Sending lots of prayers and love your way during
this very sad and difficult time
At Quilts Of Love
WE LOVE YOU !
Many Blessings to you and your family
Hugs
Angel Chris
Chris <wardsweb@earthlink.net>
Los Angeles, CA USA - Sunday, October 12, 2003 10:31 PM CDT
Stopped by to let you know that we are praying for you all. GOD BLESS. Sharing in your pain and emptiness while sending lots of love from above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND ARMY.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Sunday, October 12, 2003 8:16 PM CDT
Stopped by to let you know that we are praying for you all. GOD BLESS. Sharing in your pain and emptiness while sending lots of love from above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND ARMY.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Sunday, October 12, 2003 8:15 PM CDT
Thinking of you today! I love Baby Jalen's pictures, he is so beautiful!! Have a nice week.
Laura Ladd <www.caringbridge.org/fl/ryan>
Orlando, FL - Sunday, October 12, 2003 3:59 PM CDT
Jeanette and Terry, you are still in my prayers. Tonight I met a beautiful little two year old boy named Jalen. I couldn't believe it. Before I heard about your Jalen, I'd never even heard the name before. I know that you are a blessing to many with the crafts. Although I never met your Jalen here on earth, I know he must be special because he comes from such special people.
Blessings,
Adrienne's Mom, Nichelle: http://www.caringbridge.org/tx/adrienne <rejoice_first_lady@yahoo.com>
Cedar Park, TX USA - Sunday, October 12, 2003 0:40 AM CDT
Hello Terry and Jeanette, I just wanted to stop by and say hello to you both. I have been so crazy for the past couple of weeks, that I feel bad that I haven't visited in a while! I will be sending out a care package to you for the hospital on Monday, I hope that the children enjoy them! What a wonderful idea you had, Jeanette, you are such an inspiration to me! I think of you often and pray for you too. Wishing only good thoughts to come your way! I'll check in again soon...your friend Deirdre
Deirdre Samiotis <www.caringbridge.org/ct/deirdre>
East Hartford, Ct - Saturday, October 11, 2003 10:22 PM CDT
hi Jeanette
i just wanted to thankyou for helping me with my questions the other day in my email. i write back and forth to kim too kody`s mom and at the end of her email she wrote " forever missing angel mitch" and honestly i loved. it gave me this warm feeling... maybe its the forever missing in front of angel mitch.
i thought of you today and just needing to tell you in a big way thankyou from the bottom of my heart.
abbie
«mitchell»
abbie <afraser1@tru.eastlink.ca>
tru, ns can - Saturday, October 11, 2003 9:03 PM CDT
JALEN, IT HAS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I HAVE BEEN BY YOUR PAGE AND ALTHOUGH TIME HAS PASSED, I MISS SEEING YOUR NEW PICTURES AND HEARING ABOUT YOU. YOU WERE SUCH A BLESSING AND I AM SURE YOU WILL BE A BLESSING FOR A LONG LONG TIME. SO MUCH IS BEING DONE IN YOUR NAME. I LOVE YOUR PRETTY NEW BENCH. YOU AND MOMMY WERE GREAT FRIENDS, PLAYMATES AND WILL ALWAYS BE SOULMATES! KATIA SENT SOME BALLOONS UP TO YOU BEFORE WE CAME BACK IN THE HOSPITAL. SHE ACTUALLY SAID, "CHEERS" WHEN SHE SENT THEM UP BUT, HEY SHE IS 3. TODAY SHE BUMPED HEADS WITH ME AND SAID, "CHEERS MOMMY". OKAY IS SHE GOING TO BE A PARTY GIRL? I KNOW YOU ARE KEEPING YOUR EYE ON HER. I CAN JUST FEEL THAT SHE IS PLAYING WITH SOMEONE SOMETIMES CAUSE SHE IS LAUGHING AND HAPPY WHEN BY ALL RIGHTS SHE SHOULD BE BORED. THANK YOU FOR PLAYING WITH HER. I AM SURE YOUR WINGS ARE GROWING BIGGER EACH DAY AND YOUR LITTLE WHITE SUIT IS STILL GLEAMING WHITE!!! WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SWEETY. LOVE, TRACY AND KATIA
KATIA'S PAGE
TRACY AND KATIA
- Saturday, October 11, 2003 6:53 PM CDT
Jeanette,
This is my first time to visit your page. Your baby boy has really touched my heart in the last few minutes that I have been reading the story and about his precious life. He has touched so many lives, so many that you will never know about. I can tell that you are a fighter and a very strong person. I would love to meet you and have loved to met your little angel. I will be praying for you now. My heart goes out to you and your family. Remember to smile because that's what your little angel wants you to do!
Kelly
Columbus, MS - Friday, October 10, 2003 8:27 AM CDT
Good Morning Jeanette & Terry,
Couldn’t wait to tell to this-- had a dream , don’t remember it, but when I woke up the thought of Jalen came to me and I remembered someone or something came to me to tell me Jalen was safe and okay--now walking and very happy, smiling and laughing. This put a smile on my face, for a short time, then the heartache came for you and your family.
I will continue to pray for strength and peace in your hearts.
Now I know you are crying, because I am, so this is for all of us—WILLIE DON’T TOUCH IT.
Love You Long Time,
Mary <docotis13@msn.com>
West Palm Beach, FL US - Friday, October 10, 2003 6:57 AM CDT
Just stopping by to say hello.
Michele
Winona, MN - Wednesday, October 8, 2003 1:37 PM CDT
I have been following your website for a long time now and have prayed for you and your family everynight. Your son was such a beautiful child and I will forever have his face etched in my mind.
I want you to know how many lives Jalen has touched. I am from New Jersey and recently I was on I95 and was behind a truck that had a memorial sticker in the window honoring your son. I was amazed at how small of a world we really live in when I saw that. It took my breath away to realize that you have such a WIDE NETWORK of people who care. I hope you find comfort in knowing that your son's memory is traveling all over.
Jackie
- Wednesday, October 8, 2003 9:39 AM CDT
Just checking in to let you know I'm thinking about you all. Those are some beautiful photos and I'm glad you're sharing. Stay strong and cherish those beautiful memories!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, nc - Tuesday, October 7, 2003 8:27 PM CDT
Thank you for sharing your story and photos my eight year old has aml and is in remission and it s great to read stories about other children with the same dioignosise
Nickie Fairfull <fairfull@tpd.com.au>
Toowoomba, QLD Australia - Monday, October 6, 2003 9:23 PM CDT
I met a little boy named Jalen over the weekend. Same age and even looked a little bit like your Jalen. It broke my heart to see this peanut and know that your Jalen should be here playing like that. He was a sweet little guy but could only speak Spanish, no english. I couldn't help but feel a connection to him though.
Love, Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Monday, October 6, 2003 8:35 AM CDT
What a cute little boy!! I have been blessed to see your page! I hope everything is going ok.
Bryanne Weaver <weaverbj@nsuok,edu>
Tahlequah, OK USA - Saturday, October 4, 2003 3:51 PM CDT
Many heartfelt prayers were said for you today.
Thinking of you always
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Friday, October 3, 2003 11:13 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I'm thinking of you today, and sending all my positive energy that comfort will wash over you and peace will fill you up! I know that every single day, not just months, is a marking point from when you lost Jalen. But please know today, especially, you are in all my prayers!
Lori Clanton, mom to two <gotchaej@yahoo.com>
Fresno, CA USA - Friday, October 3, 2003 6:47 PM CDT
To Jalen's family,
I am so sorry that you have lost such a beautiful little boy. I cannot even begin to imagine what you all must be going through right now. I wish I had some word of comfort that I could give to make things better. But I can think of nothing. You will be in my prayers as will Jalen. I know he should be with you, but he is at peace with the lord to watch over you as he plays with the other little angels, who knows, he might have met up with my little Leona, and be praying for my Michelle.
That reminds me, thank you so very very much for checking up on us and signing our guestbook, it means so much to us.
Stay strong
God bless you
love
Jacqui n Michelle
jacqui fray <ladyslix@hotmail.com>
liverpool, United Kingdom - Friday, October 3, 2003 5:03 PM CDT
To Jalen's family,
I am so sorry that you have lost such a beautiful little boy. I cannot even begin to imagine what you all must be going through right now. I wish I had some word of comfort that I could give to make things better. But I can think of nothing. You will be in my prayers as will Jalen. I know he should be with you, but he is at peace with the lord to watch over you as he plays with the other little angels, who knows, he might have met up with my little Leona, and be praying for my Michelle.
That reminds me, thank you so very very much for checking up on us and signing our guestbook, it means so much to us.
Stay strong
God bless you
love
Jacqui n Michelle
jacqui fray <ladyslix@hotmail.com>
liverpool, United Kingdom - Friday, October 3, 2003 5:03 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and always.
Michele <mash128@hotmail.com>
Winona, MN - Friday, October 3, 2003 12:20 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette, God Bless you for thinking of the kids like that, with arts and crafts, and coloring books. That is SO sweet! These kids are TOO precious! You and your mom are such very special, loving people. It just warms my heart so much. (((((hugs)))))
Bea <bumblebee1955@hotmail.com>
E, PA - Thursday, October 2, 2003 9:19 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
Thank u so much for sharing manaswini's story and pictures on the site.
I really appreciate it.. Thanks again..
Take care,
Talk to u soon...
Sandhya <sdontharaju@tycoint.com>
Boca Raton, FL USA - Thursday, October 2, 2003 8:51 AM CDT
Hello, just stopping by to see how you are doing. Loved the new pictures!! Thinking of you!!
Liz Aranda <laranda@technetmedical.com>
Artesia, NM - Tuesday, September 30, 2003 9:59 AM CDT
Just stopping by to see how you are doing. Those pictures of Jalen and his little friend dancing are the cutest.
Paula (Mitch's mom) <www.caringbridge.org/wa/mitchellboy>
Vancouver, Wa - Monday, September 29, 2003 8:39 PM CDT
I just wanted to stop by and let you know I was thinking of you. Jeanette, you are doing some very wonderful things for some very deserving children. Jalen is so lucky to have you for a mommy!
Michele <mash128@hotmail.com>
Winona, MN - Monday, September 29, 2003 2:47 PM CDT
Thinking of Jalen today...and just wanted to stop by and wish you all many prayers.
Thank you for always sharing those most precious and tender memories of Jalen..the dancing pictures are absolutly beautiful!!!
Love...Kim
~KODYS STORY~
- Monday, September 29, 2003 2:19 PM CDT
OH Jeanette,
Those are THE cutest pictures!
I was away this weekend but saw Jalen in the butterflies, as if to say everything is fine. I love that feeling and I hope that feeling can bring you some peace. God bless you for doing something VERY special for those sick children.
Love, Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Monday, September 29, 2003 12:33 AM CDT
Terry and Jeanette
Thank you so much for keeping up with Connor, and for continuing to encourage him and all of the other children still fighting. Jalen truly was an angel here on earth, who is now brightening the streets of Heaven. Take care and know that we are praying for you all!
Love, hugs and prayers,
Rhonda Hunley, Connor's Mommy
Connor's web page
**Hugs and Hope** Rhabdomyosarcoma relapse
<rshunley@comcast.net>
Hendersonville, TN **God Bless the USA and our Leaders and Troops!** - Monday, September 29, 2003 10:43 AM CDT
Thinking and checking on you all often. Best wishes on your new project. Its wonderful that you have stayed involved.
Denise Roberts (caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <dndtwins1@usadatanet.net>
Bridgeport, NY USA - Monday, September 29, 2003 7:44 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you know I think of you often. Glad the walk went so well. Take care.
Noreen in Maine <talkntalkn@aol.com>
- Monday, September 29, 2003 0:36 AM CDT
Jeannette;
The name Jalen--Oh My Gosh!!! I think of it and see a beautiful little angel boy with the most beautiful little face. I was in the grocery store the other day and somebody yelled out the name and automatically, your baby boy's face just invaded my head and my heart and stayed there. I couldn't get it out of my head if I wanted to, but I didn't want to. I check on you all alot, but don't sign enough. I am thinking of you all and especially of Jalen. My love and prayers to you.
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
Ottawa, Ontario Canada - Monday, September 29, 2003 0:10 AM CDT
Jeanette- You are correct- the memory endures- and you will see your baby again. Of that, I am certain! Love to you, Laura
ca/coltonmeyer
- Sunday, September 28, 2003 10:22 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette, I found Jalen's site through Katia's. Please accept my sincere condolences on the physical loss of your precious son. We lost our 2 yr. old granddaughter Nov. 29,2001 from AML. I'm sure Jalen and Cheanelle have become Angel friends. Please know he will always be around you. God bless you and your wonderful family.
Love from Karen
Karen LaMountain <AngelGrammaL@netscape.net>
Selkirk, NY USA - Saturday, September 27, 2003 10:17 PM CDT
hi
those 3 pictures on your journal are just precious. im glad you shared that story with us.think thinking of you often
abbie
mitchell`s site
abbie <afraser1@tru.eastlink.ca>
- Saturday, September 27, 2003 3:24 PM CDT
Terry, thanks so much for keeping in touch with us. You, as well as I, know how important support and encouragement are at a time like this. GOD BLESS. ANGEL JALEN MUST BE SO PROUD OF HIS AM-MAW!!! Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers while sending lots of love from above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Thursday, September 25, 2003 7:28 PM CDT
Not a day goes by that Jalen, and your family, doesn't cross my mind - especially when I see a duck. I am glad that the walk went well. I sure hope that one day soon we will be rejoicing about a CURE. Thinking of, and praying for you always.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 9:30 PM CDT
Hello Terry and Jeanette, I just want to say that I am very proud of you guys for doing such an awesome tribute to your precious Jalen. It's nice to hear that the Walk went so well. I wish I could have walked with you both, but I was thinking of you all and keeping you in my prayers! What a sight that must have been, seeing all those balloons going up in the air? How many people turned out would you say? Well, I have to say a BIG sorry to you, I promised some coloring books to you a few weeks ago, and have to admit that I haven't sent them yet! Please forgive me, I will be sending them out this weekend. I started my radiaition last week, and not feeling the best. I'm not making excuses for myself, but I really haven't felt the best. So I promise, I'll send them out on Sat. after work. I hope the children at the hospital enjoys them. Please let me know if I can do anything else. May God wrap you in His loving arms, and keep you comforted. Terry, thanks for checking in on me, I was so delighted to have read your entry. Your new friend, Deirdre
Deirdre Samiotis <www.caringbridge.org/ct/deirdre>
East Hartford, CT - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 7:57 PM CDT
Hi Terry and Jeanette.
Have a nice day.
I pray for you every night before bed.
<3
Nicole
www.caringbridge.org/ca/princessnicole
Nicole <princessnicole92@juno.com>
- Tuesday, September 23, 2003 11:55 AM CDT
I found Jalen's site through Savannah's.
I will add you to my prayers. Thank you for sharing your little Angel Jalen's light.
Tami (Celeste's mom - http://www.caringbridge.org/pa/celeste) <blessingsbyceleste@hotmail.com>
Pittsburgh, PA - Tuesday, September 23, 2003 0:24 AM CDT
Glad the walk went so well. The banner was precious.
Michele
Winona, MN - Monday, September 22, 2003 2:52 PM CDT
Hi Terry and Jeanette.
It is Nicole.
I wanted to come by and say hi.
Talk to you later.
I pray for you every night.
<3
Nicole
www.caringbridge.org/ca/princessnicole
Nicole <princessnicole92@juno.com>
- Monday, September 22, 2003 11:51 AM CDT
hi you all,
YOU ALL DID A WONDERFUL JOB FRI. NITE. I WAS HONORED TO WALK WITH ALL of you. I LOVE YOU LOADS AND THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU. LISA LIVER
LISA LIVERGOOD <PUREPLUMBING@AOL.COM>
LANTANA , FL PALM BEACH - Monday, September 22, 2003 10:46 AM CDT
Our prayers for peace are with you.
Sincerly,
Kaitlin
www.caringbridge.org/wa/kaitlin
Jenni - Kaitlin's mom <jandj20@hotmail.com>
Coupeville, WA USA - Sunday, September 21, 2003 11:17 PM CDT
Terry and Jeanette, Thank you so much for always checking up on little Katia and me. You are such a huge part of our lives. Thank you for putting Katia's name on the banner:) That is so loving of you to do. Jeanette and Terry, I pray for you so much because I know everytime you turn around, Jalen comes to your mind. I only knew Jalen for a few months and I think about him at least 30 times a day or more. I know that it just must be overburdening you sometimes. Always pray for peace in your heart and I pray Jalen can visit your dreams, nightly. God bless you:) Love, Tracy
~~Katia's Site (Leukemia AML-Relapsed 8-26-03)
Fighting to win!!!~~
Tracy and Katia
- Sunday, September 21, 2003 2:07 PM CDT
"Light the Night" looks like it was a great success.
Jalens banner was beautiful. Thank you for keeping us up to date and for finding the time to come by and sign other Guestbooks. GEMMA'S JOURNAL
Sandra
Sicily. Italy - Sunday, September 21, 2003 1:12 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette and Terry,
You have done a great job with the banner... The picture looks really good... I am sure it must have been a very emotional evening for u.
Well done!!!
Love, Sandhya <sdontharaju@tycoint.com>
Boca Raton, fl us - Sunday, September 21, 2003 10:34 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette and Terry,
You have done a great job with the banner... The picture looks really good. I am sure it must have been a very emotional evening for u.
Well done!!!
Love, Sandhya <sdontharaju@tycoint.com>
Boca Raton, fl us - Sunday, September 21, 2003 10:33 AM CDT
Thank you for updating us. What a beautiful son. How wonderful that he is now pain free with THE son. I follow your website every day.
Someone who is praying for you!
- Saturday, September 20, 2003 11:16 PM CDT
Hello Jeanette your mom Terry signed my daughter Nicole's guestbook and we emailed her telling her we were going to come and visit you here. I am very happy you had a nice vacation and I am happy someone helped you go on that vacation. Aren't friends and family great? We will come back to visit again sometime. Hugs & Kisses, Jamie & Nicole
www.caringbridge.org/ca/princessnicole
Jamie & Nicole <princessnicole@juno.com>
Duarte, CA USA - Saturday, September 20, 2003 10:32 PM CDT
Hello dear ones...
Island Princess here from Quilts Of Love. I stopped by to leave you some Angel Hugs. So happy you had a nice weekend.
God Bless,
Island Princess
Island Princess <islandprincess@quiltsoflove.com>
- Friday, September 19, 2003 5:34 PM CDT
Jeanette, Dale and Terry,
Here's hoping you have a good weekend. God bless.
Love, Deirdre
- Friday, September 19, 2003 3:45 PM CDT
Nice to hear you had a vacation. I check on you often altho don't always write. Sending love, support & prayers from Maine.
Noreen <talkntalkn@aol.com>
Newburgh, Me - Friday, September 19, 2003 4:21 AM CDT
It was nice to hear you had a nice vacation. Your sweet little Jalen was with you, in your hearts! You are always in my thoughts and prayers!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Thursday, September 18, 2003 10:05 PM CDT
C Bruce--Thank you SOOOOO much for all the crafting items you sent us yesterday! Jeanette was so amazed and happy as she opened everything and now she can't wait to go to the hospital and start crafting with the children. Your kindness is SO appreciated!
Terry Snyder (Angel Jalen's "Am-Maw") http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/jalen <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Thursday, September 18, 2003 8:00 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
I'm glad you and Dale had a good vacation...I think of you guys often and of precious Angel Jalen too. He is definitely watching over you in everything that you do. He is always with you. Stay strong!
~*Girlie's Page*~
~*Janice's Page*~
Love,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Wednesday, September 17, 2003 7:46 PM CDT
How nice you got to get away, even if you did miss your angel being with you. He would want you to enjoy life. We all know you won't ever forget him and that he will be with you always. God bless.
Love, Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Wednesday, September 17, 2003 12:59 AM CDT
So good to here that you and Dale were able to get away and take a much needed vacation, one that you all most definitely deserve! I know it would have been better to have Jalen there physically, but you know he was indeed there spiritually. I hope the days will continue to get a little easier for you all. You are truly wonderful people. Remember that Jalen is taking care of you and keeping you strong. Peace and comfort to you all!
Michele <mash128@hotmail.com>
Winona, MN - Tuesday, September 16, 2003 1:45 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
I felt really happy reading u r entry today.
Take care of ur self..
Sandhya, Manaswini's Mom <sdontharaju@tycoint.com>
Boca Raton, FL US - Tuesday, September 16, 2003 9:35 AM CDT
Praying for peace and serenity for you all - sending lots of love from above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Monday, September 15, 2003 8:23 PM CDT
I think this is a wonderful way to remember loved ones who have passed away. I also think it is a great way to let others know about cancer. All of you are in my heart and prayers.
Regan
USA - Monday, September 15, 2003 3:07 PM CDT
Thank you SO MUCH Jennifer! You can send them to me at: Jeanette Snyder, 161 Seminole Lakes Drive, Royal Palm Beach, FL 33411.
Jeanette Snyder <tru2200@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Monday, September 15, 2003 1:52 PM CDT
I would love to send some arts & crafts things in. Where can I send them to?
Jennifer Miles www.caringbridge.org/mn/deemartinson/ <jennifer.miles@thomson.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Monday, September 15, 2003 9:38 AM CDT
Hello Jeanette, I have visited your site before, and your Mom has even written a few times. You are truely an inspiration to me! I can't imagine what your thoughts were entering the hospital that Little Jalen was in and going back for a visit! Your a gracious woman with a very loving heart and I am certain that Jalen was very lucky to have you as his Mommy. After reading your update, I will be sending you some coloring books and crayons for the children who are still in the hospital. I wish I could do more, but I just finished my chemo and now starting my radiation for 8 weeks, so I haven't been working alot. You see, I'm a hairdresser, and if I don't work, I don't get paid:( I will put those in the mail to you this week and I hope that the children will enjoy them:) I pray for you and your mother and Little Jalen. He is a beautiful angel!!! May God bless you and keep visiting the children, they will always put a smile in your heart! Your new friend, Deirdre
Deirdre Samiotis <www.caringbridge.org/ct/deirdre>
East Hartford, Ct - Sunday, September 14, 2003 8:08 PM CDT
Just stopping by to say hello to Jalen's family and to let you know that I'm still thinking about you. I was just at Katia's site and it sounds like they were so happy to meet Jalen's Ma-Maw (not sure if I spelled that right!!).
Take care!
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Sunday, September 14, 2003 11:13 AM CDT
Jeanette, I visit you sight all the time, and you've truly touched my life! I tell everyone about your story and have cried countless tears right hear in my office for you and your family. I pray for you every night and think of you constantly. I got your page from Katia's and was so taken back by it, that I was literally bawling at work. As a mother I know that nothing would ever take the place of that void in your life. You truly have made a difference in my life, and was taken back to know how young you are, I'm 26 by the way and have a 3 year old little boy named Jayton and I'm constantly worried of what the future might bring. He's my life. I've read back on your journal history and know that I would have the same emotions that you, it's like I can feel it, it's so weird I can't explain it. I listen to a song by "Mercy Me" called "I can only imagine" and think of you and feel like Jalen is so lucky to be in Heaven and be with Jesus our Heavenly Father. If you haven't heard the song, I highly recommend it. I apologize for rambling. It's taken so long for me to finally write, because I couldn't see through my tears. Take care and God Bless!! Always!!
Liz Aranda <laranda@technetmedical.com>
Artesia, NM USA - Friday, September 12, 2003 5:45 PM CDT
I am glad you had a nice time at the hospital. And what a caring person you are to go back and try to help the other children there. I am so sorry to hear about the conditions the children are dealing with. Just wanted to check in and see how you were. God Bless.
Chuson (www.caringbridge.org/tx/jeffrey)
Arlington, TX USA - Thursday, September 11, 2003 9:34 AM CDT
I am glad you are finding comfort - no matter where it is!!
You are in my thoughts!!
HUGS and love,
Samantha <sletoile@msn.com>
Barrie, ON Canada - Wednesday, September 10, 2003 9:47 AM CDT
I am still praying for you and your family. I lost my aunt to cancer this morning. She was so precious and so beautiful. She had a special place in her heart for every child. I'm sure she's in heaven now helping to take care of Jalen. Maybe Jalen and my aunt's son are playing together. Jalen is in good hands with my aunt, and most importantly with JESUS. I'm sure she'll take good care of him until you can be with him again someday. All my love to your entire family. HUGS and GOD bless.
Katie <stones_throw_girlie@excite.com>
IN - Tuesday, September 9, 2003 4:57 PM CDT
Hi I just wanted to come in and say goodnight. I know my message is late today sorry I was at school then went to work then went to my moms work then came home and now here I am. It is after eleven pm here so I am going to make this short. I want to let you know I pray for you all the time. I will talk to you tomorrow. Love and hugs, Jessica
Jessica
- Tuesday, September 9, 2003 1:24 AM CDT
hello
i've just been going through some of jalens web page, what a beautiful little boy, tears of joy and sorrow are now streaming down my face. Just really wanted to say hi and let you know that were thinking of you, and hoping as each day pass's things will get better for you,
gill
taupo, new zealand - Monday, September 8, 2003 10:11 PM CDT
Jeanette, I bet Jalen smiles from ear to ear everytime you cross his mind (which is all day). You are a wonderful mom and woman. Your compassion is just awesome and the things you do are full of love. I am glad you find comfort at the hospital. I know what you mean. You were there so much that everything becomes so familiar and "normal" and your form relationships closer than most family. I think of you all the time and I think of Jalen throughout the days. Love, Tracy
~~Katia's Site~~
Tracy and Katia
- Monday, September 8, 2003 6:09 PM CDT
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers, and I love the pictures on Jalen's page...so beautiful! Ryan relapsed so we are in Houston now, looking at a second transplant. I will keep checking in, thanks for the updates!
Laura Ladd <MousieLadd@aol.com (www.caringbridge.org/fl/ryan)>
Orlando/Houston, FL/TX - Monday, September 8, 2003 12:42 AM CDT
Jeanette,
It was so great to read your update...I know Jalen would be so proud of how strong you are. I think of you and your precious angel so often...I miss him so much too.
~*Girlie's Page*~
~*Janice's Page*~
Love,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, September 8, 2003 8:58 AM CDT
Jeanette,
Hey there! How are you doing? I am glad to hear that you had a good time visiting old friends at the hospital. You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, September 8, 2003 7:33 AM CDT
C Bruce...Thank you SO much! You can send the supplies to me and then I can be sure that the pediatric oncology floor gets them. Jeanette Snyder, 161 Seminole Lakes Drive, Royal Palm Beach, FL 33411. Again...thanks for your kindness.
Jeanette <tru2200@aol.com>
- Monday, September 8, 2003 4:35 AM CDT
WAS JUST WONDERING WHERE WOULD YOU LIKE THE ARTS AND CRAFTS SUPPLIES SENT TO. I HAVE HAD A GIRL SCOUT TROOP FOR MANY YEARS AND HAVE SOME EXTRA THINGS AROUND THE HOUSE THAT I WOULD LIKE TO DONATE. PLEASE POST AN ADDRESS.
C BRUCE
WESTFIELD, MA - Sunday, September 7, 2003 11:41 PM CDT
im so glad i came in and read your journal today.the first time i was in the hospital after mitch passed away i cried almost the whole time...i am going back on wednesday and i will keep you in my thoughts to get me threw the day.
mitch`s site
abbie <afraser1@tru.eastlink.ca>
n.s canada - Sunday, September 7, 2003 9:43 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette and Angel Jalens MawMaw!
Good afternoon. I want to tell you a story about a little butterfly just like this one ok?
Roger Dean Kiser
Butterflies
There was a time in my life when beauty meant something special to me. I guess that would have been when I was about six or seven years old, just several weeks or maybe a month before the orphanage turned me into an old man.
I would get up every morning at the orphanage, make my bed just like the little soldier that I had become and then I would get into one of the two straight lines and march to breakfast with the other twenty or thirty boys who also lived in my dormitory.
After breakfast one Saturday morning I returned to the dormitory and saw the house parent chasing the beautiful monarch butterflies who lived by the hundreds in the azalea bushes strewn around the orphanage.
I carefully watched as he caught these beautiful creatures, one after the other, and then took them from the net and then stuck straight pins through their head and wings, pinning them onto a heavy cardboard sheet.
How cruel it was to kill something of such beauty. I had walked many times out into the bushes, all by myself, just so the butterflies could land on my head, face and hands so I could look at them up close.
When the telephone rang the house parent laid the large cardboard paper down on the back cement step and went inside to answer the phone. I walked up to the cardboard and looked at the one butterfly who he had just pinned to the large paper. It was still moving about so I reached down and touched it on the wing causing one of the pins to fall out. It started flying around and around trying to get away but it was still pinned by the one wing with the other straight pin. Finally it's wing broke off and the butterfly fell to the ground and just quivered.
I picked up the torn wing and the butterfly and I spat on it's wing and tried to get it to stick back on so it could fly away and be free before the house parent came back. But it would not stay on him.
The next thing I knew the house parent came walking back out of the back door by the garbage room and started yelling at me. I told him that I did not do anything but he did not believe me. He picked up the cardboard paper and started hitting me on the top of the head. There were all kinds of butterfly pieces going everywhere. He threw the cardboard down on the ground and told me to pick it up and put it in the garbage can inside the back room of the dormitory and then he left. I sat there in the dirt, by that big old tree, for the longest time trying to fit all the butterfly pieces back together so I could bury them whole, but it was too hard to do. So I prayed for them and then I put them in an old torn up shoe box and I buried them in the bottom of the fort that I had built in the ground, out by the large bamboos, near the blackberry bushes.
Every year when the butterflies would return to the orphanage and try to land on me I would try and shoo them away because they did not know that the orphanage was a bad place to live and a very bad place to die.
Isn't that sad that the man would always kill the butterflys. Butterflys are great and so pretty. I feel so bad for the butterflys I had to share this store with you.
Love and Hugs, Jessica
Visit Jessica 21 yr old mild cerebral palsy, a.d.d., perceptionally impaired, and suffers from depression
Jessica
- Sunday, September 7, 2003 6:56 PM CDT
Hello to Jalen's family. I wanted to stop by and see how you are doing. I can't even imagine how difficult it must be. I am greatful that Jalen's Mommy is able to go to the hospital, but also saddened by what you describe. Hopefully some people will be able to donate some things to these precious children.
I would also like to wish Jalen's Am-Maw (did I spell that right?!) a Happy Grandparents Day today. You deserve a special day.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Sunday, September 7, 2003 12:06 AM CDT
Hello Jeannie I am very happy you are able to go to the hospital Jalen use to go to. That is a way of showing your love for the hospital and I am sure they appreciate it just as much as you do. Did you know you could go to the dollar store and they have really nice arts and craft things there? Tell the hospital that ok? They also have coloring books and big kid toys and little kid toys too.I plan on visiting your page daily and I am praying for you at this time. I just saw Jalens slideshow it is very touching. He was a very special baby boy huh? I hope you find peace in knowing he is in heaven being watched by God and also I asked my dad to watch himin prayer last night. My dad died in 1999 from heart complications/heart attack. I need to get ready for work soon. Have a nice day. Love and Hugs, Jessica
Jessica <barbiegirljessica@netzero.net ~www.geocities.com/barbiegirljessica2003~>
- Sunday, September 7, 2003 9:32 AM CDT
Hi Angel Jalen's mawmaw Terry I saw the message you wrote about the picture I put in katia's guestbook. If you would like I would love to leave nice messages and pictures in angel Jalen's guestbook for you to see too. Let me know ok? Love and hugs, Jessica
www.geocities.com/barbiegirljessica2003
Jessica <barbiegirljessica@netzero.net>
- Sunday, September 7, 2003 1:10 AM CDT
Hello Jeanette, just checking in on you...I am glad to know that you are able to make it back to that special place at St. Mary's. I know how hard it can be, but also good for the soul. I am sure that Jalen looks down upon you and smiles and says, "that's my Mom, making those kids smile!" I am saddened to read of the lack of crafty things for the kids, I have heard of the awful conditions in that place where they are for now...take good care, and I will see you at the Light the Night Walk. Love, Kathy
Kathy Charlton
- Saturday, September 6, 2003 9:51 PM CDT
Thinking of Angel Jalen today....
Love....
Kim
~KODYS STORY~
- Saturday, September 6, 2003 10:32 AM CDT
Praying for peace and serenity - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Friday, September 5, 2003 10:25 PM CDT
We are deeply saddened by your loss and hope that your own grief will be lessened and that you will find comfort in knowing that your little angel is with Jesus. You are a Saint for loving and taking such good care of your gift that God gave you. May you never lose the memories. You are and will remain in our prayers.
The Taft Family <Taft8@aol.com>
Tampa, Fl USA - Friday, September 5, 2003 5:24 PM CDT
Am-Maw and Mama of beautiful Angel Jalen,
Hope all is as well as can be expected. I see you both supporting other families in their fight and I think you are just the bravest people I know. I KNOW it means a lot to those people. Take care.
Love, Deirdre
- Friday, September 5, 2003 7:35 AM CDT
I Cry not for you, but I Cry for me.
I Cry not because you are gone from me, But because you left me behind.
I Cry because, I don't know the beauty and love that you feel and see.
I Cry not because I think your sad, but because I am sad.
I Cry not because the love is gone, but I Cry because my love for you is so strong.
I Cry for me because I wasn't quite ready to give you up.
I Cry not because your not here with me, but because I'm not there with you.
I Cry not that your soul was lifted up to heaven.
I Cry because you left us here on this earth so full of emptiness without you.
I Cry for me every time I think of you.
I Cry for your Dad and your Brother.
I Cry for all of those who loved you so dearly.
I Cry not for you, for where you are.
I Cry for us, for where we are, and that we are not with you. Every tear drop that falls from my eyes, are tears of joy and of gladness that you were such a wonderful part of my life.
I Cry not to be with you, to experience the beauty, the splendor, and the abundance of things wonderful. To know what it's like for everything to be simply perfect.....................
by: Nancie L.White Walkinbeauty
I got this from a message board. One of the beautiful ladies said this was in her grandsons guest-book and posted it for us. I thought I would share it. I know nothing can ever ease your pain. But, I wanted to share it anyway.
Prayers, Hugs and Love to you from us.
And Thank-you to your mom for visiting Aizees page. It is very appreciated!
Cheryl <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
- Friday, September 5, 2003 1:05 AM CDT
I am sooo very sorry for you loss. I have read you past journal entries and have used many, many kleenexes in the process!!
I hope you are finding a little peace and remeber your angel with smiles instead of tears.
Thank you for being brace enough to share your story.
HUGS and love,
Samantha <sletoile@msn.com>
Barrie, ON Canada - Thursday, September 4, 2003 3:07 PM CDT
Hello Terry, I just wanted to stop by and say a quick hello from Ct. I read the entry about Katia and am praying so hard for her and her family! They have been on my mind for a while and you have too. I saw the Angel Statue with little Jalen's and Seth's names on it! What a beautiful tribute to these little angels!!! I pray for peace to be in your family. Your new friend, Deirdre P.S. I'll check in on you soon:)
Deirdre Samiotis <www.caringbridge.org/ct/deirdre>
East Hartford , Ct - Wednesday, September 3, 2003 7:58 PM CDT
I just wanted to stop in and see how you are doing - I loved your post and memories of Jalen - thanks so for sharing - hugs Angel Toto
Angel Toto
- Tuesday, September 2, 2003 0:52 AM CDT
IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS,IM CRYING WITH YOU TRUST ME.I HAD SEEN YOUR BABYS WeBSITE BEFORE HE PASSED HE IS SO SWEET.I HAVE A SON WITH LEUKEMIA
TOO (all). AGAIN IM SOO SORRY YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS FOREVER!!!
SUSAN GARDINER <gardiner.d.s@sbcglobal.net>
massillon, ohio usa - Monday, September 1, 2003 4:00 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know that we share your pain and emptiness! I know exactly how you feel and I am still waiting for that first visit from ANGEL COLBY. "GOD BLESS" Sending lots of love from above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Monday, September 1, 2003 10:24 AM CDT
Hi, I just wanted to say hi, I can't ever visit this site without crying. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to understand your pain. Jalen was such a cutie.
Paula (Mitch's mom) & Matthew <www.caringbridge.org/wa/mitchellboy>
vancouver, wa usa - Sunday, August 31, 2003 7:36 PM CDT
Hello Terry, I just found your web site from Katia's. I am so very sorry about the loss of your precious Jalen. He is a beautiful little man and I know that our Father in Heaven has a special place for him. When you hear the birds chirp, the sun rise, the gentle breeze around you, know that it's Little Jalen saying "Mommy, it's me, don't worry I have wings now and nothing will ever be wrong with me again! I am a perfect little angle in God's big house"! I am a woman who was diagnosed w/ breast cancer, went through 6 rounds of chemo, 6 operations since March, and will do 8 weeks of radiation starting Wed. Sept 4,2003. My sister, Mary Lou, checks on a few of the caringbridge sights, and really took it hard about Jalen. He is only a baby!!! My web site is www.caringbridge.org/ct/deirdre please feel free to sign my book, I would really love to hear from you! Please know that I am praying for strength and know that our Lord will never leave you or forsake you! (Jer 29:11). Terry, I can't imagine what you've been through, I just pray that you keep your faith, and wish you MANY MANY kisses from your precious Jalen. Your new friend....Deirdre
Deirdre Samiotis <www.caringbridge.org/ct/deirdre>
East Hartford , Ct - Saturday, August 30, 2003 2:20 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Saturday, August 30, 2003 4:03 AM CDT
hi
i feel like i have been in your site a 100 times but never write in the guestbook.im sorry... i have read all about jalen what a sweetie. i lost my son in april of this year and its been so hard but help from friends family and the support of the poeople here in cb have made me feel some what ok knowing there reading all about mitch..just like we all read about jalen. take care
mitch`s site
abbie <afraser1@tru.eastlink.ca>
truro, ns canada - Friday, August 29, 2003 3:21 PM CDT
Dana Sanford <pooh_n_tigger2002@yahoo.com>
Jackson, Mi - Friday, August 29, 2003 1:30 AM CDT
Terry,
Thank you so much for your kind words to Jessica’s, Jessica and Elijah are doing much better. I will be taking Jessica to Jackson Memorial in Miami for a follow-up in the morning.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family, keep your faith in our Lord. May Jalen's kisses fall upon your face and comfort your heart each and every night as you sleep.
God Bless
Mike & Liz Cox <MrB1ke@aol.com>
Lantana, FL - Wednesday, August 27, 2003 11:26 PM CDT
I wish upon a star... Got bless you and keep you strong
Pete Santiago <Peter.Santiago@macdill.af.mil>
Valrico, FL 33594 - Wednesday, August 27, 2003 1:41 PM CDT
He only takes the best...
God saw he was getting tired,
And a cure was not to be.
So he put His arms around him,
And whispered, "Come with me".
With tear filled eyes we watched him
suffer and fade away,
Although we loved him deeply,
We could not make him stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
hard-working hands put to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
-Author Unknown
Tracy <www.caringbridge.com/mn/eric.applen/>
Anoka , MN - Wednesday, August 27, 2003 1:49 AM CDT
Jeanette, beautiful words. I cannot imagine the night time and what you must feel. I pray for you and I pray God will bless you with peace and many happy dreams. I think one thing I love most about Katia, is her pucker. So that really touched me when you said he kissed you. Love,Tracy
~~Katia's Site~~
Tracy and Katia
- Tuesday, August 26, 2003 1:16 PM CDT
Jeanette,
Yes, your mom is wonderful to update and sign so many other guestbooks. Even so, I'm glad to read one from you. How is the counciling going? I can't imagine how hard this all must be and know you'll be grieving for a lifetime. My hope is it gets easier and that God grants you peace.
Love, Deirdre
- Tuesday, August 26, 2003 11:37 AM CDT
I wanted to add something - I have tell you how beautiful I think Jalen's pictures are - you can see his sweetness and bravery shining through - what courage to go through the treatment and keep smiling - what a wonderful boy.
Frieda Cramer
- Tuesday, August 26, 2003 10:56 AM CDT
Hello Dear Family.....
Angel Island Princess from Quilts Of Love here sending my thoughts and prayers to you today. I come here quite often to see how you both are doing. Please know that your family here at QOL think of you often and little Jalen. We just want you to know "we care".
Sincerely,
Island Princess
Island Princess <islandprincess@quiltsoflove.com>
- Tuesday, August 26, 2003 10:53 AM CDT
To Jalen's loving family - I lost my beloved grandson Quince to AML just before his first birthday this year, so I truly know what you went through. I know the Lord has these angels in His keeping and pray that He heal our hearts and let us have the courage to go on and help find a cure for this vicious disease. Bless you.
Frieda Cramer
- Tuesday, August 26, 2003 10:47 AM CDT
I can't imagine how much you hurt. I hope things get better for you. Your son is so gorgeous! love, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Sunday, August 24, 2003 11:37 PM CDT
Dear Terry and Jeanette;
I've been on Jalen's site quite a few times; I thought I had signed but I can't remember if I did or not. I always come back to see the beautiful pictures of Jalen. What a smile!!! What a sweet little angel boy and I hurt for you so much. I am praying for you and thinking of you and of little Jalen, I can't even tell you how much. Please take care of yourselves.
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
Sarasota, Florida - Sunday, August 24, 2003 10:45 PM CDT
Dear Terry and Jeanette, There isn't a day that goes by that Jalen is not on my mind. He loved everybody he was around and I'll alway's remember how he wanted to come to me and show him around wherever we were at the time. I loved the way he used to fall asleep on Bruces'stomach. I loved everything he done and feel cheated by him leaving us because I know we all could have learned alot from him. I love you all. Papa
Louis Dodaro <Navylou1925@aol.com>
Boca Raton, Fl. USA - Sunday, August 24, 2003 10:33 AM CDT
Continuing to think of your family and precious Jalen. Your work on the walk sounds wonderful. What a tribute to a beautiful little boy, and such help for those that have, or are going through, such difficulties.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Sunday, August 24, 2003 6:34 AM CDT
Terry, i just wanted to come by and say thanks for checking on Jackson. I know how hard it must be for you. As I read your entry, I am reminded of my 3 year old grand-daughter who calls me "maw maw". It would break my heart to never hear her call me that again. Take care..
VISIT JACKSON'S PAGE
Kristal Dickson <kdickson39@aol.com>
Wilmer, Al USA - Friday, August 22, 2003 11:01 PM CDT
Just wanted to drop by and say hello. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Friday, August 22, 2003 1:38 PM CDT
Am-Maw, Jeanette and Dale,
In my thoughts and prayers daily. I wish for you a good weekend. Lots of love!
Deirdre
- Friday, August 22, 2003 9:21 AM CDT
Hi Terry & Jeanette,
Just wanted to say hi...praying for you guys always...
~*Girlie's Page*~
~*Janice's Page*~
Love,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Friday, August 22, 2003 7:46 AM CDT
Thank you for coming by my Site.
I am so sorry for little Jalen,it's just not fair, is it?
I sometimes wonder why I 'made it? and others don't. I didn't deserve it more than the others. Suppose we'll never know.
I am very lucky but always am so sad when I hear of the others.
My mum has been reading about Jalen for many months. Knows all about him.
Hope you can find some peace in future days.
love Gemma
GEMMA'S JOURNAL
Gemma <luigitumminelli@virgilio.it>
Sicily, Italy - Thursday, August 21, 2003 2:56 PM CDT
Hi-just stopping in to see how you are doing. Thanks for visiting my son Mitch's web page. I hope you are hanging in there. I had a dream last night that we lost Mitch and it was the worst dream I have ever had. I am so sorry that you lost your little boy. I can't even find words to express my sadness. Please know people are praying for you and your family.
Paula (Mitch's mom) <www.caringbridge.org/wa/mitchellboy>
Vancouver, Wa USA - Wednesday, August 20, 2003 11:24 AM CDT
Jeanette and Terry, Please know you both are always in my prayers. I cannot imagine how this is feeling to you but I can only pray that God gives you moments of peace. For a long time I have always looked at picture taking as putting memories in albums. I am glad I have always done that because there are times it just feels good to look back and smile and really lose myself in those albums. Those were times when I didn't have all these worries. When I begin to feel the least bit sorry for myself I just thank God that I have Katia with me still. I know this may not last forever and that is just something that is reality and it hurts but I also know that nobody is promised tomorrow. My kids aren't promised they will have me or Myron around a year from now. Life has taken on a whole new meaning. I admire you for being so involved in helping to find a cure. Most people would just throw their hands in the air but you are not. You know what it is to face this horror and you are helping those who sadly WILL be diagnosed, today, tomorrow or a week or year from now. Everyday brings us closer to a cure. My prayer? That cure will be in Katia's lifetime. I am just so sorry it wasn't ready for Jalen. That little man really brought smiles to my face and really tugged on my heart. Your family is very special to me and always will be. Love, Tracy
~~Katia's Site~~
Tracy and Katia
- Tuesday, August 19, 2003 6:19 PM CDT
I came across your site from another CaringBridge site. I am so very sorry for your loss. Jalen's pictures are beautiful, I am sure he was a joy. Please know that you and your family are on my heart and in my thoughts. I will pray for you always.
A stranger who is praying for you
- Friday, August 15, 2003 10:15 PM CDT
I am sorry for what you have had to go through. What a beautiful site for your baby... take care, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Friday, August 15, 2003 11:07 AM CDT
Am-Maw, Jeanette and Dale,
Stop by several times a day for an update. Curious about how the counciling is going etc. I love to come by and look at Jalen's picture in Jesus' arms. God bless.
Love, Deirdre
- Friday, August 15, 2003 9:44 AM CDT
Touch Of An Angel
I felt an angel's touch today,
in the midst of my despair.
Twas sent by God, Himself, to say,
"be still and know I'm there."
To lead through days of darkness,
and light your way with love.
Be still and know, deep in your heart,
I'm reigning from above.
I'll lift you when you stumble,
I'm with you all the time.
I understand and share your pain;
remember child of mine,
The end is coming quickly;
the Lord shall soon appear.
To resurrect the righteous ones,
I love and hold so dear.
And bring them home, into a place,
where broken hearts are healed.
And promises I made to you,
will finally be fulfilled.
This life is but a spot in time,
a place for lessons learned.
Heaven holds the key to all,
your broken spirit yearns.
I sent an angel down today,
to show my words are true.
You're never far, beyond the arms,
of all God's love for you.
All material copyright @Judy Van Meter
You are in my heart and prayers. If you ever need someone to talk to or lean on, please email me. May God draw near and give you strength and hope and allow you to feel the touch of your angel.
Love and hugs
Judy
Website: http://www.catchanangel.com
Judy <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
- Friday, August 15, 2003 6:49 AM CDT
Terry: Just peeking in on you. Please know that you all continue to be in my prayers.....I'm sure Jalen and Meghan are dancing and shaking their booties all around Heaven...much to the delight of all the other angels who have joined them and those who went before them.
Carolyn Mack (Meghan's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com>
Titusville, FL USA - Thursday, August 14, 2003 7:49 PM CDT
Jeanette, Terry and Dale,
Hi I was just checking in to see how things are going and how you are coping. We pray for you every night to find peace and strength to get through each day. God Bless you always,
Kathy
Kathy <imprintsoffice@aol.com>
PA - Wednesday, August 13, 2003 10:45 PM CDT
Thinking about you all!!!!!!!!!!
Dawn M
wake forest, nc - Tuesday, August 12, 2003 7:08 PM CDT
Oh how my heart just breaks each and every time I stop by. I don't know how you all do it, but I know you are all so strong. The slideshow is wonderful! So precious. I continue to pray and think of you all. I know Jalen is always with you!
Michele <mash128@hotmail.com>
Winona, MN - Tuesday, August 12, 2003 1:38 PM CDT
"Am-maw", Jeanette and Dale,
Tuesday again, I know they are rough for you. Stopping by and saying a prayer.
Love, Deirdre
- Tuesday, August 12, 2003 7:46 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette, I wanted to stop by and say hello. I was thinking about you...take good care, Much love, Kathy
Kathy Charlton
- Tuesday, August 12, 2003 0:17 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I think of you each day. I know that you miss your beautiful baby boy terribly. I pray daily for you and that adorable angel Jalen. As others have said, your graphics are very moving.
Peace and God Bless!
Mikie from ALL-KIDS (www.caringbridge.org/tn/emily)
- Monday, August 11, 2003 8:51 PM CDT
I read quite a few Caringbridge sites, including yours and that slideshow you've added is beautiful. It's difficult to watch just because you're beautiful son is no longer physically here. It's a really great tribute to him. I have a "healthy" 2 year old daughter and it's people like you that teach me to NEVER take her or her health for granted. I thank you for that!
Danielle
Santa Clarita, CA USA - Monday, August 11, 2003 6:05 PM CDT
I have been to Jalen's page before but never signed. Tonight I decided to let you know that I was here. I hope the therapy will be beneficial. It is so important to learn how we must go on after the death of a loved one.And I know from experience that it is not an easy thing to do. I pray that god will give your family the strength that you need.
VISIT JACKSON'S PAGE
Kristal Dickson <kdickson39@aol.com>
Wilmer, Al USA - Sunday, August 10, 2003 10:16 PM CDT
Just wanted to come watch the slideshow again. That is so sweet and I am glad you have put it on there.Love, Tracy
Tracy and Katia
- Sunday, August 10, 2003 8:04 PM CDT
Dear family
We think of you and pray for you daily. We hope that your memories of Jalen bring you comfort and strength daily.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Sunday, August 10, 2003 7:19 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette and Terry, just stopping by to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I so hope the grief counseling will be a benefit to all of you. I am just so very sorry for your loss--from the pictures of Jalen I can see he is a beautiful boy! And Terry, just wanted to add that the ladybug dress you made for Katia is beautiful and she is gorgeous in it - I love the pictures on her site and your site is beautiful too! I visit daily although I do not always sign, but I do check in. God Bless you all.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Saturday, August 9, 2003 10:09 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette, Dale and Terry..
Just stopping by to wish you all a most peaceful weekend full of precious little Jalen memories.
Love, Kim and Kody Bear
~KODYS STORY~
- Saturday, August 9, 2003 8:43 AM CDT
Terry,
OH SO CUTE dress you sent to Katia!! How nice.
Jeanette and Dale,
Think about you daily and hope you are well. Take care and God bless.
Love, Deirdre
- Friday, August 8, 2003 2:45 PM CDT
What a lovely baby boy
I lost my baby boy Lucas 10 years to ALL
Lucas died 6 months after being Diagnosed.
We miss him so very much forever
http://www.geocities.com/lucasmc1991
B-day 05-19-91 A-day 09-30-01
Janice McCurdy <lucas_1991@yahoo.com>
Summerdale, Al USA - Thursday, August 7, 2003 7:56 PM CDT
My warmest thoughts and prayers are with you as you adjust to the loss of your precious Jalen. They tell me that my little girl (Codi) and I are headed down the same path. Codi has a website at www.codibug.com
I'm having some of the same feelings you expressed in your journal. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Take good care of yourself and try to think happy thoughts as often as you can. Jalen would want that!
Love,
Loni (Codi's Mom)
Loni <salemdualsport@aol.com>
Keizer, OR USA - Thursday, August 7, 2003 9:29 AM CDT
Jeanette and Terry. You are both so involved in the fight against Leukemia. Jeanette, I know it must be hard to be involved in the Light the Night and just even keeping up the webpage but you are really very inspirational and a very REAL kind of person. I appreciate that so much with you. Terry, I know this has been so hard, I mean you had Jalen all the time around you too and he seemed like such a WONDERFUL JOY to have around. I see you all over signing guestbooks. I look forward to hearing from you. You two really make a great team! I envy that, I don't have my Mom like that. I just want the two of you to know how special you are to me and my family. Jalen is a regular topic around here and you two also. I always share the guestbook entries and Jalen will always live on in this house. God bless each of you and the rest of your family! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's site
DX Leukemia AML M4 April 2002
Tracy and Katia
- Wednesday, August 6, 2003 9:20 PM CDT
Terry: Thanks for coming by Meghan's website all the time. I always check in on Jalen's page and always leave with a "I can relate to that", and of course.....why our babies????. Unfortunately, our grief is here to stay and I can't imagine how it can get better. I really hope the counseling helps. We haven't tried it, so let me know what you think. You and your family are always in my prayers....
Carolyn Mack (Meghan's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com>
Titusville, FL USA - Wednesday, August 6, 2003 6:23 PM CDT
I am glad to see that Jalen's family is able to go to counseling. I have never been to any myself but hear it's got some great advantages to help you get through the pain.
I wish you much luck with the walk in Jalen's memory. What a wonderful idea!
As for the dream, I visit a little girl's CB website and have definitely "heard" her mother's wishes for a dream...and it finally did come. I trust it will for you, too.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Wednesday, August 6, 2003 3:21 PM CDT
Jeanette:
You are simply one of the strongest and most courageous women ever. I just wanted to let you know that and hope it brings a smile to your face and warms your heart. Please know that although I don't know you personally, you surely are an inspiration to me. Please be strong in the days ahead and know you have friends and lives you are touching by just being you. Jalen is one absolutely beautiful little boy. Cherish the days you were granted to spend with him and take pride in knowing he is one of the most beautiful angels in the heaven's above! YOu both are in my heart and prayers.
Tera Cowee <tc@ndsstl.com>
STL, MO - Wednesday, August 6, 2003 2:17 PM CDT
Jeanette, Terry and DALE,
I have been remiss in mentioning Jalen's dad and I'm so sorry. I'm sure he goes through hell everyday as well. I think of you ALL and pray for healing and peace.
Love, Deirdre
Livonia, NY - Wednesday, August 6, 2003 9:45 AM CDT
Praying that you guys will find the peace and serenity which you so need to go on. I share your pain and emptiness that comes with the loss of a dear child. Sending our love your way from high above - ANGEL COLBY JAMES COLE AND CREW.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 10:12 PM CDT
Still thinking of you all.
Michele
Winona, MN - Tuesday, August 5, 2003 8:47 PM CDT
Jeanette and Terry, you are always in our prayers. I really hope the counseling is beneficial. Jeanette, I read some of your past journals 2 nights ago. I remember really looking forward to hearing how you guys were doing in the hospital and just praying Jalen would be able to go home soon. Please know I am praying for you. Love, Tracy
Tracy Solomon
- Monday, August 4, 2003 10:45 PM CDT
Terry,
Jeanette is so lucky to have you as was Jalen. Hope the counciling goes well. Two months already. I'm sure it's been the longest two months of your lives! God bless.
Love, Deirdre
- Monday, August 4, 2003 9:49 AM CDT
Hey Terry & Jeanette,
It was really nice to read your update...I can't imagine how much you must be missing Angel Jalen....I miss him too! I miss Jeanette updating us on the lil cute things that he would say and do. It was all so precious... he was such a spunky, cute, beautiful, smart lil boy that he gave us SO MUCH to miss...I know you are both holding him close to your heart...I think of him all the time and wonder what he's upto high above...I just know that he is truly, truly happy..and that makes me smile :) You guys keep strong...take it one day at a time! Know that you will always have a friend from Australia :) You are all always in my thoughts and prayers..
~*Girlie's Page*~
~*Janice's Page*~
Hugs,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, August 4, 2003 9:20 AM CDT
To Jalen's Family
We continue to think of you and pray for you daily. Special prayers today that all that you need (strength, comfort, peace etc.) God will provide for you.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Sunday, August 3, 2003 10:45 PM CDT
My heart aches for you. I too lost my daughter to AML Charlene was 18 and suffered 8 very long months with Leukemia. There must be a cure found. All to many children are leaving us. Not even a chance at life. They leave a cherished memory in our hearts forever and ever.
Here is my duaghters website. :: http://www.geocities.com/hlcmstars3/CharleneRoss.html
Berneice (charsmom) forever <charsmom79_98@yahoo.com>
Masontown, Pa USA - Sunday, August 3, 2003 8:45 AM CDT
That sounds like it will be beautiful.I cant wait to see the pictures of it.
Hugs and Prayers
Melissa
www.caringbridge.org/fl/jackie
Melissa <cart30@cox.net>
Cantonment, FL USA - Sunday, August 3, 2003 5:27 AM CDT
Hi jeanette
It was nice seeing you yesterday at your work. I hope to see you soon.
Rebecca Segall <bec820@aol.com>
Lake Worth, Fl 33467 - Saturday, August 2, 2003 8:59 PM CDT
Terry
It was wonderful to read your update. I will pray for the counselling to help you both find comfort.
Thinking of you and praying for you.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Friday, August 1, 2003 6:49 PM CDT
So you decided on "JALEN'S TEAM"..... LOVE IT!!!!!
We almost went that way too! Soooooooo glad to see you and your dad last night. I was soooooo proud of my Scott and I am sure Seth was very proud of his daddy. He did a great job.
Hope we bump in to each other soon.....like next Friday. "The other birdie" said we might run in to each other then at a park somewhere......hmmmmm all these rules of not mentioning names.....geez.
BYE BYE LITTLE BIRDIE
Ruthie and from heaven Seth (www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains) <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Thursday, July 31, 2003 7:30 PM CDT
I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda
Shelby Twp., MI - Thursday, July 31, 2003 4:47 PM CDT
God Bless you and your family... I too held an angel for 15 months....
Cindy , Brandon's mom <www.geocities.com/brandoncarrmemorialfoundation/Brandonspage.html>
New York, NY US - Thursday, July 31, 2003 4:06 PM CDT
HEY FAT HEAD YOU KNOW I MISS YOU AND DALE MOST OF ALL I MISS JALEN MORE THAN ANYTHING I PRAY THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE DOING WELL TELL EVERYONE I SAID HI ALSO I WOULD LIKE TO SEE YOU AND DALE LOVE YOU AND TAKE CARE TANYA!!!!!
TANYA MATTHEWS
RIVIERA BEACH , FL PALM BEACH - Thursday, July 31, 2003 12:48 AM CDT
Jeanette, I just wanted to drop a quick note and let you know I'm thinking of you. My dear sweet friend, Chassidy, went home this past Sunday. It has been a very rough week. You've been on my heart this week. I pray for your comfort and hope that you are finding peace - somewhere, somehow.
Ashley Patterson
- Thursday, July 31, 2003 11:33 AM CDT
I came across your website tonight through another caringbridge page and I just wanted to say that you've done such a wonderful job on this site... it's beautiful and straight from the heart. Your little angel in heaven is absolutely beautiful... God Bless you in this time. I would like to share with you a poem that I wrote for a friend of mine recently...
Thank You Dear Lord ~ Rachel K. (Aka Storm844@Aol.com)
We thank you tonight, dear Lord, for all the wondrous things,
we thank you for our son, dear Lord, who’s earned his angel wings.
We loved him oh so much Dear Lord, we had to let him go,
It’s you who’ll love him now dear Lord, of that we surely know.
We tried while he was here Dear Lord, to keep him free from harm,
please take his tiny hand now Lord, and make him safe and warm.
His favorite drink was juice Dear Lord, be sure he gets enough,
and if he falls and skins he knees Lord... do not worry, this kid’s tough!
He loved to read “Where the Wild Things Are,” he just learned his ABC’s
He’s allergic to milk and peanuts Lord, and he’s terrified of bees.
He has a couple nicknames Lord, which I’m sure he’ll let you know,
and a couple of scars from his illness Lord, which I’m sure to you he’ll show.
I know he’s doing better Lord, but I’m sure he’s missing Earth,
So please take these things to heart Dear Lord... save them for what they’re worth.
When he’s going to sleep each night Dear Lord, tuck him tightly into bed,
and don’t forget the stories Lord, and a goodnight kiss upon the head.
And if he starts to cry dear Lord, if he puts up a fuss,
please take him in your arms dear Lord, and sing to him of us.
Tell him that we loved him Lord, and so it came to be,
that when you called him home dear Lord... we had to set him free.
Tell him we’ll think of him Lord, and talk to him each day,
and we know that he is listening, Lord, each evening when we pray.
With this brand new strength, Dear Lord, we’ll greet each sun and moon,
knowing in the end Dear Lord, we’ll see him someday soon.
For when our times all come Dear Lord, for us we know he waits,
and when we get to heaven Lord, he’ll greet us at the gates.
He’ll run to us and hug us tight and once again we’ll be,
Together in each other’s arms... our happy family.
Rachel <storm844@aol.com>
Lexington, Ky USA - Thursday, July 31, 2003 0:25 AM CDT
My angel in the sky,
who comes to me in dreams at night.
you left me without a single word,
But when i close my eyes,
your voice is heard.
Telling me you'll be all right,
that your not scared,
your in the light.
And now whenever I need you near,
I close my eyes and you appear.
He's my angel in the sky,
who comes to me in dreams at night,
To let me know he's alright,
he's with god,
he's in the light.
someone who cares about you and your angel jalen. I miss you Jalen!!!!!
- Wednesday, July 30, 2003 10:07 PM CDT
Some days are a battle,
a steep climb uphill,
and you think you won't make it
and never will, but
DON'T GIVE UP!
When the money is low,
and the bills are high
and you hang your head and want to cry,
DON'T GIVE UP!
Things will go wrong--
and they always will;
but try to smile when you
get the bill, and
DON't GIVE UP!
Life may be a pallet
of gray skies and blue
but only storms can bring
a rainbow to you, so
DON'T GIVE UP!
Even when your spirits flying low
and you're floating on doubt
and your whole life is
suddenly turned inside out,
DON't GIVE UP!
Let me tell you
what success is all about,
it means hanging in there
and sticking it out! So
DON'T GIVE UP!
When you're tired
and you can't go on,
and your feul is low
and your hope is gone,
DON'T GIVE UP!
Remember your dreams
Even when they seem far,
because you never know
just how close you are, if you
DON'T GIVE UP!
The tide will always turn
when you're hardest hit,
so give it your all,
but never quit! And
DON'T GIVE UP!
(-PASSIONS.COM)
LOVE,
STEPHANIE
www.caringbridge.org/mn/brwn_eyed_shorty
Stephanie Harlow <stephanie12352@msn.com>
St. Cloud, MN USA - Wednesday, July 30, 2003 1:00 PM CDT
Terry and Jeanette, I just wanted to come by and leave you these little ladybugs. Katia went outside yesterday and when she came back in, I noticed one of the ladybug earrings were missing, well I was BESIDE myself. Those are so very important to us. I was in tears searching everywhere in the house and outside on the porch, in her little pool, just everywhere. Myron and the kids could see I was just very upset so everyone was looking. I came in and uploaded the pictures from my camera to see when the earring was last seen (good thing I take pictures all day, everyday) and I saw that it wasn't there before she went outside. I told everyone and Myron asked if I had looked in our bed where she napped and THERE IT WAS!!!! I was so very happy. So now they will be for special occasions:) I am so glad I found that! I got ladybug earrings for Mother's Day and one came out in the shower (we think) well we got in the car the next day and had to get another pair cause that just broke my heart. I now have an extra earring to go with mine. I just thought I would share that with you because I knew you would understand. I love you guys and I pray for both of you a lot. I think about Jalen ALL the time and I just imagine how much he is missed. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:)
(Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Wednesday, July 30, 2003 6:22 AM CDT
Terry,
Jeanette is so lucky to have you with her through this. I see you sign other guestbooks and know that you do it as you grieve for your own little peanut. God bless you and Jeanette.
Love, Deirdre
- Tuesday, July 29, 2003 7:48 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette, I stopped by to check and see how your doing. I am praying for God to give you strength to get thru this and I hope the grief counselling helps. I only have one son and I cannot imagine loosing him so I cant say I know how you feel so I won't. I did however loose my brother to juvenille diabetes. I loved him a lot and will always miss him and I know the pain subsides in time but little things still tear me up even after 13 years. Its been a long time and I still wonder if he was here right now what would he say or do. I hope that sharing our thoughts and prayers with you helps a little bit. I will pray for you and Jalen always. Take care and God Bless you!
Kathy <imprintsoffice@aol.com>
- Tuesday, July 29, 2003 7:19 PM CDT
It sounds beautiful. A place to sit and be with your baby.
I wish I knew a way to ease your grief. Just hold onto each other. You already have lost so much.
My heart goes out to you all.
Cheryl <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, July 29, 2003 11:29 AM CDT
Jeanette and Am-maw,
Glad to read you are going for help. I can't imagine your pain and maybe this can help some. Peace.
Love, Deirdre
- Tuesday, July 29, 2003 9:18 AM CDT
Hi Terry & Jeanette,
Terry, thank you for updating us :) I am glad to hear that you are both having grief counselling...I'm sure it will help out alot. Losing a loved one can be so extremely overwhelming..even those words are an understatement. Jalen's memorial bench sounds beautiful...I bet he is all excited up in heaven!!! :) I am thinking of all of you always and keeping you in my prayers...keep strong!
~*Girlie's Page*~
~*Janice's Page*~
Hugs & kisses,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, July 28, 2003 11:03 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette;
I've been on Jalen's website quite a few times in the last few weeks but this is the first time I have signed the guestbook. Your words of love for your baby just break my heart. I know your little boy was so very, very special and he still is. I really don't know what else to say. I wish I had the magic to fix everything for you, God only knows how much I wish. But I can't. So instead I will pray for you and your little angel. I am thinking of you. Please take good care of yourself.
Randa <randaleiper@hotmail.com>
Sarasota, Florida - Sunday, July 27, 2003 11:52 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know I've been thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Jalen's fountain and ducks are great!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Sunday, July 27, 2003 7:45 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. One of my greatest fears is losing my battle to leukemia. I can't sleep at night because I'm afraid I won't get up in the morning. I have never known such pain until I got AML, and my heart aches for those that fought hard and strong and didn't make it. I hope the best for you and your family. Thank you for visiting my website. You're in my prayers.
Love,
Stephanie
www.caringbridge.org/mn/brown_eyed_shorty
Stephanie Harlow <stephanie12352@msn.com>
St. Cloud, MN USA - Sunday, July 27, 2003 4:33 PM CDT
I am glad you are both going to grief counseling together. That must be better than doing all of this alone. Your family has been a true blessing to mine and Jalen will ALWAYS live in ALL of our hearts. Sharayah, Tatiana and Katia all grew very fond of him and eager to always hear how he was doing. They still look at and admire his picture in our album. I check your page so often just to see the pictures and the beatiful little pond and duckies. You guys made Jalen's life here on earth like Heaven. He was so loved and I am sure he felt that abundantly! God bless you all. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:)
(Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia and the whole Solomon Family:)
- Sunday, July 27, 2003 2:21 PM CDT
Hi Terry, so glad to see your update! Thank you for stopping by Seth's guestbook as well.
Hang in there with the counseling. It is helpful. Time will make it feel like it is helpful and that your are moving forward. Think about joining us at Camp Sunshine next May. Scott and I are working on funding for transportation for some families from our area. The camp is in Maine and it is awesome. My father died while we were there and they were so supportive.
Tell Jeanette I said hello.
Much Peace and Prayers
Ruthie and from heaven Seth (www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains) <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Saturday, July 26, 2003 7:19 AM CDT
Just stopping by to leave you hugs and prayers. You will always be a part of the Quilts Of Love family.
Sincerely,
Island Princess
Island Princess <islandprincess@quiltsoflove.com>
- Friday, July 25, 2003 10:12 PM CDT
Stopping by to let you know that I think of you often.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Friday, July 25, 2003 12:35 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
I just got back from a little vacation in Florida. I thought of you the whole time I was there. If I was anywhere near where you lived and I could have, I would have stopped in just to give you a hug. I'm still praying for your peace.
Adrienne's mom, Nichelle -- www.caringbridge.org/tx/adrienne <rejoice_first_lady@yahoo.com>
Cedar Park, TX USA - Wednesday, July 23, 2003 6:35 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette. I check in on you often. I still pray for you, your comfort, peace of mind. You are so amazing. And you are doing absolutely the right thing - taking this one day at a time. I remember when my cousin went "home" how difficult it was for my aunt and uncle. They had to take it one day at a time. To be honest, that emptiness you feel will always be there; someday you will just be better able to handle it. Don't worry about your future. Just make a concerted effort every morning. If you have to, take it an hour, even minute at a time. And remember, people love you and pray for you. Those days that you don't feel strong, reach out to someone close to you. They can help you through this. Remind people that they don't even have to say anything. All they have to do is hold you and offer a shoulder for you to lean on. I appreciate the card and the picture you sent me. I don't know if I've written that to you before now. Either way, I can thank you again. Take care of yourself,
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Wednesday, July 23, 2003 4:36 PM CDT
A life is never pointless. God gave you Jalen for a short period of time, because he knew that as parents you two would teach and love Jalen - now he has Jalen with him again. Your POINT is to continue to motivate people to learn more about this disease, to donate blood, marrow and money. You and Dale have a purpose - one you were givin
to begin with. Your a beautiful smart women - you have lived with the lose - think about grief counseling - for yourself - but whatabout those women sitting in the hospital all day - what about those babies whose parents CANT be there? So many wonderful things you can do with your self - you love you care - you have a purpose. Take time to grieve....only you know when you can move past the paralizing part... I have cried every single time I come to this website - I cannot even fathom the pain and the loss. But never doubt you have a purpose - never doubt you are cared for. Jalen was so lucky - and he will never ever be forgotten.
S
- Wednesday, July 23, 2003 12:05 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I see Jalen's grandma out and about on other web sites. How good of her to do that. Stopping by because I know Tuesdays are hard for you and you've gotten another one under your belt! Hope you are well and slowly but surely finding some peace. God bless.
Love, Deirdre
- Wednesday, July 23, 2003 9:25 AM CDT
Jeanette, I just wanted to come by and say hello and look around the page a bit. I really love the fountain and the duckies. Those are just so precious! I think about you a lot and of course, Jalen is never far from my mind. You had a beautiful Angel living right there with you. We are going up to High Springs Florida tomorrow and coming back Thursday and then I have my doctor appointment to find out the results of the mammogram. I am nervous and I hope getting away will take my mind off of things for a bit. Take care of yourself and tell your family I send hugs and hellos! Katia can't wait to get up to Ginnie Springs. The kids have been telling her all about it. We will be staying with some friends of ours right there and they have never met Katia. Last time I saw them, I was pregnant with her. I was also about 20 pounds lighter:) This should be fun. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:)
(Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Tuesday, July 22, 2003 8:58 AM CDT
I am praying for peace to come to you...Angel Baby Jalen is running with Jesus...and my little friend Kaitlyn who met your Jalen on July 13th. Angel Kaitlyn was only 11 years old and will be a great playmate/babysitter for Angel Jalen! She will run, laugh, and play with him every day. God bless you.
Doreen
CF, IA - Tuesday, July 22, 2003 8:30 AM CDT
Dear family we continue with our prayers for you each and every day.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Monday, July 21, 2003 9:10 PM CDT
Jeanette,
What a beautiful angel you have. This is the first time I have been to your site. So beautiful. What an incredible mother you are. The pain you suffer is the most unnatural pain in the world. Allow it to happen. It becomes a tribute to your precious little boy. I don't know your pain, for my daughter has not completed her journey yet. But I will also be there. You have entered a very special club of parents (and not one of us ever wanted this path) who experience a grief that no body else can. My best to you. May you receive comfort and peace.
Lisa Hurley
Russellville, AR - Monday, July 21, 2003 12:19 AM CDT
Just wanted to drop in and say hello. Still thinking of you all each and every day.
Michele
Winona, MN - Monday, July 21, 2003 10:25 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale
Hello. I just want to let you know that this weekend I sent Baby Jalen some balloons. Did a little prayer before i sent them off and blow him a big kiss.
I hope you are doing ok. You guys are all still on my prayers.
take care!
cindy rivera (wanda's friend from work) <chata924@yahoo.com>
Ft lauderdale, Fl USA - Monday, July 21, 2003 6:01 AM CDT
Hey Jeanette,
Just wanted to say hi..always thinking of you and Angel Jalen..
*~Girlie's Page~*
*~Janice's Page~*
Lots of love,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, July 20, 2003 11:59 AM CDT
Thinking of you and your sweet Jalen...
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 1:40 PM CDT
Hay sweetie...just wanted to stop in and let you know I was thinking about you..and you are in my daily thoughts and prayers!
Leaving you with lots of Love prayers and Snuggles 
Angel Moo
WV - Saturday, July 19, 2003 9:04 AM CDT
Those we love
remain with us,
for love itself lives on.
And cherished
memories never
fade because a
loved one's gone.
Those we love
can never be
more than a
thought apart,
For as long as
there is memory,
they'll live on
in the heart.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers today and everyday. I am praying for God to wrap you in his loving arms and comfort you at this most difficult time in your life. I wish there was something I could do or say to ease your terrible pain. It is good to see you updating this journal, for I do believe that writing will assist you in working through your grief. God Bless you and your loved ones and Angel Jalen.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Saturday, July 19, 2003 1:22 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I just wanted to come by and let you know that I am thinking of you and Dale and Angel Jalen. I know this is such a difficult time and I know that you are struggling. I have not had to bury a child but I have had to walk next to my daughter as we buried my grandson 3 years ago. I wish I could tell you something that would comfort you but I also know that there are no words. Missing Jalen is something that you will NOT get over - ever - but over time the pain will ease a little. Just give yourself the time and space to grieve and keep writing - it helps, it really does. Also know that they are so many of us out here who will always remember Jalen and were so touched by his short life. We loved him too even though we never got to 'meet' him and we will be here for you too ~ if there is ANYTHING that we can do, please do not hesitate to let us know. In the meantime, we will be by to check on you and we are only an email away.
Love & Prayers,
Jean Ilderton
Jean - Quilts of Love <jean@quiltsoflove.com>
Tucson, AZ - Friday, July 18, 2003 5:14 PM CDT
Dear Jalen's Mommy ~~
I have never even remotely walked in your shoes; however, I want you to know that your life here on Earth is not pointless. You had a job, albeit way too short, of taking the best care of your baby Jalen while he was here on Earth. For reasons that none of us can fully understand, God needed him in Heaven much sooner than any of us would hope for. Even though you may not see it, you are still helping those of us who visit your website. Through you, we still feel connected to Jalen and you have most likely helped other families that are (unfortunately) walking in the same shoes you have. You now have the job of taking care of yourself, just as Jalen would want.
Continuing to update your website is proof-positive that you still have purpose in this world. Carrying Jalen's legacy is a big job, and you're doing great at it.
May God Bless You and Keep You Strong.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Friday, July 18, 2003 12:35 AM CDT
Jeanette, I'm praying for you sweetie that "Our Lord" will just wrap you in His arms of love until this terrible storm passes by..and that in time all the wonderful memories of your precious Jalen will bring happiness to your heart..We love you and please know you are in our thoughts and our prayers always..{{{{Jeanette}}}} Carolyn
Carolyn <carolynj52@ilovejesus.net>
Oklahoma - Friday, July 18, 2003 10:03 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
We will never forget Jalen in the short time he was with us. Our tears will always be there for him but lets turn them into "Happy Tears" for the little boy that won over our hearts. I love you. Your Papa
Louis Dodaro <Navylou1925@aol.com>
Boca Raton, Fl. USA - Friday, July 18, 2003 7:30 AM CDT
Hello Jalen's family - I will not say I know what you are going through because I have never had to deal with the loss that you have. I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and praying to our dear Lord for him to help comfort you all. Jalen is so precious, the pictures make me smile, his smile is beautiful and I have faith that he is watching over you from heaven, still loving you all. Love Angel Sky
Angel Sky
- Friday, July 18, 2003 2:09 AM CDT
MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR LOSS..I HOLD YOU IN MY
HEART, THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS
MANY HUGS AND BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
BLESSINGS
ANGEL CHRIS
CHRIS <wardsweb@earthlink.net>
LOS ANGELES, CA USA - Friday, July 18, 2003 0:46 AM CDT
Just thinking about you and wanted to come by and say hello:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:53 PM CDT
God bless Girl friend.
Love, Deirdre
- Wednesday, July 16, 2003 12:47 AM CDT
Thinking and praying for you! Jalen and you touched and continue to touch so many lives!
Laura
Orlando, FL - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 11:33 AM CDT
Thinking of you today.
Maria
NJ - Wednesday, July 16, 2003 9:59 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
You are still in my prayers. Sounds like your week has been like ours. All three of our hamsters died this week. My five year old son said that Adrienne has three hamsters now. Today is seven months since my Adrienne left us for her heavenly home. Sometimes I just need someone to talk to who knows what I'm going through and I can't wait once a month for Compassionate Friends. They do have a chatroom at scheduled evenings during the week:
http://www.compassionatefriends.org/Chat/chat_entrances.shtml
Here is a link for a 24 hour chat room for people who are bereaved:
http://www.groww.org
The 24 hour chat room is for everyone, but certain times in the day there's a chatroom specifically for bereaved parents:
http://www.groww.org/Branches/heavenly.htm
This link will give you the schedule.
As for every bereaved parent, I'm praying for your peace.
Adrienne's mom, Nichelle -- www.caringbridge.org/tx/adrienne <rejoice_first_lady@yahoo.com>
Cedar Park, TX USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 2:43 PM CDT
Hey Jeanette,
I was just thinking of you...sending you lots of hugs...
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Hugs & kisses always,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 10:43 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
My heart aches for your loss. I can't even imagine what you're going through. I'll pray for strength for you. Thinking of you. God Bless. Dolores, Joe and Ryon and boys
The Rommel's <datz-phat@mail.com>
Jupiter, Fl. USA - Tuesday, July 15, 2003 7:16 AM CDT
Continuing to think of you....
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Monday, July 14, 2003 7:28 AM CDT
Jeanette~ I heard this song on the radio the other morning and it reminded me of Jalen. Its country so I know you haven't heard it. I switched out the words to being a boy and the age to Jalen's age. It is also a good song for the parents of the beautiful lil girl Katia who has the same thing Jalen did. Its called the Streets of Heaven by Austin Sherrie
The streets of Heaven.
Hello God, it's me again. 2:00 a.m., Room 304.
Visiting hours are over, time for our bedside tug of war.
This sleeping child between us may not make it through the night.
I'm fighting back the tears as he fights for his life.
Well, it must be kind of crowded,
On the streets of Heaven.
So tell me: what do you need him for?
Don't you know one day he'll be your little boy forever.
But right now I need him so much more.
He's much too young to be on his own:
Barely just turned one.
So who will hold his hand when he crosses the streets of Heaven?
Tell me God, do you remember the wishes that he made,
As he blew out the candles on his last birthday cake?
He wants to drive a car when he's big enough.
He wants to marry his Mommy when he's all grown up.
Lord, don't you know he's my angel
You got plenty of your own
And I know you hold a place for him
But he's already got a home
Well I don't know if you're listenin'
But praying is all that's left to do
So I ask you Lord have mercy, you lost a son once too
And it must be kind of crowded,
On the streets of Heaven.
So tell me: what do you need him for?
Don't you know one day he'll be your little boy forever.
But right now I need him so much more.
Lord, I know once you've made up your mind,
There's no use in beggin'.
So if you take him with you today, will you make sure he looks both ways,
And would you hold his hand when he crosses the streets of Heaven.
I Love you Jalen and I hope you received the balloon I sent you thank you for slowing down the pressure of the sprinklers so we could watch the balloon get to you and not get wet and when you put them on full force right when we lost site of the balloon to let us know you got it. I am glad you are watching over us. Take care of your new lil fish mommy is really upset that she lost them, but we all know you just wanted some pets!!!
Take care and lots of love, hugs and prayers,
Courtney
Courtney Stacy <Queen10C@aol.com>
Lake Worth, FL Land of the FREE! - Sunday, July 13, 2003 12:43 AM CDT
Oh, Jeanette I am so sorry. I wish so bad that somehow I could tell you a magic way to get your dear baby back. I know he was just such a part of you! I think Jalen has received a LOT of fish lately:) Fish aren't going to want to come home with me anymore. Jeanette, I think there is no way that anyone can tell you how to cope with this and I guess that means you too. Whatever you are feeling, or doing is your best. Jalen I am sure is kissing you when you kiss him. I think you are just such a sweet Mommy! You will always be Jalen's Mom but he has just moved on to Heaven now. You will be with him again some day but God must have plans for you that he wants you to be a part of. You are such an awesome person, God must need you here to meet someone or talk to someone but something to make a difference in another person's life:) My Grandmother was alive 29 years after my Grandfather passed on. She thought God had forgotten about taking her but she finally I guess fulfilled His desire to see her kids all back together and getting along. She was the only one really that could make that happen. I guess not all things are that clear until after the fact. Jeanette, I pray for you so much. If you find something sad then cry. But promise that if you find something funny, you won't be afraid to laugh:) Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Friday, July 11, 2003 11:30 AM CDT
I am sorry to hear that the fish have passed away. Must be little Jalen wanted them WITH HIM, instead of watching over them? It sounds like your coworkers are great listeners ~~ that must be so helpful at times. Also, working out at the gym must help to get rid of a lot of stresses.
I think about little Jalen and his family a lot, and cannot even imagine how difficult all of this must be.
God Bless all of you, and Keep You Strong.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Thursday, July 10, 2003 8:54 PM CDT
I found your website on Janice's page and thought I would let you know I am thinking about you. Although I can not begin to know what you are going through, I can feel your pain in every word you write. Please know that I am praying for you and your family. I pray you will find comfort in each passing day. May God Bless you.
Shannon <dkslduncan@aol.com>
Huntersville, NC - Thursday, July 10, 2003 4:00 PM CDT
I found your website on Janice's page and thought I would let you know I am thinking about you. Although I can not begin to know what you are going through, I can feel your pain in very word you write. Please know that I am praying for you and your family. I pray you will find comfort in each passing day. May God Bless you.
Shannon <dkslduncan@aol.com>
Huntersville, NC - Thursday, July 10, 2003 3:56 PM CDT
Jeannette,
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and Prayers,
www.caringbridge.com/sc/tommygresham
Dawn Gresham <bdmtg@hotmail.com>
Warrenville, SC - Thursday, July 10, 2003 3:16 PM CDT
Dear Jeannette
We don't know eachother but I've been following your site. It breaks my heart to hear how much pain you are in. I have no idea "how" you feel, I can only imagine your pain. But I do know this...Jalen loves you soooooo much and misses you as much as you miss him, let him comfort you in your pain. He is with you every single day, every time the wind blows that's Jalen blowing you a kiss, each morning when the sun comes out, that's Jalen smiling upon you, He is your angel and he is with you EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. Continue to talk to him he hears you, continue to blow him kisses, he gets them! Know that God never gives us more than we can handle. He gave Jalen to you because YOU are special, he now needs Jalen to do other work for him because he is also special. I will continue to pray that you can find peace and strength at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Lisa Searle
lisa searle <lisa.searle@relizon.com>
salt lake city, ut usa - Thursday, July 10, 2003 1:06 PM CDT
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
A stranger / A friend
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 12:33 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
Oh I just wish I could put my arms around you...I know you miss Jalen more than anything...I am thinking of you always...thinking of your precious angel in Heaven. I can't say it will get easier but I hope as the days go by, you will feel more at peace and comfort without Jalen in your life...he is always walking beside you in spirit... hang in there!!! Sending you lots of hugs and kisses :)
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Love always,
XOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Thursday, July 10, 2003 9:00 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I can't imagine your pain but you have to keep going. Jalen wouldn't want you to give up. Go and get some help, there's nothing wrong with needing a little help through this awful time. I pray for you and want you to know my thoughts are with you.
Love, Deirdre
- Thursday, July 10, 2003 8:26 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I am so sorry for all the hard times you are having to go thru. You are still in my prayers. How is Dale dealing with everything? Stick together at a time like these . I am sure you both need eachother. God Bless!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Thursday, July 10, 2003 5:57 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I'm sorry you are having such a hard time right now. Jalen & many other little angels are watching over you and will carry you through this. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers!
Amanda <mrlynr1110@aol.com>
- Wednesday, July 9, 2003 10:21 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette--my heart aches so badly for you. I cannot even begin to know how you feel, but please know you are in my prayers. If you do not make it to the cemetary, please be "ok" with that. Jalen is with you always wherever you may be. I can completely understand your feelings about the fish--that has to be so difficult--I will say an XTRA prayer for you tonight. God Bless you.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Wednesday, July 9, 2003 9:08 PM CDT
I still check in on you and I'm sorry you are struggling. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda
Shelby Twp., MI - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 9:05 PM CDT
I am so sorry for the loss of your child. But whenever you feel sad just remember that Jalen is watching over you. You are in my prayers....and God only picks the best for his garden!!
Christa <bratbabby88@yahoo.com>
Ironwood , MI USA - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 6:32 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
I am hurting for you ... I can't begin to imagine your pain! Please take care of yourself and do what you need to do (if it is reasonably healthy!) to make it through.
You don't HAVE to go to the cemetary on Jalen's 19th month birthday ... he is in your heart and with you wherever you go. Only do what you have to do, okay?
My prayers and tears are with you ... may you feel the presence of God through someone today!
Linnae <lbosma@usfamily.net>
Brooklyn Park, MN - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 2:36 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to find peace and comfort. Remember, that death ends a life not a relationship. Your relationship with Jalen lives on in you and your family. Take care of yourself because Jalen would want that for you! Be good to yourself! Natalie
Natalie
Calgary, Alberta Canada - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 12:23 AM CDT
Happy 19th Month Birthday Jalen!
Michele
Winona, MN - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 10:25 AM CDT
Jeanette, I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you and your family. I wish I had more words but I really don't know what to say except that I pray you can eventually have the healing you deserve and need! Remember the chimes I sent for Jalen....know that every time they ring, it is Jalen, your sweet little angel.
Lots of Love to you and your family,
Love Tina Klonaris-Robinson
Tina Klonaris Robinson <tina_bahamas@yahoo.com>
Nassau, Bahamas - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 9:34 AM CDT
"Gods Finger Touched Him And He Slept"
*HUGS*
- Wednesday, July 9, 2003 9:10 AM CDT
I am so sorry for the pain you are feeling. I can't not even begin to imagine. Jalen has a wonderful mommy! You are stronger than you think, I've seen it. Stay strong!!! I will continue to pray for comfort for your family.
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 8:07 AM CDT
I'm so sorry for all the pain you're going through. I know I can't understand how you feel or even try and put myself in your shoes but know that Jalen is 100% healed now. God chose you to be his mommy and he to be your son..he will always be in your heart. God chose him..he must have something very special in mind as he only chooses the best. Know that i am praying for you...
love and prayers-
Jennifer Parenti <parenti@netzero.net>
Orford, NH USA - Wednesday, July 9, 2003 6:21 AM CDT
Jeanette - I wish I could say something to you to make the pain a little easier to bear but I know that's impossible. You have just been through and will continue to go through the most horrible of life's experiences. Nothing and I mean nothing is worse than loosing your child. But from what I've come to know about you and Jalen, you are both very STRONG and I know that you will find a way to go on. You just have to concentrate on what Jalen wants you to do and I know that you can feel his presence and love surround you. His body may not be with you but I truly believe that the spirit is much, much stronger than these frail bodies we use while we are here on earth. So ... take comfort in his presence - he's never far away - just close your eyes and put your arms around yourself - he's there just as God is and together you will all get to tomorrow and the next day and the next.
May you find Peace and Comfort.
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 9:26 PM CDT
on my last note i forgot to say happy fourth of july
savanah fry <banana1494@hotmail.com>
boyton beach, fl u.s.a - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 7:38 PM CDT
Jeanette
I am so so sorry what happend to you.You don't deservet it.
I hope you and your husben arent to lonley.I miss seeing you and Jalens smile at the hospital.Like I said befor your a nice lady and what hapend to you wasent your falt and don't let enyone tell you difforent.I miss you and Jalena ton.how are you doing?I wanted to tell you that when I grow up and get marid and have babys and one of them is a boy I'm going to name him after your son. Jalen.I fell so bad about what happend and for you.Sence i'm writing to you i sure hope you remember me.rite now i bord because my count's are 416 witch is verry low and that means i can't go anywere or have any friends over.I wish you were write next to me painting my toenails.
love savanah
g2g (got to go)
savanah elizabeth fry <banana1494@hotmail.com>
boyton beach, fl u.s.a - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 7:32 PM CDT
Jeanette: I come by here alot and when I read your journal today I sat here at my computer and thought WHY? Why are these precious babies dying? Why are we left here to carry on? I'm so saddened by all of these babies earning their wings. I too hate certain days (mine's particularly Fridays) I can feel it to the second when Meghan left this earth and it's a hole in my soul that can never go away. I wish you all the peace as you continue on without your baby as I try to do without mine. Yes, I too am sure that Jalen and Meghan are dancing in Heaven. My thoughts are with you.
Carolyn Mack (Meghan's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/meghansjourney <tmcmbm@aol.com>
Titusville, FL USA - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 7:30 PM CDT
Dear Mom,
I know you're going to miss me, but don't think that I will ever forget you or stop loving you because I'm not around to say I LOVE YOU. I'll think of you every day mom, and I'll love you even more each day. Some day we will see each other again.
Don't be sad when you think of me, this is really a great place. The angels are so friendly, and I love to watch them fly. Jesus doesn't look like any of the pictures I saw of Him, but I knew it was Him as soon as I saw Him. Jesus took me to see GOD! And guess what Mom? I got to sit on God's knee and talk to Him like I was somebody important. I told God that I wanted to write you a letter and tell you good-by and everything, but I knew that wasn't allowed. God handed me some paper and His own personal pen to write you this letter with. I think Gabriel is the name of the angel that is going to drop this letter off to you.
God said for me to give you the answer to one of the questions you asked Him about...Where was He when I needed Him? God said, "The same place He was when Jesus was on the cross." He was right there, as He always is with all His children.
Oh, but the way, mom, nobody else can see what is written on this paper but you. To everyone else, it looks like a blank piece of paper. I have to give God His pen back now. He has some more names to write in the Book Of Life. Tonight, I get to sit at the table with Jesus for supper. I'm sure the food will be great.
I almost forgot to let you know - Now I don't hurt anymore, the cancer is all gone. I'm glad because I couldn't stand that pain anymore and God couldn't stand to see me suffer the pain either, so He sent The Angel of Mercy to get me. The Angel said I was a Special Delivery!
Signed with love from: God & Jesus, and Me
P.S. XXX OOO
A friend
- Tuesday, July 8, 2003 1:24 PM CDT
Jeanette, I am so sorry about the fish. You're absolutely right though, Jalen wanted them. Try and take peace knowing that. I am sorry you are having such a bad day. I wish I could say or do something to make it better. Know that Jalen is watching over you and will keep you strong.
Michele
Winons, MN - Tuesday, July 8, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
Jeanette,
What a beautiful baby boy and I'm sure he loves his fountain full of fish.
Love, Deirdre
- Monday, July 7, 2003 9:07 PM CDT
I was so glad to see your update. I think about you all every day. The pictures are wonderful - what a handsome little guy. He is a perfect angel.
Mary Kitchen <zackysmom@city-net.com>
Pittsburgh, - Monday, July 7, 2003 3:26 PM CDT
I am so glad to read your new update. I think of you often and hope you are making it through each day. Loved the new pictures. Jalen was such a handsome little guy. I am so glad he continues to smile that amazing smile down on you from heaven. Many hugs to you.
Kristi
WI - Monday, July 7, 2003 11:28 AM CDT
Still thinking of you all. What a wonderful idea about the fountain! You know Jalen is smiling down at that! Jeanette and Dale, the pictures are beautiful. He is indeed a handsome little angel.
Michele
Winona, MN - Monday, July 7, 2003 9:25 AM CDT
What a wonderful idea the fountain is and a great memorial to Jalen. The pictures of Jalen are so very precious. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you are going through, but I want you to know I think of you often and I have been keeping you in my prayers.
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Monday, July 7, 2003 1:15 AM CDT
So glad to read your update - the fountain is a wonderful memorial to Jalen's memory. I am glad work is going a bit better and that you are able to talk with friends. You seem to be a very strong person. Jalen was so lucky to have had you--you were so blessed to have each other. The loss of a child is impossible for me to understand. I pray for you and Angel Jalen every day. God Bless you all.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Sunday, July 6, 2003 9:56 PM CDT
I was so glad to see an update. The fountain sounds beautiful. We want to do some type of a little butterfly garden in the back in Seth's memory...just trying to figure out what we want. I know we will get a trian in it some how.
I can't wait to see the bricks out at the park. Hope they are done soon.
Please call if you want to chat.
Much Peace Prayers Love and HOPE for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie and from heaven Seth (www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains) <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, July 6, 2003 9:21 PM CDT
Jeanette, thanks for updating. We continue with our prayers for you. I'm glad that work is going better these days. Thinking of you always.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Sunday, July 6, 2003 8:40 PM CDT
Jeanette, you are always in my prayers. I thinking the fountain is just a great way of being able to reflect on your love for Jalen. It is peaceful and beautiful. A mother's love is so bonded with her children and I can't imagine how you must feel right now. I am glad your work is going okay and your friends are there to listen to you. Friends are wonderful like that. I think of Jalen on a daily basis, throughout the day. I just pray he is happy and can still look upon your face. Your face brought so much comfort to him beyond what we can ever imagine. When Mom is around, everything is better. Well, I don't want to babble on and on. I was going to email you but I decided to post instead. A LOT of people have been coming by your site but I decided to post to you. I hope this page can bring you comfort. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Sunday, July 6, 2003 5:33 PM CDT
Thinking of you daily and praying for comfort and stregnth for you each day.
Nicole W <nicole54660@msn.com>
Toamh, WI - Sunday, July 6, 2003 11:10 AM CDT
I just wanted you to know that I am still thinking of you (and Jalen). I can't imagine how difficult this is for you and your family. He is so greatly missed.
Peace and God Bless!
Mikie from ALL-KIDS (www.caringbridge.org/tn/emily)
- Saturday, July 5, 2003 11:42 AM CDT
Hi there Jeanette. I just wanted to come by and sign. I keep coming back to the page but... Well no excuses. I was thinking about yo last night and I know you are going to find a lot of strength in something. You are such a strong person, Jeanette. I pray for you and I am sure a lot of people pray for you. So many people come by Jalen's site and Jalen will never ever ever be forgotten! I don't think 30 minutes even pass without him crossing my mind. Katia sends you a big hug and kiss. I hope you get together with family today and enjoy your 4th of July as best as can be. Know that we think of your sweet little boy and you and your whole family. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Friday, July 4, 2003 7:15 AM CDT
Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you and Dale, and Jalen in Heaven.
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Friday, July 4, 2003 6:32 AM CDT
Thinking of you.....
Love
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Thursday, July 3, 2003 6:59 PM CDT
Jeanette, Dale, Am-Maw and all of Angel Jalen's family and friends
Sending special prayers for you today.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Thursday, July 3, 2003 4:59 PM CDT
Cheryl <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, July 2, 2003 0:07 AM CDT
I'm always praying for you!
Doreen
CF, IA - Tuesday, July 1, 2003 8:41 PM CDT
Hello Jeanette, I wanted to stop over and tell you that I was thinking of you...there are no words, you are strong...Love, Kathy
Kathy Charlton
- Tuesday, July 1, 2003 8:59 AM CDT
I'M SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SORRY
Savanah <banana1494@hotmail.com>
boyton beach, fl u.s.a - Monday, June 30, 2003 10:11 PM CDT
Just wanted to drop you a line and let you know I'm still thinking about you all and continuing to pray for you to find the strength that will get you through today and tomorrow... I know you miss Jalen but I also know that you can feel his presence and his spirit surround you. He continues to be a positive influence in my life and I want to thank you for sharing your journey with all of us!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Monday, June 30, 2003 10:04 PM CDT
hey jeanette,
i know what you mean i can't believe that he's actually gone it's hard to picture that.i try not to think of that cuz that makes me sad to i miss him soo much.i kno i aint know him for a long time but i felt like he was really close to me like if he was a little brother or cousin or something.
if you ever need something or wanna talk i'll be here to listen.
love daisy
god bless
daisy sanchez <suavecita213@aol.com>
delray beach, fl usa - Monday, June 30, 2003 4:38 PM CDT
I think of little Jalen so often...
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Monday, June 30, 2003 2:39 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette I've been praying for you lots and hope that God is continuing to give you strength and comfort. I can not imagine your pain but I wanted to let you know that I continue with my prayers for you and your family. I was wondering how your mom is doing? I know that she used to update the site sometimes when you were unable to.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Monday, June 30, 2003 1:40 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I hope this week goes better for you. I've been camping and thought of your angel when I saw butterfies. God bless.
Love Deirdre
- Monday, June 30, 2003 8:52 AM CDT
Jeanette,
Hey there! I am sorry that you are having a hard time without Jalen. I pray that God will ease your pain in time. Eventhough I haven't met you and Jalen, yoour story has touched me deeply. Good Luck with work and the gym. God Bless. In my prayers.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, June 30, 2003 6:45 AM CDT
Hey Jeanette,
I just wanted to come by and let you know that I was thinking of you...I have been thinking of precious Angel Jalen a WHOLE lot lately..and I miss checking on him SOOO much!! Hearing of all the lil cute things that he would do... I wish I could be there to give you a BIG hug and to share the pain with you and to share the tears with you.. you, along with Dale, have such special places in my heart.. Angel Jalen has had a special place in my heart for a LONG, LONG time now..the first time I saw his beautiful picture, he melted my heart instantly!!!! That was how beautiful and adorable he was... I am sending you lots of love, peace and comfort...I know the days are hard and you just want to breakdown and cry (I feel the same way eversince losing my mom) but hold Jalen close to your heart and he will help you through the difficult days.. keep strong!!
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Lots of LOVE,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, June 29, 2003 9:14 AM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I am very impressed with his web site and everything you wrote. I lost my son to nearmiss SIDS nearmiss meaning they were abble to revive him but due to lack of oxygen to the brain he lasted with us two more days but we had to make a decision to take him off life support due to him rapidly going brain dead. It killed me to see him suffer those two days so I can identify with your pain. My son died in my arms and a piece of me died with him. It has been 6 mo.already. Trust me you will feel a tiny bit better with each day that passes. It wont feel so raw. But I want you to know that we can slip back to thse real painfull feelings again but its ok because its normal as long as you keep on going. God is listening to us because I would have never gotten through if I didnt have him to help me. Take care.
audra <dale.prescod@verizon.net>
dorchester, ma usa - Saturday, June 28, 2003 10:00 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette. Thank you so much for the note. I want you to know I am always here for you no matter what. I can't imagine how you are coping but I hope my prayers do help. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy
- Saturday, June 28, 2003 4:53 PM CDT
hey jeanette i hope your doin good and everything is ok with you.i dont kno wut to say cuz i feel like if i say something about jalen it might make u bring back the painfull memeries and make you and me cry so im just hoping u doin good.
luv and alwayz will
daisy sanchez
take care ....god bless
daisy sanchez <suavecita213@aol.com>
delray beach , fl usa - Saturday, June 28, 2003 2:51 PM CDT
Thinking of you:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Friday, June 27, 2003 1:25 PM CDT
Praying for you each and every day.
Doreen
CF, IA - Thursday, June 26, 2003 11:04 PM CDT
Thinking of you all everyday. Jalen you are the most handsome angel in the sky!
Michele
Winona, MN - Thursday, June 26, 2003 1:43 PM CDT
I am so sorry you have to go through this. I don't have any answers to offer you just tears and prayers.
DeAnna, Chase's mom, dx'ed 9-01 w/ an anaplastic astrocytoma , a malignant brain tumor <www.caringbridge.org/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Thursday, June 26, 2003 11:05 AM CDT
I am thankful to know that Jesus is there for all of us and he holds Jalen in His arms until Mommy and Daddy and all his family get there. May God give you His strength to finish out your lives knowing that you are still and will always be parents (no matter where your child is) and may you know that a minute in heaven is as a thousand years here so...even though it may be years for us to be reunited with those we love, for Jalin, it will only be moments until we are all there with him:-)
Amen
Tina Griffin <Mitttalk@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 9:35 PM CDT
I love that saying about measuring life by the moments that take our breath away. Beautiful words. I just came by and wanted to tell you that you were on my mind:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy
- Wednesday, June 25, 2003 2:16 PM CDT
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."
Michele
Winona, MN - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 1:29 PM CDT
Hey Jeanette, I am no longer going to write in the guestbook, one reason is because it hurts when I read your updates. Just reading your updates and seeing pictures of Jalen seems like I've known you 4ever and you live just next door. I'm going to miss saying hey Jalen in the beginning when I write. I'm just letting you know I will ALWAYS keep you in my prayers. sending you...love...hugs...prayers...smiles...
I'll miss you!
Love always in Christ,
Lindsey <caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, VA USA - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 1:23 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
I am just in tears reading your update...I also know what it's like to lose someone you LOVE sooooooooo much with all your heart...to me, that was my mom...when she died, it was just so horrible...I felt so much pain..emotional pain turned into physical pain...I could feel the pain in my heart, in my skin...so much anger and frustration..why her? Why did SHE have to be sick? Why did it have to be MY mom? So many questions we have that we don't have the answers to till it is our time...I feel for you, Jeanette and though I may not understand the pain to losing a child, I can understand part of your pain and from where it's coming from...I just think that it's great that you can express your feelings and sadness like that...it may seem depressing but it's good for you. I know that Jalen loved you with all his heart..you were his mommy!!!! His one and only mommy...and you have his heart, just like he has yours I'm sure :) Hang in there! I'm constantly praying for you and Dale...
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Hugs,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 6:59 AM CDT
I have no idea how you feel. I know someone who knows exactly how you feel. Jesus understands every emotion and wants to hold you through all of them. About the cemetary--don't apologize for not going there---he is not there, he is risen--in the eternal presence of Jesus Christ. He certainly understands that you will visit the gravesite when you can. My only advice to you right now--do whatever you need to for you and keep Jesus by your side through all the memories, anger, frustration, fear and everything else you feel but cannot express. In the meantime, know that you are loved and cared for and very much in my thoughts and prayers. Blessings to you. I will check in again soon.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Wednesday, June 25, 2003 1:39 AM CDT
Jeanette,
Baby girl, I know it was hard for you to watch those children dance and play games, but remember no one Jalen's age has the rhythm Jalen has. He is the youngest but but shaker I know. Remember what I told you any time you think of him or say his name thats when he is right next to you holding your hand and dancing right along with you. He is with you in everything you DO...I love you baby girl
Jalen~> My lil man with wings take care of mama while she is working talk to her every night before you go night night and every morning when you wake up wake her up so she is not late for work. And when she feels like she can't go on any further take her hand and help her just like she did for you. She loves you just like we all do and misses you just like we all do. Thoughts and Prayers are with you always and not a day goes by that you guys aren't on my mind. Much love with hugs and kisses MUAHS:-*
Courtney Stacy <Queen10C@aol.com>
Lake Worth, FL - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 10:32 PM CDT
Please know that you are not alone in your sorrows over the loss of your sweet baby. I still ask over and over "why". Why will be answered one day when we are able to understand. Cherish the moments and memories, and smile knowing you were chosen to be Jalen's mom. Jalen will live on in you. Take care and God Bless.
Judy (Angel Dustin's Mom) www.caringbridge.com/canada/dusinbmt/
Canada - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 9:17 PM CDT
You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 8:03 PM CDT
What a precious angel indeed. I am so sorry for your loss. Please try and stay strong. Jalen is watching over you.
Michele
Winona, MN - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 1:31 PM CDT
I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. I find myself thinking about him all of the time and I only saw his beautiful face and read your entries on the website. I know that apart of your heart is gone, but Jalen holds that with him. I will continue to pray for you and think of the cutest angel there is...
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 10:25 AM CDT
My prayers are with you now and always. The pain you are feeling is so real, but as you remember your angel baby, be so happy that he is now pain free. He is smiling down on his mommy and loving you. Take each day as it comes. The anger, the saddness, the guilt, ...all feelings that are helping you heal. PRAY for yourself and Dale. GOD will help you through this.
Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.
Hebrews 13:5
Doreen
CF, IA - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 9:24 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I feel for you. Sometimes I just dont think I have the right words to say to you. But what I will say is that People are still praying. My kids sit to eat everyday at dinner time and pray for Jalen. The smile and say, "Mami I bet Jalen is feeling alot better in Heaven and having alot of fun." I tell them both , yes !!! They say that they miss him alot . And to think they never even met him in person. Jalen is an awesome ANGEL!!!!WE MISS YOU BABY!!XOXOXO
Tell us how is Dale doing??
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Tuesday, June 24, 2003 5:54 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I wish I had a magic wand to take all this away. I pray so hard that you will find some peace. I can't imagine how hard not doing all those little habits and spending holidays is and will be for you. The gym is a great idea, maybe go see a doctor too? God bless you Angel Jalen's mommy.
Love, Deirdre
- Tuesday, June 24, 2003 5:40 AM CDT
Oh Jeanette, my heart just broke reading your journal. I am still newly bereaved myself, but I can say don't push yourself faster than you're able to go. Grieving your child is just like having a serious illness. It's a delicate balance between getting yourself up and moving so that SOMEHOW you can find some healing, and resting when you need to rest.
There are places I cannot go. I cannot go to the church where her service was held (I did go to drop off a wedding cake, but I was in and out the back door and never went into the sanctuary). I cannot go to the mall. I see all the teenagers and think, "she should be here at the mall with her friends." If I do go into a store, I have to stay far away from the junior section. If I don't I start looking at clothes for her. I can't watch Lizzie McGuire on TV. It was one of her favorite shows and I used to tell her how dumb I thought it was. I can't watch Christian lyrical dance. I start choreographing in my mind and then remember she's not here to dance.
There will be many things you may not able to do. It's OKAY. You are not simply getting over a cold. Grief is hard work, exhausting work. I started going to the gym too. It does help. I try to do something for my spirit, my soul, and my body. Please, take your time and don't try to rush back in to "life."
Matthew 2
18"A voice is heard in Ramah,
weeping and great mourning,
Rachel weeping for her children
and refusing to be comforted,
because they are no more."
Isaiah 53
4Surely He has borne our griefs
And carried our sorrows;
Revelation 21
4And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away."
Adrienne's mom, Nichelle -- www.caringbridge.org/tx/adrienne <rejoice_first_lady@yahoo.com>
Cedar Park, TX USA - Monday, June 23, 2003 11:13 PM CDT
Jeanette you and Jalen were meant for eachother and I don't believe anything was done to teach you any lessons. I guess all I can believe is God has a plan for each of us but he never WANTS to hurt us. You will have Jalen throughout all of eternity. You will always be his Mommy and I am sure Jalen feels you in his heart. I bought some little lawn ornaments today in memory of the kids that have recently gone to heaven. A dragonfly, butterfly, ladybug and a cardinal. I told Katia that when children go to be with Jesus, he lets them fly around at playtime. Anyway, to make a long story short, last night we went to see Finding Nemo. The fish in the movie believe that the toilet bowl is like heaven leading them back out to the ocean, or something like that (I was feeling bad and very tired through the movie). Anyway - shortening story again - today my Beta Fish died, his name was Simon. So of course the conversation comes up with Katia that he was going to be with Jesus. Then later when we were talking about the butterflies and dragonflies and such she said my fish was with Jalen? She really likes keeping up with and talking about little Jalen. We miss him but I can't imagine how you feel. Please keep in touch with me, Jeanette. I hope your job goes better and you can find something that will make you comfortable at work. I know Day Care has to be hard. I pray for you and think of you often and I just know that Jalen can feel you in his heart:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy
- Monday, June 23, 2003 10:36 PM CDT
Just checking in. Wondering how your first day back to work went. Hope you got Scott's email.
Let us know.
Much Peace and Love
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Monday, June 23, 2003 8:34 PM CDT
I will miss you Jalen.
Rebecca Segall
Lake Worth, fl 33467 - Monday, June 23, 2003 8:00 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I started following your webpage for Jalen back in April after my little girl was diagnosed and can't tell you how many prayers I have prayed for you and your family each and every week. Words could not express what I was feeling for you. We may be miles apart but share the same pain and fear for our children as my little girl has ALL Leukemia. I cry every time I see Jalen's face and I never even met him. Sending you and Dale bunches of hugs and daily prayers to keep you strong through this horrific time. Joined in Christ.......reg
Regina Ice <r.ice@attbi.com or "www.caringbridge.org/ga/madieice">
Snellville, GA US - Monday, June 23, 2003 5:01 PM CDT
Jeanette and Dale
Just stopping by to say hello. I want you to know that not a day goes by that me and my family dont thing you you guys. This weekend I went to the Women Of Faith Conference and I have to say I prayed very hard for you.
Take care!!! XOXOXO
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Monday, June 23, 2003 12:54 AM CDT
Jeanette thinking of you and your family today and wanted to let you know that you're being prayed for. We know that God will give you the strength you need to carry on.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Monday, June 23, 2003 10:49 AM CDT
Jeanette,
Just wanted to let you know that I am still thinking of and praying for you. I cannot imagine the pain and loss you are feeling right now. Please let the Lord guide you and help you through this troubled time. I will be thinking of and praying for you and your sweet baby. He was such a sweet thing I wish I could have been able to know him.
Dawn Holman <dehol25@aol.com>
MS - Monday, June 23, 2003 8:47 AM CDT
Jeanette, I am so sorry I mistyped your name!!! I am just so tired from very little sleep the night before...sorry!!!!
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, June 22, 2003 9:58 PM CDT
Hi Jeannie,
I know I haven't signed in for awhile now but I was busy with finals..I'm sorry!!! But they're over now so I'll be checking in very often...I can just imagine how hard it must be to return to Caringbridge and updating Jalen's page...but always do it in your own time...if you feel you aren't ready and it's too hard, please take all the time that you need..we will be here waiting for you! I am keeping you and Dale in my prayers everyday..I think of you and of your precious sweet angel all the time...hang in there and keep strong!
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Love & hugs,
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, June 22, 2003 9:57 PM CDT
Just checking in to let you know I am thinking and praying for you. I cannot even to begin to imagine your pain and I wish there were some words I could pass on to ease it. Please just know I care.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 8:35 PM CDT
Sorry that I havent signed in in awhile. There is rarely a day that goes by that Jalen and you arent on my mind and in my heart. Please know that we are all praying for you and supporting you.
Leah Wilson
NC - Sunday, June 22, 2003 7:31 PM CDT
Fly Jalen Fly...
To a BIG delux apartment in the sky!
Move'en on up
move'en on up to each tie we finally got a pecice of the pie!
someone who cares about you and your angel jalen. I miss you Jalen!!!!!
- Sunday, June 22, 2003 7:08 PM CDT
The additional pictures on the home page are beautiful. What a lovely angel Jalen is!!
I continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Sunday, June 22, 2003 3:06 PM CDT
Jeanette:
Just wanted to stop and let you know we are thinking of you.
God Bless,
Susan and Jakey Bear Griffin
www.caringbridge.com/page/jakegriffin
jupiter, fl usa - Sunday, June 22, 2003 1:39 PM CDT
a friend
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 5:32 PM CDT
Jeanette, I just came by. I drop by quite a bit but I wanted to sign. I think of you a lot and although I don't know how you feel I know it must be bad. I know you are happy Jalen isn't suffering anymore but I know you must just miss him so much! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Saturday, June 21, 2003 2:52 PM CDT
Just dropping in to let you know I've been thinking of you often and keeping you in my prayers!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Friday, June 20, 2003 11:05 PM CDT
No need to apologize. You can't rush through the pain, and you can't speed up the healing. It just happens when it happens, and that's a different time and place for everyone.
Thinking of you often,
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Friday, June 20, 2003 7:47 PM CDT
I still can't stop thinking of this family. Jalen was a really special person. I'm glad that Jesus took him so he wouldn't have to suffer any longer. ~Love~Hugs~Prayers~Smiles~
Love always in Christ,
Lindsey <http://www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole- Visit 'n Sign the guestbook!>
Ridgeway, VA - Friday, June 20, 2003 3:21 PM CDT
Still praying for you during this difficult time. May God comfort you and give you peace. It truly breaks my heart to hear of the pain you are experiencing through the loss of Jalen. I know that pain is normal, but my heart still breaks so much for you.
Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Friday, June 20, 2003 1:19 PM CDT
Jeanette, Dale and Angel Jalen...
Just wanted to stop by to let you know you are all always on my mind.
I read not long ago on another guestbook entry this, and I hope it will be of a little comfort...
"You are not one more day apart from Jalen...but one day closer..."
Love and prayers...
Kim
~KODYS STORY~
- Friday, June 20, 2003 8:32 AM CDT
Sending you...~Love~Hugs~Smiles~Prayers~
I still think of all of you daily.
Love always in Christ,
Lindsey <http://www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, VA - Thursday, June 19, 2003 9:35 PM CDT
Sending you...~Love~Hugs~Smiles~Prayers~
I still think of all of you daily.
Love always in Christ,
Lindsey <http://www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, VA - Thursday, June 19, 2003 9:34 PM CDT
Jeanette I am just dropping by to see Jalen's beautiful pictures. I really love the one in the Tux and the Teddy Bear is just so sweet. Myron really loved that picture of Jalen with Jesus. It turned out very nice. I am sure you are still in disbelief sometimes that little Jalen has left your side but I am sure he will always been in your mind. I really do wish (and they might) they could visit you in your sleep, just to say, "Hey I am okay and I love you". I know if he could, he definitely would because you were his world:) Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Thursday, June 19, 2003 4:08 PM CDT
You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Doreen
CF, IA - Thursday, June 19, 2003 3:30 PM CDT
Cheryl <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, June 19, 2003 3:11 PM CDT
Hello, I don't know who you are, nor do you know me. But I lost a son too and understand your pain. My son has been gone almost 2 years now. Although the pain never goes away, I can assure it does get easier. I weep everytime I go to my son's grave, but I think that is ok. I know that Logan is with the Lord and knowing that someday I am going to see my perfect little angel again, seems to make everything a little better. Can I share with you what my 4 y/o cousin said after I had my son? She says, It's ok, you don't need to cry. Logan is in Heaven w/ Jesus and Pop and all the other angels and they are tkaing care of him now." I keep that close to my heart and know that it is so true!!! YOu and your family are now in my thoughts and prayers.
Erin Sorensen <winniethepooh_30@hotmail.com>
Ephrata, Pa USA - Thursday, June 19, 2003 10:13 AM CDT
Jeanette,
God bless.
Love Deirdre
- Thursday, June 19, 2003 6:52 AM CDT
Jeanette,
My heart breaks for your pain. Never apologize for updating,hon, you do it when YOU want to and when YOU need to, everyone understands, everyone supports you at this most difficult time in the world. We are trying just as hard as we can to understand your deep pain, but unless you have been there, it isn't truly possible. We are so sorry, and keep you in our prayers for peace and comfort. Hugs,
Tracey and family xoxo
Calgary,Ab, Canada, - Thursday, June 19, 2003 2:47 AM CDT
Oh my God, I am so amazed at how well you speak from your heart. I'm sure a great number of people have thought of digging the ground up to get their baby, but you actually said it aloud. I feel such deep pain for you. You keep on talking with your heart, and working through this horrible pain that your feeling. God is there helping you go on. Peace and Prayers, 4/J's
Julie (jeffery's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <JulieSample1@aol.com>
Jax, Fl USA - Wednesday, June 18, 2003 11:47 PM CDT
Knowing that so few people can really "get" how horrible it is to lose a precious child. Jeanette I can still REMEMBER those very raw emotions and that overwhelming NEED and DESIRE to dig Jordyn up from the ground just to hold her beautiful and precious little body in my arms again.
Wishing that something I or anyone could say would really Help..but I know it won't. I know you love GOD and have faith, but that does not take away the aches, urges, deep, overwhelming pain that you are feeling.
Jeanette I'm here and wishing you had no idea this horror. You're in my heart and prayers.
Christy...Angel Jordyn's mommy www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
KS - Wednesday, June 18, 2003 6:37 PM CDT
I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling. Please know that others care so much for all of you. Now is the time you have to draw on your faith in God. He does answer prays and I am praying that you will find peace in time.
Denise Roberts (caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <Dndtwins1@usadatanet.net>
Bridgeport, NY USA - Wednesday, June 18, 2003 3:58 PM CDT
I haven't visited Jalen's site since Saturday and as I see Jalen in those pictures and the updates I am crying. Jalen was sooo cute and loved. I loved him just by your updates and pictures. He was so precious. Love, Hugs, and Prayers.
Love always in Christ,
Lindsey <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, VA - Wednesday, June 18, 2003 2:26 PM CDT
Just want you to know that people are praying for you and your family. Just make it through every day as best as you can. Your little man is painfree and happy, playing with all those other kids and being rocked, for the time being, by all those grandmas and grandpas that needed a new little one to love. Take care.
Kristi
Watertown, WI - Wednesday, June 18, 2003 1:13 PM CDT
Jeanette,
My heart is breaking for you and I pray you find peace.
Love, Deirdre
- Wednesday, June 18, 2003 7:09 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale!
Just checking in on you guys . I know that you are still struggling with everything and my heart goes out to your whole family. I will continue to pray for you guys.
Jalen was truely an Angel. He brought alot of people together in many ways. XOXOXOc
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Wednesday, June 18, 2003 6:02 AM CDT
Jeanette, that picture of Jalen in the tux is just precious! He looks sooooooo handsome! I know you must find it very hard to update the journal. I see when you work on the page but just like we have a loss for words sometime, you must too. I just want you to know I am always here for you. You can email me or call me any time you want! I know this must be hard, so hard! I don't know how hard but it has to just be beyond words. I pray for you. Myron and I were talking about how we never want to have to go through this. We just pray every day for a cure so nobody else has to go through this but I want you to know I am here for you going through this. I never wanted to have to tell you that. I just wanted to keep checking on Jalen and you through his website, emails or on the phone. I love you. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, June 17, 2003 9:25 PM CDT
Jeanette - Please don't feel like you should apologize for not updating more often - Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 7:52 PM CDT
I am really sorry about your son. You and your son are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hannah <Bananachick91@aol.com>
Joshua, TX America - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 7:26 PM CDT
I am so sorry...and I don't know that there are any proper words that I can even write here...
Just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers...
Hugs...
Alicia and Cammie www.caringbridge.org/in/cammiespage
Kentland, IN - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 6:30 PM CDT
Thinking of you today.
Much Peace, Love and Prayers
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 4:22 PM CDT
Just wanted you to know that I continually think of your family. I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine the pain...
:(
Shiela
~NY~ USA - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 2:47 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and just wanted to let you know that we continue with our prayers for you and your family. I can only imagine the 'emptiness' that is felt because Jalen is no longer physically present.
~Blessings~
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 1:27 PM CDT
dear jennet,
savanah told me about you and jalen i felt so bad and i had to do something so i decied to send you a note and im so sorry.
from savanah's cousin kiersten pacelli
kiersten pacelli <kiersten@trp-florida.com>
boynton beach, FL U.S.A - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 1:20 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
The new picture of jalen in the tux is so beautiful..
He looks so happy.. i hope u are taking care of u r self..
Take care,
Sandhya (Manaswini's mommy) <sanjurao@hotmail.com>
Boca Raton, FL US - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 12:46 AM CDT
Thinking of Jalen's mommy today. Jeanette I'm praying for you still, I hope you can feel it.
Deirdre
- Tuesday, June 17, 2003 12:42 AM CDT
I just wanted you to know that somebody in Brasil is thinking of you and asking the angels to protect and comfort you. Warm hugs.
Rose
- Tuesday, June 17, 2003 9:40 AM CDT
You are forever in my prayers. Much love,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 9:25 AM CDT
i am so sorry. he is SO cute
allison <kityluvr09>
joshua, tx usa - Tuesday, June 17, 2003 8:55 AM CDT
I just came by to see your page and let you know I am praying for you.
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy
- Monday, June 16, 2003 4:40 PM CDT
Ive just been thinking of the two of you.
Hugs and Prayers
Melissa (jackies Mom)
Melissa <cart30@cox.net>
Cantonment, FL USA - Monday, June 16, 2003 3:00 PM CDT
Dale, this is to let you know my prayers are with you today as this is the first Father's Day since Jalen passed. I pray you and Jeanette find the strength you need at this incredibly difficult time-take care.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Sunday, June 15, 2003 9:02 PM CDT
Happy Daddy's Day to Dale...Jalen's Daddy forever!
~Kim~
~KODYS STORY~
- Sunday, June 15, 2003 8:04 PM CDT
WE JUST WANTED TO SEND OUR PRAYERS TO YOU. WE KNOW IT IS VERY HARD TO LOSE SOMEONE SO CLOSE. GOD BE WITH YOU ALWAYS.
JOHN AND MICHELLE TANNOIA JR <JTANNOIA@TAMPABAY.RR.COM>
ST PETERSBURG, FL US - Sunday, June 15, 2003 7:36 PM CDT
My prayers are especially for Jalen's daddy today. You are forever Jalen's daddy, the most precious angel.
Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Sunday, June 15, 2003 7:14 PM CDT
Dale~> Happy Father's Day to the dad of the most beautiful ANGEL JALEN. My heart is with you on this day
Jeanette~> I am so glad you came out with us last night and to see you having a good time. I love you baby girl and We (Me, Ashley, Lisette, Tera, Che, Omar and my friend Mel Kel) said YOU LOOKED SO BEAUTIFUL LAST NIGHT. You are so strong girl and I ENVY YOU!
Jalen~> Mommy thought she wouldn't remember how to dance last night at the club but I told her to get out there and that you would help her move her BUT BUT. She laughed! She has been so strong and you are lucky to have such a beautiful, inspirtional, and loving MOMMY! We miss you my Lil Man with Wings. And Keep watching over your mommy. You are taking good care of her
Courtney Stacy <Queen10C@aol.com>
Lake Worth, FL - Sunday, June 15, 2003 2:40 PM CDT
Happy Father's Day, Dale. Thinking of you on today:) Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Sunday, June 15, 2003 11:26 AM CDT
Thinking of Jalen's daddy on this first Father's day without your angel. God bless.
Love, Deirdre
- Sunday, June 15, 2003 7:16 AM CDT
Thinking of you all today and keeping you in our prayers, on this special day. Dale, you will forever be Jalen's Daddy. God Bless.
Tracey,Steve, Quinn and Callum xoxoxo
Calgary,Ab, Canada, - Sunday, June 15, 2003 4:09 AM CDT
I am just here checking on you guys. I have come by a few times today but wanted to leave a message:) I pray you are doing okay. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Saturday, June 14, 2003 7:00 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss of your precious son Jalen. this is such a sad and heart-wrenching story. i hope that he is playing with my Angel Christopher. you can visit my son's site at http://www.geocities.com/legobeaver/index.html
my heart goes out to you.
Maria (Christopher's mommy) <LegoBeaverChris@cs.com>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Saturday, June 14, 2003 6:29 PM CDT
I have visited children's webpages and they expressed the sadness of Jalen's funeral. I know he was as cute as can be with that tux. I love the picture with Jesus on the webpage. I visited Jalen's quilt for the 1st time and it is such a cute quilt (and Jalen!). This little one is greatly missed. Love, hugs, prayers, and comfort to these parents of an {angel}.
Love alwayz in Christ,
Lindsey <caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, Va - Saturday, June 14, 2003 6:16 PM CDT
As a mother myself, no words can express your loss but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your story touched me deeply.
Enida ( Gesenia's Aunt) <nida715@nyc.rr.com>
New York, NY - Saturday, June 14, 2003 10:31 AM CDT
My words are inadequate to express my thoughts to you. I pray that God will wrap his arms around you today and grant you will a supernatural peace that can only come from him.
In His Grip,
The DeAndrea Family
Amanda DeAndrea <www.caringbridge.org/fl/luke.d garbage butler@msn.com>
Tampa, FL - Saturday, June 14, 2003 1:10 AM CDT
I am just coming by here to tell you hello. I will continue to check on you and your dear family. I know God must mean for you to do something to fight cancer. Jalen was such a beautiful little boy and God had something special planned for his life. He chose you to be a part of the plan. I know you must be terribly missing little Jalen. I pray for you. I went out today and watched some butterflies in the backyard right after a big rain. It was like they had just been let out to recess. So many children have recently died that we know and then many that we don't so the skies should be full of beautiful butterflies this summer. I know you want Jalen there with you and I am sure he was happiest there with you. God Bless you Jeanette. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Friday, June 13, 2003 8:43 PM CDT
Just checking in to let you know we are thinking of you.
Much Peace Prayers Love and HOPE for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Friday, June 13, 2003 8:06 PM CDT
What a beautiful picture of Jalen in God's arms. Praying for and your family.
Barbara
Danvers, MA USA - Friday, June 13, 2003 6:01 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and saying prayers for comfort and renewed strength. The picture of Jalen in Jesus's arms is absolutely beautiful.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Friday, June 13, 2003 2:34 PM CDT
Always praying....
Jalen, you touched so many lives, you are a HERO!! Rest easy my little one!
God bless you all,
Sent with big hugs and love,
Krista Iverson <krista.iverson@gepex.ge.com>
Ottawa, IL - Friday, June 13, 2003 9:47 AM CDT
*HUGS*
AUSTRALIA - Friday, June 13, 2003 9:24 AM CDT
My prayers are with you and your family today and always.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Gesenia's (Aunt) Jeannette <jeannette.lopez@unistudios.com>
Somerset, NJ - Friday, June 13, 2003 8:11 AM CDT
Jeanette & Dale...
You are both always on our mind. Sending you (((HUGS))) and plenty of prayers too.
The picture of Jalen just touches my heart so much...I come back to see that sweet face several times a day. He is so beautiful.
Kim
~KODYS STORY~
- Thursday, June 12, 2003 10:18 PM CDT
Jeanette, I wanted to put the poem up that was with the picture of Jalen and Jesus because they went together so well! We love you Jeanette!
Daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mama please don't cry
cause I'm in the arms of Jesus
and he sings me lullabies.
Please, try not to question God,
don't think he is unkind.
Don't think he sent me to you,
and then he changed his mind.
You see, I am a special child,
and I'm needed up above.
I'm a special gift you gave Him,
the product of your love.
I'll always be there with you
and watch the sky at night
find the brightest star gleaming,
that's my halo's brilliant light.
You'll see me in the morning frost
that mists your window pane.
That's me in the summer showers,
I'll be dancing in the rain.
When you feel a little breeze,
from a gentle wind that blows
that's me, I'll be there,
planting a kiss on your nose.
When you see a child playing,
and your heart feels a little tug
that's me, I'll be there,
giving your heart a hug.
So daddy, please don't look so sad,
Mama, don't you cry
I'm in the arms of Jesus
and he sings me lullabies.
Aunt Terri, Uncle Dan, JC, and Kayla <tsraine@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Thursday, June 12, 2003 9:20 PM CDT
Jeanette I know your heart must be breaking and what you feel and what you describe from the funeral is all normal. No one should be celebrating an 18 month old's bday this way, no one. Not any age child, we are meant to go before them, not them before us. You are doing the best you can in the most horrid, unthinkable situation. Hugs and prayers,
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Thursday, June 12, 2003 8:33 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious son. I am also sorry that I was unable to attend the services last week. You and your family are in my prayers. May God bless you and your family.
Lisette
- Thursday, June 12, 2003 7:50 PM CDT
Jeanette:
I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. I hope it helps just a little to know that, through this web site, Jalen touched the lives of many, many people (like me) who didn't even know him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Justine Germaine
Madison, WI - Thursday, June 12, 2003 3:40 PM CDT
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious baby boy. He is a truly beautiful little boy. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hugs, Lisa,
Mommy of Angel Shad
June 16 1995- Sept 5, 2000
www. geocities. com/shadmckell
Lisa McKell <lmckell@sympatico.ca>
Toronto, on Canada - Thursday, June 12, 2003 12:04 AM CDT
What a breath taking picture of Jalen in the arms of Jesus. Praying for you, and that the knowledge of knowing that Jalen is in the arms of our Lord, will give you peace, comfort and strength.
In Him,
Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Thursday, June 12, 2003 7:47 AM CDT
Things in life get put on us for a reason, we may not know or understand why. Hopefully we can take what Jalen has given us and use it wisely. His gift to me was the appreciation of what I have and how precious life is. Ya'll keep your chin up.
Jeff Souza <Souzajeff@hotmail.com>
Jupiter , Fl USA - Thursday, June 12, 2003 6:57 AM CDT
Just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Thursday, June 12, 2003 1:16 AM CDT
What a beautiful picture. It took my breath away. I'm at a loss of words at the moment, but I wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you.
Debbie Little - www.caringbridge.org/tn/littlecaleb <littlecaleb@hotmail.com>
Dickson, TN - Thursday, June 12, 2003 0:31 AM CDT
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Jalen. I too lost a child to cancer -my precious daughter, Jennifer. Jennifer got her angel wings 9/13/94 following a valiant 7 month battle with AML leukemia. God has brought me far since I lost Jen but I will never forget what it was like to be where you are now.
Please know you will hold your beautiful Jalen in your arms again in a world much better than this but next time it will be forever. May God draw near and comfort you and fill your life with love, peace, joy and faith, but most of all - hope.
With love, hugs and prayers,
Judy
www.catchanangel.com
Judy Van Meter <tnderheart@yahoo.com>
Cookeville, TN - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 10:51 PM CDT
I just came by to see Jalen's picture AGAIN today but I wanted to sign and let you know I really like your border and page. That is so nice and so loving looking. I should be around the computer in a few days, I hope more but I still keep up with you and pray for you even when it doesn't seem so. You are on my mind. Take care of yourself. I hope to hear from you. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Wednesday, June 11, 2003 9:38 PM CDT
You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Tammy (Lacie's Mom) <www.caringbridge.org/ga/lacielove>
Brunswick, GA USA - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 9:08 PM CDT
Thinking of you all with lots of love, (((HUGS))), and prayers through this most difficult time!
Eva
- Wednesday, June 11, 2003 7:17 PM CDT
You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I am so moved by your writings and I believe that we all are. You share love and tenderness for Jalen. You are a remarkable women.
God Bless You-
Candyce Wolsfeld
Spring Valley, IL 61362 - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 5:17 PM CDT
I have you in my heart and prayers. Please stay strong and lean on those you are there. Many prayers and love,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
- Wednesday, June 11, 2003 1:06 PM CDT
HE ONLY TOOK MY HAND
Last night while I was trying to sleep
My son's voice I did hear
I opened my eyes and looked around
But he did not appear.
He said "Mommy you've got to listen,
You've got to understand
God didn't take me from you Mommy
He only took my hand
When I called out in pain that night,
The instant that I died,
He reached down and took my hand,
He pulled me to his side.
He pulled me up and saved me
From the misery and pain
My body was hurt so badly inside,
I could never be the same.
My search is really over now,
I've found happiness within,
All the answers to my empty dreams
And all that might have been.
I love you and miss you so,
And I'll always be nearby.
My body's gone forever,
But my spirit will never die!
And so mommy, you must go on now,
Live one day at a time.
Just understand-
God did not take me from you,
He only took my hand."
~Author~
Kaye Des'Ormeaux
Copyright 2001
All Rights Reserved
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Wednesday, June 11, 2003 8:59 AM CDT
I think of you all the time and my heart is so broken. Be strong and God bless.
Love, Deirdre
- Wednesday, June 11, 2003 7:05 AM CDT
What a beautiful picture and journal entry. I continue to keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Shiela
~NY~ USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 10:44 PM CDT
Praying hard, love & hugs!
Kim
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 10:34 PM CDT
My heart aches for you and your family. My son is 4 days younger than Jalen. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. Nothing can take away the joy and happiness that Jalen brought you, his memory will live in your heart forever. I pray that God will embrace and comfort you during this time. GOD BLESS!
Kim Hannah's page
Goodlettsville, Tn - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 10:02 PM CDT
Thinking of little Jalen riding a balloon up to heaven....
Hugs,
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 9:58 PM CDT
I rang the little Angel Bell. I am praying for you dear. I just can't imagine what you must be going through and what you are doing but know I am praying for you that God will give you peace and comfort. I really believe you were chosen by God to be Jalen's Mommy for a reason. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 9:40 PM CDT
I can picture Angel Jalen right now in that tux. Ahhh!
...still praying...still hoping...still giving thoughts...still saying hi to angel Jalen...still giving hugs...and comfort...
Love always in Christ,
Lindsey <caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, Va USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 9:17 PM CDT
We wanted to let you know that you and your family continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. The Johnson Family (Mike, Martha, Jacob, & Jessica)
Martha Johnson <MJohnsonRN>
Cullman, AL USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 9:00 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I know that things are crazy right now and I'm guessing time to check the page is not there right now. Please know when you do have time to check the guestbook that I care and I'm here anytime you need or want to talk.
My heart is with you and although I will NOT say I know how you feel or "understand", I can relate and do "get it".
My thoughts are with you daily, as is my love.
www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome
www.caringbridge.com/page/fitzpatrick
Christy Fitzpatrick ...Mommy to Angel Jordyn Ashleigh forever 2 3/30/98-5/8/00 <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 7:48 PM CDT
Jeanette, I know what a beautiful , kind and caring person you are from when you watched my daughter Brooke watson at JFK a couple of years ago(when she was 2). I was devestated to hear about Jalen. You have the most beautiful little boy and god must think you are such a special person to have you mother such a wonderful lil angel,Im sorry your time had to be cut so short. My heart goes out to you and your family... I pray for God to reach down and place a tiny bandaid on your broken hearts everyday....although the pain will never go away, I hope he can ease the hurt so you can be overcome by memories you were lucky enough to have had. I'm giving you a great big hug, All my love,Vicki..........
, God saw Jalen getting tired and a cure was not to be
so he put his arms around him and said "Come to Me".
With tearful eyes you watched him,
and saw him pass away.
Although you loved him dearly,
You could not make him stay
A Golden heart stopped beating,
Hard playing hands at rest .
GOD BROKE YOUR HEARTS TO PROVE TO YOU
HE ONLY TAKES THE BEST...............
"GOD BLESS ANGEL JALEN"
Vicki Watson (Brooke and Tylers mom) <OTT5337@aol.com>
Boynton Beach, FL - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 7:12 PM CDT
Jalen,
HERES 5 words to desribe u.
jumpy
angel
little
emtpy
kool
someone who cares about you and your angel jalen. I miss you Jalen!!!!!
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 6:56 PM CDT
What a beautiful picture of Jalen with Jesus, I'm sure your little one is very well taken care of. My heart aches for you I wish Jalen would have gotten to stay here with you. Take comfert that you will join him in heavon some day, and then you will see hes cute dances again but most of all you will get tons of hugs & kisses from him. Life here on earth is like a drop in a bucket compared to eternity.
God bless you
Sally Torres <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
Anaheim, ca usa - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 5:02 PM CDT
I just wanted to let you know that I think of you often. The picture of Jalen is wonderful.My heart goes out to you in a big way! I will continue to pray for you.Stay strong and rememeber Jalen is always with you,he is watching you from above.
sam (www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily)
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 4:33 PM CDT
God Knows
When you are tired and discouraged from fruitless efforts...
GOD knows how hard you have tried.
When you've cried so long and your heart is in anguish...
GOD has counted your tears.
If you feel that your life is on hold and time has passed you by..GOD is waiting with you.
When you're lonely and your friends are too busy even for a phone call...GOD is by your side.
When you think you've tried everything and don't know where to turn...GOD has a solution.
When nothing makes sense and you are confessed or frustrated... GOD has the answer.
If suddenly your outlook is brighter and you find traces of hope...GOD has whispered to you.
Remember that wherever you are or whatever you are facing...
GOD KNOWS.
We have never meet but I am a mother and my heart and prayers go out to you. God has chosen you to be the mother of such his special child. I know you must be a wonderful mother. I pray that you continue to let God be your shelter in the storm and know that when the clouds clear up you will always be Jalen's "one and only mommy". GOD bless you.
Corlette <cbro9617@fau.edu>
west palm beach, fl usa - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 3:54 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
Thanks for sharing that beautiful picture of Jalen with Jesus. I know how much you're missing him, but know that he's still with you in spirit and he's oh, so proud of both you and his dad. His life was way too short, but try to think of all the wonderful memories he gave you; and as far as that tux goes, I think that in heaven, all messes just vanish immediately so there are NEVER any dirty clothes! All of those angels in white robes, tuxes and feathery wings wouldn't have it any other way!!
Love, Pat
pat <patricia.manning@attbi.com>
antioch, ca usa - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 3:51 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette..
My daughter, Kaysha (12) checked in on you today, before I even did! When I came home she sid "Mom..you have got to see the beautiful picture of Jalen!"
Oh Jeanette...the pic. of Jalen with Jesus is precious! Somehow..it made me feel a little better, Jalen looks so happy and I am sure he is..especially since you sent him some new "toys" to bop everyone with!
You and Dale are in our hearts and prayers everyday. Jalen, though we have never met him, has touched our lives and I thank you so much for sharing him with all of us...
~Kim~
~KODYS STORY~
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 1:59 PM CDT
A wonderfully poignant and "honest" picture. I am still praying for you.
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 1:52 PM CDT
Jeanette,
Dear, dear soul, my heart aches for the sadness in your life. A void that cannot ever be filled.
May the wisdom of God instruct me
the eye of God watch over me
the ear of God hear me
the word of God give me sweet talk
the hand of God defend me
the way of God guide me. Christ be with me. Christ before me. Christ in me. Christ under me. Christ over me. Christ on my right hand. Christ on my left hand. Christ on this side. Christ on that side. Christ in the head of everyone to whom I speak. Christ in the mouth of every person who speaks to me. Christ in the eye of every person who looks upon me. Christ in the ear of everyone who hears me. Amen
Jeanette, let your loving family and friends help out in anyway they can. They really do love you very much.
Have a good minute, hour, and day if you can get that far, honey.
Love in Christ. Thank you for the absolutely beautiful picture of Jesus and Jalen. It is precious just as he was.
Jerrri and Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 1:36 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and of your family at this time of need. I am so sorry for the passing of your sweet baby. I know the Lord is with him but it does not make it any easier. I really do not know why he gives us such a wonderful gift just to take it away but I do know that he has such a wonderful plan for sweet Jalen. You are such a good mom and I think Jalen was very lucky to have you. Thank you for keeping us posted and letting us into your lives. I will be praying for you and your family.
Dawn Holman <dehol25@aol.com>
Horn Lake, MS - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 11:40 AM CDT
What a wonderful picture of Jalen in Jesus arms! That's the way that I want to remember Jalen. I know that you don't know me but I'm praying for you and your family during this difficult time. I have no idea what you are going through, as I have not had to deal with the loss of a child...just know that I pray every day for strenth for you to get through another day without Jalen in your arms. I know you miss him so much, how could you not...you were and still are a wonderful Mommy!
Kathy <kmayo42@aol.com>
Whitehall, OH - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 10:05 AM CDT
Sending warm hugs your way. I hope all the prayers and thoughts going out to you will be able to lift you in your darkest hours. Thinking of you often.....
www.caringbridge.org/ky/ryans.hope
Michele, Ryan's mom
Hebron, ky - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 9:35 AM CDT
Dearest Jeanette,
Please know that you are in my constant prayers for healing of your broken heart. My heart goes out to you, I can't imagine how you feel. Jalen will help you through, because he wants to see your beautiful smile again. Please take care of yourself.
Much love to you,
Gail
Gail England <gengland@msn.com>
Cincinnati, OH USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 9:28 AM CDT
Dearest Jeanette,
Please know that you are in my constant prayers for healing of your broken heart. My heart goes out to you, I can't imagine how you feel. Jalen will help you through, because he wants to see your beautiful smile again. Please take care of yourself.
Much love to you,
Gail
Gail England <gengland@msn.com>
Cincinnati, OH USA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 9:27 AM CDT
Jeanette,
God bless you for being able to update and although I sob, I'm so glad to hear from you. How sweet, the picture of him in Jesus' arms. He doesn't need anything anymore, meds, food, painkillers, procedures, NOTHING. I know you need him and I can't imagine what you are going through. I can't imagine standing back as they close the casket and as they put him in the ground. I pray that you find some peace over time. I'm here praying for you.
Love, Deirdre
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 7:39 AM CDT
What an amazing picture!! It is beautiful!
Keeping you in my prayers!
Stacy S
WPB, FL - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 6:44 AM CDT
YOU ARE AMAZING JEANETTE! YOU ARE SO STRONG. I KNOW THERE ARE TIMES YOU FEEL WEAK AND SAD BUT KNOW FOR A FACT THAT JALEN IS SMILING DOWN AND YOU ALL THE TIME. I HOPE YOU AND DALE ARE HOLDING ON TIGHT TO EACHOTHER CAUSE YOU BOTH ARE THE STRONGEST PARENTS I KNOW!!!! GOD BLESS!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 5:56 AM CDT
Jeanette, I am glad I came by your page. Somehow it made me feel better and I have been feeling pretty bad! You are always in our thoughts. I think next time I am out, I will send Jalen a balloon. Just me and Katia can send it off to him so he can sit on it and hit people with it! I am sure his little tux is staying clean. The laundry service up there must be the best. They say everything there is the best and Lord knows, they have the best little kids anywhere. I can't believe it has been a week. I have such a lump in my throat right now it is hurting. I love you girl and I know your family is there for you right now. Take care of yourself. I am sure Jalen sees you dancing and is just rolling around laughing at his crazy little Mommy! I am sure goofing around is some of your happiest memories! I think when we act like kids (not the dumb ones on Jenny Jones - but innocent little kids) than we are probably at our best too! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, June 10, 2003 3:39 AM CDT
You are in my thoughts and prayers!
May the Lord guide you during this difficult and sad time.
Lots of hugs,
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Tuesday, June 10, 2003 2:54 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your poem and picture of Jalen with Jesus is absolutely beautiful. Your baby is with you constantly, and in due time you will be together for all eternity.
Kathy & Timmy Lawton <kathyhamden@aol.com>
Port St Lucie, FL 34987 - Monday, June 9, 2003 11:28 PM CDT
praying for you........
gina geddings, mommy of angel Morgan <mimor2@comcast.net ~~~ www.caringbridge.com/sc/morganspage>
- Monday, June 9, 2003 10:02 PM CDT
...still praying...still loving...still saying hey to Jalen up in Heaven with Jesus...
Lindsey <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole-Visit & sign the guestbook!!!>
Ridgeway, Va - Monday, June 9, 2003 5:33 PM CDT
Still thinking of you, hurting for you, and praying for you...
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Monday, June 9, 2003 3:12 PM CDT
My heart aches for you & your family. Sending prayers your way.
Candice Behm <candice333@netzero.net>
Portland, OR USA - Monday, June 9, 2003 1:05 PM CDT
As I read your page it ripped my heart out and that im sure is nothing like the pain that you are feeling. I am so sorry for your loss and just want to say that i am praying that God gives you and your family whatever you need to get through these tough times. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mom to Michael(5) Dx ALL 4-6-01 & Amanda (11)
Chrissy <tigawhiz@localnet.com>
Hurleyville, Ny USA - Monday, June 9, 2003 11:20 AM CDT
There are reasons for these things that happen to us. We dont always understand them but God knows the future. His plan for this little one was to be back in his arms for safe keeping. You can only have peace and understanding by knowing Jesus Christ as your personal Savior. If you dont know him I trust you will. Just ask him to forgive you for your sins and come into your heart and he will.
Gary and Beverly Young
Port St. Lucie, Fl USA - Monday, June 9, 2003 9:07 AM CDT
I will always think of Jalen as my own baby cause I LOVE HIM JUST AS MUCH AS HIS FAMILY LOVE YOU ALWAYS MY JALEN TANYA
Tanya Matthews
Riviera Beach, FL Palm Beach - Monday, June 9, 2003 8:27 AM CDT
I am thinking about you this morning, and know that you have tough days ahead. Prayers for you and your family.....
Sharon <mopgal@hotmail.com>
Dardanelle, ar - Monday, June 9, 2003 7:27 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale,
I want you to know that I am still praying for you and your family . I hope you do keep updating Jalens page. It gives me a good start everyday. God Bless!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Monday, June 9, 2003 6:19 AM CDT
We continue to think of you and pray for strength and comfort for you and your family.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Monday, June 9, 2003 2:25 AM CDT
Hello. I have been checking up on Jalen for quite some time now, and even though I never signed this guestbook I was here everyday, and praying for him everyday. He was the cutest thing I've ever seen, and touched my life in such an odd way even though I honestly have no idea who you are, but by what you write in your entries it was honestly touching. I don't know if you plan on keeping this page going, but I hope you decide to do that because I just loved to sit down and read what you wrote. You should be the proudest mom in the world...your son fought the most courageous fight against the most tragic thing, death. But now you know your little boy is an angel watching down on you everyday, and he won't suffer anymore. Please know that I'm constantly thinking about you, and praying for you. Keep the faith and find comfort in knowing that your little boy is a sweet angel who won't ever leave your side.
Love,
Someone who cares
Meg
- Monday, June 9, 2003 0:51 AM CDT
I don't know you but I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am inspired by your child's courage and your own, I will pray for all of you.
Sadie Dobrozsi <skd2@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA - Monday, June 9, 2003 0:05 AM CDT
I have not been able to check in for a few days. I just wanted to let you know that I continue to think about your family. God bless you.
Why God Made Children
It's said God made children
To bring the world joy,
Through the giggles and laughter
Of each girl and boy...
It's said God made children
To bring the world sharing,
Pure understanding,
Kindness, and caring...
And especially to show us
His peace from above,
For it's said God made children
To bring the world love.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!! - Sunday, June 8, 2003 9:38 PM CDT
To Jalen's mom & dad,
I'm so sorry to hear about your precious little boy. Please know that my prayers will always be with you.
Vikki (Kody Kruppenbacher's aunt)
Vikki Fortuna <Vikki1413@yahoo.com>
Wappingers Falls, NY - Sunday, June 8, 2003 6:17 PM CDT
Hello,
I am a friend of Natalee's. Her son and mine were best friends before we moved away just a month or so after Zac fell ill. I wish to extend to you the hug of a stranger who shares the pain of losing a loved one to cancer. Reading Jalen's journal and guestbook entries touched me deeply.
Please be relieved that he is in God's care now. May God's love be with you always.
Joseph Zaranski <jzchef23@yahoo.com>
Boston, MA - Sunday, June 8, 2003 4:29 PM CDT
I am still and 4ever keeping this family in my prayers. Hey Angel Jalen up in Heaven right now.
Lindsey <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, Va - Sunday, June 8, 2003 4:21 PM CDT
Sweet Baby Jalen -
You are forever etched in my heart. They love your Mommy has shown for you is so amazing... I have been following your story for some time now and wanted you to know what a HERO you are! Now you are painfree flying high above with all the other little angels that God has called home. Please send your mommy and daddy lots of love and send comfort to them the way only you can. I was listening to a cd on the way home from church and I thought of each of the boys who fought so hard against this monster named "cancer". I want to include the words to the song.
Ready to Fly
From FFH cd
Written bt Jeromy Deibler
I've been grounded far too long
I'm ready to see the open wide
Ready to sing a different song
I've seen my troubles 'long the way
I want to sail towards the sun
I want to turn another page
I'm on my way
I'm ready to fly
I'm ready to soar
I'm ready to leave this world behind
I'm ready to open up the door
I'm ready to fly
I'm ready to spread my wings
Across the sky
I think it is time
I'm ready to go
I'm ready to fly
You've told me I could rise above
Like an eagle on the wind
I can glide upon your love
But I feel the pull of gravity
And It's a weight upon my shoulders
I can't stay here any longer
I've gotta be free
I'm ready to fly
I'm ready to soar
I'm ready to leave this world behind
I'm ready to open up the door
I'm ready to fly
I'm ready to spread my wings
Across the sky
I think it is time
I'm ready to go
I'm ready to fly
And it's been so long
Since I've seen the bright morning sun
Through the early morning horizon
And it's been so long
Since I've felt the air under my wings
And Seen all of these things
From Above
I'm ready to fly
I'm ready to soar
I'm ready to leave this world behind
I'm ready to open up the door
I'm ready to fly
I'm ready to spread my wings
Across the sky
I think it is time
I'm ready to go
I'm ready to fly
Cathy Wiggins <JCDwiggins97@aol.com>
Saginaw, TX - Sunday, June 8, 2003 3:58 PM CDT
I am sincerely sorry for your loss. I never got a chance to meet Jalen but I am sure he truely was an angel on earth and will continue to be one in heaven. Jalen will truely be missed by all who knew him and those of us that didn't. my prayers are with you in this time of grief.
ANGELA SANTACRUZ <SEXYSLIM41ST@AOL.COM>
BOCA RATON, FL 33461 - Sunday, June 8, 2003 3:54 PM CDT
hey janet my mom told me about the bad news about jlen. i9 am soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sorry. iam praying to god. in my prayers i asked god to please take good care of him and i'm sure he will and i'm also sure that my great grandma will take god care of him to. got to go bye love savanah
Savanah <banana1494@hotmail.com>
boyton beach, fl - Sunday, June 8, 2003 3:41 PM CDT
Thinking about all of you!
Much Peace Prayers Love and HOPE for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, June 8, 2003 3:03 PM CDT
Good morning Jeanette, Dale and family. I went to bed last night and was praying for you to have a good night of sleep. For the first time last night Katia slept in her bed and I missed her so much! I was waiting for her to come back in our room. Then I thought how I would feel if she couldn't come back n my room anymore and that led me to pray for you. Have you visited Anthony Makoid's site today? I read about his last moments and I just feel like Anthony was so comfortable about going to be with God. God must give these kids comfort in their last moments. When I was little, I thought that kids must be frightened if they die because they are away from their parents but now I realize that God is everyone's Father and in Him there is always perfect peace. That doesn't make it any easier for those left behind though. I think no matter what we always want our kids with us or our loved ones. I think no matter how sick Katia ever gets, I will take care of her and love her and I feel like I have made a few deals with God at times. I just want him to always know that she is never or has ever been a burden to me but a priviledge. You held Jalen through so many good times and bad times. I bet Jalen can still feel the warmth of your touch anytime he wants to because since that makes him feel happy and loved, of course God would grant Jalen that. Right now I am finding it very hard to come to terms with these last few deaths over the last few weeks. I think over time, I have grown closer to people than ever before and maybe I am meant to do that. I have always been one to hold back and keep up a seperation barrier. I mean we can't get hurt if we don't allow ourselves to get hurt. But then we are gyped of not knowing such blessed people. Jeanette, although you are younger than me, I have learned so much from you since I have known you, I think since November if I am correct:) You an awesome person and you have a HUGE heart. May God bring you many blessings through your life and show you a lot of love and beauty because you really deserve it. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Sunday, June 8, 2003 11:07 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I know that yesterday you saw your precious little boy for the last time and my heart ACHES for you. I am here for you and know that the days, weeks, months, and yrs coming up are going to be the hardest for you.
Nothing I or anyone else can say will ease your pain. I'm here and that is what I can offer you. I know you LOVE GOD and have your faith and I'm thankful for that for you. We all know Jalen is in heaven without a doubt, I just wish so much he was in your arms instead..where he belongs.
Holding you so close to my heart. I hate AML and I hate what it does to precious children and to those left behind to deal with the aftermath of this disease.
Love
Christy Fitzpatrick...Mommy to Angel Jordyn www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Sunday, June 8, 2003 2:03 AM CDT
I too lost my son two weeks ago to this horrible disease. I just wanted you to know that I came across your son's page through kidsneedprayer.net I have been following his journey and am sorry to hear of your loss. My son Brandon is also an angel and I will miss him greatly so I can relate I guess. Please visit his page www.caringbridge.org/ny/brandontroy I am also starting a foundation to help others who are going through what we have went through. God Bless You.
Cynthia Carr-Morales <victroy2002@aol.com>
New York, NY US - Sunday, June 8, 2003 1:07 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
Although I haven't seen you since high school, I happened to hear about you and Jalen just a few weeks ago, through Tracy (Savanah Colodny's mom). I just wanted to let you know that you and your precious baby angel have been, and will continue to be in my prayers. I truly admire you for your strength and courage. I can tell that you have grown into quite an impressive woman. Little Jalen's life was filled with lots of love and prayers, and I am sure that will continue. God Bless...
Laura Creegan <RubyLL@aol.com>
Orlando, FL - Sunday, June 8, 2003 0:12 AM CDT
Found you from the Charletons, and I can smell the lavendar lotion as we use it too. Our prayers are with you from Virginia, and will continue.
The Dorschel family <jay.dorschel@verizon.net>
suffolk, va - Saturday, June 7, 2003 9:33 PM CDT
I am so very sorry.
Praying for you and your family,
DeAnna (Chase's mom, dx'ed 9-01 w/ an anaplastic astrocytoma) <www.caringbridge.org/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Saturday, June 7, 2003 8:47 PM CDT
Jeanette, I am praying for you as it comes night time. I know it must be so hard not to have Jalen there to hold and take care of him. It is okay to feel very sad and upset. You have a wonderful family there with you and I am sure they are feeling the absence of Jalen, too. He was such a sweet little boy! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Saturday, June 7, 2003 8:12 PM CDT
I really feel sorry for you.
ELIZABETH NAOMI GREEN <JUICYFRUIT3366@AOL.COM>
CHAROTTLE, NC AMERCA - Saturday, June 7, 2003 5:54 PM CDT
I'm so sorry for your loss. I also would like to invite you to join us at angelhuggz for freindship, grieving info. and etc. We'd love to have you. The pain you carry, is one we all have been through. I hope things will go better for you soon, take care & god bless,'
angel huggz
Angel Huggz/ Teresa Uriarte <angelhuggz@yahoogroups.com>
eugene, or usa - Saturday, June 7, 2003 1:07 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I know the pain myself. As someone else said, it doesn't get better, it's more tolerable. But believe me when I say, you will be happy again. I know I had times I didn;t want to get out of bed, didn't want to function at all but I kept remembering my son, Adam, and I knew he did not want me to quit. I needed to keep fighting to find pleasure in life and enjoy as much as I can till we're together again.
Your faith will sustain you as mine has. I still, 15 years later, do not know why it happened but I know the truth will be revealed when I enter into heaven myself. You, like me, were chosen by God to be the mother of an ill child. What a blessing. I would not trade it. God be with you and your family. Let yourself grieve however you need to.
I planted a rose bush today and named in Jalen. He will watch over it and help it bloom and grow.
I would be happy to speak to you any time you need to. My number is (207)657-4127. Call collect if necessary. I truly understand your pain but I'm living proof that life goes on and can be good again
Sharon Dube <dubes@mmc.org>
Gray, Me - Saturday, June 7, 2003 12:31 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette and Dale,
My heart aches for the loss of your sweet little Jalen.
I'll never understand the suffering of sweet little angels. Yet I know in my heart that when the day comes and we are all in the presence of our Lord; His love alone will heal all wounds. But until then we must hold on and believe.
Your sweet little angel is watching over you now, and he continues to live in you.
I believe with all my heart that someday you will hold your baby again...
May love comfort you, strengthen you, and lift you.
love and prayers,
Maria King, friend of the Charlton's <Bubbadetiroks@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, Fl - Saturday, June 7, 2003 11:12 AM CDT
I've shed tears for you & ache from the lost of a beautifu; child. Never forget and find some comfort in the FACT he hurts no more. He is a free spirit now and is in the protection of God's arms. God will bring you two back together again someday. And what a joyous day that will be!!! You are in my prayers. Keep the faith! It kept you going through the illness of your son & will get you through the lost of him too! P.S.This is my first time signing in. My best friend Tanya Roth sends msg.'s often & kept me posted. Now I regret not saying Hi sooner. Feel free to e-mail anytime! I have four children and did almost lose my okdest soon some years back. If you'd like to hear about it let me know or we can just be support for each other in a time of need. Love, Julie
Julie Anderson <juls350@bellsouth.net>
Jacksonville, Fl USA - Saturday, June 7, 2003 11:00 AM CDT
Jeanette, I am praying for you dear. Please know you can call me at any time! I mean that. You are such a great person and a great Mom and I really hate to see that you have had to endure this. I wish I had the right words to say but all I can say is my heart is with you right now. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her
guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Saturday, June 7, 2003 10:56 AM CDT
To Jalen.. Im so very sorry you cant be physically with your mommy and daddy anymore. I pray there you have made it to Heaven and are happy there and not in any more pain. Please visit my little boy, Tray, for me. And tell him his mommy misses him so much. And you boys behave yourselves up there :)... We will be with you again someday :)..
To Jalens mommy and daddy...I lost my baby when he was 1 month old. I have learned that we have to cherish the time that we were allowed with them. Which after 3 years..i have finally realized that. It never gets and better..I miss my son so much...But its something we have to 'learn' to live with. I want to commend you for all the fighing you did to keep Jalen healthy. Im so sorry for what happened. You are a great mother to that little boy. I know he is proud of you. You are a great person. Please take care..
www.babiesonline.com/babies/t/travoncg
www.babiesonline.com/babies/m/matthewcg
Sheri Howe <mom2mattandtray@yahoo.com>
Virginia Beach, VA usa - Saturday, June 7, 2003 10:42 AM CDT
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I have lost loved ones too, my father when I was 4. I understand and pray for you and your family. That journal entry to Jalen was beautiful. I know he will be smiling down on you.
Best wishes
Maura Bydash <Bydashm@ccf.org>
Strongsville, Oh - Saturday, June 7, 2003 9:56 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I love the picture of Jalen posted on Katia's site. You can see he was such a happy baby despite it all. He has a good mommy to have done that for him. I can't EVEN imagine what you are going through right now. I hope in time you will find some peace.
Love, Deirdre
- Saturday, June 7, 2003 9:15 AM CDT
HI my friend, I know for us the day after the funeral was the hardest! I think mentally we had ourselves all pumped up to get though the 2 days of services and then the next day we deflated and fell to pieces (for us). I will tell you (for us) it never gets "better" or "easier".....it gets more "tolerable".....but getting there will take some time. The pain for you now is so raw and so new. It must feel like you will feel this way forever. I know I cried A LOT!!! ALL the time!! The shower for some reason really had me in pieces. We also had the holidays to get through. There were really no other families around that we knew to talk to (Robert had only passed away 2 weeks before). I know chatting with Barbara Abernathy helped a lot. She is an amazing person who was so comforting. She could not take the pain away but her insight was very helpful.
PLEASE know we are here for you...both Scott and I are only a phone call away or we can come visit. I know you have my number. I will try to call you later today when I am at my mother's. Hope you are getting some rest.
Think of you often.
Love to you!
Much Peace Prayers Love and HOPE for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Saturday, June 7, 2003 9:04 AM CDT
I was right with you through this. I'm sorry. I don't know what to say except, God heals all wounds.
Te-Ericka
Gainesville, FL - Saturday, June 7, 2003 8:27 AM CDT
Love doesn't end in dying or leave with the last breath for those you love so dearly, love doesn't end in death.
Love never goes away, it remains in the heart and
soul forever.
I wish you peace. And hope for serenity.
Chris
West Palm Beach, - Saturday, June 7, 2003 0:41 AM CDT
Just know what a sweet blessing your son Jalen was to be in your life and to have touched so many people. Our prayers are for God's love, peace, and comfort to shine through your darkest clouds and give you a glimpse of the Glory that is now Jalen's...
Grace
Waukesha, WI - Saturday, June 7, 2003 0:01 AM CDT
I am really terribly sorry for your lost, but keep strong because Jalen is in a better place now.Where the angels can play with him, and where he is now;you don't have to worry about anything bad ever happening to him.Be happy, he doesn't want you to feel bad for him just be happy that he is in a better place now.He will be watching over you and your family while he is in heaven. GOD BLESS YOUR BABY BOY JALEN AND YOUR FAMILY. I will pray for your family to keep strong and pray so that God can give you the strength that you need to carry on. I don't know you guys, but I do care. I care for your baby boy Jalen and your family. I wish you guys the best of luck in the future.
Truly Yours,
beatrice
beatrice <BaBiGuRl063@aol.com>
delray beach, fl united states - Friday, June 6, 2003 11:37 PM CDT
IM VERY SORRY.IM SAD BECAUSE THE FACT THAT JALEN DIED I WISH HE DIDN'T BECAUSE HE WAS SO YOUNG NOBODY SHOULD DIE WHEN THEY'RE YOUNG.
DAMIAN SANCHEZ <DAMIANJR1024@AOL.COM>
DELRAY BEACH, FL USA - Friday, June 6, 2003 11:36 PM CDT
I am so sorry you have lost your little boy. My tears mingle with yours. Though heaven gained an angel, we who are left on earth are lessened.
A internet friend
Patricia O'Bannon <piggyib@aol.com>
Sacramento, Ca - Friday, June 6, 2003 10:44 PM CDT
Jalen was my favorite little angel too. May the Lord continue to bless and touch his family with his comfort and peace.
Rev. Sonia Carmona <revsonia@bellsouth.net>
Palm Beach, Fl USA - Friday, June 6, 2003 9:54 PM CDT
Jeanette, I am praying for you guys SO MUCH!!! I have a card that will go in the mail tomorrow. I knew you would be busy right now. I love you and my heart is just like an open wound right now!!! I keep going back to Jalen's website again and again. I pray everything went well today and the weather agreed with the ceremony. I am SURE everything was just beautiful. I just love you guys so much and I am so sorry you are having to face this! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Friday, June 6, 2003 9:49 PM CDT
I read tonight of Jalen's passing from another Caring Bridge site (Robert Charlton). I am so very sorry. I am thinking of you all and praying for you tonight. God will carry you through. Lean hard on Him. He will not let you go.
In Christ,
Christina Schwartz
Christina Schwartz <digitalschwartzes@msn.com>
Boynton Bch, FL USA - Friday, June 6, 2003 9:40 PM CDT
Wods can not express my deep sorrow for the pain you are feeling. What a beautiful angel we now have in heaven.
MY thought and prayers are with all of you. May you find peace in the days ahead.
www.caringbridge.org/il/zoejowolsfeld
Candyce Wolsfeld
Sprng Valley, IL usa - Friday, June 6, 2003 7:42 PM CDT
Thinking of you today and saying prayers for you.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Friday, June 6, 2003 6:14 PM CDT
So sorry to hear about Jalen's passing. I can not begin to imagine how you must feel. I am sure there is a part of you that is happy that Jalen is no longer uncomfortable but with it there must be the great pain of your personal loss. Jalen was quite the little warrior & you have certainly been an inspiration to others.
Ruth (grandmother to Missa www.carngbridge.com/ny/missaroberts)
Syracuse, NY - Friday, June 6, 2003 5:22 PM CDT
You are in my thoughts and prayers today as you have to say goodbye to Jalen.
A friend
Washington, - Friday, June 6, 2003 4:18 PM CDT
To the Mommy of Jalen, I am sitting here speechless having read your love for your baby. I work with Garrick Davis, and I can assure you that he has asked for prayer over all of you continuously. I pray your pain will be healed in due time, and that you will share the love you have for Jalen with all people everywhere that you meet.
Cheryl Carter <Cheryl@therockonline.org>
Gainesville, FL Alachua - Friday, June 6, 2003 2:04 PM CDT
Jeanette and Dale:
I am so sorry about your beautiful little boy. I can not even imagine what your heart feels like right now. I wish I had spoken to you at the viewing but you had so many friends and family by your side that I just said my words to Jalen. You are a wonderful mother and your little boy was so obviously loved.
God Bless,
Susan and Jakey Bear Griffin
www.caringbridge.com/page/jakegriffin
Jupiter, fl usa - Friday, June 6, 2003 11:43 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
I have been referred to your page by my neice Kathy. I have prayed for Jalen many times before. I am so sorry. this disease is incredibly unforgiving and unyeilding. Words cannot express how much sadness we feel for all of the families and victims of this disease.
I will continue to pray for all of you.
Bambi Forristall
Myakka City, - Friday, June 6, 2003 10:43 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
I have read your site daily and have lifted little Jalen up just as often. I am so sad for you that he was not able to win the fight here on earth -- even though you know he has now indeed won. I can only imagine the pain you have inside -- the questions, and the aching. God understands your anger and fears so don't be afraid to let those feelings out!
My prayers will continue to be with you and Jalen's daddy as you go through what has to be the most difficult experience of your entire life.
Linnae Bosma <lbosma@usfamily.net>
Brooklyn Park, MN - Friday, June 6, 2003 10:29 AM CDT
My heart aches for you. I pray for comfort for you and the strength to get through the difficult times ahead without your sweet baby here on earth.
Kristen Leigh
St. Louis, MO - Friday, June 6, 2003 10:23 AM CDT
Jeanette, I just want you to know I am thinking about you. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you to go through. I know you loved Jalen so very much and you were such a great Mommy!!!! I pray that Jalen will visit you in your dreams or be the little butterfly that just hangs around for you to see so much that you know it must be him! I am sure Jalen is laughing and playing and flying around with those new little wings of his. He has to be just happy. I don't think God would allow Jalen to be sad he is not with you anymore, but I do feel God lets him feel EAGER to see his Mommy's loving face again. Jalen has nothing but happiness and happy thoughts now. He has no more bumps or machines hooked up to me. He has no more chemo going in him. He is just being a real baby, but a baby ANGEL! I love you guys. I really want you to know that I will ALWAYS be here for you and some day when you feel it is appropriate, I hope we can get together. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Friday, June 6, 2003 10:14 AM CDT
Jalen was a special little boy who touched the lives of many people. The death of a child is always hard, whether the child is a toddler or an adult. While the pain never goes away, you can live with it, day by day, hour by hour if need be.
My thoughts are with you.
Susan Wensel
- Friday, June 6, 2003 10:12 AM CDT
My prayers are with you. Jalen is no doubt with Jesus right now, comforted and pain free.
Kim Hasselfeld <kimberly_hasselfeld@trihealth.com>
- Friday, June 6, 2003 9:34 AM CDT
Thinking of you today..and holding Jalen in my heart forever.
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Friday, June 6, 2003 7:52 AM CDT
Although I don't know you, I have been following Jalen's story.My heart aches for you, I cannot begin to imagine what you must be feeling. My baby is 6 months younger than Jalen and after reading your story, I realize that there is no guarantee of tomorrow and that all you hold dear can be gone. I am so sorry for your loss- I was praying for the best. I hope that the day comes soon where thoughts of your beautiful baby bring you many smiles instead of tears.You will remain in my prayers.
Jennifer <jenniferkaymurphy@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, Mn Usa - Friday, June 6, 2003 7:26 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette & Dale,
Just wanted to come by and let you know that I'm thinking of you always...I still can't believe it and my heart is still aching...it was such a routine for me to check on Jalen everyday...a lot of times, I checked in a few times a day to see how that lil cookie was doing...so even though he is now up in Heaven, please know that I will still check in on you and your family...I hope and pray that in your own time, whenever you feel upto it, I hope that you will update us on how you are keeping. I am so extremely grateful to have had the privilege of following Jalen's journey...that lil boy of yours taught me a WHOLE lot...I don't even know where to begin! I am just so thankful that I "knew" Jalen..coz my memory of him is this GORGEOUS, BEAUTIFUL little baby who fought his hardest and never gave up. I love that photo of him on the front and it was always the first thing I saw when I checked on him.. and it always made me smile. Now I have his face etched in my memory forever. I am praying for you...and I pray that in within this darkness, you will find some light and comfort. It's amazing how much I get attached to these babies and their families...and it goes without saying that I was very attached to Jalen and of course his wonderful parents. You guys hang in there and keep strong..
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
God bless always,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Friday, June 6, 2003 5:27 AM CDT
The Lord has had your family on my heart since I found out about you just a week or so ago. I have prayed for you daily. I will continue to pray for you. Just as God hand-picked Mary and Joseph to entrust them with Jesus' care, He hand-picked you to be entrusted with Jalen's care. I know he was a very special little boy though I never had the opportunity to meet him in this life.
Nichelle, mommy to Adrienne (http://www.caringbridge.org/tx/adrienne), Brandice, Tre' and Charis <rejoice_first_lady@yahoo.com>
Cedar Park, TX USA - Friday, June 6, 2003 2:09 AM CDT
Jalen, I came to say goodbye to you in picu,but your strength suprised us all. Then I had you as my patient for 3 days last month and you smiled and made me smile. Now the time has come to say goodbye. Jalen you are truly one of God's special angels. Tell Seth hi! I will miss you and think of you and your family often. Holly
Holly Davis RN, BSN <nursingwoman@aol.com>
- Friday, June 6, 2003 1:40 AM CDT
IM SORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN 2 JALEN I KNO HOW IT FEELS LOSING SOMEONE U CARE ABOUT ITS REALLY HARD AND WE KNO WHEN SOMEONE DIES THEY CANT BE REPLACED, NOBODY SHOULD GO THROUGH THINGS LIKE DIS, BUT WE SHOULD STILL CARE FOR HIM FOREVER
ADRIAN <SOUTHARTIST13@AOL.COM>
ARLINGTON, TX UNITED STATES - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:04 PM CDT
IM SO SORRY.I DONT REALLY KNO WUT TO SAY CUZ I KNO IF I SAY SOMETHIN IT WONT CHANGE A THING.BUT I JUST WANNA SAY ONE THING.''JALEN KING WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTON HE WILL STAY IN OUR HEARTS FOR EVER'' AND HES IN A GOOD PLACE AND HES TAKEN CARE OF BY SOME WONDERFUL PERSON AND HE WILL NEVER BE IN PAIN OR ANYTHING.
DAISY SANCHEZ <SUAVECITA213@AOL.COM>
DELRAY BEACH, FL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:01 PM CDT
I know that when I get to heaven I will be glad that there are kids and babies there but even though I have faith and I have love, I guess I am missing understanding. Because I sure can't seem to understand this. I will pray that your sweet memories will eventually overshadow your grief and leave you with peace.
Ivy
ivy www.caringbridge.org/wa/cameronboyd <poisenivj@aol.com>
Lynnwood, wa usa - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:51 PM CDT
I am so very sorry.....
Janet Sims, mom to Janie, forever 5 years old, leukemia (ALL), www.caringbridge.org/al/janiesims
Birmingham, AL - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:30 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I have been following your journey and can't even begin to know the pain you must be feeling. I hope you find comfort in knowing we all are praying for you and your family.
Lori Tolley
North Canton, OH - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:10 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I will not pretend I know the pain and loss you feel. I will say you have many "Cherished Memories of your Beautiful Angel Jalen." He brought you much joy and happiness. There will be times of sadness and times of joy. Jalen will Live and Love in your heart forever. God Bless you and your family.
Katie's Aunt Patti (Aunt Jamia's friend) <pabejar@aol.com>
Port St Lucie, FL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:25 PM CDT
Dearest Jalen "Angel sent to heal broken hearts",
My heart misses you and hurts knowing that you are not there physically smiling and dancing for your mama and
Am-ma, but you have come in and filled our hearts with a love that so many of us have never known. Thank you for sharing your sweet self with us so freely while God shared you with us here on this Earth. Not to worry little one, we will take care of your mama and your am-maw as you continue to smile and dance for them in their hearts. Come see them often and bring them comfort with your everlasting love. We love you and are so very blessed to know you.
"Somewhere a journey begins at the end of the worldly existence we know, somewhere a path stretches over the stars and rivers of memories flow. Somewhere a silence is heard far away and the brightness of day fills the night, where the trials of life are resolved into peace, when a soul finds it's way to the light."
Dearest Jalen, may the light envelope you and hold you in perfect peace.
I love you,
In sprit, your Auntie Gail
Cincinnati, Ohio
Gail England <gengland@msn.com>
Cincinnati, OH USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:24 PM CDT
Jeanette and Dale...
My heart is still breaking for the two of you. I just don't seem to know the right words to say...I suppose there really is none but I really just wanted you to know Jalen has been on my mind all day. That sweet little Pooh Bear has taken a piece of all our hearts with him...
He is so lucky and blessed to have you both as his parents.
Missing him terribly...
~Kim~
~KODYS STORY~
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:17 PM CDT
I just want you to know how sorry I am for your loss.I have been following Jalens journey for a while now. God Bless...
sheila
peru, in usa - Thursday, June 5, 2003 8:05 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
I'm so sorry that Jalen has passed away. My heart & sympathy go out to you. He was such a beautiful child, but now he is a beautiful angel up in heaven with God.
Amanda <mrlynr1110@aol.com>
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 7:22 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss - I can't imagine how you are feeling - you are in my prayers. I have a dear sweet 4 year old honorary niece who has stage iv neuroblastoma - so I do understand a little of what you have gone through.
Know that your sweetie little baby is in God's loving hands - no more pain. You will meet up with him again someday. Be strong and take comfort in the good memories.
Bobbi VanSchaick <vanshak@insightbb.com>
Spring Valley, IL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 7:10 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for you and your family. Jalen is a true angel.
Marissa Barrera <msbarrera@adelphia.net>
Boca Raton, Fl - Thursday, June 5, 2003 6:39 PM CDT
A peom for angel Jalen.
Come to me
God saw you getting tired
When a cure was not to be,
So he put his ams around you
And whispered,"Come to me".
You diddn't deserve what you went through,
And so he gave you rest.
God's garden must be beaitful,
He only takes the best.
And when I saw you sleeping
So peaceful and free from pain,
I could not wish you
To sufer that again.
That's my tribute to the dancing angel Jalen.
someone who caresabout you and your angel jalen. I miss you Jalen!!!!!
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 6:29 PM CDT
God be with you. I am very sorry for you lost.
Timothy B Steed <mrfaithtra@juno.com>
Parkersburg, Wv USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 5:50 PM CDT
dear janet,
Hi i am savanahs sister and tracys daughter. i have never met you before but i have heard the best of things about you from savanah. thank you for being so great to her, it is a hard thing to go through i am sorry and i hope you feel better. he is with god and he is not in pain! thanks again!
kali colodny <babyk1690@aol.com>
boynton beach, fl usa - Thursday, June 5, 2003 5:46 PM CDT
Words cannot replace your loss. May you find comfort knowing that Jalen is in a better place. Never forget that Jalen will always be a part of you, laughing and smiling and cheering you on in everything you do. May he finally rest in peace.
All Your Friends
All Across, the USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 4:43 PM CDT
I am coming from a website of a precious child I have come to care about deeply and was led to yours. I don't know where to begin, or what to say, other than I am so so so so very sorry for the loss of your little boy. I don't think there is any greater pain than that, nor one harder to understand. We don't have all the answers to our questions in this lifetime but please know that while God had a different plan for your little guy, He also still has a plan for those left behind. Don't turn your back on Him and He will get you through this. I know I'm just a perfect stranger to you but please know from the bottom of my heart to the bottom of yours, I feel your pain and sorrow. Lean on God, through His Son Jesus, at this time and let Him get you through this. My heart aches for you, my tears fall for you, and my prayers will go up for you as well. Rest in Jesus' arms, little Jalen, and feel His love.
And to the entire family, may you feel the Lord's arms wrapped around you in comfort today and always.
In Christ's Love,
Heidi
Heidi Acevedo <HeidiAce@yahoo.com>
Deltona, FL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 4:22 PM CDT
So sorry to hear oh your loss. I had been checking all day yesterday to see if you had updated. Jalen is a beautiful baby. He was given to you with love by God. I cry as I write as I am not sure exactly how you feel, but as another mother I can imagine the pain. You are a strong woman with faith in God. You must hold to that now and to the friends and family God has given to you. All our love and prayers,
Denise, Darren and family (caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <dndtwins1@usadatanet.net>
Bridgeport , NY USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 3:48 PM CDT
I am so sorry about poor Jalen. He is such a cute little man. I also lost a son. My boy Tray was 1 month old when he died due to prematurity and sepsis. I know the feeling of the loss and how empty you are feeling. I will be praying for you. Please take care and know people are thinking about you and you are not alone. www.babiesonline.com/babies/t/travoncg
Sheri Howe <mom2mattandtray@yahoo.com>
Virginia Beach, VA USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 3:36 PM CDT
I am praying for you all as you mourn your son. I know your heart is breaking and wish I could lighten the load. Please know that many people care for you and many happy children have welcomed your little man to heaven.
Kristi
Watertown, WI - Thursday, June 5, 2003 3:29 PM CDT
It breaks my heart to know that Jalen is no longer here on earth with the people that loved him the most. However, I'm glad that he was surrounded by the love of his family when he passed away. You are all in my heart and prayers as you face the difficult days ahead. Jalen was a very lucky boy to have a family that love him and took such good care of him. You are truly a wonderful mom and he was lucky to be your son.
Lisa
Seattle, WA USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 3:25 PM CDT
Dale & Jeanette,
A poem by an unknown author to share with you in the deeply sad time in your lives. Only God can take away the sting of beautiful little Jalen's death. Praise be to God for his unending love.
Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glint on the snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift, uplifting rush. Of quiet birds in circling flight, I am the soft starlight at night.
I am the song that will never end. I am the love of family and friend. I am Jalen who has come to rest in the arms of the Father who knows me best.
When you see the sunset fair, I am the scented evening air. I am the joy of a task well done. I am the glow of the setting sun.
Our sincere sympathy to all of you. We love Jalen very much and will send a balloon heavenward tomorrow.
Love in Christ
Jerrri and Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 3:21 PM CDT
I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said....there unfortunately are no magic words. I just want to thank you both for sharing Jalen with me, a perfect stranger to you. I have been amazed at your faith throughout this journey. I pray that you will be able to continue to lean on this faith during these coming days, weeks, months. Jalen is such a precious little boy. He looked like an angel from the first day I saw his picture on this website. I so wish that there was something that I could do for you, but I know there isn't. I can continue to pray though and I will do that faithfully. Hang on tight to each other and your families and friends. I will be back to check on you and will be holding you close in my heart. Jalen -- I will NEVER forget!! God bless you all.
Sent with big hugs and love,
Krista Iverson <krista.iverson@gepex.ge.com>
Ottawa, IL - Thursday, June 5, 2003 2:56 PM CDT
Jeanette and Dale, Your baby is now watching over you as you have both done so lovingly for the past 1 1/2 of his life. You couldn't have a better group taking care of him now. As Mattie said to me, "mom, Jalen will no longer be in pain". You have a long road ahead of you, keep the faith, the prayers will continue for you and your families. We love you very much and are always here for you.
Aunt Jamia, Scotty and Matthew <frog_john14_6@yahoo.com>
Wellington, FL US - Thursday, June 5, 2003 2:47 PM CDT
My heart is hurting. I am sure no where near the hurt you are feeling, but I am so sad - I am so sorry - and I will continue to pray for you and your family. I must thank you for sharing your life with us. We prayed for Jalen. Hope of him getting better and hopes of him with no pain. Please know that you have many people that you have never met that love and care for you and will continue to pray for your pain.
Much love,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 2:45 PM CDT
Dear Family of beautiful Jalen,
Thank you so much for sharing your baby with us, even those of us who have never met you! My heart aches so much for you...please know that my prayers of strength and courage are with you. God is with you and most importantly Jalen has never left your side...
Lisa Searle <lisa.searle@relizon.com>
Salt Lake City, UT USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 2:27 PM CDT
Jeanette,
As I read your last journal, I had tears streaming down my face. I am so sorry. I know you will miss Jalen terribly. God has him in his arms now and he is not suffering anymore. Sometimes God heals our loved ones in His way and not ours. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Tonya (Chassidy's mom) www.caringbridge.org/il/chassidy
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 2:24 PM CDT
Jalen's Mommy:
My heart aches for you. I wish you peace and pray to God to give you strength as you begin your life again.
Tiffany <tlmytty@yahoo.com>
Wichita, KS - Thursday, June 5, 2003 2:16 PM CDT
Jalen's mommy forever,
I sob as I read this and know I'll be with you through this journey as well...the worst of your life no doubt.
Love,
Deirdre
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 2:05 PM CDT
I had heard that Jalen had passed but I always like to wait for the family's update before I respond. I am so sorry for the heartache that you are feeling at this moment. Please know that I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers through the rest of this difficult journey. Blessings to you and lots of love.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Thursday, June 5, 2003 2:02 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette
I am so very sorry that you have lost your angel. Now he will no longer have any pain. I did not know Jalen, but from the picture's on the website he was a beutiful boy.
I pray that god will be with you and your family, to keep you strong in this terrible time of loss.
Deedee (Jamia's sister, Scott's aunt) <jake9923@msn.com>
Newport News, Va. 23603 - Thursday, June 5, 2003 1:55 PM CDT
I was very saddened to hear of your loss, please know my prayers are sent to heaven for you all. Love Angel Sky
Angel Sky
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 1:44 PM CDT
I am so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tammy Holston
B'ham, Al - Thursday, June 5, 2003 12:58 AM CDT
My heart, my thoughts and my prayers go out for you and your family. I pray that God's peace will totally and completely sustain you during this time. Because of Pastor Garrick, our church family was first given the opportunity to intercede for your family when Jalen became ill. We will continue to pray for you, knowing that God, through Holy Spirit will pour out His love, peace and comfort upon you. YOU ARE LOVED AND COVERED IN PRAYER!
Tiffani Jackson <tiffanijacks@yahoo.com>
Gainesville, FL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 12:45 AM CDT
As an aunt of three, no children yet, the love I have for my sister's children is unbelievable. One thing remains a recurring thought, God's love for you Jeanette, and your precious baby whom I have thought of and prayed for almost daily is, incomparable to what is inside of us for those whom we love. I pray that you run to the fulfilling power of God's precious embrace that is ALWAYS waiting for you. I have come to a place where His embrace, His touch, His kiss on my cheek is more fulfilling than any I have ever experienced. I love you and I know that the Lord that we serve can impart joy from nowhere and you'll end up laughing and praising His glorios name! Don't lose your victory shout, I believe your baby is riding his little truck around the throne of God, totally healed and whole and loving mama honking his horn to you! Be encouraged, you will be with him forever once this world has passed!
B Cordero <BijanLovesPink@hotmail.com>
Gainesville, Florida - Thursday, June 5, 2003 12:29 AM CDT
It is amazing how the loss of a child I have never met or shared a moment with can bring me to tears - I am still unable to comprehend why this happens to innocent children. My niece, Missa Roberts, has suffered as well and I am so happy to see the encouragement from people we have never met. Kathie from Lowville, NY has mention Jalen numerous times on Missas page and I read Jalens journals praying that the day would come where he would be cured. I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope knowing that people all over the world have been touch in some way or another by your sharing Jalens light helps your time of grieving pass. When you look up at night and see that extra bright star you'll know its Jalen guiding you, holding your hand until you can be joined together forever. May God bless you and keep you during this time and my best to you and yours.
Dana
Syracuse, NY - Thursday, June 5, 2003 12:14 AM CDT
You do not know me. I am a friend of Makoid family who just lost Anthony on Monday. Thank for your kind words to them, and my God bless Jalen's soul and may God bless all of you through this heart-wrenching time. They say, if he brings you to it, he will bring you through it.
God Bless you and your family.
Jeanette
Jeanette
Sanatoga, PA USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:52 AM CDT
My heart aches and I cry with you during this terrible time. Jalen was such a blessing to me and I never met him. Take comfort in the knowledge that you were the best mommy he could have! Always remember when your days are the darkest and lowest, and you might feel like giving up, you are not alone. God is there with you. May God give you peace and comfort,
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:44 AM CDT
I am so sorry!!! Please know our Prayers are with you and your family. Thank You for letting us into your Lives and Jalen into our Hearts.
May God give you Strength and Comfort.
Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma <c_ullrich@msn.com>
Hemingford, Ne USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:41 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing your story.
Linda
Shelby Twp., MI - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:29 AM CDT
It is so hard to say the right thing in such a sad time, but I have to say Jalen touched my life hundreds of miles away. I will always think of him. You have such wonderful strength and faith, I commend you for that! God Bless you and be with you in this time of need.
Tonya Roth
Jacksonville, Fl - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:25 AM CDT
Thank you so much for sharing the intimate details of how Jalen passed. Im sure that it was very hard for you to put all that in writing. I am praying for your strength and courage during this very difficult time. The love that you all shared with Jalen is so incredible. The faith and hope that was demonstrated thru his amazing journey is just that, amazing! Don't loose the faith and remember, hope dies last. Know that you all will remain in my thoughts and prayers and that Jalen will always be a part of my heart and soul. Rest peacefully baby!
Leah Wilson
NC - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:15 AM CDT
I would just like to express my thanks to all of you that have cared so much and who have given my family so many prayers and such inspiration. Even though this is the hardest time of our lives and we miss our little Jalen more than words can say, we're very thankful that God was merciful and took Jalen peacefully in his sleep--with all his family around him just loving him. It gives me peace that my beautiful Jalen is, finally, without pain and with our many loved ones in Heaven.
Jalen--my little "Poppy"--I am the proudest grandmother in the world! Thank you for giving me so much love. You showed me a kind of love that I didn't know existed within myself. I will hold you in my heart and love you forever. Until we meet again...
Terry
(Am-Maw)
Terry Snyder <vix207@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL 33411 - Thursday, June 5, 2003 11:04 AM CDT
We are so sorry to hear of Jalen's passing. I don't believe words can ever express the grief one feels when a family member, especially a child is lost. We will continue to remember your family in our prayers. The Johnson Family (Mike, Martha, Jacob, & Jessica)
Martha Johnson <MJohnsonRN1983@aol.com>
Cullman, AL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:45 AM CDT
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Maria
NJ - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:38 AM CDT
I have never posted here before but have been watching Jalen's progress nearly everyday for several weeks. I am so sorry for the loss of your precious child. I have never known such loss in my life and can only imagine the pain your family is feeling. Please know that I have been praying for your sweet family and will continue. I thank you for sharing your child with us and allowing to fall in love with him. I have watched personal friends go through this with their precious daughter who now flies with angels. I watched their strength and dedication that you as parents display day after day and I admire each of you more and more everyday. Please dig for that strength to hold yourselves up during this tough time. Just remember that Jalen will always be with you and you will see him in places you never looked before and he will be there smiling at his wonderful family and thanking you for all that you did!
Jackie <ouise929@msn.com>
Vestavia Hills, AL - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:31 AM CDT
Ever since Pastor Garrick informed us at prayer that his great nephew (Jalen) is ill, I immediately began to intercede along with everyone else in the prayer room. I was kept informed through the updates and rejoiced when he was getting better on April 29, 2003. Today I mourn with you Dale, Jeanette and your family over your loss. Your son's life (...his testimony) has forever impacted my life. Thank you for sharing his love with me.
Ernst Toussaint <ernstt@digitaloptronics.com>
Gainesville, Fl 32609 - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:24 AM CDT
Though I never met you, I know that you are an amazing woman. Your faith and strength will get you through this unbearable time.
Kim Barnes <kbarnes@pbpost.com>
Lake Worth, FL - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:23 AM CDT
Jalen - You're our little angel. We'll love you always. Thank you for all that you have given this family. We will truly miss you.
Jeanette - We love you so much. You truly are a wonderful mother. We are so proud of how you have taken care of Jalen through all of his very difficult times. We will always be there for you.
Love Always & Forever.. Aunt Nancy, Uncle Mike, Michelle & Jessica
Nancy Adams
Boca Raton, FL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 10:14 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Jalen may have been here a short time but the time he was here with you he brought you so much happiness and joy. You will always have the wonderful memories that you shared with Jalen and no one can take those away. I never knew Jalen but learned of him through another friend. He was a very "Special" young man.
Becky
Pt. Hueneme, CA USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:46 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette & Dale,
Thanks to you, Jalen knows that he was truly loved in this life.
Thanks to God, we know that he is now being loved just as much in his everlasting one.
The prayers and love of family and friends are with you.
Kim King
Gainesville, FL U.S. - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:40 AM CDT
My heart & prayers are with your family. I've never met you before, but because Pastor Garrick shared your lives & story with us, I feel grief for you. Holy Spirit is the healer of all broken hearts and love from all those around you can help bridge the gap...my love to your family
Valencia Wells
Gainesville, Fl USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:38 AM CDT
I am so sorry for the loss of Jalen, but he is with Jesus now. He is pain free, giggling, running, talking on the phone! Your entry was so touching. I will pray that God's strength will pull you through this. Why does this happen to our children? Only God knows that answer, but there must be a reason. I wish I could tell you that reason. My prayers are with you.
Doreen
Cedar Falls , IA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:30 AM CDT
Dear Jalen,
I first met you when you were just ten days old. At that time, I thought, "What a little angel!" Well, I was right!! You were a little angel, sent by the Lord to join and to be loved by our family. Now, you've earned your wings and are now with all of the other angels in Heaven. You have touched the lives of so many, many people during the short time you were with us. Some of those people never had the joy of actually meeting you. I will always love you, and I will always be proud that I am your great uncle. Until we meet again, my little angel. - Uncle Kenny
Ken Dodaro <dodaro@math.fsu.edu>
Tallahassee, FL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:30 AM CDT
I've never met you but I have learned of Jalen through Scott Finestone. I have been following your story for about a month now. Every morning I checked Jalen's webpage to find out how he was doing. I am so sorry for your loss! Jalen has been in my prayers every night since I knew of him. You have been so strong in your faith and you will find that faith will get you through this. You will continue to be in my prayers!
Pam Russell <PRussell@advalite.com>
Clearwater, FL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:29 AM CDT
I am very sorry for your loss of your son. I have been writing and keeping you in my prayers since May 18th. Since Jalen is a precious angel up in Heaven now, you have to remember he is having fun now, no crying, and no pain. This was God's time for Jalen to go. Who knows? I might be up there tomorrow, where everything is. Even though I may just be laying in my bed, and even though I do not have a major illness. And you have to remember Jalen is no longer suffering. I am keeping all of Jalen's family in my prayers. May God still be in your life.
Lindsey <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, Va USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 9:11 AM CDT
Hi
I've been following your site for quite a while - reading it every day. I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sorry for your hurt, I'm sorry for your grief. May God hold your close during these tough times. My prayers are for your family. God Bless
Mary Lee (www.caringbridge.com/mn/davis.leukemia)
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 8:57 AM CDT
God bless you and yours in this heartbreaking time. Remember that Jalen now feels no pain and is on a wonderful journey with God. He will be a terrific angel and will always be smiling down from haven.
Pam
Higginsville, MO USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 8:47 AM CDT
Jenanette,
I am so sorry to about Jalen. I lost my only child, Crystal, at the age of 12 on June 17, 2000. She had never been sick. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Remember, take one day at a time and do what works for you. Only "YOU" know how you feel and what will help you make it through the next minute. I feel your pain and I have cried knowing what lies ahead for you. During those dark moments when you feel you have NO hope, God is good, he does ALL things well so try to lean on him. My faith in GOD has helped me make it through. If you ever need a shoulder to cry on or someone to cry with, please feel free to contact me.
Naomi Hollingsworth <top2girls4ever@yahoo.com>
Greensboro, NC USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 8:26 AM CDT
Dear Jalen, When I first saw you, I said to myself who is this little baby that I don't know. But soon, you filled my heart with a new love that I didn't know existed. I was proud to be your great grandfather and will always be, till the day we meet again and after. I know you will be there in heaven in my mothers arms waiting to hug and kiss me.
Louis Dodaro <Navylou1925@aol.com>
Boca Raton, Fl. U.S.A. - Thursday, June 5, 2003 8:16 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale I don't understand the pain that you guys are going through but I can only imagine. You guys were the best thing for him. I am always here for you if you need anything. I love you guys.
Jalen you are finally pain free. Watch over us on Earth and we will join you one day to catch up on the things we didn't have a chance to do. You will be missed but not forgotten because apart of us went with you the day God took you HOME. I love you my lil man with wings. MUAHS xoxoxo
Courtney Stacy <Queen10C@aol.com>
Lake Worth, FL USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 8:14 AM CDT
I wanted to come back again and sign your guestbook. I just finished reading your last entry and can barely see as I type. Sharing such private, detailed, information with everyone is so thoughtful of you. When I read that little Jalen passed away at the last note of his favorite teddy bear song, I started crying so very hard. What a beautiful ending to such a sweet little life. As you say, it sounded so peaceful.
I continue to hold you in thought and prayer.
Sincerely,
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Thursday, June 5, 2003 7:12 AM CDT
I have been following little Jalen for quite some time now. I haven't signed your guestbook, but there's no way I couldn't sign it now. I am heartbroken. I sit here crying as I read your entry. You are an amazing mother. This will be a very difficult time for your family. Pull together - don't push anyone away. You all need each other. Nothing I could say would make you feel better so I won't even try. I just wanted you to know that Jalen has touched someone else. I will never forget him and the story of his life. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful little man with all of us. May God bless you and bring you strength.
Tina Robertson <robertson.tm@pg.com>
Newport, KY USA - Thursday, June 5, 2003 6:51 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale,
My heart breaks with the news about Jalen. No words can explain . Your update was amazing. Jalen did touch alot of peoples lives. JALEN WAS TRUELY AN ANGEL SENT FROM HEAVEN.
Jalen , You are at peace now with all the other children. Know that you are truely loved and missed here on earth.
We love you little man!!! xoxoxoxo
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Thursday, June 5, 2003 6:27 AM CDT
Little Jalen has some pretty wonderful angels looking out for him I'm sure. I bet he's having a blast up there while he waits to meet up with you all again. Perfectly cured...no more pain, no more meds, no more CANCER!! We love you Jalen!
Praying for comfort and understanding for you and your whole family.
Stacy S
WPB, FL - Thursday, June 5, 2003 5:58 AM CDT
I just got home and found out about Jalen's passing, I am so sorry, please know my prayers are now with you all, the family left to mourn the passing of such a sweet angel. Love Toto
^A^ Toto
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 3:30 AM CDT
I'm very very sorry to hear that little Jalen lost his battle with the cancer monster. He was a beautiful baby, and I can tell he was so loved.
Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers,
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Thursday, June 5, 2003 1:30 AM CDT
I am so sorry. I have no idea what to say. I wish I could think of somthing to say, but I am at a loss. If you need to e-mail me to vent or whatever, please, I am here.
So many hugs and love and prayers from this family to yours.
Cheryl <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
Oakley, ut usa - Thursday, June 5, 2003 1:29 AM CDT
Christy (mom of Jordyn) placed Jalen's link on our AOL message board for expectant moms. Your story has touched this mother-to-be's heart. Thank you for showing me the true love of a mother. Your son was so precious and has touched many lives. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but I see that you were blessed with a magnificent little boy. You can rest assured your prayers to God to care for your baby will be answered in full. He made Jalen and will hold him safe and sound until you join them. May God bless you and keep you and your family. My prayers are with you.
Emily Cassetty <cassettys@aol.com>
- Thursday, June 5, 2003 0:18 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette, Dale and family,
Words cannot express the depth of sorrow I feel for you at this time of loss....I am SO VERY SORRY for the loss of Jalen. Our children are NOT supposed to die, they are not supposed to go before us. I understand your faith, how you could not believe you would lose him...we all had that faith, we all prayed so hard for Jalen's miracle. It is such a shock.I am so sorry. Your entry was beautiful, thank you for sharing your life and Jalen's life with all of us, you allowed your angel to touch us all in such a wonderful way. We will never forget him.
Jalen...fly baby, fly! To the Heaven's above, where all is peaceful, and beautiful and wonderful...be sure to send Mommy and Daddy some special treasures, Ok? They will need to feel you around them, sweetie:) We will miss you so much, especially Mommy and Daddy, but one day, you will all be together again:) And it will be JOY!!!
Peace to you all,
love and hugs,
Tracey,Steve, Quinn and Callum xoxox <traceyhewison@shaw.ca Hugs and Hope Club>
Calgary, Ab, Canada, - Thursday, June 5, 2003 0:14 AM CDT
We are so sorry to hear about Jalen. He was a wonderful little boy. He is in a much better place now, free from pain and filled with so much love. He will always be with you and one day you will be reunited in Heaven. You were and still are the best mom I have ever seen. Jalen knew just how muched he was loved. We will be praying for you, asking God to give you the strength to cope with each passing day. We love you very much and our thoughts and prayers are constantly with you.
Love, Kathy & Timmy Lawton <kathyhamden@aol.com>
PSL, FL - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 11:50 PM CDT
To Jalen's family...once again my heart bleeds for yet another child taken way too soon. Words of comfort are so hard to come by, so I will offer prayers that the Good Lord will help ease your pain. Please know that you have been and will be thought of often. May sweet little Jalen enjoy the company of his Angel friends. God Bless †
Tom <WerbeRacing@aol.com>
Kill Devil Hills, NC www.caringbridge.org/ks/dianekeel - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 11:47 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to know your pain, but I thank you for sharing all you have shared over time...and I thank you for sharing Jalen's final time on Earth with those of us who have followed your Journal.
Patti
Yakima, WA USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 11:39 PM CDT
I am so sorry for the loss of your child. Please know you are in my prayers, and that I ask God to surround you with not only His love, but the love of close friends and family to help you through this grieving process. May you have many good memories to hold on to until you meet again. Jaleen is with our Lord, and I know that doesn't make your hurt any less, but it is a safe place and a place of total healing. God bless you and know you are loved.
Jerry Ann Haynam <Galgee@aol.com>
Land O'Lakes, FL USa - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 11:33 PM CDT
I am very sorry to hear of Jalen's passing. Your family are in my thoughts, and prayers in the very difficult days before you. I hope you will have many visits from Jalen in your dreams.
Dave, Tami, Angel Sydney, and Andrew
Tami Hall <Tamihall@comcast.net>
Highland, MI USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 11:07 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I know that sorry is such a worthless word right now. My heart is aching for you, as I read your words I could hear myself just over 3 years ago screaming and asking the same question..begging God to give her back, just to let me have her back. Nothing I or anyone else can say will make this any easier, and I don't think it needs or should be easy..you lost the most amazing person you know and will ever know. The true love of your life, the future, your hopes, dreams and the love that you longed for even when you didn't know you were longing for it.
My heart is with you, the days coming are hard, the following weeks are harder..don't push yourself..you will still wake up and that in itself will be a challenge and achievement all in itself. There is NO TIME limit on grief....I hope that anyone else reading this remembers that..there is NO TIME LIMIT. You've lost your child and this is not something any parent should have to deal with.
For now take it second by second..then minute by minute, eventually day by day...
My heart is with you and I'm here for you if and when you need me. If you just need to scream..you have my phone number call, say it's you,and just scream.
I can't say I will UNDERSTAND your pain and grief..because Jalen is YOUR son, not mine..but I can relate.
God Hold you close and praying you feel Jalen everywhere
Christy Fitzpatrick...Mommy to a sweet girl who died from AML also, Jordyn Ashleigh 3/30/98-5/8/00 <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 11:05 PM CDT
To Jalen's Family:
I found out about Jalen's site through Adopt-A-Kids. I have been following the story of your little angel for awhile. I am so sorry about your loss. I cried reading your beautiful entry today. Always know that Jalen will be with you forever. He is with God now and has no pain.
Robin Washburn <rwshbrn@aol.com>
New Britain, CT USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 11:01 PM CDT
WE ARE SO SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YET ANOTHER LITTLE CHILD. IT JUST SHOULDN'T HAPPEN THIS WAY. I ASK GOD TO BLESS THIS FAMILY AND WATCH OVER THEM AND GUIDE THEM TO PEACE AND SERENITY. SENDING LOTS OF LOVE AND PRAYER YOUR WAY.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:48 PM CDT
I am a friend of Ken's and from Seattle, WA who worked with him at Florida State University. I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My prayers will continue for God to help you and your family cope. There just doesn't seem to be enough I can say to tell you what is in my heart. I will pray for our Heavenly Father to hold you tight in his strength and let you know in some way that little Jalen is doing fine.
Candace L. Iaukea <ciaukea@u.washington.edu>
Seattle, WA America - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:46 PM CDT
I'm so sorry that you lost your sweet baby, but never forget that he will ALWAYS be with you. He was so lucky to have you for parents, and you were even luckier to have him for a son.
Love, Pat
Pat Manning <patricia.manning@attbi.com>
antioch, ca usa - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:37 PM CDT
I am so saddend at your loss. Jalen was a precious little boy. Jesus will take him and love him. Jesus loves the little children.
Anita Moore mother of Holly dx Sept, 2000 AML, April, 2001 Auto PBSCT
Sikeston, MO - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:36 PM CDT
Dear Jalen's Family,
I got connected to your site sometime ago through another caringbridge site. I have been keeping up and praying for Jalen. My heart bleeds for you as I cannot imagine the loss you feel. Your journey has not been in vain because you and Jalen have touched the lives of so many people. I have found your courage, faith and strength to be encouraging for such a young family. Please know that I am praying for you and your entire family. Take comfort in knowing that Jalen is healed! As Jesus wraps his loving arms around Jalen in heaven...he no longer hurts, he will no longer cry...he will never be in pain again...Jalen's little body is now free of disease. He is healed! The same Jesus that holds Jalen, will hold and keep you. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tara
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:25 PM CDT
am so sry i kno who it i to loose someone special. Be strong n keep faith always
sidey <Chicass1690@aol.com>
Lake Worth, FL United States - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:25 PM CDT
netty and dale...
oh baby,I am so sorry for your loss. Even if we didn't talk every day, I always checked to see how everything was going. God's plan for Jalen was greater than any of us could comprehend. He will always be in our hearts. Be strong honey, you have all your family and friends to support you. I love you,
Vanessa <Trubella4uaol.com>
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:22 PM CDT
I sit here bearly able to type this to you Jeanette... I came on line tonight to see how Jalen was doing, and am COMPLETELY shocked at this. I thought for sure no news was good news... I have not a single word that I can leave here for you to give you direct help, Just KNOW that there are so many of us out here that LOVE you all like we have known you all our lives. I AM SO SORRY that you and your family have to go through this. It seems so unfair that such a thing can happen to a child so young.
Just know that you are an inspiration to me as a mother, your strength, courage, love, and compasion makes me want to learn from you. I truly believe you are an AWESOME mother, and Jalen must have too! You earned all of those kisses for sure!
AGAIN... I am SO SORRY.
TAKE CARE AND REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:02 PM CDT
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have prayed for liittle Jalen, and I will continue to lift you up in prayer as you grieve. I am so, so sorry.
Elizabeth
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:01 PM CDT
Your entry left me with a huge lump in my throat and tears on my cheeks. I hope that the impact that Jalen and your family has had on the rest of the world will help bring comfort to your heart. You will remain in our prayers. I know there are no words but I just wanted you to know that I'll be praying for you daily.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:56 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. My daughter Isobel (Bella) passed away on April 10 of this year. Whan she died another parent wrote in our guestbook that even though Bella got her angel wings that day, she earned them far before that.
I believe this to be true. Our poor little babies had to go through so much in their young lives that a part of me wonders if they weren't angels the whole time!?
I will continue to check on you and pray for your healing and peace.And again, I am so terribly sorry and even though I don't know you and I didn't know your angel, I do know how you feel.
Cathy Peters <www.caringbridge.org/canada/isobel>
St.Albert, AB Canada - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:49 PM CDT
Jeanette I Know that when I graduated from H.S we were on bad terms but girl I fell ur pain I have 2 kids now and if something happen to them I think I will die I'm really sorry for ur baby loss but god will always be with him and you.. Just be strong I know is hard to say but he will be ok in heaven. God Bless You Your Family and Your Angel because he is an Angel from the time he was born.
Kisses n Hugs to you from me..
Kathy...
Kathy <dent1880@bellsouth.net>
West Palm Beach, FL usa - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:44 PM CDT
Wow, you are so awesome, you've made me feel like I've known you all in all of your posts. God has given you grace, and you have shared it with us. Please, stay close to God, and He will help you through these days without Jalen. Until you meet, again! I'm so sory for your loss, Jalen has touched all of our lives these last months. We will miss hearing how he's doing every day. You have been very diligent about keeping us "fans" informed. God bless your family, and may He place a comfort in your heart to help with your loss. Peace and Prayers, 4/J's
Julie (Jeffery's Mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <JulieSample1@aol.com>
Jax., Fl USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:34 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending all my love and prayers. I wish I had a magic wand to take away the pain, but i do not. I know your Faith in God will see you through. God Bless.
Much Love,
Kim Watts
Kim Watts www.taylorwatts.org
McCalla, Al - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:22 PM CDT
God picked the perfect Mom & Dad for Jalen! He was so loved!!
Many hugs and prayers are being said for all of you!
Lynn
www.caringbridge.com/pa/jessiespage, PA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:19 PM CDT
The staff of Quantum House is praying for you to have strength through this difficult time in your life. I am here for you if you ever need to talk or if you need anything. Your little Jalen was one of the most beautiful children I have ever seen (especially holding the cell phone),he will remain in my thoughts and in prayers as you and your entire family will.
Colette McKnight - Family Care Coordinator - Quantum House <colettemcknight@aol.com or cmcknight@quantumhousewpb.org>
WPB, FL USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:19 PM CDT
I just heard the news of Jalen's passing from Arlene (Terri's Mom) Each time I walked into Lou's Hairport, I saw Jalen's precious little face on the donation jar and each time I said a secret prayer, deep inside my heart, that God would take care of him and make him well.....you see, I have 2 little girls (8 and 6) and I was reminded of what we all should never forget.... what you already knew (as demonstrated by your love and caring for you little Jalen)...that these children that we all have...or even the ones that are not ours..are a gift to us...to teach us love and caring and unselfishness. We must never take our babies for granted...they are on loan to us and may be called home sooner than we expect. I believe that the time in heaven is so different from ours and I believe that, to Jalen, it will only be a few brief seconds until all of us are with him. I believe that God is merciful and knows that the wait for our loved ones would be too great so....time in heaven passes quickly so that all the babies don't have to miss their Mommies and Daddies...until they can all be together.There are no words that can exspress my wishes of comfort for you and your family and all those that KNOW Jalen.I say KNOW because....even though he is no longer in his body.....he is very much alive now....more alive than you or I....in a perfect little body, in a perfect world where there is only love and hope and life eternal. May we all carry this message to the ends of the Earth.... that our children are gifts from God and that God loves us and ...one day, we will all be together with Jalen in heaven....together...forever...at last. In Jesus name.....
TINA (friend of Arlene, Lou, Terri and Kayla) <Mitttalk@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:17 PM CDT
Janette @ Dale, You truley have been blessed to have Jalen.
He has the BEST seat in the world. With God.
Travis, Brenda @ Tray
Brenda Burrows <blb1228@aol.com>
Boynton Beach, fl USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:17 PM CDT
My heart absolutly breaks for all of you! I don't know what to help you to feel better, but we know that Jalen is now pain free....playing with our other angels, Robert, Seth, Tyler, Becca...Seth's Papa...they are going to take wonderful care of Jalen! Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers!
Love and ((((HUGS)))
Eva Shimmons <KWfan4ever@yahoo.com>
Marcellus, MI - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:15 PM CDT
There are no words that can truly help you at this time, but I will add I am so sorry. I too lost a son a few years ago.. I know the hurt never truly goes away. You did all that you could do and even more.......All I can really say is let your family and friends help you, it will be a blessing to all. Prayers for you
Sharon <mopgal@hotmail.com>
Dardanelle, ar - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:11 PM CDT
I am so, so sorry to hear that Jalen has left. I prayed for a miracle for him daily as I know many many others did. Thank you for sharing that sweet little boy with us. My heart breaks for you at this difficult time. May God grant you some measure of peace.
Mikie from ALL-KIDS (www.caringbridge.org/tn/emily)
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:10 PM CDT
I'm so sorry Jalen had to leave this world... but at least he was HOME with all of you who love him so dearly. What a beautiful way to go. I hope you can take some comfort in that and know that my thoughts and prayers are still with you.
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:58 PM CDT
I am so sorry to hear that Jalen has left this world. Thank you for sharing his life with all of us. He is in Heaven now and not in pain anymore. My hope for you is that your pain will fade in time and the memories you cherish will grow stronger.
Rae <rfbocritter@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:47 PM CDT
Oh Jeanette, I am so so sorry. I truly do know the pain you are feeling. There are no words or actions that can ease the pain....nothing will give us our babies back. But our heavenly Father can fill us with His peace...He can give us the strength to get through...until the time when we will be reunited again with our precious babies!
Remember that our separation is temporary....we WILL be together again! If there is anything that I can do, please let me know.
I will keep you in my prayers always....I pray that He fill you with His peace and that He heal your broken heart.
With Much Love in Him,
Yvonne Fernandez, Mom to Leilani http://www.caringbridge.org/nc/leilani <yvonnengzs@rjia.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:40 PM CDT
I have a niece on here that I check on, and thats how I stumbled across Jalen. Immediatly he pulled at my heart strings and I added your site to my favorites to make it easier to check on you and your baby.
Im so sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what your going through, and how you feel. I weep for you, wishing I could carry some of that pain for you, knowing that it's got to be a bigger load than any mother could carry alone.
You will remain in my prayers, and touch my heart forever.
Leanne Allemang <leanneallemang@yahoo.com>
Long Beach, CA USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:16 PM CDT
Jeanette and family, I am truly sorry for your loss.
I wish there was something more we could all say or do for you, but the one thing you want, your baby back, we cant give you. You did all you could, and he knew you loved him.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:07 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette, Dale and family....
We are so sorry to hear that sweet little Jalen is no longer with you. Although he is no longer in any pain I know there is no better place for him but in your arms.
I can't help but think about Seth and his passing at this time as well. I try to picture them playing trains and cars together and Papa (my father) is there to babysit until we are all together again.
I think of you all the time. If you need anything please call.
Much Peace Prayers Love and HOPE for a cure for childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 6:48 PM CDT
I am so sorry to hear of your loss . Jalen was truly a loved child. I hope you can find some comfort knowing that he is no longer having any discomfort. We will pray for your family during this difficult time. There is a huge party in heaven and Jalen id the guest of honor.
God Bless,
Sharon Picariello
www.caringbridge.org/page/dylansworld
Port St. Lucie, FL ...GOD BLESS JALEN... - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 6:42 PM CDT
Im so sorry to hear that sweet little Jalen earned his wings. I have checked on him everyday through his site I will miss him deeply. Your family is in our prayers.
sam (www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily)
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 5:36 PM CDT
Dear Jeannette & Dale,
How sorry we are for your loss! You have been very brave throughout this whole tragic time in your life. Jalen was and always will be a beautiful child. I remember it like yesterday, the day you arrived on the floor. Benjamin had just been diagnosed also and you too had gone through that dreaded Miami experience. I know you felt as we did that you landed in OZ when you found St. Mary's O2 Peds and all those wonderful friends you met throughout your stay. Take comfort in knowing that we will always be there for you!! Benjamin & I will forever keep you and your families in ours hearts and prayers.
xxooxx - Suzanne & Benjamin Slate <msfijiss@aol.com>
Palm Beach Gardens, FL USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 5:24 PM CDT
We are so sorry for your loss, little Jalen had so many people who loved him, he will be in peace now. God Bless.
Robin and Bailee <www.caringbridge.org/fl/bailee>
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 5:14 PM CDT
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. You are all in my prayers. BIG HUGS to each of you!
Katie <stones_throw_girlie@excite.com>
IN - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 5:05 PM CDT
I have been following your site for some time. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you find peace and comfort in knowing that strangers feel your pain- there are a lot of prayers being said right now and they will continue.
Sincerely,
Tricia Lester <http://www.caringbridge.org/fl/emilylester>
Seminole, FL USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 4:37 PM CDT
Jeanette,
Just read about your angel on Katia's site. I can't tell you how sorry I am for your loss. What a beautiful, sweet little baby. I can't imagine but I am still with you and praying.
Love,
Deirdre
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 4:27 PM CDT
I read on another site that your baby has left and gone to Heaven. Please accept my sincere condolences... Love to you, Laura
www.carignbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 4:00 PM CDT
Sweet friends...there are no words to be said. I am so deeply saddened to know that Jalen has left this world. I trust that he is in a better place. I can do this because my Robert is there. Robert I am certain welcomed him with open and strong arms as a big brother would, that was his specialty. I also know that Jalen, like Robert and Seth and so many others, is "finally free." Peace I pray will find a place in your broken hearts somehow, some way...Love, Kathy
Kathy Charlton <www.caringbridge.org/fl/robertmitchel>
West Palm Beach , FL - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 3:57 PM CDT
Dearest Jeanette & Dale,
I just wanted to come by to leave you a note and let you know that I'm so sad to hear of Jalen's passing ~ There are just no words to comfort you right now and I know that. I just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers ~
~Hugs~
Jean Ilderton
Quilts of Love
Jean - Quilts of Love <jean@quiltsoflove.com>
Tucson, AZ - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 3:46 PM CDT
God be with you Jeanette and Dale and the rest of your family. I am horrified by your loss. I have visited your site daily and prayed for Jalen on so many occasions. My heart is broken and I have never met your little precious baby. I can not imagine what you are going through. Please know that people you have never met think about you everyday and are praying for you desparately.
Laura
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 3:21 PM CDT
Jeanette and Dale Im very sorry for your loss.May God get you through this...Little Jalen will be soaring with the Angels in Heaven.And remaining in our hearts and memories forever.
Tammy <angelwithtats29@aol.com>
Fruitland park, fl usa - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 3:19 PM CDT
I was so sorry to hear of your loss..The one comfort being that precious little Jalen is in the arms of Jesus..May the Lord see you through this tragedy and bring you through until the blessed day that you are reunited with him..Carolyn {Quilts of Love}
Carolyn <carolynj52@ilovejesus.net>
Oklahoma United States - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 3:07 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you all durring this dificult time. Jalen is with the Angels now, I hope this can give even a little comfort. God Bless you all.
Billie (Friend of Natalee and Zac) <cranesnester@aol.com>
West Palm Beach , Fl USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 2:02 PM CDT
Jeanette and Dale, I just had these poems that I have seen on other sites in their times of lost and I thought I should leave them here for you.
I'LL LEND YOU THIS CHILD
I'll lend you for a little time a child of Mine, He said, for you to love the while he lives and mourn
for when he dies. It may be six or seven years or twenty-two or three but will you, till I call him
back, take care of him for Me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you and should his stay be brief, You'll have his lovely
memories as solace for your grief. I cannot promise he will stay since all from earth return, but
there are lessons taught down here, I want this child to learn. I've looked this wide world over in
search of teachers true and from the throngs that crowd life's lane I have decided you. Now will
you give him all your love nor think the labor vain and hate Me when I come to call to take him
back again?
I fancy that I heard them say Dear Lord, Thy will be done.
For all the joy this child will bring the risk of grief we'll run, We'll shelter him with tenderness we'll
love him while we may and for the happiness we've known forever grateful stay. And should the
angels call for him much sooner than we planned we'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to
understand.
GOD'S GARDEN
God looked around His garden
and found an empty place.
He then looked down upon the earth
And saw your tired face.
He put His arms around you
and lifted you to rest.
Gods' garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best.
He knew you were suffering,
He knew you were in pain,
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again.
He saw the road was getting rough
and the hills were hard to climb
So He closed your weary eyelids,
and whispered "Peace Be Thine."
It broke our heart to lose you,
But you didn't go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
We love you and we miss you.
MY MOM IS A SURVIVOR
My Mom is a survivor, or so I've heard it said.
But I hear her crying at night when all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night and go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her to help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach that never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mom, who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...a smile of disguise.
But through Heaven's door I see tears flowing from her eyes.
My mom tries to cope with death to keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows it is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mom...through Heaven's open door.
I try to tell her that angels protect me forever more.
But I know that doesn't help her or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...no matter what she feels.
My surviving mom has a broken heart that time won't ever heal~!
I HEAR EACH TEAR FALL ON HER FACE
My Mom doesn't know I'm watching her
but I'm watching her just the same.
And I hear each tear fall on her face
at the very mention of my name.
She says it sounds like music to her ears
and can be heard over a crowd.
Oh, I hear each tear fall on her face
when my name is said aloud.
I watch her stumble through each day
as she wishes the day would end.
And I hear each tear fall on her face
as she talks of me to her friends.
But there are few who truly understand.
Oh this I've heard her proclaim.
And I hear each tear fall on her face.
Will my Mom ever be the same?
I know that her smiles light up a sky.
But I don't see that smile today.
Oh, but I hear each tear fall on her face.
Her blue skies have turned to gray.
Oh I send to her my warmest hug
with the rays of the morning sun.
Then, I won't hear a tear fall on her face.
For I shall erase them one by one.
Yes, my Mom doesn't know I'm watching her.
But I'm watching her just the same.
And if I hear a tear fall on her face
I'll just softly whisper her name!
IT'S THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS
Often in times of trouble
we don't know what to say,
So we choose to say nothing,
and sometimes run away.
When friends are really hurting,
we don't know what to do,
So we offer weak excuses
or say we're hurting too.
It really doesn't matter
what kind of gift we bring;
We only need to be there
if we don't bring a thing.
It truly is amazing
what a hug can do,
When heartache numbs the senses,
and friends depend on you.
There's comfort just in knowing
that you are not alone,
When tears are overflowing,
and hearts are cold as stone.
It's the loving prayers of others
that balance our accounts,
For when we measure love,
it's still the thought that counts.
By~ Clay Harrison
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 1:55 PM CDT
We are horribly sorry for Jalen's passing...we pray that God will comfort you and your family.
Natalee & Zac
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 1:44 PM CDT
To Jalen's family
Words cannot express the pain I felt when I read that Jalen was called Home. He was so beautiful and young and pure and now he will forever stay that way. In scripture it talks about God taking the pure ones away from this cruel world to be with Him. Jalen now has a new healthy body. I'm sure he is hopping around from cloud to cloud just having a blast. Im also sure that he is looking down on all of you. You two were the BEST parents. I know it and I know Jalen knows it too. You did very well for him. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
~JALEN~
How's it going buddy? I bet that you are having the best time ever up in Heaven! You now no longer will be in pain, no more hospitals, only good days for eternity! Be sure to look in on your parents and maybe visit them in their dreams...you see, you can still see them but they cant see you. They want to feel your touch and love, and that's the great thing about angels...we dont have to see them to know that they are there...we can feel your love and your spirit will never die...Until We Meet Again, much love baby!<3
Leah Wilson
NC - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 1:31 PM CDT
Dear Jalen's family ,
I just got your site while visiting Katia's Page .
I am so sorry for your loss . I know how very hard it is to go on , I too lost my little girl . Her name was Alina , she was diagnosed with Leukemia ( AML - M7 ) . My heart goes out to you for your heartbreaking loss
May God bring you comfort and peace . My prayers are with you .
Hong . ( Alina's Mom )
http://www.caringbridge.org/de/alinaspage
Hong (Alina's Mom) <lochongnguyenvo@yahoo.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 1:16 PM CDT
I am saying a prayer that God gives you the strength you need to go on until that wonderful day when you and your precious little one can be together again.
Teresa from Quilts of Love
Mi USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 1:07 PM CDT
So sorry to hear about your sweet baby Jalen. My thougths and prayers are with you at this impossibly difficult time.
Hold tight to your memories and know that Jalen is now with the angels, fully healed and feeling no pain.
God Bless.
Kody's Special Friend from NY
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 1:02 PM CDT
Dale and Jeanette,
I can't believe that any of this is happening, Jalen always looked so healthy and happy. Not a day goes by that I do not think of him, and I don't think a day ever will go by that he won't be in my thoughts. Last night I went into the garage and got his stuff, I couldn't help but smell his blanket, it smells like him soooooo much. I really can not believe that something like this could happen. I feel like, like if I go to your house he will be waiting there to throw his arms in the air and call me titi. I love you guys so much and I am always hear for you. Jalen will always be our little angel watching over us. I love you.
Gesenia (Titi Jesy)
Gesenia Smith <Babymarie714@aol.com>
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 12:49 AM CDT
Jeanette, I just had to come by today to let you know I am thinking about you. I sat and wrote you a letter about 1:00AM cause I just couldn't sleep. I feel so bad for what you must be feeling cause I feel just horrible!! I keep asking myself, WHY! Why does this HAVE to happen. I mean there is a normal "circle of life" I thought and these times just don't make any sense to me. It is raining here and it is raining in my heart. I keep looking outside and just seeing how beautiful things are, the grass, the trees, the sky and think how beautiful children just add to that beauty. This is all God's creations and I just don't understand why a child has to be taken from such loving parents! I told Katia last night that Jalen went to be with God in Heaven and she said, "God is happy" and then she just smiled like she knows more than I do. I don't know what God allows them to know in their little brains. Maybe they do have a closeness with God that we outgrow as we learn more and think we know more. Maybe they do see how precious life is and we begin to take it for granted. She is just so innocent in life and so was Jalen. I am babbling on and I am sorry, I just don't understand why this had to happen! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia (Missing you Jalen) <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 12:47 AM CDT
May the angels embrace you in this difficult time and irradiate the superior LOVE coming from Heaven, where your precious baby is right now completely healed. Try to focus on the wonderful moments you had with him to avoid depression. You are the best, an great example for us mothers. Kisses from Brasil.
Rose
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 12:39 AM CDT
I am heartbroken for your huge loss of such a precious baby, I wish I could say something to make it better but I know that nothing can make it better, I am so very very sorry.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 12:23 AM CDT
I was so saddened to hear of Jalen's death. I had been checking and praying for him everyday. "Flow on River of Time. Wash away my pain and heal my mind..." May the River of Time bring you peace. You are a great and loving mom, and Jalen's was so blessed to have you!
Kellie Beresh <www.caringbridge.org/ne/jakieboy>
Omaha, NE USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 11:36 AM CDT
hi im kodys sister sorry about jalen i prayed 4 him everyday
kaysha
kaysha <sk8ertrash4ever@yahoo.com>
leesburg, fl usa - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 10:00 AM CDT
I am very sorry for your loss of Jalen. May God comfort you during this time.
My continued prayers are with you.
Jennifer Miles <jennifer.miles@thomson.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:59 AM CDT
hi im kodys sister kaysha,im so sorry to hear about jalen, prayed ,i 4 him everyday
~kaysha~
kaysha <sk8ertrash4ever@yahoo.com>
leesburg, fl Usa - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:58 AM CDT
To Jalen's Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Jalen. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
A friend of the Dunnigan Family
Tarpon Springs, FL USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:30 AM CDT
I can't imagine your pain. My prayers are with each of you. God bless.
Christi Hamilton <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
Dove Canyon, CA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:09 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale...
It is through tears that I am writing this. I am at a loss for words. Just please know that my never-ending prayers will be with you always.
Sweet Dreams Little Angel...Jalen, you will forever be truly missed and we will carry your wonderful & cute memories with us forever.
With love,
Kim
~KODYS STORY~
- Wednesday, June 4, 2003 9:07 AM CDT
Even though we don't know each other my heart is aching for you guys. There is not enough words that can express how the both of you guys feel. Just remember that Jalen is in a better place and is pain free. I will keep y'all in my prayers.
jenifer watkins <jenifer.watkins@amsouth.com>
calera, al united states - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:56 AM CDT
Jeanette & Dale:
I am so very sorry to hear about the passing of little Jalen. Even though I don't know you personally, I have been following Jalen and your family through the caringbridge site and it breaks my heart that Jalen is no longer here. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through right now. Just know that Jalen is no longer in any more pain.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families during this very difficult time in your life.
Carrie <carriejd03@yahoo.com>
New Brighton, MN - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:29 AM CDT
Jeanette & Dale,
I am so sorry to hear that Jalen lost his fight. I want to extend my condolences to you and your family. Your family are in my prayers. God Bless.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 8:21 AM CDT
I am so very sorry!!! My heart and prayers go out to your family.
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 7:57 AM CDT
As I read the guestbook I am moved beyond words. I am very sorry for Jalen's passing, but trust that he will be safe and secure in God's arms.
Tracy Solomon had a lovely story of the dragonflies. Thanks for sharing it.
GOD BLESS JALEN'S FAMILY & FRIENDS.
Sincerely,
Shiela
~NY~ USA - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 7:02 AM CDT
Oh God, I am so sorry! I did not know until I came on here to say hello to you. There is nothing that I can say to take away the pain...my baby has been in heaven for 11 months and I feel like a zombie still. I always will. All I can say is take each day, second by second. No one can tell you how to feel, because this is one part of your life that noone can take your pain away. The only thing that will get you through this is knowing in your heart that you were a fantastic mother...God chose you for a reason...and you made Jalens life wonderful while he was with us. I am so sorry. Fly high Tyler and Jalen...Godspeed.
Vicki <tj4ever@frontiernet.net>
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 6:27 AM CDT
I'm so sorry to hear of Jalen's passing. My sincere condolences to Jalen's Family. Praying for strenth for you to get through the difficult days ahead. Jalen...you will never be forgotten little one!
Kathy Mayo <kmayo42@aol.com>
Whitehall, OH - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 5:23 AM CDT
Dearest Jeanette & Dale,
I am SO extremely sorry for your loss of sweet, precious, forever young Jalen...I am just so extremely heartbroken to hear that he has earned his angel wings...but as much heartache that I feel, I also feel just as much comfort knowing that he is now in peace, forever safe in God's loving arms. Jalen was the most beautiful baby...he will always have a special place in my heart...I loved checking on him all the time and just loved hearing all the cute lil things he would do. He truly was a miracle in so many ways! Always know that you will see Jalen once again in Heaven...and when that day comes, it will be FOREVER and you will NEVER be apart. You were the best mommy and daddy to him and I'm SO sure that he knew that. He had so much love around him...and you guys were the best parents! I will continue to keep your whole family in my prayers... I pray that God will give you the strength and courage to go through this most difficult time...be there for each other and keep the memories of Jalen alive and close to your heart! He is ALWAYS watching over you...
May God bless you always..
Jalen, sweetie...fly high and free little one...we MISS YOU!!!!!!
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
All my love & prayers,
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 0:45 AM CDT
I am so very sorry for your loss of beautiful Jalen. I hope you find comfort in the outpouring of love and support that we all have for you.
Again, my sincerest heartfelt sympathy.
Debbie Little - www.caringbridge.org/tn/littlecaleb <littlecaleb@hotmail.com>
Dickson, TN - Wednesday, June 4, 2003 0:34 AM CDT
Your sweet little Jalen left this world far too soon. God blessed him with amazing parents who surrounded him with joy and love. May his precious spirit live on through you.
Bob &Sandra Maimbourg (Alex's grandparents) <smaimbourg@sbcglobal.net>
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 11:07 PM CDT
I am so sorry to hear that your precious Jalen earned his wings and made his journey to heaven where he will now be watching over his family. I know that there is nothing I can say that will help the hurt, but please know, you are in my prayers.
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 11:02 PM CDT
I am soooooooo very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sandy www.themiraclekids.com
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 10:55 PM CDT
I am so saddened to hear of Jalen's passing. He was a beautiful little boy and I know your hearts are broken now. May God grant you peace, comfort and strength to get through this very difficult time.
In Him,
Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 10:13 PM CDT
So sorry to hear of Jalen's passing. You will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
www.caringbridge.org/ky/ryans.hope
Michele, Ryan's mom <finckfam@fuse.net>
Hebron, ky USA! - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:49 PM CDT
I am sooooo sorry about the loss of your precious little boy. He is now truly an angel in heaven as he was here on earth. May God cradle you two (parents) in his arms and comfort you through this terrible time for you, as you know He is cradling your precious little Jalen in his arms now. May God also bless you with the peace and strength you need to get through now and the days that follow and know that YOUR Precious Jalen is still with you, if not in body, definetly in spirit and know that even his love is still yours, throughout eternity.
samantha <peace4all@catholic.org>
nc - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:44 PM CDT
Our thoughts and prayers are with you ~Always.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:38 PM CDT
I am sooo sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful little baby boy. I have experienced quite a bit of loss in my lifetime. I know from experience that there is NOTHING I can do to make you feel better, nor one word that I can say that will make you feel better either. Just know that I do realize that this just basically sucks on every level at its highest height.
I don't know if you remember me. I was an agency nurse that helped take care of Jalen one day back in November I believe. My name is Bridget. At that time they thought he had leukemia but wasn't sure what was going on.
I have just found your website in the past couple of months. I have been reading your journals. I have been praying for you and your entire family. I will continue to do so. Now Jalen is at peace and no longer in pain. I know that part of it you are thankful for. But the largest part of you is hurting more than you thought you could imagine. Please know that I will continue to pray for your peace. It is so hard to find after this, but it will in some way come in its own way. For this I will pray. Cling to eachother now. Love eachother through it. God Bless you, Bridget
Bridget Counterman <bcpdrn2001@aol.com>
Wellington, FL USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:30 PM CDT
I am sooo sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful little baby boy. I have experienced quite a bit of loss in my lifetime. I know from experience that there is NOTHING I can do to make you feel better, nor one word that I can say that will make you feel better either. Just know that I do realize that this just basically sucks on every level at its highest height.
I don't know if you remember me. I was an agency nurse that helped take care of Jalen one day back in November I believe. My name is Bridget. At that time they thought he had leukemia but wasn't sure what was going on.
I have just found your website in the past couple of months. I have been reading your journals. I have been praying for you and your entire family. I will continue to do so. Now Jalen is at peace and no longer in pain. I know that part of it you are thankful for. But the largest part of you is hurting more than you thought you could imagine. Please know that I will continue to pray for your peace. It is so hard to find after this, but it will in some way come in its own way. For this I will pray. Cling to eachother now. Love eachother through it. God Bless you, Bridget
Bridget Counterman <bcpdrn2001@aol.com>
Wellington, FL USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:30 PM CDT
I am so very sorry........What can I say....Your sweet angel has become such a part of our life through caringbridge... May God hold you in His loving arms....
Many prayers and lots of hugs!
Lynn
www.caringbridge.com/pa/jessiespage, PA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:21 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette and Dale,
We are so sorry and saddened to hear Jalen has lost the battle and passed on to the Heavens. Words could never ever ease the pain in your hearts and soul right now. We pray that God will bring peace and guidance to you as the coming days will be so difficult to handle.
Sending our prayers and love to the entire family.
The Rommel's <datz-phat@mail.com>
Jupiter, Fl USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:02 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette--I just visited Tracy's site and read her update on Jalen. I cannot begin to express my sorrow. I know that nothing I can say will ease your pain. I hope in some small way it helps to know that others care and that you are in our thoughts and prayers. I will pray for God to give you the strength you need during this terribly difficult time. It is so unfair--this horrible disease!! I pray daily for a cure. Jalen has earned his angel wings and is with you always. God Bless all the children. May you find comfort in your faith.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 8:58 PM CDT
I'm so sorry to hear about Jalen. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Linda
Shelby Twp., MI - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 8:09 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I just read Tracy's entry. I am so sorry that Jalen lost his battle. He was so brave and coureageous. I am at a loss for words, but may it comfort you knowing that sweet Jalen has touched so many hearts and he is in heaven cancer/pain free. You will one day be with your sweet baby and he will live in your hearts forever. May God get you through these difficult days.
Love,
Diane <thevezz@aol.com>
SF, CA USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 8:06 PM CDT
Dearest Jalen, From Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Katia Solomon
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 7:50 PM CDT
I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet baby, and I realize that no words will lessen the pain you're feeling right now. Just know that Jalen will always be with you.
I'll keep you in my heart & prayers.
Pat <patricia.manning@attbi.com>
antioch, ca usa - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 7:49 PM CDT
Jeanette and Dale, I am so very sorry for the loss of dear Jalen. That just breaks our hearts! I just can't believe he isn't there with you. I sit here literally in tears trying to figure out why this horrible disease has to keep taking these precious children. I found this story somewhere and now I am not really sure where but I thought maybe I would share it here. I love you guys and if there is anything you need, never hesitate to ask. I don't want to lose touch with you, you mean so much to me! Love, Tracy and Little Katia:)
THE DRAGON FLY STORY
The Dragonfly Story
Down below the surface of a quiet pond lived a little colony of water bugs. They were a happy colony, living far away from the sun. For many months they were very busy, scurrying over the soft mud on the bottom of the pond. They did notice that every once in awhile one of their colony seemed to lose interest in going about. Clinging to the stem of a pond lily it gradually moved out of sight and was seen no more.
"Look!" said one of the water bugs to another. "one of our colony is climbing up the lily stalk. Where do you think she is going?" Up, up, up it slowly went....Even as they watched, the water bug disappeared from sight. Its friends waited and waited but it didn't return...
"That's funny!" said one water bug to another. "Wasn't she happy here?" asked a second... "Where do you suppose she went?" wondered a third.
No one had an answer. They were greatly puzzled. Finally one of the water bugs, a leader in the colony, gathered its friends together. "I have an idea". "The next one of us who climbs up the lily stalk must promise to come back and tell us where he or she went and why."
"We promise", they said solemnly.
One spring day, not long after, the very water bug who had suggested the plan found himself climbing up the lily stalk. Up, up, up, he went. Before he knew what was happening, he had broke through the surface of the water and fallen onto the broad, green lily pad above.
When he awoke, he looked about with surprise. He couldn't believe what he saw. A startling change had come to his old body. His movement revealed four silver wings and a long tail. Even as he struggled, he felt an impulse to move his wings...The warmth of the sun soon dried the moisture from the new body. He moved his wings again and suddenly found himself up above the water. He had become a dragonfly!!
Swooping and dipping in great curves, he flew through the air. He felt exhilarated in the new atmosphere. By and by the new dragonfly lighted happily on a lily pad to rest. Then it was that he chanced to look below to the bottom of the pond. Why, he was right above his old friends, the water bugs! There they were scurrying around, just as he had been doing some time before.
The dragonfly remembered the promise: "the next one of us who climbs up the lily stalk will come back and tell where he or she went and why." Without thinking, the dragonfly darted down. Suddenly he hit the surface of the water and bounced away. Now that he was a dragonfly, he could no longer go into the water...
"I can't return!" he said in dismay. "At least, I tried. But I can't keep my promise. Even if I could go back, not one of the water bugs would know me in my new body. I guess I'll just have to wait until they become dragonflies too. Then they'll understand what has happened to me, and where I went."
And the dragonfly winged off happily into its wonderful new world of sun and air.......
Thank you God, for the story of the water bugs and the dragonflies.
We will miss you dear Jalen. Fly Free Little One.
Visit Katia's Page and sign her
guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 7:17 PM CDT
Just checking on you guys and praying that no news is good news, that you are busy around there:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her
guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 4:59 PM CDT
Hey Little Pooh...
Just checking on you and hoping to hear a really good update soon.
You are always our mind and always in our prayers.
Love,
Kim and Kody
~KODYS STORY~
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 2:28 PM CDT
Dale, Jeanette and Precious Jalen
The road has been rough. In this journey that God has embarked you guys on, we want you all to cherish the victories, triumphs and smiles no matter how small or infrequent they occur. When there is a bump on the road, you will find strenght through your belief in God, and those little things that you cherish would energize your spirits for the battle ahead. Every experience in your lives is a blessing from God. Your life has been touched in a wonderful way by this blessing that God has allowed you to care for. No matter what the decision is, you will be blessed because our maker is in charge. Look to the heavens because God is your strenght. Let the joys you have shared be your contentment. Our prayers have been with you allways. Dale, your mom and Jalen's web site has keep us abrest of his progress. (Psalm 91 1-2 :"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the almighty. I will say to the Lord, he is my refuge and my fortress") (Psalm 16, 1:"Preserve me o God, for in you I put my trust.") We recongnize and commend your focus as young parents in this most difficult times. May God in his mercy continue to touch, enrich, guide, keep, bless, heal and watch over all of us especially Jalen. God is the Alpha and Omega.
Leona & Tommy Onovbiona (Family) <tommyus@hotmail.com>
Margate, FL USA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 11:25 AM CDT
I have absolutely no idea how difficult it is to face what you are facing at the present time. I do know that the Lord is with you and will continue to be. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and will remain there.
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 10:56 AM CDT
Dear Jalen,
I am praying for you, especially that you are able to breathe easier today. Prayers are being lifted up for mom and dad too!
Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:26 AM CDT
Good morning! I just wanted to drop by and say hello and let you know you all being thought of over here:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 9:06 AM CDT
Dear Jalen, I am praying for you and your family. I visit several caringbridge sites and found yours on Katia's. So many children afflicted with horrible diseases. But each child is touching so many people. Its amazing how that works. I pray that God keeps you safe and makes you feel better. What a sweet baby you are! The pictures are precious. I will visit your site often. Hugs and prayers to everyone.
Doreen Steil
Cedar Falls, IA - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 8:57 AM CDT
Hey Jalen,
How is my lil cookie doing??? I pray that you are slowly getting better and breathing better...keep fighting, sweetie!! DON'T GIVE UP!!! We are all cheering for you..
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Prayers forever,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 2:45 AM CDT
Hi Jalen,
You are adorable...Got you site from Goochs page...Praying for you!
gina geddings, mommy of angel Morgan <mimor2@comcast.net ~~~ www.caringbridge.com/sc/morganspage>
- Tuesday, June 3, 2003 0:51 AM CDT
Praying so hard for you Jalen, sweetie:) I hope your breathing gets easier and easier honey. I hope you are having lots of hugs and kisses from Mommy, Daddy and all your family...they love you so much! You are a special baby boy, and everyone is pulling for you honey. Big hugs ((((hugs to Jalen)))))
Tracey, Steve, Quinn and Callum xoxo
Calgary,Ab, Canada, - Tuesday, June 3, 2003 0:05 AM CDT
Sweet little Jalen is in my prayers. I check the website every day! I wish there was something I could do. It is so hard to watch your baby suffer. I'm praying for the miracle he deserves.
Love, Jill and Connor
Connor's Website
Jill C. <jilly7896@aol.com>
Cinnaminson, NJ - Monday, June 2, 2003 11:17 PM CDT
I just wanted to check on you before I go to bed and tell you I pray you have a good night and your breathing is better. Jeanette and Dale, I am praying for that sweet baby and I am praying for you too. I know how much it hurts to see your baby hurting and not be able to step in and make it all better. I pray he will recover and be a real miracle from God! I love you guys. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Monday, June 2, 2003 9:56 PM CDT
Jalen darling,
I am back home after being away for 5 days and I really, really missed your Mommy's great journals about you. My prayer is that your little heart and lungs are better today and that you are breathing easier. That must be very, very scary for you and I know your Mommy and Daddy are so worried about you, honey.
Father God, help Jalen to breathe easier and to be slowly healing on the inside so it can show through on the outside of his precious little body, too. Put Your loving hands upon Him and give him peace, no pain, healing, love, joy, and rest. Everyone loves him so much, dear Lord, and he hasn't had a chance yet to be a "normal" little guy. He needs to be able to run, jump, play, love, and live life to the fullest for his tender age. Thank You God for the days and months his family and friends have had with him and may there be many more, except disease free! We ask this in Your Holy Name. Amen
As we grow we know that people will never forget what you said, Jalen. People will never forget what you did. (You are so cute and loveable). And people will never forget how you made them feel. You make me feel so lucky to have met you through caringbridge site and happy to have met your Mommy and Daddy, too.
God Bless You, sweetheart. We will pray for you at Prayer Connection in the morning because I am the leader!!
It is hard, but be patient. God's plan will happen in God's time. Habakkuk 2:3 "For the revelation awaits an appointed time."
I will check in on you tomorrow, sweet baby.
Love in Christ,
Jerrri and Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, June 2, 2003 9:37 PM CDT
So happy to hear that the carwash went SO well!!! :) I, on the other hand, am not SO happy to hear of the problems with Hospice!!! HHHHMPH! Like you do not have enough on your plate right now!! I am sorry for the HUGE MISTAKES!!! Maybe going to a superior would be helpful, or having someone close to you do it for you... ANYWAY, I sure hope Jalen levels out on his breathing for you real soon. He is so HANDSOME!!! I just can not get over his big eyes, and great smile!!!!!! I hope you get to the bottom of your problems soon! TAKE CARE AND REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, June 2, 2003 9:14 PM CDT
Hey Jalen! I'm glad the carwash went well. Sorry you got sunburnt Jalen's mommy. But it WAS worth it. I'm sorry that the nurse schedule didn't work out. Them people are supposed to be doing their job. I hope everything gets better with the breathing problems and everything else. Keeping you in my prayers. Smile alwayz:)
Lindsey <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole - Visit and sign the guestbook:)>
Ridgeway, Va USA - Monday, June 2, 2003 5:30 PM CDT
I found Jalen's site on Katia's site and I just wanted to say that we are praying for him and checking on him often.
Hes such a cute little boy.
Melissa Jackies Mom
and family
www.caringbridge.org/fl/jackie
Melissa,Jackie and Family <Cart30@cox.net>
Cantonment, Fl USA - Monday, June 2, 2003 4:35 PM CDT
Praying your little sweetie takes a turn for the better
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Monday, June 2, 2003 4:17 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you Guys know I'm checking on Jalen and praying for you daily .
Love . ( Alina's Mom )
I found Jalen's site while visiting Katia's Page .
http://www.caringbridge.org/de/alinaspage
Hong . <hvtv70@yahoo.com>
Cherry Hill, NJ - 08002 USA - Monday, June 2, 2003 1:23 PM CDT
You and your family are always in our prayers. We ask God to hold your hands and comfort your souls. I'm glad the car wash went so well......
Love and prayers, Natalee & Zac
- Monday, June 2, 2003 12:09 AM CDT
I pray Jalen's breathing slowed down and all of you got some rest:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Monday, June 2, 2003 9:20 AM CDT
Our prayers are with you all. That you might get some much deserved rest and that Jalens breathing would be easier so he might be able to rest more comfortably. May God grant you peace.
Denise Roberts (Caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <dndtwins1@usadatanet.net>
Bridgeport, NY USA - Monday, June 2, 2003 8:36 AM CDT
Prayers.
Kristen Leigh
Saint Louis, MO - Monday, June 2, 2003 8:28 AM CDT
Jalen you sweet lil baby,
I'm PRAYING for you!!!!! ALWAYS! Keep fighting, lil fella.. God please wrap your loving, caring and healing arms around precious Jalen...he deserves to be completely healed so he can be normal, healthy and happy with his mommy and daddy who love him so! Please take care of Jalen.. Jeanette & Dale, you guys hang in there!!! Glad the car wash went well! Wish I could've been there because I sooooo wanted to help out Jalen and my car NEEDS a good wash too!!!
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Love & hugs,
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, June 2, 2003 8:18 AM CDT
Jalen,
I am praying that you get better soon. You are in my prayers daily. God Bless.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, June 2, 2003 6:24 AM CDT
Thank you for a clean car!! I got my hair done that morning right down the road and told everybody in the shop about the car wash. I hope some were able to stop by- they said they were going to spread the word too!
Sending many prayers your way!
Stacy
WPB, FL - Monday, June 2, 2003 6:02 AM CDT
I wish that I could send the Hospice team that Tyler had down to you...they were so wonderful. They made me feel about as safe as I was ever going to feel again...you do not need the added stress right now. Call the Hospice office and share your complaints with them...they would most likely appreciate it.
Jalen is in Gods hands, as are you. I know it is hard to understand why God would make our children go through this..I will never understand that. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
vicki
Lowville, NY - Monday, June 2, 2003 5:50 AM CDT
Hey baby Jalen:)
Hi sweetie, can you feel us all lifting you in prayer, darling? I hope the oxygen is helping you and giving you some relief. I am sure Mommy is holding you close in her arms and you can feel her love surrounding you, all over. I hope you can feel all our love and prayers too. Hang in there honey, I know it must be very scarey. Let's keep PUSHing and praying so hard for the Protocel to do it's job, we are praying for your miracle sweetheart. We love you!!
Tracey, Steve, Quinn and Callyxoxox
Calgary, Ab, Canada, - Monday, June 2, 2003 1:18 AM CDT
Our prayers are with you, fear is normal, but I hope you will be able to feel, our prayers for you and your family. Peace and Prayers to you all! 4/J's
julie (jeffery's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <JulieSample1@aol.com>
jax, fl usa - Monday, June 2, 2003 0:11 AM CDT
I'm so sorry that you are having such a hard time with Hospice. You don't need to be dealing with this on top of everything else but try to stay focused and don't let that anger get the better of you!! You and Jalen are in my thoughts and prayers. Give him a great big hug and a kiss from me!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Sunday, June 1, 2003 9:42 PM CDT
Hello. Just thinking of Jalen and his family. I hope and pray that his breathing gets easier.
~~~~ Luv & Prayers ~~~~
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Sunday, June 1, 2003 8:49 PM CDT
Just stopped by to see how you were doing,so sorry you had such a bad morning with the hospice people,so glad that the carwash went well,I am sending up loads and loads of prayers for Jalen.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Sunday, June 1, 2003 6:39 PM CDT
Who set you up with the Hospice people? Surely that person could intervene for you, with regards to the total incompetence and insensitivity being displayed by those supposed professionals. You should not have to deal with that, on top of everything else.
I'm still praying for you, beautiful Jalen, as are so many other people. Your Mommy and Daddy love you so much, and just want what is best for their special baby boy. They will be there for you, no matter what comes. I hope your breathing gets easier for you, and that you find some comfort soon.
Prayers and hugs,
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Sunday, June 1, 2003 6:30 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette, Dale and cute little Jalen. I miss seeing you guys at Quantum House. Please know that I miss you and think of you all every day. You remain in my thoughts & prayers. Love Colette
Colette McKnight - Family Care Coordiantor - Quantum House <cmcknight@quantumhousewpb.org>
WPB, FL USA - Sunday, June 1, 2003 6:26 PM CDT
I am scared for Jalen too and pray every day for him to get better. You need to take care of yourself as well, you are no good all CRISPY! Ha ha. No seriously, take care and God bless.
Love,
Deirdre
- Sunday, June 1, 2003 5:58 PM CDT
Just dropping in to let you know that I pray constantly for you and Jalen. You are a wonderful mother...
Vicki and Tyler from heaven
- Sunday, June 1, 2003 5:49 PM CDT
Hello Jalen, Jeanette and Dale,
I’m so Happy the 
was a success! I’m sorry to hear that Hospice again has failed to deliver the "service"
it is supposed to. You need to put your foot down and DEMAND them to be there promptly, and take care of Jalen like there supposed to. You shouldn’t have to be nice when promises have been made but not fulfilled.
We continue to Hold Jalen in our pasture of prayers and send our love.
Joe, Dolores & Ryon <datz-phat@mail.com>
Jupiter, Fl USA - Sunday, June 1, 2003 5:36 PM CDT
I am praying for you little baby! I am glad the carwash went well but I am sorry the morning went sooo bad! It just really upsets me. Jalen, I pray your breathing will normalize and Jeanette, I pray for you always to have endurance to continue this fight. Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Sunday, June 1, 2003 5:13 PM CDT
Just checking in to let you know I think of you often
Your note mentioned how many lives that Jalen has touched. It is truly remarkable. I feel the same about my own son. He was only on the earth for 13 months but he touched so many and helped others learn to appreciate what they have.
I think it's wonderful that you have taken Jalen home. I feel it's the greatest gift I gave my family and have not regreted it for one moment. I will admit, it was tough but it was also very rewarding
One minute at a time....
Sharon <dubes@mmc.org>
Gray, Me - Sunday, June 1, 2003 4:43 PM CDT
Just came by to say HI and check on you today! I pray all is going okay and you are home and happy:)
Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Sunday, June 1, 2003 1:58 PM CDT
Just wanted to check in and see if there was any update, I'm only assuming that no news is good news.
We continue to think of all of you and keep you all in our prayers. God Bless
Christy Fitzpatrick...Angel Jordyn's Mommy <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS usa - Sunday, June 1, 2003 1:24 PM CDT
Jalen and family,
Praying for you and your family. We will keep you all in our thoughts and God will give you comfort and strength.
kz <caringbridge.org/mt/trevorzuroff>
glendive, mt - Sunday, June 1, 2003 12:46 AM CDT
Hi,
my names Sara, I found you through Kodys page. I just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you & will pray for you all as you try to make it through these hard times. My son Sam was diagnosed with pleuropulmonary Blastoma in october 2000, the doctors didn't think he'd make it, but he pulled through & is now in remission.
Thinking of you, Take care
Sara
Sara joy www.caringbridge.org/sc/samjoy <m.joy@tesco.net>
uk - Sunday, June 1, 2003 10:32 AM CDT
Hi Dale, Jeanette & Jalen!
I hope you guys are having a wonderful weekend with lots of quality time together...Jalen sweetie, are you still DANCING, DANCING, DANCING???? I hope so...I pray that you will get through all of this...you are such a sweet and precious baby!! I'm thinking of all of you..
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Hugs,
XOXOXOOXXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, June 1, 2003 9:52 AM CDT
How are Jalen, Mommy and Daddy all doing? How was the car wash? I hope you're having a wonderful weekend. Thinking about you so much, little Jalen!
Hugs,
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Sunday, June 1, 2003 9:10 AM CDT
We are still checking on Jalen many times a day and praying so hard for his complete healing.
Please God...give Jalen his miracle...
Kim & Kody
~KODYS STORY~
- Saturday, May 31, 2003 10:59 PM CDT
Hello there hun! Love the pics on your site. Just wanted to stop by and wish you all the best... Love, Laura
caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Saturday, May 31, 2003 10:13 PM CDT
Praying for little Jalen.
DeAnna (Chase's mom, dx'ed 9-01 w/ an anaplastic astrocytoma) <www.caringbridge.org/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Saturday, May 31, 2003 9:02 PM CDT
Hey sweet Jalen! I am glad something went well. You know what? I have about 5 other Caringbridge friends and I haven't wrote them any since Tuesday like I have you and they only have about 7 people that has wrote them since and you have like 40 entries! You have many people that care and pray for you daily. You are very special. Keeping you in my prayers. Smile alwayz:)
Lindsey <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, Va USA - Saturday, May 31, 2003 7:45 PM CDT
HIYA JALEN and Family, I just wanted to come check up. I hope the carwash goes very well. I love you and will be back later today to check on you and maybe leave you another little friend:)
Katia says hello...
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Saturday, May 31, 2003 2:33 PM CDT
Hi Jalen
You are so cute.I hope you have a great day take care
Bernadette Derry <bderry@ns.sympatico.ca>
Halifax, N.S. Canada - Saturday, May 31, 2003 10:57 AM CDT
We are praying daily for your sweet boy for complete healing.
all our love
- Saturday, May 31, 2003 1:26 AM CDT
I am thinking of you and praying for your family. Be strong.
Kelly Young <kryoung69@yahoo.com>
Riverside, ca USA - Friday, May 30, 2003 11:27 PM CDT
Praying very hard for your precious Jalen and for his Mommy and Daddy too.
Kathy Mayo <kmayo42@aol.com>
Whitehall, OH - Friday, May 30, 2003 9:28 PM CDT
He is very lucky too to have such a devoted and efficient mother. You are the best and you are doing the best for him in terms of treatment and LOVE. This is the most important medicine you are giving him. May the angels embrace you all.
Special kisses from Brasil.
Rose
- Friday, May 30, 2003 2:24 PM CDT
How I am praying for Jalen and for his mommy and daddy!
Leota (wof board)
- Friday, May 30, 2003 7:12 AM CDT
Still sending my prayers!
Email me about the car wash!
Stacy S <sshephar@sfwmd.gov>
WPB, FL - Friday, May 30, 2003 6:16 AM CDT
Hi Jalen,
I am thinking of you, your mommy and your daddy and will keep all of you in my prayers.
Sending lots of hugs,
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA - Friday, May 30, 2003 2:29 AM CDT
Hi Jalen,
I read about you on my good friend Katia's website. Her mommy and I are close friends since we were practically your age! I know God is watching over you and your Mommy and Daddy. Continue to dance and play like your mommy says you do. I'll keep you in my prayers!
Tracy Johnson <tsj1991@yahoo.com>
Waynesboro, VA USA - Friday, May 30, 2003 0:21 AM CDT
Jalen,
We are keeping you in our prayers, sweetie, always. You are precious and beautiful, a gift from God....we love you baby!
Big huge hugs,
Tracey, Steve, Quinn and Cally xoxox
Calgary, Ab, Canada/hugs and hope club, - Friday, May 30, 2003 0:19 AM CDT
Hi there!
How are ya? Hopefully you are feeling a little better today! Wyatt says he hopes you are having good weather! Stay strong!
Love your buddy, MJ -
http://www.our-sma-angels.com/Margaret/
MJ - www.caringbridge.org/ny/mjpurk <TWEETYROLL88@aol.com>
NY Hugs and Hope, www.hugsandhope.com - Thursday, May 29, 2003 10:35 PM CDT
HIYA it is me, of course! It makes me feel better to type in here. Everyone is asleep in my house and I just wanted to come say hello and wish you a good evening. Jeanette, I hope this evening brings you some MUCH NEEDED relaxation and brings Jalen happy dreams and fun times. Dale, it was nice speaking to you briefly and I know this must all be so hard on you but you are a great daddy and I know Jalen must know that! As far as y'alls family, I am so happy to see they stick so close to you guys. That is so very important because it is all so draining and althought things are so NOT NORMAL it is nice to have something that seems normal going on! Our "norm" was to watch SURVIVOR each week. Katia loves that show and so do I. Katia was diagnosed on a Monday and I tell you, that Thursday, I did not miss Survivor on TV. We had a good 30 people in our hospital room but I had watched that since I was pregnant with her and that is something I wanted to continue. I wanted to show that I was gonna go on and be "normal". I think I have maybe missed 2 episodes of Survivor since it first started. But I have watched it in the ER, during some very rough evenings, and now even while things are good, I try not to miss it:) Keep on keeping on and smiling and living! That is important and believe that God is good and in control. I love you guys! Love, Tracy and Katia (although she is asleep)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Thursday, May 29, 2003 9:55 PM CDT
PRAYING REALLY HARD FOR YOU GUYS - PLEASE WATCH OVER JALEN, AND HELP HIM GET THRU - SENDING LOTS OF LOVE AND PRAYER YOUR WAY
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Thursday, May 29, 2003 9:34 PM CDT
Hi Jalen!
Just leaving a quick note...I'M PRAYING FOR YOU ALWAYS!!! WON'T STOP!! Don't give up, cutie pie...you hang tough!! I know you can do it...please dear God, please wrap your arms around precious Jalen and heal him...kiss his forehead and make those bumps go away forever!!! Keep cute, Jalen..you are such a beautiful baby :)
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Love,
XOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Thursday, May 29, 2003 9:09 PM CDT
My whole famil is praying for your baby, Jalen. You are right about the line clearing being the work of God. He is with you! God Bless you and stay strong. Your baby has touched the lives of so many- he has caused so many to turn to God and pray. You should feel so lucky. Your baby is one of God's chosen.
Love,
A Friend
- Thursday, May 29, 2003 9:04 PM CDT
Hi, I sure hope Jalen has lower temperatures and the breathing gets easier. Please take care of yourself and get some rest, too! You have a real little sweetheart there. We're thinking of you here in Texas!
Cathie Lehocky Texas Chapter Head, Hugs and Hope Club
Houston, TX - Thursday, May 29, 2003 7:59 PM CDT
Keep dancin', beautiful boy!! You have so many prayers and warm wishes from many many people, myself included. Praying for that MIRACLE!!!!!
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Thursday, May 29, 2003 5:17 PM CDT
HI WE GOT YOUR WEBSITE FROM ANOTHER CARING BRIDGE PAGE AND WANTED TO DROP BY!WE WILL CHECK IN ON YOU EVERY NOW AND THEN, WE WILL ALSO SEND PRAYERS YOUR WAY!
BETTY,IKIKA,JOSE,MIKAYLA,BILLY <WWW.CARINGBRIDGE.COM/MT/IKIKA>
kevin, MT - Thursday, May 29, 2003 3:16 PM CDT
We're still praying for you little Jalen -stay strong - keep on dancin'...we'll keep on praying!
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Thursday, May 29, 2003 1:49 PM CDT
Jalen, I pray you are feeling well today and things are going smoothly as can be at your house. I pray for you mommy and daddy to that they can have strength and as always I am praying for a MIRACLE!!! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Thursday, May 29, 2003 11:05 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale,
I can truely say that Jalen is very special. He has changed my life alot. I see things differently. And believe it or not I stop myself before I say No to my kids when they want me to go outside and play . I make myself get up or stop what I am doing and enjoy that time with them.
Thank you Jalen for your blessing!!!!
Feel Better baby!!
XOXOXO
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Thursday, May 29, 2003 10:53 AM CDT
I don't know you or your baby and was brought here by another link. I just want you to know your baby is beautiful and my heart breaks for what you are going through.You do sound like you are an amazing mommy and amazing person. I will keep your beautiful Jalen in my prayers.
Jennifer <jenniferkaymurphy@yahoo.com>
Minneapolis, Mn United States - Thursday, May 29, 2003 10:41 AM CDT
I prayed for you and Jalen this morning. Praying that God will continue to give you His strength.
Nichelle
Mommy to Adrienne (http://www.caringbridge.com/tx/adrienne), Brandice, Tre' and Charis
Nichelle <rejoice_first_lady@yahoo.com>
Cedar Park, TX USA - Thursday, May 29, 2003 8:55 AM CDT
Hi Jalen & Family, we are so glad to hear that the line is working again! We are keeping all of you in our prayers. The Johnson Family (Mike, Martha, Jacob, & Jessica)
Martha Johnson <MJohnsonRN1983@aol.com>
Cullman, AL USA - Thursday, May 29, 2003 8:42 AM CDT
Still praying for you,lets hope these prayers get answered very soon.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Thursday, May 29, 2003 8:42 AM CDT
To the luckiest mommy in the world (Jeanette!) and the most beautiful baby in the world (Jalen!),
YEAH! Thank you God for fixing Jalen's line...still praying for the fevers to stop and for everything to turn out okay.. Jalen you sweet lil thing...you really are so wonderful...dancing and dancing even when you're feeling lousy...gosh you're amazing!! You keep up that amazing spirit of yours, sweetie...PRAYING, PRAYING, PRAYING!!!
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Love always,
XOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Thursday, May 29, 2003 1:09 AM CDT
LOVE YOU JALEN :]from your favorite dancing partner
gloria <gigi112957@yahoo.com>
palm beach gardens, fl pb - Thursday, May 29, 2003 0:16 AM CDT
Hi Jalen
Big hugs are coming your way. Glad your line was back in place. Keep on dancing and we will keep on praying. Wyatt and I send big hugs and kisses your way!!! Love ya!!
MJ - www.caringbridge.org/ny/mjpurk <TWEETYROLL88@aol.com>
- Wednesday, May 28, 2003 11:39 PM CDT
Please know that we are praying for you! I am so sorry that you and Jalen have to go through all this. Trust in the Lord and He will get us through it! We are praying for a miracle....
With much Love in Him,
Yvonne Fernandez, mom to angel Leilani www/caringbridge.org/nc/leilani <yvonnengzs@rjia.net >
Mount Airy, NC 27030 - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 9:25 PM CDT
Hi! Got your page from Gooch.
Just wanted to stop by and let you know that you have our prayers!
Cheryl <cgmyers@swbell.net>
tulsa, ok usa - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 9:12 PM CDT
Sounds like Carla saved the day! I am so grateful that she showed up to help...let her! I know that you will; I am so proud of how you know to stay focused on being the Mommy and not the nurse! Let them do their job; or rather make them do their job! I will be in touch; worked late and such...am working all day tomorrow, call me if you need me...Love Kathy
Kathy Charlton
- Wednesday, May 28, 2003 8:42 PM CDT
Hello Jalen,
Just stoped in to say Hi, I wish I could see you in person, but I have a cold now and you don't need that. I will come see you when I'm better, can't wait to kiss your hand--seems how you won't let me kiss that adorable face of yours.
Jeanette, There is nothing I can say to make you feel better, just know that if you need anything I will do my best to help you--You are an amazing mommy, Jalen was blessed the have you.
OXOXOX
Mary Valley <docotis13@msn.com>
West Palm Beach, Fl USA - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 7:54 PM CDT
I am just checking on you to see what Mommy has written about you! I check here a lot and pray! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Wednesday, May 28, 2003 5:23 PM CDT
You are one lucky mama! Such a privilege these precious children are and how blessed to be Jalen's mom.
Love,
Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Wednesday, May 28, 2003 4:50 PM CDT
hi jlen its savanah and i hope you and your mom are doing well.i miss seeing you at the hospitle.i am at home right now and i have a runey nose.everyone in my family has a cold. i am lucky i dont have one. but i am not lucky that i am geting one.because you know what that means. it means that i will have to go back to the docter then after that i will have to go to the hospitle.i hope that dosent happen to you.well got to go bye.
P.S. keep safe and healthy.
love savanah
savanah <banana1494@hotmail.com>
Boynton Beach, fl - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 4:17 PM CDT
~DANCE SWEET JALEN...DANCE~
Love Kim and Kody
~KODYS STORY~
- Wednesday, May 28, 2003 3:53 PM CDT
Jalen~
You are so beautiful and so strong! May God bless you and your family greatly. Know that you will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Leah Wilson
NC - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 3:31 PM CDT
PRAISE THE LORD FOR THAT WONDERFUL MOVE OF GOD ON YOUR LINE,Sis you just keep up the faith trusting an believeing that God is going to perform a miracle for your child,im beleiveing right alone with you for you miracle,just wanted you to know that someone from Ky is agreeing with you for you childs healing an miracle,the word says that by the stripes of Jesus we are healed,an that is what im believeing for you child,I will check back later to check on him ok,May the blessing of God Almighty abound upon you an your child,God bless you all....
Rev.Huey Jackson <www.caringbridge.com/ky/hueyjackson>
pineville, ky usa - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 3:19 PM CDT
So happy to hear that Jalen's line is working and that he was finally able to get his antibiotics.
You're NEVER far from my heart and always in my prayers.
God Bless and Many prayers
www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome (newsite)
www.caringbridge.org/page/fitzpatrick (old one)
Christy Fitzpatrick...Angel Jordyn's Mommy died from AML <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 3:03 PM CDT
Our God IS awesome. He will not forsake you. He is with you and your precious baby, Jalen, every moment. God is working through both of you and know that he LOVES you both so very much. I am praying for you!
A Friend
- Wednesday, May 28, 2003 2:42 PM CDT
Checking up on you baby Jalen:) I am praying for you ALL DAY! Katia and I went for a walk and talked about you and how strong you are and your parents. I am praying that God will guide the nurses to be able to take good care of you:)
I love you. Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Wednesday, May 28, 2003 12:30 AM CDT
I just wanted you to know that Jalen is never far from my heart or mind.. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers.
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 11:53 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
I am a friend of Mary's who is a friend of Jalen's grandparents. As soon as I heard of Jalen's illness I began to pray and have passed prayer requests onto to my Pastor, Dr. Gary Cecil, at Palms West Prebyterian Church in the Western Communities. I just wanted you to know that another church has Jalen and your family on their prayer chain.
Thinking of you and your family!
Kristine Daglian <krisdags@aol.com>
Loxahatchee, Fl Palm Beach - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 10:17 AM CDT
Jeanette, You are the best Mom! Your worse is Jalen's best care. You can't do wrong. Always have faith in you and your decisions and God will bless you. Jeanette, always except any help people are willing to give you whether it be a meal made for you or charity or just plain listening. Don't ever be afraid to ask for help. People want to help you but they may not know how to ask you or how to help you. Nobody can understand what you are going through because they haven't been there. I am SURE that those around you, your family, nurses and doctors, neighbors, just anyone is just in awe at how you are dealing with this because they can't imagine themselves going through this. I know you must love Jalen as much as I love Katia so this has to just be horrible to go through (and there is not "but" to this). I pray for you to have strength and courage and that you will feel the honor in what you are doing for your precious son. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 9:31 AM CDT
Hi Jalen, Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and still praying for you to get better! You are such a cutie. Have fun duck hunting and feel better soon.
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Wednesday, May 28, 2003 9:26 AM CDT
DEAR JEANETTE,
You must stay strong and not give up or in to this dreadful disease. As long as Jalen has the will to fight, you must honor that will and fight along side him. When the going gets tough, the tough get going. You will know if and when the time has come for God to take him home. Untill then, stay "STRONG LIKE BULL!!!" We will be praying hard for you all and God bless. Sending lots of love and prayer your way.
jack - colby's daddy forever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 10:22 PM CDT
Hello Jalen,
Just got your web sight off of Katia sight an as I was reading your page,an what you have went throught an what is happening,my heart goes out for you,I will start praying tonight an I will remember you throughout the day time also,Jesus is a lot bigger then this disease,he said in his word that by his stripes we are healed,you can find that in both the old testament an the new tastament,an I know by quoteing that scripture over my son when they diagoised him with AML M7 leukemia an only gave him 3 months to live, an im going to believe an say these same scripture for you when I pray,my son is going on 3 years leukemia free an the doctor still cant believe it,it was God all the way with a miracle an im believeing for that same miracle for you too,because Jesus is able to perform miracles,an he will too,I want to just expect something,that heaven is going to open up an pour you out a miracle that your not going to be able to contain,God will surely do it for you I pray,My prayers are with you always an forever,I will check back an be looking for a good report,always in my prayers always.. I'm going to believe for your miracle also Jalen......
Rev.Huey Jackson <www.caringbridge.com/ky/hueyjackson>
Pineville, Ky USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 10:11 PM CDT
Jalen, Jalen, Jalen,
Why are things so difficult for you, honey. You are such a beautiful baby and have parents that love you more than life itself. Father God, give them a miracle of healing. Move his central line back into position so when the CXR is done tomorrow it will be in place. Make it so that it can be flushed, blood can be drawn from it, and platelets and other blood products can be transfused as needed for his little body to get better. Only You Father can heal Jalen and take away the awful hurt in his parents hearts. Thank You for loving us so much and for always being there, even if we don't feel Your presence. Give Jalen and his parents a sign that You are by their side or that You are holding them in Your hands right now.
We ask all of this in Your holy name. Amen
Jerri McKinley and Kaden Mellema <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 9:49 PM CDT
Praying, praying, praying for sweet little Jalen (and his family too!)
Mikie from ALL-KIDS (www.caringbridge.org/tn/emily)
- Tuesday, May 27, 2003 9:29 PM CDT
Hi Jalen and family - love the picture of the three of you together! I keep you all in my prayers daily. I am praying for a miracle. So glad you saw the ducks - we love them too! They are soooo fun to watch. God Bless you
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Tuesday, May 27, 2003 9:25 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I have no doubt that GOD is NOT doing this to you and Jalen. I do not think God gave Jalen cancer, as far as "giving us more than we can handle"...I do not think God wants Jalen to be going through any of this or you.
Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers...that Jalen is so very close to my heart. I'm here and I hope that you know that. When you're angry, need to cry....do it/feel it. Only those who've walked such a simliar path can truly "get it" and sadly I get it....wish I didn't and wish you had NO idea how horrible this all is. The sadness is too great for words. I have no doubt you're using each day to the most and that no matter what Jalen knows he's loved so very much by his Mommy and that she's doing EVERYTHING in HER POWER to help him, love him, and give him the best life possible.
www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome
(I HATE AML)
Christy Fitzpatrick...Angel Jordyn's Mommy <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
KS USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 9:18 PM CDT
Keep praying and believe that God always has a plan and never gives us more than we can handle. You have a beautiful child and I love the picture of the three of you together, you make a wonderful family! Jalen and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I will be saying a special prayer for Jalen tomorrow at church. Its ok to break down and cry sometimes I personally think it really helps relieve some stress and tension sometimes. God bless you and give you strength!
Kathleen <imprints2003@aol.com>
PA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 9:00 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette - Keep the faith !! Jalen's doctors and nurses have the skill and I know you have the drive to see him through this. He's a powerful little man and you are one determined mother. Stay focused and let God lead the way for you both!! I am continuing to pray for a miracle for Jalen and you.
Dawn M
Wake Forest , NC - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 8:18 PM CDT
I am so sorry things are going so blah right now. I do however believe in miracles and you certanily deserve one. I must say I am rather low myself today. Taylor's bone marrow test was not clear after transplant. Not the knews we wanted to hear! I am praying for you all. Keep your chin up.
Love,
Kim, Jim, and Taylor
Kim Watts www.taylorwatts.org <jimandkimwatts@yahoo.com>
McCalla, Al - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:56 PM CDT
I hope that you can find all the answers you are in need of soon Jeanette!! You all DESERVE a BREAK from all of this added stress! Take comfort in knowing that so many people love you all!! TAKE CARE AND REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:40 PM CDT
HIYA! It is me and I am just checking on you guys to see how things are going. I want to call you but I don't have a home number... Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:38 PM CDT
I am just checking on you guys for any updates:) I love you and I found a new little friend to leave. Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Tuesday, May 27, 2003 5:48 PM CDT
Jalen's mom,
I know this is probaly hard for you, I am keeping you in my prayers. For this to get better, you just got to have strong faith in Jesus and a miracle WILL happen. Don't give up! God is watching over your child and is with him every step of trouble or pain. I have a feeling inside of me that is telling me that Jalen is going to be okay. Just pray and have faith! God knows. I will continue to keep your baby, Jalen, and you in my prayers. Smile alwayz:)
Lindsey <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, Va USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 5:47 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I have been checking on Jalen every day to see how he is doing. I don't know you, yet my heart breaks for you. I have a little daughter myself and can not began to imagine what you must be going through. You are a very strong woman and Jalen is just adorable. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that he gets better and enjoy every moment of every day with your precious son.
Carrie <carriejd03@yahoo.com>
New Brighton, MN 55112 - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 1:59 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette I am so sorry that your family is having to go through all of this,I have been praying for Jalen for quite a while now, I will pray even harder for him at this most difficult time,my very best wishes go to you and your family.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 1:13 PM CDT
Jeanette, I am so sorry things are going so badly:( I wish things would just smooth out for you two. I will check back to see what you find out or maybe you can drop me an email or call. I saw Jalen's quilt site and I hope they get it done quickly. I know he will love that! I will be praying for you guys. Me and Katia were just going over his site and some of the pictures people leave in his guestbook. Jalen is VERY loved!!! Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 27, 2003 12:57 AM CDT
I doubt anyone knows why, but I wish we did. It's awful to feel so powerless. We will continue to pray for Jalen's complete healing and for you and your family....
Hope to see you Saturday at the car wash....
Love and prayers, Natalee & Zac
- Tuesday, May 27, 2003 12:37 AM CDT
Dear Jalen
We're sorry to hear about your line. I hope that they can figure it all out soon.
We'll pray that God will take care of the infection since your mommy and the nurses can get the antibiotics in through the line.
Dear Father please give Jeannette comfort and strength - let her know that you are there with her continually as her heavenly Father. Renew her strength and her faith daily as she continues to minister to Jalen.
JLE <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 10:27 AM CDT
Hang in there Sweetheart...
We are praying so hard for all of you.
Love,
Kim & Karl Kruppenbacher & family
~KODYS STORY~
- Tuesday, May 27, 2003 9:39 AM CDT
Dearest Jalen and Family,
Hold Strong...There are alot of people Praying.
Ok...Isabella had her line pulled out one time by the radiologist during TBI, it was replaced...Can they replace it?
Our Prayers are with you!!!
Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
Hemingford, Ne USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 9:03 AM CDT
Hey Jalen:
I hope they can get your line fixed really quick so you can get your meds quickly. I pray that you will get better. Take care and take it easy. Wyatt and I send big hugs.
MJ - TWEETYROLL88@aol.com <www.caringbridge.org/ny/mjpurk>
NY, - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 8:55 AM CDT
Prayers are going out for Jalen and your family. Please stay strong and keep loving Jalen. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love and many prayers,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 8:25 AM CDT
Jeanette and all family, PLease know we are praying hard for you all. The line will be a small hurtle I am sure. We to had some problem with ours but once the right person gets involved they seem to resolve the problem fast. So wwe will pray to that end for you all, that this is just a small problem. Remeber Jeanett you are his mommy and he loves you so. Every laugh, smile and dance is yours to hold close to your heart. I can only imagine the pain you must feel. I trust that God can and will give you stength.
Denise Roberts (caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <dndtwins1@usadatanet.net>
Bridgeport, NY USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 8:17 AM CDT
Hi Jalen. I found your website a few days ago on Janice's site, although this is the first time I have signed your guestbook. You are such a precious little boy. My daughter (who is 7 years old) looked at your pictures with me and she loves the one of you talking on your Mommy's cell phone and the one of you in your stroller with sunglasses on...too cool! My family has added you, your Mommy, & Daddy to our daily and nightly prayers. The Johnson Family (Mike, Martha, Jacob, & Jessica)
Martha Johnson <MJohnsonRN1983@aol.com>
Cullman, AL USA - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:54 AM CDT
Dearest Jeanette, Dale and precious Jalen,
Oh you guys, I am just so sad to hear that Jalen is not well...I just PRAY, PRAY, PRAY that the doctors can do something about his line...I don't know what else to do... I guess I can just PRAY and then PRAY that God hears all of us!! I wish I could be there for all of you and give you guys a big hug...you are such an awesome and pretty family...baby Jalen is just beautiful and he doesn't deserve any of this...I am praying for his lines to work again and for a miracle...please hug and kiss him for me! I am always thinking of you guys...
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Hugs,
XOXOXOX
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:52 AM CDT
Hey sweet lady...just wanted to stop by and tell you that I was thinking about you and your precious baby...Jalen...what a beauty. Love to you both, Kathy
Kathy Charlton <ckcharlton@aol.com>
West Palm Beach , FL - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:24 AM CDT
It breaks my heart to read your entries, no one should ever have to go through this never ending roller coaster ride. Jalen will be healed one way or another. Stay strong, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Tuesday, May 27, 2003 7:03 AM CDT
My thoughts are with Jalen and his family.
Linda
Shelby Twp., MI - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 6:47 AM CDT
Jalen
Sorry I was not able to stop by on Monday. I was thinking about you all day. I was a little under the weather. Jeanette i am deeply sorry that he is not doing so well right now but i know after the Xrays they will figure it all out and get him all the Good stuff he needs running in his little body. Well take care and god bless!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Tuesday, May 27, 2003 6:20 AM CDT
I hope that the Duck adventure was FUN!! Glad to see that you carry so much faith inside you also! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, May 26, 2003 7:31 PM CDT
Hello beautiful little one,
I'm so glad you got to see the ducks! You are such a special little boy, Jalen. Your Mommy and Daddy love you more than anything in the world!!
Give your Mommy and Daddy lots of little kisses and wiggle those wonderful toes for them. I'm still praying for you to gain peace and healing.
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Monday, May 26, 2003 6:47 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette,Dale and of coarse Jalen,
Judy and I are hanging out here on Monday Memorial Day with only two kids. We are all thinking about you and are very happy to know you are all doing so well. We knew hospice would take good care of you. I,m so glad Jalen got to see the ducks. If you want to go to Lion Country let me know and I'll get some tickets from Scott for you guys. They can have them at the gate. We all love and miss you all so much but, you are where you need to be. You are never far from our thoughts and always in our prayers. We love you and miss you Peggy and the Gang
peggy
- Monday, May 26, 2003 10:44 AM CDT
Ssending brazilian angels on your way Jalen to protect you and help you overcome this difficul moment. There is a lot of LOVE embracing you all right now.
Warm hugs from Brazil.
Rose
- Monday, May 26, 2003 9:05 AM CDT
Jalen, Ducks are so cool!!! we live on the lake (in NY) and we just love to watch for mommy and baby ducks!!! Its been rainy here to so all the ducks are doing is sleeping on our dock. Keep up the good work.
Denise Roberts (caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <dndtwins1@usadatanet.net>
Bridgeport, Ny USA - Monday, May 26, 2003 8:25 AM CDT
The new pictures are great!!
Jalen...you just get cuter and sweeter every time I see you! Watch out girls...we have a heartbreaker here!! :0)
I am sooo happy you got to see those duckies. Kody has 7 ducks we keep in our yard, we could send them to you if you want (LOL)..they are loud, especially when they are hungry!!
Have a wonderful Memorial Day weekend....
You guys are always in our thoughts and prayers...
Kim and Kody
~KODYS STORY~
- Monday, May 26, 2003 8:15 AM CDT
Hi beautiful Jalen and family! I keep you in my prayers daily. I am so glad you are home and how cooolll to get to see those ducks. I love them too! We sometimes go to the pond to feed them. Sending sunshine and prayers your way for a complete healing. God Bless you all.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Sunday, May 25, 2003 11:09 PM CDT
Hi gorgeous Jalen:)
So happpy you saw the ducks darling..mommy says you like them! We are praying SO HARD for you Jalen, for your complete healing...we hope to hear more and more good news, and more of the wonderful times you spend with Mom and Dad:)
Sending you warm wishes and big, huge bear hugs!!
Tracey,Steve, Quinn and Cal xoxoo
Calgary, Ab, Canada, - Sunday, May 25, 2003 11:01 PM CDT
We are happy to here you saw the ducks. Hoping you can get some nice dry weather so you can enjoy the great outdoors. praying for god to heal jalen completly. Love ya sweet little one. Continualy praying for you through out each day.
Love, lexi, orion, jon, and nicole <nicole54660@msn.com>
Tomah, WI - Sunday, May 25, 2003 10:59 PM CDT
Jalen - so glad that you got to see the ducks! :-)
We remain in prayers for you!
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Sunday, May 25, 2003 10:37 PM CDT
I love the new pictures, mom & dad look awfully happy to have their boy with them! glad you are home! I thought the card goes well since you got to come home :O) love Angel Sky
Angel Sky
- Sunday, May 25, 2003 7:37 PM CDT
Hi, I just found your page. Jalen is a gorgeous baby! I will add him to my prayers.
My daughter was diagnosed with ALL in September of last year when she was 18 months old...she just turned 2 in March.
My thoughts and prayers are with you...
Alicia <alicia41570@hotmail.com>
IN USA - Sunday, May 25, 2003 6:48 PM CDT
What a beautiful family you have. I am so sorry that you have to endure this pain...I pray for you daily
Vicki tj4ever@frontiernet.net
- Sunday, May 25, 2003 3:52 PM CDT
Hey Jalen!
I LOVEEEEEEE your new pictures, sweetie!!! They are so adorable :) YOU are one beautiful baby...and the more I look at your photos, the more my faith for you grows...and I just pray that you will be okay...you have a mommy and a daddy who love you so much! And SO MANY other people from everywhere who love you too! Keep strong and fighting little one...
Girlie's Page
Janice's Page
Love & prayers,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, May 25, 2003 7:27 AM CDT
Little Jalen,
I pray for you and your mommy and daddy every day. I hope you are feeling good and are able to do some fun things. Stay strong and brave as I know you and your folks will.
Love,
Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Sunday, May 25, 2003 7:26 AM CDT
Hi Jalen! You are sooo cute in the pictures, exspecially the one with you and your mommy and daddy even though you didn't look! I am keeping you in my prayers. Smile alwayz:)
Lindsey <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway, Va USA - Saturday, May 24, 2003 5:09 PM CDT
Jalen is ADORABLE! The "dress up" picture made me laugh. I hope you get some sunshine, ducks, and lots of dancing today! We will continue to pray for his complete healing.
Christi Hamilton <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
Dove Canyon, CA - Saturday, May 24, 2003 9:34 AM CDT
Good morning Jalen and Jeanette! I pray you are able to see the ducks soon. I HAVE to take Katia or she is gonna hit me over the head! I just wanted you to know I was thinking of you this morning (I am sure you know that!) I love you guys:) Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Saturday, May 24, 2003 8:45 AM CDT
Hope you have a good day, Jalen! Thinking of you so much....
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Saturday, May 24, 2003 6:25 AM CDT
Beautiful pictures thanks for sharing, I hope you have gotten some nice weather and get to see all the ducks. Praying for you daily and think of you all the time. may god cure jalen and rid him of this horrible disease forever. You have taught me to treasure each day I have with my 3 children and never take anything for granted. thanking for sharing your beautiful son with us all. Have a great weekend and enjoy
nicole <nicole54660@msn.com>
Tomah, Wi - Friday, May 23, 2003 9:25 PM CDT
Extremely nice pictures! I hope you get to see the ducks soon Jalen!!! I am sure they are just shy!!:) ;) Hope that you all have a great weekend!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Friday, May 23, 2003 7:33 PM CDT
The pictures are wonderful!!! Very beautiful family and Jalen you look like a doctor in the last picture:)
Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook:) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia!
- Friday, May 23, 2003 7:28 PM CDT
I am so glad you received and like the ladybug!! It was so full of kisses and hugs so I hope it brings much happiness. We didn't get to see the ducks either. We went to see them but it was raining so we couldn't get out of the car:( I have a real fear of lightening!!!! Anyway, we are gonna see some ducks real soon, hopefully tomorrow is nicer and it is Saturday so Sharayah and Tatiana can go too! Katia is gonna miss her daddy while he is gone but he has to go to the island BUT we are going to do all we can to keep little Katia happy (I am sure that will involve food!). Anyway, I am glad hospice is doing good and I am sure you will be missed on the floor but when you go back they will be SO happy to have you visit!!! I am praying for you baby and Katia mentions your name anytime she prays no matter if it is for a meal, bedtime or just because she bumps something... Jalen is prayed for:) I think she knows what she is doing. Love, Tracy and Katia
PS I am gonna leave you a few extra friends in your guestbook today!
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Friday, May 23, 2003 4:41 PM CDT
Praying for big improvements and BETTER CALMER HEALTHIER days. LOVE from Brazil.
Rose
- Friday, May 23, 2003 3:25 PM CDT
Jalen we're glad to hear that you're having fun at home.
I wish I could've seen you dancing at church - I bet it made your mom very happy :-)
I hope that today is sunny and you can go find those ducks.
We're praying for you.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Friday, May 23, 2003 2:15 PM CDT
Jalen,
I am still praying for you. Hope you get to see the ducks real soon.
Debbie Nagy
St. Louis, MO - Friday, May 23, 2003 2:12 PM CDT
For you, Jalen:
http://www.niehs.nih.gov/kids/lyrics/sixducks.htm
We have this song on a videotape of a children's folk singer named Raffi. If you haven't heard of Raffi, he's worth checking out. He is my son's favorite singer, and Six Little Ducks is one of our favorite songs.
Still praying that Jalen gets better soon!!
Lots of hugs,
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Friday, May 23, 2003 1:39 PM CDT
Hi Jalen...
We hope you get to see those ducks real soon!
Love, Kim and Kody
~KODYS STORY~
- Friday, May 23, 2003 12:38 AM CDT
We are praying you get better and get to see some ducks real soon. Cute picture with the phone.
Robin and Bailee <www.caringbridge .org/fl/bailee>
- Friday, May 23, 2003 12:21 AM CDT
Thought for the day:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but by the moments that take our breath away.
Stacy S <sshephar@sfwmd.gov>
WPB, FL - Friday, May 23, 2003 9:47 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale,
I had to share this with you. I went into a site called Women of Faith. I added Jalen's name for a prayer request. Its unbelievable how people write back and pray for your little one. God is Good. Check out the site : www.womenoffaith.com/msg
God Bless!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Friday, May 23, 2003 9:40 AM CDT
I am praying very hard for your sweet baby!! He is the cutest !!!!!!
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Friday, May 23, 2003 7:46 AM CDT
Jalen,
I am sooo happy you are home with your family. The pictures show that your mami and daddy are truely lucky to have you in their lives. I PRAY THAT THOSE BUMPS GO AWAY FAST!!! Lord please make little Jalen better soon. Jeanette if anyone can come and visit pls let me know I would love to see him now that he is up and dancing. God Bless you all!!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Friday, May 23, 2003 6:35 AM CDT
Jeanette, I have been thinking of you and Jalen so much!! You are always on my prayers. Jalen and you are so strong. I will never forget that my first day, when Juliana was dignost you where there for me, always teaching me how to be that strong. God is with you!!!
I am so happy that you are home, you are a great mom!God answer prayers!!!
We are going to the hospital on tuesday for Quimo(4 days).
Now that I have your web page I will be checking on you.
Love,
Kisses to Jalen!!!
Andrea and Juliana
Andrea Gomez <jacojj@bellsouth.net>
WPB, Fl - Thursday, May 22, 2003 11:06 PM CDT
Jalen, Mommy, & Daddy,,
Your new pictures are so cute. What a special day--you are at home with the people who absolutely love you the most.
I wish for each of you--comfort on difficult days.
Rainbows to follow the clouds.
Laughter to kiss your lips.
Sunsets to warm your hearts.
Gentle hugs when spirits sag.
Friendships to brighten your beings.
Beauty for your eyes to see(plenty of little ducks!!)
Confidence for when you doubt.
Faith so that you can believe.
Courage to know yourself.
Patience to accept the truth.
And love to complete your lives.
I am praying for the Lord to bless you, guide you, and protect you as you all go along your way. His love is always with you and His promises are true. No matter what the tribulation you know He will see you through.
Now that the road you are traveling on seems difficult at best, give your problems to the Lord and God will do the rest!!
God bless you, Jalen, darling. May every day be special and may your leukemia be gone. PLEASE DEAR LORD TAKE ALL OF JADEN'S BUMPS AWAY.
Love
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Thursday, May 22, 2003 10:55 PM CDT
What beautiful pictures... I hope you enjoy all the events you have planned and all the laughs and giggles that go along with them. Stay strong and give Jalen a hug from us!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Thursday, May 22, 2003 9:18 PM CDT
Hello Jalen!!
Guess what I'm sending your way today????
LOVE, PRAYERS, HUGS, KISSES, SUNSHINE, SMILES, LAUGHS, GIGGLES, WARMTH, TICKLES, MORE PRAYERS, SPECIAL PRAYERS, HEALING PRAYERS, MORE LOVE....AND....MIRACLES!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm thinking of you lil fella...
I just started a caringbridge page in memory of my mom, come check it out!
Girlie's Page
Love always,
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Thursday, May 22, 2003 8:53 PM CDT
Hi Jalen! Hope you are doing much better and that you and your mom have fun! I am so excited for you! Keeping you in my prayers. Smile alwayz:)
Lindsey - www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole
Ridgeway, Va USA - Thursday, May 22, 2003 3:33 PM CDT
I am praying for you Jalen. I hope you have a GREAT time on your zoo trip and the aquarium...
gina geddings, mommy of angel Morgan <mimor2@comcast.net ~~~ www.caringbridge.com/sc/morganspage>
- Thursday, May 22, 2003 2:16 PM CDT
How is that little champ today! Jalen, I pray you are home and doing all you want to do. I hope the duckies stay right there by your porch and you and your Mommy can have lunch with them. I promised Katia to go see ducks today so I will be thinking about you. I hope you recieve you package today or tomorrow in the mail and keep it close to you. Katia loves to check on little Jalen (she really likes Pooh Bear on your site) and she kissed the little ladybug for you about 100 times! Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy
- Thursday, May 22, 2003 8:58 AM CDT
I just wanted to let you know that I am still lifting you up and praying that Jalen is healed. With Christ's Love,
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Thursday, May 22, 2003 8:50 AM CDT
Jalen and Jeanette,
I pray that your days at home will be everything you want them to be.
There have been some cute things said about Moms that I would like to share with you.
1) Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after you've had a baby...somebody doesn't know that once you're a mother, normal is history!
2) Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her...somebody isn't a mother!
Oh, how I pray for Jalen's body to be healed so he can grow up and you say how much he loves you and all that you have done for him. Of course, every smile, hug, and giggle from him tells you exactly that already.
Life is a journey that everyone travels and sometimes we're lost in the depths of the night. Yet even in darkness our hearts will be lifted, tears will be ended, and hope will shine bright. For out of the place where our heartache and despair is the deepest, up from the valley and on toward the height, through every shadow we walk in His presence, gently and graciously led by His Light.
Thank you Father God for loving Jalen so much. Please put Your healing hands upon Him and rid his body of this terrible disease.
Love in Christ,
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 11:29 PM CDT
You were in my thoughts all day today...how the day was going for all of you.
I think of you often. We are leaving tomorrow but will return late on Monday.
You have my number....call me....you know I mean it....for anything...if I can.
Much Peace Love Prayers and HOPE...hang on to that HOPE!!!
PS...I wish I had told your father the other night how proud he should be of you ....but I could tell he already is!!
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 10:59 PM CDT
I'm praying for a miracle to come your way this week! All the Leukemia will be gone and your body will begin to heal! Bunches of hugs and kisses!......Madie and Mom
Madie and Reg Ice (caringbridge.org/ga/madieice) <r.ice@attbi.com>
Snellville (Where Everybody is Somebody!), GA USA - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 10:46 PM CDT
Hi Jalen Sweetie Pie,
It sounds like that great Mommy has some super fun plans for you!! I hope you see lots and lots of ducks...they look so funny with their waddlin' and quackin', don't they? I bet they just make you smile:) We are praying SOOOOO hard for your miracle, for the Protocel to work it's magic, for you to have wonderful days with Mommy, on all your planned adventures!
Big hugs to the most beautiful baby boy,
Tracey, Steve , Quinn and Callum xoxo
Calgary, Ab, Canada, - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 10:26 PM CDT
Praying for you.
Elizabeth (www.caringbridge.org/wa/aidangoodwin)
Richland, WA - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 7:10 PM CDT
Hi friends! Wow, sounds like a lot of fun days ahead for you! Don't know which sounds more fun, watching the ducks or hunting for them so you CAN watch them. We don't have many 'tame ducks' around here, but in the wintertime, the sky and the waters here are full of them and geese. When you go to Seaworld, say HI to the porpoises for me. I love watching them out in the ocean when I'm on the beach. Wishing you good days ahead, and saying lots of prayers †
Tom <WerbeRacing@aol.com>
Kill Devil Hills, NC www.caringbridge.org/ks/dianekeel - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 12:50 AM CDT
Hello Jeanete & Jalen, Just wanted to stop by and let you know that my family is still praying for your miracle. Enjoy your special time together with the ducks! Keep up the faith, remember to trust in God.
Billie (Zac and Natalee's friend)
Billie Crane <cranesnester@aol.com>
West Palm Beach , Fl USA - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 11:25 AM CDT
Praying that you can enjoy lots of beautiful days and make lots of memories. You are such a wonderful mom, I am saying extra prayers for your beautiful little boy and your family. Praying for your miracle for your sweet boy and total healing. God bless you
love, nicole, lexi, jon, orion w.
wi - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 9:56 AM CDT
Out of the hospital and off to enjoy that baby? Hope you're taking tons of pictures and letting him have and do whatever he wants. He deserves it. So do you!
Love,
Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Wednesday, May 21, 2003 7:26 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette & Jalen,
Time is just so precious and I am so glad to hear you guys are making the most of it and just spending quality time with each other...Jalen, enjoy the duckies sweetie!!! Everytime I see a duck I will think of you now :) My mommy (who is in Heaven) used to LOVEEEEEEEE ducks so much, we have so many duck figurines around the house! And I have so many photos of us feeding ducks! :) Jeanette you are the best mommy in the world...I know you are not giving up hope..I am so proud of Jalen but I am also SO proud of you!! PLEASE bump on Jalen's head, PLEASE GO AWAY!!! I'm praying ever so hard, guys...hang in there okay!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
LOVE ALWAYS,
XOXOXOXOX
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 6:22 AM CDT
Just checking in to see how all of you are doing? I am so very sadden to read that Jalen will going home on Hospice. Please know that you are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Love & Prayers,
Lynne (www.caringbridge.org/nc/mitchellmartin)
Taylorsville, NC - Wednesday, May 21, 2003 0:19 AM CDT
Jalen,
How are you today little buddy? I am praying several times a day for that big old bump on your head to disappear and all the other bumps to follow suit.
You are such a beautiful little boy and your Mommy and Daddy love you so much. It is so good to hear that you are talking up a storm to your Grandma on the phone. I am a NaNa, too, and I know how precious little grandsons are!!
Blessings come to those who set their minds on God's love.
Proverbs 8:17 "I love those who love Me, and those who seek Me find Me."
Jesus loves all little children especially the sick ones and He will heal your little body of that horrible cancer soon. He is a miraculous and loving God and He has a plan for you, honey. God makes no mistakes and He isn't finished with you yet.
Have a great time in your wagon and feed the ducks for me, too, when you have your picnic dinner with all of your family and friends.
Love
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 9:52 PM CDT
Jeanette,
You already know that you and Jalen are in my prayers. If you need anything, you have my number so just call..day or night, I'm here.
I already shared with you I believe everything I can think of to do with Jalen...to get a molding of his hands, WalMart sales kits (I don't think I mentioned that in my email) no matter what happens that will ALWAYS be a precious gift that every parent should have of their child..sick or healthy.
Hugs to you and Much Love and Many Prayers
Christy Fitzpatrick and family: Chad, Angel Jordyn, Jacob, and Baby Boy soon to come <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 9:50 PM CDT
It was so good to see all of you tonight. He is such an amazing little child your sweet boy. Of course the "apple dose not fall far from the tree".....his momma is pretty remarkable. I know at your age I did not have half the maturity that you have. Your family support is just awesome. I was so touched watching your dad interact with Jalen.
You do WHATEVER you need to do!! If you need help we are just a phone call away. We will do whatever we can.
You are in our hearts and prayers always!!!!
Much Peace Prayers Love and HOPE.....hang on to HOPE!!
Ruthie (Seth's mommy) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 9:40 PM CDT
What a great plan you have set out for you both!! Jalen will be such a blast at the zoo and seaquarium!!! Sounds like a good time anyway. :) I hope that it is great weather, making it a comfy time for Jalen.. not too hot, not too chilly. ;) Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 8:23 PM CDT
I will be praying for Jalen's healing. I know you want to savour every moment you can with him. I can just hear the excitment in your voice when reading the journal about Jalen going to the zoo & having a picnic. Jalen is a precious gift from God. It amazing how much little children can teach us, but they do. I hope you all have a wonderful time together. I will be keeping Jalen and the family in my thoughts and prayers! GOD BLESS
Kim ~ Hannah
TN - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 4:43 PM CDT
I am not sure what to say, except have faith, God works miracles. Jalen is so adorable!! I will pray for you and your family. Have a wonderful time spending time together!!
Chuson (www.caringbridge.org/tx/jeffrey)
Arlington, TX USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 2:24 PM CDT
You are an amazing woman going through what your going through and still thinking of others to pray for. I hope Jalen has lots of fun and enjoys all the ducks, I'm still praying for a healing he is god's child as you are and he will do the right thing for Jalen, I'm praying that the right thing though will be for him to stay here with hes mommy. God bless you
P.S. He is such a cutie :)
sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 12:49 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette! I tried calling you last night in the room, no answer. Good luck, I will miss our hospital chats. I hate to bother you, please e-mail when you can or call me. Smile all day, every day!
Also, Savanah is such a "show off" with her nails!
Tracy <tbfc14@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 20, 2003 11:35 AM CDT
Hi Jalen....
Kody and I hope you have the BEST time with those little duckies!!
We love you Sweetie!!
Love, Kim and Kody
~KODYS STORY~
- Tuesday, May 20, 2003 10:13 AM CDT
Jeanette and Jalen, thank you for your mention of Katia on your site:) We are all here for eachother! I know our little families are going to be fine and someday we will HAVE to get Jalen and Katia together so they can chase some duckies! It is amazing how much they have in common! You don't know how often I just want to jump in my car and come see you guys. My heart longs to meet you and to have these dear kids be able to see eachother in person. Katia knows Jalen by his site and the picture I taped in her journal book:) We are sending him a ladybug which is Katia's little signature! We still go by our old apartment so she can see her duckies. I really miss them since we have moved. I liked walking down by the lake and hear her say, "Hello duckies!" She just said it so cute. Maybe I will take her today. I pray that bump will just GO AWAY on Jalen's head! "Go away bump!" Well, I will keep checking on you. I had a moment of peace right now so I checked emails, the guestbook, updated Katia's page and checked on my little Caringbridge Kids and now I am out to the swingset! You will do great with Jalen's meds. I know you will:) Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Tuesday, May 20, 2003 9:24 AM CDT
I learned about your website and Jalen through Scott Finestone--little Zach's website. I wanted to let you know that we are all praying for you and little Jalen. He was added to my long list last night. My daughter has ALL Leukemia and we too have been through some very rough times but even so I could not imagine or even say that I know what you are going through. But know this my heart and prayers are with you during this hard time. You are so very strong--!
Pam Russell <PRussell@advalite.com>
Clearwater, FL USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 7:56 AM CDT
We are still praying for a miracle!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You are doing everything right....love him, enjoy him, and keep praying and trusting in the Lord! With God ALL things are possible! I pray that He fill you both with peace and strength.... for He is our strength!!
With Much Love in Christ,
Yvonne Fernandez <yvonnengzs@rjia.net>
Moutn Airy, nC USA - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 7:44 AM CDT
You and Tracy are amazing, beautiful women. In the face of ALL that each of you face, you are still thinking of the other one and her child. I'm glad you're focusing on the fun you'll have. Still praying for a miracle!
Love,
Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Tuesday, May 20, 2003 6:52 AM CDT
A LITTLE OF GOD'S MEDICINE!
Jesus bore my sickness and carried my pain. Therefore I give no place to sickness or pain. For God send His Word and healed me.(Ps. 107:20.)
You have given me abundant life. I receive that life through Your Word and it flows to every organ of my body bringing healing and health. (John 10:10,John 6:63.)
Enjoy and Have Faith in these words.
Lots of Love!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 6:48 AM CDT
Jeanette and Dale,
I have been reading your updates daily. It saddens me to hear that he is going home with HOSPICE! I know its scary for you all but you must keep the faith. God does do miracles! In the time being enjoy every second with that little angel Jalen. We will continue to pray every night and day for you guys. God Bless!!!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 6:25 AM CDT
Words elude me right now......
Sending my prayers!
Stacy
WPB, FL - Tuesday, May 20, 2003 6:06 AM CDT
Sweet Jalen,
I am praying so hard for a miracle. You are such a fighter. My heart goes out to your family too. They love you so much. Please God, grant this sweet child a miracle.
Love,
Diane <thevezz@aol.com>
San Francisco, CA USA - Monday, May 19, 2003 10:50 PM CDT
Bless you as you take your little pumpkin home tomorrow and just love him up. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Deirdre
- Monday, May 19, 2003 9:51 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette!! Its Savanah, I hope Jalen is doing good. I still love my nails, thank you. I just got home from the hospital today.I hope you can go home soon.I miss you.
Love Savanah.
Savanah Fry <tbfc14@hotmail.com>
Boynton Beach, - Monday, May 19, 2003 9:39 PM CDT
Hi Jalen & Family. I have not been able to check in for several days. I am sorry to hear that Hospice is having to come to your house. They are wonderful people and will hopefully help to keep your little baby comfortable. I will pray that you are able to continue to hold your baby close and that his little body pulls out of this and gets stronger.
I have only been aware of your family for a short time and already feel close to you and your situation.
GOD BLESS & KEEP YOU STRONG.
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Monday, May 19, 2003 9:09 PM CDT
Hi Jalen,
I'm praying SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HARD for you little baby... you have such a special place in my heart!!!! You just hang in there...NEVER give up...I love you!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Love & healing prayers,
XOXOXOXOXOOXOX
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, May 19, 2003 8:21 PM CDT
I am so sorry about the news on Jalen I will continue to pray hard for a miracle for him.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Monday, May 19, 2003 5:46 PM CDT
Jalen & Jeanette, You are continuously in my thoughts and prayers. I will pray for a miracle in your lives and peace and comfort always. May God bless you,
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Monday, May 19, 2003 3:54 PM CDT
Jalen: I continue to pray for your perfect health and ask the Angels of God to envelope you in their love to ease your pain.
Patty Karl (Am-maw's friend) <pkarl@ceinetworks.com>
Schnecksville, PA US - Monday, May 19, 2003 3:34 PM CDT
I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this. Nothing I can say will make it any better. My heart really goes out to you. I hate cancer too!!! No child should ever have to go through what our kids have experienced.
Tonya (chassidy's mom) <www.caringbridge.org/il/chassidy>
- Monday, May 19, 2003 2:01 PM CDT
Jalen and Jeanette,
My heart goes out to you both. I will pray for a cure for Jalen. I love you both very much. God Bless.
Daisy Gonzalez <yadi26@aol.com>
Boynton Beach, Fl. West Palm Beach - Monday, May 19, 2003 1:44 PM CDT
Jalen will be in my prayers. I hate cancer also...even more so in children. I will pray for Jalen to be cured and I will also pray for a cancer cure so that no one else will have to endure what you and your family have gone through.
Jami
- Monday, May 19, 2003 12:04 AM CDT
I'm soooo sorry. As the mother of a 19 month daughter my heart breaks for you, I will pray so hard for a miracle for Jalen. Again I'm so sorry I truly hope Jalen gets a miracle and that he gets to stay here with you, I know your love for him is so deep.
God bless you
sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Monday, May 19, 2003 12:01 AM CDT
Praying for Jalen to receive a miracle.
Debbie Nagy
Manchester, MO - Monday, May 19, 2003 11:49 AM CDT
I will be praying for a miracle for Jalen, and strength and peace for you, as you bring him home!
Christi Hamilton <hamilton.fam@cox.net>
Dove Canyon, CA - Monday, May 19, 2003 11:03 AM CDT
I am so sorry - I will continue to pray for a miracle. My thoughts and prayers will stay with your family.
Much love,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton
Rock Hill, SC - Monday, May 19, 2003 10:27 AM CDT
Continuing our prayers for Jalen and the family.
Jennifer Miles <jennifer.miles@thomson.com>
Minneapolis, MN USA - Monday, May 19, 2003 8:32 AM CDT
Hey Baby Jay-praying for you and your family, and a miracle. Lots of us out there pulling for you buddy.
Janna <jannaw@centurytel.net www.caringbridge.org/mt/joeywynn>
Whitefish, MT - Monday, May 19, 2003 8:25 AM CDT
Dearest Jalen and Family,
Our Prayers are with you and your family.
Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
Hemingford, Ne USA - Monday, May 19, 2003 8:18 AM CDT
I pray today's meetings go well and give you comfort. Jeanette where can I mail you a card? Should I use the address at the bottom of the page? Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Monday, May 19, 2003 7:49 AM CDT
Jalen,
I am sorry that the doctor's can't take away your pain. I am praying that God gives you a miracle. God Bless you and your family. Hope you start to feel better "Little Man".
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, May 19, 2003 7:06 AM CDT
Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear about Jalen, and I am praying my hardest for a miracle. Love to all of you.
Nikki
UK - Monday, May 19, 2003 2:12 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I am crying with you. I'm storming the heavens for a miracle for Jalen. What a precious child.
Debbie Little - - www.caringbridge.org/tn/littlecaleb <littlecaleb@hotmail.com>
Dickson, TN - Sunday, May 18, 2003 11:46 PM CDT
Oh Jeanette! I am so sorry that things are not improving! I SO understand your feelings....I hate CANCER too! Our poor babies...I have no doubt thatyou would give your own life to save Jalen...if it were possible...I too have felt the same.
I know that there is little that one can say or do to make you feel better....just LOVE him and enjoy every precious moment you have together. Please know that I am praying for you and Jalen. I will pray harder than ever....I pray for a miracle and that He fill both you and Jalen with His peace!
With Much Love in Him,
Yvonne Fernandez, mom to angel Leilani 7/9/93-7/25/02 <yvonnengzs@rjia.net >
Mount Airy, NC USA - Sunday, May 18, 2003 10:32 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette and Jalen,
I have never signed your guestbook before, but I check Jalen's page on a regular basis. I found his page on Seth's. He is such a beautiful boy. I am praying for your family.
With love,
Haley Hastings <haleyhastings@yahoo.com>
Athens, GA - Sunday, May 18, 2003 8:24 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette and Jalen.
I am so sorry to hear that things are not going well for your family. The news on Jaylen it is heartbreaking. I lost my infant son 2years ago on May 29th. I know that you are in shock now and that is normal hon, please try to rest a bit and treasure every moment you to have left, as painful as it is dear, just love him as hard as you are able, fill your heart with him and keep those presious memories with you until it is time for you to be together again.
Keeping you both in my prayers. Susan
Susan Hubley <susanhubley@hotmail.com>
Timberlea, NS Canada - Sunday, May 18, 2003 7:49 PM CDT
I am so sorry for your pain. Please take the time to enjoy every minute of every day. Know that there are thousands of us out here praying and thinking of you all.
You never know what can happen. Miracles do happen. There are a lot of Angels watching over Jalen.
Hugs, prayers, and many thoughts heading your way.
Rae <rfbocritter@yahoo.com>
Tulsa, OK - Sunday, May 18, 2003 7:40 PM CDT
Hey Kiddo-
Saying lots of prayers for you. Stay strong, keep fighting, and remember how loved you are.
Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Sunday, May 18, 2003 7:21 PM CDT
Prayers are being said for you all. That God may grant you peace and that you may see His hand working on and through your beautiful little boy.
Denise Roberts (caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <dndtwins1@usadatanet.net>
Bridgeport , NY USA - Sunday, May 18, 2003 7:16 PM CDT
We are praying for your family to find strength. SO sorry for the news about Jalen. We are praying for you everyday.
Robin(Bailees mom) <www.caringbridge.org/fl/bailee>
Tarpon Springs, FL - Sunday, May 18, 2003 6:29 PM CDT
TONS of prayers for a miracle coming your way.
Mary <zackysmom@city-net.com>
Pittsburgh, PA USA - Sunday, May 18, 2003 5:55 PM CDT
Prayers being sent for a miracle!!
Our thoughts are with you and Jalen.
Cheri & Katelynn
Nelson, BC Canada - Sunday, May 18, 2003 4:27 PM CDT
Hello My name is Diane and I learned about your family and Jalen through the Bunkmann family. Seth was my favorite customer. I'am soooooo sorry to hear about Jalen. My prayers are with Jalen and your family as they are also with the Bunkmann/Atwell family. Ruthie's father is in the Hospital not doing well at all. I pray for you and all others dealing with this nasty disease. I hate to even hear the word cancer. God Bless all of you. Mrs. Diane from Dunkin Donuts
Diane Love <dlove17@bellsouth.net>
west palm beach , Fl USA - Sunday, May 18, 2003 3:14 PM CDT
I am so sorry. There is nothing that I can say to take away your pain. Put your full trust in the Hospice team, let them take care of Jalen and YOU...they are wonderful. If it is time...IF...they will not let him be in any pain. His life is in Gods hands...and as hard for us to believe this, those are the best hands to have wrapped around you. I am so sorry.
Vicki and Tyler from heaven
- Sunday, May 18, 2003 2:14 PM CDT
Hey sweet boy. I want this to become a shock like your mama said. I know this is hard 4 everyone. I am keeping you in my prayers. If anything happens remember this is GOD's will for Jalen and he will be a beautiful angel up in Heaven. Smile awayz:)
Lindsey Goins <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway - Henry County , Va USA - Sunday, May 18, 2003 1:21 PM CDT
Jeanette, I am praying for you dear. I bought a card for you and something for Jalen so let me know where I should mail it to. Email me when you get the chance. I love you guys and I am praying that God will give Jalen a very long and healthy life but I also pray for you and your enduring love and endless energy. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Sunday, May 18, 2003 12:59 AM CDT
Still wishing, still hoping, still praying for you, beautiful Jalen.....
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Sunday, May 18, 2003 10:33 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
OH, I just don't know what to say...I am in tears just reading your update! I haven't had the chance all weekend to check on Jalen and today I finally logged on and couldn't believe it...I am so sorry Jeanette...how I wish things could be different. I know that Jalen is going home but it's still not too late...I'm praying SO HARD for God to grant him that special miracle...I am holding on to every single ounce of hope and faith...and you should too. Jalen is the strongest little fighter around...who knows what tricks he has up his sleeve...Jalen sweetie, feel free to pull one out anytime!!! Jeanette, you have been such an incredible mother to your little boy...he couldn't have asked for more...I pray that Jalen will be comfortable and pain-free at home...I am praying for your whole family...praying for a miracle...just PRAYING...I just wanna give you guys a big hug...but I can't so I'll just send one BIG, GIGANTIC hug your way..always know that I am thinking of you and praying for you...hang in there!!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
I HATE CANCER TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lots of love & special healing prayers,
XOXOXOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, May 18, 2003 9:58 AM CDT
Jeanette... I too sit here with tear filled eyes as I read this HEAVY update.. I will pray that there is a miracle for you and Jalen. I hope that you all thrive on every memory that you make with eachother. He wil say "mamma" for you, and when he does, you will CHEERISH that moment and it will get you through whatever God gives you! You are an AWESOME mommy!! I wish that I was half the mommy you are. Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Sunday, May 18, 2003 9:38 AM CDT
Sending you lots and lots of prayers for Jalen and your family. May God be with you.
Barb mom to Joey
http://www.caringbridge.org/pa/joeysjourney
Barb Tomlinson <btomlinson3@comcast.net>
Telford, p - Sunday, May 18, 2003 8:28 AM CDT
Sending love and prayers to you and your baby. I hate cancer! It is so unfair, to everyone, those who have it those who love those who have it.
Ivy
ivy...www.caringbridge.org/wa/cameronboyd <poisenivj@aol.com>
lynnwood, wa usa - Sunday, May 18, 2003 4:54 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you sweetie.
Sam Kelly (aaryns mommy) www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily <samladybugs@comcast.net>
Tacoma, w USA - Sunday, May 18, 2003 3:45 AM CDT
My prayers are with you.
Anita Moore mother of Holly
Sikeston, MO - Sunday, May 18, 2003 1:16 AM CDT
Jalen sweetheart,
Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers....we will be storming the Heavens with prayers for your complete healing, that the Protocel will start to do it's job and kick some serious cancer butt! We will keep you in our thoughts and pray so hard for you to be comfortable and pain free....big hugs sweet baby...
Tracey, Steve, Quinn and Cally xoxoxox <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, Ab, Canada, - Sunday, May 18, 2003 0:59 AM CDT
Its been a few days since I checked in and I just wanted you to know that we're still praying over here. I can't imagine how you are feeling right now but I will say special prayers in agreement with you for Jalen's miraculous healing.
We can pray and God can do the rest!
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Saturday, May 17, 2003 10:07 PM CDT
MY HEART & PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU. I CANT BEGIN TO IMAGINE HOW YOU ARE FEELING, BUT AS YOU SAID, HE IS IN GODS HANDS & WITH GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE, GOD BLESS YOU, JERRY (SETHS GRANDMA)
JERRY ATWELL (SETH'S GRANDMA)
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 9:36 PM CDT
oh God I am so sorry. I had no idea, I thought things had taken a turn for the better. I wish I knew why these kids go through all of this, I wish I knew it wasnt for nothing, I wish I could understand the unfairness of it all. Please know we are all praying for you guys.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site ~
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 8:50 PM CDT
We will pray that Jalen gets a total healing, like you have requested! God is good, and hopefully, He can spare Jalen for awhile longer. Peace, and Prayers, 4/J's
Julie (jeffery's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <JulieSample1@aol.com>
Jax., Fl USA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 3:44 PM CDT
Dear sweet Jalen, and his sad Mommy and Daddy,
I'm praying as hard as I can for you. You have a beautiful, special little boy, and I know you love him fiercely. Jalen, I wish you peace, freedom from pain, and a MIRACLE!!
Long distance hugs,
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Saturday, May 17, 2003 3:28 PM CDT
We are praying for your family...It breaks my heart to hear any bad news about any of these children. Joey likes to check in on Jalen alot because his baby brother's name is Jalen. We will be thinking of you and hoping for a miracle..they really do happen.
Joey Wynn and family www.caringbridge.org/mt/joeywynn
Whitefish, MT - Saturday, May 17, 2003 3:08 PM CDT
I wish my words could ease your pain but I know that's impossible. Just know that we are all praying for Jalen to be healed and I hope you can take some comfort in knowing that we are with you in spirit and in prayer.
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Saturday, May 17, 2003 2:21 PM CDT
Hello Jeanette,
I write this with a heavy heart. just two days ago I finally met your little man in person.He looked like he was getting so much better. I am sorry that there are no words i can say to you to ease the anxiety and pain your feeling today.We will pray for your family and for healing. And remember miracles do happen!
Audra
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 2:09 PM CDT
You and Jalen are in our prayers. We are praying for something good to happen. I can not even begin to imagine what your going thru but I pray for you to have the strength to help fight this terrible disease. It's not fair for such a beautiful child to be stricken with such a horrible illness.
Kathy Lou and Nicholas <imprints2003@aol.com>
PA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 2:00 PM CDT
You are in my prayers!!!1
Seth's Aunt Dori
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 10:54 AM CDT
It is with a very heavy heart I read your latest journal update. It was like being slapped. I'm so sorry and can say nothing but that I'm praying and hoping for that miracle. God bless you Jalen's mommy.
Love,
Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 10:10 AM CDT
Oh, Jeanette, I pray everyday for a miracle to happen with little Jalen. I know you do too. You are an awesome Mommy and I even pray little things like that he will say "MaMa" for you. I am sorry I have seemed so out of touch lately but know I am constantly praying for you guys and thinking about you. I was hoping that no updates would be a good sign but then I just read your update and I wish so much there was something that would just come new to the market, some type of a trial drug and it would work with Jalen. He is so strong and such a fighter. You should be so proud of him and I know you are. I love you guys and will be checking on you. Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 9:58 AM CDT
Jeanette
Hang in there. God will help you. Jalen is a miracle.
We love you!
Zac & Natalee
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 9:38 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with Jalen and his family.
Linda
Shelby Twp., MI - Saturday, May 17, 2003 9:36 AM CDT
Hi, Jalen! I have been following your story for a while, and you are such a wonderful courageous child. God will help you and your family through these tough times. He will take care of you. My thoughts are with you.
Amanda <mrlynr1110@aol.com>
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 8:37 AM CDT
Prayers are being said as I write this for Jalen and your entire family. Do your best to be calm and relaxed and find a way to enjoy every moment with Jalen today. My prayers for you include a clear vision and a peaceful spirit.
Jan Cairnes - friends of Seth <cairnes@bellsouth.net>
West Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, May 17, 2003 7:13 AM CDT
My special friends Zac and Natalee tell me you need prayers. You have them. A lot of them. I have had experience with the cancer taking a loved one and I can feel your pain. Trust in God that he knows what he is doing and that he will take care of your little Jalen. Have faith that miracles do happen.
God bless you and your family. Mine is all praying for you.
Bille Crane <cranesnester@aol.com>
West Palm Beach , Fl USA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 6:57 AM CDT
You're all in my thoughts and prayers. I'll be emailing you privately in a moment. I also hate cancer...it just seems to take and take and take.
With heavy heart
Christy Fitzpatrick...Angel Jordyn's Mommy www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Saturday, May 17, 2003 0:15 AM CDT
I am so sorry. I hope he pulls a big suprise for you. I wish God would give me an answer when I ask him why. I wish he would answer sombody. I wish I knew what else to say. Wagons are good. And so are ice chips.
Cheryl <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, May 17, 2003 0:15 AM CDT
I am so sorry that things are not turning out the wasy we all hoped. You can still get a miracle. I am holding you all in my prayers. God be with you and give you the strength to to get through this tuff time.
Much Love,
Kim
Kim Watts www.taylorwatts.org
McCalla, Al - Friday, May 16, 2003 10:54 PM CDT
It's been almost a week and I'm praying all is well. I hope you're just too busy holding, playing and being with that little peanut to update! Have a good weekend.
Love,
Deirdre <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
- Friday, May 16, 2003 7:09 PM CDT
I think of your family often. I admire your strength, faith and courage. How blessed you are to have those things t get you through your trials. I am also fortunate because i have the same blessings that have gotten me through my son's illness and loss.
Irregardless of Jalen's outcome, your family has suffered a huge loss due to his illness but also....what a remarkable gift in him. The greates gift of all is a child. No matter how long you have them, they are truly what makes everything worthwhile
Take care and know that I'm praying for you
Sharon Dubes <dubes@mmc.org>
Gray, Me - Friday, May 16, 2003 6:35 PM CDT
Just a short take to let you know that we are still praying for Jalen. Keep strong, 4/J's
Julie (jeffery's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <JulieSample1@aol.com>
Jax., Fl USA - Thursday, May 15, 2003 10:40 PM CDT
Hi Jalen & Jeanette!
I am praying for GOOD NEWS guys!!! I hope Jalen is getting better each day and that he's comfortable...all my prayers are with you...hang in there!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Love & prayers,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Thursday, May 15, 2003 6:42 PM CDT
Just checking in. Glad to hear of your good progress. Hang in there!
Laura Ladd
Orlando, FL - Thursday, May 15, 2003 6:30 PM CDT
What a tough little guy. And a strong mommy. I hope all the test results come back with good news.
The Hurd Family <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
Oakley, Ut - Thursday, May 15, 2003 3:55 PM CDT
I am praying for you little baby! Love, Tracy and Katia
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Thursday, May 15, 2003 2:00 PM CDT
Jalen, you and your family are being held in prayer and love by the Church of the Good Shepherd in Tequesta, (Barbara Abernathy's church). God bless, keep and heal you.
Wendy Williams
Tequesta, Fl - Thursday, May 15, 2003 10:55 AM CDT
Hey buddy!
How have you been? Hopefully great! If not, feel better right away, okay? I have to go to hospital again soon. :-( So, if you don't hear from me, don't worry, I'll be back really soon!!!! Remember I love you and stay well! Huggles (haha a new word) MJ - www.caringbridge.com/ny/mjpurk
Your new buddy MJ <TWEETYROLL88@aol.com>
- Wednesday, May 14, 2003 11:03 PM CDT
thinking of you... Love, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Wednesday, May 14, 2003 8:49 PM CDT
Jalen, We have been reading about you and praying for him to get better. Hopefully the bumps are nothing and we are praying for that too. Good Luck and God Bless!! You are in our prayers! Make sure to get that much needed mommy time! You deserve it.
Kathy Lou and Nicholas <imprints2003@aol.com>
PA - Wednesday, May 14, 2003 8:07 PM CDT
I pray that God puts his hands on Jalen and pray that the lumps are exactly that, just a lump no bad stuff!! I pray also to keep you strong, I am sure Jalen is smiling on the inside when he sees his mommy! God give wisdom to these doctors to find a cure for this beautiful little angel.
Tonya Roth
Jacksonville, Fl - Wednesday, May 14, 2003 11:07 AM CDT
Hello everyone! Give us an update on how the test came out. We are all praying that its nothing of much concern. I hope Jalen is not hurting as much. Keep fighting little one!!! As for you Jeanette and Dale KEEP THE FAITH!!! Stick together and you will both see how better your baby will be!!!XOXOXOXO
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Wednesday, May 14, 2003 5:38 AM CDT
Jalen, sweetie!
I am thinking of you...just wanted to say hello :) Hang in there and keep fighting little man...you're are such an inspiration to me..
Jeanette, I pray that you are hanging in there with your little boy...I hope that there's good news with his scans...I'm always thinking of you and praying for your family!! Keep strong :)
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Love & hugs,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Wednesday, May 14, 2003 0:56 AM CDT
Hi! I have not been able to check your site in several days but am glad your baby is doing well.
Continue to get better......!!!
Shiela
~NY~ USA!!! - Tuesday, May 13, 2003 8:51 PM CDT
Hey Jalen! This is Lindsey. I am glad that your mom got some "mommy time", she probaly needed some time to get things she needed. I hope you are doing much much better today. Keeping you in my prayers! Smile alwayz:)
Lindsey Goins <www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole - SIGN THE GUESTBOOK!!!!!>
Ridgeway - Henry County, Va USA - Tuesday, May 13, 2003 6:47 PM CDT
Hi
Haven't checked in for a few days so just wanted you to know that Jalen is still in our prayers. Hope the bumps prove to be nothing of concern.
I'm glad that you were able to have some "mommy" time on Mother's Day.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman , Cayman Islands - Tuesday, May 13, 2003 3:22 PM CDT
Jeanette and Jalen, I pray for you guys constantly and I really pray Jalen will get free from that pain! Poor little baby and I know this must just break your heart, Jeanette. I am so glad you can hold him and entertain him more now. I know that is much needed for both of you. I sent you some calling cards but they came back saying the patient is no longer there so email me:)
Anyway, I just want you to know that although I am not by here as much, you guys are on my mind and in my prayers even more. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
- Tuesday, May 13, 2003 2:34 PM CDT
I sincerelly hope that he gets better soon and that the bumps go away, maybe it is just a side effect of some drug.
Warm hugs from Brazil.
Rose
- Tuesday, May 13, 2003 2:18 PM CDT
Praying you find out all that is bothering that poor pumpkin this week, and get it all taken care of. How wonderful you were able to hold him for Mother's Day, what a very special gift.
Love,
Deirdre
- Tuesday, May 13, 2003 8:20 AM CDT
Hello sweet Jalen :)
I just wanted to say HELLO! I'm so glad mummy got to hold you on Mother's Day! What a great present that must've been :) I will be praying for you, sweetie...hope those bumps aren't anything serious!!! Keep strong and brave, little man...I am always thinking of you..
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Love & prayers,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, May 12, 2003 9:30 PM CDT
Jalen
We will lift you up in prayer to our loving God this evening and ask that he takes all of your extra bumps away. We will also ask him to help you feel better. I know that your Mommy is so sad that you are irritable and she can't always get you settled down. It will be so wonderful when you can smile and laugh for her and she can see your beautiful eyes without any swelling present.
When God speaks things happen and when He is on our side, we need not fear!
Hebrews 13:6 "So we say with confidence, "The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?"
Jesus loves you and so do we.
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Monday, May 12, 2003 7:39 PM CDT
Happy Mother's Day to one of the finest mother's I know. I am so happy that you are out of the PICU and back to the deluxe accomodations of 02 Peds! Next stop~~HOME! Jalen- Zac will be so excited to come see you. We'll stop by after our Dr. appt tomorrow. Keep up the good work!
You are ALWAYS in our thoughts and prayers.
Love Zac and Natalee
- Monday, May 12, 2003 10:33 AM CDT
Happy Mother's Day!!
Susan Wensel
- Monday, May 12, 2003 9:35 AM CDT
praying that you get some good news from jalen test, well check back soon
nicky
- Monday, May 12, 2003 7:49 AM CDT
Happy Mothers Day! At least you guys made it to the second floor. That must mean something good. I hope your pain gets better little man. We are all still praying and you'll see how you will start to feel better soon. XOXOXOXO
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Monday, May 12, 2003 6:12 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette,
I hope that you had a great Mother's Day today, I saw you on O2Peds today. I wanted to say hello but I didn't want to bother you.I'm glad to know that Jalen is doing better. God is blessing his precious angel. God Bless you, Jalen, Dale, and the rest of your family. I pray that God heals him of this in Jesus name, for God said that whatever we ask for in Jesus name it shall be done. For nothing is impossible for God.
Candace Bannister
Riviera Beach, Fl United States - Sunday, May 11, 2003 9:19 PM CDT
I'll be praying that you get nothing but GOOD NEWS!
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Sunday, May 11, 2003 9:01 PM CDT
I AM PRAYING THINGS ARE GOING WELL:) I HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A GREAT MOTHER'S DAY. LOVE, TRACY AND KATIA
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
TRACY SOLOMON
- Sunday, May 11, 2003 5:16 PM CDT
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! Hugs
Mary Lee (www.caringbridge.com/mn/davis.leukemia)
- Sunday, May 11, 2003 5:10 PM CDT
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY !!! I hope this day finds you preparing for transplant....
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Sunday, May 11, 2003 11:52 AM CDT
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY to you Jeanette!! Enjoy your special day with your precious baby Jalen!! He is such a cutie. What a blessing to be a mommie. God Bless you all. Hugs and kisses to you both.
Bea <bumblebee1955@hotmail.com>
E, Pa - Sunday, May 11, 2003 11:49 AM CDT
Hello Jeanette,
Hope you have a wonderful Mother's Day!
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Sunday, May 11, 2003 10:55 AM CDT
Dearest Jeanette :)
I just wanted to come by and wish you a very HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! I know this mother's day is extra special to you because your baby is doing so much better and you hold and hug him on this very special day!!! My heart is smiling and dancing for you!! You really are such a wonderful and caring mother...Jalen is so lucky to have you as his mummy...I hope you feel extra special today... you deserve every bit of it!! Have a nice day :)
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Lots of Mother's Day love,
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, May 11, 2003 2:37 AM CDT
Jalen you are in are thoughts and prayers every day.Happy Mothers Day Janette.
Tom Monteferrante <tdcnmonte@yahoo.com>
Merritt Island, Fl USA - Saturday, May 10, 2003 10:48 PM CDT
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!
Love,
The Doctor Famiy Zackie's page
Dana Doctor
- Saturday, May 10, 2003 10:42 PM CDT
***********************HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!*******************
I hope that Jalen is keeping you BUSY and that is why we have not heard from you in a bit!!!! Have a great day tomorrow! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, May 10, 2003 10:27 PM CDT
Just checking in. We were glad to see that he is behaving more like himself. I hope and pray that everything is well with Jalen since there has been no update in the last few days. No news is good news, right?
Love & Prayers,
Lynne (www.caringbridge.org/nc/mitchellmartin)
Taylorsville, NC - Saturday, May 10, 2003 9:10 PM CDT
Hey Jalen. I'm Lindsey. Hope you are doing better and better. Keeping you in my prayers. Smile alwayz:) Happy Mother's Day Jalens mom!
Lindsey Goins <Visit my page and sign the guestbook-www.caringbridge.org/va/lindseynicole>
Ridgeway (Henry County), Va USA - Saturday, May 10, 2003 8:22 PM CDT
Hey there baby Jalen
We've been praying for you! I hope that you're still doing better and better day by day. We've been praying for you.
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Saturday, May 10, 2003 9:15 AM CDT
Just stopping by to check up on Jalen. Hope and Prayers go out to your family! We will pray for his blood pressure, and hopefully he'll stop vomiting too. God Bless you all, 4/J's
Julie (jeffery's mom)www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <JulieSample1@aol.com>
Jax., Fl USA - Saturday, May 10, 2003 1:30 AM CDT
I am praying everything is still improving each day and Jalen will be up and playing soon in the halls:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Friday, May 9, 2003 11:30 AM CDT
You haven't had an update in several days now. I am sure that little Jalen is keeping you quite busy. Just hoping that no news is good news. Continued thoughts and prayers are being sent your way.
Heather Rabon
Galivants Ferry, SC USA - Friday, May 9, 2003 8:32 AM CDT
EXTRA, EXTRA HEALING PRAYERS!!!!
Have a super duper day :)
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Lots of love,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Friday, May 9, 2003 1:40 AM CDT
Hi. What a beautiful and brave little baby you have! And what a brave mommy you are. My little girl had that same pacifier for a bit. Now she has a neon yellow and orange one! She calls it her 'lye'. I have no idea why. I read the update. I hope they can get his blood pressure figured out soon! Our love and hope from this family to yours.
visit Aisalynns sight if you get a chance
http://www.caringbridge.org/ut/fti
Cheryl Hurd <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
Oakley, Ut - Friday, May 9, 2003 0:06 AM CDT
Hi Jalen! I know you're getting stronger every day, just keep it up, little man!
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Thursday, May 8, 2003 8:49 PM CDT
Hi Janette....
Love, Kim & Kody
~KODYS STORY~
- Thursday, May 8, 2003 12:28 AM CDT
My 12 year old daughter saw the picture of Jalen on this site and could not get over how cute he was and how young he was to be so sick. I agree. Hope all is going well this week. We are thinking of you and praying and stop by the site several times a day!
Love,
Deirdre
- Thursday, May 8, 2003 6:45 AM CDT
We signed the guestbook a couple of weeks ago, & read Jalen's web page. We are happy to see Jalen's progress. He is in our prayers every day.
Ruth & Steve <srmakish@aol.com>
Boca Raton, FL USA - Thursday, May 8, 2003 6:14 AM CDT
Jalen sweetie,
I hope everything is going well and that you're still doing better and better...I'm just a little worried because your mummy hasn't updated!! I'm crossing my fingers and toes...and doing lots of praying too!!!! I love ya, cutie!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Hugs & kisses,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Thursday, May 8, 2003 0:39 AM CDT
Hi Jalen so sorry you aren't feeling real well baby, I will be praying for you, and what a cute moment mommy wrote about. I am Sky with QOL and will be stopping in frequently to see how you are. love & kisses.
Angel Sky
- Wednesday, May 7, 2003 10:23 PM CDT
Hi Janette!
How is little guy? Are you in still in PICU? Please let me know, I would like to call you.
Savanah is doing well. Her spirits go up and down, but her pain is much better. I still can't get her out of the house. Tomorrow we are are going to Dr. Gowda in the AM for an appt. I will try to find you so maybe I can stop in, but I know how you get your rest in the AM.
I'm thinking of you, keep in touch!
Tracy
- Wednesday, May 7, 2003 7:41 PM CDT
Hi Jalen,
This is Lindsey. I wrote you on 5/2/03. Sorry your stomach hurts. I was glancing through your guestbook and you have a lot of quilts. They are cute. If you don't know Jacob Deal he has Burkitt's leukimia. Well let me sort of refrase that he did have Burkitt's leukimia and got to go home. Now, he got sick and went to Roanoke Comunity hospital. They did a spinal tap and found 1 cancer cell. He has been having soooo much faith. PLEASE PRAY FOR HIM. JUST TAKE A MOMENT AND PRAY. He has been through to much. His site is www.caringbridge.org/va/jacob, if you write in his guestbook it will mean alot to him. Keeping you in my prayers. Bye cutie.
Lindsey Goins <goinst@ntelos.net>
Ridgeway (Henry County), Va USA - Wednesday, May 7, 2003 4:24 PM CDT
Just checking on you guys!
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy and Katia
- Wednesday, May 7, 2003 2:27 PM CDT
Just checking in on Jalen. Glad to hear the little buddy is doing better. I will pray hard that your blood pressure and your stomach get better real soon. I am so glad that your mommy got her a kiss. I am sure it just made her whole week.
Tonya Roth
Jacksonville, Fl - Wednesday, May 7, 2003 7:06 AM CDT
You cute little guy I am praying you just keep getting better and better and keep hugging and kissing your mommy cause she loves it so much!
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Tuesday, May 6, 2003 10:33 PM CDT
OOOOOH! I am so happy he is feeling better! You must have just about melted when he "smacked" his mommy!!! You really must have! I hope that when I get on again tomorrow there is a new update stating that he has done some more amazing things for you all! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Tuesday, May 6, 2003 8:38 PM CDT
Just checking back on you, I am so glad your baby has been able to kiss you, I will keep praying really hard for baby Jalen, for his blood pressure to stay down and for his tummy to feel better.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Tuesday, May 6, 2003 3:53 PM CDT
Oh to hold and give kisses to that little Pun'kin' head!! He's a cutie!
Love,
Deirdre
- Tuesday, May 6, 2003 1:05 PM CDT
He is extremelly cute and you are a very sweet mother, you will probably need to use a bib not to wet your blouses - hahahaha. Praying for his blood pressure to go back to normal level. Warm hugs from Brazil.
Rose
- Tuesday, May 6, 2003 12:53 AM CDT
Give your mommy a kiss for me, too, Jalen!
Can't wait until you're out of the PICU!
Love, Zac & Mommy
- Tuesday, May 6, 2003 12:15 AM CDT
Jalen
I was thinking of you and decided to check in . No new updates yet but I am still praying for your FULL RECOVERY!!!! To Jeanette and Dale give us a new update since Sunday. How is he? Any more cute things happening? I love to hear those! Take care all of you and God bless!
xoxoxox!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Tuesday, May 6, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
<3 <3 <3 Hi Jalen <3 <3 <3
So happy to hear that you are doing better and your mommy finally got to hold you. Keep up the good work!
Love to you all,
Nic, Mark, Amy & Tom Kassar
www.caringbridge.com/fl/tom
www.thekassars.com/tom
* * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
Nic Kassar <nic@thekassars.com>
Orlando, FL - Tuesday, May 6, 2003 11:22 AM CDT
Hey Jalen!
PRAYING, PRAYING, PRAYING!!! What else am I doing?? YES, PRAYING!!! Can't wait to hear more good news and more cute lil things that you do :) Keep fighting, sweetie...you really are one tough little man...have a nice day!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Tuesday, May 6, 2003 7:38 AM CDT
Hi Jalen, I'm so excited to hear that you are feeling better! I will keep praying for you to get that blood pressure down and no more tummy aches! Keep being a brave little boy!
Ashley Patterson
- Monday, May 5, 2003 4:10 PM CDT
I just had to stop by and leave a special gift to celebrate summer! love ^A^ Toto 
^A^ Toto
- Monday, May 5, 2003 2:56 PM CDT
WAY TO GO SWEET JALEN,
Glad to hear you are doing a little better. You are one little fighter. We will keep praying for you.LOTS OF HUGS!!
sam (aaryns mommy) www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily
- Monday, May 5, 2003 12:09 AM CDT
Great news is always great to hear. Keep up the great work little one. I hope your stomach feels better and that your blood pressure gets back to normal soon. I know i dont have to tell you but we are all still praying for you !
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Monday, May 5, 2003 8:49 AM CDT
I LOVE YOU, JALEN!! I AM SO HAPPY YOU ARE DOING THINGS. KISSING YOUR MOMMY MADE HER DAY I AM SURE, HER MONTH!!! TAKE GOOD CARE AND KATIA SENDS YOU A BIG HUG AND KISS!
LOVE, TRACY
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
TRACY SOLOMON
- Monday, May 5, 2003 8:37 AM CDT
Progress.... such a WONDERFUL thing. I am so happy for you all. I pray the pressure gets better with everything else.
Dawn M
, - Monday, May 5, 2003 6:41 AM CDT
OK ya have to teach me how you do all the cool graphics when you sign kid's guest books....
So glad your sweet little man is doing better. I have another care package (I know he can't eat some of it but mommy and daddy can)that I will send over with one of the folks from the POST.
We will keep praying for all of you.....
Hope that blood pressure gets down to normal and stays there so you can get back to the 2nd floor.
Much Peace Prayers Love and HOPE for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Monday, May 5, 2003 5:38 AM CDT
Okay Jeanette...it is OFFICIAL that you have the cutest baby EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!! YESSS!! Oh he is such a cutie, I was REALLY smiling from ear to ear while reading your update. I cannot be happier with his progress (gosh I sound like a doctor or something????). But seriously, he has come such a long way!! I am so proud of him!!! And I am so proud of you too, you have been the best mummy ever. Cutest baby, best mummy...wow you're grabbing all the great titles here! :) I'll be praying even more for cutie Jalen...I know he still needs to get better to get out of PICU...but the way everything is going, I just know that he will be busting out of there soon!! You guys are always in my thoughts!! Loveeeeeee ya!!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Cute hugs & kisses,
XOXOXOXOX
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, May 5, 2003 0:50 AM CDT
Jalen,
Darling, what a marvelous day yesterday when your Mommy got to hold you in her loving arms. I bet that was the best nap you have gotten in a long time, huh?
I pray that your tummy gets settled down soon and that the new sores on your neck do not cause you any discomfort. I thank God that you are getting a bit more strength back each day and that it continues.
You have a good night, honey, and I hope your Mommy gets some good sleep, too.
Love in Christ
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, s u - Sunday, May 4, 2003 8:22 PM CDT
I love to cuddle my son as often as I can. I can't imagine not being able to hold him and squeeze him tightly, so hearing that you are able to hold Jalen again after so long is just wonderful news!!
Keep fighting, beautiful boy!!
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Sunday, May 4, 2003 8:12 PM CDT
So happy things are improving for Jalen, and especially that mom got to hold him!! Praying for continued improvement and strength.
Debbie Nagy
Manchester/ St. Louis, MO - Sunday, May 4, 2003 6:59 PM CDT
Hey Janette! I finally got in the computer this afternoon. I love Jalen's page!
Savanah is checking out soon. I hope all is well with you. I will keep you in my thoughts and i will call soon.
Tracy <tbfc14@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, May 4, 2003 1:55 PM CDT
Jalen sweetie!
I pray that you're still improving each day, sweetheart!! You are such a gorgeous boy...lately I've been so happy with your improvement and all the cute lil things you do!! I bet you haven't stopped being cute...YEAH! I wish I was there to see you and give you a BIG kiss...well since I am too far away, I will just have to send you butterfly kisses from where I am..and they are SUPER-SPECIAL butterfly kisses because they are travelling from afar, crossing oceans and continents...they are specially for you, sweetie pie!!! I will pray harder for you, I promise!! I know God is watching over you, sweetie and that you have a very special guardian angel sitting on your shoulder taking care of you...please hang in there, little man!! I am so proud of you :)
Jeanette, I know you must be over the moon with Jalen's progress...he is a true fighter...WOW, what an amazing little fella you have... :)
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Extra special butterfly kisses for Jalen,
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOOXOXXO
XOXOXOOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOOXO----> And some for mummy too!!
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, May 4, 2003 6:44 AM CDT
Jeanette, I really missed checking on Jalen the last 2 or 3 days:( I need to check back like I was. I am SOOOOO happy you were able to hold him and the "tempy" thing was so cute! I pray for his pain to go away. I know how bad he must hurt but I am sure he feels so much better with you as you do with him. I am glad you got some rest on a REAL bed!!! I used to come home, shower and get in my jammies no matter what time we came home from the hospital and go to bed early. I will pray his blood pressure stay down and things only go up from here. Are the doctors pleased with his progress? To me, it sounds like Jalen is doing really well and responding well for his age? Well, email me when you can and know that I love you guys and pray for you and I promise I will check more often:) PS Thank you for the ladybug card! That made my day, Jeanette:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Sunday, May 4, 2003 2:44 AM CDT
I am SOOOO happy you got to hold Jalen! What a HUGE relief it must be to "cuddle" him.:) ;)AND.. THE REAL BED!!! NICE! SOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU!! :) Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, May 3, 2003 10:39 PM CDT
So glad that you got to hold your precious baby again, I will continue to keep praying very very hard for Jalen and all of your family.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Saturday, May 3, 2003 3:52 PM CDT
What a joy it must be to hold that baby again!!! I'm still praying for more progress... in every area.
Stay strong and get some rest!
Dawn M
Wake Forest , NC - Saturday, May 3, 2003 8:53 AM CDT
Hi Jennett & Jalen,
I'm glad for you & Jalen right now. I've been praying
for you all. We met a few times in O2peds. You & Jalen
take care, & we will continue to pray for his strengh
and yours. Love, Cathy & Shawn Reed & family
Cathy <cjshuttlemom@aol.com>
fp, fl usa - Saturday, May 3, 2003 8:03 AM CDT
Just wanted to let you know that I have read your story about beutiful Jalen and although my 2 year old daughter has ALL and not AML there are so many things I read were I know exactly how you feel as we are going through similar challenges fighting this tough fight to keep our child alive.
I have prayed for Jalen's recovery and for your strength to help him through it all. I will keep checking in here to see how things are going.
All the best
Love from Mia ( and Anika 2)
Mia <sissca@primus.com.au>
Brisbane, Qld Australia - Saturday, May 3, 2003 5:57 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette!
I am so happy you got to finally hold Jalen again!! I knew this day would come and I cannot be happier for you :) I'm sure it must've been the greatest moment...I really am praying my hardest for that precious little boy of yours.. he really is such an angel and I'm so glad that he is doing better each day...I know that he still needs a lot of prayers and I'm so positive that everyone out here is praying for him!! I will keep praying until I know Jalen is better for good...and I can't wait for that day to come :) He is such a little miracle boy...you guys have a great weekend :)
GO JALEN GO!!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Special prayers,
XOXOXOO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Saturday, May 3, 2003 3:36 AM CDT
We are praying for Jalen. We are also praying for you and your family. Hang in there. I know it is easier said than done but get your rest.
Much Peace Prayers Love and Hope for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Saturday, May 3, 2003 1:51 AM CDT
Hi Jalen I sure hope you are feeling better sending lots of love and prayers your way! ^A^ Toto
This one is from my grandson Cameron who sends big hugs your way!
^A^ Toto & Cameron
- Friday, May 2, 2003 9:34 PM CDT
OK I was number 16,000 to visit Jalen's site....and you only started it in late November....lots of people care about you and your family.
Just dropping in to say hello!
Sending much Love, Peace, Prayers and HOPE for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Friday, May 2, 2003 5:50 PM CDT
Jalen & Jeanette, Just dropping by before the weekend to let you know I'm still thinking about you and praying for you.
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Friday, May 2, 2003 5:32 PM CDT
Hi Jalen! You look so precious! My name is Lindsey. I am 12 years old. I looked in your photo album and just looking at you wanted to make me cry with joy! Glad you are doing great! I am going to start to write you. I'm glad your mom is great. Our God is an awesome God! I love him! I am keeping you and your family in my prayers! Bye! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
Lindsey Nicole Goins
Ridgeway (Henry County), VA USA - Friday, May 2, 2003 4:46 PM CDT
Keep up the good work Jalen...we are all praying so hard for you to get better quick so Mommy and you can go home.
Love, Kim & Kody
~KODYS STORY~
- Friday, May 2, 2003 4:16 PM CDT
I am so hoping that, if not today, then soon, you can hold your baby in your arms! Glad to hear the bleeding stopped. Our hugs and love from us to you guys!
Cheryl Hurd <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
Oakley, Ut - Friday, May 2, 2003 3:09 PM CDT
Praying that Jalen is still improving and that mom is able to hold him today.
Debbie Nagy
Manchester /St. Louis, MO - Friday, May 2, 2003 12:13 AM CDT
Yay Jalen!! Glad to hear of the good day! Sounds like you made your mommy really happy. We are thinking of you all the time and sending lots of prayers!!
Joey Wynn and family www.caringbridge.org/mt/joeywynn
Whitefish, MT - Friday, May 2, 2003 12:00 AM CDT
Go Jalen Go!!! You sound like a cutie!! Mommy must have lots of fun with you. You continue to get better so mommy can make plans for you and her to have some fun!! Prays are with you all.
Densie Roberts (caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <dndtwins1@usadatanet.net>
Bridgeport, NY USA - Friday, May 2, 2003 8:31 AM CDT
I am so glad to see that jalen is doing better I pray that it continues and you can see his beautiful smile every day and hold him and squeeze him and just love him. He is such a fighter. You and your son have taught so many so much, THANK_YOU. I will never take another day for granted with my children. I just wish that jalen or any other kid would NOT have to go through any of this. Take care and give your boy a kiss from all of us that are not lucky enough to "know you" but we do get to feel a part of your journey and hope that someday we can do somthing to help.GOD BLESS you all. Until next time thank-you for sharing your beautiful boy with all of us.
love, nicole, lexi, jon, orion w. <nicole54660@msn.com>
wi - Friday, May 2, 2003 8:13 AM CDT
Hello Jalen!!
I hope the days get better and better for you...I'm still thinking of you and praying SOOO hard for you :) You are a little miracle!!! Keep visiting my website!! Love you all!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Special hugs & kisses,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Friday, May 2, 2003 2:45 AM CDT
Jalen,
What great news--no more bleeding in your beautiful little head plus some of the blood is resolving!! Praise the Lord for His great wonders. He is healing you one day at a time. I pray that tomorrow is the big day for Mommy so she can hold you close in her arms and sing some soothing lullabys to you. I bet she squeezes you real tight and you will just love it won't you?
Remember: You and God are partners in this day!
1 Kings 8:23 "O Lord...keep your covenant of love with your servants who continue wholeheartedly in your way."
Good night angel.
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Friday, May 2, 2003 0:38 AM CDT
JALEN HAS TEN LITTLE FINGERS AND TEN LITTLE TOES, AND HE SHALL MAKE *MUSIC* WHEREVER HE GOES. PRAY YOU WILL BE HUGGING EACH OTHER VERY SOON. YOUR LAST UPDATE, MADE ME SMILE, AS I THOUGHT OF JALEN SMILING BACK AT YOU. WE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU. GOD BLESS YOU.
AUNT JULE & UNCLE ED
FOLCROFT, PA USA - Friday, May 2, 2003 0:31 AM CDT
Hi Guys! Stopping by from the coast of NC to See how things are. Looks like I got here just in time to read some good news! Not having kids, those 'toe kisses' sure sound pretty special!!! Hope there's continued progress, and they can get the meds balanced. Take care, and God Bless †
Tom <WerbeRacing@aol.com>
Kill Devil Hills, NC www.caringbridge.org/ks/dianekeel - Friday, May 2, 2003 0:05 AM CDT
Jalen & Jeanette,
I am so glad to read your great update!! God is such an awesome Miracle Worker! Keep your faith and I will pray that special little boy continues to improve! Praise God!
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Thursday, May 1, 2003 5:28 PM CDT
I hope Jalen is continuing to improve ! I will continue to pray for your little fighter.. He's a cutie. Lots of love and prayers from Denver
PAm <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Thursday, May 1, 2003 3:25 PM CDT
May Jalen just smile more and more everyday and you WILL be holding your sweet baby very soon, I'm sure! Praying for you especially today on this Nat'l Day of Prayer.
Debbie Nagy
Manchester/St. Louis, MO - Thursday, May 1, 2003 2:15 PM CDT
I pray you receive a smile or two from your precious baby today. Love and prayers sent your way from Houston. God bless you and your family.
JoAnn Baker <bakerjo1@hotmail.com>
Houston, Tx - Thursday, May 1, 2003 12:58 AM CDT
Hello - I came across Jalen's site through another child's site...Katia's, actually. Jalen is so adorable - I wanted to say hello and let you know your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenn Borjeson <JennBorj@aol.com>
Jefferson, MA www.hugsandhope.com - Thursday, May 1, 2003 10:22 AM CDT
Hi Jeanette!
It was so great to see you last night! Zac & I are so glad that Jalen is doing so well. Zac wants to see him sooo bad.
I was probably snoring away by the time you made it in to say hi to Zac, Sorry!
We miss you guys and are praying for you all the time!
Love Natalee & Zac
Just down the stairs and to the left in wonderful 02 Peds land!
- Thursday, May 1, 2003 9:54 AM CDT
Hi Jalen,
How're you doing sweetie? I hope that today is another improvement. Keep up the good work so your mommy can get her long awaited cuddle with you!
www.caringbridge.com/fl/tom
Nic <nic@thekassars.com>
Orlando, FL - Thursday, May 1, 2003 9:35 AM CDT
Jeanette, I know just how you felt when you got that smile. Isn't it amazing how the smallest thing can be such a huge blessing and gift.We continue to pray for you all, keep up the good work.
Sharon Picariello..www.caringbridge.org/page/dylansworld <SLDBP65@aol.com>
Port St. Lucie,, Fl... ...God Bless Jalen - Thursday, May 1, 2003 7:47 AM CDT
I am so thrilled to hear of your progress! Keep up the good progress and faith. One step at a time=) And have a great day.
Laura
Orlando, FL - Thursday, May 1, 2003 7:37 AM CDT
GO JALEN!!! GO JALEN!!! GOD IS SO GOOD! KEEP FIGHTING LITTLE ONE. AND DONT WORRY WE WILL KEEP ON PRAYING NIGHT AND DAY! I HOPE TO STOP BY SOON AND SEE YOU.I AM SENDING YOU AND YOUR PARENTS A BIG HUG AND KISS FROM MY FAMILY!!!
XOXOXOXO
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Thursday, May 1, 2003 6:47 AM CDT
Congratulations on a wonderful day (yesterday -- I should be sleeping right now but needed to check in on my CaringBridge families first!). :o)
God Bless you and your family. I will continue to pray for you.
Sincerely,
Shiela
NY USA!! - Thursday, May 1, 2003 0:47 AM CDT
Jalen,
Did you know that you made your Mommy the happiest lady in the world? I am so happy with your progress. I know she can't wait to hold you and hug you tight. Tell her to give you a kiss from me.
Debbie Little <littlecaleb@hotmail.com>
Dickson, TN - Thursday, May 1, 2003 0:32 AM CDT
I am so happy about Jalen's progress!! God definitely hears our cries!He can beat this darn ole stuff! Way to go Jalen!!
Tonya (Chassidy's mom) <www.caringbridge.org/il/chassidy>
- Wednesday, April 30, 2003 10:58 PM CDT
I am so glad you are seeing such progress. I know those smiles were as special as his first ever. I am so glad your days are looking brighter. You remain in my prayers.
Kim
Jim and Kim Watts http://www.taylorwatts.org
MC CALLA, AL. - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 10:44 PM CDT
GO JALEN!!! You are soooo awesome, and so is Mommy!!!!
We are so happy for you...what wonderful news! :0)
~Kim~
~KODYS STORY~
- Wednesday, April 30, 2003 9:33 PM CDT
I have never signed your guestbook before but the wonderful news today of Jalen's "smiles" brought tears to my eyes. I just wanted you to know that I have been checking on Jalen several times a day since I first became aware of his situation from another Caringbridge site. Your family is in my prayers daily. Keep it up, Sweet Beautiful Baby Boy!!!
Mikie from ALL-KIDS (www.caringbridge.org/tn/emily)
Bartlett, TN - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 9:07 PM CDT
YEA, YEA, YEA!! I LOVE THE TOE KISSING STAGE! MY SON WAS THAT WAY, LOVED HIS FEET TO BE KISSED! :) KISS THEM TOES FOR ME!:) ;)
TAKE CARE ANR REMAIN STRONG!!!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 9:04 PM CDT
Jalen,
You are a great fighter, keep getting better.
Robin
Robin (Bailees mom) <www.caringbridge.org/fl/bailee>
- Wednesday, April 30, 2003 9:00 PM CDT
Keep up the great work Jalen! We are all pulling for you.
And keep giving Mommy those smiles, she needs them right now.
Chemo Angel Lori
- Wednesday, April 30, 2003 7:45 PM CDT
Yahoo!! Go Jalen go!!
Love,
Deirdre
- Wednesday, April 30, 2003 7:17 PM CDT
What a wonderful thing to have your baby smile at you "twice". I pray that he continues to smile at you each and everyday. You are such a wonderful mother to that baby, I can tell by reading your words. God bless you and your family.
JoAnn Baker <bakerjo1@hotmail.com>
Houston, Tx - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 6:01 PM CDT
AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME!!!!!!
Hope you were able to see nurse Tracy today (after I talked to her).....I told her to give you a hug from me!!
We are so glad to hear that he is improving.
We will continue to pray for all of you...
Much Peace Prayers Love and Hope for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 4:37 PM CDT
I feel so badly when I think about you not being able to hold your baby, God, those parents that have lost children must just be dying inside to hold their child. Well, when you get your hands on him, give extra hugs for all of us out here watching his progress. Peace,and many Prayers for you and your family, from ours. 4/J's
Julie (jeffery's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <JulieSample1@aol.com>
Jax., Fl USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 4:28 PM CDT
I am so happy to hear today's positive news. I hope you get to hold him real soon :-)
Well done Jalen, keep up the good work!
Nic Kassar <nic@thekassars.com>
Orlando, Fl US - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 4:02 PM CDT
Your update was so uplifting I will continue to pray hard for Jalen particularly for his blood pressure to stay down, Jalen just keep doing what your doing,your a little hero.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 3:47 PM CDT
I AM SOOOO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS!!!
Keep up the good fight!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 3:45 PM CDT
Hi Jalen & Mommy - it is so wonderful to hear that Jalen continues to improve. I will continue to pray for him specificially for his blood pressure. Keep up the great work Jalen - Mommy can't wait for cuddles!
Jacqueline <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 2:38 PM CDT
Way to go Jalen,
Im so proud of you little guy. Keep on fighting. LOTS OF HUGS!!!!
sam kelly (www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily) <samladybugs@comcast.net>
Tacoma, WA USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
Hey cutie! Glad to hear things are going a little better for you. I will continue to keep you in my prayers for complete healing. I know you will be up and running around soon enough, I don't think your mom will be able to keep up. Keep up the good work buddy
Tonya Roth
Jacksonville, Fl - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 11:45 AM CDT
Hi Jalen & Jeanette!
Thanks a bunch for signing my guestbook guys!!! I was so happy to hear from you :) Jalen sweetie, I am so glad to hear that you are doing a little better...any positive sign is GREAT news and I just know that you will get better in time...even if you take little, tiny baby steps to recovery..I know you will pull through!! You are sooo strong...and I am so happy to hear that you're doign cute lil things too!! I can't wait for your mummy to pick you up and give you a BIG hug...when she can, I hope she gives you one from me :) I am still praying SOOO hard for you, buddy...thinking of you too!
Click here to visit Janice's Website
Hugs & kisses,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 9:29 AM CDT
I am soooo glad to hear that sweet Jalen is feeling better. What a wonderful feeling for you to see him improving. He is so cute. Let him know that tons of people are praying for and thinking about him
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 8:35 AM CDT
Kyle and I keep the faith that Jalen will recover. We will continue to pray for you and Jalen and all the children with cancer. CANCER STINKS.
Kathy Pacheco & Kyle Pacheco <caringbridge.org/fl/kylep>
Lake Worth, FL - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 7:54 AM CDT
What great news. I am glad Jalen is doing better. He has been in our prayers. Keep up the great work and I pray that you will get to hold Jalen soon. Every mother needs to hold their babies. Have a wonderful week and God Bless You and Jalen. Many prayers,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
- Wednesday, April 30, 2003 7:26 AM CDT
I am so glad that Jalen continues to be improving. Many prayers are headed your way. Stay strong and keep the faith.
Heather Rabon
Galivants Ferry, SC USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 7:15 AM CDT
I am so glad to hear that Jalen is doing better. You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless. I am praying extra hard so Jalen can say Mama. Have a Blessed day! I'll check on his progress late this week.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 6:55 AM CDT
YES!!!!! THATS WHAT WE WERE ALL PRAYER FOR. KEEP UP THE FIGHT LITTLE MAN. YOU ARE DOING GREAT. TO JEANETTE AND DALE ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE TRYING TO ARRANGE A LITTLE VISIT TO SEE JALEN SO I WILL CALL TO MAKE SURE HE CAN STILL GET VISITORS, IF THATS OK. GOD BLESS YOU ALL!XOXOXOX
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 6:49 AM CDT
Think of you always.........
Much Love, Peace, Prayers and Hope for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 5:56 AM CDT
Hey cutie pie,
Just got off of Katia's page and saw that you were doing better. I zoomed over to see for myself. Keep it up little guy and I pray that the good news continues. I hope mommy gets to hold you soon - she loves you sooooo much. Happy that you are able to enjoy your toes and watch cartoons - cartoons are fun to watch. What's your favorite? My favorite is the Flinstones, and my second favorite was the Jetson's - that was so long ago. It was one of the best in my day. You hang in there little guy - we are all praying for you. Praying very hard for you - I'll check back soon. God bless.
LOL
Diane <thevezz@aol.com>
San Francisco, CA USA - Wednesday, April 30, 2003 1:56 AM CDT
Praying for you tonight sweet Jalen.
Debbie Nagy
Manchester / St. Louis, MO - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 10:59 PM CDT
Jalen you are a special little boy! We pray for you and Mommy every day.
Joann De Libero <joann@sne.com>
Port Jefferson Station, NY USA - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 9:37 PM CDT
Hello! I just visited Katia Solomon's website and saw the link to your son's. I read a few of your prior entries, and it sure does sound encouraging that the bleeding has stopped and your son is off the ventilator. That must be tremendously difficult to see as a mother.
I will pray for you and your little baby. God Bless you and your family.
Sincerely,
Shiela
NY USA!! - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 9:06 PM CDT
Yeah! We are so glad to here that Jalen is off of the vent and doing a better. Mitchell did not like being restrained either. We will pray for Jalen's continue recovery and strength for your family.
Love & Prayers,
Lynne (www.caringbridge.org/nc/mitchellmartin
Taylorsville, NC - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 5:18 PM CDT
Hello little man! I hope everything is still going good. Jeanette or Dale please update us . What has happened since Sunday? Our prayers are still with you all. Give Jalen a hug and kiss from me and my family. We still light a candle every night and pray for him. God Bless you all!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 2:26 PM CDT
Just dropped by to see how things are and am so glad to hear that Jalen is off the vent..Praying with you that precious Jalen will continue to improve..Please know that I'll not stop praying as long as that sweet baby needs our prayers..Hugs Carolyn
Carolyn <carolynj52@ilovejesus.net>
Oklahoma - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 11:34 AM CDT
Little Jalen,
I hope Mama is able to hold you now and that you're feeling better and better all the time. God bless.
Love,
Deirdre
- Tuesday, April 29, 2003 7:51 AM CDT
Hi Jalen!
Still checking in on you..sometimes I check in more than once a day..just to make sure that you're okay...I'm praying all day everyday for you, sweetie! Please come and visit my website, it's kinda like my online journal and I update it regularly...so come and sign my guestmap!! :) You hang in there, buddy..I am thinking of you sooo much..
Click here to visit Janice's website
Hugs & kisses,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Tuesday, April 29, 2003 2:33 AM CDT
WOW JALEN,
I am so HAPPY you are doing better. My husband and I have been thinking about you EVERYDAY! We are so proud of you for being such a fighter. Keep fighting sweetie. Ill check on you again tomorrow of course. You are AMAZING!! Keeping you in our prayers little guy. You dont know me but I think you are one special little boy.
Sam Kelly (aaryns mommy) www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily <samladybugs@comcast.net>
Tacooma, Wa USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 11:08 PM CDT
You're doing great Jalen! Glad to hear the good news! Our thoughts and prayers are continually with you. We love you!
Kathy & Timmy Lawton
Port St Lucie, FL - Monday, April 28, 2003 11:02 PM CDT
Way to go Jalen! Keep being the fighter that we already know you are.
Debbie Nagy
- Monday, April 28, 2003 10:31 PM CDT
YEEEEAAA JALEN and MOM!!! I hope things continue to "look up" for you both!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:35 PM CDT
just wanted to stop by and say you have a beautiful little boy, and i will be praying for you all,
Angie B <angie24@app-net.com>
Logan, wva - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:21 PM CDT
Jalen is Amazing! Keep Healing and keep shining!
Dana Doctor Zackie's page
- Monday, April 28, 2003 7:09 PM CDT
Praying very hard!! Sent with big hugs and love,
Krista Iverson <krista.iverson@gepex.ge.com>
Ottawa, IL - Monday, April 28, 2003 4:42 PM CDT
Just checking on you guys:) Hope the day is going well. Love, Tracy
Tracy Solomon
- Monday, April 28, 2003 3:38 PM CDT
BETTER and BETTER, that is how he is going to get !
Don´t be afraid of thinking positively. It only helps. Special kisses from Brazil.
Rose
- Monday, April 28, 2003 3:16 PM CDT
AWESOME NEWS, Jalen! You GO little man! Stay mad and keep fighting!!!
Mom and Dad, I hope and pray that your little boy keeps getting better and better. Love love love that baby, as much as you can, and then some!!!
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Monday, April 28, 2003 2:25 PM CDT
What great news..You keep fighting Jalen and we will all keep praying.
God Bless
Sharon Picariello...www.caringbridge.org/page/dylansworld <SLDBP65@aol.com>
Port St. Lucie,, Fl. ...God Bless Jalen - Monday, April 28, 2003 1:26 PM CDT
Jalen you are amazing,keep going little man,everybody is praying soooo hard for you.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Monday, April 28, 2003 11:50 AM CDT
Hello to you. Kathie (from Lowville) mentioned you all on our page. Please know so many of us are praying for you right now. Sounds like you have been very busy. Hope you get to enjoy holding your little guy really soon.
Denise Roberts (caringbridge.org/ny/missaroberts) <dndtwins1@USAdatanet.net>
Bridgeport, NY USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 10:48 AM CDT
Hello sweetie!!
Go Jalen!!! YEAH!! I am so happy to hear the good news.. now I only pray that you will NEVER have to go back on the ventilator...I know you are frustrated, sweetie..but you are slowly getting better...soo many people are thinking of you and praying for you, God will just have to give you that miracle! And I think He is really listening :) You are a true fighter, Jalen...I am so proud of you...so proud of every little positive step that you make...you have come such a long way...I won't stop praying for you until I know you are safe and better for good :) Hang in there, little man!!!
Neverending hugs, kisses, love & prayers!!
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice <wine_chic@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, April 28, 2003 9:28 AM CDT
Jalen..you sound like a true fighter to me :0)
We love you.....
~Kim~
~KODYS STORY~
- Monday, April 28, 2003 9:28 AM CDT
Go God Go!!!!!
Miracles are the best. Enjoy each miracle for they are designed just for you and yours. Your faith is a walking testimony.
Chris Hebert <fishermom2002@aol.com>
WEst PAlm Beach, FL - Monday, April 28, 2003 8:22 AM CDT
Jeanette and Jalen,
I just want you to know that I love you both very, very much. Always. I'm praying each and every day for both of you. - Uncle Kenny
Ken Dodaro <dodaro@math.fsu.edu>
Tallahassee, FL USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 8:04 AM CDT
AMEN!! Keep fighting little guy!
Love,
Deirdre
- Monday, April 28, 2003 7:40 AM CDT
I am so happy to hear there is a little progress. Keep up the good work Jalen. We are still praying for you all!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:33 AM CDT
What wonderful news!!! I was so excited this morning when I read about the improvements that Jalen has made over the weekend. Miracles happen everyday and I certainly hope that Jalen is going to continue to be proof of that. My continued thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Heather Rabon
Aynor, SC USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:23 AM CDT
Jalen,
I hope you continue to get better. My prayers are with you. Get better soon, so you can play outside. God Bless.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Monday, April 28, 2003 7:23 AM CDT
I am so happy for little Jalen and you, Jeanette. That really made me happy last night. I walked out to the porch and I was all smiles to tell Myron!!! He got teary. I am praying things will remain going well and just get better and better each day. I am about to take Tatiana to the doctor after 0 sleep so I am trying to get some coffee in me. I haven't been sleeping the last few days at all. Last night though I did feel a lot better about Jalen. I am just thinking about all the things we have to do over this next week with my dad coming in and the funeral. I get overwhelmed. Is Jalen able to eat anything? Does he want to? Well that is all for now. I will check in on you guys after the doctor appointment:) Love, Tracy
Tracy Solomon
- Monday, April 28, 2003 6:54 AM CDT
Go Jalen GO!!!
Saying many prayers!
Stacy S <sshephar@sfwmd.gov>
WPB, FL - Monday, April 28, 2003 6:17 AM CDT
Hello Jalen,
You are such a cutie pie. Hang in there Sweetie and be strong. You and your family are in my prayers.
Sandy www.themiraclekids.com
- Monday, April 28, 2003 1:23 AM CDT
Jalen,
Progress is progress, sweetie. You show everyone what a fighter you are. It's okay to get mad and growl. You are alert enough to know what doesn't make you happy! I take that as a good sign! Praying for you precious little one.
Debbie Little <littlecaleb@hotmail.com>
Dickson, TN - Sunday, April 27, 2003 11:37 PM CDT
Jalen darling,
It is such good news that you have that old breathing tube out of your throat even if it means you need that irritating nasal cannula for a few days. I know that your Mommy is just ecstatic about the progress. God willing you will not have to be reintubated ever again.
Your are such a beautiful little boy and Jesus loves you so much. He will keep you from harm and we ask Him to give you comfort and peace while you get well.
God made mothers so we would not have to look up the word "gentleness" in the dictionary. You have a very wonderful Mother, honey, and she is right beside you all the time so she can hear your sweet little voice when you speak out!
Good night, honey.
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Sunday, April 27, 2003 11:08 PM CDT
WOW........Keeping you all in our prayers!!!
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, April 27, 2003 10:45 PM CDT
So glad you are seeing and hearing some progress. God is an awesome God and I believe in miracles. I pray daily that you and your family receive one!!
God Bless,
Kim
Kim Watts www.taylorwatts.org
mccalla, AL - Sunday, April 27, 2003 10:25 PM CDT
I sure hope you can hold him tomorrow! You both need that!;) I am sure that when Jalen gets the tubes out he will be like a normal lil guy! ;) :) I can not wait to hear that you are holding him!!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Sunday, April 27, 2003 9:50 PM CDT
still praying
Sharon
- Sunday, April 27, 2003 8:51 PM CDT
jeanette we think of you and jalen all the time. you are in our thoughts and prayers.
cousin joanie <jmerlot@hotmail.com>
new york, ny usa - Sunday, April 27, 2003 4:10 PM CDT
Continuing the prayers.......for we know that God IS indeed listening to them!!!
Love and ((((HUGS))))
Eva
- Sunday, April 27, 2003 2:36 PM CDT
How is the little Man today? I hope is day is going good and maybe you are holding him by now or early tomorrow. I will continue to check up on you of course! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Sunday, April 27, 2003 2:11 PM CDT
I am glad to hear jalen is taking baby steps in the rite direction, I am praying for complete healing and that very soon you can hold your beautiful son and he can look in your eyes and say momma, you are such a beautiful wonderful mother that has shown many how strong you are, I just wish that all the terrible things would go away. god bless.
with love strangers whom care very much <nicole54660@msn.com>
tomah, wi - Sunday, April 27, 2003 12:01 AM CDT
Yeah! We are so glad you are doing better, Jalen! We pray for you and Mommy and Daddy and your family everyday.
Love, Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac
- Sunday, April 27, 2003 9:50 AM CDT
Hi Jalen :)
You have no idea how happy I was to read your update..it really did cheer me up to know that you are doing better.. even though it is just a little bit of good news..it seems sooo important and it means so much! I know that there is always hope..and you should never give up, Jalen! You are such a tough little trooper..I'm really praying for you, praying that the bleeding has stopped and that you get to be off the ventilator for good..even though you're taking little baby steps..it means so much and it will only bring good news..I can't wait till your mummy gets to hold you in her arms again!! What a day that will be :) I'm thinking of you always, little man..you are so precious to everyone and you have certainly won my heart!
Love & hugs & kisses,
XOXOXOXO
Janice <wine_chic@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Sunday, April 27, 2003 8:16 AM CDT
Little steps mean so much!! So Happy to hear all the positive signs. You are in my thoughts and prayers. ^:^
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Sunday, April 27, 2003 7:52 AM CDT
So glad and thankful to God Jalen is doing better. He is a little fighter!!! We are praying for him and the rest of your family. I think of you all the time......so does my husband Scott. He checks Jalen's website and then finds me to make sure I know the latest update.
LOVE the train you put on Seth's site....ok you can give some folks computer lessons and make alittle money on the side....that was very awesome to see.
Well I just wanted you to know we are constantly thinking of you.
Much Prayers, Peace, Love and HOPE for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, April 27, 2003 6:14 AM CDT
SO glad that the latest update on Jalen is a good one,I will continue to pray as hard as I can for him. Jeanette you are right, I am sure that God is listening to everyones prayers for Jalen.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Sunday, April 27, 2003 6:03 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I just wanted you to know that all of the Quilting Angels at Quilts of Love are praying for Jalen. I was so glad to come tonight and see the latest update and he sounds so much better. I know that it's just small steps each day but I think you are right and all these prayers are being answered. I pray you get to hold him soon ~ I know how hard it is to not be able to right now. Please know we are here with you and praying each and every day - Jalen and the the entire family are in our hearts, our thoughts and our prayers ~
~Hugs~
Jean Ilderton
Quilts of Love
Jean - Quilts of Love <jean@quiltsoflove.com>
Tucson, AZ - Sunday, April 27, 2003 4:25 AM CDT
I am sure you not holding him is driving him crazy too! I am glad he is more alert. Jeanette, I am so encouraged by the way you are handling things. I know this is the most difficult thing you have been through in your life and you are handling everything with such grace. God has definitely blessed you with strength and enduring love to be there for your little Jalen. We will say a prayer today that he can wean off the ventilator safely and you can hold him and hear him:) I know how much you must miss hearing him talk to you and express himself:) Katia EXPRESSES herself a lot lately, some of which isn't nice at all. Her phrase right now if you don't give her what she ask for is, "I am so so mad". Okay? And now she has this thing of not wanting to see her sisters when they first come home from school. She acts like they have cooties! Sometimes, I know I have to call her down cause she may throw something or push one of her sisters but I HATE calling her down. I don't want her to be spoiled or rude though because that is just not her and it's not nice. Well you take care of yourself. I hope you are eating and getting some sleep. I love you guys. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Sunday, April 27, 2003 3:59 AM CDT
HI Jalen and Family,
Hope all is well. Jalen I hope you are feeling better little guy. Just thinking about you. Your still in our prayers. STAY STRONG!!!
Sam Kelly (aaryns mommy) www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily <samladybugs@comcast.net>
Tacoma, WA USA - Sunday, April 27, 2003 0:52 AM CDT
Jalen & Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Stay strong!
Cheri & Katelynn
Nelson, BC Canada - Saturday, April 26, 2003 10:31 PM CDT
Continuing to pray for you Jalen!! God loves you so much little guy. Praying for strength and comfort too.
In Him,
Debbie Nagy
Manchester /St. Louis, MO - Saturday, April 26, 2003 10:05 PM CDT
I very much enjoy checking this site and hearing about Jalen and your family as well reading all the messages. We are all so fortunate that the world is filled with such loving and caring people. No matter tough are trials are, knowing that others love us and pray for us helps us get through. Without my faith, I don't know what I'd do. It's wonderful to know you share the faith and know God's mercy and blessing.
I continue to pray for you and Jalen.
Sharon <dubes@mmc.org>
Gray, Me - Saturday, April 26, 2003 3:07 PM CDT
Just checking on Jalen, I hope everything is ok and that he is stable,saying loads of prayers for you.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Saturday, April 26, 2003 12:50 AM CDT
How is Mr. Jalen today? I really pray for him to feel so much better real soon. Katia prayed for him last night and she said, "I like praying Jalen". I thought that was so sweet:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Saturday, April 26, 2003 11:11 AM CDT
We love you and are praying for all of you.
(cousin) Rose Lombardo <Romajope@aol.com>
East Meadow, ny usa - Saturday, April 26, 2003 11:11 AM CDT
hey jalen.keep it lil dude..i pray 4 u every night and morning .i even get all my freinds and my boyfreind to pray 4 you .
love kaysha
P.S. E-MAIL ME IF YOU NEED ANYTHING OR ANY HELP...
kaysha WWW.caringbridge.com/fl/kodysstory <SK8ERTRASH4EVER@YAHOO.COM>
leesburg, fl U.S.A-GOD BLESS AMERICA!! - Saturday, April 26, 2003 9:00 AM CDT
Little Jalen, I think of you often. I hope and pray you begin to heal completely. You are a little miracle now and have touched so many peoples lives. (people you have never even met:) God be with you and your family in your time of need.
Tonya Roth
Jacksonville, Fl - Saturday, April 26, 2003 8:35 AM CDT
I hope that Jalen is doing MUCH better!!! I have been sending the word about Jalen, hoping his prayer path get larger and larger! I can not wait until you update saying he is doing GREAT! So lets all get with the prayers and work on that for his mom!!! ;) Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, April 26, 2003 8:01 AM CDT
Jalen sweetie,
We will be praying SO hard for you precious baby boy, for your miracle, the bleeding to stop and for you to heal. Mommy loves you so very much, that is so easy to see:) Keep fighting hard, sweet Jalen, we need you here with us. Praying that you have a peaceful, restful night and awaken tomorrow feeling so much better, to see Mommy's loving face with your big, beautiful eyes...
big huge hugs,
Tracey and family xoxoxo <traceyhewison@shaw.ca>
Calgary, Ab, Canada, - Saturday, April 26, 2003 1:34 AM CDT
Gold bless
Nelson
Lake Oswego, OR 97035 - Saturday, April 26, 2003 1:13 AM CDT
Hi Jalen. I hope that you keep on fighting. You have been such a brave little boy - keep it up. Sending you huge hugs sweetie
Cassie
http://www.caringbridge.org/europe/cassie
Cassie <janetcassandra@yahoo.co.uk>
- Saturday, April 26, 2003 0:38 AM CDT
Jalen, you are such a cutie!! I am keeping you in my prayers and sening you big hugs! you are so brave!!!
God Bless! Love,
Danielle <http://www.caringbridge.org/ny/danielle>
Long Island, NY USA - Friday, April 25, 2003 11:38 PM CDT
I am praying for you!
Mitzi Brenner
Round Rock, TX - Friday, April 25, 2003 11:10 PM CDT
Good night little Jalen, I hope your weekend goes well. You are in my thoughts and prayers little one. Sweet dreams.
Love
Deirdre
- Friday, April 25, 2003 9:37 PM CDT
You are in our prayers, God bless and keep you in your time of need. Zac's uncle Trevor is our son in law, and we got the web address from our daughter, Tammy.
Love to all.
Ruth and Steve Makish <srmakish@aol.com>
Boca Raton, Fl usa - Friday, April 25, 2003 7:32 PM CDT
Hi Jalen, Kathi from Lowville, NY visited my granddaughters site ( www.caringbridge.com/ny/missaroberts ) and asked that we visit you & your family via the net & she asked us to pray for you also. Prayer has been known to do so much & we will keep you before the Throne of Grace as well as the rest of your family also. These times are difficult but it is in the deepest of advirsity we see God's mighty hand at work. So please know people in Syracuse, NY will be thinking of you all.
(What a surprise to see someone from Kingston, NY on your site... that is my home town.)
R. Landherr <naneandpoppaz@prodigy.net>
Syracuse, NY God Bless the USA - Friday, April 25, 2003 6:38 PM CDT
Hi Jalen,
Just wanted to check in and see how you are.I really hope you are even having a better day to day. You have touched my heart in a special way. I'll check back later.Always thinking of you. Stay strong sweetie.
sam kelly (aaryns mom) www.caringbridg.org/ak/aarynandfamily <samladybugs@comcast.net>
tacomaw, wa usa - Friday, April 25, 2003 5:20 PM CDT
So happy for you that you have an improvement to write in your updates! Continuing to pray for you and lift you up, Jalen!!! My prayers are also with you, Jeanette & Family.
With Christ's love,
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Friday, April 25, 2003 4:02 PM CDT
Cindy, I read all your journal entries and saw the pictures of your sweet cute baby. I am so very sorry for all the suffering. Keep in your mind that you are doing all that is possible for Jalen and so are the doctors. He is having the best from his parents: he is being LOVED beyong anything and that´s why GOD gave you that hard mission because you are SO special. Try to rest a little in order to keep your sanity and relax while feeling all the circle of love embracing your family. There are many persons praying and sending positive energy for you all right now. Everytime you feel you are goind to lose it, PRAY and call your Guard Angel for help. Try to keep your spirit UP and smile to Jalen as much as you can. Its good for both of you. It is good remedy for the soul and what is good for soul is good for the body. Warm hugs from Brazil.
Rose
- Friday, April 25, 2003 3:34 PM CDT
Keep up the good fight little one! What a brave boy. So happy to hear that he's opened his eyes and is responding. God bless.
Deirdre
- Friday, April 25, 2003 3:08 PM CDT
All our love and good thoughts!
Aili and Bryan <http://www.caringbridge.org/canada/bryankinney>
Vancouver, BC Canada - Friday, April 25, 2003 3:04 PM CDT
Just stopping in to say hi and let you guys know you are always in our thoughts and prayers.
We love you!
Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac
- Friday, April 25, 2003 1:57 PM CDT
I want you to know that Jalen is in my prayers. God will give you strength. God Bless
Anita Moore mother of Holly
Sikeston, MO - Friday, April 25, 2003 12:52 AM CDT
I am so proud to hear that you have received some encouraging news. I will be continuing to pray for Jalen and your family. I will be checking back in to see how the CT scans are. Be strong little Jalen!!!
Heather Rabon <hrabon@me.hcs.k12.sc.us>
Aynor, SC USA - Friday, April 25, 2003 12:07 AM CDT
I am so glad to read that there is some improvement he is such a strong beautiful boy remember to never give up I believe that he will being saying mommy real soon and giving all the hugs and kisses that you have missed, we will continue to pray to god to heal your beautiful son so you can have all the things you want for him and to share with him, you are such a wonderful mother!!
nicole wanke <nicole54660@msn.com>
tomah, WI - Friday, April 25, 2003 12:02 AM CDT
Dear Jalen & Family,
So glad to be writing to you on your website. It was a great picture that you shared with us. Who could resist you Jalen such a beautiful baby?
Yesterday's entry brought tears to my eyes when I remember all those times with my own kids and how the days went by so often when I was unaware and not paying attention to all those precious memories we were making.
I have been writing over the past few years and trying to remember and capture those significant times and ordinary times.
I love to read them and try to recapture the feelings.
May the bleeding stop for good and the damage be minimal or nearly nonexistant. As you open your eyes, Jalen and see your parents and loved ones and beloved toys may you be happy, be at peace and free of pain. Peace and Love Pat W. Mom of 11 and grandma of 21
Patricia Wootan <pwootan38@hotmail.com>
kingston, NY USA - Friday, April 25, 2003 11:50 AM CDT
Sending lots and lots of prayers little Jalen's way!
Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Friday, April 25, 2003 8:24 AM CDT
YES!!! I AM SO HAPPY TO HEAR THAT YOU OPENED YOUR EYES AND THAT YOU ARE ACTUALLY FOCUSING ON PEOPLE AROUND YOU. THATS AWESOME LITTLE ONE. I AM GLAD YOU LIKED THE LITTLE BEAR I LEFT YOU. I JUST WANTED TO REMIND YOU JEANETTE AND DALE THAT MY WHOLE FAMILY IS PRAYING FOR JALEN EVERY NIGHT. ME AND MY CHILDREN LIGHT A CANDLE EVERYNIGHT AND PRAY OVER JALEN'S PICTURE YOU GAVE ME WHEN I WAS THERE. KEEP UP THE FIGHT LITTLE ONE AND STAY STRONG MOMMY AND DADDY! GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!! XOXOXO
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Friday, April 25, 2003 6:36 AM CDT
I hope you know although we are not there in person we are thinking of you and praying for little Jalen.
Much Peace, Prayers and Hope
Love Ruthie
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Friday, April 25, 2003 6:27 AM CDT
Just checking back on your site I am so happy to see that Jalen has improved a little bit, it's a start, I am praying that he has no problems with the mylotarg, I am allso praying very hard for his full recovery.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Friday, April 25, 2003 5:12 AM CDT
WELL I GOT UP TO GET A DRINK OF WATER AND WANTED TO CHECK ON JALEN. I SAT DOWN LAST NIGHT TO CHECK ON SOME CARRINGBRIDGE SITES AND KATIA CAME AND DRAGGED ME TO WATCH HER "I SPY" VIDEOS AND I NEVER GOT BACK HERE. I WAS JUST SO SO TIRED LAST NIGHT SO I AM TRYING TO CATCH UP SOME WHILE SHE IS ASLEEP. HER FAVORITE PHRASE RIGHT NOW, "MOMMY I NEED YOUUUUUUUUUUUU". HOW CAN I PASS THAT UP! WELL, I PRAY TODAY THE CT SCAN SHOWS EVERYTHING HAS GOTTEN BETTER AND THERE IS NO MORE BLEEDING AND THAT THE MYLOTARG WILL NOT CAUSE HIM ANYMORE PROBLEMS. I LOVE YOU GUYS! LOVE, TRACY
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
TRACY SOLOMON <TMSOL87@AOL.COM>
TAMPA, FL - Friday, April 25, 2003 4:05 AM CDT
OH JALEN,
I had to check on you before I went to bed. Im so glad you had a better day today. I thought about you alot. You are a sweet liitle boy and real big fighter. Please continue to fight your mommy needs you and loves you so much.Jeanette my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family stay strong. Ill continue to pray for you all!
Sam and AAryn Kelly www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily <samladybugs@comcast.net>
Tacoma, WA USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 10:36 PM CDT
Jalen and family, you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Have courage! May you be surrounded by Divine love and healing.
Yannoula
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 10:19 PM CDT
Hello. You have absolutely no idea who I am, and vise versa, but I got your website by going to other links, and then I got here. I just want you to know that I think you have the sweetest little boy in the world and I've been checking in on you guys for a really long time, I've just never written in the guest book. I am constantly checking on him, and praying for his recovery. Know that I'm always thinking, praying, and checking in on you all. I don't even know you yet I feel like I do through your updates. Your courage and strength is unbelievable and makes the things I struggle with look like nothing. You are such an inspiration to me. May God bless you everyday with His mercy and grace!
All my love,
A stranger praying for your precious little boy :o)
Megan
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 10:03 PM CDT
Oh Jalen, I was so happy to see the update from your mommy that you were having a better day and had opened your eyes. Hang in there Mom, there is always hope, our Lord promised us that. Don't worry about anything but Jalen right now, everyone knows he is all that matters at the moment. God bless and I will keep praying for your sweet baby.
In Him,
Debbie Nagy
Manchester/St. Louis, MO - Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:46 PM CDT
We have been praying so hard for Jalen and your family for a miracle. BELIEVE for they do happen. He is such a beautiful boy and a real fighter. I pray that by him opening his eyes is just the first sign of a precious miracle. You are a wonderful mother. Stay strong and KEEP THE FAITH!!!! GOD BLESS YOU JALEN. WE LOVE YOU....AND YOUR FAMILY TOO!!
Kathy & Timmy Lawton <kathyhamden@aol.com>
Port St Lucie, FL - Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:42 PM CDT
What a great way to end the night...Happy news about our little Pooh Bear..Jalen!
Take care....I'll be checking again all day tomorrow
Kim
~KODYS STORY~
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:39 PM CDT
Jalen,
We will give our blessed God all the glory and honor due Him in helping you get better each day, sweetheart.
The comfort God offers us when we're hurting is recycled and used to comfort the hurting heart of another. That is what friends bring with them when they walk into your darkness. They bring the comfort of God recycled just for you!!
An email friend,
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD u - Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:35 PM CDT
Praise God for the good news, I am so happy!!!
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:09 PM CDT
Atta' Boy... Glad to hear the good news. What a joy it must be to see those beautiful eyes!!! Praying for more good news!
Stay strong and Keep the Faith!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Thursday, April 24, 2003 8:51 PM CDT
I am glad I checked one last time before I went to bed.. Good deal on him focussing !! That seems to be a good sign for him and you! I sure hope that is a sign of good to come. ;) Jalen must have his own ANGEL FAN-CLUB!!! Sure hope so!!:) ;) :) Thank you for taking the time to let us all know how Jalen is! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, April 24, 2003 8:40 PM CDT
I am checking on you BOTH.. I hope that things are better. I can only hope! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, April 24, 2003 7:15 PM CDT
I am cyring with you, and my prayers are going up for you all.
Tonya (chassidy's mom) caringbridge.org/il/chassidy
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 6:35 PM CDT
Prayers are with you.
Maria
NJ - Thursday, April 24, 2003 6:07 PM CDT
I heard you needed prayers from Gooch's site. I will be praying that the Lord heals Jalen in the way that we all hope for. May God grant you your wish to be the mom you want to be. Thank You for making me appreciate my children a little more today. I will go be with them now and give them lots of hugs and kisses. My heart goes out to you.
Jeanne Brown <brownjj@bright.net>
Wapakonta, OH USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 5:56 PM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Chemo Angel Lori
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 5:47 PM CDT
Dear Jalen's family-
We are friends of Taylor Johnson and read about you on Katia's website. ALL of you are in our prayers! We have been praying everyday for Taylor and now you will be in our thoughts as well. God Bless You!
Laura
Maple Glen, PA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 4:39 PM CDT
My love and prayers are sent your way - ^A^ Toto
Angel Toto
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 3:40 PM CDT
Jalen, Jeanette, & Family,
Just can't stop thinking about you and what you are going through. I'm lifting you up, sweet Jalen, so God can heal you and you can get back to Disney!! And I'm praying for Mom and Dad to stay strong and be comforted during your struggles. You are all in my prayers. With Christ's Love,
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Thursday, April 24, 2003 3:29 PM CDT
Dearest Jalen,
We are praying very hard for you, Dear Lord hear our prayers.
Robin and Bailee Dunnigan <www.caringbridge.org/fl/bailee>
Tarpon Springs, Fl - Thursday, April 24, 2003 3:08 PM CDT
Hello Jalen
We love you, you are our special angel and we will always hold you close to our hearts. Mary, Ilene and Micky
Mary Valley <docotis13@msn.com>
West Palm Beach, Fl USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 1:54 PM CDT
Hello Jalen and family
I could not stop thinking about you all yesterday and today.
I have been saying prayers for you. Mom please stay strong as you can my heart just goes out to you in a big way. You are all in my mind constantly.
sam kelly (www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily) <samladybugs@comcast.net>
Tacoma, WA USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 1:04 PM CDT
i just wanted you to know all my prayers are with you .jalen is so adorible
kaysha
kaysha kruppenbacher <sk8ertrash4ever@yahoo.com>
leesburg, fl USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 12:53 AM CDT
We are praying for your family
praying
WI - Thursday, April 24, 2003 12:50 AM CDT
Sending up special prayers for little Jalen.
Jacqueline Ebanks <leticiaci@yahoo.com>
Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands - Thursday, April 24, 2003 12:25 AM CDT
God bless you, little one. Love, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 12:09 AM CDT
CHECKING ON YOU GUYS:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
TRACY SOLOMON
- Thursday, April 24, 2003 12:01 AM CDT
You and your family are in my prayers. There is lots of hugs and positive thoughts coming your way, that little Jalen does not suffer. Never give up hope!! Your baby will be healed through God. I understand your pain.....
Love and Prayers
Deneen
Mom to Tiffanie Salvadia Forever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/tiffanie
Deneen Gethouas <dgethouas@aol.com>
Enola, PA USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 11:31 AM CDT
Sweet, sweet Jalen, what a blessing you are to your mommy, daddy, your family and friends. We are all still praying hard for you. We are so sad that you have to go through all this pain and we pray that angels wrap their wings around you and help to ease that pain. Jeanette and Dale, Terry and family, I hardly know what to say accept that my heart aches for you all, the pain you are going through is just so heartbreaking and I am so, so sorry! I'm hoping the next update is better. I'm praying for you all.
Tina Klonaris-Robinson <tina_bahamas@yahoo.com>
Nassau, Bahamas - Thursday, April 24, 2003 11:08 AM CDT
Woke up with Jalen on my mind this morning. I immediately prayed to God to give him a miracle here on earth, so that he can be a great witness to His Savior. May God hold you constantly as you go through this time of trial.
In Him,
Debbie Nagy
Manchester / St. Louis, MO - Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:32 AM CDT
I having been checking on Jalen for sometime now. I just wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. I am sure that God is listening to your prayers and that you will find comfort and peace through your faith in Him.
Heather Rabon
Galivants Ferry, SC USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:31 AM CDT
May God be with you in this time of need.May you be blessed with a miracle.I read this with tears flowing.As a mother i cant even phantom the thought of what your going through,I will be praying for your baby.Im a firm believer in miracles,i have seen so many happen.May you get your miracle.God bless!!
Tammy Mcpeters
fruitland park, fl usa - Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:13 AM CDT
My heart is breaking for you as I read this entry. I will be lifting Jalen up to God for healing.
Susan Vicari
Pittsgrove, NJ - Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:07 AM CDT
JEANETTE,
IT WAS GREAT TO TALK WITH YOU LAST NIGHT. I AM SO SORRY FOR ALL THAT YOUR FAMILY IS GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW,YOUR STRENGTH IS AMAZING .
WE WILL PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU..
AUDRA SCHMIDT
www.caringbridge.org/fl/tymichaelschmidt <grlwndr68@hotmail.com>
HOBE SOUND, FL USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:01 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I've been coming to Jalen's site for awhile now, but I don't know if I've signed in before. I just want you to know that I've been praying very hard for all of you. You are so strong, I am so proud of how you have handled everything that you have been given. I am praying that God will lay His healing hands on Jalen's body and bring him through this whole rotten ordeal. Stay strong and you and Dale need to lean on each other, but most important....lean on God. He is there for you and will never forsake you. I will be praying constantly. God bless you all. With big hugs and love,
Krista Iverson <krista.iverson@gepex.ge.com>
Ottawa, IL - Thursday, April 24, 2003 8:53 AM CDT
Hey Jalen :)
Hi sweetie, I was just checking in to see if there was an update..I've been praying SO hard for you, precious...I know everyone is so desperate to see you get better.. especially your mummy and daddy..and even though things seem SO, SO dark right now..I have endless faith in you!! I know that you're fighting as hard as you can..you are such a little trooper...you amaze me so much!!! It really breaks my heart to hear about what you are going through.. I wish I could be there to hold you!! Hang in there, angel.. so many people need you..and EVERYONE is praying.. I'm thinking of you always, and I will check back soon..
All my love, hugs & kisses & EXTRA SPECIAL prayers,
XOXOXOXOXO
Janice <wine_chic@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Thursday, April 24, 2003 8:49 AM CDT
Jalen hey its me again I realy miss u and u have to come home soon. I just wanted to make sure u know im still with u and that I love u and nothing will change that.I wish u were here right now having fun with everybody else u will dont worry u will be out of there in no time i promise.no matter what happens.well i wish u a happy next burthday and i hope u know i am prayin for u right now to get better get well soon ok.For Jeanttee com down Jalen will be out of there in no time i love u jeanttee and Dale also i will always love u jalen and the rest of your crew kiss kiss smouch smouch hug hug i love u all.....!!!!!!!!Get well soon.....?!!!!!
Aunty Jessica ILOVE U <jAgJeSs1>
RPB, FL - Thursday, April 24, 2003 8:29 AM CDT
Hey Jalen I hope u feel better and get better please and happy easter again i wish I can see u !
Jessica Greim <Jagjess1>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Thursday, April 24, 2003 8:19 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Praying for some good news for your adorable baby!
Kathy Mayo <kmayo42@aol.com>
Whitehall, OH - Thursday, April 24, 2003 8:02 AM CDT
Jeanette,
I am praying that Jalen start to get well soon. In my prayers I am asking the Lord to stop the bleeding and for you little man to say "Mama". God Bless you and your family. Jalen--I pray for you to get better. Have a Blessed Day!
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 7:09 AM CDT
Just checking back on you,I pray that Jalen is still holding on, and that the bleeding has stopped so many people are praying for a miracle for you that god must surely answer these prayers.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Thursday, April 24, 2003 7:08 AM CDT
Praying for you and your family...and especially little Jalen!
God Bless!
Stacy S <sshephar@sfwmd.gov>
WPB, FL USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 6:32 AM CDT
Thank you for allowing me to visit Jalen yesterday. My prayers go out to Jalen and the whole family. Jeanette and Dale are going thru alot right now with their little baby . But I am so impressed by the courage they both have as parents to stick together at a time like this. God Bless you all. I hope Jalen can open his eyes soon to see the little brown teady bear I left there for him in his crib.
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Thursday, April 24, 2003 6:22 AM CDT
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God Bless and Heal your little body.
Jan
oh - Thursday, April 24, 2003 4:31 AM CDT
Hello...my name is Christina and I lost my little girl Mckenzie March 21 2003 at Duke University Hospital.I was not going to sign in and at the last minute I decided to leave you a message.I want you to know I will be praying for you and also I want you to know I am here for you.I know exactly what you are going through...the test...the waiting...the worrying...it never ends.I will leave with you Mckenzies webpage and if you wish to leave me a message or even call me...my number is listed on the bottom of her page.I pray the bleeding in his brain stops.I have seen miracles...Mckenzie was a miracle...she went through so much...The first one ever to go through 3 stem cell transplants...The 3 one worked but then her time her on earth was through and she went to be an angel.She made it so many times when the Drs. said there was noway!Walk by faith and not sight.Believe in your miracle.
christina schoenleb <caringbridge.org/nc/mckenziefay>
cleveland, nc - Thursday, April 24, 2003 2:14 AM CDT
Hoping no news is good news and that Jalen is still with you and doing as well as he can be doing.
Many thoughts are with you
Christy..Angel Jordyn's Mommy <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Thursday, April 24, 2003 1:30 AM CDT
I am praying very hard for Jalen!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Thursday, April 24, 2003 0:46 AM CDT
We are praying and praying and praying for Jalen and your family. God gave you Jalen because he knew you would be the best Mom to him. You are doing a great job.Just continue to be that loving, caring Mom that you are and we will all continue to pray.
Sharon Picariello...www.caringbridge.org/page/dylansworld <SLDBP65@aol.com>
Port St. Lucie,, Fl. .......God Bless Jalen - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 11:34 PM CDT
What to say???What to do??? My heart is breaking for you, your little Jalen, how sweet and beautiful he is, how unfair this all is--why Dear God do our children have to go through all of this? You are such a beautiful Mom, putting Jalen on protocel is a positve in all the negative you have had to deal with, your beautiful precious little boy will get the strength to fight this. God gave Jalen to you because he knows you need him more then your own breath! I'm praying along with all the others that your precious little Jalen will pull through all of this, and believe !!
Debi Santoro
Port Saint Lucie, fl - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 11:11 PM CDT
I just found your site from Gooch's. I'm Praying for you and Jalen. My heart just breaks for you. Please know that alot of prayers are going out for you and Jalen. I'm so sorry, I can't begin to imagine your pain. Keep fighting Jalen. Miracles do happen because I have one.
Sandy www.themiraclekids.com
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 11:10 PM CDT
Hello, my name is Beth and I am a friend of Natalee and Zac's. Natalee told me about Zac's website tonight and it is such a wonderful way to keep friends and family posted on his condition. It is also a wonderful way to let others know of their friends who are in need of prayers. Please know that my prayers are with you for Jalen to receive a miracle from God above. I can only imagine how terribly hard it is to keep positive in such a difficult situation. You and Jalen are in my thoughts and prayers. I will say many Rosaries for his health to be restored. May you and Jalen continue to be Blessed with God's unending love and grace.
Sincerely,
Beth
Beth Morin <BuanaB 62@aol.com>
Greenacres, FL USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 10:21 PM CDT
I am praying that the bleeding stops and that there is NO damage.
DeAnna (Chase's mom, dx'ed 9-01 w/ an anaplastic astrocytoma) <www.caringbridge.org/ga/chasesmiracle/>
Ga USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 10:20 PM CDT
I am praying for you and your precious baby. I can only imagine how you are feeling. I have thought about what I would do if I couldn't ever do all of those things. It has been hard enough to not be able to due to the cancer, but at least I had hope of doing it again. I pray that the blleding stops and you can take your baby home. God Bless you and your family.
Kim
Kim Watts www.taylorwatts.org
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 9:50 PM CDT
I am just checking on you before I go to bed. I will say a prayer with Katia for Jalen. Thank you for the package! Katia has the little bendable bunny to sleep with. Kiss little Jalen. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 8:49 PM CDT
I'm so sorry to read your entry, I can assure you that I will be praying SOOOO hard for a miracle for Jalen. Connor is our only child, and I am having the same fears that you are right now. It just seems so "NOT RIGHT!!!". Everything you said, believe me, I feel, as well. Hang in there, and know that there are so many faceless friends who have you and your family in our prayers. Take care and May God bless you and grant you peace!
Love, hugs, and prayers,
Rhonda Hunley, Connor's Mommy
Connor's web page
<rshunley@comcast.net>
Goodlettsville, TN **God Bless the USA and our Leaders and Troops!** - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 8:36 PM CDT
Hello, I have learned of your site through Katia's webpage. I am so sorry for what Jalen and you and your family are going through. What a beautiful son you have and I get the impression you are a wonderful mother. I know how your child is your world - my son is the same to me. My prayers go up to heaven daily for you and Jalen and all that love and care about him. Please know that many people are praying for a miracle---don't give up!!! May God give you the strength to stay strong and God Bless you all.
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 7:59 PM CDT
I wish there was some kind of hope I could give you, but all I can do is tell you that my thoughts and prayers are with you BOTH!! I hope that you can feel the love we all send to you in our prayers! TAKE CARE AND REMAIN STRONG!!!!!!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 7:43 PM CDT
Stay strong and feel all the love and good wishes coming your way. I wish there was more that I could for you and Jalen but for now my prayers and my spirit are with you both.
Peace...
Dawn
Wake Forest, NC - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 7:26 PM CDT
Dear, Sweet Jalen: I am praying to Archangel Raphael everyday for your perfect healing. And I pray for your family's continued strength. God Bless You!
Patty Karl (Am-maw's friend) <pkarl@ceinetworks.com>
Schnecksville, PA US - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 7:12 PM CDT
Hi Jalen.. I am so sorry you are not feeling well sweety...I will bombard heaven with lots of prayers for you ...And for you Mommy.. You sound like a wonderful mommy....You know... Don't give up... The Dr.s once told me that my Lindsay was bleeding in the brain.."hemmorage" and they told me that she would not live long and that she would be a vegetable until her death...She proved them wrong... she is 10 now...Lets pray for another miracle with Jalen... Please Father God... Allow Jalen to saty here on this earth with his mommy and all of us who love him dearly...Let him stay a while longer please... Mommy still has things she needs to do with him.. Father God..Please relieve him from his pain... CURE HIM father God.. Only you can...Amen...
Jodie~ Lindsay's Place
Arvin , California USA.... God Bless America... - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:55 PM CDT
Jalen, Jeannette, and Dale,
Hey just writing a line to say that I am here for you and am going through this day by day. Jalen, God bless you, and stay strong, hang in there. Dale and Jeannette, if you need me for anything I am here and you know that.
Love you,
Peter Ho
Peter Ho <ho2160@bellsouth.net>
Lake Worth, Fl WPB - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:52 PM CDT
I will pray for Jalen. Your post is very heart touching. Thanks for sharing your heart with us. May God bless & comfort you all at this time.
Praying for a miracle.....
Sheila
Peru, IN USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:18 PM CDT
Praying so hard for you and baby Jalen! My heart is breaking for you. Please know lots and lots of prayers are going out for you and Jalen!!!! I am so sorry, I can't imagine your pain. Keep up the fight little guy! Miracles do happen.
Tonya
Tonya <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 5:56 PM CDT
Praying for you sweet baby Jalen. Keep fighting!
Karen Banister <www.caringbridge.org/ca/bryanbanister>
San Diego, CA USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 5:35 PM CDT
I dont know what to say besides I am so sorry..... your in my prayers
Sharon (mopgal) <mopgal@hotmail.com>
Dardanelle, ar - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 5:05 PM CDT
Dear family...
I am tears reading your entry. I am saddened to hear the news of Jalen's condition. I will be saying extra prayers for our dear sweet baby. May God grant you your ernest pray and leave sweet Jalen here a little longer so you can once again go to McDonal's, swing on every swing you can find and do all those things fathers and sons do. You all are loved by your Quilts Of Love family and we are all praying for you.
God Bless Jalen,
Island Princess
Island Princess <islandprincess@quiltsoflove.com>
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 4:49 PM CDT
Checking back to see how Jalen is doing today. He is still in my prayers. Come on sweetie, you can beat this, I know you can. Hold him close(if you are able to) and just keep talking to him and telling him you are with him.
Love,
Debbie Nagy
Manchester/St. Louis, MO - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 4:47 PM CDT
I found your site through Gooch's, and have been checking back for the past couple weeks. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Sara
Mankato, MN - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 4:38 PM CDT
Jalen,
One of my favorite names! I found your link on Gooch's site and just had to come by and let you know that we are all praying hard for you and your family. It just broke my heart reading your front page. FORWARD, that's what a friend keeps saying...we must keep going FORWARD!
I'll check back here and hope and pray for some good news!
Love, thoughts, prayers, and ((((HUGS))))) to you all,
Eva Shimmons <KWfan4ever@yahoo.com>
Marcellus, MI - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 4:00 PM CDT
Sending prayer's and love your way. Jalen has and will always have a special place in my heart.. Lots of Love N Hugs
Gramma Mimi <grammamimi@quiltsoflove.com>
Titusville, FL - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 3:55 PM CDT
I am Gail"s Aunt and she has kept me posted on Jalen. I am just praying so hard for all of you. I can not fathom the feelings you are having but I know He feels it all. God's Speed My Little Ones.
Connie Spears <aunthill1@juno.com>
New Richmond, OH USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 3:38 PM CDT
Know that my prayer are with you, my Grandson is at St. Judes in Memphis. So I understand how you must be feeling. My heart goes out to you because it hurts so bad. I have faith in him through all of this, but I'm not so sure about the rest of the family. I just want you to know that miracles do happen and I prayed for one for your son. Your friend in Jesus Dana
Dana Valenzuela
Nuevo, Ca USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 3:19 PM CDT
Sending prayers your way. No one can know what you are going through, but know that you are not going through this alone - so many people are pulling for your family. Stay strong!
Tracy M. <imtm1224@hotmail.com>
Windsor, ON Canada - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 3:13 PM CDT
Jalen & Jeanette, My heart aches and aches. You are in my prayers. Stay strong. I know I don't know you, but even if I did, I wouldn't know what to say right now other than I am praying, praying, praying! Even though you might not be able to feel it, God is there with you. With Christ's Love,
Ashley Patterson - friend of Chassidy Dennis, AML
Paducah, KY - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 3:03 PM CDT
I'm soooooo sorry for the bad news :( It breaks my heart, I will pray very hard for Jalen. I truly hope God will let him stay here with you, I know he is loved so much by you!!!! God bless
sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 2:44 PM CDT
I'm soooooo sorry for the bad news :( It breaks my heart, I will pray very hard for Jalen. I truly hope God will let him stay here with you, I know he is loved so much by you!!!! God bless
sally <sally_torres@lusknet.com>
anaheim, ca - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 2:43 PM CDT
HI Jalen,
I came across your site at adpot a kid. I am going to say some very strong prayers for you. My heart goes out to you and your family. Your mommy sounds like a wonderful MOMMY.She loves you very much so please stay strong and I will be thinking of you.
Sam(aaryns mommy) www.caringbridge.org/ak/aarynandfamily <samladybugs@comcast.net>
Tacoma, WA USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 2:34 PM CDT
I AM A GOOD FRIEND OF GAIL'S. SHE CONSTANTLY UPDATES ME ON JALEN'S CONDITION AND MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
REMEMBER GOD IS GOOD GOD!
GAIL GREGER <gg_colrv@hotmail.com>
CINCINNATI, OH USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 2:01 PM CDT
I wish I had those magic words to make your pain go away. I know this is the heardest thing you and Jalen will ever go through. The only thing you can do is hold that precious baby as close as possible, and love him as he does you, with every ounce of your being. Everyone is praying, and I sincerely hope that you get those trips to McDonalds and you have to eat so many chicken nugget happy meals that you feel sick! :o) You are in my continuous thoughts and prayers.
Lara
Battle Ground, IN USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 1:16 PM CDT
Never give up hope. I'm saying many extra prayers for a miracle for you and sweet little Jalen that you wil be able to have many more years and memories together!
Kelley Fitzgerald (www.caringbridge.com/ny/lindsay)
Rochester, NY - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 1:13 PM CDT
NEVER NEVER NEVER GIVE UP HOPE!!!! I am in tears as I read your entry, you sound like "the best Mom in the whole wide world" and you are doing everything humanly possible for your little boy! God bless you and your family
JoAnn Baker <bakerjo1@hotmail.com>
Houston, Tx - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 1:01 PM CDT
Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Gramma Giraffe <grammagiraffe@yahoo.com>
Huntsville, AL - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 12:37 AM CDT
Just to let you know that we are praying for you and your precious Jalen. Keep your faith strong and God will help you thought this very sad time.
Love and all our prayers to you and your family.
Jane
Jane
Middletown, CT - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 12:34 AM CDT
My dear, your strength is to be applauded. You do not know me but I am interceiding for you and your precious child. You are a wonderful mother- keep doing what you are doing.
Lisa Guajardo-Felicia's mom <guajardofam@msn.com>
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 12:20 AM CDT
I just want you to know that I have been praying for you and will continue to do so. The staff of Quantum House keeps you in their prayers. If we can do anything for you, please let us know.
Colette McKnight - Family Care Coordinator - Quantum House <colettemcknight@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 12:05 AM CDT
Jalen sweetie,
I just want you to know that I am praying VERY, VERY hard for you sweetie...hang in there angel..we all know that you are tired...but we also know that you're a fighter! If anyone can fight this, you can Jalen..so many people love you and are praying for you!! Prayers do work!! Miracles do happen...PLEASE hang in there..you are such an angel.. I am thinking of you always..
Endless prayers,
XOXOXOXO
Janice
Melbourne, Australia - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 11:50 AM CDT
You are so brave and I'll bet you are THE best mom ever. I'm praying for you and crying for you and your little peanut! Don't worry about it being hard for us to read your words...just let it out, it's what we are here for.
Love,
Deirdre
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 11:49 AM CDT
I just read the entry and I am so sorry. I will be praying for you all. It is not crazy to still have hope, always have hope! And take comfort that you are doing everything in your power to help your little boy.
Laura Ladd <MousieLadd@aol.com>
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
Jalen, Jeannette, and Dale,
I just want you to know that I am praying for Jalen all the time, day and night. I know that this is very hard to deal with but just know that you guys are not going through it alone. Have faith in God and never give up. I love you all and I will always be here for you when you need me.
Love you always,
Gesenia
Gesenia Smith <Babymarie714@aol.com>
Boynton Beach, Fl West Palm Beach - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
Jeanette...I am writing this through tears...I just don't know what to say except, don't ever give up! You are both such wonderful parents...Jalen is as blessed to have you both as you are to have him. (((((HUGS))))) to all of you.
Love, Kim
~KODYS STORY~
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 11:04 AM CDT
Jeanette, Hey girl, Its Carolina Castillo,its been a while since I talked to you! I wanted to tell you that you and Jalen are in my prayers and I have been thinking about you and your beautiful baby. I wanted to give you my love and the girls at the house give you all there love also. Love, Carolina
Carolina Castillo <Linasfly@cs.com>
Orlando, FL U.S.A - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 10:48 AM CDT
Jeanette, I am going to be praying so hard that God lets you keep that precious little boy. Just hold him a lot right now. I am sure you do but that is just so important. Hug him, kiss him and just really soak up this time with him and let him feel you. I check on Jalen's site at least 10 times a day to see how he is doing. I want him to win this battle. Remember, you can call me. I know you probably don't have time and I understand. I don't even know what to say sometimes but I love you guys and I want God to leave your little boy right here with you. Spend all you time with Jalen. I love you guys so much. Jalen, please feel better and say, "MAMA!" Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 10:21 AM CDT
Jeanette, I am so sorry to read this update. I cant imagine how hard it was for you to put it into words. You must be aching. I am so sorry. Please know we are all praying for Jalen.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 10:09 AM CDT
Dear Jalen and his hurting mommy and daddy,
I check your website every day -- I came across it from another website. I am so very sad for you ... there are no answers right now for your questions. There are many who will keep the faith for you as you struggle through your questions. It is okay to ask, okay to seek, okay to be angry! Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in what has to be the most incredibly difficult time of your lives.
Linnae
Minneapolis, MN USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 8:34 AM CDT
Dear Jalen and Mommy: I am so sorry -- I am praying for you all. Many prayers.
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
- Wednesday, April 23, 2003 7:58 AM CDT
Dear Janette, You don't know me but I have know your mom since she was in middle school. I have kept track of Jalen's ordeal for some time now. You have been a very brave mother and I have had you and your son in my payers every day. God has a reason for what is happening and all we can do is pray.
ida gerow <hirollerig@aol.com>
boca raton, fl palm beach - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 7:15 AM CDT
Dear Jalen,Jeannette,Dale,
My prayers are with you. We have to have faith without it we are lost. And I have all the faith in the world that Jalen will be fine that he once again will be that precious little boy I use to rock to sleep. I love you guys and will always be here for you.. Love Daisy
Daisy Gonzalez <Yadi26@aol.com>
Boynton Beach, Fl. West Palm Beach - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 7:04 AM CDT
Jalen and Jeanette,
I am so sad to hear the news about your little one. I know it all doesnt seem right. But be sure that the time you have had with Jalen has been very special to him even if he was in pain and sick. Keep the hope alive no matter what God does do miracles. And with all the people praying around him anything is possible in the Lords name. You are truely an AWESOME mother!!!!!! God Bless
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:48 AM CDT
Nothing sounds crazy when you are put in this awful position. No one should have to go through this...I a so sorry. I remember grasping at the same thoughts when I was told my son wasn't going to make it...and I remember all the people around me telling me that I would be alright...to just give it time. The sad truth is, I won't be alright, nor will you. ANd, time will never heal a mothers pain from losing a child. No one knows unless they traveled it...there is nothing worse. I wish that I could take his pain away...and yours. I have so many wishes for you and your family...I would gladly take his place so I could see my son again...and to let you have a fullfilling life with Jalen. If only I could do that...I am so sorry.
Vicki <tj4ever@frontiernet.net>
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:34 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette I am so sorry to hear the bad news about your sweet baby, I will pray for him just as hard as I can, don't give up hope, he is still with you and miracles can and do happen.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:27 AM CDT
I read your journal entry with tears in my eyes. I am praying for Jalen and for you. Please know that you are doing everything possible for your son.
ellie newman <maryellennewman@email.msn.com>
Woodbury, NJ - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:24 AM CDT
I've been here many times I just never signed.....I just want you to know that you are remarkably strong and you and Jalen are in my prayers. I can't say I know what it feels like to be in your place but I'm sure I'd have gone to pieces. Stay strong for your baby....God Bless!!
Stacy S <sshephar@sfwmd.gov>
WPB, FL USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 6:10 AM CDT
Wishing that I could find more to say...as our roads have been traveled down a bit differently it seems AML is now stealing your baby as it stole mine almost 3 years ago. I can relate so much to knowing that God will take great care of Jalen..but knowing in your heart that YOU ARE THE ONE that is SUPPOSED to be caring for him...for the next 20 years...as God guides all of you.
Please email me anytime....wishing there was more I could do. I pray that no matter what happens whether your specific prayers with Jalen's phyiscal healing and him staying here..or him going without pain to God...that you feel Jalen's love always. He knows you love him. He knows you would die for him if it would save his life...I believe that with all my heart.
All my love
Christy Fitzpatrick...Angel Jordyn's mommy www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Wednesday, April 23, 2003 1:53 AM CDT
You are going through such a difficult time. I'm glad you have your relationship with the Lord but I know it's still extremely hard. I will be praying for the Lord to give you all that you need to get through this trying time. Blessings to you!
Khalita My Caringbridge Site Duke Peds BMT Aplastic Anemia <khalita@hecaresonline.org>
Lexington, NC, - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 11:42 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette and Jalen,
I have visited your site before but am not sure if I ever have signed. I started visiting about a week ago and I am so sorry to see that Jalen is having such a difficult time. Please continue to HOPE, you are his mother and mothers never give up on their children. I will pray that Jalen receives a complete healing and God will allow him to stay here with you so that you can continue to be his mommy! May you feel God's presence surround you and Jalen and may He grant you peace, comfort and strength to deal with this difficult situation.
In Him,
Debbie Nagy
Manchester/St. Louis, MO - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 11:02 PM CDT
Jalen darling,
How are you today? Better I pray.
"Nothing can ever separate us from His love...worries about tomorrow, and even the powers of hell can't keep God's love away. Whether we are high above the sky or in the deepest ocean, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God." Romans 8:38-39
Good night honey.
Love in Christ
Jerri & Kaden <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 9:42 PM CDT
Jeanette and Jalen, my heart and my prayers are with you. I am praying for a complete recovery in Jesus name. I'm believing for total healing and nothing less. May God be with you and give you strength and courage and rest.
Franni <Txfranni@aol.com>
Odessa, Tx USA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 8:37 PM CDT
PRAYING for healing and comfort. I know these times are really rough but taken day at a time we can get through... (Mother of Felicia now 2 diagnosed at 18 Mon. w/ medulloblastoma. Check out caringbridge/fl/feliciaguajardo
Lisa Guajardo-Felicia's mom <guajardofam@msn.com>
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 6:43 PM CDT
Jalen I hope u get well soon and i wish u a Happy Easter and I Love U please i want u to get well!!!!!!!!
Love,Aunt Jessica
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 5:20 PM CDT
Hi Jalen,
I just wanted you to know that I haven't forgotten you, and I am praying for you, and for your mommy and daddy! We all love you so very much, and we will just keep praying for you.
God bless you little one,
"Gramps"
Grampa Jim <grampajim@kidsneedprayer.net>
Monrovia, MD USA - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 4:50 PM CDT
My prayers are flowing your way and here are some {{{{Hugs}}}and a little friend:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 1:31 PM CDT
Jeanette,
I have watched you grow up and become a woman over the last 5 years. I have watched you go through many difficult times.
I know watching Jalen go through what he is going through has got to be the hardest thing that you have ever had to deal with in your entire life. I just wanted to let you know I am here for you and I Love you. You are a good Mom and I am very proud of you. Your sacrafices have been many and your Love so strong. Give Jalen a kiss for me.
Love you guys!
Darlene Greim
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 11:27 AM CDT
I hope everything is ok with Jalen . I havent read any new updates since Sunday and Jeanette you are pretty good at keeping us all updated. I hope that you can let us know soon we are wondering if there was any progress. And maybe some new pictures would be nice ! God bless
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Tuesday, April 22, 2003 7:30 AM CDT
I hope you had a nice Easter but most of all I wish for your baby to open his eyes and start really turning around. How hard to celebrate such an important day in the Christain calendar when your peanut can't even breath on his own. I'm praying very hard that things will get better soon.
love,
Deirdre
- Monday, April 21, 2003 7:10 PM CDT
So glad to hear that Jalen is holding his own. The human spirit is so strong it's amazing.
Remember, one moment at a time
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sharon Dube <dubes@mmc.org>
Gray, Me - Monday, April 21, 2003 2:47 PM CDT
Hi! Happy Easter! Zac loved his Easter card! Thank you so much...we will be in on Tuesday so we will be sure to see you. Hang in there!
XOXOX
Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac
- Monday, April 21, 2003 10:29 AM CDT
Jalen,
How are you my little friend? I hope at least your pain is not as bad! We are all still praying for you. Keep up the fight little man, you can do it!!! ANything is possible in the Lords name!!!
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Monday, April 21, 2003 9:57 AM CDT
Hi Jalen. I'm wishing you a belated happy Easter. I'm really glad that you are doing a little better, I hope you keep on improving. I hope you had lots of visitors yesterday.
Lots of love
Cassie
http://www.caringbridge.org/europe/cassie
Cassie <janetcassandra@yahoo.co.uk>
england - Monday, April 21, 2003 3:55 AM CDT
Jalen, HAPPY EASTER!! I was so happy to read that you are doing a little bit better today. I wish I could come and visit you, but I live far away in Utah, so I will just write you and tell you what a special little boy I think you are, and so darling! I hope you are even doing better tomorrow when I check up on you. Take care little guy!
Tonya <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Sunday, April 20, 2003 11:43 PM CDT
Jalen, darling, my name is Jerri and I have a 6 year old healthy grandson, Kaden, and we love to pray for sick children to get well.
I pray that your Easter was a great one and you had lots of company that you enjoy so much.
We will check in on you often to see if those healthy cells are growing like they need to, okay?
I pray that your parents get rest so they don't get sick now. Words cannot express how my heart aches for all of you. You are by far the most important person in their lives and Jesus loves you so very, very much, too. He will guide your caregivers to ease your pain and help your beautiful little body to heal.
Tomorrow maybe your Mommy and Daddy can take a walk in the rain of God's blessings. Ezekiel 34:26 "I will send down showers in season; there will be showers of blessings."
Good night sweetheart.
Your new SD penpals.
Jerri McKinley and Kaden Mellema <pakrfan1@msn.com>
Sioux Falls, SD USA - Sunday, April 20, 2003 10:48 PM CDT
Hello,
Jalen reminds me of my own son, who will be 2 on July 31st. Your deep love and devotion to him are so evident in all your postings on here. Jalen is a lovely little boy!
It's very tough to read how ill he has been, but the latest news sounds encouraging!! Keep the faith, and keep loving your sweet baby with all your might. Even though he may not be able to tell you in words, your love and constant presence are a huge comfort for Jalen....knowing that you are, and you will always be there for him.
I'll pray that the news just gets better and better for your beautiful son!
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
UK - Sunday, April 20, 2003 9:43 PM CDT
I am so glad to see he has an ANC at least, thats a good sign right, and hopefully this is just the beginning of good things to come..
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Sunday, April 20, 2003 8:47 PM CDT
Just came by to say hello and pray you are feeling better and that you, Jeanette are able to get some rest:) Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Sunday, April 20, 2003 7:46 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
I got your name from Katia's site. I Have a card ready to send to you and have been trying to reach you by e-mail, too. I just realize I may have written before but am writing to many kids and have a list but didn't put Jalen's on it yet.
The hospital just says-they need a last name. The card places suggest just an initial. If the room number is correct you might get the card otherwise it goes to your house.
I was so touched by reading your story I have been obsessed with getting this card mailed then I calmed myself after going on several different suggested websites like the prayer for the children and the card sites. I realized I could just send you a message the regular way.
I am the mom of 11 children and grandma to 21. Today I will celebrate Easter dinner with 7 of the grandkids. I hope Jalen gets tons of company and his eyes open wide and he sees who it is that is loving him. Of course he feels the love especially yours. I can feel the love though your words and your devotion to your darling baby.
May the risen Jesus share his love and comfort with you both. love PAT
Patricia Wootan <pwootan38@hotmail.com>
Kingston, NY USA - Sunday, April 20, 2003 5:49 PM CDT
Hello, Such a Beautiful boy you have. I am a stranger but I just wanted to drop in and say I hope everything goes well for you in the upcoming months. I will be praying for you and your son. Happy Easter. ~Krista~
P.S. If God brings you to it, he will bring you through it.
Krista Wynia <kristawynia@hotmail.com>
Luverne , Mn - Sunday, April 20, 2003 5:22 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette, My name is Janelle, Genna and i have been best friends practically our whole lives and when she was diagnosed i didn't know what to do, all i knew was that i was going to stand behind her no matter what. I thought we'd make it through no matter what. But watching my friend grow sicker and sicker was like someone ripping my heart from my chest. i didn't think it would be as hard as it was standing by her side. But no matter what i was always there. It was like my life did a complete 360. But one thing i could never do was go see her at the hospital. It hurt to much to see someone i loved with all my heart, hurt down and depressed. It was like her life had to be put on hold for what ever reason. But in the end i was still there for her and she is still here for me. And God did help us get through everything together. I prayed every night begging him not to take my sunshine away. And that is what Genna is in my life she is my guiding light, My joy, My heart. And i do believe your son will make it through these hard times. Just like Genna. If Genna made it through he has just a good of a chance as she did. And all the love and support from families and friends makes it just that much easier to get through the day. I'll pray for your son. And i hope everything will be okay.
Janelle*xoxo* <nena26183@aol.com>
Boynton Beach, FL United States - Sunday, April 20, 2003 11:38 AM CDT
Hey family! Have a beautiful EASTER!
Aizee ane her family! <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, April 20, 2003 11:05 AM CDT
Sending Easter Blessings! You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May you have a GREAT day with Jalen - God bless you all and I will say and EXTRA prayer for you today!
Eileen-Hugs and Hope Club Member
- Sunday, April 20, 2003 8:40 AM CDT
Know that we are thinking of you all today and well....everyday!! My husband Scott gets on his computer at work and checks on you too. If there is no update he calls me at work and says "have you heard anything new on Jalen?". He worries about all of you too!
Much Peace, Prayers, Chocolate, Love and Hope for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Saturday, April 19, 2003 9:18 PM CDT
LOTS OF PRAYERS AND GOOD THOUGHTS!!
KEEP STRONG AND FULL OF HOPE AND FAITH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dawn M
NC - Saturday, April 19, 2003 7:50 PM CDT
HAPPY EASTER!!! I hope that you have a SPECTACULAR day with Jalen! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, April 19, 2003 7:33 PM CDT
HAPPY EASTER to you all just wanted to send you tons of good wishes and to let you know I am praying for you.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Saturday, April 19, 2003 4:56 PM CDT
HAPPY EASTER TO BOTH OF YOU. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH MUCH HAPPINESS!! LOVE, TRACY AND KATIA:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
TRACY SOLOMON
- Saturday, April 19, 2003 3:07 PM CDT
Dale, Jeanette, and LIL Jalen
God never sleeps nor slumbers,you all are forever in my prayers.Dale & Jeanette continue to keep the FAITH.God will work it out.He said he will never leave you or forsake you. JOHN10:10 The thief comes only to steal, kill and to destroy, I came to give you life more abundantly. Remember to give everything to God, for he is BIGGER than we are. God Bless. Welove you all.
G.Grandparents-Winston,Mozella <Mozellad@prodigy.net>
Delray Beach , Fl. U.S.A. - Saturday, April 19, 2003 2:12 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette
Jalen and your family are in our prayers. I know you must be so scared right now. Ryon was up there in PICU on a ventilator also, so I feel your pain, I know your fears. It is more than a mother/parent can bear. I will pray for Jalen to recover from this and be able to get to transplant. God Bless you all. Dolores, Joe and Ryon Rommel
The Rommels <datz-phat@mail.com/caringbridge.org/fl/ryonspage>
Jupiter, Fl. 33458 - Saturday, April 19, 2003 1:25 PM CDT
HIYA! Did he get his Mylotarg? Is he feeling better today? I am thinking about you guys and praying for you. We plan to color eggs today but I got to go get some vinegar. I hate going out! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Saturday, April 19, 2003 10:34 AM CDT
hoping that no news for the last few days is good news.
God Bless
Angel Jordyn's Mommy
Christy Fitzpatrick <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Saturday, April 19, 2003 10:31 AM CDT
I am so happy to hear that he is more alert and that he is "recovering" from the fluid "extras"! You must be happy to see him blink in response to your voice. What a good sign. I hope that you will be able to get some rest. I will check back in later tomorrow! TAKE CARE AND REMAIN STRONG!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, April 19, 2003 0:05 AM CDT
Jalen,
You are a little trooper! What a tough guy......now let the docs get you off those meds soon so you can snuggle with your Mommy! Mommies need those little hugs and kisses only special little people can give us! :o)
Your Indiana Friend~
Lara <Tawking2u@aol.com>
Battle Ground, IN USA - Friday, April 18, 2003 9:02 PM CDT
I was soooooo glad to read your update!!
Thinking of you all the time!!!
Much Love Prayers Peace and HOPE for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Friday, April 18, 2003 4:50 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette, Glad to hear things are going better. Anything good, whether small or large, means so much to a parent when going through something like this. I know I've really learned to appreciate the small things in life. Just keep holding on to God's unchanging hand.
Tonya (Chassidy's mom) <tonyam54@excite.com www.caringbridge.org/il/chassidy>
- Friday, April 18, 2003 1:14 PM CDT
Hey buddy! I am praying for you all day but I am about to get in my car so I better keep my eyes open!! Give your awesome mommy a hug for me and Jeanette give little Jalen a hug from me!! I love you guys! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Friday, April 18, 2003 11:00 AM CDT
Another prayer friend on your side. I am glad to hear Jalen is feeling better, he has a great mother on his side. I hope the Protocel juice works for Jalen as well as it has for my nephew. Prayers are with you
Tonya Roth
Jacksonville, Fl - Friday, April 18, 2003 9:22 AM CDT
Yahoo! You know, a couple nights ago I woke up in the middle of the night and went to check on Zac. All of a sudden this great feeling of peace came over me and I just knew Jalen would be okay. Keep up the good work Jalen! And Jeanette....you know we're always pulling for you!
Love you guys!
Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac
- Friday, April 18, 2003 8:54 AM CDT
Jalen,
It sounds like things might be looking up for you. I hope you have a Wonderful Easter. In my prayers always. God Bless you and your family.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Friday, April 18, 2003 8:12 AM CDT
WOW!! Glad to hear things are getting better. Hopefully he's turning a corner and you'll be able to hold him soon when they are able to remove some of those IV lines! Keep up the good work Jalen (and Jeanette).
Dawn M
- Friday, April 18, 2003 8:05 AM CDT
GREAT JALEN!!! I see that some positive things are happening. I hope you are feeling at least a little better. You have alot of people praying for you so stay strong and keep fighting little one. Jeanette you are such a strong mother, keep it up!!! God Bless you all. xoxoxo
Cindy Rivera (Wanda's friend from work) <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Friday, April 18, 2003 6:35 AM CDT
GOD BE WITH YOU.
JAN
OH - Friday, April 18, 2003 6:27 AM CDT
Jalen,
What a cutie you are! Sounds like you are a brave little fighter. Know that Jesus love you, sweetie. You have so many people praying for you. Take care little one.
Debbie Little <littlecaleb@hotmail.com>
Dickson, TN - Friday, April 18, 2003 2:07 AM CDT
I just read on another page that your baby is in ICU... praying for you... love, laura
Colton's mother
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 11:50 PM CDT
thinking of you on this day, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 11:33 PM CDT
I am glad to hear things are looking a little better my family prays for you daily and check your journal everyday. there are so many prayers being said for you and your beautiful son. You are such a strong loving mother you have taught me so much. we will continue to pray that every day he takes steps forward god bless you
nicole
tomah, wi - Thursday, April 17, 2003 10:07 PM CDT
Please remember... WE CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST!!! Sending {{{{{hugs}}}}} and prayers your way...Be strong in your faith and trust in GOD always...GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY and may the GOOD LORD HEAL JALEN COMPLETELY AMEN!!!!!
Janet Scheeley (jeffery's Aunt)www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <CHEROKEE0530@AOL.COM>
Ft.Pierce , Fl - Thursday, April 17, 2003 9:52 PM CDT
Hey guys I hope today brought things going in a better direction for little Jalen. I hope that what Amie & I set out to do with the Adopt A Kids Site is working, and you have more people praying and praying and praying some more for you and visiting your site. I just wanted to take this opportunity to wish you a Happy & Healthy & Blessed Easter/Passover/spring time, whatever you prefer!!
Chris
~ Gooch's Site ~ * * ~ Adopt A Kid's site ~
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 8:59 PM CDT
I will pray that God will bless you and your family, and give you a miracle for Jalen! Be human, forget being strong, love your baby, and cry, cry, cry, and cry some more, you'll feel more energy come to you. Peace and Prayers to your family from ours. 4/J's
Julie (jeffery's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/jeffery <JulieSample1@aol.com>
jacksonville, fl usa - Thursday, April 17, 2003 8:06 PM CDT
SENDING PRAYERS FOR FAST HEALING FOR YOUR BEAUTIFUL SON, YOU CAN TELL HE GETS HIS STREGNTH FROM YOU GOD BLESS
PRAYING
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 7:16 PM CDT
Hi,
I am a volunteer for Make-a-Wish. I found your site through Katia's..I try to check on her often. A very good friend led me to Caring Bridge, where I adtopted Katia. Noelle and Nicholas' website is http://www.caringbridge.org/nc/noellenicholas , if you'd like to visit it.
I will be keeping Jalen in my prayers. I am so sorry to hear what you're going through. I can almost feel the pain when I read your journal entry.
I will check back on Jalen. Please feel free to email anytime.
Lynn Kanode <lbk3767@alltel.net>
Winston-Salem, NC - Thursday, April 17, 2003 7:09 PM CDT
My prayers are with you and my heart is breaking with yours also. I know the emotions you are experiencing. God will always be there, even when we don't understand why things are happening.
Tonya (Chassidy's mom) caringbridge.org/il/chassidy <tonyam54@excite.com>
metropolis, IL - Thursday, April 17, 2003 4:14 PM CDT
May God bless you all and stand by you through this difficult time.
Annamaria Diamantis <annadiamantis @hotmail.com>
Nassau, Bahamas - Thursday, April 17, 2003 4:02 PM CDT
Hi. I am a friend of Ruthie's. I just want to let you know that I am praying for you and your sweet little boy. I cannot even imagine the pain you are handling now.
Sue Davis-Killian
Lake Worth, FL - Thursday, April 17, 2003 3:39 PM CDT
I think you are feeling what you should feel. My 2 year old has neuroblastoma and we have had our ups and downs. I know it is so scary. YOu seem to have a great attitude adn faith and that will pull you through. you are in my prayers. Jalen is absolutely adorable. God bless you.
Kim Watts
Kim www.taylorwatts.org
McCalla, AL - Thursday, April 17, 2003 3:02 PM CDT
Still praying for your sweet Jalen... I hope things are going okay. Lots of Love from Denver
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Thursday, April 17, 2003 2:48 PM CDT
I just want to let you know that the Quilting Angels are praying so hard that Jalen gets better soon. Jalen is such a fighter and I know he's fighting hard right now. I just wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers.
Jean - Quilts of Love <jean@quiltsoflove.com>
Tucson, AZ - Thursday, April 17, 2003 2:16 PM CDT
Jalens parent,
Your little guys is so cute. Keep up the faith, I know it is hard but believe in the strength and power of prayer. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Robin Dunnigan <www.caringbridge.org/fl/bailee>
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 2:15 PM CDT
Hi Jalen! I wanted to wish you a very Happy Easter holiday and to tell you to stay strong and stay smiling as you are loved very much! *HUGS*
Angel of the Forest, Simply Enchanting Angels (http:/seangels.org) <DBBurns@aol.com>
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 12:22 AM CDT
Just dropping by to check on you and Jalen. Many prayers are going out and I pray that you are getting some rest.
In God's Love, Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Thursday, April 17, 2003 12:08 AM CDT
My family and I will keep your family in our prayers. We will pray for a full recovery for Jalen. He is adorable. Keep the faith and continue to think positive.
The Kelley Family (friends of Julie VanDenbosch - Stiles Machinery) <ckelley@stilesmachinery.com>
Belding , MI USA - Thursday, April 17, 2003 12:02 AM CDT
I don't think the link to Holly's site work. The guestbook entry below. I'll try to type it again.
Holly's Site
Anita Moore
Sikeston, MO - Thursday, April 17, 2003 11:48 AM CDT
Jeanette and Sweet Jalen, I'm just checking for an update and letting you know I'm still praying for you. Baby Jalen, get better soon. Your pictures show what a sweet little boy you are! With Christ's Love,
Ashley - friend of Chassidy Dennis, AML
Paducah, KY - Thursday, April 17, 2003 11:29 AM CDT
Hi,
I have read through Jalen's history. I am so sorry for the pain that you have felt and feeling. That little guy is a fighter. That cancer just will not leave him alone. My daughter had AML and had alot of ARA-C. The ARA-C worked wonderful on Holly. I do believe that the cancer can mutate so certain chemos will not work. They do need to try something else. I have been praying for Jalen to pull through this round of infection to continue on his fight. When I felt the world closing in on me, I would slip away and find a quiet place to pray. I would go to the shower because I didn't think they could hear me crying in there or the chapel. I also know when you can't pray that God listens to our hearts.
Holly's Site
Anita Moore
Sikeston, MO - Thursday, April 17, 2003 11:10 AM CDT
Please let me know how things are going this morning... I have been praying my heart out and calling everyone I know to also.
"Lord, please let Little Jalen feel better and bring his life a miracle!"
I love you guys. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 10:11 AM CDT
Praying for you and baby Jalen. I hope that today will bring better news. Jalen is so lucky to have such a wonderful mom, and you are so lucky to have such a beautiful little boy. I check on baby Jalen daily, and was so sad to read he is having such a hard time. All of us at Caringbridge think of you often! Hang in there!
Tonya <www. caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Thursday, April 17, 2003 9:32 AM CDT
tina is my daughter and has kept our family up to date with jalen's progress.tina is very emotional as we all are and we understand your pain and pray to god that jalen can overcome his illness.we are all praying for jalen and we do believe in miracles.god bless
jimmy klonaris
nassau, n.p. bahamas - Thursday, April 17, 2003 9:30 AM CDT
Good Morning Jalen: I just read your moms last entry and I'm sorry to hear your under the weather sweetie. I will pray the Lord will touch you and help you. I will also pray for your moma too sweetie. I sure hope your back out running around very soon. Hugs to you littel one and may God bless you & your moma. Angel Heartstrings from Simply Enchanting Angels
Angel Heartstrings <http://seangels.org>
south central, ks usa - Thursday, April 17, 2003 9:26 AM CDT
Good morning! I just read the last entry and I am so sorry to hear that things are rocky right now. I will be praying for baby Jalen and you! I don't know how you are supposed to feel, just know that whatever you are feeling is perfectly normal. When Ryan had his transplant he was only critical once and never went to intensive care, but we had dear friends that did. It is very hard on everyone to watch someone you love and care about hurt. I know that you are a great mom from reading your journal entries, and that you are doing everything possible to help Jalen! Prayer and belief are two of the strongest factors, and I know that God has a plan for Jalen. Your medical team is working miracles from god, and I will pray for guidance to them. Please try to get some sleep and remember to drink/eat, because if you get sick you are not as able to help Jalen. When Ryan was in the hospital, everyone kept telling me that and it was very hard to follow their advice, but you need your rest to think clearly. I ended up being up most of the night to care for Ryan and then took long naps in the afternoon, whatever works for you best. Okay, sorry to be so long........I will keep checking the web-site and thinking of you, Jalen, and family.
Laura Ladd <MousieLadd@aol.com>
Orlando, FL - Thursday, April 17, 2003 9:01 AM CDT
GOD BLESS YOU, I WILL KEEP JALEN IN MY DAILY PRAYERS. KEEP THE FAITH. MY DAUGHTER, RUTHIE GAVE ME YOUR WEBSITE.
JERRY ATWELL (SETH'S GRANDMA)
- Wednesday, April 16, 2003 11:07 PM CDT
Jalen You are in my thoughts and prayers.... May GOd help you through this....
Jodie Summers..... http://www.caringbridge.org/ca/lindsayjohnson <jsummers1@bak.rr.com>
Arvin, California United States of America..."Pray for Our Troops" - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 10:58 PM CDT
Jeanette. Please know that you and Jalen are in my prayers! Hoping everything turns out just fine for all of you. God will get you through.
Angel Greeneyes http://seangels.org <AngelGreeneyes1125@hotmail.com>
MS USA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 10:30 PM CDT
DEAR JENNETTE,
I GOT YOUR SON'S WEBSITE FROM COLBY COLE'S. A FRIEND OF YOUR'S WAS ASKING FOR PRAYER FOR YOUR SON AND FOR SOMEONE TO WRITE YOU WITH ENCOURAGING WORDS. I DON'T KNOW MUCH ABOUT YOUR SON'S HISTORY BUT I AM AN ICU NURSE FOR BIG PEOPLE AND I CAN ONLY IMAGINE WHAT YOU MUST BE GOING THROUGH TO HAVE TO SEE YOUR SON PARALIZED TO KEEP HIM COMFORTABLE WHILE THE BREATHING MACHINE DOES IT'S JOB OF RESTING HIS BODY WHILE IT HEALS. PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS AS I ADD YOUR SON TO MY LIST OF CHILDREN FIGHTING CHILDHOOD DISEASES. KEEP YOUR FAITH, THE LORD IS WITH YOU AND WILL NOT FORSAKE YOU. IN HIS GREAT LOVE,
SARAH DARRELL <SIDD@ZOOMINTERNET.NET>
DUNBAR, P USA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 10:25 PM CDT
DEAREST JEANETTE,
I am so sorry that you guys are going thru so much pain. This is a terrible thing to have to go thru, and we will be praying hard for you. Stay strong and look to God and all his beautiful little angels for help. Sending lots of love and prayer your way.
jack-colby's daddy forever and ever and ever
www.caringbridge.org/pa/colby, UNIONTOWN PA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 10:18 PM CDT
Happy Easter Sweet Jalen...
Love, Kim
~KODYS STORY~
- Wednesday, April 16, 2003 9:24 PM CDT
I am so sorry to see things are so very hard right now.
I pray this time on the ventilator allows his little lungs to heal, and that it is not leukemia causing this.
Please hang on and keep the faith - we are all praying for your little guy.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Wednesday, April 16, 2003 9:19 PM CDT
Jeanette - You and Jalen are in my prayers and many thoughts throughout the day and night. I pray strength comes to you and Jalen and he is able to rid his precious body of this infection and get on the road to recovery!!
Remember to keep your strength up. We're pulling for you all!!
Dawn M
, - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 7:44 PM CDT
Hi there ^A^ Toto here hopping in to wish you a very Happy Easter! my prayers are with you and I am so sorry to hear you are having such a hard time right now.
Angel Toto
- Wednesday, April 16, 2003 7:00 PM CDT
I am Zac Howland's grandmom (Natalee's mom). We love Jalen through Natlaee. We pray for you and Jalen. We share your pain. Please know that you are not alone. There are many of us who are with you, walking side by side. Love him and tell him about everyone who is praying with you, ready to walk through this with you.
Gayle Welsh <welsh@lcsnet.com>
Ft. Myers, FL - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 5:49 PM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
I am Seth's Aunt Dori, Ruthie told me about Jalen. Reading the webpage makes my heart ache for Jalen, you and your family. I will be praying for you guys and keeping you in my thoughts. Jalen is beautiful! This is such a hard thing to have to go through all I can say is it absolutely sucks!!! Take care of yourself as much as you can!
Take care,
Dori Neary <todori@adelphia.net>
PBG, FL - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 5:22 PM CDT
I hope you know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers....I stop every morning and check in with the folks from POST for updates.
Get as much rest as you can....I know that easier said than done...so many people in and out of his room. It is exhausting for the parents. I will pray for you all. You rest and get your strength just as Jalen is doing.
Much Love to you
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 4:40 PM CDT
I hope that all is getting better for Mr. Jalen today! I can not even imagine how you feel right now, besides EXHAUSTED! Please know that we are ALL pulling for you both right now! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 4:00 PM CDT
I have never been where you are right now, but I am a Mother, and can imagine how scared you are to not know what lies ahead for you and your precious child. I can only encourage you and remind you that God is with you, even if it is hard to see Him through your tears and Jalen's suffering. My prayers are with you.
A friend in Christ, Susan
Susan Nero <snero561@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 3:57 PM CDT
I found your site through a note on Colby's website. It is just beyond imagination that there are so many sick children in the world. I lost my daugher, although she was 38, she still was a child at heart, having Down's Syndrome. Please hang on to your faith as that is all that we have. It will see you through whatever lies ahead, but, just know that I will pray for a miracle for Jalen and all the other children and their families that are suffering so intensely.
Lorraine <LMiscik@aol.com>
McClellandtown, Pa - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 3:37 PM CDT
Hello! Cardinal Newman Key Club has been praying for you-we love you and enjoy seeing you on our visits--Justin Deck/amanda Tauber/ Ms Lewis
cathy lewis
west palm beach, fl USA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 3:24 PM CDT
I want you and your family to know that I am praying for Jalen and his complete healing. I too have a daughter with cancer and I also have a 17 month old son. I know your heart is heavy and you are fearful. Lean on the lord for everything. There are so many things we don't understand but the lord has a plan for us all. My heart and prayers go out to you all!!
Kim
Hannah's page
<kymberleigh321@aol.com>
Goodlettsville, Tn **USA** - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 3:08 PM CDT
I found your site through Katia's site. My heart goes out to you and your family. I don't really know what to say, but I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and praying for little Jalen.
Chuson (www.caringbridge.org/tx/jeffrey)
Arlington, TX USA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 1:45 PM CDT
I just heard from Natalie about Jalen.
My heart goes out to you and your family. I had written a couple of weeks ago because I was so touched by Jalen. I lost my own son at the age of 13 months to cancer. I truly know what you are going through.
It sounds strange but...take one step at a time. One breath at a time, for you as well as him. Talk to him. Hold him. And let others help you. It's very hard to let others really in when you are so immersed in your pain but you need to.
It is so hard to imagine that what you are going through is "meant to be". It's sounds so cold but it's not. You and your child have touched so many.
I always hoped that the suffering and pain that my son went through touched people enough to make them grateful for each day. It did.
I had people tell me after his service that they had never been to nicer one(I don't remember much of it) I did have the minister tape record it so I could play it back. I still listen to it. Sometimes when I need a good excuse to break down and cry and sometimes when I need smile. it does both for me.
I look at your son's picture and so much love comes from him. You have done a wonderful job.
Take one momemnt at a time. No matter what the outcome is, treasure each moment. I know you're exhausted. Try to rest. Eat something, drink something, try to take of yourself even just a little.
I will say extra prayers for you today. I knwo this is a national website but I'm willing to put my telephone number on it.
Call me(collect if you need to) (207)657-4127 in the evenings. During the weekdays I always wear a pager(207)741-8346. I would be blessed to be able to talk to you and help you through whatever the Lord's plan is for you and Jalen.
Trust me! You and he will be alright. No matter the outcome, you will both be alright
Sharon Dube <dubes@mmc.org>
Gray, Me - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 1:38 PM CDT
Oh, Jeanette I am praying for you and Jalen so much. I just want him to be better so bad!!!! This is breaking my heart and I know it just must be tearing you up. It has to be. Jalen has been through so much already. Why do things keep going against him? I just want so bad for Jalen to be better. I was watching Barney today (Live in NewYork) with Katia and we were talking about how Jalen loves Barnie so much. Please Jeanette, try to keep me informed of any changes. I know sleep is impossible right now and you don't want to ever miss a thing. I wouldn't even want to sleep. I don't know what to say sweet girl. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Wednesday, April 16, 2003 1:04 PM CDT
Praying for a peace that passes all understanding. Keep fighting the fight and hold onto Jesus. He is the one who will sustain you in your time of need.
Chris Hebert <fishermom2002@aol.com>
wpb, fl - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 12:50 AM CDT
Though you don't know me, I pray for your little fighter every day. Keep the faith. Miracles can happen. I was speaking with a friend of mine yesterday who brought his baby girl back from the brink - that was 4 years ago. The same can happen for Jalen.
Kim Barnes <kbarnes@pbpost.com>
Lake Worth, - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 12:08 AM CDT
Jalen,
I hope you start to feel better. You and your family are in my prayers. God Bless you. Keep strong and keep fighting little man.
Michelle Zammat <whisperpur@yahoo.com>
Belcamp, MD USA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 11:28 AM CDT
You are doing your best for Jalen. Whether or not you can see a response, know that he knows you are there and you love him.
Best wishes,
Susan Wensel
- Wednesday, April 16, 2003 11:19 AM CDT
Dear Jeanette,
I am praying for you and Jalen. You are right, your bond with Jalen is the strongest and the best, I hope he recovers soon, keep up the good work, one hour, one moment at a time, tell the hospital to let your husband stay with you and Jalen in the room, there are times ANY rule can be changed. Love, Robyn
Robyn Delgado <caringbridge.com/ca/quito>
San Diego, CA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 10:11 AM CDT
I was very touched by the poem you posted. I can't imagine having to go through what you're going through. All I can say is there are a lot of people out there you've never met praying for Jalen. Keep talking to him - he knows when you're around.
Julie (Natalee's sister) <jvandenbosch@stilesmachinery.com>
Grand Rapids, MI - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 9:31 AM CDT
My heart is breaking as I read your site. How can any parent attempt to tell another parent how to lose a child, it can't be done. Just know I am praying every day for your sweet baby boy and think about you so much. I can't imagine what you must be going through and I pray it all ends soon.
Love,
Deirdre
- Wednesday, April 16, 2003 9:15 AM CDT
I don't have any answers for you - but I do have lots of prayers to send you. I heard about Jalen through Ruthie Bunkleman, and I want you to know there are many people out there pulling for you and your precious baby. Miracles do happen everyday, keep believing. Much love, hugs, and prayers.
Anna Losito <annalosito@yahoo.com>
west palm beach, fl - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 9:15 AM CDT
Jenette and Jalen,
We are praying for you and Jalen. Your faith will keep you strong. Give that cutie a kiss from us.
Kathy Pacheco & Kyle Pacheco <pachecos@gate.net>
Lake Worth, FL - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 9:09 AM CDT
Jeanette and Jalen, I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles. I've never lost a child, and I cannot imagine your pain in seeing your child suffer, but I do know that God will comfort you and help you through this. Do not lose your faith. He is there for you. He is there right now. His arms are around you, you only have to feel them. Lean into Him and don't ever stop praying for healing in your son! God loves us all and wants the best for us all. We do not understand what is best for us, regardless if it is good or bad. So just continue to turn to God and He will take care of everything for you. Take this one day at a time and give it to God one day at a time. I will be praying with you, for Jalen, and for you. You have people that are filled with the love of Christ praying for you. Let that love help you stay strong.
Ashley Patterson - friend of Chassidy Dennis, AML
Paducah, KY - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 9:06 AM CDT
I do not have any of the answers to your questions.. It seems so unfair. I read these entries from you and parents just like you, I ask myself how can they be so strong?! and you like so many others are.. Again I have no answers just prayers.. I will continue to pray for your sweet Jalen..
Pam <lakenormanheat@yahoo.com>
Denver, NC USA - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 8:10 AM CDT
I just want you to know that I am praying for you and Jalen. Don't give up hope. Pray that God's will be done. Believe in miracles. I can't even begin to imagine what you are feeling but I pray God will give you peace.
Lori Tolley
North Canton , OH - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 7:12 AM CDT
I found you through Ruthie - Your family and Jalen have been in my prayers for many days now. I am so sorry for all you are experiencing. It is too much for a parent. Please keep your faith and know that we are all praying for you. Much love and many prayers,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 7:10 AM CDT
There is no such thing as preparing yourself to lose your child. I don't know what to say to you...being through it all myself...I try to think of what people said to me that helped. But there is nothing anyone can say or do to take this pain away. When I had a feeling that Tyler was going to leave me, I had a talk with him. He was older though and he understood me...he always seen angels...and I asked him if he was still seeing them, and he shook his head yes. I asked him if they were trying to take him from me, and his chin quivered, and he said yes. It was the hardest conversation I ever had with him, but I felt I had to do it. I told him that I know that he was tired, and I knew that he was sick of being in pain....and I asked him why he didn't go. He looked at me and cried, "Because I will never see you again!"...I promised him that we would always be together no matter what...I was just something that I had to do, because we were so close...he protected me from everything, as I did him. And I know that he would have held on forever if he thought is would spare me the pain.
I know your son is younger...just whisper to him all the time...there is nothing better than mommys voice and touch. He knows that you are there...he feels your love. It is the worst thing in the world to sit back and watch your child suffer...I wish I could help you...
Vicki <tj4ever@frontiernet.net>
Ny - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 6:42 AM CDT
Jeanette, I am so sorry to hear Jalen is having such a difficult time right now. Please don't give up hope, Jalen is such a strong little boy, he still has a lot of fight left. Take care of yourself, Jalen needs his mommy to be strong right now. You are both continually in my prayers.
(((Hugs)))
Jill and Connor
www.caringbridge.com/nj/connorholmes
Jill C. <jilly7896@aol.com>
Cinnaminson, NJ - Wednesday, April 16, 2003 2:50 AM CDT
WHEW! Glad that you both did so well today!;) I have been thinking of you all day. I hope that things start to look up on Jalen's breathing too. I am sure it will. It definately sounds as though the 'lil guy still has spunk! :) :o ;) That is SPECTACULAR! Hope it keeps up. Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 8:44 PM CDT
Just stopped by to let you know your in my prayers.
www.caringbridge.org/page/ajdavis
Kathy, Mom to Amanda <kathyd1@adelphia.net>
Chillicothe, Ohio USA - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 7:08 PM CDT
Just wanted to let you know i am praying for you all and to send you loads of best wishes,have faith,he is a tough little cookie.
sharon shields <shrshlds@aol.com>
London, England - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 5:09 PM CDT
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Hang in there and God will help you through this.
Julie (Natalee's sister) <jvandenbosch@stilesmachinery.com>
Grand Rapids, MI - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 2:25 PM CDT
HANG IN THERE!!!! There are so many people praying for you...
Love Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac Howland <Howlandwelsh@aol.com>
- Tuesday, April 15, 2003 1:46 PM CDT
God bless you guys and that poor little peanut. This too shall pass.
Love,
Deirdre
- Tuesday, April 15, 2003 9:00 AM CDT
Thank goodness for music. It's good that he found the mental and physical strength to get a groove on...Keep the faith - I just know he'll get better and better!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Tuesday, April 15, 2003 8:19 AM CDT
I am hoping and praying that all is going well for you both today! Little guy needs a break from all this he is going through. AND MOM TOO!!! There are lots of people thinking of you all! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, April 14, 2003 5:19 PM CDT
Dear Jalen and Jeanette, You do not know me, but I found you through Katia's site, which I found through Chassidy Dennis, AML. I wanted to let you know I will lift you up in prayer. Be strong in your faith. God knows what is best, even when we do not. I will pray for complete healing in Brandon and for peace and comfort in your hearts. May God bless you always.
Ashley Patterson
Paducah, KY - Monday, April 14, 2003 4:18 PM CDT
Dear sweet Jaylen,
You are always in our thought and prayers. Remember your Quilts Of Lovr family loves you very much.
Happy Easter from your Quilts Of Love family.
Hugs,
Island Princess
Island Princess <islandprincess@quiltsoflove.com>
- Monday, April 14, 2003 3:14 PM CDT
POOR BABY!!
I hope that the procedure goes well and that it doesnt cause to much pain. Why do they have to do it on the neck? Know that you are in our prayers ! God Bless!!! Take care!
Cindy Rivera <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
plantation, FL usa - Monday, April 14, 2003 12:36 AM CDT
Dear Jalen :)
Hey there! You don't know me, but I am writing to you from Australia!! That's ALL the way across the world from you :) I found your site through Katia's site and I just wanted to come by and say HELLO...I am sorry to hear that you haven't been doing too well...I will be praying VERY hard for you, sweetie..and I hope that the fevers will stay away! Hang in there, buddy...you are real strong and I know you will pull through all of this!! Show them what you're made off :) I hope you have a great day, and I will check back soon..
All my love,
XOXOXOXO
Janice <wine_chic@yahoo.com>
Melbourne, Australia - Monday, April 14, 2003 11:24 AM CDT
Just wanted to say hey! Jalen and you are always in our prayers. I'm sorry he's having such a rough time right now. Zac had that central line in his neck before he got his port. I didn't hurt him at all, they put it in while he was under. Hang in there!
We love you!
Natalee & Zac
Natalee
- Monday, April 14, 2003 9:16 AM CDT
I was just reading about another child with an infection in his port. His mom says the antibiotics usually knock it out without too much trouble. I'm sorry he's feeling sick and pray you can cuddle him no matter WHAT!!
Love,
Deirdre
- Monday, April 14, 2003 8:20 AM CDT
We are praying extra hard for Jalen today!!
Much Peace Prayers Love and Hope for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Monday, April 14, 2003 7:06 AM CDT
That poor little baby...please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Those fevers are so nasty...along with line infections. He needs a break...
Vicki <tj4ever@frontiernet.net>
Lowville, NY - Monday, April 14, 2003 6:12 AM CDT
Thinking about you all and praying HARD for Jalen to reach remission and a successful transplant. Miracles do happen and prayer is the key. Keep the faith!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Sunday, April 13, 2003 8:56 PM CDT
Hey there one and all...LOVED the new pictures!!!! I had Scott make me prints to put in my office....so you know I am thinking about you all, all the time!
Jalen is in our thoughts and prayers everyday.
Much Peace Prayers and Hope for a cure for all childhood cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, April 13, 2003 7:12 PM CDT
Jeanette, thank you for going by those other sites. You are very ensightful and people can follow Jalen's story at the same time. I pray all is getting better today and maybe as I type, little Jalen is playing:) Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Sunday, April 13, 2003 10:40 AM CDT
Jeanette and Jalen:
I am so glad to hear Jalen feels better. I love the new photo with the stuffed animal. He looks so cute.
With Love,
Susan and Jakey Bear Griffin
www.caringbridge.com/page/jakegriffin
jupiter, fl USA - Sunday, April 13, 2003 8:50 AM CDT
May God continue to bless you Jalen!! You are very precious little boy. You are in our thoughts and prayers!!
Tonya (chassidy's mom) caringbridge.org/il/chassidy
Metropolis, IL - Sunday, April 13, 2003 0:31 AM CDT
I LOVE THE NEW PIC!!!
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
TRACY SOLOMON
- Saturday, April 12, 2003 3:23 PM CDT
He is just TOO cute for words!! Thinking about you and hoping all is well, or as well as can be expected that is. God bless.
Deirdre
- Saturday, April 12, 2003 2:15 PM CDT
Hope your little soldier is staying out of pain and getting into lots of trouble!
love,
Deirdre
- Friday, April 11, 2003 3:56 PM CDT
I am so glad he isn't in so much pain! That must make you happy!! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Friday, April 11, 2003 11:05 AM CDT
I am a person that had Leukemia, and subsequently, a Bone Marrow Transplant. This was more then 14 years ago. This makes me know exactly what Jalen and his parents, as well as his grandmother, Darlene are now going through. I have made it my lifes ambition to try and help anyone that has to go through Leukemia. I was contacted by Darlene, and we have been in touch ever since then by e-mail as well as on the telephone. We have discussed some of the things that may be available to help Jalen. One of these things are prayers. There were a lot of prayers that were said for me, and this was a great help to me. I am going to say a very special prayer that really helped me, and I shall continue saying it every day until Jalen is well once more.
HEAL US
Heal us, O Lord, and we shall be healed.
Help us and we will be helped, for You are the One we praise. Bring full healing to Jalen as well as to all those who are ill. For You are a healing sovereign, faithful and merciful. Blessed are You, Who heals the ill of your people and all humankind...
Whomever reads this please also say this very special prayer for Jalen. I know that GOD heard it when I was ill, and he shall hear it again...
Marty Gartenberg <wa2yyx@juno.com>
Boynton Beach, Florida United States - Thursday, April 10, 2003 6:19 PM CDT
So happy to see you all looking well. The new pitures are "fun"!! ;) I hope the weekend goes well for you all! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, April 10, 2003 5:59 PM CDT
Hi Jalen!
Just wanted to say hi. Love the Barney pictures. You guys hang tough. I am SO glad you are feeling better.
Love Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac <Howlandwelsh@aol.com>
- Thursday, April 10, 2003 1:21 PM CDT
16 months!!?? So young and already so brave. Glad to read he's doing well and that you're enjoying it. God bless, I am thinking about you.
Deirdre Antalek <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
Livonia , NY - Thursday, April 10, 2003 7:11 AM CDT
Jalen,
I am glad you liked the balloons I sent you the other day. I wanted to make sure to put a SMILE on your face that day. Take care and God Bless. Jeanette if there is anything you need dont forget there are people out here that you dont even know that are welling to help in anyway!!! Lots of Love!
Cindy Rivera <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Thursday, April 10, 2003 6:00 AM CDT
I hope that you are all doing OK...I will keep the prayers coming on strong.
Vicki <tj4ever@frontiernet.net>
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, April 9, 2003 8:37 PM CDT
Wow Jalen! You got to meet Barney! I am sooo jealous. I bet you had a really great day. I hope the morphine pump takes all your pain away so you can go places with your mommy soon. I'm praying for you. xxxx
http://www.caringbridge.org/europe/cassie
Cassie <janetcassandra@yahoo.co.uk>
England - Tuesday, April 8, 2003 1:33 AM CDT
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Vicki
Lowville, NY - Monday, April 7, 2003 7:58 PM CDT
Sounds like it was an AWESOME day for you all!! Great! :) I hope that Jalen can get rid of the pain soon too! It is too rough on him, and you! My kids both were scared of people in costumes where you could not see the "true" faces of the people too! My daughter was until she was almost 5! It was funny.. my son would call them over, she would wail!!! Anyway. have a great week! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, April 7, 2003 6:10 PM CDT
Hi Jeanette, We continue to pray for Jalen and your Aunt Terri keeps us up to date and I check in for all the updates. Also, Brianna, our grand daughter is near Iraq and she is praying for you and Jalen with a prayer partner each day and always asks for you. You met Brianna when you were kids at one of the BD parties, I guess for JC because I found a picture of the two of you! Brianna remembers you. I usually go to the other update page but this one is great. What a great job! Lots of love and prayers, Lou and Arlene
Arlene Polizzi <Amplmp@Aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Monday, April 7, 2003 4:36 PM CDT
You have a beautiful little baby boy and I'm praying for him. I got your site through Katia's and I'll be checking in on you. Keep up the fight and know there are strangers, many miles away thinking of you and praying for you.
Deirdre Antalek <deirdre@rochester.rr.com>
Livonia (Rochester), NY USA - Monday, April 7, 2003 4:02 PM CDT
Jeannete,
You have always been strong and I'm sure that that strength is being tried and tested. Jalen is a wonderful kid and lucky to have a mother like you. I pray God will spare him as much pain as possible. Hold tight to your faith, girl, and let God do the work. You and Jalen are always in my prayers.
Brianna Haney <haney.brianna@lincoln.navy.mil>
Everett, WA USA - Monday, April 7, 2003 11:46 AM CDT
jalen should be receiving some balloons today from my co-worker at social security, she's always asking about your beaufitul baby, and i do keep her updated. know that jalen, you and dale are in our prayers. love ya
Wanda(leona) and Harlee <simply549@yahoo.com>
- Monday, April 7, 2003 11:09 AM CDT
I wish you the best Jeanette! I am a friend of Leona's at work. She keeps us all updated. My prayers are with you and your family. I am sending your son a BIG hug from all of us here at work Social Security Adm. I sent Jalen a little greeting card thru email. Enjoy! May God continue to hold your son in his arms. Feel better Jalen!!!
Cindy Rivera <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL usa - Monday, April 7, 2003 9:09 AM CDT
Hello, my name is Lisa and I'm Jessica's mom. Jessie was dx:aml/m7 on 6/28/98 at the age of 2. I just found your site and wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our prayers. There is hope, though. Jessie will be celebrating 5 yrs off-treatment this October. She is a healthy, happy 7 yr. old, now. She did all of this with chemo only. We spent 5 straight months in the hospital and went through losing her quit a few times but we saw the light on the other side. If you need anything or just to vent please e-mail.
Remember MIRACLES do Happen!
Lisa Glodowski: Mom to Jessica(age: 7) dx:6/23/98-aml/m7 <lisaglod@aol.com>
Hamilton , NJ - Monday, April 7, 2003 8:44 AM CDT
That is great!!! I wish he felt better for he visit but I am sure it is bouncing around in his little mind!! I love the pictures by the way. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Monday, April 7, 2003 3:26 AM CDT
You have such a beautiful son, You are such a stong mother you can tell where jalen gets his stregnth. You are in my prayers daily. GOD BLESS YOU!!! I pray that can get his pain under control so you can see him smile!! he has such a beautiful smile!!!!
nw
tomah, wi - Monday, April 7, 2003 0:01 AM CDT
Jalen, Jeanette & Dale:
"I said a prayer for you today and I know God must have heard.
I felt the answer in my heart although He spoke no word.
I didn't ask for wealth or fame (I knew you wouldn't mind!)
I asked Him to send treasures of a far more lasting kind.
I asked that He'd be near you at the start of each new day,
To grant you health and blessings and friends to share your way.
I asked for happiness for you in all things great and small,
BUT IT WAS FOR HIS LOVING CARE I PRAYED FOR MOST OF ALL"
We love you, puppy
Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac <Howlandwelsh@aol.com>
Just down the hall, - Sunday, April 6, 2003 6:45 PM CDT
Hi,
I've seen your messages on Seth Bunklemann's CB website. Jalen is really lovely, and I know you treasure him more than anything. It's inconceivable what your little boy, and you as his family, have been through. Reading all the messages here in Jalen's guestbook, I can tell he has so much support and love from family, friends and complete strangers. Add my name to that list. I pray for a bright, beautiful and pain-free future for your son.
Juliet <ukbrowneyes@hotmail.com>
an American stationed in the UK - Sunday, April 6, 2003 6:28 PM CDT
My heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my son, Adam, in December of 1988. He was diagnosed at 8 months old with a Stage 4 liver tumor and died 5 months later at the age of 13 months. There is NOTHING worse than seeing your child in pain.
My prayers are with you. Do not give up. It's hard to imagine but the nurses who took care of my son told me that I would not lose him until I was ready. I figured I'd never be ready. Believe it or not, when his battle ended, I was ready. I did not give up hope till the end but I know that he is at last in peace. I feel him with me constantly and know that he is looking out for Jalen and giving him strength to continue his battle.
Your son's pictures are beautiful. Such a blessing! Hug him, kiss him, hold him as much as possible.
May the Lord Bless you and keep you safe
Sharon Dube <dubes@mmc.org>
Gray, Me - Sunday, April 6, 2003 5:14 PM CDT
Thanks for the offer of watering but I think you have enough on your hands right now.....I am praying BIG time that you will be at transplant by that time!.
My friend Linda Gozza, Cam's mom Michelle and nurse Tracy said they would help. If they did one day it would be perfect!!
Know that we are thinking of you. Hope the Barney visit went well today.
Much Peace,Prayers, Love and Hope for a cure of all childhood cancers.
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, April 6, 2003 4:32 PM CDT
As I sit here ready through your websight, I feel like I am reliving the past year. I am so sorry that your son has to go through this, that you have to watch him go through this. I watched my son, Tyler fight for his life also. I watched him literally fade away from me, and there is nothing that will ever take that pain away. He lost his battle on his ninth birthday, July 22, 2002. Never give up...keep the faith...and put your sons life in Gods hands. Enjoy every minute with him....he truly is a blessing.
Vicki tj4ever@northnet.org
- Sunday, April 6, 2003 1:51 PM CDT
Stay strong little buddy, we are hear for you and are very proud of you! And dont worry faith and family will get you through.
Brianne and David Dawley <Bridawg11232@aol.com>
Oklahoma City, OK USA - Sunday, April 6, 2003 12:36 AM CDT
Glad the numbers are headed in the right direction... Let's keep going!!! I'm praying for you every day.
Enjoy Barney and your family and STAY STRONG!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Saturday, April 5, 2003 10:10 PM CST
JALEN,
I'M PRAYING FOR YOU,YOU BEAUTIFUL BABY!!!!!
MAY GOD WATCH OVER YOU TODAY AND
KEEP YOU SAFE IN EVERY WAY !!!!!
COLBY COLE-AUNT DEE
YOU ARE SPECIAL,
JANICE WRIGHT
JWright <jwright31@neo.rr.com>
Canton, OH - Saturday, April 5, 2003 3:38 PM CST
I am thinking of you, Jalen, and your family! So glad to hear that things are looking up...just believe. And you're right, live each day to the fullest=)
Laura Ladd
Orlando, FL - Saturday, April 5, 2003 2:09 PM CST
I pray that your son is soon cancer free. I am sorry to hear that he is in pain. That bothers me. Take care, Laura
www.caringbridge.org/ca/coltonmeyer
- Saturday, April 5, 2003 11:00 AM CST
Jeanette:
It was so nice finally meeting you all the other night. I am glad to finally put a face with Jalens name. And what a cute little face it is. I pray that your son is soon pain and cancer free.
With Love,
Susan and Jakey Bear Griffin
www.caringbridge.com/page/jakegriffin
jupiter, fl USA - Saturday, April 5, 2003 10:38 AM CST
Jeanette, you are wonderful and such a caring mommy! It is probably best to keep him where he is so he doesn't get upset by being moved around. I always prefer to be somewhere where I know people and they know us. It is so hard to start over because it is like nobody reads the chart for the history, you have to repeat their full history to all the new doctors and nurses. Anyway, I am sure if you pray and follow your heart, you are making the right decision for your baby:)
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Saturday, April 5, 2003 9:19 AM CST
Hello My name is Jenna.
I was born wiht a rare severe genetic bone disease,and I can relate to the pain that Jalen is havign because I am in chronic pain 24/7. My webpage about my fight is: http://www.matmice.com/home/fighterandchampion
Jalen is in my prayers. He is so cute, and such a fighter.
Jenna
Jenna <hockeys_life@hotmail.com>
Kamloops, BC Canada - Saturday, April 5, 2003 1:36 AM CST
Jeanette,
When Jordyn had relapsed after her BMT (3 years ago now..that seems unreal) we were hoping for the Mylotarg trial..it was actually going by the trial name, but I have since found that it's the same drug. Sadly at that point because Jordyn was not out of BMT more than 6 months the FDA would not allow Jordyn to be on the trial, I will always have the "what if's" because I felt so good about this trial and wonder if they had allowed her to go ahead with it if she wouldn't still be here with us today...or given us another remission to try something else. Maybe a remission long enough for me to have had Jacob and possibly had a perfect sibling match (my heart tells me that Jacob would be a perfect match for Jordyn..EVERYTHING IN ME TELLS ME THAT!)
I pray that this drug does what my heart told me it would for Jordyn...give her a long life.
I know that drs have to be truthful with all possibilities...I do not believe it's because they want to be doom and gloom, (although I know there are those type of drs also) but for the most part most drs are honest and tell you the good and bad.
You continue to be in my prayers and thoughts. God Bless
www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome
Christy Fitzpatrick...Angel Jordyn's Mommy forever 3/30/98-5/8/00 dx AML leukemia <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley , KS USA - Friday, April 4, 2003 10:26 PM CST
I pray the mylotarg is the answer we have all been waiting for. We are all thinking of you little Jalen!
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Friday, April 4, 2003 3:41 PM CST
One of the best birthdays I ever had (78) was when Jeanette pulled up in the car with Jalen, my Great Grandson. That day will stay with me forever.
Louis Dodaro <Navylou2003>
Boca Raton, Fl. Palm Beach - Friday, April 4, 2003 7:52 AM CST
Sounds as though you have a real little fighter on your hands. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Keep strong and keep faith.
Heather Rabon <hrabon@me.hcs.k12.sc.us>
Galivants Ferry, sc usa - Friday, April 4, 2003 7:04 AM CST
My thoughts and prayers are always with you all, I hope that the pain will subside soon! He needs a break, and so does mom!!! ;) You know what is best for your son, in your heart you do, so do not second guess yourself! You are a great mom, doing what you can for Jalen, and that is what matters most! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, April 3, 2003 10:29 PM CST
Dear Jeanette & Jalen,
We will continue to pray for Jalen. It hurts so much to see your child in pain, I know. I pray that all of the leukemia will get under control and also that you will have the strength through all of this. These children do not deserve this pain. God Bless. Love, Ryon, Dolores, Joe Rommel
The Rommel's <datz-phat@mail.com>
Jupiter, Fl. USA - Thursday, April 3, 2003 8:34 PM CST
HOW IS DEAREST LITTLE JALEN TODAY? I HOPE YOUR ARM FEELS GOOD! LOVE, TRACY
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
TRACY SOLOMON
- Thursday, April 3, 2003 1:20 PM CST
It is a beautiful day here in the Carolinas. I hope you guys are having a good day. I have had you all in my prayers. Much love, many prayers - always,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
- Thursday, April 3, 2003 8:50 AM CST
I will keep Jalen in my prayers!
Lori Stotsbery (marsha mc curley's friend) <loristots777@aol.com>
North Palm Beach, fl usa - Thursday, April 3, 2003 8:41 AM CST
Just stopped by to see how you all are doing! I hope this finds you all in good spirits! We are getting MORE SNOW.. and frezzing rain up here in NY, and I am PLUM SICK OF IT!!!:) The weather man best hope he doesnt cross my path.. HMPH!! ;) anyway, I will look for an update , a GOOD ONE!!!, later. Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, April 3, 2003 8:15 AM CST
Hi Jalen and family
I hope that they find the best treatment for you very soon, and that the pain goes away. You are such a brave little boy.
Take care, you are in my prayers
http://www.caringbridge.org/europe/cassie
Cassie <janetcassandra@yahoo.co.uk>
England - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:44 PM CST
Jeanette, Dale, Terry and sweet little Jalen, I am continuing to pray for all of you, especially you Jalen!!!! I hope you feel better very soon. You are a blessing to so many and you have given meaning to so many lives in so many ways, more than you may ever know. God bless you tonight in a special way, may you begin the deep miraculous healing you need right now, may the holy spirit work through you and may your little body be made new. God, please make a miracle out of little Jalen, in Jesus name I pray.
God bless you all,
xoxoxo Tina Klonaris-Robinson xoxoxoxo
Tina Klonaris-Robinson <tina_bahamas@yahoo.com>
Nassau, Bahamas - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 10:13 PM CST
Hey cutie Jalen :) You make me smile when I see that adorable face!!! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy
- Wednesday, April 2, 2003 4:45 PM CST
Good Afternoon: Just dropping by to check on you guys. I hope all is well and today is a good day. I am keeping you all in my prayers. God Bless You,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
- Wednesday, April 2, 2003 11:34 AM CST
Jeanette, Dale & Jalen
I just wanted to let you guys know that we love you and are praying for you. Zac has lots of people praying for him and he asks everyone in our "prayer circle" to pray for Jalen. So, there are people in Spain, Germany, Puerto Rico,and all over the country praying for you!!!!!!
Love, Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac <Howlandwelsh@aol.com>
- Wednesday, April 2, 2003 10:54 AM CST
Hi Jalen,
You are such a cutie!! You are in my prayers and I know God is with you. You are a strong little man and have a lot of people who love and watch over you. Jeanette, you and your family are not alone in this battle. Never give up and fight tooth and nail. I am the moderator for the Family Forum on the Care to Share board on NCCS. My son, Kenton, is 5 now and was diagnosed with Hepatoblastoma stage 2, liver cancer, when he was 3 and again at 5. He has been thru this twice now. He is a strong little man and my faith is stronger than ever. I will keep all of you in my prayers and may God bless your family.
All our Love,
Tina and Kenton
Tina Haygood <haygoodt@aol.com>
Deatsville, Al usa - Wednesday, April 2, 2003 0:21 AM CST
Hey cutie pie! I hope you are doing okay and your arm doesn't hurt too bad. You are going to be so tough when you grow up, buddy:)
Jeannette, I went to that site you said and registered. How long does it take for it to be done? Thanks for pointing me in that direction. Prayer is always GREAT!
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 7:15 PM CST
Hi to the strong man Jalen and his tough family! I found your site on the care to share board. I wanted to tell you to stay strong. And any time you need someone to rage to, or to cry at, my e-mail is open to you.
Cheryl Hurd <carpathienblue@yahoo.com>
Oakley, Ut USA - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 5:31 PM CST
I found your site through the NCCS care-to-share network. I am the moderator of the medical forum. When my son was 8 weeks old he was diagnosed with AML. On March 10th of this year we celebrated his 6th birthday (cancer-free.) There is hope. I will pray that your son be completely healed.
He is a beautiful child!
God Bless you.
Gretchen Stenson
Lolo, Mt USA - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 4:00 PM CST
Hi Jalen,
Your mommy asked me to pray for you, and I just want you to know that I am. I am also going to ask a lot of other people to pray too.
Your mom and dad love you so very much, and you have a whole lot of friends who love you too, and we will be praying. And you know what? Jesus loves you even more than all of us do!
God bless you little one,
All my love in Christ,
Gramps
Grampa Jim <grampajim@kidsneedprayer.net>
Maryland - Tuesday, April 1, 2003 3:56 PM CST
I am glad Jalen likes to eat! At least that makes you feel good :) Well, I would definitely check around to see if a foundation will help cover the $$. I will be praying for you guys! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Tuesday, April 1, 2003 3:11 PM CST
You are such a good mom!! Thank you for updating us all so frequently too! It must be a good sign that Jalen is so hungary... I know when my kids are the slightest bit sick they just have no desire to eat.. so I would say an appetite is a good thing! :) ;) That would be great if Jalen could get into that program.. Let us know if there is anything that we all can do! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, March 31, 2003 5:01 PM CST
My heart is very heavy the last few journal entries/updates. I wish I had something magical to say or the best place in the world to take Jalen to cure him of this disease that I know all too well...
You're constantly in my thoughts and prayers....as long as you feel it's in Jalen's best interest to keep fighting..you do that. If the time ever comes...your heart will tell you..ours told us. I hope that time does not come, I hope somehow someone can find something that can put him into remission, allow him to have his transplant, and allow him remission for 80 years or more.
God Bless and PLEASE feel free to email me ANYTIME.
www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome
Jordyn Ashleigh Fitzpatrick
3/30/98-5/8/00
dx AML leukemia 3/24/99
relapsed 10/14/99, BMT 11/19/99, relapsed 2/1/00
Angel Wings...Heaven Sings
Christy..Angel Jordyn's Mommy <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Monday, March 31, 2003 4:48 PM CST
We Love you and are praying for you everyday!!
Christine Snyder <csnyder@nat.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL USA - Monday, March 31, 2003 12:13 AM CST
Keeping your little man in my prayers.
Kim Barnes <kbarnes@pbpost.com>
- Monday, March 31, 2003 8:49 AM CST
Jeanette and Jalen,
We think about you often and pray for you daily. We are glad your back in neighborhood. Hope to stop by this week and see that cutie........
Kathy Pacheco & Kyle Pacheco <caringbridge.org/fl/kylep>
Lake Worth, FL - Sunday, March 30, 2003 10:30 PM CST
WELCOME HOME!!!! I have always wanted to get a tatoo too... hehehaha! Did it hurt? Hope that Jalen is happy to be near AM-MAW and everyone else he is close to... and mommy too! Check back in soon! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Sunday, March 30, 2003 8:09 PM CST
Hey you are back. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.....BIG TIME!!!!
Think of you often!!
I'll be sending over a carepackage to the floor.
Take care my friends
Peace, Prayers and Love
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, March 30, 2003 8:13 AM CST
Just want you to know that I'm thinking about you both. I pray the Mylotarg will be the answer. Keep the faith and the good fight raging!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest , NC - Saturday, March 29, 2003 8:10 PM CST
Wow a tatoo! You must be tough, too! That is so sweet:) Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Saturday, March 29, 2003 4:57 PM CST
Hello,
I just wanted to stop by and say hi....... I got your link from Natalee and Zac... I pray that everything works out for you guys. I feel for you. Maybe we can talk and swap stories one day. If you want to ask Natalee about my son, he is "Zach #1", We have had a long road of ups and downs but are still here to enjoy life (and stress me out). Keep up the good spirits.
PS CANCER SUCKS!!!!!
www.caringbridge.org/fl/zacharyfinestone
Scott, Rebecca and Zachary FInestone <srfinestone@hotmail.com>
Jensen Beach, FL USA - Saturday, March 29, 2003 10:43 AM CST
We will be praying extra hard for little Jalen to beat this and get better. Also praying for you, mom, for the Lord to give you peace and strength as you care for your precious little man!
Lots of Love.....God bless and be with you guys!
yvonne Fernandez http://www.caringbridge.org/nc/leilani <Yvonnengzs@rjia.net>
Mount Airy, NC 27030 - Friday, March 28, 2003 8:15 PM CST
HI Jalen... I know that your angel is always by your side watching you and making sure that you're being strong. Don't loose faith baby.... I will pray for you always..
Gwen Fajayan <Intikab@cs.com>
Lauderhill, FL U.S. A. - Friday, March 28, 2003 7:13 PM CST
Good Afternoon:
Keep the positive attitude and keep your faith. We will all keep Jalen and you in our hearts and prayers. Much love and many prayers,
Wendy Ruth
Wendy Ruth Paxton <wendy.paxton@carolinashealthcare.org>
Rock Hill, SC - Friday, March 28, 2003 2:54 PM CST
Jalen and Jeanette - hang in there and know you're in our prayers and thoughts right along side of Zachary. Natalee gets so much strength from you - thank you. Keep drinking that pink lemonade if that's what makes you happy.
Julie VanDenBosch (Natalee's sister) <jvandenbosch@stilesmachinery.com>
Jenison, MI USA - Friday, March 28, 2003 12:12 AM CST
Jeanette and Jalen, I am praying for you both. I don't really understand the ARA-C thing but it is good that you look over his stuff and kind of compare notes in your head. I looked around for a while yesterday about that but really I found nothing. Did you look up the AML links I sent you. I think it always really helps to know which AML people are dealing with because they each seem to be very unique. I am sure you will be up for transplant soon. Little Jalen seems like a real fighter and he really looks great! Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Friday, March 28, 2003 11:57 AM CST
Our prays or with you and Jalen We also believe he will bet this.God Bless
John&Catherine Tannoia (Dar Aunt,Uncle) <cindafr!@aol.com>
St Petersburg, Fl Pinelasl - Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:51 PM CST
I am so sorry to see the update. I know this must be so hard on you, you must feel so helpless. Please know we are all thinking of you and praying for him. You have found a jewel of a friend in Ruthie.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Thursday, March 27, 2003 5:59 AM CST
I was sorry to sign in and see the update. Don't give up hope, he seems like a strong little guy. I'm praying that the mylotarg puts Jalen in remission so he can head to transplant. He is in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there!
Love, Jill
Connor’s Webpage
Jill C. <jilly7896@aol.com>
Cinnaminson, NJ - Thursday, March 27, 2003 0:02 AM CST
So glad the little guy enjoyed the box of goodies...more to come very soon.
Stay strong my friend. You know we are praying for Jalen!!
Much Love, Peace and Prayers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 10:29 PM CST
Get better quickly Jalen, you're a trooper, you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you sweet child and know that so many people love you.
With all our love,
the klonaris Family, the Robinson Family, The Rolle family, the Constantakis Family, the Blake family and the Maillis Family.....all here in the Bahamas
Tina Klonaris-Robinson <tina_bahamas@yahoo.com>
Nassau, Bahamas - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 9:57 PM CST
Glad to see you updated and are comming home for the new chemo! I am sure you both will do well with it in your "own" environment!! AND... AM-MAW gets to see Mr. Jalen's BEAUTIFUL face!!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!! As you have to!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 8:37 PM CST
Just stopping by to check on baby Jalen, he has captured my heart with those BEAUTIFUL eyes! I check on him daily. I didn't like what I read, but I know with all our prayers he will beat this! Thanks for keeping us posted, I know how busy you must be. Our prayers are with you and Jalen!
Tonya <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
- Wednesday, March 26, 2003 3:51 PM CST
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU! I AM A MOTHER OF TWO CHILDREN AND I CANT IMAGINE WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU. YOU SOUND VERY STRONG ! KEEP THAT UP , THAT BABY NEEDS TO SEE YOU SMILING AT ALL TIMES. I AM SENDING A HUG AND KISS FOR YOUR BABY JALEN. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND BRING YOU TO A FULL RECOVERY.
CINDY RIVERA <CHATA924@YAHOO.COM>
POMPANO BCH, FL BROWARD - Wednesday, March 26, 2003 8:26 AM CST
I guess I am just baffled for you both! I am in a bit of shock... I hope that someone out there DOES have the answers you need. I am sorry that I do not. :( I will pray with all my might that this turns out to be a small test and he has a COMPLETE recovery! Thank you for the quick update, that must have been hard for you. AND... We are all here for you in spirit! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!! VERY!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 9:13 PM CST
I am disappointed but not discouraged!! My hopes and prayers are with you all (and the doctors of course). Hopefully they can provide the treatment Jalen needs to beat this thing!! STAY STRONG !!
Dawn M
- Tuesday, March 25, 2003 9:04 PM CST
Hey Jalen, Praying that all goes well with your bone marrow. My daughter who is 12 has AML and we are waiting for a donor match right now. May God continue to bless you.
Tonya Maxwell <tonyam54@excite.com>
Metropolis, IL - Tuesday, March 25, 2003 6:18 PM CST
Thinking of all of you and hoping tomorrow his bone marrow and LP come back clear. God Bless
http://www.geocities.com/ourangeljordyn/Welcome
Christy...Angel Jordyn's Mommy <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
Ft.Riley, KS USA - Monday, March 24, 2003 11:23 PM CST
****************** ALL MY PRAYERS ARE ON YOU!!***************** Best of luck!!! ;) Hope that you hear what you need, and DESERVE!!!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, March 24, 2003 6:07 PM CST
sENDING PRAYERS OF HEALING AND STREGNTH YOUR WAY GOD BLESS
THINKING OF YOU
WI - Monday, March 24, 2003 9:16 AM CST
Hi Jalen, Glad you are still feeling good! You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Stay Strong Buddy!
-Jill
Connor’s Webpage
Jill <jilly7896@aol.com>
Cinnaminson, NJ - Monday, March 24, 2003 0:10 AM CST
Hi Jeanette, Dale and of course Jalen,
all of us at St Mary's think of you often. We miss that precious boy and his beautiful smile and hugs. We hope you are all holding up ok, we know how tough it is especially being away from home. Jeanette I personally want you to know what an inspiration you are to me. You have dealt with all of your challenges with love strength and courage which is more than admirable. I pray God gives you the strength to endure whatever lies ahead. May He bless and hold your precious angel in the palm of His hands. Keep in touch with us and if you want a few of us to visit we'll take a day trip. We'll put Tonya in the trunk. We love and miss you Peggy and the SMH gang
Peggy RN
FL - Saturday, March 22, 2003 3:54 PM CST
Just checking on you both. Glad you've settled in and things are going smoothly - as smooth as it can be couped up in a hospital...My prayers are with you!! Stay STRONG !!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Friday, March 21, 2003 9:28 PM CST
Just checking on you both. Glad you've settled in and things are going smoothly - as smooth as it can be couped up in a hospital...My prayers are with you!! Stay STRONG !!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Friday, March 21, 2003 9:28 PM CST
I am glad that they have a "puter" for you to use too! Good to hear all is going so well so far! Lets keep it that way! :);) Good that they have music for him too! It is always a cheery item to have around! Have a good weekend.. Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Friday, March 21, 2003 5:16 PM CST
You are always in our prayers
Wanda and Harlee
margate, - Friday, March 21, 2003 12:07 AM CST
Thank you again AM-MAW for the update!!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, March 19, 2003 8:15 PM CST
Your page looks GREAT and I am praying for you. I will send you a note at the other address. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Wednesday, March 19, 2003 4:47 AM CST
Shands at UF (academic medical center in Gainesville)
Thanks again!
Terry (Am-Maw) <vix207@aol.com>
Wellington, FL - Tuesday, March 18, 2003 3:42 AM CST
Went to send a message to Jalen and Jeanette but do not know exactly which Shands hospital they're at.
God Bless
Christy Fitzpatrick <Ourangeljordyn@aol.com>
KS - Monday, March 17, 2003 10:14 PM CST
JUST
DROPPING BY TO SAY HELLO AND WISH YOU HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY. WE ARE PRAYING
FOR YOU TODAY! LOVE, THE SOLOMON FAMILY (KATIA'S FAMILY)
KATIA'S
PAGE (LEUKEMIA
AML M-4)
Tracy
- Monday, March 17, 2003 1:01 PM CST
Hi Jeanette!
Zac & I just wanted to say hi and let you know that we're thinking about you and praying for you.
Love ya!
Natalee & Zac
Natalee & Zac Howland <Howlandwelsh@aol.com>
Lake Worth, - Monday, March 17, 2003 11:59 AM CST
hey,
Im prayin for you!! I hope all goes well! Ill talk to you later.
Love ya GENNA
genna bailey <AngelEyez6501@aol.com>
- Monday, March 17, 2003 9:11 AM CST
OK LETS TRY IT AGAIN.
YOU GO MOM!!!
NOTHING IS AS IMPORTANT AS OUR KIDS HEALTH AND SAFTY!!!
I got a little excited with the enter button.
God Bless!!!
Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
Hemingford, Ne USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 6:11 AM CST
JALEN AND FAMILY...
YOU GO MOM!!!
NOTHING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN OUR KIDS SAFTY!!!
WE ARE PRAYING!!!
HAPPY ST. PATRICKS DAY!!!
Chris Ullrich - Bella's Grammy <c_ullrich@msn.com, caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
Hemingford, Ne USA - Monday, March 17, 2003 5:57 AM CST
You go girl!!! There is truly no stronger love on earth than the love a mother has for her child. I hope and pray for success on this go round. I just know remission is in Jalen's future. Have you made plans to meet with the nursing supervisor about the restrictions you have for Jalen's care? It may make things go smoother and less stressful (if that's possible). Keep the faith and the strength!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Sunday, March 16, 2003 9:39 PM CST
GOOD LUCK!!!!I would be as strict as you about the contact that people have with Jalen too!, if it were that I was in the same shoes.... You know what is best for your own kids.. that is my motto! Best of luck with everything this week!!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Sunday, March 16, 2003 7:56 PM CST
Hi there Jalen's mommy....it was so good to see you both.
You know you and Jalen are in our hearts and prayers.
I found my gift(you gave me) this morning that I thought I left in your room...it was in the jacket pocket that I was wearing when I was visiting you. I found it this morning when I was getting ready to go to church.
I know Jalen is in remission toooooooo! I can feel it in my heart!
We will continue to pray for you all...Grandma too!
We just got the blueprints for Seth's marker for his grave, so it has been a rough couple of days. The train looks awesome! We just have to get the cemetery to approve it now. I think they will....I can feel it!
Much Peace, Prayers, Love and Hope for a cure for all childhood cancers!!!
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, March 16, 2003 11:36 AM CST
I have to come here more often! I usually go to the other page. Good job on all the quilts! I need quilt school :) I am praying for little Jalen every day. I am expecting him to get his miracle. Jalen, you are a brave little man! Everyone is so proud of you and everyone loves Jalen!! Love and prayers, Lou and Arlene (Aunt Terri's Mom)
Arlene Polizzi <Amplmp@Aol.com>
West Palm Beach , FL USA - Friday, March 14, 2003 6:59 AM CST
Just checking in and to let you know we are praying for you and you family, god bless you all
nicky <nicole54660@msn.com>
wi - Thursday, March 13, 2003 10:39 PM CST
So, with all those meds... does the poor little fella have any room for eats???? HMMMM... That is just amazing that he has to take so much, you would think that with all this "new" technology... there would be a way to combine all that into 1 med... but... hey who am I to say!!! Hope that you are doing well MOM!!! ;) I sure hope that Jalen feels more like himself soon! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, March 13, 2003 8:48 PM CST
Just checking on you and Jalen. How is he doing? We are praying for you. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 7:36 PM CST
Jalen and Family, I was just mooo`vin around and wanted to stop in..My prayers are with you all.....Leaving you with lots of Love,Prayers,and Snuggles...
Angel Moo <moomoo@citlink.net>
WV - Wednesday, March 12, 2003 12:15 AM CST
Hi Jalen and Family,
Just checking on you and want you to know that you are in all of our prayers at Quilts of Love. Just wish you didn't have to go through any of this and am praying so hard for a cure for Jalen. Love to you all,
Jean
Jean- Quilts of Love <jean@quiltsoflove.com>
Tucson, AZ - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 6:44 PM CST
Just stopped by to say that I'm praying for precious Jalen..and for you that the Lord will just wrap you in his arms of comfort and give you the wisdom you need for all your important decisions..Hugs Carolyn {Quilts of Love}
Carolyn <carolynj52@ilovejesus.net>
Oklahoma United States - Tuesday, March 11, 2003 0:02 AM CST
Hi Sweetie !
You have a beautiful smile..
Lots of Hugs and Prayers for
you to feel better soon
Angel Chris
Quilts of Love Angels
Chris <wardsweb@earthlink.net>
Los Angeles, CA USA - Monday, March 10, 2003 11:26 PM CST
KEEP UP THE FIGHT!!! And don't be afraid to ask for help at Shands. God puts special people in our paths at just the right times - so be prepared and keep your eyes and heart open. It can't be easy being that far away from home for so long but I know you'll find the strength. You definately have the power and the LOVE for Jalen - and lots of prayers backing you up.
Dawn M
Wake Forest, nc - Monday, March 10, 2003 9:14 PM CST
Sweetie we have to all pray and focus on getting him into remission for the BMT so he has a much better chance. Your CaringBridge family is here for you and praying for you!
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Monday, March 10, 2003 8:28 AM CST
Oh Jeanette, I am praying for little Jalen. Katia knows his name to his picture. "He pretty!" That is what she thinks. Anyway, I was really praying he would be in remission. I know being at the hospital sucks and I would hate being on a regular pediatric floor (I think that is stupid). Will he wear a mask for long or does he take it off. I wouldn't take any chances. I would keep him in the room. Do they bring sterilized toys to his room for him and only him to play with? Where are transplants done? I really feel for you and pray for you and little Jalen. This is so hard! I will keep checking back. Love, Tracy
Visit
Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :) (Leukemia AML M4)
Tracy Solomon
- Sunday, March 9, 2003 5:42 PM CST
I am saying extra prayers for Jalen - wish there was better news - I can't understand why they would put the transplant kids in a regular ped unit! what in the world are they thinking! hugs Angel Toto 
Angel Toto <totoofoz@cox.net>
Lyons, KS USA - Sunday, March 9, 2003 2:17 PM CST
I wanted to tell you that you are in my prayers as you go through the coming days. My grandson, Jaxon Lee, was diagnosised with AML September 1, 2001. HE received a cord blood stem cell transplant on February 1, 2002 in San Antonio Texas. He is doing wonderful. God has used the doctors and nurses to heal our precious grandson. God is able to do more than we can ask or think. You can check on his transplant and the wonderful progress he has made at caringbridge.com/ar/jaxon. Jaxon and his parents went through a lot but it was worth it. May God's amazing grace sustain you and give you strength to do all that has to be done. God is able.
Sharon Lee <celizalee@netscape.net>
Benton , AR - Sunday, March 9, 2003 2:13 PM CST
Sounds like an aweful lot of "away - time" to me too... You are being so strong through this.. I am very proud of you for that, as I am sure your family is too! I have no idea how I would do.. but I would hope that I could be as strong as you!! :);) How exciting for him to be happy to be home! I bet "am-maw" was HAPPY to see Jalen... You have a very strong family!!! I will check in on you all tomorrow!! Have a great day! TAKE CARE... AND... REMAIN STRONG!!!!! ;)
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Sunday, March 9, 2003 11:24 AM CST
A friend sent me to Jalen's site and I can see why. Cute is not even close to a good description! I could get sucked into those big eyes :-)
Kelly <lostmyjosh@aol.com>
Grand Rapids, Michigan - Saturday, March 8, 2003 10:31 PM CST
Not the news I was hoping to read. Is there anyway Dr G can start the chemo here and then go up to Shands once he is in remission or you get that magical number that is in his system? I mean since there is a down time waiting for his counts to go up.
You know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of you
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Saturday, March 8, 2003 10:11 PM CST
I just wanted to stop by and say hi, and let you know our prayers are with you and Jalen. His is such a beautiful little boy. I check in on you often, and want you to know you have lots of us that care about you guys. Stay strong, and take care of yourself. I will check back in soon.
Tonya <www.caringbridge.org/ut/amanda>
SLC, UT - Saturday, March 8, 2003 9:33 PM CST
Hello Sweetie....
Angel Island Princess here stopping by to let you know your Quilts Of Love family loves you and are thinking of you. I along with all the Quilting Angels are praying for you sweetie. God Bless you Jalen
Hugs,
Angel Island Princess
Island Princess <islandprincess@quiltsoflove.com>
- Friday, March 7, 2003 12:28 AM CST
Thinking of you Jalen...stay strong!
Praying for you,
Courage,
Dana
Dana Doctor Zackie's web link
- Friday, March 7, 2003 12:19 AM CST
THANK YOU AM-MAW!!!! We all appreciate the update. Hope that little Jalen did ok with all those tests... poor guy! :( I hope they can come home, it would be good for him to be with his toys after all that! :) ;) Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, March 6, 2003 7:42 PM CST
Hi Terry......Thanks so much for the update. I was wondering how the little family is doing. I am Ruthie, Seth's mom a friend of Jeanette's. I am sure we have seen each other on the O2 floor. I was wondering if you could email me and let me know some of mom's and Jalen's favorite snacks and such. We want to send care packages when they are at Shands for Transplant. Thanks so much, it would be a great help.
Much Peace
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Thursday, March 6, 2003 5:03 PM CST
Dear Jalen and family, I just wanted to stop by and let you know that I am praying that the next round of chemo puts you into remission. You are such a sweet little boy! My son was diagnosed with AML when he was 2 and now he's 4 and doing wonderful! I know you will do just as well! You will continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers and will be checking the site daily for updates.
Love, Jill
Connor’s Webpage
Jill <jilly7896@aol.com>
Cinnaminson, NJ - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 9:21 PM CST
I am just checking in on you, hoping that all is going well for you both!!!! How are you holding up mom??? BETTER BE TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF!!!;) :) Let us know how you are doing as soon as possible... please???? TAKE CARE AND REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, March 5, 2003 7:05 PM CST
God bless you and I am praying for you! Love, Tracy
http://caringbridge.org/fl/katia_leukemiapage
Tracy Solomon
- Wednesday, March 5, 2003 1:11 PM CST
oh Jalen sweetie, I hope this finds you feeling better and doing well.
You have been through so much, I pray this goes by as easily as possible for you.
Mommy is sure gonna have her hands full!
Lots of people are thinking of you!
Hugs & prayers,
Chris
~ Gooch's Site ~ * * ~ Adopt A Kid's site ~
- Tuesday, March 4, 2003 0:43 AM CST
Don't you wish you could bottle all that energy so he could use it when he leaves the hospital? I can't imagine trying to get my 2 year old to stay in bed when he's awake! Good luck! If Jalen likes books - send me the address to Shands and I will send some your way. Prayers and good wishes for a SPEEDY REMISSION!
Dawn M (Ruthie's friend) <dmissbach@nc.rr.com>
- Monday, March 3, 2003 10:00 PM CST
You both are in my thoughts, prayers, and spirits!!! May this journey be all that you both need it to be!!! Trust your gut instincts... they are always right. I will be checking frequently!!! TAKE CARE AND REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville , NY - Monday, March 3, 2003 9:02 PM CST
I will be praying for you and Jalen. Does your hospital have laptops for loan? Our did but they were usually taken or broken down. I will check often for updates during this week. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :)
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Sunday, March 2, 2003 3:30 PM CST
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY FRIEND!!!!!!!!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR JALEN'S MOMMY
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!!!!!!!
(be thankful you can't hear me singing)
We will be thinking of you tomorrow. Are you going up by yourself? Keep us posted.
Much Peace,Prayers and love
God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, FL - Sunday, March 2, 2003 9:46 AM CST
JEANETTE AND JALEN
PRAYING THAT GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH A REALLY HAPPY 21ST BIRTHDAY, AND THAT JALEN WILL GO INTO REMISSION. THAT WOULD BE THE VERY BEST 21ST BIRTHDAY PRESENT YOU COULD HAVE.
REMEMBER *IF GOD BRINGS YOU TO IT, HE WILL GET YOU THROUGH IT.* WE ARE SENDING DOWN *SNOWBALLS* OF PRAYERS TO ALL OF YOU. ENJOY YOUR SPECIAL DAY.
GRANDPOP BRUCE'S AUNT JULE & UNCLE ED
FOLCROFT, PA U.S.A. - Sunday, March 2, 2003 0:53 AM CST
I WILL keep you both in my thoughts and prayers every waking second this week for sure( not that you arent now...:) ;)***) Hopefully the week will go great! Try to keep up with your rest so you can be healthy too!!! You have been sick, and need your strength too!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, March 1, 2003 8:12 PM CST
Dearest Jalen and Family,
Please know you are all in our Hearts and Prayers.
Chris Ullrich - Grand-daughter dx with AML <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
Hemingford, Ne USA - Saturday, March 1, 2003 1:14 PM CST
Hi, I see from your site that you could use a laptop. My nephew Trey who has neuroblastma was able to get one from an organzation called kinfolk. They provide laptops and internet access to sick children. If you go to treys site www.caringbridge.org/va/trey and click on the link to Kinfolk at the bottom of his main page it will take you to the page to request one. This is a wonderful organaztion and the people are so nice and helpful. Hope this helps. I will add you guys to my prayer list. Kathy
Kathy <kathyphilw@hotmail.com>
Garner, nc - Saturday, March 1, 2003 8:10 AM CST
Hi! My name is Yvonne, I used to live in WPB, I moved up north 3 yrs ago. Last July 25, 2002 I lost my daughter to a brain stem glioma ( a cancerous tumor). She was born in WPB at St. Mary's Hospital. Also, My 5 year old had surgery as a baby there at St Mary's. It's a great hospital. My son had open heart surgery at Miami Childrens and then his lung removed there at St Mary's....going to Miami Childrens really makes you appreciate St Mary's, they are so accomodating there. Needless to say, I've become quite an expert on hospitals over the years. :)
I will definitely be keeping Jalen in my prayers. I pray that he will go into remission. I know how you must feel. I came close to losing my little boy when he was a baby, but thank God, he came through that miraculously. My daughter, Leilani, did go to heaven, but the Lord has really been with us and given us peace. She had a lot of faith and really looked forward to going to heaven.
Don't give up! Believe in miracles...they do happen. Know that God is working and He uses all things for good. I pray that the Lord will be with you and Jalen throughout this trial.
With Love,
Yvonne Fernandez
Yvonne Fernandez <yvonnengzs@rjia.net>
Mount Airy, NC USA - Friday, February 28, 2003 3:52 PM CST
Great pic's!!! Our family went to a Lion Safari in Canada a few years ago, and we LOVED it!!! We drove our own truck through it, and the baboons were all over it! There was even this one mother that let her newborn in the truck. It was so cute!!! He sat right on the arm rest... and ate pieces of banana. It was a great time anyway. I hope that things go better for you soon!!! Jalen looks like a picture of health. Maybe that is hope for you. He is strong, so ARE YOU!!! Please Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, February 27, 2003 9:33 PM CST
Great photos - makes me wish I were in SUNNY south Florida. You are both in my prayers. I hope and pray that remission is coming soon so you can start the transplant proceedure. He looks so strong and so do you. Keep up the fight!!!
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Thursday, February 27, 2003 7:36 PM CST
Hi Jalen,
Sounds like you had a great time at Lion Country Safari. You are in my prayers!
Kathy Haws
Thousand Oaks, CA. - Thursday, February 27, 2003 1:55 PM CST
Sweetie hang in there
try to keep the faith
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
- Thursday, February 27, 2003 8:47 AM CST
First I LOVE the new pictures! He is so cute.
I was sad to hear he is not in remission. YOU KNOW he is our prayers. Keep us posted as to the date you will be heading to Shands. Once you get there email me (if you don't post it) your address so we can send you and Jalen care packages. Are you going by yourself with Jalen?
Always in our prayers
Much Peace,Prayers, Love and God Bless
AND HOPE for a cure for all Childhood Cancers
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, FL - Thursday, February 27, 2003 7:31 AM CST
First of all you two look so cute together! I am glad you had fun on your adventures! Everybody needs to have fun and I know that is hard to do right now. I pray Jalen will go into remission with this chemo and he will be able to go on with the transplant. Does he have a specific donor? Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :)
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, - Wednesday, February 26, 2003 3:13 PM CST
hello Jalen, Jeanette and family!
what a gorgeous little boy! there is definitely a special light in those beautiful eyes.
I see he has a wonderful, strong family as well, how lucky the world is to have such love here on this earth.
you have so much love and prayers going out to you all, i know everything will be alright. i leave you with a poem of mine in hopes someone might find some kind of comfort in it. kisses and hugs, luv me, tomika
'The Lord is With You'
When the road seems long and rugged
and you feel you're on your own
Remember the Lord is with you
you're never all alone
When you feel the tasks are many
more than you can do
Remember the Lord is with you
to help you make it through
When the baggage that you carry
is too much for you to hold
Remember the Lord is with you
to lighten up your load
When the results, you feel, are few
and you've done all that you can
Remember the Lord is with you
to lend a helping hand
When the days are full of worries
of the world that's so unkind
Remember the Lord is with you
to lift them from your mind
When you feel that life's a battle
and defeat is all you gain
Remember the Lord is with you
to ease away your pain
When you feel your heavy burden
is more than you can bear
Remember the Lord is with you
for God is always there
No matter how long the journey
or how rough ahead the ride
Remember the Lord is with you
He's standing by your side
Tomika Skanes <tskanes@visiontechcs.com>
Atlanta, GA USA - Tuesday, February 25, 2003 11:49 PM CST
I am praying for you. I am praying for little Jalen. When is the transplant day? You will be in Gainseville? What hospital? I pray your birthday will be good and fun! Wow 21, I remember those days. I was moving to Germany (Myron had just gotten out of basic training and was on his way to Saudi but we were based in Germany). That was years ago!! I am 33 now. My best years were 25 - 27. I felt my best, looked my best and had a lot of fun. I had my 2 oldest kids and their health was good, school was good, etc. I have to say now is my most meaningful years though. I have learned a lot and I have grown to rely on God more. I don't look my best, feel my best but I probably am a better person. God bless you. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :)
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Sunday, February 23, 2003 8:49 AM CST
I love the Jalen's Shop. I stopped by and got a few things. Can't wait for them to get here. I was wondering how that works for Jalen? Never seen it before.
Think of you often.
Much Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, FL - Sunday, February 23, 2003 7:24 AM CST
It is nice to see your spirit is better! WHEW!!! The new pic's are awesome.. HE IS SO HANDSOME!!! And wow,... 21!! I can remember that age.. I THINK>>> :o;0 :) I have a brother that will be 21 on Monday... He is excited for sure. Another big step in life hitting the 21 b-day! So, I hope you have a SPECTACULAR DAY!!! Hope that you and Jalen have a great weekend!! Check in on ya'll soon!!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, February 22, 2003 6:10 PM CST
I like the "Jalen's shop". I visited it today and that is a great idea. I really hope that works for you. Let me know how it goes. Love, Tracy
Tracy Solomon
- Friday, February 21, 2003 7:24 PM CST
I didn't know Jalen was scheduled for a transplant. When is this supposed to take place? Email me when you get the chance. Love, Tracy
PS I really hope YOU start feeling better. I hate being away from Katia. It is heart breaking! But I would hate to get her sick so I would do it.
http://caringbridge.org/fl/katia_leukemiapage/
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Friday, February 21, 2003 9:50 AM CST
I know that feeling all too well my friend. You are such a strong mommmy! I KNOW it is easier said than done. BUT you have to be strong for Jalen. Transplant is not easy and he will need you. Even though you will be out of sight for some of us WE ARE NOT going any where and are not letting go of you. Myself and others are here for support and will be here when you and Jalen go to Shands. I plan on keeping in touch when you go up there!!!! Got it!!!
Keep the faith and the prayers are rolling!!!
And remember he has a "special" angel watching over him!
"The Trainman"
Much Peace,Love and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, FL - Thursday, February 20, 2003 7:22 PM CST
This must all be overwhelming BUT - you BOTH have alot of fight inside. When it comes to your child - strength will fill you to overflowing. Mothers have that special bond with their children but you already know that. You have to place trust and faith in God and the doctors. They know what they're doing. You have to focus on the positive and from what I've read - Jalen has alot going for him - he's doing GREAT!! (and so are YOU)
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Thursday, February 20, 2003 8:23 AM CST
Well, I can honestly say my heart weighs heavy for you. I can not say that I know how you feel though, so I wont! I am sure you will have the strength you need when you need it. That is what I was told when I asked a freind whose son had leukemia.. " you just have the strength when the time comes.. and it is amazing." So, I believe that you too can have all the strength you need. I wish I could say or do something that would help.. hopefully just knowing someone.. a stranger .. is out there who cares about you both... and is cheering you on will help in some small way. Please, Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 10:50 PM CST
I am sooooooo glad his ANC is back up there!!!
But poor mommy sorry you are not feeling well! Hope you feel better soon!
I have a 1-800 number at work so when you go up for transplant you can call and we can chat!!!
Remember come by and see me(when you are at Dr G's) and let me know when you are on the floor over at St Mary's and I will come see you. Just let the folks from POST know and they will hunt me down. I made sure they know to do so!
Much Peace and feel better soon
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, FL - Wednesday, February 19, 2003 8:12 PM CST
HORAY for the Great Counts!! I believe it's just a sign of great things to come....
Dawn Missbach
- Tuesday, February 18, 2003 8:55 PM CST
FABULOUS!!! Nice that Jalen is doing so well! Sorry about mom though... :( :-( Hope that you do get better soon! Sounds like Jalen IS a wild one... GOOD!!! HAHA My son is the same way when he sleeps... "all around the bed" is what I say. Heal fast mom! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, February 17, 2003 6:30 PM CST
Hello Jalen and family!! Hope that you all are having a great weekend full of fun!!! Jalen definately DOES have the nicest eyes I have ever seen...:);) Handsome for sure! Have a great week!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Sunday, February 16, 2003 7:58 PM CST
So glad you are home.
NOT surprised he won top eyes....such a beautiful boy!!
You are going to have girls after him before you know it!
I am back at work starting the 18th. I will then work Monday thru Thur from about 9:30 to 2:30. Let me know when you are over on O2 and I will come visit.
Much Peace, Prayers , Love and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, February 15, 2003 3:14 PM CST
Isn't it great to be HOME??!! So glad to hear the good news. My prayers are with you and I'm sure you will have the absolute BEST results from here on... Keep up the good fight!
Dawn (friend of Ruthie's)
Wake Forest, NC - Friday, February 14, 2003 7:55 PM CST
Happy Valentine's Day Jalen! :) :) I hope you and your mommy have a great day! I saw this poem somewhere online and thought it was so true...I'm sorry I can't remember where I saw it but here it is....
Love is magic, pure and sweet,
for it alone makes life complete--
Love turns all the commonplace
to matchless beauty,
joy, and grace,
And when there's something
hearts would say,
Love, like magic, shows the way.
Have a very happy Valentine's day!
Love ya,
Aunt Terri, Uncle Dan, JC and Kayla
Terri Snyder <tsraine@aol.com>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Friday, February 14, 2003 8:18 AM CST
Just checking on you and Jalen. I hope the fever has stayed away and will continue to do so. Love, Tracy
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Friday, February 14, 2003 6:13 AM CST
Well, Just in time for VALENTINES DAY!!! HAPPY VALENTINES DAY JALEN and family!! Happy to hear you are home! He is such a sweet little guy! Too cute! My daughter loved pickles like that too! I always thought that was odd, but hey... she liked them, so it was ok by me. He sounds like he is so smart! Before you know it he will be in college!! :o ;) Hope you have a great weekend! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, February 13, 2003 6:37 PM CST
Hey Jalen & Family,
So glad to hear your back home - Yeah! Fluttering by to let ya know y'all in my heart, thoughts and prayers. With angel hugz, kisses & friendship... Angel Red
Angel Red Myst
Phoenix, Az - Thursday, February 13, 2003 6:24 AM CST
Hey Jalen & Family,
So glad to hear your back home - Yeah! Fluttring by to let you know y'all in my heart, thoughts and prayers. With angel hugz, kisses & friendship... Angel Red
Angel Red Myst
Phoenix, Az - Thursday, February 13, 2003 6:23 AM CST
Angel Toto <totoofoz@cox.net>
Lyons, KS USA - Wednesday, February 12, 2003 11:46 PM CST
Just wanted to drop by and leave you some Valentine’s thoughts & wishes. Hoping things are going good for you today. I hope you’re getting new guestbook messages since you have been listed on Adopt a Kid’s Site! Amie & I are trying to get as many people thinking and praying as possible
Chris - Gooch's mom
Gooch's Site
Adopt A Kid's site - just click on Caringbridge on the left
- Wednesday, February 12, 2003 1:29 AM CST
I am sorry you are back in the hospital but hopefully you will go home soon. The pizza party seems like a nice idea and tell Ruthie she is in our prayers. Love, Tracy
Visit Katia's Page and sign her guestbook :)
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Monday, February 10, 2003 12:02 AM CST
How sweet! Jalen is showing preference to older " women" ... CUTE!!! Can not wait to see the pictures. Hope for your sake, mom, that his ANC does go up!! Sounds like you both could use some " home time"!! I will check back to see that YOU HAVE gone home.. ;):);) That is what we all want!!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Sunday, February 9, 2003 12:04 AM CST
It was so good to see you and Jalen too! I hope you stop by my office when you are in to see Dr Gowda. I will let you know when I will be there.
You are a wonderful mother to a beautiful little boy!
We are praying for you!
Much Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, February 9, 2003 7:18 AM CST
Glad Jalen is doing well. I pray the ANC climbs to where he can go HOME! Keep up the good "work".
Dawn M
Wake Forest, NC - Saturday, February 8, 2003 9:46 PM CST
Much Love and Prayer From South New Jersey
Bruce Thomas <BlindAngel13@Aol.com>
Ocean City, NJ USA - Friday, February 7, 2003 11:41 AM CST
Just checking on you all! Hope no news is good news... as the old "proverb" goes!!! Have been busy myself this week, so I can understand why we have not heard from you. Hope Jalen is doing great this week, and MOM TOO!!! :);) Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, February 6, 2003 6:53 PM CST
Just came by to check on little Jalen. The webpage looks great. I am glad he seems to be doing better. The ARA-C can be rough. Love, Tracy
Katia's page
Tracy
Tampa, FL - Tueday, February 4, 2003 11:49 AM CST
Hope your weekend is going well! We are getting relief from the cold air up here, so mine is MUCH better!! :) ;) Hope Jalen has had a better appetite for you, just let him eat whatever he wants and he will perk up I am sure. ;) Take care and REMAIN STRONG
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Sunday, February 2, 2003 3:31 PM CST
Angel Toto <totoofoz@cox.net>
Lyons, KS USA - Sunday, February 2, 2003 1:37 PM CST
What are you feeding that sweet boy? He looks like he has grown so much since I saw him in December.
Keep us posted on how he is doing.
Much Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Friday, January 31, 2003 at 11:33 AM (CST)
WOW!!! What a handsome guy!!! Jalen is a picture of health by the photo's.. hard to believe he isnt... but we all can hope! Happy to see you all are home and happy! Hope you have a good visit at the doctors... I will check back to see what happens while you are there... Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 08:46 PM (CST)
jalen,hey baby!haven't seen you in awhile but you look so handsome.we love you and you are in our prayers everyday!!
love,genevieve,sebastian,&tatiana
genevieve teperino
lakeworth, fl usa - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 06:24 PM (CST)
Hello! I am so glad you are home. Doesn't Jalen have a Broviac? Katia did so I just gave her the GCSF through the broviac. It made it a lot easier and less painful. Also, I am sure this walking will come about quickly and you will forget the days he didn't know how to walk. Katia will still get down and crawl sometime and say, "I'm a baby!".
Love, Tracy
Katia's page
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Thursday, January 30, 2003 at 06:19 AM (CST)
Hello Jalen and Jeanette,
We met a week ago at the hospital. My son is Ryon and he had his transplant at Duke. We have nothing but positive things to say about the University and it's staff. You have done a wonderful job on your journal page. Dr. Gowda will work overtime to get you there. We will work extra hard with our prayers for your family too. Just continue to have faith everyday. We will be back soon!
Peace, Joy and Love being sent your way
Ryonspage
The Rommel's <datz-phat@mail.com>
Jupiter, Fl USA - Wednesday, January 29, 2003 at 06:35 PM (CST)
Thanks for letting us know about Seth's picture. We have been up there a couple of times to check to see if it was up.
If anybody can get you to Duke it is Dr G. Hang in there we are praying for you and Jalen.
You are doing a GREAT job Mom!!!
The site is beautiful too!
Glad you got the laptop. Seth loved to play on the one we borrowed while he was in the hospital.
Much Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Tuesday, January 28, 2003 at 02:26 PM (CST)
I am praying for a quick and eventless chemo trip. I know you get so nervous when his counts are so low. I look at chemo as the army of good guys going in to fight the bad guys. As nervous as you get right now while he is on chemo, you get nervous too when they are off because then you just have to pray their bodies do it on their own. Prayer and faith! Does Jalen sleep decent at the hospital? Love, Tracy
Katia's page
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Tuesday, January 28, 2003 at 03:35 AM (CST)
JALEN:
WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU FROM UP HERE IN THE FROZEN NORTH.
GOD BLESS YOU AND ALL YOUR FAMILY.
YOUR PICTURES ARE ALWAYS SO CUTE. HANG IN THERE.
JEANETTE AND TERRY, THANKS FOR THE UPDATES.
GRANDPA BRUCE'S , AUNT JULE
FOLCROFT (PHILA), PA - Monday, January 27, 2003 at 01:46 AM (CST)
Congrats on the good news.... I'm sure Jalen will receive excellent results no matter where the transplant occurs! This is probably the one instance whrere not being able to keep up with him is a good thing. Cherish it!
Dawn Missbach
Wake Forest, NC - Sunday, January 26, 2003 at 07:58 PM (CST)
YEAH no new cells!!!!! We are pulling for little guy!! Can you feel the love and prayers?
Much Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 08:01 PM (CST)
Hope all is going well with this round! Thank you to " gramma" for updating for us ! I was wondering how you all were. Glad to see the update, hope the next one is a happy one! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, January 25, 2003 at 05:09 PM (CST)
Keep up the FIGHT!!!! When you look at Jalen you can just see the POWER that little man has. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!! HUGS
Dawn Missbach
Wake Forest, NC - Friday, January 24, 2003 at 10:51 PM (CST)
Jalen is gorgeous! Just precious.
Please know that you have people praying for Jalen all over the place!!!
God Bless
Cheryl <cgmyers@swbell.net>
tulsa, ok usa - Friday, January 24, 2003 at 02:53 PM (CST)
Just checking in on how Jalen is doing... and MOM & DAD too! ;) Hope you are all doing well, and your spirits are high! Give him lots of hugs and kisses from the cold NY!!! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Thursday, January 23, 2003 at 06:47 PM (CST)
Hey Jalen,
Just fluttering by for an update. Have y'all in my heart, thoughts and prayers... Have you ever heard of PUSH? It means Pray Until Something Happens... that's what I'll be doing for ya sweetie. With angel hugz, kisses & friendship...Angel Red
Angel Red Myst
Phoenix, Az USA - Thursday, January 23, 2003 at 01:31 PM (CST)
Dear Jeanette,
Your little baby is growing so fast into a little man. What a beauty he is! We love you both, and hold you steadfast in our hearts and prayers! May God give both of you the strength you need.
Gail England
Cincinnati, OH USA - Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 07:23 AM (CST)
He is so young .. HE HAS THE STRENGTH OF A LION!! Be strong!!! I know it must be hard, but you are a mother,... you will find the strength! Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Monday, January 20, 2003 at 07:55 PM (CST)
I will be praying for little Jalen during the BM aspiration. Love, Tracy
Tracy Solomon
- Monday, January 20, 2003 at 04:14 PM (CST)
love & kisses jalen from grandmom-gaston hope to see you soon!!!
lisa king <dlliking@aol.com>
delray beach, fl palm beach - Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 07:26 PM (CST)
He still looks very cute even with the short or no hair. I noticed his big eyes more with the short hair.
Sweet boy I hope he feels better soon.
Thinking about you.
Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Sunday, January 19, 2003 at 06:53 PM (CST)
HI Jalen and family!! I was just making my rounds checking in on you and Katia.... Hope you have a great weekend!! We are having a nasty cold front going through right now,... last night it was 24 below zero!!! HATE THE COLD!!! Needless to say, we are not leaving the house much! :o... Take care all and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Saturday, January 18, 2003 at 07:26 PM (CST)
Praying for little Jalen and your family. Love, Tracy
Katia's page
Tracy Solomon
- Saturday, January 18, 2003 at 03:26 AM (CST)
We are trying to raise awareness and bring more love, prayers and support to more kids' sites, so you will be getting messages here from someone who "Adopted" you and your site. (unless you dont want to..) We dont know each other, but my son has leukemia and I know the support & prayers from others mean a lot. I was touched by your story and how much you have been through, its so unfair. Please know we will be joining so many others who are thinking of you and praying for you.
Chris ~ Gooch's Site
Adopt a Kid's site Here
- Saturday, January 18, 2003 at 01:00 AM (CST)
Dear Jeanette and Jalen,
I was laughing with tears in my eyes when I read the last update. So, everything he touches is "mine." That sounds as if he's taking after his mother and grandmother. Just kidding. You are both in my prayers each and every day. I have prayed more since October, when all of this started, than I have my entire life.
Best wishes,
Uncle Ken
Ken Dodaro <dodaro@math.fsu.edu>
Tallahassee, FL USA - Friday, January 17, 2003 at 08:16 AM (CST)
Hi Jalen!
I just wanted to come by and check and you and welcome you to our Quilts of Love Family. I am praying you go into remission very soon so you can have your transplant. All the Angels at Quilts of Love have just fallen in love with you - you are so precious. Each and every day, you will be in our prayers.
~Hugs~
Angel Jean
Jean - Quilts of Love <jean@quiltsoflove.com>
Tucson, AZ - Thursday, January 16, 2003 at 11:15 AM (CST)
Netty i found this poem and i wanted you to read it...
Success....To laugh often and much to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayl of false friends; To appreciate beauty; To find the best of others; To leave the world a bit beter,whether by a healthy child, A garden patch or a redeemed social condition; To know eveon one life has breathed easier because you have lived. That is to have succeeded. I know that there is nothin that has been put in your past that u cant handle. Jalen looks so cute in his pictures. You, Jalen and your entire family are always w. us ill keep ckin on you soon. If you need me to travel just let me know...
Angelica Baron <haters3117@aol.com>
Clifton, NJ U.S.A - Thursday, January 16, 2003 at 01:07 AM (CST)
hi to Jalen and FAMILY from SNOWY New York!!! I have found your site through a link on another that i check on... and have added you to my list to check on. Here were I live we lost a special boy, close to the whole community, to Leukemia this summer. Eversince he was diagnosed, I have been trying to add something to as many pages as I can to make the patients aware people care. So, Here I am... I will check on you all often.. Take care and REMAIN STRONG!!!
Kathie
Lowville, NY - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 06:35 PM (CST)
Just checking to see how Jalen is doing. I pray his counts will come back up without any sickness in the meantime.
Jeanette, just wanted you to know I check your site each day and say a little prayer for your family. Love, Tracy
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 09:34 AM (CST)
Dear Jalen,
You first brought smiles too my face and then a lot of tears but thru all this I know the smiles will prevail. I love you very much.
Great grand dad,
Lou Dodaro
Louis Dodaro <Navylou2003@aol.com>
Boca Raton , Fl. U.S.A. - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 09:29 AM (CST)
Just found your site through another caringbridge site. Just wanted to let you know we are praying for your family. God Bless!
Cindy Wright
Sparta, Tennessee - Wednesday, January 15, 2003 at 08:43 AM (CST)
Just had to drop by and see Jalen's little picture of him sleeping! I hope Jalen will love his hats. Katia still doesn't want to go anywhere without hers and her hair is coming back! She really loved hats. I pray his counts will come back quickly and he will stay good and healthy while his counts are low. Let me know if you need anything. Love, Tracy
Katia's page
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 09:05 PM (CST)
Jalen,
We love you and mommy.
Love
Great Grandma & Grandpa to Jalen
Grandma & Grandpa to Jeanette
Robert L. Snyder <rsynd9770@bellsouth.net>
West Palm Beach, FL United States - Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 05:16 PM (CST)
Hi Jalen,
Quilting Angel CrochetMa1 here just dropped by to say hi and leave you a little gift.
CrochetMa1 <Elite@CrochetMa1.com>
- Tuesday, January 14, 2003 at 03:42 PM (CST)
Hi Jalen, What a sweet face! I pray for God's blessings upon you and your family. I'll be checking on you.
Your friend, Susan
Susan Nero <snero561@aol.com>
W.P.B., FL USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 10:16 PM (CST)
Hey there Jeanette! This web page is beautiful! You'all did a wonderful job! That was really sweet of Tracy to help you out! Give Jalen a big kiss and hug from all of us! I'll see you haircut night! Love ya,
Aunt Terri, Uncle Dan, JC and Kayla
Terri Snyder <tsraine@aol.com>
West Palm Beach , FL USA - Monday, January 13, 2003 at 03:58 PM (CST)
Hi Jalen big hugs kisses and prayers are sent your way! love Angel Toto
Toto
- Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 10:06 PM (CST)
Hi,
Your son is beautiful! We will pray for him as we do many here at caringbridge. God Bless you!
Lynn
www.caringbridge.com/pa/jessiespage, PA - Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 08:48 PM (CST)
Anything you need, please let me know. I am alway's speaking to Dale @ Lisa on his condition. As a matter of fact, I just was asked by Travis how was he doing. You are always in my thought's @ prayer's. Brenda
Brenda Burrows <blb1228@aol.com>
Boynton Beach, fl USA - Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 05:29 PM (CST)
Hi,
I know alot about AML. My daughter has been in remission off treatment for 21 months. Holly had a BMT in April, 2001. I pray for Jalen to receive total remission off this last round of chemo. Jalen is so precious. If you have any questions, I will be glad to help out email anytime. God Bless!
Anita Moore www.caringbridge.org/mo/hollyemoore <anitamo@charter.net>
Sikeston, MO - Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 05:01 PM (CST)
Hello my name is michelle and i am a friend of michelle adams. i just wanted to say that i hope everything turns out alright and i hope you have the strength and corage to face this difficulty. And i just wanted to tell you,"There are things we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn and people whom we can't live without but have to let go." i hope you dont have to live without anyone my prayers are with you.
~*michelle*~
Michelle
- Sunday, January 12, 2003 at 04:27 PM (CST)
My son was diagnosed with ALL when he was 2 years old. He is now 4 and still on chemo. We will be done in May. His name is Joe Joe. I am not sure if we have met. If there is ANYTHING I can do please email me. My family has been through a lot. We will keep your little guy in our prayers..Enjoy the moments like bathtime and chocolate all over him. Time is precious so enjoy every moment.
Suzanne Matuella <susunole@aol.com>
Lantana, Fl usa - Saturday, January 11, 2003 at 08:51 PM (CST)
GGOD BLESS YOU ALL AND YOU WILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS FOEVER
Irene Corrill
New Richmond,, OHIO Clermont - Saturday, January 11, 2003 at 04:08 PM (CST)
Jalen and Family,
It is hard to see another Child dx.
Our Grand-daughter Isabella 2 1/2 now was dx with AML m5 on 01/10/2002, BMT in May and is doing well.
Our Prayers are with you and your Family Always.
God Bless
Chris Ullrich - Grand-daughter dx with AML <c_ullrich@msn.com, www.caringbridge.com/page/isabellaledesma>
Hemingford, Ne USA - Saturday, January 11, 2003 at 11:57 AM (CST)
That is adorable. Now you have to tell me how you put those in! You are really doing good at this webpage. We went to bed around here early last night and I actually fell asleep! I can't believe it! Love, Tracy
Katia's site
Tracy Solomon
Tampa, FL - Saturday, January 11, 2003 at 08:41 AM (CST)
Jeanette, we love you and Jalen, and are continuing to hold Jalen in our hearts and in our prayers to God. We are asking for complete healing at all levels for all involved. We continue to hold "you" in prayer for God to enable you to "maintain" your strength as you stand by Jalen. Your love and your strength are his strength and health right now. For that we are all so grateful. You are being so strong. This must be so hard to go though, but please work to believe that God has a purpose for ALL things, including Jalen and you, for His good, even when they may make no sense at all. Trust that with all the strength you have and someday you will know the answers. You were truly blessed when God gave you Jalen. He has entrusted a precious gift in your care. His face is truly shining upon you. When times are rocky, remember He is with you every step of the way, He will never leave you or forsake you. You stay strong and be healthy for Jalen and we'll keep praying for his health and healing.
Gail England
Cincinnati, OH USA - Saturday, January 11, 2003 at 08:39 AM (CST)
Hi Jalen and family, this is Seth Bunkelmann's Aunt. Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking about you guys and praying for you in this tough time. Hang in there!
Aunt Dori <todori@adelphia.net>
PBG, FL - Saturday, January 11, 2003 at 03:57 AM (CST)
HI, I am yet another one of Ruthie's friends! Jalen is so beautiful. I am so sorry that your family has to go through this. Please know that we are praying for you and your sweet little boy.
Linda Gozza <DTA003@aol.com>
Royal Palm Beach, FL - Saturday, January 11, 2003 at 01:19 AM (CST)
Chocolate all over the face........hmmm I see another tubby bath before long.
For being so young you are an amazing mom! Hang in there, you have supporters.
Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, Fl - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 08:54 PM (CST)
Yes... another friend of Ruthie - she's an amazing person. I read Jalen's story and I want you to know that my good thoughts and prayers are with you and your little man. He sounds like he is very strong and isn't going to let cancer slow him down. Keep the faith!!
Dawn Missbach
- Friday, January 10, 2003 at 01:41 PM (CST)
What a cutie pie! I'm a friend of The Bunkelmann's. I just wanted you know that Jalen is in my prayers. I have a friend at work who donated his platelets (he is CMV negative) for Seth. He's the kind of person who would help again. You need only say the word. Keep taking care of that little cutie!
Kim Barnes <Kbarnes@pbpost.com>
West Palm Beach, FL USA - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 01:35 PM (CST)
Jalen is so cute! I hear you are a wonderful mom (from Ruthie, Seth's Mom)! Enjoy running after him and know your family is in our prayers.
Jan & Ed Cairnes
- Friday, January 10, 2003 at 11:14 AM (CST)
Jalen is so adorble. I am always so sorry to come across new kids here on CaringBridge.
It just means someone else is going through something that no kid should ever have to go through.
Please know CB is a family & we all pull together and lots of people will be praying for Jalen.
chris
Gooch's Site
- Friday, January 10, 2003 at 08:58 AM (CST)
Jalen is BEAUTIFUL!!!!
Hello from Oklahoma! Just wanted to stop by and say that you have our prayers.
Big Hugs!
Cheryl <cgmyers@swbell.net>
tulsa, ok usa - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 08:45 AM (CST)
Hi, heard about you and Jalen from Ruthie(Seth's Mom). Just wanted to send you a note to let you know we are praying for you. I hope Jalen is feeling better soon. It is good to hear he is walking again. I hope you are chasing after him soon. Thoughts and prayers for you, Marissa
Marissa Barrera <missy407@hotmail.com>
Boca Raton, Fl - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 08:01 AM (CST)
You are doing a great job with Jalen's page. I might ask you to teach me a thing or two.
Just dropped in to say HI
Much Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, FL - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 07:20 AM (CST)
Pooh Bear looks adorable! Perfect for little Jalen's page! I will definitely keep an eye for your page updates:0)
Love, Tracy
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Friday, January 10, 2003 at 03:14 AM (CST)
Greeting from North Carolina!!! My name is Tom, and I do some media work for a small race team out in Kansas City. A good friend sent me your page tonight, so I thought I's stop by and read your story, and say 'HI'. Wishing all of you well, and will be back to check up on you again soon. God Bless †
Tom <WerbeRacing@aol.com>
Kill Devil Hills, NC - Thursday, January 09, 2003 at 11:31 PM (CST)
Thank you all for signing his book. When he gets bigger, he will enjoy reading this. Jalen's favorite characters are pooh and Barney.
Jeanette( Mommy) <tru2200@aol.com>
- Thursday, January 09, 2003 at 09:45 PM (CST)
I pray little Jalen is doing well this evening. He is so adorable!! What is Jalen's favorite character? Love, Tracy
http://caringbridge.org/fl/katia_leukemiapage/
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Thursday, January 09, 2003 at 08:55 PM (CST)
I am a friend of David's. I just heard and wanted to say you are all in mine and my families prayers. May God keep you all safe and loved.
Lisa Telford (Davidson) <LadyDewtel@aol.com>
Lufkin, Tx USA - Thursday, January 09, 2003 at 02:10 PM (CST)
Of course I remember you Jeanette and little Jalen.
I am so glad you have a web site so I can check in on you both.
I remember you at Seth's service at St Mary's, I thought how brave of you to come.
I love all the pictures. He is too cute.That is great he is starting to walk...he will be running soon!
Can I mention his website to others?
Take care and THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SIGNING SETH'S GUESTBOOK AND GIVING ME JALEN'S.
Peace and God Bless
Ruthie (Seth's mom) www.caringbridge.org/fl/sethlovestrains <Rbunkmann@msn.com>
North Palm Beach, FL - Thursday, January 09, 2003 at 06:38 AM (CST)
Just wanted to check in on your counts and see how things were going. Go ahead and get into everything! Love ya, Tracy
Tracy Solomon <tmsol87@aol.com>
Tampa, FL - Wednesday, January 08, 2003 at 04:38 PM (CST)
Hi there, We are keeping Jalen in our prayers. It is wonderful to hear he is having some fun after all he has been through. I like this new web page. Give him a big hug from Lou and Arlene He is so beautiful!
Arlene Polizzi <Amplmp@Aol.com >
West Palm Beadh, FL Palm Beach - Tuesday, January 07, 2003 at 11:54 PM (CST)
Click here to sign the guestbook.
Click here to go back to the main page.
My Loving Dad's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Dave's Site <brurka@shaw.ca>
Just stopping by to wish you all a very Merry Christmas.
There is not much I can say. I am sorry about your loss. May He who comforts all mourners console you in your time of need.
