Susan ’s Story

Site created on January 14, 2020

Back in October mom had her regularly scheduled mammogram with abnormal results. Later, a biopsy confirmed breast cancer, but not a recurrence of what she defeated back in 2011. Further testing has shown additional masses in her lungs. The status of those masses is still unknown, but a biopsy will be performed Monday, January 20th with results to follow within a few days. The results of this biopsy will inform the treatment plan moving forward (we’ll update that here once we've confirmed the plan with her doctors). 

Naturally, we all want to help in any way we can. Here are the “three pearls” we got from Sharon, mom’s oncology nurse.
1) Become a good hand washer. Literally, hot soapy water for 30 seconds. In the words of Sharon, “what makes you think I want your butt grease near me?!” But for reals, proper handwashing is step one in keeping mom healthy! 

2) Zero exposure to secondhand smoke. This includes tobacco and marijuana, regardless of the vessel, including vapes. 

3) Most importantly, only talk about mom’s cancer when she brings it up. Mom is focused on keeping a positive mindset. Good vibes only, please! 

The three pearls aside, we’ve set up a Go Fund Me page (https://www.gofundme.com/f/susan-meckelson?utm_source=customer&utm_medium=copy_link&utm_campaign=p_cf+share-flow-1) where donations can be made. In an effort to be as aggressive with treatment as possible, we’re seeking second opinions and treatment options and will need to cover travel, lodging, etc. In addition to those costs, her out of pocket expenses have doubled (compared to last time) since she's retired and her insurance has changed. To get the latest info on treatment and what we know, check here first. If you feel inclined to text or call, please only do so with words of encouragement and love. For now, she’s not in need of meals being delivered but if that changes we’ll update here. 

We’ll update information here as frequently as we can, but especially as we reach important milestones. You love her, we love her, let’s all be her support team and spread love and positivity 🦋💕

Newest Update

Journal entry by Shane Winsor

Hey Gang, 

I hope everyone is staying safe (and sane) during these crazy times! Self-isolation is no fun and I'm slowly losing my marbles, but luckily, we have some great news to share about mom and her treatment! 
As of this week, mom finished round 10 of her 16 weekly chemo infusions. Her oncology team performed routine body scans last Friday to evaluate treatment progress so far, and the results are the best we could have hoped for!
The tumors in her lung showed marked improvement, specifically, the most concerning area which measured in at a whopping 12x16mm, has been reduced to nothing but a 3mm scar (bye-bye). There are no new suspect nodularities, and the rest of her body and organs look normal and healthy. 
The chemo is working! Moving forward, her team will monitor progress over the next two or three sessions and determine if she's able to stop chemo and move into what they call the "maintenance" phase of treatment. This is ideal, as it has fewer harsh side effects than chemo, and if all goes as planned, will keep any new cancer cells from forming in the future. Her previously ruled-out mastectomy is now back on the table, and she'll be meeting with her surgeon in the next few weeks to develop that action plan.

Mom also learned a new word this week that I thought was relevant to share:
Badassery
(bad•ass•er•y)
Behavior, characteristics, or actions regarded as formidably impressive.
"Few of us can attain her level of baddasery." 

She's kicking cancer's ass for a second time and doing it with impossible amounts of finesse, gratitude, tenacity, and love. She's doing all the right things (eating right, exercising, getting healthy from the inside out) and it's paying off! Keep sending her all the love and support you can, from a distance for now, and hopefully we'll all be able to give her a big squeeze soon! 

Cheers,
SW
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