India, I think you should write a book once this is all said & done. You are so well spoken, & have such a wit about you...you inject humor (with or without shotters!), in a situation that could be overwhelming as too scary or too something or other, to even want to talk about. I believe you could lend courage to people in similar situations who might be floundering or ready to give up. Keep up with these wonderful updates...you have SUCH a backing!!!