Donna McCaughey|Nov 8, 2023 (edited)
You are so right Steve. Not knowing that - I think would make life without our loved ones so unbelievably hard and incredibly painful. I have been talking to Drew and asking him to help Rusty if he needs it. Believe me - I’m sure they both know each other. 💚. I used to update Drew while he was inpatient - what was going on with Rusty. I updated the boys here at home before Drew went in. They know who he is. After what Drew pulled off for the very well known Medium I spoke with a little over a week ago I know he is there for Rusty. Drew had everyone lined up for me. A lot of family members, friends and then Drew walked through to us. I knew when Drew flew out of his hospital room and slammed the door and went around the outside of his room to the other side where Michael was sitting - that he was going to be okay. I told you the head Nurse and Respiratory therapist saw his interaction with his twin Michael before he left him. I just wish someone would have gotten it on video. It is such a blessing knowing they are okay. They feel nothing but happiness and love. It is so beautiful. 🥺🙏🧡

Please know that your boy is at Peace. He is in Heaven with everyone you know who has passed. They are all happy together. I found a lot of different information by reading many books about what happens after we transition and it has made me more at Peace with losing my sweet boy Drew. The Medium also helped me by telling me that it was his time to leave us. Nothing I’m happy about but it helps my heart a little bit.

Little Rose. She is your ray of sunshine. As she grows you will see your boy in her. Moments to cherish always. Steve - you too - please watch out for signs from Rusty. I’m serious. He is and will be sending them to you. Drew continues to this day. He will do it to try and show you that he is still here. To try and help you heal. The Medium said - put your right arm out to the side and extend your fingers. That is where Heaven is. That is where Rusty and Drew are. She also told me that when I am crying - Drew is rubbing my back. So when you are crying know your son is with you consoling you. Talk to him. He hears you. Your faith is so strong Steve and that in itself is a blessing. 💚🙏💚

It is true when you lose a child you learn of a lot more people who have gone through this Brutal loss too. Some you would never have known. I pray the Lord puts nothing but kind and caring people in your path after losing your boy Rusty. I haven’t spoken to some of Jim’s family since last December - the twins birthday - after what they said to me and how they behaved. People are stupid. They don’t understand. They are selfish. Their egos. It’s all about them and they show no love it’s unbelievable. So be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Say no if you have to. You have to protect yourself. 💚

My thoughts, prayers and love are with you always. I miss you all already. Love to all Steve. God bless you all. 🥺🙏🧡
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steve webb|Nov 8, 2023
Donna, my hope is that Rusty and Drew know each other in heaven.
My comfort is knowing Rusty's salvation is secure in Christ. I have no idea how I could go on living not knowing that.
Having Val and that ray of sunshine Rose keeps me focused.
I now understand what you are going through, I have learned of more people like us, since Rusty's passing.
I continue to pray for you and the family, for strength and comfort. ❤️ Also sending love and hugs.
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