HUGE love to you each. <3! <3! <3! You are each SO blessed to have each other, and ever-expanding rings of love around you. SAP is so blessed to have human being on their team with your lived experience and perspective. And, yes, I am SO sitting in a college parking lot crying.
Lovely! Good luck on the first day back! I was reminded of the article written about having a child with Down's Syndrome, "Welcome to Holland" by Emily Perl Kingsley
https://www.ndss.org/resources/a-parents-perspective/