Jennifer’s Story

Site created on November 12, 2019

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On Nov. 6th I was diagnosed with Stage 2 Invasive Ductal Cancer with HER-2 Positive. I learned today I have “Triple Positive” breast cancer which means that it is very fast growing and spreading. My mass was at 2cm when first discovered in October 2019. My Proliferation Rate is at 80%.

This also means I am going into this fighting with everything I have. I will survive this and win. I know this. I also know I have a very long road ahead of me. The days I’m knocked down you can bet I’ll be right back up. I love my life, my family and my friends. That is what gives me all of the motivation to come out of this on top.

Thank you to each and every one of you that is sending love and supporting my family and I through this. It means more than you will ever know.

Love Always,
Jenny

Newest Update

Journal entry by Jennifer Maris-Nelson

Happy Summer!!  

I’m Finally jumping on here to let everyone know things keep moving along.  I’m doing well and enjoying having a bit more energy as time goes on.  I’ve been enjoying gardening again, and have even been working at Mapel (Boutique) again since it opened back up the beginning of June.  I find so much happiness in being able to do these things again.  Usually after though I am very ready for a nice long sleep.  

I’m am still getting my infusions every 3 weeks of Herceptin and Perjeta until I hit the 1 year mark.  Today they added Zometa which I will have once every 6 months given along with my other 2 infusions.  It makes your bones strong so they don’t become weak from the drugs I’m on and also prevents the cancer from going into my bones.  At my bone scan a few weeks ago they found I have Osteopenia if the spine so this will help with that.  I’ve heard the first 3-5 days of side effects are rough but I’m up for it. 

I get an echocardiogram every 5-6 weeks and my heart is doing pretty well.  It’s just showing a small sign of stress but nothing to worry over I’ve been told.  

Next week I start a daily pill called Anastrozole.  I will be on it for 5-10 years.  It is a hormone based chemotherapy drug used to decrease the amount of estrogen my body makes which in turn helps prevent the cancer from returning.  I also have to have a shot in my abdomen every 4 weeks called Goserelin, that will shut down the estrogen my ovaries are producing until I can get them removed this fall.  

On August 3rd I have my Double Mastectomy.  I am excited to get that over with.  

All in all I am remaining positive and upbeat.  I’ve had my days of being scared and then I move on.  There is so much ahead of me but I know my Drs are incredible and I’m on the best path possible.  I just have to take one day at a time and listen to my body.  When I feel good and strong I’m up and doing things.  Then I’m usually exhausted and my joints get sore but each day is the beginning of a new one and I’m determined to enjoy each moment.  Even if I’m moving like an old woman at times!  Other days I feel like before I became sick!  

I hope everyone has been well and making it through this crazy time in our lives.  

Cheers to this sunshine and beautiful weather!

Love Always,
Jenny
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