Welcome to our CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place. We appreciate everything that God lays on your heart! I have written the story below but most updates will be done by my beautiful wife Denise.
Hi everyone, just some background to let y'all know what's going on. For about 2 1/2 years now I have been battling skin cancer in my mouth. I have had 2 surgeries to remove the affected areas. Unfortunately, it is back and more prominent this time so we are looking at a very extensive surgery with some major reconstruction.
Surgery is scheduled on January 29th, it will last 10-12 hours with the removal and reconstruction being done during the same surgery with 2 surgeons, one doing the removal and the other doing the reconstruction. They will be removing my upper pallet and some bone up to the base of my nose along with some of my upper lip. The reconstruction will be done using bone & soft tissue from my left leg. I will be in the hospital 7-10 days with the first 2-3 in ICU. Recovery will be 3-6 months, probably closer to the 6 month part due to I will most likely get radiation treatments after healing. I will also have my lymph nodes removed. Due to the swelling in my face afterwards, I will have a tracheostomy for breathing but this will be temporary till after the swelling goes down where I will feel comfortable breathing through my nose & mouth. I will also have a feeding tube, this will also be temporary but will last longer than the trach because I will have to learn how to swallow and eat on my own again. I will go home with the feeding tube, I will have home health come visit a couple times a week for a bit. I will regain the eating, swallowing and breathing all 100 percent with recovery.
I know this surgery sounds pretty bad and scary, I have to admit that I struggled for about a week after hearing all that is involved but I have a great surgery team here at Emory Midtown, they are specialists at this.
I am at complete peace about this now and know that God is in control and who am I to get in His way. I know He has a great plan for me afterwards and I'm ready to follow it. We have great support with friends, family and church who will be here for anything we need.
I ask that everyone pray for us, especially my wife Denise and my daughters at home, Magela, Lavitha, Myrlanda, Rose-Kerline & Daphkar to help them through this time. Thanks everyone in advance for all of your prayers & support. Matt
Matt and I headed to Emory on Thursday morning. First we saw his medical oncologist. He said that he is happy with the scans and that we will redo them in 3 months. We then saw his head and neck Dr’s. They think it is good to see them again in 3 months and they will do a visual and scope him. We are absolutely blessed to have such a amazing team that work to make life better for all of us. When the Dr. or PA walk in they act like Matt is their favorite patient. What a blessing God has given us with the team he has given us. Keep the prayers coming. We love y’all so much and thank you for the prayers and support you give us daily
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