Theo’s Story

Site created on November 22, 2020

On Tuesday,  November 10th, Jess went to get a COVID test due to her coworker testing positive. The COVID test came back negative, but they noticed that her blood pressure was pretty high, so they encouraged her to get an at home Blood Pressure Monitor to track it for a few days. A few days later, her blood pressure kept climbing, so wdecided that it was time for a visit to the ER to make sure everything was okay.

Jess was admitted that evening, on Thursday, November 12th, when she was 29 weeks pregnant. They diagnosed her with pre-eclampsia & started her on blood pressure medication. The Doctors decided that it was best for Jess to stay in the Hospital on bed rest until she delivered. They started monitoring Theo's heartrate 24/7 & they put Jess on magnesium for 48hrs & gave her two steroid shots 24hrs a part. This helped strengthen / develop Theo's lungs & organs in case of an early delivery, as well as giving his brain some neurological protection.

Jess spent 10 days in the Hospital on best rest until Theo decided to make his grand entrance into the world!

Theodore Merritt Dornfeld was born at 7:50pm on Saturday, November 21st. He weighed 2lbs 0oz & was 14.25 inches long.

The Doctors & Nurses were all amazed at how strong his little lungs were right from the start - he was crying & making all sorts of fun noises! His oxygen levels looked good, but they gave him a CPAP right away to make sure that he was well taken care of. They placed two lines in his umbilical cord right away. The first will help carry blood back & forth so that they don't need to poke Theo, & the other will be used as an IV to give him medicine & other things he might need. They put in a breathing tube overnight & hope to have it in for around 36hrs so that he can get some medicine to help line the inside of his lungs & strengthen them a bit more.

Theo's days are just beginning, as he'll be staying in the NICU until he's strong enough to come home.  We want to thank EVERYONE who has already shown us so much love, support, & encouragement! We have the greatest family, friends, & coworkers - & are so thankful & blessed to be on this journey with all of you cheering us on!

Newest Update

Journal entry by Kate Dornfeld

Where did our baby go?!

Theo seems like such a big boy all of a sudden! He has had quite the month & worked so hard to be more independent. He can now sit unassisted, & his first little tooth is popping through! He rolls all over, plays with his toys nonstop, & has the best belly laugh. He’s also started reaching for us when he wants us to pick him up, & it is our absolute favorite! 

We’ve loved watching him experience new things & see more of his personality come out. He loves playing outside, going for walks, & swinging at the park. His big sissy is still his favorite person & she adores him, too. We love when they both laugh so hard that they get the hiccups. 

It’s hard to believe that in two short months he’ll be turning ONE YEAR OLD. As all of you know, Theo was born premature at 30 Weeks, measuring only 2lbs 0oz & 14 inches long. He had an 80 day stay in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) at St. John’s Hospital in Maplewood, MN. This is a Level IIIa NICU that cares for babies who are premature (28 Weeks gestation or greater) or who need extra medical care after birth. There, we received AMAZING care for our son by a Team full of people who were not only knowledgeable, but also showed us that they truly cared about ourselves & our son.

For his 1st Birthday, it was extremely important for us to find a way to give back to the NICU at St. John’s, as well as provide some sort of support to the families who will experience the same journey that we did.

St. John’s NICU currently has ONE MamaRoo swing to share between all of the babies / families, which could be up to 21 at one time! Theo absolutely LOVED this swing, & would often spend hours in there - content as can be - during the times that we were unable to visit him. He also loved when we would rock him in the chair & read stories to him; we made sure to bring a handful from home to keep there during our stay!

In lieu of presents for Theo’s 1st Birthday, we are asking our family & friends to consider donating to this fundraiser to help us bless the NICU in a huge way!

For every $300 that we raise, we will be buying ONE MamaRoo Swing ($240), TWO Newborn Inserts (as many of the babies in the NICU will utilize them in the swings, $35) & FIVE Board Books to disperse in the individual rooms at St. John’s Hospital ($25).

As Theo’s Parents, we commit to donating the first $300. We are setting the goal at $3,000 which would provide TEN MamaRoo Swings, TWENTY inserts, & FIFTY Board Books. After 24 hours, we’ve already raised over HALF of our goal - which is absolutely incredible!!!!!

https://gofund.me/3dea2c5e

The NICU journey was a difficult one for us, but we had so much support from our friends & family during it; in a variety of ways. We appreciate you all so much! Thank you for everything.

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