Pat’s Story

Site created on July 27, 2020

In 2018, Pat Steed was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. Hers was aggressive, HER2+, but Pat is a survivor and has an unending bright light that, along with her husband and her four children, buoyed her through surgery, chemo, and radiation.

She is a survivor.

Through chemo and radiation, she continued her work teaching American government and economics to her high school students, encouraging and supporting them with her contagious personality, pithy statements, and great humor.

But this cancer has now spread to her brain and Pat showed amazing strength to move through a serious surgery and hospital stay during this serious pandemic: with no visitation from four children or her husband Mick, no cards or flowers allowed, no parents, no friends. That the definition of amazing strength to me.

And she finally made it home. But the brain has a say in everything we do. And the work to get her back on her feet began with lots of PT, help from Mick, but all in as much isolation as possible due to our time and her compromised system. This surgery affected her eyesight, her ability to walk, her balance, and her energy.

But there is one thing it hasn't taken: her bright light.

She, Mick, along with their four children, Jack, Dave, Ed, and Carly are gearing up for the next fight.

And we're going to join them.  Because of COVID none of us can be in the waiting room, or send our well-wishes in cards, but we can come together and help ease the mounting medical bills that neither Pat nor Mick mention.

On top of the medical bills, COVID has deeply affected Mick's business MLE (Music Lessons Express: https://musiclessonsexpress.com (https://musiclessonsexpress.com)). This has been a hard hit.  And their income and insurance together are not nearly enough to combat medical bills of this magnitude.

Other ways of helping are to share this story. If you can post this on your social media pages to share Pat's story with friends who know Pat and Mick it would be a tremendous help.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Sue Lamphere Schaefer

Patricia Ann Steed
On Wednesday, August 31,
2022, loving wife and
mother Patricia Steed
passed away at the age of 57.
Pat was born on March 10,
1965 in Georgetown, Ohio to
Ronald and Margaret (nee
Allen) Steed. She earned her
degree in Sociology at Ohio
University in 1987 and a
master’s also in Sociology in
1989. As a student at OU,
she met Mick Metz and they
were married on August 11, 1990. In 1999, they moved to Tallahassee, Florida where
they raised their three sons, John, David, and Edward, and daughter, Charlotte. Pat
worked in the education field her whole life, and her greatest passion was teaching. She
spent the last 10 years of her life teaching social studies at Florida State University
Schools, where all four of her children attended. Pat had a great penchant for coffee and
chocolate, and spent much of her free time gardening, even earning her Master
Gardener title through the Leon County program. She was a lover of animals, becoming
a vegetarian at age 15 and rescued many cats and dogs over the years. Pat was known for
her quick wit, great humor, and the devotion she put into the care of others, whether it
be her friends, family, or many adoring students whose lives she touched through her
teaching. Pat was preceded in death by her father, Ronald. She is survived by her
mother, Margaret, her husband Mick, her four children John, David, Edward, and
Charlotte, her grandson Henry, her brother Robert, and several nephews and a niece.
There will be a private reception for family and close friends at the family’s home in
Greenville, FL on Sunday, September 4th.

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