Matt’s Story

Site created on February 5, 2019

There is no way Matt White's Caring Bridge site could contain all of the great stories and wonderful memories of his life. 

There are two purposes for this site.  1.) This is the place to share the great memories and stories and, 2.) this site is here to communicate Matt's condition.

Matt loved all of you so much.  A direct quote from Matt " "Never let the person you are with, feel that you have something more important to do."  Matt truly loved living life and sharing the love and laughter of your lives.  We appreciate the texts of support and love.  I will read them all to Matt.  I may not be able to respond right away but know Matt and I appreciate all of your love and support.   If there is an urgent matter, please contact Mike Tomlin at 317-590-8845 (tel:317-590-8845). Mike can then relay the appropriate information to me and allow me to respond when I am able. You may also post general questions to this website that others may have, and we will do our best to post answers to the website promptly. 

This site will be kept up-to-date.  We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement.

Here is an update on Matt’s condition as of Tuesday 2/5/19.  He has been in the hospital for the past week with pneumonia, belly pain, and more recently an onset of seizures, among some other issues. 

Matt was placed in a drug-induced coma this past (Super Bowl) weekend to treat the seizures over the weekend. The hope was to wean off that medicine off on Monday and plan to have that medicine turned all the way off by later Monday evening. Unfortunately, Matt's seizures returned after the Versed drip was turned off. He is now back on a very high level of versed infusion, which has put him back into the medically induced coma. We have spoken with Matt’s doctors, who have confirmed that Matt's seizures will not be able to be controlled without this high level of sedation / medically induced coma. 

We are working with the doctors and the hospice care team to develop a plan to move Matt from the ICU to a "hospice house".  Matt may be moved to the hospice house as early as today. (February 6)

The tentative plan is to keep Matt comfortable and seizure free in the hospice house. We want Matt to see one last Butler basketball game on Saturday noon tip-off.

There hasn’t been a final decision made yet on the timing.  Matt and I understand that everyone wants to celebrate his life differently,  We have always and will always have an open door.  We love you! Those who would like to be here and are able to are welcome at any time including Saturday to watch the final Butler game with us.  We will know the location later today. Please plan to be here no later than tip off time noon on Saturday. 

Please pray for Matt.  Keep Shartrina, all of Matt’s family and friends in your prayers.

Newest Update

Journal entry by Shartrina White

Matt White, 52, of Cape Haze, Florida, passed away Friday, February 8th due to complications from Lou Gehrig’s disease, also known as Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS). But for those who knew and loved Matt, he would insist that he didn’t die from ALS, he chose to live with ALS for 19 years…with love and zest for life of which he never let go. It just so happens, he had ALS.

Matt was born in Valparaiso, Indiana, on December 22, 1966. He grew up in North Manchester, Indiana. After graduating from North Manchester High School in 1985, he attended Butler University, where he ran cross country and track for the Bulldogs on an athletic scholarship. Matt pledged the Delta Tau Delta fraternity his freshman year, and he carried a love for Butler and his Delt brothers for the rest of his life.

After graduation from Butler in 1989, Matt excelled professionally in the radio industry. Matt grew with Emmis Communications initially starting as a “Boom Box Boy” intern and then in sales at WENS Radio in Indianapolis. Matt transitioned into management, and eventually became the General Sales manager of WKQX, Q101 Chicago at the age of 32. 

After his diagnosis, Matt was stunned to learn there was no treatment for or much research on ALS. This prompted him to start the Matt White Cure ALS Foundation to fund the research that he found promising. The Matt White Cure ALS foundation has raised over $552,000 towards finding a cure for ALS. The Matt White Cure ALS Foundation is being recognized as a ‘Partner’s in Collaboration’ Honoree by the Robert Packard Center for ALS Research at John Hopkins this year.

Matt traveled extensively seeing many parts of the world including the Great Wall of China. Matt and friends played 29 of the world’s top 30 golf courses, including The Old Course, Augusta National, Oakmont, Pebble Beach and Pine Valley.

In 2003, Matt retired to Cape Haze, Florida. A year later, he reconnected with a high school sweetheart, Shartrina Rogers. They were married in May 2006 and leaned headfirst into life together facing the challenges and joys of each day. Matt vowed to Shartrina, “I can promise you a marriage that will be unique, challenging and even difficult. I can also promise you a marriage abundant in love and respect, And a marriage that will last for the rest of our lifetimes.” Matt and Shartrina celebrated their life together, not by annual anniversaries, but by month-iversaries. They redefined love. They celebrated every moment with joy. Matt and Shartrina were a formidable team. 

After ALS took most of the use of his arms when playing golf, he dramatically improved his short game. When ALS robbed him of his voice he started communicating through a keyboard with his toes and then his eyes. When he could no longer communicate through assistive technology, he communicated through moving his eyes with Shartrina and his amazing caregivers to the final moments. He traded stocks with the help of his caregivers. Matt loved Young Living Essential Oils and what they did for him and his care. Matt’s entrepreneurial spirit and love for helping others led him to start his own Young Living business. He worked to the very end. He adapted and never accepted defeat. ALS didn’t take his life but rather Matt took his life and lived with ALS.

When Butler played Duke in the 2010 National Championship game, Matt traveled to Indianapolis on total life support to experience the tournament in person. By invitation from Butler’s coach Brad Stevens, Matt had the honor to share his message and inspiration with the team before the Final 4 tournament. Although he lived in Florida, Matt never missed watching a Butler game to cheer on his Dawgs.

Matt maintained a close connection with his fellow Delt brothers from Butler University his entire life. Every year, Matt and Shartrina looked forward to hosting an annual Super Bowl weekend gathering that was affectionately named “The Dallas Cowboys Haters Convention”. On the 16th annual gathering, the Delt brothers were able to say their final good-byes to Matt.  

Matt had friends around the world whose lives he impacted forever. Matt’s legacy is well described in an article by David Woods in the Indianapolis Star written on February 10, 2019. https://www.indystar.com/story/sports/college/butler/2019/02/10/butler-grad-matt-white-fought-als-and-inspired-bulldogs-2010-final-four/2830028002/

He is survived by his beautiful wife, Shartrina, and their children, Myles and DeAndre Robinson. His parents, Howard and Connie White. Also surviving Matt is his brother Sam White (Elizabeth) and their children, Mason, Davis, Erienne Keefe (Joe), Brad Paradise, Alexandra Paradise, Abby Paradise, and Jamie Paradise. Matt is also survived by his sister Sara Key (Mark) and their son Jacob. He is also survived by his seven beloved caregivers: Brooke Coup, Elaine Hunter, Breanna Clements, Ashli Girolamo, Lindsay Carriera, Cassie Belmer, Maggie Rossip. He is also survived by his precious dog and soulmate, Abby. He was also preceded in death by just two weeks by his beautiful dog, Winston. Surely Winston went ahead to find the best trails for that long-awaited run with Matt, free from the confinement of a wheelchair. 

The Celebration of Life service will be in Indianapolis at Hinkle Fieldhouse Efroymson Family Gym on Saturday, March 23rd at 1:00 pm.  A reception on campus immediately to follow. Please continue to share this page with others and check back for more updated information.  https://www.caringbridge.org/visit/mattwhitegodawgs 

In lieu of flowers the family requests donations in his memory to the Matt White Cure ALS Foundation paypal.me/CureALSFoundation. Donations can also be made to www.ButlerSports.com/MattWhite to help fund a special scholarship for Butler athletes in Matt's name.
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