I had requested that there be no visitors for these procedures were scary and uncertain. I mostly didn’t want any of the kids to come again until we knew more and could properly prepare them. 

This afternoon I was met with an officer who handed me emergency guardianship papers that his mother had signed by a judge. Tory and I had been having issues within our marriage prior to his accident. That being said, I am still his wife. We live in the same residence, own and run a business together. Neither of us has done any legal separation of any kind. So how this is possible while he has a spouse is beyond me. I have nothing but Tory’s best interest at heart. The financial strain that will be a result, will no doubt be my responsibility. I am not allowed to see him or receive any information on his condition or progress. I am beyond devastated and pray that he is able to speak very soon and express his wishes. And no matter what they are, I will honor them. Just please keep sending all the healing energy you have to Tory, and maybe a smidge to me for my sanity. I’m struggling to hold on. Also for my kids. Shylo was 4 when we met, and is now 13. Charity was 7.  They don’t remember him not being part of their lives, and are having a very hard time understanding why someone they call Grandma, would do something so cruel to us. My heart is so broken right now. 

I have been constantly reassuring Tory that I was there, and that I would make sure he had the best care. And he was still so disoriented this afternoon, that I’m not sure what he understood. I had to say goodbye while an officer waited to escort me out. I told Tory that I had to leave for a bit, and would be back as soon as I can. And I know he can feel my presence, no matter the distance. Thank you to all who have our best interests at heart.      Jess