Well it’s been a good 6+ months since I’ve posted anything - mostly because I prefer to post good news and Fred’s health has been steadily declining since my last post.  He has not been receiving any chemo for about a month and  is not on any form of treatment now.  He’s also not responding to texts, emails or phone calls.  Everyday I try to get him to drink a little water and help him manage his pain meds.  He is refusing hospice and wants to handle this, as he has always done with everything else, on his own terms.  Rather than post a shock in the next few weeks, I thought I would share an update today.  My family, my sister in law and my kids are amazingly supportive and resilient - Fred has a strong bunch of humans by his side 🫂