Sam’s Story

Site created on December 28, 2018

UPDATE ON SAM and JILL CASEY:

As most of you know on December 22, 2019 my Dad, Samuel B. Casey (aka Bubs), was struck by a motor vehicle from behind while riding his road bike on the country roads of Waxhaw, NC.  It has been nearly 9 months since his comeback began. In this accident Bubs sustained a Severe Traumatic Brain Injury & 4 broken ribs.
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For those of you just joining us, here is the basic timeline of the last 9 months:

- December 22, 2018: Accident (Sustains Severe Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) & 4 broken ribs) 

- December 22, 2018: Airlifted to Carolinas Medical Center, Charlotte (Put on ventilator, bolt placed in skull to monitor brain swelling)

- December 22, 2018 - January 7, 2019: Critical Care Intensive Care Unit (ICU) - CMC Main (Receives trachea tube, and PEG feed tube.  Bolt monitor removed from skull)

- December 29: Bubs opens his eyes, but remains in coma-like state

- January 7 - January 17: Step-down ICU at CMC Main

- January 14 - Trach removed.  Bubs breathing 100% on his own

- January 17 - February 21: Inpatient Carolina Rehab

- January 18 - Bubs begins to emerge from coma-like state and says his first words "WHAT?!!!!"

- February 11 - March 21: White Oak of Waxhaw Long Term Care, NC

- March 22: Bubs comes home to Monroe, NC

- March 30: PEG feeding tube removed

- June 10-14: Craig Hospital TBI Outpatient Evaluation - Englewood, CO

-June 14: Accepted into world-renowned Craig Hospital TBI Outpatient Program

-June 29-July 6: Linhart Family Reunion - Topsail, NC

- July 11 - Present: Craig Hospital TBI Outpatient Program

- August 17: Team Samaritan House BBQ 

- September 14: Pedal4Possible - Bike Ride to support Craig Hospital &/or Sam & Jill Casey's GoFundMe:

Register & Donate for TEAM BUBS BRIGADE (http://support.craighospital.org/site/TR/BikeRide/General?fr_id=1120&pg=entry

-TBD end of Sept/early Oct: Sam & Jill (aka GJ & Bubs) head home to Monroe, NC
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What a journey this has been so far.  It would have been infinitely harder without all your love, care, support and prayers.

Our community has held us up when we were down, fed us, prayed over us, donated time, talent and treasure.  You have seen us at our best and worst. As the people of Hope we must pedal forward. We must believe in what is possible.

Severe Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) is a long, winding journey with no road map. 

Perspective: Sam IS A WALKING, TALKING MIRACLE.  Based on the 4 types of TBI he sustained in this accident, he should be dead or otherwise.  

But that was not HIStory for our Bubs. 

Many of you have commented how good Sam looks in videos and photos.   He does look good continues to improve physically. Severe TBI is deceptive.  Although, many physical strides have been made, we, many days, loose ground that we thought we had gained back.  The mental road back is a much harder and longer journey. 

Sam will never fully be the same.  What lies beneath in the darkness of the brain is really something that medical science is limited to fully understand.

Sam has made many miraculous steps forward, but also has many miles and days of backward, halting or restarting progress.  These darker, cloudy days/seasons find us in a difficult place with little knowledge of the way forward to the "new normal." 

We DO have a compass that points us to True North, deep Hope in the dark when we see no way through, and Belief that as Isaiah 43:18-19 is true: 

"Forget the former things;
do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing something new!
Now it springs up; Will you see it?
I am making Roadways in the wilderness
and Streams in the desert."

For those of you that know Our Bubs, he is an incredibly generous and inspirational person.   An amazing father, husband and grandfather. He has helped champion and care for so many people in need throughout his life.  More recently, he found a love for cycling as a way to connect with others riding for numerous charitable causes such as Project 658,  the Charlotte Eagles and completing Ride the Rockies for several years in a row, raising money for Team Samaritan House to help the homeless in Denver, CO.   We are asking for your help as my dad fights for his own life and recovery.      

Please pray for Sam and if you can support in anyway please donate here. https://www.gofundme.com/f/56628-help-sam-amp-jill-casey   
And feel free to share this page however and with whomever you feel would like to support or follow his situation.     We will do our best to keep you updated on his condition. On behalf of our entire family, thank you for prayers and generosity during this difficult time.

Due to the volume of people who are inquiring about my dads condition, we want to use this site as a place to provide updates and needs. Please pray for my dad and if you can support in anyway please donate here.   And feel free to share this page however and with whomever you feel would like to support or follow his situation.     We will do our best to keep you updated on his condition.  On behalf of our entire family thank you for prayers and generosity during this difficult time.  

Newest Update

Journal entry by Sam Casey

Year 4 Anniversary this December 22nd-- A long overdue update  

 

Many of you are remembering and asking “How is it going?” When you have lifted prayers to the Almighty for the welfare of our family, you have helped us!  In grateful THANKS, here is a brief update:


SamMy extroverted, spontaneous fellow is a quiet, dependent guy. Sam has said while praying, “I have been humbled in every way.” Sam’s highest level physically was in October 2019 after returning home from Craig Hospital in Colorado.  After this past year of medical tests and evaluations, appointments are not as frequent now, and we await each new year for PT evaluations.    I’m amazed that his mood is fairly balanced most days, but am reminded daily of what it would be like to reverse roles.  Dr. Jill has prescribed a strong, daily dose of humor while doing daily functions together.  Thankfully, Sam remains an avid reader, but his short term memory remains.  Due to balance issues, Sam uses a red walker that I call his CadillacIt is good that I still like to cook because Sam loves to eat!  If Sam were younger, he’d have a better chance of brain improvement.  One doctor indicated Sam’s brain is 10 years older than his age.  


When the Supreme Court overturned Roe, my early Thanksgiving gift this year was taking Sam (with the help of my dear brother) on October 6th on a trip to The Founder’s Inn to receive the National Institute of Family and Life Advocates (NIFLA’s) Lifetime Achievement Award, in recognition of defending and saving lives. What an honor! Wreturned home within 24 hours on a Spiritual HIGH to lay the award at the feet of JESUS.  

 

My updateI’m eternally grateful for our precious family for all their help while raising their own.   realize I have received a new vocation---running a full time senior care home 24/7, and thankfully it’s for the man I’ve always loved, with theGOD that is ever showing me what Love really is.   My worst habit--upon awakening each morning--I naturally “take control”…what a disaster are these moments.  When former memorized scripture (such as, “Trust in the LORD with all your heart…”  Proverbs 3:5-6), or newly memorized scripture comes to mind—my white flag goes up and He fills my lungs with Life-giving oxygen once again.  As Fernando Ortega sings, “In the morning when I rise…just give me JESUS.”   


And, at night when I lay downFernando sings to me:

Jesus, King of angels, Heaven’s light

Shine your face upon this house tonight

Let no evil come into my dreams

Light of Heaven keep me in Your peace.

Remind me how You made dark spirits flee

And spoke Your power to the raging sea

And spoke Your mercy to a sinful man

Remind me Jesus, this is what I am.

The universe is vast beyond the stars

But You are mindful when the sparrow falls

And mindful of the anxious thought

That find me, surround me and bind me.

With all my heart I love You, Sovereign LORD

Tomorrow let me love you even more

And rise to speak the goodness of Your name

Until I close my eyes and sleep again.

Jesus, King of angels, Heaven’s light

Hold my hand and keep me through this night.”

 

Prayer is so appreciated:

--Since Covid began, finding qualified caregivers to give me a break is difficult.  Please pray I can find a certified nursing assistant (what is required to get support from our long term care insurance) that can cover through the night, so that I can take a retreat, to receive from the LORD for 2 days and 2 nights, every other month for a much needed break.  


--After the LORD, grandchildren are my IV, and I miss regular time with them.  Pray I can visit our grandchildren in their Colorado home. The past 4 years they’ve traveled to us. 

I trust the Holy Spirit will lead you to know how to pray for us after reading this update.  Thank you for this treasured Gift of prayer!  

When I think of all that you have done for us through prayer, gifts, a call, love…we are humbled.  Thank you for every prayer for us!  This Thanksgiving and Christmas season, Sam and I send our love and gratitude!! 


MERRY CHRISTMAS from the Casey home to yours! What HOPEand JOY that He came down for us all!  

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