Update on Mark: I went to visit Mark today. Last night he was transferred to Twin Rivers Rehabilitation services and Transitional Care in Anoka. Not sure how long he will be there. One day at a time.

Jon watching your heartbreak is so hard. Setting boundaries is hard and something you never want to do with a parent. I applaud your strength and will always be here for you when you need anything.

Prayers and strength to Mark and all of his family as you go through this difficult time.

Thank you Jon for posting this. You are absolutely right. So very sorry you have to be in this position. Praying for Mark that he agrees to go to transition care and for you for strength and guidance in making these difficult decisions for your dad. Love you very much. You are an amazing man and son. Hugs.

Have you thought about getting a guardianship for him? Have him deemed unable to care for himself? It’s not ideal, but it maybe an option of helping him get the help he needs. You can also pursue a conservatorship where you can manage his money for him as well. I was working in this area in Minneapolis courts. Check out resources at www.mncourts.gov. Might be worth looking into. I get the having to change boundaries and perceptions of family members, I’ve done that with my oldest daughter. It’s not all bunnies and butterflies,it is reality. I get it. Wishing you well.

I am so sorry you are going through this Jon. It is so tough when someone you care about does not see that they need to accept help. I am here for you if you need to talk.