Amy and Dave, I learned about you through following Shawna. I have prayed for you along your journey. I want you to know I have a friend who recently went home to be with Jesus and people were donating on the Caring Bridge website thinking they were donating to the family. The family contacted Caring Bridge and they apologized for the confusion. They also refunded those who wanted to be so the money could go directly to the family in need. I hope this helps you too! I will continue to pray for you.