John was a very special friend—to me, and to many others. One consolation we have is knowing he led a truly wonderful life, and we celebrate that with you. John’s positive spirit could see life no other way. (I think that’s an important lesson for all of us.)
What comes to my mind first, with John, is his basic and sincere caring. Lots of us old “geezers” can often be cantankerous and more than a bit thoughtless. Never John. He always was considerate, thoughtful and had a caring spirit that extended to just about everyone who knew him. John gave of himself so many ways, whether it was for organizations he supported, or as a volunteer, or to help a friend…or even to give a dollar to a homeless person selling newspapers on a corner. John sincerely cared for people. That’s one reason why John was so well liked. Needless to say, he cared for his family above all else. He was so proud of you all. He shared many stories that underscored how much you meant to him. And he knew he was loved as well.
John was smart in many ways—well beyond engineering. In our discussion group, John was one of the rare individuals who wasn’t locked in one “tribal” way, as most folks are these days. I think John would say he was Conservative—but more Liberal in his view of humanity, and more open to new ideas, and his basic civility. I feel he tried to see the good parts of both Parties. So, when John shared his thoughts, folks listened. John was respected.
John loved sitting around and just talking. So, he loved our “ROMEO” dinners each month (Retired Old Men Eating Out). We plan to go to “Tuscany” restaurant at our next outing--his favorite ROMEO spot--and lift a toast to him…and say, “Well done, John.” Like you and his family, we will very much miss a very good man.