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Sunday, November 14, 2010 6:36 PM CST

To our Little Punky on your big girl Birthday in heaven.
Today you would be turning ten, but we will always think of you as 5 and 1 day.
We wish you were still here with us so we could sing, dance & play just as we used to do.
You would be so big now & we could could see how much your pretty hair had grown.
*Happy 10th Birthday Sweetheart
Mummy & Daddy love you with their wholest hearts
for ever and ever. xxxxx

Saturday, November 13, 2010 6:50 PM CST

Sunday, November 15th, 2009 0:29 AM CST

To our Little Punky on your 9th Birthday

We sent you beautiful balloons and bubbles today and for your Angel day the day after.
It's not getting any easier to be without you sweetheart.
We miss you so much and would give anything to see your smiling happy face.
Mummy and Daddy love you with their wholest hearts for ever and ever..
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Friday, January 23, 2009 7:20 PM CST

Tuesday, November 25, 2008 7:15 PM CST

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Saturday 15-11-2008

HAPPY 8TH BIRTHDAY PUNKY

Mummy and Daddy will send you Balloons and Bubbles today on your special day, we miss you so much bub.
You cant be here with us today but you are and always will be in our hearts.
Happy birthday in heaven Princess We love you with all our hearts for ever and ever.






Daddy's Wally and OUR Punky, 3 years today since you left us and not one minute goes by where we do not think of you.
Our Warrior Princess, we love you so much Bub and miss you more than words can say.

Monday, January 21, 2008 2:48 AM CST

Wednesday, December 19, 2007 10:18 PM CST

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To our LITTLE PUNKY spending Christmas in heaven again this year,
Life is not the same without you, there is no Christmas cheer.

We want you here again with us our precious little Wally,
We cannot decorate the tree with tinsle balls or holly.

We miss your happy atmoshere and miss your little ways, there is no music, colour or fun to fill our special days.

We do our very best for you, As promised we'd be alright, But our hearts miss you very much, everyday and every night.

On this Christmas morning when we awake without you here, We will light your special candle and feel your little spirit near.

Have fun with all your angel friends, sing and dance and play, and open all your special gifts that heavens santa brings your way.

Merry Christmas our precious princess,
Mummy and Daddy love you with their wholest hearts
FOR EVER AND EVER.

Wednesday, November 14, 2007 6:30 AM CST

To our little Punky on your 7th birthday.2 years ago today you fought so hard,and Jesus waited 1 day for you,so you could be with us on your special day. And you did it bub, you be'd 5.
Not a day goes by where we dont miss you and remember your cheeky smile and quirky little ways. We will always love you with our wholest hearts, for ever and ever, because our favorite person you are.
Happy birthday sweetheart. dont forget to catch your balloons and chase your bubbles.
Love Mummy and Daddy.xx




Softly softly, a surprise is coming
Floating in the mist,
Creep up very slowly
Or the whispers, you may miss.

Just a little secret tickle
There, warm upon your cheek,
Close your eyes, no looking
Uh ah, you mustn’t peek

There now did you feel it?
That tiny tingle touch,
We blew butterfly kisses for your birthday
Cause we love you very much.



This is not the best Pic of Ebony, But I am just amazed at how in 2004 on her birthday while doing sparklers with Mummy & Daddy,She made Angel wings,She was so proud when she saw the Photos, I'm so clever she said, look at that.I have a giggle at the look of concentration on her face.



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Saturday, June 2, 2007 0:30 AM CDT

Wednesday, May 2, 2007 9:36 PM CDT

These pictures are from a series of photo's taken on my last mothers day with Ebony.She didn't leave me alone for a second that day as daddy had told her all about mothers day and how special it was, I was to be spoilt all day. I got beautiful gifts she had chosen from the mothers day stall at school and that Daddy had taken her to buy, and a card written by her.I miss her everyday, but Mothers day is as the words explain,
'MOTHERS DAY'
and only a mother can understand the meaning of that day and its Significance. I will remember all the wonderful mothers days I spent with Ebony, but the last one will stay strongest in my memory forever.



Remembering You On Mother's Day

No little hugs or kisses
to wake me up this morn.
No special card or roses sent my way.
Bittersweet feelings, at least a thousand tears;
Quietly, I celebrated you this day.

I am not like the others,
Though I still wear the name.
I cannot hold you in my arms,
But I love you just the same.

I knelt beside your resting place,
Though I knew you were not there.
I prayed to God in Heaven:
A peace I found in knowing,
sweet child, you're in his care.

To see a mother with her baby -
Now my heart breaks in two;
But never would I trade this pain
If it meant there had not been you

At times I feel I cannot go on -
Living this life without you.
Yet hidden behind my deepest grief
There is joy unexplainably true.

For my daughter, you will always be a
blessing from above.
Your brief existence has bestowed on me
a name I cherish dear.
And although this day is not what I
imagined it to be,
I will treasure it because of you -

Sunday, January 7, 2007 6:38 AM CST

Monday, December 4, 2006 7:26 PM CST

I had to share this picture of Ebony, It never ceased to amaze me, she was so grateful for every little thing that she owned. She had so many teddies and toys because as we are all aware they get very spoilt while on treatment, but every one of them meant the world to her and I’m sure she knew exactly what she had in every toy box. I remember her asking for Annalise and Erika dolls for Christmas because they sing to each other mummy she said, and when she realized Father Christmas had got her letter and granted her wish, she just about turned herself inside out with excitement. She was the most humble and kindest little person I have ever known. We wish you were here with us for Christmas Punky, but you will be with us in memories and thoughts of you. I will be brave and make Erika and Annalise sing me a song on Christmas morning so you can hear them in heaven. We love you with our wholest hearts,
Mummy and Daddy


Where Is Christmas?
Where is Christmas? Where can it be found?
I've tried and I've tried, I have looked all around.
Is it hiding in some forgotten space?
Have I misplaced it? I can't find a trace.
Up in the attic in boxes stored away?
I try to find it, it will soon be Christmas Day.
As I sit and ponder my lost Christmas plight.
My mind drifts back to long ago Christmas Eve night.
When did I lose it? Where did I lock it away?
Why can't I find Christmas this Christmas Day?
Years before it was so readily found
But now I can't find it, it is no where around.
And as I remember it comes clear to see
When I lost Christmas inside of me.
For Christmas is born from a joy deep within
But since you are gone, I don't know where to begin.
The feelings of joy have been replaced
By the pain of longing to see your sweet face.
Yes, Christmas is here, but the joy gone away
And try as I may, I can't find Christmas,
this Christmas Day.

Heavens Christmas

Wednesday 15th November 2006

Heavens Birthday Girl

Today I would push you on the swing,
And make you all your favourite things.
We would sing and we would dance.
Like crazy loonies, round the lounge.
My big girl would be six today,
Six years ago, since that wonderful day.
Six years ago a miracle was made,
And into the world, came Ebony Jayde.
The world would never be the same,
It became colourful with music and fun and games.
So much laughing, so much fun,
You touched the lives of everyone.
You were definitely different, in your own unique way,
A special personality was born that day.
I would like to know, that in heaven today,
My birthday girl is still that way.
And though it’s not Mummy pushing the swing,
Someone is making your favourite things.
Some one will sing happy birthday and give you a kiss,
When you blow out six candles, and make your wish.

Happy 6th Birthday My Little Punky
I love you with my wholest heart
Mummy


16th November 2006
1 year today since you ended your brave and courageous life with us,we love you and miss you very much.
Mummy and Daddy

The Dash

I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning to the end.

He noted that first came her date of birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth...
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own;
the cars....the house....the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard...
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what's true and real,
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more,
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile...
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy's being read
With your life's actions to rehash...
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?

Monday 22nd October 2006