Jim’s Story

Site created on September 25, 2020

Jim and Karla are so very blessed to have the most caring and supportive family and friends in the entire world. They appreciate the prayers, support, and love they have received from each and every person. I (their daughter Amy) will be using Caringbridge to help my Mom keep everyone up to date a little easier, on what is going on with my Dad's recovery. This has been an extremely hard year, not only physically, but emotionally as well. Below are the hurdles that Dad has already overcome, and the ones that he is still facing. Again, thank you, every single one of you, for everything that you have done and continue to do. The outpouring of love and support has been wonderfully overwhelming. Most of you know that Jim had a stroke at the beginning of May. He had emergency surgery to clear one of his carotid arteries, and is going to need a 2nd surgery scheduled to clear the other side once he is strong enough for the surgery. Lots of blood, sweat, tears, fights, physical therapy, meds, etc later, and he was just finally starting to move better and feel a bit better, and was going to schedule an appointment to see when he could have the 2nd surgery. Then, this past Friday (09/18/20) he was sitting in a chair in the driveway grinding on a piece of steel and somehow, his shirt caught on fire. He had a button shirt on over a t-shirt, and with his right side still not 100% from his stroke, it was difficult for him to get his shirt off. He has mostly 3rd degree burns over his entire upper body, there is no skin left. He is at Bronson Methodist Hospital in Kalamazoo, in the Trauma/Burn Unit. He is struggling with acute kidney failure, and elevated potassium (heart muscle) issues that they are thinking is a result of the trauma to his body. He is on a feeding tube and being kept at different levels of sedation depending on his pain level. He has many surgeries ahead of him for skin grafts, and each one is very risky due to his age, (he is 75 years young!), recovering from a stroke, being diabetic, high blood pressure, and on blood thinners from his stroke. He will most likely be at Bronson for 6+ weeks, and then he will transfer to a rehabilitation center, until the skin grafts are fully healed, the risk of infection is gone, and he is strong enough to come home. Please, keep the prayers going, the good thoughts rolling, and if you feel led to help, my sister (their daughter Kelly) has set up a GoFundMe account to help with insurance deductibles, copays, and other expenses. Also, a very good friend of the family has organized a fundraiser selling Pumpkin Rolls, that are amazing!!! If you would like to order one, please message Kenda Cartagena on Facebook, or you can contact me as well and I will get you in contact with her. Kenda is also accepting cash donations (she also has Venmo) and gift cards for gas travel to and from the hospital, and eventually rehab. Our appreciation can never be expressed in words, and "thank you" does not begin to explain how blessed we feel by every person who is with us in this journey. 💗 Here is the link to their GoFundMe campaign.
https://gf.me/u/y2cmnd

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Journal entry by Amy Elaine

Family, Friends, Caring Strangers...

I don't have the words, nor do I know where to even begin, to express how much love my family has felt from each and every one of you during this excruciatingly painful time. Thank you is not even close to being enough, but they are the only two words that I can think of, so, thank you.

There are SO many mentions that I need to make, and I am hoping that I don't miss anyone, because you all will never know the impact you have had on our family. There is no perfect place to start, and I don't have a list, you are all in my heart; Kenda Cartagena (and the entire crew of people that came together with her) Mary Robertson, and Bubbles Klee, three of my Mom's longtime, childhood friends, thank you for being there for her, and for absolutely everything that you have done, and will continue to do to help her through this stage of life. The men who are my Dad's friends, who stepped in and gave advice on the "confusing man things" that my Dad has going on, your knowledge is going to be needed for a long time to come, because Lord knows my Dad had a million things going on in two million different directions, so, thank you. Both of my boys, Logan, wow son, you are not a child anymore, and Lukas, you are are not a boy anymore. I could not be any more proud of how deeply you love your Grandma, and how you are willing to go to the ends of the earth for her (even in the middle of the night ha!) she loves you both, so much. Thank you boys, for showing me I'm doing something right. Kelly, my little sister, you have shown strength that is enviable. You have been rock solid and without you, I think we would all be a mess. Your husband (the best brother in law in the world I might mention), and my nephews and niece, their unwaivering support for not just you but for Mom, she is so very blessed and I know she knows it, you can see it in her eyes. Thank you all, for being the best of the best when it comes to family. I have to give a shout out to our little neighborhood hot spot, Ole State Line Bar (Aka White Tail Saloon). Over these past several weeks, my Mom has shed many tears in this little neighborhood business, and they have made her feel like family. They have allowed our whole family to sit and talk, eat, have a drink when needed. They have allowed all of the locals to keep up to date on my Dad, because of course, everyone knew Dad, after all, he lived on this little road for almost 76 years! Not only that, but on more than one evening, when things have been too busy, or too tiring to cook dinner, they have covered the tab on dinner take out. People, visit this establishment, they care about my Mom, and our entire family, so thank you Ole State Line Bar. Last but not least, every single person who has helped, in any and every way, including those who have chosen to stay in the background, thank you. Our family has felt you, and our lives are forever changed by your compassion.

My Dad did not want a formal funeral service, instead he wanted a Celebration of Life. As soon as plans are made, and details are worked out, the information for that will be shared.

This isn't goodbye Daddy, this is definitely see you later. You can rest now... I love you. 
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