Mike’s Story

Site created on February 10, 2020

Welcome to our CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place. We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement. Thank you for visiting, for offering support, and especially for all of your prayers. 

This last Friday (February 7), Mike was walking the dogs in the middle of the day when something happened — maybe a fall, maybe a dizzy spell that escalated into losing consciousness altogether; his memory of the incident itself is fuzzy, and as far as we know, no one witnessed the injury as it actually happened. What we do know is that he ended up unconscious in an embankment/bushes beside some outdoor stairs, where someone found him (and the dogs!) and called 911. While we don't know the exact sequence of events, we do know that he suffered a fracture of his C3 vertebrae, compression of the spinal cord around that area, rupture of nearby ligaments, and rupture of a vertebral artery. As a result of his injuries, he has lost all sensation and movement below his shoulders. We also discovered that he has for some time now been experiencing stenosis — or narrowing — of the spinal canal in his neck, which left him more vulnerable to compression and damage to the spinal cord. 

After examination and testing, he went in for surgery on Saturday to stabilize the area and to alleviate the narrowing of the spinal canal. With the leadership of a truly excellent surgeon, everything went according to plan and the area was successfully stabilized. The hope is that relieving the pressure on his spinal cord will eventually allow for partial or even relatively full restoration of sensation and mobility; however, this road is a long one, and the intensive recovery process will be unfolding over the next 1-2 years. 

I'll (Hannah, his daughter) be updating this page with new developments so that loved ones can stay up to date on how things are progressing. Lastly, speaking of love, I speak for everyone in my family when I say that we have been beyond overwhelmed by the incomprehensible volume of love, support, prayer, well-wishes, and eagerness for friends and family to do whatever they can to help us all as we figure out what each new day requires of us. This situation has indeed been surreal and, at times, horrific, but underneath the moments of fear there is a bottomless wellspring of gratitude for each and every single person who has stepped in to make food, to take care of the animals, to honor the moments when we need peace and rest, to offer kind words, and to pray and pray and pray for my dad's ongoing healing. 

The path ahead is long, and victory is going to be measured not even by individual steps but by the twitching of a finger or the strength of a breath. In short, we're nowhere near out of the woods right now, but with each step forward and little victory, we're starting to be able to develop a map. This journey is made much warmer and kinder by all of your support and love, and there aren't enough thank-yous in the world to express how deeply we appreciate our friends and family as we continue finding our way. We don't yet have a tangible idea of what the future holds, so our biggest and toughest job right now is often to just be patient. We can only take each new day in stride and continually remind ourselves and one another: Just take this next step. The horizon will look after itself. 


DeeAnn’s note:  Thank you again to so many for your prayers and support.  We are resting confidently in the power of prayer as we know what faith   produces.  This is going to be  a journey and we are navigating it with confident hope and seeing God’s fingerprints evident already — thank you for walking this with us.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Hannah Freeman

Hi everyone, Mike here with another pulse throbbing update (boy, there is another hard to keep promise made, reminds me of the time I promised DeeAnn no more dancing girls in the house when she leaves for a trip)!

I was looking at the Picture of me taken at Shirley Ryan ability lab four years ago. I had just gotten off the ventilator and food tubes, needed a harness to carry a vast majority of my weight on the treadmill, had my blood pressure monitored continuously in case I passed out during exercise, needed two people to move my legs while walking, used a Hoyer lift to get in and out of bed, barely could move my arms and hands, needed someone to feed me, and definitely needed a shave and haircut.

Look at me now (praise the Lord)! Able to go outside and enjoy a solar eclipse while at occupational therapy. Use a computer to download an eclipse photograph taken by daughter, Hannah, who with Drew was visiting Zach and family in Fort Worth, Texas where they could enjoy the full totality of the eclipse. Show off the tall, multi- layered Tower I had built using Jenga pieces to my admiring and beautiful wife. See all the fruit of the hard work my trainers put me through strengthening my arms so that I could actually support my bodyweight on my own on all fours for the first time. This is a huge threshold to cross on my journey to be able to get up off the ground by myself. 

Stay tuned, much more to come! Look how far your cheerleading, Love and prayers have brought me. Without God and you I would still be functioning as I was in the first picture four years ago. That was significant progress from where I originally started back then!

I did something dangerous the other day, I downloaded an app that allowed me to create movies easily. So I took a mishmash of photos and video clips from the past three months or so highlighting all the various activities and things I am doing now that were just dreams when that first picture on this update was taken. Enjoy it… it runs about 3 1/2 minutes and shows the vast variety of workouts and activities that I currently do that will help me walk soon in public, get off the ground by myself, use left and right hands and arms to do good deeds and generally enjoy life. I can't wait to see what I will be doing in six months… maybe even driving a car somehow.

Today I celebrate you and sharing my adventure with you. May God's abundance and peace be with all of you.  It's going to be a wild ride!

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