So I'm back, my soon to be x, cut me off like he never knew me, I made more money than him for the first 10yrs and he just started to make more than me, I had to get a lawyer and we have a hearing for emergency maintenance March 26th, I've been without him helping me since he moved out.  I don't care what he did I would have never did what he is doing, I SWEAR MY HEART BREAKS EVERYTIME I THINK ABOUT THIS.  I tried to forgive him he started going to therapy, being in a men's group, talking too our pastor that didn't help.  He still was cheating.  I always told him if he wanted to leave just leave, he did not have to do this too me. I have too pack up 9 years worth of stuff, it's not good.