Hi... I am so sorry for your loss of Henry. I just learned of Henry's passing while catching up on Thermop's obits. He, and my brother, Craig, were good buddies all thru school and until Craig died at age 36 (of a seizure caused by a benign brain tumor). Craig's ashes, along with my Mom's ashes, (who died 8 months after Craig - at only 66 - of what we believe was brought on by her severe grief) are scattered in the Wind River mountains. It was one of Craig's favorite trails to backpack in with his buddies (Henry, Adolf, Roger, Mike B., etc.). Maybe Henry went for that scattering event? Perhaps Henry's ashes were scattered there, too? It would be nice to think they were off on one last back-packing trip together. ....... Be well. Grief is tough... search out ways for that work for you to remember Henry throughout your life - while still seeking and finding joy in every day. Do make sure to give yourself good "self-care", too! Again, I am sorry to hear of Henry's passing and your loss.

Thanks Anne, good to hear about the grandkids and your carrying on, as our British relatives say!

Henry will continue to teach from the “other side” in my expience, we at 1900 Men’s Group have a gratitude meeting event at Winter Solstice at Plymouth Congregational that Henry attended – where we bring the spirit of those who have passed into the circle….He is also remembered at our two picnic’s by Lake Harriet at the beginning and end of summer where he bought “Puppy Tails” Cinnamon treats from Isles Bakery in Minneapolis - Still can see him smiling ☺ Located his Find a Grave as well to remember his radiant spirit https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/230336183/henry-joseph-may

What a beautiful, heartfelt update and tribute, Anne. Henry continues to impact so many lives, and his love and legacy will be forever. Thinking of you every day, and wishing you peace and happiness as your next steps unfold.