Dear Zimmerman family. Praying for everyone as they process this loss and reunited with later... The gift of continuity in heaven we keep our old friendships and get to deepen them heaven. I'll remember Bettyanns kindness and humor.
So many prayers for you and your children during this most difficult time. As hard as it is thank you for this update...she’s been on my mind constantly.
This is so heartbreaking. BettyAnn truly was a giver in so many ways. I will cherish the memories of her inviting my kids and I along on adventures. One of my favorite memories is us dropping kids off at VBS and then she took me house hunting with herself and Darren. She thought it would be fun for me to see different homes and learn what types of things to look for when purchasing a home. It is surreal that she is no longer here and my heart hurts for you all. Darren, David, William, and Bethany you were her world and I know everything she did in life was for you all. She was quirky, fun, and just found the best ways to enjoy everyday life. I am thinking of you all. We were blessed to know her and I hope you keep us updated on the kids' milestones, Darren. ❤️
I am sorry for the genuine loss of your soul mate. What a wonderful person she was. The sorrow and feeling of being lost without her will last for a long time. Talk to your friends, talk to your children. Listen to your children as they attempt to deal with their loss as well. When they act out ask yourself if it is possible it is grief instead of a rebellious attitude. Grief counseling is very helpful. Don't forget to be kind to yourself. You need time to heal physically from surgery and emotionally from the loss of your woman who was everything to you and loved you so very much. I will never forget her wisdom, sense of humor and open attitude throughout her treatments. The advice and kindness she showed to newbies on the THM program left an everlasting impression on many of us. You cry, hold your kids as they cry and let them know it is okay to show emotion where everyone can heal. Continual prayers for your family. BettyAnn doesn't need prayers now. She has her new body and is with God.
Dearest Darren my prayers to you and the kids. I am so glad that Bettyann was my roomie and I got to know her. I will be keeping touch with you and the kids. May God give you comfort as you get through the next few weeks. Love you all and please continue to heal for those beautiful legacies of you and Bettyann.