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Journal entry by Jack Falker

Today, nearly two years since Eileen suffered her brain aneurysm (3/10/2015), she picked up the keys to her car (while I wasn't home) and backed it out of the garage.  When I returned, I climbed in beside her and off we went to Edina Hairdressers for her regular Saturday appointment with her dear friend Mary, who took such wonderful care of Eileen during her weeks in the hospital and nursing home.  What is even more remarkable is that she did it without hesitation, as if nothing had happened.  Needless to say, the folks at the salon were blown away when we drove up!

When I brought Eileen home (way ahead of anyone's anticipation) in June 2015, her recovery had been so remarkable that I predicted she would be driving again, before the year was out.  But that was overly optimistic because, as she went through hundreds of physical, occupational and speech therapy sessions in the year that followed, we learned that she had a neurological "cut" on her right-side that limited her peripheral vision. We were even told by a neurological ophthalmologist that that part of the brain would not rebuild itself and that she would probably not be able to drive again.  But that pessimistic diagnosis ran contrary to what I was reading about the "plasticity" of the brain, i.e. its ability to constantly rebuild itself, especially if the conscious being in control of the body wills it to be so.  Nowhere is this more evident than in the writings of Dr. Deepak Chopra, M.D., regarding ancient, eastern, "Ayurvedic" medicine.

The key component in rebuilding the brain is regular exercise, particularly walking long distances. So, as soon as Eileen could safely navigate, she began walking. We walked about three miles every day last winter, indoors at Southdale Mall, here in Edina.  Then, last summer, she walked alone, three to five miles every day, crossing a busy street on her way to Bredeson Park, near us. We have continued our mall-walking routine all this winter, as well.

The more Eileen has walked, and the more she has willed herself to heal, the better she has become, in many ways but, particularly noticeable to me, her vision seems to have returned to virtual normalcy in the last few months.  So, we started talking about driving again and today she did it. Eileen has always been an excellent driver and she proved today that it's something she hasn't forgotten how to do.

Let me emphasize, as I often have in these posts, that thanking Creator God, ahead of time for outcomes, is the spiritual key to healing, as advocated by Blessed Solanus Casey.  That is my daily prayer for Eileen, as it is for others whom I hold close.

Jack Falker
February 11, 2017



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Journal entry by Jack Falker

One year ago tonight, Eileen very nearly succumbed to a subarachnoid hemorrhage, i.e., a brain aneurysm.  Thus began the most incredible voyage of our lives. Knowing well that a picture is worth a thousand words, here are are two pictures of Eileen, stealthily taken this afternoon at Edina Hairdressers, where she hangs out twice a week with her beautician buddy, Mary Riviere, who gave her some sense of normalcy in the hospital, more than anyone else could have hoped.

As you can see, Eileen has recovered and her sense of humor is intact.  But the road was long.  She spent three weeks in neurological intensive care (where she nearly succumbed to pneumonia); another three weeks in a comparatively weak "long-term acute care" hospital (where we very nearly lost her again); and about a month in the transitional care unit of the wonderful Jones-Harrison residence, where she really began to get well.  I brought her home for the first time on Memorial Day for tuna sandwiches (a delicacy when you live in a nursing home) and, just over a week later, on June 6th, I brought her home to stay, with the belief that coming home would be the best therapy in the world (which it was).  Not everyone agreed, most notably the nursing staff, but her therapist at Jones-Harrison did, and so we set up a little nursing operation of our own, here at home.  And I didn't sleep too well for a few weeks.

The rest of the story is very exciting.  Eileen immediately began intensive, outpatient, physical, occupational and speech therapy, five days a week, at Park Nicollet/Methodist Hospital, which is just 2.5 miles from our house.  We were previously told that she should do inpatient therapy at Sister Kenny-Courage for a month, but that would have kept her in a nursing facility, which is what we wanted to avoid.  And we have been richly rewarded for our judgment that we could do it ourselves, with excellent therapists and medical staff.  Eileen finished physical therapy by late summer and promptly forgot where she had put her walker and cane (but she held on to me a lot).  Then she completed occupational therapy in the fall and decided she could cook again (woohoo).  And then, after more than 100 sessions with Tina, her superb speech therapist, who worked tirelessly on her Wernicke's "auditory" aphasia condition, she decided she was ready to head out on her own, drawing on both her education and her dedication to keep getting better.  That was two weeks ago and she continues to make definite progress.

Through all of this, we have learned that the brain is remarkably plastic and that it responds well to intentions and efforts to change and repair it.  This is something that was misunderstood until quite recently in western medicine, but has been believed and practiced in Indian "ayurvedic" medicine for thousands of years.  Physical exercise is very important in this process and Eileen has religiously walked with me every morning this winter, about two and a half miles, indoors, at the beautiful Southdale Mall in Edina. Today, she actually walked further (about four miles overall) than she did the day of her attack one year ago.  And tomorrow morning she will meet with her personal trainer in Stillwater (where Peter lives), who really puts her through her paces, especially focusing on right-side strength and coordination.  It's fun to see this sweet lady put on boxing gloves and spar with her trainer, who uses that technique to challenge the brain's ability to do something different than it ever has.

One deficit remains:  Eileen has limited peripheral vision to her right; not enough to meet driving standards in Minnesota, so I am happily driving her wherever she needs to go.  Western ophthalmology does not see the way out of this condition but ayurvedic medicine and people like her personal trainer believe that the brain can be healed and retrained in this area, as well.  She frequently stops and says she has just had a flash of vision to her right, especially after excercise, which is very promising.  I also often note that she sees as much to the right in the car as I do.  Today, she warned me that there was a car coming from the right in a parking lot before I saw it myself.  I love that kind of backseat driving!

I have thanked many friends in these pages over the last year, and I thank you all again for what you have done, even if it was just calling to say hello... really.  But there are unsung heroes, whom I have not thanked, who would all say that they were just doing their jobs.  Yes, but in a way that sets them apart from all others.  First is Dr. Josser Delgado, the young, neuro-interventional radiologist, who saved Eileen's life one year ago tonight by inserting a tiny platinum coil, through a long catheter that passed through her heart and into her brain, to stop the bleeding aneurysm. Not only did Josser do his job, but he has also kept talking to us all year and has never failed to respond to a text message, usually in just a few minutes (and on weekends too).  Thank you Josser!  Next, there was friend of a friend, Dr. Mike Tedford, ENT par excellence, and former chief of staff at Abbott Northwestern Hospital, who was always around to help us in any way he could, including performing Eileen's tracheotomy, "with just a couple of drops of blood".  Mike was also just a few minutes away, any time by text message, during those tough first weeks.  Then there was Dr. Sanjeev Arora, the wonderful physiatrist who saw Eileen three times in the long-term acute care hospital, when she was virtually immobile, and told us he thought she would recover at least 85% of her physical abilities.  It seemed unbelieveable at the time, but he was right!  And then there was Tony Thissen, the young, six-foot- six, head of physical therapy at Jones-Harrison, who, along with his side-kick, Lois, somehow perceived that they could stand Eileen up and get her to walk again, when she was still being lifted out of her bed with a Hoyer lift, because her right side was so weak and immobile. That kind of "outside-the-box" thinking is what makes impossible things happen and it was really unbelievable to see it when it did. Tony also told me I should put Eileen in the car and take her home, one beautiful spring afternoon in May, which was the beginning of the process through which she came home for good; again totally "outside-the-box".  Thank you Superman and Lois Lane; you did it!

Finally, as I have mentioned here several times, I have had a virtually life-long devotion to Venerable Fr. Solanus Casey, the simplex Capuchin priest-doorman/porter of St Bonaventure Monastery, in Detroit, who enabled so many people to miraculously heal.  Solanus would not have subscribed to the word "miraculous", however, because his admonition was always simply "Thank God ahead of time for the outcome"; a very succinct way of telling us to entrust our outcome, whatever it might be, to the Creator God.  If you stop and think about it, all of those "outside-the-box" things described above are what have created Eileen's outcome, for which we are so very thankful.  I have learned to begin every day by thanking the Creator God ahead of time for today's outcome, whatever it might be.  Thank you dear Father Solanus; see you soon! 

Jack Falker
March 10, 2016








 

Journal entry by Jack Falker

Hi Everyone... Here is the letter Eileen and I are sending out for Christmas-time, along with a picture of our grand children.  


Happy Christmas-time to you!  We are enjoying quiet days together, after a trying nine months. Mostly, we are giving thanks for our outcome, both now and into our future.

Eileen’s recovery from her brain aneurysm,against the odds, has been remarkable and she has been home for six months now. She continues to work with an excellent speech therapist for Wernicke’s “receptive” Aphasia, but has completed all of her physical and occupational therapy.  She walks well and gets a lot of exercise.  Not everything has been accomplished, but the brain’s ability to repair itself is amazing, so we give thanks and look to future outcomes.

Our journey of these past months has shown us that life is about how we love and treat one another; nothing more.  So, whether you celebrate Christmas or not, our message to you is simply: “love one another” and slow down to really make that so, as never before in your life. 

 In thanksgiving for what is to come,

 Eileen  and  Jack

 P.S.  We hope you enjoy this picture of our grand children, Cosette (16) and Harrison (14). They are really nice young people and we are very thankful that they are with us in the Twin Cities.



Journal entry by Jack Falker

Today, just eight and a half months after her aneurysm, Eileen walked 10,000 steps; approximately five miles.  She did this completely on her own, indoors, on the smooth marble floors of Southdale Mall, here in Edina.  I dropped her off around 10:30 AM and picked her up at about 2:30 PM, refreshed and invigorated.  Actually, Eileen has been building up to this feat for about a week, including 8,000 plus steps yesterday and the day before, at Southdale.

Walking is the single best exercise we can do and there is something almost magical about the 10,000 step goal.  If you try to do it daily, as I have over many years, your body noticably changes for the better.  And Eileen is marveling about how much better she is starting to feel, especially on her right side, with new feelings in her arms and legs and noticeable improvements in her right-side vision.

Eileen began focusing on independent exercise in the last few weeks, as she completed months of excellent physical and occupational therapy at Park-Nicollet/Methodist Hospital.  She will continue speech therapy for some time to deal with the aphasia aftermath of her attack.  She has made remarkable progress with this therapy, as well, but the type of aphasia she has takes time to remedy.  Those of you who saw the "King's Speech" will remember that "Bertie" (King George VI) largely overcame his speech impediment, when he became angry or passionate about something.  Likewise with Eileen; when she gets excited or passionate about something her aphasia disappears and her words flow freely.  She knows exactly what or who she wants to talk about, but often just cannot find the words or names.  Needless to say, that's pretty frustrating.

Please join us in contining to thank Creator God, in advance, for Eileen's outcome.  There will be more.

Jack
11/24/2015


Journal entry by Jack Falker

Today, after just five months and a lot of wonderful therapy from many dedicated people, Eileen cooked her first meal.  It was like: "Get out of my way, I'm doing this myself"! She had two tough hours of speech and occupational therapy today and we took a nice walk in the park, as well.  She started her meal this morning, when she took the chicken out of the freezer to thaw; so this was not an unplanned event.  We had chicken, hashbrowns and sauteed egg plant; delicious with a glass of pinot noir.  Then, after enjoying the meal together, she insisted on cleaning up, which she did easily. (Note: It's my job to clean up but she insisted, so just for tonight!)

The picture is worth a thousand words. Note how easily she is using her right hand, which would have been unimaginable a few months ago.  This lady is dedicated and I predict she will drive her car in the next couple of months.  She still has peripheral vision issues to her right but that too is getting better every day.

We will keep you posted.

Jack Falker
August 17, 2015




Journal entry by Jack Falker

Eileen was born on June 25, 1938, and she was reborn at some point in the last couple of months, as she passed through multiple Dimensions and made a decision to return to her earthly life.  So we have declared June 25, 2015, her first birthday in this new life of ours.  Here is her picture with Peter on her birthday, yesterday (her first selfie too).

We did not anticipate a specific outcome, over the last three and a half months; we simply gave thanks to Creator God for the right outcome, whatever it might be.  We think we might be seeing it now and are very happy with an outcome that is beyond virtually anyone's expectations, but we continue to simply give thanks every day for what might be.

We especially give thanks to true friends, who have stuck with us over these trying months. And we specifically include those who, for lack of something else to say or do, simply called, e-mailed, sent a card, or checked in on Facebook to say hello and express their support.  You learn quickly that anything at all is a whole lot better than nothing at all. You learn to count your friends in times like these. And I won't forget.

There are some I would especially like to mention:  Dear, dear friend Shelli Nelson, nurse-clinician and spiritual-healer, was at Eileen's bedside at least six or seven times, in the Abbot Intensive Care Unit, Regency Long-term Care Hospital (not the best place) and Jones-Harrison Transitional Care Unit (best of all, on Shelli's recommendation).  Shelli spoke confidently to Eileen's conscious-being, when there was virtually no sign of Eileen's consciousness.  Most remarkably, the only things Eileen remembers from those physically unconscious days and weeks are Shelli's visits and healing words..  Shelli reported both Eileen's departures and returns from this dimension, during those times.  In the end, she reported Eileen's return, saying: "You can hang your hat on it!". Thank you Shel for all you have done, not the least of which has been feeding us, with the help of super-husband Brent, on multiple occasions, especially the day after Eileen arrived home from Jones-Harrison; a little early but with lots of confidence.  All should know that Shelli is blind and, incidentally, makes a mean banana cream pie with real whipped cream!  And so it is.

On March 10th, the night of Eileen's aneurysm, I had the presence of mind to ask old friend and compatriate, Mike Casserly, for help.  I woke him in the middle of the night and asked if he would go with me to Abbott-Northwestern Hospital, where Eileen was being transported.  Mike sat with me all night, keeping me awake with McDonald's coffee, picking up Peter at the airport and John at his apartment, and simply being with Mary Anne, John, Peter and me, all that next morning, when Eileen was in surgery; finally hearing the report with us that she did not have significant brain damage (which has proven true).  Mike also gave me some really good advice in the next couple of days. He said: "Lots of people are going to ask you what they can do to help.  Recognize that they really mean it and ask them to feed you over the next few weeks."

And so I did.  I would especially like to thank next-door neighbor, "par excellance", Sally Euson for cooking for me when I needed it the most.  Again and again, Sally has left great meals at my front door.  Can you believe that Sally's watermelon has no seeds in it?  She takes them all out for me!  I will never forget what you have done Sally. And keep up the good work; there are two of us now! :)

As good friend, Fr. John Forliti says: "There's love in the food".  There are many others who have fed and nurtured us over the last three months, and I hope I don't forget anyone.  Thanks to Michelle DeLamielleure-Joncas (my good friend Dick's daughter) for lots of chicken parmesan; Karin Casserly (Mike's wife) for two great veggie soups; Denise DeRosario for visiting and feeding John (and me) gourmet dinners (love the Bouillabaisse); Sheila,down the street, for another two yummy veggie soups; Mary Riviere for Easter munchies and sinful fudge; Brooke and Jerry Darby in Stillwater for a wonderful Friday night dinner with so much good wine I nearly got a DUI (really!); Connie and Keith for two nice casserole portions; Claudia and Mike for guacamole and lasagna; Kevin and Dana for a snowy, Sunday night neighborhood dinner, when times were very tough; and Wes, down the street, who appeared at our front door yesterday with delicious Italian meat balls, saying that: "people might have forgotten about you by now". Eileen had them for her birthday lunch!  And, of course, Shelli and Brent and sweet-neighbor Sally, as mentioned above. Thank you, thank you, thank you all!  I have stacks of dishes to return, so please be patient with me.  By the way, Eileen is pretty impressed by how good a cook I've become. She's taught me how to pan-fry salmon and I make a pretty mean veggie chilli, excellent hummus, and great tuna fish or grilled cheese sandwiches (tides us over).

Not much more to say.  Eileen is home, working with excellent, out-patient, speech, occupational and physical therapists  at Methodist Hospital, three miles from our house, and is getting better every day.  I predict she will be driving her car before winter returns to Minnesota.  I've generally been wrong in my predictions thus far, so it probably will be sooner.

Remember always Blessed Solanus Casey's admonition to those seeking his healing at the door of St. Bonaventure Monastery in Detroit:  "Thank God Ahead of Time".
http://www.solanuscenter.org/about-us

Finally, I have given a lot of thought to my prayers, especially while saying my rosary in these last three months, and I have been moved to recast the Lord's Prayer in a non-gender specific, personal, multi-dimensional way, which I'd like to share:

"Creator God,
Your name is holy,
And your will is done in all dimensions.
Give us this day our daily bread
And forgive me my trespasses, as I forgive those who trespass against me.
And put me not to the test
But deliver me from evil."
Amen.

Jack Falker
June 26, 2015



Journal entry by Jack Falker

For those not on Facebook, here's a picture of Eileen at our favorite Starbucks this morning. She downed a full cup of coffee and ate a large apple fritter; nothing wrong with her appetite!  She worked it up on a therapy walk from the car and around the store. Somehow it seemed a lot different than her usual walks up and down the halls of Jones-Harrison residence. Note the useful "therapy belt" under her arms.  It's there as a precaution, but it saved her from a fall yesterday, getting out of the car awkwardly. She's pretty good, but certainly not at full strength yet.  We spent the rest of the day at home and I cooked spaghetti for John, Eileen and myself.  We'll do this again tomorrow; just for fun, but tomorrow we're ordering-in from the "Bite-Squad"!

Jack Falker
May 30, 2015

Journal entry by Jack Falker

Eileen made it!   It has been very hard; a constant roller coaster with dips so deep it seemed recovery was impossible, but each time recovery followed.  It felt like being in combat, with life or death always in the offing, and never any certainty of survival.... until she did.  And please understand this: Eileen was given the choice, in another dimension, to stay or come back and she chose the latter.  Once she did, about five weeks ago, her recovery took the form of a hockey stick, i.e. straight up, and it is no coincidence that her recovery is astounding to the doctors who saved her life and treated her so well in the early days of her ordeal.

On Thursday, May 21st, a beautiful day in Minneapolis, Eileen's excellent physical therapist at Jones-Harrison (Tony) suggested we try a car transfer from her wheelchair. That went so well he let us take a drive, which of course meant a trip to our favorite hang-out, Lake Harriet, the gem of Minneapolis' four lakes (they're all gems but Harriet is the diamond). Eileen was so overjoyed that we talked Tony into letting us go again the next day.  Then, believe it or not, on Memorial Day, we came home for the first time.  I had predicted that she would walk through the front door sometime this summer, but I had no idea that it would be so soon.  We walked around the whole house, without the assistance of her walker, reacquainting her with her bedroom and its new carpeting and the den with its new wood floor. Son, John, joined us for grilled cheese, sweet pickles and coke, a real homecoming feast, and the neighbors stopped by to kiss her and express their amazement.

On Wednesday, May 27th, exactly 11 weeks after her brain surgeries,we returned (in my car with just a walker) to Abbott Northwestern Hospital for the removal of her stomach tube, which took all of five minutes and, for the next hour or so, we toured the ICU and met with her doctors, who, from the looks on their faces, were truly amazed at the extent of her recovery. On her own, she stood up for each person and very sincerely thanked them. She even showed Dr. Delgado, her extraordinary interventional neuro-radiologist, how she could walk, virtually unassisted.

Given all that has happened this week, we ventured out again today (Friday) and went flower shopping at our two favorite nurseries.  Eileen enjoyed sitting in the car, people watching, while I went in and got what we needed to complete our garden for the summer, and then we went home again for a couple of hours for more toasted cheese.  As we drove around, holding hands, we mutually decided that she will leave the confines of Jones-Harrison in the next week or so, as soon as I can make the house a little more handicapped friendly. She will then begin outpatient physical/speech/occupational therapy at one of several excellent facilities in Minneapolis, which we will determine in the next few days.  She especially needs intensive speech therapy to overcome the aphasia condition that hinders her ability to express the very clear thoughts she has in her mind.  We're getting about 75 percent of what she wants to say and it's safe to assume we'll get most of the rest, after continuing therapy. Whether she'll drive her car again is an open question but, based on recent performance, I would venture that she will, and probably sooner than anyone expects!

Please remember again (and don't forget) the admonition of Blessed Solanus (Bernie) Casey, who told thousands of petitioners at the door of St. Boniface Monastery, in Detroit, to simply "Thank God ahead of time". Through this, he became one of the most prolific healers of our time, such that he will soon be canonized as Saint Solanus, by the Church.

Chalk up another one Bernie!

(And thanks to the late Marie DeLamielleure for introducing me to Fr. Solanus  and putting his medal/relic in my pocket so many years ago).

Jack Falker
May 29, 2015






Journal entry by Jack Falker

It has now been more than seven weeks since Eileen's near-fatal brain-aneurysm and subsequent pneumonia.  It has been a long, rocky road, with roller-coaster ups and downs and, as I wrote in my last post, her ups were seldom very high but her downs were devastating.  Now, however, after just 10 days in the excellent Jones-Harrison transitional care rehab unit in South Minneapolis, Eileen's healing trend-line has moved sharply upward, with significant daily highs and virtually no reversals.

Eileen had been moving her left arm and leg fairly well before her arrival at Jones-Harrison but her right-side movements had been very limited, caused at least partially by a condition known as "right-side neglect" in which she seemed to virtually disown that side of her body, after the aneurysm/stroke in the left side of her brain.  In what has been really amazing to watch, Tony, her soft-spoken, gentle, physical-therapist at Jones-Harrison, aggressively stood her up after two days, forcing her to put weight on her right leg and to hold on to him with her right hand.  And, lo and behold, she simply did it and has gotten better at it every day since.  Dear friend and nurse-healer, Shelli Nelson, whom I have mentioned many times here, told us that Tony was a miracle-worker and that Jones-Harrison was the best place for Eileen.  She was right. 

Now, fast-forwarding, this morning Eileen got dressed, put on her Nikes (with help), went to physical therapy, walked along parallel bars three times, and then walked with a walker for about 30 feet, mostly unassisted.  Then, this afternoon, Eileen sat herself up on the side of her bed, unassisted, and proceeded to put on her own shoes.  I helped her with the right shoe by pulling the tab on the heel, but she put on the left shoe completely unassisted.  She then went back to physical therapy and walked the parallel bars three more times, but this time she unexpectedly stood up twice, without assistance, which pleasantly surprised everyone.

The Physiatrist (rehabilitation specialist doctor) who saw Eileen three times while she was at Regency Hospital, told us that he expected her to rehabilitate to about 85/15, i.e., with about 15% deficits.  From what we have seen in the last ten days, however, I am beginning to believe that number might be conservative.  She continues to talk a lot, with much of it unintelligible, but the number of intelligent conversations has picked up significantly.  For example, she asked me last night what I was going to eat when I got home, and then asked if the same guy (Richard by name) was going to cut our grass this year.  So her mind and memory seem to be working fairly well.

It would seem that Eileen is truly getting well, perhaps sooner than many expected.  I have continued to give thanks ahead of time for her outcome, whatever it might be, and it appears now that gratitude has been well placed.  Please continue to join me in giving thanks ahead of time.

Jack Falker
5/01/2015





Journal entry by Jack Falker

Someone in the know told me, when we started this journey exactly six weeks ago tonight, that it would be a roller coaster.  And is it ever!  I would add, however, that the highs are seldom very high, but the lows are devastatingly low.

Today, we hit our highest point.  After a devastating rejection by Courage Center last week, Eileen was accepted into the transitional care unit (TCU) of Jones-Harrison, which is the oldest nursing facility in Minnesota, founded in 1888.  It's a beautiful place with an excellent reputation, located on the south shore of Cedar Lake in South Minneapolis (Cedar is one of our four residential city lakes).  This is a  classic example of one door closing and another opening. Here's their website: http://www.jones-harrison.org/rehabilitation.html

In addition, Eileen had her best day ever in therapy, moving virtually everything on both her left and right sides and sitting bolt upright, without support, when asked to do so by the therapists.  She had never done anything like this in therapy and she made a really amazing statement, as they began working with her this morning: "I really want to do this"!

This afternoon at 3:00 PM the ambulance came and she made the trip from Regency to Jones-Harrison.  She is one very tired girl tonight and she was sleeping hard, when I left her room (which overlooks the lake) at about 7:30.  Tomorrow morning at 0830 her intensive physical, occupational and speech therapy begins and, frankly, I really don't expect her to perform up to today's standard.  But I know she can and will in the days ahead and I will be there to watch, cheer-her-on and take videos.

This is an outcome for which we have prayed and "Thanked God ahead of time", per Fr. Solanus Casey. There must be many outcomes ahead for Eileen to return home to enjoy this summer's roses, so we must not let up in our prayers of thanksgiving.

I am greatly assured and thankful tonight.  Thank you, too, for all your help.

In Thanksgiving, Faith and Action,

Jack Falker
April 21, 2014 (exactly six weeks since March 11th)






Journal entry by Peter Falker

Welcome to my Mom's (Eileen) site.  First of all, we are grateful for all of your thoughts and prayers.  We deeply feel your love and care, certainly Mom does as well.  We apologize to anyone who may not have heard about her condition yet.  This has been very sudden and requires our attention be focused on these critical first days.

As an update for those who may not know, on Tuesday (March 10) evening around 11pm my Mom, sitting in her den, suffered from a brain aneurysm. Concerned she may be having a stroke or hemorrhage given her symptoms, my Dad responded immediately by getting her medical attention.   By early Wednesday morning she underwent a procedure to fix the aneurysm deep in her brain.  This was successful and has greatly increased her chance of survival.

Mom is currently in the Neuro ICU for at least 3 weeks.  Under very significant sedation, the medical staff is attending to all the inherent risks that remain given the circumstances.  Foremost is the risk of stroke which could occur approx between 4-21 days after the surgery.  For now she has responded to the neurological tests, showing movement predominantly on her left side and opening her eyes when stimulated.  We see very little movement on her right side, as the aneurysm affected the left side of her brain.  The good news is that a recent MRI shows no sign of brain damage.  She is currently being treated for low grade pneumonia, which is likely slowing down the pace of recovery for now.  This is not an unusual outcome for people who have experienced a stroke such as this.  They are confident the antibiotics can eliminate the infection.

This will be a very long road.  First steps are to support her survival in ICU.  Many weeks of rehabilitation will follow.  We won't know her baseline level of functionality for many days to come.  Currently we have limited visiting to the very closest of loving family members.  She is not in a state or condition to accept any other visitors.  We know it's hard for those who love and care for her to be away, however it is critical she has as few disturbances as possible. 

Please continue your prayers and keep "talking" to her.  She could use words of encouragement.  Most importantly, live life in honor of who she is and how she treats people.  Her mantra has always been, "don't worry about me, I'm fine."  She is the ultimate caretaker.  The other one is "are we having fun yet?", providing levity to the difficult times in life.

Thank you for your love and support.  We will keep you updated.

 

Eileen’s Story

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Welcome to our CaringBridge website. We are using it to keep family and friends updated in one place. We appreciate your support and words of hope and encouragement. Thank you for visiting.

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