I’ve done more than push :) I’ve been very direct in them not feeding me the same excuses and will only speak with the attending until she’s extubated. I understand the surgeon wanting the best for my girl, but she didn’t need intubated while he decides.! I don’t do well with excuses, especially when it comes to my daughter.

Push for answers. Be her advocate, Jen! They owe you guys that. Make them be honest with you guys.