Your writing is absolutely & completely exceptional John. A book would be an incredible help & resource to so many people. You write with such honesty, humor & self disclosure, that it touches our hearts & minds in many ways. It also helps other people to realize that what they are experiencing has been shared by others who have been on an uncharted journey of losing a loved one. And only the voices of those who have experienced such a loss, can offer the insights, deep emotions, , and recollections of events that "trigger" stabbing grief, like you can. Your book will be a blessing to many of us. Eventually, we will all suffer losses, and your words may help us, in some small way, to prepare for what we cannot know, until we too, experience it. Bless you John. So many of us treasured Nickie & will remember in particular, her beautiful smile, and warm & welcoming manner to everyone. And please know, we miss her too.

John, these posts are a book in themselves. They all say something. They all mix heart and feeling and joy and sadness. They all reflect how proud Nickie is of you. Start here. You already have the great.

Hugs and prayers to you and your family John. 🙏🏻You’re doing an amazing job with your kids and managing life‘s crazy turns. I know you might not always portray on the outside what you were feeling in the inside but embrace these feelings as it will help you to complete your book and be able to remember special memories you had with Nickie. Remember she’s there helping you write this book.

If there’s anything you should need or just someone to talk to know that you can always reach out. We are all here for you💖

God bless and protect you and your family always. What a gift you are to everyone who knows you. Just as Nickie always has been. Praying for the Holy Trinity to guide you through this whole process and beyond. Psalm 119:105 Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path.

John you're an incredible writer! I can only imagine how many lives would be grateful for your words. I thought of you the other day while listening to a podcast called "The Moth." Basically, it's just regular people like you and I telling their stories to a live audience. You'd be the PERFECT candidate; check it out sometime. Thank you for sharing. I can't wait to read your book :)

Thank you John for your words of wisdom and truth. They are so powerful and your writings are helping countless people who are facing personal hardships no matter what that may look like. You are truly an inspiration and I can bet Nickie is watching and so proud of you. I wish there's more I could do to help you and your family. You're always in my prayers. I'd like to pre-order 100 books please :) ❤️

Hey John,
thanks for the update and am glad to hear you are medium. Was bummed for you that KC lost in the Super Bowl; tough way to finish the year. Anyway, toss Covid in to the mix and appreciate your update today. I wish and pray all the best for you and your family in a super challenging situation. I feel like you are receiving back some of the positivity you have interjected in to the world from your friends. Best regards, Tom

You are an amazing person, father, friend, co-worker and writer. You do have an amazing way of sharing the good, the bad and the medium with us though your CB writing. I believe the stories you have shared bring out the best in us and make us reflect on our lives. The book idea is awesome. I look forward to you completing it. You can do it!

I would definitely by your book. You inspire me !

That is great news John! We can't wait to read it and I am sure it will be wonderful, like all of your writing!