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So sorry for your loss. your memorial bench is beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with us. God Bless

Joyce <roy12270@bellsouth.net>
Mississippi usa - Sunday, December 24, 2006 11:33 AM CST

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To Ashley's family,
I'm very sorry for your loss. I'm writing from Turkey and your site has really touched my heart. Thanks for sharing.
Serdar Gozutok <santarita1973@hotmail.com>
Ankara, Turkey - Friday, December 15, 2006 7:06 AM CST

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Dear Family of Angel Ashley, First I want to tell you the memorial bench is so beautiful!!! I love it. Secondly please know you all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I know my Angel, Helen, is looking after Ashley as she so loves children. I'm here for you anytime you need me. Ashley was a beautiful child in life and is a beautiful Angel in Heaven.
Raye (from catchanangelgriefsupport <frsthrly@greenepa.net>
Rogersville, PA USA - Sunday, December 3, 2006 1:50 PM CST

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Ashley, You have a wonderful family. So caring and kind. Now my husband is up there with you. Please take care of him.. love Debbie caccioppo
debbie caccioppo <waitress691@excite.com>
Chicago, il cook - Thursday, June 8, 2006 10:10 AM CDT

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Norine I wanted to come by to let you know that I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.

love and prayers,


Debbie and the Dream team <debbie@bridgeofdreams.org>
VA USA - Sunday, May 14, 2006 1:17 AM CDT

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I know the feeling of losing a child at a young age. I lost my first-born son, James Patrick DiFiglio due to a car accident in June 1980 when he was only six. I still miss him alot but I do have three other boys all younger than James. They cannot replace James but having them reminds me of James. We both shares the same feelings. May God bless you.
Anita Butler (DiFiglio) <anitabutlerjw@yahoo.com>
Lisle, IL USA - Friday, May 12, 2006 10:57 AM CDT

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Norine, I am going to light a candle in Ashley's memory on her 8th Birthday in Heaven. she's so adorable & she's blowing kisses down from Heaven to you. I am always here if you need me. God Bless with lots of {{ Love & Hugs }} Love Trish { Jamie & Robbie's mom }
Trish Gillis <mountain2342@sbcglbal.net>
Chicago, IL. U.S.A. - Friday, April 21, 2006 1:00 PM CDT

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Al and Andrea do you know how so very special you are,your mommie always talks about what wonderful children she has,and how so very helpful you both are to her.Mommie talks of what sweet Blessings you both are to her,I understand how lonely it must be for all of you without Angel Ashley here,but know that Angel Ashley is everywhere you are,Ashleys love will always be there.
Loving You All,as You celebrate Ashleys Angel Day.
Eunice
Eunice <unish@shaw.ca>
Chilliwack, B.C Canada - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 10:14 AM CDT

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Al and Andrea,

I wanted to send you a note to let you know that you are both very special little children. I know it must be very hard for you to be without your sweet sister Ashley, but just remember that she is always in your hearts and you take her with you wherever you go. I know how much your Mom loves you and how proud she is of the two of you, because she talks about you all the time. God bless you, sweet little ones, and never forget how special you both are and how much you are loved.

Norine, I am thinking of you and your family as Ashley's Heavenly birthday approaches. May God bring peace and comfort to your hearts and may this day be filled with all the beautiful memories that Ashley has brought to your lives. God bless. Love, Judi, Andrew's Mom



Judi Fisher <purplelady3@verizon.net>
Sea Isle City, NJ USA - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 6:26 AM CDT

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Norine, Please know that i am thinking about you and your two precious children, Al and Andrea this week.....Al and Andrea, you are very special to your mother and are in her heart and she loves you very much.....She loves Ashley also but Ashley is in Heaven with Jesus and you two are there to help take care of your mom and she to take care of you...don't ever think that you are not special because you are....we all love you
shirley baer <laurie4ever@gmail.com>
santa fe, texas usa - Wednesday, April 19, 2006 0:06 AM CDT

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God knew that Ashley as well as you ( her family) couldn't take the pain anymore, so he set her free. You WILL see Ashley again, in the meantime embrace the fact that she is all around you, the gentle breezes, the rain, the sun, in your childrens' eyes, their voices and little quirks, but most importantly in your hearts. GOD bless andtake care of you all.
Toni R.
Gulfport, Fl U.S.A - Monday, April 17, 2006 6:45 PM CDT

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What an absolutely gorgeous tribute to such a sweet, little *Angel*. It looks fantastic! I can't believe this is the first time I'm seeing this.

*Ashley*

So you're a Harley girl, huh? Me too! My Dad always had a Harley when I was growing up and I absolutely loved going for rides on it with him. Now I'm with Jim and he has a Harley too. Sammi isn't too crazy about it, but I've always loved Harley's. From now on you will be on my mind whenever I hear a Harley go by.

Sending lots and lots of BIG "Irish" hugs and MUCH love your way!!!


Shannon, Jim & Our Little Leprechaun <humphity@gmail.com>
Always Remembering *Ashley* - Friday, March 17, 2006 9:45 AM CST

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I just had to write something, I just don´t know what.
I have been reading some poems and stuff that was made for Ashley,and it´s not until now, when I´m back home that I can relate to all the feelings that swirled aroung inside me wen I was with you for my year in the United States.
Now I can really understand what you guys have been going through, and Big Al, Andrea, Little Al and Norine, you have heard it before, but you are all so strong going through a thing like this.
I will lit a candle for Ashley on her birthday, I just wish I would have had the pleasure to meet her.
I´m thinking of you all!

Love / Maria
Maria Karlsson <maria_usa@hotmail.com>
Västervik, Småland Sweden - Tuesday, March 14, 2006 1:52 AM CST

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Crystal Copeland mommy to Angel Ray-Anne (www.caringbridge.org/ca/rayanne) <crystal2175@yahoo.com>
Portland, OR USA - Tuesday, February 14, 2006 11:05 AM CST

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A LETTER FROM
HEAVEN




"To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.



Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every
morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."



"It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly, you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."



God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do,
and foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you... in the middle of the night.


When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years,
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.



I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.





There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too....
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.



If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night... "My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented.... that my life has been wothwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.



So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in you footsteps only half a step behind.



And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.... you're coming here to me.

guardian angel <angegardienangegardien@hotmail.com>
www.caringbridge.org/visit/kaitlyns, lebanon - Tuesday, January 3, 2006 2:45 PM CST

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I just wanted to leave you a little note and wish you a peaceful and happy 2006. Kody sent me to you:-) Your little girl stole his heart...what a doll-baby! I truly hope the new year brings a lot of happiness to you.
shelle <hpechik@aol.com>
Clearwater, FL usa - Sunday, January 1, 2006 1:34 AM CST

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Oh Norine.. the web pages for Ashley are so beautiful!!!
I am so so very sorry Ashley earned her wings so young.
I do pray that you will find peace and comfort in time.
I loved the bench for Ashley too. If I had known you sooner I would have taken Ashley for a ride on my Harley too. God bless you and yours
Raye (from catchanangelgriefsupport <frsthrly@greenepa.net>
Rogersville, Pa USA - Sunday, November 20, 2005 9:12 AM CST

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Dear Norine, and Al and Andrea,

This is so beautiful. What a peaceful place to sit and remember your precious daughter and sister.

Al and Andrea, I know your mom and dad are so very proud of you. It sounds like you had a wonderful summer and a little bird told me you are doing well in school. I know Ashley is smiling down on you.

May God bless your family and fill your lives with blessings and joy.
Love and hugs
Judy
Catch An Angel ~ Jen's Site of Love And Hope
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, November 19, 2005 10:05 AM CST

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Norine,

I just found your beautiful memorial to Ashley in PEACE. I am so very sorry for your loss of this beautiful and precious little girl. How your arms must ache to hold her! May God bless you with comfort and strength each day, and may He send you always the sweet and precious memories of your beautiful little girl.

Love and hugs,
Saralyn










Saralyn Smith <saralyn@cox.net>
Dodge City, KS USA - Friday, November 11, 2005 10:36 AM CST

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Norine,
I really Loved the song Precious child. it brought tears to my eyes. you do have a very precious child & she's so adorable.
Jamie & Robbie are holding Ashley. they loved all other children. May God keep on Blessing us.
Love & Hugs, Trish (Jamie & Robbie's Mom)
Trish Gillis <mountain2342@sbcglobal.net>
Chicago, IL. U.S.A. - Friday, July 22, 2005 0:23 AM CDT

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Norine just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday and wanted to pay your angel a visit. I know it is going to be difficult on you for your birthday not having your Angel here, but just remember we are here for you to lean on us during this time. Hugs to you as your angel will be right there beside you. Love Tammy & Angel Tyler





Tammy <reesecup32003@yahoo.com>
Tampa, Fl USA - Monday, May 30, 2005 1:58 AM CDT

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Your mother's birthday is tomorrow and I just wanted to visit her angel's site and read about you and look at the beautiful pictures. We all love your mother very much. She is in a wonderful support group and we are taking care of her until she can be with you in Heaven. We all love you and pray for you and all those you left behind. Luv
Shirley Baer
Santa Fe, TX USA - Monday, May 30, 2005 1:43 AM CDT

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Heavens Children <heavnschildrn@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 25, 2005 11:05 PM CDT

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Norine,
My love and prayers are with you today as we honor your daughter Ashley's heavenly birthday.
I will light a candle in my home for your angel.
Love
Carol




Carol Carico <ccarico@tampabay.rr.com>
bradenton, Fla USA - Thursday, April 21, 2005 7:07 AM CDT

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Dear Carro Family,
The entire family, especially angel Ashley, are forever in my heart. You are stronger now with her heavenly spirit and love that lives forever. May you continue to celebrate family and know that God is always with you, and so is Ashley. Her bench is awesome! May God bless you all!
Katie Mc Mahon <KMcM925@comcast.net>
Park Ridge, IL United States - Wednesday, April 20, 2005 1:46 PM CDT

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Dear Norine, Al, Andy and Al,
Ron and I will keep you all in our prayers. I look at one of my favorite pictures on my desk every morning - Halloween when Ron and I were M&Ms and Ashley was Little Bo Beep, Al - and M&M and Andy Little Red Riding Hood. I see them every morning and it brings a smile to my face. We cannot be there on the 21st, but know that you are in our hearts. Lots of love and Hugs, Uncle Ron and Aunt Sandi
Sandra Gubrud <sandikay14@sbcglobal.net>
Dallas, TX USA - Tuesday, April 19, 2005 10:37 AM CDT

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Norine-I still like to stop here and see how you and Al and the kids are doing. Sounds like you had a nice Spring Break. I love the Ashley bench! Take care and keep in touch!
Nurse Becky <Tree20862@comcast.net>
- Monday, April 11, 2005 11:08 AM CDT

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Dear Norine,
I have just read your email in Heavens Children and came to look at your beautiful site for your Angel Ashley.. I am so sorry for your loss I know there are no words I can say that will ease your pain and sadness but know if you ever need to talk I am always there just an email away.. God Bless..

G'day to Al & Andrea I am so sorry for you two for the loss of your sister Ashley I understand alittle the pain and sadness you are going through as my daughter Cassie lost her sister Kerri also.. Please know you are so important sweeties you are so loved and I know you may feel alittle shadowed by Ashley but never doubt your importance to your mommy n daddy they love you so very much.. Take care of one another and your mommy n daddy and always know your sister is close by.. big hugz from my family to yours, God Bless

hugz
Nica
Nica <nica@tju.com.au>
Bairnsdale, Vic Australia - Monday, April 4, 2005 8:15 PM CDT

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I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for your family.
Nicola mummy to angel Teagyn
www.myangelteagyn.bravehost.com

Nicola <teagynsmum@aol.com>
Virginia beach, va - Friday, March 25, 2005 9:49 PM CST

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What a beautiful bench and place, thank you for presenting the pictures.
Frankinho <frankinho44@frankinho.de>
Berlin, Germany - Monday, March 21, 2005 12:48 AM CST

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thank you for sharing its beautiful!


The Cage

Angela Motley & the Cage Crew <angela@cagedkids.com>
Chesterfield, VA USA - Monday, February 21, 2005 11:52 PM CST

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Wow! Her bench is beautiful! I am so happy for all of you. I hope you are all doing fine. I can't believe how big the kids are getting. Take care,
Love,
Laura and Angel Brian
Laura Vermilyer <Lvermilyer@wi.rr.com>
Bristol, wi USA - Friday, January 28, 2005 8:51 PM CST

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Thank you for adding the bench pictures and the family pictures to your page. I'm sitting here at work with tears streaming down my face. You definlately were blessed with a little angel. God Bless you all... code_blue_kkiimm_33
code_blue_kkiimm_33 <code_blue_family@yahoo.com>
West Warren, MA USA - Thursday, January 20, 2005 4:44 PM CST

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Thanks so much for sharing this special picture and we so miss this little angel, but God has a purpose for us all & i know you'll be with her one day.
God be with you,
Love,
Josie & the code_blue_family
Mary Jo <code-blue-family@yahoo.com>
Bells, TN USA - Thursday, January 20, 2005 6:41 AM CST

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What a beautiful bench and journal entry. Thank you so much for sharing. We sure thought about Ashley and your entire family soooo much over the holdiays. But then you are NEVER far from our hearts.
Love, April
April from Code_blue_family <code_blue_family@yahoo.com>
Forrest City, Ar USA - Wednesday, January 19, 2005 10:41 PM CST

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We had a bench made for our son Zach's grave site also along with his headstone. We purchased it for the sole purpose of having a place to sit when visiting our baby boy and talking to him, etc. We know that is only his outer shell buried there but we know he is listening to us from Heaven and longing to see us again too never to be separated again. My heart goes out to you and yours. My Zach was 9 when he passed away on Sept. 14, 2003. It has been a year and 4 months and we miss him more and more each day. The bench bought for Ashley is beautiful. A very special tribute to a very special little girl.
Love,
Misti Herrera-mother of angel Zach-www.caringbridge.org/nm/zach <dmherrera@pvtnetworks.net>
Artesia, nm USA - Tuesday, January 18, 2005 8:04 PM CST

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As tears pour down my face,she is an angel,and I know Jesus is taking good care of Ashley.Her Spirit will always
live on. A song came to mine and it is What a Wonderful
Friend We have In Jesus.
Blessings my friend,May you always feel Gods Peace.
Eunice Neubuhr <unish@shaw.ca>
Edmonton, Alberta Canada - Wednesday, January 12, 2005 7:37 AM CST

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I found this link on Kody's website. What a beautiful bench in memory of a beautiful little girl. I'm so sorry for your loss.
God bless,
The Zello family!! ~*~Benji's page~*~ <zello2@cableone.net>
Ocean Springs, MS - Tuesday, January 11, 2005 8:32 PM CST

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This is a beautiful bench, which I know means a lot to you. I wish I had one for my son's grave, but I don't even live in the same state any more so guess that don't matter. I visit in my mind. May you always have the wonderful memories of your sweet little Ashley. My prayers are with you.... my son's funeral was on New years day 1994. He always said he hoped he could finish out the year just like his grandpa did and they both died at the end of a year. (not the same year)
Sharon <sholweger5@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, January 11, 2005 3:42 PM CST

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With the 1 year Anniversary of Ashley's passing we have also been talking of our favorite memories of Ashley. I was thinking that I need to write them all down for Allison so that she will always remember why their friendship was so special. They were more like sisters than friends. Laughing at things we didn't understand like they had their own language sometimes.
So some of the most special things we talked about recently were:
Allison's favorite memory of Ashley was her laugh. Allie said I will never forget they way Ashley laughed and kinda snorted her nose when she laughed.
Another was how when Ashley and Allison met they were babies and your family called Ashley baby because she was the baby of your family. Then as they got older Al and Andrea still called her baby and Allison used to get mad and defend Ashley and say Ashley is not a baby she is a big girl.
Then Daddy started calling her shorty.
One of my favorite memories is how Ashley would always hand out juicy fruit gum to everyone. She even tried it at preschool! One time when she was so sick at the hospital and we visited she still has her bag of juicy fruit with her and gave both Allie and me one when we visited.
Another great one was how when we took the girls to McDonalds Ashley had to have the Ronald McDonald head cup for her orange soda or she didn't want to drink it. Now everytime I see that cup I think of her.
At preschool and everywhere Allison and Ashley wanted to stand by each other and be togehter. They would start out at the Christmas program or dance rehearsal at different ends of the line or in different lines and by the second song somehow they were right next to each other, every time. I have that on tape as proof of all the times the teachers tried to seperate them so they wouldn't talk and somehow they always got back together. At the piano recitals how they would talk non stop, laughing but not bothering anyone.

And these for just Norine who will know what they mean:

Mommy someone is kicking my seat!!!!!

Knock, Knock
who's there
Potato
Potato who
Potato knock knock head

With Love, Tammy Tommasi <TLMASI@aol.com>
Park Ridge, IL USA - Sunday, January 9, 2005 9:38 AM CST

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Carro Family I just wanted to write to let each of you know you are in our thoughts and prayers as we think of your loss one year ago! Please know we are all thinking of you and keeping each of you in our prayers.
Love always, Denise and LGHC/CL!


Denise <Denise.Morrissey@advocatehealth.com>
Tinley Park, IL 60477 - Saturday, January 8, 2005 2:16 PM CST

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I came over from Kody's site. What a beautiful bench. God Bless you and your family!
Melody’sDaddy
Rob Schleigh <rob@ourmelody.net>
Hemet, Ca - Monday, January 3, 2005 6:42 PM CST

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Hi Norine,

It been too long since I came to visit with you and your family on the caringbridge site. I was just thinking the other day of Ashley and that her 1st anniversary in heaven as a beautiful angel was coming up. I also want to let you know that the bench is very beautiful. You are always in my prayers, hug from Kimberley m/o Michelle Elizabeth Clayton ~ June 25, 1994 - May 31, 2004

Angel Michelle's Site
Kimberley Clayton <michelle9kim@yahoo.ca>
Guelph, ON, Canada - Saturday, January 1, 2005 11:26 PM CST

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Dear Norine, Al, Andrea, Sonny and Sweet Angel Ashley...
One year today...the pain in our hearts is still there..not a day goes by that Ashley leaves our hearts...not a day goes by Kody doesn't say "Good Morning" and "Good Night" to his favorite Ashley picture.
It's still so hard to find the right words....I once read somewhere that one more day on Earth is another day closer to a loved one...I really believe this to be true.
Norine...you have been such a great friend, always there....giving me advice..useful advice that I cannot even get out of Kody's dr's! More then anything though...I truly treasure our friendship...made entirely by two beautiful children...Ashley and Kody.
May 2005 bring only laughter, sunshine and Ashley moments every single day.
With love...
Kim
~SK8ER BOY KODY BEAR~
- Saturday, January 1, 2005 8:52 PM CST

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My thoughts and prayers are with you all,today.Your bench is beauiful as was your Ashley.May the New year bring you Peace,
Sunnye
Sunnye Franklin <Sunnye79@aol.com>
Tonawanda, NY United States - Saturday, January 1, 2005 7:42 PM CST

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**What a peaceful & serene place for a beautiful angel!!**

Blessed be!
Dallas Mom <dallas1053@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, January 1, 2005 2:23 PM CST

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The bench is beautiful. May you find peace as you sit so close to your angel. God bless.
friend <friend@wherever.com>
- Saturday, January 1, 2005 12:03 AM CST

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I know this must be a very difficult day for all of you.
May you feel close to God in your sorrow.
Ashley's bench is indeed lovely!
love and prayers
Mrs. Pam
from Kody's site <preschoolpenpals@yahoo.com>
st louis, mo - Saturday, January 1, 2005 11:29 AM CST

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I can 't believe its been a year, i still think of you and will continue to do so. lots of love viks x
viks <viks@postpals.co.uk>
- Saturday, January 1, 2005 9:39 AM CST

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Ashley's bench is absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing the pictures with us. We have lots of toys around my grandson's bench also.

Sending love and continued prayers of peace...
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, January 1, 2005 7:04 AM CST

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Merry Christmas Norine and Family. We miss you tons.
Have a happy and safe new year.
Nick's chemo is finally over!
www.caringbridge.org/il/nicholas
Love, Karrie & Nicholas Marino <geckogirl7@sbcglobal.net>
Arlington Hts, IL USA - Saturday, December 25, 2004 9:37 AM CST

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Hi all,
It's a beautiful bench!
I miss you all very much

Sal
Sally
Sydney, NSW Australia - Monday, December 20, 2004 3:25 PM CST

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Ashley will always be in our hearts forever. She loved life and all those around her. She is having the best Christmas ever with Jesus. We love you Ashley
Grandma, Grampa, Auntie Carolyn and Zach <ceg1970@aol.com>
Johnston city, IL USA - Sunday, December 19, 2004 11:31 PM CST

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This is a beautiful page. I wish all of you the best this holiday season. Not a day goes by that our family does not think or talk about Ashley.
The Tommasi Family
Park Ridge, IL Cook - Thursday, December 16, 2004 7:09 AM CST

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