Trey Lewis’s Story

Site created on March 6, 2020

To understand the whole picture of our little miracle baby let us start from the beginning. Kristi and I have wanted to start a family almost instantly once we were married in 2017. We began trying on our own but had to eventually start infertility medication to help. Kristi was on her highest dose possible of Letrozole and we were finally able to conceive.

Now we have been exhausted with being new parents and unfortunately we were not given the time to really dive in to parenthood when we found out he had acute myeloid leukemia. Kristi has been the best mom ever and had the sense enough to send a picture of unusual lesions on Trey’s body to our pediatrician. The pediatrician and the dermatologist needed to do a biopsy to figure out what we were dealing with as they did not know without more info. Unfortunately, they called Kristi on 3/5/2020, while I was at work, and told her of his diagnosis and that he was to be admitted right away. Obviously, we are beyond heartbroken and as we write this for you all to read and follow we are breaking down in tears. We are trying to keep the faith but ask that all of our friends and family help in that aspect as we are struggling.

The outpouring of love and support from all of our family and friends has been overwhelming. We already knew we had a great support system but this is beyond what we would have thought. So thank you to everyone who has reached out and sent love and prayers our way. We appreciate it all.

More to come, please follow if you want to know more of Trey’s journey. Our good friend and Trey’s godmother Allison Lutz will be starting a GoFundMe page to help with costs and time away from work over the next 6-9 months. Again Kristi and I are so thankful for all of this. We are not ones to ask for help and Kristi is literally superwoman but we have to swallow our pride and let people help. There is also going to be a meal chain sheet if anyone wants to help in that way, our friend Kelsey Oye will be spearheading that. More to come.

Again thank you all!

-Chase

GOFUNDME PAGE LINK
https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-merfelds-during-treys-cancer-treatment?utm_source=customer&utm_medium=copy_link-tip&utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet

Trey’s T-Shirt Fundraiser Link:
https://treystribe.itemorder.com/sale

Newest Update

Journal entry by Kristi Hay-Merfeld

Trey’s Journey: Home Day 26 (12-2-2020)
We hope you all had a very safe and happy Thanksgiving! We, like so many others, had a very small Thanksgiving compared to what we are used too with Kristi’s parents and yet we still made enough food for 20 people. Luckily for technology we were able to FaceTime with loved ones. 

Trey has been doing amazing! He is all smiles, full of personality, on the move all day and getting into things he shouldn’t. He and Luna are bonding, but of course he loves her way more right now lol. He always wants to crawl to her, on top of her, get her food... etc.  His hair is coming back in so much faster than we thought and it’s actually lighter, more blonde than before.

We did have a bit of a hiccup this past Sunday. As we were administering his anti-fungal medication we noticed that his line/port was leaking fluid and a small amount of blood. After 9 months of use, his tubing is starting to wear down. We rushed to the castle and thankfully our Oncologist was on call. The oncologist asked the nurses if they would be willing to look at Trey’s line, they did not take any convincing to see this little Warrior again. Anyways, Trey makes his own rules and due to the line leaking it’s getting removed a little earlier than anticipated, this Friday. He will now have to move to oral medications which may not be as effective as using his port, but we can’t repair his tubing so no other choice. However, we are exciting to not have to hook him up to tubing every day and he will finally be able to have a bath! We are excited to see him play in the water for the first time. It’s the small things like this that we have missed out on all these months, but will not take for granted. 

Last night we were able to go to the Castle for their tree lighting ceremony. We were there as guest vs being in our third floor room looking out. We got to see some of the care team that took amazing care of us. It’s crazy that as much as you hate being at the hospital you end up missing the staff. That is a testament to how amazing they all are at their jobs. We will now have a yearly tradition of going to the castle to see the tree lighting. 

As always, thank you all for the love and support! We hope that you all are staying as safe, as you can, in this pandemic stricken world.  
Chase, Kristi, Luna & Warrior Trey 
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