Robert, I want to thank you for sharing all of this journey with us. I know that is was hard for you. This was a beautiful ,sweet, loving service to remember Pam. I feel that this tribute will lead us all to be a better person , I know it will be for me. She was so special in so many ways. Just keep your memories and cherish them dearly. Thanks again for the beautiful love story one that will stay forever in your heart. Prayers will be with you daily as you go forward just take baby steps. You are not alone. Hope you can write a novel seeing life thru Pam eyes.. Take care of yourself.

Hey Bodge, you know what I keep going back too? I keep going back to the time she came to UNC-W to visit you. I stayed in the Common area so you two could have the room alone. I was so happy because my best friend in the whole world found someone who I also loved in my own way. To have two people I cared about find each other was so awesome to me. I am so glad I was there at the beginning to witness your love bloom and, even today, I feel blessed to be even a small part of your story. I know today, and for many days to come, it will be very tough for you. To be honest I marvel at how you have handled it so far as I don't think I have your strength. Know that every day, and with every step you take, Pam is with you. You will see her in your children and in your heart. PEACE MY FRIEND!

Robert I know how you're feeling right now and I wish I had some magical words that would make it easier. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss Tony. July the 15th will mark 5 years since he went home to be with the Lord. I take comfort in knowing I will see him again as you will see Pam again. My heart breaks for you and your children. Continued prayers and love for you all!

Robert, Louie and I have prayed for you constantly over the past weeks and we will continue to do so. The service last night was a beautiful and poignant tribute to Pam and the way she loved all people and let her light shine for Jesus. Thank you for all the ways you have shared and ministered to others during such a difficult time. You are loved, my friend 🦋

Praying for all of you in the upcoming days as you prepare to begin life without precious Pam here along side of you. I do believe however that she is always with you. She is with all of us. When we see beautiful flowers, trees, the cool breeze, beautiful singing, a smile, etc that is Pam telling us we are strong and will find our way. She isn't "gone" she is resting. Resting with Jesus and waiting for all of us to join her. I pray that I am able to witness the homecoming between you and Pam when your time comes to join her. Your love story I'm sure is absolutely beautiful

Robert, you and your family were in my prayers this morning. Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ will comfort you, all the days of your life.

Robert, I stayed in my office last night & watched the service online. I cried, I smiled & I actually laughed a few times. This was a wonderful tribute to Pam's extraordinary life. She will be missed greatly, but she will still (from heaven) leave a smile on a lot of our faces. You & your family will continue to be in my thoughts & prayers daily.
Love & prayers, Vickie Elliott

As our Friend Laura Beaver says "Let Me Love On YA A Little Bit." Pam is telling All Her Friends Today and for Ever More "Let Me Love On Ya A Little Bit." God Bless!

It was a beautiful and unique service. Will be praying for you in the days ahead. As the numbness wears off, and I know it will, may His peace and presence be overwhelming in your life and in the life of your children. He still has work for you to do!

What a beautiful tribute to Pam and the love you shared. Thank you for opening your heart and sharing so freely throughout the illness. Though I did not have a close relationship with her, I quickly learned that Pam was a co worker who loved and cared for her GHS students and was eager to encourage and support them. She truly made a difference in the lives of all who came into contact with her. God bless you and your family.