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Kim’s Story

Site created on December 14, 2020

Welcome to Kim's Flight, her journey to recovery and getting back to what she loves most - seeing and experiencing the world.

On Friday, 12/11/2020, one day after returning from her first working trip (to Paris) in over 9 months, Kim suffered a brain hemorrhage in the basal ganglia area of the brain. All indications from the neurologists I have talked to say the cause is from hypertension (high blood pressure). Kim has been treating her high blood pressure for a few years.

Earlier that morning, she was not feeling well and told me she had a headache, and because it was a “domesticating day” after a long trip, I knew she would spend the day relaxing, sleeping, and playing Candy Crush. I went to work and came home a bit early, at 3:30. When I checked on her, she was sleeping. As I tried to wake her, she acted a bit like “under the influence of Ambien”, nothing new and unexpected, since staying up 24 hours on her Paris trip. It did not strike me as too odd. However, over the next 90 minutes, I would check on her, and she remained groggy and unresponsive. At 5:00p, I decided to really wake her up. She had nothing to do with it – she wanted to sleep. I knew something was wrong, so I checked her blood pressure (while she did not fight me off), and it was very elevated. I called 911 at 5:07p, and they were in the bedroom at 5:14p, checking her vitals (which were good), and taking her to the local hospital (Southdale/Fairview Medical Center) a mile away.

I arrived a short time later, and they let me come into the emergency operating room, where I remained until 8:00p when she was taken to ICU. During this time, they did periodic stimulation checks, and took a CT scan. A Neurologist nurse talked to me about the bleeding on her brain and showed me the x-ray. It was explained that there are typically three things that will happen in the next few days; 1. the “bruise” will begin to be absorbed back into the body and the swelling will decrease (slowly); 2. The blood could interfere with brain fluid and it won't be able to drain, thus causing the need to drain the fluid externally; 3. The blood continues to flow and interrupts important parts of the spinal area, and a larger hole would need to be opened to remove the blood. In order of risk, we want the first scenario.

They intubated her at 7:30p because she had lost the ability to swallow saliva on her own, and they needed to have her remain relaxed as they brought the blood pressure down.

We are on day 4, and we are in the first scenario. Time is the healer, as well as all your prayers. I have been told she will remain in the ICU until she can swallow voluntarily, lift her head, and respond to commands. She was taken off the ventilator about 1:30p on day 3 (12/14), which was a milestone for us. She will take weeks and months to recover, and she is under great care.

My children, Nick and Jaimee, are with me here at my house. Because of Covid, we will not be able to see Kim until she is cognitive and able to “Zoom” with us. That could be weeks from now, we just don’t know. If ever there was a need for the meaning of “one day at a time”, this is truly the embodiment of those conditions.

Thank you all for the continued prayers and love. Kim is a fighter and she only wants to do one thing in her life that is consistent from the days she was a little girl – “take flight”. She will be back soon. Trust me.

- John

Newest Update

Journal entry by Kim Doucette — Feb 17, 2022

Today marks the one year anniversary for getting out of the hospital. One year. I have so much to be thankful for. I am thankful to God for letting me live. I still don’t remember the first three weeks I was in the hospital. Then they let John come to the hospital and I remember that day forward. I swear if he wasn’t let in, I probably wouldn’t remember anything.

I am still waiting for my leg and arm to work. I have some movement in my right toes, but that’s it. They said 12-18 months so I am praying for it to come back.

My speech is improved a lot. I am still forgetful sometimes, but not as often as before. I would say my speech is about 80-90% there.

Writing is slow. I’m sure it is because I have my left hand doing it. The left hand will be happy when the right hand is working!

Everyday I do my exercises, eat breakfast, and do puzzles. I’m on my 14th puzzle since I started in November. 13 were 1000 puzzle pieces and 1 was 500 pieces. I just finished all but one and now I’ve got 3 more from Amazon.

As I start year two, I continue to appreciate your prayers. I’m looking forward to getting better faster. I’m trying anyway.

Thank you to everyone who reads this. I sincerely appreciate you from the bottom of heart.

Love,

Kim

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