Journal entry by Michelle Ramirez —
Anniversaries. A commemoration? A celebration? As tomorrow approaches - one year since we lost Bob (I never quite know how to phrase “loss”) - I have tried to prepare myself. I had thought I would read through this journal at some point with plans to perhaps put it all in a book for my family. But I’m not there yet. I have not had the strength to look back; to reflect.
But I did wear a Stones shirt today. And I am so looking forward to spending time with our family tomorrow- kick ball, a fire, grilling, and martinis are all on the menu. And we will be playing music, loudly (apologies in advance, Fielding Place neighbors!).
I asked my dad shortly after his diagnosis if he would change anything. And he said “not a f’@&$ing thing.” Maybe that is a reason to celebrate.
Please think of us all tomorrow and share a memory of my dad. We love you all- we are so lucky to have such a wonderful family and friends who are family.
With love,
Michelle
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