Aunt Debi we would love to help! We would be more than happy to help with cooking. Just send us some approved recipes! Seriously, do it. I would be happy to drop them on your doorstep.

Oh Debi I ache for both of you. I assume Mike's nephrologist knows all the problems he is having and a dietician has attempted to help you add calories to his diet. I can see the conundrum with the food restrictions. I really encourage you to go on FB and make a business page for Mike as it will reach people that are looking for someone to donate to. It's not uncommon to have a chronic illness and be depressed. Have you discussed taking an antidepressant? Some can cause weight gain. Dare I ask how your health is? I wish we were closer so I could help in a hands on way. Do you still have my number?
With a Big Hug,
Lynn Camino