Marty, believe it or not, saw and even talked about the upsides of death! Mr. Positive. While it was not a long list, and not something he wanted to rush into, he looked forward, joyfully, to being reunited with his mother (he died on her birthday) and father, and my father, and.... the people he loved so much. Of course, I’m certain that Jes will be right there to welcome him home, and Marty will be overjoyed to be with him.
Shalom to you cousin.