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Just thinking about you and Connor today. Five years....! Today another angel gained his wings from AML....only 6 years old. Like Alexa, he fought the fight....had two bone marrow transplants! God just needed another angel in his realm. You are never far from our thoughts and always in our prayers.
Your Friend in Jesus
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Thursday, September 29, 2011 5:52 PM CDT

Sending prayers of strength your way during this week. Always remembering you this time of year.
A Friend
Greenwood, IN - Monday, September 26, 2011 8:35 PM CDT

Still think of you all the time. Wishing you comfort and strength this week.
A Friend
Greenwood, IN - Sunday, September 26, 2010 12:51 AM CDT

Thank you Dana. We will again be in Frankilin Friday and Saturday for the IHSAA girl's state golf tournamnet. If you have a moment and can come by, I know Ashtyn would love to see you.
Love,Kerri <brown.4@comcast.net>
Richmond, In USA - Thursday, October 1, 2009 10:00 AM CDT

Alexa will never be forgotten. Her photo and story is on our "forever wall"...those who are enjoying their peace with Jesus our Saviour. We pray each and everyday for all of those left behind...know that all of you will always be in our hearts and prayers. Wishing you a lifetime of peace and pink skies. Thank you for sharing your last post and most of all thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, September 29, 2009 9:17 PM CDT

God bless you Dana. I'm sure this has put a real strain on your everyday life, but you have held it together so very well in public. I hope you find all the peace and happiness you deserve. I"m sure it doesn't get any easier. For all of us that have watched Alexis journey, we have smiled and cried with you and we all love you and you family. Hope you keep seeing pink skies..
Patricia Cook <galahadst@aol.com>
Franklin, In. USA - Tuesday, September 29, 2009 9:00 PM CDT

Dana,

I doubt if you will remember me at all but I remember you. We met in 2006 by chance actually. My newborn son had just been diagnosed with Cancer and was undergoing Chemo. Alexa was in for one of her many rounds of that horrible stuff! By chance the floor was full and we ended up sharing a room! I remember beautiful Alexa sneaking a peek at the "adorable baby" everytime she had to use the restroom or went out of the room for a while.

Three years ago today I was devastated to see that she had went to Heven in the Daily Journal. As I read the paper today I saw the memorial that you guys had printed for her and again the memories came flooding back. Please take pride in knowing that just for that short time that she was in our lives she made an impression! I also remember how kind you were seeing that I was alone volunteering to keep an eye on my lil guy if I needed to go get a bite to eat , shower or just needed a few mins to gather my thoughts!

I also wanted to let you know that the little adorable baby that Alexa loved peeking at ... well he is now a 3 year old rowdy pre-schooler! He is now in remission and doing things the Docs said he would never do! I know Alexa is still peeking down on him and keeping him safe and for that I am grateful. I will make sure that when he is older he knows of Alexa and how sweet she was.

Thank you so much for these wonderful memories. Our heart goes out to you and your family and we will keep you in our prayers.

Jodie , Gavin Jon, and Nicholas Coria
Jodie <jodiemae@gmail.com>
Greenwood, IN USA - Tuesday, September 29, 2009 8:54 PM CDT

Nearly 3 years have passed since Alexa joined the choirs of angels. I am sure she is enjoying every minute in His presence. As I am also sure that you miss her as much today as you did when she left her earthly home on 9/29/2006. So much has changed and yet nothing has changed--just this past week we lost a friend, 46 years young, to cancer and had two other friends diagnosed--one was told to go home and make the most of the time she has left--maybe six weeks and the other was told it was "caught" early enough that the doctors think they can help him. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, September 27, 2009 1:31 PM CDT

Thinking about you. Peace and pink skies!
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, in - Thursday, September 24, 2009 7:21 PM CDT

Can't get all of you off of my mind these days. Hope all of you are doing okay. Wishing you Peace and Pink skies.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, in - Monday, September 21, 2009 7:41 PM CDT

As the 3 year mark approaches I have noticed some pretty incredible pink skies at sunrise and sunset. Alexa is still right there beside you. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, in - Wednesday, September 16, 2009 8:09 PM CDT

Do hope you are all having a restful Labor Day Weekend. Just to let you know you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, September 6, 2009 10:58 AM CDT

Sorry to have been "silent" for so long. Just want you to know that each and every day we pray for all of you. The third year anniversary of Angel Alexa is fast approaching....I am sure September is a difficult month for you...just know that you are thought of and prayed for each and every day.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, August 28, 2009 7:48 PM CDT

Summer has flown by, can't believe we are the verge of August!! Can't believe that Alexa has been gone for 34 months!! Seems like just yesterday...............Hope you are all having a great summer. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Peace and pink skies!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, July 29, 2009 7:59 PM CDT

Just wanted to say hello. Wishing you peace and pink skies. Prayers always.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, July 5, 2009 7:41 PM CDT

Hope your summer is going great. Chris, Happy Father's Day. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. God bless and keep all of you.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, June 21, 2009 7:22 PM CDT

Dana and Family,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you. I was on vacation and saw the most beautiful pink sunset. Even several states away on vacation, you are always in my thoughts!
Your friend in Jesus
Greenwood, IN - Friday, June 12, 2009 8:02 AM CDT

Just wanted you to know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, June 12, 2009 7:42 AM CDT

Just thinking about you and hope summer vacation will be fun and relaxing for all of you. You are in our prayers each and every day. I know God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand. God Bless you!
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, May 28, 2009 7:13 PM CDT

I just wanted to let you know I think of your family often.
Your friend in Jesus
Greenwood, IN - Monday, May 25, 2009 9:44 AM CDT

Hope all is well with you. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Have a great summer.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, May 21, 2009 6:53 PM CDT

You have crossed my mind,it has been so long since we have seen you. Yet...the impact that you and your family have made.....in my thoughts and prayers
Gloria and Troy Gryszowka <dopey325@sbcglobal.net>
Indpls, IN USA - Friday, May 15, 2009 10:18 PM CDT

Wishing you pink skies and peace. Hope you all are doing okay.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, in - Friday, May 8, 2009 2:23 PM CDT

Thank you for sharing Alexa with the Partylite family ... my friend Karen looked to your daughter as inspiration while her journey with cancer marched on. Alexa has some great company in Heaven as she passed this Sunday .. May we not only have beautiful pink skies but butterflies to remind us that life is so precious....
Selene Kite <heavenstarlites@aol.com>
York, PA USA - Monday, May 4, 2009 6:51 PM CDT

Thirty one months and counting.........the count will go on forever because Alexis is forever 10 years old! You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, April 30, 2009 3:36 PM CDT

Thinking about you and praying for you always!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, April 23, 2009 10:21 PM CDT

Just wanted to say hello. Hope you enjoyed this beautiful day. You are always in our prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, April 17, 2009 8:29 PM CDT

Wanted to wish you a Happy and Blessed Easter. Hope all of you are doing well. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, April 10, 2009 8:27 AM CDT

There is a gorgeous pink sunset this evening. Alexa is sending out vibes to all of us. Almost at the 2 1/2 year mark. We pray for all you each and every day. Enjoy Spring--I know it was Alexa's favorite time of the year. God bless all of you. Peace and pink skies!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, March 25, 2009 7:00 PM CDT

Just wanted to stop by and say hello. Hope you had a good winter and are looking forward to spring. Spring is my favorite time of the year when everything returns to life. You are in our thoughts and prayers each and every day. Peace and pink skies!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, March 19, 2009 9:43 AM CDT

Thinking about you and praying for you each and every day.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, March 8, 2009 7:28 PM CDT

Nearly twenty nine months have passed since Alexa gained those beautiful pink angel wings. Each and every day you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Wishing you peace and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, February 28, 2009 10:06 AM CST

Nearly 29 months have now passed since Alexa gained those beautiful pink angel wings. Each and every day all of you left behind are in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, February 28, 2009 10:03 AM CST

How lucky can you be not to any child with cancer!!! There are so many families who have lost a child to this epidemic of childhood cancers and there are so many more who have children fighting so many different kinds of cancer. All of these families need our prayers each and everyday. That is why you are always in our thoughts and prayers everyday. I know that God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand! God bless everyone and maybe one day in the future all of us can say we don't know any child fighting cancer--wouldn't that be wonderful!!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, February 21, 2009 2:51 PM CST

WOW! What a great thing the Overton's are doing. See, I told you Lex was touching the hearts and lives of people from all over...I see pink skies nearly every day - I have no doubt she's looking down on all of us who love her so, and she's dancing and twirling and perfect...
Kris <kcalvert@imamuseum.org>
New Whiteland, IN USA - Thursday, February 12, 2009 3:06 PM CST

You don't know who I am, nor do I know you. I ran across your story in my search to sign up again for St. Baldrick's again. As me and my kids go each year, people ask who are you supporting. Our response is the same, we do not know any children with Cancer, which is why we are doing it. I tell them why wait until you know someone, when you can make a difference now. This year we will be shaving our heads for your beautiful daughter and your family. I just prayed and asked God for blessings in your family. Thank you for your courage, it means more than you know.
Jeff Overton <jeffandtracey@charter.net>
St Louis, MO - Thursday, February 12, 2009 1:19 PM CST

Thinking about you and praying for you always.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, February 12, 2009 7:51 AM CST

I ran across this while surfing the net. My prayers are with you and your beautiful daughter.
Gabe <gabe.reull@gmail.com>
- Monday, February 9, 2009 5:50 PM CST

Twenty eight months have now passed since Alexa gained her angel wings! We think of you each and every day and pray for you daily. If memory serves me right, Alexa would turn 13 this month?! Wow! Have you noticed some of the absolutely gorgeous sunrises recently--pink skies--Alexa letting us know that she is right there beside us each day. God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand. God Bless!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, February 2, 2009 6:46 PM CST

Just wanted to say hello and let you know you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Found one of the discount cards that were a fund raiser when Alexa was fighting caner. It is so hard to believe that beautiful little girl is gone from us.
Your friend in Jesus
indianapolis, in - Tuesday, January 27, 2009 1:15 PM CST

Thinking about you and praying for you today and always.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, January 19, 2009 12:48 AM CST

hi
John Tepley <tdyjltinc@yahoo.com>
- Friday, January 16, 2009 6:30 AM CST

Hope 2009 is off to a great start for all of you. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, January 11, 2009 3:32 PM CST

Wishing you a Happy New Year. May 2009 bring you much peace and many pink skies. God bless all of you.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, December 31, 2008 8:11 PM CST

May the hope and the promise of the Christ Child fill you this holy season. May your holiday be filled with peace and pink skies. God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, December 24, 2008 9:45 AM CST

Just a note to let you know I'm thinking of you. Hope your family is doing well. Take care.
Judy <jyarnell@franklincollege.edu>
Franklin, IN USA - Monday, December 22, 2008 3:35 PM CST

Just thinking about you and praying for you. I know this week must be very difficult for you. I pray that this holiest of seasons brings you peace, joy and comfort. I wish for peace and pink skies for all of you.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, December 21, 2008 8:01 PM CST

I have never met you, but have followed your blog for over two years now. What a blessing your family has been to me. I lost my princess four years ago (can it really be that long ago?) and have found such strength by reading how your family has dealt with losing your princess. I hope this holiday season brings your many pink skies, beautiful memories, and peace in your hearts. Thank you for your witness.
Melissa Priest <mpriest@clearwire.net>
Amarillo, tx usa - Sunday, December 21, 2008 0:36 AM CST

I hope that you are all finding meaningful ways to enjoy the blessings of this holy season. Every time I drive past your house and see a glowing pink sunset overhead I think of Alexa and her passion for all things in life. I didn't know her well...just watched as she walked her puppy or played with the kids in the Ladds' backyard, but she definitely "glowed" with joy and peace, even at that young age. Your pink flowers were absolutely gorgeous this summer! Alexa was surely delighted at their abundant beauty, even in a year of floods and destruction all around us. Here's hoping Chris has found a rewarding new job and you are all settling into your new "normal" life again with peace and grace. You're always in my prayers...
Your WIndstar neighbor, Julie Edwards <jandjedwards@embarqmail.com>
Franklin, IN - Thursday, December 18, 2008 8:00 AM CST

Just wanted to say hello. You know you are always in our thoughts and prayers. You will never know how many lives Alexa touched during her journey on earth and all of those people still pray for you today. Wishing you pink skies and peace.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, December 17, 2008 11:28 PM CST

Wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you and have witnessed some GORGEOUS pink Alexa skies. She must be loving her home!
Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, December 15, 2008 12:53 AM CST

Thinking about you and praying for you always. Wishing you peace and pink skies to get you through this holy season.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, December 8, 2008 11:08 AM CST

Just can't get you off my mind. Hope all of you are doing okay. It seems like everyday I hear another story of a young life being affected by cancer. I hope and pray that some of what Alexa went through is benefitting these new patients of this dreaded disease. Know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
indianapolis, IN - Thursday, December 4, 2008 8:59 AM CST

Twenty six months and counting. Where does the time go?! I am sure you can tell us just how "long" these past twenty six months have been. The holiday season is in full swing--hope you are able to cope. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you peace and pink skies to get you through each day. God bless and keep you.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, December 2, 2008 8:27 AM CST

JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU A HAPPY THANKSGIVING. HOPE YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY. ALEXA IS RIGHT THERE WITH YOU CELEBRATING EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY DAY. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU. HE IS HOLDING ALL OF YOU IN THE PALM OF HIS HAND.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Tuesday, November 25, 2008 9:01 PM CST

Think of you so often. Your courage and faith are amazing to me. Wishing you all a happy holiday season. Celebrate it the way Alexa would want you to, with joy and love for each other.
Kris Murphy <kris.murphy@avon.com>
Franklin, in USA - Tuesday, November 25, 2008 8:02 PM CST

Thinking about you as the holiday season approaches. Hope this year is a little easier than the past two years. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. God bless and keep all of you.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
indianapolis, IN - Monday, November 17, 2008 2:25 PM CST

Dana and Family: Our thoughts and prayers are always with you. May God continue to bless you as you help others in Alexa's name. (I worked with you at PwC).
Carol and Leon Roop <croop11@Comcast.net>
New Castle, IN USA - Tuesday, November 11, 2008 7:29 PM CST

More than 25 months have passed since Alexa left her worldly body and gained her angel wings. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers everyday.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, November 4, 2008 7:49 PM CST

Just to let you know we are thinking about you and praying for you. Hope you are enjoying fall. I be the trees that guard over Alexa's grave are beautiful. God bless all of you.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, October 28, 2008 6:43 PM CDT

Funny seeing you on the interstate this morning, Dana! I think about you, Chris, and Connor all the time...I'm here if you ever need anything, you know that! I love you!
Wishing you lots of Pink Skies (and leaves)!!

Kris <kcalvert@imamuseum.org>
New Whiteland, IN USA - Friday, October 24, 2008 9:39 AM CDT

Thinking of you and praying for you always.
Your friend in Jesus
indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, October 22, 2008 8:09 AM CDT

October 3rd and 4th brought us to Franklin for the IHSAA Girls Golf State Championship, and after Friday's round we had to go to pick up a prescription for Taylor. Some of the streets were closed because of a festival, so Steve asked a sheriff for directions to CVS. He was very helpful and told us to just follow him. As it turns out, we were taken right by the cemetery, so we stopped and said hello to Alexa. Strange how things work out. Last year Ashtyn saw the balloons and Uncle Stan, this year we got to visit Alexa. Take care and know you are thought of more than you could possibly know.
Love, The Brown's <Brown.4@comcast.net>
Richmond, IN USA - Wednesday, October 15, 2008 12:26 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you and praying for you. Hope all is well. Peace and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, October 8, 2008 8:31 AM CDT

I've been thinking of you a lot during the past few days. There have been some mighty pretty pink skies lately and I'm certain that Alexa is smiling down on us from her heavenly perch. It's been two years since God called her home and she's still living in the hearts of those whose lives she touched, no matter how seemingly insignificant that moment may have been. God bless you. We love you!
Judy Yarnell <jyarnell@franklincollege.edu>
Franklin, IN USA - Wednesday, October 1, 2008 3:19 PM CDT

Hello Chris,Dana and Connor, I think of you often and how your doing. Infinity thoughts of Alexa! She lit up the gym everytime she was there with that glowing smile. I used to tease her and Connor about their smiles. I would tell Alexa, I bet we could turn the lights off because of the glow from her and Connor's smiles. Alexa would just give me that smile and giggle. She was very precious to me. It was such an honor to know her and teach her. My heart and prayers go out to your family.
Infinity Smiles for ALEXA! Love and Smiles
Susan McAllister <tumblewithasmile@yahoo.com>
Indianapaolis, IN U.S. - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 10:34 PM CDT

With thoughts of you today.
Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn <brown.4 @comcast.net>
Richmond, IN USA - Tuesday, September 30, 2008 8:29 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know you all are in our thoughts and prayers on this 2 year anniversary of when Alexa gained her pink angel wings. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
Phil, Sonia, Megan Diveto <pdiveto@yahoo.com>
Franklin, IN - Monday, September 29, 2008 1:30 PM CDT

Tomorrow marks 2 years--whew!! And I am sure heaven has not been the same since Alexa crossed it's threshold! 731 days, 104 weeks 24 months--I am sure you can tell us how many seconds, minutes and hours have passed. God is holding all of you tightly in the palm of His hand. You are in our thoughts and prayers each and everyday. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, September 28, 2008 11:43 AM CDT

I just wanted to let you know that you will be thought of and prayed for on the 2 year mark. Trust me God shows Himself in His own ways. You know where she is and that she will greet you someday. Anniversaries are just dates and the memories are in your hearts forever. God Bless you.
Christa Newcom (Ray's Mom) www.rayssunshine.org or CB/in/rayspage <gncnewcom@ameritech.net>
Indianapolis, IN Marion - Wednesday, September 17, 2008 8:57 PM CDT

It's nice to read the updates. I still think of your family a lot. I was recently going through some old pictures and found some of Lexi when she danced to Raindrops at the PL National Conference. She was able to touch so many lives, far more than she ever knew. I pray that you continue to trust in God's plan, you are definately a special family to him!!
Jennifer *Marquise Region* <jrandolph01@yahoo.com>
Cincinnati, Oh USA - Tuesday, September 16, 2008 1:13 PM CDT

I hope you are getting through the September days with ease and grace--knowing how much you are loved and prayed for by so many people. God is holding on to all of you very tightly--He'll see you through the days ahead. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, September 14, 2008 7:27 PM CDT

So good to see an update from you. I love hearing how you're doing. Our wedding anniversary is Sept. 29, and
I always have Alexa close to my heart on that date. As you were writing about "remember whens" I remembered when I was helping her with her makeup when she was in the school production of "Annie." She was so excited to be in the play.

Happy belated birthday to Chris. I should remember it because it's so close to Robbie's....but I'm getting old.

Take care.
Judy Yarnell <jyarnell@franklincollege.edu>
Franklin, IN USA - Friday, September 12, 2008 1:53 PM CDT

I think of you all (and Lex) every day. I look for the pink skies, and when they appear, I know it's her saying Hi Kristin, you crazy chick! Chris - I hope you had a happy Birthday, I know this month is hard for all of you. Just know you have so much support (more than you can even imagine)to get you through this. I plan on going to Lexi's grave again this year and placing pink and purple flowers. I am sure she'll be there to receive them. I love you guys so much!
Kristin <kcalvert@imamuseum.org>
New Whiteland, IN USA - Thursday, September 11, 2008 3:26 PM CDT

It is so good to see an update from all of you. Glad you continue to do well. Happy belated Birthday to Chris--trust God, He has a plan for you and a new career. Never a day goes by that we don't think about all of you and say a prayer for you. God is still holding all of you gently in the palm of His hand. There have been some pretty awesome pink sunsets recently. We continue to wish you peace and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, September 9, 2008 6:40 PM CDT

It is always so meaningful when we see that you have updated. Your words are very powerful and inspirational!!
Happy Birthday to Chris, we hope he has a memorable and blessed day. Take care and may God continue to guide and direct you as you forge ahead with another journey.
Love, Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn <Brown.4@comcast.net>
Richmond, In USA - Monday, September 8, 2008 10:03 AM CDT

You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Hope all of you are doing well. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
indianapolis, IN - Thursday, September 4, 2008 7:08 PM CDT

Just wanted to peek in and let you know you are being thought of today as well as everyday.
Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn <Brown.4@comcast.net>
Richmond, IN USA - Tuesday, September 2, 2008 1:00 PM CDT

Tomorrow will mark 23 months since Alexa gained her angel wings. Where has the time gone? Time passes so quickly, I know you can still probably tell us how many minutes have passed since then. We still pray for you each and every day. We know that God holds all of you in the palm of His hand. We pray that God continues His blessings upon all of you.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, August 28, 2008 8:13 AM CDT

Just wanted to say hello and let you know that we are thinking about you and praying for you. Hope Connor has a great start to his new school year.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, August 12, 2008 7:24 PM CDT

We are all so happy to know that you guys are doing well. We love Alexa and your whole family.My three daughters have had strength from both Connor and Alexa. Jalene has truly been impacted the most. This has taught her the meaning of life and what's really important in life.
With all our love,
Jalene,Meagan and Sarah Scott
Tricia Byrd & Daughters <jerryandtriciabyrd@comcast.net>
Franklin, IN USA - Saturday, August 9, 2008 3:54 PM CDT

More than 22 months have now passed since Alexa gained her angel wings--seems like only yesterday. Hope you are enjoying the summer. Wishing you Peace and Pink skies!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, August 4, 2008 2:40 PM CDT

Just wanted to check in and say hello. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Peace and Pink Skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, July 24, 2008 8:00 PM CDT

Hope all is well. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, July 14, 2008 9:17 AM CDT

Lexie Shank rocks!!!!
I think she was a true survivor!!!I am so glad I knew her and knew me!!!
We went to the same school and even our moms talked to each other!
Shelby
Franklin, IN United States - Saturday, July 12, 2008 6:43 PM CDT

Just wanted to say hello and let you know you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you peace and pink skies!!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, July 11, 2008 2:17 PM CDT

Twenty one months and counting!!! My how time flies! Hope you are all continuing to do well. Hope you are having a great summer. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, June 30, 2008 9:22 AM CDT

Just wanted to say hello. Hope your lives are filled with peace and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus <nancytimpe@hotmail.com>
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, June 25, 2008 7:38 AM CDT

Hope you had a very nice Father's Day. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, June 16, 2008 7:51 PM CDT

Hope the past few weeks have been fabulous for you all! Can't wait to hear!!
Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, June 1, 2008 7:26 PM CDT

Tomorrow will be 20 months since Alexa gained her angel wings....you are always in our thoughts and prayers. God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand and Alexa is right their beside you. Wishing you peace and pink skies!!
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, May 28, 2008 7:15 AM CDT

Just wanted to wish you a Happy Mother's Day and let you know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you a pink-filled, peace-filled weekend.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, May 9, 2008 2:28 PM CDT

Thinking of you and praying for you always.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, April 30, 2008 12:59 AM CDT

Lexi was known as a survivor before she died.
Shelby M
Franklin, IN US - Monday, April 28, 2008 5:40 PM CDT

Just wanted to let you know we are thinking about all of you and praying for you as always. Nearly 19 months have passed since Alexa stormed the gates of heaven. Have you noticed how pretty all of the pink flowers are this spring? And all of the pink skies in the morning and again at sunset? She is with us and always will be right by your side!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, April 25, 2008 8:35 PM CDT

I am still around, and I check in on you guys often...I just have a hard time signing in sometimes. Please know that you are always in my heart and in my prayers.
Alicia - Cammie's Mom - www.caringbridge.com/cammiespage <alicia415@comcast.net>
Brownsburg, IN - Wednesday, April 16, 2008 8:32 PM CDT

Thinking about you and praying for you. Peace and Pink Skies
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, April 6, 2008 9:37 AM CDT

Here is it 18 months after Alexa passed from this life to eternal life. What a beautiful day it is today--just like Alexa. Hope this finds you continuing to be well and getting on with living. Spring is such a wonderful time to renew our hearts and spirit. God bless all of you. You are in our prayers everyday. Wishing you pink skies and peace.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, March 29, 2008 8:13 AM CDT

Hello! I just wanted to say hi to you guys and let you know we're all still thinking about you every day. I just found out Dana will be attending my fraternity's fundraising dinner for Riley next week at Butler. I can't wait to see you again, as this will give my brothers a chance to put a face with the name of someone who I have talked about as one of the strongest people I have ever met. Take care, see you soon.
Eric Massey <emassey@butler.edu>
New Palestine, IN USA - Tuesday, March 25, 2008 8:54 AM CDT

HAPPY EASTER MONDAY!! There was a beautiful pink sunrise this morning. Thinking of you and praying for you. Wishing you peace and pink skies always.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, March 24, 2008 6:53 AM CDT

I just wanted to say hello and that I miss you very much. you will be in my thoughts and are in my prayers.Again I miss you so much. But I know you are stronger than you have ever been. adn I am so happy for you.
katie smith <dscraftmasters@aol.com>
franklin, in. u.s. - Saturday, March 15, 2008 1:08 PM CDT

Just wanted to say hello and let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Peace and Pink skies!
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, March 14, 2008 8:51 AM CDT

God IS good--He watches over all of us each and everyday!! Good luck to you in your new career. Glad to hear that you are well. Alexa continues to be with you and watch over all of you--she will always be near. May God continue to bless and keep you in His loving care.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, March 9, 2008 1:17 PM CDT

The Riley Foundation--What a perfect career for you! Sometimes wonderful blessings can come from tragedy, and I'm sure you're helping a lot of children and families get through the tough times you've known so well. After losing her daughter to cancer (at Riley) in 1994, my sister-in-law was inspired to go back to school and become an RN. She had never found a career that she felt so committed to, and she loves it. Alexa's spirit is surely with you every day, keeping you strong as you watch other families live through the days of hope, pain, and grief you came to call "normal." Now you have a "new normal," and all those that were touched by Alexa and her loving family still pray for you and wish you all of God's bountiful grace.
Julie Edwards <jandjedwards@embarqmail.com>
Franklin, IN Johnson - Thursday, March 6, 2008 6:35 PM CST

So nice to see another entry. I know people still check this site as I do. I think it is amazing that you are working with Riley. I bet that is probably the most fulfilling job you have ever had. Well keep up the positive attitude and I will keep checking for updates.
Denise Vernick <candlecouple1102@comcast.net>
Brownsburg, IN USA - Thursday, March 6, 2008 6:01 PM CST

I was just checking in and it was nice to hear your positives thoughts and words. We were at Riley in February and had heard that you were working for the foundation. Congratulations, I hope your work continues to be fulfilling! Please know that you are thought of daily and kept close in heart and prayer.
Love, Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Thursday, March 6, 2008 7:52 AM CST

Seventeen months have passed since Alexa gained her angel wings. We think about you and pray for you each and every day. I hope somehow that your pain has began to ease and the good memories of Alexa fill your days. She will always be with us. She is right there with you each day, looking over you and keeping you safe. God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand. God bless and keep you in His loving care.

Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, February 28, 2008 9:45 AM CST

I am the new Community Outreach Coordinator for FCSC and saw the link of the school's website. My mother recently died of liver/Ovarian cancer and although she was not my child, she was close, close family and I empathize with your great loss.It was hard to see the pain she endured, but amazing to see her strength in attitude when the going got tough. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. I feel my mother's presence during stressful times and some interesting things have happened to let me know she is in Heaven and still alive, just at the next level :o) I am sure your daughter is there, too. God bless you all.
Angie Freeman <freeman@fcsc.k12.in.us>
Franklin, IN USA - Monday, February 25, 2008 9:32 AM CST

Just wanted to say hello and let you know you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, February 23, 2008 2:15 PM CST

Just thinking about you and keeping you close in prayer. If memory seves me (sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't!) Lexi's birthday is coming up here soon. Celebrate her life with us and with God--she touched more lives than most people who live to be 100!! Love unconditionally, be peacefilled and pray for people everywhere!
Your friend in Jesus
indianapolis, in - Sunday, February 17, 2008 9:51 AM CST

Just thinking about you and praying for you. Hope February is off to a good start for all of you. God bless and keep you in His care.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Tuesday, February 5, 2008 6:50 PM CST

Dana and Family,
I hope 2008 brings you many blessings and proves to be a better year. The first year of "firsts" are now over and I am sure you can breathe a little sigh of relief about that. I still hear about you Dana from Jenny (my friend who I tried to get into PartyLite when I was in it) and everyday I am still truly amazed by you. You are such an inspiration and everytime Brian and I hear the song "Raindrops Keep Falling on my Head" we think of Conference and Lexi. That truly was a special event and we are so blessed and priveleged to have been a part of it. Thank you so much for being such the inspiration that you are. God will truly bless you as He already has!! Keep up your great spirit and perhaps one of these days I will tag along with Jenny and come see you. :) Have a wonderful and blessed day.
Denise Vernick <candlecouple1102@comcast.net>
Brownsburg, IN USA - Tuesday, January 29, 2008 2:25 PM CST

Sixteen months since Alexa gained her angel wings!! Where has the time gone?! I am sure you can tell us minute by minute--you are always in our prayers, not a day goes by that we don't think of you and ask God to hold you tightly in the palm of His hand. Love unconditionally, live every minute to it's fullest and laugh, because the world will laugh with you. Wishing you peace and and pink skies!!
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Tuesday, January 29, 2008 1:30 PM CST

We keep a picture of Lexi on our refrigerator, it is the one from the benefit concert flyer. I keep it there to remind myself and my family how precious life is and how lucky we are to have each other, also it touches my heart everytime I see her smiling face. No one is promised tomorrow, but if we trust in God we will see one another in Heaven again one day. I did not get the privilege of meeting Lexi personally but she touch my life just the same. God Bless your family!

Your friend in Jesus!! <susan.beretta@ctt.com>
bargersville, in johnson - Tuesday, January 29, 2008 10:57 AM CST

Thinking about you and hope everyone is doing great. I think Dana has a Jan. birthday--Happy Birthday. I saw this "Lessons in Life" the other day and thought you might enjoy it. The only thing I would add is to love unconditionally, be peacefilled and pray for people everywhere!

Lessons in Life

By Regina Brett

To celebrate growing older,
I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.
It is the most requested column I've ever written.
My odometer rolls over to 50 this week, so here's an update:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple

24. The most important sex organ is the brain

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive everyone, everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

45. The best is yet to come.

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

48. If you don't ask, you don't get.

49. Yield.

50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Friday, January 25, 2008 1:13 PM CST

100,001 !!! Over 100,000 have been touched by Alexa's life!!What a testimony!!! I have been following this website since the beginning and shared it with many.I have been so inspired by the beautiful life of your Princess, and your faithfulness to the Lord!! Your beautiful family has been in my daily prayers for years.Blessings to you all as you have blessed so many with your witness.
Anne Swisher <etrntls@fuse.net>
Maineville, OH USA - Thursday, January 24, 2008 10:11 PM CST

I have been away from my computer for a few weeks now, I just wanted to let you know that I haven't forgotten you and that you are always in my thoughts and prayers. I have a new prayer group that I pray with now(in addition to the others, not instead of)the members are from many different walks of life and run the gammet on religious and faith backgrounds; anyway, I just wanted to let you know that all of them now pray for you daily!! I hope 2008 is being good to all of you. I know Alexa watches over all of you each and every day. Wishing you peace and pink skies.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, January 17, 2008 8:54 PM CST

Dear Shank Family,

Often my thoughts and prayers turn to your family. I know well the ups and downs that life has taken. I continue to marvel at your strength. May God Bless and Keep in 2008

Pastor John
Rev. John Emmanuel Sowers <minister3@frontiernet.net>
Rushville, IL - Friday, January 4, 2008 3:41 PM CST

Your story has touched my life, I don't understand why I feel so strongly. But I do. I have visited this page hundreds of times just to see how all of you are doing. My daugther reminds me of your daughter. She is only 6, full of blonde hair and giggles. She also is a very gentle soul, very spiritual, she has an understanding beyond her years. . She has prayed with me for Alexa and your family. We lost our yorkie one year ago and Madison said it would be good for Alexa to have a little dog in heaven. I just thought that was so sweet. Your family has touched so many. May God truly bless you for all the lives you have touched.
Dawn Wheeler <dawnswheeler@yahoo.com>
Franklin, IN usa - Wednesday, January 2, 2008 12:44 AM CST

It is now more than 15 months since Alexa gained her angel wings. As 2007 closes, I hope you have peace in your lives and gained some sense of routine-maybe even a little bit of "normal"--whatever "normal" really is!! As 2008 begins,once again I wish you peace and pink skies. Our prayers will continue for all of each and every day. Alexa is watching over you and God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand. God bless and keep you.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Sunday, December 30, 2007 8:33 PM CST

Thinking about you and praying that your holiday is bright and filled with peace. Nearly 15 months have passed since Alexa gained her angel wings--the time flies by for most of us--I am sure you can tell all of us exactly how many minutes have gone by. Alexa's care page has been visited over 99,000 times--to be loved that much..........God bless all of you. May your hearts and lives be filled with the love, joy and hope brought to us by the Christ Child.
Your Friend in Jesus
indianapolis, IN - Monday, December 24, 2007 12:08 AM CST

Just wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas. Hope the "second" is better than the "first". Alexa is right there beside you each and every day keeping watch over all of you. Lots of prayers going out for you these next few days. Wishing you peace and pink skies!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, December 22, 2007 9:29 AM CST

I just wanted to stop in and say hello and to let you know that I think of you all...always.
Lots of love...
Alicia - Cammie's Mom <alicia415@comcast.net>
Brownsburg, IN - Saturday, December 22, 2007 6:40 AM CST

What a beautiful sunrise this morning--it was definitely an Alexa pink sky!! She is always right there looking after all of you. Wishing you peace and pink skies to get you through today!!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, December 18, 2007 8:23 AM CST

Just wanted to let you know that you are always in our thoughts and prayers. Hope you are "getting through" the holiday season. Know that Alexa is with the angels in heaven proclaiming good tidings of our Saviour's birth--she is always with you and watching over you each and every day. Hope your holidays are peace-filled and that you can find some happiness in your lives.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Thursday, December 13, 2007 10:32 AM CST

I'll be travelling tomorrow--good time for extra prayer time and meditation. I will be keeping all of you in my prayers as the 14th month anniversary of Alexa's journey here on earth ended and her time in the kingdom of God began. I hope you are surviving the holiday madness--seems to get crazier every year. Be good to yourselves. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand and Alexa is right there in the midst of everything you do!
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, November 28, 2007 9:10 AM CST

Just wanted to wish you a Happy Thanksgiving. Hope the day goes well for all of you. God bless all of you!
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, November 20, 2007 8:29 PM CST

We are all caught up in the hustle and bustle of Thanksgiving. I was thinking about you and re-reading your postings of the past year. I know Alexa is watching over you. Keep watching for signs that she is so near " as you get on with living". I am sure she will be right in the middle of all of your Thanksgiving celebrations. Our thoughts and prayers are always with you. God bless all of you!
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Saturday, November 17, 2007 3:04 PM CST

Just thinking about you and hoping each day life gets a little easier. Over 13 months have passed since Alexa earned her wings--must seem like a life time to all of you, but for most the time passes very quickly. Here we are into the holidays once again. Hope fall has been kind to all of you and your holidays will be filled with joy and happiness once again.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Friday, November 9, 2007 8:53 PM CST

Hi .. My name is Mary and I just happened to stumble upon your site. I know you are probably aware that Sept 29th is a very special holiday. But just in case you didnt know.. It is The Feast of Angels. The day of the Epiphany, a day much like Christmas/Thanksgiving overseas. Do some research on the net and you will see some amazing facts about this day. It is also my wedding anniversary. The year I discovered this fact/ of the holiday was our 11th anniversary and it was 2006 the week of Sept 29th. God bless you and your angel in heaven is watching over you.
Mary McCrady <gabriellas.heart@gmail.com>
Jacksonville, FL USA - Thursday, November 1, 2007 6:26 PM CDT

I knew Lexi and she was really nice!I am in the fifth grade now!I did think she was an angel!
Shelby
franklin, in us - Saturday, October 27, 2007 3:13 PM CDT

Just checking in to say hello. Thoughts and prayers are always with you.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Saturday, October 27, 2007 1:16 PM CDT

Always thinking of you and praying for you. God is holding you tight in the palm of His hand. Peace and pink skies.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Saturday, October 20, 2007 10:49 AM CDT

Dana, YOU GO GIRL !!!!!!! you have choosen the best road for you and your family and the path that I believe Alexa would have wanted you to go down. LET THAT RAIDO PLAY !!!!
Take Care all
The Chipman , Barry, Jill, Brock, Billie

JIll Chipman <jchipman@contactcei.com>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Tuesday, October 16, 2007 2:31 PM CDT

I REALLY WANTS TO BE INVOLVED IN ACTIVITIES OF BRETHREN .PLEASE ALWAYS NOTIFY ME THROUGH
MUGU <MUGU@MUGU.COM>
LOME, ANAMBRA - Monday, October 15, 2007 12:43 AM CDT

I have hesitated entering this, but I just wanted you all to know that we were in Franklin with Ashtyn and Taylor on the 28th and 29th of September. They were participating in the IHSAA Girls State Golf tournamnet. Ashtyn said she had a funny feeling come over her that Saturday and she couldn't tell me in words how she felt, she just said it was nothing like she had felt before. Coincidence or Lexi? I will leave that up to you. Please know that you are thought of often and I am glad to hear all is going smoothly. To Connor, keep up the good work, I am sure that Lexi is proud. Chris, congratulations on a new beginning and Dana, what can I say, you continue to amaze me. God bless and we hope to see you soon.
Love, Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Wednesday, October 10, 2007 6:36 PM CDT

Dana and family,
I check this site often and was glad to see an update on it. I loved the one with the words from Rent. That is one of our favorite songs. I just want you all to know that we think of you often and keep you in our prayers. Our little Cadence is now 2 and we have added 2 more additions to our family. A set of twins, Hailey and Hannah. Dana you just give us so much inspiration to be the best parents we can be and you just truly amaze us!! Keep on living the way you have been and you will be just fine. Know that you are such a blessing to us!! Keep smiling!!
Denise and Brian Vernick <candlecouple1102@comcast.net>
Brownsburg, IN USA - Monday, October 8, 2007 8:42 PM CDT

Just wanted to check in to say hello and wish all of you a wonderful day. Thoughts and prayers are always with you/
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, October 8, 2007 7:53 PM CDT

Last night, while driving home from Metamora...the sun began to sleep and the most beautiful pink sky appeared. I knew it was Lexi, and I thought, she's up there smiling down on me. It felt so surreal...her in the pink clouds... a perfect end to a beautiful day!

Lot's of love to you all!!
Kristin <witchiewmn2003@yahoo.com>
Beech Grove, IN USA - Monday, October 8, 2007 3:01 PM CDT

Hello,
It was not too long ago that I heard the news of Alexa. My heart broke and I only wish I had made this posting sooner. I used to be in charge of a philanthropy called TRIKE at Butler University. One year we asked for a quote from a child to put on our shirts. "We get to eat lots of Spaghetti-O's" said by Alexa was used on the shirts.

It was an honor to present our check at the Riley Telethon with Alexa and family with us and to this day it is one of my fondest memories and I feel so blessed to have met Alexa.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you continously and may God be with you always.

God Bless,
Jeff LeFors
Jeff LeFors <jlefors@gmail.com>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Sunday, October 7, 2007 11:09 PM CDT

Dana and family,
I just wanted to let you know that I still think about you and your family. This past weekend must have been tough, but your faith throughout this whole journey has been inspiring. I just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts!
Kelly Barton
Greenwood, IN - Wednesday, October 3, 2007 7:51 PM CDT

Dear Friends,
I couldn't miss just saying hi today to you and letting you know once again how special you are to me.
How beautiful the sky must have been as you released the beautiful pink balloons of assurance that Lexi is alive and well in the arms of our Lord Jesus. Because she lives eternally, you live and continue to glorify God. Thank you for sharing your faith with all of us. You truly are God sent.
Kay <kkrahling@gmail.com>
La Mirada, CA - Saturday, September 29, 2007 10:54 PM CDT

I've thought about your family so much this past year. I can't imagine the range of emotions you must have felt. I've prayed for you all, and will continue to do so. I appreciate how hard your update must have been to write, but I was very happy to see it. As we haven't met, I really had no way of knowing how to pray for you. New jobs and new hairstyles sound like positive changes. Congratulations to Conner - I'm happy to hear you are moving forward with your life. Even though I didn't know her, I believe that is what she would have wanted. God bless you all. Many "pink skies" to you.
Peggy M. <survivor.mom@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, September 28, 2007 4:09 PM CDT

Thank you for your update. You made it through the toughest year of all and came out whole. Our thoughts and prayers will continue for all of you each and every day. We will continue to pray for peace in your lives and pink skies to comfort all of you as your journey continues. God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand and Alexa is watching over you each and every minute of the day. God bless and keep all of you.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Friday, September 28, 2007 2:50 PM CDT

Somehow I knew you'd share with everyone else that motto you are living by! I am so blessed by your friendship and so honored to have been a part of these past few months. Thank you for your spirit and determination. I can only imagine "Ruby" blaring in the wind! Much love and many hugs to each of you...
Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, September 28, 2007 2:13 PM CDT

It's been a while since I've posted anything...That doesn't mean I haven't been thinking of you - and Alexa. May you be comforted as the "first year" comes to a close. I can't say it get's any easier, but your outlook is so positive-purely Dana at her finest. Please know I am here if you need me...I'm only a phone call away. I love you guys!!!
Kristin <witchiewmn2003@yahoo.com>
Beech Grove, IN USA - Friday, September 28, 2007 9:15 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and praying for you these "last few days" of the first year since Alexa's journey home. You are such faithfilled people. I wish you peace and pink skies.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Wednesday, September 26, 2007 9:46 AM CDT

Dana, In Sunday School last week, our leader asked the question "When has someone else's personal faith helped to make your faith stronger?" Even though I've never met you personally, I immediately told of the inspiration that your blog provided for me and many, many others during the most difficult days of your life. Your unwavering faith and ever-growing service and love for others helped me to put my own daily struggles into perspective. I miss your wonderful entries, but I hope that this means you have moved forward in your lives and are enjoying the peace that you find in your pink skies. We lost our 4-year-old niece to cancer at Riley thirteen years ago. Her birthdays and homecoming days are still bittersweet for the entire family, but life has gone on. I continue to pray for your healing and thank God for the wonderful gift of your faith...a faith you weren't afraid to share with others. May God's grace continue to shine upon all three of you as you continue your journey in faith and move one day closer to your reunion with dear Alexa. May God Bless all your days as you have blessed so many others.
Julie Edwards <jandjedwards@embarqmail.com>
Franklin, IN - Tuesday, September 25, 2007 7:20 AM CDT

Dearest Shank Family,
You have been so strongly on my mind as we all approach the anniversary of Alexa's homecoming into the arms of our Lord Jesus. For most of us, it seems hard to believe she has been back home in the arms of our Lord for a year already; yet for you, I am sure it seems like an eternity.
I just want you to know, Dana, Chris, and Connor you will forever live in my heart and my prayers shall never cease for you. Thank you for your witness and the love you shared with all of us.
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Monday, September 24, 2007 6:06 PM CDT

Just thinking about you and praying for you and wanted to let you know you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, September 21, 2007 1:42 PM CDT

Hi, Dana and all of Alexa's family. I came here from Henry's site and just wanted to extend my condolences on the loss of your beautiful princess. I know the days ahead will be hard for you all, but I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as you approach the one-year milestone date.

It's been just over 3 months since our daughter earned her wings; sometimes it seems like 3 years and sometimes 3 days.

~Heide
m/o ^Jessica^
http://caringbridge.org/visit/jessicarandall
Heide
Marshall, VA - Tuesday, September 18, 2007 11:46 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you and praying for all of you. I am sure September is a very difficult time for you. Wishing you pink skies and peace.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, in - Friday, September 14, 2007 10:57 AM CDT

Chris , Dana & Conner Just wanted to let you know we are all thinking about you. We don't keep in touch like we should but you are in our thoughts, We love you all. We have so many pink skies here in Kentucky.
Brenda, David & Cathy <smith1726@bellsouth.net>
Owenton, KY USA - Wednesday, September 12, 2007 11:02 PM CDT

Seeing her smiling face at conference this year took me back to when I first started my journey, to give me strength as I support a dear friend in her journey, and to know why I am doing what I am doing. She is watching I have no doubt. We shine bright on earth for those who shine bright for us in the sky . Make every moment count in the life of someone you love !
Selene <heavenstarlites@aol.com>
York, PA USA - Sunday, September 9, 2007 11:03 PM CDT

With thoughts of you today and every day.
Love, Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashytn <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Friday, September 7, 2007 5:44 PM CDT

Just stopped in to "see" you! We pray each day for all of you.
Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indy, IN - Thursday, September 6, 2007 8:58 PM CDT

Eleven months have now passed since Alexa began her journey in everlasting life. Probably the longest eleven months of your lives. Just wanted you to know that we think of you every day and our prayers continue for all of you. Know that God is holding you in the palm of His hand. May you know peace and have pink skies.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Wednesday, August 29, 2007 7:25 AM CDT

(((hugs))) for today.
Tammy
Greenwood, IN - Saturday, August 25, 2007 0:00 AM CDT

I herd she was a sweat littie girl
tyler sechrest <Gsechre@aol.com>
bargersvill, IN jounson - Wednesday, August 22, 2007 8:29 PM CDT

Another difficult time for all you I am sure with the new school year starting. I am sure you are thinking of all of the "what ifs" for Alexa. I hope the school year is off to a fantastic start for Connor. Know that we think of you each and every day and pray for you always. Soon it will be eleven months since Alexa left us--so many things have happened and so many changes for all us. God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Thursday, August 16, 2007 8:51 PM CDT

Ten months have now come and gone since Alexa has been in the glory of the heavens. I am sure it has been the longest ten months of your lives. I hope as each day passes life gets a little easier for each of you. God is holding all of you in the palm of His hand and Alexa is looking down on you each and every day. I wish you peace and pink skies to fill the void that Alexa left. Prayers are continuing for all of you each and every day from around the world.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, July 29, 2007 11:11 AM CDT

Just wanted to let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers everynight.
Keely Wathen <kobeeson@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, July 26, 2007 10:09 PM CDT

Read this and thought of you. Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.
Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said, "I love you and I wish you enough".
The daughter replied, "Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom".
They kissed and the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by asking, "Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?".
Yes, I have," I replied. "Forgive me for asking,
but why is this a forever good-bye?".
"I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be
for my funeral," she said.
"When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough'. May I ask what that means?".
She began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone". She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more. "When we said , 'I wish you enough', we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them". Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude
bright no matter how gray the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.
She then began to cry and walked away.

I WISH ALL OF YOU ENOUGH!!

YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Friday, July 20, 2007 3:55 PM CDT

I was just thinking about you and wanted to let you know. Our prayers are always with you. Hope you are having a good day.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Tuesday, July 17, 2007 2:39 PM CDT

Dana, our thoughts continue to be with all of you as you experience so many 1st without Alexa. I know she is guiding all of you through this year and know we are here for you too! We continue to keep you in our prayers and thank Alexa for touching our lives daily in such a special way.
Starr Peterson <sptimeless@aol.com>
Avon, IN USA - Monday, July 16, 2007 8:06 AM CDT

Just checking in to say hello and to let all of you know you are thought of daily.
Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn Brown <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Thursday, July 12, 2007 9:46 PM CDT

Just thinking about you today and said some extra prayers for all of you. Hope you are finding your way in a "new life" since Alexa went home to be with Jesus. My garden is full of beautiful flowers this summer and the ones that are pink are the most beautiful--they always remind me of Alexa--friends are flowers in the garden of life! Peace and pink skies to all of you.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 2:27 PM CDT

Dear Shank Family, There is not a day that goes by that we do not think of you all and if the sky has the littles pink tink to it Billie always says Lexi sure is having fun today We have not forgotten you and we never will. You have all given us more reason to love each other a little more each and everyday and we thank you and Lexis every day for that

In our thoughts every day, Barry, JIll, Brock, Billie Chipman
Jill & Barry Chipman <jchipman@contactcei.com & Barry167 @comcast.net >
Indianapolis, IN USA - Tuesday, July 10, 2007 11:10 AM CDT

Nine months have come and gone since Alexa left her earthly home. I am sure heaven hasn't been the same since she arrived!! Know that prayers continue for all of you from around the world. I hope that each day life becomes a little easier for you. Live, Love and Laugh!!
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
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Hello Dear Family,
Please know I have not forgotten you and my prayers continue to ask God to help you get through each day, second by second, minute by minute,hour by hour. Be patient with yourselves, it has been such a short time since Lexi left for her heavenily home. Be patient my friends, keep your faith, keep your love for one another and find joy in Connor's journey of life. I wish I could do something to ease the pain you must feel but I am helpless so I continue to pray that Lexi's journey which taught so many of us to hold tight to Jesus will continue as you find peace and comfort by supporting others as they walk with their child toward 'pink skies'. God hold you tight and steadfast.
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Tuesday, June 19, 2007 10:33 PM CDT

Thinking of all of you today. Hope you were able to get through Father's Day--another celebration without Alexa here. She is still with you looking down on you from the heavens--life is just "different" for all of you. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, June 17, 2007 7:36 PM CDT

I have this saying that is taped on my desk - it reads:
GOD PROMISES A SAFE LANDING, NOT A CALM PASSAGE. IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT, HE WILL BRING YOU THROUGH IT.
As I read it I thought of you all.
In my daily walks for exercise, I pass through the cemetery were Alexa's lays to rest. When I saw that her new head stone was put on her grave I just paused to take it all in, my tears that roll down my face shows just how much your little girl touched so many of us. Dana and Chris you have a lot to be proud of and God knows that you miss her so very much.
Teena Rairdon <Trairdon@indianagolf.org>
Franklin, IN - Monday, June 11, 2007 8:03 AM CDT

As conference nears .. my eyes water .. and I know we will see beautiful sunsets in Houston! She lives in our hearts .. Be blessed and live your dreams.
Selene <heavenstarlites@aol.com>
York, PA - Friday, June 8, 2007 11:06 AM CDT

I just woke up this morning and thought of Alexa and your family. Good memories to start this beautiful summer day. You continue to be in my good thoughts and prayers. And, I hope each day may bring another bit of peace.
Heather Meek <hmeek@clarian.org>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Friday, June 1, 2007 9:36 AM CDT

Eight months have now passed since Alexa left this world for her place in the glory of God. I hope there is some peace in your lives. Prayers continue for you from around the world. I hope the following brings you some comfort.
"To All Parents"

By Edgar A. Guest
"I'll lend you for a little time a,child of mine," He said,
"For you to love the while She lives...and mourn when She's dead;
It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three...
But will you...till I call her back,take care of her for me?
She'll bring her charms to gladden you; and shall her stay be brief,
You'll have her lovely memories as solace for your grief."
"I cannot promise she will stay, since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there, I want this child to learn;
I've looked the wide world over, in my search for a teacher true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lane...I have selected you.
Now you will give her all your love, nor think the labor vain?
Not hate me when I come to call to take her back again?
"I fancied that I heard you say, 'Dear Lord, Thy will be done!'
For all the joy thy child shall bring, The risk of grief we'll run...
We'll shelter her with tenderness, we'll love her while we may,
And for the happiness we've known, forever grateful stay;
But shall the angels call for her...much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the grief that comes...and try to understand!!!

YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Tuesday, May 29, 2007 7:19 AM CDT

Mother's Day...Memorial Day.....and soon Father's Day. Tough ones to get through for you, I'm sure. Just know that you are not alone. Our prayers continue for your healing. May each glorious pink sky bring joy to your hearts, knowing that your love and commitment helped to send Lexi to the place where pink skies are made...and helped countless others along the way. Keep paying that love forward and you'll be amazed how much joy will come back to you. Blessings to you all.
Your Windstar neighbor, Julie Edwards <jandjedwards@mindspring.com>
Franklin, IN - Monday, May 28, 2007 12:57 AM CDT

Just wanted to say hello and let you know that our prayers continue for all of you. I can't believe that nearly 8 months have already passed since Alexa left this earth. Please know that we think of you every day and ask God to give you strength and courage to continue in His way. Your story gives strength to so many--you will never know how many lives you have touched.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Saturday, May 26, 2007 8:44 PM CDT

Shank family,
thinking of you each day as we continue our journey. Your story provides that cautionary tale that no one else seems to realize but those who have endured childhood leukemia - that it remains always out there and "remission" is not a cure. But, your story provides me so much more as well - an example of how to live, love, and embrace the will of God. Thank you all, and know that you remain in our thoughts and prayers always. Every beautiful sunset reminds us of your princess, and to embrace our prince.

caringbridge/../tylergenneken
the Gennekens
- Wednesday, May 16, 2007 7:42 AM CDT

Happy Mother's Day Dana. I just wanted you to know that you were being thought of today as well as every day.
Love, Kerri <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Sunday, May 13, 2007 7:52 PM CDT

Thinking of you today on this first Mother's Day without your precious Alexa. Hope God gave you the strength and courage to get it through with pink skies and peace.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN 46256 - Sunday, May 13, 2007 7:28 PM CDT

Hello Precious Family,
It's been a while since I have told you of my prayers for all of you. Even though I have been silent, my prayers have so many times daily been sent to God. I think about you all so often during my days and wonder how you all are doing. I pray God is still giving you strength and you have not lost sight of Him. I know Lexi wants you to keep your eyes focused on God because when you focus on Him, you focus upon Lexi and the joy she is experiencing living life eternally with her Lord, whom you taught her to know and love while here on earth. May God Bless you and hold you tightly in His arms and give you pink skies.
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
LaMirada, CA - Wednesday, May 9, 2007 5:41 PM CDT

Hi Dana, Chris, and Connor,
I see all these neat entries in the guestbook and realize once again what an awesome effect Alexa had on all. It sounds like you must be an awesome teacher too Dana! I know I learned a lot just being around all your family.
I just wanted to let you know that you all remain in my thoughts and prayers. Alexa will always be a bright star in my memory.
God Bless You All!
Love,
Mrs. D.
Shari Jo Dransfield <sdrano2@cs.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Tuesday, May 8, 2007 7:28 AM CDT

Hi Mrs. Shank, this is Lacey and Allie from your Study Skills in 2007. we feel horrible about your loss and hope that God is with you all the way through it all. May she rest in Peace, and God Bless You and your Family!

Love Allie Abney and Lacey Litchfield
Lacey and Allie <allieabney@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, May 3, 2007 11:54 AM CDT

Hi Mrs.Shank i am very sorry about what had happen i hope you and your family are finding a way to get through it. You where the best Study Skills teacher every!
Ashlyn Willey <Froggy_ashlyn@yahoo.com >
Franklin, In. Jhonson - Thursday, May 3, 2007 11:54 AM CDT

Seven months have now passed since Alexa claimed her place in the Kingdom of God. Please know that we pray for you each and every day. Prayers are still being said for all of you around the world. I hope you have gained the courage and strength to carry on. For most of us these seven months have flown by, I am sure you can tell us exactly how many seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks and months have passed. God bless and keep all of you in His loving care. Hoping that your lives are filled with peace and pink skies.

With Love From Heaven

Last night I came to you in a dream
and although you didn't want it to end,
we had to part once more.

Will you do something for me?

When sleep finds you tonight and we meet
again in a place where life is so unreal;
know that we are truly together in spirit.
Forget the nonsence of happenings around
us and just feel my presence.

Understand that it is only my body that has died,
not me, not my soul, who I am.
I am with you, watching over you, guiding you.

I am alive...

I realize that it's not the same, the fact that you
are not able to reach out and touch me, hold me,
even kiss me like you once had, and for you, I
wish I could change all that... but I can't.

You see, for me nothing has changed between us,
but the fact that you no longer hear me the way
you use to, you no longer see me or feel me in a
way that you're familiar. My love for you hasn't
changed, but what has is my understanding of
life and self.

It's so beautiful here... I am happy and at peace.
It's more then you could ever dream. If you could
only feel how serene it all is.

Imagine for a moment standing in a sea of tall green grass surrounded by wild flowers dancing with a breeze, trees towering lazily above you swaying gently back
and forth while reaching upward toward a brilliant
blue sky. Imagine the sun so warm, so soft its touch,
so full of love filling you completely as you are one
with all that is and ever has been.

I feel no pain... I am happy and I know that I
am home.

Please do not be sad for me and know that I am
only... but a breath away.

With Love,
From Heaven

Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, April 29, 2007 1:45 PM CDT

Was thinking of you all this evening and wanted to let you know. We continue to pray each night for each of you. God's Blessings!
Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, April 28, 2007 7:11 PM CDT

Just to let you know that we are thinking about you and praying for you. Hope you are all doing well. Here is a poem I heard recently and thought it might bring you some comfort.
Safely Home
by Unknown

I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh, so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.

All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.

Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?

Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's Will.

There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth--
You shall rest in Jesus' land.

When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!

YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN 46256 - Friday, April 27, 2007 12:55 AM CDT

alexa was a gift form god i knew her in 3rd grade but we didnt talk much now i wish we talked becuade now i wont get a chance until Heaven.
Marissa
Frankin, I.N. U.S.A. - Monday, April 23, 2007 2:30 PM CDT

HELLO AGAIN WOW TODAY HAS BEEN GREAT BESIDES A FEW THINGS BUT I LIKE TO FORGET ABOUT THEM AND THINK OF THEM AS SMALLER. the bad thing is that my FAVORITE teacher mrs.shank quit today. BUT THEN AGAIN THE WORLD MOVES ON TO BIGGER AND BETTER THINGS "LOVE ALL YOU HAVE BECAUSE SOMEDAY IT WONT BE THERE AND ALL YOU WILL HAVE IS MEMORIES OF WHAT YOU ~LOVED~
pink skies
HOPEFUL, FRIENDS ARE ALWAYS THERE - Friday, April 20, 2007 6:01 PM CDT

Just thinking of you today as I awoke a prayer for you came to mind and went up to our Lord that you would have a wonderful day and a beautiful pink sky.
God Bless
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Thursday, April 19, 2007 10:43 AM CDT

Hey cant wait to see all those loving faces again at the alexa skate. sending prayers and best wishes for the shanks
pink skies
- Sunday, April 15, 2007 5:52 PM CDT

Just checking in to say hello and that your thought about alot and prayed for everyday. Wishing you peace, prayers and pink skies.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN 46256 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 11:02 AM CDT

Hope you all had a Happy Easter and know Princess Alexa was looking down on you with her beautiful smile. We just wanted you to know that you are all in our prayers everday. When ever our kids her "Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head" They say that is Lexi's song. Even though we do not live in Fanklin we still remember Lexi on her birthday. We had shirts made on the front they say "I Will Not Forget Princess Alexa" and on the back they say "In Memory of Alexa Shank 2/23/96 to 9/29/06. We plan to make this an annual tradition for Lexi and wear the shirts on her birthday and to any events we attend for her.
With Love,
Jason, Christie, Torie, Cheyenne, Dakota, and Justin
Christie Herring <christie4kidz@yahoo.com>
Indianapolis, Indiana U.S.A. - Monday, April 9, 2007 12:18 AM CDT

HAPPY EASTER!! Thinking of you often.
Love, Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Sunday, April 8, 2007 11:42 AM CDT

As Easter approaches, I hope you can make it through yet another holiday with your precious Alexa looking down on you from the heavens. May your faith in the Risen Jesus give you comfort in knowing she is in a better place. None of this fills the emptiness in your hearts. God is watching and keeping you in the palm of His hand.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Wednesday, April 4, 2007 7:21 PM CDT

I loved Alexa, even though she was 3 grades younger than me.. I met Her by her being my Kindergarten Buddy. I miss her dearly. And theres never a day that goes by that I dont think of her.
Iloveyou Dear.
Amber Allen <Pink_n_black94@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 1, 2007 3:46 PM CDT

Shank Family.
i never really got to meet you all. But i know that your daughter was amazing. I remember her day in and day out. She always would walk into gymnastics and be full of energy. Sometimes i look back at those days and smile because i remember me helping her all the time. From cartwheels to front walk overs. I was by her side. I just wanted to let you all know. That she is always in my heart. No matter how many days go by. Even though i am only a couple years older then her she thought me alot. But the one thing that i will anways remember. Is her saying. Tanya it doesnt matter what you look like, your beautiful.
<3
Tanya Cannon <gogobananers67@aim.com>
Franklin, In - Friday, March 30, 2007 1:07 PM CDT

It has been nearly six months since Alexa went to live with her Lord and Savior. Time passes so quickly. I just want you to know that you are never forgotten and always in our prayers. May Jesus continue to hold you in the palm of His hand.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN - Tuesday, March 27, 2007 1:41 PM CDT

You're in my thoughts and prayers today. May God give you the strength you need.
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Monday, March 26, 2007 3:23 PM CDT

You are always in my thoughts. There's so much to say, yet I can't find the words. I wish you so much joy.

Melanie Shepler <melanieshepler@sbcglobal.net>
Greenfield, IN USA - Thursday, March 22, 2007 1:35 PM CDT

The first day of spring has arrived and I do believe that Alexi has blessed us with a gorgeous day!! Thank you Alexi!! Thinking of you and wishing you bountiful blessings and beautiful days ahead.
Love, Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USa - Wednesday, March 21, 2007 4:03 PM CDT

Always in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, March 20, 2007 7:29 AM CDT

The Concert Sunday Night was awsome, and so was the dancing at the end, I Think of you frequently, and there isnt a day the Shank's do not pass my mind atleast twice. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love Always && Forever
Lindsay Nichole Lambert <Flambert1@aol.com >
Franklin, Indiana - Monday, March 19, 2007 5:42 PM CDT

Thinking of you today as always.
Hold tight to the Lord
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Monday, March 19, 2007 1:52 PM CDT

All of you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Please know we miss hearing from you, but do understand. Take care of each other and know you are thought of often!
Starr Peterson and Family <sptimeless@aol.com>
Avon, IN USA - Thursday, March 15, 2007 12:25 AM CDT

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lome, togo lome - Wednesday, March 14, 2007 11:25 AM CDT

Hope all of you are doing okay. Hopefully, Spring is just around the corner and that will lift everyone's spirit. We continue to pray for all of you each and every day. God bless and keep you in His loving care.

Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, March 10, 2007 7:42 AM CST

Just wanted all of you to know you were being thought of and hoping all is well.
Love, Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn Brown <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Thursday, March 8, 2007 12:59 AM CST

Just thinking of all of you this evening and praying things are as well as they can be. I want you to know you are still in my prayers each and every day. I miss hearing from you but I understand. Please know I am here for you, even though it be far away.
God Bless
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
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London, London France - Friday, March 2, 2007 3:48 PM CST

It has been over 5 months now since Alexa joined the ranks of heavenly angels. Time escapes us so quickly. Please know that not a day goes by that we don't think of all of you and pray that God is making your lives easier each day. You are never far from our thoughts and always in our prayers.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, March 2, 2007 11:32 AM CST

Alexa's birthday was simply amazing! what a beautifuly wonderful morning with the sun rising, and the pink skys when the sun was going down. To top it all off- thank you to Franklin College for playing Lexi's songs and to Luke for writing them!!! =) Happy Birthday to Lexi,
I love you guys
and MISS YOU BUNCHES
me
franklin, IN US - Friday, February 23, 2007 11:50 AM CST

The yard cards on Alexa's birthday were a wonderful reminder to put our grumbling aside and SMILE in honor of a beautiful young lady whose memory I hope we can all keep alive in our good deeds and helpful attitudes for many years to come! Thanks for "paying Alexa's love forward!" I hope you make the Alexa Day Yard Cards an annual reminder to all us to keep the love going! Blessings to you all!
Julie Edwards <jandjedwards@mindspring.com>
Franklin, IN United States - Friday, February 23, 2007 7:21 AM CST

We couldn't have asked for a more GORGEOUS February day to celebrate Alexa's birthday! How wonderful! Know that you continue to be in our daily prayers!
Love and Blessings,

Amy, Tony, Katherine & Christopher Board <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianpolis, IN - Thursday, February 22, 2007 7:37 PM CST

Happy Birthday, Alexa!

God bless you, Shank family! You are in our prayers.
Jenny Deputy (www.deputyfamily.net) <mjmb@deputyfamily.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 7:11 PM CST

Happy Birthday Alexa!!! Just wanted all of you to know you are being thought of today and every day.
Love, Steve, Kerri, TAylor and Shtyn Brown <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 5:11 PM CST

Happy Birthday Lexi, I was taking the Girls to school today when I saw your sign, I immediately smiled. Then we all sang "Happy Birthday". I read something the other day that really hit home and made me think of you. WE ARE NOT HUMAN BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE. WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY HUMAN EXPERIENCE. God Bless
Stevie Ray, Anji, Livi & Sara <sbrown@franklin-insurance.net>
Franklin, IN - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 1:14 PM CST

Happy Birthday Alexa. Know that you are being missed.
Chris, Dana, and Conner you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Remember the good times and the wonderful smiles that your angel has shared with you.Know that she is smiling down on you from Heaven.
Phil, Sonia and Megan Diveto <sdiveto@yahoo.com>
franklin, IN - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 1:03 PM CST

Happy Birthday, Princess.

www.caringbridge.org/visit/tylergenneken
the Gennekens <drewg95@insightbb.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2007 12:25 AM CST

On this day of Lexi's 11th birthday, we remembered even before the girls pointed out the yard sign on the court house lawn. How awesome the Shanks must feel to know that the city has named this Alexa Marie Shank day!!!!! I'm simply proud to have known such a beautiful and giving child. Lexi I know you can feel all these wonderful birthday wishes coming out to you today.

Happy Birthday kiddo!

Love, The Rairdon's - Audrey, Natalie & Teena

Teena Rairdon <Trairdon@indianagolf.org>
Franklin, IN - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 11:25 AM CST

Happy Birthday Princess Alexa! There isn't a day that you and your family are not in my thoughts and prayers! Dana, Chris and Conner please know that you are still thought of daily and sent up in so many prayers! We love you!
Jennifer Randolph <jrandolph01@yahoo.com>
Cincinnati, Oh USA - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 10:47 AM CST

Happy Birthday Angel Lexi! I know there are hearts that are hurting today because you aren't here to celebrate with them, but I know you are celebrating with your Grandma Judy. I picture you laughing & dancing with that beautiful smile of yours and I can't help but smile myself. I will share a smile with everyone I see today because I know the hope we have in Jesus, and we will all see you again someday. Love Rob, Laura, Austin and Nick M.
Laura Morefield <mrfldl@earthlink.net >
Franklin, IN us - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 7:44 AM CST

Another celebration for all of you to get through. Know that lots of thoughts and prayers are going out for all of you today, Alexa's 11th birthday. She touched more lives than you will ever know. God bless and keep all of you today and always.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Wednesday, February 21, 2007 0:04 AM CST

Dana -
Thinking of you today, Tomorrow, and always!
Love - Beth
Beth Meyer <jbsmeyer@insightbb.com>
Greenwood, IN USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 7:44 PM CST

My Prayers are with you and the family as Alexa's Birthday is Tomorrow, Im sure we will wake up to beautiful pink skies, God Bless
Lindsay Nichole Lambert - Grade 7 <Flambert1@aol.com>
Franklin, Indiana United States - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 6:20 PM CST

You are in our thoughts and prayers with Alexa's Birthday tomorrow. I am certain they are painting the skies Pink in celebration of Alexa celebration in Heaven. We love you and are thinking of you always. Happy Birthday Alexa!
Starr Peterson and Family <sptimeless@aol.com>
Avon, IN USA - Tuesday, February 20, 2007 12:46 AM CST

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ALL OF YOU. THERE WERE BEAUTIFUL PINK SKIES THIS MORNING!! PRAYING FOR YOU ALWAYS.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN 46256 - Wednesday, February 14, 2007 9:44 AM CST

Good morning precious family,
Just want you to know, I saw Lexi dancing in the beautiful pink clouds over the Pacific ocean last night and was reminded of her journey and your continued journey as you approach Lexi's earthly birthday next week. What a blessing to know of the feelings of joy of the day Lexi was born here on earth as well as the 10 years of earthly life she was given. God tells us, our reason on earth is to come to know Jesus as our Lord and Savior and lead others to Jesus and then to celebrate our heavenly birth through a life well done. Lexi will be dancing in heaven over the joy of having the incredible earthly life to lead so many to Christ. I pray you keep this focus and God leads you to continue Lexi's journey of leading others to our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. God be with you and continue to bless you in His strange but miraculous ways.
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Tuesday, February 13, 2007 12:33 AM CST

I just want you to know that Alexa is definitely in a great place!! There is a very tense situation going on in our family currently--actually, many families are involved. We are all praying for each other and supporting one another, but the situation was at a stalemate, I prayed to Alexa and asked her to intervene for us--less than an hour later we had wonderful news and the situation is moving forward with a very positive outcome!!! There are lots of people that are in heaven that I pray to and for and I know they are looking out for all of us left behind!! I pray for all of you everyday and I know God is holding you in the palm of His hand!
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Tuesday, February 6, 2007 6:10 PM CST

I am a friend of Tim and Susan Fisher's and heard about Alexa last fall after she had passed away. After losing my father in 2005 from a 6 month course of Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma, I began to run to work through my grief. I have found so many of my blessings as I find my dad in my running and it allows my focus to be on those who are still journeying with terminal illness. I recently made a committment to be a member of Team in Training, sponsored by the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society and I will participate in the One America 500 Mini-Marathon event in May, 2007. While composing my letter of committment and request for support to family and friends, I received an email from Susan (who wasn't aware of my goal yet) with your web-site. I wondered then why the email would have come at a time when I was so focused on those who had been afflicted with the disesase the society supports but found that taking the time then to visit Alexa and hear her story gave me the inspiration to find the words to complete my letter. This will be my first endurance event and while my goal is to cross the finish line, my priority is to be a member of a team that races for a cure and fights for a life one mile at a time. I will dedicated and honor Alexa in my training and completion of this event and mentioned her as one of my honorees in my letter. I was most touched by your journal entry for Jan. 1, 2007. As I ran a few weeks ago at a place where I find peace and feel my dad's presence, I was inspired and saw him in the "snow angel" that had been created on the track where I run. Every time I crossed the finish line, she was there, frozen in time. I totally understand how you celebrate Alexa in the gentle breeze, the moving clouds and the stillness of the starlight. Every rainbow reminds me of my father's love and the eternal joy to come. Thank you for sharing the angel of love you were given. Her purpose here on this earth, brief as it was, co
Julie Demerly <ejdemerly@earthlink.net>
West Lafayette, IN USA - Monday, February 5, 2007 7:43 AM CST

Hi, I just got my copy of Lexi Danced and have been listening to it today and it is so special. I know Lexi is not only dancing in heaven but teaching all the angels some very special dances as well. I love the picture of Lexi on the inside of the album, it seems as though she is saying, it's okay.
Love to all of you as I know the days ahead to Lexi's birthday will be yet another journey in your book but please know you are being held strongly in prayer.
God Bless
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Thursday, February 1, 2007 6:25 PM CST

thinking about you... and missing you like crazy...
just wanted u to know your in my thoughts and prayers.
you mean the world to me... I love you.
Meagan Edwards <edwardsml@uindy.edu>
Franklin, IN - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 10:07 PM CST

Just wanted to know that I am thinking of you.
An anonymous hoosier. <tjmeyers@gmail.com>
- Wednesday, January 31, 2007 9:55 PM CST

A friend sent me the following link to a video report that was on CNN - it is an amazing story of a twelve year old girl who is an amazing artist. She believes the visions that she paints are sent to her from God. She talks about how beautiful heaven is - with wonderful colors that we cannot even imagine. I thought this story might bring some comfort - to think what beauty is surrounding Alexa.
If you cannot click on it, the following link can be "cut and pasted" to get to the site.

http://tinyurl.com/yxewot

Sally
Franklin, IN USA - Wednesday, January 31, 2007 1:13 PM CST

You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers daily.
Starr Peterson <sptimeless@aol.com>
Avon, In - Monday, January 29, 2007 11:24 AM CST

Alexa sent beautiful pink skies this morning to let all us of know that she is doing quite well. It is hard to believe that she has been in the realm of glory four months now.(I am sure for all of you it seems much longer---like an eternity already). I hope you are all doing well and that God will keep you wrapped tightly in His loving care.
Your Friend in Jeus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Monday, January 29, 2007 7:17 AM CST

Dana & Chris, My heart and prayers are with you and your family. I just found out about Alexa and my hear aches for you all. Peace be with you.
Robin (Clark) Goldbach <slvrlngs@hotmail.com>
Princeton, IN USA - Saturday, January 27, 2007 4:43 PM CST

Happy Birthday Dana,
Sorry this is a little late but we have been out of town. We were celebrating birthdays as well as my daughter Paige's birthday was the 19th and mine the 22nd so we all had a lot to celebrate. I also have 4 more grandaughters with January Birthdays and my other daughter, Kimber Krosschell, SRVP of Contagious Region is the 27th. Kinda crazy.
I know this birthday must have been difficult for you without Lexi but I am sure Chris and Connor showered you with lots of love and fun times.
Have a great day and know you are being kept in prayer by so many who have come to love you and call you family.
God Bless
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Thursday, January 25, 2007 5:56 PM CST

Just wanted to let you know you are being thought of!!
Love, Kerri <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Tuesday, January 23, 2007 8:00 PM CST

Thinking about you and praying for you always.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Sunday, January 21, 2007 12:00 AM CST

Happy Birthday Dana!! I did not know that you were a January child!! My birthday was the 13th! (only a couple days apart?) Maybe next year we can celebrate together? I hope your day was memorable and may you have many more happy returns!!
Love, Kerri <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Thursday, January 18, 2007 6:27 PM CST

Beautiful Shank Family -
Not a day goes by that I don't think of Lexi and your wonderful family.
You are in my heart.
Deb Taylor <dtaylor@brickyard.com>
Indpls, IN - Wednesday, January 17, 2007 1:38 PM CST

Happy Birthday, Dana! I did not know it was your birthday until I saw the journal posting for today from another friend.

To: Chris, Dana, Connor and Stan Clark and team...thank you for letting us to be part of your family. When I was contacted last April (2006) in order to schedule Luke Austin Daugherty and Amanda Shelly/Clay Daugherty to perform at the May, 2006, fundraiser at the Artcraft Theatre in Franklin, IN...little did I/we know that it would connect us with amazing life-long friendships.

Lexi's memory lives on through all the people she touched while she was living and she continues to touch hearts every day. Her Spirit lives on...she will continue to change lives and save souls through her example of God's love.

Luke's song about Lexi ("Lexi Danced")is climbing the Indieheaven radio charts...it started at #183 on Jan.8th and it is #94 today...I am sure it will reach #1 and get national radio play. For anyone interested, go to www.indieheaven.com/artists/luke and there is information there on how to listen and vote for this song. This is one of the ways to help keep her memory alive.

I have her picture in my home office and I look at her every day. I pray for you daily.

Love, Bella Louisa (Luke and Clay's Mom)

Bella Louisa <bellalousia@sbcglobal.net>
Greenwood, IN USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 11:51 PM CST

Happy Birthday, Dana! I did not know it was your birthday until I saw the journal posting for today from another friend.
__________________________

To: Chris, Dana, Connor and Stan Clark and team...thank you for letting us to be part of your family. When I was contacted last April (2006) in order to schedule Luke Austin Daugherty and Amanda Shelly/Clay Daugherty to perform at the May, 2006, fundraiser at the Artcraft Theatre in Franklin, IN & the Firerun at Franklin College...little did I/we know that is would connect us with many amazing life-long friendships. Thank you.

Lexi's memory lives on through all the people she touched while she was living and she continues to touch hearts every day. Her Spirit lives on...she will continue to change lives and save souls through her example of God's love.

Luke's song about Lexi is climbing the Indieheaven radio charts...it started at #183 on Jan.8th and it is #94 today...I am sure it will reach #1 and get national radio play. For anyone interested, go to www.indieheaven.com/artists/luke and there is information there on how to listen and vote for this song. This is one of the ways to help keep her memory alive.

I have her picture in my home office and I look at her every day. When my grandchildren come over...they always ask me to tell them the "Lexi story." I pray for you daily.

Love, Bella Louisa (Luke and Clay's Mom)

Bella Louisa <bellalousia@sbcglobal.net>
Greenwood, IN USA - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 11:48 PM CST

Dana,
Happy Birthday January Birthday Sister!!!

Lisa (Dolen) Kindley
Indianapolis, IN 46227 - Tuesday, January 16, 2007 6:36 PM CST

Just stopping in to say hello. Love & prayers,
~Amy
Amy Board <overboard1@comcast.net>
indianapolis, IN - Monday, January 15, 2007 10:08 PM CST

sorry alexa
McKinley
- Sunday, January 14, 2007 3:16 PM CST

Just wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless and keep all of you in His loving care.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 10:01 PM CST

Dear Special Family,
Upholding you today as always in prayer.
God give you strength to live each moment to its fullest.

Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Thursday, January 11, 2007 7:23 PM CST

I'm quite confident that Alexa found yet another new friend in heaven this past weekend. Our dear pastor, Rev. Wayne Markward, passed away last Friday and went to live among the angels. Pastor Wayne was a jolly soul that absolutely adored children. He had a practical joke and a one-liner for every occasion, so I'm sure that he and Alexa have hit it off and are giggling together already! If they make halos and wings to fit short, stout, bald angels, then our beloved Pastor Wayne is surely dancing among the Heavenly Host with your precious Lexi today. Smile and know that she is still being loved...as are you.
The Edwards Family of Union Christian Church <jandjedwards@mindspring.com>
Franklin, IN - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 2:40 PM CST

You continue to be a source of inspiration to so many individuals across this beautiful world. I continue to keep you in my prayers and thank God daily for the blessings he bestows upon all of us. Thinking of you often!
Starr Peterson <sptimeless@aol.com>
Avon, IN USA - Wednesday, January 10, 2007 6:42 AM CST

Dear Dana and family--You all have been such an inspiration to everyone as you struggled to survive these past four years, and now as you move forward day-by-day, healing and growing in God's light. It's wonderful and reassuring to read how your faith has sustained all of you. You, Chris and Connor have come such a long way and Alexa has completed her journey. Know that you've been in our hearts and prayers and will continue to be there.
Joan Austin-Morrow <joan.austin-morrow@us.pwc.com>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Tuesday, January 9, 2007 1:38 PM CST

Dear Dana, Chris, and Connor,
We are in Arizona, and I don't get on the computer often, but I am glad I checked in today. Dana, you are an inspiration, and have been for as long as I have known you. It is amazing how you can brighten a day with your words. With parents like you and Chris, no wonder Alexa was such a special, delightful little girl. I have no doubt that Connor will be an outstanding young man.
May the New Year be good to all of you. I will keep you in my prayers daily.
God Bless You All!
Love,
Mrs. D.
Shari Jo Dransfield <sdrano2@cs.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Saturday, January 6, 2007 2:15 PM CST

Dear Shank Family:
You inspire me to be a better mom, wife, friend and neighbor. Thank you for all you and Lexi have taught our family. We love you and think of you often.
Deb, Terry, Ashley, Brittney & Dallas <dtaylor@brickyard.com>
Speedway, IN - Friday, January 5, 2007 9:14 AM CST

Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly, leave the rest to God, then smile with your eyes, laugh with your heart, and love with your soul.....

Phil,Sonia & Megan Diveto <sdiveto@yahoo.com>
Franklin, In - Friday, January 5, 2007 6:11 AM CST

You are truly amazing! Love and blessings!

Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, January 4, 2007 10:36 PM CST

Blessings to all of you on this the first day of 2007. May God continue to guide and direct you through your journey to be the best you can be. In my eyes you already are.
Love, Kerri <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 8:42 PM CST

How wonderful it was to hear from you Dana and to know our prayers are being answered and God is filling you with His strength and power.
Thank you for sharing the strength God is providing for you, for I don't think you shall ever know what it means to all of us. You are a light of faith when ours is dim and a wonderful blessing. I am without words, only thankfulness for having you come into my life. God Bless you.
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Monday, January 1, 2007 4:54 PM CST

I JUST FOUND THIS AND THOUGHT OF YOU!!

Make the wind to blow upon my face
that I may feel my child's sweet breath.
Make your hand to touch upon my breast
that I may feel my child's warm body.
Make your lips to whisper in my ear
that I may hear the sound of my child's
voice.
Make your eyes to lay upon my sorrow
that I may remember my child's face.
Make your angels to sing for me
that I may hear my child's laughter.
Make your heavens to shine bright above
that I may hold onto my child's love.
Make the sun to lighten up this darkness
that I may be at peace.

YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 3:13 PM CST

So good to hear from you. Spend as much time with Alexa as you need to spend with her--that will most likely be the rest of your lives. My resolve for 2007 is to never forget those in pain and pray daily for all of you. You have made it over a great many hurdles--I know the "big" one is yet to come--Alexa's birthday. I also have learned your strength and know you will get over that hurdle,too. I think of you often and pray for you daily along with so many others who do the same. HAPPY PEACEFILLED NEW YEAR TO ALL OF YOU!!!
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Monday, January 1, 2007 3:07 PM CST

Thinking of you all today as always and upholding you in prayer.
God Bless you and hold you tight.
Kay Krahling <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Friday, December 29, 2006 10:35 PM CST

Three months have now passed since Alexa became an Angel. For most of us, the time has flown by--fall is such a busy time of the year, getting ready for all of the holidays. I am sure you can tell us just how many days, hours, minutes and seconds have passed since Alexa joined the realms of glory. So many people are still praying for you and hoping that you feel the love of God in your lives. I was with my nephew this morning as the sun rose over the horizon and he noted how "pink" the sky was and commmented that the angels always paint the sky pink when they are happy!! Great insight for 5 year old!!! As 2006 draws to a close, we wish you pink skies and peace in 2007.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, in USA - Friday, December 29, 2006 9:19 PM CST

Chris, Dana and Connor,
I am thinking of you and I thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. You are so strong to be willing to hold God's hand and let Him lead you each day. God works in so many ways, please feel free to " lean on someone" who God may send in your lives to carry you through the day. You are truly creating a beautiful legacy for Alexa. I know she is so proud to be your daughter and your sister. My prayer is that God may continue to abundantly show you His love.
With much love, Nancie
Nancie Bush <nlbush28@aol.com>
Franklin, In USA - Friday, December 29, 2006 2:44 PM CST

Merry Christmas, my special family,
I pray you found many joyous moments among the tears which I am sure were also there.
We spent Christmas in Arizona where the sunset on Christmas Day was a radiant Lexi sky. Every shade of pink was filling the sky.
God Bless you and hold you tight.

Kay Krahling <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Tuesday, December 26, 2006 6:49 PM CST

MERRY CHRISTMAS!
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Monday, December 25, 2006 4:43 AM CST

As Christmas draws near, just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.Alexa will probably paint the sky pink for Jesus's birthday.
Phil, Sonia, and Megan Diveto <sdiveto@yahoo.com>
Franklin, IN - Saturday, December 23, 2006 8:23 PM CST

I wrote this poem in 1994 and read it at our Christmas Eve candlelight service in honor of our niece, Kristen, who lost her battle with cancer at Riley on October 12, 1994, at the age of 4. I'd like to rededicate it this Christmas to Alexa. Wishing you all a blessed Christmas, filled with Christ's healing love.

The Angels� Song

I believe that every time a singer lifts his voice
to Jesus Christ in victory, the Angel Choirs rejoice.

And every time a baby cries with its first breath of air
The angels sing a lullaby for children everywhere.

I believe that every time a tear of grief is shed
an angel's soothing melody upon our hearts is spread.

And every time a loved one's lost and gone to live above
there's one more angel voice to spread the song of Jesus' love.

I believe that every time an encouraging word is spoken
one more note is added to the angels' strains unbroken.

And every time a gift is given in pure, unselfish love,
a joyful noise rings out that fills the heavens above.

I believe that every time a lost soul finds his way
The angels sing sweet guidance to lead him day by day.

And every time we put our foolish, earthly wants aside
and choose instead God's wiser path, the angels' song's revived.

For the original song of love and praise rang out in all its glory
that silent night in Bethlehem to sing creations' story.

That night the angel chorus sang out to all mankind
"Peace on earth, good will to men" ��Let love on earth abide.

Abide it did, in Jesus' life, and in His death was blessed.
That love lives on in each of us each time we give our best.

And every time the angels sing, their heavenly song is sent
to God above in glorious praise for all His love has meant.

For each of us has power to add to that refrain
and send our own thanksgiving till Jesus comes again.

Every time we open our hearts and let God's love pour out
we're showing Him His precious gift was not received without
our most sincere and heartfelt thanks for everything we have ��
It all began that Christmas morn � God gave the best He had.

Our sacrifices day by day do not go unseen
for every time we give our best, an Angel Choir sings.
Julie Graham-Edwards <jandjedwards@mindspring.com>
Franklin, IN - Saturday, December 23, 2006 2:24 PM CST

Being a part of the Partylite family has had so many blessings in my life. Little did I know a beautiful young girl named Alexa would have such an impact. I think about your family weekly but this time of year is more precious and special than ever before. For one my life has completely changed through God's plans and what Partylite has offered me. Listening to "Light a Candle" and holding my 7 year old daughter I broke out in tears thinking of Alexa and your beautiful family. How I cherish each loving moment more in honor of your daughter. When I lost my 16 year old step sister to a brain aneurysm I always told myself I would do the things she would have done and stepped out of my comfort zone because at least I had the choice to do so. Now I hold my 4 beautiful girls even closer because I have the chance to do so.
I also saddened by your loss but amazed by your courage I am blessed to share that my best friend K.C. is on the year anniversary of her discovery of breast cancer. I remember being in fear that I would lose a dear friend but I continued to have faith in that God had a plan in her life. A year later she has endured treatments, a double masectomy only to do over $8000 in sales , sponsor 5 people, earn the Summit and become a unit leader. Boy did He have a plan for her. I am grateful to be a part of such wonderful company .. not just Partylite .. but shining lights like your family that stand as a beacon in the dark for those of us who strain to see, struggle to not give up, and seek the strength to continue on . Thank you for sharing your lives and struggles with all of us. It has touched so many lives. Please take the gift of grace and peace with you this holiday season . With great love

Selene <heavenstarlites@aol.com>
York, PA USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 9:28 PM CST

FOR ALL THE 'LITTLEST ANGELS' THAT HAVE GONE TO HEAVEN IN 2006.
"THE LITTLEST ANGEL" A Short Story Especially For
Our Littlest Angels
Once upon a time... Oh, many, many years ago as time is calculated by men--but which was only Yesterday in the Celestial Calendar of Heaven--there was, in Paradise, a most miserable, thoroughly unhappy, and utterly dejected cherub who was known throughout Heaven as The Littlest Angel.
He was exactly four years, six months, five days, seven hours and forty-two minutes of age when he presented himself to the venerable Gate-Keeper and waited for admittance to the Glorious Kingdom of God.
Standing defiantly, with his short brown legs wide apart, the Littlest Angel tried to pretend that he wasn't at all impressed by such Unearthly Splendour,and that he wasn't at all afraid. But his lower lip trembled, and a tear disgraced him by making a new furrow down his already tear-streaked face--coming to a precipitous halt at the very tip end of his small freckled nose.
But that wasn't all. While the kindly Gate-Keeper was entering the name in his great Book, the Littlest Angel, having left home as usual without a handkerchief, endeavoured to hide the tell-tale evidence by sniffing.' A most unangelic sound which so unnerved the good Gate-Keeper that he did something he had never done before in all Eternity. He blotted the page!
From that moment on, the Heavenly Peace was never quite the same, and the Littlest Angel soon became the despair of all the Heavenly Host. His shrill, ear-splitting whistle resounded at all hours through the Golden Streets. It startled the Patriarch Prophets and disturbed their meditations. Yes, and on top of that, he inevitably and vociferously sang off-key at the singing practice of the Heavenly Choir, spoiling its ethereal effect. And, being so small that it seemed to take him just twice as long as anyone else to get to nightly prayers, the Littlest Angel always arrived late, and always knocked everyone's wings askew as he darted into his place.
Although these flaws in behaviour might have been overlooked, the general appearance of the Littlest Angel was even more disreputable than his deportment. It was first whispered among the Seraphim and Cherubim, and then said aloud among the Angels and Archangels, that he didn't even look like an angel!
And they were all quite correct. He didn't. His halo was permanently tarnished where he held onto it with one hot little chubby hand when he ran, and he was always running. Furthermore, even when he stood very still, it never behaved like a halo should. It was always slipping down over his right eye.
Yes, and it must be here recorded that his wings were neither useful nor ornamental. All Paradise held its breath when the Littlest Angel perched himself like an unhappy fledgling sparrow on the very edge of a gilded cloud and prepared to take off. He would teeter this way--and that way--but, after much coaxing and a few false starts, he would shut both of his eyes, hold his freckled nose, count up to three hundred and three, and then hurl himself s 1 o w 1 y into space! However, owing to the regrettable fact that he always forgot to move his wings, the Littlest Angel always fell head over halo! It was also reported and never denied, that whenever he was nervous, which was most of the time, he bit his wing-tips!
Now, anyone can easily understand why the Littlest Angel would, soon or late, have to be disciplined. And so, on an Eternal Day of an Eternal Month in the Year Eternal, he was directed to present his small self before an Angel of the Peace.
The Littlest Angel combed his hair, dusted his wings and scrambled into an almost clean robe, and then, with a heavy heart, trudged his way to the place of judgment. He tried to postpone the dreaded ordeal by loitering along the Street of The Guardian Angels, pausing a few timeless moments to minutely pursue the long list of new arrivals, although all Heaven knew he couldn't read a word. And he idled more than several immortal moments to carefully examine a display of aureate harps, although everyone in the Celestial City knew he couldn't tell a crotchet from a semiquaver. But at length and at last he slowly approached a doorway which was surmounted by a pair of golden scales, signifying that Heavenly Justice was dispensed within. To the Littlest Angel's great surprise, he heard a merry voice, singing!
The Littlest Angel removed his halo and breathed upon it heavily, then polished it upon his robe, a procedure which added nothing to that garment's already untidy appearance, and then t i p - t o e d in!
The Singer, who was known as the Understanding Angel, looked down at the small culprit, and the Littlest Angel instantly tried to make himself invisible by the ingenious process of withdrawing his head into the collar of his robe, very much like a snapping turtle. At that, the Singer laughed, a jolly, heartwarming sound, and said, "Oh! So you're the one who's been making Heaven so un' heavenly! Come here, Cherub, and tell me all about it!" The Littlest Angel ventured a furtive look from beneath his robe. First one eye. And then the other eye.
Suddenly, almost before he knew it, he was perched on the lap of the Understanding Angel, and was explaining how very difficult it was for a boy who suddenly finds himself transformed into an angel. Yes, and no matter what the Archangels said, he'd only swung once. Well, twice. Oh, all right, then, he'd swung three times on the Golden Gates. But that was just for something to do!
That was the whole trouble. There wasn't anything for a small angel to do. And he was very homesick. Oh, not that Paradise wasn't beautiful! But the Earth was beautiful, too! Wasn't it created by God, Himself? Why, there were trees to climb, and brooks to fish, and caves to play at pirate chief, the swimming hole, and sun, and rain, and dark, and dawn, and thick brown dust, so soft and warm beneath your feet!
The Understanding Angel smiled, and in his eyes was a long forgotten memory of another small boy in a long ago. Then he asked the Littlest Angel what would make him most happy in Paradise. The Cherub thought for a moment, and whispered in his ear.
And then, in all those timeless days that followed, everyone wondered at the great change in the Littlest Angel, for, among all the cherubs in God's Kingdom, he was the most happy. His conduct was above the slightest reproach. His appearance was all that the most fastidious could wish for. And on excursions to Elysian Fields, it could be said, and truly said, that he flew like an angel!
Then it came to pass that Jesus, the Son of God, was to be born of Mary, of Bethlehem, of Judea. And as the glorious tidings spread through Paradise, all the angels rejoiced and their voices were lifted to herald the Miracle of Miracles, the coming of the Christ Child.
The Angels and Archangels, the Seraphim and Cherubim, the Gate-Keeper, the Wingmaker, yes, and even the Halosmith put aside their usual tasks to prepare their gifts for the Blessed Infant. All but the Littlest Angel. He sat himself down on the top-most step of the Golden Stairs and anxiously waited for inspiration.
What could he give that would be most acceptable to the Son of God? At one time', he dreamed of composing a lyric hymn of adoration. But the Littlest Angel was woefully wanting in musical talent. Then he grew tremendously excited over writing a prayer! A prayer that would live forever in the hearts of men, because it would be the first prayer ever to be heard by the Christ Child. But the Littlest Angel was lamentably lacking in literary skill. "What, oh what, could a small angel give that would please the Holy Infant?"
The time of the Miracle was very close at hand when the Littlest Angel at last decided on his gift. Then, on that Day of Days, he proudly brought it from its hiding place behind a cloud, and humbly, with downcast eyes, placed it before the Throne of God. It was only a small, rough, unsightly box, but inside were all those wonderful things that even a Child of God would treasure!
A small, rough, unsightly box, lying among all those other glorious gifts from all the Angels of Paradise! Gifts of such rare and radiant splendour and breathless beauty that Heaven and all the Universe were lighted by the mere reflection of their glory! And when the Littlest Angel saw this, he suddenly knew that his gift to God's Child was irreverent, and he devoutly wished he might reclaim his shabby gift. It was ugly. It was worthless. If only he could hide it away from the sight of God before it was even noticed!
But it was too late! The Hand of God moved slowly over all that bright array of shining gifts, then paused, then dropped, then came to rest on the lowly gift of the Littlest Angel! The Littlest Angel trembled as the box was opened, and there, before the Eyes of God and all His Heavenly Host, was what he offered to the Christ Child.
And what was his gift to the Blessed Infant? Well, there was a butterfly with golden wings, captured one bright summer day on the high hills above Jerusalem, and a sky-blue egg from a bird's nest in the olive tree that stood to shade his mother's kitchen door. Yes, and two white stones, found on a muddy river bank, where he and his friends had played like small brown beavers, and, at the bottom of the box, a limp, tooth-marked leather strap, once worn as a collar by his mongrel dog, who had died as he had lived, in absolute love and infinite devotion.
The Littlest Angel wept hot, bitter tears, for now he knew that instead of honouring the Son of God, he had been most blasphemous. Why had he ever thought the box was so wonderful? Why had he dreamed that such utterly useless things would be loved by the Blessed Infant? In frantic terror, he turned to run and hide from the Divine Wrath of the Heavenly Father, but he stumbled and fell, and with a horrified wail and clatter of halo, rolled in a ball of consummate misery to the very foot of the Heavenly Throne!
There was an ominous and dreadful silence in the Celesti'al City, a silence complete and undisturbed save for the heart-broken sobbing of the Littlest Angel.
Then, suddenly, The Voice of God, like Divine Music, rose and swelled through Paradise! And the Voice of God spoke, saying, "Of all the gifts of all the angels, I find that this small box pleases Me most. Its contents are of the Earth and of men, and My Son is born to be King of both. These are the things My Son, too, will know and love and cherish and then, regretful, will leave behind Him when His task is done. I accept this gift in the Name of the Child, Jesus, born of Mary this night in Bethlehem."
There was a breathless pause, and then the rough, unsightly box of the Littlest Angel began to glow with a bright, unearthly light, then the light became a lustrous flame, and the flame became a radiant brilliance that blinded the eyes of all the angels!
None but the Littlest Angel saw it rise from its place before the Throne of God. And he, and only he, watched it arch the firmament to stand and shed its clear, white, beckoning light over a Stable where a Child was Born.
There it shone on that Night of Miracles, and its light was reflected down the centuries deep in the heart of all mankind. Yet, earthly eyes, blinded, too, by its splendour, could never know that the lowly gift of the littlest Angel was what all men would call forever
"THE SHINING STAR OF BETHLEHEM!"
Known Author:
(this is also the FULL story):

CHARLES TAZEWELL - �1957

Your friend in Jesus
Indinanapolis, IN USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 3:28 PM CST

Hope you are getting through the holiday season okay--it is hard for those of us not suffering a great loss in our lives. You are thought of and prayed for everyday. God Bless.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 12:09 AM CST

Chris, Dana and Connor. Good tidings to you and your family as we approach the Birth of Jesus Christ. I am sure that Lexi is right up there just about ready to burst with all the excitement leading up to the Birthday party of our Lord Jesus Christ. Oh what a celebration. I know that one day you will all be together and she will have so much to tell you. This is the day the Lord has made. AMEN
with love, Randy, Jan and Shelby Reid <jan@midwestcapitalcorp.com; janthesurvivor@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, December 22, 2006 11:48 AM CST

There will be a glorious birthday party in heaven this weekend and Princess Alexa will be the party-planner! I'm picturing streets of gold sprinkled with pink glitter.....
Judy <jyarnell@franklincollege.edu>
Franklin, IN USA - Friday, December 22, 2006 8:15 AM CST

Hi Dana, Chris, and Connor,
You all are in my thoughts and prayers through this season and everyday. I was going through some things today and found the sweetest card that Alexa had made for me. It brought a smile and a flood of memories. What a beautiful, caring girl! She is definitely unforgetable. May God Bless all of you!
Love,
Mrs. D.

Shari Jo Dransfield <sdrano2@cs.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Thursday, December 21, 2006 7:39 PM CST

I just wanted to let you know that I think about you guys and Alexa every minute, everyday. I will never forget her. But I hope Conner is doing well as to you two. I haven't heard Josh talk about him in a while now. Well I just thought I'd say hello and I hope you have a Merry Christmas! Prayers, and wishes.
Muriah Eberg <Murry707@aol.com>
Franklin, In - Wednesday, December 20, 2006 7:56 AM CST

Just wanted you to know that you are not forgotten this holy season. I saw a display of hundreds of Angels--I thought of all of you and your Alexa--She is an Angel in the realms of glory winging her flight over all the earth this year announcing that the Lord is nigh. Peace be unto you. Prayers and wishes for a peacefilled week.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 3:12 PM CST

Thank you for continuing the journal. You are such a gift to me to read about your journey. I think of you every day and know that God has a special place for Lexi and holds all of you close to his heart this Christmas season.

karen hardin <ksmcgh@aol.com>
franklin, in usa - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 9:38 AM CST

Dana, Chris, & Connor,
I know how you are feeling for I lost my Alex 9 months ago. I didn't even want to put up the tree this year but I knew Alex would of not wanted that for his little brother. I remember Alexa at Riley's her room was always so beautiful. I just wanted you to know I was thinking of your family and you won't be alone this Christmas.
Jennifer Bates <jbates@portage.k12.in.us>
Portage, IN US - Tuesday, December 19, 2006 7:42 AM CST

Hi Chris, Dana and Connor -- I can honestly say a day does not go by that I don't wonder how you are doing? I am sorry I haven't called or even dropped a note. We do continue to pray for your family EVERY SINGLE NIGHT -- our kids each pray for something different, but we know will always give you strength to get through the day. Chris, mom has said she sees you at church. I am going to call one of these days. I hope it is okay to call during the day. Dana, you are an AMAZING woman. I know you are being lifted up in prayer and God is giving you your strength, but I read your notes and am always astonished at the way you always end up encouraging US to be better. Dana you have the ability to write that book or go on a mission trip. Your testimony would forever change the lives of those you have the privilege of sharing your story with. I love the idea of your annual tradition with Acts of Kindness or Honor. I hope you have a merry CHRISTmas! YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR PRAYERS! Love to you all, Darci Cohoon and family
Darci Cohoon <thecohoons@insightbb.com>
Louisville, KY USA - Monday, December 18, 2006 5:41 PM CST

I just wanted to let you know you are being thought of right now and every day.
Love, Ashtyn <stephen,brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Sunday, December 17, 2006 8:55 PM CST

Just want you to know I am thinking of you today as always.
Keeping you upheld in prayer.
Kay Krahling <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Saturday, December 16, 2006 2:19 PM CST

Alexa has been on my mind all day today. I keep seeing her soul touching smile. I will never forget the impact she had on many people at National Conference. She truely was an Angel here on Earth. I am so thankful I had the pleasure of meeting her, if only for a brief moment. She touched my life forever. Maybe it's because I am awaiting the results of some tests my son had done, I am hoping her smile is letting me know it's all going to be ok. Thank you so much Dana, Chris and Conner for sharing your ANGEL with each of us!! *BIG HUGS*
Jennifer Randolph <jrandolph01@yahoo.com>
Cincinnati, Oh USA - Thursday, December 14, 2006 7:31 PM CST

Is it just me, or does there seem to be an awful lot of pink in the sky these days? I see it in the morning on my way to work; I see it in the beautiful sunsets in the evenings. The first time I noticed it was a few days after Lexi walked through the pearly gates and onto the streets of gold. Coincidence? I don't think so!
Judy <jyarnell@franklincollege.edu>
Franklin, IN USA - Monday, December 11, 2006 3:12 PM CST

Dana, It was very good to hear from you again. Can you believe Lexi's Website has been viewed over 87,000 times. That's just one indication of how sooooo many people love and support your family. I have said many times that you are an inspiration and you continue to be. I know times are tough for you, Chris and Connor, but I hope you find peace as you go. We love you and we are always here if you need anything. Love from Aunt Jean and Ernie!
Jean Todd <jeanftodd@sbcglobal.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, December 10, 2006 9:10 PM CST

Hello Special Family,
We had our Reality Regional today and did an ACS raffle in honor of Alexa. We raise $300 which we will send to PL to be a loving memorial to Alexa and in honor of you, her loving and faithful family. You have taugh so many of us how love is sometimes not fair but to hang on and know that God does love us and has a perfect plan for our lives. You three are so very special and to think we have all come to know you through our little angel, Alexa, and you courageous faith. To know you, is to know the Lord, for you have shown what it means to walk in faith and to endure through faith. Thank you so much. I pray God will not take a long time to show you why His plan was to take Alexa home at such a young age. Regardless of whether it is today, next week, next year or years from now, I know you will continue to walk in the path of the Lord and because of you, many of us will have, through your example, a pillar when tough times come our way. Your sharing of your faith over the years is a gift few have the courage to give. Bless you.
Kay Krahling <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, Ca - Saturday, December 9, 2006 9:56 PM CST

It's so good to hear that you're moving forward with new traditions both in honor of Alexa and for Connor's future. It's great to hear the faith, the joy, and the hope back in your "voice" as you write. You should definitely consider writing that book! You have so much to share...and you have already shared so much with so many people through your journey of faith and family devotion. Keep on keepin' on through this difficult time. Your Lord will not forsake you. You are truly good and faithful servants of His word. Your home was dark at Halloween. How wonderful it is to see it lit up joyously again for Christmas!! Bless you all! We, too, say a little prayer every time we drive past.
Your WindStar neighbors--Julie, Jerry, & Jake Edwards <jandjedwards@mindspring.com>
Franklin, IN - Friday, December 8, 2006 6:58 AM CST

Your entry today was just so beautiful. I love hearing about your family. I know it must be very hard on you and your family during this time. I live in your addition and everytime we drive by your house we say a pray for you and your family. The house was great to see with all of the decorations. My daughter, Alexis smiled so big when she seen it. It just felt good to know that things do go on and God does have a plan for all of us!
Jennifer Gibson & Alexis Bay
Franklin, IN Johnson - Thursday, December 7, 2006 1:47 PM CST

Sorry i didnt make it to the service,i didnt know about it.Anyways i hope you guys are doing well and i hope to see you at christmas at aunt lisa's.love you all!!
kristen <krbergman@netzero.com>
indianapolis, in usa - Wednesday, December 6, 2006 6:06 PM CST

Chris, Dana and Connor - As I drove home last night, I felt Alexa was with us as she appeared in the beautiful pink sunset. A day does not go by that I don't count my blessings and one of those blessings is the presence of Alexa in my life daily. She lives on in all who knew her and were blessed with her positive, fun and energetic approach to life. Our prayers are with you.
Starr and Family <sptimeless@aol.com>
Avon, IN USA - Tuesday, December 5, 2006 8:26 AM CST

Shank Family,
I was driving home tonight and saw THE most beautiful pink sunset and I thought of Alexa. We will continue to pray for your family.
God Bless!

Joyce Genneken <Drewg95@insightbb.com>
Greenwood, IN Johnson - Monday, December 4, 2006 8:13 PM CST

Dana,
God has already shown you your purpose in life with all that you and family are going through. You have taught me to be a better Christian and a stronger prayer warrior. I thank God more now than ever for all that he has given me and for health. I never prayed for health. I assumed it. Your strength, though you probably don't feel it has picked many of us up and made us think. Think about the big picture. Think about life and family and the goodness to help others. I look forward to visiting Lexi's grave sit to show Natalie the pink Christmas tree. She'll love it too. Merry Christmas and God bless you.
Teena Rairdon
Teena Rairdon <Trairdon@indianagolf.org>
Fran, FL - Monday, December 4, 2006 11:19 AM CST

Hi all -
Your entry is touching, and heart warming. And your attitude is still as strong as ever. I'm sure Connor will appreciate the new traditions for the holidays.
One day, one step, one breath at a time.

As for deeds - how about Ashley throwing the fundraiser for Riley, and dedicating it to Lexi. Ash raised about $5,000 and Riley is going to do a press release on it.

Love, Deb, Terry, Ashley & Brittney

Deb <dtaylor@brickyard.com>
Indpls, IN - Monday, December 4, 2006 10:46 AM CST

I hope you had a wonderful weekend and created lots of fun memories!! It's so good to hear from you again. You know Alexa is loving all of the decorations that are up! If I had to guess she's doing a little decorating of her own up in heaven!
Dawn Williams <Jstdawning@aol.com>
Noblesville, IN USA - Sunday, December 3, 2006 10:58 PM CST

You are on the road to healing. It is a long road, but you are on it!! You will never be alone. Many of us walk the road with you and Alexa is always there looking over you. God will guide you. There will be bumps along the way and lots of hills, and turns to negotiate, but God will never leave you. God bless all of you and keep you in His loving care.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Sunday, December 3, 2006 5:18 PM CST

Hello!
I'm so glad I checked in today! I can hear the cheery Dana in your message and it makes me smile! Please know that you continue to be in our prayers! Many happy memories this weekend!
Love,
Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, December 2, 2006 7:10 PM CST

I hope you have a wonderful time at Yuletide!! Ashtyn loves going. We always stay at the Columbia Club and walk to the Yuletide Celebration. The reindeer give us a smile and the cookies are to die for. PLease know that you are thought of often and kept close in prayer! Oh, by the way, I think I can see your home from here!! Glad to hear from you and hope to see you soon.
Love, The Brown's <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Friday, December 1, 2006 6:02 PM CST

Think of you all daily! Continue to pray for all of you.
Jennifer Randolph <jrandolph01@yahoo.com>
Cincinnati, Oh USA - Friday, December 1, 2006 10:13 AM CST

Dear Shank Family,
I have never know exactly what to say. It would be nice if I had the exact words to help take your pain away, but I've never been good with that. I have followed the website ever since Lexi got sick, and I have thought about your family many times hoping that you would always get good news. I'm so sorry for your loss, and I am amazed by your strength. Dana, As a mother I have tried to put myself in your position, and I can't imagine how you have survived the loss of a child. I thank the Lord every day that I have not had to face the turmoil that your family has been through. I know God has a purpose for Lexi. She's probably teaching the angels to dance. I saw Connor last night at the band bowling party. He is such a kind, handsome, wonderful young man, and I truly enjoyed having him in music and choir here at Creekside last year. It was so nice to talk to him for a brief time. Please know that I think about your family often, and I hope you have many happy days together. Merry Christmas, and if their is anything I can do for you all, please let me know. Linda Greenwell
Linda M. Greenwell <lindamgreenwell@hotmail.com>
Franklin, IN United States - Thursday, November 30, 2006 7:27 AM CST

We miss you guys - you are constantly in our minds. We hurt so bad, and miss Lexi.

We love you!
Deb, Terry, Ashley & Brittney
Deb Taylor <dtaylor@brickyard.com>
Indpls, IN - Tuesday, November 28, 2006 1:38 PM CST

just wanted to write to tell you guys I miss you all very much. i've been praying and thinking about all of you- You're wonderful! I'm so blessed and thankful and grateful to have you in my life. ...re read all of my e mails and letters from Lex the other day... DEFINATELY put a smile on my face- what an amazing lil girl!! She's my lil sister i never had... miss you guys. call me this week- maybe we could get together!! i have friday off. Let me know! I love you guys!!!!!!! More than any words will ever be able to convey!
Meagan Edwards <edwardsml@uindy.edu>
Frankln, IN US - Sunday, November 26, 2006 0:11 AM CST

Dearest Shank Family,
As we gathered our family together for Thanksgiving, we gave thanks for the opportunity to know you and to share brief moments with Lexi. Those moments have changed our lives. You are always in our thoughts, our prayers and our hearts.
Kris and Dan Murphy and Todd and Nicole Trosper <dankrism@aol.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Saturday, November 25, 2006 4:53 PM CST

Chri,Dana & Connor, Happy Thanksgiving, one day after. We thought of you often yesterday as we always do. You will always be in our heart and our prayers. Hang in there, you are very special to many people. Love from Aunt Jean and Ernie!
Jean Todd <jeanftodd@sbcglobal.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, November 24, 2006 10:22 PM CST

One Thanksgiving down, and many more to go!! You made it through first, Hooray! Now the two month anniversary approaches, and just a year ago you began your final journey with Alexa when her cancer returned. Our thoughts and prayers continue for you alway.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Friday, November 24, 2006 1:59 PM CST

Just checking in to let you know you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, The Brown's <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Friday, November 24, 2006 8:36 AM CST

Dana, Chris and Connor:

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you this Holiday. We give Thanks for the blessings Alexi shared with all of us! Please let us know if you need anything.
Starr, Neysa, Brandon and McKenzie Peterson <sptimeless@aol.com>
Avon, IN USA - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 11:44 AM CST

Dana, Chris, and Connor -

Please know that you all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. I can not begin to imagine the ache in your hearts. And while this doesn't ease the pain you are feeling right this moment, try to find solace in knowing..."We have to carry the cross before we can wear the crown". You guys have been carrying it for awhile, so there will be great reward for you at the end of the journey. I am sure tomorrow will be a difficult day, and I am sure there will be tears. But somehow through those tears, also share some laughter. I am sure that is what Lexi would want for all of you.
Much Love and Many Prayers, Beth
Beth Meyer <jbsmeyer@insightbb.com>
Greenwood, IN USA - Wednesday, November 22, 2006 7:22 AM CST

Sunday, the sermon was on the secret of thanksgiving ("Learn the Secret"), being able to give thanks through one's own suffering (Philippians 4:10-14). I sat in our beautiful church (TCC) and thought of all of you, being thankful for the life of Alexa yet suffering the pain of her loss. Thank you for saving your journey. I give thanks and prayers for all of you this Thanksgiving.
karen hardin <ksmcgh@aol.com>
franklin, in johnson - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 5:21 PM CST

I am sure you have counted the minutes, hours, days, weeks and now months since Alexa returned home to her place in heaven--just wanted you to know prayers are continuing around the world for all of you as we enter this holiday season--rest assured no one has forgotten you and the burden you bear. Somehow, I hope you are able to make it through Thanksgiving and find some joy and happiness in your celebration. Know that Alexa is looking down on you and she is still with you in spirit. God bless all of you.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 9:11 AM CST

I saw a beautiful pink sky again this morning and my thoughts went immediately to Lexi and your family. As you share your first Thanksgiving without your princess, rest assured that many, many people will be holding you up in prayer as they gather this weekend. Hold on to the faith that has sustained you this far in your journey; God said he would never forsake or leave us.

We love you!
Judy Yarnell <jyarnell@franklincollege.edu>
Franklin, IN USA - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 8:45 AM CST

I was outside with Tyler last night, enjoying a repsite from his own journey, and I was struck by the beauty of the sky. The vivid colors and the many hues, and my thoughts returned to each of you and of Lexi. Your faith and strength continue to be an inspiration. We hold you in our hearts and lift you in our prayers each day.

../tylergenneken
the Gennekens <drewg95@insightbb.com>
Center Grove, - Tuesday, November 21, 2006 7:31 AM CST

Thinking of you. Praying for you.
With many, many blessings and much love,
Amy
Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, - Monday, November 20, 2006 8:17 PM CST

Chris, Dana, and Conner, You all are in our daily thoughts and prayers. As Thanksgiving draws near hold on to your faith in the Lord and to your happy times with Alexa. They will see you through.
Phil, Sonia, & Megan Diveto <sdiveto@yahoo.com>
franklin, IN - Monday, November 20, 2006 6:47 PM CST

Chris, Dana and Conner, We cannot even imagine what a difficult time this must be...Know that you are and always will be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all.
The Fisher Family <tsfisherwl@hotmail.com>
West Lafayette, IN USA - Monday, November 20, 2006 9:04 AM CST

Like a shepherd He feeds His flock carrying the lambs in His arms leading them home. If you are feeling heavily burdened lay your yoke upon His shoulders, He will give you rest. Thinking of you and praying for you.
Your Friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Friday, November 17, 2006 9:03 PM CST

We came to know of Lexie through the community fundraisers. She was so beutiful inside and out and the light of God does shine through all of you. We continue to have your family in our prayers and for God's Holy Spirit to bring you peace, comfort, and joy particularly as you celebrate the "firsts" Thanksgiving, Christmas, Spring, all the holidays and the anniversary of her death in September. You're not alone nor forgotten.
Mark & Charlotte Ferrill & Family <cmfaithbooker@sbcglobal.net>
Mooresville, IN USA - Friday, November 17, 2006 12:06 AM CST

Dearest Shank Family -
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Lexi helped Ashley in many ways, and we're forever grateful for that. Your whole family helped us in many ways.
We pray for you, we cry for you, we love you.
The Taylor Family <dtaylor@brickyard.com>
Speedway, IN - Friday, November 17, 2006 10:07 AM CST

Dear Chris, Dana, and Connor,
I can not imagine the pain you must be feeling. Your family's love is so strong. Anyone who was around you for any length of time felt your love and faith. Please know that you remain in my prayers and thoughts daily. Alexa was such a unique, beautiful (inside and out), young lady. So many things remind me of her and our time together.
Alexa's journey and your family's love and faith have touched so many lives.
May God Bless You All and give you strength and peace during the holidays. You always made holidays so special for Alexa and Connor. May the memories of those holidays give you some
smiles. Alexa always had a big one:)
Hugs to all!
Love,
Mrs. D
Shari Jo Dransfield <sdrano2@cs.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Friday, November 17, 2006 8:37 AM CST

In your darkest, loneliest moments, when you call out for help...isn't it amazing how many people are still listening? And most importantly, your Lord is ALWAYS listening. Your journey of faith and love spoke in a magical way to so many people in this world of dysfunctional families and fast-paced mania. You made all of us slow down and think about what..and who...really matters and that we're really not in control of it all. I know you're probably feeling pretty out of control right now and wishing you could hit the "rewind" button and relive some precious days all over again. But we don't get that chance in this life. One day we'll understand all that. For now, we just have to trust that someone bigger than us is in control of it all and that if we trust Him to lead us, we'll head down the path He has planned out for us. We can't know why Lexi's path was so short and why yours must include all this sadness. You've certainly had your share of tragedies in your life, Chris. Surely they've been intended to make you the strong, kind husband and father you've grown into. Hold fast to God's right hand and know that He loves you and won't give you more than you can handle...though sometimes He'll sure push you to the limit. We're still praying for you all every day....Please keep writing....we care.
Your WindStar neighbors--Julie, Jerry, & Jake Edwards <jandjedwards@mindspring.com>
Franklin, IN - Friday, November 17, 2006 7:09 AM CST

LEXI SONG

LEXI,LEXI, YOU ARE MY FRIEND, I WANT YOU TO KNOW ITS NOT THE END.YOU ARE MY ANGEL YOU REALLY ARE EVEN THOUGH CLOUDS SURROUND WHERE YOU ARE.LEXI,LEXI, I TRY NOT TO CRY BUT I KNOW YOU ARE WITH A BETTER GUY, HE LOVES YOU BUT NOT AS MUCH AS I DO---- LEXI, I WISH I COULD BE WITH YOU I LOVE YOU LEXI!*!*!*!

BY:HOLLY HUFFINE--YOUR FRIEND
HOLLY HUFFINE <HOLLYHH@SBCGLOBAL.NET>
INPOLIS, in UNITED STATES - Thursday, November 16, 2006 8:28 PM CST

Dear Chris, Dana and Connor, Hang in there--life will get better. Your pain will ease. You will never forget Alexa. For so many days, weeks, months and years all of your energy was concentrated on Alexa, now concentrate on yourselves awhile. All I can say is trust God. His plan isn't always ours. He will see you through your pain--life will be good again. I have put out an emergency prayer request for all of you. God is holding you in the palm of His hands. Don't give up--maybe a few days away from reality will help all of you--go some place you have never been before, do something new--change the pace of your everyday life. I wish I had a magic wand to make all of your pain go away. All healing comes from pain. So many people love you and are praying for you. Celebrate your lives with one another. God bless and keep you.
YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Thursday, November 16, 2006 3:31 PM CST

Chris, Dana & Conner,
You've never been far from my thoughts and prayers throughout the last 7 months. I consider it an honor to pray with you and for you. I cannot begin to know your pain, but I do know your Savior. He has broad shoulders, and will carry you through this. Take care of each other.
Peggy M. <survivor.mom@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Thursday, November 16, 2006 7:41 AM CST

Chris, Dana & Connor, I can't start to know how you feel, but I pray each day that you get closer to finding peace, we are always here for you if you need anything. We love you, Aunt Jean and Ernie
Jean & Ernie <jeanftodd@sbcglobal.net>
Indianapolis, - Tuesday, November 14, 2006 8:55 PM CST

Where two or more are gathered He promised to be there.
Prayers are with you as always from close and afar .
Let the raindrops keep fallin from heaven to our hearts .
Selene <HeavenSTARlites@Aol.com>
- Tuesday, November 14, 2006 8:53 PM CST

Chris, Dana and Connor as well I can not tell you I know how you feel beacuse I HAVE NO IDEA, But I do know you MUST stay strong ( as hard as it is and will be for sometime ) But the day WILL come and you will laugh again. The Angle Alexa has become would want you to go one Chris for Connor Dana and herself. Take Care The Chipmans Barry, Jill, Brock & Billie
Jill Chipman <jchipman@contactcei.com>
Indianapolis, IN usa - Tuesday, November 14, 2006 10:16 AM CST

You are in my thoughts every day and I do pray so hard for you all to have some sort of peace. I honestly do not always know how to pray for that...but not one day goes by that you are not in my thoughts.
Sending you much love...
Alicia - Camryn's Mom <alicia415@comcast.net>
Brownsburg, IN - Tuesday, November 14, 2006 4:37 AM CST

Dearest Shank Family,
My journey took me to Monterey, CA this past weekend. I love going to Monterey as it is my speical time of year where I am able to have peace and quiet by myself and with God. There is a special beach area there where I love to go and spend time talking to God. It was a special time this year, for as I came upon my favorite beach with the waves violently breaking from the calm of the ocean, I looked into the clouds of the sky and behold I saw a "Lexie sky". It was radiantly pink and new. Where there had been dark thunder clouds it was now beautiful rays of pink with bright sunshine peeking through. I thought of all of you, how the dark clouds and the violent crashing of the waves have been upon you. Then as I watched and pondered more, I realized the "Lexie sky" was holding Alexa's promise that everything was going to be okay and you are not alone from Alexa, for like God's promise, she is with you always. "Lexie's sky" will forever remind us of all, you and she have given to so many of our lives. You have all shown us that in Christ there is hope and though at times the waves may crash upon us, there will come the calm again. Though there may be clouds of darkness, the Son will radiate through and provide us the "Lexie Sky" of hope.
Life is forever changing and I can not begin to know your pain or the fear of how to make it through each new day, but I do know you will come through the crashing waves and onto the calm of the shore because your faith is strong and Jesus is your saviour.
Rest, cry, and mourn, it's okay. You have all been through so much. It's okay, but always recall when the sky is at it darkest, there will be a "Lexie Sky" awaiting you.
I wish I could help you in some way, Lord knows, I don't even personally know you, but I feel like you are family. Please know, like so many whose heart you have touched, I am here for you in prayer and thought.
I pray God will open new doors of ministry for you, for we all need you now. Chris, it was so wonderful to look on the website and see your message and to still feel so much a part of your lives that you were crying for prayerful help. Thank you for still wanting all of us in your lives. Alexa is not gone, her journey has just taken her to a different area of our life.
God Bless and hold you all steadfast in love and faith.
Kay <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Monday, November 13, 2006 10:45 PM CST

hi guys its taylor i really miss alexa and im sitting here crying here because i seen her picture and i thought of the good times we had in dance and everything and i just want to let u know i am there for you guys if you need me just email me and connor has my email address if you ever need anything then email me god bless you all and think of happy times and hope u dont cry well i am not crying anymore because i am thinking about everything that is happy about alexa and i still miss her and just pray and she is in a better place and isnt in anymore pain at all so well goodbye for now have connor email me or something. *Taylor*
*Taylor* <inabnitt1969@aol.com>
franklin, in us - Monday, November 13, 2006 5:09 PM CST

DEAR CHRIS, DANA & CONNOR
MY HEART ACHES FOR YOU BECAUSE I HAVE HAD TO SAME FEELINGS. JUST REMEMBER THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF THIS JOURNEY OF SORROW AND LEXIE AND RYAN ARE TWO OF THE BRIGHTEST STARS IN THE HEAVENS
WE LOVE YOU
DR & LOU
MARY LOU SULLIVAN <DNLDSLL@AOL.COM>
FRANKLIN, IN USA - Monday, November 13, 2006 12:12 AM CST

How I wish I could take your pain and sorrow away. The power of prayer is the answer and please know you are in my prayers every evening. It is easy to stay strong, but remember Ashtyn's poem? "I say... stay strong, go on, BELIEVE!" "I understand... life is about changes and that it is not always fair." I embrace those words every day and cling to hope that GOD WILL embrace all of you and give you the strength to go on.
Love, Kerri <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Sunday, November 12, 2006 8:27 PM CST

You ARE still in our daily thoughts and prayers. I know what an emptiness you are feeling. He is with you always and He is with Lexi. Much love to you all.
Kris and Dan Murphy and Nicole Trosper <dankrism@aol.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Sunday, November 12, 2006 6:46 PM CST

Chris, Dana, and Conner,
You are in my daily prayers and thoughts. Just know that all that you guys have done has changed peoples lives forever. God's love is amazing and real!

Cindy <cindyfirststeps@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, November 12, 2006 10:26 AM CST

Chris, Dana & Connor, you all are still in our daily prayers.
Randy, Jan and Shelby Reid <jan@midwestcapitalcorp.com; janthesurvivor@sbcglobal.net>
- Friday, November 10, 2006 7:48 AM CST

Love the DASH!!
Love, Kerri <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Thursday, November 9, 2006 8:40 PM CST

Still think of Alexa daily. Continued prayers for the entire Shank family!
Jennifer Randolph <jrandolph01@yahoo.com>
Cincinnati, Oh USA - Thursday, November 9, 2006 6:43 PM CST

Chris,Dana and Connor, Well I know live is not the same but I can tell you this Alexa is having THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE !!! And a life that has just begin for her. I hate for all of you that you must find a way to go on till you all meet again. Sorry it's taken me so long to get a card in the mail but I just could not find the words to let you know how we feel for you all, But how can we never goign thought something so lift changing. I did get you a card in the mail yesterday I know it won't change things but may it bring a little comfort to all of you. Always in our prayers The Chipmans Barry, Jill, Brock and Billie
Jill Chipman <jchipman@contactcei.com>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Thursday, November 9, 2006 7:41 AM CST

I LOVE THIS POEM. I THINK THE DASH IN ALEXA'S LIFE PROBABLY SAYS MORE THAN MANY OF THOSE WHO LIVE TO AN OLD AGE.

THE DASH
I read of a reverend who stood to speak
at the funeral of his friend.
He referred to the date
on her tombstone
from the beginning... to the end.

He noted that first came the date of her birth
and spoke of the date with tears
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
that she spent alive on earth, and
now only those who loved her know
what that little line is worth.

For it matters not how much we own;
the cars, the house, the cash.
What matters is how we lived and loved
and how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard,
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
You could be at "dash mid-range"

If we could just slow down enough
to consider what's true and real,
and always try to understand
the way other people feel, and
be less quick to anger,
show appreciation more
and love the people in our life like
we've never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
more often wear a smile
remembering that this special dash
might only last a little while.

So when your eulogy is being read
with your life's actions to rehash...
would you be pleased with the things they say
about how you spent your dash?

WE KNOW THAT THERE MUST BE A GREAT VOID IN YOUR LIFE--MISSING ALEXA MORE THAN MOST OF US CAN IMAGINE--OUR PRAYERS WILL CONTINUE FOR YOU NOW AND FOR ALWAYS.

YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Tuesday, November 7, 2006 2:14 PM CST

I hope that this note finds all of you in peace. Please know that with every day that passes you are still in our hearts and on our minds.
Love, The Brown's <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Monday, November 6, 2006 8:33 PM CST

It was good to see you guys at church yesterday on a beautiful fall morning. I know the healing process will take some time and life will be different, but please know that there are many of us still praying for your peace and understanding. If you need anything at all, do not hesitate to contact us. We are there for you. God bless you.
Sherri Clark, Katie & Audrey <sclark@firstindiana.com>
Trafalgar, IN USA - Monday, November 6, 2006 7:59 AM CST

One minute, one hour, one day at a time.
Sending prayers your way as you are thought of often
Let the raindrops fall on our heads....
Selene <heavenstarlites@aol.com>
York, PA USA - Saturday, November 4, 2006 11:23 PM CST

Dear Special Family,
I just want you to know I have you in special thought and prayer today. God hold you strong today and in the days to come.
Kay Krahling <kkrahing@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Friday, November 3, 2006 4:00 PM CST

Thinking of you today as one holiday has passed and more to come. Remember that Alexa is safe and sound with no pain and enjoying her time in heaven. Hope you had a safe and Happy Halloween.
Jennifer Gibson and Alexis Bay
Franklin, IN Johnson - Wednesday, November 1, 2006 1:04 PM CST

We are continuing to pray for you each and every day.
The McKay's <iluvcandles6@aol.com>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Monday, October 30, 2006 9:23 AM CST

Dear Dana, Chris & Connor~
You continue to be in our nightly bedtime prayers - and still fall on the ring finger prayer of those who are in most need. (Katherine's hand prayer!) We hope you are taking moments to enjoy just living a "plain, old" life day to day. May God and his little pink angel continue to guide you through the smallest of challenges!
With much love and many prayers!
Amy <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Sunday, October 29, 2006 9:18 PM CST

Dear Shank family, There are so many people continuing to pray for you and for your healing. It is hard to believe that a month has passed already since Alexa joined the ranks of angels in heaven. Today I see her in the clear blue sky and the beautiful fall foliage. She is smiling at us at every turn in our lives. I hope and pray that the pain and hurt is tolerable for you, because I am sure that Alexa hurts no more. God bless and keep all of you in His loving care.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Sunday, October 29, 2006 9:31 AM CST

A week...now a month...then a year shall pass...and you shall find your way through the "normalness" of life. Life will find a new way, a different way than you have known for so long. Don't feel guilt in enjoying life's pleasures and joys. God wants you to be happy and Alexa would surely want you to be happy and move on with your lives. Live every day with love, peace, faith, and joy in your hearts! We continue to pray for you and thank you for taking us along with you on your journey of faith. More were touched by it than you will ever know. May God bless and keep you all.
Julie Edwards
Franklin, IN - Saturday, October 28, 2006 7:50 PM CDT

THIS HAS ALWAYS BEEN ONE OF MY FAVORITE POEMS AND HAS BROUGHT ME PEACE. I HOPE ALL OF YOU FIND SOME COMFORT IN THESE WORDS.
The Rose Still Grows Beyond The Wall

Near a shady wall a rose once grew,
Budded and blossomed in God's free light:
Watered and fed by morning dew,
Shedding its sweetness day and night.
As it grew and blossomed fair and tall,
Slowly rising to loftier height,
It came to a crevice in the wall,
Through which there shone a beam of light.
Onward it crept with added strength
With never a thought of fear or pride,
It followed the light through the crevice length,
And unfolded itself on the other side.
The light, the dew, the broadening view
Were found the same as they were before.
And it lost itself in beauties new.
Breathing its fragrance more and more.
Shall claim of death cause us to grieve,
And make our courage faint or fall?
Nay, let us faith and hope receive,
The rose still grows beyond the wall.
Scattering fragrance far and wide,
Just as it did in days of yore.
Just as it did on the other side,
Just as it will forevermore.

By A.L.Frink

YOUR FRIEND IN JESUS
INDIANAPOLIS, IN USA - Tuesday, October 24, 2006 7:59 PM CDT

I just wanted all of you to know that you are thought of often and prayed for daily.
Love, The Brown's <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, In USA - Tuesday, October 24, 2006 3:04 PM CDT

Dear Dana, Chris, & Connor
Praying for all of you.
God Bless,

Kay Krahling <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA 90638 - Tuesday, October 24, 2006 10:54 AM CDT

Dear Chris, Dana, and Connor,
It's time for parent conferences again and I am remembering your first grade conference for Lexi. Not even cancer, chemo, or needles could keep her from achieving!

One of my favorite quotes. . . "Mourn not too long that she is gone, but rather, REJOICE FOREVER that she was."

With much love,
Jan Hall
Jan Hall <hallj@fcsc.k12.in.us>
Franklin, IN US - Monday, October 23, 2006 1:49 PM CDT

dear shank family,
don't worry i am taking care of lexie!I am holding alexa's hand when she crosses the streets of heaven.i am making sure she looks both ways before she crosses the streets.i just want you to know i am looking over her.

love a letter from GOD
i know this for sure, from holly huffine <HOLLYHH@SBCGLOBAL.NET>
Indpls, in UNITED STATES - Saturday, October 21, 2006 11:28 AM CDT

ALEXA,I JUST WANT YOU TO NOW THAT YOU ARE STILL MY ANGEL.I LOVE YOU.I WISH I COULD STILL WITH YOU.

LOVE YOUR FRIED HOLLY
HOLLY HUFFINE <HOLLYHH@SBCGLOBAL.NET>
INPOLIS, IN UNITED STATES - Friday, October 20, 2006 8:38 AM CDT

ALEXA,I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!I HEAR THE BIRDS CHERPING,I SEE THE LOVELY SUNSETS AND I KNOW THAT'S A SIGN OF YOU! IT MAKES ME FELL SO GOOD WHEN I SEE THOSE THINGS BECAUSE I KNOW THAT YOU ARE OK.I MISS YOU.

LOVE YOUR FRIEND HOLLY HUFFINE
HOLLY HUFFINE <HOLLYHH@SBCGLOBAL.NET>
INPOLIS, IN UNITED STATES - Thursday, October 19, 2006 9:30 PM CDT

God Bless You~ She was so strong... she really was an angel.
Brian, Shana, Kalin, Karlie, and Kendra Lucas
Franklin, IN USA - Thursday, October 19, 2006 9:07 AM CDT

You are all in our prayers and thoughts.
May peace be your companion!
Heartfelt,
Randa,Chaney and Vicki Ashley Baurain
vicki ashley baurain <vcrab92@earthlink.net>
franklin, In. u.s.a. - Wednesday, October 18, 2006 2:52 PM CDT

Hi my name is Olivia Basham and I'm a junior at Center Grove High School. My family and I are very sorry for your loss. My uncle Donnie Basham and my father Douglas Basham (from The Workbench)helped set up at one of Alexa's events. It hit both my father and my uncle hard to hear of Alexa's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Olivia Basham
Greenwood, - Wednesday, October 18, 2006 10:01 AM CDT

I am so sorry for your loss. It is veryhard to go through something like this. I wish you and your family the best and she will always be with you. much love.
Erica
- Wednesday, October 18, 2006 9:56 AM CDT

This is beautiful! Try not to cry.
She jumped up as soon as she saw the surgeon come out of the operating room. She said: "How is my little boy? Is he going to be all right? When can I see him?" The surgeon said, "I'm sorry. We did all we could, but your boy didn't make it." Sally said, "Why do little children get cancer? Doesn't God care any more? Where were you, God, when my son needed you?" The surgeon asked, "Would you like some time alone with your son? One of the nurses will be out in a few minutes, before he's transported to the university."> Sally asked the nurse to stay with her while she said good bye to son. She ran her fingers lovingly through his thick red curly hair. "Would you like a lock of his hair?" the nurse asked. Sally nodded yes. The nurse cut a lock of the boy's hair, put it in a plastic bag and handed it to Sally. The mother said, "It was Jimmy's idea to donate his body to the University for Study. He said it might help somebody else. "I said no at first, but Jimmy
said, 'Mom, I won't be using it after I die. Maybe it will help some other little boy spend one more day with his Mom." She went on, "My Jimmy had a heart of gold. Always thinking of someone else. Always wanting to help others if he could." Sally walked out of Children's Mercy Hospital for the last time, after spending most of the last six months there. She put the bag with Jimmy's belongings on the seat beside her in the car. The drive home was difficult. It was even harder to enter the empty house. She carried Jimmy's belongings, and the plastic bag with the lock of his hair to her son's room. She started placing the model cars and other personal things back in his room exactly where he had always kept them. She lay down across his bed and, hugging his pillow, cried herself to sleep. It was around midnight when Sally awoke. Lying beside her on the bed was a folded letter. The
Letter said:
"Dear Mom, I know you're going to miss me; but don't think that I will ever forget you, or stop loving you, just 'cause I'm not around to say "I Love You". I will always love you, Mom, even more with each day. Someday we will see each other again. Until then, if you want to adopt a little boy so you won't be so lonely, that's okay with me. He can have my room and old stuff to play with. But, if you decide to get a girl instead, she probably wouldn't like the same things us boys do. You'll have to buy her dolls and stuff girls like, you know. Don't be sad thinking about me. This really is a neat place. Grandma and Grandpa met me as soon as I got here and showed me around some, but it will
take a long time to see everything. The angels are so cool. I love to watch them fly. And, you know what? Jesus doesn't look like any of his pictures. Yet, when I saw Him, I knew it was Him. Jesus himself took me to see GOD! And guess what, Mom? I got to sit on God's knee
and talk to Him, like I was somebody important.
That's when I told Him that I wanted to write you a letter, to tell you good bye and everything. But I already knew that wasn't allowed. Well, you know what Mom? God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to write you this letter. I think Gabriel is the name of the angel who is going to drop this letter off to you. God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions you asked Him 'Where was He when I needed him?' "God
said He was in the same place with me, as when His son Jesus was on the cross. He was right there, as He always is with all His children. Oh, by the way, Mom, no one else can see what I've written except you. To everyone else this is just a blank piece of paper. Isn't that cool? I have to give God His pen back now. He needs it to write some more names in the Book of Life. Tonight I get to sit at the table with Jesus for supper. I'm sure the food will be great. Oh, I almost forgot to tell you. I don't hurt anymore. The cancer is all gone. I'm glad because I couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't stand to see me hurt so much, either. That's when He sent The Angel of Mercy to come get me. The Angel said I was a Special Delivery! How about that?
Signed with Love from God, Jesus & Me.

Letter from God
- Tuesday, October 17, 2006 9:43 AM CDT

My heart and prayers are with you and your family.
Thank you for sharing your journey and the gift of Alexa with us. She is an angel that has forever changed our region, the world and everyone who knew her even if for a brief moment. I cannot even begin to imagine the void and the pain you are feeling but my heart rests assure that the memories of her will support you in the long journey ahead.
All my love
Paula Freitas, RVP Flyin' High region
Paula Freitas <Litup4lif@aol.com>
Edison, NJ US - Monday, October 16, 2006 3:05 PM CDT

Dear Dana,Chris and Conner,
I went to the benefit concert on Oct.13th. I do not know your family, but I was very moved by the spirit that was in the room that night. I admire your strength and your faith and will continue to keep you in my prayers.

God Bless You,
Dee Edens <edensdd@insightbb.co>
Franklin, In. U.S. - Monday, October 16, 2006 1:45 PM CDT

Live well, laugh often and love much. The three "Ls" that keep me going. Hope they can do the same for you.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Monday, October 16, 2006 1:17 PM CDT

Chris, Dana & Connor,
I would like to start by saying the concert/benefit for Alexa was beautiful and I was overwhelmed with all the love in the room. I never had the opportunity to personally meet Alexa but from reading her journal and hearing all the stories from her family and friends she was just as I imaged an angel would be. What a very special heart and soul she had. Dana, I introduced myself to you at the dinner Friday night, I am Jessica VanVleet's mom and the "trach" baby's (Macy) mamaw. Alexa has been and still is a big inspiration to our family. Alexa met Macy one day and later when shopping thought about the "trach" baby and bought her an outfit. We were touched that even with all she was going through that Alexa was concerned about another special child. Your are so lucky to have spent 10 years with such an ANGEL. Some people can live their whole life and never have the opportunity to be touched by such a wonderful person and family and I am glad that we have had that opportunity. Always remember all the fun times you had with your little princess and know that you will see her again in the heavens above. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family.
Lisa VanVleet <lisa.vanvleet@ctt.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Monday, October 16, 2006 10:22 AM CDT

Dana, thank you for allowing us to share in the celebration of Alexa's life Friday night. You have a beautiful family, and your strength and courage are amazing. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Judy (Noble) Cloud <judycloud@aol.com>
Whiteland, IN - Monday, October 16, 2006 8:03 AM CDT

Chris and Dana,
Alexa was and always will be my bestfriend. I will always remember her and keep a special place in my heart for her.
Love you guys,
Katie
Katie Smith <4quads@aol.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Sunday, October 15, 2006 6:06 PM CDT

dear shank family, i know you have been trying to work things out . well i keep alexa in my prayers . for a long time you probably didi not know that i nkew her. she really did not get to know me . well i alsio keep the family in praters i love you guys a lot and i will keep praying for you guys through this tough time . love in prayers marissa rees
marissa rees <nailsbyemily@yahoo.com>
franklin, I.N. USA - Sunday, October 15, 2006 12:59 AM CDT

Dear Shank Family,
I remember meeting Alexa one evening for a PartyLite meeting at your house. I was in awe. She seemed like a regular kid, but I knew she was special. She had a glow about her then. I'll always believe she has been an angel all along. As I have followed her journey through this illness, I have grown up a little. I have learned to be a better parent and a better wife. I have become a better friend and a better daughter. I have prayed so much more in the last 3 years since hearing of Alexa than I have in my whole life. Alexa has brought that out of me. My Faith in God has become stronger because I know that He will only give us as much as we can handle.
I did not feel I should attend the service for two reasons. One was that I didn't know if anyone could attend, and two because it happend to be on my birthday. I came Monday evening, I hugged you Dana, I cried tears of joy and sadness for your family. I saw the beautiful picture montage and laughed at the funny ones and shed tears for the ones that were sad. I saw your princess lying in that beautiful display of flowers and memories. She was glowing. I saw her spirit in everthing around her.

I am know that so many people will be so sorry for your loss. I am too. But I am much happier for the life you have shared with that beautiful girl, and relieved that the stress and heartache of seeing your princess in pain is finaly over. You are so lucky to have shared 10 years with your daughter. I know Alexa is watching over everyone who has ever cared about her and her family. I would like to think of her as an angel on my side too. She will always be smiling in my heart. God has taken her in and given her real wings. I know she is more than beautiful. She is a Princess in God's house now. The highest honor anyone could be given.

May God bless and keep you in His hands. For He holds Alexa up. She will shine on all of us until one day we celebrate together in Heaven.

My love and prayers will continue for Alexa will never be forgotten. She will be a memory that each of us will hold close. Thank you for your inspiration and for giving life to Alexa. She has made me a better person too.
Angela M. Burke & Family <jarburke@earthlink.net>
Bargersville, IN Johnson - Sunday, October 15, 2006 10:24 AM CDT

Dear Shank Family,
You do not know us. But we attend church with Stan and his family. Your Princess Alexa and your family has been an inspiration to our family. We know that she is in a much better place and was singing and dancing her little heart out last night at her concern. Your family will continue to be in our prayers.
Dear Alexa and troops we know that your daughter is safe and she is in a new home and with God. (This is from 7 year old Justin)
The Herring Family (Christie, Jason, Torie, Dakota, Justin, Cheyenne) <christie4kidz@yahoo.com>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Saturday, October 14, 2006 8:20 PM CDT

Chris,Dana & Connor, We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for sharing Lexi with us just one more time at the benefit Friday night and with sooooo many people. She is your special little angel and we know that she is loved and thought of so many times each and every day. She will never be far from our thoughts and we know she will be watching over you with her cute little smile and lots & lots of love. Hang in there, we love you and we're never far away. Aunt Jean
Jean & Ernie Todd <jeanftodd@sbcglobal.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Saturday, October 14, 2006 8:31 AM CDT

My heartfelt sorrow goes to you and your family at this time. Thank you for sharing Alexa and your story with all of us at the 2004 Partylite Conference. What an impact she made to both my husband and myself. We will never hear "Raindrops Keep Falling On My Head" without thinking of her and her wonderful little smile. I have lost two siblings to cancer so I understand some of what you are going through and I hope that God will keep you safe and guide you through these difficult times. God Bless You all.
Brenda McGlasson <trmnadr@msn.com>
Redlands, CA USA - Friday, October 13, 2006 8:47 PM CDT

We hope this evening is all that it was meant to be and more. Thinking of you often with heart and mind.
Love, Steve, Kerri, Taylor and Ashtyn <stephen.brown1@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN USA - Friday, October 13, 2006 5:29 PM CDT

We all had the honor of meeting Alexa at Partylites National Conference in 2004.She inspired us all. Everytime I see a pink wig I think of her beautiful face.God has an amazing little angel with him. Everytime the sun shines we all will think of her. You all are in our prayers.

Teri Rossi and the Rglowing Unit <Rglowing@comcast.net>
Buffalo Grove, Il USA - Friday, October 13, 2006 1:40 PM CDT

May God Bless you & keep in your time of needs.. My heart goes out to you and your family...
Veronica Holland-Gillett <ibveronicaveronica@sbcglobal.net>
Pasadena , CA LA - Friday, October 13, 2006 10:59 AM CDT

I think Alexa was up bright and early this morning playing in the clouds painting them a beautiful pink color! As I was running this morning at practice I looked up at the sky at the end of my workout and the color of the clouds caught my eye, what a beautiful pink the sky was! I commented to one of my fellow teammates, "Alexa must be busy decorating!!!" I continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers!
Jessica VanVleet <vanvleet@marian.edu>
Franklin, IN - Thursday, October 12, 2006 5:20 PM CDT

I know your pain and sorrow is deep, but I do know that time will begin to lessen your pain and sorrow. I also know that you will never forget Alexa--she will be forever in your heart and mind. Keep watching for her "signs" in your life. She will be there everyday watching over you. She will never leave you. I pray for acceptance and for joy for all of you for having had Alexa in your midst. God sends His Angels to bring messages of Hope and Promise. He sent Alexa to join the world in prayer. I will pray for you always. God is now holding all of you in His arms--feel His love and compassion.

Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Thursday, October 12, 2006 12:49 AM CDT

We will all miss you alexa..!
Cieara Fitzpatrick <Countrygirl107@example.com>
Franklin, IN America - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 9:41 PM CDT

Dear Shanks, it is always hardest for those left behind because we miss our loved ones so very much. As you know Alexa is with the angles as she herself has been one. Please know that my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family as you begin the next part of lifes journey.
Sharon Krolik, PartyLite <candlady@comcast.net>
Holly, MI USA - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 5:21 PM CDT

Dear Shanks,
As you enter a more private time in your lives, please know that we will continue to keep our prayers with your family. We came into this journey late, having only begun our own in July. We read each of your postings and found inspiration in every word. As we have since first being introduced to her, we will keep Alexa in our thoughts, and honor and remember her on each of her birthdays - Tyler's is on the 22nd of Feb. Friends in Christ,
the Gennekens ../visit/tylergenneken
Center Grove, - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 10:59 AM CDT

Dana, Chris & Connor~I have started to type a message a couple different times but could never finish it, I don't know if I'm saying the right thing, but then I started really thinking, what IS the right thing to say, so I'm just going to say what I feel, from my heart. Alexa's cellebration was amazing. That beautiful angel lying there with the light from the morning sun casting down through the stained glass window on her was just another sign from Lexi, like the pink sky that has been appearing so often. I often catch myself humming or singing "I Hope You Dance" and thinking of Lexi, dancing in the clouds, in her white dress, and there is no doubt in my mind, and my heart, that she is doing exactly that, dancing, with laughter on her lips, in her eyes and in her heart. We are all here as gifts from God, He let us borrow Lexi for 10 1/2 wonderful years, and like Stan said at the cellebration, Lexi did more in that short period, than most people do in 80 years, and she touched and impacted thousands of lives in her short but amazing journey, what an amazing young lady she was! I can only hope that I can take a little bit of what Lexi has taught me, and put it to use in my day to day life, to live life like Lexi would, to treat others like Lexi would, to see things like Lexi would. THANK YOU, for coming into my life almost 10 years ago Dana, and for becoming the other half of the "dynamic duo", and for letting me watch Alexa grow from a baby, into such a beautiful princess, and then get her wings and fly, she IS truely a beautiful soul and an angel. I whispered the same thing to all 3 of you before I left the cellebration, I hope you think of that each day and remember to do it. I love you guys and I'll see you soon.
Dawn Williams <Jstdawning@aol.com>
Noblesville, IN USA - Wednesday, October 11, 2006 9:10 AM CDT

Our prayers are forever with you and your family. Princess Alexa is now enjoying her pain free life in heaven with Jesus. She's one of the most prettiest angels up there with Him! Our hearts are with you. Continue to keep your faith and stay strong.
Riley Room Service Team <qt_0901@yahoo.com>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Tuesday, October 10, 2006 7:17 PM CDT

I went to Gymnastics With Heart with Alexa, I remember Susan telling us all the horrible news! I pray for you andi know Alexa is watching you guys close keeping you together! Your pain is deep and i will pray for you and my htoughts are with you! You (shank family) have been trhough so much!! i wish you all the best and God Bless you!
sarah Alspach <Salspach21@aol.com>
- Monday, October 9, 2006 9:15 PM CDT

Dear Shank Family,
Words can not express the depth of my grief I feel for you and your earthly loss of Alexa. Nor can words express the excitment I feel for Alexa and her new life in Heaven. I pray you will be able to focus on visualizing Alexa in her heavenly home, a home without pain or sadness. We are so bound by our earthly life that the pain of sadness prevails in the loss of our loved ones. How comforting and wonderful it is to know Alexa is not sad for leaving her earthly home and family for we are assured through God's Word there is no sadness in heaven, only joy. My prayers will continue for all of you as eventually your tears of sadness will turn into tears of joy. Recall all the fun and wonderful times with Alexa not with sadness of missing her but rather with joy of having been able to share these times together. Thank you for sharing your lives with all of us. I shall miss walking the daily journey with you but please know, you are being upheld in prayer daily by thousands. Thank you for your courage and your faith and may God bless you with even greater courage and faith as you walk through the new paths God has planned for you. God Bless you all.
Oh by the way, when I went to get a ballon to release during the time of Alexa's service, I picked a pink one as I shall never see or think of pink without thinking of Alexa. I know her service must have been a beautiful tribute to her life and all of your faith. I am so thankful your family came into my life.
Kay Krahling <kkrahling@verizon.net>
La Mirada, CA - Monday, October 9, 2006 6:10 PM CDT

Dana & Chris~
I began reading "Cure for the Common Life" by Max Lucado last night during my prayer time. The passage beginning Chapter One reminded me of your family and it stuck with me..."Each person is given something to do that shows who God is." 1 Corinthians 12:7 - What a beautiful thought - You have shown literally thousands of people WHO God is!!!
Love and peace as you continue your journey,
Amy Board <overboard1@comcast.net>
Indianapolis, IN - Monday, October 9, 2006 3:35 PM CDT

Dearest Shank Family -
May your journey be peaceful and full of love. You will be in our hearts and on our minds.
We Love You.
Deb, Terry, Ashley & Brittney
Deb <dtaylor@brickyard.com>
- Monday, October 9, 2006 1:20 PM CDT

Dana -
Just this past Saturday Sydney and I talked about the pink sunset, and I told her that was a sign from Lexi! Laura just called and said she just talked to you. While I am sure the pain will never go away, it sounds like you are doing pretty good and for that I am thankful! I will keep praying for you everyday! And sometime soon, I would love to get together with you, Laura, and some of the other girls. Take care for now!
Love - Beth
Beth Meyer <jbsmeyer@insightbb.com>
Greenwood, IN USA - Monday, October 9, 2006 9:54 AM CDT

Some people come into our lives and stay forever; others are here for a brief time, but remain with us in spirit and in our hearts forever. Alexa will never be forgotten. Our prayers and those of many others will continue for all of you as you heal. There are stills thousands of people praying for you.
Your friend in Jesus
Indianapolis, IN USA - Sunday, October 8, 2006 9:29 PM CDT

Our prayers for healing for Alexa will be directed toward healing for her family. Please know that a beautiful dawn comes after the darkest of nights. Even though we never met Alexa she is our little hero.

May God continue to be with you as you journey through this very difficult time.
Mike and Betty Priest (Old Bethel UMC) <mpriest8@aol.com>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Saturday, October 7, 2006 3:03 PM CDT

The celebration for Alexa was the most beautiful and inspiring service that I have ever experienced. The strength and love of your family in light of the past 4 years is awe inspiring. Although the time of separation seems so long for each of us, to Alexa in heaven it is as only afew moments. My condolences to your family
Max Lewis
Franklin, In - Friday, October 6, 2006 10:19 PM CDT

Alexa's story has touched me so much. I was so sorry to hear of her passing. The article in the Franklin paper this last week was so inspiring. My thoughts are with all of your family.
Linda M
Franklin, In - Friday, October 6, 2006 10:11 PM CDT

We heard of Alexa through friends of us at Riley. Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time. May your family know the peace that Alexa has now. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
A friend from Riley
Indianapolis, In - Friday, October 6, 2006 10:02 PM CDT

Lexi Thank you for going to the prom (dance) with me! I will miss you every day. I am glad that I will see you again in heaven some day! Love, Ian.
Dana, Chris and Connor thank you for letting me have Lexi in my life, she meant alot to me!
Ian Cayce <cayce222222@aol.com>
New Palestine, In U.S.A. - Friday, October 6, 2006 7:20 PM CDT

Dana, Chris & Connor~
Thank you so much for sharing the Celebration of Alexa's Life with all of us. What a beautiful service! You will continue to be in my daily prayers and please know that we are here for whatever needs you may have.
Much love, Amy
Amy Board
Indianapolis, IN - Friday, October 6, 2006 3:51 PM CDT

hello, my name is rachel sutton. my daughter lincoln grace is also in heaven. it has been 5 months for us and i won't lie it hurts more everyday. i am so sorry that you are going through this. lincoln and alexa share something, they both went to the same hospital. lincoln went there her entire three years of life. you can read more about lincoln at lincoln-grace.memory-of.com. you can also email me there.
god bless you all.
rachel
rachel sutton~ lincoln's mommy <rachel-fern@comcast.net>
peru, in usa - Friday, October 6, 2006 12:28 AM CDT

I was at the Partylite Conference when your precious angel blessed us all. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time and THANK YOU for sharing your special gift with all of us.
Laura Case <wickl2@yahoo.com>
Upland, Ca. USA - Friday, October 6, 2006 10:41 AM CDT

One of Alexa's and Kayla's goals was to work together to find a cure for cancer. I told Kayla that now Alexa can go talk to Jesus about helping Kayla work towards that goal with Alexa by her side. You are a truly amazing family that exhibits nothing less than what God wants for all of us. I am so happy that my daughter got a chance to love your daughter and share in some of the same activities at school. Thank you for your amazing faith, kindness, love, and purpose. I am praying for you every day and thanking God that we did get the chance to know you.
Cindy Daniels/ Kayla <cindyfirststeps@yahoo.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 9:07 PM CDT

Your Little Angel has touched my heart and even though I am so far away know that I send my love to the whole family.I found out about your sweet little girl on BOB and just had to send this message you are all in my thoughts.
Kaye Thorpe <kayethorpe@aapt.net.au>
Ranelagh, Tas Australia - Thursday, October 5, 2006 8:57 PM CDT

My Princess Lexi, I love you hunnie! I'm sure you're the most beautiful angel in Heaven. I'll see you soon. "But between now and then, until I see you again, I'll be loving you. Love, Me" Aunt Dana, Uncle Chris, and Connor, I love you with all my heart! I'm thinking of you, and I can't wait to see you again! Connor, I'll be sure to bring you some Gobstoppers or Twizzlers! I love you!
Jena Shepler <jashepler@bsu.edu>
New Palestine, IN United States - Thursday, October 5, 2006 7:15 PM CDT

I got the privilege of watching Alexa dance for us at Conference as well, and am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that she has touched the lives of so many people! thank you for sharing that precious moment with all of us, and know your PL family is with you in your time of sorrow.
Terra Del Drago <terrathecandlelady@comcast.net>
Healdsburg, ca USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 6:35 PM CDT

Alexa is an Angel now, With her own set of wings. And I'm sure right now she's looking down on us. She was so beautiful, and so radient. And Sweet to everyone she knew. She has touched so many lives and help others along the way.
God bless Alexa in Heaven; and her family on Earth, and someday you'll all meet again, I know it. I pray for your family everynight when I go to sleep. She'll be missed and NEVER EVER forgotten.
Lindsay Lambert - Age: 13 <Flambert1@aol.com>
Franklin, Indiana United States - Thursday, October 5, 2006 6:30 PM CDT

Dana and family. I am so sorry to hear about Alexa. Life is so precious and she was the most precious of all. Thank you for allowing her to touch my life and the lives of so many. Be strong. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Billy Flanigan
Orlando, FL USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 12:47 AM CDT

Good night sweet Alexa...I love you and I'll see you soon, and don't worry, I'll bring the biscuits and gravy...Give Mamaw Judy a big hug and kiss for me...My love to you always,

Uncle Stan <frfghtr213b@aol.com>
- Thursday, October 5, 2006 10:52 AM CDT

I have heard of your sweet daughter and am so sad to hear what all of you have had to endure. I will keep you in our prayers.
The Underwoods
- Thursday, October 5, 2006 8:58 AM CDT

Words can not express our sincere sympathy to you in the passing of Alexa. When words are not enough, we believe prayer is. So, please know that our prayers are with your whole family!

We had the pleasure of meeting you last year at Riley when our 18 year old daughter, BreAnne, was there for treatment of her leukemia. What a breath of fresh air you both were as you walked the hallways, passing out gifts to all the kids in the unit!

Although the grief of not having Alexa with you is overwhelming, what a time to CELEBRATE her wonderful life and the fact that she is dancing without pain!

May God hold you closely in His arms and may you take comfort in the fact that one day, you will be reunited with your sweet princess!

In Christ's Love,
Keith, Dawn & BreAnne Miller
Dawn Miller <klmiller@ctlnet.com>
Huntington, IN USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 7:57 AM CDT

What a beautiful spirt your daughter had! I will always remember her dancing at National conference- She was so proud and her smile will forever be remebered! Your family is in our thoughts and prayers!
Kym Herrman
Corona, Ca USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 1:47 AM CDT

You do not know me, But I know your heartbreak. I found your daughter's story through a grief support group Silentgrief.com Someone there posted a link to here. I must tell you that You daughter is so beautiful. She has a radience about her that you just know is heavenly. She is an angel in heaven as she was on Earth. I am sure my little Christopher is showing her how to hug on clouds. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers, and that if you need to talk to anyone, please email me any time. I know that God needed Alexa, as he needs you too. I do believe that with all my heart, as I believe it for my own son and family. Take care, and So many hugs and thoughts to you and your family.
Danielle Herrman
DS Christopher J.Herrman 4-30-02 -6-26-05 http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/c/christopherjh/
DD Samantha K. Herrman
Danielle Herrman <Jasmnslamp@earthlink.net>
Vancleave, MS USA - Thursday, October 5, 2006 0:03 AM CDT

Our hearts and minds are with you during this difficult time. Please know that all of the rollergirls who skated with Alexa have her and your family in their thoughts.
Bleeding Heartland Rollergirls (formerly the Bloomington half of Crossroads Roller Derby)
Bloomington, IN USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 11:53 PM CDT

��where God gets angels��

Somewhere tonight a little girl lies sleeping in her bed, with her parents just nearby. The little girl is tired, her body drained of strength, but her beauty radiates from her. At her age, she is like a spring morning, filled with promise, of things wondrous and unseen. And, although she is just beginning to blossom, a beautiful rose, she has begun to wither. She has been sick for nearly half of her short life, and while she is fighter she is in a battle she cannot win.

As her mommy and daddy watch her, they pray she is dreaming the dreams little girls should dream; of fields of flowers, of puppy dogs and kittens, of dancing and playing, of being a princess. Things she has loved, and things she will never know. They pray that she is not thinking of the last few years or months, of fighting a monster she can neither see nor understand, of taking pills and shots with names that she cannot pronounce. Terrible things a child should never know.

In her few years she has been loved by many, and she has touched countless more. Her smile has warmed the heart of all those who have seen her, and she has been an inspiration to all that have heard her story. She is all things sweet and cherished. Throughout all the sickness and pain, she has never asked �why?� She is innocent and brave, and undeserving of this fate.

As her breathes begin to falter, and the light that is the princess begins to fade, her mommy and daddy hold each other a little tighter, knowing the pain will soon be gone, but so too will their little girl. And as the light goes out, they shed more tears to join the countless ones they have shed before.

�Daddy, is that where God gets angels from?�, the little boys asks. �Yes, son. That is where God gets his angels, from princesses like that little girl.� �Will she be an angel daddy?� Holding his son just a little tighter, the father sighs, �She already is son, she already is.�

a friend in Christ
- Wednesday, October 4, 2006 10:18 PM CDT

May God bless you at this sorrowful time. Alexa and her story witnessed to a lot of people. As a mother myself I can only imagine the grief. She is God's special little angel now and what a better place that makes heaven now.
Peace be with you and yours,
Manubay Family
Manubay Family <cilladog@prodigy.net>
Indianapolis, IN USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 7:42 PM CDT

Have you ever had one of those moments that takes your breath away? You see something so beautiful, and so peaceful, there are no words to describe? My cousin wrote the other day about the pink sky at sunrise. Yesterday as I was driving over the bridge near Province Park, toward the police station, I looked over just seconds after all the pink balloons were released. It was a sight I will not soon forget. The sky was dotted with pink balloons, there was a green rolling hill, lots of trees, and a white casket surrounded by people whose lives were so deeply touched by this beautiful child.

Chris and Dana - your devotion to God, to Connor, and to each other is truly inspiring. I hope you will continue to keep up the journal. Our caring and concern for you and your family does not end with Lexi's passing.
Lori Blackwell-Coffin <loricoffin@insightbb.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 6:39 PM CDT

Dear Dana,Chris,and Connor,
Hi,you probualy have no idea who i am.My name is shelby Yancey and i am best friends with your relitive Lindsay Fisher.When Lindsay told me the story about the loss of her cousin Alexa it touched me.I felt so bad and just wanted to let your family know that.At my church a few days ago i put down a petition so my church and I prayed for Alexa.

My prayers are with you,
Shelby Yancey
Shelby Yancey <ShelbyGal03@aol.com>
West Laffayette, IN, United States - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 4:22 PM CDT

Hi,you probualy have no idea who i am.My name is shelby Yancey and i am best friends with your relitive Lindsay Fisher.When Lindsay told me the story about the loss of her cousin Alexa it touched me.I felt so bad and just wanted to let your family know that.At my church a few days ago i put down a petition so my church and I prayed for Alexa.

My prayers are with you,
Shelby Yancey
Shelby Yancey <ShelbyGal03@aol.com>
West Laffayette, IN, United States - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 4:20 PM CDT

Lexie was a beautiful young lady (inside and out). She will be greatly missed. Our prayers are with you.
Cynthia Palmer <cynthiapalmer@insightbb.com>
Fishers, IN USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 1:49 PM CDT

Dana, Chris and Conner,
I struggled to find the right words to convey my sorrow on Monday at church. I know this is deeper than I
can imagine but I also know the promises of our Lord God
Almighty. Rev21:3 I heard a loud shout from the throne, saying, "Look, the home of God is now among his people! He will live with them, and they will be his people. God himself will be with them. He will remove all of their sorrows, and there will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. For the old world and it's evils are gone forever. Praise God for the gift of sweet Alexa. Your reunion will be soon. Love- Michele Ruhl-Forth
Michele Forth <toddf4000@sbcglobal.net>
Noblesville, In US - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 1:26 PM CDT

Dear Chris, Dana, and Connor...I doubt that you remember me Chris. I went to school with you and have followed your little girls' journey for all these years. I cannot tell you how sorry I am for what you must be going through. Please know my thoughts and prayers are so with you all...
Kay (Conner)Elmore <nursemommy0728@yahoo.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 12:30 AM CDT

I also saw Alexa perform at the national Partylite conference where she performed "Raindrops Keep Falling on My Head". I cried and smiled trough the entire performance! I bet it would be staggering to know just how many tears of joy and smiles she brought to this world! Im sure she will do the same with her Lord in Heaven!
Alexa - Your lovely
Racheal Wood <candlechick76@cox.net>
Lakeside, CA 92040 - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 12:02 AM CDT

I pray for your continued strength and faith in Jesus Christ. I saw her at conference and she IS truly an Angel.
Desiree Driver <mycandlelady@hotmail.com>
Schertz, TX USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 11:53 AM CDT

I was so sad to hear about your loss. My prayers and thoughts go to your family. I heard Alexa's story this past July at our PartyLite Conference in St. Louis. She is truly an inspiration to many people.
Liz Esparza <lizzy41373@hotmail.com>
Corona, CA United States - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 11:33 AM CDT

Hello. I want you to know that I am truly sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Renee' Jones <goinkrazy@insightbb.com>
Richmond, IN - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 9:56 AM CDT

Dana, Chris and Connor - The service yesterday was truly a celebration of Life of your beautiful Alexa and Uncle Stan verbalized so much of what Alexi was to all of us. She is an angel who has blessed our lives for 10 years and now is watching over us as she shares her joy with those in heaven. There is a previous entry referring to the Stars in the evening sky as openings from our loved ones sharing light..I too, will be looking for the newest, brighest pink glow Star in the sky, it will be Lexi's Star! Our prayers are continue to be with all of you.
Starr, Neysa, Brandon and McKenzie Peterson <sptimeless@aol.com>
Avon, IN 46123 - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 9:24 AM CDT

All of my love... It was beautiful just the way Lexi was!
Lindsay Dunkle <nursekitycat@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, October 4, 2006 8:59 AM CDT

I want you to know my prayers are with your angel and your family. I am so sorry for your loss
Frances <btyboop99@yahoo.com>
Coolidge, az usa - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 8:32 AM CDT

Shank Family
I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry I could not be at the service. I also lost my son 5 years ago and it just brings up too much emotion.The good thing is that you will cherish all those good times too and know you did all you could. Friend of your mother.
Judy Elkins <gejuel@sbcglobal.net>
Greenwood, IN USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 7:43 AM CDT

Alexa and the family are in my thoughts and prayers. I loved seeing her dance at our Partylite 2004 National Conference. She is awesome and she will always live on in our hearts!!

God Bless!!
M Williams <climbingtothetop@hotmail.com>
Tampa, FL USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 7:28 AM CDT

To know Alexa is to love Alexa. From the first day Alexa walked into my kindergarten classroom, I was charmed by her bubbly personality and her beautiful smile.
She has entertained me, amazed me, and won my heart entirely over the last four years. Thank you so much for letting me be a part of her life. Alexa, so bright, inquisitive, and wise beyond her years, will always have a special place in my heart.
You made everyday life a celebration and I have learned so much from all of you. What a wonderful little girl, and what a wonderful family!
God Bless You All!
You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Mrs. D.

Shari Jo Dransfield <Sdrano2@cs.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 7:09 AM CDT

Shank family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our heart and prayers.

Cassie Osborne
Cassie Osborne <cassieosborne@sbcglobal.net>
Greenwood, In - Wednesday, October 4, 2006 1:15 AM CDT

Shanks- I was so sorry to hear about the loss. You have been through so much. I pray that all of you, including Lexi, find peace within yourselves. You are all amazing. Life is a blessing, and Lexi took that blessing and ran with it.
God Bless!!!

Katherine <k81992@aim.com>
Franklin, IN USA - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 6:38 PM CDT

SLOW DANCE
Have you ever watched kids
On a merry-go-round?
Or listened to the rain
Slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Do you run through each day
On the fly?
When you ask How are you?
Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done
Do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
Running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow?
And in your haste,
Not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
Cause you never had time
To call and say,"Hi"
You'd better slow down.
Don't dance so fast.
Time is short.
The music won't last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away.
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over

I hope we all have time to hear the music as Alexa did!!!!

Phillip, Sonia, Megan Diveto <sdiveto@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, October 3, 2006 6:37 PM CDT

Shank Family,
Im so sorry for the loss of you adorable daughter. In case you are wondering im lindsay fisher's best friend. words cant explain how sorry i am for you! when lindsay first called me and told me we sat there and we both cryed.i hope your family knows that everyone in our school prays for alexa. Im so sorry.
Cara Koning, age 12

Cara <luv2shop5576@aol.com>
West Lafayette, IN USA - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 3:50 PM CDT

Our bodies may pass into another life and our voices may no longer sing,
But it is certain that our sonet will be heard in the flutter of Angel wings.
God Bless you all!
Tammy Diveto (Aunt of Phillip, Sonia, and Megan Diveto <Piper12us@yahoo.com>
Carbon Hill, AL - Tuesday, October 3, 2006 1:17 PM CDT

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