him! It's always hard for those of us who are left here to continue on and to get through days like this, but I hope and pray that knowing he is happy and free will help ease your loneliness. I will say a 'Happy Birthday' prayer to him on Sunday...what a wonderful new life he is celebrating!
God's peace to you now and always.
Marilyn Quarberg <marilyn.quarberg@anokaramsey.edu>
Coon Rapids, Mn - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 12:01 AM CDT
Just letting you know we are thinking of you still, and do so often. Our little boy and girl, Ava and Jackson love Elmo's world too! (Just as sweet Ellis did :) Every time we watch Seseme Street I think of Ellis. Ellis reminds me to take a little time to enjoy every precious moment with my babies and to savor the sweet little things they say and do. Every moment on this earth is such a gift. Being a parent is the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me. I say a prayer for you now and hope the love between you is sustaining you at this time. I pray for your family too. We hope you feel the love of friends from near and far and the love your ever-precious angel, Ellis.
Love, Jennifer and Courteny Rott, Ava and Jackson
Jennifer Rott <pinkgirl1972@yahoo.com>
Aberdeen , SD USA - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 11:14 PM CDT
Hi Sam and Melissa!

The Sunday before last, I was in church with Grace and Hope and they were all about Ellis! They were thinking about him, talking about him, drawing pictures for you about him (I'll need to drop them in the mail to you). He must have been whispering to them that day. He is present for us every day in some way.

It was so nice to see the two of you in church. Your music was beautiful. It was awesome to see you smile as you conducted the women's choir, Melissa. Radiant!

Peace and love,

Sara
Sara Mize <wsgmize@msn.com>
edina, - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 9:51 PM CDT
Still thinking of you often and hoping you are well.

Shannon
MN - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 6:22 PM CDT
Sam and Melissa,

Just wanted you to know that I think of you all often. I pray that each day shows a little more light than the last and that your unending strength continues....I pray for you often and remember Ellis always.

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Natalie Nantke (Gosha) <njgosha@yahoo.com>
Plymouth , mn usa - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 11:14 AM CDT
I am still amazed at how a family that I do not know personally, has changed me. I honestly do not remember how I first came upon Ellis's site, but since that day, Ellis has pulled at my heart. Everyday, I drive home from work in Arlington, TX to our home in Midlothian TX, and I drive past the sign that says "Welcome to Ellis County." It is there that every day I think about your Ellis, and it reminds me to stop, turn the radio down, and ask my daughter, Hope, how her day was, tell her I love her, and then I sing her favorite songs to her. I squeeze Hope a little tighter now, and I rock her a little longer at night, all because Ellis reminds me how precious life is. I pray for you all everyday as we drive in to Ellis County, hoping that everyday brings you wonderful memories of your sweet angel. Thank you for sharing Ellis with us.
Jill
Ellis County, TX - Monday, March 19, 2007 10:44 PM CDT
Dear Sam and Melissa:
The memory and spirit of your son is with us every single day. I pray that you will be given strength and hope as the months and years march on. You are loved!
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 19, 2007 8:11 PM CDT
Good Morning Sam and Melissa~
I hope today is a good day, but if it more of a tough day, that is OK. I hope you feel the love of your friends and family and your precious, precious son. We uphold you all every day.
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
- Monday, March 19, 2007 9:07 AM CDT
Hello Bergstroms - Spring is around the corner and it can't come fast enough. This has been the worst winter. I hope that you are feeling some renewal with spring. I think of you both so much. You inspire me and fill me with awe.

I miss Ellis every day. I think of his beautiful eyes and soul.

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, March 18, 2007 10:56 AM CDT
Hello Bergstroms - Just stopping by before I head off to work, OMG, this extra job is killing me, to say I am thinking of you and the sweetest, tenderest boy in the world!!!

I come to Ellisville every day, some days several times a day to see that sweet glowing boy!!!!

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Saturday, March 17, 2007 11:10 AM CDT
You are all always in our thoughts and prayers.
Allen and Glenda Hagen <Hage6@sbcglobal.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Saturday, March 17, 2007 9:02 AM CDT
I stopped and asked in my mind who needed prayers today and your family kept coming to mind. Thinking and praying for you.
an Ellis fan <xofs1@yahoo.com>
Columbia, MD US - Friday, March 16, 2007 5:18 PM CDT
Melissa and Sam,
I think of you both everyday, and your sweet angel, Ellis. I pray that you are finding comfort in your family and friends, and also, within this CaringBridge site. Take care of each other.

Love and prayers always, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Friday, March 16, 2007 1:17 PM CDT
Sam and Melissa, I just want you to know I am still thinking and praying for you. For some reason this morning you both as well as Ellis were really on my mind.

Shannon Schulzetenberg
- Friday, March 16, 2007 9:54 AM CDT
Dear Sam & Melissa, One eveving we were asked a very interesting question by our 12 year old daughter. How long to you pray for some one? We told her that your heart and your head have the list and God bless everyone else. Our family prays for you every evening. We pray that you are comforting each other, holding each other up, and lifting each others spirits. Memories are a blessed thing!! In our thoughts & prayers, The Dickinsons
Michael Dickinson <modicko@netzero.net>
Robbinsdale, MN U.S.A. - Thursday, March 15, 2007 11:05 PM CDT
Just want you to know I think of you often and continue to keep you in my prayers.
Shirley Ochnser <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Thursday, March 15, 2007 10:33 AM CDT
Thinking of you and praying for you.
Chari Warner <millymango40@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 11:07 AM CDT
Thinking of you and your precious boy.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 9:20 AM CDT
Ellis is not forgotten!
Jenni
Kanas City, KS US - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 5:42 PM CDT
Hi Melissa and Sam, I come here often just to see the pictures of your sweet Ellis, he always has a way of bringing a smile to my face. I pray you both are healing your both in my thoughts and prayers . God bless you
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 7:18 AM CDT
Thinking of you and remembering Ellis!
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Tuesday, March 13, 2007 7:18 AM CDT
Thank you. Thank you for the way you shared Ellis's life with us. You appreciated every detail, every moment, every memory with him. This was clear in your writings. You appreciated the miracle he was each day. I was able to see my four month old granddaughter Rosa today. Before she was born one test indicated a possible heart problem. We are blessed that she is fine. I never take that for granted. I was happy to be with her today. I was angry when I drove by your home to think you did not have Ellis with you. I am sure you have anger, and sadness so often even though you see the blessing his life was/is. May you find the comfort you need in your family, friends, and in each other. Hope you continue to take one day at a time and be good to yourselves. Healing is a journey as is life...know you are not forgotten. Sending prayers and thoughts. Mary
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, mN hennipen - Monday, March 12, 2007 11:18 PM CDT
Hello,
You do not know me but I found this link through another friend's caringbridge website. I hope you don't mind that I leave a message to you as your story touched my heart and I grieve with you over the loss of your lil guy. I am a mom of 2 and I just wanted to know that your story will be with me forever. After I read your story I hugged my lil guys just a little bit longer and tighter and thought of your dear sweet Ellis. I thank you for sharing Ellis with me and I thank you for making me take some steps back and appreciate how short and how precious life really is. I wish I would have been able to meet Ellis. Thank You for sharing Ellis's story.
Dawn Savage <DSavage73@hotmail.com>
Burnsville, Mn United States - Monday, March 12, 2007 10:41 PM CDT
Hi Sam and Melissa!
Ellis' mandolin strings made their way to an old folks home last Sunday. Played for bunch of oldsters, but was then able to cull four fine, beautiful elderly ladies from the herd for a little time of singing. We did this one song by Bill and Gloria Gaither---"Because He Lives". I hadn't heard it in years, and the ladies sang it so beautfully. The lyrics are, well, just good.
One note: the first gal I ran into at this place threw every possible insult she could at me. A real crotchity old battle-axe, if you know what I mean. She thought she could deter me from bringing a little joy to the place. Well, at one time, maybe I would have slinked off in defeat, but armed with the Strings of Ellis? Nothing was going to thwart me from bringing a little music to the joint. A major shot of courage---thank you, Ellis!
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Monday, March 12, 2007 9:31 PM CDT
I love that phrase, sharing Ellis. I think that is what all of Ellisville does is share Ellis. We share him with his Mama and Dada, or rather they shared him with us, we share him with each other and the world. That is his lasting give. This sweet, sweet baby.

I hope your days are getting a little bit better for you. I pray for you all the time. I think of sweet Ellis every day.

Take Care sweet Bergstroms.
Cheryl
- Monday, March 12, 2007 4:35 PM CDT
We had a birthday celebration for a friend of ours this past weekend. Paul was over and talk of how we met was in the air. So, of course we were sharing Ellis and his remarkable stories, and the birthday lady said, "You see. This was Ellis' gift to you. This wonderful friendship."

So, today we give thanks to Ellis for this gift! THANK YOU, SWEET ELLIS!
Pam Russell <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope , MN USA - Monday, March 12, 2007 9:28 AM CDT
I look at your old house and think of you everyday. You are always in my prayers. I still look at Ellis' pictures every day. He will never be forgotten.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Monday, March 12, 2007 7:06 AM CDT
Sam and Melissa,
Just wanted you to know that we still think of Ellis every day and we still check his website often to see his sweet smile.

You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Kelly, Roger, Cole, Josie and Julia Bovee <kellyb@stma.k12.mn.us>
Monticello, MN United States - Sunday, March 11, 2007 8:04 PM CDT
Sam and Melissa,
Just wanted you to know that we still think about Ellis every day and we still check his website often to see his sweet smile.

You are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Kelly, Roger, Cole, Josie and Julia Bovee <kellyb@stma.k12.mn.us>
Monticello, MN - Sunday, March 11, 2007 8:02 PM CDT
Good Morning Bergstroms - Just checking in wanting you to know I am thinking of you today. Thinking of our wonderful Ellis. Of course that should go without saying. He is in my thoughts constantly.

I am off to my second job, oy, but I wanted to just say, Hey!!!!
Cheryl
- Saturday, March 10, 2007 9:26 AM CST
Just wanted to let you know that I think about you both each day.
Melissa
Crystal, MN - Friday, March 9, 2007 6:38 PM CST
Sam and Melissa

Thinking of you and many prayers sent for you and your family


Mary Davis Kloek <mplsgreekgirl@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, March 9, 2007 4:48 PM CST
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!
Carrie Ford <carrie4rd@charter.net>
Charleston, WV USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 1:51 PM CST
The mention of my child's name
May bring tears to my eyes,
But it never fails to bring
Music to my ears.
If you are really my friend,
Let me hear the beautiful music of his name.
It soothes my broken heart
And sings to my soul."
Author Unknown

God Bless,
Susan

http://www.caringbridge.com/visit/wandahooper
Susan Bernhardt <desbernhardt@msn.com>
Zimmerman, MN USA - Friday, March 9, 2007 12:22 AM CST
Thinking of you today. You are in my thoughts often.
Shannon
MN - Thursday, March 8, 2007 9:53 PM CST
Both of you are certainly in my thoughts. Love to both of you always.

Love,

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN United States - Thursday, March 8, 2007 9:30 PM CST
Just checking in and remembering sweet little Ellis.....My thoughts and prayers continue for you....I can't believe it's been 3 months already.....Ellis continues to live in all our hearts....Take care....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, ky usa - Thursday, March 8, 2007 4:42 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, I check Ellis' site frequently and always enjoy taking another look at the photos. I pray for your peace as you daily adjust to your lives.
Jan Seplak <jseplak@ststephen.net>
Bloomington, MN - Thursday, March 8, 2007 2:09 PM CST
Always thinking and praying for you......God Bless!
Joshua, Maria & Emma Knox <jmeknox1@comcast.net>
- Thursday, March 8, 2007 2:01 PM CST
Just stopping by to let you know that I am thinking of you. I love to just look as sweet Ellis's pics.

Take Care
Cheryl
- Thursday, March 8, 2007 10:31 AM CST
Hey! I was sifting through Harley Gene's site, as he is in the hospital again and heard of him through Paul. I was looking at the slide shows from his journey, and in one of them, it looks like either in a play area, or therapy room, there in the background, I am nearly 100% sure I saw sweet little Ellis! Sitting there on the floor with his white/blonde conductor's hair! It was such a joy to be surprised with his little face. Thoughts are with you today!
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 7:34 AM CST
Continued thoughts and prayers. Be strong and brave, that is what Ellis would want for you both.
Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, Il USA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 9:20 PM CST
My children love to look at the pictures of Ellis. They are quite young, and obviously never met him, but they know him by name and laugh out loud at his silly faces. I find it interesting that they do not ask about his tubes or his scars-- they see Ellis as you do, as God does, as Ellis truly is. Even for those of us in Ellisville who never knew your precious son, we will always remember the beautiful, joy-filled, glowing Ellis.
Andrea Krinke <takrinke@msn.com>
Buffalo, MN USA - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 9:37 AM CST
Thinking of and praying for you. Still remembering Ellis. God bless you.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Wednesday, March 7, 2007 7:26 AM CST
Remembering Ellis, his strength and bravery. Prayers for you.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
- Tuesday, March 6, 2007 10:41 PM CST
Thinking of you always and rembering Ellis. May you find peace in this time. My grandfather passed away just over 2 weeks ago and I am having a horrible time with it, It cant compare to how you feel but I hope that you find a little peace in this note... I had been telling him about Ellis over these past years. May you find comfort in knowing I am sure my grandather is hanging out with Little ellis and playing baseball with him in Heaven as that was my grandfathers true love. He had 8 kids 17 grandkids and 11 greatgreat kids and lots of "bonus" family and I know that Ellis would fit right in!
Karen <kbuege@wilton.com>
Downers , IL - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 4:55 PM CST
Jus wanted you to know we are still thinking of you here at New Life. Our prayers continue to be with you.
Baumgartners <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Tuesday, March 6, 2007 4:53 PM CST
Dearest Bergstroms - Thinking of you today and everyday. Thinking of dearest, most precious boy, Ellis, every hour of every day. Not an hour goes past that I don't think of this special little soul.

God Bless You All
Cheryl
- Tuesday, March 6, 2007 1:07 PM CST
Thinking of the both of you today and everyday. I will never forget Ellis the bravest and strongest boy in the world. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, March 5, 2007 4:12 PM CST
So many prayers were with you as this three month anniversary passed by yesterday. Prayers for strength, endurance, comfort, and HOPE are with you each day.
Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Monday, March 5, 2007 1:09 PM CST
This day is past. I spent all day thinking about you both and sweet tender Ellis. Oh my dears you are never far from my thoughts. I think about you all the time. I wonder how you are and how you are doing. And mostly I think about sweet, sweet Ellis. His pure little spirit and soul!!!

He is always in my thoughts and I drink in life in a way I never did before. His strong little spirit is forever in my life.

God Bless You Both.
Cheryl
- Monday, March 5, 2007 0:24 AM CST
Thinking of you in a special way today.........and remembering, always, your sweet boy.

Megan Wohlwend <mewohlwend@aol.com>
IL - Sunday, March 4, 2007 10:48 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
I never had the pleasure of meeting your beautiful son, but I was a faithful follower of his story. I cannot bring myself to remove this page from my "bookmarks." I just cannot seem to say goodbye to your sweet son. I cannot image how you must be feeling. I keep thinking somehow someway this was all a big mistake. But, I know that God makes no mistakes. He had a perfect plan for Ellis and his plan was carried out perfectly. Ellis has been an incredible blessing to so many people and strengthened the faith of so many people. I know the pain of his passing is still very fresh, I only hope and pray that knowing he is whole and in peace helps you day by day. I pray for comfort for you and your entire family. And although I may someday remove his caringbridge page from my "bookmarks" he will never be removed from my thoughts and prayers. I cannot wait for the day that I get to heaven and meet your beautiful warrior in person. How lucky God is to have him by His side. God Bless you in your journey.
Lori Winkel <jlthwink@sbclgobal.net>
Suamico, wi - Sunday, March 4, 2007 7:51 PM CST
Always thinking of the sweetest Ellis and praying for peace for both of you...
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, March 4, 2007 5:47 PM CST
Thinking of Ellis today and every day.
Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Sunday, March 4, 2007 4:13 PM CST
Remembering the strongest and bravest boy in the whole world. :0)

Love and Prayers,
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Sunday, March 4, 2007 4:05 PM CST
Our love for Ellis is bubbling today as we remember him in the sweetest of thoughts. Praying for you, Sam and Melissa.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Sunday, March 4, 2007 12:53 AM CST
Thinking about you two today and always. I hope you are well! You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I am reminded of Ellis and you two everytime I sit at my desk here at school. His heart is hanging right over my computer! Ellis will never be forgotten!

With love, thoughts, and prayers,
Sara Quarberg <sara.quarberg@uwrf.edu>
River Falls, WI - Sunday, March 4, 2007 11:06 AM CST
Just two other Ellisville residents stopping by to let you know we have not forgotten your precious Ellis and to let you know we are thinking about you and praying for you on this 3 month anniversary. We are imagining him running free with his rosy red cheeks and twinkle in his eyes, just enjoying another perfect day in Heaven. Lots of hugs and prayers,
Linny J and DWR
- Sunday, March 4, 2007 10:29 AM CST
Sam and Melissa:
thoughts of your baby Ellis came to my head this morning as I had my morning coffee, read the newspaper, and looked out the window on the sunny white landscape. I realized it has been 3 months since Ellis went to Heaven, and all I can say is that I'm so sorry you have had to endure this deep loss. I started following Ellis' journey right around the time he had his transplant and I was so sure he was going to make it. Today, I will mourn his loss, but I will also muse about his short life, the things he loved and the countless people who loved him, even people whom he never got to meet.

Thank you for sharing your lives with us.
Mari Beth Ross <jerryandmaribethross@comcast.net>
Hugo, mn - Sunday, March 4, 2007 10:23 AM CST
Stopping by to let you know I'm still here praying!!!!!!!!
1Cor 15:57 But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
The Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, March 3, 2007 11:38 PM CST
So hard to believe that Ellis earned his wings 3 months ago. I pray your days are peaceful and nights filled with beautiful dreams of your precious boy.
Erin <swtpeach499@aol.com>
Fort Worth , TX - Saturday, March 3, 2007 11:37 PM CST
Still here, still praying. Missing your sweet boy.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Saturday, March 3, 2007 8:06 PM CST
I went to a funeral once where the minister said that if the deceased could choose to come back or stay in heaven he would definitely choose to stay in heaven. That gives me comfort in that heaven is the most beautiful, wonderful place that we can't even imagine. That comforts me in that this is where we are supposed to be, in heaven with our Father, not here.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Saturday, March 3, 2007 3:37 PM CST
Just thinking of you today and want you to know. May the Lord continue His healing process.
Love and prayers,
Marilyn
Marilyn Mattson
Aberdeen, sd U.S.A. - Friday, March 2, 2007 7:04 PM CST
Still thinking of Ellis everyday... Never met him, but I even dreamt of him a night or two ago. He was in my boys' room watching them play, sitting up on some blocks, happy as could be.
I get a catalog with an item that makes me think of him, too. Signals.com - their 'Twilight Turtle' makes me think of him everytime I see it.
Ellis will always be in my heart. Your beautiful words and your ability to share him with all of your internet friends and family have made sure of that. Thank you for sharing your story of your precious child.


Jennifer Hemann <joshandjenh@charter.net>
Monticello, MN - Friday, March 2, 2007 4:06 PM CST
Cheers to you, 'Auntie Bergie' for you said what are all thinking. How we long for him and miss him incredibly. Indeed if Ellis could have chosen, he would be here with his splendidly loving parents and family and piles of friends. How we all miss him so dearly.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Friday, March 2, 2007 3:30 PM CST
Dear Sam and Missy,

I know some people say the darndest things...like, "Ellis is in a better place..." Or "He's dancing with the angels..." and I know it is probably all very well intended. But still I think Ellis should be dancing with you and I think he should be among us here...and I think we get to say that. I think it is ALL-right to say that. If Ellis could choose one place to be...I know what he'd pick.

Loving you and missing Ellis,
Auntie Bergie
Bergie C <lambobergie@yahoo.com>
Mpls, MN 55417 - Friday, March 2, 2007 10:57 AM CST
I never stop thinking, praying and remembering the bravest boy I know.
Marno
Minnetonka, mn usa - Friday, March 2, 2007 10:51 AM CST
Praying for you today.
Shannon
MN - Thursday, March 1, 2007 4:48 PM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam,
I am still here thinking about you everyday. Some days and many times a day I find myself just staring into space thinking about what Ellis might be doing at that very moment or how he is doing and also about the both of you. The other weekend one of my second cousins was over and we watched a Elmo video and I remembered how much Ellis LOVED Elmo and that he would have loved to watch it with us. I will never forget Ellis or the both of you. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Thursday, March 1, 2007 11:55 AM CST
Thinking of you.
Susan Watson <susanwatson1999@hotmail.com>
Saint Paul, - Thursday, March 1, 2007 9:34 AM CST
Here I am again, checking in on you, although not really sure why. I think maybe in addition to missing Ellis himself, I miss your wonderful writing as well. Checking in was so automatic for so long, something I anxiously did every morning, and continue to do even now. Ellis still weighs on my mind. His passing was just so sudden and unexpected. I think of him every day, and will continue to – I have no choice. You see, my daughter (who turns 2 in May) has the very same little kitty that Ellis loved so, only in a slightly smaller version. Hers has a little rattle inside him, and like Ellis, she has to have her kitty when going to bed (we even go through a similar routine at bedtime - you have your kitty? Your blankie?, etc.). So you see, Ellis is never far from my thoughts, that sweet face I never even knew, imprinted in my brain. I hope you have been able to find a little peace in these days that have passed, although I know it is something that will continue to be with you forever. Thank you once again for sharing yourselves with us.
Cindy
OH - Wednesday, February 28, 2007 11:57 AM CST
Sending love, love, love.

Sara Mize <mizefamily@mac.com>
Edina, - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 10:59 PM CST
Hope you are having a wonderful and productive day. I think of how lucky all of the music students are to have you with them, teaching and guiding music in their lives! I am giving thanks for you today... such wonderful, nurturing, loving spirits!
Pam Russell <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Tuesday, February 27, 2007 12:40 AM CST
I came to Ellisville tonight to just look at pictures again and to remember.....thinking I dont know what to say and then I read the last entry from A Elliott. I could have written that from my own heart and mind. Those words are exactly how I feel. Ellis touched so many of us in such a special way that will never be forgotten, as Ellis will never be forgotten.
Tamra Crane <eagle19@bellsouth.net>
Hendersonville, NC - Monday, February 26, 2007 10:31 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,

I am sure there are many out there just like me who check on you daily but don't always sign the guestbook. Know that we are all still here praying for you and with you. Know that that beautiful boy of yours has touched and continues to touch soooo many hearts! I promise you he will never be forgotten! He is a precious boy and I carry a piece of his spirit in my heart and always will!
A. Elliott
TX USA - Monday, February 26, 2007 8:21 PM CST
Melissa and Sam, Thank you for your beautiful music and your presence at ECLC as we worshipped together on Ash Wed. It was a blessing to have you with us as the ashes imposed upon us were a reminder of our baptism and our life in Christ. Ellis was with us at that service, as were so many of our loved ones. You both were a blessing to Ellis and continue to be a blessing to us. He was a blessing to you and also to all of us as you so beautifully shared his life, struggles and victory with us. May God grant you peace and many wonderful memories to sustain and uphold you.
Marilyn David <madavid98@aol.com>
Bloomington, MN - Monday, February 26, 2007 9:06 AM CST
Hey Melissa and Sam!

My mom and I were talking about Ellis this weekend, and we both said that everytime we see Elmo, we think of Ellis! And I seem to be seeing Elmo a lot for some reason! He isn't forgotten, nor will he ever be! Thinking about you guys and hope you are well. God Bless you always!
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
River Falls, WI - Sunday, February 25, 2007 3:51 PM CST
i am thinking of you, and praying that you find comfort.
I hope you can find peace and comfort...
Ellis will never be forgotten
blessings to you
genna
Genna <gmkids@aol.com>
Nashville, Tn USA - Sunday, February 25, 2007 2:23 PM CST
You are not forgotten. Ellis is not forgotten. Prayers and thoughts are still with you from so many. May they comfort you
mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, MN USA - Sunday, February 25, 2007 9:53 AM CST
Stopping by to let you know I'm still here and still praying!
Ps 61:1-4: Hear my cry, O God; attend unto my prayer. From the end of the earth will I cry unto thee, when my heart is overwhelmed: lead me to the rock that is higher than I. For thou hast been a shelter for me, and a strong tower from the enemy. I will abide in thy tabernacle for ever: I will trust in the covert of thy wings. Selah.
The Prayer Bears
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, February 24, 2007 4:56 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, I have not been able to write to you since Ellis' death. It brought back too many memories of my own. A year ago last October, my first grandson was stillborn. Against all of the wonders of modern medicine, this beautiful, healthy baby boy strangled on his umbilical cord. Just as his life should have been beginning, it was over. Just as we learned that he was on his way to meet us, we learned that he was gone. Gone? How odd is that? He isn't gone, he continues to be everywhere we look. We see children who are the age that he would be, and we wonder what Ryan Bradley would be like right now. We think about all the plans that we had made around enveloping our little guy with love and family, and we cry for our loss. And then we think about the gift that he gave us all.
His mommy and daddy were 19 years old. They planned to marry, and chose to have a child to seal their plan. They were working hard at full time jobs and trying to go to school on the side. They were ready and committed to making a home for their little boy. And grandparents on both sides were committed to supporting them and Ryan in their effort. When Ryan died everything changed. The first couple of months were awful. The kids wanted desperately to try again right away. They were so prepared emotionally for parenthood that they could not imagine life without their baby. Then, my son lost his job, his future mother in law lost her job. The stress was palpable for all of us. But then an amazing thing happened. My son and his fiancee made the decision that they wanted to move home to their parents and finish school before they tried again. Ryan's gift to his parents was the ability to get themselves more prepared to be a family by getting their college degrees. His gift to our families was the knowledge that no matter how difficult the situation might be, we can stand together with our children and support them through the rough waters. Our mutual faith, and that of the extended families wrapped us all in their prayers and love. Ryan changed hearts and he never took a breath. I have seen the miracles wrought be this one small child, and I know that dear Ellis had way more time to work magic and love into the world around him.
Be blessed, and know that just as you were upheld in prayer throughout Ellis' life, so too will you be upheld in prayer as you continue to grieve. God never wastes our grief.
Tricia Niesche <pniesche@mpls.k12.mn.us>
Circle Pines, MN - Friday, February 23, 2007 2:21 PM CST
Thinking of all of you and your sweet baby Ellis....
Kim Magnan <k_magnan@hotmail.com>
Plt Prairie, WI - Friday, February 23, 2007 11:59 AM CST
Thinking of your sweet boy.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Friday, February 23, 2007 9:51 AM CST
Remembering Ellis' smile, strength and bravery.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
- Thursday, February 22, 2007 10:58 PM CST
You remain in my prayers. Your Ellis has blessed many lives and is continuing to do so. Much love.
Amy Crawford <amyoslc@msn.com>
Hillsboro, ND - Thursday, February 22, 2007 9:56 PM CST
Thoughts and Prayers are with you Sam and Melissa.
Lisa <kevkeil@charter.net>
Albertville, MN - Thursday, February 22, 2007 9:40 PM CST
Still thinking of you daily!
melissa batterberry <mjskare@hotmail.com>
new london, mn - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:35 PM CST
Thank you for sharing your precious son Ellis with us. May God continue to hold you close. Prayers from S.C., Kathy Blackwelder
Kathy Blackwelder <jkmm@cetlink.net>
Rock Hill, SC - Thursday, February 22, 2007 6:02 PM CST
Want you to know that we think and pray for you often. The memory of Ellis lives on.
Abbie Bushaw <abushaw03@hotmail.com>
Rochester, MN - Thursday, February 22, 2007 12:23 AM CST
Still thinking of your family each day, and praying for you always.
Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Thursday, February 22, 2007 8:17 AM CST
Still thinking of you often . . .
Lyndsey <Lyndsey.Ochsner@usd.edu>
Vermillion, SD - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 9:40 PM CST
Your family is still in my thoughts and prayers. Brave, handsome Ellis will always be remembered!


Somewhere...someplace... today...
A family is waiting to hear...
Is something wrong with their baby?
The answers aren't quite clear...
This family has entered an unwanted world...
And they just don't know what to expect...
Somewhere...someplace... today
They first heard the words: heart defect.
And how they hoped this was not true...
And thought... this cannot be...
I too... know just how this feels...
For one day...this was me.

Somewhere...someplace...today...
A man and a woman embrace...
Their baby is in surgery...
They long to see her face...
They haven't got to hold her yet...
Without...a cord or line...
They pace the room awaiting news...
And hope she'll be just fine.
Prayers fill this busy waiting room...
And mom and dad are scared...
Somewhere...someplace..today...
The tiniest hearts are repaired.

Somewhere...someplace...today...
A child's growing fast...
Smiling,laughing,thriving...
His mom thinks...can this last?
It's almost easy...to forget...
That anything is wrong...
Somewhere...someplace..today...
Her child seems so strong.

Somewhere...someplace... today...
A little boy fights...just to live
A father holds his tiny hand...
His love...all he can give...
The doctor's are all baffled...
They fear that he might die...
Somewhere...someplace...today...
A family says goodbye...

Somewhere...someplace...each year..
More than 40,000 families will see...
What it means...when something's wrong...
They'll face a CHD.
Today...for just a moment...
Stop...remember...reflect...
Make time to tell someone you know...
"I've been changed by a heart defect".

Love~ Claire
www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
(Our heart baby~Our angel in heaven)
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 5:55 PM CST
Your son was beautiful. There is not a day that goes by when I don't think of him and draw inspiration from his memory.
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 5:14 PM CST
Dear Bergstroms -

I don't think anyone who has every visited Ellisville will ever be the same or will ever forget the sweetest, stongest and most loving little boy!!! There is not a day that goes by when I don't think of him. His sweet little face. Or a day that I don't think of the both of you.

I have long thought that we wait for God to answer our prayers or speak to us, but I do believe that he speaks to us through each other, that we only need to listen to hear him. He spoke to us through Ellis, to remember that 'Life Is Good', is it good every minute of every day, no, but it is good to be here to live every minute, good or bad, of every day. That is what God was saying through Ellis. This is what I believe.

I pray that the ache gets ever so smaller every day for you. That you will start to heal and find some comfort.

God Bless You Both!!!!
Cheryl
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 2:53 PM CST
Still here-checking in every day so you know that *I* have not forgotten about sweet Ellis. I hope today finds you doing well.
Kristin W
Woodcreek, TX United States - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 11:35 AM CST
Still here thinking about, praying for, and always remembering Ellis.
meloney dyer <meloneydyer@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 7:33 AM CST
Always remembering the beautiful little boy who is now playing in heaven and running the streets of gold, healthy and whole for eternity.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 7:12 AM CST
We're still here, thinking of you always.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 9:04 PM CST
Sweet Ellis... Today I pray that you are peacefully floating and soaring and keeping the band in the clouds rolling along. I imagine music in heaven is grander than we can ever dream up! Have a lovely one,Sweet Angel Boy!
Pam Russell <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 1:19 PM CST
Remembering Ellis and his parents.....You are not forgotten....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
shelbyville, ky usa - Monday, February 19, 2007 7:28 PM CST
thoughts and prayers continue to be with you today and always....praying that God provides comfort today and the days yet to come.

God bless you always....
Terri <timjay613@sbcglobal.net>
Allen, Tx USA - Monday, February 19, 2007 4:17 PM CST
Continuing my thoughts and prayers always. I have to tell you to listen to "Held" by Natalie Grant. I think of you when ever I listen to it and I hope that it brings you comfort as it should always, knowing the Lord is holding you close.
Steph Morinville <nsmorinville@gvtel.com>
Brooks, MN - Monday, February 19, 2007 11:53 AM CST
Melissa and Sam,
I continue to think about the two of you each and everyday. I hope that the two of are doing as well as you can. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, February 18, 2007 6:52 PM CST
Praying that the Lord, the Author and Finisher of our faith, would always be with you.
Heb 12:1-2: Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.
The Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, February 18, 2007 0:09 AM CST
Ellis was in our thoughts today, too. My daughter, Sarah, and I had to stay in town overnight at a friend's house due to a blizzard. My friend listed off several kinds of cereal for Sarah to choose what she wanted for breakfast. Sarah's response was . . . "Life is good." How true!!
Janice Erfman <jkerfman@hotmail.com>
St. Lawrence, SD - Saturday, February 17, 2007 8:41 PM CST
We thought of Ellis today as we saw the turtles at the Minnesota Zoo. Praying for you.

Shannon
MN - Saturday, February 17, 2007 6:01 PM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam-

I continue to think about the two of you daily and I hope you are doing ok. You continue to be in my prayers!

God Bless you guys! :O)
Sara Quarberg <sara.quarberg@uwrf.edu>
River Falls, WI - Saturday, February 17, 2007 3:37 PM CST
I was thinking of Ellis alot today.I pray that his parents fing more compfort as the time passes.To Quote the strongest most wonderful little boy in the world-Life is Good*
God Bless
The Yotters
Jenna Yotter <ccyotter@uslink.net>
Hill City, Mn U.S.A - Friday, February 16, 2007 11:25 PM CST
I continue to think of Ellis and pray that you are finding some comfort in all those who continue to visit this beautiful site! My life is forever changed by your precious little one and his brave journey!
Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, February 16, 2007 8:35 PM CST
Always thinking about Ellis, and his mommy and daddy.
Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Friday, February 16, 2007 11:56 AM CST
Still praying for your comfort and peace.
Chari Warner <millymango40@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Thursday, February 15, 2007 11:32 AM CST
Just Thinking of Ellis on the day of Love.Throughout the world Ellis is loved and will never be forgotten.:)I hope his parents are doing well.Happy Valentines Day*
The Yotters
Jenna Yotter <ccyotter@uslink.net>
Hill City, Mn U.S.A - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 11:37 PM CST
Just Thinking of Ellis on the day of Love.Throughout the world Ellis is loved and will never be forgotten.:)I hope his parents are doing well.Happy Valentines Day*
The Yotters
Jenna Yotter <ccyotter@uslink.net>
Hill City, Mn U.S.A - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 11:36 PM CST
Celebrating Ellis today and everyday! His heart was filled with so much love, it radiated through you and this page, and we have all felt it! Thinking about you and Sam always!
With love,
Sara Quarberg <singersara12@hotmail.com>
River Falls, WI - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 6:19 PM CST
Sending Happy Valentine wishes to the parents of the boy with a heart that was FULL OF LOVE!
Thinking of you daily and always remembering your sweet boy!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, MN - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 5:41 PM CST
On Valentine's Day, the holiday of hearts, my thoughts return again and again to your family, to your Ellis, and to your journey of the last 3 years. How I wish he was here for you to shower in love, hugs, and kisses, as you did every other day of his life. Holding you close in thought and prayer as the days continue to pass.

Amy <amyscotland@hotmail.com>
Maplewood , MN - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 1:47 PM CST
Happy Valentine's Day to you, Sam and Melissa. Sending love and wishes up to Ellis for a sweet day to him as well. As we paint paper hearts, I remember Ellis and his braveness... as we frost the pink frosting onto cupcakes, I remember Ellis and his frosted doughnuts....So many wonderful, sweet memories! I hope you too, are thinking of all the delicious moments you had together.

Forever with you in thought, love and prayer...
Pam Russell <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 12:33 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day Sweet Ellis....still missing you every day....send mommy and daddy a special Valentine's Kiss!!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
baldwin park, ca usa - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 11:07 AM CST
Happy Valentine's Day! Thinking of you today as always.

Love and Prayers,
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 8:39 AM CST
Dear Ellis' Mama & Dada - Valentines Day what a bittersweet day it must be for you. I haven't posted lately because I find I just don't know what to say. I miss your sweet Ellis every day. I try to think of something profound to ease your pain, but I can't think of anything that hasn't been said. All I can say is that I think of you both every day, many times through out the day.

I am awed by the love that you have for each other, it is wonderful to have that with your life partner.

I hope that you have as good a Valentine's Day as possible.
Cheryl
- Wednesday, February 14, 2007 8:13 AM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam,
Last night at our Ministry Team meeting, there was a prayer request for someone who's last name was Ellis. My thoughts went to your sweet baby in heaven. Thinking of you both, and Ellis, this Valentine's Day, and all of the love you have all shown so many of us out here in Ellisville!
My love and prayers to you today and always!
Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 6:36 AM CST
Thinking of you and sweet Ellis today.
Shannon
MN - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 7:33 PM CST
thought of your family today. Sending prayers.

www.caringbridge.com/visit/shellyfox
Shelly
columbia, md us - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 6:06 PM CST
Just thinking and praying for your family. I can't imagine the pain as the days go on.... Look to the Lord and He will get you through.
Ashleigh Frye
Mission Viejo, CA - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 5:20 PM CST
Can't seem to get Ellis off my mind today and you know what?
I don't want to....

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN USA - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 2:08 PM CST
Thinking of your sweetheart in heaven.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 1:49 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
I'm sitting here, thinking of Ellis. Just hoping that tomorrow, on a day when we are celebrating love, you know that we are celebrating Ellis's legacy of love that you so willingly shared with us. Thank you so much.
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
Walters, MN - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 12:37 AM CST
Dear Sam & Melissa,
Although I haven't visited Ellisville in a while,I still pray for you two to find peace and comfort in this world. Please know that complete strangers (like me) were touched by Ellis and I do think about his courage often.
Michele Fields
michele
- Tuesday, February 13, 2007 11:13 AM CST
Thinking of sweet Ellis, as always, and praying for you!
Sarah <bartlett.sarah@gmail.com>
jackson, MS - Monday, February 12, 2007 10:27 PM CST
Just stopping by to see Ellis's sweet face, and to let you know that I am thinking of you and praying for you.
Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Monday, February 12, 2007 6:21 PM CST
Just wanted to drop you a line to let you know that you're still in my thoughts and prayers!
Carrie Ford <carrie4rd@charter.net>
Charleston, WV USA - Monday, February 12, 2007 3:15 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
Last weekend I drove past Ellis Lane in WI. Just want you to know that I'm still praying for you both and I will never forget your son.

God bless,
Abby
Abby Dodds <abbyrose_85@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Monday, February 12, 2007 10:04 AM CST
Everyday is a little brighter because of the light that Ellis is shining down from above. Always always thinking of Ellis!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, MN - Sunday, February 11, 2007 10:07 PM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,
Thank you for continuing to share your thoughts on this website. We keep photos of Ellis on our refrigerator, and his dear face brightens the room. He was, and continues to be, a light for all of us. Just wanted to let you know that we think of you often and love you very much.
Joanne and Kent
Joanne & Kent Eittreim <j.eittreim@comcast.net>
- Sunday, February 11, 2007 10:02 PM CST
Dear Melissa, In time, when you are ready, could we see some different pictures of Ellis from happy days like band trips or the zoo? There were so many beautiful pictures of him at his service. I continue to pray for you and think of that beautiful child everyday.

Love,
Pam
Pam <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Sunday, February 11, 2007 5:27 PM CST
Thankful for Ellis.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Sunday, February 11, 2007 10:16 AM CST
Just thinking of you and Ellis.
meloney dyer <meloneydyer@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, February 11, 2007 6:39 AM CST
My computer was "in the shop" most of the day so trying to get caught up now.
Ps 4:8: I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for thou, LORD, only makest me dwell in safety.
The Prayer Bears

Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, February 11, 2007 1:20 AM CST
Keeping your family in our prayers.
The Wagners <tmwgner@cox.net>
Wichita, KS - Saturday, February 10, 2007 11:36 PM CST
Just thinking of you and your little sweetheart. I think of him often. :c)
A friend
- Saturday, February 10, 2007 10:41 PM CST
It was good to hear from you. You continue to be in my thoughts. Dear sweet Ellis will forever be in so many hearts. He will never be forgotten. He touched me in a way I have never experienced before. Take care of each other. You will always be the 'great and lucky' parents of such a special boy. SUPER ELLIS!!
Tamra <eagle19@bellsouth.net>
NC - Saturday, February 10, 2007 9:08 AM CST
WHAT MAKES A MOTHER
I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked "What makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard him say
A Mother has a baby
This we know is true
But, God, can you be a mother
When your baby's not with you?

Yes, you can he replied
With confidence in his voice
I give many women babies
When they leave it is not their choice
Some I send for a lifetime
And others for the day
And some I send to feel your womb
But there's no need to stay.

I just don't understand this God
I want my baby here

He took a breath
and cleared his throat
And then I saw a tear
I wish I could show you
What your child is doing today
If you could see your child smile
With other children and say
"We go to earth to learn our lessons
of love and life and fear
My mommy loved me so much
I got to come straight here
I feel so lucky to have a Mom who had so much love for me
I learned my lessons very quickly
My Mommy set me free.

I miss my Mommy oh so much
But I visit her each day
When she goes to sleep
On her pillows where I lay
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
And whisper in her ear
Mommy don't be sad today
I'm your baby and I am here"

So you see my dear sweet one
Your children are okay
Your babies are here in My home
And this is where they'll stay
They'll wait for you with Me
Until your lessons are through
And on the day you come home
they'll be at the gates for you

So now you see
What makes a Mother
It's the feeling in your heart
It's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start
Though some on earth
May not realize
Until their time is done
Remember all the love you have
And know that you are
A Special Mom.

Author © Unknown


Lori
Kingman, AZ - Friday, February 9, 2007 6:01 PM CST
Remembering, thinking, praying, hoping you are coping. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Ellis lives on in my heart and memory. May the Lord bless you and continue to give you strength, hope and courage. Hugs to you, Dee
Dee Sanderson <deesand@aol.com>
Aberdeen, SD - Friday, February 9, 2007 12:50 AM CST
Remembering you each and every day.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Friday, February 9, 2007 12:09 AM CST
Just stopping by to see beautiful Ellis' picture. We will never forget you or your precious little one...
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Friday, February 9, 2007 8:53 AM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,

Still here. Still thinking of you often. Still holding Ellis in my heart.


Marilyn
- Friday, February 9, 2007 7:40 AM CST
Thinking and praying for you both. Hope you are doing ok. We can't wait to see you guys at the musical on Saturday!!! :O)


Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
River Falls, WI - Friday, February 9, 2007 0:39 AM CST
We continue to think of and pray for you always. The boys still say Ellis' name every now and again and Ben and I think of you every day. Ellis and both of you have touched a heckuva lot of lives.
Love, Natalie and Ben <natalie.bushaw@macys.com>
Eagan, MN - Thursday, February 8, 2007 7:09 PM CST
Hey there, Melissa and Sam...it's been a while since I've been able to visit Ellisville...I just got done reading your post from a few days ago and I am overwhelmed with emotion, questions, sadness, and celebration of Ellis's little life. Your pastor was right. There are words...but then there are no words. Today I don't have too many...I'm simply awestruck. I am thinking and praying for your family. Much love from chilly IL.
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Thursday, February 8, 2007 3:05 PM CST
Thinking of you today and everyday.

Love,
Pam
OsbornP@comcast.net <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, February 8, 2007 12:32 AM CST
I know about ellis though my friend, and he meant so much to both her and her mum. Your whole family have been in my prayers, and I know God will pull you through this. He is soverign and almighty, and remember the footsteps in sand poem, just b/c you see one set of footsteps doesn't mean God left you, He's carrying you though your hard times. He is faithful and will never let you down. I'll continue to pray for you, and just want you to know that.
Rebecca Wonderly
PA - Thursday, February 8, 2007 12:29 AM CST
Incredibly beautiful words for two Incredibly beautiful parents and one Incredibly beautiful child! God Bless all of you!
Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, Il USA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 10:47 PM CST
What an upper it is to check in and see an update on our sweetie Ellis! What an amazing tribute.
Ellis - You are in the heads and hearts of so many throughout this ongoing confusing journey of Life. Continue to bestow your adorable smiles and your happy, sunny disposition upon Mom & Dad-they need to feel your little heart close to theirs as much as possible. Continue to fly high little amazing STAR that you are.


Kate W
Mpls, - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 9:47 PM CST
Who could ever forget the bravest strongest boy in the world or his equally brave and strong mommy & daddy. The words from the celebration of Ellis's life are beautiful. Words to certainly live and love by.

Wishing you comfort through the pain and laugther through every Ellis heartprint!
Mindi <melinda_chouinard@hotmail.com>
Tacoma, WA - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 8:37 PM CST
Wishing you both peace. God is always with you, even when it doesn't always feel so.

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN U.S.A. - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 3:33 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family. I will never forget the way Ellis has touched my heart and taught me about the beauty life.
Tara (Clark)Aldrich <jtaldrich@earthlink.net>
Shakopee, MN - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 3:27 PM CST
Continuing to think of your family, and your brave little ^Ellis^. Wanted to share this poem with you as you love, and remember your son~


Valentines...... To Heaven


This Valentine is not of the ordinary kind,
Its still filled with love...and blessings inside;
But mine has to be sent on the wings of love...
You see its destination is the Heavens above.

Its not being sent to my parents so dear,
For they are still with me each day of the year;
Its being sent to my child...who left earth so soon,
Who's now in the Heavens with the stars and the moon.

The message is the same as your valentine,
"I love you...my sweet precious child of mine;
My love is still deeper than the ocean is blue,
And its sent with hugs and kisses...from me to you."

"I know you are with me each and every day,
You listen as I talk to you...and hear what I say;
For that is one thing that disease cannot do...
...you'll always be apart of me...and me a part of you."

"I know God did not give you the awful disease,
Thank Him for His comfort He gives me...would you please?
I dont know what I would do without His undying love...
Sent to bereaved parents from the Heavens above."

"I know you are in the best of care,
But it's so hard for us left on earth to bear;
Could you put in a request from us left behind...
For God to send the knowledge..so a cure we can find."

"So that no other family has to go through this pain,
Our lives without you will never be the same;
When I get lonely I will look to the sky at night...
And see you shining down your big bright light."

"Happy Valentines day sunshine...I miss you so much,
I know you know how many lives you have touched;
You'll always be mine...I love you with all my heart,
I know we be together again...and then we'll never part."

So you see the meaning is still the same...
The method of delivery is the only change;
Mine must be sent by a little white dove...
On the wings of Love.

Author~ Laura/Heavenly Lights Childrens Memorial

Love~ Claire (Mommy to Laken in heaven)

www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy

Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Wednesday, February 7, 2007 9:38 AM CST
There's still not a day that goes by that I don't think of Ellis and his brave family that misses him so much. Hang in there, Bergstroms!
Kristen <kristen.genet@anokaramsey.edu>
- Tuesday, February 6, 2007 9:50 PM CST
That is such a beautiful entry. I just wanted you to know that I think of you often and pray for comfort and peace for both of you. Your beautiful Ellis and his amazing family have touched my heart and my life and will never be forgotten in my little spot of this world. God Bless!
T'Ann Love <daveandtannlove@yahoo.com>
Ovid, MI USA - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 7:39 PM CST
Sam and Melissa and Ellis, I think of all of you everyday! Sam and Melissa, I hope that you are doing well, I hope that your family and friends are helping you through these times.

Sweet Ellis, I miss you....I hope that you are having fun and watching over mommy and daddy....you have had such an impact on me and my own little ones. Rest well, sweet boy!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, February 6, 2007 3:09 PM CST
What beautiful words........Always thinking of you Sam, Melissa and Beautiful Ellis..........
Natalie Nantke (Gosha) <njgosha@yahoo.com>
Plymouth, mn usa - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 10:43 AM CST
Thank you for sharing those words with us. Remember to cling to them when the days are long and lonely. They will lift you up you are not alone in this journey. God bless you and keep you safe this day.
Bridget <bridgetcthien@hotmail.com>
Bolingbrook, Il - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 9:20 AM CST
Not a day goes by that you - Sam & Melissa - and beautiful little Ellis are not in our thoughts. Ellis' heart photo hangs in our livingroom and on our refrigerator to always remember the most beautiful and courageous boy ever!! Take care and know you remain in thought and prayers always.
Donna & Jeff Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 7:52 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,

What a beautiful message about a beautiful boy. He will continue to light our way and be in our hearts forever.
Thinking of you,
The Bovee Family
Kelly, Roger, Cole, Josie and Julia Bovee <kellyb@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Monday, February 5, 2007 9:30 PM CST
Sam and Melissa-
This weekend I went on a retreat to Oceloa WI. and god was there it was so AWESOME!!!! I thought of you as I hung out with everyone and durring the services. There were some people that decided to give there life to god. I imagined as I was there that Ellis was also there with me. Yesterday as people gave their testimonies I thought of what Ellis's might be and how incridble and moving it would be no is. I continue to think about Ellis everyday, things I see Elmo and hearing the drums durring church. There isn't a day that goes by that I think of the both of you and Ellis. There is two songs that make me think of Ellis, "I am Free" and "The Blessing". The lyrics in both of these songs remind me that Ellis is now FREE. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love always,
Dana :)
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, February 5, 2007 7:17 PM CST
Thank you for sharing the meditation. What stirring words of comfort, peace, and hope. I continue to keep you close in thought and prayer.
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Monday, February 5, 2007 5:04 PM CST
Dear, dear Bergstroms - It is with gladness in my heart that I write you today. For some reason a sense of peace came over me as I read your latest entry. A peace that I did not have on the day that Rev. McMahill spoke these words. I hope you both are feeling some of this peace as well. I was not yet ready to feel God's peace that day. A day of many tears, a day of grief and a day of sorrow. I have the strong feeling that you, both of you, are going to be fine. Whatever "fine" is. When I read the words of Gibran and how joy cannot come without sorrow, I haven't really thought how true those words are until now. Even on that day, it somehow didn't hold the meaning that it does now, a short but endless two months ago.

I wish for you to hold onto one another and feel Ellis around you! May God bless and keep you, bound together with the strings of family.

Kassie Houle <jkhoule@att.net>
New Hope, MN - Monday, February 5, 2007 2:17 PM CST
Sam and Melissa--You were able to usher little Ellis into Heaven and into the arms of our Lord. There is no greater honor or a more difficult job than that. Once again, may these same arms of the Lord that hold Ellis close also reach down and give you comfort.

In Christ,
Barb
www.caringbridge.org/visit/barbberg
Barb Berg
Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, February 5, 2007 1:33 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, I just read the beautiful meditation and had to print it to let my husband read it later today. Katie and Bob had told me about Ellis' service, but to read Rev. McMahill's words is a powerful experience. I intend to keep them, and share them when appropriate. As other have said, I continue to be drawn to Ellis' website and continue to keep you in my prayers.
Jan Seplak <jseplak@ststephen.net>
Bloomington, MN - Monday, February 5, 2007 12:20 AM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,
My Mom,sisters and I have been following littel Ellis since shortly after he received his heart.
I would like you to know that little ellis has changed our lives.He is in my prayers every night ,and about everyday he will pop into my head.i am so very sorry for your loss.
Just know that Ellis will never ever be forgotten.God Bless you both in this time of trouble.
Jenna Yotter <ccyotter@uslink.net>
Hill City, Mn U.S.A - Monday, February 5, 2007 11:41 AM CST
Sam and Melissa, I've been thinking about Ellis and the two of you a lot lately. I have so many happy memories of the three of you that I will cherish forever. I miss you all! Thank you for being such wonderful parents and such wonderful people.
Colleen Bulgatz <cbulgatz@hotmail.com>
- Monday, February 5, 2007 10:14 AM CST
Melissa and Sam - thank you for sharing the words spoken at Ellis service with us. Continuing to remember you in my thoughts and prayers. God bless both of you.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Monday, February 5, 2007 7:39 AM CST
Just stopping in to say hi, I think of your Ellis often , he always makes me smile ,, may God bless you both
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Monday, February 5, 2007 7:32 AM CST
Melissa & Sam,
This entry was so beautiful. I still stop in Ellisville often. Sometimes to see if you have written anything, and sometimes just to look at his pictures and remember the journey. I'm sure that Ellis is still happily touring Heaven hand in hand with Jesus. I still pray for you and ask for comfort and strength for you to face each day. Ellis is not forgotten and neither are you.
Lisa
Lisa Whorten <lisawhorten@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC - Monday, February 5, 2007 1:23 AM CST
Melissa & Sam,

Although I have never met you, I think about your family everyday. I check Ellis' site daily and hope that you are doing as well as can be expected.
Take care of yourselves and God bless you both.
Barbara Dunn <barbthebrat1004@yahoo.com>
Merrillville, IN USA - Monday, February 5, 2007 0:25 AM CST
I have been thinking about you and praying for you today...
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Sunday, February 4, 2007 10:07 PM CST
We will never forget.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Sunday, February 4, 2007 8:46 PM CST
God be with you on this day of the 2 month anniversary of sweet Ellis' passing. He will forever be in our hearts. I choose to remember him swinging on his swing laughing with his momma. Every time I hear a musical instrument now, I think of him.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Sunday, February 4, 2007 7:42 PM CST
Melissa and Sam, When I saw February 4 on the calendar today, my first thought was that it was the 2 month anniversary of the passing of your dear son. Not a day goes by that I don't think of Ellis and you both. Thank you for sharing the words from the Celebration of Ellis life. God bless you both in your journey of life.
Linda R.
Shrewsbury, MA - Sunday, February 4, 2007 5:23 PM CST
thinking of you...thanks for sharing your words and those from his memorial service for those of us who could not attend. May they give you strength.
Always, Mary
mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
maple Grove, mN - Sunday, February 4, 2007 5:19 PM CST
In the few times I saw Ellis, I grew to love him immeasurably. His eyes held this light... this very special intrigue and wonder. He looked at you with such love and adoration. I know you will always be able to keep that within you. I know he planted many seeds of love and hope and strength in your lives. I will always remember the dream I had about him... I told you of this at the time. I had come to the hospital and gone to his room. He was there, quietly sitting alone on his bed. No tubes, no machines, just calm and peaceful. I picked him up and held him. I rocked him in my lap. Melissa, you came into the room and said nothing. You just smiled and watched. I walked with Ellis out a door to smell the fresh air, and feel the warm sun shining. His hair was glistening in the light and all was so well, so quiet. I think of him now and know that although I cannot scoop him up, he is well. He is safe and comfortable and free and happy... I imagine he watches you from the Heavens. Sending you the same love, care and hope you always gave him. What a beautiful family you are.

Remembering Ellis so fondly on this day...
Pam Russell <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Sunday, February 4, 2007 4:29 PM CST
What a beautiful and stirring tribute to Ellis and all his loving family. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Mary Ann
Houston, - Sunday, February 4, 2007 3:00 PM CST
Sam, Melissa and Angel Ellis,

It is so amazing how God brings people together. It is also amazing how 3 people you have never me can have such an impact on your life. Not a day goes by that I don't click on Ellis' site and smile when I look at that cute face of his. Your entry today was beautiful. I can't imagine the pain you feel but hopefully the prayers that are said for mommy, daddy and Ellis every night - help just a little. = Always in my heart!
Heidi Wolf <hwolf@west-fargo.k12.nd.us>
West Fargo, ND - Sunday, February 4, 2007 2:51 PM CST
Sam & Melissa - We want you to know that we are still here, praying for you and thinking of you this day and always.
Scott & Cyndi Bishop
Aberdeen, SD - Sunday, February 4, 2007 1:53 PM CST
I don't really know how I found Ellisville. I just happened to find it one day from another caringbridge page. The day I found Ellisville though got me hooked and often there are days where I still check up on Ellisville 2-3x daily. There is something about the spirit of Ellis that draw me to him. What an amazing little boy. He will never be forgotten.


The Schill Famil
- Sunday, February 4, 2007 1:33 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
As I do every time I turn on my computer, I checked Ellis's webite and found this beautiful tribute today. There isn't a day goes by that I don't include both of you in my prayers. I continue to remember him at each traffic stop light, and pray that you are finding peace and healing as one day follows another. He will continue to touch the lives of others. He is not forgotten. Never doubt that his life mattered immensely. You are surrounded by love and prayers.
Jean Maurer <jmaurer125 @yahoo.com>
St. Michael, MN Wright - Sunday, February 4, 2007 12:35 AM CST
Absolutely beautiful; stirring feelings right in the heart - which is exactly what that brave and strong Ellis did to us all.
Sam and Melissa, you are in my thoughts and prayers every day. No one will EVER forget Ellis, or you..........
Debby Cushing <dbsue@casstel.net>
Peculiar, MO USA - Sunday, February 4, 2007 10:19 AM CST
Thinking about you both this day. Thinking about Ellis. May you know that we have not forgotten. Instead...we remember the bravest...the most caring...the most loved littlest boy on the planet. May your hearts find comfort in knowing that we love this brave boy...this beautiful boy that you both created together...Love is greater than fear and Love will lead you through eachday.
Love is...everything Ellis was and is.

Auntie Bergie <lambobergie@yahoo.com>
Mpls, MN USA - Sunday, February 4, 2007 8:27 AM CST
Beautiful. Just like the memory of Ellis. Continued prayers for a sense of peace in your hearts. May God continue to comfort you.
Shawn Hanson
- Sunday, February 4, 2007 8:24 AM CST
Wow that was beautiful- I find myself returning to Ellisville every few days just to remember and take time out to appreciate everything the Lord has given to us all. Ellis will never be forgotten and Sam and Melissa- you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Baumgartner's <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Sunday, February 4, 2007 7:36 AM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam!

The other night I heard someone speak about Heaven. The man speaking was saying that when we pass away, God is there, to welcome us into Heaven, and He will clain us as his and accept us into his glorious kingdom, depending on the lives that we lived, and whether or not we have called Him our father, in this life. I couldn't stop thinking about Ellis. I know, that God welcomed Ellis with great big arms, and that Ellis is safely in His care. He lived a short, but amazing life. He has changed so many things about this community, and has touched so many people around the world. So many things, everyday, remind me of him. Seeing Elmo, listening to a recording from a concert, seeing his heart on my bookshelf, hearing the drums in the music dept. The list is endless. He is ever so present in so many ways. I wish he was here, with you, to enjoy these things, but he is with God, our father!

God Bless you guys. I'm thinking about you this weekend, as always, and especially as tomorrow draws nearer and nearer. You are AMAZING people!! I hope you are still doing ok.

With love, thoughts, and many prayers,
Sara <sara.quarberg@uwrf.edu>
Blaine, MN - Saturday, February 3, 2007 10:42 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Today I was driving to Mariposa (a neighbooring mountain community) and it was such a pretty day. The trees seemed so tall and the sky a nice shade of blue. I enjoy taking drives on days like today. I got to thinking of Ellis and wondering if he would have liked the drive as well. Ellis often pops into my mind and I always say a quick pray for you when he does. You are in my prayers often.
Love,
Karen, Isaac's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaachatfield
Karen Hatfield <wkhatfield812@yahoo.com>
Coarsegold, CA - Saturday, February 3, 2007 10:20 PM CST
Thinking.Praying.Remembering.God Bless You both... post when ready we are all still here for you both.Love The Meyer's Greg&Annemarie
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Saturday, February 3, 2007 5:36 PM CST
The passage is long today (could have been worse...the psalm is 22 verses long but didn't want to overwhelm you) but oh what words of comfort! Praying so that the Lord uses them to touch your heart!
Ps 34:1-10: I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth. My soul shall make her boast in the LORD: the humble shall hear thereof, and be glad. O magnify the LORD with me, and let us exalt his name together. I sought the LORD, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears. They looked unto him, and were lightened: and their faces were not ashamed. This poor man cried, and the LORD heard him, and saved him out of all his troubles. The angel of the LORD encampeth round about them that fear him, and delivereth them. O taste and see that the LORD is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him. O fear the LORD, ye his saints: for there is no want to them that fear him. The young lions do lack, and suffer hunger: but they that seek the LORD shall not want any good thing.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, February 3, 2007 5:15 PM CST
Hi to the Bergstroms! I miss you guys a lot and so do a lot of others...I hope returning to work is filling your days at the very least. In the last month, after being with my Dad as he made his transition, I've been thinking about the Bergstroms often!How someone, at 85 who's lived a full life makes that journey and then how to understand how just 2 and a half years is fair,,, if that is the right word...the end, whenever it is , is such an all-encompassing pocket in our lives. There certainly are days that it is hard to believe that it will be better. So, my thoughts are with you guys often, and the only commonality is the ache of emptiness that is present. I hope, hope, that your days are easing a bit! Ellis is everywhere!!!
CathyAnn DeJarlais <mommydearest43@juno.com>
Champlin, - Friday, February 2, 2007 8:59 PM CST
On a cold day, sending warm thoughts your way. Hoping you are doing "ok" even though you miss your son. Like so many others, I have not forgotten you or Ellis. You are in my prayers. Stay warm both body and spirit. Even though life marches on - you are not forgotten nor is Ellis.
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
maple Grove, mN USA - Friday, February 2, 2007 6:16 PM CST
Just sending some warm wishes from your COLD "Chicago Family" prayers for you never stop. Love and strength to all of you.
Karen Buege - Part of the New Life family <kbuege@wilton.com>
DOWNERS GROVE , IL - Friday, February 2, 2007 4:56 PM CST
Thinking about you and Ellis. You're never far from our thoughts and conversations over here in River Falls. We love you MB!!! :O)

With love,
Sara Q <sara.quarberg@uwrf.edu>
River Falls, WI - Friday, February 2, 2007 2:15 PM CST
I am so sorry. There are no words....
cheryl and Angel Haley <bandcvincent@aol.com>
- Friday, February 2, 2007 1:37 PM CST
Melissa-
Bob had hoped to get "Song of Mark" up and running this winter at our church, but he only had 3 people show up for auditions...one being me. :) Always makes me think of, "I have seen the Lord, and his name is Bob." Anyway, just my way of letting you know that we are thinking of you all the time, and praying that each day you are able to feel, to love, and to keep putting one foot in front of the other. You and Sam are so loved.

Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
Walters, MN - Friday, February 2, 2007 7:51 AM CST
Thinking of you and Ellis tonight. You are never far from my thoughts and prayers. :0)
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 8:33 PM CST
Thinking of you today.


Shannon
MN - Thursday, February 1, 2007 7:19 PM CST
Missy and Sam.
We continue to hold you all close in thought and prayers. We smile daily with thoughts of Ellis. We hope you smile as well. We pray for continued comfort and healing. Our love, the Smooks, Shirlene, Denny, Charley, Josh, and Missy
Shirlene Knudtson Smook <drmomsd@hotmail.com>
Aberdeen, SD 57401 - Thursday, February 1, 2007 6:13 PM CST
I was watching the snow falling today being caught by the sunshine and thought of those beautiful, soulful eyes of that sweet little boy! He is everywhere!

Love,
Pam
OsbornP@comcast.net <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, February 1, 2007 3:13 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
I have been thinking about the both of you and of course Ellis all day today. I am not sure why it has been so strong today or what is going to become of this weird feeling. Maybe god is going to do something so amazing that it is going to have a big impact on your life. Well as always I think of you everyday and pray for your healing. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Love always,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 10:47 PM CST
Wanting you to know I think about Ellis every day. I continue to pray for your comfort and peace.
Tonia
IL - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 12:24 AM CST
Couldn't let the morning go by without letting you know we love you and continue to pray for you. Thank you for so honestly sharing your lives with us. Love & prayers always, Jackie & John
Jackie & John Schmidt <jschmidt4@att.net>
Aurora, IL USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 8:58 AM CST
Continuing to surround you with many thoughts and prayers...
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 7:52 AM CST
We continue to pray for you all. Deepest sympathy and love.
Lisa and and Aiden <RolexH@aol.com>
- Wednesday, January 31, 2007 7:48 AM CST
Melissa & Sam,
I am not much for words, but please know that I think of you and pray for you each and every day. Take care of each other and be good to yourselves! Ellis is watching over you and will be forever, until the day you join him in heaven.
Love, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 6:48 AM CST
Melissa it was great to see you last week. I am glad that you both are doing ok. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of both of you and of course Ellis. I have been so blessed to know the three of you and have all of you in my life. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love always,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 8:49 PM CST
Just letting you know we are still thinking of you and praying for you every day.
Baumgartners <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 6:13 PM CST
Though I've never met Elis, I have to tell you that he has an amazing presence in my life. I think of him many times a day, and it seems that something comes along to remind me of him when I'm not. Several days ago I noticed a baby in a magazine ad that looked so much like him. Last week I was cleaning out some files in my classroom and found a fabric gift bag that a student had given me several years ago with a gift in it. The bag was much too pretty to throw away, so I kept it. When I picked it up, I realized that something was in the bottom. I dumped it upside down and out tumbled the tiniest little carved stone turtle. I have set it right next to me on my bookcase to remind me of the bravest and strongest boy! Then, today, we were watching a video in class on reptiles and the phrase "slow and steady wins the race" was said. I think WE'RE all the winners for having personally known or known of Elis! Like I said, I never knew Elis personally, but he somehow makes his presence known to me daily. Thank you, Elis!
stacy bartlett <s.bartlett@earthlink.net>
hudson, wi - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 3:03 PM CST
Thinking of you and checking in, as I do almost daily, to see how you are. You are in my prayers.

Megan <mewohlwend@aol.com>
IL - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 1:26 PM CST
As always, thinking of you.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 12:55 AM CST
Although I never met sweet Ellis, I continue to think of him often, and what an inspiration he was to so many. I will always pray for both of you who have to bear every minute without him. May God continue to carry you through this difficult journey, and give you peace through all the memories.
Ashleigh Frye <ashleighwall@hotmail.com>
Mission Viejo, CA - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 12:09 AM CST
Remembering Ellis as I do every day. Hoping you are finding some peace.
Mary S-S
Shelby Township, MI - Tuesday, January 30, 2007 12:06 AM CST
Thoughts of Ellis. Thoughts of you.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Monday, January 29, 2007 11:18 PM CST
We were in the midst of our cast party yesterday and the story of Ellis came around in conversation. Once again, he opened the door for all of us to love deeper, care for each other a little more, and to hold on to and be grateful for what we have been given. The lessons just keep on coming... A day will not pass when the story of Ellis will not be spoken of. Somewhere, each day, he renews strength, faith, love, courage, in someone... in many. Thank you! We are remembering Ellis today and praying for your family.
Pam Russell <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Monday, January 29, 2007 12:21 AM CST
Not a day goes by when I don't think of your sweet baby boy.
He has changed my life forever. I am much more kind and
thoughtful to everyone I care about because you just don't know how long you have with them.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Monday, January 29, 2007 11:05 AM CST
Just wanted to send you a quick message to let you know that you stay in my thoughts and prayers!
Carrie Ford <carrie4rd@charter.net>
Charleston, WV USA - Monday, January 29, 2007 9:40 AM CST
Remembering Ellis today and hoping that you are well.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Monday, January 29, 2007 7:24 AM CST
Hi Sweetest Angel Ellis - Please give Mom & Dad extra love and hugs tonight! You are loved, thought about and prayed for by so many. It is amazing what a small world it is and how many strangers or acquaintences have been linked through your precious Life story, the story and legend of Little Amazing Ellis. Continue to soar high sweetie and bestow special blessings on Mom & Dad!

Kate W
Mpls, MN - Sunday, January 28, 2007 10:54 PM CST
Just wanted you to know, you are being thought about and hope things are getting alittle more bearable. We all loved your special little guy. Not a day goes by we don't think of Ellis.....and pray for you all.....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Sunday, January 28, 2007 8:32 PM CST
My roommate has a picture on her bookshelf from Ellis Island, and I have Ellis' heart hanging on mine. Every morning, no matter where I look, I think of Ellis and the two of you, and I thank God for blessing me with everything I've been blessed with. I'm proud to be able to say that I knew Ellis Bergstrom! And of course, his wonderful parents. Hope all is well with you guys. God Bless you always!

With love,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
River Falls, WI - Sunday, January 28, 2007 6:11 PM CST
Thinking of you and remembering Ellis.
meloney <meloneydyer@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, January 28, 2007 4:24 PM CST
Everyday....everyday I think of your sweet Ellis. Hope that everyday brings you a precious memory of Ellis that replaces some of the pain in your heart with joy.
Racqel

Racqel Barthel
Becker, - Sunday, January 28, 2007 0:40 AM CST
Still remembering your precious Ellis!
Thought this was an appropriate passage since tomorrow is Sunday. Know that I'm still here praying!
Ps 27:4-5: One thing have I desired of the LORD, that will I seek after; that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to behold the beauty of the LORD, and to enquire in his temple. For in the time of trouble he shall hide me in his pavilion: in the secret of his tabernacle shall he hide me; he shall set me up upon a rock.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, January 27, 2007 11:47 PM CST
Still thinking of you...
Beth L <beanieb@earthlink.net>
Mansfield, OH USA - Saturday, January 27, 2007 11:32 PM CST
Dear Melissa & Sam,

I pray that your are both gettng through each day with God's unending grace and many, many Ellis moments. I check every day to see if you are back. I understand the need for space and distance. Please know you are thought of, prayed for and loved by so many and always by the bravest strongest boy in the world...your precious Ellis.
Mindi <melinda_chouinard@hotmail.com>
Tacoma, WA - Saturday, January 27, 2007 9:32 PM CST
Dearest Bergstroms - I think of you every day and hope that each day is getting somewhat easier for you. I think of our sweet, sweet Ellis every hour of every day. What a bright shining star he is!!!

God Bless You Both!!! You are wonderful people!!
Cheryl
- Saturday, January 27, 2007 9:15 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam:
Just want to say that the brief passage of time since Ellis left has done nothing to dim his memory. I think of him every day, as I have since I first met him in July. Once again, I want to say thank you for having him, and thank you for sharing him with me.

Peace and Kindness Always,
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, January 27, 2007 4:28 PM CST
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Berlin, Berlin Canada - Saturday, January 27, 2007 7:39 AM CST
Dear Melissa & Sam, I remember when I used to wish time would go faster when I was young. Now time goes too fast as I get older. I have fought the flight of time this past year, my Christmas tree is still up, lights, angel and ornaments of Ellis. We plug that tree in every night still. I think our family and friends are a little concerned it will be a permanent fixture in our home! I say, "What's the hurry, God will take care of our tomorrows." We pray every night that God is taking care of you.

Sincerely, The Dickinsons
Michael Dickinson <modicko@netzero.net>
Robbinsdale, MN U.S.A. - Friday, January 26, 2007 9:39 PM CST
Thinking of you today and every day.
Susan Watson <susanwatson1999@hotmail.com>
St. Paul, MN - Friday, January 26, 2007 10:42 AM CST
Hi Sam and Meilssa. Just wanted to let you know I'm still thinking of you and Ellis and praying for you often. Hope things are going ok. Take care!

Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, January 25, 2007 10:38 PM CST
Mr & Mrs B....
We think of you often and hold you close! We hope that you are doing well. We know Ellis is at peace and is now caring for you.
The Kastendick Family <mrfishallday@yahoo,.com>
Albertville, MN - Thursday, January 25, 2007 9:15 PM CST
You are not forgotten. Prayers and thoughts are with you. I appreciated the note and heart with Ellis' picture. I know I won't ever forget him or you. I know he is watching over you both. I hope that fact and the love of family, and friends are helping you deal with each new day. Every time I glance at his picture or drive by your home I say a special prayer for you.
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, MN usa - Thursday, January 25, 2007 8:55 PM CST
I think of you and Ellis often.
Erin W. <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Thursday, January 25, 2007 8:19 PM CST
Just want you to know we're still thinking of you, of Ellis, and praying for you daily.
Love, The Mattsons
Marilyn Mattson <dmmattson@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, sd U.S.A. - Thursday, January 25, 2007 7:29 PM CST
Bergstroms,
I heard the song 'Angels Among Us' by Alabama on the radio the other day, and I couldn't help but think of your sweet Ellis. As this guestbook shows, he is definitely still among us here in Ellisville. Praying for you always!

Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Thursday, January 25, 2007 1:43 PM CST
Keeping you in our prayers!
The Frieden Family <lmflaw@hotmail.com>
Carmel, In - Thursday, January 25, 2007 1:39 PM CST
Thinking and Praying for the both of you each and everyday.

Love,
Dana :)
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, mn - Thursday, January 25, 2007 1:33 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, I keep you in my thoughts and prayers and continue to check the website. I appreciate your thoughts and insights -- but I cannot find the words to express the rest of my feelings. I hope you sense that Jesus holds you tightly.
Jan Seplak <jseplak@ststephen.net>
Bloomington, MN - Thursday, January 25, 2007 1:04 PM CST
I love to go in and listen to Ellis make his animals sounds. What a smart boy he was. I miss him so much! I pray you are doing well and find joy in all your wonderful memories of him.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, January 25, 2007 12:41 AM CST
Just thinking about your sweet Ellis and wondering how you are doing today. Praying for strength to face each day.
Tonia Ernst <home4my2boyq@yahoo.com>
Morrison, IL - Thursday, January 25, 2007 12:07 AM CST
Hello Sweet Angel Ellis, I think of you often....every day in fact. Watch over your mommy and daddy.....Lots of love to you sweet boy!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, January 25, 2007 11:53 AM CST
Thinking of you.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Thursday, January 25, 2007 8:28 AM CST
Hi Mellisa and Sam,
we are still here checking in on ^Ellis^ and you guys. Praying everyday that ^Ellis^ is watching over you and that you will find peace. Keep on believing and remember what an incredible little boy you brought to this world. Becasue we all got to know ^Ellis^ we are better people!
Madeline <madeline.pasnik@rogers.com>
Ajax, ON Canada - Thursday, January 25, 2007 7:50 AM CST
Just wanted you to know that I think of daily, pray for you daily, and find inspiration in your beautiful, amazing, most loving son.
Thank you for continuing to allow his smile to make my days.
With Hope
~Sarah Lakrin
Sarah Larkin <slarkin45@gmail.com>
Frisco, TX UNITED STATES - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 9:42 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
I check in periodically to see how you are doing, and I hope that you will continue to add entries to your journal. Please tell us how we can pray for you--what specific needs do you have at this time (besides the obvious)? I hope you realize how very much you are loved you and how much people cared about little Ellis. Your CB guestbook is overflowing with words that show immense love and caring from others. Think of this as being a way that God is showing how much He loves you. And, God understands our prayers even when we can't find the words to say them. Please know that you are being lifted up in prayer by so many people who care.

Barb
Barb Berg www.caringbridge.org/visit/barbberg <barbberg@mn.rr.com>
Eden Prairie, MN - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 6:53 PM CST
Thinking and praying for you always.

With love,
Sara Quarberg <sara.quarberg@uwrf.edu>
River Falls, WI - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 11:35 AM CST
Sam and Melissa~
Wishing sweet dreams for you tonight. Thinking of you...

Pam Russell <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Wednesday, January 24, 2007 0:12 AM CST
Still checking in on Ellis' site. He will never be forgotten. Ellis has touched so many lives in such a positive way, as have you, Melissa and Sam. Thank you for sharing your beautiful son with us.
Mary Ann
Houston, - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 11:28 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, Chase was playing with a little toy turtle yesterday and it made me think of Ellis and the both of you. I reminded Chase about Ellis the bravest and strongest boy in the world and then I hugged and kissed him and told him how much mommy and daddy love him. I thank Ellis for teaching us to live in the minute and to value life and the loved ones in it.

Peace, Shannon and Family
Shannon Schulzetenberg
- Tuesday, January 23, 2007 10:20 AM CST
You are in my thoughts and prayers tonight and I just thought you should know. I hope that you are able to find the comfort and peace you need to get through each day. Please know that so many of us are here to help you do that if you need it, and that the comfort of Jesus will sustain you no matter how dark your days. We are all still here in Ellisville, waiting and praying for you to feel even a small bit of peace. love, Jess D.
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 0:12 AM CST
I ran across your site just by accident and read it with much empathy for you....I am so sorry for your loss...my heart goes out to you...your journey of courage, life, love and loss touched me deeply....I lost a child of 5months of age years ago and I still feel the need to reach out to parents who are experiencing this same pain....Your son was beautiful; you are beautiful; The love you feel for your son will never be gone; you are his beautiful parents forever; he is your forever babyson and you will put that love you have and had for him in many other areas of your life, whether it be other children, grandchildren, etc....I offer you my deepest sympathy and prayers....
Sharon
Chaska, MN USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 9:57 PM CST
We have never met. This got to me by way of Dana, who is a friend of my daughter. I am so very, very sorry for your loss of the most precious little Ellis. What a beautiful little boy! I know he was an awesome little fellow just by reading the volume of this guestbook.
May God give you comfort and peace.


Kathy Burman <klipklop97@forbin.net>
Janesville, IA - Monday, January 22, 2007 8:13 PM CST
Melissa and Sam just wanted to let you know that I am still here thinking and praying for the both of you. I hope that you are well and that the transition back to work went well. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Love,

Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, January 22, 2007 8:07 PM CST
Was thinking about your family today and just wanted to let you know. I am still praying for both of you.
Donn <drobinson1027@aol.com>
Williamton, SC USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 4:42 PM CST
Thinking of you and praying for you always.
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 3:08 PM CST
Hi Missy and Sam.
Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about Ellis today while driving around and going past "his" street here in St. Paul. I think about your family every day, and remember the strongest, bravest boy in the whole world. Be blessed.
Michelle Sprandel <mksprandel@comcast.net>
Saint Paul, MN USA - Monday, January 22, 2007 10:43 AM CST
Good morning Missy and Sam. I've been thinking so strongly about you and Ellis this morning, I just have to let you know about it. Hope you are well. I remember Ellis daily and pray for strength for you both. Hugs to you, Dee
Dee Sanderson <deesand@aol.com>
Aberdeen, SD - Monday, January 22, 2007 10:09 AM CST
I just wanted you to know I was remembering Ellis and your family tonight. Ellis is forever in my heart. He is a precious boy that will continue on in so many of us. He will never really be gone.

Know that you are in many many people's prayers!
Rebecca and Tabor
www.caringbridge.com/visit/taborfleming
Rebecca Fleming <rektorikfleming@yahoo.com>
Jackson, MS USA - Sunday, January 21, 2007 11:09 PM CST
Just wanted to stop by to let you know we are still praying and thinking about little Ellis and your Family.
{A little boy that will never be forgotten}
ELLIS

Stacey Elsenpeter
www.help-zachary.com
Stacey Elsenpeter <elsenpeters@msn.com>
Andover, mn usa - Sunday, January 21, 2007 10:12 PM CST
Thinking of you often. You and Ellis have made a difference in my life without ever meeting in person. I cherish every day....every minute. Life is good!

Peace,
Shannon
MN - Sunday, January 21, 2007 6:11 PM CST
Melissa and Sam-

You are in my constant thoughts and prayers. Ellis' heart now hangs on my bookshelf in my dorm, so he can remind me to keep persevering to reach my goals! God bless you both! Hope your classes are going well, and your students are treating you well!! ;O)

With love,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
River Falls, WI - Sunday, January 21, 2007 3:42 PM CST
Keep you all always in our hearts and prayers and remembering the miracle of Ellis!
The Frieden Family <lmflaw@hotmail.com>
Carmel, IN USA - Sunday, January 21, 2007 12:48 AM CST
Missing Ellis updates and new pics...though I never met him in person.
I cannot imagine the whole left in your world.
Still thinking of you and your wonderful little gift EVERY day.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/rachelanne
Monica
Georgia, - Sunday, January 21, 2007 11:21 AM CST
Melissa & Sam -

As I lay here trying to sleep so many things of the past few weeks and months going through my head, the one constant thing is sweet Ellis. I think about him constantly, when I have a bad day and need a smile, I come and look at his sweet beautiful face.

I think of you both so often, I hope because there isn't as much posting that you don't feel that you are not thought about or forgotten or the impact of Ellis's life is fading, if anything, I think it is getting stronger. At least for me it is. Not an hour goes by and I don't think about that sweet, tender baby.

I thank God for leading me to this site so many months ago. It has changed my life in so many profound ways. Thank you sweet Ellis for being, thank you for your sweet life. I am so happy I knew about you, I rejoice for every day you were alive and I rejoice knowing that you are free from pain and able to watch over Mama and Dada...

God Bless You both!!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, January 21, 2007 2:02 AM CST
Melissa & Sam -

As I lay here trying to sleep so many things of the past few weeks and months going through my head, the one constant thing is sweet Ellis. I think about him constantly, when I have a bad day and need a smile, I come and look at his sweet beautiful face.

I think of you both so often, I hope because there isn't as much posting that you don't feel that you are not thought about or forgotten or the impact of Ellis's life is fading, if anything, I think it is getting stronger. At least for me it is. Not an hour goes by and I don't think about that sweet, tender baby.

I thank God for leading me to this site so many months ago. It has changed my life in so many profound ways. Thank you sweet Ellis for being, thank you for your sweet life. I am so happy I knew about you, I rejoice for every day you were alive and I rejoice knowing that you are free from pain and able to watch over Mama and Dada...

God Bless You both!!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, January 21, 2007 2:02 AM CST
Praying for your family!
What an amazing promise from Jesus! To be with us always!
Mt 28:20b ...lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, January 20, 2007 11:40 PM CST
Hello Sam and Melissa...I haven't written in a while but I can assure you that I think of your sweet boy so often. Sometimes I just don't feel like there are any words...nothing that we who do not know your grief can say or do to bring you comfort...but rest assured our prayers are many and strong and will not cease. Much love from IL...Jessica Diedrich
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Saturday, January 20, 2007 8:39 PM CST
Here today as everyday praying for you and hoping you will write soon if you are ready.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Saturday, January 20, 2007 3:53 PM CST
Checking back as I still do everyday. I hope all is going as good as it can be for all. You are the bravest parents I have ever seen. Keep strong.
Blessings.
Wendy
Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, Il USA - Friday, January 19, 2007 3:28 PM CST
Dear Melissa & Sam-

There are so many times when I think of both of you and how you are doing. "Healing" seems to be such an odd word as it somehow seems to imply "good as new" in my mind. That is just not the case. Perhaps "healing" continually takes on different forms, and different looks depending upon wherever you may find yourself. Ellis will always be an important and vital part of your, and everyone's lives. That is the nature of the impact that he has made. He will always be remembered and thought of. I do believe that the soul is eternal and was, is, and will always be present regardless of our own mortal circumstances. Perhaps that is how God works. I wish I knew. I do know that at some time, I will know. I believe that each one of us is here in this "life" for a purpose that is beyond our comprehension. I believe that we are here to help one another and to learn something that we would not learn otherwise. Just a few wildly rambling thoughts on my end, but know that wherever, whatever and however your paths of "healing" take you, GOD IS WITH YOU ALWAYS. Ellis will also be with, and a part of you. May you be filled with Peace.

Your friend,

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN U.S.A. - Friday, January 19, 2007 2:53 PM CST
I was pointing to colors with my friends little boy the other day, telling him what they were. "Yellow, Blue, Green", when I got to the red square, I paused, smiled, and said "Elmo". Like Ellis did one day when I was in his room.
Here's thinking of you all, and remembering Ellis-

Heidi Linhoff <hjlinhoff@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn Park, MN - Friday, January 19, 2007 11:55 AM CST
Thinking of you tonight. It's been another sad night for my caringbridge buddies. I sent out so many pleas for little Ellis...some sound so silly now. I used to tell people "please pray for little Ellis...AAAALLLLL he needed was a new heart" like all he needed was a new trike or ball! It just seemed so with-in reach that the new heart would work and everything would be great for Ellis to live a long, long life. Alas, he is living a long life, but not where I wanted him to be. We won't forget Ellis. Thanks for sharing...and I love the C.S. Lewis quotes. That man has helped many work through their grief. Wonder if he ever knew how many he would help? Wonder if little Ellis had any inclination how many lives he touched! He does now, as I'm sure God has parted the clouds long enough for him to see the many, many people who prayed for him and are praying for his family! Keep on keeping on...
Patricia <rrfpaf@hotmail.com>
Garden City, GA - Friday, January 19, 2007 1:11 AM CST
Sam&Melissa...i like many others think of you all often and come to this site for comfort.In Ellis's short life he has taught us all so much and we will never forget the little things"stop and smell the flowers""Life is good"I hope with each day your heavy heart lightens alittle bit.How can we get one of the heart ornaments could you have them available for a donation"we would love one"Love and prayers Greg&Annemarie Meyer
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Thursday, January 18, 2007 10:33 PM CST
Thinking of you tonight.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, - Thursday, January 18, 2007 9:40 PM CST
Sam and Melissa
I think about you and Melissa daily, and a recent trip to Austin has made me think of you more. Just a few short years ago our lives were so different. Who would of ever thought how much our lives have changed. Ellis's life was short, but he has made who you and Melissa are today. Every smile every laugh and every song sang has made your heart larger and stronger. Never forget that.
May the months ahead of you be filled with the happiness you have shared as a family.


Mary Davis Kloek <mplsgreekgirl@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, January 18, 2007 8:01 PM CST
Just wanted to stop by to let you know we are still praying for you every day.
Wendi and Kevin Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 1:31 PM CST
I continue to check-in daily and pray for your beautiful little boy and his Momma and Dada.
Roxann <horsesetc@msn.com>
Audubon, MN USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 9:58 AM CST
Not a day passes us by that we don't think of the Bergstrom Family. Just by knowing you all, we are better human beings. We pray for you often, and wish so very much that your life was taking you down a more joyful journey.

We pray that you are able to find peace again.
Love,
The Corbo's
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
www.caringbridge.org/mn/corboboys
The Corbo's
- Wednesday, January 17, 2007 2:08 PM CST
thank you Sam and Missy for your words, Thank you God for The Gift of Ellis. Prayers and thoughts of love and sympathy from me, my husband, and all my co-workers and friends. We are lost for words, just want you to know you are in our hearts forever right there with that beautiful boy Ellis.
You all cross through my thoughts, my heart daily.
May God give you all that you need to carry on.
Charlotte Shea (Sarah's mom)
Charlotte Shea <sheagreg@sbcglobal.net>
- Wednesday, January 17, 2007 11:53 AM CST
Sam and Melissa, I am still praying and thinking of you often. Ellis is imprinted in our hearts. There is no way we can forget about such an amazing child. He did and continues to inspire us to be good people who live by faith.

Love, Peace and Blessings

Shannon

Shannon Schulzetenberg
- Wednesday, January 17, 2007 11:18 AM CST
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers!
Carrie Ford <carrie4rd@charter.net>
Charleston, WV - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 9:10 AM CST
Melissa and Sam,
I am still here along with many other residents of Ellisville, thinking of you and praying for you each day. May you have peace in your hearts this day.
Love, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 7:09 AM CST
Sam and Melissa~
I check in on you daily and think of you numerous times throughout each and every day! I hope that each day is a day of healing for your broken hearts and that the sweet memories of Ellis fill your hearts with joy and pride.
Racqel

Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 10:44 PM CST
I think of you every day. I am a former teacher. I am hoping the transition into work helps fill your days. I am hoping that the interaction with staff and students helps in some way fill your heart - help you sense purpose - and gives you a reason to begin each day. I check this blog daily. Hoping that daily you know that readers have not forgotten you or Ellis. Our prayers, our positive thoughts are still here on the hard days and on the days that are a bit easier. Please be assured we care. We all wish we could make this time and all the days to come easier for you.
May knowing we care, may the power of prayer...all this help the strongest and bravest parents in the world. We won't forget Ellis and we won't forget you.
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, MN usa - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 8:47 PM CST
Sam & Melissa,
Sending our love, care and best wishes to you. I'm so glad there is still a place for all of us to stay in touch with you and see pictures of Ellis; what a wonderful little spirit he has, it's nice to see that sparkle in his eyes & remember how much fun he always was having when we saw him. He is missed by us and will never be forgotten.
The Klinkhammer family <pgonefishin8@yahoo.com>
Albertville, - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 8:33 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,

May the words you hear in passing during your daily work week bring you comfort, as you gain your roles in developing your students with the gift of music. Many of these young people have shared your journey as parents of wonderful Ellis. As your hurt becomes bearable and you resume your daily lives in the workplace of music education, many hold you up in thought and prayer.


Terese Gammell <tereseg@stma.k12.mn.us>
St. Michael, MN USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 7:28 PM CST
I just wanted to let you know that you ALL are in my daily thoughts and prayers...I am hoping that the return to work goes as smooth as it can.
Everyday at work or when I am sad I look up and see the pictures of the cutest, bravest most wonderful kid I know smiling at me from all the pictures you have shared!
Thank you for that....
Much love....
Marno <msimon@gillettechildrens.com>
minnetonka, mn usa - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 2:05 PM CST
Just thought about you both and decided to let you know! May God bless you.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 12:12 AM CST
Good Morning Bergstroms - I think of you every day, I think of sweet, sweet Ellis every hour of every day. I know that he is looking down and watching you and is so proud of you!!! Mama and Dada, how wonderful you have been through all of this horrible time. How dignified and strong you have been!! I hope that somehow knowing the love, respect and caring that you have from the 'family' at Ellisville helps through the times that are so very hard.

When I was young and lived in St. Paul every morning a paster (can't remember his name, too old I guess) would come on WCCO and say "This is the day the Lord hath made, rejoice and be glad and Live Today". Never had that meant as much to me as after I 'met' Ellis through Ellisville and now I try to 'Live Today'. I rejoice that I had the chance to be involved with him through your beautiful writings of him and love him through the beautiful pics that you posted, his beautiful spirit and soul shown through those pictures!!

God Bless You!!! I rejoice that I have been able to know that good people like you are in the world and that even for a short time sweet Ellis was in this world. He definitely left it a better place!!!!
Cheryl
- Tuesday, January 16, 2007 7:20 AM CST
Just wanted you to know we are still praying for you both. Thinking about you all the time.

Gina Barnes
Gina Barnes <ginabarnes@comcast.net>
Olney, MD - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 6:25 AM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam I hope that you guys are doing as well as you can. I am still thinking and praying for the both of you everyday. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday. :)

Love,
Dana C. <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, January 15, 2007 7:07 PM CST
Hey guys! I'm thinkin' about you and I hope you guys are well! :) God Bless.
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, January 15, 2007 2:33 PM CST
One of my daily visits to Ellisville....Thinking of you both and remembering Ellis.....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Monday, January 15, 2007 11:12 AM CST
Thinking of you both and sweet Ellis. I pray you are as well as can be expected.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Monday, January 15, 2007 10:12 AM CST
Thinking of you and your precious boy tonight.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, - Sunday, January 14, 2007 9:51 PM CST
Still praying so for your family!
Always trust that the Lord does have a plan and that whatever He allows to happen, He has a reason. His Will be done.
Is 55:8-9: For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, January 14, 2007 1:20 AM CST
Our Christmas tree is still up with Ellis's heart ornament front and center. It will have a special place on our tree each year, reminding us of a precious little boy who touched our lives in so many ways. I think of you often and keep you in my prayers...
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Saturday, January 13, 2007 3:09 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
I have no doubt that this unfortunate journey you are on is more painful than anything I can imagine. I was glad to hear that you both are beginning to get back to work, to help fill the hours and help fill your hearts. Most people have never heard of caringbridge. Your journal is filled with the most elequent of
words, love, and a guide to travel through the most difficult of times with grace. I hope, in time, you both consider putting your journal in the form of a book, dedicated to your precious Ellis, to help others that find themselves
facing similar obstacles. This would be another testimant to a boy, whose life was too short, but mighty powerful.
Wishing you continued strength.

Sulie Holt <skh1016@aol.com>
Highland Park, Il United States - Saturday, January 13, 2007 12:39 AM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
I have no doubt that this unfortunate journey you are on is more painful than anything I can imagine. I was glad to hear that you both are beginning to get back to work, to help fill the hours and help fill your hearts. Most people have never heard of caringbridge. Your journal is filled with the most elequent of
words, love, and a guide to travel through the most difficult of times with grace. I hope, in time, you both consider putting your journal in the form of a book, dedicated to your precious Ellis, to help others that find themselves
facing similar obstacles. This would be another testimant to a boy, whose life was too short, but mighty powerful.
Wishing you continued strength.

Sulie Holt <skh1016@aol.com>
Highland Park, Il United States - Saturday, January 13, 2007 12:37 AM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
I have no doubt that this unfortunate journey you are on is more painful than anything I can imagine. I was glad to hear that you both are beginning to get back to work, to help fill the hours and help fill your hearts. Most people have never heard of caringbridge. Your journal is filled with the most elequent of
words, love, and a guide to travel through the most difficult of times with grace. I hope, in time, you both consider putting your journal in the form of a book, dedicated to your precious Ellis, to help others that find themselves
facing similar obstacles. This would be another testimant to a boy, whose life was too short, but mighty powerful.
Wishing you continued strength.

Sulie Holt <skh1016@aol.com>
Highland Park, Il United States - Saturday, January 13, 2007 12:37 AM CST
I continue to pray for you and think of you daily. I come here to see the beautiful pictures of your precious little guy.
He will NEVER be forgotten.
~Sarah Larkin
Sarah Larkin <slarkin45@gmail.com>
Frisco, TX UNITED STATES - Saturday, January 13, 2007 12:29 AM CST
I am truly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the both you and I can only imagine the pain that Melissa and Sam have experienced and continue to ache for their beautiful Ellis. I pray that time heals your heart.
An admirer <themullenbachs@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, January 13, 2007 1:50 AM CST
Thinking of little Ellis everyday. Just wanted to let you know.
A Friend <terrih@austin.rr.com>
- Saturday, January 13, 2007 0:59 AM CST
Hi,
I have followed Ellis' site for a while but this is the first time I have posted. Your journal really hit home. My son ^Kyle^ passed away 2 weeks ago today. Like Ellis he was a fighter who beat the odds soo many times. The days are not getting easier and I too find that I "forget" he is really gone and not just in another room. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you as you travel this road. I wish neither of our families had to travel this path.
Donna and ^Kyle^ Noble www.caringbridge.org/oh/kyle <donnanoble2001@yahoo.com>
Grove City, OH USA - Friday, January 12, 2007 11:17 PM CST
I encourage you to write whenever it feels helpful to you. You are gifted in your way of capturing the depth of emotions at this time. I am thinking of two dear friends whose children also died young. It just isn't fair. It leaves friends wondering what to say or do to help. Please know we send positive thoughts and prayers your way. I know you are a gift in the lives of your students. Best wishes as you transition back to work. So many read this and wish we knew how to lighten your load at this time. I care, Mary
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, MN usa - Friday, January 12, 2007 9:28 PM CST
Melissa (Sam too)...
Thinking of you now as you transition back to work for Spring Semester. I hope that knowing how much your students love and respect you will make it easier. I think of you, Melissa, as I am on my walk through the halls in Fine Arts. It will be good to see you back again!!! I know Sara is looking forward to seeing you again before she leaves for college. Peace to you both...
Marilyn Quarberg <marilyn.quarberg@anokaramsey.edu>
Coon Rapids, Mn. - Friday, January 12, 2007 4:26 PM CST
I just wanted to say that not a day goes by that I dont think of your sweet beautiful Ellis or of you his wonderful mommy and daddy. God bless you
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Friday, January 12, 2007 7:04 AM CST
i was reading a poem in AP literature today.....and it was about a father and his son....walking along the beach and they came across a few baby mice in the sand.....and they stopped and looked at them....and played with them.....and talked about them.....and all i could think of when i was reading it was about Ellis.....its the little things in life that make the difference!....Ellis taught us to take time and smell the roses....and thank God for the little things in life! Ellis taught me so much, i guess i was reading the poem through Ellis' eyes.
God Bless you!
Life is Good!
Katie
Katie G. <katiegallup@abe.midco.net>
Aberdeen, SD - Thursday, January 11, 2007 11:22 PM CST
Hey Melissa and Sam~

Hope things are going ok for you guys as you have headed back to work! Melissa, Leah has told me that she's seen you at AR the last couple days! I'm SO jealous! :0) But, we were discussing how AMAZING you are, actually, every get together I have with any of your AR students, ends up with a discussion about how AWESOME we think you are! :0) I'm still thinking and praying for you both!
P.S.. Don't forget all the exclamation points in your Music History Powerpoints!!! Your Music History students don't know how lucky they are to be able to have you as their teacher!!! ;0)

With love, thoughts, and prayers,
Sara Quarberg <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:52 PM CST
I never cease to be amazed at your incredible eloquence! I hope you are someday able to write more about your wonderful little boy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Liz Wicks
Northfield, Mn - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:47 PM CST
Missing my favorite little sweet cheeks - had to say hi to his awesome Mom & Dad. Thinking of you two and praying for peace in your hearts.
Nancy
Nashville, - Thursday, January 11, 2007 8:33 PM CST
I went back to the journal entries of Ellis' first days. I must say my absolute favorite entry was from April 11, 2004. Melissa . . . Moonshine? Why I never!
Ellen Beaudry --fellow friend of fannies <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:51 PM CST
Thank you for the updates....We all here in Ellisville love you all so much and think of Ellis daily....as you can tell by all the postings.....You both are at the start of a new journey with still alot of ups and downs but it will level out and there will be more ups than downs.....When my Cory passed Oct 12, 1997....I thought our world was over....There would never be anymore happy moments in our lives....My dear husband would have me walking in Walmart at 2 or 3 am because I couldn't sleep or eat....Friends and work tried to keep us buzy so we couldn't think so much....There were times I was mad at the world and even God....How could my child be taken away? He never did anything to hurt anyone... Why must he suffer....Then I would pray harder and get through it....I think the first year was the hardest.....I had told my husband there would be no more holidays, birthdays...no more celebrations because Cory wouldn't be there....That first Christmas was so cold and lonely....Joe and I just sat and looked at each other in that dark house....No life..No noise....Then in my madness I said some really bad things to my daugher in law and Jason was also gone...For 5 years he didn't come home or talk to me or his dad....So I lost both my boys in 3 months.....4 years ago, Jason broke down on the side of the road and called his Dad....We both went and a mircle happened....My son is home....a grandson was born 3 years ago..We never mention what happened...Life is back in our home....There are celebrations of Christmas and birthdays....There is love again....There have been occasions where we run into someone we haven't seen in many years and they want to know where Cory is...so prepare yourself for that...it will happen...and it will hurt....I was told by a very wise person, that as long as you mention their name, they are never gone....Cory's name is brought up every day in our home....so he might be away but not gone....I wish you and your husband peace....Ellis is remembered daily so he is just away, not gone......
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Thursday, January 11, 2007 5:53 PM CST
Mr. & Mrs. B -
We are big fans.
At the concert on 12/4, they told us about Ellis before the last number. Those kids of yours up on stage played Scarborough Fair with such grace, love and soul -- they played for Ellis. The music was with Ellis as he charged into heaven.
Dave, Brenda, Sam, Austin & Geena Stepp
St. Michael, MN - Thursday, January 11, 2007 1:52 PM CST
Today I went back and read your journal from the beginning noting when the phrases "slow and steady" and "Super Ellis" and all the other catch phrases came into play. It gave me peace today to read all of this and note how sick Ellis really was from the beginning of his little life. Peace in that he had 2 1/2 years when at many times he was not expected to ever leave the hospital. I know this is not enough but I am thankful that he did get to experience your love and the love of all of your family. That he KNEW he was LOVED more than anyone ever could be. To me, that's a lot.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, January 11, 2007 1:00 PM CST
I'm praying that the transition back to your working lives is going OK. I used to dread people asking me about my kids when the boys were little. The hardest question was, "are they twins?" How to answer that? No, they are surviving triplets. Sometimes I chose to answer at length, and other times I gave brief and nondescript answers. Both opportunities were healing to me...to have the moment to think about Lauren, and the impact she had and still has on me.

While we only had moments in death to be with Lauren, she is still a major part of our family. I even believe she visits us from time to time. One time when the boys were almost toddlers, a toy was singing away on the floor in the middle of the night with nothing else around it. Now, maybe the batteries were fading out or it got tripped somehow, but I believe that my angel baby was waiting patiently for her turn to play with the toys, and that was the best time she found. Her "presence" is a comfort to me.

Now we are in the process of teaching her brothers and sister about her. As we talk more about her, we delight in the pure compassion and love her siblings have for her. Their questions and comments keep her real and alive in my heart. I am so grateful to be able to share her with them as they grow in understanding.

I pray, that in time if/when you bring another child or many children into your home and into your family and hearts, you will also be able to experience this awesome and tender ongoing celebration of Ellis's life with his siblings. What a journey it is!

Keeping you guys in the forefront of my heart, my prayers, and my mind.
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
Walters, MN - Thursday, January 11, 2007 12:43 AM CST
Melissa & Sam -

I think of you a hundred times a day. I wonder how are they doing, is it getting easier going back to work. I think of Ellis every hour of every day. His name is never out of my head. His light will never go out!!!

I do believe with the other post that a book should be written of his life and experiences. One day when YOU are ready to write it, I hope that you do. He is such a special, special boy that the whole world needs to read of him!!!! And the decent, loving, loving wonderful parents that you are!!!

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Thursday, January 11, 2007 12:41 AM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam. Just wanted you to know I think of you both and most especially Ellis daily. I continue to be drawn to this wonderful site. I am inspired by your words. My prayers continue to be with you!
Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Thursday, January 11, 2007 9:02 AM CST
WE ARE ALL HERE WITH YOU FROM ELLISVILLE!!! You are not forgotten, nor is Ellis! His sweet spirit circles the earth sending down love and reminders to "seize the moment"! What a profound impact on all of us! Wishing you little bits of normalcy as you return to your teaching. Know that you are giving every day with your gifts of music, one of the most healing of arts. Thinking of you often!
CathyAnn DeJarlais <mommydearest43@juno.com>
Champlin, - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:56 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,
I am still here praying and thinking about you every second of every minuet of everyday. I will never forget Ellis "the bravest and strongest boy in the world." With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love always,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:35 PM CST
Dear Sam & Melissa,
Thank you for the update, it's good to know that you are "OK"...well, as "OK" as can be expected considering the physical absence of your dear Ellis. We have been thinking about you both and Ellis often, especially over the holidays. I came across yet another person Ellis touched the other day. One of our Concordia Univ. students (Brittany E.) saw Ellis' name on Ashley's website and told me that she has been following his story, too. She goes to Holy Nativity Lutheran Church. Another student of mine has a sister (Magda) with a CaringBridge website--she also knows your story and I think has met you in person (at the Heart Walk maybe?). It's amazing how many people have been inspired by Ellis. You remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Shellie Kieke <kieke@csp.edu>
North St. Paul, MN USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:32 PM CST
Hi, I have been following ellis's story for the last three months. This is my first time signing your guestbook. The last three months crying while reading all your up dates looking at his pictures. He has touched so many hearts. My three year old son had a kidney transplant at 11 months old, alot of ups and downs he is now in chronic kidney failure again. He has spent his share down at childrens hospial and the U of M. I pray every day for ellis and your family. God bless the bravest and strongest little Ellis in the world he will never be forgotten.

Love Stacey Elsenpeter
www.help-zachary.com
Stacey Elsenpeter <elsenpeters@msn.com>
Andover, mn anoka - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 9:29 PM CST
Just like the last author said.......not a day goes by where I don't think about Ellis......such a impact a little soul has made that I never met, such a miracle!

The Horn's
Kennesaw, ga usa - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 8:43 PM CST
There isn't a day that goes by when I don't think of you at some point. Sam and Melissa, thank you for sharing Ellis with the world...or at least all us citizens of Ellisville...of which I have really become a card-carrying, PROUD member...PROUD to have gotten to read about Ellis, PROUD to look at his pictures and cry with your words, PROUD to know that there are people in this world who give such poignant, constant reminders of what love is and how to survive in this world with that love, even after such sorrowful tragedy. I am blessed to have been sent the link to your sweet boy's website, only a week or so before he earned his wings...but there are no words to describe what i've seen and felt in that time. Thank you. You're amazing.
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 7:54 PM CST
Sam and Missy
I just want you both to know that I think of you daily. I wish I could take your pain away. You all have inspired us. Please remember all the wonderful little moments you shared together. I hope that gives you comfort when all you feel is emptiness. Melissa, your words are very touching. many who read about your experience feel like they have been there with you through your journey. keep writing and getting your pain and thoughts out. It does help. Take care both of you.
Abbie Bushaw <abushaw03@hotmail.com>
Rochester, MN - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 12:33 AM CST
I think of you often and really don't know what to say. I try to read the entries but I get so sad. I am sorry that you and your family have to go thru this experience. I have been told that God will not give you anything that you cannot handle, but some times I wonder. My Katelyn had a rough rode that our family experienced last year but does not compare to what you went thru. So all I can say for right now thru the tears is I am sorry that you have this pain and it is so new... But I know that Ellis is in a better place right now and it is hard to admagine life without him, but time has a way of healing and making things better and time will tell.
K Maloney <kmaloney@austinmortgageco.com>
Austin, MN USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 11:40 AM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Your journal entries are truly so eloquent, heartfelt, and honest, that after I get through the emotion when I read it, I immediately go to "someday these entries will be published in a book, or in the Star Tribune, or somewhere that will be read by thousands more than even this website, and, as a result, help thousands who will have to survive the same grief." Maybe it will include a CD of music that is comforting to children who are sick. I dream of the places God will take you with this experience, to make the pain less intense. Ellis will lead you somewhere, and the door will be open someday - not a moment too soon or too late. But it will happen. You are way too EXCELLENT as a writer-God will use that gift. (I speak from personal experience with a daughter with cancer and how the experience changed our lives forever but opened doors, that I would give up in a minute to spare my daughter the pain, but that have been a blessing none the less- something good coming out of something really, really difficult - for me it was song writing - for you maybe the same thing or maybe something totally different.)

I pray for your continued day to day life, that the hurt will become less, but that the memories will stay clear in your hearts.

Take care.
Rachel Arntson, the lady who saw you at the play <arntsonr@comcast.net>
Osseo School District , - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 10:49 AM CST
Thinking of you as you venture back into the work world. I wish you much peace. Be kind to yourselves. I will never forget Ellis.
Jennifer McDougal <jenmcdougal@sbcglobal.net>
Fresno, CA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 10:28 PM CST
Hello Melissa and Sam,
Although I still come by the site at least once a day to see Ellis' precious face, I cannot seem to find the words to say because none of them will make things any different. I pray for peace for both of you and the healing that time will bring. Ellis has made me so aware of the love I have for my own children and when I look at them and watch their every move, I think of dear Ellis and know that I need to always always appreciate what I am so lucky to have. God Bless you both! We miss you sweet Ellis!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, January 9, 2007 10:31 AM CST
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers!
Carrie <carrie4rd@charter.net>
Charleston, WV USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 8:33 AM CST
I have been reading your journal for a while now and everytime i feel a sadness in my heart. I am very sorry for the loss of your little Ellis.
Katie <kkingsley_@excite.com>
Rochester, Mn US - Monday, January 8, 2007 6:01 PM CST
We continue to pray for you daily. I can't imagine the emptiness you must feel not having Ellis in your arms, but the fullness of amazing memories with him. Ellis was truly one of kind, who will continue to touch peoples lives through his strength, courage, and love.
Ashleigh Frye <ashleighwall@hotmail.com>
Mission Viejo, CA - Monday, January 8, 2007 4:11 PM CST
Thinking of you both today and praying that All Is Well in your soul. I sing this song in my head many times a day. It is a gift from Ellis

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Monday, January 8, 2007 2:40 PM CST
I sit here at my computer again, as I do each day when I visit this site, searching for words of hope and comfort for you, but nothing is adequate. Please know that so many prayers are being raised for your family, even by strangers. The lessons taught by your sweet Ellis will never be forgotten. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Wendi and Kevin Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Monday, January 8, 2007 2:14 PM CST
Sam & Melissa,
Thank you for posting your words. I think of you both often and especially Ellis. It is comforting to know your thoughts and that you are somewhat OK.
God Bless You Both.

Rachel RN <theducharmes@charter.net>
Big Lake, MN - Monday, January 8, 2007 1:46 PM CST
Praying for you.
Jodi <jomicheleb2@yahoo.com>
Clarkston, MI US - Monday, January 8, 2007 12:00 AM CST
Dearest Sam and Melissa,
I am checking in on you from time to time via this website, and as I read your words I hang on each syllable so as to be able to absorb your words to their fullest. Your last entry speaks to something I felt after being diagnosed with cancer. I remember looking at myself in the mirror and seeing how I still looked the same on the outside, but on the inside everything had changed and nothing was the same or would be ever again. I see my life as divided into "BC" (before cancer) and "AC" (after cancer). I'm sure there is much that you're feeling and going through that is "compartmentalized" in much the same way. I imagine that now life may feel as though it's ground to an agonizing standstill. May I share a Bible verse with you? "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 I believe that hardship is God's way of refining us. We will work through it and there will be be prosperity, safety, hope, and a future on the other side. I continue to think of you and pray for you often.

Barb Berg www.caringbridge.org/visit/barbberg
Barb Berg
Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, January 8, 2007 11:49 AM CST
Your sweet Ellis has touched my soul, and I have never actually met him. My heart aches for both of you in your loss. I have, for quite awhile, avidly checked on Ellis, and I find myself thinking of both of you and your little sweetheart daily. Ellis will never be forgotten, and his strength is a true testimony that these little heart children are some of the most special people that will ever enter our lives. ((BIG HUGS))
Melinda Mom to Justine 12, Marcus 10 (hlhs), Miranda 5 and Matthew 2

See my kids: http://www.geocities.com/lukemom98
Melinda <lukemom05@yahoo.com>
AZ - Sunday, January 7, 2007 11:28 PM CST
Hey Melissa,
I heard this song on the radio a little bit ago and thought of you. :)

"My World is closing in on the inside
But I'm not showing it
When all I am is crying out
I hold it in and fake a smile
Still I'm broken
I'm broken
Only One can understand
And only one can hold the hand
of the broken
of the broken

When no one else knows how I feel
Your love for me is proven real
When no one else cares where I've been
You run to me with outstretched hands
And You hold me in your arms
Again

I need no explanation of why me
I just need confirmation
Only You could understand the emptiness inside my head
I am falling
I am falling
I'm falling down upon my knees
To find the One who gives me peace
I am flying
Lord, I am flying

I have come to You in search of faith
Cause I can't see beyond this place
Oh You are God and I am man
So I'll leave it in Your hands."

"No One Else Knows" by Building 429

This is a pretty cool song. Of course, contrary to the lyrics, you know we all care about you. :) Thanks for the update and pictures! Take care.

Angela J.
Brooklyn Park, MN - Sunday, January 7, 2007 8:36 PM CST
No Melissa and Sam,

Ellis WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN!! I miss him and I didn't even meet him in person, sure wish I had.

In my thoughts and prayers,
Renee
www.caringbridge.com/ny/my2angels <rcurk@aol.co>
- Sunday, January 7, 2007 5:38 PM CST
There have been so many times I've wanted to write, but can't find the words. I can tell you that there hasn't been a day that has gone by that I haven't thought of Ellis. i check his site almost daily. Whenever we hit bumps w/ Reese I think of the strength of Ellis AND his mom and dad and I believe I can make it through. As I told you in the PICU-you inspire me! I know you will be OK-you are very strong. You are also a great writer and I will continue to check in on you. Take Care The Batterberrys
melissa batterberry <mjskare@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, January 7, 2007 4:37 PM CST
Dear Missy and Sam,

It was good to talk to you during your visit to Austin. Your mom, Sam, is my favorite substitute. The kids love her and she is Mary Poppins to them. She is a dear friend from all the way back to high school, yes before dinosaurs roamed the earth.

I want you to know what an impact you and Ellis have made on countless lives. Ellis touched and changed more people in his short life than many of us do as we reach old age. He was a gift to all of us. I have his little Christmas ornament hanging from my computer at school - a constant reminder of how precious each child's life is - to always be kind and gentle with those I teach.

There are people who light the way for others in this life. You three have done that.

Because of you -
we are more faithfilled
Because of you -
We understand how fragile life is
Because of you -
We understand the true meaning of love, courage and perseverance
Because of you -
We understand the bonds of love that extend from this life into the next.

Thank you for sharing your journey with us. We are richer people in faith and spirit because of you.



Dorothy and Steve Krob <stkrob@smig.net>
Austin, MN USA - Sunday, January 7, 2007 3:00 PM CST
Just had to let you know while I was driving home from an outing tonight down Snelling Ave I saw ELLIS photograhy (I noticed someone else saw an Ellis drum shop on Snelling!). It was dark outside and the ELLIS on the sign was bright and shining, just like your son.
Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Saturday, January 6, 2007 11:12 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Your words are so beautiful as always. I am still surprised by how much Ellis has touched my soul. I wish so much his story had ended differently. I know Ellis is in heaven playing music for the Lord. Maybe learning to play a harp? Many blessings to you as you go through this difficult time.
Karen, Isaac's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaachatfield
Karen Hatfield <wkhatfield812@yahoo.com>
Coarsegold, CA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 10:36 PM CST
Ellis will NEVER be forgotten, neither will the bravest, strongest parents in the world. Your words again, beautiful.
Wendy
Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, Il USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 10:04 PM CST
Amazing! Beautiful! Powerful!
Sarah <mackollie@aol.com>
Mankato, Mn USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 9:48 PM CST
I happened accross your website just as needed. Thank-you for sharing your story of Sir Ellis and testamony of God's love and grace! I have a two year old also not in the greatest of shape. You and Ellis' story have inspired hope.
Many thanks:
Debbie
(www.caringbridge.org/visit/ericcyr)
Debbie Cyr <MagPieCyr@hotmail.com>
Riverview , NB Canada - Saturday, January 6, 2007 6:10 PM CST
Hi Melissa-
I am not sure of when I came across this website but it was following other websites after my very dear friend saw her son who was 15 earn his angel wings on August 25th. I think I came upon this site after viewing Hannah Sobeski's website and others that I followed. The Lord has had me praying for all those sites that I come upon for the family and for each young person. My heart breaks for you and your husband as I feel your pain and yet I know that Ellis is not gone but is in the presence of the Lord with so many waiting for You and Your husband to be with him again...and that is where I know our hope lies..in knowing that we have a hope and that is the eternal life with those we love in heaven with the Lord where there is no pain or tears...I pray for your days ahead which our filled with many many emotions and you have shared your heart so well...thank you for allowing us the privilege of knowing Ellis and the faith that you have. It is a real blessing ... at times I know bittersweet .. but it brings hope to those who are lost seeing your heart and your faith....Thank You, Thank You, Thank You.
charlotte wilson <angelblue4@hotmail.com>
austintown, oh us - Saturday, January 6, 2007 2:31 PM CST
I just wanted to take a minute today to thank you for sharing your family and all you're going through with everyone, especially now that you've lost Ellis. Being able to read the updates (even now), and to pray for your family, has given me an insight on life that I wouldn't have otherwise. It is through you and the others who continue to share that I have learned and am learning to the extent that anyone can who's not in your situation, to truly number my days. And what a blessing to be among those who are praying for your family!
Ps 90:12 So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, January 6, 2007 2:24 PM CST
When one comes to tears with reading this entry, one can never-ever say that Ellis or your family has not touched our lives -- out deepest souls and emotions forever. Ellis -- we love and miss you and forever remains in our hearts & lives beyond this earth! Sam and Melissa -- as you face each new day, God strengthen and comfort you as the journey continues. God Bless you and your families always --- Thank you for the update and touching our lives again & again! ("
Donna (" & Jeff Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Saturday, January 6, 2007 12:01 AM CST
Once again your words ring with such truth and clarity it is startling. I only wish I could express it all as eloquently. As we come face to face with what would be our son's first birthday, which he is celebrating with Jesus, I thank you for this entry. I think of your Ellis every single day and the two of you and those that are close to you. Thank you for yet another glimpse into your lives.
Kat <kat_76_99@yahoo.com>
Chetek, WI 54728 - Saturday, January 6, 2007 11:14 AM CST
Melissa & Sam

I have started so many posts in the past couple of weeks and then I don't post because I think they sound stupid and trite. How can I put into words what I feel, when it is not important how I feel, but how you both are feeling. I think about you both every day, how are they doing, what are they doing, thank God for their families, friends and faith. You are the strongest, bravest people I have ever seen in my life, that is why Ellis was the strongest, bravest and sweetest boy ever!!!

I am trying to live what I call an Ellis life. To smell the roses, to be as good a person as I can and to always, always remember LIFE IS GOOD!!!

I will never forget the strongest, bravest and mostly the tenderest boy in the World.
Cheryl
- Saturday, January 6, 2007 3:15 AM CST
Hello Sam and Melissa...thank you for your journal yesterday. I am thinking of you everyday and praying that little by little, your pain will subside. Your words are so beautiful and ring so true...things that we never even think about being in your mind on a daily basis...the most important being never to take anything for granted. Prayers and peace, Jess D.
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Saturday, January 6, 2007 1:22 AM CST
A beautiful journal entry about a beautiful boy from a beautiful family. Every time I tuck my children into bed I hear their hearts beating and never again will I take that precious sound for granted.
I think of Ellis nad you two daily and pray for your strength and peace. I'll be saying extra prayers in the upcoming week as you return to work.
May God's blessings overflow throughout your lives.
Tonia Ernst
Morrison, IL - Friday, January 5, 2007 11:43 PM CST
I know that I will never,ever forget Ellis.
Karalyn Manns <madlove4no81@aol.com>
Westmont, NJ - Friday, January 5, 2007 11:21 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,

Julia and I are just sitting here looking at pictures of sweet, beautiful Ellis. We miss him greatly but are reminded of him in so many incredible ways. He made our world and everyone in it so much better.

Sam, it's good to see you back in the halls of STMA.

Peace,
Kelly

Kelly Bovee <kellyb@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Friday, January 5, 2007 9:36 PM CST
Thank you for your update and for allowing us such an honest look at your grief. I think of you daily and always remember Ellis with a smile (though I only "knew" him through your journal entries). Please, if you are able, continue to share with us your sweet memories of him....
he will live on in that way. I hope you feel his presence in your lives always.
Megan <mewohlwend@aol.com>
IL - Friday, January 5, 2007 7:35 PM CST
Sam and Melissa-
I got a new cd for christmas and when I opened it up there was these words that I just felt so true to me about how the both of you and all of us here feel.


WE ARE IN THIS LIFE TOGETHER, EVEN WHEN ONE MOVES WITHOUT THE OTHER. DIFFRENT PAGES FROM THE SAME STORY. THIS ACHING IS FAMILIAR IT'S SOMETHING I REMEMBER. WE CAN'T TOUCH WITHOUT FEELING. CAN'T HEAL WITHOUT HEALING. ONLY THE YOUNG COULD FALL SO HARD, COULD BE SO CARELESS AND IGNORE THE SCARS. SO WE WILL MOVE OUT OF THE WAY THIS TIME, MAKING ROOM FOR EACH OTHER, ONE WITHOUT THE OTHER. WE ARE BROKEN, BUT WE ARE MOVING STILL. A THOUSAND DIFFERENT WAYS.
-Erin Taylor
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Friday, January 5, 2007 7:14 PM CST
I think of Ellis and miss him everyday. His bravery and courage is literally etched in all of our hearts. He will never - ever - be forgotten. :0)

Love and Prayers Always,
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 6:59 PM CST
Melissa and Sam-
Thank you for the update it is so moving. I think and pray for the two of you every day. Now that christmas is over I have placed Ellis's heart orderment in my car. It is hanging from my rearview mirror, so that I can take him with me where ever I go. Also so he can travel and see Minnesota. It reminds me to take my time and stop to and take time for the little things in life. I will never ever forget your beautiful boy. I continue to share his story with everyone. Thank you for sharing Ellis with all of us. You both are truly amazing and strong. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love always,
Dana : ) <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Friday, January 5, 2007 6:52 PM CST
Ellis will never be forgotten. He will live through you and every person that were touched by his brave story.
Cristina Tirado <cristv_99@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 5, 2007 12:50 AM CST
Wow! You guys are an eloquent, amazing and incredibly inspiring family. Though I've never met any of you (found your site through Drew and McKenna Olson's), I continue to check in on you and use your words to redirect and improve my own life. Ellis is truly the strongest, bravest and most miraculous boy! I am the mother of two young boys, and I will carry Ellis' story with me and keep it alive as I raise them. Perhaps they will also come to be inspired by the strongest and bravest boy. That is my hope for them. Thank you for sharing your story.
stacy <s.bartlett@earthlink.net>
hudson, wi - Friday, January 5, 2007 11:15 AM CST
Melissa & Sam ~
Thank you, a million times, thank you - for sharing your story, your emotions, and most importantly your beautiful, incredible, inspiring son. As you have heard so many times on this site and in your everyday life - Ellis had an incredible impact with his short life, and will continue to do so - He will NEVER ever be forgotten. Thank you for continuing to include those of us out here in Ellisville - we will continue to hold your family close in prayer and well wishes...forever.

In Awe of your Beautiful Child,
~Sarah Larkin
Sarah Larkin <slarkin45@gmail.com>
Frisco, TX UNITED STATES - Friday, January 5, 2007 10:43 AM CST
Sam and Missy, our thoughts, prayers and love are with you always.

RJ, Dedee and Family <bcowgirl@smig.net>
Austin, MN USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 9:25 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,
thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your story with all of us. It's just so incredible, I have never met you guys but yet I feel like you are my very close family member. That is right, I think through your incredible journal you guys became our family. I am so thankful that I came across this journal and had the honor to get to know you. To get to know the STRONGEST AND BRAVOUST BOY IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I pray for you guys every single day!!! God, please give Sam and Melissa the strength to go on and keep Ellis memory alive so we can all learn from this incredible family that life is so precious and as long as we have hope, love and each other we will survive and become stronger. We will go on and live a purpose that some may never understand. That through the hurt we have experienced we will make a huge difference in the world.
Melissa and Sam,
your son has made the biggest difference I have ever seen. He has made me and my family stronger, better people and we will forever be thankful for that. Although is he not here with you anymore, he is most defiantly here he is speaking through you and asking you to continue what he has started!

Thank you so much for your update. I check everyday to see if you guys left a message a lesson for us to learn from. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!!!

Madeline <madeline.pasnik@rogers.com>
Ajax, ON Canada - Friday, January 5, 2007 8:39 AM CST
Ellis, and all of you, have inspired me in so many ways to be a better person...a better wife, sister, friend, daughter, and most of all a better mother. Thank you for that and know that Ellis will NOT be forgotten...
Kim Magnan <k_magnan@hotmail.com>
Pleasant Prairie, WI - Friday, January 5, 2007 8:39 AM CST
It is amazing how one child, one family can touch so many...especially so many that they have never met. You have all been an inspiration to me and I feel as though you have made me a better mother. I am trying all the time to not take any moments for granted...even the frustrating ones...to kiss, hug and cuddle my kids until they just can't stand it. I thank you for your words and your honesty, and although we have never met, my heart aches for you and Sam as though we have been friends for years. Thank you Melissa and Sam, and Ellis. You have all made quite an impact. Thinking of you always. Best of luck with returing to work and wishing you happiness and fulfillment with your adventures ahead. Peace and love.
Mel Grammont <madebymel@gmail.com>
Appleton, WI - Friday, January 5, 2007 8:15 AM CST
Sam and Melissa. Continuing to remember you in my daily prayers. The last journal entry was absolutely beautiful. I am so happy that you can see all of the "good" that has come from your wonderful son, Ellis. May God continue to bless you in the days to come.
Susan Mitchel <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Friday, January 5, 2007 7:53 AM CST
Melissa,
I am again stunned by your eloquence. I, too, have found great meaning in the writings of C.S. Lewis. Thank you for letting us know how you are, as you are constantly in our hearts and prayers.
Marilyn Rausch
Plymouth, MN - Friday, January 5, 2007 7:32 AM CST
I for one will never forget sweet Ellis , he will always be in my heart ,, i share your updates and pictures of Ellis with my children to see his strength and courage and the amazing love for him his mommy and daddy have,. Thank you for being so kind and sharing your beautiful boy. God bless you
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Friday, January 5, 2007 6:41 AM CST
Hi Melissa & Sam,
Just stopping by to visit. Rest assured that Ellis will live forever in the hearts of all of us, the ones so touched by his story. Whenever I pray, his name crosses my mind. As we care for Ellis, so we also care for you. You are still in my prayers.
Lisa Whorten <lisawhorten@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Friday, January 5, 2007 0:11 AM CST
Still visiting Ellisville daily. I am happy to hear You and Sam are doing well, as our children, we will never forget. You have 2 1/2 years of loving memories of Ellis that will last a lifetime. Take care of yourselves and cherish all the memories. Ellis will never be forgotten.
Vicki and Jim Potthoff <fiveknights2004@yahoo.com>
Monticello, mn usa - Thursday, January 4, 2007 10:37 PM CST
Hi Sam&Melissa just happened to check your web-site...we think and pray for you all often.Your little brave...strongest man in the world has touched so many life's in his short time.I don't think any of us could ever forget Ellis or you Sam and Melissa...you have changed us all..we will never be the same.God Bless love&Prayers Greg&Annemarie meyer
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn u - Thursday, January 4, 2007 10:34 PM CST
You are so gifted in your ability to capture your thoughts and emotions in words. Thanks for writing and letting us know how you are - we care.
Mary
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, MN usa - Thursday, January 4, 2007 10:27 PM CST
Thank you for letting us know how you are doing. Such heart felt words from you again Melissa. I think of your son Ellis when I drive by Ellis Drum shop on Snelling Avenue in St. Paul. He is even greatly missed by those of us who were never lucky enough to meet him. You are always in our thoughts and prayers! Wishing you well in 2007!

Love,
Magdalini Anderson
www.caringbridge.org/mn/manderson
Magda Anderson <mags0304@hotmail.com>
Hastings, MN USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 10:07 PM CST
My gosh, I have said this before but I am so sorry for the road you guys have had to take. I am so sorry that Ellis is no longer here. You are such wonderful parents! I just want you to know that I still think about you guys and pray for you. I LOVE LOVE LOVE the picture of Ellis in the swing. That is how I like to remember him looking.

http://www.caringbridge.org/or/kaitlynp
Jennifer Powers <MommyJenRN@charter.net>
Central Point, OR USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 9:31 PM CST
Oh my, your latest entry has brought tears to my eyes. I just can't begin to imagine what you're going thru. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish there was some way I could take your pain away, even for just a moment.

Ellis and my two year old, Tyler, share a love of music and Elmo. Tyler has had the nickname "Turtle" from the time he was an infant. Now when I call him by that nickname, I am reminded of Ellis.

Ellis went thru so much in his too short life. More than I can imagine going thru in my lifetime. Yet, he loved life and still smiled! We adults can learn a lot from him. We can learn to appreciate the things that really matter.
Ginny Deegan <jgdeegan@msn.com>
Mtn. Home AFB, ID USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 9:21 PM CST
Of all the "titles" one person can have...I am, and will always be most proud to be "Auntie Heidi". Ellis is the coolest kid I will ever know.

Love,
Auntie Heidi
- Thursday, January 4, 2007 8:54 PM CST
Thank you for your update and the beautiful pictures of your sweet son. He has changed us all for good.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Thursday, January 4, 2007 8:43 PM CST
Sam - was that you on the T.v. on New year's eve , removing the snow from your driveway???
friend <someone@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, January 4, 2007 8:40 PM CST
Thank you for updating and letting us know how you both are. You are truly amazing! Ellis lives on in the turtles, music, kitties and smiles on little ones faces. He will never be forgotten.
Melissa
Crystal, MN - Thursday, January 4, 2007 8:11 PM CST
Sam and Melissa I have been wanting to send you a memorial but I don't know your address so I guess I will send it to your parents home Sam. I pray for you every day. And I like many others visit Ellisville everyday. I never get tired of looking at that beautiful little face..Jean
Jean Norton <jeano1946@msn.com>
Austin, Mn. USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 8:01 PM CST
I have been following your story since before Ellis had his transplant and I do think of you often. Ellis was an amazing child who I never have met but grown to care about. You are amazing parents also. I often wonder if i was in your place if i could go thru all you have. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care

Lisa Johnson
Lisa Johnson
Milbank, SD USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 7:47 PM CST
I am also usually a "silent" visitor who has followed Ellis and has fallen in love with your special little one. You continue to be in my prayers and Ellis will always be remembered. It's amazing how a little guy can touch someone's life, and we never met. God bless you, Angela
Angela Boone <TBoone3084@aol.com>
Sugar Land, TX 77479 - Thursday, January 4, 2007 5:44 PM CST
Hi Sam & Melissa;
I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts are with both of you for a year of peace and comfort. We will always remember Ellis and continue to appreciate you for sharing him with all of us. God be with you and hold you in the palm of His hand.

Rose Mary Eldridge (Mike's Mom)
Rose Mary Eldridge <RMEldridge@earthlink.net>
Fargo, ND USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 5:38 PM CST
I still visit your page everyday to remember Ellis. I visit every day to offer prayers for your strength to carry on each day because I know the world doesn't simply stop when tragedy strikes. Ellis's legacy will carry on to the multitudes through you both. He lives on through your words and your lives. He is your treasure and now your angel in Heaven. I will never forget him. May the Lord comfort you and bring you joy through the immense sorrow.
Jen, Mom to Miracle Samuel <bud110@aol.com>
S. Prairie, WA USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 4:49 PM CST
Sam & Melissa,
The two of you are the strongest most amazing parents I have ever seen! And even though you may not feel so strong somedays, you are touching so many lives. Ellis is a lucky little boy to have had you as parents in his short life here on earth. God Bless you All!
Laura
Buffalo, MN USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 4:48 PM CST
Melissa and Sam-

You two are amazing. That is all I can say.

Ellis will NEVER be forgotten. NEVER.
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Thursday, January 4, 2007 4:34 PM CST
Sam and Melissa~
I come to Ellisville daily. I have been doing so for some time now. I guess I have been more of a silent 'resident' than of one with a voice. Please know that despite my not signing your guestbook with each visit (I seriously think if I did, I would worry you!) I think of Ellis many times a day. I love reading your eloquent words. I wish there were some magical words or ways to give you each a bit more strength to endure such an incredible loss. Ellis lives in you, he lives through your words. He lives on in strangers like myself. Ellis will never be forgotten.
Erin
Fort Worth, TX - Thursday, January 4, 2007 3:57 PM CST
The thought of your Ellis being forgotten is like the thought that the winds will ever stop blowing. He is ever-present. Do not fear what cannot happen. He is amoungst us, riding those gentle breezes.

Peace to you in this New Year. I continue to send prayers your way.
Roxann <horsesetc@msn.com>
Audubon, MN USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 3:12 PM CST
And I should say, that because of Ellis,we have lovingly become attached to Paul. We were even together on New Year's Eve where we remembered Ellis together and sang "A Brand New Angel" in his honor around the piano... his little red smiling heart photo watching us from the Christmas tree. Paul came with mandolin in hand as we remembered the year gone by. Ellis is a beautiful boy... A beautiful spirit to hold. Thank you.
Pam Russell <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 3:09 PM CST
Dear Melissa, When you write about your plans to share your journal and guestbook with Ellis, try to think about sharing it with Ellis' future brother or sister. This will be such a gift for that child to get to know their big brother that lives with Jesus now and how much his parents loved him. That way, they will never forget Ellis either. Thank you for writing to us and please continue to do so. It means more than you will ever know. I'm praying that getting back to your beloved music at school will help you with healing. We all love you so much and want the best the world has to give you. Ellis will never be forgotten. He is in my heart every day.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, January 4, 2007 3:08 PM CST
Thinking of you.
Katie Olson <bisongolfer@hotmail.com>
Moorhead, MN 56560 - Thursday, January 4, 2007 2:37 PM CST
Beautiful words once again............He will NOT be forgotten and we will always share his couragous story....Gods Blessings for the New Year.



Natalie Nantke (Gosha) <njgosha@yahoo.com>
Plymouth, mn usa - Thursday, January 4, 2007 2:30 PM CST
How nice to read your words again. I'm only one of so many who have been checking in, and wishing you strength and peace through the holiday season.
Lyndsay <lettersforlyndsay@hotmail.com>
Winnipeg, Canada - Thursday, January 4, 2007 2:06 PM CST
Melissa & Sam,
Thank you for sharing your lives with all of here in Ellisville....we will be here for you always!
Love and prayers always, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Thursday, January 4, 2007 1:50 PM CST
Oh, Melissa... Once again I cry with you. I cannot imagine the unbearable pain to turn to pick up your child from his place only to realize he is gone. And gone forever. Yes. There are no words other than pain and emptiness. Thank you for your incredible bravery and ability to share with us your deepest thoughts. Through this, may you find a place to lie your tired head when you need it. I think day after day of how in the world I can be of any assistance to you now. Just existing here doesn't feel right... It's not enough. And yet I, along with so many others, stand here and do not know what to do. We are your helpless bystanders, Melissa and Sam. We want to pick up the pieces of your shattered world and figure out how to make it nice enough for you to live again in a new way. I know you are doing that. I know you are somehow amazingly figuring this out. Sometime it will come to me and I will figure out how I can be of some small help in this. But in the meantime, while I sit and think and look for some small way to mean something more in your life, please know that I am always thinking of you and Ellis and praying for calm and assurance in your lives. How we love you so much! No, Ellis will never be forgotten. He never could be forgotten. A little piece of him rides around inside of each one of us whom he touched. And just as the bread of Christ could be broken and shared countless times, his spirit will broaden and spread in this world for eternity. You know the kids suddenly think that Heaven is a very cool place. They freely talk about how when the angels come on their special day, they will run to find Ellis right away and how much fun they will have together. We learn so much from our children. So, as these steps are fragile and strange, we only hope that we can offer you strength. Much Love to you....Todd,Pam, and the Russell 5
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 1:45 PM CST
Melissa and Sam, Llke so many others who visit this site at least once a day, I too came to know and love dear sweet Ellis through your words alone. I can't imagine a day when I won't want to come here and read the many kind and loving words left by others. They give me some comfort and I only hope they give you both some comfort. It has been said that all we ever want is to know our life mattered. Well Ellis did and still does matter, and these daily messages are just a small measure of proof of that. May 2007 be a year of healing and hope for both of you. You are in my prayers.
Linda Rudman
Shrewsbury, MA - Thursday, January 4, 2007 12:38 AM CST
Dear Bergstroms,
the start of a new year...it cannot possibly be worse for you than last year. Although, knowing how you 3 grabbed onto life-"carpe diem", the year also included much joy on the other side of the pain. We all do still think about you and I think that is our assignment for the new year, to carry you and the memory of Ellis in our hearts. What an honor to do so and to have shared Ellis with you. I only hope each day has just a tiny sliver of joy in it and those joy-moments get longer for you as time passes. Ellis lives on forever in everything around us! Wishing you peace-
Cathy Ann DeJarlais <mommydearest43@juno.com>
Champlin, - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 9:04 PM CST
Thinking of you.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 8:42 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, Just checking in to see how you are doing. I pray for you to both find peace in the days and months to come. Jean
Jean Norton <jeano1946@msn.com>
Austin, Mn. USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 7:23 PM CST
Cute pictures! Still thinking of you.
Our prayers and love,
The Mattsons
Marilyn Mattson
Aberdeen, S.D. U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 6:48 PM CST
My heart still hurts. I can only imagine how you must feel. I still go into the site several times a day and am comforted by what all the other Ellisville residents write. We are all so connected to each other and to you and Ellis. I think God is pleased by this. In fact, I'm sure he is.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 6:20 PM CST
May God continue to hold you close as the new year begins. My thoughts and prayes are with you from S.C.
Kathy <jkmm@cetlink.net>
Rock Hill , SC - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 5:01 PM CST
Melissa & Sam,
Still checking in on you both every day and still praying for you. Hope you can find some peace and happiness this day and in the days to come!!
Love, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 3:28 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Praying for peace...everywhere. God bless you, keep you, and allow you to cling to Him (and one another) in 2007. May your spirits be renewed, and may you find peace.
Mollie (Coleman) Trewartha <mollie.trewartha@gmail.com>
Houghton, MI USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 2:55 PM CST
Hello Sam and Melissa, I haven't written in a while but I come to see Ellis' sweet face everyday! Literally, everyday! I think of you both and hope that the new year brings you much happiness. It must be so hard to look toward a new year.....I will be thinking and praying for both of you.

Sweetest Ellis, do you see all the people signing your guestbook? You are sooooo popular! We all love and miss you sweetest boy.....I know you are having the time of your "new" life....
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, January 3, 2007 2:49 PM CST
I continue to think of your family, to pray for peace in your hearts, and to share the story of the strongest and bravest boy in the world, your Ellis. During the holidays, I hope you were able to find ways to feel connected to Ellis and to find some comfort in your cherished memories of your time with him. I can only imagine the challenge of getting through the holidays after such an unfathomable loss. Ellis has changed so many lives...I am one of many, many parents who hold their children closer and value every simple moment more because of the lessons we learned through your family's story.

Amy <amyscotland@hotmail.com>
Maplewood, MN - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 2:04 PM CST
Praying for you through this hard journey.

Love, Faith, Hope and Prayers,
Kasey Nelson
Kasey Nelson <kaseynelson@aol.com>
Salem, AL USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 12:59 AM CST
Prayers are with you.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 10:51 AM CST
Prayers for comfort and strength in this New Year. Prayers that God will find ways to share Ellis with you. I think of all of you everyday.
Blessings.
Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, Il USA - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 8:53 AM CST
May God continue to watch over you during the New Year.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Wednesday, January 3, 2007 7:19 AM CST
Many Ellisville residents/strangers continue to think of you and Ellis often....very, very often. Hope you can feel the warmth. Take care.
Erin W
St. Michael, MN - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 11:00 PM CST
Praying for you.
Shannon
MN - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 9:32 PM CST
Still thinking of your sweet Ellis every day. Still praying for God to give you the strength you need to get through each day without your baby.
Tonia Ernst <home4my2boys@yahoo.com>
Morrison, IL - Tuesday, January 2, 2007 8:57 AM CST
Sam & Melissa,

I found your site through a CaringBridge friend that just lost her fight. I am so sorry for your loss. Anyone that is a parent has feared the loss of their child, but you two had to experience it, and for that, I am so sorry. I will pray that you both, in addition to the legions of friends and family, have peace in this New Year that surpasses all understanding. Your Ellis is with Jesus...and my friend is with Jesus... And we will see them again when our journey is through.

May God bless you both in abundance.

Sincerely,
Amy Jordan
Christopher, Amy, & Riley Jordan <amymjordan@cox.net>
Andrews, TX - Monday, January 1, 2007 11:15 PM CST
Just stopping by as I still do several times a day to check on you all....Hope you were able to get through the holiday without too much pain....I know Ellis was in your constant thoughts...He must have had a wonderful Christmas in Heaven with all the other little angels....I still pray for you all daily...Hopefully in a few weeks, you will be able to update us all here in Ellisville....Remember you all a loved by everyone in Ellisville....Take care...
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Monday, January 1, 2007 10:46 PM CST
Ellis's Mama and Dada~
I stop by Ellisville daily (usually more!)to check on you. You are in my thought and prayers. I hope that the new year brings your family comfort, peace, kindness, smiles, and that you constantly feel Ellis's love surrounding you and cheering you on! He must be so proud of you!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel
Becker, - Monday, January 1, 2007 9:53 PM CST
HAPPY NEW YEAR. I hope 2007 is a much better year for you. May God Bless you.
Toby <macainge@frontiernet.net>
Delano, Mn. - Monday, January 1, 2007 9:03 PM CST
Happy New Year!!!
still thinking about and praying for you each and every day
god bless!
Katie Gallup <katiegallup@abe.midco.net>
- Monday, January 1, 2007 7:54 PM CST
Happy New Year, Sam and Melissa! Hope you are well and enjoying each other's love and comfort. Our thoughts are with you. We had a nice sweet chat about Ellis last night at our New Years Eve party. What a wonderful spirit! We miss him and you and cannot wait to hear how things are going.... A toast to you as you begin the new year together.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 6:46 PM CST
Well another Christmas and another year has come and gone. As the year 2006 was coming to an end I thought about all that has gone on this year. I also thought of the two of you and how much the both of you and Ellis went through this year (WOW). I have been VERY Blessed in knowing and getting to hang out with Melissa and Ellis. I will never forget the time we spented together. I also have been blessed by being taught so much by them and also you Sam. Thank you so much for teaching me so many thing this last year.

May 2007 bring the both of you peace and joy. I hope that you are well. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love Always,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, January 1, 2007 6:23 PM CST
Hey Melissa and Sam-

I was thinking about all that has gone on in 2006, and everything I've been blessed with in the past year. You and Ellis were the first people I thought about. I have been SO blessed by knowing you Melissa, and SO blessed to have been able to be your student and learn SO much from you! I am forever greatful for that! But on top of that! You, Sam, and ESPECIALLY Ellis, have taught me sooo much. I can't thank you ENOUGH.

You are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. I hope God is bringing you some peace during this Holiday season and the days to come. I hope you are doing ok.

God Bless you and your families.

With love,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, January 1, 2007 3:51 PM CST
We are still here.
Peace,
Sara
Sara Mize <mizefamily@mac.com>
Edina, MN - Monday, January 1, 2007 3:17 PM CST
You are always on our minds.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, - Monday, January 1, 2007 3:07 PM CST
Sam & Melissa -

I pray this year will bring you peace and some measure of happiness. I think of Ellis every hour of every day. What a beautiful, sweet baby he is. His spirit lives on so strongly through his beautiful pictures and life.

His life taught me so much about being alive!!! I refuse to listen to people who look at life as a glass half empty instead of half full.

Thank you again for sharing his journey through his life and please know that I pray for you every day.

God Bless you both!!!
Cheryl
- Monday, January 1, 2007 2:39 PM CST
Dearest Sam and Melissa,

We don't know one another, but AnneMarie Meyer directed me to your website (she is the grandmother of two of my patients--I'm a pediatrician). We have a few connections/things in common as both my husband and I are also from Austin and both our parents still live there. I also trained at the U of M and have gotten reacquainted with it now as I have been battling cancer for the last 2 years.

I wanted you to know that I started reading your journal at least a couple of hours ago and I haven't been able to move from my computer. Your story is so moving and compelling that any words I may use here just seem to be too little and so meaningless. My heart is just one big "ache" in my chest right now. I cannot imagine going through all that you have and yet having the presence of mind to articulate yourself so eloquently. I feel that the story of Ellis, Melissa, and Sam should be required reading for anyone who currently is or plans to become a pediatrician. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your "heart story" with the multitudes of us, and it is indeed a priviledge to have gotten to know you through your words. I will continue to pray for you and your family, and I hope that you will continue to keep us updated.

Heaven rejoiced when it received little Ellis, and he is at peace and resting in the Lord's arms now. May those same arms of the Lord comfort you and strengthen you as well.

Barb Berg
www.caringbridge.org/visit/barbberg
Barbara Berg <barbberg@mn.rr.com>
Eden Prairie, MN - Monday, January 1, 2007 1:40 PM CST
Happy new year Bergstroms. May 2007 bring you health, healing, and blessings abundantly. Holding you close--

Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
Walters, MN - Monday, January 1, 2007 11:44 AM CST
Dear Melissa, I pray that soon you will be able and willing to write about how you and Sam are doing. We are all very concerned about you and care about you very much.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Monday, January 1, 2007 11:11 AM CST
Melissa and Sam! I was thinking of all the things I was thankful for in 2006 and your wonderful son was at the top of my list. I thank God you guys had him, and I thank God he was able to touch my life. And you know whats funny? The fear of dying simply isn't there anymore. Heaven seems closer. And a whole lot friendlier!

May both of you have a wonderful 2007! I will always carry the memory of Ellis in a very special place in my heart. I think of him now, and though I may tear up, inside I'm smiling, and just so happy our paths crossed.

Peace and Much Kindness to you both!
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Monday, January 1, 2007 1:43 AM CST
Praying and thinking about you everyday. Hope you are doing ok. God Bless you guys. :0)
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, - Sunday, December 31, 2006 11:00 AM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa, I'm praying for a new year of healing, hope and peace for you and your family. I will never forget Ellis.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Sunday, December 31, 2006 10:49 AM CST
Melissa and Sam-
We continue to pray for you and think of you daily. We hope you are finding peace through this holiday. We pray that 2007 will be a year of strength, healing and peace for you.
God Bless!!
Baumgartner Family <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Sunday, December 31, 2006 9:56 AM CST
Continuing to pray as you miss your precious Ellis!
These words have always given me such great comfort. We have eyewitness accounts of Jesus' life and all that He did! This same Jesus who is with us even now, giving us strength and faith to get through whatever happens in our life!
I Jn.1:1-3: That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life; (For the life was manifested, and we have seen it, and bear witness, and shew unto you that eternal life, which was with the Father, and was manifested unto us;) That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, December 31, 2006 1:01 AM CST
Thinking of you and praying for you always. I hope you have a great New Year's weekend.
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Saturday, December 30, 2006 7:15 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
I have been keeping up with the progression of Ellis' health through your Aunt Julie since Ellis was born. My prayers and hopes have been with you through your long hard struggle. I have never read so many strong, beautiful words and thoughts in my life. Most of them bringing me to tears. I hope in this time of sorrow you also find times of happiness and fulfillment. All of my prayers are with you all. Dada's letter to Ellis is especially touching. Best of everything to you, you deserve it.
Carol Running
Bloomington, MN US - Saturday, December 30, 2006 5:00 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
We are still holding all three of you close to our hearts. May God's love and peace be with you.

Shannon and Family

Shannon Schulzetenberg
- Saturday, December 30, 2006 8:05 AM CST
Melissa and Sam, I continue to pray for you both and hope that you are doing ok. I will never forget your darling angel Ellis! I'm hoping that each day you find some peace and that you can find at least one thing to smile about! Take care and know that there are a lot of us out here still praying for you!
Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Saturday, December 30, 2006 6:32 AM CST
Thinking of your family every day...

www.caringbridge.org/visit/rachelanne
Monica
- Saturday, December 30, 2006 1:38 AM CST
Melissa & Sam,
Not a day goes by that we don't think of you and hope you are doing ok. We are keeping you and Ellis in our thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl K <pgonefishin8@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 29, 2006 8:11 PM CST
Melissa & Sam-

You both are in my thoughts and prayers daily. There is no way that I can possibly begin to imagine what you both may feel at this time, but I do know for a fact that God is with both of you-Always. Likewise, know that I am here as well for anything you may ever need or if there is anything I can ever do for either one of you. A new year is nothing more than changing dates on a calendar and does nothing to erase or reduce pains from the past, but may you both find comfort and peace in your own time. I love both of you.

Your friend,

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN U.S.A. - Friday, December 29, 2006 4:30 PM CST
Thinking of you today as the old year is ending and a new one is beginning. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time.
Sherri Barton <sbarton@satx.rr.com>
San Antonio, TX - Friday, December 29, 2006 12:32 AM CST
I feel compelled to let you know I still think of you three everyday........just to let you know
love,
the horns
the horns
kennesaw, ga - Friday, December 29, 2006 10:37 AM CST
Hi there! Just want to let you know you are still in my prayers and my thoughts. I think about little brave amazing Ellis every day and the thought of his smile makes me smile all the time! He was a strong wonderful little man! I hope you two are doing ok.

With much love and admiration,
Lizz Kortz <lizz_k469@hotmail.com>
TX - Friday, December 29, 2006 8:22 AM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam...just thinking of you and wondering how you're both holding up. I hope you are surrounded by love and that a peace will come over you that will calm your sorrow and help you find joy in the days ahead. Much love and hope for a better 2007. Love, Jessica Diedrich
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Friday, December 29, 2006 0:33 AM CST
Dear Missy and Sam,
Our hope, this season into this soon-to-be 2007 year, is for comforting fellowship with your families. We pray that God send Ellis' whispers of love daily as you go through this significant time of adjustment. We know that God has Ellis on his lap. That they are both watching over you both.
Know that we hold Ellis, Missy and Sam in our hearts today and every day. Ellis is God's miracle sent to such special parents. We continue to pray for you all. We continue to celebrate Ellis, for the special child the God sent to earth.
Our love and prayers, the Smooks (Shirlene, Denny, Josh, Charley and Missy)
Shirlene Knudtson Smook <drmomsd@hotmail.comb>
Aberdeen, SD 57401 - Thursday, December 28, 2006 9:21 PM CST
Sending so many prayers to the mommy and daddy of the srongest, bravest boy in the world. Your pain must be immense. May Ellis bring an equal amount of healing and hope for you both in 2007.
Mindi <melinda_chouinard@hotmail.com>
Tacoma, WA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 9:12 PM CST
I just looked at your adorable pictures--he was such a little cutie and even though his was a life of struggle, he just resonates happiness. I have no doubt that is a direct result of the undying love and dedication you both felt for him. Thinking of you both this season and praying for peace in your hearts.
JoAnn Ernste <jmernste@mchsi.com>
Savage, Mn - Thursday, December 28, 2006 4:10 PM CST
Dada's letter to Ellis had me in tears, what a beautiful tribute to a beautiful little boy. I will continue to pray for your strength and comfort.

Praying for peace, good health & happiness for you in '07.
Chari Warner <millymango40@yahoo.com>
Alpharetta, GA USA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 3:46 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, I think of you every day and pray for you to find peace. Jean
Jean Norton <jeano1946@msn.com>
Austin, Mn. USA - Thursday, December 28, 2006 12:51 AM CST
Just a note to let you know that you continue to be in thoughts and prayers.
Kris Jenkins
Albertville, MN 55301 - Thursday, December 28, 2006 8:04 AM CST
Just wanted to check in and see how you two were doing and if there were any updates. I know how hard things are for you two. You are in my prayers and we are all still here for you all. I am sure Ellis is fine and enjoying his new freedom and getting used to his wings.
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Thursday, December 28, 2006 3:27 AM CST
Remebering Ellis,
The other day I was listing to the radio and heard the frost the snow man song. It just reminded me how much he loved his frosty book and how when I read it to him he would sign stop when I read that part. Hope that you had a nice chrstmas and are doing well. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.
Love, Dana
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 10:33 PM CST
Thinking of you.
Susan Watson <susanwatson1999@hotmail.com>
St. Paul, MN - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 6:05 PM CST
Praying for you both, as this Christmas must have been so hard...

Hugs,
Tony, Jessica, & Gavin Dahms
Gavin's Page <jessicaaroth@hotmail.com>
Marshall, MN - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 12:48 AM CST
Thinking of you today and praying you are both okay!

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 11:38 AM CST
It breaks my heart to think about how hard this Christmas must be for you...I'm sorry I didn't write to wish you a merry Christmas but I didn't know what to say...then it hit me, that Ellis is spending his first Christmas with Jesus, and how awesome the very thought of that is/was. So, I logged onto Ellisville and there was a picture of your sweet angel in his Santa hat...and just like someone else said, I realized, Ellis is home. I am just so sorry that you are going through all of this. I pray for your healing every day and will never forget your strongest, bravest boy. Love, Jessica D.
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Wednesday, December 27, 2006 0:47 AM CST
Just wanted you to know that you were on my mind and in my prayers for comfort and peace during this holiday. We will never forget brave Ellis nor his brave and blessed parents.
May God Be with you.
pat ivey <pivey@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, December 26, 2006 9:19 PM CST
How are the strongest and bravest parents in the world doing today? Just wondering.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 9:16 PM CST
I don't have any great words to say...I just wanted you to know that I care. I will keep you in warm thoughts and prayers.


Christi Frost <christifrost@yahoo.com>
Brookings, SD US - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:30 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,

Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you both this Christmas season. May God Bless and comfort you!
The Frieden Family <lmflaw@hotmail.com>
Carmel, IN USA - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:15 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
Please know that your brave angel is keeping watch over another little fighter! We were sitting with tiny grandson Riley on Saturday. We put him in his swing and he turned his head toward the window of the ICC. He looked and looked and then smiled and was so content. He had been in pain. When I looked to the window it struck me. Ellis is here. Riley is being filled with Ellis's strength and spirit! We just sat quietly and I watched him look and smile. Ellis gave comfort to little Riley and gave us a wonderful Christmas gift! Thank you Sam and Melissa. Ellis continues to be strong and show others the way! You will always be near us!
Loving thanks, Deb
Tom and Deb Clements <traumadeb@charter.net>
Austin, Mn. USA - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 6:50 PM CST
Hoping that your hearts are filled with Ellis's love and peace!
Thinking of you constantly!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel
Becker, - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 6:16 PM CST
Sam and Missy,
We are thinking of you everyday. I hope you find peace during the Christmas season. I know Ellis is celebrating with Jesus and will always be by your side. God bless you.
Abbie Bushaw and Travis Kaehler <abushaw03@hotmail.com>
Rochester, MN - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 9:55 AM CST
Melissa & Sam,
Wishing you peace this day. I continue to hold you both in prayer. Take care of each other and lean on all of us in Ellisville....we are here for you!
Love, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 9:06 AM CST
Melissa and Sam-
During supper on the day that Ellis passed away, Bob suddenly looked at me and said, "I just had this thought that Ellis will be HOME for Christmas." We looked later that evening on this site and found out just how true his words were. Merry Christmas, little angel. Merry Christmas Sam and Melissa. We are loving you all and holding you close these very difficult days.
Katie, Bob, and the kids Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
Walters, MN - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 8:53 AM CST
Dear Melissa & Sam,

Christmas day will shortly come to an end for another year. This year your family weighed heavily on our minds. We talked about Ellis and prayed that you two were able to find some peace and joy during this holiday season as you remembered your last few Christmases. We can't imagine the roller coaster of emotions you must experience on a daily basis, and especially at the holiday season. We continue to pray that you two may have some peace in your hearts. We have felt Ellis's presence in our home today. There were lots of bells ringing.

God's blessings to you,
The Corbo's
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
The Corbo's
- Monday, December 25, 2006 11:42 PM CST
Merry Christmas, Bergstroms! I've been thinking about you constantly...if you have a chance, track down the new Sarah McLachlan holiday CD and listen to "Wintersong." It's beautiful...and it made me think of you during this most wonderful and painful time of year. We (all of us here in Ellisville) love your family dearly and wish you the most peaceful holiday and New Year possible.
Kristen <kristen.genet@anokaramsey.edu>
- Monday, December 25, 2006 11:32 PM CST
What precious pictures of dear Ellis! He is being remembered all around the world on this Christmas day and I'm sure he is playing the drums for Jesus. =)

Praying for you both,

Love,
Abby Dodds <abbyrose_85@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Monday, December 25, 2006 11:25 PM CST
Dear Sam & Melissa -

Christmas the day is almost done, but Christmas the spirit is something I am trying to live the rest of the year. Thank you, thank you for posting the beautiful pics of our (as in the residents of Ellisville) darling Ellis on his site. I am still learning from him every day!!! I am trying to apply the lessons I learned from his special life to my life every day. Some days I fail and I am mad at myself, other days I succeed and it is wonderful. But every day, every hour he is on my mind and in my thoughts and especially in my heart!! As are you. I pray for you all the time for the strength to find peace and some happiness soon.

Thank you for Ellis, thank you for sharing his life story with us!!!

God Bless you both!!!
Cheryl <clayt50@charter.net>
- Monday, December 25, 2006 10:58 PM CST
Thinking of you today and every day. What precious Christmas pictures of your Ellis. Simply beautiful.
Mary S-S
Shelby Township, MI - Monday, December 25, 2006 10:52 PM CST
May God bless and be with all of you on this Christmas Day...
Karen Buege <kbuege@comcast.net>
Downers Grove , IL - Monday, December 25, 2006 9:50 PM CST
Merry Christmas ^Ellis^

I think of you and your family so often. You touched so many people in such a short amount of time. May God give your parents strength to ease their pain.
Jen
North Dakota, - Monday, December 25, 2006 9:39 PM CST
Thinking of you this Christmas day.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Monday, December 25, 2006 8:55 PM CST
Sam and Melissa-

Thinking of you on this Christmas day and hoping it brings you peace and hope.
Steve and Shanne Minkler <tootfloot@yahoo.com>
Buffalo, MN 55313 - Monday, December 25, 2006 8:27 PM CST
Praying for you today and knowing that your warm and wonderful family is holding you through this difficult time. Ellis is in our thoughts as we wonder how his first heavenly Christmas is going... I just know he is with you in spirit as your love for one another is so intense. Stay close to those you love and lean on us all. We are with you. Countless times during the candlelight service I was filled with tears still clinging to that notion of how I wish he was with you in your arms. He is a beautiful angel and in time I am told your pain will at least soften as you learn to live peacefully with him filling your heart. Much love and warm wishes are sent your way this Christmas Day.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Monday, December 25, 2006 1:13 PM CST
My thoughts are with you both today....We all know that Ellis is having the time of his life in heaven....Christmas at our home has never been the same since our Cory went to heaven...It has been 9 years now....You all will be OK....You are so strong...Time will be your best friend....Ellis will always be with you, especially at Christmas.....Cory always...well almost always, sends me a flake or two of snow so I know he is OK....His problem is he still gets mixed up on the days and it might be Christmas Eve or the day after Christmas...but I have faith...and it will be here......So my wish for you today is just to get through it....the best way you can....remember Ellis and shed your tears....then smile.....He is watching you......God bless you both........Merry Christmas Ellis and Cory.....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Monday, December 25, 2006 12:18 AM CST
Melissa and Sam-

Merry Christmas! Ellis is being remembered all over today! There is a poinsettia on the steps in our church in Ellis' memory. All the poinsettias are arranged in the shape of a heart, with a cradle and a baby in the middle, and there is actually a handmade picture of a real heart above the plants. The Christmas tree is covered in hearts, as that has been the theme in our church for the last few weeks. How awesome is that?! I sat in church and thought about Ellis, the two of you, and your families. Ellis' heart was full of God's love and he knew how much you loved him! Also, one of the songs sung started like this, "There's a light, piercing the darkness...". There is light, even though it may seem so dark. Jesus' love fills your hearts, and Jesus is taking care of your precious son! Merry Christmas Bergstroms. God bless you.

With love, thoughts, and prayers,
Sara Quarberg <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, December 25, 2006 11:58 AM CST
Merry Christmas Melissa and Sam. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of the both of you and Ellis. The pictures are so cute, thanks for sharing your beautiful son with all of us. Ellis is having a nice christmas with our lord and savior, celebrating his birth. May you find peace knowing that Ellis is in heaven. Have a blessed day full of joy and happiness. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love, Dana
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, December 25, 2006 11:25 AM CST
Thinking of you on this day.
Mary Ann
Houston, - Monday, December 25, 2006 11:19 AM CST
On this blessed day, know that our love and prayers are with you. God bless you both for sharing your personal thoughts and your son. Through your messages, Ellis became an important part of our life too. May the love of Jesus and the image of Ellis dancing with Him give you peace. Merry Christmas - Love, Jackie & John (New Life South Dakota connection)
Jackie & John Schmidt <jschmidt4@att.net>
Aurora, IL USA - Monday, December 25, 2006 9:14 AM CST
My husband and I are teary today as we remember your sweet son and both of you. As families gather today, please know you have not been forgotten. We are sending thoughts and prayers to you. Ellis only knew of your love and not every child has even that GIFT. Precious, precious Ellis. Thank you for sharing the Christmas photos. Merry CHRISTmas to you. Today we CELEBRATE Ellis. Hugs from Ohio
Tina <cthomas21@neo.rr.com>
OH USA - Monday, December 25, 2006 8:27 AM CST
Thinking of you today as we do every day and sending you wishes for a holiday filled with comfort and joy knowing your sweet, beautiful little boy is in heaven with all the angels and with God watching over you always --- We pray for continued comfort and healing in the days to come and Ellis remains FOREVER in our hearts and souls.... We are here if ever needed --- ("
Donna & Jeff Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Monday, December 25, 2006 7:18 AM CST
Merry Christmas!! It may seem odd to say but I just came home from the Christmas Eve service and had been thinking of you both very much. The sermon was awesome and I wanted to share a bit of it

Remember that Christmas is not about trees, lights, presents, Santa, or any of that other commercial stuff but about OUR LORD AND SAVOIR, COMFORTER, REDEEMER, LOVER, CAREGIVER, and PRINCE OF PEACE, coming in to our dark and broken world to save us, from our sins.

Ellis IS in heaven dancing at the feet of GOD playing the drums to make a JOYFUL NOISE UNTO THE LORD.

So Merry Christmas!!

Bridget <bridgetcthien@hotmail.com>
Bolingbrook, IL - Monday, December 25, 2006 0:59 AM CST
2006 - First Christmas in Heaven - 2006
Christmas in heaven, what a beautiful sight!
It's my first one here, everything's alright.
I've met all our dear ones who preceded me here,
The reunion was lovely, an event full of cheer.
Tonight we'll all gather, in reverence and kneel,
For the babe in the cradle, up in heaven is real.
I think of my family that I left behind
And pray that your Christmas is as blessed as mine.
Please shed no more tears, for my soul is at rest.
Just love one another and live life at its best.
Yes, it's Christmas in heaven, so I've heard them say,
Yet, Christmas in heaven . . . happens every day!
(Author unknown)
Holding you close in prayer during this difficult time.
The Erfman Family - Dave, Janice, Josh & Sarah <jkerfman@hotmail.com>
Miller, SD - Monday, December 25, 2006 0:54 AM CST
Wishing you a Merry Christmas. I'll be thinking of you both and telling your story to my family. Thanks for the pictures, they're adorable.
Brandon Cross <rooftopcross@hotmail.com>
Champlin, MN United States - Sunday, December 24, 2006 11:45 PM CST
Just stopping by as I still do almost every day. I wanted to say something about Christmas, but wishing you a merry Christmas just doesn't seem right. I'll continue to pray for strength and peace for you both. Just remember that Christmas is the celebration of the day when the Lord sent his Son here to die for us. Just as Jesus is with the Lord in Heaven today, you will one day be with your sweet baby Ellis again in Heaven.
Lisa Whorten <lisawhorten@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 11:40 PM CST
Your sweet boy is SO beautiful in his Santa hat.... I can only imagine how beautiful he is in his heavenly garments. But that doesn't fill your arms, and I am praying that you will feel some measure of comfort and peace during this very, very hard time.
Pam Doughty <p_dought@bellsouth.net>
Powder Springs, GA United States - Sunday, December 24, 2006 9:46 PM CST
Hey! Just wanted to let you know I've still been thinking about you and have prayed for you too. The pictures are so special. I hope that your Christmas will be filled with God's peace.
Angela J
Brooklyn Park, MN - Sunday, December 24, 2006 9:20 PM CST
Merry Christmas Melissa and Sam!
LOVE the pics of Ellis!!! Priceless....thanks for sharing them with us!
You continue to consume my thoughts and I pray that God has granted you peace to sustain!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel
Becker, - Sunday, December 24, 2006 9:11 PM CST
Merry Christmas to you two i hope you have a good holiday know that my thoughts and prayers are with you this holiday season!

Alyssa Gallagher <starangle1@juno.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Sunday, December 24, 2006 9:05 PM CST
Merry Christmas Sweet Ellis, you get to celebrate in the best place there is right there with Him!! We miss you sweet boy.

Sam and Melissa, Merry Christmas to you both....those pictures are so precious and you will cherish them forever. I hope that the new year brings you peace and a new comfort in your lives. I am thinking of you always.
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 24, 2006 8:22 PM CST
Thank you Melissa for posting Christmas pictures. I want to always keep this image in my mind!

Love and peace,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Sunday, December 24, 2006 6:34 PM CST
How can you not look at that pic and get a tear in your eye :) Ellis. we know that you are watching us. God bless and Merry Christmas.. We love you Missy and Sam

pattie <harleygirl1021@aol.com>
- Sunday, December 24, 2006 4:40 PM CST
Bergstrom's, know that many thoughts and prayers are with you and your families these next few days as we celebrate Jesus's birth. May your special ^Angel^ Ellis be the brightest star shining as he celebrates with Jesus this year. still praying for peace and comfort for you.
Joyce/oakdale mom
oakdale, mn - Sunday, December 24, 2006 3:45 PM CST
How cute are those pictures! Merry Christmas! Praying for you this holiday season.
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 3:44 PM CST
Dear God, Please give Ellis a big hug and a kiss from me this Christmas! Please take care of his beloved parents and ease their grief. Thank you for sending your son to this earth so that all of us believers can be with Ellis someday.

Amen,
Pam
OsbornP@comcast.net <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Sunday, December 24, 2006 3:20 PM CST
Merry Christmas.I'm praying for you.
Kate Suther
- Sunday, December 24, 2006 3:16 PM CST
Prayers to the two of you and all of Ellis' dear family. Love from Nashville,
Nancy
- Sunday, December 24, 2006 3:08 PM CST
Many, many prayers are being sent your way this holiday season. May God give you strength to face these days.
Kevin and Wendi Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 2:59 PM CST
Merry Christmas Melissa and Sam. Those are such beautiful pictures of Ellis. God Bless you this Christmas and all the days ahead. Ellis is smiling bright, celebrating with Jesus.

God bless you.
With love,
Sara <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Sunday, December 24, 2006 2:30 PM CST
Special prayers and love are being sent your way.....God Bless your little Christmas Angel.
Terri K.
Rochester, MN USA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 2:02 PM CST
Here we are. Frosty Minnesota Christmas upon us. We are thinking of you and wishing for your health and peace. We miss Ellis so. We see his sparkling smile on our tree every day and are thankful for having the chance to experience his wonderful, happy soul and spirit. He owns a piece of us and always will. We love his Santa picture on the site today. Thank you. We pray for your safe holiday surrounded by the love and support of your family. Much Love to You~
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 11:24 AM CST

Melissa and Sam,
Keeping you in thought as Christmas approaches. Know that all of us in Ellisville hold strong his memory and send comfort and support your way during this most difficult of holidays for you. If only there was something we here on earth could do to help ease your emptiness. There will be many a prayer sent up during Christmas services, we are always here and not abandoning you! Love to all of your family!










Cathy Ann DeJarlais <mommydearest43@juno.com>
Champlin, - Sunday, December 24, 2006 9:58 AM CST
May the comfort of family and friends bring you peace and joy during this holiday season.


Sandy Zahler (Trina's Mom)
St. Michael, Mn USA - Sunday, December 24, 2006 9:49 AM CST
It was a honor to attend the celebration service for Ellis. Thinking of you and your families a lot during the holiday season.
Chris, Rachelle & Mason Gilbertson
Maplewood, MN - Sunday, December 24, 2006 9:29 AM CST
Melissa and Sam,
You are in the hearts and minds of many family and friends this Christmas...peace be with you.
Marilyn Quarberg
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, December 24, 2006 7:43 AM CST
Thinking of Ellis and your family...today and every day.
Erin W <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Sunday, December 24, 2006 0:04 AM CST
I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and pray for peace and comfort at this season of Christmas. On Christmas Eve. at our candlelight service when we sing Silent Night...................sleep in heavenly peace, I always think of all my loved ones in Heaven and I will be thinking of angel Ellis also. Ellis will have one heavenly Merry Christmas! I'm just sorry he can't spend it with you. May God bless you at Christmas and in the coming New Year.
Toby <macainge@frontiernet.net >
Delano, Mn - Saturday, December 23, 2006 11:14 PM CST
Prayers are all I have for you on this Christmas eve. I am so terribly sorry for your empty arms and aching hearts. I am so sorry. God Bless you.
Lynn
crofton, md usa - Saturday, December 23, 2006 11:12 PM CST
Well we are looking at Ellis shining down on us this Christmas. He is the Bright star in the North:) We continue to pray for Missy and Sam. God Bless and Merry Christmas.
pattie <harleygirl1021@aol.com>
downers grove, il - Saturday, December 23, 2006 10:33 PM CST
Tomorrow is Christmas Eve. Seems to get here more quickly every year. Know that I'm continuing to pray for you and adding prayers as you face your first Christmas without Ellis.
Lk.2:6-7: And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered. And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Saturday, December 23, 2006 10:01 PM CST
I can't stop thinking about how much better this world is because of your son, and the two of you. THANKYOU!!!, for everything you and Ellis have done for all of us in Ellisville.

"Because I knew you, I have been changed for good!"

Thanks Bergstroms. Ellis will NEVER be forgotten.

With love and prayers,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, December 23, 2006 8:58 PM CST
Thinking of you both and praying for strength.
Erin <swtpeach499@aol.com>
Fort Worth, TX - Saturday, December 23, 2006 8:38 PM CST
Hi Bergstrom's,
Just wanted to let you know we are thinking of you during these holidays. As difficult as they will be for you, remember that Ellis gets to celebrate the birth of Christ with the birthday boy himself! We continue to think of you and pray each day for strength and peace for you and your family.
Baumgartner Family <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Saturday, December 23, 2006 8:12 PM CST
You all are in my prayers! Have a wonderful holiday and remember, Ellis is celebrating Christmas in the greatest place ever! God Bless you all!
Christina (Abbies co-worker) <boraas.christina@mayo.edu>
Zumbrota, mn - Saturday, December 23, 2006 5:11 PM CST
And I am going to say, "Ditto to what Cheryl wrote". I share her heartfelt feelings, for Ellis and for you, his parents. I pray for you as you face this first Christmas, without Ellis in your arms. However, he is still in your heart and will always be with you. Treat yourselves gently.
Tracey
Mn - Saturday, December 23, 2006 4:52 PM CST
I am thinking of you as you try to celebrate Christmas without your precious Ellis, and Ellis celebrates Christmas in heaven. I can only imagine how much you miss him. Thank you for sharing your beautiful tributes to Ellis. He was - and is- loved so much!
Annette McCabe <annette_lynn_mccabe@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, December 23, 2006 4:47 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
You are in our thoughts and prayers as we celebrate Jesus' birthday. I pray that God will give you the strength to get through this Christmas season. Just think, you have your own personal angel looking down on you. Emily put Ellis' heart ornament on our tree and everytime I see it I think of you. Thank you for sharing your letters to Ellis' with us, you are truly awesome parents and I know Ellis is very proud of you.
Patty Vorderbruggen <vortran@juno.com>
Albertville, MN USA - Saturday, December 23, 2006 12:12 AM CST
Just wanted you to know we're thinking of you and missing Ellis so much.
Kelly, Roger, Cole, Josie and Julia Bovee <kellyb@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Saturday, December 23, 2006 9:59 AM CST
First of all ditto on what Paul the Mandolin player wrote, he said it much better than I could. I haven't posted for awhile because first I was so sad, then I was like mad really mad at God for not making a miracle happen one more time. Then a couple of nites ago I had a dream about my father-in-law who has been dead for over 25 years, and I never really cared that much for him, but it was like a very beautiful dream that I can't remember, but it took all the sad and mad away. I have felt at peace since then.

Now I am just glad. Glad that I was sent the link that brought me to Ellis. Glad that I was able to read and know and learn from this special little soul. He taught me so much about life and how to live it in truly a pure way. That NO ONE is promised tomorrow, that all we have is the now. Those were just words before, now I realize that grab every minute of every day and live it!!! Will I always live that way, probably not, but when I forget all I do is remember Ellis.

I am sorry if this post sounds like it's about me, me, me, but your Ellis has effect/affected (can't ever get those straight)my life in such a profound way, that I can't find the words to express it!! Melissa and Sam, you have affected/effected my life in such a way. You have shown such pure selflessness in your love for your child and the way you have conducted yourself through this awful, yet wonderful ordeal. I think of you both all day every day, wondering how you are doing, hoping that you are doing as best you can through this holiday season. Knowing that your families are probably holding you close in their hearts.

We, your family on this site, some you know some you have never met, hold you close in our hearts and souls and pray for you and praise Ellis for being the warrior soul that he was, the sweet tender baby that he was and pure soul that he is. Thank you, thank you, thank you for sharing your son and yourselfs with us.

God Bless You!!!
Cheryl
- Saturday, December 23, 2006 9:32 AM CST
Sam and Melissa - my thoughts and prayers have been with you during this time of great sadness and loss. It has taken awhile for me to write to you, because your beautiful writings in the journal brought me close to all of you in heart and even though I do not know you, I felt I was with you each step of the way. My sister sent me the service bulletin. How comforting the words and music are. Ellis looks like a beautiful little angel. I admire your strength, Melissa and Sam. And the love that you gave your little boy was deep beyond compare. You and your family and friends will be in my thoughts and prayers for the rest of my life. And I will be fortunate to meet him in heaven!

Barbara (Heidemann) O'Neill <barbarak_oneill@msn.com>
Ft. Myers, FL USA - Saturday, December 23, 2006 8:13 AM CST
Sam and Missy you are both an inspiriation to all .Ellis was so lucky to have both of you as parents. There are so many kids that will never experience the love you shared with Ellis. God Bless both of you.
The memories of the dearly departed are indeed the wind beneath our wings. We gain strength from their goodness. We stand tall on the shoulders of those who go on before us. We remember the beautiful moments. We mourn soulfully over our losses. We absorb the pain.
leanne poshusta <lkposhusta@charter.net>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 9:57 PM CST
Family of Ellis, my daily prayer is that you are receiving comfort in the love of others and the memory of your brave boy who gave and received love so beautifully. And at solstice time, in these dark days, I pray that you may depend on the light to return.
Peg <pbe@lstc.edu>
Chicago, - Friday, December 22, 2006 6:14 PM CST
Thank you so much for posting both of the letters. Sam and Melissa---they were so beautiful.
I re-watched the little video clips of Ellis. I loved the one where he was reciting "what the animals say." That was precious beyond belief. There is not an hour that goes by when I don't think of Ellis.
No matter how hard I try, I can't even begin to make sense of all this. The little part of my heart that Ellis snuck into won't even begin to heal. The platitudes that I come up with---or that other people come up with---ultimately seem so empty and cold compared to the sweet smile of your son.
I pray for you guys every day. But how does healing come? Is there healing for this? Will the deep wounds on your souls be like ever bleeding stigmata?
Maybe healing isn't what we should pray for. Acceptance? Yes, because there is no alternative. But healing? May the wounds in our souls never heal. May they flow freely forever with the memory of such a beautiful child.
Melissa and Sam, I loved Ellis. God, I miss him. Thank you so much for keeping this website up. Stay strong in the beauty of your son.
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 3:56 PM CST
Just stopping by to wish you a warm holiday. I hope you have a relaxing couple of days and know your stongest ANGLE in the world is with you ALWAYS.
margaret
west saint paul, mn usa! - Friday, December 22, 2006 2:42 PM CST
Thanks for sharing your beautiful tributes to Ellis. Many thoughts and prayers continue...
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 2:34 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
We continue to keep you close in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers each day. Now we are keeping watch with you two, as we did with Ellis. We were honored to be a part of the community at Ellis's memorial service, and were deeply moved by the incredible expressions and linkings of celebration for his life and grief for his death. These dark days of December feel reflective of what is...and at the same time, in your profound sorrow, may you know a glimmer of Solstice Light and Advent Love.
Love,
Marilynn and Phil

Marilynn Bast and Phil Kofron (ECLC) <marilynnkb@aol.com>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 2:14 PM CST
Hello Sweet Ellis,
Thinking of you every day...hoping you are having so much fun.....have a very merry christmas in Heaven!!

Sam and Melissa,
Happy Holidays to both of you.....I know they will be tough this year, you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 2:00 PM CST
Thank you for sharing your beautiful letters. I say a prayer for both of you multiple times a day as I visit Ellis's site. Praying God's peace upon both of you as you cherish the memories this Christmas time. Ellis lives on in all those that loved him! God Bless you and your families - Merry Christmas!
Amy (King) Nelson <amynelson@dmbroadband.com>
Stewartville, MN USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 1:36 PM CST
I have thought about you each day since hearing
about Ellis and checking on him and his site.
I pray that you can find comfort and peace during
this holiday season. Your written letters to Ellis
are just beautiful and I wish all of us could express
ourselves to our loved ones like that each day!!!

May God Bless you both and your families.

Take care.
Carley
Racine, MN USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 1:26 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, Just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayers! Your words are beautiful! I can't stop coming to this site. I think of your darling angel Ellis every day! May the Lord's Peace be with you today and always!
Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, December 22, 2006 1:15 PM CST
Thoughts and prayers continue. Not one day goes by that I don't think about your amazing son! God Bless you. Happy Holidays to you and your families.
With love,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Friday, December 22, 2006 12:55 AM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
It's hard to stop visiting this site. I hope these messages continue to sustain you through the holidays.
God bless.
Marilyn Rausch
- Friday, December 22, 2006 12:51 AM CST
I continue to pray for your family of three over this wonderous Holiday Season.
Roxann <horsesetc@msn.com>
Audubon, MN USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 12:22 AM CST
Thinking of you all during the holiday season.
Robin Brunet <robinb@start.ca>
Bradford, Ontario Canada - Friday, December 22, 2006 10:32 AM CST
Sam&Melissa thinking of you today as we do everyday.May yours hearts get alittle less heavy with each day...
Thank you both again for sharing your most personel thoughts with us...you have inspired us more than you will ever know we truely are changed for ever....
As a family we are leaving for the Holidays today Cabo san Lucas you taught us "family"...
is so much more important than a house full of gifts...we will think of both of you and your little angel as we spend some much needed quality family time away with no phones...
You have made us better people and have touched so many...
God Bless you all...Continued love&healing prayers greg anne ben meyer
Troy kristen leighton baylor stebbins
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Friday, December 22, 2006 8:44 AM CST
Thinking of you this holiday season ---
Jeff & Donna Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Friday, December 22, 2006 8:40 AM CST
hello! the stma band played down in the atrium this morning just a few of us and as i played i could just see ellis listening to us and playing and dancing with angels! In our hearts and prayers!
Love,
Alyssa Gallagher <starangle1@juno.com>
St.Michael, MN - Friday, December 22, 2006 0:55 AM CST
Melissa and Sam,
I saw this on Katelyn Craft's CB site and it reminded me immediately of Ellis. I hope this doesn't take up to much space, but I thought I'd share it with you. I think of Ellis often. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
Karen, Isaac's Mom
www.caringbridge.org/visit/isaachatfield

The Brave Little Soul
By: John Alessi

Not too long ago in Heaven there was a little soul who took wonder in observing the world. She especially enjoyed the love she saw there and often expressed this joy with God. One day however the little soul was sad, for on this day she saw suffering in the world. She approached God and sadly asked, “Why do bad things happen; why is there suffering in the world?” God paused for a moment and replied, "Little soul, do not be sad, for the suffering you see, unlocks the love in people’s hearts.” The little soul was confused. “What do you mean,” she asked.” God replied, “Have you not noticed the goodness and love that is the offspring of that suffering? Look at how people come together, drop their differences and show their love and compassion for those who suffer. All their other motivations disappear and they become motivated by love alone.” The little soul began to understand and listened attentively as God continued, “The suffering soul unlocks the love in people’s hearts much like the sun and the rain unlock the flower within the seed. I created everyone with endless love in their heart, but unfortunately most people keep it locked up and hardly share it with anyone. They are afraid to let their love shine freely, because they are afraid of being hurt. But a suffering soul unlocks that love. I tell you this - it is the greatest miracle of all. Many souls have bravely chosen to go into the world and suffer - to unlock this love – to create this miracle - for the good of all humanity."

Just then the little soul got a wonderful idea and could hardly contain herself. With her wings fluttering, bouncing up and down, the little soul excitedly replied, "I am brave; let me go! I would like to go into the world and suffer so that I can unlock the goodness and love in people’s hearts! I want to create that miracle!" God smiled and said, "You are a brave soul I know, and thus I will grant your request. But even though you are very brave you will not be able to do this alone. I have known since the beginning of time that you would ask for this and so I have carefully selected many souls to care for you on your journey. Those souls will help you create your miracle; however they will also share in your suffering. Two of these souls are most special and will care for you, help you and suffer along with you, far beyond the others. They have already chosen a name for you. God and the brave little soul shared a smile, and then embraced.

In parting, God said, “Do not forget little soul that I will be with you always. Although you have agreed to bear the pain, you will do so through my strength. And if the time should come when you feel that you have suffered enough, just say the word, think the thought, and you will be healed.” Thus at that moment the brave little soul was born into the world, and through her suffering and God’s strength, she unlocked the goodness and love in people’s hearts. For so many people dropped their differences and came together to show their love. Priorities became properly aligned. People gave from their hearts. Those that were always too busy found time. Many began new spiritual journeys – some regained lost faith – many came back to God. Parents hugged their children tighter. Friends and family grew closer. Old friends got together and new friendships were made. Distant family reunited, and every family spent more time together. Everyone prayed. Peace and love reigned. Lives changed forever. It was good. The world was a better place. The miracle had happened. God was pleased.
Karen Hatfield <wkhatfield812@yahoo.com>
Coarsegold, CA - Thursday, December 21, 2006 10:08 PM CST
How are you today? Thinking of you often. Missing Ellis.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Thursday, December 21, 2006 9:39 PM CST
We are still praying for both of you.

Love,

Abby Dodds <abbyrose_85@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Thursday, December 21, 2006 8:45 PM CST
I am thinking alot about you tonight. I think it was so sweet of you to share you letters with all the people in Ellisville, even us strangers who don't know you. I am so impressed that I feel as if I have run out of words (and that isn't easy for me to do!!! :) Please keep your spirits up, as best you can, knowing that you both have unbreakable spirits. I can't imagine the depth of your grief, but the depth of your love for each other and Ellis is radiating throughout Ellisville...tonight and always. Love, Jessica Diedrich
Jess Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Thursday, December 21, 2006 8:41 PM CST
Mr. B and Melissa, thinking about you and praying for you both everyday.
Jessica Anderson <tennis_star232@hotmail.com>
St. Michael , mn - Thursday, December 21, 2006 5:12 PM CST
Melissa and Sam, I am another visitor who never met Ellis or you but your story has deeply touched me. I learned about Ellis from Mike Frickstad and after one visit to Ellisville I was drawn to check on him often. You are in my prayers. Ellis was so lucky to have parents like you. The lessons you learned from your little boy have been brought home to so many others, me included. Thank you for sharing Ellis with all of us.
Kim Battern
Maple Grove, MN - Thursday, December 21, 2006 10:57 AM CST
Holding you close in my heart!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel
Becker, - Thursday, December 21, 2006 10:57 AM CST
I can only imagine who will be playing the drums on Christmas morning in Heaven. I know you all miss him more than words can begin to express. My prayers are with you and your parents and all of Ellis' family members and friends. He sure did touch a lot of hearts.
Nancy
Nashville, - Thursday, December 21, 2006 8:37 AM CST
Sam and Melissa, This morning the band played Christmas songs and as they did I pitured Ellis dancing and singing in all of heavens spender. I just want you to know that the both of you are still close in our hearts every day. Time may be passing but Ellis's life lessons have not been forgotten. The two of you have also taught us so much. You both have inspired me be to be a better Mama for Chase and a better wife for Chad. Relationships that we have with family and friends are the greatest gifts of all. Plase, during this holiday season let your family love you, take care of you, listen to you, confort you and hug you. Ellis is working through your family and friends. He wants his Mama and Dadda to be ok. Every time someone shows you love Ellis is there. Feel the love for he is with you and so are we. You will be on our hearts and minds many times in the coming days.

Peace and Love,
Shannon and Family
Shannnon Schulzetenberg <Shannons@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Thursday, December 21, 2006 8:29 AM CST
What a long emptiness here in Ellisville and it just seems wrong for it to end. I can't imagine how you 2 are getting through..sometimes it seems it would be nice to speed up time so some of that pain lessons. You are in all our thoughts many times a day and most of the time, we just don't have the words to soften the blow. It's so odd that this time of the year so often brings pain, I suppose that is one of the many lows in life we'll understand some day. Ellis shines on our Chritmas tree and that is certainly one ornament that will NOT be packed away. Hoping you are at least getting some rest. Your tributes to your son are just so touching. You know that we in Ellisville read those over and over. How many of us do you think have printed them out and keep them near our devotional material??? That's how reminding and powerful they are. Thank you for sharing when you are able. You sustain us also!
Cathy Ann DeJarlais <mommydearest43@juno.com>
Champlin, - Thursday, December 21, 2006 7:51 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,

I still continue to visit this site several times a day. Melissa, when you are ready, I wish you'd post some additional pictures of Ellis that we haven't seen. There were so many at his memorial service that were so great! I'd love that. If you don't, I understand. We continue to pray for your family daily.

God Bless
Pam

Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, December 21, 2006 7:07 AM CST
Ellis is going to have a good christmas celebrating Jesus' Birthday!! I imagine he will probley play the drums in the band that is going to be playing at the party!! :)

Just thinking of the both of you as christmas is drawing nearer and nearer with each passing day!! I pray that you will find comfort, strength and alot of peace.
With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.

Love always,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, mn - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 10:08 PM CST
Ellis is celebrating Jesus' birthday with Him!!! He's having the best Christmas!

I am thinking of the two of you as Christmas gets closer and closer..praying that you find comfort, strength, and most of all peace. I can just see him now! Him and all his new friends, planning a HUGE birthday bash! :0)

God's GREATEST blessings unto you and your families.
With love,
Sara Q. <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 8:10 PM CST
I am sorry for your loss. Ellis was very lucky to have you for parents and you are lucky to have him. You are amazing parents to give him all that you did. I will be praying for you. God Bless You

Donna Robinson <drobinson1027@aol.com>
Williamston, SC USA - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 6:36 PM CST
I am in awe of your letter to your precious son, Ellis. Those thoughts and feelings that you wrote to your son are magnificent. What a fighter Ellis was. I guess he really had those doctors surprised. I lost a daughter from a congenital heart defect a few years ago. She was only 6 days old when she passed on, but she was a fighter. She just couldn't fight very long. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Ellis will always be in my heart.
Suzanne MacDonald
Lubbock, TX United States - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 4:31 PM CST
You are one amazing set of parents. Your last journal entry really blew me away. I will think of it often and Ellis has changed the lives of so many of us left behind. Julie
Julie <mjparater@aol.com>
Lutz, Fl - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 12:53 AM CST
I have been reading your entries and wanted to thank you. You have taught me that everyday with my son is a gift and that I need to be thankful for him every second. I'm so deeply sorry for your lose. I will be thinking and praying for you.
April
Fargo, ND USA - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 12:20 AM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Sara hung the little red Ellis heart on our Christmas tree...everytime I look at him smiling so big, I think of him having the best Christmas of all of us. It's always hard for those of us who are left behind in this earthly life, but it's our faith that tells us that he is that special little drummer boy spending his first Christmas with Jesus. What a beautiful little drummer boy he is! May God bless your heavy hearts with love and peace this Christmas season. Our thoughts are with you.
Marilyn Quarberg <marilyn.quarberg@anokaramsey.edu>
Coon Rapids, - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 12:20 AM CST
Hi guys-
Just thinking of you today, and wanting you to know.
Katie Koestler <bkfarm@frontiernet.net>
Walters, MN - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 11:39 AM CST
Your tributes to Ellis have touched my heart.
Thank you both for sharing with us.
I think of your little man often.
He will continue to move mountains.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/rachelanne
monica
georgia, - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 11:09 AM CST
Your tribute to Ellis brought tears to my eyes. I knew he had medical complications, but I never knew they were to that extent. I never knew he had damage to his brain, and the doctors said he would never do so many things. And just look at him - he knocked down all of the barriers they put before him, plus a lot more! I can really sympathize with what you said about dreaming of telling his story to him and to others when he's older. I wanted to let you know that I will never forget his story. I will tell our friends at my son's hospital about the incredibly strong, brave little boy who accomplished so much in two years and taught us more than any university professor could. Ellis is a true inspiration to us; his story gives us the will to keep fighting. He is our hero.
Please know that I am praying every day for Ellis and his wonderful family. Take care and God bless.
Hugs,
Johanna and Daniel
www.caringbridge.org/visit/danieljr
Johanna
MA - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 9:02 AM CST
Ellis was so fortunate to have such loving parents. God's blessings be with you at this difficult time. Prayers are with you.
Mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, MN usa - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 8:48 AM CST
What a beautiful tribute to your son. You are all such amazing people and I thank you for allowing me to be a part of it all. Through you, I have learned to be a much more loving and forgiving parent and have learned to take time to cherish my short time with my son here on Earth. And now, I will take time to sit down with him outside and just look at the many rocks on this earth. Please know that you continue to be in my prayers and thank you from the bottom of my heart for a much needed life lesson - I am just so sorry that you have had to suffer so much during this time!
Lisa Buchanan <lbuchana@davisfloyd.com>
Greenwood, SC USA - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 8:31 AM CST
Sam and Melissa - What a beautiful tribute from a loving father to a wonderful son. May God bless both of you during the coming Christmas season.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 7:40 AM CST
Our thoughts are with you during the holidays!
Brandy Brunmaier and Chris Barott <c_barott@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN 55449 - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 1:58 AM CST
Thank you for sharing your letter, Sam. You will always be Ellis' daddy, always.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 9:04 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, Thankyou so much for sharing your beautiful little boy with us. I will never forget any of you. He was a very lucky little boy. Never a second went by that I'm sure he didn't feel the love you both had for him. You also were lucky to have such a special little boy. I hope God gives you both the love and courage to get thru these hard times. I will continue to pray for you both. Jean
Jean Norton <Jeano1946@msn.com>
Austin, Mn. Mower - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 8:12 PM CST
A complete stranger...crying again...praying for you. What a beautiful letter. Ellis, you have taught me to NEVER take for granted my children, to let them stop and look at rocks, to put down whatever it is that feels so important to me to accomplish when they ask for my time. Time is short...we'll be stopping to smell the roses thanks to Ellis.
L Chase
Rochester, NY - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 6:21 PM CST
Don't you ever doubt it for I am sure that without you even knowing it, Ellis received his strenth and endurance from you and his Mother. You have set the standard for loving parents and should feel very proud of yourself and your son.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts with each of us and know that Ellis knows how much he was loved and is smiling down tonight at how lucky he was to be born into such a wonderful family. May God bless you both.
sophie Shoaf <sshoaf@charter.net>
Spartanburg, sc usa - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 5:01 PM CST
Sam...through tears I say "that was a beautiful dedication" to a beautiful little angel! He was truly a Gift from God, when everyone else said NO, God said "YES!" Thank you for inviting us in your lives, Baby Ellis will always be remembered as a true fighter!
Dawn <dpickens_42@yahoo.com>
Beaumont, Tx - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 3:34 PM CST
Sam,
Thank you for sharing you letter with all of us. Ellis was the bravest boy in the world and was very blessed to have you both as parents. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.
Love,
Dana <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 2:55 PM CST
Sam,

thanks for sharing your letter to Ellis one more time.
You were and are the best dada Ellis could have been blessed with.
Auntie Bergie <bergiec@yahoo.com>
Mpls, Mn USA - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 1:38 PM CST
What a beautifully worded tribute to your son and your wife! I'm sure he is very proud to have tought you all the things he did in his short life. You will all be in my prayers for years to come.
A silent Ellisville (er)
Inver Grove Heights, mn - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 12:29 AM CST
Sam and Melissa, Thank you for sharing your stories of Ellis with us all. Ellis was so lucky to have such caring parents who would do anything for him. I think Ellis taught so many of us in Ellisville about what life should really be about. Even though I never met Ellis, I will never forget him and his amazing life journey. We will continue praying for you both.
Tara (Clark) Aldrich and family <jtaldrich@earthlink.net>
Shakopee, MN - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 12:27 AM CST
Beautiful..................thank you for sharing. Blessings to all of you.
Love, The Botz's
Mary Botz <jmbotz@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, December 19, 2006 11:41 AM CST
Sam & Melissa~

Thank you for sharing your beautiful, touching words to Ellis. It's amazing to read the guestbook, and see how this amazing, strong and bravest little boy has touched the hearts and lives of people all around the country. I'm sure the two of you never tried to be an inspiration to so many, you were just doing what parents do -- love their children. But, you did so in a way far above and beyond what many parents can strive for, and you shared this most personal journey with us. As a thank you for letting us be a part of this bravest, strongest little boy in the world's life, we will all strive to be better parents, and better people, for Ellis, but also for you two, Sam and Melissa.
I find myself coming to the site many times a day -- waiting for words from you, or just to read the guestbook entries, and know that there are so many like myself finding comfort here, and trying to make sense of what all has happened over the past two and a half years. It's a tight knit community here in Ellisville, with supporters far and wide. An amazing thing has happened here, and I'm so happy/touched to be a part of it.
Thinking of you everyday, and keeping you close.

Melissa & Jeremy Wilson - Aiden, Lathan & Garrin <mwilson@larsonallen.com>
Austin, MN - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 10:44 AM CST
While reading to your writing, Sam....remembering this quote "When a child comes into your life, it fills a special place inside your heart...a place you never knew was empty." (unknown)
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 10:21 AM CST
Thank you for sharing your letter, Sam. You guys continue to amaze all of us. Ellis was so utterly blessed to have you as his mama and dada. I am praying for both of you always!
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 9:42 AM CST
What a wonderful story of your dear Ellis. I continue to pray for you both during this difficult time. Christmas right around the corner and I know that will be a very hard day. I will be praying for you. I know that Ellis will fill your hearts of your special Memories you shared with him.
In his Loving Arms, Jennifer Hines <creative_jenny@cox.net>
Mesa, AZ - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 8:46 AM CST
Thank you so much for sharing your stories of your brave little Ellis with the world. I will never be the same because of him. He has taught me about the kind of mom I want to be and I think of him so often. May God bless you and your family, you are truely remarkable parents! That little guy was the luckiest to have had you!
Nicole (Farnum) Fix & family <tanfix@charter.net>
Rochester, MN - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 8:29 AM CST
Such beautiful and moving letters from WONDERFUL parents. Your story continues to inspire me and make me extra thankful for what we have. Our continued prayers with you and your entire family.
Baumgartner <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, il - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 8:27 AM CST
That was beautiful, your Ellis is beautiful. He was an amazing little boy. I am so thankful you shared him with all of us, thank you
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 7:33 AM CST
such a beautiful and amazing tribute to your son. he has touched and taugh SO many- stay proud and stay strong! your family is in my thoughts-
margaret
west saint paul, mn usa! - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 7:25 AM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,

I have printed and laminated your beautiful letters to Ellis. I have and will continue to read them frequently to remind myself of what is really important in life. Ellis' memory will live on in all of us he has touched. I'm trying to be a kinder, more gentle and understanding person because of Ellis. He was a gift!!

Love and Peace,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 7:19 AM CST
This is the only time I've ever signed, (I'm sorry to say), even though I have followed your story for a long time. Your letter to your loving son just inspired me beyond words. I am fortunate to have never have lost a child (I have 3), but I admire you beyond words that you can still find something positive from this loss. To say your son taught you so much and that all this hard stuff here is worth it just to get to the good stuff inspired me beyond words. I sometimes get down and depressed and worried over such trivial things, and then to hear you say the things you did over something like this is just wonderful to me. This shouldn't be about me though. I am proud of you, as a family, and proud of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you this Holiday season. Please know Ellis is with you, in your house, not just in the physical form.
Amy <ghstead@tampabay.rr.com>
Tampa, FL - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 6:45 AM CST
You are never far from thoughts and prayers as each day passes. May you continue to find comfort in knowing that sweet little angel is watching over you all. To have touched so many lives that Ellis and you both did, has been a true blessing in our lives and his memory lives on in our hearts always --- God Bless & Comfort You! ("
Donna & Jeff Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 6:39 AM CST
Hello from another complete stranger who has been so touched by Ellis' life. Thank you for sharing your story, your ups and downs, sharing your beautiful, smart, funny son though words and pictures so that people who couldn't meet Ellis in person are able to learn from him too. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kat
New York, NY - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 0:28 AM CST
Sam&Melissa...Again your beautiful letters brought tears to our eyes..Thank you for sharing your most personel thoughts with us ...but most of all for letting all of us be a part of your little angels life.Truely we will never be the same.God Bless..continued thoughts.prayers.hugs sent your way...love The Meyer's
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 0:00 AM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa, thank you for sharing such love-filled letters. Your Ellis certainly is an inspiration to many. We think of Ellis and your family very, very often. Peace to you.
Erin W. <erw01@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN - Monday, December 18, 2006 10:28 PM CST
Thank you for sharing your special writing.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Monday, December 18, 2006 10:16 PM CST
I continue to be amazed by your strength. What beautiful words you wrote to your son. I have so much admiration for both of you. As I said, I never had the opportunity to meet Ellis, but he has truly changed the way I live my life and I am forever grateful to you all. You are always in our prayers.
Kristen, Troy, Leighton, and Baylor Stebbins <kristenstebbins@yahoo.com>
Savage, MN - Monday, December 18, 2006 10:15 PM CST
With a tearful eye I thank you for sharing your story with us. Your son has taught us all a lesson. "slow down and smell the roses...stop and look at the rocks". I am saddened by the loss you must be feeling but am so grateful that Ellis was born to such wonderful parents. God knows what we can handle. The two of you are amazing. Stay strong.
Sheila
- Monday, December 18, 2006 10:07 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,

Thank you for sharing Ellis with the world. As I read the response from all across the country, I marvel that one small person can touch so many people in such profound ways. His spirit, his strength, and his determination are such an inspiration. And that you two could share your love for him in such eloquent words in the face of so many conflicting emotions…It’s easy to see where Ellis’s personality came from.

The three of you have given us all a great gift. As we have followed your story, we have seen what the gift of love can do, that it can change lives forever, that it can confound worldly wisdom, that it can transform the darkest days to moments of wonder and awe.

May God always hold you in His arms and bless you, as you have blessed us. You are awesome.

Love,
Mike Frickstad

Mike Frickstad <mfrickstad@mac.com>
St Michael, MN USA - Monday, December 18, 2006 10:07 PM CST
Thank you so much for sharing....It was beautiful.....You all are one special family.....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Monday, December 18, 2006 9:51 PM CST
I know it will bring small comfort, but I will promise you this...I will continue to tell Ellis' amazing story forever. Your inspiring little man will continue to inspire!
Thank you, thank you, thank you...for sharing your amazing son, his amazing journey and his legacy that will last a lifetime!
With Awe,
~Sarah Larkin
Sarah Larkin <slarkin45@gmail.com>
Frisco, TX UNITED STATES - Monday, December 18, 2006 9:46 PM CST
I have nothing but prayers to give you. Peace.
Kathryn Campbell <campfam@htc.net>
Columbia, IL - Monday, December 18, 2006 9:14 PM CST
dear sam & melissa,
there was no one else that could have been Ellis's parents then you two. you were blessed to have him and him, you.
love,
the horn's
the horns
kennesaw, ga usa - Monday, December 18, 2006 8:48 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, Thanks so much for sharing your letters and for sharing all that is Ellis with us. Please know we miss him and that we continue to pray for you and for him. He was the impossible, and he will continue to remind us that there is a time for every purpose under heaven. God bless you as you continue to deal with this hand that you have been given.
Kris, Mike, Lucas and Jenna Jenkins
- Monday, December 18, 2006 7:55 PM CST
What a beautiful letter to Ellis. He is such a lucky boy to have parents that love him so much. He truly is a special guy. Thinking about you guys and wishing you peace.
Kathy McKenna <kathyhome@adelphia.net>
South Point, OH - Monday, December 18, 2006 7:40 PM CST
Sam,
Thanks for sharing your letter to Ellis; what a loving tribute to him "the little drummer boy" who will live forever in our hearts. Please know we continue to send love and light to you Melissa during this difficult time as well as to Ellis up in heaven.
Cheryl Klinkhammer <pgonefishin8@yahoo.com>
Albertville, - Monday, December 18, 2006 7:38 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,

What wonderful letters to your precious Ellis! I'm sure he knew how lucky he was to have such wonderful parents. You're right, the doctors don't know everything. Our special babies prove them wrong all the time.

Love,

Vicki Fields (Jayden's Mommy)

www.caringbridge.org/visit/jayden
Vicki Fields <jarjaysmom@aol.com>
Louisville, KY US - Monday, December 18, 2006 6:13 PM CST
Maybe two more words.....THANK YOU.
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Monday, December 18, 2006 6:06 PM CST
I am moved-I mean, not just moved, but I can feel the physical affect on my body right now...chills, tears, heartache, strength from your words...all from this letter. I can see why God chose Ellis's Mama and Dada to be you, Sam and Melissa. There are no more words...well, maybe one: WOW.
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Monday, December 18, 2006 6:05 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
You both are awesome parents,ELLIS was very lucky to have such awesome parents!Ellis is now your precious ANGEL looking down from HEAVEN above.Thank you for sharing your jorney with us!!Ellis was and still is an awesome Angel!!
Always hold on to GOD for he choose you two awesome people for the bravest boy in the world!!That is a real privalge!!
Thank you again.I will be praying for you both as the days ahead unfold!! God Bless!! Love and hugs Angel Pat from Zion Il.
Pat Donile
Zion, Il. - Monday, December 18, 2006 5:49 PM CST
I jsut love the letter in todays entry it has moved me to tears. God chose you to be Ellis' parents because he knew how special you are and knew that you could and always love that little boy unconditionally. He is smiling at your right now and thanking you for not giving up on him and all of your support in his 2 1/2 years here on Earth.
I will pray for you and your family.
Lynn Miller <lymiller01@comcast.net>
Anoka, MN USA - Monday, December 18, 2006 5:12 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, Your letters have moved me to tears. It is so apparent how much you love Ellis. I am so happy that Ellis had you for parents. God choose the both of you because he knew how much you would love, support and encourage him. I have no doubts in my mind that Ellis is doing the same for his mama and dada from heaven. My prayer for the both of you is to feel it for he is with you. Peace and Love,
Shannon
Shannon Schulztenberg <Shannons@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Monday, December 18, 2006 4:18 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, Your letters have moved me to tears. It is so apparent how much you love Ellis. I am so happy that Ellis had you for parents. God choose the both of you because he knew how much you would love, support and encourage him. I have no doubts in my mind that Ellis is doing the same for his mama and dada from heaven. My prayer for the both of you is to feel it for he is with you. Peace and Love,
Shannon
Shannon Schulztenberg <Shannons@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Monday, December 18, 2006 4:17 PM CST
Thank you for teaching all the rest of us to take the time to appreciate the little things in life. You have given us all such a gift to know you and to know Ellis. Thank you for sharing such intimate words between a father and son. God bless you and hold you close, now and always-
Heidi Linhoff <hjlinhoff@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn Park, MN - Monday, December 18, 2006 4:11 PM CST
Sam, what a beautiful tribute to Ellis... what a story tell! I pray somewhere in your future you have the opportunity to share this beautiful story with others...


Brenda Ladell <ladells@cox.net>
Paris, TX USA - Monday, December 18, 2006 4:11 PM CST
Again, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Sam, your letter is a wonderful gift! Children often teach the simple, but most important lessons in life. Ellis is a professor, and we are all lucky to be his students.
Thank you for sharing your son with all of us!
Love~
Racqel
Racqel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, - Monday, December 18, 2006 3:56 PM CST
Ellis was SO lucky to have you two as his mama and dada and I know you will always be his mama and dada. Still praying for you. God Bless you always.

With love,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Monday, December 18, 2006 3:21 PM CST
What a beautiful letter to your son. He was a beautiful little man. Thinking of you this holiday season.
Lori Winkel <jlthwink@sbcglobal.net>
Suamico, Wi - Monday, December 18, 2006 3:11 PM CST
Thank you, Sam. I meant to help you this week and you ended up helping me incredibly with your letter. Thank you for your words. love jeff
Jeff Siegfried <sieg0095@gmail.com>
Mpls, MN - Monday, December 18, 2006 2:52 PM CST
Thinking of both you each and every day....praying for your comfort. I still come by here daily to look at that sweet little face of precious Ellis!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 18, 2006 11:29 AM CST
The story of your son lives on strong. We sing and think of him. We pray and think of him. We remember and we think of him. We tell stories and speak of him. We cry and we think of him. We get angry think of him as he softens our rough edges. We feel thankful and we think of him.... I realize that gave so much for all of us. We live on in his everlasting spirit and strength and light. How we all miss him. Warm Wishes for you and your family...
With Love, The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
Nw Hope, MN USA - Monday, December 18, 2006 10:05 AM CST
I know it won't make it any easier for you....but I have a beautiful image in my mind of Ellis having a grand time at Jesus' birthday party this year. Please know that I am praying for your comfort.
Susan Lumpkin <hrcmstrble@aol.com>
Calera, AL USA - Monday, December 18, 2006 9:03 AM CST
Continuing to keep you so very close in thoughts and prayers...
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Monday, December 18, 2006 7:55 AM CST
Sam & Melissa,
Praying for you everyday and hoping you have peace in your hearts as we prepare to celebrate Christmas.
May God watch over and protect you always.
Love, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Monday, December 18, 2006 7:05 AM CST
Ellis's Christmas heart ornament has been a beautiful reminder of his and your strength, bravery, joy, tenderness, and love. We've hung it low on our Christmas tree so the kids can see it and touch it.

My 5 year old, Grace, and I were looking at it the other day and she said, "Ellis is in all of our hearts. I can't stop thinking about him." Later she said, "You know, Mom, his parents think he is gone, but he is with us ALL the time."

The next day, Hope, who is 3, was looking at it and said, "He died...and he came to Jesus. It's a good place to be!"

I know they are right.

We love you.


Sara Mize <mizefamily@mac.com>
edina, mN - Monday, December 18, 2006 4:49 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,

Sitting here thinking of each of you.
Terese Gammell <tereseg@stma.k12.mn>
St. Michael, Mn US - Sunday, December 17, 2006 11:27 PM CST
Ellis may no longer be physically with us anymore here but Ellisville is still filled with so much love and prayer for this special little angel and his family....Ellis is in our thoughts and his Mom and Dad are in our prayers....I am sure Ellis is so happy not to be sick anymore.....He was such a trooper and he made the world fall in love with him.....and most of us in Ellisville never got the chance to meet him or his parents but still he brought us all together.....He will always be special to us all....Thank you again for sharing him with us all....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Sunday, December 17, 2006 11:07 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,

We're thinking of you and praying for your hearts to be at peace.

We'll be here for you guys always.
Kelly, Roger, Cole, Josie and Julia <kellyb@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Sunday, December 17, 2006 10:06 PM CST
We had a Christmas party at our house last night, and someone asked about Ellis's heart ornament that is hanging front and center on our tree...and I had the opportunity to tell his amazing story of the greatest strength, bravery, and peace. Just wanted to let you know that there's not a day that goes by that I'm not holding him and both of you close. Your littlest angel is sending the greatest peace imaginable in this time of unimaginable emotion.
Kristen <kristen.genet@anokaramsey.edu>
- Sunday, December 17, 2006 9:39 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
Today I was at the MOA shopping. I was in Archivers looking for scrapbooking stuff and stumbled upon a cool scrapbook. The book had Elmo on the front cover, and I remembered how much Ellis loved Elmo. We are all still here praying and rooting for the both of you. May you find peace and comfort knowing that god is near holding your hand through this rough journey. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Love always,
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, December 17, 2006 9:37 PM CST
I really miss Ellis.
Paul <mandolinhahn@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 17, 2006 9:34 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers continue for you each day.
We just hung our ornament for Angel Ellis on our tree and will treasure our memories of him forever.
Glenda Hagen (New Life Lutheran) <Hage6@sbcglobal.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Sunday, December 17, 2006 7:37 PM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,

I haven't written in a few days because I truly do not know what to say. There are no words. No platitudes. No comfort we as humans can offer. I pray that you can feel the love and comfort of God as he has you in the same hand He has Ellis...and he smiles because He knows the plan, and it's good, and one day you'll all be reunited. Until then, you are in my constant thoughts and all of my prayers. I wish you all the peace and love you deserve, after loving the bravest boy in the world so very very dearly. I am still in awe of Melissa's eulogy and cannot express how impressed I am with both of you as parents. Take care and hold each other close. Love, jessica Diedrich
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Sunday, December 17, 2006 7:13 PM CST
Still thinking about you and these dificult days that follow. Hope you find peace.
Sandy Zahler (Trina's Mom) <smak4zah@earthlink.net>
St. Michael, mn usa - Sunday, December 17, 2006 7:13 PM CST
I think of you daily.
Mary Ann
Houston, - Sunday, December 17, 2006 5:55 PM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,

You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. When I'm walking my dogs at night, I look up to the stars and talk to Ellis. I know he hears me.... God is taking good care of him till you all meet again.

Love,
Pam
OsbornP@comcast.net <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Sunday, December 17, 2006 3:55 PM CST
Melissa & Sam - Just to let you know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I think of sweet tender Ellis all the time.

God Bless You Both!!!
Cheryl
- Sunday, December 17, 2006 1:54 PM CST
Just wanted you to know that I'm still thinking of and praying for you every day.
Brandon Cross <rooftopcross@hotmail.com>
River Falls, WI United States - Sunday, December 17, 2006 1:45 PM CST
I'm thinking about you guys. I pray that everyday is getting easier for you. We are all still here rooting for you two! God Bless you Sam and Melissa.

With love,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Sunday, December 17, 2006 1:15 PM CST
We are all still here in Ellisville, praying for God's peace and comfort for both of you.

Love,
Abby Dodds <abbyrose_85@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Sunday, December 17, 2006 11:53 AM CST
Picked a verse that speaks of what happened around here a couple of nights ago. I live in Seattle, and the Lord brought "the wind out of his treasuries"! We lost power for about 14 hours and the internet for a lot more.
But I'm back now and know that your family is still in my prayers!
Ps 135:7 He causeth the vapours to ascend from the ends of the earth; he maketh lightnings for the rain; he bringeth the wind out of his treasuries.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, December 17, 2006 1:56 AM CST
We are still here, whenever you need us. In peace and love.
Sara Mize <mizefamily@mac.com>
Edina, MN - Saturday, December 16, 2006 10:27 PM CST
Dearest Melissa and Sam, Hannah would like you to know that she is sure that her Grandfather Dick is showing Ellis how to build all sorts of stuff out of wood, because he was a carpenter and also teaching him how to fish. Oh, how he loved to fish! There is plenty of singing and dancing too! Some day we all will be together again,

Sincerely,In Christ
The Dickinsons
Michael Dickinson <modicko@netzero.net>
Robbinsdale, mn U.S.A. - Saturday, December 16, 2006 9:47 PM CST
I can't say anything to comfort you that hasn't already been said but do know that your words and your special little Ellis have also touched my life in ways that I can not even attempt to explain....he will be sorely missed by all!

In one of the Stars
I Shall be living
In one of them
I Shall be laughing
And so it will be
As if all the Stars
Were laughing
When you look
At the Sky at night

- The Little Prince

Carol Bandusky (New Life Lutheran Church)
Bolingbrook, IL USA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 9:45 PM CST
Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about and praying for you and your families. Ellisville just keeps growing. It is amazing that such a small child could touch so many lives but Ellis touched my heart the first time I came across his site. I've never met any of you but it is a pleasure to have gotten to know your family through this site.I have laughed and cried but ALWAYS felt blessed just to "know Ellis" Here's hoping that our love and prayers will somehow bring comfort to you. Thank you for sharing the bravest little boy in the world with us.
meloney <meloneydyer@yahoo.com>
tx - Saturday, December 16, 2006 9:30 PM CST
We are still here. All of us in Ellisville are always with you. Praying that you are able to make it through these very difficult days ahead. God be with you.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Saturday, December 16, 2006 8:55 PM CST
Always thinking of you guys during this busy season..Holding dear Ellis in thought every day and hoping you are drawing some strength from his precious memories. Even though we may be silent, know that you are not forgotten and every day prayer and love is sent your way!
Cathy Ann DeJarlais <mommydearest43@juno.com>
Champlin, - Saturday, December 16, 2006 8:55 PM CST
So sorry to hear about Ellis. He was a brave little fighter. Peace be with you this Christmas season and may God comfort you always.
Becki Solberg <bslbg@hotmail.com>
Mitchell, SD USA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 8:05 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, I am so saddened by the death of your little guy, Ellis. What a brave and wonderful gift he was to so many. I am sorry I was not there for his service, but my sister in California died and I have been here for about 2 weeks at the hospital and preparing for the memorial service tomorrow. Please know my prayers are with you all in thes terrible time of loss. I wish I could give you all hugs. Fondly, Alice Evans
Alice EVans <ace1neh@aol.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 4:01 PM CST
Hello, Missy and Sam.
Think'n about you today.
Knowing my brothers are working there on the house and with you is nice to know.
Missy, I hope you have been able to give more thought to my idea about you writing stories for children. You have a gift for the written word. If ever the time comes when you need someone to illustrate for you, I know of someone. Ellis has very talented parents. He is still so very near...and yet so far. Such a paradox.
Auntie Bergie <bergiec@yahoo.com>
Mpls, Mn USA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 12:54 AM CST
Melissa & Sam - It has been a week since Ellis's service. How I wanted to be there. It sounds from reading some of the posts like it was such a wonderful celebration of his life!!!

Not a day or an hour goes by when I don't think of you all and that sweet, tender special boy. But I also think of your poor parents. I have a grandson who is 3 1/2 and so I THINK I know how they must feel. You watch your children suffer for their son and they suffer because of the special love that grandparents feel for their grandchildren.

There was a wonderful post awhile back by an anonymous person who said it so well and put everything I had been thinking and feeling into words.

I hope that knowing all the residents, known and unknown personally by you, of Ellisville who continue to pray and care and think of you and Sam, brings a tiny bit of comfort to you at this time.

God Bless You Both!!!!
Cheryl
- Saturday, December 16, 2006 10:34 AM CST
You might not see him again, but he will always be in your heart. I am very sorry about Ellis
Rachel
Rogers, MN USA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 10:16 AM CST
thinking about you both during this unimaginable time of loss that your family is going through. Ellis will remain in my thoughts, and it's amazing how being such a little guy, how he has become such a huge inspiration to so many.I never had the pleasure of meeting any of you, but like so many others, I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Dunn <barbthebrat1004@yahoo.com>
Merrillville, IN - Friday, December 15, 2006 8:37 PM CST
Still here, still thinking and praying for the both of you. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.


Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Friday, December 15, 2006 8:34 PM CST
I feel like a little piece of my day is missing as I always checked on Ellis first thing in the morning. I know this is nothing compared to the huge chunk that is missing from yours.
Your letter is absolutely beautiful...just like your son. You and your family are in my prayers.
Karalyn Manns <madlove4no81@aol.com>
Westmont, NJ - Friday, December 15, 2006 7:57 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
Please know that I think about you everyday and the trials you are going through and the many you still have to face. I pray for your strength to get through this and that God will grant you peace.
Patty Vorderbruggen <vortran@juno.com>
Albertville, MN USA - Friday, December 15, 2006 7:03 PM CST
I just wanted to let you know that we are still thinking of you and of precious Ellis. I love to see his pictures on the front page. Hope you know how many of us truly care about you without even the chance of acutally "knowing" you! Best of wishes from Kansas with Love!
Kelsi Birney <brantandkelsi@yahoo.com>
dighton, ks usa - Friday, December 15, 2006 4:38 PM CST
Your family continues to be held close with thought, prayer, and love by so many. I continue to feel drawn to Ellisville. Melissa, your words were so moving...I have come back to read them throughout the week. It is absolutely amazing how you were able to transfer your immeasurable love for your son onto paper through written word. What an honor for you to share your last moments with your precious baby with all of us. The love Ellis must have felt as he floated away to heaven...well, it brings tears to my eyes every time I reflect on it. Your strength as parents moved the final mountain for Ellis, what courage it must have taken for all 3 of you to let go in that moment. I hope you and Sam are finding ways to hold on to another as you ride the waves of grief and that you are able to meet your angel in your dreams.

Amy Runningen <amyscotland@hotmail.com>
Maplewood, MN - Friday, December 15, 2006 2:41 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, I am sending you hugs and praying for you. Ellis's ornament is hanging in the staff lounge and on the Christmas tree in the office at STMA. His picture is such a great reminder of what life is truly all about. However, every time I see it I hurt so deeply for you. I Admire all the good things you taught Ellis and all the faith you have displayed. I know tell Chase every night before bed that "Life is Good" and that Ellis is watching over him from heaven. Peace, Shannon and Family
Shannon Schulzetenberg <shannons@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Friday, December 15, 2006 1:22 PM CST
Remembering and missing you, sweet little Ellis. Your heavenly light shines on all of us who have been deeply touched by your short life here on earth! Keep watch over your mommy and daddy now and we pray for their continued comfort and healing! Thinking of you & always remaining in our hearts forever ---
Donna (" & Jeff Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Friday, December 15, 2006 12:20 AM CST
Melissa, you have SUCH a gift for expression. Your letter (post) was beautiful........So many tears have been shed for your family and the loss of your most beautiful, amazing, adorable, and STRONG Precious Ellis. I can't imagine to how you are feeling, all of you. I ache for you all. We are so thankful to have somehow "known" your little hero....even though we never got a chance to meet him.........He will always be in our hearts, minds and prayers...............
Natalie Nantke <njgosha@yahoo.com>
Plymouth, mn usa - Friday, December 15, 2006 11:24 AM CST
You are not forgotten. I pray for you each time I go past your house or am on the computer. If you need anything - a meal? Please let me know.
Mary - a neighbor
mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
maple Grove, - Friday, December 15, 2006 10:40 AM CST
Praying for you.
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Friday, December 15, 2006 10:30 AM CST
Always on our minds. . .
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, - Friday, December 15, 2006 7:46 AM CST
Dear Melissa:
Thank you so much for posting your letter. It is such a beautiful tribute to your son. His trials, his pain, his suffering will never make sense to me. But such things don't have to make sense. What is important is not the "why" but the "what". As in "what is the memory of Ellis calling us to do?"
A young child is called away amidst the whirrs and buzzes of high technology. Screens and graphs and wires and cables and sensors and tubes fill every crook and cranny. And then it all grows dim, it all fades away, and what is left is the pure soul of a child of inestimable value. An essence of incalulable worth.
That essence touched me. It touched all of us,and we'll never be the same. Your son was just 2 1/2 He was cute. But so are a lot of kids. He had a great little personality. So do a lot of kids. He suffered greatly. Even that, tragically, is not rare in this world.
So what was it with this child?
Your Ellis was touched by the Spirit of God. He was truly of God. Thats all I can decipher. He was one of those rare souls whose very presence called people to raise their eyes and thoughts to things much higher than this world. His life may have been short, but his calling was the noblest attainable. And he fulfilled his calling---perfectly.
What is Ellis calling us to do? I guess that might be different for everyone who he touched. For me? To love more, more strongly, more truly. To use my meager talents to touch those less fortunate. To savor every moment of life, yet at the same time not holding on too tightly to it. To focus a lot more on God, and a lot less on me. To see the face of Jesus in every sick child, every broken body, every impoverished soul. And finally? To have the glorious hope that someday, I'll be in heaven, and a young guy will walk up, smiling, and say, "hey, don't I remember you from somewhere?"
anon
- Thursday, December 14, 2006 10:35 PM CST
Hi Sweet Angel Ellis!
Just can't get your adorable face off my mind.
Please give Mom and Dad an extra big HUG tonight from amazing Heaven! It is so hard to understand the WHY's, one day we all will.
Please continue to give Mom and Dad that extra boost of Love everyday! Praying for you Sam & Melissa.
Ellis will watch over you!!

Kate W
Mpls, MN - Thursday, December 14, 2006 8:52 PM CST
With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day. I pray that god continues to heal your aching hearts little by little each day. I know that Ellis is so proud of the both of you in more ways than one. The both of you and of course Ellis has inspired me in may diffrent ways. You are amazing people, parents and teachers. I am sure that Ellis is having fun up in heaven playing music, swinging, runing and chasing all the puppys. God bless you and your wonderful loving spirit.

Love, Dana ;)
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Thursday, December 14, 2006 7:53 PM CST
Melissa & Sam,

Today I placed a heart ornament on our Christmas tree with a picture of Ellis inside. His beautiful smile beaming for all to enjoy. He remains close in our hearts, as do the both of you.

Peace to both of you,
The Corbo’s
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
www.caringbridge.org/mn/corboboys

The Corbo's
- Thursday, December 14, 2006 5:29 PM CST
I think your Auntie Bergie said it best. I pray for your hearts and spirits. The days are bittersweet for me as I go through the day. It is so hard to believe that he is gone from this earthly life. That sweet, beautiful darling boy!!!

But I like to think if him up in heaven, Rock 'n Roll Heaven. They just got a new member of the band. Piano with Ray Charles, drums with Keith Moon, guitar with Jimmy Hendrix, watching Janis Joplin sing!!!

God Bless You Both, Sam and Melissa!!
Cheryl
- Thursday, December 14, 2006 4:52 PM CST
I hold you...Sam, Missy, Ellis...in my thoughts as I walk today. The skies are blue...the sun is shining...and yet there is a deep abiding sadness that fills my heart today. I pray for God to give me the answers that I seek. I pray for your hearts...that your burdens be lifted. Your tribute to Ellis was absolutely a mixture of laughter and tears...of pain and hope...one of love. May you always know that you are the best parents Ellis' could have been blessed with. All 3 of you were and are...such the perfect match. Many hugs and kisses for you today.
Auntie Bergie <bergiec@yahoo.com>
Mpls, Mn usa - Thursday, December 14, 2006 3:01 PM CST
What beautiful words you have written to share your most courageous boy's journey with all of us in Ellisville. Please know that constant prayers are with you both.
Wendi and Kevin Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Thursday, December 14, 2006 2:42 PM CST
Tears are shed as I am sad that Ellis is in heaven now and not with us. It really feels like he is here with US as you have so graciously shared his life with us here in Ellisville. I keep checking in to see if you are all right. I admire you so much for the wonderful parents you are. Thank you for sharing your gift of Ellis with us. I have made a donation in his name in honor of Ellis so that his light may continue to shine in helping others. Big hugs to you and Sarah.
Brandy Francisco <francisco102@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Thursday, December 14, 2006 2:02 PM CST
Prayers, thoughts, and love, for the world's GREATEST choir director and music history teacher, her wonderful husband, and their fantastic families. You are such an inspiration!! I pray that every day gets the slightest bit easier for you, and that God continues to bless you and fill your hearts with love. And, I know that Ellis is swinging on those swingsets, playing with all the puppy dogs, and making BEAUTIFUL music, and most of all, making his mama and dada proud! God Bless you Bergstroms. :0)
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Thursday, December 14, 2006 1:08 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
You have touch so many lives by sharing Ellis with us. I know the students at STMA have grown deeply because of the gift known as "ELLIS". God gave you such a special child...even though it was for such a short time. I have never understood the death of a child. It is so painful, yet we all seem to grow because of it. You are both so amazing and strong. Thank you for sharing Ellis and letting everyone into your life through this journal. You are still in our prayers and thoughts.
Annette Adamski (Katie's Mom)
St. Michael, MN - Thursday, December 14, 2006 1:02 PM CST
Thinking of you on this day. Warm thoughts and prayers for peace and wellness are upon you.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Thursday, December 14, 2006 11:31 AM CST
Sam and Melissa, I just want you to know that you are still close in our as is Ellis. I can just hear Ellis whispering "slow and steady" from heaven. Ellis is with you. He is holding you and walking you through the pain and tears just as you did for him. His love for the both of you is never ending just as your love for him. Breath it, feel it and believe it.

Peace and Love,
Shannon and family
Shannon Schulzetenberg
- Thursday, December 14, 2006 10:15 AM CST
Dear Melissa, When you are ready, I pray you let us know how you and Sam are doing. We have a bond with you through Ellis and have had for the past two and a half years. We are all thinking about you and praying for you. You are family....

Continued Love and Support,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN USA - Thursday, December 14, 2006 10:03 AM CST
Here is to one amazing boy, beautiful and strong. His memory will live on forever. Thank you, thank you for sharing him with the world. We are not worthy. Ellis was to precious for this world. This world is definetly a better place because of him. And thank you to you, his mommy and daddy for being such wonderful parents. You two are one of a kind. Ellis was just as lucky to have you as you were to have him. Holding him in my heart always and sending love from Wisconsin
www.caringbridge.com/visit/bradyengle

Missy O'Krueg <fam5seattle@sbcglobal.net>
- Thursday, December 14, 2006 9:43 AM CST
I am another unkown Ellis fan. All I can say is wow, he was truely blessed to have parents that gave him the ultimate gift by letting go. You made a decision that no parent should ever be faced with and now he has been completely healed. I just wished when a child gets a healed body in heaven, that the parents would get a healed heart. God bless you guys!
Robynn
Robynn Johnson <billrobynn@cox.net>
Pensacola, Fl usa - Thursday, December 14, 2006 4:41 AM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
I am another one of the thousands of people who you do not know, but have been truly touched by your amazing family. I happened upon your site a few weeks ago and was so moved by your words on the journal that day, that not only did I go back and read each and every entry, but I followed your site
religiously for the weeks to come. When I read that your beautiful,
courageous son passed away, I felt as if someone I knew had been lost to me.
Thank you for sharing your story with so many. Your eloquent writings have
touched my soul. Ellis was blessed to have such loving parents, and you were blessed to have such a wonderful son to share your lives with, albeit for too short a time. I pray that your pain will be eased in the months to come(although I understand it will never be gone entirely), and that the memory of
Ellis will forever bring you joy.
A resident of Ellisville,
Sulie Holt






Sulie Holt <skh1016@aol.com>
Highland Park, IL United States - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 9:50 PM CST
Praying for you two regularly.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 9:41 PM CST
Can't stop thinking about all of you and sweet baby Ellis! Hoping the wonderful memories of him are filling your day with light!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 9:41 PM CST
Your family is still in my deepest prayers. I continue to pray for you guys each and every day. I continue to read the webpage every day. I didn't know you guys but I followed thorough your guys journey by reading the page. My daughter who is 2 months old was just diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis after we were told when she was just 3 weeks old that she didn't have it. I am traumatized because it is my first kid but I was more traumatized when I read that your dearest Ellis passed away. You guys will continue to be in my prayers. E-mail me if you just need to get your feelings out.
Laurie Skibicki <laurie_skibicki@hotmail.com>
Thief River Falls, MN USA - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 7:28 PM CST
Praying for you today and always. I think about Ellis often, and am just so sorry for your loss. He was truly an amazing gift.
Ashleigh Frye <ashleighwall@hotmail.com>
Mission Viejo, CA - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 5:36 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam:
No day has passed that I haven't thought of both of you. No words can take away the feelings you are having, but know that all of Ellisville is holding you close to our hearts. Ellis was so loved by so many people. Thank you for sharing your little boy with all of us. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Barb Paepke <queenb_99_2000 @yahoo.com>
Groton, SD USA - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 5:23 PM CST
Melissa I have read your letter countless times since you posted it here. Every time I read it I cry. I cry because I miss Ellis, because Ellis has brought faith to oh so many people and most importantly he was very strong and very brave untill the very end. Praying and thinking about the two of you everyday. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 3:59 PM CST
What an awesome mother you are for Ellis. In the days ahead may you feel his presence in the love you will always hold in your heart for him and him for you. Many people live longer lives but do not know the deep love Ellis experienced from you his parents. Take one day at a time. Know family and friends want to help anyway that they can.
Mary Weinand
maple Grove, - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 11:43 AM CST
I have just read your letters to Ellis, and I am sitting at my desk at work with huge tears welling up in my eyes. My heart aches for you. Fly high sweet angel Ellis fly high!!
Lisa Evans <lisaraesc@yahoo.com>
Lexington, SC USA - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 11:38 AM CST
Christmas In Heaven

I see the countless Christmas trees
around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars,
reflecting on the snow

The sight is so spectacular,
please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas with
Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.

I have no words to tell you,
the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description,
to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart.
But I am not so far away,
We really aren't apart.

So be happy for me, dear ones,
You know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.

I sent you each a special gift,
from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory
of my undying love.

After all, love is a gift more precious
than pure gold.
It was always most important
in the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other,
as my Father said to do.
For I can't count the blessing or love
He has for each of you.

So have a Merry Christmas and
wipe away that tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with
Jesus Christ this year.

~Author unknown


Michelle and Noah www.caringbridge.org/visit/noahphilpott <meldridge@cox.net>
Gilbert, AZ - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 10:42 AM CST
Melissa & Sam~
I was not able to make it on Saturday to be physically a part of Ellisville but my thoughts are always on you guys. My children ask why I am crying and I have to tell them about the strongest bravest little boy in the world. My oldest son Oli (Oliver who is 6) tells me it is ok mom. His momma and dadda must miss him. I tell him they do sooo much. But I tell him that they are strong, even when they are weak. I have kept my husband up to date on your family as well. He sends his best.
I give you my strength for today to make it through another day.

Peace~

Kammi Nelson <kammi74@hotmail.com>
South Saint Paul, MN USA - Wednesday, December 13, 2006 9:07 AM CST
Sorry I wasn't with you on Saturday. Melissa and Sam, I pray for God to give you strength and I thank God for all that Ellis and you have taught us.
Ellis, I'm sending you a high five, the gesture we shared the last time you were at ECLC. You have been my "little friend" that all my friends and relatives have come to know.
As I think of this "season of gifts and giving" I thank God for all that you and your parents have given to all of us in Ellisville.
Jon N. Groth (ECLC) <jong@mninter.net>
Edina, MN - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 11:37 PM CST
Wow. Your words are beautiful, so well put together, what a testimony of a mothers endless love and compassion for her precious son. My prayers are with you and Sam. I pray for your peace and comfort...

Love~ Claire (^i^ Laken's mommy)
www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
OUR ANGEL IN HEAVEN~OUR HEART BABY
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 11:31 PM CST
To the strongest bravest Momma and Dadda in the world,
Thank you for sharing you story of love. Know that you are loved and always in my prayers. Remember what Ellis tought you, how to LIVE.
God Bless,


Bridget <bridgetcthien@hotmail.com>
Bolingbrook, Il - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 11:21 PM CST
I never met your special baby boy Ellis, but I feel a little part of him in my heart. We prayed for your little guy everynight and we are praying for his mama and dada. My heart aches for you and I can't even imagine what you are going through. Many thoughts and prayers!
Minda Rexine <mewarcken@hotmail.com>
Mayville, ND - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 10:36 PM CST
Tonight I cried harder then ever as I read your letter. You are amazingly strong and have so many supports across the States. What a beautiful little boy! My prayers are with you.
Brooke <brookenolon@aol.com>
Lafayette, IN - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 9:55 PM CST
Still here thinking and praying for you. The song "Cannot Say Enough" my MercyMe make me think about the both of you and Ellis. "For we Cannot Say Enough about you". I think this is how all of us residents of Ellisvile feel about the both of you and your strong and brave son.
Love,
Dana
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 9:28 PM CST
Thinking about the brighest star in all of Ellisville tonight. Praying for his parents. His smile helped light my heart. I will always be grateful that I had the opportunity to visit Ellisville.
Nancy
Nashville, - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 9:16 PM CST
Still praying for you and thinking about you. "The Little Drummer Boy" was just playing on the radio, I just stopped, and listened. I pictured Ellis playing his drums, with a HUGE smile on his face. Thank you Melissa and Sam, for sharing your son with us.
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 8:37 PM CST
What a beautiful tribute to your amazing, strong, brave little boy. How lucky is to have you as his mommy & daddy forever.
My prayers are with you.
Kelly <rn4babyz@gmail.com>
- Tuesday, December 12, 2006 8:08 PM CST
All Ellisville followers,
Just wanted to share this story with you. . .
My friend and daughter's daycare provider, Stacie, is a faithful resident of Ellisville and has followed his story ever since he was born. She was in New York this past weekend but thoughts of you were never far from her mind. On Saturday, she was standing in line to visit the Statue of Liberty (on ELLIS Island!!) when she heard a woman in front of her tell her little boy, "Ellis, come over here!" This happened as Stacie was thinking of all of you and especially of Ellis.

He is here with all of us, everywhere.

Peace,
Kelly

Kelly Bovee <kellyb@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Tuesday, December 12, 2006 7:47 PM CST
Thinking of you and praying for you.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 7:18 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
I've prayed, I've cried, I continue to care and send my love! My life will never be the same...all because of Ellis. I'm proud to be part of the Ellisville community!
Dianne Helfinstine
Aberdeen, SD - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 5:08 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
You are in my continued thoughts and prayers everyday. My heart aches for Ellis and the both of you. I can only imagine what your hearts feel. Thank you once again for sharing your "HERO" with all of us. I know Ellis felt so much love from the both of you every day. Your strenth is amazing. May god heal your broken aching heart each day. With continued love, thoughs and prayers each and every day.

Love,
Dana :)
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 2:54 PM CST
There are no words to explain the feelings I have rushing through my heart right now. You have endured so much and still such strong people. As a friend once said at his daughter's funeral-"I am jealous that I cannot spend another moment with my child, but I know that my princess has gone home to her King" Your Ellis, so precious and full of love, has gone home to his King. Before my brother passed away, he looked at my mom and said, "mommy its okay when I go to Heaven-its my turn to take care of you now" Your Ellis will always be watching over you.
The world might not stop, be we will never forget! Thank you for sharing this beautiful life with us.
Trisha Anderson <tmae626@msn.com>
- Tuesday, December 12, 2006 2:48 PM CST
Melissa and Sam, I too am one of those faceless names who visits Ellisville regularly and who fell in love with your little boy through his photo’s and your words. As a former RN and preschool teacher, and as a current volunteer for an organization that supports cancer patients, I thought I had heard and seen it all. But your words, your writing made me see and understand things in a whole new light. I have read so many other entries that echo the same sentiment. Because you so eloquently shared your most private thoughts and feelings as well as the medical realities of Ellis brave and courageous brattle, I am better prepared to understand what others are going through and therefore, I can better comfort them. I am sure you didn’t even intend that to happen, but you have educated a lot of visitors to Ellisville. For that, I say THANK YOU. I will continue to pray for you both and I will never, ever forget your son Ellis. With hugs and prayers,
Linda Rudman
- Tuesday, December 12, 2006 2:45 PM CST
Sorry. Thankful for Ellis' earthly life, his gift-heart and his legacy of joy, love, strength, bravery and music.
Corella Thorbeck <cthorbeck@aol.com>
Plymouth, MN - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 1:51 PM CST
Thinking of you. Praying that soon there will be more smiles than tears.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 1:36 PM CST
I'm nervous to write, because it's so hard to put such emotions into words. But, you've shared so much with so many, I must at least try. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful, wonderful, little angel with us. I can't count the number of tears I've shed and prayers I've said for Ellis and his mama and dada. The only way I, personally, can make any sense of God taking babies and children back to Heaven, is that those souls are so special, so good and pure, that they're not meant to endure life on Earth too long. God wanted Ellis back with him in Heaven because he's too wonderful a soul -- God loves him and missed him and wanted him back in his arms. God let him come here for a little more than 2.5 years for him to show you, and everyone's lives that little Ellis touched, what love, strength and grace really are. My heart has been absolutely broken for Ellis and his family. But, like I know you and Ellis would want, I'm looking for the positive in all of this. Ellis was such a strong, loving, powerful little one. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful son and his love, struggles, and finally peace with us. I pray he's whole and healed and smiling down on you, "running with angels on streets paved with gold," eaglerly waiting for the day when he can get hugs and kisses from his mama and papa again.
Jamie Butts <jvbutts@hotmail.com -OR- buttsjv@yahoo.com>
Highlands Ranch, CO USA - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 12:14 AM CST
Continuing to hold both of you close in prayer--Melissa, your eloquence never ceases to amaze me. Thank you for sharing your most private thoughts. I'm looking forward to reading Sam's letter as well...
Tony, Jessica, & Gavin Dahms
Jessica Dahms <jessicaaroth@hotmail.com>
Marshall, MN - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 12:09 AM CST
Thank you for sharing the very important and private moments with all of us. Checking on you and has become a regular part of my day. I continue to pray for you as you find your way through the next months. My heart cries out for you and your loss. My heart also rejoices in the strength that Ellis showed on this earth and the perfect little man he is now.
Melissa Benson <jan1026@aol.com>
katy, tx - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 11:51 AM CST
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers everyday. I hope that you can find peace and comfort in knowing that Ellis is in good hands and watching you from up above. reading you post was almost as hard as reading that Ellis had gone to Heaven. You've made me realize things that I was taking for granted.
Ellis, I miss you so much and I have never even met you. But I know that you are happy and painfree and that's all that matters right now. You have a spot in my heart forever, it would have been an honor to have known you on earth.
Nathalie Doremieux <nathalie@doremieux.org>
Toulouse, France - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 11:49 AM CST
My daily visit to Ellisville....This site gives me so much strength and comfort...I wish there had been a site like this when my Cory was so sick and making his own way to heaven....I am sure he has met Ellis by now and told him all about the Ky Wildcats and Alan Jackson...Cory loved country music and basketball.....Thank you Sam and Melissa for letting us all be a part of Ellis's life....We loved and will continue to love him dearly....God will give you the strength you will need....You two are such strong people.....God bless you.....
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 11:13 AM CST
Sam and Melissa- you are in my continued thoughts and prayers. May God bless each and every day, with love, strength, and knowledge, that you most precious and beautiful son is ok. You are TRULY amazing! :0)

With love,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 10:58 AM CST
Melissa and Sam, I just wanted to let you both know that I am still thinking and praying for you both. What wonderful parents you are.....you basically let Ellis make the decision that it was time for him to go on to his next life, you let him decide. I am so glad that you were able to hold him and love him and give him everything you had during those final moments. I know that he must have been smiling inside, knowing you walked with him during his final journey here. God Bless you both during this holiday, I pray that you find the peace and comfort to see you through these next weeks, months and years.

Sweetest Ellis, Can't stop by without saying hello to you sweet boy! So tell me, how are those swingsets up there? I bet they are the best ever! I miss you so much already, you mean so much to so many. Watch over your mommy and daddy....they need you so much!
lori <nevlor2005@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 12, 2006 10:48 AM CST
I know that Cheryl recently signed in, but I just want to add something. THANK YOU for sharing his life with us. I am astounded at the gift you gave us at his celebration Saturday! The gift of putting us there with you for his entire life. Good is a term used frequently, but I want to emphasis how GOOD you guys are. I am sharing Ellis' site with others at work, adding to the Ellisville Community.
Pete Klinkhammer <pete.klinkhammer@dakota.mn.us>
- Tuesday, December 12, 2006 10:03 AM CST
Continued prayers for strength, courage, and peace, the same prayers I asked when Ellis was struggling, the same prayers you need now. Thank you for honestly sharing your journey with us, and allowing us to pray for you.
Vicki <vjlsoccer@hotmail.com>
Atlanta, GA - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 9:01 AM CST
Sam and Melissa, I just want you to know that I am still holding the both of you and Ellis close to my heart. You are in my thoughts and prayers several times a day. I am so thankful for Ellis he has taught me so much about life. I pray that you feel his spirit for he is with you. Remember, ELLIS LOVES YOU and so do so many others.
Peace, Shannon
Shannon Schulzetenberg <shannons@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Tuesday, December 12, 2006 8:48 AM CST
THANK YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART FOR SHARING YOUR ELLIS WITH US.

AND THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING US IN ON HIS FINAL MOMENTS. WE WEPT WITH YOU AND GRIEVED WITH YOU.

PLEASE CONTINUE TO UPDATE IF YOU SO DESIRE. WE WILL CONTINUE TO FOLLOW YOUR JOURNEY.

BEAUTIFUL ELLIS.....BE AT WONDERFUL PEACE.
LORRAINE <LMVITRIS@AOL.COM>
PLANO, TX USA - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 8:45 AM CST
I heard about Ellisville through another Caring Bridge site. What a gorgeous little boy - and brave and strong as well. Your love for him is quite evident through your beautiful tribute. I am sorry for your loss. No words can make you feel better or ease your pain. Ellis will live on in your hearts, minds, souls and memories. Take care of yourselves and each other!
Gina <gloch612@yahoo.com>
Prior Lake, MN USA - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 8:34 AM CST
Thank you for continuing to update this page. It helps all of us as we struggle with this loss. We continue to keep you in our prayers. You are truly an inspiration. I picture Ellis running and playing in heaven. His life was way too short but he, and you, touch so many people.
Sue, Phil, Chelsey and Samantha Ferbuyt <sferbuyt@charter.net>
St. Michael, MN USA - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 8:31 AM CST
Just imagine how many of us,every day,are surrounding you, Melissa and Sam and baby Ellis! He is just everywhere and has really pulled ALL of us in to focus on NOW and live NOW. Such a powerful little spirit remains always in our thoughts. We feel the emptiness, but can't even begin to fathom yours. May the power of all those who care bring you a little peace every day. Sure and steady,,,,one foot in front of the other... we're with you!
Cathy Ann DeJarlais <mommydearest43@juno.com>
Champlin, - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 7:38 AM CST
Just wanted to you to know that I'll never stop praying for your family. I read your update yesterday, bawling. I couldn't even post an entry. There were just no words. My heart grieves for you.

I just want to thank you for allowing us the privilege of being part of Ellisville. You have helped me to slow down and enjoy every second with my four kids and to never take their health for granted.
L Chase
Rochester , NY - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 7:14 AM CST
One only needs to scroll down but a few entries to realize that Ellis's life here on Earth was more awesome...more meaningful, than any of us know. He has touched and reached so many people...so many strangers who feel the love for him and that pain of your loss. What a miracle that is in itself...that one little boy, and his mama and dada, have reached out and pulled in so many of us faithful listeners/readers that will always be with you. We are here with you now, as citizens of Ellisville, and like someone else said tonight, we'll be here as long as you'll have us. We'll laugh, cry, smile, wonder why, and just ALWAYS REMEMBER your sweet angel Ellis. Thank you so much for sharing him...HE is the one who's moved mountains, that's for sure! Love, Jessica Diedrich
Jess D <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Tuesday, December 12, 2006 1:33 AM CST
Melissa and Sam... thank you for sharing your Ellis with us and his fabulous story! I will continue to keep you in my thoughts.
Alex Ellis
- Monday, December 11, 2006 10:42 PM CST
I cried for you when I read that Ellis got his new heart. I cried for you when you brought your beautiful boy home after he received his heart. I cried when he had to go back into the hospital. Tonight, though, I cry for your loss; your pain; your ache at losing such a strong, precious, beautiful child. I think of all of you often and it has made me appreciate my family, my children, my life so much more. Thank you for expressing so eliquently the beautiful life of the strongest and bravest boy in the world. Eliis knew that "life is good"....I hope you can believe that again one day.
Mary S-S
Shelby Twp, MI - Monday, December 11, 2006 10:19 PM CST
Hello! Another family has entered Ellisville and is hooked on your sweet baby boy! Your journey touched my heart. I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. You and your family are close in our thoughts and prayers. Your little boy was blessed with such wonderful and loving parents. He looks so precious in the photos! You were lucky to have him touch your lives. Thank you for sharing your feelings and your journey with all of us. We heard about your son at our church (Christ Lutheran in Otsego). The Pastor mentioned on Sunday that your family could use some extra prayers. We are praying for you! Praying for peace in your heart and comfort at this incredibly sad time.
Take care!
Jody <eandjhermanson@comcast.net>
Rogers, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:01 PM CST
Thank you for sharing such beautiful words with all of Ellisville. Continued prayers for your family all day everyday. Take comfort in knowing he will always be with you.
Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, Il USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:49 PM CST
May you find peace in the coming days, months, years knowing that Ellis is now pain free and flying with the angels. Thinking of you.
Marisa, liver transplant, Univ. of MN
MN www.caringbridge.org/mn/marisa - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:23 PM CST
As I sit here trying to read the screen through my tears I realize how very awesome this little boy is. Thank you so much for sharing him and your letter with us. Ellisville lives on just as Ellis lives on in Heaven.
Baumgartner's <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Monday, December 11, 2006 7:20 PM CST
Another proud resident of Ellisville here!
I miss him already...though I never had the pleasure of knowing him in person.
I'm so very sad for your family. But I am so inspired to hear how you comforted him so peacefully...
Thank you for sharing your tribute.
We are here..if you need us.

We will always listen.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/rachelanne
Monica
Georgia, - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:51 PM CST
Melissa and Sam, Thank you for your beautiful tribute to Ellis. Your words brought tears to my eyes. I am a proud resident of Ellisville. I had come to know and love Ellis through your words. You can tell where Ellis got his strength, courage and love. He was a lucky boy to have two awesome parents such as you. He fought his hardest for his mama and dada, whom he loved so much. Sam and Melissa, you will be in my thoughts and prayers, and when looking up at the stars on Christmas Eve, I know Angel Ellis will be one of them. Love and prayers to you both at this difficult time.
Joan Pearson <jpearson@tconl.com>
Omaha, NE - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:39 PM CST
Dear Ones, Ellis was the strongest bravest boy in the world, his courage touched us all. The two of you are also the strongest bravest Mom and Dad in the world and an inspiration to all the people of Ellisville. You will always hold Ellis in your hearts and that will bring comfort and strengh to you as you continue your journey in life. Our love and prayers Linda and Lonnie
Linda DeLaney
Austin, - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:34 PM CST
First of all, thank you for sharing your messages to Ellis here on his website for those of us that didn't know your family personally. As usual, your way with words simply amazes me. I have a friend we met in PICU (she's also signed your guestbook) who was the same way with words. They also lost their 10 month old son to a heart defect. I hope you reach out to others who have lost and really know exactly what you are going through. Unfortunately, there are too many families out there grieving the loss of one gone too soon due to CHD's, cancer, etc. After much thought about which of your suggestions to send a donation to, I will be sending in our donation in Ellis' memory to Caringbridge. I am grateful to them for allowing us a place where we can offer support and get to know such strong fighters like Ellis. It would have been even more tragic if SO many people had not been able to share your journey and gotten to know (even via cyberspace) such a BEAUTIFUL, sweet, courageous little boy.

I know people have been posting poems and lyrics to songs. Whenever I think loved ones I have lost who have gone I always think of the song "The Dance" by Garth Brooks. The line "I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the Dance" really hits home with me. I hope years from now you'll be able to smile when you remember the dance you had here on Earth with your Ellis. You WILL dance with him again...

Heart mom hugs,
Judi, Tom and Alex Lund <jlund@bestlaw.com>
Savage, MN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:12 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
Thank you for sharing so many of your personal thoughts and feelings. I am praying for you and thinking of you. May God hold you close during this Christmas season and always-

I'M SPENDING CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS THIS YEAR

I see the countless Christmas trees
Around the world below;
With Tiny lights, like Heaven's stars
Reflecting on the snow.

The sight is so spectacular,
Please wipe away that tear;
Because I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear;
But the sounds of any music can't compare
With the Christmas choir up here.

I have no words to tell you
The Joy their voices bring;
It is beyond description
To hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart;
But it's only for a while
That we will be apart.

I'll ask him to light your spirit
As I tell him of your love;
So please pray for one another
As you light your eyes above.

I can't tell you of the splendor
Or the peace here in this place.
Can you just imagine Christmas
With our Savior... Face to face?

Please let your hearts be joyful
And let your spirit sing;
I'm spending Christmas in Heaven
And I am walking with the King.
Heidi Linhoff <hjlinhoff@yahoo.com>
Brooklyn Park, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 5:56 PM CST
Sam & Melissa,
Your loving tribute to Ellis in your words and music at his service was so beautiful on Saturday. Through my tears and sadness I felt joy that I had been able to know Ellis and see how happy he made the two of you. I'm sure your sorrow is great and deep, but the joy you are able to continue to keep in your hearts & pass along to us in Ellisville is an inspiration to me and my family. Know that we continue to hold all of you in our hearts and prayers.
Cheryl K. <pgonefishin8@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 11, 2006 5:37 PM CST
Sam & Melissa,
Thinking of you so much today and continuing to pray for you both. The service on Saturday was truely inspirational and a wonderful tribute to your dear Ellis.
Love and prayers to you always, Lana

Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 4:08 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Thing of you as I sit here in the lab at school trying to do some homework. I just can't get my mind to shift directions. What a wonderful life Ellis lived, so full of love and joy. I can't imagine what my life would be like today if I hadn't gotten the chance to get to know and spend time with your HERO!!! I can't even begin to thank you both enough for sharing Ellis with me. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, December 11, 2006 3:38 PM CST
I keep coming back perhaps with the vain hope that the story won't end the same way. Your dear boy will be missed in the hearts of many. May you find peace and comfort.
Christina
Baltimore, MD - Monday, December 11, 2006 3:26 PM CST
Sam and Melissa

missfoundation.org

Peace and God bless you all!

Sincerely,

Elaine
www.trinitysdiary.com
EJ <angelsmom@shaw.ca>
Bby, BC Canada - Monday, December 11, 2006 3:26 PM CST
Sam and Melissa -
I had tears rolling down my face as I read your journal entry from Sunday. I can't imagine how difficult it was for you on that last day with Ellis, but the words that Melissa wrote were so beautiful and touching, and Ellis let go knowing that he had people who loved and cared for him with everything that they had. We continue to pray for you and keep you in our thoughts.
Andrea and Corey Olson
Andrea and Corey Olson <greyeyes3@yahoo.com>
Faribault, mn - Monday, December 11, 2006 3:05 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Today the Chamber Singers and the Concert Choir graced us with their beautiful music in the halls and cafeteria of Anoka Ramsey. As I sat there and listened, I thought of you both. What a gift God has given us in music! Each note resonated it's subtle tone of the love of music that your students have. Even though the music stops, their love continues... So it is with the ones we lose in life...we may not hear the notes, but the love is always there. No one can take that away. Your little Ellis is, and always will be, your love. The music on earth stops, but there is such an incredible voice resounding from heaven that says..."I'm okay...please don't cry...I live forever mama and dada"! Someday you will see that smile again, and all will be well. Your faith will have spoken, and your burden will be lifted. Peace be to you. You continue to be in my thoughts...and my prayers.

Marilyn Quarberg <marilyn.quarberg@anokaramsey.edu>
Blaine, Mn - Monday, December 11, 2006 3:00 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, When our daughter, Katie, and husband Bob returned from Ellis' funeral, they talked about the powerful service and the beautiful music. She said that you used 2 of Herb Brokering's hymns and she mentioned how beautifully "Earth and All Stars" was done! Herb is a friend of mine and a member of our congregation, so I just called him and shared Ellis' story and Katie's words. He was touched and said he grieves for the two of you. I want to echo the thanks of everyone who has complimented you on your marvelous journal entries. What a gift God has given you to write and touch others' lives. May you know real peace as the days and months move ahead.
Jan Seplak <jseplak@ststephen.net>
Bloomington, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 2:25 PM CST
Oh Melissa and Sam, what an amazing legacy your little man left in the hearts and minds of so many around the world, including my own. With tears streaming down my face, I want to thank you for sharing your incredible gift with us. My prayers will continue to be with you during this indescribably difficult journey you are walking.
Laura Lynn and my two little miracle nephews, Asher and ^Jacob^: www.caringbridge.org/visit/asherandjacob <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Hollidaysburg, Pa - Monday, December 11, 2006 2:09 PM CST
Melissa and Sam, Isn't it amazing that a little boy with a broken heart could creep into the hearts of so many? What a miracle Ellis was and continues to be as his light shines on in so many. He was the luckiest boy in the world to have you as parents.
Lisa Frieden <lmflaw@hotmail.com>
Carmel, IN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 2:04 PM CST
To Melissa and Sam:

Although I have not signed Ellis' guestbook previously, I have been a longtime follower and fan of Ellis. I don't know what to say other than I do pray for your comfort and your strength - may you be given both.

Tiffany
Mom to Cole (www.caringbridge.org/ks/cole)


Tiffany Mytty-Klein <tiffany@myttyusa.com>
Papillion, NE USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 2:01 PM CST
Dear Melissa, All of us in Ellisville will be here as long as you let us. We need you to comfort us also through your talking about him and your love for him. That sounds very selfish but for me it's true. I still feel connected to Ellis through you. When it's time for you to close this journal to us, we will understand.

Love and prayers,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 1:58 PM CST
To Melissa and Sam,
I found this is thought of you and ^Ellis^.

One More Day

Last night I had a crazy dream
A wish was granted just for me
It could be for anything
I didn't ask for money
Or a mansion in Malibu
I simply wished, for one more day with you

One more day
One more time
One more sunset, maybe I'd be satisfied
But then again
I know what it would do
Leave me wishing still, for one more day with you

First thing I'd do, is pray for time to crawl
Then I'd unplug the telephone
And keep the TV off
I'd hold you every second
Say a million I love you's
That's what I'd do, with one more day with you

Leave me wishing still, for one more day
Leave me wishing still, for one more day

Madeline
Ajax, ON - Monday, December 11, 2006 1:34 PM CST
Thank you for sharing that most intimate moment with all of us. I have been thinking of the whole family everyday non-stop. Prayers of healing all of you have been said by many. You are never far from any of my thoughts.
Cathy Moyolt <moyoltca@vvsd.org>
Romeoville, IL - Monday, December 11, 2006 1:30 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, As I sit here in front of my computer after reading your beautiful words, lump in my throat, I dont know what the right thing to say is but I need to say something.. Ellis is such a lucky boy to have such a wonderful mama and dada. You have tought so many how to love and be thankful for what we have and are handed. I thank you both and Ellis for reminding how lucky I am and to love my family endlessly. I think of you all every day and say a prayer for strength and peace each night as you go on. Thank you again, for sharing your sweet Ellis with us all.

Trina Pauly <ntjcp@yahoo.com>
- Monday, December 11, 2006 1:21 PM CST
My most sincere prayer today for the strongest and bravest mommy and daddy in the whole world. Ellis didn't get that way on his own, you know.
A. Krinke
Buffalo, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 11:37 AM CST
Melissa, Sam and Baby Ellis, you are truly the most amazng family. Although, I do not know you personally, you have shared yourself with me and my family. We have prayed for you and with you. We have screamed and cried. We have asked why. We have through you learned of unending love and commitment. We pray on this day, that you will have peace, understanding and the love of God and the love of many of us that shared the wonderful life of knowing you and your totally amazing son. You have shared with us a true miracle of God's Blessings and His Love through your Angel Ellis. May God Bless you always!
Sher <shernoot@comcast.net>
Roseville, - Monday, December 11, 2006 11:21 AM CST
Melissa & Sam - You two are the strongest, most inspiring parents I have ever "met." While we have never met in person, I cried rivers over your loss, and was forever changed by a little boy named Ellis. Your tribute to your son is stunningly beautiful, and the strength it must have taken to relive that day, and every day since...I can't imagine.
Thank you for sharing your story, your hearts, and most especially, your most awe-inspiring, brave little boy. I will promise you that he will never be forgotten, and there are many out here who are better people for having "known" you all.
Sarah Larkin <slarkin45@gmail.com>
Frisco, TX UNITED STATES - Monday, December 11, 2006 11:12 AM CST
I have only followed Ellis for a short time through another site and not only was he the strongest, bravest boy, but so were his Mama and Dada. My prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your journey as I think it has tought everyone that life is precious and not to take anything for granted. May your sweet Ellis be playing pain free now.
Christie
- Monday, December 11, 2006 10:48 AM CST
Amazing words by amazing people showing amazing love... Thank you for sharing the most tender moments with all of us!
Karen Buege <kbuege@wilton.com>
Downers Grove , IL - Monday, December 11, 2006 10:24 AM CST
just leaving a note to let you know you and your family have been in our thoughts, prayers and hearts and will continue to be. fly high sweet ellis, fly high......
tanya - nick
myg@frontiernet.net <myg@frontiernet.net>
- Monday, December 11, 2006 10:05 AM CST
Thank you so much for sharing your journal and your Beautiful son. Sunday night I lit a candle from 7:00-8:00, in memory on Angel Ellis... and all those children who left this world much too soon. My prayer and thoughts are with you constantly, know that Ellis is watching from up above and taking care of you both. Thank you again for sharing your most treasured gift of Ellis. Peace to you.
Joyce/oakdale mom
oakdale, mn - Monday, December 11, 2006 10:02 AM CST
My heart is still heavy, but so much in admiration of parents who loved little Ellis so much to let him choose the time to go and to follow his signs. You are right, it sounds as if he was only wanting you to tell him that it was ok and how precious that with you holding him, he drifted off knowing he was being held and loved by the people who love him most! Thank you for sharing the journey with us. Our prayers are with your family.
Patricia <rrfpaf@hotmail.com>
Garden City, GA - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:49 AM CST
Oh dear lord. Your experiences of this last week absolutely take my breath away.

I am so very sorry that you had to let him go. I know he is at peace and he is running in heaven and playing as he never was able in this life, but I just hate that he is no longer in your arms.

He will look over you! He will watch out for you now!!

I know that is not what anyone wanted, but still it is a blessing. I am praying for your family.

Your words were beautiful. perfect.
Rebecca & Tabor (www.caringbridge.com/visit/taborfleming) <rektorikfleming@yahoo.com>
Dallas , TX USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:31 AM CST
Sam and Melissa ~ today, I am reminded of the song "Mary, Did You Know?". Sam and Melissa, do you know the invaluable lessons your son has taught our sons and daughters? Lessons of love, life, faith and inspiration. Once is a lifetime lessons that we pray our children will learn but cannot be taught by us, as parents ~ fingerprints left on their hearts and souls by someone else. Thank you this priceless gift. I am also reminded of a story told by Pres. Teddy Rosevelt ~ in Heaven a choir of 10,000 angels will sing soprano, 10,000 will sing alto, 10,000 will sing tenor and I will sing bass! On that Monday, Ellis was greeted by thousands of angels singing his songs and thousands of angels were playing many different instuments but Ellis was playing Tuba!!
Kimbra Jossart <kjossart@earthlink.net>
Saint Michael, MN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:29 AM CST
What a beautiful tribute to a special little boy. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.
Vicki Bougan <vicki.bougan@comcast.net>
Castle Rock, CO USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:27 AM CST
Are hearts are broken for you. You are never out of our thoughts or prayers. Each milestone that Riley achieves we'll think of Ellis and we'll celebrate for him. He was so lucky to have loving, strong and kind parents to take care of him and love him and protect him, because that's the scarifice you made for him in the end. You are really heroes to us and we are amazed at your strength. And we weep for your loss and your pain. We're so sorry.
Laurie, Chuck and Riley Holm <chuckh55748@yahoo.com>
Hill City, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:27 AM CST
My heart breaks for you and for all that you had to go through. Ellis was and is a true miracle and you will always live in each other's hearts and souls. I thnk it's an amazing testament to you both that you were able to see exactly what Ellis needed and that was simply his mom and dad to hold him and let him know that it was OK to go. He will forever be your most precious angel and he had more impact in his short life than most people do in an entire lifetime. What a truly amazing gift your Ellis was to you and to the entire world. He will never be forgotten....

Wrapping you in hugs and love...
Kim Magnan <k_magnan@hotmail.com>
Plt. Prairie, WI - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:21 AM CST
My prayers are with all of you as you say goodbye to Ellis. Your story was beautiful and also comforting to know you took wonderful care of your son during the time he got his ~wings~.
Dee Lange <gndlange@frontiernet.net>
Apple Valley, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:10 AM CST
Ellis has the most precious gift of all-wonderful, kind, loving parents-until you meet again! Hugs,
Cheryl/Angel_Wings
MD - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:08 AM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa, Your words have been so amazing through this horrible journey. Our heartfelt sympathy to you. I am a high school biology teacher, and when Ellis returned to the hospital this fall I mentioned him to my students. Most had never heard of Caringbridge, so I pulled up Ellis' site on my computer and showed it to them on the screen in my room. Each day after that,in each class, they asked how Ellis was doing. Every day I pulled up the site for them. On Monday, I shared the site with them and the room was completely silent. They were very touched by all of this and followed your journey. They are a compassionate group of high school kids, very concerned about Ellis and sending healing thoughts each day. His life has made an impact on their lives. Just wanted you to know about these 100 kids also a part of Ellisville.

Leslie Swiggum <leslie.swiggum@wayzata.k12.mn.us>
Eden Prairie, MN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:06 AM CST
Sam and Melissa-

Thank you so much for sharing your story of Ellis with the world. As I read your latest entry, I had tears in my eyes-you have helped me realize how fragile life is and to take nothing for granted. Please accept my deepest sympathies as you continue on without your beautiful little boy. But take comfort that he is with the good Lord above. He is at peace.
Heather Davis <hdavis4000@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:04 AM CST
The Little Drummer Boy -

I will never hear this song the same again......

Love,
Pam
OsbornP@comcast.net <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 9:03 AM CST
I am moved by your last entry and I have tears in my eyes. No parents should have to say good bye to there children, especially when they are so young. My heart aches for you and I will pray for your family.
Lynn Miller <lymiller01@comcast.net>
Anoka, MN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:54 AM CST
Your story and entries bring tears to my eyes. We have a one-year-old and you continually remind us that life is such a gift and children are such a gift! We know that Ellis is smiling down on you and we continually pray that the Lord blesses you and brings you comfort.
Steph, Erik, & Whitney
Marshall, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:32 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,
thank you from the bottom of our hearts for sharing your story with us. What an incredible story! Our lives have been forever changed because we got to read and know your son through this website. We can't tell you how much we will miss hearing what he is up to next but we also know that he is forever here in spirit. He makes other people, all over the world, be better people be kinder people. He lets us all know how precious life here on earth is and that it most defiantly doesn't end here. We know that we will keep you both safe and he will be every part of your life everyday.

You are such an incredible people, parents and individuals. I don't think I have met such a strong family before. Your strength is an inspiration to others, to be strong and courageous, to face another day and know that you will survive.

I must say, that this is all because of your son ELLIS!!!! He is not gone; he will forever remain an inspiration and guiding light!!!!

Thank you so much for continuing to tell us your story, your feelings.

Madeline
Ajax, ON Canada - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:21 AM CST
There are simply no words. Just wanted you to know that I have been thinking of your family every day, ever since I saw your little angels picture in the Tribune. What incredible people you are and what a beautiful tribute to your angel.
JoAnn Ernste <jmernste@mchsi.com>
Savage, Mn - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:16 AM CST
Sam.Melissa.& families..Thank you again for sharing your beautiful strong awesome little angel with us..truely our lives have all been changed because of the "stongest little boy in the world" that none of us will ever forget.Thank you for making us remember what really is important in life and not how long we live but how we live our life.We all love you Ellis and one day we shall meet.Continued love&prayers The Meyer's Greg Annemarie Benjamin
annemarie meyer <annemarie11@charter.net>
austin, mn usa - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:07 AM CST
Thank you so much for sharing the Ellisville welcome. I tried countless times over the weekend to paraphrase your beautiful words, but always came up short. You are never far from our thoughts and prayers.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Monday, December 11, 2006 8:06 AM CST
The tears are running down my face. What a beatiful tribute to your strong and brave boy. You are wonderful parents.
Carol
Cleveland, - Monday, December 11, 2006 7:58 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,
Thank you so much for sharing your amazing boy with all of us in Ellisville. The world's greatest hero will never die in our hearts and minds.

Thank you Ellis for reminding us to stop and smell the roses, or, sit on the ground in the parking lot. :)

Praying for you,
Abby Dodds <abbyrose_85@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 7:43 AM CST
Melissa and Sam, as tears run down my cheeks I can't help but think how proud you are of the strength of your dear sweet Ellis. I wish I could say something to help ease your pain, but only God can do that and he will.Thank you for sharing Ellis with the world. We can all be better people because of it. God Bless You .
pat ivey <pivey@sbcglobal.net>
- Monday, December 11, 2006 7:30 AM CST
God bless you, Melissa and Sam. And thank you Ellis for teaching us all how to live life! Love and prayers, Shelley in Indiana
Shelley Klein
Floyds Knobs, IN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 7:21 AM CST
Beautiful words that tug at one's heart. May God continue to wrap you in his loving arms.
Susan Mitchell <smitchel@calfee.com>
Cleveland, Ohio United States - Monday, December 11, 2006 7:12 AM CST
E-Man - I played a lullaby for you a few times over this past weekend. I know that you will need to rest sometime as you run, jump, read, play with puppy's, sing, dance and play the drums. Let everyone in heaven know who Ellis, the E-Man, is ... "the bravest and strongest boy in the world, universe, heaven." God Bless you Ellis Joshua Bergstrom.
rp
bp, mn usa - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:56 AM CST
E-Man - I played a lullaby for you a few times over this past weekend. I know that you will need to rest sometime as you run, jump, read, play with puppy's, sing, dance and play the drums. Let everyone in heaven know who Ellis, the E-Man, is ... "the bravest and strongest boy in the world, universe, heaven." God Bless you Ellis Joshua Bergstrom.
rp
bp, mn usa - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:56 AM CST
Thinking of you this morning. Praying for you also.
Jodi <jomicheleb2@yahoo.com>
Clarkston, MI US - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:50 AM CST
Your sweet Ellis has forever touched my heart....thank you for sharing his precious life- the life that will continue always- his memory will never be forgotten...
Brenda Ladell <ladells@suddenlink.net>
Reno, TX USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:34 AM CST
I thank you for sharing your sweetest little Ellis with us , I thought about him this whole weekend and you his parents who loved him so very much. I will always remember your strong brave and beautiful little boy. May God bless you.
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl us - Monday, December 11, 2006 6:17 AM CST
A tribute fit for a hero. A tribute fit for Ellis. Painful, loving words to read. Harder yet, to feel. Sweet little Ellis, the world was a better place, with you in it.
Tracey
Mn - Monday, December 11, 2006 4:41 AM CST
Melissa and Sam.
Oh....one more thing, Take it slow and steady, as Ellis would and you two will be fine!
Love,
The Horns
michele
kennesaw, ga usa - Monday, December 11, 2006 4:29 AM CST
Melissa and Sam,
You two loved Ellis so much, you unselfishly gave him what he needed most at this time....peace and no pain. That was so beautiful, I am so glad that he quietly slipped away in your arms and not on some cold operating table like you said.........that was beautiful (crying :( ) Thank you for sharing that most intimate moment of your lives.
Love,
The Horns
Michele
Kennesaw, ga 30152 - Monday, December 11, 2006 4:23 AM CST
Thank you for sharing your son with me. I have tears silently streaming down my face.

He was so lucky to have parents like the both of you.
Dusty
- Monday, December 11, 2006 1:48 AM CST
Thank you Melissa for sharing your thoughts with us again. Ellis has such awesome parents. I am sure your loving hands were of great comfort as he journeyed to heaven. God's blessings be with you. Don't be afraid to ask for support, company, or whatever you need in the days and weeks ahead. We are here to support you now. Be gentle with yourself and one another. Give yourselves the same tender loving care that you gave Ellis. I know you are so proud of him - I am certain he is also in awe of what wonderful parents you are for him...now and forever. He will always be your son and have such a special place in your lives. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
mary Weinand <maw40@comcast.net>
Maple Grove, MN usa - Monday, December 11, 2006 0:57 AM CST
Thank you for sharing your letter tonight. If Ellis had to leave this world, what a wonderful way to go: surrounded by the love that he felt everyday. What you did was the most amazing, unselfish act I've heard of in a long time. I hope you'll always know in your heart that it was the right decision. You are amazing parents. When a child is only going to be here for a short time, God chooses the absolute best parents he can find for it. I'll continue to pray for you.
Lisa Whorten <lisawhorten@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 0:06 AM CST
I haven't known what to say since the day Ellis left us. I am so afraid I will write the wrong thing and add to your burden or make you both sadder, if possible, and I would hate to think that my stumbling words brought you more pain.

But this I must say, I think that everyone who has visited Ellisville has been guided here for special reasons and has remained here because of the compelling, special child that is Ellis. His sweet shining spirit shown through his beautiful eyes and reading about his amazing life through his mama and dada's wonderful writing brought joy for all who read about him and followed his wonderful life these past months.

As you and Sam are teachers, Ellis was and will remain a teacher. He taught me more about life and living in the short time he was here, than 54 years and 5 days has taught me. I treasure my family, friends, co-workers and just my life in general because of this child.

The nite of the 7th, I was driving home about 9:30 p.m. from an event and looked up into the clear sky and the moon was shining and there was a bright, bright star, I knew that star was Ellis, shining up the night.

Nite Nite Sweet Ellis, your job here is done. Run, skip, swing, play free of pain, pokes and tubes, you will never be tied down by that again.

Thank you Sam and Melissa for giving the world your son and sharing him with us.
Cheryl
- Monday, December 11, 2006 0:06 AM CST
I have never been to a more amazing or more touching tribute than Ellis's service was yesterday. The words, the hymns, the instrumentation, the strength, the glory, the pain, and the pride were overwhelming. It was amazing to me to be racked by sobs one moment and smiling with a mental image of Ellis patting the parking lot or rockin' out to the music the next. In the midst of unimaginable grief, it was so clear to everyone (as it always has been to Ellis) how proud you are of him, and how much you love him. He learned and taught more in his ripe old age than most do when given decades upon decades more. Melissa and Sam, so many have remarked at your strength...now when you may perhaps feel weaker and more helpless than you ever have before, you are so lucky to have each other and the family you have created to rely upon. Ellis has brought many tears to these swollen eyes, but especially since his service yesterday, although the tears and emptiness are still there, there are also smiles when I think of this littlest angel. And in my 5 year old daughter's remarkable wisdom these last few days...she casually says..."Mom, why are you so sad about Ellis? Isn't he in heaven, where it's wonderful and nobody is sad or hurting? I can't wait to play with him when I get there." We can learn so much from our children, and Ellis has taughts lessons that have changed many, many lives. Thank you for sharing your bravest, strongest, most adorable and endearing child with all of us. It takes strength to open yourselves up as you have, and from this you can also gain strength from your most amazing support network. Please lean on all of us when you need to, and we will continue to hold you close through the difficult days, weeks, months, years ahead.
Kristen <kristen.genet@anokaramsey.edu>
- Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:51 PM CST
I sit here my eyes full of tears after reading your beaufitul journal entry. Thank you both so very much for sharing Melissa's words about your last moments with your precious, strong, Ellis. That is so unselfish of you and I thank you for it. Your last moments together were beautiful. You are wonderful, wonderful parents. Your little guy was so precious to my heart. I will miss him immensely. I'm so thankful he had you two for parents. I will continue to come here frequently to check on you. I look forward to reading Sam's letter when you are able to post it. We miss you Ellis!

http://www.caringbridge.org/or/kaitlynp
Jennifer Powers <MommyJenRN@charter.net>
Central Point, OR USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:42 PM CST
No words but a song. Thank you for sharing the gift of your brave, sun-shiney, precious Ellis.

All I Have
What have I in this life
But the love in Your eyes
This empty world will one day fade
Only Your truth will remain

Jesus, all I have is You
You're the hope I'm holding to
I might weep but still my faith

Rests in You
As the heavens hold the skies
It's Your hand that holds my life
And Your love will lead me on
When all else is gone

Gena Disney <genadisney@gmail.com>
Mankato, MN United States - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:34 PM CST
My heart goes out to you as I sit here tonight and read the beautiful message from Melissa. I "stumbled" across Ellis' site about 6 months ago while visiting another Caringbridge friend. I was captivated by the photo you had displayed on the opening page; Ellis was wearing a blue shirt and had such a neat expression on his face. His blonde hair and blue eyes practically jumped off the page! I've followed your story ever since as a behind the scenes prayer-warrior, as I've never written in before. I'm in awe of the strengh of your son and your family. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Tanya Walker <madkat05@cox.net>
Phoenix, AZ USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:26 PM CST
What a beautiful recollection of your precious moments with Ellis...what a tribute to his bravery and the bravery and strength of the two of you as his parents. Blessed be the memory of dear Ellis.
Pam
- Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:26 PM CST
Melissa and Sam~
I know that this is long, but I love it and Ellis was definately the bravest little soul in the whole wide world!!!

The Brave Little Soul
By John Alessi

Not too long ago in Heaven there was a little soul who took wonder in observing the world. He especially enjoyed the love he saw there and often expressed this joy with God. One day however the little soul was sad, for on this day he saw suffering in the world. He approached God and sadly asked, “Why do bad things happen; why is there suffering in the world?”

God paused for a moment and replied, "Little soul, do not be sad, for the suffering you see, unlocks the love in people’s hearts.” The little soul was confused. “What do you mean,” he asked.” God replied, “Have you not noticed the goodness and love that is the offspring of that suffering? Look at how people come together, drop their differences and show their love and compassion for those who suffer. All their other motivations disappear and they become motivated by love alone.”

The little soul began to understand and listened attentively as God continued, “The suffering soul unlocks the love in people’s hearts much like the sun and the rain unlock the flower within the seed. I created everyone with endless love in their heart, but unfortunately most people keep it locked up and hardly share it with anyone. They are afraid to let their love shine freely, because they are afraid of being hurt. But a suffering soul unlocks that love. I tell you this - it is the greatest miracle of all. Many souls have bravely chosen to go into the world and suffer - to unlock this love – to create this miracle - for the good of all humanity."

Just then the little soul got a wonderful idea and could hardly contain himself. With his wings fluttering, bouncing up and down, the little soul excitedly replied, "I am brave; let me go! I would like to go into the world and suffer so that I can unlock the goodness and love in people’s hearts! I want to create that miracle!"

God smiled and said, "You are a brave soul I know, and thus I will grant your request. But even though you are very brave you will not be able to do this alone. I have known since the beginning of time that you would ask for this and so I have carefully selected many souls to care for you on your journey. Those souls will help you create your miracle; however they will also share in your suffering. Two of these souls are most special and will care for you, help you and suffer along with you, far beyond the others. They have already chosen a name for you.”

God and the brave little soul shared a smile, and then embraced. In parting, God said, “Do not forget little soul that I will be with you always. Although you have agreed to bear the pain, you will do so through my strength. And if the time should come when you feel that you have suffered enough, just say the word, think the thought, and you will be healed.”

Thus at that moment the brave little soul was born into the world, and through his suffering and God’s strength, he unlocked the goodness and love in people’s hearts. For so many people dropped their differences and came together to show their love. Priorities became properly aligned. People gave from their hearts. Those that were always too busy found time. Many began new spiritual journeys – some regained lost faith – many came back to God. Parents hugged their children tighter. Friends and family grew closer. Old friends got together and new friendships were made. Distant family reunited, and every family spent more time together. Everyone prayed. Peace and love reigned. Lives changed forever. It was good. The world was a better place. The miracle had happened. God was pleased.

Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:26 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
Reading your beautiful tribute to Eiis (through tears)again showed the unselfish love and devotion with which you have shared Ellis's life. Your instincts and love gave him permission to snuggle into your arms as he peacefully returned to God's arms. One of my children, when he was small, told me he remembered being in heaven before he was born. He remembered his grandma rocking him and singing to him before God sent him to be our child. From the mouths of babes comes such beautiful wisdom. God truly sent Ellis to be your child and you shared him with more people than you will ever know. Many hearts will grieve with you and be forever changed by his life. Our love, sympathy and prayers will continue to be with you.
The Maurers <jmaurer125@yahoo.com>
St. Micheal, MN Wright - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:17 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,

What a beautiful entry and such a special tribute to our most bravest boy in the world. We continue to pray for peace and comfort for you each and every day. And as a resident of Ellisville I just want you to know, I am not moving!- We will be here for you always! And we will never forget Ellis - I know he will be part of my heart forever!
A. Elliott
- Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:16 PM CST
You have touched my heart. Thank you.
Jill Dyer
Ellis County, TX - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:03 PM CST
What an amazing letter from an amazing mother. We continue to hold your family and of course, your dearest Ellis, close to our hearts.
Erin W
St. Michael, MN - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:01 PM CST
Hi Melissa and Sam...
I want to thank you for sharing the beautiful journal entry today...it takes my breath away. Your strength and your love for Ellis is so evident. I am sure that making the decision to NOT do any more procedures was difficult, yet simple at the same time...like you said...you KNEW. I think it is such a testimony of your love for Ellis that you would ensure that he would let go while he was with both of you. That is so beautiful. There is nothing as pure as the love we have for our children and your time with Ellis was the best example of that. Each and every day you filled his life with love! Melissa, I know others have told you this, and I hope you are aware of it....you are a very gifted writer. Wow...your entries paint pictures for all of us readers. Thank you for sharing your son with the world. Our prayers for your family continue and we hope that somehow, they will bring you comfort and peace. We will check in again soon...
Blessings~
The Botz's
www.caringbridge.org/visit/carterbotz
Mary Botz <jmbotz@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:57 PM CST
Ellis was a lucky little guy to have you both as his parents and you are equally lucky to have him as a son. You're an amazing little family.
Laura Amdahl <amla0501@stcloudstate.edu>
St. Cloud, MN USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:50 PM CST
Last night, while having a cup of coffee, I wrote this...

Why? 12/9/06

Today was the funeral for Ellis Bergstrom. He passed away 5 days ago on Monday, Dec. 4th. He lived for 2 years, 8 months and 9 days. Such a short amount of time. I have been here for 39 years, 5 months and 5 days on Dec. 4th. Who is to say what constitutes "a full life?" Ellis never went to school, drove a car, had a first date or went to work. Do those things count as a "full life"? In his short life, he was loved without question. He loved others without question. He laughed. He was sad. He felt the sun on his face. In the end, maybe it really is those things that matter most. Melissa & Sam devoted their time to ensure that his days were filled with those things more than anything else. That is a life worth living and give as true an indication of what God perhaps means for each of us- to feel true love from and for another person. Ellis was blessed. He loved music. He loved Elmo. He loved his parents. He passing is sad for this world. His spirit continues on in all these people that were touched by this remarkable boy. He was a gift from God to all these people and the lessons of his life will live in all of us who were lucky enough to have been here to witness it. Slow and steady wins the race. Ellis, without question, you won the race. I have learned much from you and your parents. Each day, each passing moment is to be savored and enjoyed in as complete a way as possible. It is worthwhile to stop, sit down and pat the ground. Why? Because it is there. It is there today for us to do. 39 years, 8 months and 9 days it took me to get that idea and you knew it from the start. It is all these small, little things that are most important. Enjoy and celebrate the moment. That was your gift. You are a gift for sharing that with me and all that knew and loved you. You are one of a kind and will not be forgotten. Thank you and may God always hold you close.

Your pal,

Dan
Daniel G. Moir <DMoir5150@yahoo.com>
Eden Prairie, MN United States - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:48 PM CST
WOW! Melissa, how proud Ellis must be of his mama! Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Not just for sharing the letter, but for sharing the light of your life. By making this world a brighter place by sharing Ellis with the world. For letting us all know that if we have the simple things, that Life is Good!
May Ellis continue to shine light in your lives and come to you at your darkest moments and remind you that Life is Good and that you are the best!
Close in my thoughts!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:37 PM CST
Thank you for sharing with all of us out here in Ellisville the story of your dear wonderful son. Many of us have been reading your journal since your very first entry or so. Many is the time I checked several times a day and almost every Sunday at HN one of the first things we would hear would be "Have you heard how Ellis is doing?". God bless you and bring you comfort. You are in my prayers.
Nan Girod <CDLOWL@aol.com>
Crystal, MN - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:36 PM CST
When I told you, Melissa, that you were such a lovely and eloquent writer, well...that was before tonight's journal entry. Now, there are truly no words to describe how I feel about your writing. That was the most BEAUTIFUL thing I've ever read. I am absolutely floored at your strength and in AWE of your eloquence during this time of such loss. You are a true believer, and you will hear the music that Ellis has made in this world forever. He continues to sing and play music with all the choirs of angels! You GAVE him that music. I only hope I will have instilled that music in my own kids as wonderfully as you have. Your heart and soul radiates throughout Ellisville tonight, and will for years to come. How absolutely beautiful. Love, Jess
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:35 PM CST
Thank you Sam and Melissa for sharing Ellis with us! You words shared today really have left me awestruck at the power of one little boy. Thank you Ellis for being the bravest and strongest boy in the world.
The Schill Family
Grand Forks, ND - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:30 PM CST
Thank you Melissa and Sam for sharing your HERO with all of us. All of us residents of Ellisville are here to stay and here to listen. THANK YOU!! May god bless you and be with you every single day. WE LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!



Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:26 PM CST
Such beautiful and precious words...only a mama and dada cold speak such perfect words about the bravest and strongest and most perfect boy in the world. Sleep with angels Ellis.
Mindi <melinda_chouinard@hotmail.com>
Tacoma, WA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:19 PM CST
Ellis must be smiling at you right now. Your journal entry is the most beautiful thing I have ever read and I'm sure that it's exactly as Ellis planned it. What a gift to have such insight and love during such a hard time. My prayers are focused on your family tonight.
www.caringbridge.org/visit/owenpilot
Liz Pilot
- Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:16 PM CST
Thank you for sharing your letter on CB. It was a privilege to be at the celebration of Ellis' life. What an amazing, amazing boy. :0) Praying for you always.
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:13 PM CST
Thankyou Melissa and Sam. Thankyou for sharing your son with us. All of the residents of Ellisville are here to stay! We are forever with you guys. God's peace be unto you.

WE LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Sunday, December 10, 2006 10:13 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
I was deeply saddened to hear the news of Ellis today at Holy Nativity. This was the first I heard of the news and it brought tears to my eyes, pain to my heart and many personal emotions to the front. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this time. Please feel free to contact us if there is anything we can do or you simply need someone to listen who understands on a very close level.

May God bring peace to your hearts in time.
Darin & Jodi <jkldal@msn.com>
- Sunday, December 10, 2006 9:22 PM CST
Remembering sweet Ellis and praying for your precious family. I hope that He gives you many glimpses of the joy that Ellis is now experiencing.

I realize that there is nothing I can say to make this hurt any better... but know that I care and that I am lifting your family in prayer.

Praying!
Rebecca and Tabor (www.caringbridge.com/visit/taborfleming)
Rebecca Fleming <rektorikfleming@yahoo.com>
Dallas, TX USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 7:52 PM CST
Thinking and praying for you in the difficult days ahead. Your sweet Ellis is always on my mind.
Tonia Ernst <home4my2boys@yahoo.com>
Morrison, IL - Sunday, December 10, 2006 7:21 PM CST
Sam and Melissa~
I am writing to you with thanks today. Thanks for sharing this long journey with us. Thanks for sharing the ups and downs so detailed and freely of the many months behind you. Thanks for sharing what lies ahead of you and for letting us continue to be a part of your lives, and your past. Thank you for honoring Ellis with such a beautiful celebration of his life yesterday. Thank you for being the kind, selfless, courageous, giving, loving people and parents you are. Thank you.

I wanted to say that the greatest moment yesterday in my eyes was the moment the pastor picked up Ellis' urn and marched down the aisle to the fabulous swingy, New Orleans music. I watched Sam hold his arm out to you, Melissa as you took hold and took your brave first steps from the service. And though I knew sadness and mourning burdened you, in that moment, what I saw was incredible love and pride. You looked so proud of Ellis. What a profound impact you have made in all our lives. Thank you. With unstoppable love, The Russells
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 4:27 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers will continue for your family and friends. Our congregation (Sarah's internship site) lifted you all up in prayer today. I cannot fathom such loss and can only pray that you will be comforted by the love and care of others and by the memories of your beautiful and courageous boy.
Peg <pbe@lstc.edu>
Chicago, - Sunday, December 10, 2006 4:20 PM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,

I haven't been able to get you off my mind today. I find myself wondering what you are doing at the moment my mind thinks of you. I just wanted you to know we will continue to pray for you every day. I'm so proud of both of you. You are amazing!

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Sunday, December 10, 2006 4:04 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
The both of you have more strength than you realize. The two of you have more strength and courage than anyone I know. Ellis is looking down on the both of you and thanking god for the best parents in the whole world. He would give you both two thumbs up for planing such a wonderful celebration service of his life, and sharing it with all the residence of Ellisville. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Sunday, December 10, 2006 3:38 PM CST
Dear Sam & Melissa,
We have been checking your website daily & continue to be at a loss for words. We are deeply sorry! Ellis & yourselves have moved us until the very end. I am sure the celebration of his life was very moving , wish we could have been there to share. Ellis will be remembered always and you both are in our thoughts & prayers! With sincere sympathy. Our daughter Carly will continue on with the Elmo dance in his memory. Take Care & GOD BLESS!
Maria, Jaime & Carly Harris
caringbridge.org/mn/carlymayharris
Maria Harris <mariajharris@earthlink.net>
Rosemount, MN - Sunday, December 10, 2006 3:14 PM CST
Driving through Plymouth, MA today, I made my way down a stretch of highway I have travelled on countless times. I thought I knew the area like the back of my hand - until I noticed a street sign that said Ellisville Road. I couldn't help but smile and think of Ellis. The next time I'm in that area, I'll try to take a picture of the sign for you.
Again, I'm thinking and praying about you and Ellis every day. Take care and God bless.
Hugs,
Johanna and Daniel
www.caringbridge.org/visit/danieljr
Johanna
MA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 2:50 PM CST
Thoughts and prayers are with you now and will be in the days ahead. I know you miss Ellis. Just take it one day at a time. I hope it helps to know others are holding you up in prayer and care deeply about you.
a neighbor
maple Grove, - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:54 AM CST
I just haven't known what to say. Everytime I come to the guestbook I'm at a loss for words. I am so sorry for the loss of Ellis. I just come to the website and cry. I didn't even know him, but what an impact he made. His sweet little smile and his fighting spirit! What a sweet boy. I am so sorry. You are in my prayers constantly. I think about your family when I wake up in the morning, when I go to bed at night, so many times. I just pray the Lord will give comfort to you both!
Shauna King <6kings@earthlink.net>
Youngsville, NC USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 11:50 AM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Beth & Robert Young and Family <ry.young@comcast.com>
Minnetonka, MN USA - Sunday, December 10, 2006 9:57 AM CST
Thinking of and praying for you for continued comfort in the days-weeks-months-years ahead! Yesterday was filled with such tear-filled emotion and I had so wanted to meet you both, Sam and Melissa, and thank you for sharing your precious little boy with all of us who visited this website throughout Ellis' courageous fight. The little red heart now hangs our our tree and will continue to be visible throughout the years to come as we share now in grieving for such a beautiful little boy who touched all our lives!!! We are near here in Austin to g&g Ron & Gaye and if ever needed, we are here for all of you -- God Bless such a beautiful and loving family always and you remain forever in our hearts and thoughts-- ("
Donna (" & Jeff Tollefson <dftolly@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Sunday, December 10, 2006 9:13 AM CST
Thinking of your family, and praying for your peace, strength, and comfort for the days, weeks and months ahead. You are probably really numb right now, but with the numbness wears off, we are here for you. I've been where you are now. Feel free to email me if you need to vent or talk. I am here for you!

Love~ Claire Roy (^i^ Laken's Mommy~ Heart mommy)
http://www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
OUR ANGEL IN HEAVEN~OUR HEART BABY
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Sunday, December 10, 2006 8:44 AM CST
I've been thinking of you and holding you close in my heart. I hope you are able to feel the love, from people all over the country. Love for you and especially love for one special little Ellis.
Tracey
Mn - Sunday, December 10, 2006 5:16 AM CST
Still here and still praying so hard for your family!
Ps 16:9 Therefore my heart is glad, and my glory rejoiceth: my flesh also shall rest in hope.
The Prayer Bears Website
Lynn <aprayerbear@gmail.com>
Seattle, WA United States - Sunday, December 10, 2006 0:30 AM CST
Melissa and Sam-
Ellis would have been proud. You planned such a beautiful celebration for him, I know he was looking down on you, thinking, "Yep! That's my mama and dada!". I will say it again, you are the most amazing people I have ever known. You have more strength and courage than anyone I know. It's not a surprise Ellis was the way he was.
With tons of love, thoughts, and prayers,
Sara Quarberg <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Saturday, December 9, 2006 9:34 PM CST
Thinking of you today. Praying for some kind of comfort for you.
Lori Winkel (Rupe) <jlthwink@sbcglobal.net>
Suamico, wi - Saturday, December 9, 2006 9:01 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
Your courage and strength are an insperation to all of us. Thank you for sharing your letters with all of us today and thank you for sharing Ellis with us over these last two years. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Love,
Dana ;)
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Saturday, December 9, 2006 6:58 PM CST
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. We only knew Ellis through pictures and words, but he touched our lives. God bless you.
Mialkowski Family <ahem617@aol.com>
Plainfield, IL - Saturday, December 9, 2006 6:27 PM CST
My heart and prayers have been with you, Sam and Melissa...I just checked the guestbook and saw that you both wrote letters to Ellis...what a strong and courageous thing to share them with so many...maybe you can post them sometime as those of us who would have attended, even as strangers, are so touched by the words and jornal entries you've written from the beginning of Ellis' and your journey.

I am so sorry for the loss of the bravest boy in the world and want to tell you that I will be thinking of you always. I know the days ahead will not be easy and that your burden is unthinkable...but you have lifted Ellis and his memory up so strongly and beautifully. Thank you for sharing him with all us fans of Ellisville.

Love, Jessica Diedrich
Jessica DIedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Saturday, December 9, 2006 5:55 PM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,

We got home just a short while ago from Ellis' memorial service and I needed to tell you what an honor and privilege it was to be part of it. You honored your son beautifully. It was both a sad and joyous goodbye. Thank you so much for sharing his last days with us so we wouldn't wonder what was going on, but knew. It meant so much to me personally. What beautiful parents you two are. The letters you wrote to Ellis were so moving. God Bless you both in the days, weeks and years to follow. You are two very special people and Ellis was so blessed to have you as parents.

Love,
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN USA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 4:56 PM CST
Ellis - Run, jump, swing, read, laugh, play the drums and tell the Lord about your fantastic parents and how blessed you are to have them in your life. Thank you Ellis for teaching so many people to love and care for others. You gave a gift to so many, many people. God Bless you. Thank you for being a part of my life.
RP
BP, MN USA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 4:25 PM CST
I've thought of you so often this week, and especially yesterday and today as you gather with friends and family to remember dear, precious Ellis. My prayers continue to surround you...
Shirley Ochsner <ochs@nvc.net>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 4:15 PM CST
"Every time a bell rings an Angel get's it's wings" Fly free little Ellis... Missy and Sam may you find peace in the days weeks and months to come. Know that you will always have a support group We all love you
Karen Buege New Life Church Bolingbrook <kbuege@wilton.com>
Downers Grove , IL - Saturday, December 9, 2006 3:49 PM CST
I'm thinking of y'all today.
A caring friend
- Saturday, December 9, 2006 3:19 PM CST
We have been thinking a lot of Ellis yesterday and today and celebrate his life with you during these tough days... I can't begin to understand how difficult it is for you right now, but want you to know that he was a blessing to all of us and has changed our lives tremendously. We will continue to send love and prayers your way as we know you will need it for quite some time. We thank you and thank God for letting us share in this journey with you and Ellis, who is truly the bravest and strongest and certainly the cutest boy in the world!!
The Furr Family <d.furr@comcast.net>
Shorewood, il - Saturday, December 9, 2006 2:40 PM CST
Thinking of your family today and
holding you close in our prayers.
Trish/Angel_Wings <Kngboyer@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 12:43 AM CST
Missy & Sam-

My grandma has checked the website daily for a long time. She was always updating us on how Ellis was doing and telling us how smart he was. We are all very sad by this loss.

I pray for you and your family during this hard time. Your family has touched so many people. I know Ellis' story will continue to do so.
Amy Crawford <amyoslc@msn.com>
Hillsboro, ND - Saturday, December 9, 2006 10:44 AM CST
I wish I could be there today to celebrate Ellis. Ellis touched my heart and I think of him often. I am praying for you as you go through this difficult time.
Karen Hatfield <wkhatfield812@yahoo.com>
Coarsegold, CA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 10:34 AM CST
Thinking of Ellis, those who love him, and all of those who have gathered today to wish him Godspeed. Peace.
Kathryn Campbell <campfam@htc.net>
Columbia, - Saturday, December 9, 2006 10:11 AM CST
Melissa and Sam, I'm so sorry for your loss. Ellis was a very special, strong boy who touched everyone who had the pleasure to care for him. He conquered some amazing feets in his short life. I feel very blessed for having been able to care for such an amazing boy and strong family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Grace Walker, PICU RN <graciejo4@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, December 9, 2006 9:48 AM CST
Hoping you are finding comfort in family and friends during the hardest times. Prayers for you both and for Ellis who is now watching over you.

Wendy Smith <bnwsmith@sbcglobal.net>
Romeoville, Il USA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 9:02 AM CST
Praying you will find strength to get through today. What a beautiful life to celebrate with Little Ellis. Utilize the family and friends around you.

Prayers and hugs,
Connie Frisby-Griffin <cdlfg@adelphia.net>
Colorado Springs, CO - Saturday, December 9, 2006 8:55 AM CST
Praying very special prayers for all of you today. Remembering your sweet Angel Ellis.
Love,
Lis Geoghegan <liveinspirit@aol.com>
Cabot, AR - Saturday, December 9, 2006 8:38 AM CST
Thank you for sharing Ellis with us during his short time on earth. He was a blessed gift and an inspiration.
I keep you in my prayers.
R Vess
Forest City, NC - Saturday, December 9, 2006 7:02 AM CST
I just wanted to let you know that Ellis is on my mind daily. He touched my life when I needed it most. He helped me to remember what is truly important in life. Thank you once again for sharing your beautiful Angel with us. May God comfort you each day until that wonderful day when we all meet in Heaven.

God Bless You
Rhonda
Woodruff, SC USA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 5:39 AM CST
I just wanted to let you know that Ellis is on my mind daily. He touched my life when I needed it most. He helped me to remember what is truly important in life. Thank you once again for sharing your beautiful Angel with us. May God comfort you each day until that wonderful day when we all meet in Heaven.

God Bless You
Rhonda
Woodruff, SC USA - Saturday, December 9, 2006 5:38 AM CST
Dear Sam & Melissa,
I have written several times in the guest book since Ellis was born and since he left you here on earth. I wanted you both to know you are not forgotten even though I can't check your site on Ellis's progress anymore please journal and let us all know how you both are doing. I, like many, have a big empty space in my heart and we feel your feeling of loss.......please let us know how your doing.
Love,
The Horn's
michele
kennesaw, ga usa - Saturday, December 9, 2006 5:20 AM CST
Praying tonight with the strongest boy in the world for the strongest mommy and daddy in the world. May you know peace again one day soon.

P.S. Sunday is the national Candlelighters 10th annual wave of light. Candles should be lit at 7PM your local time and should burn for 1 hour to send a wave of light across the world in rememberence of our precious lost children. Mine will be lit for my big brother who died in 1968 after a 4 year battle with ALL. He would have been 45 today...Happy Day David! Give Ellis a big hug for his mommy and daddy.
Mindi <melinda_chouinard@hotmail.com>
Tacoma , WA - Friday, December 8, 2006 11:35 PM CST
Terry sang the song he wrote for Ellis tonight at his concert. You could have heard a pin drop. I know this boy of yours, this sweetest, bravest, strongest boy of yours, will continue to move mountains. Nothing can stop him. He is eternal.
Ellen Beaudry <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 10:53 PM CST
I've thought of you so many times in the past few days, and especially tonight. Ellis has been the center of your lives for the past 2+ years and I cannot imagine the emptiness that fills your home today. I know he has been healed in heaven and our prayers have, therefore, been answered, but that's probably little consolation at this point- nothing could be more difficult than losing your beloved child. You have been an inspiration as parents and caretakers- thank you for allowing us into your lives and for sharing your precious son with us. Ellis will never be forgotten, and I hope you feel his presence as you try to move forward without him at your side. If you ever feel you can, please update this website- so many of us feel we now "know" your family, and we care so much about how you are doing. God Bless you.....
Megan Wohlwend <mewohlwend@aol.com>
IL - Friday, December 8, 2006 10:39 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
Pure and simple, in these last many months we have grown to love Ellis and you. You created a most beautiful, loving, and celebratory tribute to Ellis tonight at the visitation. It was an honor to be with your beloved Ellis in spirit and to be with you and your family and friends. We continue to offer you our heartfelt sympathy in this time of deepest grief, and are keeping you close.
Love,
Marilynn and Phil
Marilynn Bast and Phil Kofron (ECLC) <Marilynnkb@aol.com>
- Friday, December 8, 2006 10:07 PM CST
Sending prayers your way on what must be a difficult day.
Sandy
Canada - Friday, December 8, 2006 9:29 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
I just wanted to say that it was great to see the both of you today. You both have so much courage and strength. I now know where Ellis gets it from. I loved every minute I spent with him. I am not sure what else to say here so this is what I think. Ellis would give you both two thumbs way up for being so strong and for giving him so much love. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.

Love,
Dana
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Friday, December 8, 2006 9:11 PM CST
Missy and Sam,
We send our love, smiles, and hugs tonight and tomorrow, as well as, in the following days and months. We praise and celebrate Ellis. In his short time with you, he shared amazing and enduring love for you both. Feel his gaze, hear his whispers, listen for his giggles and see his everlasting smile. With Jesus, he is now whole and healthy--they both will be watching over you both.
Play your drums, piano and sing with gusto for Ellis. We celebrate Ellis. I am singing with gusto here in SD!
Our family continues our prayers for you both. Our love and prayers for your comfort and peace--the Smooks (Shirlene, Denny, Charley, Josh, and Missy)
Shirlene Knudtson Smook <drmomsd@hotmail.com>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 8:33 PM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa
My prayers are with your family- my heart aches for you but
I also know that little sweet, Ellis, now resides with our
Lord in Heaven. My heart will be with you tomorrow as beautiful music is playing for your precious son's memory
and my cousin, Paul Hahn will be playing the mandolin one more time for Ellis as he loved to do. Your son has touched
so many -for his short life he leaves a legacy of love.
God Bless you and keep you close.
Tai Praegitzer <tai@303products.com>
Palo Cedro, CA USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 6:18 PM CST
My thoughts keep coming around to your sweet Ellis, no matter what I am doing at the time. Just wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers each and every day, and especially so this evening and tomorrow as you celebrate and honor the blessed life of precious Ellis. I pray that you find some comfort in the many thousands of people thinking of and praying for you all.
Debby Cushing <dbsue@casstel.net>
Peculiar, MO USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 6:05 PM CST
I know that right now, at this very moment, you are having to endure one of the most difficult evenings in your life and I am so so sorry. I wish I could do something to take away your pain, but please just know that I am holding your family close to my heart at this hour of need, and always. Love, A stranger from IL, Jessica D
Jessica Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Friday, December 8, 2006 5:53 PM CST
Sam and Melissa. I wanted you to know what a joy it was knowing Ellis. I was only his nurse a few times at the U of M, but Eliis and the two of you touched my heart. You are in my prayers.

Linda Wenker <linda.kay.wenker@us.army.mil>
Elk River, MN United States - Friday, December 8, 2006 5:15 PM CST
As you celebrate Ellis's life, I wanted you to know that you are in my prayers. Though I am in NC my heart is in MN. I cannot believe how much Ellis touched me in such a short time. I look forward to meeting him in Heaven! Prayers for strength and peace for you.
Lisa Whorten <lisawhorten@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 4:38 PM CST
Sam, Melissa and family, I think with the time difference that Ellis' visitation might be starting right about now. I want you to know I'm thinking of you and praying for you right now during what surely is an unspeakably difficult time for your family. I'm so sorry. I already miss hearing about your sweet Ellis.

http://www.caringbridge.org/or/kaitlynp
Jennifer Powers <MommyJenRN@charter.net>
Central Point, OR USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 4:30 PM CST
Melissa and Sam:

I know that a lot of people have been putting poems and songs and such in the guestbook and I wasn't going to...but I heard this song on the radio and thought of Ellis and the two of you . My prayers are with you as I can not imagine what you are experiencing. God Bless You All!!

HOMESICK by MercyMe
You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times
And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you
But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry
Is how long must I wait to be with you

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

In Christ, there are no goodbye
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
To see you again

And I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
Won't you give me strength to make it through somehow

I've never been more homesick than now
Teri Johnson
Ellendale, ND - Friday, December 8, 2006 4:20 PM CST
Sam and Melissa
I do not know you but I do know Sam's mom Mary Gaye. I have followed the caring bridge site since Ellis was born. I was deeply saddened to read of Ellis' passing. He was such a fighter. I pray that you will find comfort as you go through these difficult days ahead. God Bless you both!
Lisa Bergstrom <bergy@charter.net>
Austin, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 3:12 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. You don't know me but I found Ellis through Reese Batterberry's sight last month and have been praying for your beautiful boy. He is now in the arms of sweet Jesus. I will continue praying for your family.
April <halfdozmom@peoplepc.com>
WA - Friday, December 8, 2006 3:00 PM CST
Hi Bergstroms.
I'm so sorry about your loss. I have been praying for you. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. But, Ellis has fought the good fight and finished the race strong. Can't you almost imagine God welcoming him home and saying "Welcome Home Ellis. Well Done!!" :) Ellis has touched more lives than most could probably ever hope to.

"God my God, I cry out
Your beloved needs You now
God, be near, calm my fear
And take my doubt

Your kindness is what pulls me up
Your love is all that draws me in

I will life my eyes to the Maker
Of the mountains I can't climb
I will lift my eyes to the Healer
Of the hurt I hold inside
I will lift my eyes, lift my eyes to You.

God, my God, let Mercy sing
Her melody over me
God, right here all I bring
Is all of me

'Cause You are and You were and You will be forever
The Lover I need to save me
'Cause You fashioned the earth and You hold it together, God
So hold me now."

"I Will Lift My Eyes" by Bebo Norman

I pray God will comfort you and give you His peace that surpasses all understanding.


Angela J.
Brooklyn Park, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:55 PM CST
Hi again, Bergstroms,
I just wanted to let you know that I wrote a special journal entry for Ellis today (Dec. 8). I know you must be very busy right now, but I wanted to let you know in case you want to read it later. Please know that we're keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Hugs,
Johanna and Daniel
www.caringbridge.org/visit/danieljr
Johanna
MA - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:41 PM CST
Thinking about you today as you reflect on and celebrate Ellis' life. He had so many gifts that he gave to all of us, even those of us who never met him personally. He has encouraged so many through his own strength and courage. Thank you so much for sharing his wonderful spirit with us.
Mary Ann
Houston, - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:41 PM CST
Tonight you will see first hand all the hearts that Ellis touched and left a mark on....Tonight, tomorrow, and all future days I pray that you have the same strength and courage that Ellis has. That you continue to feel Ellis' strong love for you and that you continue to live your lives the way Ellis lived his...He is an AMAZING little boy and you are AMAZING parents! Live with Love!
Holding you so close in my heart right now!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:36 PM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa
I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful baby boy. Your parents Sam, have filled in my family with progress and the great stregths Ellis has overcome in his short life. I have also experienced illness with my son and the pain you experience as parents is impossible to explain to anyone. Also the rollercoaster of emotions from hour to hour is such exstreme highs and lows. You know the true meaning when someone says enjoy every sec minute hour you have with Ellis.
God gives us so many gifts in life, but also presents us with many challenges. May the love you have for eachother help you get through this stage in your life. Let family and friends help even on the hard days.
May God be with you and May Ellis's memory be eternal.

Mary (Davis) Kloek
Mary(Davis)Kloek <mplsgreekgirl@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:21 PM CST
My most heartfelt sympathy.


Shannon
MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:13 PM CST
My heart continues to ache for you and your families. I am still in disbelief that Ellis' courageous battle has come to an end here on earth. I can only imagine the "why's" and "how's" that must cloud your minds as you try to make sense of this new world that surrounds you without your baby boy. All week long I have been consumed with thoughts of how utterly overwhelming it must be to face the daily tasks of living without Ellis...how every room of your house must reflect his presence and your neverending love for him. I wish I could be present to celebrate Ellis' amazing life, his strength and courage, his achievements, his laughter, but please know my heart and spirit will be with all of Ellisville giving thanks for the strongest and bravest boy in the world. I hope there are moments amidst your pain that you are able to feel the love, to smile through the tears, and to embrace the many memories you made with your amazing Ellis.

Amy Runningen <amyscotland@hotmail.com>
Maplewood, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:11 PM CST
Bergstroms-
You are in the continued thoughts, prayers, and hearts of many choir students, music faculty, and music alumni at AR. We've been thinking and praying for you.

ARCC Choirs
Coon Rapids, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 1:59 PM CST
I have come here so many times to leave you a message, and the words have failed me. My head is still reeling. I have been checking in on you for quite some time now, and I was floored with Ellis’ recent string of problems, and never even thought of his not overcoming any of them. I don’t even know what to say. I have been holding my 18 month old daughter a little tighter lately…. My heart goes out to you on your tremendous loss. Perhaps the best I can hope for is that you can feel a little bit of the love that is out there for this sweet little boy, from others like me, silently checking in and praying for him all along, and praying every bit as much for you and your strength now.
Cindy
OH - Friday, December 8, 2006 1:37 PM CST
SO SORRY!! We are crying so much it is hard to type. Loved seeing little Ellis at church in New Hope, seems like yesterday, but it was before his transplant. His pictures are angelic and he is surely the most handsome little boy in the chorus of angels! With mom and dad's musical ability, he can't help but have the brightest and best solo in Heaven's Christmas pageant! His Life, Strong Battle and incredible ability to persevere to the end has moved our hearts to make our donations in his name to Childrens hospital and to the heart transplant unit for children.
Eivind and Stephanie Heiberg <eheiberg@isd.net>
Ramsey, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 1:36 PM CST
thinking of you today....on a very hard day of remembrance, celebrating ellis's life, and being surrounded by those you have affected so profoundly. May God cover you today.
erin eccles <sixtygallons@hotmail.com>
mankato, mn - Friday, December 8, 2006 1:02 PM CST
I am very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son.

Many blessings to you and yours.

Sky and Nicole
www.caringbridge.org/nm/nicole
Sky Fiske <Shefem@aol.com>
Belen, NM USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 12:46 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,

Our hearts cry out to you. I can not begin to imagine how hard this is. We will be thinking about you and praying for you.


Casey and Gena Winkels <winkct_@hotmail.com>
Richfield, MN Hennipin - Friday, December 8, 2006 12:37 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,

Our hearts cry out to you. I can not begin to imagine how hard this is. We will be thinking about you and praying for you.


Casey and Gena Winkels <winkct_@hotmail.com>
Richfield, MN Hennipin - Friday, December 8, 2006 12:36 AM CST
Praying for you to find strength and peace today. Ellis will never be forgotten.
Tonia Ernst <home4my2boys@yahoo.com>
Morrison, IL - Friday, December 8, 2006 12:17 AM CST
Hello~
Just wanted to stop in and let you know I have been thinking of you guys pretty much non stop lately. I wish we could physically be with you tonight to celebrate the amazing life of your sweet little Ellis, but we can't. We will be with you in our hearts, though. We are praying that you will find an unspeakable amount of strength and courage from this gathering...that the countless people who bring or send their prayers to you will give peace beyond words. I cannot imagine what these past days have been like for you...actually what these past years have been like for you. I know that nothing will bring you the comfort you knew when your sweet baby was here with you, but I truly believe that he continues to live...maybe now more than ever. He is playing, running, laughing...and watching over the both of you. His love for you hasn't gone...feel it. Much love to both of you...and to all of the families and friends whose hearts are broken with Ellis' passing. Blessings to all of you as you make your way through the next days, months, years....................
The Botz's
www.caringbridge.com/visit/carterbotz
Mary Botz <jmbotz@hotmail.com>
- Friday, December 8, 2006 12:16 AM CST
Sam and Melissa, my prayers are with you through this difficult time. Although I don't know your family, I somehow happened upon your page, and have followed Ellis for quite some time, he was such a strong little man, braver than any of us will ever be. He is finally healed.
Melissa <mdieken@yahoo.com>
Fargo, ND - Friday, December 8, 2006 11:31 AM CST
Hi Meliissa and Sam,
I am so sad to hear about your loss, but heaven just gained another angel. Ellis was truly an inspiration to many people, me included. He truly was the bravest and strongest boy that I know, and my heart aches for you and your family during this very difficult time. I will be praying for you, praying that god give you the strength to be able to pull through this. I don't even know quite what to say, it's realy hard to come up with comforting words, because I can't even imagine what you are going through. But I know that you two are very strong people and I know that you will get through this somehow. You have a lot of supporters out there. Sending you lots of love and prayers!!
Laura Moynihan <moyn0006@metnet.edu>
Isanti, Mn 55040 - Friday, December 8, 2006 11:23 AM CST
Hi again Melissa, Sam, and ^Ellis^

I just came across a part of a poem that reminded me of your beautiful little boy:
"No more needles,
No more pain,
Earth's loss is Heaven's gain."
Although I will not be able to attend Ellis' service tonight, I will be praying extra hard for all three of you this evening. Ellis, have fun playing in Heaven with the other angels, sweetheart. God bless you all.
Hugs & Prayers,
Johanna and Daniel
www.caringbridge.org/visit/danieljr
Johanna <JoDanJunior@yahoo.com>
MA - Friday, December 8, 2006 10:38 AM CST
I'm a neonatal ICU nurse who ended up at your site from a link on another. Just wanted to let you know that you've all touched my hearts, especially your sweet little Ellis. Working in the a children's hospital, I'm continually amazed at the strength and will these small children carry, often like Ellis, from the moment they are born. And I'm also continually amazed at the strength and love their parents have for their children. Who sit by their bedside continually, learning medical terms and things most doctors don't learn until attending med school. Who assist us wih our jobs, giving baths, taking temperatures, holding hands, and alerting us of changes. You are definitely some of these parents and you were so blessed to have eachother.
Thoughts and prayers from Indiana...
Holly <hwonder@clarian.org>
Greenwood, IN - Friday, December 8, 2006 10:04 AM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam, I just found out about your precious baby boy Ellis today when I read my mail. I immediatelly went to your web page and read your story. I sit here with my heart aching and tears running down my face. I will pray for both of you and please know your precious boy is in a better place. You both will see him again. Hugs to you all. I am so sorry for your lost.
Pat Dean <patriciadean@windstream.net>
Union Point, GA USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 9:53 AM CST
Thinking of your family today
and holding you close in our prayers.
Trish/Angel_Wings <Kngboyer@aol.com>
Kingston, TN USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 9:46 AM CST
Melissa and Sam~
Thinking of ^Ellis^ praying for you during this difficult time.

Love~ Claire www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
^i^ Laken's mommy; HEART MOM
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Friday, December 8, 2006 9:33 AM CST
Good morning Sam and Melissa. This is Jeremy Olson, I played hockey with Sam at Austin High. I heard about your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this tough time. God Bless.
Jeremy Olson <j_olson1974@hotmail.com>
Denham Springs, LA - Friday, December 8, 2006 9:21 AM CST
Good morning Sam and Melissa. We are praying for your incredible strength and love to lead you through this weekend. I know Ellis will be with us you in spirit every step of the way. Stay close to one another and we will all hold you. God bless.
The Russells <russrez@yahoo.com>
New Hope, MN USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 9:06 AM CST
I am also someone who has been touched by Ellis' life who has had very little personal contact, but have following your beautifully written site for quite a few months. I work in the lab on PICU at UMMC and have also drawn Ellis' blood in the Pediatric Specialty Clinic.
I have worked on the sidelines with many families, yet none have touched me quite like yours. I've found myself thinking quite often of you in these last months, so elated when you were able to take Ellis home, and so devastated at his passing. I find myself at the brink of tears just thinking of your loss.
I, too, have a son near Ellis' age, and can only imagine the immense hole you must be feeling. I pray for moments of peace for your family and hope that someday (on Earth or otherwise) you will find answers to all of the "Whys".
When you get around to reading your guestbook entries from all the people who have lives have been touched by your son, I felt compelled to let you know that I am another. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I will never forget the way Ellis' life has affected my own.
Peace,
Jina Forys
Jina Forys <jinaforys@hotmail.com>
- Friday, December 8, 2006 9:01 AM CST
We are praying for you Sam & Melissa, as you prepare for what has got to be the hardest days of your lives...Feel the love of all the residents of Ellisville that are praying for you...I'm betting that you're going to have a packed house coming to say farewell to the bravest boy the world has ever known...
Praying for Comfort and Strength~
Tony, Jessica, & Gavin Dahms
Gavin's Page <jessicaaroth@Hotmail.com>
Marshall, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 8:55 AM CST
Our prayers for comfort are with you as you face this most difficult weekend.
Wendi and Kevin Naugle <kwnaugle@winbeam.com>
Duncansville, PA - Friday, December 8, 2006 8:32 AM CST
Melissa and Sam,

My heart is with you today and tomorrow and always. Give that sweet boy a kiss for me. I am unbelievably heartbroken knowing how much you must be hurting and missing Ellis. Sending lots of love to you!

Love,

Vicki Fields (Jayden's Mommy)

www.caringbridge.org/visit/jayden
Vicki Fields <jarjaysmom@aol.com>
Louisville, KY US - Friday, December 8, 2006 8:32 AM CST
Praying for you all today-Hugs,
Cheryl/Angel_Wings
MD - Friday, December 8, 2006 8:30 AM CST
Thinking of you all and praying for comfort and peace in the next days, months, and years to come as you face life without your sweet son. My heart aches for you.
Karrie Thulin <kthulin@farmersunioninsurance.com>
Denver, CO - Friday, December 8, 2006 8:27 AM CST
Thinking of you all and praying for comfort and peace in the next days, months, and years to come as you face life without your sweet son. My heart aches for you.
Karrie Thulin <kthulin@farmersunioninsurance.com>
Denver, CO - Friday, December 8, 2006 8:27 AM CST
I will pray for all of you - I know that the next two days will be hard, but you must also know that the prayers of so many Ellisville supporters are with you.
Linda
Linda Benkwith <sbenkwith@knology.net>
Alabama - Friday, December 8, 2006 8:01 AM CST
I am thinking of you and your sweet boy today. Praying for your peace and comfort durning this holiday season.
Caroline Young
franklin, tn - Friday, December 8, 2006 7:53 AM CST
Melissa and Sam. Just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and Ellis today! I can't stop thinking of Ellis! He surely touched my life in a special way! May you find the strength you need to get through the next few days and always. My prayers and thoughts are with you all!
Eileen Finn <eileen.finn@macys.com>
Minneapolis, MN - Friday, December 8, 2006 7:44 AM CST
Truly wish I wasn't so far away so I could come to say goodbye to that special little boy. Our thoughts are with you tonight and this weekend as you prepare and go through these tough moments. Remember all the people out here who wish we could be there. We made a donation in Ellis' name so other children can hopefully have better answers. God Bless!
Baumgartner's <iteachkids@comcast.net>
Bolingbrook, IL - Friday, December 8, 2006 7:08 AM CST
Hoping that all those wonderfully special minutes with Ellis is helping you through this unbearable nightmare.
Ellis truly was the bravest and strongest little boy in the whole world....he received those traits from his Mama and Dada.
Missing Ellis so much!
Hoping that God is granting you peace!
Racqel
Racqel Barthel <rbarthel@izoom.net>
Becker, - Friday, December 8, 2006 2:28 AM CST
Melissa, Sam, and Family~
I don't think we've ever met, I was in choir inbetween your time at AR, but I have heard so much about Ellis. I wish I could have met him, he sounds like an amazing little boy. He was extremely brave and went through a lot, especially for someone so young, if only everyone could have that courage. By the looks of it he has affected people nation wide, and tears are flowing around the country for that wonderful little boy. I am so sorry about your loss, nothing can ever take away from what he meant to you. All I can say is I will pray for your family and may God and Ellis be with you always. ~~HEATHER~~
Heather Zdenek <zdhe0501@stcloudstate.edu>
Zimmerman, MN USA - Friday, December 8, 2006 0:59 AM CST
Thinking of your beautiful little man and your family tonight.
Would like to be closer to your hometown so that I might have come to the celebration of Ellis' life.

I know this has to be the hardest thing that any parent could face.
I'm so sorry...

www.caringbridge.org/visit/rachelanne
MONICA
GEORGIA, - Thursday, December 7, 2006 11:49 PM CST
I have never read about nor heard about parents with more love and more strength. I have never read about nor heard about a little boy with more bravery and toughness. I can't imagine what you're going through right now. I have no words to comfort you. I am heartbroken for you and will keep you in my prayers. Much, much love.
Patty Kempker <pattyolovesthebears@yahoo.com>
Warrenville, IL - Thursday, December 7, 2006 11:39 PM CST
My heart goes out to you, and I pray that Ellis has found peace and God comforts you with that knowledge. I have tears rolling down my cheeks as I look at the pictures of your beautiful son.
God bless you,
Dawn

Dawn Adams
Pollock Pines, CA USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 11:29 PM CST
These are the Stephen Foster lyrics I was looking for when I found the song about Little Ella (Ellis). Allison Krauss' version of "Slumber My Darling" with Edgar Meyer, YoYo Ma, and Mark O'Connor has got to be the most beautiful lullaby known to man. It is hard for me to listen to it without crying. It is on the "Appalachian Journey" DVD.

Melissa and Sam, I think of how you attended Ellis, watched over him, guarded his dreams from all terror and fear, wrapped him up warm, and prayed that the angels would shield him from harm.

Now our angel Ellis can return the favor.

Slumber my darling, thy mother is near
Guarding thy dreams from all terror and fear.
Sunlight has past and the twilight has gone,
Slumber my darling, the night's coming on.
Sweet visions attend thy sleep
Fondest, dearest to me,
While others their revels keep,
I will watch over thee.
Slumber my darling, the bards are at rest,
The wandering dews by the flowers are caressed,
Slumber my darling, I'll wrap thee up warm,
And pray that the angels will shield thee from harm.
Slumber my darling till morn's blushing ray
Brings to the world the glad tidings of day:
Fill the dark void with thy dreamy delight
Slumber, thy mother will guard thee tonight.
Thy pillow shall sacred be
From all outward alarms;
Thou, thou art the world to me
In thine innocent charms.
Slumber, my darling, the birds are at rest,
The wandering dews by the flowers are caressed;
Slumber, my darling, I'll wrap thee up warm,
And pray that the angels will shield thee from harm.

In peace and love,

Sara
Sara Mize <mizefamily@mac.com>
edina, - Thursday, December 7, 2006 10:50 PM CST
I ran across this song by Stephen Foster "Little Ella Is an Angel" and thought it was just right for our Little Ellis and the big impact he had (and continues to have) on us all!

Little Ellis is an angel in the skies,
Sing merrily sing.
Come brother and sister, dry your eyes,
Sing, merrily sing.

chorus:
Sing, merrily sing,
Let the chorus joyfully ring!
Little Ellis is an angel in the skies,
Sing, merrily sing.

Never weep for the angel that free from tears:
Sing, merrily sing.
Never sigh for the blessed that have left all fears:
Sing, merrily sing.

He has gone while his spirit from sing was free:
Sing, merrily sing.
To a region of love and melody:
Sing, merrily sing.

Little Ellis was truthful, good, and kind:
Sing, merrily sing.
Little Ellis was blest in heart and mind:
Sing, merrily sing.

Little Ellis has left us full of love:
Sing, merrily sing.
Let us follow him to the realms above:
Sing, merrily sing.
Sara Mize <mizefamily@mac.com>
edina, mn - Thursday, December 7, 2006 10:22 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you...
Heather LeVesseur <heatherlevesseur@yahoo.com>
St. Paul, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 10:13 PM CST
If love could have saved Ellis here on Earth, he would still be here. He had your hearts, as he had all of ours. He was very lucky to have such steadfast loving parents (and extended family) who never gave up.

"Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28
Mari Beth Ross <jerryandmaribethross@comcast.net>
Hugo, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 9:09 PM CST
Words cannot express my sorrow for your loss. I so enjoyed checking on Ellis' latest news and seeing that big, beautiful smile and those adorable little cheeks. I'm sure there is nothing I can do or say right now to make the pain go away, but please know that Ellis will forever be in my heart and prayers. God bless you all.
Hugs,
Johanna and Daniel
www.caringbridge.org/visit/danieljr
Johanna
MA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 8:55 PM CST
Just stopping in to let you know you continue to be in my prayers. May God's presence be known tonight as you have his visitation.

Laura Lynn and my two little miracle nephews: www.caringbridge.org/visit/asherandjacob <laurainsem@yahoo.com>
Hollidaysburg, Pa - Thursday, December 7, 2006 7:51 PM CST
I have been following your site for some time and am always looking to see how Ellis is doing. I hadn;t checked it in a few days and today my heart broke when I saw his obituary in the paper. I immediatley came down and checked to see the site and I can't believe he is gone. I will pray for you and your family and Ellis...He is with Drew and McKenna Olson right now playing and in no more pain.
Stay strong, I know that is hard to do when you want your baby with you always, I am a mom of a boy only a few months younger than Ellis and I can't imagine what I would do if I ever lost him.
You have my deepest sympathy.
Lynn Miller <lymiller01@comcast.net>
Anoka, MN USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 7:16 PM CST
Continuing the thoughts and prayers.
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 7:11 PM CST
Sam, Missy, Ron, Mary Gaye and family,
Our hearts go out to all of you.
There isn't anything one can say to make the loss of Ellis hurt less.
Your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

We are so sorry.

Craig & Judy Dokken

Craig Dokken <cldokken@chartermi.net>
Rochester, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 6:26 PM CST
*hugs mr. and mrs. b*
joe Mazzuca <jmazzuca@charter.net>
st. Michael, - Thursday, December 7, 2006 6:14 PM CST
The Broken Family Chain
We little knew that day
God was going to call your name
In life we loved you dearly
In death, we do the same
It broke our hearts to lose you
You did not go alone
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home
You left us beautiful memories
Your love is still our guide
And though we cannot see you
You are always at our side
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same
But as God calls us one by one
The chain will link again
God Bless your little angel

Jen,Cassie,Sally and Donald Jankord <sjankor@technocrafters.net>
Albertville, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 5:03 PM CST
SamuEL, MeLISsa (and ELLIS)
My heart is breaking. You will remain in my heart, my thoughts and my prayers. Thank you for sharing your amazing journey and your amazing child with us. I have never witnessed greater love than the love you have for your son.
Michelle <michelle.blaskowski@ndsu.edu>
West Fargo, ND USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 2:53 PM CST
I have read many of the guestbook entries from today and I can really relate to being a stranger and yet being so emotional over the loss of your precious little soldier. It is with a heavy heart that I visit the site several times a day but I want you to know that I am praying over your family without ceasing and I will be with you in spirit tomorrow as you share him with friends and family at the visitation. I am just so deeply sorry that you are going through this and I wish we all could be of more comfort at a time like this...a time that you shouldn't have to endure. ALL my love and prayers, Jessica Diedrich
Jess Diedrich <pinkgirl76@comcast.net>
Cary, IL - Thursday, December 7, 2006 2:50 PM CST
You don't know me, but I had to let you know how very sorry I am for the loss of your precious baby boy. In fact, I cannot stop crying. I saw his little picture today and it caught my attention for so many reasons. First of all, it was absolutely adorable. I learned upon reading that he had a heart transplant and received his care at Fairview U of M Children's Hospital. My son is 4 now but he was also born at Fairview Southdale and transferred over the the U of M when they discovered he had a heart defect- Traspositon of the Great Arteries. Dr Herrington did the surgery and Dr. Lohr is his cardiologist. We also had a CaringBridge site and that is how I found your site. Your son was a BEAUTIFUL little boy and my heart absolutely breaks for you...as I only experienced a fraction of what you have gone through. In reading your journal entries it is evident how incredibly loved Ellis is, and how devoted you are to him as his parents. From one "heart" parent to another....My God Bless you and give you strength and peace.
JoAnn Ernste <jmernste@mchsi.com>
Savage, Mn - Thursday, December 7, 2006 2:10 PM CST
My mom shared your son’s obituary with me this morning. The reason is that my last name is also Bergstrom, and I have a little boy named Evan – who happened to be born one month after Ellis at Fairview Southdale hospital. In fact, Evan was born on April 24, one day before you baptized Ellis. Your story just breaks my heart as I cannot imagine losing Evan or having Evan experience the pain that Ellis did. After reading the obituary, and looking at Ellis’s photo, I was moved to visit his CaringBridge website and to make a donation in his honor. I hope it helps another family. Take care and thank you for sharing a slice of Ellis. Your son’s life has touched my family. He was obviously a very special, inspirational little boy who continues to live on in many people's hearts.
Greta Bergstrom <gretabergstrom@yahoo.com>
Saint Paul, MN USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 1:23 PM CST
My deepest sympathy to your family on your loss. Ellis was an amazing little boy. I found your website after signing Riley Jo's guest book in early September. I've been praying with you since then. Your courage and spirit are amazing. I will continue to pray for you in this time of grief. You know the source of HOPE; He will sustain you one day at a time.
Ginny Rassier
Osceola, wi - Thursday, December 7, 2006 12:48 AM CST
You're always in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing I could say something to help you during this time. But here's what I think: Ellis ROCKED the world and we will never, ever forget that amazing little boy. We have all been so privileged to know him.
Leah Dodds <leach_17@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 12:30 AM CST
as a friend and i cried on the phone the other night talking about ellis we wondered, "how can one little boy, whom we've never met, affect out lives so wholeheartedly?" that was ellis. and although we only know him through your amazing words, melissa, we love him dearly. and as someone before me wrote, there is a void and a hole in my world...i can't imagine what your world must be like. i go through my day my thoughts continually turned towards you wondering what even your everyday tasks must feel like now. what thoughts are running through your mind....how your heart must break at every little movement because every movement was once entwined with ellis. still is....only in spirit. how you must miss him. miss holding him, touching him, kissing him and hearing his voice....i just can't imagine. praying unceasingly for you.

as my 6 year old and i were praying for you lastnight, she asked many questions about ellis, and went to bed very deep in thought as i tried my best to answer her. i believe even she has a broken heart for you...as much as a 6 year old can. may God wrap you in His loving arms. i'm so sorry....
erin eccles <sixtygallons@hotmail.com>
mankato, mn - Thursday, December 7, 2006 12:16 AM CST
I am deeply sorry for your loss. He was a strong little boy who brought much joy to his proud parents and inspiration to all.
Laura Amdahl <amla0501@stcloudstate.edu>
St. Cloud, MN 56301 - Thursday, December 7, 2006 11:48 AM CST
Two thumbs way up for Ellis the bravest and stronget boy I know. Melissa all of the A.R. music students would stop by your office just to see if he would give them thumbs up. He alway loved to "roor" at Leah if we ask him "can you scare Leah". These are the memories of Ellis we must hold on. For he may be gone here on earth but his SPIRIT lives on in all of us. The both of you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and every day.
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Thursday, December 7, 2006 11:33 AM CST
Here's a round of applause for Ellis' life lived. Because he always put on a GREAT show and always gave 110%. I know how much he liked people to clap for him, just like his mama! :)
You are not far from any conversation, thought, or prayer of mine this week. God bless you and your family.

With many thoughts, prayers, and many, many tears,
Sara Quarberg <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 11:06 AM CST
Tears continue to come at all times as we in Ellisville process the reality of this huge void. Melissa and Sam, know that we all grieve with you. The world has a gaping hole and we can't even imagine your lives. We all know that Ellis is whole and happy and possibly quite rambunctious up there, but it's here that it will seem so empty. When someone here on earth affects so many and leaves such a mark in such a short time as Ellis did, surely his spirit will continue on forever. Watch and listen for the little things for it is certain that Ellis will be with you! We feel him everywhere, in the wind, in the fluffy snowflakes yesterday,,,,in the Christmas music. Such a powerful little spirit, flying so far and wide....Lots of love is surrounding you now!
Cathy Ann DeJarlais <mommydearest43@juno.com>
Champlin, - Thursday, December 7, 2006 10:48 AM CST
Ellis, you are the bravest boy I ever knew of. Your Grandpa Ron will dearly miss you. My prayers are with your families.
Paul Moen <moensie@msn.com>
South St Paul, MN USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 10:48 AM CST
Ellis is a blessing. He has touched the hearts and lives of so many around the world, more than any of us could in 10 lifetimes. His story continues to touch hearts and lives from heaven. He was blessed with phenomenal parents, that stood by him every moment until the end. He will always be with you. Praying for your strength, peace and comfort as you face the difficult days, weeks, months ahead.

Love~ Claire (^i^ Laken's Mommy)
http://www.caringbridge.com/visit/lakenroy
OUR ANGEL IN HEAVEN, OUR HEART BABY
Claire Roy <caffemocha29@aol.com>
Kernersville, NC US - Thursday, December 7, 2006 9:52 AM CST
What a lucky little boy to have been able to share his precious few moments on Earth with such loving and wonderful parents. I am so touched by your journaling and the telling of Ellis' story, so open and honest. And what a beautiful little boy! You are in my heart and prayers as you go through these next stages of celebrating Ellis' life! May God bless you!
anonomous <danicaevans@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, December 7, 2006 9:34 AM CST
Christmas In Heaven

I see the countless Christmas trees
around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars,
reflecting on the snow

The sight is so spectacular,
please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas with
Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.

I have no words to tell you,
the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description,
to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart.
But I am not so far away,
We really aren't apart.

So be happy for me, dear ones,
You know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.

I sent you each a special gift,
from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory
of my undying love.

After all, love is a gift more precious
than pure gold.
It was always most important
in the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other,
as my Father said to do.
For I can't count the blessing or love
He has for each of you.

So have a Merry Christmas and
wipe away that tear.
Remember, I am spending Christmas with
Jesus Christ this year.

Sara Moe <sarmoe@co.mower.mn.us>
Austin, MN USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 8:57 AM CST
Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family during your time of sorrow and loss. My God be with you and help guide you through these days.
Chelsea and Sue Ridley <susan.ellwing@abnamro.com>
Bolingbrook, il - Thursday, December 7, 2006 8:09 AM CST
Melissa and Sam, You have been on my mind and heart a million times a day. My mom's prayer group prayed for you yesterday. My speical prayers for the both of you have been to Mary and Joseph because they were parents too. At this time, know that you are loved as is Ellis by sooooooooooooooo many people.
Shannon Schulzetenberg (STMA) <shannons@stma.k12.mn.us>
- Thursday, December 7, 2006 7:57 AM CST
Dear Sam and Melissa,

We put our tree up last night and the beautiful picture of Ellis in his Santa hat is affixed to the star at the top and will remain there for the rest of our lives. He is the best reflection of the Christmas star we have besides God himself.

Love,
Pam
OsbornP@comcast.net <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 7:03 AM CST
I know that this is such a difficult time for you two but in reading all of the other guestbook entries, what a wonderful world it has become because this little boy was here such a short time. Look at all of the people this one little boy touched. I think that this caring bridge thing is so valuable not only for the families but for all of us. Ellis wasn't the only one that got a new heart, I think that we all got one.

God bless you and I pray for your healing hearts.
Marian Clennon <myraone91@msn.com>
Austin, MN - Thursday, December 7, 2006 6:02 AM CST
Dearest Sam and Melissa
My heart aches for you. I pray that each day gets easier. May you always remember the joy that your{our} beautiful Ellis brought you. God needed another wonderful angel that you were chosen to have for him. I will continue to pray for your precious family.

Peace and love
Rhonda
Woodruff, SC USA - Thursday, December 7, 2006 4:24 AM CST
Sam and Melissa.....I still come to Ellisville several times a day....I know Ellis is in a wonderful place and will be loved always....No one in Ellisville will ever forget him....I hope you two are getting alittle rest...The days ahead will be hard but we are all still here for you both...I hope you will continue to let us all know how you all are doing or if you all need anything, please let us know....I have been in your shoes and you will need your family, friends and all of us in Ellisville to get through this.....Remember you all are loved by many....Prayers are still being sent for you all...
Gail Ritter <gailritter@hotmail.com>
Shelbyville, ky usa - Thursday, December 7, 2006 3:31 AM CST
I was reading another site and it gave your precious angels
web site.
YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS AS I KNOW YOUR HEART ACHES FOR YOUR BABY. I SAW HIS PICTURES ON THE SITE, HE WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR BEAUTIFUL CHILD. HIS LOVE FOR YOU WILL NEVER PASS. HIS SMILE WILL NEVER FADE. I KNOW HE IS BEING LIFTED TO GOD ON HIS HOLY ANGELS WINGS AND GOD WILL HOLD YOUR BABY IN HIS ARMS.
CHRISTIAN LOVE AND PRAYERS,
MRS. MARTY MOULTON
Mrs. Marty Moulton. <judge1@windstream.net>
- Thursday, December 7, 2006 1:18 AM CST
Sam and Melissa,
I hope these days of planning Ellis' services, has given you comfort in knowing how many people want to reach out to you in the days ahead. May the words and actions expressed by others, lift your spirit and comfort your heart, as you build strengh to continue on. The care you gave your young son, is 10 fold more then any of us will ever know. Always remember, God gave you Ellis and Ellis gave you God, through Joy and Hardship you spoke to him daily and now Ellis will be at his side where he will stand with pride, in honor of those he left behind.
Terese Gammell <tagammell@k12.mn.us>
St. Michael, Mn USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 11:27 PM CST
There are so many people that care and so many prays. Words can't describe how the two of you must feel, or how much sorrow is in your hearts. But we must not only morn for his loss but we must CELEBRATE his life. Ellis must be the talk of the town up in heaven knowing that another one of gods angles has come home to see him. I would have to think that he is now gods right hand man. With continued love, thoughts and prayers each and everyday.
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 11:14 PM CST
we have never met, but i have followed ellis' story for monthes. i am a nurse in the nicu at mayo clinic and i prayed for ellis everyday! im so very sorry for your loss. he seemed like such a bright and wonderful boy. you both are such strong and devoted parents, he was lucky to have you both in his life. my thoughts and prayers are with you all!!!!
kristin udelhofen, rn <udelhofen.kristin@mayo.edu>
rochester, mn - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:53 PM CST
Over the past several months, I have read dozens of Caringbridge sites, but the first time I saw Ellis's picture and those deep, sparkling eyes and a smile and was in his eyes, I felt a deep bond/conection with Ellis. Something I cant explain. I have 3 sons, 21, 20 and 15, all Eagle Scouts. But Ellis touched my heart in a way I have never experienced before. I have prayed for him, thought of him and both of you, praying for your strength. He was so very special and will live on always. Thanks for sharing Ellis with us and your beautiful words. I hope someday you will write a book, maybe called Super Ellis!!
God Bless you. I wish I could be with you on Saturday. Its a long way from NC! I will be there in spirit.
Tamra Crane <eagle19@bellsouth.net>
Hendersonville, NC - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:41 PM CST
Praying for your family during these difficult days. My heart breaks to hear your story. I will keep your family in my prayers.
Janie Valente
Janie Valente <janievalente@hotmail.com>
Tecumseh, Ont Canada - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:21 PM CST
My heart is breaking for you and your family. I know what you are feeling right now because we lost our precious grandson, "Tanner" at 8 1/2 months of age this past June 16th from HLHS. Just remember that little Ellis has a new, healthy body now and is up in heaven playing with Tanner and all of their little buddies.

May God bless you and give you strength. It's going to be hard, but you will make it with his help.

My sincerest sympathy,(Tanner's Gommy)

Gail Sharon <blondiewoman@bellsouth.net>
Stokesdale, NC - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:48 PM CST
Our deepest sympathies. We are praying for you.
Steve and Shanne Minkler and Family <tootfloot@yahoo.com>
Buffalo, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:37 PM CST
God is carrying you through this tough time....i'm praying for you non stop....i found this at my house today, and wanted to share it:

god saw he was getting tired
and a cure was not to be
so he put his arms around him
and whispered come with me
through tearful eyes we watched him suffer
and saw him fade away
although we loved him dearly we could not make him stay
a precious heart stopped beating
those little hands to rest
god broke our hearts to prove to us
he only takes the best

Ellis, you were the best the world has ever known, and you will be missed by all of us here in ellisville!
Kate
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:31 PM CST
There isn't much to say aside from "no fair".
~
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:30 PM CST
Missy and Sam - We are so so sorry for your loss - please know that we have you all in our thoughts and prayers, and Heaven has an amazing guardian angel for all of us. Many Hugs.
Erica, Jayson, Sam and Cate Dwelle <mrs_harley81@hotmail.com>
St. Paul, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:28 PM CST
So sorry for your loss. I know Ellis is still with you celebrating the happy life you two gave him.

My thoughts and prayers are with you,
Heidi

Heidi Stodola <heidistodola@yahoo.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 8:38 PM CST
My heart aches for you and your family. I know that there are no words of comfort at this time, but I hope that you know that prayers are being said by all, even those who never knew you.
May God help you to be strong and to remember the good times with your beautiful boy.
Linsey Ruff <shorti651@gmail.com>
Coon Rapids, MN 55448 - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 8:08 PM CST
I've been thinking about you countless times over the last two days and am heartsick for you. I am so sorry. Ellis was a precious little boy, and it brings tears to my eyes every time I think about him and consider your loss.

It is amazing to look back at his life and look at all the MIRACLES that took place for him. I've been following your little guy for quite some time and remember all the tears and feelings and conversations with others from Austin who were following your journey way back in June and July 2004, and how amazing it was when he got better! So many miracles in his life. It's very hard to understand why Ellis is gone, but God's work is written all over in your journals. From all the amazing events that took place during the time of the transplant to the ironic timing of Ellis' illness and Logan's surgery. Miracles of time and love are very evident in his life.

I don't know anything to say to help you to feel better, I'm sure, but my heart is with yours. My family in Austin and my neighborhood in Monticello will be with you in the days and weeks to come, together with countless Ellisville residents. We wish you peace.

J.T., Jennifer, Ben, Parker, and Tysen Hemann
Jennifer (Donahue) Hemann <joshandjenh@charter.net>
Monticello, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 7:55 PM CST
May God continue to bless you and keep you during this very difficult time.

www.caringbridge.org/mn/jadedieger
Jayne <jkitties@clearwire.net>
Foley, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 7:54 PM CST
my heart is aching for you both. Ellis was loved by his mom and dad and he loved you both so much. He's not suffering anymore.. please don't suffer either. Hold each other - comfort each other. Know he is always with you.



Mary Goheen ( MMEA board member) <m.goheen@isd2184.net>
Luverne, MN Rock - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 7:14 PM CST
God only takes the best, just keep praying, God wont give your a mountian that you can't clim. Bless you all.
Kayte Craft-STMA high school <kmcraftracing633@yahoo.com>
St.michael, mn US - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 7:06 PM CST
Thinking of you and praying for your entire family.

Love,
Pam
OsbornP@comcast.net <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 6:53 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.


Mommy, I dreamed you a letter

This comes from Heaven above

Even though I’m up here

I can still feel your love

In Heaven there is no sorrow

There’s never any pain or fear

And would you believe I’ve not been sick

One time since I’ve been here?

You’d be so proud of me, Mommy

I can do so many things

And everyone says I look real cute

In my Halo and my wings

Every year at Christmas

We have a great big tree up here

And guess who gets to be the Angel

On top of the tree this year

Mommy, I dreamed you this letter

That I’m sending you tonight

To tell you not to worry

And let you know that I’m all right

Sometimes I hear you crying

And I wish you weren’t so sad

Cos I think you’re the best Mom

Any Angel ever had

So please don’t feel bad for me

I’m in God’s tender care

And he wanted me to tell you

That he hears your every prayer

I know you miss me, Mommy

You know I miss you, too

But remember, me and God

Are always watching over you

We want you to have a good life

Full of happiness and joy

I’ll see you in your dreams, Mommy

Love, Your Little Boy

Dale angel wings <naron810@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 6:03 PM CST
Hi
I just wanted to say sorry and you two are in my prayers always and forever and I wish for the best for you. I know that Ellis will stay in our hearts forever. He will watch over you & keep you safe
love always Tee.
TEYONA BROWN JACKSON <obellnjoey@yahoo.com>
MINNEAPOLIS, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 5:51 PM CST
I am so sorry.
Sandy
B.C. Canada - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 4:34 PM CST
Melissa and Sam- You are in the thoughts, prayers, conversations and hearts of many, many students, staff, and faculty at AR. Ellis has touched our lives so greatly. We love you SO much Melissa. You and Sam are truly amazing. Ellis was loved by all of us in the Music Dept. We will never forget his beautiful smile, and great "composer" hair. Melissa, he loved you so much. It was always so obvious. We will miss him. God's peace and greatest blessings be with you and Sam and your whole family.
With lots of love, thoughts, and prayers,
Sara Q <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 4:27 PM CST
May god be with you through this time of sorrow. With continued love, thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Dana
Dana Cretilli <jesusfreak_81@juno.com>
Blaine, Mn - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 4:22 PM CST
I have been following Ellis' progress for quite some time and was saddened to hear of his passing. God speed Ellis. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Colleen Grams <mom2charlieandhalo@yahoo.com>
Ramsey, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 4:19 PM CST
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. May God give you comfort in this heartbreaking time.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/katelynvanghle
Andrea Van Ghle <andrea_vanghle@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 4:08 PM CST
Melissa and Sam...you continue to be in my thoughts. God give you peace.
Marilyn Quarberg <marilyn.quarberg@anokaramsey.edu>
Coon Rapids, - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 3:34 PM CST
Melissa and Sam,
I am so very sorry to hear that Ellis has left you. He was a strong little boy and I feel blessed to have known him for a short while. My thoughts and prayers are with both of you.
Rachel Knaeble, St. David's <rknaeble@stdavids.net>
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 3:15 PM CST
The ache is in expressable. . .We just want you to know that we're here, and we're praying for you both in the days and weeks ahead. May you find some small comfort in each other, and the promise of Heaven.

Melissa
www.caringbridge.org/tx/katsierane
Melissa <melissa.brock@blockbuster.com>
TX - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 3:14 PM CST
Well, I've been here...and read this update...and left several times without signing.

I'm so saddened to know that little Ellis is gone. But I'm so happy to know that he was in mom's arms and being snuggled by you both.

May you find comfort with one another at this time.

Sending you strength and love from Georgia in this difficult part of your life.

www.caringbrige.org/visit/rachelanne

Monica
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 2:27 PM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you. He was a beautiful little boy. Always remember the joy and love he brought to you. God bless you and your family.

Sue Bastyr <suebastyr@charter.net>
Austin, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 2:26 PM CST
We have been praying for Ellis every night from day one. We are so sorry for your loss. Take comfort knowing he is up in Heaven now where he is no longer in any pain. We will be praying for your family as you begin a life without your precious little boy. Bobbi, Dave, and Braylynn (New Life Lutheran Church)
Bobbi, Dave, and Braylynn
Shorewood, IL USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 2:25 PM CST
God is with you now in this difficult time. Know that you're in my prayers. My heart goes out to you.
Sara Hilmoe <shilmoe@luthersem.edu>
Minneapolis, MN 55407 - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 2:21 PM CST
I cannot even begin to imagine or comprehend your loss...my heart goes out to the both of you, I am so blessed to have known (altough not very well) Ellis-he will never be forgotten! Know that he is indeed safe in the arms of God, and that I am praying for God's comfort and peace to get you through this hard time.
Caitlin Edstadt
MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 2:03 PM CST
Melissa and Sam, Abiding Savior Lutheran Church has been praying for little Ellis for a long time now, we are very sorry to hear he is not with you any longer. Our deepest sympathy and sincere sorrows. Our prayers will continue to be with you and your families in your loss.
Verlinda Plath <abidingoffice@abidingsavior.org>
Mounds View, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 2:02 PM CST
Our thoughts & prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your sweet son with us. He has touched our hearts and will forever be remembered. God Bless & comfort you & your family.
The Butler Family <butler@machlink.com>
Muscatine, IA USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 1:52 PM CST
Thinking of you . . .
Ellen & Terry Beaudry & boys <latemezzo@hotmail.com>
Saint Michael, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 1:42 PM CST
The Little Blue Teddy Bear

When you came into this world
you brought me such joy
To have and to hold
you are my little boy.
I gave you a little blue teddy bear
for you to hold
When I’m not at home and
the night is so cold.
Hold onto that little blue teddy bear
my dear son
For it is the love that I give you
that can never be undone.

At night, the little blue teddy bear
watches over you
When you cry from fear
hug your little blue teddy bear
And all your tears will disappear
Mommy loves you
oh so very much
That is why I gave you
the little blue teddy bear
So you could always
have mommy’s touch

Ellis in up in heaven now with his little blue teddy bear. My thoughts are with you both! Bless you.




Nettie
MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 1:32 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. Ellis seemed like he was a wonderful little boy and so full of love. I heard about your little boy through the MBDA and I just wanted to share my condolences and let you know I had been thinking about and praying for Ellis ever since I heard about him. (about a month ago)
I have a nephew who's 3 1/2 months old who had a heart transplant at 2 months of age. So far he is doing well. I know the power of prayer really helps in times of need. I hope time can ease your pain and just know that your baby is in a good place and being watched over night and day. I am so sad for you and your loss.
Take care,
Sincerely
Jenny Loer
Jenny Loer
Egf, MN United States - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 1:22 PM CST
Melissa & Sam, As a fellow "Heart Mom," my prayers are for you. My hope is that memories and pictures will bring you a bit of peace. I know you have tremendous strength as you have been climbing mountains with Ellis for so long. You put up a tremendous fight and Ellis won in the end- eternal life. He will be waiting for you. Ellis and his Ellisville will be tucked into my heart. Thanks for sharing your beautiful Ellis with all of this. Ellis must have been "so special," as God needed him back! Prayers for you. Remember, "Breathe and take one step at a time!" Sincerely, Adrienne
Adrienne Saunders <asaunders@newbedford.k12.ma.us>
MA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 1:06 PM CST
My prayers are with your family.





Jennifer Harris <jenharris149@yahoo.com>
oklahoma city, ok usa - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 12:46 AM CST
We are so sorry. And we're praying for you all.
Marilyn Mattson
Aberdeen, S.D. U.S.A. - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 11:31 AM CST
Remembering Ellis
David Melton angel wings <DMelton321@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 11:24 AM CST
Our prayers are with you and your family
Millers
Aberdeen, sd usa - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 11:14 AM CST
Melissa and Sam. Thank you for bringing Ellis into our lives. I know he has touched so many. I think of him and pray for you! Know that there is no suffering in Heaven. He can breath easy, play wildly, sing to the Lord, and never ever grow tired. God is lucky to have such a beautiful angel! So many people have grown to love Ellis and will miss him terribly. All the people that have never met him, but only through this website, weep with grief and will miss him. Our prayers continue!
Sara Moe <sarmoe@co.mower.mn.us>
Austin, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 11:12 AM CST
I am so sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Paula Bangert <bangertp@csp.edu>
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 11:07 AM CST
Fly sweet angel
Jill Dyer
Midlothian, TX - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:49 AM CST
Sam and Missy,
We are just so sorry for the loss of Ellis. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Brooke & Erik Reseland <breseland@hotmail.com>
St. Anthony, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:31 AM CST
Dear Jesus Christ, God the Father, and His Holy Spirit,
We pray for Missy and Sam, their entire family, as well as all who have been profoundly touched by Ellis and his journey here on earth. We know that with you he is beginning the most wonderful journey of all--eternal life in your presence. We ask that you comfort Missy and Sam. We pray that you allow them to feel Ellis' presence (though he is not physically there), that he can sing and whisper in their ears to know of his joy now, and that he will play his drums to their heartbeats reminding them that his is with them forever. We ask that you look over Sam and Missy diligently. Shower your love and peace on them to provide comfort.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. the Smooks (Shirlene, Denny, Charley, Josh, and Missy)
Shirlene Knudtson Smook <drmomsd@hotmail.com>
Aberdeen , SD USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:30 AM CST
Mary Gaye
The family at Cornerstone Church is praying for all of you!!
Chris Gogolewski <cgogo@austin.k12.mn.us>
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:28 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you on the loss of your beautiful little angel. He was truly an inspirational hero.
Linda S. Prince <lprince@karballaw.com>
Oak Lawn , IL - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:27 AM CST
You are in my thoughts and prayers right now. My heart breaks for your loss of precious Ellis. I am so sorry.
Jodi <jomicheleb2@yahoo.com>
Clarkston, MI US - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:04 AM CST
We are so sorry to hear about Ellis. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Diane and Tyler Diaz and Mary Hayes <dianedity@aol.com>
Bolingbrook, IL - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 10:01 AM CST
Continued thoughts are with your family and with Sweet Ellis. Thank you for posting the recommended charities for donation...your son has inspired many and we will give generously.

The song 'When I look to the sky' by Train has been running through my head the past few days. As music lovers, I hope you can take a listen to it. Here is the chorus:

And as I float along this ocean
I can feel you like a notion that won't seem to let me go

Cause when I look to the sky something tells me you're here with me
And you make everything alright
And when I feel like I'm lost something tells me you're here with me
And I can always find my way when you are here
Erin W
St. Michael, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:48 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with you Melissa and Sam. You now have another ANGEL watching over you guys and praying with and for the both of you. May God keep you in his loving embrace.

Anoka Ramsey Community College
Admissions Advisor
Tommie Powell III
Coon Rapids, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:39 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
Jamie Green <jagreen95@yahoo.com>
Chicago, IL - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:12 AM CST
Sam and Melissa...
My heart breaks for you, too. I know Mary Gaye and have been so blessed by your entries in Caring Bridge. Melissa, please keep writing. You are such a powerful writer. I felt like I was right there with you...perhaps a book about your journey with Ellis both here on earth and as a lamb safe in the Shepherd's arms. The pain you're going through must be unbearable, but know you are surrounded by love, prayers and tears.
Love and prayers to the entire Bergstrom family,
Judy Deines (mom of Joe Deines)
Judy Deines <jjdeines@charter.net>
Austin, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:11 AM CST
Sam and Melissa, My heart goes out to you both. Let God carry you as in the "Footsteps" poem when there were two sets of footsteps and then only one -- because God was carrying you. That has helped me many times in my life.
You are wonderful parents and Ellis was so very lucky to have you. It doesn't seem fair that this wonderful gift from God, was taken so soon from you. I have to tell you that one of my thoughts is the Dave can hold Ellis for you now in Heaven -- and he will love him as Dave loved all the little children!

Peace and comfort to you, and know my prayers are with you!

Love, Sil
Sil Lanning <sdlanning@aol.com>
Brooklyn Center, MN USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 9:05 AM CST
Silent Child
by Kelly Lancor

My silent child
our precious baby,
Close to my heart
I'll keep you with me.
An important job
God has for you,
There is love to give,
and work to do.

He needs an angel
strong but small,
To shine light on many
and give love to all.
Before you go
I give you this,
half my heart
and one last kiss.

We'll miss you dearly
that we know,
But by God you were
chosen,
So to heaven, you must go
Dawn <dpickens_42@yahoo.com>
Beaumont, Tx - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 8:43 AM CST
With deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved Ellis.
Leslie
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 8:16 AM CST
Melissa and Sam, I have been praying for your family. Ellis was a wonderful gift and I am so sad he was taken away so soon. My heart aches for you. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you.
Jennifer and Chris Haskett and the girls <jenniferh@logicpd.com>
Golden Valley, MN 55422 - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 8:00 AM CST
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Elizabeth (Brown) Kirkland <ebrownkirkland@yahoo.com>
Alexandria, VA USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 7:47 AM CST
Melissa & Sam - Holding you close in my heart and ALWAYS remembering that precious little smiling face. Ellis, I will see you on the other side. My prayers are with all of you who loved and ministered to this little fellow.
Nancy
Nashville, - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 7:35 AM CST
I Can Only Imagine by MercyMe

I can only imagine what it will be like, when I walk by Your side...
I can only imagine, what my eyes will see, when Your Face is before me!
I can only imagine. I can only imagine.

Surrounded by Your Glory, what will my heart feel?
Will I dance for you, Jesus? Or in awe of You, be still?
Will I stand in Your presence, or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing 'Hallelujah!'? Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine! I can only imagine!

I can only imagine, when that day comes, when I find myself standing in the Son!
I can only imagine, when all I will do, is forever, forever worship You!
I can only imagine! I can only imagine!

Surrounded by Your Glory, what will my heart feel?

Will I dance for you, Jesus? Or in awe of You, be still?
Will I stand in Your presence, or to my knees will I fall?
Will I sing 'Hallelujah!'? Will I be able to speak at all?
I can only imagine! Yeah! I can only imagine!

Surrounded by Your Glory, what will my heart feel?
In my thoughts and prayers!
Austin, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 7:26 AM CST
Melissa & Sam,
I am still praying for you both as well as all of your families. Take care of eachother and lean on all of us out here in Ellisville who are praying for you every moment of every day.
Love, Lana
Lana Jacobson <ljacobson@inter-tax.com>
Crystal, MN - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 6:48 AM CST
I wish I lived where you did so I could come and honor Ellis, I will be there in thought,, you and your amazing little boy really touched my life and for that I will always be grateful. God bless you , thank you sweet little Ellis
tiffany <tiffanyx.pate@jpmchase.com>
op, fl; us - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 6:25 AM CST
Our deepest sympathy.
The Bonorden's
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 6:18 AM CST
Sam and Melissa
I have never signed the guestbook before but have followed this amazing boy for a long time now. Ellis touched so many lives in his short time here. It shows by the number of visitors, 8000+ yesterday alone in a 12 hr period. Let that show you that you are not alone..many Ellisville supporters are out here praying for you. I know things will never be the same again, how could they? But know that one day you will be able to smile and laugh again. Ellis has Jesus now to rock him, sing to him, and to love him unconditionally.
someone who cares in rural MN
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 4:41 AM CST
There are no words.

Amy Helfritz <ahelfritz@juno.com>
Albuquerque, NM USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 2:33 AM CST
We are very sorry for your loss of Ellis, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tomm &Tara Richards & Girls (son of Dan & Sue Richards) <tarakrichards@hotmail.com>
Mankato, Mn - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 0:39 AM CST
I'm here again, still heart-broken. I have gotten so used to coming here to check on Ellis that I just had to be here tonight. I've never met Ellis, but I miss him so much. I prayed for him many times. Now I will be praying for Melissa and Sam. Please Lord, give them peace and the strength to continue on without Ellis. I just cannot believe that our little hero is really gone. I'm so glad that I got to visit Ellisville. I'll never be the same. Thank you for sharing your precious Angel with me.
Lisa Whorten <lisawhorten@yahoo.com>
Bakersville, NC USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 0:35 AM CST
There are no words that can take away the pain or fill the emptiness in your hearts and arms right now. But, like Ellis, you guys are fighters, and I know you will get through this. I pray for God's comforting presence with you, reminding you to breathe and trust, and in time, to remember Ellis with more joy than grief.

Thank you for sharing your journey and his with all of us.

Maybe when God welcomed him to heaven, it was with a hug and a greeting of "All Done, Ellis. All Done"

Love,
Trista Jacobs
Trista Jacobs <stevetrista@yahoo.com>
Brookings, SD USA - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 0:24 AM CST
"Christopher Robin?", Whispered Pooh. "Yes Pooh Bear?"
"I'll Never Not Remember You...Ever." This is how I feel about our Sweet Darling Beautiful Precious Ellis, "I'll Never Not Remember You...Ever."

Rest Well Precious Boy, my heart is broken, but I am glad that you are in no more pain, will have no more pokes and especially no more ventilator!!!

My heart aches for you Sam and Melissa. You are ministering to all of us who are Ellis's fans. To think of making sure we knew of his leaving us so soon after it happened and now his arrangements, it gives living testimony of your love for him and your selflessness in sharing his life with us, the ones who have loved him from afar. Thank you so much for giving this special tender boy to the world and most of all of sharing him with us. God Bless You Both!!!

Ellis,I'll never NOT remember you...EVER!!!!!
Cheryl
- Wednesday, December 6, 2006 0:12 AM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. It is obvious Ellis knew only love in his lifetime, and how blessed he was to have parents who never gave up on him. Thank you for sharing your story...I know it will inspire many.

www.caringbridge.org/mn/sarahcollins

Dawn <daughterofsarah77@yahoo.co>
Hastings, MN USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 11:44 PM CST
And with your final heartbeat
Kiss the world goodbye
Then go in peace, and laugh on Glory's side, and
Fly to Jesus
Fly to Jesus
Fly to Jesus and live!

-Chris Rice, excerpt from "Untitled Hymn".

Ellis has flown the glorious flight. He is in Jesus' arms now and smiling down upon his wonderful mama and dada. God Bless you Melissa and Sam.

Rest in peace, dearest Ellis.
An Ellis Fan.
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 11:40 PM CST
My thoughts are with you through this difficult time. What wonderful parents Ellis had, and what a wonderful little boy. May God take care of him now.

In tears I saw you sinking,
I watched you fade away.
You suffered much in silence,
you fought so hard to stay.
You faced your task with courage.
Your spirit did not bend,
and still you kept on fighting until the very end.
God saw you getting tired.
When a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you and whispered "come to me".
So when I saw you sleeping So peaceful, free from pain.
I could not wish you back
to suffer that again.




Anonymous
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 11:18 PM CST
My heart aches for you both. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss and wish you both peace. It is clear that Ellis only knew love in his life. What a gift you have given him.
Jennifer McDougal <jenmcdougal@sbcglobal.net>
Fresno, CA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 11:03 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
Im so sorry for your loss. I heard of Ellis through my roommate Kasey E. Ive prayed for Ellis and your family and will continue to pray. May Christ be with you every step of the way.

Praying for you in New York
Brit
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:59 PM CST
I dont know what to say or think. I am so sorry your sweet warrior's body won the war... He was such a handsome little fighter.. Ellis' sweet soul can now fly pain free and have the time of his life.. Its amazing what a child can teach you in such a short time. God Bless Your Soul Ellis.

Please know your family is in my prayers..
I am so sorry...
Staci C. (Katia's Ladybug Club)
Hamilton Sq., NJ - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:58 PM CST
Mr. and Mrs. B-
I can't tell you how sorry I was to hear that Ellis had gone on to another place. My heart aches for you, but know now that he is watching over you and showering you with so much love and happiness. You both are amazing people and are blessed.

Ellis-

Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wind of heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again

Fly, fly precious one
Your endless journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace forevermore
But hold this mem'ry bittersweet
Until we meet

Fly, fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, don't wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won't forget

Fly, fly little wing
Fly where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light
-Celine Dion

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
Emily Laney <laney009@d.umn.edu>
Duluth, MN - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:55 PM CST
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. What a beautiful little guy. You are in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
This poem has always touched me so I will share....

A Child is Loaned

"I’ll lend you for a little time
A child of Mine," He said.
"For you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he’s dead.
It may be one or two years
Or twenty-three or four,
But will you, till I call him back
Take care of him for Me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you,
And should his stay be brief,
You’ll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from Earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.
I’ve looked this wide world over
In My search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life’s lanes,
I have selected you;
Now will you give him all your love,
Nor think the labour vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call
And take him back again ?
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done,
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,
For the risk of grief we’ll run.
We’ll shelter him with tenderness,
We’ll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we’ve known,
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him
Much sooner then we planned,
We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand."

With Sympathy,
Tara, Jim and Kayla Ring (Friends of Jill and Karl Anderson)

Tara, Jim and Kayla Ring <tarabear9@hotmail.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:40 PM CST
I know you don't know me, but you and Ellis have been a part of my life for quite sometime. I am so so sorry to hear about Ellis. He was one amazing little boy. I know he must have been so proud to have you both as his parents... You loved, cared, and helped him fight like no one else could have.
God must be so proud to have an angel like sweet Ellis. Thank you for sharing him with all of us. I have and will always keep you in my prayers. May God hold you tight and carry you through this difficult time in life.
Ashleigh Frye <ashleighwall@hotmail.com>
Mission Viejo, CA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:36 PM CST
he will never be forgotten by all the lives he changed - god bless
Nikki Jo and the rest of the Zeleny fam <nikki.zeleny@uwrf.edu>
St. Michael, MN - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:33 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,
I just heard about Ellis and i wanted to say that i am sorry for your loss. He was a great joy to everyone and will be missed by all. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Sincerely,
Elizabeth Erickson
Elizabeth Erickson <liz87_55422@yahoo.com>
Crystal, mn - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:23 PM CST
Our hearts are breaking for you. We're so sorry for the loss of your so special Ellis. Tom, Katie, Jessica and Chris Freemark
Tom, Katie, Jessica, and Chris Freemark <KFreemark@comcast .net>
Maple Grove, MN USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:19 PM CST
Melissa- You and Sam have been on my mind all day and I'm praying ever so hard for the two of you. This world lost an amazing, amazing little boy. But, the glorious world above, where our father is, gained a happy, smiley, talented, smart..oh the list is truly endless, little boy. Ellis has, with no doubt, changed the lives of many people. I am forever greatful for the gift you three have given and shown me and many, many other people. That is, sharing your son, his story, and faith, hope, love, perseverence, trust, courage, and strength. I am forever greatful.

As you go on your way may Christ go with you.
May Christ go before you to show you the way,
May Christ go behind you to encourage you.
Beside you to befriend you,
Above you to watch over,
Within you to give you peace.

May Christ be by your side, in your hearts, and may he give you peace.

With lots of love, thoughts, and prayers,
Sara Quarberg <singersara12@hotmail.com>
Blaine, MN - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:12 PM CST
Devastating to lose a precious little child to death. God be with you all the time to bring you whatever strength you can muster in the knowledge that Ellis is with Jesus.
Pastor Art Weitschat <blparish@sdplains.com>
Buffalo , SD USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:08 PM CST
Mellisa & Sam: we were so sad to read of Ellis gaining his wings. He was such a strong fighter. We pray you find peace knowing he'll be singing to baby Jesus in Heaven.
Charlene & Becky/Angel_Wings
.......... <cb_withowcandaw@yahoo.ca>
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:03 PM CST
Although he had to leave so soon be sure to know your little angel is in the arms of God. Healed. and watching over you. my heart goes to your family. Your incredible baby boy has touched so many hearts including mine. Hes not gone this is just a new begining for him. God bless both of you.
Kim Van Dusen <giggly_ville7@hotmail.com>
STMA, - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 10:00 PM CST
Dear Melissa & Sam,

Forgive our delay in sending you this note, but this news has devastated us. It is so difficult to comprehend his loss. Ellis was such a fighter—a true warrior.

We will never forget meeting him for the first time as he walked so proudly by himself at the Mall of America participating in his first Heart Walk. We knew we were meeting someone special.

We can’t imagine how you two are managing losing him. This rocky journey that you have experienced with precious Ellis has been one that would have crushed the will of most ordinary people beyond imagination. But you guys are not ordinary--you are extraordinary, as was Ellis.

We take solace in knowing that he no longer has to endure the poking and the prodding, the biopsies, and the IV’s. Heaven is an IV-free zone. We can only imagine the joy Ellis will bring to God and the other special children in his care. We hope that Ellis has gotten to meet his Angel donor. Together, we’re sure they will find a way to comfort their parents.

One of our country’s greatest leaders, Abraham Lincoln, was quoted as saying,

“Live a Good Life.
And in the end, it’s not the years in the life,
It’s the Life in the years.”

This is Ellis. He added so much spirit, joy, and laughter to the world in his short lifetime to last an eternity.

We have the picture of Jack and Ellis together that appeared in the "Pioneer Press" hanging in our home office. There is a quote near it that says, “The best gifts are tied with heartstrings.” –- That says it all.

We continue to hold you in our hearts. It’s been an honor to know your family and walk this journey part of the way with you. We are here for you for as little or as much as you need us.

Good-bye precious Ellis. Take care of him, God.

Peace to you,
The Corbo’s
Todd, Robin, Jack & Cooper
www.caringbridge.org/mn/corboboys


The Corbo's
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:58 PM CST
I am so sorry Ellis had to leave you so soon. I never met him but feel like I know him from this cb site. He is so precious and such a fighter. Thank you for sharing him with us. I pray that God will bless you with peace and comfort in the difficult days ahead.
Toby <macainge@frontiernet. net>
Delano, Mn - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:54 PM CST
Our deepest sympathy to the entire Bergstrom family! Ellis touched all of our hearts with love and saddness. He was VERY special to us all!Ellisville was part of our lives and will be VERY hard not to have it anymore. If only.....tears are flowing heavy as I write this . You all are in our prayers to get thru this VERY difficult time. Connie and Bob Smith
Bob and Connie Smith <buffalobob@charter.net>
austin, mn. usa - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:28 PM CST
Sam and Melissa, we are so sorry for your loss. Please know that our family is praying for you and that we will never forget the musical times we were able to spend with Ellis. Be well, Lee, Danielle, Elliot, and Jonah Peterson
Lee Peterson <paradiddle33@msn.com>
Annandale, MN - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:26 PM CST
I just wanted you to know that I have been following Ellis since just before his transplant. We lost my "little" brother in a motorcycle accident last December. We donated his organs and as you probably know, I could not communicate with the recipients of his organs right away. Following Ellis on his journey has helped me to see that we made the right decision. I am so sorry for your loss. I know first hand how difficult it is to lose someone that you so cherish. My brother had his accident, one year ago on December 7, 2005. He was pronounced on December 8, 2005 and his body was able to rest after they harvested his organs on December 9, 2005. I know that he was there to greet Ellis as he entered heaven's gates as I have prayed so many times that he would hold Ellis gently as he recovered. My heart aches for you and the tears flow as I type. You are in my thoughts and prayers in the hours, days, months and years to come. You are right, the world will never be the same. Rest in peace, sweet Ellis.
Stephanie Randolph <Mommytomyangels@tampabay.rr.com>
New Port Richey, FL USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:21 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
Like everyone else there are no words that can heal your broken heart right now. When I would write to you I called Ellis Angel boy because he was truly and Angel that was send down from Heaven to be loved even for a very short time by to incredible parents. He is now an Angel in Heaven and he is smiling down knowing that when time has passed you will know that you have one more Angel in Heaven watching over you. He knows that you did everything you could but only our Father knew when he was going to take hime back home and December 5 was that day. Please know that you are loved and that you have your family,friends,students and all of Ellisville with you now and always. We love you and know that you will get through this. God Peace be with you and know that you are not alone we are here with you.

Anita,Heather and Alexis Maas Fairbanks.AK
Ray and Emily San Antonio,Texas
Lee and Ron Ballauer Florida
Linda Choyeski Bloomingdale,Illinios
Sister Joan and Rosemary Fink Minnepolis MN
Robin and Dennis Smith Lake in the Hills IL
Michelle,Ashley,and Danielle Buckman, Green Bay,WI
Jason,Carole,Marissa and Nicholas Koronkiewicz
Ida Volessco Chicago,IL


The Koronkiewicz Family ( New Life Lutheran Church)
Bolingbrook, IL USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:13 PM CST
Dear Missy, Sam and Sweet Angel Ellis,
I haven't been able to get to a computer 'til now. I have been reading your site for hours now and the tears keep coming for you. I just got back from your Mom and Dad's Missy, you can let your mom know that the burner wasn't on. In this life the gift of loving Ellis and being loved by him was so very, very precious. Ellis was so blessed to have had you to love him and you were so blessed to have had such a sweet little boy to love. You will always love and miss him. Your love will go on forever. The two of you were amazing parents and my heart breaks for you when I read of the days when you could finally be home. You did not take anything for granted. We cannot stop thinking of you and precious Ellis. What a beautiful soul. What a precious life. Peace be with you Ellis.
Jennifer Rott <pinkgirl1972@yahoo.com>
Aberdeen, SD USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 9:11 PM CST
Dear Melissa and Sam,

We have never personally met but I have gotten to know you and your story through Mary Gaye and Melissa Hanson. I have prayed for you and your family often and am so sorry to hear about beautiful Ellis. I wish I had some words of wisdom that could ease your pain but I know from experience that there are none. That amazing little boy will forever be in the hearts and memories of so many. He obviously touched and inspired so many lives. Your family will continue to be in our prayers. I'd like to imagine that my Benjamin has welcomed Ellis into heaven with open arms. If you ever want to talk please feel free to contact me at anytime. Tracy Garry
Tracy Garry <tgarry@austin.k12.mn.us>
Austin, MN US - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:54 PM CST
I never met Ellis nor know Melissa and have not talked to Sam in years, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
tomm eckmann <tommeckmann@hotmail.com>
san jose, costa rica - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:50 PM CST
thank you so much for your update of funeral times but very unfunainitly i am not going to be able to attend as i have a school commitment..NFL Student Congress but i send my love and support in bunches!!!
Alyssa Gallagher <starangle1@juno.com>
St.Michael, MN Wright - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:34 PM CST
Praying for you all...for peace and strength..Hugs,
Cheryl/Angel_Wings
MD - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:34 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
We are so sorry about the loss of your dear child, Ellis. He has touched so many lives, and made such an impact to bringing others stronger with their faith. We will deeply miss Ellis's smiles. Ellis became apart of our family in our daily prayers. We cried today, when we read your journal. He was one of the strongest little boys we know!
God bless you,
Mike, Jennifer, Autumn and Grace
Jennifer Schwertfeger <Schwert1@hickorytech.net>
Mankato, Mn USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:34 PM CST
So sorry for your loss. Ellis is flying high with the angels above looking down on you. My heart breaks for you and I can't even begin to think of what you are going though. Keeping you in our thoughts and Prayers.

Love and Prayers
Chris and Trista Long <Chris-Trista@att.net>
Fairmont, WV 26554 - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:31 PM CST
We are so sorry for your loss. Ellis was a very special boy and always will be in our hearts. Our family has prayed for Ellis and for your family during our dinner prayers and night time prayers everyday. Our hearts and sympathy go out to your family.
Rick, Kim, Samantha, Robby & Kevin Phillips (formerly of New Life Lutheran Church, Bolingbrook, IL <phillipskimberly@yahoo.com>
Perrysburg, OH USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:31 PM CST
So sorry for you loss of your beautiful son, Ellis. I have read about him many nights and have prayed for him and your family, which I will continue to do.

God Bless,
Lisa Zaikis <sullyzaikis@msn.com>
Lancaster, MA USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:15 PM CST
I am so very sorry to read about your loss of your precious little boy. So many nights, I have read your journals and have cheered your family on. No words can express the pain I feel for you. May you find strength through God and by the love you have for each other. May God be with you, My deepest sympathy,
Maria Newcomb <GANASHMAN@AOL.COM>
BATTLEBORO, NC - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:07 PM CST
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot even begin to express that. Just know that Ellis in no longer in pain, and is in a wonderful place.
Diana F.
Lawrenceville, GA USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:04 PM CST
I am so sorry to hear about Ellis, he has been and always will be the world's biggest hero. He is with Jesus now, free from pain. Thank you so much for letting me be a part of Ellis' amazing story, he was such an inspiration to me and millions of others. I'm praying that God will hold you in the palm of His hand and give you comfort during this very difficult time.

Love,
Abby Dodds <abbyrose_85@msn.com>
Ramsey, MN USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 7:32 PM CST
With Deepest Sympthy.
My heart aches with sadness for you.
God Bless you
Erin
Aleandria, MN USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 7:32 PM CST
Oh Dear Ones,

We feel your pain, as we lost our little grand daughter at the precious age of 21 months. It is very hard right now and I hope that through all of this, you can feel the prayers of an entire country praying for your. Ellis was here for a very special reason, just as our Isabella was. We may never know what that special purpose was, but you can bet he left a love that touched a 1000 or more hearts. I followed him when a co-worker introduced me and I fell in love with that angelic face right away. What a spirit he has!

Some day soon, you will be able to see his little face and remember him with more smiles than tears, but until then, know that God has you in his arms, just as he has Ellis. One day we will all be reunited in paradise and I have no doubt that Ellis and Isabella will be there to greet us all. God Bless you and keep you and may His love keep you strong.

In Christ, Karla
Karla Thompson <thompsonkt40@hotmail.com>
Fargo , ND USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 7:26 PM CST
I can't leave Ellisville. Not yet. This site has been a big part of my life for the last 2 1/2 years. I know I checked it at least 5 times a day. I laughed and cried and got angry and happy. I have spent most of the day reading everyone's entries. This should have ended happily ever after not the way it did. I can only imagine what you are going through. I'm hoping with time, I'll be able to understand why.

With you always in the spirit of Ellis!
Pam
Pam Osborn <OsbornP@comcast.net>
BC, MN - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 7:21 PM CST
Still praying for you during this tough, tough time.
L Chase
Rochester , NY - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 7:06 PM CST
I am so sorry. Please let me know if there is anything, ANYTHING I can do. You and your families are in my thoughts and prayers, Missy and Sam.
Rylee <ryleer@hotmail.com>
St. Paul, MN - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:53 PM CST
May God continue to bless you and hold you close during this difficult time. I've been following your website since a friend added Ellis' name as a link, many months now. Please know that, even though we've never met, my heart is breaking for your family. All of you are in my thoughts and daily prayers. And Ellis, if you can read this from Heaven, please say hi to my best friend up there. He passed away a long time ago, but I miss him like it happened yesterday.
Tanya <tll619@hotmail.com>
Albert Lea, MN - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:37 PM CST
We share your loss and continue to pray for your family. The scripture that was with us during Gary's daughter's illness was from the Apostle Paul "I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength."
(Phil. 4:12-13)


Gary and Jean Blosberg <gjblosber@att.net>
Crystal, Mn - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:34 PM CST
There are no words that can express my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing that Ellis's bravery and strength, has taught many of us to remember how blessed we are , and somehow bring us all to remember the important things in life. Ellis is smiling down at his mommy and daddy from heaven......he is without pain and he is telling you, how much he loves you. Your family will forever be in my prayers.
Gina Richardson <coffeeslopper@yahoo.com>
Austin, MN - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:27 PM CST
I am so very very sorry...you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie Moore <patrick.moore@insightbb.com>
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:27 PM CST
Praying for you and your family.
God Bless
Robyn Wood
Robyn Wood <robyn_wood@sbcglobal.net>
Farmington, MO - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:20 PM CST
I know I dont know you all, but I am heartbroken just the same. Ellis' smile was captivating. You are both in my prayers Sam and Melissa.

Hugs,
Kate
Kate
MD - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:17 PM CST
I did not know you but heard so much of you from others. I feel your pain and hope you'll beable to find strength from the Lord. We too also lost our infant son to kidney failure and are thinking and praying for you at this time.
Sherry Stauss(kolbystaussnd)
sherry stauss <sstauss@gra.midco.net>
gf, nd usa - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:12 PM CST
you all are in my prayers! Ellis was a precious little boy!
shelby <americaneagle517@aol.com>
oviedo , fl - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:11 PM CST
Our prayers are with you and your family
The Vanoskey and DiNovo family
from New Life Lutheran Church
Bill Vanoskey and Lori DiNovo <DINVAN 1117@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:10 PM CST
Praying for your hurting hearts. Ellis is among the angels and sitting on the lap of the heavenly Father. What a wonderful sight to see. May God give you strength,comfort and endurance thru this very hard time.
Beverly
A Prayer Bear from TEXAS****

The Lord is my Shepherd I shall not want. Psalm 23:1
beverly sanchez <bevesan46@aol.com>
floresville, tx u.s.a. - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:09 PM CST
I visited "Ellisville" online through another Caring Bridge site...and have been captivated by your strength, and beautiful writing as you articulated your thoughts about your dearest boy & his struggles. May God grant you peace dear ones, as you learn to cope with the loss of your beloved Ellis. He was a shining light....and the universe, itself, will never be the same. From all your earth angels from afar (both known and unknown)...peace be with you. You have fought a brave and valiant battle. Beloved Ellis, beautiful BRAVE & wonderful boy...rest peacefully in the palm of God's Loving Hand....
Jackie King
Pittsburgh, PA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:06 PM CST
No more hospitals, no more IV's, no more transfusions, no more fevers, no more tubes, no more ventilators, no more war wounds - but my heart is breaking at the loss of your precious child. You did everything possible to help him, and filled his short life with love.
Annette McCabe <annette_lynn_mccabe@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, December 5, 2006 6:01 PM CST
Sam and Melissa,
We are so sorry to learn of your loss. We are thinking and praying for you and your family. God Bless.
Dan & Darla Dammen <d.dammen@comcast.net>
New Hope, MN USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 5:52 PM CST
Fly free little angel!

Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Lois (Friends of Allie)
NJ - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 5:48 PM CST
We are so very sorry for your incredible loss.
Connie and Gary Larson <connielarson@goldenvalleysupply.com>
Eden Prairie, Mn USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 5:43 PM CST
SOAR HIGH SWEET ELLIS!!!! GOD HAS A NEW PRECIOUS ANGEL IN HIS GARDEN OF ANGELS!!!!!MY HEART ACHES FOR BOTH OF YOU SAM & MELISSA!!!YOU ARE BOTH AWESOME PARENTS!!!THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR PRECIOUS ELLIS WITH US!!! LOVE AND PRAYERS
ANGEL PAT FROM ZION IL.
Pat Donile
zion , il. - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 5:37 PM CST

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