Richard’s Story

Site created on October 10, 2019

On September 24th my brother, Richard, walked into an emergency room near his Florida home because he hadn't been feeling well for some time.  Within 24 hours he was in the intensive cardiac care unit with dangerously low blood pressure and a failing heart. It took doctors a week to stabilize him enough to return him to a regular room, and that is where he remains while they try to sort out what caused so much damage to his heart. While we are all doing our best to keep a positive attitude, the fact is his life will never be the same. 

In a short time Richard learned that he will no longer be able to live on his own; he will have to give up his home and the business he has owned for more than twenty years. He will need constant care and, eventually, a heart transplant.

That news is hard enough, but it is compounded by the fact that he does not have health insurance. Because of that, the medical bills are mounting, and his care is limited until we can find a way to get insurance in place (which we are trying to do). 

There is a lot I can say about the fact that Richard was forced to drop his health coverage because he could no longer afford the excessive premiums on top of a $6,000 deductible. Or the fact that he couldn't access appropriate medical care before he landed in the emergency room. But right now, all we want is to bring Richard home--first to his home in Florida so we can help him do the work of selling his house, then home to New York so we can continue getting him care.

In order to be released from the hospital, we needed to raise money for a LifeVest that will help keep his heart beating, and a special chair that he must stay in to help with his circulation--both of which we had to pay for upfront. We also need to get him a health aid to stay with him when family is not available, and what feels like a million other things to help him tie up the loose ends of his current life. 

Because this is how we fund healthcare in a country that does not value the lives of those who cannot afford to pay, I have created a Go Fund Me page to ask for help. Anything you can give is appreciated. Please feel free to share this page widely.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Francine Almash

It has taken some time to post a new update, as every day seems to bring a new hope and a new challenge. Richard was released from his second stint in the hospital after nearly a week. He is on a new cocktail of medications, which seem to be pushing his heart in the right direction. As of now, a transplant is still imminent, but doctors are hoping to increase his heart function to somewhere around 30%. 

His body has finally been able to shed much of the fluid he was retaining (nearly 50 lbs worth!), which has been a big relief. However, other physical ailments have arisen. First, it was determined that he was malnourished, so with the help of a nutritionist he was put on a high protein diet, no sodium diet. This unfortunately caused him an enormous amount of stomach discomfort. After that, the rapid fluid loss caused imbalances in his body that have caused him to have muscle spasms in his back. He has had some unbearable bouts of pain, which have limited his mobility and stalled some of his progress. 

Overall, things are moving in a positive direction at the moment, and we hope they continue to do so. We are hopeful that he will have some kind of health insurance soon so that we can get him the care he needs moving forward--which includes cardiac physical therapy and in-home care.

Though Richard has not had a chance to respond to messages, please know that he has read each and every one of them, and is appreciative of all the prayers, support, and kind words people have sent his way. 
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