Dear Molly, This is such a beautiful reflection on your journey so far. And it is such a meaningful revelation of Kevin's wisdom and love as he and you planned a future. How you feel his presence will evolve and stay the same, if you know what I mean. He is and will always be present in some way that will be known only to you. Thank you for letting us understand a little bit of the love you have for each other. Blessings on you and the children. Uncle Bill
Although you never get through your grief you learn to live with the grief. You will do very well because Kevin is always with you, within your heart and also at your side. Know that he's in a much better place and that the love you have will always be. I know, I've lost my husband and I know where you are. Your children are the best help for you as well as you for them.
Don't hesitate to contact me if you need someone to talk to (Nancy.Talady@va.gov).
Even though the Holidays are going to be rough for your family, remember it's better to talk about Kevin than to not talk about him. Sometimes, that's all that you need to do. People aren't sure whether it's okay to say something about your loss or not but sometimes you just need someone to say something about Kevin to help you heal.
Hold on to those Memories to get you through the Holidays.
My best to you and your family and know that there is love and prayers always for you and your family.
Molly, wow, you are so inspirational. Your family was and is beautiful and together it seems that you all will move forward one painful, beautiful day at a time. This time of the season is very difficult so I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Take care and God bless and you know what, keep using this site to post because the journey has not ended and what Kevin wanted, the "Will everyone be ok" will help us along as well. To know that your children and you are moving forward and honoring Kevin by keeping his story alive.
Molly, That was incredible. Wise words for everyone to benefit from! I have a collage of pictures in my office. One is of you guys at the 70's auction. I'm hanging the words of wisdom by it for all to benefit from. I'm sure Kevin is also sending you messages and reminders in your day to day moving forward process. Knowing Kevin, I'm sure he's sending you some laughable moments as well. Your amazing Molly, we are here for you and the kids and we love you. Your Auction Crew.
That was absolutely beautiful.
Molly,
I wish you the following "L's"....
Life, laughter, love, longevity, The Lord, luck and leisure.
Truly miss Kevin!